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Big thoughts. Light banter. Zero filter.

Smartish Convos is what happens when two friends hit record and let real life lead the conversation. Hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Smartish Convos with Kimberly Ryan &amp; Reagan Nickelson</b> <br /><i>Big thoughts. Light banter. Zero filter.</i><br /><br />Smartish Convos is what happens when two friends hit record and let real life lead the conversation. Hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson are business and mindset coaches, entrepreneurs, and speakers who bring raw honesty, deep insight, and a lot of humor to everyday topics.<br /><br />Whether we’re breaking down human behavior and neuroscience, exploring holistic wellness trends, unpacking family dynamics, or sharing travel stories, nothing’s off limits. We aren't here to give you overwhelming goals—we’re here to share the small steps, shifts in perspective, and actionable takeaways that make the biggest difference in your life, business, and relationships.<br /><br />It’s informative, a little silly, and sometimes challenging—but always rooted in connection and real value. Tune in every Wednesday morning! Come for the fun, stay for the thoughts, and leave with something you can actually use.<br /><br /><b>If you love the show, please follow and leave us a 5-star review!</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Business"/><itunes:category text="Business"><itunes:category text="Entrepreneurship"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><podcast:guid>92ca99ac-ca66-5c53-9daf-a9a6de724192</podcast:guid><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>How Much Stuff Do We Actually Need? (Decluttering &amp; Mental Freedom)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-much-stuff-do-we-actually-need-decluttering-mental-freedom--75887983</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know the average American home contains over 300,000 individual items? In Episode 12 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack a question almost everyone faces: How much stuff do we actually need?<br /><br />Together, they explore the hidden psychology behind why we collect physical clutter, how holding onto old clothes ties into our past identities, and why physical items create subtle, ongoing mental burdens. Reagan shares a candid, painful story about spending over $67,000 to keep a lake house in storage for 8 years (only to donate 90% of it), while Kimberly breaks down her Weekly Goodwill Declutter Routine. Plus, they share a simple, powerful question—Is this Need or Greed?—to help you stop impulse buying and start making space for true peace.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The 300,000 Item Household: Unpacking the startling stats on American consumerism and clutter.<br />✅  Storage Unit Financial Traps: The true hidden monetary and mental costs of keeping items in paid storage.<br />✅  Closet Psychology: Why we struggle to let go of old clothes (identifying with who we used to be vs. who we are now).<br />✅  Experiences vs. Physical Gifts: Why shifting away from physical holiday gifts creates more meaningful memories.<br />✅  The "Need vs. Greed" Filter: A simple, actionable question to ask yourself before buying or holding onto items.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is one area of your house or closet that you are ready to declutter this week? Drop a comment below and share your best organization hacks!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />0:00 The Burden of Excess<br />4:23 The Uncomfortable Reality of Downsizing<br />6:31 Rethinking Holiday Gift Traditions<br />10:38 The Mental Weight of Clutter<br />13:45 Why Your Closet Reflects Your Past<br />19:01 The True Cost of Storage Units<br />35:59 Need Versus Greed: A New Filter<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75887983</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2026 15:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75887983/smartish_convos_ep_12_how_much_stuff_do_we_actually_need.mp3" length="39502381" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know the average American home contains over 300,000 individual items? In Episode 12 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack a question almost everyone faces: How much stuff do we actually need?

Together, they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know the average American home contains over 300,000 individual items? In Episode 12 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack a question almost everyone faces: How much stuff do we actually need?<br /><br />Together, they explore the hidden psychology behind why we collect physical clutter, how holding onto old clothes ties into our past identities, and why physical items create subtle, ongoing mental burdens. Reagan shares a candid, painful story about spending over $67,000 to keep a lake house in storage for 8 years (only to donate 90% of it), while Kimberly breaks down her Weekly Goodwill Declutter Routine. Plus, they share a simple, powerful question—Is this Need or Greed?—to help you stop impulse buying and start making space for true peace.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The 300,000 Item Household: Unpacking the startling stats on American consumerism and clutter.<br />✅  Storage Unit Financial Traps: The true hidden monetary and mental costs of keeping items in paid storage.<br />✅  Closet Psychology: Why we struggle to let go of old clothes (identifying with who we used to be vs. who we are now).<br />✅  Experiences vs. Physical Gifts: Why shifting away from physical holiday gifts creates more meaningful memories.<br />✅  The "Need vs. Greed" Filter: A simple, actionable question to ask yourself before buying or holding onto items.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is one area of your house or closet that you are ready to declutter this week? Drop a comment below and share your best organization hacks!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />0:00 The Burden of Excess<br />4:23 The Uncomfortable Reality of Downsizing<br />6:31 Rethinking Holiday Gift Traditions<br />10:38 The Mental Weight of Clutter<br />13:45 Why Your Closet Reflects Your Past<br />19:01 The True Cost of Storage Units<br />35:59 Need Versus Greed: A New Filter<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2469</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>closetdeclutter,clutterfree,consumerism,decluttering,declutteryourmind,homeorganization,kimberlyryan,lessovermore,lettinggo,lifestylepodcast,mentalclutter,mindsetcoaching,minimalism,needvsgreed,organizationhacks,personalgrowth,reagannickelson,selfimprovement,simpleliving,smartishconvos</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Happened to Good Manners? (Why Modern Society Has Lost Its Etiquette)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-happened-to-good-manners-why-modern-society-has-lost-its-etiquette--75734068</link><description><![CDATA[Does it feel like basic manners, customer service, and human consideration have completely disappeared in recent years? In Episode 11 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore the decline of modern etiquette and ask the big question: What actually happened to good manners?<br /><br />Together, they break down the formal definition of manners (respect, courtesy, and consideration for others) and examine how a "microwave society," online keyboard warriors, and massive generational shifts across seven coexisting generations have reshaped how we treat one another. From holding doors for struggling parents and highway merging etiquette to the "Gen Z stare" and why companies like Chick-fil-A and In-N-Out still get customer service right, Kimberly and Reagan share practical ways to bring intentional kindness back into your daily routine.<br /><br /> Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br /><ul><li>The Definition of Manners: Why true etiquette is rooted in showing consideration and empathy for the feelings and comfort of others.</li><li>Screen Shields &amp; Keyboard Warriors: How digital communication removes body language feedback and makes people feel comfortable being rude.</li><li>The 7 Coexisting Generations: How silent generation traditions, millennial trust funds, and Gen Z speed expectations clash in modern public spaces.</li><li>Customer Service Case Studies: Why brands like Chick-fil-A and In-N-Out successfully train young workers to deliver high-level courtesy and "My Pleasure" responses.</li><li>The Daily Kindness Challenge: How performing one small, intentional act of courtesy triggers a natural dopamine hit and improves your own mindset.</li></ul><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Do you think good manners are gone forever, or can we retrain society to be courteous again? Drop a comment below with your thoughts!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:23 What Happened to Good Manners &amp; Customer Service?<br />04:15 Generational Differences in Raising &amp; Disciplining Kids<br />07:00 The 7 Generations Currently Living on the Planet<br />10:48 Keyboard Warriors: Why People Hide Behind Screens<br />12:44 The Official Definition of Manners &amp; Everyday Courtesy<br />15:38 Self-Centeredness &amp; The Microwave Society<br />20:00 The "Gen Z Stare" &amp; Fast Food Expectations<br />22:20 Dr. Spock's Raising Philosophy &amp; The History of Discipline<br />28:45 Why "No" Is the Ultimate Pivot in Life &amp; Coaching<br />31:48 In-N-Out &amp; Chick-fil-A: How Great Brands Still Train Manners<br />35:38 Retraining Kindness: How Doing Good Gives You a Dopamine Hit<br />38:39 Practical Challenge: Do One Intentional Act of Kindness Today]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75734068</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 15:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75734068/smartish_convos_ep_11_what_happened_to_good_manners.mp3" length="39649077" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Does it feel like basic manners, customer service, and human consideration have completely disappeared in recent years? In Episode 11 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore the decline of modern etiquette and ask the big...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Does it feel like basic manners, customer service, and human consideration have completely disappeared in recent years? In Episode 11 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore the decline of modern etiquette and ask the big question: What actually happened to good manners?<br /><br />Together, they break down the formal definition of manners (respect, courtesy, and consideration for others) and examine how a "microwave society," online keyboard warriors, and massive generational shifts across seven coexisting generations have reshaped how we treat one another. From holding doors for struggling parents and highway merging etiquette to the "Gen Z stare" and why companies like Chick-fil-A and In-N-Out still get customer service right, Kimberly and Reagan share practical ways to bring intentional kindness back into your daily routine.<br /><br /> Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br /><ul><li>The Definition of Manners: Why true etiquette is rooted in showing consideration and empathy for the feelings and comfort of others.</li><li>Screen Shields &amp; Keyboard Warriors: How digital communication removes body language feedback and makes people feel comfortable being rude.</li><li>The 7 Coexisting Generations: How silent generation traditions, millennial trust funds, and Gen Z speed expectations clash in modern public spaces.</li><li>Customer Service Case Studies: Why brands like Chick-fil-A and In-N-Out successfully train young workers to deliver high-level courtesy and "My Pleasure" responses.</li><li>The Daily Kindness Challenge: How performing one small, intentional act of courtesy triggers a natural dopamine hit and improves your own mindset.</li></ul><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Do you think good manners are gone forever, or can we retrain society to be courteous again? Drop a comment below with your thoughts!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:23 What Happened to Good Manners &amp; Customer Service?<br />04:15 Generational Differences in Raising &amp; Disciplining Kids<br />07:00 The 7 Generations Currently Living on the Planet<br />10:48 Keyboard Warriors: Why People Hide Behind Screens<br />12:44 The Official Definition of Manners &amp; Everyday Courtesy<br />15:38 Self-Centeredness &amp; The Microwave Society<br />20:00 The "Gen Z Stare" &amp; Fast Food Expectations<br />22:20 Dr. Spock's Raising Philosophy &amp; The History of Discipline<br />28:45 Why "No" Is the Ultimate Pivot in Life &amp; Coaching<br />31:48 In-N-Out &amp; Chick-fil-A: How Great Brands Still Train Manners<br />35:38 Retraining Kindness: How Doing Good Gives You a Dopamine Hit<br />38:39 Practical Challenge: Do One Intentional Act of Kindness Today]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2479</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>chickfila,customerservice,etiquetterules,generationalgap,genz,goodmanners,humanbehavior,keyboardwarriors,kimberlyryan,kindness,lifestylepodcast,mindsetcoaching,modernetiquette,personalgrowth,reagannickelson,respect,selfimprovement,smartishconvos,socialetiquette,teachingmanners</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Justified or Unhinged? The Everyday Pet Peeves Driving Us Crazy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/justified-or-unhinged-the-everyday-pet-peeves-driving-us-crazy--75596859</link><description><![CDATA[Are you standing up the split second the airplane lands, leaving 4 seconds on the microwave, or custom-modifying every dish on a restaurant menu? In Episode 10 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into a hilarious, highly opinionated breakdown of the petty, everyday pet peeves that irrationally annoy us all.<br /><br />From airport aisle rushers and zipper-merge drivers to public speakerphone conversations and abandoned shopping carts, Kimberly and Reagan rank society's most common habits as either "Justified" or "Unhinged." More importantly, as mindset coaches, they unpack the neurology behind why these minor inconveniences trigger us so deeply—and how shifting our perspective, letting go of our egos, and giving people grace can protect our daily peace.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Airport &amp; Travel Debates: Airplane seatbelt rushers, people-mover etiquette, and TSA line mistakes.<br />✅  Modern Communication Triggers: "Call me" texts, vague email subject lines ("Thoughts"), and speakerphone users in public restaurants.<br />✅  The Tipping &amp; Restaurant Rants: Standing undecided at the register after waiting 15 minutes and the "Land of Almost" menu modifiers.<br />✅  Household Pet Peeves: Leaving 4 seconds on the microwave, leaving dishes in the sink above the dishwasher, and lights left on everywhere.<br />✅  The Mindset Behind Triggers: Why pet peeves are often a hit to our ego, and how giving people the benefit of the doubt keeps you grounded.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is your #1 most unhinged pet peeve? Are you standing up early on the plane or waiting patiently in your seat? Drop a comment below—we want to hear your thoughts!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:13 Justified or Unhinged? Rating Everyday Petty Annoyances<br />03:06 Airplane Seatbelt Rushers &amp; Connector Flight Chaos<br />05:38 Driving Etiquette: Zipper Merging &amp; Blocking Lanes<br />07:12 People Movers, Doorway Blockers &amp; Public Speakerphones<br />08:46 The "Call Me" Text vs. Just Sending a Message<br />10:39 TSA Water Bottles &amp; Stand-Right Elevator Etiquette<br />12:06 The Shopping Cart Return Theory in Parking Lots<br />14:09 Misusing "No Worries" &amp; Vague Email Subject Lines<br />18:45 Sidewalk Blockers, Cyclist Rants &amp; Airport Restroom Stalls<br />20:56 Line Undecisiveness &amp; Re-Engineering Restaurant Menus<br />27:48 Household War: Leaving Lights On &amp; Dishes Next to the Dishwasher<br />31:15 Why Tiny Things Irrationally Annoy Us (Ego &amp; Inconvenience)<br />35:54 Reframing the Narrative: Giving Grace &amp; Choosing Compassion]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75596859</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75596859/smartish_convos_ep_10_justified_or_unhinged.mp3" length="42110002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you standing up the split second the airplane lands, leaving 4 seconds on the microwave, or custom-modifying every dish on a restaurant menu? In Episode 10 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into a hilarious, highly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you standing up the split second the airplane lands, leaving 4 seconds on the microwave, or custom-modifying every dish on a restaurant menu? In Episode 10 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into a hilarious, highly opinionated breakdown of the petty, everyday pet peeves that irrationally annoy us all.<br /><br />From airport aisle rushers and zipper-merge drivers to public speakerphone conversations and abandoned shopping carts, Kimberly and Reagan rank society's most common habits as either "Justified" or "Unhinged." More importantly, as mindset coaches, they unpack the neurology behind why these minor inconveniences trigger us so deeply—and how shifting our perspective, letting go of our egos, and giving people grace can protect our daily peace.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Airport &amp; Travel Debates: Airplane seatbelt rushers, people-mover etiquette, and TSA line mistakes.<br />✅  Modern Communication Triggers: "Call me" texts, vague email subject lines ("Thoughts"), and speakerphone users in public restaurants.<br />✅  The Tipping &amp; Restaurant Rants: Standing undecided at the register after waiting 15 minutes and the "Land of Almost" menu modifiers.<br />✅  Household Pet Peeves: Leaving 4 seconds on the microwave, leaving dishes in the sink above the dishwasher, and lights left on everywhere.<br />✅  The Mindset Behind Triggers: Why pet peeves are often a hit to our ego, and how giving people the benefit of the doubt keeps you grounded.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is your #1 most unhinged pet peeve? Are you standing up early on the plane or waiting patiently in your seat? Drop a comment below—we want to hear your thoughts!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:13 Justified or Unhinged? Rating Everyday Petty Annoyances<br />03:06 Airplane Seatbelt Rushers &amp; Connector Flight Chaos<br />05:38 Driving Etiquette: Zipper Merging &amp; Blocking Lanes<br />07:12 People Movers, Doorway Blockers &amp; Public Speakerphones<br />08:46 The "Call Me" Text vs. Just Sending a Message<br />10:39 TSA Water Bottles &amp; Stand-Right Elevator Etiquette<br />12:06 The Shopping Cart Return Theory in Parking Lots<br />14:09 Misusing "No Worries" &amp; Vague Email Subject Lines<br />18:45 Sidewalk Blockers, Cyclist Rants &amp; Airport Restroom Stalls<br />20:56 Line Undecisiveness &amp; Re-Engineering Restaurant Menus<br />27:48 Household War: Leaving Lights On &amp; Dishes Next to the Dishwasher<br />31:15 Why Tiny Things Irrationally Annoy Us (Ego &amp; Inconvenience)<br />35:54 Reframing the Narrative: Giving Grace &amp; Choosing Compassion]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2632</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>airportetiquette,annoyinghabits,etiquette,everydayannoyances,funnypodcast,handlingtriggers,humanbehavior,justifiedorunhinged,kimberlyryan,lifestylepodcast,mindsetcoaching,personalgrowth,petpeeves,reagannickelson,relationshipadvice,roadrage,selfawareness,shoppingcarttheory,smartishconvos,zippermerge</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Unspoken Rules of Adulthood: What Nobody Taught You About Growing Up</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-unspoken-rules-of-adulthood-what-nobody-taught-you-about-growing-up--75442080</link><description><![CDATA[Did you ever expect that becoming an adult meant you'd automatically get a handbook explaining money management, career paths, and societal etiquette? In Episode 9 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack "The Unspoken Rules of Adulthood"—the bizarre, arbitrary social expectations and pressures we carry around without ever agreeing to them.<br /><br />Together, they break down why 99% of adults are just "winging it," why you don't owe anyone an explanation when you say "no," and how life elongation has shifted what age milestones actually look like today. From navigating social commitments and outgrowing long-term friendships to setting firm boundaries with family, Kimberly and Reagan share actionable mindset shifts to help you ditch societal guilt, question absorbed beliefs, and get comfortable in your own skin.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Illusion of Having It Figured Out: Why nobody actually knows what they're doing when they hit 20, 30, or 50.<br />✅  Opting Out of Social Guilt: Why "no, thank you" is a complete sentence and why you don't owe acquaintances an explanation for your life choices.<br />✅  Outgrowing Relationships: How personal growth naturally creates distance in old friendships—and why that's completely normal.<br />✅  The "Busy" Trap: Challenging the Gen-X mindset that resting or taking a thinking break makes you "lazy" or a slacker.<br />✅  Questioning Your Beliefs: An actionable challenge to evaluate whether your convictions are truly yours or just inherited from society.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is one "unspoken adult rule" that you have officially decided to opt out of? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your thoughts!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />03:00 Who Left Us in Charge? The Illusion of Adulthood<br />06:00 Social Norms, Comparison &amp; The Financial Pressure Trap<br />08:00 Who Made Up These Adult Rules Anyway?<br />10:10 What School Never Taught You About Money &amp; Careers<br />13:16 Opting Out of Social Expectations &amp; Obligation Guilt<br />18:18 Life Elongation: Why 30 Is the New 20<br />22:45 Changing Perspectives on Aging &amp; Self-Care<br />25:40 Why You Don't Owe Anyone an Explanation<br />30:35 Gracefully Outgrowing Old Friendships &amp; Family Boundaries<br />33:05 The Productivity Trap: Unlearning the "Busy" Mindset<br />38:35 Optimizing Think Time &amp; Breaking Free From Distractions<br />41:48 Weekly Action Challenge: Question Your Inherited Beliefs]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75442080</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75442080/smartish_convos_ep_9.mp3" length="44787397" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you ever expect that becoming an adult meant you'd automatically get a handbook explaining money management, career paths, and societal etiquette? In Episode 9 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack "The Unspoken Rules...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you ever expect that becoming an adult meant you'd automatically get a handbook explaining money management, career paths, and societal etiquette? In Episode 9 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack "The Unspoken Rules of Adulthood"—the bizarre, arbitrary social expectations and pressures we carry around without ever agreeing to them.<br /><br />Together, they break down why 99% of adults are just "winging it," why you don't owe anyone an explanation when you say "no," and how life elongation has shifted what age milestones actually look like today. From navigating social commitments and outgrowing long-term friendships to setting firm boundaries with family, Kimberly and Reagan share actionable mindset shifts to help you ditch societal guilt, question absorbed beliefs, and get comfortable in your own skin.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Illusion of Having It Figured Out: Why nobody actually knows what they're doing when they hit 20, 30, or 50.<br />✅  Opting Out of Social Guilt: Why "no, thank you" is a complete sentence and why you don't owe acquaintances an explanation for your life choices.<br />✅  Outgrowing Relationships: How personal growth naturally creates distance in old friendships—and why that's completely normal.<br />✅  The "Busy" Trap: Challenging the Gen-X mindset that resting or taking a thinking break makes you "lazy" or a slacker.<br />✅  Questioning Your Beliefs: An actionable challenge to evaluate whether your convictions are truly yours or just inherited from society.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What is one "unspoken adult rule" that you have officially decided to opt out of? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your thoughts!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />03:00 Who Left Us in Charge? The Illusion of Adulthood<br />06:00 Social Norms, Comparison &amp; The Financial Pressure Trap<br />08:00 Who Made Up These Adult Rules Anyway?<br />10:10 What School Never Taught You About Money &amp; Careers<br />13:16 Opting Out of Social Expectations &amp; Obligation Guilt<br />18:18 Life Elongation: Why 30 Is the New 20<br />22:45 Changing Perspectives on Aging &amp; Self-Care<br />25:40 Why You Don't Owe Anyone an Explanation<br />30:35 Gracefully Outgrowing Old Friendships &amp; Family Boundaries<br />33:05 The Productivity Trap: Unlearning the "Busy" Mindset<br />38:35 Optimizing Think Time &amp; Breaking Free From Distractions<br />41:48 Weekly Action Challenge: Question Your Inherited Beliefs]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2800</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adultboundaries,adulthood,adulting,careerexpectations,genx,howtosayno,identity,kimberlyryan,mindsetcoaching,outgrowingfriends,personaldevelopment,personalgrowth,questionyourbeliefs,reagannickelson,selfimprovement,settingboundaries,smartishconvos,societalexpectations,stoppeoplepleasing,unspokenrules</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What God Gave Us: How Nature Heals Your Body</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-god-gave-us-how-nature-heals-your-body--75307593</link><description><![CDATA[Tired of catching every cold and flu that circulates during the fall and winter months? In Episode 8 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into natural wellness, holistic health hacks, and how to use nature to support your body’s immune system.<br /><br />Kimberly shares her personal journey from struggling with chronic bronchitis every winter to completely restoring her health through simple daily habits, reduced sugar, and powerful natural remedies. They break down the science of why "food is medicine," reveal Kimberly’s famous "Firewater" immune-boosting tonic recipe (loaded with garlic, ginger, oregano oil, and cayenne), and even share a bizarre old-school onion trick to stop nighttime coughing instantly!<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Food as Medicine: Why returning to whole, organic ingredients fortifies your body’s natural defenses better than quick fixes.<br />✅  The "Firewater" Immune Tonic: Step-by-step breakdown of Kimberly's go-to natural antibiotic shot (garlic, ginger, cayenne, oregano oil, lemon, and raw honey).<br />✅  Understanding Fevers: Why a fever is actually your body’s natural defense system working to heal you.<br />✅  Simple Health Hacks: How avoiding public surfaces, ditching antibacterial soaps, getting morning sunlight, and grounding can protect your health.<br />✅  The Sliced Onion Trick: The unusual home remedy that stops nighttime coughing in its tracks.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s your go-to natural home remedy when you start feeling sick? Share your tips in the comments below!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:50 What God Gave Us: Returning to Nature &amp; Natural Health<br />04:50 Why Your Health Is Your Ultimate Foundational Building Block<br />07:22 How Minor Injuries &amp; Sickness Impact Your Whole Body<br />10:00 The "Microwave Society" &amp; Our Obsession with Quick Fixes<br />14:55 Kimberly’s Healing Journey: Overcoming Chronic Bronchitis<br />18:00 Simple Habits: Public Surface Awareness &amp; Hand Washing<br />21:48 The Ultimate Immune Booster: Kimberly’s "Firewater" Recipe<br />24:50 Ingredient Breakdown: Garlic, Oregano, Cayenne &amp; Ginger<br />29:55 How to Use "Firewater" &amp; Fermented Garlic Honey for Active Illness<br />33:20 Mindset &amp; Body Healing: How Your Thoughts Impact Your Recovery<br />35:40 Daily Health Choices: Sun Exposure, Reducing Sugar &amp; Movement<br />38:32 The Weird Nighttime Onion Hack for Coughing<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75307593</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2026 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75307593/smartish_convos_ep_8.mp3" length="39047981" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tired of catching every cold and flu that circulates during the fall and winter months? In Episode 8 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into natural wellness, holistic health hacks, and how to use nature to support your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tired of catching every cold and flu that circulates during the fall and winter months? In Episode 8 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson dive into natural wellness, holistic health hacks, and how to use nature to support your body’s immune system.<br /><br />Kimberly shares her personal journey from struggling with chronic bronchitis every winter to completely restoring her health through simple daily habits, reduced sugar, and powerful natural remedies. They break down the science of why "food is medicine," reveal Kimberly’s famous "Firewater" immune-boosting tonic recipe (loaded with garlic, ginger, oregano oil, and cayenne), and even share a bizarre old-school onion trick to stop nighttime coughing instantly!<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Food as Medicine: Why returning to whole, organic ingredients fortifies your body’s natural defenses better than quick fixes.<br />✅  The "Firewater" Immune Tonic: Step-by-step breakdown of Kimberly's go-to natural antibiotic shot (garlic, ginger, cayenne, oregano oil, lemon, and raw honey).<br />✅  Understanding Fevers: Why a fever is actually your body’s natural defense system working to heal you.<br />✅  Simple Health Hacks: How avoiding public surfaces, ditching antibacterial soaps, getting morning sunlight, and grounding can protect your health.<br />✅  The Sliced Onion Trick: The unusual home remedy that stops nighttime coughing in its tracks.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s your go-to natural home remedy when you start feeling sick? Share your tips in the comments below!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:50 What God Gave Us: Returning to Nature &amp; Natural Health<br />04:50 Why Your Health Is Your Ultimate Foundational Building Block<br />07:22 How Minor Injuries &amp; Sickness Impact Your Whole Body<br />10:00 The "Microwave Society" &amp; Our Obsession with Quick Fixes<br />14:55 Kimberly’s Healing Journey: Overcoming Chronic Bronchitis<br />18:00 Simple Habits: Public Surface Awareness &amp; Hand Washing<br />21:48 The Ultimate Immune Booster: Kimberly’s "Firewater" Recipe<br />24:50 Ingredient Breakdown: Garlic, Oregano, Cayenne &amp; Ginger<br />29:55 How to Use "Firewater" &amp; Fermented Garlic Honey for Active Illness<br />33:20 Mindset &amp; Body Healing: How Your Thoughts Impact Your Recovery<br />35:40 Daily Health Choices: Sun Exposure, Reducing Sugar &amp; Movement<br />38:32 The Weird Nighttime Onion Hack for Coughing<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2441</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>coldremedies,firewatertonic,fluseason,foodismedicine,garlicremedy,grounding,healthhacks,holistichealth,immunebooster,kimberlyryan,lifestylewellness,mindsetcoaching,naturalantibiotics,naturalhealing,naturalhealth,oreganooil,personalgrowth,reagannickelson,smartishconvos,stopcoughing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Go There! How to Travel Like a Pro (Without Breaking the Bank)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/go-there-how-to-travel-like-a-pro-without-breaking-the-bank--75150101</link><description><![CDATA[Want to travel more without spending a fortune or lugging around massive suitcases? In Episode 7 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson share their ultimate travel hacks, packing secrets, and mindset shifts to help you explore the world smarter and stress-free.<br /><br />Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a 3-week international adventure, Kimberly and Reagan break down why travel is a necessity for personal growth, how to score 5-star luxury stays on a budget by leveraging "shoulder seasons," and how to master carry-on-only travel using the "3-3-3" rule. Plus, they share genius packing hacks—from compression vacuum bags and waterproof toiletry pouches to choosing versatile footwear—so you can edit down your luggage and enjoy the ride.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Why Travel Is Essential for Growth: How experiencing new cultures, histories, and environments expands your brain, calms your nervous system, and builds problem-solving skills.<br />✅  The "3-3-3" Packing Rule: How to pack 3 tops, 3 bottoms, and 3 pairs of shoes to create weeks of outfits out of a single carry-on.<br />✅  Budget Travel Hacks: How to land luxury hotels at a fraction of the price by traveling during shoulder seasons.<br />✅  Essential Packing Gear: Using compression vacuum bags, leak-proof rubber toiletry pouches, and multi-use wardrobe pieces.<br />✅  The Post-Trip Audit: How to review what you didn't wear so you never overpack again.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Where is your favorite travel destination, or what is your #1 packing rule? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your best travel tips!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />02:01 Why Travel Is Essential for Personal Growth &amp; Mindset<br />05:20 Overcoming Travel Fears &amp; Building Problem-Solving Skills<br />12:22 How to Choose Your Next Destination (Vibe &amp; Budget)<br />15:15 Shoulder Season Hacks: Score Luxury Stays for Less<br />17:28 Identifying Your Travel Style (Group Tours vs. Wandering)<br />21:18 How to Plan &amp; Fund Your Dream Bucket-List Trips<br />26:22 Smart Packing Hacks: The "3-3-3" Rule &amp; Overpacking Audits<br />32:58 Compression Bags, Waterproof Gear &amp; Footwear Tips<br />40:02 The Carry-On Only Rule &amp; Airplane Essentials<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75150101</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75150101/smartish_convos_ep_7.mp3" length="41837859" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Want to travel more without spending a fortune or lugging around massive suitcases? In Episode 7 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson share their ultimate travel hacks, packing secrets, and mindset shifts to help you explore...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Want to travel more without spending a fortune or lugging around massive suitcases? In Episode 7 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson share their ultimate travel hacks, packing secrets, and mindset shifts to help you explore the world smarter and stress-free.<br /><br />Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a 3-week international adventure, Kimberly and Reagan break down why travel is a necessity for personal growth, how to score 5-star luxury stays on a budget by leveraging "shoulder seasons," and how to master carry-on-only travel using the "3-3-3" rule. Plus, they share genius packing hacks—from compression vacuum bags and waterproof toiletry pouches to choosing versatile footwear—so you can edit down your luggage and enjoy the ride.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Why Travel Is Essential for Growth: How experiencing new cultures, histories, and environments expands your brain, calms your nervous system, and builds problem-solving skills.<br />✅  The "3-3-3" Packing Rule: How to pack 3 tops, 3 bottoms, and 3 pairs of shoes to create weeks of outfits out of a single carry-on.<br />✅  Budget Travel Hacks: How to land luxury hotels at a fraction of the price by traveling during shoulder seasons.<br />✅  Essential Packing Gear: Using compression vacuum bags, leak-proof rubber toiletry pouches, and multi-use wardrobe pieces.<br />✅  The Post-Trip Audit: How to review what you didn't wear so you never overpack again.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Where is your favorite travel destination, or what is your #1 packing rule? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your best travel tips!<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />02:01 Why Travel Is Essential for Personal Growth &amp; Mindset<br />05:20 Overcoming Travel Fears &amp; Building Problem-Solving Skills<br />12:22 How to Choose Your Next Destination (Vibe &amp; Budget)<br />15:15 Shoulder Season Hacks: Score Luxury Stays for Less<br />17:28 Identifying Your Travel Style (Group Tours vs. Wandering)<br />21:18 How to Plan &amp; Fund Your Dream Bucket-List Trips<br />26:22 Smart Packing Hacks: The "3-3-3" Rule &amp; Overpacking Audits<br />32:58 Compression Bags, Waterproof Gear &amp; Footwear Tips<br />40:02 The Carry-On Only Rule &amp; Airplane Essentials<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2615</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>333method,budgettravel,carryononly,howtopacklight,kimberlyryan,lifestylepodcast,luggagehacks,packingchecklist,packinghacks,packingtips,personalgrowth,problemsolving,reagannickelson,shoulderseason,smartishconvos,travelhacks,travelmindset,travelrecommendations,travelstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Thinking About What We're Thinking About: A Deep Dive</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/thinking-about-what-we-re-thinking-about-a-deep-dive--75005280</link><description><![CDATA[Do you go through your day making decisions, scrolling social media, and answering emails, but still feel like you haven't actually thought about your life in months? In Episode 6 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore the difference between constant mental activity (autopilot busyness) and true, intentional thinking.<br /><br />Together, they break down the fascinating neuroscience behind how your brain processes information, including the power of your brain's "Default Mode Network"—the subconscious system responsible for your biggest breakthroughs, creative ideas, and future planning. You'll learn how modern technology and constant digital inputs trap us in reactive mode, how to task your unconscious mind to solve complex problems while you sleep, and why an "Input Fast" is the ultimate productivity reset.<br /><br />Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Autopilot vs. True Thinking: Why being busy, stressed, or scrolling social media is just mental activity—not actual critical thinking.<br />✅  The Default Mode Network: How your brain connects dots, organizes memories, and generates creative solutions when you give it quiet space.<br />✅  Tasking Your Unconscious: How to prompt your mind before bed to solve major life and business problems while you sleep.<br />✅  The "Input Fast" Challenge: Why eliminating podcasts, news, and death-scrolling for a few days resets your nervous system and improves sleep.<br />✅  Creating a Morning Routine: Why keeping your phone off until 8:00 AM protects your focus, mood, and daily momentum.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: When was the last time you sat down in complete silence to just think about your life? Drop a comment below and let us know if you're taking on our 20-minute thinking challenge this week!<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:38 Are People Actually Thinking or Just on Autopilot?<br />06:52 Busy Work vs. True Critical Thinking<br />08:11 The Science of Your Brain's Default Mode Network<br />11:58 How to Task Your Unconscious Mind to Solve Big Problems<br />14:38 Is Modern Technology Dumbing Down Our Critical Thinking?<br />17:45 The Hidden Cost of Constant Digital Interruptions<br />20:05 What Your Brain Does During Quiet Thinking Time<br />25:54 How to Shut Your Brain Off so You Can Actually Think<br />27:23 The "Input Fast": Why You Need a Reset from Content Overload<br />33:07 Baby Steps: How to Train Yourself to Sit in Silence<br />35:31 The 8:00 AM Phone Rule: Protecting Your Morning Momentum<br />37:33 Weekly Challenge: Schedule Your First 20-Minute Thinking Session]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75005280</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75005280/smartish_convos_ep_6.mp3" length="37731410" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you go through your day making decisions, scrolling social media, and answering emails, but still feel like you haven't actually thought about your life in months? In Episode 6 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you go through your day making decisions, scrolling social media, and answering emails, but still feel like you haven't actually thought about your life in months? In Episode 6 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson explore the difference between constant mental activity (autopilot busyness) and true, intentional thinking.<br /><br />Together, they break down the fascinating neuroscience behind how your brain processes information, including the power of your brain's "Default Mode Network"—the subconscious system responsible for your biggest breakthroughs, creative ideas, and future planning. You'll learn how modern technology and constant digital inputs trap us in reactive mode, how to task your unconscious mind to solve complex problems while you sleep, and why an "Input Fast" is the ultimate productivity reset.<br /><br />Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Autopilot vs. True Thinking: Why being busy, stressed, or scrolling social media is just mental activity—not actual critical thinking.<br />✅  The Default Mode Network: How your brain connects dots, organizes memories, and generates creative solutions when you give it quiet space.<br />✅  Tasking Your Unconscious: How to prompt your mind before bed to solve major life and business problems while you sleep.<br />✅  The "Input Fast" Challenge: Why eliminating podcasts, news, and death-scrolling for a few days resets your nervous system and improves sleep.<br />✅  Creating a Morning Routine: Why keeping your phone off until 8:00 AM protects your focus, mood, and daily momentum.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: When was the last time you sat down in complete silence to just think about your life? Drop a comment below and let us know if you're taking on our 20-minute thinking challenge this week!<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:38 Are People Actually Thinking or Just on Autopilot?<br />06:52 Busy Work vs. True Critical Thinking<br />08:11 The Science of Your Brain's Default Mode Network<br />11:58 How to Task Your Unconscious Mind to Solve Big Problems<br />14:38 Is Modern Technology Dumbing Down Our Critical Thinking?<br />17:45 The Hidden Cost of Constant Digital Interruptions<br />20:05 What Your Brain Does During Quiet Thinking Time<br />25:54 How to Shut Your Brain Off so You Can Actually Think<br />27:23 The "Input Fast": Why You Need a Reset from Content Overload<br />33:07 Baby Steps: How to Train Yourself to Sit in Silence<br />35:31 The 8:00 AM Phone Rule: Protecting Your Morning Momentum<br />37:33 Weekly Challenge: Schedule Your First 20-Minute Thinking Session]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2359</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>brainhealth,criticalthinking,deepfocus,defaultmodenetwork,digitalburnout,focusedthinking,highperformance,inputfast,kimberlyryan,mindsetcoaching,morningroutine,neuroscience,personalgrowth,problemsolving,productivitymindset,reagannickelson,selfimprovement,smartishconvos,socialmediadetox,timeblocking</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dealing with Narcissists: 4 Warning Signs &amp; How to Set Unshakeable Boundaries</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-narcissists-4-warning-signs-how-to-set-unshakeable-boundaries--74792930</link><description><![CDATA[Is everyone a narcissist these days, or has the term just become the psychological equivalent of "gluten"? In Episode 5 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the subtle, highly manipulative world of narcissistic behavior and psychological control.<br /><br />Whether you're navigating a toxic business partnership, a 20-year friendship that suddenly turned conditional, or a challenging family dynamic, Kimberly and Reagan break down what clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder actually looks like versus everyday ego. They detail the 4 key warning signs of narcissism, explain how master manipulators defend their "house of cards," and provide simple, highly effective boundary strategies—like mastering the art of silence and saying "I've made my decision"—to protect your peace and sanity.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Ego vs. Clinical Narcissism: The difference between overconfidence, self-centeredness, and actual Narcissistic Personality Disorder.<br />✅  The 4 Core Warning Signs: Grandiosity, extreme sensitivity to criticism (and fake feedback-seeking), lack of empathy, and transactional relationships.<br />✅  Understanding Gaslighting: How manipulators shift blame, invalidate your emotions, and hijack your narrative.<br />✅  The "House of Cards" Effect: Why manipulators attack fiercely whenever their flaws or façade get close to being exposed.<br />✅  Practical Boundary Strategies: How to stop justifying yourself, watch video/behavior instead of audio/words, and let silence do the heavy lifting.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Have you ever had to set a boundary with a high-conflict or manipulative person? Share your thoughts or story in the comments below!<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:06 Is Everyone a Narcissist Now? (Ego vs. Real Traits)<br />03:40 Narcissism as Damaged Goods &amp; Cortisol Overload<br />07:05 Trusting Your Body Chemistry &amp; Gut Reactions<br />10:35 The Clinical Definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder<br />15:01 What Gaslighting Really Looks Like in Real Life<br />16:01 The "House of Cards" Analogy &amp; Fear of Exposure<br />22:45 Sign 1: Everything Returns to Them (Conversational Hijacking)<br />24:34 Sign 2: Extreme Sensitivity to Criticism &amp; Baiting Feedback<br />27:35 Sign 3: Lack of Genuine Empathy<br />29:14 Sign 4: Transactional Relationships &amp; Status<br />32:00 Pattern Recognition &amp; The 15-Year Re-emergence Story<br />35:12 Managing Narcissists &amp; Why You Can't "Fix" Them<br />36:45 Setting Boundaries: Stopping Justification &amp; Using Silence<br />38:26 Audio vs. Video: Watching Behavior Over Words<br />41:03 Focusing on Your Healthiest Relationships &amp; Body Awareness<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74792930</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/74792930/smartish_convos_ep_5.mp3" length="42706378" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is everyone a narcissist these days, or has the term just become the psychological equivalent of "gluten"? In Episode 5 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the subtle, highly manipulative world of narcissistic behavior...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is everyone a narcissist these days, or has the term just become the psychological equivalent of "gluten"? In Episode 5 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the subtle, highly manipulative world of narcissistic behavior and psychological control.<br /><br />Whether you're navigating a toxic business partnership, a 20-year friendship that suddenly turned conditional, or a challenging family dynamic, Kimberly and Reagan break down what clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder actually looks like versus everyday ego. They detail the 4 key warning signs of narcissism, explain how master manipulators defend their "house of cards," and provide simple, highly effective boundary strategies—like mastering the art of silence and saying "I've made my decision"—to protect your peace and sanity.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Ego vs. Clinical Narcissism: The difference between overconfidence, self-centeredness, and actual Narcissistic Personality Disorder.<br />✅  The 4 Core Warning Signs: Grandiosity, extreme sensitivity to criticism (and fake feedback-seeking), lack of empathy, and transactional relationships.<br />✅  Understanding Gaslighting: How manipulators shift blame, invalidate your emotions, and hijack your narrative.<br />✅  The "House of Cards" Effect: Why manipulators attack fiercely whenever their flaws or façade get close to being exposed.<br />✅  Practical Boundary Strategies: How to stop justifying yourself, watch video/behavior instead of audio/words, and let silence do the heavy lifting.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: Have you ever had to set a boundary with a high-conflict or manipulative person? Share your thoughts or story in the comments below!<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />01:06 Is Everyone a Narcissist Now? (Ego vs. Real Traits)<br />03:40 Narcissism as Damaged Goods &amp; Cortisol Overload<br />07:05 Trusting Your Body Chemistry &amp; Gut Reactions<br />10:35 The Clinical Definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder<br />15:01 What Gaslighting Really Looks Like in Real Life<br />16:01 The "House of Cards" Analogy &amp; Fear of Exposure<br />22:45 Sign 1: Everything Returns to Them (Conversational Hijacking)<br />24:34 Sign 2: Extreme Sensitivity to Criticism &amp; Baiting Feedback<br />27:35 Sign 3: Lack of Genuine Empathy<br />29:14 Sign 4: Transactional Relationships &amp; Status<br />32:00 Pattern Recognition &amp; The 15-Year Re-emergence Story<br />35:12 Managing Narcissists &amp; Why You Can't "Fix" Them<br />36:45 Setting Boundaries: Stopping Justification &amp; Using Silence<br />38:26 Audio vs. Video: Watching Behavior Over Words<br />41:03 Focusing on Your Healthiest Relationships &amp; Body Awareness<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2670</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>businesscoaching,dealingwithnarcissists,emotionalsafety,gaslighting,highconflictpeople,houseofcards,kimberlyryan,lackofempathy,mindsetcoaching,narcissisticbehavior,personalgrowth,protectyourpeace,psychologicalmanipulation,reagannickelson,relationshipadvice,selfimprovement,settingboundaries,smartishconvos,toxicrelationships,transactionalrelationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Friendship Standards No One is Talking About...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-standards-no-one-is-talking-about--74687691</link><description><![CDATA[Are the people closest to you lifting you up or quietly draining your energy, ambitions, and confidence? In Episode 4 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the messy, honest reality of adult friendships, setting emotional boundaries, and knowing when to let relationships naturally fade.<br /><br />Together, they share what it takes to build a true "ride or die" inner circle, the key difference between an acquaintance and a confidant, and why keeping a smaller circle isn't about being elitist—it's about protecting the environment you are growing in. They also dive into how to handle toxic family dynamics, why growing apart is still a form of personal growth, and why forgiveness doesn't always equal restored access to your life.<br /><br />Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The 5-Person Rule: How your inner circle directly impacts your standards, habits, health, and financial success.<br />✅  Aquaintances vs. "Ride or Dies": Defining front-row friendships, colleagues, and acquaintances.<br />✅  Essential Friendship Traits: Why emotional maturity, consistency, and "celebration without competition" are non-negotiable.<br />✅  How to Audit Your Circle: 5 critical questions to ask yourself about who brings peace vs. who drains you.<br />✅  History vs. Loyalty: Why staying in toxic friendships just because you have history is a trap—and how to gracefully pivot.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s one trait you value most in your closest friends? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your thoughts!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:38 How Your Social Circle Impacts Your Life &amp; Standards<br />04:33 Acquaintances vs. "Ride or Die" Friends<br />10:08 Managing Boundaries with Negative Family Members<br />15:52 The Power of Keeping a Small Circle &amp; Shared Values<br />24:12 Why Friends Enter Your Life for Seasons (And Growing Apart)<br />28:25 How to Audit Your Relationships &amp; Protect Your Peace<br />33:04 History vs. Loyalty &amp; Forgiveness Without Access<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74687691</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2026 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/74687691/smartish_convos_ep_4.mp3" length="36222577" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are the people closest to you lifting you up or quietly draining your energy, ambitions, and confidence? In Episode 4 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the messy, honest reality of adult friendships, setting emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are the people closest to you lifting you up or quietly draining your energy, ambitions, and confidence? In Episode 4 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson unpack the messy, honest reality of adult friendships, setting emotional boundaries, and knowing when to let relationships naturally fade.<br /><br />Together, they share what it takes to build a true "ride or die" inner circle, the key difference between an acquaintance and a confidant, and why keeping a smaller circle isn't about being elitist—it's about protecting the environment you are growing in. They also dive into how to handle toxic family dynamics, why growing apart is still a form of personal growth, and why forgiveness doesn't always equal restored access to your life.<br /><br />Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The 5-Person Rule: How your inner circle directly impacts your standards, habits, health, and financial success.<br />✅  Aquaintances vs. "Ride or Dies": Defining front-row friendships, colleagues, and acquaintances.<br />✅  Essential Friendship Traits: Why emotional maturity, consistency, and "celebration without competition" are non-negotiable.<br />✅  How to Audit Your Circle: 5 critical questions to ask yourself about who brings peace vs. who drains you.<br />✅  History vs. Loyalty: Why staying in toxic friendships just because you have history is a trap—and how to gracefully pivot.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s one trait you value most in your closest friends? Drop a comment below—we’d love to hear your thoughts!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:38 How Your Social Circle Impacts Your Life &amp; Standards<br />04:33 Acquaintances vs. "Ride or Die" Friends<br />10:08 Managing Boundaries with Negative Family Members<br />15:52 The Power of Keeping a Small Circle &amp; Shared Values<br />24:12 Why Friends Enter Your Life for Seasons (And Growing Apart)<br />28:25 How to Audit Your Relationships &amp; Protect Your Peace<br />33:04 History vs. Loyalty &amp; Forgiveness Without Access<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2264</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adultfriendships,audityourfriendships,businesscoaching,emotionalmaturity,growingapart,healthyboundaries,innercircle,kimberlyryan,mindsetcoaching,personaldevelopment,personalgrowth,protectyourpeace,qualityoverquantity,reagannickelson,relationshipadvice,rideordiefriends,selfimprovement,settingboundaries,smartishconvos,toxicfriends</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Pendulum Effect: Finding Harmony Over Work-Life Balance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-pendulum-effect-finding-harmony-over-work-life-balance--74259503</link><description><![CDATA[Is trying to achieve perfect work-life balance leaving you exhausted and feeling like you're constantly failing? In Episode 3 of Smartish Convos, business and mindset coaches Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson bust the myth of work-life balance and explain why chasing a 50/50 split is completely unnatural.<br /><br />Instead of a rigid scale, Kimberly and Reagan introduce the concept of "The Pendulum Swing"—how to lean intentionally into heavy seasons of work or rest without guilt, friction, or burnout. They share personal strategies on calendar management, setting non-negotiable daily anchors (like sleep, gym routines, and journaling), and communicating your current season to your family and business partners so everyone stays on the same page.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Myth of Balance vs. Harmony: Why balance is static, but life is meant to be fluid, rhythmic, and in motion.<br />✅  The Pendulum Concept: How to naturally swing between intense focus seasons and intentional rest without feeling guilty.<br />✅  Brain &amp; Attention Span Science: How two-hour deep work sprints and recovery breaks work with your neurology instead of against it.<br />✅  Communicating Your Season: How sharing your current capacity with your spouse, family, or clients eliminates unnecessary conflict.<br />✅  Non-Negotiable Anchors: Why keeping daily grounding habits (like sleep and morning routines) keeps you anchored when work gets intense.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What season are you currently in right now—heavy focus, rest, or transition? Drop a comment below and let us know!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:46 Is Work-Life Balance a Complete Myth?<br />02:01 The Pendulum Swing vs. The Equal Scale<br />04:26 Finding Harmony Over Sameness<br />05:14 Kimberly's Secret Past Life in Afro-Cuban Percussion<br />07:55 How to Know When It’s Time to Swing the Pendulum Back<br />09:58 Taking Control of Your Schedule &amp; Expectations<br />11:28 Calendar Hacks: Deep Work Sprints &amp; Admin Blocks<br />14:08 The Neurology of Attention Spans &amp; Brain Breaks<br />17:28 Non-Negotiables: Morning Routines &amp; Sleep Anchors<br />19:28 The Yes List vs. The No List Strategy<br />21:13 Communicating Your Current Season to Your Family<br />23:04 Is "I'm in a Heavy Season" Just an Excuse?<br />26:16 Recognizing Burnout Signals &amp; The "Proverbial Wall"<br />28:06 Balancing Spousal Priorities vs. Kid Priorities<br />29:22 Practical Steps: How to Name Your Season Today<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74259503</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/74259503/smartish_convos_ep_3.mp3" length="32167955" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is trying to achieve perfect work-life balance leaving you exhausted and feeling like you're constantly failing? In Episode 3 of Smartish Convos, business and mindset coaches Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson bust the myth of work-life balance and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is trying to achieve perfect work-life balance leaving you exhausted and feeling like you're constantly failing? In Episode 3 of Smartish Convos, business and mindset coaches Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson bust the myth of work-life balance and explain why chasing a 50/50 split is completely unnatural.<br /><br />Instead of a rigid scale, Kimberly and Reagan introduce the concept of "The Pendulum Swing"—how to lean intentionally into heavy seasons of work or rest without guilt, friction, or burnout. They share personal strategies on calendar management, setting non-negotiable daily anchors (like sleep, gym routines, and journaling), and communicating your current season to your family and business partners so everyone stays on the same page.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  The Myth of Balance vs. Harmony: Why balance is static, but life is meant to be fluid, rhythmic, and in motion.<br />✅  The Pendulum Concept: How to naturally swing between intense focus seasons and intentional rest without feeling guilty.<br />✅  Brain &amp; Attention Span Science: How two-hour deep work sprints and recovery breaks work with your neurology instead of against it.<br />✅  Communicating Your Season: How sharing your current capacity with your spouse, family, or clients eliminates unnecessary conflict.<br />✅  Non-Negotiable Anchors: Why keeping daily grounding habits (like sleep and morning routines) keeps you anchored when work gets intense.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What season are you currently in right now—heavy focus, rest, or transition? Drop a comment below and let us know!<br />⭐ Love the show? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:46 Is Work-Life Balance a Complete Myth?<br />02:01 The Pendulum Swing vs. The Equal Scale<br />04:26 Finding Harmony Over Sameness<br />05:14 Kimberly's Secret Past Life in Afro-Cuban Percussion<br />07:55 How to Know When It’s Time to Swing the Pendulum Back<br />09:58 Taking Control of Your Schedule &amp; Expectations<br />11:28 Calendar Hacks: Deep Work Sprints &amp; Admin Blocks<br />14:08 The Neurology of Attention Spans &amp; Brain Breaks<br />17:28 Non-Negotiables: Morning Routines &amp; Sleep Anchors<br />19:28 The Yes List vs. The No List Strategy<br />21:13 Communicating Your Current Season to Your Family<br />23:04 Is "I'm in a Heavy Season" Just an Excuse?<br />26:16 Recognizing Burnout Signals &amp; The "Proverbial Wall"<br />28:06 Balancing Spousal Priorities vs. Kid Priorities<br />29:22 Practical Steps: How to Name Your Season Today<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2011</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>avoidburnout,businesscoaching,calendarmanagement,communication,dailyanchors,deepworksprint,entrepreneurmindset,kimberlyryan,mindsetcoaching,pendulumeffect,personalgrowth,productivitymindset,reagannickelson,settingboundaries,smartishconvos,stressmanagement,timemanagement,worklifebalancemyth,worklifeharmony,workseason</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Build Your Courage Muscle (And Stop Settling in Life)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-build-your-courage-muscle-and-stop-settling-in-life--73829518</link><description><![CDATA[Are you settling in your career, health, or relationships because it feels safer to stay comfortable? In Episode 2 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson break down the hidden cost of staying in your comfort zone and why lack of courage—not lack of talent—is what holds most people back from their next level.<br /><br />Together, they explore the real difference between courage and confidence, why waiting until you feel "ready" is a myth, and how fear of change and rejection shows up in everyday life. Whether you're an entrepreneur afraid to take a big risk, feeling stagnant in your job, or needing to set boundaries in your personal relationships, this episode offers practical, bite-sized mindset shifts to help you build your courage muscle starting today.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Courage vs. Confidence: Why confidence is actually the byproduct of taking courageous action, not the prerequisite.<br /><br />✅  The High Cost of Comfort: How staying safe leads to regret, missed opportunities, and living a "woulda, coulda, shoulda" life.<br /><br />✅  Overcoming Fear &amp; Rejection: Learning how to step into the spotlight, accept rejection as part of life, and make hard choices.<br /><br />✅  Practical Action Steps: How taking one tiny, brave action today can kickstart your long-term personal growth.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s one area of your life where you need to take a brave step? Drop a comment below—we’d love to connect with you!<br /><br />⭐ Enjoyed the episode? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:38 Are You Feeling Courageous Today?<br />02:29 What Courage Is (and What It Isn't)<br />04:21 What Do We Fear Most as Humans?<br />06:07 The Hidden Cost of Staying Comfortable<br />07:50 Is Courage Built or Natural? (The Courage Gym)<br />11:28 Courage vs. Confidence: Which Comes First?<br />12:53 Where Do People Settle Most in Life?<br />14:09 Why 95% of People Settle in Their Careers<br />17:28 Being Courageous About Your Health &amp; Goals<br />20:08 The Cost of Missed Opportunities &amp; Regret<br />22:08 Overcoming the Fear of Rejection<br />24:25 The Myth of "Waiting Until You're Ready"<br />27:16 Courage in Personal Relationships &amp; Setting Boundaries<br />30:02 Running From Pain vs. Moving Toward Healing<br />31:53 Practical Action Steps: Take One Small Brave Action Today<br />33:26 Wrap Up &amp; How to Connect With Us<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73829518</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73829518/smartish_convos_ep_2.mp3" length="32770652" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you settling in your career, health, or relationships because it feels safer to stay comfortable? In Episode 2 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson break down the hidden cost of staying in your comfort zone and why lack of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you settling in your career, health, or relationships because it feels safer to stay comfortable? In Episode 2 of Smartish Convos, hosts Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson break down the hidden cost of staying in your comfort zone and why lack of courage—not lack of talent—is what holds most people back from their next level.<br /><br />Together, they explore the real difference between courage and confidence, why waiting until you feel "ready" is a myth, and how fear of change and rejection shows up in everyday life. Whether you're an entrepreneur afraid to take a big risk, feeling stagnant in your job, or needing to set boundaries in your personal relationships, this episode offers practical, bite-sized mindset shifts to help you build your courage muscle starting today.<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Courage vs. Confidence: Why confidence is actually the byproduct of taking courageous action, not the prerequisite.<br /><br />✅  The High Cost of Comfort: How staying safe leads to regret, missed opportunities, and living a "woulda, coulda, shoulda" life.<br /><br />✅  Overcoming Fear &amp; Rejection: Learning how to step into the spotlight, accept rejection as part of life, and make hard choices.<br /><br />✅  Practical Action Steps: How taking one tiny, brave action today can kickstart your long-term personal growth.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: What’s one area of your life where you need to take a brave step? Drop a comment below—we’d love to connect with you!<br /><br />⭐ Enjoyed the episode? Please hit Like, subscribe, and leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome Back to Smartish Convos!<br />00:38 Are You Feeling Courageous Today?<br />02:29 What Courage Is (and What It Isn't)<br />04:21 What Do We Fear Most as Humans?<br />06:07 The Hidden Cost of Staying Comfortable<br />07:50 Is Courage Built or Natural? (The Courage Gym)<br />11:28 Courage vs. Confidence: Which Comes First?<br />12:53 Where Do People Settle Most in Life?<br />14:09 Why 95% of People Settle in Their Careers<br />17:28 Being Courageous About Your Health &amp; Goals<br />20:08 The Cost of Missed Opportunities &amp; Regret<br />22:08 Overcoming the Fear of Rejection<br />24:25 The Myth of "Waiting Until You're Ready"<br />27:16 Courage in Personal Relationships &amp; Setting Boundaries<br />30:02 Running From Pain vs. Moving Toward Healing<br />31:53 Practical Action Steps: Take One Small Brave Action Today<br />33:26 Wrap Up &amp; How to Connect With Us<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2049</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>actionablemindset,buildcourage,businesscoaching,careermotivation,comfortzone,couragevsconfidence,decisionmaking,fearofrejection,identityshift,kimberlyryan,lifegrowth,mindsetcoaching,overcomingfear,personaldevelopment,personalgrowthpodcast,reagannickelson,selfimprovement,smartishconvos,stopsettling,takingrisks</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why We Waited 5 Years to Start a Podcast: Growth, Mindset &amp; Real Conversations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-we-waited-5-years-to-start-a-podcast-growth-mindset-real-conversations--73405056</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to the very first episode of Smart-ish Convos with your hosts, Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson! 🎙️✨<br /><br />Have you ever finished a deep phone call with a friend and thought, "Man, someone else really needed to hear that"? After putting it off for five years, we finally stopped overthinking, hit record, and brought our raw, unfiltered, and silly conversations to the world.<br /><br />In this kickoff episode, we dive into what Smart-ish Convos is all about. As business and mindset coaches, we break down why we don’t have a single "niche," how to trade overwhelm for inner peace, why small steps lead to major transformation, and how we are actively working to become better versions of ourselves every day. Plus, expect a quick rapid-fire Q&amp;A, a few unexpected obsessions (airplane mechanics and strawberry guava trees, anyone?), and a sneak peek into what’s coming next!<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Why Small Steps Matter: How focusing on small daily steps creates massive long-term momentum without goal-setting overwhelm.<br />✅  The Power of Inner Peace: Shifting priorities toward calmness, mental clarity, and communication skills.<br />✅  Self-Awareness &amp; Identity Shifts: How shedding old habits makes room for your next level of personal growth.<br />✅  A Sneak Peek: What to expect in future episodes, covering natural wellness, entrepreneurship, boundaries, travel stories, and human behavior.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: We care more about real connection than just subscriber numbers! Leave a comment below with your thoughts, questions, or a topic you want us to tackle next.<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share this episode with a friend! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome to Smartish Convos!<br />01:38 Why We Waited 5 Years to Start This Podcast<br />03:48 Why Our Podcast Has No Single "Niche"<br />06:01 Focus on Actionable Steps Over Big Overwhelming Goals<br />06:58 What Kimberly &amp; Reagan Are Currently Obsessed With<br />09:56 What Kind of Conversations Light Us Up?<br />11:21 Surprising Things You Wouldn't Guess About Us<br />15:05 What We Value Most at Our Core<br />17:40 Strategic Thinking, Multitasking &amp; Mindsets<br />22:22 Topics We Will Be Covering on Smartish Convos<br />27:58 Rapid Fire Q&amp;A: Values, Wellness Trends &amp; Productivity<br />32:22 Long-Term Health &amp; Living Life to 110<br />33:28 How to Connect With Us Every Wednesday]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73405056</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73405056/smartish_convos_ep_1_updated.mp3" length="33950551" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>TORE Studios</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to the very first episode of Smart-ish Convos with your hosts, Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson! 🎙️✨

Have you ever finished a deep phone call with a friend and thought, "Man, someone else really needed to hear that"? After putting it off...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to the very first episode of Smart-ish Convos with your hosts, Kimberly Ryan and Reagan Nickelson! 🎙️✨<br /><br />Have you ever finished a deep phone call with a friend and thought, "Man, someone else really needed to hear that"? After putting it off for five years, we finally stopped overthinking, hit record, and brought our raw, unfiltered, and silly conversations to the world.<br /><br />In this kickoff episode, we dive into what Smart-ish Convos is all about. As business and mindset coaches, we break down why we don’t have a single "niche," how to trade overwhelm for inner peace, why small steps lead to major transformation, and how we are actively working to become better versions of ourselves every day. Plus, expect a quick rapid-fire Q&amp;A, a few unexpected obsessions (airplane mechanics and strawberry guava trees, anyone?), and a sneak peek into what’s coming next!<br /><br />💡 Key Takeaways &amp; Topics Covered:<br />✅  Why Small Steps Matter: How focusing on small daily steps creates massive long-term momentum without goal-setting overwhelm.<br />✅  The Power of Inner Peace: Shifting priorities toward calmness, mental clarity, and communication skills.<br />✅  Self-Awareness &amp; Identity Shifts: How shedding old habits makes room for your next level of personal growth.<br />✅  A Sneak Peek: What to expect in future episodes, covering natural wellness, entrepreneurship, boundaries, travel stories, and human behavior.<br /><br />💬 Join the Conversation: We care more about real connection than just subscriber numbers! Leave a comment below with your thoughts, questions, or a topic you want us to tackle next.<br /><br />⭐ Love the show? Please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share this episode with a friend! New episodes drop every Wednesday morning.<br /><br />CHAPTERS<br />00:00 Welcome to Smartish Convos!<br />01:38 Why We Waited 5 Years to Start This Podcast<br />03:48 Why Our Podcast Has No Single "Niche"<br />06:01 Focus on Actionable Steps Over Big Overwhelming Goals<br />06:58 What Kimberly &amp; Reagan Are Currently Obsessed With<br />09:56 What Kind of Conversations Light Us Up?<br />11:21 Surprising Things You Wouldn't Guess About Us<br />15:05 What We Value Most at Our Core<br />17:40 Strategic Thinking, Multitasking &amp; Mindsets<br />22:22 Topics We Will Be Covering on Smartish Convos<br />27:58 Rapid Fire Q&amp;A: Values, Wellness Trends &amp; Productivity<br />32:22 Long-Term Health &amp; Living Life to 110<br />33:28 How to Connect With Us Every Wednesday]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2122</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>authenticconversations,businesscoaching,communicationskills,dailyhabits,entrepreneurship,identityshift,innerpeace,kimberlyryan,lifecoach,lifestylepodcast,mentalclarity,mindsetcoaching,motivation,personaldevelopment,personalgrowth,reagannickelson,selfawareness,selfimprovement,smartishconvos,wellnessandmindset</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0487286bdcc24989c0b9e4d75cabb0e3.jpg"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
