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Hosted by longtime radio personality Ryan Manno and comedian Jianine, aka Jay, each episode brings honest perspectives, unexpected tangents and one takeaway we're here to say.

Because life is messy, funny, complicated—and always better when you're not figuring it out alone.

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Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>enPersonal JournalsCopyright Jayhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/81a32a97a2b909ebd0ad89506838c2fe.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851Mon, 19 Oct 2026 03:22:04 +0000JayJayitsjayinterrupted@gmail.comWelcome to Here to Say with Ryan & Jay, where two 40-somethings share laughs, stories and real conversations about life, relationships, parenting, pop culture and everything in between. Hosted by longtime radio personality Ryan Manno and comedian...
Hosted by longtime radio personality Ryan Manno and comedian Jianine, aka Jay, each episode brings honest perspectives, unexpected tangents and one takeaway we're here to say.

Because life is messy, funny, complicated—and always better when you're not figuring it out alone.

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They're in their 40s, they're not married and calling each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" feels ridiculous.

So what DO you call someone you're building a life with when you're way past prom age?

A hilarious misunderstanding at a black-tie gala opens up a much bigger conversation about getting older, feeling like an adult and wondering if anyone ever really figures this "life" shit out. 

They get into how much we rely on technology, whether AI is making us smarter or lazier and why growing up today feels so different from the way we ALL remember.

What starts as a question about their relationship becomes a lowkey meaningful question about identity, adulthood and the people we're becoming. 

So after all of it -- they're right back where they started: WHAT EVEN ARE WE?

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They're in their 40s, they're not married and calling each other "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" feels ridiculous.

So what DO you call someone you're building a life with when you're way past prom age?

A hilarious misunderstanding at a black-tie gala opens up a much bigger conversation about getting older, feeling like an adult and wondering if anyone ever really figures this "life" shit out. 

They get into how much we rely on technology, whether AI is making us smarter or lazier and why growing up today feels so different from the way we ALL remember.

What starts as a question about their relationship becomes a lowkey meaningful question about identity, adulthood and the people we're becoming. 

So after all of it -- they're right back where they started: WHAT EVEN ARE WE?

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Ryan & Jay put everyday weirdness on trial — from self-proclaimed empaths to airplane clappers — and discover that the jury ALSO has some 'splainin' to do!

Ryan admits to a decade of signing autographs for absolutely nobody, while Jay explains why you should never (under any circumstance) put her on speaker.

Somewhere between bare feet on an airplane, inspirational Instagram quotes and a car named Marsha, “quirk or red flag” becomes a much less straightforward question. 

Play along at home, defend your weird little habits and please check your shoes: cuz there’s enough actual goat shit in this episode to require a fourth category!

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Ryan & Jay put everyday weirdness on trial — from self-proclaimed empaths to airplane clappers — and discover that the jury ALSO has some 'splainin' to do!

Ryan admits to a decade of signing autographs for absolutely nobody, while Jay explains why you should never (under any circumstance) put her on speaker.

Somewhere between bare feet on an airplane, inspirational Instagram quotes and a car named Marsha, “quirk or red flag” becomes a much less straightforward question. 

Play along at home, defend your weird little habits and please check your shoes: cuz there’s enough actual goat shit in this episode to require a fourth category!

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This week, we tackle listener questions from around the world about relationships, bad habits, location sharing, dishwasher rules, jeans hygiene and why men insist on keeping things loooong past their expiration date.

We also discover that whether you’re in Singapore, Scotland or Slovenia, couples everywhere are basically arguing about the exact same nonsense.

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This week, we tackle listener questions from around the world about relationships, bad habits, location sharing, dishwasher rules, jeans hygiene and why men insist on keeping things loooong past their expiration date.

We also discover that whether you’re in Singapore, Scotland or Slovenia, couples everywhere are basically arguing about the exact same nonsense.

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We break down the best of the fest -- from Benson Boone and Weezer to Snoop, Smashing Pumpkins and more!

Plus: our first real road trip together, Tesla self-driving mode, random roadside stops and who controls the music! There's also Ryan’s absolutely psychotic silent cross-country drive and an awkward Vegas party moment for Jay that turns into a bigger conversation about work, relationships and getting older. 

Somewhere between Vegas and LA, we land on a pretty profound question: are you still having fun?

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We break down the best of the fest -- from Benson Boone and Weezer to Snoop, Smashing Pumpkins and more!

Plus: our first real road trip together, Tesla self-driving mode, random roadside stops and who controls the music! There's also Ryan’s absolutely psychotic silent cross-country drive and an awkward Vegas party moment for Jay that turns into a bigger conversation about work, relationships and getting older. 

Somewhere between Vegas and LA, we land on a pretty profound question: are you still having fun?

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Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>4076aging,bensonboone,bts,comedy,concerts,confidence,festivals,iheart,iheartradio,kpop,lasvegas,lesserafim,love,music,parties,radio,roadtrips,tesla,vegas,zaralarssontrue15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-14-1990-was-10-years-ago--75081396Coyote vs. Acme sent Ryan and Jay headfirst into a full-blown nostalgia spiral.

This week, we’re going back to Saturday mornings with a bowl of cereal, Toys “R” Us ball cages, Teddy Ruxpin, Fruit Stripe gum, Crystal Pepsi, TGIF, personal phone lines, Blockbuster, Scholastic book fairs, waterbeds and all the wonderfully ridiculous stuff that made growing up in the late ’80s and ’90s feel like its own universe.

Along the way: Ryan reveals his deep commitment to a Cabbage Patch Kid named Patrick, Jay explains how a Jerky Boys prank call brought the fire department to her house and we make the case for bringing back the busy signal.

But underneath all the Pogs and slap bracelets is a bigger question: do we actually miss all that stuff … or do we miss who we were when we had it?

Also, 1990 was ten years ago and we will not be taking questions.

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This week, we’re going back to Saturday mornings with a bowl of cereal, Toys “R” Us ball cages, Teddy Ruxpin, Fruit Stripe gum, Crystal Pepsi, TGIF, personal phone lines, Blockbuster, Scholastic book fairs, waterbeds and all the wonderfully ridiculous stuff that made growing up in the late ’80s and ’90s feel like its own universe.

Along the way: Ryan reveals his deep commitment to a Cabbage Patch Kid named Patrick, Jay explains how a Jerky Boys prank call brought the fire department to her house and we make the case for bringing back the busy signal.

But underneath all the Pogs and slap bracelets is a bigger question: do we actually miss all that stuff … or do we miss who we were when we had it?

Also, 1990 was ten years ago and we will not be taking questions.

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From Vegas weekends to window seats, loud restaurants, long lines and the increasingly dangerous act of sitting on the floor, we're workin' out what’s officially been retired. 

Because somewhere between “I just sat down” and “tomorrow exists now,” getting older may have less to do with age – and more to do with knowing what we actually want.

Follow us on IG, won't ya?
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And hey! Thanks for the reviews and ratings. We're grateful.

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From Vegas weekends to window seats, loud restaurants, long lines and the increasingly dangerous act of sitting on the floor, we're workin' out what’s officially been retired. 

Because somewhere between “I just sat down” and “tomorrow exists now,” getting older may have less to do with age – and more to do with knowing what we actually want.

Follow us on IG, won't ya?
@ryanmanno
@itsjayinterrupted

And hey! Thanks for the reviews and ratings. We're grateful.

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From the Louis Vuitton store in Paris (covered in sauce) to a Chuck-E-Cheese (alone as a grown adult) to literal JAIL, the range here is rich! So, settle in for stories galore on places we probably shouldn't have been.

You DO belong here and we're grateful you keep comin' back! Thanks for the ratings and reviews too!

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From the Louis Vuitton store in Paris (covered in sauce) to a Chuck-E-Cheese (alone as a grown adult) to literal JAIL, the range here is rich! So, settle in for stories galore on places we probably shouldn't have been.

You DO belong here and we're grateful you keep comin' back! Thanks for the ratings and reviews too!

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Ryan and Jay unpack how they're packing for an upcoming trip! Plus, how they clean, argue, tell stories, watch TV and apply lotion. Turns out, the exact same sitch has two totally separate realities!?

No gender is safe. And neither is your relationship.

Leave your comments, reviews and ratings!

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Ryan and Jay unpack how they're packing for an upcoming trip! Plus, how they clean, argue, tell stories, watch TV and apply lotion. Turns out, the exact same sitch has two totally separate realities!?

No gender is safe. And neither is your relationship.

Leave your comments, reviews and ratings!

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Also, go the WHOLE NINE YARDS and subscribe, rate, review, share, comment, post, tag, etc. We don't wanna be close but no cigar. We want the cigar.

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Also, go the WHOLE NINE YARDS and subscribe, rate, review, share, comment, post, tag, etc. We don't wanna be close but no cigar. We want the cigar.

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From everyday courtesy to truly audacious behavior ... asking the increasingly urgent question: were some people raised by wolves?

Thanks for doing all the WELL-MANNERED pod things: like, comment, subscribe, share, follow, etc. You're very polite and we appreciate you.

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From everyday courtesy to truly audacious behavior ... asking the increasingly urgent question: were some people raised by wolves?

Thanks for doing all the WELL-MANNERED pod things: like, comment, subscribe, share, follow, etc. You're very polite and we appreciate you.

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Thanks for the likes, follows, DMs, subs, ratings, stars, shares and cares!

(but also ... someone check on Ryan & Jay after this)

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Thanks for the likes, follows, DMs, subs, ratings, stars, shares and cares!

(but also ... someone check on Ryan & Jay after this)

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Also -- quick health update at the front of the show! We touch on sudden deafness and the destruction of a uterus. We're doin' great!

Enjoy. Sub. Share. Comment. Like. Rate. Review. Thanks for being here! Seriously.

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Also -- quick health update at the front of the show! We touch on sudden deafness and the destruction of a uterus. We're doin' great!

Enjoy. Sub. Share. Comment. Like. Rate. Review. Thanks for being here! Seriously.

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In this episode, Ryan and Jay walk us thru the INSANE timeline of Ryan losing half a vital sense!

What happened? What did we do? What's next? 

Turn the volume up (but not too loud) and lend us your ears cuz this one's DEAF-initely real, honest and wild!

We'll call this episode: HEAR to Say!

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In this episode, Ryan and Jay walk us thru the INSANE timeline of Ryan losing half a vital sense!

What happened? What did we do? What's next? 

Turn the volume up (but not too loud) and lend us your ears cuz this one's DEAF-initely real, honest and wild!

We'll call this episode: HEAR to Say!

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Original parts. Questionable performance.

Rev it up, baby! We're ridin' til the wheels fall off. And they are.

(Editor's note: this was recorded before Ryan went half-deaf. That's next.)

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Original parts. Questionable performance.

Rev it up, baby! We're ridin' til the wheels fall off. And they are.

(Editor's note: this was recorded before Ryan went half-deaf. That's next.)

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From "sus" to "smackdown," Ryan and Jay take plenty hilarious side trips (including one to Vegas) while making the strong case that curiosity beats pretending every time.

No cap, fam. This one is a lot of fun. Now ring the damn bell, brother.

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72616002Sun, 21 Jun 2026 02:50:05 +0000JayIn this episode, Jay is learning WWE terms, kid slang and the valuable life skill of admitting when you have NO IDEA what something means. From "sus" to "smackdown," Ryan and Jay take plenty hilarious side trips (including one to Vegas) while making...
From "sus" to "smackdown," Ryan and Jay take plenty hilarious side trips (including one to Vegas) while making the strong case that curiosity beats pretending every time.

No cap, fam. This one is a lot of fun. Now ring the damn bell, brother.

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>4021aew,comedy,comedy podcast,funny conversations,kids,kids slang,life lessons,parenting,pop culture,raw,slang,vegas,wrestlemania,wrestling,wwetrue2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-1-plot-twist-we-re-back--72605363
Turns out? A LOT can happen in that time.

So, welcome back from Ryan & Jay.

We're here to say ... and STAY.

Thanks for being here from the jump. Settle in. We have much to discuss.

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72605363Fri, 19 Jun 2026 22:40:49 +0000JayWe said we'd be back soon. We were only off by about seven months.  Turns out? A LOT can happen in that time. So, welcome back from Ryan & Jay. We're here to say ... and STAY. Thanks for being here from the jump. Settle in. We have much to...
Turns out? A LOT can happen in that time.

So, welcome back from Ryan & Jay.

We're here to say ... and STAY.

Thanks for being here from the jump. Settle in. We have much to discuss.

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/here-to-say-with-ryan-jay--7116851/support.]]>3613awkwardmoments,cologne,comedy,comedypodcast,dating,humor,humorandheart,losangeles,midlife,midlifehumor,parenting,personalstories,pets,popculture,puberty,radio,reallife,relationships,startingover,storytellingtrue1full