Marriage and Menopause

Marriage and Menopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/marriage-and-menopause--6897985
Hosted by Judy and David, this show pulls back the curtain on what perimenopause and menopause actually do to a marriage. The mood swings. The misunderstandings. The mental load. The intimacy rewrites. The silent resentment. The repair. We talk about the things couples whisper about after 10 PM and Google in private.

You will hear:

What menopause feels like from the wife’s side
What it feels like from the husband’s seat
The mistakes couples make under hormonal pressure
Simple tactical adjustments that stabilize home life
How to stop the marriage spiral before it costs you everything

What menopause feels like from the wife’s side
What it feels like from the husband’s seat
The mistakes couples make under hormonal pressure
Simple tactical adjustments that stabilize home life
How to stop the marriage spiral before it costs you everything

This is our lived experience, hard conversations, humor when it fits, and action steps men can use immediately. If you are in your 40s or 50s and wondering why your relationship suddenly feels harder than it used to, you are not alone. And you are not imagining it.

We Deserve Better.

Marriage and Menopause is for couples who refuse to drift. For partners who are willing to learn. For women who are done being dismissed. For men who want a playbook instead of guessing. Stronger marriages. Smarter conversations. A stable home in the middle of hormonal chaos. Because midlife is not the end of your love story. It is the chapter where you choose to fight for it.]]>true62878c31-5024-5227-9804-853607efa058episodicWe’re in Our 50s. We’re Not Slowing Downhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-re-in-our-50s-we-re-not-slowing-down--75147384
Judy is almost 56. David is 58. And neither of us is interested in quietly shrinking our lives because we’ve reached our 50s.

Perimenopause and menopause changed Judy’s body, brain, libido and identity. They changed our marriage too. For years, David waited for his “old wife” to come back while Judy waited to feel like herself again. Eventually we realized there was no going backward.

So now we’re looking forward. In this episode of Marriage & Menopause, we talk honestly about aging without surrendering, strength training in midlife, sex after menopause, staying physically independent, retirement, starting a business in your 50s, travel, grandparenting without losing your identity, and why we refuse to let our lives get smaller simply because we’re getting older.

David admits one of his biggest regrets during Judy’s menopause transition: he kept waiting for things to return to normal instead of learning who his wife was becoming. Judy talks about rebuilding her strength, getting her sexuality back, becoming a grandmother without disappearing into the role, and why she wants to be the “inappropriate old couple” still having sex, traveling, building things and making plans decades from now.

We also talk about something neither of us knows the ending to yet: building Marriage & Menopause Podcast and the Couples Operating System while still working regular jobs in our 50s. We don’t know exactly where this goes. But we know what happens if we don’t try. Nothing.

This episode isn’t about pretending we’re young. It’s about refusing to surrender our health, sexuality, ambition, independence, marriage and curiosity before we actually want to. We’re not fighting aging. We’re fighting shrinking.

Marriage & Menopause is the honest conversation about menopause, marriage, intimacy and midlife that we wish someone had given us years ago.

Follow Marriage & Menopause:
MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com

We Deserve Better.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/75147384Tue, 15 Sep 2026 16:51:34 +0000Marriage and MenopauseWhat happens after menopause stops being the crisis and you finally start asking: What do we want the rest of our lives to look like? Judy is almost 56. David is 58. And neither of us is interested in quietly shrinking our lives because we’ve reached...
Judy is almost 56. David is 58. And neither of us is interested in quietly shrinking our lives because we’ve reached our 50s.

Perimenopause and menopause changed Judy’s body, brain, libido and identity. They changed our marriage too. For years, David waited for his “old wife” to come back while Judy waited to feel like herself again. Eventually we realized there was no going backward.

So now we’re looking forward. In this episode of Marriage & Menopause, we talk honestly about aging without surrendering, strength training in midlife, sex after menopause, staying physically independent, retirement, starting a business in your 50s, travel, grandparenting without losing your identity, and why we refuse to let our lives get smaller simply because we’re getting older.

David admits one of his biggest regrets during Judy’s menopause transition: he kept waiting for things to return to normal instead of learning who his wife was becoming. Judy talks about rebuilding her strength, getting her sexuality back, becoming a grandmother without disappearing into the role, and why she wants to be the “inappropriate old couple” still having sex, traveling, building things and making plans decades from now.

We also talk about something neither of us knows the ending to yet: building Marriage & Menopause Podcast and the Couples Operating System while still working regular jobs in our 50s. We don’t know exactly where this goes. But we know what happens if we don’t try. Nothing.

This episode isn’t about pretending we’re young. It’s about refusing to surrender our health, sexuality, ambition, independence, marriage and curiosity before we actually want to. We’re not fighting aging. We’re fighting shrinking.

Marriage & Menopause is the honest conversation about menopause, marriage, intimacy and midlife that we wish someone had given us years ago.

Follow Marriage & Menopause:
MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com

We Deserve Better.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1590agingwell,couplesover50,emptynestmarriage,genxmarriag,grandparenting,healthyaging,intimacyaftermenopause,lifeaftermenopause,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauselibido,menopausemarriage,midlifemarriage,midliferelationships,perimenopause,retirementinyour50s,sexaftermenopause,startingoverinyour50s,strengthtrainingover50,womenover50false29fullI Thought Menopause Made My Wife Stop Wanting Mehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-thought-menopause-made-my-wife-stop-wanting-me--74985801
For more than 2 years, David sent Judy essentially the same email every Wednesday or Thursday: "The weekend is coming. Here’s what I thought we could do."

Why?

Because asking his own wife if she wanted him had become miserable.

In this raw episode of Marriage and Menopause, we tell the story of what happened to our sex life during perimenopause and menopause from David’s point of view. Judy still loved him. She was still attracted to him. They still had sex. But spontaneous sexual desire could disappear for weeks at a time, and the physical experience of intimacy had changed in ways neither of them understood.

David thought his wife was falling out of love with him. Judy was thinking something completely different: I want to want him. Why isn’t my body cooperating? We talk candidly about menopause and low libido, loss of sexual desire, painful or uncomfortable sex, difficulty reaching orgasm, sensory changes during intimacy, kissing and touch aversion, hormone changes, HRT, estrogen, testosterone, marriage communication, sexual rejection, and what menopause can look like from the husband’s side of the bed.

Judy explains one of the strangest parts of her experience: she could still want to do sexual things for David while having almost no desire for him to do anything to her. Kissing could suddenly feel like too much sensory input. Being held tightly or having his body on hers could feel claustrophobic instead of comforting. Lower body response could make orgasm take longer, which created frustration for both of them and made sex begin to feel like far more work than pleasure.

From David’s perspective, none of that looked hormonal. It looked like rejection. And that is where this episode gets uncomfortable.

David talks about what husbands are often told when perimenopause or menopause affects intimacy in a marriage:

Be patient.
Give her space.
Romance her.
Take her on dates.
Communicate better.
Help more.
Do not pressure her.

But what happens when you are trying to do those things and your wife still pulls away? How much space are husbands supposed to give? And at what point is a man allowed to admit that repeated sexual rejection hurts him too?

We also unpack the weekly email that unexpectedly helped us protect our sexual relationship. Instead of repeatedly asking Judy for sex in the moment, David would make a plan for the upcoming weekend. That gave Judy time for the idea of intimacy to enter her brain again without requiring her to manufacture sexual desire on demand.

Sometimes it worked. Sometimes it didn’t. David kept sending the email anyway.

We also discuss Judy’s personal experience with hormone replacement therapy and sexual desire after menopause, including estrogen and testosterone treatment under medical supervision. For Judy, HRT made an enormous difference in libido and sexual response.

We also talk about something we understand much better now: Desire, attraction, willingness to have sex, tolerance for physical touch, comfort during intercourse, and ability to orgasm are not necessarily one single switch.

That distinction could have saved both of us years of confusion.

If you are a woman wondering why you love your partner but have lost your sex drive, or a husband wondering whether your wife’s lack of interest in sex means she no longer wants you, this conversation is for you.

This is what this actually looked like inside our marriage.

Topics in this episode include:

Menopause and marriage
Perimenopause and low libido
Loss of sex drive in women over 40 and 50
Sex after menopause
Menopause and intimacy problems
Feeling sexually rejected by your spouse
The husband’s experience of menopause
Sensory changes with kissing and physical touch
Pain, anxiety and sexual response
Difficulty reaching orgasm during menopause
Hormones and female sexual desire
Estrogen and sexual health
Testosterone and libido in postmenopausal women
HRT and sexual desire
Communication about sex in long-term marriage
Maintaining intimacy during menopause
When your spouse feels more like a roommate
How menopause symptoms can be mistaken for marriage problems

We are also building the Couples Operating System, a new resource for couples who need more than “just communicate better.” It will include free education and resources, plus interactive tools and deeper support designed to help couples understand what is happening before they start making it mean something about their marriage. Visit CouplesOperatingSystem.com to see what we’re building.

For the podcast, episodes, and Marriage & Menopause resources, visit MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com.

Marriage and Menopause is hosted by Judy and David, a Gen X married couple talking openly about menopause, sex, intimacy, communication, hormones, resentment, connection, and the relationship problems nobody prepared couples for.

Medical note: Our conversations about menopause, HRT, estrogen, testosterone, libido, and sexual health describe our personal experiences and are for education and discussion. Hormone therapy and other medical treatments should be individualized with a qualified healthcare professional.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74985801Tue, 08 Sep 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseWhat happens to a marriage when menopause changes a woman’s sex drive, her body’s response to touch, and even whether she wants to be kissed, but her husband has no idea why? For more than 2 years, David sent Judy essentially the same email every...
For more than 2 years, David sent Judy essentially the same email every Wednesday or Thursday: "The weekend is coming. Here’s what I thought we could do."

Why?

Because asking his own wife if she wanted him had become miserable.

In this raw episode of Marriage and Menopause, we tell the story of what happened to our sex life during perimenopause and menopause from David’s point of view. Judy still loved him. She was still attracted to him. They still had sex. But spontaneous sexual desire could disappear for weeks at a time, and the physical experience of intimacy had changed in ways neither of them understood.

David thought his wife was falling out of love with him. Judy was thinking something completely different: I want to want him. Why isn’t my body cooperating? We talk candidly about menopause and low libido, loss of sexual desire, painful or uncomfortable sex, difficulty reaching orgasm, sensory changes during intimacy, kissing and touch aversion, hormone changes, HRT, estrogen, testosterone, marriage communication, sexual rejection, and what menopause can look like from the husband’s side of the bed.

Judy explains one of the strangest parts of her experience: she could still want to do sexual things for David while having almost no desire for him to do anything to her. Kissing could suddenly feel like too much sensory input. Being held tightly or having his body on hers could feel claustrophobic instead of comforting. Lower body response could make orgasm take longer, which created frustration for both of them and made sex begin to feel like far more work than pleasure.

From David’s perspective, none of that looked hormonal. It looked like rejection. And that is where this episode gets uncomfortable.

David talks about what husbands are often told when perimenopause or menopause affects intimacy in a marriage:

Be patient.
Give her space.
Romance her.
Take her on dates.
Communicate better.
Help more.
Do not pressure her.

Menopause and marriage
Perimenopause and low libido
Loss of sex drive in women over...]]>1339estrogen,hormonalchanges,hormonebalance,hormonetherapy,hrt,intimacy,libido,lowlibido,menopause,midlife,midlifehealth,perimenopause,perimenopausesymptoms,relationshipadvice,relationships,sexdrive,sexualhealth,sexualwellness,testosterone,womenshealthtrue
28fullPerimenopause Sleep Issueshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/perimenopause-sleep-issues--74775550
Ask any woman in perimenopause what time she wakes up and she'll tell you three. It's the same hour for all of us and nobody has ever explained why. You'll notice Bella in Judy's lap for this entire episode. Her brother Red hurt his foot and he's on medication, and she wouldn't leave Judy's side the whole time we recorded. Which felt about right for an episode on the years nobody in this house slept.

In this episode we talk about perimenopause insomnia and what it actually did to our marriage. Judy took it to a doctor and got told it was stress and to try to relax. She told her OB she hadn't slept in over a year and got told to do Kegels at night. Not one doctor said the word hormones. The part almost nobody talks about is that David wasn't sleeping either.

His testosterone was dropping at the same time Judy's hormones were falling apart. Two people in one bed, both hormonal, both privately deciding it was just age.

Menopause sleep problems and low testosterone in men landed in the same bedroom at the same time and neither of us connected it. We talk about what two years of no sleep costs.

Judy can't point to a single bad morning, because it all ran together. She didn't lose the nights. She lost the days.

And we talk about the fix, which was the opposite of what we expected. Judy was taking seven things every single night to sleep. Mood gummies, ashwagandha, melatonin, CBD, magnesium, and two allergy meds. She started wondering whether the pile itself was the problem, went and researched it, and the research backed her up. We stripped it down to three things and started working out. Better sleep within days after two years of nothing working.

This is not medical advice and Judy is not your doctor. Take your list to a physician and ask whether less might work better than more.

That's the question nobody asked for us.

If you're a woman over 40 reading this at three in the morning, you're not the only one awake, and it was never stress.

The Couples Operating System is nineteen dollars a month for both of you with a free trial at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74775550Tue, 01 Sep 2026 11:18:59 +0000Marriage and MenopauseSleep and menopause is the thing nobody warned us about. For two years Judy woke up at three in the morning. Not most nights. Every single night. And falling asleep got hard first, an hour or more of lying there waiting, before the 3am waking ever...
Ask any woman in perimenopause what time she wakes up and she'll tell you three. It's the same hour for all of us and nobody has ever explained why. You'll notice Bella in Judy's lap for this entire episode. Her brother Red hurt his foot and he's on medication, and she wouldn't leave Judy's side the whole time we recorded. Which felt about right for an episode on the years nobody in this house slept.

In this episode we talk about perimenopause insomnia and what it actually did to our marriage. Judy took it to a doctor and got told it was stress and to try to relax. She told her OB she hadn't slept in over a year and got told to do Kegels at night. Not one doctor said the word hormones. The part almost nobody talks about is that David wasn't sleeping either.

His testosterone was dropping at the same time Judy's hormones were falling apart. Two people in one bed, both hormonal, both privately deciding it was just age.

Menopause sleep problems and low testosterone in men landed in the same bedroom at the same time and neither of us connected it. We talk about what two years of no sleep costs.

Judy can't point to a single bad morning, because it all ran together. She didn't lose the nights. She lost the days.

And we talk about the fix, which was the opposite of what we expected. Judy was taking seven things every single night to sleep. Mood gummies, ashwagandha, melatonin, CBD, magnesium, and two allergy meds. She started wondering whether the pile itself was the problem, went and researched it, and the research backed her up. We stripped it down to three things and started working out. Better sleep within days after two years of nothing working.

This is not medical advice and Judy is not your doctor. Take your list to a physician and ask whether less might work better than more.

That's the question nobody asked for us.

If you're a woman over 40 reading this at three in the morning, you're not the only one awake, and it was never stress.

The Couples Operating System is nineteen dollars a month for both of you with a free trial at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1098genx,hormones,hotflashes,lowtestosterone,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauseandmarriage,menopauseinsomnia,menopausesleep,menopausesupport,menover50,midlifewomen,perimenopause,perimenopauseinsomnia,perimenopausesymptoms,sleepandmenopause,sleepproblems,threeamclub,womenover40,womenover50false27fullPerimenopause Brain Foghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/perimenopause-brain-fog--74671027Menopause brain fog took the one thing Judy never worried about losing.

She taught for twenty two years and did math in her head faster than her students could do it on paper. Then she started standing in doorways trying to remember the sentence she walked down the hall to say.

In this episode we talk about what brain fog actually is, and it isn't forgetting. The information is still in there. You just can't get to it.

Judy walks through the files she worked and lost, the clients she'd already talked to and couldn't place, and the night she started searching early onset symptoms at fifty two.She never told David any of that. She brought him a study instead.

We get into what the research actually shows. Lisa Mosconi's team at Weill Cornell scanned a hundred sixty one women between forty and sixty five and found gray matter volume drops during perimenopause in the exact regions that run attention, concentration, language and memory. It's measurable. It's visible on a scan. And in eight years of appointments, nobody said a word about it to either of us.

David says what he's been sitting on since he heard it.

Judy also talks about what she built instead of a diagnosis. Whiteboards, notebooks in every room, a calendar that holds everything, and a husband who works as the second copy. And the letter she wrote asking for help at work, the one she sent to David first to ask if she should send it at all.

She's postmenopausal now. The fog didn't lift. She runs a full book of business, this podcast and a household anyway.

If you're a woman over forty losing words in the middle of your own sentences, you're not broken and you're not early onset anything. You're in it.

The Couples Operating System is nineteen dollars a month for both of you with a free trial at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74671027Tue, 25 Aug 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseMenopause brain fog took the one thing Judy never worried about losing. She taught for twenty two years and did math in her head faster than her students could do it on paper. Then she started standing in doorways trying to remember the sentence she...Menopause brain fog took the one thing Judy never worried about losing.

She taught for twenty two years and did math in her head faster than her students could do it on paper. Then she started standing in doorways trying to remember the sentence she walked down the hall to say.

In this episode we talk about what brain fog actually is, and it isn't forgetting. The information is still in there. You just can't get to it.

Judy walks through the files she worked and lost, the clients she'd already talked to and couldn't place, and the night she started searching early onset symptoms at fifty two.She never told David any of that. She brought him a study instead.

We get into what the research actually shows. Lisa Mosconi's team at Weill Cornell scanned a hundred sixty one women between forty and sixty five and found gray matter volume drops during perimenopause in the exact regions that run attention, concentration, language and memory. It's measurable. It's visible on a scan. And in eight years of appointments, nobody said a word about it to either of us.

David says what he's been sitting on since he heard it.

Judy also talks about what she built instead of a diagnosis. Whiteboards, notebooks in every room, a calendar that holds everything, and a husband who works as the second copy. And the letter she wrote asking for help at work, the one she sent to David first to ask if she should send it at all.

She's postmenopausal now. The fog didn't lift. She runs a full book of business, this podcast and a household anyway.

If you're a woman over forty losing words in the middle of your own sentences, you're not broken and you're not early onset anything. You're in it.

The Couples Operating System is nineteen dollars a month for both of you with a free trial at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>941genx,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopausebrainfog,menopausesupport,midlifewomen,perimenopause,perimenopausesymptoms,womenover40,womenover50false26fullPerimenopause Joint Painhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/perimenopause-joint-pain--74232332
I was forty four when my shoulder locked up so bad I couldn't lift my arm to put on my own bra. David had to dress me. The orthopedist called it frozen shoulder and said it was probably my diabetes, and then everyone stopped looking.

Nobody checked my estrogen. Not once.

Then the PAIN spread. Both shoulders. Pain in my hands, my knees, my hips, my neck, my feet. A herniated disc. Trigger finger so bad I needed surgery on my right thumb. For the better part of a year I ate ibuprofen like candy and rubbed Voltaren gel on joints that never stopped hurting.

Eight years of my body falling apart, and the one symptom everybody actually knows to look for, the hot flashes, didn't show up until the very end. That's the part women over 40 need to hear.

Perimenopause didn't announce itself with a hot flash for me. It came for my joints first, and because nobody told me that was even possible, I lost almost a decade to doctors treating one piece at a time.

This is my whole story, start to finish. The frozen shoulder, the surgery, the night in a hotel when I thought I was dying, and what finally changed when I started hormone replacement therapy.

If your body has been hurting and everyone keeps handing you a gel and a shrug, this one is for you.

We're Judy and David, a GenX couple who lived through perimenopause with zero information and built the thing we wish we'd had. Come find us.

Start your free week of the Couples Operating System: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74232332Tue, 18 Aug 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseMenopause joint pain took eight years of my life before a single doctor said the word hormones. I was forty four when my shoulder locked up so bad I couldn't lift my arm to put on my own bra. David had to dress me. The orthopedist called it frozen...
I was forty four when my shoulder locked up so bad I couldn't lift my arm to put on my own bra. David had to dress me. The orthopedist called it frozen shoulder and said it was probably my diabetes, and then everyone stopped looking.

Nobody checked my estrogen. Not once.

Then the PAIN spread. Both shoulders. Pain in my hands, my knees, my hips, my neck, my feet. A herniated disc. Trigger finger so bad I needed surgery on my right thumb. For the better part of a year I ate ibuprofen like candy and rubbed Voltaren gel on joints that never stopped hurting.

Eight years of my body falling apart, and the one symptom everybody actually knows to look for, the hot flashes, didn't show up until the very end. That's the part women over 40 need to hear.

Perimenopause didn't announce itself with a hot flash for me. It came for my joints first, and because nobody told me that was even possible, I lost almost a decade to doctors treating one piece at a time.

This is my whole story, start to finish. The frozen shoulder, the surgery, the night in a hotel when I thought I was dying, and what finally changed when I started hormone replacement therapy.

If your body has been hurting and everyone keeps handing you a gel and a shrug, this one is for you.

We're Judy and David, a GenX couple who lived through perimenopause with zero information and built the thing we wish we'd had. Come find us.

Start your free week of the Couples Operating System: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1066frozenshoulder,menopause,menopausejointpain,perimenopause,womenover40false25fullLow Testosterone in Menhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/low-testosterone-in-men--73561854
In this episode, Judy tells David's story: the signs of low testosterone in men that showed up quietly inside their marriage while she was starting her own HRT. Loss of morning erections, erectile dysfunction, and low libido together are what doctors call the sexual triad, the clearest signal something is wrong with testosterone.

David had all three and didn't put it together. His bloodwork came back low. Genuinely low. This is for the wife who's noticed something in her husband and doesn't have the words for it yet. This is for the husband who's been blaming stress for years.

Two hormone collapses, one house, and only one of them was getting talked about publicly. Until now.

Women in perimenopause, women over 40, and their husbands: this episode is for both of you.

The Couples Operating System now has a full section built for husbands, testosterone included. Find it at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73561854Tue, 11 Aug 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseNo morning wood. That's what Judy noticed first, weeks before David ever said a word. In this episode, Judy tells David's story: the signs of low testosterone in men that showed up quietly inside their marriage while she was starting her own HRT....
In this episode, Judy tells David's story: the signs of low testosterone in men that showed up quietly inside their marriage while she was starting her own HRT. Loss of morning erections, erectile dysfunction, and low libido together are what doctors call the sexual triad, the clearest signal something is wrong with testosterone.

David had all three and didn't put it together. His bloodwork came back low. Genuinely low. This is for the wife who's noticed something in her husband and doesn't have the words for it yet. This is for the husband who's been blaming stress for years.

Two hormone collapses, one house, and only one of them was getting talked about publicly. Until now.

Women in perimenopause, women over 40, and their husbands: this episode is for both of you.

The Couples Operating System now has a full section built for husbands, testosterone included. Find it at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>606couplesoperatingsystem,erectiledysfunction,genxmarriage,hormonehealth,husbandsofperimenopause,lowtestosterone,marriageandmenopause,menopauseformen,perimenopause,testosteroneinmen,womenover40false24fullWill Our Marriage Survive Perimenopause?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/will-our-marriage-survive-perimenopause--73411539
They both thought about leaving. Not each other. Themselves.

David sat in his car in the driveway one night and didn't know if he had anything left. Judy thought about walking away from her own marriage to escape a version of herself she didn't recognize.

Neither one told the other for years. In this episode, Judy and David pull the real divorce statistics for couples in perimenopause, and they're heavier than most people expect. Then they get into the two nights neither of them has talked about publicly.

David's night in the car. Judy's decision to stay quiet about wanting to leave. And the one thing that actually determined whether their marriage survived: not love, not how strong things were before, but information, and what they did with it.

Doctors never told them this. This episode is them telling you. If you've lain awake wondering whether your marriage is going to survive perimenopause, or if you've thought about leaving and didn't know how to say it out loud, this episode is for you.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook and the Couples Operating System at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73411539Tue, 04 Aug 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseWill Our Marriage Survive This? They both thought about leaving. Not each other. Themselves. David sat in his car in the driveway one night and didn't know if he had anything left. Judy thought about walking away from her own marriage to escape a...
They both thought about leaving. Not each other. Themselves.

David sat in his car in the driveway one night and didn't know if he had anything left. Judy thought about walking away from her own marriage to escape a version of herself she didn't recognize.

Neither one told the other for years. In this episode, Judy and David pull the real divorce statistics for couples in perimenopause, and they're heavier than most people expect. Then they get into the two nights neither of them has talked about publicly.

David's night in the car. Judy's decision to stay quiet about wanting to leave. And the one thing that actually determined whether their marriage survived: not love, not how strong things were before, but information, and what they did with it.

Doctors never told them this. This episode is them telling you. If you've lain awake wondering whether your marriage is going to survive perimenopause, or if you've thought about leaving and didn't know how to say it out loud, this episode is for you.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook and the Couples Operating System at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>597divorce,graydivorce,hrt,obgyn,perimenopause,relationshiphelpfalse23fullThe Silence Around Sex Is Destroying Marriageshttp://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com
Judy spent two years thinking her body had just stopped working, that this was who she was now. David spent that same two years wondering if he was the reason. Neither one said a word.

This is the episode where they finally do. Judy and David sit down with the part of perimenopause almost nobody talks about out loud: what happens to desire, to intimacy, to a marriage, when a woman's body changes and no one explains why.

The grief of losing a part of yourself.

The shame that keeps you from saying it.

And the things that actually helped them find their way back to each other.

If you're a woman in perimenopause who thinks this part of your life is just over, or a husband who's been taking it personally without knowing why, this episode is for you.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook and the Couples Operating System at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73203601Tue, 28 Jul 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseShe wasn't pulling away from him. Her body pulled away first. Judy spent two years thinking her body had just stopped working, that this was who she was now. David spent that same two years wondering if he was the reason. Neither one said a word....
Judy spent two years thinking her body had just stopped working, that this was who she was now. David spent that same two years wondering if he was the reason. Neither one said a word.

This is the episode where they finally do. Judy and David sit down with the part of perimenopause almost nobody talks about out loud: what happens to desire, to intimacy, to a marriage, when a woman's body changes and no one explains why.

The grief of losing a part of yourself.

The shame that keeps you from saying it.

And the things that actually helped them find their way back to each other.

If you're a woman in perimenopause who thinks this part of your life is just over, or a husband who's been taking it personally without knowing why, this episode is for you.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook and the Couples Operating System at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1395couplesandperimenopause,estrogenandlibido,hormonesandsexdrive,husbandandmenopause,intimacyafter40,lowlibidoperimenopause,marriageandmenopause,menopauseandrelationships,menopausesexdrive,perimenopauseandmarriage,perimenopauseintimacy,perimenopauselibido,perimenopausepodcast,perimenopausesexdrive,savingyourmarriage,sexafterperimenopause,testosteroneinwomen,vaginaldrynessperimenopause,wifelostinterestinsex,womenover40sexfalse22fullThree Words That Saved Our Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/three-words-that-saved-our-marriage--72856001
Judy went quiet to protect herself. David went quiet because every time he tried to talk, it landed wrong. Months went by like that.

This episode is the real story of how they broke that silence, and it wasn't a big conversation or a therapy session. It was three words. David talks about the mental list of things he learned he couldn't say. Judy admits she was terrified of sounding crazy if she said what was actually happening in her body.

They give you the exact sentences that worked, and the exact sentences that made everything worse. If you and your partner are on opposite sides of a wall right now, this episode gives you the words to start knocking it down.

Comment "playbook" for the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

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If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72856001Tue, 21 Jul 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopausePerimenopause communication breakdown built a wall between two people who still loved each other and didn't know how to get back to one another. Judy went quiet to protect herself. David went quiet because every time he tried to talk, it landed...
Judy went quiet to protect herself. David went quiet because every time he tried to talk, it landed wrong. Months went by like that.

This episode is the real story of how they broke that silence, and it wasn't a big conversation or a therapy session. It was three words. David talks about the mental list of things he learned he couldn't say. Judy admits she was terrified of sounding crazy if she said what was actually happening in her body.

They give you the exact sentences that worked, and the exact sentences that made everything worse. If you and your partner are on opposite sides of a wall right now, this episode gives you the words to start knocking it down.

Comment "playbook" for the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

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If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1060brainfog,communication,connection,couples,genx,hormonalchanges,hormones,husbandsandwives,imissyou,intimacy,marriage,marriageadvice,menopausemarriage,midlife,perimenopause,relationshipadvice,silence,womenover40false21fullPerimenopause Rage and Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/perimenopause-rage-and-marriage--72855977
Neither one of them had ever heard the word amygdala until they were standing in the wreckage of a marriage that was falling apart over nothing.

This episode is the real story of the rage nobody warns you about in perimenopause. Judy explains what it actually feels like from the inside, watching yourself explode and not being able to stop it.

David admits every mistake he made trying to fix it, including the one that made everything worse. They talk about the night she broke her phone, and the moment that told them they were going to survive this. If you're a husband walking on eggshells in your own house, or a woman who doesn't recognize herself anymore, this episode explains exactly what's happening and why it isn't personal.

Comment "playbook" for the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

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If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72855977Tue, 14 Jul 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopausePerimenopause rage nearly ended our marriage over a coffee cup. Not the fights you'd expect. A coffee cup left on the counter, and Judy screamed like it was the end of the world. She didn't know why. David didn't either. Neither one of them had ever...
Neither one of them had ever heard the word amygdala until they were standing in the wreckage of a marriage that was falling apart over nothing.

This episode is the real story of the rage nobody warns you about in perimenopause. Judy explains what it actually feels like from the inside, watching yourself explode and not being able to stop it.

David admits every mistake he made trying to fix it, including the one that made everything worse. They talk about the night she broke her phone, and the moment that told them they were going to survive this. If you're a husband walking on eggshells in your own house, or a woman who doesn't recognize herself anymore, this episode explains exactly what's happening and why it isn't personal.

Comment "playbook" for the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

Comment "couples" for the Couples Operating System. marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1010amygdala,angerissues,brainonfire,couples,estrogen,fightorflight,genx,hormonalchanges,hormonalrage,hormones,marriage,marriageadvice,medicalgaslighting,menopausemarriage,menopauserage,midlife,perimenopause,perimenopauserage,relationshipadvice,womenover40false20full
Does My Wife Still Love Me?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-my-wife-still-love-me--72855354
Perimenopause marriage disconnection nearly convinced two people who loved each other that the marriage was over. Neither one said it out loud. Both were wrong.

In this episode, Judy and David tell the truth about the year they both lay in the same bed wondering if the other one still loved them. He stopped reaching for her. She stopped being able to explain why she felt gone. He read it as rejection. She was living with a brain that felt like it belonged to someone else.

This episode breaks down what estrogen actually does to a woman's brain, her memory, her ability to feel connected to the person she loves most. Judy walks through losing words mid-sentence, reading the same paragraph three times, and being terrified she was developing dementia. David talks about the story he told himself every time she pulled away, and how that story almost destroyed them both.

If you're a husband asking whether your wife still loves you, or a woman who feels like she's losing her mind, this episode is for you. Women over 40 in perimenopause, and the husbands standing next to them, this conversation was built for exactly what you're living through right now.

What you'll hear in this episode:
- Why estrogen loss affects oxytocin and a woman's ability to feel connected
- Why brain fog is neurological, not emotional, and not something to be ashamed of
- The exact sentence that could have ended this marriage, and the one that saved it
- What to say instead of staying silent when you're both scared
Comment "playbook" for our free Menopause for Men Playbook.

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More at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

#perimenopause #perimenopausemarriage #womenover40 #marriageandmenopause #menopausebrainfog #perimenopausesupport

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

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Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72855354Tue, 07 Jul 2026 16:05:02 +0000
Marriage and MenopauseDoes She Still Love Me? What Perimenopause Does to a Marriage Perimenopause marriage disconnection nearly convinced two people who loved each other that the marriage was over. Neither one said it out loud. Both were wrong. In this episode, Judy and...
Perimenopause marriage disconnection nearly convinced two people who loved each other that the marriage was over. Neither one said it out loud. Both were wrong.

In this episode, Judy and David tell the truth about the year they both lay in the same bed wondering if the other one still loved them. He stopped reaching for her. She stopped being able to explain why she felt gone. He read it as rejection. She was living with a brain that felt like it belonged to someone else.

This episode breaks down what estrogen actually does to a woman's brain, her memory, her ability to feel connected to the person she loves most. Judy walks through losing words mid-sentence, reading the same paragraph three times, and being terrified she was developing dementia. David talks about the story he told himself every time she pulled away, and how that story almost destroyed them both.

If you're a husband asking whether your wife still loves you, or a woman who feels like she's losing her mind, this episode is for you. Women over 40 in perimenopause, and the husbands standing next to them, this conversation was built for exactly what you're living through right now.

What you'll hear in this episode:
Why estrogen loss affects oxytocin and a woman's ability to feel connected
Why brain fog is neurological, not emotional, and not something to be ashamed of
The exact sentence that could have ended this marriage, and the one that saved it
What to say instead of staying silent when you're both scared

Comment "playbook" for our free Menopause for Men Playbook.

Comment "couples" to learn about the Couples Operating System, built for couples navigating perimenopause together.

More at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

#perimenopause #perimenopausemarriage #womenover40 #marriageandmenopause #menopausebrainfog #perimenopausesupport

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
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How Long Does Perimenopause Last? What Nobody Tells Couples About the Timelinehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-long-does-perimenopause-last-what-nobody-tells-couples-about-the-timeline--72749544
Judy shares what it felt like to think she was losing her mind while her doctor told her everything was normal. David talks about doing the math in his head at 3am and coming up with five more years. Both of them sat in silence for a year because they didn't have the information they needed.

Perimenopause can start in your late 30s. It can last up to ten years. Symptoms shift. Treatment exists. And there is a better side. This episode is the map they wish someone had handed them. If you're a woman in perimenopause who has been dismissed, misdiagnosed, or handed antidepressants instead of answers, this one is for you.

If you're a husband watching your wife disappear and nobody will tell you what's happening or when it stops, this one is for you too.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If you want to go deeper, the Couples Operating System is there too. That's where the real work happens.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72749544Tue, 30 Jun 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseHow long does perimenopause last? It's the question every woman over 40 is asking and almost nobody answers honestly. In this episode, Judy and David break down the real perimenopause timeline, what it actually does to a marriage, and why the medical...
Judy shares what it felt like to think she was losing her mind while her doctor told her everything was normal. David talks about doing the math in his head at 3am and coming up with five more years. Both of them sat in silence for a year because they didn't have the information they needed.

Perimenopause can start in your late 30s. It can last up to ten years. Symptoms shift. Treatment exists. And there is a better side. This episode is the map they wish someone had handed them. If you're a woman in perimenopause who has been dismissed, misdiagnosed, or handed antidepressants instead of answers, this one is for you.

If you're a husband watching your wife disappear and nobody will tell you what's happening or when it stops, this one is for you too.

Get the free Menopause for Men Playbook at marriageandmenopausepodcast.com.

If you want to go deeper, the Couples Operating System is there too. That's where the real work happens.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1050anxiety,brainfog,couples,estrogen,genx,hormones,hormonetherapy,hotflashes,hrt,husbands,marriage,menopause,menopausemarriage,moodswings,perimenopause,perimenopausesymptoms,progesterone,sleepproblems,testosterone,women40false18fullThe Medical System Failed Women in Perimenopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-medical-system-failed-women-in-perimenopause--72641453
In this episode Judy and David tell the truth about what the medical system got wrong and never corrected. In 2002 one study scared an entire generation of doctors away from prescribing estrogen. That study has been largely debunked. Doctors are still leading with the same fear in 2026.

Judy had two frozen shoulder surgeries. Trigger thumb surgery. Years of pain. All of it connected to estrogen loss. Nobody connected those dots for her. She blamed herself.

Women over 40 across this country are doing the same thing right now. There is a nationwide shortage of estrogen patches while erectile dysfunction medication sits fully stocked on every pharmacy shelf.

Women in perimenopause are one of the biggest spending demographics in the country and the system still can't be bothered to meet the demand.

This episode is for women in perimenopause who want to understand what happened to their bodies. It's for the husbands who watched their wives suffer through something they couldn't explain and want to finally understand why.

And it's for every man who wants to be the variable that changes his wife's outcome. BE THAT MAN!!!

Comment COUPLES to receive the free Menopause for Men Playbook. Read it before her next appointment.

Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N3M9sJAhQ0oHWY4jQrnPy

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72641453Tue, 23 Jun 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseWomen in perimenopause are losing bone density, cardiovascular protection, and brain function right now. And most of them still don't know why. In this episode Judy and David tell the truth about what the medical system got wrong and never corrected....
In this episode Judy and David tell the truth about what the medical system got wrong and never corrected. In 2002 one study scared an entire generation of doctors away from prescribing estrogen. That study has been largely debunked. Doctors are still leading with the same fear in 2026.

Judy had two frozen shoulder surgeries. Trigger thumb surgery. Years of pain. All of it connected to estrogen loss. Nobody connected those dots for her. She blamed herself.

Women over 40 across this country are doing the same thing right now. There is a nationwide shortage of estrogen patches while erectile dysfunction medication sits fully stocked on every pharmacy shelf.

Women in perimenopause are one of the biggest spending demographics in the country and the system still can't be bothered to meet the demand.

This episode is for women in perimenopause who want to understand what happened to their bodies. It's for the husbands who watched their wives suffer through something they couldn't explain and want to finally understand why.

And it's for every man who wants to be the variable that changes his wife's outcome. BE THAT MAN!!!

Comment COUPLES to receive the free Menopause for Men Playbook. Read it before her next appointment.

Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296

Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4N3M9sJAhQ0oHWY4jQrnPy

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>816and,health,health bone,health perimenopause,heart,loss,loss hrt perimenopause,marriage,marriage menopause,menopause,menopause menopause,perimenopause estrogen,perimenopause menopause perime,podcast husband,risks frozen,shortage womens,shoulder,support perimenopause,symptoms hormone,therapy estrogenfalse17fullMen! Stop Making Perimenopause Worsehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-stop-making-perimenopause-worse--72542767
In this episode, Judy and David speak directly to the men standing at the bottom of something they don't understand. You've read about perimenopause. You've tried to support your wife. And somehow every move you make seems to backfire.

This is the episode that changes that.

You'll learn the five moves that actually work when perimenopause hits your marriage: stop diagnosing her, stabilize yourself first, become safe to tell the truth to, lower pressure without sending an invoice, and leave the door open without living in the doorway.

This is the framework that survives perimenopause and comes out stronger on the other side.

Whether you're the confused husband, the frustrated wife, or the couple wondering how to navigate this together, this episode gives you the map.

Perimenopause doesn't have to destroy your marriage. But it will demand that you both show up differently.

GET THE FREE RESOURCE: Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

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LISTEN NOW and comment: What's the one thing you wish your partner knew about perimenopause and what you're going through?

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72542767Tue, 16 Jun 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseHusbands, if you're trying to help and it's making everything worse, nobody told you the truth. You're not failing. You're just climbing the wrong mountain. In this episode, Judy and David speak directly to the men standing at the bottom of something...
In this episode, Judy and David speak directly to the men standing at the bottom of something they don't understand. You've read about perimenopause. You've tried to support your wife. And somehow every move you make seems to backfire.

This is the episode that changes that.

You'll learn the five moves that actually work when perimenopause hits your marriage: stop diagnosing her, stabilize yourself first, become safe to tell the truth to, lower pressure without sending an invoice, and leave the door open without living in the doorway.

This is the framework that survives perimenopause and comes out stronger on the other side.

Whether you're the confused husband, the frustrated wife, or the couple wondering how to navigate this together, this episode gives you the map.

Perimenopause doesn't have to destroy your marriage. But it will demand that you both show up differently.

GET THE FREE RESOURCE: Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Join the Couples Operating System: marriageandmenopausepodcast.com

LISTEN NOW and comment: What's the one thing you wish your partner knew about perimenopause and what you're going through?

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>930couplegoals,husband,husbandadvice,husbandmenopause,marriageandmenopause,menopausemarriage,menopausepodcast,menopauserelationship,perimenopause,perimenopausecouples,survivingperimenopausefalse16fullMy Husband Accidentally Diagnosed My Perimenopause. Our Doctor Never Didhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-husband-accidentally-diagnosed-my-perimenopause-our-doctor-never-did--72427781
Because nobody gave it to them.

This episode is built from those real emails. The ones they wrote to each other while perimenopause was quietly disconnecting their 23-year marriage one inch at a time. No script. No performance. Just two people reading their own words back and seeing clearly now what they could not see then.

Hindsight is 20/20. And what they see now makes them furious. Judy had years of surgeries and treatments that a single hormone prescription could have prevented. They spent more than a year in therapy digging out from damage that should never have happened. Her symptoms were treated. She was not.

If your marriage feels like two roommates lately. If intimacy has quietly disappeared and neither of you knows how to say it out loud. If you are doing everything right and nothing is working. This episode is for you.

You are not broken. You are not incompatible. You are undiagnosed. And you deserved better information than the system gave you.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

Couples Operating System: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72427781Tue, 09 Jun 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseIn 2020 Judy and David were emailing each other about their sex life. Trying to schedule intimacy. Tracking pain on a scale of 1 to 10. Writing drafts for weeks before hitting send. They were doing everything right. And the word perimenopause never...
Because nobody gave it to them.

This episode is built from those real emails. The ones they wrote to each other while perimenopause was quietly disconnecting their 23-year marriage one inch at a time. No script. No performance. Just two people reading their own words back and seeing clearly now what they could not see then.

Hindsight is 20/20. And what they see now makes them furious. Judy had years of surgeries and treatments that a single hormone prescription could have prevented. They spent more than a year in therapy digging out from damage that should never have happened. Her symptoms were treated. She was not.

If your marriage feels like two roommates lately. If intimacy has quietly disappeared and neither of you knows how to say it out loud. If you are doing everything right and nothing is working. This episode is for you.

You are not broken. You are not incompatible. You are undiagnosed. And you deserved better information than the system gave you.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

Couples Operating System: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>657couplegoals,divorceadvice,greydivorce,husbandadvice,husbandsofinstagram,husbandwife,marriageadvice,marriageandmenopause,marriagehelp,menopausehusband,menopausemarriage,menopausepodcast,menopauserelationship,midlifemarriage,perimenopause,perimenopausecouples,perimenopausemarriage,survivingperimenopausefalse15full
Men Lost Their Minds and Explained MY BODY to mehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-lost-their-minds-and-explained-my-body-to-me--72287886
The response?

So many comments, including men explaining menopause to a woman who was living through it.

In Episode 14, Judy and David read real comments and take on five of the biggest myths about menopause, intimacy, hormones, marriage, and women's health.

Myths covered:
- Women stop wanting sex after 50
- Hormones are just an excuse
- Loss of desire means she's cheating
- Women should simply accept it
- Men are the real victims of menopause
This episode is about facts, relationships, and what actually happens when hormones change.

If you are navigating perimenopause, menopause, low desire, painful intimacy, relationship challenges, or trying to understand what your spouse is going through, this one is for you.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72287886Tue, 02 Jun 2026 11:00:02 +0000
Marriage and MenopauseJudy shared a reel about losing her desire during perimenopause. She said she missed it. She explained how she wanted it back in 2020. She discussed how HRT treatment helped. The response? So many comments, including men explaining menopause to a...
The response?

So many comments, including men explaining menopause to a woman who was living through it.

In Episode 14, Judy and David read real comments and take on five of the biggest myths about menopause, intimacy, hormones, marriage, and women's health.

Myths covered:
Women stop wanting sex after 50
Hormones are just an excuse
Loss of desire means she's cheating
Women should simply accept it
Men are the real victims of menopause
This episode is about facts, relationships, and what actually happens when hormones change.

If you are navigating perimenopause, menopause, low desire, painful intimacy, relationship challenges, or trying to understand what your spouse is going through, this one is for you.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com/products.html

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
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Lisa Lounsbury Talks Menopause With Ushttp://marriageandmenopausepodcast.com
In this episode, Judy and David sit down with Lisa Lounsbury, resilience and well-being expert and founder of New Day Wellness Inc., and she says the things most couples never hear until it is too late.

This is a clips episode. Real conversations. Grey divorce. Hormone decline in both partners. Why men need time to catch up. Why listening is the actual fix. What losing intimacy looks like from the husband side. What thriving after menopause actually looks like.

Lisa found us on Instagram and YouTube. She is at @the_wellness_lady on Instagram. Her website is newdaywellness.ca.

If your husband is trying to figure out what perimenopause is doing to your marriage, this episode is for him. If you are the wife who has been carrying this alone, this episode names what you are living.

If you are the couple who almost did not make it, this episode shows you the other side exists.

Everything we are building for couples navigating perimenopause together is at MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296

Follow on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast New episodes every Tuesday.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72161122Tue, 26 May 2026 11:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopausePerimenopause is ending marriages that should not end. In this episode, Judy and David sit down with Lisa Lounsbury, resilience and well-being expert and founder of New Day Wellness Inc., and she says the things most couples never hear until it is...
In this episode, Judy and David sit down with Lisa Lounsbury, resilience and well-being expert and founder of New Day Wellness Inc., and she says the things most couples never hear until it is too late.

This is a clips episode. Real conversations. Grey divorce. Hormone decline in both partners. Why men need time to catch up. Why listening is the actual fix. What losing intimacy looks like from the husband side. What thriving after menopause actually looks like.

Lisa found us on Instagram and YouTube. She is at @the_wellness_lady on Instagram. Her website is newdaywellness.ca.

If your husband is trying to figure out what perimenopause is doing to your marriage, this episode is for him. If you are the wife who has been carrying this alone, this episode names what you are living.

If you are the couple who almost did not make it, this episode shows you the other side exists.

Everything we are building for couples navigating perimenopause together is at MarriageAndMenopausePodcast.com

Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-and-menopause/id1895366296

Follow on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast New episodes every Tuesday.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>699and,couples menopause,decline,divorce hormone,divorce menopause,husband couples,intimacy perimenopause,marriage husband,marriage menopause,marriage perimenopause,menopause,menopause grey,menopause marriage,menopause menopause,perimenopause menopause,podcast marriage,podcast perimenopause,relationship perimenopause,support surviving,wellness genxfalse13fullShe Stopped Wanting Intimacy During Perimenopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/she-stopped-wanting-intimacy-during-perimenopause--72076802
Episode 12 of the Marriage and Menopause Podcast goes into the one thing couples stop talking about: desire.

Libido changes during perimenopause are not a choice. They are a hormonal imbalance. And when a husband does not understand that, he reads it as rejection. When a wife cannot explain it, she feels shame. Both of them pull back. The distance builds.

Judy and David have lived this. They read real journals from the years perimenopause was silently wrecking their physical closeness. They talk about what actually changed desire and what brought them back to each other.

This is marriage advice for couples navigating perimenopause together. A real couple telling you what nobody else will say out loud. If perimenopause has changed your relationship, this episode is for you.

If you are the husband trying to understand what happened, this episode is for you. Send it to someone whose marriage needs it.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Listen and subscribe: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/marriage-and-menopause--6897985

Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72076802Wed, 20 May 2026 00:52:53 +0000Marriage and MenopauseShe stopped wanting you. It was not the marriage. It was perimenopause. Episode 12 of the Marriage and Menopause Podcast goes into the one thing couples stop talking about: desire. Libido changes during perimenopause are not a choice. They are a...
Episode 12 of the Marriage and Menopause Podcast goes into the one thing couples stop talking about: desire.

Libido changes during perimenopause are not a choice. They are a hormonal imbalance. And when a husband does not understand that, he reads it as rejection. When a wife cannot explain it, she feels shame. Both of them pull back. The distance builds.

Judy and David have lived this. They read real journals from the years perimenopause was silently wrecking their physical closeness. They talk about what actually changed desire and what brought them back to each other.

This is marriage advice for couples navigating perimenopause together. A real couple telling you what nobody else will say out loud. If perimenopause has changed your relationship, this episode is for you.

If you are the husband trying to understand what happened, this episode is for you. Send it to someone whose marriage needs it.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Listen and subscribe: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/marriage-and-menopause--6897985

Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1014and,couples low,desire perimenopause,divorce couples,drive perimenopause,help marriage,intimacy menopause,libido,libido husband,marriage perimenopause,menopause,menopause hormonal,perimenopause,perimenopause menopause,podcast marriage,podcast perimenopause,relationship perimenopause,sex,support menopause,symptoms survivingfalse12fullHow Perimenopause Secretly Strengthens Your Relationshiphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-perimenopause-secretly-strengthens-your-relationship--71977542
They are wrong.

In this solo episode, David breaks down why perimenopause is not a crisis but a forced relationship reset that can build the strongest bond you have ever had. What you will learn in this episode: Why the crisis narrative is only half the story.

How radical honesty changes everything for both of you. Why redefining intimacy is the move most couples refuse to make. How to turn shared adversity into an unbreakable team. Whether you are the husband trying to figure out what happened to your marriage or the woman who feels like nobody understands what she is going through, this episode is for both of you.

Comment COUPLES on any of our social posts and David will send you the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

Subscribe so you do not miss Episode 12. That is the one about what actually happened to Judy's body. And what happened to David's. And why your wife probably stopped wanting you for a reason you have completely wrong.

Marriage and Menopause Podcast is hosted by Judy and David. New episodes every week.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71977542Tue, 12 May 2026 15:15:35 +0000Marriage and MenopauseEveryone tells you perimenopause will destroy your relationship. They are wrong. In this solo episode, David breaks down why perimenopause is not a crisis but a forced relationship reset that can build the strongest bond you have ever had. What you...
They are wrong.

In this solo episode, David breaks down why perimenopause is not a crisis but a forced relationship reset that can build the strongest bond you have ever had. What you will learn in this episode: Why the crisis narrative is only half the story.

How radical honesty changes everything for both of you. Why redefining intimacy is the move most couples refuse to make. How to turn shared adversity into an unbreakable team. Whether you are the husband trying to figure out what happened to your marriage or the woman who feels like nobody understands what she is going through, this episode is for both of you.

Comment COUPLES on any of our social posts and David will send you the free Menopause for Men Playbook.

Subscribe so you do not miss Episode 12. That is the one about what actually happened to Judy's body. And what happened to David's. And why your wife probably stopped wanting you for a reason you have completely wrong.

Marriage and Menopause Podcast is hosted by Judy and David. New episodes every week.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1428false11fullQ&A From the Audiencehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/q-a-from-the-audience--71613989
This episode is Judy and David reading through everything and answering the questions that kept showing up again and again across every platform.

What is the actual difference between perimenopause and menopause?
How do you keep a marriage intact when both of you are running on empty?
What do husbands need to hear that nobody is saying out loud?
When does it get better?
How do couples rebuild closeness when the body has changed the rules?

Some answers are fast. Some took longer because they deserved the time.

Nothing is softened and nothing is off limits.

This is episode ten and the audience made it with us.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71613989Tue, 05 May 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseTen episodes in and the questions have been piling up. Comments at 2am. DMs from husbands who do not know what to do. Messages from women who recognized themselves in something we said and needed to know what comes next. This episode is Judy and...
This episode is Judy and David reading through everything and answering the questions that kept showing up again and again across every platform.

What is the actual difference between perimenopause and menopause?
How do you keep a marriage intact when both of you are running on empty?
What do husbands need to hear that nobody is saying out loud?
When does it get better?
How do couples rebuild closeness when the body has changed the rules?

Some answers are fast. Some took longer because they deserved the time.

Nothing is softened and nothing is off limits.

This is episode ten and the audience made it with us.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1750couplescontent,genx,hormonehealth,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauseqa,perimenopause,realtalkfalse10fullPainful Intimacyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/painful-intimacy--71613853
Judy and David talk openly about what vaginal dryness actually is, why estrogen decline changes tissue and sensation, and why this is the conversation most couples avoid until the damage is done.

David shares what it felt like from the husband side. Judy shares what it felt like to lose a part of herself she did not expect to lose.

Most couples hit this wall and never talk about it. Intimacy becomes painful or stops completely and both people are suffering alone. He thinks she does not want him. She does not have words for what her body is doing.

Judy and David talk about why both partners end up carrying this in silence, and what couples can do when the physical part of their marriage has quietly shut down.

This is the conversation most podcasts will not have, and tells you what actually helps.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71613853Tue, 28 Apr 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseIf intimacy has become painful or has disappeared entirely, this episode is for you! Judy and David talk openly about what vaginal dryness actually is, why estrogen decline changes tissue and sensation, and why this is the conversation most couples...
Judy and David talk openly about what vaginal dryness actually is, why estrogen decline changes tissue and sensation, and why this is the conversation most couples avoid until the damage is done.

David shares what it felt like from the husband side. Judy shares what it felt like to lose a part of herself she did not expect to lose.

Most couples hit this wall and never talk about it. Intimacy becomes painful or stops completely and both people are suffering alone. He thinks she does not want him. She does not have words for what her body is doing.

Judy and David talk about why both partners end up carrying this in silence, and what couples can do when the physical part of their marriage has quietly shut down.

This is the conversation most podcasts will not have, and tells you what actually helps.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide: menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1978couplescontent,genx,hormonehealth,intimacyaftermenopause,marriageandmenopause,menopause,perimenopausefalse9fullWhy We Only Felt Powerful On Vacationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-we-only-felt-powerful-on-vacation--71505367
We used to go on cruises to reconnect. Every time we got on a ship, she was decisive. Engaged. Present. She initiated conversations, plans, everything. And every time we got home, I couldn't figure out where that woman went.

It wasn't a discipline problem. It wasn't a motivation problem. It wasn't a her problem. It was biology.

In this episode, Judy and David are filming live on the Royal Caribbean Star of the Seas for David's 58th birthday. Vacations were where they finally figured out what was actually happening. Vacations lowered cortisol. Sleep improved. The nervous system finally regulated. And temporarily, desire, drive, and executive function came back online.

Not because of the ocean. Because of what the ocean removed.

This episode is for every couple who only feels like a team when the stress disappears. Who wonders why the best version of their marriage requires a passport.

The cruise didn't fix them. Getting the biology right did. And this episode explains how. If you only thrive on vacation, the issue may not be your relationship. It may be your physiology.

Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Follow on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71505367Tue, 21 Apr 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseMarriage and Menopause Podcast Episode 9: Why We Only Felt Powerful On Vacation We used to go on cruises to reconnect. Every time we got on a ship, she was decisive. Engaged. Present. She initiated conversations, plans, everything. And every time we...
We used to go on cruises to reconnect. Every time we got on a ship, she was decisive. Engaged. Present. She initiated conversations, plans, everything. And every time we got home, I couldn't figure out where that woman went.

It wasn't a discipline problem. It wasn't a motivation problem. It wasn't a her problem. It was biology.

In this episode, Judy and David are filming live on the Royal Caribbean Star of the Seas for David's 58th birthday. Vacations were where they finally figured out what was actually happening. Vacations lowered cortisol. Sleep improved. The nervous system finally regulated. And temporarily, desire, drive, and executive function came back online.

Not because of the ocean. Because of what the ocean removed.

This episode is for every couple who only feels like a team when the stress disappears. Who wonders why the best version of their marriage requires a passport.

The cruise didn't fix them. Getting the biology right did. And this episode explains how. If you only thrive on vacation, the issue may not be your relationship. It may be your physiology.

Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Follow on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1297cortisol,hormonehealth,husbandadvice,marriageadvice,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauseandrelationships,menopausemarriage,perimenopause,perimenopauseandmarriage,perimenopausesymptoms,womenover40false8fullMenopause Rage and Marriage The Rage Is Real and What To Do About Ithttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/menopause-rage-and-marriage-the-rage-is-real-and-what-to-do-about-it--71100579
The rage is not a personality defect. It is a stress response that got turned up to maximum. Estrogen regulates serotonin. When estrogen drops, serotonin becomes unstable. Progesterone, the calming hormone, is declining too.

Sleep disruption is spiking cortisol. The stress threshold shrinks. What used to roll off her back now lands like a crisis. And nobody warned either of you it was coming.

In this episode, Judy and David break down why perimenopause rage happens, what four things are driving it, what makes it worse, and the exact scripts that lower the temperature without anyone swallowing their feelings.

This one is for the couple living on eggshells. For the husband who does not know what he did. For the woman who does not recognize herself in the blowup and carries the shame of it alone.

The rage is not who she is. It is what happens when the nervous system has nothing left. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Follow Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft
Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71100579Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseIf you are in perimenopause and you feel like your husband is breathing wrong, chewing wrong, existing wrong, you are not crazy. You are not mean. And you are not alone. The rage is not a personality defect. It is a stress response that got turned up...
The rage is not a personality defect. It is a stress response that got turned up to maximum. Estrogen regulates serotonin. When estrogen drops, serotonin becomes unstable. Progesterone, the calming hormone, is declining too.

Sleep disruption is spiking cortisol. The stress threshold shrinks. What used to roll off her back now lands like a crisis. And nobody warned either of you it was coming.

In this episode, Judy and David break down why perimenopause rage happens, what four things are driving it, what makes it worse, and the exact scripts that lower the temperature without anyone swallowing their feelings.

This one is for the couple living on eggshells. For the husband who does not know what he did. For the woman who does not recognize herself in the blowup and carries the shame of it alone.

The rage is not who she is. It is what happens when the nervous system has nothing left. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Follow Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft
Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1833husbandadvice,marriageadvice,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauseanger,menopausemarriage,menopauserage,menopausesupport,perimenopause,perimenopauseandmarriage,perimenopausesymptoms,womenover40false7fullThe Mental Load Is Killing Your Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-mental-load-is-killing-your-marriage--71100509
The mental load is not a chore list. It is the invisible operating system running in the background of every single day: who needs to go to the doctor, what almost ran out, what that look on his face meant, what she said she would do last week that she forgot because her brain is now held together with estrogen patches and hope.

And perimenopause made all of it unbearable.

In this episode, Judy and David get into what the mental load actually is, why perimenopause turns it into a breaking point, what David was doing that made it worse without knowing it, and what finally changed when the load actually lifted.

This is the episode for the couple where she is exhausted in a way that sleep does not fix. Where he is trying and she still feels alone. And neither of them has the language for what is actually wrong.

Today they name it. All of it. And give you a way through it together. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Follow Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71100509Tue, 07 Apr 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseShe is not asking for help. She is asking to be seen. The mental load is not a chore list. It is the invisible operating system running in the background of every single day: who needs to go to the doctor, what almost ran out, what that look on his...
The mental load is not a chore list. It is the invisible operating system running in the background of every single day: who needs to go to the doctor, what almost ran out, what that look on his face meant, what she said she would do last week that she forgot because her brain is now held together with estrogen patches and hope.

And perimenopause made all of it unbearable.

In this episode, Judy and David get into what the mental load actually is, why perimenopause turns it into a breaking point, what David was doing that made it worse without knowing it, and what finally changed when the load actually lifted.

This is the episode for the couple where she is exhausted in a way that sleep does not fix. Where he is trying and she still feels alone. And neither of them has the language for what is actually wrong.

Today they name it. All of it. And give you a way through it together. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

Follow Marriage and Menopause on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1957husbandadvice,marriageadvice,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopausemarriage,menopauserelationships,menopausesupport,mentalload,perimenopause,perimenopauseandmarriage,perimenopausesymptoms,womenover40false6fullWeird Symptoms of Perimenopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weird-symptoms-of-perimenopause--70981524
Hot flashes and mood swings are just the beginning.

In this episode Judy and David dig into the symptoms that catch women completely off guard and leave husbands wondering what they are even looking at: electric shock sensations, frozen shoulder, itchy skin, heart palpitations, and more.

Judy breaks down what these symptoms actually are, why they happen, and why they so often get missed or misdiagnosed. David talks about what it looked like from his side of the marriage and what he wishes he had understood sooner.

If you have ever been told your symptoms are stress or anxiety or just aging, this episode is for you. And if you are a husband watching your wife go through something you cannot explain, this one is for you too. Real talk. Both sides. No filter.

📖 Grab our free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

💛 Couples Playbook to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70981524Tue, 31 Mar 2026 11:00:02 +0000Marriage and MenopauseThe Weird Menopause Symptoms Nobody Warned Us About Hot flashes and mood swings are just the beginning. In this episode Judy and David dig into the symptoms that catch women completely off guard and leave husbands wondering what they are even...
Hot flashes and mood swings are just the beginning.

In this episode Judy and David dig into the symptoms that catch women completely off guard and leave husbands wondering what they are even looking at: electric shock sensations, frozen shoulder, itchy skin, heart palpitations, and more.

Judy breaks down what these symptoms actually are, why they happen, and why they so often get missed or misdiagnosed. David talks about what it looked like from his side of the marriage and what he wishes he had understood sooner.

If you have ever been told your symptoms are stress or anxiety or just aging, this episode is for you. And if you are a husband watching your wife go through something you cannot explain, this one is for you too. Real talk. Both sides. No filter.

📖 Grab our free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

💛 Couples Playbook to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>2018genxwomen,hormonehealth,husbandlife,marriageadvice,marriageandmenopause,menopause,menopauseawareness,menopausefriend,menopausesymptoms,midlifemarriage,perimenopause,perimenopausesymptoms,realmarriage,wedservebetter,weirdsymptomsfalse5fullIntimacy Decline during Perimenopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimacy-decline-during-perimenopause--70842061
Judy and David talk about what menopause actually does to desire, why both people end up hurting in silence, and the plan they used personally to rebuild closeness without pressure or resentment.

They cover the four types of intimacy shutdown that happen during perimenopause, the mistakes most couples make that quietly make everything worse, and the exact conversation scripts that work.

Then they walk through the 3-step reset, the Intimacy Ladder, and the full 14-day plan. This is not a lecture.

This is a real couple saying the quiet parts out loud.

Resources in this episode: Libido Fix Power Tool with the 14-day plan and scripts: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/nqatq

Menopause Marriage Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

New episodes every Tuesday. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70842061Tue, 24 Mar 2026 11:00:04 +0000Marriage and MenopauseIf your marriage has turned into roommates and physical closeness has basically stopped, this episode is for you. Judy and David talk about what menopause actually does to desire, why both people end up hurting in silence, and the plan they used...
Judy and David talk about what menopause actually does to desire, why both people end up hurting in silence, and the plan they used personally to rebuild closeness without pressure or resentment.

They cover the four types of intimacy shutdown that happen during perimenopause, the mistakes most couples make that quietly make everything worse, and the exact conversation scripts that work.

Then they walk through the 3-step reset, the Intimacy Ladder, and the full 14-day plan. This is not a lecture.

This is a real couple saying the quiet parts out loud.

Resources in this episode: Libido Fix Power Tool with the 14-day plan and scripts: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/nqatq

Menopause Marriage Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/rebust

Free Menopause for Men Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

New episodes every Tuesday. Wherever you are in your journey, you don't have to walk it alone.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>1322false4full
10 Tips to protect your marriage During Perimenopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-tips-to-protect-your-marriage-during-perimenopause--70673268
They cover stress sensitivity, sleep, physical touch, brain fog, sensory changes, intimacy, hot flashes, and more. No big overhaul. Just real tools that actually work.

In this episode Judy and David break down 10 small daily adjustments couples can start immediately. No overhaul. Just real shifts that protect your connection when menopause is rewriting the rules.

THE 10 ADJUSTMENTS
1. Stress Sensitivity -- Name the stressor, not your spouse
2. Sleep Disruption -- Audit your supplement stack and write tomorrow's list tonight
3. The 20-Second Hug -- One real daily hold. Use it before hard talks and after conflict
4. Brain Fog -- Stop expecting her brain to work the way it used to. Build shared systems
5. Sensory and Touch Changes -- Your job is to lower the stimulation, not fix the feeling
6. Validation Over Solutions -- She needs you to stay in the room, not solve the problem
7. Hot Flash Irritability -- Adjust her environment. No guilt attached
8. Micro-Dates Over Big Dates -- One hour of real presence beats three hours of obligation
9. Libido Unpredictability -- If you can't say it out loud yet, write it
10. Novelty and Bonding -- New experiences create new relationship energy. Build something together
RESOURCESFree Menopause for Husbands Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/robust

Subscribe on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

New episodes every Tuesday.

Menopause is measurable. Couples deserve preparation

#Perimenopause #MenopauseMarriage #MidlifeRelationships #GenXWomen #MenopauseSupport #MarriageAdvice #PerimenopauseAwareness

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70673268Tue, 17 Mar 2026 11:00:03 +0000
Marriage and Menopause73% of women say menopause damaged their marriage. This episode is for the couples who want to change that stat.Judy and David share 10 micro-adjustments -- small daily shifts that protect your marriage during the menopause transition. They cover...
They cover stress sensitivity, sleep, physical touch, brain fog, sensory changes, intimacy, hot flashes, and more. No big overhaul. Just real tools that actually work.

In this episode Judy and David break down 10 small daily adjustments couples can start immediately. No overhaul. Just real shifts that protect your connection when menopause is rewriting the rules.

THE 10 ADJUSTMENTS
Stress Sensitivity -- Name the stressor, not your spouse
Sleep Disruption -- Audit your supplement stack and write tomorrow's list tonight
The 20-Second Hug -- One real daily hold. Use it before hard talks and after conflict
Brain Fog -- Stop expecting her brain to work the way it used to. Build shared systems
Sensory and Touch Changes -- Your job is to lower the stimulation, not fix the feeling
Validation Over Solutions -- She needs you to stay in the room, not solve the problem
Hot Flash Irritability -- Adjust her environment. No guilt attached
Micro-Dates Over Big Dates -- One hour of real presence beats three hours of obligation
Libido Unpredictability -- If you can't say it out loud yet, write it
Novelty and Bonding -- New experiences create new relationship energy. Build something together
RESOURCESFree Menopause for Husbands Playbook: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/vziuft

Couples Guide to Surviving Perimenopause: https://menopausefriend.gumroad.com/l/robust

Subscribe on YouTube: youtube.com/@MarriageAndMenopausePodcast

New episodes every Tuesday.

Menopause is measurable. Couples deserve preparation

#Perimenopause #MenopauseMarriage #MidlifeRelationships #GenXWomen #MenopauseSupport #MarriageAdvice #PerimenopauseAwareness

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>
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Husbands' Guide to Wife's Menopausehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/husbands-guide-to-wife-s-menopause--70568257
In this episode of Marriage and Menopause, Judy and David talk honestly about what menopause looks like inside a real relationship. What surprised them. What caused tension. What actually helped. This conversation is not about blame. It is about understanding. Because menopause is not only a medical transition for women. It is a relationship transition for couples. If more men understood what was happening, far fewer marriages would suffer in silence. We Deserve Better. And that includes better information for men.

Listen and learn:
• What menopause actually feels like for women
• Why husbands often misinterpret the symptoms
• The communication shift that changes everything
• Small adjustments that protect connection during this transition

Marriage does not have to become another casualty of menopause. It can become stronger when both people understand what is really happening.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70568257Tue, 10 Mar 2026 14:12:34 +0000Marriage and MenopauseMost men are completely unprepared for menopause. Not because they don't care, but because almost no one has ever explained what is actually happening. Hot flashes. Mood swings. Exhaustion. Anxiety. Brain fog. Sleep disruption. Vaginal dryness. These...
In this episode of Marriage and Menopause, Judy and David talk honestly about what menopause looks like inside a real relationship. What surprised them. What caused tension. What actually helped. This conversation is not about blame. It is about understanding. Because menopause is not only a medical transition for women. It is a relationship transition for couples. If more men understood what was happening, far fewer marriages would suffer in silence. We Deserve Better. And that includes better information for men.

Listen and learn:
• What menopause actually feels like for women
• Why husbands often misinterpret the symptoms
• The communication shift that changes everything
• Small adjustments that protect connection during this transition

Marriage does not have to become another casualty of menopause. It can become stronger when both people understand what is really happening.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>2339advice midlife,and,awareness hormone,changes menopause,communication women,couples marriage,education menopause,health,help midlife,marriage menopause,marriage supporting,menopause,menopause menopause,menopause perimenopause marria,podcast women,relationships relationship,support menopause,symptoms husband,wife menopause,yourfalse2fullMenopause Ruined Our Marriage...Until We Fought Backhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/menopause-ruined-our-marriage-until-we-fought-back--70401556
And no one explains why. In this first episode of Marriage and Menopause, we pull the curtain back on what perimenopause and menopause actually do inside a relationship. Not the polite version. The real version.

We talk about:
• The invisible hormonal shift that changes how a woman feels in her own body
• Why husbands feel confused, rejected, or shut out
• How resentment quietly builds when symptoms go unnamed
• The marriage spiral that starts small and grows fast
• The tactical adjustments that stabilize home life immediately

This is not a blame session. This is a wake up call. When hormones shift, the rules change. Couples who refuse to learn the new rules drift. Couples who face it directly rebuild stronger. This show is for women who are done being dismissed.

This show is for men who want a playbook instead of guessing.

This show is for couples who refuse to lose a good marriage to biology. Couples deserve better. If this episode hits home, subscribe. Share it. Start the conversation tonight. This is the beginning of something stronger.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70401556Tue, 03 Mar 2026 12:00:03 +0000Marriage and MenopauseNo one prepares couples for this. One day your marriage feels steady. The next day everything feels harder. Patience thinner. Intimacy complicated. Conversations heavier. Reactions faster. Sleep gone. And no one explains why. In this first episode of...
And no one explains why. In this first episode of Marriage and Menopause, we pull the curtain back on what perimenopause and menopause actually do inside a relationship. Not the polite version. The real version.

We talk about:
• The invisible hormonal shift that changes how a woman feels in her own body
• Why husbands feel confused, rejected, or shut out
• How resentment quietly builds when symptoms go unnamed
• The marriage spiral that starts small and grows fast
• The tactical adjustments that stabilize home life immediately

This is not a blame session. This is a wake up call. When hormones shift, the rules change. Couples who refuse to learn the new rules drift. Couples who face it directly rebuild stronger. This show is for women who are done being dismissed.

This show is for men who want a playbook instead of guessing.

This show is for couples who refuse to lose a good marriage to biology. Couples deserve better. If this episode hits home, subscribe. Share it. Start the conversation tonight. This is the beginning of something stronger.

If this episode hit home, act on it. Share it with your spouse. Sit down. Talk. Lead the change inside your own home.

This show is for couples who refuse to drift. Who refuse to lose a strong marriage to hormones. Who are willing to learn new rules when the old ones stop working.

Stronger marriages.
Direct conversations.
No avoidance.

We Deserve Better.]]>168340 menopause,after,and,changes marriage,communication couples,help marriage,help menopause,in,intimacy midlife,marriage,marriage menopause,menopause,menopause perimenopause,midlife perimenopause,mood,podcast marriage,recovery midlife,relationship intimacy,support hormone,swings husbandfalse1full