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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Why Are We Still Doing This?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/why-are-we-still-doing-this--6825616</link><description><![CDATA[Raised in the 80s, trying to parent like its not. Mark hashes out everything from the complexity of failed toxic relationships and his disdain for narcissists, to simplistic fun filled stories featuring shenanigans from yesteryear, with a splash of nostalgia and a sprinkle of destruction caused by teenage angst.  Come along and be a part of things that, generally, Mark spends way too much energy thinking about.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6825616/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Comedy</category><copyright>Copyright Mark Jagiello</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg</url><title>Why Are We Still Doing This?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/why-are-we-still-doing-this--6825616</link></image><lastBuildDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 10:26:32 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Mark Jagiello</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Raised in the 80s, trying to parent like its not. Mark hashes out everything from the complexity of failed toxic relationships and his disdain for narcissists, to simplistic fun filled stories featuring shenanigans from yesteryear, with a splash of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Raised in the 80s, trying to parent like its not. Mark hashes out everything from the complexity of failed toxic relationships and his disdain for narcissists, to simplistic fun filled stories featuring shenanigans from yesteryear, with a splash of nostalgia and a sprinkle of destruction caused by teenage angst.  Come along and be a part of things that, generally, Mark spends way too much energy thinking about.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Comedy"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>Episode #34 "Why Are We Still Believing Everything Online?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-34-why-are-we-still-believing-everything-online--73608997</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 34, we dive into the exhaustion that is assisting the older generation in navigating the internet...and helping them understand what is and what is not reality, the danger in misinformation and why the people sharing it are still in the back of the classroom, why our relationship with MySpace was pure bliss and now we're stuck in a toxic marriage with Facebook, and why people would rather listen to a guy in a truck yelling about vaccines rather than a scientist.  <br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br />⁠buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis⁠<br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b10af506-d0bf-43c9-95f0-51b665a2bfdf</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73608997/428771988_44100_2_b6e582f031fbf.mp3" length="23968430" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 34, we dive into the exhaustion that is assisting the older generation in navigating the internet...and helping them understand what is and what is not reality, the danger in misinformation and why the people sharing it are still in the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 34, we dive into the exhaustion that is assisting the older generation in navigating the internet...and helping them understand what is and what is not reality, the danger in misinformation and why the people sharing it are still in the back of the classroom, why our relationship with MySpace was pure bliss and now we're stuck in a toxic marriage with Facebook, and why people would rather listen to a guy in a truck yelling about vaccines rather than a scientist.  <br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br />⁠buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis⁠<br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1498</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #33: "Why Are We Still Heckling Stand Up Comedians?" w/Charlie Nadler</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-33-why-are-we-still-heckling-stand-up-comedians-w-charlie-nadler--73142962</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 33, I'm joined by my friend and stand up comic Charlie Nadler. Charlie is a hilarious comic who I admire for the professionalism he puts forth in producing comedy shows in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts. <br />We talk about what needs to happen for a comedy show to be successful, including all the small details that the audience and, more importantly, club, restaurant, and business owners may overlook. We also touch on worst experiences in stand up, handling hecklers, and the difficulty in working out new material in an area with a lack of comedy open mics<br />You can find Charlie hosting regularly in the Berkshires at venues such as the Adams Theater, and Bouti-Fare Restaurant in Adams, MA <a href="https://www.adamstheater.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(https://www.adamstheater.org/</a>), Bright Ideas Brewing in North Adams, MA. (<a href="https://www.brightideasbrewing.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.brightideasbrewing.com/</a>). Charlie will also be appearing at the Saratoga Comedy Festival this September ( <a href="https://saratogacomedyfest.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://saratogacomedyfest.com/</a>) You can find everything Charlie is up to at:<a href="https://applewebdata//4D8F5C9B-C377-4722-BCEF-A4D9E9D2D9A3/www.charlienadler.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.charlienadler.com</a><br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br /><a href="https://applewebdata//4D8F5C9B-C377-4722-BCEF-A4D9E9D2D9A3/buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">73b2dea0-8b0e-4425-9f5d-fb557c07d584</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73142962/428421001_44100_2_8ff2c818fb11d.mp3" length="52501250" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 33, I'm joined by my friend and stand up comic Charlie Nadler. Charlie is a hilarious comic who I admire for the professionalism he puts forth in producing comedy shows in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts. 
We talk about what needs...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 33, I'm joined by my friend and stand up comic Charlie Nadler. Charlie is a hilarious comic who I admire for the professionalism he puts forth in producing comedy shows in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts. <br />We talk about what needs to happen for a comedy show to be successful, including all the small details that the audience and, more importantly, club, restaurant, and business owners may overlook. We also touch on worst experiences in stand up, handling hecklers, and the difficulty in working out new material in an area with a lack of comedy open mics<br />You can find Charlie hosting regularly in the Berkshires at venues such as the Adams Theater, and Bouti-Fare Restaurant in Adams, MA <a href="https://www.adamstheater.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(https://www.adamstheater.org/</a>), Bright Ideas Brewing in North Adams, MA. (<a href="https://www.brightideasbrewing.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.brightideasbrewing.com/</a>). Charlie will also be appearing at the Saratoga Comedy Festival this September ( <a href="https://saratogacomedyfest.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://saratogacomedyfest.com/</a>) You can find everything Charlie is up to at:<a href="https://applewebdata//4D8F5C9B-C377-4722-BCEF-A4D9E9D2D9A3/www.charlienadler.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.charlienadler.com</a><br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br /><a href="https://applewebdata//4D8F5C9B-C377-4722-BCEF-A4D9E9D2D9A3/buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3282</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #32: "Why Are We Still Afraid Of The Dark?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-32-why-are-we-still-afraid-of-the-dark--72912074</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 32, I recall the greatest freak out in the history of theme park dark rides, how our offspring inherit the same fears we had as children, how brain wiring affects how people react to fear, helping your child work through fear instead of shaming them, and a bizarre encounter with a scare actor in a haunted attraction in Salem, Massachusetts.<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br />buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis<br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6d85be93-0e96-41c5-93f0-d9c68ad71efd</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 08:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72912074/427693262_44100_2_9d922ea1b1e51.mp3" length="30364877" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 32, I recall the greatest freak out in the history of theme park dark rides, how our offspring inherit the same fears we had as children, how brain wiring affects how people react to fear, helping your child work through fear instead of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 32, I recall the greatest freak out in the history of theme park dark rides, how our offspring inherit the same fears we had as children, how brain wiring affects how people react to fear, helping your child work through fear instead of shaming them, and a bizarre encounter with a scare actor in a haunted attraction in Salem, Massachusetts.<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast on Spotify, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.<br />If you'd like to write in, you can do so at:whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />If you'd like to support the channel, you can do so at:<br />buymeacoffe.com/whyarewestilldoingthis<br />Also, please follow me on TikTok at:<br />whyarewestilldoingthispc]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1898</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #31: Why Are We Still Waking Up To Other People's Problems?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-31-why-are-we-still-waking-up-to-other-people-s-problems--72699546</link><description><![CDATA[Remember when you could wake up and not be bombarded with information, good or bad? <br />In Episode #31, we talk about doomscrolling immediately after opening your eyes as opposed to listening to the birds chirp, using a WAKE UP CALL and having your entire day hang in the balance of a complete stranger to get you out of bed, remembering a time of just not knowing something and not having the answer to every question at your fingertips, and having nothing to talk about with friends because they’re already told the world what’s going on in their life via social media.<br />If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so at <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExWEZoNGZsc2F0OFEyeUR0MnNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR4JnEyN4n7bkwSHhcbGm-VdjZmhp4XvlQ2fkGlSPRQZ8gTRTSZHkVI9mG7-BA_aem_RniU0jfkAPK_HhvVgz71AA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />If you'd like to follow me on TikTok, you can do so @whyarewestilldoingthispc<br />And if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e4e86dbd-a20c-4859-b278-045dead6bd28</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72699546/426853468_44100_2_e323dd4952c7d.mp3" length="37402892" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Remember when you could wake up and not be bombarded with information, good or bad? 
In Episode #31, we talk about doomscrolling immediately after opening your eyes as opposed to listening to the birds chirp, using a WAKE UP CALL and having your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Remember when you could wake up and not be bombarded with information, good or bad? <br />In Episode #31, we talk about doomscrolling immediately after opening your eyes as opposed to listening to the birds chirp, using a WAKE UP CALL and having your entire day hang in the balance of a complete stranger to get you out of bed, remembering a time of just not knowing something and not having the answer to every question at your fingertips, and having nothing to talk about with friends because they’re already told the world what’s going on in their life via social media.<br />If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so at <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExWEZoNGZsc2F0OFEyeUR0MnNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR4JnEyN4n7bkwSHhcbGm-VdjZmhp4XvlQ2fkGlSPRQZ8gTRTSZHkVI9mG7-BA_aem_RniU0jfkAPK_HhvVgz71AA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />If you'd like to follow me on TikTok, you can do so @whyarewestilldoingthispc<br />And if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #30: "Why Are We Still Fighting Children For Foul Balls?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-30-why-are-we-still-fighting-children-for-foul-balls--72496561</link><description><![CDATA[In episode #30, I have the unfortunate duty of sifting through dozens of comments by grown men who argue why they should keep a foul ball at a major league baseball game instead of making a random child’s day and passing it on to them.  This is in response to a TikTok I had made about how strongly I feel that making a kids day by gifting them a foul ball at a baseball game is by far a better feeling than keeping said ball, which will most likely end up in a random box in the far netheregions of the garage.  I’ll share a link to this particular TikTok in the show notes, but for now I’ll share my rebuttal to the ones that stuck out.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so at <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a>Check out my TikTok page at: https://www.tiktok.com/@whyarewestilldoingthispcAnd if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">19c48304-55e7-4869-85d6-54e271a7ecf0</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72496561/425985163_44100_2_51ec20d901305.mp3" length="27796936" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode #30, I have the unfortunate duty of sifting through dozens of comments by grown men who argue why they should keep a foul ball at a major league baseball game instead of making a random child’s day and passing it on to them.  This is in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode #30, I have the unfortunate duty of sifting through dozens of comments by grown men who argue why they should keep a foul ball at a major league baseball game instead of making a random child’s day and passing it on to them.  This is in response to a TikTok I had made about how strongly I feel that making a kids day by gifting them a foul ball at a baseball game is by far a better feeling than keeping said ball, which will most likely end up in a random box in the far netheregions of the garage.  I’ll share a link to this particular TikTok in the show notes, but for now I’ll share my rebuttal to the ones that stuck out.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so at <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis</a>Check out my TikTok page at: https://www.tiktok.com/@whyarewestilldoingthispcAnd if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1738</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>RE-RELEASE!: "Why We Should Still Be Doing Pride Month"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/re-release-why-we-should-still-be-doing-pride-month--72317696</link><description><![CDATA[Re-Release of a bonus episode, "Why We Should Still Be Doing Pride Month", first aired on June, 18th, 2025.<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f2d06442-b0aa-495f-85ab-a28b9241f5c8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72317696/a63a648a_d71e_b189_e3c6_aeea2e4f1267.mp3" length="13451306" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Re-Release of a bonus episode, "Why We Should Still Be Doing Pride Month", first aired on June, 18th, 2025.
Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Re-Release of a bonus episode, "Why We Should Still Be Doing Pride Month", first aired on June, 18th, 2025.<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>561</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #29: "Why Are We Still Nostalgic For a Lawless Childhood?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-29-why-are-we-still-nostalgic-for-a-lawless-childhood--72222946</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode #29, “Why Are We Still Nostalgic For A Lawless Childhood?”, we dive into why most enjoyable activities of a 1980s childhood have an element of pain, the “Book It!” program and how many of those certificates we actually earned, being a public school teacher in the 80s and 90s and parent communication ending when you leave the building, and the lost art of “getting dressed for the day."<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a949559e-abe3-43a3-9efa-d1ede847704a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72222946/425022558_44100_2_39a425e3c6646.mp3" length="30721396" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode #29, “Why Are We Still Nostalgic For A Lawless Childhood?”, we dive into why most enjoyable activities of a 1980s childhood have an element of pain, the “Book It!” program and how many of those certificates we actually earned, being a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode #29, “Why Are We Still Nostalgic For A Lawless Childhood?”, we dive into why most enjoyable activities of a 1980s childhood have an element of pain, the “Book It!” program and how many of those certificates we actually earned, being a public school teacher in the 80s and 90s and parent communication ending when you leave the building, and the lost art of “getting dressed for the day."<br />Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1921</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #28: "Why Are We Still Performing Stand Up Comedy At Applebees?" w/ Seth Brown</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-28-why-are-we-still-performing-stand-up-comedy-at-applebees-w-seth-brown--72017992</link><description><![CDATA[In episode #28, I'm joined by my good friend and award-winning writer, author, stand up comedian, and rapper Mr. Seth Brown.  Seth and I talk about our early days of stand up comedy in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts, and beyond, and the difficulty of keeping an open mic going, why “surprise comedy” is the worst kind of comedy and not good for anyone, some of the most dreadful experiences we’ve experienced in stand up, the process of joke writing, why some people think stand up comedy can happen anywhere (such as a chain restaurant), why a joke will destroy an audience one night and play to crickets the next, and so much more. You can find Seth's column, "The Pun Also Rises" every other Thursday in The Berkshire Eagle<a href="https://www.berkshireeagle.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.berkshireeagle.com</a>His Website:<a href="https://www.risingpun.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.risingpun.com</a>His newsletter at:<a href="https://buttondown.com/RisingPun" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buttondown.com/RisingPun</a>A Cheese Rap:<a href="https://torrentz.bandcamp.com/track/the-big-cheese-feat-ham-star-johnny-z" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://torrentz.bandcamp.com/track/the-big-cheese-feat-ham-star-johnny-z</a>A D&amp;D rap video:<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzT7OlsKd2A" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzT7OlsKd2A</a><br />And, again, if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com.And if you’d like to support the show, you can do so at:<a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">86d73e2c-a6ba-40a1-af06-4cf0c718fb92</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72017992/424174337_44100_2_2cc99051c4519.mp3" length="63792417" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode #28, I'm joined by my good friend and award-winning writer, author, stand up comedian, and rapper Mr. Seth Brown.  Seth and I talk about our early days of stand up comedy in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts, and beyond, and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode #28, I'm joined by my good friend and award-winning writer, author, stand up comedian, and rapper Mr. Seth Brown.  Seth and I talk about our early days of stand up comedy in the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts, and beyond, and the difficulty of keeping an open mic going, why “surprise comedy” is the worst kind of comedy and not good for anyone, some of the most dreadful experiences we’ve experienced in stand up, the process of joke writing, why some people think stand up comedy can happen anywhere (such as a chain restaurant), why a joke will destroy an audience one night and play to crickets the next, and so much more. You can find Seth's column, "The Pun Also Rises" every other Thursday in The Berkshire Eagle<a href="https://www.berkshireeagle.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.berkshireeagle.com</a>His Website:<a href="https://www.risingpun.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.risingpun.com</a>His newsletter at:<a href="https://buttondown.com/RisingPun" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://buttondown.com/RisingPun</a>A Cheese Rap:<a href="https://torrentz.bandcamp.com/track/the-big-cheese-feat-ham-star-johnny-z" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://torrentz.bandcamp.com/track/the-big-cheese-feat-ham-star-johnny-z</a>A D&amp;D rap video:<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzT7OlsKd2A" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzT7OlsKd2A</a><br />And, again, if you’d like to write in, you can do so at whyarewestilldoingthispodcast@gmail.com.And if you’d like to support the show, you can do so at:<a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3987</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #27: "Why Are Still In Love With 90's Colognes?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-27-why-are-still-in-love-with-90-s-colognes--71810132</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode #27, we explore scents of the 1990s that are both burned into our brain as well as our nose, major life events in our teenage years and the smells associated with such, keeping clothing items of those who have passed for a great big sensory hug when needed, smells from our past that can trigger a physical response decades later, the nostalgia of both cigarettes and marijuana and why I’d surprisingly rather smell one over the other, and how some of our favorite food and retail outlets have quietly changed their name and we didn’t even notice.  Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8a4bebe9-576a-472d-b352-d43bcd44f215</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2026 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71810132/423161943_44100_2_ab64b3040d512.mp3" length="33360809" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode #27, we explore scents of the 1990s that are both burned into our brain as well as our nose, major life events in our teenage years and the smells associated with such, keeping clothing items of those who have passed for a great big sensory...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode #27, we explore scents of the 1990s that are both burned into our brain as well as our nose, major life events in our teenage years and the smells associated with such, keeping clothing items of those who have passed for a great big sensory hug when needed, smells from our past that can trigger a physical response decades later, the nostalgia of both cigarettes and marijuana and why I’d surprisingly rather smell one over the other, and how some of our favorite food and retail outlets have quietly changed their name and we didn’t even notice.  Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2085</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3793d198411bdd25f7b193ef07822776.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #26: "Why Are We Still Smoking Cigarettes?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-26-why-are-we-still-smoking-cigarettes--71402247</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 26, we talk about the hilarity of SMOKING SECTIONS of our youth and how cigarettes are a nostalgic scent for kids of the 80s, Marlboro Miles and how our parents generation was slowly killing themselves to earn a cool leather jacket, cigarette vending machines and how sometimes all you needed was a note from your parents to buy cigarettes, the simplicity in the advice coming from a child regarding how to quit smoking for good, why sharing a meal at a restaurant while you’re already making six figures is bad policy, working in customer service and why everyone should work on Black Friday at least once in their life, and what year you’d need to have been born to officially qualify to be an “80s Kid.” Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:<br /><a href="https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2FWhyarewestilldoingthis%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExM1VIdFNQakpLVlFsVW92eHNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR53oJme4A3-ypcjhDfETlrwURg7t7Z2pU2dDb6ySdbS5dl-5_m5-b1-RlDvCg_aem_dl6YZWmGyzYthSBwWxfVCg&amp;h=AT71irAnw4gKEIiohvdn3Fyqw53Gyxz01p7ZdqBOerOqvBZaoeisotFzRUxkR2vMbK9fbQskxmQFJ19wd8WwzfopYWc-5PdraPxUiVrSlAyyTTM7PdYGvbCiAKuVA5EtxZe0zlQFn4bDB0mA0SrAYY_dUZOvwIto2FE&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c%5B0%5D=AT4v_kc3aERk-PfFxi8PlOcb2R2XG_cEvf2jwE_9WGAq_kgrzhNqO7MUs8PjTtw4JxfAWafxu6Kqgoq5AK3UdiKqaIJd0h2jfLSTWEaFdzaOjtfmbV6WXjJ8rC1deLYLDwTJfi--zBbgvmuFQhoTNLr_" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">06924b38-c593-40b1-8511-aa6ee00ea1fd</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71402247/422231932_44100_2_b9f4c3b70b74c.mp3" length="35524165" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 26, we talk about the hilarity of SMOKING SECTIONS of our youth and how cigarettes are a nostalgic scent for kids of the 80s, Marlboro Miles and how our parents generation was slowly killing themselves to earn a cool leather jacket,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 26, we talk about the hilarity of SMOKING SECTIONS of our youth and how cigarettes are a nostalgic scent for kids of the 80s, Marlboro Miles and how our parents generation was slowly killing themselves to earn a cool leather jacket, cigarette vending machines and how sometimes all you needed was a note from your parents to buy cigarettes, the simplicity in the advice coming from a child regarding how to quit smoking for good, why sharing a meal at a restaurant while you’re already making six figures is bad policy, working in customer service and why everyone should work on Black Friday at least once in their life, and what year you’d need to have been born to officially qualify to be an “80s Kid.” Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:<br /><a href="https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2FWhyarewestilldoingthis%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBExM1VIdFNQakpLVlFsVW92eHNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR53oJme4A3-ypcjhDfETlrwURg7t7Z2pU2dDb6ySdbS5dl-5_m5-b1-RlDvCg_aem_dl6YZWmGyzYthSBwWxfVCg&amp;h=AT71irAnw4gKEIiohvdn3Fyqw53Gyxz01p7ZdqBOerOqvBZaoeisotFzRUxkR2vMbK9fbQskxmQFJ19wd8WwzfopYWc-5PdraPxUiVrSlAyyTTM7PdYGvbCiAKuVA5EtxZe0zlQFn4bDB0mA0SrAYY_dUZOvwIto2FE&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c%5B0%5D=AT4v_kc3aERk-PfFxi8PlOcb2R2XG_cEvf2jwE_9WGAq_kgrzhNqO7MUs8PjTtw4JxfAWafxu6Kqgoq5AK3UdiKqaIJd0h2jfLSTWEaFdzaOjtfmbV6WXjJ8rC1deLYLDwTJfi--zBbgvmuFQhoTNLr_" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2221</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/63fe9e96f3ed95ae7f2a2f2a71fc0016.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #25: "Why Are We Still Buying Our Clothes At Costco?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-25-why-are-we-still-buying-our-clothes-at-costco--71081428</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 25, we’re discussing the excitement and sadness that millennials endure when buying clothing from the same place you buy a rotisserie chicken, buying food from TJMaxx why it should be studied, the disappointment of walking into an Abercrombie and Fitch in 2026 and expecting it took as it did in 2003, navigating the mall on a Friday night as a teenager in 2026 compared to 1996, competition and one upping each other and the blunt and unfortunate reason why kids put each other down, why we wait so long to pick up the phone to call someone from our past, and the greatest day I ever had doing absolutely nothing.If you’d like to support the show, you can do so by buying me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b013b2ea-b65b-4bb2-a1f2-c2352580eed0</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2026 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71081428/421283956_44100_2_5fc410ed13f07.mp3" length="47175196" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 25, we’re discussing the excitement and sadness that millennials endure when buying clothing from the same place you buy a rotisserie chicken, buying food from TJMaxx why it should be studied, the disappointment of walking into an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 25, we’re discussing the excitement and sadness that millennials endure when buying clothing from the same place you buy a rotisserie chicken, buying food from TJMaxx why it should be studied, the disappointment of walking into an Abercrombie and Fitch in 2026 and expecting it took as it did in 2003, navigating the mall on a Friday night as a teenager in 2026 compared to 1996, competition and one upping each other and the blunt and unfortunate reason why kids put each other down, why we wait so long to pick up the phone to call someone from our past, and the greatest day I ever had doing absolutely nothing.If you’d like to support the show, you can do so by buying me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2949</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #24: "Why Are We Still Pretending Like COVID Didn't Happen?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-24-why-are-we-still-pretending-like-covid-didn-t-happen--70775733</link><description><![CDATA[In episode #24, I'm joined by my wife, Kristen, to talk about the little bit of good, the lots of bad, and the incredibly tragic of the early days of COVID-19.  We reminisce about the amount of time we spent as a family and how we’ll never have that much time together again, educators and families both trying to survive remote learning, having to parent both our children and our parents during the pandemic, the frustration with misinformation and conspiracy theories running amok on social media at the time, fostering a relationship with a family member due to the world slowing down, the selfishness and lack of empathy that was magnified from certain people, wiping down groceries, how COVID accelerated the demise of schools using paper and pencil, and above all…never getting to say goodbye to a parent who died alone but ultimately receiving closure through an incredibly vivid and unexpected way.A deep, emotional, and difficult conversation, episode #24 is dedicated to the memory of Tony DeMarco, my father in-law.Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">58f3e1da-4cff-4f45-bd82-5a89148f4ca6</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70775733/22a79b48_1e84_d3c3_e351_06b06bc9a72a.mp3" length="91131529" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode #24, I'm joined by my wife, Kristen, to talk about the little bit of good, the lots of bad, and the incredibly tragic of the early days of COVID-19.  We reminisce about the 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and unexpected way.A deep, emotional, and difficult conversation, episode #24 is dedicated to the memory of Tony DeMarco, my father in-law.Why Are We Still Doing This? is a biweekly podcast that can be found on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeart Radio, or wherever you get your podcasts.  If you’d like to support the channel, you can do so by buying me a coffee at:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3797</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #23: "Why Do We Still Have A Soft Spot For Childhood Movies?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-23-why-do-we-still-have-a-soft-spot-for-childhood-movies--70501590</link><description><![CDATA[In episode #23, we’re talking about the stranglehold that movies like Home Alone have on our childhood and our desire as parents to share our childhood classics with our children, why were all still doing kids stuff as adults and don’t even realize it, why parents need to both show up and shut up to their kids sporting events, and the abusive relationship people in the Northeast have with its beaches.<br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">108c003f-5973-403a-8f48-911dbafb5666</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70501590/419125988_44100_2_b3eb685097357.mp3" length="34359313" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode #23, we’re talking about the stranglehold that movies like Home Alone have on our childhood and our desire as parents to share our childhood classics with our children, why were all still doing kids stuff as adults and don’t even realize...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode #23, we’re talking about the stranglehold that movies like Home Alone have on our childhood and our desire as parents to share our childhood classics with our children, why were all still doing kids stuff as adults and don’t even realize it, why parents need to both show up and shut up to their kids sporting events, and the abusive relationship people in the Northeast have with its beaches.<br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2148</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #22: "Why Are Men Still Driving F350s To Their Office Job?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-22-why-are-men-still-driving-f350s-to-their-office-job--70175119</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 22, Colin, Scott, and I touch on cigarette guy vs vaping guy…what kind of car they might drive, and how truck brands are ingrained in family lineage, mens groups and where men feel the most pressure in their lives, parents who think food, clothing, and shelter are all kids need, the dangers in finding solace in online men’s groups and why men can’t take accountability, the once attractiveness of smoking and the death of Joe Camel.<br />If you'd like to support the show, you can do so by buying me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />“Why Are We Still Doing This?” can be found on Spotify, Amazon Music, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5ead4723-028d-4361-9303-d48c14631704</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2026 10:00:00 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you can do so by buying me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />“Why Are We Still Doing This?” can be found on Spotify, Amazon Music, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3060</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #21: “Why Are Men Still Screwing Up Valentines Day?"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-21-why-are-men-still-screwing-up-valentines-day--69842855</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I'm once again joined by my friends Scott Balawender and Colin Moran. We talk about how some people, including myself, have frontloaded all their good gift ideas for their spouse and why it's not really that bad of an idea, what advice we’d give to guys on their first Valentine’s Day, how gifts you give evolve over time and why the best gifts aren’t always something tangible, the absurdity of thinking that buying your wife a car is a thoughtful gift, reminiscing about passing out valentines day cards in Elementary school and that rush you’d get in receiving a valentine from your crush, parents who give their kids bikes for Easter, and so much more. <br />If you'd like to support the show, buy me a coffee at:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1b0364ef-6514-4688-a07a-c69c0815a8ed</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69842855/417527834_44100_2_9676b743caabb.mp3" length="46105220" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I'm once again joined by my friends Scott Balawender and Colin Moran. We talk about how some people, including myself, have frontloaded all their good gift ideas for their spouse and why it's not really that bad of an idea, what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I'm once again joined by my friends Scott Balawender and Colin Moran. We talk about how some people, including myself, have frontloaded all their good gift ideas for their spouse and why it's not really that bad of an idea, what advice we’d give to guys on their first Valentine’s Day, how gifts you give evolve over time and why the best gifts aren’t always something tangible, the absurdity of thinking that buying your wife a car is a thoughtful gift, reminiscing about passing out valentines day cards in Elementary school and that rush you’d get in receiving a valentine from your crush, parents who give their kids bikes for Easter, and so much more. <br />If you'd like to support the show, buy me a coffee at:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2882</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #20: "Why Do We Still Think We Know Everything About Relationships?" Part 2 w/Colin Moran and Scott Balawender</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-20-why-do-we-still-think-we-know-everything-about-relationships-part-2-w-colin-moran-and-scott-balawender--69558401</link><description><![CDATA[ In part two of my conversation with Scott Balawener an Colin Moran: “Why Do We Still Think We Know Everything About Relationships", we talk about the importance of being present with our kids and why you need to stop asking them so many questions when they get home, quality time vs quantity of time with kids and cramming it all in before age 10 , the evolving role of modern dads and why they’re better than they’ve ever been, the importance of emotional awareness in schools, finding the right therapist and breaking the stigma around going to therapy.<br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee.  It helps the show and is greatly appreciated!buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6ede65bc-1b08-475f-9837-84f55799eed8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69558401/416567793_44100_2_2c622b5bab965.mp3" length="53048358" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle> In part two of my conversation with Scott Balawener an Colin Moran: “Why Do We Still Think We Know Everything About Relationships", we talk about the importance of being present with our kids and why you need to stop asking them so many questions...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ In part two of my conversation with Scott Balawener an Colin Moran: “Why Do We Still Think We Know Everything About Relationships", we talk about the importance of being present with our kids and why you need to stop asking them so many questions when they get home, quality time vs quantity of time with kids and cramming it all in before age 10 , the evolving role of modern dads and why they’re better than they’ve ever been, the importance of emotional awareness in schools, finding the right therapist and breaking the stigma around going to therapy.<br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee.  It helps the show and is greatly appreciated!buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3316</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #19: Why Do We Still Think We Know Everything About Relationships?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-19-why-do-we-still-think-we-know-everything-about-relationships--69370711</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 19 is the first episode in a collection of conversations regarding all things relationships, marriages, parenting, toxic masculinity and everything else leading up to Valentines Day with my friends Colin Moran and Scott Balawender.  In this show, we revisit a point from an earlier solo podcast-why we’re not coming clean with our friends about how awful their partner is, breaking the cycle of living in a dysfunctional household and modeling what a good relationship should look like for your children, painting a picture of a perfect marriage on social media when in reality you’re numb and living a lie, dating as a single parent and not wanting to be “that guy” bringing a new girl around every 6 weeks, strange addictions, why people enjoy watching others fail, and some of the WORST SHARK TANK PITCHES OF ALL TIME.<br />If you like what you hear, please consider helping out the show and buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b917214b-4df9-4444-91fe-9df6dfdffe2e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69370711/415751177_44100_2_430e18efd54f.mp3" length="55021543" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 19 is the first episode in a collection of conversations regarding all things relationships, marriages, parenting, toxic masculinity and everything else leading up to Valentines Day with my friends Colin Moran and Scott Balawender.  In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 19 is the first episode in a collection of conversations regarding all things relationships, marriages, parenting, toxic masculinity and everything else leading up to Valentines Day with my friends Colin Moran and Scott Balawender.  In this show, we revisit a point from an earlier solo podcast-why we’re not coming clean with our friends about how awful their partner is, breaking the cycle of living in a dysfunctional household and modeling what a good relationship should look like for your children, painting a picture of a perfect marriage on social media when in reality you’re numb and living a lie, dating as a single parent and not wanting to be “that guy” bringing a new girl around every 6 weeks, strange addictions, why people enjoy watching others fail, and some of the WORST SHARK TANK PITCHES OF ALL TIME.<br />If you like what you hear, please consider helping out the show and buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3439</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #18: Why Are We Still Afraid Of Being Rejected?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-18-why-are-we-still-afraid-of-being-rejected--69209753</link><description><![CDATA[In episode #18, we're talking about what solidifies or confirms that two people are in a relationship...and what we thought that looked like in our teenage years, trying to be smooth and putting your arm over a girls shoulder in a movie theater when you're 14, the importance of "experience" gifts and creating memories for kids, the catastrophic reaction to being rejected by a boy or girl in high school, what mom's REALLY want for mother's day, the crucial life skills that today's kids don't get to practice that were torturous in the 80s and 90s, working as a special education teacher in a substantially separate classroom, and the lack of privacy you had growing up with a corded phone.  <br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1d551b5f-982c-4dcf-8c5e-2d248374934a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69209753/415004150_44100_2_7d7e5e062e671.mp3" length="36831960" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode #18, we're talking about what solidifies or confirms that two people are in a relationship...and what we thought that looked like in our teenage years, trying to be smooth and putting your arm over a girls shoulder in a movie theater when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode #18, we're talking about what solidifies or confirms that two people are in a relationship...and what we thought that looked like in our teenage years, trying to be smooth and putting your arm over a girls shoulder in a movie theater when you're 14, the importance of "experience" gifts and creating memories for kids, the catastrophic reaction to being rejected by a boy or girl in high school, what mom's REALLY want for mother's day, the crucial life skills that today's kids don't get to practice that were torturous in the 80s and 90s, working as a special education teacher in a substantially separate classroom, and the lack of privacy you had growing up with a corded phone.  <br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2302</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #17: Why Are We Still Counting Down The Days?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-17-why-are-we-still-counting-down-the-days--69078186</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 17, we’re asking why we’re still doing countdowns for things in our lives and realizing we should just live in the moment, being 17 and being excited about all the things an 18 or 21 year old can do, why time seems to go by so much faster as you get older, the Northeast’s toxic relationship with winter, our generations exhaustion with parenting two generations at the same time, a downstairs neighbor from hell, and why are we still thinking children cannot hear adult conversations<br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bcd83c4c-b1c7-4a23-ba2f-a968717abf9b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078186/414203100_44100_2_724dc53531ae5.mp3" length="34739656" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 17, we’re asking why we’re still doing countdowns for things in our lives and realizing we should just live in the moment, being 17 and being excited about all the things an 18 or 21 year old can do, why time seems to go by so much faster...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 17, we’re asking why we’re still doing countdowns for things in our lives and realizing we should just live in the moment, being 17 and being excited about all the things an 18 or 21 year old can do, why time seems to go by so much faster as you get older, the Northeast’s toxic relationship with winter, our generations exhaustion with parenting two generations at the same time, a downstairs neighbor from hell, and why are we still thinking children cannot hear adult conversations<br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2172</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #16: Why Are We Still Overcomplicating Our Wedding Day?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-16-why-are-we-still-overcomplicating-our-wedding-day--69078188</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 16, we explore why we're overcomplicating our wedding day-and asking the question "who is our wedding really for?" We reminisce about motels...and infamous college town eateries... we slept, and dined in, during our youth that we wouldn't dare step foot into as an adult with children, how we all have that one friend who always passes out in a plate of food at the end of a late night, my loathe of pizza places with an encyclopedia for a menu and questioning why hot dogs are a part of it, food you ate at 2am in your 20s that you'd never eat in your 40s and sober, being a wedding DJ in 2025 and wondering if its all smoke and mirrors now with everything digital, why renting a tuxedo is a huge waste of money and why you're better off just going to JCPenney, and the unexpected...ungodly smell of the Baltimore Harbor in warm weather. <br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee...buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">41f7b4d5-84ce-438c-919f-0e3a78d1b477</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078188/413566202_44100_2_c226e77ded497.mp3" length="42467303" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 16, we explore why we're overcomplicating our wedding day-and asking the question "who is our wedding really for?" We reminisce about motels...and infamous college town eateries... we slept, and dined in, during our youth that we wouldn't...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 16, we explore why we're overcomplicating our wedding day-and asking the question "who is our wedding really for?" We reminisce about motels...and infamous college town eateries... we slept, and dined in, during our youth that we wouldn't dare step foot into as an adult with children, how we all have that one friend who always passes out in a plate of food at the end of a late night, my loathe of pizza places with an encyclopedia for a menu and questioning why hot dogs are a part of it, food you ate at 2am in your 20s that you'd never eat in your 40s and sober, being a wedding DJ in 2025 and wondering if its all smoke and mirrors now with everything digital, why renting a tuxedo is a huge waste of money and why you're better off just going to JCPenney, and the unexpected...ungodly smell of the Baltimore Harbor in warm weather. <br />If you like what you hear, buy me a coffee...buymeacoffee.com/whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2655</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #15: Why Are We Still Neglecting Public Schools?-Part 2 w/Scott Balawender</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-15-why-are-we-still-neglecting-public-schools-part-2-w-scott-balawender--69078192</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 15, we talk about what personnel needed to run a school in 2025 compared to the 1980s, and how most people have no clue what that looks like, getting back to the basics of home economics and life skills taught in school, instead of learning about volcanoes, Pangea, and other stuff you’ll never use, personal stories about some of our favorite teachers growing up, and highlighting what makes a good teacher today in 2025, the hilarity of watching today’s youth navigate a wired telephone, and so much more.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3920d629-6e6a-4408-9235-81bcb4f20e64</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078192/412426705_44100_2_66ea3b7b576f6.mp3" length="47912476" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 15, we talk about what personnel needed to run a school in 2025 compared to the 1980s, and how most people have no clue what that looks like, getting back to the basics of home economics and life skills taught in school, instead of learning...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 15, we talk about what personnel needed to run a school in 2025 compared to the 1980s, and how most people have no clue what that looks like, getting back to the basics of home economics and life skills taught in school, instead of learning about volcanoes, Pangea, and other stuff you’ll never use, personal stories about some of our favorite teachers growing up, and highlighting what makes a good teacher today in 2025, the hilarity of watching today’s youth navigate a wired telephone, and so much more.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2995</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #14: Why Are We Still Neglecting Public Schools?-Part 1 w/Scott Balawender</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-14-why-are-we-still-neglecting-public-schools-part-1-w-scott-balawender--69078194</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 14, I’m joined by my friend and Middle School Adjustment Counselor, Scott Balawender for a two part series , “Why Are We Still Neglecting Public Schools.”In part one we talk about our career paths, the importance of building relationships with kids in a school setting and why it’s important for classroom management, challenges facing kids that are far greater than some can imagine, instant gratification and lack of social interactions with today's children, the ideal staffing needed for running a classroom in 2025, recognizing kids that are flying under the radar, the need for teachers to call home when something GOOD happens, and school staff taking the emotion out of their response when a child is dysregulated.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:<br /><br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">96e47766-3efd-492d-b0f8-f1e58f757747</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078194/e85611de_6105_f91f_710a_31a0f8b65d60.mp3" length="49866419" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 14, I’m joined by my friend and Middle School Adjustment Counselor, Scott Balawender for a two part series , “Why Are We Still Neglecting Public Schools.”In part one we talk about our career paths, the importance of building relationships...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 14, I’m joined by my friend and Middle School Adjustment Counselor, Scott Balawender for a two part series , “Why Are We Still Neglecting Public Schools.”In part one we talk about our career paths, the importance of building relationships with kids in a school setting and why it’s important for classroom management, challenges facing kids that are far greater than some can imagine, instant gratification and lack of social interactions with today's children, the ideal staffing needed for running a classroom in 2025, recognizing kids that are flying under the radar, the need for teachers to call home when something GOOD happens, and school staff taking the emotion out of their response when a child is dysregulated.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:<br /><br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2078</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #13: Why Are We Still Afraid Of Ghosts? w/Colin and Kevin Moran</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-13-why-are-we-still-afraid-of-ghosts-w-colin-and-kevin-moran--69078202</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 13, a very special Halloween edition of Why Are We Still Doing This?, I'm joined by two of my best friends Kevin and Colin Moran. We talk about the history of their childhood home and the robust amount of paranormal activity over the past 50 years, hilarious Ouija board shenanigans from our youth, a spine chilling recount of coming face to face with an apparition, rules and conditions for ghosts and how they should haunt, connecting with family members long after they’ve left this earth, and much more.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">926009c5-518e-4b85-b158-6328fe6d3390</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078202/e4656279_273b_ba9d_6b1b_95409278297c.mp3" length="137212157" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 13, a very special Halloween edition of Why Are We Still Doing This?, I'm joined by two of my best friends Kevin and Colin Moran. We talk about the history of their childhood home and the robust amount of paranormal activity over the past...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 13, a very special Halloween edition of Why Are We Still Doing This?, I'm joined by two of my best friends Kevin and Colin Moran. We talk about the history of their childhood home and the robust amount of paranormal activity over the past 50 years, hilarious Ouija board shenanigans from our youth, a spine chilling recount of coming face to face with an apparition, rules and conditions for ghosts and how they should haunt, connecting with family members long after they’ve left this earth, and much more.<br />If you like what you hear, feel free to buy me a coffee:buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5717</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #12: Why Are We Still Not Fitting In?-w/Ron Werth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-12-why-are-we-still-not-fitting-in-w-ron-werth--69078196</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 12 I’m joined by my friend Ron Werth, a fellow stand up comic, theater aficionado, and someone who was recently diagnosed with Autism as an adult. We talk about the science behind autism, growing old and thinking about why you did certain things as a kid and realizing that there was nothing wrong with you to begin with, the percentage of stand up comedians with autism, masking and what it means in the world of autism, preconceived notions and naive assumptions about people with autism, having a brain that’s constantly on a loop, giving your body what it really needs, and ultimately trying to fit in with the world while at the same time not caring to fit in at all.  We had a bit of technical difficulties, which you’ll notice in one small spot, because the internet where I live is very inconsistent.If you’re interested in following Ron’s journey, you can do so on TikTok and Instagram at This Is Rons Life (all one word).<br />Like what you hear? Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a9e017b6-4d2d-4ad6-a7ef-1b0d9789bf95</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078196/24d2234b_4010_c448_53d6_e59221667ebf.mp3" length="63276639" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 12 I’m joined by my friend Ron Werth, a fellow stand up comic, theater aficionado, and someone who was recently diagnosed with Autism as an adult. We talk about the science behind autism, growing old and thinking about why you did certain...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 12 I’m joined by my friend Ron Werth, a fellow stand up comic, theater aficionado, and someone who was recently diagnosed with Autism as an adult. We talk about the science behind autism, growing old and thinking about why you did certain things as a kid and realizing that there was nothing wrong with you to begin with, the percentage of stand up comedians with autism, masking and what it means in the world of autism, preconceived notions and naive assumptions about people with autism, having a brain that’s constantly on a loop, giving your body what it really needs, and ultimately trying to fit in with the world while at the same time not caring to fit in at all.  We had a bit of technical difficulties, which you’ll notice in one small spot, because the internet where I live is very inconsistent.If you’re interested in following Ron’s journey, you can do so on TikTok and Instagram at This Is Rons Life (all one word).<br />Like what you hear? Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2637</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #11: Why Are We Still Not Wearing Deodorant To Comic Con?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-11-why-are-we-still-not-wearing-deodorant-to-comic-con--69078189</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 11, we talk about the Fan Expo in Boston, Massachusetts from this past August and why you’ll never find happier people than those at a Comic Con, shooting the breeze with John Cena, being part of the “good weird” crowd, letting go of antiquated and made up social norms, the plethora of smells we encounter when waiting in line to meet our childhood heroes at these events, the difference between a “want”and a “need” and the audacity of people using a Go Fund Me for anything other than a life changing tragedy.<br /><br />Like what you hear? Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">87fde98c-5a6b-4b4d-be18-4eaaebaba192</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078189/b17b881b_ece5_4350_2371_8633a22b7f82.mp3" length="54574102" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 11, we talk about the Fan Expo in Boston, Massachusetts from this past August and why you’ll never find happier people than those at a Comic Con, shooting the breeze with John Cena, being part of the “good weird” crowd, letting go of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 11, we talk about the Fan Expo in Boston, Massachusetts from this past August and why you’ll never find happier people than those at a Comic Con, shooting the breeze with John Cena, being part of the “good weird” crowd, letting go of antiquated and made up social norms, the plethora of smells we encounter when waiting in line to meet our childhood heroes at these events, the difference between a “want”and a “need” and the audacity of people using a Go Fund Me for anything other than a life changing tragedy.<br /><br />Like what you hear? Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2274</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #10: Why Are We Still Longing For Retro Gaming-Part 3 w/Jesse Littlejohn</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-why-are-we-still-longing-for-retro-gaming-part-3-w-jesse-littlejohn--69078185</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 10, we talk about the place where most of our core teenage memories lived, as well as the home of most arcades: the mall. We talk about how our local newspaper spoiled a video game Christmas surprise for one of us, general mall nostalgia, including the smells that take us back, some of the worst places to eat in a mall food court, the lust for physical media in a digital age, the quest to collect every Super Nintendo game, the shot of dopamine that nostalgia gives people, the escapism in playing retro gaming, and the unlikely resurrection of one of our favorite childhood restaurants that nobody asked for.<br />Like what you hear? Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1cf03cbb-d87f-4d8b-b890-21bbbab0929f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69078185/b99f5e85_6d91_b9b5_c524_bf1b0be96f31.mp3" length="41377667" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Mark Jagiello</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 10, we talk about the place where most of our core teenage memories lived, as well as the home of most arcades: the mall. We talk about how our local newspaper spoiled a video game Christmas surprise for one of us, general mall nostalgia,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 10, we talk about the place where most of our core teenage memories lived, as well as the home of most arcades: the mall. 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Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1724</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #9: Why Are We Still Going Back To The Same Places For Family Vacations?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-why-are-we-still-going-back-to-the-same-places-for-family-vacations--69078190</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 9, we’re talking about why we continue to return to the same places every year for family vacation and why it’s totally ok, hotel amenities back in the day that really weren’t amenities, why vacations with small children are not always relaxing and why they’re not meant to be, and the magic in taking your kids to the places you went as a child.We’re also talking about travel sports, including how it can upend your entire schedule but you make it work because you wouldn’t have it any other way, and how we as adults used to think we were busy before having children. <br />Like what you hear? 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Buy me a cup of coffee:<br />buymeacoffee.com/Whyarewestilldoingthis]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1340</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #5: Why Are We Still Getting Emotionally Invested In Professional Sports As Grown Adults?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-why-are-we-still-getting-emotionally-invested-in-professional-sports-as-grown-adults--69078195</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 5, I tell a story about how a grown man who never washed his hands almost cause me to self sabotage and not finish my Masters Degree, my favorite pet dying and why cat owners are psychotic compared to dog owners, why a championship drought is healthy for your hometown team, and WHY ARE WE STILL GETTING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN PROFESSIONAL SPORTS AS GROWN ADULTS?<br />Like what you hear? 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Buckle up. ..

</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this BONUS EPISODE of the Why Are We Still Doing This podcast, we explore why opponents of Pride Month ALWAYS say the same thing every June, or generally anytime an LGBTQ initiative doesn't fit their mold of "normal." <br />Buckle up. ..<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>561</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69329212b98d12c04bbab428e18d7336.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #4: Why Are We Still Hanging On To Our Children's Old Toys</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-4-why-are-we-still-hanging-on-to-our-children-s-old-toys--69078201</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 4, we’re pondering why we’re still taking pictures of our food and if anyone would care in 1988, the healing powers of nostalgia and how it’s getting millennials through the day, longing for poor quality Polaroids as opposed to high megapixel images, the cocky flex that chicken owners flaunt, the Wild West that was purchasing event tickets before the internet, how bowling is the only sport you can order mozzarella sticks part way through the game, the emotional rollercoaster of taking your children to a re-release of your favorite movie, how sports fans can be so confident and so wrong when finding their seats at a game, how Star Wars fans ruined Star Wars and the influence of influencers on how we watch movies today, having a healthy hatred for another pro sports franchise, the stamina that the youngest generation lacks when waiting in line, desk jobs before the internet, trying to comprehend how Babe Ruth hit 714 home runs with the physique of a current day Yankee Stadium hot dog vendor, and WHY ARE WE STILL HOLDING ON TO OUR CHILDREN’S OLD TOYS?<br />Like what you hear? 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