https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/wine-by-the-fire-with-sassyv--6792324 If you're ready for comfort, reflection, and a little sass served with your self-care...welcome to the Fire. 
New episode every week. Grab your wine- let's talk.

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New episode every week. Grab your wine- let's talk.

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