Unicorns Do Exist

Unicorns Do Existhttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/unicorns-do-exist--6771931enPersonal JournalsCopyright Vanessa Ruizhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4eb26f4fbdf4f78458e66b5e44beaef5.jpgUnicorns Do Existhttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/unicorns-do-exist--6771931Thu, 16 Jul 2026 13:33:16 +0000Vanessa RuizVanessa Ruizunicornsdoexistpodcast@gmail.comMeet Vanessa — first-gen Latina, single mom, lesbian, life coach, and your new hype-woman for healing and high vibes. In Unicorns Do Exist, she’s breaking stigmas, spilling a little cheesemé, and serving real talk about mental health, heartbreak, and...falseepisodic38: We Came to Talk About Dating. Childhood Trauma Had Other Planshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/38-we-came-to-talk-about-dating-childhood-trauma-had-other-plans--73014532
This week's episode of Unicorns Do Exist was supposed to be about dating as a single mom—but somewhere between childhood stories, relationship advice, family trauma, and plenty of laughs, it became one of the deepest conversations we've ever recorded.Vanessa is joined by a trusted friend for an unfiltered conversation about what modern dating really looks like, why single moms deserve better, how childhood shapes our relationships, and what healthy masculinity actually looks like today.Together, they dive into:

Dating after divorce and as a single parent
Growing up in Latino families and breaking generational trauma
Why emotional intelligence is one of the sexiest green flags
Therapy, vulnerability, and why healing isn't just for women
What men wish women understood—and what women wish men would finally say out loud.
Building healthy relationships instead of repeating old patterns

Raw, funny, vulnerable, and full of the dark humor that makes Unicorns Do Exist feel like you're talking with your best friends at 2 a.m., this conversation became so powerful that we couldn't fit it into one episode.✨ Part 2 drops next week—and trust us, you're going to want to hear where this conversation goes next.

If you're navigating dating, healing after heartbreak, or learning to love yourself again, this episode is for you.Follow @Fkn_Rabbit on Tiktok & IG: el_conejo_tatuado]]>audioboom-019f69fd-4263-714a-8dd8-2434150489c2Thu, 16 Jul 2026 13:13:00 +0000Vanessa RuizWhat happens when you ask a man for his honest perspective... and he actually tells the truth? This week's episode of Unicorns Do Exist was supposed to be about dating as a single mom—but somewhere between childhood stories, relationship advice,...
This week's episode of Unicorns Do Exist was supposed to be about dating as a single mom—but somewhere between childhood stories, relationship advice, family trauma, and plenty of laughs, it became one of the deepest conversations we've ever recorded.Vanessa is joined by a trusted friend for an unfiltered conversation about what modern dating really looks like, why single moms deserve better, how childhood shapes our relationships, and what healthy masculinity actually looks like today.Together, they dive into:

Dating after divorce and as a single parent
Growing up in Latino families and breaking generational trauma
Why emotional intelligence is one of the sexiest green flags
Therapy, vulnerability, and why healing isn't just for women
What men wish women understood—and what women wish men would finally say out loud.
Building healthy relationships instead of repeating old patterns

Raw, funny, vulnerable, and full of the dark humor that makes Unicorns Do Exist feel like you're talking with your best friends at 2 a.m., this conversation became so powerful that we couldn't fit it into one episode.✨ Part 2 drops next week—and trust us, you're going to want to hear where this conversation goes next.

If you're navigating dating, healing after heartbreak, or learning to love yourself again, this episode is for you.Follow @Fkn_Rabbit on Tiktok & IG: el_conejo_tatuado]]>2891false38full37: Mexico, Messi & The Magic of Human Connectionhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/37-mexico-messi-the-magic-of-human-connection--72888823Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa shares how a tournament she never expected to love became a powerful reminder of what truly connects us. From cheering for Mexico with family to witnessing heartbreaking moments of cruelty—and inspiring acts of kindness—this episode explores the beautiful (and messy) reality of being human.You'll hear stories about community, culture, healing old wounds, finding pride in your roots, and why empathy matters now more than ever. Vanessa also dives into viral World Cup moments, internet justice, the importance of speaking up when something is wrong, and how one simple game can unite millions of people across languages, beliefs, and borders.If you've ever felt disconnected, missed home, questioned humanity, or needed a reminder that good people still exist, this episode is for you.✨ In this episode:

Why the World Cup became about so much more than soccer
The healing power of family, culture, and community
The difference between celebrating life and losing your humanity
How social media can hold people accountable
Finding hope in a world that often feels divided
Why seeing life through the eyes of love changes everything

Because sometimes the greatest victory isn't lifting a trophy... it's remembering we're all on the same team.🎙️ New episodes every week.Don't forget... Unicorns Do Exist. And yes, you are one of them.]]>audioboom-019f4530-f84e-7e06-8759-3ede43dfd177Thu, 09 Jul 2026 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizThis week on https://www.instagram.com/unicornsdoexistpod?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Vanessa shares how a tournament she never expected to love became a powerful reminder of what truly connects us. From cheering for Mexico with family...Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa shares how a tournament she never expected to love became a powerful reminder of what truly connects us. From cheering for Mexico with family to witnessing heartbreaking moments of cruelty—and inspiring acts of kindness—this episode explores the beautiful (and messy) reality of being human.You'll hear stories about community, culture, healing old wounds, finding pride in your roots, and why empathy matters now more than ever. Vanessa also dives into viral World Cup moments, internet justice, the importance of speaking up when something is wrong, and how one simple game can unite millions of people across languages, beliefs, and borders.If you've ever felt disconnected, missed home, questioned humanity, or needed a reminder that good people still exist, this episode is for you.✨ In this episode:

Why the World Cup became about so much more than soccer
The healing power of family, culture, and community
The difference between celebrating life and losing your humanity
How social media can hold people accountable
Finding hope in a world that often feels divided
Why seeing life through the eyes of love changes everything

Because sometimes the greatest victory isn't lifting a trophy... it's remembering we're all on the same team.🎙️ New episodes every week.Don't forget... Unicorns Do Exist. And yes, you are one of them.]]>1130false37full36: We're All Gonna Die... So You Might As Well Be Happyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/36-we-re-all-gonna-die-so-you-might-as-well-be-happy--72694513
In this heartfelt and surprisingly funny episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with special guest Marco for a raw conversation about grief, healing, manifestation, personal growth, and the people who enter our lives exactly when we need them most.Together they explore how pain can become our greatest teacher, why some relationships are meant to help us grow instead of stay, and how shifting your mindset can completely transform your reality. From losing parents at a young age to overcoming depression, challenging cultural beliefs, and learning to trust the journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and a few laughs along the way.You'll hear conversations about:
🦄 Why pain is often the world's most expensive life coach
✨ Healing after loss and heartbreak
🦄 The truth about loneliness, healing, and human connection
✨ Relationships, love, and personal growth
🦄 Breaking cultural expectations and creating your own reality
✨ Why some people are sent into your life for a reasonThis episode is equal parts wisdom, laughter, spiritual awakening, and "well... that escalated quickly."So if you've been feeling stuck, heartbroken, lost, or like life has personally selected you as its favorite chew toy, this conversation might be exactly what you need.
After all, we're all headed to the same destination eventually.You might as well enjoy the ride.🦄 Hit play, send this episode to the friend who needs a gentle shove out of their existential crisis, and remember:Unicorns do exist. Sometimes they're just slightly traumatized, heavily caffeinated, and figuring it out one bad decision at a time.

#UnicornsDoExist #Manifestation #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthPodcast #LawOfAttraction #SelfDevelopment #MindsetShift #AbundanceMindset #SpiritualGrowth #LifeLessons]]>audioboom-019f0082-38dd-71ad-9b13-dee3fe27537cThu, 25 Jun 2026 20:39:21 +0000Vanessa RuizHave you ever met someone and instantly felt like they were meant to cross your path? In this heartfelt and surprisingly funny episode of https://www.instagram.com/unicornsdoexistpod?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrVanessa sits down with...
In this heartfelt and surprisingly funny episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with special guest Marco for a raw conversation about grief, healing, manifestation, personal growth, and the people who enter our lives exactly when we need them most.Together they explore how pain can become our greatest teacher, why some relationships are meant to help us grow instead of stay, and how shifting your mindset can completely transform your reality. From losing parents at a young age to overcoming depression, challenging cultural beliefs, and learning to trust the journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and a few laughs along the way.You'll hear conversations about:
🦄 Why pain is often the world's most expensive life coach
✨ Healing after loss and heartbreak
🦄 The truth about loneliness, healing, and human connection
✨ Relationships, love, and personal growth
🦄 Breaking cultural expectations and creating your own reality
✨ Why some people are sent into your life for a reasonThis episode is equal parts wisdom, laughter, spiritual awakening, and "well... that escalated quickly."So if you've been feeling stuck, heartbroken, lost, or like life has personally selected you as its favorite chew toy, this conversation might be exactly what you need.
After all, we're all headed to the same destination eventually.You might as well enjoy the ride.🦄 Hit play, send this episode to the friend who needs a gentle shove out of their existential crisis, and remember:Unicorns do exist. Sometimes they're just slightly traumatized, heavily caffeinated, and figuring it out one bad decision at a time.

#UnicornsDoExist #Manifestation #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthPodcast #LawOfAttraction #SelfDevelopment #MindsetShift #AbundanceMindset #SpiritualGrowth #LifeLessons]]>1734false36full35: He Mentioned Disneyland and I Immediately Needed Therapyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/35-he-mentioned-disneyland-and-i-immediately-needed-therapy--72586415
If you've ever rebuilt your life after divorce, struggled with vulnerability, or found yourself pushing away good people because getting close feels terrifying, this episode is for you.Because sometimes healing isn't learning how to be alone.Sometimes healing is learning how to let someone stay.🎙️ In this episode:

Dating after divorce as a single mom
When to introduce someone to your child
Fear of commitment and vulnerability
Healthy boundaries vs emotional walls
Blended families and rebuilding trust
Letting go of survival mode
Learning to receive love again

Dating after divorce as a single mom
When to introduce someone to your child
Fear of commitment and vulnerability
Healthy boundaries vs emotional walls
Blended families and rebuilding trust
Letting go of survival mode
Learning to receive love again

Whether you're navigating single motherhood, healing from heartbreak, or wondering if you're sabotaging your own happiness, grab your coffee, your emotional support snack, and let's unpack it together.Because apparently...I survived divorce. Disneyland is what almost took me out. 🏰💀🦄
🎧 Subscribe to Unicorns Do Exist for honest conversations about relationships, dating, personal growth, healing, mental health, self-discovery, motherhood, and creating a life you love after heartbreak. ]]>1225false35full34: We're Gay, Traumatized & Somehow Still Alivehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/34-we-re-gay-traumatized-somehow-still-alive--72489339
This Pride Month, we're having the conversation that too many people are afraid to have.In one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest episodes of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with a longtime friend to unpack the realities of growing up LGBTQ+ in Latino families, battling mental health struggles, navigating addiction, surviving devastating heartbreak, and finding the courage to heal.From childhood trauma and family expectations to recovery, self-acceptance, and learning how to embrace your authentic self, this episode pulls back the curtain on experiences many people live through—but few are willing to talk about openly.You'll hear stories about:
✨ Growing up gay in a traditional Hispanic household
✨ Mental health stigma in the LGBTQ+ and Latino communities
✨ Addiction, recovery, and reclaiming your life
✨ Family trauma, forgiveness, and healing generational wounds
✨ First heartbreaks that leave lasting scars
✨ Self-love, resilience, and personal transformation
✨ Why authenticity is the greatest act of courageIf you've ever felt different, struggled with depression, anxiety, addiction, grief, identity, or simply wondered if life gets better after your darkest moments—this episode is for you.

Because healing isn't linear. Recovery isn't perfect. And sometimes the strongest people are the ones who have fallen apart and chosen to rebuild anyway.⚠️ Fair warning: This conversation may make you laugh, cry, reflect, and see your own story in a completely different light.Don't wait to listen to this one. Someone you love—or maybe even you—needs to hear this message today.Thank you Juan For sharing your Storry with us 🎧 Press play now and join the conversation.

#PrideMonth #LGBTQPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #AddictionRecovery #HealingJourney #SelfLove #LatinoCommunity #PersonalGrowth #TraumaHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #ComingOutStory #Pride2026 #UnicornsDoExist #LifeCoachingPodcast #AuthenticLiving #RecoveryStory #LGBTQVoices #HealingAfterHeartbreak #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForWomenAndMen]]>audioboom-019eb8b3-4eed-75a7-9ce1-c59a4a833a65Thu, 11 Jun 2026 22:00:18 +0000Vanessa RuizWhat if the very things that almost broke you were actually shaping the person you're meant to become? This Pride Month, we're having the conversation that too many people are afraid to have.In one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest episodes of...
This Pride Month, we're having the conversation that too many people are afraid to have.In one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest episodes of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa sits down with a longtime friend to unpack the realities of growing up LGBTQ+ in Latino families, battling mental health struggles, navigating addiction, surviving devastating heartbreak, and finding the courage to heal.From childhood trauma and family expectations to recovery, self-acceptance, and learning how to embrace your authentic self, this episode pulls back the curtain on experiences many people live through—but few are willing to talk about openly.You'll hear stories about:
✨ Growing up gay in a traditional Hispanic household
✨ Mental health stigma in the LGBTQ+ and Latino communities
✨ Addiction, recovery, and reclaiming your life
✨ Family trauma, forgiveness, and healing generational wounds
✨ First heartbreaks that leave lasting scars
✨ Self-love, resilience, and personal transformation
✨ Why authenticity is the greatest act of courageIf you've ever felt different, struggled with depression, anxiety, addiction, grief, identity, or simply wondered if life gets better after your darkest moments—this episode is for you.

Because healing isn't linear. Recovery isn't perfect. And sometimes the strongest people are the ones who have fallen apart and chosen to rebuild anyway.⚠️ Fair warning: This conversation may make you laugh, cry, reflect, and see your own story in a completely different light.Don't wait to listen to this one. Someone you love—or maybe even you—needs to hear this message today.Thank you Juan For sharing your Storry with us 🎧 Press play now and join the conversation.

#PrideMonth #LGBTQPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #AddictionRecovery #HealingJourney #SelfLove #LatinoCommunity #PersonalGrowth #TraumaHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #ComingOutStory #Pride2026 #UnicornsDoExist #LifeCoachingPodcast #AuthenticLiving #RecoveryStory #LGBTQVoices #HealingAfterHeartbreak #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForWomenAndMen]]>4147false34full33: The Story They Tried to Use Against Mehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/33-the-story-they-tried-to-use-against-me--72348802In this raw, emotional, and deeply personal Pride Month episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa opens up about a part of her story she's never fully shared before.After a recent court battle where her past mental health struggles were used in an attempt to question her ability to be a mother, Vanessa refuses to stay silent. She takes listeners back to a traumatic event from 2018, the PTSD episode that changed her life, her journey through depression, anxiety, therapy, medication, and the powerful lessons she learned about healing, resilience, and self-advocacy.This episode isn't about being a victim—it's about surviving, rebuilding, and becoming stronger than anyone thought possible.Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, PTSD, childhood trauma, LGBTQ+ acceptance, or simply trying to heal from life's hardest moments, this conversation will remind you that your story does not define your future.✨ In this episode, you'll learn:

Why asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness
How PTSD, anxiety, and depression can impact everyday life
The truth about therapy, medication, and healing
Why staying silent to keep the peace often costs you your own peace
How to develop a stronger mindset after trauma
The powerful message Vanessa wishes every young person could hear

Why asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness
How PTSD, anxiety, and depression can impact everyday life
The truth about therapy, medication, and healing
Why staying silent to keep the peace often costs you your own peace
How to develop a stronger mindset after trauma
The powerful message Vanessa wishes every young person could hear

If you've ever felt alone, misunderstood, judged by your past, or like your hardest battles are invisible to everyone around you, this episode is for you.Because the people who keep going when life knocks them down aren't broken...They're the unicorns.🦄 Listen now. This may be the episode someone you love needs to hear today.]]>1895false33full32: Why Am I Blushing Over a Man? Someone Call My Therapisthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/32-why-am-i-blushing-over-a-man-someone-call-my-therapist--72212871This episode is pure Chisme, chaos, and character development. I’m talking dating after a decade-long relationship, postpartum confidence, rediscovering my flirt game, deleting Hinge 47 times, giving out fake numbers, and entering my fluid era like a telenovela plot twist.We get into:
• dating as a newly single mom
• feminine energy vs masculine energy
• why waxing + coffee scrubs = personality traits
• kissing like I forgot how
• men with zero emotional intelligence
• and the identity crisis of “coming out” as straight… againIf you need a laugh, a cry, or a “girl, SAME,” this episode is it.✨ Follow the podcast & listen NOW — your healed, unhinged era starts here.
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]]>audioboom-019e6f9f-cfd6-71ce-baab-200c062bb487Thu, 28 May 2026 17:26:44 +0000Vanessa Ruiz"I went from ‘men are gross’ to ‘WAIT… why is HE cute?’ Send help!" This episode is pure Chisme, chaos, and character development. I’m talking dating after a decade-long relationship, postpartum confidence, rediscovering my flirt game, deleting Hinge...This episode is pure Chisme, chaos, and character development. I’m talking dating after a decade-long relationship, postpartum confidence, rediscovering my flirt game, deleting Hinge 47 times, giving out fake numbers, and entering my fluid era like a telenovela plot twist.We get into:
• dating as a newly single mom
• feminine energy vs masculine energy
• why waxing + coffee scrubs = personality traits
• kissing like I forgot how
• men with zero emotional intelligence
• and the identity crisis of “coming out” as straight… againIf you need a laugh, a cry, or a “girl, SAME,” this episode is it.✨ Follow the podcast & listen NOW — your healed, unhinged era starts here.
Listen now • Episode_description_help

]]>2988false32full31: You’ve Changed… Good!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/31-you-ve-changed-good--72098005In Episode 31 of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa dives deep into the magic, the mess, and the miracles of change, growth, motherhood, identity shifts, and choosing yourself — even when it scares people who preferred the old version of you.From childhood survival mode to becoming a mother, from heartbreak to healing, from shedding old identities to stepping into your power, this episode is a reminder that you are meant to transform. Just like rivers flow, snakes shed, and caterpillars become butterflies, we are here to evolve — not stay stuck.Inside this episode, we explore:
🦄 Why change is not betrayal — it’s evolution
🌙 How motherhood rewires your heart and priorities
✨ Letting go of relationships that don’t grow with you
🔥 Why staying the same is the real danger
🌈 How to trust the whisper inside you that says “there has to be more”
💫 The magic of choosing yourself, again and again

This is a soul‑shifting conversation about growth, identity, healing, and the courage it takes to become the next version of you — the version your inner unicorn always knew you could be.🎧 Press play and step into your magic.
Because unicorns do exist… and you, my love, are one of them.Follow @Unicorns Do Exist ]]>audioboom-019e47ad-1368-7577-9d47-6186e5056ec2Thu, 21 May 2026 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you’ve ever been told “you’ve changed”… this episode is your permission slip to evolve. In Episode 31 of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa dives deep into the magic, the mess, and the miracles of change, growth, motherhood, identity shifts, and choosing...In Episode 31 of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa dives deep into the magic, the mess, and the miracles of change, growth, motherhood, identity shifts, and choosing yourself — even when it scares people who preferred the old version of you.From childhood survival mode to becoming a mother, from heartbreak to healing, from shedding old identities to stepping into your power, this episode is a reminder that you are meant to transform. Just like rivers flow, snakes shed, and caterpillars become butterflies, we are here to evolve — not stay stuck.Inside this episode, we explore:
🦄 Why change is not betrayal — it’s evolution
🌙 How motherhood rewires your heart and priorities
✨ Letting go of relationships that don’t grow with you
🔥 Why staying the same is the real danger
🌈 How to trust the whisper inside you that says “there has to be more”
💫 The magic of choosing yourself, again and again

This is a soul‑shifting conversation about growth, identity, healing, and the courage it takes to become the next version of you — the version your inner unicorn always knew you could be.🎧 Press play and step into your magic.
Because unicorns do exist… and you, my love, are one of them.Follow @Unicorns Do Exist ]]>1229false31full30: I Don’t Break — I Recalibratehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/30-i-don-t-break-i-recalibrate--72005469audioboom-019e2409-8bdd-76b7-8f94-973284b31e8cThu, 14 May 2026 13:06:00 +0000Vanessa Ruiz There’s a special kind of strength that comes out when someone tries to shake a mother’s peace — and in this episode, Vanessa steps into that power with honesty, fire, and zero sugar‑coating. This is the raw truth of what happens when alignment gets...1546false30full29: Damned If You Stay, Judged If You Leavehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/29-damned-if-you-stay-judged-if-you-leave--71912933In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real about the judgment women face no matter what they choose — stay, leave, forgive, start over, evolve. Pulling from her own story and the stories of women around her, she breaks down why choosing yourself is the most powerful (and hardest) decision you’ll ever make.From Becky G to Karol G, from our mothers to our daughters, from long-term relationships to short healing ones — this episode is a reminder that divorce isn’t a failure, outgrowing someone isn’t a failure, and choosing peace is never selfish.

If you’re in that “in‑between” stage — not who you were, not yet who you’re becoming — this one will hit home.
You’re not losing anything. You’re returning to yourself.✨ Listen now, share it with a friend who needs clarity, and don’t forget to follow the podcast for more episodes that feel like a warm hug and a wake‑up call at the same time.

]]>audioboom-019e0429-4efd-7d1a-bbef-383034b16aa4Thu, 07 May 2026 20:37:55 +0000Vanessa RuizAre you staying because you’re happy… or because you’re scared? In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real about the judgment women face no matter what they choose — stay, leave, forgive, start over, evolve. Pulling from her own story...In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real about the judgment women face no matter what they choose — stay, leave, forgive, start over, evolve. Pulling from her own story and the stories of women around her, she breaks down why choosing yourself is the most powerful (and hardest) decision you’ll ever make.From Becky G to Karol G, from our mothers to our daughters, from long-term relationships to short healing ones — this episode is a reminder that divorce isn’t a failure, outgrowing someone isn’t a failure, and choosing peace is never selfish.

If you’re in that “in‑between” stage — not who you were, not yet who you’re becoming — this one will hit home.
You’re not losing anything. You’re returning to yourself.✨ Listen now, share it with a friend who needs clarity, and don’t forget to follow the podcast for more episodes that feel like a warm hug and a wake‑up call at the same time.

]]>1372false29full28: Shedding My Old Self: The Four Agreements That Changed My Lifehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/28-shedding-my-old-self-the-four-agreements-that-changed-my-life--71805666
From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work are finally paying off. I also break down The Four Agreements and how these principles continue to shape my life, my peace, and the way I show up in the world.If you’re evolving, shedding, or rebuilding your identity, this episode will feel like a warm reminder that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who’s leveling up too.IG @unicornsdoexist]]>audioboom-019de1d5-6668-773b-ac74-98b18a53e216Fri, 01 May 2026 04:39:11 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you’ve been feeling like you’re shedding old versions of yourself and stepping into a whole new era… this episode is your sign.his week, I’m talking about the massive inner shift I’ve been going through — the kind of growth where you look at...
From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work are finally paying off. I also break down The Four Agreements and how these principles continue to shape my life, my peace, and the way I show up in the world.If you’re evolving, shedding, or rebuilding your identity, this episode will feel like a warm reminder that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who’s leveling up too.IG @unicornsdoexist]]>2429false28full28: Shedding My Old Self, The Four Agreements That Changed My Lifehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/28-shedding-my-old-self-the-four-agreements-that-changed-my-life--71802502
From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work are finally paying off. I also break down The Four Agreements and how these principles continue to shape my life, my peace, and the way I show up in the world.If you’re evolving, shedding, or rebuilding your identity, this episode will feel like a warm reminder that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who’s leveling up too.IG @unicornsdoexist]]>audioboom-019de152-3271-72c3-b7e2-5a82752c72c3Fri, 01 May 2026 02:15:53 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you’ve been feeling like you’re shedding old versions of yourself and stepping into a whole new era… this episode is your sign.his week, I’m talking about the massive inner shift I’ve been going through — the kind of growth where you look at...
From healing old wounds to reprogramming my mind, I share how years of meditation and self‑work are finally paying off. I also break down The Four Agreements and how these principles continue to shape my life, my peace, and the way I show up in the world.If you’re evolving, shedding, or rebuilding your identity, this episode will feel like a warm reminder that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.Follow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who’s leveling up too.IG @unicornsdoexist]]>1447false28full27: When Is Enough Enough?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/27-when-is-enough-enough--71601412
Follow @unicornsdoexist ]]>audioboom-019dbce5-2076-725c-a293-34873f94fa42Fri, 24 Apr 2026 00:30:25 +0000Vanessa Ruiz This episode is for anyone who’s tired of being the “nice one,” tired of being tested, and tired of people trying to drag them back into an old story they’ve already outgrown. If you’re learning boundaries, protecting your peace, and choosing your...
Follow @unicornsdoexist ]]>1447false27full26: The Breakup After the Breakuphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/26-the-breakup-after-the-breakup--71214561In this episode, I’m picking up exactly where we left off — the breakup, the co‑parenting chaos, the Mexico trip, the mixed signals, the boundaries, the disrespect, the healing, the “let my people deal with you,” ALL OF IT.This is the episode where the fog lifts, the truth hits, and the receipts come out.
If you’ve ever tried to co‑parent with someone who wants the perks of the relationship without the responsibility… yeah, you’re gonna feel this in your chest.We’re talking:

Post‑breakup confusion and emotional whiplash
Co‑parenting when one person still acts like you’re together
Setting boundaries even when it hurts
Choosing your peace over the past
And the moment I realized… oh, she really thought we were getting back together?

Post‑breakup confusion and emotional whiplash
Co‑parenting when one person still acts like you’re together
Setting boundaries even when it hurts
Choosing your peace over the past
And the moment I realized… oh, she really thought we were getting back together?

This is raw. This is real. This is Latina‑mom healing in real time.
And if you’ve ever been the “strong one,” the “present parent,” the “one who holds it all together”… this episode is your hug and your hype.🎧 Press play NOW — because if you miss this part, you’re gonna be lost.
This is the chapter everyone’s been waiting for.👉 Listen, share, and tag me when you scream “GIRL, SAME.”
Unicorns Do Exist ]]>2898false26full25: The Divorce That Broke Me Open (and Saved Me)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/25-the-divorce-that-broke-me-open-and-saved-me--71090097If you’ve ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or lost yourself trying to keep a family together… this one is going to hit you in the chest.For the first time, I’m sharing my side of my divorce — not from anger, not from pain, but from a place of healing, clarity, and finally being able to breathe again.
From the loneliness of pregnancy (“I remember laying in bed… calling my ex from work just so I didn’t feel so lonely”) to the moment everything cracked (“that day… something in me broke”), to the slow death of a relationship I once thought would last forever… I’m walking you through the truth I’ve held in for years.This episode is for the women who:
✨ Felt abandoned during the moments they needed love the most
✨ Carried the entire household, the baby, the emotions, the everything
✨ Tried to fix it, tried therapy, tried swallowing their pain
✨ Finally realized they deserved more — and chose themselvesI’m not here to bash. I’m here to tell the truth, honor my healing, and remind you that you are not crazy, you are not dramatic, and you are not “too much.”
You were just with someone who didn’t know how to show up for you.If you’ve ever felt unseen in your own relationship… press play.
Your healing starts the moment you stop hiding your story.👉 Listen now, share it with a woman who needs this, and leave a review so more mujeres can find this space.

Follow @unicornsdoexist

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-04-03:/posts/8882600Fri, 03 Apr 2026 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizThis is the episode I was terrified to record — and the one you’ve been waiting for. If you’ve ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or lost yourself trying to keep a family together… this one is going to hit you in the chest.For the first time, I’m...If you’ve ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or lost yourself trying to keep a family together… this one is going to hit you in the chest.For the first time, I’m sharing my side of my divorce — not from anger, not from pain, but from a place of healing, clarity, and finally being able to breathe again.
From the loneliness of pregnancy (“I remember laying in bed… calling my ex from work just so I didn’t feel so lonely”) to the moment everything cracked (“that day… something in me broke”), to the slow death of a relationship I once thought would last forever… I’m walking you through the truth I’ve held in for years.This episode is for the women who:
✨ Felt abandoned during the moments they needed love the most
✨ Carried the entire household, the baby, the emotions, the everything
✨ Tried to fix it, tried therapy, tried swallowing their pain
✨ Finally realized they deserved more — and chose themselvesI’m not here to bash. I’m here to tell the truth, honor my healing, and remind you that you are not crazy, you are not dramatic, and you are not “too much.”
You were just with someone who didn’t know how to show up for you.If you’ve ever felt unseen in your own relationship… press play.
Your healing starts the moment you stop hiding your story.👉 Listen now, share it with a woman who needs this, and leave a review so more mujeres can find this space.

Follow @unicornsdoexist

]]>2600false25full24: Inside A Unicorn's Mindhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/24-inside-a-unicorn-s-mind--70895900If you’ve ever struggled with mental health, grown up in a culture where “we don’t talk about that,” or used survival mode as your personality… this episode is going to hit you right in the heart..In this raw, honest, and deeply human conversation, I’m taking you through the parts of my story I’ve never sugar‑coated — growing up around alcoholism, navigating my sexuality in a traditional Hispanic household, the first time I experienced a full mental breakdown, and the moment my little baby sister walked in and I realized something had to change.You’ll hear how I went from Xanax and beer as coping mechanisms (yes, that was a thing — “my mom would rather me drink a beer than take medication” ) to checking myself into a clinic, rebuilding my mind, and discovering the tools that actually saved my life — therapy, movement, personal development, and learning to reprogram the beliefs I grew up with.This episode is your reminder that:
✨ You’re not broken.
✨ You’re not alone.
✨ Healing is messy, but it’s possible.
✨ And you deserve a life that feels peaceful, grounded, and yours.If you’ve been carrying things you never had the space to process… press play.
Your healing era starts the moment you decide you’re done surviving and ready to start living.👉 Listen now, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more Latinas can find this message

@unicornsdoexist

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-03-26:/posts/8879011Thu, 26 Mar 2026 13:17:00 +0000Vanessa RuizSTOP WHAT YOU’RE DOING — this is the episode you didn’t know you needed today. If you’ve ever struggled with mental health, grown up in a culture where “we don’t talk about that,” or used survival mode as your personality… this episode is going to...If you’ve ever struggled with mental health, grown up in a culture where “we don’t talk about that,” or used survival mode as your personality… this episode is going to hit you right in the heart..In this raw, honest, and deeply human conversation, I’m taking you through the parts of my story I’ve never sugar‑coated — growing up around alcoholism, navigating my sexuality in a traditional Hispanic household, the first time I experienced a full mental breakdown, and the moment my little baby sister walked in and I realized something had to change.You’ll hear how I went from Xanax and beer as coping mechanisms (yes, that was a thing — “my mom would rather me drink a beer than take medication” ) to checking myself into a clinic, rebuilding my mind, and discovering the tools that actually saved my life — therapy, movement, personal development, and learning to reprogram the beliefs I grew up with.This episode is your reminder that:
✨ You’re not broken.
✨ You’re not alone.
✨ Healing is messy, but it’s possible.
✨ And you deserve a life that feels peaceful, grounded, and yours.If you’ve been carrying things you never had the space to process… press play.
Your healing era starts the moment you decide you’re done surviving and ready to start living.👉 Listen now, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more Latinas can find this message

@unicornsdoexist

]]>3171false24full23: Can You Really Be Friends With Your Ex?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/23-can-you-really-be-friends-with-your-ex--70746395Is it more common in same-sex relationships to stay friends with your ex?
Vanessa shares her real-life experiences — from being friends with ex-girlfriends, to maintaining relationships with her ex-wife’s exes, to finally becoming friends with an ex-boyfriend who originally wanted nothing to do with her. We unpack community dynamics, emotional intimacy, and why queer relationships often create “chosen family” instead of clean exits.Plus, we bring in insights inspired by relationship therapist Esther Perel, who reminds us that post-breakup friendships can work — but only when the relationship is redefined with clarity, boundaries, and emotional honesty.If you’re navigating a breakup, redefining a relationship, or trying to understand your own patterns, this episode gives you the real talk, the psychology, and the humor you didn’t know you needed.If this episode hits home, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, subscribe so you never miss a drop, and leave a review to help more mujeres find this space. Your support helps this community grow.IG: UnicornsdoexistPOD]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-03-19:/posts/8875994Thu, 19 Mar 2026 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you’ve ever wondered whether you can really stay friends with an ex — or why it feels easier with some people and impossible with others — this episode is about to drag you (lovingly) into the truth you’ve been avoiding.In this episode, Vanessa...Is it more common in same-sex relationships to stay friends with your ex?
Vanessa shares her real-life experiences — from being friends with ex-girlfriends, to maintaining relationships with her ex-wife’s exes, to finally becoming friends with an ex-boyfriend who originally wanted nothing to do with her. We unpack community dynamics, emotional intimacy, and why queer relationships often create “chosen family” instead of clean exits.Plus, we bring in insights inspired by relationship therapist Esther Perel, who reminds us that post-breakup friendships can work — but only when the relationship is redefined with clarity, boundaries, and emotional honesty.If you’re navigating a breakup, redefining a relationship, or trying to understand your own patterns, this episode gives you the real talk, the psychology, and the humor you didn’t know you needed.If this episode hits home, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, subscribe so you never miss a drop, and leave a review to help more mujeres find this space. Your support helps this community grow.IG: UnicornsdoexistPOD]]>2396false23full22: Becoming the Woman Everyone Wants, But Not Everyone cant TOUCH!!!!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/22-becoming-the-woman-everyone-wants-but-not-everyone-cant-touch--70608596People will treat you the way you treat yourself.
If you carry yourself with self‑respect, intention, and standards, the world responds.
If you’re stepping into your high‑value era, your boundaries become your superpower.This episode is for my women who work on themselves — the gym girls, the moms rediscovering their confidence, the MILFs who look like they walked out of a photoshoot, the women who invest time, money, and heart into becoming their best selves.We’re talking about:
✨ Why NOT everyone deserves access to you
✨ How standards protect your peace
✨ Why ambition and values matter more than looks
✨ How to choose partners who match your energy
✨ Why respecting yourself changes everythingWe RUN the show.
We set the Vibes.
We make the rules.
And when we act like women of value, the world treats us like women of value.This is your reminder that you are the light — and not everyone gets to stand in it.
Tune in, MILF energy activated.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-03-12:/posts/8872926Thu, 12 Mar 2026 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizThis episode is for every woman who’s leveling up, glowing up, and finally realizing she is the prize, not the consolation.Today, we’re talking about becoming that woman — the one everyone wants, but not everyone gets access to. The woman who invests...People will treat you the way you treat yourself.
If you carry yourself with self‑respect, intention, and standards, the world responds.
If you’re stepping into your high‑value era, your boundaries become your superpower.This episode is for my women who work on themselves — the gym girls, the moms rediscovering their confidence, the MILFs who look like they walked out of a photoshoot, the women who invest time, money, and heart into becoming their best selves.We’re talking about:
✨ Why NOT everyone deserves access to you
✨ How standards protect your peace
✨ Why ambition and values matter more than looks
✨ How to choose partners who match your energy
✨ Why respecting yourself changes everythingWe RUN the show.
We set the Vibes.
We make the rules.
And when we act like women of value, the world treats us like women of value.This is your reminder that you are the light — and not everyone gets to stand in it.
Tune in, MILF energy activated.]]>1773false22full21: God’s Gift to Earth: The Energy Everyone Wants but Few Can Handlehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-god-s-gift-to-earth-the-energy-everyone-wants-but-few-can-handle--70483012If you’re a high‑spirited woman, a feminine‑energy powerhouse, or a woman who’s ever dimmed her light in a relationship — you need to press play right now.

Today we’re diving into why bright, confident, high‑value women attract everyone — lovers, leeches, leaders, and men who want to stand next to your shine because they don’t have their own. This episode breaks down feminine energy, self‑worth, relationship power dynamics, and what happens when a woman forgets she is the blessing.I’m sharing my story — how my light got dimmed, how I rebuilt myself, and how I realized the truth so many women forget:You were the lifestyle.
You were the upgrade.
You were the energy that made everything grow.

Before the relationship, I already traveled.
I already had standards.
I already had taste.
I already had a passport and good tequila in my hand.
I didn’t become valuable because of them — they looked valuable because they were standing next to me.

If you’ve ever felt drained, stuck, undervalued, or like you lost yourself while loving someone else, this episode will help you reclaim your feminine power, rebuild your confidence, and remember your worth.This is for the women who feel “too far gone.”
This is for the women who forgot their magic.
This is for the women who are ready to stop apologizing and start rising.Press play.
Not later.
NOW.
Your light is waiting to come back.@unicornsdoexist
Also Happy Bday to the youngest adult of the Ruiz Family ]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-03-05:/posts/8869676Thu, 05 Mar 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizThis episode is your wake‑up call. If you’re a high‑spirited woman, a feminine‑energy powerhouse, or a woman who’s ever dimmed her light in a relationship — you need to press play right now. Today we’re diving into why bright, confident, high‑value...If you’re a high‑spirited woman, a feminine‑energy powerhouse, or a woman who’s ever dimmed her light in a relationship — you need to press play right now.

Today we’re diving into why bright, confident, high‑value women attract everyone — lovers, leeches, leaders, and men who want to stand next to your shine because they don’t have their own. This episode breaks down feminine energy, self‑worth, relationship power dynamics, and what happens when a woman forgets she is the blessing.I’m sharing my story — how my light got dimmed, how I rebuilt myself, and how I realized the truth so many women forget:You were the lifestyle.
You were the upgrade.
You were the energy that made everything grow.

Before the relationship, I already traveled.
I already had standards.
I already had taste.
I already had a passport and good tequila in my hand.
I didn’t become valuable because of them — they looked valuable because they were standing next to me.

If you’ve ever felt drained, stuck, undervalued, or like you lost yourself while loving someone else, this episode will help you reclaim your feminine power, rebuild your confidence, and remember your worth.This is for the women who feel “too far gone.”
This is for the women who forgot their magic.
This is for the women who are ready to stop apologizing and start rising.Press play.
Not later.
NOW.
Your light is waiting to come back.@unicornsdoexist
Also Happy Bday to the youngest adult of the Ruiz Family ]]>2131false21full20: You Are the Superpower: The Mindset Women Need in 2026https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-you-are-the-superpower-the-mindset-women-need-in-2026--70300630You can literally change your life by changing your mind.
Everything you need is already inside you.
Your uniqueness is your superpower.
And you are allowed — no, REQUIRED — to own your greatness.If you’ve been shrinking, doubting, apologizing, or forgetting who the hell you are… press play.
Your future self is begging you not to skip this one.IG: @unicornsdoexsit ]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-02-26:/posts/8866414Thu, 26 Feb 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you listen to ONE episode this year, let it be this one — because this is the kind of message that flips a switch in your brain and changes your entire life.In this episode, we break down the unstoppable, unapologetic confidence of the Olympic gold...You can literally change your life by changing your mind.
Everything you need is already inside you.
Your uniqueness is your superpower.
And you are allowed — no, REQUIRED — to own your greatness.If you’ve been shrinking, doubting, apologizing, or forgetting who the hell you are… press play.
Your future self is begging you not to skip this one.IG: @unicornsdoexsit ]]>1537false20full19: Galantine's, Growth & Girl Gangs: Building Your Unicorn Villagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-galantine-s-growth-girl-gangs-building-your-unicorn-village--70148344

How she went from isolating herself in relationships to nurturing a thriving circle of women

Why healthy friendships are essential for emotional well‑being, healing, and growth

The difference between draining friendships and empowering ones

How to attract aligned women by choosing yourself first

Practical ways to build friendships as an adult — even if it feels scary

The importance of vulnerability, reciprocity, and showing up

Letting go of friendships rooted in unhealthy habits or obligation

How affirmations, self‑love, and community helped her rebuild her life

This episode is a warm reminder that you are Never too broken, too late, or too far gone to create the friendships you deserve. Your village is out there — and it starts with becoming the friend you wish you had.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-02-19:/posts/8863118Thu, 19 Feb 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIn this heartfelt episode, Vanessa opens up about the power of real, soul‑nourishing friendships — the kind that help rebuild you, celebrate you, and walk with you through every season of life. Inspired by Galentine’s Day, sisterhood, and her own...

How she went from isolating herself in relationships to nurturing a thriving circle of women

Why healthy friendships are essential for emotional well‑being, healing, and growth

The difference between draining friendships and empowering ones

How to attract aligned women by choosing yourself first

Practical ways to build friendships as an adult — even if it feels scary

The importance of vulnerability, reciprocity, and showing up

Letting go of friendships rooted in unhealthy habits or obligation

How affirmations, self‑love, and community helped her rebuild her life

This episode is a warm reminder that you are Never too broken, too late, or too far gone to create the friendships you deserve. Your village is out there — and it starts with becoming the friend you wish you had.]]>1664false19full18: A Day in the Life of a Unicornhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/18-a-day-in-the-life-of-a-unicorn--69973266 📲 Follow the pod on Instagram: @unicornsdoexistpod
🎥 Full video episodes coming to Substack.And remember…
Unicorns do exist.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-02-11:/posts/8859860Wed, 11 Feb 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizNew year, new energy, and a very real life update. In this episode, I’m sharing what 2026 is already teaching me — from manifesting a third bedroom and upgrading to a BMW, to understanding that patience and gratitude will take you further than panic... 📲 Follow the pod on Instagram: @unicornsdoexistpod
🎥 Full video episodes coming to Substack.And remember…
Unicorns do exist.]]>1274false18full17: Alcohol, Weed & the Lies We Were Told (Latina Truth Talk Gaby)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-alcohol-weed-the-lies-we-were-told-latina-truth-talk-gaby--69784913Unicorns Do Exist, I’m joined by Gaby, host of the No Pus Guao podcast, for a fun, honest, very Latina conversation about alcohol, weed, ecstasy, and why alcohol is the most normalized — and most dangerous — drug of all.We talk culture, family patterns, machismo, silence, and how alcohol is treated as “normal” while other substances are villainized. Plus, with the Super Bowl and Bad Bunny headlining the halftime show — aka the Benito Bowl — we dive into that cultural moment too. 🏈🎤🍻 This is real talk, simple words, lots of flavor — and zero judgment.
If you grew up around alcohol, questioned it, or felt like nobody ever wanted to talk about it… this episode is for you.🎙️ Follow Gaby from No Pus Guao
✨ New episodes weekly — because healing and honesty can coexist.
🦄 Listen Now Unicorns Do Exist POD]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-02-04:/posts/8856802Wed, 04 Feb 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizAlcoholism in the Hispanic community is often ignored, joked about, or swept under the rug — and we’re done staying quiet.In this episode of https://www.instagram.com/unicornsdoexistpod?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr, I’m joined by Gaby,...Unicorns Do Exist, I’m joined by Gaby, host of the No Pus Guao podcast, for a fun, honest, very Latina conversation about alcohol, weed, ecstasy, and why alcohol is the most normalized — and most dangerous — drug of all.We talk culture, family patterns, machismo, silence, and how alcohol is treated as “normal” while other substances are villainized. Plus, with the Super Bowl and Bad Bunny headlining the halftime show — aka the Benito Bowl — we dive into that cultural moment too. 🏈🎤🍻 This is real talk, simple words, lots of flavor — and zero judgment.
If you grew up around alcohol, questioned it, or felt like nobody ever wanted to talk about it… this episode is for you.🎙️ Follow Gaby from No Pus Guao
✨ New episodes weekly — because healing and honesty can coexist.
🦄 Listen Now Unicorns Do Exist POD]]>3822false17full16: Pain Is a Catalyst: Waking Up in a World That Was Never Okayhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/16-pain-is-a-catalyst-waking-up-in-a-world-that-was-never-okay--69645054

Choosing meaning instead of fear

Growth instead of despair

Awareness without losing your humanity

Strength without becoming hardened

And why hate always comes from self-hate and misery looks for company

If the world feels overwhelming right now, this conversation will ground you — not by pretending things are fine, but by reminding you that you still have power, choice, and responsibility in how you move forward.🎧 Listen now and choose to see differently — because what you focus on is what you create.

Follow the podcast on Instagram @unicornsdoexistpod
And make sure to follow the show on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio so you never miss an episode.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-01-28:/posts/8852853Wed, 28 Jan 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizThis episode is an honest one.We’re talking about what’s happening in the United States right now, why it feels so heavy, and why this moment isn’t new — it’s just finally being seen. And instead of spiraling into fear or numbness, we’re having an...

Choosing meaning instead of fear

Growth instead of despair

Awareness without losing your humanity

Strength without becoming hardened

And why hate always comes from self-hate and misery looks for company

If the world feels overwhelming right now, this conversation will ground you — not by pretending things are fine, but by reminding you that you still have power, choice, and responsibility in how you move forward.🎧 Listen now and choose to see differently — because what you focus on is what you create.

Follow the podcast on Instagram @unicornsdoexistpod
And make sure to follow the show on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio so you never miss an episode.]]>2029false16full15: The Attraction Problem No One Wants to Admithttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-the-attraction-problem-no-one-wants-to-admit--69532163 This is a wake-up call.If you’ve ever felt turned off by lack of ambition, uninspired by emotional laziness, or frustrated trying to soften when there’s nothing to lean into—this conversation will hit home.✨ Expect topics like:

Masculine vs feminine energy in relationships
Why attraction requires movement, growth, and leadership
Emotional safety, polarity, and desire
Why driven people don’t stay “broke” (in any sense of the word)
How laziness kills intimacy—physically, mentally, and emotionally

🎧 Listen now, share this episode with someone who needs the mirror, and don’t forget to follow the podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next.🦄 Unicorns do exist… but they don’t settle for stagnant energy.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-01-21:/posts/8837468Wed, 21 Jan 2026 14:06:00 +0000Vanessa RuizWhy do so many people want passion, attraction, and a soft feminine partner… without doing the work to lead, grow, or evolve?In this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets real (and a little spicy) about lazy energy in relationships—and why... This is a wake-up call.If you’ve ever felt turned off by lack of ambition, uninspired by emotional laziness, or frustrated trying to soften when there’s nothing to lean into—this conversation will hit home.✨ Expect topics like:

Masculine vs feminine energy in relationships
Why attraction requires movement, growth, and leadership
Emotional safety, polarity, and desire
Why driven people don’t stay “broke” (in any sense of the word)
How laziness kills intimacy—physically, mentally, and emotionally

🎧 Listen now, share this episode with someone who needs the mirror, and don’t forget to follow the podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next.🦄 Unicorns do exist… but they don’t settle for stagnant energy.]]>1548false15full14: Dating With No Intention (Yes, I Said That)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/14-dating-with-no-intention-yes-i-said-that--69437529The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz and her own lived experience as a mother navigating dating, co-parenting, and self-discovery, this episode challenges everything we’ve been told about marriage, kids, and “doing life right.”⚠️ Fair warning: once you see it, you can’t unsee it.🎧 Listen to the end for a perspective on heartbreak, loneliness, and why choosing yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
👉 If this episode moved you, share it with someone who needs permission to slow down.
🦄 Don’t forget to follow Unicorns Do Exist for more real, raw conversations.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-01-14:/posts/8834086Wed, 14 Jan 2026 14:02:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIn this episode of Unicorns Do Exist, Vanessa gets radically honest about why she’s dating without intention—and why it’s been the healthiest decision she’s ever made.This is a deep, unfiltered conversation about love, motherhood, freedom, cultural...The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz and her own lived experience as a mother navigating dating, co-parenting, and self-discovery, this episode challenges everything we’ve been told about marriage, kids, and “doing life right.”⚠️ Fair warning: once you see it, you can’t unsee it.🎧 Listen to the end for a perspective on heartbreak, loneliness, and why choosing yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
👉 If this episode moved you, share it with someone who needs permission to slow down.
🦄 Don’t forget to follow Unicorns Do Exist for more real, raw conversations.]]>1666false14full13: New Year, One Magical Wordhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-new-year-one-magical-word--69341231 In this episode, Vanessa reflects on heartbreak, grief, missed flights, mom guilt, starting over, and why even your messiest moments are still part of your magic. This is about choosing intention over perfection and trusting that everything really does happen for a reason—even the hot mess chapters.If this episode hits, follow Unicorns Do Exist and share it with someone who needs permission to begin again.This episode is sponsored by PricklyBerry, an angel number clothing brand reminding you that the universe is always speaking—if you’re paying attention. Wear your alignment, your protection, and your magic with intention.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2026-01-07:/posts/8827042Wed, 07 Jan 2026 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizNew year. New word. Same real, unfiltered me. In this episode, Vanessa reflects on heartbreak, grief, missed flights, mom guilt, starting over, and why even your messiest moments are still part of your magic. This is about choosing intention over... In this episode, Vanessa reflects on heartbreak, grief, missed flights, mom guilt, starting over, and why even your messiest moments are still part of your magic. This is about choosing intention over perfection and trusting that everything really does happen for a reason—even the hot mess chapters.If this episode hits, follow Unicorns Do Exist and share it with someone who needs permission to begin again.This episode is sponsored by PricklyBerry, an angel number clothing brand reminding you that the universe is always speaking—if you’re paying attention. Wear your alignment, your protection, and your magic with intention.]]>507false13full12: Consider This My Christmas Gifthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/12-consider-this-my-christmas-gift--69196155
This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄🦄
No lessons. No fixing. Just me — answering your questions, oversharing a little, laughing a lot, and letting you actually get to know the woman behind Unicorns Do Exist.

It’s honest, flirty, funny, and slightly unhinged in the best way.
Grab a drink, get comfy, and hang out with me for 45 minutes.

You’re welcome. 😉

Thank you to @pricklyberry.com for Sponsoring this Episode

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-12-24:/posts/8823280Wed, 24 Dec 2025 14:30:00 +0000Vanessa RuizI answered your questions and overshared on purpose — you’re welcome 😌🎄 This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄🦄 No lessons. No fixing. Just me — answering your questions, oversharing a little, laughing a lot, and letting you actually get to...
This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄🦄
No lessons. No fixing. Just me — answering your questions, oversharing a little, laughing a lot, and letting you actually get to know the woman behind Unicorns Do Exist.

It’s honest, flirty, funny, and slightly unhinged in the best way.
Grab a drink, get comfy, and hang out with me for 45 minutes.

You’re welcome. 😉

Thank you to @pricklyberry.com for Sponsoring this Episode

]]>2311false12full11: Everything Happens for a Reason (Even This Mess)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-everything-happens-for-a-reason-even-this-mess--69121355
What starts as a trip rooted in faith, intention, and joy quickly turns into missed plans, chaos, emotional spirals, and an unexpected loss that puts everything into perspective. Vanessa opens up about grief, missing home, motherhood, heartbreak, and what it feels like when life humbles you in real time.

This episode is dedicated to her friend Rob — a beautiful soul, a jokester, and the kind of person who showed up for others and quite literally left this world laughing.

It’s honest. It’s messy. It’s emotional.
And it’s a reminder that healing isn’t linear, plans fall apart, and being alive is still the biggest blessing of all.

Listen if you’ve ever laughed through pain, cried through gratitude, or tried to find meaning without forcing it.

🦄 @Unicornsdoexistpod Come Say Hi
Tacos, Beer & Lucha Libre Take a trip ]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-12-18:/posts/8820994Thu, 18 Dec 2025 17:22:37 +0000Vanessa RuizIn this episode, Vanessa shares the full story of her Mexico City trip — the good, the bad, and the not-so-funny-but-somehow-still-funny parts life likes to throw in when you least expect it. What starts as a trip rooted in faith, intention, and joy...
What starts as a trip rooted in faith, intention, and joy quickly turns into missed plans, chaos, emotional spirals, and an unexpected loss that puts everything into perspective. Vanessa opens up about grief, missing home, motherhood, heartbreak, and what it feels like when life humbles you in real time.

This episode is dedicated to her friend Rob — a beautiful soul, a jokester, and the kind of person who showed up for others and quite literally left this world laughing.

It’s honest. It’s messy. It’s emotional.
And it’s a reminder that healing isn’t linear, plans fall apart, and being alive is still the biggest blessing of all.

Listen if you’ve ever laughed through pain, cried through gratitude, or tried to find meaning without forcing it.

🦄 @Unicornsdoexistpod Come Say Hi
Tacos, Beer & Lucha Libre Take a trip ]]>2419false11full10: ✨ Starting Over Like It’s a Hobby ✨https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-starting-over-like-it-s-a-hobby--68976329 Not the soft, gentle kind… the “get up, Doll, your glow-up is calling” kind. ✨😈

We’re talking:
🔥 healing after heartbreak
🔥 starting over as a single mom
🔥 getting fired and rebuilding
🔥 reinventing yourself when life falls apart
🔥 letting go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be
🔥 the messy, chaotic, magical reality of a REAL fresh start

This is the episode for anyone googling “how to start over,” scrolling TikTok for healing videos, or secretly wondering if their life is falling apart or falling into place.

Spoiler: it’s falling into place.

I’m sharing my own plot twists — divorce, being cheated on, moving out with my son at 9 months old, losing my job on maternity leave, rebuilding my career from scratch, and traveling more this year than I ever did in my old life.

Why?
Because starting over isn’t embarrassing.
It’s evolution.
It’s your rebirth arc.
It’s the part of the movie where the main character (you, Doll) stands back up… stronger, hotter, wiser, and probably with better boundaries. 😉

If you’re in your comeback era, your healing era, your “I refuse to settle” era…
you need this episode.

🎧 Tune in now and step into the version of you that’s been waiting on the other side of fear. Your fresh start begins here.

Follow the podcast on IG: @unicornsdoexistpod
And hit follow on Spotify Or Apple Podcast so you never miss an episode. ✨

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-12-10:/posts/8817074Wed, 10 Dec 2025 14:01:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIf you’re starting over right now — by choice or because life snatched the rug from under you — this episode is your sign. Not the soft, gentle kind… the “get up, Doll, your glow-up is calling” kind. ✨😈 We’re talking: 🔥 healing after heartbreak... Not the soft, gentle kind… the “get up, Doll, your glow-up is calling” kind. ✨😈

We’re talking:
🔥 healing after heartbreak
🔥 starting over as a single mom
🔥 getting fired and rebuilding
🔥 reinventing yourself when life falls apart
🔥 letting go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be
🔥 the messy, chaotic, magical reality of a REAL fresh start

This is the episode for anyone googling “how to start over,” scrolling TikTok for healing videos, or secretly wondering if their life is falling apart or falling into place.

Spoiler: it’s falling into place.

I’m sharing my own plot twists — divorce, being cheated on, moving out with my son at 9 months old, losing my job on maternity leave, rebuilding my career from scratch, and traveling more this year than I ever did in my old life.

Why?
Because starting over isn’t embarrassing.
It’s evolution.
It’s your rebirth arc.
It’s the part of the movie where the main character (you, Doll) stands back up… stronger, hotter, wiser, and probably with better boundaries. 😉

If you’re in your comeback era, your healing era, your “I refuse to settle” era…
you need this episode.

🎧 Tune in now and step into the version of you that’s been waiting on the other side of fear. Your fresh start begins here.

Follow the podcast on IG: @unicornsdoexistpod
And hit follow on Spotify Or Apple Podcast so you never miss an episode. ✨

]]>1398false10full9: When Choosing You Makes You the Villain (Good.)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/9-when-choosing-you-makes-you-the-villain-good--68849891 This episode of Unicorns Do Exist is for the woman who’s tired of being the “nice girl,” exhausted from people-pleasing, and so done abandoning herself just to be liked.
Inside this episode, we dive into:
✨ How choosing yourself triggers people (and why that’s a good thing)
✨ The shift from victim mentality to main-character energy
✨ Dark feminine power + self-trust
✨ The freedom that comes with letting people think whatever they want
✨ Why your “villain era” is actually your rebirth

If you’ve been craving a podcast that mixes self-love, shadow work, confidence, healing, and a little dark humor with Latina sass… Doll, you just found your show.

You’re not being mean.
You’re not being dramatic.
You’re not being selfish.
You’re finally choosing YOU — and that’s what unleashes your power.

🎧 Hit play.
🌪️ Step into your villain era.
🦄 And when you’re done, send me a unicorn so I know you’re listening.
@unicornsdoexistpod

And because magic moves fast around here…
I just dropped a brand-new 7-Day Dark Feminine eBook in my Stand Store — the perfect companion to this episode and the “Damn Unicorn Magic” episode. ]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-12-03:/posts/8814022Wed, 03 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizStep into your villain era, Doll — the era where you stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and stop carrying relationships, friendships, and dynamics that drain the life out of you. This episode of Unicorns Do Exist is for the woman who’s tired of being... This episode of Unicorns Do Exist is for the woman who’s tired of being the “nice girl,” exhausted from people-pleasing, and so done abandoning herself just to be liked.
Inside this episode, we dive into:
✨ How choosing yourself triggers people (and why that’s a good thing)
✨ The shift from victim mentality to main-character energy
✨ Dark feminine power + self-trust
✨ The freedom that comes with letting people think whatever they want
✨ Why your “villain era” is actually your rebirth

If you’ve been craving a podcast that mixes self-love, shadow work, confidence, healing, and a little dark humor with Latina sass… Doll, you just found your show.

You’re not being mean.
You’re not being dramatic.
You’re not being selfish.
You’re finally choosing YOU — and that’s what unleashes your power.

🎧 Hit play.
🌪️ Step into your villain era.
🦄 And when you’re done, send me a unicorn so I know you’re listening.
@unicornsdoexistpod

And because magic moves fast around here…
I just dropped a brand-new 7-Day Dark Feminine eBook in my Stand Store — the perfect companion to this episode and the “Damn Unicorn Magic” episode. ]]>1616false9full8: Multicultural & Unapologetic: Why Your Identity Is Your Superpowerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/8-multicultural-unapologetic-why-your-identity-is-your-superpower--68756264
Meet Urmi: an Italian-Bengali powerhouse living in Montreal, a corporate finance pro, mentor, blogger, YouTuber, self-published author, speaker, and the co-chair of Women in Leadership. Yeah… sis showed up with ALL the titles and ALL the magic.

Together, we dive into the beauty and challenges of growing up multicultural, finding your identity when you never felt like you fully “fit,” and turning that exact feeling into your superpower.

We talk self-discovery, growth, authenticity, and why women who refuse to shrink become the most powerful versions of themselves. This episode feels like sitting with two amigas who have lived a thousand lives and are finally choosing themselves.

If you’ve ever felt “too different,” “too much,” or like you don’t belong anywhere — this one is your love note. 💜

✨ Listen now and discover why your uniqueness is your greatest magic.
✨ Follow us on Instagram: @unicornsdoexistpod
✨ Share this episode with a friend who needs to remember her sparkle.

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-11-26:/posts/8811527Wed, 26 Nov 2025 14:22:00 +0000Vanessa RuizIn today’s episode of Unicorns Do Exist, we’re welcoming our very first guest — and trust me, she’s a full-blown unicorn in human form. ✨ Meet Urmi: an Italian-Bengali powerhouse living in Montreal, a corporate finance pro, mentor, blogger,...
Meet Urmi: an Italian-Bengali powerhouse living in Montreal, a corporate finance pro, mentor, blogger, YouTuber, self-published author, speaker, and the co-chair of Women in Leadership. Yeah… sis showed up with ALL the titles and ALL the magic.

Together, we dive into the beauty and challenges of growing up multicultural, finding your identity when you never felt like you fully “fit,” and turning that exact feeling into your superpower.

We talk self-discovery, growth, authenticity, and why women who refuse to shrink become the most powerful versions of themselves. This episode feels like sitting with two amigas who have lived a thousand lives and are finally choosing themselves.

If you’ve ever felt “too different,” “too much,” or like you don’t belong anywhere — this one is your love note. 💜

✨ Listen now and discover why your uniqueness is your greatest magic.
✨ Follow us on Instagram: @unicornsdoexistpod
✨ Share this episode with a friend who needs to remember her sparkle.

]]>2611false8full7: Dark Unicorn Energy: The Side of You They Never Expectedhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-dark-unicorn-energy-the-side-of-you-they-never-expected--68640170
Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine — the part of you that doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, doesn’t negotiate, and definitely doesn’t deal with bare-minimum energy.

I’m teaching you how to step into your power as a high-value woman, how to command a room without raising your voice, and how to shift from “pick-me energy” to big, undeniable, magnetic energy.

Get ready, Doll.
Your inner Dark Unicorn is waking up… and once she comes out, there’s no going back.

🎧 Listen now before your future self drags you by the hair for missing this.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-11-19:/posts/8808084Wed, 19 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizDoll… if you’ve been acting like a cute little glitter unicorn but deep down you know you’ve got claws? Yeah. This episode is for you. Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine — the part of you that doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, doesn’t negotiate,...
Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine — the part of you that doesn’t chase, doesn’t beg, doesn’t negotiate, and definitely doesn’t deal with bare-minimum energy.

I’m teaching you how to step into your power as a high-value woman, how to command a room without raising your voice, and how to shift from “pick-me energy” to big, undeniable, magnetic energy.

Get ready, Doll.
Your inner Dark Unicorn is waking up… and once she comes out, there’s no going back.

🎧 Listen now before your future self drags you by the hair for missing this.]]>2519false7full6: Unicorns Don’t Ghost — They Reconnect 💜https://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-unicorns-don-t-ghost-they-reconnect--68537317 In this episode, I dive into “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel — and what it really takes to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships.

We’re talking emotional connection, desire after chaos, rebuilding trust, and how to bring back that “I want you” energy — even after life, kids, or heartbreak tried to kill the vibe. 😅

Whether you’re healing from infidelity, trying to reignite passion, or just tired of feeling like roommates with your partner… this one’s for you. 💜

Because love isn’t about finding someone new — it’s about seeing the magic again in the one you already have. ✨

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-11-12:/posts/8805178Wed, 12 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizEver wonder how to fall back in love with the person sleeping next to you? 🫣 In this episode, I dive into “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel — and what it really takes to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships. We’re talking emotional... In this episode, I dive into “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel — and what it really takes to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships.

We’re talking emotional connection, desire after chaos, rebuilding trust, and how to bring back that “I want you” energy — even after life, kids, or heartbreak tried to kill the vibe. 😅

Whether you’re healing from infidelity, trying to reignite passion, or just tired of feeling like roommates with your partner… this one’s for you. 💜

Because love isn’t about finding someone new — it’s about seeing the magic again in the one you already have. ✨

]]>2131false6full5: You’re Not a Saint — You’re Just Scaredhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-you-re-not-a-saint-you-re-just-scared--68432457
In this episode, Vanessa calls out the truth we all avoid: sometimes we hide behind kindness because we’re too scared to face the unknown. We tell ourselves we’re staying to protect someone, when really, we’re just protecting our own ego.

Yes — there are exceptions. If your partner is sick, if they physically need your care, that’s love and loyalty. But staying because you think they’ll crumble without you? That’s not compassion. That’s control wrapped in fear.

Vanessa breaks down how to stop playing the martyr, start honoring your truth, and finally walk away from what no longer serves your growth. Inspired by the teachings of Esther Perel and Abraham Hicks, this episode is your permission slip to stop calling suffering “love” and start choosing alignment.

💭 Because you’re not doing anyone a favor by staying small — including yourself.

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-11-05:/posts/8801315Wed, 05 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizLet’s get one thing straight — staying in a relationship just to look like the “nice one” isn’t selfless, it’s self-sabotage. 💅 In this episode, Vanessa calls out the truth we all avoid: sometimes we hide behind kindness because we’re too scared to...
In this episode, Vanessa calls out the truth we all avoid: sometimes we hide behind kindness because we’re too scared to face the unknown. We tell ourselves we’re staying to protect someone, when really, we’re just protecting our own ego.

Yes — there are exceptions. If your partner is sick, if they physically need your care, that’s love and loyalty. But staying because you think they’ll crumble without you? That’s not compassion. That’s control wrapped in fear.

Vanessa breaks down how to stop playing the martyr, start honoring your truth, and finally walk away from what no longer serves your growth. Inspired by the teachings of Esther Perel and Abraham Hicks, this episode is your permission slip to stop calling suffering “love” and start choosing alignment.

💭 Because you’re not doing anyone a favor by staying small — including yourself.

]]>1544false5full4: Let’s Get Intimate… With Money & Ourselveshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/4-let-s-get-intimate-with-money-ourselves--68339773 Follow @unicornsdoexistpod
This episode is me, unfiltered: about sex after motherhood, the shame and freedom of changing desire, and how attraction and abundance both want you to show up differently. It’s taboo, tender, hilarious, and honestly — life-changing. Listen if you like messy truth, radical self-honesty, and the kind of conversations people whisper about at brunch. Miss this and you’ll still be guessing tomorrow.

✨ Listen if you’re ready to explore the gray, flirt with the unknown, and manifest the kind of freedom that feels like magic.

🎧 Available now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts — don’t forget to follow so you don’t miss your next identity crisis in HD. 💜]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-10-29:/posts/8797548Wed, 29 Oct 2025 19:42:07 +0000Vanessa Ruiz What if your orientation did a plot twist mid-life? After 20 years of dating women, a long marriage, and the whole postpartum identity tornado — I start noticing men. Not every man. Not a straight-backflip romance. Just a new, confusing, delicious... Follow @unicornsdoexistpod
This episode is me, unfiltered: about sex after motherhood, the shame and freedom of changing desire, and how attraction and abundance both want you to show up differently. It’s taboo, tender, hilarious, and honestly — life-changing. Listen if you like messy truth, radical self-honesty, and the kind of conversations people whisper about at brunch. Miss this and you’ll still be guessing tomorrow.

✨ Listen if you’re ready to explore the gray, flirt with the unknown, and manifest the kind of freedom that feels like magic.

🎧 Available now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts — don’t forget to follow so you don’t miss your next identity crisis in HD. 💜]]>2348false4full3: Inside a Unicorn’s Mindhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-inside-a-unicorn-s-mind--68258289 Yeah… welcome inside mine. 🦄

In this episode, I get real about my lifelong battle with mental health — the anxiety that made me overthink everything, the depression that almost took me out, and the healing that brought me back to life.

I’m not sugarcoating it. I’m talking about the moments where it hurt to breathe, where I thought I was broken beyond repair — and the messy, beautiful process of rebuilding myself one ugly cry, one boundary, and one deep breath at a time.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever smiled on the outside while falling apart on the inside.
Because healing isn’t about being “happy all the time.”
It’s about finding peace in the middle of the storm — and realizing that your darkness doesn’t make you weak… it makes you magic. 🌑✨

If you’ve ever been scared of your own mind… this episode will feel like coming home. ]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-10-23:/posts/8795238Thu, 23 Oct 2025 21:22:00 +0000Vanessa RuizEver wondered what really happens inside the mind of someone who smiles through the chaos? Yeah… welcome inside mine. 🦄 In this episode, I get real about my lifelong battle with mental health — the anxiety that made me overthink everything, the... Yeah… welcome inside mine. 🦄

In this episode, I get real about my lifelong battle with mental health — the anxiety that made me overthink everything, the depression that almost took me out, and the healing that brought me back to life.

I’m not sugarcoating it. I’m talking about the moments where it hurt to breathe, where I thought I was broken beyond repair — and the messy, beautiful process of rebuilding myself one ugly cry, one boundary, and one deep breath at a time.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever smiled on the outside while falling apart on the inside.
Because healing isn’t about being “happy all the time.”
It’s about finding peace in the middle of the storm — and realizing that your darkness doesn’t make you weak… it makes you magic. 🌑✨

If you’ve ever been scared of your own mind… this episode will feel like coming home. ]]>3322false3full2: Welcome to the Magic: Delusional? Maybe. But It’s Working.https://www.spreaker.com/episode/2-welcome-to-the-magic-delusional-maybe-but-it-s-working--68239711
I talk about the moments that broke me open, the pain that forced me to grow, and the wild, divine delusion that told me to keep believing when logic said, “girl, give it up.”

This podcast isn’t about pretending everything’s fine — it’s about owning your story, laughing at the pain once you’re out of tears, and realizing that your mess can still become your message. 🦄💋

Because yeah, my delusion comes with a message — and trust me, it’s one you don’t want to miss.]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-10-22:/posts/8794485Wed, 22 Oct 2025 13:00:00 +0000Vanessa RuizWelcome to the beautiful chaos that started it all. In this episode, I get real about where I’ve been — from a 5150 hold to healing, from losing a ten-year “PERFECT” relationship to finding myself again. I talk about the moments that broke me open,...
I talk about the moments that broke me open, the pain that forced me to grow, and the wild, divine delusion that told me to keep believing when logic said, “girl, give it up.”

This podcast isn’t about pretending everything’s fine — it’s about owning your story, laughing at the pain once you’re out of tears, and realizing that your mess can still become your message. 🦄💋

Because yeah, my delusion comes with a message — and trust me, it’s one you don’t want to miss.]]>1361false2full1: Unicorns Do Exist The Trailerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-unicorns-do-exist-the-trailer--68221640
I’m your host, Vanessa — first-gen Latina, single mama, lesbian, life coach, and living proof that your pain can become your power.

This isn’t your average healing podcast.
We talk real transformation — the kind that comes after you’ve been through hell and still show up glowing ✨.
From self-worth to manifestation, feminine energy to dark humor healing — this is where the comeback begins.

If you’re ready to:
💔 Turn your heartbreak into your glow-up
🦋 Stop settling for crumbs
🔥 Step into your dark feminine power
💎 And finally remember who TF you are…

Then subscribe now — because your healing era starts here.
Every Wednesday, we’ll laugh, cry, manifest, and get a little magical together.

✨ Unicorns Do Exist. And you, my love, are one of them. 💜🦄

]]>tag:audioboom.com,2025-10-17:/posts/8792735Mon, 20 Oct 2025 21:22:00 +0000Vanessa RuizWelcome to Unicorns Do Exist, the unapologetic podcast for women who are ready to rise — after the heartbreak, after the chaos, after forgetting who they were. I’m your host, Vanessa — first-gen Latina, single mama, lesbian, life coach, and living...
I’m your host, Vanessa — first-gen Latina, single mama, lesbian, life coach, and living proof that your pain can become your power.

This isn’t your average healing podcast.
We talk real transformation — the kind that comes after you’ve been through hell and still show up glowing ✨.
From self-worth to manifestation, feminine energy to dark humor healing — this is where the comeback begins.

If you’re ready to:
💔 Turn your heartbreak into your glow-up
🦋 Stop settling for crumbs
🔥 Step into your dark feminine power
💎 And finally remember who TF you are…

Then subscribe now — because your healing era starts here.
Every Wednesday, we’ll laugh, cry, manifest, and get a little magical together.

✨ Unicorns Do Exist. And you, my love, are one of them. 💜🦄

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