https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-well-fucked-woman--6723456
Welcome to The Well-Fucked Woman.Hosted by Tanja Diamond and Suzy Easterling, this is where we drag the conversations everyone else politely steps around into the middle of the room and refuse to let them leave until they've answered a few uncomfortable questions.

Why do women know more about anti-aging creams than their own clitoris?

Why are we expected to instinctively know how to have extraordinary relationships when most of us never saw one growing up?

Why does everyone tell us to communicate better, yet nobody teaches us what we're actually afraid of saying?

Why are women still carrying shame that isn't even theirs?

Some weeks we'll be talking about sex. Other weeks it'll be betrayal, menopause, nervous systems, porn, body image, grief, love, desire, motherhood, trauma, friendship, aging, emotional intelligence, or the strange little lies that quietly run our lives while we're busy pretending we're fine.

We do messy, curiosity, brutal honesty, science, inappropriate laughter, and the occasional sentence that makes one of us stop mid-conversation and say, "Well... that's going to piss somebody off."

Excellent. The best conversations usually do.

So pull up a chair, pour yourself something delicious, and join us for the conversations you've been having in your own head for years but weren't quite sure you were allowed to say out loud.

One small warning before you hit play: we swear, we laugh loudly, we talk openly about sex, and we have an unhealthy relationship with polite society. If you're listening around children, coworkers, or anyone who still whispers the word "vagina," do yourself a favour and grab your headphones.

]]>enSelf-ImprovementCopyright © 2026 The Well-Fucked Woman. All Rights Reserved.https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b434b0b39a46d52604f0303cfa8a22ae.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-well-fucked-woman--6723456Mon, 14 Sep 2026 19:51:14 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingTanja Diamond $ Suzy Easterlingtwfwpodcast@gmail.comMost podcasts want to make you comfortable.We're aiming for slightly aroused, mildly offended, intellectually stimulated, and wondering why nobody has ever said this out loud before. Welcome to The Well-Fucked Woman.Hosted by Tanja Diamond and Suzy...
Welcome to The Well-Fucked Woman.Hosted by Tanja Diamond and Suzy Easterling, this is where we drag the conversations everyone else politely steps around into the middle of the room and refuse to let them leave until they've answered a few uncomfortable questions.

Why do women know more about anti-aging creams than their own clitoris?

Why are we expected to instinctively know how to have extraordinary relationships when most of us never saw one growing up?

Why does everyone tell us to communicate better, yet nobody teaches us what we're actually afraid of saying?

Why are women still carrying shame that isn't even theirs?

Some weeks we'll be talking about sex. Other weeks it'll be betrayal, menopause, nervous systems, porn, body image, grief, love, desire, motherhood, trauma, friendship, aging, emotional intelligence, or the strange little lies that quietly run our lives while we're busy pretending we're fine.

We do messy, curiosity, brutal honesty, science, inappropriate laughter, and the occasional sentence that makes one of us stop mid-conversation and say, "Well... that's going to piss somebody off."

Excellent. The best conversations usually do.

So pull up a chair, pour yourself something delicious, and join us for the conversations you've been having in your own head for years but weren't quite sure you were allowed to say out loud.

One small warning before you hit play: we swear, we laugh loudly, we talk openly about sex, and we have an unhealthy relationship with polite society. If you're listening around children, coworkers, or anyone who still whispers the word "vagina," do yourself a favour and grab your headphones.

]]>true2522350c-c131-5141-86af-ab2f5e61168depisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/would-you-still-choose-him-if-you-weren-t-afraid-to-be-alone--74985452
No soulmate. No next husband. No gorgeous silver fox who finally understands your nervous system, remembers how you take your coffee, fucks you properly, and holds your hand while the two of you toddle adorably toward death.

Could you still build a fucking magnificent life?

Because there is a possibility nobody particularly likes talking about: you can heal your shit, become emotionally available, learn to communicate, masturbate like an Olympic event, manifest under twelve full moons, and still not find your person.

And if that possibility terrifies you, we should probably talk about it.
In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the strange, uncomfortable territory of being alone—and the enormous amount of energy women spend trying to make sure they never have to be.

There is dating because someone genuinely adds something extraordinary to your life.
And then there is auditioning humans because the silence in your house makes you want to crawl out of your skin.

Those produce very different relationships.

They talk about empty nests, losing pets, divorce, long-distance love, celibacy, identity shifts, solo travel, masturbation, hyper-independence, and the mildly horrifying question of who you are when nobody needs anything from you.

Because motherhood can end as a daily job. Careers change. Bodies change. Lovers leave. Children grow up. Partners die. Sometimes the identity you've been wearing disappears before you've figured out who the hell is underneath it.

And loneliness can make mediocre people look remarkably fuckable.
Tanja shares why she deliberately stopped dating and sat inside the possibility that she might never have another great love—and the freedom she discovered when finding a relationship stopped being a full-time fucking job.

Suzy talks about sitting alone in her suddenly silent house after losing her dog, her children no longer needing her every day, and realizing how much of life had been organized around roles that were changing underneath her.

Then they ask the question underneath all of it:
If you stopped treating being alone as a problem to solve, what kind of life would you create?
Because once you genuinely enjoy your own company, the admission price for entering your life gets considerably higher.

A relationship has to be worth the space it occupies and that changes who gets through the fucking door.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74985452Mon, 07 Sep 2026 23:38:28 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingWhat if nobody is coming? No soulmate. No next husband. No gorgeous silver fox who finally understands your nervous system, remembers how you take your coffee, fucks you properly, and holds your hand while the two of you toddle adorably toward death....
No soulmate. No next husband. No gorgeous silver fox who finally understands your nervous system, remembers how you take your coffee, fucks you properly, and holds your hand while the two of you toddle adorably toward death.

Could you still build a fucking magnificent life?

Because there is a possibility nobody particularly likes talking about: you can heal your shit, become emotionally available, learn to communicate, masturbate like an Olympic event, manifest under twelve full moons, and still not find your person.

And if that possibility terrifies you, we should probably talk about it.
In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the strange, uncomfortable territory of being alone—and the enormous amount of energy women spend trying to make sure they never have to be.

There is dating because someone genuinely adds something extraordinary to your life.
And then there is auditioning humans because the silence in your house makes you want to crawl out of your skin.

Those produce very different relationships.

They talk about empty nests, losing pets, divorce, long-distance love, celibacy, identity shifts, solo travel, masturbation, hyper-independence, and the mildly horrifying question of who you are when nobody needs anything from you.

Because motherhood can end as a daily job. Careers change. Bodies change. Lovers leave. Children grow up. Partners die. Sometimes the identity you've been wearing disappears before you've figured out who the hell is underneath it.

And loneliness can make mediocre people look remarkably fuckable.
Tanja shares why she deliberately stopped dating and sat inside the possibility that she might never have another great love—and the freedom she discovered when finding a relationship stopped being a full-time fucking job.

Suzy talks about sitting alone in her suddenly silent house after losing her dog, her children no longer needing her every day, and realizing how much of life had been organized around roles that were changing underneath her.

Then they ask the question underneath all of it:
If you stopped treating being alone as a problem to solve, what kind of life would you create?
Because once you genuinely enjoy your own company, the admission price for entering your life gets considerably higher.

A relationship has to be worth the space it occupies and that changes who gets through the fucking door.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and...]]>2098aging,alone,celibacy,dating,divorce,freedom,fulfillment,identity,independence,intimacy,loneliness,masturbation,motherhood,partnership,purpose,relationships,selflove,sexuality,solitude,vulnerabilitytrue111fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-your-relationship-survive-the-truth--74985292
Do you?

Because sometimes what we actually mean is:

Tell me the truth as long as I still feel beautiful, chosen, desirable, secure, and completely unthreatened when you're finished.

Good fucking luck with that.

In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy wander straight into one of the biggest relationship landmines nobody wants to admit exists: we demand honesty from our partners while quietly having a list of answers they absolutely better not fucking give us.

Do you really want to know where you rank among his previous lovers?
Whether he finds other women attractive?
What he thinks about when you're not around?
Whether every sexual fantasy he has includes you?
Whether you're actually the best sex he's ever had?

Careful.

There are questions you cannot un-ask and answers you cannot un-hear.

Suzy knows exactly where her line is. She doesn't want the intimate details of her partner's previous relationships, and she's perfectly comfortable leaving that particular archaeological dig alone.
Tanja is wired differently. She wants transparency—including the shit she knows might hurt.
And sometimes it does.

Which raises a much more interesting question than whether your partner is honest:
Are you safe to tell the truth to?

Because asking someone for honesty and then punishing them for the answer teaches them something very quickly. It teaches them to edit. To omit. To soften. To calculate which version of reality you can tolerate.

Then everybody wonders where the intimacy went.

Tanja and Suzy get into jealousy, previous lovers, insecurity, passive-aggressive texting, relationship check-ins, painful conversations, emotional accountability, and that universally understood romantic gesture known as the thumbs-up emoji.
You know the one.
👍

International relationship dialect for “fuck you.”

They also unpack something women rarely consider: sometimes a man's reluctance to tell the truth has very little to do with deception. He may already know exactly what happens when his truth causes pain.

Real honesty requires a relationship capable of surviving discomfort.
You get to feel hurt.
Your partner gets to tell the truth, and when the truth lands badly, both people need enough emotional intelligence to stay in the fucking room.

Because intimacy isn't created by knowing everything about another person.

It's created when the truth is allowed to exist between you without becoming a weapon.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74985292Mon, 07 Sep 2026 23:32:03 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy Easterling“I just want him to be honest with me.” Do you? Because sometimes what we actually mean is: Tell me the truth as long as I still feel beautiful, chosen, desirable, secure, and completely unthreatened when you're finished. Good fucking luck with...
Do you?

Because sometimes what we actually mean is:

Tell me the truth as long as I still feel beautiful, chosen, desirable, secure, and completely unthreatened when you're finished.

Good fucking luck with that.

In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy wander straight into one of the biggest relationship landmines nobody wants to admit exists: we demand honesty from our partners while quietly having a list of answers they absolutely better not fucking give us.

Do you really want to know where you rank among his previous lovers?
Whether he finds other women attractive?
What he thinks about when you're not around?
Whether every sexual fantasy he has includes you?
Whether you're actually the best sex he's ever had?

Careful.

There are questions you cannot un-ask and answers you cannot un-hear.

Suzy knows exactly where her line is. She doesn't want the intimate details of her partner's previous relationships, and she's perfectly comfortable leaving that particular archaeological dig alone.
Tanja is wired differently. She wants transparency—including the shit she knows might hurt.
And sometimes it does.

Which raises a much more interesting question than whether your partner is honest:
Are you safe to tell the truth to?

Because asking someone for honesty and then punishing them for the answer teaches them something very quickly. It teaches them to edit. To omit. To soften. To calculate which version of reality you can tolerate.

Then everybody wonders where the intimacy went.

Tanja and Suzy get into jealousy, previous lovers, insecurity, passive-aggressive texting, relationship check-ins, painful conversations, emotional accountability, and that universally understood romantic gesture known as the thumbs-up emoji.
You know the one.
👍

International relationship dialect for “fuck you.”

They also unpack something women rarely consider: sometimes a man's reluctance to tell the truth has very little to do with deception. He may already know exactly what happens when his truth causes pain.

Real honesty requires a relationship capable of surviving discomfort.
You get to feel hurt.
Your partner gets to tell the truth, and when the truth lands badly, both people need enough emotional intelligence to stay in the fucking room.

Because intimacy isn't created by knowing everything about another person.

It's created when the truth is allowed to exist between you without becoming a weapon.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and...]]>2426accountability,betrayal,boundaries,communication,conflict,courage,honesty,insecurity,intimacy,jealousy,partnership,reassurance,relationships,repair,safety,transparency,triggers,trust,truth,vulnerabilitytrue110fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/his-dick-is-not-your-yelp-review--74700329
Suddenly you’re conducting a full forensic investigation of your own desirability. Was it the lighting? Your thighs? Something you did with your mouth? Is he attracted to you? Is he thinking about somebody else? Does he watch too much porn? ARE YOU BEING REJECTED BY A PENIS?

Welcome to one of the weirdest things women have been taught about male sexuality: if he wants you, he’ll be hard. If he’s really turned on, he’ll stay hard, and if that erection disappears somewhere between making out and the main event, obviously something has gone terribly wrong.

Except erections don’t work that way.In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the gloriously awkward territory of erections, soft-ons, performance anxiety, attraction, connection, porn, aging, medication and the enormous psychological pressure we’ve attached to one relatively unpredictable body part.

Tanja also confesses the first time a man didn’t get hard while making out with her, she essentially interpreted his penis as a rejection letter and went home. Growth occurred eventually because a man can be wildly attracted to you and lose his erection. He can be aroused without having one. He can soften because he’s stressed, distracted, trying not to come too quickly, taking medication, dealing with blood sugar issues, feeling performance pressure, or because his particular nervous system needs more connection than his ego would prefer to admit.

Sometimes there actually is something worth talking about. That’s why grown-up sex requires curiosity instead of immediate catastrophe.The conversation eventually wanders into territory nobody seems to discuss: what happens when we stop treating a soft penis like a sexual emergency?

What happens when intercourse stops being the inevitable destination of every sexual encounter? What becomes possible when a man doesn’t have to prove his masculinity, attraction or sexual competence with an erection every second he’s touching you?

Turns out, quite a lot. There is an intimacy available when neither person is performing for the other. There’s also an entire playground most people miss because they’re too busy trying to get the damn erection back.

Your desirability was never meant to be measured in inches of penile rigidity and his manhood certainly shouldn’t be either.This week, we’re taking the pressure off the penis. Possibly literally.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74700329Wed, 26 Aug 2026 17:42:26 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingThere it is.You’re naked. You’re into it. He’s into it and his dick has apparently decided not to participate. Suddenly you’re conducting a full forensic investigation of your own desirability. Was it the lighting? Your thighs? Something you did with...
Suddenly you’re conducting a full forensic investigation of your own desirability. Was it the lighting? Your thighs? Something you did with your mouth? Is he attracted to you? Is he thinking about somebody else? Does he watch too much porn? ARE YOU BEING REJECTED BY A PENIS?

Welcome to one of the weirdest things women have been taught about male sexuality: if he wants you, he’ll be hard. If he’s really turned on, he’ll stay hard, and if that erection disappears somewhere between making out and the main event, obviously something has gone terribly wrong.

Except erections don’t work that way.In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the gloriously awkward territory of erections, soft-ons, performance anxiety, attraction, connection, porn, aging, medication and the enormous psychological pressure we’ve attached to one relatively unpredictable body part.

Tanja also confesses the first time a man didn’t get hard while making out with her, she essentially interpreted his penis as a rejection letter and went home. Growth occurred eventually because a man can be wildly attracted to you and lose his erection. He can be aroused without having one. He can soften because he’s stressed, distracted, trying not to come too quickly, taking medication, dealing with blood sugar issues, feeling performance pressure, or because his particular nervous system needs more connection than his ego would prefer to admit.

Sometimes there actually is something worth talking about. That’s why grown-up sex requires curiosity instead of immediate catastrophe.The conversation eventually wanders into territory nobody seems to discuss: what happens when we stop treating a soft penis like a sexual emergency?

What happens when intercourse stops being the inevitable destination of every sexual encounter? What becomes possible when a man doesn’t have to prove his masculinity, attraction or sexual competence with an erection every second he’s touching you?

Turns out, quite a lot. There is an intimacy available when neither person is performing for the other. There’s also an entire playground most people miss because they’re too busy trying to get the damn erection back.

Your desirability was never meant to be measured in inches of penile rigidity and his manhood certainly shouldn’t be either.This week, we’re taking the pressure off the penis. Possibly literally.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after...]]>2443anxiety,arousal,attraction,communication,connection,desire,erections,intercourse,intimacy,masculinity,orgasm,penis,performance,pleasure,porn,relationships,sexuality,softons,viagra,vulnerabilitytrue19fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-have-to-say-the-thing-already--74648678
You don’t bring it up before work because you don’t want to ruin his day. You don’t bring it up when he gets home because he’s exhausted. You don’t bring it up before bed because who wants to detonate the relationship at 10:47 p.m.? Then the weekend arrives and everything feels good, so obviously you don’t want to fuck that up either. Congratulations. There is apparently never a convenient time to tell the truth.

In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the kind of communication that actually creates intimacy: the uncomfortable, messy, vulnerable shit you’re terrified might make someone love you less. They talk about the difference between vulnerability and emotional dumping, how old relationship wounds sneak into perfectly good relationships, why accusations can wound someone you love, and what happens when you sit on something so long that a tiny fear turns into an entire Netflix series inside your head.

Tanja shares what happened when Matthias told her, “You have to believe I’m strong enough to hold us through this.” Suzy talks about a communication fuckup that deeply hurt her partner and what repairing it taught her about speaking the fear underneath the accusation.

They also get into the glorious relationship invention known as the do-over—because sometimes the thing that came out of your mouth was absolutely not what your nervous system was attempting to communicate. And then there’s the other half nobody wants to talk about.

Can your partner tell you the truth? Because wanting radical honesty sounds fabulous until somebody says something you don’t particularly enjoy hearing. Real communication requires curiosity. It requires listening without spending the entire conversation loading your rebuttal cannon. It requires being able to say, “What I heard you say was…” instead of immediately launching into “Yeah, but what about when YOU…”

They also get practical about why sitting beside each other can change a difficult conversation, how physical touch can help keep you connected during conflict, when pausing a conversation is healthy, and why urgency can be a clue that an old trigger has grabbed the microphone.If you want someone to know you deeply, eventually you have to let them meet the parts of you that aren’t polished yet.

You might say it badly.They might respond badly.Then you repair. Because intimacy was never going to be built entirely out of conversations that were easy to have.

Sometimes you just have to say the fucking thing.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/74648678Mon, 24 Aug 2026 15:43:55 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingEverybody says communication is the secret to a great relationship. Fantastic. Then why are so many of us walking around our own relationships rehearsing conversations in our heads for three fucking days? You don’t bring it up before work because you...
You don’t bring it up before work because you don’t want to ruin his day. You don’t bring it up when he gets home because he’s exhausted. You don’t bring it up before bed because who wants to detonate the relationship at 10:47 p.m.? Then the weekend arrives and everything feels good, so obviously you don’t want to fuck that up either. Congratulations. There is apparently never a convenient time to tell the truth.

In this episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy get into the kind of communication that actually creates intimacy: the uncomfortable, messy, vulnerable shit you’re terrified might make someone love you less. They talk about the difference between vulnerability and emotional dumping, how old relationship wounds sneak into perfectly good relationships, why accusations can wound someone you love, and what happens when you sit on something so long that a tiny fear turns into an entire Netflix series inside your head.

Tanja shares what happened when Matthias told her, “You have to believe I’m strong enough to hold us through this.” Suzy talks about a communication fuckup that deeply hurt her partner and what repairing it taught her about speaking the fear underneath the accusation.

They also get into the glorious relationship invention known as the do-over—because sometimes the thing that came out of your mouth was absolutely not what your nervous system was attempting to communicate. And then there’s the other half nobody wants to talk about.

Can your partner tell you the truth? Because wanting radical honesty sounds fabulous until somebody says something you don’t particularly enjoy hearing. Real communication requires curiosity. It requires listening without spending the entire conversation loading your rebuttal cannon. It requires being able to say, “What I heard you say was…” instead of immediately launching into “Yeah, but what about when YOU…”

They also get practical about why sitting beside each other can change a difficult conversation, how physical touch can help keep you connected during conflict, when pausing a conversation is healthy, and why urgency can be a clue that an old trigger has grabbed the microphone.If you want someone to know you deeply, eventually you have to let them meet the parts of you that aren’t polished yet.

You might say it badly.They might respond badly.Then you repair. Because intimacy was never going to be built entirely out of conversations that were easy to have.

Sometimes you just have to say the fucking thing.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss,...]]>2928abandonment,accountability,communication,conflict,connection,courage,curiosity,defensiveness,honesty,intimacy,listening,love,partnership,relationships,repair,safety,triggers,trust,truth,vulnerabilitytrue18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nobody-taught-you-this-about-sex--73493368
Then we wonder why so many women think they don't enjoy sex... and so many men are terrified of losing an erection.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy open the toy drawer, the science books, and a few conversations most couples never have.

They talk pelvic floors that are actually too tight, why doing more Kegels can make leaking worse, lubricants, arousal oils, mouth-watering mints (yes, really), vaginal probiotics, menopause, body image, performance anxiety, and why slowing everything down might completely change your sex life.
Then the conversation goes somewhere much deeper.

Why have we made intercourse the main event?

Why do women stay silent about what actually feels good?

Why do men believe their erection determines their worth?

And why are so many couples performing sex instead of experiencing it?

This episode is about becoming more curious, more honest, and far less attached to the script we've all been handed.

Because the best lovers aren't the ones who know all the moves. They're the ones who keep learning.
Curiosity required. Shame can stay outside.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73493368Wed, 12 Aug 2026 02:30:02 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingMost people learned sex from awkward conversations, bad lovers, Hollywood, porn, or complete silence. Then we wonder why so many women think they don't enjoy sex... and so many men are terrified of losing an erection. In this episode, Tanja and Suzy...
Then we wonder why so many women think they don't enjoy sex... and so many men are terrified of losing an erection.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy open the toy drawer, the science books, and a few conversations most couples never have.

They talk pelvic floors that are actually too tight, why doing more Kegels can make leaking worse, lubricants, arousal oils, mouth-watering mints (yes, really), vaginal probiotics, menopause, body image, performance anxiety, and why slowing everything down might completely change your sex life.
Then the conversation goes somewhere much deeper.

Why have we made intercourse the main event?

Why do women stay silent about what actually feels good?

Why do men believe their erection determines their worth?

And why are so many couples performing sex instead of experiencing it?

This episode is about becoming more curious, more honest, and far less attached to the script we've all been handed.

Because the best lovers aren't the ones who know all the moves. They're the ones who keep learning.
Curiosity required. Shame can stay outside.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>3184arousal,communication,confidence,connection,desire,erections,foreplay,intimacy,kegels,lubrication,menopause,orgasm,pelvicfloor,pleasure,relationships,sensuality,sex,sexuality,vagina,womentrue17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/confessions-of-an-exhausted-pussy--73493114My pussy is tired.

That was the tex, Tanja sent to Suzy one Tuesday. No "Hi." No context.

No warning. Just..."My pussy is tired."

Most friendships would end there, ours apparently becomes a podcast.

Turns out Tanja wasn't being poetic. She'd been putting her pelvic floor through boot camp with a biofeedback gadget that turns your vagina into a video game controller.

Somewhere in the middle of trying to make a dolphin catch fish with her pelvic muscles, she discovered she'd accidentally overtrained her vagina.

Which raises a surprisingly important question.

Why do women know how to train their abs... but not the muscles that keep them from peeing when they sneeze?

In this episode we go gloriously off the rails. We talk pelvic floors, Kegels, orgasms, movement, body image, eating disorders, self-care, sex machines assembled by adult daughters, and why your vagina probably deserves at least as much attention as your skincare routine.

Because somewhere along the way, women were taught to maintain everything except themselves. And honestly...If your pelvic floor could leave you a Google review, it might only be two stars.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73493114Wed, 05 Aug 2026 12:44:10 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingMy pussy is tired. That was the tex, Tanja sent to Suzy one Tuesday. No "Hi." No context. No warning. Just..."My pussy is tired." Most friendships would end there, ours apparently becomes a podcast. Turns out Tanja wasn't being poetic. She'd been...My pussy is tired.

That was the tex, Tanja sent to Suzy one Tuesday. No "Hi." No context.

No warning. Just..."My pussy is tired."

Most friendships would end there, ours apparently becomes a podcast.

Turns out Tanja wasn't being poetic. She'd been putting her pelvic floor through boot camp with a biofeedback gadget that turns your vagina into a video game controller.

Somewhere in the middle of trying to make a dolphin catch fish with her pelvic muscles, she discovered she'd accidentally overtrained her vagina.

Which raises a surprisingly important question.

Why do women know how to train their abs... but not the muscles that keep them from peeing when they sneeze?

In this episode we go gloriously off the rails. We talk pelvic floors, Kegels, orgasms, movement, body image, eating disorders, self-care, sex machines assembled by adult daughters, and why your vagina probably deserves at least as much attention as your skincare routine.

Because somewhere along the way, women were taught to maintain everything except themselves. And honestly...If your pelvic floor could leave you a Google review, it might only be two stars.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>2406adulttoys,biofeedback,incontinence,kegels,overtraining,pee,peritfit,pussy,sex,sexmachines,tens,vagina,womentrue16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-dating-your-to-do-list--73242928
At some point you became the woman who could do everything. Pay the bills. Solve the crisis. Book the flights. Organize the family. Remember everybody's birthdays. Keep the relationship alive.

Carry the emotional load. Kill the spider. Open the pickle jar. File your own taxes.

Congratulations.You're dating your to-do list. Somewhere along the way, independence stopped being freedom and quietly became an identity.

Asking for help started feeling embarrassing. Being cherished felt suspicious, and letting a man open the damn door somehow became a political statement.

No wonder you're tired.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy commit the modern feminist equivalent of licking a battery.

 They ask whether strength has become something women perform instead of something they actually feel. They wander into masculine and feminine energy without the internet's alpha-bro chest beating, submissive-wife cosplay, or "high-value" nonsense.Instead, they ask a far more dangerous question.

What if your competence isn't protecting you anymore?

What if it's protecting you from intimacy?

There's laughter and swearing. There's stories about pink feather tiaras, combat boots, opening car doors, emotional armor, and the terrifying realization that being able to do everything doesn't necessarily mean you should.

Because maybe the bravest thing a strong woman will ever do......is let someone else carry the groceries.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73242928Wed, 29 Jul 2026 19:20:31 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingStrong women are exhausting. Not to men, to themselves. At some point you became the woman who could do everything. Pay the bills. Solve the crisis. Book the flights. Organize the family. Remember everybody's birthdays. Keep the relationship alive....
At some point you became the woman who could do everything. Pay the bills. Solve the crisis. Book the flights. Organize the family. Remember everybody's birthdays. Keep the relationship alive.

Carry the emotional load. Kill the spider. Open the pickle jar. File your own taxes.

Congratulations.You're dating your to-do list. Somewhere along the way, independence stopped being freedom and quietly became an identity.

Asking for help started feeling embarrassing. Being cherished felt suspicious, and letting a man open the damn door somehow became a political statement.

No wonder you're tired.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy commit the modern feminist equivalent of licking a battery.

 They ask whether strength has become something women perform instead of something they actually feel. They wander into masculine and feminine energy without the internet's alpha-bro chest beating, submissive-wife cosplay, or "high-value" nonsense.Instead, they ask a far more dangerous question.

What if your competence isn't protecting you anymore?

What if it's protecting you from intimacy?

There's laughter and swearing. There's stories about pink feather tiaras, combat boots, opening car doors, emotional armor, and the terrifying realization that being able to do everything doesn't necessarily mean you should.

Because maybe the bravest thing a strong woman will ever do......is let someone else carry the groceries.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>3774burnout,connection,emotional,femininity,hyperindependence,intimacy,masculinity,men,overfunctioning,partnership,receiving,relationships,safety,self-reliance,self-worth,sex,softness,trust,vulnerability,womentrue13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-partner-s-mistress-fits-in-his-pocket--72851082
Because cocaine is just powder, gambling is just cards, and social media is just an app. People have an incredible talent for minimizing the things quietly running their lives. 

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy stop pretending internet porn is the same thing as the Playboy hidden under someone's mattress in 1987. It isn't. One was a magazine. The other is an algorithm engineered to keep your brain chasing the next dopamine hit until real intimacy starts feeling... inconvenient.

They talk about the marriages damaged by pornography, the partners left wondering why they're lying next to someone who would rather have sex with a screen, and the heartbreaking reality that children are being introduced to violent pornography before they're old enough to understand what they're seeing.

They also unpack why so many people defend porn with "everybody does it," while quietly ignoring the loneliness, erectile dysfunction, betrayal, emotional disconnection, and addiction that often follow.

This isn't an argument about whether naked bodies are offensive. It's a conversation about what happens when pixels become more rewarding than people, fantasy becomes easier than vulnerability, and the phone in your partner's hand starts getting more intimacy than you do.

You don't have to agree with us. But before you tell yourself it's "no big deal," ask one uncomfortable question. If your partner had spent the last six months choosing another person over you every single day, would you still call it harmless... just because that person lived inside a screen?

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72851082Tue, 21 Jul 2026 02:25:02 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingYour husband says it's "just porn." That's adorable. Because cocaine is just powder, gambling is just cards, and social media is just an app. People have an incredible talent for minimizing the things quietly running their lives.  In this episode,...
Because cocaine is just powder, gambling is just cards, and social media is just an app. People have an incredible talent for minimizing the things quietly running their lives. 

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy stop pretending internet porn is the same thing as the Playboy hidden under someone's mattress in 1987. It isn't. One was a magazine. The other is an algorithm engineered to keep your brain chasing the next dopamine hit until real intimacy starts feeling... inconvenient.

They talk about the marriages damaged by pornography, the partners left wondering why they're lying next to someone who would rather have sex with a screen, and the heartbreaking reality that children are being introduced to violent pornography before they're old enough to understand what they're seeing.

They also unpack why so many people defend porn with "everybody does it," while quietly ignoring the loneliness, erectile dysfunction, betrayal, emotional disconnection, and addiction that often follow.

This isn't an argument about whether naked bodies are offensive. It's a conversation about what happens when pixels become more rewarding than people, fantasy becomes easier than vulnerability, and the phone in your partner's hand starts getting more intimacy than you do.

You don't have to agree with us. But before you tell yourself it's "no big deal," ask one uncomfortable question. If your partner had spent the last six months choosing another person over you every single day, would you still call it harmless... just because that person lived inside a screen?

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
https://www.facebook.com/suzy.easterling

Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>2280addiction,betrayal,conflict,connection,couples,digital,dopamine,insecurity,internet,intimacy,lies,men,novelty,porn,relationships,secrets,sex,womentrue14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/congratulations-you-re-officially-too-old-to-be-seen--72850849

When did you stop feeling visible?

Women over 40 rarely talk about the moment they realize they're no longer the woman who turns every head in the room. Menopause arrives. Bodies change. Skin changes. Hair changes. Confidence shifts.

Society starts whispering that youth equals value, and too many women begin believing it. In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy pull the curtain back on what aging as a woman really feels like.

They share honest stories about menopause, body image, gray hair, sagging breasts, changing sexuality, self-worth, and the grief that can come with feeling invisible, even inside your own relationship. They also tackle the questions women often carry in silence.

Can you still feel desirable after 40?

What happens when your partner no longer reflects back the beauty you long to feel?

How do you rebuild confidence when your body no longer looks or behaves the way it once did?

And what if the biggest battle isn't aging... but believing the lie that your value disappears with your youth?

This isn't a conversation about pretending to love every wrinkle or forcing fake confidence. It's about reclaiming your identity, your sexuality, and your power in a culture that profits from women believing they're no longer enough. If you've ever looked in the mirror and wondered where she went... this episode is for you.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72850849Fri, 17 Jul 2026 15:34:09 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingWhat happens when the world starts looking through you instead of at you? When did you stop feeling visible? Women over 40 rarely talk about the moment they realize they're no longer the woman who turns every head in the room. Menopause arrives....

When did you stop feeling visible?

Women over 40 rarely talk about the moment they realize they're no longer the woman who turns every head in the room. Menopause arrives. Bodies change. Skin changes. Hair changes. Confidence shifts.

Society starts whispering that youth equals value, and too many women begin believing it. In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Well-Fucked Woman, Tanja and Suzy pull the curtain back on what aging as a woman really feels like.

They share honest stories about menopause, body image, gray hair, sagging breasts, changing sexuality, self-worth, and the grief that can come with feeling invisible, even inside your own relationship. They also tackle the questions women often carry in silence.

Can you still feel desirable after 40?

What happens when your partner no longer reflects back the beauty you long to feel?

How do you rebuild confidence when your body no longer looks or behaves the way it once did?

And what if the biggest battle isn't aging... but believing the lie that your value disappears with your youth?

This isn't a conversation about pretending to love every wrinkle or forcing fake confidence. It's about reclaiming your identity, your sexuality, and your power in a culture that profits from women believing they're no longer enough. If you've ever looked in the mirror and wondered where she went... this episode is for you.


Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
https://www.facebook.com/tanja.diamond/ 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>2459aging,beauty,confidence,empowerment,insecurity,invisible,menopause,old,over40,relationships,seen,self-worth,sex,standards women's,womantrue13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-vulva-called-she-s-been-ignored--72836684
She's been with you your entire life, and somehow she still hasn't been properly introduced.

Most women can name every Kardashian, identify fifty shades of beige at the paint store, and navigate a smartphone with the confidence of an FBI agent.

Ask them to point to their clitoris, explain the difference between a vulva and a vagina, or describe what actually gives them pleasure, and suddenly we're all pretending to need another glass of wine.

That isn't stupidity, it's bad training.We were taught how not to get pregnant. We were taught how not to look "easy." We were taught how to cross our legs, lower our voices, and call our vulva a "down there."

Then the universe handed us a partner and expected us to confidently direct traffic in a neighborhood nobody ever gave us a map for.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy finally have the conversation your sex education teacher skipped because they were too busy putting condoms on bananas. They talk about beginner and expert vulvas, why every woman's anatomy is beautifully different, how shame quietly sabotages pleasure, and why the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have is the one with your own body.

Here's the uncomfortable truth. You can't ask someone to love a body you've never been taught to know. You can't expect your partner to read a map you've never seen yourself. Great sex isn't mind reading, it's body literacy.

You may find yourself standing in front of a mirror later thinking, "Well... we clearly need to get acquainted."Good.Your vulva has been waiting for this meeting for years.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72836684Fri, 17 Jul 2026 15:33:54 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingYour vulva has a complaint. She's been with you your entire life, and somehow she still hasn't been properly introduced. Most women can name every Kardashian, identify fifty shades of beige at the paint store, and navigate a smartphone with the...
She's been with you your entire life, and somehow she still hasn't been properly introduced.

Most women can name every Kardashian, identify fifty shades of beige at the paint store, and navigate a smartphone with the confidence of an FBI agent.

Ask them to point to their clitoris, explain the difference between a vulva and a vagina, or describe what actually gives them pleasure, and suddenly we're all pretending to need another glass of wine.

That isn't stupidity, it's bad training.We were taught how not to get pregnant. We were taught how not to look "easy." We were taught how to cross our legs, lower our voices, and call our vulva a "down there."

Then the universe handed us a partner and expected us to confidently direct traffic in a neighborhood nobody ever gave us a map for.

In this episode, Tanja and Suzy finally have the conversation your sex education teacher skipped because they were too busy putting condoms on bananas. They talk about beginner and expert vulvas, why every woman's anatomy is beautifully different, how shame quietly sabotages pleasure, and why the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have is the one with your own body.

Here's the uncomfortable truth. You can't ask someone to love a body you've never been taught to know. You can't expect your partner to read a map you've never seen yourself. Great sex isn't mind reading, it's body literacy.

You may find yourself standing in front of a mirror later thinking, "Well... we clearly need to get acquainted."Good.Your vulva has been waiting for this meeting for years.

Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>2209anatomy women's,communication,empowerment sex,growth,healing,health sexual,intimacy,relationships,self,sex,sexual,sexuality female,suzy,tanja,tantra,twfw,vulva,wellness,worthtrue12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/good-girls-don-t-talk-like-this--72830885
What if it's the belief that we're supposed to keep the most important parts of ourselves quiet?

We learn to smile when we're hurting, soften our opinions so we're easier to love, and avoid the conversations that might make other people uncomfortable. Then we wonder why so many women feel disconnected from themselves, their partners, and each other.

Welcome to The Well-Fucked Woman.In our first episode, Tanja and Suzy introduce themselves by doing exactly what women are rarely encouraged to do. They tell the truth. They share stories about relationships, grief, sexuality, trauma, healing, marriage, divorce, self-worth, and the winding paths that brought them here.

There are no polished scripts, no carefully curated personas, and no pretending to have all the answers. Just two women willing to say out loud what many people only think in private.

This podcast isn't about shock value, it's  about honesty. It's about creating the conversations most of us wish we'd had years ago, before shame, silence, and other people's expectations taught us to hide parts of ourselves.

We'll talk about sex without embarrassment, relationships without fantasy, personal growth without spiritual performance, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human.If you've ever felt like the advice you've been given didn't quite fit your life, your body, or your relationships, you've found your people.

We don't promise comfortable conversations. We promise real ones.



Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us: 
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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72830885Tue, 14 Jul 2026 02:30:11 +0000Tanja Diamond $ Suzy EasterlingWhat if the biggest lie women have ever been sold isn't about beauty, relationships, or sex? What if it's the belief that we're supposed to keep the most important parts of ourselves quiet? We learn to smile when we're hurting, soften our opinions...
What if it's the belief that we're supposed to keep the most important parts of ourselves quiet?

We learn to smile when we're hurting, soften our opinions so we're easier to love, and avoid the conversations that might make other people uncomfortable. Then we wonder why so many women feel disconnected from themselves, their partners, and each other.

Welcome to The Well-Fucked Woman.In our first episode, Tanja and Suzy introduce themselves by doing exactly what women are rarely encouraged to do. They tell the truth. They share stories about relationships, grief, sexuality, trauma, healing, marriage, divorce, self-worth, and the winding paths that brought them here.

There are no polished scripts, no carefully curated personas, and no pretending to have all the answers. Just two women willing to say out loud what many people only think in private.

This podcast isn't about shock value, it's  about honesty. It's about creating the conversations most of us wish we'd had years ago, before shame, silence, and other people's expectations taught us to hide parts of ourselves.

We'll talk about sex without embarrassment, relationships without fantasy, personal growth without spiritual performance, and the messy, beautiful reality of being human.If you've ever felt like the advice you've been given didn't quite fit your life, your body, or your relationships, you've found your people.

We don't promise comfortable conversations. We promise real ones.



Listener Advisory: TWFW is an unapologetically candid podcast. Use your headphones if in public.

Episodes drop weekly, Got a topic you’re dying to hear us unravel?  Email us—we’re listening. twfwpodcast@gmail.com

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Tanja Diamond is a life & business strategist, Tantra Master, speaker and 13-time best-selling author who has spent nearly four decades helping people create more kickass lives. Known for blending neuroscience, psychology, contemplative traditions, and unapologetic honesty, she challenges conventional Click to Book Tanja

Suzy Easterling is a certified life coach, speaker and unapologetic rule breaker when it comes to how we talk about and navigate grief. She is here to help you reclaim your life after loss, big or small, on your own terms. Drawing from both her personal and professional experience she mixes raw honesty, humor and no b.s.  She empowers people to turn their pain into purpose and prove that even after loss and life’s hardest times, joy is still within reach.]]>1635communication,confidence,education,empowerment,genitals,intimacy,pleasure,pussy,relationships,sex,sexual,sexuality,shame,vagina,vulva,women'strue11full