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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Tethered and Whole</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/tethered-and-whole--6689214</link><description><![CDATA["Tethered and Whole," hosted by Matt Weld, is your weekly guide to thriving in education. Designed specifically for educators, this podcast explores essential personal and interpersonal skills crucial for preventing burnout and boosting teacher retention. Each week, Matt provides actionable insights and strategies, empowering you to cultivate self-awareness, enhance well-being, and navigate challenges with resilience. Learn to show up as your best self, fully present and effective, so you can wholeheartedly support the students in your classroom and rediscover the joy in your vital profession. Tune in every week to become more tethered to your purpose and whole in your practice.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6689214/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Education</category><copyright>Matthew Weld</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg</url><title>Tethered and Whole</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/tethered-and-whole--6689214</link></image><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 11:03:04 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Matthew Weld</itunes:name><itunes:email>tethered.whole@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>"Tethered and Whole," hosted by Matt Weld, is your weekly guide to thriving in education. Designed specifically for educators, this podcast explores essential personal and interpersonal skills crucial for preventing burnout and boosting teacher...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["Tethered and Whole," hosted by Matt Weld, is your weekly guide to thriving in education. Designed specifically for educators, this podcast explores essential personal and interpersonal skills crucial for preventing burnout and boosting teacher retention. Each week, Matt provides actionable insights and strategies, empowering you to cultivate self-awareness, enhance well-being, and navigate challenges with resilience. Learn to show up as your best self, fully present and effective, so you can wholeheartedly support the students in your classroom and rediscover the joy in your vital profession. Tune in every week to become more tethered to your purpose and whole in your practice.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Education"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>Ep 40: The Ultimate Power of Hope</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-40-the-ultimate-power-of-hope--70897887</link><description><![CDATA[Exploring the transformative power of hope in education, this episode delves into how hope fuels resilience, motivation, and growth among educators and students. It emphasizes practical ways to cultivate hope and sustain it amidst systemic challenges.<br /><br />RESOURCES:<br /><b>Tethered and Whole (Book)</b> - https://www.amazon.com/Tethered-Whole-Avoiding-Educator-Resilience/dp/B0GT2LHR2N <br /><b>Matthew Weld (Speaker)</b> - https://linkedin.com/in/matthewweld weldmatthew [at] gmail.com<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70897887</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 11:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70897887/ep_40_hope_yt.mp3" length="5718664" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Exploring the transformative power of hope in education, this episode delves into how hope fuels resilience, motivation, and growth among educators and students. It emphasizes practical ways to cultivate hope and sustain it amidst systemic challenges....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Exploring the transformative power of hope in education, this episode delves into how hope fuels resilience, motivation, and growth among educators and students. It emphasizes practical ways to cultivate hope and sustain it amidst systemic challenges.<br /><br />RESOURCES:<br /><b>Tethered and Whole (Book)</b> - https://www.amazon.com/Tethered-Whole-Avoiding-Educator-Resilience/dp/B0GT2LHR2N <br /><b>Matthew Weld (Speaker)</b> - https://linkedin.com/in/matthewweld weldmatthew [at] gmail.com<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>358</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,change,classroom,education,growth,hope,k-12,mindset,motivation,neuroplasticity,resilience,self-care,teacher,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 39: Choose &amp; Tell Your Story Wisely</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-39-choose-tell-your-story-wisely--70895544</link><description><![CDATA[Exploring how storytelling influences healing, growth, and future success, especially for educators reflecting on the past year.<br /> <br /><b>Resources:</b><br /><b>Narrative Psychology</b> - The Power of Stories in Healing - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/narrative-psychology<br /><b>Self-Care Strategies for Educators</b> - https://www.edutopia.org/article/self-care-strategies-teachers/<br /><b>Tethered and Whole Book</b> - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tethered-Whole-Avoiding-Educator-Resilience/dp/B0GT2LHR2N" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Building-Resilience-Educators-Strategies-Transform/dp/1234567890</a><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70895544</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 11:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70895544/ep_39_your_story_yt.mp3" length="6230664" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Exploring how storytelling influences healing, growth, and future success, especially for educators reflecting on the past year.
 
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Narrative Psychology - The Power of Stories in Healing -...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Exploring how storytelling influences healing, growth, and future success, especially for educators reflecting on the past year.<br /> <br /><b>Resources:</b><br /><b>Narrative Psychology</b> - The Power of Stories in Healing - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/narrative-psychology<br /><b>Self-Care Strategies for Educators</b> - https://www.edutopia.org/article/self-care-strategies-teachers/<br /><b>Tethered and Whole Book</b> - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tethered-Whole-Avoiding-Educator-Resilience/dp/B0GT2LHR2N" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Building-Resilience-Educators-Strategies-Transform/dp/1234567890</a><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>390</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,classroom,education,growth,k-12,narrative-psychology,reflection,resilience,school,self-care,storytelling,teacher,teacher-burnout,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 38: The Quiet Power of Patience in a Loud Profession</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-38-the-quiet-power-of-patience-in-a-loud-profession--70688260</link><description><![CDATA[Exploring the multifaceted nature of patience and its vital role in education, this episode delves into three types of patience—interpersonal, long-term, and short-term—and offers practical strategies for cultivating patience amidst the fast-paced demands of teaching.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70688260</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 11:05:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70688260/ep_38_patience_yt.mp3" length="8821593" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Exploring the multifaceted nature of patience and its vital role in education, this episode delves into three types of patience—interpersonal, long-term, and short-term—and offers practical strategies for cultivating patience amidst the fast-paced...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Exploring the multifaceted nature of patience and its vital role in education, this episode delves into three types of patience—interpersonal, long-term, and short-term—and offers practical strategies for cultivating patience amidst the fast-paced demands of teaching.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>552</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,education,mindfulness,patience,prevention,resilience,school,sel,self-care,self-regulation,stress-management,teacher,teaching,teaching-strategies</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 37:  Building Confidence is a Skill</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-37-building-confidence-is-a-skill--70599214</link><description><![CDATA[Exploring the multifaceted nature of confidence through real-life stories, psychological research, and practical strategies. Learn how confidence impacts decision-making, leadership, and personal growth, and discover actionable tips to build and sustain it.<br /><br />RESOURCES:<br />Carol Dweck's Growth Mindset Theory - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00K0O4K4Q<br />Dunning-Kruger Effect Research Paper - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1999-13377-001<br />Aaron Ralston's Survival Story - https://www.nationalgeographic.com/people-and-places/article/aaron-ralston-mountain-climber-amputation<br />Body Language Tips for Confidence - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-power-prime/201303/body-language-and-confidence<br />Growth Mindset Resources by Carol Dweck - https://www.mindsetworks.com/<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70599214</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 11:00:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70599214/ep_37_confidence_yt.mp3" length="11348992" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Exploring the multifaceted nature of confidence through real-life stories, psychological research, and practical strategies. Learn how confidence impacts decision-making, leadership, and personal growth, and discover actionable tips to build and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Exploring the multifaceted nature of confidence through real-life stories, psychological research, and practical strategies. Learn how confidence impacts decision-making, leadership, and personal growth, and discover actionable tips to build and sustain it.<br /><br />RESOURCES:<br />Carol Dweck's Growth Mindset Theory - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00K0O4K4Q<br />Dunning-Kruger Effect Research Paper - https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1999-13377-001<br />Aaron Ralston's Survival Story - https://www.nationalgeographic.com/people-and-places/article/aaron-ralston-mountain-climber-amputation<br />Body Language Tips for Confidence - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-power-prime/201303/body-language-and-confidence<br />Growth Mindset Resources by Carol Dweck - https://www.mindsetworks.com/<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>710</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,classroom,confidence,education,educator,school,self-care,teach,teachers,teaching,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 36: Curiosity - The Most Underrated SEL Skill</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-36-curiosity-the-most-underrated-sel-skill--70330392</link><description><![CDATA[Exploring the power of curiosity as a vital yet underrated strategy for growth, decision-making, and relationships. Learn how curiosity fosters humility, improves judgment, and transforms interactions in personal and professional life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70330392</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 14:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70330392/ep_36_curiosity.mp3" length="11060600" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Exploring the power of curiosity as a vital yet underrated strategy for growth, decision-making, and relationships. Learn how curiosity fosters humility, improves judgment, and transforms interactions in personal and professional life.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Exploring the power of curiosity as a vital yet underrated strategy for growth, decision-making, and relationships. Learn how curiosity fosters humility, improves judgment, and transforms interactions in personal and professional life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>692</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,curiosity,education,emotion,mentalhealth,relationships,school,sel,teacher,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 35: The Anger Issue</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-35-the-anger-issue--70330368</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Hole, Matthew Weld delves into the complex emotion of anger, exploring its roots, cultural implications, and how to manage it effectively. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging anger rather than suppressing it, and discusses how personal experiences shape our understanding of this powerful emotion. The conversation also highlights the cultural dynamics surrounding anger, particularly in relation to gender and race, and offers practical strategies for integrating anger into our lives in a healthy way.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70330368</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 12:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70330368/ep_35_anger.mp3" length="8043353" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Hole, Matthew Weld delves into the complex emotion of anger, exploring its roots, cultural implications, and how to manage it effectively. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging anger rather than suppressing it,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Hole, Matthew Weld delves into the complex emotion of anger, exploring its roots, cultural implications, and how to manage it effectively. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging anger rather than suppressing it, and discusses how personal experiences shape our understanding of this powerful emotion. The conversation also highlights the cultural dynamics surrounding anger, particularly in relation to gender and race, and offers practical strategies for integrating anger into our lives in a healthy way.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>503</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anger,classroom,education,mentalhealth,school,self-awareness,self-care,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 34: Reframing Failure</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-34-reframing-failure--70017698</link><description><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the concept of failure, emphasizing its role as a crucial part of growth and learning. He discusses how reframing failure from a negative experience to a source of information can lead to greater resilience and innovation, particularly in educational settings. By fostering a culture of reflection and openness about failure, individuals and organizations can enhance their learning processes and personal development.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70017698</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 12:05:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70017698/ep_34_reframing_failure.mp3" length="9965965" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the concept of failure, emphasizing its role as a crucial part of growth and learning. He discusses how reframing failure from a negative experience to a source of information can lead to greater resilience...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the concept of failure, emphasizing its role as a crucial part of growth and learning. He discusses how reframing failure from a negative experience to a source of information can lead to greater resilience and innovation, particularly in educational settings. By fostering a culture of reflection and openness about failure, individuals and organizations can enhance their learning processes and personal development.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>623</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>education,failure,resilience,schools,teacher,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 33: Combatting Anxiety with Calm</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-33-combatting-anxiety-with-calm--70017040</link><description><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complex nature of fear, worry, and anxiety, emphasizing their impact on human behavior and emotional well-being. He discusses how fear manifests in various forms and how it can influence our responses in different situations. Weld highlights the importance of calmness as a powerful antidote to fear and anxiety, suggesting that self-awareness and intentional calm can significantly improve our interactions and leadership abilities.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70017040</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 12:05:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70017040/ep_33_anxiety_fear_worry_yt.mp3" length="7568551" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complex nature of fear, worry, and anxiety, emphasizing their impact on human behavior and emotional well-being. He discusses how fear manifests in various forms and how it can influence our responses in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complex nature of fear, worry, and anxiety, emphasizing their impact on human behavior and emotional well-being. He discusses how fear manifests in various forms and how it can influence our responses in different situations. Weld highlights the importance of calmness as a powerful antidote to fear and anxiety, suggesting that self-awareness and intentional calm can significantly improve our interactions and leadership abilities.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>473</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,classroom,education,fear,phobias,school,teacher,teaching,worry</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 32: Why Your To-do List Feels Too Big</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-32-why-your-to-do-list-feels-too-big--69668398</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the Zygarnik effect, a psychological phenomenon that explains why unfinished tasks linger in our minds, often causing stress and mental clutter. He illustrates how our brains are wired to remember incomplete tasks more vividly than completed ones, leading to a sense of overwhelm, especially in our fast-paced, technology-driven lives. Matt discusses the implications of this effect in various aspects of life, including education, personal goals, and relationships, emphasizing that unfinished business can drain cognitive energy and create anxiety.<br /><br />However, Matt also highlights the potential benefits of harnessing the Zygarnik effect intentionally. By strategically leaving tasks unfinished, individuals can maintain motivation and focus. He offers practical strategies for managing unfinished tasks, such as breaking larger projects into smaller pieces, setting deadlines, and minimizing distractions. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to embrace the reality of unfinished business while learning to control which tasks they allow to occupy their mental space, thereby enhancing their sense of wholeness and well-being.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69668398</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 12:05:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69668398/ep_32_unfinished_business_yt.mp3" length="8400708" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the Zygarnik effect, a psychological phenomenon that explains why unfinished tasks linger in our minds, often causing stress and mental clutter. He illustrates how our brains are wired to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the Zygarnik effect, a psychological phenomenon that explains why unfinished tasks linger in our minds, often causing stress and mental clutter. He illustrates how our brains are wired to remember incomplete tasks more vividly than completed ones, leading to a sense of overwhelm, especially in our fast-paced, technology-driven lives. Matt discusses the implications of this effect in various aspects of life, including education, personal goals, and relationships, emphasizing that unfinished business can drain cognitive energy and create anxiety.<br /><br />However, Matt also highlights the potential benefits of harnessing the Zygarnik effect intentionally. By strategically leaving tasks unfinished, individuals can maintain motivation and focus. He offers practical strategies for managing unfinished tasks, such as breaking larger projects into smaller pieces, setting deadlines, and minimizing distractions. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to embrace the reality of unfinished business while learning to control which tasks they allow to occupy their mental space, thereby enhancing their sense of wholeness and well-being.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>525</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,education,mentalclutter,tasks,teachers,teaching,to-do,zeigarnik</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 31: Vanquishing Energy Vampires</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-31-vanquishing-energy-vampires--69667493</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the concept of 'energy vampires'—individuals who drain emotional energy from others without consent. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these energy vampires in various settings, particularly in educational environments, and how they can impact our emotional well-being. Through personal anecdotes and relatable examples, Weld illustrates the different types of energy vampires, such as the master manipulator, the victim, the narcissist, and the judgmental critic, highlighting their behaviors and the emotional toll they can take on those around them.  Matt offers practical strategies for dealing with energy vampires, including self-awareness, setting boundaries, and reframing negative interactions. He encourages listeners to notice their physical and emotional responses when encountering these individuals and to adopt protective measures to conserve their energy. Ultimately, the episode serves as a guide for maintaining emotional integrity and resilience in the face of challenging interpersonal dynamics, reminding us that we have the power to protect our emotional reserves and stay tethered to ourselves.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69667493</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 12:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69667493/ep_31_energy_vampires.mp3" length="10229280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the concept of 'energy vampires'—individuals who drain emotional energy from others without consent. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these energy vampires in various settings,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld delves into the concept of 'energy vampires'—individuals who drain emotional energy from others without consent. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these energy vampires in various settings, particularly in educational environments, and how they can impact our emotional well-being. Through personal anecdotes and relatable examples, Weld illustrates the different types of energy vampires, such as the master manipulator, the victim, the narcissist, and the judgmental critic, highlighting their behaviors and the emotional toll they can take on those around them.  Matt offers practical strategies for dealing with energy vampires, including self-awareness, setting boundaries, and reframing negative interactions. He encourages listeners to notice their physical and emotional responses when encountering these individuals and to adopt protective measures to conserve their energy. Ultimately, the episode serves as a guide for maintaining emotional integrity and resilience in the face of challenging interpersonal dynamics, reminding us that we have the power to protect our emotional reserves and stay tethered to ourselves.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>640</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classrooms,education,emotionalwellbeing,energyvampires,school,teacher,tethered,whole</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 30: Tackling Trust</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-30-tackling-trust--69564899</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matthew Weld delves into the intricate concept of trust, exploring its significance, formation, and the potential for its breakdown. He begins with a poignant story about a woman named Linda and her dog Rudy, who alerted her to a serious health issue, illustrating how trust can manifest in unexpected ways. Weld emphasizes that trust is not merely a warm sentiment but a complex psychological construct that involves vulnerability and the risk of making something valuable susceptible to another's actions. He discusses how trust is often misunderstood as an all-or-nothing concept, when in reality, it is multi-dimensional and context-dependent.<br /><br />Weld introduces frameworks from Brene Brown and Charles Feldman to help listeners understand trust as a set of observable behaviors rather than a fixed label. He highlights the importance of clear communication and behavioral integrity in building trust, especially in educational settings. The episode concludes with practical strategies for fostering trust and repairing it when broken, emphasizing that trust is built through consistent actions and open dialogue. 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He begins with a poignant story about a woman named Linda and her dog Rudy, who alerted her to a serious health issue, illustrating how trust can manifest in unexpected ways. Weld emphasizes that trust is not merely a warm sentiment but a complex psychological construct that involves vulnerability and the risk of making something valuable susceptible to another's actions. He discusses how trust is often misunderstood as an all-or-nothing concept, when in reality, it is multi-dimensional and context-dependent.<br /><br />Weld introduces frameworks from Brene Brown and Charles Feldman to help listeners understand trust as a set of observable behaviors rather than a fixed label. He highlights the importance of clear communication and behavioral integrity in building trust, especially in educational settings. The episode concludes with practical strategies for fostering trust and repairing it when broken, emphasizing that trust is built through consistent actions and open dialogue. Weld encourages listeners to take small steps towards building trust in their relationships, reminding them that trust is a practice, not just an idea.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1097</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>education,personalgrowth,relationships,school,schools,self-care,teachers,teaching,trust,vulnerability,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 29: Pointing a Finger at Toxicity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-29-pointing-a-finger-at-toxicity--69499703</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matthew Weld reflects on the importance of healthy school culture, drawing inspiration from his second-grade teacher, Mrs. Heinz. He emphasizes that a nurturing environment is foundational for students, especially those who feel out of place. Through personal anecdotes, Weld illustrates how Mrs. Heinz fostered a sense of belonging and community, teaching valuable lessons about gossip and kindness that resonate even today. He warns against the subtle forms of toxicity that can infiltrate school environments, such as sarcasm, toxic masculinity, and toxic positivity, which can erode trust and connection among educators and students alike.<br /><br />Weld further explores various manifestations of toxicity in schools, including cordial hypocrisy, common enemy intimacy, and toxic productivity. He argues that these patterns are not indicative of bad educators but rather signals of strained systems. The key to overcoming these challenges lies in naming the issues openly, fostering a culture of accountability, and allowing individuals to bring their whole selves to the educational environment. By anchoring school culture in shared values and empathy, educators can create spaces where trust flourishes and everyone feels they belong.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69499703</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2026 22:03:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69499703/riverside_matthew_jan_18_2026_001_matthew_weld_s_stud.mp3" length="9707667" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matthew Weld reflects on the importance of healthy school culture, drawing inspiration from his second-grade teacher, Mrs. Heinz. He emphasizes that a nurturing environment is foundational for students,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matthew Weld reflects on the importance of healthy school culture, drawing inspiration from his second-grade teacher, Mrs. Heinz. He emphasizes that a nurturing environment is foundational for students, especially those who feel out of place. Through personal anecdotes, Weld illustrates how Mrs. Heinz fostered a sense of belonging and community, teaching valuable lessons about gossip and kindness that resonate even today. He warns against the subtle forms of toxicity that can infiltrate school environments, such as sarcasm, toxic masculinity, and toxic positivity, which can erode trust and connection among educators and students alike.<br /><br />Weld further explores various manifestations of toxicity in schools, including cordial hypocrisy, common enemy intimacy, and toxic productivity. He argues that these patterns are not indicative of bad educators but rather signals of strained systems. The key to overcoming these challenges lies in naming the issues openly, fostering a culture of accountability, and allowing individuals to bring their whole selves to the educational environment. By anchoring school culture in shared values and empathy, educators can create spaces where trust flourishes and everyone feels they belong.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>607</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>commonenemyintimacy,cordialhypocrisy,cultureclimate,education,schools,teachers,teaching,toxicity,toxicmasculinity,toxicpositivity</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 28: Not To Decide Is To Decide</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-28-not-to-decide-is-to-decide--69411815</link><description><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complexities of quitting and the psychological biases that influence our decision-making. He discusses how societal views on quitting can lead to a reluctance to let go of commitments, even when they drain our energy. Weld introduces the concept of a 'quit audit' as a practical strategy for reassessing our commitments and making space for what truly matters in our lives.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69411815</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 23:50:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69411815/ep_28_deciding_quitting_yt_no_text.mp3" length="5729113" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complexities of quitting and the psychological biases that influence our decision-making. He discusses how societal views on quitting can lead to a reluctance to let go of commitments, even when they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this conversation, Matthew Weld explores the complexities of quitting and the psychological biases that influence our decision-making. He discusses how societal views on quitting can lead to a reluctance to let go of commitments, even when they drain our energy. Weld introduces the concept of a 'quit audit' as a practical strategy for reassessing our commitments and making space for what truly matters in our lives.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>358</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>biases,courage,decisions,education,quitting,regret,school,self-care,self-relfection,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 27: When Everyone Is Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-27-when-everyone-is-right--69121827</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Tethered and Whole podcast, Matt Weld discusses the complexity of truth in human relationships, emphasizing the importance of accepting multiple truths and the role of empathy in understanding different perspectives. 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He shares...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Tethered and Whole podcast, Matt Weld discusses the complexity of truth in human relationships, emphasizing the importance of accepting multiple truths and the role of empathy in understanding different perspectives. He shares personal experiences from his time as an assistant principal to illustrate how conflicting viewpoints can coexist and how dialectical thinking can help navigate these complexities. The conversation encourages listeners to practice curiosity and humility in their interactions, ultimately fostering stronger relationships and communities.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>367</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>both/and,classroom,education,school,sel,teaching,truth,twotruths</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 26: Happiness Is Closer Than You Think</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-26-happiness-is-closer-than-you-think--69121598</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Matt shares a poignant story about an emperor and a nightingale, illustrating the contrast between superficial beauty and authentic joy. 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He explores the themes of happiness, contentment, and the importance of living in alignment with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Matt shares a poignant story about an emperor and a nightingale, illustrating the contrast between superficial beauty and authentic joy. He explores the themes of happiness, contentment, and the importance of living in alignment with our values. Through insights from psychology and philosophy, he emphasizes that true well-being comes from recognizing enough, cultivating gratitude, and celebrating small victories in life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>400</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>contentment,education,happiness,joy,school,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 25: Self-Compassion Is Not Selfish</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-25-self-compassion-is-not-selfish--69121465</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matt Weld shares a heartfelt story from his seventh-grade experience that shaped his journey into teaching. Through personal anecdotes, Matt explores the profound impact of compassion and empathy in education. He delves into the importance of self-compassion, especially for educators facing burnout and moral distress. Discover how simple practices like setting boundaries and building support systems can sustain educators and students alike. Join us for an insightful discussion on the power of compassion in schools and its role in fostering resilience.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69121465</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2025 12:15:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69121465/ep_25_yt.mp3" length="6959167" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matt Weld shares a heartfelt story from his seventh-grade experience that shaped his journey into teaching. Through personal anecdotes, Matt explores the profound impact of compassion and empathy in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matt Weld shares a heartfelt story from his seventh-grade experience that shaped his journey into teaching. Through personal anecdotes, Matt explores the profound impact of compassion and empathy in education. He delves into the importance of self-compassion, especially for educators facing burnout and moral distress. Discover how simple practices like setting boundaries and building support systems can sustain educators and students alike. Join us for an insightful discussion on the power of compassion in schools and its role in fostering resilience.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>435</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,compassion,education,empathy,moral-distress,school,sel,self-compassion,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 24: Save Frustration by Managing Expectations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-24-save-frustration-by-managing-expectations--69063678</link><description><![CDATA[n this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matt Weld explores the concept of expectations, particularly in the context of gifting and education. 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He reflects on how our expectations shape our happiness and experiences, emphasizing the importance of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[n this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matt Weld explores the concept of expectations, particularly in the context of gifting and education. He reflects on how our expectations shape our happiness and experiences, emphasizing the importance of understanding where these expectations come from. Through storytelling and practical strategies, he encourages educators to reflect on their expectations of students to foster a more supportive learning environment.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>511</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,education,educator,expectations,frustration,school,sel,self-care,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 23: Reframe to Rebuild Your Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-23-reframe-to-rebuild-your-relationships--68838263</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Matthew Weld explores the transformative skill of reframing, which allows individuals to reinterpret moments, comments, and behaviors through a more generous lens. 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He shares personal anecdotes from his teaching career, illustrating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Matthew Weld explores the transformative skill of reframing, which allows individuals to reinterpret moments, comments, and behaviors through a more generous lens. He shares personal anecdotes from his teaching career, illustrating how reframing can shift perceptions and improve relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of intentionality in interpretation and offers practical strategies for reframing negative interactions to foster empathy and understanding.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>523</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>communication,education,emotionalintelligence,empathy,perspective,reframing,relationships,schools,teacher,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 22: The Sound of Silence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-22-the-sound-of-silence--68645255</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered in Hole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound impact of silence on our lives. Explore the science behind silence, its role in well-being, and how it can transform our interactions and environments. Through stories and insights, discover how silence can be a tool for clarity, connection, and personal growth. Join us as we reclaim the power of quiet in a world filled with noise.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68645255</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 12:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68645255/ep_22_sound_of_silence_yt.mp3" length="8586700" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of "Tethered in Hole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound impact of silence on our lives. Explore the science behind silence, its role in well-being, and how it can transform our interactions and environments. Through stories...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered in Hole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound impact of silence on our lives. Explore the science behind silence, its role in well-being, and how it can transform our interactions and environments. Through stories and insights, discover how silence can be a tool for clarity, connection, and personal growth. Join us as we reclaim the power of quiet in a world filled with noise.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>537</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,classroom,education,gordonhempton,quetico,selfcare,silence,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 21: Gold in the Gap</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-21-gold-in-the-gap--68642941</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound concept of "The Gold in the Gap"—the powerful yet often overlooked freedom to choose our responses. Drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl, Mahatma Gandhi, and Nelson Mandela, Matthew explores how true freedom lies in the space between stimulus and response. Discover how this gap can be a laboratory for growth, helping us stay grounded and connected to our values. Tune in to learn practical strategies for reclaiming your freedom and making intentional choices in everyday life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68642941</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 12:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68642941/ep_21_gold_in_the_gap_yt.mp3" length="7104617" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound concept of "The Gold in the Gap"—the powerful yet often overlooked freedom to choose our responses. Drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl, Mahatma Gandhi, and Nelson...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered and Whole," host Matthew Weld delves into the profound concept of "The Gold in the Gap"—the powerful yet often overlooked freedom to choose our responses. Drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl, Mahatma Gandhi, and Nelson Mandela, Matthew explores how true freedom lies in the space between stimulus and response. Discover how this gap can be a laboratory for growth, helping us stay grounded and connected to our values. Tune in to learn practical strategies for reclaiming your freedom and making intentional choices in everyday life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>444</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,classroom,emotionalintelligence,emotionalregulation,freedomtochoose,mindfulness,mindfulresponse,personalgrowth,school,selfcare,selfcontrol,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 20: Decisions, Biases, and The Illusion of 'Right'</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-20-decisions-biases-and-the-illusion-of-right--68568637</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Matt Weld explores how every decision — from a teacher’s quick hallway “yes” to a life-altering choice — carries more weight than we realize. Using Stephen Covey’s wisdom that “we are not products of our circumstances, but of our decisions,” Matt unpacks the unseen biases and pressures that shape our judgment and offers practical strategies to make wiser, more grounded choices. If you’ve ever second-guessed a call you made, this episode will help you see that decisions aren’t about being perfect — they’re about being present.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68568637</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 17:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68568637/ep_20_decisions_yt.mp3" length="8898080" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Matt Weld explores how every decision — from a teacher’s quick hallway “yes” to a life-altering choice — carries more weight than we realize. 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Using Stephen Covey’s wisdom that “we are not products of our circumstances, but of our decisions,” Matt unpacks the unseen biases and pressures that shape our judgment and offers practical strategies to make wiser, more grounded choices. If you’ve ever second-guessed a call you made, this episode will help you see that decisions aren’t about being perfect — they’re about being present.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>557</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,cognition,decisions,education,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 19: The House of Resilience: A New Definition</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-19-the-house-of-resilience-a-new-definition--68449187</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Matt Weld explores the concept of resilience through the inspiring story of Maya Shankar, who transformed her life after losing her identity as a violinist. He defines resilience as the ability to adapt and move forward in the face of challenges, emphasizing that it is accessible to everyone. The conversation highlights practical steps to build resilience, including nurturing relationships, practicing mindfulness, and developing problem-solving skills. 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Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace change and trust in their ability to recover from adversity.<br /><br />00:00 The Journey of Resilience<br />01:52 Understanding Resilience<br />03:16 Building Your Zone of Resilience<br />04:54 Practices for Enhancing Resilience<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>365</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adaptability,classroom,coping,education,mental-health,mindfulness,personal-growth,resilience,resiliency,teacher,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 18: Self-Awareness to Self-Advocacy and the Pieces in Between</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-18-self-awareness-to-self-advocacy-and-the-pieces-in-between--68318104</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered and Whole, host Matt Weld explores the journey from self-awareness to self-advocacy for educators. 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The discussion highlights the importance of self-compassion, self-care, and well-being in preventing burnout and fostering...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered and Whole, host Matt Weld explores the journey from self-awareness to self-advocacy for educators. The discussion highlights the importance of self-compassion, self-care, and well-being in preventing burnout and fostering resilience. Key insights include the role of self-awareness in emotional regulation, the power of self-love as a buffer against burnout, and the necessity of self-advocacy in maintaining healthy boundaries.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>666</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>boundaries,burnout,classroom,education,educators,regulation,resilience,self-advocacy,self-awareness,self-care,self-compassion,teachers,teaching,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 17: Three Proven Ways to Damage Your Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-17-three-proven-ways-to-damage-your-relationships--68318103</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld explores the emotions of shame, defensiveness, and guilt that often arise in the teaching profession. He discusses how these emotions can cloud judgment, strain relationships, and hinder growth. By understanding the nature of these emotions and learning to respond to feedback with curiosity rather than defensiveness, educators can foster healthier relationships and personal growth. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and the potential for guilt to serve as a motivator for positive change.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68318103</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2025 20:42:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68318103/ep_17_defensiveness_yt.mp3" length="8206357" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld explores the emotions of shame, defensiveness, and guilt that often arise in the teaching profession. He discusses how these emotions can cloud judgment, strain relationships, and hinder growth. 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The episode emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and the potential for guilt to serve as a motivator for positive change.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>513</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,defensiveness,education,emotions,feedback,growth,guilt,relationships,self-compassion,shame,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 16: Ms. Alvarez's Story: From Overwhelm to Burnout to Wholeness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-16-ms-alvarez-s-story-from-overwhelm-to-burnout-to-wholeness--68182113</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld explores the critical distinction between overwhelm and burnout, particularly in the context of teaching. Through the story of Ms. Alvarez, he illustrates how overwhelm can lead to burnout if not addressed properly. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of both states and offers strategies for managing overwhelm while highlighting the need for deeper interventions to combat burnout. The conversation encourages educators to prioritize self-care and seek support to maintain their well-being in a demanding profession.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68182113</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2025 11:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68182113/ep_16_burnout_overwhelm.mp3" length="13599702" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld explores the critical distinction between overwhelm and burnout, particularly in the context of teaching. Through the story of Ms. Alvarez, he illustrates how overwhelm can lead to burnout if not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, Matthew Weld explores the critical distinction between overwhelm and burnout, particularly in the context of teaching. Through the story of Ms. Alvarez, he illustrates how overwhelm can lead to burnout if not addressed properly. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of both states and offers strategies for managing overwhelm while highlighting the need for deeper interventions to combat burnout. The conversation encourages educators to prioritize self-care and seek support to maintain their well-being in a demanding profession.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>850</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>burnout,education,educator,mental,overwhelm,resilience,school,self-care,stress,teacher,teaching,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 15: How Luther Burbank Shifted My Perspective: Seeing the Spectrum</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-15-how-luther-burbank-shifted-my-perspective-seeing-the-spectrum--68048431</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Tethered in Whole, host Matt Weld explores the concept of spectrum thinking, inspired by the story of horticulturist Luther Burbank. 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He emphasizes that forgiveness is a personal journey that allows individuals to reclaim emotional freedom and create new relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of forgiveness, its different types, and practical strategies for incorporating forgiveness into daily life, particularly in educational settings.<br /><br />00:00The Journey of Forgiveness Begins<br />02:25Understanding the Nature of Forgiveness<br />04:52Types of Forgiveness Explained<br />08:11Forgiveness in Educational Settings<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67956272</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2025 11:20:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67956272/ep_14_podcast.mp3" length="9223567" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Matt Weld explores the transformative power of forgiveness through the poignant story of Mary Johnson, who forgave her son's murderer. 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The conversation delves into the nature of forgiveness, its different types, and practical strategies for incorporating forgiveness into daily life, particularly in educational settings.<br /><br />00:00The Journey of Forgiveness Begins<br />02:25Understanding the Nature of Forgiveness<br />04:52Types of Forgiveness Explained<br />08:11Forgiveness in Educational Settings<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>577</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroom,conflict,conflictresolution,culture,emotional,empathy,forgiveness,freedom,healing,personalgrowth,relationships,school,teachers,teaching</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 13: The Power of Apologies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-13-the-power-of-apologies--67747191</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Matthew Weld shares a transformative experience from his early teaching career that reshaped his understanding of apologies. He discusses the importance of genuine apologies, the nuances of accountability, and the need for self-healing beyond waiting for others to acknowledge their wrongs. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he emphasizes that true apologies are about responsibility and repair, not just words, and that healing ultimately lies within ourselves.<br /><br />00:00The Impact of Apologies in Education<br />04:09Understanding True Accountability and Repair<br />06:53Healing Beyond Apologies<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67747191</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2025 11:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67747191/ep_13_apologies_podcast.mp3" length="8899231" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, Matthew Weld shares a transformative experience from his early teaching career that reshaped his understanding of apologies. 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Through personal anecdotes and insights, he emphasizes that true apologies are about responsibility and repair, not just words, and that healing ultimately lies within ourselves.<br /><br />00:00The Impact of Apologies in Education<br />04:09Understanding True Accountability and Repair<br />06:53Healing Beyond Apologies<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>557</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>accountability,apology,communication,education,emotionalintelligence,healing,relationships,responsibility,school,self-compassion,teaching,trust</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 12:  When Kids Are Under the Table: From Dysregulation to Co-regulation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-12-when-kids-are-under-the-table-from-dysregulation-to-co-regulation--67707745</link><description><![CDATA[In this podcast episode, Matthew Weld explores the concept of regulation, emphasizing its importance in self-management and education. He discusses self-regulation as the ability to manage emotions and behaviors, co-regulation as the process of calming others, and practical strategies for fostering regulation in schools. Through personal anecdotes and research, Weld highlights the significance of emotional balance for both teachers and students, advocating for a supportive and connected classroom environment.<br /><br />00:00 Understanding Regulation: The Foundation of Balance<br />01:44 The Role of Self-Regulation in Education<br />05:09 Co-Regulation: The Power of Connection<br />08:01 Strategies for Fostering Regulation in Schools<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67707745</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2025 11:10:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67707745/ep_12_podcast.mp3" length="10433141" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this podcast episode, Matthew Weld explores the concept of regulation, emphasizing its importance in self-management and education. 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Through personal anecdotes and research, Weld highlights the significance of emotional balance for both teachers and students, advocating for a supportive and connected classroom environment.<br /><br />00:00 Understanding Regulation: The Foundation of Balance<br />01:44 The Role of Self-Regulation in Education<br />05:09 Co-Regulation: The Power of Connection<br />08:01 Strategies for Fostering Regulation in Schools<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>652</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>balance,burnout,classroom,co-regulation,intelligence,management,mindfulness,nervoussystem,psychology,self-regulation,student,studentengagement,teacher</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 11 Grounded in Gratitude:  A Teacher's Daily Practice</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-11-grounded-in-gratitude-a-teacher-s-daily-practice--67707647</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, host Matt Weld explores the profound impact of gratitude on our bodies and relationships, particularly in the context of education. He shares personal experiences and scientific research that highlight how gratitude can reshape our nervous system, enhance emotional well-being, and foster stronger connections with others. Matt provides practical strategies for educators to incorporate gratitude into their daily routines, emphasizing that it's not about adding more tasks but reframing existing moments. The episode concludes with a challenge to practice gratitude and observe its effects on stress levels and classroom interactions.<br /><br />00:00 The Power of Gratitude<br />02:26 Gratitude's Impact on Health and Relationships<br />05:26 Practical Strategies for Cultivating Gratitude<br />07:51 The Challenge of Gratitude in Education<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67707647</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2025 11:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67707647/ep_11_gratitude_podcast.mp3" length="7966346" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, host Matt Weld explores the profound impact of gratitude on our bodies and relationships, particularly in the context of education. 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The episode concludes with a challenge to practice gratitude and observe its effects on stress levels and classroom interactions.<br /><br />00:00 The Power of Gratitude<br />02:26 Gratitude's Impact on Health and Relationships<br />05:26 Practical Strategies for Cultivating Gratitude<br />07:51 The Challenge of Gratitude in Education<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>498</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>education,emotional,gratitude,growth,management,mentalhealth,mindfulness,personal,relationships,resilience,strategies,stress,teaching,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a791ca075ac3510330c0e549cb7be21b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 10:  The Fence at the Cliff - Boundaries for Teachers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-10-the-fence-at-the-cliff-boundaries-for-teachers--67582854</link><description><![CDATA[We explore the concept of boundaries, emphasizing their importance in fostering safety and freedom in relationships. Through a story about two brothers and insights from Nedra Tawwab's work, this episode illustrates how boundaries can enhance emotional regulation and job satisfaction, particularly for teachers. 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Drawing insights from Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's book, "How Emotions Are Made," and psychologist Susan David's concept of emotional agility, Matt explores how our brains predict and react to emotional stimuli. Discover strategies to harness curiosity over anger and learn to read emotions as valuable data. Join us for a journey into emotional literacy and its role in fostering resilience and understanding in the classroom. Share this episode with fellow educators seeking a science-backed perspective on emotions.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67470298</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 11:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67470298/ep_9_emotions.mp3" length="7311822" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of "Tethered in Whole," host Matt Weld delves into the science of emotions and their impact on teachers. Drawing insights from Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's book, "How Emotions Are Made," and psychologist Susan David's concept of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of "Tethered in Whole," host Matt Weld delves into the science of emotions and their impact on teachers. Drawing insights from Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's book, "How Emotions Are Made," and psychologist Susan David's concept of emotional agility, Matt explores how our brains predict and react to emotional stimuli. Discover strategies to harness curiosity over anger and learn to read emotions as valuable data. Join us for a journey into emotional literacy and its role in fostering resilience and understanding in the classroom. 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Discover practical strategies to manage perfectionistic tendencies, from setting realistic standards to embracing imperfection. Tune in to learn how educators can foster a healthier, more sustainable approach to teaching.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67470255</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 11:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67470255/ep_8_perfectionism.mp3" length="11220576" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Matthew Weld</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join us as we explore the multifaceted nature of perfectionism within educational settings. In this episode, Matthew Weld unpacks the psychological dimensions of perfectionism, its impact on educators, and the pervasive culture that fuels it. Discover...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join us as we explore the multifaceted nature of perfectionism within educational settings. In this episode, Matthew Weld unpacks the psychological dimensions of perfectionism, its impact on educators, and the pervasive culture that fuels it. Discover practical strategies to manage perfectionistic tendencies, from setting realistic standards to embracing imperfection. 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