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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Insider Threat TV</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/insider-threat-tv--6652581</link><description><![CDATA[Insider Threat is a raw, reflective podcast exposing the spiritual, emotional, and psychological battles we fight behind closed doors. Each episode peels back the layers of pride, pain, and programming to confront the real enemy—ourselves.   Through honest conversation, cultural critique, and divine insight, Insider Threat explores how internal sabotage often keeps us from healing, growing, and walking in truth. This isn’t just therapy. It’s transformation‼️]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6652581/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>TV &amp; Film</category><copyright>Copyright Insider Threat</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg</url><title>Insider Threat TV</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/insider-threat-tv--6652581</link></image><lastBuildDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 00:40:10 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Insider Threat</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Insider Threat is a raw, reflective podcast exposing the spiritual, emotional, and psychological battles we fight behind closed doors. Each episode peels back the layers of pride, pain, and programming to confront the real enemy—ourselves. 

Through...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Insider Threat is a raw, reflective podcast exposing the spiritual, emotional, and psychological battles we fight behind closed doors. Each episode peels back the layers of pride, pain, and programming to confront the real enemy—ourselves.   Through honest conversation, cultural critique, and divine insight, Insider Threat explores how internal sabotage often keeps us from healing, growing, and walking in truth. This isn’t just therapy. It’s transformation‼️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="TV &amp; Film"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>V2E9 - Bandwidth | with Oliver Griffeth III</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v2e9-bandwidth-with-oliver-griffeth-iii--73643931</link><description><![CDATA[How much can you carry before you begin to break?In technology, bandwidth is the amount of data a system can process over a given period of time. Every network has a limit. Every device has a maximum capacity. When demand exceeds that capacity, performance begins to suffer.Life works the same way.Many of us spend our lives trying to be everything for everyone. We become the strong friend, the fixer, the rescuer, the peacemaker, the one who never says no. We carry our own responsibilities while quietly taking on everyone else's until we find ourselves overwhelmed, exhausted, and wondering why we have nothing left to give.But what if the problem isn't your strength?What if the problem is your bandwidth?In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore the hidden cost of the hero complex, why we confuse being needed with being valuable, and how carrying other people's burdens can become a way of avoiding our own. Through the technology metaphor of bandwidth, we examine the importance of recognizing our limits, protecting our capacity, and learning that wisdom isn't found in carrying more—it's found in knowing what doesn't belong on our shoulders.<ul><li>What bandwidth means in technology—and why the metaphor matters</li><li>The hidden danger of the hero complex</li><li>Why we struggle to say "no"</li><li>The difference between caring and carrying</li><li>How emotional overload impacts our relationships and decision-making</li><li>Why some people stay busy helping others to avoid confronting themselves</li><li>How to recognize when you've exceeded your emotional capacity</li><li>The freedom that comes from putting down burdens that were never yours to carry</li></ul>Take CTRL<br />🖥️ CTRL+A: What stood out most from today's conversation?📋 CTRL+C: "Capacity isn't measured by what you can carry. It's measured by what you can carry well."📌 CTRL+V: What burden are you ready to put down?<br />#InsiderThreat #Bandwidth #HeroComplex #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Burnout #EmotionalIntelligence #Boundaries #SelfCare #Leadership #Relationships #Mindset #CyberSecurity #Technology #LifeLessons #Podcast #ProtectYourPeace #AuditYourCodeIn this episode, we discuss:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fe94e07f-66e7-40d5-b64e-e3e6ee022250</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 22:46:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73643931/8466cfa6_d719_b39c_ef7a_fb17eff4f57d.mp3" length="72880412" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How much can you carry before you begin to break?In technology, bandwidth is the amount of data a system can process over a given period of time. Every network has a limit. Every device has a maximum capacity. When demand exceeds that capacity,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How much can you carry before you begin to break?In technology, bandwidth is the amount of data a system can process over a given period of time. Every network has a limit. Every device has a maximum capacity. When demand exceeds that capacity, performance begins to suffer.Life works the same way.Many of us spend our lives trying to be everything for everyone. We become the strong friend, the fixer, the rescuer, the peacemaker, the one who never says no. We carry our own responsibilities while quietly taking on everyone else's until we find ourselves overwhelmed, exhausted, and wondering why we have nothing left to give.But what if the problem isn't your strength?What if the problem is your bandwidth?In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore the hidden cost of the hero complex, why we confuse being needed with being valuable, and how carrying other people's burdens can become a way of avoiding our own. Through the technology metaphor of bandwidth, we examine the importance of recognizing our limits, protecting our capacity, and learning that wisdom isn't found in carrying more—it's found in knowing what doesn't belong on our shoulders.<ul><li>What bandwidth means in technology—and why the metaphor matters</li><li>The hidden danger of the hero complex</li><li>Why we struggle to say "no"</li><li>The difference between caring and carrying</li><li>How emotional overload impacts our relationships and decision-making</li><li>Why some people stay busy helping others to avoid confronting themselves</li><li>How to recognize when you've exceeded your emotional capacity</li><li>The freedom that comes from putting down burdens that were never yours to carry</li></ul>Take CTRL<br />🖥️ CTRL+A: What stood out most from today's conversation?📋 CTRL+C: "Capacity isn't measured by what you can carry. It's measured by what you can carry well."📌 CTRL+V: What burden are you ready to put down?<br />#InsiderThreat #Bandwidth #HeroComplex #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Burnout #EmotionalIntelligence #Boundaries #SelfCare #Leadership #Relationships #Mindset #CyberSecurity #Technology #LifeLessons #Podcast #ProtectYourPeace #AuditYourCodeIn this episode, we discuss:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3025</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V2E6: False Positive | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v2e6-false-positive-with-graveyyy--72993544</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever spent hours worrying about something... only to discover it never happened?A text goes unanswered.Your boss says, "Can we talk?"Someone gives you a different look than usual.Before you know it, your mind has already written the entire story.In cybersecurity, this is called a False Positive—when a security system detects a threat that isn't actually dangerous. The alert is real. The threat is not.The same thing happens in our lives.We jump to conclusions. We assume the worst. We misread silence, facial expressions, and unanswered messages. We allow fear, insecurity, and past experiences to convince us we're in danger before we've gathered the facts.In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore how anxiety, assumptions, and old wounds can trigger emotional alarms that don't always reflect reality—and why learning to investigate our thoughts may be one of the most powerful forms of self-awareness.Because sometimes the greatest threat isn't what's happening...It's the story we've created about what's happening.<ul><li>Why our minds create "False Positives" in everyday life</li><li>How fear and anxiety influence our perception</li><li>The connection between past trauma and present assumptions</li><li>Why silence is often misunderstood</li><li>How to separate facts from feelings</li><li>The cost of believing every thought we have</li><li>Practical ways to pause before reacting</li><li>Why investigation creates more peace than assumption</li></ul>🛜 The Internet — Real stories about misunderstanding people, situations, and ourselves.⏳ Buffering — Exploring why our minds often expect rejection, criticism, or failure before evidence exists.🧠 Tap In-tranet — Learning how to slow down, verify the facts, and stop giving every fear authority.⌨️ Take CTRL — Practical questions to help you challenge assumptions and respond with clarity instead of panic.How often are you protecting yourself from something that was never actually there?"The alert was real. The threat wasn't."Not every thought deserves trust.Not every fear deserves authority.Not every alarm requires action.Sometimes peace begins when we pause long enough to verify the alert.If this conversation challenged the way you think, don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and Share with someone who may be fighting battles that only exist in their mind.🎧 New episodes every week.Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code. And as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreat #FalsePositive #MentalHealth #SelfAwareness #Anxiety #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #Overthinking #Healing #TraumaHealing #Fear #Communication #Relationships #Podcast #CybersecurityMetaphor #SelfReflection #GrowthMindset #LifeLessons #MentalWellnessIn this episode, we discuss:Through today's segments:Question of the DayRemember:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">17dad925-aa15-4604-8528-1453cce9df42</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 13:29:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72993544/0ee7e792_d03b_eb3b_44b5_6ce2116a1aab.mp3" length="94824351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever spent hours worrying about something... only to discover it never happened?A text goes unanswered.Your boss says, "Can we talk?"Someone gives you a different look than usual.Before you know it, your mind has already written the entire...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever spent hours worrying about something... only to discover it never happened?A text goes unanswered.Your boss says, "Can we talk?"Someone gives you a different look than usual.Before you know it, your mind has already written the entire story.In cybersecurity, this is called a False Positive—when a security system detects a threat that isn't actually dangerous. The alert is real. The threat is not.The same thing happens in our lives.We jump to conclusions. We assume the worst. We misread silence, facial expressions, and unanswered messages. We allow fear, insecurity, and past experiences to convince us we're in danger before we've gathered the facts.In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore how anxiety, assumptions, and old wounds can trigger emotional alarms that don't always reflect reality—and why learning to investigate our thoughts may be one of the most powerful forms of self-awareness.Because sometimes the greatest threat isn't what's happening...It's the story we've created about what's happening.<ul><li>Why our minds create "False Positives" in everyday life</li><li>How fear and anxiety influence our perception</li><li>The connection between past trauma and present assumptions</li><li>Why silence is often misunderstood</li><li>How to separate facts from feelings</li><li>The cost of believing every thought we have</li><li>Practical ways to pause before reacting</li><li>Why investigation creates more peace than assumption</li></ul>🛜 The Internet — Real stories about misunderstanding people, situations, and ourselves.⏳ Buffering — Exploring why our minds often expect rejection, criticism, or failure before evidence exists.🧠 Tap In-tranet — Learning how to slow down, verify the facts, and stop giving every fear authority.⌨️ Take CTRL — Practical questions to help you challenge assumptions and respond with clarity instead of panic.How often are you protecting yourself from something that was never actually there?"The alert was real. The threat wasn't."Not every thought deserves trust.Not every fear deserves authority.Not every alarm requires action.Sometimes peace begins when we pause long enough to verify the alert.If this conversation challenged the way you think, don't forget to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and Share with someone who may be fighting battles that only exist in their mind.🎧 New episodes every week.Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code. And as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreat #FalsePositive #MentalHealth #SelfAwareness #Anxiety #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #Overthinking #Healing #TraumaHealing #Fear #Communication #Relationships #Podcast #CybersecurityMetaphor #SelfReflection #GrowthMindset #LifeLessons #MentalWellnessIn this episode, we discuss:Through today's segments:Question of the DayRemember:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3937</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Coding | with Jordan McNeal</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/coding-with-jordan-mcneal--72854660</link><description><![CDATA[Everybody is Not Hacking You... Some of That Code, You Installed Yourself.The way you think about yourself didn't happen by accident.Some of the beliefs you live by were shaped by childhood, relationships, failure, rejection, and the words spoken over you long before you realized they became part of your identity.In this episode of Insider Threat, [Guest Name] joins me as we explore Coding—the internal programming that shapes our thoughts, behaviors, and the choices we make. Together, we unpack how limiting beliefs become the "code" we live by, why some narratives are worth rewriting, and how changing your internal script can change your life.🔑 What you'll hear in this episode:<ul><li>How your internal programming is formed</li><li>The impact of limiting beliefs and self-talk</li><li>Why not every opinion deserves access to your identity</li><li>How to begin rewriting the stories that no longer serve you</li></ul>The truth is, some of the loudest voices in our heads belong to people who aren't even speaking anymore.🎙️ Guest: Jordan McNeal✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What belief about yourself are you ready to rewrite?As always—Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code, and as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreatTV #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Mindset #Identity #LimitingBeliefs #MentalProgramming #GrowthMindset #HealingJourney #Podcast #AuditYourCode]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a1705f66-bbcd-4812-81fb-5075746d6043</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2026 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72854660/54c657a7_86ba_9093_5420_e3e5d3d94005.mp3" length="74756505" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Everybody is Not Hacking You... Some of That Code, You Installed Yourself.The way you think about yourself didn't happen by accident.Some of the beliefs you live by were shaped by childhood, relationships, failure, rejection, and the words spoken over...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everybody is Not Hacking You... Some of That Code, You Installed Yourself.The way you think about yourself didn't happen by accident.Some of the beliefs you live by were shaped by childhood, relationships, failure, rejection, and the words spoken over you long before you realized they became part of your identity.In this episode of Insider Threat, [Guest Name] joins me as we explore Coding—the internal programming that shapes our thoughts, behaviors, and the choices we make. Together, we unpack how limiting beliefs become the "code" we live by, why some narratives are worth rewriting, and how changing your internal script can change your life.🔑 What you'll hear in this episode:<ul><li>How your internal programming is formed</li><li>The impact of limiting beliefs and self-talk</li><li>Why not every opinion deserves access to your identity</li><li>How to begin rewriting the stories that no longer serve you</li></ul>The truth is, some of the loudest voices in our heads belong to people who aren't even speaking anymore.🎙️ Guest: Jordan McNeal✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What belief about yourself are you ready to rewrite?As always—Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code, and as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreatTV #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Mindset #Identity #LimitingBeliefs #MentalProgramming #GrowthMindset #HealingJourney #Podcast #AuditYourCode]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3101</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Surface Scan v. Deep Scan | with Paige Flint</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/surface-scan-v-deep-scan-with-paige-flint--72757746</link><description><![CDATA[We've all been there.Something keeps happening in our lives, and instead of asking why, we focus on what we can see. We patch the behavior, manage the emotion, or change the circumstance—only to find ourselves facing the same problem again.In cybersecurity, a quick scan identifies potential threats in the most common places. A full system scan goes deeper, searching every file and process to uncover the source of the issue. One finds symptoms. The other finds causes.In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we're exploring how that same principle applies to our lives.We talk about:<br />• The difference between treating symptoms and investigating sources<br />• Why we avoid asking the deeper questions<br />• How recurring patterns often point to unresolved root causes<br />• The hidden beliefs, fears, and experiences that shape our reactions<br />• Why healing requires exposure before restoration<br />• Learning to "hunt the why" instead of settling for quick answersA quick scan says, "I'm stressed."A deep scan asks, "Why?"A quick scan says, "My relationships never work."A deep scan asks, "Why do I keep choosing the same patterns?"Because real change doesn't happen when we manage the symptoms. It happens when we're willing to locate the source.If this episode challenged your perspective or encouraged you to dig a little deeper, share it with someone who may need the reminder.Take CTRL.<br />Hunt the why.<br />Heal the source.#InsiderThreatPodcast #SurfaceScan #DeepScan #HuntTheWhy #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Mindset #Healing #LifeLessons #TakeCTRL]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d60ae53e-2797-426f-b28d-0216692ca107</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72757746/2b1017c8_54ae_8641_977e_9016877acece.mp3" length="102056108" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We've all been there.Something keeps happening in our lives, and instead of asking why, we focus on what we can see. We patch the behavior, manage the emotion, or change the circumstance—only to find ourselves facing the same problem again.In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We've all been there.Something keeps happening in our lives, and instead of asking why, we focus on what we can see. We patch the behavior, manage the emotion, or change the circumstance—only to find ourselves facing the same problem again.In cybersecurity, a quick scan identifies potential threats in the most common places. A full system scan goes deeper, searching every file and process to uncover the source of the issue. One finds symptoms. The other finds causes.In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we're exploring how that same principle applies to our lives.We talk about:<br />• The difference between treating symptoms and investigating sources<br />• Why we avoid asking the deeper questions<br />• How recurring patterns often point to unresolved root causes<br />• The hidden beliefs, fears, and experiences that shape our reactions<br />• Why healing requires exposure before restoration<br />• Learning to "hunt the why" instead of settling for quick answersA quick scan says, "I'm stressed."A deep scan asks, "Why?"A quick scan says, "My relationships never work."A deep scan asks, "Why do I keep choosing the same patterns?"Because real change doesn't happen when we manage the symptoms. It happens when we're willing to locate the source.If this episode challenged your perspective or encouraged you to dig a little deeper, share it with someone who may need the reminder.Take CTRL.<br />Hunt the why.<br />Heal the source.#InsiderThreatPodcast #SurfaceScan #DeepScan #HuntTheWhy #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Mindset #Healing #LifeLessons #TakeCTRL]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4241</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Partitioning | w/ Dejai Harrell</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/partitioning-w-dejai-harrell--72651235</link><description><![CDATA[The Different Versions of You...The version of you at work.<br />The version of you with your family.<br />The version of you in relationships.<br />The version of you your friends know.<br />The version of you the world sees.<br />And the version of you nobody knows.Most of us live in compartments. We separate responsibilities, emotions, experiences, and sometimes entire pieces of ourselves just to make it through the day. And while that can be healthy for a season, what happens when those walls stay up for too long?In this episode of Insider Threat, we're exploring Partitioning—the difference between organizing your life and disconnecting from it. Because sometimes the very thing that helps us survive can become the thing that keeps us from healing.From the pressures of work and family, to the masks we wear in different environments, to the emotional folders we've created to store pain, this conversation challenges us to examine whether our partitions are serving us—or isolating us.🔑 What you'll hear in this episode:<br />• Why compartmentalization can be both healthy and harmful<br />• The hidden cost of maintaining disconnected versions of yourself<br />• How unresolved emotions continue affecting us, even when we've put them away<br />• The difference between processing something and avoiding it<br />• Why integration—not isolation—is often the key to healingThe truth is, just because you've stored something away doesn't mean you've dealt with it.Because healthy partitioning creates order.<br />Unhealthy partitioning creates distance.✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What part of your life have you kept in a separate folder that may need attention, healing, or integration?As always—Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code, and as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreatPodcast #Partitioning #Compartmentalization #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #EmotionalWellness #LifeLessons #MindsetShift #Boundaries #GrowthMindset #PodcastLife #HumanBehavior #AuditYourCode]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">24dea6f1-67ac-483b-9655-c79c773976d4</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 13:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72651235/1a786879_d984_b4d1_82ba_b0249eca3ca8.mp3" length="121268814" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Different Versions of You...The version of you at work.
The version of you with your family.
The version of you in relationships.
The version of you your friends know.
The version of you the world sees.
And the version of you nobody knows.Most of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Different Versions of You...The version of you at work.<br />The version of you with your family.<br />The version of you in relationships.<br />The version of you your friends know.<br />The version of you the world sees.<br />And the version of you nobody knows.Most of us live in compartments. We separate responsibilities, emotions, experiences, and sometimes entire pieces of ourselves just to make it through the day. And while that can be healthy for a season, what happens when those walls stay up for too long?In this episode of Insider Threat, we're exploring Partitioning—the difference between organizing your life and disconnecting from it. Because sometimes the very thing that helps us survive can become the thing that keeps us from healing.From the pressures of work and family, to the masks we wear in different environments, to the emotional folders we've created to store pain, this conversation challenges us to examine whether our partitions are serving us—or isolating us.🔑 What you'll hear in this episode:<br />• Why compartmentalization can be both healthy and harmful<br />• The hidden cost of maintaining disconnected versions of yourself<br />• How unresolved emotions continue affecting us, even when we've put them away<br />• The difference between processing something and avoiding it<br />• Why integration—not isolation—is often the key to healingThe truth is, just because you've stored something away doesn't mean you've dealt with it.Because healthy partitioning creates order.<br />Unhealthy partitioning creates distance.✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What part of your life have you kept in a separate folder that may need attention, healing, or integration?As always—Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code, and as always... Logging Off For Now.#InsiderThreatPodcast #Partitioning #Compartmentalization #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #EmotionalWellness #LifeLessons #MindsetShift #Boundaries #GrowthMindset #PodcastLife #HumanBehavior #AuditYourCode]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5039</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V2E2: HDD v. SSD | with Robin Tillman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v2e2-hdd-v-ssd-with-robin-tillman--72557398</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 2: HDD vs SSD | Are You Running on a Full Hard Drive?Some of us aren't broken—we're overloaded.In technology, an HDD stores information while an SSD processes and retrieves it more efficiently. In life, many of us do the same thing with our experiences. We store pain, disappointment, trauma, and stress without ever taking the time to process it.In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore how unprocessed experiences affect our mental, emotional, and spiritual performance, why healing is often avoided, and what it looks like to upgrade the way we process life's challenges.Because the goal isn't to erase your experiences—it's to process them so they don't control your performance.Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code.#ReelTalk #InsiderThreatTV #HDDvsSSD #MentalHealth #EmotionalWellness #HealingJourney #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #AuditYourCode #ProtectYourPeace]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a72c5fc1-4382-4d02-a0bf-50c966e064fd</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 22:34:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72557398/2891f913_e009_9a13_b102_b8bfe195242c.mp3" length="73563362" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 2: HDD vs SSD | Are You Running on a Full Hard Drive?Some of us aren't broken—we're overloaded.In technology, an HDD stores information while an SSD processes and retrieves it more efficiently. In life, many of us do the same thing with our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 2: HDD vs SSD | Are You Running on a Full Hard Drive?Some of us aren't broken—we're overloaded.In technology, an HDD stores information while an SSD processes and retrieves it more efficiently. In life, many of us do the same thing with our experiences. We store pain, disappointment, trauma, and stress without ever taking the time to process it.In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore how unprocessed experiences affect our mental, emotional, and spiritual performance, why healing is often avoided, and what it looks like to upgrade the way we process life's challenges.Because the goal isn't to erase your experiences—it's to process them so they don't control your performance.Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code.#ReelTalk #InsiderThreatTV #HDDvsSSD #MentalHealth #EmotionalWellness #HealingJourney #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #AuditYourCode #ProtectYourPeace]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3052</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V2E1: ID10T</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v2e1-id10t--72444301</link><description><![CDATA[In the tech world, "ID10T" is a joking way ofsaying the issue isn't a system failure—it's user error.Often, someone assumes there's a massive technical problemwhen the solution is something simple:The mistake isn't the error.The mistake is assuming the problem is more complicated than it really is.When life feels overwhelming, we often convince ourselvesthe solution must be equally overwhelming.Sometimes the breakthrough isn't found in a major overhaul.Sometimes it's found in the next obvious step we've beenoverlooking.Let's Get Into It.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">58bdd6f4-b57b-4c89-9a39-cb25efad5e50</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 19:42:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72444301/adf633b6_79db_b0af_a1ac_74518c20fe7c.mp3" length="71470417" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the tech world, "ID10T" is a joking way ofsaying the issue isn't a system failure—it's user error.Often, someone assumes there's a massive technical problemwhen the solution is something simple:The mistake isn't the error.The mistake is assuming...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the tech world, "ID10T" is a joking way ofsaying the issue isn't a system failure—it's user error.Often, someone assumes there's a massive technical problemwhen the solution is something simple:The mistake isn't the error.The mistake is assuming the problem is more complicated than it really is.When life feels overwhelming, we often convince ourselvesthe solution must be equally overwhelming.Sometimes the breakthrough isn't found in a major overhaul.Sometimes it's found in the next obvious step we've beenoverlooking.Let's Get Into It.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2967</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E21: Logging Off (For Now) | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e21-logging-off-for-now-with-graveyyy--68388577</link><description><![CDATA[Whew. What. A. Season. 😮‍💨From Hurt Me With The Truth to Factory Reset, this ride has been full of real conversations, hard lessons, and honest reflections. Each guest showed up and gave their time, their stories, and their truth — and for that, I’m deeply grateful. 🤎In this closing episode, we look back at the journey — the highs, the humbling moments, and the healing that came with every conversation. You’ll hear a short recap of each episode, the gems that dropped, and the themes that kept us honest along the way.Thank you to every guest who sat across from me, and every listener who tuned in week after week. This wouldn’t have been what it was without you.Season 1 reminded us all of one thing — growth takes awareness, and peace requires maintenance.So before we shut it down one last time... remember:<br />Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code. And as always, Logging Off For Now. 🖤]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d92d0455-6058-446b-8e9e-7006193c9ae4</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2025 14:36:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68388577/d0ab63f7_bf90_8d72_0681_70f7a2a6d85c.mp3" length="65318991" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Whew. What. A. Season. 😮‍💨From Hurt Me With The Truth to Factory Reset, this ride has been full of real conversations, hard lessons, and honest reflections. Each guest showed up and gave their time, their stories, and their truth — and for that, I’m...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whew. What. A. Season. 😮‍💨From Hurt Me With The Truth to Factory Reset, this ride has been full of real conversations, hard lessons, and honest reflections. Each guest showed up and gave their time, their stories, and their truth — and for that, I’m deeply grateful. 🤎In this closing episode, we look back at the journey — the highs, the humbling moments, and the healing that came with every conversation. You’ll hear a short recap of each episode, the gems that dropped, and the themes that kept us honest along the way.Thank you to every guest who sat across from me, and every listener who tuned in week after week. This wouldn’t have been what it was without you.Season 1 reminded us all of one thing — growth takes awareness, and peace requires maintenance.So before we shut it down one last time... remember:<br />Protect Your Peace. Audit Your Code. And as always, Logging Off For Now. 🖤]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2710</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E20: Factory Reset | with Sharell Mcneil-Waters</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e20-factory-reset-with-sharell-mcneil-waters--68258285</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes… you just gotta start over. 💭✨In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the power—and the pain—of a Factory Reset. When life gets too heavy, too noisy, or too far off track, the only real move might be to hit that reset button and start from scratch.I’m joined by the incredible Sharell McNeil, who opens up about what it really means to walk away from what’s familiar, rebuild from the ground up, and rediscover who you are in the process.We unpack:<br />🧠 The external pressures that push us toward major change<br />💔 The emotional “buffering” phase between letting go and moving on<br />🌱 The internal transformation that comes when you finally choose youBecause sometimes it’s not failure—it’s just a reboot.🎧 Tune in, take what you need, and maybe ask yourself:<br />“What’s one part of my life that’s due for a reset?”🖥️ Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always… Logging Off For Now.—<br />👉 Follow Sharell McNeil and stay connected with Insider Threat for more conversations that challenge, heal, and rebuild.<br />#InsiderThreatPodcast #FactoryReset #PersonalGrowth #StartOver]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7b145002-1629-4a38-a660-9a040207cbec</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 19:57:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68258285/d047f95d_fa99_6b5d_8c04_dc66787852e9.mp3" length="161478118" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes… you just gotta start over. 💭✨In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the power—and the pain—of a Factory Reset. When life gets too heavy, too noisy, or too far off track, the only real move might be to hit that reset button...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes… you just gotta start over. 💭✨In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the power—and the pain—of a Factory Reset. When life gets too heavy, too noisy, or too far off track, the only real move might be to hit that reset button and start from scratch.I’m joined by the incredible Sharell McNeil, who opens up about what it really means to walk away from what’s familiar, rebuild from the ground up, and rediscover who you are in the process.We unpack:<br />🧠 The external pressures that push us toward major change<br />💔 The emotional “buffering” phase between letting go and moving on<br />🌱 The internal transformation that comes when you finally choose youBecause sometimes it’s not failure—it’s just a reboot.🎧 Tune in, take what you need, and maybe ask yourself:<br />“What’s one part of my life that’s due for a reset?”🖥️ Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always… Logging Off For Now.—<br />👉 Follow Sharell McNeil and stay connected with Insider Threat for more conversations that challenge, heal, and rebuild.<br />#InsiderThreatPodcast #FactoryReset #PersonalGrowth #StartOver]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6714</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Default Settings | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/default-settings-with-graveyyy--68173240</link><description><![CDATA[We all got ‘em — those built-in reactions, beliefs, and habits we didn’t choose... they just came with the system. 👀In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re digging deep into how our upbringing, environment, and early experiences programmed our “defaults” — from how we handle stress to how we see ourselves. Some of those settings serve us. Others? Need a full reboot. 💻⚙️From the Say Ahh (Open Up) segment inspired by Eckhart Tolle’s “The past has no power over the present moment,” to unpacking how society downloads its expectations into our daily lives (Internet Mode), this one’s all about awareness, unlearning, and reprogramming.We’ll walk through the Buffering stage — that messy middle between who we were and who we’re becoming — and get real about what it feels like to challenge your old code. Then we’ll head Intranet deep into the internal impact of living on autopilot, and what peace feels like when you finally break free.💡 Take CTRL:<br />CTRL + A — What stood out to you most?<br />CTRL + C — What lessons are you copying from this convo?<br />CTRL + V — What are you ready to apply to your life moving forward?So yeah... let’s talk about it. The defaults we inherited. The ones we outgrew. And the new ones we’re bold enough to build.🎧 Tap in on Spotify or YouTube, and when it hits — you’ll know.<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always... Logging Off For Now. 🖤#InsiderThreatPodcast #DefaultSettings #MindsetShift #Unlearning #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4968cf67-1aba-4e82-8991-38ca3dd3abe2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 00:06:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68173240/5e82e889_a56d_4f53_b1e1_e71b24ca6db1.mp3" length="94901253" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all got ‘em — those built-in reactions, beliefs, and habits we didn’t choose... they just came with the system. 👀In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re digging deep into how our upbringing, environment, and early experiences programmed our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all got ‘em — those built-in reactions, beliefs, and habits we didn’t choose... they just came with the system. 👀In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re digging deep into how our upbringing, environment, and early experiences programmed our “defaults” — from how we handle stress to how we see ourselves. Some of those settings serve us. Others? Need a full reboot. 💻⚙️From the Say Ahh (Open Up) segment inspired by Eckhart Tolle’s “The past has no power over the present moment,” to unpacking how society downloads its expectations into our daily lives (Internet Mode), this one’s all about awareness, unlearning, and reprogramming.We’ll walk through the Buffering stage — that messy middle between who we were and who we’re becoming — and get real about what it feels like to challenge your old code. Then we’ll head Intranet deep into the internal impact of living on autopilot, and what peace feels like when you finally break free.💡 Take CTRL:<br />CTRL + A — What stood out to you most?<br />CTRL + C — What lessons are you copying from this convo?<br />CTRL + V — What are you ready to apply to your life moving forward?So yeah... let’s talk about it. The defaults we inherited. The ones we outgrew. And the new ones we’re bold enough to build.🎧 Tap in on Spotify or YouTube, and when it hits — you’ll know.<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always... Logging Off For Now. 🖤#InsiderThreatPodcast #DefaultSettings #MindsetShift #Unlearning #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3942</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Terms &amp; Conditions | with Taylor B McBride</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/terms-conditions-with-taylor-b-mcbride--68047655</link><description><![CDATA[The fine print we never read. The silent agreements we sign without ever clicking “I Accept.”In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Taylor McBride to unpack all the unspoken contracts we live under—expectations, compromises, and emotional clauses we never meant to agree to.From society’s “this is how you’re supposed to live” to the quiet deals we make just to keep the peace, this one’s about seeing the fine print for what it is. Because too often, we say yes to things that drain us, all because it feels easier than saying no.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>The “terms” society imposes that we accept without question</li><li>The pressure to perform, please, and fit in—without even realizing it</li><li>The internal moment when you start to question what you’ve been signing up for</li><li>The freedom that comes when you start rewriting your own terms</li></ul>We talk about the mental and emotional cost of compliance, and the courage it takes to hit “decline.” Because sometimes, protecting your peace means renegotiating the contract altogether.✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What “terms” have you been living under that no longer serve your peace—or your purpose?It’s time to read the fine print on your own life.<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code.<br />And as always… logging off for now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f3bdf362-1da8-4423-959d-56b38cad4686</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68047655/3f5e603f_9d41_5650_0c3d_552821e474c3.mp3" length="99502729" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The fine print we never read. The silent agreements we sign without ever clicking “I Accept.”In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Taylor McBride to unpack all the unspoken contracts we live under—expectations, compromises, and emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The fine print we never read. The silent agreements we sign without ever clicking “I Accept.”In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Taylor McBride to unpack all the unspoken contracts we live under—expectations, compromises, and emotional clauses we never meant to agree to.From society’s “this is how you’re supposed to live” to the quiet deals we make just to keep the peace, this one’s about seeing the fine print for what it is. Because too often, we say yes to things that drain us, all because it feels easier than saying no.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>The “terms” society imposes that we accept without question</li><li>The pressure to perform, please, and fit in—without even realizing it</li><li>The internal moment when you start to question what you’ve been signing up for</li><li>The freedom that comes when you start rewriting your own terms</li></ul>We talk about the mental and emotional cost of compliance, and the courage it takes to hit “decline.” Because sometimes, protecting your peace means renegotiating the contract altogether.✨ Reflective Takeaway:<br />What “terms” have you been living under that no longer serve your peace—or your purpose?It’s time to read the fine print on your own life.<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code.<br />And as always… logging off for now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4132</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ghost Mode | with Alex Smokes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ghost-mode-with-alex-smokes--67979729</link><description><![CDATA[Ghost Mode.<br />Silence. Distance. The choice to step away when the noise gets too loud.In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Alexandria Smokes to talk about the power of disappearing—whether it’s a digital detox, stepping away from toxic people, or simply pressing pause to reset your mind.We live in a world that demands we stay connected, available, and “always on.” But sometimes, protecting your peace means logging off. This episode is about the pressures of constant connection, the guilt that comes with saying no, and the freedom that comes when you give yourself permission to go ghost.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>The influence of social media and society’s demand to stay “always available”</li><li>Why it’s so hard to take that step into Ghost Mode when we know we need it</li><li>The mental clarity and emotional reset that comes with choosing space</li><li>How disappearing for a while can actually help you show up stronger</li></ul>This isn’t about running away—it’s about reclaiming your boundaries. Because sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is to disappear just long enough to remember who you are.✨ Reflective Takeaway: When was the last time you gave yourself permission to disconnect for your own well-being?As always—protect your peace, alter your code, and… logging off for now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9ae8f4de-8797-4cb8-ab39-9d38cdb299e9</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 22:47:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67979729/944897cf_bc8f_6d53_ee77_625d3148e2e2.mp3" length="118111956" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ghost Mode.
Silence. Distance. The choice to step away when the noise gets too loud.In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Alexandria Smokes to talk about the power of disappearing—whether it’s a digital detox, stepping away from toxic...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ghost Mode.<br />Silence. Distance. The choice to step away when the noise gets too loud.In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Alexandria Smokes to talk about the power of disappearing—whether it’s a digital detox, stepping away from toxic people, or simply pressing pause to reset your mind.We live in a world that demands we stay connected, available, and “always on.” But sometimes, protecting your peace means logging off. This episode is about the pressures of constant connection, the guilt that comes with saying no, and the freedom that comes when you give yourself permission to go ghost.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>The influence of social media and society’s demand to stay “always available”</li><li>Why it’s so hard to take that step into Ghost Mode when we know we need it</li><li>The mental clarity and emotional reset that comes with choosing space</li><li>How disappearing for a while can actually help you show up stronger</li></ul>This isn’t about running away—it’s about reclaiming your boundaries. Because sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is to disappear just long enough to remember who you are.✨ Reflective Takeaway: When was the last time you gave yourself permission to disconnect for your own well-being?As always—protect your peace, alter your code, and… logging off for now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4907</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Product of Your Decisions... | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/product-of-your-decisions-with-graveyyy--67876430</link><description><![CDATA[Product of Your Decisions, Not Your Environment..Excuses. Circumstances. The story we tell ourselves about why we can’t move forward. In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re tearing that whole narrative apart. 🚫✨Too often, society tells us our environment defines us—that where we come from decides where we end up. But the truth? We are the product of our decisions, not our surroundings. This one’s about empowerment, accountability, and choosing differently even when the odds are stacked.From the pressures of the outside world, to that buffering stage where you wrestle with blame vs. ownership, to the freedom that comes when you finally say, “It’s on me”—this reflection is for anybody who’s tired of letting their environment dictate their destiny.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>How society uses environment as an excuse for success or failure</li><li>The inner battle between circumstances and choice</li><li>The power that comes with taking full responsibility for your path</li><li>Practical ways to shift from blame to ownership today</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about liberation. Because the moment you own your decisions, you unlock the power to rewrite your future.✨ Reflective Takeaway: What’s one decision you’ve been avoiding that you’re ready to take ownership of today?As always—protect your peace, alter your code, and… logging off for now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f5f07240-f377-4fc6-b4b3-8026d287ff50</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 09:55:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67876430/7cb38897_39a9_56e7_0ea7_7acb0175979d.mp3" length="73349287" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Product of Your Decisions, Not Your Environment..Excuses. Circumstances. The story we tell ourselves about why we can’t move forward. In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re tearing that whole narrative apart. 🚫✨Too often, society tells us our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Product of Your Decisions, Not Your Environment..Excuses. Circumstances. The story we tell ourselves about why we can’t move forward. In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re tearing that whole narrative apart. 🚫✨Too often, society tells us our environment defines us—that where we come from decides where we end up. But the truth? We are the product of our decisions, not our surroundings. This one’s about empowerment, accountability, and choosing differently even when the odds are stacked.From the pressures of the outside world, to that buffering stage where you wrestle with blame vs. ownership, to the freedom that comes when you finally say, “It’s on me”—this reflection is for anybody who’s tired of letting their environment dictate their destiny.🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:<ul><li>How society uses environment as an excuse for success or failure</li><li>The inner battle between circumstances and choice</li><li>The power that comes with taking full responsibility for your path</li><li>Practical ways to shift from blame to ownership today</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about liberation. Because the moment you own your decisions, you unlock the power to rewrite your future.✨ Reflective Takeaway: What’s one decision you’ve been avoiding that you’re ready to take ownership of today?As always—protect your peace, alter your code, and… logging off for now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3044</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>If There Is An Example... | with Kelsie "WestLove" West</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/if-there-is-an-example-with-kelsie-westlove-west--67779613</link><description><![CDATA[What if the only thing holding you back is a belief that isn’t even true? In this episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Kelsie “WestLove” West to unpack the myths and self-doubt that keep us from dreaming bigger. From society’s projections to the internal battle with fear, we explore how one powerful example can shatter limiting beliefs and inspire new possibilities.👉🏾 Tune in as we talk about breaking cycles, challenging doubt, and building the confidence to create your own path.#Motivation #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #Podcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2cb9f664-5622-4443-8008-81ac425ce2bf</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67779613/373decfe_d66c_89d7_bb14_114f36bda13f.mp3" length="62303124" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the only thing holding you back is a belief that isn’t even true? In this episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Kelsie “WestLove” West to unpack the myths and self-doubt that keep us from dreaming bigger. From society’s projections to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the only thing holding you back is a belief that isn’t even true? In this episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Kelsie “WestLove” West to unpack the myths and self-doubt that keep us from dreaming bigger. From society’s projections to the internal battle with fear, we explore how one powerful example can shatter limiting beliefs and inspire new possibilities.👉🏾 Tune in as we talk about breaking cycles, challenging doubt, and building the confidence to create your own path.#Motivation #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #Podcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2585</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E14: It's The Principle | with LaVaughn Graves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e14-it-s-the-principle-with-lavaughn-graves--67690418</link><description><![CDATA[Some things ain’t about the outcome—it’s about the principle. In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re sitting down with LaVaughn Graves to talk about the power of standing on your values, even when the world is pushing you in the opposite direction.From the outside noise of society, family, and career expectations—to the inside battle of wanting peace but also wanting to stay true—we explore what it really costs to live by your principles. Because at the end of the day, compromising might get you approval, but sticking to what you believe will give you clarity.✨ Topics we dive into:<ul><li>How external pressures test your principles</li><li>The “in-between” space where doing right feels hardest</li><li>The internal cost of compromise vs. the peace of integrity</li><li>Why principles shape not just decisions, but who you really are</li></ul>If you’ve ever had to choose between fitting in and standing firm, this episode is for you.🔒 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always—Logging Off For Now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8d9aa899-9810-4a7b-b9c0-ce46a7867bf1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67690418/400b5f08_07ec_2c06_d21f_630674a45648.mp3" length="71953963" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Some things ain’t about the outcome—it’s about the principle. In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re sitting down with LaVaughn Graves to talk about the power of standing on your values, even when the world is pushing you in the opposite...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some things ain’t about the outcome—it’s about the principle. In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re sitting down with LaVaughn Graves to talk about the power of standing on your values, even when the world is pushing you in the opposite direction.From the outside noise of society, family, and career expectations—to the inside battle of wanting peace but also wanting to stay true—we explore what it really costs to live by your principles. Because at the end of the day, compromising might get you approval, but sticking to what you believe will give you clarity.✨ Topics we dive into:<ul><li>How external pressures test your principles</li><li>The “in-between” space where doing right feels hardest</li><li>The internal cost of compromise vs. the peace of integrity</li><li>Why principles shape not just decisions, but who you really are</li></ul>If you’ve ever had to choose between fitting in and standing firm, this episode is for you.🔒 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always—Logging Off For Now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2987</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E13: Logic(al) Validation | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e13-logic-al-validation-with-graveyyy--67595309</link><description><![CDATA[Ever reacted off pure emotion—and instantly knew you took it too far? Then comes the backtracking… trying to justify it with logic, or finding folks to cosign what you already knew wasn’t right.This episode is about that exact tension. Yes, your emotions are valid because they’re yours—but they can’t be the only thing driving your decisions. When we lead only with how we feel, we risk creating messes that could’ve been avoided.Inside this solo check-in, we’ll explore:<br />✨ The cost of reacting before thinking.<br />✨ Why balancing emotion and logic matters.<br />✨ How to honor your feelings without letting them run the whole show.Bottom line: Feel what you feel. But before you move—pause, breathe, and let logic pull up a chair.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4b66f58d-157a-40d8-b221-a2ea8f8cd280</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67595309/7dfbc1b1_384b_1fb8_aa5c_b63d9b535f90.mp3" length="76458620" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever reacted off pure emotion—and instantly knew you took it too far? Then comes the backtracking… trying to justify it with logic, or finding folks to cosign what you already knew wasn’t right.This episode is about that exact tension. Yes, your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever reacted off pure emotion—and instantly knew you took it too far? Then comes the backtracking… trying to justify it with logic, or finding folks to cosign what you already knew wasn’t right.This episode is about that exact tension. Yes, your emotions are valid because they’re yours—but they can’t be the only thing driving your decisions. When we lead only with how we feel, we risk creating messes that could’ve been avoided.Inside this solo check-in, we’ll explore:<br />✨ The cost of reacting before thinking.<br />✨ Why balancing emotion and logic matters.<br />✨ How to honor your feelings without letting them run the whole show.Bottom line: Feel what you feel. But before you move—pause, breathe, and let logic pull up a chair.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3173</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>It's Not A Secret... | with Thermon Gaines</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-not-a-secret-with-thermon-gaines--67518439</link><description><![CDATA[Guest: Thermon Gaines (aka Mr. “I Don’t Think They Feel Me, But Imma Make Em Feel Me, Ya Feel Me” … ROOOWWDIIIEEE WHEWWW ‼️)Some things ain’t a secret… they just ain’t none of your business. 🤷🏽‍♂️ In this short but loaded episode, we’re breaking down the difference between privacy vs. secrecy—and why holding your boundaries doesn’t make you shady, it makes you sane.We talk about:<ul><li>Why social media got folks thinking they deserve full access to your life 📲</li><li>How silence ain’t always secrecy—it’s peace 🤎</li><li>The freedom that comes when you stop oversharing just to keep people comfortable 🙌</li></ul>Quick convo, heavy gems. This one gon’ have you rethinking who really earned the right to know your business.Tune in, Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code… and As Always, Logging Off For Now. 🖤]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1601a087-8b86-4c69-a9ef-c500d7ed81b9</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67518439/e2b8aa4b_7afa_489f_63a3_09f941aa2ce5.mp3" length="50643637" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Guest: Thermon Gaines (aka Mr. “I Don’t Think They Feel Me, But Imma Make Em Feel Me, Ya Feel Me” … ROOOWWDIIIEEE WHEWWW ‼️)Some things ain’t a secret… they just ain’t none of your business. 🤷🏽‍♂️ In this short but loaded episode, we’re breaking down...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Guest: Thermon Gaines (aka Mr. “I Don’t Think They Feel Me, But Imma Make Em Feel Me, Ya Feel Me” … ROOOWWDIIIEEE WHEWWW ‼️)Some things ain’t a secret… they just ain’t none of your business. 🤷🏽‍♂️ In this short but loaded episode, we’re breaking down the difference between privacy vs. secrecy—and why holding your boundaries doesn’t make you shady, it makes you sane.We talk about:<ul><li>Why social media got folks thinking they deserve full access to your life 📲</li><li>How silence ain’t always secrecy—it’s peace 🤎</li><li>The freedom that comes when you stop oversharing just to keep people comfortable 🙌</li></ul>Quick convo, heavy gems. This one gon’ have you rethinking who really earned the right to know your business.Tune in, Protect Your Peace, Audit Your Code… and As Always, Logging Off For Now. 🖤]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2099</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Order By () | with Ricky Prothro</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/order-by-with-ricky-prothro--67438196</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 11 of Insider Threat dives into the power of order with guest Ricky Protho. Using the SQL concept ORDER BY() as a metaphor, we explore how structure, time management, and healthy habits can bring clarity to the chaos. Learn how to navigate external pressures, overcome resistance in creating routines, and discover the inner peace that comes with taking control.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3fbd3f26-12b6-4cfc-ab5f-069de297581b</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67438196/3706511e_ac5f_da08_682c_969854a3f06a.mp3" length="68919270" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 11 of Insider Threat dives into the power of order with guest Ricky Protho. Using the SQL concept ORDER BY() as a metaphor, we explore how structure, time management, and healthy habits can bring clarity to the chaos. Learn how to navigate...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 11 of Insider Threat dives into the power of order with guest Ricky Protho. Using the SQL concept ORDER BY() as a metaphor, we explore how structure, time management, and healthy habits can bring clarity to the chaos. Learn how to navigate external pressures, overcome resistance in creating routines, and discover the inner peace that comes with taking control.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2859</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Check On Me | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/check-on-me-with-graveyyy--67344419</link><description><![CDATA[Who checks on the “strong friend”? In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the hidden weight of being the one everyone leans on—and how that strength can become a silent burden.From societal expectations to the quiet battles we fight alone, this conversation explores why resilience shouldn’t mean invisibility, and how we can create space for vulnerability in ourselves and each other.We’ll dive into the ways pop culture, social media, and our own internal wiring keep us from asking for help, and why breaking that cycle is essential for mental and emotional balance.We also hit our warm-up segment, “Say Ahh,” and close with Take CTRL—a reflection on what stood out, what stuck, and what you’re applying moving forward.🔒 Highlights include:<ul><li>The societal myth that strong people don’t struggle</li><li>The silent emotional toll of always being “the rock”</li><li>The internal conflict of needing help but not wanting to ask</li><li>Why we must normalize checking in on our strongest friends</li><li>Tools to create a balanced cycle of support</li></ul>Questions to reflect on:<ul><li>When was the last time someone genuinely checked on you?</li><li>How do you make sure the strong ones in your life get support too?</li><li>What’s the hardest part of admitting you need help?</li></ul>🎧 Tune in, take notes, and maybe send that “just checking in” text today.📱 Follow Insider Threat:<br />@InsiderThreatTV<br />🔐 Protect your peace. Audit Your Code. And As Always… Logging Off For Now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">50d40999-d23b-4e80-9200-660094afd5a3</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67344419/9f580eb0_5df2_8f70_6948_bbed696845f0.mp3" length="79380652" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Who checks on the “strong friend”? In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the hidden weight of being the one everyone leans on—and how that strength can become a silent burden.From societal expectations to the quiet battles we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Who checks on the “strong friend”? In this solo episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about the hidden weight of being the one everyone leans on—and how that strength can become a silent burden.From societal expectations to the quiet battles we fight alone, this conversation explores why resilience shouldn’t mean invisibility, and how we can create space for vulnerability in ourselves and each other.We’ll dive into the ways pop culture, social media, and our own internal wiring keep us from asking for help, and why breaking that cycle is essential for mental and emotional balance.We also hit our warm-up segment, “Say Ahh,” and close with Take CTRL—a reflection on what stood out, what stuck, and what you’re applying moving forward.🔒 Highlights include:<ul><li>The societal myth that strong people don’t struggle</li><li>The silent emotional toll of always being “the rock”</li><li>The internal conflict of needing help but not wanting to ask</li><li>Why we must normalize checking in on our strongest friends</li><li>Tools to create a balanced cycle of support</li></ul>Questions to reflect on:<ul><li>When was the last time someone genuinely checked on you?</li><li>How do you make sure the strong ones in your life get support too?</li><li>What’s the hardest part of admitting you need help?</li></ul>🎧 Tune in, take notes, and maybe send that “just checking in” text today.📱 Follow Insider Threat:<br />@InsiderThreatTV<br />🔐 Protect your peace. Audit Your Code. And As Always… Logging Off For Now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3296</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E9: 0 to Heaven | with Ashley Williams-Cope</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e9-0-to-heaven-with-ashley-williams-cope--67258572</link><description><![CDATA[In this soul-stirring episode of Insider Threat, we're diving deep into one of the hardest emotional battles we face—holding grudges, seeking revenge, and choosing forgiveness. Our guest, Ashley Williams-Cope, joins us to unpack the personal and spiritual journey from anger to healing.We explore how society and media influence our views on revenge, the emotional tug-of-war between resentment and release, and the internal cost of holding onto pain. From public vindication to private peace, this conversation challenges us to examine what we're really sacrificing when we don’t forgive—and what we gain when we finally do.✨ Segments include:<ul><li>Say Ahh (Open Up) – Ashley chooses between a joke, quote, or fear to kick things off.</li><li>Internet (External Pressures) – How culture and media shape our responses to hurt.</li><li>Buffering (The In-Between) – The struggle between retaliation and reconciliation.</li><li>Intranet (Internal Impact) – The toll that anger and grudges take on our peace of mind.</li><li>Take CTRL – Highlights, key takeaways, and how to apply them to your life.</li></ul>This one’s for anyone holding onto something—or someone—too tightly. Let’s talk about what it takes to finally let go.🔚 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always... Logging Off For Now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">52ef3ba5-ae67-48e6-b978-4e4c1228ab0d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67258572/262828fb_dd6d_b227_db3b_7bc7970c733f.mp3" length="79533137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this soul-stirring episode of Insider Threat, we're diving deep into one of the hardest emotional battles we face—holding grudges, seeking revenge, and choosing forgiveness. Our guest, Ashley Williams-Cope, joins us to unpack the personal and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this soul-stirring episode of Insider Threat, we're diving deep into one of the hardest emotional battles we face—holding grudges, seeking revenge, and choosing forgiveness. Our guest, Ashley Williams-Cope, joins us to unpack the personal and spiritual journey from anger to healing.We explore how society and media influence our views on revenge, the emotional tug-of-war between resentment and release, and the internal cost of holding onto pain. From public vindication to private peace, this conversation challenges us to examine what we're really sacrificing when we don’t forgive—and what we gain when we finally do.✨ Segments include:<ul><li>Say Ahh (Open Up) – Ashley chooses between a joke, quote, or fear to kick things off.</li><li>Internet (External Pressures) – How culture and media shape our responses to hurt.</li><li>Buffering (The In-Between) – The struggle between retaliation and reconciliation.</li><li>Intranet (Internal Impact) – The toll that anger and grudges take on our peace of mind.</li><li>Take CTRL – Highlights, key takeaways, and how to apply them to your life.</li></ul>This one’s for anyone holding onto something—or someone—too tightly. Let’s talk about what it takes to finally let go.🔚 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always... Logging Off For Now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3298</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E8: Your Circle Is A Threat Vector | with Sylvester Byrd</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e8-your-circle-is-a-threat-vector-with-sylvester-byrd--67182840</link><description><![CDATA[Who’s in your circle—and are they really safe? In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about how the people closest to us—friends, family, or chosen community—can either protect us or expose us. Your relationships influence how you think, what you value, and how you move. So what happens when your circle becomes your greatest risk?I’m joined by Sylvester Byrd for an unfiltered conversation about loyalty, peer pressure, toxic ties, and the internal work of protecting your peace. We explore how social norms and emotional ties keep us stuck, how to spot the “murky middle,” and what it really takes to redefine or walk away from unhealthy relationships.We also hit our warm-up segment, “Say Ahh,” and close with Take CTRL—a reflection on what stood out, what stuck, and what you’re applying moving forward.<br />🔒 Highlights include:<ul><li>The emotional cost of toxic loyalty</li><li>When “being loyal” becomes self-betrayal</li><li>Guilt, grief, and growth in letting go</li><li>How your inner circle shapes your identity and boundaries</li><li>Tools to Take CTRL of your relationships<br /></li></ul>Questions to reflect on:<ul><li>What boundary have you learned to set recently?</li><li>Have you ever felt guilty for growing away from someone?</li><li>What do you wish someone told you earlier about choosing your circle?<br /></li></ul>🎧 Tune in, take notes, and maybe rethink some of the names on your “favorites” list.<br />📱 Follow Sylvester Byrd on IG: @392scatdaddy<br />🔐 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always… Logging off for now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">98b18d1c-a755-4689-a9e8-09158ea7a868</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2025 22:05:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67182840/6194363c_f06a_f02f_8599_7b3a7a51352c.mp3" length="101134468" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Who’s in your circle—and are they really safe? In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about how the people closest to us—friends, family, or chosen community—can either protect us or expose us. Your relationships influence how you think,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Who’s in your circle—and are they really safe? In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re talking about how the people closest to us—friends, family, or chosen community—can either protect us or expose us. Your relationships influence how you think, what you value, and how you move. So what happens when your circle becomes your greatest risk?I’m joined by Sylvester Byrd for an unfiltered conversation about loyalty, peer pressure, toxic ties, and the internal work of protecting your peace. We explore how social norms and emotional ties keep us stuck, how to spot the “murky middle,” and what it really takes to redefine or walk away from unhealthy relationships.We also hit our warm-up segment, “Say Ahh,” and close with Take CTRL—a reflection on what stood out, what stuck, and what you’re applying moving forward.<br />🔒 Highlights include:<ul><li>The emotional cost of toxic loyalty</li><li>When “being loyal” becomes self-betrayal</li><li>Guilt, grief, and growth in letting go</li><li>How your inner circle shapes your identity and boundaries</li><li>Tools to Take CTRL of your relationships<br /></li></ul>Questions to reflect on:<ul><li>What boundary have you learned to set recently?</li><li>Have you ever felt guilty for growing away from someone?</li><li>What do you wish someone told you earlier about choosing your circle?<br /></li></ul>🎧 Tune in, take notes, and maybe rethink some of the names on your “favorites” list.<br />📱 Follow Sylvester Byrd on IG: @392scatdaddy<br />🔐 Protect your peace. Alter your code. And as always… Logging off for now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4201</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E7: Healing In Private, While Hurting In Public | with Reggie Gray</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e7-healing-in-private-while-hurting-in-public-with-reggie-gray--67079043</link><description><![CDATA[Why does the world applaud our breakdowns but ignore our breakthroughs?In this powerful episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Reggie Gray—to unpack the emotional, cultural, and spiritual cost of doing the hard work of healing in silence. Together, we explore the quiet labor of growth, the tension between private restoration and public perception, and how social pressure often rewards visible pain more than invisible progress.From navigating the demands of social media to confronting internalized beliefs about what healing should "look like," this conversation asks: What does it mean to truly heal on your own terms?🔍 Topics we cover:<ul><li>Why breakdowns go viral but healing stays invisible</li><li>The pressure to "look okay" before you are</li><li>How internal voices and external culture shape our recovery</li><li>The quiet wins that deserve celebration—even if no one sees them</li></ul><br />🎧 Whether you're in the middle of your healing journey or just starting to question the noise around you, this episode is a reminder: you don’t need an audience to grow.<br />🛑 Logging Off For Now<br />Reflect with us. Heal with us. And reclaim the value of your quiet victories.👇 Comment your CTRL + C (takeaways), CTRL + V (what you’ll apply), and don’t forget to follow for more real conversations that go beyond the surface.📲 Connect with Reggie Gray<br />IG: @_naldgTwitch: @naldttvYT: nald<br />📌 Subscribe + Share<br />If this episode spoke to you, pass it on. And don’t forget—just because no one clapped doesn’t mean it didn’t count.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2d11c2c1-4fd5-48ef-b786-51c201e39332</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 19:51:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67079043/1ed38703_3dff_652c_4b7e_a197e08e06d7.mp3" length="91617474" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why does the world applaud our breakdowns but ignore our breakthroughs?In this powerful episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Reggie Gray—to unpack the emotional, cultural, and spiritual cost of doing the hard work of healing in silence....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why does the world applaud our breakdowns but ignore our breakthroughs?In this powerful episode of Insider Threat, we sit down with Reggie Gray—to unpack the emotional, cultural, and spiritual cost of doing the hard work of healing in silence. Together, we explore the quiet labor of growth, the tension between private restoration and public perception, and how social pressure often rewards visible pain more than invisible progress.From navigating the demands of social media to confronting internalized beliefs about what healing should "look like," this conversation asks: What does it mean to truly heal on your own terms?🔍 Topics we cover:<ul><li>Why breakdowns go viral but healing stays invisible</li><li>The pressure to "look okay" before you are</li><li>How internal voices and external culture shape our recovery</li><li>The quiet wins that deserve celebration—even if no one sees them</li></ul><br />🎧 Whether you're in the middle of your healing journey or just starting to question the noise around you, this episode is a reminder: you don’t need an audience to grow.<br />🛑 Logging Off For Now<br />Reflect with us. Heal with us. And reclaim the value of your quiet victories.👇 Comment your CTRL + C (takeaways), CTRL + V (what you’ll apply), and don’t forget to follow for more real conversations that go beyond the surface.📲 Connect with Reggie Gray<br />IG: @_naldgTwitch: @naldttvYT: nald<br />📌 Subscribe + Share<br />If this episode spoke to you, pass it on. And don’t forget—just because no one clapped doesn’t mean it didn’t count.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3805</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E6: Be So Real Its A Risk | with Yurk</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e6-be-so-real-its-a-risk-with-yurk--66985835</link><description><![CDATA[What does it mean to be authentic in high school? In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Yurkkio._ to unpack the pressure teens face to fit in—online, in the classroom, and even within themselves. From TikTok trends to unspoken social codes, we explore the cost of showing up as your real self when blending in seems like the safer option.<br />This conversation isn’t just for teens—it’s for anyone navigating identity in a world full of filters.<br />🎙 Say Ahh: Joke, Quote, or Biggest Fear?🌐 External Pressures: Social media, peer pressure, trends🧠 Internal Impact: Self-esteem, identity, emotional toll🌀 In Between: Knowing who you are vs. who you can be in public💡 Take CTRL: What are you copying, pasting, and applying from today’s conversation?<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code. Logging off for now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">28f109f0-b2e4-4729-a484-e7d76a60736a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66985835/eb548838_7ef2_8ec2_fe74_5366eee4d90d.mp3" length="75102594" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does it mean to be authentic in high school? In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Yurkkio._ to unpack the pressure teens face to fit in—online, in the classroom, and even within themselves. From TikTok trends to unspoken social...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does it mean to be authentic in high school? In this episode of Insider Threat, I sit down with Yurkkio._ to unpack the pressure teens face to fit in—online, in the classroom, and even within themselves. From TikTok trends to unspoken social codes, we explore the cost of showing up as your real self when blending in seems like the safer option.<br />This conversation isn’t just for teens—it’s for anyone navigating identity in a world full of filters.<br />🎙 Say Ahh: Joke, Quote, or Biggest Fear?🌐 External Pressures: Social media, peer pressure, trends🧠 Internal Impact: Self-esteem, identity, emotional toll🌀 In Between: Knowing who you are vs. who you can be in public💡 Take CTRL: What are you copying, pasting, and applying from today’s conversation?<br />Protect your peace. Alter your code. Logging off for now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3115</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E5: Motivation Is A Myth | with Asha Harris</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e5-motivation-is-a-myth-with-asha-harris--66897847</link><description><![CDATA[Is motivation keeping you stuck?In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re calling out one of the biggest lies in hustle culture: the belief that motivation is the key to success. Spoiler alert—it’s not.Joined by mindset strategist Asha Harris, we dig into why motivation is fleeting, how social media has overhyped it, and why discipline, consistency, and small daily habits are the real game changers. From breaking free of the “wait-until-you-feel-like-it” mindset to building systems that move you forward, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about staying driven.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">67fdca07-9f86-4fc3-b3ac-21926b10dd38</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66897847/403500399_44100_2_22e2041060867.mp3" length="38953543" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is motivation keeping you stuck?In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re calling out one of the biggest lies in hustle culture: the belief that motivation is the key to success. Spoiler alert—it’s not.Joined by mindset strategist Asha Harris, we dig...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is motivation keeping you stuck?In this episode of Insider Threat, we’re calling out one of the biggest lies in hustle culture: the belief that motivation is the key to success. Spoiler alert—it’s not.Joined by mindset strategist Asha Harris, we dig into why motivation is fleeting, how social media has overhyped it, and why discipline, consistency, and small daily habits are the real game changers. From breaking free of the “wait-until-you-feel-like-it” mindset to building systems that move you forward, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about staying driven.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2435</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E4: Protect Your Peace Like Its Classified | with Graveyyy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e4-protect-your-peace-like-its-classified-with-graveyyy--66821442</link><description><![CDATA[🎙️ EPISODE 4 - Protect Your Peace Like It’s Classified<br />Peace isn’t a luxury—it’s a protocol. In this solo episode, we get real about how peace doesn’t just vanish—it leaks. From emotional overexposure to digital overwhelm and spiritual detachment, we explore what’s really draining your inner security. You’ll learn how to recognize the signs of spiritual buffering, set guilt-free boundaries, and build a “peace protocol” that secures your soul like it’s classified. Because peace isn’t passive—it’s something you have to proactively protect.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4918eb57-72ca-47f7-817a-ae3e062034a7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66821442/403098929_44100_2_9a2b595002c5a.mp3" length="62457477" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🎙️ EPISODE 4 - Protect Your Peace Like It’s Classified
Peace isn’t a luxury—it’s a protocol. In this solo episode, we get real about how peace doesn’t just vanish—it leaks. From emotional overexposure to digital overwhelm and spiritual detachment, we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🎙️ EPISODE 4 - Protect Your Peace Like It’s Classified<br />Peace isn’t a luxury—it’s a protocol. In this solo episode, we get real about how peace doesn’t just vanish—it leaks. From emotional overexposure to digital overwhelm and spiritual detachment, we explore what’s really draining your inner security. You’ll learn how to recognize the signs of spiritual buffering, set guilt-free boundaries, and build a “peace protocol” that secures your soul like it’s classified. Because peace isn’t passive—it’s something you have to proactively protect.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3904</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E3: Burn The Blueprint | with Dom Cannon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e3-burn-the-blueprint-with-dom-cannon--66726111</link><description><![CDATA[What if the plan you’ve been holding onto isn’t the one meant for you? In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore what it means to let go of rigid expectations and trust God. When life doesn’t go according to plan—whether it’s your career, a relationship, or a long-held goal—could it actually be redirecting you toward something better?Dom is joining us today, as we unpack the freedom that comes with surrender, the power of letting go, and how to move forward when the blueprint no longer fits. This is a conversation about releasing control and stepping into possibility.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7eb67b84-675d-4a55-a799-2adbed1bf45d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66726111/402695801_44100_2_71febc07b633d.mp3" length="52002646" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the plan you’ve been holding onto isn’t the one meant for you? In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore what it means to let go of rigid expectations and trust God. When life doesn’t go according to plan—whether it’s your career, a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the plan you’ve been holding onto isn’t the one meant for you? In this episode of Insider Threat, we explore what it means to let go of rigid expectations and trust God. When life doesn’t go according to plan—whether it’s your career, a relationship, or a long-held goal—could it actually be redirecting you toward something better?Dom is joining us today, as we unpack the freedom that comes with surrender, the power of letting go, and how to move forward when the blueprint no longer fits. This is a conversation about releasing control and stepping into possibility.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3251</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Hurt Me With The Truth, Never Comfort Me With A Lie with Lanisha Graves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/hurt-me-with-the-truth-never-comfort-me-with-a-lie-with-lanisha-graves--66591629</link><description><![CDATA[🎙 Choosing Truth Over Comfort: The Cost of Honesty<br />In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but essential act of telling the truth—even when it hurts. Whether it’s sparing someone’s feelings or avoiding confrontation, lying can seem like the easier path. But what’s the real cost? We explore how dishonesty—however well-intentioned—can rob others of agency and informed choice. We also unpack how truth-telling, even when difficult, is a radical act of respect that fosters trust, supports spiritual integrity, and strengthens meaningful relationships.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">974b52c1-cefe-4ac8-b0bc-2e8aab4c0d04</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66591629/402268655_44100_2_5db17384df9de.mp3" length="60206349" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🎙 Choosing Truth Over Comfort: The Cost of Honesty
In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but essential act of telling the truth—even when it hurts. Whether it’s sparing someone’s feelings or avoiding confrontation, lying can seem like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🎙 Choosing Truth Over Comfort: The Cost of Honesty<br />In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but essential act of telling the truth—even when it hurts. Whether it’s sparing someone’s feelings or avoiding confrontation, lying can seem like the easier path. But what’s the real cost? We explore how dishonesty—however well-intentioned—can rob others of agency and informed choice. We also unpack how truth-telling, even when difficult, is a radical act of respect that fosters trust, supports spiritual integrity, and strengthens meaningful relationships.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3763</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>V1E1: Meet the Insider — My Story, My Why, and What’s Coming</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/v1e1-meet-the-insider-my-story-my-why-and-what-s-coming--66506256</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Insider Threat!I’m Graveyyy, and in this premiere episode, I’m doing what every breach starts with—gaining internal access.Today, the insider is me.Before we analyze the patterns, programming, and inherited emotional code running in the background of our lives, I’m starting at the source—my story. The origin of this podcast. The inspiration. The battles I’ve had to debug just to launch this show.I also walk you through the segment-by-segment breakdown of Insider Threat, giving you a blueprint of how each episode is designed to challenge, reflect, and rewire. Because here, we’re not just sharing content—we’re making every insight feel like a security breach.__🔐 Episode Segments:🩺 Say Ahh (Open Up) – a warm intro to the episode + a quick icebreaker: joke, quote, or biggest fear🌐 The Internet – how external influences (social media, family, culture, work) shape who we become🧠 The Intranet – turning inward to examine how those inputs impact our thoughts, habits, and healing⏳ Buffering – holding space for the tension of generational patterns and emotional delays⌨️ Take CTRL – practical strategies to reclaim control, make shifts, and move forward📤 Logging Off For Now – a short recap, social plugs, and a real cybersecurity tip to close each episode__📅 New episodes drop weekly:🎧 Audio every Tuesday @ 9:00 AM ET – on Spotify &amp; all podcast platforms🎥 Video every Wednesday @ 9:00 AM ET – on YouTube💬 Subscribe, follow, and plug in.This is Insider Threat—where reflection meets realignment, and nothing stays encrypted.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f3e9ef9b-14f0-4613-8dcf-c1c497d13452</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2025 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66506256/401781402_44100_2_18f38a6230225.mp3" length="59766656" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Insider Threat</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Insider Threat!I’m Graveyyy, and in this premiere episode, I’m doing what every breach starts with—gaining internal access.Today, the insider is me.Before we analyze the patterns, programming, and inherited emotional code running in the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Insider Threat!I’m Graveyyy, and in this premiere episode, I’m doing what every breach starts with—gaining internal access.Today, the insider is me.Before we analyze the patterns, programming, and inherited emotional code running in the background of our lives, I’m starting at the source—my story. The origin of this podcast. The inspiration. The battles I’ve had to debug just to launch this show.I also walk you through the segment-by-segment breakdown of Insider Threat, giving you a blueprint of how each episode is designed to challenge, reflect, and rewire. Because here, we’re not just sharing content—we’re making every insight feel like a security breach.__🔐 Episode Segments:🩺 Say Ahh (Open Up) – a warm intro to the episode + a quick icebreaker: joke, quote, or biggest fear🌐 The Internet – how external influences (social media, family, culture, work) shape who we become🧠 The Intranet – turning inward to examine how those inputs impact our thoughts, habits, and healing⏳ Buffering – holding space for the tension of generational patterns and emotional delays⌨️ Take CTRL – practical strategies to reclaim control, make shifts, and move forward📤 Logging Off For Now – a short recap, social plugs, and a real cybersecurity tip to close each episode__📅 New episodes drop weekly:🎧 Audio every Tuesday @ 9:00 AM ET – on Spotify &amp; all podcast platforms🎥 Video every Wednesday @ 9:00 AM ET – on YouTube💬 Subscribe, follow, and plug in.This is Insider Threat—where reflection meets realignment, and nothing stays encrypted.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3736</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8fca8901a691fcbaec80ac7bd5eaaa08.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
