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Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There’s a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6641492/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Mental Health</category><copyright>Copyright Kelly O'Horo</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg</url><title>Adaptable | Behavior Explained</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/adaptable-behavior-explained--6641492</link></image><lastBuildDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 18:27:21 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>I’m Kelly O’Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I’m a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’m Kelly O’Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I’m a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we’re all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the ”life stuff” and ”emotional vocabulary” that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I’ve learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There’s a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Alternative Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>It's Not About Sex: The Attachment Reason Behind Affairs</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-not-about-sex-the-attachment-reason-behind-affairs--73290219</link><description><![CDATA[Most affairs aren't about sex, they're about an unmet need the person can't name. EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how attachment injuries drive infidelity, and shares two stories of affairs that began after the birth of a child, when watching a wife nurture their baby reawakened a man's own childhood wounds.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/b63232a2-b8e7-31c1-a9f1-1f30919aa8b8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73290219/0730.mp3" length="16855925" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2/ce78b2ca-e8fd-484b-a9ec-f28050d0bfd2.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most affairs aren't about sex, they're about an unmet need the person can't name. EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how attachment injuries drive infidelity, and shares two stories of affairs that began after the birth of a child, when watching a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most affairs aren't about sex, they're about an unmet need the person can't name. EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how attachment injuries drive infidelity, and shares two stories of affairs that began after the birth of a child, when watching a wife nurture their baby reawakened a man's own childhood wounds.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>703</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>139</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why People Really Cheat (A Therapist Explains the 6 Real Reasons)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-people-really-cheat-a-therapist-explains-the-6-real-reasons--73168179</link><description><![CDATA[Why do people cheat? This episode, unpacks the six real reasons behind infidelity, emotional disconnection, unmet needs, low commitment, situational pressures, self-esteem, and attachment injuries plus what reconciliation takes, what discovery feels like for both partners, and the odds a marriage survives an affair. The anchor episode of the series. (Repackaged from the original Infidelity episode.)   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c1e609f8-56d3-390d-abe5-63e62299eca3</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73168179/why_people_cheatalhr3.mp3" length="17464683" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa/1cc75971-83ff-4bf7-a400-be0addcf2caa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do people cheat? This episode, unpacks the six real reasons behind infidelity, emotional disconnection, unmet needs, low commitment, situational pressures, self-esteem, and attachment injuries plus what reconciliation takes, what discovery feels...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do people cheat? This episode, unpacks the six real reasons behind infidelity, emotional disconnection, unmet needs, low commitment, situational pressures, self-esteem, and attachment injuries plus what reconciliation takes, what discovery feels like for both partners, and the odds a marriage survives an affair. The anchor episode of the series. (Repackaged from the original Infidelity episode.)   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>728</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>138</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Turning 50 Changed How I See Everything (An Honest Conversation)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/turning-50-changed-how-i-see-everything-an-honest-conversation--73102882</link><description><![CDATA[I turned 50 and got honest about time, stress, and what really matters. In this personal episode, therapist and founder Kelly O'Horo shares what midlife revealed: why time stops feeling abstract, how stress is often a signal of misalignment rather than busyness, and the shift from building a life to using it to give back. A candid conversation about purpose, fear, and stepping into bigger things before you feel ready.   Chapters 0:00 — Turning 50 and telling the truth 1:30 — When time stops feeling abstract 4:00 — Stress as a signal of misalignment 6:30 — From building to meaning 9:00 — Stepping into teaching at a bigger scale 11:30 — You don't wait until you're ready 13:30 — The responsibility to pay it forward   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/25759298-0669-3436-9890-18f8fae81501</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 08:03:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73102882/0722_2_azwve.mp3" length="18224533" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b/c27acffc-8e03-4aa2-bb21-5d7a7317a62b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I turned 50 and got honest about time, stress, and what really matters. In this personal episode, therapist and founder Kelly O'Horo shares what midlife revealed: why time stops feeling abstract, how stress is often a signal of misalignment rather...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I turned 50 and got honest about time, stress, and what really matters. In this personal episode, therapist and founder Kelly O'Horo shares what midlife revealed: why time stops feeling abstract, how stress is often a signal of misalignment rather than busyness, and the shift from building a life to using it to give back. A candid conversation about purpose, fear, and stepping into bigger things before you feel ready.   Chapters 0:00 — Turning 50 and telling the truth 1:30 — When time stops feeling abstract 4:00 — Stress as a signal of misalignment 6:30 — From building to meaning 9:00 — Stepping into teaching at a bigger scale 11:30 — You don't wait until you're ready 13:30 — The responsibility to pay it forward   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>760</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>137</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Conversations Every Couple Needs Before Marriage (From a Therapist)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-conversations-every-couple-needs-before-marriage-from-a-therapist--72918558</link><description><![CDATA[Love doesn't fail marriages. Unspoken expectations do. So before you walk down that aisle, there are a handful of conversations almost no one has and they're the ones that actually shape your day-to-day life together. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and today I'll walk you through every one.   Before you say “I do,” there are a handful of conversations most couples never have and they're the ones that actually shape married life. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo walks through what every couple needs to get clear on before the wedding: how you each handle conflict and repair, money and invisible labor, gender-role and family expectations, intimacy, and emotional safety. Grounded in Gottman's research, this is the premarital conversation guide nobody hands you. Whether you're engaged, thinking about it, or years in — this one's for you.  I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!  I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.  -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ff01f3cd-56c5-34ad-bfb5-98f069b6e6d1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72918558/0709.mp3" length="16817682" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f/f2984ed7-882c-49f5-bbb0-3cead300dc8f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Love doesn't fail marriages. Unspoken expectations do. So before you walk down that aisle, there are a handful of conversations almost no one has and they're the ones that actually shape your day-to-day life together. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Love doesn't fail marriages. Unspoken expectations do. So before you walk down that aisle, there are a handful of conversations almost no one has and they're the ones that actually shape your day-to-day life together. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and today I'll walk you through every one.   Before you say “I do,” there are a handful of conversations most couples never have and they're the ones that actually shape married life. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo walks through what every couple needs to get clear on before the wedding: how you each handle conflict and repair, money and invisible labor, gender-role and family expectations, intimacy, and emotional safety. Grounded in Gottman's research, this is the premarital conversation guide nobody hands you. Whether you're engaged, thinking about it, or years in — this one's for you.  I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!  I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.  -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>701</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>136</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Don't Feel Safe After Surviving (Medical Trauma &amp; EMDR)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-don-t-feel-safe-after-surviving-medical-trauma-emdr--72829839</link><description><![CDATA[You can be profoundly traumatized by something your body lived through — even when everyone tells you you're “lucky to be alive.” Because surviving doesn't mean your nervous system knows you're safe. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and today we're talking about medical trauma.   Surviving a heart attack, cancer, a stroke, or a serious injury doesn't mean your nervous system knows you're safe. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains medical trauma — why life-threatening medical events get stored as trauma, why so many survivors stay “braced” and hypervigilant, the grief of a body that can't do what it once did, and how EMDR helps the brain finally update to “that was then, this is now.” If you've ever wondered why you don't feel okay even though you survived, this one's for you.   Chapters 0:00 — “Why don't I feel okay — I survived?” 2:00 — Why medical events become trauma 6:00 — The braced nervous system 10:00 — Powerlessness, fear &amp; grief 14:00 — How EMDR helps the brain update 18:00 — Healing isn't erasing — it's integrating   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/b812283a-612f-31ea-819c-70961e4e32ea</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72829839/0701.mp3" length="18356817" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761/ca23d77f-154c-4f32-8f3d-018b062ef761.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You can be profoundly traumatized by something your body lived through — even when everyone tells you you're “lucky to be alive.” Because surviving doesn't mean your nervous system knows you're safe. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and today we're...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can be profoundly traumatized by something your body lived through — even when everyone tells you you're “lucky to be alive.” Because surviving doesn't mean your nervous system knows you're safe. I'm Kelly, an EMDR therapist, and today we're talking about medical trauma.   Surviving a heart attack, cancer, a stroke, or a serious injury doesn't mean your nervous system knows you're safe. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains medical trauma — why life-threatening medical events get stored as trauma, why so many survivors stay “braced” and hypervigilant, the grief of a body that can't do what it once did, and how EMDR helps the brain finally update to “that was then, this is now.” If you've ever wondered why you don't feel okay even though you survived, this one's for you.   Chapters 0:00 — “Why don't I feel okay — I survived?” 2:00 — Why medical events become trauma 6:00 — The braced nervous system 10:00 — Powerlessness, fear &amp; grief 14:00 — How EMDR helps the brain update 18:00 — Healing isn't erasing — it's integrating   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>765</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>134</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Rewire a Nervous System Stuck in Survival Mode (A Therapist Explains)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-rewire-a-nervous-system-stuck-in-survival-mode-a-therapist-explains--72786289</link><description><![CDATA[Your nervous system isn't broken, it's doing exactly what it learned to keep you safe. The problem is, what protected you then can exhaust you now. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how the nervous system works, how stress and trauma get stored in the body, the science of neuroplasticity, and how therapies like EMDR help you rewire from survival mode toward flexibility and calm, including the “hand model of the brain” and why we “flip our lid” under stress.    Chapters:  0:00 — Your nervous system isn't broken  1:30 — The survival system, simply explained  4:00 — The hand model: why you “flip your lid”  7:00 — How trauma &amp; stress get stored in the body  10:00 — Changing your relationship with stress  12:30 — Neuroplasticity: the brain can rewire  15:00 — How EMDR rewires survival responses   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5f44df87-1bf2-3dcf-b731-5b91934e7bc7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 08:14:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72786289/0702.mp3" length="27895690" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12/005d1e17-f0c7-4fd3-905c-311070ad1d12.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your nervous system isn't broken, it's doing exactly what it learned to keep you safe. The problem is, what protected you then can exhaust you now. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how the nervous system works, how stress and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your nervous system isn't broken, it's doing exactly what it learned to keep you safe. The problem is, what protected you then can exhaust you now. In this episode, EMDR therapist Kelly O'Horo explains how the nervous system works, how stress and trauma get stored in the body, the science of neuroplasticity, and how therapies like EMDR help you rewire from survival mode toward flexibility and calm, including the “hand model of the brain” and why we “flip our lid” under stress.    Chapters:  0:00 — Your nervous system isn't broken  1:30 — The survival system, simply explained  4:00 — The hand model: why you “flip your lid”  7:00 — How trauma &amp; stress get stored in the body  10:00 — Changing your relationship with stress  12:30 — Neuroplasticity: the brain can rewire  15:00 — How EMDR rewires survival responses   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1163</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>135</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Addiction Is Not the Problem, Trauma Is with Patrick O'Horo</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/addiction-is-not-the-problem-trauma-is-with-patrick-o-horo--72603613</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we take a deeper look at addiction and what’s happening beneath the surface with Patrick O'Horo. Rather than being the core problem, addiction is often explored as a coping response to unresolved trauma, emotional pain, and nervous system dysregulation. Together, we discuss how healing changes when we move beyond behavior and address the underlying trauma driving it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2386c3a1-8322-3397-a824-eb912082ba72</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72603613/0619_1_9zbud.mp3" length="41862005" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040/74e45c65-da35-4512-82d5-92256cc8b040.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we take a deeper look at addiction and what’s happening beneath the surface with Patrick O'Horo. Rather than being the core problem, addiction is often explored as a coping response to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we take a deeper look at addiction and what’s happening beneath the surface with Patrick O'Horo. Rather than being the core problem, addiction is often explored as a coping response to unresolved trauma, emotional pain, and nervous system dysregulation. Together, we discuss how healing changes when we move beyond behavior and address the underlying trauma driving it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1745</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>132</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Addiction as an Adaptation: A Response to Pain, Trauma and Disconnection with Patrick O'Horo</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/addiction-as-an-adaptation-a-response-to-pain-trauma-and-disconnection-with-patrick-o-horo--72502771</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over addiction as an adaptation to pain, trauma, and disconnection rather than a moral failing or lack of willpower with Patrick O’Horo. We explore addiction not as something rooted in weakness or purely a disease model, but as a response the nervous system develops to cope with unresolved trauma and emotional pain. This perspective can shift how we understand both behavior and healing.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/bc02a4cb-11c4-3994-bd82-08058d2c102e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72502771/0611_2_9mss5.mp3" length="38279050" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42/29899348-31c0-4fbf-9ed7-1baf80a8be42.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over addiction as an adaptation to pain, trauma, and disconnection rather than a moral failing or lack of willpower with Patrick O’Horo. We explore addiction not as something rooted in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over addiction as an adaptation to pain, trauma, and disconnection rather than a moral failing or lack of willpower with Patrick O’Horo. We explore addiction not as something rooted in weakness or purely a disease model, but as a response the nervous system develops to cope with unresolved trauma and emotional pain. This perspective can shift how we understand both behavior and healing.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1595</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>131</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How EMDR Helps Heal Addiction &amp; Trauma</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-emdr-helps-heal-addiction-trauma--72374423</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how EMDR helps heal addiction and trauma, exploring how unresolved experiences can keep people stuck in patterns of coping, avoidance, and emotional overwhelm, and how EMDR therapy helps the nervous system process painful memories so healing and recovery become possible.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/29ba25f9-c3bb-34af-9296-c3cdf2b370b7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72374423/0605_1_8a7xd.mp3" length="21848239" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3/904750e4-b132-43a4-b011-49d7489c4fd3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how EMDR helps heal addiction and trauma, exploring how unresolved experiences can keep people stuck in patterns of coping, avoidance, and emotional overwhelm, and how EMDR therapy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how EMDR helps heal addiction and trauma, exploring how unresolved experiences can keep people stuck in patterns of coping, avoidance, and emotional overwhelm, and how EMDR therapy helps the nervous system process painful memories so healing and recovery become possible.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>911</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>130</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Moment I Realized, I Wasn’t Really Let In</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-moment-i-realized-i-wasn-t-really-let-in--72232878</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the painful moment of realizing you felt emotionally close to someone who never fully let you in. We unpack emotional unavailability, attachment patterns, and why this kind of distance can feel so confusing and heartbreaking.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ba423901-07e2-3cab-ad10-a9bc9280d1fa</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72232878/0528.mp3" length="20612543" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c/64fe03a9-e270-4f5f-8433-575a8a76795c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the painful moment of realizing you felt emotionally close to someone who never fully let you in. We unpack emotional unavailability, attachment patterns, and why this kind of distance...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the painful moment of realizing you felt emotionally close to someone who never fully let you in. We unpack emotional unavailability, attachment patterns, and why this kind of distance can feel so confusing and heartbreaking.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>859</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Panic and Health Anxiety</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/panic-and-health-anxiety--72118012</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why panic can feel so overwhelming in the body, and how EMDR may help people process the underlying experiences and triggers that keep anxiety active.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/bdad1d7e-dc6f-388f-85ce-96b5c18396bb</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 17:04:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72118012/panic_and_health_anxiety8phrm.mp3" length="16647155" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why panic can feel so overwhelming in the body, and how EMDR may help people process the underlying experiences and triggers that keep anxiety active.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>694</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>128</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Panic and Health Anxiety</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/panic-and-health-anxiety--72087631</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why panic can feel so overwhelming in the body, and how EMDR may help people process the underlying experiences and triggers that keep anxiety active.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/40d84fac-45d5-395e-abbe-c91359e0bc00</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72087631/panic_and_health_anxiety8phrm.mp3" length="16647155" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab/108f2cf1-fbd2-47f5-a45e-6b0d509379ab.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the connection between panic attacks, health anxiety, and how EMDR therapy can help, breaking down how the nervous system can become stuck in cycles of fear and symptom monitoring, why panic can feel so overwhelming in the body, and how EMDR may help people process the underlying experiences and triggers that keep anxiety active.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>694</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>127</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Choosing Your Hard with Victoria Brandt, LPC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/choosing-your-hard-with-victoria-brandt-lpc--72043759</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained, in this episode, I’m joined by Victoria Brandt for a conversation on Choosing Your Hard, how avoiding discomfort today can often create deeper struggles later. We explore boundaries, emotional avoidance, nervous system patterns, and why growth usually feels uncomfortable before it feels freeing. Sometimes the hardest choices are the ones that ultimately bring the most peace and healing.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ddeb680a-b7e3-34a8-918c-69b8e18b00bc</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72043759/choosing_your_hard_with_victoria_brandt_lpc8krov.mp3" length="51738799" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d/6c7d2c90-126d-4dd1-9799-f2a0439e023d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained, in this episode, I’m joined by Victoria Brandt for a conversation on Choosing Your Hard, how avoiding discomfort today can often create deeper struggles later. We explore boundaries, emotional avoidance,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained, in this episode, I’m joined by Victoria Brandt for a conversation on Choosing Your Hard, how avoiding discomfort today can often create deeper struggles later. We explore boundaries, emotional avoidance, nervous system patterns, and why growth usually feels uncomfortable before it feels freeing. Sometimes the hardest choices are the ones that ultimately bring the most peace and healing.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2156</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>126</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Destructive Patterns to Secure Connection</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-destructive-patterns-to-secure-connection--72001696</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the shift from destructive patterns to secure connection, unpacking the cycles that keep us stuck, what they’re actually protecting, and how we begin to move toward something more grounded, intentional, and connected, because it’s not about never struggling, it’s about understanding what’s underneath it and learning how to respond differently.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ca527a46-98a6-310b-9fa2-7467de7b4de3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 06:50:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72001696/from_destructive_patterns_to_secure_connection6e2oo.mp3" length="16715491" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05/c0fb0ac3-67eb-4804-bc1c-37b21b1aef05.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the shift from destructive patterns to secure connection, unpacking the cycles that keep us stuck, what they’re actually protecting, and how we begin to move toward something more...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores the shift from destructive patterns to secure connection, unpacking the cycles that keep us stuck, what they’re actually protecting, and how we begin to move toward something more grounded, intentional, and connected, because it’s not about never struggling, it’s about understanding what’s underneath it and learning how to respond differently.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>125</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Contempt: When Disrespect Replaces Safety</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/contempt-when-disrespect-replaces-safety--71617969</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Contempt — When Disrespect Replaces Safety, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Contempt shows up as eye-rolling, sarcasm, mockery, or talking down to your partner, it’s not just frustration, it’s a shift into superiority where respect erodes and emotional safety disappears. We break down what contempt looks like in real time, why it’s so damaging to connection, and what’s happening underneath the surface when it shows up, along with what it takes to interrupt the pattern and move back toward respect, repair, and safety because healthy relationships aren’t built on being right, they’re built on staying connected, even in hard moments.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/4e00f88c-be9c-30a5-b943-8dd1d3be1897</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71617969/0424.mp3" length="21079612" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5/4403a6b6-dfdd-4914-a9f0-3e32a8896cd5.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Contempt — When Disrespect Replaces Safety, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Contempt shows up as eye-rolling, sarcasm, mockery, or talking down to your partner, it’s not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Contempt — When Disrespect Replaces Safety, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Contempt shows up as eye-rolling, sarcasm, mockery, or talking down to your partner, it’s not just frustration, it’s a shift into superiority where respect erodes and emotional safety disappears. We break down what contempt looks like in real time, why it’s so damaging to connection, and what’s happening underneath the surface when it shows up, along with what it takes to interrupt the pattern and move back toward respect, repair, and safety because healthy relationships aren’t built on being right, they’re built on staying connected, even in hard moments.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>879</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>125</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Criticism: When Needs Turn Into Attacks</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/criticism-when-needs-turn-into-attacks--71415611</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Defensiveness: When Protection Blocks Connection, one of the “4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse,” and how it shows up in our relationships. Defensiveness isn’t just about attitude, it’s often a protective response rooted in fear of blame, rejection, or disconnection. We break down why it happens, how it impacts communication, and what you can do to move from reacting to responding with awareness, so you can build deeper, more secure connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5054f0e1-e80b-34da-a274-1cf237692b24</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71415611/0416.mp3" length="16667217" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e/ced551e2-6ffb-4d8f-ba31-35a8e391184e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Defensiveness: When Protection Blocks Connection, one of the “4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse,” and how it shows up in our relationships. Defensiveness isn’t just about attitude, it’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Defensiveness: When Protection Blocks Connection, one of the “4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse,” and how it shows up in our relationships. Defensiveness isn’t just about attitude, it’s often a protective response rooted in fear of blame, rejection, or disconnection. We break down why it happens, how it impacts communication, and what you can do to move from reacting to responding with awareness, so you can build deeper, more secure connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>695</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>124</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Criticism: When Needs Turn Into Attacks</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/criticism-when-needs-turn-into-attacks--71238208</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores Criticism: When Needs Turn Into Attacks, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and how it can quietly erode connection in relationships. We break down how criticism often masks deeper unmet needs, why it shows up as blame instead of vulnerability, and how shifting from attack to honest expression can completely change the way we’re heard, understood, and connected.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/65d3c784-45ef-3e27-80c3-7a30b04b4b6b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71238208/0409_1_8w25o.mp3" length="20781189" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9/65bbeba3-c499-4d8f-9307-4e0f54c985c9.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores Criticism: When Needs Turn Into Attacks, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and how it can quietly erode connection in relationships. We break down how criticism often masks...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores Criticism: When Needs Turn Into Attacks, one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and how it can quietly erode connection in relationships. We break down how criticism often masks deeper unmet needs, why it shows up as blame instead of vulnerability, and how shifting from attack to honest expression can completely change the way we’re heard, understood, and connected.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>866</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>123</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stonewalling: When Silence Becomes The Wall</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stonewalling-when-silence-becomes-the-wall--71086290</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Stonewalling: When Silence Becomes the Wall”, unpacking how what looks like withdrawal or avoidance is often a nervous system response to overwhelm. We break down the core causes of stonewalling, including emotional flooding and fear of conflict, along with the real costs it can have on connection, trust, and relationship health, while offering a compassionate lens to better understand the pattern and begin moving toward safer, more connected communication.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cd780bd8-3678-3c3b-afd0-92a011fb846f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71086290/0402.mp3" length="25856885" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f/055ee1d6-e6ff-4092-8aa4-b8ea8c6beb7f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Stonewalling: When Silence Becomes the Wall”, unpacking how what looks like withdrawal or avoidance is often a nervous system response to overwhelm. We break down the core causes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Stonewalling: When Silence Becomes the Wall”, unpacking how what looks like withdrawal or avoidance is often a nervous system response to overwhelm. We break down the core causes of stonewalling, including emotional flooding and fear of conflict, along with the real costs it can have on connection, trust, and relationship health, while offering a compassionate lens to better understand the pattern and begin moving toward safer, more connected communication.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1078</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>122</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>100K Milestone: Inside the Journey with Taylor O’Horo</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/100k-milestone-inside-the-journey-with-taylor-o-horo--70933846</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over celebrating our 100K milestone and taking you inside the journey with Taylor O’Horo — what it took, what we’ve learned, and what’s next.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/71aa3d83-e963-3712-8ead-3d125a406c5a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70933846/0326.mp3" length="21336030" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042/4b19a39f-228f-45a4-9671-7e10b097d042.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over celebrating our 100K milestone and taking you inside the journey with Taylor O’Horo — what it took, what we’ve learned, and what’s next.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over celebrating our 100K milestone and taking you inside the journey with Taylor O’Horo — what it took, what we’ve learned, and what’s next.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>889</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>121</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Cope When Parents Cut Off Adult Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-cope-when-parents-cut-off-adult-children--70836133</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can begin to process, heal, and move forward. This conversation explores boundaries, grief, identity, and the reality of learning to hold love and distance at the same time.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/65536cf0-afe5-3f5f-8ef5-ea7c48c2abab</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 18:50:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70836133/0324_1_ahj2v.mp3" length="27891929" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653/4255f0ce-9119-4198-977e-e36d44d21653.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can begin to process, heal, and move forward. This conversation explores boundaries, grief, identity, and the reality of learning to hold love and distance at the same time.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1163</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>120</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Cope When Parents Cut Off Adult Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-cope-when-parents-cut-off-adult-children--70784327</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can begin to process, heal, and move forward. This conversation explores boundaries, grief, identity, and the reality of learning to hold love and distance at the same time.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/0964969e-51fe-386e-a85c-72d7900968cc</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70784327/0320_1_78eqb.mp3" length="6676948" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b/45c8e4c0-3420-4442-a4d9-230c4c47333b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how to cope when parents cut off adult children. We unpack the complexity behind parental estrangement, why it happens, the emotional impact it leaves behind, and how adult children can begin to process, heal, and move forward. This conversation explores boundaries, grief, identity, and the reality of learning to hold love and distance at the same time.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>279</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>119</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The First 100K: A Peek Into the Journey</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-first-100k-a-peek-into-the-journey--70627430</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained Season 3! In this episode, we explore The First 100K: A Peek Into the Journey. Kelly and Patrick reflect on what it felt like reaching 100,000 subscribers, sharing the lessons, challenges, and unexpected moments that came with building the channel from the early days of social media to where it is now. They also talk about past experiences, the excitement of creating in a new studio, and the persistence it takes to keep showing up and growing an audience. This conversation offers a behind-the-scenes look at the journey, the learning process, and what the first 100K really represents.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ac24e0a8-9beb-38b0-8915-e5c529c97ba1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70627430/season_3_episode_1655mc.mp3" length="35776938" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34/0ea95065-b380-450b-adc0-bb9003b9eb34.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained Season 3! In this episode, we explore The First 100K: A Peek Into the Journey. Kelly and Patrick reflect on what it felt like reaching 100,000 subscribers, sharing the lessons, challenges, and unexpected...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained Season 3! In this episode, we explore The First 100K: A Peek Into the Journey. Kelly and Patrick reflect on what it felt like reaching 100,000 subscribers, sharing the lessons, challenges, and unexpected moments that came with building the channel from the early days of social media to where it is now. They also talk about past experiences, the excitement of creating in a new studio, and the persistence it takes to keep showing up and growing an audience. This conversation offers a behind-the-scenes look at the journey, the learning process, and what the first 100K really represents.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1491</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>118</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Podcast Highlights: Perimenopause, Sexless Marriage &amp; Rebuilding Closeness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcast-highlights-perimenopause-sexless-marriage-rebuilding-closeness--70510658</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore the connection between perimenopause, sexless marriage, and rebuilding emotional and physical closeness.   Podcast Highlights: • How perimenopause can affect libido, mood, and relationship dynamics • Why many couples experience a shift in intimacy during midlife • The psychological and physiological factors behind “sexless” periods in relationships • How couples can rebuild connection, communication, and closeness • Practical insights for partners navigating these changes together   This conversation sheds light on a topic many couples experience but rarely talk about offering understanding, validation, and pathways toward reconnection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/dbb0f9ea-ff6c-327f-b331-b00cc05a7b19</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70510658/0305_2_62zxb.mp3" length="20842629" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f/bd178912-4920-4cdb-9b0b-f730c0895b8f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore the connection between perimenopause, sexless marriage, and rebuilding emotional and physical closeness.   Podcast Highlights: • How perimenopause can affect libido, mood, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore the connection between perimenopause, sexless marriage, and rebuilding emotional and physical closeness.   Podcast Highlights: • How perimenopause can affect libido, mood, and relationship dynamics • Why many couples experience a shift in intimacy during midlife • The psychological and physiological factors behind “sexless” periods in relationships • How couples can rebuild connection, communication, and closeness • Practical insights for partners navigating these changes together   This conversation sheds light on a topic many couples experience but rarely talk about offering understanding, validation, and pathways toward reconnection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>869</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Understanding Fear — When Protection Becomes a Prison</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-fear-when-protection-becomes-a-prison--70338159</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into Understanding Fear — When Protection Becomes a Prison, exploring how fear begins as a powerful form of protection but can quietly take over when it never powers down shaping our thoughts, relationships, and nervous system in ways that once kept us safe, but now keep us stuck.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/03bddff6-39c7-3a38-b1d1-146923ad27a9</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70338159/0225_1_8de85.mp3" length="21242616" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6/c8357bae-d600-4f7e-ba4d-09967256acc6.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into Understanding Fear — When Protection Becomes a Prison, exploring how fear begins as a powerful form of protection but can quietly take over when it never powers down shaping...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into Understanding Fear — When Protection Becomes a Prison, exploring how fear begins as a powerful form of protection but can quietly take over when it never powers down shaping our thoughts, relationships, and nervous system in ways that once kept us safe, but now keep us stuck.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>886</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Healing Your Inner Child</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-your-inner-child--70180924</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Healing Your Inner Child, unpacking how early attachment experiences shape our adult relationships, emotional triggers, and sense of self. We’ll gently examine the parts of us that still carry old wounds, explore why those younger parts show up the way they do, and share compassionate, practical steps for building safety, resilience, and deeper self-understanding.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/64963b50-9c71-395f-9e2c-93fdcc0fed5b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70180924/0219.mp3" length="27645542" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a/6ccb67b8-de81-4213-8fb1-083b18d0b82a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Healing Your Inner Child, unpacking how early attachment experiences shape our adult relationships, emotional triggers, and sense of self. We’ll gently examine the parts of us that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Healing Your Inner Child, unpacking how early attachment experiences shape our adult relationships, emotional triggers, and sense of self. We’ll gently examine the parts of us that still carry old wounds, explore why those younger parts show up the way they do, and share compassionate, practical steps for building safety, resilience, and deeper self-understanding.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1152</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>115</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Rebuilding Closeness in a Disconnected Marriage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/rebuilding-closeness-in-a-disconnected-marriage--70044042</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore why emotional distance happens, how resentment and unmet needs quietly build over time, and what it truly takes to reconnect in a meaningful way, breaking down the patterns that create disconnection and sharing practical, research-informed steps couples can use to restore emotional safety, intimacy, and partnership especially if you’ve started to feel more like roommates than partners.  I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/a1dc4b3b-df60-3812-b5e8-5d3cab756334</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70044042/0211_1_bwl91.mp3" length="25835570" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08/3b038c1c-8e22-403c-bfbc-e81c257beb08.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore why emotional distance happens, how resentment and unmet needs quietly build over time, and what it truly takes to reconnect in a meaningful way, breaking down the patterns that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore why emotional distance happens, how resentment and unmet needs quietly build over time, and what it truly takes to reconnect in a meaningful way, breaking down the patterns that create disconnection and sharing practical, research-informed steps couples can use to restore emotional safety, intimacy, and partnership especially if you’ve started to feel more like roommates than partners.  I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1077</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>114</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sexless Marriage: Understanding, Unlearning, and Reconnection</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sexless-marriage-understanding-unlearning-and-reconnection--69850565</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained. In this episode, we explore why intimacy fades due to stress, trauma, hormonal changes, and pressure, not a lack of love and how compassion and nervous system awareness can create space for reconnection without shame or force.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ea73f68d-f97d-346d-8620-2fff973d299f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 21:29:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69850565/0207_1_bl6hs.mp3" length="23045065" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b/0488128c-6cdf-4b48-a7a3-8908c0d1865b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained. In this episode, we explore why intimacy fades due to stress, trauma, hormonal changes, and pressure, not a lack of love and how compassion and nervous system awareness can create space for reconnection...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained. In this episode, we explore why intimacy fades due to stress, trauma, hormonal changes, and pressure, not a lack of love and how compassion and nervous system awareness can create space for reconnection without shame or force.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>961</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>113</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Perimenopause: When Your Body Changes Before Anyone Warns You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/perimenopause-when-your-body-changes-before-anyone-warns-you--69689936</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores perimenopause, a neurological and emotional transition that affects the brain, nervous system, and relationships long before most people are warned. Often showing up as anxiety, brain fog, emotional reactivity, sleep disruption, or feeling “not like yourself,” these changes are frequently misunderstood or dismissed as stress. We unpack why they happen, how hormones affect the brain, and how understanding your body can replace fear and shame with clarity and compassion.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/fbc4b895-af46-34cb-b856-2b398e706286</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69689936/0129_2_7gv9k.mp3" length="28100699" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35/5a7485f2-ee6a-48e0-ac01-052bc6801b35.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores perimenopause, a neurological and emotional transition that affects the brain, nervous system, and relationships long before most people are warned. Often showing up as anxiety, brain...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores perimenopause, a neurological and emotional transition that affects the brain, nervous system, and relationships long before most people are warned. Often showing up as anxiety, brain fog, emotional reactivity, sleep disruption, or feeling “not like yourself,” these changes are frequently misunderstood or dismissed as stress. We unpack why they happen, how hormones affect the brain, and how understanding your body can replace fear and shame with clarity and compassion.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1171</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Resentment and How to Let It Go</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/resentment-and-how-to-let-it-go--69562732</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores resentment and how to let it go. Resentment often builds quietly when needs go unspoken or boundaries aren’t honored, slowly draining emotional energy and impacting relationships. We’ll explore where resentment comes from, how it shows up, and compassionate, practical ways to begin releasing it without ignoring your own needs.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/7de9fc4f-b1b1-36bb-9d9c-9f02afeb5b7e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69562732/0122.mp3" length="16879749" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea/23ff8483-3ff3-4908-89ca-71197dbe54ea.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores resentment and how to let it go. Resentment often builds quietly when needs go unspoken or boundaries aren’t honored, slowly draining emotional energy and impacting relationships. We’ll...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores resentment and how to let it go. Resentment often builds quietly when needs go unspoken or boundaries aren’t honored, slowly draining emotional energy and impacting relationships. We’ll explore where resentment comes from, how it shows up, and compassionate, practical ways to begin releasing it without ignoring your own needs.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>704</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>111</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Survival Mode to Subtle Joy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-survival-mode-to-subtle-joy--69473887</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how nervous system patterns shaped by trauma slowly shift toward safety, regulation, and meaningful moments of calm.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/f6af36b9-299c-396a-ab15-b36bd345a2e7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 21:24:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69473887/0117.mp3" length="11772079" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a/d837142d-5782-4f4d-bc29-361aa38c326a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how nervous system patterns shaped by trauma slowly shift toward safety, regulation, and meaningful moments of calm.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores how nervous system patterns shaped by trauma slowly shift toward safety, regulation, and meaningful moments of calm.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>491</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>110</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Adaptations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adaptations--69374244</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Adaptation, why we act the way we act and how our behaviors are shaped by our experiences, environments, and nervous systems. Many of our patterns once helped us survive or cope, even if they no longer serve us in the same way today. Understanding this can bring more compassion, clarity, and choice to how we respond to ourselves and others.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/6ac904b8-2c87-3646-8d59-14c344422e10</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69374244/0108.mp3" length="24398626" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997/9843145e-27ad-4296-a31f-3b618278a997.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Adaptation, why we act the way we act and how our behaviors are shaped by our experiences, environments, and nervous systems. Many of our patterns once helped us survive or cope,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Adaptation, why we act the way we act and how our behaviors are shaped by our experiences, environments, and nervous systems. Many of our patterns once helped us survive or cope, even if they no longer serve us in the same way today. Understanding this can bring more compassion, clarity, and choice to how we respond to ourselves and others.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1017</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Gental Goal Setting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/gental-goal-setting--69281373</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gentle Goal Setting, a compassionate approach to creating goals that honor your capacity, nervous system, and real life, focusing on progress over perfection and helping you move forward without burnout, shame, or unrealistic pressure.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cf86e508-40c6-332f-b62c-44254f821723</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2026 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69281373/1224_2_7zykn.mp3" length="24453170" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56/f8d035bf-cf85-496a-a120-59e359ab6d56.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gentle Goal Setting, a compassionate approach to creating goals that honor your capacity, nervous system, and real life, focusing on progress over perfection and helping you move...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gentle Goal Setting, a compassionate approach to creating goals that honor your capacity, nervous system, and real life, focusing on progress over perfection and helping you move forward without burnout, shame, or unrealistic pressure.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1019</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>2025 Highlights</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/2025-highlights--69243116</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over our 2025 highlights, reflecting on the moments, conversations, and insights that shaped this year. From meaningful discussions on mental health and relationships to practical tools for growth and resilience, we’re taking time to pause, look back, and honor what we’ve learned together along the way.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cb1acca5-5af6-34fe-8c6c-2d2fc40e7eb0</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69243116/1224_1_8gin6.mp3" length="42041937" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef/9b37c0fe-9a80-4a2a-9a31-5039daee43ef.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over our 2025 highlights, reflecting on the moments, conversations, and insights that shaped this year. From meaningful discussions on mental health and relationships to practical tools for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over our 2025 highlights, reflecting on the moments, conversations, and insights that shaped this year. From meaningful discussions on mental health and relationships to practical tools for growth and resilience, we’re taking time to pause, look back, and honor what we’ve learned together along the way.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1752</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Gift of Gratitude</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-gift-of-gratitude--69212693</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore The Gift of Gratitude, how gratitude can be more than a feel-good practice and instead become a grounding, supportive tool, especially when life feels heavy. We’ll talk about how gratitude can exist alongside stress, grief, and overwhelm, and how gently noticing what’s steady or meaningful can help build resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of connection, even in challenging seasons.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c9c40f78-e0cf-3996-bcdc-9c5d9a828fbb</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69212693/1224.mp3" length="18917300" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30/d78cd4bb-e203-4273-be11-136c1e6c4a30.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore The Gift of Gratitude, how gratitude can be more than a feel-good practice and instead become a grounding, supportive tool, especially when life feels heavy. We’ll talk about how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore The Gift of Gratitude, how gratitude can be more than a feel-good practice and instead become a grounding, supportive tool, especially when life feels heavy. We’ll talk about how gratitude can exist alongside stress, grief, and overwhelm, and how gently noticing what’s steady or meaningful can help build resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of connection, even in challenging seasons.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>789</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What We Need to Know About Millennials and Gen Z</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-we-need-to-know-about-millennials-and-gen-z--69011889</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode, we’re unpacking What We Need to Know About Millennials and Gen Z, the beliefs, pressures, and cultural shifts shaping how these generations think, work, relate, and cope. If you’ve ever wondered why younger adults communicate the way they do, value what they value, or struggle in ways that might feel new, this conversation will give you clarity, context, and compassion.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/89818643-1210-30df-a686-fc409a33ac1d</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69011889/1212_1_ayqtt.mp3" length="22710907" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724/ed2aae38-eb08-4cda-bedb-63c9947f2724.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode, we’re unpacking What We Need to Know About Millennials and Gen Z, the beliefs, pressures, and cultural shifts shaping how these generations think, work, relate, and cope. If you’ve ever wondered...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode, we’re unpacking What We Need to Know About Millennials and Gen Z, the beliefs, pressures, and cultural shifts shaping how these generations think, work, relate, and cope. If you’ve ever wondered why younger adults communicate the way they do, value what they value, or struggle in ways that might feel new, this conversation will give you clarity, context, and compassion.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>947</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The #NoContact Trend, Why It Happens and What It Costs</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-nocontact-trend-why-it-happens-and-what-it-costs--68902887</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we break down the emotional and psychological reasons people choose to go no-contact, how trauma and survival patterns influence that decision, and the often unseen costs that come with cutting ties. If you’re a therapist or someone looking to understand this behavior with more compassion, this conversation offers a clear, grounded perspective on what drives the trend and what healing can look like afterward.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/d0dcfd7a-738a-30d9-93e7-6b0ece131b6f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68902887/1204.mp3" length="31341973" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f/51216194-da64-4708-b157-ffdd1634739f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we break down the emotional and psychological reasons people choose to go no-contact, how trauma and survival patterns influence that decision, and the often unseen costs that come with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we break down the emotional and psychological reasons people choose to go no-contact, how trauma and survival patterns influence that decision, and the often unseen costs that come with cutting ties. If you’re a therapist or someone looking to understand this behavior with more compassion, this conversation offers a clear, grounded perspective on what drives the trend and what healing can look like afterward.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>nocontact</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Making Friendships in Adulthood</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-friendships-in-adulthood--68788225</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Making Friendships in Adulthood, why it can feel harder as we get older, what gets in the way, and the key shifts that help us build meaningful connections beyond small talk. If you’re craving real friendship, this conversation will show you how to step into the arena and find it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/f3a60f5b-94e0-3a55-b17b-e8fed49499ec</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68788225/1128.mp3" length="13445379" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198/5046e651-3c0a-45e9-8ac7-cb8d4a481198.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Making Friendships in Adulthood, why it can feel harder as we get older, what gets in the way, and the key shifts that help us build meaningful connections beyond small talk. If...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Making Friendships in Adulthood, why it can feel harder as we get older, what gets in the way, and the key shifts that help us build meaningful connections beyond small talk. If you’re craving real friendship, this conversation will show you how to step into the arena and find it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>841</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Caretaking Declining or Aging Parents</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/caretaking-declining-or-aging-parents--68717580</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we dive into Caretaking Declining or Aging Parents, exploring the emotional and practical challenges of supporting the ones who once cared for us. Learn how to balance compassion with boundaries, manage guilt, and create a care plan that honors both your parents’ needs and your own well-being.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/aed14b77-baa6-35f1-8b32-c65ed06d23ea</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 06:24:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68717580/1124.mp3" length="17683067" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721/08c53075-da02-42a8-8e26-470f8e3fe721.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we dive into Caretaking Declining or Aging Parents, exploring the emotional and practical challenges of supporting the ones who once cared for us. Learn how to balance compassion with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we dive into Caretaking Declining or Aging Parents, exploring the emotional and practical challenges of supporting the ones who once cared for us. Learn how to balance compassion with boundaries, manage guilt, and create a care plan that honors both your parents’ needs and your own well-being.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1106</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>102</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Parenting Little Kids with Big Emotions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/parenting-little-kids-with-big-emotions--68570716</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Parenting Little Kids with Big Emotions, why children’s feelings can feel so big, how to stay grounded when they’re overwhelmed, and what it takes to turn chaos into connection. Because when we understand the emotions beneath the behavior, we can respond with calm instead of control and help our kids feel truly seen and safe.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/6c63dda9-ff34-3bf5-9188-e9b39a9d463c</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68570716/1114.mp3" length="14946688" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251/d9712f34-7b35-469e-85da-53576d869251.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Parenting Little Kids with Big Emotions, why children’s feelings can feel so big, how to stay grounded when they’re overwhelmed, and what it takes to turn chaos into connection. Because...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Parenting Little Kids with Big Emotions, why children’s feelings can feel so big, how to stay grounded when they’re overwhelmed, and what it takes to turn chaos into connection. Because when we understand the emotions beneath the behavior, we can respond with calm instead of control and help our kids feel truly seen and safe.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>935</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>101</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Next Chapter-Life with your Adult Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-next-chapter-life-with-your-adult-children--68465416</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into The Next Chapter: Life with Your Adult Children, how to navigate the shift from parenting to partnering, maintain connection without overstepping, and find meaning in letting go. We’ll explore what it looks like to support independence, honor new boundaries, and celebrate growth on both sides, because every ending is also a beginning and this chapter can be full of trust, love, and connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c1eac4a3-0cb8-34e2-adbf-8ef6954cf87a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68465416/1106.mp3" length="17287259" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021/fc720469-ecc4-4321-85a5-538d00916021.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into The Next Chapter: Life with Your Adult Children, how to navigate the shift from parenting to partnering, maintain connection without overstepping, and find meaning in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into The Next Chapter: Life with Your Adult Children, how to navigate the shift from parenting to partnering, maintain connection without overstepping, and find meaning in letting go. We’ll explore what it looks like to support independence, honor new boundaries, and celebrate growth on both sides, because every ending is also a beginning and this chapter can be full of trust, love, and connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1081</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>100</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Understanding Disorganized Attachment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-disorganized-attachment--68403068</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Understanding Disorganized Attachment, what it looks like, where it comes from, and how it impacts our adult relationships. We’ll explore the push-and-pull dynamic of wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time, and how healing begins with recognizing these patterns and building safety in connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/d42900a0-4d5f-3f6b-929b-ef978645ce2c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2025 19:21:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68403068/1104.mp3" length="17358730" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213/b007de36-3557-4193-a82f-b60cdb9a5213.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Understanding Disorganized Attachment, what it looks like, where it comes from, and how it impacts our adult relationships. We’ll explore the push-and-pull dynamic of wanting closeness...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode dives into Understanding Disorganized Attachment, what it looks like, where it comes from, and how it impacts our adult relationships. We’ll explore the push-and-pull dynamic of wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time, and how healing begins with recognizing these patterns and building safety in connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1085</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Understanding Avoidant Attachment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-avoidant-attachment--68268708</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Avoidant Attachment, what it looks like, how it develops, and the ways it can show up in our relationships today. Learn how emotional distance, self-reliance, and discomfort with vulnerability often trace back to early experiences, and discover practical ways to build deeper, more secure connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2c6aded6-7fac-3fa8-a64a-dfc1b106a065</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68268708/1024.mp3" length="17474087" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32/40b03cf1-3e44-4d24-b9b4-93481cbded32.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Avoidant Attachment, what it looks like, how it develops, and the ways it can show up in our relationships today. Learn how emotional distance, self-reliance, and discomfort with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Avoidant Attachment, what it looks like, how it develops, and the ways it can show up in our relationships today. Learn how emotional distance, self-reliance, and discomfort with vulnerability often trace back to early experiences, and discover practical ways to build deeper, more secure connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1093</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>98</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Understanding Anxious Attachment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-anxious-attachment--68183918</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore anxious attachment, what it looks like in relationships, how it develops, and ways to move toward greater security. Tune in to learn how awareness and understanding can help transform anxious patterns into deeper, more stable connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c1c00b53-bd6e-3d09-a31e-46b115df43a5</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2025 18:25:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68183918/1018.mp3" length="22102149" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c/22a46c8a-05fc-469b-bd55-c81d99bc900c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore anxious attachment, what it looks like in relationships, how it develops, and ways to move toward greater security. Tune in to learn how awareness and understanding can help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore anxious attachment, what it looks like in relationships, how it develops, and ways to move toward greater security. Tune in to learn how awareness and understanding can help transform anxious patterns into deeper, more stable connections.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1382</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>97</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Understanding Secure Attachment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-secure-attachment--68093540</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Understanding Secure Attachment, we explore what it really means to feel safe, connected, and confident in relationships. We’ll break down how secure attachment develops, why it’s essential for emotional well-being, and how it shows up in both therapy and everyday life.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ad2dc0ac-9c62-3cd5-8599-6ecf49bf7897</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68093540/1008.mp3" length="21278770" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76/46ab0b74-0005-410c-8a4b-b9acd48b8a76.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Understanding Secure Attachment, we explore what it really means to feel safe, connected, and confident in relationships. We’ll break down how secure attachment develops, why it’s essential...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Understanding Secure Attachment, we explore what it really means to feel safe, connected, and confident in relationships. We’ll break down how secure attachment develops, why it’s essential for emotional well-being, and how it shows up in both therapy and everyday life.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1330</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>95</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Therapists are People too</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/therapists-are-people-too--68060279</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Therapists are People Too, I sit down with Justine Bond to talk about the human side of therapy because behind every professional is a person with their own experiences, growth, and story.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/055dd928-03dc-3aa7-a00e-ed56ac32daf2</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 08:27:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68060279/1008_1_8fvb7.mp3" length="34767984" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa/c96ac693-b219-41d9-b0a7-0490984c08aa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Therapists are People Too, I sit down with Justine Bond to talk about the human side of therapy because behind every professional is a person with their own experiences, growth, and story....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Therapists are People Too, I sit down with Justine Bond to talk about the human side of therapy because behind every professional is a person with their own experiences, growth, and story.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2173</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Flip the Script - Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/flip-the-script-part-2--67912027</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Flip the Script | Part 2 as Julie Russomanno once again interviews Kelly O’Horo. In this continuation, Kelly opens up even more sharing lessons on burnout, balance, and the deeper purpose behind her work.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/52656db2-ee99-348e-a5db-1e34e24ce71d</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67912027/0925_1_8u182.mp3" length="28240298" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552/fbb4e26e-f9c2-4270-9e58-ec7a5292f552.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Flip the Script | Part 2 as Julie Russomanno once again interviews Kelly O’Horo. In this continuation, Kelly opens up even more sharing lessons on burnout, balance, and the deeper...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Flip the Script | Part 2 as Julie Russomanno once again interviews Kelly O’Horo. In this continuation, Kelly opens up even more sharing lessons on burnout, balance, and the deeper purpose behind her work.    I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1766</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>94</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Flip the Script</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/flip-the-script--67881307</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this special episode, we flip the script as Julie Russomanno interviews Kelly O’Horo, diving into her journey, insights, and the passion behind her work offering a fresh perspective you won’t want to miss.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cb0acfc0-cc8a-3361-9c00-3f5061ce7dfb</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 20:21:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67881307/0925.mp3" length="22884987" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d/57b80b5c-5ac8-4672-b5e0-f40e6508121d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this special episode, we flip the script as Julie Russomanno interviews Kelly O’Horo, diving into her journey, insights, and the passion behind her work offering a fresh perspective you won’t want to miss....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this special episode, we flip the script as Julie Russomanno interviews Kelly O’Horo, diving into her journey, insights, and the passion behind her work offering a fresh perspective you won’t want to miss.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1431</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>93</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What to Expect from Couples Therapy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-to-expect-from-couples-therapy--67738187</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained!  In this episode, Kelly O'horo and Justine Bond dive into what to expect from couples therapy, breaking down the process, common challenges, and how therapy can help partners strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create deeper connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/56bb073b-d343-361e-ad04-118593991927</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67738187/0912.mp3" length="28108641" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe/6b82da69-f88e-4fb3-8970-0e5cb55d4bbe.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained!  In this episode, Kelly O'horo and Justine Bond dive into what to expect from couples therapy, breaking down the process, common challenges, and how therapy can help partners strengthen communication, rebuild...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained!  In this episode, Kelly O'horo and Justine Bond dive into what to expect from couples therapy, breaking down the process, common challenges, and how therapy can help partners strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create deeper connection.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links --  https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1757</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>92</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Intimacy and How To Get More of It</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimacy-and-how-to-get-more-of-it--67647249</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we sit down with Kelly O’horo to explore the topic of intimacy, what it really means, why it matters, and practical ways to cultivate more of it in your relationships.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/343fcfc9-8a65-3721-8918-e1a98866f4b2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67647249/0904.mp3" length="11467596" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636/8697ea92-c405-4e36-9968-43d88f1ca636.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we sit down with Kelly O’horo to explore the topic of intimacy, what it really means, why it matters, and practical ways to cultivate more of it in your relationships.   I'm Kelly O'Horo,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we sit down with Kelly O’horo to explore the topic of intimacy, what it really means, why it matters, and practical ways to cultivate more of it in your relationships.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>717</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>91</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Growing through Grief</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/growing-through-grief--67556197</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Growing through Grief with Kelly O’Horo, we explore how connection, compassion, and self-awareness can support the healing process after loss. Whether you’re navigating your own grief or supporting someone through theirs, this conversation offers guidance and encouragement to remind you that you are not alone.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/8fdd941c-3008-3203-982c-350bd3bcb9a7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67556197/0829.mp3" length="14393310" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb/4f955585-5856-4b6a-b55a-1132bcbce7fb.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Growing through Grief with Kelly O’Horo, we explore how connection, compassion, and self-awareness can support the healing process after loss. Whether you’re navigating your own grief or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Growing through Grief with Kelly O’Horo, we explore how connection, compassion, and self-awareness can support the healing process after loss. Whether you’re navigating your own grief or supporting someone through theirs, this conversation offers guidance and encouragement to remind you that you are not alone.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>900</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>90</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Psychology of Burnout and Recovery</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/psychology-of-burnout-and-recovery--67482057</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over The Psychology of Burnout and Recovery with Kelly O’Horo, exploring how burnout affects the mind and body, the challenges it creates in daily life, and the path toward resilience, healing, and renewed energy.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/6e827945-8396-33f2-9561-19bf279a63b8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67482057/0822.mp3" length="14393310" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221/8df70433-529d-4f09-a5fc-53cdda69a221.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over The Psychology of Burnout and Recovery with Kelly O’Horo, exploring how burnout affects the mind and body, the challenges it creates in daily life, and the path toward resilience,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over The Psychology of Burnout and Recovery with Kelly O’Horo, exploring how burnout affects the mind and body, the challenges it creates in daily life, and the path toward resilience, healing, and renewed energy.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>900</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>89</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Recovery and Renewal: A Fire Captain's Journey Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/recovery-and-renewal-a-fire-captain-s-journey-part-1--67305558</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Recovery and Renewal: A Fire Captain's Journey (Part 1), we talk with Dennis Joos, Retired Gilbert Fire Captain, about life on the front lines, the hidden toll of service, and what it means to heal after trauma. It’s a powerful story of identity, resilience, and finding purpose beyond the uniform.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/9b1668ed-c7d6-34c6-9106-97f9e571d086</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67305558/0808.mp3" length="30364366" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409/0a2db2d2-8b56-4db5-9705-b1fcded7e409.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Recovery and Renewal: A Fire Captain's Journey (Part 1), we talk with Dennis Joos, Retired Gilbert Fire Captain, about life on the front lines, the hidden toll of service, and what it means...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Recovery and Renewal: A Fire Captain's Journey (Part 1), we talk with Dennis Joos, Retired Gilbert Fire Captain, about life on the front lines, the hidden toll of service, and what it means to heal after trauma. It’s a powerful story of identity, resilience, and finding purpose beyond the uniform.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1898</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>88</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Anger and the Importance of Expressing it</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/anger-and-the-importance-of-expressing-it--67219650</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo unpacks the importance of expressing anger — not avoiding it. Learn why anger isn’t the enemy, how it shows up in the body, and what healthy expression really looks like. Don’t miss this powerful conversation on one of our most misunderstood emotions.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/de6d879a-eda2-3ee7-bbf7-6667b3892d08</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67219650/0801.mp3" length="11401976" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991/e663c38e-d874-4512-8e2c-214800a6b991.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo unpacks the importance of expressing anger — not avoiding it. Learn why anger isn’t the enemy, how it shows up in the body, and what healthy expression really looks like. Don’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo unpacks the importance of expressing anger — not avoiding it. Learn why anger isn’t the enemy, how it shows up in the body, and what healthy expression really looks like. Don’t miss this powerful conversation on one of our most misunderstood emotions.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>713</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>87</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Gaslighting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/gaslighting--67115271</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo explore the topic of gaslighting, a subtle but powerful form of manipulation that can leave you questioning your own thoughts, memories, and experiences. We’ll break down what gaslighting really looks like, why it happens, and how you can begin to rebuild trust in yourself if you’ve been affected by it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2bef3def-6de5-3e4f-bbbe-f567a96c2bc0</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67115271/0722.mp3" length="16638169" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b/acd575ef-9586-4693-80f4-e333f619d54b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo explore the topic of gaslighting, a subtle but powerful form of manipulation that can leave you questioning your own thoughts, memories, and experiences. We’ll break down what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo explore the topic of gaslighting, a subtle but powerful form of manipulation that can leave you questioning your own thoughts, memories, and experiences. We’ll break down what gaslighting really looks like, why it happens, and how you can begin to rebuild trust in yourself if you’ve been affected by it.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1040</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Forgiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/forgiveness--67030813</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the power of forgiveness with Kelly O’Horo, exploring what forgiveness really means, how it impacts your healing, and why it’s more about setting yourself free than excusing the hurt.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/f573f92c-68eb-3298-894f-6d5d1d135a07</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67030813/0717.mp3" length="11336356" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655/c73c3309-3501-40b0-8260-41ea2d484655.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the power of forgiveness with Kelly O’Horo, exploring what forgiveness really means, how it impacts your healing, and why it’s more about setting yourself free than excusing the hurt.  ...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the power of forgiveness with Kelly O’Horo, exploring what forgiveness really means, how it impacts your healing, and why it’s more about setting yourself free than excusing the hurt.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>709</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Foreseeable Crisis: How to Set Boundaries and Encourage Autonomy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-foreseeable-crisis-how-to-set-boundaries-and-encourage-autonomy--66947121</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the foreseeable crisis: how to set boundaries and encourage autonomy with Kelly O’Horo, unpacking why over-functioning can lead to long-term challenges and how giving space can foster true growth and resilience.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/d71e9a8c-7469-33da-af40-572da2210eee</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66947121/0710_1_90nbv.mp3" length="18160794" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1/2f19c3f7-b848-49f2-beae-66045fbac7a1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the foreseeable crisis: how to set boundaries and encourage autonomy with Kelly O’Horo, unpacking why over-functioning can lead to long-term challenges and how giving space can foster...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the foreseeable crisis: how to set boundaries and encourage autonomy with Kelly O’Horo, unpacking why over-functioning can lead to long-term challenges and how giving space can foster true growth and resilience.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1136</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>84</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Parenting and Dating After Divorce</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/parenting-and-dating-after-divorce--66862536</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over parenting and dating after divorce with Tracy Kindeski exploring how to balance your role as a parent while opening yourself up to love again, all without losing your sense of self.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/fdd80937-91f4-3a74-923c-c795e9f16164</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66862536/0703.mp3" length="24819720" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8/b6c03630-cb4f-4ec6-9749-2885be0dbfd8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over parenting and dating after divorce with Tracy Kindeski exploring how to balance your role as a parent while opening yourself up to love again, all without losing your sense of self....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over parenting and dating after divorce with Tracy Kindeski exploring how to balance your role as a parent while opening yourself up to love again, all without losing your sense of self.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1552</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>83</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Healing and Reinventing Yourself After Divorce</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-and-reinventing-yourself-after-divorce--66776233</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over healing and reinventing yourself after divorce with special guest Tracy Kindeski. Discover how to rebuild your identity, reclaim your peace, and move forward with clarity after a life-altering breakup.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/e7129da4-f8e5-3770-aedc-908f79f8179f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66776233/0626.mp3" length="19238293" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb/8cecec22-fdcd-43c6-9ca6-0776a927f3bb.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over healing and reinventing yourself after divorce with special guest Tracy Kindeski. Discover how to rebuild your identity, reclaim your peace, and move forward with clarity after a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over healing and reinventing yourself after divorce with special guest Tracy Kindeski. Discover how to rebuild your identity, reclaim your peace, and move forward with clarity after a life-altering breakup.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1203</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Epigenetics and How We are Carrying 2 Generations of Trauma in Our Body</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/epigenetics-and-how-we-are-carrying-2-generations-of-trauma-in-our-body--66657272</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores epigenetics and how we carry two generations of trauma in our bodies. We break down how traumatic experiences can alter gene expression and be passed down, affecting not just our mental health but also our physical well-being. Understanding this science helps us approach healing with more compassion and intention—not just for ourselves, but for future generations. Learn why what you carry might not have started with you, and how awareness can lead to transformation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/186c736d-fad1-39f1-b539-f4dc3b69fe72</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66657272/0618_1_81bx9.mp3" length="12655854" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd/b71e1818-3bed-4fe5-922a-b437a45606bd.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores epigenetics and how we carry two generations of trauma in our bodies. We break down how traumatic experiences can alter gene expression and be passed down, affecting not just our mental...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode explores epigenetics and how we carry two generations of trauma in our bodies. We break down how traumatic experiences can alter gene expression and be passed down, affecting not just our mental health but also our physical well-being. Understanding this science helps us approach healing with more compassion and intention—not just for ourselves, but for future generations. Learn why what you carry might not have started with you, and how awareness can lead to transformation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>791</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Get Clarity on Your Life's Direction with The Big 5 For Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-clarity-on-your-life-s-direction-with-the-big-5-for-life--66551742</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful framework called The Big 5 for Life, a concept designed to help you get clear on what truly matters to you and how to align your daily life with your deeper purpose.   If you've ever felt stuck, directionless, or unsure of what you're working toward, this episode will give you practical tools and reflective prompts to help you reset and refocus. Whether you're navigating a life transition or just craving more meaning, The Big 5 for Life offers a fresh perspective on how to live with more intention, joy, and clarity.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.  -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/95801003-2510-38da-a84c-9dd0c5071434</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66551742/0612_1_717sm.mp3" length="9528683" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd/46b335fc-ddc8-4846-bb32-88ee403750fd.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful framework called The Big 5 for Life, a concept designed to help you get clear on what truly matters to you and how to align your daily life with your deeper...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful framework called The Big 5 for Life, a concept designed to help you get clear on what truly matters to you and how to align your daily life with your deeper purpose.   If you've ever felt stuck, directionless, or unsure of what you're working toward, this episode will give you practical tools and reflective prompts to help you reset and refocus. Whether you're navigating a life transition or just craving more meaning, The Big 5 for Life offers a fresh perspective on how to live with more intention, joy, and clarity.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.  -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>596</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Client Talks about her EMDR Therapy Journey with Her Therapist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-client-talks-about-her-emdr-therapy-journey-with-her-therapist--66423871</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over what it’s really like to experience EMDR therapy from the perspective of both client and therapist, featuring Jessica Silver.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc    • Choosing An EMDR Therapist-Things to Consi...   https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-t...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/3177c00b-34c7-3c29-a128-03969feeaaa2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66423871/0604_1_8aanh.mp3" length="26574730" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98/6dd8cc2a-1f69-42a5-bfe9-c45496592e98.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over what it’s really like to experience EMDR therapy from the perspective of both client and therapist, featuring Jessica Silver.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over what it’s really like to experience EMDR therapy from the perspective of both client and therapist, featuring Jessica Silver.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc    • Choosing An EMDR Therapist-Things to Consi...   https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-t...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1661</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Learn to Give the Most Generous Assumption for a More Peaceful Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/learn-to-give-the-most-generous-assumption-for-a-more-peaceful-life--66345584</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to learn to give the most generous assumption—a powerful mindset shift that leads to more peace, less conflict, and deeper connection in everyday relationships. By choosing to believe others are doing the best they can with what they know, we open the door to empathy, reduce emotional reactivity, and foster healing communication. Let's explore how this simple but profound approach can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/fdbcfefc-345a-3fae-b068-ce34b930091b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345584/learn_to_give_the_most_generous_assumption6ghww.mp3" length="10964373" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97/5ee66d1e-1833-47ae-aabd-78d6f0efcd97.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to learn to give the most generous assumption—a powerful mindset shift that leads to more peace, less conflict, and deeper connection in everyday relationships. By choosing to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to learn to give the most generous assumption—a powerful mindset shift that leads to more peace, less conflict, and deeper connection in everyday relationships. By choosing to believe others are doing the best they can with what they know, we open the door to empathy, reduce emotional reactivity, and foster healing communication. Let's explore how this simple but profound approach can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>686</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>78</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Strategies for Effective Communication</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-strategies-for-effective-communication--66345595</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over 5 strategies for effective communication—practical tools to help you connect with clarity, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships. Whether you're navigating tough conversations or looking to deepen everyday interactions, these strategies will support healthier, more connected dialogue.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2e579bf5-f723-371c-82a8-18de19547250</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345595/5_strategies_for_effective_communication92qf9.mp3" length="8373026" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94/15e0da9b-3134-447d-91ca-169fc8d48b94.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over 5 strategies for effective communication—practical tools to help you connect with clarity, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships. Whether you're navigating tough...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over 5 strategies for effective communication—practical tools to help you connect with clarity, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships. Whether you're navigating tough conversations or looking to deepen everyday interactions, these strategies will support healthier, more connected dialogue.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>524</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>77</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Discover The Benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/discover-the-benefits-of-ketamine-assisted-psychotherapy--66345604</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, featuring a conversation with Kelly Ohoro and Dr. Eddie Shahnaz. We explore how ketamine, when used in a therapeutic setting, can support breakthroughs in treatment-resistant depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Learn how this innovative approach can enhance emotional processing, reduce mental health symptoms, and open the door to deeper healing.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/7705d494-c7fd-327f-ac1f-a473ff14a7e8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345604/0515_1_7bzlr.mp3" length="18724203" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5/a7027daa-5ad0-486a-b9f1-570b4c4e10e5.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, featuring a conversation with Kelly Ohoro and Dr. Eddie Shahnaz. We explore how ketamine, when used in a therapeutic setting, can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, featuring a conversation with Kelly Ohoro and Dr. Eddie Shahnaz. We explore how ketamine, when used in a therapeutic setting, can support breakthroughs in treatment-resistant depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Learn how this innovative approach can enhance emotional processing, reduce mental health symptoms, and open the door to deeper healing.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1171</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Projection and Blame and How to Slow Yourself Down from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/projection-and-blame-and-how-to-slow-yourself-down-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345594</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to get un-stuck from blame and projection. We explore how these defense mechanisms can keep us from taking responsibility and block personal growth. By understanding where blame and projection come from and how they protect us. We can begin to shift inward, reclaim our power, and create healthier patterns in our relationships.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/0eeaeb9f-d505-3945-b110-9d46b9834468</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345594/projection_and_blame_audio6v2jh.mp3" length="23602623" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c/a8cb5629-32be-44ac-9283-6cfb88703e2c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to get un-stuck from blame and projection. We explore how these defense mechanisms can keep us from taking responsibility and block personal growth. By understanding where blame and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to get un-stuck from blame and projection. We explore how these defense mechanisms can keep us from taking responsibility and block personal growth. By understanding where blame and projection come from and how they protect us. We can begin to shift inward, reclaim our power, and create healthier patterns in our relationships.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1476</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>75</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Maybe It's Not Bad Enough to Change? from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/maybe-it-s-not-bad-enough-to-change-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345589</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over why people stay stuck, featuring the Region Beta Paradox with Patrick O’Horo. We explore how sometimes being “just okay” can actually prevent growth and change. The Region Beta Paradox explains why mild discomfort can keep us in place longer than intense pain—and how recognizing this can motivate real transformation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/3e92f97e-6d4f-3a7a-90b1-259aa9feb63e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345589/why_people_stay_stuck_high_res6mffm.mp3" length="24556910" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0/70edb94b-95ae-483c-afbe-57343ee29fd0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over why people stay stuck, featuring the Region Beta Paradox with Patrick O’Horo. We explore how sometimes being “just okay” can actually prevent growth and change. The Region Beta Paradox...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over why people stay stuck, featuring the Region Beta Paradox with Patrick O’Horo. We explore how sometimes being “just okay” can actually prevent growth and change. The Region Beta Paradox explains why mild discomfort can keep us in place longer than intense pain—and how recognizing this can motivate real transformation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1535</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Respond Rather than React, 5 Habits to Adopt from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-respond-rather-than-react-5-habits-to-adopt-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345597</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to respond rather than react, highlighting 5 key habits that support emotional regulation and intentional behavior. We explore why reactive patterns often stem from survival instincts and how simple, consistent practices like pausing, breathing, and observing can create space between stimulus and response. These habits empower us to navigate challenges with clarity, reduce conflict, and strengthen relationships. Learn how to shift from automatic reactions to thoughtful responses that reflect your values and goals.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/905aaddb-2762-3aee-a72b-9e6c46b72987</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2025 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345597/response_vs_reaction_audioaptx1.mp3" length="16427935" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713/d7b98ce5-8163-4b69-ac9d-a1f04a6aa713.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to respond rather than react, highlighting 5 key habits that support emotional regulation and intentional behavior. We explore why reactive patterns often stem from survival...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to respond rather than react, highlighting 5 key habits that support emotional regulation and intentional behavior. We explore why reactive patterns often stem from survival instincts and how simple, consistent practices like pausing, breathing, and observing can create space between stimulus and response. These habits empower us to navigate challenges with clarity, reduce conflict, and strengthen relationships. Learn how to shift from automatic reactions to thoughtful responses that reflect your values and goals.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1027</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>74</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mel Robbin's Let Them Theory Reviewed from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mel-robbin-s-let-them-theory-reviewed-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345586</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory from a therapist’s perspective. We explore the psychological insights behind this mindset shift and how it can improve relationships, reduce stress, and foster emotional resilience. Learn how embracing the Let Them approach can help you set healthier boundaries and focus on personal growth.   Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/d965c2a4-d3d7-3eab-b238-a3fe633def7f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2025 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345586/let_them_theory_audio6ccqg.mp3" length="22445294" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338/769dd6b2-f599-4436-bc78-756ca9c04338.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory from a therapist’s perspective. We explore the psychological insights behind this mindset shift and how it can improve relationships, reduce stress, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory from a therapist’s perspective. We explore the psychological insights behind this mindset shift and how it can improve relationships, reduce stress, and foster emotional resilience. Learn how embracing the Let Them approach can help you set healthier boundaries and focus on personal growth.   Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1403</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Improve your Relationships by understanding Gottman's 4 Horseman of the Apocalypse from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/improve-your-relationships-by-understanding-gottman-s-4-horseman-of-the-apocalypse-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345590</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and how they impact relationships. These four behaviors—Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling—can erode trust and connection over time. Understanding them helps identify destructive patterns and replace them with healthier communication strategies. Learn how to recognize and counter these behaviors to strengthen your relationships.    Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/425f10c9-e39d-3b36-b7a3-2a6911e27ede</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345590/the_four_horsemen_audioatbth.mp3" length="12351997" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49/6d1f2452-af42-493f-affc-a5e3c8e54c49.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and how they impact relationships. These four behaviors—Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling—can erode trust and connection...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and how they impact relationships. These four behaviors—Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling—can erode trust and connection over time. Understanding them helps identify destructive patterns and replace them with healthier communication strategies. Learn how to recognize and counter these behaviors to strengthen your relationships.    Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>772</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Improve your Relationships by Understanding Karpman's Drama Triangle from Season 2 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/improve-your-relationships-by-understanding-karpman-s-drama-triangle-from-season-2-of-adaptable--66345603</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Karpman’s Drama Triangle and how it affects relationships. The model identifies three roles—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor—that create unhealthy interaction patterns. Understanding these dynamics can help break negative cycles, improve communication, and build healthier connections. Recognizing when you or others fall into these roles allows for more constructive and empowering relationships.    Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/4ee0f1f8-3dd0-360e-bac2-ffc79fe32f86</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345603/karpman_s_drama_triangle_audio8dftg.mp3" length="14681284" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f/b6efbde4-b71b-43ee-8a09-8430a481159f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Karpman’s Drama Triangle and how it affects relationships. The model identifies three roles—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor—that create unhealthy interaction patterns. Understanding...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Karpman’s Drama Triangle and how it affects relationships. The model identifies three roles—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor—that create unhealthy interaction patterns. Understanding these dynamics can help break negative cycles, improve communication, and build healthier connections. Recognizing when you or others fall into these roles allows for more constructive and empowering relationships.    Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.   -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>918</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>70</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Lessons and Growth from Season 1 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/lessons-and-growth-from-season-1-of-adaptable--66345598</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we reflect on the incredible journey of Season 1 of Adaptable | Behavior Explained! From thought-provoking conversations to personal growth insights, this season has been a transformative experience for everyone involved. In this video, we dive into: ✅ Key takeaways from our most impactful episodes. ✅ The lessons that shaped the journey. ✅ How challenges turned into opportunities for growth. Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cebabdc9-d28b-33c6-82e6-00a0bca809f1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jan 2025 01:04:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345598/ep70_audiobuv2l.mp3" length="14520651" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86/f0701ad7-ec0f-4d30-a93a-9948b8bc8b86.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we reflect on the incredible journey of Season 1 of Adaptable | Behavior Explained! From thought-provoking conversations to personal growth insights, this season has been a transformative...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we reflect on the incredible journey of Season 1 of Adaptable | Behavior Explained! From thought-provoking conversations to personal growth insights, this season has been a transformative experience for everyone involved. In this video, we dive into: ✅ Key takeaways from our most impactful episodes. ✅ The lessons that shaped the journey. ✅ How challenges turned into opportunities for growth. Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1164</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>69</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Rapid Fire Questions with Kelly from Season 1 of Adaptable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/rapid-fire-questions-with-kelly-from-season-1-of-adaptable--66345596</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other questions you'd like answered! 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/eb626472-15b6-372e-8f38-bbd55147272b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jan 2025 01:03:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345596/ep69_audio77tdi.mp3" length="19271289" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other questions you'd like answered! 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1559</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Impact of Sexual Abuse on Survivor's Lives</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-impact-of-sexual-abuse-on-survivor-s-lives--66345608</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Sexual abuse leaves deep and lasting scars that affect survivors' lives in profound ways. In this video, we explore the emotional, psychological, and social challenges survivors often face, including trauma, trust issues, and self-esteem struggles. We also discuss the journey toward healing, the importance of support systems, therapy and available resources for survivors. Our goal is to shed light on this sensitive topic, create awareness, and foster empathy and understanding. Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or simply seeking to learn more, this video is a step toward building a compassionate and informed community. 💡 Resources and Support: If you or someone you know is affected by sexual abuse, please seek help. Contact - National Sexual Assault Hotline (USA): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Let’s break the silence, support survivors, and encourage healing. 💜 👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the conversation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/be2da277-4d15-3c14-8913-4331effcc7c3</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345608/ep68_audio7g7h6.mp3" length="16656749" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Sexual abuse leaves deep and lasting scars that affect survivors' lives in profound ways. In this video, we explore the emotional, psychological, and social challenges survivors often face, including trauma,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Sexual abuse leaves deep and lasting scars that affect survivors' lives in profound ways. In this video, we explore the emotional, psychological, and social challenges survivors often face, including trauma, trust issues, and self-esteem struggles. We also discuss the journey toward healing, the importance of support systems, therapy and available resources for survivors. Our goal is to shed light on this sensitive topic, create awareness, and foster empathy and understanding. Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or simply seeking to learn more, this video is a step toward building a compassionate and informed community. 💡 Resources and Support: If you or someone you know is affected by sexual abuse, please seek help. Contact - National Sexual Assault Hotline (USA): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Let’s break the silence, support survivors, and encourage healing. 💜 👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the conversation.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1342</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why People Cheat: Understanding Infidelity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-people-cheat-understanding-infidelity--66345609</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Why do people cheat? Is it about love, attraction, or something deeper? In this video you get to here from a licensed therapist, break down the common reasons behind infidelity, exploring emotional, psychological, and situational factors. Whether you're looking to heal from betrayal or understand human behavior better, this conversation sheds light on the complexities of relationships and trust. 💡 Topics Covered: - Emotional disconnect and unmet needs - Thrill-seeking and impulsivity - Statistics - Relationship patterns and past trauma - How to navigate and rebuild trust after infidelity 📌 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video if it resonates with you. Together, we can create healthier relationships and better understanding.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/bbfd34dd-417b-3ee6-9128-fc3526f4be55</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2024 21:37:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345609/ep67_audiobk485.mp3" length="16528146" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Why do people cheat? Is it about love, attraction, or something deeper? In this video you get to here from a licensed therapist, break down the common reasons behind infidelity, exploring emotional,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Why do people cheat? Is it about love, attraction, or something deeper? In this video you get to here from a licensed therapist, break down the common reasons behind infidelity, exploring emotional, psychological, and situational factors. Whether you're looking to heal from betrayal or understand human behavior better, this conversation sheds light on the complexities of relationships and trust. 💡 Topics Covered: - Emotional disconnect and unmet needs - Thrill-seeking and impulsivity - Statistics - Relationship patterns and past trauma - How to navigate and rebuild trust after infidelity 📌 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video if it resonates with you. Together, we can create healthier relationships and better understanding.   I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!   I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1330</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>66</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Holiday Gone Wrong: Lessons Learned</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/holiday-gone-wrong-lessons-learned--66345618</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I share a true story about how a seemingly perfect holiday turned into a stressful, chaotic experience—and the valuable lessons we can all take from it. Whether it’s family drama, unmet expectations, or the pressure to create "the perfect day," the holidays can be a challenging time for many of us. 👉 Have you had a holiday go off the rails? Share your story in the comments! Let’s support each other in creating more meaningful celebrations. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more tips on navigating life’s challenges with resilience and mindfulness! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/4eff9a7e-522e-3408-adc8-be35c5f9aac1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Dec 2024 19:30:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345618/ep66_audioavb23.mp3" length="21076727" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I share a true story about how a seemingly perfect holiday turned into a stressful, chaotic experience—and the valuable lessons we can all take from it. Whether it’s family drama, unmet...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I share a true story about how a seemingly perfect holiday turned into a stressful, chaotic experience—and the valuable lessons we can all take from it. Whether it’s family drama, unmet expectations, or the pressure to create "the perfect day," the holidays can be a challenging time for many of us. 👉 Have you had a holiday go off the rails? Share your story in the comments! Let’s support each other in creating more meaningful celebrations. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more tips on navigating life’s challenges with resilience and mindfulness! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1710</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>65</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bridging the Gap: Mental Health and Support for Public Safety Heroes part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bridging-the-gap-mental-health-and-support-for-public-safety-heroes-part-1--66345627</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we delve into the mental health challenges that public safety heroes – including police officers, firefighters, EMTs, and other first responders – face daily in their line of duty. These brave individuals confront high-stress situations, trauma, and pressure, which can deeply impact their mental well-being. We’ll discuss the importance of mental health awareness, available support resources, and practical strategies for coping with the unique demands of public safety professions. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5483a4da-48b4-3cb2-b1fb-56bc7083a5ea</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345627/ep64_audio7em63.mp3" length="22716872" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we delve into the mental health challenges that public safety heroes – including police officers, firefighters, EMTs, and other first responders – face daily in their line of duty. These brave...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we delve into the mental health challenges that public safety heroes – including police officers, firefighters, EMTs, and other first responders – face daily in their line of duty. These brave individuals confront high-stress situations, trauma, and pressure, which can deeply impact their mental well-being. We’ll discuss the importance of mental health awareness, available support resources, and practical strategies for coping with the unique demands of public safety professions. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1851</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Parenting Tips for Raising Teens</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/parenting-tips-for-raising-teens--66345610</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Raising teens can be challenging, especially when they’re going through tough or rebellious phases. In this video, we’re sharing practical strategies to help you better connect with your teenager, set healthy boundaries, and navigate the ups and downs of adolescence with more confidence and calm. We’ll discuss proven techniques for managing conflicts, fostering open communication, and understanding the underlying emotions that might be driving their behavior. Whether your teen is struggling with mood swings, school issues, or communication breakdowns, these tips are designed to make parenting a little easier and help you build a stronger, more positive relationship with your teen. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/aded7e23-c2cc-322b-b9cc-9d98c1164711</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2024 06:09:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345610/ep63_audio6jet2.mp3" length="16119271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Raising teens can be challenging, especially when they’re going through tough or rebellious phases. In this video, we’re sharing practical strategies to help you better connect with your teenager, set healthy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Raising teens can be challenging, especially when they’re going through tough or rebellious phases. In this video, we’re sharing practical strategies to help you better connect with your teenager, set healthy boundaries, and navigate the ups and downs of adolescence with more confidence and calm. We’ll discuss proven techniques for managing conflicts, fostering open communication, and understanding the underlying emotions that might be driving their behavior. Whether your teen is struggling with mood swings, school issues, or communication breakdowns, these tips are designed to make parenting a little easier and help you build a stronger, more positive relationship with your teen. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1300</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Welcome to the Shit Show: The Truth about Being a Single Parent - Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-the-shit-show-the-truth-about-being-a-single-parent-part-2--66345628</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/7d7e734a-28a7-3ff6-8c7d-76fa0d9bccec</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2024 19:54:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345628/ep62_audioavs1m.mp3" length="23802926" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1941</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Welcome to the Shit Show: The Truth about Being a Single Parent Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-the-shit-show-the-truth-about-being-a-single-parent-part-1--66345599</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/be74521d-855e-327f-b61f-47aa27e097d9</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345599/ep61_audio6qwaz.mp3" length="15751353" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1270</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Future of Healthcare - Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-future-of-healthcare-part-2--66345632</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/72b4e9e3-18e7-3e00-8672-992f230a9855</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345632/ep60_audio6gw3t.mp3" length="18630505" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1510</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Future of Healthcare - Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-future-of-healthcare-part-1--66345605</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 1 of 1 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/908cd685-6107-3075-bba3-e4c23b0fb346</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2024 22:42:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345605/ep59_audio9s57j.mp3" length="16172044" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 1 of 1 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1306</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Insights from a Therapist - Inside Out 2 (2024 Film)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/insights-from-a-therapist-inside-out-2-2024-film--66345625</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out 2, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, Disgust, and newly introduced Anxiety, Embarrassment, and Envy. The movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic perspective on the emotional journey we all experience. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a>  <a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/70f7e766-3d80-391b-b2ad-35fc66216cee</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345625/ep58_audio8eawb.mp3" length="19872974" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out 2, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out 2, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, Disgust, and newly introduced Anxiety, Embarrassment, and Envy. The movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic perspective on the emotional journey we all experience. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a>  <a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1609</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Insights from a Therapist - Inside Out (2015 Film)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/insights-from-a-therapist-inside-out-2015-film--66345602</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Disgust, the movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic perspective on the emotional journey we all experience. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/1af2ba87-9a22-315e-8562-a3fd88a2f833</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345602/ep57_audio83b3h.mp3" length="18695215" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Disgust, the movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic perspective on the emotional journey we all experience. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1511</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Parent During Divorce: Ways to Minimize Damage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-parent-during-divorce-ways-to-minimize-damage--66345615</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode is a must-watch for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Special guest Dianne Sullivan, a trauma-informed lawyer breaks down the legal process while also addressing the emotional challenges that come with it. Whether you're just starting out or deep in the process, this video offers compassionate, expert advice to help you navigate divorce with your mental and emotional well-being in mind. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/3d9593d8-3524-3dfe-aea5-e56eff18f614</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345615/ep52_audioavdnq.mp3" length="24312815" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode is a must-watch for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Special guest Dianne Sullivan, a trauma-informed lawyer breaks down the legal process while also addressing the emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode is a must-watch for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Special guest Dianne Sullivan, a trauma-informed lawyer breaks down the legal process while also addressing the emotional challenges that come with it. Whether you're just starting out or deep in the process, this video offers compassionate, expert advice to help you navigate divorce with your mental and emotional well-being in mind. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1984</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Intersection of Faith and Therapy - Important Considerations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/intersection-of-faith-and-therapy-important-considerations--66345640</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we tackle the complex question: Is incorporating faith into therapy good or bad for mental health? For some, faith is a source of comfort, hope, and healing, while others may find that certain religious beliefs create barriers to emotional and psychological well-being. We’ll explore both the potential benefits and drawbacks of using faith in therapy, examining how spiritual practices can either support or hinder mental health treatment. Can faith-based therapy be a positive tool for growth, or does it sometimes conflict with professional psychological care? Join us as we dive into the debate and discuss the pros and cons of merging faith with therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/1a037658-21d7-3c3f-856b-e74f1e292df2</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Sep 2024 02:33:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345640/ep55_audiobcy2y.mp3" length="33132090" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we tackle the complex question: Is incorporating faith into therapy good or bad for mental health? For some, faith is a source of comfort, hope, and healing, while others may find that certain...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we tackle the complex question: Is incorporating faith into therapy good or bad for mental health? For some, faith is a source of comfort, hope, and healing, while others may find that certain religious beliefs create barriers to emotional and psychological well-being. We’ll explore both the potential benefits and drawbacks of using faith in therapy, examining how spiritual practices can either support or hinder mental health treatment. Can faith-based therapy be a positive tool for growth, or does it sometimes conflict with professional psychological care? Join us as we dive into the debate and discuss the pros and cons of merging faith with therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2716</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fostering and Adoption: What You Should Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fostering-and-adoption-what-you-should-know--66345629</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Thinking about fostering or adopting a child? This video breaks down everything you need to know! From the differences between fostering and adoption to the emotional and practical aspects involved, we’ll guide you through each step of the process. Whether you’re looking to provide a temporary safe haven or a permanent home, this video will help you understand the responsibilities, challenges, and joys that come with welcoming a child into your life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/0982867d-457b-3d75-b3cc-d6b9cf1683bd</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345629/ep54_audio6tlfv.mp3" length="29060114" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Thinking about fostering or adopting a child? This video breaks down everything you need to know! From the differences between fostering and adoption to the emotional and practical aspects involved, we’ll...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Thinking about fostering or adopting a child? This video breaks down everything you need to know! From the differences between fostering and adoption to the emotional and practical aspects involved, we’ll guide you through each step of the process. Whether you’re looking to provide a temporary safe haven or a permanent home, this video will help you understand the responsibilities, challenges, and joys that come with welcoming a child into your life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2379</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What You Should Know about Divorce from a Trauma Informed Lawyer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-you-should-know-about-divorce-from-a-trauma-informed-lawyer--66345611</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Going through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. In this video, a trauma informed lawyer shares essential advice to help you navigate the process smoothly and protect your rights. From understanding the legal steps involved to managing emotional and financial challenges, you'll gain valuable insights on how to handle divorce with confidence. Whether you're just starting the process or are in the midst of it, this guide will provide the clarity and support you need. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/ab0ab223-febc-3276-8472-6e0b23400d99</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345611/ep53_audio7v8ms.mp3" length="20439137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Going through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. In this video, a trauma informed lawyer shares essential advice to help you navigate the process smoothly and protect your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Going through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. In this video, a trauma informed lawyer shares essential advice to help you navigate the process smoothly and protect your rights. From understanding the legal steps involved to managing emotional and financial challenges, you'll gain valuable insights on how to handle divorce with confidence. Whether you're just starting the process or are in the midst of it, this guide will provide the clarity and support you need. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1661</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>54</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Use Your Voice to Regulate Your Emotions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-use-your-voice-to-regulate-your-emotions--66345637</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Discover the power of your voice as a tool for emotional regulation! In this video, we'll explore how the way you speak, tone, pitch, and rhythm can influence your mood and overall emotional state. Whether you're feeling anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed, learning to harness your vocal expression can bring about a sense of calm and control. Join us as we dive into practical techniques that you can use anytime, anywhere, to transform your emotions through the simple yet profound act of using your voice. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more tips on mastering your emotions and living a balanced life! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/06245479-8d32-356b-a8ce-63a39acd762b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345637/ep53_audio74vuj.mp3" length="24615432" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Discover the power of your voice as a tool for emotional regulation! In this video, we'll explore how the way you speak, tone, pitch, and rhythm can influence your mood and overall emotional state. Whether...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Discover the power of your voice as a tool for emotional regulation! In this video, we'll explore how the way you speak, tone, pitch, and rhythm can influence your mood and overall emotional state. Whether you're feeling anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed, learning to harness your vocal expression can bring about a sense of calm and control. Join us as we dive into practical techniques that you can use anytime, anywhere, to transform your emotions through the simple yet profound act of using your voice. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more tips on mastering your emotions and living a balanced life! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2007</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>53</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Telehealth Vs. In Person Therapy: How Do I Choose?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/telehealth-vs-in-person-therapy-how-do-i-choose--66345638</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we are going to explore the pros and cons of telehealth versus in-person therapy. As mental health services become more accessible online, many are wondering which option is best for their needs. I'll dive into the benefits and challenges of both approaches, covering aspects like convenience, effectiveness, personal connection, and privacy. Whether you're considering starting therapy or just curious about the differences, this video will help you make an informed decision. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/df8a22f2-db64-3c8b-93fd-7a8cfc96134e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345638/ep51_audio9rqhn.mp3" length="11052702" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we are going to explore the pros and cons of telehealth versus in-person therapy. As mental health services become more accessible online, many are wondering which option is best for their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we are going to explore the pros and cons of telehealth versus in-person therapy. As mental health services become more accessible online, many are wondering which option is best for their needs. I'll dive into the benefits and challenges of both approaches, covering aspects like convenience, effectiveness, personal connection, and privacy. Whether you're considering starting therapy or just curious about the differences, this video will help you make an informed decision. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>878</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>51</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EMDR and Pain Management</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/emdr-and-pain-management--66345619</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the powerful and transformative technique of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy and its application in pain management. EMDR is a psychotherapy approach originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. However, recent research has shown its effectiveness in treating chronic pain conditions, providing relief and improving the quality of life for many individuals. Whether you're dealing with chronic pain, emotional trauma, or simply curious about new therapeutic techniques, this video offers valuable insights and practical information. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/6bd70d98-9832-30f1-b987-bc4efea5da2d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345619/emdr_and_pain_management8rmay.mp3" length="13946952" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the powerful and transformative technique of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy and its application in pain management. EMDR is a psychotherapy approach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the powerful and transformative technique of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy and its application in pain management. EMDR is a psychotherapy approach originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. However, recent research has shown its effectiveness in treating chronic pain conditions, providing relief and improving the quality of life for many individuals. Whether you're dealing with chronic pain, emotional trauma, or simply curious about new therapeutic techniques, this video offers valuable insights and practical information. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1120</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mental Health | First Responders &amp; Veterans</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mental-health-first-responders-veterans--66345613</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the critical topic of mental health among first responders. Firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and other emergency personnel face unique challenges and stressors in their line of duty. The nature of their work often involves high-pressure situations, trauma exposure, and the responsibility of saving lives. These experiences can take a toll on their mental well-being. Join us as we delve into the importance of mental health support for these everyday heroes. We'll discuss common mental health issues faced by first responders, such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, and burnout. We'll also highlight the importance of seeking help, available resources, and practical strategies for maintaining mental wellness. Whether you're a first responder, a family member, or someone interested in the topic, this video offers valuable insights and guidance on prioritizing mental health. Remember, taking care of yourself is as crucial as taking care of others. 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content on mental health and well-being! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>   *This video contains content that may be disturbing to some viewers, including [mention specific content, e.g., graphic violence, discussions of self-harm, or strong language]. Viewer discretion is advised.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/e9726c68-ca21-3049-9669-c8cd57e1b3fb</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2024 05:19:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345613/ep49_audioat2po.mp3" length="26462914" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the critical topic of mental health among first responders. Firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and other emergency personnel face unique challenges and stressors in their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the critical topic of mental health among first responders. Firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and other emergency personnel face unique challenges and stressors in their line of duty. The nature of their work often involves high-pressure situations, trauma exposure, and the responsibility of saving lives. These experiences can take a toll on their mental well-being. Join us as we delve into the importance of mental health support for these everyday heroes. We'll discuss common mental health issues faced by first responders, such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, and burnout. We'll also highlight the importance of seeking help, available resources, and practical strategies for maintaining mental wellness. Whether you're a first responder, a family member, or someone interested in the topic, this video offers valuable insights and guidance on prioritizing mental health. Remember, taking care of yourself is as crucial as taking care of others. 🔔 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content on mental health and well-being! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>   *This video contains content that may be disturbing to some viewers, including [mention specific content, e.g., graphic violence, discussions of self-harm, or strong language]. Viewer discretion is advised.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2163</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>49</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Steps To Repair after conflict in Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-steps-to-repair-after-conflict-in-relationships--66345617</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I explore practical steps to repair and strengthen your relationship after a conflict. Whether it's a disagreement with a partner, friend, or family member, conflicts can strain relationships, but they also offer an opportunity for growth and deeper connection. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/233a8fd9-4b80-35b9-b34d-09cba9ebf6f0</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2024 05:17:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345617/10_steps_to_repair_after_conflict_in_relationships89x7i.mp3" length="18372526" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I explore practical steps to repair and strengthen your relationship after a conflict. Whether it's a disagreement with a partner, friend, or family member, conflicts can strain relationships,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I explore practical steps to repair and strengthen your relationship after a conflict. Whether it's a disagreement with a partner, friend, or family member, conflicts can strain relationships, but they also offer an opportunity for growth and deeper connection. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1489</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Breaking Gender Stereotypes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-gender-stereotypes--66345621</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us in this powerful exploration of breaking gender stereotypes! In this video, we challenge societal norms and celebrate individuality, showcasing inspiring stories and perspectives that defy traditional gender roles. Let’s embrace diversity and promote a world where everyone can express themselves freely. Together, we can create a more inclusive future! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/28222671-50aa-3c28-8f8f-25f528a07269</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345621/breaking_gender_stereotypes_9ez9i.mp3" length="11140164" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us in this powerful exploration of breaking gender stereotypes! In this video, we challenge societal norms and celebrate individuality, showcasing inspiring stories and perspectives that defy traditional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us in this powerful exploration of breaking gender stereotypes! In this video, we challenge societal norms and celebrate individuality, showcasing inspiring stories and perspectives that defy traditional gender roles. Let’s embrace diversity and promote a world where everyone can express themselves freely. Together, we can create a more inclusive future! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>886</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Health Anxiety: The Path to Serenity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/health-anxiety-the-path-to-serenity--66345622</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! A little bit of concern about your health is normal, and even healthy! If you have health anxiety, worries about your health can take over your life and cause you a lot of distress. It is thought that between 1 and 10 people out of every 100 will experience health anxiety every year. Fortunately, EMDR therapy is a great tool to use for such cases. Let's dive in with Taylor O'Horo and talk more about it. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/9b5d0c7f-69f2-39b2-b8a8-de3d7fd15280</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jul 2024 04:43:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345622/health_anxiety_the_path_to_serenity8q4bf.mp3" length="15305855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! A little bit of concern about your health is normal, and even healthy! If you have health anxiety, worries about your health can take over your life and cause you a lot of distress. It is thought that between...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! A little bit of concern about your health is normal, and even healthy! If you have health anxiety, worries about your health can take over your life and cause you a lot of distress. It is thought that between 1 and 10 people out of every 100 will experience health anxiety every year. Fortunately, EMDR therapy is a great tool to use for such cases. Let's dive in with Taylor O'Horo and talk more about it. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1232</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Caretaking for Aging Parents</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/caretaking-for-aging-parents--66345643</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The population of older adults (65 and older) in the U.S. is growing rapidly, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. By 2030, the number of older Americans is expected to reach 73 million, making up more than 20% of the total population. As individuals age, they may require varying levels of care, which their adult children often provide. Adult children commonly experience uncertainty when confronted with the prospect of caring for their parents. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c85d4019-a51f-3f05-b596-09a74c0e11ba</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2024 23:20:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345643/caretaking_for_aging_parents8cy6u.mp3" length="16916712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The population of older adults (65 and older) in the U.S. is growing rapidly, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. By 2030, the number of older Americans is expected to reach 73 million, making up more than...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The population of older adults (65 and older) in the U.S. is growing rapidly, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. By 2030, the number of older Americans is expected to reach 73 million, making up more than 20% of the total population. As individuals age, they may require varying levels of care, which their adult children often provide. Adult children commonly experience uncertainty when confronted with the prospect of caring for their parents. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1367</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Exploring Sexuality, Identity, &amp; Pronouns</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/exploring-sexuality-identity-pronouns--66345634</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Your sexuality, identity, and pronouns are yours to define. They’re the core of who you are. Choosing pronouns that fit you is about being seen as your true self. It’s direct: You are who you say you are, and that’s enough. No one else’s timeline or expectations matter. It’s your story, your script, your stage. Stand tall in your identity, and know that being you is enough. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/40c316dd-f022-3c79-b6f7-05da053d40df</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2024 23:14:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345634/exploring_sexuality_idenity_pronouns8nb1m.mp3" length="22116477" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Your sexuality, identity, and pronouns are yours to define. They’re the core of who you are. Choosing pronouns that fit you is about being seen as your true self. It’s direct: You are who you say you are, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Your sexuality, identity, and pronouns are yours to define. They’re the core of who you are. Choosing pronouns that fit you is about being seen as your true self. It’s direct: You are who you say you are, and that’s enough. No one else’s timeline or expectations matter. It’s your story, your script, your stage. Stand tall in your identity, and know that being you is enough. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1776</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mindset Matters Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mindset-matters-cultivating-growth-and-resilience-part-2--66345645</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/57e150d8-c3cb-3689-814d-8a6aba4c458d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2024 03:16:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345645/mindset_matters_cultivating_growth_and_resilience_part_28qaop.mp3" length="9257390" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>704</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mindset Matters: Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 1Mindset Matters: Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mindset-matters-cultivating-growth-and-resilience-part-1mindset-matters-cultivating-growth-and-resilience-part-1--66345636</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c6f40071-cbf5-3013-9e78-2a4a20c9c3a2</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2024 03:41:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345636/mindset_matters_cultivating_growth_and_resilience_part_19y6i1.mp3" length="21538178" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1726</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Power of Saying NO</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-power-of-saying-no--66345600</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever found yourself agreeing to something you didn't want to do, simply because you couldn't muster the courage to say "no"? If so, you're not alone. Many of us struggle with the idea of rejecting requests, often at the expense of our own well-being. But what if I told you that saying "no" could actually be one of the most empowering things you could do for yourself? Yes, you heard it right! Learning to say "no" is not just about being assertive, it's about respecting your own time, energy, and personal limits. It's the Power of Saying No! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2d42d1d7-83ef-3864-8acd-0d65194e1f51</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345600/10_steps_to_repair_after_conflict_in_relationshipsb56dr.mp3" length="12302995" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever found yourself agreeing to something you didn't want to do, simply because you couldn't muster the courage to say "no"? If so, you're not alone. Many of us struggle with the idea of rejecting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever found yourself agreeing to something you didn't want to do, simply because you couldn't muster the courage to say "no"? If so, you're not alone. Many of us struggle with the idea of rejecting requests, often at the expense of our own well-being. But what if I told you that saying "no" could actually be one of the most empowering things you could do for yourself? Yes, you heard it right! Learning to say "no" is not just about being assertive, it's about respecting your own time, energy, and personal limits. It's the Power of Saying No! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>958</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Navigating the Journey of Identity in your Early 20s - Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-journey-of-identity-in-your-early-20s-part-2--66345614</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/4e8d2f4e-fd83-3865-bbc0-1686fa6dea21</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 May 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345614/navigating_the_journey_of_indentity_in_your_early_20s_part_2afnhy.mp3" length="12427906" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>976</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Navigating the Journey of Indentity in your Early 20s - Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-journey-of-indentity-in-your-early-20s-part-1--66345662</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/8bb8d045-6fe7-32eb-84db-fece139b07e2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345662/navigating_the_journey_of_indentity_in_your_early_20s_part_17kff4.mp3" length="24573305" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1987</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ketamine Chronicles: Mindscapes &amp; Miracles</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ketamine-chronicles-mindscapes-miracles--66345648</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/14fc6e4c-1668-3332-8314-cc5f1bca9d86</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345648/psychepioneers_the_kap_dialoguesb6bb9.mp3" length="10501602" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>816</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Focus Frequency: Navigating ADD/ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/focus-frequency-navigating-add-adhd--66345647</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Individuals with ADD or ADHD have a difficult time paying attention and focusing, especially if they’re uninterested, are easily distracted, and can also be impulsive or disruptive. ADHD also includes the physical symptoms of hyperactivity or excessive restlessness. While the symptoms seen to be fairly straight forward, diagnosing ADD/ADHD can be complex. A person must exhibit a large number of symptoms that prove to cause significant problems with daily life, throughout their life, and in multiple settings. Let's talk about how to navigate ADD/ADHD! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/64b51c71-906d-3c4f-b158-dc892fdd5741</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345647/focus_frequency_navigating_add_adhdapg4h.mp3" length="10774975" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Individuals with ADD or ADHD have a difficult time paying attention and focusing, especially if they’re uninterested, are easily distracted, and can also be impulsive or disruptive. ADHD also includes the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Individuals with ADD or ADHD have a difficult time paying attention and focusing, especially if they’re uninterested, are easily distracted, and can also be impulsive or disruptive. ADHD also includes the physical symptoms of hyperactivity or excessive restlessness. While the symptoms seen to be fairly straight forward, diagnosing ADD/ADHD can be complex. A person must exhibit a large number of symptoms that prove to cause significant problems with daily life, throughout their life, and in multiple settings. Let's talk about how to navigate ADD/ADHD! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>839</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tame your Anxiety with EMDR Therapy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tame-your-anxiety-with-emdr-therapy--66345624</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! By understanding the stress and anxiety habit loops present in our lives, we can eventually ease ourselves into different behaviors around these difficult emotions. Join me as we talk about what you can do, to tame your anxiety with EMDR Therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/3375492b-92c9-382f-8bea-42ed95c70b3b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345624/tame_your_anxiety_with_emdr_therapy_8adua.mp3" length="8124451" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! By understanding the stress and anxiety habit loops present in our lives, we can eventually ease ourselves into different behaviors around these difficult emotions. Join me as we talk about what you can do,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! By understanding the stress and anxiety habit loops present in our lives, we can eventually ease ourselves into different behaviors around these difficult emotions. Join me as we talk about what you can do, to tame your anxiety with EMDR Therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>619</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PsychePioneers: The KAP Dialogues</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/psychepioneers-the-kap-dialogues--66345620</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cf00b011-4d7e-31a5-85f8-5dd870d337a7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2024 01:36:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345620/kap_dialogues6ob3t.mp3" length="24866178" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2015</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Enneagram: Understanding Your Number and Personality Type</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/enneagram-understanding-your-number-and-personality-type--66345664</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The Enneagram is a personality system with 9 types that each have their own core drives, fears, and motivations. Your type is determined by your innate traits and shaped by your life experiences. Finding your Enneagram type can help you understand why you make the choices that you do. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/75bfd639-af17-33d6-9ead-79f42683ab81</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Apr 2024 20:06:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345664/enneagram_understanding_your_number_and_personality_typebe1z4.mp3" length="23949751" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The Enneagram is a personality system with 9 types that each have their own core drives, fears, and motivations. Your type is determined by your innate traits and shaped by your life experiences. Finding your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The Enneagram is a personality system with 9 types that each have their own core drives, fears, and motivations. Your type is determined by your innate traits and shaped by your life experiences. Finding your Enneagram type can help you understand why you make the choices that you do. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1934</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Key Concepts to Build a Strong Foundation for a Lasting Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-key-concepts-to-build-a-strong-foundation-for-a-lasting-relationship--66345631</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! “Hindsight,” “grass is greener,” “love is all you need” and other adages aside, you might be curious what makes a relationship strong and long? What can you do to help ensure your relationship stays strong and happy — even through the rough stuff? Here's 5 Key Concepts to help build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a><a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ </a><a href="https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language</a><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hold-me-tight-workshop-tickets-829023921867?aff=oddtdtcreator" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hold-me-tight-workshop-tickets-829023921867?aff=oddtdtcreator</a>  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/b28d41d2-2413-30f6-b6bb-15cf38d24cd3</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Apr 2024 00:18:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345631/5_key_concepts_to_build_a_strong_foundation_for_a_lasting_relationshipb04al.mp3" length="24008421" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! “Hindsight,” “grass is greener,” “love is all you need” and other adages aside, you might be curious what makes a relationship strong and long? What can you do to help ensure your relationship stays strong...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! “Hindsight,” “grass is greener,” “love is all you need” and other adages aside, you might be curious what makes a relationship strong and long? What can you do to help ensure your relationship stays strong and happy — even through the rough stuff? Here's 5 Key Concepts to help build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a><a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ </a><a href="https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language</a><a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hold-me-tight-workshop-tickets-829023921867?aff=oddtdtcreator" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hold-me-tight-workshop-tickets-829023921867?aff=oddtdtcreator</a>  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1942</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Heal from Trauma</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-heal-from-trauma--66345669</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Healing from such a profound change often takes a long time, and trauma recovery isn’t always pretty, or linear. Your journey may involve obstacles, detours, and delays, along with setbacks and lost ground. You may have no idea where you’re going or how to get there — but that’s OK. Just as trauma can take many different forms, trauma recovery take a multitude of paths. There’s no official roadmap, but keeping these tips in considerations in mind may prove helpful along your way. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/61183964-f6dc-352c-81c0-020b5bca8cba</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Mar 2024 21:36:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345669/how_to_heal_from_traumabei90.mp3" length="14530214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Healing from such a profound change often takes a long time, and trauma recovery isn’t always pretty, or linear. Your journey may involve obstacles, detours, and delays, along with setbacks and lost ground....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Healing from such a profound change often takes a long time, and trauma recovery isn’t always pretty, or linear. Your journey may involve obstacles, detours, and delays, along with setbacks and lost ground. You may have no idea where you’re going or how to get there — but that’s OK. Just as trauma can take many different forms, trauma recovery take a multitude of paths. There’s no official roadmap, but keeping these tips in considerations in mind may prove helpful along your way. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1151</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>4 Styles of Communication</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/4-styles-of-communication--66345641</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding different communication styles can radically improve the quality of your relationships. Our communication styles have the power to build meaningful connections, a crucial aspect of success in any area of life. Whether your goals relate to your job, health, family, or finances, you’ll never get what you want without learning to communicate. So let's go over the 4 different styles in todays episode! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/df8c78b6-b1af-341f-a84d-bf49c6734cdd</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2024 03:26:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345641/4_styles_of_communication_9ewp3.mp3" length="18316752" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding different communication styles can radically improve the quality of your relationships. Our communication styles have the power to build meaningful connections, a crucial aspect of success in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding different communication styles can radically improve the quality of your relationships. Our communication styles have the power to build meaningful connections, a crucial aspect of success in any area of life. Whether your goals relate to your job, health, family, or finances, you’ll never get what you want without learning to communicate. So let's go over the 4 different styles in todays episode! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1467</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Coping Skills to Deal with Trauma Symptoms</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/coping-skills-to-deal-with-trauma-symptoms--66345667</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Everyone deals with varying degrees of stress and sometimes trauma, both big and small. Many different events in life can contribute to trauma, including ongoing chronic stress, medical issues, natural disasters, job loss, divorce, and other challenges. After a trauma, people experience feelings of shock and denial. Long-term effects of trauma may include intense emotions, physical symptoms, flashbacks, and problems with relationships. Fortunately, there are healthy ways to cope with trauma and get to the other side. I'm here to talk about some of those ways. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/1232cbf6-0af8-33f3-9b9b-5901f41fe1bc</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2024 03:25:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345667/coping_skills_to_deal_with_trauma_symptoms7cf8n.mp3" length="14850249" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Everyone deals with varying degrees of stress and sometimes trauma, both big and small. Many different events in life can contribute to trauma, including ongoing chronic stress, medical issues, natural...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Everyone deals with varying degrees of stress and sometimes trauma, both big and small. Many different events in life can contribute to trauma, including ongoing chronic stress, medical issues, natural disasters, job loss, divorce, and other challenges. After a trauma, people experience feelings of shock and denial. Long-term effects of trauma may include intense emotions, physical symptoms, flashbacks, and problems with relationships. Fortunately, there are healthy ways to cope with trauma and get to the other side. I'm here to talk about some of those ways. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1179</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Parenting Adult Children-Parents are Humans Too</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/parenting-adult-children-parents-are-humans-too--66345642</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Parenting doesn’t stop once children reach adulthood, but it certainly changes. One of the big questions parents wrestle with is — how much should I be involved in my adult child’s life….when they are in college, starting their careers, finding romantic partners, and needing financial support? We go over all this and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/11f19f89-52cf-39a2-bb87-6d01fd73d222</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345642/parenting_adult_children91eiv.mp3" length="27624002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Parenting doesn’t stop once children reach adulthood, but it certainly changes. One of the big questions parents wrestle with is — how much should I be involved in my adult child’s life….when they are in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Parenting doesn’t stop once children reach adulthood, but it certainly changes. One of the big questions parents wrestle with is — how much should I be involved in my adult child’s life….when they are in college, starting their careers, finding romantic partners, and needing financial support? We go over all this and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2241</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15 Characteristics of C-PTSD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-characteristics-of-c-ptsd--66345646</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Complex post-traumatic stress disorder, C-PTSD, is a devastating condition that affects some people who have lived through long-term trauma, such as months or years of abuse. It causes symptoms similar to PTSD but also other symptoms that lead to significant impairment in relationships and quality of life. C-PTSD can be difficult to diagnose but here are 15 characteristics to help identify C-PTSD. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5fa242db-9c09-3c3e-a0a9-442f8ff049c9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 Mar 2024 00:31:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345646/what_is_c_ptsd95c1s.mp3" length="9371473" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Complex post-traumatic stress disorder, C-PTSD, is a devastating condition that affects some people who have lived through long-term trauma, such as months or years of abuse. It causes symptoms similar to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Complex post-traumatic stress disorder, C-PTSD, is a devastating condition that affects some people who have lived through long-term trauma, such as months or years of abuse. It causes symptoms similar to PTSD but also other symptoms that lead to significant impairment in relationships and quality of life. C-PTSD can be difficult to diagnose but here are 15 characteristics to help identify C-PTSD. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>722</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why is our Attachment Style so Important in Relationships?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-is-our-attachment-style-so-important-in-relationships--66345651</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in the amazing Barry Litt, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDRIA Approved Consultant with 40 years of experience. Join us as we dive into the different attachment styles and how they may be affecting your relationships today! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDRTherapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5a4eed9c-1a7b-3594-95f2-b129136d6aee</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2024 03:43:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345651/episode_27bufx1.mp3" length="28492059" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in the amazing Barry Litt, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDRIA Approved Consultant with 40 years of experience. Join us as we dive into the different attachment styles...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in the amazing Barry Litt, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDRIA Approved Consultant with 40 years of experience. Join us as we dive into the different attachment styles and how they may be affecting your relationships today! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDRTherapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2317</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How Can Naturopathic Medicine Address Our Mental Health?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-can-naturopathic-medicine-address-our-mental-health--66345649</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we bring in Dr. Mykayla Werner, a licensed naturopathic doctor. Naturopathy, also referred to as naturopathic healing, offers a different approach that focuses on fostering the body's natural healing processes, rather than relying solely on external interventions. Through the implementation of various lifestyle modifications, targeted nutrient support, and other encompassing methods, naturopathy paves a path toward not only alleviating symptoms but also nurturing an enduring sense of vitality, especially in the realm of mental health. In embracing naturopathic principles, one embarks on a transformative journey towards holistic health and a renewed sense of optimism when it comes to mental health. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/b5edf85b-e77c-328a-9327-f0f43c13d636</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2024 00:27:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345649/naturopathic_medicine_homeopathy_and_mental_health_people_pleasing7d42y.mp3" length="20170853" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we bring in Dr. Mykayla Werner, a licensed naturopathic doctor. Naturopathy, also referred to as naturopathic healing, offers a different approach that focuses on fostering the body's natural healing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we bring in Dr. Mykayla Werner, a licensed naturopathic doctor. Naturopathy, also referred to as naturopathic healing, offers a different approach that focuses on fostering the body's natural healing processes, rather than relying solely on external interventions. Through the implementation of various lifestyle modifications, targeted nutrient support, and other encompassing methods, naturopathy paves a path toward not only alleviating symptoms but also nurturing an enduring sense of vitality, especially in the realm of mental health. In embracing naturopathic principles, one embarks on a transformative journey towards holistic health and a renewed sense of optimism when it comes to mental health. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1622</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Surviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/surviving-complex-ptsd-life-in-post-traumatic-growth-part-2--66345674</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. This is Part 2 of 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://kellyohoro.com </a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/845becc8-5e45-3cc8-b914-606cd9bbce5b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345674/surviving_complex_ptsd_life_in_post_traumatic_growth_part_2aqpuf.mp3" length="10842267" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. This is Part 2 of 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://kellyohoro.com </a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>846</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Surviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/surviving-complex-ptsd-life-in-post-traumatic-growth-part-1--66345653</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. Stay tuned for Part 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://kellyohoro.com </a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/006ff202-a52f-3a28-8af0-7b09e37fa430</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Feb 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345653/surviving_complex_ptsd_life_in_post_traumatic_growth_part_1bfiti.mp3" length="29107665" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. Stay tuned for Part 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://kellyohoro.com </a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2366</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why We Lie and How to Become Radically Honest</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-we-lie-and-how-to-become-radically-honest--66345652</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we're going to talk about lying as a trauma response, why we lie, how it works, and how we can incorporate radical honesty to live a more fulfilled life. Lying is a pervasive human behavior. Honesty isn't always our default setting - sometimes we may find ourselves bending the truth. When little ones start telling their own versions of events, it can stir a mix of parental worry and amusement (given how easily their tales unravel). Surprisingly, in those early years, these fibs indicate a cognitive milestone. Let's explore the effects of lying and learn how we can incorporate radical honesty as our compass! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://kellyohoro.com</a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/7098de2b-ad96-350b-95a9-69cf9fb934a1</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Jan 2024 08:02:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345652/the_effects_of_lying_175p7a.mp3" length="11693353" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we're going to talk about lying as a trauma response, why we lie, how it works, and how we can incorporate radical honesty to live a more fulfilled life. Lying is a pervasive human behavior. Honesty...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we're going to talk about lying as a trauma response, why we lie, how it works, and how we can incorporate radical honesty to live a more fulfilled life. Lying is a pervasive human behavior. Honesty isn't always our default setting - sometimes we may find ourselves bending the truth. When little ones start telling their own versions of events, it can stir a mix of parental worry and amusement (given how easily their tales unravel). Surprisingly, in those early years, these fibs indicate a cognitive milestone. Let's explore the effects of lying and learn how we can incorporate radical honesty as our compass! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://kellyohoro.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://kellyohoro.com</a><a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>914</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tips &amp; Tricks for Parenting Your Teen</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tips-tricks-for-parenting-your-teen--66345661</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly and Victoria discuss the intricacies of parenting, tackling the fine line between being the cool, laid-back parent and the strict enforcer. The examples they share, like expecting an 8-year-old to be independent or coddling a 15-year-old, hit home for anyone navigating the unpredictable terrain of parenting. Victoria expresses the struggle with parents either pushing their kids to grow up too soon or holding onto the reins for too long, creating a delicate dance of independence. There's also a nod to breaking free from traditional gender roles in parenting – because, yes, dads can do bedtime routines too. It's a crash course on maintaining sanity while parenting, wrapped up with a big shout-out to all parents out there, acknowledging that parenting is indeed the ultimate wild ride. If you've got burning questions or fancy joining one of Victoria's support groups, check the details below. Here's to navigating the parenting journey with a whole lot of love! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c9bd358b-d8a5-3966-bf40-708839d24f16</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2024 21:10:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345661/parenting_your_teen8rfrq.mp3" length="18180280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly and Victoria discuss the intricacies of parenting, tackling the fine line between being the cool, laid-back parent and the strict enforcer. The examples they share, like expecting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly and Victoria discuss the intricacies of parenting, tackling the fine line between being the cool, laid-back parent and the strict enforcer. The examples they share, like expecting an 8-year-old to be independent or coddling a 15-year-old, hit home for anyone navigating the unpredictable terrain of parenting. Victoria expresses the struggle with parents either pushing their kids to grow up too soon or holding onto the reins for too long, creating a delicate dance of independence. There's also a nod to breaking free from traditional gender roles in parenting – because, yes, dads can do bedtime routines too. It's a crash course on maintaining sanity while parenting, wrapped up with a big shout-out to all parents out there, acknowledging that parenting is indeed the ultimate wild ride. If you've got burning questions or fancy joining one of Victoria's support groups, check the details below. Here's to navigating the parenting journey with a whole lot of love! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1456</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Non Specific Trauma: Big T’s Little T’s</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/non-specific-trauma-big-t-s-little-t-s--66345673</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever been guilty of saying, “What happened to me is no big deal. Other people have had it much worse.”? If so, you are not alone. Most people struggle to acknowledge that what they went through can be defined as a trauma. It is as if you somehow do not have the right to heal from your situation. All because it doesn’t seem as bad as what someone else went through. As a trauma therapist, I’m here to validate your experience. I help my clients learn how to give themselves space and recognition. By doing so, they can learn to heal from any situation; big or small. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/027a7cb1-5817-3f69-9879-c23c9ee20c40</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345673/big_t_little_tb9fxz.mp3" length="9886330" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever been guilty of saying, “What happened to me is no big deal. Other people have had it much worse.”? If so, you are not alone. Most people struggle to acknowledge that what they went through can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever been guilty of saying, “What happened to me is no big deal. Other people have had it much worse.”? If so, you are not alone. Most people struggle to acknowledge that what they went through can be defined as a trauma. It is as if you somehow do not have the right to heal from your situation. All because it doesn’t seem as bad as what someone else went through. As a trauma therapist, I’m here to validate your experience. I help my clients learn how to give themselves space and recognition. By doing so, they can learn to heal from any situation; big or small. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>765</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 4 Attachment Styles: An Overview</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-4-attachment-styles-an-overview--66345676</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Early interactions with your caregivers can influence the health of your future relationships. We’re all born as helpless little creatures who depend on our caregivers for everything. Human infants are vulnerable beings who rely on others to keep them fed, safe, comforted … everything really. There is a long list of scientific literature that categorizes how we form emotional attachments to our primary caregivers in order to ensure our safety and survival. These studies categorized them in 4 attachment styles, let's talk about them. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/dbf705aa-c378-301d-bf10-bed679c6703e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Jan 2024 19:51:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345676/attatchment_stylesaut1v.mp3" length="14765279" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Early interactions with your caregivers can influence the health of your future relationships. We’re all born as helpless little creatures who depend on our caregivers for everything. Human infants are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Early interactions with your caregivers can influence the health of your future relationships. We’re all born as helpless little creatures who depend on our caregivers for everything. Human infants are vulnerable beings who rely on others to keep them fed, safe, comforted … everything really. There is a long list of scientific literature that categorizes how we form emotional attachments to our primary caregivers in order to ensure our safety and survival. These studies categorized them in 4 attachment styles, let's talk about them. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1172</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Happened to Make You Anxious?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-happened-to-make-you-anxious--66345656</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly interviews Jamie Castillo, owner of Finder Shine Therapy in Tempe, AZ, and author of "What Happened to Make You Anxious?" They delve into the journey of therapists, discussing the importance of self-awareness and personal exploration. Jamie shares her own experience with anxiety, highlighting the subtle signs and deeper roots that led her to write her book. Discover how anxiety, often seen as a negative force, can be a helpful messenger, urging us to address underlying issues and embrace personal growth. Tune in for insightful conversations on mental health and the nuanced nature of anxiety. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/bc83a6e1-a3d4-3695-83c3-7ee53590fb97</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2023 00:27:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345656/what_happened_to_make_you_anxious7yln9.mp3" length="16596619" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly interviews Jamie Castillo, owner of Finder Shine Therapy in Tempe, AZ, and author of "What Happened to Make You Anxious?" They delve into the journey of therapists, discussing the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly interviews Jamie Castillo, owner of Finder Shine Therapy in Tempe, AZ, and author of "What Happened to Make You Anxious?" They delve into the journey of therapists, discussing the importance of self-awareness and personal exploration. Jamie shares her own experience with anxiety, highlighting the subtle signs and deeper roots that led her to write her book. Discover how anxiety, often seen as a negative force, can be a helpful messenger, urging us to address underlying issues and embrace personal growth. Tune in for insightful conversations on mental health and the nuanced nature of anxiety. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolp" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1325</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Social Media Paradox: The Illusion of Connection vs. The Reality of Judgment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-social-media-paradox-the-illusion-of-connection-vs-the-reality-of-judgment--66345670</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the impact of excessive smartphone and social media use on mental health and relationships. Kelly emphasizes mindfulness in behavior and highlights negative consequences of excessive social media use, such as disconnection, compromised safety, and mental health challenges. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/1922a8eb-87c0-39fb-bc36-cbb1404d4891</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2023 17:48:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345670/social_media_paradoxasqde.mp3" length="18000799" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the impact of excessive smartphone and social media use on mental health and relationships. Kelly emphasizes mindfulness in behavior and highlights negative consequences of excessive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the impact of excessive smartphone and social media use on mental health and relationships. Kelly emphasizes mindfulness in behavior and highlights negative consequences of excessive social media use, such as disconnection, compromised safety, and mental health challenges. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1440</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>MBSR: Meditation Changes Your Brain</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mbsr-meditation-changes-your-brain--66345660</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O'Horo, and Julie demystify MBSR, covering essential topics that reshape our understanding. Explore the comprehensive MBSR training process, including the 8-week course and impactful full-day retreat. Hear about Julie's personal evolution, discovering her path as an MBSR teacher. Gain profound insights from silent retreats, emphasizing intentional communication and self-regulation. Uncover the groundbreaking work of John Kabat Zinn, unraveling the history and influence of MBSR in Western culture. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Register for Julie's MBSR Class - <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/729475951207?aff=oddtdtcreator" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/729475951207?aff=oddtdtcreator</a>  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/9c255b1e-61c3-3dd9-83da-9141166b4984</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2023 18:06:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345660/mbsr_and_emdr_therapy9qek6.mp3" length="15915652" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O'Horo, and Julie demystify MBSR, covering essential topics that reshape our understanding. Explore the comprehensive MBSR training process, including the 8-week course and impactful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O'Horo, and Julie demystify MBSR, covering essential topics that reshape our understanding. Explore the comprehensive MBSR training process, including the 8-week course and impactful full-day retreat. Hear about Julie's personal evolution, discovering her path as an MBSR teacher. Gain profound insights from silent retreats, emphasizing intentional communication and self-regulation. Uncover the groundbreaking work of John Kabat Zinn, unraveling the history and influence of MBSR in Western culture. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Register for Julie's MBSR Class - <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/729475951207?aff=oddtdtcreator" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/729475951207?aff=oddtdtcreator</a>  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1268</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Boundaries 101</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/boundaries-101--66345657</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining healthy and balanced relationships. Boundaries help us define the limits and expectations within a relationship and help individuals understand their own needs and protect their personal well-being. There are many different levels to boundaries that effect all different aspects to our life. This episode will help you understand these boundaries and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2d85519f-8787-32e4-b368-852018603af8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345657/boundaries.mp3" length="14461496" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining healthy and balanced relationships. Boundaries help us define the limits and expectations within a relationship and help individuals understand their own needs...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining healthy and balanced relationships. Boundaries help us define the limits and expectations within a relationship and help individuals understand their own needs and protect their personal well-being. There are many different levels to boundaries that effect all different aspects to our life. This episode will help you understand these boundaries and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1147</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Holiday Season: Survival is Insufficient</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-holiday-season-survival-is-insufficient--66345654</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! For so many people, Christmas and the overall holiday season is one of the happiest times of the year. Some people spend all year preparing for this time of year. But for many people, Christmas is the least favorite time of the year. So when you're sitting at the dinner table eating turkey dinner for the tenth time or struggling to find room for all those new presents, family around you, consider yourself grateful. Please don't take anything you have for granted. What you consider such a normal part of the holidays are things other people dream about and yearn for. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvg</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/3a202115-1f35-315e-957c-7a100e78465c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Nov 2023 07:11:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345654/holiday_timebmvs5.mp3" length="12916152" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! For so many people, Christmas and the overall holiday season is one of the happiest times of the year. Some people spend all year preparing for this time of year. But for many people, Christmas is the least...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! For so many people, Christmas and the overall holiday season is one of the happiest times of the year. Some people spend all year preparing for this time of year. But for many people, Christmas is the least favorite time of the year. So when you're sitting at the dinner table eating turkey dinner for the tenth time or struggling to find room for all those new presents, family around you, consider yourself grateful. Please don't take anything you have for granted. What you consider such a normal part of the holidays are things other people dream about and yearn for. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvg</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1018</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Motherhood Exposed - Part 3</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/motherhood-exposed-part-3--66345671</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode features a conversation about the broader experiences of new motherhood. The dialogue covers themes such as hormonal shifts, mood changes, and postpartum experiences. Kelly and Ratna delve into the challenges faced by new mothers, including the overwhelming feelings of love towards the newborn and the complexities surrounding the choice of breastfeeding. The conversation offers a general exploration of the various emotional and practical aspects associated with becoming a new mother. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/9aabc079-5293-3e33-b352-07f89fcfef1e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Nov 2023 17:37:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345671/breast_feedingbe2kf.mp3" length="20676083" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode features a conversation about the broader experiences of new motherhood. The dialogue covers themes such as hormonal shifts, mood changes, and postpartum experiences. Kelly and Ratna delve into...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode features a conversation about the broader experiences of new motherhood. The dialogue covers themes such as hormonal shifts, mood changes, and postpartum experiences. Kelly and Ratna delve into the challenges faced by new mothers, including the overwhelming feelings of love towards the newborn and the complexities surrounding the choice of breastfeeding. The conversation offers a general exploration of the various emotional and practical aspects associated with becoming a new mother. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1663</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Motherhood Exposed - Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/motherhood-exposed-part-2--66345672</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo is joined by Ratna Gunnala and Jaime Castillo, both of whom are new moms and therapists. They discuss the challenges of being a new mom and how to prepare for having a baby. Kelly mentions that no matter how much one reads or prepares, it is impossible to be fully ready for the experience of being a new mom. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/49d4fb11-3816-3799-91b6-9354fa1a286d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Nov 2023 19:43:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345672/motherhood_exposed_part_29k9kq.mp3" length="16426338" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo is joined by Ratna Gunnala and Jaime Castillo, both of whom are new moms and therapists. They discuss the challenges of being a new mom and how to prepare for having a baby....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo is joined by Ratna Gunnala and Jaime Castillo, both of whom are new moms and therapists. They discuss the challenges of being a new mom and how to prepare for having a baby. Kelly mentions that no matter how much one reads or prepares, it is impossible to be fully ready for the experience of being a new mom. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1311</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Motherhood Exposed - Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/motherhood-exposed-part-1--66345675</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Many people dream of becoming parents, while others face unexpected surprises on their path to parenthood. In this thought-provoking podcast, we invite you to join us on a heartwarming and enlightening journey into the diverse and complex world of motherhood. Motherhood Exposed delves into the experiences of women from various walks of life who have embarked on the incredible voyage of motherhood. In this emotionally charged podcast, you'll hear firsthand accounts from mothers who share the raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic truths about their paths to parenthood. The podcast opens with a reflection on the pivotal moment when these women made the decision to become mothers. Kelly, a new mom, and Ratna, also a new mom, speak candidly about the importance of normalizing the experience and the weight of cultural pressures. They emphasize that the decision to become a mother should be deeply personal, based on one's own desires, rather than external expectations. The stories continue with Jamie, whose journey to motherhood was filled with years of trying to conceive, fertility treatments, and heartbreaking losses. Her experience highlights that even when the choice to become a mom is conscious and unwavering, the journey can be marked by a rollercoaster of emotions, from unbridled excitement to paralyzing fear. One common thread among these women's stories is the unpredictability of the journey to motherhood. Kelly, with older children, shares how every pregnancy experience differs, while Ratna and Jamie faced unexpected twists and turns that forced them to adapt to new and unforeseen realities. Their stories remind us that life often throws curveballs into our carefully laid plans. The podcast also delves into the complex reality of pregnancy. Kelly's candid recounting of her physical discomfort during pregnancy, including shortness of breath and incontinence, shatters the myth of the "glowing" expectant mother portrayed in media. For Jamie, pregnancy was an anxiety-laden journey fraught with worry and fear. Her story serves as a poignant reminder of the emotional toll pregnancy can take, even when the desire for a child is unwavering. Motherhood Exposed, Part 1, is a profound exploration of the multifaceted experiences of becoming a mother. The podcast reminds us of the importance of making the deeply personal decision to become a parent, free from societal pressures, and that the path to motherhood is anything but predictable. Whether you find bliss in pregnancy or face its challenges head-on, what truly matters is the love and care you provide your child once they arrive. Motherhood is a deeply personal and unique journey, and this podcast reaffirms that there is no one-size-fits-all experience. Join us on this moving expedition into the uncharted territory of motherhood. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/fa7ea2c4-7e40-35fa-8028-c54393bcf200</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2023 23:22:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345675/councler_cafe_being_pregnant8zuoy.mp3" length="16031597" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Many people dream of becoming parents, while others face unexpected surprises on their path to parenthood. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Many people dream of becoming parents, while others face unexpected surprises on their path to parenthood. In this thought-provoking podcast, we invite you to join us on a heartwarming and enlightening journey into the diverse and complex world of motherhood. Motherhood Exposed delves into the experiences of women from various walks of life who have embarked on the incredible voyage of motherhood. In this emotionally charged podcast, you'll hear firsthand accounts from mothers who share the raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic truths about their paths to parenthood. The podcast opens with a reflection on the pivotal moment when these women made the decision to become mothers. Kelly, a new mom, and Ratna, also a new mom, speak candidly about the importance of normalizing the experience and the weight of cultural pressures. They emphasize that the decision to become a mother should be deeply personal, based on one's own desires, rather than external expectations. The stories continue with Jamie, whose journey to motherhood was filled with years of trying to conceive, fertility treatments, and heartbreaking losses. Her experience highlights that even when the choice to become a mom is conscious and unwavering, the journey can be marked by a rollercoaster of emotions, from unbridled excitement to paralyzing fear. One common thread among these women's stories is the unpredictability of the journey to motherhood. Kelly, with older children, shares how every pregnancy experience differs, while Ratna and Jamie faced unexpected twists and turns that forced them to adapt to new and unforeseen realities. Their stories remind us that life often throws curveballs into our carefully laid plans. The podcast also delves into the complex reality of pregnancy. Kelly's candid recounting of her physical discomfort during pregnancy, including shortness of breath and incontinence, shatters the myth of the "glowing" expectant mother portrayed in media. For Jamie, pregnancy was an anxiety-laden journey fraught with worry and fear. Her story serves as a poignant reminder of the emotional toll pregnancy can take, even when the desire for a child is unwavering. Motherhood Exposed, Part 1, is a profound exploration of the multifaceted experiences of becoming a mother. The podcast reminds us of the importance of making the deeply personal decision to become a parent, free from societal pressures, and that the path to motherhood is anything but predictable. Whether you find bliss in pregnancy or face its challenges head-on, what truly matters is the love and care you provide your child once they arrive. Motherhood is a deeply personal and unique journey, and this podcast reaffirms that there is no one-size-fits-all experience. Join us on this moving expedition into the uncharted territory of motherhood. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1277</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Truth About Codependency and How to Break Free</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-truth-about-codependency-and-how-to-break-free--66345677</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly delves into the intricate world of codependency traits, offering valuable insights and guidance. Codependency, often referred to as "relationship addiction," is a complex emotional and behavioral condition that can affect anyone. Kelly provides a comprehensive exploration of codependency, its origins, and its impact on individuals and their relationships. In this discussion, you'll discover how codependency traits are learned behaviors, often rooted in family dynamics and generational influences. Kelly emphasizes that, while these behaviors are challenging, they can be unlearned. She shares practical advice on how to recognize codependent traits in yourself and others, fostering a path toward healthier, more balanced relationships. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode and gain a deeper understanding of codependency, its effects, and how to break free from its grip. Whether you're personally dealing with codependency or seeking insights to help others, this podcast offers valuable knowledge and practical solutions. Don't miss this eye-opening discussion with Kelly O'Horo on "Adaptable Behavior Explained: Understanding Codependency Traits." I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. Helpful books: Codependency No More, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**K -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/2dbe2372-8527-38ca-a046-a7b37882266e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2023 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345677/co_dependency.mp3" length="17088219" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly delves into the intricate world of codependency traits, offering valuable insights and guidance. Codependency, often referred to as "relationship addiction," is a complex emotional and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly delves into the intricate world of codependency traits, offering valuable insights and guidance. Codependency, often referred to as "relationship addiction," is a complex emotional and behavioral condition that can affect anyone. Kelly provides a comprehensive exploration of codependency, its origins, and its impact on individuals and their relationships. In this discussion, you'll discover how codependency traits are learned behaviors, often rooted in family dynamics and generational influences. Kelly emphasizes that, while these behaviors are challenging, they can be unlearned. She shares practical advice on how to recognize codependent traits in yourself and others, fostering a path toward healthier, more balanced relationships. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode and gain a deeper understanding of codependency, its effects, and how to break free from its grip. Whether you're personally dealing with codependency or seeking insights to help others, this podcast offers valuable knowledge and practical solutions. Don't miss this eye-opening discussion with Kelly O'Horo on "Adaptable Behavior Explained: Understanding Codependency Traits." I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. Helpful books: Codependency No More, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**K -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo </a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1363</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>On the Spectrum: A Parent’s Journey with Autism</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/on-the-spectrum-a-parent-s-journey-with-autism--66345678</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly O'Horo and Taylor O'Horo discuss Taylor's experience as a parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). She shares her journey, her son's initial diagnosis, the challenges and emotions that followed, and the support network she built. Taylor also talks about advocating for her child, finding the right resources, and the importance of trusting one's instincts. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Sources to Help: <a href="https://autismcenter.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://autismcenter.org/</a><a href="https://cdtkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://cdtkids.com/ </a><a href="https://www.autismspeaks.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.autismspeaks.org/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/5ac08787-4ad4-3a5f-a794-b5577996864f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2023 20:26:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345678/parenting_kids_on_the_autism_spectrumbck9m.mp3" length="18205900" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly O'Horo and Taylor O'Horo discuss Taylor's experience as a parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). She shares her journey, her son's initial diagnosis, the challenges...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly O'Horo and Taylor O'Horo discuss Taylor's experience as a parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). She shares her journey, her son's initial diagnosis, the challenges and emotions that followed, and the support network she built. Taylor also talks about advocating for her child, finding the right resources, and the importance of trusting one's instincts. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Sources to Help: <a href="https://autismcenter.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://autismcenter.org/</a><a href="https://cdtkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://cdtkids.com/ </a><a href="https://www.autismspeaks.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.autismspeaks.org/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1457</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What is EMDR (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-emdr-part-2--66345658</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This is part 2 of What is EMDR Therapy. Kelly discusses EMDR Therapy, focusing on how it is believed to work and the wide range of presenting issues it can address. She explains that EMDR therapy integrates principles from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, and somatic therapies, addressing past, present, and future anxieties. Kelly also mentions the importance of finding a licensed, trained therapist for EMDR treatment and offers resources to help viewers find one in their area. Overall, she emphasizes the transformative and healing potential of EMDR therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/125fb851-2438-3587-b7bf-100c8382a314</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Oct 2023 17:12:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345658/emdr_therapy_part_27wm9h.mp3" length="14121251" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This is part 2 of What is EMDR Therapy. Kelly discusses EMDR Therapy, focusing on how it is believed to work and the wide range of presenting issues it can address. She explains that EMDR therapy integrates...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This is part 2 of What is EMDR Therapy. Kelly discusses EMDR Therapy, focusing on how it is believed to work and the wide range of presenting issues it can address. She explains that EMDR therapy integrates principles from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, and somatic therapies, addressing past, present, and future anxieties. Kelly also mentions the importance of finding a licensed, trained therapist for EMDR treatment and offers resources to help viewers find one in their area. Overall, she emphasizes the transformative and healing potential of EMDR therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1117</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What is EMDR? (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-emdr-part-1--66345679</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we explore the transformative world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This guide is perfect for those interested in understanding EMDR's power, whether you're a potential client or simply curious. Learn how to find a qualified EMDR therapist and uncover the captivating history of EMDR, discovered accidentally by its founder, Francine Shapiro, in a park. <a href="http://www.emdria.org" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.emdria.org </a> Explore EMDR's core, the Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) model, addressing past traumas, present triggers, and future anxieties. Discover why EMDR therapy stands out for facilitating profound physiological changes and reprocessing memories. Hear personal stories of EMDR's life-changing effects and understand the eight EMDR process phases that guide clients to healing and resolution. Whether considering EMDR therapy or expanding your therapeutic knowledge, this podcast offers insights into the path of relief, resilience, and lasting change EMDR therapy offers. Don't miss out! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/cf99ed93-c79e-351e-9565-c08476a1792f</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Oct 2023 17:10:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345679/what_is_emdr_part_186ar6.mp3" length="17059858" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we explore the transformative world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This guide is perfect for those interested in understanding EMDR's power, whether you're a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we explore the transformative world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This guide is perfect for those interested in understanding EMDR's power, whether you're a potential client or simply curious. Learn how to find a qualified EMDR therapist and uncover the captivating history of EMDR, discovered accidentally by its founder, Francine Shapiro, in a park. <a href="http://www.emdria.org" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.emdria.org </a> Explore EMDR's core, the Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) model, addressing past traumas, present triggers, and future anxieties. Discover why EMDR therapy stands out for facilitating profound physiological changes and reprocessing memories. Hear personal stories of EMDR's life-changing effects and understand the eight EMDR process phases that guide clients to healing and resolution. Whether considering EMDR therapy or expanding your therapeutic knowledge, this podcast offers insights into the path of relief, resilience, and lasting change EMDR therapy offers. Don't miss out! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1362</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Chronic Stress and the Impact to the Body</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/chronic-stress-and-the-impact-to-the-body--66345659</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! "The Ripple Effects of Stress on Our Health: A Comprehensive Exploration," delves into the intricate relationship between stress and overall health. It discusses how stress, when accumulated due to adverse childhood experiences or prolonged exposure, can significantly impact our body systems. The article explores the body's response to stress, including its effects on the cardiovascular, nervous, immune, digestive, and endocrine systems. It emphasizes the importance of addressing stress for holistic well-being, highlighting the interconnectedness of mental and physical health. Collaborative efforts between mental health professionals and medical providers are recommended to address unresolved stress and achieve better overall health and quality of life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/624ec677-3fb3-3030-8b04-0b42a9cabbfb</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Oct 2023 17:07:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345659/physiological_resilience_understanding_fight_freeze_flee8se94.mp3" length="11715225" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! "The Ripple Effects of Stress on Our Health: A Comprehensive Exploration," delves into the intricate relationship between stress and overall health. It discusses how stress, when accumulated due to adverse...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! "The Ripple Effects of Stress on Our Health: A Comprehensive Exploration," delves into the intricate relationship between stress and overall health. It discusses how stress, when accumulated due to adverse childhood experiences or prolonged exposure, can significantly impact our body systems. The article explores the body's response to stress, including its effects on the cardiovascular, nervous, immune, digestive, and endocrine systems. It emphasizes the importance of addressing stress for holistic well-being, highlighting the interconnectedness of mental and physical health. Collaborative efforts between mental health professionals and medical providers are recommended to address unresolved stress and achieve better overall health and quality of life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>916</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Navigating Relationships with EFT Therapy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-relationships-with-eft-therapy--66345626</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Unlock the power of emotional connection with EFT Couples Therapy. Join us in this transformative journey to deeper love and understanding. Explore how this evidence-based approach can rekindle your relationship's flame. 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> #EFTCouplesTherapy #LoveAndConnection]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/1dc1dc36-8e66-34a7-87d6-da1cf54cd3f0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2023 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345626/navigating_relationships_with_eft_therapy9jwgd.mp3" length="20970157" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Unlock the power of emotional connection with EFT Couples Therapy. Join us in this transformative journey to deeper love and understanding. Explore how this evidence-based approach can rekindle your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Unlock the power of emotional connection with EFT Couples Therapy. Join us in this transformative journey to deeper love and understanding. Explore how this evidence-based approach can rekindle your relationship's flame. 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc </a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> #EFTCouplesTherapy #LoveAndConnection]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1689</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Big Feelings: Understanding Emotions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/big-feelings-understanding-emotions--66345633</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding emotions is crucial because they are the intricate language of our inner world, profoundly shaping our thoughts, actions, and interactions. Emotions serve as powerful signals that guide us through life's complexities, helping us adapt and thrive. Firstly, comprehending emotions enables effective self-awareness. When we recognize and name our emotions, we gain insight into our desires, needs, and motivations. This self-awareness empowers us to make informed decisions, manage stress, and cultivate resilience. Secondly, emotions play a pivotal role in our relationships. Recognizing and empathizing with others' emotions fosters deeper connections and effective communication. It helps build trust, resolve conflicts, and promote healthier interactions. Moreover, emotions are integral to decision-making. They provide valuable information about what matters to us and can guide choices that align with our values and goals. Emotions also impact our physical and mental well-being. Chronic emotional stress can lead to health issues, while positive emotions enhance overall happiness and psychological resilience. In essence, understanding emotions is essential for navigating life's intricacies. It empowers us to live authentically, build meaningful relationships, make sound decisions, and prioritize our well-being. Ultimately, emotional intelligence is the key to a more fulfilling and harmonious life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/c2a13568-b194-3438-98cc-c04cf166126d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2023 20:14:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345633/understanding_your_emotionsagb58.mp3" length="15933351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding emotions is crucial because they are the intricate language of our inner world, profoundly shaping our thoughts, actions, and interactions. Emotions serve as powerful signals that guide us...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding emotions is crucial because they are the intricate language of our inner world, profoundly shaping our thoughts, actions, and interactions. Emotions serve as powerful signals that guide us through life's complexities, helping us adapt and thrive. Firstly, comprehending emotions enables effective self-awareness. When we recognize and name our emotions, we gain insight into our desires, needs, and motivations. This self-awareness empowers us to make informed decisions, manage stress, and cultivate resilience. Secondly, emotions play a pivotal role in our relationships. Recognizing and empathizing with others' emotions fosters deeper connections and effective communication. It helps build trust, resolve conflicts, and promote healthier interactions. Moreover, emotions are integral to decision-making. They provide valuable information about what matters to us and can guide choices that align with our values and goals. Emotions also impact our physical and mental well-being. Chronic emotional stress can lead to health issues, while positive emotions enhance overall happiness and psychological resilience. In essence, understanding emotions is essential for navigating life's intricacies. It empowers us to live authentically, build meaningful relationships, make sound decisions, and prioritize our well-being. Ultimately, emotional intelligence is the key to a more fulfilling and harmonious life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1262</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Breaking the Cycle: Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-the-cycle-understanding-adverse-childhood-experiences--66345663</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over "fill in" I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Links for more info: <a href="https://www.canp.uscourts.gov/forms/ACEs%20Assessment.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.canp.uscourts.gov/forms/ACEs%20Assessment.pdf</a><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/e82f82bd-4efe-3c34-a908-ca5b77f82cb8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345663/adverse_childhood_experiencebhavj.mp3" length="9626425" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over "fill in" I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over "fill in" I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a> Links for more info: <a href="https://www.canp.uscourts.gov/forms/ACEs%20Assessment.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.canp.uscourts.gov/forms/ACEs%20Assessment.pdf</a><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>744</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How We Work (Pt.2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-we-work-pt-2--66345635</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/653690d3-916d-3e39-9484-e38a76562c37</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Aug 2023 23:50:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345635/how_we_work_part_26h1ji.mp3" length="17169514" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1372</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How We Work (Pt. 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-we-work-pt-1--66345655</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">AdaptableBehaviorExplained.podbean.com/7ffa3150-e1a2-3f91-aed9-39cc173d9df9</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Aug 2023 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345655/how_we_work7o8jl.mp3" length="15107368" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing! I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all. -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1201</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Get to Know Kelly O’Horo</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-to-know-kelly-o-horo--66345665</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes opens up to who I am as a person, professional, and why I'm starting this podcast. Stay tuned for many more episodes to come and thank you for tuning in! I’m Kelly O’Horo, MC, NCC, and am the founder of Infinite Healing &amp; Wellness. I’ve been a counselor since 2008 and bring objectivity, perspective, and compassion to assist with this journey. I have 5 children, 3 of whom have military backgrounds, that being said, I know a thing or two about trauma personally speaking. In addition, I'm on the Faculty for The Center for Excellence in EMDR Therapy as a Facilitator, I'm an Approved Consultant, and Certified EMDR Therapist with EMDRIA. I'm also a Certified Daring Way Facilitator and love to incorporate the work of Dr. Brené Brown into my counseling practice. I believe in lifelong learning and understand that we all are just doing the best we can with what we know! Formerly a teacher, I am able to assist with the education that must take place in order to better see the adaptive patterns present in your life. This process is about learning, then unlearning, and relearning something more helpful! Each person is unique, and I will work to provide a nurturing atmosphere to help you facilitate healing, strength, accountability, forgiveness, and boundary setting, allowing you to experience “limitless opportunity for growth.” -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">info6pz.podbean.com/87cf3629-9357-37b0-9dfb-c8d0c80ec785</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Aug 2023 21:29:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66345665/get_to_know_kelly_o_horobazzz.mp3" length="14815619" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Kelly O'Horo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes opens up to who I am as a person, professional, and why I'm starting this podcast. Stay tuned for many more episodes to come and thank you for tuning in! I’m Kelly O’Horo, MC, NCC, and am...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes opens up to who I am as a person, professional, and why I'm starting this podcast. Stay tuned for many more episodes to come and thank you for tuning in! I’m Kelly O’Horo, MC, NCC, and am the founder of Infinite Healing &amp; Wellness. I’ve been a counselor since 2008 and bring objectivity, perspective, and compassion to assist with this journey. I have 5 children, 3 of whom have military backgrounds, that being said, I know a thing or two about trauma personally speaking. In addition, I'm on the Faculty for The Center for Excellence in EMDR Therapy as a Facilitator, I'm an Approved Consultant, and Certified EMDR Therapist with EMDRIA. I'm also a Certified Daring Way Facilitator and love to incorporate the work of Dr. Brené Brown into my counseling practice. I believe in lifelong learning and understand that we all are just doing the best we can with what we know! Formerly a teacher, I am able to assist with the education that must take place in order to better see the adaptive patterns present in your life. This process is about learning, then unlearning, and relearning something more helpful! Each person is unique, and I will work to provide a nurturing atmosphere to help you facilitate healing, strength, accountability, forgiveness, and boundary setting, allowing you to experience “limitless opportunity for growth.” -- Links -- <a href="https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/kellyohorolpc</a><a href="https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtu.be/rLnARKekvgo</a><a href="https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1176</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f71794a5187516c9357149e68023865.jpg"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
