https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-scaries-with-matty-rossi--6577544enRelationshipsCopyright Matt Rossihttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/515fe55cbf1bda634e64e3535992421b.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-scaries-with-matty-rossi--6577544Sun, 16 Aug 2026 17:25:06 +0000Matt RossiMatt Rossifeeds@spreaker.comThe Scaries with Matty Rossi is your go-to podcast for debriefing the weekend and shaking off The Scaries. Each week, listeners submit their funniest, messiest, and craziest stories or questions—whether it’s cringe-worthy confessions, relationship...trueepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-manifest-your-husband-ft-liv-schreiber--74136019This week, I’m joined by Liv Schreiber, creator of Hot & Single, to talk about how to approach dating differently—from making a “husband list” and getting clear on what you actually want in a partner to creating more opportunities to meet people in real life.
We get into dating app burnout, how to be more open to connection in your everyday life, the pressure to find “the one,” and why being single should be a chapter you actually enjoy instead of something you’re constantly trying to escape.
We also talk about making friends as an adult, building community, the unexpected power of intergenerational friendships, and why romantic relationships aren’t the only connections worth investing in.
Plus, we answer your Scaries about dating, friendship, and putting yourself out there when you feel completely stuck.]]>bf699c9b-2689-4ece-881c-bf413a3cd034Sun, 16 Aug 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiWhat if finding your person has less to do with swiping and more to do with actually putting yourself out there? This week, I’m joined by Liv Schreiber, creator of Hot & Single, to talk about how to approach dating differently—from making a...This week, I’m joined by Liv Schreiber, creator of Hot & Single, to talk about how to approach dating differently—from making a “husband list” and getting clear on what you actually want in a partner to creating more opportunities to meet people in real life.
We get into dating app burnout, how to be more open to connection in your everyday life, the pressure to find “the one,” and why being single should be a chapter you actually enjoy instead of something you’re constantly trying to escape.
We also talk about making friends as an adult, building community, the unexpected power of intergenerational friendships, and why romantic relationships aren’t the only connections worth investing in.
Plus, we answer your Scaries about dating, friendship, and putting yourself out there when you feel completely stuck.]]>3174false220fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-look-good-naked--73724321He breaks down finding a workout you genuinely enjoy, setting measurable goals, figuring out nutrition without relying on extreme diets, creating accountability, and avoiding the habits that can quietly sabotage your progress. He also gets into the impact of alcohol, the importance of recovery, and why consistency matters more than perfection.
But ultimately, looking good naked isn’t really the point. Matty shares how his relationship with fitness has shifted from chasing a certain body to focusing on performance, longevity, confidence, and taking care of himself.
Because you can want to change your body without hating the one you have now.]]>7c25299d-ba84-4048-a2c0-ba6dd66c02b6Sun, 09 Aug 2026 19:28:29 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matty focuses on one Scary he’s received again and again: “I hate the way I look naked.” After years of gaining and losing weight, trying different diets, and figuring out how to make fitness fit into his life, Matty shares the five things...He breaks down finding a workout you genuinely enjoy, setting measurable goals, figuring out nutrition without relying on extreme diets, creating accountability, and avoiding the habits that can quietly sabotage your progress. He also gets into the impact of alcohol, the importance of recovery, and why consistency matters more than perfection.
But ultimately, looking good naked isn’t really the point. Matty shares how his relationship with fitness has shifted from chasing a certain body to focusing on performance, longevity, confidence, and taking care of himself.
Because you can want to change your body without hating the one you have now.]]>1524false219fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/answering-the-questions-i-ve-been-avoiding-part-3--73343381We get into dating, relationships, friendships, and a lot of the personal questions I’ve never really addressed before. I also answer your Scary submissions, including everything from navigating a bachelor party as the only gay guy to some of the internet’s most ridiculous hypotheticals.
To close out the episode, I share my thoughts on the conversation surrounding Nantucket’s viral “No Influencers” sign and why it sparked so much debate. If you’ve been waiting for a life update, this one’s for you.]]>bd084c2b-33b2-4eeb-a47a-94ce3a490b93Sun, 02 Aug 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThe last month has been a whirlwind—from Fourth of July in Provincetown to spending time with my family at our lake house in New Hampshire. In this episode, I’m catching you up on everything that’s happened while answering some of the most requested...We get into dating, relationships, friendships, and a lot of the personal questions I’ve never really addressed before. I also answer your Scary submissions, including everything from navigating a bachelor party as the only gay guy to some of the internet’s most ridiculous hypotheticals.
To close out the episode, I share my thoughts on the conversation surrounding Nantucket’s viral “No Influencers” sign and why it sparked so much debate. If you’ve been waiting for a life update, this one’s for you.]]>2781true218fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nobody-has-it-figured-out-ft-benjamin-chipman--73179978From growing up in New England and navigating Boston’s unique gay scene to graduating during COVID and entering adulthood in a world full of uncertainty, they reflect on the experiences that shaped them. They share the biggest lessons they’ve learned in their twenties, discuss building a career outside of your 9-to-5, and debate whether Boston or New York really comes out on top.
Plus, they answer listener submissions about quarter-life crises, career anxiety, relationships, and the pressure to have your life together before you actually do.]]>9334854f-386d-40ba-83fe-faf901c9b0dbSun, 26 Jul 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matt is joined by creator Benjamin Chipman for a conversation about navigating your twenties when everyone else seems to have it all figured out. From growing up in New England and navigating Boston’s unique gay scene to graduating during...From growing up in New England and navigating Boston’s unique gay scene to graduating during COVID and entering adulthood in a world full of uncertainty, they reflect on the experiences that shaped them. They share the biggest lessons they’ve learned in their twenties, discuss building a career outside of your 9-to-5, and debate whether Boston or New York really comes out on top.
Plus, they answer listener submissions about quarter-life crises, career anxiety, relationships, and the pressure to have your life together before you actually do.]]>3396false2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mythbusting-your-assumptions-about-me--73057447In this solo episode of The Scaries, I’m rating your assumptions as true, false, or it’s complicated while opening up about the topics I don’t usually address online.
We talk about whether I’m actually nice in person, being called a fame chaser, why I came out publicly, the importance of LGBTQ+ representation, privilege versus being “spoiled,” and why the internet is so fascinated with my sex life.
Then we wrap things up with a rapid-fire round featuring your funniest (and most unhinged) assumptions—from sitting down to pee to giving away my credit card while blacked out.
This episode is about perception, identity, and the reminder that we’re all a lot more complicated than the version of ourselves people see on social media.]]>673ecb6a-ae23-43e2-9d44-0f849ff2cdffSun, 19 Jul 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiI asked you to send me your most controversial assumptions, opinions, and theories about me… and you absolutely delivered. In this solo episode of The Scaries, I’m rating your assumptions as true, false, or it’s complicated while opening up about the...In this solo episode of The Scaries, I’m rating your assumptions as true, false, or it’s complicated while opening up about the topics I don’t usually address online.
We talk about whether I’m actually nice in person, being called a fame chaser, why I came out publicly, the importance of LGBTQ+ representation, privilege versus being “spoiled,” and why the internet is so fascinated with my sex life.
Then we wrap things up with a rapid-fire round featuring your funniest (and most unhinged) assumptions—from sitting down to pee to giving away my credit card while blacked out.
This episode is about perception, identity, and the reminder that we’re all a lot more complicated than the version of ourselves people see on social media.]]>2266false216fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-tiktok-replacing-the-news-ft-daniel-dana--72940172They talk about Daniel’s surreal first interview with Vera Wang, learning by doing instead of waiting until you’re “ready,” the realities of becoming a creator, and why so many people feel stuck between a stable career and taking a leap.
They also get into internet culture, the Alix Earle vs. Alex Cooper drama, growing up in Miami, constantly being mistaken for Hispanic, the weirdest trends Daniel has covered, and—somehow—his completely irrational fear of yogurt.
Plus, they answer Scaries submissions about quitting your job without a plan, feeling embarrassed to post online, family members who don’t think content creation is a real career, and staying sane when TikTok makes the world feel like it’s ending.]]>38271c71-fbe1-4675-9c9c-f73cdb9d085dSun, 12 Jul 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matt is joined by creator, journalist, and Gen Me host Daniel Dana, who shares why he walked away from ABC News and Good Morning America to build a career on his own terms. They talk about Daniel’s surreal first interview with Vera Wang,...They talk about Daniel’s surreal first interview with Vera Wang, learning by doing instead of waiting until you’re “ready,” the realities of becoming a creator, and why so many people feel stuck between a stable career and taking a leap.
They also get into internet culture, the Alix Earle vs. Alex Cooper drama, growing up in Miami, constantly being mistaken for Hispanic, the weirdest trends Daniel has covered, and—somehow—his completely irrational fear of yogurt.
Plus, they answer Scaries submissions about quitting your job without a plan, feeling embarrassed to post online, family members who don’t think content creation is a real career, and staying sane when TikTok makes the world feel like it’s ending.]]>3941false215fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/spilling-all-the-tea-with-zachary-reality--72730384Matt and Zach discuss the future of The Bachelor, the Amanda & West fallout, the ethics of spilling reality TV gossip, and which shows are actually worth watching right now.
Then they flip the script as Zach puts Matt in the hot seat to talk about his own reality TV experience, what viewers didn’t see, and his current love life.]]>d57b5d14-dd95-4a12-bba7-f39e4ebef623Sun, 28 Jun 2026 16:00:01 +0000Matt RossiReality TV expert Zachary Reality joins The Scaries to break down everything happening in the world of reality television—from Love Island and Bachelor Nation to Bravo drama, behind-the-scenes tea, and the biggest stories on and off the screen. Matt...Matt and Zach discuss the future of The Bachelor, the Amanda & West fallout, the ethics of spilling reality TV gossip, and which shows are actually worth watching right now.
Then they flip the script as Zach puts Matt in the hot seat to talk about his own reality TV experience, what viewers didn’t see, and his current love life.]]>2984false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/he-matched-with-dad-on-what--72621711We’re talking accidental family encounters on dating apps, anonymous hookups gone horribly wrong, ankle bracelets in the bedroom, and the awkward reality of sleeping with someone only to end up at his wife’s bakery the very next day.
Plus, a listener wonders if it’s too late to restart their life at 29, leading to a conversation about career pivots, taking risks, and why your timeline might not be as far behind as you think.
Happy Father’s Day. This one is absolute chaos. 💀🌈🫡]]>9716c46e-d02a-458e-bf03-1346297ee00eSun, 21 Jun 2026 16:40:41 +0000Matt RossiHappy Father’s Day, Scaries. This week, Matt recaps Pride Month in NYC and shares his thoughts on Olivia Rodrigo’s new album before diving into some of the most unhinged listener submissions we’ve ever received. We’re talking accidental family...We’re talking accidental family encounters on dating apps, anonymous hookups gone horribly wrong, ankle bracelets in the bedroom, and the awkward reality of sleeping with someone only to end up at his wife’s bakery the very next day.
Plus, a listener wonders if it’s too late to restart their life at 29, leading to a conversation about career pivots, taking risks, and why your timeline might not be as far behind as you think.
Happy Father’s Day. This one is absolute chaos. 💀🌈🫡]]>2053true213fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-things-i-wish-i-knew-before-i-came-out--7252479854010eb4-8b7c-4ed5-8e26-75c19c5053fbSun, 14 Jun 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiFor week two of our Pride Month series, Matt reflects on the first year since coming out and shares the five things he wishes someone had told him beforehand. From fears that never came true, to navigating dating, friendship, identity, and self-worth,...2222false212fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pride-in-outs-ft-our-resident-twink-billy-duke--72404348Also in this episode: Billy learns the original purpose of a jockstrap, we read Scaries submitted by members of the LGBTQ+ community, and we close things out with another chaotic round of This or That. 🌈🏳️‍🌈]]>fe05f0c6-8990-4df5-84f8-4a04860da03eSun, 07 Jun 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIt’s officially Pride Month, and Billy Duke is back for the first episode of our Pride series. The two reflect on their friendship and the past year since Matt came out, sharing stories from their adventures, favorite memories, and everything that’s...Also in this episode: Billy learns the original purpose of a jockstrap, we read Scaries submitted by members of the LGBTQ+ community, and we close things out with another chaotic round of This or That. 🌈🏳️‍🌈]]>3491true211fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/answering-the-questions-i-ve-been-avoiding-part-2--72264421I also rank some of NYC’s most overrated and underrated spots and share a few opinions that will probably get me into trouble. No guest. No filter. Just me continuing to answer the questions I probably should’ve ignored.]]>8644c1b9-3419-4080-9e0e-6521b81d7696Sun, 31 May 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThe questions keep getting worse, so naturally we’re doing a Part 2. This week I’m answering more of your questions, including whether I’d ever start an OnlyFans, addressing the rumors about my shlong, and the biggest differences between dating men...I also rank some of NYC’s most overrated and underrated spots and share a few opinions that will probably get me into trouble. No guest. No filter. Just me continuing to answer the questions I probably should’ve ignored.]]>2144true210fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/comparing-wieners-with-tj-dinch--72143266Plus: hookup horror stories, stopping sex to protect a Duolingo streak (before discovering TJ has no idea what Duolingo even is), and the Charleston gay dating scene. The episode ends with a brutal round of “Wiener or Loser,” where TJ rates his cast mates live on the spot.]]>80ea7147-2f13-482f-ad8b-5980db75ab15Sun, 24 May 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week Matt is joined by TJ Dinch from Southern Hospitality for a chaotic episode covering everything from reality TV drama to… wieners. TJ spills all the tea on the latest season, what’s ahead for the finale, and what it’s actually like filming...Plus: hookup horror stories, stopping sex to protect a Duolingo streak (before discovering TJ has no idea what Duolingo even is), and the Charleston gay dating scene. The episode ends with a brutal round of “Wiener or Loser,” where TJ rates his cast mates live on the spot.]]>3554true29fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gay-trauma-dms-from-troye-sivan--72043046From people pleasing and chasing unavailable people to body dysmorphia, validation seeking, perfectionism, and “Perfect Boy Syndrome” — the pressure many queer men feel to be attractive, successful, likable, emotionally easy, and constantly impressive just to feel worthy.
Matt opens up about the survival tactics many queer men develop growing up, how lying for self-protection can make authenticity feel unfamiliar, and what it actually looks like to unlearn behaviors that once kept you safe.]]>9cd89ee7-4874-4889-89a3-776945ed8e1aSun, 17 May 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week starts with Matt getting a DM from Troye Sivan… and somehow spirals into a full breakdown on the long-term effects of growing up queer. From people pleasing and chasing unavailable people to body dysmorphia, validation seeking,...From people pleasing and chasing unavailable people to body dysmorphia, validation seeking, perfectionism, and “Perfect Boy Syndrome” — the pressure many queer men feel to be attractive, successful, likable, emotionally easy, and constantly impressive just to feel worthy.
Matt opens up about the survival tactics many queer men develop growing up, how lying for self-protection can make authenticity feel unfamiliar, and what it actually looks like to unlearn behaviors that once kept you safe.]]>2771false28fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-got-scammed-at-coachella-then-ran-the-boston-marathon--71948154Then it’s straight from the desert to Boston Marathon weekend, reflecting on one year since coming out to his parents, what personal growth actually looks like, and why the real definition of a PR has nothing to do with finish times.
The episode closes with one of the happiest moments yet: officiating his best friend’s wedding and bringing a plus one to a wedding for the very first time.]]>eea0f46f-0980-4e9d-bb80-962eaca2851eSun, 10 May 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week on The Scaries: a long overdue life update episode. Matt recaps his first ever Coachella experience, including the ticket scam situation that spiraled into one of the most viral videos he’s ever posted — plus all the behind-the-scenes chaos...Then it’s straight from the desert to Boston Marathon weekend, reflecting on one year since coming out to his parents, what personal growth actually looks like, and why the real definition of a PR has nothing to do with finish times.
The episode closes with one of the happiest moments yet: officiating his best friend’s wedding and bringing a plus one to a wedding for the very first time.]]>3558true27fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/our-worst-hook-up-stories-ever-ft-joey-camasta--71841578They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories — from chaotic run-ins with Häagen-Dazs delivery drivers to Matt’s infamous “bathroom wall incident” after a questionable dinner decision. It’s messy, it’s graphic (in the storytelling sense), and it’s exactly what you’d expect from two people who have zero business oversharing this much.
They also get into the realities of dog parenting (and why it weirdly feels like having a terminally ill child… in theory), Amish culture and Rumspringa fantasies, and a bunch of other completely unfiltered tangents. Safe to say… this is one of the wildest episodes in The Scaries history.]]>30752b6b-9131-41a8-9758-73d68f333abfSun, 03 May 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week on The Scaries, Matt is joined by comedian, podcaster, and social media personality Joey Camasta (aka best friend of Nicole ‘Snooki’ Polizzi) for one of the most unhinged episodes to date. They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories —...They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories — from chaotic run-ins with Häagen-Dazs delivery drivers to Matt’s infamous “bathroom wall incident” after a questionable dinner decision. It’s messy, it’s graphic (in the storytelling sense), and it’s exactly what you’d expect from two people who have zero business oversharing this much.
They also get into the realities of dog parenting (and why it weirdly feels like having a terminally ill child… in theory), Amish culture and Rumspringa fantasies, and a bunch of other completely unfiltered tangents. Safe to say… this is one of the wildest episodes in The Scaries history.]]>3376true26fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/robbed-at-gunpoint-horses-on-ozempic-ft-eric-goldie--71656929b1bf04d5-fccc-42aa-8efa-7c1808c7afb5Sun, 26 Apr 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThe Scaries is joined by Eric Goldie, social media personality and real estate agent. We get into all things Real Housewives, the Bachelorette cancellation, and the art of putting expensive purchases on your husband’s credit card. He also shares the...3986true25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/answering-the-questions-i-ve-been-avoiding--71463550We also get into some unhinged moments including how I got banned from a Four Seasons and a few stories that probably didn’t need more detail… but you’re getting it anyway.
Plus we talk about the weird duality of being in your 30s — going out one night and the next day your friends are having babies — along with conversations around body count, catching print, and everything in between. Nothing is off limits. Though some of it should be.]]>5a1c45a6-9f58-46e7-81e8-a6268c2bec70Sun, 19 Apr 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiFirst solo episode of Season 2 and we’re getting into it. I finally answer the questions I’ve been actively dodging — from my full dating history since coming out to my type, celebrity crushes, and the realities of life in NYC vs. Boston. We also get...We also get into some unhinged moments including how I got banned from a Four Seasons and a few stories that probably didn’t need more detail… but you’re getting it anyway.
Plus we talk about the weird duality of being in your 30s — going out one night and the next day your friends are having babies — along with conversations around body count, catching print, and everything in between. Nothing is off limits. Though some of it should be.]]>3268true24fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-resident-twink-returns-ft-billy-duke--71275973We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay dating scene.
As expected, it spirals into red flags, questionable advice, and pure chaos.]]>e484ceac-2508-4d16-a347-0fa8c1a48646Sun, 12 Apr 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiBilly Duke is back for his FOURTH appearance — our most recurring guest, resident twink, and still somehow the second most requested to return guest. We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay...We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay dating scene.
As expected, it spirals into red flags, questionable advice, and pure chaos.]]>3634falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/airdropped-your-what-ft-murray-hill-boy--71119709We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer (yes… exactly how you’re thinking). We talk about coming out at a young age in the most nonchalant way possible, being a full-on theater kid, and how a boring legal career shaped who he is now as a creator in NYC.
We also spiral into why people tend to date versions of their parents (whether they realize it or not), the realities of gay dating culture, and some truly unhinged modern behavior—including airdropping unsolicited pics to the homies.
We wrap with a game of Legit or Full of Sht*, where Max reacts to your submitted Scaries… and let’s just say hooking up with your HR director is, unfortunately, very real.]]>a9440a8b-07e7-49cb-b9e2-be02a2a888dcSun, 05 Apr 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMax Cohen (aka Murray Hill Boy) joins me for one of the most chaotic episodes of the season. We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer...We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer (yes… exactly how you’re thinking). We talk about coming out at a young age in the most nonchalant way possible, being a full-on theater kid, and how a boring legal career shaped who he is now as a creator in NYC.
We also spiral into why people tend to date versions of their parents (whether they realize it or not), the realities of gay dating culture, and some truly unhinged modern behavior—including airdropping unsolicited pics to the homies.
We wrap with a game of Legit or Full of Sht*, where Max reacts to your submitted Scaries… and let’s just say hooking up with your HR director is, unfortunately, very real.]]>3533true22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/am-i-dating-jake-eldridge--70978214Jake also opens up about his journey—from being a D1 football player at Rutgers to coming out publicly and building a new life as a model and internet personality in New York City. And of course, we tackle the hard-hitting question: would you rather have a micro-penis or a receding hairline?]]>89b639c7-a03e-443f-89f1-a6f2f1e75460Sun, 29 Mar 2026 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiSeason 2 is here and we’re starting with a bang. Jake Eldridge joins me for a long overdue conversation where we finally address the dating rumors, break down our types, biggest icks, and the realities of dating in 2026. We get into NYC nightlife, how...Jake also opens up about his journey—from being a D1 football player at Rutgers to coming out publicly and building a new life as a model and internet personality in New York City. And of course, we tackle the hard-hitting question: would you rather have a micro-penis or a receding hairline?]]>4315true21fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-scaries-holiday-spectacular-life-updates-holiday-chaos-what-s-next--69160144He reads listener-submitted Holiday Scaries, covering everything from hooking up with your crush at the holiday party and surviving Christmas shopping to handling political differences with family once the wine starts flowing.
Matt also talks about the importance of gay representation in TV, how one very hot show unexpectedly got him into hockey, and how coming out helped him stop people-pleasing and care less about internet opinions and hate comments.
The episode wraps with updates on The 29 Project and a preview of what’s coming in Season 2 of The Scaries Podcast.]]>5b4f325e-0852-4a56-b959-beab32a0336aSun, 21 Dec 2025 19:40:38 +0000Matt RossiIn this Holiday Spectacular, Matt catches listeners up on life since the Halloween Special—settling into NYC, solo traveling to London, and navigating dating in a new city. He reads listener-submitted Holiday Scaries, covering everything from hooking...He reads listener-submitted Holiday Scaries, covering everything from hooking up with your crush at the holiday party and surviving Christmas shopping to handling political differences with family once the wine starts flowing.
Matt also talks about the importance of gay representation in TV, how one very hot show unexpectedly got him into hockey, and how coming out helped him stop people-pleasing and care less about internet opinions and hate comments.
The episode wraps with updates on The 29 Project and a preview of what’s coming in Season 2 of The Scaries Podcast.]]>3842falsebonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-scaries-halloween-special-tricks-treats-twinks--683895904c694997-7f36-4714-968a-e55e64eb4f6aSun, 02 Nov 2025 17:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatt and his resident twink/BFF Billy Duke are back from the dead for a special out-of-season Scaries episode filled with horror stories, costume changes, and way too many tequila shots. From listener-submitted scaries to Matt’s own coming-out horror...5897falsebonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-25-season-finale-moving-breakups-being-on-your-own--6775471085494dcd-e0ff-40d8-84fe-9cdd8f439e15Sun, 14 Sep 2025 16:06:07 +0000Matt RossiIn the Season One finale, Matt unpacks what it really means to start over—moving to a new city, navigating breakups and open relationships, and finding comfort in your own company. From adjusting to life post-move in NYC to embracing independence, he...2959false125fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-24-dating-heart-attacks-eating-ass-family-group-chat-disasters-ft-the-bachelder-bros--67664980]]>e18da2a2-1d34-4c0a-9939-2488a88cee90Sun, 07 Sep 2025 16:10:41 +0000Matt RossiThe Bachelder Brothers (Chad and Sammy) join Matt on the couch for an unhinged mix of dating disasters, family confessions, and career chaos. Together they tackle Scaries like: a date having a heart attack, accidentally sending a nude to the family...]]>3529false124fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-23-live-from-banners-bachelor-singles-dating-event--67583611cb93a3c6-2e46-4081-9d94-57c007e396d1Mon, 01 Sep 2025 16:50:21 +0000Matt RossiWho said dating has to be scary? This episode comes straight from the Banners Bachelor singles event, where the drinks were flowing, the crowd was buzzing, and love (or at least situationships) was in the air. Guests from the audience share their...3506false123fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-22-how-to-quit-your-job-and-build-a-career-you-love--6749710598d93a47-63e6-418a-a925-b8767a67c2d5Sun, 24 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIn this episode, Matt shares the story of how he went from being the son of first-generation Italian immigrants—both entrepreneurs themselves—to carving his own path from a top university into a corporate career at PepsiCo. Along the way, he learned...3334false122fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-21-live-from-ritual-sweaty-scaries-situationships-soaked-sheets--674037488384216b-f09c-48ca-8238-539a7a96c67eSun, 17 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week’s episode is extra sweaty—recorded live at Ritual Social Wellness Club. Four guests pulled straight from the crowd join in to share their Sunday Scaries and help answer them. From two-year-long situationships to boyfriends with tragic guitar...2674false121fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-20-reflection-growth-thru-grindr-and-new-beginnings--6732249556fa898a-60ee-4250-921e-ee9427e06810Sun, 10 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIn this milestone 20th episode, Matt reflects on the past six months of The Scaries podcast and shares how social media played a pivotal role in his coming out journey. He recounts the first person he ever came out to, the moment he downloaded Grindr...3441false120fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-19-coming-out-growing-up-mormon-dance-icks-ft-dancing-with-the-stars-ezra-sosa--67238095fbfc1b1a-fa4a-4d07-ae09-3324a5138eabSun, 03 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matt is joined by Dancing with the Stars pro and TikTok sensation Ezra Sosa for a conversation that twirls between heartfelt and hilarious. Ezra opens up about coming out to a deeply religious family, growing up Mormon, and finding freedom...3283falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-18-answering-your-dating-questions-live-with-the-handle-bar--67144707ac9d07fd-bee5-44e3-ac13-e09bd2c4150dSun, 27 Jul 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatt hosts the first-ever Scaries live show at The Tall Ship in Boston with The Handle Bar—and the chaos did not disappoint. With help from his childhood bestie (🌹), he dives into your wildest dating and situationship questions in real time. From hot...1887false118fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-17-boston-dating-dead-exes-best-friend-crushes--67047648546817c3-7c1f-4434-a23c-b9ca15b1d71dSun, 20 Jul 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatt is joined by Boston-based content creator Narcolepsy Betsy to talk all things dating — from falling for your best friend to navigating the chaos of Boston situationships. They swap unfiltered stories, break down the red (and beige) flags, and...3845false117fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-16-dms-gay-bars-prep-oh-my--66966294ffd02a57-f9a1-4784-be13-b72ea9b9ef72Sun, 13 Jul 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatt is back from his EuroSummer adventures and is hitting the ground running. This week, he’s recapping your Fourth of July Scaries, reading some of his wildest DMs, and sharing the story of his very first time at a gay bar. Plus, a hilariously...2188false116fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-15-i-m-not-in-love-i-m-in-italy-ft-hot-tubs-gay-heartache-yoga-farts--66876249d2070e3d-61f8-4a4a-abc1-930845c68aa5Sun, 06 Jul 2025 16:00:01 +0000Matt RossiReporting live (and a bit overserved) from a Sardinian hot tub, Matt recaps the emotional aftermath of a recently ended situationship while poking holes in the fantasies of Call Me by Your Name. With surprise guest appearances from his family, an...1925false115fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-14-gay-sh-t-ft-transatlantic-lovers-sugar-daddies-falling-for-straight-men--66796273Halfway through, Billy hijacks the mic and flips the script, grilling Matt on all things bisexuality. It's the perfect sendoff to Pride Month filled with laughter, honesty, and lessons learned the hard way.]]>5dfae22c-cedb-4896-b0b7-2f61c6f1db60Sun, 29 Jun 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiTo close out Pride Month with the chaos it deserves, Matty’s resident twink Billy Duke is back in the studio—fresh off the sheets of last night’s Upper West Side hookup. After a Memorial Day weekend debut, Billy returns to unpack all the gay sh*t—from...Halfway through, Billy hijacks the mic and flips the script, grilling Matt on all things bisexuality. It's the perfect sendoff to Pride Month filled with laughter, honesty, and lessons learned the hard way.]]>4384false114fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-13-letting-that-sh-t-go-with-nina-purewal-ft-work-life-balance-trauma-grief-and-not-giving-a-f-ck-part-2--666960349017f02c-c8e9-4e11-81b9-d4fe1c1570b0Sun, 22 Jun 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiWe’re back with international best-selling author Nina Purewal for Part 2—and yes, we’re still letting that sh*t go. We kick things off with the chaos of work/life balance, then dive into trauma & grief, and learn how to not give a fuck (kinda)....2148false113fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-12-letting-that-sh-t-go-with-nina-purewal-ft-the-chatty-mind-anxiety-self-doubt-relationships-part-1--66566735They unpack listener submissions about comparison spirals, feeling behind in life, and dating confusion—all while exploring how to build self-trust and find calm in the chaos. Nina shares her journey from corporate hustle to mindfulness guru, and what it actually takes to start letting go.
This is Part 1 of a two-part episode on releasing what no longer serves you—mentally, emotionally, and professionally.]]>d175ee99-ad9a-4975-b2d0-79bf9bbe5863Sun, 15 Jun 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matty is joined by bestselling author and mindfulness guru Nina Purewal—his longtime mentor and friend—for a grounding convo on the “chatty mind,” anxiety, and self-doubt. They unpack listener submissions about comparison spirals, feeling...They unpack listener submissions about comparison spirals, feeling behind in life, and dating confusion—all while exploring how to build self-trust and find calm in the chaos. Nina shares her journey from corporate hustle to mindfulness guru, and what it actually takes to start letting go.
This is Part 1 of a two-part episode on releasing what no longer serves you—mentally, emotionally, and professionally.]]>3204false112fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-11-adults-friendships-pt-2-featuring-imposter-syndrome-boss-hookups-micropenis-sightings--66463725c34d76a4-6efb-4272-9264-dbd5314686d6Sun, 08 Jun 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatty’s best friend Ben Shore returns (last seen in Episode 3) for a chaotic catch-up that covers everything from imposter syndrome to the ethics of sleeping with your boss—and one micropenis sighting we’re still recovering from.3856false111fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-skeletons-out-of-the-closet-ft-matty-s-coming-out-story--66357779d7a045dc-e6ba-48c2-8870-e49debe2ad9dSun, 01 Jun 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIn celebration of the first day of Pride, Matty shares his full coming out story as a bisexual man—from years of silent confusion to the messy, beautiful process of finally living out loud. After a very public straight relationship on The...3565false110fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-memorial-day-weekend-special-ft-mafia-boyfriends-disappearing-acts-a-few-too-many-martinis--66287414c066207f-ab2c-4f15-84fd-3791edf2e8c1Mon, 26 May 2025 20:49:33 +0000Matt RossiFor the first time ever, we’re taking The Scaries out of the studio and into the group chat. This special Memorial Day episode was recorded on a friends weekend with some familiar faces—and some new ones—including the return of Anika Dhar from Episode...4660true19fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-8-matt-goes-to-therapy-ft-the-psychology-of-cheating-texting-your-ex-and-foot-fetishes--6614036361ea2abb-5075-4fee-8863-42bff6258386Sun, 18 May 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIn this episode, Matt is joined by licensed therapist Abby Granigan for a deep (and occasionally unhinged) dive into the psychology behind cheating, why we keep texting our exes, and the surprisingly common roots of foot fetishes. From emotional...4679true18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-7-corporate-chaos-scandalous-snapchats-zoom-trauma-ft-gay-cousin-matt--66043418e528f745-5afc-4e4e-ba25-b2fcaea42ebaSun, 11 May 2025 18:26:36 +0000Matt RossiIn this episode, Matt is joined by Matt Kearney, aka Gay Cousin Matt, to dive into the spooky side of corporate life. They spill the tea on scandalous Snapchats, HR horror stories, and Zoom trauma, while also unpacking the chaos of Gen Z vs....3696true17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-6-off-the-deep-end-with-bellyflops-fear-of-heights-active-diarrhea-ft-professional-cliff-diver-morgane-herculano--65907222178ba97a-9ae8-4806-988d-ac9b11b1b6c1Sun, 04 May 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, Matt dives off the deep end with professional cliff diver Morgane Herculano — and yes, there’s literal diving involved. From conquering a fear of heights to the unexpected risks of active diarrhea mid-competition (yep), Morgane shares what...3358true16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-sweating-off-sunday-with-gym-crushes-trainer-hookups-and-locker-room-thirst-traps--6576825923189240-b487-4cd0-9b31-047be91e029dSun, 27 Apr 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiMatt is joined by his real-life fitness coaches, Jamie Hines and Darren Battista, for a sweaty (and slightly scandalous) deep dive into gym life. They talk building confidence when you feel out of place at the gym, smart (and realistic) nutrition...3688true15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-4-surviving-sunday-with-aquadumps-tropical-hookups-unsolicited-d-ck-pics-ft-anika-dhar--65643083There’s tea, there’s chaos, and there’s at least one story that probably shouldn’t have been recorded.]]>2e929d78-6d62-4a34-a776-e10be8d48920Sun, 20 Apr 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiThis week, it’s a Survivor x Bachelorette crossover episode as Matt sits down with his friend Anika Dhar from CBS’s Survivor. Learn how they met—and how they both somehow ended up on reality TV—while they unpack your wild weekends and share stories...There’s tea, there’s chaos, and there’s at least one story that probably shouldn’t have been recorded.]]>3975true14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-3-adult-friendships-navigating-threesomes-bi-panic-and-keeping-your-strippers-fed--65558367Together, they reflect on what it takes to maintain and create new adult friendships, share a few ridiculous (and questionably appropriate) stories, and introduce a new game segment: Would You Rather. Along the way, Matt opens up in a way he hasn’t before—making this episode equal parts hilarious and unexpectedly heartfelt.]]>09b3e70b-2457-4062-9e60-5e3962cff801Sun, 13 Apr 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiIn this episode, Matt is joined by his childhood best friend, Ben Shore, who’s been around since sixth grade and knows all the stories Matt would probably rather forget. From middle school to college and every chaotic phase in between, their...Together, they reflect on what it takes to maintain and create new adult friendships, share a few ridiculous (and questionably appropriate) stories, and introduce a new game segment: Would You Rather. Along the way, Matt opens up in a way he hasn’t before—making this episode equal parts hilarious and unexpectedly heartfelt.]]>3548true13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-2-his-vs-her-perspective-ft-kayla-michelle-fisher--65380187From dating red flags to the chaos of modern adulting, we’re reacting and giving unsolicited-yet-somehow-necessary advice from both the His and Her perspective.
Expect laughs, hot takes, and just enough emotional damage to make you question your last situationship. Plus, an all-new surprise segment we like to call "The Most Likely Culprit."

If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at ⁠thescariespod@gmail.com⁠. We’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!]]>3dcb569f-1acd-46ae-9f23-6100a76b2527Sun, 06 Apr 2025 16:00:00 +0000Matt RossiOur first-ever guest has joined the show and let's just say she understood the assignment. Boston content queen Kayla Michelle Fisher joins us to break down your wildest, weirdest, and most relatable "Scaries" submissions. From dating red flags to...From dating red flags to the chaos of modern adulting, we’re reacting and giving unsolicited-yet-somehow-necessary advice from both the His and Her perspective.
Expect laughs, hot takes, and just enough emotional damage to make you question your last situationship. Plus, an all-new surprise segment we like to call "The Most Likely Culprit."

If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at ⁠thescariespod@gmail.com⁠. We’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!]]>3348true12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-1-let-s-get-scary--65239141Each week, Matty reads your wildest weekend stories and does his best to offer some advice… or at least a few laughs to help you survive the spiral and make it to Monday.
So buckle up, take a deep breath, and remember: no matter what happened, there’s always someone who did something MUCH worse.
If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at thescariespod@gmail.com.
We’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!]]>a002168b-61e1-4f63-8525-71cdc1f7ee46Sat, 29 Mar 2025 17:44:08 +0000Matt RossiWelcome to The Scaries with Matty Rossi — the ultimate cure for your Sunday Scaries (no prescription required). Each week, Matty reads your wildest weekend stories and does his best to offer some advice… or at least a few laughs to help you survive...Each week, Matty reads your wildest weekend stories and does his best to offer some advice… or at least a few laughs to help you survive the spiral and make it to Monday.
So buckle up, take a deep breath, and remember: no matter what happened, there’s always someone who did something MUCH worse.
If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at thescariespod@gmail.com.
We’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!]]>2004true11full