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For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/nice-guy-syndrome-recovery/?referralCode=2D17AA25798AC0832DEA  ✅ From “Nice Guy” to Confident Man in 90 Days - check out my main program here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/from-nice-guy-to-authentic-and-confident-in-90-days/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - Coached over 200 clients since 2013.  - Prior to that spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - Published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.   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For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/building-rapport-communication-skills-to-surpass-small-talk/?referralCode=232A411425049ABDA5AA  ✅ From “Nice Guy” to Confident Man in 90 Days - check out my main program here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/from-nice-guy-to-authentic-and-confident-in-90-days/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - Coached over 200 clients since 2013.  - Prior to that spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - Published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.   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Check out her links:  WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Want more from Marni? Check out her links:  WingGirlMethod.com: https://winggirlmethod.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirl Twitter: https://x.com/winggirlmethod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marni-kinrys-6237394a  ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool to build your confidence and relationships https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ✅ This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/building-rapport-communication-skills-to-surpass-small-talk/?referralCode=232A411425049ABDA5AA  ✅ From “Nice Guy” to Confident Man in 90 Days - check out my main program here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/from-nice-guy-to-authentic-and-confident-in-90-days/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - Coached over 200 clients since 2013.  - Prior to that spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - Published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.   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Check out Heart Rocket and get in touch Website: www.heartrocket.com Book Strategy Call: www.heartrocket.com/consult YouTube: www.youtube.com/@heartrocket Email: admin@heartrocket.com  Did you find this valuable and want some more?  ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool  If you like this video, you’ll get even more from the guys doing this work with me every week. Join the Brojo Skool community here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ✅ Go deeper with the right course This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB.  ✅ Apply for a free coaching session If you’re done being a “nice guy” and want direct help applying this to your life, you can apply for a free 1‑on‑1 coaching session with me here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - I’ve coached over 200 clients since 2013. Prior to that I spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - I’ve published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.  These videos are free, and they’re also my marketing: if they help you and you want more, use the links above.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2361066839</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 14:14:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73087008/2361066839_thebrojo_heart_rocket_matchmaking_ukraine.mp3" length="50921265" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40/91eb3520-00f9-4d65-9290-5b5224ee4c40.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Want more from Stryker and Luba? Check out Heart Rocket and get in touch Website: www.heartrocket.com Book Strategy Call: www.heartrocket.com/consult YouTube: www.youtube.com/@heartrocket Email: admin@heartrocket.com  Did you find this valuable and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Want more from Stryker and Luba? Check out Heart Rocket and get in touch Website: www.heartrocket.com Book Strategy Call: www.heartrocket.com/consult YouTube: www.youtube.com/@heartrocket Email: admin@heartrocket.com  Did you find this valuable and want some more?  ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool  If you like this video, you’ll get even more from the guys doing this work with me every week. Join the Brojo Skool community here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ✅ Go deeper with the right course This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB.  ✅ Apply for a free coaching session If you’re done being a “nice guy” and want direct help applying this to your life, you can apply for a free 1‑on‑1 coaching session with me here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - I’ve coached over 200 clients since 2013. Prior to that I spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - I’ve published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.  These videos are free, and they’re also my marketing: if they help you and you want more, use the links above.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3183</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2a4d1791875219f3c459f8c30f13103f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Be Assertive and Get Respect… Without Getting Aggressive</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-assertive-and-get-respect-without-getting-aggressive--72948729</link><description><![CDATA[Ever find it hard to speak up, set boundaries, or stop people-pleasing? This episode breaks down why fear and childhood conditioning keep you silent, shows the real difference between assertiveness and aggression, and gives practical steps to stand your ground with honesty and calm.  Stop people-pleasing and learn simple, practical ways to set boundaries, speak your truth, and earn respect without becoming aggressive.  Did you find this valuable and want some more?  ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool  If you like this video, you’ll get even more from the guys doing this work with me every week. Join the Brojo Skool community here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ✅ Go deeper with the right course This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB  ✅ Apply for a free coaching session If you’re done being a “nice guy” and want direct help applying this to your life, you can apply for a free 1‑on‑1 coaching session with me here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - I’ve coached over 200 clients since 2013. Prior to that I spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - I’ve published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.  These videos are free, and they’re also my marketing: if they help you and you want more, use the links above.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2355606824</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2026 10:32:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72948729/2355606824_thebrojo_how_to_be_assertive_aggressive.mp3" length="94266558" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d/64838760-e883-498e-8491-9b97d2d7959d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever find it hard to speak up, set boundaries, or stop people-pleasing? This episode breaks down why fear and childhood conditioning keep you silent, shows the real difference between assertiveness and aggression, and gives practical steps to stand...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever find it hard to speak up, set boundaries, or stop people-pleasing? This episode breaks down why fear and childhood conditioning keep you silent, shows the real difference between assertiveness and aggression, and gives practical steps to stand your ground with honesty and calm.  Stop people-pleasing and learn simple, practical ways to set boundaries, speak your truth, and earn respect without becoming aggressive.  Did you find this valuable and want some more?  ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool  If you like this video, you’ll get even more from the guys doing this work with me every week. Join the Brojo Skool community here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ✅ Go deeper with the right course This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB  ✅ Apply for a free coaching session If you’re done being a “nice guy” and want direct help applying this to your life, you can apply for a free 1‑on‑1 coaching session with me here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   ✅ More about Dan Munro… - I’ve coached over 200 clients since 2013. Prior to that I spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - I’ve published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence.  - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father.  These videos are free, and they’re also my marketing: if they help you and you want more, use the links above.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5892</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d26b095044f238ef6d18212b8fa8b967.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Nice Guys Fear Rejection (The Self-Rejection Trap)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-nice-guys-fear-rejection-the-self-rejection-trap--72632996</link><description><![CDATA[Get the full Overcoming Fear of Rejection course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  In this episode, we break down why saying no feels so hard for people pleasers and Nice Guys, and why the fear of rejection is usually really a fear of disappointing others. You’ll learn how saying yes too often leads to burnout, resentment, codependent relationships, and a loss of self-respect — and how to start setting boundaries without blowing up your life. If you’ve ever worried that being assertive makes you selfish or “a bad person,” this conversation will help you rethink that pattern and start choosing yourself with more honesty.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2341155458</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2026 13:08:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72632996/2341155458_thebrojo_why_nice_guys_fear_rejection.mp3" length="64741503" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded/31139bfa-9b6e-4571-b758-b6e9fca60ded.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get the full Overcoming Fear of Rejection course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited):...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get the full Overcoming Fear of Rejection course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  In this episode, we break down why saying no feels so hard for people pleasers and Nice Guys, and why the fear of rejection is usually really a fear of disappointing others. You’ll learn how saying yes too often leads to burnout, resentment, codependent relationships, and a loss of self-respect — and how to start setting boundaries without blowing up your life. If you’ve ever worried that being assertive makes you selfish or “a bad person,” this conversation will help you rethink that pattern and start choosing yourself with more honesty.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4047</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/940be152d80fda29b709cad8b5926a1d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 3 Worst Relationship Mistakes Nice Guys Think Are Healthy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-3-worst-relationship-mistakes-nice-guys-think-are-healthy--72185309</link><description><![CDATA[Get the Healthy Boundaries Course: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB  Most nice guys don’t destroy relationships by being bad partners, they destroy them by trying too hard to be good.  In this livestream/podcast, I break down the 3 worst relationship mistakes nice guys think are healthy — the behaviours that quietly kill attraction, build resentment, and make relationships emotionally disconnected over time.  We’ll cover:  Why love is NOT enough for a healthy relationship How “being easygoing” can actually make you less attractive Why defensiveness destroys trust and confidence The hidden cost of avoiding confrontation How boundaries actually PROTECT love and attraction What emotionally grounded communication looks like instead  If you’re a people pleaser, conflict avoider, or recovering nice guy who struggles with:  setting boundaries saying no attraction issues resentment overexplaining conflict anxiety approval seeking emotional suppression  …this episode is for you.  The practical exercises and frameworks discussed come from my boundaries training course, designed to help you communicate honestly, confront confidently, and stop self-erasing in relationships.  #niceguysyndrome #peoplepleasing #boundaries #relationships #selfconfidence #datingadvice #marriageadvice #attachmentstyles #conflictresolution #mensmentalhealth]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2328290597</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 13:05:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72185309/2328290597_thebrojo_nice_guy_healthy_relationship_mistakes.mp3" length="72360481" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73/ee8ad084-f60f-4826-b75d-f23786232d73.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get the Healthy Boundaries Course: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB  Most nice guys don’t destroy relationships by being bad partners, they destroy them by trying...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get the Healthy Boundaries Course: https://www.udemy.com/course/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships-friendships-and-work/?referralCode=3232CBEFEF445C7F6DAB  Most nice guys don’t destroy relationships by being bad partners, they destroy them by trying too hard to be good.  In this livestream/podcast, I break down the 3 worst relationship mistakes nice guys think are healthy — the behaviours that quietly kill attraction, build resentment, and make relationships emotionally disconnected over time.  We’ll cover:  Why love is NOT enough for a healthy relationship How “being easygoing” can actually make you less attractive Why defensiveness destroys trust and confidence The hidden cost of avoiding confrontation How boundaries actually PROTECT love and attraction What emotionally grounded communication looks like instead  If you’re a people pleaser, conflict avoider, or recovering nice guy who struggles with:  setting boundaries saying no attraction issues resentment overexplaining conflict anxiety approval seeking emotional suppression  …this episode is for you.  The practical exercises and frameworks discussed come from my boundaries training course, designed to help you communicate honestly, confront confidently, and stop self-erasing in relationships.  #niceguysyndrome #peoplepleasing #boundaries #relationships #selfconfidence #datingadvice #marriageadvice #attachmentstyles #conflictresolution #mensmentalhealth]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4523</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9560e097744bf99c0cdd595ab2274f94.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Hidden Narcissism of People Pleasers (Kindness vs Selfishness)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-hidden-narcissism-of-people-pleasers-kindness-vs-selfishness--72016902</link><description><![CDATA[Nice Guy Diagnosis https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  Are nice guys and people pleasers actually being “kind”… or just controlling?  In this episode, I break down the hidden narcissism behind people pleasing — the covert contracts, emotional manipulation, resentment, approval-seeking, and need for control that often hide beneath the surface of being “nice.”  If you constantly feel exhausted, unappreciated, anxious about how others see you, or frustrated that your kindness isn’t rewarded, this episode will challenge the way you see yourself and your relationships.  Inside this episode:  Why people pleasing is often about control, not generosity The hidden “God complex” behind trying to manage everyone’s emotions How covert contracts create resentment and destroy intimacy The overlap between narcissism and nice guy syndrome Why honesty and integrity are the real solution to social anxiety and approval-seeking How to stop manipulating people through guilt, caretaking, and self-sacrifice  This is a brutally honest deep dive into people pleasing, codependency, covert narcissism, validation addiction, and authentic confidence.  If you’re tired of being fake nice, emotionally exhausted, and secretly resentful… this episode is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2318515064</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 06:39:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72016902/2318515064_thebrojo_people_pleaser_nice_guy_narcissism_controlling.mp3" length="83622809" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec/5b2ae32b-bbc6-48ed-854d-b23990e5f3ec.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nice Guy Diagnosis https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  Are nice guys and people...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nice Guy Diagnosis https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  Are nice guys and people pleasers actually being “kind”… or just controlling?  In this episode, I break down the hidden narcissism behind people pleasing — the covert contracts, emotional manipulation, resentment, approval-seeking, and need for control that often hide beneath the surface of being “nice.”  If you constantly feel exhausted, unappreciated, anxious about how others see you, or frustrated that your kindness isn’t rewarded, this episode will challenge the way you see yourself and your relationships.  Inside this episode:  Why people pleasing is often about control, not generosity The hidden “God complex” behind trying to manage everyone’s emotions How covert contracts create resentment and destroy intimacy The overlap between narcissism and nice guy syndrome Why honesty and integrity are the real solution to social anxiety and approval-seeking How to stop manipulating people through guilt, caretaking, and self-sacrifice  This is a brutally honest deep dive into people pleasing, codependency, covert narcissism, validation addiction, and authentic confidence.  If you’re tired of being fake nice, emotionally exhausted, and secretly resentful… this episode is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5227</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/993a56fb829aafea7aaaacc110b0f131.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why “Helpful” Husbands Resent Their Wives (Relationship Coach Reveals The Truth)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-helpful-husbands-resent-their-wives-relationship-coach-reveals-the-truth--71731677</link><description><![CDATA[Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” in your relationship—being helpful, supportive, and always stepping in—yet things still feel distant, tense, or disconnected, this conversation will likely hit closer than expected.  In this episode, we sit down with relationship coach and intimacy expert Monica Tanner to unpack a dynamic that quietly undermines many relationships: the difference between fixing and truly supporting. What looks like care on the surface can, over time, turn into control, emotional disconnection, and resentment—especially for people pleasers and “nice guys.”  We explore how this pattern develops, why it often goes unnoticed, and how it impacts emotional safety, intimacy, and communication. From subtle resentment building beneath everyday interactions to the gradual loss of connection in long-term relationships, this conversation sheds light on what’s really happening—and what can be done differently.  If you’ve ever felt unappreciated, overwhelmed by your partner’s emotions, or unsure why your relationship has shifted, this episode offers clarity, language, and a different way of approaching connection.  🎧 Topics covered include: – The hidden cost of “being helpful” – Fixing vs supporting (and why it matters) – How resentment builds in relationships – Emotional safety and its role in intimacy – Why people pleasers struggle in long-term partnerships  This is a grounded, honest conversation about relationships, responsibility, and what it actually means to show up for someone—without losing yourself in the process.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2308393946</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 11:46:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71731677/2308393946_thebrojo_husband_resentment_relationship_coach.mp3" length="52350684" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/   Apply for a free...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” in your relationship—being helpful, supportive, and always stepping in—yet things still feel distant, tense, or disconnected, this conversation will likely hit closer than expected.  In this episode, we sit down with relationship coach and intimacy expert Monica Tanner to unpack a dynamic that quietly undermines many relationships: the difference between fixing and truly supporting. What looks like care on the surface can, over time, turn into control, emotional disconnection, and resentment—especially for people pleasers and “nice guys.”  We explore how this pattern develops, why it often goes unnoticed, and how it impacts emotional safety, intimacy, and communication. From subtle resentment building beneath everyday interactions to the gradual loss of connection in long-term relationships, this conversation sheds light on what’s really happening—and what can be done differently.  If you’ve ever felt unappreciated, overwhelmed by your partner’s emotions, or unsure why your relationship has shifted, this episode offers clarity, language, and a different way of approaching connection.  🎧 Topics covered include: – The hidden cost of “being helpful” – Fixing vs supporting (and why it matters) – How resentment builds in relationships – Emotional safety and its role in intimacy – Why people pleasers struggle in long-term partnerships  This is a grounded, honest conversation about relationships, responsibility, and what it actually means to show up for someone—without losing yourself in the process.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3272</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/02be7d647750f253e2e9f659677efdea.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Rely on Approval Instead of Trusting Yourself (Green Light Syndrome)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-rely-on-approval-instead-of-trusting-yourself-green-light-syndrome--71516793</link><description><![CDATA[If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you often find yourself hesitating before taking action—not because you don’t know what to do, but because you’re waiting for reassurance, approval, or a “green light” from others—this episode will likely hit close to home.  In this conversation, we explore what’s really going on beneath people-pleasing, indecision, and the habit of constantly checking with others before moving forward. Why do so many capable, thoughtful people struggle to act without external validation? And what does it actually cost them over time?  You’ll hear a breakdown of what I call “green light syndrome”—the tendency to wait for permission, signals, or certainty before initiating action. We look at how this shows up in everyday decisions, relationships, and even simple moments where you already know what you want—but still pause.  This isn’t about blaming or “fixing” yourself. It’s about understanding the pattern clearly enough that you can start moving differently.  Because at some point, waiting for the green light becomes the very thing that keeps you stuck.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2303011481</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 10:05:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71516793/2303011481_thebrojo_approval_trust_yourself_green_light_syndrome.mp3" length="75985022" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you often find yourself hesitating before taking action—not because you don’t know what to do, but because you’re waiting for reassurance, approval, or a “green light” from others—this episode will likely hit close to home.  In this conversation, we explore what’s really going on beneath people-pleasing, indecision, and the habit of constantly checking with others before moving forward. Why do so many capable, thoughtful people struggle to act without external validation? And what does it actually cost them over time?  You’ll hear a breakdown of what I call “green light syndrome”—the tendency to wait for permission, signals, or certainty before initiating action. We look at how this shows up in everyday decisions, relationships, and even simple moments where you already know what you want—but still pause.  This isn’t about blaming or “fixing” yourself. It’s about understanding the pattern clearly enough that you can start moving differently.  Because at some point, waiting for the green light becomes the very thing that keeps you stuck.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4750</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cc8a8972bf8828873a7edf0861b4b38d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Say No Without Feeling Like a Bad Person (Even If You Hate Conflict)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-say-no-without-feeling-like-a-bad-person-even-if-you-hate-conflict--71176641</link><description><![CDATA[Get customized feedback and free resources to build your confidence - take my 2min quiz for a Quick Confidence Diagnosis here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/quick-confidence-diagnosis/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you struggle to say no… this isn’t a communication problem.  It’s a people-pleasing pattern that’s quietly controlling your life.  In this episode, we break down why “nice guys” keep saying yes when they don’t want to—and the hidden fears driving it:  Fear of rejection Fear of conflict Fear of being seen as selfish  And more importantly… why your “kindness” is actually costing you respect, attraction, and self-trust.  You’ll learn: • Why saying yes is often dishonest • The real reason guilt shows up when you try to set boundaries • How people-pleasing keeps you stuck, resentful, and invisible • What actually changes when you start saying no (and why it feels so uncomfortable at first)  This isn’t about scripts or polite wording.  It’s about confronting the identity that’s been running your decisions for years.  If you’ve ever felt like:  You say yes, then regret it You avoid conflict at all costs You’re “easygoing”… but secretly frustrated  This episode will hit uncomfortably close to home.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2295188294</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 07:39:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71176641/2295188294_thebrojo_how_to_say_no_hate_conflict.mp3" length="61856748" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get customized feedback and free resources to build your confidence - take my 2min quiz for a Quick Confidence Diagnosis here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/quick-confidence-diagnosis/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get customized feedback and free resources to build your confidence - take my 2min quiz for a Quick Confidence Diagnosis here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/quick-confidence-diagnosis/   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  If you struggle to say no… this isn’t a communication problem.  It’s a people-pleasing pattern that’s quietly controlling your life.  In this episode, we break down why “nice guys” keep saying yes when they don’t want to—and the hidden fears driving it:  Fear of rejection Fear of conflict Fear of being seen as selfish  And more importantly… why your “kindness” is actually costing you respect, attraction, and self-trust.  You’ll learn: • Why saying yes is often dishonest • The real reason guilt shows up when you try to set boundaries • How people-pleasing keeps you stuck, resentful, and invisible • What actually changes when you start saying no (and why it feels so uncomfortable at first)  This isn’t about scripts or polite wording.  It’s about confronting the identity that’s been running your decisions for years.  If you’ve ever felt like:  You say yes, then regret it You avoid conflict at all costs You’re “easygoing”… but secretly frustrated  This episode will hit uncomfortably close to home.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3867</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3b1ffc6a691bd88e2e3b5b90b894cd2e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>This Nice Guy Got Sick… Then the Self-Sabotage Started</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-nice-guy-got-sick-then-the-self-sabotage-started--70839524</link><description><![CDATA[If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   What happens when a “nice guy” starts to change… and then suddenly relapses?  In this episode, we break down a common but rarely discussed part of personal growth: the setback that feels like starting over. Whether it’s getting sick, a breakup, family conflict, or stress at work—these moments can trigger old patterns of people-pleasing, self-sabotage, and loss of confidence.  But here’s the truth: relapse isn’t failure—it’s part of the process.  We explore: Why setbacks hit so hard during self-improvement How old behaviours quickly take over again The psychology behind the “nice guy” relapse Why this phase is actually necessary for long-term change How to move through it without losing momentum  If you’ve ever felt like you were making progress… only to fall back into old habits, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and how to keep moving forward.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2282791811</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 22:02:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70839524/2282791811_thebrojo_nice_guy_self_sabotage.mp3" length="65322003" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you want to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome, boost your social confidence and communication skills, and live with integrity this year, complete this questionnaire and get free resources customized to your answers: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/nice-guy-social-confidence-quiz/   What happens when a “nice guy” starts to change… and then suddenly relapses?  In this episode, we break down a common but rarely discussed part of personal growth: the setback that feels like starting over. Whether it’s getting sick, a breakup, family conflict, or stress at work—these moments can trigger old patterns of people-pleasing, self-sabotage, and loss of confidence.  But here’s the truth: relapse isn’t failure—it’s part of the process.  We explore: Why setbacks hit so hard during self-improvement How old behaviours quickly take over again The psychology behind the “nice guy” relapse Why this phase is actually necessary for long-term change How to move through it without losing momentum  If you’ve ever felt like you were making progress… only to fall back into old habits, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and how to keep moving forward.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4083</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/299a2da6276f269cbfc8b0e9c765bc9b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Walking on Eggshells to Avoid Conflict? Why It Actually Creates More Drama</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/walking-on-eggshells-to-avoid-conflict-why-it-actually-creates-more-drama--70577536</link><description><![CDATA[Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/  Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  Are you constantly walking on eggshells in your relationship, trying to avoid upsetting your partner and prevent conflict?  Many nice guys and people pleasers believe that if they just say the right thing, avoid certain topics, and keep the peace at all costs, the relationship will run smoothly. But over time this strategy often backfires, creating more tension, resentment, and emotional distance instead of less.  In this episode, Dan Munro explains why conflict avoidance and walking on eggshells is one of the biggest hidden causes of drama in relationships. You’ll learn how this pattern develops, why it feels like the “right” thing to do, and why it quietly erodes intimacy, attraction, and self-respect over time.  Dan also breaks down what healthier conflict actually looks like, how to stop trying to control your partner’s emotions, and how honesty and responsibility can lead to stronger, more confident relationships.  In this episode you’ll learn:  What “walking on eggshells” really looks like in relationships  Why avoiding conflict often creates more drama, resentment, and distance  How childhood conditioning and people-pleasing create this pattern  The difference between supporting your partner vs fixing their emotions  How honesty and personal responsibility reduce long-term relationship tension  If you feel stuck in a relationship where you're constantly trying to keep the peace, this episode will help you understand why that approach isn’t working — and what to do instead.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2278381538</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 19:39:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70577536/2278381538_thebrojo_walking_on_eggshells_avoid_conflict.mp3" length="59884354" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/  Apply for a free 1:1...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Repair your relationship and become the masculine man you’ve always dreamed of being - complete this Relationship Integrity Audit for personalized guidance: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/relationship-success-for-men-quiz/  Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/  Are you constantly walking on eggshells in your relationship, trying to avoid upsetting your partner and prevent conflict?  Many nice guys and people pleasers believe that if they just say the right thing, avoid certain topics, and keep the peace at all costs, the relationship will run smoothly. But over time this strategy often backfires, creating more tension, resentment, and emotional distance instead of less.  In this episode, Dan Munro explains why conflict avoidance and walking on eggshells is one of the biggest hidden causes of drama in relationships. You’ll learn how this pattern develops, why it feels like the “right” thing to do, and why it quietly erodes intimacy, attraction, and self-respect over time.  Dan also breaks down what healthier conflict actually looks like, how to stop trying to control your partner’s emotions, and how honesty and responsibility can lead to stronger, more confident relationships.  In this episode you’ll learn:  What “walking on eggshells” really looks like in relationships  Why avoiding conflict often creates more drama, resentment, and distance  How childhood conditioning and people-pleasing create this pattern  The difference between supporting your partner vs fixing their emotions  How honesty and personal responsibility reduce long-term relationship tension  If you feel stuck in a relationship where you're constantly trying to keep the peace, this episode will help you understand why that approach isn’t working — and what to do instead.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3743</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6b6ab207854a8b1fe1894f492e6cad4f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Making Other People Happy Is Ruining Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-other-people-happy-is-ruining-your-life--70075197</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re ready to stop people pleasing and start living with honesty, self-respect, and real confidence, this is where to go next: 👉 bit.ly/brojo_podcast  Most people pleasers believe they’re kind.  The truth? People pleasing isn’t kindness — it’s fear.  In this episode, we break down the hidden psychology behind people pleasing, the fear of rejection, conflict avoidance, and the need for approval that keeps you trapped in emotional dishonesty. If you struggle with setting boundaries, fear of conflict, or constantly trying to make everyone happy, this will challenge the belief system driving it.  You’ll learn:  Why making other people happy doesn’t make you a good person  How fear of rejection and disapproval shapes your behavior  The connection between people pleasing and low self-respect  Why emotional honesty feels dangerous — and why it’s the only way out  How to build authentic confidence without becoming selfish  People pleasing isn’t about caring for others. It’s about controlling how you’re perceived so you can avoid guilt, shame, rejection, and conflict.  And the cost is resentment, loneliness, weak boundaries, and a complete loss of authenticity.  If you want self-respect, authentic confidence, and real connection, you have to stop managing other people’s emotions and start telling the truth.  This episode covers: people pleasing, people pleaser mindset, fear of rejection, fear of conflict, need for approval, emotional honesty, setting boundaries, self-respect, authentic confidence, conflict avoidance.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2256818879</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 03:11:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70075197/2256818879_thebrojo_making_other_people_happy_is_ruining_your_life.mp3" length="46829399" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re ready to stop people pleasing and start living with honesty, self-respect, and real confidence, this is where to go next: 👉 bit.ly/brojo_podcast  Most people pleasers believe they’re kind.  The truth? People pleasing isn’t kindness — it’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re ready to stop people pleasing and start living with honesty, self-respect, and real confidence, this is where to go next: 👉 bit.ly/brojo_podcast  Most people pleasers believe they’re kind.  The truth? People pleasing isn’t kindness — it’s fear.  In this episode, we break down the hidden psychology behind people pleasing, the fear of rejection, conflict avoidance, and the need for approval that keeps you trapped in emotional dishonesty. If you struggle with setting boundaries, fear of conflict, or constantly trying to make everyone happy, this will challenge the belief system driving it.  You’ll learn:  Why making other people happy doesn’t make you a good person  How fear of rejection and disapproval shapes your behavior  The connection between people pleasing and low self-respect  Why emotional honesty feels dangerous — and why it’s the only way out  How to build authentic confidence without becoming selfish  People pleasing isn’t about caring for others. It’s about controlling how you’re perceived so you can avoid guilt, shame, rejection, and conflict.  And the cost is resentment, loneliness, weak boundaries, and a complete loss of authenticity.  If you want self-respect, authentic confidence, and real connection, you have to stop managing other people’s emotions and start telling the truth.  This episode covers: people pleasing, people pleaser mindset, fear of rejection, fear of conflict, need for approval, emotional honesty, setting boundaries, self-respect, authentic confidence, conflict avoidance.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2927</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ef7739590154dfe41f0cabd7d86f570.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You’re Not Broken — Success Is What's Keeping You Empty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-not-broken-success-is-what-s-keeping-you-empty--69930575</link><description><![CDATA[Are you a high achiever who feels chronically dissatisfied despite doing everything “right”?  In this episode, I break down why success often creates emptiness instead of fulfillment — and why driven, intelligent people experience imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and constant overthinking no matter how much they achieve.  This isn’t burnout. It isn’t a lack of gratitude. And it doesn’t mean you’re broken.  As a confidence coach working with high-performing professionals, I explain the psychological pattern that keeps successful people stuck in a cycle of pressure, guilt, and restlessness — including the hidden fear of happiness and the fight-or-flight response that makes slowing down feel dangerous.  You’ll learn:  Why achievement can increase anxiety instead of confidence  How perfectionism quietly erases any sense of “enough”  Why your mind keeps pushing even when nothing is wrong  What’s actually behind chronic overthinking in high performers  If you’re successful on paper but unable to enjoy it in your body, this episode will help you recognize the pattern — and understand why pushing harder has never been the solution.  Join Brojo if you're ready to upgrade yourself this year: https://bit.ly/brojo_podcast  Contact Dan directly to talk about 1:1 coaching: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2255474129</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 02:24:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69930575/2255474129_thebrojo_youre_not_broken_success_is_whats_keeping_you_empty.mp3" length="87888038" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you a high achiever who feels chronically dissatisfied despite doing everything “right”?  In this episode, I break down why success often creates emptiness instead of fulfillment — and why driven, intelligent people experience imposter syndrome,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you a high achiever who feels chronically dissatisfied despite doing everything “right”?  In this episode, I break down why success often creates emptiness instead of fulfillment — and why driven, intelligent people experience imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and constant overthinking no matter how much they achieve.  This isn’t burnout. It isn’t a lack of gratitude. And it doesn’t mean you’re broken.  As a confidence coach working with high-performing professionals, I explain the psychological pattern that keeps successful people stuck in a cycle of pressure, guilt, and restlessness — including the hidden fear of happiness and the fight-or-flight response that makes slowing down feel dangerous.  You’ll learn:  Why achievement can increase anxiety instead of confidence  How perfectionism quietly erases any sense of “enough”  Why your mind keeps pushing even when nothing is wrong  What’s actually behind chronic overthinking in high performers  If you’re successful on paper but unable to enjoy it in your body, this episode will help you recognize the pattern — and understand why pushing harder has never been the solution.  Join Brojo if you're ready to upgrade yourself this year: https://bit.ly/brojo_podcast  Contact Dan directly to talk about 1:1 coaching: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5493</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e5ca584636a60866a2f44bda2b7656ca.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>If You've Been Listening for a Long Time...</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/if-you-ve-been-listening-for-a-long-time--69486315</link><description><![CDATA[This episode is not for new listeners.  It’s for people who have been listening to my work for a long time— who understand the ideas, but haven’t seen much change in their actual behavior or life.  This isn’t motivation. It isn’t a how-to. And it isn’t an invitation to do anything.  It’s a direct conversation with my favourite followers, about the difference between insight and movement—and the cost of staying in one without the other.  If this episode makes you uncomfortable, that’s intentional. Sit with it before doing anything else.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2249163800</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2026 13:44:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69486315/2249163800_thebrojo_if_youve_been_listening_for_a_long_time.mp3" length="9701876" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode is not for new listeners.  It’s for people who have been listening to my work for a long time— who understand the ideas, but haven’t seen much change in their actual behavior or life.  This isn’t motivation. It isn’t a how-to. And it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode is not for new listeners.  It’s for people who have been listening to my work for a long time— who understand the ideas, but haven’t seen much change in their actual behavior or life.  This isn’t motivation. It isn’t a how-to. And it isn’t an invitation to do anything.  It’s a direct conversation with my favourite followers, about the difference between insight and movement—and the cost of staying in one without the other.  If this episode makes you uncomfortable, that’s intentional. Sit with it before doing anything else.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>405</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/18a8df43c093bb064ad9e0e0c1c4fd44.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#268] Why Being a Nice Guy Is Ruining Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/268-why-being-a-nice-guy-is-ruining-your-life--69352143</link><description><![CDATA[Get my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) free: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Use Dan’s free Virtual Coaching app: https://bit.ly/brojo_coachingapp   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2226585611</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 10:29:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69352143/2226585611_thebrojo_why_being_nice_ruining_your_life.mp3" length="60918803" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get my Nice Guy Recovery &amp;amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) free: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Use Dan’s free Virtual Coaching app: https://bit.ly/brojo_coachingapp   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) free: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Use Dan’s free Virtual Coaching app: https://bit.ly/brojo_coachingapp   Apply for a free 1:1 trial coaching session with Dan (spaces strictly limited): https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3808</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b4d31cc02f386086c907e404e28f3ded.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#267] Watch This Before Your Next Date: How to Build Deep Rapport (FREE 2-Hour Webinar)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/267-watch-this-before-your-next-date-how-to-build-deep-rapport-free-2-hour-webinar--69057915</link><description><![CDATA[Most people say they want “deep, meaningful relationships” – but then live on a diet of small talk, shallow friendships, and surface-level dating. In this video, I break down the real difference between deep connections and superficial ones, why you actually need both, and how to stop accidentally keeping everything at arm’s length out of habit and fear.  We’ll explore what shallow connections really are (small talk, transactional chats, copy-paste socialising) and when they’re actually useful… and then contrast that with what makes a connection genuinely deep: vulnerability, spontaneity, uniqueness, emotional intensity, and reciprocity. I’ll talk about the real costs and benefits of both styles – including grief, jealousy, and reduced “social numbers” on the deep side, and safety, ease, and flakiness on the shallow side.  Then I walk you through a practical framework for creating deep connections using my 3X Model – Curiosity, Honesty, and Respect. You’ll see how to share the thing you’re ashamed of, how to “show the meal being prepared” instead of the polished script, how to stop chasing quantity, and how to build a small circle of people who actually know you.  If you’re tired of feeling lonely in a crowd, bored by small talk, or confused about why your relationships never feel truly close, this one will give you a clear roadmap for shifting from superficial to meaningful – without trying to go deep with everyone or becoming a weird oversharer.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2219336276</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2025 15:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69057915/2219336276_thebrojo_watch_this_before_your_next_date_how_to_build_deep_rapport.mp3" length="93389217" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people say they want “deep, meaningful relationships” – but then live on a diet of small talk, shallow friendships, and surface-level dating. In this video, I break down the real difference between deep connections and superficial ones, why you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people say they want “deep, meaningful relationships” – but then live on a diet of small talk, shallow friendships, and surface-level dating. In this video, I break down the real difference between deep connections and superficial ones, why you actually need both, and how to stop accidentally keeping everything at arm’s length out of habit and fear.  We’ll explore what shallow connections really are (small talk, transactional chats, copy-paste socialising) and when they’re actually useful… and then contrast that with what makes a connection genuinely deep: vulnerability, spontaneity, uniqueness, emotional intensity, and reciprocity. I’ll talk about the real costs and benefits of both styles – including grief, jealousy, and reduced “social numbers” on the deep side, and safety, ease, and flakiness on the shallow side.  Then I walk you through a practical framework for creating deep connections using my 3X Model – Curiosity, Honesty, and Respect. You’ll see how to share the thing you’re ashamed of, how to “show the meal being prepared” instead of the polished script, how to stop chasing quantity, and how to build a small circle of people who actually know you.  If you’re tired of feeling lonely in a crowd, bored by small talk, or confused about why your relationships never feel truly close, this one will give you a clear roadmap for shifting from superficial to meaningful – without trying to go deep with everyone or becoming a weird oversharer.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5837</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d6968ff67d60cf93c0f36b259028f226.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#265] Should I leave my partner for someone else?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/265-should-i-leave-my-partner-for-someone-else--68799407</link><description><![CDATA[Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course here: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Should you stay in your relationship, or is it really time to leave? Most people get stuck in the same painful dilemma: Is this just a rough patch we need to push through, or is this a sign the relationship is actually wrong for me?  In this deep-dive video, I break down the REAL difference between a temporary valley and a fundamental incompatibility. We’ll look at commitment vs. promises, good loyalty vs. blind loyalty, and why long-term relationships naturally fluctuate between peaks and dips.  You’ll also learn: • Why attraction to someone else does NOT automatically mean your relationship is broken • The hidden role of avoidant attachment, Nice Guy syndrome, and validation-seeking • How to tell whether the problem is you, them, or the dynamic between you • Why the “honeymoon feeling” always fades — even with the right person • The questions you MUST answer before you even consider leaving • The biggest mistakes people make when comparing their partner to a new crush • How to know when staying is healthy… and when leaving is the only sane choice  If you’ve ever wondered “Should I stay or go?”, this video will give you the clearest framework you’ve ever had for making that decision — without guilt, panic, or fantasy thinking.  👉 What’s the hardest part of this dilemma for you right now? Share your situation in the comments — I read every one.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2190051719</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2025 16:38:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68799407/2190051719_thebrojo_should_i_leave_my_partner_for_someone_else.mp3" length="56492198" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp;amp; Confidence Building course here: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Should you stay in your relationship, or is it really time to leave? Most people get stuck in the same painful dilemma: Is this just a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course here: https://bit.ly/brojo_soundcloud  Should you stay in your relationship, or is it really time to leave? Most people get stuck in the same painful dilemma: Is this just a rough patch we need to push through, or is this a sign the relationship is actually wrong for me?  In this deep-dive video, I break down the REAL difference between a temporary valley and a fundamental incompatibility. We’ll look at commitment vs. promises, good loyalty vs. blind loyalty, and why long-term relationships naturally fluctuate between peaks and dips.  You’ll also learn: • Why attraction to someone else does NOT automatically mean your relationship is broken • The hidden role of avoidant attachment, Nice Guy syndrome, and validation-seeking • How to tell whether the problem is you, them, or the dynamic between you • Why the “honeymoon feeling” always fades — even with the right person • The questions you MUST answer before you even consider leaving • The biggest mistakes people make when comparing their partner to a new crush • How to know when staying is healthy… and when leaving is the only sane choice  If you’ve ever wondered “Should I stay or go?”, this video will give you the clearest framework you’ve ever had for making that decision — without guilt, panic, or fantasy thinking.  👉 What’s the hardest part of this dilemma for you right now? Share your situation in the comments — I read every one.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3531</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/955fe77be7c5e9dec4e47a408fe61ee8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>AI Coaching App vs Real Life Coach (Who’s Better?)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ai-coaching-app-vs-real-life-coach-who-s-better--68486588</link><description><![CDATA[🔥 Try the Virtual Coaching App free for 7 days → https://app.coachvox.ai/share/DanMunro Get instant, personalized coaching 24/7 — anywhere, any language, any issue.  Can an AI coaching app really replace a real online life coach? In this video, I pit Real Dan against Virtual Dan — the AI version of myself — in a no-holds-barred coaching battle. You’ll see exactly how the virtual coaching app works, how it was built from my 10+ years of coaching experience, and whether it can actually compete with a real coach.  We’ll test it live on real issues: boundaries, dating confidence, Nice Guy Syndrome, relationships, and integrity. You’ll see how it challenges beliefs, gives real-time actions, and adapts to your situation — just like a human coach.  If you’ve ever wondered whether AI coaching, a health coach app, or a personal fitness coach app could actually help you grow… this is your chance to find out.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2208501896</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 17:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68486588/2208501896_thebrojo_ai_coaching_app_vs_real_life_coach_whos_better.mp3" length="49170807" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🔥 Try the Virtual Coaching App free for 7 days → https://app.coachvox.ai/share/DanMunro Get instant, personalized coaching 24/7 — anywhere, any language, any issue.  Can an AI coaching app really replace a real online life coach? In this video, I pit...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🔥 Try the Virtual Coaching App free for 7 days → https://app.coachvox.ai/share/DanMunro Get instant, personalized coaching 24/7 — anywhere, any language, any issue.  Can an AI coaching app really replace a real online life coach? In this video, I pit Real Dan against Virtual Dan — the AI version of myself — in a no-holds-barred coaching battle. You’ll see exactly how the virtual coaching app works, how it was built from my 10+ years of coaching experience, and whether it can actually compete with a real coach.  We’ll test it live on real issues: boundaries, dating confidence, Nice Guy Syndrome, relationships, and integrity. You’ll see how it challenges beliefs, gives real-time actions, and adapts to your situation — just like a human coach.  If you’ve ever wondered whether AI coaching, a health coach app, or a personal fitness coach app could actually help you grow… this is your chance to find out.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3074</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8cc3664d6100a4af349128fd8ee1673f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#261] The Death of “Happy Wife, Happy Life” — And the Rise of Confident Masculinity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/261-the-death-of-happy-wife-happy-life-and-the-rise-of-confident-masculinity--68129292</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we break down why the popular phrase “happy wife, happy life” is silently destroying relationships — and eroding men’s confidence in the process. What starts as good intentions often turns into self-abandonment: saying yes when you mean no, hiding your opinions, tolerating disrespect, and prioritizing her happiness at the cost of your own integrity.  We explore how this people-pleasing dynamic kills attraction, creates resentment, and ultimately leads to emotional disconnection. You’ll learn why your partner doesn’t actually want a yes-man, how trying to fix her emotions backfires, and what it really means to be a confident, grounded man in a long-term relationship.  If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, constantly trying to keep the peace, or wondering why your relationship feels off — this conversation will help you take your power back.  👉 Watch now to reclaim your integrity, speak your mind without guilt, and rebuild the respect you’ve lost — both from her and from yourself.  What’s one moment where you realized you were prioritizing her feelings over your values? Drop it in the comments — let’s open up a real conversation around confidence, honesty, and self-respect in relationships.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2093382141</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2025 08:18:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68129292/2093382141_thebrojo_261_happy_wife_happy_life.mp3" length="43149687" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we break down why the popular phrase “happy wife, happy life” is silently destroying relationships — and eroding men’s confidence in the process. What starts as good intentions often turns into self-abandonment: saying yes when you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we break down why the popular phrase “happy wife, happy life” is silently destroying relationships — and eroding men’s confidence in the process. What starts as good intentions often turns into self-abandonment: saying yes when you mean no, hiding your opinions, tolerating disrespect, and prioritizing her happiness at the cost of your own integrity.  We explore how this people-pleasing dynamic kills attraction, creates resentment, and ultimately leads to emotional disconnection. You’ll learn why your partner doesn’t actually want a yes-man, how trying to fix her emotions backfires, and what it really means to be a confident, grounded man in a long-term relationship.  If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, constantly trying to keep the peace, or wondering why your relationship feels off — this conversation will help you take your power back.  👉 Watch now to reclaim your integrity, speak your mind without guilt, and rebuild the respect you’ve lost — both from her and from yourself.  What’s one moment where you realized you were prioritizing her feelings over your values? Drop it in the comments — let’s open up a real conversation around confidence, honesty, and self-respect in relationships.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4e2a1640c7c1a3650e0a9da6b0c1fbd1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#264] The Dark Truths About Human Psychology That Nobody Wants to Hear</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/264-the-dark-truths-about-human-psychology-that-nobody-wants-to-hear--68101305</link><description><![CDATA[Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ----  Most people live under comforting illusions about psychology, motivation, love, and even hope. But after 20+ years of coaching, probation work, and studying real human behavior, I’ve learned that the truth is much darker—and much more liberating once you face it.  In this video, I break down the dark truths about human psychology that nobody wants to hear. You’ll learn why psychology isn’t really a science, why people aren’t motivated to succeed (only to repeat themselves), and why “love” isn’t a feeling at all but a pattern of behavior. I’ll expose why your thoughts and feelings don’t define who you are—your actions do—and why free will may not be what you think it is.  We’ll also look at the big picture: why hope often crushes more than it helps, why humanity can’t be saved, and why that shouldn’t stop you from living a powerful, meaningful life right now.  This isn’t about pessimism—it’s about clarity. When you see people as they really are (including yourself), you stop wasting energy on illusions and start building integrity, confidence, and resilience.  👉 Question for you: Which of these dark truths hit you hardest—and why? Share your thoughts in the comments below.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2127561477</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 16:30:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68101305/2127561477_thebrojo_dark_truths_human_psychology.mp3" length="71349393" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp;amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ----  Most people live under...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get free access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building course (worth $130) and connect with like-minded men when you join Brojo here… all for free! https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about   ----  Most people live under comforting illusions about psychology, motivation, love, and even hope. But after 20+ years of coaching, probation work, and studying real human behavior, I’ve learned that the truth is much darker—and much more liberating once you face it.  In this video, I break down the dark truths about human psychology that nobody wants to hear. You’ll learn why psychology isn’t really a science, why people aren’t motivated to succeed (only to repeat themselves), and why “love” isn’t a feeling at all but a pattern of behavior. I’ll expose why your thoughts and feelings don’t define who you are—your actions do—and why free will may not be what you think it is.  We’ll also look at the big picture: why hope often crushes more than it helps, why humanity can’t be saved, and why that shouldn’t stop you from living a powerful, meaningful life right now.  This isn’t about pessimism—it’s about clarity. When you see people as they really are (including yourself), you stop wasting energy on illusions and start building integrity, confidence, and resilience.  👉 Question for you: Which of these dark truths hit you hardest—and why? Share your thoughts in the comments below.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4460</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/85db1c67b517a9507fb7ee5029d8fbbd.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#263] Escaping the Red Pill Trap: A Confidence Coach Breaks It Down</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/263-escaping-the-red-pill-trap-a-confidence-coach-breaks-it-down--67038372</link><description><![CDATA[Red Pill ideology claims to reveal the “truth” about women, dating, and masculinity — but does it actually work?  As a confidence coach who’s worked with men for years, I’ve seen firsthand how Red Pill beliefs destroy relationships, lower self-esteem, and lead to bitterness and isolation. In this video, I break down the 10 core claims of Red Pill philosophy — from hypergamy and “high value men” to frame control, emotional suppression, and the belief that all women are manipulative — and I test each one against science, psychology, and real-life results.  This isn’t an emotional rant or a hit piece. It’s a rational, evidence-based challenge for men who feel stuck. If you’ve tried Red Pill and still feel lost, angry, or alone, this might be the perspective shift you need.  You’ll also learn healthier, more honest alternatives — ones that build real confidence, deepen relationships, and lead to genuine peace of mind.  👉 Question for you: Have Red Pill beliefs helped you… or held you back? Be honest. Share your experience in the comments — I read every one.  And if you're ready to ditch the bitterness and build true self-worth, subscribe for more content like this.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2122084338</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2025 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67038372/2122084338_thebrojo_escape_red_pill_confidence.mp3" length="68429112" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Red Pill ideology claims to reveal the “truth” about women, dating, and masculinity — but does it actually work?  As a confidence coach who’s worked with men for years, I’ve seen firsthand how Red Pill beliefs destroy relationships, lower self-esteem,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Red Pill ideology claims to reveal the “truth” about women, dating, and masculinity — but does it actually work?  As a confidence coach who’s worked with men for years, I’ve seen firsthand how Red Pill beliefs destroy relationships, lower self-esteem, and lead to bitterness and isolation. In this video, I break down the 10 core claims of Red Pill philosophy — from hypergamy and “high value men” to frame control, emotional suppression, and the belief that all women are manipulative — and I test each one against science, psychology, and real-life results.  This isn’t an emotional rant or a hit piece. It’s a rational, evidence-based challenge for men who feel stuck. If you’ve tried Red Pill and still feel lost, angry, or alone, this might be the perspective shift you need.  You’ll also learn healthier, more honest alternatives — ones that build real confidence, deepen relationships, and lead to genuine peace of mind.  👉 Question for you: Have Red Pill beliefs helped you… or held you back? Be honest. Share your experience in the comments — I read every one.  And if you're ready to ditch the bitterness and build true self-worth, subscribe for more content like this.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4277</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a4c1d868a36a76d67efe0aa00c5ba4b5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#262] Why Repressing Anger Is Ruining Your Life (Especially If You’re a Nice Guy)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/262-why-repressing-anger-is-ruining-your-life-especially-if-you-re-a-nice-guy--66295473</link><description><![CDATA[Why do so many "nice guys" struggle with confidence, boundaries, and resentment? Because they’ve been taught that anger is dangerous, shameful, or weak — and they’ve been suppressing it for years.  In this episode, I break down why repressing anger doesn’t make you a better man — it makes you resentful, anxious, depressed, and, eventually… explosive. You’ll learn how repressed anger creates passive-aggressive behavior, self-loathing, and even destructive outbursts. More importantly, I’ll show you how to express anger healthily — without hurting people, and without losing control.  Anger isn’t the problem. It’s power. It’s fuel. It’s the emotional fire that helps you stand up for yourself, set boundaries, and live with courage. And if you’ve been people-pleasing your whole life, learning to express anger is one of the most powerful transformations you’ll ever experience.  ⚠️ If you feel like you’re stuck, emotionally numb, or constantly walking on eggshells, this episode will give you a way out.  👉 Let me know in the comments: How has anger shown up in your life — and what happens when you try to express it? Let's talk.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2096889285</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2025 16:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66295473/2096889285_thebrojo_262_anger_management.mp3" length="61896828" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do so many "nice guys" struggle with confidence, boundaries, and resentment? Because they’ve been taught that anger is dangerous, shameful, or weak — and they’ve been suppressing it for years.  In this episode, I break down why repressing anger...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do so many "nice guys" struggle with confidence, boundaries, and resentment? Because they’ve been taught that anger is dangerous, shameful, or weak — and they’ve been suppressing it for years.  In this episode, I break down why repressing anger doesn’t make you a better man — it makes you resentful, anxious, depressed, and, eventually… explosive. You’ll learn how repressed anger creates passive-aggressive behavior, self-loathing, and even destructive outbursts. More importantly, I’ll show you how to express anger healthily — without hurting people, and without losing control.  Anger isn’t the problem. It’s power. It’s fuel. It’s the emotional fire that helps you stand up for yourself, set boundaries, and live with courage. And if you’ve been people-pleasing your whole life, learning to express anger is one of the most powerful transformations you’ll ever experience.  ⚠️ If you feel like you’re stuck, emotionally numb, or constantly walking on eggshells, this episode will give you a way out.  👉 Let me know in the comments: How has anger shown up in your life — and what happens when you try to express it? Let's talk.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3869</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/931a03d7bc6e4b549a4e4199ae1f668a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#260] Blind, Broken &amp; Still Stronger Than You: The Kijuan Amey Story</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/260-blind-broken-still-stronger-than-you-the-kijuan-amey-story--65409066</link><description><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of the Brojo podcast, Dan Munro sits down with Kijuan Amey, a U.S. Air Force veteran whose life took a dramatic turn on May 5, 2017. At just 25 years old, Kijuan was thriving—building a career he loved, starting a business, and chasing his dream of becoming a pilot. But one tragic motorcycle accident changed everything, leaving him blind and with life-altering injuries.  Rather than giving in to despair, Kijuan chose a different path: resilience.  In this candid and inspiring conversation, he opens up about waking from a coma, discovering the truth about his condition, and facing the emotional and physical toll of starting over. From rock climbing and downhill skiing to public speaking and writing a book, Kijuan proves that limits are often self-imposed—and meant to be broken.  His message is clear: don’t focus on what you’ve lost—focus on what you can still do, and do it with everything you’ve got.  👉 Kijuan’s story will challenge your excuses and light a fire under your goals.  Drop a comment below: What’s one challenge you’ve been avoiding that you now feel ready to face after hearing this? Let’s talk about it. 👇  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting disrespected?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and assertiveness. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.   Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join.  Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business.  Stop waiting—start your transformation today!   Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2061553240</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65409066/2061553240_thebrojo_260_blind_broken_still_stronger_than_you_the_kijuan_amey_story.mp3" length="67283068" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this powerful episode of the Brojo podcast, Dan Munro sits down with Kijuan Amey, a U.S. Air Force veteran whose life took a dramatic turn on May 5, 2017. At just 25 years old, Kijuan was thriving—building a career he loved, starting a business,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of the Brojo podcast, Dan Munro sits down with Kijuan Amey, a U.S. Air Force veteran whose life took a dramatic turn on May 5, 2017. At just 25 years old, Kijuan was thriving—building a career he loved, starting a business, and chasing his dream of becoming a pilot. But one tragic motorcycle accident changed everything, leaving him blind and with life-altering injuries.  Rather than giving in to despair, Kijuan chose a different path: resilience.  In this candid and inspiring conversation, he opens up about waking from a coma, discovering the truth about his condition, and facing the emotional and physical toll of starting over. From rock climbing and downhill skiing to public speaking and writing a book, Kijuan proves that limits are often self-imposed—and meant to be broken.  His message is clear: don’t focus on what you’ve lost—focus on what you can still do, and do it with everything you’ve got.  👉 Kijuan’s story will challenge your excuses and light a fire under your goals.  Drop a comment below: What’s one challenge you’ve been avoiding that you now feel ready to face after hearing this? Let’s talk about it. 👇  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting disrespected?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and assertiveness. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.   Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join.  Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business.  Stop waiting—start your transformation today!   Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4206</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aa9cd3a363cde1025792ff46f713854c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#259] Why Your Boss and Family Don’t Respect You (And How to Fix It)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/259-why-your-boss-and-family-don-t-respect-you-and-how-to-fix-it--65028285</link><description><![CDATA[If you constantly feel anxious at work, overloaded with tasks, or stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing—this video is for you. Many Nice Guys struggle with setting boundaries, both in the workplace and with family. The result? They get walked all over, burned out, and feel like they’re never good enough.  In this episode, we break down: ✔️ The real reason your boss keeps piling work on you (and why you can’t say no) ✔️ Why people-pleasing makes you less respected, not more ✔️ How manipulative or critical parents keep you stuck in self-doubt ✔️ Practical strategies to set boundaries and regain control of your life  The hard truth? If you don’t change your approach, people will keep taking advantage of you—because they can. But once you start prioritizing yourself, everything shifts. You’ll gain respect, reduce stress, and finally start living life on your own terms.  💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: Where do you struggle the most—at work or with family? Drop a comment below and let’s talk about it!  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting overlooked?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and respect. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.   Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join.  Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business.  Stop waiting—start your transformation today!   Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2052308064</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65028285/2052308064_thebrojo_259_why_your_boss_and_family_dont_respect_you_and_how_to_fix_it.mp3" length="48184005" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you constantly feel anxious at work, overloaded with tasks, or stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing—this video is for you. Many Nice Guys struggle with setting boundaries, both in the workplace and with family. The result? They get walked all over,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you constantly feel anxious at work, overloaded with tasks, or stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing—this video is for you. Many Nice Guys struggle with setting boundaries, both in the workplace and with family. The result? They get walked all over, burned out, and feel like they’re never good enough.  In this episode, we break down: ✔️ The real reason your boss keeps piling work on you (and why you can’t say no) ✔️ Why people-pleasing makes you less respected, not more ✔️ How manipulative or critical parents keep you stuck in self-doubt ✔️ Practical strategies to set boundaries and regain control of your life  The hard truth? If you don’t change your approach, people will keep taking advantage of you—because they can. But once you start prioritizing yourself, everything shifts. You’ll gain respect, reduce stress, and finally start living life on your own terms.  💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: Where do you struggle the most—at work or with family? Drop a comment below and let’s talk about it!  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting overlooked?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and respect. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.   Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join.  Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business.  Stop waiting—start your transformation today!   Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3012</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6faddc7d5d0fa995e665b150e994b428.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#258] How to Stop Feeling Envious of Confident Men (And Become One)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/258-how-to-stop-feeling-envious-of-confident-men-and-become-one--64948392</link><description><![CDATA[Ever catch yourself feeling jealous of confident, successful men? You see them taking risks, speaking their minds, and getting what they want—while you feel stuck, hesitant, and full of self-doubt. That feeling of envy isn’t just frustration; it’s a clue. It’s showing you exactly where you’re holding yourself back.  In this video, we’ll break down: ✅ What envy really means (and why it’s not as bad as you think) ✅ The biggest lie envy tells you—and how it keeps you stuck ✅ The difference between admiration, inspiration, and envy ✅ How to flip envy into motivation instead of self-pity ✅ 3 powerful questions to challenge your envy and take action  The truth is, the men you admire aren’t special. They’ve just taken steps you haven’t—yet. And today, you’re going to learn how to start taking those steps yourself.  💬 Comment below: What’s one thing you’ve envied in another man, and how are you going to take action on it? Let’s break free from the envy trap together. 👇🔥]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2048667020</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64948392/2048667020_thebrojo_257_how_to_stop_feeling_envious_of_confident_men_and_become_one.mp3" length="53349563" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever catch yourself feeling jealous of confident, successful men? You see them taking risks, speaking their minds, and getting what they want—while you feel stuck, hesitant, and full of self-doubt. That feeling of envy isn’t just frustration; it’s a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever catch yourself feeling jealous of confident, successful men? You see them taking risks, speaking their minds, and getting what they want—while you feel stuck, hesitant, and full of self-doubt. That feeling of envy isn’t just frustration; it’s a clue. It’s showing you exactly where you’re holding yourself back.  In this video, we’ll break down: ✅ What envy really means (and why it’s not as bad as you think) ✅ The biggest lie envy tells you—and how it keeps you stuck ✅ The difference between admiration, inspiration, and envy ✅ How to flip envy into motivation instead of self-pity ✅ 3 powerful questions to challenge your envy and take action  The truth is, the men you admire aren’t special. They’ve just taken steps you haven’t—yet. And today, you’re going to learn how to start taking those steps yourself.  💬 Comment below: What’s one thing you’ve envied in another man, and how are you going to take action on it? Let’s break free from the envy trap together. 👇🔥]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3335</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c4c2132e712473d76e07628f1981e700.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#257] You’ve Been Lied to About Anger—How to Use It to Build Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/257-you-ve-been-lied-to-about-anger-how-to-use-it-to-build-confidence--64815024</link><description><![CDATA[Most Nice Guys think anger is a problem—something to suppress or feel ashamed of. But what if anger is actually the key to confidence, assertiveness, and a meaningful life? In this episode, we dive deep into the hidden power of anger and why suppressing it leads to depression, resentment, and passive aggression.  You’ll learn: 🔥 Why Nice Guys struggle with anger and how it sabotages their self-respect 🔥 The real reason you feel stuck, frustrated, or unmotivated 🔥 How to channel anger into confidence, courage, and boundary-setting 🔥 The difference between healthy anger and destructive rage  If you've ever felt like a pushover, struggled to stand up for yourself, or exploded after holding things in too long, this video is for you. Anger isn’t the enemy—it’s your greatest untapped resource. Watch until the end to learn how to express it in a powerful, constructive way.  👉 Comment below: What’s your relationship with anger? Do you suppress it, explode, or use it effectively? Let’s talk.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2042915800</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64815024/2042915800_thebrojo_anger_management_build_confidence.mp3" length="63525197" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most Nice Guys think anger is a problem—something to suppress or feel ashamed of. But what if anger is actually the key to confidence, assertiveness, and a meaningful life? In this episode, we dive deep into the hidden power of anger and why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most Nice Guys think anger is a problem—something to suppress or feel ashamed of. But what if anger is actually the key to confidence, assertiveness, and a meaningful life? In this episode, we dive deep into the hidden power of anger and why suppressing it leads to depression, resentment, and passive aggression.  You’ll learn: 🔥 Why Nice Guys struggle with anger and how it sabotages their self-respect 🔥 The real reason you feel stuck, frustrated, or unmotivated 🔥 How to channel anger into confidence, courage, and boundary-setting 🔥 The difference between healthy anger and destructive rage  If you've ever felt like a pushover, struggled to stand up for yourself, or exploded after holding things in too long, this video is for you. Anger isn’t the enemy—it’s your greatest untapped resource. Watch until the end to learn how to express it in a powerful, constructive way.  👉 Comment below: What’s your relationship with anger? Do you suppress it, explode, or use it effectively? Let’s talk.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3971</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c347519008fb4467fdd002950ef42338.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#256] How to Handle Emotional Pain Like a Man (Without Suppressing It)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/256-how-to-handle-emotional-pain-like-a-man-without-suppressing-it--64783020</link><description><![CDATA[Emotional pain is unavoidable—but how you handle it determines your confidence, resilience, and overall well-being. Most “Nice Guys” have been taught to suppress their emotions, thinking that sadness, anger, or anxiety make them weak. But real strength comes from facing these feelings head-on without letting them control you.  In this video, I break down how to stop fearing emotional pain and start using it as a tool for personal growth. You’ll learn:  Why suppressing emotions creates suffering (and how to stop) A simple technique to process feelings without overthinking them How to turn emotions like anger, sadness, and fear into productive action Why labeling emotions can make them worse—and what to do instead By the end, you’ll have a clear roadmap for handling emotional pain in a way that builds confidence and self-respect, rather than keeping you stuck in Nice Guy habits.  💬 What’s the hardest emotion for you to deal with? Drop a comment below—I read every one and would love to hear your thoughts!  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting overlooked?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and respect. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.  🔥 Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join. 💪 Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business. 🚀 Stop waiting—start your transformation today!  🔗 Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2039065712</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Feb 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783020/2039065712_thebrojo_256_how_to_handle_emotional_pain_like_a_man_without_suppressing_it.mp3" length="66085615" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Emotional pain is unavoidable—but how you handle it determines your confidence, resilience, and overall well-being. Most “Nice Guys” have been taught to suppress their emotions, thinking that sadness, anger, or anxiety make them weak. But real...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Emotional pain is unavoidable—but how you handle it determines your confidence, resilience, and overall well-being. Most “Nice Guys” have been taught to suppress their emotions, thinking that sadness, anger, or anxiety make them weak. But real strength comes from facing these feelings head-on without letting them control you.  In this video, I break down how to stop fearing emotional pain and start using it as a tool for personal growth. You’ll learn:  Why suppressing emotions creates suffering (and how to stop) A simple technique to process feelings without overthinking them How to turn emotions like anger, sadness, and fear into productive action Why labeling emotions can make them worse—and what to do instead By the end, you’ll have a clear roadmap for handling emotional pain in a way that builds confidence and self-respect, rather than keeping you stuck in Nice Guy habits.  💬 What’s the hardest emotion for you to deal with? Drop a comment below—I read every one and would love to hear your thoughts!  --- Tired of being "too nice" and getting overlooked?  It’s time to step up and build real confidence, integrity, and respect. Join The Integrity Army, a private men’s community designed to help you break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become the confident man you’re meant to be.  🔥 Get FREE access to my Nice Guy Recovery &amp; Confidence Building courses when you join. 💪 Connect with like-minded men leveling up in life, relationships, and business. 🚀 Stop waiting—start your transformation today!  🔗 Join now https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4131</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cccfbbe78689f66975f21628edc128c6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#255] On Manipulation: How People Influence and Control You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/255-on-manipulation-how-people-influence-and-control-you--64783035</link><description><![CDATA[Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!  https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491 --- In this episode, we discuss manipulation, defining it as controlling or influencing someone, which can be neutral or malicious depending on intent and outcome.  Manipulation is constant and subjective, occurring when someone changes behavior in response to emotional discomfort. It's vital to start recognizing manipulation by its impact on quality of life and engage in strategies like maintaining original plans, questioning intentions, and being assertive.  We'll look at the importance of endurance and making manipulation uncomfortable for the manipulator.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/2003993751</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783035/2003993751_thebrojo_255_on_manipulation_how_people_influence_and_control_you.mp3" length="38681285" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!  https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491 --- In this episode, we discuss manipulation, defining it as controlling or influencing someone,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!  https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491 --- In this episode, we discuss manipulation, defining it as controlling or influencing someone, which can be neutral or malicious depending on intent and outcome.  Manipulation is constant and subjective, occurring when someone changes behavior in response to emotional discomfort. It's vital to start recognizing manipulation by its impact on quality of life and engage in strategies like maintaining original plans, questioning intentions, and being assertive.  We'll look at the importance of endurance and making manipulation uncomfortable for the manipulator.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2418</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2b234f727ed92019d2494df9f8e1fb3b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#254] The Brutal Truth About Personal Growth (Nobody Talks About This)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/254-the-brutal-truth-about-personal-growth-nobody-talks-about-this--64783023</link><description><![CDATA[Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!   https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491  Ask Dan Anything:  In this session, we focused on Nice Guy Recovery questions, including:  When to stop identifying as a Nice Guy and realise you’ve moved on from that label.  How to stop ruminating over your ex and move on with your life.  How to get unstuck from always needing others to guide you, and learn to decide for yourself the right way forward.  How to deal with the uncomfortable situation of having to keep seeing someone who hurt you in the past, and how to navigate past the awkwardness and potential manipulation.  Dealing with the difficulty of losing friends while you develop yourself and outgrow them.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1988727075</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783023/1988727075_thebrojo_254_ask_dan_anything_nice_guy_syndrome_recovery_questions.mp3" length="75497220" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!   https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491  Ask Dan Anything:  In this session, we focused on Nice Guy Recovery questions, including:  When...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build Your Confidence and Integrity - join the FREE Brojo Self-Development Community on Skool here!   https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491  Ask Dan Anything:  In this session, we focused on Nice Guy Recovery questions, including:  When to stop identifying as a Nice Guy and realise you’ve moved on from that label.  How to stop ruminating over your ex and move on with your life.  How to get unstuck from always needing others to guide you, and learn to decide for yourself the right way forward.  How to deal with the uncomfortable situation of having to keep seeing someone who hurt you in the past, and how to navigate past the awkwardness and potential manipulation.  Dealing with the difficulty of losing friends while you develop yourself and outgrow them.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4719</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a94eaa3aaaca46b5257745aecfc342fa.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#253] The Philosophy of Integrity: Finding the Meaning of Life Through Confidence Building</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/253-the-philosophy-of-integrity-finding-the-meaning-of-life-through-confidence-building--64783032</link><description><![CDATA[Dan Munro outlines his Philosophy of Integrity in full for the first time.  This philosophy emphasizes individual self-discovery and the absence of rigid rules. Integrity is defined as consistency and honesty, while confidence is described as a deep-seated belief in oneself. The philosophy posits that increasing integrity leads to greater confidence and a better life.  Munro identifies core values as subjective principles guiding your behavior in a way that will improve your confidence and the lives of those around you, such as honesty, courage, and responsibility. He stresses the importance of aligning your everyday actions with your values, continuous adaptation of your values, and the rejection of instant gratification for long-term benefits.  Munro also highlights the influence of various philosophers and thinkers on this philosophy.  At the end, you will get a step by step practical guide for living by with integrity:  Action Items [ ] Identify your core values. [ ] Create a guiding principle or definition for each value. [ ] Test and measure how well you are living by your values, and refine them as needed. [ ] Treat each day as an opportunity to experiment with living more by your values. [ ] Use the 3x model of curiosity, honesty, and respect to continuously enhance your wisdom about living with integrity.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1984122707</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Dec 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783032/1984122707_thebrojo_253_the_philosophy_of_integrity_finding_the_meaning_of_life_through_confidence_building.mp3" length="60985677" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dan Munro outlines his Philosophy of Integrity in full for the first time.  This philosophy emphasizes individual self-discovery and the absence of rigid rules. Integrity is defined as consistency and honesty, while confidence is described as a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dan Munro outlines his Philosophy of Integrity in full for the first time.  This philosophy emphasizes individual self-discovery and the absence of rigid rules. Integrity is defined as consistency and honesty, while confidence is described as a deep-seated belief in oneself. The philosophy posits that increasing integrity leads to greater confidence and a better life.  Munro identifies core values as subjective principles guiding your behavior in a way that will improve your confidence and the lives of those around you, such as honesty, courage, and responsibility. He stresses the importance of aligning your everyday actions with your values, continuous adaptation of your values, and the rejection of instant gratification for long-term benefits.  Munro also highlights the influence of various philosophers and thinkers on this philosophy.  At the end, you will get a step by step practical guide for living by with integrity:  Action Items [ ] Identify your core values. [ ] Create a guiding principle or definition for each value. [ ] Test and measure how well you are living by your values, and refine them as needed. [ ] Treat each day as an opportunity to experiment with living more by your values. [ ] Use the 3x model of curiosity, honesty, and respect to continuously enhance your wisdom about living with integrity.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3812</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/56852b14e5e57885e7a35a3f2aedba7a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#251] How to Stop Being Hard on Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/251-how-to-stop-being-hard-on-yourself--64783046</link><description><![CDATA[This episode discusses the challenges of self-love and acceptance, emphasizing the importance of treating oneself kindly.   We'll explore the common struggle everyone has with stress, pressure, and societal expectations, which often lead to self-loathing and coping mechanisms like overworking, substance abuse, and people-pleasing.  True self-love involves reducing stress, being kind to oneself, and recognizing your achievements, searching for a balanced approach, free from the extremes of high pressure or complete apathy, looking for self-compassion and realistic expectations.  Practical solutions include reframing thoughts, focusing on controllable aspects, and fostering genuine connections.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1950184183</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2024 17:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783046/1950184183_thebrojo_251_how_to_stop_being_hard_on_yourself.mp3" length="78641945" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode discusses the challenges of self-love and acceptance, emphasizing the importance of treating oneself kindly.   We'll explore the common struggle everyone has with stress, pressure, and societal expectations, which often lead to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode discusses the challenges of self-love and acceptance, emphasizing the importance of treating oneself kindly.   We'll explore the common struggle everyone has with stress, pressure, and societal expectations, which often lead to self-loathing and coping mechanisms like overworking, substance abuse, and people-pleasing.  True self-love involves reducing stress, being kind to oneself, and recognizing your achievements, searching for a balanced approach, free from the extremes of high pressure or complete apathy, looking for self-compassion and realistic expectations.  Practical solutions include reframing thoughts, focusing on controllable aspects, and fostering genuine connections.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4916</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b1e056bc4aa4cc23a2f917d1c7390faf.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#252] Ask Dan Anything! Your Confidence Building Questions Answered</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/252-ask-dan-anything-your-confidence-building-questions-answered--64783025</link><description><![CDATA[In this AMA, I answer the following questions about confidence:  What's the best way - strategies, methods - to really get to know myself and like myself?  How can people stop defining themselves - their actions, life view etc. - by the Nice Guy Syndrome ?  Any suggestions and advice for a work confrontation with a colleague who tries to control me?  How to push through with Radical Honesty without backing down when they're resistant?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1972011839</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783025/1972011839_thebrojo_252_ask_dan_anything_your_confidence_building_questions_answered.mp3" length="65286477" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this AMA, I answer the following questions about confidence:  What's the best way - strategies, methods - to really get to know myself and like myself?  How can people stop defining themselves - their actions, life view etc. - by the Nice Guy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this AMA, I answer the following questions about confidence:  What's the best way - strategies, methods - to really get to know myself and like myself?  How can people stop defining themselves - their actions, life view etc. - by the Nice Guy Syndrome ?  Any suggestions and advice for a work confrontation with a colleague who tries to control me?  How to push through with Radical Honesty without backing down when they're resistant?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4081</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/34ee8fa981d09728e3f17e468b114eff.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#250] The 21 Traits of Self Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/250-the-21-traits-of-self-confidence--64783021</link><description><![CDATA[This episode  discusses the psychology of self-confidence, emphasizing that it can be learned and is not innate.  It outlines 21 traits crucial for building confidence, starting with bravery and courage, which involve facing and expanding past fear. It highlights the importance of radical honesty, assertiveness, and respect, and also stresses the need for self-awareness, curiosity, and optimism. I advice against people-pleasing and encourages ruthlessness when necessary.  This episode promotes a resourceful mindset, emotional stability, and relentless pursuit of long-term goals.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1934796035</guid><pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2024 17:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783021/1934796035_thebrojo_250_the_21_traits_of_self_confidence.mp3" length="57955473" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode  discusses the psychology of self-confidence, emphasizing that it can be learned and is not innate.  It outlines 21 traits crucial for building confidence, starting with bravery and courage, which involve facing and expanding past fear....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode  discusses the psychology of self-confidence, emphasizing that it can be learned and is not innate.  It outlines 21 traits crucial for building confidence, starting with bravery and courage, which involve facing and expanding past fear. It highlights the importance of radical honesty, assertiveness, and respect, and also stresses the need for self-awareness, curiosity, and optimism. I advice against people-pleasing and encourages ruthlessness when necessary.  This episode promotes a resourceful mindset, emotional stability, and relentless pursuit of long-term goals.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3623</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e41a013d3c0650bff872bb3594b26626.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#249] Parenting with Integrity: How to Raise Confident Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/249-parenting-with-integrity-how-to-raise-confident-children--64783034</link><description><![CDATA[Dan Munro discusses parenting styles and their impact on child confidence. He recommends Lighthouse, Free Range, and Gentle parenting, emphasizing autonomy, emotional validation, and respect. He criticizes strict and Tiger parenting for fostering dishonesty and misery. Munro also warns against helicopter parenting, which can lead to fragility. Key principles include challenging children to solve problems, validating emotions, and setting healthy boundaries. He stresses the importance of honesty, self-awareness, and physical health. Munro highlights the need for parents to model behavior and avoid hypocrisy, aiming to raise confident, autonomous children.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1924803962</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Oct 2024 16:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783034/1924803962_thebrojo_249_parenting_with_integrity_how_to_raise_confident_children.mp3" length="64935391" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dan Munro discusses parenting styles and their impact on child confidence. He recommends Lighthouse, Free Range, and Gentle parenting, emphasizing autonomy, emotional validation, and respect. He criticizes strict and Tiger parenting for fostering...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dan Munro discusses parenting styles and their impact on child confidence. He recommends Lighthouse, Free Range, and Gentle parenting, emphasizing autonomy, emotional validation, and respect. He criticizes strict and Tiger parenting for fostering dishonesty and misery. Munro also warns against helicopter parenting, which can lead to fragility. Key principles include challenging children to solve problems, validating emotions, and setting healthy boundaries. He stresses the importance of honesty, self-awareness, and physical health. Munro highlights the need for parents to model behavior and avoid hypocrisy, aiming to raise confident, autonomous children.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4059</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8d1824518b1e6b8bf124a91a28b05e8c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#248] Psychopathy: The Darksides and Downsides to Not Giving a Fuck</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/248-psychopathy-the-darksides-and-downsides-to-not-giving-a-fuck--64783050</link><description><![CDATA[[#248] Psychopathy: The Darksides and Downsides to Not Giving a Fuck by Dan Munro &amp; Mike Wells]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1918737527</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Oct 2024 16:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783050/1918737527_thebrojo_jackson_podcast_2.mp3" length="70282761" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>[#248] Psychopathy: The Darksides and Downsides to Not Giving a Fuck by Dan Munro &amp;amp; Mike Wells</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[[#248] Psychopathy: The Darksides and Downsides to Not Giving a Fuck by Dan Munro &amp; Mike Wells]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4393</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/242fec6edfe8b7e4efa1dbb23f0a7a6c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#247] Letting Go of Outcomes: Free 90min Confidence Building Webinar</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/247-letting-go-of-outcomes-free-90min-confidence-building-webinar--64783022</link><description><![CDATA[Being attached to outcomes - results or reactions that are outside of your direct control - causes more suffering than just about anything else you'll ever encounter.  Tragically, you're doing this without needing to!  In this podcast, I explore the concept of having an emotional attachment (a hopeful expectation) to results that you prefer, and why this is both unnecessary and unhelpful when it comes to building self confidence.  We'll explore how to live with integrity and pursue your goals without hoping that things will go "well" and being able to enjoy the process rather than depending on winning.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1915065074</guid><pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2024 16:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783022/1915065074_thebrojo_letting_go_of_outcomes_free_90min_confidence_building_webinar.mp3" length="139342295" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Being attached to outcomes - results or reactions that are outside of your direct control - causes more suffering than just about anything else you'll ever encounter.  Tragically, you're doing this without needing to!  In this podcast, I explore the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Being attached to outcomes - results or reactions that are outside of your direct control - causes more suffering than just about anything else you'll ever encounter.  Tragically, you're doing this without needing to!  In this podcast, I explore the concept of having an emotional attachment (a hopeful expectation) to results that you prefer, and why this is both unnecessary and unhelpful when it comes to building self confidence.  We'll explore how to live with integrity and pursue your goals without hoping that things will go "well" and being able to enjoy the process rather than depending on winning.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5806</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e07a5540cf122e60185de28fcfdcaf3b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#246] Neurodivergent Love: Psychopath (ASPD) x Borderline (BPD) Relationship- Teagan’s story</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/246-neurodivergent-love-psychopath-aspd-x-borderline-bpd-relationship-teagan-s-story--64783040</link><description><![CDATA[I've got a new podcast for you that's here by popular demand. The last podcast I did was with the honest psychopath Jackson Noble, and I got a lot of inquiries about his partner Teagan.  People wanted to know what it was like for her to be with an open psychopath, to be in a loving relationship with him, to observe him as a father and a partner, and to know if it's possible to have a healthy and loving relationship with somebody with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).  Well, Teagan has gracefully agreed to be interviewed and to talk about her experiences openly and honestly. She also identifies as neurodivergent and believes she has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). And yet she says their relationship is "99% healthy".  Together we explored what it means to love when you don't experience emotions deeply, how safe it is to be in a relationship with a psychopath, and how that compares to her previous relationships with neurotypical men.  Let's meet her and hear her fascinating story.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1905443915</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2024 16:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783040/1905443915_thebrojo_246_neurodivergent_love_psychopath_aspd_x_borderline_bpd_relationship_teagans_story.mp3" length="76330212" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I've got a new podcast for you that's here by popular demand. The last podcast I did was with the honest psychopath Jackson Noble, and I got a lot of inquiries about his partner Teagan.  People wanted to know what it was like for her to be with an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I've got a new podcast for you that's here by popular demand. The last podcast I did was with the honest psychopath Jackson Noble, and I got a lot of inquiries about his partner Teagan.  People wanted to know what it was like for her to be with an open psychopath, to be in a loving relationship with him, to observe him as a father and a partner, and to know if it's possible to have a healthy and loving relationship with somebody with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).  Well, Teagan has gracefully agreed to be interviewed and to talk about her experiences openly and honestly. She also identifies as neurodivergent and believes she has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). And yet she says their relationship is "99% healthy".  Together we explored what it means to love when you don't experience emotions deeply, how safe it is to be in a relationship with a psychopath, and how that compares to her previous relationships with neurotypical men.  Let's meet her and hear her fascinating story.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4771</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/803ba199da473aa759ad773957261f04.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#245] Confidence Advice from a Psychopath: Jackson Noble on Overcoming Self Doubt</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/245-confidence-advice-from-a-psychopath-jackson-noble-on-overcoming-self-doubt--64783047</link><description><![CDATA[Dan Munro and self-aware psychopath Jackson Noble (a.k.a. "Jack the Ripper") engage in a thought-provoking discussion on various topics, including psychopathy, childhood trauma, moral codes, self-doubt, and how to stop caring what other people think of you.  They share their personal experiences and insights, often highlighting the complexities of psychopathy traits and issues and the importance of navigating them ethically and responsibly. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the need for honesty, self-trust, and long-term thinking, as well as the importance of protecting children from harm.  Overall, the conversation is both introspective and informative, offering valuable insights into the human psyche and the importance of empathy and self-awareness.  Check out Jackson's links for his book and social media here: https://linktr.ee/jax.theripper]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1875720123</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Jul 2024 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783047/1875720123_thebrojo_jackson_noble_psychopath_overcome_self_doubt_confidence.mp3" length="110120123" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dan Munro and self-aware psychopath Jackson Noble (a.k.a. "Jack the Ripper") engage in a thought-provoking discussion on various topics, including psychopathy, childhood trauma, moral codes, self-doubt, and how to stop caring what other people think...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dan Munro and self-aware psychopath Jackson Noble (a.k.a. "Jack the Ripper") engage in a thought-provoking discussion on various topics, including psychopathy, childhood trauma, moral codes, self-doubt, and how to stop caring what other people think of you.  They share their personal experiences and insights, often highlighting the complexities of psychopathy traits and issues and the importance of navigating them ethically and responsibly. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the need for honesty, self-trust, and long-term thinking, as well as the importance of protecting children from harm.  Overall, the conversation is both introspective and informative, offering valuable insights into the human psyche and the importance of empathy and self-awareness.  Check out Jackson's links for his book and social media here: https://linktr.ee/jax.theripper]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6883</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/77bc4e020ec3be01ef16673accb6d00e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#244] Finding Your Integrity: Core Values to Live By</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/244-finding-your-integrity-core-values-to-live-by--64783049</link><description><![CDATA[Show notes:  Introduction  Integrity definition The formula for integrity is core values By the end, you should know a draft of your values, how to live by them, and what behaviour change you could make today to become a bit more confident  What are core values and why are they important?  Integrity diamond Start with what they’re not So what is a core value Thoughts and feelings don’t count  Core Values Exercise: The Integrity Formula  Integrity builds confidence, integrity is a formula Values is the ingredients Value questions values criteria Practical definition Exercise  Core Values List for Confident Integrity: Examples and Definitions  Curiosity Courage Honesty Acceptance Respect Responsibility Giving Assertiveness Presence Generosity Ruthlessness  Core Values for Business and Career Development  Entrepreneur, owner or an employee Patience Responsibility Honesty Determination Generosity Service Humility Assertiveness  7 Core Values for Personal Relationships  Single, dating, or married Honesty Curiosity Respect Acceptance Courage Presence Assertiveness Generosity  Core Values for Leadership That Inspires Loyalty  Boss, manager, priest, or head of the family Courage Embodied Curious Assertive Service Ruthless Responsible Humility]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1813450542</guid><pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2024 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783049/1813450542_thebrojo_integrity_core_values_to_live_by.mp3" length="78237778" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Show notes:  Introduction  Integrity definition The formula for integrity is core values By the end, you should know a draft of your values, how to live by them, and what behaviour change you could make today to become a bit more confident  What are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Show notes:  Introduction  Integrity definition The formula for integrity is core values By the end, you should know a draft of your values, how to live by them, and what behaviour change you could make today to become a bit more confident  What are core values and why are they important?  Integrity diamond Start with what they’re not So what is a core value Thoughts and feelings don’t count  Core Values Exercise: The Integrity Formula  Integrity builds confidence, integrity is a formula Values is the ingredients Value questions values criteria Practical definition Exercise  Core Values List for Confident Integrity: Examples and Definitions  Curiosity Courage Honesty Acceptance Respect Responsibility Giving Assertiveness Presence Generosity Ruthlessness  Core Values for Business and Career Development  Entrepreneur, owner or an employee Patience Responsibility Honesty Determination Generosity Service Humility Assertiveness  7 Core Values for Personal Relationships  Single, dating, or married Honesty Curiosity Respect Acceptance Courage Presence Assertiveness Generosity  Core Values for Leadership That Inspires Loyalty  Boss, manager, priest, or head of the family Courage Embodied Curious Assertive Service Ruthless Responsible Humility]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4890</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24ef508ac41fb5cb8463e37b85f041cc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#243] Bravery and Courage: How to overcome fear and social anxiety</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/243-bravery-and-courage-how-to-overcome-fear-and-social-anxiety--64783024</link><description><![CDATA[The videos I’ve been putting out the last few weeks are all excerpts from one overall conversation about bravery.  In this podcast, I break down the different elements of courage to give you ideas on how you can apply this to your life to give yourself more opportunities and increase your self confidence.  In this episode, we cover:  Bravery is not the absence of fear: understanding that courage is wisdom rather than strength  Fear mongering: identifying and resisting the manipulative tactics fear uses.  Courage to be disliked: facing social anxiety and caring what people think of you.  Confidence vs arrogance: how to build courage without becoming a jerk.  Confidence quotes: short questions and statements that will boost your daily bravery in a practical way.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1802629908</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2024 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783024/1802629908_thebrojo_243_bravery_and_courage_how_to_overcome_fear_and_social_anxiety.mp3" length="69728965" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The videos I’ve been putting out the last few weeks are all excerpts from one overall conversation about bravery.  In this podcast, I break down the different elements of courage to give you ideas on how you can apply this to your life to give...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The videos I’ve been putting out the last few weeks are all excerpts from one overall conversation about bravery.  In this podcast, I break down the different elements of courage to give you ideas on how you can apply this to your life to give yourself more opportunities and increase your self confidence.  In this episode, we cover:  Bravery is not the absence of fear: understanding that courage is wisdom rather than strength  Fear mongering: identifying and resisting the manipulative tactics fear uses.  Courage to be disliked: facing social anxiety and caring what people think of you.  Confidence vs arrogance: how to build courage without becoming a jerk.  Confidence quotes: short questions and statements that will boost your daily bravery in a practical way.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4359</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ba032685960dbce86d55b9ef39fa621.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#242] Relationships for Dummies: Nice Guy marriage and relationship tips</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/242-relationships-for-dummies-nice-guy-marriage-and-relationship-tips--64783061</link><description><![CDATA[We’re going to look at relationships and how these are affected by nice guy syndrome. We’ll explore how relationships are different for nice guys and what the unique challenges are. We’ll look at what makes a great relationship work, as well as what causes toxic relationships and divorces.  We’ll compare long term relationships with marriage. We’ll explore the specific issues with ADHD because it’s such a sought after topic. And then we’ll look at how to repair damage that’s already occurred  Topics Nice Guy relationships: definition How relationships work for the best possible connection Relationships vs marriage: what’s the difference? Relationships with adhd and nice guy syndrome Can relationships be fixed?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1766473896</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Apr 2024 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783061/1766473896_thebrojo_242_relationships_for_dummies_nice_guy_marriage_and_relationship_tips.mp3" length="62352821" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’re going to look at relationships and how these are affected by nice guy syndrome. We’ll explore how relationships are different for nice guys and what the unique challenges are. We’ll look at what makes a great relationship work, as well as what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re going to look at relationships and how these are affected by nice guy syndrome. We’ll explore how relationships are different for nice guys and what the unique challenges are. We’ll look at what makes a great relationship work, as well as what causes toxic relationships and divorces.  We’ll compare long term relationships with marriage. We’ll explore the specific issues with ADHD because it’s such a sought after topic. And then we’ll look at how to repair damage that’s already occurred  Topics Nice Guy relationships: definition How relationships work for the best possible connection Relationships vs marriage: what’s the difference? Relationships with adhd and nice guy syndrome Can relationships be fixed?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3898</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/34b8b0c7b9f5223ffb50bae2ce4d0ec8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#241] What is Social Confidence?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/241-what-is-social-confidence--64783036</link><description><![CDATA[What is social confidence?  It might be the most important skillset and mindset for life success and satisfaction. This is the biggest struggle I see, evidenced by dishonesty, depression and loneliness, social media validation begging, and dismal dating experiences. Most people are faking social confidence or not even able to do that. In this podcast we cover what it is, why it matters, and how to build it.  We'll look at:  Social confidence meaning / definition - how the definition makes a big difference to your mindset A social confidence scale you can use to measure your progress The 5 I’s of confidence - a practical step by step guide to building confidence objectively Why is social confidence important? We'll look at the justification for making this your top priority Is social anxiety a lack of confidence? Can a confident person have social anxiety? Social confidence for introverts - a special look at shyness How to improve social confidence and how to boost social confidence in a practical way, no matter who you are]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1730622057</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2024 17:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783036/1730622057_thebrojo_what_is_social_confidence.mp3" length="53044452" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is social confidence?  It might be the most important skillset and mindset for life success and satisfaction. This is the biggest struggle I see, evidenced by dishonesty, depression and loneliness, social media validation begging, and dismal...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is social confidence?  It might be the most important skillset and mindset for life success and satisfaction. This is the biggest struggle I see, evidenced by dishonesty, depression and loneliness, social media validation begging, and dismal dating experiences. Most people are faking social confidence or not even able to do that. In this podcast we cover what it is, why it matters, and how to build it.  We'll look at:  Social confidence meaning / definition - how the definition makes a big difference to your mindset A social confidence scale you can use to measure your progress The 5 I’s of confidence - a practical step by step guide to building confidence objectively Why is social confidence important? We'll look at the justification for making this your top priority Is social anxiety a lack of confidence? Can a confident person have social anxiety? Social confidence for introverts - a special look at shyness How to improve social confidence and how to boost social confidence in a practical way, no matter who you are]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3316</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24ef508ac41fb5cb8463e37b85f041cc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#240] Nice Guy Syndrome Psychology: A Complete Review</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/240-nice-guy-syndrome-psychology-a-complete-review--64783058</link><description><![CDATA[Listen Notes In this podcast episode, I break down some of the major psychological components that make up Nice Guy Syndrome. NGS is a cluster of different psychological disorders and struggles, and not every Nice Guy is the same. Some of these will apply to you, some won't. This podcast should help you figure out what type of Nice Guy you are, as well as how you should focus your recovery. We'll talk about Nice Guy Attachment Styles (avoidant and anxious), Nice Guy Narcissism, People Pleasing Syndrome, and comorbidity with ADHD and autism. Then we'll wrap up with looking at a general recovery approach that works for all types.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1719405669</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2024 01:52:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783058/1719405669_thebrojo_240_nice_guy_syndrome_psychology_a_complete_review.mp3" length="46139767" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Listen Notes In this podcast episode, I break down some of the major psychological components that make up Nice Guy Syndrome. NGS is a cluster of different psychological disorders and struggles, and not every Nice Guy is the same. Some of these will...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Listen Notes In this podcast episode, I break down some of the major psychological components that make up Nice Guy Syndrome. NGS is a cluster of different psychological disorders and struggles, and not every Nice Guy is the same. Some of these will apply to you, some won't. This podcast should help you figure out what type of Nice Guy you are, as well as how you should focus your recovery. We'll talk about Nice Guy Attachment Styles (avoidant and anxious), Nice Guy Narcissism, People Pleasing Syndrome, and comorbidity with ADHD and autism. Then we'll wrap up with looking at a general recovery approach that works for all types.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2884</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/495a4a9d7c0123e1af48c3589dd6ae3b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#239] The Darkness That Comes Before: Managing the Manipulation from Your Own Mind</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/239-the-darkness-that-comes-before-managing-the-manipulation-from-your-own-mind--64783056</link><description><![CDATA[In the fantasy series "The Prince of Nothing" and "The Aspect Emperor" by R Scott Bakker, we are introduced to a concept called The Darkness that Comes Before. This describes the unknown place from where our urges and drives and decisions come from, that subconscious part of the brain that really calls the shots. In this podcast episode, I explore what occurs in that darkness, and how other people get into your mind to control you. We look at how to be sceptical about your own thoughts and feelings and beliefs, in such a way that ensures you make better long-term decisions and prevent others from manipulating you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1696795086</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Jan 2024 05:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783056/1696795086_thebrojo_239_the_darkness_that_comes_before_managing_the_manipulation_from_your_own_mind.mp3" length="72038190" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the fantasy series "The Prince of Nothing" and "The Aspect Emperor" by R Scott Bakker, we are introduced to a concept called The Darkness that Comes Before. This describes the unknown place from where our urges and drives and decisions come from,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the fantasy series "The Prince of Nothing" and "The Aspect Emperor" by R Scott Bakker, we are introduced to a concept called The Darkness that Comes Before. This describes the unknown place from where our urges and drives and decisions come from, that subconscious part of the brain that really calls the shots. In this podcast episode, I explore what occurs in that darkness, and how other people get into your mind to control you. We look at how to be sceptical about your own thoughts and feelings and beliefs, in such a way that ensures you make better long-term decisions and prevent others from manipulating you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4503</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/38512639713090be539ca0cd8599969e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#238] Beyond Dating: The Green Pill integrity-based approach to finding your ideal partner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/238-beyond-dating-the-green-pill-integrity-based-approach-to-finding-your-ideal-partner--64783027</link><description><![CDATA[Introducing the Green Pill approach to dating and relationships  In this podcast episode we’ll discuss about what I’m going to call the “Green Pill” approach to dating and relationships (as opposed to red pill or blue pill ideologies). I’ve named it that because green seems the right colour to signify integrity, growth, and nature / being natural.  So with the Green Pill approach to dating you actually lose the word “dating” altogether because it’s too needy and full of desperation and transactional. It’s a complete paradigm shift away from getting something from other people. Instead, you focus on socializing with integrity. The primary purpose is to impress yourself with valued living. No more seduction techniques, hiding behind texting, sliding into DMs, online dating apps, setting up dates, or going to bars and clubs.  Instead you fill your week with hobbies and activities that fulfil you. You turn everything you love into a social event, and you focus primarily on being as honest and brave and transparent as you can be in those situations, even if it costs you the love of everyone in the room. Rather than trying to “get” people and fit in or make them like you, you take the risk of losing everyone in order to be true to yourself. But at the same time, you don’t sabotage potential connections with avoidant tactics or contrarian disagreeableness. You employ powerful honesty principles to attract the right kind of people and repel the wrong kind, all while primarily focusing on engaging in activities you enjoy.  If the honesty is loved, respected and reciprocated by someone you also like, then you invite them to join you in your life (but you don’t create new events just for them). You keep doing that until you’re only surrounded by the best fit possible people, and of course, your shameless honesty will naturally escalate things romantically as well. ————-  This Green Pill approach is broken down in great detail in my Building Rapport course – you can access this and all my other courses with a free 7 day trial to my paid subscription – DM or email me dan@brojo.org for access]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1676609889</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 Dec 2023 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783027/1676609889_thebrojo_238_beyond_dating_the_green_pill_integrity_based_approach_to_finding_your_ideal_partner.mp3" length="66117380" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Introducing the Green Pill approach to dating and relationships  In this podcast episode we’ll discuss about what I’m going to call the “Green Pill” approach to dating and relationships (as opposed to red pill or blue pill ideologies). I’ve named it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Introducing the Green Pill approach to dating and relationships  In this podcast episode we’ll discuss about what I’m going to call the “Green Pill” approach to dating and relationships (as opposed to red pill or blue pill ideologies). I’ve named it that because green seems the right colour to signify integrity, growth, and nature / being natural.  So with the Green Pill approach to dating you actually lose the word “dating” altogether because it’s too needy and full of desperation and transactional. It’s a complete paradigm shift away from getting something from other people. Instead, you focus on socializing with integrity. The primary purpose is to impress yourself with valued living. No more seduction techniques, hiding behind texting, sliding into DMs, online dating apps, setting up dates, or going to bars and clubs.  Instead you fill your week with hobbies and activities that fulfil you. You turn everything you love into a social event, and you focus primarily on being as honest and brave and transparent as you can be in those situations, even if it costs you the love of everyone in the room. Rather than trying to “get” people and fit in or make them like you, you take the risk of losing everyone in order to be true to yourself. But at the same time, you don’t sabotage potential connections with avoidant tactics or contrarian disagreeableness. You employ powerful honesty principles to attract the right kind of people and repel the wrong kind, all while primarily focusing on engaging in activities you enjoy.  If the honesty is loved, respected and reciprocated by someone you also like, then you invite them to join you in your life (but you don’t create new events just for them). You keep doing that until you’re only surrounded by the best fit possible people, and of course, your shameless honesty will naturally escalate things romantically as well. ————-  This Green Pill approach is broken down in great detail in my Building Rapport course – you can access this and all my other courses with a free 7 day trial to my paid subscription – DM or email me dan@brojo.org for access]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4133</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/293876b96b96bce885d98f9da996c2be.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#237] Debunking the Arguments Against Radical Honesty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/237-debunking-the-arguments-against-radical-honesty--64783030</link><description><![CDATA[In this podcast, I scoured the internet to find the most common arguments against honesty - the justifications for lying, manipulation, and keeping thoughts to yourself. I will address each of them with my counter arguments, including the most powerful cases I've ever seen: hiding Jews from the Nazis, and not telling a child that they're about to die!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1649047953</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Oct 2023 13:49:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783030/1649047953_thebrojo_237_debunking_the_arguments_against_radical_honesty.mp3" length="45664592" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this podcast, I scoured the internet to find the most common arguments against honesty - the justifications for lying, manipulation, and keeping thoughts to yourself. I will address each of them with my counter arguments, including the most...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this podcast, I scoured the internet to find the most common arguments against honesty - the justifications for lying, manipulation, and keeping thoughts to yourself. I will address each of them with my counter arguments, including the most powerful cases I've ever seen: hiding Jews from the Nazis, and not telling a child that they're about to die!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2855</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6ba6ba1ce37be2ec56f10293165e961d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#236] The Truth About Divorce: An Honest Look at Why 50% of Marriages Fail</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/236-the-truth-about-divorce-an-honest-look-at-why-50-of-marriages-fail--64783029</link><description><![CDATA[Get your Daily Dose of Integrity with my FREE newsletter here: https://danthecoach.substack.com/  In the USA, divorce rates are 2.9/1000, meaning that 50% of all marriages end in divorce, averaging about 8 years before they crash. And USA is not even as bad as Russia, Maldives and Canada. But does this mean that the Red Pill narrative about how marriage is a bad idea for men is accurate? In India, divorce rates are 0.01/1000, meaning there are almost no divorces. Countries like Italy also do well. So what's really going on here? In this podcast, we'll carefully examine the real data - scientific evidence - about divorce rates, causes of marriage breakdowns, why every country has a different divorce rate, the truth about concepts like "hypergamy" and lack of commitment. And more importantly, we'll do what Red Pillers almost never do - look at the 50% of marriages that last a lifetime, and see what those couples are doing differently and what they believe that keeps their relationships solid.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1588378923</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Aug 2023 04:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783029/1588378923_thebrojo_236_the_truth_about_divorce_an_honest_look_at_why_50_of_marriages_fail.mp3" length="60754963" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get your Daily Dose of Integrity with my FREE newsletter here: https://danthecoach.substack.com/  In the USA, divorce rates are 2.9/1000, meaning that 50% of all marriages end in divorce, averaging about 8 years before they crash. And USA is not even...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get your Daily Dose of Integrity with my FREE newsletter here: https://danthecoach.substack.com/  In the USA, divorce rates are 2.9/1000, meaning that 50% of all marriages end in divorce, averaging about 8 years before they crash. And USA is not even as bad as Russia, Maldives and Canada. But does this mean that the Red Pill narrative about how marriage is a bad idea for men is accurate? In India, divorce rates are 0.01/1000, meaning there are almost no divorces. Countries like Italy also do well. So what's really going on here? In this podcast, we'll carefully examine the real data - scientific evidence - about divorce rates, causes of marriage breakdowns, why every country has a different divorce rate, the truth about concepts like "hypergamy" and lack of commitment. And more importantly, we'll do what Red Pillers almost never do - look at the 50% of marriages that last a lifetime, and see what those couples are doing differently and what they believe that keeps their relationships solid.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3798</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b707c3db3bbc71ac46a38445643f3fa3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#235] The Secret to What Women REALLY Want From a Man</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/235-the-secret-to-what-women-really-want-from-a-man--64783057</link><description><![CDATA[Join The Integrity Army for free group coaching here https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  Men struggle in dating and relationships to identify what it is exactly that women want from them. We're told a million different things about what's attractive and what creates a connection and how to get a girlfriend or how to make a marriage work.  Here's some dating and marriage advice for men: the greatest gift you can give to another person has nothing to do with being impressive. It’s really all about vulnerability and authenticity: letting them into your secret world, where all of your fears and faults are hidden, and allowing them to share theirs in return. It can be as simple as completing a sentence that begins with:  “I’ve never told anyone this before, but…”  It feels deeply significant and touching when someone shares something that they’ve never revealed to anyone else before. You suddenly have meaning, significance and purpose in your life. You are here to share their secret. You've created a connection that can lead to a relationship.  And it’s not even relevant whether or not they’ve shared it with others before. What’s most important is that it is a deep truth which brings you together in understanding. You both share what it means to be human.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1516989211</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2023 14:30:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783057/1516989211_thebrojo_235_the_secret_to_what_women_really_want_from_a_man.mp3" length="34251336" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join The Integrity Army for free group coaching here https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  Men struggle in dating and relationships to identify what it is exactly that women want from them. We're...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join The Integrity Army for free group coaching here https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  Men struggle in dating and relationships to identify what it is exactly that women want from them. We're told a million different things about what's attractive and what creates a connection and how to get a girlfriend or how to make a marriage work.  Here's some dating and marriage advice for men: the greatest gift you can give to another person has nothing to do with being impressive. It’s really all about vulnerability and authenticity: letting them into your secret world, where all of your fears and faults are hidden, and allowing them to share theirs in return. It can be as simple as completing a sentence that begins with:  “I’ve never told anyone this before, but…”  It feels deeply significant and touching when someone shares something that they’ve never revealed to anyone else before. You suddenly have meaning, significance and purpose in your life. You are here to share their secret. You've created a connection that can lead to a relationship.  And it’s not even relevant whether or not they’ve shared it with others before. What’s most important is that it is a deep truth which brings you together in understanding. You both share what it means to be human.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2141</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5c98a546f7f17c78476f03ee18af991c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#234] 14 Ethical Marketing Strategies: Sales Tactics Without Manipulation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/234-14-ethical-marketing-strategies-sales-tactics-without-manipulation--64783069</link><description><![CDATA[Join my free group coaching program for confidence and integrity here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  I’ve built a profitable coaching business since 2013 based on my brand of honesty and integrity.  Naturally, in the beginning, this caused me some conflict and ethical dilemmas when it came to sales. The marketing tactics and strategies I was taught often conflicted with my values.  I was told to create scarcity even when there was abundance. I was pressured to give time constraints even when there was plenty of time. I was advised to dig into my client’s pain points when they were already suffering enough.  I thought,  “Surely there’s a way to sell my coaching and products without selling my soul! There must be a way to make my sales targets without being salesy, or pushy, or manipulating in a harmful deceitful way.”  Thankfully, there is.  Selling doesn’t have to include manipulation, game play, seduction, lies, pressure, neediness, cut n paste tactics, focus on money, or selling something you don’t fully believe in.  In this article, I’m going to give you my top tips on how to sell through value-based and relationship-based methods that ensure your client always gets a good deal and you’re honest and transparent throughout the entire process.  Not only is this good for your soul, it’s actually super effective in creating trust-based long term relationships with clients who never feel buyers-remorse, never feel pressured or tricked, and always come out of it better than they went in.  Timestamps:  0:00 Intro 02:51 Give freely to create leads 08:43 Explore with them 11:22 Only monetize the main thing 12:58 See it from their perspective 14:36 Be transparent about your goals 17:33 Statements not questions 18:54 Take your time slow down 22:45 Collaborate on solutions 25:18 Slow down on a yes 28:49 Focus on long term relationships 34:00 When it's time sell shamelessly 36:53 Stay in touch 39:00 Constantly collect feedback 40:43 Conclusion and next steps 22:47 Collaborate on solutions 25:18 Slow down on a yes 28:49 Focus on long term relationships 34:00 When it's time shamelessly sell]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1511012155</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 May 2023 11:46:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783069/1511012155_thebrojo_234_14_ethical_marketing_strategies_sales_tactics_without_manipulation.mp3" length="42341817" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join my free group coaching program for confidence and integrity here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  I’ve built a profitable coaching business since 2013 based on my brand of honesty and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join my free group coaching program for confidence and integrity here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-integrity-army-free-group-coaching-with-dan-munro/  I’ve built a profitable coaching business since 2013 based on my brand of honesty and integrity.  Naturally, in the beginning, this caused me some conflict and ethical dilemmas when it came to sales. The marketing tactics and strategies I was taught often conflicted with my values.  I was told to create scarcity even when there was abundance. I was pressured to give time constraints even when there was plenty of time. I was advised to dig into my client’s pain points when they were already suffering enough.  I thought,  “Surely there’s a way to sell my coaching and products without selling my soul! There must be a way to make my sales targets without being salesy, or pushy, or manipulating in a harmful deceitful way.”  Thankfully, there is.  Selling doesn’t have to include manipulation, game play, seduction, lies, pressure, neediness, cut n paste tactics, focus on money, or selling something you don’t fully believe in.  In this article, I’m going to give you my top tips on how to sell through value-based and relationship-based methods that ensure your client always gets a good deal and you’re honest and transparent throughout the entire process.  Not only is this good for your soul, it’s actually super effective in creating trust-based long term relationships with clients who never feel buyers-remorse, never feel pressured or tricked, and always come out of it better than they went in.  Timestamps:  0:00 Intro 02:51 Give freely to create leads 08:43 Explore with them 11:22 Only monetize the main thing 12:58 See it from their perspective 14:36 Be transparent about your goals 17:33 Statements not questions 18:54 Take your time slow down 22:45 Collaborate on solutions 25:18 Slow down on a yes 28:49 Focus on long term relationships 34:00 When it's time sell shamelessly 36:53 Stay in touch 39:00 Constantly collect feedback 40:43 Conclusion and next steps 22:47 Collaborate on solutions 25:18 Slow down on a yes 28:49 Focus on long term relationships 34:00 When it's time shamelessly sell]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2647</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/886e616443dcfd1c873da2f7e71d7502.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#233] How to Start A Successful Service-Based Business like Coaching</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233-how-to-start-a-successful-service-based-business-like-coaching--64783085</link><description><![CDATA[How to start your own business doing a service you enjoy providing with people you love helping. BROJO members-only webinar on how to start-up a business based on delivering a service you enjoy providing, to people you love to work with. This will cover everything from thinking of a business idea, to testing it out, to getting your first client and growing from there.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/600357960</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 06:55:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783085/600357960_thebrojo_how_to_start_a_successful_service_based_business_coaching.mp3" length="89360646" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How to start your own business doing a service you enjoy providing with people you love helping. BROJO members-only webinar on how to start-up a business based on delivering a service you enjoy providing, to people you love to work with. This will...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to start your own business doing a service you enjoy providing with people you love helping. BROJO members-only webinar on how to start-up a business based on delivering a service you enjoy providing, to people you love to work with. This will cover everything from thinking of a business idea, to testing it out, to getting your first client and growing from there.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5585</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a3487b0a3cd0adf36ec90302ea5c2fb3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#232] Inside the Mind of a Narcissist: Interview with Jacob Skidmore - The Nameless Narcissist</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/232-inside-the-mind-of-a-narcissist-interview-with-jacob-skidmore-the-nameless-narcissist--64783067</link><description><![CDATA[Comment below with your opinions on this!  Check out Jacob's YouTube channel here: www.YouTube.com/@thenamelessnarcissist   And his other links, including options for supporting his work, can be found here: https://linktr.ee/thenamelessnarcissist  Jacob Skidmore, a.k.a The Nameless Narcissist, was officially diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and was aware that something was off since early childhood. Since realising that narcissistic behaviour has damaged his own life as well as harmed others, Jacob has set out on a path of revelation and discovery, looking for a way to live that is more beneficial to both himself and others. In this fascinating and honest interview, Jacob shares what it's like to be a narcissist, what goes on in his mind, what motivates him and drives him, and what he's hoping to achieve through sharing his struggle with the world.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1464549694</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2023 06:31:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783067/1464549694_thebrojo_232_inside_the_mind_of_a_narcissist_interview_with_jacob_skidmore_the_nameless_narcissist.mp3" length="63803185" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Comment below with your opinions on this!  Check out Jacob's YouTube channel here: www.YouTube.com/@thenamelessnarcissist   And his other links, including options for supporting his work, can be found here: https://linktr.ee/thenamelessnarcissist...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Comment below with your opinions on this!  Check out Jacob's YouTube channel here: www.YouTube.com/@thenamelessnarcissist   And his other links, including options for supporting his work, can be found here: https://linktr.ee/thenamelessnarcissist  Jacob Skidmore, a.k.a The Nameless Narcissist, was officially diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and was aware that something was off since early childhood. Since realising that narcissistic behaviour has damaged his own life as well as harmed others, Jacob has set out on a path of revelation and discovery, looking for a way to live that is more beneficial to both himself and others. In this fascinating and honest interview, Jacob shares what it's like to be a narcissist, what goes on in his mind, what motivates him and drives him, and what he's hoping to achieve through sharing his struggle with the world.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3988</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/29528220cc58997617a164d7f0ef3531.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#231] The Shortest Path: How to Make Decisions that Guarantee Success</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/231-the-shortest-path-how-to-make-decisions-that-guarantee-success--64783064</link><description><![CDATA[Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea)  To check out my videos, podcasts, books, courses and contact details, this site has it all https://msha.ke/danmunro   In any given moment, a human being always has 2 things happening. One is that they have a goal, and two is that they are moving. How healthy that goal is, and how effectively they move toward it, will decide their quality of life. To move toward the healthiest goal possible with most accurate movement possible is the very definition of SUCCESS. In this podcast episode, I dive deep into a new concept that I'm calling The Shortest Path, as derived from the fantasy books The Prince of Nothing and The Aspect Emperor by R Scott Baker. I will show you a new way to look at decision making and behaviour to ensure that you are as successful as you possibly can be - striving towards integrity and confidence with the best moves available.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1446267208</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Feb 2023 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783064/1446267208_thebrojo_231_the_shortest_path_how_to_make_decisions_that_guarantee_success.mp3" length="40004589" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea)  To check out my videos, podcasts, books, courses and contact details, this site has it all https://msha.ke/danmunro   In any given moment, a human...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea)  To check out my videos, podcasts, books, courses and contact details, this site has it all https://msha.ke/danmunro   In any given moment, a human being always has 2 things happening. One is that they have a goal, and two is that they are moving. How healthy that goal is, and how effectively they move toward it, will decide their quality of life. To move toward the healthiest goal possible with most accurate movement possible is the very definition of SUCCESS. In this podcast episode, I dive deep into a new concept that I'm calling The Shortest Path, as derived from the fantasy books The Prince of Nothing and The Aspect Emperor by R Scott Baker. I will show you a new way to look at decision making and behaviour to ensure that you are as successful as you possibly can be - striving towards integrity and confidence with the best moves available.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2501</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4e5340e65d567046a53b0b803d1b08e6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#230] Communicating with Trolls: The Late Night Show with Mike and Dan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/230-communicating-with-trolls-the-late-night-show-with-mike-and-dan--64783039</link><description><![CDATA[Brojo coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to chat randomly about all things related to difficult communication, especially trying to communicate with trolls and haters online, or dealing with forums and groups that have turned nasty.  ----------  Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea) For more of my work, links, posts and contact details, this site has it all https://msha.ke/danmunro   If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer to support my work! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1425705826</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2023 20:36:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783039/1425705826_thebrojo_230_communicating_with_trolls_the_late_night_show_with_mike_and_dan.mp3" length="66035505" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Brojo coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to chat randomly about all things related to difficult communication, especially trying to communicate with trolls and haters online, or dealing with forums and groups that have turned nasty....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Brojo coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to chat randomly about all things related to difficult communication, especially trying to communicate with trolls and haters online, or dealing with forums and groups that have turned nasty.  ----------  Do me a favour! Like/dislike, comment and share to help promote my work (if you think it’s a good idea) For more of my work, links, posts and contact details, this site has it all https://msha.ke/danmunro   If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer to support my work! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4128</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/123dbe48554d55a33cfbd6edf7846212.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#229] The Shocking True Story of How I Became A Nice Guy... and How I Recovered</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/229-the-shocking-true-story-of-how-i-became-a-nice-guy-and-how-i-recovered--64783031</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In an effort to rolemodel the value of shamelessness, I've created this mini-autobiography highlighting some of the key moments in my life that caused me to develop Nice Guy Syndrome, and then later to recover from it through discovering authentic self confidence. I explore - my early school experiences with bullying and ostracism - the effects of strict parenting - being sexually ashamed and humiliated (including erectile dysfunction) - having fake friends - learning to use humour to make people like me - discovering the Pick Up Artist scene and diving deeply into seducing women - happening upon the discovery of radical honesty and how to connect with people - learning to confront others and why this was such a phobia for me And a whole lot more. I get deep and personal in this one ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1400923567</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2022 17:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783031/1400923567_thebrojo_229_the_shocking_true_story_of_how_i_became_a_nice_guy_and_how_i_recovered.mp3" length="59080664" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In an effort to rolemodel the value of shamelessness, I've created this mini-autobiography highlighting some of the key moments in my life that caused me to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In an effort to rolemodel the value of shamelessness, I've created this mini-autobiography highlighting some of the key moments in my life that caused me to develop Nice Guy Syndrome, and then later to recover from it through discovering authentic self confidence. I explore - my early school experiences with bullying and ostracism - the effects of strict parenting - being sexually ashamed and humiliated (including erectile dysfunction) - having fake friends - learning to use humour to make people like me - discovering the Pick Up Artist scene and diving deeply into seducing women - happening upon the discovery of radical honesty and how to connect with people - learning to confront others and why this was such a phobia for me And a whole lot more. I get deep and personal in this one ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3693</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8349254eb2f0bde4ca7b8ea60c7d8bb3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#228] 10 Childhood Traumas That Cause Nice Guy Syndrome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/228-10-childhood-traumas-that-cause-nice-guy-syndrome--64783090</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Being a nice guy is actually a form of mental illness. It's the result of coping mechanisms we created in childhood and teen years to deal with traumatic events and painful situations. When good-hearted boys are faced with emotional harm and lack the tools to properly process, confront and deal with it, we come with an act: a way of behaving that keeps us safe, makes us feel loved, and avoids difficulties. In this podcast, I shared the top 10 traumatic experiences that happen to boys that lead them to become Nice Guys as adult men, and I expand on the theory that Nice Guy Syndrome is always a result of childhood trauma. ---------------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1388821777</guid><pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2022 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783090/1388821777_thebrojo_228_10_childhood_traumas_that_cause_nice_guy_syndrome.mp3" length="69778368" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Being a nice guy is actually a form of mental illness. It's the result of coping mechanisms we created in childhood and teen years to deal with traumatic...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Being a nice guy is actually a form of mental illness. It's the result of coping mechanisms we created in childhood and teen years to deal with traumatic events and painful situations. When good-hearted boys are faced with emotional harm and lack the tools to properly process, confront and deal with it, we come with an act: a way of behaving that keeps us safe, makes us feel loved, and avoids difficulties. In this podcast, I shared the top 10 traumatic experiences that happen to boys that lead them to become Nice Guys as adult men, and I expand on the theory that Nice Guy Syndrome is always a result of childhood trauma. ---------------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org  BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  Courses: https://www.brojo.org/university   Books: https://www.amazon.com/Daniel-Munro/e/B01GIT9ZKM%3F   Blog: https://www.brojo.org/pub]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2908</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/663eb05c99bd1802cb1ca1f02b93ae2a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#227] The Upper Limit "Problem": Is self sabotage healthy?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/227-the-upper-limit-problem-is-self-sabotage-healthy--64783043</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In the book The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, we are introduced to the "upper limit problem", whereby people who should be more successful sabotage themselves, often subconsciously, due to fear of change and fear of success. Obviously, this seen to be a bad thing. Self sabotage is seen as some sort of harmful error in the brain's wiring system. But what if it isn't? What if success isn't as good as people think it is? What if our definition of success is a harmful and dangerous one that leads to scandals, mental breakdowns, and even suicide? In this podcast, we explore the upper limit problem and self sabotage from a contrary angle: what if self sabotage is actually a good thing? ------------ If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1370461522</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2022 17:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783043/1370461522_thebrojo_226_the_upper_limit_problem_is_self_sabotage_healthy.mp3" length="81596160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In the book The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, we are introduced to the "upper limit problem", whereby people who should be more successful sabotage themselves,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  In the book The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, we are introduced to the "upper limit problem", whereby people who should be more successful sabotage themselves, often subconsciously, due to fear of change and fear of success. Obviously, this seen to be a bad thing. Self sabotage is seen as some sort of harmful error in the brain's wiring system. But what if it isn't? What if success isn't as good as people think it is? What if our definition of success is a harmful and dangerous one that leads to scandals, mental breakdowns, and even suicide? In this podcast, we explore the upper limit problem and self sabotage from a contrary angle: what if self sabotage is actually a good thing? ------------ If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3400</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/00e88f9a16890206d447e1f20c33ce28.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#226] The Late Night Show with Dan &amp; Mike: How to Discipline and Balance Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/226-the-late-night-show-with-dan-mike-how-to-discipline-and-balance-your-life--64783038</link><description><![CDATA[Coaches Dan and Mike from Brojo talk about the struggles they've had staying disciplined with exercise and eating healthy, and what tools they use to overcome issues like low motivation, procrastination, lifestyle imbalance, and outside interference. ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1362128863</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2022 16:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783038/1362128863_thebrojo_225_the_late_night_show_with_dan_mike_on_discipline_and_balance.mp3" length="100578240" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Coaches Dan and Mike from Brojo talk about the struggles they've had staying disciplined with exercise and eating healthy, and what tools they use to overcome issues like low motivation, procrastination, lifestyle imbalance, and outside interference....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Coaches Dan and Mike from Brojo talk about the struggles they've had staying disciplined with exercise and eating healthy, and what tools they use to overcome issues like low motivation, procrastination, lifestyle imbalance, and outside interference. ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4191</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c5512c696bce26ee8709611d4fb3f03c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#225] How to stop taking things personally</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/225-how-to-stop-taking-things-personally--64783083</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Taking something personally means to assume that a critical piece of feedback or an offensive opinion is somehow directly relevant to you, and presents a threat that you need to defend yourself against. Taking it personally is probably the #1 cause of conflict in relationships, the workplace, and particularly online comments sections and conversations. In this podcast, we explore what taking it personally really is from a psychological/beliefs perspective, and how to change the way you respond to something healthier, more accurate, and more beneficial to your connections and relationships. ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1354159417</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2022 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783083/1354159417_thebrojo_225_how_to_stop_taking_things_personally.mp3" length="97952544" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Taking something personally means to assume that a critical piece of feedback or an offensive opinion is somehow directly relevant to you, and presents a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Taking something personally means to assume that a critical piece of feedback or an offensive opinion is somehow directly relevant to you, and presents a threat that you need to defend yourself against. Taking it personally is probably the #1 cause of conflict in relationships, the workplace, and particularly online comments sections and conversations. In this podcast, we explore what taking it personally really is from a psychological/beliefs perspective, and how to change the way you respond to something healthier, more accurate, and more beneficial to your connections and relationships. ---------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4082</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d1666fb04af4d8c18801d30601408b4a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#224] Deep dive into PEOPLE PLEASING - with Dan Munro and Angie McQuillin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/224-deep-dive-into-people-pleasing-with-dan-munro-and-angie-mcquillin--64783055</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Coaches Dan Munro and Angie McQuillin are both experts in helping people-pleasers become more assertive, confident and honest. Dan focuses on Nice Guys who struggle in their romantic relationships, while Angie focuses on C-Suite executives who want to be more assertive in their careers.  In this epic 2 hour podcast, Dan and Angie dive deep into the concept of people-pleasing, and what it means to be a People Pleaser. They look at how to know if you are one, what the real impact people-pleasing has on your social life and your career, and what you need to change to become more confident, healthy and successful.  Contact Dan: dan@brojo.org Angie: info@angiemcqillian.com ----- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1349494555</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2022 16:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783055/1349494555_thebrojo_224_deep_dive_into_people_pleasing_with_dan_munro_and_angie_mcquillin.mp3" length="183930048" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Coaches Dan Munro and Angie McQuillin are both experts in helping people-pleasers become more assertive, confident and honest. Dan focuses on Nice Guys who...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Coaches Dan Munro and Angie McQuillin are both experts in helping people-pleasers become more assertive, confident and honest. Dan focuses on Nice Guys who struggle in their romantic relationships, while Angie focuses on C-Suite executives who want to be more assertive in their careers.  In this epic 2 hour podcast, Dan and Angie dive deep into the concept of people-pleasing, and what it means to be a People Pleaser. They look at how to know if you are one, what the real impact people-pleasing has on your social life and your career, and what you need to change to become more confident, healthy and successful.  Contact Dan: dan@brojo.org Angie: info@angiemcqillian.com ----- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>7664</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7c5dbbe97553261e9439bb554246a721.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#223] Parents: Do you think it's OK to lie to your kids?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/223-parents-do-you-think-it-s-ok-to-lie-to-your-kids--64783044</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Is it OK for parents to lie to their kids? Most parents seem to think so (as do other adults), and each has their own lies and justifications that they think are acceptable. And yet, if you were to lie to these parents, they'd feel disrespected and even outraged. So why do parents think it's acceptable to lie to their children, and are they really doing it for the child's benefit... or for their own convenience? And even more importantly, how does lying impact the child's development, confidence, and quality of life later on? -------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1328113516</guid><pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 10:36:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783044/1328113516_thebrojo_parents_do_you_think_its_ok_to_lie_to_your_kids.mp3" length="111967488" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Is it OK for parents to lie to their kids? Most parents seem to think so (as do other adults), and each has their own lies and justifications that they think...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Is it OK for parents to lie to their kids? Most parents seem to think so (as do other adults), and each has their own lies and justifications that they think are acceptable. And yet, if you were to lie to these parents, they'd feel disrespected and even outraged. So why do parents think it's acceptable to lie to their children, and are they really doing it for the child's benefit... or for their own convenience? And even more importantly, how does lying impact the child's development, confidence, and quality of life later on? -------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B8SR1BXS/   Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4666</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bce4f24a021da3d7efc86a88aabe3f2c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#222] The Lone Wolf: making the most of being different, with Dr Gareth Craze (sigma male)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/222-the-lone-wolf-making-the-most-of-being-different-with-dr-gareth-craze-sigma-male--64783051</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Find out more about Dr Gareth Craze's coaching and philosophy here; https://energeiacoaching.com/energeia-coaching/  Dr Gareth Craze is an old friend of mine who's career has followed a similar trajectory into coaching. But what makes Gareth unique is that he has learned to make the most of what we call being a Lone Wolf (sometimes known as a "sigma male"). Some people only need a small tight circle of connections and have no interest in being social butterflies, and Gareth is the prime example of a guy who's made that work for him. We also discuss his recovery from depression and his incredibly diverse career that took him from promoting heavy metal shows to coaching senior executives!  Dr. Gareth Craze is a behavioural scientist and coaching psychologist, as well as a board-certified executive coach, health and wellness coach, and personal lifestyle coach. He has coached leaders and professionals across numerous different industries and organizations in the areas of leadership development, workplace performance and behaviour change, work-life integration, professional resilience, and executive assessment.   Gareth is also experienced in group learning and development, and is a certified Prosocial facilitator and coach; using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and contextual behavioural science to build and sustain thriving, effective teams.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1301085871</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2022 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783051/1301085871_thebrojo_222_the_lone_wolf_making_the_most_of_being_different_with_dr_gareth_craze.mp3" length="100783008" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Find out more about Dr Gareth Craze's coaching and philosophy here; https://energeiacoaching.com/energeia-coaching/  Dr Gareth Craze is an old friend of mine...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Find out more about Dr Gareth Craze's coaching and philosophy here; https://energeiacoaching.com/energeia-coaching/  Dr Gareth Craze is an old friend of mine who's career has followed a similar trajectory into coaching. But what makes Gareth unique is that he has learned to make the most of what we call being a Lone Wolf (sometimes known as a "sigma male"). Some people only need a small tight circle of connections and have no interest in being social butterflies, and Gareth is the prime example of a guy who's made that work for him. We also discuss his recovery from depression and his incredibly diverse career that took him from promoting heavy metal shows to coaching senior executives!  Dr. Gareth Craze is a behavioural scientist and coaching psychologist, as well as a board-certified executive coach, health and wellness coach, and personal lifestyle coach. He has coached leaders and professionals across numerous different industries and organizations in the areas of leadership development, workplace performance and behaviour change, work-life integration, professional resilience, and executive assessment.   Gareth is also experienced in group learning and development, and is a certified Prosocial facilitator and coach; using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and contextual behavioural science to build and sustain thriving, effective teams.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4200</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6a6d6acd488819b89f5372c9e6f07bf6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#221] The greatest life lessons I've ever learned</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/221-the-greatest-life-lessons-i-ve-ever-learned--64783087</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro   Every now and then we wake up to an undeniable truth that changes everything we thought we knew! I've been lucky enough to have experienced a great number of these epiphanies over the years, and in this podcast episode I share some of the most powerful ones to hit me yet.  ----------  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/   ------------------------]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1276183747</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2022 11:56:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783087/1276183747_thebrojo_the_greatest_life_lessons_ive_ever_learned.mp3" length="129686400" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro   Every now and then we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro   Every now and then we wake up to an undeniable truth that changes everything we thought we knew! I've been lucky enough to have experienced a great number of these epiphanies over the years, and in this podcast episode I share some of the most powerful ones to hit me yet.  ----------  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/   ------------------------]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5404</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/099cea8ac3a009ca045b887b40f32b60.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#220] The curse of the Victim Hero mindset</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/220-the-curse-of-the-victim-hero-mindset--64783063</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Many of us are familiar with the "victim mindset" - a way of seeing the world that makes you think everything is against you. In my work as a confidence coach, I've identified an additional element - the "hero" - which creates a worldview that destroys your ability to succeed and enjoy life.  ----------  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://www.udemy.com/course/nice-guy-syndrome-recovery/?referralCode=2D17AA25798AC0832DEA   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1263281107</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2022 16:00:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783063/1263281107_thebrojo_victim_hero_mindset.mp3" length="129628512" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Many of us are familiar...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Many of us are familiar with the "victim mindset" - a way of seeing the world that makes you think everything is against you. In my work as a confidence coach, I've identified an additional element - the "hero" - which creates a worldview that destroys your ability to succeed and enjoy life.  ----------  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://www.udemy.com/course/nice-guy-syndrome-recovery/?referralCode=2D17AA25798AC0832DEA   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5402</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/13d4d3f003c07b8b35ef91e65fa27292.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#219] Having an Effective Attitude</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/219-having-an-effective-attitude--64783041</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Having an Effective Attitude is about approaching challenges and making decisions in such a way as to guarantee the best possible long-term quality of life. In this podcast, Dan shares the principles of an Effective Attitude, including how to choose the best available option, why optimism is more helpful than pessimism, choosing which hill to die on, and much more!  ----------  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://www.udemy.com/course/nice-guy-syndrome-recovery/?referralCode=2D17AA25798AC0832DEA   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1236824326</guid><pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2022 16:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783041/1236824326_thebrojo_effective_attitude.mp3" length="77593703" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Having an Effective Attitude is about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Having an Effective Attitude is about approaching challenges and making decisions in such a way as to guarantee the best possible long-term quality of life. In this podcast, Dan shares the principles of an Effective Attitude, including how to choose the best available option, why optimism is more helpful than pessimism, choosing which hill to die on, and much more!  ----------  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://www.udemy.com/course/nice-guy-syndrome-recovery/?referralCode=2D17AA25798AC0832DEA   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3234</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ebc4e48d40a59074adaeb524d41f3aba.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#218] What They Didn't Teach You in School</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/218-what-they-didn-t-teach-you-in-school--64783084</link><description><![CDATA[Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  High school and university failed us all. While they taught us things like algebra and history, we weren't taught any of the things we actually needed to know to create a successful, high quality life! In this series of 6 videos, I'll try to teach you what school failed to do: 1) How to build self confidence 2) How to be good with money 3) Dating and relationships skills 4) Confrontation skills 5) Critical thinking 6) Creative productivity  ----------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1235840785</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2022 06:30:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783084/1235840785_thebrojo_218_what_they_didnt_teach_you_in_school.mp3" length="97399953" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  High school and university failed us all. While they taught us things like algebra and history, we weren't taught any of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  High school and university failed us all. While they taught us things like algebra and history, we weren't taught any of the things we actually needed to know to create a successful, high quality life! In this series of 6 videos, I'll try to teach you what school failed to do: 1) How to build self confidence 2) How to be good with money 3) Dating and relationships skills 4) Confrontation skills 5) Critical thinking 6) Creative productivity  ----------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4059</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c7bd843e09be4914a12e9d97aa09b209.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#216] Protect Yourself from Manipulation, with Dan and Angie</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/216-protect-yourself-from-manipulation-with-dan-and-angie--64783110</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, confidence and career coach Angie McQuillin interviews Dan Munro to pick his brain about the topic of manipulation. Dan used to work with psychopathic criminals and was trained by top forensic psychologists to manage manipulation and deception. Today he shares what he learned and how to apply master of manipulation in everyday life, relationships and workplace situations. ------------ Angie's main website: https://www.angiemcquillin.com/  Angie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1uE1V6FBBhCK480cVwR9Qw  Email Angie: info@angiemcquillin.com  Join Angie's Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Confidenceforcorporateandbusinessprofessionals/  -------------------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1220047243</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2022 05:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783110/1220047243_thebrojo_protect_yourself_from_manipulation.mp3" length="287182933" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, confidence and career coach Angie McQuillin interviews Dan Munro to pick his brain about the topic of manipulation. Dan used to work with psychopathic criminals and was trained by top forensic psychologists to manage manipulation and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, confidence and career coach Angie McQuillin interviews Dan Munro to pick his brain about the topic of manipulation. Dan used to work with psychopathic criminals and was trained by top forensic psychologists to manage manipulation and deception. Today he shares what he learned and how to apply master of manipulation in everyday life, relationships and workplace situations. ------------ Angie's main website: https://www.angiemcquillin.com/  Angie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1uE1V6FBBhCK480cVwR9Qw  Email Angie: info@angiemcquillin.com  Join Angie's Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Confidenceforcorporateandbusinessprofessionals/  -------------------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>7180</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ebe95df8815a219079db6ce83da349b6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#217] Are All World Leaders Psychopaths?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/217-are-all-world-leaders-psychopaths--64783088</link><description><![CDATA[In brief: this podcast argues the case that all world leaders are unfit to rule us due to being highly psychopathic – whether this is natural or learned – focusing in particular on one who most people would never consider: New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern. -------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1230047377</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:43:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783088/1230047377_thebrojo_world_leaders_psychopaths.mp3" length="32515551" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In brief: this podcast argues the case that all world leaders are unfit to rule us due to being highly psychopathic – whether this is natural or learned – focusing in particular on one who most people would never consider: New Zealand Prime Minister...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In brief: this podcast argues the case that all world leaders are unfit to rule us due to being highly psychopathic – whether this is natural or learned – focusing in particular on one who most people would never consider: New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern. -------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1355</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/71226a42a94ba6ff6ab241f2dbb2c3c4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#215] Why people trust Joe Rogan more than scientists</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/215-why-people-trust-joe-rogan-more-than-scientists--64783081</link><description><![CDATA[Ever since Jenny McCarthy read a since-debunked study by Dr Andrew Wakefield and came out saying vaccines cause autism, we've seen a steady decline in respect for science and a sharp increase in the anti-science movement. This is in stark contrast to the 80s and 90s where almost everything "science said" was taken as truth. Now, even global warming and COVID vaccines are doubted by many millions of people.   What happened to respect for scientific method, scientific consensus, and scientists themselves? Why are people more likely to listen to Joe Rogan than a recognised expert scientist?  In this video, I address the only thing I really know anything about - honesty - and how the lack of it has hurt the scientific community, and what they need to do about it.  CITATIONS: Tortuous leg restraints for polio sufferers  - https://academic.oup.com/ptj/article/101/6/pzab126/6309267 Recommending thalidomide to pregnant mothers - https://www.sciencemuseum.org.uk/objects-and-stories/medicine/thalidomide Shaming fat and leading to sugar epidemic - https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2016/09/13/493739074/50-years-ago-sugar-industry-quietly-paid-scientists-to-point-blame-at-fat Putting mentally ill people on opoids - https://nida.nih.gov/drug-topics/opioids/opioid-overdose-crisis Mindfulness is more effective for opiod addiction and chronic pain https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2022/03/220301192410.htm Telling everyone that the vaccine will totally prevent 95% covid and has no negative long term side effects - https://www.statnews.com/2020/11/18/pfizer-biontech-covid19-vaccine-fda-data/ Andrew Wakefield's study made it through peer review - The Lancet is a weekly peer-reviewed general medical journal -  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3136032/ ----------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1224059749</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783081/1224059749_thebrojo_why_people_trust_joe_rogan_more_than_scientists.mp3" length="44808768" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever since Jenny McCarthy read a since-debunked study by Dr Andrew Wakefield and came out saying vaccines cause autism, we've seen a steady decline in respect for science and a sharp increase in the anti-science movement. This is in stark contrast to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever since Jenny McCarthy read a since-debunked study by Dr Andrew Wakefield and came out saying vaccines cause autism, we've seen a steady decline in respect for science and a sharp increase in the anti-science movement. This is in stark contrast to the 80s and 90s where almost everything "science said" was taken as truth. Now, even global warming and COVID vaccines are doubted by many millions of people.   What happened to respect for scientific method, scientific consensus, and scientists themselves? Why are people more likely to listen to Joe Rogan than a recognised expert scientist?  In this video, I address the only thing I really know anything about - honesty - and how the lack of it has hurt the scientific community, and what they need to do about it.  CITATIONS: Tortuous leg restraints for polio sufferers  - https://academic.oup.com/ptj/article/101/6/pzab126/6309267 Recommending thalidomide to pregnant mothers - https://www.sciencemuseum.org.uk/objects-and-stories/medicine/thalidomide Shaming fat and leading to sugar epidemic - https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2016/09/13/493739074/50-years-ago-sugar-industry-quietly-paid-scientists-to-point-blame-at-fat Putting mentally ill people on opoids - https://nida.nih.gov/drug-topics/opioids/opioid-overdose-crisis Mindfulness is more effective for opiod addiction and chronic pain https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2022/03/220301192410.htm Telling everyone that the vaccine will totally prevent 95% covid and has no negative long term side effects - https://www.statnews.com/2020/11/18/pfizer-biontech-covid19-vaccine-fda-data/ Andrew Wakefield's study made it through peer review - The Lancet is a weekly peer-reviewed general medical journal -  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3136032/ ----------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1867</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f5399fdaa22585b5428f15f8f03ec370.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#214] From doormat to assertive and confident, with Angie McQuillin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/214-from-doormat-to-assertive-and-confident-with-angie-mcquillin--64783103</link><description><![CDATA[Angie McQuillin is a confidence and career success coach with an outstanding history of success with her clients. In particular, her ability to help someone become more confidently assertive instead of being passive and without becoming aggressive. In this podcast interview, Angie shares her journey from being a passive doormat to learning to stand up for herself to teaching this to others, a fascinating struggle from zero to hero that everyone could learn from.  Angie's main website: https://www.angiemcquillin.com/  Angie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1uE1V6FBBhCK480cVwR9Qw  Email Angie: info@angiemcquillin.com  Join Angie's Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Confidenceforcorporateandbusinessprofessionals/  -------------------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1211045767</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2022 01:29:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783103/1211045767_thebrojo_doormat_assertive_confident_angie_mcquillin.mp3" length="131180256" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Angie McQuillin is a confidence and career success coach with an outstanding history of success with her clients. In particular, her ability to help someone become more confidently assertive instead of being passive and without becoming aggressive. In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Angie McQuillin is a confidence and career success coach with an outstanding history of success with her clients. In particular, her ability to help someone become more confidently assertive instead of being passive and without becoming aggressive. In this podcast interview, Angie shares her journey from being a passive doormat to learning to stand up for herself to teaching this to others, a fascinating struggle from zero to hero that everyone could learn from.  Angie's main website: https://www.angiemcquillin.com/  Angie's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1uE1V6FBBhCK480cVwR9Qw  Email Angie: info@angiemcquillin.com  Join Angie's Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Confidenceforcorporateandbusinessprofessionals/  -------------------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5466</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2f5383e9959f6f5ef62ff979752f4540.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#213] Authentic Sales: How to Sell Without Manipulation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/213-authentic-sales-how-to-sell-without-manipulation--64783059</link><description><![CDATA[Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  Marketing and sales gurus usually try to convince you to use manipulative techniques to make a quick buck off insecure people, like using scarcity, pushing on pain points, rushing the money discussion, getting them to "comply" with a "Yes ladder", and all sorts of bullshit. Not only are these techniques unethical and feel disgusting to use (if you have any empathy), they're actually not the most effective!  In this podcast, Dan discusses how to sell any VALUABLE product or service without needing to "sell" in the traditional sense, instead focusing on how to serve people and build long-term relationships that benefit everyone involved while being completely honest along the way. Not only does it feel better, it WORKS BETTER too.  ----------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1195227517</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jan 2022 19:52:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783059/1195227517_thebrojo_authentic_sales_how_to_sell_without_manipulation.mp3" length="87456077" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  Marketing and sales gurus usually try to convince you to use manipulative techniques to make a quick buck off insecure...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Say goodbye to not feeling good enough with my Shamelessness course: https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  Marketing and sales gurus usually try to convince you to use manipulative techniques to make a quick buck off insecure people, like using scarcity, pushing on pain points, rushing the money discussion, getting them to "comply" with a "Yes ladder", and all sorts of bullshit. Not only are these techniques unethical and feel disgusting to use (if you have any empathy), they're actually not the most effective!  In this podcast, Dan discusses how to sell any VALUABLE product or service without needing to "sell" in the traditional sense, instead focusing on how to serve people and build long-term relationships that benefit everyone involved while being completely honest along the way. Not only does it feel better, it WORKS BETTER too.  ----------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3644</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fef3fd7ef33223bb31841012a4a5e7de.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#212] How to Make Decisions Like a Chess Grandmaster</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/212-how-to-make-decisions-like-a-chess-grandmaster--64783094</link><description><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Your quality of life is a direct result of the quality of your decision making. But if everyone knew how to make good decisions the world would be a much better place. It's so hard to know if what you're choosing to do right now is going to be the call you're proud of later... or sometimes it is obvious yet you don't stop long enough to think it through. In this episode, I use my experience playing chess and studying chess Grandmasters to reveal the secrets of excellent decision making. ------------------------ If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1181066377</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Dec 2021 17:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783094/1181066377_thebrojo_how_to_make_decisions_chess_grandmaster.mp3" length="102029269" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Your quality of life is a direct result of the quality of your decision making. But if everyone knew how to make good decisions the world...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Your quality of life is a direct result of the quality of your decision making. But if everyone knew how to make good decisions the world would be a much better place. It's so hard to know if what you're choosing to do right now is going to be the call you're proud of later... or sometimes it is obvious yet you don't stop long enough to think it through. In this episode, I use my experience playing chess and studying chess Grandmasters to reveal the secrets of excellent decision making. ------------------------ If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4252</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/18ebf8b13c2b245cb25986dad6392e90.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#211] 21 Unusual Tips to Succeed at EVERYTHING</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/211-21-unusual-tips-to-succeed-at-everything--64783053</link><description><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  When asked, most successful people will tell you a story about how they became successful, but unfortunately it won't often be true. It will just be what they wished was true, like they worked hard, or were courageous, or broke the rules in some dashing way. In this podcast, we'll break down the proven strategies and tactics of success that don't require any starting advantage and actually align with scientific studies on what makes people successful.  Meta learning Focus on your strengths Be lazy (efficient) Serve consistently, give freely Shoot out of your league Quality over quantity Stop at good enough Go deep on what you love Teach what you’ve learned Serve high quality people Set very long term goals Have a high failure rate Get the right coaches Create a supportive peer circle Go against the grain Get reliable feedback Make it smaller Reduce pressure Make integrity your reason Make it sustainable Measure yourself quantitatively   ----------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1165179601</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Nov 2021 11:42:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783053/1165179601_thebrojo_how_to_succeed.mp3" length="80551600" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  When asked, most successful people will tell you a story about how they became successful, but unfortunately it won't often be true. It...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  When asked, most successful people will tell you a story about how they became successful, but unfortunately it won't often be true. It will just be what they wished was true, like they worked hard, or were courageous, or broke the rules in some dashing way. In this podcast, we'll break down the proven strategies and tactics of success that don't require any starting advantage and actually align with scientific studies on what makes people successful.  Meta learning Focus on your strengths Be lazy (efficient) Serve consistently, give freely Shoot out of your league Quality over quantity Stop at good enough Go deep on what you love Teach what you’ve learned Serve high quality people Set very long term goals Have a high failure rate Get the right coaches Create a supportive peer circle Go against the grain Get reliable feedback Make it smaller Reduce pressure Make integrity your reason Make it sustainable Measure yourself quantitatively   ----------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3357</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5dcd3d731c3cbc50dfc1d4b89194f7cb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#210] Why the term "Toxic Masculinity" hurts us all</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/210-why-the-term-toxic-masculinity-hurts-us-all--64783092</link><description><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  The term "toxic masculinity" was original devised by a men's advocate group to describe the way men are raised with a skewed, macho, harmful version of what it means to be a man. However, as a term toxic masculinity has since come to basically mean that it's bad to be masculine in any way. In this podcast we aim to answer two questions: 1) What does "toxic masculinity" mean? What's the definition? 2) Is this term helpful, healthy, and worth using? Let's find out... ----------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1155384730</guid><pubDate>Sun, 21 Nov 2021 17:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783092/1155384730_thebrojo_problem_with_toxic_masculinity.mp3" length="69133791" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  The term "toxic masculinity" was original devised by a men's advocate group to describe the way men are raised with a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  The term "toxic masculinity" was original devised by a men's advocate group to describe the way men are raised with a skewed, macho, harmful version of what it means to be a man. However, as a term toxic masculinity has since come to basically mean that it's bad to be masculine in any way. In this podcast we aim to answer two questions: 1) What does "toxic masculinity" mean? What's the definition? 2) Is this term helpful, healthy, and worth using? Let's find out... ----------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2881</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f527f8cad0fe985f6e0837aae5deda36.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#209] The Brain Malfunction that Makes Nice Guys Lose</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/209-the-brain-malfunction-that-makes-nice-guys-lose--64783098</link><description><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nice Guys and people pleasers often get exactly the opposite of what they're trying to get, and it doesn't make any sense. But there's a good reason for this. Let's explore why being nice simply does not, and cannot, work.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1147012117</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2021 06:26:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783098/1147012117_thebrojo_brain_malfunction_nice_guys_lose.mp3" length="66055522" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nice Guys and people pleasers often get exactly the opposite of what they're trying to get, and it doesn't make any...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nice Guys and people pleasers often get exactly the opposite of what they're trying to get, and it doesn't make any sense. But there's a good reason for this. Let's explore why being nice simply does not, and cannot, work.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2753</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2631cee207aa1b05acbc5d0c72840029.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#208] The 9to5 Conspiracy: What the Government and Corporations Don't Want You to Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/208-the-9to5-conspiracy-what-the-government-and-corporations-don-t-want-you-to-know--64783100</link><description><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nothing is more destructive than working yourself to death in an unfulfilling 9-5 job simply because you think you have to. In this episode, Dan covers his theory about a conspiracy designed to control the masses into mind-numbing modern-day slavery.  --------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1143207655</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Oct 2021 16:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783100/1143207655_thebrojo_9_5_conspiracy_government_corporations.mp3" length="96486503" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nothing is more destructive than working yourself to death in an unfulfilling 9-5 job simply because you think you have to. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Nothing is more destructive than working yourself to death in an unfulfilling 9-5 job simply because you think you have to. In this episode, Dan covers his theory about a conspiracy designed to control the masses into mind-numbing modern-day slavery.  --------- If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4021</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/333ee0159e1dfd8aeaa2e8168baeca60.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#207] How to give your life meaning and sense of purpose</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/207-how-to-give-your-life-meaning-and-sense-of-purpose--64783106</link><description><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Finding a reason to live - a sense of purpose, a mission, a meaning - is probably the most important pursuit for any human who has already accomplished their basic survival needs. When you don't have to worry about food and shelter anymore, you'll start to ask questions like "Why am I here?" and if you don't have an answer, you can become easily depressed. In this episode, we discuss how to get in touch with your purpose (in a very practical way).  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1132427158</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2021 11:27:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783106/1132427158_thebrojo_how_to_give_your_life_meaning_and_sense_of_purpose.mp3" length="70028433" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Finding a reason to live - a sense of purpose, a mission, a meaning - is probably the most important pursuit for any human who has already...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Finding a reason to live - a sense of purpose, a mission, a meaning - is probably the most important pursuit for any human who has already accomplished their basic survival needs. When you don't have to worry about food and shelter anymore, you'll start to ask questions like "Why am I here?" and if you don't have an answer, you can become easily depressed. In this episode, we discuss how to get in touch with your purpose (in a very practical way).  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2918</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0a122026d4c68527b6378a555abb2d69.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#206] The Religion Of Honesty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/206-the-religion-of-honesty--64783095</link><description><![CDATA[After studying and practicing honesty for more than a decade (having spent the prior period of my life being largely dishonest), I’ve come to realise that I’ve actually developed a worship of honesty.  Having experimented with being more honest for such a long time, I’ve arrived at the firm conclusion that “Just be more honest” is the long-term solution to any social issue or self-confidence problem, and it’s become my go-to mantra for solving almost every difficult problem that crosses my path.  Honesty acts like the tip of the arrowhead; if you just focus on being as honest as possible, all the other areas of life follow it to create long term success in a way that’s appropriate for you personally – be it health, career, relationships, and so on. You might not get what you thought you wanted, but you’ll get what you truly need.  This is becoming more fact than opinion. It’s been skeptically tested by myself and hundreds of my clients, alongside many others who I have no personal connection to, and we can also see a growing body of evidence that people living with integrity can demonstrate a measurably higher quality of life, career and relationships than others, especially compared to the opposite end of the spectrum (e.g. criminal offenders and those with severe integrity-repellant Personality Disorders like AntiSocial PD and Narcissistic PD).  Unfortunately very few if any scientific studies have been dedicated to measuring the effect that honesty has on quality of life.  As with all subjective morality, there really is no objective way to say “We must all be honest”. There is evidence to support this claim, just as there is no evidence to support any moral claim, given you start with an unproven assumption, e.g. “that human wellbeing is a good thing”. But such assumptions are subjective – there’s no way to prove that wellbeing is good.  So as much as it pains me to admit it, my worship of honesty is essentially a religious experience.  In this podcast, we explore and introduce the religion of honesty...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1126217353</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2021 07:49:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783095/1126217353_thebrojo_206_the_religion_of_honesty.mp3" length="30350105" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>After studying and practicing honesty for more than a decade (having spent the prior period of my life being largely dishonest), I’ve come to realise that I’ve actually developed a worship of honesty.  Having experimented with being more honest for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[After studying and practicing honesty for more than a decade (having spent the prior period of my life being largely dishonest), I’ve come to realise that I’ve actually developed a worship of honesty.  Having experimented with being more honest for such a long time, I’ve arrived at the firm conclusion that “Just be more honest” is the long-term solution to any social issue or self-confidence problem, and it’s become my go-to mantra for solving almost every difficult problem that crosses my path.  Honesty acts like the tip of the arrowhead; if you just focus on being as honest as possible, all the other areas of life follow it to create long term success in a way that’s appropriate for you personally – be it health, career, relationships, and so on. You might not get what you thought you wanted, but you’ll get what you truly need.  This is becoming more fact than opinion. It’s been skeptically tested by myself and hundreds of my clients, alongside many others who I have no personal connection to, and we can also see a growing body of evidence that people living with integrity can demonstrate a measurably higher quality of life, career and relationships than others, especially compared to the opposite end of the spectrum (e.g. criminal offenders and those with severe integrity-repellant Personality Disorders like AntiSocial PD and Narcissistic PD).  Unfortunately very few if any scientific studies have been dedicated to measuring the effect that honesty has on quality of life.  As with all subjective morality, there really is no objective way to say “We must all be honest”. There is evidence to support this claim, just as there is no evidence to support any moral claim, given you start with an unproven assumption, e.g. “that human wellbeing is a good thing”. But such assumptions are subjective – there’s no way to prove that wellbeing is good.  So as much as it pains me to admit it, my worship of honesty is essentially a religious experience.  In this podcast, we explore and introduce the religion of honesty...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1265</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/13df8e9a7abf7481519ce56223faa621.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#205] Charismatic Listening Techniques for Better Connections</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/205-charismatic-listening-techniques-for-better-connections--64783045</link><description><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Learn how to build powerful connections, develop easy effortless charisma, and make people feel special with these advanced yet simple listening techniques and principles.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1105864039</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2021 06:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783045/1105864039_thebrojo_205_charismatic_listening_techniques_for_better_connections.mp3" length="76936804" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Learn how to build powerful connections, develop easy effortless charisma, and make people feel special with these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  Learn how to build powerful connections, develop easy effortless charisma, and make people feel special with these advanced yet simple listening techniques and principles.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3206</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/91813c733b0cd085651937e96362df74.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#204] You're Already Where You Need to Be</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/204-you-re-already-where-you-need-to-be--64783052</link><description><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  NOTE: Sound quality is a bit poorer on this one. The "not good enough" story is a manifestation of a deeper belief that many people have: the idea that you're not "there" yet. It's a ridiculous concept and yet nearly everyone falls victim to it. In this episode, we explore the fallacy of thinking you're not already where you need to be.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1096165648</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2021 09:09:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783052/1096165648_thebrojo_be_more_present.mp3" length="60715927" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  NOTE: Sound quality is a bit poorer on this one. The "not good enough" story is a manifestation of a deeper belief that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  NOTE: Sound quality is a bit poorer on this one. The "not good enough" story is a manifestation of a deeper belief that many people have: the idea that you're not "there" yet. It's a ridiculous concept and yet nearly everyone falls victim to it. In this episode, we explore the fallacy of thinking you're not already where you need to be.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2530</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/32a78c57db8eaa8ee3723477d7a5842e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#203] Authentic Relationship Tips for Nice Guys</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/203-authentic-relationship-tips-for-nice-guys--64783119</link><description><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  In this episode, I dug through the archives to bring you my top 5 pieces on building authentic relationships: - what women really want - nice guys and the women who enable them - how to create an authentic relationship - the difference between a relationship and a connection - honesty in relationships  Consider it a starter pack for any nice guy or people pleaser who wants to build a good connection romantically.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1083638461</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2021 05:37:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783119/1083638461_thebrojo_authentic_relationships_nice_guys.mp3" length="79499597" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  In this episode, I dug through the archives to bring you my top 5 pieces on building authentic relationships: - what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover masculine confidence with my Nice Guy Recovery course: https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro  In this episode, I dug through the archives to bring you my top 5 pieces on building authentic relationships: - what women really want - nice guys and the women who enable them - how to create an authentic relationship - the difference between a relationship and a connection - honesty in relationships  Consider it a starter pack for any nice guy or people pleaser who wants to build a good connection romantically.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3313</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/048280a9eb249babbbfc2465e8341d47.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#202] Millionaire in 6 Years: The Money Mindset You Need</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/202-millionaire-in-6-years-the-money-mindset-you-need--64783054</link><description><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  The difference between being rich and poor has very little to do with what you start with. Our guest today started literally homeless with only $1000 to his name. 6 years later, he's a millionaire with passive income. No secrets, no tricks, no bullshit scams - just the right mindset and lots of application. Today, he's telling us what he knows.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1065578221</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2021 16:00:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783054/1065578221_thebrojo_millionaire_money_mindset.mp3" length="71287818" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  The difference between being rich and poor has very little to do with what you start with. Our guest today started literally homeless with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3X your confidence this year with my Masterclass: https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  The difference between being rich and poor has very little to do with what you start with. Our guest today started literally homeless with only $1000 to his name. 6 years later, he's a millionaire with passive income. No secrets, no tricks, no bullshit scams - just the right mindset and lots of application. Today, he's telling us what he knows.  If you enjoyed this, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s TOP RESOURCES:  The Nice Guy Recovery Course A intensive, step by step guide to help Nice Guys and people-pleasers undo their programming and conditioning to become authentic, powerful and confident. https://menprovementx.com/nice-guy-recovery-101/?sld=danielmunro   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://menprovementx.com/3x-confidence-101/?sld=danielmunro  Shamelessness: Total Social Confidence Say goodbye to the “not good enough” story in your head, and all the social limitations that come from believing it. https://menprovementx.com/shamelessness-101/?sld=danielmunro  THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity [book] Discover Dan Munro’s powerful honesty techniques so that you can be authentic and genuine without losing respect: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2971</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fe5dab494c36d41edce9a2c1e36d54f6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#201] The 15 Top Mistakes People Make in Self-Development</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/201-the-15-top-mistakes-people-make-in-self-development--64783062</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode we cover the top mistakes I've seen people make as a coach in their self development journies: 1. The information trap 2. Guru worship - throwing $ at the problem 4. Materialism - attachment to outcomes 5. Chasing abundance 6. Loyalty to a single way 7. Following unscientific woo 8. Indulging in only academic philosophy 9. Trying to keep things the same and change simultaneously 10. Focus on results rather than process - too serious 11. Doing it alone 12. Doing it with the wrong people 13. Creating a new comfort zone 14. Finish line fallacy 15. Confusing responsibility with acceptance (change v tolerate)  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1050274957</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2021 07:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783062/1050274957_thebrojo_top_mistakes_people_make_in_self_development.mp3" length="108091767" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode we cover the top mistakes I've seen people make as a coach in their self development journies: 1. The information trap 2. Guru worship - throwing $ at the problem 4. Materialism - attachment to outcomes 5. Chasing abundance 6. Loyalty...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode we cover the top mistakes I've seen people make as a coach in their self development journies: 1. The information trap 2. Guru worship - throwing $ at the problem 4. Materialism - attachment to outcomes 5. Chasing abundance 6. Loyalty to a single way 7. Following unscientific woo 8. Indulging in only academic philosophy 9. Trying to keep things the same and change simultaneously 10. Focus on results rather than process - too serious 11. Doing it alone 12. Doing it with the wrong people 13. Creating a new comfort zone 14. Finish line fallacy 15. Confusing responsibility with acceptance (change v tolerate)  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4504</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6f04777e86ca38a499025e8f96187628.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>200th Episode!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/200th-episode--64783072</link><description><![CDATA[The BROJO Online Podcast has been going for 200 episodes! To celebrate, I look back over how I've changed since this started in terms of beliefs, behaviour and lifestyle. It's been epic! Here's to another 200 shows...  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1043589577</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2021 21:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783072/1043589577_thebrojo_200th_episode.mp3" length="123681226" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The BROJO Online Podcast has been going for 200 episodes! To celebrate, I look back over how I've changed since this started in terms of beliefs, behaviour and lifestyle. It's been epic! Here's to another 200 shows...  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The BROJO Online Podcast has been going for 200 episodes! To celebrate, I look back over how I've changed since this started in terms of beliefs, behaviour and lifestyle. It's been epic! Here's to another 200 shows...  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5154</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ae9503ab19928fa15009373b29d0eebc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#199] How To Be More Attractive Without Sacrificing Your Integrity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/199-how-to-be-more-attractive-without-sacrificing-your-integrity--64783102</link><description><![CDATA[When you start getting into valued living, it can be difficult to explore your love-life. How can you give yourself the best chances of finding a loving partner without having to resort to dishonesty and tactics? For those of you recovering from the Pick Up Artist mentality, let's talk about how to be as attractive as possible without needing to manipulate in any way.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/621443241</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 06:14:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783102/621443241_thebrojo_webinar_how_to_be_more_attractive_without_sacrificing_your_integrity.mp3" length="61258324" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you start getting into valued living, it can be difficult to explore your love-life. How can you give yourself the best chances of finding a loving partner without having to resort to dishonesty and tactics? For those of you recovering from the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you start getting into valued living, it can be difficult to explore your love-life. How can you give yourself the best chances of finding a loving partner without having to resort to dishonesty and tactics? For those of you recovering from the Pick Up Artist mentality, let's talk about how to be as attractive as possible without needing to manipulate in any way.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3829</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/226c3a5c83f467de38d693f927a70312.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#198] How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/198-how-to-stop-comparing-yourself-to-others--64783093</link><description><![CDATA[Comparing yourself to other people is the shortest path to Hell. In this episode, we join Dan and the BROJO crew on a webinar call about how to measure yourself without comparison to other people.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/614068005</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2021 07:22:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783093/614068005_thebrojo_webinar_how_to_stop_comparing_yourself_to_others.mp3" length="109149341" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Comparing yourself to other people is the shortest path to Hell. In this episode, we join Dan and the BROJO crew on a webinar call about how to measure yourself without comparison to other people.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Comparing yourself to other people is the shortest path to Hell. In this episode, we join Dan and the BROJO crew on a webinar call about how to measure yourself without comparison to other people.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6822</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0cf505b6271da833384c6acc408a19c7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#197] How To Deal with Being Judgmental</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/197-how-to-deal-with-being-judgmental--64783060</link><description><![CDATA[We are all judgmental, it's wired into our basic cognition. However, sometimes it's helpful (like choosing your breakfast) and other times it's not (like ignoring someone who could be a great friend).  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/645571536</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2021 15:15:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783060/645571536_thebrojo_webinar_how_to_manage_being_judgmental.mp3" length="85307696" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are all judgmental, it's wired into our basic cognition. However, sometimes it's helpful (like choosing your breakfast) and other times it's not (like ignoring someone who could be a great friend).  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are all judgmental, it's wired into our basic cognition. However, sometimes it's helpful (like choosing your breakfast) and other times it's not (like ignoring someone who could be a great friend).  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5332</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c9c3eb12acf1a797d6f40ce5f53c3945.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#196] Common Issues with Women - Ask Dan Anything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/196-common-issues-with-women-ask-dan-anything--64783074</link><description><![CDATA[Today we covered: - How to get over my obsession with my ex-girlfriend - Should I measure my self-worth based on how well I do with women? - Why do girls keep avoiding me after I meet them? - What daily practices are best for success? - What should I do about my partner's extensive sexual history?  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/705260863</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2021 05:21:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783074/705260863_thebrojo_webinar_ask_dan_anything.mp3" length="80346938" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today we covered: - How to get over my obsession with my ex-girlfriend - Should I measure my self-worth based on how well I do with women? - Why do girls keep avoiding me after I meet them? - What daily practices are best for success? - What should I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today we covered: - How to get over my obsession with my ex-girlfriend - Should I measure my self-worth based on how well I do with women? - Why do girls keep avoiding me after I meet them? - What daily practices are best for success? - What should I do about my partner's extensive sexual history?  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5022</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/495a4a9d7c0123e1af48c3589dd6ae3b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#195] Negative Narratives: The Stories that Ruin Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/195-negative-narratives-the-stories-that-ruin-your-life--64783091</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Reality is neutral. The only time it can hurt you is when you tell yourself an extra story about it; a story that makes you feel bad about being yourself.  In this webinar we explore 9 of the most common negative narratives that plague your life, and how you can relieve yourself from them.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/529715850</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 03:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783091/529715850_thebrojo_negative_narratives_the_stories_that_ruin_your_life.mp3" length="89120319" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Reality is neutral. The only time it can hurt you is when you tell yourself an extra story about it; a story that makes you feel bad about being yourself....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Reality is neutral. The only time it can hurt you is when you tell yourself an extra story about it; a story that makes you feel bad about being yourself.  In this webinar we explore 9 of the most common negative narratives that plague your life, and how you can relieve yourself from them.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5570</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6715edd5ec647f5cfaddb15e77fdea78.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#194] Money! Money! Money!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/194-money-money-money--64783101</link><description><![CDATA[Webinar from the BROJO archives: We tackle your limiting beliefs around money that cause you suffering and anxiety in relation to financial problems.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/454025562</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2021 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783101/454025562_thebrojo_money_money_money.mp3" length="104522951" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Webinar from the BROJO archives: We tackle your limiting beliefs around money that cause you suffering and anxiety in relation to financial problems.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Webinar from the BROJO archives: We tackle your limiting beliefs around money that cause you suffering and anxiety in relation to financial problems.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6533</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fef3fd7ef33223bb31841012a4a5e7de.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#193] Uncomfortable Truth Bombs for Nice Guys</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/193-uncomfortable-truth-bombs-for-nice-guys--64783123</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  If you're a Nice Guy or a people-pleaser, it's probably time you faced the hard truths about what's really going on. In this episode, Dan addresses the key elements to this syndrome that you'll need to work on and overcome if you ever hope to building strong self-confidence, genuine connections, and a meaningful career.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/1009843762</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2021 04:00:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783123/1009843762_thebrojo_truth_bombs_nice_guy.mp3" length="100841847" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  If you're a Nice Guy or a people-pleaser, it's probably time you faced the hard truths about what's really going on. In this episode, Dan addresses the key...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  If you're a Nice Guy or a people-pleaser, it's probably time you faced the hard truths about what's really going on. In this episode, Dan addresses the key elements to this syndrome that you'll need to work on and overcome if you ever hope to building strong self-confidence, genuine connections, and a meaningful career.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4202</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/48284feb4bd6a341bceb6dc754acb64e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#192] Defending Sam Harris' Moral Landscape: The Best Way to Live</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/192-defending-sam-harris-moral-landscape-the-best-way-to-live--64783133</link><description><![CDATA[I believe Sam Harris' combination of science and reason to create a moral system we can all follow is simply the most sound way to live that's ever been proposed in the moral sphere. In this podcast, I explain why I believe we should all follow this system, and how the objection to it from philosophers who quote Hume's Guillotine need to step back.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/995481814</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2021 05:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783133/995481814_thebrojo_sam_harris_moral_landscape_best_way_to_live.mp3" length="90963691" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I believe Sam Harris' combination of science and reason to create a moral system we can all follow is simply the most sound way to live that's ever been proposed in the moral sphere. In this podcast, I explain why I believe we should all follow this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I believe Sam Harris' combination of science and reason to create a moral system we can all follow is simply the most sound way to live that's ever been proposed in the moral sphere. In this podcast, I explain why I believe we should all follow this system, and how the objection to it from philosophers who quote Hume's Guillotine need to step back.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3791</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7619bd351dee2e3a191cc17da70465e7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#191] Creating a Cosmic Perspective - Letting Go of the Little Things That Bother You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/191-creating-a-cosmic-perspective-letting-go-of-the-little-things-that-bother-you--64783145</link><description><![CDATA[Why do we get so upset over little things? Why can't we see the bigger picture? In this podcast, we'll answer those questions and explore a better way of viewing life so you can have more peace and less suffering.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/985822510</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2021 02:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783145/985822510_thebrojo_cosmic_perspective_letting_go.mp3" length="79394271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do we get so upset over little things? Why can't we see the bigger picture? In this podcast, we'll answer those questions and explore a better way of viewing life so you can have more peace and less suffering.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do we get so upset over little things? Why can't we see the bigger picture? In this podcast, we'll answer those questions and explore a better way of viewing life so you can have more peace and less suffering.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3309</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0ebdb07d6ccadc6affbb1b2e571fca88.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#190] Advice from A Psychopath: How to Stop Caring What Others Think of You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/190-advice-from-a-psychopath-how-to-stop-caring-what-others-think-of-you--64783099</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  A few years ago, I was assessed as being highly psychopathic. While I don't have the traits of lack of conscience and empathy, I am incredibly ruthless and find it easy to influence (manipulate) people.  I also used to be obsessed with worrying what other people thought of me, and trying to make them like me. However, I've since learned to harness my dark side to stop caring about other people's opinions, and I believe I can teach you to do the same.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/980912104</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2021 17:03:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783099/980912104_thebrojo_advice_psychopath_how_to_stop_caring_what_others_think_of_you.mp3" length="101142150" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  A few years ago, I was assessed as being highly psychopathic. While I don't have the traits of lack of conscience and empathy, I am incredibly ruthless and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  A few years ago, I was assessed as being highly psychopathic. While I don't have the traits of lack of conscience and empathy, I am incredibly ruthless and find it easy to influence (manipulate) people.  I also used to be obsessed with worrying what other people thought of me, and trying to make them like me. However, I've since learned to harness my dark side to stop caring about other people's opinions, and I believe I can teach you to do the same.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4215</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d0bc54751439cd64fdfc54c502852975.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#189] Should I keep investing in a one-sided relationship? Ask BROJO Anything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/189-should-i-keep-investing-in-a-one-sided-relationship-ask-brojo-anything--64783066</link><description><![CDATA[BROJO Coaches Mike and Dan answer questions from the BROJO community.  Today: 1) if a girl is avoidant and flaky but I still like her, should I keep trying to invite her out and invest time in her? 2) If I feel like something's wrong on a first date, should I stand up for myself or let it go?  ------------------------  Send your questions through here: www.brojo.org/ask  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/747510982</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2021 15:52:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783066/747510982_thebrojo_ask_brojo_anything_one_sided_relationships_conflict.mp3" length="37310935" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>BROJO Coaches Mike and Dan answer questions from the BROJO community.  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For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. 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We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. 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Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. 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We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. 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Today's questions: Why do I sleep so much? What's your interpretation of honesty?  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. 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It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. 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It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2950</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0afc61fa413a90d34e0f60618fdc13ca.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#184] 2020 Review - COVID, fatherhood, launching a book and more</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/184-2020-review-covid-fatherhood-launching-a-book-and-more--64783108</link><description><![CDATA[Dan looks over the carnage that will forever be known as 2020.  He discusses COVID 19, the anti-science movement, becoming a first time dad, publishing his latest book, and a whole lot more.  ---------------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/948516916</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2020 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783108/948516916_thebrojo_2020_review_covid_fatherhood_launching_book.mp3" length="102355531" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dan looks over the carnage that will forever be known as 2020.  He discusses COVID 19, the anti-science movement, becoming a first time dad, publishing his latest book, and a whole lot more.  ---------------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dan looks over the carnage that will forever be known as 2020.  He discusses COVID 19, the anti-science movement, becoming a first time dad, publishing his latest book, and a whole lot more.  ---------------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4265</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/099cea8ac3a009ca045b887b40f32b60.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#183] An Open Letter To The Red Pill Community</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/183-an-open-letter-to-the-red-pill-community--64783073</link><description><![CDATA[After a long, weary battle with the Red Pill community, I've decided to withdraw and focus on more productive endeavors. This is my goodbye letter to those of you who have not yet been completely swallowed up by the Red Pill conspiracy theories.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/   REFERENCES AND CITATIONS [1] https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/podcast/feminism-is-dead-who-killed-it/  [2] https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online  [3] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1634840/  [4] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222286/  [5] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167202289013  [6] https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online  [7] https://archive.thinkprogress.org/no-coincidence-california-synagogue-shooter-john-earnest-posted-about-the-red-pill-movement-aa46b31c01ad/  [8] https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2014/05/27/inside-the-manosphere-that-inspired-santa-barbara-shooter-elliot-rodger/  [9] https://www.drglover.com/coaching-groups/groups-for-men.html  [10] https://www.johnwineland.com/  [11] https://deida.info/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/940475815</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2020 05:53:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783073/940475815_thebrojo_red_pill_conspiracy.mp3" length="44673818" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>After a long, weary battle with the Red Pill community, I've decided to withdraw and focus on more productive endeavors. This is my goodbye letter to those of you who have not yet been completely swallowed up by the Red Pill conspiracy theories.  Get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[After a long, weary battle with the Red Pill community, I've decided to withdraw and focus on more productive endeavors. This is my goodbye letter to those of you who have not yet been completely swallowed up by the Red Pill conspiracy theories.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/   REFERENCES AND CITATIONS [1] https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/podcast/feminism-is-dead-who-killed-it/  [2] https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online  [3] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1634840/  [4] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222286/  [5] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167202289013  [6] https://www.newstatesman.com/science-tech/internet/2017/02/reddit-the-red-pill-interview-how-misogyny-spreads-online  [7] https://archive.thinkprogress.org/no-coincidence-california-synagogue-shooter-john-earnest-posted-about-the-red-pill-movement-aa46b31c01ad/  [8] https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2014/05/27/inside-the-manosphere-that-inspired-santa-barbara-shooter-elliot-rodger/  [9] https://www.drglover.com/coaching-groups/groups-for-men.html  [10] https://www.johnwineland.com/  [11] https://deida.info/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1862</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0dbd4b24fb08dd97a6480beb968f5b3f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#182] Honesty Critique: Sam Harris Vs Ben Affleck Confrontation - Dave Rubin Interview</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/182-honesty-critique-sam-harris-vs-ben-affleck-confrontation-dave-rubin-interview--64783076</link><description><![CDATA[Referring to the 5 Principles of Powerful Honesty from my new book The Naked Truth, I analyse a confrontation Sam Harris with Ben Affleck on the Real Time with Bill Maher Show. Sam Harris is one of the most respectable advocates for honesty, so let's look at how he does it, compared with Ben Affleck.  NOTE: For some reason I got it in my head that Dave Rubin's name was "Rick". I have no idea why that happened, so please ignore this blunder.  Original Rubin Report video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6XL2IS6CMk  ----------------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/936963532</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2020 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783076/936963532_thebrojo_182_honesty_critique_sam_harris_vs_ben_affleck_confrontation_dave_rubin_interview.mp3" length="75554314" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Referring to the 5 Principles of Powerful Honesty from my new book The Naked Truth, I analyse a confrontation Sam Harris with Ben Affleck on the Real Time with Bill Maher Show. Sam Harris is one of the most respectable advocates for honesty, so let's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Referring to the 5 Principles of Powerful Honesty from my new book The Naked Truth, I analyse a confrontation Sam Harris with Ben Affleck on the Real Time with Bill Maher Show. Sam Harris is one of the most respectable advocates for honesty, so let's look at how he does it, compared with Ben Affleck.  NOTE: For some reason I got it in my head that Dave Rubin's name was "Rick". I have no idea why that happened, so please ignore this blunder.  Original Rubin Report video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6XL2IS6CMk  ----------------  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3149</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/93d597cb6a48da943db7e0a24629aeb4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#181] The Challenges of Being Honest in The Real World</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/181-the-challenges-of-being-honest-in-the-real-world--64783126</link><description><![CDATA[I recently posted in the BROJO facebook group, asking what their biggest barriers to honesty were. In this episode, we explore them all and tackle them one by one, including: - how to receive hard truths - confrontations and conflict - hurting people's feelings And many more..  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/922582282</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2020 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783126/922582282_thebrojo_real_world_honest.mp3" length="71329376" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I recently posted in the BROJO facebook group, asking what their biggest barriers to honesty were. In this episode, we explore them all and tackle them one by one, including: - how to receive hard truths - confrontations and conflict - hurting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I recently posted in the BROJO facebook group, asking what their biggest barriers to honesty were. In this episode, we explore them all and tackle them one by one, including: - how to receive hard truths - confrontations and conflict - hurting people's feelings And many more..  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4459</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b60a08cd1bdeb622abed9b14ec7d97ef.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#179] The Naked Truth - Confrontations and Boundaries</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/179-the-naked-truth-confrontations-and-boundaries--64783153</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The single most difficult type of honesty is usually what most people call "confrontations". Most people will do anything to avoid conflict, and see confrontations as some sort of communication breakdown - a failure that should not happen. But the truth is that you NEED to have regular, healthy confrontations to build good relationships and deep connections.   In this episode, Dan shares 3 chapters from his upcoming book The Naked Truth, all about why you need confrontation in your life.  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/911052028</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2020 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783153/911052028_thebrojo_179_the_naked_truth_confrontations_and_boundaries.mp3" length="83569266" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The single most...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The single most difficult type of honesty is usually what most people call "confrontations". Most people will do anything to avoid conflict, and see confrontations as some sort of communication breakdown - a failure that should not happen. But the truth is that you NEED to have regular, healthy confrontations to build good relationships and deep connections.   In this episode, Dan shares 3 chapters from his upcoming book The Naked Truth, all about why you need confrontation in your life.  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5224</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a20e6461cdedaed5307d59bfb0219017.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#180] Book review: Mike and Dan discuss The Naked Truth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/180-book-review-mike-and-dan-discuss-the-naked-truth--64783065</link><description><![CDATA[BROJO Coaches Mike Wells and Dan Munro get together to explore Dan's new book The Naked Truth, and Mike gives his feedback and thoughts on honesty and other concepts in the book.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/915427375</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2020 03:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783065/915427375_thebrojo_the_naked_truth_book_review.mp3" length="53231777" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>BROJO Coaches Mike Wells and Dan Munro get together to explore Dan's new book The Naked Truth, and Mike gives his feedback and thoughts on honesty and other concepts in the book.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[BROJO Coaches Mike Wells and Dan Munro get together to explore Dan's new book The Naked Truth, and Mike gives his feedback and thoughts on honesty and other concepts in the book.  Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3327</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b9c68f3c6118e03390f2246bc0e97036.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#178] The Naked Truth - What it Means to Give Freely</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/178-the-naked-truth-what-it-means-to-give-freely--64783130</link><description><![CDATA[When most people "give" it's actually a form of manipulation designed to guilt-trip people into reciprocating with giving or approval. In this chapter from Dan's new book The Naked Truth, we explore what it means to be truly giving without any hidden agendas, so that you can use honesty to build confidence and be generous to others.  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this episode we reveal 3 chapters from Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth, all exploring the concept of Giving. Most people "give to get" where they use generosity and kindess as a manipulative tactic to get something in return. In the book The Naked Truth, Dan explains how being honest, without trying to get anything in return, is one of the most powerful forms of giving you can do.  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/910922188</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2020 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783130/910922188_thebrojo_178_the_naked_truth_giving_freely.mp3" length="45979688" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When most people "give" it's actually a form of manipulation designed to guilt-trip people into reciprocating with giving or approval. In this chapter from Dan's new book The Naked Truth, we explore what it means to be truly giving without any hidden...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When most people "give" it's actually a form of manipulation designed to guilt-trip people into reciprocating with giving or approval. In this chapter from Dan's new book The Naked Truth, we explore what it means to be truly giving without any hidden agendas, so that you can use honesty to build confidence and be generous to others.  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this episode we reveal 3 chapters from Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth, all exploring the concept of Giving. Most people "give to get" where they use generosity and kindess as a manipulative tactic to get something in return. In the book The Naked Truth, Dan explains how being honest, without trying to get anything in return, is one of the most powerful forms of giving you can do.  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. 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Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/909888697</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2020 23:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783140/909888697_thebrojo_overcome_fear_of_honesty_the_naked_truth.mp3" length="50728123" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>BROJO Coaches Dan, Mike and Joe answer the members questions, and deal with the problem of being intimidated by increased honesty.  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[BROJO Coaches Dan, Mike and Joe answer the members questions, and deal with the problem of being intimidated by increased honesty.  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3171</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/03d63db60b1c330d2153cec1f9ddda8e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#176] How Dishonesty Affects Your Self-Confidence, Health and Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/176-how-dishonesty-affects-your-self-confidence-health-and-relationships--64783143</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We don't often stop to think about how dishonesty affects the different areas of life: health, wealth, relationships, psychology and purpose. Before we can learn how to stop lying and start living with more integrity, we must first get clear on the definition of dishonesty and how it plays a detrimental role on our confidence, wellbeing and relationships. In this episode, I explore how radical honesty and integrity can cure a lot of the damage done from lying to yourself and others. Unfortunately, aside from researchers like Dan Ariely, very few people have fully explored the harm caused by dishonesty. Let's have a look together. ---------------------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/906071968</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 00:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783143/906071968_thebrojo_dishonesty_confidence_relationships.mp3" length="69563916" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We don't often stop...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We don't often stop to think about how dishonesty affects the different areas of life: health, wealth, relationships, psychology and purpose. Before we can learn how to stop lying and start living with more integrity, we must first get clear on the definition of dishonesty and how it plays a detrimental role on our confidence, wellbeing and relationships. In this episode, I explore how radical honesty and integrity can cure a lot of the damage done from lying to yourself and others. Unfortunately, aside from researchers like Dan Ariely, very few people have fully explored the harm caused by dishonesty. Let's have a look together. ---------------------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4348</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/372d97b402de530f56b2d9133cd91ad7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#175] Ethical Influence: Can Persuasive Language Be Honest and Healthy?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/175-ethical-influence-can-persuasive-language-be-honest-and-healthy--64783136</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We are constantly exposed to manipulation and influence from others, and are influencing them in return. Is it possible for this to be healthy and have integrity? Is there such a thing as ethical influencing? In this episode, we explore ethics and tactics in relationships, marketing, and other social interactions, to see if we can be both honest and persuasive. ---------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/905613862</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2020 06:18:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783136/905613862_thebrojo_ethical_influence_persuasion.mp3" length="61918607" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We are constantly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   We are constantly exposed to manipulation and influence from others, and are influencing them in return. Is it possible for this to be healthy and have integrity? Is there such a thing as ethical influencing? In this episode, we explore ethics and tactics in relationships, marketing, and other social interactions, to see if we can be both honest and persuasive. ---------- If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo  Mike’s blog: https://www.coachmike.live/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3870</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/32885695fe7b32c8e1e96bf703f65f62.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#173] "I found my girlfriend cheating.." and 13 more Relationship Questions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/173-i-found-my-girlfriend-cheating-and-13-more-relationship-questions--64783075</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this episode, I scrolled through Quora.com and checked out a few questions in the Girlfriend Advice section. Here are my answers... 1. My girlfriend told me that I am "being too nice". Does that mean she actually wants me to be mean? 2. I found my girlfriend cheating on me, what should I do? 3. How can I help my autistic girlfriend with her meltdowns? She is 21. 4. My girlfriend has gained 100 pounds over the last two years, I'm still in love with her but should I bring up her weight to her or leave it be? 5. I lied to my girlfriend about liking BTS, now she is taking me to a concert. What do I do? 6. How do I go about supporting my girlfriend who shuts me out? 7. What was the best relationship advice you ever got? 8. Why do I lie to my girlfriend who I want to spend the rest of my life with? 9. Why do people choose to stay single? 10. How do I make sure my girlfriend doesn't get bored of me? 11. I left my girlfriend for her mom. Am I a bad person or just a victim of love? 12. My girlfriend and I are going through a break. She states that I am not the reason, but rather because she has problems of her own. We both made it clear that we still love each other. Should I keep my distance? 13. I Lost all of my close friends and my girlfriend, and I have no idea what I did wrong. What do I do to make people interested in me? 14. My girlfriend has been treating me poorly and argues over stupid things and insulting during those argument and after the argument she doesn't talk to me unless I talk, does anyone know what's wrong? --- If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/902195707</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2020 23:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783075/902195707_thebrojo_relationship_questions_girlfriend_advice.mp3" length="53883759" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this episode, I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this episode, I scrolled through Quora.com and checked out a few questions in the Girlfriend Advice section. Here are my answers... 1. My girlfriend told me that I am "being too nice". Does that mean she actually wants me to be mean? 2. I found my girlfriend cheating on me, what should I do? 3. How can I help my autistic girlfriend with her meltdowns? She is 21. 4. My girlfriend has gained 100 pounds over the last two years, I'm still in love with her but should I bring up her weight to her or leave it be? 5. I lied to my girlfriend about liking BTS, now she is taking me to a concert. What do I do? 6. How do I go about supporting my girlfriend who shuts me out? 7. What was the best relationship advice you ever got? 8. Why do I lie to my girlfriend who I want to spend the rest of my life with? 9. Why do people choose to stay single? 10. How do I make sure my girlfriend doesn't get bored of me? 11. I left my girlfriend for her mom. Am I a bad person or just a victim of love? 12. My girlfriend and I are going through a break. She states that I am not the reason, but rather because she has problems of her own. We both made it clear that we still love each other. Should I keep my distance? 13. I Lost all of my close friends and my girlfriend, and I have no idea what I did wrong. What do I do to make people interested in me? 14. My girlfriend has been treating me poorly and argues over stupid things and insulting during those argument and after the argument she doesn't talk to me unless I talk, does anyone know what's wrong? --- If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships.  For more personal support, contact Dan &amp; Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session with a BROJO Coach: https://www.brojo.org/apply   BROJO’s Top resources:  The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3368</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/95dddf0e72d45f74a1342ee61618b364.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#172] Advanced Manipulation Techniques to Be Aware Of</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/172-advanced-manipulation-techniques-to-be-aware-of--64783139</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Following on from my previous podcast on managing manipulation and emotional abuse, I've added this episode to highlight some of the more specific manipulation techinques that narcissists, psychopaths, and even just regular people use. Have a listen if you'd like to hone your skills on how to stop being manipulated.  ------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/898722826</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2020 08:24:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783139/898722826_thebrojo_advanced_manipulation_techniques.mp3" length="57203609" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Following on from my previous podcast on managing manipulation and emotional abuse, I've added this episode to highlight some of the more specific manipulation techinques that narcissists, psychopaths, and even just regular people use. Have a listen if you'd like to hone your skills on how to stop being manipulated.  ------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org, or complete an application for a FREE coaching session: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/lets-talk/   The 3X Confidence and Authenticity Masterclass Program [Udemy course] A complete in-depth guide on how to build your confidence by being authentic and living with integrity, following Dan Munro’s secret 3X Confidence formula. https://www.udemy.com/course/3x-confidence-and-authenticity-masterclass-programme/?referralCode=E2E2809759BC30A64ED5  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection… Permanently [Udemy course] Say goodbye to fear of rejection, approach anxiety, and missing out on opportunities. This quick but thorough course will destroy your limiting beliefs around rejection. https://www.udemy.com/course/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection-permanently/?referralCode=A463BA253FFB91EC62FC  The Legendary Life: Build the Motivation and Confidence to Create an Authentic Lifestyle [book] Dan’s first book covers a complete blueprint for designing your life in a way that matches your core values, showing you how to overcome fear, set and achieve powerful goals, and build your confidence without needing other people to like you. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TJFWJSS/  Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs [book] A philosophical examination of the confident mindset, from a scientific and practical viewpoint. This book will help you decode confidence into a set of beliefs and behaviours that you can control. https://www.amazon.com/Nothing-Lose-Hesitation-Procrastination-Confidence-ebook/dp/B01MRMJJPU/  Dan’s blog: https://www.theinspirationallifestyle.com/blog  The BROJO Online podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thebrojo]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3576</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/896fb7d8e13ab68d43d07c7c8c422a9a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#171] The Crazy Truth About Productivity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/171-the-crazy-truth-about-productivity--64783080</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've been pressured all your life to be "productive". This is why you choose a safe job over an artistic one; why you never feel comfortable relaxing and taking time off; why you always need to do MORE and be BETTER. It's time to blow this lid off this bullshit... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/895294600</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2020 03:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783080/895294600_thebrojo_productivity.mp3" length="54936181" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've been...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've been pressured all your life to be "productive". This is why you choose a safe job over an artistic one; why you never feel comfortable relaxing and taking time off; why you always need to do MORE and be BETTER. It's time to blow this lid off this bullshit... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3434</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6e68add3cf421f0c05fedb4b06322dc0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#170] My Favourite Client Success Stories and Lessons</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/170-my-favourite-client-success-stories-and-lessons--64783154</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   After coaching for about 7 years, I've been privileged to witness massive transformations. In this episode, I share a dozen or so of my favourite client success stories, and I especially focus on the lessons they can teach us. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/890852869</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2020 10:37:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783154/890852869_thebrojo_client_stories_success.mp3" length="71418401" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   After coaching for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   After coaching for about 7 years, I've been privileged to witness massive transformations. In this episode, I share a dozen or so of my favourite client success stories, and I especially focus on the lessons they can teach us. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4464</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6d43ab1846acae64e45b7bc7926ac5ce.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#169] The Naked Truth: The People-Pleasing Lie about "Making Others Happy"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/169-the-naked-truth-the-people-pleasing-lie-about-making-others-happy--64783144</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another excerpt from Dan Munro's latest book The Naked Truth. In this chapter, we discuss the lies people-pleasers tell themselves to justify being dishonest, specifically: the lie about how it makes other people happy.  If you'd like to pre-order this book (due for release Dec 2020), email dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/885498457</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2020 02:59:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783144/885498457_thebrojo_the_naked_truth_people_pleasing_happy.mp3" length="26289676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another excerpt from...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another excerpt from Dan Munro's latest book The Naked Truth. In this chapter, we discuss the lies people-pleasers tell themselves to justify being dishonest, specifically: the lie about how it makes other people happy.  If you'd like to pre-order this book (due for release Dec 2020), email dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1644</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/03d63db60b1c330d2153cec1f9ddda8e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#168] How to Stop Worrying and Be Less Paranoid</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/168-how-to-stop-worrying-and-be-less-paranoid--64783156</link><description><![CDATA[Many people live their lives in a nearly constant state of fight or flight mode, because they keep worrying about the future. They feel that this worry is uncontrollable, and they are paranoid about "something bad" happening in the future. In this episode, we explore what worrying really is, and how to reduce it.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/882808621</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2020 03:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783156/882808621_thebrojo_worry_paranoid.mp3" length="54484785" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many people live their lives in a nearly constant state of fight or flight mode, because they keep worrying about the future. They feel that this worry is uncontrollable, and they are paranoid about "something bad" happening in the future. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many people live their lives in a nearly constant state of fight or flight mode, because they keep worrying about the future. They feel that this worry is uncontrollable, and they are paranoid about "something bad" happening in the future. In this episode, we explore what worrying really is, and how to reduce it.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3406</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bb0174d16b4bbc8ce7dab7a402ec8f9a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#167] 50 Ways That You Undermine Your Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/167-50-ways-that-you-undermine-your-confidence--64783166</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Building confidence is hard enough as it is, so you don't need to be making it even more challenging by sabotaging your progress through pointless harmful behaviours. In this episode, we look at the most common way that people wreck their own confidence, and how to prevent this from happening.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/874005769</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2020 03:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783166/874005769_thebrojo_50_undermine_confidence_final.mp3" length="61814535" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Building confidence...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Building confidence is hard enough as it is, so you don't need to be making it even more challenging by sabotaging your progress through pointless harmful behaviours. In this episode, we look at the most common way that people wreck their own confidence, and how to prevent this from happening.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3864</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/947fd357c6d3e3d6f4241bf6f51ad27a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#166] The Naked Truth: Monica Lewinsky vs Paris Hilton</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/166-the-naked-truth-monica-lewinsky-vs-paris-hilton--64783172</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In another preview to Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth, we analyse the difference between Monica Lewinsky and Paris Hilton with respect to their public sex scandals. Who dealt with it better? Let's find out. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/873949246</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2020 03:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783172/873949246_thebrojo_the_naked_truth_monica_lewinsky_paris_hilton.mp3" length="14684622" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In another preview...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In another preview to Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth, we analyse the difference between Monica Lewinsky and Paris Hilton with respect to their public sex scandals. Who dealt with it better? Let's find out. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>918</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ed408e822eaeefe3be0b44de2e646121.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#165] How Attachment Styles Control Our Lives, with Dan and Mike</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/165-how-attachment-styles-control-our-lives-with-dan-and-mike--64783178</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO Coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to pontificate on various topics, ranging from morning routines and daily habits through to how your attachment style affects relationships and careers.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/873303271</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 03:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783178/873303271_thebrojo_attachment_styles_control.mp3" length="83054419" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO Coaches Dan...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO Coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells get together to pontificate on various topics, ranging from morning routines and daily habits through to how your attachment style affects relationships and careers.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5191</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/119599949c60635339143a0b7fe192a7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#164] The Secret to Self Leadership, with Peter Lewis</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/164-the-secret-to-self-leadership-with-peter-lewis--64783097</link><description><![CDATA[With 20 years of sterling military service at his back, combined with a love for Stoicism and Iron Man events, leadership coach Peter Lewis has some deep wisdom to impart from his own journey of discovering self-leadership while in the dark depths of depression.  Find our more about Peter here: https://www.peterlewiscoaching.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/865968118</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2020 03:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783097/865968118_thebrojo_peter_lewis_self_leadership.mp3" length="62179447" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>With 20 years of sterling military service at his back, combined with a love for Stoicism and Iron Man events, leadership coach Peter Lewis has some deep wisdom to impart from his own journey of discovering self-leadership while in the dark depths of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[With 20 years of sterling military service at his back, combined with a love for Stoicism and Iron Man events, leadership coach Peter Lewis has some deep wisdom to impart from his own journey of discovering self-leadership while in the dark depths of depression.  Find our more about Peter here: https://www.peterlewiscoaching.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3887</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/97683c9ef417928b05eca0c94a3a831b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#163] Your Partner Is YOU</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/163-your-partner-is-you--64783105</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The people you date and form relationships with are an accurate measurement of your own self-confidence. If you're finding yourself in a negative pattern in the romantic world - e.g. chronically single, superficial connections, disastrous relationships etc. - the issue is within you. In this episode, we explore different attachment styles and other important factors that determine your dating satisfaction and success in love. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/865295560</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2020 03:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783105/865295560_thebrojo_partner_is_you.mp3" length="53221712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The people you date...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   The people you date and form relationships with are an accurate measurement of your own self-confidence. If you're finding yourself in a negative pattern in the romantic world - e.g. chronically single, superficial connections, disastrous relationships etc. - the issue is within you. In this episode, we explore different attachment styles and other important factors that determine your dating satisfaction and success in love. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3327</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/92292010a3ec548e45afecac4ecf2bf0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#162] You're Not Doing Things for The Right Reasons</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/162-you-re-not-doing-things-for-the-right-reasons--64783161</link><description><![CDATA[Most people are trying their best. Most of you are doing the 'right' things, most of the time. However, it still isn't working out for you. Why? Because while you might be doing the right things, you are probably doing them for the wrong reasons, and as we'll discuss today, the reason why you do anything is the most important part. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/858300649</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2020 01:59:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783161/858300649_thebrojo_reasons_values.mp3" length="59995159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people are trying their best. Most of you are doing the 'right' things, most of the time. However, it still isn't working out for you. Why? Because while you might be doing the right things, you are probably doing them for the wrong reasons, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people are trying their best. Most of you are doing the 'right' things, most of the time. However, it still isn't working out for you. Why? Because while you might be doing the right things, you are probably doing them for the wrong reasons, and as we'll discuss today, the reason why you do anything is the most important part. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3750</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5f29f81d2f22335250ab2d2f9863e50b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#161] The Naked Truth: The Benefits Of Confrontation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/161-the-naked-truth-the-benefits-of-confrontation--64783104</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another sneak-peek from Dan's upcoming book The Naked Truth. This book dives deep into the bravest form of honesty: confrontation. In this chapter, we explore why being confrontational is actually beneficial to both yourself and others. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/854931376</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2020 03:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783104/854931376_thebrojo_benefits_of_confrontation_the_naked_truth.mp3" length="30047129" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another sneak-peek...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   Another sneak-peek from Dan's upcoming book The Naked Truth. This book dives deep into the bravest form of honesty: confrontation. In this chapter, we explore why being confrontational is actually beneficial to both yourself and others. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1878</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d6d0b8ae3154fab0e16ce5cd9fbdf9f0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#160] The Fear of Being Judged as "Weird"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/160-the-fear-of-being-judged-as-weird--64783114</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   When you're in social environments, do you notice yourself behaving differently to how you would alone, or at home? The fear of being judged as "weird" or "different" haunts the lives of many people, especially Nice Guys and artists. We are missing out on incredibly valuable insights and creativity from people simply because they're afraid of being judged?! Why would people be afraid of that? ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/850717591</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2020 03:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783114/850717591_thebrojo_fear_weird.mp3" length="42305872" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   When you're in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   When you're in social environments, do you notice yourself behaving differently to how you would alone, or at home? The fear of being judged as "weird" or "different" haunts the lives of many people, especially Nice Guys and artists. We are missing out on incredibly valuable insights and creativity from people simply because they're afraid of being judged?! Why would people be afraid of that? ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2645</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f8a47d540cfa3adec44ceab013d129a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#159] Desperation is a good thing! With Teddy Woolsey</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/159-desperation-is-a-good-thing-with-teddy-woolsey--64783162</link><description><![CDATA[Only a few short years ago, Teddy Woolsey was witnessing his marriage deteriorate in front of his eyes while his finances went down the toilet. He was miserable and hitting bottom. Today, he's with the girl of his dreams, hosts his own podcast, and mastering money to a level where he can coach others to do the same, while feeling a level of confidence that he calls "being comfortable in my own skin." What happened in a few short years to create such a massive change? Let's find out!  -------------------- Learn more about Teddy here: http://wantingless.org/ Contact Teddy for money advice: wantinglesspodcast@gmail.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/845470276</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2020 03:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783162/845470276_thebrojo_desperation_good_confidence.mp3" length="66723918" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Only a few short years ago, Teddy Woolsey was witnessing his marriage deteriorate in front of his eyes while his finances went down the toilet. He was miserable and hitting bottom. Today, he's with the girl of his dreams, hosts his own podcast, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Only a few short years ago, Teddy Woolsey was witnessing his marriage deteriorate in front of his eyes while his finances went down the toilet. He was miserable and hitting bottom. Today, he's with the girl of his dreams, hosts his own podcast, and mastering money to a level where he can coach others to do the same, while feeling a level of confidence that he calls "being comfortable in my own skin." What happened in a few short years to create such a massive change? Let's find out!  -------------------- Learn more about Teddy here: http://wantingless.org/ Contact Teddy for money advice: wantinglesspodcast@gmail.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4171</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c50bc0cc4823923ab1e2c60277e8c508.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#158] The Naked Truth: Dealing With Shame</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/158-the-naked-truth-dealing-with-shame--64783113</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this sneak peek preview, Dan Munro reads from his upcoming book The Naked Truth a chapter on shame, and how honesty and confidence go together in the same way that dishonesty and shame do.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/841675645</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2020 03:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783113/841675645_thebrojo_shame_the_naked_truth.mp3" length="21387015" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this sneak peek...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   In this sneak peek preview, Dan Munro reads from his upcoming book The Naked Truth a chapter on shame, and how honesty and confidence go together in the same way that dishonesty and shame do.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1337</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8a3edfd8ff8b0f3ff24e90d67080a8ca.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#157] A truthful guide to creating a 6-figure service business</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/157-a-truthful-guide-to-creating-a-6-figure-service-business--64783107</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   There's a lot of bullshit advice out there for people wanting to start their own business (or grow their current business). As a coach who has created a successfully profitable 6-figure business in 6 years, I wanted to talk about the real way to do it, without needing capital, quick fix schemes, or shady marketing techniques. This one is for all the coaches, consultants, musicians, artisans, trades, massage therapist, and other service based entrepreneurs. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/838073113</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2020 03:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783107/838073113_thebrojo_success_business_guide.mp3" length="52548380" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   There's a lot of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   There's a lot of bullshit advice out there for people wanting to start their own business (or grow their current business). As a coach who has created a successfully profitable 6-figure business in 6 years, I wanted to talk about the real way to do it, without needing capital, quick fix schemes, or shady marketing techniques. This one is for all the coaches, consultants, musicians, artisans, trades, massage therapist, and other service based entrepreneurs. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3285</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/efe6bbe668b7d58998115f64d21991a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#156] Unorthodox: Why You Need To Break The Rules</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/156-unorthodox-why-you-need-to-break-the-rules--64783168</link><description><![CDATA[Breaking rules is difficult and requires strong self-confidence. Yet you MUST do it if you hope to succeed and enjoy life. If everyone is doing it one way, you can rest assured it's not the BEST way to do it.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/829641898</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2020 03:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783168/829641898_thebrojo_unorthodox_break_rules.mp3" length="44732543" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Breaking rules is difficult and requires strong self-confidence. Yet you MUST do it if you hope to succeed and enjoy life. If everyone is doing it one way, you can rest assured it's not the BEST way to do it.  ------------------------  For more...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Breaking rules is difficult and requires strong self-confidence. Yet you MUST do it if you hope to succeed and enjoy life. If everyone is doing it one way, you can rest assured it's not the BEST way to do it.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2796</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8e92a783250ca1fce7ea8994e65203eb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#155] Relax! How to Stop Feeling Guilty About Enjoying Time Out</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/155-relax-how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-about-enjoying-time-out--64783147</link><description><![CDATA[Do you feel restless when there's nothing to do? Do you feel guilty when you get 'caught' relaxing? Do you find yourself bragging about being busy? If so, you're showing all the hallmarks of someone who is ashamed of relaxing, taking time out, and even enjoying life. And yes, you're not alone: most people are ashamed of not being constantly busy. In this episode, we explore the strange resistance we have to enjoying life and taking a break... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/829069954</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2020 03:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783147/829069954_thebrojo_relax_guilt_reduce_stress.mp3" length="51827400" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you feel restless when there's nothing to do? Do you feel guilty when you get 'caught' relaxing? Do you find yourself bragging about being busy? If so, you're showing all the hallmarks of someone who is ashamed of relaxing, taking time out, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel restless when there's nothing to do? Do you feel guilty when you get 'caught' relaxing? Do you find yourself bragging about being busy? If so, you're showing all the hallmarks of someone who is ashamed of relaxing, taking time out, and even enjoying life. And yes, you're not alone: most people are ashamed of not being constantly busy. In this episode, we explore the strange resistance we have to enjoying life and taking a break... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3240</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a98638fe815da2685208adf419740744.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#154] Emotional Intelligence: How an Autistic Guy Learned to Connect, with Paul Micallef</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/154-emotional-intelligence-how-an-autistic-guy-learned-to-connect-with-paul-micallef--64783150</link><description><![CDATA[Paul Micallef always knew that socialising and fitting in was difficult for him, moreso than the other kids. But it wasn't until he was 30 years old before he realised that he had Aspergers, and that his social difficulties came from not intuitively grasping the social rules all the other kids seemed to be aware of.  But since this discovery, Paul has transformed himself into a guy who's authentic, grounded, and easy to connect with. His exploration into Emotional Intelligence has led him to become a Relationship Coaching and Teacher of EQ. He has some very important lessons for all of us on how to connect with others. -----------------  Paul's website: https://emotionsexplained.com.au/  EQ 101: Emotional Intelligence Explained course: https://autism-explained.teachable.com/p/emotions-explained  Paul's Aspergers from The Inside YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-FpBZR7DbpvNj5UrFN8qUA]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/824471386</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2020 17:57:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783150/824471386_thebrojo_emotional_intelligence_autism_connection_paul_micallef.mp3" length="64954278" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Paul Micallef always knew that socialising and fitting in was difficult for him, moreso than the other kids. But it wasn't until he was 30 years old before he realised that he had Aspergers, and that his social difficulties came from not intuitively...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Paul Micallef always knew that socialising and fitting in was difficult for him, moreso than the other kids. But it wasn't until he was 30 years old before he realised that he had Aspergers, and that his social difficulties came from not intuitively grasping the social rules all the other kids seemed to be aware of.  But since this discovery, Paul has transformed himself into a guy who's authentic, grounded, and easy to connect with. His exploration into Emotional Intelligence has led him to become a Relationship Coaching and Teacher of EQ. He has some very important lessons for all of us on how to connect with others. -----------------  Paul's website: https://emotionsexplained.com.au/  EQ 101: Emotional Intelligence Explained course: https://autism-explained.teachable.com/p/emotions-explained  Paul's Aspergers from The Inside YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-FpBZR7DbpvNj5UrFN8qUA]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4060</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7af71ab90411e2a644fef77a9b82ca5d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#153] A Lesson on The Life of Socrates, with Donald Robertson</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/153-a-lesson-on-the-life-of-socrates-with-donald-robertson--64783186</link><description><![CDATA[Renowned CBT psychologist and Stoicism/philosophy expert Donald Robertson is back on the show to teach us about the man who started the entire Western philosophy, and still to this day we have never seen a wiser man: Socrates.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  Donald Robertson's crash course on Socrates: https://learn.donaldrobertson.name/p/crash-course-on-socrates  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/818932084</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2020 14:28:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783186/818932084_thebrojo_socrates_donald_robertson.mp3" length="102613237" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Renowned CBT psychologist and Stoicism/philosophy expert Donald Robertson is back on the show to teach us about the man who started the entire Western philosophy, and still to this day we have never seen a wiser man: Socrates....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Renowned CBT psychologist and Stoicism/philosophy expert Donald Robertson is back on the show to teach us about the man who started the entire Western philosophy, and still to this day we have never seen a wiser man: Socrates.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  Donald Robertson's crash course on Socrates: https://learn.donaldrobertson.name/p/crash-course-on-socrates  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6414</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cc6e6267650f80bb6102dc9e30ff04be.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#152] Beyond Winning: Escaping the Superficial to Create Meaning in Your Life, with Albert Auger</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/152-beyond-winning-escaping-the-superficial-to-create-meaning-in-your-life-with-albert-auger--64783179</link><description><![CDATA[Pain causes change. Cognitive distortion holds us back. It's important to know why you do what you do. These are just a few of the lessons Albert Auger has to share with us today. Al had 25 years in the commercial real estate business, and was at the top of his game, making lots of money when tragedy struck.  He lost his health and family.   Al is the author of the book PURE PROFITS and has been published internationally in over 60 articles. He's here to tell the story of creating a balanced life, something he learned the hard way from experience. -------------- If anyone contacts Al through LinkedIn and mentions they heard us on this podcast, he is happy to give them a free digital copy of his book or 15 minutes or an email of a specific question they have in real estate or about our podcast: https://www.linkedin.com/in/albert-auger/ https://www.amazon.com/Al-Auger/e/B001K905YQ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/814233733</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2020 03:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783179/814233733_thebrojo_beyond_winning_meaningful_life_albert_auger.mp3" length="58727522" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pain causes change. Cognitive distortion holds us back. It's important to know why you do what you do. These are just a few of the lessons Albert Auger has to share with us today. Al had 25 years in the commercial real estate business, and was at the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pain causes change. Cognitive distortion holds us back. It's important to know why you do what you do. These are just a few of the lessons Albert Auger has to share with us today. Al had 25 years in the commercial real estate business, and was at the top of his game, making lots of money when tragedy struck.  He lost his health and family.   Al is the author of the book PURE PROFITS and has been published internationally in over 60 articles. He's here to tell the story of creating a balanced life, something he learned the hard way from experience. -------------- If anyone contacts Al through LinkedIn and mentions they heard us on this podcast, he is happy to give them a free digital copy of his book or 15 minutes or an email of a specific question they have in real estate or about our podcast: https://www.linkedin.com/in/albert-auger/ https://www.amazon.com/Al-Auger/e/B001K905YQ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3671</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/11543ce99d52cbc058f2c176787be429.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#174] Dating During the Apocalypse - Socialising on Lockdown, with Dan, Mike and Joe</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/174-dating-during-the-apocalypse-socialising-on-lockdown-with-dan-mike-and-joe--64783118</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO is proud to announce the newest member of our Coaching Team, dating expert Joe Ducard. In this livestream freestyle chat, Joe, Dan and Mike talk about how to socialise and date while on lockdown for COVID-19.  Check out more about Joe Ducard here: http://joeducard.com/  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/805101970</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2020 03:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783118/805101970_thebrojo_dating_socializing_lockdown_covid19.mp3" length="83927953" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO is proud to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   BROJO is proud to announce the newest member of our Coaching Team, dating expert Joe Ducard. In this livestream freestyle chat, Joe, Dan and Mike talk about how to socialise and date while on lockdown for COVID-19.  Check out more about Joe Ducard here: http://joeducard.com/  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5246</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6bc029ea99860cc0b533f2cde8251324.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#151] Low Self-Confidence: Your Only True Enemy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/151-low-self-confidence-your-only-true-enemy--64783111</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've spent your life trying to achieve certain goals: make more money, find a partner, improve your body, get smarter. Yet this whole time, you have probably overlooked the only thing you ever need to work on: your self-confidence. In this episode, we look at the only thing holding you back... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/808883197</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2020 03:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783111/808883197_thebrojo_low_self_confidence.mp3" length="63017422" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've spent your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   You've spent your life trying to achieve certain goals: make more money, find a partner, improve your body, get smarter. Yet this whole time, you have probably overlooked the only thing you ever need to work on: your self-confidence. In this episode, we look at the only thing holding you back... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3939</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f74f33245e6cec1089faa45e60838965.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#150] Biohacking Confidence to Get Unstuck - from Obese to Confident, with Robby D'Angelo</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/150-biohacking-confidence-to-get-unstuck-from-obese-to-confident-with-robby-d-angelo--64783117</link><description><![CDATA[Robby D'Angelo is a Human Optimization Expert, Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Coach who spent the better part of his life fighting obesity.  When I first met Robby I was struck by his confidence and charisma, not to mention his incredibly physique, and I was surprised to learn that he used to be shy, borderline suicidal, and severely obese.  Robby's story is one you need to hear, because he's one of the few people on the planet who has not only lost tonnes of weight, but kept it off due to optimizing his mindset.  Learn more about working with Robby here: https://www.robbydangelo.com/undeniable/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/803619901</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2020 03:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783117/803619901_thebrojo_biohacking_confidence_obese_robby_dangelo.mp3" length="63792352" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Robby D'Angelo is a Human Optimization Expert, Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Coach who spent the better part of his life fighting obesity.  When I first met Robby I was struck by his confidence and charisma, not to mention his incredibly physique,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Robby D'Angelo is a Human Optimization Expert, Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Coach who spent the better part of his life fighting obesity.  When I first met Robby I was struck by his confidence and charisma, not to mention his incredibly physique, and I was surprised to learn that he used to be shy, borderline suicidal, and severely obese.  Robby's story is one you need to hear, because he's one of the few people on the planet who has not only lost tonnes of weight, but kept it off due to optimizing his mindset.  Learn more about working with Robby here: https://www.robbydangelo.com/undeniable/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3987</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/847114f1dbd2e0c2bf1261792ebe8d9a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#149] Discussion; Healthy Perspectives On Women (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/149-discussion-healthy-perspectives-on-women-part-2--64783071</link><description><![CDATA[Part 2 of our deep-dive into healthier ways to view and interact with the fairer gender. In today's discussion, we explore beliefs around manipulation, emotionality, showing weakness, sex, and hypergamy.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/672119633</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2020 03:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783071/672119633_thebrojo_healthy_perspectives_on_women_part_2.mp3" length="71657985" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Part 2 of our deep-dive into healthier ways to view and interact with the fairer gender. In today's discussion, we explore beliefs around manipulation, emotionality, showing weakness, sex, and hypergamy.  ------------------------  For more personal...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Part 2 of our deep-dive into healthier ways to view and interact with the fairer gender. In today's discussion, we explore beliefs around manipulation, emotionality, showing weakness, sex, and hypergamy.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4479</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/347962e083828c65506c6c3610fea92d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#148] Discussion: Healthy Perspectives On Women (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/148-discussion-healthy-perspectives-on-women-part-1--64783180</link><description><![CDATA[If you've been hurt by women, or lack experience, you've probably developed some skewed, jaded or even misogynistic beliefs about them. This will severely limit your love life and make your relationships unhealthy. In this discussion, we unpack the commonly unhelpful beliefs many men have about women, and challenge them against the facts.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/665631983</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2020 17:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783180/665631983_thebrojo_healthy_perspectives_on_women_part_1.mp3" length="92331500" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you've been hurt by women, or lack experience, you've probably developed some skewed, jaded or even misogynistic beliefs about them. This will severely limit your love life and make your relationships unhealthy. In this discussion, we unpack the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you've been hurt by women, or lack experience, you've probably developed some skewed, jaded or even misogynistic beliefs about them. This will severely limit your love life and make your relationships unhealthy. In this discussion, we unpack the commonly unhelpful beliefs many men have about women, and challenge them against the facts.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5771</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5ac93eb6a942f21129842c39522e4e71.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#147] The True Definition of Alpha Male, with Kevin Aillaud</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/147-the-true-definition-of-alpha-male-with-kevin-aillaud--64783121</link><description><![CDATA[The term "alpha male" has often been misrepresented in the modern field of self-development for men.  Often connotated with concepts like dominance, hoarding of resources, promiscuity, physical strength, and other misconceived interpretations of wildlife studies, the alpha male concept has led many men down a dark path toward neediness, manipulation and psychopathy.  Meet causal coach Kevin Aillaud. He's on a mission to truly define the difference between alpha and beta males, and ties this to our ability to ascend beyond autopilot reactions and inaccurate beliefs, and learn how to manage yourself both cognitively and emotionally.  More on Kevin: https://thealphamalecoach.com/  Book a free 45 minute consultation with Kevin: https://calendly.com/kevinaillaud/consultation  Spartan Academy: https://elevatedalphasociety.com/elevatedalphasociety/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/788707789</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2020 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783121/788707789_thebrojo_alpha_male_definition_kevin_auillaud.mp3" length="106501093" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The term "alpha male" has often been misrepresented in the modern field of self-development for men.  Often connotated with concepts like dominance, hoarding of resources, promiscuity, physical strength, and other misconceived interpretations of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The term "alpha male" has often been misrepresented in the modern field of self-development for men.  Often connotated with concepts like dominance, hoarding of resources, promiscuity, physical strength, and other misconceived interpretations of wildlife studies, the alpha male concept has led many men down a dark path toward neediness, manipulation and psychopathy.  Meet causal coach Kevin Aillaud. He's on a mission to truly define the difference between alpha and beta males, and ties this to our ability to ascend beyond autopilot reactions and inaccurate beliefs, and learn how to manage yourself both cognitively and emotionally.  More on Kevin: https://thealphamalecoach.com/  Book a free 45 minute consultation with Kevin: https://calendly.com/kevinaillaud/consultation  Spartan Academy: https://elevatedalphasociety.com/elevatedalphasociety/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6657</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/68a085cf8f70fc347476fa646616a078.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#146] The Naked Truth: Honesty v Dishonesty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/146-the-naked-truth-honesty-v-dishonesty--64783122</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   A sneak peek into Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth.  This podcast is the audio version of the first 3 chapters: 1. Choosing to be honest 2. What is honesty? 3. The hidden faces of dishonesty Contact Dan at dan@brojo.org for details on how to pre-order this book]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/775164625</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2020 16:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783122/775164625_thebrojo_naked_truth.mp3" length="43810559" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   A sneak peek into...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   A sneak peek into Dan Munro's upcoming book The Naked Truth.  This podcast is the audio version of the first 3 chapters: 1. Choosing to be honest 2. What is honesty? 3. The hidden faces of dishonesty Contact Dan at dan@brojo.org for details on how to pre-order this book]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2739</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5a8fb2af51b50e9e00af9ec4fc370474.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#145] Apocalypse Now: How to prepare for the future</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/145-apocalypse-now-how-to-prepare-for-the-future--64783116</link><description><![CDATA[With all the craziness around COVID19, we're starting to get a sense of who is well prepared for global disasters... and who is going to panic and buy toilet paper. In this episode, we look at some reasonable predictions for humanity's future - involving artificial intelligence and technology evolutions, climate change, and overpopulation. Let's discuss how to be best prepared to thrive in such a future, rather than panicking and acting on fear. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/778705117</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2020 19:30:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783116/778705117_thebrojo_apocalypse_corona_virus.mp3" length="45670444" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>With all the craziness around COVID19, we're starting to get a sense of who is well prepared for global disasters... and who is going to panic and buy toilet paper. In this episode, we look at some reasonable predictions for humanity's future -...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[With all the craziness around COVID19, we're starting to get a sense of who is well prepared for global disasters... and who is going to panic and buy toilet paper. In this episode, we look at some reasonable predictions for humanity's future - involving artificial intelligence and technology evolutions, climate change, and overpopulation. Let's discuss how to be best prepared to thrive in such a future, rather than panicking and acting on fear. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2855</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7c810545c55c108352a456506b8f581a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#144] Starting Your Own Business? Here are Some Key Things to Know.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/144-starting-your-own-business-here-are-some-key-things-to-know--64783078</link><description><![CDATA[Starting your own business is fantastic, but there are some key decisions to make and some critical considerations in how you design your team, and plan your day. Join in as Coach Mike, founder and co-founder of 36 businesses, interviews with a new business owner to discuss some of these key points. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/774098812</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2020 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783078/774098812_thebrojo_starting_your_own_business.mp3" length="80498825" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Starting your own business is fantastic, but there are some key decisions to make and some critical considerations in how you design your team, and plan your day. Join in as Coach Mike, founder and co-founder of 36 businesses, interviews with a new...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Starting your own business is fantastic, but there are some key decisions to make and some critical considerations in how you design your team, and plan your day. Join in as Coach Mike, founder and co-founder of 36 businesses, interviews with a new business owner to discuss some of these key points. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3354</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/63f50078437d21b8838151dedf83ae62.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#143] Control Freaks: Our Dark Secrets</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/143-control-freaks-our-dark-secrets--64783151</link><description><![CDATA[Many of us are self-described Control Freaks. We feel a great neediness for things to be done the "right" way (our way), for life to be problem-free and smooth, and for everything to "make sense". When this stuff doesn't happen, we tend to get very stressed and frustrated. In this episode, we look at the truth behind controlling mindsets and uncover the dark insecurities driving things like controlling, people-pleasing, and perfectionism. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/772882573</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2020 18:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783151/772882573_thebrojo_control_freak.mp3" length="44911430" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many of us are self-described Control Freaks. We feel a great neediness for things to be done the "right" way (our way), for life to be problem-free and smooth, and for everything to "make sense". When this stuff doesn't happen, we tend to get very...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of us are self-described Control Freaks. We feel a great neediness for things to be done the "right" way (our way), for life to be problem-free and smooth, and for everything to "make sense". When this stuff doesn't happen, we tend to get very stressed and frustrated. In this episode, we look at the truth behind controlling mindsets and uncover the dark insecurities driving things like controlling, people-pleasing, and perfectionism. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2807</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3e4fca012fac1956b87fb6796c019930.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#142] Why You Think You're a Loser (How to Stop Feeling Not Good Enough)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/142-why-you-think-you-re-a-loser-how-to-stop-feeling-not-good-enough--64783120</link><description><![CDATA[Many people spend a majority of their time thinking of themselves as "not good enough" in some way. Some people even see themselves as a complete Loser - an identity that they cannot shake.  But this negative view of yourself is flawed and inaccurate. The fact that you're alive and well enough to listen to this podcast shows you can't be a TOTAL loser, so where does this inaccurate self-view come from? Let's explore... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/765945301</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783120/765945301_thebrojo_loser.mp3" length="52191443" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many people spend a majority of their time thinking of themselves as "not good enough" in some way. Some people even see themselves as a complete Loser - an identity that they cannot shake.  But this negative view of yourself is flawed and inaccurate....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many people spend a majority of their time thinking of themselves as "not good enough" in some way. Some people even see themselves as a complete Loser - an identity that they cannot shake.  But this negative view of yourself is flawed and inaccurate. The fact that you're alive and well enough to listen to this podcast shows you can't be a TOTAL loser, so where does this inaccurate self-view come from? Let's explore... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3262</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e513b2edb9c539c8637cbcf637e768d7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#141] Introverts &amp; Extroverts, What's the Real Difference?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/141-introverts-extroverts-what-s-the-real-difference--64783155</link><description><![CDATA[What's the real difference between Introversion &amp; Extroversion? Is there really a "battery recharge" phenomenon? What's the goal in your social skills development? Join Coach Mike as he relates his personal experiences in social anxiety, how it can be overcome, and where you end up when you're successful. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/761044144</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783155/761044144_thebrojo_introverts_v_extroverts.mp3" length="58249184" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What's the real difference between Introversion &amp;amp; Extroversion? Is there really a "battery recharge" phenomenon? What's the goal in your social skills development? Join Coach Mike as he relates his personal experiences in social anxiety, how it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What's the real difference between Introversion &amp; Extroversion? Is there really a "battery recharge" phenomenon? What's the goal in your social skills development? Join Coach Mike as he relates his personal experiences in social anxiety, how it can be overcome, and where you end up when you're successful. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2428</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4512474c60ad06f664b444a959bb4bd6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#140] How To Measure Confidence Growth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/140-how-to-measure-confidence-growth--64783199</link><description><![CDATA[Self-development can be a tricky thing to measure, especially if you're trying to validate growth in confidence, self-esteem and social connection abilities. In this episode, I'll explain how to make confidence growth objectively measureable.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/679494920</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2020 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783199/679494920_thebrojo_webinar_how_to_know_youre_becoming_more_confident.mp3" length="105187088" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Self-development can be a tricky thing to measure, especially if you're trying to validate growth in confidence, self-esteem and social connection abilities. In this episode, I'll explain how to make confidence growth objectively measureable....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self-development can be a tricky thing to measure, especially if you're trying to validate growth in confidence, self-esteem and social connection abilities. In this episode, I'll explain how to make confidence growth objectively measureable.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6575</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/abe097f31260ded21bbe7bf22cd4d6bc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#139] Are You Stuck in an Invisible Mind-Prison?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/139-are-you-stuck-in-an-invisible-mind-prison--64783181</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you're feeling stuck, it's probably because you are trapped in a mind-prison. As we grow up, we start to follow rules, routines and patterns without really being aware that we're doing this. Before too long, we become stuck in a way of living that we didn't even choose. If you're wondering why you're stuck in this job, this relationship, this city, this over-eating pattern, this drinking habit etc etc then have a listen to this podcast. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/758507293</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Feb 2020 02:38:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783181/758507293_thebrojo_freedom_stuck.mp3" length="42483923" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you're feeling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you're feeling stuck, it's probably because you are trapped in a mind-prison. As we grow up, we start to follow rules, routines and patterns without really being aware that we're doing this. Before too long, we become stuck in a way of living that we didn't even choose. If you're wondering why you're stuck in this job, this relationship, this city, this over-eating pattern, this drinking habit etc etc then have a listen to this podcast. ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2656</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a7054d53ef0c051b260792f8b0eae496.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#138] What Is Coaching and Why You Should Consider Getting a Coach</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/138-what-is-coaching-and-why-you-should-consider-getting-a-coach--64783124</link><description><![CDATA[Lately, I've received a few queries about what a coach actually does, how coaching is different to therapy, and why should someone spend their hard-earned money hiring a coach. Let's discuss... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/751981291</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Feb 2020 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783124/751981291_thebrojo_what_is_coaching.mp3" length="49667387" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Lately, I've received a few queries about what a coach actually does, how coaching is different to therapy, and why should someone spend their hard-earned money hiring a coach. Let's discuss... ------------------------  For more personal support,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Lately, I've received a few queries about what a coach actually does, how coaching is different to therapy, and why should someone spend their hard-earned money hiring a coach. Let's discuss... ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3105</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/efc87c7378eab9a04b378f00d585c621.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#137] How to Turn Your Creative Artistic Passion into a Thriving Business, with Marisa Donnelly</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/137-how-to-turn-your-creative-artistic-passion-into-a-thriving-business-with-marisa-donnelly--64783183</link><description><![CDATA[Marisa Donnelly is an author, writer and coach who knows how to turn artistic passion and skill into a thriving and profitable business, without losing love for your creative expression. Marisa helps authors find their own unique voice and transform that into work they can be passionate about forever. Not only that, Marisa herself is an accomplished author, having written hundreds of articles, posts and books on a range of topics, and her writing is widely viral and popular all over the internet.  For more on Marisa, check out her main site here: https://marisadonnelly.com/  Marisa's special discount code for listeners is 'INSPIRELIGHT' - link for coaching is here:  https://bealightcollective.com/services/coaching/ https://bealightcollective.com/shop/coaching/  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/744368722</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2020 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783183/744368722_thebrojo_artist_creative_passion_business_marisa_donnelly.mp3" length="58824907" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Marisa Donnelly is an author, writer and coach who knows how to turn artistic passion and skill into a thriving and profitable business, without losing love for your creative expression. Marisa helps authors find their own unique voice and transform...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Marisa Donnelly is an author, writer and coach who knows how to turn artistic passion and skill into a thriving and profitable business, without losing love for your creative expression. Marisa helps authors find their own unique voice and transform that into work they can be passionate about forever. Not only that, Marisa herself is an accomplished author, having written hundreds of articles, posts and books on a range of topics, and her writing is widely viral and popular all over the internet.  For more on Marisa, check out her main site here: https://marisadonnelly.com/  Marisa's special discount code for listeners is 'INSPIRELIGHT' - link for coaching is here:  https://bealightcollective.com/services/coaching/ https://bealightcollective.com/shop/coaching/  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3677</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ffaeb222fde1c630d85c9f86cc39a6a9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#136] Creating an Elite Mind to Overcome Anxiety and Depression, with Justin Stenstrom</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/136-creating-an-elite-mind-to-overcome-anxiety-and-depression-with-justin-stenstrom--64783125</link><description><![CDATA[Justin Stenstrom, Founder of Elite Man Magazine, who we've had on the show before, takes us through his new book 'Elite Mind: A Real-World Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Conquering Depression, and Unleashing Your Inner Confidence.'  Get the book here (comes out Jan 28, 2020, pre-orders available) - https://www.amazon.com/ELITE-MIND-REAL-WORLD-OVERCOMING-CONQUERING-ebook/dp/B081XWCLZ3/  Check out Justin's other cool stuff here: http://justinstenstrom.com/  Connect with Justin on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/justinstenstrom/  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/740896930</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 06:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783125/740896930_thebrojo_elite_mind_book_justin_stenstrom.mp3" length="55367470" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Justin Stenstrom, Founder of Elite Man Magazine, who we've had on the show before, takes us through his new book 'Elite Mind: A Real-World Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Conquering Depression, and Unleashing Your Inner Confidence.'  Get the book here...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Justin Stenstrom, Founder of Elite Man Magazine, who we've had on the show before, takes us through his new book 'Elite Mind: A Real-World Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, Conquering Depression, and Unleashing Your Inner Confidence.'  Get the book here (comes out Jan 28, 2020, pre-orders available) - https://www.amazon.com/ELITE-MIND-REAL-WORLD-OVERCOMING-CONQUERING-ebook/dp/B081XWCLZ3/  Check out Justin's other cool stuff here: http://justinstenstrom.com/  Connect with Justin on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/justinstenstrom/  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3461</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7607621ca289f8ba621d46ab01a77e9a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#135] Ask Us Anything - dealing with depressed relatives and flaky girlfriends</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/135-ask-us-anything-dealing-with-depressed-relatives-and-flaky-girlfriends--64783188</link><description><![CDATA[Ask BROJO Anything 1. How to deal with a severely depressed family member? 2. Why is someone not liking me OK? 3. What to do about a new girlfriend who is sabotaging the relationship? ------------------------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/719198911</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2020 06:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783188/719198911_thebrojo_depression_flaky.mp3" length="84898514" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ask BROJO Anything 1. How to deal with a severely depressed family member? 2. Why is someone not liking me OK? 3. What to do about a new girlfriend who is sabotaging the relationship? ------------------------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ask BROJO Anything 1. How to deal with a severely depressed family member? 2. Why is someone not liking me OK? 3. What to do about a new girlfriend who is sabotaging the relationship? ------------------------  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5307</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8d3c86e097f270653d7b0f1fc2735d6d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#134] Building Discipline and Self-Control</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/134-building-discipline-and-self-control--64783204</link><description><![CDATA[You can have great ideas and insights about who you are supposed to be, but in the end it will come down to how consistent your behaviour becomes when trying to make positive changes. That consistency is all about self-control; aka discipline.  Most people think that motivation and discipline is something natural - you either have it or you don’t. Thankfully, this is not true. We can all learn to be more disciplined, to create habits that improve our lives… even when they are hard to do.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/686485672</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2020 05:59:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783204/686485672_thebrojo_discipline_self_control.mp3" length="107422334" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You can have great ideas and insights about who you are supposed to be, but in the end it will come down to how consistent your behaviour becomes when trying to make positive changes. That consistency is all about self-control; aka discipline.  Most...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can have great ideas and insights about who you are supposed to be, but in the end it will come down to how consistent your behaviour becomes when trying to make positive changes. That consistency is all about self-control; aka discipline.  Most people think that motivation and discipline is something natural - you either have it or you don’t. Thankfully, this is not true. We can all learn to be more disciplined, to create habits that improve our lives… even when they are hard to do.  ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org  If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6714</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4c2b967e4a963e656e5ae8f0e62811c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#133] How to Maximize Your Sexual Market Value</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/133-how-to-maximize-your-sexual-market-value--64783132</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ What is sexual market value? Is it a real thing? What makes a woman desirable to men? What makes a man desirable to women? How do men and women evaluate romantic partners differently? Learn how sexual market value works, how and why your dopamine system functions the way it does, and the role of society and your life experiences play in partner selection.  Most importantly, learn how to be better at it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/733245319</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jan 2020 07:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783132/733245319_thebrojo_how_to_maximize_your_sexual_market_value.mp3" length="44875718" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ What is sexual market value? Is it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ What is sexual market value? Is it a real thing? What makes a woman desirable to men? What makes a man desirable to women? How do men and women evaluate romantic partners differently? Learn how sexual market value works, how and why your dopamine system functions the way it does, and the role of society and your life experiences play in partner selection.  Most importantly, learn how to be better at it.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1869</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ffc8fcea978f3ded11f7a1c50a41eaae.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#132] Figuring Out Your Core Values</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/132-figuring-out-your-core-values--64783207</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There is a new movement: integrity. As a species, we're finally starting to realise that pursuit of material things and social approval is shallow and meaningless. We seek greater purpose in life. Thankfully, there is a blueprint to this, and it's unique to YOU - living by your core values.  To take the BROJO Discovering Your Core Values course, go here: https://brojo.online/courses/discover-your-core-values  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/730340932</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2019 06:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783207/730340932_thebrojo_core_values.mp3" length="36373777" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There is a new movement:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There is a new movement: integrity. As a species, we're finally starting to realise that pursuit of material things and social approval is shallow and meaningless. We seek greater purpose in life. Thankfully, there is a blueprint to this, and it's unique to YOU - living by your core values.  To take the BROJO Discovering Your Core Values course, go here: https://brojo.online/courses/discover-your-core-values  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2274</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/51868b31e978a5bc39ad5b618f24e366.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#131] Combating Racism, Harmful Social Mindsets, and Echo Chambers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/131-combating-racism-harmful-social-mindsets-and-echo-chambers--64783077</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ All of us know people who have perspectives &amp; mindsets that fundamentally conflict with ours. They might be about politics, religion, healthy and responsible eating, or lifestyle choices. They can even be about viewpoints that affect others- such as racist, sexist, or other socially detrimental perspectives.    At some point, we're likely to get frustrated with these people and (in our view) their sheer idiocy. And we'll think, I just need to cut this person out of my world. In social media, unfriending them just a click away... BUT what's the impact of this decision? What happens when you exclude them from your world? What happens when you exclude yourself from theirs?  Before you cull and purify your friends list so that your world only contains people who think like you, have a look at what effect that will have on you, on the people you exclude, and society's future as a whole.    Chances are, the kids who take assault rifles to school didn't do that while they were surrounded by good healthy friends.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/724343602</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2019 06:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783077/724343602_thebrojo_racism_echo_chambers.mp3" length="16144286" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ All of us know people who have...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ All of us know people who have perspectives &amp; mindsets that fundamentally conflict with ours. They might be about politics, religion, healthy and responsible eating, or lifestyle choices. They can even be about viewpoints that affect others- such as racist, sexist, or other socially detrimental perspectives.    At some point, we're likely to get frustrated with these people and (in our view) their sheer idiocy. And we'll think, I just need to cut this person out of my world. In social media, unfriending them just a click away... BUT what's the impact of this decision? What happens when you exclude them from your world? What happens when you exclude yourself from theirs?  Before you cull and purify your friends list so that your world only contains people who think like you, have a look at what effect that will have on you, on the people you exclude, and society's future as a whole.    Chances are, the kids who take assault rifles to school didn't do that while they were surrounded by good healthy friends.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1009</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1c147267751f4769ff01938e8a98fb37.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#130] Managing Your Retroactive Jealousy, Sexual Envy and Possessiveness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/130-managing-your-retroactive-jealousy-sexual-envy-and-possessiveness--64783159</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Jealousy rears its ugly head in all relationships eventually. Particularly what's know as 'retroactive jealousy' - where you get upset and feel threatened by your partner's sexual history. In this podcast, we discuss what jealousy is, why you get so jealous and obsessive, and how to manage it in a healthy way.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/722553616</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2019 06:00:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783159/722553616_thebrojo_jealousy.mp3" length="49694973" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Jealousy rears its ugly head in all relationships eventually. Particularly what's know as 'retroactive jealousy' - where you get upset and feel threatened by your partner's sexual history. In this podcast, we discuss what jealousy is, why you get so jealous and obsessive, and how to manage it in a healthy way.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3106</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c13910ee650e29cf1b4ec2aee078e9dc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#129] Effective Leadership Styles - How to Influence with Integrity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/129-effective-leadership-styles-how-to-influence-with-integrity--64783129</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Some of us are destined to lead. In a world beset by political corruption, environmental disasters, and corporate greed, a new type of leader is desperately needed.  Leading can be done in one of two ways: manipulation or authenticity. As we already have plenty of manipulative leaders ruling with deception, fear, and the Machiavellian leverage of finances, it’s time to start balancing this out with leaders of integrity who inspire loyalty and confidence naturally and authentically.   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/693150169</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Dec 2019 07:00:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783129/693150169_thebrojo_leadership_styles.mp3" length="83163983" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Some of us are destined to lead. In a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Some of us are destined to lead. In a world beset by political corruption, environmental disasters, and corporate greed, a new type of leader is desperately needed.  Leading can be done in one of two ways: manipulation or authenticity. As we already have plenty of manipulative leaders ruling with deception, fear, and the Machiavellian leverage of finances, it’s time to start balancing this out with leaders of integrity who inspire loyalty and confidence naturally and authentically.   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5198</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/66df69265f39afd15b55db19bd25c4d9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#128] Managing The Challenges Of Being A Modern Man</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/128-managing-the-challenges-of-being-a-modern-man--64783192</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In this session we explore the 2 biggest challenges to being a man:   1) Confusion and shame around masculinity 2) Difficulty connecting and creating healthy friendships or relationships  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/498806118</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2019 06:45:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783192/498806118_thebrojo_managing_the_challenges_of_being_a_modern_man.mp3" length="97165616" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In this session we explore the 2...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In this session we explore the 2 biggest challenges to being a man:   1) Confusion and shame around masculinity 2) Difficulty connecting and creating healthy friendships or relationships  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6073</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/39ee47472570e0f402658c326f802596.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#127] Dealing with Your Inner Critic (Nice Guy Recovery)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/127-dealing-with-your-inner-critic-nice-guy-recovery--64783193</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  That "not good enough" story in your head is common - we all experience it, yet we almost never talk about it. In this webinar, we challenge that inner critic, discuss how to live with it, and how to actually use it to make yourself more confident. If you're a Nice Guy people pleaser who's sick of that discouraging voice in your head ruining your achievements and making you hesitate or procrastinate, you need to listen to this.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/514073286</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2019 08:48:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783193/514073286_thebrojo_inner_critic_nice_guy_recovery_webinar.mp3" length="120919908" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  That "not good enough" story in your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  That "not good enough" story in your head is common - we all experience it, yet we almost never talk about it. In this webinar, we challenge that inner critic, discuss how to live with it, and how to actually use it to make yourself more confident. If you're a Nice Guy people pleaser who's sick of that discouraging voice in your head ruining your achievements and making you hesitate or procrastinate, you need to listen to this.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>7558</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1c6357414e43a37e18a7c55281b5e8a6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#126] Courage: The Blueprint For Bravery</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/126-courage-the-blueprint-for-bravery--64783196</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Courage seems like a mystery, like it's something you either have or you don't. But what if you can build it like any other skillset?  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/638952717</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2019 08:42:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783196/638952717_thebrojo_webinar_the_blueprint_for_bravery.mp3" length="102371297" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Courage seems like a mystery, like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Courage seems like a mystery, like it's something you either have or you don't. But what if you can build it like any other skillset?  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6399</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/02a21139c5ff0b8c2063de51232e3cf3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#125] Acceptance - How to Be OK With Life and Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/125-acceptance-how-to-be-ok-with-life-and-yourself--64783205</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  As we get older, we become ever more frustrated by how hard and unfair the world is. We also find it increasingly difficult to love ourselves, and we're plagued by the not good enough story everywhere we go.  In this episode, we discuss how to accept what you cannot accept.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/705899911</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2019 07:40:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783205/705899911_thebrojo_acceptance.mp3" length="71289670" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  As we get older, we become ever more...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  As we get older, we become ever more frustrated by how hard and unfair the world is. We also find it increasingly difficult to love ourselves, and we're plagued by the not good enough story everywhere we go.  In this episode, we discuss how to accept what you cannot accept.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4456</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e63c2b1213acdcd76c77a8953a10e746.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#124] Webinar - Decisiveness - How To Make Strong, Quick Decisions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/124-webinar-decisiveness-how-to-make-strong-quick-decisions--64783203</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/652382717</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2019 07:36:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783203/652382717_thebrojo_webinar_decisiveness_audio.mp3" length="109836466" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  For more personal support, contact...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6865</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9b98be0a2d4a49186d1e9a5c249fec61.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#123] Webinar - "Endgame" - Confidence Role Models</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/123-webinar-endgame-confidence-role-models--64783170</link><description><![CDATA[What does confidence look like? How can we tell if someone else is truly confident and worth modelling after? How do we know when we ourselves are becoming confident? In this session we look at the traits of truly confident vs those who are just pretending and other false flags.  We'll investigate real public figures like Russell Brand, Donald Trump, Jim Carrey, Kim Kardashian and more to see who's got it... and who's just faking.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/659001914</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2019 07:00:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783170/659001914_thebrojo_webinar_endgame_confidence_role_models.mp3" length="104877381" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does confidence look like? How can we tell if someone else is truly confident and worth modelling after? How do we know when we ourselves are becoming confident? In this session we look at the traits of truly confident vs those who are just...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does confidence look like? How can we tell if someone else is truly confident and worth modelling after? How do we know when we ourselves are becoming confident? In this session we look at the traits of truly confident vs those who are just pretending and other false flags.  We'll investigate real public figures like Russell Brand, Donald Trump, Jim Carrey, Kim Kardashian and more to see who's got it... and who's just faking.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6555</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/481c58164f9d1f1af9093158aa5af366.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#122] The Poisonous Path of Least Resistance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/122-the-poisonous-path-of-least-resistance--64783202</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses, by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ The easy way out has become a way of life for many of us. We simply "fall" into jobs, relationships, social circles, and entirely unsatisfying lifestyles. Our drive to be comfortable overrides our values and leaves us with a mediocre life. Today, we discuss how to avoid the siren song of the path of least resistance, and take control of your life.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/694159417</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Oct 2019 12:00:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783202/694159417_thebrojo_path_of_least_resistance.mp3" length="43393402" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses, by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ The easy way out has become a way of life...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses, by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ The easy way out has become a way of life for many of us. We simply "fall" into jobs, relationships, social circles, and entirely unsatisfying lifestyles. Our drive to be comfortable overrides our values and leaves us with a mediocre life. Today, we discuss how to avoid the siren song of the path of least resistance, and take control of your life.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2713</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/51f5c8adab3e73edcb16a76ca9676a18.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#121] What YOU Can Do About Climate Change</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/121-what-you-can-do-about-climate-change--64783079</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In a change of pace for this channel, I've decided to share practical tips on how you can help prevent or delay human extinction, so that future generations can survive and enjoy clean air, abundant resources, and varied wildlife.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/692779027</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2019 12:54:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783079/692779027_thebrojo_121_what_you_can_do_about_climate_change.mp3" length="48030614" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In a change of pace for this channel, I've...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  In a change of pace for this channel, I've decided to share practical tips on how you can help prevent or delay human extinction, so that future generations can survive and enjoy clean air, abundant resources, and varied wildlife.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3002</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/695fc96e76f7b81bc208607bd5a47d92.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#120] Confidence Coaching Session: Facing Nice Guy Truths, with Chris B</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/120-confidence-coaching-session-facing-nice-guy-truths-with-chris-b--64783128</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ In this live coaching session, Chris and I face the dark truth about the decades he's spent being a people-pleasing, approval-seeking Nice Guy.   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/689024374</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2019 06:58:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783128/689024374_thebrojo_120_confidence_coaching_session_facing_nice_guy_truths_with_chris_b.mp3" length="59021766" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ In this live coaching session, Chris...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ In this live coaching session, Chris and I face the dark truth about the decades he's spent being a people-pleasing, approval-seeking Nice Guy.   For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3689</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d1eed04c6bef129e6f267c2a14e15322.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#119] 4 Ways to Improve Mental Focus &amp; Clarity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/119-4-ways-to-improve-mental-focus-clarity--64783201</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ On a scale of 1 to 10, on an average day, how focused do you feel?  Are you rocking life at a consistent 10?  Or are you sort of feeling weak-tea at a 7 or 8?  Or are you really struggling in the fog at 4 to 5?  We don't talk about this often, but here are some important questions to ask, and important things to try.  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/685278154</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Oct 2019 06:07:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783201/685278154_thebrojo_4_ways_to_improve_mental_clarity.mp3" length="24777082" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ On a scale of 1 to 10, on an average...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ On a scale of 1 to 10, on an average day, how focused do you feel?  Are you rocking life at a consistent 10?  Or are you sort of feeling weak-tea at a 7 or 8?  Or are you really struggling in the fog at 4 to 5?  We don't talk about this often, but here are some important questions to ask, and important things to try.  For more personal support, contact Mike directly with your questions mike@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1549</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24cc662e5e5470d26bb15e3b8cfb855e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#118] Reinvention: How to Completely Change Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/118-reinvention-how-to-completely-change-your-life--64783134</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There's something I call "identity death" - it's when you realise who you are doesn't work for you, and you need a complete psychological make-over. It's intimidating and overwhelming to think of completely changing yourself, but it's also one of the best things you can do. What got you HERE won't get you THERE. In this episode, we discuss the process of reinventing yourself from scratch.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/683941225</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Sep 2019 08:59:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783134/683941225_thebrojo_reinvention.mp3" length="51794799" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There's something I call "identity...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  There's something I call "identity death" - it's when you realise who you are doesn't work for you, and you need a complete psychological make-over. It's intimidating and overwhelming to think of completely changing yourself, but it's also one of the best things you can do. What got you HERE won't get you THERE. In this episode, we discuss the process of reinventing yourself from scratch.  For more personal support, contact Dan directly with your questions dan@brojo.org]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3238</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4375fc2eaff6f72b872d52ea79ecd985.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#117] How to Build Healthy Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/117-how-to-build-healthy-relationships--64783082</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Is your marriage or relationship in trouble? Or do you have problems creating a healthy relationship in the first place? After hours of painstaking research, years of difficult trial and error, and years of coaching others in relationships, I've discovered some critical key points that determine the success of a relationship. In this episode, we explore what makes a good relationship.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/680520344</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2019 11:54:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783082/680520344_thebrojo_117_how_to_build_healthy_relationships.mp3" length="59305899" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Is your marriage or relationship in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------ Is your marriage or relationship in trouble? Or do you have problems creating a healthy relationship in the first place? After hours of painstaking research, years of difficult trial and error, and years of coaching others in relationships, I've discovered some critical key points that determine the success of a relationship. In this episode, we explore what makes a good relationship.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3707</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f1bc7d6d65e6978f66c9d3fe80648ce7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#116] Mastering Your Time Management, with Mike Wells</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/116-mastering-your-time-management-with-mike-wells--64783146</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Today BROJO Coach and co-founder Mike Wells shares the secrets on how he can run a business, learn 3 dance styles, work on his fitness, and run BROJO communities all at the same time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/676228511</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:47:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783146/676228511_thebrojo_mastering_your_time_management.mp3" length="26473533" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Today BROJO Coach and co-founder Mike...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and powerful confidence-building email courses by joining today. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Today BROJO Coach and co-founder Mike Wells shares the secrets on how he can run a business, learn 3 dance styles, work on his fitness, and run BROJO communities all at the same time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1655</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/da990a6cd892ef57e54520b4eee1cf77.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#115] The Secret About The "Comfort Zone"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/115-the-secret-about-the-comfort-zone--64783210</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  The term "comfort zone" is thrown about often in the self-development world, yet what does it really mean? Most people seem to be stuck in a rut yet find it to be an uncomfortable place to be. So why do we call it this?  Today I share 3 chapters from my upcoming book The Naked Truth on the secret behind the comfort zone - our fear of the unfamiliar.  For more support from me, contact me dan@brojo.co.nz]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/671629244</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2019 09:21:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783210/671629244_thebrojo_secret_comfort_zone.mp3" length="40410845" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  The term "comfort zone" is thrown about often in the self-development world, yet what does it really mean? Most people seem to be stuck in a rut yet find it to be an uncomfortable place to be. So why do we call it this?  Today I share 3 chapters from my upcoming book The Naked Truth on the secret behind the comfort zone - our fear of the unfamiliar.  For more support from me, contact me dan@brojo.co.nz]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2526</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bbc7598d7ce3f2bfb92b83e92ee30e3a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#114] How to Deal With Stress</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/114-how-to-deal-with-stress--64783216</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Stress is a killer. Not only is it linked to various diseases and increased chances of injury, fatigue and failure, it's also notoriously difficult to cope with.  In this episode I share my journey with stress - the most challenging emotion I've ever dealt with - and what I learned from decades of battling with chronic and inexplicably high stress levels.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/668933042</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2019 09:16:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783216/668933042_thebrojo_how_to_deal_with_stress.mp3" length="39626291" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. It’s free! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join   ------------------------  Stress is a killer. Not only is it linked to various diseases and increased chances of injury, fatigue and failure, it's also notoriously difficult to cope with.  In this episode I share my journey with stress - the most challenging emotion I've ever dealt with - and what I learned from decades of battling with chronic and inexplicably high stress levels.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2477</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a578b9039f522e07d8cd6d278f744dcb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#113] The Masculinity Blueprint, with Joe Ducard</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/113-the-masculinity-blueprint-with-joe-ducard--64783149</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  --------------- Joe Ducard is a popular dating coach, but he's much more than that. He's also a guy who used to be massively overweight and socially anxious. Like me, he's had to figure out what it means to be a man the long hard way.  In this session, we discuss how to build masculinity in the modern world.  Check out more about Joe here: YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7hEoHkzC01lfY3bQRbMCuQ Follow him on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/joeducard]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/668504738</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2019 14:08:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783149/668504738_thebrojo_masculinity_blueprint_joe_ducard.mp3" length="69913782" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  --------------- Joe Ducard is a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  --------------- Joe Ducard is a popular dating coach, but he's much more than that. He's also a guy who used to be massively overweight and socially anxious. Like me, he's had to figure out what it means to be a man the long hard way.  In this session, we discuss how to build masculinity in the modern world.  Check out more about Joe here: YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7hEoHkzC01lfY3bQRbMCuQ Follow him on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/joeducard]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4370</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cf39809c0ea989f38fc7b468a78d3384.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#112] Frame Control - Managing Your Reality</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/112-frame-control-managing-your-reality--64783223</link><description><![CDATA[How you DECIDE to see the world will completely determine your quality of life. Objective reality is neutral - it's only once we "frame" it that it takes on meaning, value and pain. If you can learn how to control your frame, you can choose to make reality suit you, as well as protect yourself from the manipulation of others.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/665093756</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Aug 2019 08:28:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783223/665093756_thebrojo_frame_control_reality.mp3" length="35417905" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How you DECIDE to see the world will completely determine your quality of life. Objective reality is neutral - it's only once we "frame" it that it takes on meaning, value and pain. If you can learn how to control your frame, you can choose to make...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How you DECIDE to see the world will completely determine your quality of life. Objective reality is neutral - it's only once we "frame" it that it takes on meaning, value and pain. If you can learn how to control your frame, you can choose to make reality suit you, as well as protect yourself from the manipulation of others.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2214</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1551802ff0e07e077484fe54edd3f9f5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#111] Minimalism - How Having LESS Creates MORE Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/111-minimalism-how-having-less-creates-more-confidence--64783219</link><description><![CDATA[We have been raised to believe you need to acquire as much stuff as possible. You need more money, more clothes, more cars, more properties, more friends etc etc etc. And yet we're possible the most depressed generation of humans ever to existed. Is getting heaps of stuff really the answer, or is it just a conspiracy of consumerism to fund big corporations? Enter: the minimalists. A new wave of philosophy that says LESS is more. That experiences and people are more important than possessions. And that a mind can become uncluttered and confident once you have less stuff to worry about.  Check out more about minimalism here: https://www.theminimalists.com/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/661272617</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 07:09:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783219/661272617_thebrojo_minimalism_confidence.mp3" length="44281520" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We have been raised to believe you need to acquire as much stuff as possible. You need more money, more clothes, more cars, more properties, more friends etc etc etc. And yet we're possible the most depressed generation of humans ever to existed. Is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have been raised to believe you need to acquire as much stuff as possible. You need more money, more clothes, more cars, more properties, more friends etc etc etc. And yet we're possible the most depressed generation of humans ever to existed. Is getting heaps of stuff really the answer, or is it just a conspiracy of consumerism to fund big corporations? Enter: the minimalists. A new wave of philosophy that says LESS is more. That experiences and people are more important than possessions. And that a mind can become uncluttered and confident once you have less stuff to worry about.  Check out more about minimalism here: https://www.theminimalists.com/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2768</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/29ce11ccb8f6b0532e76f14e8aca8532.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#110] 7 Practical Daily Tips To Overcome Social Anxiety</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/110-7-practical-daily-tips-to-overcome-social-anxiety--64783177</link><description><![CDATA[Social anxiety might feel like a life sentence, but millions of people have learned to overcome it and enjoy fulfilling social lives. You just need to know the daily exercises required to rewrite your inaccurate and outdated social beliefs. In this session we explore what social anxiety is, how everyone has it, and what you can do to relieve yourself of it, even if you've been severely bullied or rejected in the past.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/658468097</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2019 09:47:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783177/658468097_thebrojo_practical_tips_overcome_social_anxiety.mp3" length="31350699" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Social anxiety might feel like a life sentence, but millions of people have learned to overcome it and enjoy fulfilling social lives. You just need to know the daily exercises required to rewrite your inaccurate and outdated social beliefs. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Social anxiety might feel like a life sentence, but millions of people have learned to overcome it and enjoy fulfilling social lives. You just need to know the daily exercises required to rewrite your inaccurate and outdated social beliefs. In this session we explore what social anxiety is, how everyone has it, and what you can do to relieve yourself of it, even if you've been severely bullied or rejected in the past.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1960</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/da990a6cd892ef57e54520b4eee1cf77.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#109] Mental Toughness - How to Build Psychological Resilience</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/109-mental-toughness-how-to-build-psychological-resilience--64783127</link><description><![CDATA[Confidence is synonymous with being mentally tough and resilient. Being able to withstand things going wrong, people not liking you, failure and pain are the pillars of strong inner self-worth. But are we born with this or can it be learned and built? In this episode, we discuss the key actions you can take every day to become more mentally tough and resilient without needing any special talents, skills or resources.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/652078481</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jul 2019 12:14:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783127/652078481_thebrojo_mental_toughness_resilience.mp3" length="33771564" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Confidence is synonymous with being mentally tough and resilient. Being able to withstand things going wrong, people not liking you, failure and pain are the pillars of strong inner self-worth. But are we born with this or can it be learned and built?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Confidence is synonymous with being mentally tough and resilient. Being able to withstand things going wrong, people not liking you, failure and pain are the pillars of strong inner self-worth. But are we born with this or can it be learned and built? In this episode, we discuss the key actions you can take every day to become more mentally tough and resilient without needing any special talents, skills or resources.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2111</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dec8dd1ad9e8c5009f0590dbf636781.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#108] Confidence Coaching Session: Overcoming Fear of Showing Attraction, with Anthony Zhou</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/108-confidence-coaching-session-overcoming-fear-of-showing-attraction-with-anthony-zhou--64783137</link><description><![CDATA[Witness another real coaching session with Dan Munro and his long-time friend and client Anthony. Anthony is looking to boost his social courage by learning how to boldly and shamelessly show his attraction towards women he's interested in.  In this session, we discuss how to show attraction towards all people, without neediness, dishonest seduction techniques, attachment to outcomes, or coming across as a creep.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/650594420</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jul 2019 06:37:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783137/650594420_thebrojo_confidence_coaching_session_expressing_attraction.mp3" length="53432683" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Witness another real coaching session with Dan Munro and his long-time friend and client Anthony. Anthony is looking to boost his social courage by learning how to boldly and shamelessly show his attraction towards women he's interested in.  In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Witness another real coaching session with Dan Munro and his long-time friend and client Anthony. Anthony is looking to boost his social courage by learning how to boldly and shamelessly show his attraction towards women he's interested in.  In this session, we discuss how to show attraction towards all people, without neediness, dishonest seduction techniques, attachment to outcomes, or coming across as a creep.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3340</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1d141e0c24f9733eb55d6a0d63cfdaaf.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#107] There's No Such Thing as Free Will</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/107-there-s-no-such-thing-as-free-will--64783206</link><description><![CDATA[Are you free to consciously make decisions? Do you have free will? Because if you do, then you and everyone else can be blamed for decisions and take pride in achievements.  But if you don't have free will, everything changes. Concepts like disappointment, revenge, blame and self-loathing cannot make sense if there are no conscious elements to decision making. So we'd better make sure either way.  In this podcast, we test the idea of free will and see if it's possible, or if it even makes sense - logically, scientifically and philosophically.  For more on the scientific and current philosophical views of free will, check this out: https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2019/03/philosophers-and-neuroscientists-join-forces-see-whether-science-can-solve-mystery-free]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/645155019</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jul 2019 12:26:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783206/645155019_thebrojo_free_will.mp3" length="46535156" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you free to consciously make decisions? Do you have free will? Because if you do, then you and everyone else can be blamed for decisions and take pride in achievements.  But if you don't have free will, everything changes. Concepts like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you free to consciously make decisions? Do you have free will? Because if you do, then you and everyone else can be blamed for decisions and take pride in achievements.  But if you don't have free will, everything changes. Concepts like disappointment, revenge, blame and self-loathing cannot make sense if there are no conscious elements to decision making. So we'd better make sure either way.  In this podcast, we test the idea of free will and see if it's possible, or if it even makes sense - logically, scientifically and philosophically.  For more on the scientific and current philosophical views of free will, check this out: https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2019/03/philosophers-and-neuroscientists-join-forces-see-whether-science-can-solve-mystery-free]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2909</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2f4ae8df6a00100a4b27f33e0bb69022.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#106] A Stoic Approach to Managing Anger, with Donald Robertson</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/106-a-stoic-approach-to-managing-anger-with-donald-robertson--64783089</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Donald Robertson is a renowned modern Stoic, author of numerous Stoicism books including his latest 'How to Think Like a Roman Emperor: The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius', and creator of one of the largest Facebook groups on Stoicism.  Today I spoke with him about how to practicall apply Stoicism in real-life, particularly when it comes to anger management and other painful emotions.  For more, grab a copy of his book here: https://www.amazon.com/How-Think-Like-Roman-Emperor/dp/1250196620/  And the main Stoicism blog: www.modernstoicism.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/643334262</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jul 2019 06:41:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783089/643334262_thebrojo_stoic_anger_management_donald_robertson.mp3" length="117327787" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Donald...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Donald Robertson is a renowned modern Stoic, author of numerous Stoicism books including his latest 'How to Think Like a Roman Emperor: The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius', and creator of one of the largest Facebook groups on Stoicism.  Today I spoke with him about how to practicall apply Stoicism in real-life, particularly when it comes to anger management and other painful emotions.  For more, grab a copy of his book here: https://www.amazon.com/How-Think-Like-Roman-Emperor/dp/1250196620/  And the main Stoicism blog: www.modernstoicism.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>7333</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6d78b3093ec5d2db4047d8482ac07b85.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#105] Finding Meaning without Science, Religion or Materialism</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/105-finding-meaning-without-science-religion-or-materialism--64783086</link><description><![CDATA[We think fame will make us feel loved. We think wealth will make us happy. We think religion will take us to God. Or we think science will provide the answers. But we've been clearly shown that NONE of these pathways is guaranteed to take us towards a meaningful and purposeful life. Luckily, there's another option...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/641304468</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Jun 2019 06:56:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783086/641304468_thebrojo_finding_meaning_without_science_religion_or_materialism.mp3" length="42574157" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We think fame will make us feel loved. We think wealth will make us happy. We think religion will take us to God. Or we think science will provide the answers. But we've been clearly shown that NONE of these pathways is guaranteed to take us towards a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We think fame will make us feel loved. We think wealth will make us happy. We think religion will take us to God. Or we think science will provide the answers. But we've been clearly shown that NONE of these pathways is guaranteed to take us towards a meaningful and purposeful life. Luckily, there's another option...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2661</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f695a7755333d53eebe8107eea520dfb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#104] Self-Esteem Comes From Being Yourself, with Dan Morgan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/104-self-esteem-comes-from-being-yourself-with-dan-morgan--64783158</link><description><![CDATA[Fulfilment coach Dan Morgan shares his true story about how he overcame chronic depression and low self-esteem by learning how to be himself.  Check out https://danielreesmorgan.com  Get Dan's book - The Fundamentals of Fulfilment https://danielreesmorgan.com/free-ebook/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/638942655</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2019 09:58:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783158/638942655_thebrojo_self_esteem_being_yourself_daniel_rees_morgan.mp3" length="51869194" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Fulfilment coach Dan Morgan shares his true story about how he overcame chronic depression and low self-esteem by learning how to be himself.  Check out https://danielreesmorgan.com  Get Dan's book - The Fundamentals of Fulfilment...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fulfilment coach Dan Morgan shares his true story about how he overcame chronic depression and low self-esteem by learning how to be himself.  Check out https://danielreesmorgan.com  Get Dan's book - The Fundamentals of Fulfilment https://danielreesmorgan.com/free-ebook/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3242</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6db18f3e9006525114668346fe30e8a9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#103] Confidence Coaching Session: Do I Need A Relationship?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/103-confidence-coaching-session-do-i-need-a-relationship--64783165</link><description><![CDATA[Watch a live coaching session with Dan Munro and his friend Matt, as they discuss Matt's attempts to find a partner, and the neediness and attachment to outcomes that's getting in the way.  If you enjoyed this and want to explore coaching for yourself, reach out to Dan dan@brojo.co.nz]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/635115921</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2019 12:08:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783165/635115921_thebrojo_confidence_coaching_do_i_need_a_relationship.mp3" length="62843966" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Watch a live coaching session with Dan Munro and his friend Matt, as they discuss Matt's attempts to find a partner, and the neediness and attachment to outcomes that's getting in the way.  If you enjoyed this and want to explore coaching for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Watch a live coaching session with Dan Munro and his friend Matt, as they discuss Matt's attempts to find a partner, and the neediness and attachment to outcomes that's getting in the way.  If you enjoyed this and want to explore coaching for yourself, reach out to Dan dan@brojo.co.nz]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3928</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a69e40c042eb199977849eb861ce8a05.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#102] 10 Lessons I Learned From Hardcore Criminals</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/102-10-lessons-i-learned-from-hardcore-criminals--64783169</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ An in depth biography of Dan Munro's time as a probation officer, and how he learned the true nature of human psychology from some of the most dangerous predators in New Zealand.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/624932487</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2019 19:56:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783169/624932487_thebrojo_102_10_lessons_i_learned_from_hardcore_criminals.mp3" length="55815522" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ An in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ An in depth biography of Dan Munro's time as a probation officer, and how he learned the true nature of human psychology from some of the most dangerous predators in New Zealand.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3489</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/09cb8ba6e8e4ee3ba9d3067deea4838a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#101] Confidence Coaching Session: Overcoming Social Pressure, with Ron</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/101-confidence-coaching-session-overcoming-social-pressure-with-ron--64783211</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Listen to coach Dan Munro have a session on social confidence with a guy named Ron. We explore how he struggles with social anxiety because he puts too much pressure on himself, and how he can break out of this pressure so that developing social skills is more enjoyable.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/620475414</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 13:37:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783211/620475414_thebrojo_confidence_coaching_overcoming_social_pressure.mp3" length="61929890" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Listen to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Listen to coach Dan Munro have a session on social confidence with a guy named Ron. We explore how he struggles with social anxiety because he puts too much pressure on himself, and how he can break out of this pressure so that developing social skills is more enjoyable.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3871</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb20310ab0d047ce6423ec7a4fc807cf.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>100th Episode! Jon Brooks From HighExistence Talks Success And Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/100th-episode-jon-brooks-from-highexistence-talks-success-and-confidence--64783148</link><description><![CDATA[In the 100th episode of the BROJO Online podcast, I interview HighExistence.com's creative director Jon Brooks on fatherhood, self-development, Pick Up, social anxiety, insecurities and the true recipe of success.  KEY MOMENTS  Start: Fatherhood and lessons in productivity 11:00 - What is HighExistence? 19:50 - Jon's clever approach to career development and purpose 23:00 - How Jon made the most of debilitating surgery and setbacks 26:30 - Jon's secret to becoming a massive online influencer 32:30 - The recipe for a great life 39:50 - Developing social skills from patience and endurance 46:10 - Our history with the Pick Up Artist movement 51:20 - Travelling by yourself in Thailand 55:40 - The philosophy of success 1:01:00 - How to Kill your gurus  Check out more on Jon and HEx here: https://www.highexistence.com  Jon and Dan's interview for HEx podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3jeBrxcNQ4]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/617923098</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2019 09:32:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783148/617923098_thebrojo_100th_episode_jon_brooks_from_highexistence_talks_success_and_confidence.mp3" length="68167095" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the 100th episode of the BROJO Online podcast, I interview HighExistence.com's creative director Jon Brooks on fatherhood, self-development, Pick Up, social anxiety, insecurities and the true recipe of success.  KEY MOMENTS  Start: Fatherhood and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the 100th episode of the BROJO Online podcast, I interview HighExistence.com's creative director Jon Brooks on fatherhood, self-development, Pick Up, social anxiety, insecurities and the true recipe of success.  KEY MOMENTS  Start: Fatherhood and lessons in productivity 11:00 - What is HighExistence? 19:50 - Jon's clever approach to career development and purpose 23:00 - How Jon made the most of debilitating surgery and setbacks 26:30 - Jon's secret to becoming a massive online influencer 32:30 - The recipe for a great life 39:50 - Developing social skills from patience and endurance 46:10 - Our history with the Pick Up Artist movement 51:20 - Travelling by yourself in Thailand 55:40 - The philosophy of success 1:01:00 - How to Kill your gurus  Check out more on Jon and HEx here: https://www.highexistence.com  Jon and Dan's interview for HEx podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3jeBrxcNQ4]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4261</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f848c0750506a74eb5f2c0b89d757d10.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#99] Being Genuine in Sales and Dating, with Dave Schendiman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/99-being-genuine-in-sales-and-dating-with-dave-schendiman--64783214</link><description><![CDATA[Both Dave and I have had our business and dating lives transformed by the discovering of just being more honest.  I randomly reached out to Dave on recommendation from one of my coaching clients, and we recorded our first ever conversation. We got straight into the deep stuff FAST. You'd usually have to pay good money to here business and dating tips like this, so enjoy as Dave freely shares his secrets.  Skip ahead to any topic you'd prefer:  First part is just chat getting to know each other  [11:45] Dave's money creation game - how to sell by serving people boldly.  [26:40] How being truly giving without neediness creates abundance.  [34:20] Finesse - making big transformation by focusing on small changes.  [38:30] Doing our own inner work - the similarities between running your own business, dating and dancing - the principles of self-development.  [48:00] Learning to accept your true nature - embracing authentic self.  [58:30] Becoming disillusioned with being fake (e.g. PUA) and exploring radical honesty as a way of life.  For more on Dave, check out his Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/davidschwendimancoaching/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/613550256</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2019 10:02:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783214/613550256_thebrojo_being_genuine_sales_dating_dave_schendiman.mp3" length="66858464" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Both Dave and I have had our business and dating lives transformed by the discovering of just being more honest.  I randomly reached out to Dave on recommendation from one of my coaching clients, and we recorded our first ever conversation. We got...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Both Dave and I have had our business and dating lives transformed by the discovering of just being more honest.  I randomly reached out to Dave on recommendation from one of my coaching clients, and we recorded our first ever conversation. We got straight into the deep stuff FAST. You'd usually have to pay good money to here business and dating tips like this, so enjoy as Dave freely shares his secrets.  Skip ahead to any topic you'd prefer:  First part is just chat getting to know each other  [11:45] Dave's money creation game - how to sell by serving people boldly.  [26:40] How being truly giving without neediness creates abundance.  [34:20] Finesse - making big transformation by focusing on small changes.  [38:30] Doing our own inner work - the similarities between running your own business, dating and dancing - the principles of self-development.  [48:00] Learning to accept your true nature - embracing authentic self.  [58:30] Becoming disillusioned with being fake (e.g. PUA) and exploring radical honesty as a way of life.  For more on Dave, check out his Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/davidschwendimancoaching/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4179</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24f4aefb3bee16bb32c6f36ff61fc48c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#98] People Pleaser: The uncomfortable truth about being a nice person</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/98-people-pleaser-the-uncomfortable-truth-about-being-a-nice-person--64783175</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You might think you're a good person because you sacrifice your own needs to prioritise the needs of others. You might think of yourself as a nice person because you always cheer people up when they're feeling down. You might think of yourself as a kind person because you never argue or fight or cause problems. But what if underneath this pleasant exterior lurks a manipulative and damaged person, who has been trained and conditioned to keep others happy without really knowing why. As a veteran people-pleaser who's now in recovery and coaching other recovering approval seekers, I can tell you there's a good chance your "nice guy" act is a lie to conceal fear of rejection, confrontation and abandonment. Let's talk about what it means to stop caring what others think, stop comparing yourself to others, and start being more genuinely authentic and confident in yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/610188912</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2019 12:51:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783175/610188912_thebrojo_people_pleaser_nice_guy_syndrome.mp3" length="38322676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You might...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You might think you're a good person because you sacrifice your own needs to prioritise the needs of others. You might think of yourself as a nice person because you always cheer people up when they're feeling down. You might think of yourself as a kind person because you never argue or fight or cause problems. But what if underneath this pleasant exterior lurks a manipulative and damaged person, who has been trained and conditioned to keep others happy without really knowing why. As a veteran people-pleaser who's now in recovery and coaching other recovering approval seekers, I can tell you there's a good chance your "nice guy" act is a lie to conceal fear of rejection, confrontation and abandonment. Let's talk about what it means to stop caring what others think, stop comparing yourself to others, and start being more genuinely authentic and confident in yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2396</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/66d8ed113289faaef44f9edb48a69555.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#97] Hatred: Exploring Your Dark Side</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/97-hatred-exploring-your-dark-side--64783224</link><description><![CDATA["I knew that in order to stop children from being molested, I needed to stop hating the people who did it. It was simply a practical step I needed to take." Can you imagine NOT hating pedophiles? What if I told you that your life and the lives of others would be IMPROVED by you letting go of this hatred? Who do you hate? Donald Trump, or Hilary Clinton? Religious zealots, or pompous atheist infidels? Animal abusers? Vegans? White people? Immigrants? Women? Your dad? In this episode we explore the dark world of hate. We'll look at who you strongly dislike and why you feel that way. Most importantly, we'll explore how your hatred affects YOUR confidence. There may be a better way...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/606820470</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2019 13:09:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783224/606820470_thebrojo_hatred_dark_side.mp3" length="67633318" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"I knew that in order to stop children from being molested, I needed to stop hating the people who did it. It was simply a practical step I needed to take." Can you imagine NOT hating pedophiles? What if I told you that your life and the lives of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["I knew that in order to stop children from being molested, I needed to stop hating the people who did it. It was simply a practical step I needed to take." Can you imagine NOT hating pedophiles? What if I told you that your life and the lives of others would be IMPROVED by you letting go of this hatred? Who do you hate? Donald Trump, or Hilary Clinton? Religious zealots, or pompous atheist infidels? Animal abusers? Vegans? White people? Immigrants? Women? Your dad? In this episode we explore the dark world of hate. We'll look at who you strongly dislike and why you feel that way. Most importantly, we'll explore how your hatred affects YOUR confidence. There may be a better way...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4228</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f2cdf33b6daded5e233f4deeeddb44ce.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#96] Why Religious People Are Unmoved by Atheist Arguments</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/96-why-religious-people-are-unmoved-by-atheist-arguments--64783176</link><description><![CDATA[Over the last few decades we've seen a huge increase in debates over religion, particularly since the rise of atheism, with proponents like Sam Harris and Christopher Hitchens leading the debate against faith-based beliefs. However, these debates may not be achieving their goal. While many people are leaving their faith and embracing atheism, many others are becoming even more fundamentalist in reaction to this opposition, while others are simply switching to another equally unscientific paradigm or left feeling lost and without purpose or understanding of life. In this episode, I explore the flaws commonly seen in debates against religion, and I pitch a new approach: one aimed at inclusivity, reasonableness and resolution.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/603278178</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2019 11:59:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783176/603278178_thebrojo_religious_vs_atheist_arguments.mp3" length="39429014" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Over the last few decades we've seen a huge increase in debates over religion, particularly since the rise of atheism, with proponents like Sam Harris and Christopher Hitchens leading the debate against faith-based beliefs. However, these debates may...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Over the last few decades we've seen a huge increase in debates over religion, particularly since the rise of atheism, with proponents like Sam Harris and Christopher Hitchens leading the debate against faith-based beliefs. However, these debates may not be achieving their goal. While many people are leaving their faith and embracing atheism, many others are becoming even more fundamentalist in reaction to this opposition, while others are simply switching to another equally unscientific paradigm or left feeling lost and without purpose or understanding of life. In this episode, I explore the flaws commonly seen in debates against religion, and I pitch a new approach: one aimed at inclusivity, reasonableness and resolution.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2465</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b5ad24a2fb5b0614ebd12ec01e157947.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#95] Honesty vs Truthfulness: How to Avoid Hurting Peoples Feelings</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/95-honesty-vs-truthfulness-how-to-avoid-hurting-peoples-feelings--64783152</link><description><![CDATA[Most of us would like to be more honest, but we hesitate due to fear that doing so would hurt others or get us into trouble. But the problem is we often confuse an increase in honesty with increasing truthfulness. The truth can't hurt people - reality is benign. But the way you present your reality can be harsh, judgmental and unhelpfully inaccurate. In this episode, we explore how to increase your honesty without doing damage.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/600475044</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2019 19:19:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783152/600475044_thebrojo_honesty_truthfulness_hurting_feelings.mp3" length="38665403" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most of us would like to be more honest, but we hesitate due to fear that doing so would hurt others or get us into trouble. But the problem is we often confuse an increase in honesty with increasing truthfulness. The truth can't hurt people - reality...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most of us would like to be more honest, but we hesitate due to fear that doing so would hurt others or get us into trouble. But the problem is we often confuse an increase in honesty with increasing truthfulness. The truth can't hurt people - reality is benign. But the way you present your reality can be harsh, judgmental and unhelpfully inaccurate. In this episode, we explore how to increase your honesty without doing damage.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2417</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/48ddeaed97b55c9dc4cd0385cd9e83f7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#94] The 5 Rules of Healthy Masculinity (How to Be A Man)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/94-the-5-rules-of-healthy-masculinity-how-to-be-a-man--64783217</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We live in an age where being a masculine man is considered shameful. It's time to fight back against this hateful and unhelpful messaging. The world needs it's men back, to fight evil, role-model leadership, and take responsibility for solving problems. In this episode I will lay out 5 clear rules you can follow to ensure you are a man of masculine integrity. Do you have the balls to be masculine? Let's find out!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/596098731</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2019 14:22:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783217/596098731_thebrojo_healthy_masculinity_how_to_be_a_man.mp3" length="34149399" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We live...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We live in an age where being a masculine man is considered shameful. It's time to fight back against this hateful and unhelpful messaging. The world needs it's men back, to fight evil, role-model leadership, and take responsibility for solving problems. In this episode I will lay out 5 clear rules you can follow to ensure you are a man of masculine integrity. Do you have the balls to be masculine? Let's find out!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2135</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24fb41769b0a0d9b0d5cbe43a06491c5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#93] Be Yourself to Find a Partner, with Katya Morozova</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/93-be-yourself-to-find-a-partner-with-katya-morozova--64783157</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Katya Morozova is a men's love and relationships coach based in USA. She focuses on helping successful men conquer that final frontier - creating a loving relationship with their ideal partner. In this episode, Katya shares her dark history with relationships and how she healed from trauma to allow herself to connect with men again. For anyone struggling with dating and relationships due to bad past experiences, this discussion is for you! You can connect personally with Katya here: https://www.facebook.com/lovecoachkatya/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/592010052</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Mar 2019 06:32:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783157/592010052_thebrojo_be_yourself_find_partner_katya_morozova.mp3" length="54864710" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Katya...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Katya Morozova is a men's love and relationships coach based in USA. She focuses on helping successful men conquer that final frontier - creating a loving relationship with their ideal partner. In this episode, Katya shares her dark history with relationships and how she healed from trauma to allow herself to connect with men again. For anyone struggling with dating and relationships due to bad past experiences, this discussion is for you! You can connect personally with Katya here: https://www.facebook.com/lovecoachkatya/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3430</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6ffab1479f7426eabbe8b16acbc3655a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#92] Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Predators</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/92-psychopaths-how-to-protect-yourself-from-predators--64783185</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Up to 3% of the population are psychopaths, or at least highly psychopathic. These people are self-centred, lacking in conscience, ruthless and charming. They can enter your life and wreak havoc if you're unprepared.. and you won't see them coming. Listen as I share my experiences managing killers, rapists and con artists as a Probation Officer, and what I learned about protecting yourself from the most manipulative and unfeeling people on the planet.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/585675105</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Mar 2019 05:45:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783185/585675105_thebrojo_psychopaths_how_to_protect_yourself_from_predators.mp3" length="67261379" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Up to 3%...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Up to 3% of the population are psychopaths, or at least highly psychopathic. These people are self-centred, lacking in conscience, ruthless and charming. They can enter your life and wreak havoc if you're unprepared.. and you won't see them coming. Listen as I share my experiences managing killers, rapists and con artists as a Probation Officer, and what I learned about protecting yourself from the most manipulative and unfeeling people on the planet.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4204</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2e93fe838fa22661cc59db23dbdc90a1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#91] Nothing to Say? Things to talk about when you go blank</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/91-nothing-to-say-things-to-talk-about-when-you-go-blank--64783160</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You know that awkward silence that comes up when you run out things to say and start panicking? Well, it's not quite as simple as having "nothing" to say, though it will feel like that at the time. Let's dive a little deeper into this socially anxious situation, and reveal the truth: you've ALWAYS got something to say.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/582552687</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2019 05:28:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783160/582552687_thebrojo_things_to_talk_about.mp3" length="35346434" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach  Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You know that awkward silence that comes up when you run out things to say and start panicking? Well, it's not quite as simple as having "nothing" to say, though it will feel like that at the time. Let's dive a little deeper into this socially anxious situation, and reveal the truth: you've ALWAYS got something to say.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2210</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f368ecc6bf0aeefb45640b2b4d5222c2.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#90]Trust And Betrayal - The Secret to Good Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/90-trust-and-betrayal-the-secret-to-good-relationships--64783184</link><description><![CDATA[We're told our entire lives that relationships are based on trust. But what is trust? What does it mean to break it? Why are we so hurt by betrayal? Maybe you've never asked these questions before. Let's take a deep dive into the weird concept of trust, and explore why hoping for it is a one-way ticket to heartbreak.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/578200278</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2019 01:28:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783184/578200278_thebrojo_trust_betrayal_secret_good_relationships.mp3" length="33383697" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We're told our entire lives that relationships are based on trust. But what is trust? What does it mean to break it? Why are we so hurt by betrayal? Maybe you've never asked these questions before. Let's take a deep dive into the weird concept of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're told our entire lives that relationships are based on trust. But what is trust? What does it mean to break it? Why are we so hurt by betrayal? Maybe you've never asked these questions before. Let's take a deep dive into the weird concept of trust, and explore why hoping for it is a one-way ticket to heartbreak.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2087</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/46051737ced75700270b0a298eb9d925.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#89] You Are Not Special... But It's OK!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/89-you-are-not-special-but-it-s-ok--64783213</link><description><![CDATA[People-pleasers and perfectionists have something in common... they're both terrified of being insignificant. We all want to MATTER. We want to be remembered, to have an impact, and to be important. We're all obsessed with being GOOD ENOUGH. But why? What if it was OK to NOT be memorable, or important, or even good enough? In this vulnerable and personal episode, I explore my own fear of insignificance, as I try to let it all go...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/563232453</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2019 03:34:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783213/563232453_thebrojo_you_are_not_special.mp3" length="25189190" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>People-pleasers and perfectionists have something in common... they're both terrified of being insignificant. We all want to MATTER. We want to be remembered, to have an impact, and to be important. We're all obsessed with being GOOD ENOUGH. But why?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[People-pleasers and perfectionists have something in common... they're both terrified of being insignificant. We all want to MATTER. We want to be remembered, to have an impact, and to be important. We're all obsessed with being GOOD ENOUGH. But why? What if it was OK to NOT be memorable, or important, or even good enough? In this vulnerable and personal episode, I explore my own fear of insignificance, as I try to let it all go...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1575</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8d3c86e097f270653d7b0f1fc2735d6d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#88] How to Know if Your Connections Are Healthy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/88-how-to-know-if-your-connections-are-healthy--64783187</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ How healthy is your social circle, love life, and family connections? Many of us take what we can get, or are blinded by mental biases that trap us in less-than-ideal social connections. How are we to know when someone is unhealthy for us, particularly when it's not obvious? How do we decided if we should go on a second date with someone? What family members should we create distance with, and which ones should we draw in closer? In this podcast, we explore how to assess the health of your connections, and how to use the way you FEEL to perform this assessment.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/559577973</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2019 20:51:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783187/559577973_thebrojo_how_to_know_if_your_connections_are_healthy.mp3" length="47506538" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ How...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ How healthy is your social circle, love life, and family connections? Many of us take what we can get, or are blinded by mental biases that trap us in less-than-ideal social connections. How are we to know when someone is unhealthy for us, particularly when it's not obvious? How do we decided if we should go on a second date with someone? What family members should we create distance with, and which ones should we draw in closer? In this podcast, we explore how to assess the health of your connections, and how to use the way you FEEL to perform this assessment.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2970</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0778c111300cfc491970551ade386b38.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#87] How a positive attitude literally saved my life... with Steve Lawton</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/87-how-a-positive-attitude-literally-saved-my-life-with-steve-lawton--64783227</link><description><![CDATA[Headfirst into a tree at 45mph. Multiple broken bones and serious head injuries, including a fractured sternum. Breathing through a tube... and now he's so grateful it happened! Meet an astonishing human being - Steve Lawton - as he describes how to create and apply an emotionally shameless positive attitude to overcome any pain, physical or psychological. For more on Steve and to get a copy of his book Head First, check out: https://stevehlawton.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/548847693</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2018 22:17:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783227/548847693_thebrojo_how_a_positive_attitude_literally_saved_my_life_with_steve_lawton.mp3" length="71624828" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Headfirst into a tree at 45mph. Multiple broken bones and serious head injuries, including a fractured sternum. Breathing through a tube... and now he's so grateful it happened! Meet an astonishing human being - Steve Lawton - as he describes how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Headfirst into a tree at 45mph. Multiple broken bones and serious head injuries, including a fractured sternum. Breathing through a tube... and now he's so grateful it happened! Meet an astonishing human being - Steve Lawton - as he describes how to create and apply an emotionally shameless positive attitude to overcome any pain, physical or psychological. For more on Steve and to get a copy of his book Head First, check out: https://stevehlawton.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4477</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#86] Self-Discipline: How to Deal with Lost Motivation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/86-self-discipline-how-to-deal-with-lost-motivation--64783208</link><description><![CDATA[Get your questions personally answered by the BROJO Coaching team here: https://www.brojo.org/ask  There you are facing fears and pushing the boundaries. Maybe you’re moving forward in your career, or conquering social circle goals, or enhancing your health through exercise and nutrition. Everything is going well.  Then, suddenly – seemingly out of nowhere – you just stop caring.  Performance drops off and you find yourself procrastinating, feeling lost and confused.  Where did all that motivation go?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/544349151</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2018 13:27:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783208/544349151_thebrojo_self_discipline_how_to_deal_with_lost_motivation.mp3" length="10930885" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get your questions personally answered by the BROJO Coaching team here: https://www.brojo.org/ask  There you are facing fears and pushing the boundaries. Maybe you’re moving forward in your career, or conquering social circle goals, or enhancing your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get your questions personally answered by the BROJO Coaching team here: https://www.brojo.org/ask  There you are facing fears and pushing the boundaries. Maybe you’re moving forward in your career, or conquering social circle goals, or enhancing your health through exercise and nutrition. Everything is going well.  Then, suddenly – seemingly out of nowhere – you just stop caring.  Performance drops off and you find yourself procrastinating, feeling lost and confused.  Where did all that motivation go?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>684</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/29d8f104650fa0b36ce0efac29f08f40.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#85] What Game Of Thrones Teaches Us About Morality</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/85-what-game-of-thrones-teaches-us-about-morality--64783163</link><description><![CDATA[What is the difference between right and wrong? How do you decide? What influences your ethics, morals and values?  Your decisions on judging right from wrong will determine almost every element of both joy and suffering in your life. So how much thought have you given it? In this episode, I critique the modern principles of morality, and offer an alternative to rules, laws, religions and other forms of ethical guidance... based on Game of Thrones characters!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/540248967</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2018 07:33:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783163/540248967_thebrojo_what_game_of_thrones_teaches_us_about_morality.mp3" length="43211545" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is the difference between right and wrong? How do you decide? What influences your ethics, morals and values?  Your decisions on judging right from wrong will determine almost every element of both joy and suffering in your life. So how much...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is the difference between right and wrong? How do you decide? What influences your ethics, morals and values?  Your decisions on judging right from wrong will determine almost every element of both joy and suffering in your life. So how much thought have you given it? In this episode, I critique the modern principles of morality, and offer an alternative to rules, laws, religions and other forms of ethical guidance... based on Game of Thrones characters!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2701</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/68266c0542f05fed3d80f0972621c05b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#84] Overcoming Performance Anxiety in Bed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/84-overcoming-performance-anxiety-in-bed--64783215</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ This one is for the men.  Specifically, men who find sex and dating to be a struggle. The sexually inexperienced men; the guys who frequently experience anxiety-based erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation; the guys who can’t seem to get laid or find a partner no matter how hard they try.  This one is for the men who suspect they may have some serious psychological issues around sex, and they want to get this shit sorted but don’t know how.  And this one is for their partners – for the women who want to experience a great sex life with their man but he just seems reluctant, ashamed or physically incapable.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/536232447</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2018 14:17:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783215/536232447_thebrojo_overcoming_performance_anxiety_in_bed.mp3" length="27149373" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ This one...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ This one is for the men.  Specifically, men who find sex and dating to be a struggle. The sexually inexperienced men; the guys who frequently experience anxiety-based erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation; the guys who can’t seem to get laid or find a partner no matter how hard they try.  This one is for the men who suspect they may have some serious psychological issues around sex, and they want to get this shit sorted but don’t know how.  And this one is for their partners – for the women who want to experience a great sex life with their man but he just seems reluctant, ashamed or physically incapable.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#83] The Late Night Show with Mike &amp; Dan - Cognitive Biases</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/83-the-late-night-show-with-mike-dan-cognitive-biases--64783182</link><description><![CDATA[It's the BROJO Late Night Show with Mike &amp; Dan - BROJO Founders and coaches. Each week Mike Wells and Dan Munro freestyle randomly about self-development, psychology and philosophy topics that have come up during the week, from books they're reading, clients they're coaching, and questions from the BROJO Community. This week, Mike is reading "Thinking Fast n Slow" by Daniel Kahneman, prompting a discussion on cognitive biases and how we are ruled by subconscious drives we aren't even aware of.  See also: https://www.brojo.org/info/thinking-fast-and-slow https://www.brojo.org/info/daniel-kahneman https://www.brojo.org/info/cognitive-bias]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/534278517</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Nov 2018 13:13:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783182/534278517_thebrojo_late_night_show_mike_dan_cognitive_biases.mp3" length="71952646" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's the BROJO Late Night Show with Mike &amp;amp; Dan - BROJO Founders and coaches. Each week Mike Wells and Dan Munro freestyle randomly about self-development, psychology and philosophy topics that have come up during the week, from books they're...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's the BROJO Late Night Show with Mike &amp; Dan - BROJO Founders and coaches. Each week Mike Wells and Dan Munro freestyle randomly about self-development, psychology and philosophy topics that have come up during the week, from books they're reading, clients they're coaching, and questions from the BROJO Community. This week, Mike is reading "Thinking Fast n Slow" by Daniel Kahneman, prompting a discussion on cognitive biases and how we are ruled by subconscious drives we aren't even aware of.  See also: https://www.brojo.org/info/thinking-fast-and-slow https://www.brojo.org/info/daniel-kahneman https://www.brojo.org/info/cognitive-bias]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4497</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#56] Addicted to Facebook, Porn, Alcohol or Netflix?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/56-addicted-to-facebook-porn-alcohol-or-netflix--64783191</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We all have our vices. The problem is when we binge. Hours of our lives are lost in harmful, time-wasting activities like watching porn, getting drunk, playing video games, and smashing a whole tub of ice-cream.  Why do we do it? And why does it feel so hard to stop? In this episode, I explore the truth behind all our compulsive, habitual and addictive behaviours... and the secret to breaking the cycle.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/410089701</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2018 13:05:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783191/410089701_thebrojo_addicted_to_facebook_porn_alcohol_or_netflix_members_only_version.mp3" length="42514389" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We all...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We all have our vices. The problem is when we binge. Hours of our lives are lost in harmful, time-wasting activities like watching porn, getting drunk, playing video games, and smashing a whole tub of ice-cream.  Why do we do it? And why does it feel so hard to stop? In this episode, I explore the truth behind all our compulsive, habitual and addictive behaviours... and the secret to breaking the cycle.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2658</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a81c00737efc01e9da8e6510f023825e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#82] 3 Techniques for Deeper Connections</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/82-3-techniques-for-deeper-connections--64783190</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this webinar I'm going to give you the 3 top techniques I use every day to create deep and meaningful connections with people (without having to resort to manipulation or pretence).   These simple and authentic processes have allowed me to find the woman of my dreams, do the work that I love, and make friends all over the world by just being myself.  1) Reflective Listening - how to listen and respond to someone in a way that leads the conversation deeper and keeps you present, so that people feel special and understood when they talk to you.  2) Showing Interest and Attraction - how to tell someone how you feel about them without being awkward, judgmental or creepy, so that you can create a more intense romantic connection or meaningful friendship.  3) Confident Body Language - how to hold yourself physically and speak in a way that commands attention and respect and makes you feel like you're 10-foot tall and bullet-proof, so that you can counter the effects of anxiety while ensuring you aren't interrupted or ignored.  Each of these points will come with a simple step-by-step practical process you can apply right away to use these in real life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/533301861</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2018 09:05:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783190/533301861_thebrojo_3_techniques_for_deeper_connections.mp3" length="59224535" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this webinar I'm going to give you the 3 top techniques I use every day to create deep and meaningful connections with people (without having to resort to manipulation or pretence).   These simple and authentic processes have allowed me to find the woman of my dreams, do the work that I love, and make friends all over the world by just being myself.  1) Reflective Listening - how to listen and respond to someone in a way that leads the conversation deeper and keeps you present, so that people feel special and understood when they talk to you.  2) Showing Interest and Attraction - how to tell someone how you feel about them without being awkward, judgmental or creepy, so that you can create a more intense romantic connection or meaningful friendship.  3) Confident Body Language - how to hold yourself physically and speak in a way that commands attention and respect and makes you feel like you're 10-foot tall and bullet-proof, so that you can counter the effects of anxiety while ensuring you aren't interrupted or ignored.  Each of these points will come with a simple step-by-step practical process you can apply right away to use these in real life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3702</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/555e8acc00809aa4ca7d95faad094ee7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#81] How to recover from Nice Guy Syndrome, with coach Jason Miller</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/81-how-to-recover-from-nice-guy-syndrome-with-coach-jason-miller--64783189</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Jason Miller is currently a coach who specialises in helping guys recover from Nice Guy Syndrome. He has been formerly trained by the original Nice Guy coach Dr Robert Glover, and even more importantly he knows what it's like to spend most of your life with NG Syndrome.  In this vulnerable podcast, Jason shares his story of relationship disasters and self-worth struggles in his first few decades of life, and how with the help of coaching he discovered healthy masculinity and now seeks to help others.  Find out more about Jason here: www.niceguycoach.com www.niceguygroup.com www.personalpowerfunnel.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/529200297</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2018 11:10:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783189/529200297_thebrojo_how_to_recover_from_nice_guy_syndrome_with_coach_jason_miller.mp3" length="62170591" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Jason...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Jason Miller is currently a coach who specialises in helping guys recover from Nice Guy Syndrome. He has been formerly trained by the original Nice Guy coach Dr Robert Glover, and even more importantly he knows what it's like to spend most of your life with NG Syndrome.  In this vulnerable podcast, Jason shares his story of relationship disasters and self-worth struggles in his first few decades of life, and how with the help of coaching he discovered healthy masculinity and now seeks to help others.  Find out more about Jason here: www.niceguycoach.com www.niceguygroup.com www.personalpowerfunnel.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3886</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aa5f67a2e87ae1f531a1d52d977225a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#80] Self Sabotage - The 3 Lies That Rule Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/80-self-sabotage-the-3-lies-that-rule-your-life--64783164</link><description><![CDATA[I’m going to explore the 3 biggest deceptions you play on yourself to create a pattern of self-sabotage, and how to correct these so you can be more honest, confident and productive.  The first lie is your prediction of the future, which you use to determine your decisions. The second lie is the present hidden intention behind your actions. And the third lie is the story you make up about what happened in the past, to explain your behaviour to yourself.   We’ll explore these lies today, and then look at what you can do to free yourself from this self-deception.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/525709449</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2018 17:20:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783164/525709449_thebrojo_self_sabotage_the_3_lies_that_rule_your_life.mp3" length="27264730" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I’m going to explore the 3 biggest deceptions you play on yourself to create a pattern of self-sabotage, and how to correct these so you can be more honest, confident and productive.  The first lie is your prediction of the future, which you use to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’m going to explore the 3 biggest deceptions you play on yourself to create a pattern of self-sabotage, and how to correct these so you can be more honest, confident and productive.  The first lie is your prediction of the future, which you use to determine your decisions. The second lie is the present hidden intention behind your actions. And the third lie is the story you make up about what happened in the past, to explain your behaviour to yourself.   We’ll explore these lies today, and then look at what you can do to free yourself from this self-deception.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1705</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d9a6ccfc21eab6ae2e4f1e500d3a0967.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#79] Attraction &amp; Dating Using Authenticity, with Joe Ducard</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/79-attraction-dating-using-authenticity-with-joe-ducard--64783221</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this powerfully insightful interview, top dating coach Joe Ducard helps us understand how to reconcile 'game' and seduction (the development of social skills for better dating and relationship experiences) with being yourself.  Joe shows us how being authentic and sharing who you are honestly can improve your dating and sex life, while remaining well-meaning and giving in your intentions. Joe comes from a background of low self-worth and social awkwardness. Formerly 100s of pounds overweight and socially incapable of dating, Joe now has amazing experiences with beautiful women every week, and wants to share how he made this transformation (and how you can too), without losing who you are or becoming unethically manipulative.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/518005023</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2018 10:20:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783221/518005023_thebrojo_attraction_dating_using_authenticity_with_joe_ducard.mp3" length="62202356" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ In this powerfully insightful interview, top dating coach Joe Ducard helps us understand how to reconcile 'game' and seduction (the development of social skills for better dating and relationship experiences) with being yourself.  Joe shows us how being authentic and sharing who you are honestly can improve your dating and sex life, while remaining well-meaning and giving in your intentions. Joe comes from a background of low self-worth and social awkwardness. Formerly 100s of pounds overweight and socially incapable of dating, Joe now has amazing experiences with beautiful women every week, and wants to share how he made this transformation (and how you can too), without losing who you are or becoming unethically manipulative.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3888</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/263d4abbe2e486d38b2fba0eaa1c3a5a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#78] My People-Pleasing Life Story</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/78-my-people-pleasing-life-story--64783195</link><description><![CDATA[At age 25, after a lifetime of people-pleasing, I finally hit rock bottom. I was single and lonely, with no prospective dates. I was stuck in a dead-end career, too afraid to take risks. I was constantly anxious, and frustrated that nothing was working out the way it should. And I couldn't take it any longer. One evening, after getting yet another exhausting day of people-pleasing at work, and yet another text from a girl saying “I just want to be friends,” I’d had enough.  I knew I deserved better. 2 decades of people pleasing had never made me happy. I was sick to death of pretending and performing. Something had to change. So right there I made a commitment to myself. No more hiding what was going on for me. No more sitting silently as others got their way. I committed to being honest 100% of the time. To speaking up when I wanted something, felt something, or had an idea. I started initiating confrontations and standing up for myself. I expressed how I felt honestly, even telling people when I was attracted to them. Through this, I finally learned how to stop caring what other people thought of me.  I saw all the other people-pleasers out there, and knew I had to help them.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/364785227</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2018 08:28:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783195/364785227_thebrojo_my_people_pleasing_life_story.mp3" length="14281920" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>At age 25, after a lifetime of people-pleasing, I finally hit rock bottom. I was single and lonely, with no prospective dates. I was stuck in a dead-end career, too afraid to take risks. I was constantly anxious, and frustrated that nothing was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[At age 25, after a lifetime of people-pleasing, I finally hit rock bottom. I was single and lonely, with no prospective dates. I was stuck in a dead-end career, too afraid to take risks. I was constantly anxious, and frustrated that nothing was working out the way it should. And I couldn't take it any longer. One evening, after getting yet another exhausting day of people-pleasing at work, and yet another text from a girl saying “I just want to be friends,” I’d had enough.  I knew I deserved better. 2 decades of people pleasing had never made me happy. I was sick to death of pretending and performing. Something had to change. So right there I made a commitment to myself. No more hiding what was going on for me. No more sitting silently as others got their way. I committed to being honest 100% of the time. To speaking up when I wanted something, felt something, or had an idea. I started initiating confrontations and standing up for myself. I expressed how I felt honestly, even telling people when I was attracted to them. Through this, I finally learned how to stop caring what other people thought of me.  I saw all the other people-pleasers out there, and knew I had to help them.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>893</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#77] What Is Confidence?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/77-what-is-confidence--64783167</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth - what do these words mean? How is someone supposed to build confidence in a world that is difficult, confusing and full of unexpected setbacks?  Confidence Coach Dan Munro explores what confidence is and how to build it. We'll look at the current definitions and advice on confidence, what's wrong with these, and what a new and improved version should be so anyone can build confidence, no matter who they are or what's happening in their lives.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/513678303</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2018 05:00:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783167/513678303_thebrojo_what_is_confidence.mp3" length="17756160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth - what do these words mean? How is someone supposed to build confidence in a world that is difficult, confusing and full of unexpected setbacks?  Confidence Coach Dan Munro explores what confidence is and how to build it. We'll look at the current definitions and advice on confidence, what's wrong with these, and what a new and improved version should be so anyone can build confidence, no matter who they are or what's happening in their lives.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1110</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/58e6f975de03fdf8a2edfe80ccb60110.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#76] New York's #1 Dating Coach: The True Story - behind the scenes with Chris Luna</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/76-new-york-s-1-dating-coach-the-true-story-behind-the-scenes-with-chris-luna--64783112</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Chris Luna is New York's #1 Dating Coach and CEO of "Craft of Charisma" - a lifestyle and self-development company helping men around the world become more confident and develop dating skills while remaining authentic.  Chris, while massively successful in all areas of life, comes from a humble and difficult beginning. In this open interview, Chris shares the struggles of being homeless, shy, broke and unsure of himself. From nothing he built his confidence, his dating skills, his health and his company. He truly is a self-made man.  Chris was humbling in his vulnerable honesty during this interview, and through this will give a good insight as to how real success is built through hard work, struggle, learning from mistakes and endless determination. He will also share how he built his social skills and made influential connections with high-rollers.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/504323532</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2018 09:26:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783112/504323532_thebrojo_dating_coach_true_story_chris_luna.mp3" length="93393814" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Chris...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Chris Luna is New York's #1 Dating Coach and CEO of "Craft of Charisma" - a lifestyle and self-development company helping men around the world become more confident and develop dating skills while remaining authentic.  Chris, while massively successful in all areas of life, comes from a humble and difficult beginning. In this open interview, Chris shares the struggles of being homeless, shy, broke and unsure of himself. From nothing he built his confidence, his dating skills, his health and his company. He truly is a self-made man.  Chris was humbling in his vulnerable honesty during this interview, and through this will give a good insight as to how real success is built through hard work, struggle, learning from mistakes and endless determination. He will also share how he built his social skills and made influential connections with high-rollers.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5838</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2dab205fd501f60934e8ebee3d926567.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#75] What Are You Waiting For?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/75-what-are-you-waiting-for--64783109</link><description><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ A lot of the rules you follow are based on an understanding of time: you believe things happened to you in the past, and that things will happen to you in the future. Sounds pretty legit, only... there is no past. There is no future. There is only now. If you've been living a life based on healing the past or preparing for the future, you may not even be living! Listen for more...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/491308773</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2018 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783109/491308773_thebrojo_what_are_you_waiting_for.mp3" length="28183404" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ A lot of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ A lot of the rules you follow are based on an understanding of time: you believe things happened to you in the past, and that things will happen to you in the future. Sounds pretty legit, only... there is no past. There is no future. There is only now. If you've been living a life based on healing the past or preparing for the future, you may not even be living! Listen for more...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1762</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5d6c6bd37d64fc71f0a18f3212266677.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#74] How to Stop Fear and Anxiety Controlling You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/74-how-to-stop-fear-and-anxiety-controlling-you--64783194</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We often only think of fear as anxiety, terror and panic. Yet these are the least likely ways that fear will prevent you from taking helpful action. Fear is tricky, it uses manipulation techniques to control you, like:  - distraction (e.g. social media) - intimidation (e.g. perfectionism) - invalidation (e.g. not good enough)  - and flattery (e.g. "you've earned a break)  If you want to be courageous, you really need to be smarter about what fear is and how it works.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/488649090</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:55:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783194/488649090_thebrojo_how_to_stop_fear_controlling_you.mp3" length="52949994" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ We often only think of fear as anxiety, terror and panic. Yet these are the least likely ways that fear will prevent you from taking helpful action. Fear is tricky, it uses manipulation techniques to control you, like:  - distraction (e.g. social media) - intimidation (e.g. perfectionism) - invalidation (e.g. not good enough)  - and flattery (e.g. "you've earned a break)  If you want to be courageous, you really need to be smarter about what fear is and how it works.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3310</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c15703721cd15203da48826194a584e8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#73] Political Correctness Vs Free Speech - An Opinionated Rant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/73-political-correctness-vs-free-speech-an-opinionated-rant--64783197</link><description><![CDATA[There appears to be a war going on around the world, and fought through social media. On one side we have Political Correctness - the campaign for equality and the end of prejudice. On the other we have Free Speech - the campaign for individuals rights of expression and opinion. And, for some inexplicable reason, these two factions are fighting each other. Let's try figure out what's going on here...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/486329064</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2018 13:38:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783197/486329064_thebrojo_political_correctness_vs_free_speech_an_opinionated_rant.mp3" length="66939923" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There appears to be a war going on around the world, and fought through social media. On one side we have Political Correctness - the campaign for equality and the end of prejudice. On the other we have Free Speech - the campaign for individuals...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There appears to be a war going on around the world, and fought through social media. On one side we have Political Correctness - the campaign for equality and the end of prejudice. On the other we have Free Speech - the campaign for individuals rights of expression and opinion. And, for some inexplicable reason, these two factions are fighting each other. Let's try figure out what's going on here...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4184</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8482b0ca96ec097e78c45f509d4c507e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#72] The Art Of Confident Living - A Practical Guide</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/72-the-art-of-confident-living-a-practical-guide--64783225</link><description><![CDATA[In this personal episode, I explore the key differences between how I live now versus how I used to live. I look at the practical changes I've made that give me daily confidence, and why those changes have helped.. This episode is for anyone looking to make confidence a way of life rather than a brief feeling of accomplishment.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/483285774</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2018 15:26:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783225/483285774_thebrojo_the_art_of_confident_living_a_practical_guide.mp3" length="60817239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this personal episode, I explore the key differences between how I live now versus how I used to live. I look at the practical changes I've made that give me daily confidence, and why those changes have helped.. This episode is for anyone looking...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this personal episode, I explore the key differences between how I live now versus how I used to live. I look at the practical changes I've made that give me daily confidence, and why those changes have helped.. This episode is for anyone looking to make confidence a way of life rather than a brief feeling of accomplishment.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3802</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cfc54ce333553d28ffe1e0f8b7967f56.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#71] Creating an Awesome Career, with Paul Ames</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/71-creating-an-awesome-career-with-paul-ames--64783174</link><description><![CDATA[Paul Ames knows more about creating a powerful, meaningful and satisfying career than just about anyone.. In this interview Paul generously shares his secrets on designing an awesome career, plus his top practical tips for moving up the career ladder.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/476023122</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2018 12:23:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783174/476023122_thebrojo_creating_an_awesome_career_with_paul_ames.mp3" length="51976149" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Paul Ames knows more about creating a powerful, meaningful and satisfying career than just about anyone.. In this interview Paul generously shares his secrets on designing an awesome career, plus his top practical tips for moving up the career ladder.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Paul Ames knows more about creating a powerful, meaningful and satisfying career than just about anyone.. In this interview Paul generously shares his secrets on designing an awesome career, plus his top practical tips for moving up the career ladder.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3249</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bc91a54fb80d5225fc6299c6610bb157.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#70] The 3 Principles of Powerful Honesty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/70-the-3-principles-of-powerful-honesty--64783171</link><description><![CDATA[If you find that trying to be honest doesn't always go well for you, and you think maybe full honesty is NOT the best policy, have a listen to this. There's a very good chance that you being truthful is not the problem, but perhaps your delivery of the truth is not as good as it could be. In this podcast, we discuss the 3 principles of powerful honesty: Bold, Vulnerable and Playful, and how these will make your truth easier to swallow and accept.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/472834974</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jul 2018 13:22:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783171/472834974_thebrojo_the_3_principles_of_powerful_honesty.mp3" length="25565308" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you find that trying to be honest doesn't always go well for you, and you think maybe full honesty is NOT the best policy, have a listen to this. There's a very good chance that you being truthful is not the problem, but perhaps your delivery of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you find that trying to be honest doesn't always go well for you, and you think maybe full honesty is NOT the best policy, have a listen to this. There's a very good chance that you being truthful is not the problem, but perhaps your delivery of the truth is not as good as it could be. In this podcast, we discuss the 3 principles of powerful honesty: Bold, Vulnerable and Playful, and how these will make your truth easier to swallow and accept.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1598</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d47d720fb9459386fcc117d50585d6f1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#69] Why Wishing For A Better Life Is Stupid</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/69-why-wishing-for-a-better-life-is-stupid--64783200</link><description><![CDATA[Struggling against reality is the only cause of suffering. You want more purpose, wealth, health, popularity, love and power. You WISH for it. You compare your current life to one that has all these things and come to believe your current life is 'not good enough'. You even believe that YOU are not good enough, incomplete and failing at life. If you can change this perspective, to realise that here and now is the only thing that's real and controllable, your suffering can come to an end.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/469330641</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2018 14:57:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783200/469330641_thebrojo_why_wishing_for_a_better_life_is_stupid.mp3" length="40521977" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Struggling against reality is the only cause of suffering. You want more purpose, wealth, health, popularity, love and power. You WISH for it. You compare your current life to one that has all these things and come to believe your current life is 'not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Struggling against reality is the only cause of suffering. You want more purpose, wealth, health, popularity, love and power. You WISH for it. You compare your current life to one that has all these things and come to believe your current life is 'not good enough'. You even believe that YOU are not good enough, incomplete and failing at life. If you can change this perspective, to realise that here and now is the only thing that's real and controllable, your suffering can come to an end.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2533</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ff76144015dbbd513b61d43a4088608e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#68] The 4 Types Of "Nice Guys"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/68-the-4-types-of-nice-guys--64783209</link><description><![CDATA[Nice Guy Syndrome affects millions of men around the world. But not every Nice Guy is the same, and knowing how you're different to other Nice Guys will help focus you on your pathway to rediscovering authentic masculinity and confidence.  This podcast is for all Nice Guys, and their partners, to help you figure out the best next step for you, personally.  Skip ahead to your type here: The Performer (extroverted approval seeker) - 4:30 The Controller (extroverted manipulator) - 13:57 The Observer (shy wallflower) - 29:17 The Critic (overthinking self-defeater) - 39:20]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/467247051</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jul 2018 15:56:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783209/467247051_thebrojo_the_4_types_of_nice_guys.mp3" length="47821634" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nice Guy Syndrome affects millions of men around the world. But not every Nice Guy is the same, and knowing how you're different to other Nice Guys will help focus you on your pathway to rediscovering authentic masculinity and confidence.  This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nice Guy Syndrome affects millions of men around the world. But not every Nice Guy is the same, and knowing how you're different to other Nice Guys will help focus you on your pathway to rediscovering authentic masculinity and confidence.  This podcast is for all Nice Guys, and their partners, to help you figure out the best next step for you, personally.  Skip ahead to your type here: The Performer (extroverted approval seeker) - 4:30 The Controller (extroverted manipulator) - 13:57 The Observer (shy wallflower) - 29:17 The Critic (overthinking self-defeater) - 39:20]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2989</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69efc5b0621a45253ab05978a2d8c642.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#67] The Dark Truth About the Pick Up Artist Industry, with John Cooper</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/67-the-dark-truth-about-the-pick-up-artist-industry-with-john-cooper--64783226</link><description><![CDATA[John Cooper, former Pick Up Artist (PUA) dating coach turned "Social Heartistry" teacher and philosopher shares his experience in the PUA industry and other related perspectives on dating, and reveals some of the darker secrets about what goes on behind the scenes.  Together we explore what it means to bring healthy masculinity into a connection with a woman, and how the PUA industry conditions men into a never-ending death-spiral of seeking validation from women. If putting on a manipulative performance to make women like you isn't quite bringing you the satisfaction and meaning you'd hoped for, you need to hear this one.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/463716537</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2018 15:12:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783226/463716537_thebrojo_the_dark_truth_about_the_pick_up_artist_industry_with_john_cooper.mp3" length="101409435" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>John Cooper, former Pick Up Artist (PUA) dating coach turned "Social Heartistry" teacher and philosopher shares his experience in the PUA industry and other related perspectives on dating, and reveals some of the darker secrets about what goes on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[John Cooper, former Pick Up Artist (PUA) dating coach turned "Social Heartistry" teacher and philosopher shares his experience in the PUA industry and other related perspectives on dating, and reveals some of the darker secrets about what goes on behind the scenes.  Together we explore what it means to bring healthy masculinity into a connection with a woman, and how the PUA industry conditions men into a never-ending death-spiral of seeking validation from women. If putting on a manipulative performance to make women like you isn't quite bringing you the satisfaction and meaning you'd hoped for, you need to hear this one.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6339</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#66] Bullying, Medication, and Trauma Recovery, with Melissa Wilson</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/66-bullying-medication-and-trauma-recovery-with-melissa-wilson--64783218</link><description><![CDATA[Life Coach and creator of "The Grass Gets Greener" podcast Melissa Wilson shares her vulnerable and inspirational story about how she survived horrific bullying to become self-confident and in control of her life. If you've ever struggled with bullies, social anxiety or trauma, listen to what Melissa has to say.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/458715852</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2018 10:04:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783218/458715852_thebrojo_bullying_medication_and_trauma_recovery_with_melissa_wilson.mp3" length="62732746" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Life Coach and creator of "The Grass Gets Greener" podcast Melissa Wilson shares her vulnerable and inspirational story about how she survived horrific bullying to become self-confident and in control of her life. If you've ever struggled with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life Coach and creator of "The Grass Gets Greener" podcast Melissa Wilson shares her vulnerable and inspirational story about how she survived horrific bullying to become self-confident and in control of her life. If you've ever struggled with bullies, social anxiety or trauma, listen to what Melissa has to say.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3921</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9eb9cd6d60b177b2678319bb46668573.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#65] You Are The Cause Of All Your Problems</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/65-you-are-the-cause-of-all-your-problems--64783198</link><description><![CDATA[Imagine if you had the power to control how much suffering you experienced in life, and how much control you had over what happened to you? Wouldn't that be awesome?!  Well good news: You DO control your suffering. Only, you're not doing it as well as you could be, and you're probably not even aware of how you do it. Let's look at it, shall we?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/450703584</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2018 12:24:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783198/450703584_thebrojo_you_are_the_cause_of_all_your_problems.mp3" length="30495137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Imagine if you had the power to control how much suffering you experienced in life, and how much control you had over what happened to you? Wouldn't that be awesome?!  Well good news: You DO control your suffering. Only, you're not doing it as well as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine if you had the power to control how much suffering you experienced in life, and how much control you had over what happened to you? Wouldn't that be awesome?!  Well good news: You DO control your suffering. Only, you're not doing it as well as you could be, and you're probably not even aware of how you do it. Let's look at it, shall we?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1906</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#64] Emotional Rationality: How to "Control" Your Emotions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/64-emotional-rationality-how-to-control-your-emotions--64783115</link><description><![CDATA[We often beat ourselves for getting "too emotional" and we blame our emotions for bad decisions and poor behaviour. This leads us to try to become "more rational". Yet, without emotions, we are not human. So why do we fight them? And is it truly irrational to be emotional? Or, perhaps, there's a way to make valuable decisions and live a great life being both rational and emotional at the same time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/439339761</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2018 15:33:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783115/439339761_thebrojo_emotional_rationality_how_to_control_your_emotions.mp3" length="31634493" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We often beat ourselves for getting "too emotional" and we blame our emotions for bad decisions and poor behaviour. This leads us to try to become "more rational". Yet, without emotions, we are not human. So why do we fight them? And is it truly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We often beat ourselves for getting "too emotional" and we blame our emotions for bad decisions and poor behaviour. This leads us to try to become "more rational". Yet, without emotions, we are not human. So why do we fight them? And is it truly irrational to be emotional? Or, perhaps, there's a way to make valuable decisions and live a great life being both rational and emotional at the same time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#63] Blood In The Water: Why You Get Bullied (and How to Prevent It)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/63-blood-in-the-water-why-you-get-bullied-and-how-to-prevent-it--64783135</link><description><![CDATA[Are you someone who has a history of being bullied? Have you ever stopped and wondered "Why me?!" In this podcast, we explore the social and psychological dynamics of bullying, and I share the dark truth about being a bullying victim, developed from years of working with psychopaths and narcissists.  Bullying may be in your past and even present, but it does not need to be in your future... as long as you're willing to change yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/435005286</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2018 15:42:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783135/435005286_thebrojo_blood_in_the_water_why_you_get_bullied_and_how_to_prevent_it.mp3" length="51673964" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you someone who has a history of being bullied? Have you ever stopped and wondered "Why me?!" In this podcast, we explore the social and psychological dynamics of bullying, and I share the dark truth about being a bullying victim, developed from...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you someone who has a history of being bullied? Have you ever stopped and wondered "Why me?!" In this podcast, we explore the social and psychological dynamics of bullying, and I share the dark truth about being a bullying victim, developed from years of working with psychopaths and narcissists.  Bullying may be in your past and even present, but it does not need to be in your future... as long as you're willing to change yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3230</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#62] Life Sucks: Becoming a Stoic Extremophile in the Modern World</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/62-life-sucks-becoming-a-stoic-extremophile-in-the-modern-world--64783220</link><description><![CDATA[Yup, life is unfair. No, you're not a victim.  Many of us suffer simply because we fail to accept an obvious truth: life sucks. It doesn't suck because it's unfair, however, it sucks because as humans we are incapable of long-term satisfaction.  You will always have pain. How you deal with it will determine your quality of life. So, if you think life sucks and is unfair on you, listen to this...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/430988646</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2018 13:02:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783220/430988646_thebrojo_life_sucks_becoming_a_stoic_extremophile_in_the_modern_world.mp3" length="48652537" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Yup, life is unfair. No, you're not a victim.  Many of us suffer simply because we fail to accept an obvious truth: life sucks. It doesn't suck because it's unfair, however, it sucks because as humans we are incapable of long-term satisfaction.  You...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Yup, life is unfair. No, you're not a victim.  Many of us suffer simply because we fail to accept an obvious truth: life sucks. It doesn't suck because it's unfair, however, it sucks because as humans we are incapable of long-term satisfaction.  You will always have pain. How you deal with it will determine your quality of life. So, if you think life sucks and is unfair on you, listen to this...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3041</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#61] Getting Unstuck Using the 3X Model of Confidence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/61-getting-unstuck-using-the-3x-model-of-confidence--64783141</link><description><![CDATA[We all get stuck sometimes. Whether it's overthinking and being unable to commit to a decision; or burning out from being too busy without making much progress; or getting lost in information overload and not knowing where to start.  The 3X Model of Confidence was designed to help you remain unstuck and make constant progress with your self-confidence. It's simple and easy to use, and applies to any situation. In this episode, Dan explains how to identify where you're stuck and what you must do next to free yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/428610363</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2018 12:08:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783141/428610363_thebrojo_getting_unstuck_using_the_3x_model_of_confidence.mp3" length="39816462" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all get stuck sometimes. Whether it's overthinking and being unable to commit to a decision; or burning out from being too busy without making much progress; or getting lost in information overload and not knowing where to start.  The 3X Model of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all get stuck sometimes. Whether it's overthinking and being unable to commit to a decision; or burning out from being too busy without making much progress; or getting lost in information overload and not knowing where to start.  The 3X Model of Confidence was designed to help you remain unstuck and make constant progress with your self-confidence. It's simple and easy to use, and applies to any situation. In this episode, Dan explains how to identify where you're stuck and what you must do next to free yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2489</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/34848b75a82ede2513b7e1122f8f9a0c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#60] Limiting Beliefs That Ruin Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/60-limiting-beliefs-that-ruin-your-life--64783222</link><description><![CDATA[In this first of this series, I pick 4 beliefs that I see people commonly subscribing too (and beliefs I used to have myself) and do my best to tear them to pieces  1) "I need to be liked by others" 2) "Other people think the same way I do" 3) "The universe is fair, or should be fair" 4) "Success means winning and positive results"  Do you believe any of these? See if you still do after listening to this...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/424292262</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2018 18:48:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783222/424292262_thebrojo_the_beliefs_that_ruin_your_life_part_1.mp3" length="41350790" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this first of this series, I pick 4 beliefs that I see people commonly subscribing too (and beliefs I used to have myself) and do my best to tear them to pieces  1) "I need to be liked by others" 2) "Other people think the same way I do" 3) "The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this first of this series, I pick 4 beliefs that I see people commonly subscribing too (and beliefs I used to have myself) and do my best to tear them to pieces  1) "I need to be liked by others" 2) "Other people think the same way I do" 3) "The universe is fair, or should be fair" 4) "Success means winning and positive results"  Do you believe any of these? See if you still do after listening to this...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2585</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#59] Seasons of Change - The Different Stages of Achieving Integrity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/59-seasons-of-change-the-different-stages-of-achieving-integrity--64783138</link><description><![CDATA[In Winter, we face the depressing truth about ourselves and decide what needs to change, while simultaneously being kind to ourselves. In Spring we clean it all up and make the necessary changes. In Summer, we enjoy our abundance while carefully maintaining the changes. And in Autumn, we deal with the tests and frustrations of real-life drama.  Listen to this podcast to figure out what season you're in currently, and how best to deal with it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/421301931</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2018 12:55:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783138/421301931_thebrojo_seasons_of_change_the_different_stages_of_achieving_integrity_1.mp3" length="27854470" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Winter, we face the depressing truth about ourselves and decide what needs to change, while simultaneously being kind to ourselves. In Spring we clean it all up and make the necessary changes. In Summer, we enjoy our abundance while carefully...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Winter, we face the depressing truth about ourselves and decide what needs to change, while simultaneously being kind to ourselves. In Spring we clean it all up and make the necessary changes. In Summer, we enjoy our abundance while carefully maintaining the changes. And in Autumn, we deal with the tests and frustrations of real-life drama.  Listen to this podcast to figure out what season you're in currently, and how best to deal with it.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1741</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e8cef4a67e4d4ef8651ad6a93ff57df5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#58] Financial Freedom in Just 24 Hours!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/58-financial-freedom-in-just-24-hours--64783212</link><description><![CDATA[Are you ready to learn this simple trick to becoming financially free? What if you could do it WITHOUT EARNING MORE MONEY??? Is that something you'd be interested in? OK, maybe not. But check out this podcast if you've been chasing money under the guise of pursuing financial freedom, because there's a slight chance that you're on the wrong track completely.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/416523366</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2018 14:17:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783212/416523366_thebrojo_financial_freedom_in_just_24_hours.mp3" length="29355780" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you ready to learn this simple trick to becoming financially free? What if you could do it WITHOUT EARNING MORE MONEY??? Is that something you'd be interested in? OK, maybe not. But check out this podcast if you've been chasing money under the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you ready to learn this simple trick to becoming financially free? What if you could do it WITHOUT EARNING MORE MONEY??? Is that something you'd be interested in? OK, maybe not. But check out this podcast if you've been chasing money under the guise of pursuing financial freedom, because there's a slight chance that you're on the wrong track completely.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1835</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#57] The Rules That Rule Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/57-the-rules-that-rule-your-life--64783662</link><description><![CDATA[You were born into a world full of rules that you had no hand in creating. And yet these rules completely dominate your life, and much of your decision-making. But are these rules even real?  Inspired by the book Sapiens (Yuval Harari, in this episode I explore the rules you've been following your whole life, and why you need to break at least some of them.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/413031018</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2018 13:37:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783662/413031018_thebrojo_the_rules_that_rule_your_life.mp3" length="33318451" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You were born into a world full of rules that you had no hand in creating. And yet these rules completely dominate your life, and much of your decision-making. But are these rules even real?  Inspired by the book Sapiens (Yuval Harari, in this episode...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You were born into a world full of rules that you had no hand in creating. And yet these rules completely dominate your life, and much of your decision-making. But are these rules even real?  Inspired by the book Sapiens (Yuval Harari, in this episode I explore the rules you've been following your whole life, and why you need to break at least some of them.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2083</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f687491d69b7daa5db6bf548b333ed06.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#55] How to Stop Feeling Lonely</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/55-how-to-stop-feeling-lonely--64783664</link><description><![CDATA[We've all felt loneliness at some point in our lives. Some people even experience it on a frequent, long-term basis. What we all have in common is the unhelpful belief that loneliness somehow relates to how many other people love us. But what if there's another reason...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/405426933</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2018 14:41:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783664/405426933_thebrojo_how_to_end_loneliness.mp3" length="32125595" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We've all felt loneliness at some point in our lives. Some people even experience it on a frequent, long-term basis. What we all have in common is the unhelpful belief that loneliness somehow relates to how many other people love us. But what if...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We've all felt loneliness at some point in our lives. Some people even experience it on a frequent, long-term basis. What we all have in common is the unhelpful belief that loneliness somehow relates to how many other people love us. But what if there's another reason...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2008</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b6630071fbccaf1209da55ccb499a0fb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#54] Do You Feel Resentment Towards Women?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/54-do-you-feel-resentment-towards-women--64783665</link><description><![CDATA[Have you been consistently mistreated or had negative experiences with women? Are you starting to feel resentful and bitter about your love and dating life so far? Are you finding it hard to respect women or see them as equals? I know how you feel, and I understand. In this special episode, we explore where this comes from, how it holds you back, and what you can do about it (without any feminism required!)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/402539310</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2018 17:00:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783665/402539310_thebrojo_do_you_feel_resentment_towards_women.mp3" length="41194892" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you been consistently mistreated or had negative experiences with women? Are you starting to feel resentful and bitter about your love and dating life so far? Are you finding it hard to respect women or see them as equals? I know how you feel,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you been consistently mistreated or had negative experiences with women? Are you starting to feel resentful and bitter about your love and dating life so far? Are you finding it hard to respect women or see them as equals? I know how you feel, and I understand. In this special episode, we explore where this comes from, how it holds you back, and what you can do about it (without any feminism required!)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2575</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a77b488c946e77c6eedc895e88a49cf2.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#53] Having Something "To Lose" is An Illusion</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/53-having-something-to-lose-is-an-illusion--64783689</link><description><![CDATA[You hold back and avoid taking risks because you're scared of losing something, aren't you? Approval and friendship. Money and property. Status and reputation. Muscles and fitness. These are all things that you might sacrifice your integrity just to hold onto a little longer. If that might be you.. listen to this.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/398467377</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2018 15:57:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783689/398467377_thebrojo_having_something_to_lose_is_an_illusion.mp3" length="30240599" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You hold back and avoid taking risks because you're scared of losing something, aren't you? Approval and friendship. Money and property. Status and reputation. Muscles and fitness. These are all things that you might sacrifice your integrity just to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You hold back and avoid taking risks because you're scared of losing something, aren't you? Approval and friendship. Money and property. Status and reputation. Muscles and fitness. These are all things that you might sacrifice your integrity just to hold onto a little longer. If that might be you.. listen to this.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1891</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/caafbdd9baaea8e5a332cc86d8f43820.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#52] Depression... You're Doing It Wrong!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/52-depression-you-re-doing-it-wrong--64783673</link><description><![CDATA[I used to suffer from depression... or at least I thought I did. Many of my coaching clients also have this complaint. Even people who have gone through years of therapy, meditation and even medication still can't seem to win their fight with depression. Through combining the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with Stoic acceptance of pain and taking responsibility for emotions, I've developed a new way of looking at depression.  This will go AGAINST most of what you've heard. If you're still struggling with depression, then you've probably never tried this before.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/394785606</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Feb 2018 12:36:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783673/394785606_thebrojo_depression_youre_doing_it_wrong.mp3" length="39807685" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I used to suffer from depression... or at least I thought I did. Many of my coaching clients also have this complaint. Even people who have gone through years of therapy, meditation and even medication still can't seem to win their fight with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I used to suffer from depression... or at least I thought I did. Many of my coaching clients also have this complaint. Even people who have gone through years of therapy, meditation and even medication still can't seem to win their fight with depression. Through combining the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with Stoic acceptance of pain and taking responsibility for emotions, I've developed a new way of looking at depression.  This will go AGAINST most of what you've heard. If you're still struggling with depression, then you've probably never tried this before.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2488</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7bc439970f14a40eb767e25353f80754.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#51] Feminism Is Dead - Who Killed It?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/51-feminism-is-dead-who-killed-it--64783693</link><description><![CDATA[I'm scared to post this one! I wish feminism did what it's supposed to do - empower women. But unfortunately it now does the very opposite of that, whilst increasing the disconnection between men and women.  In this kamikaze podcast, I talk about my perspective on the current feminist movement and why we need to let it die.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/392510751</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2018 18:49:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783693/392510751_thebrojo_feminism_is_dead_who_killed_it.mp3" length="38922030" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I'm scared to post this one! I wish feminism did what it's supposed to do - empower women. But unfortunately it now does the very opposite of that, whilst increasing the disconnection between men and women.  In this kamikaze podcast, I talk about my...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'm scared to post this one! I wish feminism did what it's supposed to do - empower women. But unfortunately it now does the very opposite of that, whilst increasing the disconnection between men and women.  In this kamikaze podcast, I talk about my perspective on the current feminist movement and why we need to let it die.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2433</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e55e9e8b504a37bbfeaf3e8d620142b0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#50] Self Improvement Is A Waste Of Time</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/50-self-improvement-is-a-waste-of-time--64783671</link><description><![CDATA[He doesn't really mean that, does he? Yes, he does. Ever wonder why improving yourself always just ends up with finding more weaknesses to work on? Is there no end? Hear about my discovery into a healthy alternative to self-improvement that won't leave you wishing that one day you'll finally be good enough!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/387915485</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2018 14:49:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783671/387915485_thebrojo_self_improvement_is_a_waste_of_time.mp3" length="22392580" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>He doesn't really mean that, does he? Yes, he does. Ever wonder why improving yourself always just ends up with finding more weaknesses to work on? Is there no end? Hear about my discovery into a healthy alternative to self-improvement that won't...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[He doesn't really mean that, does he? Yes, he does. Ever wonder why improving yourself always just ends up with finding more weaknesses to work on? Is there no end? Hear about my discovery into a healthy alternative to self-improvement that won't leave you wishing that one day you'll finally be good enough!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1400</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8618582f46cf0def89c058de0085d2d3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#49] Why being "easy going" is a mistake!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/49-why-being-easy-going-is-a-mistake--64783667</link><description><![CDATA[Dozens of the people pleasers and Nice Guys I've coached over the last 5 years believe it's good to be an "easy going" person. So many people are raised to believe it's bad to rock the boat or otherwise make other people feel emotionally uncomfortable.   In this episode I challenge the concept that being easy going is either good or helpful, and open up the idea that it could in fact be the biggest problem both in your personal life and in the world generally!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/384959855</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2018 14:24:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783667/384959855_thebrojo_you_think_its_good_to_be_easy_going.mp3" length="34170670" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dozens of the people pleasers and Nice Guys I've coached over the last 5 years believe it's good to be an "easy going" person. So many people are raised to believe it's bad to rock the boat or otherwise make other people feel emotionally...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dozens of the people pleasers and Nice Guys I've coached over the last 5 years believe it's good to be an "easy going" person. So many people are raised to believe it's bad to rock the boat or otherwise make other people feel emotionally uncomfortable.   In this episode I challenge the concept that being easy going is either good or helpful, and open up the idea that it could in fact be the biggest problem both in your personal life and in the world generally!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2136</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ff6a129773e328637b24a060ed0fd94c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#48] What 2017 Taught Us About Self-Acceptance</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/48-what-2017-taught-us-about-self-acceptance--64783695</link><description><![CDATA[Dan and Mike  - the founders of Brojo - discuss the painful lessons they learned from 2017, the year of hard knocks, and how they discovered the secrets to self-acceptance.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/382640939</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2018 18:45:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783695/382640939_thebrojo_what_2017_taught_us_about_self_acceptance.mp3" length="101547362" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dan and Mike  - the founders of Brojo - discuss the painful lessons they learned from 2017, the year of hard knocks, and how they discovered the secrets to self-acceptance.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dan and Mike  - the founders of Brojo - discuss the painful lessons they learned from 2017, the year of hard knocks, and how they discovered the secrets to self-acceptance.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6347</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9afefb7295396c7b4548377e3812b96a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#47] What 100 People Pleasers Say They Have In Common</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/47-what-100-people-pleasers-say-they-have-in-common--64783702</link><description><![CDATA[This survey was conducted over the months of November-December in 2017, as part of market research for my new coaching program The Honesty Effect: 3X Your Social Confidence to Free Yourself from People Pleasing in Just 12 Weeks. Over 100 people responded to the survey, and I’ve analysed the results with my feedback here. If you identify as a People Pleaser, or care about someone who does, you’ll want to check this out!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/378188477</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2018 14:11:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783702/378188477_thebrojo_what_100_people_pleasers_say_they_have_in_common.mp3" length="13458284" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This survey was conducted over the months of November-December in 2017, as part of market research for my new coaching program The Honesty Effect: 3X Your Social Confidence to Free Yourself from People Pleasing in Just 12 Weeks. Over 100 people...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This survey was conducted over the months of November-December in 2017, as part of market research for my new coaching program The Honesty Effect: 3X Your Social Confidence to Free Yourself from People Pleasing in Just 12 Weeks. Over 100 people responded to the survey, and I’ve analysed the results with my feedback here. If you identify as a People Pleaser, or care about someone who does, you’ll want to check this out!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>842</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4f06dc03d28d027ebb39f01b7f43dd7a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#46] Simple &amp; Authentic Communication Skills For Deeper Connections</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/46-simple-authentic-communication-skills-for-deeper-connections--64783690</link><description><![CDATA[Someone asked me what I do in conversations that allows me to connect with people deeply. It took me a while to figure it out, but I've broken down the common mistakes I see people make, and what they can do instead, so you can practically apply these learnings to increase your connections with friends, family, co-workers and lovers.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/377720195</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jan 2018 13:25:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783690/377720195_thebrojo_simple_authentic_communication_skills_for_deeper_connections.mp3" length="38934568" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Someone asked me what I do in conversations that allows me to connect with people deeply. It took me a while to figure it out, but I've broken down the common mistakes I see people make, and what they can do instead, so you can practically apply these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Someone asked me what I do in conversations that allows me to connect with people deeply. It took me a while to figure it out, but I've broken down the common mistakes I see people make, and what they can do instead, so you can practically apply these learnings to increase your connections with friends, family, co-workers and lovers.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2434</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a4aa62e0fe5e46214665183c88a30e17.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#45] The Big Lie You Tell Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/45-the-big-lie-you-tell-yourself--64783704</link><description><![CDATA[You're a good person, right? You're trustworthy and generally an honest person too, correct? In that case, you should be experiencing a fulfilling and open love-life, social life, and career. So what does it mean if you're a good honest person but you're NOT being rewarded for it?  Well, maybe there's something you're not seeing...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/371345495</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2017 20:35:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783704/371345495_thebrojo_the_big_lie_you_tell_yourself.mp3" length="37406928" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You're a good person, right? You're trustworthy and generally an honest person too, correct? In that case, you should be experiencing a fulfilling and open love-life, social life, and career. So what does it mean if you're a good honest person but...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You're a good person, right? You're trustworthy and generally an honest person too, correct? In that case, you should be experiencing a fulfilling and open love-life, social life, and career. So what does it mean if you're a good honest person but you're NOT being rewarded for it?  Well, maybe there's something you're not seeing...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f9a7c19f17935a8fd5aa69ca1c355178.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#44] You Are More Powerful Than You Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/44-you-are-more-powerful-than-you-know--64783680</link><description><![CDATA[Do you believe you're less powerful and free than other people on this Earth? Why? Maybe you think it's because they have more money, strength, political influence and popularity, health or skills than you.  The dark truth is that you're as powerful as any of them, you just don't realise it. If you don't feel 100% free in your life, you need to listen to this.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/368009867</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2017 15:15:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783680/368009867_thebrojo_you_are_more_powerful_than_you_know.mp3" length="29978539" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you believe you're less powerful and free than other people on this Earth? Why? Maybe you think it's because they have more money, strength, political influence and popularity, health or skills than you.  The dark truth is that you're as powerful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you believe you're less powerful and free than other people on this Earth? Why? Maybe you think it's because they have more money, strength, political influence and popularity, health or skills than you.  The dark truth is that you're as powerful as any of them, you just don't realise it. If you don't feel 100% free in your life, you need to listen to this.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1874</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5431ed38dbb9cc28d37a13716dccb2c1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#43] What Type of People Pleaser Are You?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/43-what-type-of-people-pleaser-are-you--64783683</link><description><![CDATA[People pleasing is common and massively detrimental to both self-confidence and connection. It creates loneliness, frustration and missed opportunities. But there's more than one way to be a people pleaser, and until you know which type you are, you won't know what to do about it. In this podcast, we explore the 4 types of people pleasing and what to do about each of them.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/365338778</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2017 15:58:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783683/365338778_thebrojo_what_type_of_people_pleaser_are_you.mp3" length="22537612" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>People pleasing is common and massively detrimental to both self-confidence and connection. It creates loneliness, frustration and missed opportunities. But there's more than one way to be a people pleaser, and until you know which type you are, you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[People pleasing is common and massively detrimental to both self-confidence and connection. It creates loneliness, frustration and missed opportunities. But there's more than one way to be a people pleaser, and until you know which type you are, you won't know what to do about it. In this podcast, we explore the 4 types of people pleasing and what to do about each of them.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1409</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bb57a41a9a138690e21c0b6851a05cda.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#42] The Important Difference Between a Relationship and a Connection</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/42-the-important-difference-between-a-relationship-and-a-connection--64783672</link><description><![CDATA[Whatever you chase will run away from you. That's why most people dating these days are struggling to find a long-term loving relationship. They scare others away with their neediness and desperation. Why? Because they're chasing the wrong target. Imagine if instead of needy chasing, you focused on connecting in the moment, with no expectations. It is possible... and a much more successful approach!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/362905613</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Nov 2017 10:44:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783672/362905613_thebrojo_the_important_difference_between_a_relationship_and_a_connection.mp3" length="12267937" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Whatever you chase will run away from you. That's why most people dating these days are struggling to find a long-term loving relationship. They scare others away with their neediness and desperation. Why? Because they're chasing the wrong target....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whatever you chase will run away from you. That's why most people dating these days are struggling to find a long-term loving relationship. They scare others away with their neediness and desperation. Why? Because they're chasing the wrong target. Imagine if instead of needy chasing, you focused on connecting in the moment, with no expectations. It is possible... and a much more successful approach!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>767</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d135b01054adff1891bb3bc44184cf20.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#41] Doing The Impossible: 4-Step Process To Breaking Through Mental Loops</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/41-doing-the-impossible-4-step-process-to-breaking-through-mental-loops--64783687</link><description><![CDATA[You see others doing it, but for you it's impossible. Maybe it's starting a business, or asking out your crush, or losing 50 pounds. We each have that thing that defeats us, no matter how hard we try. Well, there's a good chance your real issue is your own self-sabotage. In this episode, we explore why you get in your own way, and how to both recognise and remedy this very human tendency.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/358415420</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2017 14:18:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783687/358415420_thebrojo_doing_the_impossible_4_step_process_to_breaking_through_mental_loops.mp3" length="18877961" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see others doing it, but for you it's impossible. Maybe it's starting a business, or asking out your crush, or losing 50 pounds. We each have that thing that defeats us, no matter how hard we try. Well, there's a good chance your real issue is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see others doing it, but for you it's impossible. Maybe it's starting a business, or asking out your crush, or losing 50 pounds. We each have that thing that defeats us, no matter how hard we try. Well, there's a good chance your real issue is your own self-sabotage. In this episode, we explore why you get in your own way, and how to both recognise and remedy this very human tendency.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1180</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c1f738711c3a1674a69915126ee48c62.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#40] What to do about the "I'm Not Good Enough" Story</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/40-what-to-do-about-the-i-m-not-good-enough-story--64783705</link><description><![CDATA[We all have it. Every time you anticipate failure or embarrassment, this voice in your head starts doubting you, insulting you, and punishing you. Why do we beat ourselves like this? What's the point? Well, that's the question. In this episode, we'll explore the dark truth behind the Not Good Enough script you're so attached to, and discover what's hiding behind it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/355139000</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2017 15:56:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783705/355139000_thebrojo_what_to_do_about_the_im_not_good_enough_story.mp3" length="25806888" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all have it. Every time you anticipate failure or embarrassment, this voice in your head starts doubting you, insulting you, and punishing you. Why do we beat ourselves like this? What's the point? Well, that's the question. In this episode, we'll...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have it. Every time you anticipate failure or embarrassment, this voice in your head starts doubting you, insulting you, and punishing you. Why do we beat ourselves like this? What's the point? Well, that's the question. In this episode, we'll explore the dark truth behind the Not Good Enough script you're so attached to, and discover what's hiding behind it.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1613</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c650485e6a2b75db70596d70df6204a7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#39] How to Manage Your Emotions... Like A Dog</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/39-how-to-manage-your-emotions-like-a-dog--64783709</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever beat yourself up for having an emotional reaction that you think is "inappropriate" or irrational? Maybe it's stagefright, unexplained depression, random anxiety, or pointless anger. You look at a situation and know how you SHOULD feel, then all of sudden you're having a completely crazy emotional reaction that just doesn't make sense. Today, we'll make sense of this craziness and look at how dogs can teach us to manage our emotions better.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/352430258</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2017 16:51:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783709/352430258_thebrojo_how_to_manage_your_emotions_like_a_dog.mp3" length="19066043" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever beat yourself up for having an emotional reaction that you think is "inappropriate" or irrational? Maybe it's stagefright, unexplained depression, random anxiety, or pointless anger. You look at a situation and know how you SHOULD feel,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever beat yourself up for having an emotional reaction that you think is "inappropriate" or irrational? Maybe it's stagefright, unexplained depression, random anxiety, or pointless anger. You look at a situation and know how you SHOULD feel, then all of sudden you're having a completely crazy emotional reaction that just doesn't make sense. Today, we'll make sense of this craziness and look at how dogs can teach us to manage our emotions better.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1192</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a92ad79784efd1a532257545bccf8210.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#38] We're All Going To Die</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/38-we-re-all-going-to-die--64783710</link><description><![CDATA[An heartwarming exploration into how to find a reason to get out of bed each day when you know that ultimately humankind is doomed and everyone will die and everything you do is pointless. A dive into the Philosophy of Pessimism and how living with integrity is the secret to giving meaning to a life without needing a higher purpose or God.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/335244002</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2017 15:54:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783710/335244002_thebrojo_were_all_going_to_die.mp3" length="20851982" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>An heartwarming exploration into how to find a reason to get out of bed each day when you know that ultimately humankind is doomed and everyone will die and everything you do is pointless. A dive into the Philosophy of Pessimism and how living with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[An heartwarming exploration into how to find a reason to get out of bed each day when you know that ultimately humankind is doomed and everyone will die and everything you do is pointless. A dive into the Philosophy of Pessimism and how living with integrity is the secret to giving meaning to a life without needing a higher purpose or God.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1304</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4c5c9c537cc9d8ab564e769529d1bd85.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#37] Stop Taking Responsibility For Other Peoples' Emotions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/37-stop-taking-responsibility-for-other-peoples-emotions--64783666</link><description><![CDATA[We spend a large portion of our energy trying to keep others from feeling painful emotion, by trying to make them happy, or by calming them down. But why do we do this? What's wrong with being sad, angry and afraid sometimes? Let's explore the burden of trying to make others happy, and what you should do instead.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/334562934</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Jul 2017 12:31:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783666/334562934_thebrojo_stop_taking_responsibility_for_other_peoples_emotions.mp3" length="10026839" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We spend a large portion of our energy trying to keep others from feeling painful emotion, by trying to make them happy, or by calming them down. But why do we do this? What's wrong with being sad, angry and afraid sometimes? Let's explore the burden...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We spend a large portion of our energy trying to keep others from feeling painful emotion, by trying to make them happy, or by calming them down. But why do we do this? What's wrong with being sad, angry and afraid sometimes? Let's explore the burden of trying to make others happy, and what you should do instead.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>627</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/35243dfbfe6f1e35cd2b599120bc2979.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#36] What is Confidence? The 6 Pillars of Integrity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/36-what-is-confidence-the-6-pillars-of-integrity--64783707</link><description><![CDATA[So many of us have been trained to believe that confidence means winning, looking good, controlling people and outcomes, seeking popular approval and love, and being emotionally unaffected. I believe these are all harmfully inaccurate definitions of confidence that lead to breaches of integrity and deep insecurities. I'd like to present a new definition, based on having integrity and living by your values.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/333572225</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2017 15:07:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783707/333572225_thebrojo_what_is_confidence_the_6_pillars_of_integrity.mp3" length="20449488" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So many of us have been trained to believe that confidence means winning, looking good, controlling people and outcomes, seeking popular approval and love, and being emotionally unaffected. I believe these are all harmfully inaccurate definitions of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many of us have been trained to believe that confidence means winning, looking good, controlling people and outcomes, seeking popular approval and love, and being emotionally unaffected. I believe these are all harmfully inaccurate definitions of confidence that lead to breaches of integrity and deep insecurities. I'd like to present a new definition, based on having integrity and living by your values.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1279</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/67468017eeab0f1fba4f8eaa88fa62ff.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#35] Overcoming Adversity, with Kevan Chandler</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/35-overcoming-adversity-with-kevan-chandler--64783696</link><description><![CDATA[Kevan Chandler is an incredible man. Born with a physical condition that most would label a "disability," Kevan has shown the world that even the most restrictive physical conditions cannot hold back a man who is determined, courageous, resourceful, connected and optimistic. Prepare to have your excuses put to shame!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/332517528</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jul 2017 15:34:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783696/332517528_thebrojo_overcoming_adversity_with_kevan_chandler.mp3" length="75018239" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kevan Chandler is an incredible man. Born with a physical condition that most would label a "disability," Kevan has shown the world that even the most restrictive physical conditions cannot hold back a man who is determined, courageous, resourceful,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kevan Chandler is an incredible man. Born with a physical condition that most would label a "disability," Kevan has shown the world that even the most restrictive physical conditions cannot hold back a man who is determined, courageous, resourceful, connected and optimistic. Prepare to have your excuses put to shame!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4689</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bcd3b6ab823629aadca101f05f905535.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#34] The Power Of Vulnerability</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/34-the-power-of-vulnerability--64783675</link><description><![CDATA[Why are some people shamelessly open - and therefore unbreakable - while others hide the truth about themselves and end up punished by it? Is it really harmful to be vulnerable? In this episode Dan share's his transition from hiding almost everything to revealing it all, and what he learned from this secret to confidence.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/331725727</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Jul 2017 18:32:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783675/331725727_thebrojo_the_power_of_vulnerability.mp3" length="49953226" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why are some people shamelessly open - and therefore unbreakable - while others hide the truth about themselves and end up punished by it? Is it really harmful to be vulnerable? In this episode Dan share's his transition from hiding almost everything...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why are some people shamelessly open - and therefore unbreakable - while others hide the truth about themselves and end up punished by it? Is it really harmful to be vulnerable? In this episode Dan share's his transition from hiding almost everything to revealing it all, and what he learned from this secret to confidence.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3123</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/482e41fa0f16c9281e8aa38982d45443.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#33] Social Status: Why You Feel Worthless</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/33-social-status-why-you-feel-worthless--64783711</link><description><![CDATA[We look up to celebrities, rich and attractive people, our boss, our parents, and more. Then we look down on criminals, the homeless, and the mentally ill. What is this ranking system we commonly call Social Status? How is it created, who creates it, and most importantly, what is it doing to us? If you've ever felt like the least worthy person in a social situation, prepare for some truth as to why you feel that way (and what you should do about it).]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/328836205</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2017 15:14:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783711/328836205_thebrojo_social_status_why_you_feel_worthless.mp3" length="56539009" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We look up to celebrities, rich and attractive people, our boss, our parents, and more. Then we look down on criminals, the homeless, and the mentally ill. What is this ranking system we commonly call Social Status? How is it created, who creates it,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We look up to celebrities, rich and attractive people, our boss, our parents, and more. Then we look down on criminals, the homeless, and the mentally ill. What is this ranking system we commonly call Social Status? How is it created, who creates it, and most importantly, what is it doing to us? If you've ever felt like the least worthy person in a social situation, prepare for some truth as to why you feel that way (and what you should do about it).]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3534</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6e1a2520f8131b13c70793898be4a66f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#32] Give Up Your Identity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/32-give-up-your-identity--64783678</link><description><![CDATA[Most people try to label themselves as succinctly as possible. These identity labels come with an unwritten set of rules, standards and boundaries. Whatever the identity, the label is a summary of the rules you must follow to remain true to “yourself.” We believe in our identities only because of a massive filtering out of evidence - both passively and actively - to avoid acknowledging the simple truth: That  we’re not identifiable.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/328055930</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jun 2017 19:10:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783678/328055930_thebrojo_give_up_your_identity.mp3" length="15861968" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people try to label themselves as succinctly as possible. These identity labels come with an unwritten set of rules, standards and boundaries. Whatever the identity, the label is a summary of the rules you must follow to remain true to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people try to label themselves as succinctly as possible. These identity labels come with an unwritten set of rules, standards and boundaries. Whatever the identity, the label is a summary of the rules you must follow to remain true to “yourself.” We believe in our identities only because of a massive filtering out of evidence - both passively and actively - to avoid acknowledging the simple truth: That  we’re not identifiable.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>992</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0da41222ad9629cf111d66139c48fa02.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#31] Expectations: The Secret to Why You're Never Satisfied</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/31-expectations-the-secret-to-why-you-re-never-satisfied--64783712</link><description><![CDATA[If something exceeds your expectations, you're happy. If it doesn't, you're disappointed, upset and anxious. So, given that you set your own expectations, we see a great opportunity for you to gain more autonomy over your enjoyment of life. Let's explore what an expectation is, how it's created, and what you could be doing differently about this whole process.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/326239923</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2017 16:41:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783712/326239923_thebrojo_expectations_the_secret_to_why_youre_never_satisfied.mp3" length="35293308" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If something exceeds your expectations, you're happy. If it doesn't, you're disappointed, upset and anxious. So, given that you set your own expectations, we see a great opportunity for you to gain more autonomy over your enjoyment of life. Let's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If something exceeds your expectations, you're happy. If it doesn't, you're disappointed, upset and anxious. So, given that you set your own expectations, we see a great opportunity for you to gain more autonomy over your enjoyment of life. Let's explore what an expectation is, how it's created, and what you could be doing differently about this whole process.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2206</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fe009729d56902b8950f2db14b7bf11c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#30] The Pointless Pursuit of Finding Your Purpose</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/30-the-pointless-pursuit-of-finding-your-purpose--64783719</link><description><![CDATA[From early childhood we start receiving the message that we need a purpose in life; a single goal that we are supposed to feel passionate about and chase with unrelenting vigour. What if this is actually counter-productive to finding meaning in every single moment, because it keeps us focused on the fictional future? In this episode we explore how to create a meaningful life one second at a time]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/325042060</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2017 16:12:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783719/325042060_thebrojo_the_pointless_pursuit_of_finding_your_purpose.mp3" length="45308864" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>From early childhood we start receiving the message that we need a purpose in life; a single goal that we are supposed to feel passionate about and chase with unrelenting vigour. What if this is actually counter-productive to finding meaning in every...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[From early childhood we start receiving the message that we need a purpose in life; a single goal that we are supposed to feel passionate about and chase with unrelenting vigour. What if this is actually counter-productive to finding meaning in every single moment, because it keeps us focused on the fictional future? In this episode we explore how to create a meaningful life one second at a time]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2832</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1e53198e362d0c6278b007e13c0d3d3b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#29] How to Lead a Conversation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/29-how-to-lead-a-conversation--64783679</link><description><![CDATA[Most people are passive in their interactions, while others are overly controlling and dominant. Leadership has nothing to do with either of these states of being. Leading a conversation is about expressing truthfulness without attempted manipulation, followed by opening up a space for others to contribute, and listening to them attentively while they speak. Check out this short episode to learn more]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/323903263</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2017 11:44:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783679/323903263_thebrojo_how_to_lead_a_conversation.mp3" length="12845974" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people are passive in their interactions, while others are overly controlling and dominant. Leadership has nothing to do with either of these states of being. Leading a conversation is about expressing truthfulness without attempted manipulation,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people are passive in their interactions, while others are overly controlling and dominant. Leadership has nothing to do with either of these states of being. Leading a conversation is about expressing truthfulness without attempted manipulation, followed by opening up a space for others to contribute, and listening to them attentively while they speak. Check out this short episode to learn more]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>803</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b44798c3a2ff2015976580e2e74f1b20.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#27] Getting Past A Week From Hell, with Richard Phu</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/27-getting-past-a-week-from-hell-with-richard-phu--64783668</link><description><![CDATA[We all have weeks that just do not go our way, or are filled with heartbreak, failure and confusion. These are unavoidable. What can be influenced, however, is how we react to and deal with weeks such as these. Introducing Confidence Coach and Founder of the Forge Your Life Podcast, Richard Phu. In this true-life episode we explore how Richard was able to cope with a week that included a major career change, a break-up with a fiancee and so much more.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/321717193</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 May 2017 11:23:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783668/321717193_thebrojo_getting_past_a_week_from_hell_with_richard_phu.mp3" length="51369690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all have weeks that just do not go our way, or are filled with heartbreak, failure and confusion. These are unavoidable. What can be influenced, however, is how we react to and deal with weeks such as these. Introducing Confidence Coach and Founder...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have weeks that just do not go our way, or are filled with heartbreak, failure and confusion. These are unavoidable. What can be influenced, however, is how we react to and deal with weeks such as these. Introducing Confidence Coach and Founder of the Forge Your Life Podcast, Richard Phu. In this true-life episode we explore how Richard was able to cope with a week that included a major career change, a break-up with a fiancee and so much more.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3211</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/368661f1d1d12cf4d28ce4ade7f04cbf.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#26] Everyone is Full Of Shit</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/26-everyone-is-full-of-shit--64783716</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks to the internet, we are the generation who gets to see a full, unmoderated view of how full of shit everyone is. Sometimes it beggars belief how insecure, irrational and just plain misinformed a majority of the world seems to be. It’s a big deal. Most of who ‘you’ are gets created through the influence of others. There is no such thing as objective independence. As soon as you come into contact with another human, they affect you. This cannot be prevented. So let's look at how to reduce the impact bullshit has on your decision-making.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/320677629</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2017 13:47:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783716/320677629_thebrojo_everyone_is_full_of_shit.mp3" length="11360965" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Thanks to the internet, we are the generation who gets to see a full, unmoderated view of how full of shit everyone is. Sometimes it beggars belief how insecure, irrational and just plain misinformed a majority of the world seems to be. It’s a big...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Thanks to the internet, we are the generation who gets to see a full, unmoderated view of how full of shit everyone is. Sometimes it beggars belief how insecure, irrational and just plain misinformed a majority of the world seems to be. It’s a big deal. Most of who ‘you’ are gets created through the influence of others. There is no such thing as objective independence. As soon as you come into contact with another human, they affect you. This cannot be prevented. So let's look at how to reduce the impact bullshit has on your decision-making.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>711</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/532b3cf14b6a6452b6e5c1a97e3b6b7b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#25] Creating A Nothing To Lose Mindset</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/25-creating-a-nothing-to-lose-mindset--64783669</link><description><![CDATA[Neediness is the enemy to success. Creating a Nothing to Lose mindset means letting go of your emotional attachment to things that don't matter, and behaving as a person who is already complete. Sounds complex but it's as simple as taking a small risk. Listen to this episode for more on how you can behave like a confidence person who has nothing to lose and everything to gain.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/319492627</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 Apr 2017 00:15:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783669/319492627_thebrojo_creating_a_nothing_to_lose_mindset.mp3" length="42811558" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Neediness is the enemy to success. Creating a Nothing to Lose mindset means letting go of your emotional attachment to things that don't matter, and behaving as a person who is already complete. Sounds complex but it's as simple as taking a small...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Neediness is the enemy to success. Creating a Nothing to Lose mindset means letting go of your emotional attachment to things that don't matter, and behaving as a person who is already complete. Sounds complex but it's as simple as taking a small risk. Listen to this episode for more on how you can behave like a confidence person who has nothing to lose and everything to gain.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2676</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2e7754554dae507c91df808aa3cb8bef.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#24] Finding Confidence After Severe Bullying, with MJ Fitzpatrick</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/24-finding-confidence-after-severe-bullying-with-mj-fitzpatrick--64783676</link><description><![CDATA[Meeting MJ Fitzpatrick these days, you'd struggle to believe he ever had any self-worth issues. He's successful. He's socially confident. He's extroverted, with a loving wife and thriving coaching business. But you're seeing the end result of years of pain, suffering and growth. If you know what it's like to be bullied as a child, you need to listen to this inspirational true story of recovery.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/318410625</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Apr 2017 06:53:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783676/318410625_thebrojo_finding_confidence_after_severe_bullying_with_mj_fitzpatrick.mp3" length="59987590" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Meeting MJ Fitzpatrick these days, you'd struggle to believe he ever had any self-worth issues. He's successful. He's socially confident. He's extroverted, with a loving wife and thriving coaching business. But you're seeing the end result of years of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Meeting MJ Fitzpatrick these days, you'd struggle to believe he ever had any self-worth issues. He's successful. He's socially confident. He's extroverted, with a loving wife and thriving coaching business. But you're seeing the end result of years of pain, suffering and growth. If you know what it's like to be bullied as a child, you need to listen to this inspirational true story of recovery.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3750</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fe58927c4b5f6097e0e53ff3e007dc8d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#23] How To Tell A Girl You Like Her</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/23-how-to-tell-a-girl-you-like-her--64783718</link><description><![CDATA[There are 3 common mistakes guys make when it comes to showing attraction towards someone. These mistakes cause them to express themselves indirectly, and come across as needy and desperate. It doesn't have to be this way! In this episode we look at how you can create the courage needed to be shamelessly honest about your interest in someone without sounding creepy.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/318174572</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2017 00:37:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783718/318174572_thebrojo_how_to_tell_a_girl_you_like_her.mp3" length="12134608" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are 3 common mistakes guys make when it comes to showing attraction towards someone. These mistakes cause them to express themselves indirectly, and come across as needy and desperate. It doesn't have to be this way! In this episode we look at...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are 3 common mistakes guys make when it comes to showing attraction towards someone. These mistakes cause them to express themselves indirectly, and come across as needy and desperate. It doesn't have to be this way! In this episode we look at how you can create the courage needed to be shamelessly honest about your interest in someone without sounding creepy.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>759</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b2e4e6e40c65824ce87ec684c345017b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#22] Recovering from Nice Guy Syndrome - the true story, with Simon Cottrell</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/22-recovering-from-nice-guy-syndrome-the-true-story-with-simon-cottrell--64783720</link><description><![CDATA[Simon Cottrell was the typical Mr Nice Guy. As a result, he suffered from superficial connections, low self-worth, and a lack of self-respect. Then, he decided to make a change. Listen to his story, as he delves into the depths of bullying and self-loathing through to discovering who he really was. This one is a must listen for all recovering people-pleasers and Nice Guys.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/316923738</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2017 01:34:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783720/316923738_thebrojo_the_real_life_story_of_a_recovering_nice_guy_with_simon_cottrell.mp3" length="51240541" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Simon Cottrell was the typical Mr Nice Guy. As a result, he suffered from superficial connections, low self-worth, and a lack of self-respect. Then, he decided to make a change. Listen to his story, as he delves into the depths of bullying and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Simon Cottrell was the typical Mr Nice Guy. As a result, he suffered from superficial connections, low self-worth, and a lack of self-respect. Then, he decided to make a change. Listen to his story, as he delves into the depths of bullying and self-loathing through to discovering who he really was. This one is a must listen for all recovering people-pleasers and Nice Guys.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3203</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/63fff78959732244772e74effa84642d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#21] How to Stop Being Needy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-how-to-stop-being-needy--64783708</link><description><![CDATA[There has only ever been ONE thing stopping you from truly enjoying life and creating what you want: Neediness. When you chase something, it runs away. When you try, you create failure. In this episode, we dig into the psychology of neediness and explore practical, realistic methods for reducing it, to allow you to experience deep connections and to actually get what you want (sometimes)..]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/315790861</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Apr 2017 03:50:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783708/315790861_thebrojo_how_to_stop_being_needy.mp3" length="46166098" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There has only ever been ONE thing stopping you from truly enjoying life and creating what you want: Neediness. When you chase something, it runs away. When you try, you create failure. In this episode, we dig into the psychology of neediness and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There has only ever been ONE thing stopping you from truly enjoying life and creating what you want: Neediness. When you chase something, it runs away. When you try, you create failure. In this episode, we dig into the psychology of neediness and explore practical, realistic methods for reducing it, to allow you to experience deep connections and to actually get what you want (sometimes)..]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2886</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/833e7845e372faa3de2cfeb2321c79ea.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#20] From Depression &amp; Social Anxiety to Powerful Confidence, with Justin Stenstrom</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-from-depression-social-anxiety-to-powerful-confidence-with-justin-stenstrom--64783681</link><description><![CDATA[When you're at your lowest low it can seem inconceivable that your life might one day be fully satisfying, enjoyable and an inspiration to others. Meet Justin Stenstrom, CEO of Elite Man Magazine and an all-round remarkable human being. In this vulnerable interview he shares his story on how he went from suicidal, depressed and crippled by social anxiety, to the genuine, loving and powerfully confident man he is today.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/314631221</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 02:02:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783681/314631221_thebrojo_from_suicidal_depression_social_anxiety_to_powerful_confidence_with_justin_stenstrom.mp3" length="35325491" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you're at your lowest low it can seem inconceivable that your life might one day be fully satisfying, enjoyable and an inspiration to others. Meet Justin Stenstrom, CEO of Elite Man Magazine and an all-round remarkable human being. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you're at your lowest low it can seem inconceivable that your life might one day be fully satisfying, enjoyable and an inspiration to others. Meet Justin Stenstrom, CEO of Elite Man Magazine and an all-round remarkable human being. In this vulnerable interview he shares his story on how he went from suicidal, depressed and crippled by social anxiety, to the genuine, loving and powerfully confident man he is today.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2208</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ba800668ddd5a43e46e5fe6a601a45c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#19] Managing Manipulation: How to Prevent Emotional Abuse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-managing-manipulation-how-to-prevent-emotional-abuse--64783724</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Every time you interact with someone, they influence you. Some people do this on purpose. Some do it to get something from you, even if it harms you. Some even do it to control you, just for their own amusement. This is what we often refer to as harmful manipulation. In this episode, I share what 7 years of battling manipulative criminal offenders for the Department of Corrections taught me about managing manipulation. If you want to make sure no one can ever get inside your head to control you, check this out.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/313349855</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2017 05:42:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783724/313349855_thebrojo_managing_manipulation_how_to_prevent_emotional_abuse.mp3" length="61860048" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ Every time you interact with someone, they influence you. Some people do this on purpose. Some do it to get something from you, even if it harms you. Some even do it to control you, just for their own amusement. This is what we often refer to as harmful manipulation. In this episode, I share what 7 years of battling manipulative criminal offenders for the Department of Corrections taught me about managing manipulation. If you want to make sure no one can ever get inside your head to control you, check this out.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3867</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d5c7c1c42194d90cd3a31bd44e04bfb7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#18] Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness, with Myke Macapinlac</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/18-overcoming-social-anxiety-and-shyness-with-myke-macapinlac--64783697</link><description><![CDATA[Myke Macapinlac is the Program Director of Social Confidence Mastery, he helps shy guys succeed socially so they can create the lifestyle they deserve. In this vulnerable interview he shares his true backstory to overcoming crippling shyness and social anxiety, dealing with self-worth doubts and Asian cultural restrictions. Be prepared to hear the truth, and check out more about Myke here - www.socialconfidencemastery.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/312464014</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2017 01:16:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783697/312464014_thebrojo_myke_macapinlac_on_overcoming_social_anxiety_and_shyness.mp3" length="51913455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Myke Macapinlac is the Program Director of Social Confidence Mastery, he helps shy guys succeed socially so they can create the lifestyle they deserve. In this vulnerable interview he shares his true backstory to overcoming crippling shyness and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Myke Macapinlac is the Program Director of Social Confidence Mastery, he helps shy guys succeed socially so they can create the lifestyle they deserve. In this vulnerable interview he shares his true backstory to overcoming crippling shyness and social anxiety, dealing with self-worth doubts and Asian cultural restrictions. Be prepared to hear the truth, and check out more about Myke here - www.socialconfidencemastery.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3245</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ac77fe8c907f2e2f19149a27df34e896.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#17] A Man's Guide To The Perfect First Date</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-a-man-s-guide-to-the-perfect-first-date--64783722</link><description><![CDATA[For most, a first date is a high-anxiety interview with a potential mate, who has the power to destroy your self-worth. Not the most fun idea for a night out, right? What if dating didn't have to be this way? What if we're creating pressure where there doesn't need to be? If you're a single guy on the dating scene, this one may save you a tonne of anxiety. Enjoy!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/310928426</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2017 04:23:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783722/310928426_thebrojo_a_mans_guide_to_the_perfect_first_date.mp3" length="44826121" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>For most, a first date is a high-anxiety interview with a potential mate, who has the power to destroy your self-worth. Not the most fun idea for a night out, right? What if dating didn't have to be this way? What if we're creating pressure where...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[For most, a first date is a high-anxiety interview with a potential mate, who has the power to destroy your self-worth. Not the most fun idea for a night out, right? What if dating didn't have to be this way? What if we're creating pressure where there doesn't need to be? If you're a single guy on the dating scene, this one may save you a tonne of anxiety. Enjoy!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2802</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c3f8e010b6084fd219cce386fccda25b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#16] Let Them Hate You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/16-let-them-hate-you--64783682</link><description><![CDATA[Your fear of other people hating you has ruled your decision-making in the social sphere your entire life. It's subtle; things like being polite, hiding your feelings, and agreeing just to keep the peace. In a world that seems afraid of honest connection, what would it be like to allow people to hate you, so that you can find the ones who love you? Let's figure it out together.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/309707426</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2017 00:41:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783682/309707426_thebrojo_let_them_hate_you.mp3" length="46263901" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your fear of other people hating you has ruled your decision-making in the social sphere your entire life. It's subtle; things like being polite, hiding your feelings, and agreeing just to keep the peace. In a world that seems afraid of honest...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your fear of other people hating you has ruled your decision-making in the social sphere your entire life. It's subtle; things like being polite, hiding your feelings, and agreeing just to keep the peace. In a world that seems afraid of honest connection, what would it be like to allow people to hate you, so that you can find the ones who love you? Let's figure it out together.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2892</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7f32dda5b91e4e39a98fc8b116360af2.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#15] Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-overcoming-nice-guy-syndrome--64783723</link><description><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You've been told you're a nice guy your whole life. You bend over backwards trying to make sure everyone is happy, particularly women. You feel like the last good guy alive and resent living in the "friendzone" as your reward. But are you really as nice as you think? What darkness lurks beneath all that helpful behaviour? Let's talk - Nice Guy to Nice Guy - about the truth of our intentions, and how to be more assertively confident, honest and powerful men.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/308604555</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2017 04:26:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783723/308604555_thebrojo_overcoming_nice_guy_syndrome.mp3" length="56899708" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book  “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity   If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol  ------------------------ You've been told you're a nice guy your whole life. You bend over backwards trying to make sure everyone is happy, particularly women. You feel like the last good guy alive and resent living in the "friendzone" as your reward. But are you really as nice as you think? What darkness lurks beneath all that helpful behaviour? Let's talk - Nice Guy to Nice Guy - about the truth of our intentions, and how to be more assertively confident, honest and powerful men.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3557</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3c6c7aef64820e9788146a0d9f231920.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#14] How to Set Boundaries through Healthy Confrontations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/14-how-to-set-boundaries-through-healthy-confrontations--64783685</link><description><![CDATA[Most people deal with confrontation in unhelpful ways. You either avoid it and sugar-coat it, leaving yourself to get walked all over. Or you explode and judge, destroying relationships and connections. Thankfully, there is a way to assert yourself and respect your boundaries without causing World War 3. Listen to this to learn all about it]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/307445249</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2017 02:10:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783685/307445249_thebrojo_how_to_set_boundaries_through_healthy_confrontations.mp3" length="47414542" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people deal with confrontation in unhelpful ways. You either avoid it and sugar-coat it, leaving yourself to get walked all over. Or you explode and judge, destroying relationships and connections. Thankfully, there is a way to assert yourself...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people deal with confrontation in unhelpful ways. You either avoid it and sugar-coat it, leaving yourself to get walked all over. Or you explode and judge, destroying relationships and connections. Thankfully, there is a way to assert yourself and respect your boundaries without causing World War 3. Listen to this to learn all about it]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2964</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/60475025897539e1b6c098fb2cb45ac3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#13] Balancing Investment and Effort in a Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-balancing-investment-and-effort-in-a-relationship--64783713</link><description><![CDATA[Balance investment of effort, attention, love, money and time in a relationship is crucial to it's success. Yet so many of us are in relationships or friendships that are imbalanced. One person is doing too much while the other is holding back. Let's explore how to live by the value of Respect in a relationship.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/306459992</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2017 23:42:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783713/306459992_thebrojo_balancing_investment_in_a_relationship.mp3" length="49155760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Balance investment of effort, attention, love, money and time in a relationship is crucial to it's success. Yet so many of us are in relationships or friendships that are imbalanced. One person is doing too much while the other is holding back. Let's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Balance investment of effort, attention, love, money and time in a relationship is crucial to it's success. Yet so many of us are in relationships or friendships that are imbalanced. One person is doing too much while the other is holding back. Let's explore how to live by the value of Respect in a relationship.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3073</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f2163549be379650549580de63c0f5fd.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[BOP #12] How To Find The One</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bop-12-how-to-find-the-one--64783721</link><description><![CDATA[All your life you've been fed the story about finding the one, and settling down to a happily-ever-after dream life. How's that working out for you? Before you start chasing people in a needy, desperate attempt to fit in with society's expectations, listen to this]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/305344757</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2017 01:55:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783721/305344757_thebrojo_how_to_find_the_one.mp3" length="42099355" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>All your life you've been fed the story about finding the one, and settling down to a happily-ever-after dream life. How's that working out for you? Before you start chasing people in a needy, desperate attempt to fit in with society's expectations,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[All your life you've been fed the story about finding the one, and settling down to a happily-ever-after dream life. How's that working out for you? Before you start chasing people in a needy, desperate attempt to fit in with society's expectations, listen to this]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2632</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c527d67ff29b6bb40298b8eba23dc205.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#11] How I Got A Girlfriend</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-how-i-got-a-girlfriend--64783688</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered what it would be like to just BE YOURSELF from the very first second you meet someone, and then have that form into a relationship? Most advice out there encourages some form of strategy, faking it, or manipulation. Let's explore what relationship building looks like when it's completely authentic.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/304226938</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2017 03:36:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783688/304226938_thebrojo_how_i_got_a_girlfriend.mp3" length="63605863" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever wondered what it would be like to just BE YOURSELF from the very first second you meet someone, and then have that form into a relationship? Most advice out there encourages some form of strategy, faking it, or manipulation. Let's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered what it would be like to just BE YOURSELF from the very first second you meet someone, and then have that form into a relationship? Most advice out there encourages some form of strategy, faking it, or manipulation. Let's explore what relationship building looks like when it's completely authentic.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3976</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/014514be450fa40bbca384e4b38bd953.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#10] Why Men Aren't Initiating Sex</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-why-men-aren-t-initiating-sex--64783698</link><description><![CDATA[We face an extremely uncomfortable epidemic. We live in an age where men are being taught to be afraid of being masculine. Caught in a no-win situation, between not wanting to be a bastard and not wanting to be weak, some men are falling apart sexually. Not just some; MANY. Let's courageously explore the dark truth behind the symptom of lacking leadership in the bedroom, including my own personal battle with this...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/304057507</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2017 02:57:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783698/304057507_thebrojo_why_men_arent_initiating_sex.mp3" length="51196655" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We face an extremely uncomfortable epidemic. We live in an age where men are being taught to be afraid of being masculine. Caught in a no-win situation, between not wanting to be a bastard and not wanting to be weak, some men are falling apart...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We face an extremely uncomfortable epidemic. We live in an age where men are being taught to be afraid of being masculine. Caught in a no-win situation, between not wanting to be a bastard and not wanting to be weak, some men are falling apart sexually. Not just some; MANY. Let's courageously explore the dark truth behind the symptom of lacking leadership in the bedroom, including my own personal battle with this...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3200</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c527d67ff29b6bb40298b8eba23dc205.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#9] Dealing with Negative Thoughts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/9-dealing-with-negative-thoughts--64783715</link><description><![CDATA[So much self-development advice out there tells you to control your thoughts because they're too negative. But what if this is what causes you suffering in the first place? Let's explore what it's like to let go of controlling your "negative" thoughts and take a more helpful approach to dealing with them]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/302906317</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2017 03:20:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783715/302906317_thebrojo_dealing_with_negative_thoughts.mp3" length="55304358" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So much self-development advice out there tells you to control your thoughts because they're too negative. But what if this is what causes you suffering in the first place? Let's explore what it's like to let go of controlling your "negative" thoughts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So much self-development advice out there tells you to control your thoughts because they're too negative. But what if this is what causes you suffering in the first place? Let's explore what it's like to let go of controlling your "negative" thoughts and take a more helpful approach to dealing with them]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3457</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54d53c66c3533e8a508479647c37717b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#8] Living by Your Values</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/8-living-by-your-values--64783714</link><description><![CDATA[We spend our lives chasing outcomes, only to convince ourselves that we have value. What if we could pursue values directly? Discovering your core values and learning to live by them is the key to confidence, authentic integrity. In this session, we explore how it's done.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/297821904</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2016 04:25:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783714/297821904_thebrojo_living_by_your_values.mp3" length="54753203" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We spend our lives chasing outcomes, only to convince ourselves that we have value. What if we could pursue values directly? Discovering your core values and learning to live by them is the key to confidence, authentic integrity. In this session, we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We spend our lives chasing outcomes, only to convince ourselves that we have value. What if we could pursue values directly? Discovering your core values and learning to live by them is the key to confidence, authentic integrity. In this session, we explore how it's done.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3423</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dc8ae60761e023b11e209fbf8065ac13.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#7] A Beginners Guide To Self - Development</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-a-beginners-guide-to-self-development--64783717</link><description><![CDATA[We all want to improve ourselves, but often our path is completely trial and error. After many years supporting others in their development, I've put together some key lessons any beginner can use to start ahead of the game. This is also going to be helpful for self-development veterans in staying on the path and picking up on poor habits.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/297465821</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2016 01:36:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783717/297465821_thebrojo_a_beginners_guide_to_self_development.mp3" length="53776014" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all want to improve ourselves, but often our path is completely trial and error. After many years supporting others in their development, I've put together some key lessons any beginner can use to start ahead of the game. This is also going to be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all want to improve ourselves, but often our path is completely trial and error. After many years supporting others in their development, I've put together some key lessons any beginner can use to start ahead of the game. This is also going to be helpful for self-development veterans in staying on the path and picking up on poor habits.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3361</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/248af3e3c654bd56ee15bb203fff4480.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#6] John Cooper Presents Nothing To Lose, with Dan Munro</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-john-cooper-presents-nothing-to-lose-with-dan-munro--64783703</link><description><![CDATA[John Cooper helps celebrate the publication of Dan Munro's 2nd book - Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs.  Together, they discuss how to achieve the powerful mental state of having nothing to lose in a social context. Increase your dating, love and friendship opportunities immediately with this new way of thinking!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/296774982</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2016 02:59:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783703/296774982_thebrojo_john_cooper_presents_nothing_to_lose_with_dan_munro.mp3" length="118093668" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>John Cooper helps celebrate the publication of Dan Munro's 2nd book - Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs.  Together, they discuss how to achieve the powerful mental state of having nothing to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[John Cooper helps celebrate the publication of Dan Munro's 2nd book - Nothing to Lose: Using Curiosity to Destroy Hesitation, Procrastination and Limiting Beliefs.  Together, they discuss how to achieve the powerful mental state of having nothing to lose in a social context. Increase your dating, love and friendship opportunities immediately with this new way of thinking!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3691</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9c290e663d9fa32f3def818fb15c1423.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#5] Anxiety Is Awesome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-anxiety-is-awesome--64783699</link><description><![CDATA[All your life you've been conditioned to believe it's bad to be anxious, afraid or nervous. But what if it's not? What if you're only suffering with anxiety comes from thinking it's bad? Let's look at how anxiety contributes to your life, and how to make the best use of it]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/296566999</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 21:24:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783699/296566999_thebrojo_anxiety_is_awesome.mp3" length="33433390" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>All your life you've been conditioned to believe it's bad to be anxious, afraid or nervous. But what if it's not? What if you're only suffering with anxiety comes from thinking it's bad? Let's look at how anxiety contributes to your life, and how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[All your life you've been conditioned to believe it's bad to be anxious, afraid or nervous. But what if it's not? What if you're only suffering with anxiety comes from thinking it's bad? Let's look at how anxiety contributes to your life, and how to make the best use of it]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2090</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/adb80a60b612c8962c0124e1aa8bf18a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#4] Eliminating Rejection from Your Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/4-eliminating-rejection-from-your-life--64783701</link><description><![CDATA[Your fear of rejection probably holds you back socially - and perhaps even in your career - more than anything else. Imagine if it was all in your mind, that rejection didn't exist and you could free yourself from the fear of it. Let's find out how...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/296213401</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2016 23:14:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783701/296213401_thebrojo_brojo_online_015_eliminating_rejection.mp3" length="96650690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your fear of rejection probably holds you back socially - and perhaps even in your career - more than anything else. Imagine if it was all in your mind, that rejection didn't exist and you could free yourself from the fear of it. Let's find out how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your fear of rejection probably holds you back socially - and perhaps even in your career - more than anything else. Imagine if it was all in your mind, that rejection didn't exist and you could free yourself from the fear of it. Let's find out how...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3021</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/893f73649f205618d821b1e7d685ef85.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#3] Letting Go Of Outcomes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-letting-go-of-outcomes--64783725</link><description><![CDATA[Your emotional attachment to results and outcomes can destroy your enjoyment of life. Imagine if you just lived for the moment, free from the fear of failure or success. How would it be different? 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Let's find out..]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3321</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1d436453f67a62123234304256e300b4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#2] Increasing Self Awareness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/2-increasing-self-awareness--64783706</link><description><![CDATA[Without self-awareness, there is no growth. Most of what you think you know about yourself is false. In this episode we explore psychological tactics that allow you to dive into the subconscious part of your brain, so that you can better understand your decisions and behaviour, and improve this process in the future. Let's explore who you REALLY are, underneath the story you tell yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/295406652</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2016 01:06:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783706/295406652_thebrojo_increasing_self_awareness.mp3" length="104811761" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Without self-awareness, there is no growth. Most of what you think you know about yourself is false. In this episode we explore psychological tactics that allow you to dive into the subconscious part of your brain, so that you can better understand...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Without self-awareness, there is no growth. Most of what you think you know about yourself is false. In this episode we explore psychological tactics that allow you to dive into the subconscious part of your brain, so that you can better understand your decisions and behaviour, and improve this process in the future. Let's explore who you REALLY are, underneath the story you tell yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3276</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1bb1c4a48e0d26efb1a6910fc6f891a8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>[#1] Staying Out Of The Friendzone</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-staying-out-of-the-friendzone--64783677</link><description><![CDATA[A no-holds barred responsible look at the toxic nature of "friendzones," how they are created, how they are different from real friendships, and how to prevent them from happening.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:soundcloud,2010:tracks/295213270</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2016 22:19:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64783677/295213270_thebrojo_staying_out_of_the_friendzone.mp3" length="21461367" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Dan</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A no-holds barred responsible look at the toxic nature of "friendzones," how they are created, how they are different from real friendships, and how to prevent them from happening.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A no-holds barred responsible look at the toxic nature of "friendzones," how they are created, how they are different from real friendships, and how to prevent them from happening.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1342</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/06cd43a4a92cc8c1153175e96d68b56c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
