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Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! ]]>enRelationshipsCopyright Venus & Eclipsehttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/140f0cb0b09a017944972609c6d41a93.jpghttps://linktr.ee/yhmacSun, 07 Dec 2025 09:03:11 +0000Venus & EclipseVenus & Eclipsehello@youhadmeatcheesepodcast.comAfter dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button. Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness...
Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! ]]>trueepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/luna-s-experience-as-a-late-bloomer-the-one-with-the-sugar-mama--68926401What happens when the world around you is exploring sexuality, while you are not?

In this episode, Luna opens up about how culture, religion, and limited sexual education shaped her decision to hold back in her teens and early adulthood. She shares what it felt like to watch others explore while she stayed on the sidelines, and what finally pushed her to begin her own journey of sexual exploration in her 30s.






















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68926401Sun, 07 Dec 2025 09:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat happens when the world around you is exploring sexuality, while you are not? In this episode, Luna opens up about how culture, religion, and limited sexual education shaped her decision to hold back in her teens and early adulthood. She shares...What happens when the world around you is exploring sexuality, while you are not?

In this episode, Luna opens up about how culture, religion, and limited sexual education shaped her decision to hold back in her teens and early adulthood. She shares what it felt like to watch others explore while she stayed on the sidelines, and what finally pushed her to begin her own journey of sexual exploration in her 30s.






















]]>3665adulthood,culture,education,religion,sexualitytrue18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/venus-s-journey-with-sex-toy-the-one-with-the-rocketship--68699877From first-time curiosity to ongoing exploration, Venus opens up about her journey with sex toys.

In this episode, she shares what it was like trying one for the first time, the toys she’s experimented with along the way, what works (and what doesn’t), and how they play a role in her gender euphoria. 


















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68699877Sun, 23 Nov 2025 09:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseFrom first-time curiosity to ongoing exploration, Venus opens up about her journey with sex toys. In this episode, she shares what it was like trying one for the first time, the toys she’s experimented with along the way, what works (and what...From first-time curiosity to ongoing exploration, Venus opens up about her journey with sex toys.

In this episode, she shares what it was like trying one for the first time, the toys she’s experimented with along the way, what works (and what doesn’t), and how they play a role in her gender euphoria. 


















]]>2221euphoria,joy,queer,rainbow,sex,sexuality,toys,transtrue17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/porn-the-one-with-the-byo-porn--68481973From awkward first encounters to evolving preferences, we open up about our personal experiences with porn.

In this episode, we talk about how it was first introduced to us, what we enjoy (and what we don’t), and how our views have shifted over time. Honest, curious, and a little spicy.




















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68481973Sun, 09 Nov 2025 09:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseFrom awkward first encounters to evolving preferences, we open up about our personal experiences with porn. In this episode, we talk about how it was first introduced to us, what we enjoy (and what we don’t), and how our views have shifted over...From awkward first encounters to evolving preferences, we open up about our personal experiences with porn.

In this episode, we talk about how it was first introduced to us, what we enjoy (and what we don’t), and how our views have shifted over time. Honest, curious, and a little spicy.




















]]>2475amature-porn,experiences,lgbtqia+,porn,queer,rainbow,sexualitytrue16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/luna-s-journey-with-boundaries-the-one-with-the-slap-on-the-bottom--68280972What happens when you realise it is time to start saying no?

In this episode, Luna opens up about her personal journey with boundaries, and shares where she finds her inspiration to keep setting and honouring them. She talks about the place or absence of boundaries in her country of origin, what led her to recognise the need for them, and the challenges of putting them into practice.




















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68280972Sun, 26 Oct 2025 09:00:17 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat happens when you realise it is time to start saying no? In this episode, Luna opens up about her personal journey with boundaries, and shares where she finds her inspiration to keep setting and honouring them. She talks about the place or...What happens when you realise it is time to start saying no?

In this episode, Luna opens up about her personal journey with boundaries, and shares where she finds her inspiration to keep setting and honouring them. She talks about the place or absence of boundaries in her country of origin, what led her to recognise the need for them, and the challenges of putting them into practice.




















]]>3683boundaries,chauvinism,children,feminism,hr,misoginy,self-carefalse15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hat-roulette-foodie-questions-the-one-with-the-deep-fried-brioche-buns--68103966From guilty pleasures to kitchen disasters, this Hat Roulette episode is all about food!

Join us as we pull foodie questions from the hat and chat about how our tastes have evolved, which cuisine we could live on forever, and the dishes that didn’t quite go as planned.

A little flavor, a little chaos, and a lot of laughter!
















































]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68103966Sun, 12 Oct 2025 09:00:15 +0000Venus & EclipseFrom guilty pleasures to kitchen disasters, this Hat Roulette episode is all about food! Join us as we pull foodie questions from the hat and chat about how our tastes have evolved, which cuisine we could live on forever, and the dishes that didn’t...From guilty pleasures to kitchen disasters, this Hat Roulette episode is all about food!

Join us as we pull foodie questions from the hat and chat about how our tastes have evolved, which cuisine we could live on forever, and the dishes that didn’t quite go as planned.

A little flavor, a little chaos, and a lot of laughter!
















































]]>3173cheese,cuisine,food,foodie,french,italian,queer,rainbowtrue14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/privilege-the-one-with-the-cleaning-ladies--67918725What does it really mean to be privileged?

In this episode, we unpack the nuances of privilege. How it shows up differently in our lives, the tension of being privileged in some areas while underprivileged in others, and our own experiences navigating the world through both lenses.




















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67918725Sun, 28 Sep 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat does it really mean to be privileged? In this episode, we unpack the nuances of privilege. How it shows up differently in our lives, the tension of being privileged in some areas while underprivileged in others, and our own experiences...What does it really mean to be privileged?

In this episode, we unpack the nuances of privilege. How it shows up differently in our lives, the tension of being privileged in some areas while underprivileged in others, and our own experiences navigating the world through both lenses.




















]]>2240privilege,rainbow,upbringingtrue13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/venus-s-journey-with-weed-the-one-with-the-double-edged-sword--67559410What happens when curiosity turns into a habit?

In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time. 




















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67559410Sun, 14 Sep 2025 10:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat happens when curiosity turns into a habit? In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time. What happens when curiosity turns into a habit?

In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time. 




















]]>2520alcohol,experience,journey,weedtrue12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hat-roulette-enfj-cliches-the-one-with-the-whipped-cream--67559306What is it really like to live be an ENFJ? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.

Together, we sort through which traits fit, which don’t, and how we actually experience life as two ENFJs.




















]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67559306Sun, 31 Aug 2025 10:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat is it really like to live be an ENFJ?  In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first. Together, we sort through which traits fit, which don’t,...What is it really like to live be an ENFJ? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.

Together, we sort through which traits fit, which don’t, and how we actually experience life as two ENFJs.




















]]>234916personalities,criticism,emotional,enfj,leadership,mindreading,myers-briggs,protagonisttrue11fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/acceptance-part-2-the-one-with-the-circus-act--67167816Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward. 

Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what comes first, being accepted by others or accepting ourselves? 

Let's explore the meaningful work of showing up with compassion, for ourselves and those around us.







]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67167816Sun, 17 Aug 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseBuilding on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward.  Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what comes first, being accepted by others or accepting...Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward. 

Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what comes first, being accepted by others or accepting ourselves? 

Let's explore the meaningful work of showing up with compassion, for ourselves and those around us.







]]>2343acceptance,compassion,connection,meaningful,queer,rainbow,truth,validation,wellbeingtrue10fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/acceptance-part-1-the-one-with-pineapple-on-pizza--67167774What does it mean to feel truly accepted?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invisible, and how differently things could have turned out had acceptance been present.

From wellbeing to relationships, let's unpack the deep impact of being welcomed as we are. 




]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67167774Sun, 03 Aug 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat does it mean to feel truly accepted? In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invisible, and how differently things could have turned...What does it mean to feel truly accepted?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invisible, and how differently things could have turned out had acceptance been present.

From wellbeing to relationships, let's unpack the deep impact of being welcomed as we are. 




]]>2340acceptance,connection,meaningful,queer,rainbow,relationships,validation,wellbeingtrue9fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eclipse-s-journey-with-pain-part-2-the-one-with-the-blankie--65391762Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse continue their raw conversation about Eclipse’s journey with chronic pain. 

This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things changed over the years. How the pain intensified, how unspoken pressures piled on, and how the weight of mental load and emotional labour brought everything to a halt. 

It is a raw look at what happens when your body keeps the score, and starts to shut down to make you listen.
 ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65391762Sun, 20 Jul 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseBuilding on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse continue their raw conversation about Eclipse’s journey with chronic pain.  This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things changed over the years. How the pain intensified,...Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse continue their raw conversation about Eclipse’s journey with chronic pain. 

This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things changed over the years. How the pain intensified, how unspoken pressures piled on, and how the weight of mental load and emotional labour brought everything to a halt. 

It is a raw look at what happens when your body keeps the score, and starts to shut down to make you listen.
 ]]>3239chronic,emotionallabor,fibromyalgia,mentalhealth,mentalload,pain,physicalhealth,raw,volnerable,wellbeingtrue8fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eclipse-s-journey-with-pain-part-1-the-one-with-tuesdays-from-hell--65391288In this deeply personal episode, Eclipse shares her journey through the early days of her chronic pain. 

Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences with unexplained symptoms, her interactions with medical professionals around it, and how chronic pain slowly took hold and became a new norm. 

Through this vulnerable conversation, we unpack the ongoing struggles, the possible roots of the pain, and the complex link between physical symptoms and emotional distress.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65391288Sun, 06 Jul 2025 10:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseIn this deeply personal episode, Eclipse shares her journey through the early days of her chronic pain.  Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences with unexplained symptoms, her interactions with...In this deeply personal episode, Eclipse shares her journey through the early days of her chronic pain. 

Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences with unexplained symptoms, her interactions with medical professionals around it, and how chronic pain slowly took hold and became a new norm. 

Through this vulnerable conversation, we unpack the ongoing struggles, the possible roots of the pain, and the complex link between physical symptoms and emotional distress.]]>2268chronic,deepconversation,distress,health,mentalhealth,pain,personal,physicalhealth,struggles,symptoms,volnerabletrue7fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hat-roulette-queer-cliches-the-one-with-the-ick--65391257Are queer love stories always tragic? Do all queer people have a coming out moment? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from labels and love, to struggles, activism, and whether being queer necessarily means being political. 

Nothing’s off the table!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65391257Sun, 22 Jun 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseAre queer love stories always tragic? Do all queer people have a coming out moment?  In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from labels and love, to struggles, activism, and...Are queer love stories always tragic? Do all queer people have a coming out moment? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from labels and love, to struggles, activism, and whether being queer necessarily means being political. 

Nothing’s off the table!]]>2368activism,clichés,comingout,labels,lgbtqia+,love,political,queer,rainbow,struggles,transition,upbringingtrue6fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-the-isolation-spiral-the-one-with-the-leap-of-faith--64946749Loneliness can feel like a trap, but how do you break free?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges they faced.

Most importantly, they share what helped them find their way back to connection.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64946749Sun, 08 Jun 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseLoneliness can feel like a trap, but how do you break free? In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges they faced. Most importantly, they share what...Loneliness can feel like a trap, but how do you break free?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges they faced.

Most importantly, they share what helped them find their way back to connection.]]>1921belonging,community,connection,emotional-wellbeing,growth,healing,isolation,lgbtqia+,loneliness,mental-health,opening-up,overcomingloneliness,personal-growth,queer,support-system,trauma,upbringing,vulnerability,wellbeingtrue5fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/venus-transition-part-2-the-one-with-tinder-and-the-colleague--64946404Coming out is one thing, doing it at work is a whole other ballgame. 

In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at work, and what it is really like to interview as a trans woman.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64946404Sun, 25 May 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseComing out is one thing, doing it at work is a whole other ballgame.  In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at work, and what it is really like to interview as a...Coming out is one thing, doing it at work is a whole other ballgame. 

In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at work, and what it is really like to interview as a trans woman.]]>2315authenticity,belonging,beyou,breakingbarriers,comingout,comingoutstory,diversity,inclusivity,interviews,lgbtqia+,queer,self-discovery,transgender,transjourney,trans-visibility,transwomentrue4fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/venus-transition-part-1-the-one-with-the-magical-toilet--64946315The journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is.

In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply cannot return from.

We also explore the struggles of isolation, the search for connection, and what it means to finally see yourself.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64946315Sun, 11 May 2025 10:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseThe journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is. In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply cannot return from. We also explore the struggles of...The journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is.

In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply cannot return from.

We also explore the struggles of isolation, the search for connection, and what it means to finally see yourself.]]>2251authenticity,belonging,comingout,diversity,eggcrackmoment,gender-identity,identity,lgbtqia+,new-beginnings,queer,queerstories,self-discovery,transgender,transjourney,trans-visibility,transwomentrue3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hat-roulette-immigrant-questions-the-one-with-the-seashells--64946271What is it really like to leave everything behind and start over?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.  

From culture shock to identity, belonging, and whether we would ever return to our countries of origin - no question is off-limits!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64946271Sun, 27 Apr 2025 10:00:08 +0000Venus & EclipseWhat is it really like to leave everything behind and start over? In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.   From culture shock to identity, belonging, and...What is it really like to leave everything behind and start over?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.  

From culture shock to identity, belonging, and whether we would ever return to our countries of origin - no question is off-limits!]]>1973adjustments,belonging,crossing-borders,culture-shock,expat-life,home,homeandaway,identity,immigration,immigration-stories,lgbtqia+,life-abroad,migration-journeys,new-beginnings,queertrue2fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/blood-tribe-vs-chosen-tribe-the-one-with-the-homemade-ice-cream--64943778Is the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose?

In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the people that surround us.

Does our blood tribe get a seat at the table, simply by being related to us, or do they need to earn their place?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64943778Sun, 13 Apr 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseIs the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose? In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the people that surround us. Does our blood tribe get a...Is the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose?

In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the people that surround us.

Does our blood tribe get a seat at the table, simply by being related to us, or do they need to earn their place?]]>3298authenticity,belonging,choice,chosenfamily,community,connections,family,family-dynamics,holidays,identity,lgbtqia+,personal-growth,queer,redefiningfamily,relationships,self-discovery,upbringingtrue1fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-venus-and-eclipse-podcast-premieres-sunday-april-13th-2025--64785591Enjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese!

After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it is celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64785591Thu, 13 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Venus & EclipseEnjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese! After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button. Join Venus and...Enjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese!

After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it is celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! ]]>97authenticity,deep-conversations,enfj,lgbtiqa+,mental-health,personal-stories,pride,queer,rainbow,relationships,self-discovery,sneakpeek,trailer,transgender,wellbeingfalsetrailer