https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-couplespeak-relationship-forum--6504162enMental HealthCopyright relationshipsadvicehttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e4ef33c4258f7341a0d7f809066b15d9.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-couplespeak-relationship-forum--6504162Fri, 31 Jan 2025 10:07:42 +0000relationshipsadvicerelationshipsadvicefeeds@spreaker.comSusan Lager is a psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach at her private practice, The Couples Center PLLC, in Portsmouth, NH. She is the Founder and Principal of Couplespeak™, the unique and innovative company providing exciting programs and...falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-the-amazing-impact-of-being-intentional-in-your-marriage--64076757http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2023/06/16/couplespeak-the-amazing-impact-of-being-intentional-in-your-marriageFri, 16 Jun 2023 21:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceLife, for the most part, doesn't just happen to us. We make thousands of choices, large and small, obvious and seemingly invisible, that color all our experiences. People in happy marriages didn't just happen to be "on the right line at the right...900being intentional,forgiveness,happy marriage,joyful living,managing expectationsfalse124fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-dog-love-in-your-life--64076826http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2023/06/15/couplespeak-dog-love-in-your-lifeThu, 15 Jun 2023 14:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan reveals how a dog generally impacts individuals and families, amplifying connection, empathy, vitality, and yes, work and cost as well. She also discusses the importance of rescue for not only dogs, but their humans as well.874canine,dogs,pet ownership,trust,unconditional lovefalse125fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-signs-that-you-re-being-gaslighted-and-what-you-can-do-about-it--64076758http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2021/05/06/couplespeak-signs-that-youre-being-gaslighted-and-what-you-can-do-about-itThu, 06 May 2021 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceGaslighting is unfortunately a fairly common abusive relationship dynamic predicated on manipulative power and control. In this brief episode Susan explores some of the underpinnings, tactics, dynamics, and strategies for coping and "holding onto...943abuse of power,abusive relationships,gaslighting,power and controlfalse123fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-giving-up-when-it-hurts-and-when-it-helps--64076788http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2021/04/01/couplespeak-giving-up--when-it-hurts-and-when-it-helpsThu, 01 Apr 2021 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute episode Susan discusses the process of losing traction and determination around comittments, why it happens, when it may be a positive thing, and when it may signal some personal or relational shortcomings. At the time of this...1058giving up,letting go,losing traction,quitting,rationalizationfalse122fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-are-we-just-too-different-when-is-your-relationship-unfixable--64076808http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2021/01/21/couplespeak-are-we-just-too-different-when-is-your-relationship-unfixableThu, 21 Jan 2021 17:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute episode Susan discusses differences and dynamics in relationships which clearly signal the probability of failure. Couples often wrestle with the issue of when efforts may be futile to reconcile or find more happiness and peace with...1142breaking up,irreconcilable differences,on the brink of divorce,polarization,relationship issuesfalse121fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-followup-not-just-surviving-but-thriving-amidst-covid-19--64076777http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2020/10/29/couplespeak-followup--not-just-surviving-but-thriving-amidst-covid-19Thu, 29 Oct 2020 23:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn a previous episode Susan delved into some strategies for living more fully amidst the Covid 19 pandemic. She  discussed the physical and emotional challenges everyone faces, as well as the symptoms people were experiencing only a few months into...1073covid 19,crisis,emotional health,loss,pandemicfalse120fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-strategies-for-living-more-fully-amidst-the-covid-19-pandemic--64076823http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2020/06/18/couplespeak-strategies-for-living-more-fully-amidst-the-covid-19-pandemicThu, 18 Jun 2020 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute episode Susan explores some of the most pressing issues most of us must face "hiding from death" in the Covid19 pandemic. She discusses the seemingly mundane, like the etiquette of mask wearing in public, to the heart-wrenching...1311contagion,covid19,pandemic,social distancing,social responsibilityfalse119fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/passive-choices--64076759http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2020/03/11/passive-choicesWed, 11 Mar 2020 22:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 15 minute episode Susan discusses the issue of how we set the stage for certain outcomes with our inaction, avoidance, procrastination and denial in much the same way we shape outcomes with overt choices. These passive choices often accompany...748avoidance,choices,choices you make,passivity,procrastinationfalse118fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/take-the-dread-out-of-the-holidays-with-some-simple-strategies--64076835http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/11/25/take-the-dread-out-of-the-holidays-with-some-simple-strategiesMon, 25 Nov 2019 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute episode Susan shares her insights about some of the common sources of holiday related anxiety and stress, and how being proactive and intentional can transform the season. If you have a history of some really negative experiences...1351family dynamics,holidays,holiday stress,overdoing during the holidays,seasonal stressfalse117fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-how-do-you-cope--64076762http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/10/24/couplespeak-how-do-you-copeThu, 24 Oct 2019 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 15 minute episode Susan discusses different coping strategies, and invites listeners to look at the origins of their tools, and how well these tools serve their purpose. The episode focuses on the importance of being more conscious and...938coping mechanisms,coping with stress,dealing with difficult experie,dealing with difficult people,managing painful feelingsfalse116fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/financial-equity-in-marriage-a-simple-tool-to-insure-fairness--64076830http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/07/18/financial-equity-in-marriage--a-simple-tool-to-insure-fairnessThu, 18 Jul 2019 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 15 minute episode Susan shares her insights around some financial issues couples experience, how spouses can avoid criticism, control and financial unfairness, and move toward more respectful, equitable agreements in their marriages. Call...889fairness in marriage,financial equity in marriage,marital equity,money and marriage,money issues in marriagefalse115fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-the-pitfalls-of-all-or-nothing-in-marriage-and-life--64076809http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/05/30/couplespeak-the-pitfalls-of-all-or-nothing-in-marriage-and-lifeThu, 30 May 2019 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 15 minute episode Susan explores the issue of a perfectionistic "all or nothing" attitude in marriage and life, and how it limits possibilities for connection, conflict resolution, and productivity, among other things. Tune into this brief...906all or nothing,black and white thinking,partializing tasks,perfection,perfectionismfalse114fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-being-a-grownup-when-you-must-6-practical-tools--64076764http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/04/04/couplespeak-being-a-grownup-when-you-must--6-practical-toolsThu, 04 Apr 2019 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceHow do you get yourself to honor your legitimate "Shoulds"? How do you motivate yourself to do the right thing, taking care of the not-so-fun parts of your life which require attention? How do you attend to your connections and responsibilities to...897avoidance,delay tactics,doing the right thing,procrastination,"shoulds"false111fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-4-communication-styles-that-can-ruin-marriage-some-key-fixes--64076773http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/03/07/couplespeak-4-communication-styles-that-can-ruin-marriage--some-key-fixes-1Thu, 07 Mar 2019 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan explores the effects of 4 particular ways of handling conflict in marriage which tend to destroy respect and trust, and often lead to divorce. She also discusses alternative communication strategies which open up more...1371communication problems,managing conflict,marital conflict,predicters of divorce,the 4 apocolyptic horsemenfalse110fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-how-to-interrupt-frustrating-impasses-and-standoffs-w-your-spouse--64076783http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2019/01/31/couplespeak-how-to-interrupt-frustrating-impasses-and-standoffs-w-your-spouseThu, 31 Jan 2019 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan explores the frequently experienced issue of standoffs or impasses in marriage - those times when couples get "locked in" to a negative sequence when nobody feels heard or acknowledged, and nothing gets resolved. These...1551impasses,lock-in's,marital issues,marital problems,standoffsfalse19fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-quieting-the-noise-in-your-head-some-useful-insights-and-tools--64076807http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2018/11/29/couplespeak-quieting-the-noise-in-your-head--some-useful-insights-and-toolsThu, 29 Nov 2018 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadvice"You'll never finish that project!" "You're a loser!" "You're too fat and nobody will find you attractive!" "Nothing Will Ever Work Out for You!" "You're mean and selfish!"   Chances are, at one point or another in time you've heard that noise...1707affirmations,negative thinking,self sabotage,self talk,toxic beliefsfalse18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-are-you-addicted-to-your-cell-phone-take-the-test-make-changes--64076766http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2018/06/21/couplespeak-are-you-addicted-to-your-cell-phone-take-the-test--make-changesThu, 21 Jun 2018 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan sheds light on the growing epidemic of cell phone addiction. She shares with listeners key signs and symptoms of addiction, and offers a self-test for those questioning if their own use is problematic. Susan also...1607false17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-what-s-in-your-personal-minefield--64076761http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2018/04/19/couplespeak-whats-in-your-personal-minefieldThu, 19 Apr 2018 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this twenty minute episode Susan reveals the issues around our "minefields" - areas of vulnerability created by past experiences and relationships. The podcast will help you learn to identify the nature of your "mines," how to manage yourself more...1493compassion,emotional healing,emotional triggers,memories,vulnerablityfalse16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-facing-divorce-how-a-divorce-coach-could-make-all-the-difference--64076824http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2018/03/01/couplespeak-facing-divorce-how-a-divorce-coach-could-make-all-the-difference-1Thu, 01 Mar 2018 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute Couplespeak™ podcast Susan meets with Lisa McNally, a mother of three who has 20+ years of experience working with divorcing individuals, couples and families in all aspects of family law matters including divorce, separation, child...2849divorce,divorce and legal separation,divorce coach,divorce counseling,divorce planningfalse15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-how-good-a-partner-are-you-take-the-test--64076767http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2018/01/18/couplespeak-how-good-a-partner-are-you-take-the-testThu, 18 Jan 2018 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan explores the issues involved with being either a clueless spouse / partner, or one who has healthy, loving partnership skills. This episode taps into emotional intelligence, how highly you would rate yourself when...1762be a better couple,be a loving spouse,emotional intelligence,marriage,partnershipfalse14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-5-easy-ways-to-build-couple-connection-during-the-holidays--64076769http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/12/14/couplespeak-5-easy-ways-to-build-couple-connection-during-the-holidaysThu, 14 Dec 2017 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute Couplespeak™ episode Susan Lager shares some connection tools from her many years of working with couples. In this bried podcast you will learn how you can, with minimal time and energy amidst what is often a whirlwind of...1156connection,couple connection,couples,fun,quality relationshipsfalse13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-cheap-forgiveness--64076847http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/11/09/couplespeak-cheap-forgivenessThu, 09 Nov 2017 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 15 minute Couplespeak™ podcast Susan Lager shares her insights and experiences with the issue of cheap forgiveness - what it is, and how and when it may be adaptive as the best possible "solution" to emotional injury, vs. what the costs may be...920apology,cheap forgiveness,conflict,forgive,forgivenessfalse12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-letting-go-of-an-adult-child--64076799http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/10/05/couplespeak-letting-go-of-an-adult-childThu, 05 Oct 2017 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn my work as a psychotherapist and in my private life I have encountered an issue which generally causes a great deal of anguish and uncertainty. It’s the process of an adult child who has married, often now has a child of his or her own, and is...1334growing up,independence,letting go,letting go of an adult child,separating from an adult childfalse11fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-3-key-signs-of-unfairness-in-relationships-and-how-to-fix-them--64076779http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/08/25/couplespeak-3-key-signs-of-unfairness-in-relationships-and-how-to-fix-themFri, 25 Aug 2017 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute Couplespeak™ episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses 3 major manifestations of unfairness in close relationships which come up with some regularity in her work with individuals and couples. Unfairness...1381destroyers of good will,injustices,lack of equity in marriage,lack of fairness,unfairnessfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-5-communication-pitfalls-and-how-to-avoid-them--64076802http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/07/20/couplespeak-5-communication-pitfalls-and-how-to-avoid-themThu, 20 Jul 2017 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 to 30 minute episode Susan Lager shares her experiences as a psychotherapist witnessing common communication blunders clients often make. Whether you're trying to communicate with a spouse, partner, friend or family member there are...1844better communication,communication,communication problems,communication skills,how to talk to peoplefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-avoid-the-3-mistakes-many-women-make-that-repel-love--64076813http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/06/14/couplespeak-avoid-the-3-mistakes-many-women-make-that-repel-loveWed, 14 Jun 2017 16:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30-40 minute episode Susan co-hosts with a unique relationship mentor, Valerie Greene, at www.CoachValerieGreene.com, who help couples to stop fighting and fall in love again, and who helps women inspire their husbands or partners into deeper...2706conflict,inspiring love,intimacy,love and relationships,repelling lovefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-misplaced-financial-trust-before-and-during-a-divorce--64076794http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/05/18/couplespeak-misplaced-financial-trust-before-and-during-a-divorceThu, 18 May 2017 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceWhether you're in your 30's or 40's and have recently been married, or are in your 50's or 60's, and have been married for many years, you may have been in a traditional marriage where your spouse has provided and controlled the income, and you have...2598financial literacy,financial planning,marital issues,power issues in marriage,traditional marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-amazing-power-of-repetition-the-good-and-the-bad--64076781http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/04/20/the-amazing-power-of-repetition--the-good-and-the-badThu, 20 Apr 2017 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 20 minute episode Susan Lager shares her knowledge and clinical experience regarding the effects of repetition, not only for individuals in solidifying good or bad habits, but also in fostering skill proficiency. What many people don't realize...1489creating habits,developing proficiency,good will,repetition,the power of repetitionfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/build-a-problem-solving-mindset-with-7-critical-tools--64076859http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/03/15/build-a-problem-solving-mindset-with-7-critical-toolsWed, 15 Mar 2017 18:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode join my guest, Carthage Buckley and me for an important lesson on the seven aspects of developing a problem-solving mindset, something vital in everyone's life challenges. Carthage Buckley is an experienced and enthusiastic...3285achievement,achieving goals,attitude,problem solving,solving problems collaborativefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-noticing-can-change-your-life--64076821http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/02/16/how-noticing-can-change-your-lifeThu, 16 Feb 2017 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan co-hosts with Cindy Giovagnoli, a photographer and writer who believes in curiosity, enthusiasm, meditation and mistakes, and who is constantly delighted by the never-ending lessons offered by the varied people and...2786being in the moment,being present,mindfulness,the art of noticing,the power of nowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-discernment-counseling-update-for-couples-on-the-brink-of-divorce--64076785http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2017/01/26/couplespeak-discernment-counseling-update-for-couples-on-the-brink-of-divorceThu, 26 Jan 2017 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this brief episode, Susan Lager gives an update on her  "Discernment Counseling" work, a special form of treatment for couples who are on the brink of a divorce, where one spouse has lost hope for a better marriage and is not particularly motivated...1329couples on the brink of divorc,discernment counseling,on the fence about your marria,treatment for divided couples,when regular marriage counselifalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-foolproof-ways-to-ruin-your-holidays--64076848http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/12/15/5-foolproof-ways-to-ruin-your-holidaysThu, 15 Dec 2016 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceDon't miss my next 25 minute BlogTalk Radio episode on Wednesday, December 14th at 8:30 PM EST If you've been telling yourself a story about all the stresses, expenses, difficult relatives, ridiculous gifts, cards to send, the hassles of putting up...1647christmas dread,coping with holiday stress,holiday dread,holiday stress,managing holiday stressfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-emotionally-focused-therapy-eft-can-transform-your-marriage--64076790http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/11/17/how-emotionally-focused-therapy-eft-can-transform-your-marriageThu, 17 Nov 2016 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan Lager co-hosts with Jill Fischer,of www.PositiveCouples.com, a top New England EFT trainer, and Naomi Rather, a therapist at www.RatherCounseling.com doing this work with amazing success. The three couples therapists...2819couples,couples counseling,couples therapy,eft,emotionally focused therapyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marital-peace-after-an-affair--64076812http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/07/28/marital-peace-after-an-affairThu, 28 Jul 2016 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this thirty minute episode Susan Lager co-hosts with Dr. Laura Louis, author of the popular book, "Marital Peace," which is a valuable resource for supporting couples throughout the challenges of marriage. Dr. Louis has specialized in helping...1874affairs,infidelity,marital issues,marital peace,marital problemsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-curiosity-can-save-your-marriage--64076765http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/06/09/how-curiosity-can-save-your-marriageThu, 09 Jun 2016 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan Lager shares tips from her popular book "Become Relationship Smart Without a Lifetime of Therapy" about the key role of curiosity as a connector in all meaningful relationships, especially in marriage. For people not...1719curiosity as a cure for relati,curiosity in marriage,how curiosity can save a marri,the role of curiosity in relatfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eight-practices-essential-to-a-happy-fulfilled-life--64076770http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/04/14/eight-practices-essential-to-a-happy-fulfilled-lifeThu, 14 Apr 2016 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan Lager discusses an important frame for how to live with more joy and meaning. She shares what she's learned from her many years as a psychotherapist about the eight key practices conducive to the pursuit of happiness...1823finding joy and meaning,how to have a happy life,letting go,living with gratitude,mindfulnessfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/digital-infidelity-is-your-spouse-just-texting-or-cheating--64076800http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/03/17/digital-infidelity-is-your-spouse-just-texting-or-cheatingThu, 17 Mar 2016 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceModern technology has brought us all a mixed bag of useful tools as well as potentially boundary and trust violating capability through smartphones, iPads and laptops. The practice of creating or maintaining independent, private outside relationships...1957digital infidelity,online or text cheating,texting and marriage,the dangers of texting,when is texting cheating?falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-abc-s-of-financial-goal-setting-what-you-need-to-know-now--64076803http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/02/18/the-abcs-of-financial-goal-setting-what-you-need-to-know-nowThu, 18 Feb 2016 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode, Susan's guest, Heather Brountas CFP, a popular financial advisor at Ameriprise Financial Services, shares key information about how we all need to manage the four major aspects of our financial lives. Heather is returning...2761financial freedom,financial literacy,financial planning,managing your money,planning for the futurefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/living-with-loss-a-conversation-with-ashley-davis-bush--64076816http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2016/01/19/living-with-loss--a-conversation-with-ashley-davis-bushTue, 19 Jan 2016 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan Lager and Ashley Davis Bush discuss the process of grieving - the realities and the myths, as well as tools for coping, from her latest book, "Hope and Healing for Transcending Loss." Ashley's book is filled with small...2767coping with love and loss,dealing with grief,help for grievers,how to grieve,living with lossfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-a-shopaholic-take-the-test-before-the-holidays-get-7-tips-for-help--64076853http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/11/19/are-you-a-shopaholic-take-the-test-before-the-holidays-get-7-tips-for-helpThu, 19 Nov 2015 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIf you've ever wondered if you're a shopaholic, then the holidays could be very difficult, even disastrous for you! Don't go it alone without help!                                            Tune into this 30 minute spisode, "Are You a Shopaholic?...1799compulsive buying disorder,compulsive shopping,overspending,shopaholics,shopping addictionfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-talking-are-you-listening-a-couplespeak-exercise-for-better-communication--64076768http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/10/22/im-talking-are-you-listening-a-couplespeak-exercise-for-better-communicationThu, 22 Oct 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 30 minute episode Susan Lager teaches you a simple but very effective exercise which will help you to communicate better with anyone about important issues, especially loaded subjects which might involve or create conflict. In 30 minutes...1644better communication,communication in relationship,conflct management skills,how to move toward solutions,tools for better listeningfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/workplace-relationships-dealing-with-dreaded-drama-of-conflict-rescheduled--64076839http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/09/24/workplace-relationships-dealing-with-dreaded-drama-of-conflict-rescheduledThu, 24 Sep 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and coach at The Couples Center and Couplespeak™ in Portsmouth, NH, talks with Pattie Porter, The Texas Conflict Coach, about workplace conflict, why people are so frightened by it,...2830assertiveness,conflict avoidance,difficult bosses,managing conflicts at work,workplace conflictfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-complications-of-coupling-one-man-s-controversial-views--64076776http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/08/06/the-complications-of-coupling-one-mans-controversial-viewsThu, 06 Aug 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist specializing in couples work, co-hosts with Dr. Charles Rawlings, outspoked author of "It Really Is That Complicated - The Myths That Exist About Male-Female Relationships," a book about his...2813becoming a couple,control and power in heterosex,men as fixers,the complications of relations,what women wantfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-your-way-a-talk-with-author-amy-wood--64076787http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/06/04/life-your-way--a-talk-with-the-author-amy-woodThu, 04 Jun 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode Susan Lager co-hosts with psychologist Amy Wood, author of this prize-winning, vital book which provides a compelling approach on how to manage the constant "Go! Do! Be Better" stresses of 21st century American life. Get some important...2839creating a happier life,life your way,living intentionally,managing change,managing stressfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/low-sex-drive-in-women-what-you-need-to-know-if-you-re-over-40--64076833http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/04/23/low-sex-drive-in-women--what-you-need-to-know-if-youre-over-40Thu, 23 Apr 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceWhen one partner in a couple lacks much interest or desire for sex it can wreak havoc on the partnership. Often, women over 40 experience a significant loss of libido related to not only hormonal changes, but also circumstances surrounding their...3006lack of sex drive in women ove,loss of libido,low sex drive,menopause,menopause and sexfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-a-good-apology-in-couplespeak--64076782http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/03/26/the-art-of-a-good-apology-in-couplespeakThu, 26 Mar 2015 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan Lager draws on her observations on remorse and forgivessness (or lack of it), from many years of working with thousands of couples. Tune in to learn about the four key parts to an effective apology, the importance of...1812asking for forgiveness,expressing remorse,healing in relationships,how to apologize,making a good apologyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-blind-to-your-own-blind-spots-take-the-couplespeak-test--64076805http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/02/26/are-you-blind-to-your-own-blind-spots-take-the-couplespeak-testThu, 26 Feb 2015 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this thirty minute episode Susan Lager co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a mediator and conflict coach who knows all too well how people, especially when in conflict, can be totally blind to their own emotional blind spots. When we refuse to...1978automatic behavior,blind spots,denial,emotional blind spots,mindfulnessfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-trauma-through-yoga-hope-for-survivors--64076831http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2015/02/06/healing-trauma-through-yoga--hope-for-survivorsFri, 06 Feb 2015 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode Susan Lager hosts a special guest, Lisa Boldin, a graduate of the Kripalu School of Ayurveda, and specialist in Trauma Sensitive Yoga. Together they discuss the unique advantages of this form of Yoga for anyone who is...2878anxiety,dissociation,recovery,sexual assault,traumafalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-avoid-some-really-bad-decisions-in-2015--64076789http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/12/11/how-to-avoid-some-really-bad-decisions-in-2015Thu, 11 Dec 2014 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach at The Couples Center in Portsmouth, NH, explores the difference between making a mistake and making a bad decision, and why people make bad decisions which can ruin their lives. In this episode...1770avoiding bad decisions,bad decisions,how to make better decisions,resolutions for 2015,using better judgmentfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-dealing-with-toxic-relatives-during-the-holidays--64076856http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/11/13/couplespeak-dealing-with-toxic-relatives-during-the-holidaysThu, 13 Nov 2014 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode, Susan Lager addresses an issue so common to millions of people. Tune in and find out about key tools you can use to protect yourself from the "emotional vampires" who have the potential to undermine your feelings...1822better self care during the ho,dealing with difficult people,dealing with toxic relatives,holiday stress,managing difficult people durifalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-therapy-online-is-it-right-for-you--64076811http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/10/16/sex-therapy-online--is-it-right-for-youThu, 16 Oct 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan Lager discusses the ins and outs of online sex therapy with her guest, Rhiannon Beauregard MA, LMFT, CST, a licensed marraige and family therapist and certified sex therapist. Tune in, and you will learn more about what...1972sex therapy resources,sex therapy techniques,sexual addictions,sexual dysfunction,sexualityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-things-fall-apart-a-couplespeak-perspective--64076851http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/09/18/when-things-fall-apart--a-couplespeak-perspectiveThu, 18 Sep 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan Lager returns after a long Summer break to explore the issue of managing the chaos and uncertainty which are present when things fall apart - whether it's the result of an accident, a job loss, a family crisis or some...1797coping with painful experience,dealing with difficult times,dealing with disappointments,managing hardship,when things fall apartfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-or-does-anyone-you-love-have-a-drinking-problem--64076836http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/07/03/do-you-or-does-anyone-you-love-have-a-drinking-problemThu, 03 Jul 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the issue of problem drinking. With summer celebrations at full swing, many people are at risk for getting "social permission" to drink excessively and...1594alcohol abuse,drinking patterns,problem drinking,social drinking,summer drinkingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-your-conflict-style-how-s-it-working-for-you--64076801http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/05/29/whats-your-conflict-style-hows-it-working-for-youThu, 29 May 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minutes episode, Susan Lager co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a collaborative lawyer, mediator and conflict coach on the Southern New England coast. Hosting other events together, such as couples retreats, the two women bring their own...2933being more assertive,conflict management,conflict style quizzes,conflict styles,learning to compromisefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-five-love-languages-are-you-speaking-the-right-one-to-your-partner--64076791http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/05/15/the-five-love-languages--are-you-speaking-the-right-one-to-your-partnerThu, 15 May 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach explores the five key ways people experience being valued and loved - the five "love languages" cited in Gary Chapman's bestselling book of that name. Lager discusses the...1707gary chapman's five love langu,how to love your partner,making loving gestures,showing love,the five love languagesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-why-are-you-so-angry-re-rescheduled--64076852http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/05/01/couplespeak-why-are-you-so-angry-re-rescheduledThu, 01 May 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceDue to technical difficulties with the 3/26 BTR episode, and other technical problems on 4/16 (!), this episode has once AGAIN been rescheduled, so join us please on Wednesday, April 30th at 8:30 PM EST for an episode you won't regret being diligent...2820anger,anger and rage,anger management,anger vs. abuse,healthy vs. unhealthy angerfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/divorce-and-money-what-couples-on-the-brink-of-divorce-need-to-know--64076828http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/04/10/divorce-and-money-what-couples-on-the-brink-of-divorce-need-to-knowThu, 10 Apr 2014 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager co-hosts with Heather Brountas, a certified financial planner with Ameriprise. Together they discuss the loaded topic of divorce, some of the myths surrounding the financial process, and the financial do's and don'ts...2334dividing assets in a divorce,divorce and money,financial mistakes made in div,financial planning in a divorc,money and divorcefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couples-on-the-brink-a-couplespeak-perspective--64076796http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/03/13/couples-on-the-brink-a-couplespeak-perspectiveThu, 13 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager discusses "Discernment Counseling," a special form of treatment for couples who are on the brink of a divorce. When one or both spouses have lost hope for a better marriage, and are not particularly motivated to try to...1757couples on the brink,marital despair,on the brink of a divorce,treatment for ambivalent coupl,when traditional marriage counfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-marriage-and-money-a-love-story--64076793http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/02/27/couplespeak-marriage-and-money--a-love-storyThu, 27 Feb 2014 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this 45 minute episode, Susan Lager co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a talented and feisty lawyer, mediator, and conflict coach. Together they focus on the central issues and some common pattterns couples play out related to finances during their...2859financial issues in a divorce,financial management in marria,managing money as a couple,marriage and finances,marriage and moneyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/move-on-without-an-apology-a-couplespeak-tool-to-heal-your-heart--64076778http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/02/06/move-on-without-an-apology--a-couplespeak-tool-to-heal-your-heartThu, 06 Feb 2014 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses the dilemma of healing from emotional injury or violation when the person who hurt you hasn't earned your forgiveness. When there has been no expressed remorse or...1932avoiding bitterness after bein,avoiding cheap forgiveness,healing without genuine forgiv,moving on without an apology,the "acceptance" processfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-beat-the-january-blues-in-2014--64076780http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2014/01/09/couplespeak-beat-the-january-blues-in-2014Thu, 09 Jan 2014 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses some simple but effective strategies to counteract the post-holiday let-down so many of us experience. Get a peek at some therapeutic secrets! Start the new year in the...1970january blahs,january letdown,new year's blues,new year's resolutions,seasonal affective disorderfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-hot-tips-for-a-cold-marriage--64076771http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/12/13/couplespeak-hot-tips-for-a-cold-marriageFri, 13 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a Couples Therapist and Relationship Coach, co-hosts with Meredith Richardson, a highly sought New England conflict management specialist who works as a Mediator, Facilitator, Trainer, Conflict Coach, and Collaborative...3607better connection in marriage,communication skills,dealing with conflict in marri,happy marriage,managing conflict in marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-you-hate-your-job-tips-for-you-and-your-spouse--64076832http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/11/07/when-you-hate-your-job--tips-for-you-and-your-spouseThu, 07 Nov 2013 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceHate your job and can't quit it right now? Then on Wednesday, 11/6/13 at 8:30 PM, tune into this one hour episode, featuring dynamic Portsmouth, NH Career Counselor, Andrea St. Jean as Susan Lager's co-host. We'll be discussing vital tips for how you...4011feeling stuck in a job,hating a job you cannot leave ,surviving job misery,what to do when you hate your ,when your partner hates their falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/75-habits-for-a-happy-marriage-with-ashley-davis-bush--64076763http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/09/24/75-habits-for-a-happy-marriage-with-ashley-davis-bushTue, 24 Sep 2013 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadvice In this episode, Susan Lager co-hosts again with Ashley Davis Bush LCSW, a well known psychotherapist in southern NH who specializes in grief counseling and couples work. She is a frequent Huffington Post blogger, and the author of the...3670happy marriage,happy marriage tools,healthy marital habits,intimate marriage,loving marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-6-cures-for-a-really-bad-mood--64076843http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/08/01/couplespeak-6-cures-for-a-really-bad-moodThu, 01 Aug 2013 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode Susan Lager discusses some useful techniques to manage a bad mood and not let it ruin the day. The episode is part cognitive therapy, part mindfulness, part behavioral therapy, part neuroscience and part plain old good...1761bad moods,managing feelings,mood,negative thoughts,transforming moodsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-have-a-good-summer-with-or-without-a-partner--64076844http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/06/27/couplespeak-have-a-good-summer-with-or-without-a-partnerThu, 27 Jun 2013 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the key attitudes and behaviors for enjoying your summer, regardless of you "partnered" status. On the agenda will be Ideas for solo or partnered activities, as well...1751have a great summer,how to avoid summer boredom,how to have a better summer,self nurture,summer and relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-marriage-fitness-test--64076798http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/05/30/couplespeak-marriage-fitness-testThu, 30 May 2013 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach shares with listeners a twenty question evaluation which is designed to  determine the strengths and weaknesses in any marriage. Professional marriage counselors and mental health...1778marital health,marital problems,marriage fitness,marriage fitness test,marriage issuesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-open-communication--64076806http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/04/25/couplespeak-open-communicationThu, 25 Apr 2013 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode, Susan Lager explores the different aspects of open communication, or conversations which encourage and allow emotional safety, curiosity and connection, as compared with communication which fosters defensiveness and...1858better communication,building connection,communication problems,crucial conversations,open conversationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-the-power-of-an-apology--64076822http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/03/28/the-power-of-an-apologyThu, 28 Mar 2013 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this half hour episode, Susan Lager explores the benefits of an apology on both the wrongdoer as well as the impact on the  wronged person in a hurtful situation or event.  She also touches upon the "How To" of an effective, heartfelt and...1837apologies in relationships,heartfelt apology,how to apologize,the power of an apology,why apologies are importantfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-thriving-after-trauma-with-partner-support--64076857http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/02/28/surviving-and-thriving-after-trauma-with-a-partners-supportThu, 28 Feb 2013 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager co-hosts this episode with Michele Rosenthal, a post-trauma coach, keynote speaker, award-winning blogger, and author of the critically acclaimed PTSD recovery book, Before The World Intruded. Together they explore the issues around...3764life after trauma,ptsd,surviving traumatic events,trauma,trauma recoveryfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-be-a-better-partner-with-self-awareness--64076858http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/01/31/be-a-better-partner-with-self-awarenessThu, 31 Jan 2013 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the issue of how knowing one's own hangups can vastly improve any relationship. Using some key tools from her newest workbook "Become Relationship Smart...1986be a happy couple,how to be a better husband,how to be a better partner,relationship skills,relationship smartfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/2012-year-in-review-options-for-looking-back-then-forward--64076837http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2013/01/03/2012-year-in-review-options-for-looking-back-then-forwardThu, 03 Jan 2013 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, discusses the usual ways people reflect upon the past year, and how looking back can be more productive when using some new markers of change. Using her insights and...19982012 year in review,looking back,new years resolutions,reflections on the past year,reviewing the past yearfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-plan-to-survive-and-thrive-during-the-holidays--64076861http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/12/06/my-5-point-plan-to-survive-and-thrive-during-the-holidaysThu, 06 Dec 2012 02:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this rescheduled episode, Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, shares her key strategies for not only managing the holiday stressors likely to create depressive and anxious feelings, but also how to set things up to...3567dealing with loneliness during,depression during the holidays,holiday stress,survive the holidays,thrive during the holidaysfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-staying-positive-while-looking-for-work--64076786http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/10/18/looking-for-work-while-keeping-a-positive-attitudeThu, 18 Oct 2012 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts with Laura Rivchun, CPC, Principal and Founder of Chrysalis Career Coaching in New York City.  Laura is a dynamic, highly sought career coach, mentor, and...3626feeling good about yourself,finding work,job search,looking for a job,maintaining a positive attitudfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fix-communication-problems-workbook-more-couplespeak-news--64076840http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/09/20/fix-communication-problems-workbook-and-more-newsThu, 20 Sep 2012 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode Susan Lager, a New England psychotherapist and relationship coach, shares exciting information about her newly published workbook,"I'm Talking! Are You Listening?" Fix Communication Problems With Your Partner In No Time Flat!...442communication in marriage,fix communication problems wit,happier marriage,how to talk to my husband,tools for better communicationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-love-isn-t-enough-6-vital-factors-to-evaluate--64076855http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/08/16/how-love-is-not-enough--six-critical-factors-to-evaluateThu, 16 Aug 2012 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a New England psychotherapist, relationship coach, and author of the in vital new workbook, "I'm Talking! Are You Listening?"  Fix Communication Problems With Your Partner In No Time Flat! shares her insights from many years of...3548happy marriage,is my relationship healthy,is romance real,love is not enough,romantic mythfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/negative-thoughts-amazing-change-with-mindfulness-based-cbt--64076854http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/07/19/negative-thoughts-amazing-mindfulness-cbt-to-transform-themThu, 19 Jul 2012 00:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with Louise Beck, LICSW, a renowned specialist in the field of Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy. Beck has travelled widely, providing training and inspiration for people...3615cognitive behavioral therapy,distorted thoughts,help for thinking disorders,mindfulness,negative thinkingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-women-weight-an-exploration-of-body-politics--64076814http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/06/07/men-women-and-weight--an-exploration-of-body-politicsThu, 07 Jun 2012 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts with Mary Jo Martin, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist who specializes in the diagnosis and treatment of eating disorders at Associates In Psychology in Dover,  New...3231body issues,eating disorders,eating disorder treatment,too fat or too thin,weight and body imagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-loving-women-a-couplespeak-exploration--64076841http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/04/12/women-loving-womenThu, 12 Apr 2012 00:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a Portsmouth, N.H. psychotherapist and coach, co-hosts this episode with Leanne Tigert, a Licensed Pastoral Psychotherapist and a Fellow in the American Association of Pastoral Counselors, a US and Canadian organization within which she...3578coming out and the church,homophobia,homosexuality and spirituality,lesbian issues,same-gender couplesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-the-big-four-compassion-unity-fairness-fun--64076810http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/03/08/compassion-unity-fairness-funThu, 08 Mar 2012 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, spends this episode thinking out load about various compelling issues which come up in marriage, as well as other forms of partnership. She opens up a discussion about how the issues of...3697developing compassion,fairness in relationships,having more fun in marriage,intentional relationships,unity in marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/growing-through-grief-a-couplespeak-exploration--64076804http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/02/23/growing-through-griefThu, 23 Feb 2012 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadvice  Loss and the subsequent grieving process is perhaps the most universal psychological experience on the planet. And yet, it is still a journey that frightens and confuses many of us. In this episode, Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship...3635dealing with loss,grief,healthy grieving,mourning,transcending lossfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/effective-trauma-treatment-and-its-impact-on-relationships--64076845http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/02/09/effective-trauma-treatment-and-its-impact-on-relationshipsThu, 09 Feb 2012 01:30:00 +0000relationshipsadvice  Susan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with Phil Harford, LICSW, a seasoned specialist in the use of EMDR and clinical hypnosis. Phil has developed a reputation in this region for his work with clients who have...3627childhood trauma impact on rel,clinical hypnosis,early abuse and neglect,effective trauma treatments,emdrfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sisters-the-good-the-bad-the-in-between-1-year-later--64076815http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2012/01/12/sisters-the-good-the-bad-the-in-between-1-year-laterThu, 12 Jan 2012 02:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist, relationship coach, and the middle of three sisters, reconvenes with her two outspoken, irrepressible siblings one year after their wildly popular 2011 show. The three women look back on the year, and the changes they...3651aging,family scripts,sibling competition,sibling relationships,sistersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ad-hd-couples-and-decision-fatigue-a-couplespeak-talk--64076820http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/11/03/adhd-couples-and-decision-fatigueThu, 03 Nov 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadvice(Note:  **Rescheduled from 10/5/11 to 11/02/11 at 9PM)  How come some couples can be so together at work, but cannot remember to close the refrigerator at home? This topic is for everyone, AD/HD or not, but it is especially useful for couples where...3644adhd issues,attention deficit disorder,brain research,difficulty making decisions,marital challengesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/communication-problems-gone-with-simple-5-minute-fixes--64076818http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/07/14/communication-problems-gone-with-simple-5-minute-fixesThu, 14 Jul 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceIn this episode, Susan Lager deals with the seven most common mistakes couples make when trying to have productive conversations, especially about emotionally loaded topics. Based on her many years of experience as a couples therapist, she teaches...3614better conversations,communication problems,improve listening skills,open communication,we do not communicatefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-are-sex-and-marriage-compatible-long-term--64076842http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/06/16/sex-and-marriage--are-they-compatible-long-termThu, 16 Jun 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with Judith Rowan, PhD., a couples therapist, and highly sought certified sex therapist from Exeter, New Hampshire. With all the buzz in the media lately about Anthony...3618cyber sex,infidelity,loss of desire,sex and marriage,sexless marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/out-of-work-not-out-of-options-a-couplespeak-view--64076846http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/06/02/out-of-work-not-out-of-optionsThu, 02 Jun 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with David Gray, a career consultant, recruiter, and former HR director for companies such as Lindt Chocolate and Lonza Biologics. Together they explore the unemployment...3634avoiding depression,job hunting,loss of job,out of work,unemployedfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sane-divorce-yes-you-do-have-choices--64076827http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/05/19/sane-divorce--yes-you-do-have-choicesThu, 19 May 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with Honey Hastings, an innovative attorney, mediator, and co-founder of the Collaborative Law Alliance of New Hampshire. Hastings, who no longer does litigation, is the...3650collaborative divorce,conciliatory separation,litigation,marriage ending,mediationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-couplespeak-top-10-marital-copouts-of-all-time--64076829http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/05/05/the-top-10-marital-copouts-of-all-timeThu, 05 May 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, talks about the creative and convincing excuses spouses use to let themselves off the hook in their marriages. Extracted from many years of working with couples, she elaborates on "the big ten"...2749avoiding responsibility,copouts in marriage,excuses,games people play,managing conflictfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-create-the-life-you-love--64076850http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/04/20/create-the-life-you-loveWed, 20 Apr 2011 15:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this episode with Barbara Hofmeister, renowned international motivational speaker, and author of the bestselling book, "To Be Or Not To Be - The Choice Is Yours". (ASIN# 3941164023)...3543achieving goals,happiness and fulfillment,meaningful life,motivation,overcoming obstaclesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tuneup-and-oil-change-keeping-marriages-healthy--64076795http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/04/07/tuneup-and-oil-change--keeping-couples-healthyThu, 07 Apr 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach co-hosts this episode with Sergio Pirrotta, Ed.D., a charismatic Massachusetts psychologist who works his magic with couples whose problems often seem unresolvable to other therapists. Pirrotta,...3632communication,happier marriage,healthy couples,relationship skills,resolving conflictsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couples-in-business-what-s-love-got-to-do-with-it--64076819http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/03/24/couples-in-business-whats-love-got-to-do-with-itThu, 24 Mar 2011 01:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this show with Everett Moitoza, Ed.D., MBA, an irrepressible psychologist / business consultant who specializes in working with couples and families in business together. The unique...3678couples in business,couples sharing power,dual relationships,family businesses,love and moneyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-don-t-worry-be-happy-with-positive-psychology--64076834http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/03/10/dont-worry-be-happy--with-positive-psychologyThu, 10 Mar 2011 02:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this show with Kirke Olson, Psy.D., and Sher Kamman, Psy.D., two talented psychologists, who are partners at The Positivity Company, where they have teamed up in earnest, to apply the...3605happiness,mindfulness,neurobiology,positive psychology,well-beingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chill-out-easy-mind-body-tools-to-beat-stress--64076825http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/02/24/chill-out-easy-mind-body-tools-to-beat-stressThu, 24 Feb 2011 02:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this show with Katherine Frick, LICSW, a gifted, and unconventional psychotherapist in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, specializing in Mind-body therapy to manage stress and anxiety. Together...3614body work,laughter therapy,mind-body therapy,reduce anxiety,stress managementfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/uncover-the-truth-hire-a-private-investigator--64076838http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/02/10/uncover-the-truth--hire-a-private-investigatorThu, 10 Feb 2011 02:30:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this show with Frank Santin, a private investigator who has been a key resource for spouses, and high profile attorneys in major criminal and family law cases in New Hampshire for many...3647avoiding divorce,hire a private i,knowing the truth,lies,secrecy in marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/avoid-money-wars-in-your-marriage-a-couplespeak-exploration--64076862http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/01/27/avoid-money-wars-in-your-marriageThu, 27 Jan 2011 03:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, co-hosts this show with Gene Leone, CPA, a partner in a prominent accounting firm in Wolfeboro, New Hampshire. Together they discuss how money, either lots of it, or a lack of it, can color...2727contentious divorce,financial teamwork,marriage,money management,power sharingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sisters-the-good-the-bad-and-the-in-between--64076860http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2011/01/13/sisters--the-good-the-bad-and-the-in-betweenThu, 13 Jan 2011 03:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceSusan Lager, a psychotherapist and relationship coach, explores the issues sisters deal with, as she co-hosts with her own two sisters, all three, very lively and outspoken women living world's apart in NYC, Florida, and Maine. The show focuses on the...3615birth order,competitive siblings,family scripts,secrets,sistersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/couplespeak-radically-raise-your-relationship-iq-in-2011--64076817http://www.blogtalkradio.com/susanlager/2010/12/31/radically-raise-your-relationship-iq-in-2011Fri, 31 Dec 2010 04:00:00 +0000relationshipsadviceAre you having communication problems in your marriage? Don't know how to avoid showdowns with your closest friend? Are you feeling taken for granted by your lover? Do you want to know how to have much better relationships? Using tools derived from...1843assertiveness,better relationships,communication problems,difficult family,happier marriagefalsefull