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To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org]]>enRelationshipsCopyright Brian Hackneyhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/089f25f2b310a9a65b51c907a85fc149.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/long-haul-marriage-roadcast--6421588Tue, 11 Aug 2026 11:05:32 +0000Brian and Jamie HackneyLong Haul Marriagebrian@longhaulmarriage.orgBrian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000 couples, they share what they've learned, mostly the hard way, hoping...
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Beliefs drive everything in life, and in our marriages.  How we choose to show up, regardless of how our spouse is "treating us," is our choice.  When we learn to "de-personalize" our spouse's sin, (whenever and however they miss the mark), and stay true to ourselves, and our own identity, we are released to be benevolent toward them, giving them the space to soften their hearts on their own.  

And regardless what we believe to be true in our lives, in our marriage, about our kids, our jobs, our faith, or even ourselves, choosing to ACT hopeful, is doing the very thing that Christ meant by "daily carrying our cross."

We hope you enjoy our conversation today!  Welcome back.

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Beliefs drive everything in life, and in our marriages.  How we choose to show up, regardless of how our spouse is "treating us," is our choice.  When we learn to "de-personalize" our spouse's sin, (whenever and however they miss the mark), and stay true to ourselves, and our own identity, we are released to be benevolent toward them, giving them the space to soften their hearts on their own.  

And regardless what we believe to be true in our lives, in our marriage, about our kids, our jobs, our faith, or even ourselves, choosing to ACT hopeful, is doing the very thing that Christ meant by "daily carrying our cross."

We hope you enjoy our conversation today!  Welcome back.

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Today, we discuss what is at the root of many of the eventual bombs that blow up a marriage, and the necessary work to heal previous trauma, and the lies that the wounds bring, before marriage restoration can occur.  And many times, it's not a restoration of the old, but a building of a brand new marriage, on a new foundation with two people that are living in their true identity in Christ, rather than the broken one that life has given them.  

We are here for you, no matter what state you find yourself or your relationship in.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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Today, we discuss what is at the root of many of the eventual bombs that blow up a marriage, and the necessary work to heal previous trauma, and the lies that the wounds bring, before marriage restoration can occur.  And many times, it's not a restoration of the old, but a building of a brand new marriage, on a new foundation with two people that are living in their true identity in Christ, rather than the broken one that life has given them.  

We are here for you, no matter what state you find yourself or your relationship in.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Acknowledging that life is hard, and yes, the world is a crazy place - perhaps like never before - Brian and Jamie are choosing to practice another way of thinking, trusting that God really does have their backs, no matter what.

We hope that today's episode encourages you in your struggles, no matter what they are!

We love you and are here for you.


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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Acknowledging that life is hard, and yes, the world is a crazy place - perhaps like never before - Brian and Jamie are choosing to practice another way of thinking, trusting that God really does have their backs, no matter what.

We hope that today's episode encourages you in your struggles, no matter what they are!

We love you and are here for you.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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In today's abbreviated episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the value in celebrating our loved ones - taking the time and effort to make feel special, those who are special to us!  It doesn't take booking a trip to Greece or Paris (although, 'she' wouldn't mind those at all!), to make your spouse feel seen, appreciated, and loved.

Many of us grew up in homes where we celebrated big - all the things.  And some of us learned that celebrations are for other families.  Many of us shy away from anyone "making a big deal" of us, perhaps fearing that we're not worthy of the fuss.  Wherever you find yourself, it's never too late to add the practice into your life of celebrating those you love - the big stuff, and even the small stuff.  We can never be celebrated too much!

Plan your next celebration today!  In the words of Kook and The Gang, "Celebrate good times, come on!"


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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In today's abbreviated episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the value in celebrating our loved ones - taking the time and effort to make feel special, those who are special to us!  It doesn't take booking a trip to Greece or Paris (although, 'she' wouldn't mind those at all!), to make your spouse feel seen, appreciated, and loved.

Many of us grew up in homes where we celebrated big - all the things.  And some of us learned that celebrations are for other families.  Many of us shy away from anyone "making a big deal" of us, perhaps fearing that we're not worthy of the fuss.  Wherever you find yourself, it's never too late to add the practice into your life of celebrating those you love - the big stuff, and even the small stuff.  We can never be celebrated too much!

Plan your next celebration today!  In the words of Kook and The Gang, "Celebrate good times, come on!"


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the concept of MARGIN in our lives.  They admit to not always having enough, and the battle it is to truly add it into the rhythm of our busy, hectic schedules.  Jamie shares her mental struggle of always feeling like she needs to be "doing something else," robbing her of truly settling in, enjoying whatever activity she's doing in the moment.  She talks about practical ways of "practicing" saying no to the pesky inner voice that is urging her to get on to the next thing, learning the way of valuing what she's chosen to do (or who she's with) enough to stay with it, not feeling pressure or guilt to move.  We hope you can all learn to enjoy life, allowing yourself to be content in the moment, saying no to all the competing voices clamoring for your time and attention, practicing PRESENCE as you build margin into your life.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the concept of MARGIN in our lives.  They admit to not always having enough, and the battle it is to truly add it into the rhythm of our busy, hectic schedules.  Jamie shares her mental struggle of always feeling like she needs to be "doing something else," robbing her of truly settling in, enjoying whatever activity she's doing in the moment.  She talks about practical ways of "practicing" saying no to the pesky inner voice that is urging her to get on to the next thing, learning the way of valuing what she's chosen to do (or who she's with) enough to stay with it, not feeling pressure or guilt to move.  We hope you can all learn to enjoy life, allowing yourself to be content in the moment, saying no to all the competing voices clamoring for your time and attention, practicing PRESENCE as you build margin into your life.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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In today's episode, Jamie is inspired to talk about the unforeseen storms that crop up, and many times, catastrophically hit out of nowhere in our marriages, and in our lives.  She and Brian discuss the importance of preparing BEFORE the storms hit, as best you can, and then the best way through once they are on your doorstep.  

They give practical tools that helped them when they faced some of the unpredicted storms in their marriage, as well as good advice on how to create safe spaces for everyone in your family to grieve how they need to grieve, and how to honor the different ways we all handle challenging times.

Be listening near the end of the episode for when Jamie gets caught off guard, overwhelmed with emotion as she recalled a memory of a thoughtful friend 27 years ago, and the impact that had, and is obviously, still having on her to this day.  This is a great reminder that Christ doesn't always protect us from the storms, but he wants us to have such a perspective, that we can sleep peacefully in the midst of the worst of them!


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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In today's episode, Jamie is inspired to talk about the unforeseen storms that crop up, and many times, catastrophically hit out of nowhere in our marriages, and in our lives.  She and Brian discuss the importance of preparing BEFORE the storms hit, as best you can, and then the best way through once they are on your doorstep.  

They give practical tools that helped them when they faced some of the unpredicted storms in their marriage, as well as good advice on how to create safe spaces for everyone in your family to grieve how they need to grieve, and how to honor the different ways we all handle challenging times.

Be listening near the end of the episode for when Jamie gets caught off guard, overwhelmed with emotion as she recalled a memory of a thoughtful friend 27 years ago, and the impact that had, and is obviously, still having on her to this day.  This is a great reminder that Christ doesn't always protect us from the storms, but he wants us to have such a perspective, that we can sleep peacefully in the midst of the worst of them!


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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**Info about the marriage workshop that Brian mentioned:
When: Fri and Sat, Apr. 17-18.
Where: Eagle's View Church, 5440 W Bailey Boswell Rd, FW
Registration Link Below:

https://evc.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3477925


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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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**Info about the marriage workshop that Brian mentioned:
When: Fri and Sat, Apr. 17-18.
Where: Eagle's View Church, 5440 W Bailey Boswell Rd, FW
Registration Link Below:

https://evc.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3477925


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the ten commandments from the Old Testament (in the Bible), in the context of marriage.  It's a fun episode where Brian reads the commandment, and throws it to Jamie to discuss how that commandment would apply in marriage - not just the ones about marriage (like "thou shall not commit adultery"), but all of them!  

Join the conversation, and make sure and comment if you think of any good examples that they left out.  We always love reading your comments, and so do other listeners.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the ten commandments from the Old Testament (in the Bible), in the context of marriage.  It's a fun episode where Brian reads the commandment, and throws it to Jamie to discuss how that commandment would apply in marriage - not just the ones about marriage (like "thou shall not commit adultery"), but all of them!  

Join the conversation, and make sure and comment if you think of any good examples that they left out.  We always love reading your comments, and so do other listeners.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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We get to hear about Zoe's past, growing up without a father (who tragically passed of cancer when she was 2), and the void that left in her life, and what she felt was missing, and what she was looking for in a partner, and future family.  Zoe shares great advice for anyone looking for a solid, long-lasting relationship...one that will last for the Long Haul!

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We get to hear about Zoe's past, growing up without a father (who tragically passed of cancer when she was 2), and the void that left in her life, and what she felt was missing, and what she was looking for in a partner, and future family.  Zoe shares great advice for anyone looking for a solid, long-lasting relationship...one that will last for the Long Haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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In today's episode, Jamie brings a lively discussion about the need for community, for connection, and why it's difficult for all of us, especially men, to leave the comfort of our Netflix nooks, and actually have some facetime with a trusted friend.  Hope you enjoy!


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In today's episode, Jamie brings a lively discussion about the need for community, for connection, and why it's difficult for all of us, especially men, to leave the comfort of our Netflix nooks, and actually have some facetime with a trusted friend.  Hope you enjoy!


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Join us today as we talk about the different pieces of advice the slower, less stressed-out version of ourselves would give to our younger, stressed, hurried, worried, anxious, uptight, angry (you fill in your blank) version of yourself.  Life will definitely teach you lessons, and most of the time, the only way you learn is to experience things for yourself.  But the fast passage of time, and aging being the pesky little things they are, means we need to learn the really important lessons sooner than later.

We hope the things we share - things we got right, and things we got wrong, and the wisdom that our white hair has earned us, will help you - especially you youngins who are in the throws of life right now!

We love you, and are praying for you to enjoy this one life God has given you!


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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Join us today as we talk about the different pieces of advice the slower, less stressed-out version of ourselves would give to our younger, stressed, hurried, worried, anxious, uptight, angry (you fill in your blank) version of yourself.  Life will definitely teach you lessons, and most of the time, the only way you learn is to experience things for yourself.  But the fast passage of time, and aging being the pesky little things they are, means we need to learn the really important lessons sooner than later.

We hope the things we share - things we got right, and things we got wrong, and the wisdom that our white hair has earned us, will help you - especially you youngins who are in the throws of life right now!

We love you, and are praying for you to enjoy this one life God has given you!


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Listen in as we talk about one of our greatest accomplishments - building and maintaining a healthy, lasting relationship with our children.  We talk about the investment that gives the most rewarding return there is - a loving connection with our now adult children that will last a lifetime - our greatest legacy!

Jamie talks about her recent mother/daughter getaway with Chandler that will surely turn into an annual affair (if not more often).  We talk about the challenges of connecting with our adolescent children (that all parents face), and how to stay the course, loving even when it's hard, especially when we feel our love isn't reciprocated.  Perhaps they're doing the best they can with who they are at the time, and what they've been given, and when confronted with undying, uncompromising love, they might just turn out to be your best friend!


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Listen in as we talk about one of our greatest accomplishments - building and maintaining a healthy, lasting relationship with our children.  We talk about the investment that gives the most rewarding return there is - a loving connection with our now adult children that will last a lifetime - our greatest legacy!

Jamie talks about her recent mother/daughter getaway with Chandler that will surely turn into an annual affair (if not more often).  We talk about the challenges of connecting with our adolescent children (that all parents face), and how to stay the course, loving even when it's hard, especially when we feel our love isn't reciprocated.  Perhaps they're doing the best they can with who they are at the time, and what they've been given, and when confronted with undying, uncompromising love, they might just turn out to be your best friend!


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

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Today, Jamie is still on a high, coming off of her recent Evergreen women's event in Broken Bow, and Brian asks her to hit the highlights, and explain why this was different than your average, run of the mill, women's retreat.  

After talking about the pregnancy and eventual birth of the vision given to her by God, she then talks about the importance of giving time and space for connection, and the profound need for authentic community in our lives.

Brian then shifts the conversation to the normal temptations we face to wonder if we've married the wrong person, or perhaps, even if we married the "right" person, to think there may be someone out there even better, more perfectly suited to us - our "soulmate."  Listen in to hear the first name he's ever called a listener, if you give into that temptation.


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Today, Jamie is still on a high, coming off of her recent Evergreen women's event in Broken Bow, and Brian asks her to hit the highlights, and explain why this was different than your average, run of the mill, women's retreat.  

After talking about the pregnancy and eventual birth of the vision given to her by God, she then talks about the importance of giving time and space for connection, and the profound need for authentic community in our lives.

Brian then shifts the conversation to the normal temptations we face to wonder if we've married the wrong person, or perhaps, even if we married the "right" person, to think there may be someone out there even better, more perfectly suited to us - our "soulmate."  Listen in to hear the first name he's ever called a listener, if you give into that temptation.


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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They get into this common situation, and give practical advice on how to navigate this tricky situation, while still maintaining close intimacy, and avoiding the trap of sharing way too much with someone of the opposite sex (that's not your spouse!)


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They get into this common situation, and give practical advice on how to navigate this tricky situation, while still maintaining close intimacy, and avoiding the trap of sharing way too much with someone of the opposite sex (that's not your spouse!)


As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss simultaneity (the property of two or more events occuring at the exact same time) in the context of who we are, who we want to be, perhaps how others view us, how we view ourselves, and ultimately, how we choose to show up in any given moment.

Brian reads the story of "The Good Samaritan," the parable told by Jesus, recounted in the gospel of Luke, highlighting the three in the short story, and their choices to pass on by, or to stop and help, and which unlikely character chose to be the "neighbor" of the unfortunate soul who had been beaten and robbed.

They shift the conversation to marriage, discussing how easy it is to frame any narrative in a dualistic, "victim/villian" context, many times seeing ourselves in conflict as the victim, ignoring the possibility that we could actually be the villain.  They table the possibility that we are all both "saints and sinners" and that the devil in one ear, and the angel in the other, are both viable candidates that could be whispering at any given time, but that we have the choice to be either one.

They discuss the human urge to be defensive, the coping mechanism employed when we feel the need to justify ourselves, rather than resting in our justification by faith in Christ.

We hope you enjoy this episode, and that it will challenge you to see yourself and your spouse in a brand new light.

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss simultaneity (the property of two or more events occuring at the exact same time) in the context of who we are, who we want to be, perhaps how others view us, how we view ourselves, and ultimately, how we choose to show up in any given moment.

Brian reads the story of "The Good Samaritan," the parable told by Jesus, recounted in the gospel of Luke, highlighting the three in the short story, and their choices to pass on by, or to stop and help, and which unlikely character chose to be the "neighbor" of the unfortunate soul who had been beaten and robbed.

They shift the conversation to marriage, discussing how easy it is to frame any narrative in a dualistic, "victim/villian" context, many times seeing ourselves in conflict as the victim, ignoring the possibility that we could actually be the villain.  They table the possibility that we are all both "saints and sinners" and that the devil in one ear, and the angel in the other, are both viable candidates that could be whispering at any given time, but that we have the choice to be either one.

They discuss the human urge to be defensive, the coping mechanism employed when we feel the need to justify ourselves, rather than resting in our justification by faith in Christ.

We hope you enjoy this episode, and that it will challenge you to see yourself and your spouse in a brand new light.

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Jamie talks about her disappointment in having to postpone her Evergreen retreat, and the way Brian might have missed the chance (in the ealy going) to be truly emotionally supportive, and how, after fumbling the ball a bit, he went back and asked her about how she was feeling about it.  

They talk about the common mistakes couples make around disappointment, emotional support, resentment, and forgiveness - all the things that go into becoming vulnerable, and ultimately intimate with our spouse.  Hope you guys enjoy!

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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Jamie talks about her disappointment in having to postpone her Evergreen retreat, and the way Brian might have missed the chance (in the ealy going) to be truly emotionally supportive, and how, after fumbling the ball a bit, he went back and asked her about how she was feeling about it.  

They talk about the common mistakes couples make around disappointment, emotional support, resentment, and forgiveness - all the things that go into becoming vulnerable, and ultimately intimate with our spouse.  Hope you guys enjoy!

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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They get real about their own struggles around this, and when that finally changed for them.  Jamie talks about the freedom that came as she got honest with God for the first time, and they also compare intimacy in marriage to intimacy with God in this context.  

Brian shares how intentionally focusing on the Christ in us, helps him see more and more that God isn't "out there," rather, IN US.  Glad you're with us today.

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


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They get real about their own struggles around this, and when that finally changed for them.  Jamie talks about the freedom that came as she got honest with God for the first time, and they also compare intimacy in marriage to intimacy with God in this context.  

Brian shares how intentionally focusing on the Christ in us, helps him see more and more that God isn't "out there," rather, IN US.  Glad you're with us today.

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In today's first episode of the year, Brian and Jamie discuss setting intentions for your day, your week, your month, which all turn into your year!  They share from personal experience, how doing daily mindfulness, and meditation practices, builiding in intention through affirmations have made a profoundly positive effect in their lives.  They talk about practical ways to mitigate feelings of stress or anxiety (including social anxiety), and how we have more control over our thought life than we know.  They share their "words of the year," which will help them focus on the things that truly matter, and the value in sharing those words with each other and with family.

They discuss how the holiday times can bring out a lot of crap for many, and the number of people who have already reached out for help in the new year, and their desire to help anyone who is struggling.  

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In today's first episode of the year, Brian and Jamie discuss setting intentions for your day, your week, your month, which all turn into your year!  They share from personal experience, how doing daily mindfulness, and meditation practices, builiding in intention through affirmations have made a profoundly positive effect in their lives.  They talk about practical ways to mitigate feelings of stress or anxiety (including social anxiety), and how we have more control over our thought life than we know.  They share their "words of the year," which will help them focus on the things that truly matter, and the value in sharing those words with each other and with family.

They discuss how the holiday times can bring out a lot of crap for many, and the number of people who have already reached out for help in the new year, and their desire to help anyone who is struggling.  

As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from us!  See you next year!!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from us!  See you next year!!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They talk about their serendipitous conversation with 2 other couples in a 103 degree "World Spring" hot tub, which led to an incredible bonding experience, as they all shared just how hard it is to parent our kids these days.  We all love our children, and for sure mean well, but many times, our deepest intuitions will be tested, and although there may be a societal tidal wave in an opposite direction, many times those "popular" opinions will prove to be incorrect.  

Brian shares some insightful pages from The Hunter Gatherer's Guide to the 21st Century, by Heather Heying, and Bret Weinstein.  

As always we so appreciate you listening.  Enjoy!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They talk about their serendipitous conversation with 2 other couples in a 103 degree "World Spring" hot tub, which led to an incredible bonding experience, as they all shared just how hard it is to parent our kids these days.  We all love our children, and for sure mean well, but many times, our deepest intuitions will be tested, and although there may be a societal tidal wave in an opposite direction, many times those "popular" opinions will prove to be incorrect.  

Brian shares some insightful pages from The Hunter Gatherer's Guide to the 21st Century, by Heather Heying, and Bret Weinstein.  

As always we so appreciate you listening.  Enjoy!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR]]>2261badparenting,christmas,comparison,giftgiving,goodparenting,holidaystress,marriage,parenting,parentingchallenges,parentingteens,relationships,socialmediaculturefalse315fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-are-better-movers-than-women-there-i-said-it-brian--68826666Today is Giving Tuesday (12/2/25)!!  Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction?  We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage.  A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk again about how much their donors and supporters mean to them, and how they literally COULD NOT DO Long Haul Marriage without them!  Brian loves "never having to say 'no'."   They get into their fun Thanksgiving holiday, Brian being under the weather, and his recent fall while trying to load in the Christmas tree with his favorite moving buddy, Jamie.  They discuss their favorite parts of their ministry, and then get into how hard the holidays are for many.  They also talk about some exciting things to come in the new year - but first, we gotta make it through Christmas!!!  It's coming fast, so buckle up, and get those Christmas lists knocked out early (but do it with thoughtfulness, and intention!). 

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk again about how much their donors and supporters mean to them, and how they literally COULD NOT DO Long Haul Marriage without them!  Brian loves "never having to say 'no'."   They get into their fun Thanksgiving holiday, Brian being under the weather, and his recent fall while trying to load in the Christmas tree with his favorite moving buddy, Jamie.  They discuss their favorite parts of their ministry, and then get into how hard the holidays are for many.  They also talk about some exciting things to come in the new year - but first, we gotta make it through Christmas!!!  It's coming fast, so buckle up, and get those Christmas lists knocked out early (but do it with thoughtfulness, and intention!). 

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction?  We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage.  A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk about their family's Thanksgiving Day traditions, and everything from fried turkey to tryptophan couch comas.  Navigating crazy, chaotic holiday times can be daunting...from "crazy Uncle Bob" to "just another thing to do," oh, and those Christmas gift lists that are looming, and the pressure of Black Friday, and Cyber Monday - we talk about it all and more of this week's roadcast.  Drop us a comment with your favorite family tradition, and your least favorite.  

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction?  We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage.  A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk about their family's Thanksgiving Day traditions, and everything from fried turkey to tryptophan couch comas.  Navigating crazy, chaotic holiday times can be daunting...from "crazy Uncle Bob" to "just another thing to do," oh, and those Christmas gift lists that are looming, and the pressure of Black Friday, and Cyber Monday - we talk about it all and more of this week's roadcast.  Drop us a comment with your favorite family tradition, and your least favorite.  

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 


For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie listen to a young, 20-something woman, ask questions that many young women are asking..."Is there really such a thing as passionate, romantic, even "obsessive" love that can last a lifetime?"  "If it does exist, can it truly last, forever?"  The deep questions reflect the fears that are prevalent among many, born from models of marriages and relationships where the honeymoon phase faded quickly, and one or the other bailed, getting tired of their partner, or where people chose to stay, but ended up resenting each other, and constant bickering or bitterness became the norm in a loveless marriage.

Brian and Jamie dispell the myth that such "fairy-tale" love (with no ups and downs) truly exists, but also discuss the value in choosing to love, making the decision to stay, even during the natural hard times that inevitably come in every relationship.  They talk about the incredible rewards of true love that is expressed in gratitude and forgiveness, loving even during tough times, which yields great gains through the pain.  

It's not either/or - either it's amazing forever, or it ends up "sucking."  They share how they are now in the most passionate, romantic, chemistry-filled season of their entire 36 years, and how it's always hard-fought, but totally worth it!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 



For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie listen to a young, 20-something woman, ask questions that many young women are asking..."Is there really such a thing as passionate, romantic, even "obsessive" love that can last a lifetime?"  "If it does exist, can it truly last, forever?"  The deep questions reflect the fears that are prevalent among many, born from models of marriages and relationships where the honeymoon phase faded quickly, and one or the other bailed, getting tired of their partner, or where people chose to stay, but ended up resenting each other, and constant bickering or bitterness became the norm in a loveless marriage.

Brian and Jamie dispell the myth that such "fairy-tale" love (with no ups and downs) truly exists, but also discuss the value in choosing to love, making the decision to stay, even during the natural hard times that inevitably come in every relationship.  They talk about the incredible rewards of true love that is expressed in gratitude and forgiveness, loving even during tough times, which yields great gains through the pain.  

It's not either/or - either it's amazing forever, or it ends up "sucking."  They share how they are now in the most passionate, romantic, chemistry-filled season of their entire 36 years, and how it's always hard-fought, but totally worth it!

REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 



For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - PICK UP YOUR COPY TODAY...

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - PICK UP YOUR COPY TODAY...

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They talk about the inspiration for the book (Jamie, haha), and go through each chapter, highlighting the themes, some of their favorite parts, quotes, and stories that they hope will resonate with readers.  They discuss their hope that husbands, as well as wives, men and women both, will be inspired to glean truths that will lead to expressed gratitude in their own relationships.

They end with a call to action to buy the book, buy for a friend, recommend, and review - share all over social media!!  They even offer to send a book to your friend if money is a problem!!  They want this book in the hands as many as possible, and they're asking you to help promote it.  All proceeds go to support Long Haul Marriage. 

Thanks so much for listening, and reading!!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They talk about the inspiration for the book (Jamie, haha), and go through each chapter, highlighting the themes, some of their favorite parts, quotes, and stories that they hope will resonate with readers.  They discuss their hope that husbands, as well as wives, men and women both, will be inspired to glean truths that will lead to expressed gratitude in their own relationships.

They end with a call to action to buy the book, buy for a friend, recommend, and review - share all over social media!!  They even offer to send a book to your friend if money is a problem!!  They want this book in the hands as many as possible, and they're asking you to help promote it.  All proceeds go to support Long Haul Marriage. 

Thanks so much for listening, and reading!!

A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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Resources mentioned in podcast today:
Dave Carder - Torn Asunder
John Gottman - The Relationship Cure, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Shaunti Feldhahn - For Couples Only
Jimmy Evans - Marriage Today - Marriage on the Rock
Esther Perel - Search YouTube "Infidelity"

Brian and Jamie also excitedly announce his book, A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Resources mentioned in podcast today:
Dave Carder - Torn Asunder
John Gottman - The Relationship Cure, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Shaunti Feldhahn - For Couples Only
Jimmy Evans - Marriage Today - Marriage on the Rock
Esther Perel - Search YouTube "Infidelity"

Brian and Jamie also excitedly announce his book, A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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Join us today as we look back over the last year that has flown by, and as we look forward to the next year and beyond, excited about what's to come!

BONUS SURPRISE - For our listeners only - fast forward to 42:22 in the episode if you can't wait to hear a big surprise!!  Let us hear from you!!!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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Join us today as we look back over the last year that has flown by, and as we look forward to the next year and beyond, excited about what's to come!

BONUS SURPRISE - For our listeners only - fast forward to 42:22 in the episode if you can't wait to hear a big surprise!!  Let us hear from you!!!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They then shift into one of their most favorite discussions so far - the interesting topic of couples using google or ChatGPT for marriage advice.  We all use google searches multiple times/week, and more and more of us appreciate ChatGPTs ability to give us tons of information in seconds, at the snap of a finger!  However, Brian and Jamie warn of using it for marriage advice, and how it can totally miss the root causes that underly the issues that you're asking about.  They talk about not only the need for good, specific prompts, but the value that they provide as marriage coaches, knowing the right questions to ask to get to the heart of the matter, as well as the individual, personal attention that can help couples explore areas that they never knew needed exploring.


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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They then shift into one of their most favorite discussions so far - the interesting topic of couples using google or ChatGPT for marriage advice.  We all use google searches multiple times/week, and more and more of us appreciate ChatGPTs ability to give us tons of information in seconds, at the snap of a finger!  However, Brian and Jamie warn of using it for marriage advice, and how it can totally miss the root causes that underly the issues that you're asking about.  They talk about not only the need for good, specific prompts, but the value that they provide as marriage coaches, knowing the right questions to ask to get to the heart of the matter, as well as the individual, personal attention that can help couples explore areas that they never knew needed exploring.


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie talk about how quickly Brian arrived at this milestone birthday, and what he has to show for it.  They talk about how time flies, faster even than the cliche', and how important it is to set your priorities based on your highest values, and relentlessly pursue a life devoted to those priorities.  For Brian and Jamie, it's all about family, and their 36 year marriage (and counting) is the foundational backbone upon which their legacy is being built.  They wouldn't trade it for anything.  

They talk about his surprise in Broken Bow, and the binder full of love letters from family and dear friends - the best present he could ever receive.  

Thank you all for making this old fart feel really special!  So, sit back, take some Geritol, gum some apple sauce, and enjoy this episode before your 8:30 pm bedtime!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie talk about how quickly Brian arrived at this milestone birthday, and what he has to show for it.  They talk about how time flies, faster even than the cliche', and how important it is to set your priorities based on your highest values, and relentlessly pursue a life devoted to those priorities.  For Brian and Jamie, it's all about family, and their 36 year marriage (and counting) is the foundational backbone upon which their legacy is being built.  They wouldn't trade it for anything.  

They talk about his surprise in Broken Bow, and the binder full of love letters from family and dear friends - the best present he could ever receive.  

Thank you all for making this old fart feel really special!  So, sit back, take some Geritol, gum some apple sauce, and enjoy this episode before your 8:30 pm bedtime!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Not wanting to make any political statements, or discuss "conspiracy theories," or deep dive into one of a hundred rabbit holes, they simply share their sadness over the hatred that has become so normalized, especially on and by social media platforms, and that has destroyed civility in this country and around the world.  Yes, these are sad days, and they didn't just "arrive" out of nowhere.  Not wanting to be insensitive to the victims or families of tragic murders that happen every day, they acknowledge that this is nothing new, and that it is just a symptom of a deeper societal issue(s).  

Join us as we pray for our nation and nations around the globe, and God, come heal our land!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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Not wanting to make any political statements, or discuss "conspiracy theories," or deep dive into one of a hundred rabbit holes, they simply share their sadness over the hatred that has become so normalized, especially on and by social media platforms, and that has destroyed civility in this country and around the world.  Yes, these are sad days, and they didn't just "arrive" out of nowhere.  Not wanting to be insensitive to the victims or families of tragic murders that happen every day, they acknowledge that this is nothing new, and that it is just a symptom of a deeper societal issue(s).  

Join us as we pray for our nation and nations around the globe, and God, come heal our land!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss prioritizing your marriage above EVERYTHING ELSE.  Although it takes some sacrificial living, and making some difficult choices, in the long run, giving your best to your marriage, your family, and your spouse will pay dividends like you could never believe.  

Be inspired this week to put your spouse first, and keep the main thing, the main thing!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss prioritizing your marriage above EVERYTHING ELSE.  Although it takes some sacrificial living, and making some difficult choices, in the long run, giving your best to your marriage, your family, and your spouse will pay dividends like you could never believe.  

Be inspired this week to put your spouse first, and keep the main thing, the main thing!


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In our first episode of the new season, we dive into the work-a-day world, why we work "40 hours a week," leaving little time for ourselves, our passions/hobbies, and the people in our lives that truly matter to us.  What got us here, and is there a way out!?  We discuss the temptation to think we're trapped, even if we want to work less hours, or spend more "me" time during the week, and the cynical, "yeah, easy for you to say" attitude. We challenge our listeners, (and ourselves) to become curious about the statement, "You don't have to live this way."  Come along, and we hope you enjoy it.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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In our first episode of the new season, we dive into the work-a-day world, why we work "40 hours a week," leaving little time for ourselves, our passions/hobbies, and the people in our lives that truly matter to us.  What got us here, and is there a way out!?  We discuss the temptation to think we're trapped, even if we want to work less hours, or spend more "me" time during the week, and the cynical, "yeah, easy for you to say" attitude. We challenge our listeners, (and ourselves) to become curious about the statement, "You don't have to live this way."  Come along, and we hope you enjoy it.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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Brian and Jamie challenge us to "fast" from our phones and social media, for a pre-determined length of time, and to notice the positive changes in our lives, and in our marriages.

Note - this will be our last podcast until the first of September.  Enjoy the fast or the reruns, and we'll see you in the Fall!  We love you all!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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Brian and Jamie challenge us to "fast" from our phones and social media, for a pre-determined length of time, and to notice the positive changes in our lives, and in our marriages.

Note - this will be our last podcast until the first of September.  Enjoy the fast or the reruns, and we'll see you in the Fall!  We love you all!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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Brian and Jamie get into the divine, creative spark in each of us that is just waiting to be birthed into the world, and how many times, we may miss the opportunity to see God bring them to fruition, many times due to a variety of fears.

Be inspired today to do the thing, write the book, start the business, record the content, make the phone call - do it scared!!!

And as always, THANK YOU to our generous donors - we COULD NOT DO IT WITHOUT YOU!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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Brian and Jamie get into the divine, creative spark in each of us that is just waiting to be birthed into the world, and how many times, we may miss the opportunity to see God bring them to fruition, many times due to a variety of fears.

Be inspired today to do the thing, write the book, start the business, record the content, make the phone call - do it scared!!!

And as always, THANK YOU to our generous donors - we COULD NOT DO IT WITHOUT YOU!


We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie recount some of their most embarrassing, but most hilarious moments that they've shared, (while being publically humiliated), but lived to tell about.  They talk about the importance of not taking themselves too seriously, being able to laugh at themselves, and the major bonding experience that this can be.  Some of their most treasured moments of their marriage has been laughing themselves silly recalling what could have been a disaster, or even turned into a big fight.  Learning to laugh with one another can be one of the best medicines to heal, and to create a marriage for the long haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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In today's episode, Brian and Jamie recount some of their most embarrassing, but most hilarious moments that they've shared, (while being publically humiliated), but lived to tell about.  They talk about the importance of not taking themselves too seriously, being able to laugh at themselves, and the major bonding experience that this can be.  Some of their most treasured moments of their marriage has been laughing themselves silly recalling what could have been a disaster, or even turned into a big fight.  Learning to laugh with one another can be one of the best medicines to heal, and to create a marriage for the long haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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Sit back and enjoy an incredibly deep conversation about spiritual connection, and inner healing and transformation.  Thank you, Kay!

(***MY APOLOGIES FOR THE SECOND CAMERA CUTTING OUT, THE LAST 13 MINUTES OF EPISODE IS KAY ONLY)

Brian

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Sit back and enjoy an incredibly deep conversation about spiritual connection, and inner healing and transformation.  Thank you, Kay!

(***MY APOLOGIES FOR THE SECOND CAMERA CUTTING OUT, THE LAST 13 MINUTES OF EPISODE IS KAY ONLY)

Brian

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We get to hear about Zoe's past, growing up without a father (who tragically passed of cancer when she was 2), and the void that left in her life, and what she felt was missing, and what she was looking for in a partner, and future family.  Zoe shares great advice for anyone looking for a solid, long-lasting relationship...one that will last for the Long Haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We get to hear about Zoe's past, growing up without a father (who tragically passed of cancer when she was 2), and the void that left in her life, and what she felt was missing, and what she was looking for in a partner, and future family.  Zoe shares great advice for anyone looking for a solid, long-lasting relationship...one that will last for the Long Haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting

John Gottman, 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work (referenced this when discussing the "4 Horseman of the Apocalypse - Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt)

In this episode, Jamie and Brian discuss the "Inverted Bell Curve" of Marital Satisfaction...first, how normal it is to fall into this pattern, (hence the curve), and secondly, how important it is to work through these frustrating seasons/years, so that you can experience the high level of satisfaction reported by couples who make it through these challenging years.  They emphasize that love is a choice, that it is fluid as far as passion and intimacy, and that it is the commitment that will hold it all together.  They discuss the importance of evaluating where you are, being honest with yourself, and sharing it with your spouse - often!  We pray that you will all be encouraged, and re-up on your commitment to be in it for the long haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting

John Gottman, 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work (referenced this when discussing the "4 Horseman of the Apocalypse - Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt)

In this episode, Jamie and Brian discuss the "Inverted Bell Curve" of Marital Satisfaction...first, how normal it is to fall into this pattern, (hence the curve), and secondly, how important it is to work through these frustrating seasons/years, so that you can experience the high level of satisfaction reported by couples who make it through these challenging years.  They emphasize that love is a choice, that it is fluid as far as passion and intimacy, and that it is the commitment that will hold it all together.  They discuss the importance of evaluating where you are, being honest with yourself, and sharing it with your spouse - often!  We pray that you will all be encouraged, and re-up on your commitment to be in it for the long haul!

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting

After a week off to celebrate Mother's Day and Jamie's birthday in beautiful Santa Fe, NM, Brian and Jamie are back to discuss taking a road trip with their entire family (adult kids, and grandkids), as well as the upcoming Parenting Workshop which will feature hearing from their grown kids (Chandler, Christian, and Carson, 31, 29, and 24).  Vacations with family can be amazing, or a total FAIL.  We've experience a little of both, but are driving toward making the most of our time together by adopting a positive, healthy mindset going in.  No, things WILL NOT go according to plans, but learning to enjoy the beautiful mess is what it's all about.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage/new-meeting

After a week off to celebrate Mother's Day and Jamie's birthday in beautiful Santa Fe, NM, Brian and Jamie are back to discuss taking a road trip with their entire family (adult kids, and grandkids), as well as the upcoming Parenting Workshop which will feature hearing from their grown kids (Chandler, Christian, and Carson, 31, 29, and 24).  Vacations with family can be amazing, or a total FAIL.  We've experience a little of both, but are driving toward making the most of our time together by adopting a positive, healthy mindset going in.  No, things WILL NOT go according to plans, but learning to enjoy the beautiful mess is what it's all about.

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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They also share their excitement about the upcoming Online Parenting Workshop they will be hosting at the end of May - (hoping to land on May 29), with their own adult kids, aged 31, 29, and 24.  You still have time to log in your vote on the best night for you and your spouse.  

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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They also share their excitement about the upcoming Online Parenting Workshop they will be hosting at the end of May - (hoping to land on May 29), with their own adult kids, aged 31, 29, and 24.  You still have time to log in your vote on the best night for you and your spouse.  

We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast. 

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

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They then shift into talking about one of their recent fights, where they both saw the same "activating event," in totally different ways.  Brian talks about what he believed, what he felt, and the consequences of him showing up with that narrative in his mind, and the problems that it created.  Jamie shares the same, and then they discuss how taking time to share their unique beliefs, and the stories they were telling themselves allowed them to see from their partner's point of view, and de-escalated the situation, and allowed for a speedy repair.

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They then shift into talking about one of their recent fights, where they both saw the same "activating event," in totally different ways.  Brian talks about what he believed, what he felt, and the consequences of him showing up with that narrative in his mind, and the problems that it created.  Jamie shares the same, and then they discuss how taking time to share their unique beliefs, and the stories they were telling themselves allowed them to see from their partner's point of view, and de-escalated the situation, and allowed for a speedy repair.

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They also spoke about how powerful it was in their marriage when they recently wrote each other a "love letter," answering some prompts which brought out a lot of emotion, and brought back strong feelings of passion and compassion for one another.  

Here are the prompts Brian listed for the letter:

  Write about what your parents modeled for you regarding marriage and how that affected your expectations about marriage. Write about anything from your past that you believe had an impact on you, whether it was a tragedy or triumph, or both. What you remember about meeting your spouse and those first few years together. How you have been affected mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically in the marriage. Admit to any baggage you brought into the marriage and disclose if you believe you have successfully unpacked this baggage, or if you believe you still have some unpacking to do. Own how you have contributed to the dysfunction in the marriage. Write about the gifts and/or strengths you believe you bring to your marriage. Describe how you wish your marriage looked; what are your specific desires for your marriage

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They also spoke about how powerful it was in their marriage when they recently wrote each other a "love letter," answering some prompts which brought out a lot of emotion, and brought back strong feelings of passion and compassion for one another.  

Here are the prompts Brian listed for the letter:

  Write about what your parents modeled for you regarding marriage and how that affected your expectations about marriage. Write about anything from your past that you believe had an impact on you, whether it was a tragedy or triumph, or both. What you remember about meeting your spouse and those first few years together. How you have been affected mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically in the marriage. Admit to any baggage you brought into the marriage and disclose if you believe you have successfully unpacked this baggage, or if you believe you still have some unpacking to do. Own how you have contributed to the dysfunction in the marriage. Write about the gifts and/or strengths you believe you bring to your marriage. Describe how you wish your marriage looked; what are your specific desires for your marriage

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In this episode, we talk about how grateful we are that couples are reaching out for help, and how much we love normalizing all the issues that we all go through, especially the challenges that come up during the Holidays! We discuss moving into the new year with grace and intentionality, New Years "practices" vs resolutions, avoiding February "quit day," and some practical ways to have "just enough discipline" to start some good habits. We get vulnerable about our own challenges, and talk about how to "clean up the messes" before giving them time to break down intimacy.

We hope this encourages you guys as you begin 2025 - and remember, comment your "one word" for the year - we'd love to join you in prayer about that!

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In this episode, we talk about how grateful we are that couples are reaching out for help, and how much we love normalizing all the issues that we all go through, especially the challenges that come up during the Holidays! We discuss moving into the new year with grace and intentionality, New Years "practices" vs resolutions, avoiding February "quit day," and some practical ways to have "just enough discipline" to start some good habits. We get vulnerable about our own challenges, and talk about how to "clean up the messes" before giving them time to break down intimacy.

We hope this encourages you guys as you begin 2025 - and remember, comment your "one word" for the year - we'd love to join you in prayer about that!

A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

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A huge thank you to our supporters!  As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.  Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.  To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.

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As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation?

To give, just visit longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner.  Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.

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For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

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For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.

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For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.

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**REMEMBER GIVING TUESDAY, 12/3 - To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org.

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For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org.

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage.

Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

**REMEMBER GIVING TUESDAY, 12/3 - To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org.

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To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage

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To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63007478Tue, 26 Nov 2024 00:10:01 +0000Brian and Jamie HackneyIn this episode, Part 1 of a 6 part series, Brian and Jamie chronicle the beginning of their journey, discussing the hard and painful first years, the loss of their 2 year old son, Corban, and the ultimate healing that came, giving them the grace and...
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage

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