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<rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" version="2.0"><channel><title>You’re Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right--6269762</link><description><![CDATA[In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6269762/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Social Sciences</category><copyright>Copyright Murray Ed</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg</url><title>You’re Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right--6269762</link></image><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 05:26:47 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Murray Ed</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative.
This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Science"><itunes:category text="Social Sciences"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>Why Do I Stop Being Myself When I’m Afraid of Losing Someone?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-i-stop-being-myself-when-i-m-afraid-of-losing-someone--73081306</link><description><![CDATA[Why do some people stop being themselves the moment they finally get something—or someone—they’re afraid to lose?<br />In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when fear quietly takes over and your life starts revolving around keeping, managing, protecting, or not losing a person, relationship, dream, or outcome.<br />This is a reflective episode about attachment, self-abandonment, overgiving, anxiety, emotional management, and the slow way people can drift away from their own identity while trying to hold on to something they think they need.<br />MCM talks about what happens when love, desire, or fear becomes so powerful that you stop moving freely and start living defensively. Instead of being yourself, you begin calculating, adjusting, shrinking, performing, and over-monitoring everything around you.<br />At the centre of the episode is a powerful question: why do people stop being themselves once they finally get something or somebody they were afraid to lose? :contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0}<br />The episode also wrestles with the cost of living that way. When your whole day starts revolving around what somebody else may do or not do, life can stop feeling like life and start feeling like management. :contentReference[oaicite:1]{index=1}<br />This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt themselves becoming less natural, less grounded, and less free inside a relationship or emotional attachment. It is about recognizing the pattern, understanding the fear beneath it, and finding your way back to yourself.<br />And maybe, when you lose the person, the dream, or the thing you were clinging to, you may discover that what you really needed to return to was yourself all along. :contentReference[oaicite:2]{index=2}<br />If you have ever found yourself overthinking, overgiving, explaining too much, changing yourself to keep the peace, or feeling like you disappeared while trying not to lose someone, this episode is for you.<br />You’re Probably Right with MCMEntertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions.<br />Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />Listen on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />Listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a4b9f909-6e94-4c4f-b4ec-d098071563b3</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 04:12:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73081306/428323717_44100_2_47d511a16e3a3.mp3" length="67702699" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do some people stop being themselves the moment they finally get something—or someone—they’re afraid to lose?
In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when fear quietly takes over and your life starts revolving around...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do some people stop being themselves the moment they finally get something—or someone—they’re afraid to lose?<br />In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when fear quietly takes over and your life starts revolving around keeping, managing, protecting, or not losing a person, relationship, dream, or outcome.<br />This is a reflective episode about attachment, self-abandonment, overgiving, anxiety, emotional management, and the slow way people can drift away from their own identity while trying to hold on to something they think they need.<br />MCM talks about what happens when love, desire, or fear becomes so powerful that you stop moving freely and start living defensively. Instead of being yourself, you begin calculating, adjusting, shrinking, performing, and over-monitoring everything around you.<br />At the centre of the episode is a powerful question: why do people stop being themselves once they finally get something or somebody they were afraid to lose? :contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0}<br />The episode also wrestles with the cost of living that way. When your whole day starts revolving around what somebody else may do or not do, life can stop feeling like life and start feeling like management. :contentReference[oaicite:1]{index=1}<br />This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt themselves becoming less natural, less grounded, and less free inside a relationship or emotional attachment. It is about recognizing the pattern, understanding the fear beneath it, and finding your way back to yourself.<br />And maybe, when you lose the person, the dream, or the thing you were clinging to, you may discover that what you really needed to return to was yourself all along. :contentReference[oaicite:2]{index=2}<br />If you have ever found yourself overthinking, overgiving, explaining too much, changing yourself to keep the peace, or feeling like you disappeared while trying not to lose someone, this episode is for you.<br />You’re Probably Right with MCMEntertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions.<br />Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />Listen on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />Listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4232</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>363</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>They Like You… But Are They Safe to Love?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/they-like-you-but-are-they-safe-to-love--73052072</link><description><![CDATA[How do you know if someone is actually safe to love?<br />Not just attractive.<br />Not just exciting.<br />Not just interested.<br />Safe.<br />One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is believing that because someone likes them, they must also be capable of loving them well.<br />Those are not the same thing.<br />In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores why so many people stop evaluating a person the moment they feel chosen, and how that one mistake can lead to years of confusion, anxiety, overgiving, and heartbreak.<br />This is a conversation about attraction, chemistry, intensity, intimacy, emotional safety, consistency, responsiveness, repair, and the difference between being wanted and being loved.<br />MCM talks about why warning signs often become assignments once people become emotionally invested, how to tell whether someone likes you or simply likes what you do for them, and why big romantic gestures do not matter as much as what someone does when things become uncomfortable.<br />This episode also looks at the mistake test, the support test, and the beginning versus reality test.<br />The bigger question is simple:<br />What happens when they meet the version of you that is not performing?<br />This is not an episode about becoming more attractive.<br />It is about becoming a better evaluator.<br />Because someone choosing you does not mean you stop choosing carefully. It means it is time to pay even closer attention.<br />If you have ever found yourself trying harder, giving more, explaining away red flags, or wondering whether someone who wants you is actually good for you, this episode is for you.<br />Episode 361<br />You’re Probably Right with MCMEntertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions.<br />Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />Listen on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />Listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">569d711d-4fc4-40df-81a2-6fa3979e2876</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2026 05:42:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73052072/832e4b08_e10f_4964_cf4e_a858e70471ed.mp3" length="85502290" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How do you know if someone is actually safe to love?
Not just attractive.
Not just exciting.
Not just interested.
Safe.
One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is believing that because someone likes them, they must also be capable of loving...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you know if someone is actually safe to love?<br />Not just attractive.<br />Not just exciting.<br />Not just interested.<br />Safe.<br />One of the biggest mistakes people make in dating is believing that because someone likes them, they must also be capable of loving them well.<br />Those are not the same thing.<br />In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores why so many people stop evaluating a person the moment they feel chosen, and how that one mistake can lead to years of confusion, anxiety, overgiving, and heartbreak.<br />This is a conversation about attraction, chemistry, intensity, intimacy, emotional safety, consistency, responsiveness, repair, and the difference between being wanted and being loved.<br />MCM talks about why warning signs often become assignments once people become emotionally invested, how to tell whether someone likes you or simply likes what you do for them, and why big romantic gestures do not matter as much as what someone does when things become uncomfortable.<br />This episode also looks at the mistake test, the support test, and the beginning versus reality test.<br />The bigger question is simple:<br />What happens when they meet the version of you that is not performing?<br />This is not an episode about becoming more attractive.<br />It is about becoming a better evaluator.<br />Because someone choosing you does not mean you stop choosing carefully. It means it is time to pay even closer attention.<br />If you have ever found yourself trying harder, giving more, explaining away red flags, or wondering whether someone who wants you is actually good for you, this episode is for you.<br />Episode 361<br />You’re Probably Right with MCMEntertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions.<br />Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />Listen on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />Listen on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3560</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/12efefda86c8a5adb4a65038ed9535d6.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>361</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Do I Keep Choosing Avoidant Partners?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-i-keep-choosing-avoidant-partners--72979273</link><description><![CDATA[Why do some people keep choosing dismissive avoidant partners, even after recognizing the same painful pattern?In this deeply personal episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM examines why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so irresistible in the beginning. The constant communication, rapid self disclosure, intense attraction, thoughtful gestures, and feeling of being specially chosen can create a powerful connection before the emotional distance begins.This episode explores dismissive avoidant relationships, breadcrumbing, sexual validation, overgiving, childhood rejection, fear of abandonment, and the moment a person stops being themselves and starts trying to earn love.Are you attracted to avoidant partners, or are you attached to how they made you feel before they pulled away?<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">50165bf0-abfe-4d90-8822-296558610aac</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2026 22:07:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72979273/427970438_44100_2_fcc435aabc1e7.mp3" length="101855398" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do some people keep choosing dismissive avoidant partners, even after recognizing the same painful pattern?In this deeply personal episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM examines why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so irresistible in the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do some people keep choosing dismissive avoidant partners, even after recognizing the same painful pattern?In this deeply personal episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM examines why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so irresistible in the beginning. The constant communication, rapid self disclosure, intense attraction, thoughtful gestures, and feeling of being specially chosen can create a powerful connection before the emotional distance begins.This episode explores dismissive avoidant relationships, breadcrumbing, sexual validation, overgiving, childhood rejection, fear of abandonment, and the moment a person stops being themselves and starts trying to earn love.Are you attracted to avoidant partners, or are you attached to how they made you feel before they pulled away?<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6366</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>360</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Do Average Men Really Want From Women? (What Women Keep Missing)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-do-average-men-really-want-from-women-what-women-keep-missing--72944465</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 358 of You're Probably Right, we continue one of the biggest conversations this podcast has ever started.Women have become comfortable telling men exactly what they want:A provider.<br />A protector.<br />A leader.<br />A man with ambition.<br />A man who earns well.<br />A man who can build a future.But here's the question very few people ask:Are those expectations built for the average man... or for a version of him that fewer and fewer men actually become?This isn't an attack on women.It isn't a defense of men.It's a conversation about what has changed in modern relationships—and what hasn't.In this episode, we discuss:• Why today's labour market is different from previous generations.<br />• Why many men and women value different things when choosing a partner.<br />• Why attention has become one of the biggest hidden challenges in modern dating.<br />• Social media, followers, and the difference between visibility and commitment.<br />• Why backup plans quietly weaken trust.<br />• Why ordinary life has become undervalued in the age of highlight reels.<br />• What average men actually notice—but often struggle to explain.<br />• The question almost nobody asks: What are you willing to sacrifice for the relationship you say you want?This episode isn't about blaming women or defending men.It's about understanding why so many ordinary people are struggling to build lasting relationships in a world that constantly rewards attention, comparison, and keeping your options open.Maybe we've been asking the wrong questions.Maybe we've been talking past each other.Or maybe...there are things we've all been missing.Listen now and decide for yourself.relationships, dating, marriage, average man, average woman, what men want, modern dating, social media, commitment, loyalty, emotional boundaries, masculinity, femininity, attraction, relationship advice, psychology, love, trust, You're Probably Right<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ad2c228a-2360-4f84-8ed5-0fa7a39a80cc</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2026 02:38:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72944465/427843675_44100_2_12ba22d2f0d4d.mp3" length="67655470" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 358 of You're Probably Right, we continue one of the biggest conversations this podcast has ever started.Women have become comfortable telling men exactly what they want:A provider.
A protector.
A leader.
A man with ambition.
A man who...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 358 of You're Probably Right, we continue one of the biggest conversations this podcast has ever started.Women have become comfortable telling men exactly what they want:A provider.<br />A protector.<br />A leader.<br />A man with ambition.<br />A man who earns well.<br />A man who can build a future.But here's the question very few people ask:Are those expectations built for the average man... or for a version of him that fewer and fewer men actually become?This isn't an attack on women.It isn't a defense of men.It's a conversation about what has changed in modern relationships—and what hasn't.In this episode, we discuss:• Why today's labour market is different from previous generations.<br />• Why many men and women value different things when choosing a partner.<br />• Why attention has become one of the biggest hidden challenges in modern dating.<br />• Social media, followers, and the difference between visibility and commitment.<br />• Why backup plans quietly weaken trust.<br />• Why ordinary life has become undervalued in the age of highlight reels.<br />• What average men actually notice—but often struggle to explain.<br />• The question almost nobody asks: What are you willing to sacrifice for the relationship you say you want?This episode isn't about blaming women or defending men.It's about understanding why so many ordinary people are struggling to build lasting relationships in a world that constantly rewards attention, comparison, and keeping your options open.Maybe we've been asking the wrong questions.Maybe we've been talking past each other.Or maybe...there are things we've all been missing.Listen now and decide for yourself.relationships, dating, marriage, average man, average woman, what men want, modern dating, social media, commitment, loyalty, emotional boundaries, masculinity, femininity, attraction, relationship advice, psychology, love, trust, You're Probably Right<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4229</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>358</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Love by Committee: When Friends, Family, Exes and Social Media Control Your Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-by-committee-when-friends-family-exes-and-social-media-control-your-relationship--72935174</link><description><![CDATA[How many people get a vote in your relationship? In Episode 359, MCM examines how friends, family, exes, coworkers, group chats and social media can influence private relationship decisions, damage trust and make reconciliation more difficult.This episode explores relationship interference, unwanted advice, couple communication, emotional boundaries, privacy versus secrecy, family influence and the danger of discussing your partner with everyone except your partner. When outside opinions become louder than the two people involved, is the relationship still yours?Listen to You’re Probably Right Podcast and ask yourself one question: If everyone else became quiet, what would you actually decide?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">648113fc-79d9-4e5d-b118-28afb586fca9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2026 03:21:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72935174/427790635_44100_2_ac1a36301c81f.mp3" length="57963414" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How many people get a vote in your relationship? In Episode 359, MCM examines how friends, family, exes, coworkers, group chats and social media can influence private relationship decisions, damage trust and make reconciliation more difficult.This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many people get a vote in your relationship? In Episode 359, MCM examines how friends, family, exes, coworkers, group chats and social media can influence private relationship decisions, damage trust and make reconciliation more difficult.This episode explores relationship interference, unwanted advice, couple communication, emotional boundaries, privacy versus secrecy, family influence and the danger of discussing your partner with everyone except your partner. When outside opinions become louder than the two people involved, is the relationship still yours?Listen to You’re Probably Right Podcast and ask yourself one question: If everyone else became quiet, what would you actually decide?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3623</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>359</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>20 Things That Trip You Up With Someone Who Doesn’t Love You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-things-that-trip-you-up-with-someone-who-doesn-t-love-you--72884518</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down 20 ways people get trapped in one sided relationships, situationships, and unhealthy emotional attachments.This is for the person who keeps giving, explaining, paying, forgiving, waiting, and trying to prove their worth to someone who keeps pulling away. It is about anxious attachment, emotional labour, fear, overgiving, financial strain, intimacy, neglect, self respect, and the painful moment when you realize someone may be benefiting from your love without truly loving you back.This episode is not about blaming men or women. It is about recognizing the pattern before it drains your money, your health, your peace, and your sense of self.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c33b66f8-5b6d-4da3-b2f0-0d2eabf59922</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 07:38:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72884518/427635328_44100_2_901474c3734ee.mp3" length="51961520" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down 20 ways people get trapped in one sided relationships, situationships, and unhealthy emotional attachments.This is for the person who keeps giving, explaining, paying, forgiving, waiting, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down 20 ways people get trapped in one sided relationships, situationships, and unhealthy emotional attachments.This is for the person who keeps giving, explaining, paying, forgiving, waiting, and trying to prove their worth to someone who keeps pulling away. It is about anxious attachment, emotional labour, fear, overgiving, financial strain, intimacy, neglect, self respect, and the painful moment when you realize someone may be benefiting from your love without truly loving you back.This episode is not about blaming men or women. It is about recognizing the pattern before it drains your money, your health, your peace, and your sense of self.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3248</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>357</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Are You Really Looking For In A Life Partner?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-are-you-really-looking-for-in-a-life-partner--72735976</link><description><![CDATA[Most people say they want love, but very few people have actually decided what they are looking for in a life partner.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down one of the most important questions in modern dating: how do you know whether someone is actually worth building a life with?This conversation is not about finding a perfect person. It is about learning how to think clearly before you attach your future to someone. Michael explores three areas that matter when choosing a life partner: substance, compatibility, and vision.Because attraction is not enough. Chemistry is not enough. Being liked is not enough. And being chosen by someone does not automatically mean they are right for the life you are trying to build.Before you ask whether someone is the one, ask yourself whether you even know what you are really looking for.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">45b08aef-63a9-4698-8757-215b014b0d98</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2026 03:30:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72735976/427006378_44100_2_f901bf4390bf.mp3" length="46391378" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people say they want love, but very few people have actually decided what they are looking for in a life partner.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down one of the most important questions in modern dating: how do you know whether someone...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people say they want love, but very few people have actually decided what they are looking for in a life partner.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down one of the most important questions in modern dating: how do you know whether someone is actually worth building a life with?This conversation is not about finding a perfect person. It is about learning how to think clearly before you attach your future to someone. Michael explores three areas that matter when choosing a life partner: substance, compatibility, and vision.Because attraction is not enough. Chemistry is not enough. Being liked is not enough. And being chosen by someone does not automatically mean they are right for the life you are trying to build.Before you ask whether someone is the one, ask yourself whether you even know what you are really looking for.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2900</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76426abf3db68df729cf25ce496dc3bc.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>356</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You Knew It Was Wrong, So Why Did You Stay?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-knew-it-was-wrong-so-why-did-you-stay--72722249</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes the hardest truth is not that you were confused. It is that you knew something was wrong earlier than you wanted to admit.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down why people stay in relationships, jobs, friendships, family roles, and life situations long after the pattern has already shown them the truth.This is not about blaming people for being hurt. It is about understanding why hope, fear, emotional investment, mixed signals, attachment, nostalgia, faith, and grief avoidance can keep someone tied to something that is clearly costing them peace.Why do we keep explaining when the pattern already speaks?<br />Why do we call fear patience?<br />Why do we confuse being needed with being valued?<br />Why do we stay loyal to situations that keep making us smaller?As summer begins and the world looks bright outside, many people are still carrying emotional weight inside. This episode asks the uncomfortable question:If you already knew, what were you paying to pretend you didn’t?A deep, honest episode about self respect, relationships, regret, emotional clarity, letting go, and finally accepting what the pattern has been trying to tell you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b5d6d378-df60-4ce5-827f-5a87520550db</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2026 22:16:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72722249/85d77e2d_c681_419a_7292_708ff5b1380d.mp3" length="95926869" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes the hardest truth is not that you were confused. It is that you knew something was wrong earlier than you wanted to admit.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down why people stay in relationships, jobs, friendships, family...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes the hardest truth is not that you were confused. It is that you knew something was wrong earlier than you wanted to admit.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down why people stay in relationships, jobs, friendships, family roles, and life situations long after the pattern has already shown them the truth.This is not about blaming people for being hurt. It is about understanding why hope, fear, emotional investment, mixed signals, attachment, nostalgia, faith, and grief avoidance can keep someone tied to something that is clearly costing them peace.Why do we keep explaining when the pattern already speaks?<br />Why do we call fear patience?<br />Why do we confuse being needed with being valued?<br />Why do we stay loyal to situations that keep making us smaller?As summer begins and the world looks bright outside, many people are still carrying emotional weight inside. This episode asks the uncomfortable question:If you already knew, what were you paying to pretend you didn’t?A deep, honest episode about self respect, relationships, regret, emotional clarity, letting go, and finally accepting what the pattern has been trying to tell you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3995</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8a708d51b9b622579369f1c470628001.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>355</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally Bankrupt</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-354-relationship-economics-how-good-people-go-emotionally-bankrupt--72683552</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally BankruptWhat if relationships had an economy?What if every conversation, every sacrifice, every act of patience, every thoughtful gift, every moment of intimacy, and every second chance was a deposit into an emotional bank account?And what if the person you're investing in isn't using the same currency?In this episode, MCM introduces a completely different way of looking at modern relationships, situationships, and emotional investment through the lens of Relationship Economics.Discover the concepts of:• Relationship Currency<br />• Relationship Inflation<br />• The Desperation Tax<br />• The Teeter Totter Principle<br />• Emotional Equity<br />• Relationship Leverage<br />• Relationship BankruptcyWhy do intelligent, caring people stay in relationships that aren't growing?Why do some people walk away feeling like they've lost everything, while the other person seems completely unaffected?What causes us to explain away obvious warning signs?At what point does hope become denial?And how do we stop making emotional deposits into relationships that may never have been building toward the same future?This isn't an episode about blaming men or women.It's about understanding why two people can experience the exact same relationship and walk away with completely different emotional bank accounts.If you've ever invested more than the other person...If you've ever believed patience would eventually become commitment...If you've ever wondered why you ignored things you normally would have never accepted...This episode may change the way you look at relationships forever.Because sometimes the greatest loss isn't the relationship itself.It's realizing you were making deposits into a future that only one person believed existed.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d1f66630-e13a-45c9-b37c-87ce6fbab098</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2026 03:36:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72683552/426790383_44100_2_172ff3780dfe.mp3" length="49824495" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally BankruptWhat if relationships had an economy?What if every conversation, every sacrifice, every act of patience, every thoughtful gift, every moment of intimacy, and every second...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 354: Relationship Economics, How Good People Go Emotionally BankruptWhat if relationships had an economy?What if every conversation, every sacrifice, every act of patience, every thoughtful gift, every moment of intimacy, and every second chance was a deposit into an emotional bank account?And what if the person you're investing in isn't using the same currency?In this episode, MCM introduces a completely different way of looking at modern relationships, situationships, and emotional investment through the lens of Relationship Economics.Discover the concepts of:• Relationship Currency<br />• Relationship Inflation<br />• The Desperation Tax<br />• The Teeter Totter Principle<br />• Emotional Equity<br />• Relationship Leverage<br />• Relationship BankruptcyWhy do intelligent, caring people stay in relationships that aren't growing?Why do some people walk away feeling like they've lost everything, while the other person seems completely unaffected?What causes us to explain away obvious warning signs?At what point does hope become denial?And how do we stop making emotional deposits into relationships that may never have been building toward the same future?This isn't an episode about blaming men or women.It's about understanding why two people can experience the exact same relationship and walk away with completely different emotional bank accounts.If you've ever invested more than the other person...If you've ever believed patience would eventually become commitment...If you've ever wondered why you ignored things you normally would have never accepted...This episode may change the way you look at relationships forever.Because sometimes the greatest loss isn't the relationship itself.It's realizing you were making deposits into a future that only one person believed existed.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3114</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>14</itunes:season><itunes:episode>354</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 353: They Don't Want You Back, They Just Want Access</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-353-they-don-t-want-you-back-they-just-want-access--72660901</link><description><![CDATA[What happens when someone leaves the relationship, changes the relationship, or quietly downgrades the relationship, but still expects access to you afterward?Not commitment.Not accountability.Not reconciliation.Just access.In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an honest look at one of the most confusing and frustrating dynamics many people experience after a breakup, rejection, situationship, workplace relationship, friendship fallout, or emotional disconnect.Why do some people continue to make small talk, share gossip, offer help, check in occasionally, or maintain contact after they've made it clear they don't want a deeper relationship?Are they trying to be mature?Are they avoiding guilt?Do they miss the connection?Or do they simply want the benefits of your presence without the responsibility that came with being close to you?More importantly, why does it still bother us?This episode goes beyond the usual breakup advice and explores uncomfortable questions about attachment, resentment, validation, accountability, emotional access, friendship after rejection, and the struggle of trying to make peace with a chapter that never received a proper ending.If you've ever found yourself thinking:"Why are they talking to me like nothing happened?""Why do they act friendly when we're together but disappear when we're apart?""Why do they want conversation but not connection?""Why am I upset when they talk to me and upset when they don't?"This episode is for you.A brutally honest conversation about the difference between closure and access, friendship and familiarity, and why healing sometimes requires accepting that the conversation you wanted may never come.Because sometimes they don't want you back.They just don't want to lose access.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1ab9bf66-9b98-4e37-b66a-52f03dcf8a15</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2026 01:37:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72660901/426720299_44100_2_1318f00d9697d.mp3" length="19087777" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What happens when someone leaves the relationship, changes the relationship, or quietly downgrades the relationship, but still expects access to you afterward?Not commitment.Not accountability.Not reconciliation.Just access.In this episode of You're...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when someone leaves the relationship, changes the relationship, or quietly downgrades the relationship, but still expects access to you afterward?Not commitment.Not accountability.Not reconciliation.Just access.In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an honest look at one of the most confusing and frustrating dynamics many people experience after a breakup, rejection, situationship, workplace relationship, friendship fallout, or emotional disconnect.Why do some people continue to make small talk, share gossip, offer help, check in occasionally, or maintain contact after they've made it clear they don't want a deeper relationship?Are they trying to be mature?Are they avoiding guilt?Do they miss the connection?Or do they simply want the benefits of your presence without the responsibility that came with being close to you?More importantly, why does it still bother us?This episode goes beyond the usual breakup advice and explores uncomfortable questions about attachment, resentment, validation, accountability, emotional access, friendship after rejection, and the struggle of trying to make peace with a chapter that never received a proper ending.If you've ever found yourself thinking:"Why are they talking to me like nothing happened?""Why do they act friendly when we're together but disappear when we're apart?""Why do they want conversation but not connection?""Why am I upset when they talk to me and upset when they don't?"This episode is for you.A brutally honest conversation about the difference between closure and access, friendship and familiarity, and why healing sometimes requires accepting that the conversation you wanted may never come.Because sometimes they don't want you back.They just don't want to lose access.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1193</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>353</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>352: The Nice Guy Trap: Sacrifice Isn’t the Problem. Discernment Is.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/352-the-nice-guy-trap-sacrifice-isn-t-the-problem-discernment-is--72625341</link><description><![CDATA[Being a nice guy is not the problem.<br />Sacrifice is not the problem.<br />The problem is giving covenant-level commitment to someone who does not share covenant-level convictions.<br />In this episode, MCM breaks down why many men feel used, unappreciated, and exhausted in relationships. Not because they loved too much, but because they failed to properly vet who they were loving.<br />This episode is about the difference between kindness and weakness, sacrifice and discernment, attraction and alignment, covenant and preference.<br />If you have ever wondered, “If I’m such a nice guy, why can’t I keep a woman?” this one is going to hit hard.<br />Watch or listen now.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">30043ece-c678-4420-ad4b-c3292c550821</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2026 02:09:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72625341/426579039_44100_2_482e3b24c628f.mp3" length="25994134" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Being a nice guy is not the problem.
Sacrifice is not the problem.
The problem is giving covenant-level commitment to someone who does not share covenant-level convictions.
In this episode, MCM breaks down why many men feel used, unappreciated, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Being a nice guy is not the problem.<br />Sacrifice is not the problem.<br />The problem is giving covenant-level commitment to someone who does not share covenant-level convictions.<br />In this episode, MCM breaks down why many men feel used, unappreciated, and exhausted in relationships. Not because they loved too much, but because they failed to properly vet who they were loving.<br />This episode is about the difference between kindness and weakness, sacrifice and discernment, attraction and alignment, covenant and preference.<br />If you have ever wondered, “If I’m such a nice guy, why can’t I keep a woman?” this one is going to hit hard.<br />Watch or listen now.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1625</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>352</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-351-why-are-we-all-so-replaceable-now--72616965</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?Ghosting. Situationships. Breadcrumbing. Monkey barring. Orbiting. Ghostlighting.Modern dating seems to invent a new word every week, but what if all of these behaviours are really pointing to the same problem?In this episode, MCM explores a theory that might explain why commitment feels harder than ever before.What if modern dating has become sampling?Just like Netflix, YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok, people now have endless options at their fingertips. We scroll through content. We sample videos. We watch trailers instead of movies.Have relationships started working the same way?Why do people keep one foot in and one foot out?Why do exes come back?Why are situationships becoming normal?Are mixed signals really mixed, or are we ignoring what is right in front of us?This episode takes a hard look at modern dating, commitment, endless options, dating fatigue, and why so many people seem to be searching for something better while overlooking what they already have.The question isn't whether people have more choices.The question is whether those choices are making us happier.Episode 351 of You're Probably Right with MCM.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4d3e87a2-0afb-4a95-b1ae-c1a9eb5d0c75</guid><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2026 03:20:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72616965/426531049_44100_2_b53eeea122a36.mp3" length="29127156" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?Ghosting. Situationships. Breadcrumbing. Monkey barring. Orbiting. Ghostlighting.Modern dating seems to invent a new word every week, but what if all of these behaviours are really pointing to the same...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?Ghosting. Situationships. Breadcrumbing. Monkey barring. Orbiting. Ghostlighting.Modern dating seems to invent a new word every week, but what if all of these behaviours are really pointing to the same problem?In this episode, MCM explores a theory that might explain why commitment feels harder than ever before.What if modern dating has become sampling?Just like Netflix, YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok, people now have endless options at their fingertips. We scroll through content. We sample videos. We watch trailers instead of movies.Have relationships started working the same way?Why do people keep one foot in and one foot out?Why do exes come back?Why are situationships becoming normal?Are mixed signals really mixed, or are we ignoring what is right in front of us?This episode takes a hard look at modern dating, commitment, endless options, dating fatigue, and why so many people seem to be searching for something better while overlooking what they already have.The question isn't whether people have more choices.The question is whether those choices are making us happier.Episode 351 of You're Probably Right with MCM.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1821</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>351</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 350: Should I Take Them Back? 10 Questions Before You Let Them Return</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-350-should-i-take-them-back-10-questions-before-you-let-them-return--72572861</link><description><![CDATA[What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around?This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking, situationships, and relationships that never reached that level.In Episode 350, MCM breaks down the question many people search when an old person returns:Should I take them back?But before you answer that with emotion, nostalgia, attraction, chemistry, loneliness, or hope, there are 10 questions you need to ask yourself honestly.Did they take accountability?Did the original problem actually change?Are they coming back with remorse, or just appetite?Are they looking for the old agreement?Are you their final choice, or just their comfort zone?And if they leave again, will the second ending cost you more than the first one did?This episode also gets into a deeper question:Do you really love this person, or do you love what they represent?Sometimes what people call love is really access, attraction, status, nostalgia, fear, religion, culture, money, chemistry, or the feeling of finally being chosen by someone who once rejected them.Before you let someone return, you have to understand this:Yesterday’s access is not today’s access.A person who damaged trust does not get to complain about the security system.This is a direct, honest, and necessary conversation for anyone wondering whether an old relationship deserves a new chance.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">99d53f7b-5706-4809-9530-cfeb58a07e72</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 02:17:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72572861/426359985_44100_2_967d5ffc5e479.mp3" length="32517641" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around?This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around?This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking, situationships, and relationships that never reached that level.In Episode 350, MCM breaks down the question many people search when an old person returns:Should I take them back?But before you answer that with emotion, nostalgia, attraction, chemistry, loneliness, or hope, there are 10 questions you need to ask yourself honestly.Did they take accountability?Did the original problem actually change?Are they coming back with remorse, or just appetite?Are they looking for the old agreement?Are you their final choice, or just their comfort zone?And if they leave again, will the second ending cost you more than the first one did?This episode also gets into a deeper question:Do you really love this person, or do you love what they represent?Sometimes what people call love is really access, attraction, status, nostalgia, fear, religion, culture, money, chemistry, or the feeling of finally being chosen by someone who once rejected them.Before you let someone return, you have to understand this:Yesterday’s access is not today’s access.A person who damaged trust does not get to complain about the security system.This is a direct, honest, and necessary conversation for anyone wondering whether an old relationship deserves a new chance.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2033</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>350</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Does the Average Man Really Want From a Woman? | Let Me Say It for Him: The Big Five</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-does-the-average-man-really-want-from-a-woman-let-me-say-it-for-him-the-big-five--72372255</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man.<br />Not the celebrity.<br />Not the womanizer.<br />Not the man with endless options.The average working man.The regular man with bills, pressure, responsibility, fatigue, and limited room for error.This episode breaks down The Big Five:<ol><li>He wants a woman he does not have to mentally guard from the world.</li><li>He wants to feel wanted for himself, not just chosen for what he provides.</li><li>He wants a woman whose public image does not make him feel like a fool for choosing her privately.</li><li>He wants a woman who knows how to be warm without being available.</li><li>He wants a woman who listens without making him fight to be heard.</li></ol>This is not textbook talk. This is not theory. This comes from lived experience: relationships, marriage, workplace temptation, emotional boundaries, male attention, public image, and the things average men often feel but do not know how to explain.A lot of men are not asking for perfection.They are asking for protection around what they are trying to build.Let me say it for him.These are The Big Five.relationships, what do men want, average man, men and women, dating, marriage, love, commitment, loyalty, desire, respect, workplace boundaries, social media relationships, male perspective, modern relationships, relationship advice, emotional boundaries, You’re Probably Right]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">db201f0c-48b9-4635-a880-fa806da754c4</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 14:58:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72372255/425574198_44100_2_257d0afe396f8.mp3" length="91678510" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man.
Not the celebrity.
Not the womanizer.
Not the man with endless options.The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man.<br />Not the celebrity.<br />Not the womanizer.<br />Not the man with endless options.The average working man.The regular man with bills, pressure, responsibility, fatigue, and limited room for error.This episode breaks down The Big Five:<ol><li>He wants a woman he does not have to mentally guard from the world.</li><li>He wants to feel wanted for himself, not just chosen for what he provides.</li><li>He wants a woman whose public image does not make him feel like a fool for choosing her privately.</li><li>He wants a woman who knows how to be warm without being available.</li><li>He wants a woman who listens without making him fight to be heard.</li></ol>This is not textbook talk. This is not theory. This comes from lived experience: relationships, marriage, workplace temptation, emotional boundaries, male attention, public image, and the things average men often feel but do not know how to explain.A lot of men are not asking for perfection.They are asking for protection around what they are trying to build.Let me say it for him.These are The Big Five.relationships, what do men want, average man, men and women, dating, marriage, love, commitment, loyalty, desire, respect, workplace boundaries, social media relationships, male perspective, modern relationships, relationship advice, emotional boundaries, You’re Probably Right]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5730</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>349</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>348. When the Small Letdown Finally Tells the Truth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/348-when-the-small-letdown-finally-tells-the-truth--72312544</link><description><![CDATA[I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak, not desperate, but maybe too willing to believe that intensity must be pointing toward character.Because sometimes the chemistry was real.The warmth was real.The private moments were real.But real is not the same as safe.Real is not the same as loyal.Real is not the same as honorable.And real is not the same as reciprocal.In Episode 348 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the kind of connection that keeps you defending the highest moment while the pattern keeps telling the truth. The kind of person who receives your care, your patience, your attention, your body, your loyalty, and your hope, but still does not become more careful with you.Sometimes it is not the huge betrayal that wakes you up.Sometimes it is the small failure.The thing they should have remembered.The thing they should have cared enough to do.The basic act of regard that would have cost them almost nothing.And when they still cannot meet you there, the story finally starts looking different.This one is about chemistry, character, giving too much, protecting the story, ignoring the pattern, and why painful clarity can still be mercy.If you have ever used one beautiful moment to excuse ten weak ones, this episode is for you. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3a503ebe-80a0-4aca-b970-5361ff298fb7</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 02:20:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72312544/425404457_44100_2_dca802f958b0c.mp3" length="72953102" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak, not desperate, but maybe too willing to believe that intensity must be pointing toward character.Because sometimes the chemistry was real.The warmth was real.The private moments were real.But real is not the same as safe.Real is not the same as loyal.Real is not the same as honorable.And real is not the same as reciprocal.In Episode 348 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the kind of connection that keeps you defending the highest moment while the pattern keeps telling the truth. The kind of person who receives your care, your patience, your attention, your body, your loyalty, and your hope, but still does not become more careful with you.Sometimes it is not the huge betrayal that wakes you up.Sometimes it is the small failure.The thing they should have remembered.The thing they should have cared enough to do.The basic act of regard that would have cost them almost nothing.And when they still cannot meet you there, the story finally starts looking different.This one is about chemistry, character, giving too much, protecting the story, ignoring the pattern, and why painful clarity can still be mercy.If you have ever used one beautiful moment to excuse ten weak ones, this episode is for you. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4560</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>348</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 347: Why Didn’t I Know I Was Enough?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-347-why-didn-t-i-know-i-was-enough--72257974</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time.This is a personal rumination about weight loss, old Smule recordings, self image, deep sadness, being treated like your value depended on someone else’s approval, and the painful realization that sometimes we spend years trying to prove our worth to people who should never have been allowed to define it.I talk about letting the wrong people become the mirror, why being wanted after you change can mess with your head, and why sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is stop negotiating your value and let people leave, physically and mentally.Because maybe you were enough.Maybe you just did not know it.And maybe now, you are finally starting to see.If this episode connects with you, share it with someone who has been too hard on themselves.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d78b6354-ab68-4bdd-997a-0031ac55bb45</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 02:10:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72257974/bc750ad9_eae7_59fb_ffc1_34580bb7ffa7.mp3" length="88422875" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time.This is a personal rumination...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time.This is a personal rumination about weight loss, old Smule recordings, self image, deep sadness, being treated like your value depended on someone else’s approval, and the painful realization that sometimes we spend years trying to prove our worth to people who should never have been allowed to define it.I talk about letting the wrong people become the mirror, why being wanted after you change can mess with your head, and why sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is stop negotiating your value and let people leave, physically and mentally.Because maybe you were enough.Maybe you just did not know it.And maybe now, you are finally starting to see.If this episode connects with you, share it with someone who has been too hard on themselves.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3682</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1e714d7aab1d6f8f59f62264d71b6d74.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>347</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 346 You’re Not Trying To Get Them Back. You’re Trying To Get Back To The Moment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-346-you-re-not-trying-to-get-them-back-you-re-trying-to-get-back-to-the-moment--72135959</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment.Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare, electric, and almost impossible. The look. The chemistry. The feeling. The peak. And once you have touched something like that, it can take a long time to admit that what you are chasing is not the person anymore. It is the pinnacle.This episode is about what happens when you finally get the thing you always believed life could hold, lose it almost as quickly as you found it, and then spend far too long trying to recreate a miracle that was never built to last.If you have ever replayed a relationship, idealized a high point, or realized that you were not chasing love so much as trying to get back to the feeling, this one is for you.Real talk. Raw thoughts. No neat little answers.Just a hard look at memory, longing, peak experiences, and the painful truth that some moments are summits, not homes.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2b3efd0c-cbcb-4286-97b4-d15dfc53ca02</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 00:14:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72135959/3dcd13dd_5d70_3fd4_70c1_4994eca5bdc2.mp3" length="64769376" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment.Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment.Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare, electric, and almost impossible. The look. The chemistry. The feeling. The peak. And once you have touched something like that, it can take a long time to admit that what you are chasing is not the person anymore. It is the pinnacle.This episode is about what happens when you finally get the thing you always believed life could hold, lose it almost as quickly as you found it, and then spend far too long trying to recreate a miracle that was never built to last.If you have ever replayed a relationship, idealized a high point, or realized that you were not chasing love so much as trying to get back to the feeling, this one is for you.Real talk. Raw thoughts. No neat little answers.Just a hard look at memory, longing, peak experiences, and the painful truth that some moments are summits, not homes.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cbbe169e36cda1d8959a261aba7e95ff.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>346</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Have You Actually Ever Really Been in Love? Love, Marriage, Attachment &amp; Loneliness</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/have-you-actually-ever-really-been-in-love-love-marriage-attachment-loneliness--72060942</link><description><![CDATA[real love, love or attachment, love or loneliness, love or lust, love or fear, emotional attachment, emotional dependence, marriage and love, Christian marriage, covenant marriage, relationship truth, fear of being alone, infatuation, desire versus love, timing in relationships, love and duty, have I ever been in love, what is real love, relationship patterns, loneliness in relationships, when feelings fade, love versus convenience.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">db7ba755-d766-4824-8fc8-7de26712dd3c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2026 19:59:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72060942/2d6f9b08_17b6_d564_322c_dd9b4918484d.mp3" length="107888481" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>real love, love or attachment, love or loneliness, love or lust, love or fear, emotional attachment, emotional dependence, marriage and love, Christian marriage, covenant marriage, relationship truth, fear of being alone, infatuation, desire versus...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[real love, love or attachment, love or loneliness, love or lust, love or fear, emotional attachment, emotional dependence, marriage and love, Christian marriage, covenant marriage, relationship truth, fear of being alone, infatuation, desire versus love, timing in relationships, love and duty, have I ever been in love, what is real love, relationship patterns, loneliness in relationships, when feelings fade, love versus convenience.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4494</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0f64b33f46b87ca27ea41fd0e822715c.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>345</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Man Behind the Myth | Episode 344</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-man-behind-the-myth-episode-344--72007653</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 344 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is a spoken-word cultural reflection on what happens when Black men are desired, chosen, and pursued not as full human beings, but as myths.This episode goes into colour, culture, country of origin, body, voice, masculinity, sexuality, fantasy, performance, and the hidden cost of being wanted in ways that still do not see the man clearly. Because some people do not choose Black men because they know them. They choose Black men because they think they know what Black men are supposed to be.And when the real man shows up, the fantasy gets offended.This is about fetish, projection, desire, misunderstanding, performance, and the deep difference between being wanted and being respected. If you have ever felt like someone loved the image, the energy, the culture, the body, or the story more than they loved the actual person standing in front of them, this episode will hit.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">049f4723-e2ef-49b7-a1ef-553abda0805c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 15:03:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72007653/424151590_44100_2_a7e3ac9576931.mp3" length="39238425" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 344 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is a spoken-word cultural reflection on what happens when Black men are desired, chosen, and pursued not as full human beings, but as myths.This episode goes into colour, culture, country of origin, body,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 344 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is a spoken-word cultural reflection on what happens when Black men are desired, chosen, and pursued not as full human beings, but as myths.This episode goes into colour, culture, country of origin, body, voice, masculinity, sexuality, fantasy, performance, and the hidden cost of being wanted in ways that still do not see the man clearly. Because some people do not choose Black men because they know them. They choose Black men because they think they know what Black men are supposed to be.And when the real man shows up, the fantasy gets offended.This is about fetish, projection, desire, misunderstanding, performance, and the deep difference between being wanted and being respected. If you have ever felt like someone loved the image, the energy, the culture, the body, or the story more than they loved the actual person standing in front of them, this episode will hit.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2453</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>344</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Respect Over Love = Love + Respect + Peace Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/respect-over-love-love-respect-peace-episode-343-of-you-re-probably-right-podcast--71994434</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is not a soft conversation. It is not padded. It is not dressed up. I got right into it.This is a spoken-word style episode about why respect matters more than people think, why love without respect becomes dangerous, and why so many people stay in situations where they are wanted, used, desired, touched, remembered, and even cared about in fragments, but still not handled with dignity.I talk about disrespect in dating, love, attachment, mixed signals, emotional crumbs, self-abandonment, and the ugly truth that some people want the benefits of closeness without the burden of carrying another human being properly. This episode is for the people who have been replaying the tone, the moments, the chemistry, the contradictions, and trying to make sense of how something real could still be so wrong.This one is long. It goes in. If you need to pause and come back, come back. But if you have ever confused love with safety, warmth with honor, or closeness with respect, this episode is going to hit.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">eec7f9eb-1ef7-4ef0-b92f-941278c861d2</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 18:18:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71994434/424089881_44100_2_5b78b62ce4784.mp3" length="87059643" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is not a soft conversation. It is not padded. It is not dressed up. I got right into it.This is a spoken-word style episode about why respect matters more than people think, why love without respect becomes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is not a soft conversation. It is not padded. It is not dressed up. I got right into it.This is a spoken-word style episode about why respect matters more than people think, why love without respect becomes dangerous, and why so many people stay in situations where they are wanted, used, desired, touched, remembered, and even cared about in fragments, but still not handled with dignity.I talk about disrespect in dating, love, attachment, mixed signals, emotional crumbs, self-abandonment, and the ugly truth that some people want the benefits of closeness without the burden of carrying another human being properly. This episode is for the people who have been replaying the tone, the moments, the chemistry, the contradictions, and trying to make sense of how something real could still be so wrong.This one is long. It goes in. If you need to pause and come back, come back. But if you have ever confused love with safety, warmth with honor, or closeness with respect, this episode is going to hit.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5442</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>343</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Your Mind Replays Emotional Moments Like Movies | Episode 342</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-your-mind-replays-emotional-moments-like-movies-episode-342--71980218</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 342 of You’re Probably Right Podcast asks why some emotional moments do not just fade. They replay. Not as ideas, but as scenes. A look. A sentence. A silence. A soft moment that felt real. A cold moment that wiped it away.In this episode, Mike breaks down why some minds keep reopening emotional stories that never got a clean ending, why replay can become hope in disguise, and why unfinished emotional bonds can trap people for far longer than they want to admit. This is not just about heartbreak. It is about memory, contradiction, dignity, and the mind trying to finish what real life never finished.If you have ever found yourself replaying a person, a conversation, a moment, or an ending that never sat right in your spirit, this episode is for you. Sometimes the mind is not replaying the story because you are weak. Sometimes it is replaying it because it never got an honest ending. The deeper question is not just why you do this. The deeper question is what story you are still trying to finish.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d73abf8b-b1a9-4884-8e18-4d1099b53e01</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 16:35:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71980218/424012216_44100_2_370603b771b41.mp3" length="38045151" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 342 of You’re Probably Right Podcast asks why some emotional moments do not just fade. They replay. Not as ideas, but as scenes. A look. A sentence. A silence. A soft moment that felt real. A cold moment that wiped it away.In this episode,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 342 of You’re Probably Right Podcast asks why some emotional moments do not just fade. They replay. Not as ideas, but as scenes. A look. A sentence. A silence. A soft moment that felt real. A cold moment that wiped it away.In this episode, Mike breaks down why some minds keep reopening emotional stories that never got a clean ending, why replay can become hope in disguise, and why unfinished emotional bonds can trap people for far longer than they want to admit. This is not just about heartbreak. It is about memory, contradiction, dignity, and the mind trying to finish what real life never finished.If you have ever found yourself replaying a person, a conversation, a moment, or an ending that never sat right in your spirit, this episode is for you. Sometimes the mind is not replaying the story because you are weak. Sometimes it is replaying it because it never got an honest ending. The deeper question is not just why you do this. The deeper question is what story you are still trying to finish.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2378</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>342</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Match Made in Hell, Part 5: When Fruit Tells the Truth | Episode 341</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-match-made-in-hell-part-5-when-fruit-tells-the-truth-episode-341--71832623</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 341 of You’re Probably Right Podcast closes out the A Match Made in Hell series by asking the deeper question most people never get to: not just what happened, not just what label fits, but what fruit did the bond actually produce.This episode moves past the usual modern language of trauma, attachment, avoidance, narcissism, and emotional unavailability, and asks what those patterns reveal at a deeper moral and spiritual level. Mike breaks down the difference between psychological labels and biblical categories, then looks again at both people in the bond: the over-invested person and the vague, self-protective one.What did this relationship produce? Truth or confusion? Peace or disorder? Repentance or selfish ambition? Gentleness or humiliation? Because when the fruit tells the truth, the whole relationship starts to look different.This is the episode where the wider lens finally comes in. If you have followed the series, this is the capstone. If you are just stepping in, this is the one that asks the hardest and most important question: what kind of tree were you standing under?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b0f19888-1a99-4606-bd94-4f22218013ba</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2026 20:29:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71832623/423336249_44100_2_e39d656bba87.mp3" length="66817461" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 341 of You’re Probably Right Podcast closes out the A Match Made in Hell series by asking the deeper question most people never get to: not just what happened, not just what label fits, but what fruit did the bond actually produce.This episode...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 341 of You’re Probably Right Podcast closes out the A Match Made in Hell series by asking the deeper question most people never get to: not just what happened, not just what label fits, but what fruit did the bond actually produce.This episode moves past the usual modern language of trauma, attachment, avoidance, narcissism, and emotional unavailability, and asks what those patterns reveal at a deeper moral and spiritual level. Mike breaks down the difference between psychological labels and biblical categories, then looks again at both people in the bond: the over-invested person and the vague, self-protective one.What did this relationship produce? Truth or confusion? Peace or disorder? Repentance or selfish ambition? Gentleness or humiliation? Because when the fruit tells the truth, the whole relationship starts to look different.This is the episode where the wider lens finally comes in. If you have followed the series, this is the capstone. If you are just stepping in, this is the one that asks the hardest and most important question: what kind of tree were you standing under?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4177</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>341</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Match Made in Hell, Part 2: Why Vague People Keep You Stuck | Episode 340</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-match-made-in-hell-part-2-why-vague-people-keep-you-stuck-episode-340--71801373</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 340 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell series with a deep look at the vague, self-protective, selectively intimate person. This is the kind of person who can do warmth, chemistry, closeness, eye contact, private vulnerability, and emotional access in the moment, but struggles with clarity, consistency, accountability, repair, and clean endings.That is what makes them so damaging. Not always obvious cruelty. Not always coldness. Sometimes the damage comes from how real they can feel while still refusing to carry the weight of what they helped create.In this episode, MCM breaks down why these people leave others mentally trapped, why enough intimacy can happen without enough definition, why the more invested person ends up looking unstable, and how vagueness protects the person who benefited most from the bond.If you have ever dealt with someone who made you feel chosen one minute and foolish the next, this episode is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">10e4a7e9-b6e7-4dea-859f-78570051ec12</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2026 00:18:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71801373/423239876_44100_2_2859e5946d9f5.mp3" length="48502490" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 340 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell series with a deep look at the vague, self-protective, selectively intimate person. This is the kind of person who can do warmth, chemistry, closeness, eye contact,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 340 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell series with a deep look at the vague, self-protective, selectively intimate person. This is the kind of person who can do warmth, chemistry, closeness, eye contact, private vulnerability, and emotional access in the moment, but struggles with clarity, consistency, accountability, repair, and clean endings.That is what makes them so damaging. Not always obvious cruelty. Not always coldness. Sometimes the damage comes from how real they can feel while still refusing to carry the weight of what they helped create.In this episode, MCM breaks down why these people leave others mentally trapped, why enough intimacy can happen without enough definition, why the more invested person ends up looking unstable, and how vagueness protects the person who benefited most from the bond.If you have ever dealt with someone who made you feel chosen one minute and foolish the next, this episode is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3032</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>340</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Match made in hell Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered You Episode 339</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-match-made-in-hell-part-4-why-you-still-want-them-after-their-behaviour-already-answered-you-episode-339--71737029</link><description><![CDATA[A Match Made in Hell, Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered YouWhy do you still want one more moment with someone who already showed you where you stand?In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, we break down the painful psychology behind unclear relationships, mixed signals, emotional ambiguity, situationships, shame, overgiving, and why the person who was never fully chosen can still feel deeply attached.This episode is for anyone who was given warmth without consistency, intimacy without commitment, access without clarity, and an ending that never actually felt like an ending. We talk about why the beginning felt so real, why emotional access can be mistaken for being chosen, why one-sided effort becomes a repair attempt, and why “one more conversation” often feels like rescue when it is really just the hook pulling you back in.If you have ever asked, “Why do I still want them after how they treated me?” this episode is for you.Healing starts when you stop waiting for the perfect explanation and let the pattern be the answer.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f5b8b180-6e2f-4323-8a4e-702eff0383ae</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 16:10:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71737029/423129812_44100_2_f1c7c350dd037.mp3" length="48237922" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A Match Made in Hell, Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered YouWhy do you still want one more moment with someone who already showed you where you stand?In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, we break down...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A Match Made in Hell, Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered YouWhy do you still want one more moment with someone who already showed you where you stand?In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, we break down the painful psychology behind unclear relationships, mixed signals, emotional ambiguity, situationships, shame, overgiving, and why the person who was never fully chosen can still feel deeply attached.This episode is for anyone who was given warmth without consistency, intimacy without commitment, access without clarity, and an ending that never actually felt like an ending. We talk about why the beginning felt so real, why emotional access can be mistaken for being chosen, why one-sided effort becomes a repair attempt, and why “one more conversation” often feels like rescue when it is really just the hook pulling you back in.If you have ever asked, “Why do I still want them after how they treated me?” this episode is for you.Healing starts when you stop waiting for the perfect explanation and let the pattern be the answer.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3015</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>339</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Match Made in Hell, Part 3: The More Invested Person episode 338</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-match-made-in-hell-part-3-the-more-invested-person-episode-338--71656252</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 338 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell part 3 (out before 2)series by profiling the more invested, interpretive, meaning-driven person. This is the one who does not just feel the loss. They replay the timeline, study the contradictions, search for meaning in the mixed signals, and often end up suffering more because they bonded not only to the person, but to the meaning of what seemed to be happening.This episode breaks down why vagueness traps this kind of person harder than rejection, why shame deepens attachment, why overgiving becomes an attempt to repair wounded dignity, and why some people cannot let go until the story makes sense. If you have ever felt stuck on someone not just because you missed them, but because the whole thing never added up, this episode is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d975d79c-6216-4010-8e08-189d8f890e50</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 14:22:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71656252/422898537_44100_2_d7d137d772c68.mp3" length="34592808" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 338 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell part 3 (out before 2)series by profiling the more invested, interpretive, meaning-driven person. This is the one who does not just feel the loss. They replay the timeline,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 338 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell part 3 (out before 2)series by profiling the more invested, interpretive, meaning-driven person. This is the one who does not just feel the loss. They replay the timeline, study the contradictions, search for meaning in the mixed signals, and often end up suffering more because they bonded not only to the person, but to the meaning of what seemed to be happening.This episode breaks down why vagueness traps this kind of person harder than rejection, why shame deepens attachment, why overgiving becomes an attempt to repair wounded dignity, and why some people cannot let go until the story makes sense. If you have ever felt stuck on someone not just because you missed them, but because the whole thing never added up, this episode is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2163</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>338</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Match Made In Hell, Part 1: The Over-Investor and the One Who Keeps It Vague Episode 337</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-match-made-in-hell-part-1-the-over-investor-and-the-one-who-keeps-it-vague-episode-337--71647883</link><description><![CDATA[In part one of A Match Made in Hell, I break down the relationship dynamic between two very different types of people.One person is invested, interpretive, meaning-driven, and constantly trying to understand what really happened.The other person is vague, self-protective, selectively intimate, and better at keeping options open than giving clarity.This episode looks at how these two people show up, the kinds of roles they often fit into, and why one person usually ends up replaying conversations, seeking closure, and staying too long in ambiguity while the other dodges direct questions and rewrites the story later.If you have ever been stuck trying to solve someone who did not want to be solved, this one is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3a0b15b8-323a-4d5d-b6ec-8c9ad6e8de32</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 01:45:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71647883/422877333_44100_2_ef26fd44c9715.mp3" length="11813197" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In part one of A Match Made in Hell, I break down the relationship dynamic between two very different types of people.One person is invested, interpretive, meaning-driven, and constantly trying to understand what really happened.The other person is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In part one of A Match Made in Hell, I break down the relationship dynamic between two very different types of people.One person is invested, interpretive, meaning-driven, and constantly trying to understand what really happened.The other person is vague, self-protective, selectively intimate, and better at keeping options open than giving clarity.This episode looks at how these two people show up, the kinds of roles they often fit into, and why one person usually ends up replaying conversations, seeking closure, and staying too long in ambiguity while the other dodges direct questions and rewrites the story later.If you have ever been stuck trying to solve someone who did not want to be solved, this one is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>739</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>340</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Special episode Question and answers Part 50 GTY</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-episode-question-and-answers-part-50-gty--71450446</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I share part 50 of John MacArthur’s Bible Questions and Answers series, focused on Pentecostalism, the charismatic movement, speaking in tongues, healing ministries, spiritual gifts, and biblical doctrine. As someone who grew up in the Pentecostal church, this message hits close to home. It addresses questions I had for years about the Holy Spirit, salvation, church teaching, and whether many of the practices tied to that movement truly line up with Scripture. I still remember where I was when I first heard teaching like this because it finally spoke to issues I had been trying to understand for a long time. This episode is for listeners who want to examine Pentecostal beliefs, test charismatic claims, and compare everything carefully with the Bible. Listen with an open Bible, listen in context, and judge for yourself. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dcb4c7b9-47e6-4233-b985-d93356ec2dd8</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2026 03:44:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71450446/422361627_44100_2_403512faa774a.mp3" length="65916341" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I share part 50 of John MacArthur’s Bible Questions and Answers series, focused on Pentecostalism, the charismatic movement, speaking in tongues, healing ministries, spiritual gifts, and biblical doctrine. As someone who grew up in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I share part 50 of John MacArthur’s Bible Questions and Answers series, focused on Pentecostalism, the charismatic movement, speaking in tongues, healing ministries, spiritual gifts, and biblical doctrine. As someone who grew up in the Pentecostal church, this message hits close to home. It addresses questions I had for years about the Holy Spirit, salvation, church teaching, and whether many of the practices tied to that movement truly line up with Scripture. I still remember where I was when I first heard teaching like this because it finally spoke to issues I had been trying to understand for a long time. This episode is for listeners who want to examine Pentecostal beliefs, test charismatic claims, and compare everything carefully with the Bible. Listen with an open Bible, listen in context, and judge for yourself. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4120</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1000</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Lose Yourself in Relationships: Overgiving, Attachment, and Emotional Confusion</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-lose-yourself-in-relationships-overgiving-attachment-and-emotional-confusion--71395099</link><description><![CDATA[Overgiving can look like love until it turns into self-betrayal. This episode explores inconsistent affection, emotional confusion, and the habit of becoming useful just to feel chosen. If you’ve ever felt yourself shrinking in a relationship, this will help you see the pattern clearly.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1f6ee90f-23e1-4998-ad7e-e528ae94b3d3</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 02:26:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71395099/422237781_44100_2_e63f6ee6b257b.mp3" length="65138519" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Overgiving can look like love until it turns into self-betrayal. This episode explores inconsistent affection, emotional confusion, and the habit of becoming useful just to feel chosen. If you’ve ever felt yourself shrinking in a relationship, this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Overgiving can look like love until it turns into self-betrayal. This episode explores inconsistent affection, emotional confusion, and the habit of becoming useful just to feel chosen. If you’ve ever felt yourself shrinking in a relationship, this will help you see the pattern clearly.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4072</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>13</itunes:season><itunes:episode>336</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 335 — Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the person Gets</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-335-old-pain-is-still-deciding-what-the-person-gets--71289404</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 335 of You’re Probably Right picks up where Episode 334 left off. If Episode 334 was about old pain still deciding what the new man gets, this episode goes even deeper into what that actually does to new love. This is about how past hurt, unresolved wounds, and emotional survival mode can quietly make the next person pay for damage they never caused.Mike breaks down how old relationships may be over on paper but still alive in the nervous system, still shaping trust, intimacy, softness, and connection in the present. He talks about what happens when fear starts sounding like wisdom, when protection turns into distance, and when someone new ends up carrying emotional weight that belongs to somebody from the past.If you’ve ever felt like a current relationship was being taxed by old heartbreak, old trauma, or old attachment, this episode will hit. Episode 335 is about the hidden cost of bringing yesterday’s pain into today’s love.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b765183f-f810-46fb-a6ad-a126a873295d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 10:46:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71289404/421951832_44100_2_e9de6e2dbd1c5.mp3" length="28513174" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 335 of You’re Probably Right picks up where Episode 334 left off. If Episode 334 was about old pain still deciding what the new man gets, this episode goes even deeper into what that actually does to new love. This is about how past hurt,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 335 of You’re Probably Right picks up where Episode 334 left off. If Episode 334 was about old pain still deciding what the new man gets, this episode goes even deeper into what that actually does to new love. This is about how past hurt, unresolved wounds, and emotional survival mode can quietly make the next person pay for damage they never caused.Mike breaks down how old relationships may be over on paper but still alive in the nervous system, still shaping trust, intimacy, softness, and connection in the present. He talks about what happens when fear starts sounding like wisdom, when protection turns into distance, and when someone new ends up carrying emotional weight that belongs to somebody from the past.If you’ve ever felt like a current relationship was being taxed by old heartbreak, old trauma, or old attachment, this episode will hit. Episode 335 is about the hidden cost of bringing yesterday’s pain into today’s love.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1783</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>335</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the New Man Gets | Episode 334</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/old-pain-is-still-deciding-what-the-new-man-gets-episode-334--71265263</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes the problem is not that she doesn’t care. Sometimes old pain is still deciding what the new man gets. In Episode 334 of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray explores emotional unavailability, old relationship wounds, heartbreak, and how unresolved attachment can affect new love, trust, intimacy, and long-term relationships. If you’ve ever felt like someone was present but still guarded, this episode will hit.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">24718eca-2396-429f-859f-c879613edcb7</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2026 21:38:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71265263/421868346_44100_2_086e317fecaa.mp3" length="50768665" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes the problem is not that she doesn’t care. Sometimes old pain is still deciding what the new man gets. In Episode 334 of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray explores emotional unavailability, old relationship wounds, heartbreak, and how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes the problem is not that she doesn’t care. Sometimes old pain is still deciding what the new man gets. In Episode 334 of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray explores emotional unavailability, old relationship wounds, heartbreak, and how unresolved attachment can affect new love, trust, intimacy, and long-term relationships. If you’ve ever felt like someone was present but still guarded, this episode will hit.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3174</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>334</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Mixed Signals Keep You Stuck | Episode 333</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-mixed-signals-keep-you-stuck-episode-333--71224173</link><description><![CDATA[Most people don’t stay stuck because of love.They stay stuck because nothing ever made sense.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down why mixed signals are so hard to move on from — and why the confusion hurts more than the ending itself.This isn’t about overthinking.<br />It’s about understanding the pattern that keeps you emotionally tied to something that never fully formed.If you’ve ever found yourself replaying conversations, questioning what was real, or trying to make sense of someone who couldn’t be consistent… this episode will hit.You’ll learn:<ul><li>Why confusion feels deeper than it actually is</li><li>What really hooks you in the beginning</li><li>The difference between intensity and connection</li><li>Why moments don’t matter — but patterns do</li><li>How mixed signals slowly erode your self-trust</li><li>And the shift that finally helps you move on</li></ul>At some point, it stops being about them…<br />and starts being about what the situation is doing to you.Use these naturally (don’t spam):<ul><li>mixed signals in relationships</li><li>why can’t I move on</li><li>emotional confusion</li><li>toxic relationship patterns</li><li>attachment psychology</li><li>dating psychology</li><li>relationship advice</li><li>situationship</li><li>emotional unavailability</li><li>self-awareness</li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">50ad9f1c-c56c-4644-8aa4-60226cb65aba</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 02:35:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71224173/421766223_44100_2_d1645ec63ca1e.mp3" length="76978467" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most people don’t stay stuck because of love.They stay stuck because nothing ever made sense.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down why mixed signals are so hard to move on from — and why the confusion hurts more than the ending itself.This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most people don’t stay stuck because of love.They stay stuck because nothing ever made sense.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down why mixed signals are so hard to move on from — and why the confusion hurts more than the ending itself.This isn’t about overthinking.<br />It’s about understanding the pattern that keeps you emotionally tied to something that never fully formed.If you’ve ever found yourself replaying conversations, questioning what was real, or trying to make sense of someone who couldn’t be consistent… this episode will hit.You’ll learn:<ul><li>Why confusion feels deeper than it actually is</li><li>What really hooks you in the beginning</li><li>The difference between intensity and connection</li><li>Why moments don’t matter — but patterns do</li><li>How mixed signals slowly erode your self-trust</li><li>And the shift that finally helps you move on</li></ul>At some point, it stops being about them…<br />and starts being about what the situation is doing to you.Use these naturally (don’t spam):<ul><li>mixed signals in relationships</li><li>why can’t I move on</li><li>emotional confusion</li><li>toxic relationship patterns</li><li>attachment psychology</li><li>dating psychology</li><li>relationship advice</li><li>situationship</li><li>emotional unavailability</li><li>self-awareness</li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4812</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e6f802988b49514c50193bd6272000ce.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>333</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Social Gravity -How Ordinary People Become More Noticeable Episode #332</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/social-gravity-how-ordinary-people-become-more-noticeable-episode-332--71161595</link><description><![CDATA[On this episode of You’re Probably Right, I break down the idea of social gravity and why some people seem to pull more response out of the world than others. This is not just about looks, status, or confidence. It is about what people notice, how they read you, whether you seem intentional, and whether you feel easy to engage.We get into salience, coherence, warmth, approachability, humour, presence, and social ease, and why ordinary people who feel overlooked are often not lacking value, but lacking translation. If you’ve ever felt invisible in rooms, passed over socially, or outclassed by more attractive or naturally gifted people, this episode is for you.This episode is about becoming easier to notice, easier to read, and easier to respond to without becoming fake, loud, or performative.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">782b47b3-d701-427d-8a79-fdc00b1732d6</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 15:11:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71161595/421589692_44100_2_07c07e4afcc52.mp3" length="47325935" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On this episode of You’re Probably Right, I break down the idea of social gravity and why some people seem to pull more response out of the world than others. This is not just about looks, status, or confidence. It is about what people notice, how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On this episode of You’re Probably Right, I break down the idea of social gravity and why some people seem to pull more response out of the world than others. This is not just about looks, status, or confidence. It is about what people notice, how they read you, whether you seem intentional, and whether you feel easy to engage.We get into salience, coherence, warmth, approachability, humour, presence, and social ease, and why ordinary people who feel overlooked are often not lacking value, but lacking translation. If you’ve ever felt invisible in rooms, passed over socially, or outclassed by more attractive or naturally gifted people, this episode is for you.This episode is about becoming easier to notice, easier to read, and easier to respond to without becoming fake, loud, or performative.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2958</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>332</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How Lust and Low Self-Worth Make a Mark | When Hunger Overrules Judgment | Ep. 331</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-lust-and-low-self-worth-make-a-mark-when-hunger-overrules-judgment-ep-331--71126339</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 331, I break down how a mark is made. Not through innocence alone, and not just through someone else’s manipulation, but through hunger strong enough to overrule judgment. This talk centers lust, scarcity thinking, impatience, low self-worth, self-editing, over-giving, and the humiliation that often finally breaks the spell.At the center of this episode is one hard line:Once lust gets you negotiating with what self-respect should’ve disqualified, you’re already in danger.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b935e860-539e-43e5-9a78-fed6d689735d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 04:17:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71126339/74ef24c5_05fb_e815_a9b6_b60be142372f.mp3" length="60375414" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 331, I break down how a mark is made. Not through innocence alone, and not just through someone else’s manipulation, but through hunger strong enough to overrule judgment. This talk centers lust, scarcity thinking, impatience, low...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 331, I break down how a mark is made. Not through innocence alone, and not just through someone else’s manipulation, but through hunger strong enough to overrule judgment. This talk centers lust, scarcity thinking, impatience, low self-worth, self-editing, over-giving, and the humiliation that often finally breaks the spell.At the center of this episode is one hard line:Once lust gets you negotiating with what self-respect should’ve disqualified, you’re already in danger.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2514</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/db9065ca70e79ca5b771fe21e5e4d079.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>331</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Users vs. Marks - The Greased Rung Episode #330</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/users-vs-marks-the-greased-rung-episode-330--71093470</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 330, Users vs. Marks: The Greased Rung, I break down a pattern a lot of people have lived through but struggle to explain clearly. This episode is about the kind of person who doesn’t come close to build something real, but comes close because there’s something in you they can use.I talk through how these dynamics often work: the scouting, the story, the tailored bait, the sample, the breadcrumbs, the confusion, the false clarity, the feeling of having to stay “online” and hold your place in line, and the damage that can happen when somebody learns exactly what in you is easiest to pull on.This is also about discernment. About the difference between what feels close and what can actually hold weight. About why the close rung is often greased. And about what to do when somebody comes back after the spell has already been broken.If you’ve ever felt like you were slowly taught to betray your own judgment in a relationship, this episode is for you.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">49236414-d6b1-4fdc-8bde-90df9590313c</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2026 03:23:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71093470/421379739_44100_2_7c97123d7a51f.mp3" length="105784632" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 330, Users vs. Marks: The Greased Rung, I break down a pattern a lot of people have lived through but struggle to explain clearly. This episode is about the kind of person who doesn’t come close to build something real, but comes close...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 330, Users vs. Marks: The Greased Rung, I break down a pattern a lot of people have lived through but struggle to explain clearly. This episode is about the kind of person who doesn’t come close to build something real, but comes close because there’s something in you they can use.I talk through how these dynamics often work: the scouting, the story, the tailored bait, the sample, the breadcrumbs, the confusion, the false clarity, the feeling of having to stay “online” and hold your place in line, and the damage that can happen when somebody learns exactly what in you is easiest to pull on.This is also about discernment. About the difference between what feels close and what can actually hold weight. About why the close rung is often greased. And about what to do when somebody comes back after the spell has already been broken.If you’ve ever felt like you were slowly taught to betray your own judgment in a relationship, this episode is for you.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6612</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bebb506294214d7890ee07322cd490ae.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>330</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bonus Episode: Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak Episode #329</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-episode-dinner-with-the-podcast-after-heartbreak-episode-329--71054824</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 329 is a bonus episode, and this one is more personal than usual. I sat down to eat and talk through something a lot of people know too well: what happens inside you after a painful breakup.This is not a polished lecture or a neat list of answers. It is a real time reflection built around 20 honest questions about heartbreak, rejection, rumination, emotional attachment, trying to fix what ended, and figuring out what the pain actually revealed. Sometimes a breakup is not just about losing a person. Sometimes it exposes what you hoped for, what you feared, what you ignored, and what was already hurting underneath the relationship.If you have ever found yourself replaying conversations, trying to stay productive, wondering why one person hit you so deeply, or asking what you are actually supposed to do with the pain after love falls apart, this episode is for you. This is Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">906a3fc3-c65d-49a5-8557-a83993940553</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 01:56:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71054824/aa2036ae_3e29_f0f8_f521_88d41a33cdf7.mp3" length="98459084" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 329 is a bonus episode, and this one is more personal than usual. I sat down to eat and talk through something a lot of people know too well: what happens inside you after a painful breakup.This is not a polished lecture or a neat list of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 329 is a bonus episode, and this one is more personal than usual. I sat down to eat and talk through something a lot of people know too well: what happens inside you after a painful breakup.This is not a polished lecture or a neat list of answers. It is a real time reflection built around 20 honest questions about heartbreak, rejection, rumination, emotional attachment, trying to fix what ended, and figuring out what the pain actually revealed. Sometimes a breakup is not just about losing a person. Sometimes it exposes what you hoped for, what you feared, what you ignored, and what was already hurting underneath the relationship.If you have ever found yourself replaying conversations, trying to stay productive, wondering why one person hit you so deeply, or asking what you are actually supposed to do with the pain after love falls apart, this episode is for you. This is Dinner With the Podcast After Heartbreak.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4101</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1ecf29abb8855f65e3f50f772c4f5eac.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 328: Trusting God After Painful Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-328-trusting-god-after-painful-relationships--71035174</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I am handling this part of the series a little differently. Instead of coming at it like a formal teaching, I wanted to approach it as a careful question period. The issue is too important to speak on casually. So the real question I am asking here is this: What does the gospel do with the ways pain has changed how we love?We talk about what happens when pain reshapes the heart through withdrawal, control, overgiving, performance, and fear of people. We also walk through Scripture and ask a deeper question than just what happened to us. We ask what happened in us, what we started trusting, what we started hiding behind, and what Christ does with that.This episode is for anyone trying to make sense of how hurt affects love, trust, identity, and relationships. It is honest, careful, Scripture grounded, and aimed at real transformation not just recognition. If pain has changed the way you love, this conversation is about whether the gospel can reorder what your heart now trusts.If you want a slightly sharper alternate title, use:Episode 328: What the Gospel Does With Love After Pain]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">82dc6960-a4e3-42df-b4bc-9115c63a3293</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 01:56:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71035174/35fd679c_abd9_79d3_262f_2dd44996b4d6.mp3" length="98255466" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I am handling this part of the series a little differently. Instead of coming at it like a formal teaching, I wanted to approach it as a careful question period. The issue is too important to speak on casually. So the real question I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I am handling this part of the series a little differently. Instead of coming at it like a formal teaching, I wanted to approach it as a careful question period. The issue is too important to speak on casually. So the real question I am asking here is this: What does the gospel do with the ways pain has changed how we love?We talk about what happens when pain reshapes the heart through withdrawal, control, overgiving, performance, and fear of people. We also walk through Scripture and ask a deeper question than just what happened to us. We ask what happened in us, what we started trusting, what we started hiding behind, and what Christ does with that.This episode is for anyone trying to make sense of how hurt affects love, trust, identity, and relationships. It is honest, careful, Scripture grounded, and aimed at real transformation not just recognition. If pain has changed the way you love, this conversation is about whether the gospel can reorder what your heart now trusts.If you want a slightly sharper alternate title, use:Episode 328: What the Gospel Does With Love After Pain]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4092</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4930ce54e68ecbef5bf3c38a1ca5b1f8.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>328</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>episode 327- 20 Questions to Ask When the Good Costs Too Much</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-327-20-questions-to-ask-when-the-good-costs-too-much--70966875</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about the kind of relationship that was not empty, not imagined, and not all bad, but still became too expensive to keep carrying. I walk through 20 real questions people ask themselves when they are trying to make sense of an ex, a breakup, or a bond they still feel attached to, even though it has cost them peace, clarity, and emotional safety. This episode is about looking at the full truth, not just the best moments, and being honest about whether the good is still worth the cost. <ol><li>does my ex still care about me even if they hurt me</li><li>why is it so hard to let go of someone who was bad for me</li><li>how do i know if i miss my ex or just miss how they made me feel</li><li>can a relationship be real and still be unhealthy</li><li>why do i keep hoping my ex will change</li><li>am i attached to my ex or to the memories</li><li>what am i really getting from this relationship that keeps me stuck</li><li>why do i feel like i lose myself around this person</li><li>why am i scared to bring up my feelings with my partner or ex</li><li>am i in love with who they are or who i hope they will become</li><li>is this relationship making my life better or just more intense</li><li>why do i confuse relief with peace in relationships</li><li>what would i tell my friend if they were dating someone like this</li><li>why do i feel like i have to earn love from this person</li><li>am i staying because i love them or because i want to feel chosen</li><li>am i making excuses for my ex because of their trauma or past</li><li>when does understanding someone start becoming self betrayal</li><li>am i loving them or just managing their instability</li><li>if nothing changes should i still stay in this relationship</li><li>how do i finally accept that the good is not worth the cost</li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c6019c23-33ed-4632-9f30-852850dfce03</guid><pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2026 02:32:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70966875/2661a42c_2d91_7431_7625_35d38167d908.mp3" length="86081079" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I talk about the kind of relationship that was not empty, not imagined, and not all bad, but still became too expensive to keep carrying. I walk through 20 real questions people ask themselves when they are trying to make sense of an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about the kind of relationship that was not empty, not imagined, and not all bad, but still became too expensive to keep carrying. I walk through 20 real questions people ask themselves when they are trying to make sense of an ex, a breakup, or a bond they still feel attached to, even though it has cost them peace, clarity, and emotional safety. This episode is about looking at the full truth, not just the best moments, and being honest about whether the good is still worth the cost. <ol><li>does my ex still care about me even if they hurt me</li><li>why is it so hard to let go of someone who was bad for me</li><li>how do i know if i miss my ex or just miss how they made me feel</li><li>can a relationship be real and still be unhealthy</li><li>why do i keep hoping my ex will change</li><li>am i attached to my ex or to the memories</li><li>what am i really getting from this relationship that keeps me stuck</li><li>why do i feel like i lose myself around this person</li><li>why am i scared to bring up my feelings with my partner or ex</li><li>am i in love with who they are or who i hope they will become</li><li>is this relationship making my life better or just more intense</li><li>why do i confuse relief with peace in relationships</li><li>what would i tell my friend if they were dating someone like this</li><li>why do i feel like i have to earn love from this person</li><li>am i staying because i love them or because i want to feel chosen</li><li>am i making excuses for my ex because of their trauma or past</li><li>when does understanding someone start becoming self betrayal</li><li>am i loving them or just managing their instability</li><li>if nothing changes should i still stay in this relationship</li><li>how do i finally accept that the good is not worth the cost</li></ol>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3585</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/96377c5ec054160fe3906a38362123b6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Healthy Love Feels Like After Toxic Relationship Patterns</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-healthy-love-feels-like-after-toxic-relationship-patterns--70766991</link><description><![CDATA[What does healthy love actually feel like after pain?In this episode, we explore why real love can feel unfamiliar when you’ve been shaped by heartbreak, inconsistency, anxiety, emotional unavailability, or toxic relationship patterns. Sometimes healing makes you expect peace, but when peace finally arrives, it can feel boring, suspicious, or “not enough” simply because it doesn’t trigger the chaos you once called chemistry.This conversation breaks down the difference between healthy love and familiar pain, including the difference between peace and numbness, steadiness and boredom, safety and lack of chemistry, and emotional maturity versus emotional distance.If you’ve ever wondered whether a calm relationship is real, whether you’re healing or settling, or how to recognize green flags after toxic love, this episode will help you see the difference more clearly.A deep episode on healing, attachment patterns, emotional safety, self-worth, and learning how to recognize love that is healthy, mutual, and real.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dc72938f-eff2-4987-b73c-c0f897739976</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 21:52:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70766991/66fa4f8c_91ee_6b4c_a182_3971c4826914.mp3" length="79157931" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does healthy love actually feel like after pain?In this episode, we explore why real love can feel unfamiliar when you’ve been shaped by heartbreak, inconsistency, anxiety, emotional unavailability, or toxic relationship patterns. Sometimes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does healthy love actually feel like after pain?In this episode, we explore why real love can feel unfamiliar when you’ve been shaped by heartbreak, inconsistency, anxiety, emotional unavailability, or toxic relationship patterns. Sometimes healing makes you expect peace, but when peace finally arrives, it can feel boring, suspicious, or “not enough” simply because it doesn’t trigger the chaos you once called chemistry.This conversation breaks down the difference between healthy love and familiar pain, including the difference between peace and numbness, steadiness and boredom, safety and lack of chemistry, and emotional maturity versus emotional distance.If you’ve ever wondered whether a calm relationship is real, whether you’re healing or settling, or how to recognize green flags after toxic love, this episode will help you see the difference more clearly.A deep episode on healing, attachment patterns, emotional safety, self-worth, and learning how to recognize love that is healthy, mutual, and real.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3297</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0c3dc427b8a61d4ee67d50e2381920e5.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>325</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns Subtitle: Patterns of Pain</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-heartbreak-shapes-10-surprising-relationship-patterns-subtitle-patterns-of-pain--70705620</link><description><![CDATA[How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns<br />Subtitle: Patterns of PainWhy do some people disappear when things get real? Why do others keep options open, chase hard and then go cold, overgive to feel secure, or stay emotionally armored even in love?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray introduces a framework for understanding how unresolved relational pain can quietly reshape behavior in love. Through 10 patterns — the Vanisher, Window Shopper, Magnet, Collector, Sports Fisher, Tenderheart, Closed Book, Purchaser, Chameleon, and Armour Bearer — this episode explores how heartbreak, betrayal, rejection, fear, and emotional injury can become recurring relationship adaptations when they go unexamined.This episode is for anyone trying to understand:<ul><li>why mixed signals happen</li><li>why some people disappear after closeness</li><li>why overgiving can become a strategy for safety</li><li>why emotional unavailability can look like mystery or maturity</li><li>how pain can quietly shape the way people pursue, avoid, manage, or distort love</li></ul>If you have ever asked, “What did pain teach me to become in relationships?” this episode will give you language for what you may have felt but never fully named.Topics include: heartbreak, attachment patterns, trauma and relationships, emotional unavailability, people pleasing, self-protection, dating behavior, relationship psychology, healing after heartbreak, and patterns of pain.New episode out: “How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns”<br />Subtitle: Patterns of PainBefore I go any further, I want to introduce you to a framework that is already starting to take shape in this podcast. You can hear pieces of it in Episodes 323 and 324. This is not something I pulled from a textbook or borrowed from the internet. It is my own framework, built through reflection, observation, and the long work of trying to understand how pain reshapes the way people love.In this episode, I walk through 10 patterns that can grow out of unresolved relational pain:The Vanisher<br />The Window Shopper<br />The Magnet<br />The Collector<br />The Sports Fisher<br />Tenderheart<br />The Closed Book<br />The Purchaser<br />The Chameleon<br />The Armour BearerThis one is for anyone who has ever asked:<br />Why do some people disappear when things get close?<br />Why do some keep you near but never choose you?<br />Why does pain make some people overgive, shut down, shape-shift, or stay emotionally armored?At the center of this episode is one question:What happens when heartbreak does not just hurt someone, but quietly starts reshaping how they love?If that question hits something in you, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen here:<br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JydFkAVqkxHf16TPZXT4E?si=yg5Y5GRGQ4OWpk8RL6BXFw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JydFkAVqkxHf16TPZXT4E?si=yg5Y5GRGQ4OWpk8RL6BXFw</a>Facebook post]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b4162d8e-ab02-4c17-8794-b27d92181277</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 23:47:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70705620/dffdbda5_5dca_f702_eb88_ff992d3eb89d.mp3" length="86004729" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns
Subtitle: Patterns of PainWhy do some people disappear when things get real? Why do others keep options open, chase hard and then go cold, overgive to feel secure, or stay emotionally armored...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns<br />Subtitle: Patterns of PainWhy do some people disappear when things get real? Why do others keep options open, chase hard and then go cold, overgive to feel secure, or stay emotionally armored even in love?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray introduces a framework for understanding how unresolved relational pain can quietly reshape behavior in love. Through 10 patterns — the Vanisher, Window Shopper, Magnet, Collector, Sports Fisher, Tenderheart, Closed Book, Purchaser, Chameleon, and Armour Bearer — this episode explores how heartbreak, betrayal, rejection, fear, and emotional injury can become recurring relationship adaptations when they go unexamined.This episode is for anyone trying to understand:<ul><li>why mixed signals happen</li><li>why some people disappear after closeness</li><li>why overgiving can become a strategy for safety</li><li>why emotional unavailability can look like mystery or maturity</li><li>how pain can quietly shape the way people pursue, avoid, manage, or distort love</li></ul>If you have ever asked, “What did pain teach me to become in relationships?” this episode will give you language for what you may have felt but never fully named.Topics include: heartbreak, attachment patterns, trauma and relationships, emotional unavailability, people pleasing, self-protection, dating behavior, relationship psychology, healing after heartbreak, and patterns of pain.New episode out: “How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship Patterns”<br />Subtitle: Patterns of PainBefore I go any further, I want to introduce you to a framework that is already starting to take shape in this podcast. You can hear pieces of it in Episodes 323 and 324. This is not something I pulled from a textbook or borrowed from the internet. It is my own framework, built through reflection, observation, and the long work of trying to understand how pain reshapes the way people love.In this episode, I walk through 10 patterns that can grow out of unresolved relational pain:The Vanisher<br />The Window Shopper<br />The Magnet<br />The Collector<br />The Sports Fisher<br />Tenderheart<br />The Closed Book<br />The Purchaser<br />The Chameleon<br />The Armour BearerThis one is for anyone who has ever asked:<br />Why do some people disappear when things get close?<br />Why do some keep you near but never choose you?<br />Why does pain make some people overgive, shut down, shape-shift, or stay emotionally armored?At the center of this episode is one question:What happens when heartbreak does not just hurt someone, but quietly starts reshaping how they love?If that question hits something in you, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen here:<br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JydFkAVqkxHf16TPZXT4E?si=yg5Y5GRGQ4OWpk8RL6BXFw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JydFkAVqkxHf16TPZXT4E?si=yg5Y5GRGQ4OWpk8RL6BXFw</a>Facebook post]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3582</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9c25f9b98e27088841e9ecad1d905f5a.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>323</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 324 After the Pattern What Healing Actually Looks Like in Love</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love--70675418</link><description><![CDATA[After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotional pain, and repeated relationship patterns. We talk through four major adaptations people fall into after hurt: withdrawal, control, compensation, and losing yourself. Then we get specific about what each pattern is trying to protect, what it costs, what healing asks you to stop doing, and what healthier love starts to look like instead.This episode is for anyone trying to heal emotional unavailability, fear of intimacy, people pleasing, overgiving, self-abandonment, control in relationships, or the need to earn love. If you have ever asked, “Why do I keep repeating the same relationship cycle?” or “How do I heal without becoming cold, guarded, or hard?” this episode is for you.Topics in this episode include relationship healing, attachment patterns, trauma responses in love, vulnerability, boundaries, emotional availability, mutuality, selfhood in relationships, and what healthy love looks like after pain.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d8cc15b8-dc13-4ce7-aa6f-914c8bffbb62</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 03:04:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70675418/97ef758e_098a_0a86_843a_d6a1fecaa9d9.mp3" length="97671707" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotional pain, and repeated relationship patterns. We talk through four major adaptations people fall...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotional pain, and repeated relationship patterns. We talk through four major adaptations people fall into after hurt: withdrawal, control, compensation, and losing yourself. Then we get specific about what each pattern is trying to protect, what it costs, what healing asks you to stop doing, and what healthier love starts to look like instead.This episode is for anyone trying to heal emotional unavailability, fear of intimacy, people pleasing, overgiving, self-abandonment, control in relationships, or the need to earn love. If you have ever asked, “Why do I keep repeating the same relationship cycle?” or “How do I heal without becoming cold, guarded, or hard?” this episode is for you.Topics in this episode include relationship healing, attachment patterns, trauma responses in love, vulnerability, boundaries, emotional availability, mutuality, selfhood in relationships, and what healthy love looks like after pain.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4068</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ca0b3fff7b6dd981b5d45e6c74a2e38b.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>324</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-323-how-pain-reshapes-love-what-do-i-do-now--70651775</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?When love breaks you, the real question isn’t why it happened—it’s what you do next.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into the uncomfortable middle stage of healing after relationship pain. Why do old patterns keep repeating? How do you actually rebuild trust in yourself? And what does real emotional healing look like after heartbreak, betrayal, or toxic love?We unpack relationship patterns, emotional recovery, and the psychology of healing so you can move forward with clarity instead of confusion.If you’re navigating heartbreak, attachment wounds, or learning how to love differently, this conversation is for you.Topics: healing after heartbreak, relationship patterns, emotional healing, attachment styles, healthy love, personal growth.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">16839dde-70c7-47e7-831e-33808dc90ed1</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2026 21:48:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70651775/0a6febe6_6605_bd61_e546_d991d265a621.mp3" length="89310988" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?When love breaks you, the real question isn’t why it happened—it’s what you do next.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into the uncomfortable middle stage of healing after...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?When love breaks you, the real question isn’t why it happened—it’s what you do next.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into the uncomfortable middle stage of healing after relationship pain. Why do old patterns keep repeating? How do you actually rebuild trust in yourself? And what does real emotional healing look like after heartbreak, betrayal, or toxic love?We unpack relationship patterns, emotional recovery, and the psychology of healing so you can move forward with clarity instead of confusion.If you’re navigating heartbreak, attachment wounds, or learning how to love differently, this conversation is for you.Topics: healing after heartbreak, relationship patterns, emotional healing, attachment styles, healthy love, personal growth.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3720</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/34607f7bc9365919871941d345167899.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>232</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 322: Why Marriage Becomes So Difficult When Two People Follow Different Rules</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-322-why-marriage-becomes-so-difficult-when-two-people-follow-different-rules--70641280</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 322: Why Marriage Becomes So Difficult When Two People Follow Different RulesWhy does marriage become so difficult when two people follow different rules? In Episode 322, Michael C. Murray breaks down divided authority in marriage, unequal standards, Christian marriage, being equally yoked, respect, sacrifice, parenting, money, intimacy, and why a home gets heavy when husband and wife are not truly living under the same rule. This episode is for anyone trying to understand marriage conflict, biblical order, relationship tension, and why shared submission under God changes everything.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">40db46f0-39bd-48d5-9f1b-84a64c496e9d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2026 00:52:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70641280/2fb414c1_4ab6_1312_0428_b2ddd9ed6834.mp3" length="123365186" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 322: Why Marriage Becomes So Difficult When Two People Follow Different RulesWhy does marriage become so difficult when two people follow different rules? In Episode 322, Michael C. Murray breaks down divided authority in marriage, unequal...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 322: Why Marriage Becomes So Difficult When Two People Follow Different RulesWhy does marriage become so difficult when two people follow different rules? In Episode 322, Michael C. Murray breaks down divided authority in marriage, unequal standards, Christian marriage, being equally yoked, respect, sacrifice, parenting, money, intimacy, and why a home gets heavy when husband and wife are not truly living under the same rule. This episode is for anyone trying to understand marriage conflict, biblical order, relationship tension, and why shared submission under God changes everything.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5139</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f638f66267d154c122007064b2a86b2d.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>322</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>They Knew Before I Did Subtitle: Ruminating Out of Feeling Exposed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/they-knew-before-i-did-subtitle-ruminating-out-of-feeling-exposed--70631806</link><description><![CDATA[What does it do to a person when they realize the other person saw the truth of the connection before they did?In this episode, I talk about the pain of feeling exposed, the silence that follows, and why some people keep ruminating on a connection long after it ends. Sometimes the repetition isn’t weakness. It’s the mind trying to make the truth land hard enough to finally break free.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">54051334-3331-4434-93d4-833abb25bc8a</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2026 02:27:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70631806/48621456_ed84_cc9d_00eb_69adb1bc1b11.mp3" length="147580010" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does it do to a person when they realize the other person saw the truth of the connection before they did?In this episode, I talk about the pain of feeling exposed, the silence that follows, and why some people keep ruminating on a connection...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does it do to a person when they realize the other person saw the truth of the connection before they did?In this episode, I talk about the pain of feeling exposed, the silence that follows, and why some people keep ruminating on a connection long after it ends. Sometimes the repetition isn’t weakness. It’s the mind trying to make the truth land hard enough to finally break free.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6148</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5c6cce4e15dc50c69f32967cc1fb9f1c.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>321</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 320 Why Good Men Get Praised But Not Chosen</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-320-why-good-men-get-praised-but-not-chosen--70586744</link><description><![CDATA[Why do good men get called safe, refreshing, and husband material… but still get passed over for the guy who brings chaos? In this episode, I break down one of the most frustrating patterns in modern dating: why some women say they want peace, loyalty, and emotional safety, but still respond more strongly to intensity, dominance, unpredictability, and men they know are bad for them. We get into trauma bonds, masculine presence, attraction versus logic, status, fantasy, and why being appreciated is not the same as being desired. This isn’t a rant. It’s an honest look at the painful gap between what people say they want and what they actually choose.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">15c38ea3-8f84-4c4f-88b4-0a742f3e672d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 04:30:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70586744/f6aafc42_3d96_ea42_7ab3_2faece3718d9.mp3" length="494917750" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do good men get called safe, refreshing, and husband material… but still get passed over for the guy who brings chaos? In this episode, I break down one of the most frustrating patterns in modern dating: why some women say they want peace,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do good men get called safe, refreshing, and husband material… but still get passed over for the guy who brings chaos? In this episode, I break down one of the most frustrating patterns in modern dating: why some women say they want peace, loyalty, and emotional safety, but still respond more strongly to intensity, dominance, unpredictability, and men they know are bad for them. We get into trauma bonds, masculine presence, attraction versus logic, status, fantasy, and why being appreciated is not the same as being desired. This isn’t a rant. It’s an honest look at the painful gap between what people say they want and what they actually choose.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>12373</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/03e461afb6d38f87cd81a1688374a2a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>320</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You’re Probably Right – Episode 318 Inside Today’s Schools: Why Teachers and Support Staff Are Under Pressure</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-probably-right-episode-318-inside-today-s-schools-why-teachers-and-support-staff-are-under-pressure--70518644</link><description><![CDATA[What’s really happening inside today’s schools?From the outside, teaching can look like a stable job with good pay and long holidays. But inside the building, the reality is far more complicated.Modern classrooms have become high-pressure human environments. Teachers, educational assistants, and support staff are managing behaviour challenges, emotional regulation, social conflict, and student mental health while still trying to teach.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore the hidden workload inside today’s education system and why more teachers are experiencing burnout.We also look at the role of support staff, the pressure created when schools lose experienced people, and what happens when the number of problems entering the building keeps rising while the human capacity to manage them stays the same.If you want to understand the real pressures inside schools today, this conversation matters.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5336abdb-b0bd-4d1b-997c-5e199f7182b6</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2026 00:37:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70518644/37f01b94_3e5c_5f04_5b79_cdcd9edf153e.mp3" length="88778442" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What’s really happening inside today’s schools?From the outside, teaching can look like a stable job with good pay and long holidays. But inside the building, the reality is far more complicated.Modern classrooms have become high-pressure human...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What’s really happening inside today’s schools?From the outside, teaching can look like a stable job with good pay and long holidays. But inside the building, the reality is far more complicated.Modern classrooms have become high-pressure human environments. Teachers, educational assistants, and support staff are managing behaviour challenges, emotional regulation, social conflict, and student mental health while still trying to teach.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore the hidden workload inside today’s education system and why more teachers are experiencing burnout.We also look at the role of support staff, the pressure created when schools lose experienced people, and what happens when the number of problems entering the building keeps rising while the human capacity to manage them stays the same.If you want to understand the real pressures inside schools today, this conversation matters.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3698</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b7fbd6e1f7e1f84a12175ded54fff062.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>318</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do You Really Want to Know? The Struggles of Support Staff In Schools #317</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-really-want-to-know-the-struggles-of-support-staff-in-schools-317--70489558</link><description><![CDATA[What does appreciation really look like in schools?Behind every classroom, gym, and hallway is a network of people who keep schools running every day. Teachers, educational assistants, child and youth workers, custodians, lunch supervisors, coaches, and other support staff carry responsibilities that go far beyond the job description. Many entered education not simply for a paycheck, but because someone once made a difference in their own lives.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we take a closer look at the reality facing support staff and educators across Canada. From financial pressure to emotional labour, from seasonal employment gaps to the expectations placed on those who care for students every day, this discussion explores the unseen side of school work.Many people working in education come from deeply personal experiences. Some were inspired by a teacher who believed in them. Some grew up without strong support systems and chose education as a way to become the adult they once needed. Others experienced hardship or trauma in school environments and made a commitment to help future students have a better experience.There is a common saying that hurt people hurt people, but in schools the opposite is often true. Many hurt people choose to help people. Many who were taught well want to pass that knowledge forward. And many who struggled through education themselves worked hard to gain the qualifications, skills, and understanding needed to guide the next generation.This episode also raises an important question for those who lead education systems. If appreciation is meant to recognize the people who support students every day, what should that recognition actually look like?Is a plaque enough?<br />Is a photo enough?<br />Or should appreciation reflect the real pressures that education workers face?Through a simple example of collective contribution, the episode explores how small actions from many people can create meaningful recognition for the individuals who support schools every day.Whether you are a teacher, coach, educational assistant, child and youth worker, school administrator, or someone who simply cares about education, this conversation asks a direct question.Do we truly understand what the people supporting our schools are carrying?And if we do want to know, are we prepared to listen.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fb0b20a7-8ab1-4fcf-8d7e-c523f2ca7d61</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 19:01:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70489558/79885326_28cf_24e9_9bba_539dbb418695.mp3" length="61698449" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/6BgEiwqqAzEpIhlSL16AmF/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does appreciation really look like in schools?Behind every classroom, gym, and hallway is a network of people who keep schools running every day. Teachers, educational assistants, child and youth workers, custodians, lunch supervisors, coaches,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does appreciation really look like in schools?Behind every classroom, gym, and hallway is a network of people who keep schools running every day. Teachers, educational assistants, child and youth workers, custodians, lunch supervisors, coaches, and other support staff carry responsibilities that go far beyond the job description. Many entered education not simply for a paycheck, but because someone once made a difference in their own lives.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we take a closer look at the reality facing support staff and educators across Canada. From financial pressure to emotional labour, from seasonal employment gaps to the expectations placed on those who care for students every day, this discussion explores the unseen side of school work.Many people working in education come from deeply personal experiences. Some were inspired by a teacher who believed in them. Some grew up without strong support systems and chose education as a way to become the adult they once needed. Others experienced hardship or trauma in school environments and made a commitment to help future students have a better experience.There is a common saying that hurt people hurt people, but in schools the opposite is often true. Many hurt people choose to help people. Many who were taught well want to pass that knowledge forward. And many who struggled through education themselves worked hard to gain the qualifications, skills, and understanding needed to guide the next generation.This episode also raises an important question for those who lead education systems. If appreciation is meant to recognize the people who support students every day, what should that recognition actually look like?Is a plaque enough?<br />Is a photo enough?<br />Or should appreciation reflect the real pressures that education workers face?Through a simple example of collective contribution, the episode explores how small actions from many people can create meaningful recognition for the individuals who support schools every day.Whether you are a teacher, coach, educational assistant, child and youth worker, school administrator, or someone who simply cares about education, this conversation asks a direct question.Do we truly understand what the people supporting our schools are carrying?And if we do want to know, are we prepared to listen.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2569</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7998412491d2137db7a2a7bedb009930.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 316 – The Superhero Complex Why We Chase Superman, Overlook Clark Kent, and Often End Up with Lex Luthor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-316-the-superhero-complex-why-we-chase-superman-overlook-clark-kent-and-often-end-up-with-lex-luthor--70470721</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 316 – The Superhero Complex<br />Why We Chase Superman, Overlook Clark Kent, and Often End Up with Lex LuthorWhy do people overlook the partner who consistently shows up for them?Why do we chase the person who looks impressive, powerful, and exceptional, only to discover later that they were never built for real partnership?In this episode of You're Probably Right, we examine what can be called The Superhero Complex, the tendency to seek out larger-than-life partners who appear capable of solving everything, protecting everything, and elevating our lives in dramatic ways.But real relationships rarely survive on dramatic moments.They survive on presence, reliability, patience, and the quiet effort that happens in ordinary days.Using the familiar contrast between Superman and Clark Kent, this episode explores a deeper psychological pattern in modern relationships:• Why people are drawn to confidence, status, and exceptional partners<br />• The hidden cost of dating someone whose life is built around performance and pressure<br />• The “Clark Kent Effect,” when dependable partners become invisible because they are too consistent<br />• How familiarity slowly erodes appreciation in relationships<br />• The difference between loud love and quiet love<br />• Why people often recognize steady love only after it disappears<br />• How chasing exceptional partners can sometimes lead to disappointment, manipulation, or imbalanceThis episode also explores an uncomfortable truth:<br />Long-term relationships are rarely built on heroic moments. They are built on thousands of small acts of presence, patience, and reliability.Sometimes the partner who seems ordinary at first glance is the one most capable of building a stable life.And sometimes the person we chase for excitement is not Superman at all.Key topics:<br />modern relationships, dating psychology, emotional availability, relationship patterns, consistency in relationships, attraction vs stability, quiet love vs grand gestures, long-term partnership dynamics, why people take good partners for granted.If you’ve ever wondered why reliable partners get overlooked while dramatic ones get chased, this episode connects those patterns and asks a simple question:Do people truly want Superman… or do they fail to recognize Clark Kent?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5f71b962-5d1e-4228-8602-e0f86abaeab2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 02:36:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70470721/a240f6be_3f7f_1e88_58fe_f195cc8aa631.mp3" length="142166805" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/3SVAasZvhWiu5gumPHmMZF/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 316 – The Superhero Complex
Why We Chase Superman, Overlook Clark Kent, and Often End Up with Lex LuthorWhy do people overlook the partner who consistently shows up for them?Why do we chase the person who looks impressive, powerful, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 316 – The Superhero Complex<br />Why We Chase Superman, Overlook Clark Kent, and Often End Up with Lex LuthorWhy do people overlook the partner who consistently shows up for them?Why do we chase the person who looks impressive, powerful, and exceptional, only to discover later that they were never built for real partnership?In this episode of You're Probably Right, we examine what can be called The Superhero Complex, the tendency to seek out larger-than-life partners who appear capable of solving everything, protecting everything, and elevating our lives in dramatic ways.But real relationships rarely survive on dramatic moments.They survive on presence, reliability, patience, and the quiet effort that happens in ordinary days.Using the familiar contrast between Superman and Clark Kent, this episode explores a deeper psychological pattern in modern relationships:• Why people are drawn to confidence, status, and exceptional partners<br />• The hidden cost of dating someone whose life is built around performance and pressure<br />• The “Clark Kent Effect,” when dependable partners become invisible because they are too consistent<br />• How familiarity slowly erodes appreciation in relationships<br />• The difference between loud love and quiet love<br />• Why people often recognize steady love only after it disappears<br />• How chasing exceptional partners can sometimes lead to disappointment, manipulation, or imbalanceThis episode also explores an uncomfortable truth:<br />Long-term relationships are rarely built on heroic moments. They are built on thousands of small acts of presence, patience, and reliability.Sometimes the partner who seems ordinary at first glance is the one most capable of building a stable life.And sometimes the person we chase for excitement is not Superman at all.Key topics:<br />modern relationships, dating psychology, emotional availability, relationship patterns, consistency in relationships, attraction vs stability, quiet love vs grand gestures, long-term partnership dynamics, why people take good partners for granted.If you’ve ever wondered why reliable partners get overlooked while dramatic ones get chased, this episode connects those patterns and asks a simple question:Do people truly want Superman… or do they fail to recognize Clark Kent?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5922</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ddc88f6cbb33e7ebbb9126f1fa054989.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>316</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 315 – Chosen, Not Confused</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-315-chosen-not-confused--70401925</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 315 – Chosen, Not Confused<br />How to Know If Someone Likes You, Is Attracted to You, and Will Actually CommitIn this episode of You’re Probably Right, we break down one of the biggest questions in modern dating:How do you know if someone truly likes you, is genuinely attracted to you, and is actually willing to commit?We explore:• The difference between admiration and performance<br />• Signs someone is attracted to you versus just being friendly<br />• Why mixed signals create dating confusion<br />• The psychology behind situationships and commitment issues<br />• Emotional availability and attachment styles in relationships<br />• Compatibility beyond surface level chemistry<br />• How to know if they are choosing you or just keeping you aroundIf you have ever questioned whether you are in a healthy relationship or stuck in uncertainty, this conversation offers grounded relationship advice rooted in lived experience and honest reflection.No quick fix dating tips. No fake perfection. Just modern dating psychology, emotional clarity, and real talk about relationships.Listen now and decide for yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0b6afe76-d6b7-49ed-b5c5-87a2b65e35fe</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 02:09:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70401925/4275f0d2_2df3_fea6_5937_d9e86c07dae5.mp3" length="90985541" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 315 – Chosen, Not Confused
How to Know If Someone Likes You, Is Attracted to You, and Will Actually CommitIn this episode of You’re Probably Right, we break down one of the biggest questions in modern dating:How do you know if someone truly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 315 – Chosen, Not Confused<br />How to Know If Someone Likes You, Is Attracted to You, and Will Actually CommitIn this episode of You’re Probably Right, we break down one of the biggest questions in modern dating:How do you know if someone truly likes you, is genuinely attracted to you, and is actually willing to commit?We explore:• The difference between admiration and performance<br />• Signs someone is attracted to you versus just being friendly<br />• Why mixed signals create dating confusion<br />• The psychology behind situationships and commitment issues<br />• Emotional availability and attachment styles in relationships<br />• Compatibility beyond surface level chemistry<br />• How to know if they are choosing you or just keeping you aroundIf you have ever questioned whether you are in a healthy relationship or stuck in uncertainty, this conversation offers grounded relationship advice rooted in lived experience and honest reflection.No quick fix dating tips. No fake perfection. Just modern dating psychology, emotional clarity, and real talk about relationships.Listen now and decide for yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3790</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4634e986a2ecbfd43dd76ba1345b4b8c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EPISODE 314 Did I Miss My Window? What We Start Valuing When We Think Time Is Running Out</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-314-did-i-miss-my-window-what-we-start-valuing-when-we-think-time-is-running-out--70381450</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 314<br />Did I Miss My Window? What We Start Valuing When Time Feels ScarceAre you behind?That quiet question hits differently in your 30s, 40s, and 50s.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we take an unfiltered look at what really happens psychologically when you start feeling like time is limited in dating and relationships.• Do your standards change when you think you’re late?<br />• Do you start valuing stability over connection?<br />• Do you negotiate red flags because you’re tired of starting over?<br />• Are you choosing from clarity — or from fear?This episode explores:✔ Midlife dating psychology<br />✔ Settling vs selecting<br />✔ Stability vs compatibility<br />✔ Children, ex partners, and life integration<br />✔ Fear based decision making<br />✔ How urgency quietly reshapes your standardsIf you’ve ever thought:“I don’t want to start over again.”<br />“I just want something stable.”<br />“Maybe this is good enough.”<br />“Am I running out of time?”This episode is for you.This is not about age panic.<br />This is about awareness.Because the real question may not be:Did I miss my window?It might be:What standards did I lower because I believed I did?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fe9cbf1e-17cd-4174-9c42-0149dfedf62d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 00:49:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70381450/79a7e630_7df0_9075_2abc_70105f68d215.mp3" length="89088698" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/0Jm61J2YhrovhuNeEKSy4s/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 314
Did I Miss My Window? What We Start Valuing When Time Feels ScarceAre you behind?That quiet question hits differently in your 30s, 40s, and 50s.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we take an unfiltered look at what really happens...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 314<br />Did I Miss My Window? What We Start Valuing When Time Feels ScarceAre you behind?That quiet question hits differently in your 30s, 40s, and 50s.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we take an unfiltered look at what really happens psychologically when you start feeling like time is limited in dating and relationships.• Do your standards change when you think you’re late?<br />• Do you start valuing stability over connection?<br />• Do you negotiate red flags because you’re tired of starting over?<br />• Are you choosing from clarity — or from fear?This episode explores:✔ Midlife dating psychology<br />✔ Settling vs selecting<br />✔ Stability vs compatibility<br />✔ Children, ex partners, and life integration<br />✔ Fear based decision making<br />✔ How urgency quietly reshapes your standardsIf you’ve ever thought:“I don’t want to start over again.”<br />“I just want something stable.”<br />“Maybe this is good enough.”<br />“Am I running out of time?”This episode is for you.This is not about age panic.<br />This is about awareness.Because the real question may not be:Did I miss my window?It might be:What standards did I lower because I believed I did?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3711</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5e3fa8b913bd3c62828c81e3907d0c7f.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>314</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 313: 30 Questions After Rejection — When You Realize You Were the Bridge</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-313-30-questions-after-rejection-when-you-realize-you-were-the-bridge--70313524</link><description><![CDATA[What happens when you realize you were never the destination, only the bridge?In this episode, I walk through 30 hard questions designed for anyone coming out of rejection, emotional withdrawal, or spiritual misalignment in modern dating. This is not surface level heartbreak advice. This is a deep psychological and spiritual examination of attachment, overgiving, ego wounds, and what it means to play by secular dating rules while claiming biblical convictions.We explore:• Why rejection without conflict feels disorienting<br />• The difference between intimacy and unity<br />• Overfunctioning in relationships and emotional imbalance<br />• Being chosen versus being available<br />• The psychology of giving too much to earn belonging<br />• Ego injury after romantic rejection<br />• Power dynamics and the desire to “flip the script”<br />• Spiritual alignment in Christian dating<br />• What happens when belief systems do not matchIf you are a single Christian navigating modern dating culture, this episode confronts a difficult truth: two people cannot walk together unless they agree. Chemistry is not covenant. Vulnerability is not permanence. And spiritual misalignment eventually exposes itself.This conversation blends relationship psychology, Christian worldview analysis, emotional intelligence, attachment awareness, and honest self examination.If you are:• Recovering from rejection<br />• Questioning whether you were loved or used<br />• Struggling with silence after intimacy<br />• Wrestling with faith versus dating culture<br />• Trying to rebuild self respect after giving too muchThese 30 questions will challenge you to examine your alignment, your standards, and your identity.This episode is reflective, direct, and unapologetically honest.Listen all the way through. Sit with the questions. Then decide what you are building next.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d83880a4-c846-42ff-8b18-b8b94512635e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 00:39:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70313524/ffcf27d6_af9b_3251_665c_de908e26bcd8.mp3" length="152379558" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/6Dqcqc4rkLTQK2d3UktFAr/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What happens when you realize you were never the destination, only the bridge?In this episode, I walk through 30 hard questions designed for anyone coming out of rejection, emotional withdrawal, or spiritual misalignment in modern dating. This is not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when you realize you were never the destination, only the bridge?In this episode, I walk through 30 hard questions designed for anyone coming out of rejection, emotional withdrawal, or spiritual misalignment in modern dating. This is not surface level heartbreak advice. This is a deep psychological and spiritual examination of attachment, overgiving, ego wounds, and what it means to play by secular dating rules while claiming biblical convictions.We explore:• Why rejection without conflict feels disorienting<br />• The difference between intimacy and unity<br />• Overfunctioning in relationships and emotional imbalance<br />• Being chosen versus being available<br />• The psychology of giving too much to earn belonging<br />• Ego injury after romantic rejection<br />• Power dynamics and the desire to “flip the script”<br />• Spiritual alignment in Christian dating<br />• What happens when belief systems do not matchIf you are a single Christian navigating modern dating culture, this episode confronts a difficult truth: two people cannot walk together unless they agree. Chemistry is not covenant. Vulnerability is not permanence. And spiritual misalignment eventually exposes itself.This conversation blends relationship psychology, Christian worldview analysis, emotional intelligence, attachment awareness, and honest self examination.If you are:• Recovering from rejection<br />• Questioning whether you were loved or used<br />• Struggling with silence after intimacy<br />• Wrestling with faith versus dating culture<br />• Trying to rebuild self respect after giving too muchThese 30 questions will challenge you to examine your alignment, your standards, and your identity.This episode is reflective, direct, and unapologetically honest.Listen all the way through. Sit with the questions. Then decide what you are building next.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6348</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5b147714c74e8c39d79296834a296dea.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>313</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Old school values in a swipe world -episode 312</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/old-school-values-in-a-swipe-world-episode-312--70276745</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 312 – Old School Values in a Swipe World<br />Dating Apps, Situationships, and the Fear of Being ReplacedModern dating feels different when you still believe in old school values.In Episode 312 of You’re Probably Right, I unpack what it means to navigate dating apps, swipe culture, and situationships while still wanting depth, loyalty, and permanence.What happens when intimacy feels real but commitment never anchors?<br />What does it do to your confidence when someone moves on without disruption?<br />Is it attachment style, emotional availability, or simply misalignment?This episode explores:• Modern dating psychology<br />• Dating apps and swipe culture<br />• Situationship dynamics<br />• The fear of being replaceable<br />• Emotional asymmetry in relationships<br />• Why effort does not guarantee attachment<br />• The difference between chemistry and gravityThis is not dating advice.<br />This is an honest analysis of what it feels like to care deeply in a world that moves quickly.If you’ve ever felt optional, easily replaced, or out of sync with modern dating culture, this conversation will resonate.Old school values are not outdated.<br />But they do feel different in a swipe world.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a41a9230-2af2-4f1f-b999-521b7535a51f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 18:45:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70276745/d4607db4_c526_a5b2_cf48_cdfb5e979222.mp3" length="257590636" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 312 – Old School Values in a Swipe World
Dating Apps, Situationships, and the Fear of Being ReplacedModern dating feels different when you still believe in old school values.In Episode 312 of You’re Probably Right, I unpack what it means to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 312 – Old School Values in a Swipe World<br />Dating Apps, Situationships, and the Fear of Being ReplacedModern dating feels different when you still believe in old school values.In Episode 312 of You’re Probably Right, I unpack what it means to navigate dating apps, swipe culture, and situationships while still wanting depth, loyalty, and permanence.What happens when intimacy feels real but commitment never anchors?<br />What does it do to your confidence when someone moves on without disruption?<br />Is it attachment style, emotional availability, or simply misalignment?This episode explores:• Modern dating psychology<br />• Dating apps and swipe culture<br />• Situationship dynamics<br />• The fear of being replaceable<br />• Emotional asymmetry in relationships<br />• Why effort does not guarantee attachment<br />• The difference between chemistry and gravityThis is not dating advice.<br />This is an honest analysis of what it feels like to care deeply in a world that moves quickly.If you’ve ever felt optional, easily replaced, or out of sync with modern dating culture, this conversation will resonate.Old school values are not outdated.<br />But they do feel different in a swipe world.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6440</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c90eb18dca2d232c9b6143d16ec5e752.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>312</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Change When You Like Someone (And Start Losing Yourself) -Episode 311</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-change-when-you-like-someone-and-start-losing-yourself-episode-311--70086206</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 311 – Why You Change When You Like Someone (And Start Losing Yourself)<br />Why do confident, capable adults suddenly shrink in romantic relationships?Why do you stay steady everywhere else in life, but start overthinking, overgiving, and altering yourself the moment you really like someone?In this episode, we break down the psychology behind losing yourself in relationships, fear of abandonment, anxious attachment patterns, childhood bullying trauma, sexual deprivation, and the need to be chosen.This is not about blaming partners. It is about understanding why high functioning professionals, divorced parents, thirty year old women dating, and fifty year old men afraid of becoming undesirable can all experience the same emotional collapse when romance is involved.We explore:• Why you change when you like someone<br />• How early rejection or bullying affects adult attachment<br />• The connection between sexual rejection and emotional insecurity<br />• Why you overfunction and overgive in relationships<br />• The psychology of shrinking yourself to avoid abandonment<br />• Why being “chosen” feels like survival<br />• How to stop betraying yourself to keep access to someoneIf you have ever felt confident in life but insecure in love, this episode will resonate deeply.This is a structured, honest examination of attachment fear, emotional deprivation, relationship insecurity, and the hidden cost of trying to be enough for someone who is not fully meeting you.You are probably right.But you may be shrinking.And that is what we are fixing.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80d94228-ec8f-48e9-8baa-d2aa473de53d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 19:32:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70086206/b6d87369_ffbf_edf1_4e17_cd42fb5934a0.mp3" length="139890585" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/1xbiqgvnOIjyBqN9WJlYXi/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 311 – Why You Change When You Like Someone (And Start Losing Yourself)
Why do confident, capable adults suddenly shrink in romantic relationships?Why do you stay steady everywhere else in life, but start overthinking, overgiving, and altering...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 311 – Why You Change When You Like Someone (And Start Losing Yourself)<br />Why do confident, capable adults suddenly shrink in romantic relationships?Why do you stay steady everywhere else in life, but start overthinking, overgiving, and altering yourself the moment you really like someone?In this episode, we break down the psychology behind losing yourself in relationships, fear of abandonment, anxious attachment patterns, childhood bullying trauma, sexual deprivation, and the need to be chosen.This is not about blaming partners. It is about understanding why high functioning professionals, divorced parents, thirty year old women dating, and fifty year old men afraid of becoming undesirable can all experience the same emotional collapse when romance is involved.We explore:• Why you change when you like someone<br />• How early rejection or bullying affects adult attachment<br />• The connection between sexual rejection and emotional insecurity<br />• Why you overfunction and overgive in relationships<br />• The psychology of shrinking yourself to avoid abandonment<br />• Why being “chosen” feels like survival<br />• How to stop betraying yourself to keep access to someoneIf you have ever felt confident in life but insecure in love, this episode will resonate deeply.This is a structured, honest examination of attachment fear, emotional deprivation, relationship insecurity, and the hidden cost of trying to be enough for someone who is not fully meeting you.You are probably right.But you may be shrinking.And that is what we are fixing.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5827</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/557ee10bf346f87afbcb71d1607fac08.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>311</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>They Came Back. Now What?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/they-came-back-now-what--70054558</link><description><![CDATA[When an ex returns after ignoring your pain, exploring other options, or walking away, what does it really mean?In this long form monologue, I break down what it means when someone comes back. Is it growth, loneliness, ego, rejection elsewhere, or genuine change? How do you tell the difference between regret and convenience?We talk about:• Why people return after distancing themselves<br />• The difference between nostalgia and accountability<br />• How to evaluate change without playing games<br />• When attention is not the same as commitment<br />• How to avoid being used again when you are emotionally vulnerableThis episode is honest, cautious, and reflective. It is about slowing down, observing patterns, and protecting your dignity without becoming bitter.They came back. Now what?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4da7dfc9-abb3-4a04-ba2c-4a3cd6e058ac</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 01:03:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70054558/b771c36d_668f_3163_dfc5_2bde06673371.mp3" length="100172896" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/0Kw9gzPX6OF7r5i6Ixwmj9/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When an ex returns after ignoring your pain, exploring other options, or walking away, what does it really mean?In this long form monologue, I break down what it means when someone comes back. Is it growth, loneliness, ego, rejection elsewhere, or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When an ex returns after ignoring your pain, exploring other options, or walking away, what does it really mean?In this long form monologue, I break down what it means when someone comes back. Is it growth, loneliness, ego, rejection elsewhere, or genuine change? How do you tell the difference between regret and convenience?We talk about:• Why people return after distancing themselves<br />• The difference between nostalgia and accountability<br />• How to evaluate change without playing games<br />• When attention is not the same as commitment<br />• How to avoid being used again when you are emotionally vulnerableThis episode is honest, cautious, and reflective. It is about slowing down, observing patterns, and protecting your dignity without becoming bitter.They came back. Now what?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4173</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/43b8ff23a281683ef05a2c796b823241.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>309</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Loving Without Letting Yourself Be Walked On- Episode 308</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/loving-without-letting-yourself-be-walked-on-episode-308--70001012</link><description><![CDATA[Anxious attachment. One sided relationships. Emotional overgiving. Modern dating detachment.What if loving deeply was never the problem?In this two hour monologue, I examine how to stay warm, expressive, and hopeful without becoming a doormat. We talk about anxious attachment styles, mixed signals, emotional inconsistency, and the difference between romance and self abandonment.This episode explores:• Why anxious attachment is often a response to emotional inconsistency<br />• How overgiving becomes self erasure<br />• The line between patience and self abandonment<br />• Why detachment is being mistaken for strength<br />• How to maintain self respect without becoming coldThis is not about becoming avoidant.<br />It is about loving with discernment.If you have ever felt torn between protecting your heart and staying true to who you are, this episode will resonate.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">83430ae2-97df-4a7d-8314-b19c41bb7ae8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 00:42:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70001012/5ae21df3_eeb1_d827_f8de_99584821da93.mp3" length="128284341" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Anxious attachment. One sided relationships. Emotional overgiving. Modern dating detachment.What if loving deeply was never the problem?In this two hour monologue, I examine how to stay warm, expressive, and hopeful without becoming a doormat. We talk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Anxious attachment. One sided relationships. Emotional overgiving. Modern dating detachment.What if loving deeply was never the problem?In this two hour monologue, I examine how to stay warm, expressive, and hopeful without becoming a doormat. We talk about anxious attachment styles, mixed signals, emotional inconsistency, and the difference between romance and self abandonment.This episode explores:• Why anxious attachment is often a response to emotional inconsistency<br />• How overgiving becomes self erasure<br />• The line between patience and self abandonment<br />• Why detachment is being mistaken for strength<br />• How to maintain self respect without becoming coldThis is not about becoming avoidant.<br />It is about loving with discernment.If you have ever felt torn between protecting your heart and staying true to who you are, this episode will resonate.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5344</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/68923f8ce433a3df41abf6aa789eef5e.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>308</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why did it feel so real to you, but somehow never seemed to matter the same way to them? Episode - 310</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-did-it-feel-so-real-to-you-but-somehow-never-seemed-to-matter-the-same-way-to-them-episode-310--69695053</link><description><![CDATA[Why did it feel so real to you, but somehow never seemed to matter the same way to them?This episode is a deep, unfiltered examination of one-sided relationships, emotional ambiguity, and the psychological toll of loving someone who was comfortable receiving without ever fully committing. It is not a dating advice episode, and it is not a motivational talk. It is a long-form breakdown of a dynamic many people live through but struggle to explain, even to themselves.We talk about what happens when generosity meets avoidance, when patience gets mistaken for permission, and when emotional labour is quietly extracted under the cover of hesitation, trauma, or “not being ready.” This episode explores dismissive-avoidant behaviour, intermittent reinforcement, moral injury, and the moment where confusion turns into clarity, often far too late.If you’ve ever replayed conversations in your head, questioned your own judgment, wondered why you stayed longer than you should have, or felt embarrassed trying to explain why something that “wasn’t even a relationship” hurt so deeply, this episode is for you.This is a two-hour, no-shortcuts conversation for people who value depth, honesty, and truth over quick fixes. It is meant to be listened to slowly. Some parts may be uncomfortable. That’s intentional.You weren’t crazy.<br />You weren’t asking for too much.<br />You were asking the wrong person.<br />one sided relationship, dismissive avoidant attachment, emotional exploitation, relationship confusion, unreciprocated love, emotional labour, dating without commitment, relationship trauma, healing after a situationship, moral injury in relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5ad80953-9c43-4119-950f-383a70464619</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2026 21:11:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69695053/024b1f84_e615_2ca9_3daf_06a9c0e78114.mp3" length="195679005" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why did it feel so real to you, but somehow never seemed to matter the same way to them?This episode is a deep, unfiltered examination of one-sided relationships, emotional ambiguity, and the psychological toll of loving someone who was comfortable...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why did it feel so real to you, but somehow never seemed to matter the same way to them?This episode is a deep, unfiltered examination of one-sided relationships, emotional ambiguity, and the psychological toll of loving someone who was comfortable receiving without ever fully committing. It is not a dating advice episode, and it is not a motivational talk. It is a long-form breakdown of a dynamic many people live through but struggle to explain, even to themselves.We talk about what happens when generosity meets avoidance, when patience gets mistaken for permission, and when emotional labour is quietly extracted under the cover of hesitation, trauma, or “not being ready.” This episode explores dismissive-avoidant behaviour, intermittent reinforcement, moral injury, and the moment where confusion turns into clarity, often far too late.If you’ve ever replayed conversations in your head, questioned your own judgment, wondered why you stayed longer than you should have, or felt embarrassed trying to explain why something that “wasn’t even a relationship” hurt so deeply, this episode is for you.This is a two-hour, no-shortcuts conversation for people who value depth, honesty, and truth over quick fixes. It is meant to be listened to slowly. Some parts may be uncomfortable. That’s intentional.You weren’t crazy.<br />You weren’t asking for too much.<br />You were asking the wrong person.<br />one sided relationship, dismissive avoidant attachment, emotional exploitation, relationship confusion, unreciprocated love, emotional labour, dating without commitment, relationship trauma, healing after a situationship, moral injury in relationships]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>8152</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b4162d52bb77a70501ed9f191b1e6fc3.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>310</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>When Wanting Something Simple Changes Everything.Episode 307</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-wanting-something-simple-changes-everything-episode-307--69611594</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes it is not the big requests that reveal the truth about a relationship. It is the simple ones.This episode is a long form monologue about what happens when asking for basic care, presence, or awareness quietly changes how someone treats you. It explores how some connections function smoothly as long as you remain steady, available, and accommodating, and how quickly things shift when you slow down, struggle, or speak honestly about where you are.Without naming anyone or telling a single story outright, this episode looks at the difference between being valued and being useful, between closeness and dependency, and between love and attachment to relief. It examines the grief that comes from realizing you gave in good faith, and the reckoning that follows when the arrangement no longer holds.If you have ever felt a connection change the moment you needed something simple, this episode will resonate.Hosted by MCM.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7ba94472-a3d5-4a1a-bb1d-85f176e169b0</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 02:50:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69611594/6bc0e77a_b6ab_0e20_6fdf_ebf357edd430.mp3" length="60606437" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/4PSiXjORZsO1qA6ZIemT0r/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes it is not the big requests that reveal the truth about a relationship. It is the simple ones.This episode is a long form monologue about what happens when asking for basic care, presence, or awareness quietly changes how someone treats you....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes it is not the big requests that reveal the truth about a relationship. It is the simple ones.This episode is a long form monologue about what happens when asking for basic care, presence, or awareness quietly changes how someone treats you. It explores how some connections function smoothly as long as you remain steady, available, and accommodating, and how quickly things shift when you slow down, struggle, or speak honestly about where you are.Without naming anyone or telling a single story outright, this episode looks at the difference between being valued and being useful, between closeness and dependency, and between love and attachment to relief. It examines the grief that comes from realizing you gave in good faith, and the reckoning that follows when the arrangement no longer holds.If you have ever felt a connection change the moment you needed something simple, this episode will resonate.Hosted by MCM.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2524</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/26bcdd45d4a89127c59e26b9a747389e.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>307</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 ways to make it work</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-ways-to-make-it-work--69575977</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of You're Probably Right, the focus isn’t on who’s right or wrong, but on where effort actually lands in long-term relationships. Moving back and forth between what men and women are often asked to carry, this monologue explores emotional presence, communication, boundaries, reliability, and intimacy as lived behaviors rather than ideals. The conversation stays grounded, practical, and reflective—looking at how relationships tend to drift when effort is misdirected, and how clarity, consistency, and timing often matter more than intensity. This episode is for anyone interested in what sustains connection once things are real and life is in the mix.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">25f50f6d-2d95-4caf-b18e-06fe8e9a7195</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:01:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69575977/82a04c71_2020_9efe_d87d_f80a7d88aa02.mp3" length="64807691" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/69LyKmb3oZ0IUjGudu3gYv/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of You're Probably Right, the focus isn’t on who’s right or wrong, but on where effort actually lands in long-term relationships. Moving back and forth between what men and women are often asked to carry, this monologue explores...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You're Probably Right, the focus isn’t on who’s right or wrong, but on where effort actually lands in long-term relationships. Moving back and forth between what men and women are often asked to carry, this monologue explores emotional presence, communication, boundaries, reliability, and intimacy as lived behaviors rather than ideals. The conversation stays grounded, practical, and reflective—looking at how relationships tend to drift when effort is misdirected, and how clarity, consistency, and timing often matter more than intensity. This episode is for anyone interested in what sustains connection once things are real and life is in the mix.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2699</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e9d112da58b49211b986908d0eeb0546.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>306</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don’t be embarrassed the main thing is you finally got here now what? Episode 305</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-be-embarrassed-the-main-thing-is-you-finally-got-here-now-what-episode-305--69553976</link><description><![CDATA[There comes a point in life when the noise dies down, the momentum fades, and the questions you’ve been avoiding finally catch up to you.This episode is not about fixing your life.<br />It’s about listening to what’s been quietly asking for your attention.In Episode 305, I step away from performance, explanations, and surface-level insight, and sit with the questions that only appear after disappointment, after adaptation, and after you’ve spent years being composed, reasonable, and useful for everyone else.This is a reflective episode for people who have lived carefully.<br />People who learned to keep things together.<br />People who stayed longer than they should have.<br />People who chose peace over truth, until the cost became impossible to ignore.Through a grounded monologue and a series of twenty deeply personal questions, this episode explores:• Why emotional fatigue creeps in quietly<br />• How usefulness replaces connection without you noticing<br />• The cost of staying silent to stay accepted<br />• The difference between being private and being invisible<br />• Why explaining yourself stops working at a certain stage of life<br />• And how clarity begins when you stop performing your composureThese questions aren’t designed to impress.<br />They’re designed to interrupt patterns.If you’ve ever felt like your life looks stable on the outside but unfinished on the inside, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best way.This is not a call to burn bridges.<br />It’s a pause.<br />A mirror.<br />A recalibration.Because sometimes growth doesn’t come from answers.<br />It comes from finally asking better questions, and letting them change you.You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1cba3e1f-6a72-4e0d-b07f-c5df23a5b584</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2026 01:16:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69553976/df9608b6_2882_381f_7b0c_6a4fc86f33f2.mp3" length="111292203" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There comes a point in life when the noise dies down, the momentum fades, and the questions you’ve been avoiding finally catch up to you.This episode is not about fixing your life.
It’s about listening to what’s been quietly asking for your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There comes a point in life when the noise dies down, the momentum fades, and the questions you’ve been avoiding finally catch up to you.This episode is not about fixing your life.<br />It’s about listening to what’s been quietly asking for your attention.In Episode 305, I step away from performance, explanations, and surface-level insight, and sit with the questions that only appear after disappointment, after adaptation, and after you’ve spent years being composed, reasonable, and useful for everyone else.This is a reflective episode for people who have lived carefully.<br />People who learned to keep things together.<br />People who stayed longer than they should have.<br />People who chose peace over truth, until the cost became impossible to ignore.Through a grounded monologue and a series of twenty deeply personal questions, this episode explores:• Why emotional fatigue creeps in quietly<br />• How usefulness replaces connection without you noticing<br />• The cost of staying silent to stay accepted<br />• The difference between being private and being invisible<br />• Why explaining yourself stops working at a certain stage of life<br />• And how clarity begins when you stop performing your composureThese questions aren’t designed to impress.<br />They’re designed to interrupt patterns.If you’ve ever felt like your life looks stable on the outside but unfinished on the inside, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best way.This is not a call to burn bridges.<br />It’s a pause.<br />A mirror.<br />A recalibration.Because sometimes growth doesn’t come from answers.<br />It comes from finally asking better questions, and letting them change you.You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4636</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dc26a3fb7dc3198b3d44ad992500af6.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>305</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 304 – The Quiet Cost of Always Being Reasonable</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-304-the-quiet-cost-of-always-being-reasonable--69477363</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 304 – The Quiet Cost of Always Being ReasonableThere is a version of being a good person nobody warns you about. Not kindness. Not decency. The quiet version, where being agreeable, steady, and capable slowly teaches people how far they can go with you.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we talk about what happens when admiration turns sideways, when being valued quietly turns into being optional, and why chasing past versions of people never works. This is not about blame, bitterness, or turning cold. It is about noticing patterns most people feel but struggle to name.We look at competition that hides behind praise, relationships that shift without explanation, and the difference between being chosen and being convenient. This episode is for anyone who has stayed longer than they should have, explained more than they needed to, or felt life moving just slightly ahead of them.No quick fixes. No social media advice. Just honest observation about how people behave, and what changes when you finally stop pretending not to notice.If something in this episode resonates with you, you can reach the show at yprpodcast@gmail.com.<br />You can also find the podcast on Facebook by searching You’re Probably Right Podcast.<br />Follow You’re Probably Right on Spotify so new episodes show up automatically.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f0848573-56e1-4218-a072-5753474fb0db</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2026 00:48:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69477363/99a3bd2f_4d84_39b4_dad0_68ccf976d65d.mp3" length="103819504" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/6QIGhs3WQpI3tuKWfUYiGo/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 304 – The Quiet Cost of Always Being ReasonableThere is a version of being a good person nobody warns you about. Not kindness. Not decency. The quiet version, where being agreeable, steady, and capable slowly teaches people how far they can go...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 304 – The Quiet Cost of Always Being ReasonableThere is a version of being a good person nobody warns you about. Not kindness. Not decency. The quiet version, where being agreeable, steady, and capable slowly teaches people how far they can go with you.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we talk about what happens when admiration turns sideways, when being valued quietly turns into being optional, and why chasing past versions of people never works. This is not about blame, bitterness, or turning cold. It is about noticing patterns most people feel but struggle to name.We look at competition that hides behind praise, relationships that shift without explanation, and the difference between being chosen and being convenient. This episode is for anyone who has stayed longer than they should have, explained more than they needed to, or felt life moving just slightly ahead of them.No quick fixes. No social media advice. Just honest observation about how people behave, and what changes when you finally stop pretending not to notice.If something in this episode resonates with you, you can reach the show at yprpodcast@gmail.com.<br />You can also find the podcast on Facebook by searching You’re Probably Right Podcast.<br />Follow You’re Probably Right on Spotify so new episodes show up automatically.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4325</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/497d24a3e9ff07ef73a78e6298f44329.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>304</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 303: The Questions That Change You After Everything Slows Down</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-303-the-questions-that-change-you-after-everything-slows-down--69448773</link><description><![CDATA[There comes a point in life when things do not fall apart, they simply slow down.The routines are familiar. The roles are established. You are functioning, reliable, composed. And yet, something underneath starts asking quieter, heavier questions. Not dramatic ones. Honest ones.This episode is a reflective monologue and guided question based exploration about what happens when you stop performing clarity for others and start listening to what your own life has been signalling. It explores the cost of staying agreeable, emotionally regulated, and reasonable for too long, and how years of choosing peace over truth can quietly drain direction, energy, and identity.Through an opening monologue, a set of twenty carefully chosen questions, and a closing reflection, this episode looks at emotional fatigue, people pleasing, silent compromises, misplaced loyalty, and the difference between being private and being invisible. These are not questions meant to impress or provoke. They are the kind that surface after disappointment, during transition, and in seasons where life looks stable on the outside but feels unresolved underneath.This episode is for listeners who are not broken, not lost, and not late, but are realizing that clarity matters more than comfort, and that silence has a cost.The questions were never about answers.<br />They were about permission.You are Probably Right.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c11ba7e4-6d70-400a-aa3a-97f1a88fb14c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 01:50:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69448773/e62683d9_1808_5cde_91f9_d6ce05f22425.mp3" length="111713427" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/0fnW4Wmt7GFrNSMXC8ykuu/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There comes a point in life when things do not fall apart, they simply slow down.The routines are familiar. The roles are established. You are functioning, reliable, composed. And yet, something underneath starts asking quieter, heavier questions. Not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There comes a point in life when things do not fall apart, they simply slow down.The routines are familiar. The roles are established. You are functioning, reliable, composed. And yet, something underneath starts asking quieter, heavier questions. Not dramatic ones. Honest ones.This episode is a reflective monologue and guided question based exploration about what happens when you stop performing clarity for others and start listening to what your own life has been signalling. It explores the cost of staying agreeable, emotionally regulated, and reasonable for too long, and how years of choosing peace over truth can quietly drain direction, energy, and identity.Through an opening monologue, a set of twenty carefully chosen questions, and a closing reflection, this episode looks at emotional fatigue, people pleasing, silent compromises, misplaced loyalty, and the difference between being private and being invisible. These are not questions meant to impress or provoke. They are the kind that surface after disappointment, during transition, and in seasons where life looks stable on the outside but feels unresolved underneath.This episode is for listeners who are not broken, not lost, and not late, but are realizing that clarity matters more than comfort, and that silence has a cost.The questions were never about answers.<br />They were about permission.You are Probably Right.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4654</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/708731bd0729757f89b130ab96564ead.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>303</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Edible Child, Omnipotence, and Why Adult Relationships Break the Way They Do</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-edible-child-omnipotence-and-why-adult-relationships-break-the-way-they-do--69396676</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 302<br />The Edible Child, Omnipotence, and Why Adult Relationships Break the Way They DoThere is a reason so many adults enter relationships carrying guilt they cannot explain, responsibility they never agreed to, and fear they cannot name.This episode explores a quiet psychological pattern that begins in childhood and silently shapes adult relationships, attraction, marriage, parenting, and emotional burnout.The concept is called the edible child, not in a literal sense, but in a psychological one. An edible child is raised to emotionally feed a parent’s sense of meaning, control, identity, or regulation. Instead of being guided toward independence, the child becomes useful. Needed. Essential. Consumed.In this episode, we break down how early experiences of infantile omnipotence, where a child’s needs appear to create reality, become damaging when parents cannot tolerate stepping back. When that happens, the child is not allowed to separate. Independence feels like betrayal. Boundaries feel like rejection. And love becomes tied to usefulness.As these children grow into adults, the pattern does not disappear. It shows up in over giving, people pleasing, staying too long, regulating partners, tolerating ambiguity, and confusing closeness with commitment. Many become reliable partners who quietly carry the emotional weight of relationships until attraction collapses under responsibility.This episode connects childhood emotional consumption to adult mating choices, marriage dynamics, parenting struggles, classroom behaviour, and why so many relationships lose desire without obvious conflict or betrayal.You will hear why attraction fades when responsibility replaces autonomy, how parent child dynamics quietly emerge between adults, why some people feel safest only when needed, and how to break this pattern without becoming cold or detached.This is not an episode about blaming parents or diagnosing partners. It is about understanding the blueprint you were handed and deciding whether you want to keep living inside it.If you have ever felt responsible for everyone else’s emotional state, guilty for choosing yourself, or exhausted by relationships that rely on your self sacrifice, this episode will put language to what your body already knows.edible child psychology, infantile omnipotence, relationship burnout, attachment patterns, people pleasing trauma, emotional over giving, adult attachment, relationship psychology podcast, childhood conditioning, emotional labour in relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">cfbcdf74-1381-4bb9-921e-0d696f840e03</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 01:23:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69396676/c993feb1_bd03_40a2_c36c_d428a9f938b0.mp3" length="44212947" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/3ZY9JnSb3S9GtmuDELLfUW/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 302
The Edible Child, Omnipotence, and Why Adult Relationships Break the Way They DoThere is a reason so many adults enter relationships carrying guilt they cannot explain, responsibility they never agreed to, and fear they cannot name.This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 302<br />The Edible Child, Omnipotence, and Why Adult Relationships Break the Way They DoThere is a reason so many adults enter relationships carrying guilt they cannot explain, responsibility they never agreed to, and fear they cannot name.This episode explores a quiet psychological pattern that begins in childhood and silently shapes adult relationships, attraction, marriage, parenting, and emotional burnout.The concept is called the edible child, not in a literal sense, but in a psychological one. An edible child is raised to emotionally feed a parent’s sense of meaning, control, identity, or regulation. Instead of being guided toward independence, the child becomes useful. Needed. Essential. Consumed.In this episode, we break down how early experiences of infantile omnipotence, where a child’s needs appear to create reality, become damaging when parents cannot tolerate stepping back. When that happens, the child is not allowed to separate. Independence feels like betrayal. Boundaries feel like rejection. And love becomes tied to usefulness.As these children grow into adults, the pattern does not disappear. It shows up in over giving, people pleasing, staying too long, regulating partners, tolerating ambiguity, and confusing closeness with commitment. Many become reliable partners who quietly carry the emotional weight of relationships until attraction collapses under responsibility.This episode connects childhood emotional consumption to adult mating choices, marriage dynamics, parenting struggles, classroom behaviour, and why so many relationships lose desire without obvious conflict or betrayal.You will hear why attraction fades when responsibility replaces autonomy, how parent child dynamics quietly emerge between adults, why some people feel safest only when needed, and how to break this pattern without becoming cold or detached.This is not an episode about blaming parents or diagnosing partners. It is about understanding the blueprint you were handed and deciding whether you want to keep living inside it.If you have ever felt responsible for everyone else’s emotional state, guilty for choosing yourself, or exhausted by relationships that rely on your self sacrifice, this episode will put language to what your body already knows.edible child psychology, infantile omnipotence, relationship burnout, attachment patterns, people pleasing trauma, emotional over giving, adult attachment, relationship psychology podcast, childhood conditioning, emotional labour in relationships]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1841</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2f1bf27dfda9b454527c7b802ae5485d.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>302</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being Kept - Episode 301</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-difference-between-being-chosen-and-being-kept-episode-301--69386630</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 301<br />The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being KeptThere is a quiet kind of heartbreak people rarely talk about.It is not rejection.<br />It is not betrayal.<br />It is staying in someone’s life while nothing actually moves forward.In this episode, I unpack the difference between being chosen and being kept, and why that distinction changes everything about how a relationship feels in your body, not just in your head.Being chosen creates clarity, momentum, and emotional safety over time.<br />Being kept creates closeness without direction, intimacy without commitment, and hope without resolution.Many people are not stuck because they lack self worth.<br />They are stuck because they confuse access with intention, proximity with commitment, and patience with love.This monologue explores<br />• How being chosen shows up through behaviour, not words<br />• Why being kept often feels intimate but quietly destabilizing<br />• How inconsistency trains the nervous system to stay alert instead of at peace<br />• Why people keep others close without choosing them<br />• The psychological cost of waiting in undefined emotional space<br />• When loyalty turns into self abandonment<br />• How to tell if you are staying because of love or because of investment<br />• Why clarity calms the body and ambiguity keeps it anxiousThis episode is not about blaming anyone.<br />It is about naming a pattern many people feel but struggle to articulate.If you have ever felt close but unsure<br />important but not prioritized<br />included but not anchoredThis episode will likely hit closer than you expect.Keywords<br />relationships, emotional clarity, anxious attachment, avoidant behaviour, dating psychology, commitment, emotional availability, self respect, relationship patterns, modern dating, podcast on relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0d0cccc3-7825-4134-a40f-a0ad49daedd5</guid><pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2026 02:28:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69386630/8dc7572f_7e8d_be60_0756_ba8194e7d218.mp3" length="41964254" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/2iKQxeiqoGg12BzlJI0xTP/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 301
The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being KeptThere is a quiet kind of heartbreak people rarely talk about.It is not rejection.
It is not betrayal.
It is staying in someone’s life while nothing actually moves forward.In this episode, I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 301<br />The Difference Between Being Chosen and Being KeptThere is a quiet kind of heartbreak people rarely talk about.It is not rejection.<br />It is not betrayal.<br />It is staying in someone’s life while nothing actually moves forward.In this episode, I unpack the difference between being chosen and being kept, and why that distinction changes everything about how a relationship feels in your body, not just in your head.Being chosen creates clarity, momentum, and emotional safety over time.<br />Being kept creates closeness without direction, intimacy without commitment, and hope without resolution.Many people are not stuck because they lack self worth.<br />They are stuck because they confuse access with intention, proximity with commitment, and patience with love.This monologue explores<br />• How being chosen shows up through behaviour, not words<br />• Why being kept often feels intimate but quietly destabilizing<br />• How inconsistency trains the nervous system to stay alert instead of at peace<br />• Why people keep others close without choosing them<br />• The psychological cost of waiting in undefined emotional space<br />• When loyalty turns into self abandonment<br />• How to tell if you are staying because of love or because of investment<br />• Why clarity calms the body and ambiguity keeps it anxiousThis episode is not about blaming anyone.<br />It is about naming a pattern many people feel but struggle to articulate.If you have ever felt close but unsure<br />important but not prioritized<br />included but not anchoredThis episode will likely hit closer than you expect.Keywords<br />relationships, emotional clarity, anxious attachment, avoidant behaviour, dating psychology, commitment, emotional availability, self respect, relationship patterns, modern dating, podcast on relationships]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1747</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4563cc884e836f299a697a4d8d12c3ac.jpg"/><itunes:season>12</itunes:season><itunes:episode>301</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 300 From Heartbreak to Healing, A Monologue for the Overlooked</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-300-from-heartbreak-to-healing-a-monologue-for-the-overlooked--69291979</link><description><![CDATA[This is Episode 300 of You’re Probably Right, and it is a pause, not a celebration.This episode is for the people who gave their love, time, energy, and loyalty, only to feel drained, overlooked, or quietly discarded. It is for anyone who stayed too long, over gave, or tried harder when the relationship was already slipping away. Not because they were weak, but because they cared.In this monologue, MCM speaks directly to the experience of being used, emotionally neglected, or taken for granted, and the damage that does to self worth. It explores how one sided love erodes confidence, why over giving becomes a survival strategy, and how people mistake relief from loneliness for real connection.This episode is not about blaming the other person, and it is not about self pity. It is about understanding why toxic attachments form, why hope keeps people stuck, and why walking away is sometimes the first real act of self respect.If you have ever felt like you lost yourself trying to love someone, this episode is a reminder that your kindness was never the problem. Your capacity to love was not a flaw. The lesson is not to love less, but to love with boundaries, clarity, and self respect.Episode 300 is about healing without bitterness, letting go without guilt, and rebuilding a sense of worth that does not depend on being chosen by someone who could not meet you where you stood.This episode is for the overlooked.<br />And for the moment you decide to choose yourself.Keywords:<br />heartbreak healing, being taken for granted, one sided relationships, emotional exhaustion, self worth after breakup, letting go, toxic attachment, relationship recovery, personal growth podcast, healing after loss]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d9419292-37ae-44ec-96d2-be24b8fc8825</guid><pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 21:12:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69291979/f158f7a5_5290_c814_33ff_384397e19d23.mp3" length="64066455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is Episode 300 of You’re Probably Right, and it is a pause, not a celebration.This episode is for the people who gave their love, time, energy, and loyalty, only to feel drained, overlooked, or quietly discarded. It is for anyone who stayed too...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is Episode 300 of You’re Probably Right, and it is a pause, not a celebration.This episode is for the people who gave their love, time, energy, and loyalty, only to feel drained, overlooked, or quietly discarded. It is for anyone who stayed too long, over gave, or tried harder when the relationship was already slipping away. Not because they were weak, but because they cared.In this monologue, MCM speaks directly to the experience of being used, emotionally neglected, or taken for granted, and the damage that does to self worth. It explores how one sided love erodes confidence, why over giving becomes a survival strategy, and how people mistake relief from loneliness for real connection.This episode is not about blaming the other person, and it is not about self pity. It is about understanding why toxic attachments form, why hope keeps people stuck, and why walking away is sometimes the first real act of self respect.If you have ever felt like you lost yourself trying to love someone, this episode is a reminder that your kindness was never the problem. Your capacity to love was not a flaw. The lesson is not to love less, but to love with boundaries, clarity, and self respect.Episode 300 is about healing without bitterness, letting go without guilt, and rebuilding a sense of worth that does not depend on being chosen by someone who could not meet you where you stood.This episode is for the overlooked.<br />And for the moment you decide to choose yourself.Keywords:<br />heartbreak healing, being taken for granted, one sided relationships, emotional exhaustion, self worth after breakup, letting go, toxic attachment, relationship recovery, personal growth podcast, healing after loss]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2668</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b05a877b7d420b6fe1f423c029130478.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>300</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 299 Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their Value</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-299-not-everyone-comes-back-when-you-finally-realize-their-value--69291263</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 299<br />Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their ValueA single sentence went viral and exposed something many people are not prepared to face, realizing someone’s value does not guarantee their return.This episode examines what people reveal about themselves after loss removes denial. It unpacks regret that arrives too late, the rewriting of personal narratives, the misuse of boundary language, and the uncomfortable difference between missing a person and missing what they provided. It also challenges the popular belief that awareness, apologies, or closure automatically earn second chances.Rather than assigning blame, this conversation focuses on accountability, psychological self protection, and the stories people tell to preserve identity after relationships end. It explores why reunions often fail, why real change does not require access, and why respecting someone’s absence can be the clearest sign of growth.This is not a motivational episode. It is a reflective examination of loss, boundaries, and consequence, delivered without moral shortcuts or emotional reassurance.If this episode makes you uncomfortable, that discomfort is the signal. Something honest landed.You're Probably Right Podcast.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">89c79fa6-fba5-4f50-aa25-b5159a4756cb</guid><pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 18:41:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69291263/a16c499e_f946_40c3_8637_88336042a142.mp3" length="31082584" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/0qHYjLS2uSnupoFYzO5DqC/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 299
Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their ValueA single sentence went viral and exposed something many people are not prepared to face, realizing someone’s value does not guarantee their return.This episode examines what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 299<br />Not Everyone Comes Back When You Finally Realize Their ValueA single sentence went viral and exposed something many people are not prepared to face, realizing someone’s value does not guarantee their return.This episode examines what people reveal about themselves after loss removes denial. It unpacks regret that arrives too late, the rewriting of personal narratives, the misuse of boundary language, and the uncomfortable difference between missing a person and missing what they provided. It also challenges the popular belief that awareness, apologies, or closure automatically earn second chances.Rather than assigning blame, this conversation focuses on accountability, psychological self protection, and the stories people tell to preserve identity after relationships end. It explores why reunions often fail, why real change does not require access, and why respecting someone’s absence can be the clearest sign of growth.This is not a motivational episode. It is a reflective examination of loss, boundaries, and consequence, delivered without moral shortcuts or emotional reassurance.If this episode makes you uncomfortable, that discomfort is the signal. Something honest landed.You're Probably Right Podcast.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1294</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9b4c26bb14d8b8f1a099648279ea84fc.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>299</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 298: The Harsh Realities of Dating, Truths We Need to Stop Ignoring Edited version</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-298-the-harsh-realities-of-dating-truths-we-need-to-stop-ignoring-edited-version--69253829</link><description><![CDATA[Dating does not usually hurt people because of betrayal.<br />It hurts people because of soft warnings they chose to translate into hope.In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I break down twenty harsh but necessary truths about modern dating, the kind that do not show up as big dramatic moments, but as small comments, delayed replies, vague language, and mixed signals that slowly drain your energy.This is not motivation content.<br />This is clarity.We talk about what phrases like “I’m not ready for a relationship,” “let’s just vibe,” “I need space,” and “I don’t like labels” actually mean in real life behaviour, not in fantasy. We unpack why niceness without boundaries backfires, why emotional availability is often misunderstood, why people keep others in holding patterns, and why confusion is sometimes a strategy, not an accident.This episode is for anyone who has felt like they were trying harder than they should, analysing texts, negotiating red flags, or staying longer because things were almost good. It is for people who want honesty over comfort, and self respect over false hope.If you have ever felt like you were giving full effort while being offered half clarity, this episode is for you.Listen with an open mind, not to blame anyone, but to stop losing yourself in situations that were never meant to grow.You’re probably right.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3fad2d2c-ca6b-43da-b74f-81499b780e3e</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 18:13:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69253829/30021819_9269_8f25_f259_608e109dd964.mp3" length="75317909" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/4AnYIAS26m4rpC05s1MP5t/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating does not usually hurt people because of betrayal.
It hurts people because of soft warnings they chose to translate into hope.In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I break down twenty harsh but necessary truths about modern dating,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dating does not usually hurt people because of betrayal.<br />It hurts people because of soft warnings they chose to translate into hope.In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I break down twenty harsh but necessary truths about modern dating, the kind that do not show up as big dramatic moments, but as small comments, delayed replies, vague language, and mixed signals that slowly drain your energy.This is not motivation content.<br />This is clarity.We talk about what phrases like “I’m not ready for a relationship,” “let’s just vibe,” “I need space,” and “I don’t like labels” actually mean in real life behaviour, not in fantasy. We unpack why niceness without boundaries backfires, why emotional availability is often misunderstood, why people keep others in holding patterns, and why confusion is sometimes a strategy, not an accident.This episode is for anyone who has felt like they were trying harder than they should, analysing texts, negotiating red flags, or staying longer because things were almost good. It is for people who want honesty over comfort, and self respect over false hope.If you have ever felt like you were giving full effort while being offered half clarity, this episode is for you.Listen with an open mind, not to blame anyone, but to stop losing yourself in situations that were never meant to grow.You’re probably right.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3137</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f47c355acf3682e4b8d67ea3183d9401.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>298</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-297-how-do-i-find-them--69246598</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?In a world where proximity doesn’t guarantee connection, how do we actually find someone worth building with? In this solo episode, MCM breaks down the quiet realities behind modern relationships—what “high-value” really means, whether settling is weakness or wisdom, and how changing roles and income gaps are reshaping who ends up with whom.From workplace crushes to partner standards, this is the kind of talk that might challenge your views—or help you finally make sense of them.Real, grounded, no hype. Just a conversation that might stick with you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3005fd8c-9896-4fad-ac02-c983069d71ad</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 02:10:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69246598/bb95ce29_f24f_6bad_0ccd_0f3c7fe81c6a.mp3" length="105665645" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?In a world where proximity doesn’t guarantee connection, how do we actually find someone worth building with? In this solo episode, MCM breaks down the quiet realities behind modern relationships—what “high-value”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 297 – How Do I Find Them?In a world where proximity doesn’t guarantee connection, how do we actually find someone worth building with? In this solo episode, MCM breaks down the quiet realities behind modern relationships—what “high-value” really means, whether settling is weakness or wisdom, and how changing roles and income gaps are reshaping who ends up with whom.From workplace crushes to partner standards, this is the kind of talk that might challenge your views—or help you finally make sense of them.Real, grounded, no hype. Just a conversation that might stick with you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4402</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9ebf1a3a64f6396e310bf5e883a2fb12.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>297</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 296 – Why Being the Good One Costs You Everything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-296-why-being-the-good-one-costs-you-everything--69234948</link><description><![CDATA[Some connections never become relationships, but they still manage to take everything out of you.This episode is a long form, story driven monologue about how certain modern connections form through repeated proximity, familiarity, and access, not clear intention or commitment, and why they so often leave one person steady and intact while the other is left depleted and confused.This is not a conversation about villains, manipulation, or blame. It is an examination of emotional imbalance, over giving, and what happens when one person quietly becomes the stabilizer in a connection that was never designed to sustain two people equally.I explore why intimacy can feel real but never accumulate, why generosity often backfires, why clarity never arrives in ambiguous relationships, and why common advice like just communicate or just walk away fails in proximity based situations where disappearance is not simple.If you have ever felt drained in a situationship, taken for granted emotionally, or unsure why you were the one left holding the weight when nothing was ever defined, this episode will give language to that experience.This is about emotional regulation in modern relationships, attachment without commitment, and the hidden cost of being the good one.You are probably right.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8d7b371a-47fc-4d1a-a8cc-b5ee75f6188c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 00:50:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69234948/b86e4b11_096b_9671_be80_8943f2fae78e.mp3" length="73416815" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/6HQbrb7oHht9YhNwB8FsDp/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Some connections never become relationships, but they still manage to take everything out of you.This episode is a long form, story driven monologue about how certain modern connections form through repeated proximity, familiarity, and access, not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some connections never become relationships, but they still manage to take everything out of you.This episode is a long form, story driven monologue about how certain modern connections form through repeated proximity, familiarity, and access, not clear intention or commitment, and why they so often leave one person steady and intact while the other is left depleted and confused.This is not a conversation about villains, manipulation, or blame. It is an examination of emotional imbalance, over giving, and what happens when one person quietly becomes the stabilizer in a connection that was never designed to sustain two people equally.I explore why intimacy can feel real but never accumulate, why generosity often backfires, why clarity never arrives in ambiguous relationships, and why common advice like just communicate or just walk away fails in proximity based situations where disappearance is not simple.If you have ever felt drained in a situationship, taken for granted emotionally, or unsure why you were the one left holding the weight when nothing was ever defined, this episode will give language to that experience.This is about emotional regulation in modern relationships, attachment without commitment, and the hidden cost of being the good one.You are probably right.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3058</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb9b583d93b8b82f9a526abdcb4808b3.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>296</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Questions You Answer When Nobody Is Listening, Episode 295</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-questions-you-answer-when-nobody-is-listening-episode-295--69225891</link><description><![CDATA[There are relationship questions people do not answer out loud. Not because they are dishonest, but because the answers are uncomfortable, complicated, and would force real decisions.This special Q and A episode is built around twenty questions that expose unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, and the quiet ways people shrink themselves to keep access, peace, or hope alive. These are not surface level questions. They are the ones you answer privately, when nobody is listening, and when you finally stop negotiating with yourself.If you have ever felt stuck, undervalued, confused, or like you were walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode helps you separate patterns from hope. It is not about blaming anyone. It is about seeing the mechanics clearly so you can stop repeating the same dynamic in a new form.This episode is especially for people who overthink texts, replay conversations, tolerate mixed signals, or sense that something is off but keep telling themselves it will get better. The questions are designed to create clarity, not comfort.Listen slowly. Pause when needed. Answer honestly.You are not stuck because you are weak. You are stuck because you have been avoiding the truth.You’re Probably Right.Keywords:<br />relationship questions, unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, walking on eggshells, trauma bonding, anxious attachment, dating psychology, relationship patterns, self respect, emotional clarity, podcast relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">29518a16-dbb3-432f-8a25-fd3ab20b4867</guid><pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2025 04:16:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69225891/3904f23d_6f50_6959_9f89_a2f5fccf5178.mp3" length="89751352" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are relationship questions people do not answer out loud. Not because they are dishonest, but because the answers are uncomfortable, complicated, and would force real decisions.This special Q and A episode is built around twenty questions that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are relationship questions people do not answer out loud. Not because they are dishonest, but because the answers are uncomfortable, complicated, and would force real decisions.This special Q and A episode is built around twenty questions that expose unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, and the quiet ways people shrink themselves to keep access, peace, or hope alive. These are not surface level questions. They are the ones you answer privately, when nobody is listening, and when you finally stop negotiating with yourself.If you have ever felt stuck, undervalued, confused, or like you were walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode helps you separate patterns from hope. It is not about blaming anyone. It is about seeing the mechanics clearly so you can stop repeating the same dynamic in a new form.This episode is especially for people who overthink texts, replay conversations, tolerate mixed signals, or sense that something is off but keep telling themselves it will get better. The questions are designed to create clarity, not comfort.Listen slowly. Pause when needed. Answer honestly.You are not stuck because you are weak. You are stuck because you have been avoiding the truth.You’re Probably Right.Keywords:<br />relationship questions, unhealthy attachment, mixed signals, people pleasing, walking on eggshells, trauma bonding, anxious attachment, dating psychology, relationship patterns, self respect, emotional clarity, podcast relationships]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3738</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/558323cf1ef961314f6fcbffe9af8f25.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>295</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unplayable, Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unplayable-why-men-shrink-themselves-and-attraction-dies-episode-294--69214876</link><description><![CDATA[<br />Unplayable,Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294<br />A lot of men do not lose their relationship all at once, they lose themselvesfirst.Inthis episode, I break down a pattern that shows up in heterosexualrelationships everywhere. A man starts out confident, funny, grounded, andattractive, then once he gets attached he starts editing himself to keep peaceand keep access. He over gives. He over explains. He swallows conflict. Hebecomes agreeable instead of authentic. And slowly, attraction dies.Wealso talk about the uncomfortable piece people avoid. In some relationships,warmth, distance, and intimacy become a steering wheel. Not always on purpose,not in every couple, but often enough that many men end up trained to managemoods instead of leading their lives.Thisis not a men bad, women bad episode. It is a mechanics episode. Men willrecognise how they become playable, meaning steerable by fear, withdrawal, andreward. Women will recognise how a man can start to feel less solid over time,and why that shift changes attraction.Iclose with a step by step way out, how to rebuild backbone without becomingrude, how to stop walking on eggshells, how to reset respect, and how to becomeunplayable in the healthy sense, like an NPC in a video game, a character withpurpose and a code that cannot be controlled by someone else’s reward andpunishment system.Emailthe show, yprpodcast@gmail.comKeywords,walking on eggshells, attraction, dead bedroom, husband to roommate, approvalseeking, people pleasing, respect in relationships, intimacy as leverage,masculine backbone, dating psychology, heterosexual relationships, relationshipadvice podcast, unplayable, NPCYouTubetagsunplayable,NPC, men shrink themselves, walking on eggshells, attraction dies, deadbedroom, husband to roommate, people pleasing, approval seeking, intimacy asleverage, respect in relationships, relationship psychology, dating psychology,marriage advice, masculine backbone, heterosexual relationships, podcastrelationships, You are Probably Right]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a2be009c-7ce4-40e5-adf2-7c9803229e76</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 21:49:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69214876/58538b1f_9693_accb_46e5_bf02a6e7dfde.mp3" length="85601154" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/3xe5CFx8zN8yV0hypsI4v9/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
Unplayable,Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294
A lot of men do not lose their relationship all at once, they lose themselvesfirst.Inthis episode, I break down a pattern that shows up in heterosexualrelationships everywhere. A...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />Unplayable,Why Men Shrink Themselves and Attraction Dies, Episode 294<br />A lot of men do not lose their relationship all at once, they lose themselvesfirst.Inthis episode, I break down a pattern that shows up in heterosexualrelationships everywhere. A man starts out confident, funny, grounded, andattractive, then once he gets attached he starts editing himself to keep peaceand keep access. He over gives. He over explains. He swallows conflict. Hebecomes agreeable instead of authentic. And slowly, attraction dies.Wealso talk about the uncomfortable piece people avoid. In some relationships,warmth, distance, and intimacy become a steering wheel. Not always on purpose,not in every couple, but often enough that many men end up trained to managemoods instead of leading their lives.Thisis not a men bad, women bad episode. It is a mechanics episode. Men willrecognise how they become playable, meaning steerable by fear, withdrawal, andreward. Women will recognise how a man can start to feel less solid over time,and why that shift changes attraction.Iclose with a step by step way out, how to rebuild backbone without becomingrude, how to stop walking on eggshells, how to reset respect, and how to becomeunplayable in the healthy sense, like an NPC in a video game, a character withpurpose and a code that cannot be controlled by someone else’s reward andpunishment system.Emailthe show, yprpodcast@gmail.comKeywords,walking on eggshells, attraction, dead bedroom, husband to roommate, approvalseeking, people pleasing, respect in relationships, intimacy as leverage,masculine backbone, dating psychology, heterosexual relationships, relationshipadvice podcast, unplayable, NPCYouTubetagsunplayable,NPC, men shrink themselves, walking on eggshells, attraction dies, deadbedroom, husband to roommate, people pleasing, approval seeking, intimacy asleverage, respect in relationships, relationship psychology, dating psychology,marriage advice, masculine backbone, heterosexual relationships, podcastrelationships, You are Probably Right]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3566</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/019899eaabcfda5b9b316e6559bdd0a8.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>294</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mixed Signals Explained, Patterns vs Hope Episode 293</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mixed-signals-explained-patterns-vs-hope-episode-293--69204847</link><description><![CDATA[Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed signals, hot and cold behaviour, situationships, and anxious attachment. I break down what is happening with three diagnostic lists that force you to look at behaviour side by side, instead of romanticizing, guessing, or replaying messages.Nothing here is a hard rule. People are complex, context matters, timing matters, and there are always grey areas. But patterns still have a shape, and when you learn to see that shape, you stop losing years.In this episode you will hear three frameworks<br />List one, chosen for the long term versus casual and situationship behaviour<br />List two, boundary crossings that signal real emotional investment and real attachment<br />List three, what it looks like when chemistry is real, you had closeness before, access was lost, and they want closeness and benefits back without commitmentIf you overthink, if you feel stuck decoding signals, this episode is designed to give you clarity without coddling you. The goal is not paranoia, the goal is honesty.Email the show, yprpodcast@gmail.comKeywords, mixed signals, anxious attachment, hot and cold behaviour, situationship signs, commitment avoidance, emotional unavailability, relationship clarity, chosen vs convenient, patterns vs hope, dating psychology, relationship advice podcast<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5aa7defe-50ae-4a8a-836c-d13747b2ff83</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2025 15:38:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69204847/3b286a82_5842_9075_900e_1665d71bcdf5.mp3" length="156921082" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/7iLovHHEpzBQaWfx3NqYdc/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever ask yourself what are they really in my life for?Most people are not confused because relationships are unknowable, they are confused because they keep trying to understand behaviour through hope.Episode 293 is for anyone dealing with mixed signals, hot and cold behaviour, situationships, and anxious attachment. I break down what is happening with three diagnostic lists that force you to look at behaviour side by side, instead of romanticizing, guessing, or replaying messages.Nothing here is a hard rule. People are complex, context matters, timing matters, and there are always grey areas. But patterns still have a shape, and when you learn to see that shape, you stop losing years.In this episode you will hear three frameworks<br />List one, chosen for the long term versus casual and situationship behaviour<br />List two, boundary crossings that signal real emotional investment and real attachment<br />List three, what it looks like when chemistry is real, you had closeness before, access was lost, and they want closeness and benefits back without commitmentIf you overthink, if you feel stuck decoding signals, this episode is designed to give you clarity without coddling you. The goal is not paranoia, the goal is honesty.Email the show, yprpodcast@gmail.comKeywords, mixed signals, anxious attachment, hot and cold behaviour, situationship signs, commitment avoidance, emotional unavailability, relationship clarity, chosen vs convenient, patterns vs hope, dating psychology, relationship advice podcast<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6537</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8004469cd2edc1ece13226bc66c10fde.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>293</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 292 – “I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve Got” | Why Men Lose Themselves in Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-292-i-don-t-want-to-lose-what-i-ve-got-why-men-lose-themselves-in-relationships--69188037</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 292 – I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve GotIn this one hour monologue, MCM explores a truth many men struggle to admit out loud, the fear of losing what they have often turns them into someone they were never meant to be.This episode breaks down why men are often most attractive when nothing is on the line, and how relationships change once there is something to lose. From shrinking personalities, managing behaviour, and avoiding conflict, to sex fading and respect quietly eroding, this is a grounded look at what happens when men organise their lives around keeping a relationship instead of standing in themselves.This is not an episode about rejecting women, marriage, or commitment. It is about understanding why men lose themselves trying to protect access, peace, and intimacy, and why that instinct often backfires.If you’ve ever felt like you became less yourself just to keep what you had, this episode will resonate.Recorded as a single uninterrupted reflection, this is a long listen designed for quiet moments, long nights, and honest thinking.Place these at the bottom of the description, exactly like thismen and relationships<br />fear of loss in relationships<br />why men lose attraction<br />relationship dynamics psychology<br />respect versus love<br />long form podcast monologue<br />male perspective on relationships<br />emotional polarity<br />You’re Probably Right podcast<br />🔑 KEYWORDS AND PHRASES]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8fd169-1aa7-4764-b400-170043d5c3ee</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 22:55:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69188037/5dc1d488_42c7_9762_ec8d_8e7b6cedba12.mp3" length="102094169" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/4rQDY7e08sEwxEYuUNWVaj/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 292 – I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve GotIn this one hour monologue, MCM explores a truth many men struggle to admit out loud, the fear of losing what they have often turns them into someone they were never meant to be.This episode breaks down...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 292 – I Don’t Want to Lose What I’ve GotIn this one hour monologue, MCM explores a truth many men struggle to admit out loud, the fear of losing what they have often turns them into someone they were never meant to be.This episode breaks down why men are often most attractive when nothing is on the line, and how relationships change once there is something to lose. From shrinking personalities, managing behaviour, and avoiding conflict, to sex fading and respect quietly eroding, this is a grounded look at what happens when men organise their lives around keeping a relationship instead of standing in themselves.This is not an episode about rejecting women, marriage, or commitment. It is about understanding why men lose themselves trying to protect access, peace, and intimacy, and why that instinct often backfires.If you’ve ever felt like you became less yourself just to keep what you had, this episode will resonate.Recorded as a single uninterrupted reflection, this is a long listen designed for quiet moments, long nights, and honest thinking.Place these at the bottom of the description, exactly like thismen and relationships<br />fear of loss in relationships<br />why men lose attraction<br />relationship dynamics psychology<br />respect versus love<br />long form podcast monologue<br />male perspective on relationships<br />emotional polarity<br />You’re Probably Right podcast<br />🔑 KEYWORDS AND PHRASES]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4253</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/622c11474e548c547718383a631ff25e.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>292</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Standards, Settling, and the New Dating Reality - Episode 291</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/standards-settling-and-the-new-dating-reality-episode-291--69162580</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 291 of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a grounded look at how people make sense of their lives when certainty is gone. This episode sits in the quiet space between who we thought we would be and where we actually are, examining how expectations, relationships, and personal responsibility collide over time.Rather than offering quick answers or loud opinions, this episode slows things down. It explores how people adapt when old frameworks stop working, how internal narratives shape decision making, and why clarity often comes from reflection instead of reaction.This is a reflective, experience based monologue meant for listeners who are thinking deeply about life, connection, and the choices that shape identity. No trends, no shortcuts, just honest perspective and thoughtful observation.If you’re questioning where you are, how you got here, or what comes next, this episode meets you there.<br /><ul><li>life reflection podcast</li><li>personal responsibility</li><li>relationship dynamics</li><li>modern identity</li><li>emotional clarity</li></ul><br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e81b7afa-883d-4e58-ba19-fcb0f97ade4d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2025 02:04:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69162580/c96840dd_fed8_5069_9951_5c2cd7373c20.mp3" length="50550672" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 291 of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a grounded look at how people make sense of their lives when certainty is gone. This episode sits in the quiet space between who we thought we would be and where we actually are, examining how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 291 of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a grounded look at how people make sense of their lives when certainty is gone. This episode sits in the quiet space between who we thought we would be and where we actually are, examining how expectations, relationships, and personal responsibility collide over time.Rather than offering quick answers or loud opinions, this episode slows things down. It explores how people adapt when old frameworks stop working, how internal narratives shape decision making, and why clarity often comes from reflection instead of reaction.This is a reflective, experience based monologue meant for listeners who are thinking deeply about life, connection, and the choices that shape identity. No trends, no shortcuts, just honest perspective and thoughtful observation.If you’re questioning where you are, how you got here, or what comes next, this episode meets you there.<br /><ul><li>life reflection podcast</li><li>personal responsibility</li><li>relationship dynamics</li><li>modern identity</li><li>emotional clarity</li></ul><br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2105</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/900b817bd1f476905c8082b55edd5e32.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>289</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Unspoken Contract of Giving -Episode 290</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-unspoken-contract-of-giving-episode-290--69130780</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 290The Unspoken Contract of GivingWhat really happens when you give and receive nothing back, not rejection, not conflict, just silence.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we unpack the psychology of giving in adult relationships and why unacknowledged effort can feel more painful than being told no. This is not about holidays, birthdays, or special occasions. It is about the everyday reality of giving that happens all year long in dating, marriage, friendships, situationships, and long term connections.We explore why people give in the first place, including clean generosity, anxious giving, guilt driven giving, image based giving, and the need to quiet one’s conscience. We also look closely at why people receive the way they do, from secure and appreciative responses to avoidance, entitlement, overwhelm, and emotional distance.This episode breaks down how men and women often interpret giving differently, how social expectations and gender norms shape reactions, and why the same act of generosity can be experienced as care by one person and pressure by another. We discuss male giving to female, female giving to male, and the misunderstandings that arise when effort replaces clarity.You will hear a deep dive into unspoken transactional dynamics, sometimes called soft sugar arrangements, where generosity exists without labels or agreement, and why ambiguity almost always benefits one person more than the other. We also examine why silence after giving triggers self doubt, rumination, and resentment, even in people who are generally secure and emotionally grounded.This episode introduces practical ways to assess a dynamic without games or manipulation, including how to pause giving to gather information, how to recognize when generosity has stopped being clean, and how to set boundaries that create respect rather than conflict.If you have ever wondered why giving left you feeling confused instead of connected, or why appreciation seems to disappear over time, this episode offers language, structure, and perspective to understand what is really happening beneath the surface.This is a long form, reflective episode about clarity, accountability, and emotional balance in adult relationships.You’re Probably Right.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">559420ff-ac6e-4baf-b017-16ebe34224e8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2025 07:22:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69130780/414334893_44100_2_158b5232deaed.mp3" length="70099861" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/7JOwqbbGufqE04OWyMNEKA/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 290The Unspoken Contract of GivingWhat really happens when you give and receive nothing back, not rejection, not conflict, just silence.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we unpack the psychology of giving in adult relationships and why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 290The Unspoken Contract of GivingWhat really happens when you give and receive nothing back, not rejection, not conflict, just silence.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we unpack the psychology of giving in adult relationships and why unacknowledged effort can feel more painful than being told no. This is not about holidays, birthdays, or special occasions. It is about the everyday reality of giving that happens all year long in dating, marriage, friendships, situationships, and long term connections.We explore why people give in the first place, including clean generosity, anxious giving, guilt driven giving, image based giving, and the need to quiet one’s conscience. We also look closely at why people receive the way they do, from secure and appreciative responses to avoidance, entitlement, overwhelm, and emotional distance.This episode breaks down how men and women often interpret giving differently, how social expectations and gender norms shape reactions, and why the same act of generosity can be experienced as care by one person and pressure by another. We discuss male giving to female, female giving to male, and the misunderstandings that arise when effort replaces clarity.You will hear a deep dive into unspoken transactional dynamics, sometimes called soft sugar arrangements, where generosity exists without labels or agreement, and why ambiguity almost always benefits one person more than the other. We also examine why silence after giving triggers self doubt, rumination, and resentment, even in people who are generally secure and emotionally grounded.This episode introduces practical ways to assess a dynamic without games or manipulation, including how to pause giving to gather information, how to recognize when generosity has stopped being clean, and how to set boundaries that create respect rather than conflict.If you have ever wondered why giving left you feeling confused instead of connected, or why appreciation seems to disappear over time, this episode offers language, structure, and perspective to understand what is really happening beneath the surface.This is a long form, reflective episode about clarity, accountability, and emotional balance in adult relationships.You’re Probably Right.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4382</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6879cd9965b58dd96e76098ec113ca75.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>290</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Presence Is What People Are Actually Looking For -EPISODE 291</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/presence-is-what-people-are-actually-looking-for-episode-291--69037406</link><description><![CDATA[In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong partner.Join us as we explore how the constant search for the perfect match can overshadow the real key to connection: the ability to be genuinely present. We’ll discuss why modern dating often erodes presence and how focusing on understanding and attention can transform the way we connect.If you’ve ever felt that dating is just a numbers game that leaves everyone more skeptical and less hopeful, this episode is for you. Let’s redefine attraction by putting presence back at the center.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ff7db71c-048a-499c-85b5-e4d7549ac203</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2025 00:33:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69037406/edec94b3_df6d_80c2_d07a_ac37aff632da.mp3" length="37086534" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/3aEUeoeSBJnUreUkXZCaPV/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In a world of dating apps and endless checklists, are we missing the one thing that truly creates lasting attraction? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into why presence—not looks, not checkboxes—matters most in finding a lifelong partner.Join us as we explore how the constant search for the perfect match can overshadow the real key to connection: the ability to be genuinely present. We’ll discuss why modern dating often erodes presence and how focusing on understanding and attention can transform the way we connect.If you’ve ever felt that dating is just a numbers game that leaves everyone more skeptical and less hopeful, this episode is for you. Let’s redefine attraction by putting presence back at the center.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1544</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/594a61b78de626fb6cd949349219efd2.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>291</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>30 Things People Say When They Secretly Like You - Adult Social Skills - Episode# 289</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/30-things-people-say-when-they-secretly-like-you-adult-social-skills-episode-289--68923970</link><description><![CDATA[You ever notice how grown adults will talk in full circles just to avoid saying, “Hey, I like you”?<br />People will write whole essays through subtext, emojis, half-sentences, and late-night “accidental” messages, acting like they’re sending government-classified codes instead of admitting they’re interested.In this episode, we’re breaking down the 30 ambiguous things people say when they want you… but they’re scared to show their hand.<br />You know the lines:“I don’t usually open up to people.”<br />“You’re different.”<br />“We should hang out… sometime.”<br />“Lol you’re trouble.”Every one of them is a breadcrumb, a little test, a tiny invitation wrapped in fear.We’re talking:<br />• why people hide their attraction<br />• how to tell the difference between interest and politeness<br />• how fear makes people speak in riddles<br />• how to respond without losing self-respect<br />• how to stop being the “weaker” one giving coded signalsIf you’ve ever wondered, “Are they into me or just weirdly friendly?” …this episode is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a4539844-0493-42bd-bd06-2461b6736228</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2025 22:19:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68923970/31862c95_b70e_75b0_a808_fd7adff8f0de.mp3" length="66388672" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You ever notice how grown adults will talk in full circles just to avoid saying, “Hey, I like you”?
People will write whole essays through subtext, emojis, half-sentences, and late-night “accidental” messages, acting like they’re sending...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You ever notice how grown adults will talk in full circles just to avoid saying, “Hey, I like you”?<br />People will write whole essays through subtext, emojis, half-sentences, and late-night “accidental” messages, acting like they’re sending government-classified codes instead of admitting they’re interested.In this episode, we’re breaking down the 30 ambiguous things people say when they want you… but they’re scared to show their hand.<br />You know the lines:“I don’t usually open up to people.”<br />“You’re different.”<br />“We should hang out… sometime.”<br />“Lol you’re trouble.”Every one of them is a breadcrumb, a little test, a tiny invitation wrapped in fear.We’re talking:<br />• why people hide their attraction<br />• how to tell the difference between interest and politeness<br />• how fear makes people speak in riddles<br />• how to respond without losing self-respect<br />• how to stop being the “weaker” one giving coded signalsIf you’ve ever wondered, “Are they into me or just weirdly friendly?” …this episode is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2765</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a1cd5c98f2cbb3b3fa680bf3a5bec0c8.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>289</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 288 — The Calm They Come Back To</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-288-the-calm-they-come-back-to--68802317</link><description><![CDATA[Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.You will learn:• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise<br />• why calm confidence creates emotional safety<br />• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer<br />• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships<br />• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away<br />• how to stay centred without chasing or overgivingThis episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.SEO: relationships, avoidant attachment, dating anxiety, emotional safety, secure love, relationship coaching, couples communication, emotional intelligence, men and women, healthy boundaries, attachment styles]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">70fdfbef-940e-43de-a820-604101902ee2</guid><pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2025 00:06:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68802317/db5afa01_ee08_959d_db4d_e1993e232f2f.mp3" length="63778099" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.You will learn:• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise<br />• why calm confidence creates emotional safety<br />• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer<br />• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships<br />• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away<br />• how to stay centred without chasing or overgivingThis episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.SEO: relationships, avoidant attachment, dating anxiety, emotional safety, secure love, relationship coaching, couples communication, emotional intelligence, men and women, healthy boundaries, attachment styles]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2656</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a18f4bd77640cd24b6cac735defdb734.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>288</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>It Is Not Them, It Is Actually Episode 287 | You’re Probably Right with MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-is-not-them-it-is-actually-episode-287-you-re-probably-right-with-mcm--68791718</link><description><![CDATA[There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.In this episode, MCM talks about:<ul><li>What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body</li><li>How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships</li><li>The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty</li><li>The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself</li><li>Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships</li><li>How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow</li><li>Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice</li><li>Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort</li><li>How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter</li></ul>If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2503d14d-90a9-4b27-9aaf-d6198c9feb48</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 22:09:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68791718/ea566343_5a7a_8163_fef0_16ec28aec5f0.mp3" length="69365651" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.In this episode, MCM talks about:<ul><li>What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body</li><li>How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships</li><li>The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty</li><li>The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself</li><li>Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships</li><li>How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow</li><li>Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice</li><li>Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort</li><li>How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter</li></ul>If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2889</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/167febf576e680bd67dfd5e032a9d98e.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>287</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 285 — When You Know It’s Time to Go but You Don’t Want to Leave</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-285-when-you-know-it-s-time-to-go-but-you-don-t-want-to-leave--68732552</link><description><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the most difficult emotional crossroads we face — knowing it’s time to walk away while every part of you still wants to stay. This conversation explores why we hold on, why the heart resists change, and how fear, attachment, hope, and history keep us stuck in places we’ve already outgrown.You’ll hear a deep, honest look at:<br />• why your intuition recognises the truth long before your heart accepts it<br />• how emotional memory and attachment create “false hope loops”<br />• the difference between love and emotional responsibility<br />• how avoidance, inconsistency, and anxiety keep you tied to relationships that drain you<br />• the psychology behind staying too long<br />• what self-respect sounds like when you finally listen<br />• the moment the quiet inside you becomes louder than the connection you’re fighting forIf you’ve ever been torn between your feelings and your future, this episode will steady you, ground you, and remind you that letting go is not failure — it’s growth.Keywords: emotional healing, attachment styles, relationships, knowing when to leave, heartbreak recovery, self-worth, trauma patterns, avoiding toxic cycles, personal growth podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dd99479c-ac69-4683-84ba-a520764aafb1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2025 01:15:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68732552/2b3e80eb_fd04_a1be_8705_4cb38ad0f1b5.mp3" length="52506150" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the most difficult emotional crossroads we face — knowing it’s time to walk away while every part of you still wants to stay. This conversation explores why we hold on, why the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the most difficult emotional crossroads we face — knowing it’s time to walk away while every part of you still wants to stay. This conversation explores why we hold on, why the heart resists change, and how fear, attachment, hope, and history keep us stuck in places we’ve already outgrown.You’ll hear a deep, honest look at:<br />• why your intuition recognises the truth long before your heart accepts it<br />• how emotional memory and attachment create “false hope loops”<br />• the difference between love and emotional responsibility<br />• how avoidance, inconsistency, and anxiety keep you tied to relationships that drain you<br />• the psychology behind staying too long<br />• what self-respect sounds like when you finally listen<br />• the moment the quiet inside you becomes louder than the connection you’re fighting forIf you’ve ever been torn between your feelings and your future, this episode will steady you, ground you, and remind you that letting go is not failure — it’s growth.Keywords: emotional healing, attachment styles, relationships, knowing when to leave, heartbreak recovery, self-worth, trauma patterns, avoiding toxic cycles, personal growth podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2187</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/60bbb42a01b6699b44e2daab60519ac9.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>286</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Living with a Loving Jealous Man -Episode 285</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/living-with-a-loving-jealous-man-episode-285--68585777</link><description><![CDATA[Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?<br />Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?<br />This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected ways. Learn how love, security, and reassurance work together in a real relationship.jealous man<br />male insecurity<br />why men get jealous<br />relationship insecurity<br />women dating advice<br />emotional triggers in men<br />love and jealousy<br />understanding men<br />healthy reassurance<br />attachment and relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6da4e1f0-43c7-41cd-8527-399bbd74a1ee</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2025 22:11:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68585777/6f02feed_8894_7e0e_22d4_1604e5ea43b4.mp3" length="103994261" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?
Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?
This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?<br />Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?<br />This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected ways. Learn how love, security, and reassurance work together in a real relationship.jealous man<br />male insecurity<br />why men get jealous<br />relationship insecurity<br />women dating advice<br />emotional triggers in men<br />love and jealousy<br />understanding men<br />healthy reassurance<br />attachment and relationships]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4332</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f29f84aa51b6957e7bde80812337e4d0.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>285</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Love Pulls Away When You Show Up Strong -Episode 284</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-love-pulls-away-when-you-show-up-strong-episode-284--68585776</link><description><![CDATA[A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.relationships, attachment, jealousy, fear of intimacy, emotional intelligence, self-worth, dating, avoidant partner, consistency, secure loveEpisode Tags (Optional but Suggested for Spotify SEO)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d1b2a4a1-3e42-4875-b35c-285b95e472c2</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2025 21:49:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68585776/586e7370_5250_98a0_f008_cc24ba6b8600.mp3" length="62610660" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/6io70eeaQL1rbOq2L9GS1q/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.relationships, attachment, jealousy, fear of intimacy, emotional intelligence, self-worth, dating, avoidant partner, consistency, secure loveEpisode Tags (Optional but Suggested for Spotify SEO)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2608</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cca42c2dcd06e987906a16db7baf53de.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>284</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Want to Know What Love Is | 50 Ways Women Show Love &amp; 50 Ways Men Show Love Compared Side by Side - 2 - Episode 283</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-want-to-know-what-love-is-50-ways-women-show-love-50-ways-men-show-love-compared-side-by-side-2-episode-283--68545338</link><description><![CDATA[What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?<br />In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.👉 Topics covered include:<ul><li>How women express emotional safety and connection</li><li>How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice</li><li>The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance</li><li>Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships</li><li>The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it</li></ul>💬 Keywords for SEO:<br />Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.<br />💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e9069b2a-102e-4ad5-a0be-b80c40c3175e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 21:25:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68545338/9f5255f1_b05e_5d5e_1dd6_d7ab06681e0f.mp3" length="69930307" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/7nshM3WONxreZB3ZidQDOv/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?<br />In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.👉 Topics covered include:<ul><li>How women express emotional safety and connection</li><li>How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice</li><li>The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance</li><li>Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships</li><li>The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it</li></ul>💬 Keywords for SEO:<br />Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.<br />💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2913</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eeb3d238747d341efc49991b73ea201a.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>283</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Want to Know What Love Is | 50 Ways Women Show Love &amp; 50 Ways Men Show Love Compared Side by Side - 1 - Episode 282</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-want-to-know-what-love-is-50-ways-women-show-love-50-ways-men-show-love-compared-side-by-side-1-episode-282--68544673</link><description><![CDATA[What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?<br />In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.👉 Topics covered include:<ul><li>How women express emotional safety and connection</li><li>How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice</li><li>The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance</li><li>Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships</li><li>The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it</li></ul>💬 Keywords for SEO:<br />Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.<br />💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2cd8c83d-6de7-447f-a019-7e0f1db32b4a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 21:21:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68544673/3c5068cb_60ae_66c0_59dc_f72a31704a48.mp3" length="111609197" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?<br />In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.👉 Topics covered include:<ul><li>How women express emotional safety and connection</li><li>How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice</li><li>The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance</li><li>Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships</li><li>The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it</li></ul>💬 Keywords for SEO:<br />Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.<br />💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast<br />📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4649</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ef45204af61b78049ebccdc174878a14.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy - Episode 281</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/speak-to-my-heart-when-the-armor-starts-to-feel-heavy-episode-281--68529512</link><description><![CDATA[Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy<br />📝 Episode Description (SEO-optimized for Spotify, Apple, and YouTube)There comes a moment when silence stops protecting you and startssuffocating you.<br />This episode of You’re Probably Right isn’t a diagnosis, it’s a mirror —a quiet conversation with the part of you that’s tired of pretending you don’tcare.In Speak to My Heart, MCM reaches beneath the surface to talk tothe guarded soul — the one that keeps busy to outrun pain, the one that hidesbehind strength but quietly craves safety.<br />This is not about fixing yourself. It’s about recognizing that your heart stillknows how to feel, even if you’ve been living like it forgot.Whether you’ve been pushing love away, struggling to stay open, or justtrying to make sense of why peace feels so foreign, this episode will meet youright where you are.<br />It’s calm, emotional, and painfully human — a voice that whispers, you’renot too much; you were just too real for the wrong ones.Topics include:🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />— Raw reflections on love, healing, and the ways we protect ourselves from whatwe need most.Keywords for SEO: love after heartbreak, emotional healing, self-protection, guardedheart, relationship awareness, vulnerability, emotional safety, introspectionpodcast, deep talk, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast.<br />📱 Facebook / Instagram / Promo CaptionSpeak to My Heart.<br />For the one who stopped believing peace was possible.<br />For the one who learned to hide behind strength.<br />For the one who keeps saying, “I’m fine,” when they’re anything but.This episode isn’t therapy — it’s truth, wrapped in calm.<br />A voice speaking to the guarded, not about them.<br />No labels. No psychology. Just honesty.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">137edaae-019d-4dbf-b1e6-d22d507f2a1a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2025 22:03:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68529512/4dd1bf8f_5f03_36a2_17b8_ea68b2b295e8.mp3" length="48368765" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy
📝 Episode Description (SEO-optimized for Spotify, Apple, and YouTube)There comes a moment when silence stops protecting you and startssuffocating you.
This episode of You’re Probably Right isn’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy<br />📝 Episode Description (SEO-optimized for Spotify, Apple, and YouTube)There comes a moment when silence stops protecting you and startssuffocating you.<br />This episode of You’re Probably Right isn’t a diagnosis, it’s a mirror —a quiet conversation with the part of you that’s tired of pretending you don’tcare.In Speak to My Heart, MCM reaches beneath the surface to talk tothe guarded soul — the one that keeps busy to outrun pain, the one that hidesbehind strength but quietly craves safety.<br />This is not about fixing yourself. It’s about recognizing that your heart stillknows how to feel, even if you’ve been living like it forgot.Whether you’ve been pushing love away, struggling to stay open, or justtrying to make sense of why peace feels so foreign, this episode will meet youright where you are.<br />It’s calm, emotional, and painfully human — a voice that whispers, you’renot too much; you were just too real for the wrong ones.Topics include:🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />— Raw reflections on love, healing, and the ways we protect ourselves from whatwe need most.Keywords for SEO: love after heartbreak, emotional healing, self-protection, guardedheart, relationship awareness, vulnerability, emotional safety, introspectionpodcast, deep talk, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast.<br />📱 Facebook / Instagram / Promo CaptionSpeak to My Heart.<br />For the one who stopped believing peace was possible.<br />For the one who learned to hide behind strength.<br />For the one who keeps saying, “I’m fine,” when they’re anything but.This episode isn’t therapy — it’s truth, wrapped in calm.<br />A voice speaking to the guarded, not about them.<br />No labels. No psychology. Just honesty.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2014</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/198a83eb4669e3d73627ec311786b894.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 280 – The Mirror Theory: When Love Starts Running</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-280-the-mirror-theory-when-love-starts-running--68529096</link><description><![CDATA[When love turns into a mirror, it stops being romance and starts being revelation.<br />In this raw, cinematic episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the heartbreak of chasing someone who keeps running — not from you, but from themselves.This talk unpacks:<ul><li>Why avoidant partners pull away when love feels real</li><li>How emotional distance becomes a form of control</li><li>Why anxious and avoidant types mirror each other’s fears</li><li>What “closure” really means when words can’t fix what silence already has</li><li>And how peace feels when you finally stop chasing and start healing</li></ul>This one isn’t about revenge or regret — it’s about release.<br />For anyone who’s ever loved deeply, lost quietly, and learned to let go with grace.🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />#healing #relationships #avoidantattachment #selfworth #psychology #mentalhealth #podcast #love #peace]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3998d57c-d304-4797-8b7c-7e8a77d0f7c7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2025 21:02:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68529096/f39d0662_f412_fbd4_2b28_b79a207c11f4.mp3" length="94299691" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/56S7yqYRUQFp9Lgwckb1Eu/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When love turns into a mirror, it stops being romance and starts being revelation.
In this raw, cinematic episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the heartbreak of chasing someone who keeps running — not from you, but from themselves.This talk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When love turns into a mirror, it stops being romance and starts being revelation.<br />In this raw, cinematic episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the heartbreak of chasing someone who keeps running — not from you, but from themselves.This talk unpacks:<ul><li>Why avoidant partners pull away when love feels real</li><li>How emotional distance becomes a form of control</li><li>Why anxious and avoidant types mirror each other’s fears</li><li>What “closure” really means when words can’t fix what silence already has</li><li>And how peace feels when you finally stop chasing and start healing</li></ul>This one isn’t about revenge or regret — it’s about release.<br />For anyone who’s ever loved deeply, lost quietly, and learned to let go with grace.🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />#healing #relationships #avoidantattachment #selfworth #psychology #mentalhealth #podcast #love #peace]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3928</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0643bc4a8bae1a20726544001d46f64c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>No Strings attached - Episode 279</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/no-strings-attached-episode-279--68488853</link><description><![CDATA[In this deep, psychological episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the hidden world of the dismissive-avoidant attachment style — the people who want connection, but only on their terms.Through real-life examples and quiet honesty, this episode explores how avoidant partners use politeness, physical distance, and “sorry” messages to regulate emotional closeness, why they appear calm when relationships end, and how their need for control quietly sabotages intimacy.Whether you’re the one who pulls away or the one left wondering what went wrong, this episode will help you understand the emotional blueprint beneath the phrase “No Strings Attached.”🎙️ Topics covered include:<ul><li>The “sorry” reflex and breadcrumb communication</li><li>Touch and body memory in avoidant patterns</li><li>Why avoidants test safety through politeness</li><li>How calm goodbyes disarm avoidance</li><li>Compassion without contact — healing without hate</li></ul>Keywords / SEO tags: dismissive avoidant, attachment theory, relationships, intimacy issues, emotional distance, avoidant partner, love psychology, breakup healing, no strings attached, relationship podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast, Canadian podcast, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, love and fear, trauma response]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b6528c06-2017-4d0b-997b-aaf0cdab52a7</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 21:07:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68488853/2c533494_2ae5_1170_ec63_b1f286e4d899.mp3" length="45004259" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this deep, psychological episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the hidden world of the dismissive-avoidant attachment style — the people who want connection, but only on their terms.Through real-life examples and quiet honesty, this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this deep, psychological episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the hidden world of the dismissive-avoidant attachment style — the people who want connection, but only on their terms.Through real-life examples and quiet honesty, this episode explores how avoidant partners use politeness, physical distance, and “sorry” messages to regulate emotional closeness, why they appear calm when relationships end, and how their need for control quietly sabotages intimacy.Whether you’re the one who pulls away or the one left wondering what went wrong, this episode will help you understand the emotional blueprint beneath the phrase “No Strings Attached.”🎙️ Topics covered include:<ul><li>The “sorry” reflex and breadcrumb communication</li><li>Touch and body memory in avoidant patterns</li><li>Why avoidants test safety through politeness</li><li>How calm goodbyes disarm avoidance</li><li>Compassion without contact — healing without hate</li></ul>Keywords / SEO tags: dismissive avoidant, attachment theory, relationships, intimacy issues, emotional distance, avoidant partner, love psychology, breakup healing, no strings attached, relationship podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast, Canadian podcast, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, love and fear, trauma response]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1874</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/63f13801099fbba4369465842371a22a.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>279</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 278 — Why Men Cheat and the Intimacy “Bait and Switch”: A Male Perspective</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-278-why-men-cheat-and-the-intimacy-bait-and-switch-a-male-perspective--68481891</link><description><![CDATA[Men who love their partners still cheat sometimes, and not every “onetime” cheater becomes a lifelong liar. In this straight talk from a maleperspective, MCM unpacks why good men make bad choices, why intimacy can changeafter commitment, and how mismatched desire, silence, and resentment pushcouples toward betrayal. We cover unmet needs, opportunity, thrill seeking, thepsychology of the “bait and switch” in the bedroom, double standards aboutcheating, and what most men actually want in long term love. This is not anexcuse for infidelity, it is an honest look at how it happens and how to stoprepeating the same patterns.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />#relationships #mensmentalhealth #intimacy #marriage #dating #trust #healing#boundaries #attachment #selfworthSEO keywords and phraseswhy men cheat, male perspective on cheating, intimacy bait and switch,sexless marriage, mismatched desire, dead bedroom, emotional neglect inrelationships, affair recovery for couples, rebuilding trust after cheating,why good men make bad choices, one time cheater, relationship resentment, menand validation, marital intimacy problems, honest talk on infidelity]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">aca3c50a-01bd-4aca-abff-f8a4bd3cad13</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 01:46:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68481891/899a9ac2_929e_ca74_1105_65bf99dc7a33.mp3" length="50736497" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/2pOqUEqEMp2KaQ3Us5HDUR/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Men who love their partners still cheat sometimes, and not every “onetime” cheater becomes a lifelong liar. In this straight talk from a maleperspective, MCM unpacks why good men make bad choices, why intimacy can changeafter commitment, and how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Men who love their partners still cheat sometimes, and not every “onetime” cheater becomes a lifelong liar. In this straight talk from a maleperspective, MCM unpacks why good men make bad choices, why intimacy can changeafter commitment, and how mismatched desire, silence, and resentment pushcouples toward betrayal. We cover unmet needs, opportunity, thrill seeking, thepsychology of the “bait and switch” in the bedroom, double standards aboutcheating, and what most men actually want in long term love. This is not anexcuse for infidelity, it is an honest look at how it happens and how to stoprepeating the same patterns.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM<br />#relationships #mensmentalhealth #intimacy #marriage #dating #trust #healing#boundaries #attachment #selfworthSEO keywords and phraseswhy men cheat, male perspective on cheating, intimacy bait and switch,sexless marriage, mismatched desire, dead bedroom, emotional neglect inrelationships, affair recovery for couples, rebuilding trust after cheating,why good men make bad choices, one time cheater, relationship resentment, menand validation, marital intimacy problems, honest talk on infidelity]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2113</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b5ecee5cda115a4ebdf8b4f92db17966.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>278</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Where Their Heart Grows Feet — When Love Walks Away Before They Do Episode 277 - You're Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-their-heart-grows-feet-when-love-walks-away-before-they-do-episode-277-you-re-probably-right--68381998</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, love doesn’t end with a fight — it ends in silence.<br />In this deeply human episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when someone’s heart quietly walks out of a relationship long before their body follows.We talk about:<ul><li>The subtle signs someone’s heart is leaving before they say it.</li><li>Why people emotionally withdraw and stop showing up.</li><li>The psychology of detachment, disinterest, and emotional fatigue.</li><li>How to stop performing for love and start protecting your peace.</li><li>The difference between someone leaving to escape… and you leaving to evolve.</li></ul>If you’ve ever been devalued, ignored, or slowly erased in love — this one’s for you.<br />Because sometimes, their heart grows feet… but yours?<br />Yours learns to stand tall.🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 277<br />#relationships #heartbreak #healing #psychology #selfworth #attachment #dating #growth #emotionalintelligence #podcast #loverelationships, heartbreak, emotional detachment, self-worth, healing after breakup, psychology of love, MCM podcast, you’re probably right, emotional withdrawal, attachment theory, dating advice, modern love, emotional abuse recovery, relationship growth, heartbreak recovery, moving on, closure, self respect, letting go🧠 SEO / Discovery Tags]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">46be4d50-973c-4466-a299-2ce6f7eb51ba</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2025 21:07:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68381998/51d3782a_d21b_e0d6_8ff8_aa533743d9f5.mp3" length="46163742" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes, love doesn’t end with a fight — it ends in silence.
In this deeply human episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when someone’s heart quietly walks out of a relationship long before their body follows.We talk about:
-...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes, love doesn’t end with a fight — it ends in silence.<br />In this deeply human episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when someone’s heart quietly walks out of a relationship long before their body follows.We talk about:<ul><li>The subtle signs someone’s heart is leaving before they say it.</li><li>Why people emotionally withdraw and stop showing up.</li><li>The psychology of detachment, disinterest, and emotional fatigue.</li><li>How to stop performing for love and start protecting your peace.</li><li>The difference between someone leaving to escape… and you leaving to evolve.</li></ul>If you’ve ever been devalued, ignored, or slowly erased in love — this one’s for you.<br />Because sometimes, their heart grows feet… but yours?<br />Yours learns to stand tall.🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 277<br />#relationships #heartbreak #healing #psychology #selfworth #attachment #dating #growth #emotionalintelligence #podcast #loverelationships, heartbreak, emotional detachment, self-worth, healing after breakup, psychology of love, MCM podcast, you’re probably right, emotional withdrawal, attachment theory, dating advice, modern love, emotional abuse recovery, relationship growth, heartbreak recovery, moving on, closure, self respect, letting go🧠 SEO / Discovery Tags]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1923</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/85dd58a5bcb0771e0ef72dd45bd4cab6.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>277</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 276: “Unspoken Truths: What We Hide and Why It Matters.”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-276-unspoken-truths-what-we-hide-and-why-it-matters--68373178</link><description><![CDATA[We all carry secrets — some small, some soul-deep. In this powerful, intimate episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the hidden parts of our lives we rarely talk about: the things we bury, the emotions we mute, the truths we fear will change how others see us.From the psychology of secrecy and the silent cost of repression to the gendered ways we hide emotion, the quiet battles with mental health, intrusive thoughts, and even private desires we’re too ashamed to name — this episode dives into what it really means to be human beneath the surface.This isn’t about confession. It’s about compassion — for ourselves and for everyone quietly holding their own stories.If you’ve ever felt alone in what you carry, this one will remind you: you’re not.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 276<br />#mentalhealth #relationships #healing #psychology #selfawareness #secrets #vulnerability #love #selfgrowth #emotion]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">137d79ad-20c5-4cbf-b983-5e97c190c202</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2025 22:33:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68373178/71a20a07_7726_5a8f_025a_767136bccaa7.mp3" length="33751746" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/5W53Knr0680cN533UIbiNr/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all carry secrets — some small, some soul-deep. In this powerful, intimate episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the hidden parts of our lives we rarely talk about: the things we bury, the emotions we mute, the truths we fear will change...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all carry secrets — some small, some soul-deep. In this powerful, intimate episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the hidden parts of our lives we rarely talk about: the things we bury, the emotions we mute, the truths we fear will change how others see us.From the psychology of secrecy and the silent cost of repression to the gendered ways we hide emotion, the quiet battles with mental health, intrusive thoughts, and even private desires we’re too ashamed to name — this episode dives into what it really means to be human beneath the surface.This isn’t about confession. It’s about compassion — for ourselves and for everyone quietly holding their own stories.If you’ve ever felt alone in what you carry, this one will remind you: you’re not.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 276<br />#mentalhealth #relationships #healing #psychology #selfawareness #secrets #vulnerability #love #selfgrowth #emotion]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1406</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0b662857a42384290d4450bd139e55b1.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>276</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 276 — 10 Things I Learned the Hard Way (So You Don’t Have To)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-276-10-things-i-learned-the-hard-way-so-you-don-t-have-to--68370958</link><description><![CDATA[I did things in love that felt right at the time — and I paid for them.In this episode I walk through the ten mistakes that cost me time, dignity, andpeace: caring past reason, mistaking intensity for connection, trying to earnlove by fixing problems, over-explaining, reading mixed signals as hope, andmore. For each one I explain why it felt sensible, why it hurt, when it mightmake sense, and the practical swap that actually protects your heart.If you want less drama and more clarity in dating and relationships, thisis your playbook.Keywords: relationship advice, heartbreak recovery, breadcrumbing, emotionalintelligence, dating red flags, attachment styles, self-worth, boundaries,modern dating, MCM podcast ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c9f88c60-c424-442c-b007-c05225a29bcc</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2025 18:59:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68370958/3d7cfd1c_e32d_16fb_6210_ce36ac4cd566.mp3" length="62117727" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/67Feawc0ndkcv5BjJAJReg/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I did things in love that felt right at the time — and I paid for them.In this episode I walk through the ten mistakes that cost me time, dignity, andpeace: caring past reason, mistaking intensity for connection, trying to earnlove by fixing problems,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I did things in love that felt right at the time — and I paid for them.In this episode I walk through the ten mistakes that cost me time, dignity, andpeace: caring past reason, mistaking intensity for connection, trying to earnlove by fixing problems, over-explaining, reading mixed signals as hope, andmore. For each one I explain why it felt sensible, why it hurt, when it mightmake sense, and the practical swap that actually protects your heart.If you want less drama and more clarity in dating and relationships, thisis your playbook.Keywords: relationship advice, heartbreak recovery, breadcrumbing, emotionalintelligence, dating red flags, attachment styles, self-worth, boundaries,modern dating, MCM podcast ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2587</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9bb1e068a7e0b296c5aeaa7a74f0c0d0.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>276</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Love’s Code: Green Flags, Red Flags, and the Psychology of Real Connection Ep. 274</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-s-code-green-flags-red-flags-and-the-psychology-of-real-connection-ep-274--68357435</link><description><![CDATA[Why do we keep chasing the wrong people — and overlooking the right ones?<br />In this long-form, heartfelt episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the science and soul of modern relationships — the green flags that signal safety, trust, and emotional maturity… and the red flags that quietly unravel love from the inside out.You’ll learn:<ul><li>Why your brain confuses chaos with chemistry</li><li>How to spot calm, consistent love (and stop mistaking it for “boring”)</li><li>What real emotional safety feels like</li><li>The ten Universal Green Flags that define healthy partnership</li><li>The ten Universal Red Flags that warn when to walk away</li><li>How to heal your attachment patterns, rebuild self-worth, and find peace after heartbreak</li></ul>This isn’t dating advice — it’s relationship reprogramming for anyone tired of repeating the same love stories.<br />If you’ve ever wondered why peace feels foreign or why red flags look romantic, this episode will change the way you see love forever.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 275<br />#relationships #selfworth #dating #psychology #love #attachment #healing #podcast #mentalhealth #emotionalintelligence]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e4e3d42c-85c4-4e5d-aae3-675a461ce200</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 23:26:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68357435/7b8048bc_3247_e96c_1342_1c1f362fef67.mp3" length="107873110" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/1E9x4lU7AI3aJfkNcXmgAp/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do we keep chasing the wrong people — and overlooking the right ones?
In this long-form, heartfelt episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the science and soul of modern relationships — the green flags that signal safety, trust, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do we keep chasing the wrong people — and overlooking the right ones?<br />In this long-form, heartfelt episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the science and soul of modern relationships — the green flags that signal safety, trust, and emotional maturity… and the red flags that quietly unravel love from the inside out.You’ll learn:<ul><li>Why your brain confuses chaos with chemistry</li><li>How to spot calm, consistent love (and stop mistaking it for “boring”)</li><li>What real emotional safety feels like</li><li>The ten Universal Green Flags that define healthy partnership</li><li>The ten Universal Red Flags that warn when to walk away</li><li>How to heal your attachment patterns, rebuild self-worth, and find peace after heartbreak</li></ul>This isn’t dating advice — it’s relationship reprogramming for anyone tired of repeating the same love stories.<br />If you’ve ever wondered why peace feels foreign or why red flags look romantic, this episode will change the way you see love forever.🎧 You’re Probably Right with MCM – Episode 275<br />#relationships #selfworth #dating #psychology #love #attachment #healing #podcast #mentalhealth #emotionalintelligence]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4494</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54af1efa7d2f59f5d01843be31de4a87.jpg"/><itunes:season>11</itunes:season><itunes:episode>274</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 274: “They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway – Healing When You’re Led On and Heartbroken.”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-274-they-knew-i-loved-them-but-let-me-fall-anyway-healing-when-you-re-led-on-and-heartbroken--68343421</link><description><![CDATA[🎧 Episode Title (final SEO version)They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway — Healing After Being Led OnHave you ever loved someone who knew exactly how much you cared — and still let you keep falling, even when they had no intention of catching you? This episode is for the ones left holding the pieces after being led on, breadcrumbed, and emotionally drained by someone who claimed they “didn’t want to hurt you.”In this 90-minute deep talk, MCM breaks down the quiet cruelty of breadcrumbing and emotional manipulation — when affection feels real but commitment never arrives. From the psychology of mixed signals to the physical symptoms of heartbreak, we unpack why being strung along hurts so deeply, why closure rarely comes from the person who caused the pain, and how to finally stop mistaking crumbs for connection.You’ll hear about:<ul><li>The hidden stages of being led on — from intermittent warmth to emotional fog.</li><li>How the brain and body process heartbreak like real pain.</li><li>Why “they let you fall” says more about their avoidance than your worth.</li><li>How to rebuild boundaries, reclaim your attention, and rewrite the story without self-blame.</li><li>The small daily habits that turn heartbreak into healing.</li></ul>Because love isn’t meant to keep you hungry. It’s meant to feed you — fully, freely, and clearly.🎙 You’re Probably Right with MCM — Honest talk. Hard truths. Real healing.#heartbreak #relationships #breadcrumbing #healing #selfworth #podcast #mentalhealth #selflove🪶 Spotify / Apple Podcast Description (long-form, optimized for search and emotion)<br /><br />A Week-by-Week Guide (First 30 Days)Days 1–3:<br />Delete quick access. Write the one-page truth. Tell one trusted person yourboundary plan. Eat, sleep, move, shower. That’s victory.Days 4–7:<br />Ritualize mornings. Replace the late-night scroll with a book or podcast thatcalms. Schedule one thing you look forward to this week.Week 2:<br />Unfollow or mute the channels that spike you. Add a creative or hands-on taskyou can finish every other day. Coffee with someone who knows your real nameand history.Week 3:<br />Notice how often your first thought isn’t them. Celebrate it. Increase movementintensity by 10–15%. Make a promise to yourself and keep it three days in arow.Week 4:<br />Write the letter you won’t send: what hurt, what you release, what you’re readyfor now. Read it aloud. File it away or burn it safely. Mark your calendar: Day30. You made it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fb73f102-9a30-49e7-8c20-1aef42cf6287</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 00:12:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68343421/8e066db6_2e18_bec5_b11f_4c0d31cdaa61.mp3" length="68298364" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🎧 Episode Title (final SEO version)They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway — Healing After Being Led OnHave you ever loved someone who knew exactly how much you cared — and still let you keep falling, even when they had no intention of catching...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🎧 Episode Title (final SEO version)They Knew I Loved Them, But Let Me Fall Anyway — Healing After Being Led OnHave you ever loved someone who knew exactly how much you cared — and still let you keep falling, even when they had no intention of catching you? This episode is for the ones left holding the pieces after being led on, breadcrumbed, and emotionally drained by someone who claimed they “didn’t want to hurt you.”In this 90-minute deep talk, MCM breaks down the quiet cruelty of breadcrumbing and emotional manipulation — when affection feels real but commitment never arrives. From the psychology of mixed signals to the physical symptoms of heartbreak, we unpack why being strung along hurts so deeply, why closure rarely comes from the person who caused the pain, and how to finally stop mistaking crumbs for connection.You’ll hear about:<ul><li>The hidden stages of being led on — from intermittent warmth to emotional fog.</li><li>How the brain and body process heartbreak like real pain.</li><li>Why “they let you fall” says more about their avoidance than your worth.</li><li>How to rebuild boundaries, reclaim your attention, and rewrite the story without self-blame.</li><li>The small daily habits that turn heartbreak into healing.</li></ul>Because love isn’t meant to keep you hungry. It’s meant to feed you — fully, freely, and clearly.🎙 You’re Probably Right with MCM — Honest talk. Hard truths. Real healing.#heartbreak #relationships #breadcrumbing #healing #selfworth #podcast #mentalhealth #selflove🪶 Spotify / Apple Podcast Description (long-form, optimized for search and emotion)<br /><br />A Week-by-Week Guide (First 30 Days)Days 1–3:<br />Delete quick access. Write the one-page truth. Tell one trusted person yourboundary plan. Eat, sleep, move, shower. That’s victory.Days 4–7:<br />Ritualize mornings. Replace the late-night scroll with a book or podcast thatcalms. Schedule one thing you look forward to this week.Week 2:<br />Unfollow or mute the channels that spike you. Add a creative or hands-on taskyou can finish every other day. Coffee with someone who knows your real nameand history.Week 3:<br />Notice how often your first thought isn’t them. Celebrate it. Increase movementintensity by 10–15%. Make a promise to yourself and keep it three days in arow.Week 4:<br />Write the letter you won’t send: what hurt, what you release, what you’re readyfor now. Read it aloud. File it away or burn it safely. Mark your calendar: Day30. You made it.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2845</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/61a0fa44c79dcdbc3a8737f6cfd971ee.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>274</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 273 — “Breadcrumbing 101: When You’re Just the Option, Not the Choice”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-273-breadcrumbing-101-when-you-re-just-the-option-not-the-choice--68279974</link><description><![CDATA[Ever felt like you were almost loved — but never chosen? In this specialepisode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the mostpainful emotional games in modern relationships: breadcrumbing.From the “maybe later” messages to the hot-and-cold attention loops, thisepisode exposes how emotional rationing works, why people do it, and how tostop falling for it.Learn how to:This one’s part truth-bomb, part healing session. If you’ve ever beenkept waiting for love that never fully arrives, Breadcrumbing 101 willgive you the clarity (and closure) you’ve been missing.🎧 Listen, reflect, and finally stop mistaking crumbs for connection.SEO Keywords &amp; Phrasesbreadcrumbing podcast 2025, emotional manipulation, hot and coldrelationships, dating red flags, anxious avoidant cycle, why they pull away,emotional healing, MCM You’re Probably Right, relationship psychology, datingadvice for empaths, stop chasing potential]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0207dddd-3a13-4469-ac79-1d30aadc1823</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2025 19:37:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68279974/4a490756_16ab_74b9_b338_8617bbd0f5e0.mp3" length="52089626" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/5QDCCQ8oIZO5VjTmoMIGyz/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever felt like you were almost loved — but never chosen? In this specialepisode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the mostpainful emotional games in modern relationships: breadcrumbing.From the “maybe later” messages to the hot-and-cold...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever felt like you were almost loved — but never chosen? In this specialepisode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the mostpainful emotional games in modern relationships: breadcrumbing.From the “maybe later” messages to the hot-and-cold attention loops, thisepisode exposes how emotional rationing works, why people do it, and how tostop falling for it.Learn how to:This one’s part truth-bomb, part healing session. If you’ve ever beenkept waiting for love that never fully arrives, Breadcrumbing 101 willgive you the clarity (and closure) you’ve been missing.🎧 Listen, reflect, and finally stop mistaking crumbs for connection.SEO Keywords &amp; Phrasesbreadcrumbing podcast 2025, emotional manipulation, hot and coldrelationships, dating red flags, anxious avoidant cycle, why they pull away,emotional healing, MCM You’re Probably Right, relationship psychology, datingadvice for empaths, stop chasing potential]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2170</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a4b110dbd682bfba1f4e3dda48d5a9a4.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>273</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“20 Questions About Love You Were Too Tired to Ask” (with MCM — You’re Probably Right)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-questions-about-love-you-were-too-tired-to-ask-with-mcm-you-re-probably-right--68259939</link><description><![CDATA[What happens when you stop chasing answers from other people and start asking the right questions about love, boundaries, and healing?In this raw and reflective episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM sits down to answer 20 of the hardest questions about relationships — the kind that keep you awake at night. From emotional patience vs. self-betrayal, to why silence hurts more than words, to learning when love has stopped being love, this episode pulls no punches.These aren’t easy questions. They’re the ones that help you grow up emotionally.MCM unpacks how to:<ul><li>Recognize when “patience” becomes self-abandonment.</li><li>Stop confusing validation with connection.</li><li>Let go of people who only love you halfway.</li><li>Rebuild confidence after being dismissed or unseen.</li><li>Understand what peace actually feels like after chaos.</li></ul>If you’ve ever loved too deeply, waited too long, or lost yourself in trying to be enough — this one’s for you.<br />A slow, honest talk about love that hurts, love that heals, and everything we learn in between. Listen, reflect, and maybe finally understand why the right questions can heal more than any apology.love podcast 2025, emotional healing, relationship boundaries, why love hurts, MCM You’re Probably Right, letting go of toxic love, anxious avoidant relationship, emotional intelligence podcast, dating self-worth, modern relationships, healing after heartbreak🔑 Spotify SEO Keywords &amp; Tags]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">744a1e8b-d85e-4428-8924-a066a2a740f2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 23:55:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68259939/446b651c_c4b2_9383_8688_24de35e2d20e.mp3" length="55759235" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/4LRZcKNeid2DJpNfD3wOP8/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What happens when you stop chasing answers from other people and start asking the right questions about love, boundaries, and healing?In this raw and reflective episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM sits down to answer 20 of the hardest questions...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when you stop chasing answers from other people and start asking the right questions about love, boundaries, and healing?In this raw and reflective episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM sits down to answer 20 of the hardest questions about relationships — the kind that keep you awake at night. From emotional patience vs. self-betrayal, to why silence hurts more than words, to learning when love has stopped being love, this episode pulls no punches.These aren’t easy questions. They’re the ones that help you grow up emotionally.MCM unpacks how to:<ul><li>Recognize when “patience” becomes self-abandonment.</li><li>Stop confusing validation with connection.</li><li>Let go of people who only love you halfway.</li><li>Rebuild confidence after being dismissed or unseen.</li><li>Understand what peace actually feels like after chaos.</li></ul>If you’ve ever loved too deeply, waited too long, or lost yourself in trying to be enough — this one’s for you.<br />A slow, honest talk about love that hurts, love that heals, and everything we learn in between. Listen, reflect, and maybe finally understand why the right questions can heal more than any apology.love podcast 2025, emotional healing, relationship boundaries, why love hurts, MCM You’re Probably Right, letting go of toxic love, anxious avoidant relationship, emotional intelligence podcast, dating self-worth, modern relationships, healing after heartbreak🔑 Spotify SEO Keywords &amp; Tags]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2323</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/afb01d0eda876ace231bf53b200ee45e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 271 — Why Empaths Keep Loving Avoidants (and How to Finally Let Go)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-271-why-empaths-keep-loving-avoidants-and-how-to-finally-let-go--68199897</link><description><![CDATA[<br />In this powerful new episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks one of the most painful and misunderstood relationship dynamics: why deeply feeling empaths are often drawn to emotionally avoidant partners — and how to finally break free from the cycle.Through raw storytelling and emotional insight, MCM explores:<ul><li>The emotional chemistry between empaths and avoidants.</li><li>Why love feels like both home and heartbreak.</li><li>How self-betrayal happens in the name of “patience.”</li><li>The hidden addiction to emotional inconsistency.</li><li>What real healing and emotional sobriety look like.</li></ul>If you’ve ever felt unseen, over-giving, or trapped in the push-pull of someone who can’t meet you halfway — this episode will hit home. Learn how to let go without hardening your heart, reclaim your peace, and finally choose love that feels safe.🎧 A must-listen for anyone healing from anxious-avoidant relationships, emotional burnout, or self-sacrificing patterns in love.<ul><li>empath and avoidant relationship</li><li>why empaths attract avoidants</li><li>emotional detachment in love</li><li>healing anxious-avoidant attachment</li><li>breaking trauma bonds podcast</li><li>emotional sobriety and relationships</li><li>how to stop loving someone avoidant</li><li>empath burnout recovery</li><li>relationship self-healing</li><li>attachment style podcast</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e6fe3745-ec6e-4e9c-9b34-3b4bb9245a4a</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2025 00:23:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68199897/ce7102cb_5682_847f_3967_e2eb3fe65579.mp3" length="122646353" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
In this powerful new episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks one of the most painful and misunderstood relationship dynamics: why deeply feeling empaths are often drawn to emotionally avoidant partners — and how to finally break free from the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />In this powerful new episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks one of the most painful and misunderstood relationship dynamics: why deeply feeling empaths are often drawn to emotionally avoidant partners — and how to finally break free from the cycle.Through raw storytelling and emotional insight, MCM explores:<ul><li>The emotional chemistry between empaths and avoidants.</li><li>Why love feels like both home and heartbreak.</li><li>How self-betrayal happens in the name of “patience.”</li><li>The hidden addiction to emotional inconsistency.</li><li>What real healing and emotional sobriety look like.</li></ul>If you’ve ever felt unseen, over-giving, or trapped in the push-pull of someone who can’t meet you halfway — this episode will hit home. Learn how to let go without hardening your heart, reclaim your peace, and finally choose love that feels safe.🎧 A must-listen for anyone healing from anxious-avoidant relationships, emotional burnout, or self-sacrificing patterns in love.<ul><li>empath and avoidant relationship</li><li>why empaths attract avoidants</li><li>emotional detachment in love</li><li>healing anxious-avoidant attachment</li><li>breaking trauma bonds podcast</li><li>emotional sobriety and relationships</li><li>how to stop loving someone avoidant</li><li>empath burnout recovery</li><li>relationship self-healing</li><li>attachment style podcast</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5110</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cfe1b6f996b316813e3431d7d03b64c7.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>271</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 270 — The Attention Trap | You’re Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-270-the-attention-trap-you-re-probably-right--68188893</link><description><![CDATA[In a world where likes, swipes, and text replies are traded like currency, MCM breaks down how romantic attention became love’s new economy.<br />This special long-form episode explores how attention — the rarest commodity of the digital age — can make or break modern relationships.From ghosting and breadcrumbing to anxious attachment and quiet self-sacrifice, MCM exposes how couples confuse attention with affection, validation with love, and scarcity with power.<br />He explains why being “seen” feels like being loved, why silence hurts like punishment, and how to reclaim your emotional balance when the person you care about controls the flow of their focus.If you’ve ever waited for a reply that never came or felt addicted to someone’s next text — this one’s for you.• attention economy relationships<br />• emotional validation in dating<br />• ghosting and breadcrumbing podcast<br />• anxious attachment and attention<br />• how attention replaces love<br />• relationship power dynamics 2025<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right<br />• romantic attention podcast<br />• digital dating and self-worth<br />• modern love and emotional connection<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2f37ce05-066a-4566-8173-27e398b97355</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2025 00:43:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68188893/c04b9e43_d144_44fd_5fff_571158bfa242.mp3" length="63732916" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/5NS9t529kPz7qrQOdxZZP1/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In a world where likes, swipes, and text replies are traded like currency, MCM breaks down how romantic attention became love’s new economy.
This special long-form episode explores how attention — the rarest commodity of the digital age — can make or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In a world where likes, swipes, and text replies are traded like currency, MCM breaks down how romantic attention became love’s new economy.<br />This special long-form episode explores how attention — the rarest commodity of the digital age — can make or break modern relationships.From ghosting and breadcrumbing to anxious attachment and quiet self-sacrifice, MCM exposes how couples confuse attention with affection, validation with love, and scarcity with power.<br />He explains why being “seen” feels like being loved, why silence hurts like punishment, and how to reclaim your emotional balance when the person you care about controls the flow of their focus.If you’ve ever waited for a reply that never came or felt addicted to someone’s next text — this one’s for you.• attention economy relationships<br />• emotional validation in dating<br />• ghosting and breadcrumbing podcast<br />• anxious attachment and attention<br />• how attention replaces love<br />• relationship power dynamics 2025<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right<br />• romantic attention podcast<br />• digital dating and self-worth<br />• modern love and emotional connection<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2655</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/082f3fabab1a43d4a5be5f067ff3c22e.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>270</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 269 — “Why Do Men Want Women Anyway?”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-269-why-do-men-want-women-anyway--68103579</link><description><![CDATA[In this long-form special, MCM asks the question few men ever say outloud but most women secretly wonder about — Why do men even want womenanyway?From independence to intimacy, from respect to peace, this 90-minute talkpulls back the curtain on how men really think about love, loyalty, andconnection. It’s not about clichés or magazine advice — it’s about what happensbeneath the armor, behind the quiet, and inside the heart of a man who’s tiredof noise but still craves meaning.MCM breaks down ten honest truths — the need for emotional safety, thepower of admiration, the craving for peace, and the real reason men stillbelieve in partnership.<br />This episode isn’t a debate; it’s an understanding. It’s a seat at the tablebetween men and women, stripped of ego, full of truth.If you’ve ever been confused about what men actually want, this is theone you play twice.🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Search Phrases• why men want women podcast<br />• what men look for in women<br />• emotional needs of men explained<br />• peace and respect in relationships<br />• how men think about love<br />• men and emotional safety<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right podcast<br />• real talk about dating and connection<br />• long-form relationship discussion<br />• modern relationship podcast 2025]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">807fa804-1a47-4859-9803-134555942d4b</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68103579/acd1f160_84be_be42_b2ee_36e197383f90.mp3" length="66428405" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/4rljH0AeaQzFJ8h9Zkj1t2/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this long-form special, MCM asks the question few men ever say outloud but most women secretly wonder about — Why do men even want womenanyway?From independence to intimacy, from respect to peace, this 90-minute talkpulls back the curtain on how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this long-form special, MCM asks the question few men ever say outloud but most women secretly wonder about — Why do men even want womenanyway?From independence to intimacy, from respect to peace, this 90-minute talkpulls back the curtain on how men really think about love, loyalty, andconnection. It’s not about clichés or magazine advice — it’s about what happensbeneath the armor, behind the quiet, and inside the heart of a man who’s tiredof noise but still craves meaning.MCM breaks down ten honest truths — the need for emotional safety, thepower of admiration, the craving for peace, and the real reason men stillbelieve in partnership.<br />This episode isn’t a debate; it’s an understanding. It’s a seat at the tablebetween men and women, stripped of ego, full of truth.If you’ve ever been confused about what men actually want, this is theone you play twice.🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Search Phrases• why men want women podcast<br />• what men look for in women<br />• emotional needs of men explained<br />• peace and respect in relationships<br />• how men think about love<br />• men and emotional safety<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right podcast<br />• real talk about dating and connection<br />• long-form relationship discussion<br />• modern relationship podcast 2025]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2767</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b9be1d2472ad32a4713923f17aa945f4.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>269</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 268 — Unwritten</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-268-unwritten--68097667</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and reflective episode, MCM speaks about the parts of life that don’t make it into the highlight reels — the quiet work, the loss, the moments when truth costs you more than a lie ever could. Unwritten explores what it means to live with integrity in a world that rewards the performance of happiness.Drawing from personal experiences — a father’s discipline, a sister’s silence, and the lessons hidden in everyday struggles — MCM invites you to think about the pages of your own story that are still blank. This isn’t just another motivational talk; it’s an intimate reminder that the story of who you are is still being shaped every single day.Whether you’re at the gym, on a long drive, or just sitting with your thoughts, this episode will make you pause — not to regret what’s passed, but to write what’s next.SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases:<br />• authenticity podcast episode<br />• emotional storytelling podcast<br />• faith and self-discovery<br />• grief and personal growth<br />• honesty and legacy in life<br />• truth vs image podcast<br />• Christian reflection podcast<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right<br />• motivational real talk<br />• finding peace through honesty<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3df8ac0e-c212-4c17-ad2b-188d0c0b77d7</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 05:20:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68097667/b875a024_2f0a_e5e6_eebd_5c1af7d4862d.mp3" length="66557686" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and reflective episode, MCM speaks about the parts of life that don’t make it into the highlight reels — the quiet work, the loss, the moments when truth costs you more than a lie ever could. Unwritten explores what it means to live with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and reflective episode, MCM speaks about the parts of life that don’t make it into the highlight reels — the quiet work, the loss, the moments when truth costs you more than a lie ever could. Unwritten explores what it means to live with integrity in a world that rewards the performance of happiness.Drawing from personal experiences — a father’s discipline, a sister’s silence, and the lessons hidden in everyday struggles — MCM invites you to think about the pages of your own story that are still blank. This isn’t just another motivational talk; it’s an intimate reminder that the story of who you are is still being shaped every single day.Whether you’re at the gym, on a long drive, or just sitting with your thoughts, this episode will make you pause — not to regret what’s passed, but to write what’s next.SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases:<br />• authenticity podcast episode<br />• emotional storytelling podcast<br />• faith and self-discovery<br />• grief and personal growth<br />• honesty and legacy in life<br />• truth vs image podcast<br />• Christian reflection podcast<br />• MCM You’re Probably Right<br />• motivational real talk<br />• finding peace through honesty<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2773</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d0ba62558f5e1e3bad5d5097f1caebe8.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>268</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 267 — Respect</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-267-respect--68015872</link><description><![CDATA[This episode is about value—how you signal it, how others read it, and how those signals shift attraction, leverage, and relationship dynamics. Drawing on research you provided, we unpack:<ul><li>Social proof (pre-selection/mate-choice copying): why people rate you higher when they see others do the same, and how to show real belonging even without a big following.</li><li>Scarcity (healthy selectiveness): why being slightly less available increases perceived worth—and why chasing lowers it.</li><li>“Prize” mindset: carrying yourself with inner confidence and options, instead of pedestalizing anyone who undervalues you.</li><li>Style &amp; first impressions: how presentation boosts your confidence and shapes perceptions before you speak.</li><li>Anxious–avoidant dynamics: how to stop kneeling for crumbs, rebalance “hand,” and behave more securely without playing games.</li><li>Practical strategies: active life, subtle social proof, boundaries, abundance (ethically), and continual self-investment.</li></ul>This isn’t about manipulation. It’s about self-respect—letting your calendar, clothes, voice, and community say what you won’t beg for: “I’m valuable. I have options.” Walk this out and watch the world recalibrate.Sources (as provided by you):<br />reddit.com (social proof studies &amp; pedestalizing insight) · rochester.edu (scarcity/“hard-to-get” findings) · samiwunder.com (abundance/“prize” mindset) · kleinepsteinparker.com (style &amp; confidence) · attachmentproject.com (anxious/avoidant patterns)Call to action:<br />If this helped, share it with a friend who needs to stop chasing and start choosing.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8cff2857-8947-42dc-a00a-889b2ead20c6</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2025 21:16:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68015872/0d566489_7f3b_fd45_cfe0_140bf147a1ba.mp3" length="88935639" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode is about value—how you signal it, how others read it, and how those signals shift attraction, leverage, and relationship dynamics. Drawing on research you provided, we unpack:
- Social proof (pre-selection/mate-choice copying): why people...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode is about value—how you signal it, how others read it, and how those signals shift attraction, leverage, and relationship dynamics. Drawing on research you provided, we unpack:<ul><li>Social proof (pre-selection/mate-choice copying): why people rate you higher when they see others do the same, and how to show real belonging even without a big following.</li><li>Scarcity (healthy selectiveness): why being slightly less available increases perceived worth—and why chasing lowers it.</li><li>“Prize” mindset: carrying yourself with inner confidence and options, instead of pedestalizing anyone who undervalues you.</li><li>Style &amp; first impressions: how presentation boosts your confidence and shapes perceptions before you speak.</li><li>Anxious–avoidant dynamics: how to stop kneeling for crumbs, rebalance “hand,” and behave more securely without playing games.</li><li>Practical strategies: active life, subtle social proof, boundaries, abundance (ethically), and continual self-investment.</li></ul>This isn’t about manipulation. It’s about self-respect—letting your calendar, clothes, voice, and community say what you won’t beg for: “I’m valuable. I have options.” Walk this out and watch the world recalibrate.Sources (as provided by you):<br />reddit.com (social proof studies &amp; pedestalizing insight) · rochester.edu (scarcity/“hard-to-get” findings) · samiwunder.com (abundance/“prize” mindset) · kleinepsteinparker.com (style &amp; confidence) · attachmentproject.com (anxious/avoidant patterns)Call to action:<br />If this helped, share it with a friend who needs to stop chasing and start choosing.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3705</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/98415623b36ef689be6956323fc9cd79.jpg"/><itunes:season>10</itunes:season><itunes:episode>266</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 266 — Flipping the Script: Reclaiming Your Heart’s Autonomy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-266-flipping-the-script-reclaiming-your-heart-s-autonomy--67922234</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, losing yourself in love isn’t loud — it’s quiet.<br />It’s the text you never send. The joke you laugh at even though it cuts deep. The plans you cancel just to keep someone else happy.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores how self-abandonment creeps into relationships and what it takes to reclaim your autonomy. From the psychological roots of anxious attachment to the societal pressures of money, looks, and social media, this conversation exposes the hidden costs of giving away your power.But more importantly, it shows you how to flip the script — through boundaries, self-respect, and small acts of self-trust that rebuild your identity. Because love doesn’t demand you disappear. Love grows when two whole people choose each other without fear.This episode offers reflection, real-life examples, and practical steps to help you reclaim your heart and protect what’s yours.<ul><li>reclaiming autonomy in relationships</li><li>losing yourself in love</li><li>self-abandonment in relationships</li><li>anxious attachment and self-worth</li><li>societal pressures in dating</li><li>relationship red flags podcast</li><li>emotional boundaries in love</li><li>how to rebuild trust with yourself</li><li>respect and dignity in relationships</li><li>flipping the script in love</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fc172319-9385-4e3d-86e6-7e6371929742</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2025 13:16:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67922234/d46d1d54_bd41_16a3_6194_2193a78d31f0.mp3" length="72862947" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes, losing yourself in love isn’t loud — it’s quiet.
It’s the text you never send. The joke you laugh at even though it cuts deep. The plans you cancel just to keep someone else happy.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes, losing yourself in love isn’t loud — it’s quiet.<br />It’s the text you never send. The joke you laugh at even though it cuts deep. The plans you cancel just to keep someone else happy.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores how self-abandonment creeps into relationships and what it takes to reclaim your autonomy. From the psychological roots of anxious attachment to the societal pressures of money, looks, and social media, this conversation exposes the hidden costs of giving away your power.But more importantly, it shows you how to flip the script — through boundaries, self-respect, and small acts of self-trust that rebuild your identity. Because love doesn’t demand you disappear. 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Sometimes it whispers.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores micro-betrayals — the subtle lies, secrets, and dismissals that eat away at trust over time. From flirting under the guise of friendship to venting to others instead of your partner, these quiet cracks in the foundation can do as much damage as full-blown affairs.MCM breaks down why micro-betrayals happen, how to recognise them, and what it takes to repair trust before small fractures turn into collapse. Through practical insights and real-world examples, this episode offers a roadmap to protect intimacy and strengthen connection.Because love doesn’t just survive big betrayals — it survives the small, daily choices to be honest, open, and emotionally present.<ul><li>micro-betrayals in relationships</li><li>subtle ways trust is broken</li><li>emotional betrayal podcast</li><li>small lies in relationships</li><li>dismissing partner’s feelings</li><li>why small secrets damage love</li><li>how to rebuild trust podcast</li><li>relationship red flags</li><li>emotional intimacy podcast</li><li>respect and honesty in love</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">71e1a138-de4d-4f8b-959c-398f2a16309a</guid><pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2025 23:26:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67845243/3cc729c0_bae9_00f4_6c41_deb93d2af676.mp3" length="32631031" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcript-files.spotifycdn.com/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X/1dxdXHFhq2Xw04EDHM23hg/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Betrayal isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes it whispers.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores micro-betrayals — the subtle lies, secrets, and dismissals that eat away at trust over time. From flirting under the guise of friendship to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Betrayal isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes it whispers.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores micro-betrayals — the subtle lies, secrets, and dismissals that eat away at trust over time. From flirting under the guise of friendship to venting to others instead of your partner, these quiet cracks in the foundation can do as much damage as full-blown affairs.MCM breaks down why micro-betrayals happen, how to recognise them, and what it takes to repair trust before small fractures turn into collapse. Through practical insights and real-world examples, this episode offers a roadmap to protect intimacy and strengthen connection.Because love doesn’t just survive big betrayals — it survives the small, daily choices to be honest, open, and emotionally present.<ul><li>micro-betrayals in relationships</li><li>subtle ways trust is broken</li><li>emotional betrayal podcast</li><li>small lies in relationships</li><li>dismissing partner’s feelings</li><li>why small secrets damage love</li><li>how to rebuild trust podcast</li><li>relationship red flags</li><li>emotional intimacy podcast</li><li>respect and honesty in love</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1359</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b0b254025414fa615c09b0d7ccbfd18c.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>265</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 264 — Not Evergreen: The Current State of Black America (Sept 15, 2025)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-264-not-evergreen-the-current-state-of-black-america-sept-15-2025--67773278</link><description><![CDATA[This special edition of You’re Probably Right breaks from the usual timeless reflections and leans directly into the moment. Recorded on Monday, September 15th, 2025, MCM takes a raw look at the state of Canada, the United States, and the Black community today.From Shedeur Sanders’ rise in football to the National Guard deployment in Memphis, to the voices of Charlie Kirk and others shaping headlines, this episode is a candid snapshot of culture, politics, race, and faith in North America.It’s not evergreen — and that’s the point. This is about right now. The climate, the conversations, the conflicts. The way Canada and the U.S. treat Black voices differently. The way faith and scripture still frame truth in the middle of chaos.If you want honesty without polish, commentary without spin, and a record of this moment in history, this is it.<ul><li>Black America podcast September 2025</li><li>Shedeur Sanders quarterback NFL draft</li><li>National Guard Memphis Trump</li><li>Canada vs US Black experience</li><li>Charlie Kirk commentary podcast</li><li>Christian perspective on current events</li><li>race politics and culture 2025</li><li>Canadian Black voices podcast</li><li>Black experience North America today</li><li>cultural commentary Sept 15 2025</li></ul>🔑 SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases<br />00:00 – Opening<br />MCM sets the stage: this episode isn’t evergreen. It’s tied to the moment — Sept 15, 2025.00:01:12 – Why “Not Evergreen” Matters<br />Explaining why most episodes are timeless, but this one is grounded in today’s events.00:03:04 – Canada vs. the U.S.<br />A look at differences in how Black people are treated and perceived in both countries.00:06:45 – Shedeur Sanders and Representation in Sports<br />Reflections on Deion Sanders’ son and what his rise in football symbolizes for Black America.00:10:28 – Memphis, Trump, and the National Guard<br />Commentary on the recent deployment and what it reveals about politics and race.00:13:50 – Charlie Kirk and Media Influence<br />A breakdown of how voices like Kirk shape culture, discourse, and division.00:16:42 – Faith, Scripture, and Perspective<br />Bringing the lens of faith into today’s chaotic news cycle.00:19:30 – Closing Thoughts<br />Why documenting the moment matters, even if it isn’t evergreen.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80209fe1-e8b2-4c24-881f-d527f1f1c4f0</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 01:08:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67773278/d40049b7_617a_7124_ac39_7d1a830d22e2.mp3" length="44812589" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This special edition of You’re Probably Right breaks from the usual timeless reflections and leans directly into the moment. 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It’s tied to the moment — Sept 15, 2025.00:01:12 – Why “Not Evergreen” Matters<br />Explaining why most episodes are timeless, but this one is grounded in today’s events.00:03:04 – Canada vs. the U.S.<br />A look at differences in how Black people are treated and perceived in both countries.00:06:45 – Shedeur Sanders and Representation in Sports<br />Reflections on Deion Sanders’ son and what his rise in football symbolizes for Black America.00:10:28 – Memphis, Trump, and the National Guard<br />Commentary on the recent deployment and what it reveals about politics and race.00:13:50 – Charlie Kirk and Media Influence<br />A breakdown of how voices like Kirk shape culture, discourse, and division.00:16:42 – Faith, Scripture, and Perspective<br />Bringing the lens of faith into today’s chaotic news cycle.00:19:30 – Closing Thoughts<br />Why documenting the moment matters, even if it isn’t evergreen.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1867</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/237f76081c0acb8ec0d5e8b0b30cc742.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>264</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 256 — You Already Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-256-you-already-know--67755028</link><description><![CDATA[<ol><li>n this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks the lies we’re told from childhood and carried into the workplace: “you can be anything” and “prove yourself again and again.” Both create shame, frustration, and disillusionment. But the truth is simpler: you don’t need to be everything to be valuable.</li></ol>Through stories, real-world examples, and honest reflection, MCM explores why limitless potential is a myth, how corporate interviews are performance theatre, and why proven loyalty too often goes unseen. This episode challenges both leaders and everyday listeners to rethink success, respect, and recognition.You’ll leave with a fresh perspective: ordinary does not mean unimportant. Showing up, being consistent, and living authentically is enough — and deep down, you already knew it.<ol><li>SEO Keywords &amp; Phrases</li></ol><ul><li>workplace culture podcast</li><li>corporate interviews are broken</li><li>proving yourself at work</li><li>leadership and respect podcast</li><li>myth of limitless potential</li><li>career advice authenticity</li><li>employee loyalty vs corporate systems</li><li>redefining success podcast</li><li>ordinary work value</li><li>motivation podcast real talk</li></ul><ol><li>Cover Design</li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b180c9ce-dcb4-413e-b956-1f332652d9f7</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2025 17:09:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67755028/1df4a96f_817d_92c0_37f6_67627c7a8149.mp3" length="96290532" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
- n this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks the lies we’re told from childhood and carried into the workplace: “you can be anything” and “prove yourself again and again.” Both create shame, frustration, and disillusionment. But the truth...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<ol><li>n this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM unpacks the lies we’re told from childhood and carried into the workplace: “you can be anything” and “prove yourself again and again.” Both create shame, frustration, and disillusionment. But the truth is simpler: you don’t need to be everything to be valuable.</li></ol>Through stories, real-world examples, and honest reflection, MCM explores why limitless potential is a myth, how corporate interviews are performance theatre, and why proven loyalty too often goes unseen. This episode challenges both leaders and everyday listeners to rethink success, respect, and recognition.You’ll leave with a fresh perspective: ordinary does not mean unimportant. 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Too often, people hide their real selves behind safe reflections, hoping to be accepted. But living that way drains your energy and leaves no room for genuine connection.Through real talk, personal reflection, and practical insight, this episode explains why mirrors don’t build intimacy, why setting the culture early matters, and why “fit” is more important than proving who’s right or wrong. You’ll learn how to lead with your voice, recognize the quiet metrics that reveal true connection, and walk away with the courage to let your true colours be seen.Love, friendship, even work—it’s not about echoing others. It’s about being authentic, because the right people won’t want the mirror. 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Too often, people hide their real selves behind safe reflections, hoping...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores the importance of showing up as yourself—not as a mirror of what others expect, but as the truest version of who you are. Too often, people hide their real selves behind safe reflections, hoping to be accepted. But living that way drains your energy and leaves no room for genuine connection.Through real talk, personal reflection, and practical insight, this episode explains why mirrors don’t build intimacy, why setting the culture early matters, and why “fit” is more important than proving who’s right or wrong. You’ll learn how to lead with your voice, recognize the quiet metrics that reveal true connection, and walk away with the courage to let your true colours be seen.Love, friendship, even work—it’s not about echoing others. It’s about being authentic, because the right people won’t want the mirror. 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In this fourth installment of More Than You Think, the story deepens. We explore the emotional terrain between honesty and performance, love and attention, intention and impact.Eva is waking up to a painful truth. Julian isn’t cruel. But he’s not really present either. And that might be worse. As the illusion begins to crumble, new faces and buried patterns resurface. Through elegant storytelling, sharp introspection, and a haunting narrative tone, Part 4 Weak peels back what it really means to be “there” for someone—until you’re not.Stay tuned to see who walks away with their dignity, who’s left behind, and why sometimes being seen isn’t the same as being chosen.<ul><li>🎭 Main Topics:<br />Emotional intelligence, love addiction, emotional unavailability, relationship psychology, romantic disillusionment, identity, presence vs performance</li><li>🧠 Character Arcs:<ul><li>Julian: A man who makes women feel heard, seen, and chosen—until they aren’t</li><li>Eva: The emotionally mature woman peeling away her layers of denial</li><li>Alexis, Marina, Wren: Women drawn into Julian’s orbit, each revealing a different facet of his emotional entanglements</li><li>Marcus: An off-screen reminder of past trauma and former heartbreak</li></ul></li><li>💔 Themes Explored:<ul><li>Women falling for emotionally accessible men</li><li>Quiet breakups and emotional detachment</li><li>The illusion of presence and performance</li><li>Self-worth, patterns, and “healing” relationships</li><li>Complex masculinity and listening as seduction</li></ul></li><li>🔑 Keywords for Discovery:<br />emotionally unavailable men, womanizer podcast, relationship patterns, emotional intelligence in dating, More Than You Think story, Christian podcast with relationship themes, Toronto podcast, fictional podcast drama, You’re Probably Right, narrative podcast, attachment theory, introvert charm in relationships</li><li>🎵 Music Cue:<br />Inspired by SWV – Weak (live cover reference within the story)</li></ul>📓 Show Notes &amp; SEO-Optimized Keywords:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">61638d05-9967-4f34-a97d-cab565884b05</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2025 20:12:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67657610/ef5dca8c_10cb_767a_cf94_920fc6cf2e3f.mp3" length="74020059" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julian has always been the kind of man who listens—but what happens when listening becomes its own kind of deception? 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Through elegant storytelling, sharp introspection, and a haunting narrative tone, Part 4 Weak peels back what it really means to be “there” for someone—until you’re not.Stay tuned to see who walks away with their dignity, who’s left behind, and why sometimes being seen isn’t the same as being chosen.<ul><li>🎭 Main Topics:<br />Emotional intelligence, love addiction, emotional unavailability, relationship psychology, romantic disillusionment, identity, presence vs performance</li><li>🧠 Character Arcs:<ul><li>Julian: A man who makes women feel heard, seen, and chosen—until they aren’t</li><li>Eva: The emotionally mature woman peeling away her layers of denial</li><li>Alexis, Marina, Wren: Women drawn into Julian’s orbit, each revealing a different facet of his emotional entanglements</li><li>Marcus: An off-screen reminder of past trauma and former heartbreak</li></ul></li><li>💔 Themes Explored:<ul><li>Women falling for emotionally accessible men</li><li>Quiet breakups and emotional detachment</li><li>The illusion of presence and performance</li><li>Self-worth, patterns, and “healing” relationships</li><li>Complex masculinity and listening as seduction</li></ul></li><li>🔑 Keywords for Discovery:<br />emotionally unavailable men, womanizer podcast, relationship patterns, emotional intelligence in dating, More Than You Think story, Christian podcast with relationship themes, Toronto podcast, fictional podcast drama, You’re Probably Right, narrative podcast, attachment theory, introvert charm in relationships</li><li>🎵 Music Cue:<br />Inspired by SWV – Weak (live cover reference within the story)</li></ul>📓 Show Notes &amp; SEO-Optimized Keywords:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3084</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f785f079bcc8610fee60577126a45a68.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>262</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 261 – Complicated</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-261-complicated--67608544</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 261 of It’s You’re Probably Right takes Avril Lavigne’s question—“Why you have to go and make things so complicated?”—and answers it with 20 universal truths for relationships. <br /><br />00:01:06 – Theme of the Episode<br />Why do we make relationships so complicated? From riddles and crumbs to silence and excuses—love isn’t meant to be this messy.00:01:51 – The Promise<br />20 universal points you can use in any situation with anyone. Each one is simple, practical, and designed to cut through confusion.00:02:41 – Welcome &amp; Housekeeping<br />00:03:32 – Point 1: Boundaries Matter More Than Intentions<br />Intentions without respect mean nothing. Boundaries protect you—enforce them clearly.00:06:07 – Point 2: Respect Shows in Time, Not Words<br />Anyone can say they care. Time and consistency reveal the truth.00:08:52 – Point 3: Mixed Signals Are Still Signals<br />Confusion is not neutral—it’s avoidance. Treat mixed signals as a no.00:11:08 – Point 4: Overgiving Creates Imbalance<br />Giving too much only enables takers. Balance effort to protect your value.00:14:28 – Point 5: Crumbs Aren’t Commitment<br />One text, one call, one gesture—crumbs don’t equal real investment.00:18:15 – Point 6: Avoidance Isn’t Neutrality<br />Dodging hard talks and intimacy is a choice—not “just space.”00:21:01 – Point 7: Intimacy Without Reciprocity Is Empty<br />Physical closeness without respect and consistency is hollow.00:23:09 – Point 8: Excuses Are Red Flags<br />“It’s bad timing” or “I’m not ready” often hide disinterest.00:24:55 – Point 9: Your Worth Isn’t Up for Negotiation<br />You’re not a bargain deal. If they can’t see your value, move on.00:28:29 – Point 10: Absence Reveals More Than Presence<br />How they act when you’re not around says more than their performance when you are.00:31:24 – Point 11: Professionalism Protects You<br />Blurring lines in shared spaces creates imbalance—respect yourself first.00:32:37 – Point 12: Don’t Decode Crumbs<br />Points 13–1500:35:27 – Point 13: Healthy Relationships Are Mutual<br />Partnership means both people initiate, plan, and invest. If only one person is doing the work, it’s not a relationship—it’s a project.00:38:14 – Point 14: Silence Is Communication<br />No reply is still a reply. Silence says: “You’re not a priority.” Listen to it, don’t excuse it.00:41:03 – Point 15: Over-Explaining Your Value Is a Trap<br />If they don’t see your worth, convincing won’t change their mind. Value needs recognition, not persuasion.00:44:26 – Point 16: Consistency Is the Real Test<br />One sweet gesture doesn’t matter—patterns matter. Consistency is the proof of real care.00:47:36 – Point 17: Respecting Your Own Time Is Power<br />Stop chasing. Keep your schedule. Let people rise to meet your time, not consume it.00:50:42 – Point 18: Don’t Mistake Attention for Affection<br />Likes, glances, compliments—they feel good, but affection is steady and invested. Don’t confuse the two.00:53:26 – Point 19: Relationships Reveal Character<br />Stress and pressure show you who people really are. Believe what’s revealed, not the mask.00:56:34 – Point 20: Clarity Beats Chemistry<br />Attraction is powerful, but chemistry without clarity is chaos. Choose clarity every time.01:00:24 – Recap of All 20 Points<br />Quick review: boundaries, respect, mixed signals, excuses, silence, consistency, clarity, and more—20 universal truths to simplify relationships.01:03:17 – Closing Thoughts<br />When love feels complicated, it’s because we’re ignoring the obvious. These points strip away confusion and bring you back to truth: clarity beats complication every time.Points 16–20Final Recap &amp; Closing01:05:01 – Thank You &amp; Sign-Off<br />complicated relationships podcast, dating advice, relationship red flags, healthy relationships, stop overgiving, self-worth in love, mixed signals in dating, consistency in relationships, respect and boundaries, clarity vs chemistry, emotional health podcast, personal growth]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">77e82a2c-ed33-47f8-a7b1-2ab682148821</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 02:48:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67608544/ae91a64a_2b40_1cdc_e20d_d9565ee0ef64.mp3" length="78048278" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 261 of It’s You’re Probably Right takes Avril Lavigne’s question—“Why you have to go and make things so complicated?”—and answers it with 20 universal truths for relationships. 

00:01:06 – Theme of the Episode
Why do we make relationships so...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 261 of It’s You’re Probably Right takes Avril Lavigne’s question—“Why you have to go and make things so complicated?”—and answers it with 20 universal truths for relationships. <br /><br />00:01:06 – Theme of the Episode<br />Why do we make relationships so complicated? From riddles and crumbs to silence and excuses—love isn’t meant to be this messy.00:01:51 – The Promise<br />20 universal points you can use in any situation with anyone. Each one is simple, practical, and designed to cut through confusion.00:02:41 – Welcome &amp; Housekeeping<br />00:03:32 – Point 1: Boundaries Matter More Than Intentions<br />Intentions without respect mean nothing. Boundaries protect you—enforce them clearly.00:06:07 – Point 2: Respect Shows in Time, Not Words<br />Anyone can say they care. Time and consistency reveal the truth.00:08:52 – Point 3: Mixed Signals Are Still Signals<br />Confusion is not neutral—it’s avoidance. Treat mixed signals as a no.00:11:08 – Point 4: Overgiving Creates Imbalance<br />Giving too much only enables takers. Balance effort to protect your value.00:14:28 – Point 5: Crumbs Aren’t Commitment<br />One text, one call, one gesture—crumbs don’t equal real investment.00:18:15 – Point 6: Avoidance Isn’t Neutrality<br />Dodging hard talks and intimacy is a choice—not “just space.”00:21:01 – Point 7: Intimacy Without Reciprocity Is Empty<br />Physical closeness without respect and consistency is hollow.00:23:09 – Point 8: Excuses Are Red Flags<br />“It’s bad timing” or “I’m not ready” often hide disinterest.00:24:55 – Point 9: Your Worth Isn’t Up for Negotiation<br />You’re not a bargain deal. If they can’t see your value, move on.00:28:29 – Point 10: Absence Reveals More Than Presence<br />How they act when you’re not around says more than their performance when you are.00:31:24 – Point 11: Professionalism Protects You<br />Blurring lines in shared spaces creates imbalance—respect yourself first.00:32:37 – Point 12: Don’t Decode Crumbs<br />Points 13–1500:35:27 – Point 13: Healthy Relationships Are Mutual<br />Partnership means both people initiate, plan, and invest. If only one person is doing the work, it’s not a relationship—it’s a project.00:38:14 – Point 14: Silence Is Communication<br />No reply is still a reply. Silence says: “You’re not a priority.” Listen to it, don’t excuse it.00:41:03 – Point 15: Over-Explaining Your Value Is a Trap<br />If they don’t see your worth, convincing won’t change their mind. Value needs recognition, not persuasion.00:44:26 – Point 16: Consistency Is the Real Test<br />One sweet gesture doesn’t matter—patterns matter. Consistency is the proof of real care.00:47:36 – Point 17: Respecting Your Own Time Is Power<br />Stop chasing. Keep your schedule. Let people rise to meet your time, not consume it.00:50:42 – Point 18: Don’t Mistake Attention for Affection<br />Likes, glances, compliments—they feel good, but affection is steady and invested. Don’t confuse the two.00:53:26 – Point 19: Relationships Reveal Character<br />Stress and pressure show you who people really are. Believe what’s revealed, not the mask.00:56:34 – Point 20: Clarity Beats Chemistry<br />Attraction is powerful, but chemistry without clarity is chaos. Choose clarity every time.01:00:24 – Recap of All 20 Points<br />Quick review: boundaries, respect, mixed signals, excuses, silence, consistency, clarity, and more—20 universal truths to simplify relationships.01:03:17 – Closing Thoughts<br />When love feels complicated, it’s because we’re ignoring the obvious. 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You’ll also learn how to weigh happiness vs. money in opportunities, make love a choice instead of a lifeline, and heal old wounds before building new connections.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />🔑 Keywords: dating podcast, relationship advice, show me love series, emotional healing, stop chasing relationships, self-love, alignment in relationships, modern dating podcast, healing before love]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ae7db866-bd2a-4470-97da-5b2d682821f0</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2025 18:51:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67574379/d41dddce_bccb_245a_420d_f5b3bb05266c.mp3" length="38400180" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the final part of Show Me Love, MCM walks through points 24–30, showing you how to state what you want clearly, protect your energy, and stop measuring your worth by reply speed. 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This section dives into authenticity, stability over drama, using solitude for growth, keeping your schedule intact, and leveling the power in your relationships.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />🔑 Keywords: relationship boundaries, stop disrespect, dating confidence, authenticity, personal growth podcast, self-care, emotional health, dating advice podcast, modern relationships]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">40ead65f-19d6-4abf-86ee-645bc5d1b06b</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2025 18:48:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67574380/46d159ce_8210_228b_9f20_49aaff7b7fa3.mp3" length="64709666" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Part 2 of Show Me Love, MCM continues with points 12–23, unpacking how to stop tolerating disrespect, why you shouldn’t interpret distance as a challenge, and how to protect your energy. 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Learn why chasing love pushes it away, how to stop outsourcing your worth to others, and how to set standards that protect your time and energy. This episode covers self-worth, boundaries, intimacy vs. intensity, approval-seeking, rejection as alignment, and more.<br /><br /><br /><br />🔑 Keywords: relationship podcast, stop chasing love, self-worth, boundaries, dating advice, intimacy vs intensity, rejection, self-love, mental health podcast, personal growth]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">15ab2588-e9e7-4249-8277-ceaeeca6dd15</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2025 18:44:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67574381/f2a58eb3_4f00_470c_6e8f_76a11d55931e.mp3" length="95792663" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Description:
In Part 1 of Show Me Love, MCM breaks down the first 11 shifts that can transform your approach to relationships. Learn why chasing love pushes it away, how to stop outsourcing your worth to others, and how to set standards that protect...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Description:<br />In Part 1 of Show Me Love, MCM breaks down the first 11 shifts that can transform your approach to relationships. Learn why chasing love pushes it away, how to stop outsourcing your worth to others, and how to set standards that protect your time and energy. This episode covers self-worth, boundaries, intimacy vs. intensity, approval-seeking, rejection as alignment, and more.<br /><br /><br /><br />🔑 Keywords: relationship podcast, stop chasing love, self-worth, boundaries, dating advice, intimacy vs intensity, rejection, self-love, mental health podcast, personal growth]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3991</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/997cf0528d239b306fa6ac65a4c925ac.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>258</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Rolling Too Deep – Episode 257</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/rolling-too-deep-episode-257--67566233</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of It’s You’re Probably Right by MCM, we talk about the weight of life when it feels like you may never “arrive.” Bills don’t stop, responsibilities pile up, and even when you take a break, the stress follows.MCM reflects on:<ul><li>Why “rest” isn’t always restful when paychecks stop.</li><li>How to position yourself to succeed when you’re single or creative.</li><li>Negotiating your value at work — and in life.</li><li>Protecting yourself from people who only come for what they can take.</li><li>Building inner stability through discipline and self-care.</li><li>Moving forward even without guarantees of money, relationships, or security.</li></ul>If you’ve ever searched Spotify or Google for how to find self-worth, work-life balance, money vs happiness, resilience, or personal growth, this episode is for you. It’s not about having all the answers — it’s about learning how to keep moving when life feels incomplete.🔑 Keywords for SEO/Spotify search:<br />self-worth, money vs happiness, resilience podcast, personal growth, work-life balance, motivation, discipline, mental health, burnout recovery, creative struggles, life advice podcast, success mindset]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">795712d8-da6c-4fee-97d4-a75a7fb5689b</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2025 23:20:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67566233/4e0b5cd7_f692_20e7_1138_63900a819811.mp3" length="67467079" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of It’s You’re Probably Right by MCM, we talk about the weight of life when it feels like you may never “arrive.” Bills don’t stop, responsibilities pile up, and even when you take a break, the stress follows.MCM reflects on:
- Why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of It’s You’re Probably Right by MCM, we talk about the weight of life when it feels like you may never “arrive.” Bills don’t stop, responsibilities pile up, and even when you take a break, the stress follows.MCM reflects on:<ul><li>Why “rest” isn’t always restful when paychecks stop.</li><li>How to position yourself to succeed when you’re single or creative.</li><li>Negotiating your value at work — and in life.</li><li>Protecting yourself from people who only come for what they can take.</li><li>Building inner stability through discipline and self-care.</li><li>Moving forward even without guarantees of money, relationships, or security.</li></ul>If you’ve ever searched Spotify or Google for how to find self-worth, work-life balance, money vs happiness, resilience, or personal growth, this episode is for you. It’s not about having all the answers — it’s about learning how to keep moving when life feels incomplete.🔑 Keywords for SEO/Spotify search:<br />self-worth, money vs happiness, resilience podcast, personal growth, work-life balance, motivation, discipline, mental health, burnout recovery, creative struggles, life advice podcast, success mindset]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2811</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/51d1db8e902252ff1115ee0feb793a81.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>257</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>More Than You Think – Part 3: The Gig Episode 255 | You're Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/more-than-you-think-part-3-the-gig-episode-255-you-re-probably-right--67538194</link><description><![CDATA[In this charged continuation of the More Than You Thinkseries, we finally meet Marcus—the man Eva once married, the artist who’s beenliving in the shadows of her life. Now broke and barely holding on, Marcus getsa shot at redemption: a San Francisco performance that could change everything.All he needs is $700 and a reason to believe in himself again.But asking Eva for help? That comes with a cost.Tensions rise, truths surface, and the collision course between Marcus andJulian reaches its breaking point—on stage, in front of everyone. This isn’tjust about music. It’s about identity, control, desire, and the people who loveus... or claim to.No neat endings. No easy villains. Just consequences.Tags:<br />romantic suspense, fiction podcast, emotional thriller, artist story, brokenlove, toxic dynamics, love triangle, music industry, relationship tension,second chances ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8dea477f-7a84-48a3-8a14-7bf78cdf3e7f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2025 02:00:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67538194/35c2c859_c337_605c_1faf_e5f93954f1ee.mp3" length="55959755" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this charged continuation of the More Than You Thinkseries, we finally meet Marcus—the man Eva once married, the artist who’s beenliving in the shadows of her life. Now broke and barely holding on, Marcus getsa shot at redemption: a San Francisco...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this charged continuation of the More Than You Thinkseries, we finally meet Marcus—the man Eva once married, the artist who’s beenliving in the shadows of her life. Now broke and barely holding on, Marcus getsa shot at redemption: a San Francisco performance that could change everything.All he needs is $700 and a reason to believe in himself again.But asking Eva for help? That comes with a cost.Tensions rise, truths surface, and the collision course between Marcus andJulian reaches its breaking point—on stage, in front of everyone. This isn’tjust about music. It’s about identity, control, desire, and the people who loveus... or claim to.No neat endings. No easy villains. Just consequences.Tags:<br />romantic suspense, fiction podcast, emotional thriller, artist story, brokenlove, toxic dynamics, love triangle, music industry, relationship tension,second chances ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2331</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a7298eb7845328225ad7b4fd4538abaf.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>255</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>More Than You Think – Part 2 You're Probably right (Fiction Episode)Episode 254</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/more-than-you-think-part-2-you-re-probably-right-fiction-episode-episode-254--67500238</link><description><![CDATA[She’s not what he said. She’s more.In Part 2 of More Than You Think, we hear Eva’s side—the backstory, the baggage, the men who never left, and the one who might’ve stayed too long. This is a slow unraveling, told in Eva’s own voice, from behind the makeup, the money, and the mistakes.It’s not an explanation. It’s not an apology. It’s just what happened.If you’ve ever kept someone in your life because they made you feel safe…<br />If you’ve ever shut someone out because they saw too much…<br />If you’ve ever wondered what a woman really meant when she said, “I’m fine”—This one is for you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">58e15779-37af-416c-9791-a080477d75aa</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2025 23:29:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67500238/d48bb132_637d_e8b0_76d7_b75a3feab3f2.mp3" length="44313113" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>She’s not what he said. She’s more.In Part 2 of More Than You Think, we hear Eva’s side—the backstory, the baggage, the men who never left, and the one who might’ve stayed too long. This is a slow unraveling, told in Eva’s own voice, from behind the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[She’s not what he said. She’s more.In Part 2 of More Than You Think, we hear Eva’s side—the backstory, the baggage, the men who never left, and the one who might’ve stayed too long. This is a slow unraveling, told in Eva’s own voice, from behind the makeup, the money, and the mistakes.It’s not an explanation. It’s not an apology. It’s just what happened.If you’ve ever kept someone in your life because they made you feel safe…<br />If you’ve ever shut someone out because they saw too much…<br />If you’ve ever wondered what a woman really meant when she said, “I’m fine”—This one is for you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1846</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a947f6e1a092e55e51f5aa03a5909816.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>254</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>More Than You Think A You’re Probably Right Fiction Special</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/more-than-you-think-a-you-re-probably-right-fiction-special--67493290</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to a special episode of You Are Probably Right. I’m M C M.What you’re about to hear is different. This isn’t commentary. It’s not a conversation. It’s a story.But it’s the kind of story that tells the truth in a way advice never can.It’s for anyone who’s ever waited a little too long. For anyone who’s ever felt like they were almost chosen—but never quite enough. For anyone who’s felt the ache of wanting someone who doesn’t know what to do with something real.So sit down. Get quiet. And stay with it.Because this one’s not just fiction.It’s more than you think.<br />A man who’s always been overlooked.<br />A woman who’s always been hurt.<br />A connection neither of them fully understands—until it’s too deep to deny.Told in the form of a raw, journal-style narration, More Than You Think is a 90-minute emotional fiction story that explores what happens when patience meets fear, when kindness outlasts doubt, and when love comes not with a promise, but with a choice.It’s gritty. It’s quiet. It’s the kind of story that sneaks up on you late at night—and stays.For anyone who’s ever waited too long to be chosen.<br /><br /><ul><li>Title: More Than You Think</li><li>Episode Number: 253</li><li>Type: Bonus Episode (optional)</li><li>Season: Leave blank or “Specials” if your platform supports seasons</li><li>Author/Creator: M C M / You’re Probably Right</li><li>Language: English (US)</li><li>Explicit: No</li></ul>A quiet man. A complicated woman. A bond they never defined—until it’s almost too late.More Than You Think is a 90-minute fiction story about almost-love, emotional patience, and finally being chosen. Told in raw, journal-style narration, this one’s for the listener who needs more than surface-level romance.<ul><li>fiction podcast</li><li>emotional story</li><li>slow burn romance</li><li>heartbreak recovery</li><li>relationship fiction</li><li>short story audio</li><li>healing and love</li><li>you're probably right podcast</li></ul>📃 Description (Short Format for Podcast Apps)🔍 Tags / Keywords (For SEO &amp; Discoverability)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f90753c5-4d45-4840-a3c2-471d369f6423</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2025 04:21:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67493290/3145acac_3fbe_6c39_d7b6_3d39de0f64a0.mp3" length="51700470" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to a special episode of You Are Probably Right. I’m M C M.What you’re about to hear is different. This isn’t commentary. It’s not a conversation. It’s a story.But it’s the kind of story that tells the truth in a way advice never can.It’s for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to a special episode of You Are Probably Right. I’m M C M.What you’re about to hear is different. This isn’t commentary. It’s not a conversation. It’s a story.But it’s the kind of story that tells the truth in a way advice never can.It’s for anyone who’s ever waited a little too long. For anyone who’s ever felt like they were almost chosen—but never quite enough. For anyone who’s felt the ache of wanting someone who doesn’t know what to do with something real.So sit down. Get quiet. And stay with it.Because this one’s not just fiction.It’s more than you think.<br />A man who’s always been overlooked.<br />A woman who’s always been hurt.<br />A connection neither of them fully understands—until it’s too deep to deny.Told in the form of a raw, journal-style narration, More Than You Think is a 90-minute emotional fiction story that explores what happens when patience meets fear, when kindness outlasts doubt, and when love comes not with a promise, but with a choice.It’s gritty. It’s quiet. It’s the kind of story that sneaks up on you late at night—and stays.For anyone who’s ever waited too long to be chosen.<br /><br /><ul><li>Title: More Than You Think</li><li>Episode Number: 253</li><li>Type: Bonus Episode (optional)</li><li>Season: Leave blank or “Specials” if your platform supports seasons</li><li>Author/Creator: M C M / You’re Probably Right</li><li>Language: English (US)</li><li>Explicit: No</li></ul>A quiet man. A complicated woman. A bond they never defined—until it’s almost too late.More Than You Think is a 90-minute fiction story about almost-love, emotional patience, and finally being chosen. Told in raw, journal-style narration, this one’s for the listener who needs more than surface-level romance.<ul><li>fiction podcast</li><li>emotional story</li><li>slow burn romance</li><li>heartbreak recovery</li><li>relationship fiction</li><li>short story audio</li><li>healing and love</li><li>you're probably right podcast</li></ul>📃 Description (Short Format for Podcast Apps)🔍 Tags / Keywords (For SEO &amp; Discoverability)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2154</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c92dbc1713cad30c64373f86c7e3e80b.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>253</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Chosen, Not Convenient: How Strong Couples Actually Work | Episode 252</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/chosen-not-convenient-how-strong-couples-actually-work-episode-252--67492622</link><description><![CDATA[A clear, practical talk on building a strong relationship. We cover sharedmission, respectful communication that maintains trust, a simple reset plan forpast issues, real-world rules for money and phones, desire and boundarieswithout games, and a clean repair script for conflict. You'll leave with aweekly check-in you can run tomorrow plus three commitments to keep you honest.SEO Keywords<br />strong relationship, couples communication, trust reset, conflict repair,intimacy, money rules for couples, phone privacy agreement, weekly check-inTimestamps<br />00:00 Opening and promise<br />03:30 Shared mission, team first<br />10:30 Talk that keeps respect<br />19:30 Trust and the reset plan<br />28:30 Attraction, jealousy, and the truth<br />37:00 Money and logistics without power games<br />45:00 Phones, privacy, and agreements<br />52:00 Intimacy and feeling chosen, conflict repair<br />59:00 Three commitments and close<br /><br /><br /><br />Show Notes: Copy &amp; PasteResources from this episode• Weekly check in card<br />What went well<br />What hurt<br />What we try next<br />Set the day, set the time, twenty to thirty minutes, phones away• Trust reset sheet<br />The issue<br />The condition we set<br />Check date<br />If met, we stop reopening<br />If not met, the next step we both agreed• Money rules sheet<br />Bills list<br />Savings target<br />Personal spending amounts<br />Big purchase threshold and process• Phone agreement<br />Model we choose, open or privacy with rules<br />Access details and passcodes<br />Location sharing and social rules<br />How we change this later• Desire talk stems<br />I feel wanted when<br />I feel safer when<br />I lose desire when<br />I would like more of]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7fc53dfc-1d94-45c1-94c6-108c4df04ef9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2025 02:20:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67492622/21dd21c0_1084_d489_5977_7ecf54522856.mp3" length="72489270" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A clear, practical talk on building a strong relationship. We cover sharedmission, respectful communication that maintains trust, a simple reset plan forpast issues, real-world rules for money and phones, desire and boundarieswithout games, and a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A clear, practical talk on building a strong relationship. We cover sharedmission, respectful communication that maintains trust, a simple reset plan forpast issues, real-world rules for money and phones, desire and boundarieswithout games, and a clean repair script for conflict. You'll leave with aweekly check-in you can run tomorrow plus three commitments to keep you honest.SEO Keywords<br />strong relationship, couples communication, trust reset, conflict repair,intimacy, money rules for couples, phone privacy agreement, weekly check-inTimestamps<br />00:00 Opening and promise<br />03:30 Shared mission, team first<br />10:30 Talk that keeps respect<br />19:30 Trust and the reset plan<br />28:30 Attraction, jealousy, and the truth<br />37:00 Money and logistics without power games<br />45:00 Phones, privacy, and agreements<br />52:00 Intimacy and feeling chosen, conflict repair<br />59:00 Three commitments and close<br /><br /><br /><br />Show Notes: Copy &amp; PasteResources from this episode• Weekly check in card<br />What went well<br />What hurt<br />What we try next<br />Set the day, set the time, twenty to thirty minutes, phones away• Trust reset sheet<br />The issue<br />The condition we set<br />Check date<br />If met, we stop reopening<br />If not met, the next step we both agreed• Money rules sheet<br />Bills list<br />Savings target<br />Personal spending amounts<br />Big purchase threshold and process• Phone agreement<br />Model we choose, open or privacy with rules<br />Access details and passcodes<br />Location sharing and social rules<br />How we change this later• Desire talk stems<br />I feel wanted when<br />I feel safer when<br />I lose desire when<br />I would like more of]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3020</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a9dad28862a7a364604a2facf9af1342.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>252</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 251 – Five Questions That Can Wreck (or Rescue) Your Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-251-five-questions-that-can-wreck-or-rescue-your-relationship--67472705</link><description><![CDATA[<br />A viral 45-second clip asked five “deep” relationship questions—but are theyreally deep, or dangerously shallow? In this episode of You’re ProbablyRight, we unpack each question in full—what it gets right, what it misses,and why microwaved counseling can quietly poison your marriage. With vividstorytelling, real-world scenarios, and hard-earned wisdom, this 90-minuteconversation dives into:If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re with the right person—or feltrattled by quick-fire relationship “tests” online—this episode is for you.Show Notes:Listener Reflection Questions (SEO-rich prompts):Keywords / Tags for Search:<br />relationships, marriage, dating advice, fulfillment, intimacy, toxic cycles,love questions, viral TikTok relationship advice, relationship counselingmyths, self-discovery in love, how to choose a partner, marriage podcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3a504c89-c45b-4ea9-a632-25904b2d3e41</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 22:32:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67472705/f877fdc3_286c_6971_7215_8846722f7961.mp3" length="57863557" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
A viral 45-second clip asked five “deep” relationship questions—but are theyreally deep, or dangerously shallow? In this episode of You’re ProbablyRight, we unpack each question in full—what it gets right, what it misses,and why microwaved counseling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />A viral 45-second clip asked five “deep” relationship questions—but are theyreally deep, or dangerously shallow? In this episode of You’re ProbablyRight, we unpack each question in full—what it gets right, what it misses,and why microwaved counseling can quietly poison your marriage. With vividstorytelling, real-world scenarios, and hard-earned wisdom, this 90-minuteconversation dives into:If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re with the right person—or feltrattled by quick-fire relationship “tests” online—this episode is for you.Show Notes:Listener Reflection Questions (SEO-rich prompts):Keywords / Tags for Search:<br />relationships, marriage, dating advice, fulfillment, intimacy, toxic cycles,love questions, viral TikTok relationship advice, relationship counselingmyths, self-discovery in love, how to choose a partner, marriage podcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2411</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/efe93e3626fc8d20172fee51536a27ba.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>251</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Every Little Thing She Does Isn’t Magic: When Love Feels One-Sided| Epd - 250</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/every-little-thing-she-does-isn-t-magic-when-love-feels-one-sided-epd-250--67462808</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, we go straight into the heart of marriage and long-term relationships — when love feels one-sided. Drawing on real stories, timeless truths, and unspoken frustrations, this episode exposes why so many men and women feel disconnected under the same roof. We’ll talk about silence, intimacy, negotiation, influence, and the lies modern culture feeds us about love. And along the way, we’ll unpack how different men — Beta, Sigma, and Alpha — experience these struggles uniquely, and what it takes to bridge the gap before silence wins. This is not about blame. This is about truth. About survival. About choosing each other again, time after time.📌 Show Notes (Expanded for Spotify/Podcast Apps):<ul><li>Intro (00:00) – The quiet storms inside marriages, and the ache of feeling unwanted. Defining Beta, Sigma, and Alpha archetypes to frame the conversation.</li><li>Why Men Stay Silent (00:10) – How men suppress needs and the different ways Beta, Sigma, and Alpha men handle rejection.</li><li>Why Women Pull Back (00:25) – The weight women carry, exhaustion, and how men misinterpret distance.</li><li>The Negotiation of Marriage (00:40) – How marriages become transactional, and how archetypes respond when love feels like a business deal.</li><li>The Love-Sex Gap (00:55) – Why men and women connect differently, and how those differences play out painfully if misunderstood.</li><li>Influence vs. Manipulation (01:15) – The power of shaping each other in marriages, for good or for harm.</li><li>Modern Lies That Break Couples (01:30) – How cultural narratives like “happy wife, happy life” destroy relationships from the inside.</li><li>The Cost of Silence (01:45) – Why silence, not conflict, is the true killer of marriages.</li><li>How to Reignite Partnership (02:00) – Practical ways to rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection across archetypes.</li><li>Closing Story (02:15) – A marriage redeemed through small choices and the courage to speak and listen again.</li></ul>📝 Listener Reflection Questions:<ol><li>Do you recognize yourself more as a Beta, Sigma, or Alpha in your relationship patterns?</li><li>How do you usually respond to rejection or distance in your relationship — with silence, withdrawal, or frustration?</li><li>Where have you allowed negotiations and transactions to replace real connection?</li><li>What unspoken lies about love or marriage might be shaping your expectations?</li><li>What one small step could you take this week to speak, listen, or show up differently for your partner?</li></ol>🎧 This is not a sermonette. Not a quick hit. This is a full-length conversation designed to last a drive, a late-night shift, or the quiet hours when the house is still. Take it in slowly. Pause if you need to. But don’t look away. Because this is the storm that most couples face — and if you don’t face it, it will face you.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">862460e5-a321-448b-a619-b063d493bae3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 01:07:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67462808/a57f986e_da6b_e51f_02ff_c1328a6a30f9.mp3" length="59696858" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, we go straight into the heart of marriage and long-term relationships — when love feels one-sided. Drawing on real stories, timeless truths, and unspoken frustrations, this episode exposes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, we go straight into the heart of marriage and long-term relationships — when love feels one-sided. Drawing on real stories, timeless truths, and unspoken frustrations, this episode exposes why so many men and women feel disconnected under the same roof. We’ll talk about silence, intimacy, negotiation, influence, and the lies modern culture feeds us about love. And along the way, we’ll unpack how different men — Beta, Sigma, and Alpha — experience these struggles uniquely, and what it takes to bridge the gap before silence wins. This is not about blame. This is about truth. About survival. About choosing each other again, time after time.📌 Show Notes (Expanded for Spotify/Podcast Apps):<ul><li>Intro (00:00) – The quiet storms inside marriages, and the ache of feeling unwanted. Defining Beta, Sigma, and Alpha archetypes to frame the conversation.</li><li>Why Men Stay Silent (00:10) – How men suppress needs and the different ways Beta, Sigma, and Alpha men handle rejection.</li><li>Why Women Pull Back (00:25) – The weight women carry, exhaustion, and how men misinterpret distance.</li><li>The Negotiation of Marriage (00:40) – How marriages become transactional, and how archetypes respond when love feels like a business deal.</li><li>The Love-Sex Gap (00:55) – Why men and women connect differently, and how those differences play out painfully if misunderstood.</li><li>Influence vs. Manipulation (01:15) – The power of shaping each other in marriages, for good or for harm.</li><li>Modern Lies That Break Couples (01:30) – How cultural narratives like “happy wife, happy life” destroy relationships from the inside.</li><li>The Cost of Silence (01:45) – Why silence, not conflict, is the true killer of marriages.</li><li>How to Reignite Partnership (02:00) – Practical ways to rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection across archetypes.</li><li>Closing Story (02:15) – A marriage redeemed through small choices and the courage to speak and listen again.</li></ul>📝 Listener Reflection Questions:<ol><li>Do you recognize yourself more as a Beta, Sigma, or Alpha in your relationship patterns?</li><li>How do you usually respond to rejection or distance in your relationship — with silence, withdrawal, or frustration?</li><li>Where have you allowed negotiations and transactions to replace real connection?</li><li>What unspoken lies about love or marriage might be shaping your expectations?</li><li>What one small step could you take this week to speak, listen, or show up differently for your partner?</li></ol>🎧 This is not a sermonette. Not a quick hit. This is a full-length conversation designed to last a drive, a late-night shift, or the quiet hours when the house is still. Take it in slowly. Pause if you need to. But don’t look away. Because this is the storm that most couples face — and if you don’t face it, it will face you.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2487</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ccf5cdb23ea23431d511f314b578c7b1.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>250</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Time After Time: Why We Keep Choosing the Wrong People | Ep 249</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/time-after-time-why-we-keep-choosing-the-wrong-people-ep-249--67461632</link><description><![CDATA[Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and real-life scenarios, we uncover the hidden patterns that keep us hooked on the wrong relationships. You’ll hear about the illusion of change, why familiarity feels safer than growth, and how to finally break the cycle for good.This isn’t just another “relationship talk.” This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and begin choosing differently — time after time.<ul><li>The pattern trap: why we mistake familiarity for comfort</li><li>The illusion of change: why “this time will be different” rarely is</li><li>Comfort vs. growth: why peace feels wrong if you’re used to chaos</li><li>Why good people choose bad love (and how childhood scripts shape us)</li><li>Breaking the cycle: stories of those who did… and those who didn’t</li><li>Reflection exercise to spot your relationship patterns</li><li>How to show up for yourself, time after time</li></ul>Reflection Questions:<ul><li>What similarities do your last three relationships share?</li><li>Is this a preference… or a pattern?</li><li>What’s one thing you’ve accepted time after time that you will no longer accept?</li></ul>📝 Show Notes]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2bb5422b-7a07-452f-ba84-4a5c6033c585</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 21:25:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67461632/430b2584_a328_b051_b758_1fc650ef9969.mp3" length="29899712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and real-life scenarios, we uncover the hidden patterns that keep us hooked on the wrong relationships. You’ll hear about the illusion of change, why familiarity feels safer than growth, and how to finally break the cycle for good.This isn’t just another “relationship talk.” This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and begin choosing differently — time after time.<ul><li>The pattern trap: why we mistake familiarity for comfort</li><li>The illusion of change: why “this time will be different” rarely is</li><li>Comfort vs. growth: why peace feels wrong if you’re used to chaos</li><li>Why good people choose bad love (and how childhood scripts shape us)</li><li>Breaking the cycle: stories of those who did… and those who didn’t</li><li>Reflection exercise to spot your relationship patterns</li><li>How to show up for yourself, time after time</li></ul>Reflection Questions:<ul><li>What similarities do your last three relationships share?</li><li>Is this a preference… or a pattern?</li><li>What’s one thing you’ve accepted time after time that you will no longer accept?</li></ul>📝 Show Notes]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1245</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/473e064f4744ed248a52df660550750b.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>249</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Every Breath You Take: Was He Really the One Who Got Away? | Ep 248</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/every-breath-you-take-was-he-really-the-one-who-got-away-ep-248--67460042</link><description><![CDATA[This episode borrows its title from one of the most famous songs of the ’80s — a track so haunting and unforgettable it became a global anthem of longing. Years later, it was reimagined by The Notorious B.I.G., introducing a whole new generation to its power.But here’s the question: Why does a song like that still resonate? Because we all know the feeling of watching, waiting, and wondering about someone who slipped out of our lives. Was he the one who got away, or just the one who broke you?In Episode 248 of You’re Probably Right, we go beyond the lyrics, beyond the nostalgia, and into the real-life stories of love lost, heartbreak, and the myths we tell ourselves about “the one.”📝 Show Notes (Spotify-Safe but Intriguing)<ul><li>Why we romanticize people who hurt us</li><li>Nostalgia vs. reality — editing out the pain</li><li>What heartbreak teaches us (whether we like it or not)</li><li>Why most “one that got away” stories don’t hold up under truth</li><li>The rare times love circles back — and why they’re rare</li><li>Reflection questions to help you let go, or let in someone new</li></ul>Reflection Prompt:<ul><li>What are you really missing — him, or how you felt when it was good?</li><li>Would you take back the joy if it meant living with the same pain again?</li></ul>yprpodcast@gmail.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9764fed2-fc5d-48c5-aaa3-89d54c8fee98</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 20:19:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67460042/442068d3_496f_7131_2c78_48c589a3c410.mp3" length="29252711" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode borrows its title from one of the most famous songs of the ’80s — a track so haunting and unforgettable it became a global anthem of longing. Years later, it was reimagined by The Notorious B.I.G., introducing a whole new generation to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode borrows its title from one of the most famous songs of the ’80s — a track so haunting and unforgettable it became a global anthem of longing. Years later, it was reimagined by The Notorious B.I.G., introducing a whole new generation to its power.But here’s the question: Why does a song like that still resonate? Because we all know the feeling of watching, waiting, and wondering about someone who slipped out of our lives. Was he the one who got away, or just the one who broke you?In Episode 248 of You’re Probably Right, we go beyond the lyrics, beyond the nostalgia, and into the real-life stories of love lost, heartbreak, and the myths we tell ourselves about “the one.”📝 Show Notes (Spotify-Safe but Intriguing)<ul><li>Why we romanticize people who hurt us</li><li>Nostalgia vs. reality — editing out the pain</li><li>What heartbreak teaches us (whether we like it or not)</li><li>Why most “one that got away” stories don’t hold up under truth</li><li>The rare times love circles back — and why they’re rare</li><li>Reflection questions to help you let go, or let in someone new</li></ul>Reflection Prompt:<ul><li>What are you really missing — him, or how you felt when it was good?</li><li>Would you take back the joy if it meant living with the same pain again?</li></ul>yprpodcast@gmail.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1219</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cbc6fc448e6c19517ed7c950eabdf1a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>248</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EP247 – The 10 Signs He’s Just Not Into You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep247-the-10-signs-he-s-just-not-into-you--67450530</link><description><![CDATA[📄 Description (for Spotify)In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into the truth every woman needs to face in dating: knowing when a man simply isn’t serious about you.Over 10 vivid, real-world signs, we explore the ways men reveal their lack of commitment—whether it’s late-night “what are you doing?” texts, endless future promises that never happen, or avoiding defining the relationship altogether.This is not about shame. It’s about clarity. Because the sooner you see the truth, the sooner you can stop wasting time on men who don’t value you, and start saving your heart for the one who will.Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>Why does inconsistency in his calls and texts reveal the truth about his priorities?</li><li>How do you know if he only values you for physical access?</li><li>What does “I’m not ready for a relationship” really mean?</li><li>Why does it matter if he never brings you into his family or friend circle?</li><li>What is “future-faking,” and why is it so dangerous?</li><li>How do you spot the difference between being “busy” and being uninterested?</li><li>What does it mean when he keeps you a secret?</li><li>How does a man’s reaction to your success reveal his heart?</li><li>Why is public flirting in front of you one of the biggest red flags?</li><li>How can you stop wasting time in a “situationship” that will never grow?</li></ul>This episode isn’t about bitterness—it’s about self-respect. A man who truly wants you won’t make you wonder. He’ll show you, clearly and consistently.📝 Show Notes]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0b88dc5e-4f96-4379-b0f8-b62b2421d4eb</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 03:43:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67450530/714e3700_c183_9e38_41c1_123c30d14946.mp3" length="42700195" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>📄 Description (for Spotify)In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into the truth every woman needs to face in dating: knowing when a man simply isn’t serious about you.Over 10 vivid, real-world signs, we explore the ways men reveal...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[📄 Description (for Spotify)In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into the truth every woman needs to face in dating: knowing when a man simply isn’t serious about you.Over 10 vivid, real-world signs, we explore the ways men reveal their lack of commitment—whether it’s late-night “what are you doing?” texts, endless future promises that never happen, or avoiding defining the relationship altogether.This is not about shame. It’s about clarity. Because the sooner you see the truth, the sooner you can stop wasting time on men who don’t value you, and start saving your heart for the one who will.Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>Why does inconsistency in his calls and texts reveal the truth about his priorities?</li><li>How do you know if he only values you for physical access?</li><li>What does “I’m not ready for a relationship” really mean?</li><li>Why does it matter if he never brings you into his family or friend circle?</li><li>What is “future-faking,” and why is it so dangerous?</li><li>How do you spot the difference between being “busy” and being uninterested?</li><li>What does it mean when he keeps you a secret?</li><li>How does a man’s reaction to your success reveal his heart?</li><li>Why is public flirting in front of you one of the biggest red flags?</li><li>How can you stop wasting time in a “situationship” that will never grow?</li></ul>This episode isn’t about bitterness—it’s about self-respect. A man who truly wants you won’t make you wonder. He’ll show you, clearly and consistently.📝 Show Notes]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1779</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/055ea53f02c3b74d1beda19b01949881.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>247</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EP246 – The 7 Signs She’s Just Not Into You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep246-the-7-signs-she-s-just-not-into-you--67450246</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into one of the toughest truths men face in dating: knowing when she’s just not interested.For 44 minutes, I walk you through the signs most guys miss—signs that end up wasting months or even years of their lives. From canceled plans to cold body language, from endless “I’m busy” excuses to watching her flirt with someone else right in front of you, these are the red flags you can’t afford to ignore.If you’ve ever found yourself chasing, over-explaining, or settling for scraps of attention, this episode is for you.Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>How do you know when she’s canceling because she’s busy… or because she just doesn’t care?</li><li>What does her phone say about her interest in you?</li><li>Why do short, one-word texts matter more than you think?</li><li>How can you tell the difference between “shy” and “avoiding intimacy”?</li><li>What does her body language reveal that her words never will?</li><li>Why is it a mistake to compete for her attention when she’s flirting with others?</li><li>What’s the danger of ignoring these signs and staying too long?</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about clarity. The goal is to help you stop wasting time where it’s not valued, and create space for real, genuine connection.📝 Show Notes<br />Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>How do you know when she’s canceling because she’s busy… or because she just doesn’t care?</li><li>What does her phone say about her interest in you?</li><li>Why do short, one-word texts matter more than you think?</li><li>How can you tell the difference between “shy” and “avoiding intimacy”?</li><li>What does her body language reveal that her words never will?</li><li>Why is it a mistake to compete for her attention when she’s flirting with others?</li><li>What’s the danger of ignoring these signs and staying too long?</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about clarity. The goal is to help you stop wasting time where it’s not valued, and create space for real, genuine connection.<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6027b24b-6671-4ce3-b812-d6455f01b622</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 02:49:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67450246/46495d64_dd54_6934_86ba_59cbf39b4cbe.mp3" length="64706509" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into one of the toughest truths men face in dating: knowing when she’s just not interested.For 44 minutes, I walk you through the signs most guys miss—signs that end up wasting months or even...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive deep into one of the toughest truths men face in dating: knowing when she’s just not interested.For 44 minutes, I walk you through the signs most guys miss—signs that end up wasting months or even years of their lives. From canceled plans to cold body language, from endless “I’m busy” excuses to watching her flirt with someone else right in front of you, these are the red flags you can’t afford to ignore.If you’ve ever found yourself chasing, over-explaining, or settling for scraps of attention, this episode is for you.Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>How do you know when she’s canceling because she’s busy… or because she just doesn’t care?</li><li>What does her phone say about her interest in you?</li><li>Why do short, one-word texts matter more than you think?</li><li>How can you tell the difference between “shy” and “avoiding intimacy”?</li><li>What does her body language reveal that her words never will?</li><li>Why is it a mistake to compete for her attention when she’s flirting with others?</li><li>What’s the danger of ignoring these signs and staying too long?</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about clarity. The goal is to help you stop wasting time where it’s not valued, and create space for real, genuine connection.📝 Show Notes<br />Questions we explore in this episode:<ul><li>How do you know when she’s canceling because she’s busy… or because she just doesn’t care?</li><li>What does her phone say about her interest in you?</li><li>Why do short, one-word texts matter more than you think?</li><li>How can you tell the difference between “shy” and “avoiding intimacy”?</li><li>What does her body language reveal that her words never will?</li><li>Why is it a mistake to compete for her attention when she’s flirting with others?</li><li>What’s the danger of ignoring these signs and staying too long?</li></ul>This isn’t about shame—it’s about clarity. The goal is to help you stop wasting time where it’s not valued, and create space for real, genuine connection.<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2696</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/74ac36acbd2a036463ad20aa9f5f1c0d.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>246</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Fight Fair: 7 Conflict Rules That Can Save a Marriage | You’re Probably Right (Ep. 245)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-fight-fair-7-conflict-rules-that-can-save-a-marriage-you-re-probably-right-ep-245--67448480</link><description><![CDATA[Conflict is inevitable — but unfair conflict can destroy love. In Episode 245 of You’re Probably Right, we unpack 7 battle-tested rules that help couples argue without tearing each other apart. From learning to pause before reacting, to avoiding low blows, to repairing with “touch gloves,” these principles transform fights into opportunities for connection.Whether you’re married, dating, or simply want healthier communication, this episode gives you a blueprint for fighting fair — so your relationship grows stronger instead of weaker.<ul><li>00:00 – Intro | Why fighting fair matters in love &amp; marriage</li><li>01:57 – The truth about conflict | It’s not the fight, it’s how you fight</li><li>06:11 – Rule 1: Pause Before You Swing | The pause is power</li><li>11:04 – Rule 2: Attack the Problem, Not the Person | Team first, not enemies</li><li>14:12 – Rule 3: Keep the Fight in the Ring | Don’t drag in old arguments</li><li>16:50 – Rule 4: Respect the Referee (Boundaries) | Knowing when to call time-out</li><li>22:23 – Rule 5: No Low Blows (Words That Scar) | Why some words never fade</li><li>26:28 – Rule 6: Replay the Tape Together | Learning from conflict patterns</li><li>27:42 – Rule 7: Touch Gloves, Reconnect | Rituals for repair &amp; intimacy</li><li>29:42 – Closing | Why fighting fair deepens love</li></ul>fight fair in marriage, conflict resolution for couples, how to save a marriage, healthy arguments in relationships, husband and wife communication🕒 Time-Stamped Show Notes🔍 Keywords (SEO)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0671e87e-a31f-4f3c-a93d-4e249401f5ef</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 21:43:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67448480/a5e194ad_61af_eeff_13de_81c879209733.mp3" length="45694101" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Conflict is inevitable — but unfair conflict can destroy love. In Episode 245 of You’re Probably Right, we unpack 7 battle-tested rules that help couples argue without tearing each other apart. From learning to pause before reacting, to avoiding low...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Conflict is inevitable — but unfair conflict can destroy love. In Episode 245 of You’re Probably Right, we unpack 7 battle-tested rules that help couples argue without tearing each other apart. From learning to pause before reacting, to avoiding low blows, to repairing with “touch gloves,” these principles transform fights into opportunities for connection.Whether you’re married, dating, or simply want healthier communication, this episode gives you a blueprint for fighting fair — so your relationship grows stronger instead of weaker.<ul><li>00:00 – Intro | Why fighting fair matters in love &amp; marriage</li><li>01:57 – The truth about conflict | It’s not the fight, it’s how you fight</li><li>06:11 – Rule 1: Pause Before You Swing | The pause is power</li><li>11:04 – Rule 2: Attack the Problem, Not the Person | Team first, not enemies</li><li>14:12 – Rule 3: Keep the Fight in the Ring | Don’t drag in old arguments</li><li>16:50 – Rule 4: Respect the Referee (Boundaries) | Knowing when to call time-out</li><li>22:23 – Rule 5: No Low Blows (Words That Scar) | Why some words never fade</li><li>26:28 – Rule 6: Replay the Tape Together | Learning from conflict patterns</li><li>27:42 – Rule 7: Touch Gloves, Reconnect | Rituals for repair &amp; intimacy</li><li>29:42 – Closing | Why fighting fair deepens love</li></ul>fight fair in marriage, conflict resolution for couples, how to save a marriage, healthy arguments in relationships, husband and wife communication🕒 Time-Stamped Show Notes🔍 Keywords (SEO)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1904</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9623988bdd869ba517157ea3703544a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>245</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 244 - Pulling Back Isn’t Power</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-244-pulling-back-isn-t-power--67442228</link><description><![CDATA[Everyone says it: “Pull back your energy. Let them miss you. Stay silent and they’ll value you more.” It’s the advice plastered across TikTok, Instagram, and dating podcasts. But what if that’s not power — what if it’s avoidance?In this episode of You’re Probably Right with MCM, I challenge the popular mantra of withdrawing your presence as a strategy in relationships. If you feel like a backup option, you don’t need silence or games — you need communication. Real confidence isn’t disappearing to test someone; it’s speaking honestly, even if your voice shakes.We break down why emotional withdrawal isn’t strength, how uncertainty doesn’t create value, and why clarity beats scarcity-driven tricks every time. If you’re tired of gimmicky relationship advice and want real talk about respect, connection, and maturity, this episode is for you.👉 Keywords: relationship advice, dating podcast, pull back energy, communication vs silence, backup option, emotional maturity, stop playing games, self-worth, You’re Probably Right Podcast, MCM<br />📌 Time-Stamped Show Notes<ul><li>00:01 – Why silence has been sold as “power” in modern dating advice</li><li>02:00 – Why pulling back often feels unnatural and manipulative</li><li>05:15 – Since when did emotional withdrawal become strength?</li><li>06:00 – The real alternative: speaking up without drama or games</li><li>07:45 – Why tricking someone into caring always backfires</li><li>10:45 – Point 1: Pulling back isn’t power, it’s fear in disguise</li><li>13:45 – Point 2: Uncertainty doesn’t equal value in relationships</li><li>17:00 – Point 3: Communication is the real test of maturity</li><li>20:20 – Point 4: Withholding is a game, not a standard</li><li>22:00 – Point 5: If they only want you when you disappear, that’s a red flag</li><li>24:00 – Point 6: Your energy isn’t a weapon — stop using it as leverage</li><li>25:50 – Point 7: You’re not a backup, so don’t act like one</li><li>27:30 – Closing reflection: why honesty beats avoidance every time</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4bf2831b-40e9-4fde-bc19-ffacb5e796c6</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 16:21:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67442228/ee211dba_7691_ace4_ce05_ed83d56ae718.mp3" length="48323619" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Everyone says it: “Pull back your energy. Let them miss you. Stay silent and they’ll value you more.” It’s the advice plastered across TikTok, Instagram, and dating podcasts. But what if that’s not power — what if it’s avoidance?In this episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everyone says it: “Pull back your energy. Let them miss you. Stay silent and they’ll value you more.” It’s the advice plastered across TikTok, Instagram, and dating podcasts. But what if that’s not power — what if it’s avoidance?In this episode of You’re Probably Right with MCM, I challenge the popular mantra of withdrawing your presence as a strategy in relationships. If you feel like a backup option, you don’t need silence or games — you need communication. Real confidence isn’t disappearing to test someone; it’s speaking honestly, even if your voice shakes.We break down why emotional withdrawal isn’t strength, how uncertainty doesn’t create value, and why clarity beats scarcity-driven tricks every time. If you’re tired of gimmicky relationship advice and want real talk about respect, connection, and maturity, this episode is for you.👉 Keywords: relationship advice, dating podcast, pull back energy, communication vs silence, backup option, emotional maturity, stop playing games, self-worth, You’re Probably Right Podcast, MCM<br />📌 Time-Stamped Show Notes<ul><li>00:01 – Why silence has been sold as “power” in modern dating advice</li><li>02:00 – Why pulling back often feels unnatural and manipulative</li><li>05:15 – Since when did emotional withdrawal become strength?</li><li>06:00 – The real alternative: speaking up without drama or games</li><li>07:45 – Why tricking someone into caring always backfires</li><li>10:45 – Point 1: Pulling back isn’t power, it’s fear in disguise</li><li>13:45 – Point 2: Uncertainty doesn’t equal value in relationships</li><li>17:00 – Point 3: Communication is the real test of maturity</li><li>20:20 – Point 4: Withholding is a game, not a standard</li><li>22:00 – Point 5: If they only want you when you disappear, that’s a red flag</li><li>24:00 – Point 6: Your energy isn’t a weapon — stop using it as leverage</li><li>25:50 – Point 7: You’re not a backup, so don’t act like one</li><li>27:30 – Closing reflection: why honesty beats avoidance every time</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2013</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6942e55bb6094e34d8229769aa9a9a1c.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>244</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 243: 20 Questions Men Wish You’d Never Ask</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-243-20-questions-men-wish-you-d-never-ask--67429004</link><description><![CDATA[What happens when a man answers the questions he's never supposed to answer? In this bold, raw episode of You're Probably Right, host M.C.M. takes on 20 deeply uncomfortable questions about masculinity, relationships, vulnerability, and how it really feels to be a man in today's shifting culture.From emotional labour to outdated expectations, weaponized incompetence to quiet grief—nothing is off-limits. Whether you're a husband, father, boyfriend, or woman trying to understand the emotional maze of modern men, this episode will challenge you to listen differently.🎧 Why listen?<ul><li>Get a rare unfiltered male perspective on love, pressure, loneliness, and legacy.</li><li>Hear M.C.M.’s honest take on questions most men avoid—even from themselves.</li><li>Perfect for couples, individuals in therapy, or anyone navigating emotional disconnects.</li></ul>📌 SEO Keywords:<br />masculinity podcast, men's mental health, emotional labour in relationships, vulnerability in men, modern masculinity 2025, relationship advice podcast, weaponized incompetence, men's perspective dating, single fathers podcast, emotional connection00:00 – Show intro: “You're Probably Right” and podcast vibes<br />00:47 – Talking to yourself, podcasting, and psychology<br />02:06 – Episode theme: Why these 20 questions matter<br />02:54 – Intro to Episode 243: What makes this one different<br />04:29 – Question 1: Emotional safety net—but no one checks on you<br />06:47 – Question 2: Pressure to act “manly” vs. honest exhaustion<br />10:20 – Question 3: Talking about sexual insecurities with male friends<br />12:02 – Question 4: Vulnerability = soft or lazy?<br />15:31 – Question 5: Weaponized incompetence—joke or truth?<br />20:08 – Question 6: Is masculinity outdated but still expected?<br />23:18 – Question 7: Does showing weakness lose man-status?<br />(Continue timestamps in the next segment if needed)👉 Subscribe &amp; Share<br />If any of these hit close to home, share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Hit subscribe, leave a rating, and drop a comment:<br />Which question hit hardest—and which one should we be asking more?🔗 Find more episodes &amp; blog posts at: https://yprpodcast.com/🎙️ Follow M.C.M. on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Instagram @youreprobablyrightpod🕒 TIMESTAMPS (Topic Breakdown)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">13db817c-e4fd-41df-8b7c-9466517c8e12</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 03:14:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67429004/6f6c4ced_f2f9_7a47_7060_57fbe5cb8b16.mp3" length="71085395" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What happens when a man answers the questions he's never supposed to answer? In this bold, raw episode of You're Probably Right, host M.C.M. takes on 20 deeply uncomfortable questions about masculinity, relationships, vulnerability, and how it really...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when a man answers the questions he's never supposed to answer? In this bold, raw episode of You're Probably Right, host M.C.M. takes on 20 deeply uncomfortable questions about masculinity, relationships, vulnerability, and how it really feels to be a man in today's shifting culture.From emotional labour to outdated expectations, weaponized incompetence to quiet grief—nothing is off-limits. Whether you're a husband, father, boyfriend, or woman trying to understand the emotional maze of modern men, this episode will challenge you to listen differently.🎧 Why listen?<ul><li>Get a rare unfiltered male perspective on love, pressure, loneliness, and legacy.</li><li>Hear M.C.M.’s honest take on questions most men avoid—even from themselves.</li><li>Perfect for couples, individuals in therapy, or anyone navigating emotional disconnects.</li></ul>📌 SEO Keywords:<br />masculinity podcast, men's mental health, emotional labour in relationships, vulnerability in men, modern masculinity 2025, relationship advice podcast, weaponized incompetence, men's perspective dating, single fathers podcast, emotional connection00:00 – Show intro: “You're Probably Right” and podcast vibes<br />00:47 – Talking to yourself, podcasting, and psychology<br />02:06 – Episode theme: Why these 20 questions matter<br />02:54 – Intro to Episode 243: What makes this one different<br />04:29 – Question 1: Emotional safety net—but no one checks on you<br />06:47 – Question 2: Pressure to act “manly” vs. honest exhaustion<br />10:20 – Question 3: Talking about sexual insecurities with male friends<br />12:02 – Question 4: Vulnerability = soft or lazy?<br />15:31 – Question 5: Weaponized incompetence—joke or truth?<br />20:08 – Question 6: Is masculinity outdated but still expected?<br />23:18 – Question 7: Does showing weakness lose man-status?<br />(Continue timestamps in the next segment if needed)👉 Subscribe &amp; Share<br />If any of these hit close to home, share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Hit subscribe, leave a rating, and drop a comment:<br />Which question hit hardest—and which one should we be asking more?🔗 Find more episodes &amp; blog posts at: https://yprpodcast.com/🎙️ Follow M.C.M. on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Instagram @youreprobablyrightpod🕒 TIMESTAMPS (Topic Breakdown)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2962</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d357b23b5278e5af6aa53c75c0f3cda5.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>243</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 242 - Why Women Say They Want Vulnerable Men, But Don’t Always Choose Them</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-242-why-women-say-they-want-vulnerable-men-but-don-t-always-choose-them--67424439</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, host MCM breaks down one of the most confusing parts of modern dating: why men are told to open up, but often penalized when they do. We explore the science of first impressions, the psychology of attraction, men’s mental health stigma, and why timing and framing make vulnerability either magnetic or off-putting.Through storytelling, research, and real-world examples, you’ll learn:<ul><li>Why women’s desire in men balances confidence with emotional intimacy</li><li>How psychology explains dating double standards</li><li>The three dials of male vulnerability: timing, framing, and dose</li><li>Guidance for both men and women on building trust without killing attraction</li></ul>🎧 Listen in for insight, perspective, and practical advice you won’t find on dating apps.Keywords: dating psychology, emotional intimacy, men’s mental health, women’s desire, relationships, vulnerability, attraction, modern dating<br /><br />Here are the sources referenced in your episode, formatted cleanly for the notes:<ul><li>Tracy, J. L., &amp; Beall, A. T. (2011). The Sexual Dimorphism in Pride: Men’s Pride Displays Increase Sexual Attractiveness. PubMed: <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Research on online dating self-disclosure and desirability. ResearchGate: <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Chatmon, B. N. (2020). The Crisis of Male Mental Health. PMC: <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>McKenzie, S. K., et al. (2022). Masculinity, Mental Health, and Stigma. PMC: <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Pluralistic Ignorance in Men’s Help-Seeking. SpringerLink: <a href="https://link.springer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Dating App Survey on Vulnerability. TIME Magazine: <a href="https://time.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Sprecher, S., &amp; Hendrick, S. (2004). Self-Disclosure and Relationship Satisfaction. Tutor2U: <a href="https://tutor2u.net/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Logan Ury case study on dating and vulnerability. TIME Magazine: <a href="https://time.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Relationship check-ins and intimacy building. SELF Magazine: <a href="https://www.self.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">99019962-9b4b-4b8c-a74b-4d8bab207e0d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2025 21:25:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67424439/51ea4256_0d65_e921_6924_eb89f5839f5a.mp3" length="44265855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of You’re Probably Right, host MCM breaks down one of the most confusing parts of modern dating: why men are told to open up, but often penalized when they do. We explore the science of first impressions, the psychology of attraction,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of You’re Probably Right, host MCM breaks down one of the most confusing parts of modern dating: why men are told to open up, but often penalized when they do. We explore the science of first impressions, the psychology of attraction, men’s mental health stigma, and why timing and framing make vulnerability either magnetic or off-putting.Through storytelling, research, and real-world examples, you’ll learn:<ul><li>Why women’s desire in men balances confidence with emotional intimacy</li><li>How psychology explains dating double standards</li><li>The three dials of male vulnerability: timing, framing, and dose</li><li>Guidance for both men and women on building trust without killing attraction</li></ul>🎧 Listen in for insight, perspective, and practical advice you won’t find on dating apps.Keywords: dating psychology, emotional intimacy, men’s mental health, women’s desire, relationships, vulnerability, attraction, modern dating<br /><br />Here are the sources referenced in your episode, formatted cleanly for the notes:<ul><li>Tracy, J. L., &amp; Beall, A. T. (2011). The Sexual Dimorphism in Pride: Men’s Pride Displays Increase Sexual Attractiveness. PubMed: <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Research on online dating self-disclosure and desirability. ResearchGate: <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Chatmon, B. N. (2020). The Crisis of Male Mental Health. PMC: <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>McKenzie, S. K., et al. (2022). Masculinity, Mental Health, and Stigma. PMC: <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Pluralistic Ignorance in Men’s Help-Seeking. SpringerLink: <a href="https://link.springer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Dating App Survey on Vulnerability. TIME Magazine: <a href="https://time.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Sprecher, S., &amp; Hendrick, S. (2004). Self-Disclosure and Relationship Satisfaction. Tutor2U: <a href="https://tutor2u.net/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Logan Ury case study on dating and vulnerability. TIME Magazine: <a href="https://time.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li><li>Relationship check-ins and intimacy building. SELF Magazine: <a href="https://www.self.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a></li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1844</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/74b1d375dcdccd434042075fa27a7b3c.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>242</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You – Part 3 | You're Probably Right Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-signs-your-partner-doesn-t-actually-love-you-part-3-you-re-probably-right-podcast--67381761</link><description><![CDATA[In the final part of this three-part series, we uncover signs 11–15 that your partner might not truly love you. From open contempt to constantly bringing up their ex, these red flags can help you spot when the relationship isn’t what it seems. We talk blunt truths, real-life examples, and why you deserve respect and genuine affection. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, check them out first.Show Notes &amp; Time Stamps00:00 – Welcome to You’re Probably Right Podcast – no fluff, no filters<br />00:50 – Intro to Part 3 and quick recap of Part 2<br />02:22 – Reminder: This is entertainment first, not absolute advice<br />02:46 – Sign 11: They tell you to your face that they don’t like you<br />05:57 – How contempt destroys respect and affection<br />07:45 – Sign 12: They say or do things just to intentionally hurt you<br />10:48 – The impact of deliberate emotional harm and control<br />11:48 – Sign 13: They constantly bring up their exes<br />14:51 – Why constant ex talk signals unresolved attachment<br />16:56 – Sign 14: They refuse to do simple things for you without reason<br />19:22 – When “I won’t” means deeper disconnection<br />21:44 – Sign 15: They only value you for one specific attribute<br />24:10 – Why conditional love isn’t real love<br />26:30 – Closing thoughts on all 15 signs and what to do next]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ce2a99b7-0b68-40c6-9754-642488c44615</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2025 19:55:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67381761/79684040_1650_0d2f_16c0_e36d5d6d57da.mp3" length="49445270" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the final part of this three-part series, we uncover signs 11–15 that your partner might not truly love you. From open contempt to constantly bringing up their ex, these red flags can help you spot when the relationship isn’t what it seems. We talk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the final part of this three-part series, we uncover signs 11–15 that your partner might not truly love you. From open contempt to constantly bringing up their ex, these red flags can help you spot when the relationship isn’t what it seems. We talk blunt truths, real-life examples, and why you deserve respect and genuine affection. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, check them out first.Show Notes &amp; Time Stamps00:00 – Welcome to You’re Probably Right Podcast – no fluff, no filters<br />00:50 – Intro to Part 3 and quick recap of Part 2<br />02:22 – Reminder: This is entertainment first, not absolute advice<br />02:46 – Sign 11: They tell you to your face that they don’t like you<br />05:57 – How contempt destroys respect and affection<br />07:45 – Sign 12: They say or do things just to intentionally hurt you<br />10:48 – The impact of deliberate emotional harm and control<br />11:48 – Sign 13: They constantly bring up their exes<br />14:51 – Why constant ex talk signals unresolved attachment<br />16:56 – Sign 14: They refuse to do simple things for you without reason<br />19:22 – When “I won’t” means deeper disconnection<br />21:44 – Sign 15: They only value you for one specific attribute<br />24:10 – Why conditional love isn’t real love<br />26:30 – Closing thoughts on all 15 signs and what to do next]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2060</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d9ddb0549d17d15f498d2a0aeb092755.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You – Part 2 | Probably Right Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-signs-your-partner-doesn-t-actually-love-you-part-2-probably-right-podcast--67381760</link><description><![CDATA[In Part 2 of this 3-part series, we dive into signs 6–10 that your partner may not love you the way you deserve. From secrecy around phones and finances to double standards, public embarrassment, and dismissing your opinions—these behaviours chip away at respect and connection. You’ll hear examples, the emotional impact, and why these patterns matter. Remember, it’s about honesty, respect, and protecting your own well-being.00:00 – Introduction<br />Quick welcome and reminder of what the Probably Right Podcast is all about—straight talk, no fluff. Recap of Part 1 and setup for today’s discussion on signs 6–10.02:22 – Sign 6: They’re very protective of their phone or computer and won’t share the password<br />Why extreme secrecy around devices can be a red flag, when it’s a behaviour issue versus a trust issue, and how it impacts closeness.06:41 – Sign 7: They won’t share a bank account even if you’re married<br />What refusing to merge finances can say about trust and commitment, when it might be understandable, and how to talk about money boundaries.12:04 – Sign 8: They act better with others than they do with you – and then say “just accept me”<br />Why this double standard hurts, how it shows up, and why you deserve your partner’s best self at home—not just in public.18:12 – Sign 9: They regularly embarrass you in public<br />The damaging effects of public humiliation, the importance of addressing it quickly, and why a loving partner should have your back.20:50 – Sign 10: They have no respect for your opinion<br />What constant dismissal of your views says about the relationship, how it makes you feel small, and why respect is non-negotiable.27:19 – Closing thoughts<br />Reminder that none of these signs alone necessarily mean your partner doesn’t love you—but repeated patterns are worth a serious conversation. Teaser for Part 3, covering signs 11–15.<br />Show Notes with Timestamps]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">068f80d8-1c60-4332-bbf8-0bcb1506f568</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2025 19:49:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67381760/8eab99e5_e52f_7d3d_1a5d_fd66e2647dd9.mp3" length="39368483" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Part 2 of this 3-part series, we dive into signs 6–10 that your partner may not love you the way you deserve. From secrecy around phones and finances to double standards, public embarrassment, and dismissing your opinions—these behaviours chip away...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Part 2 of this 3-part series, we dive into signs 6–10 that your partner may not love you the way you deserve. From secrecy around phones and finances to double standards, public embarrassment, and dismissing your opinions—these behaviours chip away at respect and connection. You’ll hear examples, the emotional impact, and why these patterns matter. Remember, it’s about honesty, respect, and protecting your own well-being.00:00 – Introduction<br />Quick welcome and reminder of what the Probably Right Podcast is all about—straight talk, no fluff. Recap of Part 1 and setup for today’s discussion on signs 6–10.02:22 – Sign 6: They’re very protective of their phone or computer and won’t share the password<br />Why extreme secrecy around devices can be a red flag, when it’s a behaviour issue versus a trust issue, and how it impacts closeness.06:41 – Sign 7: They won’t share a bank account even if you’re married<br />What refusing to merge finances can say about trust and commitment, when it might be understandable, and how to talk about money boundaries.12:04 – Sign 8: They act better with others than they do with you – and then say “just accept me”<br />Why this double standard hurts, how it shows up, and why you deserve your partner’s best self at home—not just in public.18:12 – Sign 9: They regularly embarrass you in public<br />The damaging effects of public humiliation, the importance of addressing it quickly, and why a loving partner should have your back.20:50 – Sign 10: They have no respect for your opinion<br />What constant dismissal of your views says about the relationship, how it makes you feel small, and why respect is non-negotiable.27:19 – Closing thoughts<br />Reminder that none of these signs alone necessarily mean your partner doesn’t love you—but repeated patterns are worth a serious conversation. Teaser for Part 3, covering signs 11–15.<br />Show Notes with Timestamps]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1640</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6518915284b4a9f6b9c8333e3b4813df.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>241</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Actually Love You (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-signs-your-partner-doesn-t-actually-love-you-part-1--67381763</link><description><![CDATA[In this first part of the three-part series, we break down the first five signs that your partner may not truly love you.<br />From avoiding quality time to speaking to you like a friend instead of a lover, these subtle behaviours can reveal a lot about the state of your relationship.Each sign is explored with real-world examples, psychological insights, and practical advice, helping you recognise patterns that could be harming your connection.<br />Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, these insights can help you see clearly, have honest conversations, and make informed choices about your future.00:00 – Introduction<br />Quick welcome, explanation of the 3-part format, and why these signs matter.02:47 – Opening Monologue<br />Acknowledging how difficult it can be to face doubts and why self-awareness is key in love.05:01 – Sign #1: They Don’t Want to Spend Time with You<ul><li>The difference between being busy and avoiding you</li><li>Body language and behaviour cues</li><li>Expert insights on reduced quality time as a warning sign</li></ul>14:32 – Sign #2: They Don’t Respect Your Time<ul><li>Chronic lateness and last-minute cancellations</li><li>Boundary violations through repeated waiting</li><li>Psychological effects of feeling undervalued</li></ul>21:02 – Sign #3: They Don’t Put Much Thought into Plans<ul><li>One-sided planning patterns</li><li>The toll of always being the organiser</li><li>Why mutual effort matters for connection</li></ul>28:49 – Sign #4: They Don’t Think It’s Worth Their Time Getting Intimate with You<ul><li>Avoidance of physical and emotional closeness</li><li>Possible reasons and what they mean long-term</li><li>Research-backed views on intimacy decline</li></ul>38:16 – Sign #5: They Speak to You Like a Friend, Not a Lover<ul><li>Changes in tone, nicknames, and romantic language</li><li>Signs of “friend-zoning” in a committed relationship</li><li>How loss of verbal intimacy impacts emotional closeness</li></ul>47:53 – Closing Thoughts for Part 1<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c98e3bac-a813-4b48-83f4-ac2a6f95ba94</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2025 19:40:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67381763/2ff25cd2_4c0c_1e53_eb6b_69f0344755a9.mp3" length="75302106" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this first part of the three-part series, we break down the first five signs that your partner may not truly love you.
From avoiding quality time to speaking to you like a friend instead of a lover, these subtle behaviours can reveal a lot about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this first part of the three-part series, we break down the first five signs that your partner may not truly love you.<br />From avoiding quality time to speaking to you like a friend instead of a lover, these subtle behaviours can reveal a lot about the state of your relationship.Each sign is explored with real-world examples, psychological insights, and practical advice, helping you recognise patterns that could be harming your connection.<br />Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, these insights can help you see clearly, have honest conversations, and make informed choices about your future.00:00 – Introduction<br />Quick welcome, explanation of the 3-part format, and why these signs matter.02:47 – Opening Monologue<br />Acknowledging how difficult it can be to face doubts and why self-awareness is key in love.05:01 – Sign #1: They Don’t Want to Spend Time with You<ul><li>The difference between being busy and avoiding you</li><li>Body language and behaviour cues</li><li>Expert insights on reduced quality time as a warning sign</li></ul>14:32 – Sign #2: They Don’t Respect Your Time<ul><li>Chronic lateness and last-minute cancellations</li><li>Boundary violations through repeated waiting</li><li>Psychological effects of feeling undervalued</li></ul>21:02 – Sign #3: They Don’t Put Much Thought into Plans<ul><li>One-sided planning patterns</li><li>The toll of always being the organiser</li><li>Why mutual effort matters for connection</li></ul>28:49 – Sign #4: They Don’t Think It’s Worth Their Time Getting Intimate with You<ul><li>Avoidance of physical and emotional closeness</li><li>Possible reasons and what they mean long-term</li><li>Research-backed views on intimacy decline</li></ul>38:16 – Sign #5: They Speak to You Like a Friend, Not a Lover<ul><li>Changes in tone, nicknames, and romantic language</li><li>Signs of “friend-zoning” in a committed relationship</li><li>How loss of verbal intimacy impacts emotional closeness</li></ul>47:53 – Closing Thoughts for Part 1<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3137</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0eb7dbb94cce6987e4d98bc2cc21ee27.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>241</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 239 - Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship – Part 3</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-239-too-nice-too-quickly-in-a-relationship-part-3--67362590</link><description><![CDATA[In Part 3 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, we explore the deeper emotional and psychological traps that kindness can create when it’s given too fast, too soon. MCM breaks down the subtle ways over-giving can shift power, expectations, and attraction in relationships. This episode unpacks how to balance generosity with self-respect, how to avoid getting trapped in an unbalanced dynamic, and how to protect your energy while still being genuine.If you’ve ever wondered why being “too nice” hasn’t gotten you the love or respect you deserve, this conversation might change how you approach connection forever.Timestamps:<br />00:00 – Intro<br />02:15 – Why being “too nice” is often misunderstood<br />08:40 – Spotting early imbalance in a relationship<br />15:12 – Why boundaries strengthen respect<br />21:48 – Turning “too nice” into healthy giving<br />27:55 – Final thoughts and wrap-upListen now and take control of your relationship balance.<br /><br /><br />Listen &amp; Watch:<br />🎧 Spotify – Click Here<br />▶️ YouTube – <a href="https://youtube.com/placeholder" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Click Here</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f87c4129-5710-43c9-a5b3-fe15872416d6</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 02:07:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67362590/45c725d1_c006_37ad_bb03_becb5f0fff39.mp3" length="59095249" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Part 3 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, we explore the deeper emotional and psychological traps that kindness can create when it’s given too fast, too soon. MCM breaks down the subtle ways over-giving can shift power, expectations,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Part 3 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, we explore the deeper emotional and psychological traps that kindness can create when it’s given too fast, too soon. MCM breaks down the subtle ways over-giving can shift power, expectations, and attraction in relationships. This episode unpacks how to balance generosity with self-respect, how to avoid getting trapped in an unbalanced dynamic, and how to protect your energy while still being genuine.If you’ve ever wondered why being “too nice” hasn’t gotten you the love or respect you deserve, this conversation might change how you approach connection forever.Timestamps:<br />00:00 – Intro<br />02:15 – Why being “too nice” is often misunderstood<br />08:40 – Spotting early imbalance in a relationship<br />15:12 – Why boundaries strengthen respect<br />21:48 – Turning “too nice” into healthy giving<br />27:55 – Final thoughts and wrap-upListen now and take control of your relationship balance.<br /><br /><br />Listen &amp; Watch:<br />🎧 Spotify – Click Here<br />▶️ YouTube – <a href="https://youtube.com/placeholder" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Click Here</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2462</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/58ce4194ff567685faf70d67a492a46e.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>239</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 239 – Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-239-too-nice-too-quickly-in-a-relationship-part-2--67362591</link><description><![CDATA[In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why overinvesting too soon can lead to imbalance, resentment, and even emotional disconnection.<br />Whether you’ve been told you’re “too nice” or you’ve experienced a partner pulling away after you gave too much too soon, this conversation will give you the clarity to protect your energy and keep your self-worth intact.🎧 Listen to Part 1 here: Episode 239 – Part 1<ul><li>00:00 – Opening thoughts and connection to Part 1</li><li>03:15 – The “Nice Person” trap and why it’s often misunderstood</li><li>07:40 – How early overinvestment shifts power in the relationship</li><li>12:05 – Differentiating generosity from people-pleasing</li><li>18:30 – Avoidant attachment behaviours triggered by overgiving</li><li>25:10 – Building attraction through boundaries and pacing</li><li>32:45 – Real-world examples and personal reflections</li><li>38:20 – Final takeaways and advice for moving forward</li></ul>too nice in a relationship, dating mistakes, overinvesting too soon, avoidant attachment, relationship pacing, setting boundaries, emotional connection, dating advice podcast, MCM You’re Probably Right, relationship self-worth📌 Full Series Playlist: Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship – Parts 1 &amp; 2Timestamps (Main Topics)SEO KeywordsClickable Series Link]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">77bd66cf-3a95-4ce3-9a90-f48300f5559c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 01:53:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67362591/2b4687d6_a396_6f5c_75bd_11237a4ff19c.mp3" length="101707024" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why overinvesting too soon can lead to imbalance, resentment, and even emotional disconnection.<br />Whether you’ve been told you’re “too nice” or you’ve experienced a partner pulling away after you gave too much too soon, this conversation will give you the clarity to protect your energy and keep your self-worth intact.🎧 Listen to Part 1 here: Episode 239 – Part 1<ul><li>00:00 – Opening thoughts and connection to Part 1</li><li>03:15 – The “Nice Person” trap and why it’s often misunderstood</li><li>07:40 – How early overinvestment shifts power in the relationship</li><li>12:05 – Differentiating generosity from people-pleasing</li><li>18:30 – Avoidant attachment behaviours triggered by overgiving</li><li>25:10 – Building attraction through boundaries and pacing</li><li>32:45 – Real-world examples and personal reflections</li><li>38:20 – Final takeaways and advice for moving forward</li></ul>too nice in a relationship, dating mistakes, overinvesting too soon, avoidant attachment, relationship pacing, setting boundaries, emotional connection, dating advice podcast, MCM You’re Probably Right, relationship self-worth📌 Full Series Playlist: Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship – Parts 1 &amp; 2Timestamps (Main Topics)SEO KeywordsClickable Series Link]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4238</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/956d7d71288a2b4de3bba94675cf95b6.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>239</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 239 - Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-239-too-nice-too-quickly-in-a-relationship-part-1--67362594</link><description><![CDATA[In Part 1 of this three-part deep dive, we explore why being “too nice” too quickly can backfire—especially when dealing with avoidant partners. Drawing from eight key reflections, this first segment covers shifts 1 through 3, unpacking the subtle behaviours that can unintentionally erode attraction and respect.We’ll look at how over-giving, rushing emotional intimacy, and neglecting personal boundaries can create imbalance, and why these patterns are often misunderstood as kindness. This episode challenges you to rethink the way you show care in relationships, helping you set a foundation for genuine connection without losing yourself.0:00 – Opening monologue &amp; episode overview<br />2:15 – Introduction to “too nice too soon” and avoidant dynamics<br />5:47 – Shift 1: Recognising over-giving as a form of self-abandonment<br />12:30 – Why over-investment early on feels needy, not generous<br />17:55 – Shift 2: The importance of pacing emotional intimacy<br />24:20 – Avoidant reactions to early emotional overexposure<br />31:05 – Shift 3: The role of personal boundaries in building respect<br />37:50 – How to hold space without overextending yourself<br />43:15 – Closing thoughts for Part 1 and setup for Part 2relationship advice, dating mistakes, avoidant attachment, emotional boundaries, too nice too soon, over-giving in relationships, dating red flags, emotional intimacy pacing, healthy relationship habits, attraction killers⏱ Timestamped Show Notes (Clickable)🔍 SEO Keywords]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">63fe8a4b-43f0-4861-ab6e-96f708770af4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 01:40:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67362594/7728cb39_8d81_3618_13dc_3e4a098c97f4.mp3" length="82461884" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Part 1 of this three-part deep dive, we explore why being “too nice” too quickly can backfire—especially when dealing with avoidant partners. Drawing from eight key reflections, this first segment covers shifts 1 through 3, unpacking the subtle...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Part 1 of this three-part deep dive, we explore why being “too nice” too quickly can backfire—especially when dealing with avoidant partners. Drawing from eight key reflections, this first segment covers shifts 1 through 3, unpacking the subtle behaviours that can unintentionally erode attraction and respect.We’ll look at how over-giving, rushing emotional intimacy, and neglecting personal boundaries can create imbalance, and why these patterns are often misunderstood as kindness. This episode challenges you to rethink the way you show care in relationships, helping you set a foundation for genuine connection without losing yourself.0:00 – Opening monologue &amp; episode overview<br />2:15 – Introduction to “too nice too soon” and avoidant dynamics<br />5:47 – Shift 1: Recognising over-giving as a form of self-abandonment<br />12:30 – Why over-investment early on feels needy, not generous<br />17:55 – Shift 2: The importance of pacing emotional intimacy<br />24:20 – Avoidant reactions to early emotional overexposure<br />31:05 – Shift 3: The role of personal boundaries in building respect<br />37:50 – How to hold space without overextending yourself<br />43:15 – Closing thoughts for Part 1 and setup for Part 2relationship advice, dating mistakes, avoidant attachment, emotional boundaries, too nice too soon, over-giving in relationships, dating red flags, emotional intimacy pacing, healthy relationship habits, attraction killers⏱ Timestamped Show Notes (Clickable)🔍 SEO Keywords]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3436</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bcd2e30240412b70f027550d49736c86.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>239</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 238 – From Losing Yourself to Loving Yourself: Rebuilding Self-Respect After a One-Sided Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-238-from-losing-yourself-to-loving-yourself-rebuilding-self-respect-after-a-one-sided-relationship--67351403</link><description><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the one thing that can make or break every relationship: self-respect.From spotting the subtle ways you lose yourself in love, to understanding why constant giving never earns lasting affection, this conversation is raw, practical, and eye-opening. You’ll learn how to identify unhealthy patterns, set non-negotiable boundaries, and rebuild the confidence that makes you magnetic.We cover:<ul><li>The hidden signs you’ve been trading self-respect for love</li><li>Why “transactional caregiving” leaves you empty and resentful</li><li>Step-by-step actions to reclaim your independence without drama</li><li>How to spot a partner who values you over what you give them</li><li>Ways to enter your next relationship stronger than ever</li></ul>If you’ve ever felt unseen, undervalued, or taken for granted, this episode will help you draw the line and choose yourself first — without losing hope in love.🎧 Listen now and share this with a friend who needs to hear it.Keywords: respect, self-respect, boundaries, relationships, personal growth, confidence, emotional intelligence, leadership, communication skills, respect in dating, workplace respect, personal development podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast, Canada<br /><br /><br /><br />Show Notes with Timestamps:<ul><li>00:00 – 03:00 – Opening Monologue: Realizing you’ve lost yourself in a relationship and how it happens gradually over time.</li><li>03:01 – 10:00 – Naming the Pattern: Explaining "transactional caregiving" and why giving endlessly to earn love never works.</li><li>10:01 – 18:00 – Self-Respect Over Love: Discussing why self-respect is the foundation of a healthy relationship and how setting boundaries changes the dynamic.</li><li>18:01 – 30:00 – Steps to Reclaiming Yourself: Practical steps to reclaim your life piece by piece, rebuild confidence, and set non-negotiable boundaries.</li><li>30:01 – 45:00 – Building a Support Network and Dating with Self-Respect: How to broaden your circle and enter new relationships without losing yourself again.</li><li>45:01 – End – The Healing Caveat: Exploring how a healthy new relationship can support healing and the importance of choosing a partner who respects your independence.</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">84776329-7a05-4e22-ace0-263720e2b143</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2025 21:35:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67351403/b101a7c3_f51e_ad36_f0c4_b5e4a71dac7c.mp3" length="77729260" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the one thing that can make or break every relationship: self-respect.From spotting the subtle ways you lose yourself in love, to understanding why constant giving never earns lasting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this powerful episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the one thing that can make or break every relationship: self-respect.From spotting the subtle ways you lose yourself in love, to understanding why constant giving never earns lasting affection, this conversation is raw, practical, and eye-opening. You’ll learn how to identify unhealthy patterns, set non-negotiable boundaries, and rebuild the confidence that makes you magnetic.We cover:<ul><li>The hidden signs you’ve been trading self-respect for love</li><li>Why “transactional caregiving” leaves you empty and resentful</li><li>Step-by-step actions to reclaim your independence without drama</li><li>How to spot a partner who values you over what you give them</li><li>Ways to enter your next relationship stronger than ever</li></ul>If you’ve ever felt unseen, undervalued, or taken for granted, this episode will help you draw the line and choose yourself first — without losing hope in love.🎧 Listen now and share this with a friend who needs to hear it.Keywords: respect, self-respect, boundaries, relationships, personal growth, confidence, emotional intelligence, leadership, communication skills, respect in dating, workplace respect, personal development podcast, MCM, You’re Probably Right Podcast, Canada<br /><br /><br /><br />Show Notes with Timestamps:<ul><li>00:00 – 03:00 – Opening Monologue: Realizing you’ve lost yourself in a relationship and how it happens gradually over time.</li><li>03:01 – 10:00 – Naming the Pattern: Explaining "transactional caregiving" and why giving endlessly to earn love never works.</li><li>10:01 – 18:00 – Self-Respect Over Love: Discussing why self-respect is the foundation of a healthy relationship and how setting boundaries changes the dynamic.</li><li>18:01 – 30:00 – Steps to Reclaiming Yourself: Practical steps to reclaim your life piece by piece, rebuild confidence, and set non-negotiable boundaries.</li><li>30:01 – 45:00 – Building a Support Network and Dating with Self-Respect: How to broaden your circle and enter new relationships without losing yourself again.</li><li>45:01 – End – The Healing Caveat: Exploring how a healthy new relationship can support healing and the importance of choosing a partner who respects your independence.</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3239</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f3f880e3dacd905acbcfc590e9e97cfc.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>238</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 237 – 25 Questions Women Want to Ask Men (But Don’t)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-237-25-questions-women-want-to-ask-men-but-don-t--67326806</link><description><![CDATA[In this unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, I take on 25 straight-to-the-point questions from women about men, dating, and relationships. From why “great guys” are still single to the truth about commitment and attraction, nothing’s off-limits.These aren’t scripted answers — they’re raw, real, and from the heart.Timestamps:<br />00:00 – Intro<br />00:47 – Why this episode is different: 25 real questions from women<br />04:20 – Q1: Why are “great guys” still single?<br />06:36 – Q2: Are some men too picky?<br />10:26 – Q3: What do men want in a partner they haven’t found yet?<br />16:10 – Q4: Are men too focused on looks?<br />21:43 – Q5: Do men hold themselves to the same standards as women?<br />24:14 – Q6: Do strong, independent women intimidate men?<br />31:53 – Q7: Why do men prefer younger women?<br />35:52 – Q8: Why do men struggle with emotional openness?<br />39:54 – Q9: Why do men ghost instead of being honest?<br />44:01 – Q10: Why do men give mixed signals?<br />46:50 – Q11: What’s with one-word texts?<br />49:47 – Q12: Why is communication so hard for men?<br />51:57 – Q13: Are men afraid of commitment?<br />54:01 – Q14: Do men want long-term relationships or prefer being single?<br />56:57 – Q15: Why won’t some men put a label on the relationship?<br />58:51 – Q16: How can a woman tell if a man is serious?<br />01:00:36 – Q17: Why say they want serious but act casual?<br />01:03:55 – Q18: What makes a man finally commit?<br />01:06:10 – Q19: Why do some men expect women to chase them?<br />01:08:44 – Q20: Do men notice the little things women do?<br />01:10:51 – Q21: What’s one thing women misunderstand about men?<br />01:12:43 – Q22: Why do men sometimes pull away when things get serious?<br />01:14:57 – Q23: Do men actually talk about their relationships with friends?<br />01:17:22 – Q24: What makes a man lose interest?<br />01:19:16 – Q25: What do men wish women knew about love?💬 Which question do YOU think men answer the most differently from women’s expectations? Drop your thoughts in the comments.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">31b50842-04de-49ba-97c5-11afcb50ab99</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2025 03:44:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67326806/c83ba355_6b60_03a6_913c_86cc38a17ea3.mp3" length="115174569" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, I take on 25 straight-to-the-point questions from women about men, dating, and relationships. From why “great guys” are still single to the truth about commitment and attraction, nothing’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this unfiltered episode of You’re Probably Right, I take on 25 straight-to-the-point questions from women about men, dating, and relationships. From why “great guys” are still single to the truth about commitment and attraction, nothing’s off-limits.These aren’t scripted answers — they’re raw, real, and from the heart.Timestamps:<br />00:00 – Intro<br />00:47 – Why this episode is different: 25 real questions from women<br />04:20 – Q1: Why are “great guys” still single?<br />06:36 – Q2: Are some men too picky?<br />10:26 – Q3: What do men want in a partner they haven’t found yet?<br />16:10 – Q4: Are men too focused on looks?<br />21:43 – Q5: Do men hold themselves to the same standards as women?<br />24:14 – Q6: Do strong, independent women intimidate men?<br />31:53 – Q7: Why do men prefer younger women?<br />35:52 – Q8: Why do men struggle with emotional openness?<br />39:54 – Q9: Why do men ghost instead of being honest?<br />44:01 – Q10: Why do men give mixed signals?<br />46:50 – Q11: What’s with one-word texts?<br />49:47 – Q12: Why is communication so hard for men?<br />51:57 – Q13: Are men afraid of commitment?<br />54:01 – Q14: Do men want long-term relationships or prefer being single?<br />56:57 – Q15: Why won’t some men put a label on the relationship?<br />58:51 – Q16: How can a woman tell if a man is serious?<br />01:00:36 – Q17: Why say they want serious but act casual?<br />01:03:55 – Q18: What makes a man finally commit?<br />01:06:10 – Q19: Why do some men expect women to chase them?<br />01:08:44 – Q20: Do men notice the little things women do?<br />01:10:51 – Q21: What’s one thing women misunderstand about men?<br />01:12:43 – Q22: Why do men sometimes pull away when things get serious?<br />01:14:57 – Q23: Do men actually talk about their relationships with friends?<br />01:17:22 – Q24: What makes a man lose interest?<br />01:19:16 – Q25: What do men wish women knew about love?💬 Which question do YOU think men answer the most differently from women’s expectations? Drop your thoughts in the comments.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4799</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a001ca45994c35180423c0f9285af7ab.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>237</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ep 236 – What Silence Heard: An Hour-Long Letter from the Avoidant | You're Probably Right Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-236-what-silence-heard-an-hour-long-letter-from-the-avoidant-you-re-probably-right-podcast--67310109</link><description><![CDATA[You thought I didn’t care. The truth is, I cared so much it scared me.”<br />In this intimate, hour-long monologue, MCM steps into the mind of the avoidant — the partner who pulls away, stays silent, and leaves questions unanswered. This is not an apology, not a plea, and not a rebuttal. It’s a rare, unflinching look at what the avoidant carries, what they fear, and what they can’t always say out loud.<br />Whether you’ve been left by an avoidant, loved one, or lived with distance in your relationships, this is a letter you won’t forget.🎧 Listen if you’ve ever:<ul><li>Loved someone who couldn’t let you all the way in</li><li>Wondered what an avoidant truly feels but rarely admits</li><li>Needed a voice to put words to what distance hides</li></ul>📧 Contact: YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎙 Hosted by MCM | You're Probably Right Podcast<br />🔗 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get your shows#avoidantattachment #relationships #breakups #healing #podcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c25bb35a-29f7-4015-9185-1084ff729f92</guid><pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2025 05:31:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67310109/51c8e8e3_35f8_1df2_7aec_a7707c49a1b9.mp3" length="44992045" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You thought I didn’t care. The truth is, I cared so much it scared me.”
In this intimate, hour-long monologue, MCM steps into the mind of the avoidant — the partner who pulls away, stays silent, and leaves questions unanswered. This is not an apology,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You thought I didn’t care. The truth is, I cared so much it scared me.”<br />In this intimate, hour-long monologue, MCM steps into the mind of the avoidant — the partner who pulls away, stays silent, and leaves questions unanswered. This is not an apology, not a plea, and not a rebuttal. It’s a rare, unflinching look at what the avoidant carries, what they fear, and what they can’t always say out loud.<br />Whether you’ve been left by an avoidant, loved one, or lived with distance in your relationships, this is a letter you won’t forget.🎧 Listen if you’ve ever:<ul><li>Loved someone who couldn’t let you all the way in</li><li>Wondered what an avoidant truly feels but rarely admits</li><li>Needed a voice to put words to what distance hides</li></ul>📧 Contact: YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎙 Hosted by MCM | You're Probably Right Podcast<br />🔗 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get your shows#avoidantattachment #relationships #breakups #healing #podcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1875</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9df487f9ce7bacaec313b89e2ebb355b.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>236</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Hiding Who You Are Will Cost You Everything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-hiding-who-you-are-will-cost-you-everything--67281492</link><description><![CDATA[In this solo monologue, M.C.M. drops the filter and speaks truthfully about why we lie at the start of relationships<br />🕰️ Timestamped Show Notes:00:00 – Introduction<br />Welcome to Episode 235. A different format today: a full monologue, read from a personal essay with spontaneous thoughts interspersed.02:16 – Why It’s So Hard to Tell the Truth at the Start<br />Explores the discomfort and fear people feel when entering new relationships, and why vulnerability feels dangerous even though it's necessary.04:31 – The Role of Self-Worth<br />How desperation vs. confidence impacts our willingness to be honest. When you don't value yourself, you're more likely to hide who you are.08:04 – The Chameleon Phase<br />People shapeshift early in relationships to appear more desirable, but it leads to identity loss and a web of lies you can't sustain.11:15 – Real Confidence and Love<br />Discusses what real self-worth looks like and how it empowers honest connection without fear of abandonment.13:08 – How We Learn Worthlessness<br />Unpacks family trauma, rejection, and early life lessons that leave people believing they’re replaceable.16:12 – How Hiding Leads to Settling<br />If you’re not being honest, even love can’t reach you. You end up attracting the wrong people for the wrong reasons.17:05 – The Onion Strategy: Slowly Peeling Back Truth<br />The illusion that we can slowly reveal ourselves works against true connection. Love requires full authenticity.18:46 – The Mask People Love Isn’t You<br />Even if you're “liked,” it's your curated version that gets accepted—not your real self.20:16 – Research on Authenticity<br />Cites psychological studies showing how authenticity leads to greater trust and satisfaction in long-term relationships.21:31 – Settling for Lies Instead of Living in Truth<br />Explores why we lie for clout, pleasure, or status—and why love built on lies isn't love at all.22:46 – Brené Brown and True Belonging<br />Breaks down Brown’s concept that true belonging can’t happen without full self-acceptance.24:22 – Lying to Get Advice<br />Warns that lying to friends or counselors makes their advice useless.25:11 – The Deep Cost of Hiding Yourself<br />Lying might prevent rejection but blocks deep intimacy. True love requires vulnerability.26:33 – Why Fear is the Root of Lying<br />Breaks down different types of fears: rejection, abandonment, loneliness, and losing "the one."30:32 – Fear and Love Can’t Coexist<br />Discusses spiritual truths and psychological insight on how fear kills connection.33:35 – Vulnerability is a Necessity<br />Quotes Brené Brown again. Vulnerability is scary but vital. The alternative is regret.36:38 – Patience and the Long Game<br />You might not get love instantly when you're honest—but you'll get the right kind, in time.39:41 – Suffering Builds Character<br />Uses Scripture and life wisdom to show how struggle prepares you for real love.42:37 – Microwaved Love vs. Slow-Cooked Love<br />Fast romance might feel good but rarely lasts. Long-term love needs slow, truthful roots.44:23 – What We Commonly Hide<br />Lists common things people hide early in relationships: kids, finances, faith, appearance, illness, etc.48:16 – The Fresh Prince Moment<br />Funny but insightful reference to the moment someone reveals everything they’ve hidden—too late.49:14 – Timing Your Honesty<br />You don’t need to info-dump on day one, but never lie about what will matter later.52:03 – Biblical and Practical Truth<br />Reinforces the spiritual and practical need for radical honesty, quoting Scripture.53:30 – Your Honesty is a Filter<br />The truth repels the wrong ones and reveals the right ones.55:07 – The Loneliness of Being Unknown<br />Remaining in a lie-based relationship brings its own unique brand of painful isolation.57:00 – Real Love is Built on Truth<br />Truth clears the way for love that’s rooted in reality. No imposter syndrome, no facade.59:07 – Final Word: Dare to Be Real<br />It’s hard to be honest in a fake world. But truth sets the stage for the love we all want—and deserve.<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">02f3e53e-7b0c-42cf-9047-c28545b8b267</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 04:49:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67281492/563412b2_71f7_28e5_bcee_8b62f1b7bfa3.mp3" length="88820708" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this solo monologue, M.C.M. drops the filter and speaks truthfully about why we lie at the start of relationships
🕰️ Timestamped Show Notes:00:00 – Introduction
Welcome to Episode 235. A different format today: a full monologue, read from a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this solo monologue, M.C.M. drops the filter and speaks truthfully about why we lie at the start of relationships<br />🕰️ Timestamped Show Notes:00:00 – Introduction<br />Welcome to Episode 235. A different format today: a full monologue, read from a personal essay with spontaneous thoughts interspersed.02:16 – Why It’s So Hard to Tell the Truth at the Start<br />Explores the discomfort and fear people feel when entering new relationships, and why vulnerability feels dangerous even though it's necessary.04:31 – The Role of Self-Worth<br />How desperation vs. confidence impacts our willingness to be honest. When you don't value yourself, you're more likely to hide who you are.08:04 – The Chameleon Phase<br />People shapeshift early in relationships to appear more desirable, but it leads to identity loss and a web of lies you can't sustain.11:15 – Real Confidence and Love<br />Discusses what real self-worth looks like and how it empowers honest connection without fear of abandonment.13:08 – How We Learn Worthlessness<br />Unpacks family trauma, rejection, and early life lessons that leave people believing they’re replaceable.16:12 – How Hiding Leads to Settling<br />If you’re not being honest, even love can’t reach you. You end up attracting the wrong people for the wrong reasons.17:05 – The Onion Strategy: Slowly Peeling Back Truth<br />The illusion that we can slowly reveal ourselves works against true connection. Love requires full authenticity.18:46 – The Mask People Love Isn’t You<br />Even if you're “liked,” it's your curated version that gets accepted—not your real self.20:16 – Research on Authenticity<br />Cites psychological studies showing how authenticity leads to greater trust and satisfaction in long-term relationships.21:31 – Settling for Lies Instead of Living in Truth<br />Explores why we lie for clout, pleasure, or status—and why love built on lies isn't love at all.22:46 – Brené Brown and True Belonging<br />Breaks down Brown’s concept that true belonging can’t happen without full self-acceptance.24:22 – Lying to Get Advice<br />Warns that lying to friends or counselors makes their advice useless.25:11 – The Deep Cost of Hiding Yourself<br />Lying might prevent rejection but blocks deep intimacy. True love requires vulnerability.26:33 – Why Fear is the Root of Lying<br />Breaks down different types of fears: rejection, abandonment, loneliness, and losing "the one."30:32 – Fear and Love Can’t Coexist<br />Discusses spiritual truths and psychological insight on how fear kills connection.33:35 – Vulnerability is a Necessity<br />Quotes Brené Brown again. Vulnerability is scary but vital. The alternative is regret.36:38 – Patience and the Long Game<br />You might not get love instantly when you're honest—but you'll get the right kind, in time.39:41 – Suffering Builds Character<br />Uses Scripture and life wisdom to show how struggle prepares you for real love.42:37 – Microwaved Love vs. Slow-Cooked Love<br />Fast romance might feel good but rarely lasts. Long-term love needs slow, truthful roots.44:23 – What We Commonly Hide<br />Lists common things people hide early in relationships: kids, finances, faith, appearance, illness, etc.48:16 – The Fresh Prince Moment<br />Funny but insightful reference to the moment someone reveals everything they’ve hidden—too late.49:14 – Timing Your Honesty<br />You don’t need to info-dump on day one, but never lie about what will matter later.52:03 – Biblical and Practical Truth<br />Reinforces the spiritual and practical need for radical honesty, quoting Scripture.53:30 – Your Honesty is a Filter<br />The truth repels the wrong ones and reveals the right ones.55:07 – The Loneliness of Being Unknown<br />Remaining in a lie-based relationship brings its own unique brand of painful isolation.57:00 – Real Love is Built on Truth<br />Truth clears the way for love that’s rooted in reality. No imposter syndrome, no facade.59:07 – Final Word: Dare to Be Real<br />It’s hard to be...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3701</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b5abfc6879abc7e01d4a70f504d18818.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>235</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-234-is-she-the-woman-and-doesn-t-even-know-it--67248864</link><description><![CDATA[EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?<br />🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with Amsterdam<br />📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a> | <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple</a>She might not show off. She might not know her own value. But real men notice. In Episode 234, Amsterdam lays out 5 traits of a traditional, high-value woman — the kind the world overlooks but every good man prays for. Emotional control, inner confidence, nurturing strength, and grace under pressure. This one’s not about being trendy. It’s about being timeless.00:00 – Opening &amp; Intent:<br />Amsterdam sets the tone — this one’s for women and for men who want to recognize value beyond the surface. A contrast to the earlier episode on men.01:59 – Why this episode matters:<br />Discussion on how traditional femininity is underappreciated — and why it deserves to be recognized and respected.03:25 – Trait 1: Emotional Composure<br />She isn’t cold — she’s composed. Emotional maturity, emotional regulation, and peacefulness as deep power.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [03:25]06:13 – Trait 2: Quiet Confidence<br />She’s not loud, but she’s grounded. Doesn’t need validation to stand firm. How self-assurance in a woman communicates worth without arrogance.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [06:13]09:32 – Trait 3: Nurturing Nature<br />Her strength is in her care. Men protect — she nurtures. The deep value in soft presence and attentiveness.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [09:32]12:29 – Trait 4: Self-Respect &amp; Boundaries<br />She doesn’t tolerate disrespect. Her “no” means something. Boundaries don’t make her harsh — they make her honourable.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [12:29]15:00 – Trait 5: Attentiveness &amp; Support<br />She shows up. She listens. She makes a man feel respected — not belittled. Not just a partner, but a teammate.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [15:00]17:56 – Bonus Segment: 20 Signs She Might Be the Woman<br />A rapid-fire list of signs she’s walking in quiet excellence — even if she doesn’t flaunt it.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [17:56]24:15 – Final Thoughts<br />Encouragement to the woman who quietly holds everything together. The real ones see you. Don’t lose your softness.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [24:15]Description:Timestamps &amp; Segments:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">046c6517-7f44-47d8-8849-13ede79a51d8</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 17:18:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67248864/f43cf994_c948_c862_2482_1472fbf70897.mp3" length="30289214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?
🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with Amsterdam
📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com
🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw |...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[EPISODE 234 — Is She the Woman and Doesn’t Even Know It?<br />🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with Amsterdam<br />📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a> | <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple</a>She might not show off. She might not know her own value. But real men notice. In Episode 234, Amsterdam lays out 5 traits of a traditional, high-value woman — the kind the world overlooks but every good man prays for. Emotional control, inner confidence, nurturing strength, and grace under pressure. This one’s not about being trendy. It’s about being timeless.00:00 – Opening &amp; Intent:<br />Amsterdam sets the tone — this one’s for women and for men who want to recognize value beyond the surface. A contrast to the earlier episode on men.01:59 – Why this episode matters:<br />Discussion on how traditional femininity is underappreciated — and why it deserves to be recognized and respected.03:25 – Trait 1: Emotional Composure<br />She isn’t cold — she’s composed. Emotional maturity, emotional regulation, and peacefulness as deep power.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [03:25]06:13 – Trait 2: Quiet Confidence<br />She’s not loud, but she’s grounded. Doesn’t need validation to stand firm. How self-assurance in a woman communicates worth without arrogance.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [06:13]09:32 – Trait 3: Nurturing Nature<br />Her strength is in her care. Men protect — she nurtures. The deep value in soft presence and attentiveness.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [09:32]12:29 – Trait 4: Self-Respect &amp; Boundaries<br />She doesn’t tolerate disrespect. Her “no” means something. Boundaries don’t make her harsh — they make her honourable.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [12:29]15:00 – Trait 5: Attentiveness &amp; Support<br />She shows up. She listens. She makes a man feel respected — not belittled. Not just a partner, but a teammate.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [15:00]17:56 – Bonus Segment: 20 Signs She Might Be the Woman<br />A rapid-fire list of signs she’s walking in quiet excellence — even if she doesn’t flaunt it.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [17:56]24:15 – Final Thoughts<br />Encouragement to the woman who quietly holds everything together. The real ones see you. Don’t lose your softness.<br />⏱️ Timestamp: [24:15]Description:Timestamps &amp; Segments:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1262</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c846e54142bd117c57701917139c9157.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-233-is-he-the-man-and-you-don-t-even-know-it--67248865</link><description><![CDATA[EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?<br />🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with M.C.M<br />📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a> | <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple</a>Some men walk like lions but never roar. In this episode, MCM breaks down six markers of quiet strength that show a man might be “the one” without even knowing it. He shares stories, real-life imagery, and raw insights on what makes men magnetic without chasing attention. This one’s for the women trying to figure him out—and the men who need to be reminded who they are.00:00 – Intro:<br />MCM sets the tone—genuine talk, no gimmicks. Don’t send him spam collab requests.02:00 – What This Episode’s About:<br />Reframing from “Are you the man?” to “Is he the man?”—this episode serves both women and men.02:34 – Opening Monologue:<br />Why some men shift a room without saying a word. A poetic look at presence.05:13 – Segment 1: Emotional Control:<br />Gentleness in strength—what a bear carrying its young teaches about restraint.07:38 – Segment 2: Quiet Confidence:<br />Why real ones don’t need to perform masculinity—they are it.11:45 – Segment 3: Protective Instincts:<br />Readiness, awareness, and what it means to be a silent shield.14:00 – Segment 4: Self-Respect:<br />He doesn’t need flash. His standards speak for him.15:25 – Segment 5: Attentiveness:<br />How real men listen, observe, and show up for those around them.17:26 – Segment 6: Physical Strength:<br />Not about abs—about capability and willingness.18:42 – Segment 7: 20 Signs He Might Be the Man:<br />From being loyal when no one’s watching to not flirting for sport—20 traits that reveal the real ones.30:16 – Closing Thoughts:<br />They lean on him. They feel safe with him. He might not even know it—but he is that man.Description:Timestamps:<br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b7f99671-6340-472d-aef5-9ef5a3a07e6d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 16:10:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67248865/5d8fa29b_43a5_422c_ef4f_9100d839e735.mp3" length="46967803" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?
🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with M.C.M
📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com
🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw |...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[EPISODE 233 — Is He the Man and You Don’t Even Know It?<br />🎙️ You're Probably Right Podcast with M.C.M<br />📧 YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a> | <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple</a>Some men walk like lions but never roar. In this episode, MCM breaks down six markers of quiet strength that show a man might be “the one” without even knowing it. He shares stories, real-life imagery, and raw insights on what makes men magnetic without chasing attention. This one’s for the women trying to figure him out—and the men who need to be reminded who they are.00:00 – Intro:<br />MCM sets the tone—genuine talk, no gimmicks. Don’t send him spam collab requests.02:00 – What This Episode’s About:<br />Reframing from “Are you the man?” to “Is he the man?”—this episode serves both women and men.02:34 – Opening Monologue:<br />Why some men shift a room without saying a word. A poetic look at presence.05:13 – Segment 1: Emotional Control:<br />Gentleness in strength—what a bear carrying its young teaches about restraint.07:38 – Segment 2: Quiet Confidence:<br />Why real ones don’t need to perform masculinity—they are it.11:45 – Segment 3: Protective Instincts:<br />Readiness, awareness, and what it means to be a silent shield.14:00 – Segment 4: Self-Respect:<br />He doesn’t need flash. His standards speak for him.15:25 – Segment 5: Attentiveness:<br />How real men listen, observe, and show up for those around them.17:26 – Segment 6: Physical Strength:<br />Not about abs—about capability and willingness.18:42 – Segment 7: 20 Signs He Might Be the Man:<br />From being loyal when no one’s watching to not flirting for sport—20 traits that reveal the real ones.30:16 – Closing Thoughts:<br />They lean on him. They feel safe with him. He might not even know it—but he is that man.Description:Timestamps:<br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1957</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bc5a0fc556c693d18f68fb430f382e53.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and Churches</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-232-love-where-you-work-dating-in-workplaces-schools-and-churches--67246389</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and ChurchesDate: August 4, 2025<br />🔗 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a><br />🔗 <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple Podcasts</a>In this episode, MCM gets real about something most people deal with but rarely admit: catching feelings where you work, study, or worship. Can you find love where you spend your days—and not wreck your career or your faith life? Episode 232 breaks down the myths, the risks, the psychology, and the rules. If you’ve ever had a “work wife,” a crush in Bible study, or been tempted to shoot your shot with someone on campus—this one’s for you.<ul><li>Why “don’t date where you work” is outdated</li><li>The real reason proximity builds attraction</li><li>What to watch out for if your spouse works around the opposite sex</li><li>How social media makes us skip real connections</li><li>20 no-BS rules for dating at work, school, or church</li><li>How to handle breakups, boundaries, and gossip</li><li>When it turns into scandal—and how to avoid it</li><li>One couple’s story: from coffee machine to marriage</li><li>MCM’s thoughts on being real, grown, and respectful</li></ul>"Don't overlook your spouse… 'cause someone else might be looking right at your spouse."<ul><li>00:06 — “Love where you work?” intro &amp; audience ask</li><li>07:20 — Segment 1: The myth of “don’t date where you eat”</li><li>21:29 — Segment 2: Why it happens (the psychology of proximity)</li><li>24:31 — Segment 3: Why people still struggle with the idea</li><li>25:54 — Segment 4: 20 ground rules for workplace or school romance</li><li>45:07 — Segment 5: What happens under pressure or breakup</li><li>46:40 — Segment 6: Storytime — from cubicle to covenant</li><li>48:20 — Final thoughts and hard truths</li></ul>👉 Email feedback to: YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 Rate the show on Apple or Spotify (especially if it helped you)<br />📱 Follow on Facebook to stay tapped inDescriptionWhat You'll HearQuote of the EpisodeTimestamps / SegmentsWant to Help?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9448d2b3-f0f1-4a72-a7fa-7da0b4a74144</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 14:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67246389/2c0a057c_600d_a0da_0d22_a3ec75fb02a0.mp3" length="72881827" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and ChurchesDate: August 4, 2025
🔗 https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw
🔗...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 232 — Love Where You Work? Dating in Workplaces, Schools, and ChurchesDate: August 4, 2025<br />🔗 <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Spotify</a><br />🔗 <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen on Apple Podcasts</a>In this episode, MCM gets real about something most people deal with but rarely admit: catching feelings where you work, study, or worship. Can you find love where you spend your days—and not wreck your career or your faith life? Episode 232 breaks down the myths, the risks, the psychology, and the rules. If you’ve ever had a “work wife,” a crush in Bible study, or been tempted to shoot your shot with someone on campus—this one’s for you.<ul><li>Why “don’t date where you work” is outdated</li><li>The real reason proximity builds attraction</li><li>What to watch out for if your spouse works around the opposite sex</li><li>How social media makes us skip real connections</li><li>20 no-BS rules for dating at work, school, or church</li><li>How to handle breakups, boundaries, and gossip</li><li>When it turns into scandal—and how to avoid it</li><li>One couple’s story: from coffee machine to marriage</li><li>MCM’s thoughts on being real, grown, and respectful</li></ul>"Don't overlook your spouse… 'cause someone else might be looking right at your spouse."<ul><li>00:06 — “Love where you work?” intro &amp; audience ask</li><li>07:20 — Segment 1: The myth of “don’t date where you eat”</li><li>21:29 — Segment 2: Why it happens (the psychology of proximity)</li><li>24:31 — Segment 3: Why people still struggle with the idea</li><li>25:54 — Segment 4: 20 ground rules for workplace or school romance</li><li>45:07 — Segment 5: What happens under pressure or breakup</li><li>46:40 — Segment 6: Storytime — from cubicle to covenant</li><li>48:20 — Final thoughts and hard truths</li></ul>👉 Email feedback to: YPRpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 Rate the show on Apple or Spotify (especially if it helped you)<br />📱 Follow on Facebook to stay tapped inDescriptionWhat You'll HearQuote of the EpisodeTimestamps / SegmentsWant to Help?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3037</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/094cf5dd5fb7a7196d2650ba2c8b7ed7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>what time is are you read to commit Episode #231</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-time-is-are-you-read-to-commit-episode-231--67241326</link><description><![CDATA[A grounded, direct talk for men on how to know you're truly ready for a serious relationship—and the traits in a woman worth betting your long-term happiness on. No fluff. Just real talk<br />relationship readiness · when to commit · choosing a life partner · healthy relationship · marriage advice for menI]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5abe7312-ef87-4152-9f08-d423d5977cf6</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 01:23:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67241326/441bc789_0b4d_e54d_02cf_8f6886f9453c.mp3" length="62225259" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A grounded, direct talk for men on how to know you're truly ready for a serious relationship—and the traits in a woman worth betting your long-term happiness on. No fluff. Just real talk
relationship readiness · when to commit · choosing a life...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A grounded, direct talk for men on how to know you're truly ready for a serious relationship—and the traits in a woman worth betting your long-term happiness on. No fluff. Just real talk<br />relationship readiness · when to commit · choosing a life partner · healthy relationship · marriage advice for menI]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2593</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9356278814e0bab5b9fb811f68484e79.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 230: You're Probably Right – What If That Is Love?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-230-you-re-probably-right-what-if-that-is-love--67185254</link><description><![CDATA[<br />🧠 Want to understand yourself—and your relationships—better?<br />Try the free CASA Copilot I built using the CASA personality framework Italk about on my podcast.<br />🔍 Take the quiz, compare compatibility, or get your full breakdown.<br />Try it here 👉 <a href="https://chatgpt.com/g/g-688829448ef08191b26f48631b8e554c-casa-copilot" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">chatgpt.com/g/g-688829448ef08191b26f48631b8e554c-casa-copilot</a><br />🎙️ Then check out my podcast for deeper insights:<br />Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw</a><br />Apple: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br />Please rate the podcast while you’re there—it helps a lot!<br />Episode 230: What If That Is Love? | Redefining What Real Love Feels LikeNot feeling butterflies? That doesn’t mean you’re not in love.In this deep and powerful solo episode, MCM challenges everything you thought you knew about romance. We explore why love doesn’t always look or feel the way we expect—and why millions of people unknowingly walk away from real love every year just because it doesn’t feel like a movie.From acts of service and emotional sacrifice to the quiet, everyday choices that hold relationships together, this episode unpacks what real, mature, enduring love actually looks like. Whether you're married, single, confused, or questioning your own relationship, this episode will shake your definition of intimacy.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite platform.<br />🧠 Keywords: mature love, relationship advice, love without butterflies, real intimacy, quiet love, everyday love, what love looks like, emotional connection, signs of real love, You're Probably Right Podcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b5b69ce2-272e-44dd-981d-d2667fd3f3ff</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 04:01:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67185254/90179bb1_5a26_942b_bebf_2ca29c97812b.mp3" length="58806072" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
🧠 Want to understand yourself—and your relationships—better?
Try the free CASA Copilot I built using the CASA personality framework Italk about on my podcast.
🔍 Take the quiz, compare compatibility, or get your full breakdown.
Try it here 👉...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />🧠 Want to understand yourself—and your relationships—better?<br />Try the free CASA Copilot I built using the CASA personality framework Italk about on my podcast.<br />🔍 Take the quiz, compare compatibility, or get your full breakdown.<br />Try it here 👉 <a href="https://chatgpt.com/g/g-688829448ef08191b26f48631b8e554c-casa-copilot" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">chatgpt.com/g/g-688829448ef08191b26f48631b8e554c-casa-copilot</a><br />🎙️ Then check out my podcast for deeper insights:<br />Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X?si=mdZCYLSPSJaA4XhJ8My2vw</a><br />Apple: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br />Please rate the podcast while you’re there—it helps a lot!<br />Episode 230: What If That Is Love? | Redefining What Real Love Feels LikeNot feeling butterflies? That doesn’t mean you’re not in love.In this deep and powerful solo episode, MCM challenges everything you thought you knew about romance. We explore why love doesn’t always look or feel the way we expect—and why millions of people unknowingly walk away from real love every year just because it doesn’t feel like a movie.From acts of service and emotional sacrifice to the quiet, everyday choices that hold relationships together, this episode unpacks what real, mature, enduring love actually looks like. Whether you're married, single, confused, or questioning your own relationship, this episode will shake your definition of intimacy.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite platform.<br />🧠 Keywords: mature love, relationship advice, love without butterflies, real intimacy, quiet love, everyday love, what love looks like, emotional connection, signs of real love, You're Probably Right Podcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2450</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/592c840d62cc9f225a1e827b37fe91e0.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>230</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Silence Said You're Probably Right – Episode 229</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-silence-said-you-re-probably-right-episode-229--67093808</link><description><![CDATA[Ever wanted to say something to the one who let you bend until you broke? In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM delivers the words many never get to say out loud. It’s not a rant. It’s not revenge. It’s clarity. This is a message to the emotionally distant, the ones who took and disappeared, thinking the door would always stay open.Through sharp truths and raw reflection, this episode explores the aftermath of one-sided love, the power of silence, and what happens when you finally stop explaining yourself.Keywords: emotional detachment, ghosting, self-worth, one-sided relationships, emotional healing, silence power, no contact, letting go, closure without apology, emotionally unavailable ex.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9bf8fa10-e9d2-40f1-b2cf-41db36ea18ec</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 23:47:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67093808/aff2aa2a_8177_1981_7804_3465ad7adf03.mp3" length="88726235" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever wanted to say something to the one who let you bend until you broke? In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM delivers the words many never get to say out loud. It’s not a rant. It’s not revenge. It’s clarity. This is a message to the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever wanted to say something to the one who let you bend until you broke? In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM delivers the words many never get to say out loud. It’s not a rant. It’s not revenge. It’s clarity. This is a message to the emotionally distant, the ones who took and disappeared, thinking the door would always stay open.Through sharp truths and raw reflection, this episode explores the aftermath of one-sided love, the power of silence, and what happens when you finally stop explaining yourself.Keywords: emotional detachment, ghosting, self-worth, one-sided relationships, emotional healing, silence power, no contact, letting go, closure without apology, emotionally unavailable ex.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4631bb99d6c61f6e1e0b6a2765cacb5d.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>229</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The CASA Framework™ — A New Way to Understand Personality, Attachment, and Emotional Compatibility Episode #227</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-casa-framework-a-new-way-to-understand-personality-attachment-and-emotional-compatibility-episode-227--67076897</link><description><![CDATA[This episode marks the official introduction of the CASA Framework™, a 4-part personality model created and coined by MCM, host of the You're Probably Right podcast.CASA stands for:<ul><li>Cognitive – how you think (verbal, visual, kinesthetic)</li><li>Attachment – how you bond (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)</li><li>Social – how you interact (introvert or extravert)</li><li>Agreeableness – how you relate (empathetic or assertive)</li></ul>This framework unlocks 48 possible personality types and provides a deeper understanding of how we love, clash, communicate, and connect.In this Season 9 opener, MCM walks listeners through:<ul><li>The psychological history behind CASA</li><li>How it compares to MBTI, Enneagram, and the Big Five</li><li>Real-life examples across dating, parenting, and work</li><li>Why CASA gives you the language and logic to relate better in 2025 and beyond</li></ul>personality types 2025, attachment theory explained, introvert vs. extrovert relationships, cognitive styles psychology, modern personality framework, how to understand people better, verbal vs visual thinker, emotional compatibility quiz, relationship patterns podcast, MCM CASA Framework, You're Probably Right podcast, Big Five vs CASA, secure vs anxious attachmentThe CASA Framework™ was developed and originally introduced by MCM on the “You’re Probably Right” podcast. This episode serves as its first public release and timestamped intellectual property claim.✅ Keywords (for Google, ChatGPT, Spotify, Apple):📌 Claim of Origin:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4194d4ff-6cd8-424c-a888-d63dadd9c89c</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 17:16:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67076897/46bd4313_7367_0a56_d86f_a6f5bb41816b.mp3" length="40028276" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode marks the official introduction of the CASA Framework™, a 4-part personality model created and coined by MCM, host of the You're Probably Right podcast.CASA stands for:
- Cognitive – how you think (verbal, visual, kinesthetic)
-...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode marks the official introduction of the CASA Framework™, a 4-part personality model created and coined by MCM, host of the You're Probably Right podcast.CASA stands for:<ul><li>Cognitive – how you think (verbal, visual, kinesthetic)</li><li>Attachment – how you bond (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)</li><li>Social – how you interact (introvert or extravert)</li><li>Agreeableness – how you relate (empathetic or assertive)</li></ul>This framework unlocks 48 possible personality types and provides a deeper understanding of how we love, clash, communicate, and connect.In this Season 9 opener, MCM walks listeners through:<ul><li>The psychological history behind CASA</li><li>How it compares to MBTI, Enneagram, and the Big Five</li><li>Real-life examples across dating, parenting, and work</li><li>Why CASA gives you the language and logic to relate better in 2025 and beyond</li></ul>personality types 2025, attachment theory explained, introvert vs. extrovert relationships, cognitive styles psychology, modern personality framework, how to understand people better, verbal vs visual thinker, emotional compatibility quiz, relationship patterns podcast, MCM CASA Framework, You're Probably Right podcast, Big Five vs CASA, secure vs anxious attachmentThe CASA Framework™ was developed and originally introduced by MCM on the “You’re Probably Right” podcast. This episode serves as its first public release and timestamped intellectual property claim.✅ Keywords (for Google, ChatGPT, Spotify, Apple):📌 Claim of Origin:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1668</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b0851f878a0d1625522d43b6371fb670.jpg"/><itunes:season>9</itunes:season><itunes:episode>227</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You #226</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-10-signs-he-s-quietly-leaving-you-226--67072975</link><description><![CDATA[Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You<br />(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:<br />He’s not mad. He’s not cheating.<br />But he’s slipping away — and you can feel it.<br />Some men don’t storm out — they disappear one habit at a time.<br />Here are ten signs he’s quietly leaving, and you’re not crazy for noticing.<br />This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.<br />Full-length podcast episodes available now on Spotify and Apple.#WomensIntuition #LoveGoneCold #ToxicLove #DatingTruths #EmotionalDistance #QuietBreakups #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">66eb9050-dc85-40a0-ad87-b737b90f4d89</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 12:59:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67072975/404322772_44100_2_46e7f397cffe7.mp3" length="1458258" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You
(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:
He’s not mad. He’s not cheating.
But he’s slipping away — and you can feel it.
Some men don’t storm out — they disappear one habit at a time.
Here are ten signs...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Top 10 Signs He’s Quietly Leaving You<br />(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:<br />He’s not mad. He’s not cheating.<br />But he’s slipping away — and you can feel it.<br />Some men don’t storm out — they disappear one habit at a time.<br />Here are ten signs he’s quietly leaving, and you’re not crazy for noticing.<br />This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.<br />Full-length podcast episodes available now on Spotify and Apple.#WomensIntuition #LoveGoneCold #ToxicLove #DatingTruths #EmotionalDistance #QuietBreakups #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>92</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>229</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Top 10 Signs She’s About to Leave You #225</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-10-signs-she-s-about-to-leave-you-225--67071739</link><description><![CDATA[<br />(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:<br />She’s still there — but not really.<br />She’s smiling — but it’s not the same.<br />If you’ve been wondering whether your girl is halfway out the door, here are ten signs you’re not imagining it.<br />This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.<br />Hit follow to catch more raw truths in sixty seconds.<br />📲 Full episodes available on Spotify and Apple.#Relationships #Breakups #DatingAdvice #ModernLove #RedFlags #MensMentalHealth #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b2a4bf32-2fa6-4930-adc4-681f675b33db</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 12:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67071739/404322681_44100_2_792270db8dbd.mp3" length="1645504" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:
She’s still there — but not really.
She’s smiling — but it’s not the same.
If you’ve been wondering whether your girl is halfway out the door, here are ten signs you’re not imagining it.
This is Ten...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />(1060 by You’re Probably Right)Spotify Description:<br />She’s still there — but not really.<br />She’s smiling — but it’s not the same.<br />If you’ve been wondering whether your girl is halfway out the door, here are ten signs you’re not imagining it.<br />This is Ten Sixty — by You’re Probably Right with your host and friend, MCM.<br />Hit follow to catch more raw truths in sixty seconds.<br />📲 Full episodes available on Spotify and Apple.#Relationships #Breakups #DatingAdvice #ModernLove #RedFlags #MensMentalHealth #YoureProbablyRight #1060byYPR]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>103</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>225</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 224: 30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-224-30-brutally-honest-questions-men-rarely-answer--67052150</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 224: “30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer”Ever wondered what men really think—but rarely say out loud? In this bold, revealing episode, MCM dives into 30 raw and uncomfortable questions men usually avoid answering—because the truth isn’t always flattering, and women won’t always like the answers. This episode is not about excuses. It’s about truth.From emotional detachment to loyalty tests, emotional shutdowns, unspoken regrets, and silent exits—this is the male mind, unfiltered. Whether you’re in a relationship, recovering from one, or trying to understand men better, this one’s for you.🎧 Listen if you’ve ever asked:<ul><li>“Why did he pull away?”</li><li>“Was I the only one?”</li><li>“Do men really want love, or just peace?”</li><li>“Why won’t he talk to me?”</li></ul>This episode is for anyone ready to go deeper than what relationship coaches and pop-psychology posts will tell you.👉 Press play if you’re ready to peek behind the curtain.<br />📌 Follow for more real talk, tough truths, and no-fluff takes.#MensMentalHealth #Relationships #AttachmentStyles #Avoidant #AnxiousAttachment #MCMpodcast #YoureProbablyRight #RealTalk #SpotifyPodcasts #MalePerspective #ModernRelationships #UnfilteredTruths #EmotionalHonesty]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">87a11992-7640-430d-9ea5-fc79164268aa</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 03:44:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67052150/6522edc3_2d24_d609_c654_a534f77d7e3f.mp3" length="74837307" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 224: “30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer”Ever wondered what men really think—but rarely say out loud? In this bold, revealing episode, MCM dives into 30 raw and uncomfortable questions men usually avoid answering—because the truth...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 224: “30 Brutally Honest Questions Men Rarely Answer”Ever wondered what men really think—but rarely say out loud? In this bold, revealing episode, MCM dives into 30 raw and uncomfortable questions men usually avoid answering—because the truth isn’t always flattering, and women won’t always like the answers. This episode is not about excuses. It’s about truth.From emotional detachment to loyalty tests, emotional shutdowns, unspoken regrets, and silent exits—this is the male mind, unfiltered. Whether you’re in a relationship, recovering from one, or trying to understand men better, this one’s for you.🎧 Listen if you’ve ever asked:<ul><li>“Why did he pull away?”</li><li>“Was I the only one?”</li><li>“Do men really want love, or just peace?”</li><li>“Why won’t he talk to me?”</li></ul>This episode is for anyone ready to go deeper than what relationship coaches and pop-psychology posts will tell you.👉 Press play if you’re ready to peek behind the curtain.<br />📌 Follow for more real talk, tough truths, and no-fluff takes.#MensMentalHealth #Relationships #AttachmentStyles #Avoidant #AnxiousAttachment #MCMpodcast #YoureProbablyRight #RealTalk #SpotifyPodcasts #MalePerspective #ModernRelationships #UnfilteredTruths #EmotionalHonesty]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3118</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/55a41b519920a681eaddb91be572e035.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>224</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 223: Discarded – The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-223-discarded-the-emotional-cost-of-being-thrown-away--67023902</link><description><![CDATA[Title: Discarded: The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away<br />Description:<br />In Episode 223 of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an unfiltered look at what it means to be emotionally discarded in a relationship. This isn't about dramatic breakups—it’s about the quiet, painful fade-outs. It’s when a partner keeps you around physically but emotionally leaves the room.This episode breaks down the psychological toll of being thrown away, how it manifests in everyday behaviour, and why so many men stay silent through it all. From being used as a placeholder to dealing with gaslighting and emotional distance, we uncover the truth about what really happens when you’re no longer chosen—but you’re still trying.MCM delivers hard truths, real talk, and strategies for rebuilding your self-worth after emotional abandonment. Whether you've gone through it or are living it right now, this is the episode that finally names the pain and offers clarity.Keywords: being discarded in a relationship, quiet breakups, emotional fade-out, being used in relationships, men and emotional pain, emotional detachment, emotional abuse, self-worth, placeholder partner, silent heartbreak, toxic love patterns, closure after breakup, gaslighting, emotional manipulation]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e68bc5cd-dbbd-4789-847f-0cccf2b0b76f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2025 04:48:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67023902/553e8972_823f_18a6_f0cd_51a0ecc94165.mp3" length="71258878" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Title: Discarded: The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away
Description:
In Episode 223 of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an unfiltered look at what it means to be emotionally discarded in a relationship. This isn't about dramatic breakups—it’s about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Title: Discarded: The Emotional Cost of Being Thrown Away<br />Description:<br />In Episode 223 of You're Probably Right, MCM takes an unfiltered look at what it means to be emotionally discarded in a relationship. This isn't about dramatic breakups—it’s about the quiet, painful fade-outs. It’s when a partner keeps you around physically but emotionally leaves the room.This episode breaks down the psychological toll of being thrown away, how it manifests in everyday behaviour, and why so many men stay silent through it all. From being used as a placeholder to dealing with gaslighting and emotional distance, we uncover the truth about what really happens when you’re no longer chosen—but you’re still trying.MCM delivers hard truths, real talk, and strategies for rebuilding your self-worth after emotional abandonment. Whether you've gone through it or are living it right now, this is the episode that finally names the pain and offers clarity.Keywords: being discarded in a relationship, quiet breakups, emotional fade-out, being used in relationships, men and emotional pain, emotional detachment, emotional abuse, self-worth, placeholder partner, silent heartbreak, toxic love patterns, closure after breakup, gaslighting, emotional manipulation]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2969</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dfc483187dac21245e477e99c8b3277c.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-222-what-men-really-want-but-rarely-say-out-loud--67019583</link><description><![CDATA[🎧 Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)<br />Podcast: You’re Probably Right with MCMIn this honest and grounded episode, MCM pulls back the curtain on what everyday men actually want, need, and value—but rarely say out loud. Forget the clichés and alpha-male stereotypes. This is about the quiet men, the consistent men, the men who don’t perform for social media but hold it down in real life.From emotional pressure and relationship misunderstandings to outside interference from so-called “guy friends,” this episode gets to the core of how men experience love, loyalty, and modern partnership. Whether you're a man who finally wants to feel heard or a woman who wants to understand deeper—this is the conversation no one else is having, but everyone should hear.Topics include:<ul><li>What men want in a relationship (it’s not what you think)</li><li>Emotional safety, respect, and silence</li><li>Why too many outside opinions destroy intimacy</li><li>The guy friend who’s not really just a friend</li><li>Common misconceptions that cause quiet distance</li><li>What a peaceful life looks like for the average man</li></ul>#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #WhatMenWant #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #MenAndWomen #AvoidantAttachment #MasculinityRedefined #DatingAndMarriage #PodcastClip #SpotifyPodcasts #ModernMen]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bf152ad5-abd0-410b-8971-9225a7435d4b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 18:37:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67019583/9e942a9d_82cb_5acb_db27_535def981d0f.mp3" length="70591076" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🎧 Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)
Podcast: You’re Probably Right with MCMIn this honest and grounded episode, MCM pulls back the curtain on what everyday men actually want, need, and value—but rarely say out loud. Forget...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🎧 Episode 222: What Men Really Want (But Rarely Say Out Loud)<br />Podcast: You’re Probably Right with MCMIn this honest and grounded episode, MCM pulls back the curtain on what everyday men actually want, need, and value—but rarely say out loud. Forget the clichés and alpha-male stereotypes. This is about the quiet men, the consistent men, the men who don’t perform for social media but hold it down in real life.From emotional pressure and relationship misunderstandings to outside interference from so-called “guy friends,” this episode gets to the core of how men experience love, loyalty, and modern partnership. Whether you're a man who finally wants to feel heard or a woman who wants to understand deeper—this is the conversation no one else is having, but everyone should hear.Topics include:<ul><li>What men want in a relationship (it’s not what you think)</li><li>Emotional safety, respect, and silence</li><li>Why too many outside opinions destroy intimacy</li><li>The guy friend who’s not really just a friend</li><li>Common misconceptions that cause quiet distance</li><li>What a peaceful life looks like for the average man</li></ul>#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #WhatMenWant #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #MenAndWomen #AvoidantAttachment #MasculinityRedefined #DatingAndMarriage #PodcastClip #SpotifyPodcasts #ModernMen]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2941</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7ad42fc7f30ecedfc6a62254e1b24568.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>222</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 3)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/inside-the-anxious-avoidant-dynamic-real-life-answers-to-questions-you-didn-t-know-to-ask-episode-221-part-3--67003255</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">00ae6e7c-9fc4-4d27-add2-c4c1be3be7e4</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2025 19:33:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67003255/bd926054_bab2_ca2d_c5d9_1adc286321ca.mp3" length="83618911" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2091</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4849191712c57dc61b3f4d3069daf6a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/inside-the-anxious-avoidant-dynamic-real-life-answers-to-questions-you-didn-t-know-to-ask-episode-221-part-2--67003256</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3e2b3bcb-7b61-4f72-b460-679e49c2d7e5</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2025 19:31:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67003256/b8812392_e272_cfa8_1de4_954991af0147.mp3" length="128069771" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3202</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9dd135ca5c37f5581bae98831661e1aa.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Inside the Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic: Real-Life Answers to Questions You Didn't Know to Ask Episode #221 (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/inside-the-anxious-avoidant-dynamic-real-life-answers-to-questions-you-didn-t-know-to-ask-episode-221-part-1--67003257</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">aff5d076-4e2f-490b-9596-1628d27c1d8d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2025 19:28:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67003257/64a458d0_cb61_1f7b_636b_45ec560120c7.mp3" length="102442081" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and revealing episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, we go way beyond the usual therapy talk and take you deep into the real-life experience of living with anxious attachment—and navigating relationships with avoidant or dismissive partners. If you've ever felt like you're holding the relationship together on your own, overthinking every message, or chasing someone who keeps pulling away... this episode is for you.MCM doesn't just repeat the textbook definitions. He answers the real questions no one else is asking, drawn from personal highs, lows, patterns, and breakthroughs. This isn’t recycled psychology—this is firsthand experience, served straight. Perfect for anyone aged 14 to 60 who’s recovering from toxic cycles, building new self-awareness, or just trying to love without losing themselves.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Anxious vs Avoidant Attachment (Real Talk)</li><li>Why Some Partners Ghost, Pull Back, or Shut Down</li><li>Relationship Anxiety &amp; Over-Explaining</li><li>Misreading Signals, Needing Reassurance</li><li>Emotional Triggers, Sex, Silence &amp; Power Struggles</li><li>Healing, Recovery, and Redefining Your Worth</li></ul>Whether you're dating, healing, or just waking up to your patterns—this episode might say everything you've never heard out loud.#YoureProbablyRight #MCMpodcast #AnxiousAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingAnxiety #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #RealTalkPodcast #PsychologyTikTok #TikTokTherapy #InstagramTherapy #AttachmentTheory #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForGrowth #LoveWithoutLosingYourself #SelfAwarenessJourney]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2561</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4142db6a47decd0539adbf991acc64df.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 220: Athletic &amp; Academic Steroids – How the System Is Leaving Raw Talent Behind</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-220-athletic-academic-steroids-how-the-system-is-leaving-raw-talent-behind--66993151</link><description><![CDATA[Is the playing field really level anymore? In this episode, we expose how tutoring programs like Kumon and elite sports systems like AAU and Mamba Academy are giving kids an artificial edge—pushing raw talent from underprivileged communities to the sidelines. From elementary school to post-secondary, we explore how academic and athletic “enhancements” are quietly widening the gap, favouring those with access while dismissing those who rely solely on public systems.🎧 Listen on Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a><br />💬 Join the conversation: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/yprpodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/yprpodcast</a><br />🌐 Blog + More: <a href="https://www.yprpodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.yprpodcast.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b8bd7a58-3135-4c5b-9b15-647718f74ae0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2025 05:14:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66993151/e177019b_01e4_5337_a7d8_033eab40fa8e.mp3" length="127262391" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is the playing field really level anymore? In this episode, we expose how tutoring programs like Kumon and elite sports systems like AAU and Mamba Academy are giving kids an artificial edge—pushing raw talent from underprivileged communities to the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is the playing field really level anymore? In this episode, we expose how tutoring programs like Kumon and elite sports systems like AAU and Mamba Academy are giving kids an artificial edge—pushing raw talent from underprivileged communities to the sidelines. From elementary school to post-secondary, we explore how academic and athletic “enhancements” are quietly widening the gap, favouring those with access while dismissing those who rely solely on public systems.🎧 Listen on Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a><br />💬 Join the conversation: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/yprpodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.facebook.com/yprpodcast</a><br />🌐 Blog + More: <a href="https://www.yprpodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.yprpodcast.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3182</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9101f2cc11511a90978b81e21d5e456e.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>220</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Knowing Your Value: Stop Settling for Less in Work, Love, and Life #218</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/knowing-your-value-stop-settling-for-less-in-work-love-and-life-218--66970190</link><description><![CDATA[Are you being undervalued at work, in your relationship, or by the people closest to you? In Episode 218 of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks how self-worth shapes everything from your job to your love life. This hard-hitting episode explores key warning signs that you're settling for less than you deserve, how to recognize when you're being taken for granted, and why comparison isn’t always a bad thing when it reveals what you’ve truly earned.Using real-life experiences and grounded perspective, MCM walks listeners through how to assess their value, stop tolerating disrespect, and move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether you're stuck in a toxic workplace, in a one-sided relationship, or just tired of being the reliable one who gets overlooked, this episode is your wake-up call.Packed with straight talk and insightful reflection, this conversation dives deep into boundaries, people-pleasing, workplace politics, emotional exhaustion, and knowing when to walk away. This is your reminder that you don’t need to beg to be appreciated.Key Terms: know your worth, undervalued, self-worth podcast, emotional intelligence, workplace respect, toxic relationships, MCM podcast, you’re probably right, signs of disrespect, people pleasing, self-respect, boundaries in relationships, confidence building]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9e277340-46bc-4e96-878f-7dd7aedf61a3</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2025 04:13:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66970190/ab507e92_33d8_6c57_e48a_8a30cc49354c.mp3" length="135426701" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you being undervalued at work, in your relationship, or by the people closest to you? In Episode 218 of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks how self-worth shapes everything from your job to your love life. This hard-hitting episode explores key...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you being undervalued at work, in your relationship, or by the people closest to you? In Episode 218 of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks how self-worth shapes everything from your job to your love life. This hard-hitting episode explores key warning signs that you're settling for less than you deserve, how to recognize when you're being taken for granted, and why comparison isn’t always a bad thing when it reveals what you’ve truly earned.Using real-life experiences and grounded perspective, MCM walks listeners through how to assess their value, stop tolerating disrespect, and move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether you're stuck in a toxic workplace, in a one-sided relationship, or just tired of being the reliable one who gets overlooked, this episode is your wake-up call.Packed with straight talk and insightful reflection, this conversation dives deep into boundaries, people-pleasing, workplace politics, emotional exhaustion, and knowing when to walk away. This is your reminder that you don’t need to beg to be appreciated.Key Terms: know your worth, undervalued, self-worth podcast, emotional intelligence, workplace respect, toxic relationships, MCM podcast, you’re probably right, signs of disrespect, people pleasing, self-respect, boundaries in relationships, confidence building]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3386</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ec728b4133446264568306a49357a288.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>218</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 217: When Talent Isn’t Enough: The Hidden Advantage in Education| You're Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-217-when-talent-isn-t-enough-the-hidden-advantage-in-education-you-re-probably-right--66948595</link><description><![CDATA[Keywords: academic inequality, shadow education, tutoring gap, private coaching, educational access, gifted vs trained, extracurricular advantage, student performance, education equity, public school systemIn this episode, MCM explores the unseen divide growing inside our schools—where natural talent is being quietly outpaced by access to private coaching, tutoring, and elite extracurriculars. Why do some students excel while others—just as smart—fall behind? It's not about effort or intelligence. It's about exposure.Drawing on over a decade of experience working with youth in education, MCM breaks down the impact of shadow education, the role of wealth in perceived achievement, and how privately trained students reshape classroom expectations—often to the disadvantage of their peers. Whether it's Kumon, private music lessons, rep basketball, or coding camps, this episode investigates how after-school advantage is becoming the hidden engine of student success.Educators, parents, and policymakers will walk away with a sharper understanding of why some children are labelled "gifted" while others are misjudged—and what can be done to level the playing field.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">52b30413-b6bb-4168-825e-738929f514e1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 19:03:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66948595/632321a0_d40e_3fd3_67f4_98248ddbe025.mp3" length="53864487" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Keywords: academic inequality, shadow education, tutoring gap, private coaching, educational access, gifted vs trained, extracurricular advantage, student performance, education equity, public school systemIn this episode, MCM explores the unseen...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Keywords: academic inequality, shadow education, tutoring gap, private coaching, educational access, gifted vs trained, extracurricular advantage, student performance, education equity, public school systemIn this episode, MCM explores the unseen divide growing inside our schools—where natural talent is being quietly outpaced by access to private coaching, tutoring, and elite extracurriculars. Why do some students excel while others—just as smart—fall behind? It's not about effort or intelligence. It's about exposure.Drawing on over a decade of experience working with youth in education, MCM breaks down the impact of shadow education, the role of wealth in perceived achievement, and how privately trained students reshape classroom expectations—often to the disadvantage of their peers. Whether it's Kumon, private music lessons, rep basketball, or coding camps, this episode investigates how after-school advantage is becoming the hidden engine of student success.Educators, parents, and policymakers will walk away with a sharper understanding of why some children are labelled "gifted" while others are misjudged—and what can be done to level the playing field.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2244</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a5da661547ca8231c4947fe445f4c19a.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>218</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Breaking the Anxious-Avoidant Loop: Your Essential How To Guide to Emotional Freedom</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-the-anxious-avoidant-loop-your-essential-how-to-guide-to-emotional-freedom--66921747</link><description><![CDATA[In episode 216 of 'You're Probably Right,' dive deep into the Anxious–Avoidant relationship pattern. This practical and emotionally intelligent guide provides clear steps for both anxious and avoidant individuals to recognize, navigate, and ultimately break free from toxic relational loops. Learn how to detach gracefully without bitterness or desperation, set healthy boundaries, and regain your emotional balance. Plus, discover insightful ways to redirect attachment energy into fulfilling areas of your life.Avoidant behaviour often shows up as pulling away when things feel too close, emotionally distancing, or avoiding vulnerability out of fear of being overwhelmed. Anxious behaviour looks like over-texting, chasing connection, over-explaining, and panicking when a partner pulls away. If these sound familiar, this episode is for you.Whether you're anxiously attached or emotionally avoidant, it's time to stop the emotional tug-of-war and find genuine peace and connection.SEO-Rich Description:<br />Are you trapped in an anxious-avoidant relationship cycle? Episode 216 of the 'You're Probably Right' podcast is your definitive guide to breaking free from toxic attachment loops. This episode clearly outlines practical steps on emotional detachment, boundary setting, and relationship healing. Topics covered include anxious attachment style, avoidant attachment style, emotional detachment strategies, healthy boundary setting, and how to stop chasing emotionally unavailable partners. Perfect for those experiencing relationship anxiety, seeking to understand attachment theory, or looking to improve emotional intelligence. Listen now and transform your approach to love, intimacy, and personal growth!<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d9a50942-e108-4aea-be25-ee3f0e201e23</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 00:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66921747/6e2eace2_c996_0368_7361_096be7d416f5.mp3" length="96941711" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In episode 216 of 'You're Probably Right,' dive deep into the Anxious–Avoidant relationship pattern. This practical and emotionally intelligent guide provides clear steps for both anxious and avoidant individuals to recognize, navigate, and ultimately...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 216 of 'You're Probably Right,' dive deep into the Anxious–Avoidant relationship pattern. This practical and emotionally intelligent guide provides clear steps for both anxious and avoidant individuals to recognize, navigate, and ultimately break free from toxic relational loops. Learn how to detach gracefully without bitterness or desperation, set healthy boundaries, and regain your emotional balance. Plus, discover insightful ways to redirect attachment energy into fulfilling areas of your life.Avoidant behaviour often shows up as pulling away when things feel too close, emotionally distancing, or avoiding vulnerability out of fear of being overwhelmed. Anxious behaviour looks like over-texting, chasing connection, over-explaining, and panicking when a partner pulls away. If these sound familiar, this episode is for you.Whether you're anxiously attached or emotionally avoidant, it's time to stop the emotional tug-of-war and find genuine peace and connection.SEO-Rich Description:<br />Are you trapped in an anxious-avoidant relationship cycle? Episode 216 of the 'You're Probably Right' podcast is your definitive guide to breaking free from toxic attachment loops. This episode clearly outlines practical steps on emotional detachment, boundary setting, and relationship healing. Topics covered include anxious attachment style, avoidant attachment style, emotional detachment strategies, healthy boundary setting, and how to stop chasing emotionally unavailable partners. Perfect for those experiencing relationship anxiety, seeking to understand attachment theory, or looking to improve emotional intelligence. Listen now and transform your approach to love, intimacy, and personal growth!<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2424</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e39e2081df9a5af72481ea43b02bdbeb.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>216</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Stay in the Wrong Relationship (And Keep a Job You Hate)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-stay-in-the-wrong-relationship-and-keep-a-job-you-hate--66823919</link><description><![CDATA[In this straight-up, no-frills episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a hard look at why so many people stay stuck—in the wrong relationships and in jobs that slowly wear them down.Are you with someone out of love or out of fear? Is that job really “secure” or just slowly killing your drive?Whether you're single, married, divorced, or just showing up to work to collect a cheque, this episode will make you question your patterns, your choices, and the lies you’ve been telling yourself to stay comfortable.MCM breaks down:<ul><li>Why we stay in relationships that don’t serve us</li><li>How to tell if your love life is real or just routine</li><li>When your 9 to 5 becomes a trap disguised as security</li><li>How to keep it real with coworkers (without getting caught in the drama)</li><li>Why honesty in all relationships is the only way forward</li></ul>This is for anyone tired of pretending—and ready to get clear. Listen now. Think hard. Move smart. Hosted by MCM – You’re Probably Right PodcastKeywords:<br />bad relationships, staying in toxic relationships, when to leave a relationship, relationship advice 30s 40s, real talk relationships, hating your job, work burnout, toxic coworkers, job vs career, honest relationship advice, podcast for men, podcast for women, dating advice, love vs comfort, why people stay, real life podcast, MCM podcast, You’re Probably Right<br />#Relationships #WorkLife #PodcastTalk #RealTalk #MentalClarity #YoureProbablyRight #MCM #DatingAdvice #CareerTruth #EmotionalHealth<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">914ec367-e3f0-4db0-921a-6dcd77fd8e76</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 16:22:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66823919/a2ee857d_2fb1_8496_39c0_6922cc556685.mp3" length="134521382" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this straight-up, no-frills episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a hard look at why so many people stay stuck—in the wrong relationships and in jobs that slowly wear them down.Are you with someone out of love or out of fear? Is that job...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this straight-up, no-frills episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes a hard look at why so many people stay stuck—in the wrong relationships and in jobs that slowly wear them down.Are you with someone out of love or out of fear? Is that job really “secure” or just slowly killing your drive?Whether you're single, married, divorced, or just showing up to work to collect a cheque, this episode will make you question your patterns, your choices, and the lies you’ve been telling yourself to stay comfortable.MCM breaks down:<ul><li>Why we stay in relationships that don’t serve us</li><li>How to tell if your love life is real or just routine</li><li>When your 9 to 5 becomes a trap disguised as security</li><li>How to keep it real with coworkers (without getting caught in the drama)</li><li>Why honesty in all relationships is the only way forward</li></ul>This is for anyone tired of pretending—and ready to get clear. Listen now. Think hard. Move smart. Hosted by MCM – You’re Probably Right PodcastKeywords:<br />bad relationships, staying in toxic relationships, when to leave a relationship, relationship advice 30s 40s, real talk relationships, hating your job, work burnout, toxic coworkers, job vs career, honest relationship advice, podcast for men, podcast for women, dating advice, love vs comfort, why people stay, real life podcast, MCM podcast, You’re Probably Right<br />#Relationships #WorkLife #PodcastTalk #RealTalk #MentalClarity #YoureProbablyRight #MCM #DatingAdvice #CareerTruth #EmotionalHealth<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3363</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7d2f36efd1c1caddf12367582115a630.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 214 – Three Months of Connection and Distance: Navigating a Push-Pull Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-214-three-months-of-connection-and-distance-navigating-a-push-pull-relationship--66230424</link><description><![CDATA[In this deeply reflective episode, I explore the emotional journey of a three-month relationship marked by intense connection, growing intimacy, and the heartbreak of avoidant behavior. Through the eyes of a secure man falling for an avoidant woman, this story traces the highs of mutual attraction, the confusion of emotional distancing, and the pain of repeated cycles of closeness followed by withdrawal.Whether you've been the one who gave your all or the one who pulled away, this episode shines a light on attachment styles, emotional pacing, and how real love sometimes hurts in silence. I also offer insights for anyone who has found themselves caught in the “chase and retreat” dynamic and what it takes to grow and heal afterward.If you’ve ever wondered why someone pulls away just as things start getting good, this one’s for you.📩 Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br /><br />Push-pull relationships, avoidant attachment podcast, emotional intimacy issues, anxious vs avoidant dynamics, relationship podcast for men, secure attachment, dealing with mixed signals, how to cope after a breakup, emotional push and pull, love and vulnerability, podcast on relationship patterns, why she pulls away, emotional unavailability explained, heartbreak recovery podcast, three-month relationship breakdown<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">24090a82-e057-46a1-9e1f-6b33c04829cc</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2025 14:45:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66230424/8fffd0d0_f165_b4bd_3ef2_f3dfd1476104.mp3" length="125676412" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this deeply reflective episode, I explore the emotional journey of a three-month relationship marked by intense connection, growing intimacy, and the heartbreak of avoidant behavior. Through the eyes of a secure man falling for an avoidant woman,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this deeply reflective episode, I explore the emotional journey of a three-month relationship marked by intense connection, growing intimacy, and the heartbreak of avoidant behavior. Through the eyes of a secure man falling for an avoidant woman, this story traces the highs of mutual attraction, the confusion of emotional distancing, and the pain of repeated cycles of closeness followed by withdrawal.Whether you've been the one who gave your all or the one who pulled away, this episode shines a light on attachment styles, emotional pacing, and how real love sometimes hurts in silence. I also offer insights for anyone who has found themselves caught in the “chase and retreat” dynamic and what it takes to grow and heal afterward.If you’ve ever wondered why someone pulls away just as things start getting good, this one’s for you.📩 Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br /><br />Push-pull relationships, avoidant attachment podcast, emotional intimacy issues, anxious vs avoidant dynamics, relationship podcast for men, secure attachment, dealing with mixed signals, how to cope after a breakup, emotional push and pull, love and vulnerability, podcast on relationship patterns, why she pulls away, emotional unavailability explained, heartbreak recovery podcast, three-month relationship breakdown<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3142</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3444967866828ced41e5c089c275baec.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The problem of being a Diamond - Bonus ft MCM -Nothing rough about this Diamond</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-problem-of-being-a-diamond-bonus-ft-mcm-nothing-rough-about-this-diamond--66135007</link><description><![CDATA[Nothing rough about this Diamond <br />This episode is a spoken-word monologue called Nothing Rough About This Diamond. It's about unseen worth, quiet brilliance, and the tragedy of not recognizing your own value. If you've ever doubted your light—or watched someone powerful forget who they are—this one is for you. A poetic reflection on self-worth, perception, and silent strength.Keywords: self-worth, hidden brilliance, poetic monologue, personal growth, emotional intelligence, confidence, identity, silent strength, empowering reflection, self-esteem]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8d9fece7-1bda-465f-9aa2-611922fd071e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2025 22:58:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66135007/d8b8d368_a105_e6ce_e29b_6fecc435aa27.mp3" length="12873042" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nothing rough about this Diamond 
This episode is a spoken-word monologue called Nothing Rough About This Diamond. It's about unseen worth, quiet brilliance, and the tragedy of not recognizing your own value. If you've ever doubted your light—or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nothing rough about this Diamond <br />This episode is a spoken-word monologue called Nothing Rough About This Diamond. It's about unseen worth, quiet brilliance, and the tragedy of not recognizing your own value. If you've ever doubted your light—or watched someone powerful forget who they are—this one is for you. A poetic reflection on self-worth, perception, and silent strength.Keywords: self-worth, hidden brilliance, poetic monologue, personal growth, emotional intelligence, confidence, identity, silent strength, empowering reflection, self-esteem]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>322</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/864dff65bfff69702be149fa3eca7086.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>214</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 212 – Running From the Warmth: Understanding the Inner World of Avoidant Attachment</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-212-running-from-the-warmth-understanding-the-inner-world-of-avoidant-attachment--65882474</link><description><![CDATA[Why do some people pull away just when love starts to feel real?In this deep and reflective episode, MCM explores the hidden emotional world of those with avoidant attachment styles—the ones who crave connection but run from it the moment things get serious. Through 11 revealing insights, you'll hear why love often triggers withdrawal, how emotional closeness can feel unsafe, and why avoidants might test, push, or even sabotage the very connection they long for.This episode is for anyone trying to understand confusing relationship patterns, heal from emotional distance, or learn how to set boundaries with someone who seems hot-and-cold. Whether you're the avoidant one, the one dating an avoidant, or just trying to make sense of your past, this conversation breaks it down in a raw, honest way—without the fluff.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Why affection can feel like a threat</li><li>How avoidants love deeply but silently</li><li>The push-pull cycle that leaves both people exhausted</li><li>Emotional endurance tests, withdrawal, and sabotage</li><li>What healing and secure love really look like</li></ul>🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs to hear this.📩 For comments, feedback, or episode ideas: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />📱 Find the show on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You're Probably Right</a>#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #PodcastForMen #EmotionalDistance #RelationshipPatterns #MCM #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #EmotionalIntelligence #HealingLove #PushPullRelationshipsWould<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">562e50ca-3dcb-4e03-a521-4211976da9d5</guid><pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2025 13:47:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65882474/28eaf54e_4397_6448_c0e1_8ff8b7da588b.mp3" length="101473832" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do some people pull away just when love starts to feel real?In this deep and reflective episode, MCM explores the hidden emotional world of those with avoidant attachment styles—the ones who crave connection but run from it the moment things get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do some people pull away just when love starts to feel real?In this deep and reflective episode, MCM explores the hidden emotional world of those with avoidant attachment styles—the ones who crave connection but run from it the moment things get serious. Through 11 revealing insights, you'll hear why love often triggers withdrawal, how emotional closeness can feel unsafe, and why avoidants might test, push, or even sabotage the very connection they long for.This episode is for anyone trying to understand confusing relationship patterns, heal from emotional distance, or learn how to set boundaries with someone who seems hot-and-cold. Whether you're the avoidant one, the one dating an avoidant, or just trying to make sense of your past, this conversation breaks it down in a raw, honest way—without the fluff.Topics covered include:<ul><li>Why affection can feel like a threat</li><li>How avoidants love deeply but silently</li><li>The push-pull cycle that leaves both people exhausted</li><li>Emotional endurance tests, withdrawal, and sabotage</li><li>What healing and secure love really look like</li></ul>🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs to hear this.📩 For comments, feedback, or episode ideas: yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />📱 Find the show on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You're Probably Right</a>#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #PodcastForMen #EmotionalDistance #RelationshipPatterns #MCM #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #EmotionalIntelligence #HealingLove #PushPullRelationshipsWould<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2537</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8f7d79e46f27016838e44235e7bf10d3.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>211</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 211: Knowing Your Worth in LoveLife, and Career Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-211-knowing-your-worth-in-lovelife-and-career-part-1--65771790</link><description><![CDATA[Over the next few segments, we’ll explore how knowing your worth plays out in different areas of life and why it matters universally. We’ll start with love and relationships – recognizing when you might be settling for less than you deserve and how to set healthy boundaries. Then we’ll move into personal growth, looking at how self-worth affects your mental health, goal-setting, and resilience after failure. After that, we’ll talk career and ambitions – advocating for yourself at work, recognizing your talents, and avoiding toxic environments that drag you down. We’ll also highlight some clear signs that you truly know your worth (practical things like walking away from mistreatment or celebrating your small wins). And finally, we’ll discuss how to rebuild your confidence and self-respect if you’ve lost it – whether due to rejection, a breakup, job loss, or any personal failure.By the end of this episode, I hope you’ll feel more confident, more understood, and above all, more empowered to reclaim your sense of worth no matter where you are in life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3d63089c-a2a2-4bf6-9bb9-c797e24104af</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2025 20:46:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65771790/230806ea_58b7_44dd_f1fe_f36a1dc70f79.mp3" length="80051653" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Over the next few segments, we’ll explore how knowing your worth plays out in different areas of life and why it matters universally. We’ll start with love and relationships – recognizing when you might be settling for less than you deserve and how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Over the next few segments, we’ll explore how knowing your worth plays out in different areas of life and why it matters universally. We’ll start with love and relationships – recognizing when you might be settling for less than you deserve and how to set healthy boundaries. Then we’ll move into personal growth, looking at how self-worth affects your mental health, goal-setting, and resilience after failure. After that, we’ll talk career and ambitions – advocating for yourself at work, recognizing your talents, and avoiding toxic environments that drag you down. We’ll also highlight some clear signs that you truly know your worth (practical things like walking away from mistreatment or celebrating your small wins). And finally, we’ll discuss how to rebuild your confidence and self-respect if you’ve lost it – whether due to rejection, a breakup, job loss, or any personal failure.By the end of this episode, I hope you’ll feel more confident, more understood, and above all, more empowered to reclaim your sense of worth no matter where you are in life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/725ac9da1115e2d40e243ed9d9e7c8c4.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>211</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 210: How a Bad Relationship Can Change Your Life – For Better or Worse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-210-how-a-bad-relationship-can-change-your-life-for-better-or-worse--64903107</link><description><![CDATA[🔥 The Aftermath of Love – A Five-Part Reflection🎙 "Now that we’ve looked at the damage and the growth, let’s break down the emotional journey that comes after."🎤 1️⃣ The Wreckage – When You Finally See the Damage<br />🎤 2️⃣ The Crash – Reality Hits Hard<br />🎤 3️⃣ The Awakening – The First Glimpse of Freedom<br />🎤 4️⃣ The Lesson – What You Take With You<br />🎤 5️⃣ The Rebirth – You’re Not Just Moving On, You’re Moving Forward🎙 "By the time you reach the other side, you’ll realize something: That version of you—the one who settled, the one who doubted, the one who accepted less than they deserved—is gone. And what comes next? That’s entirely up to you."🎶 (Outro music fades in, then out)🆕 Episode 210: How a Bad Relationship Can Change Your Life – For Better or Worse<br />🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and everywhere you stream!📩 For questions or collaborations, email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a>#ToxicRelationships #HealingAfterBreakup #BreakupRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SelfGrowth #EmotionalHealing #BreakupClarity #SelfLove #PersonalDevelopment #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #SelfAwareness #RebuildYourLife #RelationshipAdvice #MovingOn #BreakupWisdom📌 Podcast Episode Details:SEO-Optimized Tags:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">459fc54c-5704-48b4-b342-a8fa7607884f</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2025 18:02:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64903107/741ff86c_5b11_c631_a9c0_d5d69d7dc1ae.mp3" length="133518937" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🔥 The Aftermath of Love – A Five-Part Reflection🎙 "Now that we’ve looked at the damage and the growth, let’s break down the emotional journey that comes after."🎤 1️⃣ The Wreckage – When You Finally See the Damage
🎤 2️⃣ The Crash – Reality Hits Hard
🎤...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🔥 The Aftermath of Love – A Five-Part Reflection🎙 "Now that we’ve looked at the damage and the growth, let’s break down the emotional journey that comes after."🎤 1️⃣ The Wreckage – When You Finally See the Damage<br />🎤 2️⃣ The Crash – Reality Hits Hard<br />🎤 3️⃣ The Awakening – The First Glimpse of Freedom<br />🎤 4️⃣ The Lesson – What You Take With You<br />🎤 5️⃣ The Rebirth – You’re Not Just Moving On, You’re Moving Forward🎙 "By the time you reach the other side, you’ll realize something: That version of you—the one who settled, the one who doubted, the one who accepted less than they deserved—is gone. And what comes next? That’s entirely up to you."🎶 (Outro music fades in, then out)🆕 Episode 210: How a Bad Relationship Can Change Your Life – For Better or Worse<br />🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and everywhere you stream!📩 For questions or collaborations, email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a>#ToxicRelationships #HealingAfterBreakup #BreakupRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SelfGrowth #EmotionalHealing #BreakupClarity #SelfLove #PersonalDevelopment #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #SelfAwareness #RebuildYourLife #RelationshipAdvice #MovingOn #BreakupWisdom📌 Podcast Episode Details:SEO-Optimized Tags:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3336</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1ce5976fdb0c4440eae75ae5b2694a78.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>210</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Podcast Episode 209: Are You an Option or a Priority? The Signs You Can’t Ignore</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcast-episode-209-are-you-an-option-or-a-priority-the-signs-you-can-t-ignore--64872508</link><description><![CDATA[Are you a real priority in your partner’s life—or just an option they keep on standby? In this episode, we break down 10 clear signs that reveal whether someone truly values you or is just keeping you around for convenience. From inconsistent communication to avoiding commitment, flirting with others, and putting in minimal effort, these red flags are easy to spot once you know what to look for.If you’ve ever questioned where you stand in someone’s life, this episode is for you. You deserve a relationship where your presence is cherished, not one where you’re an afterthought. Let’s talk about what being a priority really looks like—and how to stop settling for less.📌 Topics Covered:<br />✔️ The biggest red flags that show you’re being treated as an option<br />✔️ Why people keep “back burner” relationships &amp; how to recognize it<br />✔️ How to reclaim your self-worth and demand real commitment<br />✔️ When it’s time to walk away and stop making excuses🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and everywhere you stream!<br />📩 For questions or collaborations, email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a>#RelationshipAdvice #DatingRedFlags #ToxicRelationships #KnowYourWorth #SelfRespect #LoveAndRelationships #ModernDating #SignsOfLove #DatingPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #CommitmentIssues #Situationships #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalInvestment<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">450981ab-cca0-4f57-9e14-d631183b7fc2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2025 01:23:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64872508/06ba8da6_b08a_cda4_8735_260ed7e89742.mp3" length="88086436" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you a real priority in your partner’s life—or just an option they keep on standby? In this episode, we break down 10 clear signs that reveal whether someone truly values you or is just keeping you around for convenience. From inconsistent...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you a real priority in your partner’s life—or just an option they keep on standby? In this episode, we break down 10 clear signs that reveal whether someone truly values you or is just keeping you around for convenience. From inconsistent communication to avoiding commitment, flirting with others, and putting in minimal effort, these red flags are easy to spot once you know what to look for.If you’ve ever questioned where you stand in someone’s life, this episode is for you. You deserve a relationship where your presence is cherished, not one where you’re an afterthought. Let’s talk about what being a priority really looks like—and how to stop settling for less.📌 Topics Covered:<br />✔️ The biggest red flags that show you’re being treated as an option<br />✔️ Why people keep “back burner” relationships &amp; how to recognize it<br />✔️ How to reclaim your self-worth and demand real commitment<br />✔️ When it’s time to walk away and stop making excuses🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and everywhere you stream!<br />📩 For questions or collaborations, email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a>#RelationshipAdvice #DatingRedFlags #ToxicRelationships #KnowYourWorth #SelfRespect #LoveAndRelationships #ModernDating #SignsOfLove #DatingPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #CommitmentIssues #Situationships #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalInvestment<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2202</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9bbb4e12c561ee791d9a93dfdc782810.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 205 – The Unspoken Game: How Two People Know There’s Something There</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-205-the-unspoken-game-how-two-people-know-there-s-something-there--64756591</link><description><![CDATA[🔥 Ever felt a spark with someone, even when no words were exchanged? In Episode 205 of "You're Probably Right," we’re diving deep into the unspoken game of attraction—how two people can sense something without ever saying it outright.👀 Do they feel it too? We’ll break down:<br />✔️ The subtle tests people use to gauge interest<br />✔️ How casual interactions turn into something meaningful<br />✔️ The blurred line between playful flirting and real chemistry<br />✔️ How to read body language, social cues, and timingIf you've ever caught someone's eye and just knew there was something there—or if you're questioning whether it’s all in your head—this episode is for you. 🎙️🎧 Listen now! [Insert podcast link]<br />📩 Got a story or question about unspoken attraction? Email me at https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />🔄 Share this episode with a friend who’s overanalyzing texts from their crush!#Podcast #UnspokenAttraction #Relationships #Flirting #BodyLanguage #YoureProbablyRight]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a2f65568-5325-478c-b9d5-9d87ada1f0a7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2025 05:07:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64756591/639afe1a_0f7b_6a9a_1f2e_354aa3b1cd6c.mp3" length="192102871" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🔥 Ever felt a spark with someone, even when no words were exchanged? In Episode 205 of "You're Probably Right," we’re diving deep into the unspoken game of attraction—how two people can sense something without ever saying it outright.👀 Do they feel it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🔥 Ever felt a spark with someone, even when no words were exchanged? In Episode 205 of "You're Probably Right," we’re diving deep into the unspoken game of attraction—how two people can sense something without ever saying it outright.👀 Do they feel it too? We’ll break down:<br />✔️ The subtle tests people use to gauge interest<br />✔️ How casual interactions turn into something meaningful<br />✔️ The blurred line between playful flirting and real chemistry<br />✔️ How to read body language, social cues, and timingIf you've ever caught someone's eye and just knew there was something there—or if you're questioning whether it’s all in your head—this episode is for you. 🎙️🎧 Listen now! [Insert podcast link]<br />📩 Got a story or question about unspoken attraction? Email me at https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121<br />🔄 Share this episode with a friend who’s overanalyzing texts from their crush!#Podcast #UnspokenAttraction #Relationships #Flirting #BodyLanguage #YoureProbablyRight]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4800</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/727b3a7cf2d956f23ae69681d321b31a.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>205</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 207: Wifey Material – The 15 Things That Make a Man Stay</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-207-wifey-material-the-15-things-that-make-a-man-stay--64756574</link><description><![CDATA[What do men really look for in a woman? It’s not just about looks. In this episode, I break down the key traits that make a man commit for the long haul—kindness, loyalty, emotional stability, intelligence, supportiveness, and more. If you’ve ever wondered why some women hold a man’s attention for years while others become just a memory, this episode is for you. Tune in to uncover the unspoken truths about attraction, love, and what makes a woman irreplaceable in a man’s life."<br /><ul> <li>What men want in a woman</li> <li>How to be attractive beyond looks</li> <li>Relationship advice for women</li> <li>What makes a woman wife material</li> <li>Traits men find irresistible</li> <li>Why men commit to certain women</li> <li>Understanding male attraction</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9b31ba47-bbc3-45fb-8444-517469df98e3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2025 05:07:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64756574/3d4f71c9_d828_17c1_2437_b754acd4ed0c.mp3" length="122541859" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What do men really look for in a woman? It’s not just about looks. In this episode, I break down the key traits that make a man commit for the long haul—kindness, loyalty, emotional stability, intelligence, supportiveness, and more. If you’ve ever...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What do men really look for in a woman? It’s not just about looks. In this episode, I break down the key traits that make a man commit for the long haul—kindness, loyalty, emotional stability, intelligence, supportiveness, and more. If you’ve ever wondered why some women hold a man’s attention for years while others become just a memory, this episode is for you. Tune in to uncover the unspoken truths about attraction, love, and what makes a woman irreplaceable in a man’s life."<br /><ul> <li>What men want in a woman</li> <li>How to be attractive beyond looks</li> <li>Relationship advice for women</li> <li>What makes a woman wife material</li> <li>Traits men find irresistible</li> <li>Why men commit to certain women</li> <li>Understanding male attraction</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3061</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/085fe61dd08d5261d6cd2f656056df5a.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>207</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 206: Why We Want What Pulls Away – The Psychology of Scarcity, Flirtation &amp; The Chase</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-206-why-we-want-what-pulls-away-the-psychology-of-scarcity-flirtation-the-chase--64660021</link><description><![CDATA[Ever been in a situation where the moment someone pulls away, your interest in them skyrockets? Maybe you were barely paying attention before, but now that they’ve gone quiet, you’re checking your phone every five minutes, wondering what changed.""This isn’t just in your head—it’s psychology at work. We chase what runs, we want what’s scarce, and we fight for what seems just out of reach. Today, we’re breaking down why this happens, why some people use this to manipulate others, and how you can protect yourself from chasing something that isn’t actually good for you.""From ‘playing hard to get’ to the phenomenon of people wanting their ex back only when they move on—this episode is going to explain it all. Buckle up."]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2259ade4-f2b9-4fce-9832-9c24f0a5ab09</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2025 15:45:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64660021/3186a4a7_3acf_eb09_8689_9577a30cf1d3.mp3" length="63287296" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever been in a situation where the moment someone pulls away, your interest in them skyrockets? Maybe you were barely paying attention before, but now that they’ve gone quiet, you’re checking your phone every five minutes, wondering what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever been in a situation where the moment someone pulls away, your interest in them skyrockets? Maybe you were barely paying attention before, but now that they’ve gone quiet, you’re checking your phone every five minutes, wondering what changed.""This isn’t just in your head—it’s psychology at work. We chase what runs, we want what’s scarce, and we fight for what seems just out of reach. Today, we’re breaking down why this happens, why some people use this to manipulate others, and how you can protect yourself from chasing something that isn’t actually good for you.""From ‘playing hard to get’ to the phenomenon of people wanting their ex back only when they move on—this episode is going to explain it all. Buckle up."]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1580</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0495f556afb4c671272a00c5d57d4f32.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>206</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 208: Unfiltered &amp; Unscripted – Answering the Questions I Never Prepared For</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-208-unfiltered-unscripted-answering-the-questions-i-never-prepared-for--64660022</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 208: Unfiltered &amp; Unscripted – Answering the Questions I Never Prepared ForDescription:What happens when you sit down and answer deeply personal, unexpected questions on the spot—with no script, no prep, and no filter? That’s exactly what I’m doing in this episode.This isn’t just any Q&amp;A session. These are questions designed in the styles of Oprah Winfrey, Barbara Walters, and Call Her Daddy—ranging from introspective and thought-provoking to raw, direct, and maybe even a little uncomfortable.💭 What moments in my life shaped who I am today?<br />💡 What would I tell my younger self if I had five minutes with him?<br />🔥 What’s the hardest truth I’ve had to accept about love, success, or failure?<br />🚀 Where am I really going with my podcast—and with my life?I have NO idea what’s about to come out of my mouth, but that’s the beauty of this experiment. No pre-written answers, no second chances—just real talk, straight from my gut.This is me, completely unfiltered. Let’s get into it.🎧 Listen here:<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br />🔗 Spotify Podcast Link (Insert Spotify Link Here)<br />📩 Email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com#Unscripted #RawConversations #PodcastInterview #RealTalk #OprahStyle #BarbaraWalters #CallHerDaddy #YoureProbablyRight]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">86f86530-3490-413c-8e10-aca1c84323d1</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2025 15:35:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64660022/2421327c_ce6b_6c41_746f_fdfe110c5b61.mp3" length="241749533" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 208: Unfiltered &amp;amp; Unscripted – Answering the Questions I Never Prepared ForDescription:What happens when you sit down and answer deeply personal, unexpected questions on the spot—with no script, no prep, and no filter? That’s exactly what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 208: Unfiltered &amp; Unscripted – Answering the Questions I Never Prepared ForDescription:What happens when you sit down and answer deeply personal, unexpected questions on the spot—with no script, no prep, and no filter? That’s exactly what I’m doing in this episode.This isn’t just any Q&amp;A session. These are questions designed in the styles of Oprah Winfrey, Barbara Walters, and Call Her Daddy—ranging from introspective and thought-provoking to raw, direct, and maybe even a little uncomfortable.💭 What moments in my life shaped who I am today?<br />💡 What would I tell my younger self if I had five minutes with him?<br />🔥 What’s the hardest truth I’ve had to accept about love, success, or failure?<br />🚀 Where am I really going with my podcast—and with my life?I have NO idea what’s about to come out of my mouth, but that’s the beauty of this experiment. No pre-written answers, no second chances—just real talk, straight from my gut.This is me, completely unfiltered. Let’s get into it.🎧 Listen here:<br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a><br />🔗 Spotify Podcast Link (Insert Spotify Link Here)<br />📩 Email me at yprpodcast@gmail.com#Unscripted #RawConversations #PodcastInterview #RealTalk #OprahStyle #BarbaraWalters #CallHerDaddy #YoureProbablyRight]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6042</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/04037eb6a5703356c75916bd2b6dcc6c.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>208</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 204 - Part 2: The 5 Conversations That Reveal Everything About a Person</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-204-part-2-the-5-conversations-that-reveal-everything-about-a-person--64638042</link><description><![CDATA[<br />Description:<br />In Part 2, we continue exploring the five powerful conversations that provide deep insight into a person’s character.<ul> <li>The Dreams &amp; Goals Conversation – Find out what drives someone and whether their ambitions align with yours.</li> <li>The Failure &amp; Adversity Conversation – Learn how they handle setbacks, accountability, and personal growth.</li>  <li>How They Talk About Others – The ultimate test: What does their attitude towards friends, exes, and coworkers reveal about them?</li></ul>Whether you're navigating dating, friendships, or business partnerships, these conversations help you build stronger, more authentic connections.🎧 Listen now to uncover what people’s words really reveal about them!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d6ac3294-1ba9-49e5-b996-bb645ba46867</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2025 00:49:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64638042/207bf1c5_1cf1_9c90_2322_66dd8d501500.mp3" length="165048928" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
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In Part 2, we continue exploring the five powerful conversations that provide deep insight into a person’s character. 
- The Dreams &amp;amp; Goals Conversation – Find out what drives someone and whether their ambitions align with yours. 
-...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />Description:<br />In Part 2, we continue exploring the five powerful conversations that provide deep insight into a person’s character.<ul> <li>The Dreams &amp; Goals Conversation – Find out what drives someone and whether their ambitions align with yours.</li> <li>The Failure &amp; Adversity Conversation – Learn how they handle setbacks, accountability, and personal growth.</li>  <li>How They Talk About Others – The ultimate test: What does their attitude towards friends, exes, and coworkers reveal about them?</li></ul>Whether you're navigating dating, friendships, or business partnerships, these conversations help you build stronger, more authentic connections.🎧 Listen now to uncover what people’s words really reveal about them!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4124</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2035420f1972aabec25fae78f22872ed.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>204</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 204 - Part 1: The 5 Conversations That Reveal Everything About a Person</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-204-part-1-the-5-conversations-that-reveal-everything-about-a-person--64638043</link><description><![CDATA[<br />Description:<br />Ever wonder how to truly understand someone beyond small talk? In Part 1 of this episode, we break down the first two of five key conversations that reveal a person's true character, values, and mindset.<ul> <li>The Core Values Conversation – Learn how to uncover what truly matters to someone and how their beliefs shape their decisions.</li> <li>The Family &amp; Upbringing Conversation – Discover how childhood experiences influence personality, relationships, and life perspectives.</li></ul>These discussions offer a shortcut to understanding trust, compatibility, and potential red flags in friendships, relationships, and professional settings. Tune in and start having conversations that actually matter.🔹 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7cc150cd-2e15-45da-92fd-6c9c0b940cd0</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2025 00:47:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64638043/f122f08e_8f62_9d5a_a615_e16e4a935a61.mp3" length="182699344" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
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Ever wonder how to truly understand someone beyond small talk? In Part 1 of this episode, we break down the first two of five key conversations that reveal a person's true character, values, and mindset. 
- The Core Values Conversation –...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br />Description:<br />Ever wonder how to truly understand someone beyond small talk? In Part 1 of this episode, we break down the first two of five key conversations that reveal a person's true character, values, and mindset.<ul> <li>The Core Values Conversation – Learn how to uncover what truly matters to someone and how their beliefs shape their decisions.</li> <li>The Family &amp; Upbringing Conversation – Discover how childhood experiences influence personality, relationships, and life perspectives.</li></ul>These discussions offer a shortcut to understanding trust, compatibility, and potential red flags in friendships, relationships, and professional settings. Tune in and start having conversations that actually matter.🔹 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4565</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/410757c93389a04cd4e7ff49b313a1f1.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>204</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 203: The Truth About Self-Care: Why It’s Not Selfish, It’s Survival</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-203-the-truth-about-self-care-why-it-s-not-selfish-it-s-survival--64533140</link><description><![CDATA[Tired of being exhausted all the time? You’re not alone. We live in a culture that glorifies burnout, but the truth is—running on empty isn’t something to be proud of. In this episode, we break down why self-care is survival, how to set boundaries without guilt, and the biggest myths keeping people stuck in exhaustion. If you’ve ever felt guilty about saying no, this one’s for you."🔹 Tags: #SelfCare #BurnoutRecovery #MentalHealthMatters #SetBoundaries #EmotionalWellness #EnergyManagement #HealthyMindset #ProductivityTips]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0fe70282-1cf0-421c-a5d3-f26719d61e7a</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2025 21:52:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64533140/aad39508_1b6b_17e5_c2f2_0359e69f185f.mp3" length="83976892" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tired of being exhausted all the time? You’re not alone. We live in a culture that glorifies burnout, but the truth is—running on empty isn’t something to be proud of. In this episode, we break down why self-care is survival, how to set boundaries...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tired of being exhausted all the time? You’re not alone. We live in a culture that glorifies burnout, but the truth is—running on empty isn’t something to be proud of. In this episode, we break down why self-care is survival, how to set boundaries without guilt, and the biggest myths keeping people stuck in exhaustion. If you’ve ever felt guilty about saying no, this one’s for you."🔹 Tags: #SelfCare #BurnoutRecovery #MentalHealthMatters #SetBoundaries #EmotionalWellness #EnergyManagement #HealthyMindset #ProductivityTips]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2097</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0109e87d8c79edca340ebcee30a8b933.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>203</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 202: She's Just Playing: Why Women Tease and How to Spot a Player</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-202-she-s-just-playing-why-women-tease-and-how-to-spot-a-player--64522097</link><description><![CDATA[Discover the psychology behind flirtation in Episode 202 of You're Probably Right. We explain why some poeple tease for attention, the power moves behind their behaviour, and offer advice on spotting a player before you invest emotionally. Listen now on Spotify at <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b3c2b1e1-8246-42b6-9812-14d6f01cd316</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2025 05:50:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64522097/188d0da2_3358_2f0b_5171_1ed19b087169.mp3" length="82082008" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover the psychology behind flirtation in Episode 202 of You're Probably Right. We explain why some poeple tease for attention, the power moves behind their behaviour, and offer advice on spotting a player before you invest emotionally. Listen now...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover the psychology behind flirtation in Episode 202 of You're Probably Right. We explain why some poeple tease for attention, the power moves behind their behaviour, and offer advice on spotting a player before you invest emotionally. Listen now on Spotify at <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2050</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4a1e0c4a4ff3751f1c5701db55c686cc.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>202</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 201: Can Men and Women REALLY Be Just Friends?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-201-can-men-and-women-really-be-just-friends--64519651</link><description><![CDATA[Uncover the truth behind opposite-sex friendships in this thought-provoking episode. We examine who benefits more, why men might be waiting for their chance, and whether genuine platonic relationships can exist. Listen now on Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">48b628c0-3ff4-4f75-accd-9360e8001c39</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2025 01:05:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64519651/72db59be_e648_454f_8fca_f597083a2f4e.mp3" length="86062576" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Uncover the truth behind opposite-sex friendships in this thought-provoking episode. We examine who benefits more, why men might be waiting for their chance, and whether genuine platonic relationships can exist. Listen now on Spotify:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Uncover the truth behind opposite-sex friendships in this thought-provoking episode. We examine who benefits more, why men might be waiting for their chance, and whether genuine platonic relationships can exist. Listen now on Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://open.spotify.com/show/ypr_podcast</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2149</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3c192284de0423a3bfa491abd2e8f9c8.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>201</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Choked Out, New Balance, and Comfortable Dockers: The 10 Tests That Reveal If She’s REALLY In Your Corner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/choked-out-new-balance-and-comfortable-dockers-the-10-tests-that-reveal-if-she-s-really-in-your-corner--64504251</link><description><![CDATA[If you lost everything tomorrow—your money, status, looks, confidence—would she still stay?In Episode 200 of You're Probably Right, we’re breaking down what really holds a relationship together. Forget the social media fantasies and surface-level relationship goals—this is about what happens when life hits hard.<ul> <li>When you’re broke, will she still respect you?</li> <li>When you’re not looking your best, will she still desire you?</li>  <li>When you lose your confidence, will she remind you who you are or start looking elsewhere?</li></ul>These ten tests will reveal if your woman is truly in it for the long haul or just here for the good times. Because if she only loves you when things are great, what happens when they aren’t?This episode is for every man who wants to:<ul>  <li>Make sure he’s choosing the right partner</li>  <li>Avoid getting stuck in a conditional relationship</li>  <li>Build a real, unshakable bond that stands the test of time</li></ul>Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.#Episode200 #Relationships #MenAndWomen #Masculinity #PickingTheRightOne #RedFlags #Marriage #DatingTips #Podcast #RealTalk]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">880637e2-f13a-439d-8d8c-5b19ad6b8458</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Feb 2025 00:02:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64504251/def25b3a_616d_c4d2_3df6_e6e7287368dd.mp3" length="141771866" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you lost everything tomorrow—your money, status, looks, confidence—would she still stay?In Episode 200 of You're Probably Right, we’re breaking down what really holds a relationship together. Forget the social media fantasies and surface-level...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you lost everything tomorrow—your money, status, looks, confidence—would she still stay?In Episode 200 of You're Probably Right, we’re breaking down what really holds a relationship together. Forget the social media fantasies and surface-level relationship goals—this is about what happens when life hits hard.<ul> <li>When you’re broke, will she still respect you?</li> <li>When you’re not looking your best, will she still desire you?</li>  <li>When you lose your confidence, will she remind you who you are or start looking elsewhere?</li></ul>These ten tests will reveal if your woman is truly in it for the long haul or just here for the good times. Because if she only loves you when things are great, what happens when they aren’t?This episode is for every man who wants to:<ul>  <li>Make sure he’s choosing the right partner</li>  <li>Avoid getting stuck in a conditional relationship</li>  <li>Build a real, unshakable bond that stands the test of time</li></ul>Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.#Episode200 #Relationships #MenAndWomen #Masculinity #PickingTheRightOne #RedFlags #Marriage #DatingTips #Podcast #RealTalk]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3542</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7b8ab5c37f4b817e941cc8a100040bfc.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>200</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 199: Why Dating at a Short-Term Job Is Risky, but Finding a Life Partner at Your Career Job Makes Sense</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-199-why-dating-at-a-short-term-job-is-risky-but-finding-a-life-partner-at-your-career-job-makes-sense--64419758</link><description><![CDATA[Is workplace dating worth the risk? The answer depends on whether it’s just a job or your long-term career. In this episode, we break down why dating at a temporary job can lead to drama, distractions, and dead ends, while finding a partner in your career field could actually be one of the smartest moves you make.Short-term job relationships: Risky, complicated, and often more trouble than they’re worth.<br />Career-based relationships: Built on shared values, mutual goals, and long-term compatibility.🔎 We’ll explore:<br />✔️ The real dangers of workplace relationships in high-turnover jobs<br />✔️ How professional environments create strong foundations for lasting connections<br />✔️ The surprising parallels between meeting someone at work and in a faith-based setting<br />✔️ Why dating multiple coworkers in the same workplace is a bad ideaDon’t just date where you work—date where you build your future.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you stream your podcasts.<br />#WorkplaceRelationships #DatingAtWork #OfficeRomance #CareerAndLove #ProfessionalDating #FindingLove #LongTermRelationships #PodcastEpisode #LoveAndCareer #DatingMistakes]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c76cd3b7-2c0c-45e4-9c5c-a3fa40305425</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2025 15:27:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64419758/381e1c77_b06e_073b_b417_1f5569719f23.mp3" length="88382315" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is workplace dating worth the risk? The answer depends on whether it’s just a job or your long-term career. In this episode, we break down why dating at a temporary job can lead to drama, distractions, and dead ends, while finding a partner in your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is workplace dating worth the risk? The answer depends on whether it’s just a job or your long-term career. In this episode, we break down why dating at a temporary job can lead to drama, distractions, and dead ends, while finding a partner in your career field could actually be one of the smartest moves you make.Short-term job relationships: Risky, complicated, and often more trouble than they’re worth.<br />Career-based relationships: Built on shared values, mutual goals, and long-term compatibility.🔎 We’ll explore:<br />✔️ The real dangers of workplace relationships in high-turnover jobs<br />✔️ How professional environments create strong foundations for lasting connections<br />✔️ The surprising parallels between meeting someone at work and in a faith-based setting<br />✔️ Why dating multiple coworkers in the same workplace is a bad ideaDon’t just date where you work—date where you build your future.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you stream your podcasts.<br />#WorkplaceRelationships #DatingAtWork #OfficeRomance #CareerAndLove #ProfessionalDating #FindingLove #LongTermRelationships #PodcastEpisode #LoveAndCareer #DatingMistakes]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2207</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0c14ba1415c4d2556f6b1e8053b1ea72.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 198: How to Identify Your Ideal Partner: A Guide to Defining Relationship Goals</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-198-how-to-identify-your-ideal-partner-a-guide-to-defining-relationship-goals--64398224</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 198 of You're Probably Right, we delve into the crucial process of understanding what you truly desire in a partner. Many individuals enter relationships without clear criteria, leading to mismatched expectations and heartache. This episode offers a step-by-step guide to help you:<ul> <li>Recognize Common Pitfalls: Learn why people often struggle to define their relationship needs and how to avoid these mistakes.</li> <li>Identify Non-Negotiables: Determine your core values, lifestyle preferences, and the essential traits you seek in a partner.</li>  <li>Create a Personalized Checklist: Develop a structured list to differentiate between must-haves, preferences, and bonuses in a relationship.</li>  <li>Avoid Common Dating Mistakes: Understand the red flags and misconceptions that can derail your search for a compatible partner.</li>  <li>Apply Insights Practically: Gain actionable advice on how to implement your criteria in real-life dating scenarios.</li></ul>Call to Action: If you found this episode insightful, please subscribe, share it with friends, and join the conversation on Instagram @ypr_podcast. Explore our full podcast library on Spotify and reach out with your biggest dating questions.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e1a3cc8-7d12-4c4c-a7c8-1901bceb1831</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Feb 2025 00:05:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64398224/841aac82_3ab1_0843_5f82_5f666fe3af42.mp3" length="122259016" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 198 of You're Probably Right, we delve into the crucial process of understanding what you truly desire in a partner. Many individuals enter relationships without clear criteria, leading to mismatched expectations and heartache. This episode...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 198 of You're Probably Right, we delve into the crucial process of understanding what you truly desire in a partner. Many individuals enter relationships without clear criteria, leading to mismatched expectations and heartache. This episode offers a step-by-step guide to help you:<ul> <li>Recognize Common Pitfalls: Learn why people often struggle to define their relationship needs and how to avoid these mistakes.</li> <li>Identify Non-Negotiables: Determine your core values, lifestyle preferences, and the essential traits you seek in a partner.</li>  <li>Create a Personalized Checklist: Develop a structured list to differentiate between must-haves, preferences, and bonuses in a relationship.</li>  <li>Avoid Common Dating Mistakes: Understand the red flags and misconceptions that can derail your search for a compatible partner.</li>  <li>Apply Insights Practically: Gain actionable advice on how to implement your criteria in real-life dating scenarios.</li></ul>Call to Action: If you found this episode insightful, please subscribe, share it with friends, and join the conversation on Instagram @ypr_podcast. 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In this episode, we're diving deep into understanding what you want in a partner before you start dating. Many people approach dating without clear intentions, leading to frustration and heartbreak. But what if you could change that narrative? By the end of this episode, you'll have the tools to define your relationship standards, create a personal checklist, and avoid common pitfalls. So, let's embark on this journey together. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8384b3d1-f3f7-4fc8-867b-bd3a50da307f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Feb 2025 13:33:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64207018/40d5f2a8_fb70_23ba_a29e_43b15cbe83fe.mp3" length="43123179" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever looked back on a relationship and thought, "I should’ve seen the signs"? Maybe there were red flags you ignored, or perhaps you never truly understood what you were seeking in a partner. Today, that changes. 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So, let's embark on this journey together. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1076</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/84d0172dd181d97ed0ba77460f47e657.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>198</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 197: So Your Kid Sucks at School… Now What?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-197-so-your-kid-sucks-at-school-now-what--64140175</link><description><![CDATA[Episode 197: "So Your Kid Sucks at School… Now What?" 📌 Optimized Podcast Description (Copy &amp; Paste) Your kid is struggling in school. Now what? Is it laziness, a learning disability, or just bad teaching? In this episode, we break down:<br />✔ Why kids fall behind academically<br />✔ What parents can do to help (without making it worse)<br />✔ The real reasons schools fail struggling students<br />✔ How to rebuild a child’s confidence in learning 🚨 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream! 🚨 📢 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #EducationMatters #SchoolStruggles #ParentingTips #StudentSuccess #Podcast #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d053ae28-f484-4c3c-aa6b-322a7715938e</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Feb 2025 04:20:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64140175/54991fe9_8168_4480_ac4e_e7c2d1df764d.mp3" length="98307930" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode 197: "So Your Kid Sucks at School… Now What?" 📌 Optimized Podcast Description (Copy &amp;amp; Paste) Your kid is struggling in school. Now what? Is it laziness, a learning disability, or just bad teaching? In this episode, we break down:
✔ Why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 197: "So Your Kid Sucks at School… Now What?" 📌 Optimized Podcast Description (Copy &amp; Paste) Your kid is struggling in school. Now what? Is it laziness, a learning disability, or just bad teaching? In this episode, we break down:<br />✔ Why kids fall behind academically<br />✔ What parents can do to help (without making it worse)<br />✔ The real reasons schools fail struggling students<br />✔ How to rebuild a child’s confidence in learning 🚨 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream! 🚨 📢 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #EducationMatters #SchoolStruggles #ParentingTips #StudentSuccess #Podcast #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2456</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3d7e8eced8a10bfd2d1471badcbf34d0.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>197</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Podcast Episode 196: Reading the Unspoken: The Hidden Meaning Behind Body Language</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcast-episode-196-reading-the-unspoken-the-hidden-meaning-behind-body-language--64137028</link><description><![CDATA[Optimized Episode Description (To Copy &amp; Paste) 🎙 Episode 196: "Reading the Unspoken: The Hidden Meaning Behind Body Language" 💡 Want to know what people are REALLY saying—without words? Most of what we communicate isn’t in what we say—it’s in how we move, react, and hold ourselves. In this episode, we uncover the hidden messages behind body language—from fake smiles and nervous fidgeting to the power of eye contact and posture. ✔ Learn to read microexpressions &amp; subconscious cues<br />✔ Spot attraction, deception, and disengagement in real-time<br />✔ Understand how body language changes in dating, business, and everyday life 🔥 LISTEN NOW: [Insert your podcast link here] 📢 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #BodyLanguage #NonverbalCommunication #SocialCues #MenAndWomen #UnderstandingPeople #Podcast #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">cc2abafb-c91f-42a7-8a6d-4486bb09d321</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Feb 2025 23:48:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64137028/b6309e95_7fd0_bb30_40fd_c58ac2814445.mp3" length="94963767" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Optimized Episode Description (To Copy &amp;amp; Paste) 🎙 Episode 196: "Reading the Unspoken: The Hidden Meaning Behind Body Language" 💡 Want to know what people are REALLY saying—without words? Most of what we communicate isn’t in what we say—it’s in how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Optimized Episode Description (To Copy &amp; Paste) 🎙 Episode 196: "Reading the Unspoken: The Hidden Meaning Behind Body Language" 💡 Want to know what people are REALLY saying—without words? Most of what we communicate isn’t in what we say—it’s in how we move, react, and hold ourselves. In this episode, we uncover the hidden messages behind body language—from fake smiles and nervous fidgeting to the power of eye contact and posture. ✔ Learn to read microexpressions &amp; subconscious cues<br />✔ Spot attraction, deception, and disengagement in real-time<br />✔ Understand how body language changes in dating, business, and everyday life 🔥 LISTEN NOW: [Insert your podcast link here] 📢 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #BodyLanguage #NonverbalCommunication #SocialCues #MenAndWomen #UnderstandingPeople #Podcast #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2372</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bb3032d85f93e4c8e3a39d6b9588edb8.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>196</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Podcast Episode 195: How to Actually Talk to People: Face-to-Face Conversations in a Digital World</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcast-episode-195-how-to-actually-talk-to-people-face-to-face-conversations-in-a-digital-world--64109444</link><description><![CDATA[Podcast Episode 195: "How to Actually Talk to People: Face-to-Face Conversations in a Digital World" 🎙 Episode Description (For Spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc.) Why do so many people struggle with face-to-face conversations? In a world ruled by texting, social media, and voice notes, the art of real-life communication is disappearing. This episode explores:<br />✔ Why people avoid in-person interactions<br />✔ How digital communication is rewiring our brains<br />✔ The different ways men &amp; women talk (and why that matters)<br />✔ How to make conversations smoother and more natural<br />✔ Conversation starters that won’t embarrass you but will gauge real interest 📌 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream! 📢 Call to Action (For Engagement &amp; Growth) <ul><li>Follow the podcast for more insights on relationships, masculinity, and social dynamics.</li><li>DM me your biggest conversation struggles—I’ll address them in a future episode.</li><li>Tag a friend who needs to hear this!</li></ul> 📍 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />🎧 Listen: [Spotify Link]<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #Communication #Conversations #Podcast #MenAndWomen #SocialSkills #FaceToFaceTalk #Masculinity #Relationships #YoureProbablyRightPodcast <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">37ef1668-27af-4364-9af4-59a2c149a159</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Feb 2025 01:53:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64109444/737b3820_fbf0_948e_bb7c_4fc7f902d172.mp3" length="115752566" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Podcast Episode 195: "How to Actually Talk to People: Face-to-Face Conversations in a Digital World" 🎙 Episode Description (For Spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc.) Why do so many people struggle with face-to-face conversations? In a world ruled by texting,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Podcast Episode 195: "How to Actually Talk to People: Face-to-Face Conversations in a Digital World" 🎙 Episode Description (For Spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc.) Why do so many people struggle with face-to-face conversations? In a world ruled by texting, social media, and voice notes, the art of real-life communication is disappearing. This episode explores:<br />✔ Why people avoid in-person interactions<br />✔ How digital communication is rewiring our brains<br />✔ The different ways men &amp; women talk (and why that matters)<br />✔ How to make conversations smoother and more natural<br />✔ Conversation starters that won’t embarrass you but will gauge real interest 📌 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream! 📢 Call to Action (For Engagement &amp; Growth) <ul><li>Follow the podcast for more insights on relationships, masculinity, and social dynamics.</li><li>DM me your biggest conversation struggles—I’ll address them in a future episode.</li><li>Tag a friend who needs to hear this!</li></ul> 📍 Follow &amp; Connect:<br />🎧 Listen: [Spotify Link]<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: [Facebook Link]<br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> #Communication #Conversations #Podcast #MenAndWomen #SocialSkills #FaceToFaceTalk #Masculinity #Relationships #YoureProbablyRightPodcast <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2892</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b3a9ca5631ada18c59931e55864fad5f.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>195</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 194: "Men, Women, and the Conversations You Never Have"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-194-men-women-and-the-conversations-you-never-have--64086983</link><description><![CDATA[🎙 Episode 194: "Men, Women, and the Conversations You Never Have" 💬 Why do men hold back conversations with women? Why do we rehearse words in our heads but never say them? This episode breaks down the unspoken words that shape relationships, exploring the psychology of hesitation, fear of rejection, and the complexities of communication between men and women. 🔹 Are you the guy who listens but never speaks? The one who's always "just a friend" or the one who overthinks every word? Let's talk about it. 🎧 Listen Now on Your Favorite Platform:<br />🔗 Spotify: <a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/youreprobablyright/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">creators.spotify.com/pod/show/youreprobablyright</a><br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a> 📢 Join the Conversation &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559871372994" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559871372994</a><br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> 📌 Topics Covered:<br />✔ The real reason men hesitate to speak up<br />✔ The silent expectations in conversations with women<br />✔ How social media has changed the way men and women communicate<br />✔ Are you being strategic or just scared?<br />✔ How to stop overthinking and actually connect 🚀 Don't just think about it—press play and let's break this down. 🎙 Follow for more real talk on masculinity, relationships, and life. #Communication #MenAndWomen #UnspokenWords #Relationships #Podcast #Masculinity #ConversationsMatter #Podcasting]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">93ce57c0-0ee1-4326-8679-1935ad67c133</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2025 14:37:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64086983/a2517060_b355_ead5_ab5e_3dffbd964bf6.mp3" length="89554395" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>🎙 Episode 194: "Men, Women, and the Conversations You Never Have" 💬 Why do men hold back conversations with women? Why do we rehearse words in our heads but never say them? This episode breaks down the unspoken words that shape relationships,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[🎙 Episode 194: "Men, Women, and the Conversations You Never Have" 💬 Why do men hold back conversations with women? Why do we rehearse words in our heads but never say them? This episode breaks down the unspoken words that shape relationships, exploring the psychology of hesitation, fear of rejection, and the complexities of communication between men and women. 🔹 Are you the guy who listens but never speaks? The one who's always "just a friend" or the one who overthinks every word? Let's talk about it. 🎧 Listen Now on Your Favorite Platform:<br />🔗 Spotify: <a href="https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/youreprobablyright/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">creators.spotify.com/pod/show/youreprobablyright</a><br />🔗 Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121</a> 📢 Join the Conversation &amp; Connect:<br />📍 Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ypr_podcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ypr_podcast</a><br />📍 Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559871372994" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559871372994</a><br />📍 Email: <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">yprpodcast@gmail.com</a> 📌 Topics Covered:<br />✔ The real reason men hesitate to speak up<br />✔ The silent expectations in conversations with women<br />✔ How social media has changed the way men and women communicate<br />✔ Are you being strategic or just scared?<br />✔ How to stop overthinking and actually connect 🚀 Don't just think about it—press play and let's break this down. 🎙 Follow for more real talk on masculinity, relationships, and life. #Communication #MenAndWomen #UnspokenWords #Relationships #Podcast #Masculinity #ConversationsMatter #Podcasting]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2237</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/474d6163bfa3adbd9751035320b56fa8.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>194</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 193: "The Unwritten Rules of Life: What No One Told You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-193-the-unwritten-rules-of-life-what-no-one-told-you--63983352</link><description><![CDATA[Life doesn’t come with a manual—but it should. In this episode, we unpack the unspoken rules of success, relationships, and social dynamics that people learn the hard way. From why effort doesn’t always equal reward to how people manipulate social capital, we break down the game so you can stop playing yourself. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. In The Unwritten Rules of Life: What No One Told You, we explore the silent agreements, invisible expectations, and unwritten laws that govern how success and failure unfold. Why do some people thrive while others stay stuck? What are the common mistakes people make in love, work, and personal growth? This episode cuts through the fluff and lays out the real game of life that many wish they knew earlier. Whether you’re navigating relationships, career choices, or self-improvement, this episode is packed with practical wisdom to help you level up. Key Themes &amp; Discussion Points:1. The Myth of Hard Work: Effort ≠ Success <ul><li>Why doing more doesn’t always mean achieving more.</li><li>The difference between being productive and being valuable.</li><li>How the world rewards perception over effort.</li></ul><ul><li>The real reason people lose interest—even when you do everything "right."</li><li>Why emotional availability is currency (and how most people misuse it).</li><li>The silent hierarchy in relationships that no one talks about.</li></ul><ul><li>Why being agreeable doesn’t get you ahead—it gets you overlooked.</li><li>The psychology of respect: How people categorize you the moment they meet you.</li><li>How to balance kindness with maintaining power.</li></ul><ul><li>Why people strategically position themselves in friendships and networks.</li><li>How to recognize when someone is keeping you around for their convenience.</li><li>The reason some people climb social ladders while others remain invisible.</li></ul><ul><li>Why self-discovery is a trap if you don’t take action.</li><li>The real secret to figuring out what you want in life.</li><li>Why overthinking kills progress (and what to do instead).</li></ul> 2. The Unfair Truth About Relationships3. The Hidden Cost of Being "Too Nice"4. Social Currency &amp; How People Use It Against You5. The Illusion of "Finding Yourself <ul><li>Life Lessons No One Tells You</li><li>How to Succeed in Life</li><li>Unspoken Rules of Success</li><li>Hard Work vs Smart Work</li><li>Social Currency and Power Dynamics</li><li>Why People Disrespect You</li><li>Psychology of Success and Failure</li><li>The Friend Zone &amp; Social Hierarchy</li><li>How to Take Control of Your Life</li><li>Relationship Advice &amp; Power Shifts</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c624d48c-444c-44f6-8e98-4da77028b6c7</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jan 2025 01:29:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63983352/23763ebb_8936_7936_1d7e_58507394ad5d.mp3" length="152444778" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Life doesn’t come with a manual—but it should. In this episode, we unpack the unspoken rules of success, relationships, and social dynamics that people learn the hard way. From why effort doesn’t always equal reward to how people manipulate social...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life doesn’t come with a manual—but it should. In this episode, we unpack the unspoken rules of success, relationships, and social dynamics that people learn the hard way. From why effort doesn’t always equal reward to how people manipulate social capital, we break down the game so you can stop playing yourself. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. In The Unwritten Rules of Life: What No One Told You, we explore the silent agreements, invisible expectations, and unwritten laws that govern how success and failure unfold. Why do some people thrive while others stay stuck? What are the common mistakes people make in love, work, and personal growth? This episode cuts through the fluff and lays out the real game of life that many wish they knew earlier. Whether you’re navigating relationships, career choices, or self-improvement, this episode is packed with practical wisdom to help you level up. Key Themes &amp; Discussion Points:1. The Myth of Hard Work: Effort ≠ Success <ul><li>Why doing more doesn’t always mean achieving more.</li><li>The difference between being productive and being valuable.</li><li>How the world rewards perception over effort.</li></ul><ul><li>The real reason people lose interest—even when you do everything "right."</li><li>Why emotional availability is currency (and how most people misuse it).</li><li>The silent hierarchy in relationships that no one talks about.</li></ul><ul><li>Why being agreeable doesn’t get you ahead—it gets you overlooked.</li><li>The psychology of respect: How people categorize you the moment they meet you.</li><li>How to balance kindness with maintaining power.</li></ul><ul><li>Why people strategically position themselves in friendships and networks.</li><li>How to recognize when someone is keeping you around for their convenience.</li><li>The reason some people climb social ladders while others remain invisible.</li></ul><ul><li>Why self-discovery is a trap if you don’t take action.</li><li>The real secret to figuring out what you want in life.</li><li>Why overthinking kills progress (and what to do instead).</li></ul> 2. The Unfair Truth About Relationships3. The Hidden Cost of Being "Too Nice"4. Social Currency &amp; How People Use It Against You5. The Illusion of "Finding Yourself <ul><li>Life Lessons No One Tells You</li><li>How to Succeed in Life</li><li>Unspoken Rules of Success</li><li>Hard Work vs Smart Work</li><li>Social Currency and Power Dynamics</li><li>Why People Disrespect You</li><li>Psychology of Success and Failure</li><li>The Friend Zone &amp; Social Hierarchy</li><li>How to Take Control of Your Life</li><li>Relationship Advice &amp; Power Shifts</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3809</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/667c1a983e1e143a25687bfae887c206.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>193</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Friend Zoned and Over It: Why You're Stuck and How to Break Free - Ep192</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/friend-zoned-and-over-it-why-you-re-stuck-and-how-to-break-free-ep192--63903878</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in the friend zone? Discover why you're there, how to escape, and what it means to reclaim your value. Tune in for real talk and solutions. <br />In Friend Zoned and Over It: Why You're Stuck and How to Break Free, we dive into the realities of being stuck in a one-sided dynamic where you're good enough for everything except a real relationship. We’ll explore the subtle manipulation, the mixed signals, and the tough decisions you need to make to break free. Are you their emotional crutch or their backup plan? This episode delivers hard truths, self-reflection, and practical advice for those ready to move on and level up.   Are you truly valued in this relationship, or just a placeholder?  Do they only reach out when they need something?  What keeps you hanging on—hope, fear, or lack of options?  How would your life change if you stopped being available?   Are you afraid of losing them, or losing the idea of them?   What’s stopping you from setting clear boundaries?   Would they do for you what you do for them?   How much longer are you willing to wait for something that may never happen?   Are they really your friend, or just using your presence as comfort?   How do you want to define your worth moving forward?  Closing Thought:<br />"If you're always the shoulder to cry on but never the hand they hold, it's time to reassess. You deserve more than being an emotional backup plan. Stepping away isn't giving up; it's choosing yourself. It's time to stop waiting and start living." <br />    Escaping the friend zone   Signs you're stuck in the friend zone   How to stop being just a friend   Setting boundaries in friendships   Emotional manipulation in relationships   Recognizing self-worth in dating   Walking away from toxic relationships   Friend zone recovery strategies   Why you're always the 'nice guy' or 'good friend'   How to build confidence after rejection  <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">726fde82-b14e-444a-9f8e-c1213e2b8456</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jan 2025 02:35:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63903878/be80d715_cdcb_ebf3_0228_dcc14bc5e167.mp3" length="184906133" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling stuck in the friend zone? Discover why you're there, how to escape, and what it means to reclaim your value. Tune in for real talk and solutions. 
In Friend Zoned and Over It: Why You're Stuck and How to Break Free, we dive into the realities...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in the friend zone? Discover why you're there, how to escape, and what it means to reclaim your value. Tune in for real talk and solutions. <br />In Friend Zoned and Over It: Why You're Stuck and How to Break Free, we dive into the realities of being stuck in a one-sided dynamic where you're good enough for everything except a real relationship. We’ll explore the subtle manipulation, the mixed signals, and the tough decisions you need to make to break free. Are you their emotional crutch or their backup plan? This episode delivers hard truths, self-reflection, and practical advice for those ready to move on and level up.   Are you truly valued in this relationship, or just a placeholder?  Do they only reach out when they need something?  What keeps you hanging on—hope, fear, or lack of options?  How would your life change if you stopped being available?   Are you afraid of losing them, or losing the idea of them?   What’s stopping you from setting clear boundaries?   Would they do for you what you do for them?   How much longer are you willing to wait for something that may never happen?   Are they really your friend, or just using your presence as comfort?   How do you want to define your worth moving forward?  Closing Thought:<br />"If you're always the shoulder to cry on but never the hand they hold, it's time to reassess. You deserve more than being an emotional backup plan. Stepping away isn't giving up; it's choosing yourself. It's time to stop waiting and start living." <br />    Escaping the friend zone   Signs you're stuck in the friend zone   How to stop being just a friend   Setting boundaries in friendships   Emotional manipulation in relationships   Recognizing self-worth in dating   Walking away from toxic relationships   Friend zone recovery strategies   Why you're always the 'nice guy' or 'good friend'   How to build confidence after rejection  <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4621</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bb823b4bfad5bac27ddc0e1728791ed6.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>192</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Art of the Friend Zone: Where Hope Goes to Die – Ep191</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-the-friend-zone-where-hope-goes-to-die-ep191--63899288</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in the friend zone? This episode unpacks the truth about being the backup plan, the emotional crutch, and the convenient option. Learn how to recognize the signs, take back your power, and finally move on from being "just a friend." Tune in now for some raw, real talk. In The Art of the Friend Zone: Where Hope Goes to Die – Ep191, we explore the hard truths of why some relationships never go beyond "just friends." Are you stuck being their emotional support while they chase someone else? Do they give you just enough attention to keep you around but never enough to commit? We’ll dive into the psychology behind being kept on standby and, more importantly, how to break free from the cycle and reclaim your value. If you've ever felt trapped in the frustrating gray area between friendship and something more, this episode is for you. <br /><br /><ul><li>The Friend Zone Explained</li><li>How to Get Out of the Friend Zone</li><li>Emotional Support vs. Real Connection</li><li>Recognizing Relationship Red Flags</li><li>Self-Worth in Friendships</li><li>How to Stop Being Just a Friend</li><li>Setting Boundaries in Relationships</li><li>Friend Zone Psychology</li><li>Mixed Signals in Relationships</li><li>Knowing When to Walk Away</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">616b6d09-3ea9-456d-a001-f33a4e3d92da</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jan 2025 20:19:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63899288/bb5607ea_3222_6b04_5aa0_897a3626231a.mp3" length="188207520" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling stuck in the friend zone? This episode unpacks the truth about being the backup plan, the emotional crutch, and the convenient option. Learn how to recognize the signs, take back your power, and finally move on from being "just a friend." Tune...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in the friend zone? This episode unpacks the truth about being the backup plan, the emotional crutch, and the convenient option. Learn how to recognize the signs, take back your power, and finally move on from being "just a friend." Tune in now for some raw, real talk. In The Art of the Friend Zone: Where Hope Goes to Die – Ep191, we explore the hard truths of why some relationships never go beyond "just friends." Are you stuck being their emotional support while they chase someone else? Do they give you just enough attention to keep you around but never enough to commit? We’ll dive into the psychology behind being kept on standby and, more importantly, how to break free from the cycle and reclaim your value. If you've ever felt trapped in the frustrating gray area between friendship and something more, this episode is for you. <br /><br /><ul><li>The Friend Zone Explained</li><li>How to Get Out of the Friend Zone</li><li>Emotional Support vs. Real Connection</li><li>Recognizing Relationship Red Flags</li><li>Self-Worth in Friendships</li><li>How to Stop Being Just a Friend</li><li>Setting Boundaries in Relationships</li><li>Friend Zone Psychology</li><li>Mixed Signals in Relationships</li><li>Knowing When to Walk Away</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4703</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cf26504b000ad32507d420e5e5b5a8d2.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>191</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Should You Share Your High School Transcript with Your Kids? – Ep190</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-you-share-your-high-school-transcript-with-your-kids-ep190--63866811</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 190, Should You Share Your High School Transcript with Your Kids?, we explore a fresh parenting strategy—revealing your academic past to your children. Whether it’s to inspire, connect, or teach valuable life lessons, transparency can offer insights beyond grades. But does it always help? We discuss the pros and cons, including relatability, inspiration, and the risk of unrealistic expectations. If you're a parent wondering whether your past can shape your child's future, this episode is for you. <br /><ul><li>Parenting and Academic Transparency</li><li>Talking to Kids About Education</li><li>Motivating Children Through Personal Stories</li><li>Sharing Academic History with Kids</li><li>Life Lessons Through Education</li><li>Overcoming Academic Struggles</li><li>Inspiring Kids with Your Past</li><li>Encouraging Personal Growth in Children</li><li>Navigating Academic Pressure</li><li>Parenting Strategies for Student Success</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7fff5821-a644-4b15-9875-059f756f58ef</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 03:15:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63866811/c1d8a9ef_7662_efb7_2c5d_e5dc9f9dc6f3.mp3" length="102657055" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 190, Should You Share Your High School Transcript with Your Kids?, we explore a fresh parenting strategy—revealing your academic past to your children. Whether it’s to inspire, connect, or teach valuable life lessons, transparency can offer...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 190, Should You Share Your High School Transcript with Your Kids?, we explore a fresh parenting strategy—revealing your academic past to your children. Whether it’s to inspire, connect, or teach valuable life lessons, transparency can offer insights beyond grades. But does it always help? We discuss the pros and cons, including relatability, inspiration, and the risk of unrealistic expectations. If you're a parent wondering whether your past can shape your child's future, this episode is for you. <br /><ul><li>Parenting and Academic Transparency</li><li>Talking to Kids About Education</li><li>Motivating Children Through Personal Stories</li><li>Sharing Academic History with Kids</li><li>Life Lessons Through Education</li><li>Overcoming Academic Struggles</li><li>Inspiring Kids with Your Past</li><li>Encouraging Personal Growth in Children</li><li>Navigating Academic Pressure</li><li>Parenting Strategies for Student Success</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2564</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/39d4efd3b97ec8bbab7839c493f27256.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>190</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don’t Wait for Approval: Pursue Your Purpose – Ep189</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-wait-for-approval-pursue-your-purpose-ep189--63746871</link><description><![CDATA[Are you holding back your dreams because of someone else’s opinion? Discover how to reclaim your confidence, pursue your purpose, and stop seeking approval from those who don’t support you. This episode shares personal lessons about resilience, faith, and self-belief. In "Don’t Wait for Approval: Pursue Your Purpose," I share my journey of overcoming the fear of criticism and the cost of letting someone else’s opinion dictate my dreams. From running a thriving DJ channel in 2008 -2012 to hesitating on starting my podcast until years later, I reflect on why it’s crucial to stay true to your path—even when support feels nonexistent. Whether you’re holding back because of a past relationship, fear of judgment, or self-doubt, this episode will remind you to trust your instincts, have faith, and push forward with determination. Your purpose doesn’t depend on anyone else’s approval. <ul><li>Overcoming Fear of Criticism</li><li>Pursuing Your Dreams Without Validation</li><li>Resilience in Creativity</li><li>Faith and Purpose in Life</li><li>Lessons From Past Regrets</li><li>Moving Forward After Doubt</li><li>Self-Belief and Confidence</li><li>Stop Seeking Approval</li><li>Thriving Despite Criticism</li><li>Lessons From Failed Relationships</li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d5f88db3-3a2d-4226-b497-a068496ab0bc</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jan 2025 22:44:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63746871/02144a93_4062_b7df_fedb_2be8d40d1100.mp3" length="111259210" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you holding back your dreams because of someone else’s opinion? Discover how to reclaim your confidence, pursue your purpose, and stop seeking approval from those who don’t support you. This episode shares personal lessons about resilience, faith,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you holding back your dreams because of someone else’s opinion? Discover how to reclaim your confidence, pursue your purpose, and stop seeking approval from those who don’t support you. This episode shares personal lessons about resilience, faith, and self-belief. In "Don’t Wait for Approval: Pursue Your Purpose," I share my journey of overcoming the fear of criticism and the cost of letting someone else’s opinion dictate my dreams. From running a thriving DJ channel in 2008 -2012 to hesitating on starting my podcast until years later, I reflect on why it’s crucial to stay true to your path—even when support feels nonexistent. Whether you’re holding back because of a past relationship, fear of judgment, or self-doubt, this episode will remind you to trust your instincts, have faith, and push forward with determination. Your purpose doesn’t depend on anyone else’s approval. <ul><li>Overcoming Fear of Criticism</li><li>Pursuing Your Dreams Without Validation</li><li>Resilience in Creativity</li><li>Faith and Purpose in Life</li><li>Lessons From Past Regrets</li><li>Moving Forward After Doubt</li><li>Self-Belief and Confidence</li><li>Stop Seeking Approval</li><li>Thriving Despite Criticism</li><li>Lessons From Failed Relationships</li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2780</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6719d3420ebb5fb67ad53a91e3ef017c.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>189</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Life’s Uncertainties and Cultural Confusion – Ep188</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-s-uncertainties-and-cultural-confusion-ep188--63733697</link><description><![CDATA[Explore life’s uncertainties and the struggle to find meaningful connections in today’s world. Discuss culture, individuality, and the challenges of speaking your mind in a society that demands conformity. Perfect for listeners questioning their place in a divided world. In "Life’s Uncertainties and Cultural Confusion," we take a hard look at why so many people—from their 20s to their 50s—are feeling lost in the search for relationships and identity. With shrinking choices, societal narratives that suppress individuality, and a world where standing up for yourself often leads to backlash, how do we navigate the chaos? I’ll share a personal story about a simple Kijiji transaction gone wrong and reflect on what it says about life’s bigger picture. Tune in as we discuss life’s uncertainties, cultural clashes, and the courage to live authentically despite the noise. <br /><ul><li>Coping with Life’s Uncertainties</li><li>Shrinking Dating Pool Struggles</li><li>Cultural Chaos and Identity</li><li>Speaking Your Mind in Society</li><li>Generational Challenges in Finding Love</li><li>Authentic Living in a Divided World</li><li>Societal Narratives vs Individual Beliefs</li><li>Technology’s Impact on Relationships</li><li>Navigating Life’s Challenges</li><li>Staying True to Yourself</li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">983a221f-5447-48bb-907d-a10779b538c9</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jan 2025 02:18:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63733697/d90f5cc2_6848_ee9e_818d_10c6c8356aa6.mp3" length="142034099" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Explore life’s uncertainties and the struggle to find meaningful connections in today’s world. Discuss culture, individuality, and the challenges of speaking your mind in a society that demands conformity. Perfect for listeners questioning their place...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Explore life’s uncertainties and the struggle to find meaningful connections in today’s world. Discuss culture, individuality, and the challenges of speaking your mind in a society that demands conformity. Perfect for listeners questioning their place in a divided world. In "Life’s Uncertainties and Cultural Confusion," we take a hard look at why so many people—from their 20s to their 50s—are feeling lost in the search for relationships and identity. With shrinking choices, societal narratives that suppress individuality, and a world where standing up for yourself often leads to backlash, how do we navigate the chaos? I’ll share a personal story about a simple Kijiji transaction gone wrong and reflect on what it says about life’s bigger picture. Tune in as we discuss life’s uncertainties, cultural clashes, and the courage to live authentically despite the noise. <br /><ul><li>Coping with Life’s Uncertainties</li><li>Shrinking Dating Pool Struggles</li><li>Cultural Chaos and Identity</li><li>Speaking Your Mind in Society</li><li>Generational Challenges in Finding Love</li><li>Authentic Living in a Divided World</li><li>Societal Narratives vs Individual Beliefs</li><li>Technology’s Impact on Relationships</li><li>Navigating Life’s Challenges</li><li>Staying True to Yourself</li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3549</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/43b039613275a108469c9286166468db.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>188</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Movies That Move Us: Exploring Hope, Nostalgia, and Connection – Ep187</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/movies-that-move-us-exploring-hope-nostalgia-and-connection-ep187--63660931</link><description><![CDATA[Discover the magic behind movies that inspire hope, nostalgia, and connection. From cross-cultural films to tearjerking romances, we unpack what makes cinema unforgettable. Perfect for film lovers seeking deeper connections in storytelling. In "Movies That Move Us: Exploring Hope, Nostalgia, and Connection," we uncover the elements that make movies truly unforgettable. Why do we crave stories filled with fantasy, hope, and emotional depth? How do cultural perspectives, subtitles, and themes of love and nostalgia elevate the cinematic experience? Join me as we explore the magic of movies and why they have the power to inspire, connect, and move us in profound ways. If you’re a film lover, this episode will have you looking at movies in a whole new light. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">cf0c9be0-0093-4e63-9b65-48ba3184d647</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Jan 2025 23:28:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63660931/db8b820e_4ae0_2fdc_5d1c_507be2be51a2.mp3" length="91044676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover the magic behind movies that inspire hope, nostalgia, and connection. From cross-cultural films to tearjerking romances, we unpack what makes cinema unforgettable. Perfect for film lovers seeking deeper connections in storytelling. In "Movies...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover the magic behind movies that inspire hope, nostalgia, and connection. From cross-cultural films to tearjerking romances, we unpack what makes cinema unforgettable. Perfect for film lovers seeking deeper connections in storytelling. In "Movies That Move Us: Exploring Hope, Nostalgia, and Connection," we uncover the elements that make movies truly unforgettable. Why do we crave stories filled with fantasy, hope, and emotional depth? How do cultural perspectives, subtitles, and themes of love and nostalgia elevate the cinematic experience? Join me as we explore the magic of movies and why they have the power to inspire, connect, and move us in profound ways. If you’re a film lover, this episode will have you looking at movies in a whole new light. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2274</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/538b29876842f570f4300b1bb52f696f.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>187</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Marriage, Glory, and Obedience: Facing the Hard Questions (Part B) – Ep186</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-glory-and-obedience-facing-the-hard-questions-part-b-ep186--63571491</link><description><![CDATA[Unpack the deeper struggles of marriage and divorce from a Christian perspective. How does obedience, forgiveness, and honoring God play into staying the course? Perfect for those grappling with marital challenges or seeking a godly perspective on commitment. In "Marriage, Glory, and Obedience: Facing the Hard Questions (Part B)," we continue the conversation on why staying in a difficult marriage might not just be the right choice—it might be the godly one. This episode is packed with thoughtful questions and reflections on commitment, the role of faith, and the purpose of staying true to your vows, even when society tells you otherwise. Let’s go deeper into what it means to stay for God's glory. Supporting Scriptures: <ul><li>Matthew 5:32 - "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery."<br />Discusses biblical grounds for divorce and God’s design for commitment. </li><li>Romans 5:3-5 - "Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope."<br />Reflects on how trials in marriage can produce lasting spiritual growth. </li><li>2 Corinthians 12:9 - "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’"<br />Highlights God’s strength in sustaining us during difficult times. </li><li>Ecclesiastes 4:12 - "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."<br />Emphasizes the strength of a marriage centered on God. </li></ul> "Marriage is a reflection of God’s covenant with His people—enduring, sacrificial, and bound by love. When we choose to stay, even when it’s hard, we mirror His unchanging faithfulness. Staying isn’t about winning or losing; it’s about obedience, growth, and glorifying God. If you’re struggling, know this: God sees your pain, and He will strengthen you for the journey ahead. Lean on Him, trust His design, and let your story be one of hope, not bitterness." <ul><li>Christian Marriage Struggles</li><li>Staying Faithful in Difficult Marriages</li><li>Biblical Perspective on Divorce</li><li>Forgiveness and Healing in Marriage</li><li>Marriage as a Covenant</li><li>Faith in Marriage Challenges</li><li>Trusting God Through Marital Struggles</li><li>Overcoming Resentment in Marriage</li><li>Sacrificial Love in Relationships</li><li>God’s Design for Marriage</li></ul><br /> Closing Thought:SEO Tags and Keywords:]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e126a5bb-f63c-4417-aa43-cc8dd75ab7d3</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Jan 2025 04:48:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63571491/46cb9f8f_ae44_5bd8_0830_0394f201c994.mp3" length="91044186" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Unpack the deeper struggles of marriage and divorce from a Christian perspective. How does obedience, forgiveness, and honoring God play into staying the course? Perfect for those grappling with marital challenges or seeking a godly perspective on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unpack the deeper struggles of marriage and divorce from a Christian perspective. How does obedience, forgiveness, and honoring God play into staying the course? Perfect for those grappling with marital challenges or seeking a godly perspective on commitment. In "Marriage, Glory, and Obedience: Facing the Hard Questions (Part B)," we continue the conversation on why staying in a difficult marriage might not just be the right choice—it might be the godly one. This episode is packed with thoughtful questions and reflections on commitment, the role of faith, and the purpose of staying true to your vows, even when society tells you otherwise. Let’s go deeper into what it means to stay for God's glory. Supporting Scriptures: <ul><li>Matthew 5:32 - "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery."<br />Discusses biblical grounds for divorce and God’s design for commitment. </li><li>Romans 5:3-5 - "Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope."<br />Reflects on how trials in marriage can produce lasting spiritual growth. </li><li>2 Corinthians 12:9 - "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’"<br />Highlights God’s strength in sustaining us during difficult times. </li><li>Ecclesiastes 4:12 - "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."<br />Emphasizes the strength of a marriage centered on God. </li></ul> "Marriage is a reflection of God’s covenant with His people—enduring, sacrificial, and bound by love. When we choose to stay, even when it’s hard, we mirror His unchanging faithfulness. Staying isn’t about winning or losing; it’s about obedience, growth, and glorifying God. If you’re struggling, know this: God sees your pain, and He will strengthen you for the journey ahead. Lean on Him, trust His design, and let your story be one of hope, not bitterness." <ul><li>Christian Marriage Struggles</li><li>Staying Faithful in Difficult Marriages</li><li>Biblical Perspective on Divorce</li><li>Forgiveness and Healing in Marriage</li><li>Marriage as a Covenant</li><li>Faith in Marriage Challenges</li><li>Trusting God Through Marital Struggles</li><li>Overcoming Resentment in Marriage</li><li>Sacrificial Love in Relationships</li><li>God’s Design for Marriage</li></ul><br /> Closing Thought:SEO Tags and Keywords:]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2274</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/90e91dd024864f73d157071929a82f2c.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>186</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Marriage, Glory, and Obedience: Why Leaving Isn't Always the Answer | Ep. 185"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-glory-and-obedience-why-leaving-isn-t-always-the-answer-ep-185--63521762</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> "Welcome to Episode 185 of 'You're Probably Right.' Today, we’re tackling a sensitive and controversial topic—the narrative that leaving a marriage, especially as a Christian, is justified whenever personal expectations aren’t met. In a world that often glorifies self-fulfillment over covenant, let’s discuss the hard truths about commitment, obedience, and who truly gets the glory when marriages stand the test of time—or fall apart. If you’re wrestling with the idea of staying or leaving, this one’s for you."  <br /><br /><ol><li>Matthew 19:6 - "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." <ul><li>Emphasizes the sanctity of the marital covenant.</li></ul></li><li>Ephesians 5:25-26 - "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy." <ul><li>Encourages sacrificial love in marriage.</li></ul></li><li>1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud." <ul><li>Defines love’s enduring qualities.</li></ul></li><li>Colossians 3:13 - "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." <ul><li>Highlights the necessity of forgiveness.</li></ul></li><li>Proverbs 14:1 - "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." <ul><li>Warns against rash decisions that harm the family.</li></ul></li></ol> "Marriage isn’t just about you or your spouse—it’s about honoring the covenant you made with God. Every time you choose to stay, to forgive, to love even when it’s hard, you bring glory to the One who joined you together. Leaving might feel like the easier path, but the greatest victories come from obedience. Remember, God’s design for marriage is bigger than your struggles—it’s a reflection of His love and faithfulness to us." <ul><li>Christian Marriage and Divorce</li><li>Staying in Difficult Marriages</li><li>Covenant Marriage Principles</li><li>Honoring God in Relationships</li><li>Biblical Reasons for Divorce</li><li>Marriage Challenges and Faith</li><li>Obedience in Christian Marriage</li><li>Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Coping with Marital Struggles</li><li>Marriage Vows and Commitment</li></ul><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">34d401b5-44dc-4132-88d3-c0b55d08d37c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 22:58:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63521762/06056ecc_05f9_6685_028c_21af77409be3.mp3" length="91752137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 "Welcome to Episode 185 of 'You're Probably Right.' Today, we’re tackling a sensitive and controversial topic—the narrative that leaving a marriage, especially as a Christian, is justified whenever personal expectations aren’t met. In a world that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> "Welcome to Episode 185 of 'You're Probably Right.' Today, we’re tackling a sensitive and controversial topic—the narrative that leaving a marriage, especially as a Christian, is justified whenever personal expectations aren’t met. In a world that often glorifies self-fulfillment over covenant, let’s discuss the hard truths about commitment, obedience, and who truly gets the glory when marriages stand the test of time—or fall apart. If you’re wrestling with the idea of staying or leaving, this one’s for you."  <br /><br /><ol><li>Matthew 19:6 - "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." <ul><li>Emphasizes the sanctity of the marital covenant.</li></ul></li><li>Ephesians 5:25-26 - "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy." <ul><li>Encourages sacrificial love in marriage.</li></ul></li><li>1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud." <ul><li>Defines love’s enduring qualities.</li></ul></li><li>Colossians 3:13 - "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." <ul><li>Highlights the necessity of forgiveness.</li></ul></li><li>Proverbs 14:1 - "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." <ul><li>Warns against rash decisions that harm the family.</li></ul></li></ol> "Marriage isn’t just about you or your spouse—it’s about honoring the covenant you made with God. Every time you choose to stay, to forgive, to love even when it’s hard, you bring glory to the One who joined you together. Leaving might feel like the easier path, but the greatest victories come from obedience. Remember, God’s design for marriage is bigger than your struggles—it’s a reflection of His love and faithfulness to us." <ul><li>Christian Marriage and Divorce</li><li>Staying in Difficult Marriages</li><li>Covenant Marriage Principles</li><li>Honoring God in Relationships</li><li>Biblical Reasons for Divorce</li><li>Marriage Challenges and Faith</li><li>Obedience in Christian Marriage</li><li>Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Coping with Marital Struggles</li><li>Marriage Vows and Commitment</li></ul><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2292</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/064b8bd85a7929e692a02c93ec66ef05.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>185</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Decisions, Regrets, and Redemption: The Aftermath of Love Lost Pt. 2 | Ep. 184</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/decisions-regrets-and-redemption-the-aftermath-of-love-lost-pt-2-ep-184--63512731</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Title: <br /> "Welcome to Episode 184 of 'You're Probably Right.' This is part two of one of our most heartfelt and talked-about episodes. What happens when you’ve given everything to someone, only to have it end with misunderstandings, regrets, and unresolved emotions? Maybe you knew you were the best they ever had, but the things you got wrong cast a shadow over it all. This episode dives deeper into the messy truths of heartbreak, self-reflection, and figuring out how to move forward when the person you thought was your forever decides to walk away. If you've ever been through it, you’ll want to stick around for this one." Heartbreak isn’t the end—it’s a turning point. In this episode, we explore regrets, redemption, and finding peace after love ends. For anyone navigating life post-breakup, this conversation offers raw truths, practical wisdom, and hope. Perfect for those in their mid-30s to 50s seeking clarity and healing. In "Decisions, Regrets, and Redemption: The Aftermath of Love Lost Pt. 2," we dig into the raw and often unspoken realities of heartbreak. What happens when you know you gave your all, but mistakes still led to a breakup? How do you reconcile the person you were with the person you want to become? Whether you’ve been left behind or left someone else, this episode tackles tough questions about regret, faith, and healing. Join me as I share my own experiences and answer the questions many are too afraid to ask. "Regret and heartbreak are part of the human condition, but they don’t have to define you. Every end is a chance to rediscover yourself, to grow, and to heal. Whether you were right or wrong, perfect or flawed, God sees your journey, your pain, and your potential. Love isn’t always lost; sometimes, it’s just reshaped. Let’s walk forward together, scars and all." <ul><li>Healing After Divorce and Breakups</li><li>Navigating Life After Love Ends</li><li>Faith and Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Regret and Redemption in Heartbreak</li><li>Overcoming Loneliness in Your 40s and 50s</li><li>Letting Go of Resentment After Divorce</li><li>Moving Forward When Love Fades</li><li>Self-Reflection Post-Breakup</li><li>Finding Peace and Clarity After Heartache</li><li>Coping with Regret and Loss in Relationships</li></ul><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dc8cdc8b-a85f-4cf0-90bc-aece15b6466f</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 04:38:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63512731/204b7fdb_99d8_acdc_e0fc_39562f696d3b.mp3" length="116437916" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Title: 
 "Welcome to Episode 184 of 'You're Probably Right.' This is part two of one of our most heartfelt and talked-about episodes. What happens when you’ve given everything to someone, only to have it end with misunderstandings, regrets,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Title: <br /> "Welcome to Episode 184 of 'You're Probably Right.' This is part two of one of our most heartfelt and talked-about episodes. What happens when you’ve given everything to someone, only to have it end with misunderstandings, regrets, and unresolved emotions? Maybe you knew you were the best they ever had, but the things you got wrong cast a shadow over it all. This episode dives deeper into the messy truths of heartbreak, self-reflection, and figuring out how to move forward when the person you thought was your forever decides to walk away. If you've ever been through it, you’ll want to stick around for this one." Heartbreak isn’t the end—it’s a turning point. In this episode, we explore regrets, redemption, and finding peace after love ends. For anyone navigating life post-breakup, this conversation offers raw truths, practical wisdom, and hope. Perfect for those in their mid-30s to 50s seeking clarity and healing. In "Decisions, Regrets, and Redemption: The Aftermath of Love Lost Pt. 2," we dig into the raw and often unspoken realities of heartbreak. What happens when you know you gave your all, but mistakes still led to a breakup? How do you reconcile the person you were with the person you want to become? Whether you’ve been left behind or left someone else, this episode tackles tough questions about regret, faith, and healing. Join me as I share my own experiences and answer the questions many are too afraid to ask. "Regret and heartbreak are part of the human condition, but they don’t have to define you. Every end is a chance to rediscover yourself, to grow, and to heal. Whether you were right or wrong, perfect or flawed, God sees your journey, your pain, and your potential. Love isn’t always lost; sometimes, it’s just reshaped. Let’s walk forward together, scars and all." <ul><li>Healing After Divorce and Breakups</li><li>Navigating Life After Love Ends</li><li>Faith and Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Regret and Redemption in Heartbreak</li><li>Overcoming Loneliness in Your 40s and 50s</li><li>Letting Go of Resentment After Divorce</li><li>Moving Forward When Love Fades</li><li>Self-Reflection Post-Breakup</li><li>Finding Peace and Clarity After Heartache</li><li>Coping with Regret and Loss in Relationships</li></ul><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2909</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/81b240dc9fa8179c076b712c5cdd3964.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>184</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Manhood Under the Microscope: Navigating Judgment in Modern Society ,Ep 183</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/manhood-under-the-microscope-navigating-judgment-in-modern-society-ep-183--63512730</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> Introduction Prompt:<br />"Welcome to Episode 183 of 'You're Probably Right.' In a world where traditional values are increasingly questioned and masculinity is often labelled as toxic, how does a man hold onto his identity, his beliefs, and his purpose? This episode is for the men judged harshly for their values and the women who want to understand what it’s like to navigate these pressures. Today, we’re diving into the societal double standards, the struggle for respect, and the misconceptions about traditional manhood. If you’ve ever felt out of place for being who you are, this one’s for you." <br /> Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:<br />In "Manhood Under the Microscope: Navigating Judgment in Modern Society," we explore what it means to be a traditional man in a world that often questions or critiques masculinity. From societal double standards to the clash between faith and modern values, this episode tackles the challenges men face in staying true to themselves. With thought-provoking questions and honest reflections, we aim to shed light on the complexities of manhood today.   <br /><br /><br /><ul><li>Traditional masculinity and modern society</li><li>Challenges of manhood today</li><li>Double standards in gender roles</li><li>Judeo-Christian values in relationships</li><li>Toxic masculinity redefined</li><li>Societal judgment of men</li><li>Equality and men’s struggles</li><li>Identity challenges for men</li><li>Respecting traditional gender roles</li><li>Navigating masculinity in a progressive world</li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f76803a6-2e66-4a01-8b82-80d440ed36e4</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 04:34:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63512730/8bbf7a34_65d7_c50a_49dc_48bf890ee3b9.mp3" length="85623875" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 Introduction Prompt:
"Welcome to Episode 183 of 'You're Probably Right.' In a world where traditional values are increasingly questioned and masculinity is often labelled as toxic, how does a man hold onto his identity, his beliefs, and his purpose?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> Introduction Prompt:<br />"Welcome to Episode 183 of 'You're Probably Right.' In a world where traditional values are increasingly questioned and masculinity is often labelled as toxic, how does a man hold onto his identity, his beliefs, and his purpose? This episode is for the men judged harshly for their values and the women who want to understand what it’s like to navigate these pressures. Today, we’re diving into the societal double standards, the struggle for respect, and the misconceptions about traditional manhood. If you’ve ever felt out of place for being who you are, this one’s for you." <br /> Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:<br />In "Manhood Under the Microscope: Navigating Judgment in Modern Society," we explore what it means to be a traditional man in a world that often questions or critiques masculinity. From societal double standards to the clash between faith and modern values, this episode tackles the challenges men face in staying true to themselves. With thought-provoking questions and honest reflections, we aim to shed light on the complexities of manhood today.   <br /><br /><br /><ul><li>Traditional masculinity and modern society</li><li>Challenges of manhood today</li><li>Double standards in gender roles</li><li>Judeo-Christian values in relationships</li><li>Toxic masculinity redefined</li><li>Societal judgment of men</li><li>Equality and men’s struggles</li><li>Identity challenges for men</li><li>Respecting traditional gender roles</li><li>Navigating masculinity in a progressive world</li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2139</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dd676d2fb0779f603b5762e4ebe8cad8.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>183</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Left Behind: Heartbreak, Forgiveness, and Finding Peace After Love Lost episode 182</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/left-behind-heartbreak-forgiveness-and-finding-peace-after-love-lost-episode-182--63473587</link><description><![CDATA[Explore the heartbreak of losing love despite your efforts to make it work. Discover how faith, forgiveness, and finding peace can help when marriages end and life feels lonely. Perfect for single men and women navigating broken relationships and seeking hope. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:<br />In "Left Behind: Heartbreak, Forgiveness, and Finding Peace After Love Lost," we dive into the struggles of losing love, navigating life after divorce, and confronting the loneliness that follows. As a single man who’s experienced two marriages, I share personal insights into faith, forgiveness, and how God views family and marriage. This episode speaks to anyone grappling with heartache, loss, or the uncertainty of what’s next. Let’s talk about moving forward without bitterness, and finding hope in what remains. <br /><ul><li>Coping with Divorce and Heartbreak</li><li>Faith After Love Lost</li><li>Moving On After Marriage Ends</li><li>Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Healing From Broken Relationships</li><li>Navigating Loneliness as a Single Parent</li><li>Trusting God After Divorce</li><li>Lessons From Love and Loss</li><li>Overcoming Bitterness and Resentment</li><li>Finding Peace After Heartache</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c0f0a37f-ae2a-457a-82c5-c3f06166a223</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Dec 2024 03:25:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63473587/08c15a65_47fa_2c7e_a53f_f59ab989361f.mp3" length="89576789" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Explore the heartbreak of losing love despite your efforts to make it work. Discover how faith, forgiveness, and finding peace can help when marriages end and life feels lonely. Perfect for single men and women navigating broken relationships and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Explore the heartbreak of losing love despite your efforts to make it work. Discover how faith, forgiveness, and finding peace can help when marriages end and life feels lonely. Perfect for single men and women navigating broken relationships and seeking hope. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers:<br />In "Left Behind: Heartbreak, Forgiveness, and Finding Peace After Love Lost," we dive into the struggles of losing love, navigating life after divorce, and confronting the loneliness that follows. As a single man who’s experienced two marriages, I share personal insights into faith, forgiveness, and how God views family and marriage. This episode speaks to anyone grappling with heartache, loss, or the uncertainty of what’s next. Let’s talk about moving forward without bitterness, and finding hope in what remains. <br /><ul><li>Coping with Divorce and Heartbreak</li><li>Faith After Love Lost</li><li>Moving On After Marriage Ends</li><li>Forgiveness in Relationships</li><li>Healing From Broken Relationships</li><li>Navigating Loneliness as a Single Parent</li><li>Trusting God After Divorce</li><li>Lessons From Love and Loss</li><li>Overcoming Bitterness and Resentment</li><li>Finding Peace After Heartache</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2238</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/26e30c601ac2ca5183a65cad977b2982.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>182</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Cherishing Life: Reflections on Loss, Love, and Faith Ep. 181</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/cherishing-life-reflections-on-loss-love-and-faith-ep-181--63467415</link><description><![CDATA[Life is fleeting, relationships fragile, and loss inevitable. In this heartfelt episode, we reflect on family, love, loneliness, and finding purpose in faith. Perfect for anyone seeking meaning amidst life’s challenges and losses. <br /><br /> Cherishing Life" is a raw, heartfelt reflection on the complexities of relationships, the inevitability of loss, and the importance of faith. As a single parent in my 50s, I’ve faced the deaths of my parents, siblings, and marriages. This episode dives into what it means to love, lose, and live in a world that feels lonelier by the day. But it’s not all sorrow—there’s gratitude for what remains and hope for what’s eternal. Join me as I explore how cherishing God, His Word, and the people in our lives can give us strength when everything else fades. <br /><ul><li>Reflecting on Loss and Love </li><li>Faith and Loneliness </li><li>Single Parent Challenges </li><li>Cherishing Family and Relationships </li><li>Navigating Grief and Loss </li><li>Finding Purpose in Faith </li><li>Coping with Family Deaths </li><li>Strength Through Adversity </li><li>Christian Perspective on Life </li><li>Raw and Honest Podcast Episodes </li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">42e8ac61-62e2-40f3-916a-dfdebd935e07</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Dec 2024 03:40:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63467415/831f1f98_a678_520c_cd24_2033f3c3d72f.mp3" length="122737181" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Life is fleeting, relationships fragile, and loss inevitable. In this heartfelt episode, we reflect on family, love, loneliness, and finding purpose in faith. Perfect for anyone seeking meaning amidst life’s challenges and losses. 

 Cherishing Life"...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is fleeting, relationships fragile, and loss inevitable. In this heartfelt episode, we reflect on family, love, loneliness, and finding purpose in faith. Perfect for anyone seeking meaning amidst life’s challenges and losses. <br /><br /> Cherishing Life" is a raw, heartfelt reflection on the complexities of relationships, the inevitability of loss, and the importance of faith. As a single parent in my 50s, I’ve faced the deaths of my parents, siblings, and marriages. This episode dives into what it means to love, lose, and live in a world that feels lonelier by the day. But it’s not all sorrow—there’s gratitude for what remains and hope for what’s eternal. Join me as I explore how cherishing God, His Word, and the people in our lives can give us strength when everything else fades. <br /><ul><li>Reflecting on Loss and Love </li><li>Faith and Loneliness </li><li>Single Parent Challenges </li><li>Cherishing Family and Relationships </li><li>Navigating Grief and Loss </li><li>Finding Purpose in Faith </li><li>Coping with Family Deaths </li><li>Strength Through Adversity </li><li>Christian Perspective on Life </li><li>Raw and Honest Podcast Episodes </li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3067</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c5696000574298cfb81b265438543dc3.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>181</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sabotaging Bad Behaviour: Stopping Yourself Before You Slip</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sabotaging-bad-behaviour-stopping-yourself-before-you-slip--63444120</link><description><![CDATA[Sabotaging Bad Behaviour: Stopping Yourself Before You Slip" dives into how we can recognize, interrupt, and replace destructive habits before they take over. We explore practical strategies for identifying triggers, creating accountability, and building healthier behaviours that align with your goals and values. Whether you’re looking to break out of old cycles or prevent future mistakes, this episode offers honest insights and actionable advice for personal growth.Episode 180.Breaking the cycle of bad behaviour isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being intentional. Every decision is an opportunity to realign with who you want to be. By recognizing triggers, building accountability, and choosing healthier alternatives, you can stop harmful patterns before they take over. Remember, change doesn’t happen overnight, but every small step matters. If you’re here, you’re already taking the first one." 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We explore practical strategies for identifying triggers, creating accountability, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sabotaging Bad Behaviour: Stopping Yourself Before You Slip" dives into how we can recognize, interrupt, and replace destructive habits before they take over. We explore practical strategies for identifying triggers, creating accountability, and building healthier behaviours that align with your goals and values. Whether you’re looking to break out of old cycles or prevent future mistakes, this episode offers honest insights and actionable advice for personal growth.Episode 180.Breaking the cycle of bad behaviour isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being intentional. Every decision is an opportunity to realign with who you want to be. By recognizing triggers, building accountability, and choosing healthier alternatives, you can stop harmful patterns before they take over. Remember, change doesn’t happen overnight, but every small step matters. If you’re here, you’re already taking the first one." 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From relationships to self-discovery, no topic is off-limits. Available now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Listen, think, and decide: Are you probably right too? <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3f3da3df-4062-439c-a3df-97b75dc4b1c9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Dec 2024 01:32:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63321836/391568486_44100_2_15b465fc71a29.mp3" length="671659" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Step into the world of unapologetic honesty with You're Probably Right—the podcast that breaks down life’s big questions with humour, insight, and a dash of controversy. From relationships to self-discovery, no topic is off-limits. Available now on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Step into the world of unapologetic honesty with You're Probably Right—the podcast that breaks down life’s big questions with humour, insight, and a dash of controversy. 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Join me as we explore what it means to live authentically and grow through the unexpected. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers: "Nothing Compares 2 Honest Thoughts" is an unfiltered exploration of personal philosophy, self-reflection, and life’s unexpected twists. Growing up in Toronto and now navigating life as a single parent in my 50s, I tackle the hard truths about disappointment, loss, and understanding what I once thought I knew. This episode isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions to uncover what truly matters. 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Join me as we explore what it means to live authentically and grow through the unexpected. Episode Summary for Podcast Providers: "Nothing Compares 2 Honest Thoughts" is an unfiltered exploration of personal philosophy, self-reflection, and life’s unexpected twists. Growing up in Toronto and now navigating life as a single parent in my 50s, I tackle the hard truths about disappointment, loss, and understanding what I once thought I knew. This episode isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions to uncover what truly matters. Perfect for listeners seeking raw, authentic conversations.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2123</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab6fe3d51dc548c5e0ad0b4640119865.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>179</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Decisions, Decisions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/decisions-decisions--63293778</link><description><![CDATA[Decisions, Decisions: This episode unpacks the pressures we face in relationships, exploring challenges in life, masculinity, femininity and the dynamic expectations from others. 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This episode delves into feelings of not fitting in, the weight of social expectations, and the struggle between maintaining a facade and being true to yourself. It’s a candid look at what happens when the mask slips and how those moments can lead to self-discovery or conflict. Whether you’ve ever felt like you’re living as someone you’re not or you’ve wondered if introversion is still part of who you are, this episode is for you. 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This episode delves into feelings of not fitting in, the weight of social expectations, and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 177 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores the complex emotions of being an introvert forced out of their natural shell by life’s demands. This episode delves into feelings of not fitting in, the weight of social expectations, and the struggle between maintaining a facade and being true to yourself. It’s a candid look at what happens when the mask slips and how those moments can lead to self-discovery or conflict. Whether you’ve ever felt like you’re living as someone you’re not or you’ve wondered if introversion is still part of who you are, this episode is for you. Outed Introvert Podcast, Struggling to Fit In, Living as an Introvert, Authenticity and Social Expectations, Balancing Introversion and Extroversion, You're Probably Right with MCM, Life of an Introvert, Navigating Social Pressure, Being Yourself in a Loud World, Emotional Challenges of Introverts]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3789</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ef2c304da49e4b6f565cf2e0fea75772.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Honesty, Caring, and How It Shapes Who We Are</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/honesty-caring-and-how-it-shapes-who-we-are--63198778</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 176 of "You're Probably Right," MCM talks about the challenges and rewards of being genuinely honest and caring for others without expecting anything in return. In a world where people are skeptical of others' motives, what does it mean to just be good for the sake of it? This episode tackles how honesty and doing good play into our lives, especially when there's no one left to impress. MCM shares personal insights on balancing honesty, caring, and living authentically. Join this candid conversation and see if you're probably right about what it means to truly live by your values. SEO Tags and Keywords: Honesty in Life, Caring Without Expectations, Authentic Living Podcast, You're Probably Right with MCM, Real Talk on Doing Good, Honesty and Relationships, Personal Growth and Honesty, Transparent Living, Living Without Hidden Agendas, The Value of Being Good]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3837afc7-cc9d-44be-afa3-2e2edb91c02d</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2024 01:42:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63198778/7ededc2e_68ce_94e0_4a89_285b1f66ebd6.mp3" length="143034028" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description: In Episode 176 of "You're Probably Right," MCM talks about the challenges and rewards of being genuinely honest and caring for others without expecting anything in return. In a world where people are skeptical of others' motives,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 176 of "You're Probably Right," MCM talks about the challenges and rewards of being genuinely honest and caring for others without expecting anything in return. In a world where people are skeptical of others' motives, what does it mean to just be good for the sake of it? This episode tackles how honesty and doing good play into our lives, especially when there's no one left to impress. MCM shares personal insights on balancing honesty, caring, and living authentically. Join this candid conversation and see if you're probably right about what it means to truly live by your values. SEO Tags and Keywords: Honesty in Life, Caring Without Expectations, Authentic Living Podcast, You're Probably Right with MCM, Real Talk on Doing Good, Honesty and Relationships, Personal Growth and Honesty, Transparent Living, Living Without Hidden Agendas, The Value of Being Good]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3574</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9affda6ff5cb65b115a27975e620b74a.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>176</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Warning Signs Women Shouldn't Ignore When Seeking a New Match</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-warning-signs-women-shouldn-t-ignore-when-seeking-a-new-match--63179910</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 175 of "You're Probably Right," MCM breaks down 10 key warning signs that women—especially those who are single parents or feeling the pressure of time—should watch out for when considering a new relationship. This episode tackles how life's pressures can lead to lowering standards, letting red flags slide, or simply settling for less than you deserve. With practical advice, relatable insights, and real talk, this episode aims to empower women to make better decisions and recognize when it’s time to hit pause, reevaluate, or walk away. Don’t let loneliness or time pressure lead you into settling—know the warning signs and trust your worth. 10 Warning Signs When Seeking a New Match <ol><li>He Pushes for Immediate Commitment <ul><li>A suitor who wants you to commit right away—whether it's moving in, becoming exclusive, or making big promises—might be trying to fast-track the relationship for reasons that aren’t in your best interest. Immediate commitment can be a tactic to bypass your vetting process before you see their true colors. Slow it down, take your time, and make sure you're comfortable with the pace. </li></ul></li><li>Disregard for Your Responsibilities as a Parent <ul><li>If he seems annoyed by your parental duties or expects you to ignore your kids for him, that’s a major red flag. A genuine partner should understand your responsibilities and respect the fact that your children come first.... </li></ul></li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">de163108-1787-4b4a-877b-f22bf03b7229</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2024 23:46:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63179910/d6cb59f2_37fb_6d6d_94eb_1299c7445e25.mp3" length="111036676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description: In Episode 175 of "You're Probably Right," MCM breaks down 10 key warning signs that women—especially those who are single parents or feeling the pressure of time—should watch out for when considering a new relationship. This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 175 of "You're Probably Right," MCM breaks down 10 key warning signs that women—especially those who are single parents or feeling the pressure of time—should watch out for when considering a new relationship. This episode tackles how life's pressures can lead to lowering standards, letting red flags slide, or simply settling for less than you deserve. With practical advice, relatable insights, and real talk, this episode aims to empower women to make better decisions and recognize when it’s time to hit pause, reevaluate, or walk away. Don’t let loneliness or time pressure lead you into settling—know the warning signs and trust your worth. 10 Warning Signs When Seeking a New Match <ol><li>He Pushes for Immediate Commitment <ul><li>A suitor who wants you to commit right away—whether it's moving in, becoming exclusive, or making big promises—might be trying to fast-track the relationship for reasons that aren’t in your best interest. Immediate commitment can be a tactic to bypass your vetting process before you see their true colors. Slow it down, take your time, and make sure you're comfortable with the pace. </li></ul></li><li>Disregard for Your Responsibilities as a Parent <ul><li>If he seems annoyed by your parental duties or expects you to ignore your kids for him, that’s a major red flag. A genuine partner should understand your responsibilities and respect the fact that your children come first.... </li></ul></li></ol>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2774</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8670632e01df198ba9c1b47b16ab6bf1.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>175</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Questions About the N-Word: Honest Answers from an Average Perspective</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-questions-about-the-n-word-honest-answers-from-an-average-perspective--63067049</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 174 of "You're Probably Right," MCM takes on 10 of the most common questions about the n-word that white people often want to ask but feel uncomfortable bringing up. Divided between questions from women and men, MCM answers each one with honesty and the intent to educate without judgment. This episode aims to foster understanding, break down barriers, and create a space for real conversation about a difficult topic. It’s all about tackling misconceptions, awkwardness, and ultimately moving towards a better understanding of language and its impact. 10 Frequently Asked Questions from White People About the N-Word <ol><li>Why is it okay for Black people to use the n-word but not for white people? <ul><li>Why does it seem like there’s a double standard when it comes to who can use the word? Isn’t it unfair that it’s allowed in certain contexts but not others? </li></ul></li><li>How do Black women feel about being called the n-word by their friends or in relationships? <ul><li>Is there a difference between how men and women react to being called this word casually? Does it hold different weight depending on who says it? </li></ul></li><li>Does the context in which the word is used actually matter? <ul><li>If someone says it in a non-hateful way, like singing along to a rap song, does that make it okay? Or does it still carry the same hurtful meaning? </li></ul></li><li>How do you feel when you hear non-Black people singing the n-word in a song? <ul><li>A lot of popular music includes the word. Does it feel offensive if someone sings along at a party or a concert? </li></ul></li><li>Can the word ever be "reclaimed" by non-Black people in a positive way? <ul><li>Black people have used the word as a way to take away its power—could non-Black people ever do the same, or is that impossible? </li></ul></li></ol><ol><li>Why do some Black people use the n-word casually with each other if it has such a painful history? <ul><li>Why keep using a word that’s tied to so much hurt and oppression? Is it really about empowerment, or is there more to it? </li></ul></li><li>How would you respond if a close white friend used the n-word as a joke? <ul><li>If they’re joking and there’s no malice behind it, is it really that big of a deal? Would it depend on how close you are? </li></ul></li><li>Is it ever appropriate for white people to use the word if they’re in a setting with only Black friends? <ul><li>Some people feel that if they’re "in the circle" it becomes okay. Does this hold any truth, or is it always off-limits no matter the situation? </li></ul></li><li>Why does the n-word seem to have different meanings depending on who says it? <ul><li>When a Black person says it, it’s sometimes seen as a term of endearment, but when a white person says it, it’s automatically seen as hateful. How does that work? </li></ul></li><li>How can I support Black friends who feel hurt by the n-word being used? <ul><li>What can I do to be a better ally and understand the impact this word has without overstepping or making it about myself? </li></ul></li></ol><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">25a126d2-2b96-4f6a-8c89-864fcf277b02</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Nov 2024 02:22:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63067049/24e23155_c71d_5370_3120_ee789b191145.mp3" length="114342240" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 174 of "You're Probably Right," MCM takes on 10 of the most common questions about the n-word that white people often want to ask but feel uncomfortable bringing up. Divided between questions from women and men, MCM answers each one with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 174 of "You're Probably Right," MCM takes on 10 of the most common questions about the n-word that white people often want to ask but feel uncomfortable bringing up. Divided between questions from women and men, MCM answers each one with honesty and the intent to educate without judgment. This episode aims to foster understanding, break down barriers, and create a space for real conversation about a difficult topic. It’s all about tackling misconceptions, awkwardness, and ultimately moving towards a better understanding of language and its impact. 10 Frequently Asked Questions from White People About the N-Word <ol><li>Why is it okay for Black people to use the n-word but not for white people? <ul><li>Why does it seem like there’s a double standard when it comes to who can use the word? Isn’t it unfair that it’s allowed in certain contexts but not others? </li></ul></li><li>How do Black women feel about being called the n-word by their friends or in relationships? <ul><li>Is there a difference between how men and women react to being called this word casually? Does it hold different weight depending on who says it? </li></ul></li><li>Does the context in which the word is used actually matter? <ul><li>If someone says it in a non-hateful way, like singing along to a rap song, does that make it okay? Or does it still carry the same hurtful meaning? </li></ul></li><li>How do you feel when you hear non-Black people singing the n-word in a song? <ul><li>A lot of popular music includes the word. Does it feel offensive if someone sings along at a party or a concert? </li></ul></li><li>Can the word ever be "reclaimed" by non-Black people in a positive way? <ul><li>Black people have used the word as a way to take away its power—could non-Black people ever do the same, or is that impossible? </li></ul></li></ol><ol><li>Why do some Black people use the n-word casually with each other if it has such a painful history? <ul><li>Why keep using a word that’s tied to so much hurt and oppression? Is it really about empowerment, or is there more to it? </li></ul></li><li>How would you respond if a close white friend used the n-word as a joke? <ul><li>If they’re joking and there’s no malice behind it, is it really that big of a deal? Would it depend on how close you are? </li></ul></li><li>Is it ever appropriate for white people to use the word if they’re in a setting with only Black friends? <ul><li>Some people feel that if they’re "in the circle" it becomes okay. Does this hold any truth, or is it always off-limits no matter the situation? </li></ul></li><li>Why does the n-word seem to have different meanings depending on who says it? <ul><li>When a Black person says it, it’s sometimes seen as a term of endearment, but when a white person says it, it’s automatically seen as hateful. How does that work? </li></ul></li><li>How can I support Black friends who feel hurt by the n-word being used? <ul><li>What can I do to be a better ally and understand the impact this word has without overstepping or making it about myself? </li></ul></li></ol><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2857</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/308f7ca40cd2088c91e9d263f901095e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You Won $50 Million, Now What? The 50 Million Challenge Begins!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-won-50-million-now-what-the-50-million-challenge-begins--62983841</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 173 of "You're Probably Right," MCM dives headfirst into a spontaneous challenge—what would you do if you suddenly came into $50 million CAD? With zero preparation, MCM tackles every scenario that might pop up if your life suddenly changes: from making big purchases, to handling unexpected family demands, to figuring out whether to stay or leave your old life behind. This episode isn’t just about winning the lottery—it’s for anyone who comes into sudden, unexpected wealth. Whether it's an inheritance, a big contract, or just dumb luck, MCM explores every question that someone in that position might face. The $50 Million Challenge is part adventure, part exploration, and totally unplanned, making it as real as it gets.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0b8bce7b-65c6-460e-b0ba-bfc05e87ecd8</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2024 02:58:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62983841/348187de_8aef_0119_59cf_bd27aaa7ec4a.mp3" length="134732379" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 173 of "You're Probably Right," MCM dives headfirst into a spontaneous challenge—what would you do if you suddenly came into $50 million CAD? With zero preparation, MCM tackles every scenario that might pop up if your life suddenly changes:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 173 of "You're Probably Right," MCM dives headfirst into a spontaneous challenge—what would you do if you suddenly came into $50 million CAD? With zero preparation, MCM tackles every scenario that might pop up if your life suddenly changes: from making big purchases, to handling unexpected family demands, to figuring out whether to stay or leave your old life behind. This episode isn’t just about winning the lottery—it’s for anyone who comes into sudden, unexpected wealth. Whether it's an inheritance, a big contract, or just dumb luck, MCM explores every question that someone in that position might face. The $50 Million Challenge is part adventure, part exploration, and totally unplanned, making it as real as it gets.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3367</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4b1a309227162e3ba6fdd7ed9bb11a92.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>First Christmas Without Them: Navigating Grief and Finding Hope</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/first-christmas-without-them-navigating-grief-and-finding-hope--62929205</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 172 of "You're Probably Right," MCM opens up about experiencing the holiday season for the first time without any parents or most of his siblings. This raw, heartfelt episode is dedicated to everyone who's lost loved ones and is struggling to find joy during what should be a festive time. MCM shares his own journey and offers insights on coping strategies, finding moments of peace, and navigating the pain of loss amidst all the holiday cheer. This episode includes frequently asked questions about grief, the complexities of emotions during the holiday season, and practical suggestions for anyone trying to move forward while still honoring the past. Whether you're struggling with your first Christmas without a parent, sibling, or loved one, or you're supporting someone who is, this episode aims to provide understanding, solidarity, and maybe even a little comfort. <br /> First Holiday After Loss, Grieving During the Holidays, Coping with Christmas Without Loved Ones, Managing Holiday Grief, Dealing with Family Loss, You're Probably Right with MCM, Emotional Support for Holidays, Navigating Grief and Celebrations, Honoring Loved Ones During Holidays, Coping Mechanisms for Holiday Grief, Supporting Grieving Families]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ab2562c7-9c1c-4556-811f-e801baca66aa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 02:03:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62929205/e86a0858_4b1c_bbf8_b94b_569e61e1cc61.mp3" length="99542860" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 172 of "You're Probably Right," MCM opens up about experiencing the holiday season for the first time without any parents or most of his siblings. This raw, heartfelt episode is dedicated to everyone who's lost loved ones and is struggling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 172 of "You're Probably Right," MCM opens up about experiencing the holiday season for the first time without any parents or most of his siblings. This raw, heartfelt episode is dedicated to everyone who's lost loved ones and is struggling to find joy during what should be a festive time. MCM shares his own journey and offers insights on coping strategies, finding moments of peace, and navigating the pain of loss amidst all the holiday cheer. This episode includes frequently asked questions about grief, the complexities of emotions during the holiday season, and practical suggestions for anyone trying to move forward while still honoring the past. Whether you're struggling with your first Christmas without a parent, sibling, or loved one, or you're supporting someone who is, this episode aims to provide understanding, solidarity, and maybe even a little comfort. <br /> First Holiday After Loss, Grieving During the Holidays, Coping with Christmas Without Loved Ones, Managing Holiday Grief, Dealing with Family Loss, You're Probably Right with MCM, Emotional Support for Holidays, Navigating Grief and Celebrations, Honoring Loved Ones During Holidays, Coping Mechanisms for Holiday Grief, Supporting Grieving Families]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2487</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f40ffd8103c47a1aa46535ab59bda1bb.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>172</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Value of Being Single: How Extended Singlehood Enhances Men's Future Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-value-of-being-single-how-extended-singlehood-enhances-men-s-future-relationships--62777097</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 171 of "You're Probably Right," MCM discusses why men who have been single for an extended period bring increased value to future relationships. This isn’t just about the freedom to watch what you want or eat without sharing your fries—it’s about personal growth, emotional maturity, financial independence, and the development of genuine clarity around what you want from a relationship. Today, we're diving deep into how extended singlehood can enhance men’s relationship prospects and why being out of the game might actually make you a more valuable partner when you’re ready to get back in. This episode covers the potential advantages that come from having years of self-focus—how these years can lead to stronger emotional intelligence, more stability, and ultimately healthier relationships down the line. We’ll also share a personal reflection that captures the internal struggle of weighing the peace of solitude against the excitement of genuine connection. Let’s dig in.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">098b7f12-cc88-4437-aa6c-fe1c8e4936e5</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2024 15:55:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62777097/3d8314d2_6009_8f79_b039_5ef18c189a93.mp3" length="89681668" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 171 of "You're Probably Right," MCM discusses why men who have been single for an extended period bring increased value to future relationships. This isn’t just about the freedom to watch what you want or eat without sharing your fries—it’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 171 of "You're Probably Right," MCM discusses why men who have been single for an extended period bring increased value to future relationships. This isn’t just about the freedom to watch what you want or eat without sharing your fries—it’s about personal growth, emotional maturity, financial independence, and the development of genuine clarity around what you want from a relationship. Today, we're diving deep into how extended singlehood can enhance men’s relationship prospects and why being out of the game might actually make you a more valuable partner when you’re ready to get back in. This episode covers the potential advantages that come from having years of self-focus—how these years can lead to stronger emotional intelligence, more stability, and ultimately healthier relationships down the line. We’ll also share a personal reflection that captures the internal struggle of weighing the peace of solitude against the excitement of genuine connection. Let’s dig in.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2240</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f6f74b0eca9e5c8aed1ed3f62706bfca.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>171</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Do They Do That? 14 Behaviors That Confuse him</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-they-do-that-14-behaviors-that-confuse-him--62770634</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 170 of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves into 14 common behaviors that often confuse boyfriends and husbands about their partners. Why do some women drop hints instead of being direct? Why do some men find emotional expression challenging to understand? This episode explores these behaviors, provides explanations, and offers a devil's advocate perspective on each one. Whether it's indirect communication, mood changes, or using intimacy as a bargaining tool, these behaviors are not just examined—they’re unpacked with empathy and honesty. These discussions aim to bridge the gap between misunderstandings and real connection. By providing different viewpoints, this episode encourages listeners to see beyond the annoyance and get to the heart of what might really be going on in their relationships. Grab your headphones and join me for a straightforward, no-nonsense take on the behaviors that make us wonder, 'Why do they do that?' Maybe, just maybe, you're probably right about what’s going on—let’s find out together.  14 Common Behaviors That Confuse Boyfriends and Husbands:  <br />  Closing Thought: "Relationships are about understanding, patience, and recognizing the unique ways we all communicate. The behaviors I covered today might be confusing, even frustrating, but when we take the time to see things from both perspectives, we start to bridge the gap. Relationships thrive on empathy, and the devil's advocate views offered here aren't meant to excuse behaviors—they're meant to provide insight and foster connection. Until next time, remember, you're probably right—now let’s find the understanding that makes that truth work for both of you." 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Why do some men find emotional expression challenging...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 170 of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves into 14 common behaviors that often confuse boyfriends and husbands about their partners. Why do some women drop hints instead of being direct? Why do some men find emotional expression challenging to understand? This episode explores these behaviors, provides explanations, and offers a devil's advocate perspective on each one. Whether it's indirect communication, mood changes, or using intimacy as a bargaining tool, these behaviors are not just examined—they’re unpacked with empathy and honesty. These discussions aim to bridge the gap between misunderstandings and real connection. By providing different viewpoints, this episode encourages listeners to see beyond the annoyance and get to the heart of what might really be going on in their relationships. Grab your headphones and join me for a straightforward, no-nonsense take on the behaviors that make us wonder, 'Why do they do that?' Maybe, just maybe, you're probably right about what’s going on—let’s find out together.  14 Common Behaviors That Confuse Boyfriends and Husbands:  <br />  Closing Thought: "Relationships are about understanding, patience, and recognizing the unique ways we all communicate. The behaviors I covered today might be confusing, even frustrating, but when we take the time to see things from both perspectives, we start to bridge the gap. Relationships thrive on empathy, and the devil's advocate views offered here aren't meant to excuse behaviors—they're meant to provide insight and foster connection. Until next time, remember, you're probably right—now let’s find the understanding that makes that truth work for both of you." SEO Tags and Keywords: Understanding Women's Behaviors, Confusing Partner Habits, Men and Relationships, Communication Challenges in Marriage, You're Probably Right with MCM, Emotional Expression in Relationships, Indirect Communication, Nagging vs Organizing, Relationship Conflict Solutions, Empathy in Relationships, Shopping as Therapy, Balancing Intimacy Needs]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2182</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/287e1b9fc96abf8e22a9faaa4ab778b1.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>170</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Challenging Advocacy Without Silencing Authentic Voices</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/challenging-advocacy-without-silencing-authentic-voices--62730116</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 169 of "You're Probably Right," MCM shares a personal experience that raises critical questions about the state of advocacy, equity, and freedom of speech. Often, well-meaning advocacy turns into something else: a one-sided conversation where only those with the "right" opinions get heard. This episode challenges the current trend of silencing dissent and advocates for a balanced, authentic approach to change that respects everyone's voice—even when it’s uncomfortable. We’ll explore the dangers of policing social media and how it stifles freedom of expression, whether it’s Trump or the average person on the street. We'll also discuss the nuances of achieving real equity without undermining hard-earned merit. This is an episode about how we can truly make progress, together. Key Points and Insights: <ol><li>Advocacy vs. Authentic Voices <ul><li>It’s problematic when people advocate for a community but silence actual members when their views don’t align.</li><li>Everyone’s voice should be heard—even if it doesn’t fit neatly into the narrative others want to push.</li></ul></li><li>Equity and Merit <ul><li>Support for inclusion should not disregard merit and hard work.</li><li>How do we balance striving for equity without undermining the value of dedication and individual achievement?</li></ul></li><li>Approach to Change <ul><li>Challenging injustices is important, but not all situations benefit from loud or aggressive tactics.</li><li>Nuanced, tactful approaches are often more effective for fostering real change.</li></ul></li><li>Freedom of Expression <ul><li>Policing social media and silencing dissenting voices are major threats to societal progress.</li><li>Suppression of diverse viewpoints hinders dialogue and closes doors to collaborative solutions.</li></ul></li></ol><br /> SEO Tags and Keywords: Authentic Voices in Advocacy, Equity vs. Merit in Inclusion, Freedom of Expression Debate, Social Media Censorship, Effective Approaches to Change, You're Probably Right with MCM, Political Perspectives on Economy and Healthcare, Balancing Advocacy and Representation, Genuine Community Advocacy, Navigating Traditional vs. Modern Roles in Advocacy <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2699e031-dc68-4099-9662-0afd3cec0589</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2024 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62730116/af163368_49fb_2d48_d98d_c4097acc3658.mp3" length="98069684" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description: In Episode 169 of "You're Probably Right," MCM shares a personal experience that raises critical questions about the state of advocacy, equity, and freedom of speech. Often, well-meaning advocacy turns into something else: a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 169 of "You're Probably Right," MCM shares a personal experience that raises critical questions about the state of advocacy, equity, and freedom of speech. Often, well-meaning advocacy turns into something else: a one-sided conversation where only those with the "right" opinions get heard. This episode challenges the current trend of silencing dissent and advocates for a balanced, authentic approach to change that respects everyone's voice—even when it’s uncomfortable. We’ll explore the dangers of policing social media and how it stifles freedom of expression, whether it’s Trump or the average person on the street. We'll also discuss the nuances of achieving real equity without undermining hard-earned merit. This is an episode about how we can truly make progress, together. Key Points and Insights: <ol><li>Advocacy vs. Authentic Voices <ul><li>It’s problematic when people advocate for a community but silence actual members when their views don’t align.</li><li>Everyone’s voice should be heard—even if it doesn’t fit neatly into the narrative others want to push.</li></ul></li><li>Equity and Merit <ul><li>Support for inclusion should not disregard merit and hard work.</li><li>How do we balance striving for equity without undermining the value of dedication and individual achievement?</li></ul></li><li>Approach to Change <ul><li>Challenging injustices is important, but not all situations benefit from loud or aggressive tactics.</li><li>Nuanced, tactful approaches are often more effective for fostering real change.</li></ul></li><li>Freedom of Expression <ul><li>Policing social media and silencing dissenting voices are major threats to societal progress.</li><li>Suppression of diverse viewpoints hinders dialogue and closes doors to collaborative solutions.</li></ul></li></ol><br /> SEO Tags and Keywords: Authentic Voices in Advocacy, Equity vs. Merit in Inclusion, Freedom of Expression Debate, Social Media Censorship, Effective Approaches to Change, You're Probably Right with MCM, Political Perspectives on Economy and Healthcare, Balancing Advocacy and Representation, Genuine Community Advocacy, Navigating Traditional vs. Modern Roles in Advocacy <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2450</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e09f2efc74a29280c12547278f19c9be.jpg"/><itunes:season>8</itunes:season><itunes:episode>169</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Men and Vulnerability: 5 Insights Into How Men Experience Relationships"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-and-vulnerability-5-insights-into-how-men-experience-relationships--62679230</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 168 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the complicated and often misunderstood experience of men in relationships. We're talking about ten insights that every man should hear—and every woman should know. This episode explores emotional vulnerability, societal expectations, the concept of respect, and the pressures that many men face as they try to balance traditional roles with modern demands. Men aren’t just the strong, silent types they’ve often been painted as; they are complex beings navigating a world that increasingly asks them to be different while simultaneously penalizing them for not staying the same. If you've ever wondered why men find it so hard to open up, why they struggle with expressing their needs, or why respect is so crucial to them, this is the episode for you. These are real, raw answers about men’s emotions, their fears, and the realities they face every day—often without acknowledgment or understanding. It’s time to shine a light on the truth about men’s experiences in relationships, especially from a more traditional perspective. 5 Key Questions About Men and Emotional Vulnerability: <ol><li>How do men perceive and handle societal expectations of masculinity, and how does this impact their behavior and relationships? <ul><li>Men may feel marginalized by societal expectations that demand they abandon traditional masculinity while still fulfilling its responsibilities. This can lead to behaviors like doubling down on traditional traits or withdrawing to avoid criticism, both of which strain relationships. </li></ul></li><li>What does respect mean to men, and how does it influence their interactions with their partners? <ul><li>Respect means acknowledgment of their role, appreciation for their contributions, and trust in their judgment. When men feel respected, they are more affectionate and committed. Lack of respect can lead to resentment and disengagement, severely impacting the quality of the relationship. </li></ul></li><li>In what ways do men feel misunderstood by women, and what impact does this have on their relationships? <ul><li>Men often feel misunderstood when their desire to fulfill traditional roles is viewed as controlling or outdated. They may feel that their efforts are misinterpreted, leading to frustration and emotional distance, which can weaken the bond with their partner. </li></ul></li><li>How do men balance the desire for independence with the commitment required in a serious relationship? <ul><li>Independence is key to maintaining identity for men. They seek a balance where they can fulfill their roles without feeling constrained. When independence is misread as detachment, it creates conflict. Achieving balance requires understanding and open communication between partners. </li></ul></li><li>What role does a partner's support and encouragement play in a man's personal growth and self-esteem? <ul><li>A partner's support is crucial to a man’s sense of purpose. Encouragement affirms his role and bolsters confidence, motivating him to strive for success. In contrast, criticism can undermine his self-esteem, leading to withdrawal and disengagement. </li></ul></li></ol><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">21e9afc4-ce69-43a7-9d5d-2deafd63790f</guid><pubDate>Sun, 10 Nov 2024 02:32:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62679230/04ae8348_287e_5980_6dce_7db7b2e365df.mp3" length="76460704" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description: In Episode 168 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the complicated and often misunderstood experience of men in relationships. We're talking about ten insights that every man should hear—and every woman should know. This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 168 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the complicated and often misunderstood experience of men in relationships. We're talking about ten insights that every man should hear—and every woman should know. This episode explores emotional vulnerability, societal expectations, the concept of respect, and the pressures that many men face as they try to balance traditional roles with modern demands. Men aren’t just the strong, silent types they’ve often been painted as; they are complex beings navigating a world that increasingly asks them to be different while simultaneously penalizing them for not staying the same. If you've ever wondered why men find it so hard to open up, why they struggle with expressing their needs, or why respect is so crucial to them, this is the episode for you. These are real, raw answers about men’s emotions, their fears, and the realities they face every day—often without acknowledgment or understanding. It’s time to shine a light on the truth about men’s experiences in relationships, especially from a more traditional perspective. 5 Key Questions About Men and Emotional Vulnerability: <ol><li>How do men perceive and handle societal expectations of masculinity, and how does this impact their behavior and relationships? <ul><li>Men may feel marginalized by societal expectations that demand they abandon traditional masculinity while still fulfilling its responsibilities. This can lead to behaviors like doubling down on traditional traits or withdrawing to avoid criticism, both of which strain relationships. </li></ul></li><li>What does respect mean to men, and how does it influence their interactions with their partners? <ul><li>Respect means acknowledgment of their role, appreciation for their contributions, and trust in their judgment. When men feel respected, they are more affectionate and committed. Lack of respect can lead to resentment and disengagement, severely impacting the quality of the relationship. </li></ul></li><li>In what ways do men feel misunderstood by women, and what impact does this have on their relationships? <ul><li>Men often feel misunderstood when their desire to fulfill traditional roles is viewed as controlling or outdated. They may feel that their efforts are misinterpreted, leading to frustration and emotional distance, which can weaken the bond with their partner. </li></ul></li><li>How do men balance the desire for independence with the commitment required in a serious relationship? <ul><li>Independence is key to maintaining identity for men. They seek a balance where they can fulfill their roles without feeling constrained. When independence is misread as detachment, it creates conflict. Achieving balance requires understanding and open communication between partners. </li></ul></li><li>What role does a partner's support and encouragement play in a man's personal growth and self-esteem? <ul><li>A partner's support is crucial to a man’s sense of purpose. Encouragement affirms his role and bolsters confidence, motivating him to strive for success. In contrast, criticism can undermine his self-esteem, leading to withdrawal and disengagement. </li></ul></li></ol><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1910</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fbd8eca4047bafe663a062f48ae0915b.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>168</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Comprehensive Signs That a Spouse May Have Used You and Moved On</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/comprehensive-signs-that-a-spouse-may-have-used-you-and-moved-on--62670069</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 167 of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves into the often-painful realization that a spouse or partner may have used you for their personal gain. We explore 15 comprehensive signs that indicate your partner may have exploited you financially, emotionally, or socially before moving on. These signs are not just conjecture—they're supported by empirical research that helps shine a light on manipulative behaviours. From financial control and emotional withdrawal to gaslighting and isolation, we discuss the ways in which exploitation can manifest in a relationship and what to watch out for. If you’ve ever felt drained, used, or discarded by someone who was supposed to care about you, this episode will provide some hard truths and practical insights. This isn’t about losing hope; it’s about gaining awareness. Understanding these behaviours can help you identify toxic patterns, take action, and hopefully avoid being taken advantage of in the future. Tune in for a deep dive into the signs that a partner may have used you and moved on, and learn how to regain control of your life. Signs of Relationship Abuse, Signs of Being Used in a Relationship, Recognizing Toxic Behavior, Emotional and Financial Exploitation, Relationship Red Flags, Gaslighting in Relationships, You're Probably Right with MCM, Understanding Narcissistic Behavior, Emotional Manipulation Signs, Identifying Unhealthy Relationships, Comprehensive Relationship Signs, Partner Moving On, Toxic Relationship Indicators]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7eef13e7-8252-4184-9961-6e281b80bb0a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:59:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62670069/92381ea7_cab8_5e7d_9e34_73f475d128e1.mp3" length="92048002" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 167 of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves into the often-painful realization that a spouse or partner may have used you for their personal gain. We explore 15 comprehensive signs that indicate your partner may have exploited you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 167 of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves into the often-painful realization that a spouse or partner may have used you for their personal gain. We explore 15 comprehensive signs that indicate your partner may have exploited you financially, emotionally, or socially before moving on. These signs are not just conjecture—they're supported by empirical research that helps shine a light on manipulative behaviours. From financial control and emotional withdrawal to gaslighting and isolation, we discuss the ways in which exploitation can manifest in a relationship and what to watch out for. If you’ve ever felt drained, used, or discarded by someone who was supposed to care about you, this episode will provide some hard truths and practical insights. This isn’t about losing hope; it’s about gaining awareness. Understanding these behaviours can help you identify toxic patterns, take action, and hopefully avoid being taken advantage of in the future. Tune in for a deep dive into the signs that a partner may have used you and moved on, and learn how to regain control of your life. Signs of Relationship Abuse, Signs of Being Used in a Relationship, Recognizing Toxic Behavior, Emotional and Financial Exploitation, Relationship Red Flags, Gaslighting in Relationships, You're Probably Right with MCM, Understanding Narcissistic Behavior, Emotional Manipulation Signs, Identifying Unhealthy Relationships, Comprehensive Relationship Signs, Partner Moving On, Toxic Relationship Indicators]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2300</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2997da2121ae084e87c24dc83b0b680e.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>164</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Way You Say My Name</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-way-you-say-my-name--62593864</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 166 of "You're Probably Right," MCM unpacks the power of a name—specifically, the feeling you get when someone says your name in a way that makes you feel seen, valued, and like you're truly 'that guy.' We explore what this moment means for our identity, our relationships, and how we view ourselves. Names are just words, but the way they're said can carry an emotional impact that goes beyond anything else. Have you ever experienced that split second where you felt lifted, simply because of how someone said your name? This episode is about recognizing those moments and learning to create them for others. Backed by insights from psychology and personal experience, we delve into the power of recognition, affirmation, and how much it means to feel truly understood. If you’ve ever felt like the way someone said your name gave you a surge of confidence or made you feel like you mattered, this one is for you. Get ready to explore the nuances of human connection and the small gestures that make a big difference.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2feefca2-0dc6-4998-8b7d-ccb1e7d7718a</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 Nov 2024 01:59:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62593864/316f2976_1e20_6e2b_f7ea_0656cc2063e1.mp3" length="67092704" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 166 of "You're Probably Right," MCM unpacks the power of a name—specifically, the feeling you get when someone says your name in a way that makes you feel seen, valued, and like you're truly 'that guy.' We explore what this moment means for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 166 of "You're Probably Right," MCM unpacks the power of a name—specifically, the feeling you get when someone says your name in a way that makes you feel seen, valued, and like you're truly 'that guy.' We explore what this moment means for our identity, our relationships, and how we view ourselves. Names are just words, but the way they're said can carry an emotional impact that goes beyond anything else. Have you ever experienced that split second where you felt lifted, simply because of how someone said your name? This episode is about recognizing those moments and learning to create them for others. Backed by insights from psychology and personal experience, we delve into the power of recognition, affirmation, and how much it means to feel truly understood. If you’ve ever felt like the way someone said your name gave you a surge of confidence or made you feel like you mattered, this one is for you. Get ready to explore the nuances of human connection and the small gestures that make a big difference.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1676</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/85382539a7934451252e0348d27db349.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>166</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Reasons You’re a Catch: Recognizing Your Worth in the Dating World #165</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-reasons-you-re-a-catch-recognizing-your-worth-in-the-dating-world-165--62587242</link><description><![CDATA[Introduction Prompt: "Welcome to Episode 165 of 'You're Probably Right,' where I, MCM, discuss the often overlooked qualities that make you a true catch. In the world of dating, it’s easy to underestimate yourself or forget about the traits that make you an incredible partner. Today, we're diving into ten reasons why you might be more desirable than you realize—reasons that others may not let you know or might not even understand themselves. These traits are grounded in empirical research from psychology and social sciences, and they just might change the way you see yourself in the dating game." Episode Description: In Episode 165 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores the hidden qualities that make men highly desirable partners—qualities that may go unrecognized by both themselves and others. Drawing from empirical research and social psychology, this episode highlights ten attributes that make men a catch, even if those around them don't always notice. Whether it's emotional intelligence, reliability, or a supportive nature, these are the traits that often set you apart, even if they don’t get the praise they deserve. This episode is about recognizing your worth and understanding that many of your best traits might not be immediately visible but are deeply valued by those seeking genuine connections. If you’ve ever questioned what makes you attractive beyond the superficial, this episode will provide clarity. Get ready to learn how emotional intelligence, dependability, good communication, and other key qualities can help you stand out as an exceptional partner. SEO Tags and Keywords: Why Men Are a Catch, Desirable Traits in Men, Emotional Intelligence and Relationships, Attractive Qualities in Partners, Reliability and Dependability in Dating, Importance of Good Communication, Sense of Humor and Relationships, Altruism and Attraction, Stability in Relationships, Self-Worth in Dating, You're Probably Right with MCM, Dating Insights, Understanding Male Value, Relationship Psychology]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">03be8059-6858-46f0-893d-8ad1a732b885</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 Nov 2024 00:03:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62587242/fab63535_d40e_7237_a9f9_59f704a9b4cf.mp3" length="56116116" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Introduction Prompt: "Welcome to Episode 165 of 'You're Probably Right,' where I, MCM, discuss the often overlooked qualities that make you a true catch. In the world of dating, it’s easy to underestimate yourself or forget about the traits that make...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Introduction Prompt: "Welcome to Episode 165 of 'You're Probably Right,' where I, MCM, discuss the often overlooked qualities that make you a true catch. In the world of dating, it’s easy to underestimate yourself or forget about the traits that make you an incredible partner. Today, we're diving into ten reasons why you might be more desirable than you realize—reasons that others may not let you know or might not even understand themselves. These traits are grounded in empirical research from psychology and social sciences, and they just might change the way you see yourself in the dating game." Episode Description: In Episode 165 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores the hidden qualities that make men highly desirable partners—qualities that may go unrecognized by both themselves and others. Drawing from empirical research and social psychology, this episode highlights ten attributes that make men a catch, even if those around them don't always notice. Whether it's emotional intelligence, reliability, or a supportive nature, these are the traits that often set you apart, even if they don’t get the praise they deserve. This episode is about recognizing your worth and understanding that many of your best traits might not be immediately visible but are deeply valued by those seeking genuine connections. If you’ve ever questioned what makes you attractive beyond the superficial, this episode will provide clarity. Get ready to learn how emotional intelligence, dependability, good communication, and other key qualities can help you stand out as an exceptional partner. SEO Tags and Keywords: Why Men Are a Catch, Desirable Traits in Men, Emotional Intelligence and Relationships, Attractive Qualities in Partners, Reliability and Dependability in Dating, Importance of Good Communication, Sense of Humor and Relationships, Altruism and Attraction, Stability in Relationships, Self-Worth in Dating, You're Probably Right with MCM, Dating Insights, Understanding Male Value, Relationship Psychology]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1401</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cf8a5e2756bc9a2fd1ff0f043bdefe91.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>165</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Signs Your Relationship May Not Last</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-signs-your-relationship-may-not-last--62576735</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 164 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores ten key signs that may predict whether a relationship is on a downward trajectory. Whether you’re in a relationship or reflecting on a past one, understanding these empirical indicators can help you better navigate the complexities of love, trust, and commitment. These signs are based on research that provides predictive insights into why some relationships fail while others endure. From expressions of contempt to emotional withdrawal, this episode lays out the scientifically-backed factors that could be silently eroding your relationship. <br /><br /><br />  Relationship Red Flags, Signs Your Relationship Won't Last, Predicting Breakups, Relationship Issues, Contempt in Relationships, Emotional Withdrawal, Stonewalling, Infidelity and Trust Issues, Lack of Emotional Support, Future Planning in Relationships, Physical Intimacy Decline, Core Value Differences, You're Probably Right with MCM, Real Talk About Relationships, Marriage Dissolution Predictors]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d2eab040-f5cd-41de-95d0-604b793114f3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2024 22:54:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62576735/86bc6eab_5171_587c_eed9_bf54af81bb71.mp3" length="73629160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description: In Episode 164 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores ten key signs that may predict whether a relationship is on a downward trajectory. Whether you’re in a relationship or reflecting on a past one, understanding these empirical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description: In Episode 164 of "You're Probably Right," MCM explores ten key signs that may predict whether a relationship is on a downward trajectory. Whether you’re in a relationship or reflecting on a past one, understanding these empirical indicators can help you better navigate the complexities of love, trust, and commitment. These signs are based on research that provides predictive insights into why some relationships fail while others endure. From expressions of contempt to emotional withdrawal, this episode lays out the scientifically-backed factors that could be silently eroding your relationship. <br /><br /><br />  Relationship Red Flags, Signs Your Relationship Won't Last, Predicting Breakups, Relationship Issues, Contempt in Relationships, Emotional Withdrawal, Stonewalling, Infidelity and Trust Issues, Lack of Emotional Support, Future Planning in Relationships, Physical Intimacy Decline, Core Value Differences, You're Probably Right with MCM, Real Talk About Relationships, Marriage Dissolution Predictors]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1839</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/75e376160b353bbd7854e1b634decd5c.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Truth About Single Men Who Have Given Up on Love: No More Games, No More Lies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-truth-about-single-men-who-have-given-up-on-love-no-more-games-no-more-lies--62516695</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 163 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the raw, often hidden truths about single men who have decided to step away from the pursuit of love and relationships. What drives a man to give up on finding a new mate? What happens when the effort of fitting into someone else’s life or avoiding the role of a doormat becomes too exhausting to bear? Women often have questions about these men—big, important questions they wish they could ask but fear the answers might not be what they want to hear. This episode digs into those unspoken curiosities and provides genuine answers from the perspective of someone who’s been there and done that. With honesty and authenticity, this episode covers ten of the most critical questions women want to know but rarely dare to ask about single men who are tired of the games, fed up with societal expectations, and uninterested in bending over backward to fit into someone else’s mold. We explore the deeper reasons behind their choices, their feelings about independence, and their take on love in a world that feels increasingly transactional. Get ready for an eye-opening discussion that goes beyond the stereotypes and digs into the truth of what makes a man decide that the pursuit of romantic love simply isn’t worth it anymore.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3daca969-2f0d-44e5-9978-8bac974d6f27</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 Oct 2024 00:06:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62516695/73b979f4_f623_48ce_a8b8_3a6263ebaf1b.mp3" length="108190273" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In Episode 163 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the raw, often hidden truths about single men who have decided to step away from the pursuit of love and relationships. What drives a man to give up on finding a new mate? What happens when the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 163 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles the raw, often hidden truths about single men who have decided to step away from the pursuit of love and relationships. What drives a man to give up on finding a new mate? What happens when the effort of fitting into someone else’s life or avoiding the role of a doormat becomes too exhausting to bear? Women often have questions about these men—big, important questions they wish they could ask but fear the answers might not be what they want to hear. This episode digs into those unspoken curiosities and provides genuine answers from the perspective of someone who’s been there and done that. With honesty and authenticity, this episode covers ten of the most critical questions women want to know but rarely dare to ask about single men who are tired of the games, fed up with societal expectations, and uninterested in bending over backward to fit into someone else’s mold. We explore the deeper reasons behind their choices, their feelings about independence, and their take on love in a world that feels increasingly transactional. Get ready for an eye-opening discussion that goes beyond the stereotypes and digs into the truth of what makes a man decide that the pursuit of romantic love simply isn’t worth it anymore.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2703</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3702f474e3e953649c79925df704a9c7.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>163</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fleeting Moments and Heavy Truths #162</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fleeting-moments-and-heavy-truths-162--62516250</link><description><![CDATA[In Episode 162 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles some of life's heaviest yet most relatable truths. We discuss the fleeting nature of relationships, the impact of chronic pain, and the critical role that faith can play when everything else seems to crumble. How do world events, like the unexpected attack on Iran by Israel, shape our personal fears and hopes? How does living with pain alter our physical and mental outlook? And why do we hesitate to share our creations, even when we believe we have something valuable to say? Join us as we navigate these big questions and more, with honesty and a willingness to confront the uncomfortable. This episode is packed with insights on faith, mental health, and finding hope amidst uncertainty. Whether you’re grappling with personal loss, health challenges, or simply wondering about the future of our world, this podcast is for you. Let’s unpack these heavy truths and find deeper meaning together. 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We discuss the fleeting nature of relationships, the impact of chronic pain, and the critical role that faith can play when everything else seems...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 162 of "You're Probably Right," MCM tackles some of life's heaviest yet most relatable truths. We discuss the fleeting nature of relationships, the impact of chronic pain, and the critical role that faith can play when everything else seems to crumble. How do world events, like the unexpected attack on Iran by Israel, shape our personal fears and hopes? How does living with pain alter our physical and mental outlook? And why do we hesitate to share our creations, even when we believe we have something valuable to say? Join us as we navigate these big questions and more, with honesty and a willingness to confront the uncomfortable. This episode is packed with insights on faith, mental health, and finding hope amidst uncertainty. Whether you’re grappling with personal loss, health challenges, or simply wondering about the future of our world, this podcast is for you. Let’s unpack these heavy truths and find deeper meaning together. 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In this thought-provoking monologue, MCM delves deep into the unspoken truths of relationships, specifically exploring "Said No Woman Ever." This episode uncovers the top 10 heartfelt statements that women rarely express during or after a breakup but could significantly aid in healing and understanding from a male perspective. Join MCM as he thoughtfully examines why these powerful words often go unsaid and how their inclusion could transform the dynamics of post-relationship healing. From acknowledging personal growth to expressing genuine gratitude, discover how these unspoken sentiments can foster mutual respect and pave the way for healthier future relationships. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, seeking to understand gender communication dynamics, or simply interested in enhancing your relationship insights, this episode offers honest, entertaining, and valuable perspectives to enrich your journey. Key Topics Covered: <ul><li>The importance of accountability and genuine apologies</li><li>Expressing gratitude and appreciation in relationships</li><li>Overcoming societal norms to foster open communication</li><li>Enhancing mutual respect and personal growth post-breakup</li><li>Practical tips for healthier relationship endings</li></ul> Why Listen? <ul><li>Gain a deeper understanding of emotional dynamics in breakups</li><li>Learn how to communicate more effectively and compassionately</li><li>Enjoy a thoughtful and engaging monologue that resonates with your experiences</li></ul> Tune in to "Said No Woman Ever" and let MCM guide you through the nuanced landscape of love, loss, and healing. Subscribe now on your favorite podcast platform and join the conversation on fostering respectful and healing communication in relationships. Keywords: Breakup, Healing, Relationships, Communication, Gender Dynamics, Apologies, Mutual Respect, Personal Growth, Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Advice, You’re Probably Right Podcast, MCM Podcast, Honest Monologue, Entertainment For Entertainment Purposes Only]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3cb4841e-010c-44e0-be8a-fe85d84d50f4</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:31:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62425951/b082317e_f3ec_48b3_ba98_82748cc10acf.mp3" length="92810547" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 Welcome to another insightful episode of "You’re Probably Right" with your host, MCM. In this thought-provoking monologue, MCM delves deep into the unspoken truths of relationships, specifically exploring "Said No Woman Ever." This episode uncovers...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> Welcome to another insightful episode of "You’re Probably Right" with your host, MCM. In this thought-provoking monologue, MCM delves deep into the unspoken truths of relationships, specifically exploring "Said No Woman Ever." This episode uncovers the top 10 heartfelt statements that women rarely express during or after a breakup but could significantly aid in healing and understanding from a male perspective. Join MCM as he thoughtfully examines why these powerful words often go unsaid and how their inclusion could transform the dynamics of post-relationship healing. From acknowledging personal growth to expressing genuine gratitude, discover how these unspoken sentiments can foster mutual respect and pave the way for healthier future relationships. Whether you’re navigating a breakup, seeking to understand gender communication dynamics, or simply interested in enhancing your relationship insights, this episode offers honest, entertaining, and valuable perspectives to enrich your journey. Key Topics Covered: <ul><li>The importance of accountability and genuine apologies</li><li>Expressing gratitude and appreciation in relationships</li><li>Overcoming societal norms to foster open communication</li><li>Enhancing mutual respect and personal growth post-breakup</li><li>Practical tips for healthier relationship endings</li></ul> Why Listen? <ul><li>Gain a deeper understanding of emotional dynamics in breakups</li><li>Learn how to communicate more effectively and compassionately</li><li>Enjoy a thoughtful and engaging monologue that resonates with your experiences</li></ul> Tune in to "Said No Woman Ever" and let MCM guide you through the nuanced landscape of love, loss, and healing. Subscribe now on your favorite podcast platform and join the conversation on fostering respectful and healing communication in relationships. Keywords: Breakup, Healing, Relationships, Communication, Gender Dynamics, Apologies, Mutual Respect, Personal Growth, Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Advice, You’re Probably Right Podcast, MCM Podcast, Honest Monologue, Entertainment For Entertainment Purposes Only]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2319</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6e577c720fdfe6351f4a82c28b9367a.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>161</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Happy New Year's, Happy Valentine's, Happy Birthday, and Everything In-Between</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-new-year-s-happy-valentine-s-happy-birthday-and-everything-in-between--62354760</link><description><![CDATA[In this insightful episode of "You're Probably Right," host MCM explores the world of the lone wolf—individuals who find themselves navigating life's milestones with minimal social interaction. Whether due to loss, estrangement, or personal choice, not everyone experiences the joy of traditional celebrations like New Year's, Valentine's Day, or birthdays. Dive deep as we tackle 10 thought-provoking questions that shed light on the lives of those who may not have many relatives around, primarily spend time with their children, or focus heavily on work. Discover how they cope with societal expectations, find meaning in solitude, and redefine happiness outside the norms of festive gatherings. Join us for a journey that balances both shallow reflections and deep introspections, offering a unique perspective on celebrating life when typical avenues feel out of reach. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the complexities of socialization, family dynamics, and personal fulfillment. 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This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the complexities of socialization, family dynamics, and personal fulfillment. 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Join your host in this monologue-style discussion as we uncover the hidden factors that lead to breakups and separations. From communication problems and infidelity to financial issues and a lack of intimacy, we explore the common pitfalls that many couples face. We also tackle heavy topics like domestic violence, abuse, and substance abuse, shedding light on how these serious issues can erode relationships. Discover how unrealistic expectations, incompatibility, lack of commitment, and dishonesty play crucial roles in the dissolution of partnerships. Whether you're experiencing these challenges or seeking to understand them better, this episode offers valuable insights to help you navigate your relationships more effectively. Don't miss this in-depth analysis that aims to provide clarity and solutions to some of the most pressing issues in modern relationships. 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Join your host in this monologue-style discussion as we uncover the hidden factors that lead to breakups and separations. From communication problems and infidelity to financial issues and a lack of intimacy, we explore the common pitfalls that many couples face. We also tackle heavy topics like domestic violence, abuse, and substance abuse, shedding light on how these serious issues can erode relationships. Discover how unrealistic expectations, incompatibility, lack of commitment, and dishonesty play crucial roles in the dissolution of partnerships. Whether you're experiencing these challenges or seeking to understand them better, this episode offers valuable insights to help you navigate your relationships more effectively. Don't miss this in-depth analysis that aims to provide clarity and solutions to some of the most pressing issues in modern relationships. Keywords: relationships, breakups, communication problems, infidelity, financial issues, lack of intimacy, domestic violence, abuse, substance abuse, unrealistic expectations, incompatibility, lack of commitment, dishonesty, relationship advice, podcast.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2540</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/20eb1943235c1bb56a3adc341ebd572b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unboxing RAM Advantage Shirts | Honest Review for Big Guys (200lbs plus) | Best T-Shirts for Bigger Men| No Sponsorship or Freebies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unboxing-ram-advantage-shirts-honest-review-for-big-guys-200lbs-plus-best-t-shirts-for-bigger-men-no-sponsorship-or-freebies--61180660</link><description><![CDATA[In this unboxing video, MCM from 'You're Probably Right' Podcast reviews RAM Advantage T-shirts designed for bigger guys. Weighing far above 200lbs MCM provides a real-life perspective on how these shirts fit and feel for men who are heavy, under six feet tall, and struggle to find comfortable clothing. From gym wear to casual outfits, these shirts are put to the test. Watch as MCM compares the fit and quality of RAM Advantage shirts against popular brands like American Apparel and Gildan. If you're a bigger guy searching for the perfect T-shirt, this review is for you!    🔔 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment with your thoughts or questions]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a27e0a04-3f78-450b-8b06-0a87ba9adb81</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Aug 2024 02:31:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61180660/385430014_44100_2_d47a874f74649.mp3" length="26811662" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this unboxing video, MCM from 'You're Probably Right' Podcast reviews RAM Advantage T-shirts designed for bigger guys. Weighing far above 200lbs MCM provides a real-life perspective on how these shirts fit and feel for men who are heavy, under six...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this unboxing video, MCM from 'You're Probably Right' Podcast reviews RAM Advantage T-shirts designed for bigger guys. Weighing far above 200lbs MCM provides a real-life perspective on how these shirts fit and feel for men who are heavy, under six feet tall, and struggle to find comfortable clothing. From gym wear to casual outfits, these shirts are put to the test. Watch as MCM compares the fit and quality of RAM Advantage shirts against popular brands like American Apparel and Gildan. If you're a bigger guy searching for the perfect T-shirt, this review is for you!    🔔 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment with your thoughts or questions]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1676</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/78e7e84360ed1eb6c7f05cb658ea1f5a.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>165</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Canceling Winners - sneak peak</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/canceling-winners-sneak-peak--61086672</link><description><![CDATA[not jumping the line and being fine with that.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8bcb1831-8507-4a0a-8671-57f9873409de</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Aug 2024 22:38:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61086672/385020923_44100_2_73b36af15af56.mp3" length="943332" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>not jumping the line and being fine with that.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[not jumping the line and being fine with that.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>59</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1000</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Canceling Winners: Why Success Comes with a Target on Your Back</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/canceling-winners-why-success-comes-with-a-target-on-your-back--61072087</link><description><![CDATA[Why are winners like Donald Trump, Jayson Tatum, Jaylen Brown, and LeBron James facing backlash after their biggest victories? In this episode of 'You're Probably Right' with MCM, we explore the rising trend of canceling successful figures in sports, politics, and beyond. Tune in to uncover the reasons behind this phenomenon and its impact on society. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion about the fine line between fame and fallout. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3875cf41-3edd-4726-96b8-2b59a0e35390</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Aug 2024 00:01:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072087/4a7697b7_f206_a090_1976_3daff8387286.mp3" length="103279509" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why are winners like Donald Trump, Jayson Tatum, Jaylen Brown, and LeBron James facing backlash after their biggest victories? 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Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion about the fine line between fame and fallout. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2581</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b71b693f979613a8c689680552b2db7f.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>155</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>When they let you down</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-they-let-you-down--61072088</link><description><![CDATA[When someone lets you down, just remember that it’s part of the game. Nobody’s perfect; everyone’s out here doing their own thing. It’s like trying to walk two dogs with one leash—things are bound to get tangled up. Once you realize that, it won’t sting as much when someone drops the ball. Now, it’s all good to expect your partner—whether you’re married or just business buddies—to be dependable. But let’s be real: your deal-breakers need a reality check. You want food, shelter, a chat every now and then, emotional support, and a little action in the bedroom. But at some point, you’ve got to compromise. It’s like deciding between a five-star meal or a quick drive-thru—you’ve got to pick your battles. You’re not gonna talk about deep feelings right when the game’s on, and you know it. It’s about making sure both of you are happy, even if you have to pretend you like kale salads once in a while. Broken promises? Unmet expectations? They’re coming, guaranteed. The real question is, how fast can you brush it off? If you’ve got the forgiveness thing down, these slip-ups won’t even phase you. If you really care about each other, you won’t let it slide into a bad habit—unless you’re talking about leaving the toilet seat up, then all bets are off. Talking it out makes sure you’re both on the same page, like two people trying to assemble IKEA furniture—you might get it wrong a few times, but eventually, you figure it out. At the end of the day, if you both agree that trust, honesty, and a little give-and-take are what really matter, then the small stuff won’t even register. We’ve all got our quirks—maybe you leave your socks everywhere, maybe they’re obsessed with folding laundry just so—but if you can laugh about it, those little things won’t mess with you. And remember, nothing lasts forever—so enjoy the ride, even if it’s a little bumpy.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fc0a2c7b-3b69-4f3c-8663-ec80ad3f0e9b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Aug 2024 06:15:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072088/384801590_44100_2_b92d127f5c9fc.mp3" length="2395323" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When someone lets you down, just remember that it’s part of the game. Nobody’s perfect; everyone’s out here doing their own thing. It’s like trying to walk two dogs with one leash—things are bound to get tangled up. Once you realize that, it won’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When someone lets you down, just remember that it’s part of the game. Nobody’s perfect; everyone’s out here doing their own thing. It’s like trying to walk two dogs with one leash—things are bound to get tangled up. Once you realize that, it won’t sting as much when someone drops the ball. Now, it’s all good to expect your partner—whether you’re married or just business buddies—to be dependable. But let’s be real: your deal-breakers need a reality check. You want food, shelter, a chat every now and then, emotional support, and a little action in the bedroom. But at some point, you’ve got to compromise. It’s like deciding between a five-star meal or a quick drive-thru—you’ve got to pick your battles. You’re not gonna talk about deep feelings right when the game’s on, and you know it. It’s about making sure both of you are happy, even if you have to pretend you like kale salads once in a while. Broken promises? Unmet expectations? They’re coming, guaranteed. The real question is, how fast can you brush it off? If you’ve got the forgiveness thing down, these slip-ups won’t even phase you. If you really care about each other, you won’t let it slide into a bad habit—unless you’re talking about leaving the toilet seat up, then all bets are off. Talking it out makes sure you’re both on the same page, like two people trying to assemble IKEA furniture—you might get it wrong a few times, but eventually, you figure it out. At the end of the day, if you both agree that trust, honesty, and a little give-and-take are what really matter, then the small stuff won’t even register. We’ve all got our quirks—maybe you leave your socks everywhere, maybe they’re obsessed with folding laundry just so—but if you can laugh about it, those little things won’t mess with you. And remember, nothing lasts forever—so enjoy the ride, even if it’s a little bumpy.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>150</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Single Dad Confessions: Love, Loss, and Raising Kids</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/single-dad-confessions-love-loss-and-raising-kids--61072101</link><description><![CDATA[You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM, dives into the raw and unfiltered truths of life after love. From heartbreak and healing to the everyday struggles and triumphs of raising kids solo, MCM tackles the tough questions and shares personal stories that will make you laugh, cry, and everything in between. Whether you're a single parent, co-parent, or simply curious, this podcast offers a candid look at what it means to rebuild, rediscover, and redefine life after a broken relationship. Tune in for a relatable and eye-opening journey. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ccbc23b9-b00f-42b0-9146-86dc4bd38951</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2024 03:43:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072101/e1f223bf_8bcc_5822_eb49_616d59b0ab8a.mp3" length="147946800" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM, dives into the raw and unfiltered truths of life after love. From heartbreak and healing to the everyday struggles and triumphs of raising kids solo, MCM tackles the tough questions and shares personal stories...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM, dives into the raw and unfiltered truths of life after love. From heartbreak and healing to the everyday struggles and triumphs of raising kids solo, MCM tackles the tough questions and shares personal stories that will make you laugh, cry, and everything in between. Whether you're a single parent, co-parent, or simply curious, this podcast offers a candid look at what it means to rebuild, rediscover, and redefine life after a broken relationship. Tune in for a relatable and eye-opening journey. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3697</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/15792809f99fa7b32ad7c8ed44f6dd17.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>159</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Hanging with MCM: Asking 20 Random Questions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/hanging-with-mcm-asking-20-random-questions--61072103</link><description><![CDATA[Join us for a special episode of "You're Probably Right," where MCM answers 20 fun and out-of-the-box questions that reveal his intriguing and mysterious side. Inspired by his humour, this episode promises to be a blend of wit, humor, and captivating insights. If you're curious about what makes MCM tick, this is the episode you don't want to miss. Get ready for a delightful and entertaining short ride as MCM draws you in with his unique style. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e85a9358-3758-4aae-914b-e351d3e33577</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jul 2024 02:33:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072103/a0dff15c_5ebf_930d_0c8d_d1a71f56d251.mp3" length="97072282" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join us for a special episode of "You're Probably Right," where MCM answers 20 fun and out-of-the-box questions that reveal his intriguing and mysterious side. Inspired by his humour, this episode promises to be a blend of wit, humor, and captivating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join us for a special episode of "You're Probably Right," where MCM answers 20 fun and out-of-the-box questions that reveal his intriguing and mysterious side. Inspired by his humour, this episode promises to be a blend of wit, humor, and captivating insights. If you're curious about what makes MCM tick, this is the episode you don't want to miss. Get ready for a delightful and entertaining short ride as MCM draws you in with his unique style. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2427</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/05867cde48e034b1af396c6672304001.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Loss, and Lessons</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/loss-and-lessons--61072091</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to "You're Probably Right: Life, Loss, and Lessons with MCM," the go-to podcast for anyone seeking heartfelt conversations and practical advice on navigating life's toughest challenges. Hosted by MCM, this podcast delves into personal experiences with loss, mental health, weight management, and more, providing listeners with relatable stories and actionable insights. <ul><li>In-Depth Discussions: MCM explores deep, personal topics such as coping with the loss of loved ones, battling depression, and the intricacies of biblical prophecy.</li><li>Practical Advice: Get tips on effective weight loss strategies, maintaining motivation, and balancing work and personal life.</li><li>Engaging Content: Each episode is a monologue-style Q&amp;A, offering a unique perspective on common struggles and life decisions.</li></ul><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d36a9193-4761-457d-a722-f82c500f4802</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jul 2024 23:37:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072091/53b32c6d_6ecb_4881_34c8_554512f42cc2.mp3" length="166482763" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to "You're Probably Right: Life, Loss, and Lessons with MCM," the go-to podcast for anyone seeking heartfelt conversations and practical advice on navigating life's toughest challenges. 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Join us as we discuss why securing life insurance independently is a crucial step in protecting your loved ones and ensuring financial stability. We'll address common misconceptions, share personal experiences, and offer practical advice on balancing faith with responsible planning. Whether you're considering headstones, funeral arrangements, or an inheritance for your dependents, this episode provides valuable insights and steps you can take to prepare for the future. 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Join us as we discuss why securing life insurance independently is a crucial step in protecting your loved ones and ensuring financial stability. We'll address common misconceptions, share personal experiences, and offer practical advice on balancing faith with responsible planning. Whether you're considering headstones, funeral arrangements, or an inheritance for your dependents, this episode provides valuable insights and steps you can take to prepare for the future. Tune in to explore how breaking the cycle of neglect can lead to a more secure and hopeful tomorrow. #LifeInsurance #FuturePlanning #FinancialSecurity #ChristianFamily #YoureProbablyRight <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3253</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07bb642618a61bbe0f7af1ffdfc778b9.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>158</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Young Men and the Power of Humility</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/young-men-and-the-power-of-humility--61072098</link><description><![CDATA[Join MCM on 'You’re Probably Right' as we explore the transformative power of humility and the impact of positive community interactions in our latest episode, 'Young Men and the Power of Humility: Building Bridges in Today’s World.' Dive into discussions on how staying humble can unlock new opportunities, the importance of accepting help, and ways to enhance relationships with law enforcement through simple acts of kindness. Discover how young men can navigate societal pressures with grace and contribute to a more understanding and respectful society. Tune in for thought-provoking insights on personal growth, community relations, and the small gestures that can lead to significant societal changes. 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Ideal for listeners interested in personal development, community dynamics, and constructive dialogues on law enforcement interaction. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2707</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/08d159cd8399b73c377568f16c42e474.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Life and Death after Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-and-death-after-life--61072093</link><description><![CDATA[Join MCM in a profound exploration of life and the afterlife in the latest episode of the 'You're Probably Right' podcast, titled 'Life and Death after Life.' In this episode, MCM delves into the spiritual and emotional ramifications of losing loved ones, providing listeners with a unique Christian perspective on grief, faith, and the eternal questions that death evokes. Whether you are navigating personal loss or are interested in the theological views on what follows after our earthly journey ends, this podcast offers deep insights into how belief in God and the afterlife can offer solace and understanding during the most challenging times. MCM reflects on the significant losses in his own life, including the recent passing of his mother, and addresses ten evocative questions about spirituality, mortality, and the pursuit of eternal peace. Tune in for a heartfelt dialogue on mourning, Christian beliefs, and the quest for understanding life's transient nature, ideal for anyone interested in spiritual growth, the philosophy of death, or exploring personal beliefs in greater depth.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">45ff7af3-5382-47ed-bca4-024f18cc9146</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jul 2024 19:45:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072093/d7d672df73094688c6cb628e7da7350b.mp3" length="35204427" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join MCM in a profound exploration of life and the afterlife in the latest episode of the 'You're Probably Right' podcast, titled 'Life and Death after Life.' In this episode, MCM delves into the spiritual and emotional ramifications of losing loved...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join MCM in a profound exploration of life and the afterlife in the latest episode of the 'You're Probably Right' podcast, titled 'Life and Death after Life.' In this episode, MCM delves into the spiritual and emotional ramifications of losing loved ones, providing listeners with a unique Christian perspective on grief, faith, and the eternal questions that death evokes. Whether you are navigating personal loss or are interested in the theological views on what follows after our earthly journey ends, this podcast offers deep insights into how belief in God and the afterlife can offer solace and understanding during the most challenging times. MCM reflects on the significant losses in his own life, including the recent passing of his mother, and addresses ten evocative questions about spirituality, mortality, and the pursuit of eternal peace. Tune in for a heartfelt dialogue on mourning, Christian beliefs, and the quest for understanding life's transient nature, ideal for anyone interested in spiritual growth, the philosophy of death, or exploring personal beliefs in greater depth.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2201</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2c2b11ebacfba802dd69c9fe21ff4386.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Different types of Learners Transitioning from helpee to helper in Special Ed And beyond part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/different-types-of-learners-transitioning-from-helpee-to-helper-in-special-ed-and-beyond-part-2--61072114</link><description><![CDATA[transformative journey of special education from a student's perspective to a seasoned Child and Youth Worker (CYW). Discover how personal experiences from Grade 4 to Grade 10 shape professional methodologies and strategies in special education. This insightful discussion delves into the challenges and triumphs of working with children and youth with special needs, offering a comprehensive look at effective educational practices and psychological support tailored for diverse learners. Learn about the critical role of emotional engagement in the educational process and how societal perceptions influence the development of students with learning disabilities. Uncover the systemic changes necessary to foster an inclusive educational environment and the professional development opportunities that enhance the capabilities of special education professionals. Join us as we explore impactful stories of personal growth and professional achievements, providing a deep understanding of the philosophical insights gained from both sides of the educational spectrum. This content is essential for educators, aspiring CYWs, and anyone interested in the advancement of special education practices and policies.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">50f9e249-89f6-4588-9d70-61bd5f8d8a9e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Jun 2024 22:56:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072114/3bed1775ebaac8599dbd286fd436a743.mp3" length="33326536" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>transformative journey of special education from a student's perspective to a seasoned Child and Youth Worker (CYW). Discover how personal experiences from Grade 4 to Grade 10 shape professional methodologies and strategies in special education. This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[transformative journey of special education from a student's perspective to a seasoned Child and Youth Worker (CYW). Discover how personal experiences from Grade 4 to Grade 10 shape professional methodologies and strategies in special education. This insightful discussion delves into the challenges and triumphs of working with children and youth with special needs, offering a comprehensive look at effective educational practices and psychological support tailored for diverse learners. Learn about the critical role of emotional engagement in the educational process and how societal perceptions influence the development of students with learning disabilities. Uncover the systemic changes necessary to foster an inclusive educational environment and the professional development opportunities that enhance the capabilities of special education professionals. Join us as we explore impactful stories of personal growth and professional achievements, providing a deep understanding of the philosophical insights gained from both sides of the educational spectrum. This content is essential for educators, aspiring CYWs, and anyone interested in the advancement of special education practices and policies.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2083</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/58fc4883f0627a3eb6d5b6adce663b4a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Different types of Learners Transitioning from helpee to helper in Special Ed And beyond part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/different-types-of-learners-transitioning-from-helpee-to-helper-in-special-ed-and-beyond-part-1--61072105</link><description><![CDATA[The world of educational strategies with 'Different Types of Learners: Transitioning from Helpee to Helper in Special Ed and Beyond, Part 1,' on the 'You're Probably Right' podcast. This episode explores the spectrum of learning styles—from auditory to kinesthetic learners—and offers effective, actionable strategies for engaging students with special needs. Discover how tailored educational approaches can significantly enhance learning outcomes and empower students to transition from recipients to contributors in their learning environments. Join us as we discuss the integration of visual aids, interactive activities, and real-life applications to support diverse learners. 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This episode explores the spectrum of learning styles—from auditory to kinesthetic learners—and offers effective, actionable strategies for engaging students with special needs. Discover how tailored educational approaches can significantly enhance learning outcomes and empower students to transition from recipients to contributors in their learning environments. Join us as we discuss the integration of visual aids, interactive activities, and real-life applications to support diverse learners. Perfect for educators, parents, and anyone interested in inclusive education and special education advancements. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4538</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1c672da4e0228b990e555e0fe7685047.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Most Important Episode: Finding the Narrow Way - You're Probably Right Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/most-important-episode-finding-the-narrow-way-you-re-probably-right-podcast--61072089</link><description><![CDATA[In this crucial episode of "You're Probably Right," MCM delves deep into Biblical teachings with a powerful sermon by Pastor John MacArthur titled "Finding the Narrow Way." Reflecting on Matthew 7:13-14, this sermon emphasizes the importance of genuine faith and the path that leads to eternal life. MCM shares his personal insights and the significance of this message, encouraging listeners to examine their spiritual journey. Tune in to explore the profound teachings of true commitment to Christ and the dangers of superficial belief. 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Reflecting on Matthew 7:13-14, this sermon emphasizes the importance of genuine faith and the path that leads to eternal life. MCM shares his personal insights and the significance of this message, encouraging listeners to examine their spiritual journey. Tune in to explore the profound teachings of true commitment to Christ and the dangers of superficial belief. 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Each episode of "Real Talks with MCM" offers a candid look into the challenges and triumphs of modern living, exploring personal beliefs against the backdrop of today's societal pressures. Whether discussing the nuances of spirituality in our tech-driven world, breaking down stereotypes, or sharing authentic stories, this podcast is for those who appreciate depth and honesty. Perfect for listeners seeking thoughtful analysis and genuine conversations, "You're Probably Right" provides insights that connect deeply with everyday experiences. Subscribe today and join a community that values reflection and genuine dialogue.  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">54be6540-f077-46eb-8c86-fcc2631df806</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2024 02:33:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072096/6ee9b2a5c9b1a10b1f0b38f10a5fe727.mp3" length="47882383" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tune into "You're Probably Right" with your host MCM as we delve into the intricate aspects of life, faith, and technology. Each episode of "Real Talks with MCM" offers a candid look into the challenges and triumphs of modern living, exploring...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tune into "You're Probably Right" with your host MCM as we delve into the intricate aspects of life, faith, and technology. Each episode of "Real Talks with MCM" offers a candid look into the challenges and triumphs of modern living, exploring personal beliefs against the backdrop of today's societal pressures. Whether discussing the nuances of spirituality in our tech-driven world, breaking down stereotypes, or sharing authentic stories, this podcast is for those who appreciate depth and honesty. Perfect for listeners seeking thoughtful analysis and genuine conversations, "You're Probably Right" provides insights that connect deeply with everyday experiences. Subscribe today and join a community that values reflection and genuine dialogue.  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2993</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unlocking the Secrets to a Strong Marriage: 10 Essential Faith-Based Principles for Modern Couples</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unlocking-the-secrets-to-a-strong-marriage-10-essential-faith-based-principles-for-modern-couples--61072104</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> SEO Meta Description: "Discover how to strengthen your marriage with these 10 essential faith-based principles. Learn how traditional values can navigate modern challenges, from online infidelity to cultural pressures. Read on for expert advice and practical tips!" <br /> Introduction: Marriage is a profound journey, filled with love, challenges, and growth. In a world that often promotes instant gratification and fleeting connections, maintaining a strong, faith-based marriage can be a sanctuary of stability and enduring love. This article delves into the core principles that can fortify your relationship, drawing from traditional values and faith-based wisdom to navigate modern challenges. <br /> The Role of Faith in Strengthening Marriage Faith plays a pivotal role in marriage by fostering a shared belief system. Couples who pray together, attend religious services, and engage in spiritual practices often find that their bond strengthens, providing a unified front against life's challenges. Faith encourages forgiveness, patience, and mutual support, which are essential for a strong marital foundation. Balancing Traditional Roles with Modern Expectations Incorporating traditional roles within modern marriage involves mutual respect and adaptability. While maintaining core values, it's essential to adapt to contemporary dynamics, ensuring both partners feel valued and respected. This balance allows couples to honor their traditions while embracing the flexibility required in today's fast-paced world. Upholding Traditional Family Values Despite societal shifts, traditional family values remain crucial. These values, grounded in respect, love, and commitment, provide a roadmap for marital success, fostering a stable and nurturing environment for growth. Upholding these values helps couples navigate the complexities of modern life while staying true to their beliefs. Navigating Cultural Pressures In today's secular world, couples often face cultural pressures that challenge traditional values. By staying rooted in faith, couples can navigate these pressures with grace, maintaining their integrity and commitment. It's essential to prioritize your relationship over societal expectations, ensuring that your bond remains strong despite external influences. Instilling Values in Children For couples with children, instilling traditional and religious values is paramount. This involves consistent teaching, leading by example, and creating a home environment that reflects these values. Teaching children the importance of faith and commitment helps them develop a strong moral foundation that will guide them throughout their lives. <br /><br /><br /> FAQs How can couples grow spiritually together? Couples can grow spiritually by praying together, attending religious services, reading scripture, and engaging in faith-based discussions. These activities foster a deeper connection and mutual understanding. <br /><br /> Conclusion Building a strong, faith-based marriage requires dedication, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to spiritual growth. By embracing traditional values and navigating modern challenges with grace, couples can create a lasting and fulfilling partnership. Remember, the journey of marriage is not just about the destination but about growing together in faith and love every step of the way.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a42efc10-ef2a-41e1-a735-e948aec3630d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2024 03:32:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072104/b430152355ac51d137e2e916992aa051.mp3" length="59600704" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 SEO Meta Description: "Discover how to strengthen your marriage with these 10 essential faith-based principles. Learn how traditional values can navigate modern challenges, from online infidelity to cultural pressures. Read on for expert advice and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> SEO Meta Description: "Discover how to strengthen your marriage with these 10 essential faith-based principles. Learn how traditional values can navigate modern challenges, from online infidelity to cultural pressures. Read on for expert advice and practical tips!" <br /> Introduction: Marriage is a profound journey, filled with love, challenges, and growth. In a world that often promotes instant gratification and fleeting connections, maintaining a strong, faith-based marriage can be a sanctuary of stability and enduring love. This article delves into the core principles that can fortify your relationship, drawing from traditional values and faith-based wisdom to navigate modern challenges. <br /> The Role of Faith in Strengthening Marriage Faith plays a pivotal role in marriage by fostering a shared belief system. Couples who pray together, attend religious services, and engage in spiritual practices often find that their bond strengthens, providing a unified front against life's challenges. Faith encourages forgiveness, patience, and mutual support, which are essential for a strong marital foundation. Balancing Traditional Roles with Modern Expectations Incorporating traditional roles within modern marriage involves mutual respect and adaptability. While maintaining core values, it's essential to adapt to contemporary dynamics, ensuring both partners feel valued and respected. This balance allows couples to honor their traditions while embracing the flexibility required in today's fast-paced world. Upholding Traditional Family Values Despite societal shifts, traditional family values remain crucial. These values, grounded in respect, love, and commitment, provide a roadmap for marital success, fostering a stable and nurturing environment for growth. Upholding these values helps couples navigate the complexities of modern life while staying true to their beliefs. Navigating Cultural Pressures In today's secular world, couples often face cultural pressures that challenge traditional values. By staying rooted in faith, couples can navigate these pressures with grace, maintaining their integrity and commitment. It's essential to prioritize your relationship over societal expectations, ensuring that your bond remains strong despite external influences. Instilling Values in Children For couples with children, instilling traditional and religious values is paramount. This involves consistent teaching, leading by example, and creating a home environment that reflects these values. Teaching children the importance of faith and commitment helps them develop a strong moral foundation that will guide them throughout their lives. <br /><br /><br /> FAQs How can couples grow spiritually together? Couples can grow spiritually by praying together, attending religious services, reading scripture, and engaging in faith-based discussions. These activities foster a deeper connection and mutual understanding. <br /><br /> Conclusion Building a strong, faith-based marriage requires dedication, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to spiritual growth. By embracing traditional values and navigating modern challenges with grace, couples can create a lasting and fulfilling partnership. Remember, the journey of marriage is not just about the destination but about growing together in faith and love every step of the way.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3725</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/35ec3dee1ad7bbd5a2338f0e29e2542d.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>149</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Artificial Voices, Authentic Concerns: The Impact of AI on Creativity</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/artificial-voices-authentic-concerns-the-impact-of-ai-on-creativity--61072092</link><description><![CDATA[In this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right," host MCM explores the increasingly blurred line between AI and human narration on YouTube. Delve into the complexities of AI in content creation, its implications for authenticity, and its impact on real creators. Join us as we question whether technology is enhancing creativity or compromising the human touch in digital storytelling.    1.       Do you think AI narration detracts from the authenticity of videos, or is it just a new tool in the digital creator's kit? 2.       Have you ever been fooled by AI narration? What gave it away? 3.       What do you think about the use of AI to simulate human-like speech errors? Is it clever or deceptive? 4.       How do you feel about the impact of AI on independent content creators? 5.       Is there a place for AI in creative processes, or should it be limited to more administrative tasks? 6.      How important is the "human element" in the content you consume?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5692dcdb-de32-4d22-8c52-165e21bee138</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2024 02:19:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072092/afe454602027ef48f79e5c471af5f9c1.mp3" length="32889769" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right," host MCM explores the increasingly blurred line between AI and human narration on YouTube. Delve into the complexities of AI in content creation, its implications for authenticity, and its...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right," host MCM explores the increasingly blurred line between AI and human narration on YouTube. Delve into the complexities of AI in content creation, its implications for authenticity, and its impact on real creators. Join us as we question whether technology is enhancing creativity or compromising the human touch in digital storytelling.    1.       Do you think AI narration detracts from the authenticity of videos, or is it just a new tool in the digital creator's kit? 2.       Have you ever been fooled by AI narration? What gave it away? 3.       What do you think about the use of AI to simulate human-like speech errors? Is it clever or deceptive? 4.       How do you feel about the impact of AI on independent content creators? 5.       Is there a place for AI in creative processes, or should it be limited to more administrative tasks? 6.      How important is the "human element" in the content you consume?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2056</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1839bc55dc5c5e04782c318a9d10dbc9.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Crash Course in Parenting: Real Talk</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/crash-course-in-parenting-real-talk--61072094</link><description><![CDATA[Join MCM on 'You’re Probably Right' for 'Crash Course in Parenting: Real Talk for Single Dads,' where we get real about the highs and lows of solo fatherhood. In this episode, MCM opens up about his personal experiences and shares essential advice for single dads navigating parenting challenges in Canada and the U.S. From early potty training days to the teenage years' complexities, discover practical strategies that cut through the noise. Learn how to handle tough behaviour, strike a balance between work and home, and make sure your children feel supported through every phase of their lives. MCM also discusses sensitive topics like introducing new partners and guiding children through social pressures and relationship dynamics. If you're a single dad seeking honest, actionable insights from someone who’s been there, this episode offers companionship and guidance on your parenting journey. #SingleDadLife #ParentingRealTalk #FamilyInsights #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0c2064fb-27ad-423b-9298-1520b060cd25</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2024 00:22:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072094/5f22fafda569070abefe3c8cc346f4ad.mp3" length="48834494" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join MCM on 'You’re Probably Right' for 'Crash Course in Parenting: Real Talk for Single Dads,' where we get real about the highs and lows of solo fatherhood. In this episode, MCM opens up about his personal experiences and shares essential advice for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join MCM on 'You’re Probably Right' for 'Crash Course in Parenting: Real Talk for Single Dads,' where we get real about the highs and lows of solo fatherhood. In this episode, MCM opens up about his personal experiences and shares essential advice for single dads navigating parenting challenges in Canada and the U.S. From early potty training days to the teenage years' complexities, discover practical strategies that cut through the noise. Learn how to handle tough behaviour, strike a balance between work and home, and make sure your children feel supported through every phase of their lives. MCM also discusses sensitive topics like introducing new partners and guiding children through social pressures and relationship dynamics. If you're a single dad seeking honest, actionable insights from someone who’s been there, this episode offers companionship and guidance on your parenting journey. #SingleDadLife #ParentingRealTalk #FamilyInsights #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3053</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2e190cfc82a32525a65c55a336020329.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>145</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Big 5 Revisited, Part 2: The Dynamics of Personality</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/big-5-revisited-part-2-the-dynamics-of-personality--61072095</link><description><![CDATA[Immerse yourself in 'Big 5 Revisited, Part 2: The Dynamics of Personality,' the compelling continuation of 'You’re Probably Right' podcast's journey into the Big Five Aspects Scale. This episode dives further into the nuanced interplay of our fundamental personality traits and their real-life implications. Building on our initial self-assessment, we now examine the dynamic nature of how agreeableness, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness influence each other and shape our life's narrative. We'll explore deeper into how our levels of compassion inform our politeness, how our drive for orderliness coexists with our industriousness, and how our understanding of self shapes our worldview and personal relationships. This dialogue is more than self-analysis—it's about embracing the full spectrum of our personalities to navigate life's complexities with greater awareness and intention. Continue the journey with us to unlock further layers of self-knowledge and enrich your path to personal fulfillment. #PersonalityDynamics #BigFivePart2 #PsychologicalInsights #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9d3dd256-c54a-4073-a88d-1f8cf8f685f8</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2024 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072095/a677b9ab7010e654a2fe59225db7ab1a.mp3" length="67418631" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Immerse yourself in 'Big 5 Revisited, Part 2: The Dynamics of Personality,' the compelling continuation of 'You’re Probably Right' podcast's journey into the Big Five Aspects Scale. This episode dives further into the nuanced interplay of our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Immerse yourself in 'Big 5 Revisited, Part 2: The Dynamics of Personality,' the compelling continuation of 'You’re Probably Right' podcast's journey into the Big Five Aspects Scale. This episode dives further into the nuanced interplay of our fundamental personality traits and their real-life implications. Building on our initial self-assessment, we now examine the dynamic nature of how agreeableness, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness influence each other and shape our life's narrative. We'll explore deeper into how our levels of compassion inform our politeness, how our drive for orderliness coexists with our industriousness, and how our understanding of self shapes our worldview and personal relationships. This dialogue is more than self-analysis—it's about embracing the full spectrum of our personalities to navigate life's complexities with greater awareness and intention. Continue the journey with us to unlock further layers of self-knowledge and enrich your path to personal fulfillment. #PersonalityDynamics #BigFivePart2 #PsychologicalInsights #YoureProbablyRightPodcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4214</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a02d9508551212a9858cfa84b5165f29.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>144</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Big 5 Revisited: Unpacking Personality in the Quest for Self-Understanding</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/big-5-revisited-unpacking-personality-in-the-quest-for-self-understanding--61072119</link><description><![CDATA[Dive deep into the intricacies of the human psyche with 'Big 5 Revisited,' the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right.' Join us as we explore the Big Five Aspects Scale, shedding light on the core traits that define our interactions and behaviours. Reflecting on personal scores in agreeableness, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness, this episode offers a candid analysis of the impact these traits have on our lives, relationships, and successes. Discover the subtle complexities of compassion versus politeness, the balance between industriousness and orderliness, and the profound insights gained from understanding oneself. Whether you're navigating career choices, personal development, or simply curious about the psychology behind personality, 'Big 5 Revisited' provides thought-provoking commentary that connects the dots between self-assessment and real-world applications. Tune in and join the conversation as we revisit the Big Five — because self-knowledge is the first step to living authentically. #BigFivePersonality #SelfDiscovery #PersonalityPsychology #YoureProbablyRight" This description is designed to be concise yet informative, highlighting the value of the episode for listeners interested in psychology, personal growth, and self-reflection. It's crafted to resonate with an audience seeking deeper understanding of themselves and how their personality traits can influence their life path.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f7cb4257-5fad-4b2d-9a28-1172c4409281</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2024 01:26:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072119/fb5322c7771fa4131e32ef32370fb5c9.mp3" length="54033488" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dive deep into the intricacies of the human psyche with 'Big 5 Revisited,' the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right.' Join us as we explore the Big Five Aspects Scale, shedding light on the core traits that define our interactions and behaviours....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dive deep into the intricacies of the human psyche with 'Big 5 Revisited,' the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right.' Join us as we explore the Big Five Aspects Scale, shedding light on the core traits that define our interactions and behaviours. Reflecting on personal scores in agreeableness, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness, this episode offers a candid analysis of the impact these traits have on our lives, relationships, and successes. Discover the subtle complexities of compassion versus politeness, the balance between industriousness and orderliness, and the profound insights gained from understanding oneself. Whether you're navigating career choices, personal development, or simply curious about the psychology behind personality, 'Big 5 Revisited' provides thought-provoking commentary that connects the dots between self-assessment and real-world applications. Tune in and join the conversation as we revisit the Big Five — because self-knowledge is the first step to living authentically. #BigFivePersonality #SelfDiscovery #PersonalityPsychology #YoureProbablyRight" This description is designed to be concise yet informative, highlighting the value of the episode for listeners interested in psychology, personal growth, and self-reflection. It's crafted to resonate with an audience seeking deeper understanding of themselves and how their personality traits can influence their life path.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3377</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/19c8a8a7f093eb488dc1057762b48cbe.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>142</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode #141 of You’re Probably Right Reflections and Revelations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-141-of-you-re-probably-right-reflections-and-revelations--61072106</link><description><![CDATA[Join us in a poignant Episode 141 of 'You’re Probably Right,' titled 'Reflections and Revelations.' In this potentially final installment, delve into the complexities of social media dynamics, the elusive pursuit of online fame, and the raw reality of content creation. Unpack the societal shifts in relationships and analyze the controversies surrounding celebrity influence. This episode offers a candid look at the heartbeat of community care and the crossroads of a creator's journey. Tune in as we explore the essence of connectivity in our digital age and contemplate the future of 'You’re Probably Right.' #YoureProbablyRight #PodcastFinale #SocialMediaReality #Relationships #CultureCommentary."]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">406140eb-b7be-4485-be5c-747adfe7eacf</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2024 02:59:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072106/7146bef8984e1357b422bad785d858ad.mp3" length="62954409" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join us in a poignant Episode 141 of 'You’re Probably Right,' titled 'Reflections and Revelations.' In this potentially final installment, delve into the complexities of social media dynamics, the elusive pursuit of online fame, and the raw reality of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join us in a poignant Episode 141 of 'You’re Probably Right,' titled 'Reflections and Revelations.' In this potentially final installment, delve into the complexities of social media dynamics, the elusive pursuit of online fame, and the raw reality of content creation. Unpack the societal shifts in relationships and analyze the controversies surrounding celebrity influence. This episode offers a candid look at the heartbeat of community care and the crossroads of a creator's journey. Tune in as we explore the essence of connectivity in our digital age and contemplate the future of 'You’re Probably Right.' #YoureProbablyRight #PodcastFinale #SocialMediaReality #Relationships #CultureCommentary."]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3935</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ff0350b66fc5e3bb68f60a4663b6379f.jpg"/><itunes:season>7</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Purple Rain: The Tough Road of Rejected Men</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/purple-rain-the-tough-road-of-rejected-men--61072110</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to episode 145 of "You're Probably Right," a compelling journey into the heart of life's complexities, hosted by MCM. This podcast series, available on more than 20 platforms, dives deep into the untold stories and unexplored territories of human experience, offering listeners a unique blend of introspection, empathy, and enlightenment. In this episode, titled "Purple Rain: The Tough Road of Rejected Men," we turn our focus to the often overlooked emotional struggles of men facing rejection. Through a powerful monologue, MCM sheds light on the resilience and redemption hidden behind the facade of masculinity, challenging stereotypes and inviting a deeper understanding of the rejected man's journey. "You're Probably Right" stands as a beacon for those navigating the complexities of the modern world, offering insights into personal growth, societal expectations, and the silent battles fought in the shadows of societal norms. Whether you're seeking solace, understanding, or a fresh perspective on the intricacies of human emotion and resilience, episode 145 promises to resonate, provoke thought, and offer a sense of companionship through its heartfelt storytelling. Join us on this reflective exploration in "Purple Rain: The Tough Road of Rejected Men." It's more than just a podcast; it's a sanctuary for shared stories and a platform for voices that yearn to be heard. Available across a multitude of listening platforms, "You're Probably Right" ensures that wherever you are, you can easily access this touching narrative, reminding you that in the complexities of life and love, you're probably right.  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ac834276-93b1-49d0-a7b8-e1025b9b5767</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2024 01:50:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072110/dd222da2f75e41497300fc76a30fab13.mp3" length="39368554" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to episode 145 of "You're Probably Right," a compelling journey into the heart of life's complexities, hosted by MCM. This podcast series, available on more than 20 platforms, dives deep into the untold stories and unexplored territories of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to episode 145 of "You're Probably Right," a compelling journey into the heart of life's complexities, hosted by MCM. This podcast series, available on more than 20 platforms, dives deep into the untold stories and unexplored territories of human experience, offering listeners a unique blend of introspection, empathy, and enlightenment. In this episode, titled "Purple Rain: The Tough Road of Rejected Men," we turn our focus to the often overlooked emotional struggles of men facing rejection. Through a powerful monologue, MCM sheds light on the resilience and redemption hidden behind the facade of masculinity, challenging stereotypes and inviting a deeper understanding of the rejected man's journey. "You're Probably Right" stands as a beacon for those navigating the complexities of the modern world, offering insights into personal growth, societal expectations, and the silent battles fought in the shadows of societal norms. Whether you're seeking solace, understanding, or a fresh perspective on the intricacies of human emotion and resilience, episode 145 promises to resonate, provoke thought, and offer a sense of companionship through its heartfelt storytelling. Join us on this reflective exploration in "Purple Rain: The Tough Road of Rejected Men." It's more than just a podcast; it's a sanctuary for shared stories and a platform for voices that yearn to be heard. 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Perfect for those seeking understanding and connection. Description: Join MCM, your host, and his assistant June on a journey through the quiet, contemplative, and often misunderstood world of introverts in their latest episode of "You're Probably Right." This episode is not just a podcast; it's a heart-to-heart conversation where MCM shares his personal struggles and triumphs as an introvert. Through candid discussions, they shed light on the nuances of introversion, from the joy of deep, meaningful conversations to the challenges of public speaking and the impact of past traumas on social interaction. MCM, a self-proclaimed introvert, navigates the complexities of his personality with humor, vulnerability, and a deep sense of spirituality. He explores how his faith and belief in the Triune God offer him solace and strength in his moments of introspection and doubt. This episode is a reflection on personal growth, the importance of understanding one's own introversion, and how it intersects with one's beliefs and daily life. Whether you're an introvert looking for someone who gets it, someone interested in the dynamics of introverted personalities, or just a fan of engaging thoughtful podcasts, this episode is for you. MCM and June invite you into their conversation, offering insights that are both enlightening and comforting. "You're Probably Right" is more than a podcast; it's a community for those who think deeply, feel deeply, and live authentically. Key Highlights:   Understanding Introversion: Dive into the heart of what it means to be an introvert and how it shapes interactions, preferences, and energy levels.  Personal Stories: MCM shares his journey, including the role of faith in his life and how he navigates the challenges of being an introvert.  The Power of Belief: Explore how spiritual beliefs and practices offer strength and a sense of purpose amidst the quiet struggles of introverted life.  Strategies for Introverts: Discover practical tips and reflections on managing social interactions, public speaking, and embracing one's introverted nature.  Tune in to "You're Probably Right" on Spotify or your preferred podcast platform to join MCM and June in this intimate exploration of introversion, spirituality, and personal growth. It's a conversation that promises to be as enlightening as it is comforting, perfect for those quiet moments of reflection.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">86b5c988-9bdf-4ddb-84ef-67db21d3d181</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Feb 2024 20:27:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072123/177b1ea8e35b5adfec798c63ea622f19.mp3" length="43976136" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dive deep into the world of introversion with MCM and June in "You're Probably Right," where personal anecdotes, the power of belief, and the complexities of being an introvert in a noisy world are explored. Perfect for those seeking understanding and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dive deep into the world of introversion with MCM and June in "You're Probably Right," where personal anecdotes, the power of belief, and the complexities of being an introvert in a noisy world are explored. Perfect for those seeking understanding and connection. Description: Join MCM, your host, and his assistant June on a journey through the quiet, contemplative, and often misunderstood world of introverts in their latest episode of "You're Probably Right." This episode is not just a podcast; it's a heart-to-heart conversation where MCM shares his personal struggles and triumphs as an introvert. Through candid discussions, they shed light on the nuances of introversion, from the joy of deep, meaningful conversations to the challenges of public speaking and the impact of past traumas on social interaction. MCM, a self-proclaimed introvert, navigates the complexities of his personality with humor, vulnerability, and a deep sense of spirituality. He explores how his faith and belief in the Triune God offer him solace and strength in his moments of introspection and doubt. This episode is a reflection on personal growth, the importance of understanding one's own introversion, and how it intersects with one's beliefs and daily life. Whether you're an introvert looking for someone who gets it, someone interested in the dynamics of introverted personalities, or just a fan of engaging thoughtful podcasts, this episode is for you. MCM and June invite you into their conversation, offering insights that are both enlightening and comforting. "You're Probably Right" is more than a podcast; it's a community for those who think deeply, feel deeply, and live authentically. Key Highlights:   Understanding Introversion: Dive into the heart of what it means to be an introvert and how it shapes interactions, preferences, and energy levels.  Personal Stories: MCM shares his journey, including the role of faith in his life and how he navigates the challenges of being an introvert.  The Power of Belief: Explore how spiritual beliefs and practices offer strength and a sense of purpose amidst the quiet struggles of introverted life.  Strategies for Introverts: Discover practical tips and reflections on managing social interactions, public speaking, and embracing one's introverted nature.  Tune in to "You're Probably Right" on Spotify or your preferred podcast platform to join MCM and June in this intimate exploration of introversion, spirituality, and personal growth. It's a conversation that promises to be as enlightening as it is comforting, perfect for those quiet moments of reflection.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2749</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6a811b4b187a13d6e3989bd96cfddbb5.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>141</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Signs an Ex is Reconsidering (changes Ft. AI)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/signs-an-ex-is-reconsidering-changes-ft-ai--61072102</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> In this enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," MCM, delves into the intricate tapestry of relationships, specifically zooming in on the sensitive topic of ex-partners pondering the the idea of coming back. With a mix of personal anecdotes and deep understanding, I explore the subtle yet telling signs that an ex might be thinking about rekindling what was once lost. From increased heartfelt conversations and reminiscing about shared memories to sincere apologies, showing a renewed interest in your life, and the sentimental sharing of things that hark back to better times, this episode offers a comprehensive look at the emotional indicators that suggest a possible reconciliation. Join me as I walk you through these signs, providing insights and reflections on the complex reasons behind an ex's wish to reconnect and how to approach the emotional landscape of potentially rekindling an old romance. Whether you're considering the possibility of getting back together with an ex or are simply fascinated by the dynamics of human relationships, this episode promises to enlighten, educate, and provoke thought on the nuances of revisiting a past love.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1763dcb9-16b6-4610-ab88-3c100d196508</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2024 02:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072102/9461ab1d078c0fb8d660d3febf9d04a3.mp3" length="53399862" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 In this enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," MCM, delves into the intricate tapestry of relationships, specifically zooming in on the sensitive topic of ex-partners pondering the the idea of coming back. With a mix of personal anecdotes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> In this enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," MCM, delves into the intricate tapestry of relationships, specifically zooming in on the sensitive topic of ex-partners pondering the the idea of coming back. With a mix of personal anecdotes and deep understanding, I explore the subtle yet telling signs that an ex might be thinking about rekindling what was once lost. From increased heartfelt conversations and reminiscing about shared memories to sincere apologies, showing a renewed interest in your life, and the sentimental sharing of things that hark back to better times, this episode offers a comprehensive look at the emotional indicators that suggest a possible reconciliation. Join me as I walk you through these signs, providing insights and reflections on the complex reasons behind an ex's wish to reconnect and how to approach the emotional landscape of potentially rekindling an old romance. Whether you're considering the possibility of getting back together with an ex or are simply fascinated by the dynamics of human relationships, this episode promises to enlighten, educate, and provoke thought on the nuances of revisiting a past love.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cf87f865aefe855c3f1b46c7057eb284.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>140</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Lower levels of Society and IQ's under attack in a weird sick way</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/lower-levels-of-society-and-iq-s-under-attack-in-a-weird-sick-way--61072100</link><description><![CDATA[Join me, MCM, on the 'You're Probably Right Podcast' for an entertaining journey into the heart of productivity secrets. In this episode, we're exploring the latest tools and techniques that are reshaping how we work and live. Discover innovative software solutions, effective time-management strategies, and much more. Whether you're aiming to enhance your professional workflow or seeking to maximize your efficiency, this episode offers a treasure trove of actionable insights. Tune into 'You're Probably Right Podcast' for your dose of entertainment and a chance to transform your productivity. Entertainment purposes only. Not really but there might be something here]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e05f346c-6386-48af-b939-5b7117509cff</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2024 02:35:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072100/395118f3cc6122eca616e02aa74e0ccb.mp3" length="30973844" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join me, MCM, on the 'You're Probably Right Podcast' for an entertaining journey into the heart of productivity secrets. In this episode, we're exploring the latest tools and techniques that are reshaping how we work and live. Discover innovative...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join me, MCM, on the 'You're Probably Right Podcast' for an entertaining journey into the heart of productivity secrets. In this episode, we're exploring the latest tools and techniques that are reshaping how we work and live. Discover innovative software solutions, effective time-management strategies, and much more. Whether you're aiming to enhance your professional workflow or seeking to maximize your efficiency, this episode offers a treasure trove of actionable insights. Tune into 'You're Probably Right Podcast' for your dose of entertainment and a chance to transform your productivity. Entertainment purposes only. Not really but there might be something here]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1936</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d91d45f2dbc8d19e37dd859593294d69.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Celebs Sell US Junk</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-celebs-sell-us-junk--61072121</link><description><![CDATA[Hey, hey, hey! Welcome back to "You're Probably Right," hosted by yours truly, MCM. Buckle up, folks, because today, we're diving headfirst into the glamorous, and sometimes, head-scratching world of celebrities and their, let’s just say, "unique" business ventures. Now, picture this: You've got more money than you can count, you're at the top of your game, whether that's throwing balls, dropping beats, or lighting up the silver screen. Life's good. But then, out of nowhere, you decide, "Hey, why don't I start selling... booze? Or better yet, let's put my face on a blender that can barely crush ice." Sounds bizarre? Oh, you betcha. But stick with me, because this rabbit hole goes deep and is as twisted as a pretzel at a yoga class. First up, let's talk diversification. In the world of glitz and glam, where careers can be as fleeting as a cameo in a sitcom, these A-listers are playing the long game. It's like, "Sure, I can dunk, but can I also convince you to buy this suspiciously cheap steak knife set?" It's all about having a backup plan when the spotlight starts to dim, kinda like keeping a spare tire, but instead of a tire, it's a winery. Then, there's the whole deal with marketability. Imagine having millions of fans who hang onto your every word, tweet, or Instagram post. You could sell snow to an Eskimo or, in this case, overpriced headphones to someone with no ears. It's the golden ticket to the endorsement train, baby, and this train stops for no one. But hey, let's not forget about passion. Maybe, just maybe, our beloved celeb has always dreamt of crafting the perfect tequila or running a burger joint. It's their "Field of Dreams," but instead of ghosts, it's filled with cash registers. And who are we to judge? After all, everyone deserves a shot at their dreams, even if it means selling hot sauce that could double as engine degreaser. Now, onto financial security and legacy building. It's not just about stacking paper for a rainy day; it's about cementing their status as an icon for eternity. Because nothing says "I've made it" quite like having your name on a slot machine in Vegas, right? It's about leaving a mark, ensuring that their name lives on, even if it's in the form of a neon sign above a dive bar. And let's talk influence. These aren't just random ventures; they're carefully calculated moves, orchestrated by an entourage of managers and financial advisors. It's like having a personal team of Gandalfs, guiding you through the treacherous paths of investment, whispering, "This is the way, young Skywalker." Wait, wrong franchise, but you get the drift. So, as we wrap up this rollercoaster of a journey through the land of celebrity entrepreneurship, let's take a moment to ponder. Maybe, just maybe, the next time we see our favorite actor promoting a line of eco-friendly toilet brushes, instead of asking "Why?" we'll nod knowingly and say, "Ah, playing the long game, I see." And who knows? Maybe one day, I'll launch my own line of products. MCM's Magic Mic: the only microphone that not only amplifies your voice but also your bank account. Because, in the end, aren't we all just trying to make a little extra dough on the side? Thanks for tuning in to "You're Probably Right." Remember, in the wacky world of fame and fortune, you might think it's all glitz and glamour, but sometimes, it's just about finding the right blender to put your name on. Catch you on the flip side! <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f2d3d11c-1fc0-48d1-9f04-0028285aa2d7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2024 02:31:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072121/476adce8f6b2c22e3fefe699a11f46c7.mp3" length="34414484" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey, hey, hey! Welcome back to "You're Probably Right," hosted by yours truly, MCM. Buckle up, folks, because today, we're diving headfirst into the glamorous, and sometimes, head-scratching world of celebrities and their, let’s just say, "unique"...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey, hey, hey! Welcome back to "You're Probably Right," hosted by yours truly, MCM. Buckle up, folks, because today, we're diving headfirst into the glamorous, and sometimes, head-scratching world of celebrities and their, let’s just say, "unique" business ventures. Now, picture this: You've got more money than you can count, you're at the top of your game, whether that's throwing balls, dropping beats, or lighting up the silver screen. Life's good. But then, out of nowhere, you decide, "Hey, why don't I start selling... booze? Or better yet, let's put my face on a blender that can barely crush ice." Sounds bizarre? Oh, you betcha. But stick with me, because this rabbit hole goes deep and is as twisted as a pretzel at a yoga class. First up, let's talk diversification. In the world of glitz and glam, where careers can be as fleeting as a cameo in a sitcom, these A-listers are playing the long game. It's like, "Sure, I can dunk, but can I also convince you to buy this suspiciously cheap steak knife set?" It's all about having a backup plan when the spotlight starts to dim, kinda like keeping a spare tire, but instead of a tire, it's a winery. Then, there's the whole deal with marketability. Imagine having millions of fans who hang onto your every word, tweet, or Instagram post. You could sell snow to an Eskimo or, in this case, overpriced headphones to someone with no ears. It's the golden ticket to the endorsement train, baby, and this train stops for no one. But hey, let's not forget about passion. Maybe, just maybe, our beloved celeb has always dreamt of crafting the perfect tequila or running a burger joint. It's their "Field of Dreams," but instead of ghosts, it's filled with cash registers. And who are we to judge? After all, everyone deserves a shot at their dreams, even if it means selling hot sauce that could double as engine degreaser. Now, onto financial security and legacy building. It's not just about stacking paper for a rainy day; it's about cementing their status as an icon for eternity. Because nothing says "I've made it" quite like having your name on a slot machine in Vegas, right? It's about leaving a mark, ensuring that their name lives on, even if it's in the form of a neon sign above a dive bar. And let's talk influence. These aren't just random ventures; they're carefully calculated moves, orchestrated by an entourage of managers and financial advisors. It's like having a personal team of Gandalfs, guiding you through the treacherous paths of investment, whispering, "This is the way, young Skywalker." Wait, wrong franchise, but you get the drift. So, as we wrap up this rollercoaster of a journey through the land of celebrity entrepreneurship, let's take a moment to ponder. Maybe, just maybe, the next time we see our favorite actor promoting a line of eco-friendly toilet brushes, instead of asking "Why?" we'll nod knowingly and say, "Ah, playing the long game, I see." And who knows? Maybe one day, I'll launch my own line of products. MCM's Magic Mic: the only microphone that not only amplifies your voice but also your bank account. Because, in the end, aren't we all just trying to make a little extra dough on the side? Thanks for tuning in to "You're Probably Right." Remember, in the wacky world of fame and fortune, you might think it's all glitz and glamour, but sometimes, it's just about finding the right blender to put your name on. Catch you on the flip side! <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2151</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bc993e4056880a68a37e66418e5a0b7b.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>139</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>New Love After Divorce: 10 Essential Questions to Ask Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-love-after-divorce-10-essential-questions-to-ask-yourself--61072131</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In this enlightening episode, we delve into the complex and often unspoken journey of seeking new love after divorce. We're not just talking about finding someone new; we're exploring the deeper, more introspective questions that help determine if you're truly ready to open your heart again. This episode is a must-listen for anyone contemplating re-entering the dating scene post-divorce. Join us as we unravel 10 critical questions, ranging from emotional readiness, evolving expectations, family dynamics, personal growth, and much more. We'll tackle how to recognize if you're seeking a relationship for the right reasons, understanding the impact on your family, especially if children are involved, and how your past experiences have shaped your present desires.   Whether you're in the midst of considering a new relationship or just curious about the journey, this episode offers valuable insights and perspectives. We provide thoughtful guidance to those navigating this challenging but potentially rewarding path. Don't miss this episode of "You're Probably Right," where we dive deep into the heart of starting anew after divorce. Tune in to discover if you're ready to take the plunge into new love and how to do it with self-awareness and purpose. Remember to subscribe for more insightful episodes and share your thoughts with us in the comments or via email. Your journey matters, and we're here to explore it together on "You're Probably Right."]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ef859f8d-b7bd-47b6-91dd-7903870adb36</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 01:50:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072131/e2fddbb69e7f5238d541a6cd029fdb34.mp3" length="30649925" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In this enlightening episode, we delve into the complex and often unspoken journey of seeking new love after divorce. We're not just talking about finding someone new; we're exploring the deeper, more...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In this enlightening episode, we delve into the complex and often unspoken journey of seeking new love after divorce. We're not just talking about finding someone new; we're exploring the deeper, more introspective questions that help determine if you're truly ready to open your heart again. This episode is a must-listen for anyone contemplating re-entering the dating scene post-divorce. Join us as we unravel 10 critical questions, ranging from emotional readiness, evolving expectations, family dynamics, personal growth, and much more. We'll tackle how to recognize if you're seeking a relationship for the right reasons, understanding the impact on your family, especially if children are involved, and how your past experiences have shaped your present desires.   Whether you're in the midst of considering a new relationship or just curious about the journey, this episode offers valuable insights and perspectives. We provide thoughtful guidance to those navigating this challenging but potentially rewarding path. Don't miss this episode of "You're Probably Right," where we dive deep into the heart of starting anew after divorce. Tune in to discover if you're ready to take the plunge into new love and how to do it with self-awareness and purpose. Remember to subscribe for more insightful episodes and share your thoughts with us in the comments or via email. Your journey matters, and we're here to explore it together on "You're Probably Right."]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1916</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b3050c5429408e5dc94817a1048dbc45.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>136</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Man She Doesn't Want</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-man-she-doesn-t-want--61072134</link><description><![CDATA[Join host MCM on the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right' for a thought-provoking journey into understanding the traits that make a man less desirable in a relationship. This episode, titled "The Man She Doesn't Want," delves deep into the philosophical reasons behind why certain characteristics in men might be unappealing to women. From the pitfalls of dishonesty and lack of humour to the deeper implications of emotional instability and lack of self-care, we explore a range of attributes including lying, poor hygiene, uneducated mindsets, arrogance, and more. MCM brings a unique perspective, blending philosophical insights with practical relationship advice. Whether you're looking to improve your understanding of relationships or seeking self-improvement tips, this episode offers valuable insights. Tune in to 'You’re Probably Right' and join the conversation on what makes a man undesirable and how these traits reflect deeper philosophical and ethical values. Don't miss this engaging and enlightening discussion – perfect for anyone interested in the intricacies of human relationships and personal growth. Subscribe now and be part of a community that loves to think, laugh, and learn! #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #PhilosophyInLove #PodcastLife #YoureProbablyRight <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">02f72c4b-bc43-47b3-99eb-cb929ba9e69f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jan 2024 03:36:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072134/950e5e9839633c607a772edbcef94e21.mp3" length="51167124" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join host MCM on the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right' for a thought-provoking journey into understanding the traits that make a man less desirable in a relationship. This episode, titled "The Man She Doesn't Want," delves deep into the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join host MCM on the latest episode of 'You’re Probably Right' for a thought-provoking journey into understanding the traits that make a man less desirable in a relationship. This episode, titled "The Man She Doesn't Want," delves deep into the philosophical reasons behind why certain characteristics in men might be unappealing to women. From the pitfalls of dishonesty and lack of humour to the deeper implications of emotional instability and lack of self-care, we explore a range of attributes including lying, poor hygiene, uneducated mindsets, arrogance, and more. MCM brings a unique perspective, blending philosophical insights with practical relationship advice. Whether you're looking to improve your understanding of relationships or seeking self-improvement tips, this episode offers valuable insights. Tune in to 'You’re Probably Right' and join the conversation on what makes a man undesirable and how these traits reflect deeper philosophical and ethical values. Don't miss this engaging and enlightening discussion – perfect for anyone interested in the intricacies of human relationships and personal growth. Subscribe now and be part of a community that loves to think, laugh, and learn! #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #PhilosophyInLove #PodcastLife #YoureProbablyRight <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3198</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c30d63a06dfb017f6fe628ee3e11738e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Gods Strategy for Church Growth a must watch (video)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/gods-strategy-for-church-growth-a-must-watch-video--61072133</link><description><![CDATA[Most important episode we have ever posted to date. we are so glad you're tuning in to this episode of You're probably right hosted by me MCM today the focus will be a truly Godly one without me mucking it up. Brought to you by : grace to you" YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/@gracetoyou and part of Grace Community Church pastored by John MacArthur. This sermon will speak about God's plan on building the church which is far different than most churches nowadays who try to lure people in with emotional music light show witty humor most of the time at the expense of men and demoralizing themes that only drag in the wrong crowd to fill seats instead of letting people know that they need to be spirit-filled. I hope you support this shift in the type of episode as I really feel that this is an episode that Christians and people who do not know the real God of the Bible. perfect for charismatic / Pentecostal believers <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3d202dac-3b37-46e0-b3c0-1277ea274d47</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2024 02:36:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072133/364993797_44100_2_19a486347a821.mp3" length="52292126" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most important episode we have ever posted to date. we are so glad you're tuning in to this episode of You're probably right hosted by me MCM today the focus will be a truly Godly one without me mucking it up. Brought to you by : grace to you" YouTube...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most important episode we have ever posted to date. we are so glad you're tuning in to this episode of You're probably right hosted by me MCM today the focus will be a truly Godly one without me mucking it up. Brought to you by : grace to you" YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/@gracetoyou and part of Grace Community Church pastored by John MacArthur. This sermon will speak about God's plan on building the church which is far different than most churches nowadays who try to lure people in with emotional music light show witty humor most of the time at the expense of men and demoralizing themes that only drag in the wrong crowd to fill seats instead of letting people know that they need to be spirit-filled. I hope you support this shift in the type of episode as I really feel that this is an episode that Christians and people who do not know the real God of the Bible. perfect for charismatic / Pentecostal believers <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3269</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ba6e614b646b4662beb3a7fca2613a9e.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>132</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Ozempic Journey: Weighing Health Against Hype</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-ozempic-journey-weighing-health-against-hype--61072107</link><description><![CDATA[Join us on 'You're Probably Right' hosted by MCM as we delve into the trending topic of Ozempic, the weight loss sensation that's taking the world by storm. With its rising popularity in Ontario and the challenges of prescription fulfillment, we explore personal experiences, health implications, and nutritional insights surrounding this diabetes medication repurposed for weight management. From the cost implications to the real stories of success and setbacks, get an authentic perspective on what it means to embark on the Ozempic journey. Tune in as MCM, inspired by high-caliber conversations akin to Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson, answers ten thought-provoking questions about the balance between health, nutrition, and the pursuit of weight loss. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes and should never replace professional medical advice."       FAQ’s 1.    What does a typical day look like for you when it comes to diet and medication timing with Ozempic?   2.    Can you describe any lifestyle changes you found necessary to complement the effects of Ozempic?   3.    How do you handle social situations or dining out while managing your Ozempic regimen?   4.    What advice would you give to someone considering Ozempic for weight loss, especially regarding setting realistic expectations?   5.    How has your experience with Ozempic influenced your thoughts on long-term health management and chronic disease prevention?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">83845803-3222-4557-af2b-8ad120e49307</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2024 02:19:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072107/0c139336e607d5cf22517afb7b0396aa.mp3" length="66924603" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join us on 'You're Probably Right' hosted by MCM as we delve into the trending topic of Ozempic, the weight loss sensation that's taking the world by storm. With its rising popularity in Ontario and the challenges of prescription fulfillment, we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join us on 'You're Probably Right' hosted by MCM as we delve into the trending topic of Ozempic, the weight loss sensation that's taking the world by storm. With its rising popularity in Ontario and the challenges of prescription fulfillment, we explore personal experiences, health implications, and nutritional insights surrounding this diabetes medication repurposed for weight management. From the cost implications to the real stories of success and setbacks, get an authentic perspective on what it means to embark on the Ozempic journey. Tune in as MCM, inspired by high-caliber conversations akin to Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson, answers ten thought-provoking questions about the balance between health, nutrition, and the pursuit of weight loss. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes and should never replace professional medical advice."       FAQ’s 1.    What does a typical day look like for you when it comes to diet and medication timing with Ozempic?   2.    Can you describe any lifestyle changes you found necessary to complement the effects of Ozempic?   3.    How do you handle social situations or dining out while managing your Ozempic regimen?   4.    What advice would you give to someone considering Ozempic for weight loss, especially regarding setting realistic expectations?   5.    How has your experience with Ozempic influenced your thoughts on long-term health management and chronic disease prevention?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4183</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5c3e6babdabd4def323ab447a566de70.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>130</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Reflections Beyond the Surface: Navigating Life, Sports, and Faith Unfiltered</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/reflections-beyond-the-surface-navigating-life-sports-and-faith-unfiltered--61072159</link><description><![CDATA[Join us in this introspective journey with M on "You're Probably Right," where we dive deep into the complexities of daily living, the intricacies of sports, and the profound aspects of faith and belief. In this episode, M shares unfiltered thoughts on personal experiences, relationship dynamics, and navigating the challenges of life with a Christian perspective. From discussing the realities of using medication for weight loss to providing updates on sports figures like Russell Westbrook and D'Angelo Russell, MCM touches on the essence of growth, forgiveness, and the ongoing quest for meaning. Listen as we explore heartfelt stories, tackle the nuances of sports analyses, and reflect on the power of faith in overcoming life's hurdles. Whether you're seeking inspiration, sports commentary, or a moment of connection, this episode offers a blend of authenticity, humor, and wisdom. Tune in to "Reflections Beyond the Surface: Navigating Life, Sports, and Faith Unfiltered" and embark on a thought-provoking journey that encourages you to look beyond the apparent and find solace in the shared experiences of life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2d3dd419-91e5-436e-87f4-d6ac2f90916b</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jan 2024 02:19:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072159/6ae064c206550b961df372b90660b776.mp3" length="50356283" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join us in this introspective journey with M on "You're Probably Right," where we dive deep into the complexities of daily living, the intricacies of sports, and the profound aspects of faith and belief. In this episode, M shares unfiltered thoughts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join us in this introspective journey with M on "You're Probably Right," where we dive deep into the complexities of daily living, the intricacies of sports, and the profound aspects of faith and belief. In this episode, M shares unfiltered thoughts on personal experiences, relationship dynamics, and navigating the challenges of life with a Christian perspective. From discussing the realities of using medication for weight loss to providing updates on sports figures like Russell Westbrook and D'Angelo Russell, MCM touches on the essence of growth, forgiveness, and the ongoing quest for meaning. Listen as we explore heartfelt stories, tackle the nuances of sports analyses, and reflect on the power of faith in overcoming life's hurdles. Whether you're seeking inspiration, sports commentary, or a moment of connection, this episode offers a blend of authenticity, humor, and wisdom. Tune in to "Reflections Beyond the Surface: Navigating Life, Sports, and Faith Unfiltered" and embark on a thought-provoking journey that encourages you to look beyond the apparent and find solace in the shared experiences of life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3148</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3c6b4da4e7572834052706f16c264c05.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>131</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Secret Behind Rising Podcast Impressions Without New Episodes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-secret-behind-rising-podcast-impressions-without-new-episodes--61072162</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to a captivating episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host, MCM, where we unravel the mysteries of podcast analytics. Have you ever wondered why your podcast impressions surge on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, despite no new content? In this episode, MCM decodes the enigma, exploring how algorithmic quirks, trending topics, and digital word-of-mouth can elevate your podcast's visibility. Discover the power of playlists, the impact of social media shares, and the unexpected boosts from platform updates. Dive into the digital waves of content interaction, where timing might just be everything. Tune in as MCM sheds light on these silent growth drivers, ensuring you stay ahead in the dynamic world of podcasting. Don't miss out on these insights – perfect for creators looking to understand and leverage their podcast's hidden strengths. Subscribe and stay informed, because when it comes to the digital content ocean, you're probably right on the crest of the next big wave. #Podcasting #ContentCreation #DigitalMarketing #SEO #AlgorithmMagic]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c7f5a3ed-3852-40ad-8d08-0cea1210110a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2024 00:50:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072162/546547cf1dd7188996eea021ba81be44.mp3" length="29151124" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to a captivating episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host, MCM, where we unravel the mysteries of podcast analytics. Have you ever wondered why your podcast impressions surge on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, despite no new content? In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to a captivating episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host, MCM, where we unravel the mysteries of podcast analytics. Have you ever wondered why your podcast impressions surge on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, despite no new content? In this episode, MCM decodes the enigma, exploring how algorithmic quirks, trending topics, and digital word-of-mouth can elevate your podcast's visibility. Discover the power of playlists, the impact of social media shares, and the unexpected boosts from platform updates. Dive into the digital waves of content interaction, where timing might just be everything. Tune in as MCM sheds light on these silent growth drivers, ensuring you stay ahead in the dynamic world of podcasting. Don't miss out on these insights – perfect for creators looking to understand and leverage their podcast's hidden strengths. Subscribe and stay informed, because when it comes to the digital content ocean, you're probably right on the crest of the next big wave. #Podcasting #ContentCreation #DigitalMarketing #SEO #AlgorithmMagic]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1822</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/af8c42f2fcaba96db5ea55fb83e3d279.jpg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Now what do I do?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/now-what-do-i-do--61072112</link><description><![CDATA[Join MCM on "You're Probably Right," for a profound exploration of life's solitary journey after separation. In this episode, we delve deep into the emotional labyrinth that follows the end of a significant relationship. As the days stretch into a distance from our past partners, we confront the realities of solitude and the bittersweet freedom it brings. This introspective session isn't just about the loss of love—it's about the quiet self-discovery that happens when we're left with nothing but our reflections. We tackle the hard questions: Is the pain of separation akin to mourning a death? How do we rebuild our sense of self when our identity was intertwined with another? If given the chance, would we step back into the life we've just left? Listeners will find solace in shared experiences and wisdom in the struggle as MCM dissects the complexities of emotional healing and personal growth. Whether you're newly navigating the waters of solitude or reflecting on past experiences, this episode offers a compassionate examination of love, loss, and the resilience of the human spirit. Subscribe and join the conversation as we uncover the layers of separation's impact on the soul.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ea1927f3-d9cf-4d51-94ad-6d7641a6bebb</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2023 07:06:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072112/8f7669f3745ec0ce2e8fe9f8ee246103.mp3" length="20491010" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join MCM on "You're Probably Right," for a profound exploration of life's solitary journey after separation. In this episode, we delve deep into the emotional labyrinth that follows the end of a significant relationship. As the days stretch into a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join MCM on "You're Probably Right," for a profound exploration of life's solitary journey after separation. In this episode, we delve deep into the emotional labyrinth that follows the end of a significant relationship. As the days stretch into a distance from our past partners, we confront the realities of solitude and the bittersweet freedom it brings. This introspective session isn't just about the loss of love—it's about the quiet self-discovery that happens when we're left with nothing but our reflections. We tackle the hard questions: Is the pain of separation akin to mourning a death? How do we rebuild our sense of self when our identity was intertwined with another? If given the chance, would we step back into the life we've just left? Listeners will find solace in shared experiences and wisdom in the struggle as MCM dissects the complexities of emotional healing and personal growth. Whether you're newly navigating the waters of solitude or reflecting on past experiences, this episode offers a compassionate examination of love, loss, and the resilience of the human spirit. Subscribe and join the conversation as we uncover the layers of separation's impact on the soul.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1281</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/20e471258d16fb8bc39895141a2d1cf7.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>130</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>100 Rules for Life 21-30: Crafting Your Path to Personal Excellence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/100-rules-for-life-21-30-crafting-your-path-to-personal-excellence--61072115</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> This enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," aptly named "100 Rules for Life 21-30: Crafting Your Path to Personal Excellence," invites you into a journey of self-discovery and mastery with your host MCM. As we navigate through rules 21 to 30, we unearth the principles that can sculpt a life of intention and joy. In this insightful narrative, we start with the power of gratitude, exploring how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your daily interactions and overall outlook on life. With rule 22, MCM emphasizes the importance of continuous learning, highlighting how intellectual growth can unlock doors to endless possibilities. As we venture into the realms of independence, we discuss the delicate balance between self-reliance and community support. Rule 24 inspires a spirit of altruism with compelling discussions on the rewards of helping others, and rule 25 bathes us in the tranquility of nature, illustrating how environmental connectivity can nurture our inner peace. Rules 26 and 27 break down the barriers of bitterness and routine; MCM shares transformative tales of forgiveness and the liberating art of creative expression. Staying organized isn’t just about tidiness—it’s about crafting a life of clarity and efficiency, as elucidated in rule 28. Diving deep into the depths of human connection, rule 29 encourages us to love without limits, and rule 30 rounds off with the profound practice of mindfulness—teaching us to embrace the present moment with all its splendor and serendipity. Join MCM in this captivating episode, packed with actionable insights and heartwarming stories that will leave you motivated to implement these rules into your daily regime. "100 Rules for Life 21-30" isn’t just a podcast; it’s a roadmap to cultivating a rich, purpose-driven life. Tags: #PersonalExcellence #Gratitude #LifelongLearning #Independence #Altruism #Nature #Forgiveness #Creativity #Organization #DeepLove #Mindfulness #MCM #Podcast #Inspirational #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #LifeCoaching #MentalHealth #Wellness #EmotionalWellbeing #MindfulLiving #SelfImprovement #LifeHacks #SuccessMindset Call to Action: Don't forget to subscribe to "You're Probably Right" for your weekly dose of wisdom and inspiration. Share this episode with anyone who's crafting their own path to personal excellence. Let's engage with these rules, discuss them together, and foster a community that grows in unison towards the betterment of our lives. Listen now on all major podcast platforms.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8825479c-adce-4bd2-a549-12da58773c59</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2023 04:29:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072115/022356b8ae2a691dfd7715d95ee006a9.mp3" length="35510791" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 This enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," aptly named "100 Rules for Life 21-30: Crafting Your Path to Personal Excellence," invites you into a journey of self-discovery and mastery with your host MCM. As we navigate through rules 21 to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> This enlightening episode of "You're Probably Right," aptly named "100 Rules for Life 21-30: Crafting Your Path to Personal Excellence," invites you into a journey of self-discovery and mastery with your host MCM. As we navigate through rules 21 to 30, we unearth the principles that can sculpt a life of intention and joy. In this insightful narrative, we start with the power of gratitude, exploring how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your daily interactions and overall outlook on life. With rule 22, MCM emphasizes the importance of continuous learning, highlighting how intellectual growth can unlock doors to endless possibilities. As we venture into the realms of independence, we discuss the delicate balance between self-reliance and community support. Rule 24 inspires a spirit of altruism with compelling discussions on the rewards of helping others, and rule 25 bathes us in the tranquility of nature, illustrating how environmental connectivity can nurture our inner peace. Rules 26 and 27 break down the barriers of bitterness and routine; MCM shares transformative tales of forgiveness and the liberating art of creative expression. Staying organized isn’t just about tidiness—it’s about crafting a life of clarity and efficiency, as elucidated in rule 28. Diving deep into the depths of human connection, rule 29 encourages us to love without limits, and rule 30 rounds off with the profound practice of mindfulness—teaching us to embrace the present moment with all its splendor and serendipity. Join MCM in this captivating episode, packed with actionable insights and heartwarming stories that will leave you motivated to implement these rules into your daily regime. "100 Rules for Life 21-30" isn’t just a podcast; it’s a roadmap to cultivating a rich, purpose-driven life. Tags: #PersonalExcellence #Gratitude #LifelongLearning #Independence #Altruism #Nature #Forgiveness #Creativity #Organization #DeepLove #Mindfulness #MCM #Podcast #Inspirational #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #LifeCoaching #MentalHealth #Wellness #EmotionalWellbeing #MindfulLiving #SelfImprovement #LifeHacks #SuccessMindset Call to Action: Don't forget to subscribe to "You're Probably Right" for your weekly dose of wisdom and inspiration. Share this episode with anyone who's crafting their own path to personal excellence. Let's engage with these rules, discuss them together, and foster a community that grows in unison towards the betterment of our lives. Listen now on all major podcast platforms.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2220</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/769eea3839773c646297db878ed885af.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Omnipotence of love a Teaching of Elisabeth Elliott read by MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-omnipotence-of-love-a-teaching-of-elisabeth-elliott-read-by-mcm--61072117</link><description><![CDATA[Introduction: "Welcome to another episode of 'You're Probably Right,' I'm your host, MCM. Today, we're delving deep into a topic that's both timeless and controversial: the omnipotence of love. This concept, as taught by Elisabeth Elliot in her 1994 lecture, challenges our conventional understanding of love. We often hear about love in songs, movies, and stories, but what we're exploring today goes beyond the superficial. It's about the sacrificial, transformative power of love, a kind that's often not talked about, or perhaps, not allowed to be said in today's day and age." Adaptation: "The core of this teaching revolves around the idea that true love, especially from a Christian perspective, is not just an emotion but an act of sacrifice. It's about putting others before ourselves, a concept quite alien to what Hollywood or popular culture often depicts. Love, in its most potent form, is about giving without expecting anything in return, about enduring hardships, and about finding strength in vulnerability. Elliot brings up the example of hymns and scriptures, where love is often equated with selflessness and sacrifice. She talks about how these hymns, sung thoughtlessly in childhood, hold deep theological truths about love and sacrifice, truths that become more apparent as we grow older. One of the most striking points in Elliot's lecture is the comparison between worldly gains and sacrificial love. She challenges the listener to reconsider what we value most in life. Is it wealth, fame, or success? Or is it the ability to love selflessly, as exemplified by Christ on the cross? Elliot also highlights the importance of teaching these values to the younger generation. The power of love isn't just a concept to be understood but a practice to be lived out. She emphasizes the role of parents in instilling these values in their children, not just through words but through actions and examples. As we explore these themes further, the lecture takes us on a journey of understanding love not just as a concept but as a transformative force. It's about seeing love as an action, a decision to put others first, to sacrifice, and to give without the expectation of receiving." Conclusion: "In today's episode, we've revisited Elisabeth Elliot's profound insights on the omnipotence of love. While the world might shy away from talking about the sacrificial aspect of love, it's a conversation we need to have. True love is not just about feelings; it's about actions, sacrifices, and sometimes, going against our very nature for the sake of others. As we wrap up, let's ponder on how we can incorporate this selfless, sacrificial love into our own lives. Remember, in a world that often celebrates selfish gain, the act of loving selflessly is a revolutionary act." https://elisabethelliot.org/resource-library/lectures-talks/the-omnipotence-of-love-part-1/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2597cbf6-7188-4738-a1a5-818b64a58c43</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2023 03:51:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072117/eae9a593cf081d80ae42a481d46280b2.mp3" length="55927679" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Introduction: "Welcome to another episode of 'You're Probably Right,' I'm your host, MCM. Today, we're delving deep into a topic that's both timeless and controversial: the omnipotence of love. This concept, as taught by Elisabeth Elliot in her 1994...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Introduction: "Welcome to another episode of 'You're Probably Right,' I'm your host, MCM. Today, we're delving deep into a topic that's both timeless and controversial: the omnipotence of love. This concept, as taught by Elisabeth Elliot in her 1994 lecture, challenges our conventional understanding of love. We often hear about love in songs, movies, and stories, but what we're exploring today goes beyond the superficial. It's about the sacrificial, transformative power of love, a kind that's often not talked about, or perhaps, not allowed to be said in today's day and age." Adaptation: "The core of this teaching revolves around the idea that true love, especially from a Christian perspective, is not just an emotion but an act of sacrifice. It's about putting others before ourselves, a concept quite alien to what Hollywood or popular culture often depicts. Love, in its most potent form, is about giving without expecting anything in return, about enduring hardships, and about finding strength in vulnerability. Elliot brings up the example of hymns and scriptures, where love is often equated with selflessness and sacrifice. She talks about how these hymns, sung thoughtlessly in childhood, hold deep theological truths about love and sacrifice, truths that become more apparent as we grow older. One of the most striking points in Elliot's lecture is the comparison between worldly gains and sacrificial love. She challenges the listener to reconsider what we value most in life. Is it wealth, fame, or success? Or is it the ability to love selflessly, as exemplified by Christ on the cross? Elliot also highlights the importance of teaching these values to the younger generation. The power of love isn't just a concept to be understood but a practice to be lived out. She emphasizes the role of parents in instilling these values in their children, not just through words but through actions and examples. As we explore these themes further, the lecture takes us on a journey of understanding love not just as a concept but as a transformative force. It's about seeing love as an action, a decision to put others first, to sacrifice, and to give without the expectation of receiving." Conclusion: "In today's episode, we've revisited Elisabeth Elliot's profound insights on the omnipotence of love. While the world might shy away from talking about the sacrificial aspect of love, it's a conversation we need to have. True love is not just about feelings; it's about actions, sacrifices, and sometimes, going against our very nature for the sake of others. As we wrap up, let's ponder on how we can incorporate this selfless, sacrificial love into our own lives. Remember, in a world that often celebrates selfish gain, the act of loving selflessly is a revolutionary act." https://elisabethelliot.org/resource-library/lectures-talks/the-omnipotence-of-love-part-1/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3496</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/89b8ad1019e7513247ace466d466a6a5.jpg"/><itunes:season>6</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>100 Rules for Life 1-20 You're Probably right podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/100-rules-for-life-1-20-you-re-probably-right-podcast--61072181</link><description><![CDATA[Join MCM in the latest empowering episode of "You're Probably Right," where we delve deep into the heart of life's most essential principles. This episode, titled "Life's Golden Rules Unveiled," is a treasure trove of wisdom, encapsulating timeless values that resonate across generations. In this thought-provoking session, we explore the ten cardinal rules that form the bedrock of a fulfilling life. From the irreplaceable worth of family to the transformative power of hard work, each rule is dissected with insightful anecdotes and practical advice. MCM's engaging narrative brings a fresh perspective to concepts like honesty, financial prudence, the importance of education, and the art of respect. But that's just the beginning. We dive into the virtue of humility, the grace of patience, and the underrated skill of listening. In a world where strength is often misunderstood, MCM redefines it through kindness and the willingness to embrace change. What sets this episode apart is its focus on personal integrity and the value of true friendships, blended with a light-hearted look at the importance of laughter and taking calculated risks. MCM doesn't shy away from the tough topics either, discussing the power of forgiveness, the need to stay curious, and the art of learning from failure. This episode is not just a podcast; it's a life lesson, a mentorship session, and a guide to resilience and health. Whether you're seeking inspiration, looking for guidance, or just in need of a motivational boost, "You're Probably Right" is your go-to resource. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey with MCM, where every story shared is a step closer to personal growth and understanding the core values that make life truly rewarding. Tags: #LifeLessons #Motivation #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #Inspirational #FamilyValues #HardWork #Honesty #FinancialWisdom #Education #Respect #Humility #Patience #ListeningSkills #Kindness #Change #Integrity #Friendship #Laughter #RiskTaking #Forgiveness #Curiosity #Health #Failure #Resilience #Podcast #MCM #YoureProbablyRight Call to Action: Subscribe to "You're Probably Right" for more episodes that enlighten, entertain, and inspire. Share this episode with friends and family who would appreciate a fresh take on life's most important rules. <br /> 1-20 <br /><ol><li>Family is invaluable.</li><li>Hard work pays off.</li><li>Be honest, always.</li><li>Save money for a rainy day.</li><li>Education is important.</li><li>Respect others.</li><li>Stay humble.</li><li>Be patient.</li><li>Listen more than you speak.</li><li>Kindness is a strength.</li><li>Embrace change.</li><li>Keep your word.</li><li>Value friendships.</li><li>Laugh often.</li><li>Take risks.</li><li>Forgive freely.</li><li>Stay curious.</li><li>Cherish your health.</li><li>Learn from failure.</li><li>Be resilient.</li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">99f555a8-bc1e-4d35-962b-20ac3de3198f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2023 02:00:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072181/1794517f6caa77d5c33bf4017c6375d1.mp3" length="51206830" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Join MCM in the latest empowering episode of "You're Probably Right," where we delve deep into the heart of life's most essential principles. This episode, titled "Life's Golden Rules Unveiled," is a treasure trove of wisdom, encapsulating timeless...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Join MCM in the latest empowering episode of "You're Probably Right," where we delve deep into the heart of life's most essential principles. This episode, titled "Life's Golden Rules Unveiled," is a treasure trove of wisdom, encapsulating timeless values that resonate across generations. In this thought-provoking session, we explore the ten cardinal rules that form the bedrock of a fulfilling life. From the irreplaceable worth of family to the transformative power of hard work, each rule is dissected with insightful anecdotes and practical advice. MCM's engaging narrative brings a fresh perspective to concepts like honesty, financial prudence, the importance of education, and the art of respect. But that's just the beginning. We dive into the virtue of humility, the grace of patience, and the underrated skill of listening. In a world where strength is often misunderstood, MCM redefines it through kindness and the willingness to embrace change. What sets this episode apart is its focus on personal integrity and the value of true friendships, blended with a light-hearted look at the importance of laughter and taking calculated risks. MCM doesn't shy away from the tough topics either, discussing the power of forgiveness, the need to stay curious, and the art of learning from failure. This episode is not just a podcast; it's a life lesson, a mentorship session, and a guide to resilience and health. Whether you're seeking inspiration, looking for guidance, or just in need of a motivational boost, "You're Probably Right" is your go-to resource. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey with MCM, where every story shared is a step closer to personal growth and understanding the core values that make life truly rewarding. Tags: #LifeLessons #Motivation #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #Inspirational #FamilyValues #HardWork #Honesty #FinancialWisdom #Education #Respect #Humility #Patience #ListeningSkills #Kindness #Change #Integrity #Friendship #Laughter #RiskTaking #Forgiveness #Curiosity #Health #Failure #Resilience #Podcast #MCM #YoureProbablyRight Call to Action: Subscribe to "You're Probably Right" for more episodes that enlighten, entertain, and inspire. Share this episode with friends and family who would appreciate a fresh take on life's most important rules. <br /> 1-20 <br /><ol><li>Family is invaluable.</li><li>Hard work pays off.</li><li>Be honest, always.</li><li>Save money for a rainy day.</li><li>Education is important.</li><li>Respect others.</li><li>Stay humble.</li><li>Be patient.</li><li>Listen more than you speak.</li><li>Kindness is a strength.</li><li>Embrace change.</li><li>Keep your word.</li><li>Value friendships.</li><li>Laugh often.</li><li>Take risks.</li><li>Forgive freely.</li><li>Stay curious.</li><li>Cherish your health.</li><li>Learn from failure.</li><li>Be resilient.</li></ol>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3201</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1dc462a4545591e9177b89f44cf904c6.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What is your time worth? : Beyond Monetary Measures You're probably right ! with MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-your-time-worth-beyond-monetary-measures-you-re-probably-right-with-mcm--61072111</link><description><![CDATA[Title: "Time's True Worth: Beyond Monetary Measures with MCM" Description: Explore the depths of life's most valuable asset - time - in this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host MCM. We'll dissect the often overlooked significance of time in relation to financial gains, challenging the standard narrative of wealth accumulation. Uncover the concept of 'time affluence' and how it shapes our well-being, lifestyle choices, and societal expectations. Engage with us in a conversation about prioritizing experiences over possessions, and learn strategies to embrace a life focused more on living than earning. This episode promises a refreshing perspective on personal growth, happiness, and the art of savoring the present, steering clear of personal anecdotes to focus on universal truths. Tune in to understand why time, not money, is the true cornerstone of a fulfilling life.   The phrase "Only what you do for Christ will last" is not a direct quote from the English Standard Version (ESV) of the Bible or any specific scripture. It's a sentiment that reflects a Christian perspective, emphasizing the importance and enduring nature of actions done in the service or name of Jesus Christ. This concept is echoed in various biblical passages that speak to the impermanence of worldly achievements and the lasting value of spiritual or Christ-centered deeds. For instance, in Matthew 6:19-21 (ESV), Jesus teaches about storing up treasures in heaven rather than on earth. In 1 Corinthians 3:11-15 (ESV), Paul talks about the foundation that is Jesus Christ and how each person's work will be tested by fire to see what lasts. These passages, among others, convey a similar message to the phrase you mentioned, highlighting the idea that actions rooted in faith and done for Christ have eternal significance.    Matthew 6:19-21 (ESV): “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  1 Corinthians 3:11-15 (ESV): “For no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. Now if anyone builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw— each one's work will become manifest, for the Day will disclose it, because it will be revealed by fire, and the fire will test what sort of work each one has done. If the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward. If anyone's work is burned up, he will suffer loss, though he himself will be saved, but only as through fire.”   For your episode where you want to discuss the value of time over income or money without delving into personal relationship experiences, here are ten leading questions you can use:   How does one measure the true value of time, especially when compared to monetary gains?   Can you share a story where someone chose time over money and how it positively affected their life?   What are some common misconceptions about wealth and happiness that you've observed?   How do societal expectations about lifestyle and success impact our appreciation for time?   Could you elaborate on the concept of 'time affluence' and how it contributes to overall well-being?   In what ways can prioritizing time over money lead to more meaningful personal growth and relationships?   How does the pursuit of money limit our ability to experience and enjoy the present moment?   Can you discuss the long-term benefits of investing in experiences rather than material possessions?   What strategies can individuals employ to shift their focus from earning to living?   How do you see the role of time changing in the future as we continue to navigate a fast-paced, economically driven world?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9c742a33-879a-40c1-b745-93830a698c3c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:03:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072111/f62006cf62e75469af79e4cbf255deef.mp3" length="46999653" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Title: "Time's True Worth: Beyond Monetary Measures with MCM" Description: Explore the depths of life's most valuable asset - time - in this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host MCM. We'll dissect the often overlooked...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Title: "Time's True Worth: Beyond Monetary Measures with MCM" Description: Explore the depths of life's most valuable asset - time - in this thought-provoking episode of "You're Probably Right" with your host MCM. We'll dissect the often overlooked significance of time in relation to financial gains, challenging the standard narrative of wealth accumulation. Uncover the concept of 'time affluence' and how it shapes our well-being, lifestyle choices, and societal expectations. Engage with us in a conversation about prioritizing experiences over possessions, and learn strategies to embrace a life focused more on living than earning. This episode promises a refreshing perspective on personal growth, happiness, and the art of savoring the present, steering clear of personal anecdotes to focus on universal truths. Tune in to understand why time, not money, is the true cornerstone of a fulfilling life.   The phrase "Only what you do for Christ will last" is not a direct quote from the English Standard Version (ESV) of the Bible or any specific scripture. It's a sentiment that reflects a Christian perspective, emphasizing the importance and enduring nature of actions done in the service or name of Jesus Christ. This concept is echoed in various biblical passages that speak to the impermanence of worldly achievements and the lasting value of spiritual or Christ-centered deeds. For instance, in Matthew 6:19-21 (ESV), Jesus teaches about storing up treasures in heaven rather than on earth. In 1 Corinthians 3:11-15 (ESV), Paul talks about the foundation that is Jesus Christ and how each person's work will be tested by fire to see what lasts. These passages, among others, convey a similar message to the phrase you mentioned, highlighting the idea that actions rooted in faith and done for Christ have eternal significance.    Matthew 6:19-21 (ESV): “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  1 Corinthians 3:11-15 (ESV): “For no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. Now if anyone builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw— each one's work will become manifest, for the Day will disclose it, because it will be revealed by fire, and the fire will test what sort of work each one has done. If the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward. If anyone's work is burned up, he will suffer loss, though he himself will be saved, but only as through fire.”   For your episode where you want to discuss the value of time over income or money without delving into personal relationship experiences, here are ten leading questions you can use:   How does one measure the true value of time, especially when compared to monetary gains?   Can you share a story where someone chose time over money and how it positively affected their life?   What are some common misconceptions about wealth and happiness that you've observed?   How do societal expectations about lifestyle and success impact our appreciation for time?   Could you elaborate on the concept of 'time affluence' and how it contributes to overall well-being?   In what ways can prioritizing time over money lead to more meaningful personal growth and relationships?   How does the pursuit of money limit our ability to experience and enjoy the present moment?   Can you discuss the long-term benefits of investing in experiences rather than material possessions?   What strategies can individuals employ to shift their focus from earning to living?   How do you see the role of time changing in the future as we continue to navigate a fast-paced, economically driven world?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2938</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a8a88639cefaf9dbe02b92091b83c76b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Time's Value: A Reflective Journey with MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/time-s-value-a-reflective-journey-with-mcm--61072113</link><description><![CDATA[Time Reflection, Christian Perspectives, Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Family Memories, Spiritual Insights, Christian Podcast, Life Advice, MCM, You're Probably Right Podcast Description: Join MCM in this introspective episode of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, where the essence of time and its intrinsic value are explored. Delving into personal experiences, spiritual reflections, and the significance of time in our lives, MCM offers a unique blend of life lessons, Christian perspectives, and heartfelt stories. From understanding the preciousness of moments with loved ones to realizing time's impact on our spiritual and personal growth, this episode is a compelling invitation to ponder the true worth of time in our fleeting world.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b4502cac-498f-4132-9599-f2969494f55d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2023 00:47:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072113/974bc953bed8e55f3b1b044c25bfec6e.mp3" length="31154820" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Time Reflection, Christian Perspectives, Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Family Memories, Spiritual Insights, Christian Podcast, Life Advice, MCM, You're Probably Right Podcast Description: Join MCM in this introspective episode of the "You're Probably...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Time Reflection, Christian Perspectives, Life Lessons, Personal Growth, Family Memories, Spiritual Insights, Christian Podcast, Life Advice, MCM, You're Probably Right Podcast Description: Join MCM in this introspective episode of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, where the essence of time and its intrinsic value are explored. Delving into personal experiences, spiritual reflections, and the significance of time in our lives, MCM offers a unique blend of life lessons, Christian perspectives, and heartfelt stories. From understanding the preciousness of moments with loved ones to realizing time's impact on our spiritual and personal growth, this episode is a compelling invitation to ponder the true worth of time in our fleeting world.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1948</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/73a0af4beafd5d984a12bb6253415c2d.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>124</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stay Quiet in Your Corner - You're Probably Right! with MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stay-quiet-in-your-corner-you-re-probably-right-with-mcm--61072124</link><description><![CDATA[Explore the virtues of diligence, contentment, and forgiveness in 'Stay Quiet in Your Corner', a thoughtful episode of 'You're Probably Right' with host MCM. Dive into discussions about the importance of being generous, valuing personal time, and the power of solitude with God. Learn how to let go of relationships that undermine your self-worth and how to find peace in forgiving those who have wronged you. Join us as we seek spiritual guidance and personal growth through biblical wisdom and introspective questions.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bfdea023-a031-45f2-a0cb-781bdabcc790</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Dec 2023 02:05:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072124/88961e11f071a9e73eee36398c166287.mp3" length="71947636" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Explore the virtues of diligence, contentment, and forgiveness in 'Stay Quiet in Your Corner', a thoughtful episode of 'You're Probably Right' with host MCM. Dive into discussions about the importance of being generous, valuing personal time, and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Explore the virtues of diligence, contentment, and forgiveness in 'Stay Quiet in Your Corner', a thoughtful episode of 'You're Probably Right' with host MCM. Dive into discussions about the importance of being generous, valuing personal time, and the power of solitude with God. Learn how to let go of relationships that undermine your self-worth and how to find peace in forgiving those who have wronged you. Join us as we seek spiritual guidance and personal growth through biblical wisdom and introspective questions.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4497</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ba75d5ca762d3f7860882e95a366e42.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>124</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Finding Strength in Struggle | Life is a rollercoasterYou're Probably Right</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/finding-strength-in-struggle-life-is-a-rollercoasteryou-re-probably-right--61072125</link><description><![CDATA[Dive into a Journey of Reflection and Inspiration! Welcome to "You're Probably Right," a unique and captivating podcast hosted by the insightful MCM. This isn't just another podcast; it's a thought-provoking journey through the intricacies of life, seen through a refreshingly Christian perspective. Explore Life's Struggles with a New Lens Each episode, including our latest on Romans Chapter 8, verses 18 to 39, is a deep dive into the realities of life's struggles and triumphs. MCM masterfully weaves discussions around life's challenges, offering a variety of perspectives that will leave you pondering long after you've listened. More Than Just a Christian Podcast "You're Probably Right" stands out as it's not solely a religious podcast. It's a podcast by a Christian, for everyone. This approach brings a rich, inclusive viewpoint to universal themes like suffering, hope, redemption, and faith, connecting the human condition with spiritual insights in a way that's relatable and profound. A Universal Message for Everyone Whether you're deeply rooted in your faith or simply curious about how spirituality intersects with everyday life, this podcast is for you. MCM's discussions are designed to resonate with a wide audience, providing comfort, motivation, and a fresh perspective on life's rollercoaster. Perfect Companion for Your Daily Routine Make "You're Probably Right" your new listening habit, whether you're commuting, taking a quiet break, or just going about your daily activities. It's more than just background noise; it's a companion for reflection, inspiration, and growth. Join Our Growing Community of Listeners Subscribe to "You're Probably Right" and become part of a community that values deep thought, meaningful conversations, and a balanced view of life's journey. Let MCM guide you through an exploration of life's most pressing questions, all while finding peace and perspective in the chaos of the everyday. Tune in Now and Transform Your Listening Experience! #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #LifeStruggles #FaithJourney #InspirationalListening #MCM #PodcastLife #SpiritualityMeetsReality #ChristianPerspective  #ContemplativeListening #SubscribeNow <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a26900af-9c67-4dc6-88c5-75f71a969b9b</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2023 00:33:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072125/c8690fcc98835077c7a8b23558ae970b.mp3" length="29640972" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dive into a Journey of Reflection and Inspiration! Welcome to "You're Probably Right," a unique and captivating podcast hosted by the insightful MCM. This isn't just another podcast; it's a thought-provoking journey through the intricacies of life,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dive into a Journey of Reflection and Inspiration! Welcome to "You're Probably Right," a unique and captivating podcast hosted by the insightful MCM. This isn't just another podcast; it's a thought-provoking journey through the intricacies of life, seen through a refreshingly Christian perspective. Explore Life's Struggles with a New Lens Each episode, including our latest on Romans Chapter 8, verses 18 to 39, is a deep dive into the realities of life's struggles and triumphs. MCM masterfully weaves discussions around life's challenges, offering a variety of perspectives that will leave you pondering long after you've listened. More Than Just a Christian Podcast "You're Probably Right" stands out as it's not solely a religious podcast. It's a podcast by a Christian, for everyone. This approach brings a rich, inclusive viewpoint to universal themes like suffering, hope, redemption, and faith, connecting the human condition with spiritual insights in a way that's relatable and profound. A Universal Message for Everyone Whether you're deeply rooted in your faith or simply curious about how spirituality intersects with everyday life, this podcast is for you. MCM's discussions are designed to resonate with a wide audience, providing comfort, motivation, and a fresh perspective on life's rollercoaster. Perfect Companion for Your Daily Routine Make "You're Probably Right" your new listening habit, whether you're commuting, taking a quiet break, or just going about your daily activities. It's more than just background noise; it's a companion for reflection, inspiration, and growth. Join Our Growing Community of Listeners Subscribe to "You're Probably Right" and become part of a community that values deep thought, meaningful conversations, and a balanced view of life's journey. Let MCM guide you through an exploration of life's most pressing questions, all while finding peace and perspective in the chaos of the everyday. Tune in Now and Transform Your Listening Experience! #YoureProbablyRightPodcast #LifeStruggles #FaithJourney #InspirationalListening #MCM #PodcastLife #SpiritualityMeetsReality #ChristianPerspective  #ContemplativeListening #SubscribeNow <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1853</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7bc9ac606ff5bf0ab4ca6117fd093d79.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>When to Let Go: Navigating Life's Toughest Decisions on You're Probably Right' Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-to-let-go-navigating-life-s-toughest-decisions-on-you-re-probably-right-podcast--61072139</link><description><![CDATA[In the latest episode of "You're Probably Right," we tackle one of life's most challenging dilemmas: understanding when it's time to let go. Whether it's a long-held dream, a personal goal, or a complex relationship, knowing when to walk away can be a tumultuous journey filled with intense emotions and critical decision-making. Our in-depth discussion not only unravels the psychological nuances and emotional dynamics involved in letting go but also provides practical insights into making these tough decisions. Listeners will discover how to identify the signs that indicate it's time to release an unfruitful pursuit and learn strategies for doing so with grace and resilience. Join us as we navigate the intricate process of giving up, offering valuable guidance for those standing at life's crossroads. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the difficult question: When is it right to give up? Tune in to "You're Probably Right" for an enlightening conversation that promises to empower and inspire, helping you make informed decisions with confidence and peace of mind. <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e79f7c8c-a5df-43ae-a2bd-c4a38672d307</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2023 02:14:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072139/b9be1e0ec729435630a0f1d3ddf865c0.mp3" length="50293171" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the latest episode of "You're Probably Right," we tackle one of life's most challenging dilemmas: understanding when it's time to let go. Whether it's a long-held dream, a personal goal, or a complex relationship, knowing when to walk away can be a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the latest episode of "You're Probably Right," we tackle one of life's most challenging dilemmas: understanding when it's time to let go. Whether it's a long-held dream, a personal goal, or a complex relationship, knowing when to walk away can be a tumultuous journey filled with intense emotions and critical decision-making. Our in-depth discussion not only unravels the psychological nuances and emotional dynamics involved in letting go but also provides practical insights into making these tough decisions. Listeners will discover how to identify the signs that indicate it's time to release an unfruitful pursuit and learn strategies for doing so with grace and resilience. Join us as we navigate the intricate process of giving up, offering valuable guidance for those standing at life's crossroads. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the difficult question: When is it right to give up? Tune in to "You're Probably Right" for an enlightening conversation that promises to empower and inspire, helping you make informed decisions with confidence and peace of mind. <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3144</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b0e7cf1af9507a66aaefe4adf6a7126a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>(Are you a Simp?) Strength: The Alpha, The Simp, and The Ideal Partner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-a-simp-strength-the-alpha-the-simp-and-the-ideal-partner--61072127</link><description><![CDATA[Dive into the dynamic world of relationships with the latest episode of 'You're Probably Right,' hosted by MCM. This thought-provoking discussion, titled "Are You a Simp?" challenges the stereotypes of 'simp' behavior and 'alpha' dominance, unraveling what women truly seek in a partner. Uncover the balance between respect, kindness, and assertiveness as we explore the intricacies of modern romance. Learn why effective communication, trustworthiness, and shared values form the cornerstone of meaningful connections. Delve into the traits that foster a secure, supportive, and joyous union, and discover why empathy, financial stability, and a hearty sense of humor might just be the secret ingredients to a lasting marriage. Conversely, we dissect the deal-breakers that could undermine the marital foundation, such as dishonesty, lack of support, and incompatibility. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or seeking to deepen your relationship, this episode offers a fresh perspective on emotional support, loyalty, and the essence of true compatibility. Tune in to 'You're Probably Right' for a candid examination of love, commitment, and the qualities that define a successful partnership in the eyes of women today. Keywords: Relationship Dynamics, Modern Romance, Partner Preferences, Emotional Support, Communication in Marriage, Trust and Honesty, Shared Values, Financial Stability, Sense of Humour, Commitment, Empathy, Compatibility, Respect in Relationships, Alpha vs. Simp Debate, Marriage Success Traits.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">09613c62-7071-4804-b588-348051dc5ecc</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2023 03:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072127/213cf38fdcf2c0cced7b8d8785b64ad2.mp3" length="61341922" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dive into the dynamic world of relationships with the latest episode of 'You're Probably Right,' hosted by MCM. This thought-provoking discussion, titled "Are You a Simp?" challenges the stereotypes of 'simp' behavior and 'alpha' dominance, unraveling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dive into the dynamic world of relationships with the latest episode of 'You're Probably Right,' hosted by MCM. This thought-provoking discussion, titled "Are You a Simp?" challenges the stereotypes of 'simp' behavior and 'alpha' dominance, unraveling what women truly seek in a partner. Uncover the balance between respect, kindness, and assertiveness as we explore the intricacies of modern romance. Learn why effective communication, trustworthiness, and shared values form the cornerstone of meaningful connections. Delve into the traits that foster a secure, supportive, and joyous union, and discover why empathy, financial stability, and a hearty sense of humor might just be the secret ingredients to a lasting marriage. Conversely, we dissect the deal-breakers that could undermine the marital foundation, such as dishonesty, lack of support, and incompatibility. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or seeking to deepen your relationship, this episode offers a fresh perspective on emotional support, loyalty, and the essence of true compatibility. Tune in to 'You're Probably Right' for a candid examination of love, commitment, and the qualities that define a successful partnership in the eyes of women today. 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This episode, titled "Unravelling the Breakup: What Went Wrong?" is a voyage through the turbulent seas of heartbreak, steered by the compass of Christian faith towards the shores of understanding and healing. As the world outside hustles in its relentless pace, pause with me to traverse the delicate intricacies of love lost, through a prism of faith that reveals hues of hope and growth amidst the grey. The rubble of a broken relationship often conceals the seeds of wisdom and self-discovery, waiting to sprout under the gentle rain of God's grace. Our exploration begins at the heart of heartache, delving into the caverns of despair only to unveil the luminous path of hope laid by our Creator. Through a series of introspective questions, we'll sift through the memories, the joys, the sorrows, and the lessons nestled within the folds of a past love. <ul><li>Was the edifice of your love built on the firm ground of faith or on shifting sands?</li><li>Did the rivers of communication flow clear and true, or were they muddied by the silt of misunderstandings?</li><li>When tempests of discord threatened, did you seek the haven of resolution or let the storms rage unchecked?</li><li>Was forgiveness a fragrant blossom in your shared garden, or a rare bloom amidst thorns of resentment?</li><li>Were your souls in harmony, resonating with the same heavenly tune, or was there discord in the spiritual melody?</li><li>Did worldly desires cast long shadows, or was God’s radiant love the sun that lit your path?</li><li>How did the fortress of your bond fare against the battering rams of external pressures and temptations?</li><li>In moments of icy doubt and cold despair, did the warmth of your faith community cradle you?</li><li>Was patience the quiet sentinel of your love, or did hastiness breach the gates?</li><li>In the healing phase, have you sought the soothing balm of divine guidance through prayer and scripture?</li></ul> As we meander through these musings, each question nudges us closer to the heart of God’s love, tender and unyielding, always awaiting to envelop us, even in times of earthly heartbreak. Join me, MCM, on this expedition of the heart, where together, we'll unravel the threads of human entanglements to reveal the golden thread of divine love that binds us all. As we sign off from this episode of “You’re Probably Right”, let the promise of new beginnings under God's tender gaze kindle the flame of hope in our hearts, as we stride with grace into the morrow.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">918421cc-f359-4c3e-af4a-36eb23eadc0f</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Oct 2023 02:30:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072122/e4133ee993ae686b6721508943c7ca6a.mp3" length="42238262" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Descend into the depths of human emotions and ascend with insights of divine love with me, your host MCM, on “You’re Probably Right”. This episode, titled "Unravelling the Breakup: What Went Wrong?" is a voyage through the turbulent seas of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Descend into the depths of human emotions and ascend with insights of divine love with me, your host MCM, on “You’re Probably Right”. This episode, titled "Unravelling the Breakup: What Went Wrong?" is a voyage through the turbulent seas of heartbreak, steered by the compass of Christian faith towards the shores of understanding and healing. As the world outside hustles in its relentless pace, pause with me to traverse the delicate intricacies of love lost, through a prism of faith that reveals hues of hope and growth amidst the grey. The rubble of a broken relationship often conceals the seeds of wisdom and self-discovery, waiting to sprout under the gentle rain of God's grace. Our exploration begins at the heart of heartache, delving into the caverns of despair only to unveil the luminous path of hope laid by our Creator. Through a series of introspective questions, we'll sift through the memories, the joys, the sorrows, and the lessons nestled within the folds of a past love. <ul><li>Was the edifice of your love built on the firm ground of faith or on shifting sands?</li><li>Did the rivers of communication flow clear and true, or were they muddied by the silt of misunderstandings?</li><li>When tempests of discord threatened, did you seek the haven of resolution or let the storms rage unchecked?</li><li>Was forgiveness a fragrant blossom in your shared garden, or a rare bloom amidst thorns of resentment?</li><li>Were your souls in harmony, resonating with the same heavenly tune, or was there discord in the spiritual melody?</li><li>Did worldly desires cast long shadows, or was God’s radiant love the sun that lit your path?</li><li>How did the fortress of your bond fare against the battering rams of external pressures and temptations?</li><li>In moments of icy doubt and cold despair, did the warmth of your faith community cradle you?</li><li>Was patience the quiet sentinel of your love, or did hastiness breach the gates?</li><li>In the healing phase, have you sought the soothing balm of divine guidance through prayer and scripture?</li></ul> As we meander through these musings, each question nudges us closer to the heart of God’s love, tender and unyielding, always awaiting to envelop us, even in times of earthly heartbreak. Join me, MCM, on this expedition of the heart, where together, we'll unravel the threads of human entanglements to reveal the golden thread of divine love that binds us all. As we sign off from this episode of “You’re Probably Right”, let the promise of new beginnings under God's tender gaze kindle the flame of hope in our hearts, as we stride with grace into the morrow.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2640</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8395e16e3e03c73feeec3edb160076c6.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>121</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Pathways, Forks and Spoons</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pathways-forks-and-spoons--61072140</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to another episode of "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In today's episode, we delve into a highly relevant yet often overlooked topic: the unique challenges and spiritual questions facing single men at 50 within a Christian belief and the Pathways taken and not taken. Key Topics Covered: <ul><li>Faith and Family Dynamics: Understand the tension between being single at 50 and the Christian Reformed Church's emphasis on family and community.</li><li>Personal Responsibility and Self-Improvement: Explore actionable steps for life improvement and how these align with Christian Reformed teachings.</li><li>Loneliness and Coping Mechanisms: Uncover strategies for dealing with loneliness, especially when peers are deeply involved in family and community life.</li><li>Obstacles to Relationships: Identify the barriers to forming meaningful relationships at this life stage and how they conflict with Christian Reformed beliefs.</li><li>Societal Norms vs. Christian Reformed Values: Examine the clash between societal expectations and the teachings of the Christian Reformed Church for single men at 50.</li><li>Spirituality and Singlehood: Discover ways to deepen your relationship with God, despite societal norms that often overlook the value of a single life at 50.</li></ul> Why Listen to This Episode? If you're grappling with the complexities of being a single man at 50, especially within a Christian Reformed context, this episode offers a nuanced, in-depth discussion that blends personal insights, expert opinions, and scriptural guidance. Whether you're single, know someone who is, or are interested in the intersection of faith and different life stages, this episode is a must-listen. SEO Keywords: Single Life at 50, Christian Reformed Church, Personal Responsibility, Loneliness, Relationships, Societal Norms, Spirituality, Faith, You're Probably Right, MCM. Join MCM as he navigates these intricate issues, offering a balanced blend of personal reflections, expert insights, and scriptural wisdom. Don't miss this episode of "You're Probably Right" for a comprehensive look at the struggles and opportunities that come with being a single man at 50 in the Christian Reformed community.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">732d5ce0-4e97-4f5f-9671-79118d617812</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Oct 2023 01:10:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072140/792141d2d4d0ae88608cf4abf112a789.mp3" length="54365765" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to another episode of "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In today's episode, we delve into a highly relevant yet often overlooked topic: the unique challenges and spiritual questions facing single men at 50 within a Christian belief and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to another episode of "You're Probably Right," hosted by MCM. In today's episode, we delve into a highly relevant yet often overlooked topic: the unique challenges and spiritual questions facing single men at 50 within a Christian belief and the Pathways taken and not taken. Key Topics Covered: <ul><li>Faith and Family Dynamics: Understand the tension between being single at 50 and the Christian Reformed Church's emphasis on family and community.</li><li>Personal Responsibility and Self-Improvement: Explore actionable steps for life improvement and how these align with Christian Reformed teachings.</li><li>Loneliness and Coping Mechanisms: Uncover strategies for dealing with loneliness, especially when peers are deeply involved in family and community life.</li><li>Obstacles to Relationships: Identify the barriers to forming meaningful relationships at this life stage and how they conflict with Christian Reformed beliefs.</li><li>Societal Norms vs. Christian Reformed Values: Examine the clash between societal expectations and the teachings of the Christian Reformed Church for single men at 50.</li><li>Spirituality and Singlehood: Discover ways to deepen your relationship with God, despite societal norms that often overlook the value of a single life at 50.</li></ul> Why Listen to This Episode? If you're grappling with the complexities of being a single man at 50, especially within a Christian Reformed context, this episode offers a nuanced, in-depth discussion that blends personal insights, expert opinions, and scriptural guidance. Whether you're single, know someone who is, or are interested in the intersection of faith and different life stages, this episode is a must-listen. SEO Keywords: Single Life at 50, Christian Reformed Church, Personal Responsibility, Loneliness, Relationships, Societal Norms, Spirituality, Faith, You're Probably Right, MCM. Join MCM as he navigates these intricate issues, offering a balanced blend of personal reflections, expert insights, and scriptural wisdom. Don't miss this episode of "You're Probably Right" for a comprehensive look at the struggles and opportunities that come with being a single man at 50 in the Christian Reformed community.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3398</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a3d45ca055d28afcea5d8b067233e9d0.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>119</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>bonus episode ( I think I have been swept from the public eye)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-episode-i-think-i-have-been-swept-from-the-public-eye--61072141</link><description><![CDATA[this is a bonus episode. atthispointitdoesnotmatterwhatItypehere.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e81946b-f8b5-4bf7-9e65-9d9d5da583e2</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2023 03:42:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072141/9f265b6d79014ccb103b60f482681387.mp3" length="31762533" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>this is a bonus episode. atthispointitdoesnotmatterwhatItypehere.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[this is a bonus episode. atthispointitdoesnotmatterwhatItypehere.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1986</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/64a18ad5d9381fe6f4bc42833556b707.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>118</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Rekindle or Release: Navigating Love's Second Chances</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/rekindle-or-release-navigating-love-s-second-chances--61072126</link><description><![CDATA[In this raw and honest episode, I dive deep into the intricate world of love, relationships, and the role of faith in navigating these waters. Titled "Rekindle or Release: Navigating Love's Second Chances," I explore the emotional rollercoaster that comes with breakups and the potential for reconciliation. I kick things off by sharing my own beliefs and how they inform my views on love and life. From there, I tackle a series of questions from you, the listeners, covering everything from the lingering thoughts about an ex to the pitfalls that often lead to the end of a relationship. I also delve into the thorny issue of reconciliation and offer some actionable steps for those looking to mend a broken relationship. Throughout the episode, my Christian faith serves as a guiding light, offering a unique perspective on these universally challenging topics. So, whether you're contemplating a second chance with an ex or simply looking for some faith-based relationship advice, this episode has something for you. <br /><br /> Keywords: Love, Relationships, Faith, Rekindle, Release, Breakups, Reconciliation, Christian Beliefs, Personal Growth, Second Chances.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">37b69ef3-8d9b-40fb-9e54-3905c35422c5</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 14:48:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072126/2359ffcfd27dfdbeae9832f74773e48f.mp3" length="32620603" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this raw and honest episode, I dive deep into the intricate world of love, relationships, and the role of faith in navigating these waters. Titled "Rekindle or Release: Navigating Love's Second Chances," I explore the emotional rollercoaster that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this raw and honest episode, I dive deep into the intricate world of love, relationships, and the role of faith in navigating these waters. Titled "Rekindle or Release: Navigating Love's Second Chances," I explore the emotional rollercoaster that comes with breakups and the potential for reconciliation. I kick things off by sharing my own beliefs and how they inform my views on love and life. From there, I tackle a series of questions from you, the listeners, covering everything from the lingering thoughts about an ex to the pitfalls that often lead to the end of a relationship. I also delve into the thorny issue of reconciliation and offer some actionable steps for those looking to mend a broken relationship. Throughout the episode, my Christian faith serves as a guiding light, offering a unique perspective on these universally challenging topics. So, whether you're contemplating a second chance with an ex or simply looking for some faith-based relationship advice, this episode has something for you. <br /><br /> Keywords: Love, Relationships, Faith, Rekindle, Release, Breakups, Reconciliation, Christian Beliefs, Personal Growth, Second Chances.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2039</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6bd5feb1221faf003c034e8f46718c20.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>suffering in Silence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/suffering-in-silence--61072145</link><description><![CDATA[Discover the raw, unfiltered truths of life's complexities in "Suffering in Silence," an episode from the podcast "You're Probably Right." This episode dives deep into the emotional labyrinth of existential weight, unmet aspirations, and the yearning for genuine human connection. Navigate the crossroads of ambition and reality as we explore the often unspoken challenges of daily monotony, emotional stagnation, and the quest for purpose. Key Themes: <ul><li>Existential Weight: Uncover the emotional anchors that pull you into life's abyss.</li><li>Unmet Aspirations: Explore the heartbreak of dreams deferred and desires just out of reach.</li><li>Genuine Connection: Delve into the lost art of heartfelt listening in a world awash with noise.</li></ul> Reflective Questions: <ul><li>Coping Strategies: What are your go-to methods for battling feelings of emptiness and stagnation?</li><li>Material State: How do physical belongings like a worn-down vehicle mirror your inner turmoil?</li><li>Communication: How do you make your voice heard in a cacophonous world?</li></ul> Whether you're grappling with the daily grind, feeling adrift in life's vast ocean, or searching for solace in shared experiences, this episode offers an introspective journey into reclaiming the authorship of your own story. Subscribe now for weekly episodes that resonate with the untold stories many of us hold within but seldom share. <br /> questions: <ul><li>At what point did you begin to feel the weight of stagnation in your life? Was there a specific event or moment?</li><li>How do you navigate the daily routine when it feels disconnected from your inner self?</li><li>What strategies, if any, have you used to cope with the feelings of getting nowhere?</li><li>How does the state of material things, like a worn-down vehicle, magnify the inner turmoil?</li><li>In what ways do you feel misunderstood or unheard by those around you?</li><li>Can you recall moments when you felt truly listened to? What made those experiences stand out?</li><li>How has the loss of loved ones affected your perspective on your own life's trajectory?</li><li>How do you deal with the dichotomy of wanting to be heard, while also navigating a world where everyone is shouting their own truths?</li><li>What does a "successful life" look like to you now, in comparison to what you might've imagined in the past?</li><li>If you could send a message to the world, or even just those around you, about your feelings and experiences, what would it be?</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">10ef74bd-0f70-4997-9170-818f8c933d56</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2023 02:37:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072145/8ba7a3b8a1d34ef7238b2541798dca5d.mp3" length="49393723" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Discover the raw, unfiltered truths of life's complexities in "Suffering in Silence," an episode from the podcast "You're Probably Right." This episode dives deep into the emotional labyrinth of existential weight, unmet aspirations, and the yearning...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Discover the raw, unfiltered truths of life's complexities in "Suffering in Silence," an episode from the podcast "You're Probably Right." This episode dives deep into the emotional labyrinth of existential weight, unmet aspirations, and the yearning for genuine human connection. Navigate the crossroads of ambition and reality as we explore the often unspoken challenges of daily monotony, emotional stagnation, and the quest for purpose. Key Themes: <ul><li>Existential Weight: Uncover the emotional anchors that pull you into life's abyss.</li><li>Unmet Aspirations: Explore the heartbreak of dreams deferred and desires just out of reach.</li><li>Genuine Connection: Delve into the lost art of heartfelt listening in a world awash with noise.</li></ul> Reflective Questions: <ul><li>Coping Strategies: What are your go-to methods for battling feelings of emptiness and stagnation?</li><li>Material State: How do physical belongings like a worn-down vehicle mirror your inner turmoil?</li><li>Communication: How do you make your voice heard in a cacophonous world?</li></ul> Whether you're grappling with the daily grind, feeling adrift in life's vast ocean, or searching for solace in shared experiences, this episode offers an introspective journey into reclaiming the authorship of your own story. Subscribe now for weekly episodes that resonate with the untold stories many of us hold within but seldom share. <br /> questions: <ul><li>At what point did you begin to feel the weight of stagnation in your life? Was there a specific event or moment?</li><li>How do you navigate the daily routine when it feels disconnected from your inner self?</li><li>What strategies, if any, have you used to cope with the feelings of getting nowhere?</li><li>How does the state of material things, like a worn-down vehicle, magnify the inner turmoil?</li><li>In what ways do you feel misunderstood or unheard by those around you?</li><li>Can you recall moments when you felt truly listened to? What made those experiences stand out?</li><li>How has the loss of loved ones affected your perspective on your own life's trajectory?</li><li>How do you deal with the dichotomy of wanting to be heard, while also navigating a world where everyone is shouting their own truths?</li><li>What does a "successful life" look like to you now, in comparison to what you might've imagined in the past?</li><li>If you could send a message to the world, or even just those around you, about your feelings and experiences, what would it be?</li></ul>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3088</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/75ec9166ea50a1e036b144dc4e353309.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>"So, this is back to school, and what have you done? 'Black kids: University bound?'"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-this-is-back-to-school-and-what-have-you-done-black-kids-university-bound--61072183</link><description><![CDATA[Hey, you! Time to dive deep into a topic that's got us scratching our heads and pondering big questions on "You're Probably Right." This episode is like stepping into a mind gym – equal parts thought-provoking and mind-bending. So, here we are, raising a virtual eyebrow and asking why university doors might seem a bit tougher to crack for black students. It's like trying to solve an epic puzzle that's missing a few pieces. But hey, we're up for the challenge. First up, we're talking about the heavyweight champs: What's really behind those lower university enrollment rates for black students? Are there hidden obstacles we're not seeing? And don't even get us started on those socioeconomic inequalities – they're like roadblocks on the path to quality education. We're wading through the swamp of systemic stuff too. Think of inadequate school resources and funding that could be boxing black students out of the higher education ring. But wait, representation is a big player in this game. We're taking a magnifying glass to how academic environments reflect back on black kids' aspirations. And who knew cultural factors and historical experiences could be behind some of those major decisions about university? Here's where the plot thickens – community-based initiatives that are throwing a lifeline to bridge the gap. And we're diving into the pool of financial worries – how does the fear of student loan debt play into whether black kids dive into the university pool? Now, let's talk mentors. Or maybe lack thereof. How's that impacting the confidence and readiness of black students eyeing the university scene? Oh, and let's not forget the media circus – how much is pop culture steering the ship? But fear not, we're ending on a high note. Innovative approaches that could make university dreams a reality – education, mentorship, and community power-ups. So, hang on tight and tune into "You're Probably Right" for this wild ride. It's like unwrapping a mystery you never knew existed. 🎙️🔍 <br /> keywords: education, disparities, university enrollment, academic achievement, equitable opportunities, socioeconomic factors, cultural perspectives.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d596f7d7-5429-4798-993f-60e3a144a51d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Aug 2023 00:45:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072183/dada90cd61593471ef4abc8c1e92012f.mp3" length="67193351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey, you! Time to dive deep into a topic that's got us scratching our heads and pondering big questions on "You're Probably Right." This episode is like stepping into a mind gym – equal parts thought-provoking and mind-bending. So, here we are,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey, you! Time to dive deep into a topic that's got us scratching our heads and pondering big questions on "You're Probably Right." This episode is like stepping into a mind gym – equal parts thought-provoking and mind-bending. So, here we are, raising a virtual eyebrow and asking why university doors might seem a bit tougher to crack for black students. It's like trying to solve an epic puzzle that's missing a few pieces. But hey, we're up for the challenge. First up, we're talking about the heavyweight champs: What's really behind those lower university enrollment rates for black students? Are there hidden obstacles we're not seeing? And don't even get us started on those socioeconomic inequalities – they're like roadblocks on the path to quality education. We're wading through the swamp of systemic stuff too. Think of inadequate school resources and funding that could be boxing black students out of the higher education ring. But wait, representation is a big player in this game. We're taking a magnifying glass to how academic environments reflect back on black kids' aspirations. And who knew cultural factors and historical experiences could be behind some of those major decisions about university? Here's where the plot thickens – community-based initiatives that are throwing a lifeline to bridge the gap. And we're diving into the pool of financial worries – how does the fear of student loan debt play into whether black kids dive into the university pool? Now, let's talk mentors. Or maybe lack thereof. How's that impacting the confidence and readiness of black students eyeing the university scene? Oh, and let's not forget the media circus – how much is pop culture steering the ship? But fear not, we're ending on a high note. Innovative approaches that could make university dreams a reality – education, mentorship, and community power-ups. So, hang on tight and tune into "You're Probably Right" for this wild ride. It's like unwrapping a mystery you never knew existed. 🎙️🔍 <br /> keywords: education, disparities, university enrollment, academic achievement, equitable opportunities, socioeconomic factors, cultural perspectives.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4200</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9dbd41e16f1570544f95611d9e8b1bb4.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>114</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Adversity : why I am still here.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adversity-why-i-am-still-here--61072144</link><description><![CDATA[Description: Join us in an introspective journey as we delve into the heart of resilience and hope in the face of life's greatest challenges. In this episode, we sit down with MCM, who has triumphed over personal losses, health struggles, and moments of despair. Through candid conversations, we explore strategies for cultivating purpose, maintaining mental well-being, and finding solace in faith during times of uncertainty. From commemorating loved ones to uncovering transformative growth, this conversation offers insights that resonate with those who might be grappling with loneliness, unfulfilled aspirations, and the search for meaning. Tune in to discover how one man's remarkable journey might illuminate the path forward for those seeking inspiration and renewal.          1.                Amidst personal losses and challenges, how have you managed to cultivate a sense of purpose and direction that keeps you moving forward?   2.                In the face of health issues and emotional struggles, what strategies have you found helpful in maintaining a resilient mindset?   3.                Can you discuss the role that faith and spirituality have played in providing solace and guidance during moments of despair?   4.                How has your journey through adversity reshaped your understanding of success and fulfillment, especially when societal pressures loom large?   5.                Navigating loneliness and uncertainty can be isolating. Could you share your thoughts on seeking support, whether through friends, family, or  communities?   6.                Dealing with mental and emotional well-being can be daunting, especially in the face of life's challenges. Can you elaborate on actionable steps you've taken?       7.                Commemorating loved ones on significant occasions like your father's 100th birthday must evoke a range of emotions. How do you find strength in these moments?   8.                Personal growth often stems from adversity. Can you delve into how you've transformed these trials into opportunities for self-discovery and development?     9.                For those who feel lost, unmarried, or without a clear path forward, what insights would you share from your own journey to provide them a glimmer of hope?   10.                        Your journey holds the potential to inspire others facing a similar crossroads. How do you envision your experiences serving as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of life?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1c4558a2-b156-4adf-b604-1582811aac81</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Aug 2023 01:28:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072144/01ae5aa2485cedb11b0d7478d2bad36b.mp3" length="60476329" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Description: Join us in an introspective journey as we delve into the heart of resilience and hope in the face of life's greatest challenges. In this episode, we sit down with MCM, who has triumphed over personal losses, health struggles, and moments...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Description: Join us in an introspective journey as we delve into the heart of resilience and hope in the face of life's greatest challenges. In this episode, we sit down with MCM, who has triumphed over personal losses, health struggles, and moments of despair. Through candid conversations, we explore strategies for cultivating purpose, maintaining mental well-being, and finding solace in faith during times of uncertainty. From commemorating loved ones to uncovering transformative growth, this conversation offers insights that resonate with those who might be grappling with loneliness, unfulfilled aspirations, and the search for meaning. Tune in to discover how one man's remarkable journey might illuminate the path forward for those seeking inspiration and renewal.          1.                Amidst personal losses and challenges, how have you managed to cultivate a sense of purpose and direction that keeps you moving forward?   2.                In the face of health issues and emotional struggles, what strategies have you found helpful in maintaining a resilient mindset?   3.                Can you discuss the role that faith and spirituality have played in providing solace and guidance during moments of despair?   4.                How has your journey through adversity reshaped your understanding of success and fulfillment, especially when societal pressures loom large?   5.                Navigating loneliness and uncertainty can be isolating. Could you share your thoughts on seeking support, whether through friends, family, or  communities?   6.                Dealing with mental and emotional well-being can be daunting, especially in the face of life's challenges. Can you elaborate on actionable steps you've taken?       7.                Commemorating loved ones on significant occasions like your father's 100th birthday must evoke a range of emotions. How do you find strength in these moments?   8.                Personal growth often stems from adversity. Can you delve into how you've transformed these trials into opportunities for self-discovery and development?     9.                For those who feel lost, unmarried, or without a clear path forward, what insights would you share from your own journey to provide them a glimmer of hope?   10.                        Your journey holds the potential to inspire others facing a similar crossroads. How do you envision your experiences serving as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of life?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3780</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/396ec647ea32143ef534701268b1d943.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>113</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Decoding Desires Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/decoding-desires-part-1--61072150</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we explore a profound paradox: how our deepest wants, desires, and needs can sometimes leave us unfulfilled. We delve into the complexities of this phenomenon, examining the role of unrealistic expectations, shifting motivations, evolving priorities, and more. Join us as we unravel the intricacies of why achieving what we long for doesn't always guarantee lasting contentment. It's a journey into the heart of human aspiration that might just change how you view your own desires. 🎙️🌟Don't miss this enriching episode on ⁠Spotify⁠ and ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, or your preferred podcast platform. Because understanding is the first step towards empowerment. Let's explore the journey together!"        What you want may not always be as desirable as it seems:            Lack of Fulfillment:  Sometimes, achieving what you want doesn't provide the satisfaction you expected, leaving you feeling unfulfilled and wondering if there's more to it.            Unrealistic Expectations: The anticipation of getting what you want might lead to unrealistic expectations, setting you up for disappointment if reality doesn't match the fantasy.              Loss of Motivation: Achieving a The long-desired goal can leave you without a clear direction, causing a loss of motivation as you wonder what to aim for next.            Unexpected Consequences: Getting what you want might come with unexpected consequences or responsibilities that you hadn't considered.              Change in Priorities: As you evolve and grow, what you once desired passionately might lose its appeal, leading to a shift in priorities.            Comparison and Envy: Achieving your desires might expose you to the envy of others, and constant comparison can diminish the joy of your accomplishment.              Fear of Losing: Once you have what you want, there's often a fear of losing it, leading to anxiety and stress rather than the anticipated happiness.            Maintenance Burden: Possessions and achievements often come with maintenance responsibilities that can be overwhelming and distracting from the benefits.              Plateau Effect: Achieving your desires might lead to a plateau in personal growth, as you become comfortable and less inclined to challenge yourself further.            Chasing the Next Thing: Once you've attained one desire, you might find yourself constantly chasing the next, never truly content, and always seeking the next source of happiness.      ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3197676d-4815-4f49-9d59-56e922877834</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Aug 2023 21:37:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072150/2795317b7482c99299c33a6c21802a28.mp3" length="46648985" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we explore a profound paradox: how our deepest wants, desires, and needs can sometimes leave us unfulfilled. We delve into the complexities of this phenomenon, examining the role of unrealistic expectations, shifting motivations,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we explore a profound paradox: how our deepest wants, desires, and needs can sometimes leave us unfulfilled. We delve into the complexities of this phenomenon, examining the role of unrealistic expectations, shifting motivations, evolving priorities, and more. Join us as we unravel the intricacies of why achieving what we long for doesn't always guarantee lasting contentment. It's a journey into the heart of human aspiration that might just change how you view your own desires. 🎙️🌟Don't miss this enriching episode on ⁠Spotify⁠ and ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, or your preferred podcast platform. Because understanding is the first step towards empowerment. Let's explore the journey together!"        What you want may not always be as desirable as it seems:            Lack of Fulfillment:  Sometimes, achieving what you want doesn't provide the satisfaction you expected, leaving you feeling unfulfilled and wondering if there's more to it.            Unrealistic Expectations: The anticipation of getting what you want might lead to unrealistic expectations, setting you up for disappointment if reality doesn't match the fantasy.              Loss of Motivation: Achieving a The long-desired goal can leave you without a clear direction, causing a loss of motivation as you wonder what to aim for next.            Unexpected Consequences: Getting what you want might come with unexpected consequences or responsibilities that you hadn't considered.              Change in Priorities: As you evolve and grow, what you once desired passionately might lose its appeal, leading to a shift in priorities.            Comparison and Envy: Achieving your desires might expose you to the envy of others, and constant comparison can diminish the joy of your accomplishment.              Fear of Losing: Once you have what you want, there's often a fear of losing it, leading to anxiety and stress rather than the anticipated happiness.            Maintenance Burden: Possessions and achievements often come with maintenance responsibilities that can be overwhelming and distracting from the benefits.              Plateau Effect: Achieving your desires might lead to a plateau in personal growth, as you become comfortable and less inclined to challenge yourself further.            Chasing the Next Thing: Once you've attained one desire, you might find yourself constantly chasing the next, never truly content, and always seeking the next source of happiness.      ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2916</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bb879c0a91b659278849a1812aa14dd4.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>113</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Before you buy that New Build home</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/before-you-buy-that-new-build-home--61072128</link><description><![CDATA["Welcome to 'You're Probably Right,' a podcast where we delve into life's intriguing journeys and delve deep into thought-provoking topics. I'm MCM, your host, and together we'll navigate through the twists and turns of homeownership experiences, share insightful anecdotes, and engage in meaningful conversations. If you're seeking a companion for reflective moments, valuable insights, and enriching discussions, join us on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a> or your preferred podcast platform. Let's embark on this expedition through the intricacies of life. Your presence is greatly appreciated!"]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7f631e19-d5cc-4dc0-9b42-69f21d57aa10</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2023 01:01:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072128/4072bc791d95363d0524558cd1be7746.mp3" length="50345416" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"Welcome to 'You're Probably Right,' a podcast where we delve into life's intriguing journeys and delve deep into thought-provoking topics. I'm MCM, your host, and together we'll navigate through the twists and turns of homeownership experiences,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["Welcome to 'You're Probably Right,' a podcast where we delve into life's intriguing journeys and delve deep into thought-provoking topics. I'm MCM, your host, and together we'll navigate through the twists and turns of homeownership experiences, share insightful anecdotes, and engage in meaningful conversations. If you're seeking a companion for reflective moments, valuable insights, and enriching discussions, join us on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a> or your preferred podcast platform. Let's embark on this expedition through the intricacies of life. Your presence is greatly appreciated!"]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3147</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1a059ddf86f01380291987945fae07fd.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why I Like Embracing Unpopular Opinions: Finding My Voice"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-i-like-embracing-unpopular-opinions-finding-my-voice--61072154</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special episode of "You're Probably Right"! Today, MCM takes the mic and spills the beans on "Why I Like Figuring Out How to Voice My Opinion When It's Not Popular." Oh, you better believe it's gonna be a wild ride! You see, MCM's got that knack for navigating through the choppy waters of life's uncharted territories. And when it comes to speaking his mind, he's got more courage than a lumberjack with a chainsaw! From controversial topics to challenging the mainstream, MCM's got the secret recipe to embrace unpopular opinions like a true Canadian hockey legend.   In this episode, he'll share how he finds the strength to stand tall, even when the crowd goes all "eh?" on him. It's like watching a hockey goalie stop every shot, but instead of pucks, it's opinions flying at him!   But hey, he's no stranger to doubts and fears, and he'll spill the Tim Hortons on how he overcomes 'em. With a dash of humor and a sprinkle of resilience, he'll show you how to rock your own authentic voice, no matter how loud the crowd gets.   So, put on your flannels, grab a double-double, and join us on "You're Probably Right" for an episode that'll have you saying, "I knew MCM was the real MVP of speaking his mind!" Get ready to embrace your inner truth and discover the joy of standing firm in your convictions, even when they're not the most popular. Let's dive in, cause this episode is hotter than a beavertail fresh from the fryer! See you there, my fellow trailblazers!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d0def2ba-4741-4af0-9f70-677fa906b9dc</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 04:36:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072154/4016ef8b5adceedaba98e8aa74e79a19.mp3" length="45347878" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special episode of "You're Probably Right"! Today, MCM takes the mic and spills the beans on "Why I Like Figuring Out How to Voice My Opinion When It's Not Popular." Oh, you better believe it's gonna be a wild...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special episode of "You're Probably Right"! Today, MCM takes the mic and spills the beans on "Why I Like Figuring Out How to Voice My Opinion When It's Not Popular." Oh, you better believe it's gonna be a wild ride! You see, MCM's got that knack for navigating through the choppy waters of life's uncharted territories. And when it comes to speaking his mind, he's got more courage than a lumberjack with a chainsaw! From controversial topics to challenging the mainstream, MCM's got the secret recipe to embrace unpopular opinions like a true Canadian hockey legend.   In this episode, he'll share how he finds the strength to stand tall, even when the crowd goes all "eh?" on him. It's like watching a hockey goalie stop every shot, but instead of pucks, it's opinions flying at him!   But hey, he's no stranger to doubts and fears, and he'll spill the Tim Hortons on how he overcomes 'em. With a dash of humor and a sprinkle of resilience, he'll show you how to rock your own authentic voice, no matter how loud the crowd gets.   So, put on your flannels, grab a double-double, and join us on "You're Probably Right" for an episode that'll have you saying, "I knew MCM was the real MVP of speaking his mind!" Get ready to embrace your inner truth and discover the joy of standing firm in your convictions, even when they're not the most popular. Let's dive in, cause this episode is hotter than a beavertail fresh from the fryer! See you there, my fellow trailblazers!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2835</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a60ecd8a08aeea0cdceff923ccee0128.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Part 3: Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration - Unveiling the Final Insights!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/part-3-relationship-loss-and-self-restoration-unveiling-the-final-insights--61072130</link><description><![CDATA[<br /><br /> Get ready for the highly anticipated Part 3 of "Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration" on the "You're Probably Right" podcast! In this riveting installment, MCM brings the empowering journey to a remarkable conclusion as he dives deep into the last 14 questions from a woman's perspective. Drawing from the wisdom of the Holy Bible, MCM provides heartfelt answers and profound guidance on coping with heartbreak, rebuilding trust, and rediscovering oneself. With vulnerability and authenticity, he shares personal anecdotes and transformative insights to uplift and inspire. If you've ever struggled with forgiveness, sought inner peace amidst the turmoil, or aspired to embrace your God-given gifts, this episode is tailor-made for you. MCM's unique Christian perspective infuses each answer with hope and resilience, making this an invaluable resource for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of relationship loss. <br /> As the final part of this enlightening trilogy, Part 3 is a culmination of profound reflections, practical advice, and uplifting encouragement. Join the "You're Probably Right" community as we embark on a powerful journey toward self-restoration and personal growth. Tune in and let MCM's words resonate deep within your heart. Together, let's uncover the strength to heal, forgive, and rediscover our true selves. Don't miss this epic conclusion—your path to self-restoration awaits! <br /><ul><li><br /></li></ul><ul><li>How do I avoid becoming a pushover while still maintaining a compassionate heart?</li><li>In times of loss, how can I find solace and wisdom in the teachings of the Bible?</li><li>What role does self-improvement play in the process of healing and restoration?</li><li>How can I take care of myself physically, emotionally, and spiritually during this challenging period?</li><li>What are some practical ways to rediscover and nurture my God-given gifts and talents?</li><li>How can I use my creativity and hobbies as a form of self-expression and healing?</li><li>How do I avoid seeking immediate replacements after a breakup and focus on personal growth instead?</li><li>Can you share some strategies for finding healthy and supportive friendships after a relationship loss?</li><li>How can I find inner peace and contentment, regardless of my relationship status?</li><li>How does faith in God impact the process of self-restoration and healing?</li><li>What advice do you have for women who struggle with forgiveness after experiencing loss?</li><li>How can I ensure that I prioritize my well-being and self-care without feeling guilty?</li><li>What are some practical ways to redirect my focus and energy toward positive endeavors?</li><li>How can I embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth with confidence and grace?</li></ul><br /><ul><li>Follow the "You're Probably Right" podcast to catch Part 3 of "Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration" on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast Link</a>. Join us as we embrace our vulnerabilities and unlock the keys to a more fulfilling and empowered life.</li></ul><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d1d8f0f3-c8a7-46c2-ac23-a96cd87b4faf</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2023 11:00:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072130/721173d86848e42b0c03432d289b8e78.mp3" length="47317720" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>

 Get ready for the highly anticipated Part 3 of "Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration" on the "You're Probably Right" podcast! In this riveting installment, MCM brings the empowering journey to a remarkable conclusion as he dives deep into the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /><br /> Get ready for the highly anticipated Part 3 of "Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration" on the "You're Probably Right" podcast! In this riveting installment, MCM brings the empowering journey to a remarkable conclusion as he dives deep into the last 14 questions from a woman's perspective. Drawing from the wisdom of the Holy Bible, MCM provides heartfelt answers and profound guidance on coping with heartbreak, rebuilding trust, and rediscovering oneself. With vulnerability and authenticity, he shares personal anecdotes and transformative insights to uplift and inspire. If you've ever struggled with forgiveness, sought inner peace amidst the turmoil, or aspired to embrace your God-given gifts, this episode is tailor-made for you. MCM's unique Christian perspective infuses each answer with hope and resilience, making this an invaluable resource for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of relationship loss. <br /> As the final part of this enlightening trilogy, Part 3 is a culmination of profound reflections, practical advice, and uplifting encouragement. Join the "You're Probably Right" community as we embark on a powerful journey toward self-restoration and personal growth. Tune in and let MCM's words resonate deep within your heart. Together, let's uncover the strength to heal, forgive, and rediscover our true selves. Don't miss this epic conclusion—your path to self-restoration awaits! <br /><ul><li><br /></li></ul><ul><li>How do I avoid becoming a pushover while still maintaining a compassionate heart?</li><li>In times of loss, how can I find solace and wisdom in the teachings of the Bible?</li><li>What role does self-improvement play in the process of healing and restoration?</li><li>How can I take care of myself physically, emotionally, and spiritually during this challenging period?</li><li>What are some practical ways to rediscover and nurture my God-given gifts and talents?</li><li>How can I use my creativity and hobbies as a form of self-expression and healing?</li><li>How do I avoid seeking immediate replacements after a breakup and focus on personal growth instead?</li><li>Can you share some strategies for finding healthy and supportive friendships after a relationship loss?</li><li>How can I find inner peace and contentment, regardless of my relationship status?</li><li>How does faith in God impact the process of self-restoration and healing?</li><li>What advice do you have for women who struggle with forgiveness after experiencing loss?</li><li>How can I ensure that I prioritize my well-being and self-care without feeling guilty?</li><li>What are some practical ways to redirect my focus and energy toward positive endeavors?</li><li>How can I embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth with confidence and grace?</li></ul><br /><ul><li>Follow the "You're Probably Right" podcast to catch Part 3 of "Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration" on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast Link</a>. Join us as we embrace our vulnerabilities and unlock the keys to a more fulfilling and empowered life.</li></ul><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2958</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d1a8adfffafce62e92121e7c13b0eeb2.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Relationship Loss and Self-Restoration - Part 2: Question 1 to 6 of 20 subscribe for more!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-loss-and-self-restoration-part-2-question-1-to-6-of-20-subscribe-for-more--61072185</link><description><![CDATA[Step into the transformative world of "You're Probably Right" podcast with this special episode curated for an empowering and heartfelt experience. Join our insightful host, MCM, as he delves into 20 (1-6) thought-provoking questions from a distinctly female perspective, centered around the theme of relationship loss and the profound journey of self-restoration. As a Christian host, MCM offers a compassionate and unique viewpoint, providing invaluable insights and thoughtful advice to help women navigate through challenging times and find strength in healing. His words resonate with authenticity and wisdom, creating a safe space for listeners to explore the complexities of healing and growth. Through candid discussions and heartfelt anecdotes, "You're Probably Right" delves deep into the profound resilience of the human spirit, helping women find the inner strength needed to navigate the stormy waters of life's transitions. This episode serves as a guiding light, inspiring women to embrace their journeys of self-discovery and restoration, ultimately leading to newfound empowerment and a deeper connection with their faith. <ul><li>How can I cope with heartbreak and loss while maintaining my faith and composure?</li><li>What are some practical steps I can take to overcome feelings of abandonment and betrayal?</li><li>How do I avoid letting my emotions control my actions during tough times?</li><li>Can you share some strategies to rebuild trust in yourself and others after a difficult breakup?</li><li>How can I be kind to those who have taken advantage of me without compromising my self-worth?</li><li>What steps can I take to reclaim my sense of identity and not be defined by past relationships?</li></ul><br /><br /> Tune in to this extraordinary episode and embark on a transformative journey of healing and growth, as MCM's genuine and empathetic approach reminds you that there is hope, strength, and renewal on the path to self-restoration.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6f817f1c-a8cb-4441-9439-cf3a194b1842</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jul 2023 01:37:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072185/b0b5478d77272bae494513063d2d91fa.mp3" length="49861419" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Step into the transformative world of "You're Probably Right" podcast with this special episode curated for an empowering and heartfelt experience. Join our insightful host, MCM, as he delves into 20 (1-6) thought-provoking questions from a distinctly...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Step into the transformative world of "You're Probably Right" podcast with this special episode curated for an empowering and heartfelt experience. Join our insightful host, MCM, as he delves into 20 (1-6) thought-provoking questions from a distinctly female perspective, centered around the theme of relationship loss and the profound journey of self-restoration. As a Christian host, MCM offers a compassionate and unique viewpoint, providing invaluable insights and thoughtful advice to help women navigate through challenging times and find strength in healing. His words resonate with authenticity and wisdom, creating a safe space for listeners to explore the complexities of healing and growth. Through candid discussions and heartfelt anecdotes, "You're Probably Right" delves deep into the profound resilience of the human spirit, helping women find the inner strength needed to navigate the stormy waters of life's transitions. This episode serves as a guiding light, inspiring women to embrace their journeys of self-discovery and restoration, ultimately leading to newfound empowerment and a deeper connection with their faith. <ul><li>How can I cope with heartbreak and loss while maintaining my faith and composure?</li><li>What are some practical steps I can take to overcome feelings of abandonment and betrayal?</li><li>How do I avoid letting my emotions control my actions during tough times?</li><li>Can you share some strategies to rebuild trust in yourself and others after a difficult breakup?</li><li>How can I be kind to those who have taken advantage of me without compromising my self-worth?</li><li>What steps can I take to reclaim my sense of identity and not be defined by past relationships?</li></ul><br /><br /> Tune in to this extraordinary episode and embark on a transformative journey of healing and growth, as MCM's genuine and empathetic approach reminds you that there is hope, strength, and renewal on the path to self-restoration.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3117</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8709a64aa668de5849e8711b64a6b63d.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>They are coming for us</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/they-are-coming-for-us--61072151</link><description><![CDATA[Episode Description - "They Are Coming for You" In this gripping episode of the You're Probably Right Podcast, titled "They Are Coming for You," we delve into the potential challenges faced by individuals in the face of societal and financial shifts. Explore with host MCM as he uncovers the ominous implications that could impact believers and individuals of faith. From the foreboding impact of finances leading many astray to the potential limitations on job opportunities based on allegiance pledges, the episode uncovers the looming threats to personal freedoms. Delve into the unsettling repercussions, such as pension losses, restricted bank accounts, and the evaluation of social credit scores through social media platforms. Furthermore, discover the complexities faced by business owners who find themselves compelled to align with popular worldly narratives. Join us as we navigate the intricate landscape of believers aligning with mainstream ideologies in this thought-provoking episode. 20 Questions for MCM - "They Are Coming for You" <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dc4508bb-99d7-4e34-89de-e09715ec9c48</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Jul 2023 01:13:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072151/91331ec9a7bf3e0d061176fef9b9ad24.mp3" length="41842872" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Episode Description - "They Are Coming for You" In this gripping episode of the You're Probably Right Podcast, titled "They Are Coming for You," we delve into the potential challenges faced by individuals in the face of societal and financial shifts....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode Description - "They Are Coming for You" In this gripping episode of the You're Probably Right Podcast, titled "They Are Coming for You," we delve into the potential challenges faced by individuals in the face of societal and financial shifts. Explore with host MCM as he uncovers the ominous implications that could impact believers and individuals of faith. From the foreboding impact of finances leading many astray to the potential limitations on job opportunities based on allegiance pledges, the episode uncovers the looming threats to personal freedoms. Delve into the unsettling repercussions, such as pension losses, restricted bank accounts, and the evaluation of social credit scores through social media platforms. Furthermore, discover the complexities faced by business owners who find themselves compelled to align with popular worldly narratives. Join us as we navigate the intricate landscape of believers aligning with mainstream ideologies in this thought-provoking episode. 20 Questions for MCM - "They Are Coming for You" <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2616</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/943950f5632d811d57acb064fb6f9e14.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>They want to argue because they are angry</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/they-want-to-argue-because-they-are-angry--61072142</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to "You're Probably Right," the podcast where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships and offer valuable insights to help you navigate the challenging aspects of married life. Join your host, MCM, as we explore the age-old question that plagues countless couples: "How do you stop arguing with your spouse?" In each episode, we bring you real-life stories, expert advice, and practical strategies to help you foster a healthier and more harmonious relationship with your partner. We understand that disagreements and conflicts are an inevitable part of any marriage, but our mission is to equip you with the tools you need to minimize arguments and cultivate a deeper understanding between you and your spouse. Through thought-provoking conversations with relationship experts, therapists, and individuals who have successfully overcome marital conflicts, we'll uncover the underlying causes of disagreements and explore effective communication techniques to address them. From identifying triggers and managing emotions to actively listening and finding compromise, we'll guide you on a journey toward greater understanding and mutual respect. Join us as we delve into a wide range of topics, including conflict resolution, managing stress, balancing work and family, understanding gender dynamics, and maintaining intimacy in your relationship. Our aim is to empower you with practical strategies that you can apply in your daily life, fostering a stronger emotional connection and promoting more peaceful coexistence with your spouse. Remember, relationships require effort and dedication, but with the right mindset and a willingness to learn and grow, you can transform your arguments into opportunities for growth and strengthen the bond with your spouse. So, if you're ready to embark on this transformative journey, tune in to "You're Probably Right" and discover the secrets to stop arguing with your spouse. Disclaimer: The advice provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only. Please consult a licensed professional for personalized guidance regarding your specific relationship concerns.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6bf82ce6-32b9-4ff3-ae3f-15dda3614584</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 02:23:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072142/07c33c1a10d0cdd4b24416006ff0bbfd.mp3" length="46404479" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to "You're Probably Right," the podcast where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships and offer valuable insights to help you navigate the challenging aspects of married life. Join your host, MCM, as we explore the age-old question...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to "You're Probably Right," the podcast where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships and offer valuable insights to help you navigate the challenging aspects of married life. Join your host, MCM, as we explore the age-old question that plagues countless couples: "How do you stop arguing with your spouse?" In each episode, we bring you real-life stories, expert advice, and practical strategies to help you foster a healthier and more harmonious relationship with your partner. We understand that disagreements and conflicts are an inevitable part of any marriage, but our mission is to equip you with the tools you need to minimize arguments and cultivate a deeper understanding between you and your spouse. Through thought-provoking conversations with relationship experts, therapists, and individuals who have successfully overcome marital conflicts, we'll uncover the underlying causes of disagreements and explore effective communication techniques to address them. From identifying triggers and managing emotions to actively listening and finding compromise, we'll guide you on a journey toward greater understanding and mutual respect. Join us as we delve into a wide range of topics, including conflict resolution, managing stress, balancing work and family, understanding gender dynamics, and maintaining intimacy in your relationship. Our aim is to empower you with practical strategies that you can apply in your daily life, fostering a stronger emotional connection and promoting more peaceful coexistence with your spouse. Remember, relationships require effort and dedication, but with the right mindset and a willingness to learn and grow, you can transform your arguments into opportunities for growth and strengthen the bond with your spouse. So, if you're ready to embark on this transformative journey, tune in to "You're Probably Right" and discover the secrets to stop arguing with your spouse. Disclaimer: The advice provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only. Please consult a licensed professional for personalized guidance regarding your specific relationship concerns.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2901</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e2a38e88ae2014edbecd7667f852b13d.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Lullaby - by Shalom &amp; MCM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/lullaby-by-shalom-mcm--61072136</link><description><![CDATA[a quick song lullyba]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">cd364b51-9b86-46c1-a3ab-173338830e4c</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2023 19:41:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072136/f34773b35c6b3e95438007d261f5adbf.mp3" length="6045504" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>a quick song lullyba</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[a quick song lullyba]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>378</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d9d14b77f80acd1ce5d6b262c3c18a51.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Building a Strong and Healthy Relationship: Insights from Scripture and Personal Experience part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-a-strong-and-healthy-relationship-insights-from-scripture-and-personal-experience-part-2--61072173</link><description><![CDATA[continued from Part 1 ( Building a Strong and Healthy Relationship: Insights from Scripture and Personal Experience) the Q&amp;A portion of the episode, MCM shared his insights on various topics related to relationships and finding the right partner. He discussed the importance of shared values and interests, the role of communication, warning signs to watch out for in potential partners, and the significance of intimacy and shared experiences in a healthy relationship. Throughout the episode, MCM stressed the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and compromise in building a successful marriage or partnership based on biblical principles. He provided advice on how to navigate the challenges of finding and cultivating a lasting relationship, drawing from his knowledge of scripture and personal experience. <br /> #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #BiblicalMarriage #LoveAndRespect #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationSkills #FindingTheRightPartner #IntimacyInRelationships #SharedValues #Compromise #ChristianMarriageAdvice #PodcastForCouples #YoureProbablyRight #MCM]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">21a6cafc-152e-4c0f-b397-c2271c9ee3f5</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2023 00:33:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072173/05decc629b47ac32db1a707bef078885.mp3" length="56887313" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>continued from Part 1 ( Building a Strong and Healthy Relationship: Insights from Scripture and Personal Experience) the Q&amp;amp;A portion of the episode, MCM shared his insights on various topics related to relationships and finding the right partner....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[continued from Part 1 ( Building a Strong and Healthy Relationship: Insights from Scripture and Personal Experience) the Q&amp;A portion of the episode, MCM shared his insights on various topics related to relationships and finding the right partner. He discussed the importance of shared values and interests, the role of communication, warning signs to watch out for in potential partners, and the significance of intimacy and shared experiences in a healthy relationship. Throughout the episode, MCM stressed the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and compromise in building a successful marriage or partnership based on biblical principles. He provided advice on how to navigate the challenges of finding and cultivating a lasting relationship, drawing from his knowledge of scripture and personal experience. <br /> #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #BiblicalMarriage #LoveAndRespect #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationSkills #FindingTheRightPartner #IntimacyInRelationships #SharedValues #Compromise #ChristianMarriageAdvice #PodcastForCouples #YoureProbablyRight #MCM]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3556</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/39734d10715f42d843580b3a7b39ba4f.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Building a Strong and Healthy Relationship: Insights from Scripture and Personal Experience</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-a-strong-and-healthy-relationship-insights-from-scripture-and-personal-experience--61072179</link><description><![CDATA[<br /> MCM, the host of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, focused on the topic of relationships and marriage in a recent episode. In particular, MCM explored several biblical passages that deal with the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives in a marriage. These passages included Ephesians 5:22, which urges wives to submit to their husbands, and Ephesians 5:25, which instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. MCM also delved into other relevant passages, such as 1 Peter 3:7, which emphasizes the importance of husbands understanding and honoring their wives, and 1 Corinthians 7:3, which highlights the significance of fulfilling each other's physical needs. During the Q&amp;A portion of the episode, MCM shared his insights on various topics related to relationships and finding the right partner. He discussed the importance of shared values and interests, the role of communication, warning signs to watch out for in potential partners, and the significance of intimacy and shared experiences in a healthy relationship. Throughout the episode, MCM stressed the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and compromise in building a successful marriage or partnership based on biblical principles. He provided advice on how to navigate the challenges of finding and cultivating a lasting relationship, drawing from his knowledge of scripture and personal experience. <br /> #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #BiblicalMarriage #LoveAndRespect #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationSkills #FindingTheRightPartner #IntimacyInRelationships #SharedValues #Compromise #ChristianMarriageAdvice #PodcastForCouples #YoureProbablyRight #MCM  <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c594ab19-1a69-49f2-8f54-ac067f563d1f</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 May 2023 00:14:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072179/0c3808d0d156ea5ded4c463f0f11d327.mp3" length="75600600" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
 MCM, the host of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, focused on the topic of relationships and marriage in a recent episode. In particular, MCM explored several biblical passages that deal with the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<br /> MCM, the host of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, focused on the topic of relationships and marriage in a recent episode. In particular, MCM explored several biblical passages that deal with the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives in a marriage. These passages included Ephesians 5:22, which urges wives to submit to their husbands, and Ephesians 5:25, which instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. MCM also delved into other relevant passages, such as 1 Peter 3:7, which emphasizes the importance of husbands understanding and honoring their wives, and 1 Corinthians 7:3, which highlights the significance of fulfilling each other's physical needs. During the Q&amp;A portion of the episode, MCM shared his insights on various topics related to relationships and finding the right partner. He discussed the importance of shared values and interests, the role of communication, warning signs to watch out for in potential partners, and the significance of intimacy and shared experiences in a healthy relationship. Throughout the episode, MCM stressed the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and compromise in building a successful marriage or partnership based on biblical principles. He provided advice on how to navigate the challenges of finding and cultivating a lasting relationship, drawing from his knowledge of scripture and personal experience. <br /> #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #BiblicalMarriage #LoveAndRespect #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationSkills #FindingTheRightPartner #IntimacyInRelationships #SharedValues #Compromise #ChristianMarriageAdvice #PodcastForCouples #YoureProbablyRight #MCM  <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4725</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0250675e6118fa62616b8bca36501a46.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Overcoming Jealousy in Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/overcoming-jealousy-in-relationships--61072120</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to the "You're Probably Right" podcast! I'm MCM, your host <br /> We'll be covering a wide range of questions, including the triggers of jealousy, the difference between healthy and unhealthy jealousy, and the role of communication in managing jealousy in relationships. I'll be sharing my insights on the underlying factors that contribute to feelings of jealousy, and how men can work on building their self-esteem to reduce these feelings. Throughout the episode, we'll also be discussing the impact of childhood experiences and past traumas on a man's tendency towards jealousy, and how therapy or counseling can be a helpful tool in overcoming these issues. By the end of the episode, you'll gain valuable insights and practical tips on how to recognize and manage feelings of jealousy in your own relationships, as well as a better understanding of the deeper psychological factors that contribute to this complex emotion. Join me for an enlightening conversation on the "You're Probably Right" podcast. #Jealousy #Relationships #Psychology #Therapy #Counseling #Men's Health #Self-Improvement #Communication #Emotions #Mental Health #Self-Esteem #Trauma #Childhood Experiences #Expert Advice #Podcast <br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0350d2ae-ca3c-4994-ac6f-6d67506ef623</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2023 11:00:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072120/7ef5ed4ac52af1c27547772f7951b2d4.mp3" length="55891734" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to the "You're Probably Right" podcast! I'm MCM, your host 
 We'll be covering a wide range of questions, including the triggers of jealousy, the difference between healthy and unhealthy jealousy, and the role of communication in managing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to the "You're Probably Right" podcast! I'm MCM, your host <br /> We'll be covering a wide range of questions, including the triggers of jealousy, the difference between healthy and unhealthy jealousy, and the role of communication in managing jealousy in relationships. I'll be sharing my insights on the underlying factors that contribute to feelings of jealousy, and how men can work on building their self-esteem to reduce these feelings. Throughout the episode, we'll also be discussing the impact of childhood experiences and past traumas on a man's tendency towards jealousy, and how therapy or counseling can be a helpful tool in overcoming these issues. By the end of the episode, you'll gain valuable insights and practical tips on how to recognize and manage feelings of jealousy in your own relationships, as well as a better understanding of the deeper psychological factors that contribute to this complex emotion. Join me for an enlightening conversation on the "You're Probably Right" podcast. #Jealousy #Relationships #Psychology #Therapy #Counseling #Men's Health #Self-Improvement #Communication #Emotions #Mental Health #Self-Esteem #Trauma #Childhood Experiences #Expert Advice #Podcast <br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3494</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bd0964572853ae9631a3d05d748f7981.jpg"/><itunes:season>5</itunes:season><itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Teamwork and Leadership: Unlocking the Keys to Success</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/teamwork-and-leadership-unlocking-the-keys-to-success--61072155</link><description><![CDATA[Join host MCM on You're Probably Right, as he dives into the topic of teamwork and leadership in today's fast-paced and ever-changing workplace. Through engaging interviews with experts and thought leaders, MCM explores the traits and skills that make a great team leader, and the strategies for building and maintaining successful teams. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out in your career, this podcast offers valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to enhance their leadership skills and improve their teamwork abilities. Tune in to You're Probably Right for a thought-provoking conversation on how to unlock the keys to success in today's competitive business landscape. 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Through engaging interviews with experts and thought leaders, MCM explores the traits and skills that make a great team leader, and the strategies for building and maintaining successful teams. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out in your career, this podcast offers valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to enhance their leadership skills and improve their teamwork abilities. Tune in to You're Probably Right for a thought-provoking conversation on how to unlock the keys to success in today's competitive business landscape. 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Tune in as we discuss the impact of intra-racial discrimination, the responsibility of educators to address prejudice within schools, and ways individuals and communities can promote inclusivity and respect for diversity. Don't miss out on the lessons learned from DJ Dosado's personal experiences, and gain valuable advice on how to seek support and advocate for yourself effectively.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bd1505ce-0bfe-4345-8806-cf4457372dcd</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 01:50:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072132/e596099531bfe2271df5e09574f65d4f.mp3" length="42714735" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to "Trauma &amp;amp; Drama Part 3" with your host MCM, featuring the incredible DJ Dosado! In this episode, we'll be diving deep into the effects of mistreatment and discrimination, and exploring how these experiences can shape our sense of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to "Trauma &amp; Drama Part 3" with your host MCM, featuring the incredible DJ Dosado! In this episode, we'll be diving deep into the effects of mistreatment and discrimination, and exploring how these experiences can shape our sense of identity, belonging, and relationship with authority figures. Tune in as we discuss the impact of intra-racial discrimination, the responsibility of educators to address prejudice within schools, and ways individuals and communities can promote inclusivity and respect for diversity. Don't miss out on the lessons learned from DJ Dosado's personal experiences, and gain valuable advice on how to seek support and advocate for yourself effectively.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2670</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/467c2d2d9a29e0a5e5610cbe3f9dd27a.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>100</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Trauma &amp; Drama Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/trauma-drama-part-2--61072157</link><description><![CDATA["Welcome back to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that delves into the issues and experiences that matter most. In this episode, our host MCM continues the conversation on Trauma &amp; Drama with Part 2, focusing on the challenges that black students face in achieving success. From systemic racism to the importance of positive role models, MCM explores the obstacles and opportunities for black students in today's world. Don't miss out on the insightful discussions about education, career aspirations, and the unique perspectives that black students bring to society. Tune in to 'You're Probably Right' and be inspired by the stories of triumph over adversity." Includes Easter egg! 🤣]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a99aad63-52aa-47f9-9101-85077ba910b5</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 03:01:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072157/0cf71647dac4dfc271565dfc7dfbbd24.mp3" length="39725073" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"Welcome back to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that delves into the issues and experiences that matter most. In this episode, our host MCM continues the conversation on Trauma &amp;amp; Drama with Part 2, focusing on the challenges that black...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["Welcome back to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that delves into the issues and experiences that matter most. In this episode, our host MCM continues the conversation on Trauma &amp; Drama with Part 2, focusing on the challenges that black students face in achieving success. From systemic racism to the importance of positive role models, MCM explores the obstacles and opportunities for black students in today's world. Don't miss out on the insightful discussions about education, career aspirations, and the unique perspectives that black students bring to society. Tune in to 'You're Probably Right' and be inspired by the stories of triumph over adversity." Includes Easter egg! 🤣]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2483</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9aaa040c3ddf8064c751754ef79ea164.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Trauma &amp; Drama Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/trauma-drama-part-1--61072118</link><description><![CDATA["Welcome to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that's all about exploring the stories and experiences that shape who we are. In this episode, our host MCM dives deep into the topic of Trauma &amp; Drama Part 1. From childhood struggles to cultural influences, MCM explores the moments and people that have had a lasting impact on our guest's development. Tune in to hear revealing anecdotes, coping mechanisms, and a whole lot of introspection. If you've ever wondered how your past shapes your present, this is the podcast for you. Don't miss out on the insightful and thought-provoking conversations on 'You're Probably Right'.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3291c715-17b3-4ea2-9fc4-0b66e596f40f</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 02:48:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072118/aa51636d167817a69818ed2ca0506a8d.mp3" length="62942288" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"Welcome to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that's all about exploring the stories and experiences that shape who we are. In this episode, our host MCM dives deep into the topic of Trauma &amp;amp; Drama Part 1. From childhood struggles to cultural...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["Welcome to 'You're Probably Right', the podcast that's all about exploring the stories and experiences that shape who we are. In this episode, our host MCM dives deep into the topic of Trauma &amp; Drama Part 1. From childhood struggles to cultural influences, MCM explores the moments and people that have had a lasting impact on our guest's development. Tune in to hear revealing anecdotes, coping mechanisms, and a whole lot of introspection. If you've ever wondered how your past shapes your present, this is the podcast for you. Don't miss out on the insightful and thought-provoking conversations on 'You're Probably Right'.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3934</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dc74bc93edc192205191a7fcfdc7b28f.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>98</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Scars from life, tough questions part 3</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/scars-from-life-tough-questions-part-3--61072137</link><description><![CDATA[3/3 episodes answering questions about the various predicaments I have found myself in because of sin and not being disaplined  How do you currently view your actions regarding cheating on the woman you love?   Have you sought forgiveness and reconciliation with her, and if not, why?  How have you been addressing the root causes of your actions, such as past trauma and struggles with sin?  How have you been working to heal and move forward from the consequences of your actions on your relationship and family?  How do you prioritize the needs and well-being of your children in your life?   In what ways do you strive to model healthy relationships and love for your children and those around you?   How do you approach the concept of love languages and balancing the needs of others with your own needs in relationships?   What role does your faith play in guiding your actions and decisions?   How do you see your past experiences and struggles shaping your current path in life?   What steps are you taking to continue growing and improving as a person and follower of Christ?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9b9c27e6-e529-474e-a6e1-9aeab5fb798a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Mar 2023 22:00:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072137/188b91df263209042116da3fc1f5a7f0.mp3" length="43671444" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>3/3 episodes answering questions about the various predicaments I have found myself in because of sin and not being disaplined  How do you currently view your actions regarding cheating on the woman you love?   Have you sought forgiveness and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[3/3 episodes answering questions about the various predicaments I have found myself in because of sin and not being disaplined  How do you currently view your actions regarding cheating on the woman you love?   Have you sought forgiveness and reconciliation with her, and if not, why?  How have you been addressing the root causes of your actions, such as past trauma and struggles with sin?  How have you been working to heal and move forward from the consequences of your actions on your relationship and family?  How do you prioritize the needs and well-being of your children in your life?   In what ways do you strive to model healthy relationships and love for your children and those around you?   How do you approach the concept of love languages and balancing the needs of others with your own needs in relationships?   What role does your faith play in guiding your actions and decisions?   How do you see your past experiences and struggles shaping your current path in life?   What steps are you taking to continue growing and improving as a person and follower of Christ?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2730</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ca72ae6801828dce0e5ac7728f86f2ed.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Scars from life, tough questions part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/scars-from-life-tough-questions-part-2--61072198</link><description><![CDATA[This episode stays pretty tame  <ol><li>Can you describe the specific "turns" you mentioned that you feel you could have taken differently, and how you believe those choices might have impacted your life?</li><li>How do you feel your past experiences and choices have shaped your identity and sense of self, and how do you reconcile any feelings of regret or disappointment with the person you are today?</li><li>You mentioned your children and other young people in your life. How do you balance the desire to set a positive example for them with the recognition that you are only human and make mistakes like anyone else?</li><li>How do you think we can cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness and reflection in our daily lives, and use that awareness to make more intentional choices about the kind of life we want to lead?</li><li>Looking forward, what steps are you taking to ensure that you are living your life in alignment with your values and priorities, and how do you define success and fulfillment for yourself at this point in your life?</li></ol><br /> Can you describe the emotions you experienced when you cheated on the woman you loved the most? <ol><li>How did your behavior affect the woman you cheated on, and what steps have you taken to make amends?</li><li>What are your thoughts on the importance of fidelity in a relationship?</li><li>How do you define love, and what role does it play in your life?</li><li>Can you discuss your views on sexual expression, and how it has influenced your behavior and relationships?</li><li>What steps have you taken to address the impact of your early exposure to intimate conduct?</li><li>How do you feel about the decisions you've made in your life, and what changes would you make if given the chance?</li><li>How have you approached your role as a father to your children and stepchildren?</li><li>Can you discuss your views on the importance of setting a good example for those around you?</li><li>How do you feel about the possibility that those you've helped raise might have a different perspective on your role in their lives?</li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4f1fcdf5-8e35-43ef-a67f-0573b9b6c2bc</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 02:43:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072198/121d16eb357137e24a01e1fae8748de3.mp3" length="59110438" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode stays pretty tame  
- Can you describe the specific "turns" you mentioned that you feel you could have taken differently, and how you believe those choices might have impacted your life?
- How do you feel your past experiences and choices...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode stays pretty tame  <ol><li>Can you describe the specific "turns" you mentioned that you feel you could have taken differently, and how you believe those choices might have impacted your life?</li><li>How do you feel your past experiences and choices have shaped your identity and sense of self, and how do you reconcile any feelings of regret or disappointment with the person you are today?</li><li>You mentioned your children and other young people in your life. How do you balance the desire to set a positive example for them with the recognition that you are only human and make mistakes like anyone else?</li><li>How do you think we can cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness and reflection in our daily lives, and use that awareness to make more intentional choices about the kind of life we want to lead?</li><li>Looking forward, what steps are you taking to ensure that you are living your life in alignment with your values and priorities, and how do you define success and fulfillment for yourself at this point in your life?</li></ol><br /> Can you describe the emotions you experienced when you cheated on the woman you loved the most? <ol><li>How did your behavior affect the woman you cheated on, and what steps have you taken to make amends?</li><li>What are your thoughts on the importance of fidelity in a relationship?</li><li>How do you define love, and what role does it play in your life?</li><li>Can you discuss your views on sexual expression, and how it has influenced your behavior and relationships?</li><li>What steps have you taken to address the impact of your early exposure to intimate conduct?</li><li>How do you feel about the decisions you've made in your life, and what changes would you make if given the chance?</li><li>How have you approached your role as a father to your children and stepchildren?</li><li>Can you discuss your views on the importance of setting a good example for those around you?</li><li>How do you feel about the possibility that those you've helped raise might have a different perspective on your role in their lives?</li></ol>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3695</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/56d795819e694326d113e92f3ddab683.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>98</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The expiring clock of TiK Tok</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-expiring-clock-of-tik-tok--61072138</link><description><![CDATA[You’re Probably Right Podcast A weekly podcast featuring MCM. <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen NowI want to talk about the recent decision by the Canadian government to ban TikTok from its mobile devices. This move comes just days after federal and provincial privacy commissioners launched an investigation into the social media platform. In a statement from Treasury Board President Mona Fortier, it was announced that the application will be removed from government-issued mobile devices on Tuesday. The decision follows a review by the chief information officer of Canada, who determined that TikTok "presents an unacceptable level of risk to privacy and security." The ban is a precautionary measure that brings Canada's policy in line with international partners. Both the U.S. and the European Union have recently banned government staff from using TikTok on work-issued devices. The video platform has long been embroiled in privacy concerns because the Chinese government has a stake in its owner, ByteDance, and laws allow the country to access user data. This has caused concern among many countries, including Canada. Last week, the federal privacy watchdog and its counterparts in B.C., Alberta and Quebec announced an investigation to delve into whether it complies with Canadian privacy legislation. While the risks of using this application are clear, there is currently no evidence that government information has been compromised. However, this ban comes at a time of heightened geopolitical tensions with China. Earlier this month, the U.S. shot down a Chinese high-altitude balloon that had flown through Canadian airspace, saying it was a suspected spy device. China's government has said it was a weather balloon that went off course. In addition, recent media reports have raised concerns about potential Chinese interference in the last two Canadian federal elections, prompting opposition parties to call for a public inquiry into alleged foreign election interference. Overall, the Canadian government's decision to ban TikTok from its mobile devices is a necessary precautionary measure to protect the privacy and security of its citizens. As technology continues to advance, it is important for governments to take proactive steps to safeguard their citizens' data and information. Thank you for listening.   Government typically refers to the system or body of individuals that have the authority to govern or regulate a particular geographical area or country. This can include the executive, legislative, and judicial branches of government, as well as other government agencies and institutions that work to carry out the policies and laws of the government. The primary function of a government is to provide governance and regulation, maintain law and order, and provide services and resources to its citizens, such as education, healthcare, and infrastructure.  Bible here is what the Bible says about how individuals should treat the government or kings. According to the New Testament in the book of Romans, chapter 13, verses 1-7, individuals should submit to the governing authorities because they have been established by God. This passage emphasizes that those who rebel against the authorities are actually rebelling against God and will face judgment. It's important to note that this passage also teaches that governments have been established to promote good and punish evil. As long as individuals are doing what is right, they should not be afraid of the authorities. Additionally, the passage teaches that individuals should pay taxes and give respect to those in authority. Another example can be found in the Old Testament book of Jeremiah, chapter 29, verse 7. Here, the prophet instructs the Israelites who had been taken into exile in Babylon to seek the welfare of the city and pray for its rulers. This passage emphasizes the importance of respecting and seeking the well-being of those in </a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">65ef45da-914c-4618-a0ea-4a2b9afb7557</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 03:37:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072138/c971be6f53e5ee1c9154e6131cd1d638.mp3" length="26976064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re Probably Right Podcast A weekly podcast featuring MCM. https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re Probably Right Podcast A weekly podcast featuring MCM. <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen NowI want to talk about the recent decision by the Canadian government to ban TikTok from its mobile devices. This move comes just days after federal and provincial privacy commissioners launched an investigation into the social media platform. In a statement from Treasury Board President Mona Fortier, it was announced that the application will be removed from government-issued mobile devices on Tuesday. The decision follows a review by the chief information officer of Canada, who determined that TikTok "presents an unacceptable level of risk to privacy and security." The ban is a precautionary measure that brings Canada's policy in line with international partners. Both the U.S. and the European Union have recently banned government staff from using TikTok on work-issued devices. The video platform has long been embroiled in privacy concerns because the Chinese government has a stake in its owner, ByteDance, and laws allow the country to access user data. This has caused concern among many countries, including Canada. Last week, the federal privacy watchdog and its counterparts in B.C., Alberta and Quebec announced an investigation to delve into whether it complies with Canadian privacy legislation. While the risks of using this application are clear, there is currently no evidence that government information has been compromised. However, this ban comes at a time of heightened geopolitical tensions with China. Earlier this month, the U.S. shot down a Chinese high-altitude balloon that had flown through Canadian airspace, saying it was a suspected spy device. China's government has said it was a weather balloon that went off course. In addition, recent media reports have raised concerns about potential Chinese interference in the last two Canadian federal elections, prompting opposition parties to call for a public inquiry into alleged foreign election interference. Overall, the Canadian government's decision to ban TikTok from its mobile devices is a necessary precautionary measure to protect the privacy and security of its citizens. As technology continues to advance, it is important for governments to take proactive steps to safeguard their citizens' data and information. Thank you for listening.   Government typically refers to the system or body of individuals that have the authority to govern or regulate a particular geographical area or country. This can include the executive, legislative, and judicial branches of government, as well as other government agencies and institutions that work to carry out the policies and laws of the government. The primary function of a government is to provide governance and regulation, maintain law and order, and provide services and resources to its citizens, such as education, healthcare, and infrastructure.  Bible here is what the Bible says about how individuals should treat the government or kings. According to the New Testament in the book of Romans, chapter 13, verses 1-7, individuals should submit to the governing authorities because they have been established by God. This passage emphasizes that those who rebel against the authorities are actually rebelling against God and will face judgment. It's important to note that this passage also teaches that governments have been established to promote good and punish evil. As long as individuals are doing what is right, they should not be afraid of the authorities. Additionally, the passage teaches that individuals should pay taxes and give respect to those in authority. Another example can be found in the Old Testament book of Jeremiah, chapter 29, verse 7. Here, the prophet instructs the Israelites who had been taken into exile in Babylon to seek the welfare of the city and pray for its rulers. This passage emphasizes the importance of respecting and seeking...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1686</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3e72fa583d884889fdac8bce78b9b2a5.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Scars from life, tough questions part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/scars-from-life-tough-questions-part-1--61072186</link><description><![CDATA[listerner #1 you mentioned that you don't own any property at 50 years old. What are your thoughts on the traditional American dream of homeownership, and how has your perspective on this changed throughout your life? <ol><li>You have three children, two boys, and one girl. How has being a parent impacted your life, and what are some of the most important lessons you've learned from raising your children?</li><li>You mentioned that your only vehicle was pretty much given to you. How has your relationship with material possessions evolved over the years, and what do you think is the key to finding contentment and happiness without relying on material possessions?</li><li>You've experienced life without owning property or having a lot of material possessions. What advice would you give to someone who is struggling financially and feels trapped by their circumstances?</li><li>What are your goals and aspirations for the future, and how do you plan on achieving them? How has your past experiences shaped your vision for the future?</li></ol> listerner #2 <ol><li>Can you walk me through the circumstances that led to you cheating on the woman you loved the most? What was going through your mind at the time, and what do you think caused you to make that decision?</li><li>How did you react when your ex-partner moved on from you in every way possible? How did this experience impact you, and what did you learn from it?</li><li>You mentioned that you struggled to accept the end of your relationship. How did you eventually come to terms with it, and what advice would you give to someone who is struggling to move on from a difficult breakup?</li><li>You mentioned that having multiple partners is possible, but the question is whether they are right for you. Can you expand on what you mean by this, and how do you determine whether someone is a good fit for you in a relationship?</li><li>What have you done to work on yourself and become a better partner since the end of your previous relationship? How have you grown and changed as a person, and what do you think are the most important qualities for a successful and fulfilling relationship?</li></ol><br /> listerner #3 1.  Can you explain what you mean by love languages and how they factor into relationships? How do you determine your own love language, and how do you identify your partner's love language? 2.  You mentioned the question of whether we should be catering to two other people's love languages or if they should be accepting the way we show love. What is your personal perspective on this issue, and how do you navigate the different love languages in your own relationships? 3.  How do you handle situations where your partner's love language is different from your own? How do you compromise and meet each other's needs in a way that feels fulfilling for both parties? 4.  You mentioned the importance of the person who is giving love. Can you expand on this idea and how it relates to building healthy and fulfilling relationships? 5.  What advice would you give to someone who is struggling to communicate effectively with their partner and meet their needs in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling? How can we learn to better understand and express our own love languages, while also learning to appreciate and accept our partner's love language? <br /> listerner #4]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">97df7914-70cf-4f46-8694-d4f602a3faf8</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Feb 2023 05:56:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072186/c88c025b5a95b48d6080507f5aa5b332.mp3" length="76197445" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>listerner #1 you mentioned that you don't own any property at 50 years old. What are your thoughts on the traditional American dream of homeownership, and how has your perspective on this changed throughout your life? 
- You have three children, two...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[listerner #1 you mentioned that you don't own any property at 50 years old. What are your thoughts on the traditional American dream of homeownership, and how has your perspective on this changed throughout your life? <ol><li>You have three children, two boys, and one girl. How has being a parent impacted your life, and what are some of the most important lessons you've learned from raising your children?</li><li>You mentioned that your only vehicle was pretty much given to you. How has your relationship with material possessions evolved over the years, and what do you think is the key to finding contentment and happiness without relying on material possessions?</li><li>You've experienced life without owning property or having a lot of material possessions. What advice would you give to someone who is struggling financially and feels trapped by their circumstances?</li><li>What are your goals and aspirations for the future, and how do you plan on achieving them? How has your past experiences shaped your vision for the future?</li></ol> listerner #2 <ol><li>Can you walk me through the circumstances that led to you cheating on the woman you loved the most? What was going through your mind at the time, and what do you think caused you to make that decision?</li><li>How did you react when your ex-partner moved on from you in every way possible? How did this experience impact you, and what did you learn from it?</li><li>You mentioned that you struggled to accept the end of your relationship. How did you eventually come to terms with it, and what advice would you give to someone who is struggling to move on from a difficult breakup?</li><li>You mentioned that having multiple partners is possible, but the question is whether they are right for you. Can you expand on what you mean by this, and how do you determine whether someone is a good fit for you in a relationship?</li><li>What have you done to work on yourself and become a better partner since the end of your previous relationship? How have you grown and changed as a person, and what do you think are the most important qualities for a successful and fulfilling relationship?</li></ol><br /> listerner #3 1.  Can you explain what you mean by love languages and how they factor into relationships? How do you determine your own love language, and how do you identify your partner's love language? 2.  You mentioned the question of whether we should be catering to two other people's love languages or if they should be accepting the way we show love. What is your personal perspective on this issue, and how do you navigate the different love languages in your own relationships? 3.  How do you handle situations where your partner's love language is different from your own? How do you compromise and meet each other's needs in a way that feels fulfilling for both parties? 4.  You mentioned the importance of the person who is giving love. Can you expand on this idea and how it relates to building healthy and fulfilling relationships? 5.  What advice would you give to someone who is struggling to communicate effectively with their partner and meet their needs in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling? How can we learn to better understand and express our own love languages, while also learning to appreciate and accept our partner's love language? <br /> listerner #4]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4763</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/17d059bce4ddac41b88ffbbd61b2bbda.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>95</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Are you actually a Christian?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-actually-a-christian--61072178</link><description><![CDATA[Summary In this episode of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, the host MCM discusses the difference between being a Christian and not being a Christian, using teachings from the Holy Bible, King James version. The host emphasizes that since the beginning of time, Satan has been trying to pollute and mix with God's people, leading to confusion about who is a true Christian, from the grassroots to the top. To identify a true Christian, the host stresses the importance of understanding the doctrine of deliverance, which results in a dramatic change in personal life and behavior. The host believes that the only hope for the church is discriminating and discerning preaching, which can counteract the decline in English-speaking churches during the twentieth century. Welcome to the podcast, folks! Today, we are going to talk about a very important topic - the difference between being a Christian and not being a Christian. We will dive deep into this topic by exploring some teachings from the Holy Bible, King James version.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c0d7f2a0-2452-494c-ad0e-a287c55944a5</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2023 03:25:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072178/a5b23d43d4aa09412bba897e1053423f.mp3" length="24708218" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Summary In this episode of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, the host MCM discusses the difference between being a Christian and not being a Christian, using teachings from the Holy Bible, King James version. The host emphasizes that since the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Summary In this episode of the "You're Probably Right" podcast, the host MCM discusses the difference between being a Christian and not being a Christian, using teachings from the Holy Bible, King James version. The host emphasizes that since the beginning of time, Satan has been trying to pollute and mix with God's people, leading to confusion about who is a true Christian, from the grassroots to the top. To identify a true Christian, the host stresses the importance of understanding the doctrine of deliverance, which results in a dramatic change in personal life and behavior. The host believes that the only hope for the church is discriminating and discerning preaching, which can counteract the decline in English-speaking churches during the twentieth century. Welcome to the podcast, folks! Today, we are going to talk about a very important topic - the difference between being a Christian and not being a Christian. We will dive deep into this topic by exploring some teachings from the Holy Bible, King James version.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1545</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/37eb51f2848142c18867f46df93ffa96.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>94</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What you wont do for love Rambling uncensored thoughts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-you-wont-do-for-love-rambling-uncensored-thoughts--61072182</link><description><![CDATA[When it comes to love, people can do all sorts of things, from grand romantic gestures to simple acts of kindness. Some might write love letters, serenade their beloved, or plan a surprise romantic getaway. Others might make sacrifices, put their own needs aside, or lend a supportive ear during tough times. In the end, what one might do for love depends on the individual and the relationship, but it's safe to say that love can inspire people to do things they never thought possible. Love is a powerful force that can bring people together, but sometimes, it can also tear them apart. Even with the best intentions, relationships can fall apart, and love can turn sour. Perhaps one partner is unable to meet the other's expectations, or misunderstandings and miscommunications lead to hurt feelings and resentment. Maybe one partner sacrifices too much for the other, leading to feelings of imbalance or resentment. Whatever the cause, it's important to remember that love isn't always enough to sustain a relationship, and even the best intentions can lead to heartbreak. While the end of every love story may not necessarily end in despair, it's true that the finality of life's time limits can cast a shadow over even the happiest and most loving of marriages. No matter how perfect a relationship may seem, the reality is that all good things must come to an end, and that includes our time on this earth. The knowledge that one day we will have to say goodbye to the ones we love can be a heavy burden to bear, and it can make us appreciate our time with them all the more. However, it's also important to remember that the time we have with our loved ones is precious, and we should cherish it as much as possible, even in the face of life's inevitable end. Ultimately, the fact that our time on earth is limited can be a reminder to make the most of every moment we have with the ones we love.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b43670f8-fe02-408e-ac47-0dfb4acff5cb</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 02:50:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072182/5fce1d31222e2698f1dd9f56a99b95db.mp3" length="36156120" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When it comes to love, people can do all sorts of things, from grand romantic gestures to simple acts of kindness. Some might write love letters, serenade their beloved, or plan a surprise romantic getaway. Others might make sacrifices, put their own...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When it comes to love, people can do all sorts of things, from grand romantic gestures to simple acts of kindness. Some might write love letters, serenade their beloved, or plan a surprise romantic getaway. Others might make sacrifices, put their own needs aside, or lend a supportive ear during tough times. In the end, what one might do for love depends on the individual and the relationship, but it's safe to say that love can inspire people to do things they never thought possible. Love is a powerful force that can bring people together, but sometimes, it can also tear them apart. Even with the best intentions, relationships can fall apart, and love can turn sour. Perhaps one partner is unable to meet the other's expectations, or misunderstandings and miscommunications lead to hurt feelings and resentment. Maybe one partner sacrifices too much for the other, leading to feelings of imbalance or resentment. Whatever the cause, it's important to remember that love isn't always enough to sustain a relationship, and even the best intentions can lead to heartbreak. While the end of every love story may not necessarily end in despair, it's true that the finality of life's time limits can cast a shadow over even the happiest and most loving of marriages. No matter how perfect a relationship may seem, the reality is that all good things must come to an end, and that includes our time on this earth. The knowledge that one day we will have to say goodbye to the ones we love can be a heavy burden to bear, and it can make us appreciate our time with them all the more. However, it's also important to remember that the time we have with our loved ones is precious, and we should cherish it as much as possible, even in the face of life's inevitable end. Ultimately, the fact that our time on earth is limited can be a reminder to make the most of every moment we have with the ones we love.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2260</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6fc0ab69e80bbd5c05badde4f77e6e0b.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>92</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You will bow at some point</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-will-bow-at-some-point--61072160</link><description><![CDATA[the Narrative of respecting all cultures and religions has just resulted in every culture and religion except for one, being respected. Its getting harder and harder not to say anything. people regularly shout the name of Jesus as a swear word when something objectionable happens but if you replace His name with something or someone they hold dear to their hearts they would in many cases want to cut your head off.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ffc6cf2f-0367-4df7-ab4e-ef5916b98e86</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2023 04:21:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072160/d86c137f388c0277e793904c2d97de0e.mp3" length="46441677" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>the Narrative of respecting all cultures and religions has just resulted in every culture and religion except for one, being respected. Its getting harder and harder not to say anything. people regularly shout the name of Jesus as a swear word when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[the Narrative of respecting all cultures and religions has just resulted in every culture and religion except for one, being respected. Its getting harder and harder not to say anything. people regularly shout the name of Jesus as a swear word when something objectionable happens but if you replace His name with something or someone they hold dear to their hearts they would in many cases want to cut your head off.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2903</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/beb45b749492daf8928768f3bbb1580c.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>91</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don't episode</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-episode--61072143</link><description><![CDATA[not sure if this episode will be banned or at least shadow band for saying a word that should not be spoken in mixed company. never the less this Episode had to be produced please drop us a line, and let us know how are podcast is doing or you can leave a message at our complaint department. the number is...]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e52eb133-239a-4bc1-9a4d-d3bc303c7acf</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2023 01:54:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072143/2956e2cdc6767f4118b5dcc7dae0dc64.mp3" length="49627362" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>not sure if this episode will be banned or at least shadow band for saying a word that should not be spoken in mixed company. never the less this Episode had to be produced please drop us a line, and let us know how are podcast is doing or you can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[not sure if this episode will be banned or at least shadow band for saying a word that should not be spoken in mixed company. never the less this Episode had to be produced please drop us a line, and let us know how are podcast is doing or you can leave a message at our complaint department. the number is...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3102</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c286a61052accb3e3a84708ed4b5a58c.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>90</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Guide me</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/guide-me--61072129</link><description><![CDATA[This feels like my last episode. I ask the Lord God for Guidance it seems like the end and beginning. for cooperation on a new podcast or for me to be a guest on yours. you can email mcm@live.ca]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3eb22727-7625-4edd-83e9-9809121c6673</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2023 02:29:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072129/f60ece15e3b9f599a2b01c8de9ac9c44.mp3" length="40871117" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This feels like my last episode. I ask the Lord God for Guidance it seems like the end and beginning. for cooperation on a new podcast or for me to be a guest on yours. you can email mcm@live.ca</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This feels like my last episode. I ask the Lord God for Guidance it seems like the end and beginning. for cooperation on a new podcast or for me to be a guest on yours. you can email mcm@live.ca]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2555</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/352553609e7e0f663ead837624a147b7.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>89</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How will your Candle go out?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-will-your-candle-go-out--61072135</link><description><![CDATA[what will your condition be when you die? do you trust in higher learning cred, street cred, or financial cred? what do you value? where will you spend your eternity? Will anybody care? come join me on one of my slightly off-beat episodes ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2c77a77b-ea0c-4148-a239-d06e16b4838c</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2023 03:20:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072135/17215504bf1c58efb5f6ad8e2ed3c083.mp3" length="46804466" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>what will your condition be when you die? do you trust in higher learning cred, street cred, or financial cred? what do you value? where will you spend your eternity? Will anybody care? come join me on one of my slightly off-beat episodes </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[what will your condition be when you die? do you trust in higher learning cred, street cred, or financial cred? what do you value? where will you spend your eternity? Will anybody care? come join me on one of my slightly off-beat episodes ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2926</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/00fcbcea6db9f4d1596e52897c11e067.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>88</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What to do with toxic people</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-to-do-with-toxic-people--61072146</link><description><![CDATA[Toxic Relationships - don't try to read this, there is no punctuation...... I wanted to wait now it's good I wanted to talk about something but I'm toxic workplaces let's start off with that you know people keep talking about this anti black racism mandate or mandie initiative in general and we keep talking about what we can do for children and what we can do for the youth and the children are the future and we want them to grow up in a world where there free to be themselves and we want choice for the children not only the parents and speaking as if the parents have had all this choice you know speaking as a parent it really really annoys me because what people don't realize is that in supporting some of these things you're overstepping the parents you never considered the parents and what I'm talking bout the parents though obviously parents who have maybe one really good income or two fairly good income homes with a babysitter or at nanny or grandparent watching the kids while you go to work and they do a little fund raising maybe they're on the board for the school and all that stuff maybe those people represented in schools and their ideas and their ideologies are pushed through along with the mandates that the board and the government sees fit but who I'm thinking of are the people who were schlepping along working their tails off maybe at two jobs sometimes a one parent home and they're not financially stable and barely have time to even uncross their eyes and doctor tease when they get home those people the people that meet their kids at home 2 hours after their kids have already been home or the ones that say hi and bye and go off to their second job referance https://www.heysigmund.com/toxic-people/comment-page-15/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ed0be0ed-e045-4823-8730-d9c5ce1724f8</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2022 22:52:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072146/224044157cdb229beaa3ae6091229e96.mp3" length="70127842" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Toxic Relationships - don't try to read this, there is no punctuation...... I wanted to wait now it's good I wanted to talk about something but I'm toxic workplaces let's start off with that you know people keep talking about this anti black racism...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Toxic Relationships - don't try to read this, there is no punctuation...... I wanted to wait now it's good I wanted to talk about something but I'm toxic workplaces let's start off with that you know people keep talking about this anti black racism mandate or mandie initiative in general and we keep talking about what we can do for children and what we can do for the youth and the children are the future and we want them to grow up in a world where there free to be themselves and we want choice for the children not only the parents and speaking as if the parents have had all this choice you know speaking as a parent it really really annoys me because what people don't realize is that in supporting some of these things you're overstepping the parents you never considered the parents and what I'm talking bout the parents though obviously parents who have maybe one really good income or two fairly good income homes with a babysitter or at nanny or grandparent watching the kids while you go to work and they do a little fund raising maybe they're on the board for the school and all that stuff maybe those people represented in schools and their ideas and their ideologies are pushed through along with the mandates that the board and the government sees fit but who I'm thinking of are the people who were schlepping along working their tails off maybe at two jobs sometimes a one parent home and they're not financially stable and barely have time to even uncross their eyes and doctor tease when they get home those people the people that meet their kids at home 2 hours after their kids have already been home or the ones that say hi and bye and go off to their second job referance https://www.heysigmund.com/toxic-people/comment-page-15/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4383</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c8927c69fd7934b4e28599be2b277015.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>78</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You are what you are doing, the ever-changing you. (Throwback)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-are-what-you-are-doing-the-ever-changing-you-throwback--61072196</link><description><![CDATA[We’ve all red, or have heard statements like: “The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this production are fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, and products is intended or should be inferred.”  The only thing is that it’s very difficult when it comes to a doc you podcast type of scenario.  Also, are we what we do or are we what we have credentials to prove that we are? We are what we do and not just what we say we are, nor what a piece of paper says we have the credentials to act out . If you have been doing it then you do it. Whether you are very good at it as a whole other question, and is certainly up for debate]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">05b047bd-aa9d-4609-9dfa-4684b740dc3a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2022 08:01:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072196/5ac37645fcba87cd538e3c7e4a64f9bf.mp3" length="55407320" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’ve all red, or have heard statements like: “The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this production are fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, and products is intended or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve all red, or have heard statements like: “The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this production are fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, and products is intended or should be inferred.”  The only thing is that it’s very difficult when it comes to a doc you podcast type of scenario.  Also, are we what we do or are we what we have credentials to prove that we are? We are what we do and not just what we say we are, nor what a piece of paper says we have the credentials to act out . If you have been doing it then you do it. Whether you are very good at it as a whole other question, and is certainly up for debate]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3463</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fbb0bcb72fe90c4df160dc2d5d990a80.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>88</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Contentment when life tells you to kick Rocks!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/contentment-when-life-tells-you-to-kick-rocks--61072171</link><description><![CDATA[In this life, the natural joy that the world offers is not promised nor even if it rares its elusive head will it last long. You may have to toil long and hard and your end may not be good. so be good or learn about he who is good better yet because eternity is not here yet but it will be the day you die.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ee32f50a-6b7c-4f56-a382-0da694aa884c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2022 02:03:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072171/e0e1488804797884f811e8dc4916263b.mp3" length="58816195" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this life, the natural joy that the world offers is not promised nor even if it rares its elusive head will it last long. You may have to toil long and hard and your end may not be good. so be good or learn about he who is good better yet because...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this life, the natural joy that the world offers is not promised nor even if it rares its elusive head will it last long. You may have to toil long and hard and your end may not be good. so be good or learn about he who is good better yet because eternity is not here yet but it will be the day you die.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3676</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/580ade7815c20058e1c9646ba7ccff7f.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>87</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>power under control (Meekness)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/power-under-control-meekness--61072158</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I read a teaching by Pastor John MacArthur. one that has made a huge impact on me.  The Lowly Walk.                        http://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/1923  Some people will say to me, “You know, that’s really wonderful, and appreciate that message. It’s so ministered to me.” And as soon as they walk by, another person will come up and say, “Did you feel poorly today?” “You didn’t seem like you were yourself. It just – something was missing.” You know? You just really don’t know. And so, it kind of tends to cancel itself out. But it was interesting to me; the last couple of weeks I realized that I haven’t been going very fast. In fact, we’ve been in the first couple of verses here for weeks, and it’s amazing. But it’s interesting to see the response. Last week I intended to preach the message that I’ll go ahead and preach this morning, if I get done with this introduction. But I didn’t. I just digressed, and I just kind of shared my heart. And I’ve done that now three or four times since I was away in Brazil, and even before that, God was doing some things in my own heart. And it’s been interesting, because some people will write me. And I got a wonderful letter. I picked one up even in my little box this morning. It said, “Thank you so much for stopping in the midst of this to share the things that are on your heart and make it practical. God has really ministered to me.”]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ee1dc165-74b7-4776-ac7b-a962eec38a05</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2022 03:54:28 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072158/4bc1f1b31e972c0b6a6a29401967380b.mp3" length="100875845" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I read a teaching by Pastor John MacArthur. one that has made a huge impact on me.  The Lowly Walk.                        http://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/1923  Some people will say to me, “You know, that’s really...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I read a teaching by Pastor John MacArthur. one that has made a huge impact on me.  The Lowly Walk.                        http://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/1923  Some people will say to me, “You know, that’s really wonderful, and appreciate that message. It’s so ministered to me.” And as soon as they walk by, another person will come up and say, “Did you feel poorly today?” “You didn’t seem like you were yourself. It just – something was missing.” You know? You just really don’t know. And so, it kind of tends to cancel itself out. But it was interesting to me; the last couple of weeks I realized that I haven’t been going very fast. In fact, we’ve been in the first couple of verses here for weeks, and it’s amazing. But it’s interesting to see the response. Last week I intended to preach the message that I’ll go ahead and preach this morning, if I get done with this introduction. But I didn’t. I just digressed, and I just kind of shared my heart. And I’ve done that now three or four times since I was away in Brazil, and even before that, God was doing some things in my own heart. And it’s been interesting, because some people will write me. And I got a wonderful letter. I picked one up even in my little box this morning. It said, “Thank you so much for stopping in the midst of this to share the things that are on your heart and make it practical. God has really ministered to me.”]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6305</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/28c685d00b228dd92e4c0c0e57b32a84.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What you value holds your behaviour</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-you-value-holds-your-behaviour--61072149</link><description><![CDATA[relationships and why you should jump into the deep end of your Christian Marriage and immerse yourself. stay out of the Shallow end is my advice. In a cold pool you are even colder in the shallow end, listen up you will understand.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5ad9ab1d-db20-4229-82db-b7a8df3abec9</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2022 02:41:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072149/f83ecee78c3be6345559b09a70eaf885.mp3" length="54918725" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>relationships and why you should jump into the deep end of your Christian Marriage and immerse yourself. stay out of the Shallow end is my advice. In a cold pool you are even colder in the shallow end, listen up you will understand.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[relationships and why you should jump into the deep end of your Christian Marriage and immerse yourself. stay out of the Shallow end is my advice. In a cold pool you are even colder in the shallow end, listen up you will understand.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3433</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bf1ff394093e1b14200eddafe16c4c78.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>There is enough trouble today so don't try fixing the future ones</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/there-is-enough-trouble-today-so-don-t-try-fixing-the-future-ones--61072193</link><description><![CDATA[Matthew 6:25-34New International Version Do Not Worry 25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life[a]? 28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.     Call first thing in the morning or call in the middle of the night?  Board games or video games?  Photos or videos?  Social media message or text message?   Take a friend on your family vacation or join a friend on their family vacation?   Group hangout or one-on-one hangout?   French fries or onion rings?   Share food or don’t share food?   Give a ride or hitch a ride?   Paypal or Venmo?   Instagram or Twitter?   Shopping online or shopping in-store?   Tattoos or piercings?   Store-bought or homemade?   Plans or surprises?   Pizza or Chinese food?   Books or movies?   Roller coasters or water slides?   Souvenirs or postcards?   Letter or emails?   Android or iPhone?   Brand name or generic?   Bargain or top-shelf?   Loud or quiet?   Protagonist or sidekick?   Girlfriends or guy friends?   Animals or people?   Weekends or holidays?   Day or night?   Watch sports or play sports?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fdb2ca57-ea47-459c-a31d-8939d0b59822</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2022 02:27:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072193/ca992adae5f0c5c8af5ea94dd88be350.mp3" length="54643290" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Matthew 6:25-34New International Version Do Not Worry 25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Matthew 6:25-34New International Version Do Not Worry 25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life[a]? 28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.     Call first thing in the morning or call in the middle of the night?  Board games or video games?  Photos or videos?  Social media message or text message?   Take a friend on your family vacation or join a friend on their family vacation?   Group hangout or one-on-one hangout?   French fries or onion rings?   Share food or don’t share food?   Give a ride or hitch a ride?   Paypal or Venmo?   Instagram or Twitter?   Shopping online or shopping in-store?   Tattoos or piercings?   Store-bought or homemade?   Plans or surprises?   Pizza or Chinese food?   Books or movies?   Roller coasters or water slides?   Souvenirs or postcards?   Letter or emails?   Android or iPhone?   Brand name or generic?   Bargain or top-shelf?   Loud or quiet?   Protagonist or sidekick?   Girlfriends or guy friends?   Animals or people?   Weekends or holidays?   Day or night?   Watch sports or play sports?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3416</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dbe3082d90ba8c2e429cfdb87c5d6bbb.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>84</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>6 reasons why big group meetings can be less effective than small ones</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-reasons-why-big-group-meetings-can-be-less-effective-than-small-ones--61072148</link><description><![CDATA[1) Avoid large meetings Large meetings waste valuable time &amp; energy - They discourage debate - People are more guarded than open - There's not enough time for everyone to contribute Don't schedule large meetings unless you're certain they provide value to everyone  2) Leave a meeting if you're not contributing If a meeting doesn't require your: - Input - Value - Decisions Your presence is useless. It's not rude to leave a meeting. But it's rude to waste people's time.  Forget the chain of command Communicate with colleagues directly. Not through supervisors or managers. Fast communicators make fast decisions. Fast decisions = competitive advantage.  4) Be clear, not clever Avoid nonsense words and technical jargon. It slows down communication. Choose words that are: - Concise - To the point - Easy to understand Don't sound smart. Be efficient.  5) Ditch frequent meetings There's no better way to waste everyone's time. Use meetings to: - Collaborate - Attack issues head-on - Solve urgent problems But once you resolve the issue, frequent meetings are no longer necessary.  You can resolve most issues without a meeting Instead of meetings: - Send a text - Send an email - Communicate on a discord or slack channel Don "† interrupt your team 's workflow if it's unnecessary.    6) Use common sense If a company rule doesn't: - Make sense - Contribute to progress - Apply to your specific situation Avoid following the rule with your eyes closed. Don't follow rules. Follow principles.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">48c0b27d-f40d-45ed-b0cd-b9316c8f4c5c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2022 02:22:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072148/5f5ac8420e7741ca9722104b5ee2993b.mp3" length="31276864" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>1) Avoid large meetings Large meetings waste valuable time &amp;amp; energy - They discourage debate - People are more guarded than open - There's not enough time for everyone to contribute Don't schedule large meetings unless you're certain they provide...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[1) Avoid large meetings Large meetings waste valuable time &amp; energy - They discourage debate - People are more guarded than open - There's not enough time for everyone to contribute Don't schedule large meetings unless you're certain they provide value to everyone  2) Leave a meeting if you're not contributing If a meeting doesn't require your: - Input - Value - Decisions Your presence is useless. It's not rude to leave a meeting. But it's rude to waste people's time.  Forget the chain of command Communicate with colleagues directly. Not through supervisors or managers. Fast communicators make fast decisions. Fast decisions = competitive advantage.  4) Be clear, not clever Avoid nonsense words and technical jargon. It slows down communication. Choose words that are: - Concise - To the point - Easy to understand Don't sound smart. Be efficient.  5) Ditch frequent meetings There's no better way to waste everyone's time. Use meetings to: - Collaborate - Attack issues head-on - Solve urgent problems But once you resolve the issue, frequent meetings are no longer necessary.  You can resolve most issues without a meeting Instead of meetings: - Send a text - Send an email - Communicate on a discord or slack channel Don "† interrupt your team 's workflow if it's unnecessary.    6) Use common sense If a company rule doesn't: - Make sense - Contribute to progress - Apply to your specific situation Avoid following the rule with your eyes closed. Don't follow rules. Follow principles.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1955</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e461ddaebc93e6a2c1179c77bc345e3d.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Have you been made fun of because of your position in life or lack thereof Luke Chapter 12:13-21</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/have-you-been-made-fun-of-because-of-your-position-in-life-or-lack-thereof-luke-chapter-12-13-21--61072147</link><description><![CDATA[are you satisfied?  Do you have enough or do you need a wittle bit mowa? have you been made fun of because of your position in life for lack thereof? Listen up   13 And one of the company said unto him, Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me. 14 And he said unto him, Man, who made me a judge or a divider over you? 15 And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. 16 And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully: 17 And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits? 18 And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. 20 But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? 21 So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f7d87d62-77a2-426d-81a0-1e5719616b21</guid><pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2022 13:28:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072147/68309208aa3c1300c98bee4f5e5ce6b3.mp3" length="30621504" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>are you satisfied?  Do you have enough or do you need a wittle bit mowa? have you been made fun of because of your position in life for lack thereof? Listen up   13 And one of the company said unto him, Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[are you satisfied?  Do you have enough or do you need a wittle bit mowa? have you been made fun of because of your position in life for lack thereof? Listen up   13 And one of the company said unto him, Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me. 14 And he said unto him, Man, who made me a judge or a divider over you? 15 And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. 16 And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully: 17 And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits? 18 And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. 20 But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? 21 So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1914</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/37c1cb83018675a68b03962f26777489.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>83</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Being “Spiritual” is not good enough</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-spiritual-is-not-good-enough--61072197</link><description><![CDATA[life is nothing but a fleeting thing. it will be all over soon enough, so live well. How?  Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord. If it real it’s that simple the red is in the “Holy Bible” find A Bible believing church that understands the inerrancy of Scripture not one that is based on Christian rock concerts falling down and getting more money getting more Blessings. You cannot add to your justification your justification is in Christ alone, through faith alone.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4b3151e0-f81d-4585-bc03-9198fe8f8aab</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2022 09:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072197/02a28434d2d7ac6ebd5136c3e9a7adc0.mp3" length="52484949" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>life is nothing but a fleeting thing. it will be all over soon enough, so live well. How?  Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord. If it real it’s that simple the red is in the “Holy Bible” find A Bible believing church...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[life is nothing but a fleeting thing. it will be all over soon enough, so live well. How?  Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord. If it real it’s that simple the red is in the “Holy Bible” find A Bible believing church that understands the inerrancy of Scripture not one that is based on Christian rock concerts falling down and getting more money getting more Blessings. You cannot add to your justification your justification is in Christ alone, through faith alone.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3281</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/582e4f4c95cf2b5b89c22b44ae9029e7.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>This or That part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-or-that-part-2--61072192</link><description><![CDATA[Vacation or staycation?  Netflix or Hulu?  Night or morning?  Rich and famous or rich and unknown?  Passenger or driver?  Art museum or history museum?   Car or bike?   Train or airplane?   Owe money or owe a favor?   Coffee or tea?   Be embarrassed or be afraid?   City or countryside?   Smartphone or tablet?   Wine or Beer?   Camping or glamping?  https://teambuilding.com/blog/this-or-that-questions]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ec92188a-b8db-451b-87bd-d3b51aef4035</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2022 01:09:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072192/969894399d7d374f1910793aea650259.mp3" length="43587852" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Vacation or staycation?  Netflix or Hulu?  Night or morning?  Rich and famous or rich and unknown?  Passenger or driver?  Art museum or history museum?   Car or bike?   Train or airplane?   Owe money or owe a favor?   Coffee or tea?   Be embarrassed...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Vacation or staycation?  Netflix or Hulu?  Night or morning?  Rich and famous or rich and unknown?  Passenger or driver?  Art museum or history museum?   Car or bike?   Train or airplane?   Owe money or owe a favor?   Coffee or tea?   Be embarrassed or be afraid?   City or countryside?   Smartphone or tablet?   Wine or Beer?   Camping or glamping?  https://teambuilding.com/blog/this-or-that-questions]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2725</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/26fa57946176fe85ad74ad0dc224529a.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>this or that Part 1 Ft. Mars Bar</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-or-that-part-1-ft-mars-bar--61072195</link><description><![CDATA[<ol><li>Bad haircut or bad dye job?</li><li>Pineapple pizza or candy corn?</li><li>Talking pets or talking babies?</li><li>Winning the lottery or finding your soulmate?</li><li>Misquoted movies or mistaken lyrics?</li><li>Test the waters or dive in the deep end?</li><li>Glass half full or glass half empty?</li><li>Ketchup or ranch?</li><li>Phone in the bathroom or no phone in the bathroom?</li><li>Sort by price or by rating?</li><li><br /></li><li>Guacamole or salsa?</li><li>Boxers or briefs?</li><li>Does fainting or spit take?</li><li>Speeding ticket or parking ticket?</li><li>Comedian in a serious film or a serious actor in a comedy film?</li><li>Silly hats or silly socks?</li><li>Is Instagram famous or infomercials famous?</li><li><br /></li></ol>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3ee53a36-6310-4709-ab2b-e2b7e9b0de0c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2022 03:05:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072195/f181c1999b44f2ea7a4a7c0174f225d2.mp3" length="53268623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>
- Bad haircut or bad dye job?
- Pineapple pizza or candy corn?
- Talking pets or talking babies?
- Winning the lottery or finding your soulmate?
- Misquoted movies or mistaken lyrics?
- Test the waters or dive in the deep end?
- Glass half full or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<ol><li>Bad haircut or bad dye job?</li><li>Pineapple pizza or candy corn?</li><li>Talking pets or talking babies?</li><li>Winning the lottery or finding your soulmate?</li><li>Misquoted movies or mistaken lyrics?</li><li>Test the waters or dive in the deep end?</li><li>Glass half full or glass half empty?</li><li>Ketchup or ranch?</li><li>Phone in the bathroom or no phone in the bathroom?</li><li>Sort by price or by rating?</li><li><br /></li><li>Guacamole or salsa?</li><li>Boxers or briefs?</li><li>Does fainting or spit take?</li><li>Speeding ticket or parking ticket?</li><li>Comedian in a serious film or a serious actor in a comedy film?</li><li>Silly hats or silly socks?</li><li>Is Instagram famous or infomercials famous?</li><li><br /></li></ol>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3330</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ad76fcd4df16243da87e739867469023.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>84</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How I messed up my Marriage with the love of my life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-i-messed-up-my-marriage-with-the-love-of-my-life--61072169</link><description><![CDATA[speaking about marriage, and how I screwed it up]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">983ae5a4-efc0-4670-8c06-494c24b0f6b0</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2022 01:48:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072169/55ec276eeffa7a5ad0c5195ece901038.mp3" length="37045119" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>speaking about marriage, and how I screwed it up</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[speaking about marriage, and how I screwed it up]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2316</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e93505c2cbdf7a74db17183999ff9222.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Put your money where your people are</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/put-your-money-where-your-people-are--61072194</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I speak about the types of education that are needed in the inner city and how a school in London Michaela school making a difference. Also, I speak about free thinking and free speech and how the lack of it is disturbing society. lastly, I touch on the disparity in how entertainers, athletes, and rich people from the black community or African diaspora spend their money outside and away from the black community.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e80de7a3-2e94-4706-a504-34b340abb9f5</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2022 02:04:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072194/da4392f399304ac4e83b3d29a6d37246.mp3" length="52404701" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I speak about the types of education that are needed in the inner city and how a school in London Michaela school making a difference. Also, I speak about free thinking and free speech and how the lack of it is disturbing society....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I speak about the types of education that are needed in the inner city and how a school in London Michaela school making a difference. Also, I speak about free thinking and free speech and how the lack of it is disturbing society. lastly, I touch on the disparity in how entertainers, athletes, and rich people from the black community or African diaspora spend their money outside and away from the black community.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3276</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e52fb3ab395b2df7dd967086d5ca2c11.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>#76 Don’t regret it, just learn and teach from it!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/76-don-t-regret-it-just-learn-and-teach-from-it--61072207</link><description><![CDATA[in this episode, I answer 20 questions about my experiences in life in a broad introspective way, with a view of moments of going off-topic on more important topics which I love.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">68fb9475-ce49-4c59-946e-5da65d23d934</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2022 02:28:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072207/ac8fd1ebbc5ded083fca27aa8105bb75.mp3" length="96727601" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>in this episode, I answer 20 questions about my experiences in life in a broad introspective way, with a view of moments of going off-topic on more important topics which I love.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[in this episode, I answer 20 questions about my experiences in life in a broad introspective way, with a view of moments of going off-topic on more important topics which I love.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6046</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/80cefb0a84943783dfc5ecb9e8df30a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Thankful</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/thankful--61072175</link><description><![CDATA[30 Questions to Ask Around the Thanksgiving Table]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d74c65cd-a0e8-4b76-95d7-a536a7129fdd</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2022 03:36:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072175/110debf4f8eebdd5de3402b52edd7279.mp3" length="77318412" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>30 Questions to Ask Around the Thanksgiving Table</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[30 Questions to Ask Around the Thanksgiving Table]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4833</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/91571c549f1a68047440c06edb2905bf.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What really grinds my gears about the new world</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-really-grinds-my-gears-about-the-new-world--61072200</link><description><![CDATA[why do parts of society cast dispersion on old society ways but then copy them to support their new Ideas? ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b6f47822-7039-4c78-8761-cae1fa7db2ad</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2022 03:56:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072200/c1561b55b8707cca8e58d47882bf3874.mp3" length="63362755" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>why do parts of society cast dispersion on old society ways but then copy them to support their new Ideas? </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[why do parts of society cast dispersion on old society ways but then copy them to support their new Ideas? ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3961</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cccc2aa67585aca5958d7625fc36cf8c.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Education workers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/education-workers--61072164</link><description><![CDATA[You're Probably Right Podcast.          Meta Description: In this episode of the You're Probably Right podcast, we explore the relationship between education support staff and unions. We discuss the problems with how unions operate, and how they often don't show respect for their members. The Canadian Union of Public Employees do not feel valued. Staff feels overworked and underpaid. The unions do very little in conflict resolutions and often make Staff feel like they are alone. Unions often work as though they are in cahoots with the Boards. average compensation for support staff is $25 per hour while teachers' average pay is above 70,000 per year. support staff who work for over 10 years can easily be paid the same as new staff just coming in from college or Univesity unlike the proper incrementally pay raises of Teachers.  Supports staff Educational assistants are a vital part of the education system, providing support to teachers and students alike. Governments need to pay them properly in order to attract and retain the best employees. Currently, many educational assistants are paid minimum wage or just above, which is not a livable wage in most areas. This means that they are struggling to make ends meet, which can impact their work performance. Additionally, low salaries make it difficult to attract and retain good educational assistants, leading to increased turnover rates and higher costs for school districts. By paying educational assistants a fair wage, governments can improve the quality of education while also saving money in the long run.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">00d3671f-3ef9-4c03-a32b-d88e74ae593a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2022 23:48:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072164/f8f16e9e056a2fb6373140b79b5a5dda.mp3" length="41766804" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You're Probably Right Podcast.          Meta Description: In this episode of the You're Probably Right podcast, we explore the relationship between education support staff and unions. We discuss the problems with how unions operate, and how they often...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You're Probably Right Podcast.          Meta Description: In this episode of the You're Probably Right podcast, we explore the relationship between education support staff and unions. We discuss the problems with how unions operate, and how they often don't show respect for their members. The Canadian Union of Public Employees do not feel valued. Staff feels overworked and underpaid. The unions do very little in conflict resolutions and often make Staff feel like they are alone. Unions often work as though they are in cahoots with the Boards. average compensation for support staff is $25 per hour while teachers' average pay is above 70,000 per year. support staff who work for over 10 years can easily be paid the same as new staff just coming in from college or Univesity unlike the proper incrementally pay raises of Teachers.  Supports staff Educational assistants are a vital part of the education system, providing support to teachers and students alike. Governments need to pay them properly in order to attract and retain the best employees. Currently, many educational assistants are paid minimum wage or just above, which is not a livable wage in most areas. This means that they are struggling to make ends meet, which can impact their work performance. Additionally, low salaries make it difficult to attract and retain good educational assistants, leading to increased turnover rates and higher costs for school districts. By paying educational assistants a fair wage, governments can improve the quality of education while also saving money in the long run.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2611</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e260e84ccb7e48d966679859936efa75.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Life as an Education assistants</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-as-an-education-assistants--61072209</link><description><![CDATA[Don't try to read this it is just a test no edit transcribed by Microsoft word  for Analytical purposes  only    I mean the average adult knows how bad they behaved in school and just to know that somebody is getting paid not very handsomely to take care of students who are not always well behaved or you know standing outside for 15 minutes at lunch. I mean educational assistance have to do it for the whole every break so if it's let's just say it's winter time and yes in Ontario there is winter 'cause it's like six months out of the year weather is jacket weather or worse and these people have to go outside with the kids who are playing in the snow sure playing in the snow at 12 years old is different from standing in snow at 40 or 45 or 50 and not playing the snow just keeping your eye on other peoples children so why don't these people get paid better nobody knows they look at the education and say OK well teachers have education well teachers in most cases have an undergrad a lot of them have a masters and they go to teacher college or they don't have a masters you can slide in with an undergrad and you can go to teachers college you can slide in with some different courses there's different ways to get in in many cases some of these people have maybe two years more of education not necessarily experience 'cause I've seen very many educational assistance help teachers if you want to say help but a lot of time no more sometimes you go in a classroom and shocking not only because the teacher is humble which is nice to see but oftentimes the educational assistant knows more in various areas and topics than the teacher does and it's beautiful to see when teachers have respect for their assistance in their rooms and they don't try to teach treat them as the hired help of the schools and they are included but that's not usually the case the parents Oh yeah the parents usually love the educational assistance 'cause they help out with their students as do the ECS that work in the student this schools as well there early childhood education workers and teachers they do a lot but the younger ones but again their educational assistance there underneath the kewpie so I just want to talk about that for a little bit]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2c8dd445-b908-408c-851d-49c656b201c7</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2022 20:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072209/1960e8dc9cad415c848a826c338d8211.mp3" length="45834383" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Don't try to read this it is just a test no edit transcribed by Microsoft word  for Analytical purposes  only    I mean the average adult knows how bad they behaved in school and just to know that somebody is getting paid not very handsomely to take...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Don't try to read this it is just a test no edit transcribed by Microsoft word  for Analytical purposes  only    I mean the average adult knows how bad they behaved in school and just to know that somebody is getting paid not very handsomely to take care of students who are not always well behaved or you know standing outside for 15 minutes at lunch. I mean educational assistance have to do it for the whole every break so if it's let's just say it's winter time and yes in Ontario there is winter 'cause it's like six months out of the year weather is jacket weather or worse and these people have to go outside with the kids who are playing in the snow sure playing in the snow at 12 years old is different from standing in snow at 40 or 45 or 50 and not playing the snow just keeping your eye on other peoples children so why don't these people get paid better nobody knows they look at the education and say OK well teachers have education well teachers in most cases have an undergrad a lot of them have a masters and they go to teacher college or they don't have a masters you can slide in with an undergrad and you can go to teachers college you can slide in with some different courses there's different ways to get in in many cases some of these people have maybe two years more of education not necessarily experience 'cause I've seen very many educational assistance help teachers if you want to say help but a lot of time no more sometimes you go in a classroom and shocking not only because the teacher is humble which is nice to see but oftentimes the educational assistant knows more in various areas and topics than the teacher does and it's beautiful to see when teachers have respect for their assistance in their rooms and they don't try to teach treat them as the hired help of the schools and they are included but that's not usually the case the parents Oh yeah the parents usually love the educational assistance 'cause they help out with their students as do the ECS that work in the student this schools as well there early childhood education workers and teachers they do a lot but the younger ones but again their educational assistance there underneath the kewpie so I just want to talk about that for a little bit]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2865</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b662c0f79c9a5ae3db9f7f08b5bb75a2.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>So he's a loser after you?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-he-s-a-loser-after-you--61072156</link><description><![CDATA[12 Types Of Loser Guys: How To Spot Them Before It’s Too Late https://www.bolde.com/12-types-losers-spot-late/ taken from the above website 1. THE OFFENDER: THE GUY WHO IGNORES YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHAT TO WATCH FOR: HIS COMMUNICATION HABITS.A guy should respond to your texts or calls within a reasonable time frame. If he’s taking an unusually long time to get back to you or ignoring some of your attempts to reach out altogether cut bait. Nothing good comes from a guy who can’t even push some buttons on a phone for you. In fact, you shouldn’t be messing with someone who isn’t regularly initiating communication with you. Yes, there are guys who do that. You want one of them 4. THE OFFENDER: THE GUY WITH TERRIBLE CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILLS. WHAT TO WATCH FOR: HIS TEMPERAMENT.Be wary if he loses his temper easily or has a tendency to get defensive when you try to work through issues. A good guy will take an interest in your needs, listen to you when you have something to say, and communicate productively with you even when he doesn’t agree. That guy’s hot, not the one who bitches, shouts, and throws stuff around.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a40ca737-c31c-40d4-83b8-0a591eb757ef</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2022 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072156/98d4259d631a3b3ae98f372814548efa.mp3" length="41019493" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>12 Types Of Loser Guys: How To Spot Them Before It’s Too Late https://www.bolde.com/12-types-losers-spot-late/ taken from the above website 1. THE OFFENDER: THE GUY WHO IGNORES YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHAT TO WATCH FOR: HIS COMMUNICATION HABITS.A guy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[12 Types Of Loser Guys: How To Spot Them Before It’s Too Late https://www.bolde.com/12-types-losers-spot-late/ taken from the above website 1. THE OFFENDER: THE GUY WHO IGNORES YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHAT TO WATCH FOR: HIS COMMUNICATION HABITS.A guy should respond to your texts or calls within a reasonable time frame. If he’s taking an unusually long time to get back to you or ignoring some of your attempts to reach out altogether cut bait. Nothing good comes from a guy who can’t even push some buttons on a phone for you. In fact, you shouldn’t be messing with someone who isn’t regularly initiating communication with you. Yes, there are guys who do that. You want one of them 4. THE OFFENDER: THE GUY WITH TERRIBLE CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILLS. WHAT TO WATCH FOR: HIS TEMPERAMENT.Be wary if he loses his temper easily or has a tendency to get defensive when you try to work through issues. A good guy will take an interest in your needs, listen to you when you have something to say, and communicate productively with you even when he doesn’t agree. That guy’s hot, not the one who bitches, shouts, and throws stuff around.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2564</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b1a85deb7912fb373d93a48a6edd2b6a.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>77</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I don't matter so I can say what I want, until someone who matters doesn't like it</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-don-t-matter-so-i-can-say-what-i-want-until-someone-who-matters-doesn-t-like-it--61072206</link><description><![CDATA[Debate and discourse  Close your shorts and tik tok it is destroying you (Pranks, dances nonsense on TikTok)  Shadow banding  Dopamine hits from social media Likes and follows  Anything you have ever said in the time of digital tape can be used against you.  I don’t like forced narratives it has never been good no matter what it was about   Fans vs viewers   I can say whatever I want until someone who matters doesn’t like it   De platforming people from the internet   Teach your kids your beliefs at home. Do you have a right to teach your family values   what guys want? fitness, a nice job, a beautiful wife, car, house, kids…   Men have been feeling horrible and attacked they want out of the nonsense.   We want t see and hear different points of view   Life of pie line, believing in everything is like believing in nothing   Financial freedom]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c606a78b-b3da-4ad6-a52f-cd98cbf84729</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Sep 2022 00:13:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072206/0a4cc7e0cb776294cab1ae435f30065f.mp3" length="42225723" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Debate and discourse  Close your shorts and tik tok it is destroying you (Pranks, dances nonsense on TikTok)  Shadow banding  Dopamine hits from social media Likes and follows  Anything you have ever said in the time of digital tape can be used...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Debate and discourse  Close your shorts and tik tok it is destroying you (Pranks, dances nonsense on TikTok)  Shadow banding  Dopamine hits from social media Likes and follows  Anything you have ever said in the time of digital tape can be used against you.  I don’t like forced narratives it has never been good no matter what it was about   Fans vs viewers   I can say whatever I want until someone who matters doesn’t like it   De platforming people from the internet   Teach your kids your beliefs at home. Do you have a right to teach your family values   what guys want? fitness, a nice job, a beautiful wife, car, house, kids…   Men have been feeling horrible and attacked they want out of the nonsense.   We want t see and hear different points of view   Life of pie line, believing in everything is like believing in nothing   Financial freedom]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2640</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3e19ebe6ec117ca0e079a5765cb1c206.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>75</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bring back skilled trades for our youth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bring-back-skilled-trades-for-our-youth--61072170</link><description><![CDATA[Real talk what happened to trades in Toronto, Canada? Not everyone is going to be a lawyer, Doctor, or Engineer what about the trades that people are dying out of?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">95be3178-9bc6-427c-8354-eb3de4a0b418</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2022 02:25:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072170/fbafb02aef60f97da7f9c97920d87940.mp3" length="65162487" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Real talk what happened to trades in Toronto, Canada? Not everyone is going to be a lawyer, Doctor, or Engineer what about the trades that people are dying out of?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Real talk what happened to trades in Toronto, Canada? Not everyone is going to be a lawyer, Doctor, or Engineer what about the trades that people are dying out of?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4073</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c8f831357529ef3222b8aacc55ba33b4.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I just want to think for myself is that do bad</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-just-want-to-think-for-myself-is-that-do-bad--61072163</link><description><![CDATA[What’s right and wrong]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b5d7fe13-26d4-4a29-a266-0b707d9a3665</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 01:58:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072163/5665f8c898190604596865ed54ce6d2b.mp3" length="71205759" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What’s right and wrong</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What’s right and wrong]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4451</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/70859c990591f719e42169ccf0c22183.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don't pod with gum in your mouth ( unless you like how it sound)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-pod-with-gum-in-your-mouth-unless-you-like-how-it-sound--61072172</link><description><![CDATA[Going "live" is not easy while doing your podcast for people like me. listen as a squirm through another episode live.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6a870022-f4ff-422c-abf3-f31566336d98</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2022 23:30:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072172/e8898331aa7dd46aa362fe8a2603b831.mp3" length="74178703" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Going "live" is not easy while doing your podcast for people like me. listen as a squirm through another episode live.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Going "live" is not easy while doing your podcast for people like me. listen as a squirm through another episode live.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4637</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b8ed714e046b6b83c2070eaba75ebabb.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sunken media, Christmas left without saying goodbye</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sunken-media-christmas-left-without-saying-goodbye--61072214</link><description><![CDATA[Social media is a strange place, full of reality and Toxic, lonely people]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">875dc113-afde-4172-a325-1c7b7bd54b4d</guid><pubDate>Sat, 13 Aug 2022 21:27:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072214/b20babc6b6a33d2b54831f6855b4951e.mp3" length="70926980" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Social media is a strange place, full of reality and Toxic, lonely people</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Social media is a strange place, full of reality and Toxic, lonely people]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4433</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d52452d82b86e2dd2e1e2907808a3183.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Africans are leaving The West Indian blacks and North American blacks in the dust!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/africans-are-leaving-the-west-indian-blacks-and-north-american-blacks-in-the-dust--61072174</link><description><![CDATA[00;06;47;09 - 00;07;20;02 Speaker 1 Know, I work around a lot of young acting, vibrant individuals and I don't work with them, but I work around them. And what I really, really, really realized today is I'm working in the wrong area of the company and working around the wrong people. I'm like, maybe not around the wrong people. I mean, maybe they do need people like me.  00;07;20;02 - 00;07;54;16 Speaker 1 But today was an extra special introvert day for myself. I had people jumping into my space to talk to me and to try to interact in certain ways that I only personally interact that way with people that I know like very well and maybe other people, you know, some your listeners hear listening to me will understand. What I'm saying is that it's horrible.  00;07;55;23 - 00;08;23;29 Speaker 1 There's no better way to put it than somebody you don't know asking or almost demanding you explain exactly what it is you do for the company at your level. And you don't know them at all, and you're not. You almost feel like you're you're asked to do an impromptu presentation of who you are and what you do.  00;08;26;02 - 00;08;57;21 Speaker 1 But I don't know you. So that makes it so uncomfortable. Not to mention I had other things that I needed to do within that 10 minutes and this person was just all over up in my grill. I was like, what the deal? I don't need this. And just listening to the interactions while I was quietly working away, listening to my my instrumental tunes and just trying to get some computer work done and hearing the interactions going on behind me, I was like, Man, I'm in the wrong place.  00;08;58;00 - 00;09;26;13 Speaker 1 And I could never work with those people. Not because I have anything against them, but I'm so close the off that I just wouldn't fit in. It'd be the whole time people try to pull me out of my shell and me trying to curl back into my shell and then bursting out at the wrong times. Like, that's the one thing I've recognized within myself as an introvert, is that I end up trying to accommodate to be more of an extrovert.  00;09;27;01 - 00;09;50;07 Speaker 1 And generally what happens is when I put too much effort into it, I end up doing it at the wrong times and it just becomes awkward and it just doesn't feel right. And I also recognize the power struggle that goes on within an organization, especially a big, wealthy organization or a government backed organization.  00;09;53;26 - 00;10;03;20 Speaker 1 The people they pick to be your boss isn't necessarily the person you'd pick to be your boss. That's a whole nother story.  00;10;11;01 - 00;10;14;04 Speaker 1 So should I start big and go small?  00;10;17;03 - 00;11;27;03 Speaker 1 Why not, since I brought it up? OK, so the 2022 index of economic freedom, I wanted to know obviously, where does my country stand? Because this woman was talking about Senegal in she brought up something that I already knew. Funny enough, she talked about how most of the black doctors in the United States are from Nigeria and it's funny because that was very evident to me as exactly what was happening as far as education is concerned in North America, in Canada, or let's say in Ontario, even when it comes to black people I secretly, secretly, I secretly knew that secretly is a dumb thing to say that the people who were prospering were not from  00;11;27;15 - 00;12;10;16 Speaker 1 Jamaica. And not to say that no Jamaican Jamaicans have ever prospered or are prospering. It's not true, but it's funny how it goes. I mean, Jamaicans are known for the culture, but what culture? Dancehall culture, the known for the ox tales and parties and reggae music, you know, everybody knows Bob Marley and to what level they're going to say that he's the quintessential Jamaican that's a whole nother story.  00;12;10;28 - 00;12;21;02 Speaker 1 Some Jamaicans love Bob Marley and a lot of people around the world love Bob Marley. And then there's a lot of Jamaican people who don't rate the M]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d5bf4853-34ec-4e51-b6ee-4b851cf4ac13</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2022 04:23:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072174/4e552ccda281a59050fe40f8d98ee785.mp3" length="46779388" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>00;06;47;09 - 00;07;20;02 Speaker 1 Know, I work around a lot of young acting, vibrant individuals and I don't work with them, but I work around them. And what I really, really, really realized today is I'm working in the wrong area of the company and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[00;06;47;09 - 00;07;20;02 Speaker 1 Know, I work around a lot of young acting, vibrant individuals and I don't work with them, but I work around them. And what I really, really, really realized today is I'm working in the wrong area of the company and working around the wrong people. I'm like, maybe not around the wrong people. I mean, maybe they do need people like me.  00;07;20;02 - 00;07;54;16 Speaker 1 But today was an extra special introvert day for myself. I had people jumping into my space to talk to me and to try to interact in certain ways that I only personally interact that way with people that I know like very well and maybe other people, you know, some your listeners hear listening to me will understand. What I'm saying is that it's horrible.  00;07;55;23 - 00;08;23;29 Speaker 1 There's no better way to put it than somebody you don't know asking or almost demanding you explain exactly what it is you do for the company at your level. And you don't know them at all, and you're not. You almost feel like you're you're asked to do an impromptu presentation of who you are and what you do.  00;08;26;02 - 00;08;57;21 Speaker 1 But I don't know you. So that makes it so uncomfortable. Not to mention I had other things that I needed to do within that 10 minutes and this person was just all over up in my grill. I was like, what the deal? I don't need this. And just listening to the interactions while I was quietly working away, listening to my my instrumental tunes and just trying to get some computer work done and hearing the interactions going on behind me, I was like, Man, I'm in the wrong place.  00;08;58;00 - 00;09;26;13 Speaker 1 And I could never work with those people. Not because I have anything against them, but I'm so close the off that I just wouldn't fit in. It'd be the whole time people try to pull me out of my shell and me trying to curl back into my shell and then bursting out at the wrong times. Like, that's the one thing I've recognized within myself as an introvert, is that I end up trying to accommodate to be more of an extrovert.  00;09;27;01 - 00;09;50;07 Speaker 1 And generally what happens is when I put too much effort into it, I end up doing it at the wrong times and it just becomes awkward and it just doesn't feel right. And I also recognize the power struggle that goes on within an organization, especially a big, wealthy organization or a government backed organization.  00;09;53;26 - 00;10;03;20 Speaker 1 The people they pick to be your boss isn't necessarily the person you'd pick to be your boss. That's a whole nother story.  00;10;11;01 - 00;10;14;04 Speaker 1 So should I start big and go small?  00;10;17;03 - 00;11;27;03 Speaker 1 Why not, since I brought it up? OK, so the 2022 index of economic freedom, I wanted to know obviously, where does my country stand? Because this woman was talking about Senegal in she brought up something that I already knew. Funny enough, she talked about how most of the black doctors in the United States are from Nigeria and it's funny because that was very evident to me as exactly what was happening as far as education is concerned in North America, in Canada, or let's say in Ontario, even when it comes to black people I secretly, secretly, I secretly knew that secretly is a dumb thing to say that the people who were prospering were not from  00;11;27;15 - 00;12;10;16 Speaker 1 Jamaica. And not to say that no Jamaican Jamaicans have ever prospered or are prospering. It's not true, but it's funny how it goes. I mean, Jamaicans are known for the culture, but what culture? Dancehall culture, the known for the ox tales and parties and reggae music, you know, everybody knows Bob Marley and to what level they're going to say that he's the quintessential Jamaican that's a whole nother story.  00;12;10;28 - 00;12;21;02 Speaker 1 Some Jamaicans love Bob Marley and a lot of people around the world love Bob Marley. And then there's a lot of Jamaican people who don't rate the M]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2924</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/00a22cac61cb9525463ecba770a81af7.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dust yourself off and do better</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dust-yourself-off-and-do-better--61072213</link><description><![CDATA[what the death of a loved one can do in your life. Things don't always add up but you cant capitalize non the less. In this episode, I speak about perspective and embracing what is left after loosing someone to death.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">22d53b55-9449-4a0a-80ec-c64cffd80cfd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2022 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072213/46536626eef1bf35c9556485b2521933.mp3" length="43936430" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>what the death of a loved one can do in your life. Things don't always add up but you cant capitalize non the less. In this episode, I speak about perspective and embracing what is left after loosing someone to death.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[what the death of a loved one can do in your life. Things don't always add up but you cant capitalize non the less. In this episode, I speak about perspective and embracing what is left after loosing someone to death.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2746</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/813946813dd07fffd0c17976f3a0dd8b.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>66</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Where are your hard copies? ready for shutdowns and lose of service?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-are-your-hard-copies-ready-for-shutdowns-and-lose-of-service--61072161</link><description><![CDATA[things  I touch on briefly in today's talk:  911 2003 The blackout eastern seaboard The ice storm 2012 Covid Rogers communications The cloud life Music Movies Netflix Files Pictures Videos Physical copies rule]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1f3e7e3d-c06d-4cbe-af0e-f10d804627b3</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2022 04:41:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072161/b20b7b24b89666f8a6a26868103d0cf9.mp3" length="49109929" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>things  I touch on briefly in today's talk:  911 2003 The blackout eastern seaboard The ice storm 2012 Covid Rogers communications The cloud life Music Movies Netflix Files Pictures Videos Physical copies rule</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[things  I touch on briefly in today's talk:  911 2003 The blackout eastern seaboard The ice storm 2012 Covid Rogers communications The cloud life Music Movies Netflix Files Pictures Videos Physical copies rule]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3070</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/710e2acd31bfb044707ecd60b36193a6.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>65</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You can stuff your Karma talk in a sac</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-can-stuff-your-karma-talk-in-a-sac--61072201</link><description><![CDATA[Excerpt from Lex Friedman Podcast https://youtu.be/j4PEu4sVD40     Being and introvert and seeing the world through my eyes dealing with loss and how karma or the what goes around mentality sometimes doesn't add up at all.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">38e69397-d62e-42c8-a1e2-c9a7fbfef0a8</guid><pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2022 04:51:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072201/e762d4046ed51a2e831999a3dae1167d.mp3" length="64938043" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Excerpt from Lex Friedman Podcast https://youtu.be/j4PEu4sVD40     Being and introvert and seeing the world through my eyes dealing with loss and how karma or the what goes around mentality sometimes doesn't add up at all.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Excerpt from Lex Friedman Podcast https://youtu.be/j4PEu4sVD40     Being and introvert and seeing the world through my eyes dealing with loss and how karma or the what goes around mentality sometimes doesn't add up at all.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4059</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/def3be45339e61839f6fcd1fbc4a212c.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>So you're a 10 right? (video clip test available on Spotify)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-you-re-a-10-right-video-clip-test-available-on-spotify--61072184</link><description><![CDATA[sometimes we need to step back from our grocery list of wants because we have to realize that we may not make the cut on someone else's list.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">39553eb4-977a-4805-aa11-d83fd0c73352</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2022 14:41:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072184/273044692_44100_2_09ca90c8d12a9.mp3" length="1571107" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>sometimes we need to step back from our grocery list of wants because we have to realize that we may not make the cut on someone else's list.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[sometimes we need to step back from our grocery list of wants because we have to realize that we may not make the cut on someone else's list.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>99</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7f8e021fe22dbe5a8cabbc75bf16fb7e.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>36 straight forward ways to tell if a Female likes you</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/36-straight-forward-ways-to-tell-if-a-female-likes-you--61072177</link><description><![CDATA[She quotes you to her friends  She will try and catch your peripheral view  She will say Hi very nicely  She will say bye more than once when leaving your presence  if you are off together  She may play with her hair unless she is more worried about messing up her and her appearance.  When you speak she will not be in a rush to leave your presence if you are a good talker and you hold her interest with good conversation.   She will be able to talk to you for hours on end.   You will feel it in your heart.   She shows excitement when you come around   She will be open to hang out or even following you to a store to be any random thing just to be in your presence   If you have mutual friends or acquaintances she will naturally tell someone maybe even an individual that does not keep secrets.   She will ask your opinion about a lot of things.   She will report back to you with her findings according to what you said.   She may alter her way of dressing to suit what she thinks you like.   She will give you something or regularly gift you things   Her countenance will change when she sees you talking to someone who seems like a threat, rather than just any other Girl.   Her Body language will show, IE. Smiling with her eyes, her posture will be shown to be flattering   She will either attempt to be smarter than she is or dumbs it down if she is of above intelligence so as to not alienate you if you are not on her level.   She will take interest in something that you like even if it was something she has never cared about before.   She may have nervous accidents around you that you never noticed before.   She will tease you with inside jokes even if it is the dumbest thing and it is beneath both of you as far as jokes go, it will be your little secret.   As in 21 you and she may develop certain code words that only the 2 of you understand.   She may be open to being very close to you passing either of your general personal space bubbles without touching you but there will likely be an overwhelming sense of comfortability with it.   She may playfully hit you, grab your arm or rest her head on your shoulder.   Ask a lot of questions testing out to see who you really are behind all of your good looks.   She may ask or insinuate about your relationship status and inquire how or why you broke up with your last partner.   She may ask about intimacy history   She will be grateful for your spending time with her even if she doesn't say it verbally   She may appear visibly upset when parting for the weekend or extended days away.   She will follow you on social media or she may just appear as someone you know if the algorithms are working right after stocking you out on social media.   She may purposely friend either over the net or in person someone you know just to get close to you.   If you are speaking terms she may ask you where you have been and if she hasn't seen you around like normal.   She may offer something she or her mother cooked or baked.   If she is shy she will try to get an acquaintance to arrange a group hangout or have someone you both know to invite you to a party, get together, or function so things can work out organically.   She will ask you for advice   You will feel it deep inside of you beyond your loins]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">93d32fef-f8f1-4f63-ac8c-f2a8dce78071</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2022 03:11:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072177/8269aaee8e05d9cd660e11cc455236f9.mp3" length="44579669" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>She quotes you to her friends  She will try and catch your peripheral view  She will say Hi very nicely  She will say bye more than once when leaving your presence  if you are off together  She may play with her hair unless she is more worried about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[She quotes you to her friends  She will try and catch your peripheral view  She will say Hi very nicely  She will say bye more than once when leaving your presence  if you are off together  She may play with her hair unless she is more worried about messing up her and her appearance.  When you speak she will not be in a rush to leave your presence if you are a good talker and you hold her interest with good conversation.   She will be able to talk to you for hours on end.   You will feel it in your heart.   She shows excitement when you come around   She will be open to hang out or even following you to a store to be any random thing just to be in your presence   If you have mutual friends or acquaintances she will naturally tell someone maybe even an individual that does not keep secrets.   She will ask your opinion about a lot of things.   She will report back to you with her findings according to what you said.   She may alter her way of dressing to suit what she thinks you like.   She will give you something or regularly gift you things   Her countenance will change when she sees you talking to someone who seems like a threat, rather than just any other Girl.   Her Body language will show, IE. Smiling with her eyes, her posture will be shown to be flattering   She will either attempt to be smarter than she is or dumbs it down if she is of above intelligence so as to not alienate you if you are not on her level.   She will take interest in something that you like even if it was something she has never cared about before.   She may have nervous accidents around you that you never noticed before.   She will tease you with inside jokes even if it is the dumbest thing and it is beneath both of you as far as jokes go, it will be your little secret.   As in 21 you and she may develop certain code words that only the 2 of you understand.   She may be open to being very close to you passing either of your general personal space bubbles without touching you but there will likely be an overwhelming sense of comfortability with it.   She may playfully hit you, grab your arm or rest her head on your shoulder.   Ask a lot of questions testing out to see who you really are behind all of your good looks.   She may ask or insinuate about your relationship status and inquire how or why you broke up with your last partner.   She may ask about intimacy history   She will be grateful for your spending time with her even if she doesn't say it verbally   She may appear visibly upset when parting for the weekend or extended days away.   She will follow you on social media or she may just appear as someone you know if the algorithms are working right after stocking you out on social media.   She may purposely friend either over the net or in person someone you know just to get close to you.   If you are speaking terms she may ask you where you have been and if she hasn't seen you around like normal.   She may offer something she or her mother cooked or baked.   If she is shy she will try to get an acquaintance to arrange a group hangout or have someone you both know to invite you to a party, get together, or function so things can work out organically.   She will ask you for advice   You will feel it deep inside of you beyond your loins]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2787</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ef1b28421b523a684054d1a886f012d8.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>get to know a person questions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-to-know-a-person-questions--61072165</link><description><![CDATA[50 questions you may want to ask a person you want to know]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c022334c-e78b-4bf5-ad1f-8a9226b1ad97</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2022 02:55:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072165/7ef4cb53f6cbf5da50f46774f5f2b2f2.mp3" length="67623431" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>50 questions you may want to ask a person you want to know</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[50 questions you may want to ask a person you want to know]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4227</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/904d590f058080b0ddb77aed2274e031.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I never realized how much of me dies every time I lose a loved one</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-never-realized-how-much-of-me-dies-every-time-i-lose-a-loved-one--61072205</link><description><![CDATA[Things like cancer, and Parkinson's Disease are not easy to watch especially when it is a loved one or anyone you care for or care about. doing it without a safety net or a loved one who has your back is so hard. Sit with me as I attempt to articulate what I am going through with this experience.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3d1504dd-eca2-44ef-aa95-4bf10b1e9e93</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2022 02:44:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072205/2ec2208b1b597729c2f0b0c2a8f6164f.mp3" length="43989093" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Things like cancer, and Parkinson's Disease are not easy to watch especially when it is a loved one or anyone you care for or care about. doing it without a safety net or a loved one who has your back is so hard. Sit with me as I attempt to articulate...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Things like cancer, and Parkinson's Disease are not easy to watch especially when it is a loved one or anyone you care for or care about. doing it without a safety net or a loved one who has your back is so hard. Sit with me as I attempt to articulate what I am going through with this experience.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2750</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6b729a0940e938bcd2b5967d978d61e0.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>King Solomon was right!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/king-solomon-was-right--61072202</link><description><![CDATA[Do you know how can you compare the words of Louis Armstrong to that of King Solomon? On one hand, Louis Armstrong says oh what a wonderful world and on the other hand, the wisest person to ever live says all is vanity and vexation of spirit. But maybe they were talking about two different things does life ad up? the answer is a resounding no. no matter how much or how little you have there is more but not of what you already have or don't have. listen up]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e84089a1-f9f8-4ce3-8eec-a2c1b2e29197</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2022 02:36:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072202/643735c03e3b0d0fec051e7ea86dff63.mp3" length="41791045" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you know how can you compare the words of Louis Armstrong to that of King Solomon? On one hand, Louis Armstrong says oh what a wonderful world and on the other hand, the wisest person to ever live says all is vanity and vexation of spirit. But...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you know how can you compare the words of Louis Armstrong to that of King Solomon? On one hand, Louis Armstrong says oh what a wonderful world and on the other hand, the wisest person to ever live says all is vanity and vexation of spirit. But maybe they were talking about two different things does life ad up? the answer is a resounding no. no matter how much or how little you have there is more but not of what you already have or don't have. listen up]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2612</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0644936a37a367b76b38b716cb178a86.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Looking for answers in the wrong places (why you don't choose the top choice on your google search)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/looking-for-answers-in-the-wrong-places-why-you-don-t-choose-the-top-choice-on-your-google-search--61072191</link><description><![CDATA[High-value Man or woman or is that just what they say to get you to click on their site? more will be revealed when you listen. ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dc63bb78-4b8f-4da5-bc87-1f68e19e5488</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2022 12:58:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072191/ab61e6183032b6d31e9d212ed5a1624d.mp3" length="59825984" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>High-value Man or woman or is that just what they say to get you to click on their site? more will be revealed when you listen. </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[High-value Man or woman or is that just what they say to get you to click on their site? more will be revealed when you listen. ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3739</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a11976985b42c223edab5dc010e0fbe8.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>50 random Questions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/50-random-questions--61072204</link><description><![CDATA[because of the Internet/ Social-net sometimes the only way you can really draw someone out to actually talk naturally and honestly is to ask questions. The question is are they willing, to be honest and think about the question and be consistent. Consistency in a round of question can really tell you a lot about a person.   I answer 50 of 250 questions from Women Health Magazine bast just getting yo know an individual.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e460a2a-cad8-4993-95e1-6bfcc0f75a2e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2022 00:52:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072204/eecf42c74fa0cc7c2d085c2e6c9ae245.mp3" length="56335189" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>because of the Internet/ Social-net sometimes the only way you can really draw someone out to actually talk naturally and honestly is to ask questions. The question is are they willing, to be honest and think about the question and be consistent....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[because of the Internet/ Social-net sometimes the only way you can really draw someone out to actually talk naturally and honestly is to ask questions. The question is are they willing, to be honest and think about the question and be consistent. Consistency in a round of question can really tell you a lot about a person.   I answer 50 of 250 questions from Women Health Magazine bast just getting yo know an individual.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3521</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c2a8edd5eca0428c905c3a3af3116941.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Loneliness is it you or are you fighting it?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/loneliness-is-it-you-or-are-you-fighting-it--61072210</link><description><![CDATA[Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends [<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2018%3A24&amp;version=NKJV#fen-NKJV-16926a" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">a</a>]must himself be friendly,<br /> But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. <br /> this is where the questions came from. I am not saying this is the place to go for your answers,\.  Do your research! https://mensgroup.com/self-improvement/guy-friends-everything-you-need-to-know/male-loneliness-2/ <br /> X8EwgCwSVIVjSpZeuXBV]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5b4210c7-1052-4774-a6e0-a047dd6c3a8d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2022 00:02:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072210/e66f882c68ac23467f486cd267a246c3.mp3" length="52350366" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2018%3A24&amp;amp;version=NKJV#fen-NKJV-16926a]must himself be friendly,
 But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. 
 this is where the questions...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends [<a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2018%3A24&amp;version=NKJV#fen-NKJV-16926a" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">a</a>]must himself be friendly,<br /> But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. <br /> this is where the questions came from. I am not saying this is the place to go for your answers,\.  Do your research! https://mensgroup.com/self-improvement/guy-friends-everything-you-need-to-know/male-loneliness-2/ <br /> X8EwgCwSVIVjSpZeuXBV]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3272</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/10a22adabcf1fe8a3d7830be424f4655.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>marriage the Christian way part B</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-the-christian-way-part-b--61072168</link><description><![CDATA[Unbreakable Love For a husband to love his wife as Christ loves His church he must love her with an unbreakable love. In this direct quotation from Genesis 2:24, Paul emphasizes the permanence as well as the unity of marriage: "For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh" (Ephesians 5:31). And God's standard for marriage still hasn't changed. Husbands, your union with your wife is permanent. When you got married, you had to leave, cleave, and become one with your wife—never go back on that. Let your wife rest in the security of knowing that you belong to her, for life. Just as the body of Christ is indivisible, God's ideal for marriage is that it be indivisible. As Christ is one with His church, you husbands are one with your wives. Paul goes on to say, "This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church" (Ephesians 5:32). Why is submission as well as sacrificial, purifying, and caring love so strongly emphasized in Scripture? Because the sacredness of the church is wed to the sacredness of marriage. Christian, your marriage is a testimony to the relationship between Christ and His bride, the church. Your marriage will either tell the truth about that relationship, or it will tell a lie. What is your marriage saying to the watching world? If you'll walk in the power of the Spirit, yield to His Word, and be mutually submissive, you can know that God will bless you abundantly and glorify His Son through your marriage.     How did you allow yourself to cheat?  Did you feel guilty?  Have you entertained thoughts about cheating before?   Did you fall in love?   Did you think about me?   How long were you together?   Did you ever talk about me?   Do you still have feelings for that person?   Did you talk about a future   Do you still have feelings for them   What is it that they had that I didn't ?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">23128c3c-e8b4-4e6b-be17-92b01f27c28a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 23:30:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072168/e3646e747ebcaa149570918f6abc41ad.mp3" length="45021870" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Unbreakable Love For a husband to love his wife as Christ loves His church he must love her with an unbreakable love. In this direct quotation from Genesis 2:24, Paul emphasizes the permanence as well as the unity of marriage: "For this cause a man...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unbreakable Love For a husband to love his wife as Christ loves His church he must love her with an unbreakable love. In this direct quotation from Genesis 2:24, Paul emphasizes the permanence as well as the unity of marriage: "For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh" (Ephesians 5:31). And God's standard for marriage still hasn't changed. Husbands, your union with your wife is permanent. When you got married, you had to leave, cleave, and become one with your wife—never go back on that. Let your wife rest in the security of knowing that you belong to her, for life. Just as the body of Christ is indivisible, God's ideal for marriage is that it be indivisible. As Christ is one with His church, you husbands are one with your wives. Paul goes on to say, "This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church" (Ephesians 5:32). Why is submission as well as sacrificial, purifying, and caring love so strongly emphasized in Scripture? Because the sacredness of the church is wed to the sacredness of marriage. Christian, your marriage is a testimony to the relationship between Christ and His bride, the church. Your marriage will either tell the truth about that relationship, or it will tell a lie. What is your marriage saying to the watching world? If you'll walk in the power of the Spirit, yield to His Word, and be mutually submissive, you can know that God will bless you abundantly and glorify His Son through your marriage.     How did you allow yourself to cheat?  Did you feel guilty?  Have you entertained thoughts about cheating before?   Did you fall in love?   Did you think about me?   How long were you together?   Did you ever talk about me?   Do you still have feelings for that person?   Did you talk about a future   Do you still have feelings for them   What is it that they had that I didn't ?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2814</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8e9e7b9a244b9aefe05398096492e3c4.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>marriage the Christian way part A</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-the-christian-way-part-a--61072216</link><description><![CDATA[https://www.gty.org/library/articles/A203/marriage-as-it-was-meant-to-be <br /> Our entertainment-saturated society helps feed all sorts of illusions about reality. The fantasy of the perfect romantic and sexual relationship, the perfect lifestyle, and the perfect body all prove unattainable because the reality never lives up to the expectation. The worst fallout comes in the marriage relationship. When two people can't live up to each other's expectations, they'll look for their fantasized satisfaction in the next relationship, the next experience, the next excitement. But that path leads only to self-destruction and emptiness. Marriage is the capstone of the family, the building block of human civilization. A society that does not honor and protect marriage undermines its very existence. Why? Because one of God's designs for marriage is to show the next generation how a husband and wife demonstrate reciprocal, sacrificial love toward each other.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4dcfc38c-f019-48c1-8306-bce92fef750e</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2022 11:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072216/ca4f4d23ac1740c76b751b13287a2c28.mp3" length="46685347" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>https://www.gty.org/library/articles/A203/marriage-as-it-was-meant-to-be 
 Our entertainment-saturated society helps feed all sorts of illusions about reality. The fantasy of the perfect romantic and sexual relationship, the perfect lifestyle, and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[https://www.gty.org/library/articles/A203/marriage-as-it-was-meant-to-be <br /> Our entertainment-saturated society helps feed all sorts of illusions about reality. The fantasy of the perfect romantic and sexual relationship, the perfect lifestyle, and the perfect body all prove unattainable because the reality never lives up to the expectation. The worst fallout comes in the marriage relationship. When two people can't live up to each other's expectations, they'll look for their fantasized satisfaction in the next relationship, the next experience, the next excitement. But that path leads only to self-destruction and emptiness. Marriage is the capstone of the family, the building block of human civilization. A society that does not honor and protect marriage undermines its very existence. Why? Because one of God's designs for marriage is to show the next generation how a husband and wife demonstrate reciprocal, sacrificial love toward each other.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2918</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0732ff9479fb0a5141bf0e033e8632c9.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>11 answers for my mentee's</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-answers-for-my-mentee-s--61072211</link><description><![CDATA[10 not so random question 1What’s the best advice you can give to help plan a career rather than simply work to keep a job? 2. How do you encourage innovative ideas? 3. How would you describe your personal style? 4. Do you have a mentor? How have they influenced you? 5. What do you do to constantly challenge your underlying beliefs and assumptions? 6. Would you do anything differently if given the opportunity? 7 How and where do you find inspiration? 8. How do you keep your feelings separate from your decision-making? 9..What values are you committed to? 10.  How do you balance your work and home life? 11. Do you have any books that you would suggest I read?  Just thinking Why do we as people always believe that God is talking to other people in his scriptures? The average Christian in western society realizes that the laws of the land are based on The Bible and most of the intriguing films in society also. We hear good words some of us even speak the Good words of the bible but for some reason when it should hit home and change our actions and behaviors toward our fellow man or woman or Neighbour concerning Christian, we take it upon ourselves to add to the scripture and put a statute of limitations on God's word? We act like there is an expiry date on the Word of God. Like God didn't know what he was saying. Like God has never  seen and advisory as wayward as your nemesis, next-door neighbor Garbage man, Boss, wife, child, Husband, mother-in-law, etc. or as if it was up to us to play editor and chief of God's holy newspaper... So what if others don't believe you do so humble yourself have a seat and obedient]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8fd1d990-0da6-4f88-a16d-cde9940b7e68</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2022 11:29:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072211/128f1c2884012741782edd85323b1a80.mp3" length="34393586" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>10 not so random question 1What’s the best advice you can give to help plan a career rather than simply work to keep a job? 2. How do you encourage innovative ideas? 3. How would you describe your personal style? 4. Do you have a mentor? How have they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[10 not so random question 1What’s the best advice you can give to help plan a career rather than simply work to keep a job? 2. How do you encourage innovative ideas? 3. How would you describe your personal style? 4. Do you have a mentor? How have they influenced you? 5. What do you do to constantly challenge your underlying beliefs and assumptions? 6. Would you do anything differently if given the opportunity? 7 How and where do you find inspiration? 8. How do you keep your feelings separate from your decision-making? 9..What values are you committed to? 10.  How do you balance your work and home life? 11. Do you have any books that you would suggest I read?  Just thinking Why do we as people always believe that God is talking to other people in his scriptures? The average Christian in western society realizes that the laws of the land are based on The Bible and most of the intriguing films in society also. We hear good words some of us even speak the Good words of the bible but for some reason when it should hit home and change our actions and behaviors toward our fellow man or woman or Neighbour concerning Christian, we take it upon ourselves to add to the scripture and put a statute of limitations on God's word? We act like there is an expiry date on the Word of God. Like God didn't know what he was saying. Like God has never  seen and advisory as wayward as your nemesis, next-door neighbor Garbage man, Boss, wife, child, Husband, mother-in-law, etc. or as if it was up to us to play editor and chief of God's holy newspaper... So what if others don't believe you do so humble yourself have a seat and obedient]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2150</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/da7ca2b13fcf6fa99adb8727697131a0.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fruit or Fruit candy part B</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fruit-or-fruit-candy-part-b--61072208</link><description><![CDATA[What’s in your closet?     Help shy closed-off people who are terrified of public speaking  How podcasting has helped my shyness and fear of public speaking.  How shy I was and still relapse every once in a while.  What helped me:    First was retail   Then going groups with children by myself   Singing on Smule/ YouTube   Podcasting   What doesn’t help Lack of interest in these endeavors When people who care about your review to take any interest in what you're doing Won't show up to your concert Won't come to a game Won't listen to you sing, watch your video or listen to your podcast Or they will but only for their self-desire or gain. —------------------------------------------------------------------  12 Bible Verses About Our Deceitful Hearts and Minds (KJV) https://reformedwiki.com/verses/deceitful-heart-mind/kjv Bible Verses About Our Deceitful Hearts and Minds 7 Matthew 15:19 19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witnesses, blasphemies: Bible Gateway 4 Romans 1:28-31 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenant-breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Bible Gateway 2 Mark 7:21-23 21 For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, 22 Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness: 23 All these evil things come from within and defile the man. Bible Gateway]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d76d27d6-ca9a-4b39-918e-49f61c1a8124</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2022 22:45:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072208/44fe426cc494fddab2bbd04539864fc3.mp3" length="30832992" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What’s in your closet?     Help shy closed-off people who are terrified of public speaking  How podcasting has helped my shyness and fear of public speaking.  How shy I was and still relapse every once in a while.  What helped me:    First was retail...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What’s in your closet?     Help shy closed-off people who are terrified of public speaking  How podcasting has helped my shyness and fear of public speaking.  How shy I was and still relapse every once in a while.  What helped me:    First was retail   Then going groups with children by myself   Singing on Smule/ YouTube   Podcasting   What doesn’t help Lack of interest in these endeavors When people who care about your review to take any interest in what you're doing Won't show up to your concert Won't come to a game Won't listen to you sing, watch your video or listen to your podcast Or they will but only for their self-desire or gain. —------------------------------------------------------------------  12 Bible Verses About Our Deceitful Hearts and Minds (KJV) https://reformedwiki.com/verses/deceitful-heart-mind/kjv Bible Verses About Our Deceitful Hearts and Minds 7 Matthew 15:19 19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witnesses, blasphemies: Bible Gateway 4 Romans 1:28-31 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenant-breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Bible Gateway 2 Mark 7:21-23 21 For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, 22 Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness: 23 All these evil things come from within and defile the man. Bible Gateway]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1927</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/95c35ff60ca96eb2bfc3e2b59449af65.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fruit or Fruit candy /Good or Sweet part A</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fruit-or-fruit-candy-good-or-sweet-part-a--61072189</link><description><![CDATA[Are they good or sweet? Because there is a difference nobody taught you how to do it.    Talk about the conversation with your uncle   Talk about the conversation with your little son   - look for a quote that says I believe people are inherently good.   Grandma   Stealing money from dads wallet   Look for all who have sinned and come short of the glory of God.  “In spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart. I simply can’t build up my hopes on a foundation consisting of confusion, misery, and death. I see the world gradually being turned into a wilderness, I hear the ever-approaching thunder, which will destroy us too, I can feel the sufferings of millions and yet, if I look up into the heavens, I think that it will all come right, that this cruelty too will end, and that peace and tranquility will return again.” Anne frank  Psalm 37:23, “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.”  Jeremiah 17:9 King James Version 9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?  Read other versus  Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.  Galatians 5:16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. Music I've been listening to….   - look for people who can change.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d2cb7d00-d352-4332-b06f-dd52c0f137d4</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2022 12:27:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072189/64c5f5c05695d662c789e0c4856f9528.mp3" length="29673991" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are they good or sweet? Because there is a difference nobody taught you how to do it.    Talk about the conversation with your uncle   Talk about the conversation with your little son   - look for a quote that says I believe people are inherently...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are they good or sweet? Because there is a difference nobody taught you how to do it.    Talk about the conversation with your uncle   Talk about the conversation with your little son   - look for a quote that says I believe people are inherently good.   Grandma   Stealing money from dads wallet   Look for all who have sinned and come short of the glory of God.  “In spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart. I simply can’t build up my hopes on a foundation consisting of confusion, misery, and death. I see the world gradually being turned into a wilderness, I hear the ever-approaching thunder, which will destroy us too, I can feel the sufferings of millions and yet, if I look up into the heavens, I think that it will all come right, that this cruelty too will end, and that peace and tranquility will return again.” Anne frank  Psalm 37:23, “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.”  Jeremiah 17:9 King James Version 9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?  Read other versus  Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.  Galatians 5:16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. Music I've been listening to….   - look for people who can change.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1855</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/49e728abccf6f9d94c16325b80b4500f.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>the Big Five Aspects Scale worked for me</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-big-five-aspects-scale-worked-for-me--61072215</link><description><![CDATA[I probably won't make this a habit, although someone told me I should. The reason being is that my editing Proficiency is virtually nonexistent. But I’ll get into that a little later… How wonderful it must be to sit on the right side of history. Or wait. Is it? When I think of  Jesus, Tesla, Luther, Van Gogh, Rahab, Kafka, and the droves of people who were bullied as children and or ostracized for so many things, I am perplexed, to say the least. I have avoided and shuttered at the very thought of being a spoke on society's wheel or a Cog on the gears of life just holding my own. I can empathize with the masses who are fine with staying in line like a soldier in a bad army asked to do one small thing after one small thing. Not realizing that they are part of a Genocidal movement. That individual participant in the cause, looks in front, behind, and all around them and sees each domino standing beautifully at attention, not knowing that in a moment in the twinkling of an eye they are all going to be flattened. The society regularly dictates what we can claim, say, and do,  even though it is said that we have free speech and free choices. But I’m sure I don't have to tell you that none of these freedoms actually come without a huge cost or consequence.   High OpennessImaginative Curious Open-minded Enjoy trying new things High ConscientiousnessHigh level of self-discipline Prefer to follow a plan Methodical planning Perseverance High AgreeablenessWarm Friendly Tactful Get along well with others]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bade695f-45fc-4263-8678-004153d81b2d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 03:07:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072215/0181e4ca8f8cdaa832035036d092305e.mp3" length="60601298" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I probably won't make this a habit, although someone told me I should. The reason being is that my editing Proficiency is virtually nonexistent. But I’ll get into that a little later… How wonderful it must be to sit on the right side of history. Or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I probably won't make this a habit, although someone told me I should. The reason being is that my editing Proficiency is virtually nonexistent. But I’ll get into that a little later… How wonderful it must be to sit on the right side of history. Or wait. Is it? When I think of  Jesus, Tesla, Luther, Van Gogh, Rahab, Kafka, and the droves of people who were bullied as children and or ostracized for so many things, I am perplexed, to say the least. I have avoided and shuttered at the very thought of being a spoke on society's wheel or a Cog on the gears of life just holding my own. I can empathize with the masses who are fine with staying in line like a soldier in a bad army asked to do one small thing after one small thing. Not realizing that they are part of a Genocidal movement. That individual participant in the cause, looks in front, behind, and all around them and sees each domino standing beautifully at attention, not knowing that in a moment in the twinkling of an eye they are all going to be flattened. The society regularly dictates what we can claim, say, and do,  even though it is said that we have free speech and free choices. But I’m sure I don't have to tell you that none of these freedoms actually come without a huge cost or consequence.   High OpennessImaginative Curious Open-minded Enjoy trying new things High ConscientiousnessHigh level of self-discipline Prefer to follow a plan Methodical planning Perseverance High AgreeablenessWarm Friendly Tactful Get along well with others]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3788</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/76a09d10453141bbaf85d66a1b83c767.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>liars like you and I</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/liars-like-you-and-i--61072219</link><description><![CDATA[Why do people lie? 1. To avoid being punished. This is the most frequently mentioned motivation for telling lies (by both children and adults). It’s important to note that there were no significant differences for lies told to avoid punishment for a purposeful misdeed versus an honest mistake. 2. To obtain a reward not otherwise readily obtainable. This is the second most commonly mentioned motive, by both children and adults. An example of this is falsely claiming work experience during a job interview to increase chances of hire. 3. To protect another person from being punished. As with lying to avoid personal punishment, motive does not change with intent. We’ve seen this occur between coworkers, friends, family, and even with strangers! https://www.paulekman.com/blog/why-do-people-lie-motives/ https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Speaking-Truth Why I lie - my own words Liars have their place in hell American Standard Version Revelation 21:8 (ASV) But for the fearful, and unbelieving, and abominable, and murderers, and fornicators, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, their part [shall be] in the lake that burneth with fire and brimstone; which is the second death.  But the woman had taken the two men and hidden them. She said, “Yes, the men came to me, but I did not know where they had come from. 5 At dusk, when it was time to close the city gate, they left. I don’t know which way they went. Go after them quickly. You may catch up with them.”]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">89c10af1-1806-477a-8bee-17820d7489d6</guid><pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 04:09:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072219/13ce4dad44ccfe8276b150c43d23cdce.mp3" length="69928894" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do people lie? 1. To avoid being punished. This is the most frequently mentioned motivation for telling lies (by both children and adults). It’s important to note that there were no significant differences for lies told to avoid punishment for a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do people lie? 1. To avoid being punished. This is the most frequently mentioned motivation for telling lies (by both children and adults). It’s important to note that there were no significant differences for lies told to avoid punishment for a purposeful misdeed versus an honest mistake. 2. To obtain a reward not otherwise readily obtainable. This is the second most commonly mentioned motive, by both children and adults. An example of this is falsely claiming work experience during a job interview to increase chances of hire. 3. To protect another person from being punished. As with lying to avoid personal punishment, motive does not change with intent. We’ve seen this occur between coworkers, friends, family, and even with strangers! https://www.paulekman.com/blog/why-do-people-lie-motives/ https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Speaking-Truth Why I lie - my own words Liars have their place in hell American Standard Version Revelation 21:8 (ASV) But for the fearful, and unbelieving, and abominable, and murderers, and fornicators, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, their part [shall be] in the lake that burneth with fire and brimstone; which is the second death.  But the woman had taken the two men and hidden them. She said, “Yes, the men came to me, but I did not know where they had come from. 5 At dusk, when it was time to close the city gate, they left. I don’t know which way they went. Go after them quickly. You may catch up with them.”]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4371</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5321c7260041fe73409d169bae9c351c.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don't hate me because I don't agree fully with the Anti Black Racism agenda / Bullied</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-hate-me-because-i-don-t-agree-fully-with-the-anti-black-racism-agenda-bullied--61072223</link><description><![CDATA[Chris Rock on Child hood bullying. I reflect.                                      How much of the Antiblack racism movement are you on board with?  https://mrc.ucsf.edu/racial-equity-anti-black-racism https://journals.plos.org/ploscompbiol/article?id=10.1371/journal.pcbi.1009141 https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/26/books/review/john-mcwhorter-woke-racism.html https://www.foxnews.com/media/thomas-sowell-systemic-racism-has-no-meaning https://www.gty.org/library/blog/B180827/is-the-controversy-over-social-justice-really-necessary https://www.understood.org/en/articles/understanding-dysgraphia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e6c6b63-6b12-404d-ba63-63d2bb96448d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 10 Apr 2022 03:41:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072223/f06f4dc3a86123c13f350b071f9eb2c2.mp3" length="63559196" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chris Rock on Child hood bullying. I reflect.                                      How much of the Antiblack racism movement are you on board with?  https://mrc.ucsf.edu/racial-equity-anti-black-racism...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chris Rock on Child hood bullying. I reflect.                                      How much of the Antiblack racism movement are you on board with?  https://mrc.ucsf.edu/racial-equity-anti-black-racism https://journals.plos.org/ploscompbiol/article?id=10.1371/journal.pcbi.1009141 https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/26/books/review/john-mcwhorter-woke-racism.html https://www.foxnews.com/media/thomas-sowell-systemic-racism-has-no-meaning https://www.gty.org/library/blog/B180827/is-the-controversy-over-social-justice-really-necessary https://www.understood.org/en/articles/understanding-dysgraphia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3973</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2bb2d7af13bb7c4375724cd09f8719eb.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Your Ideas my consequence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-ideas-my-consequence--61072222</link><description><![CDATA[Societal rules were created a long time ago and of course, we as people learned to foul them up.  Going back to the Bible will help and telling people what to think won't.  Anti-black racism needs to be re-thought out, and Will and Chris are either geniuses or both need God and therapy.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c69756ca-e84b-437d-b727-93db2b2cf490</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2022 02:47:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072222/ba4bf6c4e924e1f60d7b72203810753e.mp3" length="49073984" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Societal rules were created a long time ago and of course, we as people learned to foul them up.  Going back to the Bible will help and telling people what to think won't.  Anti-black racism needs to be re-thought out, and Will and Chris are either...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Societal rules were created a long time ago and of course, we as people learned to foul them up.  Going back to the Bible will help and telling people what to think won't.  Anti-black racism needs to be re-thought out, and Will and Chris are either geniuses or both need God and therapy.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3068</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ed7f26e19238c849796257c641696724.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Royal conservatory of Athletics for Black Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-royal-conservatory-of-athletics-for-black-children--61072227</link><description><![CDATA[Why has nobody paid into a huge athletic facility for Black Children like a Kumon or Royal conservatory or a Canon Ice Sports for the Black Children of Toronto Canada or the GTA?  The Royal conservatory of Athletics for Black Children]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">31aa8813-9240-40aa-bdde-429e441477a9</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2022 23:42:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072227/e2cd62b83a49f38938d8be0033ee5ec1.mp3" length="39575862" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why has nobody paid into a huge athletic facility for Black Children like a Kumon or Royal conservatory or a Canon Ice Sports for the Black Children of Toronto Canada or the GTA?  The Royal conservatory of Athletics for Black Children</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why has nobody paid into a huge athletic facility for Black Children like a Kumon or Royal conservatory or a Canon Ice Sports for the Black Children of Toronto Canada or the GTA?  The Royal conservatory of Athletics for Black Children]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2474</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6c37cf5843b0e8bcb55252c5401f12bd.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Who cares? If Mom and Dad can't see me do it</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/who-cares-if-mom-and-dad-can-t-see-me-do-it--61072203</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I speak about the Deaths of the Apostles and what we value on this earth.  The deaths of the Apostles  Jesus hung on a cross Brothers Peter 60Ad- tortured hung upside down. Paul - 60 Ad Andrew- 70Ad. crucified 3 days on a cross in the shape of an X tied to it not nailed. Sons of thunder James - martyred 44AD John - the revelator did not get killed died at Died in Ephesus Exiled to the isle of Patmos They were going to boil in oil They Poisoned but didn’t die James - the less Ad63 thrown to the ground from a temple hit in head with a stone dead Simon the zealot 74Ad sawn in half Philip - in turkey. 54 Ad stoned and crucified Nathanael - 70 Ad wiped skinless the crucified First church in Arminia Mathew the tax collector , wrote Matthew Ethiopia church in Africa 60Ad beheaded Thomas - India 70Ad killed with a spear Judas Iscariot killed him self Jude / Thaddeus 70 Ad shot with arrows]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c92d7edc-79bf-4b2d-a9a5-665d8a2947d0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2022 02:06:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072203/f7883a7def6d272dbd31f1c58ea539c8.mp3" length="55904691" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I speak about the Deaths of the Apostles and what we value on this earth.  The deaths of the Apostles  Jesus hung on a cross Brothers Peter 60Ad- tortured hung upside down. Paul - 60 Ad Andrew- 70Ad. crucified 3 days on a cross in the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I speak about the Deaths of the Apostles and what we value on this earth.  The deaths of the Apostles  Jesus hung on a cross Brothers Peter 60Ad- tortured hung upside down. Paul - 60 Ad Andrew- 70Ad. crucified 3 days on a cross in the shape of an X tied to it not nailed. Sons of thunder James - martyred 44AD John - the revelator did not get killed died at Died in Ephesus Exiled to the isle of Patmos They were going to boil in oil They Poisoned but didn’t die James - the less Ad63 thrown to the ground from a temple hit in head with a stone dead Simon the zealot 74Ad sawn in half Philip - in turkey. 54 Ad stoned and crucified Nathanael - 70 Ad wiped skinless the crucified First church in Arminia Mathew the tax collector , wrote Matthew Ethiopia church in Africa 60Ad beheaded Thomas - India 70Ad killed with a spear Judas Iscariot killed him self Jude / Thaddeus 70 Ad shot with arrows]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3494</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a96dc6fc61d76f9dfdba2eedd4618ee5.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>does your sin scare you?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-your-sin-scare-you--61072236</link><description><![CDATA[Sins in my life Colossians 3 our humanness along with our actual human members are vehicles of sin including our mind (thoughts ) body (eyes mouth hands etc… ) First list Perverted love What we do This list is Personal Verse 5 —————————————————————— The Second list is  perverted hate What we say This list is Social Deep down burning anger Defaming people Slander Abusive speech Self-worship Why is it tough in my case… Verse 8 and verse 9 Romans 7 Specifically Romans 7: 15 It all adds up to idolatry The more you know God The more you live God The more you will triumph  catch Pastor Johns Sermon https://youtu.be/zUSHEKnqp5A]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">52cdcfc5-73a5-450a-bbad-e7a532d29f7d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2022 00:32:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072236/40833fbb2db8a23f82efcfa20ce8fca0.mp3" length="41002356" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sins in my life Colossians 3 our humanness along with our actual human members are vehicles of sin including our mind (thoughts ) body (eyes mouth hands etc… ) First list Perverted love What we do This list is Personal Verse 5 ——————————————————————...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sins in my life Colossians 3 our humanness along with our actual human members are vehicles of sin including our mind (thoughts ) body (eyes mouth hands etc… ) First list Perverted love What we do This list is Personal Verse 5 —————————————————————— The Second list is  perverted hate What we say This list is Social Deep down burning anger Defaming people Slander Abusive speech Self-worship Why is it tough in my case… Verse 8 and verse 9 Romans 7 Specifically Romans 7: 15 It all adds up to idolatry The more you know God The more you live God The more you will triumph  catch Pastor Johns Sermon https://youtu.be/zUSHEKnqp5A]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2563</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/421ffe0418c58c62273e0d61edc0bdfd.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Are you good?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-good--61072212</link><description><![CDATA[Pursuit of the good The Ten Commandments   I broke all of them and I used to scoff at them. Thinking not me.  I used to love watching the movie yearly  When we really take a look what do we see? Bent - not able to stay in Straight Broken - having been fractured damaged no longer in one piece or in working order Miserable - wretched unhappy or uncomfortable Malevolent - Having a showing or wish to do evil to others Hurt - To cause physical pain or injury Corrupt - Having or showing a willingness to act in return for gain Weak - lacking the power to perform a physically demanding task Pathetic - arousing pity, especially through vulnerability or sadness. Contemptible - despicable, pitiable, sorry arousing or deserving of scorn Frustrating - causing annoyance or upset because of an inability to change or achieve something Disappointing - failing to fulfill someone’s hopes or expectations.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4e491112-1104-4283-ace8-fd87600174c2</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2022 02:46:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072212/164085098b0ab2fce9520bbbce23412e.mp3" length="48662712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pursuit of the good The Ten Commandments   I broke all of them and I used to scoff at them. Thinking not me.  I used to love watching the movie yearly  When we really take a look what do we see? Bent - not able to stay in Straight Broken - having been...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pursuit of the good The Ten Commandments   I broke all of them and I used to scoff at them. Thinking not me.  I used to love watching the movie yearly  When we really take a look what do we see? Bent - not able to stay in Straight Broken - having been fractured damaged no longer in one piece or in working order Miserable - wretched unhappy or uncomfortable Malevolent - Having a showing or wish to do evil to others Hurt - To cause physical pain or injury Corrupt - Having or showing a willingness to act in return for gain Weak - lacking the power to perform a physically demanding task Pathetic - arousing pity, especially through vulnerability or sadness. Contemptible - despicable, pitiable, sorry arousing or deserving of scorn Frustrating - causing annoyance or upset because of an inability to change or achieve something Disappointing - failing to fulfill someone’s hopes or expectations.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3042</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/142c6b05d5e5870a452d2735ac19ea64.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>relationship Loss and self restoration</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-loss-and-self-restoration--61072188</link><description><![CDATA[Demasking In Canada We all can fall victim to the crabs in a bucket syndrome or the battered wife syndrome even when we have the opportunity to help someone get out of a problem we tend to as a society pull them down almost as a default. The issue is most of the time we don't recognize it but the individuals do. Instead we choose a variation of tall poppy syndrome clipping the stem or wings of anyone who would dear and try to stand out or flyout of a given situation and proper. Even when we are given the opportunity for freedom or to in this case breath fresh air many of us will choose to stay masked. But why? How to get over it   Take time to cry if you have to but don’t let your emotions dictate your actions  Be nice better yet be wonderful to those who have taken advantage or left you  Don't be a  turn into a whipping boy or girl  Consider that you may have actually done more wrong than them even when considering being a pushover.  Work at being the best version of yourself  Look to the bible for direction, guidances and wisdom    Eat better  Give more of your time to those you may have neglected  Focus on your God given gift that you may have packed away in whatever capacity that you can  Find time to get healthy  Join a club or find a new hobby, that lets your talents and character shine through    Don't look to replace what you just lost unless that was your motive in the first place and you were the one to end it.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">50d82981-1985-4c5f-a913-e000a4723edb</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 00:50:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072188/d0ee5664c7bc33bb89464bdba5e88da1.mp3" length="58695823" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Demasking In Canada We all can fall victim to the crabs in a bucket syndrome or the battered wife syndrome even when we have the opportunity to help someone get out of a problem we tend to as a society pull them down almost as a default. The issue is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Demasking In Canada We all can fall victim to the crabs in a bucket syndrome or the battered wife syndrome even when we have the opportunity to help someone get out of a problem we tend to as a society pull them down almost as a default. The issue is most of the time we don't recognize it but the individuals do. Instead we choose a variation of tall poppy syndrome clipping the stem or wings of anyone who would dear and try to stand out or flyout of a given situation and proper. Even when we are given the opportunity for freedom or to in this case breath fresh air many of us will choose to stay masked. But why? How to get over it   Take time to cry if you have to but don’t let your emotions dictate your actions  Be nice better yet be wonderful to those who have taken advantage or left you  Don't be a  turn into a whipping boy or girl  Consider that you may have actually done more wrong than them even when considering being a pushover.  Work at being the best version of yourself  Look to the bible for direction, guidances and wisdom    Eat better  Give more of your time to those you may have neglected  Focus on your God given gift that you may have packed away in whatever capacity that you can  Find time to get healthy  Join a club or find a new hobby, that lets your talents and character shine through    Don't look to replace what you just lost unless that was your motive in the first place and you were the one to end it.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3669</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/309fe921c68fe8245730b9019c803e65.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>things need to change for our kids to succeed Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/things-need-to-change-for-our-kids-to-succeed-part-1--61072243</link><description><![CDATA[ very rough notes : Everyone says the plan is to get the child caught up and then eventually integrate them back into regular reading writing and arithmetic but in most cases it never happens and when it does it rarely happens successfully. Most kids that are behind by high school find other things to occupy their time. Hoop dreams Rap dreams Car dreams Girl dreams Boy dreams Insta dream Tik too dreams etc… cell phones and amazingly interesting little Demons.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">79d8dfa2-e720-41b9-acd5-5058d0375cf3</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2022 01:30:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072243/e9d3da4ecabb5a7a7b7a0f6112fcef51.mp3" length="46883878" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle> very rough notes : Everyone says the plan is to get the child caught up and then eventually integrate them back into regular reading writing and arithmetic but in most cases it never happens and when it does it rarely happens successfully. Most kids...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ very rough notes : Everyone says the plan is to get the child caught up and then eventually integrate them back into regular reading writing and arithmetic but in most cases it never happens and when it does it rarely happens successfully. Most kids that are behind by high school find other things to occupy their time. Hoop dreams Rap dreams Car dreams Girl dreams Boy dreams Insta dream Tik too dreams etc… cell phones and amazingly interesting little Demons.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2931</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/62d19f588c948415af1d9c2b57623c31.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Glitch do you?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-glitch-do-you--61072229</link><description><![CDATA[glitch \GLITCH\ noun. 1 a : a usually minor malfunction; also : an unexpected defect, fault, flaw, or imperfection. b : a minor problem that causes a temporary setback : snag. 2 : a false or spurious. - I can’t spell tomorrow    Can’t shuffle cards  - Can’t tread water - I can’t do advanced math like calculus or functions - I can’t easily make out words when people try to spell them for me.  - Can’t cross my legs - Can’t do the whistle where you put two fingers in your mouth - I can never remember if fiction is the real one or the fake one, because of fission, friction , fiction  - I can’t grow a full beard - Every time I try to say Salvation Army I say Old Navy]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ad8027d0-c795-4643-8315-fcca5c1635b2</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2022 01:16:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072229/b17bf16459cc708d4b725e8d4e7311a8.mp3" length="32723421" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>glitch \GLITCH\ noun. 1 a : a usually minor malfunction; also : an unexpected defect, fault, flaw, or imperfection. b : a minor problem that causes a temporary setback : snag. 2 : a false or spurious. - I can’t spell tomorrow    Can’t shuffle cards  -...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[glitch \GLITCH\ noun. 1 a : a usually minor malfunction; also : an unexpected defect, fault, flaw, or imperfection. b : a minor problem that causes a temporary setback : snag. 2 : a false or spurious. - I can’t spell tomorrow    Can’t shuffle cards  - Can’t tread water - I can’t do advanced math like calculus or functions - I can’t easily make out words when people try to spell them for me.  - Can’t cross my legs - Can’t do the whistle where you put two fingers in your mouth - I can never remember if fiction is the real one or the fake one, because of fission, friction , fiction  - I can’t grow a full beard - Every time I try to say Salvation Army I say Old Navy]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2046</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/390bb3f3eda30c5b868e352da03e2405.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tricks employers get away with</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tricks-employers-get-away-with--61072237</link><description><![CDATA[Basically, Lost a Job then fell into a better one.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">68777fcf-b276-4946-81f9-dbebfc63892f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:44:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072237/2bd40fb820495601c29381be1882e472.mp3" length="24480848" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Basically, Lost a Job then fell into a better one.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Basically, Lost a Job then fell into a better one.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1530</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b57fb63f35d6fd203fd5553978170627.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>questions and answers 31-42</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/questions-and-answers-31-42--61072249</link><description><![CDATA[Should mobile phones be allowed in schools &amp; colleges?  Hard Work vs Smart Work  Impact of movies on youth  Should the Internet be censored?  Should Uniforms be mandatory in schools?  Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage  E-Learning: A substitute for classroom learning?  Are you working on any projects outside of work?   Do you think the 4-day workweek is the future?   Has your company embraced hybrid working?   How?   How can our company do more to promote antiracism?  https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/90-108]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7ddfc275-ef87-4380-ba99-4ad45eb3a4f3</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Feb 2022 02:08:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072249/7db304f11d80ef8ee0715bd0fc792dc0.mp3" length="41242683" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Should mobile phones be allowed in schools &amp;amp; colleges?  Hard Work vs Smart Work  Impact of movies on youth  Should the Internet be censored?  Should Uniforms be mandatory in schools?  Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage  E-Learning: A substitute...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Should mobile phones be allowed in schools &amp; colleges?  Hard Work vs Smart Work  Impact of movies on youth  Should the Internet be censored?  Should Uniforms be mandatory in schools?  Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage  E-Learning: A substitute for classroom learning?  Are you working on any projects outside of work?   Do you think the 4-day workweek is the future?   Has your company embraced hybrid working?   How?   How can our company do more to promote antiracism?  https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/90-108]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2578</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/442edce7bc3466a15e0e00392be7906a.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Guard your mind</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/guard-your-mind--61072247</link><description><![CDATA[rough notes 8. How can I cultivate the attitude of giving in my life and those in my family?   Give because it is a good thing to do  Give because we have all received the free gift of salvation worth more than anything we can give  Let your family see you give but don't do it for credit  If it's not genuine people will feel it  9. I lost everything now what?   Recognize you still have lived the most precious gift  Crying is okay and in most cases necessary  Thank God like Job in the bible  Make small plans to recoup where possible and practical  Crush bitterness in your heart as soon as you feel it bible examples and stories.  10. Life has not turned out the way I  had hoped. Help   Most people can say that their perfect narrative has not worked out exactly   Don’t stop working at life   Make small attainable goals   Take it day by day or hour by hour whatever makes sense for you   Read the story of Job and or Joseph (Joseph story is easier)  11. Watching shows and movies listening to music all made by unbelievers    Although quite fun very dangerous   Books even more so   Listening to twisted ungodly catch tunes can have you doing what you wouldn't have otherwise ( if you are an emotional and musical person this might be worse for you)  but that is just my opinion   People really do have soundtracks to their lives if you don't know  what it is here is some homework:  If you are able to recall serious losses, triumphs, no experience, heartache, bad decisions, by year even month and day ie.. your sweet 16 years lookup music use to listen to or even the billboard charts at that time or just think about a time in your life and chances are you can remember a song that gives you a certain feeling every time you hear it or see it video or movie ( even a play might have more of an effect).  Example from my life: Fine young cannibals - I've been thinking about you Chicago -  songs and the Karate Kid Bobby Brown- Roni Mint condition - pretty Brown eyes Across the bridge- church song Song by t-pain - everybody's hands goes up etc… The Cranberries - Linger Cindy Lauper - True Colours Movies- if you are taken away by them and enter the world of the Characters it can affect you profoundly. Examples Lawless - three brothers fight through life during prohibition Shawshank - Andy Duphrenes life of misfortune Sling Blade - Green Mile-  (Michael Clark Duncan &amp; Tom Hanks The passion of the Christ Prince of Egypt The Ten Commandments - Charlton Heston The Sound of Music Kuch Kuch Hota Hai  S Khan (SRK) Kal ho Naho - S  Khan Foreigner - Jackie Chan Django unchain - Jamie Foxx So consider when you watch and listen The following scripture obviously is not talking about music and movies but if you can grasp the concept of being free from fleshly emotions of doing certain things that are legalistic but unprofitable in the grand scheme of life. We can consider that tugging at our emotions by music lyrics beautiful voices, lavish lifestyle horrible occurrences, rapturing emotions brought to us by unsaved ungodly and unwell people. It's a deep level of consideration that one has to go through to come to this conclusion. But if you know what I mean then you know it is just that simple.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">2f43fd20-6818-4c7d-a7ae-f22e43f220c5</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2022 18:26:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072247/100bee1a3ec21d235cb974326e4e7cad.mp3" length="44210611" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>rough notes 8. How can I cultivate the attitude of giving in my life and those in my family?   Give because it is a good thing to do  Give because we have all received the free gift of salvation worth more than anything we can give  Let your family...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[rough notes 8. How can I cultivate the attitude of giving in my life and those in my family?   Give because it is a good thing to do  Give because we have all received the free gift of salvation worth more than anything we can give  Let your family see you give but don't do it for credit  If it's not genuine people will feel it  9. I lost everything now what?   Recognize you still have lived the most precious gift  Crying is okay and in most cases necessary  Thank God like Job in the bible  Make small plans to recoup where possible and practical  Crush bitterness in your heart as soon as you feel it bible examples and stories.  10. Life has not turned out the way I  had hoped. Help   Most people can say that their perfect narrative has not worked out exactly   Don’t stop working at life   Make small attainable goals   Take it day by day or hour by hour whatever makes sense for you   Read the story of Job and or Joseph (Joseph story is easier)  11. Watching shows and movies listening to music all made by unbelievers    Although quite fun very dangerous   Books even more so   Listening to twisted ungodly catch tunes can have you doing what you wouldn't have otherwise ( if you are an emotional and musical person this might be worse for you)  but that is just my opinion   People really do have soundtracks to their lives if you don't know  what it is here is some homework:  If you are able to recall serious losses, triumphs, no experience, heartache, bad decisions, by year even month and day ie.. your sweet 16 years lookup music use to listen to or even the billboard charts at that time or just think about a time in your life and chances are you can remember a song that gives you a certain feeling every time you hear it or see it video or movie ( even a play might have more of an effect).  Example from my life: Fine young cannibals - I've been thinking about you Chicago -  songs and the Karate Kid Bobby Brown- Roni Mint condition - pretty Brown eyes Across the bridge- church song Song by t-pain - everybody's hands goes up etc… The Cranberries - Linger Cindy Lauper - True Colours Movies- if you are taken away by them and enter the world of the Characters it can affect you profoundly. Examples Lawless - three brothers fight through life during prohibition Shawshank - Andy Duphrenes life of misfortune Sling Blade - Green Mile-  (Michael Clark Duncan &amp; Tom Hanks The passion of the Christ Prince of Egypt The Ten Commandments - Charlton Heston The Sound of Music Kuch Kuch Hota Hai  S Khan (SRK) Kal ho Naho - S  Khan Foreigner - Jackie Chan Django unchain - Jamie Foxx So consider when you watch and listen The following scripture obviously is not talking about music and movies but if you can grasp the concept of being free from fleshly emotions of doing certain things that are legalistic but unprofitable in the grand scheme of life. We can consider that tugging at our emotions by music lyrics beautiful voices, lavish lifestyle horrible occurrences, rapturing emotions brought to us by unsaved ungodly and unwell people. It's a deep level of consideration that one has to go through to come to this conclusion. But if you know what I mean then you know it is just that simple.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2764</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8e6dda20f6b0e28f98103396545295c3.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>People are dumb for hating on Russell Westbrook</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/people-are-dumb-for-hating-on-russell-westbrook--61072231</link><description><![CDATA[Russell Put some respect on my Westbrook yes, that's right he gets to stay in LA and I am so happy! The team was already doomed so he might as well stay]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5f718a11-84a1-4a37-afdc-ee7267a97f68</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2022 00:58:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072231/8e2273209ceee74076f9c0681a7e033f.mp3" length="16110379" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Russell Put some respect on my Westbrook yes, that's right he gets to stay in LA and I am so happy! The team was already doomed so he might as well stay</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Russell Put some respect on my Westbrook yes, that's right he gets to stay in LA and I am so happy! The team was already doomed so he might as well stay]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1007</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bbc93d397a8abdba4a67f7e7c225126e.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Perseverance over everything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/perseverance-over-everything--61072199</link><description><![CDATA[Excellence collinsdictionary.com (eksələns) 1. UNCOUNTABLE NOUN If someone or something has the quality of excellence, they are extremely good in some way. Synonyms: high quality, worth, merit, distinction More Synonyms of excellence https://www.vocabulary.com Definitions of excellence   noun the quality of excelling; possessing good qualities in high degree  noun an outstanding feature; something in which something or someone excels  Essential Meaning of perseverance Mariam webster.com : the quality that allows someone to continue trying to do something even though it is difficult Perseverance is required to perfect just about any skill. Perseverance Dictionary.com [ pur-suh-veer-uhns ]SHOW IPA See synonyms for: perseverance / perseverant on Thesaurus.com 📙 Middle School Level noun steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement. Theology. continuance in a state of grace to the end, leading to eternal salvation. Collinsdictionary.com Definition of 'perseverance' UNCOUNTABLE NOUN Perseverance is the quality of continuing with something even though it is difficult.Synonyms: persistence, resolution, determination, dedication More Synonyms of perseverance Diversity   the state of being diverse; variety. "there was considerable diversity in the style of the reports"  2. the practice or quality of including or involving people from a range of different social and ethnic backgrounds and of different genders, sexual orientations, etc.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c268af06-d923-4753-98f8-88b5747de0ec</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2022 15:31:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072199/1c12513705fd784ae03cb03169bc7a59.mp3" length="64459062" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Excellence collinsdictionary.com (eksələns) 1. UNCOUNTABLE NOUN If someone or something has the quality of excellence, they are extremely good in some way. Synonyms: high quality, worth, merit, distinction More Synonyms of excellence...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Excellence collinsdictionary.com (eksələns) 1. UNCOUNTABLE NOUN If someone or something has the quality of excellence, they are extremely good in some way. Synonyms: high quality, worth, merit, distinction More Synonyms of excellence https://www.vocabulary.com Definitions of excellence   noun the quality of excelling; possessing good qualities in high degree  noun an outstanding feature; something in which something or someone excels  Essential Meaning of perseverance Mariam webster.com : the quality that allows someone to continue trying to do something even though it is difficult Perseverance is required to perfect just about any skill. Perseverance Dictionary.com [ pur-suh-veer-uhns ]SHOW IPA See synonyms for: perseverance / perseverant on Thesaurus.com 📙 Middle School Level noun steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement. Theology. continuance in a state of grace to the end, leading to eternal salvation. Collinsdictionary.com Definition of 'perseverance' UNCOUNTABLE NOUN Perseverance is the quality of continuing with something even though it is difficult.Synonyms: persistence, resolution, determination, dedication More Synonyms of perseverance Diversity   the state of being diverse; variety. "there was considerable diversity in the style of the reports"  2. the practice or quality of including or involving people from a range of different social and ethnic backgrounds and of different genders, sexual orientations, etc.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4029</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6397cee89078b742b0da6e5bac45a1e9.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>S'more questions and answers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/s-more-questions-and-answers--61072233</link><description><![CDATA[1. What to do with fake people?   Be an example  Do your best to be polite if possible and call them out on it.  You never know why someone has that default setting  Maybe being genuine got them into trouble in the past  2. What to do with people who have stolen from you?   Tell the story of the mixer in the garage  Forgive them   Call them out on it if you find out who  3. How do I stay positive after a breakup full of rejection?    Realize it really isn't the end of the world   Many times this will feel really horrible, like a death in your family   Don’t beg   If the closer is offered take it   Move on  4. Is academic success everything?    The short answer is no but it is certainly something   People I have known with a brilliant mind still fail without balance   It can help you be a better or adequate provider  5. How to support your spouse?    Ask them and listen to their answers   The answer will come in word and action   Take instruction from scriptures because sometimes your spouse doesn't really know how they need the support.  6. How to stop being a doormat?    You are fearfully and wonderfully made says the bible   Being a doormat is not the same as being humble   Let people earn your presence and know it is not just a given in their life  7. How to behave when angry    Be angry at sin against God or you or others   Don't be angry because someone has a different POV where scripture hs provision or no direction on]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">da776cb1-fa4b-4cdb-a86d-647c6adcc5ea</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2022 02:27:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072233/a93e1749e3127f6986da7ed0d8691e28.mp3" length="29758418" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>1. What to do with fake people?   Be an example  Do your best to be polite if possible and call them out on it.  You never know why someone has that default setting  Maybe being genuine got them into trouble in the past  2. What to do with people who...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[1. What to do with fake people?   Be an example  Do your best to be polite if possible and call them out on it.  You never know why someone has that default setting  Maybe being genuine got them into trouble in the past  2. What to do with people who have stolen from you?   Tell the story of the mixer in the garage  Forgive them   Call them out on it if you find out who  3. How do I stay positive after a breakup full of rejection?    Realize it really isn't the end of the world   Many times this will feel really horrible, like a death in your family   Don’t beg   If the closer is offered take it   Move on  4. Is academic success everything?    The short answer is no but it is certainly something   People I have known with a brilliant mind still fail without balance   It can help you be a better or adequate provider  5. How to support your spouse?    Ask them and listen to their answers   The answer will come in word and action   Take instruction from scriptures because sometimes your spouse doesn't really know how they need the support.  6. How to stop being a doormat?    You are fearfully and wonderfully made says the bible   Being a doormat is not the same as being humble   Let people earn your presence and know it is not just a given in their life  7. How to behave when angry    Be angry at sin against God or you or others   Don't be angry because someone has a different POV where scripture hs provision or no direction on]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1860</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e363778c2aed3c62585e0605953cc076.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>This is how I feel about black History Month</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-is-how-i-feel-about-black-history-month--61072240</link><description><![CDATA[Today is January 31st 2022 Trudeau has covid Tomorrow is Black history month This pas weekend the Truckers have Properly messed up the protestor pack highways Covid is still killing 10 of people everyday here in Canada. Its been 616 days since George Floyds dead I and Trudeau were both 48 "The awareness of the issues around race and policing in this country, as well as in the United States. And as you heard from the minister, the prime minister is set to address some of those issues in his remarks today." "Unknown","00;13;49;07","00;14;06;26","Maybe I'll bring in because I didn't get your perspective on that. I know you were hosting on Friday, and he did talk about it a little bit, but the situation has even changed since Friday. Certainly not to the level that it is right now, or at least we were not witnessing exactly what we did witness over" "Unknown","00;14;06;26","00;14;22;02","the weekend and at the end of of the press conference unprompted, the prime minister talked about a lot of what you just heard, Minister Hussein outline, and primarily that while we are watching this unfold south of the border, it is not an issue that is relegated only to the south of the border that in fact, it is very" "Unknown","00;14;22;02","00;14;35;01","present and very real for so many people in this country. And it is something that needs to be discussed and discussed more and with more frequency. I anticipate that we will hear something similar from the prime minister today." "Unknown","00;14;35;29","00;14;51;18","I'm not sure in the way of specifics, but I thought all your questions were, you know, it was very interesting to hear it from Minister Hussain's perspective, and I can only imagine Minister Jagmeet Singh, who's also the leader of the NDP, addressed it earlier today, talked about his own lived experience and as well." "Unknown","00;14;51;21","00;15;05;25","I think the main issue that I walk away from listening to both of them is, you know, as much as possible, we're all the time. Actually, we should not be dismissing the idea that it is very present here just because we are not watching that video at this juncture." "Unknown","00;15;05;25","00;15;20;25","Take place here in Canada doesn't mean that it isn't the reality that so many people in this country face day in and day out. And you're right to point out that example in Toronto, where the family of that young woman is concerned about what happened to her and if race was a motivating factor, they don't have any" "Unknown","00;15;20;25","00;15;34;24","conclusions about. Those questions at this point are very much being raised in. This happened just in the middle of last week in Toronto. So certainly I walk away thinking to myself a lot about the presence of that issue right now for so many people in this country." "Unknown","00;15;34;24","00;15;55;07","And that is what we are hearing, echoed by politicians very frequently at this point as well. Yeah. And certainly, we've talked about over the course of the past couple of months now how issues are often exacerbated during the pandemic and problems that were that existed and we all maybe were aware of have been laid bare in a" "Unknown","00;15;55;07","00;16;15;29","different way. And I I only make that point because in the case of George Floyd, he had been laid off because of the pandemic at a restaurant. So these stories are intertwined and people are feeling frustrated. Jagmeet Singh, one of the things that he brought up this morning was a need for more data around race when" "Unknown","00;16;15;29","00;16;28;21","it comes to the pandemic. That's something that we are not collecting systematically in this country, so we don't have a really good picture of how it is affecting minority populations or black populations in this country in a different way."]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">86f79734-b968-45be-8f58-fbf1a37228b7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2022 01:03:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072240/f49347edfe27414ee86e21bed857288e.mp3" length="83632103" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today is January 31st 2022 Trudeau has covid Tomorrow is Black history month This pas weekend the Truckers have Properly messed up the protestor pack highways Covid is still killing 10 of people everyday here in Canada. Its been 616 days since George...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today is January 31st 2022 Trudeau has covid Tomorrow is Black history month This pas weekend the Truckers have Properly messed up the protestor pack highways Covid is still killing 10 of people everyday here in Canada. Its been 616 days since George Floyds dead I and Trudeau were both 48 "The awareness of the issues around race and policing in this country, as well as in the United States. And as you heard from the minister, the prime minister is set to address some of those issues in his remarks today." "Unknown","00;13;49;07","00;14;06;26","Maybe I'll bring in because I didn't get your perspective on that. I know you were hosting on Friday, and he did talk about it a little bit, but the situation has even changed since Friday. Certainly not to the level that it is right now, or at least we were not witnessing exactly what we did witness over" "Unknown","00;14;06;26","00;14;22;02","the weekend and at the end of of the press conference unprompted, the prime minister talked about a lot of what you just heard, Minister Hussein outline, and primarily that while we are watching this unfold south of the border, it is not an issue that is relegated only to the south of the border that in fact, it is very" "Unknown","00;14;22;02","00;14;35;01","present and very real for so many people in this country. And it is something that needs to be discussed and discussed more and with more frequency. I anticipate that we will hear something similar from the prime minister today." "Unknown","00;14;35;29","00;14;51;18","I'm not sure in the way of specifics, but I thought all your questions were, you know, it was very interesting to hear it from Minister Hussain's perspective, and I can only imagine Minister Jagmeet Singh, who's also the leader of the NDP, addressed it earlier today, talked about his own lived experience and as well." "Unknown","00;14;51;21","00;15;05;25","I think the main issue that I walk away from listening to both of them is, you know, as much as possible, we're all the time. Actually, we should not be dismissing the idea that it is very present here just because we are not watching that video at this juncture." "Unknown","00;15;05;25","00;15;20;25","Take place here in Canada doesn't mean that it isn't the reality that so many people in this country face day in and day out. And you're right to point out that example in Toronto, where the family of that young woman is concerned about what happened to her and if race was a motivating factor, they don't have any" "Unknown","00;15;20;25","00;15;34;24","conclusions about. Those questions at this point are very much being raised in. This happened just in the middle of last week in Toronto. So certainly I walk away thinking to myself a lot about the presence of that issue right now for so many people in this country." "Unknown","00;15;34;24","00;15;55;07","And that is what we are hearing, echoed by politicians very frequently at this point as well. Yeah. And certainly, we've talked about over the course of the past couple of months now how issues are often exacerbated during the pandemic and problems that were that existed and we all maybe were aware of have been laid bare in a" "Unknown","00;15;55;07","00;16;15;29","different way. And I I only make that point because in the case of George Floyd, he had been laid off because of the pandemic at a restaurant. So these stories are intertwined and people are feeling frustrated. Jagmeet Singh, one of the things that he brought up this morning was a need for more data around race when" "Unknown","00;16;15;29","00;16;28;21","it comes to the pandemic. That's something that we are not collecting systematically in this country, so we don't have a really good picture of how it is affecting minority populations or black populations in this country in a different way."]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5227</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eb627caeebfa9ba439faec54adb20d50.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dealing with anger</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-anger--61072220</link><description><![CDATA[stories of the angry police officer    What we all experience, the consequences and the effects of human anger. We have all been angry at times in our own lives. And we've had people who were angry with us and anger as a force or as a power. It's one of the most destructive forces that can be unleashed among human beings. And it is an emotion, a posture and attitude that is so powerful and so real and so pervasive in our culture that you would think we would have a better handle on our understanding of it. And yet it seems as though we don't understand very much about anger. And yet the scripture is by no means silent. On this matter of anger. And I'd like to turn your attention for a moment. To the New Testament, to the fourth chapter of Paul's letter to the Ephesians. Beginning with verse 25, Ephesians four, 25, the Apostle writes these words. Therefore, putting away lying. Let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbour. four, We are members of one another. Be angry and do not sin. And do not let the sun go down on your path, nor give place to the devil. Now here, Paul addresses this difficult problem of anger. And he does it in a rather unusual way.  inspired by R.C Sproul]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c36ab94c-1583-428a-9282-efa0b511c54d</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2022 15:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072220/3d68094447d2d92ec94945fbcf6286e6.mp3" length="57586977" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>stories of the angry police officer    What we all experience, the consequences and the effects of human anger. We have all been angry at times in our own lives. And we've had people who were angry with us and anger as a force or as a power. It's one...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[stories of the angry police officer    What we all experience, the consequences and the effects of human anger. We have all been angry at times in our own lives. And we've had people who were angry with us and anger as a force or as a power. It's one of the most destructive forces that can be unleashed among human beings. And it is an emotion, a posture and attitude that is so powerful and so real and so pervasive in our culture that you would think we would have a better handle on our understanding of it. And yet it seems as though we don't understand very much about anger. And yet the scripture is by no means silent. On this matter of anger. And I'd like to turn your attention for a moment. To the New Testament, to the fourth chapter of Paul's letter to the Ephesians. Beginning with verse 25, Ephesians four, 25, the Apostle writes these words. Therefore, putting away lying. Let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbour. four, We are members of one another. Be angry and do not sin. And do not let the sun go down on your path, nor give place to the devil. Now here, Paul addresses this difficult problem of anger. And he does it in a rather unusual way.  inspired by R.C Sproul]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3600</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7d8d45203bd3535bc683698d39b0382f.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 more Questions and answer of random stuff</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-more-questions-and-answer-of-random-stuff--61072245</link><description><![CDATA[Questions and answer of random stuff https://soundcloud.com/dj-dosado/cardio-or-cardiac-mix-djdosadocom-july-9-2015?si=6c9b9735c09d460fb29619fef72e3d21&amp;utm_source=clipboard&amp;utm_medium=text&amp;utm_campaign=social_sharing   Can illiterates be given driving licenses? give'm reading lessons  Retirement Homes – Pros &amp; Cons  Democracy vs Monarchy  Which one is more important – Creativity or Knowledge?  Who serves the country most – Teacher or Solider?  Should Physical Education be made compulsory in schools?   Effects of video games on well-being   Are celebrities treated unfairly by the media?   Impact of News channels on society   Compulsory Yoga in schools – Pros and Cons    https://www.mixcloud.com/michael-dosado/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0ec568da-5ab4-4ccf-a19c-439597bd566d</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2022 00:25:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072245/018be6511b95277913d64784461539be.mp3" length="44022530" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Questions and answer of random stuff https://soundcloud.com/dj-dosado/cardio-or-cardiac-mix-djdosadocom-july-9-2015?si=6c9b9735c09d460fb29619fef72e3d21&amp;amp;utm_source=clipboard&amp;amp;utm_medium=text&amp;amp;utm_campaign=social_sharing   Can illiterates be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Questions and answer of random stuff https://soundcloud.com/dj-dosado/cardio-or-cardiac-mix-djdosadocom-july-9-2015?si=6c9b9735c09d460fb29619fef72e3d21&amp;utm_source=clipboard&amp;utm_medium=text&amp;utm_campaign=social_sharing   Can illiterates be given driving licenses? give'm reading lessons  Retirement Homes – Pros &amp; Cons  Democracy vs Monarchy  Which one is more important – Creativity or Knowledge?  Who serves the country most – Teacher or Solider?  Should Physical Education be made compulsory in schools?   Effects of video games on well-being   Are celebrities treated unfairly by the media?   Impact of News channels on society   Compulsory Yoga in schools – Pros and Cons    https://www.mixcloud.com/michael-dosado/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2752</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0a11b1f6e189b4e6294824c0192f1b1e.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bill 21 Quebec (secularism law)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bill-21-quebec-secularism-law--61072248</link><description><![CDATA[Bill 21 in Montreal Canada MONTREAL -- A new poll suggests support may have slipped for a key element of Quebec's secularism law, known as Bill 21. A web panel survey carried out by Leger for the Association for Canadian Studies earlier this month found 55 percent of Quebecers are in favour of banning religious symbols being worn by public school teachers. Happy employees, do a better job Teamwork vs Individual work Books vs Movies Movies breed crime Digital detox Peer pressure Confidence vs Knowledge Should junk food be banned? Fame is a double-edged sword Money or Happiness – Can money make us happy?      "MCM","00;00;00;20","00;00;14;28","Good day, good afternoon, good night. How are you doing? This is MCM and you're listening to you're probably right. Today we are going to have a serious conversation. Well, maybe not a serious conversation, but there's going to be a serious talk happening here." "MCM","00;00;15;05","00;00;43;10","Now, of course, I'm only doing the talking, but just stay tuned. All right, so. This is you're probably right podcast. And you are welcome in my house any time. Figuratively speaking, of course, now. There's something that really bothered me today, I picked up my phone and, you know, it tells me the usage rate for the week." "MCM","00;00;43;22","00;01;02;00","And I immediately went to this news app that gives me the supposedly news, the hot flashes, the stuff that's going on right now that we need to know. And most of the time, I actually avoid it unless there's something that I actually want to know." "MCM","00;01;03;01","00;01;23;12","Because I don't depend on the news outlets to give me what I need to know daily because I'd rather focus on other things like the Bible, like life, like my family, like God. You understand. So anyways, I did roll over today and I saw something and it's another bill now." "MCM","00;01;23;19","00;01;41;25","I did do a podcast. I can't remember which podcast it was about these bills that just keep popping up and out of nowhere. Seemingly, I know they're doing polls around the place and I don't know. I've never been, you know, I'm I'm an older dude and I've never been put in one of these polls where my actual" "MCM","00;01;41;25","00;02;00;28","opinion actually counted for something. But there's this bill. 21. OK, I'm going to read it to you. It's off a CP24 here and I don't know where you live, but this is specific to the Toronto area, but I'm assuming that this is coming to." "MCM","00;02;02;12","00;02;30;27","Legislation near you, so think about this and really, really take it in because it's just getting worse and worse. OK. Polls suggest. Support for Bill 21 provisions may have dropped in Quebec, 55 in favour. OK. Many rolls. A new poll suggests, OK, OK, I'm just reading that over again and that doesn't mean I'll read over again." "MCM","00;02;31;05","00;02;51;18","MONTREAL A new poll suggests support may have slipped for a key elements of Quebec's secularism. Secularism became said where it's right secularism law known as Bill 21, a web panel survey. See, I wish you'd put me in one of these surveys carried out by Leger."]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">694f7232-4b07-4894-a191-828010565cb9</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jan 2022 01:53:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072248/88a4100173425238876c1a982ac5639f.mp3" length="37036760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Bill 21 in Montreal Canada MONTREAL -- A new poll suggests support may have slipped for a key element of Quebec's secularism law, known as Bill 21. A web panel survey carried out by Leger for the Association for Canadian Studies earlier this month...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Bill 21 in Montreal Canada MONTREAL -- A new poll suggests support may have slipped for a key element of Quebec's secularism law, known as Bill 21. A web panel survey carried out by Leger for the Association for Canadian Studies earlier this month found 55 percent of Quebecers are in favour of banning religious symbols being worn by public school teachers. Happy employees, do a better job Teamwork vs Individual work Books vs Movies Movies breed crime Digital detox Peer pressure Confidence vs Knowledge Should junk food be banned? Fame is a double-edged sword Money or Happiness – Can money make us happy?      "MCM","00;00;00;20","00;00;14;28","Good day, good afternoon, good night. How are you doing? This is MCM and you're listening to you're probably right. Today we are going to have a serious conversation. Well, maybe not a serious conversation, but there's going to be a serious talk happening here." "MCM","00;00;15;05","00;00;43;10","Now, of course, I'm only doing the talking, but just stay tuned. All right, so. This is you're probably right podcast. And you are welcome in my house any time. Figuratively speaking, of course, now. There's something that really bothered me today, I picked up my phone and, you know, it tells me the usage rate for the week." "MCM","00;00;43;22","00;01;02;00","And I immediately went to this news app that gives me the supposedly news, the hot flashes, the stuff that's going on right now that we need to know. And most of the time, I actually avoid it unless there's something that I actually want to know." "MCM","00;01;03;01","00;01;23;12","Because I don't depend on the news outlets to give me what I need to know daily because I'd rather focus on other things like the Bible, like life, like my family, like God. You understand. So anyways, I did roll over today and I saw something and it's another bill now." "MCM","00;01;23;19","00;01;41;25","I did do a podcast. I can't remember which podcast it was about these bills that just keep popping up and out of nowhere. Seemingly, I know they're doing polls around the place and I don't know. I've never been, you know, I'm I'm an older dude and I've never been put in one of these polls where my actual" "MCM","00;01;41;25","00;02;00;28","opinion actually counted for something. But there's this bill. 21. OK, I'm going to read it to you. It's off a CP24 here and I don't know where you live, but this is specific to the Toronto area, but I'm assuming that this is coming to." "MCM","00;02;02;12","00;02;30;27","Legislation near you, so think about this and really, really take it in because it's just getting worse and worse. OK. Polls suggest. Support for Bill 21 provisions may have dropped in Quebec, 55 in favour. OK. Many rolls. A new poll suggests, OK, OK, I'm just reading that over again and that doesn't mean I'll read over again." "MCM","00;02;31;05","00;02;51;18","MONTREAL A new poll suggests support may have slipped for a key elements of Quebec's secularism. Secularism became said where it's right secularism law known as Bill 21, a web panel survey. See, I wish you'd put me in one of these surveys carried out by Leger."]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2315</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aac210b9e9f39f1ecfaeea269c5f8173.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>wisdom &amp; questions and answers 1-10</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/wisdom-questions-and-answers-1-10--61072190</link><description><![CDATA[Proverbs  Chapter 10   Should anonymity be allowed on the internet  Do deadlines destroy creativity?  Work from home – Pros &amp; Cons  Lessons for the world from COVID-19 pandemic  Is Technology making us less human?  Have we become a cynical society?   If Winning isn’t everything, why do they Keep the Score?   Expectation kills happiness   Life without phone   College should be free for everyone]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d53d80c5-c8fe-43ef-beb8-f952d4d21a08</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Jan 2022 00:49:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072190/c8a5f7f8f890926360231906f12e0c68.mp3" length="35082801" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Proverbs  Chapter 10   Should anonymity be allowed on the internet  Do deadlines destroy creativity?  Work from home – Pros &amp;amp; Cons  Lessons for the world from COVID-19 pandemic  Is Technology making us less human?  Have we become a cynical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Proverbs  Chapter 10   Should anonymity be allowed on the internet  Do deadlines destroy creativity?  Work from home – Pros &amp; Cons  Lessons for the world from COVID-19 pandemic  Is Technology making us less human?  Have we become a cynical society?   If Winning isn’t everything, why do they Keep the Score?   Expectation kills happiness   Life without phone   College should be free for everyone]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2193</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/586d6f52e13697f0a2fbbc73a4c34348.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unvitation for a Job application</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unvitation-for-a-job-application--61072187</link><description><![CDATA[Random rough notes   Unvitation.  Large institutions answer to equity…. Masfermation psychosis    Telling us what to do and not letting an equal amount of counter-information out to us… closing Twitter YouTube accounts 😝 Cancel culture keeps that in check as far as people kicking against the goads Hypernovalty -   Society and change, yo fast - devices, covid,  energy sources, rate of change is to fast… Children’s skills on computers and tech, younger and younger mastering, with maturity….  You will more and more be at the mercy of children with all of this tech. Screens. &amp; sound editing - deep fake photoshop - Is what you hear real? Autotune Government - clueless Ontario Ford and the opposition I’d rather get Covid than another shot!!! Personal view. Follow the science given by politicians]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d1ac657e-f685-4fa9-a5f6-f4ee7d2c82f6</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jan 2022 03:36:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072187/331c16b29004446f92ceccd8978791bc.mp3" length="30884818" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Random rough notes   Unvitation.  Large institutions answer to equity…. Masfermation psychosis    Telling us what to do and not letting an equal amount of counter-information out to us… closing Twitter YouTube accounts 😝 Cancel culture keeps that in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Random rough notes   Unvitation.  Large institutions answer to equity…. Masfermation psychosis    Telling us what to do and not letting an equal amount of counter-information out to us… closing Twitter YouTube accounts 😝 Cancel culture keeps that in check as far as people kicking against the goads Hypernovalty -   Society and change, yo fast - devices, covid,  energy sources, rate of change is to fast… Children’s skills on computers and tech, younger and younger mastering, with maturity….  You will more and more be at the mercy of children with all of this tech. Screens. &amp; sound editing - deep fake photoshop - Is what you hear real? Autotune Government - clueless Ontario Ford and the opposition I’d rather get Covid than another shot!!! Personal view. Follow the science given by politicians]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1931</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/60f8ac028610876f9370f52e66eccc89.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Church in any colour/color</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-church-in-any-colour-color--61072253</link><description><![CDATA[1. Ephesians 4:14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.  2. Is Reformed theology for black people? Given the history of slavery and racism practiced by white Reformed Christians, black people are an unlikely group to identify as Reformed. But that doesn't mean it didn't resonate. (RNS) — A friend recently asked me, “Is Reformed theology for black people?” 3. John Piper speaks on : from https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/why-so-few-african-american-calvinists   4. Teaching by R.C Sproul All Christians believe in Predestination  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e89d5e6f-e218-44b3-ac96-e2ad0a6cf50c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2022 03:09:40 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072253/5cc4afdb464ebfab106757d2df0ff01b.mp3" length="121872443" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>1. Ephesians 4:14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.  2. Is Reformed theology for black people? Given the history of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[1. Ephesians 4:14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes.  2. Is Reformed theology for black people? Given the history of slavery and racism practiced by white Reformed Christians, black people are an unlikely group to identify as Reformed. But that doesn't mean it didn't resonate. (RNS) — A friend recently asked me, “Is Reformed theology for black people?” 3. John Piper speaks on : from https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/why-so-few-african-american-calvinists   4. Teaching by R.C Sproul All Christians believe in Predestination  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>7617</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cb1b2d2166c10f1a97324350d728e72e.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater - A life almost ruined, due to stupid mistakes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-throw-the-baby-out-with-the-bathwater-a-life-almost-ruined-due-to-stupid-mistakes--61072221</link><description><![CDATA[1. Group think and mob mentality. 2. Covid is a flu on steroids  3. Covid rules and publicity are killing my sister with cancer. stats on breast cancer sufferers 4. Doctors not passing patients to another practitioner when retires  5. Islam a phobia is that the correct name? all up in arms about it? - 9/11 and all of the news coverage surrounding that and the dreaded jihad against all infidels 6. Free parking at the hospital! More and more we are being silenced and ostracized for not being a part of the masses thought process, spokes on a wheel when it comes to ideas. If you decide to get off of the roundabout that same wheel that you were a part of will run you over ! What is ivermectin?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7922f4f9-3546-4bc2-9e18-9b329f36313f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2022 18:19:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072221/198624050_44100_2_de30ad4dcffb9.mp3" length="48167453" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>1. Group think and mob mentality. 2. Covid is a flu on steroids  3. Covid rules and publicity are killing my sister with cancer. stats on breast cancer sufferers 4. Doctors not passing patients to another practitioner when retires  5. Islam a phobia...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[1. Group think and mob mentality. 2. Covid is a flu on steroids  3. Covid rules and publicity are killing my sister with cancer. stats on breast cancer sufferers 4. Doctors not passing patients to another practitioner when retires  5. Islam a phobia is that the correct name? all up in arms about it? - 9/11 and all of the news coverage surrounding that and the dreaded jihad against all infidels 6. Free parking at the hospital! More and more we are being silenced and ostracized for not being a part of the masses thought process, spokes on a wheel when it comes to ideas. If you decide to get off of the roundabout that same wheel that you were a part of will run you over ! What is ivermectin?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3011</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/984156168254544ec07247554929e631.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Adam left Eve alone</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adam-left-eve-alone--61072217</link><description><![CDATA[The Fall 3 Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” 2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’” 4 “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. 7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. 8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” 10 He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”  11 And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” 12 The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” 13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?”  Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. A small comment When life becomes difficult, it’s easy to forget that we serve a God who understands sacrifice. He knows what it’s like to lose for a greater good. This truth is important for believers to know because we will also be called to sacrifice. Jesus once said: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24 ESV)   So a question after all of this How do we move on from just being saved and slowly fall back into our sinful ways?   1. immerse yourself in the Bible and proper teachings of the word of God  2. Separate yourself from those who do not believe and do not do the things that  you know contradict the word of God  3. Move away from excessive partaking in the world.  4. Speak the word of God, move away from your opinion  5. Pray regularly  the main point All of us have sinned]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c62c4545-e977-4acf-a1ed-23ff9b16a77a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2021 06:01:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072217/76ee42fa06353e22b9e373c5135fc22d.mp3" length="74287372" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Fall 3 Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” 2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Fall 3 Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” 2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’” 4 “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. 7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. 8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” 10 He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.”  11 And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” 12 The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” 13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?”  Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. A small comment When life becomes difficult, it’s easy to forget that we serve a God who understands sacrifice. He knows what it’s like to lose for a greater good. This truth is important for believers to know because we will also be called to sacrifice. Jesus once said: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24 ESV)   So a question after all of this How do we move on from just being saved and slowly fall back into our sinful ways?   1. immerse yourself in the Bible and proper teachings of the word of God  2. Separate yourself from those who do not believe and do not do the things that  you know contradict the word of God  3. Move away from excessive partaking in the world.  4. Speak the word of God, move away from your opinion  5. Pray regularly  the main point All of us have sinned]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4643</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e47470e8a65fb951a21a56bb250c11ef.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Nip it in the bud - Helping descendants of the Atlantic slave trade Be better parents</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/nip-it-in-the-bud-helping-descendants-of-the-atlantic-slave-trade-be-better-parents--61072252</link><description><![CDATA[Basic show notes, unedited- 1. They say “jump!” and I say “how high are these people?” 2.  This just in there is going to be a lot of data very soon that’s gonna make it mandatory for a third shot I guarantee you this 100%. 3. The absence and late system Canada 4. Destreaminig 5. Supporting people who are parenting the dis in franchised children.  Housing education so they can sustain a household in a 2 parent home. - Too many people think they can run a home by themselves. - Offer welfare for married parents 6. The State of the Scarborough Hospitals ‘Your Past Makes You Who You Are: Retrospective Parenting and Relational Resilience Among Black Caribbean British Young People Michela Franceschelli, Ingrid Schoon, Karen Evans First Published October 13, 2017, Research Article https://doi.org/10.1177/1360780417726957 Article information ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">de82bb01-8ea2-44f4-bb84-29acc139896c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Dec 2021 04:42:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072252/957641b3f3d6783381a4b5500c86838a.mp3" length="72718771" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Basic show notes, unedited- 1. They say “jump!” and I say “how high are these people?” 2.  This just in there is going to be a lot of data very soon that’s gonna make it mandatory for a third shot I guarantee you this 100%. 3. The absence and late...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Basic show notes, unedited- 1. They say “jump!” and I say “how high are these people?” 2.  This just in there is going to be a lot of data very soon that’s gonna make it mandatory for a third shot I guarantee you this 100%. 3. The absence and late system Canada 4. Destreaminig 5. Supporting people who are parenting the dis in franchised children.  Housing education so they can sustain a household in a 2 parent home. - Too many people think they can run a home by themselves. - Offer welfare for married parents 6. The State of the Scarborough Hospitals ‘Your Past Makes You Who You Are: Retrospective Parenting and Relational Resilience Among Black Caribbean British Young People Michela Franceschelli, Ingrid Schoon, Karen Evans First Published October 13, 2017, Research Article https://doi.org/10.1177/1360780417726957 Article information ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4545</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/842ad333b37443e4aa5155b04e4d5a2c.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bill 27 in Canada Something is fishy but I don’t know what.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bill-27-in-canada-something-is-fishy-but-i-don-t-know-what--61072250</link><description><![CDATA[Random episode notes... un edited as usual  Bill 27, Working for Workers Act, 2021 Disconnecting from work: Requiring employers with 25 or more employees to have a written policy about employees disconnecting from their job at the end of each workday. The term “disconnecting from work” is proposed to mean not engaging in work-related communications, including emails, telephone calls, video calls or the sending or reviewing of other messages, so as to be free from the performance of work.[5]  No more non-compete agreements: Banning the use of non-compete agreements, with one significant exception.  In the context of a sale of business or part of a business, where the seller becomes an employee of the purchaser, they would be permitted to enter into an agreement that prohibits the seller from engaging in any business, work, occupation, profession, project or other activity that is in competition with the purchaser’s business after the sale.[6]    Removing Canadian experience requirements: Removing barriers, such as Canadian experience requirements, for internationally trained individuals to get licenced in certain regulated professions and get access to jobs that match their qualifications and skills, through amendments to the Fair Access to Regulated Professions and Compulsory Trades Act, 2006.[7] However, regulated professions would still be required to ensure they comply with any regulations respecting English or French language proficiency testing requirements.  Licensing recruiting and temporary help agencies: Requiring recruiters and temporary help agencies to have a licence to operate in the province. Licenses would be issued by the Director of Employment Standards, and would be for a term of one-year at a time. Bill 27 proposes a regime for license suspension, revocation, and review for any suspension or revocation, including by way of proceeding before the Ontario Labour Relations Board.    Requiring washroom availability for delivery workers: Requiring business owners to allow delivery workers to use a company’s washroom if they are delivering or picking up items by way of amendment to the Occupational Health and Safety Act.[8] Proposed exceptions to the rule are: if providing access would not be reasonable or practical for reasons relating to the health or safety of any person at the workplace, including the worker who requests to use a washroom; if providing access would not be reasonable or practical having regard to all the circumstances, including, but not limited to, the nature of the workplace, the type of work at the workplace, the conditions of work at the workplace, the security of any person at the workplace and the location of the washroom within the workplace; or if the washroom is in or can only be accessed through a dwelling.[9]]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">af76e4d8-88e0-43cc-84c9-3e6c44470bfb</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2021 01:12:36 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072250/c4c8f2582887e54839099499784d86ac.mp3" length="48043297" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Random episode notes... un edited as usual  Bill 27, Working for Workers Act, 2021 Disconnecting from work: Requiring employers with 25 or more employees to have a written policy about employees disconnecting from their job at the end of each workday....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Random episode notes... un edited as usual  Bill 27, Working for Workers Act, 2021 Disconnecting from work: Requiring employers with 25 or more employees to have a written policy about employees disconnecting from their job at the end of each workday. The term “disconnecting from work” is proposed to mean not engaging in work-related communications, including emails, telephone calls, video calls or the sending or reviewing of other messages, so as to be free from the performance of work.[5]  No more non-compete agreements: Banning the use of non-compete agreements, with one significant exception.  In the context of a sale of business or part of a business, where the seller becomes an employee of the purchaser, they would be permitted to enter into an agreement that prohibits the seller from engaging in any business, work, occupation, profession, project or other activity that is in competition with the purchaser’s business after the sale.[6]    Removing Canadian experience requirements: Removing barriers, such as Canadian experience requirements, for internationally trained individuals to get licenced in certain regulated professions and get access to jobs that match their qualifications and skills, through amendments to the Fair Access to Regulated Professions and Compulsory Trades Act, 2006.[7] However, regulated professions would still be required to ensure they comply with any regulations respecting English or French language proficiency testing requirements.  Licensing recruiting and temporary help agencies: Requiring recruiters and temporary help agencies to have a licence to operate in the province. Licenses would be issued by the Director of Employment Standards, and would be for a term of one-year at a time. Bill 27 proposes a regime for license suspension, revocation, and review for any suspension or revocation, including by way of proceeding before the Ontario Labour Relations Board.    Requiring washroom availability for delivery workers: Requiring business owners to allow delivery workers to use a company’s washroom if they are delivering or picking up items by way of amendment to the Occupational Health and Safety Act.[8] Proposed exceptions to the rule are: if providing access would not be reasonable or practical for reasons relating to the health or safety of any person at the workplace, including the worker who requests to use a washroom; if providing access would not be reasonable or practical having regard to all the circumstances, including, but not limited to, the nature of the workplace, the type of work at the workplace, the conditions of work at the workplace, the security of any person at the workplace and the location of the washroom within the workplace; or if the washroom is in or can only be accessed through a dwelling.[9]]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3003</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ba0ae92ee94329e4e0d151b53cb92097.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Memorization the key to getting any job in this society Episode</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/memorization-the-key-to-getting-any-job-in-this-society-episode--61072246</link><description><![CDATA[rough notes   Ryerson University and the vaccine (kicking students out for failure to get vaccinated)  Jobs  and who they hire    What is the point of accredited institutions  What the point of references  Disabilities, BIPOC, first nations people    Platos cave  Are you on your feet or are you on your knees?  Young man young man some advice  Dating for Christians  Rote vs understanding  Standing on the shoulders of giants who are standing on the backs of slaves  Plato: Socrates Aristotle: B. F. Skinner Jean Piaget Sigmund Freud THE TOP 5 ISSUES FACING BLACK AMERICANS TALEEB STARKES]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">57ffd8bb-fc99-4f9b-9f58-a3193e196fb2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Nov 2021 01:32:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072246/6200582f756ef31adc9fddee58899703.mp3" length="39764779" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>rough notes   Ryerson University and the vaccine (kicking students out for failure to get vaccinated)  Jobs  and who they hire    What is the point of accredited institutions  What the point of references  Disabilities, BIPOC, first nations people...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[rough notes   Ryerson University and the vaccine (kicking students out for failure to get vaccinated)  Jobs  and who they hire    What is the point of accredited institutions  What the point of references  Disabilities, BIPOC, first nations people    Platos cave  Are you on your feet or are you on your knees?  Young man young man some advice  Dating for Christians  Rote vs understanding  Standing on the shoulders of giants who are standing on the backs of slaves  Plato: Socrates Aristotle: B. F. Skinner Jean Piaget Sigmund Freud THE TOP 5 ISSUES FACING BLACK AMERICANS TALEEB STARKES]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2486</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a5be974ae8680805c6bcfa4e163df35d.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>streaming in schools future jobs from the past</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/streaming-in-schools-future-jobs-from-the-past--61072241</link><description><![CDATA[Should they just retool the streaming and opportunities aligned with it? Yes! that my view any. Why doesn’t Ontario bring back all of the trades in high schools like woodworking welding sewing cooking proper financial advice for young adults here styling and so on? Some of these trades will be needed more than others and there are new ones that are more technical that are becoming prevalent in society that students could be taught like 3-D printing, understanding the cloud world in computers, analytics and algorithms, construction  Ontario students entering Grade 9 in September 2022 will no longer be offered the option of taking applied or academic courses. In previous years, high school students were asked to choose between more practical, hands-on applied courses and more theoretical academic courses in core subjects like math, science and English. However, advocates have long argued that streaming ends up dividing students rather than providing them more options and disproportionately impacts racialized and low-income students. "Ontario was the only province in Canada that streamed kids into two different streams of learning, applied and academic," Education Minister Stephen Lecce said Thursday afternoon. "I believe we should not be the outlier. We want to make sure that every single child, irrespective of their background, their ethnicity, their faith, every child has an equal shot of succeeding." This year, the government implemented a new merged math course for Ontario high school students that focused on coding and financial literacy. The new Ontario math course was the first step in the province's decision to phase out streaming for all Grade 9 subjects. At the time, no timeline was provided regarding when the rest of the courses would be merged. On Thursday, officials confirmed on background that streaming will officially end for Grade 9 students beginning in September of next year. This will affect science, geography, English and French as a second language course. The de-streamed science course will touch on the usual biology, chemistry, physics and earth and space sciences; however, officials say there will also be a focus on developing and refining STEM skills. Officials also said that core French will continue to be offered for students with little or no knowledge of the language. No additional course changes were released. At this time, streaming is still expected to remain in place for Grade 10 students. However, officials also confirmed on background that the ministry of education will be releasing additional materials for the 2022-23 academic and applied mathematics curriculum that will help with the transition from the de-streamed course to the streamed courses  The issue with trades is people degrading them Welding woodworking Truck driving Barbering Hairstyling Baking Cooking Chefs Sewing Fashion design Farmer Agriculture Sales Cyw Florists Firemen Police service   Build and stop cancelling  University isn’t the answer  Training in companies  Teach discipline structure  Mechanics  Everything isn’t fluid  math  Teach credit and finance]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3344c162-f80e-4048-9ee8-deac87e5e6b6</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Nov 2021 01:15:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072241/3b4690f7173719ad0d7300923497d9c2.mp3" length="27188805" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Should they just retool the streaming and opportunities aligned with it? Yes! that my view any. Why doesn’t Ontario bring back all of the trades in high schools like woodworking welding sewing cooking proper financial advice for young adults here...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Should they just retool the streaming and opportunities aligned with it? Yes! that my view any. Why doesn’t Ontario bring back all of the trades in high schools like woodworking welding sewing cooking proper financial advice for young adults here styling and so on? Some of these trades will be needed more than others and there are new ones that are more technical that are becoming prevalent in society that students could be taught like 3-D printing, understanding the cloud world in computers, analytics and algorithms, construction  Ontario students entering Grade 9 in September 2022 will no longer be offered the option of taking applied or academic courses. In previous years, high school students were asked to choose between more practical, hands-on applied courses and more theoretical academic courses in core subjects like math, science and English. However, advocates have long argued that streaming ends up dividing students rather than providing them more options and disproportionately impacts racialized and low-income students. "Ontario was the only province in Canada that streamed kids into two different streams of learning, applied and academic," Education Minister Stephen Lecce said Thursday afternoon. "I believe we should not be the outlier. We want to make sure that every single child, irrespective of their background, their ethnicity, their faith, every child has an equal shot of succeeding." This year, the government implemented a new merged math course for Ontario high school students that focused on coding and financial literacy. The new Ontario math course was the first step in the province's decision to phase out streaming for all Grade 9 subjects. At the time, no timeline was provided regarding when the rest of the courses would be merged. On Thursday, officials confirmed on background that streaming will officially end for Grade 9 students beginning in September of next year. This will affect science, geography, English and French as a second language course. The de-streamed science course will touch on the usual biology, chemistry, physics and earth and space sciences; however, officials say there will also be a focus on developing and refining STEM skills. Officials also said that core French will continue to be offered for students with little or no knowledge of the language. No additional course changes were released. At this time, streaming is still expected to remain in place for Grade 10 students. However, officials also confirmed on background that the ministry of education will be releasing additional materials for the 2022-23 academic and applied mathematics curriculum that will help with the transition from the de-streamed course to the streamed courses  The issue with trades is people degrading them Welding woodworking Truck driving Barbering Hairstyling Baking Cooking Chefs Sewing Fashion design Farmer Agriculture Sales Cyw Florists Firemen Police service   Build and stop cancelling  University isn’t the answer  Training in companies  Teach discipline structure  Mechanics  Everything isn’t fluid  math  Teach credit and finance]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1700</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c5bfd4dd08606086bf54a9fc5e0f72f9.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Online School During the Pandemic and more</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/online-school-during-the-pandemic-and-more--61072218</link><description><![CDATA[0:00-17:00 interview with my Son RC about Online Learning as a Student in the biggest School Board in Ontario Canada Mathew Stanford vs Jared Goff = life   Trading place movie  Detroit lions  0W - L8 Last year 5 wins 11 losses LA Rams  7w-L1. Last year 10 wins 6 losses This situation is like the American dream or the reality or dreams of white and black people in America…. A Tortured or blessed life? Romans 8: 8 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. What would you wish for your child? Your child being obese And going to heaven? Every advantage and learning opportunity but going to hell but before going to hell being rich?  It will rain cover - actually, a recorded Duet on Smule sing so lots of room for people to sing with me ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a3649398-1171-40bc-aafc-fe194abac65a</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Nov 2021 01:57:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072218/92d8d8c6c97f62fab7debecc50e9c787.mp3" length="42382040" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>0:00-17:00 interview with my Son RC about Online Learning as a Student in the biggest School Board in Ontario Canada Mathew Stanford vs Jared Goff = life   Trading place movie  Detroit lions  0W - L8 Last year 5 wins 11 losses LA Rams  7w-L1. Last...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[0:00-17:00 interview with my Son RC about Online Learning as a Student in the biggest School Board in Ontario Canada Mathew Stanford vs Jared Goff = life   Trading place movie  Detroit lions  0W - L8 Last year 5 wins 11 losses LA Rams  7w-L1. Last year 10 wins 6 losses This situation is like the American dream or the reality or dreams of white and black people in America…. A Tortured or blessed life? Romans 8: 8 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. What would you wish for your child? Your child being obese And going to heaven? Every advantage and learning opportunity but going to hell but before going to hell being rich?  It will rain cover - actually, a recorded Duet on Smule sing so lots of room for people to sing with me ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2649</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f58a18ebad1ee220aa85a0c1260c1da8.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Don't go changing to try and please me</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-go-changing-to-try-and-please-me--61072225</link><description><![CDATA[Rough notes…  Bill 12 the PCs vote down  bill 12 which would have mandated vaccines for Frontline healthcare and education staff ..  …of course if they want to be voted in again!    Bill C16 seemed to have just been slid in there.    The Problems with:  -Dundas -Ryerson - name change? - How about don’t go to those schools it would send a bigger message if the student population was cut down to 20%. - How about just changing the policy and keeping the name as a reminder so as not to discredit past learners? Or mail all past learners with new credit in addition to changing the name of the college   Sports and Entertainment  Ben Simmons Cam Newton Kyrie Dave Chapelle  Image and insecurity in the black community status symbols Play  kanye song  - Can't tell me nothing   Shannon sharpe  - What do you notice about him. - Sharp dressed - Tom Ford glasses - Spends more on his close the skip - Stereotypical black guy   Relying on Cancel being scared of Cancel Culture  Cancel culture - if parents do what they're supposed to do with their children then it won’t make a difference what Twitter, Instagram, YouTube says … In regards to Instagram bands, the same “men are biologically stronger than women”. - Don’t ignore the news,  explain it to your children. - Explain what the Bible says. Because this culture and society is ever-changing but the Word stays the same.   The lies of the mission statement at the bottom of every Job Posting  -A mission statement at the end of each job opening posting doesn’t quite do it people aren’t stupid. example  -A mission statement at the end of each job opening posting doesn’t quite do it people aren’t stupid. The (insert company)      believes in giving each and every applicant an equal opportunity to succeed on their own merit and we strive to hire staff that reflect and support the diverse perspectives, experiences and needs of our students and our communities. We remain committed to upholding the values of equity, diversity, and inclusion in our living, learning and work environments.  We know that diversity underpins excellence and that we all share responsibility for creating an equitable, diverse and inclusive community Inequity Workforce Frontline staff hierarchy at Jobs Who to blame? Spineless week people - have you ever had a person be  friendly when it’s just you and them but when they are with someone who has had their paygrade or level as far as the job is concerned and you pass by the chances of them ignoring you are very high Besides the date of Canadian citizenship or immigration date the reason why there are more “people of colour” not “ bipoc “ in frontline jobs Like (Psw’s Retail - Walmart, Costco ) is  freestyle 7 How to quantify Love Love is measured in discomfort God is love For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. Greater love hath no man than he that would lay down his life for a friend Therefore the ultimate love is the sacrifice of one’s life for another or for a people or for an object of your so-called infection Time Money Physical ability Obedience Humbleness Self-sacrifice]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">741bc814-48df-43ad-96cb-fe7d3f6918ec</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2021 01:37:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072225/4510979160cdeeece730684e24c11a80.mp3" length="54584776" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Rough notes…  Bill 12 the PCs vote down  bill 12 which would have mandated vaccines for Frontline healthcare and education staff ..  …of course if they want to be voted in again!    Bill C16 seemed to have just been slid in there.    The Problems...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Rough notes…  Bill 12 the PCs vote down  bill 12 which would have mandated vaccines for Frontline healthcare and education staff ..  …of course if they want to be voted in again!    Bill C16 seemed to have just been slid in there.    The Problems with:  -Dundas -Ryerson - name change? - How about don’t go to those schools it would send a bigger message if the student population was cut down to 20%. - How about just changing the policy and keeping the name as a reminder so as not to discredit past learners? Or mail all past learners with new credit in addition to changing the name of the college   Sports and Entertainment  Ben Simmons Cam Newton Kyrie Dave Chapelle  Image and insecurity in the black community status symbols Play  kanye song  - Can't tell me nothing   Shannon sharpe  - What do you notice about him. - Sharp dressed - Tom Ford glasses - Spends more on his close the skip - Stereotypical black guy   Relying on Cancel being scared of Cancel Culture  Cancel culture - if parents do what they're supposed to do with their children then it won’t make a difference what Twitter, Instagram, YouTube says … In regards to Instagram bands, the same “men are biologically stronger than women”. - Don’t ignore the news,  explain it to your children. - Explain what the Bible says. Because this culture and society is ever-changing but the Word stays the same.   The lies of the mission statement at the bottom of every Job Posting  -A mission statement at the end of each job opening posting doesn’t quite do it people aren’t stupid. example  -A mission statement at the end of each job opening posting doesn’t quite do it people aren’t stupid. The (insert company)      believes in giving each and every applicant an equal opportunity to succeed on their own merit and we strive to hire staff that reflect and support the diverse perspectives, experiences and needs of our students and our communities. We remain committed to upholding the values of equity, diversity, and inclusion in our living, learning and work environments.  We know that diversity underpins excellence and that we all share responsibility for creating an equitable, diverse and inclusive community Inequity Workforce Frontline staff hierarchy at Jobs Who to blame? Spineless week people - have you ever had a person be  friendly when it’s just you and them but when they are with someone who has had their paygrade or level as far as the job is concerned and you pass by the chances of them ignoring you are very high Besides the date of Canadian citizenship or immigration date the reason why there are more “people of colour” not “ bipoc “ in frontline jobs Like (Psw’s Retail - Walmart, Costco ) is  freestyle 7 How to quantify Love Love is measured in discomfort God is love For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. Greater love hath no man than he that would lay down his life for a friend Therefore the ultimate love is the sacrifice of one’s life for another or for a people or for an object of your so-called infection Time Money Physical ability Obedience Humbleness Self-sacrifice]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3412</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/20a7870814ab6fbe499574297f4c670a.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Crabs in a bucket</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/crabs-in-a-bucket--61072244</link><description><![CDATA[You’re probably Right podcast YPRpodcast@Gmail.com   why cant we as a people get ahead?  Is it the system? This episode was disjointed because I had technical difficulties, so it’s probably my worst in my view.   Do we all pull together in times of need?  Do we help each other  Do we compete with each other like sprinters and athletes  Why is it the faster countries have a less togetherness?  Why are we so good at music or are we?  Shoes  ( you can tell a lot ) and cars]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">736286e4-85ad-45f7-8eb8-481818342609</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Sep 2021 23:58:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072244/9ea8f0a7cef9e669d8fc0ded5d9c6033.mp3" length="28187728" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re probably Right podcast YPRpodcast@Gmail.com   why cant we as a people get ahead?  Is it the system? This episode was disjointed because I had technical difficulties, so it’s probably my worst in my view.   Do we all pull together in times of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re probably Right podcast YPRpodcast@Gmail.com   why cant we as a people get ahead?  Is it the system? This episode was disjointed because I had technical difficulties, so it’s probably my worst in my view.   Do we all pull together in times of need?  Do we help each other  Do we compete with each other like sprinters and athletes  Why is it the faster countries have a less togetherness?  Why are we so good at music or are we?  Shoes  ( you can tell a lot ) and cars]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1762</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fb160d9c46851a463333be87823d582e.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Michael can’t read (there’s Levels to this)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-michael-can-t-read-there-s-levels-to-this--61072226</link><description><![CDATA[rough notes  -  If I did a Ted talk it would be why streaming needs to end… But why it’s important and how ending it also if anything Opening line: It’s society telling us now that they don’t want the best?  Are they really playing soccer mom politics? “Everybody deserves to play really for adults in the society? “ True Fandom needs to end, someone shouldn’t be praised because they were given more of a God-given talent than someone else! Just because you can solve quadratic equations while eating a sandwich on a unicycle! , just because you can do a 360° them down from the foul line! Just because you can play Mozart with your toes? Just because you can slam dunk a basketball without jumping 10-foot rim! I want quality no? First I am somewhere between The worldly beliefs of Jordan b Peterson and Kimberlé W Crenshaw Less the 5 black kids in every class throughout the school My experience as a student in the GTA Brookbanks public school Donview to Milnford Victoria park to Albert “Campbell “ to Milliken mills - Jk - So Gus Park , Helen c - 1 Chris r  testing - 2 Mrs p - Mrs hunt I had no clue - hell on earth  grades 4,5,6 - Grade 7. -  8 - 9 high school - - 10,11 sports! - Grade 12 x 2 What I said that I was put down for As with the initiative on ABR, I wonder how the board is going to deal with this when there will undoubtedly be a lot of “subtle” push back by staff,  entitled families fearing that their child’s future may suffer. Not to mention teaching by ill-equipped staff who they themself are a product of streaming themselves. Things like culture, after-school education for those with privilege, family dynamics of those who are in single-parent homes and children living in group homes. No cynicism intended at all, I like the idea! Catch up kids who have been identified throughout summer, not summer school… Because being selected for summer school by and many others always felt like losers! You may have to  Pay and education qualifications are going to have to increase for EA’s, not to mention hiring more EA’s with teacher qualifications will be necessary “Prefer” Is the NBA equitable? Do you want the best basketball players?do you want to bless football players? do you want the best physicist? do you want the best airplane pilots?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3b9fcf85-2c17-4e9c-a1f3-f1bb9b9ed7f7</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Sep 2021 23:34:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072226/93a92fcd12fb0b8a3529f447487e21ba.mp3" length="45598654" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>rough notes  -  If I did a Ted talk it would be why streaming needs to end… But why it’s important and how ending it also if anything Opening line: It’s society telling us now that they don’t want the best?  Are they really playing soccer mom...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[rough notes  -  If I did a Ted talk it would be why streaming needs to end… But why it’s important and how ending it also if anything Opening line: It’s society telling us now that they don’t want the best?  Are they really playing soccer mom politics? “Everybody deserves to play really for adults in the society? “ True Fandom needs to end, someone shouldn’t be praised because they were given more of a God-given talent than someone else! Just because you can solve quadratic equations while eating a sandwich on a unicycle! , just because you can do a 360° them down from the foul line! Just because you can play Mozart with your toes? Just because you can slam dunk a basketball without jumping 10-foot rim! I want quality no? First I am somewhere between The worldly beliefs of Jordan b Peterson and Kimberlé W Crenshaw Less the 5 black kids in every class throughout the school My experience as a student in the GTA Brookbanks public school Donview to Milnford Victoria park to Albert “Campbell “ to Milliken mills - Jk - So Gus Park , Helen c - 1 Chris r  testing - 2 Mrs p - Mrs hunt I had no clue - hell on earth  grades 4,5,6 - Grade 7. -  8 - 9 high school - - 10,11 sports! - Grade 12 x 2 What I said that I was put down for As with the initiative on ABR, I wonder how the board is going to deal with this when there will undoubtedly be a lot of “subtle” push back by staff,  entitled families fearing that their child’s future may suffer. Not to mention teaching by ill-equipped staff who they themself are a product of streaming themselves. Things like culture, after-school education for those with privilege, family dynamics of those who are in single-parent homes and children living in group homes. No cynicism intended at all, I like the idea! Catch up kids who have been identified throughout summer, not summer school… Because being selected for summer school by and many others always felt like losers! You may have to  Pay and education qualifications are going to have to increase for EA’s, not to mention hiring more EA’s with teacher qualifications will be necessary “Prefer” Is the NBA equitable? Do you want the best basketball players?do you want to bless football players? do you want the best physicist? do you want the best airplane pilots?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2850</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/923e71ff1c693fb4a83c2fa090e8f40c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Rachel Nichols Your Fired &amp; Vaccine</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/rachel-nichols-your-fired-vaccine--61072238</link><description><![CDATA[first. ESPN is canceling Rachel Nichols' show, “The Jump,” and pulling her off NBA programming, almost two months after it was revealed she was caught on audio tape suggesting colleague Maria Taylor's promotion was diversity-related    then.   40,000 employees  22 trustees $11000 -25000 per year Public health versus personal health Published Thursday, August 26, 2021 7:53AM EDT Last Updated Thursday, August 26, 2021 8:06AM EDT Canada’s largest public school board has voted unanimously to make COVID-19 vaccines mandatory for staff, trustees and visitors. The Toronto District School Board made the announcement on Thursday morning, saying its trustees voted in favour of a mandatory policy at last night’s school board meeting. The school board says it’s now in the hands of TDSB staff to come up with a plan on how it will work. Staff will develop a procedure for all workers, trustees, and visitors. They all must be fully vaccinated, and will be required to disclose and provide proof of their vaccination status.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5ccc8fb8-24d6-4a69-80a9-326dd0dac694</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2021 01:47:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072238/214994134_44100_2_ae4f7a36b189e.mp3" length="28017223" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>first. ESPN is canceling Rachel Nichols' show, “The Jump,” and pulling her off NBA programming, almost two months after it was revealed she was caught on audio tape suggesting colleague Maria Taylor's promotion was diversity-related    then.   40,000...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[first. ESPN is canceling Rachel Nichols' show, “The Jump,” and pulling her off NBA programming, almost two months after it was revealed she was caught on audio tape suggesting colleague Maria Taylor's promotion was diversity-related    then.   40,000 employees  22 trustees $11000 -25000 per year Public health versus personal health Published Thursday, August 26, 2021 7:53AM EDT Last Updated Thursday, August 26, 2021 8:06AM EDT Canada’s largest public school board has voted unanimously to make COVID-19 vaccines mandatory for staff, trustees and visitors. The Toronto District School Board made the announcement on Thursday morning, saying its trustees voted in favour of a mandatory policy at last night’s school board meeting. The school board says it’s now in the hands of TDSB staff to come up with a plan on how it will work. Staff will develop a procedure for all workers, trustees, and visitors. They all must be fully vaccinated, and will be required to disclose and provide proof of their vaccination status.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1751</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cb1da0adc3bc5f9e3ab66b6d6e6b67be.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Job Search's</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/job-search-s--61072228</link><description><![CDATA[Job Search's  and shots you dont want to take. Or maybe you already took it. this episode is short not so sweet. Trying a different mode of  recording so sounds after 22 minutes is slightly muted.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">734cb117-be60-4681-b986-b3c92feb0db1</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Aug 2021 21:51:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072228/49fd05097f569010bccd9766746f0432.mp3" length="32805341" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Job Search's  and shots you dont want to take. Or maybe you already took it. this episode is short not so sweet. Trying a different mode of  recording so sounds after 22 minutes is slightly muted.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Job Search's  and shots you dont want to take. Or maybe you already took it. this episode is short not so sweet. Trying a different mode of  recording so sounds after 22 minutes is slightly muted.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2051</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cda19b5b55c0042456b447759af59bec.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Pitfalls of the Governments Anti black racism agenda.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pitfalls-of-the-governments-anti-black-racism-agenda--61072251</link><description><![CDATA[There are many things that upset people of African diaspora. In this episode I try to dig a little bit into the issues that I have with this so-called anti-black racism initiative in Canada and what it really means to black people like myself. I understand the many people are fully on board with what the government and different agencies and institutions are trying to do to combat anti-black racism and the various other anti Movements but until these different agencies, institutions and so on really seek out and involve the people who these things are supposed to be helping or affecting, the outcomes can’t possibly be anything that anyone will want.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e15b91cd-7e57-4425-a2fd-85c560d48837</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2021 19:16:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072251/9b9e25a936bdf506b53a27feca552d70.mp3" length="70470151" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are many things that upset people of African diaspora. In this episode I try to dig a little bit into the issues that I have with this so-called anti-black racism initiative in Canada and what it really means to black people like myself. I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are many things that upset people of African diaspora. In this episode I try to dig a little bit into the issues that I have with this so-called anti-black racism initiative in Canada and what it really means to black people like myself. I understand the many people are fully on board with what the government and different agencies and institutions are trying to do to combat anti-black racism and the various other anti Movements but until these different agencies, institutions and so on really seek out and involve the people who these things are supposed to be helping or affecting, the outcomes can’t possibly be anything that anyone will want.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4405</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d977daecdc0923833d957e553c47ed15.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Black guys in the NHL, that I remember</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-black-guys-in-the-nhl-that-i-remember--61072239</link><description><![CDATA[Black Men in the NHL... is it racist]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1b11365c-b1d7-4f9d-a1a0-8cf6d333f319</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2021 05:03:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072239/154489610_44100_2_e70177cb11c4d.mp3" length="41401529" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Black Men in the NHL... is it racist</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Black Men in the NHL... is it racist]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2588</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fbb9bb7dc24d81f68761481fbb2f352a.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Friends, failure and living out in existence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/friends-failure-and-living-out-in-existence--61072234</link><description><![CDATA[Self-explanatory nothing to see here]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8b02a00a-fdad-4bc3-9280-8677d9c58bf4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2021 01:12:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072234/151116405_44100_2_3a8106f44eb22.mp3" length="19314894" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Self-explanatory nothing to see here</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self-explanatory nothing to see here]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1208</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4207b87c6853735309f4d689b9db3ba5.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Come up vs slap down</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/come-up-vs-slap-down--61072242</link><description><![CDATA[Podcast 4 notes  Only rough draft hear sorry lol Welcome to   Your probably right Podcast   And it is I Mcm You are welcome at my house anytime….  1. Games stock Fiasco  Reddit mafia  Online communities and cohorst  Play video of wolf of wall street Jordan Belfort The little guy Hedge fund Shorting stock    2. Real estate corrections 2017 Stress test Mortgage rate comparison website RateHub.ca published a scenario looking at the impact of the stress test rule on a family earning $100,000 putting down a 20% down payment on a 3.09% five-year fixed rate amortized over 25 year. Under the current rules, that family could qualify for a house worth $706,692, but after the new rules take effect in 2018, that family would only qualify for a house worth $559,896 based on a 4.89% stress test. Risk and capitolism        3 Mayor Tory explaining that black people in Toronto need to be given explanation as to why they need the vaccine    Play video 6.8 million to black community Is it? There are 1.2 million people who Identify as black  6.8 / 1.2 Remember the 221 million business loan program.. Loan lol! Help for black business owners What about those who haven't been able?    4. why do you think black people dont trust society   History lesson about Jamaican Canadians first and second gen  2016 1.2 million Identify as black  Look at page for break down]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e7e49bd5-3ae1-40e4-a7c0-33944b759388</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2021 01:06:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072242/151797759_44100_2_d65e7596e8009.mp3" length="45843600" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Podcast 4 notes  Only rough draft hear sorry lol Welcome to   Your probably right Podcast   And it is I Mcm You are welcome at my house anytime….  1. Games stock Fiasco  Reddit mafia  Online communities and cohorst  Play video of wolf of wall street...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Podcast 4 notes  Only rough draft hear sorry lol Welcome to   Your probably right Podcast   And it is I Mcm You are welcome at my house anytime….  1. Games stock Fiasco  Reddit mafia  Online communities and cohorst  Play video of wolf of wall street Jordan Belfort The little guy Hedge fund Shorting stock    2. Real estate corrections 2017 Stress test Mortgage rate comparison website RateHub.ca published a scenario looking at the impact of the stress test rule on a family earning $100,000 putting down a 20% down payment on a 3.09% five-year fixed rate amortized over 25 year. Under the current rules, that family could qualify for a house worth $706,692, but after the new rules take effect in 2018, that family would only qualify for a house worth $559,896 based on a 4.89% stress test. Risk and capitolism        3 Mayor Tory explaining that black people in Toronto need to be given explanation as to why they need the vaccine    Play video 6.8 million to black community Is it? There are 1.2 million people who Identify as black  6.8 / 1.2 Remember the 221 million business loan program.. Loan lol! Help for black business owners What about those who haven't been able?    4. why do you think black people dont trust society   History lesson about Jamaican Canadians first and second gen  2016 1.2 million Identify as black  Look at page for break down]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2866</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e8f13b8e6609c99eaccade6cf2e2369b.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why did you get married?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-did-you-get-married--61072230</link><description><![CDATA[One of the main reasons why couples don’t make it past a few years or why people who have been married give up on each other. Many people who get into marriage, get into marriage for selfish reasons. In this episode I try to give a little bit of advice. This episode was recorded in 2014.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">198305c1-c0f0-4962-83c6-58495244f4da</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2021 13:05:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072230/150919071_44100_2_4175337d41d91.mp3" length="17483578" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the main reasons why couples don’t make it past a few years or why people who have been married give up on each other. Many people who get into marriage, get into marriage for selfish reasons. In this episode I try to give a little bit of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the main reasons why couples don’t make it past a few years or why people who have been married give up on each other. Many people who get into marriage, get into marriage for selfish reasons. In this episode I try to give a little bit of advice. This episode was recorded in 2014.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>729</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6ad4081c2ece1f772665a140fb82b85e.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Canada and Airlines abandon the Caribbean</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/canada-and-airlines-abandon-the-caribbean--61072235</link><description><![CDATA[The Canadian Government along with Airplinrs have abandoned the Caribbean Islands and Mexico by not allowing travellers to fly there, but is still allowing trips to other destinations what will happen to those economies that rely on hotel bookings and tourism in general for income?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">195cbcec-4326-4f48-bd35-a5d2739355fc</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2021 04:11:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61072235/150257877_44100_2_2081afca2fbbb.mp3" length="27147839" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Murray Ed</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Canadian Government along with Airplinrs have abandoned the Caribbean Islands and Mexico by not allowing travellers to fly there, but is still allowing trips to other destinations what will happen to those economies that rely on hotel bookings and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Canadian Government along with Airplinrs have abandoned the Caribbean Islands and Mexico by not allowing travellers to fly there, but is still allowing trips to other destinations what will happen to those economies that rely on hotel bookings and tourism in general for income?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1132</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9efdfd56f68b964b54f1129ea2262ca3.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
