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Our kids aren't broken, just wired differently.<br /><br />My work is grounded in the SIGNAL Framework™, a nervous-system-first approach I developed around one core truth: regulation is required before any skill or strategy can take hold.<br /><br />Every episode delivers insights you can actually use to reduce your stress, rebuild your confidence, and create a family life that feels good for everyone in it. I've helped thousands of families worldwide, and this community is here for you too.<br /><br />New episodes drop every week. Subscribe so you never miss one.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/6137613/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Parenting</category><copyright>Copyright Penny Williams</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg</url><title>Beautifully Complex</title><link>https://beautifullycomplex.life</link></image><lastBuildDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 00:15:13 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Penny Williams</itunes:name><itunes:email>pennywpenny@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Join parenting coach and mom-in-the-trenches, Penny Williams, as she helps parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week she delivers insights and actionable...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parenting a neurodivergent kid is one of the hardest things you will ever do. If you are exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why nothing seems to work, this is the place for you.<br /><br />I am Penny Williams, parenting coach, author, and mom who's in the trenches alongside you. Each week on Beautifully Complex, I bring you honest conversations and real strategies for raising kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and learning differences. Our kids aren't broken, just wired differently.<br /><br />My work is grounded in the SIGNAL Framework™, a nervous-system-first approach I developed around one core truth: regulation is required before any skill or strategy can take hold.<br /><br />Every episode delivers insights you can actually use to reduce your stress, rebuild your confidence, and create a family life that feels good for everyone in it. I've helped thousands of families worldwide, and this community is here for you too.<br /><br />New episodes drop every week. Subscribe so you never miss one.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Kids &amp; Family"><itunes:category text="Parenting"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Kids &amp; Family"/><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><podcast:txt purpose="ai-content">true</podcast:txt><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><podcast:funding url="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=rss">Support the podcast!</podcast:funding><item><title>367: Systems that Work with the Brain, with Angela Kingdon, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/367-systems-that-work-with-the-brain-with-angela-kingdon-ph-d--73076468</link><description><![CDATA[Angela Kingdon has a system for everything, and for years it never occurred to her that not everyone wants that.<br /><br />Angela is the founder of the Autistic Culture Podcast Network, home to more than thirty shows hosted by autistic and AuDHD creators. She built it after her own burnout, the kind that came after learning to mask so well that she finally got the friends, the relationships, and the career she had always wanted, and then lost all the capacity to keep holding it together. Podcasts were what brought her back.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about what it really means to build systems that work with your brain instead of against it, and why that is so much bigger than color coded bins and a label maker. Angela walks through her own sensory systems, the loop earplugs she keeps in the car, the three scarves she carries because she cannot regulate her own body temperature, and then we get into the part every parent needs to hear: what happens when the systems we build for our kids turn out to be our systems, dressed up as help.<br /><br />Angela shares the moment she realized her son's messy piles of clothes were a system she simply had not respected, and how a shift she calls sun parenting to moon parenting changed the way she saw his choices. We talk about the word system itself, and why sometimes the fastest way to get your kid on board is to never call it that.<br /><br />This is a conversation about control, about grief, and about the relief that comes when you finally understand the goal was never to get your kid to do things your way. It was to help them find their own.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/367" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/367</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73076468</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73076468/367_systems_that_work_with_the_brain.mp3" length="40436372" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac/b60c07b1-204f-4464-8dbb-e440d59a98ac.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Angela Kingdon has a system for everything, and for years it never occurred to her that not everyone wants that.

Angela is the founder of the Autistic Culture Podcast Network, home to more than thirty shows hosted by autistic and AuDHD creators. She...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Angela Kingdon has a system for everything, and for years it never occurred to her that not everyone wants that.<br /><br />Angela is the founder of the Autistic Culture Podcast Network, home to more than thirty shows hosted by autistic and AuDHD creators. She built it after her own burnout, the kind that came after learning to mask so well that she finally got the friends, the relationships, and the career she had always wanted, and then lost all the capacity to keep holding it together. Podcasts were what brought her back.<br /><br />In this episode, we talk about what it really means to build systems that work with your brain instead of against it, and why that is so much bigger than color coded bins and a label maker. Angela walks through her own sensory systems, the loop earplugs she keeps in the car, the three scarves she carries because she cannot regulate her own body temperature, and then we get into the part every parent needs to hear: what happens when the systems we build for our kids turn out to be our systems, dressed up as help.<br /><br />Angela shares the moment she realized her son's messy piles of clothes were a system she simply had not respected, and how a shift she calls sun parenting to moon parenting changed the way she saw his choices. We talk about the word system itself, and why sometimes the fastest way to get your kid on board is to never call it that.<br /><br />This is a conversation about control, about grief, and about the relief that comes when you finally understand the goal was never to get your kid to do things your way. It was to help them find their own.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/367" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/367</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2534</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,audhd,autismparenting,differentlywired,neurodivergentparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>367</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>366: The Glass Child: The Neurotypical Sibling’s Experience, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/366-the-glass-child-the-neurotypical-sibling-s-experience-with-penny-williams--72956320</link><description><![CDATA[There's a kid in your house who never asks for anything, who seems fine when everything is falling apart, who's learned to take up less space so there's room for their sibling's bigger needs. There’s a name for what they're experiencing, glass child.<br /><br />In this episode, I'm talking about the neurotypical sibling experience, something that doesn't get nearly enough airtime in our conversations about neurodivergent families. I share a moment from my own family, a meltdown in the middle of Target, one kid on the floor and one kid pacing, and only one of me to go around. It taught me just how much our neurotypical kids are absorbing and hiding.<br /><br />I explain where the term glass child comes from, why these siblings become invisible in the family system even though they're deeply loved, and what's actually happening in their nervous systems when they learn that their big feelings don't get a response. I also share what unlocked something for me personally, an episode of Esther Perel's Where Should We Begin, and a single line from it that I haven't stopped thinking about: the weather changed, but you haven't taken off the sweater.<br /><br />Then we get into what actually helps. Naming what you see without turning it into a project, protecting uninterrupted time that isn't earned or contingent on anyone's behavior, and gently interrupting the caregiving role before it becomes who they think they have to be.<br /><br />If you have more than one kid, or you work with families who do, this episode is for you. Give it a listen, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/366" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/366</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72956320</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72956320/6e752cae_085c_4816_b386_39b865b7d800.mp3" length="28886709" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5/be8c4a87-9ddb-4aa0-9276-f2489b708bf5.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's a kid in your house who never asks for anything, who seems fine when everything is falling apart, who's learned to take up less space so there's room for their sibling's bigger needs. There’s a name for what they're experiencing, glass child....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's a kid in your house who never asks for anything, who seems fine when everything is falling apart, who's learned to take up less space so there's room for their sibling's bigger needs. There’s a name for what they're experiencing, glass child.<br /><br />In this episode, I'm talking about the neurotypical sibling experience, something that doesn't get nearly enough airtime in our conversations about neurodivergent families. I share a moment from my own family, a meltdown in the middle of Target, one kid on the floor and one kid pacing, and only one of me to go around. It taught me just how much our neurotypical kids are absorbing and hiding.<br /><br />I explain where the term glass child comes from, why these siblings become invisible in the family system even though they're deeply loved, and what's actually happening in their nervous systems when they learn that their big feelings don't get a response. I also share what unlocked something for me personally, an episode of Esther Perel's Where Should We Begin, and a single line from it that I haven't stopped thinking about: the weather changed, but you haven't taken off the sweater.<br /><br />Then we get into what actually helps. Naming what you see without turning it into a project, protecting uninterrupted time that isn't earned or contingent on anyone's behavior, and gently interrupting the caregiving role before it becomes who they think they have to be.<br /><br />If you have more than one kid, or you work with families who do, this episode is for you. Give it a listen, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/366" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/366</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1810</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>glasschild,nervoussystemregulation,neurodivergentfamily,parentingsupport,siblingtrauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>366</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>365: Autistic Burnout &amp; Self-Care, with Dr. Megan Anna Neff</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/365-autistic-burnout-self-care-with-dr-megan-anna-neff--72619086</link><description><![CDATA[Autistic burnout doesn't look like ordinary tiredness, and treating it that way can make everything harder for your child and for you. It shows up as exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix, sensory sensitivities that suddenly spike, and skills that seem to disappear overnight. In this episode, I sit down with clinical psychologist Dr. Megan Anna Neff, founder of Neurodivergent Insights and an autistic and ADHD adult herself, to talk about what autistic burnout really is, how it shows up differently in kids than in adults, and why self-care for neurodivergent kids and parents has to look different than the version we were handed growing up.<br /><br />Dr. Neff walks us through the difference between a hard week and true burnout, why school is such a common trigger, and how nervous system regulation, sensory accommodations, and even something as simple as a visual schedule can change the whole trajectory of a child's day. We also dig into emotional regulation versus sensory overwhelm — two things that can look identical from the outside but need completely different responses from us — and why curiosity, not correction, is the move when your child's big feelings don't make sense to you yet.<br /><br />This conversation includes a deeply honest look at validation: what it actually sounds like, how easy it is to get wrong even with the best intentions, and why a child who hears "this is hard, and that makes sense" settles faster than one who hears "you've got this." Dr. Neff also shares the research behind why validating responses measurably lower the body's stress response, and what that means for the way we talk to our differently wired kids every day.<br /><br />If you've ever wondered whether your child is "too emotional" or just trying to tell you something your nervous system hasn't learned to hear yet, this episode will change how you listen. Tune in now to hear the full conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://app.notion.com/p/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated</a> <a href="http://kids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kids.com</a> — because it's not just about the struggles, it's about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />SIGNAL Parenting™ program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/365" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/365</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72619086</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72619086/365_autistic_burnout_self_care.mp3" length="33728923" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29/be0e5025-a074-498c-a10f-63c1a47a0d29.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Autistic burnout doesn't look like ordinary tiredness, and treating it that way can make everything harder for your child and for you. It shows up as exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix, sensory sensitivities that suddenly spike, and skills that seem to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Autistic burnout doesn't look like ordinary tiredness, and treating it that way can make everything harder for your child and for you. It shows up as exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix, sensory sensitivities that suddenly spike, and skills that seem to disappear overnight. In this episode, I sit down with clinical psychologist Dr. Megan Anna Neff, founder of Neurodivergent Insights and an autistic and ADHD adult herself, to talk about what autistic burnout really is, how it shows up differently in kids than in adults, and why self-care for neurodivergent kids and parents has to look different than the version we were handed growing up.<br /><br />Dr. Neff walks us through the difference between a hard week and true burnout, why school is such a common trigger, and how nervous system regulation, sensory accommodations, and even something as simple as a visual schedule can change the whole trajectory of a child's day. We also dig into emotional regulation versus sensory overwhelm — two things that can look identical from the outside but need completely different responses from us — and why curiosity, not correction, is the move when your child's big feelings don't make sense to you yet.<br /><br />This conversation includes a deeply honest look at validation: what it actually sounds like, how easy it is to get wrong even with the best intentions, and why a child who hears "this is hard, and that makes sense" settles faster than one who hears "you've got this." Dr. Neff also shares the research behind why validating responses measurably lower the body's stress response, and what that means for the way we talk to our differently wired kids every day.<br /><br />If you've ever wondered whether your child is "too emotional" or just trying to tell you something your nervous system hasn't learned to hear yet, this episode will change how you listen. Tune in now to hear the full conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://app.notion.com/p/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated</a> <a href="http://kids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kids.com</a> — because it's not just about the struggles, it's about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />SIGNAL Parenting™ program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/365" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/365</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2113</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>autismparenting,autisticburnout,nervoussystemhealing,neurodivergentparenting,sensoryregulation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>365</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>364: PDA Through a Problem-Solving Lens: Moving from Power Struggles to Partnership, with Stacey Curnow, LCMHC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/364-pda-through-a-problem-solving-lens-moving-from-power-struggles-to-partnership-with-stacey-curnow-lcmhc--72618886</link><description><![CDATA["It wasn't a demand, it was just a request. What's so hard about this?" If you’ve thought that about your own kid, you’re not alone, and your nervous system reaction makes complete sense.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Stacey Curnow, LCMHC, founder of Asheville Family Counseling, to talk about PDA: what it is, what it isn't, and why she reframes it as a persistent desire for autonomy rather than a pathology. We get into why even a gentle request can register as a threat to a PDA kid's nervous system, and why fight, flight, freeze, and collapse are really all the same signal wearing different clothes.<br /><br />Stacey walks through Dr. Ross Greene's collaborative and proactive solutions model, why "I won't" is so often actually "I can't," and how slicing requests thinner, asking instead of telling, and choosing connection over compliance changes the outcome of these moments. We also talk about the nervous system math nobody warns you about: when your child's nervous system gets overwhelmed, yours very often does too, and what it looks like to extend that same compassion to yourself.<br /><br />Stacey also shares what it looked like to raise her own PDA-profile son, who is now 21 and reflects that same curiosity and compassion right back to her.<br /><br />If you have a kid who hears "put your shoes on" as a demand, or you are tired of power struggles that feel like two dueling solutions instead of one shared one, this conversation will give you a different lens and some real, doable next steps for moving from power struggles to partnership.<br /><br />Come listen.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/364" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/364</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72618886</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72618886/364_pda.mp3" length="35274300" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067/d8a4ce9c-72fe-445c-ab19-84b746dba067.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"It wasn't a demand, it was just a request. What's so hard about this?" If you’ve thought that about your own kid, you’re not alone, and your nervous system reaction makes complete sense.

In this episode, I sit down with Stacey Curnow, LCMHC, founder...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["It wasn't a demand, it was just a request. What's so hard about this?" If you’ve thought that about your own kid, you’re not alone, and your nervous system reaction makes complete sense.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Stacey Curnow, LCMHC, founder of Asheville Family Counseling, to talk about PDA: what it is, what it isn't, and why she reframes it as a persistent desire for autonomy rather than a pathology. We get into why even a gentle request can register as a threat to a PDA kid's nervous system, and why fight, flight, freeze, and collapse are really all the same signal wearing different clothes.<br /><br />Stacey walks through Dr. Ross Greene's collaborative and proactive solutions model, why "I won't" is so often actually "I can't," and how slicing requests thinner, asking instead of telling, and choosing connection over compliance changes the outcome of these moments. We also talk about the nervous system math nobody warns you about: when your child's nervous system gets overwhelmed, yours very often does too, and what it looks like to extend that same compassion to yourself.<br /><br />Stacey also shares what it looked like to raise her own PDA-profile son, who is now 21 and reflects that same curiosity and compassion right back to her.<br /><br />If you have a kid who hears "put your shoes on" as a demand, or you are tired of power struggles that feel like two dueling solutions instead of one shared one, this conversation will give you a different lens and some real, doable next steps for moving from power struggles to partnership.<br /><br />Come listen.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/364" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/364</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2210</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,autismparenting,connectionbasedparenting,neurodivergentparentging,pdaparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>364</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>363: Raising Problem-Solvers: Lessons from the Co-Creator of Blue's Clues &amp; Daniel Tiger, with Angela Santomero</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/363-raising-problem-solvers-lessons-from-the-co-creator-of-blue-s-clues-daniel-tiger-with-angela-santomero--72517267</link><description><![CDATA[There is research behind that four-beat pause on Blue's Clues. It wasn’t a creative choice or a lucky accident . It was Angela Santomero, co-creator of Blue's Clues, Super Why!, and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, standing on set and asking herself how long it actually takes a child to formulate a real answer. That pause — the one your kids leaned toward the screen for — is the same pause that can change everything about how you talk to your neurodivergent kid.<br /><br />In this episode, I sat down with Angela to talk about what she learned across thirty years of co-creating some of the most beloved children's programming ever made, and what parents of neurodivergent kids can take directly from that research and apply at home.<br /><br />We talked about why repetition is not boring, but how kids master skills. We talked about scaffolding without taking over, and the difference between giving kids answers versus giving them a little more room to reach their own. Angela shared why kindness is not soft (it is actually a leadership skill backed by research) and how to raise intrinsically motivated, kind kids without nagging them through it.<br /><br />We also got into how these shows can help neurodivergent kids process emotions through the buffer of a character. The story Angela shared about a little boy who used a Daniel Tiger strategy to handle his pizza cheese sliding off, actually singing himself through it, is exactly the kind of thing I want every parent of a neurodivergent kid to hear.<br /><br />Plus Angela introduced her newest project, Princess Penelope's Purse of Preposterous Things, and what she designed it to do for a generation of kids who need critical thinking, resilience, and a sense of humor.<br /><br />This one is packed. Come listen.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program -- fall cohort enrollment is open: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/%5B363%5D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/363</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72517267</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72517267/363_lessons_from_blue_s_clues_and_daniel_tiger_s_neighborhood.mp3" length="27079533" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b/4f3f5331-4781-4cc9-b3fb-905677d8ab5b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is research behind that four-beat pause on Blue's Clues. It wasn’t a creative choice or a lucky accident . It was Angela Santomero, co-creator of Blue's Clues, Super Why!, and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, standing on set and asking herself how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is research behind that four-beat pause on Blue's Clues. It wasn’t a creative choice or a lucky accident . It was Angela Santomero, co-creator of Blue's Clues, Super Why!, and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, standing on set and asking herself how long it actually takes a child to formulate a real answer. That pause — the one your kids leaned toward the screen for — is the same pause that can change everything about how you talk to your neurodivergent kid.<br /><br />In this episode, I sat down with Angela to talk about what she learned across thirty years of co-creating some of the most beloved children's programming ever made, and what parents of neurodivergent kids can take directly from that research and apply at home.<br /><br />We talked about why repetition is not boring, but how kids master skills. We talked about scaffolding without taking over, and the difference between giving kids answers versus giving them a little more room to reach their own. Angela shared why kindness is not soft (it is actually a leadership skill backed by research) and how to raise intrinsically motivated, kind kids without nagging them through it.<br /><br />We also got into how these shows can help neurodivergent kids process emotions through the buffer of a character. The story Angela shared about a little boy who used a Daniel Tiger strategy to handle his pizza cheese sliding off, actually singing himself through it, is exactly the kind of thing I want every parent of a neurodivergent kid to hear.<br /><br />Plus Angela introduced her newest project, Princess Penelope's Purse of Preposterous Things, and what she designed it to do for a generation of kids who need critical thinking, resilience, and a sense of humor.<br /><br />This one is packed. Come listen.<br /><br />Not sure where to start with your neurodivergent child? Take the free quiz: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop collecting strategies and start getting real support? Apply for the SIGNAL Parenting Program -- fall cohort enrollment is open: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/%5B363%5D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/363</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1697</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,autismparenting,childdevelopment,connectionbasedparenting,neurodivergentparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>363</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>362: The Science and Soul Behind Raising Joyful Kids, with Kira Willey</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/362-the-science-and-soul-behind-raising-joyful-kids-with-kira-willey--72424656</link><description><![CDATA[Joy is not a luxury, it’s a nervous system need for adults and kids alike.<br /><br />I had to really sit with that reframe fro a while. When we talk about raising joyful kids, we are not talking about giving them everything they want or making sure they are happy every minute of the day. We are talking about creating the conditions where they feel safe, connected, and regulated enough to actually experience joy. And it turns out, that is something we can actively nurture.<br /><br />In this episode, I am joined by Kira Willey, children's mindfulness and yoga expert, author, and kids' recording artist. Kira has worked with children and the grown-ups who love them all over the world, and her approach to building joyful, regulated kids through movement, music, and play is both practical and science-backed.<br /><br />We talk about what a joyful child actually looks like (hint: it is not a calm child, and it is not a compliant child), and how self-awareness is the real foundation of regulation. Kira shares her "connect, then direct" mantra for navigating the hardest moments of the day, why rhythm is one of the most powerful tools we have for our neurodivergent kids, and how music can quite literally change the emotional state in your home in minutes.<br /><br />We also get into what happens when kids get older and we start forgetting that they still need to play, move, and be silly. Kira has practical ideas for teens and tweens too.<br /><br />This one is full of real, doable strategies you can start using today. Give it a listen.<br /><br />Take the free quiz to find out where to start with your neurodivergent child: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop spinning your wheels and get real support? SIGNAL Parenting™ applications are open now, the next cohort begins this fall: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="https://app.notion.com/p/362-The-Science-and-Soul-Behind-Raising-Joyful-Kids-with-Kira-Willey-32c6dd5454258037b8b4d5a490ab7b80?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/362</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72424656</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72424656/362_raising_joyful_kids.mp3" length="30566803" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370/f9239b90-25c7-401e-9318-bf77f00fe370.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Joy is not a luxury, it’s a nervous system need for adults and kids alike.

I had to really sit with that reframe fro a while. When we talk about raising joyful kids, we are not talking about giving them everything they want or making sure they are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Joy is not a luxury, it’s a nervous system need for adults and kids alike.<br /><br />I had to really sit with that reframe fro a while. When we talk about raising joyful kids, we are not talking about giving them everything they want or making sure they are happy every minute of the day. We are talking about creating the conditions where they feel safe, connected, and regulated enough to actually experience joy. And it turns out, that is something we can actively nurture.<br /><br />In this episode, I am joined by Kira Willey, children's mindfulness and yoga expert, author, and kids' recording artist. Kira has worked with children and the grown-ups who love them all over the world, and her approach to building joyful, regulated kids through movement, music, and play is both practical and science-backed.<br /><br />We talk about what a joyful child actually looks like (hint: it is not a calm child, and it is not a compliant child), and how self-awareness is the real foundation of regulation. Kira shares her "connect, then direct" mantra for navigating the hardest moments of the day, why rhythm is one of the most powerful tools we have for our neurodivergent kids, and how music can quite literally change the emotional state in your home in minutes.<br /><br />We also get into what happens when kids get older and we start forgetting that they still need to play, move, and be silly. Kira has practical ideas for teens and tweens too.<br /><br />This one is full of real, doable strategies you can start using today. Give it a listen.<br /><br />Take the free quiz to find out where to start with your neurodivergent child: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/quiz</a><br /><br />Ready to stop spinning your wheels and get real support? SIGNAL Parenting™ applications are open now, the next cohort begins this fall: <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/signal" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/signal</a><br /><br />More from this episode: <a href="https://app.notion.com/p/362-The-Science-and-Soul-Behind-Raising-Joyful-Kids-with-Kira-Willey-32c6dd5454258037b8b4d5a490ab7b80?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/362</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1915</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,autismparenting,neurodivergentparenting,playbasedlearning,raisingjoyfulkids</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>362</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>361: Getting on the Same Page with Your Co-Parent, with Martina Nova, MCP, RCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/361-getting-on-the-same-page-with-your-co-parent-with-martina-nova-mcp-rcc--72284606</link><description><![CDATA[Parenting a neurodivergent kid is already one of the most demanding roles a person can hold. Add a co-parent with a completely different approach, a different upbringing, and a different nervous system, and the friction can feel relentless. Whether you are parenting side by side under the same roof or navigating two separate households, those differences in how we each show up as parents can create real strain, and in families raising neurodivergent kids, the stakes feel even higher.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Martina Nova, a registered clinical counselor, co-parent, and author of Same Page Parenting, a book of conversation starters designed to help partners understand each other more deeply before, during, and long after having kids. Martina brings both professional expertise and lived experience.<br /><br />We explore what actually drives those differences in parenting approaches, hint: it goes way deeper than personality. We talk about the invisible mental load that so many parents are quietly carrying, often alone, and why one parent becoming the default parent happens gradually, without anyone choosing it. Martina walks through how to have the conversations that actually get underneath the conflict, especially when disagreements are really about fear, grief, or identity, not just strategy.<br /><br />We also get into what it means when your child falls apart with you but holds it together with the other parent, and why that is not a sign that something is wrong with you or your relationship. This episode is full of warmth, honesty, and real tools you can start using today.<br /><br />Hit play, and let's talk about what it really looks like to parent as a team, even when it is hard.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/361" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/361</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72284606</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72284606/361_getting_on_the_same_page_with_your_co_parent.mp3" length="31922495" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806/05506292-8e78-414f-9852-d4113c221806.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parenting a neurodivergent kid is already one of the most demanding roles a person can hold. Add a co-parent with a completely different approach, a different upbringing, and a different nervous system, and the friction can feel relentless. Whether...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parenting a neurodivergent kid is already one of the most demanding roles a person can hold. Add a co-parent with a completely different approach, a different upbringing, and a different nervous system, and the friction can feel relentless. Whether you are parenting side by side under the same roof or navigating two separate households, those differences in how we each show up as parents can create real strain, and in families raising neurodivergent kids, the stakes feel even higher.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Martina Nova, a registered clinical counselor, co-parent, and author of Same Page Parenting, a book of conversation starters designed to help partners understand each other more deeply before, during, and long after having kids. Martina brings both professional expertise and lived experience.<br /><br />We explore what actually drives those differences in parenting approaches, hint: it goes way deeper than personality. We talk about the invisible mental load that so many parents are quietly carrying, often alone, and why one parent becoming the default parent happens gradually, without anyone choosing it. Martina walks through how to have the conversations that actually get underneath the conflict, especially when disagreements are really about fear, grief, or identity, not just strategy.<br /><br />We also get into what it means when your child falls apart with you but holds it together with the other parent, and why that is not a sign that something is wrong with you or your relationship. This episode is full of warmth, honesty, and real tools you can start using today.<br /><br />Hit play, and let's talk about what it really looks like to parent as a team, even when it is hard.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/361" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/361</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2000</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,coparenting,invisiblementalload,neurodivergentparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>361</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>360: Giftedness and Identity: What We Get Wrong About Smart Kids, with Mark Talaga</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/360-giftedness-and-identity-what-we-get-wrong-about-smart-kids-with-mark-talaga--72193666</link><description><![CDATA[Are you accidentally making things harder for your gifted child by constantly calling attention to how smart they are?<br /><br />So many of us celebrate when we find out our child is gifted. And understandably so. But giftedness is far more complicated than a high IQ or a "smart" label. How we talk about it with our kids can shape their identity in ways that either opens doors or closes them.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Mark Talaga, director and owner of the Center for Identity Potential and host of the Hopelessly Gifted podcast. Mark specializes in working with gifted, neurodivergent, and twice-exceptional kids whose complex developmental profiles don't respond well to typical approaches.<br /><br />We talk about what giftedness actually means beyond intelligence, why asynchronous development is at the heart of the gifted experience, and how the "smart" label can inadvertently create a performance-based identity that leads to perfectionism, anxiety, and avoidance.<br /><br />Mark shares why he sees perfectionism as a defense mechanism rather than a personality trait, how anxiety in gifted kids often signals a skills gap rather than a psychiatric problem, and why his practice focuses on activating potential rather than reaching it.<br /><br />If your child is gifted or twice-exceptional and you've struggled to find language that feels supportive without adding pressure, this conversation is for you.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/360" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/360</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72193666</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72193666/360_giftedness_and_identity_formation_051926.mp3" length="27516052" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a/134c1af9-22c5-4366-9706-96f3d69fec1a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you accidentally making things harder for your gifted child by constantly calling attention to how smart they are?

So many of us celebrate when we find out our child is gifted. And understandably so. But giftedness is far more complicated than a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you accidentally making things harder for your gifted child by constantly calling attention to how smart they are?<br /><br />So many of us celebrate when we find out our child is gifted. And understandably so. But giftedness is far more complicated than a high IQ or a "smart" label. How we talk about it with our kids can shape their identity in ways that either opens doors or closes them.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Mark Talaga, director and owner of the Center for Identity Potential and host of the Hopelessly Gifted podcast. Mark specializes in working with gifted, neurodivergent, and twice-exceptional kids whose complex developmental profiles don't respond well to typical approaches.<br /><br />We talk about what giftedness actually means beyond intelligence, why asynchronous development is at the heart of the gifted experience, and how the "smart" label can inadvertently create a performance-based identity that leads to perfectionism, anxiety, and avoidance.<br /><br />Mark shares why he sees perfectionism as a defense mechanism rather than a personality trait, how anxiety in gifted kids often signals a skills gap rather than a psychiatric problem, and why his practice focuses on activating potential rather than reaching it.<br /><br />If your child is gifted or twice-exceptional and you've struggled to find language that feels supportive without adding pressure, this conversation is for you.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/360" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/360</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1724</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>2ekids,adhdparenting,asynchronousdevelopment,autismparenting,giftedadhd,giftedandlearningdisabled,giftedidentiy,giftedkids,neurodivergentparenting,parentingadvice,parentingdifferentlywiredkids,parentinggiftedkids,perfectionism,specialneedsparenting,twiceexceptional</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>360</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>359: How Chronic Caregiving Stress Alters Parent Physical Health, with Andrea Jones</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/359-how-chronic-caregiving-stress-alters-parent-physical-health-with-andrea-jones--72061286</link><description><![CDATA[Your body has been keeping score, and it may be time to listen.<br /><br />So many of us are living in a state of constant caregiving stress, navigating the endless layers of raising a differently wired child. We are managing meltdowns, fighting for accommodations, fielding calls from school, and pouring ourselves out day after day. But here is what we do not talk about nearly enough: what all of that stress is quietly doing to our physical health.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Andrea Jones, a registered nurse, functional health practitioner, and fellow special needs parent, to have the honest conversation about what chronic caregiving stress actually does inside our bodies. Andrea spent 15 years in inpatient pediatrics supporting families through health crises before experiencing her own. After her daughter was diagnosed with PANDAS, Andrea watched her own body begin to break down, and she had to completely change how she thought about self-care, resourcing herself, and survival.<br /><br />We talk about the difference between acute and chronic stress, why chronic caregiving stress is so unique and layered, and the three most common physical symptoms she sees in caregiving parents. We dig into cortisol, why it is not doing what you probably think it is doing under long-term stress, and what that paradoxical low-cortisol burnout pattern actually looks and feels like.<br /><br />We also get honest about why self-care feels impossible and even insulting when your day involves sensory meltdowns, skipped meals, and zero margin. Andrea reframes what resourcing yourself actually means when your situation is more extreme than average, and I share how figuring out my own mindset was the only thing that actually moved the needle on my physical health after years of unanswered symptoms.<br /><br />This conversation is for every parent who has pushed through the blinking lights on their own dashboard and told themselves they were fine, right up until they were not. Press play and let this one land.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/359" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/359</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />This episode includes AI-generated content.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72061286</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72061286/359_how_chronic_caregiving_stress_alters_parent_physical_health.mp3" length="30469686" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1/42c5636d-1206-4efe-8858-f0d480a14bb1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><podcast:txt purpose="ai-content">true</podcast:txt><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your body has been keeping score, and it may be time to listen.

So many of us are living in a state of constant caregiving stress, navigating the endless layers of raising a differently wired child. We are managing meltdowns, fighting for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your body has been keeping score, and it may be time to listen.<br /><br />So many of us are living in a state of constant caregiving stress, navigating the endless layers of raising a differently wired child. We are managing meltdowns, fighting for accommodations, fielding calls from school, and pouring ourselves out day after day. But here is what we do not talk about nearly enough: what all of that stress is quietly doing to our physical health.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Andrea Jones, a registered nurse, functional health practitioner, and fellow special needs parent, to have the honest conversation about what chronic caregiving stress actually does inside our bodies. Andrea spent 15 years in inpatient pediatrics supporting families through health crises before experiencing her own. After her daughter was diagnosed with PANDAS, Andrea watched her own body begin to break down, and she had to completely change how she thought about self-care, resourcing herself, and survival.<br /><br />We talk about the difference between acute and chronic stress, why chronic caregiving stress is so unique and layered, and the three most common physical symptoms she sees in caregiving parents. We dig into cortisol, why it is not doing what you probably think it is doing under long-term stress, and what that paradoxical low-cortisol burnout pattern actually looks and feels like.<br /><br />We also get honest about why self-care feels impossible and even insulting when your day involves sensory meltdowns, skipped meals, and zero margin. Andrea reframes what resourcing yourself actually means when your situation is more extreme than average, and I share how figuring out my own mindset was the only thing that actually moved the needle on my physical health after years of unanswered symptoms.<br /><br />This conversation is for every parent who has pushed through the blinking lights on their own dashboard and told themselves they were fine, right up until they were not. Press play and let this one land.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/359" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/359</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />This episode includes AI-generated content.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1909</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,neurodivergentparenting,parentburnout,selfcareformoms,specialneedsparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>359</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>358: The Real Work of Parenting ND Young Adults (Part 4), with Debbie Reber</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/358-the-real-work-of-parenting-nd-young-adults-part-4-with-debbie-reber--71950262</link><description><![CDATA[The season of parenting a neurodivergent young adult is one of the most quietly demanding chapters no one prepares you for. You have spent years learning your child, advocating fiercely, and adjusting everything you thought you knew about parenting. And then, just when you think you have found your footing, the relationship itself asks you to change again.<br /><br />In this fourth installment of our series on parenting neurodivergent young adults, Debbie Reber of Full Tilt Parenting joins me to go deep into the relational and emotional layer of this season. We talk about what it really means to offer support without imposing it, and why that distinction matters so much for our kids' nervous systems. We explore declarative language as a tool for keeping connection alive, and why coming at our kids with an agenda, even a loving one, can quietly push them further away.<br /><br />We also get into the conversations that scare us most: talking about risk, substance use, and an uncertain future in ways that actually land. Debbie shares how she uses news stories as low-pressure entry points for hard conversations, and I share how being honest about my own young adult years helped more than any lecture ever could.<br /><br />And we close with something I think every parent in this season needs to hear: giving yourself permission to step back, fill your own cup, and trust that doing so is not abandonment. It is one of the most loving things you can do for both of you.<br /><br />Listen now and let this conversation meet you exactly where you are.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/358" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/358</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71950262</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71950262/358_parenting_neurodivergent_young_adults_p4_050626.mp3" length="47590856" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a/779c2658-7e5f-4e0a-9b69-3a0b0e6c4c8a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The season of parenting a neurodivergent young adult is one of the most quietly demanding chapters no one prepares you for. You have spent years learning your child, advocating fiercely, and adjusting everything you thought you knew about parenting....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The season of parenting a neurodivergent young adult is one of the most quietly demanding chapters no one prepares you for. You have spent years learning your child, advocating fiercely, and adjusting everything you thought you knew about parenting. And then, just when you think you have found your footing, the relationship itself asks you to change again.<br /><br />In this fourth installment of our series on parenting neurodivergent young adults, Debbie Reber of Full Tilt Parenting joins me to go deep into the relational and emotional layer of this season. We talk about what it really means to offer support without imposing it, and why that distinction matters so much for our kids' nervous systems. We explore declarative language as a tool for keeping connection alive, and why coming at our kids with an agenda, even a loving one, can quietly push them further away.<br /><br />We also get into the conversations that scare us most: talking about risk, substance use, and an uncertain future in ways that actually land. Debbie shares how she uses news stories as low-pressure entry points for hard conversations, and I share how being honest about my own young adult years helped more than any lecture ever could.<br /><br />And we close with something I think every parent in this season needs to hear: giving yourself permission to step back, fill your own cup, and trust that doing so is not abandonment. It is one of the most loving things you can do for both of you.<br /><br />Listen now and let this conversation meet you exactly where you are.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/358" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/358</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2982</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,adults,anxiety,autism,autonomy,connection-based,declarative,emotional,language,nervous,neurodivergent,parent-child,parenting,regulation,relationship,system,teen,teens,young</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>358</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>357: Three Layers of Regulation for ADHD, with Jenna Free, CCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/357-three-layers-of-regulation-for-adhd-with-jenna-free-ccc--71840293</link><description><![CDATA[Living in constant urgency can start to feel normal when you have ADHD. But what if so much of that struggle isn’t just ADHD… it’s a nervous system stuck in survival mode?<br /><br />In this conversation, I sit down with ADHD therapist Jenna Free to unpack what regulation really means and why it’s foundational for thriving with ADHD. We explore how so many ADHD symptoms overlap with fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses, and how that “double load” is what often makes life feel overwhelming and unmanageable.<br /><br />Jenna shares her three-layer framework for regulation, starting with the nervous system, moving into thoughts and beliefs, and finally into behavior. We talk about how rushing, people-pleasing, avoidance, and perfectionism are often signs of dysregulation, not character flaws. And more importantly, we talk about how to shift them in practical, doable ways.<br /><br />This episode also brings so much compassion to the role of beliefs like “I’m behind” and how those thoughts keep us stuck in cycles of stress and shutdown. You’ll hear how small, intentional shifts toward awareness, gentleness, and flexibility can create real, lasting change.<br /><br />For parents, this conversation is especially powerful. Jenna reminds us that our own regulation is the starting point, and that reducing urgency and overwhelm at home can make a meaningful difference for our kids.<br /><br />If you’ve been feeling stuck, exhausted, or like nothing is working, this episode offers a new lens and a hopeful path forward.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/357" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/357</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71840293</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71840293/357_three_layers_of_regulation_for_adhd_rev_050626.mp3" length="32974588" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d/7e06748d-8361-4feb-bbd3-879851e3e65d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Living in constant urgency can start to feel normal when you have ADHD. But what if so much of that struggle isn’t just ADHD… it’s a nervous system stuck in survival mode?

In this conversation, I sit down with ADHD therapist Jenna Free to unpack what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Living in constant urgency can start to feel normal when you have ADHD. But what if so much of that struggle isn’t just ADHD… it’s a nervous system stuck in survival mode?<br /><br />In this conversation, I sit down with ADHD therapist Jenna Free to unpack what regulation really means and why it’s foundational for thriving with ADHD. We explore how so many ADHD symptoms overlap with fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses, and how that “double load” is what often makes life feel overwhelming and unmanageable.<br /><br />Jenna shares her three-layer framework for regulation, starting with the nervous system, moving into thoughts and beliefs, and finally into behavior. We talk about how rushing, people-pleasing, avoidance, and perfectionism are often signs of dysregulation, not character flaws. And more importantly, we talk about how to shift them in practical, doable ways.<br /><br />This episode also brings so much compassion to the role of beliefs like “I’m behind” and how those thoughts keep us stuck in cycles of stress and shutdown. You’ll hear how small, intentional shifts toward awareness, gentleness, and flexibility can create real, lasting change.<br /><br />For parents, this conversation is especially powerful. Jenna reminds us that our own regulation is the starting point, and that reducing urgency and overwhelm at home can make a meaningful difference for our kids.<br /><br />If you’ve been feeling stuck, exhausted, or like nothing is working, this episode offers a new lens and a hopeful path forward.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/357" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/357</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2066</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,emotional,executive,fightorflight,functioning,intelligence,kids,nervoussystem,neurodivergent,overwhelm,parenting,regulation,support,tools</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>357</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>356: Teaching Kids to Communicate their Sensory Needs, with Sarah Collins, MSOT, OTR/L</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/356-teaching-kids-to-communicate-their-sensory-needs-with-sarah-collins-msot-otr-l--71574382</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a moment most of us recognize when our child’s behavior feels confusing, intense, or completely out of left field. But what if that behavior is actually communication we haven’t yet learned how to interpret?<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with occupational therapist Sarah Collins to talk about something that can truly shift how we parent: helping our kids understand and communicate their sensory needs. When kids don’t have the words, or even the awareness for what’s happening in their bodies, it often shows up as “challenging behavior.” And when we can decode that, everything starts to change.<br /><br />We talk about what sensory processing really is (in a way that actually makes sense), including those lesser-known internal senses like interoception, which helps kids recognize hunger, anxiety, or overwhelm. We also explore how movement supports awareness, why some kids need to move to focus, and how behavior is often a child’s first attempt at self-advocacy.<br /><br />Sarah shares practical ways to build this awareness, from using everyday observations to introducing simple language frameworks. We also talk about when to talk and when to say nothing at all.<br /><br />This conversation is about helping our kids feel seen in their bodies so they can begin to understand themselves and eventually advocate for what they need.<br /><br />This episode will open your eyes in the best way. Listen now and start seeing your child’s needs through a new lens.<br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Best Part, at <a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://BestpartKids.com</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/356" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/356</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71574382</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71574382/356_teaching_kids_to_communicate_their_sensory_needs.mp3" length="35106294" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8/2f771e39-7657-4de7-a3d6-9ab15b21d1b8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a moment most of us recognize when our child’s behavior feels confusing, intense, or completely out of left field. But what if that behavior is actually communication we haven’t yet learned how to interpret?

In this episode, I sit down with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a moment most of us recognize when our child’s behavior feels confusing, intense, or completely out of left field. But what if that behavior is actually communication we haven’t yet learned how to interpret?<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with occupational therapist Sarah Collins to talk about something that can truly shift how we parent: helping our kids understand and communicate their sensory needs. When kids don’t have the words, or even the awareness for what’s happening in their bodies, it often shows up as “challenging behavior.” And when we can decode that, everything starts to change.<br /><br />We talk about what sensory processing really is (in a way that actually makes sense), including those lesser-known internal senses like interoception, which helps kids recognize hunger, anxiety, or overwhelm. We also explore how movement supports awareness, why some kids need to move to focus, and how behavior is often a child’s first attempt at self-advocacy.<br /><br />Sarah shares practical ways to build this awareness, from using everyday observations to introducing simple language frameworks. We also talk about when to talk and when to say nothing at all.<br /><br />This conversation is about helping our kids feel seen in their bodies so they can begin to understand themselves and eventually advocate for what they need.<br /><br />This episode will open your eyes in the best way. Listen now and start seeing your child’s needs through a new lens.<br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Best Part, at <a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://BestpartKids.com</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/356" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/356</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2200</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,child,development,emotional,interoception,kids,needs,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,processing,proprioception,regulation,sensory,support,system,vestibular</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>356</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>355: Why Starting Over Is a Parenting Superpower, with Wendy Snyder</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/355-why-starting-over-is-a-parenting-superpower-with-wendy-snyder--71504008</link><description><![CDATA[Starting over in parenting is not a sign that you failed. It is one of the bravest, most powerful choices you can make.<br /><br />In this conversation, I’m talking with Wendy Snyder about why fresh starts matter so much, especially when we’re raising neurodivergent kids and kids with strong wills, big feelings, and nervous systems that experience the world differently. We dig into what it really means to begin again after hard moments, reactive moments, or years of patterns that no longer feel aligned with who we want to be as parents.<br /><br />Wendy shares so honestly about her own journey from reactive parenting to more responsive, connected parenting, including the deep work of untangling inherited beliefs, healing triggers, and learning how to stop repeating what was handed down to us. We talk about the relief of knowing that when we know better, we can do better, while also acknowledging that knowing better is not always enough when our nervous system is still in survival mode.<br /><br />This episode is full of compassion for parents who feel stuck in shame, who are trying to unlearn punishment-based parenting, and who want to create more safety, trust, and connection at home. We also talk about modeling emotional literacy, the power of co-regulation, why relationship matters more than control, and how our kids can call us into our own healing.<br /><br />It’s never too late to change your parenting. You can interrupt old patterns. You can repair. You can build something different.<br /><br />Listen now and be encouraged that every new moment is a chance to start fresh.<br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Best Part, at <a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://BestpartKids.com</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/355" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/355</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71504008</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 00:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71504008/355_why_starting_over_is_a_parenting_superpower.mp3" length="40573576" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6/73cb2384-a5ab-4c48-aff1-76568d2774e6.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Starting over in parenting is not a sign that you failed. It is one of the bravest, most powerful choices you can make.

In this conversation, I’m talking with Wendy Snyder about why fresh starts matter so much, especially when we’re raising...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Starting over in parenting is not a sign that you failed. It is one of the bravest, most powerful choices you can make.<br /><br />In this conversation, I’m talking with Wendy Snyder about why fresh starts matter so much, especially when we’re raising neurodivergent kids and kids with strong wills, big feelings, and nervous systems that experience the world differently. We dig into what it really means to begin again after hard moments, reactive moments, or years of patterns that no longer feel aligned with who we want to be as parents.<br /><br />Wendy shares so honestly about her own journey from reactive parenting to more responsive, connected parenting, including the deep work of untangling inherited beliefs, healing triggers, and learning how to stop repeating what was handed down to us. We talk about the relief of knowing that when we know better, we can do better, while also acknowledging that knowing better is not always enough when our nervous system is still in survival mode.<br /><br />This episode is full of compassion for parents who feel stuck in shame, who are trying to unlearn punishment-based parenting, and who want to create more safety, trust, and connection at home. We also talk about modeling emotional literacy, the power of co-regulation, why relationship matters more than control, and how our kids can call us into our own healing.<br /><br />It’s never too late to change your parenting. You can interrupt old patterns. You can repair. You can build something different.<br /><br />Listen now and be encouraged that every new moment is a chance to start fresh.<br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Best Part, at <a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://BestpartKids.com</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/355" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/355</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2542</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,co-regulation,emotional,fresh,in,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,over,parental,parenting,reactive,reactivity,regulation,responsive,start,starting,strong-willed,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>355</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>354: Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Kids (and Adults), with Caroline Maguire, M.Ed., ACCG, PCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/354-friendship-skills-for-neurodivergent-kids-and-adults-with-caroline-maguire-m-ed-accg-pcc--71275173</link><description><![CDATA[There’s nothing more heartbreaking than watching your child stand on the outside, longing to belong. I’ve been there, and I know how deeply it can affect not just our kids, but us as parents too. In this episode, I’m joined by friendship expert Caroline Maguire to talk about why making and keeping friends can feel so hard for neurodivergent kids, teens, and even adults.<br /><br />We unpack the real reasons behind social struggles, from executive function challenges and emotional regulation to differences in interests, communication styles, and developmental timelines. Caroline shares powerful insights into why trying to “fit in” often backfires, and how true belonging comes from embracing who our kids already are.<br /><br />We also talk about how to support our kids in finding their people in ways that actually work for their brains. That means leaning into their interests, choosing environments that fit their energy and sensory needs, and letting go of outdated expectations about how friendships are “supposed” to look. We even dive into the challenges young adults face when the built-in social structure of school disappears, and how to rebuild connection in a more intentional way.<br /><br />If you’ve ever worried that your child might never find real connection, this conversation will offer both reassurance and practical direction. Friendship is learnable, belonging is possible, and our kids don’t have to change who they are to get there.<br /><br />Listen in for a conversation that will shift how you think about connection, confidence, and what it really means to find your people.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a>. It’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/354" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/354</a><br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Russell Coaching. Reference this ad and get $100 off the Intake Fee and 10% off our regular coaching fees for three months. https://<a href="http://russellcoaching.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">russellcoaching.com</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71275173</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71275173/354_friendship_skills_for_neurodivergent_adults.mp3" length="35554564" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d/e4ff6266-77c8-4bcf-83c1-512f4d9be84d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s nothing more heartbreaking than watching your child stand on the outside, longing to belong. I’ve been there, and I know how deeply it can affect not just our kids, but us as parents too. In this episode, I’m joined by friendship expert...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s nothing more heartbreaking than watching your child stand on the outside, longing to belong. I’ve been there, and I know how deeply it can affect not just our kids, but us as parents too. In this episode, I’m joined by friendship expert Caroline Maguire to talk about why making and keeping friends can feel so hard for neurodivergent kids, teens, and even adults.<br /><br />We unpack the real reasons behind social struggles, from executive function challenges and emotional regulation to differences in interests, communication styles, and developmental timelines. Caroline shares powerful insights into why trying to “fit in” often backfires, and how true belonging comes from embracing who our kids already are.<br /><br />We also talk about how to support our kids in finding their people in ways that actually work for their brains. That means leaning into their interests, choosing environments that fit their energy and sensory needs, and letting go of outdated expectations about how friendships are “supposed” to look. We even dive into the challenges young adults face when the built-in social structure of school disappears, and how to rebuild connection in a more intentional way.<br /><br />If you’ve ever worried that your child might never find real connection, this conversation will offer both reassurance and practical direction. Friendship is learnable, belonging is possible, and our kids don’t have to change who they are to get there.<br /><br />Listen in for a conversation that will shift how you think about connection, confidence, and what it really means to find your people.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a>. It’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/354" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/354</a><br /><br />Visit our sponsor, Russell Coaching. Reference this ad and get $100 off the Intake Fee and 10% off our regular coaching fees for three months. https://<a href="http://russellcoaching.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">russellcoaching.com</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2228</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,anxiety,autism,belonging,connection,emotional,executive,friendship,function,introverted,kids,neurodivergent,neurodiversity,parenting,regulation,skills,social,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>354</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>353: Selective Eating &amp; How to Help Fill Nutritional Gaps, with Brittyn Coleman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/353-selective-eating-how-to-help-fill-nutritional-gaps-with-brittyn-coleman--70942848</link><description><![CDATA[Feeding your child shouldn’t feel like a daily battle between fear and survival, but for so many of us parenting neurodivergent kids, it does. When your child eats only a handful of foods, it’s easy to spiral into worry about their health, their growth, and what the future might look like.<br /><br />In this conversation, I’m joined by dietitian Brittyn Coleman to unpack what’s really going on beneath selective eating. We talk about why “picky eating” isn’t the right lens for neurodivergent kids and how sensory sensitivities, anxiety, oral motor challenges, and even interoception all play a role. This isn’t about defiance or control. It’s about a nervous system trying to stay safe.<br /><br />We also dig into why traditional strategies like pressure, bribing, or removing safe foods often backfire and can actually make eating more stressful and restrictive over time. Instead, we explore how to shift toward a sensory-informed, compassionate approach that builds trust, reduces dysregulation, and creates real progress.<br /><br />You’ll hear practical ways to start supporting your child right where they are, including how to identify their sensory preferences, redefine what progress looks like, and reduce mealtime stress for everyone at the table. We also talk about filling nutritional gaps in a way that works for kids with sensory sensitivities.<br /><br />If mealtimes feel overwhelming in your home, this episode will help you see your child’s experience differently and give you a more supportive path forward. Take a breath, lean in, and listen.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/353" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/353</a><br /><br />Best Part: ****<a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://bestpartkids.com/</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70942848</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70942848/353_selective_eating_how_to_help_fill_nutritional_gaps.mp3" length="31590154" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c/b7b964d2-7020-4c28-b04a-436661d8524c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeding your child shouldn’t feel like a daily battle between fear and survival, but for so many of us parenting neurodivergent kids, it does. When your child eats only a handful of foods, it’s easy to spiral into worry about their health, their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeding your child shouldn’t feel like a daily battle between fear and survival, but for so many of us parenting neurodivergent kids, it does. When your child eats only a handful of foods, it’s easy to spiral into worry about their health, their growth, and what the future might look like.<br /><br />In this conversation, I’m joined by dietitian Brittyn Coleman to unpack what’s really going on beneath selective eating. We talk about why “picky eating” isn’t the right lens for neurodivergent kids and how sensory sensitivities, anxiety, oral motor challenges, and even interoception all play a role. This isn’t about defiance or control. It’s about a nervous system trying to stay safe.<br /><br />We also dig into why traditional strategies like pressure, bribing, or removing safe foods often backfire and can actually make eating more stressful and restrictive over time. Instead, we explore how to shift toward a sensory-informed, compassionate approach that builds trust, reduces dysregulation, and creates real progress.<br /><br />You’ll hear practical ways to start supporting your child right where they are, including how to identify their sensory preferences, redefine what progress looks like, and reduce mealtime stress for everyone at the table. We also talk about filling nutritional gaps in a way that works for kids with sensory sensitivities.<br /><br />If mealtimes feel overwhelming in your home, this episode will help you see your child’s experience differently and give you a more supportive path forward. Take a breath, lean in, and listen.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/353" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/353</a><br /><br />Best Part: ****<a href="https://bestpartkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://bestpartkids.com/</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1979</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,challenges,eating,feeding,food,issues,kids,neurodivergent,nutrition,parenting,picky,selective,sensitivities,sensory,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>353</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>352: Navigating Childhood &amp; Adolescent Anxiety, with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/352-navigating-childhood-adolescent-anxiety-with-dr-vanessa-lapointe--70942046</link><description><![CDATA[Anxiety isn’t always what it looks like, and sometimes what we’ve been told to “fix” isn’t actually the problem at all. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe to unpack a deeply compassionate and eye-opening perspective on childhood and adolescent anxiety that shifts everything.<br /><br />Instead of focusing on eliminating anxious feelings, we explore what it really means to zoom out and look at the environments our kids are navigating every day. Because so often, their anxiety isn’t a flaw to fix, it’s a signal that something around them isn’t aligned with what they need to feel safe, supported, and able to thrive.<br /><br />We talk about what it looks like when anxiety shows up as irritability, control, defiance, or even shutdown, and why labeling kids as manipulative completely misses what’s actually going on underneath. Dr. V shares powerful, practical ways we can strengthen our connection with our kids, even when we can’t change the environment entirely, and how that connection becomes a protective “shield” they carry with them.<br /><br />You’ll also hear how to begin decoding what your child truly needs, how to approach challenges with curiosity instead of judgment, and why shifting from diagnosing the child to examining the environment can be a game changer.<br /><br />This is one of those conversations that invites you to soften, to see your child differently, and to trust your instincts as a parent.<br /><br />Listen in and discover a more connected, compassionate way to support your anxious child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a>, because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/352" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/352</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70942046</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70942046/352_navigating_childhood_adolescent_anxiety.mp3" length="29505143" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25/6431ae4c-e7d1-482f-b835-a8bed7632d25.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Anxiety isn’t always what it looks like, and sometimes what we’ve been told to “fix” isn’t actually the problem at all. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe to unpack a deeply compassionate and eye-opening perspective on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Anxiety isn’t always what it looks like, and sometimes what we’ve been told to “fix” isn’t actually the problem at all. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe to unpack a deeply compassionate and eye-opening perspective on childhood and adolescent anxiety that shifts everything.<br /><br />Instead of focusing on eliminating anxious feelings, we explore what it really means to zoom out and look at the environments our kids are navigating every day. Because so often, their anxiety isn’t a flaw to fix, it’s a signal that something around them isn’t aligned with what they need to feel safe, supported, and able to thrive.<br /><br />We talk about what it looks like when anxiety shows up as irritability, control, defiance, or even shutdown, and why labeling kids as manipulative completely misses what’s actually going on underneath. Dr. V shares powerful, practical ways we can strengthen our connection with our kids, even when we can’t change the environment entirely, and how that connection becomes a protective “shield” they carry with them.<br /><br />You’ll also hear how to begin decoding what your child truly needs, how to approach challenges with curiosity instead of judgment, and why shifting from diagnosing the child to examining the environment can be a game changer.<br /><br />This is one of those conversations that invites you to soften, to see your child differently, and to trust your instincts as a parent.<br /><br />Listen in and discover a more connected, compassionate way to support your anxious child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a>, because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/352" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/352</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1849</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,anxiety,autism,behavior,child,communication,connection,emotional,in,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,school,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>352</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>351: ADHD in Kids: Why Understanding Their Brain Changes Everything, with Cate Osborn &amp; Erik Gude</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/351-adhd-in-kids-why-understanding-their-brain-changes-everything-with-cate-osborn-erik-gude--70798174</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a quiet kind of harm that happens when a child doesn’t understand their own brain. It doesn’t show up all at once. Instead, it builds over time as confusion, shame, and the belief that something is “wrong” with them. In this conversation, I sit down with two amazing ADHD adults, Cate Osborn and Erik Gude, to unpack what it really means to grow up with ADHD, and why understanding it early can change everything.<br /><br />We talk about the very real impact of diagnosis, not as a label, but as a path to self-understanding, support, and safety. Cate shares the long-term emotional toll she sees in adults who weren’t diagnosed or informed as kids, while Erik brings the perspective of being diagnosed young and navigating what that meant for his identity. Together, they offer a balanced, compassionate look at why knowing your brain matters.<br /><br />We also dive into masking — how it shows up in ADHD, why it’s so exhausting, and how finding your people can change everything. There’s so much hope here, especially when we talk about building community, normalizing conversations about neurodivergence, and helping our kids feel less alone in their experience.<br /><br />This episode also goes deeper into topics we don’t talk about enough, like safety, risk, self-esteem, and how ADHD impacts relationships, decision-making, and even long-term health outcomes.<br /><br />Most importantly, this is a conversation about how we, as parents, can become a steady and supportive “North Star” for our kids as they learn who they are.<br /><br />If you’ve questioned whether diagnosis matters, wondered how to talk to your child about their brain, or sought how to truly support them in becoming who they are, this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and start shifting the way you think about ADHD.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/351" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/351</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70798174</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70798174/351_adhd_field_guide_for_adults.mp3" length="43323258" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a quiet kind of harm that happens when a child doesn’t understand their own brain. It doesn’t show up all at once. Instead, it builds over time as confusion, shame, and the belief that something is “wrong” with them. In this conversation, I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a quiet kind of harm that happens when a child doesn’t understand their own brain. It doesn’t show up all at once. Instead, it builds over time as confusion, shame, and the belief that something is “wrong” with them. In this conversation, I sit down with two amazing ADHD adults, Cate Osborn and Erik Gude, to unpack what it really means to grow up with ADHD, and why understanding it early can change everything.<br /><br />We talk about the very real impact of diagnosis, not as a label, but as a path to self-understanding, support, and safety. Cate shares the long-term emotional toll she sees in adults who weren’t diagnosed or informed as kids, while Erik brings the perspective of being diagnosed young and navigating what that meant for his identity. Together, they offer a balanced, compassionate look at why knowing your brain matters.<br /><br />We also dive into masking — how it shows up in ADHD, why it’s so exhausting, and how finding your people can change everything. There’s so much hope here, especially when we talk about building community, normalizing conversations about neurodivergence, and helping our kids feel less alone in their experience.<br /><br />This episode also goes deeper into topics we don’t talk about enough, like safety, risk, self-esteem, and how ADHD impacts relationships, decision-making, and even long-term health outcomes.<br /><br />Most importantly, this is a conversation about how we, as parents, can become a steady and supportive “North Star” for our kids as they learn who they are.<br /><br />If you’ve questioned whether diagnosis matters, wondered how to talk to your child about their brain, or sought how to truly support them in becoming who they are, this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and start shifting the way you think about ADHD.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/351" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/351</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2714</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,awareness,behavior,connection,education,emotional,executive,function,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,neurodiversity,parenting,regulation,support,system,tips</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>351</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>350: Alternative School Options, with Dawn Fleming-Kendall</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/350-alternative-school-options-with-dawn-fleming-kendall--70628139</link><description><![CDATA[When school keeps hurting your child instead of helping them learn, it can feel like there are no good choices left. That kind of desperation is something so many of us know well, especially when our neurodivergent kids are dysregulated, burned out, refusing school, or simply surviving the day instead of learning. In this conversation, I’m talking with educational advocate Dawn Fleming-Kendall about what parents can do when the traditional school setup is clearly not working.<br /><br />We talk about how to tell the difference between a school that needs more support and flexibility and a placement that is simply the wrong fit. Dawn shares the red flags that matter most, including physical, emotional, and psychological safety, and explains why collaboration with schools still matters even when you’re frustrated and exhausted. We also dig into creative options that many parents don’t realize are possible, like reduced school days, hybrid learning, online instruction, homeschool co-ops, charter schools, specialized private schools, and district-funded outplacements.<br /><br />This episode is especially valuable if you’ve ever been told no by a school and wondered whether there was another path. We talk about asking for flexibility, documenting what is and isn’t working, calling IEP meetings, touring alternative placements, and looking beyond sales pitches to understand a school’s actual philosophy, safety practices, staff turnover, academics, and tolerance for behavior.<br /><br />Most of all, this conversation is a reminder that you are not supposed to know all of this automatically. The system is complicated, and finding the right educational fit for your child can take creativity, persistence, and support.<br /><br />Listen now to explore school options that may better support your beautifully complex child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/350" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/350</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70628139</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70628139/350_alternative_school_options.mp3" length="37368915" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a/f886009d-6d08-46f0-bc47-c3b0082f0b1a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When school keeps hurting your child instead of helping them learn, it can feel like there are no good choices left. That kind of desperation is something so many of us know well, especially when our neurodivergent kids are dysregulated, burned out,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When school keeps hurting your child instead of helping them learn, it can feel like there are no good choices left. That kind of desperation is something so many of us know well, especially when our neurodivergent kids are dysregulated, burned out, refusing school, or simply surviving the day instead of learning. In this conversation, I’m talking with educational advocate Dawn Fleming-Kendall about what parents can do when the traditional school setup is clearly not working.<br /><br />We talk about how to tell the difference between a school that needs more support and flexibility and a placement that is simply the wrong fit. Dawn shares the red flags that matter most, including physical, emotional, and psychological safety, and explains why collaboration with schools still matters even when you’re frustrated and exhausted. We also dig into creative options that many parents don’t realize are possible, like reduced school days, hybrid learning, online instruction, homeschool co-ops, charter schools, specialized private schools, and district-funded outplacements.<br /><br />This episode is especially valuable if you’ve ever been told no by a school and wondered whether there was another path. We talk about asking for flexibility, documenting what is and isn’t working, calling IEP meetings, touring alternative placements, and looking beyond sales pitches to understand a school’s actual philosophy, safety practices, staff turnover, academics, and tolerance for behavior.<br /><br />Most of all, this conversation is a reminder that you are not supposed to know all of this automatically. The system is complicated, and finding the right educational fit for your child can take creativity, persistence, and support.<br /><br />Listen now to explore school options that may better support your beautifully complex child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/350" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/350</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2341</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,advocacy,alternative,autism,burnout,education,homeschool,hybrid,iep,kids,neurodivergent,options,parenting,refusal,school,schooling,schools,special,support,therapeutic</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>350</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>349: Tracking &amp; Maintaining Progress, with Caroline Fitsimones</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/349-tracking-maintaining-progress-with-caroline-fitsimones--70372932</link><description><![CDATA[Progress with our neurodivergent kids can feel invisible. When you’re in the daily grind of meltdowns, school stress, and constant problem-solving, it’s so easy to believe nothing is working. I’ve been there. That heavy feeling of “we’re trying everything, and it’s still so hard.”<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by ADHD parenting coach and occupational therapist Caroline Fitsimones to break down what it really looks like to track and maintain progress in a way that’s realistic, supportive, and actually doable for families like ours.<br /><br />We talk about why tracking progress isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about clarity. It’s about moving from “everything is falling apart” to noticing patterns, pivoting with intention, and celebrating the baby steps that truly build growth.<br /><br />Caroline shares a powerful six-step framework that starts with vision casting and building family culture, then moves into strengthening ourselves as parents, installing supportive systems, targeting micro-steps for our kids’ skills, and finally reflecting and adjusting with grace.<br /><br />We dig into practical examples, from simplifying mornings to using visual schedules, to doing cost-benefit analyses on what actually moves the needle for your child’s regulation and success. Most importantly, we talk about modeling flexibility, self-regulation, and reflection for our kids in real time.<br /><br />If you’ve been stuck in survival mode or wondering how to create sustainable growth, this conversation will help you feel more empowered and less alone. Tune in and let’s rethink progress together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/349" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/349</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70372932</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70372932/349_tracking_maintaining_progress.mp3" length="28242040" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518/88e02494-b5f1-45ef-b52d-df078f1aa518.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Progress with our neurodivergent kids can feel invisible. When you’re in the daily grind of meltdowns, school stress, and constant problem-solving, it’s so easy to believe nothing is working. I’ve been there. That heavy feeling of “we’re trying...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Progress with our neurodivergent kids can feel invisible. When you’re in the daily grind of meltdowns, school stress, and constant problem-solving, it’s so easy to believe nothing is working. I’ve been there. That heavy feeling of “we’re trying everything, and it’s still so hard.”<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by ADHD parenting coach and occupational therapist Caroline Fitsimones to break down what it really looks like to track and maintain progress in a way that’s realistic, supportive, and actually doable for families like ours.<br /><br />We talk about why tracking progress isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about clarity. It’s about moving from “everything is falling apart” to noticing patterns, pivoting with intention, and celebrating the baby steps that truly build growth.<br /><br />Caroline shares a powerful six-step framework that starts with vision casting and building family culture, then moves into strengthening ourselves as parents, installing supportive systems, targeting micro-steps for our kids’ skills, and finally reflecting and adjusting with grace.<br /><br />We dig into practical examples, from simplifying mornings to using visual schedules, to doing cost-benefit analyses on what actually moves the needle for your child’s regulation and success. Most importantly, we talk about modeling flexibility, self-regulation, and reflection for our kids in real time.<br /><br />If you’ve been stuck in survival mode or wondering how to create sustainable growth, this conversation will help you feel more empowered and less alone. Tune in and let’s rethink progress together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/349" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/349</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1770</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,and,autism,co,emotional,executive,family,function,growth,intentional,kids,mindset,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,routines,strategies,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>349</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>348: Good Sleep for Neurodivergent Kids, with Melisa Moore, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/348-good-sleep-for-neurodivergent-kids-with-melisa-moore-ph-d--70372828</link><description><![CDATA[Sleep can feel like the one thing that makes everything else harder. When our kids don’t sleep, their nervous systems are fried, their emotions are bigger, and our own capacity shrinks fast. I’ve lived it. If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child or teen who struggles to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wind down at night, you are not alone and you are not doing anything wrong.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Melisa Moore, clinical psychologist and author of The Good Sleep Guide for Neurodivergent Kids. We talk about why sleep is often more complicated for kids with ADHD and autism, from circadian rhythm differences to anxiety, medical comorbidities, and specific sleep disorders.<br /><br />We unpack what “balancing the ideal with your family’s real” actually looks like at bedtime. That includes rethinking sleep hygiene, creating routines that truly calm your child’s nervous system, and letting go of guilt when something unconventional, like background audio or a favorite show, genuinely helps your child fall asleep.<br /><br />We also explore the powerful language shift from “go to sleep” to “wait for sleep,” why calming and occupying the mind matters, how sleep associations affect night wakings, what’s different about teen sleep, and what the research really says about melatonin and magnesium.<br /><br />If sleep has felt like a battle in your home, this conversation will bring clarity, compassion, and practical strategies you can try tonight. Listen in and let’s make bedtime feel a little more doable.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/348" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/348</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70372828</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 01:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70372828/348_good_sleep_for_nd_kids_rev_022726.mp3" length="28714086" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e/cf25632f-22db-4bd2-879e-fa0ff43e423e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sleep can feel like the one thing that makes everything else harder. When our kids don’t sleep, their nervous systems are fried, their emotions are bigger, and our own capacity shrinks fast. I’ve lived it. If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sleep can feel like the one thing that makes everything else harder. When our kids don’t sleep, their nervous systems are fried, their emotions are bigger, and our own capacity shrinks fast. I’ve lived it. If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child or teen who struggles to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wind down at night, you are not alone and you are not doing anything wrong.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Melisa Moore, clinical psychologist and author of The Good Sleep Guide for Neurodivergent Kids. We talk about why sleep is often more complicated for kids with ADHD and autism, from circadian rhythm differences to anxiety, medical comorbidities, and specific sleep disorders.<br /><br />We unpack what “balancing the ideal with your family’s real” actually looks like at bedtime. That includes rethinking sleep hygiene, creating routines that truly calm your child’s nervous system, and letting go of guilt when something unconventional, like background audio or a favorite show, genuinely helps your child fall asleep.<br /><br />We also explore the powerful language shift from “go to sleep” to “wait for sleep,” why calming and occupying the mind matters, how sleep associations affect night wakings, what’s different about teen sleep, and what the research really says about melatonin and magnesium.<br /><br />If sleep has felt like a battle in your home, this conversation will bring clarity, compassion, and practical strategies you can try tonight. Listen in and let’s make bedtime feel a little more doable.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/348" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/348</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1799</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,and,anxious,autism,bedtime,circadian,for,hygiene,kids,melatonin,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,rhythm,routine,sleep,struggles,system,teen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>348</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>347: Accommodations That Reduce Cognitive Load Restore Motivation, with Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/347-accommodations-that-reduce-cognitive-load-restore-motivation-with-jeff-copper-mba-pcc-pcac-cpcc-acg--70164147</link><description><![CDATA[Motivation isn’t what we’ve been taught it is. When we misunderstand it, we accidentally shame our kids for struggling with something they can’t control.<br /><br />In this powerful conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach and cognitive engineer, Jeff Copper, to unpack motivation through the lens of executive function impairment. What if your child isn’t unmotivated at all? What if their brain simply requires more effort (more emotional cost) to produce the same outcome as their peers?<br /><br />Jeff reframes motivation as a two-force system: the automatic brain (driven by comfort and survival) and the executive functioning brain (driven by effortful achievement). When executive function is impaired, as it is in ADHD, the balance tips. Tasks feel colder. Harder. More painful. And avoidance suddenly makes perfect sense.<br /><br />We also dive into why traditional strategies like willpower, rewards, and even common accommodations like “extra time” often fail. In fact, some accommodations simply prolong suffering rather than relieve impairment.<br /><br />Instead, Jeff introduces the idea of adaptive accommodations — support that reduces cognitive load and restores equilibrium. Think cueing questions, direct oral processing, printing assignments instead of forcing everything digital, and providing scaffolding that truly fits the brain.<br /><br />This conversation is about dignity. It’s about seeing the invisible impairment. It’s about shifting from shame to understanding.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/347" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/347</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70164147</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2026 01:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70164147/347_understanding_motivation_in_the_context_of_executive_function.mp3" length="32385381" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7/1725e141-5841-41e0-845e-d87bdc70fab7.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Motivation isn’t what we’ve been taught it is. When we misunderstand it, we accidentally shame our kids for struggling with something they can’t control.

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach and cognitive engineer, Jeff Copper,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Motivation isn’t what we’ve been taught it is. When we misunderstand it, we accidentally shame our kids for struggling with something they can’t control.<br /><br />In this powerful conversation, I sit down with ADHD coach and cognitive engineer, Jeff Copper, to unpack motivation through the lens of executive function impairment. What if your child isn’t unmotivated at all? What if their brain simply requires more effort (more emotional cost) to produce the same outcome as their peers?<br /><br />Jeff reframes motivation as a two-force system: the automatic brain (driven by comfort and survival) and the executive functioning brain (driven by effortful achievement). When executive function is impaired, as it is in ADHD, the balance tips. Tasks feel colder. Harder. More painful. And avoidance suddenly makes perfect sense.<br /><br />We also dive into why traditional strategies like willpower, rewards, and even common accommodations like “extra time” often fail. In fact, some accommodations simply prolong suffering rather than relieve impairment.<br /><br />Instead, Jeff introduces the idea of adaptive accommodations — support that reduces cognitive load and restores equilibrium. Think cueing questions, direct oral processing, printing assignments instead of forcing everything digital, and providing scaffolding that truly fits the brain.<br /><br />This conversation is about dignity. It’s about seeing the invisible impairment. It’s about shifting from shame to understanding.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/347" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/347</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2029</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>accommodations,adaptive,adhd,challenges,differently,dysfunction,executive,function,kids,memory,motivation,neurodivergent,parenting,struggles,support,wired,working</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>347</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>346: Teaching Kids Friendship Skills, with Jennifer Licate</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate--70074022</link><description><![CDATA[Friendship shouldn’t feel like an audition.<br /><br />And yet, for so many of our neurodivergent kids, it does.<br /><br />They try to decode shifting rules, confusing social cues, and ever-changing group dynamics, all while wondering, “Am I weird?” or “Why don’t I fit in?” It’s heartbreaking to watch your child struggle socially, especially when you’re not sure how much to step in and how much to step back.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with school counselor and children’s author Jennifer Licate to talk about what friendship skill-building actually looks like — especially for kids who struggle to read nonverbal cues, interpret tone, or navigate subtle social shifts.<br /><br />We talk about:<br />• Helping kids understand facial expressions and body language in concrete ways <br />• Supporting authenticity without pushing masking or compliance<br />• Knowing when to intervene and when to let kids work it out<br />• Teaching empathy without teaching kids to tolerate mistreatment <br />• Letting go of friendships that no longer feel safe or aligned<br /><br />Friendship is nuanced. It’s emotional. And for our kids, it can feel overwhelming.<br /><br />This conversation is full of gentle guidance for helping your child build real connection while staying true to who they are.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered how to support your child socially without over-managing or forcing them to “fit in,” this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and let’s unpack this together.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/346</a><br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. [<a href="https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.%5D(https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.](https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.)</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70074022</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 01:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70074022/346_teaching_kids_friendship_skills.mp3" length="28344622" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3/e2212485-1eb7-4230-89d8-c3f3d4fa73d3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Friendship shouldn’t feel like an audition.

And yet, for so many of our neurodivergent kids, it does.

They try to decode shifting rules, confusing social cues, and ever-changing group dynamics, all while wondering, “Am I weird?” or “Why don’t I fit...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Friendship shouldn’t feel like an audition.<br /><br />And yet, for so many of our neurodivergent kids, it does.<br /><br />They try to decode shifting rules, confusing social cues, and ever-changing group dynamics, all while wondering, “Am I weird?” or “Why don’t I fit in?” It’s heartbreaking to watch your child struggle socially, especially when you’re not sure how much to step in and how much to step back.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with school counselor and children’s author Jennifer Licate to talk about what friendship skill-building actually looks like — especially for kids who struggle to read nonverbal cues, interpret tone, or navigate subtle social shifts.<br /><br />We talk about:<br />• Helping kids understand facial expressions and body language in concrete ways <br />• Supporting authenticity without pushing masking or compliance<br />• Knowing when to intervene and when to let kids work it out<br />• Teaching empathy without teaching kids to tolerate mistreatment <br />• Letting go of friendships that no longer feel safe or aligned<br /><br />Friendship is nuanced. It’s emotional. And for our kids, it can feel overwhelming.<br /><br />This conversation is full of gentle guidance for helping your child build real connection while staying true to who they are.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered how to support your child socially without over-managing or forcing them to “fit in,” this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and let’s unpack this together.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/346</a><br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. [<a href="https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.%5D(https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.](https://villagemetrics.com/?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.)</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1776</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,based,child,connection,development,emotional,friendship,kids,neurodivergent,parenting,raising,resilient,skills,social,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>346</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>345: We Need to Talk About Dignity and Humanity, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/345-we-need-to-talk-about-dignity-and-humanity-with-penny-williams--69895453</link><description><![CDATA[Somewhere along the way, we started normalizing things that should never be normal for kids. Public behavior charts. Compliance scripts delivered to dysregulated nervous systems. Support that’s only available if a child behaves “well enough.” And the cost of all of it is dignity.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m naming what so many parents feel in their gut but struggle to articulate: too many systems prioritize compliance over humanity, especially for neurodivergent kids. When behavior is treated like a moral failure instead of a nervous system signal, children learn that their bodies are a problem, their needs are inconvenient, and their voices don’t matter.<br /><br />I walk through real, everyday examples, like classroom behavior charts, IEP meetings where kids disappear in plain sight, “calm down” spaces that feel more like exile than support, and the familiar phrase “they know better.” These practices don’t teach skills. They teach fear, shame, and self-abandonment.<br /><br />Dignity isn’t something kids earn through good behavior. It’s a basic human right. And regulation isn’t a choice — it’s biology. When we ask kids to perform regulation on demand, we’re asking them to do something their nervous system literally cannot do in that moment.<br /><br />This episode isn’t about being permissive or coddling kids who struggle. It’s about being humane. It’s about choosing nervous-system-first support, privacy, co-regulation, and repair over punishment. It’s about asking one simple question before we respond: Does this preserve this child’s humanity?<br /><br />I’m not neutral on this. I’m choosing dignity above all, and I’m inviting you to do the same.<br /><br />🎧 Listen now and join me in changing the story for our beautifully complex kids.<br /><br />[JOLIE — ADD the below at the end of the description only in Spreaker, not in Wordpress]<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/345</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69895453</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 01:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69895453/345_we_need_to_talk_about_dignity_and_humanity.mp3" length="21422016" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88/344e11ee-95b5-48c4-a0d8-858908bede88.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Somewhere along the way, we started normalizing things that should never be normal for kids. Public behavior charts. Compliance scripts delivered to dysregulated nervous systems. Support that’s only available if a child behaves “well enough.” And the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Somewhere along the way, we started normalizing things that should never be normal for kids. Public behavior charts. Compliance scripts delivered to dysregulated nervous systems. Support that’s only available if a child behaves “well enough.” And the cost of all of it is dignity.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m naming what so many parents feel in their gut but struggle to articulate: too many systems prioritize compliance over humanity, especially for neurodivergent kids. When behavior is treated like a moral failure instead of a nervous system signal, children learn that their bodies are a problem, their needs are inconvenient, and their voices don’t matter.<br /><br />I walk through real, everyday examples, like classroom behavior charts, IEP meetings where kids disappear in plain sight, “calm down” spaces that feel more like exile than support, and the familiar phrase “they know better.” These practices don’t teach skills. They teach fear, shame, and self-abandonment.<br /><br />Dignity isn’t something kids earn through good behavior. It’s a basic human right. And regulation isn’t a choice — it’s biology. When we ask kids to perform regulation on demand, we’re asking them to do something their nervous system literally cannot do in that moment.<br /><br />This episode isn’t about being permissive or coddling kids who struggle. It’s about being humane. It’s about choosing nervous-system-first support, privacy, co-regulation, and repair over punishment. It’s about asking one simple question before we respond: Does this preserve this child’s humanity?<br /><br />I’m not neutral on this. I’m choosing dignity above all, and I’m inviting you to do the same.<br /><br />🎧 Listen now and join me in changing the story for our beautifully complex kids.<br /><br />[JOLIE — ADD the below at the end of the description only in Spreaker, not in Wordpress]<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/345</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1342</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,communication,dignity,education,emotional,in,informed,is,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,support,system,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>345</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>344: What to Do When You Run Out of Compassion, with Melissa Corkum</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/344-what-to-do-when-you-run-out-of-compassion-with-melissa-corkum--69707667</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a moment many of us reach in parenting when the compassion just… runs out. Not because we don’t love our kids, but because our nervous system has been carrying too much for too long. When the meltdowns repeat, the stress never lets up, and every day feels like survival, even empathy can feel impossible.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by nervous system coach Melissa Corkum to talk about what’s really happening when you feel disconnected, resentful, or emotionally shut down as a parent. We explore a lesser-known but deeply validating concept called blocked care — a biological, protective response in your nervous system that kicks in under chronic stress. This isn’t a failure. It’s not a character flaw. It’s your body trying to keep you alive.<br /><br />Melissa explains why parenting neurodivergent kids places such intense, ongoing demands on caregivers, and why “just try harder” is the least helpful advice imaginable. We talk about compassion fatigue, how repeated emotional pain changes the brain’s chemistry, and why your system may be pulling resources away from connection in order to survive.<br /><br />Most importantly, we talk about what actually helps. Not silver bullets or quick fixes, but small, doable ways to begin restoring safety and capacity in your nervous system, starting with self-compassion. From noticing tiny points of joy, to completing the stress response cycle through movement, to releasing the shame that thrives in isolation, this conversation offers relief and hope.<br /><br />If you’ve ever thought, I don’t recognize myself as a parent anymore, this episode is for you. You are not alone, and nothing about this means you’re doing it wrong.<br /><br />Listen in for a deeply validating, nervous-system-centered conversation about burnout, blocked care, and finding your way back to yourself.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/344" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/344</a><br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. <a href="https://www.villagemetrics.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.villagemetrics.com</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69707667</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2026 01:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69707667/344_what_to_do_when_you_run_out_of_compassion.mp3" length="29239097" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589/4585c83d-5e33-42d8-9056-c0fd52840589.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a moment many of us reach in parenting when the compassion just… runs out. Not because we don’t love our kids, but because our nervous system has been carrying too much for too long. When the meltdowns repeat, the stress never lets up, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a moment many of us reach in parenting when the compassion just… runs out. Not because we don’t love our kids, but because our nervous system has been carrying too much for too long. When the meltdowns repeat, the stress never lets up, and every day feels like survival, even empathy can feel impossible.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by nervous system coach Melissa Corkum to talk about what’s really happening when you feel disconnected, resentful, or emotionally shut down as a parent. We explore a lesser-known but deeply validating concept called blocked care — a biological, protective response in your nervous system that kicks in under chronic stress. This isn’t a failure. It’s not a character flaw. It’s your body trying to keep you alive.<br /><br />Melissa explains why parenting neurodivergent kids places such intense, ongoing demands on caregivers, and why “just try harder” is the least helpful advice imaginable. We talk about compassion fatigue, how repeated emotional pain changes the brain’s chemistry, and why your system may be pulling resources away from connection in order to survive.<br /><br />Most importantly, we talk about what actually helps. Not silver bullets or quick fixes, but small, doable ways to begin restoring safety and capacity in your nervous system, starting with self-compassion. From noticing tiny points of joy, to completing the stress response cycle through movement, to releasing the shame that thrives in isolation, this conversation offers relief and hope.<br /><br />If you’ve ever thought, I don’t recognize myself as a parent anymore, this episode is for you. You are not alone, and nothing about this means you’re doing it wrong.<br /><br />Listen in for a deeply validating, nervous-system-centered conversation about burnout, blocked care, and finding your way back to yourself.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/344" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/344</a><br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. <a href="https://www.villagemetrics.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.villagemetrics.com</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1832</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,blocked,burnout,care,caregiver,compassion,emotional,fatigue,nervous,neurodivergent,parent,parenting,regulation,self,stress,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>344</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>343: It Isn’t Disrespect. It’s a Biological Response to Stress., with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/343-it-isn-t-disrespect-it-s-a-biological-response-to-stress-with-penny-williams--69579865</link><description><![CDATA[What if the behavior that feels the most disrespectful isn’t a choice at all?<br /><br />Eye rolling. Yelling. Snapping back. Refusing. These moments hit deep. They sting, especially when they happen in public or in front of people who expect “better behavior.” And so often, we’ve been taught that this kind of behavior must be corrected immediately, or else we’re letting something slide.<br /><br />But that interpretation is costing us more than it’s helping.<br /><br />When a child is overwhelmed, stressed, or emotionally flooded, their nervous system shifts into survival mode. The thinking brain goes offline. What looks like disrespect, defiance, or opposition is often a biological response to stress, not a lack of manners, morals, or character.<br /><br />When we push for compliance in those moments, we’re adding pressure to an already overloaded system. We’re escalating threat instead of restoring safety. And while our intentions are good, the cost can be high: damaged trust, intensified power struggles, and a child who feels unsafe bringing their hardest moments to us.<br /><br />This episode is about slowing down long enough to ask a different question. Instead of “How do I stop this behavior?” we shift to “What is this behavior telling me?”<br /><br />You’ll learn why correction, lectures, and consequences don’t work when a nervous system is dysregulated — and what actually helps instead. We’ll talk about lowering demands temporarily, regulating first and teaching later, and how responding through a nervous-system lens preserves dignity for both you and your child.<br /><br />This isn’t about permissiveness. It’s about capacity. It’s about safety. And it’s about building the kind of relationship where learning and accountability can truly take root.<br /><br />Listen in for a compassionate, biology-backed reframe that can change how you see, and respond to, those hardest moments.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/343" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/343</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69579865</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2026 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69579865/343_it_isn_t_disrespect_it_s_a_biological_response_to_stress.mp3" length="18379245" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129/075e736e-1491-4055-b0b3-804a3c837129.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the behavior that feels the most disrespectful isn’t a choice at all?

Eye rolling. Yelling. Snapping back. Refusing. These moments hit deep. They sting, especially when they happen in public or in front of people who expect “better behavior.”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the behavior that feels the most disrespectful isn’t a choice at all?<br /><br />Eye rolling. Yelling. Snapping back. Refusing. These moments hit deep. They sting, especially when they happen in public or in front of people who expect “better behavior.” And so often, we’ve been taught that this kind of behavior must be corrected immediately, or else we’re letting something slide.<br /><br />But that interpretation is costing us more than it’s helping.<br /><br />When a child is overwhelmed, stressed, or emotionally flooded, their nervous system shifts into survival mode. The thinking brain goes offline. What looks like disrespect, defiance, or opposition is often a biological response to stress, not a lack of manners, morals, or character.<br /><br />When we push for compliance in those moments, we’re adding pressure to an already overloaded system. We’re escalating threat instead of restoring safety. And while our intentions are good, the cost can be high: damaged trust, intensified power struggles, and a child who feels unsafe bringing their hardest moments to us.<br /><br />This episode is about slowing down long enough to ask a different question. Instead of “How do I stop this behavior?” we shift to “What is this behavior telling me?”<br /><br />You’ll learn why correction, lectures, and consequences don’t work when a nervous system is dysregulated — and what actually helps instead. We’ll talk about lowering demands temporarily, regulating first and teaching later, and how responding through a nervous-system lens preserves dignity for both you and your child.<br /><br />This isn’t about permissiveness. It’s about capacity. It’s about safety. And it’s about building the kind of relationship where learning and accountability can truly take root.<br /><br />Listen in for a compassionate, biology-backed reframe that can change how you see, and respond to, those hardest moments.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/343" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/343</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1152</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,aware,co,emotional,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,respectful,system,tools,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>343</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>342 Pressure Isn’t Motivating, It’s Actually Dysregulating, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/342-pressure-isn-t-motivating-it-s-actually-dysregulating-with-penny-williams--69533777</link><description><![CDATA[We’ve been told for generations that pressure builds motivation. Push harder. Raise the stakes. Add consequences. But when you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, that approach doesn’t just fall flat, it actively works against you.<br /><br />Pressure doesn’t inspire effort. It signals threat.<br /><br />When a child’s nervous system senses pressure, their body shifts into protection mode. Fight. Flight. Freeze. And once that happens, access to the thinking brain — the part responsible for learning, planning, organizing, problem-solving, and follow-through — dims or shuts off completely. The very skills we’re trying to access disappear.<br /><br />Most of us don’t apply pressure because we’re cruel or controlling. We do it out of love. Out of fear. Out of a deep desire to prepare our kids for adulthood and success. But there’s a painful paradox here: the more pressure we apply, the less capable our kids become, and the more disconnected our relationship feels.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack why pressure is read by the autonomic nervous system as threat, why neurodivergent kids are especially sensitive to it, and how common parenting phrases and punishments unintentionally increase dysregulation. I also explain why behaviors like avoidance, shutdown, and resistance are signals (not character flaws) and what actually supports motivation instead.<br /><br />We talk about regulation as the foundation for everything: learning, executive function, resilience, and connection. And I offer practical, nervous-system-informed alternatives that reduce power struggles without lowering the bar or giving up on your child.<br /><br />This is permission to stop pushing and start supporting without guilt.<br /><br />Listen in to learn how pulling back on pressure can restore doability, connection, and motivation for both you and your child.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/342" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/342</a>.<br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. <a href="https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex. </a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69533777</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 01:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69533777/342_pressure_isn_t_motivating_it_s_dysregulating.mp3" length="23391561" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf/2d67f6ca-c8fc-488b-a15b-6d664a666adf.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’ve been told for generations that pressure builds motivation. Push harder. Raise the stakes. Add consequences. But when you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, that approach doesn’t just fall flat, it actively works against you.

Pressure doesn’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve been told for generations that pressure builds motivation. Push harder. Raise the stakes. Add consequences. But when you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, that approach doesn’t just fall flat, it actively works against you.<br /><br />Pressure doesn’t inspire effort. It signals threat.<br /><br />When a child’s nervous system senses pressure, their body shifts into protection mode. Fight. Flight. Freeze. And once that happens, access to the thinking brain — the part responsible for learning, planning, organizing, problem-solving, and follow-through — dims or shuts off completely. The very skills we’re trying to access disappear.<br /><br />Most of us don’t apply pressure because we’re cruel or controlling. We do it out of love. Out of fear. Out of a deep desire to prepare our kids for adulthood and success. But there’s a painful paradox here: the more pressure we apply, the less capable our kids become, and the more disconnected our relationship feels.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack why pressure is read by the autonomic nervous system as threat, why neurodivergent kids are especially sensitive to it, and how common parenting phrases and punishments unintentionally increase dysregulation. I also explain why behaviors like avoidance, shutdown, and resistance are signals (not character flaws) and what actually supports motivation instead.<br /><br />We talk about regulation as the foundation for everything: learning, executive function, resilience, and connection. And I offer practical, nervous-system-informed alternatives that reduce power struggles without lowering the bar or giving up on your child.<br /><br />This is permission to stop pushing and start supporting without guilt.<br /><br />Listen in to learn how pulling back on pressure can restore doability, connection, and motivation for both you and your child.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/342" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/342</a>.<br /><br />This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. <a href="https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=beautifully_complex. </a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1466</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,childdevelopment,first,intelligence,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>342</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>341: Building Bravery in Anxious Kids, with Melissa Giglio, Psy.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/341-building-bravery-in-anxious-kids-with-melissa-giglio-psy-d--69410473</link><description><![CDATA[Bravery isn’t about being fearless. It’s about learning how to move forward with fear — slowly, gently, and with support. And for anxious kids, that kind of bravery doesn’t come from pressure or pushing harder. It grows from safety, trust, and someone steady walking beside them.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by child psychologist Dr. Melissa Giglio to talk about what bravery really looks like for anxious kids and how we can nurture it without overwhelming them. We unpack why confidence and capability don’t come from “just doing it,” especially for kids with anxiety, ADHD, or autism. Instead, bravery is built through validation, scaffolding, and tolerable challenges that respect each child’s nervous system.<br /><br />We talk about how to support kids without enabling avoidance, why rushing and pressure backfire, and how to strike that delicate balance between comfort and challenge. Dr. Melissa shares practical ways to help kids get comfortable being uncomfortable, without flooding their nervous system or eroding trust. We also dig into how parents’ own regulation plays a powerful role, and why fairness, predictability, and follow-through matter so much for anxious kids.<br /><br />If you’re wondering how to help your child try again after avoidance, how to respond when encouragement feels invalidating, or when to step back without pulling support too soon, this conversation will meet you right where you are.<br /><br />This is a hopeful, grounding episode about growing brave muscles over time, for our kids and for us.<br /><br />🎧 Listen now to learn how to build real, lasting bravery in anxious kids one supported step at a time.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/341" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/341</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69410473</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 01:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69410473/341_building_bravery_in_anxious_kids.mp3" length="24736739" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af/eb83bad0-9285-423a-a44a-f3da8a21f0af.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Bravery isn’t about being fearless. It’s about learning how to move forward with fear — slowly, gently, and with support. And for anxious kids, that kind of bravery doesn’t come from pressure or pushing harder. It grows from safety, trust, and someone...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Bravery isn’t about being fearless. It’s about learning how to move forward with fear — slowly, gently, and with support. And for anxious kids, that kind of bravery doesn’t come from pressure or pushing harder. It grows from safety, trust, and someone steady walking beside them.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by child psychologist Dr. Melissa Giglio to talk about what bravery really looks like for anxious kids and how we can nurture it without overwhelming them. We unpack why confidence and capability don’t come from “just doing it,” especially for kids with anxiety, ADHD, or autism. Instead, bravery is built through validation, scaffolding, and tolerable challenges that respect each child’s nervous system.<br /><br />We talk about how to support kids without enabling avoidance, why rushing and pressure backfire, and how to strike that delicate balance between comfort and challenge. Dr. Melissa shares practical ways to help kids get comfortable being uncomfortable, without flooding their nervous system or eroding trust. We also dig into how parents’ own regulation plays a powerful role, and why fairness, predictability, and follow-through matter so much for anxious kids.<br /><br />If you’re wondering how to help your child try again after avoidance, how to respond when encouragement feels invalidating, or when to step back without pulling support too soon, this conversation will meet you right where you are.<br /><br />This is a hopeful, grounding episode about growing brave muscles over time, for our kids and for us.<br /><br />🎧 Listen now to learn how to build real, lasting bravery in anxious kids one supported step at a time.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/341" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/341</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1550</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,anxiety,anxious,autism,bravery,building,children,compassion,emotional,in,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,system,with</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>341</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>340: Finding the Balance Between Supporting &amp; Enabling, with Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., ADHD-CCSP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/340-finding-the-balance-between-supporting-enabling-with-cindy-goldrich-ed-m-adhd-ccsp--69296119</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a quiet tension many of us carry as parents of neurodivergent kids: Am I helping my child or am I holding them back? That line between supporting and enabling can feel blurry, emotional, and constantly shifting, especially when executive function challenges are part of the picture.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with parent coach and educator Cindy Goldrich to bring clarity and compassion to that question. Cindy offers a powerful, practical definition that reframes everything: enabling is doing something for someone else without a plan to help them eventually do it themselves. Support, on the other hand, can include stepping in — when it’s intentional, temporary, and part of a bigger skill-building plan.<br /><br />Through real-life examples, like the familiar “forgotten violin” scenario, we unpack how parents often get labeled as enabling when they’re actually prioritizing, scaffolding, and responding to the child they have in front of them. Cindy reminds us that we can’t fix everything at once, and trying to do so only increases anxiety for both parent and child.<br /><br />We also dig into how executive function delays, working memory challenges, and developmental lags can masquerade as defiance or irresponsibility. When we understand what’s really happening in the brain, we can shift from judgment to curiosity, and from pressure to problem-solving.<br /><br />This conversation is an invitation to release guilt, trust your instincts, and give yourself permission to support your child without shame. It’s about parenting with intention, grace, and a long-term vision for independence, one small, thoughtful step at a time.<br /><br />🎧 Listen in for a grounded, validating conversation that helps you confidently navigate the balance between supporting and enabling.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/340" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/340</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69296119</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 01:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69296119/340_finding_the_balance_between_supporting_enabling.mp3" length="26485237" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11/ff861734-6be8-48c8-ac8e-fa3ceffdeb11.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a quiet tension many of us carry as parents of neurodivergent kids: Am I helping my child or am I holding them back? That line between supporting and enabling can feel blurry, emotional, and constantly shifting, especially when executive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a quiet tension many of us carry as parents of neurodivergent kids: Am I helping my child or am I holding them back? That line between supporting and enabling can feel blurry, emotional, and constantly shifting, especially when executive function challenges are part of the picture.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with parent coach and educator Cindy Goldrich to bring clarity and compassion to that question. Cindy offers a powerful, practical definition that reframes everything: enabling is doing something for someone else without a plan to help them eventually do it themselves. Support, on the other hand, can include stepping in — when it’s intentional, temporary, and part of a bigger skill-building plan.<br /><br />Through real-life examples, like the familiar “forgotten violin” scenario, we unpack how parents often get labeled as enabling when they’re actually prioritizing, scaffolding, and responding to the child they have in front of them. Cindy reminds us that we can’t fix everything at once, and trying to do so only increases anxiety for both parent and child.<br /><br />We also dig into how executive function delays, working memory challenges, and developmental lags can masquerade as defiance or irresponsibility. When we understand what’s really happening in the brain, we can shift from judgment to curiosity, and from pressure to problem-solving.<br /><br />This conversation is an invitation to release guilt, trust your instincts, and give yourself permission to support your child without shame. It’s about parenting with intention, grace, and a long-term vision for independence, one small, thoughtful step at a time.<br /><br />🎧 Listen in for a grounded, validating conversation that helps you confidently navigate the balance between supporting and enabling.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/340" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/340</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1660</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,coaching,emotional,enabling,executive,function,neurodivergent,parent,parenting,positive,regulation,supporting,vs</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>340</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>339: When Hope Feels Heavy: Permission to Start A New Year Without Optimism, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/339-when-hope-feels-heavy-permission-to-start-a-new-year-without-optimism-with-penny-williams--69229988</link><description><![CDATA[There are moments in parenting when hope doesn’t feel light or motivating — it feels heavy. Like something we’re expected to carry when we’re already exhausted. If you’re walking into a new year feeling worn down instead of inspired, this episode is for you.<br /><br />I recorded this specifically for New Years, a day filled with pressure to feel optimistic, goal-driven, and ready for a fresh start. But the truth is, I wasn’t feeling hopeful. I was tired. Uncertain. Emotional. And rather than masking that or forcing a shiny version of hope, I wanted to talk honestly about a different kind of hope — one that doesn’t require belief, certainty, or high energy.<br /><br />This episode is about redefining hope in a way that actually works for parents of neurodivergent kids. Hope that sounds like: I don’t know how this will turn out, but I’m still here. Hope that lives in tiny steps, support, steadiness, and permission to begin without confidence.<br /><br />We talk about burnout as information, not failure. About why pushing harder never lifts burnout, and what actually does. About capacity instead of goals, responsiveness instead of consistency, and support instead of pressure. And about why your child doesn’t need a “new year, new you” — they just need you, depleted less and supported more.<br /><br />If you’re starting this year feeling heavy, unsure, or worn thin, you’re not alone. You don’t need optimism to take the next step. You need care. Support. And a reminder that you don’t have to do this alone.<br /><br />Listen in for a grounding, compassionate reframe that meets you exactly where you are.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/339" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/339</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69229988</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 01:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69229988/339_when_hope_feels_heavy.mp3" length="22722618" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c/feea6550-204e-4c80-9459-6967b4fef12c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are moments in parenting when hope doesn’t feel light or motivating — it feels heavy. Like something we’re expected to carry when we’re already exhausted. If you’re walking into a new year feeling worn down instead of inspired, this episode is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are moments in parenting when hope doesn’t feel light or motivating — it feels heavy. Like something we’re expected to carry when we’re already exhausted. If you’re walking into a new year feeling worn down instead of inspired, this episode is for you.<br /><br />I recorded this specifically for New Years, a day filled with pressure to feel optimistic, goal-driven, and ready for a fresh start. But the truth is, I wasn’t feeling hopeful. I was tired. Uncertain. Emotional. And rather than masking that or forcing a shiny version of hope, I wanted to talk honestly about a different kind of hope — one that doesn’t require belief, certainty, or high energy.<br /><br />This episode is about redefining hope in a way that actually works for parents of neurodivergent kids. Hope that sounds like: I don’t know how this will turn out, but I’m still here. Hope that lives in tiny steps, support, steadiness, and permission to begin without confidence.<br /><br />We talk about burnout as information, not failure. About why pushing harder never lifts burnout, and what actually does. About capacity instead of goals, responsiveness instead of consistency, and support instead of pressure. And about why your child doesn’t need a “new year, new you” — they just need you, depleted less and supported more.<br /><br />If you’re starting this year feeling heavy, unsure, or worn thin, you’re not alone. You don’t need optimism to take the next step. You need care. Support. And a reminder that you don’t have to do this alone.<br /><br />Listen in for a grounding, compassionate reframe that meets you exactly where you are.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/339" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/339</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1424</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,burnout,emotional,gentle,needs,nervous,neuroaffirming,neurodivergent,parent,parenting,regulation,resilience,special,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>339</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>338: It’s the Small Things that Make the Biggest Impact, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/338-it-s-the-small-things-that-make-the-biggest-impact-with-penny-williams--68983448</link><description><![CDATA[Some of the most meaningful shifts in parenting don’t arrive with fireworks or finish lines. They arrive quietly, in the moments we almost miss. I’ve been noticing how much growth hides beneath the surface, both in our kids and in ourselves. And honestly, most of it looks nothing like the traditional markers of success we’re conditioned to watch for.<br /><br />Our neurodivergent kids build skills slowly, internally, and often invisibly. Their progress lives in nervous system shifts, not milestones. It’s in the way they repair a little faster after a rupture. It’s in the moment they come back to the table after taking a breather instead of refusing altogether. It’s in how we pause before reacting, catch our breath, and choose connection over correction. Those small things are not small at all. They’re the roots of emotional intelligence, resilience, and long-term regulation. And roots take time.<br /><br />This episode is an invitation to see the tiny glimmers you’ve overlooked this past year, because you have moved forward, even if it didn’t look dramatic from the outside. You’ll hear why the nervous system learns through repetition, not grand gestures; how micro-wins compound like a snowball; and how the tiniest cues of safety create a very real pathway toward thriving.I’m also sharing a short year-end reflection practice to help you notice the moments that mattered, soften self-doubt, and step into 2026 with intention, compassion, and doable hope.<br /><br />You are not alone. And you’ve done more than you think.Press play to hear the full conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/338" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/338</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68983448</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68983448/bc_338_noticing_this_year_s_growth.mp3" length="17532264" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c/55c58dd4-8a8e-4035-b78b-c03db12b134c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Some of the most meaningful shifts in parenting don’t arrive with fireworks or finish lines. They arrive quietly, in the moments we almost miss. I’ve been noticing how much growth hides beneath the surface, both in our kids and in ourselves. And...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some of the most meaningful shifts in parenting don’t arrive with fireworks or finish lines. They arrive quietly, in the moments we almost miss. I’ve been noticing how much growth hides beneath the surface, both in our kids and in ourselves. And honestly, most of it looks nothing like the traditional markers of success we’re conditioned to watch for.<br /><br />Our neurodivergent kids build skills slowly, internally, and often invisibly. Their progress lives in nervous system shifts, not milestones. It’s in the way they repair a little faster after a rupture. It’s in the moment they come back to the table after taking a breather instead of refusing altogether. It’s in how we pause before reacting, catch our breath, and choose connection over correction. Those small things are not small at all. They’re the roots of emotional intelligence, resilience, and long-term regulation. And roots take time.<br /><br />This episode is an invitation to see the tiny glimmers you’ve overlooked this past year, because you have moved forward, even if it didn’t look dramatic from the outside. You’ll hear why the nervous system learns through repetition, not grand gestures; how micro-wins compound like a snowball; and how the tiniest cues of safety create a very real pathway toward thriving.I’m also sharing a short year-end reflection practice to help you notice the moments that mattered, soften self-doubt, and step into 2026 with intention, compassion, and doable hope.<br /><br />You are not alone. And you’ve done more than you think.Press play to hear the full conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/338" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/338</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1099</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,building,connection,correction,emotional,kids,micro,nervous,neurodivergent,over,parenting,regulation,resilience,support,system,tools,wins</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>338</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>337: Building Executive Function Supports into Your Everyday Lives, with The Childhood Collective</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/337-building-executive-function-supports-into-your-everyday-lives-with-the-childhood-collective--68745003</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a moment so many of us experience standing in the kitchen, staring at the backpack explosion on the floor, the socks in the hallway, the half-finished bowl of cereal on the table and wondering why our kids can’t seem to follow through. It’s not laziness. It’s not defiance. It’s executive function. And for our neurodivergent kids, especially those with ADHD, those invisible skills we rely on to get through the day can feel like climbing a mountain without a map.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by two members of The Childhood Collective, Mallory Yee and Katie Severson — clinicians, moms, and deeply empathetic guides who truly “live it.” Together, we break down what executive functioning actually is (spoiler: it’s your brain’s internal GPS), why so many of our kids struggle with tasks that seem “easy,” and how we can shift from doing everything for our kids to doing things with them in realistic, sustainable ways.<br /><br />We talk about everyday EF supports like creating “homes” for items, teaching kids to close their own loops, using declarative language, and narrating our internal problem-solving so they learn to build theirs. Katie and Mallory share generously from both their clinical lens and their lived experience, reminding us that nothing is wrong with our kids… their brains just need time, scaffolding, and connection.<br /><br />This conversation is hopeful, practical, and validating, especially if you’ve ever wondered why your child can’t “just get ready” or why every day feels like a string of side quests.<br /><br />Tune in for simple strategies, compassionate reframes, and support that meets you right where you are.<br /><br />Press play and let’s walk this path together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/337" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/337</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68745003</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68745003/337_building_ef_supports_into_your_everyday_lives.mp3" length="30695266" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913/3b828685-2c0f-49c3-a395-ba95e44ea913.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a moment so many of us experience standing in the kitchen, staring at the backpack explosion on the floor, the socks in the hallway, the half-finished bowl of cereal on the table and wondering why our kids can’t seem to follow through. It’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a moment so many of us experience standing in the kitchen, staring at the backpack explosion on the floor, the socks in the hallway, the half-finished bowl of cereal on the table and wondering why our kids can’t seem to follow through. It’s not laziness. It’s not defiance. It’s executive function. And for our neurodivergent kids, especially those with ADHD, those invisible skills we rely on to get through the day can feel like climbing a mountain without a map.<br /><br />In this episode, I’m joined by two members of The Childhood Collective, Mallory Yee and Katie Severson — clinicians, moms, and deeply empathetic guides who truly “live it.” Together, we break down what executive functioning actually is (spoiler: it’s your brain’s internal GPS), why so many of our kids struggle with tasks that seem “easy,” and how we can shift from doing everything for our kids to doing things with them in realistic, sustainable ways.<br /><br />We talk about everyday EF supports like creating “homes” for items, teaching kids to close their own loops, using declarative language, and narrating our internal problem-solving so they learn to build theirs. Katie and Mallory share generously from both their clinical lens and their lived experience, reminding us that nothing is wrong with our kids… their brains just need time, scaffolding, and connection.<br /><br />This conversation is hopeful, practical, and validating, especially if you’ve ever wondered why your child can’t “just get ready” or why every day feels like a string of side quests.<br /><br />Tune in for simple strategies, compassionate reframes, and support that meets you right where you are.<br /><br />Press play and let’s walk this path together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/337" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/337</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1923</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connection,correction,emotional,executive,function,nervous,over,parenting,regulation,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>337</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>336: ENCORE: Lessons Learned: From Mom and Her Neurodivergent Kid, with Penny &amp; Luke Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/336-encore-lessons-learned-from-mom-and-her-neurodivergent-kid-with-penny-luke-williams--68629451</link><description><![CDATA[Every once in a while, a conversation lands in your heart in a way that stays. This encore episode is one of those for me. Luke was around twenty when we recorded it, and listening back now, I’m struck all over again by the grounded clarity he had about his neurodivergence, even in the places where life still felt messy or confusing. He spoke with such quiet certainty about seeing his differences as differences, not deficits. That mindset didn’t come from easy experiences. It came from years of feeling misunderstood, moments of being boxed in by systems not designed for him, and the slow, steady process of learning himself from the inside out.<br /><br />What I love about this conversation is how real it is. There’s no glossy “we figured it out” narrative here. Instead, Luke talks through the way school felt, the times he believed he was stuck, the pressure that shut him down, and the deep importance of finding people who truly see you. And I share what I learned right alongside him: how often I co-escalated without meaning to, how long it took to realize there was nothing to fix, and how essential it is to protect the relationship above everything else.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered what your neurodivergent child might say about their experience once they have more language for it, this episode is a gift. Luke’s perspective is honest, hopeful, and full of the kind of wisdom you only gain by living it.<br /><br />Settle in for this special encore and listen through two lenses — your parent heart and your human heart.Press play and join us for this tender, funny, deeply insightful conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/336" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/336</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68629451</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68629451/encore_lessons_learned_from_mom_and_her_nd_kid.mp3" length="39037350" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb/d9106703-f148-4900-aa00-5d94dba50cdb.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Every once in a while, a conversation lands in your heart in a way that stays. This encore episode is one of those for me. Luke was around twenty when we recorded it, and listening back now, I’m struck all over again by the grounded clarity he had...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Every once in a while, a conversation lands in your heart in a way that stays. This encore episode is one of those for me. Luke was around twenty when we recorded it, and listening back now, I’m struck all over again by the grounded clarity he had about his neurodivergence, even in the places where life still felt messy or confusing. He spoke with such quiet certainty about seeing his differences as differences, not deficits. That mindset didn’t come from easy experiences. It came from years of feeling misunderstood, moments of being boxed in by systems not designed for him, and the slow, steady process of learning himself from the inside out.<br /><br />What I love about this conversation is how real it is. There’s no glossy “we figured it out” narrative here. Instead, Luke talks through the way school felt, the times he believed he was stuck, the pressure that shut him down, and the deep importance of finding people who truly see you. And I share what I learned right alongside him: how often I co-escalated without meaning to, how long it took to realize there was nothing to fix, and how essential it is to protect the relationship above everything else.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered what your neurodivergent child might say about their experience once they have more language for it, this episode is a gift. Luke’s perspective is honest, hopeful, and full of the kind of wisdom you only gain by living it.<br /><br />Settle in for this special encore and listen through two lenses — your parent heart and your human heart.Press play and join us for this tender, funny, deeply insightful conversation.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/336" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/336</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2446</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,affirming,autism,beautifully,child,complex,emotional,gentle,nervous,neurodivergent,neurodiversity,parent,parenting,podcast,regulation,relationship,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>336</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>335: Navigating Existential "Crises" with Neurodivergent Kids, with Matthew Fishleder</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/335-navigating-existential-crises-with-neurodivergent-kids-with-matthew-fishleder--68559854</link><description><![CDATA[Some of the hardest questions our teens wrestle with don’t have answers. Why am I here? What’s the point? Who am I becoming? When your neurodivergent tween or teen starts circling those big, existential questions, it can feel unsettling and even a little frightening. But what if this discomfort isn’t a crisis to fix—what if it’s an opening for connection?<br /><br />In this conversation, I talk with therapist and fellow neurodivergent parent Matthew Fishleder about helping teens navigate the messy, meaning-making side of adolescence. We explore how “not knowing” is part of growth, how regulation and connection support that process, and why your calm presence matters more than your wisdom or answers.<br /><br />Matthew shares powerful ways to shift from fixing to accompanying—to sit beside your teen in uncertainty instead of trying to solve it. Together we unpack how nervous system regulation, shared curiosity, and honest “I don’t knows” can turn existential anxiety into deeper trust and emotional safety.<br /><br />If your teen is questioning everything—and you’re not sure what to say—this one’s for you.Listen now and learn how to not know together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/335" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/335</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68559854</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68559854/335_navigating_existential_crises_with_nd_teens.mp3" length="26263388" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392/9e90627d-43a8-41bd-8bf3-d9190c180392.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Some of the hardest questions our teens wrestle with don’t have answers. Why am I here? What’s the point? Who am I becoming? When your neurodivergent tween or teen starts circling those big, existential questions, it can feel unsettling and even a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some of the hardest questions our teens wrestle with don’t have answers. Why am I here? What’s the point? Who am I becoming? When your neurodivergent tween or teen starts circling those big, existential questions, it can feel unsettling and even a little frightening. But what if this discomfort isn’t a crisis to fix—what if it’s an opening for connection?<br /><br />In this conversation, I talk with therapist and fellow neurodivergent parent Matthew Fishleder about helping teens navigate the messy, meaning-making side of adolescence. We explore how “not knowing” is part of growth, how regulation and connection support that process, and why your calm presence matters more than your wisdom or answers.<br /><br />Matthew shares powerful ways to shift from fixing to accompanying—to sit beside your teen in uncertainty instead of trying to solve it. Together we unpack how nervous system regulation, shared curiosity, and honest “I don’t knows” can turn existential anxiety into deeper trust and emotional safety.<br /><br />If your teen is questioning everything—and you’re not sure what to say—this one’s for you.Listen now and learn how to not know together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/335" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/335</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1646</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,crisis,development,emotional,existential,intelligence,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,system,teen,teens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>335</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>334: The Real Work of Raising ND Young Adults (Part 2), with Debbie Reber</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/334-the-real-work-of-raising-nd-young-adults-part-2-with-debbie-reber--68472631</link><description><![CDATA[Launching a neurodivergent young adult rarely looks like what we imagined. It’s not a straight line toward independence but rather a winding journey filled with scaffolding, support, and deep personal growth for both parent and child. In this heartfelt conversation with my friend Debbie Reber of Full Tilt Parenting, we get real about what it means to companion our kids into adulthood, not push them off a cliff toward “independence.”<br /><br />We talk about the delicate dance of helping without overstepping, the invisible scaffolding we still build behind the scenes, and how to honor their timeline while protecting our own nervous systems. We also unpack what it feels like when society tells us we’re doing “too much,” and how to trust the long game of growth, connection, and mutual respect.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered where to draw the line between support and enabling — or how to be ok yourself while your young adult finds their footing — this conversation will bring relief, validation, and renewed hope.<br /><br />Take a deep breath, pour your coffee, and listen in for part two of this beautifully real dialogue on parenting through the young adult years. Part 1 is on Full Tilt Parenting at https://<a href="https://tiltparenting.com/session474" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">tiltparenting.com/session474</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/334" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://parentingadhdandautism.com/334</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68472631</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 13:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68472631/334_young_adults_tilt_parenting_collab_rev.mp3" length="45236882" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009/b7beeb14-5d16-4398-ba5f-8a99cc0b9009.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Launching a neurodivergent young adult rarely looks like what we imagined. It’s not a straight line toward independence but rather a winding journey filled with scaffolding, support, and deep personal growth for both parent and child. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Launching a neurodivergent young adult rarely looks like what we imagined. It’s not a straight line toward independence but rather a winding journey filled with scaffolding, support, and deep personal growth for both parent and child. In this heartfelt conversation with my friend Debbie Reber of Full Tilt Parenting, we get real about what it means to companion our kids into adulthood, not push them off a cliff toward “independence.”<br /><br />We talk about the delicate dance of helping without overstepping, the invisible scaffolding we still build behind the scenes, and how to honor their timeline while protecting our own nervous systems. We also unpack what it feels like when society tells us we’re doing “too much,” and how to trust the long game of growth, connection, and mutual respect.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered where to draw the line between support and enabling — or how to be ok yourself while your young adult finds their footing — this conversation will bring relief, validation, and renewed hope.<br /><br />Take a deep breath, pour your coffee, and listen in for part two of this beautifully real dialogue on parenting through the young adult years. Part 1 is on Full Tilt Parenting at https://<a href="https://tiltparenting.com/session474" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">tiltparenting.com/session474</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/334" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://parentingadhdandautism.com/334</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2834</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,adults,autism,connection,control,emotional,nervous,neurodivergent,over,parenting,regulation,support,system,teens,young</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>334</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>333: 5 Ways to Help Students with Writing Challenges, with Kelli Fetter</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/333-5-ways-to-help-students-with-writing-challenges-with-kelli-fetter--68356615</link><description><![CDATA[When writing becomes a daily battle, it’s not about laziness or lack of effort. It’s about overwhelm. Writing is one of the most complex tasks our brains can do. For kids with dysgraphia or other writing challenges, that cognitive load can feel crushing. In this episode, I talk with occupational therapist and handwriting expert Kelli Fetter about how to spot writing struggles early, what dysgraphia really looks like, and how you can support your child in simple, practical ways right now.<br /><br />Kelli shares her own journey — from an OT who hadn’t even heard of dysgraphia to a mom on a mission to help her daughter — and the powerful lessons she learned along the way. Together, we unpack five key strategies for helping kids build the foundations of writing without frustration or shame, from multisensory learning to quality practice and collaborative school partnerships.<br /><br />If your child avoids writing, melts down over assignments, or feels “stuck,” this conversation will bring both clarity and relief. It’s never too late to help your child feel capable and confident in expressing their ideas.<br /><br />Tune in to learn practical tools, empowering mindset shifts, and how to build success one letter at a time.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/333" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/333</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68356615</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68356615/333_dysgraphia_what_it_is_and_how_to_help.mp3" length="41488053" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81/9bd352a0-337c-46cd-b5a4-ce3c1b8d1a81.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When writing becomes a daily battle, it’s not about laziness or lack of effort. It’s about overwhelm. Writing is one of the most complex tasks our brains can do. For kids with dysgraphia or other writing challenges, that cognitive load can feel...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When writing becomes a daily battle, it’s not about laziness or lack of effort. It’s about overwhelm. Writing is one of the most complex tasks our brains can do. For kids with dysgraphia or other writing challenges, that cognitive load can feel crushing. In this episode, I talk with occupational therapist and handwriting expert Kelli Fetter about how to spot writing struggles early, what dysgraphia really looks like, and how you can support your child in simple, practical ways right now.<br /><br />Kelli shares her own journey — from an OT who hadn’t even heard of dysgraphia to a mom on a mission to help her daughter — and the powerful lessons she learned along the way. Together, we unpack five key strategies for helping kids build the foundations of writing without frustration or shame, from multisensory learning to quality practice and collaborative school partnerships.<br /><br />If your child avoids writing, melts down over assignments, or feels “stuck,” this conversation will bring both clarity and relief. It’s never too late to help your child feel capable and confident in expressing their ideas.<br /><br />Tune in to learn practical tools, empowering mindset shifts, and how to build success one letter at a time.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/333" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/333</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2599</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,advocacy,autism,challenges,dysgraphia,emotional,handwriting,learning,nervous,neurodivergent,parent,parenting,regulation,support,system,writing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>333</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>332: When the Honeymoon Period Ends — What to Do When School Starts Falling Apart</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/332-when-the-honeymoon-period-ends-what-to-do-when-school-starts-falling-apart--68216139</link><description><![CDATA[The first few weeks of a new school year can feel like a fresh start — hopeful, organized, maybe even easy. And then, just as the weather begins to cool, everything begins to unravel. Mornings turn chaotic again. Homework becomes a battle. The spark in your child’s eyes starts to fade. That October crash isn’t a failure, it’s actually biology.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack why so many neurodivergent kids hit a wall a few weeks into the school year. The novelty that once lit up their brains fades, expectations rise, and their nervous systems grow tired from holding it all together. What looks like defiance or laziness is often a body saying, “I can’t keep doing it this way.” We’ll explore how to respond when school starts to feel like too much, without slipping into control or consequences. You’ll learn how to shift from asking “How do I make them do it?” to “What’s getting in the way?” and how safety, not structure, helps kids rebuild their capacity to cope.<br /><br />If your child’s school year feels like it’s coming undone, this conversation will help you reframe what’s happening and find your footing again. You’ll walk away with practical tools and a gentler mindset to navigate this season with compassion, connection, and calm. <br /><br />Listen now to learn how to meet your child where they are and bring hope back into the school year. <br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/332" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/332</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68216139</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68216139/332_what_to_do_when_the_new_school_year_begins_to_unravel.mp3" length="26457302" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509/d623e718-9cdd-4a34-91cb-4c6d0610b509.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The first few weeks of a new school year can feel like a fresh start — hopeful, organized, maybe even easy. And then, just as the weather begins to cool, everything begins to unravel. Mornings turn chaotic again. Homework becomes a battle. The spark...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The first few weeks of a new school year can feel like a fresh start — hopeful, organized, maybe even easy. And then, just as the weather begins to cool, everything begins to unravel. Mornings turn chaotic again. Homework becomes a battle. The spark in your child’s eyes starts to fade. That October crash isn’t a failure, it’s actually biology.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack why so many neurodivergent kids hit a wall a few weeks into the school year. The novelty that once lit up their brains fades, expectations rise, and their nervous systems grow tired from holding it all together. What looks like defiance or laziness is often a body saying, “I can’t keep doing it this way.” We’ll explore how to respond when school starts to feel like too much, without slipping into control or consequences. You’ll learn how to shift from asking “How do I make them do it?” to “What’s getting in the way?” and how safety, not structure, helps kids rebuild their capacity to cope.<br /><br />If your child’s school year feels like it’s coming undone, this conversation will help you reframe what’s happening and find your footing again. You’ll walk away with practical tools and a gentler mindset to navigate this season with compassion, connection, and calm. <br /><br />Listen now to learn how to meet your child where they are and bring hope back into the school year. <br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/332" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/332</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1658</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,education,learningdisabilities,school</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>332</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>331: 5 Truths Every Parent of a Neurodivergent Kid Needs to Hear, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/331-5-truths-every-parent-of-a-neurodivergent-kid-needs-to-hear-with-penny-williams--68016342</link><description><![CDATA[What if the most powerful shift isn’t a new strategy, but a new story about you and your child? In this heart-forward episode, I offer five truths every parent of a neurodivergent child needs to hear — reminders that land like a soft place to rest: you’re not failing; your child isn’t broken; you don’t have to do this alone; you matter too; and healing takes time. These truths aren’t platitudes. They’re anchors for those messy, brave moments when the plan falls apart, the behavior feels bigger than your tools, and the timeline stretches longer than you hoped.<br /><br />I’m gently reframing behavior as a signal, not a character flaw. I name the weight of comparison and judgment — and then lift it off your shoulders with language that centers nervous system safety, connection, and tiny steps forward. You’ll hear practical reassurance about regulation (yours and your child’s), why your presence matters more than perfection, and how community changes everything. If you’ve been clenching your jaw or holding your breath, this is your permission to exhale.<br /><br />Come for the validation; leave with a steadier nervous system and a quieter inner critic. You’ll walk away believing that one small compassionate choice today truly counts, and that both you and your child are worthy, exactly as you are. Press play and feel seen. Then share this with another parent who needs a hand to hold. Listen now.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/331" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/331</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68016342</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68016342/331_5_truths_every_parent_of_a_neurodivergent_kid_needs_to_hear.mp3" length="10331085" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f/f94cef82-89be-4bfe-b0db-000ef13fc79f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the most powerful shift isn’t a new strategy, but a new story about you and your child? In this heart-forward episode, I offer five truths every parent of a neurodivergent child needs to hear — reminders that land like a soft place to rest:...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the most powerful shift isn’t a new strategy, but a new story about you and your child? In this heart-forward episode, I offer five truths every parent of a neurodivergent child needs to hear — reminders that land like a soft place to rest: you’re not failing; your child isn’t broken; you don’t have to do this alone; you matter too; and healing takes time. These truths aren’t platitudes. They’re anchors for those messy, brave moments when the plan falls apart, the behavior feels bigger than your tools, and the timeline stretches longer than you hoped.<br /><br />I’m gently reframing behavior as a signal, not a character flaw. I name the weight of comparison and judgment — and then lift it off your shoulders with language that centers nervous system safety, connection, and tiny steps forward. You’ll hear practical reassurance about regulation (yours and your child’s), why your presence matters more than perfection, and how community changes everything. If you’ve been clenching your jaw or holding your breath, this is your permission to exhale.<br /><br />Come for the validation; leave with a steadier nervous system and a quieter inner critic. You’ll walk away believing that one small compassionate choice today truly counts, and that both you and your child are worthy, exactly as you are. Press play and feel seen. Then share this with another parent who needs a hand to hold. Listen now.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/331" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/331</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>648</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,co-regulation,emotional,executive,fatherhood,gentle,intelligence,motherhood,needs,nervous,neurodivergent,parent,parenting,regulation,resilience,sensory,support,system,tips</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>331</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>330: When Behavior Pushes Your Buttons (And How to Handle It Differently), with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/330-when-behavior-pushes-your-buttons-and-how-to-handle-it-differently-with-penny-williams--67920270</link><description><![CDATA[What if instead of asking, “Why is my child being so difficult?” you asked yourself, “What is my child’s nervous system trying to tell me?” That small shift changes everything.<br /><br />As parents of neurodivergent kids, we’ve all had those moments when our child’s behavior pushes every button we have. The yelling, the defiance, the meltdowns! It’s easy to feel disrespected, rejected, or even attacked. And when that storm hits, our own nervous system often gets swept up, too.<br /><br />In this episode, I share a different path forward. You’ll learn how to pause and anchor yourself in the heat of the moment, how to reframe behavior as a signal instead of a problem, and why repair matters more than perfection. These simple but powerful shifts bring steadiness for you and safety for your child.<br /><br />This isn’t about controlling your child. It’s about grounding yourself so you can show up with the calm presence your child needs. Because when you feel steady, your child feels safer, and that’s where connection, growth, and resilience take root.<br /><br />👉 Tune in now to discover how to handle those button-pushing moments with more calm, compassion, and clarity.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/330" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/330</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67920270</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67920270/330_when_behavior_pushes_your_buttons.mp3" length="13707924" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf/12b3f8f9-92b3-45a5-8012-d5c8086704bf.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if instead of asking, “Why is my child being so difficult?” you asked yourself, “What is my child’s nervous system trying to tell me?” That small shift changes everything.

As parents of neurodivergent kids, we’ve all had those moments when our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if instead of asking, “Why is my child being so difficult?” you asked yourself, “What is my child’s nervous system trying to tell me?” That small shift changes everything.<br /><br />As parents of neurodivergent kids, we’ve all had those moments when our child’s behavior pushes every button we have. The yelling, the defiance, the meltdowns! It’s easy to feel disrespected, rejected, or even attacked. And when that storm hits, our own nervous system often gets swept up, too.<br /><br />In this episode, I share a different path forward. You’ll learn how to pause and anchor yourself in the heat of the moment, how to reframe behavior as a signal instead of a problem, and why repair matters more than perfection. These simple but powerful shifts bring steadiness for you and safety for your child.<br /><br />This isn’t about controlling your child. It’s about grounding yourself so you can show up with the calm presence your child needs. Because when you feel steady, your child feels safer, and that’s where connection, growth, and resilience take root.<br /><br />👉 Tune in now to discover how to handle those button-pushing moments with more calm, compassion, and clarity.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/330" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/330</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>859</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,communication,emotional,gentle,is,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,positive,regulation,resilient,support,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>330</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>329: Tools That Work Better Than Consequences, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/329-tools-that-work-better-than-consequences-with-penny-williams--67870595</link><description><![CDATA[What if the “problem behavior” isn’t the problem at all, but a signal? This week, we flip the script on rewards and punishments and lean into tools that actually help neurodivergent kids (and their parents) feel safer, calmer, and more connected. When a child’s nervous system is in fight/flight/freeze, the “thinking brain” goes dim. That’s why lectures, sticker charts, and lost-screen-time threats fall flat. They assume choice and control that a dysregulated brain just doesn’t have.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack three simple, connection-first strategies you can try today: co-regulation before correction, offering bounded choices to restore a sense of control, and smoothing transitions so the brain has time to shift gears. You’ll hear quick snapshots: homework battles that soften with scaffolding, morning routines that move with choice, and playground goodbyes eased by gentle time warnings. These aren’t magic fixes; they’re nervous-system aware supports that lower threat, build trust, and grow real-life skills like flexibility and problem-solving.<br /><br />We also talk about why this approach is teaching responsibility, without fear. Consistency, safety, and autonomy wire the brain for emotional intelligence, which is what carries our kids into teens and adulthood with the capacity to regulate, adapt, and take ownership. Start tiny, celebrate small wins, and watch the ripple.<br /><br />Ready to feel less like a referee and more like an anchor? Listen now and try one small shift this week. Then tell me how it went. I’m cheering you on.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/329" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/329</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67870595</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67870595/329_tools_that_work_better_than_consequences.mp3" length="16244125" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008/8bd17bb6-aa94-420e-af2d-c24e34866008.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the “problem behavior” isn’t the problem at all, but a signal? This week, we flip the script on rewards and punishments and lean into tools that actually help neurodivergent kids (and their parents) feel safer, calmer, and more connected. When...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the “problem behavior” isn’t the problem at all, but a signal? This week, we flip the script on rewards and punishments and lean into tools that actually help neurodivergent kids (and their parents) feel safer, calmer, and more connected. When a child’s nervous system is in fight/flight/freeze, the “thinking brain” goes dim. That’s why lectures, sticker charts, and lost-screen-time threats fall flat. They assume choice and control that a dysregulated brain just doesn’t have.<br /><br />In this episode, I unpack three simple, connection-first strategies you can try today: co-regulation before correction, offering bounded choices to restore a sense of control, and smoothing transitions so the brain has time to shift gears. You’ll hear quick snapshots: homework battles that soften with scaffolding, morning routines that move with choice, and playground goodbyes eased by gentle time warnings. These aren’t magic fixes; they’re nervous-system aware supports that lower threat, build trust, and grow real-life skills like flexibility and problem-solving.<br /><br />We also talk about why this approach is teaching responsibility, without fear. Consistency, safety, and autonomy wire the brain for emotional intelligence, which is what carries our kids into teens and adulthood with the capacity to regulate, adapt, and take ownership. Start tiny, celebrate small wins, and watch the ripple.<br /><br />Ready to feel less like a referee and more like an anchor? Listen now and try one small shift this week. Then tell me how it went. I’m cheering you on.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/329" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/329</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1018</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,connection,correction,emotional,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,over,parenting,regulation,strategies,support,system,tips,tools</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>329</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>328: Behavior Is a Signal: How to Decode What It’s Telling You, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/328-behavior-is-a-signal-how-to-decode-what-it-s-telling-you-with-penny-williams--67733620</link><description><![CDATA[Behavior isn’t random. It’s not about disrespect, laziness, or a “bad attitude.” Every outburst, shutdown, or refusal is your child’s nervous system sending a signal.<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m unpacking what those signals really mean and why the labels we often put on behavior — defiance, aggression, avoidance — miss the mark. You’ll learn how to look past the surface to see the need underneath, and how shifting from control to curiosity changes everything.<br /><br />When you learn to decode behavior as a signal, you stop fighting the symptom and start supporting your child where they actually are. That’s the foundation of raising regulated, resilient kids who feel seen and understood.<br /><br />Press play and discover how to start listening to the signals beneath your child’s behavior.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/328" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/328</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67733620</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67733620/328_what_your_child_s_behavior_is_really_telling_you.mp3" length="16844667" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d/421e3621-7a96-436d-b40f-aae321d1a52d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Behavior isn’t random. It’s not about disrespect, laziness, or a “bad attitude.” Every outburst, shutdown, or refusal is your child’s nervous system sending a signal.

In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m unpacking what those signals really...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Behavior isn’t random. It’s not about disrespect, laziness, or a “bad attitude.” Every outburst, shutdown, or refusal is your child’s nervous system sending a signal.<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m unpacking what those signals really mean and why the labels we often put on behavior — defiance, aggression, avoidance — miss the mark. You’ll learn how to look past the surface to see the need underneath, and how shifting from control to curiosity changes everything.<br /><br />When you learn to decode behavior as a signal, you stop fighting the symptom and start supporting your child where they actually are. That’s the foundation of raising regulated, resilient kids who feel seen and understood.<br /><br />Press play and discover how to start listening to the signals beneath your child’s behavior.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/328" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/328</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1056</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,affirming,autism,behavior,decoding,emotional,is,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,neurodiversity,parenting,regulation,signal,strategies,system</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>328</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>327: How Animal Instincts Signal What's Underlying Behavior, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/327-how-animal-instincts-signal-what-s-underlying-behavior-with-penny-williams--67639631</link><description><![CDATA[What if your child’s meltdowns weren’t about defiance, disrespect, or “bad behavior” at all—but simply their nervous system doing what it was designed to do? In this episode, I unpack how animal instincts like Lumi the Owl, Prickles the Porcupine, Bolt the Cheetah, and Tuck the Possum signal what’s happening beneath the surface. When you learn to spot the state and meet the need, you stop wrestling with behavior and start tending the roots.<br /><br />We’ll talk about how to recognize each instinct, what your child actually needs in those moments, and how to support without shame, blame, or power struggles. These aren’t loopholes; they’re nervous-system-savvy ways to bring safety and connection back online.<br /><br />Take a deep breath with me. Let’s step into a gentler, more effective way to parent your beautifully complex child.👉 Tune in now to learn how animal instincts can transform the way you respond to your child’s behavior.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/327" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/327</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67639631</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2025 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67639631/327_how_animal_instincts_signal_what_s_underlying_behavior.mp3" length="28476000" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa/b5ffa526-b673-460a-b983-ab36eef943aa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if your child’s meltdowns weren’t about defiance, disrespect, or “bad behavior” at all—but simply their nervous system doing what it was designed to do? In this episode, I unpack how animal instincts like Lumi the Owl, Prickles the Porcupine,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if your child’s meltdowns weren’t about defiance, disrespect, or “bad behavior” at all—but simply their nervous system doing what it was designed to do? In this episode, I unpack how animal instincts like Lumi the Owl, Prickles the Porcupine, Bolt the Cheetah, and Tuck the Possum signal what’s happening beneath the surface. When you learn to spot the state and meet the need, you stop wrestling with behavior and start tending the roots.<br /><br />We’ll talk about how to recognize each instinct, what your child actually needs in those moments, and how to support without shame, blame, or power struggles. These aren’t loopholes; they’re nervous-system-savvy ways to bring safety and connection back online.<br /><br />Take a deep breath with me. Let’s step into a gentler, more effective way to parent your beautifully complex child.👉 Tune in now to learn how animal instincts can transform the way you respond to your child’s behavior.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/327" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/327</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1784</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavior,child,connection,development,emotional,intelligence,is,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,signal,support,system,with</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>327</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>326: Hidden in Plain Sight: Misdiagnosis &amp; Missed Diagnosis with Monica Garty Juice, PNP, PMHS</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/326-hidden-in-plain-sight-misdiagnosis-missed-diagnosis-with-monica-garty-juice-pnp-pmhs--67561826</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Your child’s biggest struggles might be the very things no one else sees.</b><br /><br />In this powerful conversation with pediatric nurse practitioner and mental health specialist Monica Garty Juice, we explore how subtle signs of neurodivergence often get dismissed, misdiagnosed, or go completely unnoticed — and what that means for our kids. Monica shares why so many complex kids are “hidden in plain sight,” how masking shows up in daily life, and what it looks like to finally be seen.<br /><br />We also talk about how parents often become the “quarterback” of their child’s care team — even when they’re exhausted and overwhelmed — and why slowing down and tuning into the full picture is one of the most powerful things we can do.<br /><br />If your child looks like they’re holding it together, but then melting down at home… this episode will feel like a deep exhale.<br /><br />Listen now and let this be your reminder: You’re not imagining it. You’re not alone. And you can trust your gut.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/326" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/326</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67561826</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67561826/326_subtle_presentations_of_neurodivergence.mp3" length="35742210" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a/359744be-64d2-44be-8842-09eb2228647a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your child’s biggest struggles might be the very things no one else sees.

In this powerful conversation with pediatric nurse practitioner and mental health specialist Monica Garty Juice, we explore how subtle signs of neurodivergence often get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Your child’s biggest struggles might be the very things no one else sees.</b><br /><br />In this powerful conversation with pediatric nurse practitioner and mental health specialist Monica Garty Juice, we explore how subtle signs of neurodivergence often get dismissed, misdiagnosed, or go completely unnoticed — and what that means for our kids. Monica shares why so many complex kids are “hidden in plain sight,” how masking shows up in daily life, and what it looks like to finally be seen.<br /><br />We also talk about how parents often become the “quarterback” of their child’s care team — even when they’re exhausted and overwhelmed — and why slowing down and tuning into the full picture is one of the most powerful things we can do.<br /><br />If your child looks like they’re holding it together, but then melting down at home… this episode will feel like a deep exhale.<br /><br />Listen now and let this be your reminder: You’re not imagining it. You’re not alone. And you can trust your gut.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/326" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/326</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2239</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavioral,disabilities,emotional,hidden,kids,masking,misunderstood,neurodivergence,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,subtle</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>326</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>325: Unlocking the Best Possible Outcomes in Special Education, with Michelle Pianim</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/325-unlocking-the-best-possible-outcomes-in-special-education-with-michelle-pianim--67381320</link><description><![CDATA[Ever walk into a school meeting and feel like you're already behind before you even sit down?<br /><br />In this episode, I’m talking with special education consultant Michelle Pianim about how we shift from feeling powerless in IEP meetings to taking proactive, confident steps for our neurodivergent kids. We unpack the culture of inclusion (or the lack thereof), how to become the expert in the room about your child, and what to do when you feel like you've hit a wall with your school team.<br /><br />Michelle brings decades of experience — and serious wisdom — to this conversation, including practical strategies to ask for what your child needs, gather the right data, and advocate with clarity instead of conflict.<br /><br />This episode is for every parent who’s ever walked out of a school meeting thinking, “What just happened?<br /><br />”🎧 Listen now and open the door to better outcomes, stronger advocacy, and a team that works with you — not around you.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/325" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/325</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67381320</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67381320/325_opening_the_door_to_the_best_possible_outcomes.mp3" length="30892507" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01/e0bb156f-599d-4f69-87f9-32f694948b01.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever walk into a school meeting and feel like you're already behind before you even sit down?

In this episode, I’m talking with special education consultant Michelle Pianim about how we shift from feeling powerless in IEP meetings to taking...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever walk into a school meeting and feel like you're already behind before you even sit down?<br /><br />In this episode, I’m talking with special education consultant Michelle Pianim about how we shift from feeling powerless in IEP meetings to taking proactive, confident steps for our neurodivergent kids. We unpack the culture of inclusion (or the lack thereof), how to become the expert in the room about your child, and what to do when you feel like you've hit a wall with your school team.<br /><br />Michelle brings decades of experience — and serious wisdom — to this conversation, including practical strategies to ask for what your child needs, gather the right data, and advocate with clarity instead of conflict.<br /><br />This episode is for every parent who’s ever walked out of a school meeting thinking, “What just happened?<br /><br />”🎧 Listen now and open the door to better outcomes, stronger advocacy, and a team that works with you — not around you.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/325" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/325</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1936</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>autismparenting,emotionalregulation,executivefunction,iepmeeting,inclusiveeducation,neurodivergentkids,parentingadhd,parentingadvocacy,regulatedkids,specialeducation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>325</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>324: How to Step Back Without Letting Go, with Kristin Lombardi, MA &amp; Christine Drew, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/324-how-to-step-back-without-letting-go-with-kristin-lombardi-ma-christine-drew-ph-d--67336964</link><description><![CDATA[What if the way you help your child is actually holding them back?<br /><br />In this powerful conversation with Kristin Lombardi and Christine Drew, co-authors of Spectrum of Independence, we unpack the hard-to-navigate space between support and overdoing. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Am I empowering or enabling?” — this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />We explore how to slowly and compassionately fade our support, why independence isn’t about going it alone, and how morning and bedtime routines can become moments of growth instead of daily battles. With real talk, gentle truth-telling, and deeply empathetic strategies, we help you make space for your child’s autonomy without sacrificing connection.<br /><br />Listen now to start shifting from doing it for them to teaching them how.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/324" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/324</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67336964</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67336964/324_fostering_independence.mp3" length="32701846" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca/b234c8fd-acc7-4abe-9251-8ea0885c9fca.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the way you help your child is actually holding them back?

In this powerful conversation with Kristin Lombardi and Christine Drew, co-authors of Spectrum of Independence, we unpack the hard-to-navigate space between support and overdoing. If...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the way you help your child is actually holding them back?<br /><br />In this powerful conversation with Kristin Lombardi and Christine Drew, co-authors of Spectrum of Independence, we unpack the hard-to-navigate space between support and overdoing. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Am I empowering or enabling?” — this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />We explore how to slowly and compassionately fade our support, why independence isn’t about going it alone, and how morning and bedtime routines can become moments of growth instead of daily battles. With real talk, gentle truth-telling, and deeply empathetic strategies, we help you make space for your child’s autonomy without sacrificing connection.<br /><br />Listen now to start shifting from doing it for them to teaching them how.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/324" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/324</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2049</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acceptance,adhd,autism,behavior,communication,emotional,executive,function,independent,is,kids,living,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>324</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>323: Using Breathwork to Facilitate Regulation, with Kurtis Lee Thomas</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/323-using-breathwork-to-facilitate-regulation-with-kurtis-lee-thomas--67247849</link><description><![CDATA[What if the most powerful regulation tool for your child has been sitting right under their nose all along?In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by breathwork facilitator and trainer Kurtis Lee Thomas to talk about the overlooked power of the breath — not just for calming down in the moment, but for deep emotional healing and nervous system regulation. Kurtis breaks down how breathwork helps both parents and kids release stuck emotions, build emotional intelligence, and move from chaos to calm.<br /><br />We also explore:<ul><li>Why breathwork works fast</li><li>How to simplify it so even your reluctant teen or sensory-sensitive kid can engage</li><li>Easy rituals to incorporate it into your family’s daily life</li><li>Why your child’s self-awareness starts with your breath</li></ul>Plus, you’ll walk away with three simple breath practices you can use anytime, anywhere.<br /><br />This episode is full of practical wisdom, deep insight, and a fresh take on what emotional regulation really looks like. Take a deep breath, literally, and come listen in.<br /><br />Tune in now and experience the power of the breath.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/323" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/323</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67247849</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67247849/323_using_breathwork_to_facilitate_regulation.mp3" length="28939274" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639/ab73b1ec-c5c2-495d-ae3c-b8a3a6193639.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the most powerful regulation tool for your child has been sitting right under their nose all along?In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by breathwork facilitator and trainer Kurtis Lee Thomas to talk about the overlooked power of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the most powerful regulation tool for your child has been sitting right under their nose all along?In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by breathwork facilitator and trainer Kurtis Lee Thomas to talk about the overlooked power of the breath — not just for calming down in the moment, but for deep emotional healing and nervous system regulation. Kurtis breaks down how breathwork helps both parents and kids release stuck emotions, build emotional intelligence, and move from chaos to calm.<br /><br />We also explore:<ul><li>Why breathwork works fast</li><li>How to simplify it so even your reluctant teen or sensory-sensitive kid can engage</li><li>Easy rituals to incorporate it into your family’s daily life</li><li>Why your child’s self-awareness starts with your breath</li></ul>Plus, you’ll walk away with three simple breath practices you can use anytime, anywhere.<br /><br />This episode is full of practical wisdom, deep insight, and a fresh take on what emotional regulation really looks like. Take a deep breath, literally, and come listen in.<br /><br />Tune in now and experience the power of the breath.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/323" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/323</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1813</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,beautifully,breathwork,child,complex,development,emotional,for,healing,kids,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,parents,regulation,strategies,system,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>323</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>322: Your Child’s Big Emotions Are the Way Through, Not the Problem, with Tosha Schore</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/322-your-child-s-big-emotions-are-the-way-through-not-the-problem-with-tosha-schore--67132342</link><description><![CDATA[In this powerful episode, I sit down with parenting coach and boys' emotional ally, Tosha Schore, to unpack something most of us were never taught: our emotions — especially the messy, loud, uncomfortable ones — hold the key to healing.<br /><br />We talk about what it really looks like to bear witness to our child’s (and our own) pain, why your “just calm down” instincts might be backfiring, and how to show up for your neurodivergent child in a way that builds emotional intelligence, resilience, and lasting connection.<br /><br />And parents, we go there: the shame, the silence, the struggle to “fix” things that feel out of control. You’ll walk away with simple, profound shifts that don’t require perfection — just presence.<br /><br />✨ If you’ve ever wondered, How do I help my kid without losing myself? this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and discover the healing power that’s already within reach.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/322" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/322</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67132342</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67132342/322_healing_power_of_emotions.mp3" length="30304933" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025/2d1619a9-8b4a-4292-b2d7-0730b433b025.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this powerful episode, I sit down with parenting coach and boys' emotional ally, Tosha Schore, to unpack something most of us were never taught: our emotions — especially the messy, loud, uncomfortable ones — hold the key to healing.

We talk about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this powerful episode, I sit down with parenting coach and boys' emotional ally, Tosha Schore, to unpack something most of us were never taught: our emotions — especially the messy, loud, uncomfortable ones — hold the key to healing.<br /><br />We talk about what it really looks like to bear witness to our child’s (and our own) pain, why your “just calm down” instincts might be backfiring, and how to show up for your neurodivergent child in a way that builds emotional intelligence, resilience, and lasting connection.<br /><br />And parents, we go there: the shame, the silence, the struggle to “fix” things that feel out of control. You’ll walk away with simple, profound shifts that don’t require perfection — just presence.<br /><br />✨ If you’ve ever wondered, How do I help my kid without losing myself? this episode is for you.<br /><br />Listen now and discover the healing power that’s already within reach.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/322" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/322</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1899</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,and,autism,boys,connection,control,emotional,emotions,healing,intelligence,kids,mindful,neurodivergent,over,parent,parenting,regulation,trauma-informed</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>322</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>321: Your Kid’s Quality of Life Starts with You, with Nancy Gilette</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/321-your-kid-s-quality-of-life-starts-with-you-with-nancy-gilette--67040766</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Your child’s behavior isn’t the problem — it’s the clue.</b><br /><br />So often we’re handed behavior plans, sticker charts, and systems that totally ignore what our neurodivergent kids are trying to tell us. In this powerful conversation with RDI Consultant Nancy Gilette, we dig into what really shapes your child’s quality of life — and spoiler alert: it starts with you.<br /><br />We talk about shifting from task-based parenting to experience-based connection, what “feeling good” actually looks like for neurodivergent brains, and how slowing down can speed up growth in the long run. You’ll hear practical ways to create co-regulation, why safety (not compliance) is the key to learning, and how to build a home that feels good for everyone.<br /><br />This one is equal parts validation, insight, and heck yes, I can do this.<br /><br />🎧 Don’t miss it — press play and let’s rethink how we support our kids, from the inside out.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/321" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/321</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67040766</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67040766/321_your_kid_s_quality_of_life_starts_with_you.mp3" length="32420856" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af/77f2e696-99c7-4a4f-bf9e-0a310c6220af.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your child’s behavior isn’t the problem — it’s the clue.

So often we’re handed behavior plans, sticker charts, and systems that totally ignore what our neurodivergent kids are trying to tell us. In this powerful conversation with RDI Consultant Nancy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Your child’s behavior isn’t the problem — it’s the clue.</b><br /><br />So often we’re handed behavior plans, sticker charts, and systems that totally ignore what our neurodivergent kids are trying to tell us. In this powerful conversation with RDI Consultant Nancy Gilette, we dig into what really shapes your child’s quality of life — and spoiler alert: it starts with you.<br /><br />We talk about shifting from task-based parenting to experience-based connection, what “feeling good” actually looks like for neurodivergent brains, and how slowing down can speed up growth in the long run. You’ll hear practical ways to create co-regulation, why safety (not compliance) is the key to learning, and how to build a home that feels good for everyone.<br /><br />This one is equal parts validation, insight, and heck yes, I can do this.<br /><br />🎧 Don’t miss it — press play and let’s rethink how we support our kids, from the inside out.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/321" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/321</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2031</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,autismparenting,behavioriscommunication,connectionovercompliance,coregulation,emotionalregulation,intentionalparenting,neurodivergentkids,parentingneurodivergent,sensoryregulation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>321</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>320 Less Stress, More Success for Back-to-School</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/320-less-stress-more-success-for-back-to-school--66986857</link><description><![CDATA[Is your back-to-school plan just a fresh stack of notebooks and high hopes? Let’s talk about what really makes or breaks a smooth transition for your neurodivergent child. In this episode, I’m sharing the top three things I wish I had known when my son was in school — the things that could’ve saved us from years of chaos, meltdowns, and overwhelm.<br /><br />We’re ditching the myth that buying the right planner will fix everything. Instead, I’ll walk you through how to prep your systems (not just your supplies), how to create emotional safety in the daily routine, and how to build a true partnership with your child’s teacher — before the chaos starts.<br /><br />This isn’t just back-to-school advice. It’s a whole new way of showing up for your complex kid with calm, clarity, and confidence.<br /><br />Listen in to start creating less stress and more success — starting now. <br /><br />ou can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time. Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/320" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/320</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66986857</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 00:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66986857/320_back_to_school_prep_week.mp3" length="33165969" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912/1b11d945-aaf9-420a-b349-d13ea94e5912.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is your back-to-school plan just a fresh stack of notebooks and high hopes? Let’s talk about what really makes or breaks a smooth transition for your neurodivergent child. In this episode, I’m sharing the top three things I wish I had known when my...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is your back-to-school plan just a fresh stack of notebooks and high hopes? Let’s talk about what really makes or breaks a smooth transition for your neurodivergent child. In this episode, I’m sharing the top three things I wish I had known when my son was in school — the things that could’ve saved us from years of chaos, meltdowns, and overwhelm.<br /><br />We’re ditching the myth that buying the right planner will fix everything. Instead, I’ll walk you through how to prep your systems (not just your supplies), how to create emotional safety in the daily routine, and how to build a true partnership with your child’s teacher — before the chaos starts.<br /><br />This isn’t just back-to-school advice. It’s a whole new way of showing up for your complex kid with calm, clarity, and confidence.<br /><br />Listen in to start creating less stress and more success — starting now. <br /><br />ou can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time. Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/320" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/320</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2078</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,backtoschool,neurodivergent,school,schoolstruggles</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>320</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>319: Using Music for Emotional Regulation, with Samantha Foote</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/319-using-music-for-emotional-regulation-with-samantha-foote--66591069</link><description><![CDATA[What if the secret to helping your child regulate their emotions… is already playing on your speakers?In this episode, I’m joined by board-certified music therapist and fellow neurodivergent mom, Samantha Foote, to explore how music can be a powerful (and joyful!) regulation tool for kids with ADHD, autism, and other complex needs. We chat about everything from angry drumming sessions between siblings to writing silly blues songs to cueing transitions with the right rhythm.<br /><br />Samantha shares how rhythm is hardwired into our bodies — and how we can use that to our advantage when emotions run high. Whether your kid calms to classical, beatboxes their stress away, or creates heavy metal drum loops on an iPad, this episode is packed with practical ways to make music work for your beautifully complex child.<br /><br />Listen now and discover how one song could be the bridge between chaos and calm.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/319" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/319</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66591069</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66591069/319_using_music_for_emotional_regulation.mp3" length="28382574" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68/d8d1466e-8941-4a42-95b8-a86671231f68.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the secret to helping your child regulate their emotions… is already playing on your speakers?In this episode, I’m joined by board-certified music therapist and fellow neurodivergent mom, Samantha Foote, to explore how music can be a powerful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if the secret to helping your child regulate their emotions… is already playing on your speakers?In this episode, I’m joined by board-certified music therapist and fellow neurodivergent mom, Samantha Foote, to explore how music can be a powerful (and joyful!) regulation tool for kids with ADHD, autism, and other complex needs. We chat about everything from angry drumming sessions between siblings to writing silly blues songs to cueing transitions with the right rhythm.<br /><br />Samantha shares how rhythm is hardwired into our bodies — and how we can use that to our advantage when emotions run high. Whether your kid calms to classical, beatboxes their stress away, or creates heavy metal drum loops on an iPad, this episode is packed with practical ways to make music work for your beautifully complex child.<br /><br />Listen now and discover how one song could be the bridge between chaos and calm.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/319" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/319</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1778</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdkids,autismparenting,beautifullycomplex,co-regulation,emotionalregulation,musictherapy,neurodivergentkids,parentingstrategies,rhythmforregulation,sensorysupport</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>319</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>318: Neuroscience, Mental Health &amp; Sleep Optimization, with Ariel Garten</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/318-neuroscience-mental-health-sleep-optimization-with-ariel-garten--66590697</link><description><![CDATA[What if just five minutes a day could lower your stress, help your child regulate, and even improve sleep? Sounds too good to be true, right? In this episode, I’m joined by Ariel Garten, neuroscientist, psychotherapist, and co-founder of Muse — and trust me, this conversation is both science-packed and deeply personal.<br /><br />We talk about the real brain science behind mindfulness and meditation (spoiler: it’s not about emptying your mind), and how biofeedback technology like Muse can help kids and parents strengthen self-regulation, improve mental health, and actually enjoy meditation. We also dive into how sleep, anxiety, and neurodivergence all intersect — and how just a couple of minutes of practice a day can transform your family’s nervous system and routines.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered how to help your neurodivergent child (or yourself!) feel calmer, sleep better, and take control of spiraling thoughts, this episode is your starting point.<br /><br />Listen now and discover how neuroscience-backed tools can make emotional regulation more doable for your beautifully complex family.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/318" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/318</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66590697</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66590697/318_neuroscience_mental_health_sleep_optimization.mp3" length="26072407" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862/b48f20c4-e401-47cc-bd36-fd07572a9862.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if just five minutes a day could lower your stress, help your child regulate, and even improve sleep? Sounds too good to be true, right? In this episode, I’m joined by Ariel Garten, neuroscientist, psychotherapist, and co-founder of Muse — and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if just five minutes a day could lower your stress, help your child regulate, and even improve sleep? Sounds too good to be true, right? In this episode, I’m joined by Ariel Garten, neuroscientist, psychotherapist, and co-founder of Muse — and trust me, this conversation is both science-packed and deeply personal.<br /><br />We talk about the real brain science behind mindfulness and meditation (spoiler: it’s not about emptying your mind), and how biofeedback technology like Muse can help kids and parents strengthen self-regulation, improve mental health, and actually enjoy meditation. We also dive into how sleep, anxiety, and neurodivergence all intersect — and how just a couple of minutes of practice a day can transform your family’s nervous system and routines.<br /><br />If you’ve ever wondered how to help your neurodivergent child (or yourself!) feel calmer, sleep better, and take control of spiraling thoughts, this episode is your starting point.<br /><br />Listen now and discover how neuroscience-backed tools can make emotional regulation more doable for your beautifully complex family.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/318" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/318</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1634</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,anxiety,autism,emotional,for,good,kids,meditation,mindfulness,muse,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,sleep,strategies,support,system,tech</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>318</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>317: Creating Neurodiverstiy-Affirming Schools, with Amanda Morin and Emily Kircher-Morris, LPC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/317-creating-neurodiverstiy-affirming-schools-with-amanda-morin-and-emily-kircher-morris-lpc--66499520</link><description><![CDATA[What if schools didn’t just accommodate neurodivergent kids, but celebrated them? In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with Amanda Morin and Emily Kircher-Morris, we dig into what it really means to create neurodiversity-affirming schools. From ditching moral judgments on behavior to prioritizing belonging over compliance, this episode is a must-listen for any parent or educator who wants more for our kids than just surviving school.<br /><br />You’ll hear powerful personal stories, practical strategies, and a reminder that our children deserve to be seen, supported, and valued exactly as they are.<br /><br />Tune in and discover how we can help create classrooms that don’t just teach, but transform lives.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/317" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/317</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66499520</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66499520/317_creating_neurodiverstiy_affirming_schools_rev_061125.mp3" length="39311326" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087/c6142ec2-995d-4404-abdf-190061b73087.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if schools didn’t just accommodate neurodivergent kids, but celebrated them? In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with Amanda Morin and Emily Kircher-Morris, we dig into what it really means to create neurodiversity-affirming schools....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if schools didn’t just accommodate neurodivergent kids, but celebrated them? In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with Amanda Morin and Emily Kircher-Morris, we dig into what it really means to create neurodiversity-affirming schools. From ditching moral judgments on behavior to prioritizing belonging over compliance, this episode is a must-listen for any parent or educator who wants more for our kids than just surviving school.<br /><br />You’ll hear powerful personal stories, practical strategies, and a reminder that our children deserve to be seen, supported, and valued exactly as they are.<br /><br />Tune in and discover how we can help create classrooms that don’t just teach, but transform lives.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/317" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/317</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2463</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,belonging,emotionalintelligence,emotionalregulation,inclusiveschools,neurodivergent,neurodiversityaffirming,parentingneurodivergentkids,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>317</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>316: Finding Your Kid’s Just Right Balance, with Chris Taylor, LCSW-C</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/316-finding-your-kid-s-just-right-balance-with-chris-taylor-lcsw-c--66143588</link><description><![CDATA[Ever wonder how to push your child just enough without pushing them over the edge?<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with therapist Chris Taylor, LCSW-C, to unpack what it really means to find your child’s “Just Right Balance.” Unlike the more familiar “just right challenge,” this concept is about balancing emotional safety with growth — how to gently nudge our neurodivergent kids out of their comfort zones without creating shutdown or dysregulation.<br /><br />Chris and I talk about how to know when to step in and when to step back, why validation and predictability are game-changers for emotionally intense kids, and how your own regulation as a parent sets the tone for everything else. Plus, we dig into why fulfillment — not just short-term happiness — should be the goal when helping kids navigate hard things.<br /><br />If you’ve ever felt stuck between protecting your child and encouraging independence, this episode is full of insights (and real talk) to help you find that elusive middle ground.<br /><br />Listen now to learn how to help your child grow in confidence and resilience — without losing trust or connection.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/316" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/316</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66143588</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66143588/316_just_right_balance.mp3" length="29699025" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74/03079de4-68a6-43ab-95a1-c108b71b3f74.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever wonder how to push your child just enough without pushing them over the edge?

In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with therapist Chris Taylor, LCSW-C, to unpack what it really means to find your child’s “Just Right Balance.”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever wonder how to push your child just enough without pushing them over the edge?<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with therapist Chris Taylor, LCSW-C, to unpack what it really means to find your child’s “Just Right Balance.” Unlike the more familiar “just right challenge,” this concept is about balancing emotional safety with growth — how to gently nudge our neurodivergent kids out of their comfort zones without creating shutdown or dysregulation.<br /><br />Chris and I talk about how to know when to step in and when to step back, why validation and predictability are game-changers for emotionally intense kids, and how your own regulation as a parent sets the tone for everything else. Plus, we dig into why fulfillment — not just short-term happiness — should be the goal when helping kids navigate hard things.<br /><br />If you’ve ever felt stuck between protecting your child and encouraging independence, this episode is full of insights (and real talk) to help you find that elusive middle ground.<br /><br />Listen now to learn how to help your child grow in confidence and resilience — without losing trust or connection.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/316" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/316</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1861</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdkids,autismparenting,behavioralhealth,childdevelopment,emotionalregulation,neurodivergentkids,neurodivergentparenting,parentcoaching,parentingstrategies,parentmindset</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>316</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>315: Integrating Creativity and Play into Learning, with Kelsey Cook</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/315-integrating-creativity-and-play-into-learning-with-kelsey-cook--66143590</link><description><![CDATA[What if a pom pom, a paper tube, and ten minutes a day could transform your child’s learning?<br /><br />In this joy-filled episode, I sit down with Kelsey Cook, mom of four, former teacher, and founder of Learning with Kelsey, to unpack the science and soul behind play-based learning. Together, we explore how creativity and play aren't just fun — they're vital tools for connection, emotional regulation, and skill development in neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />From sensory-friendly adaptations to parent-child rituals that build predictability, you'll walk away with practical strategies to foster emotional intelligence, meet your child’s sensory needs, and bring more joy to learning (without a single worksheet in sight).<br /><br />If you’ve ever struggled to get your child engaged in learning or wondered how to balance structure with flexibility, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped.<br /><br />🎧 Press play and discover how a little intentional play can lead to big breakthroughs.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/315" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/315</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66143590</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66143590/315_integrating_creativity_and_play_into_learning.mp3" length="24542430" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc/a190274e-7f3d-4363-8e79-26aac1c02cfc.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if a pom pom, a paper tube, and ten minutes a day could transform your child’s learning?

In this joy-filled episode, I sit down with Kelsey Cook, mom of four, former teacher, and founder of Learning with Kelsey, to unpack the science and soul...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if a pom pom, a paper tube, and ten minutes a day could transform your child’s learning?<br /><br />In this joy-filled episode, I sit down with Kelsey Cook, mom of four, former teacher, and founder of Learning with Kelsey, to unpack the science and soul behind play-based learning. Together, we explore how creativity and play aren't just fun — they're vital tools for connection, emotional regulation, and skill development in neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />From sensory-friendly adaptations to parent-child rituals that build predictability, you'll walk away with practical strategies to foster emotional intelligence, meet your child’s sensory needs, and bring more joy to learning (without a single worksheet in sight).<br /><br />If you’ve ever struggled to get your child engaged in learning or wondered how to balance structure with flexibility, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped.<br /><br />🎧 Press play and discover how a little intentional play can lead to big breakthroughs.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/315" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/315</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1538</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acceptance,adhd,autism,child,creative,development,emotional,kids,learning,needs,neurodivergent,parenting,play,regulation,sensory,special,through,tips</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>315</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>314: Don’t Be “That Parent:” How to Advocate Effectively &amp; Compassionately, with Scotti Weintraub</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/314-don-t-be-that-parent-how-to-advocate-effectively-compassionately-with-scotti-weintraub--66022303</link><description><![CDATA[Walking into school meetings can feel like navigating a minefield while carrying the weight of your child’s future.<br /><br />You're not alone — and in this episode, I sit down with education advocate and parent coach Scotti Weintraub to unpack how to have better, calmer, more productive conversations with your child’s teacher, especially when things are hard. We dig into the reality that most teachers aren’t trained in neurodivergence, and how parents can advocate without alienating and burning bridges. From leading with curiosity to asking, “Can I share this with you?,” instead of handing over a stack of articles, this conversation is packed with strategies for fostering mutual respect, trust, and teamwork.<br /><br />If you’ve ever dreaded that parent-teacher conference or IEP meeting, this episode is your roadmap to more effective and empowering communication.<br /><br />Tune in now to learn how to build the kind of teacher partnerships that actually help your neurodivergent child thrive.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/314" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/314</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66022303</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66022303/314_better_conversations_better_support.mp3" length="38426853" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964/9a02e661-244c-4e55-be9b-36c2311d2964.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Walking into school meetings can feel like navigating a minefield while carrying the weight of your child’s future.

You're not alone — and in this episode, I sit down with education advocate and parent coach Scotti Weintraub to unpack how to have...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Walking into school meetings can feel like navigating a minefield while carrying the weight of your child’s future.<br /><br />You're not alone — and in this episode, I sit down with education advocate and parent coach Scotti Weintraub to unpack how to have better, calmer, more productive conversations with your child’s teacher, especially when things are hard. We dig into the reality that most teachers aren’t trained in neurodivergence, and how parents can advocate without alienating and burning bridges. From leading with curiosity to asking, “Can I share this with you?,” instead of handing over a stack of articles, this conversation is packed with strategies for fostering mutual respect, trust, and teamwork.<br /><br />If you’ve ever dreaded that parent-teacher conference or IEP meeting, this episode is your roadmap to more effective and empowering communication.<br /><br />Tune in now to learn how to build the kind of teacher partnerships that actually help your neurodivergent child thrive.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/314" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/314</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2408</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>504,adhd,advocacy,affirming,autism,communication,education,emotional,executive,functioning,iep,meetings,neurodivergent,neurodiversity,parenting,parent-teacher,regulation,school,special,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>314</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>313: Build Resilience and Joy with Awe and Wonder, with Deborah Farmer Kris</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/313-build-resilience-and-joy-with-awe-and-wonder-with-deborah-farmer-kris--66022050</link><description><![CDATA[The antidote to stress and disconnection could be awe. In this heartwarming episode, I chat with child development expert Deborah Farmer Kris about the transformative power of awe and wonder for beautifully complex kids. From music and nature to kindness and curiosity, we explore how tapping into these moments can reduce stress, regulate the nervous system, and foster belonging. You’ll hear real stories, science-backed insights, and simple ways to help your child (and yourself) become an awe-seeker in a world that often feels overwhelming.<br /><br /><b>Listen now and discover the small moments that can create big shifts in emotional regulation and joy.</b><br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/313" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/313</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66022050</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66022050/313_awe_wonder_and_beautifully_complex_kids.mp3" length="37447325" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45/ca9353d1-9ef1-406c-8362-c94589509b45.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The antidote to stress and disconnection could be awe. In this heartwarming episode, I chat with child development expert Deborah Farmer Kris about the transformative power of awe and wonder for beautifully complex kids. From music and nature to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The antidote to stress and disconnection could be awe. In this heartwarming episode, I chat with child development expert Deborah Farmer Kris about the transformative power of awe and wonder for beautifully complex kids. From music and nature to kindness and curiosity, we explore how tapping into these moments can reduce stress, regulate the nervous system, and foster belonging. You’ll hear real stories, science-backed insights, and simple ways to help your child (and yourself) become an awe-seeker in a world that often feels overwhelming.<br /><br /><b>Listen now and discover the small moments that can create big shifts in emotional regulation and joy.</b><br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/313" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/313</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2346</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,awe,child,development,emotional,nervous,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,self-regulation,system,wonder</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>313</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>312: Discovering the Right Career Path for Neurodivergent Kids, with Hannah Maruyama</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/312-discovering-the-right-career-path-for-neurodivergent-kids-with-hannah-maruyama--65751610</link><description><![CDATA[Is college really the only path to success? Not even close.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Maruyama, co-founder of Degree Free, to challenge the outdated idea that college is the ultimate goal for every kid — especially for neurodivergent kids who may thrive outside traditional systems. We get deep into how redefining success, focusing on real-world needs, and shifting the career conversation can change everything. Learn why starting with your child's unique lifestyle goals leads to a far more satisfying and successful future, and why the old "college = success" formula just doesn't add up anymore.<br /><br />Ready to rethink what your child’s future can look like? Listen now and empower your family to build a life by design, not by default.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/312</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65751610</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65751610/312_discovering_career_paths_that_don_t_require_a_college_degree.mp3" length="32524725" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00/b25e7230-1e92-4aba-b060-22845c418e00.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is college really the only path to success? Not even close.

In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Maruyama, co-founder of Degree Free, to challenge the outdated idea that college is the ultimate goal for every kid — especially for neurodivergent...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is college really the only path to success? Not even close.<br /><br />In this episode, I sit down with Hannah Maruyama, co-founder of Degree Free, to challenge the outdated idea that college is the ultimate goal for every kid — especially for neurodivergent kids who may thrive outside traditional systems. We get deep into how redefining success, focusing on real-world needs, and shifting the career conversation can change everything. Learn why starting with your child's unique lifestyle goals leads to a far more satisfying and successful future, and why the old "college = success" formula just doesn't add up anymore.<br /><br />Ready to rethink what your child’s future can look like? Listen now and empower your family to build a life by design, not by default.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/312</a><br /><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2038</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,beautifullycomplexpodcast,careerpaths,emotionalregulation,lifeskills,neurodivergentparenting,parentcoach,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentingteens,redefiningsuccess</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>312</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>311: Fostering Self-Discovery for Your Autistic Kid, with Sol Smith, MS, MFA, EDS</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/311-fostering-self-discovery-for-your-autistic-kid-with-sol-smith-ms-mfa-eds--65635562</link><description><![CDATA[What if your child’s “overexplaining” isn’t defiance, but a deep need to be understood?<br /><br />In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Sol Smith — autistic adult, author, life coach, educator, and dad of four neurodivergent kids — to talk about the inner world of autistic individuals. From masking and sensory differences to building friendships and finding identity through passion, Sol walks us through what self-discovery really looks like for autistic kids… and how we can better support it as parents.<br /><br />We also dive into the hard stuff: the social exhaustion of masking, the difference between “traits” and diagnostic persistence, and why trusting your child’s path — even if it looks different — is the most loving move you can make.<br /><br />Sol’s insights are real, relatable, and refreshingly hopeful. If you’ve ever wondered how to support your child in being their true self while also preparing them for “the real world,” this episode is your new roadmap.<br /><br />🎧 Don’t miss it — press play and get ready to see your child through a brand-new lens.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/311" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/311</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65635562</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65635562/311_fostering_self_discovery_for_your_autistic_kid.mp3" length="32576770" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81/7a5507d1-d0e7-47de-948f-c1b8c080cf81.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if your child’s “overexplaining” isn’t defiance, but a deep need to be understood?

In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Sol Smith — autistic adult, author, life coach, educator, and dad of four neurodivergent kids — to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if your child’s “overexplaining” isn’t defiance, but a deep need to be understood?<br /><br />In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Sol Smith — autistic adult, author, life coach, educator, and dad of four neurodivergent kids — to talk about the inner world of autistic individuals. From masking and sensory differences to building friendships and finding identity through passion, Sol walks us through what self-discovery really looks like for autistic kids… and how we can better support it as parents.<br /><br />We also dive into the hard stuff: the social exhaustion of masking, the difference between “traits” and diagnostic persistence, and why trusting your child’s path — even if it looks different — is the most loving move you can make.<br /><br />Sol’s insights are real, relatable, and refreshingly hopeful. If you’ve ever wondered how to support your child in being their true self while also preparing them for “the real world,” this episode is your new roadmap.<br /><br />🎧 Don’t miss it — press play and get ready to see your child through a brand-new lens.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/311" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/311</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2041</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>autisticchildren,emotionalregulation,neuroaffirmingparenting,neurodivergentkids,selfdiscovery</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>311</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>310: Connecting Through Conversation: Rethinking Behavior Strategies for Schools, with Erika Bare &amp; Tiffany Burns</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/310-connecting-through-conversation-rethinking-behavior-strategies-for-schools-with-erika-bare-tiffany-burns--65629872</link><description><![CDATA[What if we stopped calling kids “attention-seeking” and started calling them “connection-seeking?”<br /><br />In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with veteran educators and authors Erika Bare and Tiffany Burns to rethink how we approach behavior in schools — especially for neurodivergent kids. From eliminating power struggles to building culture through connection, they break down practical strategies that teachers and parents can use right now to shift from correction to connection.<br /><br />You’ll hear why traditional behavior charts often do more harm than good, how to “care out loud” in everyday interactions, and what it really means to co-create emotionally safe spaces for all kids. We explore how small changes in mindset and language can spark massive change for kids who struggle.<br /><br />Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or anyone who works with kids, this episode is a breath of fresh air for modern education.<br /><br />👉 Tune in and start building the connection-first culture our kids deserve.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/310" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/310</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65629872</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65629872/310_connecting_through_conversation.mp3" length="30627280" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf/c956c725-fdfd-4c6f-a3cd-84a3c12351bf.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if we stopped calling kids “attention-seeking” and started calling them “connection-seeking?”

In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with veteran educators and authors Erika Bare and Tiffany Burns to rethink how we approach behavior in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if we stopped calling kids “attention-seeking” and started calling them “connection-seeking?”<br /><br />In this heart-opening episode, I sit down with veteran educators and authors Erika Bare and Tiffany Burns to rethink how we approach behavior in schools — especially for neurodivergent kids. From eliminating power struggles to building culture through connection, they break down practical strategies that teachers and parents can use right now to shift from correction to connection.<br /><br />You’ll hear why traditional behavior charts often do more harm than good, how to “care out loud” in everyday interactions, and what it really means to co-create emotionally safe spaces for all kids. We explore how small changes in mindset and language can spark massive change for kids who struggle.<br /><br />Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or anyone who works with kids, this episode is a breath of fresh air for modern education.<br /><br />👉 Tune in and start building the connection-first culture our kids deserve.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/310" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/310</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1919</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,beautifullycomplex,educationreform,emotionalregulation,neurodivergent,parentingtips,schoolbehavior</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>310</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>309: Coping Skills for Kids, Teens, and Adults, with Janine Halloran, MA, LMHC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/309-coping-skills-for-kids-teens-and-adults-with-janine-halloran-ma-lmhc--65572638</link><description><![CDATA[<b>What if the big feelings your child has aren’t a problem — but a clue?</b><br /><br />In this comforting conversation, I sit down with Janine Halloran, LMHC — therapist, mom, and author of Coping Skills for Kids — to talk all things anger, coping, and emotional regulation for neurodivergent kids and their families.<br /><br />We dig into why some kids explode, what to do in the moment (spoiler: it starts with YOU), and how to teach your child the coping strategies that actually work for their unique brain and nervous system. Plus, Janine shares real-life stories, tools, and ways to create a home environment that supports emotional growth — without trying to force your kid to “just breathe.”<br /><br />Whether your child resists every strategy you suggest or you’re just trying to stay calm during the chaos, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and hope.<br /><br />Tune in now to learn how to help your child (and yourself) walk through big feelings with more connection, confidence, and calm.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/309" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/309</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65572638</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65572638/309_coping_skills_for_kids_teens_and_adults.mp3" length="34405310" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f/e582bdae-1fee-4f33-bd39-cd5fee1fb24f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if the big feelings your child has aren’t a problem — but a clue?

In this comforting conversation, I sit down with Janine Halloran, LMHC — therapist, mom, and author of Coping Skills for Kids — to talk all things anger, coping, and emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>What if the big feelings your child has aren’t a problem — but a clue?</b><br /><br />In this comforting conversation, I sit down with Janine Halloran, LMHC — therapist, mom, and author of Coping Skills for Kids — to talk all things anger, coping, and emotional regulation for neurodivergent kids and their families.<br /><br />We dig into why some kids explode, what to do in the moment (spoiler: it starts with YOU), and how to teach your child the coping strategies that actually work for their unique brain and nervous system. Plus, Janine shares real-life stories, tools, and ways to create a home environment that supports emotional growth — without trying to force your kid to “just breathe.”<br /><br />Whether your child resists every strategy you suggest or you’re just trying to stay calm during the chaos, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and hope.<br /><br />Tune in now to learn how to help your child (and yourself) walk through big feelings with more connection, confidence, and calm.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/309" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/309</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2156</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>angrykids,beautifullycomplexpodcast,copingskillsforkids,copingstrategies,coregulation,emotionalregulation,nervoussystem,neurodivergentkids,parentingadhd,parentingautism,parentingpodcast,parentingtools,sensoryregulation,traumainformedparenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>309</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>308: You Might Also Like Climbing the Walls from Understood.org</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/308-you-might-also-like-climbing-the-walls-from-understood-org--65448034</link><description><![CDATA[Wait, ADHD is more than attention issues? Yep — and this episode will blow your mind.<br /><br />In this special episode, I’m sharing the first episode of the must-listen new series Climbing the Walls by <a href="http://understood.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Understood.org</a>. This story-driven episode dives into the rise of ADHD diagnoses in women — especially during the pandemic — and how emotional regulation, executive function, and misunderstood symptoms have kept countless women undiagnosed for decades.<br /><br />I reflect on the shock of hearing things I wish I’d known when my child was first diagnosed. This episode isn't just about women with ADHD — it’s about the ripple effects of missed diagnoses, how emotions show up in unexpected ways (hello, rage and rejection sensitivity!), and why recognizing the full picture of ADHD is crucial for parenting neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />If you’ve ever questioned why your child explodes or struggles to meet deadlines, or if you've felt unseen yourself, this one’s going to hit home.<br /><br />Don’t miss this compelling episode — hit play now and prepare to see ADHD through a new lens.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/308</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65448034</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65448034/308_understood_climbing_the_walls_040725.mp3" length="30739452" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f/e80c4d6e-ef3b-4d0e-a0dd-14f775d4bc7f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Wait, ADHD is more than attention issues? Yep — and this episode will blow your mind.

In this special episode, I’m sharing the first episode of the must-listen new series Climbing the Walls by http://understood.org/. This story-driven episode dives...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Wait, ADHD is more than attention issues? Yep — and this episode will blow your mind.<br /><br />In this special episode, I’m sharing the first episode of the must-listen new series Climbing the Walls by <a href="http://understood.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Understood.org</a>. This story-driven episode dives into the rise of ADHD diagnoses in women — especially during the pandemic — and how emotional regulation, executive function, and misunderstood symptoms have kept countless women undiagnosed for decades.<br /><br />I reflect on the shock of hearing things I wish I’d known when my child was first diagnosed. This episode isn't just about women with ADHD — it’s about the ripple effects of missed diagnoses, how emotions show up in unexpected ways (hello, rage and rejection sensitivity!), and why recognizing the full picture of ADHD is crucial for parenting neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />If you’ve ever questioned why your child explodes or struggles to meet deadlines, or if you've felt unseen yourself, this one’s going to hit home.<br /><br />Don’t miss this compelling episode — hit play now and prepare to see ADHD through a new lens.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/308</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1926</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdawareness,adhdinwomen,beautifullycomplexpodcast,climbingthewalls,emotionalregulation,executivefunction,neuroaffirming,neurodivergentkids,parentcoach,parentingadhd</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>308</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>307: Valuing Personhood Over Productivity, with Shawna Rosenzweig</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/307-valuing-personhood-over-productivity-with-shawna-rosenzweig--65367756</link><description><![CDATA[✨ What if your child’s “daydreaming” on the sidelines was actually self-regulation in action?<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Shawna Rosenzweig, CEO of Campfire, for a real-talk conversation about rethinking success and valuing our kids for who they are, not what they do.<br /><br />We unpack how our cultural obsession with productivity often misses the mark — especially for neurodivergent kids. From challenging perfectionism to navigating sensory overwhelm and learning to follow our kids’ lead, this episode is a must-listen for any parent ready to shift from performance to personhood.<br /><br />Whether your kid is struggling with school, friendships, or emotional regulation, this episode offers insight, hope, and practical tools.<br /><br />Listen now and let’s reimagine childhood together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/305</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65367756</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 00:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65367756/307_valuing_personhood_over_productivity.mp3" length="30896667" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380/5c6dc569-b34a-4793-a734-7d3e26289380.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>✨ What if your child’s “daydreaming” on the sidelines was actually self-regulation in action?

In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Shawna Rosenzweig, CEO of Campfire, for a real-talk conversation about rethinking success and valuing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[✨ What if your child’s “daydreaming” on the sidelines was actually self-regulation in action?<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Shawna Rosenzweig, CEO of Campfire, for a real-talk conversation about rethinking success and valuing our kids for who they are, not what they do.<br /><br />We unpack how our cultural obsession with productivity often misses the mark — especially for neurodivergent kids. From challenging perfectionism to navigating sensory overwhelm and learning to follow our kids’ lead, this episode is a must-listen for any parent ready to shift from performance to personhood.<br /><br />Whether your kid is struggling with school, friendships, or emotional regulation, this episode offers insight, hope, and practical tools.<br /><br />Listen now and let’s reimagine childhood together.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/305</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1936</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdkids,autismparenting,beautifullycomplex,childdevelopment,connectionovercompliance,emotionalregulation,inclusiveteaching,neurodivergentparenting,neurodiversityaffirming,parentingadhd,parentingmindset,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentingtools,regulatedkids,sensorysupport</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>226</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>306: What Do You Do With the Mad that You Feel?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/306-what-do-you-do-with-the-mad-that-you-feel--65240970</link><description><![CDATA[Ever wish your kid would just stop yelling?<br /><br />This episode of Beautifully Complex will make you rethink that wish — in the best way. Inspired by the timeless wisdom of Mr. Rogers, I explore one deceptively simple question: “What do you do with the mad that you feel?”<br /><br />In this solo episode, you’ll discover how anger shows up in the nervous system, why our kids often can’t think their way through it, and how to help them feel safe in their emotions, instead of ashamed. From compassionate scripts to body-based strategies, this is your go-to guide for turning meltdown moments into connection and growth.<br /><br />Whether your child is autistic, has ADHD, or just struggles with big feelings, this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />🎧 Tune in to learn how to support your child’s emotional regulation — without control, shame, or power struggles.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/306" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/306</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65240970</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65240970/306_what_do_you_do_with_the_mad_that_you_feel.mp3" length="19455443" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0/e88ddd6e-74e1-4b27-8e1d-d438bcaa61a0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever wish your kid would just stop yelling?

This episode of Beautifully Complex will make you rethink that wish — in the best way. Inspired by the timeless wisdom of Mr. Rogers, I explore one deceptively simple question: “What do you do with the mad...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever wish your kid would just stop yelling?<br /><br />This episode of Beautifully Complex will make you rethink that wish — in the best way. Inspired by the timeless wisdom of Mr. Rogers, I explore one deceptively simple question: “What do you do with the mad that you feel?”<br /><br />In this solo episode, you’ll discover how anger shows up in the nervous system, why our kids often can’t think their way through it, and how to help them feel safe in their emotions, instead of ashamed. From compassionate scripts to body-based strategies, this is your go-to guide for turning meltdown moments into connection and growth.<br /><br />Whether your child is autistic, has ADHD, or just struggles with big feelings, this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />🎧 Tune in to learn how to support your child’s emotional regulation — without control, shame, or power struggles.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/306" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/306</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1219</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,anger,a#utismparenting,bigemotions,coregulation,emotionalintelligence,emotionalregulation,nervoussystemregulation,neurodivergentparenting,parentingneurodivergentkids</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>306</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>305: Building Parent Resilience, with Barb Fletcher</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/305-building-parent-resilience-with-barb-fletcher--65087889</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I am joined by resilience coach Barb Fletcher to explore empowering strategies for building parent resilience — an essential tool for those of us navigating the unique journey of raising neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />We discuss the balance of control over stress, the pivotal role of heart-focused breathing, and the impact of shared energy between parent and child. Listen in to learn about redefining stress management, adjusting our lens on resilience, and the actionable steps we can take today to show up for ourselves and our children with authenticity and strength.<br /><br />Join us as we support your journey with practical, step-by-step advice to cultivate a loving, neuro-affirming environment that benefits your entire family. Let’s build resilience together to nurture a brighter future for our beautifully complex kids.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/305</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65087889</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2025 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65087889/305_building_parent_resilience.mp3" length="25700003" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8/9ee3ea97-3d51-4325-9fb2-2e3d60dfffd8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I am joined by resilience coach Barb Fletcher to explore empowering strategies for building parent resilience — an essential tool for those of us navigating the unique journey of raising neurodivergent kids.

We...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I am joined by resilience coach Barb Fletcher to explore empowering strategies for building parent resilience — an essential tool for those of us navigating the unique journey of raising neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />We discuss the balance of control over stress, the pivotal role of heart-focused breathing, and the impact of shared energy between parent and child. Listen in to learn about redefining stress management, adjusting our lens on resilience, and the actionable steps we can take today to show up for ourselves and our children with authenticity and strength.<br /><br />Join us as we support your journey with practical, step-by-step advice to cultivate a loving, neuro-affirming environment that benefits your entire family. Let’s build resilience together to nurture a brighter future for our beautifully complex kids.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/305" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/305</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1610</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>breathwork,emotionalregulation,heartmathtechniques,mindfulness,neurodivergentparenting,parentcoaching,parentingstrategies,parentresilience,selfregulation,stressmanagement,stressreduction</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>305</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>304: How to Support Regulation with Play, with Polina Shkadron, MA/SLP, MSNE, CTP, ADHD-RSP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/304-how-to-support-regulation-with-play-with-polina-shkadron-ma-slp-msne-ctp-adhd-rsp--64889194</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with expert Polina Shkadron to explore the incredible power of play in supporting emotional regulation. Discover how co-regulation — a crucial component of nurturing a healthy parent-child bond — can become a natural part of your routine. We dive into how letting go of control during playtime and embracing your child's creativity can lead to breakthroughs in self-regulation and problem-solving.<br /><br />You'll receive warm guidance on striking the right balance between encouragement and independence, teaching your child how to navigate challenges while building strong executive functioning skills. We'll address your parental capacity, providing practical tips on integrating play into your family life without additional stress.<br /><br />Tune in and equip yourself with actionable strategies to cultivate a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child's growth and emotional resilience. Join us for a conversation that promises not just hope, but a roadmap to nurturing your child's unique brilliance and potential. Listen now for step-by-step advice that's rooted in empathy and expertise. Your beautifully complex family can thrive, and it starts here.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64889194</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64889194/304_how_to_support_regulation_with_play.mp3" length="31965020" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b/52560b0e-a5c4-4af8-a0a2-b6e0546faf3b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with expert Polina Shkadron to explore the incredible power of play in supporting emotional regulation. Discover how co-regulation — a crucial component of nurturing a healthy parent-child bond — can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with expert Polina Shkadron to explore the incredible power of play in supporting emotional regulation. Discover how co-regulation — a crucial component of nurturing a healthy parent-child bond — can become a natural part of your routine. We dive into how letting go of control during playtime and embracing your child's creativity can lead to breakthroughs in self-regulation and problem-solving.<br /><br />You'll receive warm guidance on striking the right balance between encouragement and independence, teaching your child how to navigate challenges while building strong executive functioning skills. We'll address your parental capacity, providing practical tips on integrating play into your family life without additional stress.<br /><br />Tune in and equip yourself with actionable strategies to cultivate a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child's growth and emotional resilience. Join us for a conversation that promises not just hope, but a roadmap to nurturing your child's unique brilliance and potential. Listen now for step-by-step advice that's rooted in empathy and expertise. Your beautifully complex family can thrive, and it starts here.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2003</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,and,autism,beautifully,complex,co-regulation,emotional,executive,function,kids,neurodivergent,parenting,penny,play,podcast,polina,regulation,shkadron,strategies,williams</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>304</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>303: How to Prepare for a Successful School Meeting, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/303-how-to-prepare-for-a-successful-school-meeting-with-penny-williams--64719280</link><description><![CDATA[School meetings can stir up a lot of emotions for parents — including overwhelm, confusion, anxiety, and uncertainty. You’re worried about your child's rights, accommodations, and educational success in an ever-changing landscape. In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m sharing some practical and hard-won wisdom on setting the foundation for successful school meetings.<br /><br />Join me as I share personal stories and insights, exploring the importance of submitting your parent input ahead of time, understanding the structure of these meetings, and cultivating a collaborative mindset. These strategies are not just about surviving the meeting but turning them into a platform where your child's strengths are celebrated and their needs are understood.<br /><br />Listen in for step-by-step advice on creating a neuro-affirming environment that promotes success and confidence for your child. I'll guide you through the crucial elements that foster teamwork between you and the school, all while reinforcing a sense of hope and progress.<br /><br />With experience as a parenting coach and mindset advocate, I am devoted to helping parents like you build a supportive, understanding ecosystem for your neurodivergent kids. Tune in and let's work towards transforming challenges into pathways for success together.<br /><br />Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an episode filled with empathy, understanding, and actionable tips for your beautifully complex journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64719280</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2025 00:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64719280/303_how_to_prepare_for_a_successful_school_meeting.mp3" length="37969831" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391/cd12e8c4-7d49-4b72-a7ad-9ae310fa1391.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>School meetings can stir up a lot of emotions for parents — including overwhelm, confusion, anxiety, and uncertainty. You’re worried about your child's rights, accommodations, and educational success in an ever-changing landscape. In this episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[School meetings can stir up a lot of emotions for parents — including overwhelm, confusion, anxiety, and uncertainty. You’re worried about your child's rights, accommodations, and educational success in an ever-changing landscape. In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m sharing some practical and hard-won wisdom on setting the foundation for successful school meetings.<br /><br />Join me as I share personal stories and insights, exploring the importance of submitting your parent input ahead of time, understanding the structure of these meetings, and cultivating a collaborative mindset. These strategies are not just about surviving the meeting but turning them into a platform where your child's strengths are celebrated and their needs are understood.<br /><br />Listen in for step-by-step advice on creating a neuro-affirming environment that promotes success and confidence for your child. I'll guide you through the crucial elements that foster teamwork between you and the school, all while reinforcing a sense of hope and progress.<br /><br />With experience as a parenting coach and mindset advocate, I am devoted to helping parents like you build a supportive, understanding ecosystem for your neurodivergent kids. Tune in and let's work towards transforming challenges into pathways for success together.<br /><br />Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an episode filled with empathy, understanding, and actionable tips for your beautifully complex journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2379</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>504plan,beautifullycomplexpodcast,educationaladvocate,executivefunctioning,iep,neurodiversity,schoolaccomodations,schoolmeetings,studentrights,teachercollaboration</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>303</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>302: Break the Parenting Norms for Kids with ADHD, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/302-break-the-parenting-norms-for-kids-with-adhd-with-penny-williams--64503722</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing some of the powerful insights gathered from the Unlocking ADHD Summit. You’ll discover the importance of stepping outside the box to let your child's individual strengths shine, and learn how to lay the groundwork for a neuro-affirming, supportive environment and a strengths-based approach where your child can thrive.<br /><br />Join me as I share practical, step-by-step advice on harnessing your child's strengths to overcome challenges, creating a feeling of safety that supports learning and growth, and the crucial role of parental regulation in helping your child navigate their world. We cover transformative, actionable tips such as talking less, starting small to celebrate early wins, and focusing your energy on what you can control — all designed to empower both you and your child on this unique path.<br /><br />Together, we'll foster a mindset that not only values diversity but sees it as a source of profound strength. Listen in for expert guidance, reassurance, and a hopeful vision for your child’s future, where their individuality is not just accepted but celebrated. Embrace the journey with me as we unlock the potential within both you and your extraordinary child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/302" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/302</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64503722</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2025 01:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64503722/302_ag2.mp3" length="424034" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f/09147adb-978c-41b4-9597-882f8b16495f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing some of the powerful insights gathered from the Unlocking ADHD Summit. You’ll discover the importance of stepping outside the box to let your child's individual strengths shine, and learn how to lay...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing some of the powerful insights gathered from the Unlocking ADHD Summit. You’ll discover the importance of stepping outside the box to let your child's individual strengths shine, and learn how to lay the groundwork for a neuro-affirming, supportive environment and a strengths-based approach where your child can thrive.<br /><br />Join me as I share practical, step-by-step advice on harnessing your child's strengths to overcome challenges, creating a feeling of safety that supports learning and growth, and the crucial role of parental regulation in helping your child navigate their world. We cover transformative, actionable tips such as talking less, starting small to celebrate early wins, and focusing your energy on what you can control — all designed to empower both you and your child on this unique path.<br /><br />Together, we'll foster a mindset that not only values diversity but sees it as a source of profound strength. Listen in for expert guidance, reassurance, and a hopeful vision for your child’s future, where their individuality is not just accepted but celebrated. Embrace the journey with me as we unlock the potential within both you and your extraordinary child.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/302" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/302</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>27</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,beautifullycomplex,childregulation,neuroaffirming,neurodiversity,parentingneurodivergentkids,pennywilliams</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>302</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>301: Helping Neurodivergent Kids Crack the Code of Thriving in a Neurotypical World, with Matt Zakreski, PsyD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/301-helping-neurodivergent-kids-crack-the-code-of-thriving-in-a-neurotypical-world-with-matt-zakreski-psyd--64426287</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Dr. Matt Zakreski, who shares compelling strategies from his new book, "Neurodiversity Playbook." We discuss how important it is to create a neuro-affirming environment that celebrates authenticity while equipping our kids with the social skills to thrive in a neurotypical world. You’ll learn how to replace the worry of 'fitting in' with the confidence of 'standing out' in their own unique way.<br /><br />You'll gain step-by-step guidance on helping your child build a supportive community, fostering emotional growth while also growing their confidence and competence. With practical advice, we'll show you how to make those unspoken rules of social interaction more visible to level the playing field, ensuring your child feels safe, understood, and empowered.<br /><br />Tune in for a warm and supportive conversation that ensures you're not alone on this journey. Together, we'll foster a sense of hope and possibility, offering actionable tips to help your neurodivergent child crack the code of a complex world. Listen now and take the first step towards building a brighter future for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64426287</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2025 01:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64426287/301_helping_neurodivergent_kids_crack_the_code.mp3" length="27144924" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03/926c3d69-7238-4f51-9fd1-cd5413958b03.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Dr. Matt Zakreski, who shares compelling strategies from his new book, "Neurodiversity Playbook." We discuss how important it is to create a neuro-affirming environment that celebrates authenticity...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Dr. Matt Zakreski, who shares compelling strategies from his new book, "Neurodiversity Playbook." We discuss how important it is to create a neuro-affirming environment that celebrates authenticity while equipping our kids with the social skills to thrive in a neurotypical world. You’ll learn how to replace the worry of 'fitting in' with the confidence of 'standing out' in their own unique way.<br /><br />You'll gain step-by-step guidance on helping your child build a supportive community, fostering emotional growth while also growing their confidence and competence. With practical advice, we'll show you how to make those unspoken rules of social interaction more visible to level the playing field, ensuring your child feels safe, understood, and empowered.<br /><br />Tune in for a warm and supportive conversation that ensures you're not alone on this journey. Together, we'll foster a sense of hope and possibility, offering actionable tips to help your neurodivergent child crack the code of a complex world. Listen now and take the first step towards building a brighter future for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1701</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,beautifullycomplex,codeswitching,copingskills,mentalhealth,neurodivergentkids,parentingjourney,parentingstrategies,podcastrecommendations</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>301</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>300: 5 Myths That Hurt Neurodivergent Kids (And What to Do Instead!), with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/300-5-myths-that-hurt-neurodivergent-kids-and-what-to-do-instead-with-penny-williams--64245233</link><description><![CDATA[In this milestone 300th episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m going deep into the misconceptions that many of us face raising neurodivergent kids and that unjustly limit our children’s potential.<br /><br />Join me as I bust the top 5 myths that hurt neurodivergent kids and then provide strategies to challenge outdated thinking and empower your journey as a parent. We’ll tackle the misconception that neurodivergent kids just need to try harder, reveal why success doesn’t hinge on fitting in, and highlight the myriad paths to achieving a fulfilled life beyond traditional ideas. Learn why discipline isn't the answer and discover how advocating for accommodations can level the playing field, not create unfair advantages.<br /><br />In this episode, you’ll find practical, step-by-step advice to build a neuro-affirming environment, encouraging your child to be authentically themselves. By recognizing and celebrating strengths, we can foster a sense of self-trust and inspire hope for a bright future.<br /><br />Whether you’re looking for validation, guidance, or actionable tips, this episode is your go-to resource for fostering success and understanding for neurodivergent children. Let’s equip ourselves with the tools to support our kids right where they are and navigate the beautifully complex world of neurodivergence together.<br /><br />Tune in and transform your parenting mindset with expertise honed from personal experience and the trenches of neurodivergent parenting.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/300" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/300</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64245233</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2025 01:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64245233/300_5_myths_that_hurst_neurodivergent_kids.mp3" length="22419893" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06/21e31eeb-0a9a-42a3-924b-f7dc9d0f5a06.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this milestone 300th episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m going deep into the misconceptions that many of us face raising neurodivergent kids and that unjustly limit our children’s potential.

Join me as I bust the top 5 myths that hurt...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this milestone 300th episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m going deep into the misconceptions that many of us face raising neurodivergent kids and that unjustly limit our children’s potential.<br /><br />Join me as I bust the top 5 myths that hurt neurodivergent kids and then provide strategies to challenge outdated thinking and empower your journey as a parent. We’ll tackle the misconception that neurodivergent kids just need to try harder, reveal why success doesn’t hinge on fitting in, and highlight the myriad paths to achieving a fulfilled life beyond traditional ideas. Learn why discipline isn't the answer and discover how advocating for accommodations can level the playing field, not create unfair advantages.<br /><br />In this episode, you’ll find practical, step-by-step advice to build a neuro-affirming environment, encouraging your child to be authentically themselves. By recognizing and celebrating strengths, we can foster a sense of self-trust and inspire hope for a bright future.<br /><br />Whether you’re looking for validation, guidance, or actionable tips, this episode is your go-to resource for fostering success and understanding for neurodivergent children. Let’s equip ourselves with the tools to support our kids right where they are and navigate the beautifully complex world of neurodivergence together.<br /><br />Tune in and transform your parenting mindset with expertise honed from personal experience and the trenches of neurodivergent parenting.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/300" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/300</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1405</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acceptance,accommodations,adhd,autism,behavior,children's,discipline,education,emotional,executive,functioning,myths,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,resilience,scaffolding,strengths,success,support</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>300</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>299: How to Create a Strengths-Based Culture of Learning, with Julia Black</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/299-how-to-create-a-strengths-based-culture-of-learning-with-julia-black--63910813</link><description><![CDATA[What if you could ignite your child's inner spark and unlock their boundless potential? In this episode, Julia Black, founder of Lights on Learning, shares her groundbreaking approach to unleashing creativity and fostering a love of learning in neurodivergent kids. Discover how focusing on what lights your child up can lead to lifelong confidence and success.<br /><br />Key Topics:<br /><ul><li>The transformative power of "heart set," "mindset," and "skill set" in learning.</li><li>How to identify what switches your child’s “lights on” for deeper engagement.</li><li>Practical tools for creating a strengths-based culture of learning at home and in classrooms.</li></ul>This episode will leave you inspired to reimagine your child’s learning journey, giving you the tools and hope to unlock the potential within. Don’t miss this opportunity to transform how you support their learning and growth — tune in now!<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/299" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/299.</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63910813</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Feb 2025 01:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63910813/299_unleashing_your_child_s_creative_energy.mp3" length="27528648" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7/fb6aa967-4507-4cc4-9dd3-5d20b20eefa7.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if you could ignite your child's inner spark and unlock their boundless potential? In this episode, Julia Black, founder of Lights on Learning, shares her groundbreaking approach to unleashing creativity and fostering a love of learning in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if you could ignite your child's inner spark and unlock their boundless potential? In this episode, Julia Black, founder of Lights on Learning, shares her groundbreaking approach to unleashing creativity and fostering a love of learning in neurodivergent kids. Discover how focusing on what lights your child up can lead to lifelong confidence and success.<br /><br />Key Topics:<br /><ul><li>The transformative power of "heart set," "mindset," and "skill set" in learning.</li><li>How to identify what switches your child’s “lights on” for deeper engagement.</li><li>Practical tools for creating a strengths-based culture of learning at home and in classrooms.</li></ul>This episode will leave you inspired to reimagine your child’s learning journey, giving you the tools and hope to unlock the potential within. Don’t miss this opportunity to transform how you support their learning and growth — tune in now!<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/299" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/299.</a><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1725</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>classroomstrategies,creativelearning,emotionalregulation,heartset,learningstyles,mindset,neurodivergentkids,neurodivergentparenting,parentingtips,skillset,strenghtsbasedlearning</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>299</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>298: Why We Need to Stop Criminalizing Neurodivergent Behavior, with Sarah Templeton</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/298-why-we-need-to-stop-criminalizing-neurodivergent-behavior-with-sarah-templeton--63909912</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the critical issues surrounding neurodivergence and criminalization with ADHD author and activist Sarah Templeton. Sarah shares her powerful experience working with individuals in the prison system and the critical need for early ADHD screening.<br /><br />Key topics include:<br /><ul><li>The alarming criminalization of neurodivergent behavior, particularly for individuals with ADHD.</li><li>The urgent need for early ADHD screening to prevent misunderstandings and punitive consequences.</li><li>How misdiagnoses and lack of understanding lead neurodivergent individuals down a troubling path.</li><li>Proactive, compassionate strategies to break the school-to-prison pipeline and create supportive systems for complex kids and adults.</li></ul>If you are interested in reducing the school-to-prison pipeline and ensuring all children and adults are understood and supported, this conversation is a must-listen.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/298" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/298</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63909912</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63909912/298_stop_criminalizing_nd_behavior.mp3" length="38084073" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023/4d42c435-481e-412d-a472-fc7f47d85023.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the critical issues surrounding neurodivergence and criminalization with ADHD author and activist Sarah Templeton. Sarah shares her powerful experience working with individuals in the prison system and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the critical issues surrounding neurodivergence and criminalization with ADHD author and activist Sarah Templeton. Sarah shares her powerful experience working with individuals in the prison system and the critical need for early ADHD screening.<br /><br />Key topics include:<br /><ul><li>The alarming criminalization of neurodivergent behavior, particularly for individuals with ADHD.</li><li>The urgent need for early ADHD screening to prevent misunderstandings and punitive consequences.</li><li>How misdiagnoses and lack of understanding lead neurodivergent individuals down a troubling path.</li><li>Proactive, compassionate strategies to break the school-to-prison pipeline and create supportive systems for complex kids and adults.</li></ul>If you are interested in reducing the school-to-prison pipeline and ensuring all children and adults are understood and supported, this conversation is a must-listen.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/298" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/298</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2386</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,adhdandaddiction,adhddiagnosis,adhdscreening,behaviormanagement,dyslexia,educationalstrategies,emotionalregulation,neurodivergent,neurodivergentchildren,neurodiversity,parentingadhd,prisonreform,schooltoprisonpipeline,specialeducation,teachertraining</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>298</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>297: How to Talk to Neurodivergent Kids about Sexuality, with Amy Lang MA</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/297-how-to-talk-to-neurodivergent-kids-about-sexuality-with-amy-lang-ma--63694868</link><description><![CDATA[LISTENER NOTE: We openly discuss body parts, sex, and sexuality in this episode. You likely want to listen where you child cannot hear it.Feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to handle complex topics like sexuality and relationships with your neurodivergent kid? In this episode, I sit down with Amy Lang, MA, founder of Birds &amp; Bees &amp; Kids and a seasoned expert in sexual health education, specializing in neurodivergence.<br /><br />Together, we discuss essential topics like:<br /><ul><li>How neurodivergent kids and teens process social cues and navigate puberty.</li><li>Addressing the stark reality of porn exposure and providing age-appropriate, explicit information about sex.</li><li>Strategies for open, shame-free communication with your child about their experiences and discoveries.</li><li>The importance of creating a supportive environment for exploring gender identity and sexual orientation.</li></ul>This episode is packed with practical, step-by-step advice, from tailoring your conversations to suit your child's learning style, to using clear language that fosters safety and understanding. Amy offers actionable tips to help you build a neuro-affirming, trusting dialogue with your kid. We believe that with the right guidance, every conversation about these delicate topics can be a stepping stone to a more connected and confident relationship with your child.<br /><br />Listen in for hope, inspiration, and the tools you need to navigate these conversations with confidence and compassion.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63694868</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63694868/297_talking_about_sexuality_with_neurodivergent_kids.mp3" length="37915206" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745/b36d7053-cfbf-4213-9314-0b5a5e508745.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>LISTENER NOTE: We openly discuss body parts, sex, and sexuality in this episode. You likely want to listen where you child cannot hear it.Feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to handle complex topics like sexuality and relationships with your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[LISTENER NOTE: We openly discuss body parts, sex, and sexuality in this episode. You likely want to listen where you child cannot hear it.Feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to handle complex topics like sexuality and relationships with your neurodivergent kid? In this episode, I sit down with Amy Lang, MA, founder of Birds &amp; Bees &amp; Kids and a seasoned expert in sexual health education, specializing in neurodivergence.<br /><br />Together, we discuss essential topics like:<br /><ul><li>How neurodivergent kids and teens process social cues and navigate puberty.</li><li>Addressing the stark reality of porn exposure and providing age-appropriate, explicit information about sex.</li><li>Strategies for open, shame-free communication with your child about their experiences and discoveries.</li><li>The importance of creating a supportive environment for exploring gender identity and sexual orientation.</li></ul>This episode is packed with practical, step-by-step advice, from tailoring your conversations to suit your child's learning style, to using clear language that fosters safety and understanding. Amy offers actionable tips to help you build a neuro-affirming, trusting dialogue with your kid. We believe that with the right guidance, every conversation about these delicate topics can be a stepping stone to a more connected and confident relationship with your child.<br /><br />Listen in for hope, inspiration, and the tools you need to navigate these conversations with confidence and compassion.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2376</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bodyawareness,boundaries,compulsivebehavior,consenteducation,exploitationprevention,genderidentity,lgbtq+,mentalhealth,neurodivergentkids,neurodiversity,opencommunication,parentalguidance,parentalsupport,parentingstrategies,pornexposure,puberty,relationshipeducation,screentimecontrol,sexuality,socialcues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>297</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>296: Supporting Executive Function: Strategies for Managing Daily Tasks, with Carrie Bonnett</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/296-supporting-executive-function-strategies-for-managing-daily-tasks-with-carrie-bonnett--63607300</link><description><![CDATA[Ever feel like you're fighting an uphill battle when it comes to helping your child manage everyday tasks? Do you worry that your neurodivergent child may not be able to navigate the complexities of life independently? There's hope! In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we're diving deep into practical strategies for supporting executive functioning in our unique kids, making daunting tasks more approachable and fostering resilience.<br /><br />I'm thrilled to be joined by executive functioning expert, Carrie Bonnett. Together, we'll explore:<ul><li>Breaking assignments into smaller, manageable parts to aid task initiation and alleviate overwhelm.</li><li>Effective techniques to control impulsive behaviors and enhance emotional control.</li><li>Utilizing visual aids to support smoother routines and reduce daily chaos.</li><li>The importance of celebrating small wins to boost confidence and counteract negative feedback.</li></ul>Creating a supportive, neuro-affirming environment is key to unlocking your child's potential. We'll guide you through actionable, step-by-step advice to help you set up strategies and supports, enabling your child to gradually function independently and thrive.<br /><br />Tune in to this episode for a compassionate, practical guide to transforming daily struggles into opportunities for growth and connection. Let's work together to turn worry into hope and frustration into success.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles; it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/295" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/295</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63607300</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63607300/296_supporting_executive_functioning_in_the_day_to_day.mp3" length="28705763" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313/6e134fce-42c9-4b3a-8a53-11e08c577313.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever feel like you're fighting an uphill battle when it comes to helping your child manage everyday tasks? Do you worry that your neurodivergent child may not be able to navigate the complexities of life independently? There's hope! In this episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever feel like you're fighting an uphill battle when it comes to helping your child manage everyday tasks? Do you worry that your neurodivergent child may not be able to navigate the complexities of life independently? There's hope! In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we're diving deep into practical strategies for supporting executive functioning in our unique kids, making daunting tasks more approachable and fostering resilience.<br /><br />I'm thrilled to be joined by executive functioning expert, Carrie Bonnett. Together, we'll explore:<ul><li>Breaking assignments into smaller, manageable parts to aid task initiation and alleviate overwhelm.</li><li>Effective techniques to control impulsive behaviors and enhance emotional control.</li><li>Utilizing visual aids to support smoother routines and reduce daily chaos.</li><li>The importance of celebrating small wins to boost confidence and counteract negative feedback.</li></ul>Creating a supportive, neuro-affirming environment is key to unlocking your child's potential. We'll guide you through actionable, step-by-step advice to help you set up strategies and supports, enabling your child to gradually function independently and thrive.<br /><br />Tune in to this episode for a compassionate, practical guide to transforming daily struggles into opportunities for growth and connection. Let's work together to turn worry into hope and frustration into success.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com</a> and <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a> — because it’s not just about the struggles; it’s about progress, one step at a time.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/295" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/295</a>.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1799</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdsupport,childdevelopment,chunkingtasks,copingstrategies,emotionalcontrol,executivefunctioning,executivefunctionskills,homeworkstrategies,impulsecontrol,mentalhealth,mindfulness,morningroutines,neurodivergentchildren,parentingadhd,parentingtips,regulationtechniques,schoolsuccess,taskmanagement,timemanagement,visualaids</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>296</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>295: Transforming Your Stream of Consciousness to Make Room for Joy in 2025</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/295-transforming-your-stream-of-consciousness-to-make-room-for-joy-in-2025--63607129</link><description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself asking, "Why is this happening to me? Why my kid?" It’s okay to feel this way, and I’m here to tell you that you have the power to transform these frustrations into opportunities for joy and growth.<br /><br />In this episode I will guide you through the journey of shifting your mindset to make room for joy in your life and in your child’s. From being overwhelmed by a sense of victimhood to reclaiming your narrative, I share my personal experiences and proven strategies that have helped me and many other parents.<br /><br />Together, we will cover:<ul><li>How to recognize and challenge a victim mindset, making space for a survivor mentality.</li><li>The neutrality of circumstances and how changing our narrative around them can reduce emotional strain.</li><li>Practical steps for managing and reframing negative thoughts to build resilience and find joy in everyday moments.</li><li>Techniques to harness the power of gratitude and self-compassion to foster a nurturing environment for both you and your child.</li></ul>By tuning in, you’ll gain practical, step-by-step advice designed to help you manage your thoughts purposefully, fostering a neuro-affirming environment where your child can thrive. My warm and supportive approach provides the empathetic guidance you need to feel understood and reassured.<br /><br />So join me on this transformative journey. Discover how to reclaim your power, inspire hope, and cultivate an atmosphere of joy and resilience. Listen in for actionable tips that will change not just your mindset, but the entire dynamic of your family life.<br /><br />Please subscribe and share this episode with other parents who might benefit. Together, we can transform our thinking and make room for the joy that every family deserves.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/295" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/295</a>.<br /><br />Check out the <a href="https://regulatedkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids Project</a> at <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a>!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63607129</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63607129/295_transforming_your_stream_of_consciousness_to_make_room_for_joy.mp3" length="27560695" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217/13fbf369-6199-46a7-97fe-249675616217.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you find yourself asking, "Why is this happening to me? Why my kid?" It’s okay to feel this way, and I’m here to tell you that you have the power to transform these frustrations into opportunities for joy and growth.

In this episode I will guide...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you find yourself asking, "Why is this happening to me? Why my kid?" It’s okay to feel this way, and I’m here to tell you that you have the power to transform these frustrations into opportunities for joy and growth.<br /><br />In this episode I will guide you through the journey of shifting your mindset to make room for joy in your life and in your child’s. From being overwhelmed by a sense of victimhood to reclaiming your narrative, I share my personal experiences and proven strategies that have helped me and many other parents.<br /><br />Together, we will cover:<ul><li>How to recognize and challenge a victim mindset, making space for a survivor mentality.</li><li>The neutrality of circumstances and how changing our narrative around them can reduce emotional strain.</li><li>Practical steps for managing and reframing negative thoughts to build resilience and find joy in everyday moments.</li><li>Techniques to harness the power of gratitude and self-compassion to foster a nurturing environment for both you and your child.</li></ul>By tuning in, you’ll gain practical, step-by-step advice designed to help you manage your thoughts purposefully, fostering a neuro-affirming environment where your child can thrive. My warm and supportive approach provides the empathetic guidance you need to feel understood and reassured.<br /><br />So join me on this transformative journey. Discover how to reclaim your power, inspire hope, and cultivate an atmosphere of joy and resilience. Listen in for actionable tips that will change not just your mindset, but the entire dynamic of your family life.<br /><br />Please subscribe and share this episode with other parents who might benefit. Together, we can transform our thinking and make room for the joy that every family deserves.<br /><br />Show notes and more resources at <a href="https://parentingadhdandautism.com/295" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/295</a>.<br /><br />Check out the <a href="https://regulatedkids.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids Project</a> at <a href="https://www.notion.so/1286dd5454258030a412e376595bf094?pvs=21" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regulated Kids.com</a>!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1727</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cognitivereframing,emotionalresilience,emotionalwellness,groundingexercises,happiness,intentionality,meutralityofcircumstances,mindset,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentingsupport,positivity,selfcompassion,survivormindset,thoughtmanagement,victimmindset</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>295</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>294: Introducing the Regulated Kids Project</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/294-introducing-the-regulated-kids-project--63521547</link><description><![CDATA[Are you exhausted from navigating the emotional storms and meltdowns that come with raising a neurodivergent child? Do you sometimes feel like every traditional parenting strategy has led you to a dead-end, leaving you worried about your child's future and overwhelmed by the daily chaos? You're not alone.<br /><br />In this episode, I'll share my personal and professional journey as a parenting coach and a mom of a neurodivergent kid. I've spent years in the trenches, facing the same challenges you do, and I'm here to tell you there's hope and a path to a fulfilling, peaceful family life.<br /><br />Join me as I introduce the Regulated Kids Project, a transformative community focused on teaching regulation and emotional intelligence skills to help your neurodivergent child thrive. In this episode, we'll cover:<ul><li>Insights into why traditional parenting advice often falls short for complex kids.</li><li>The critical role of regulation and emotional intelligence in lifelong success.</li><li>An overview of the tools and resources available within the Regulated Kids Project, including quick wins lessons, live community support, expert webinars, and the innovative Lumi Bot.</li></ul>Listen in for practical, step-by-step advice designed with busy, overwhelmed parents in mind. Discover how to weave small, manageable activities into your daily routine, fostering a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child.<br /><br />If you're ready to move beyond the frustration and create a connected, calm, and confident family life, this episode is for you. Let's embark on this journey together. Tune in and start building the foundation for your child's lifelong success today.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63521547</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jan 2025 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63521547/294_ntroducing_the_regulated_kids_project.mp3" length="24191726" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c/bc1ac9ba-deb7-4018-95cd-465e55a9c79c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you exhausted from navigating the emotional storms and meltdowns that come with raising a neurodivergent child? Do you sometimes feel like every traditional parenting strategy has led you to a dead-end, leaving you worried about your child's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you exhausted from navigating the emotional storms and meltdowns that come with raising a neurodivergent child? Do you sometimes feel like every traditional parenting strategy has led you to a dead-end, leaving you worried about your child's future and overwhelmed by the daily chaos? You're not alone.<br /><br />In this episode, I'll share my personal and professional journey as a parenting coach and a mom of a neurodivergent kid. I've spent years in the trenches, facing the same challenges you do, and I'm here to tell you there's hope and a path to a fulfilling, peaceful family life.<br /><br />Join me as I introduce the Regulated Kids Project, a transformative community focused on teaching regulation and emotional intelligence skills to help your neurodivergent child thrive. In this episode, we'll cover:<ul><li>Insights into why traditional parenting advice often falls short for complex kids.</li><li>The critical role of regulation and emotional intelligence in lifelong success.</li><li>An overview of the tools and resources available within the Regulated Kids Project, including quick wins lessons, live community support, expert webinars, and the innovative Lumi Bot.</li></ul>Listen in for practical, step-by-step advice designed with busy, overwhelmed parents in mind. Discover how to weave small, manageable activities into your daily routine, fostering a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child.<br /><br />If you're ready to move beyond the frustration and create a connected, calm, and confident family life, this episode is for you. Let's embark on this journey together. Tune in and start building the foundation for your child's lifelong success today.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1516</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>behaviormanagement,childdevelopment,emotionalintelligence,familytransformation,meltdowns,neurodivergentkids,parenting,parentingadvice,parentingcommunity,parentingsupport,parentingtechniques,regulatedkidsproject,selfregulation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>294</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>293: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/293-pathological-demand-avoidance-pda-with-casey-ehrlich-ph-d--63345092</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I sit down with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D. to discuss the unique challenges of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and offer heartfelt guidance and practical strategies to help you and your child thrive.<br /><br />Key Topics Covered:<ul><li>Understanding PDA and why conventional parenting methods often fall short.</li><li>How to separate yourself from societal judgment and trust your instincts.</li><li>Building a supportive and neuro-affirming environment tailored to your child's needs.</li><li>Strategies for enhancing autonomy and reducing stress for PDA children.</li><li>Real-world examples and actionable tips to foster resilience and safety for your child.</li></ul>Join us for an eye-opening conversation that offers step-by-step advice on how to adapt your parenting approach to meet the unique needs of your complex kid. You'll gain insights into creating a calm, supportive home environment where your child feels safe and understood, and discover the power of observing, adjusting, and connecting in ways that respect your child's neurodiversity.<br /><br />With warmth and empathy, this episode aims to reassure you that you're not at fault and there is hope. Together, we can cultivate an atmosphere of understanding and acceptance, paving the way for your child's success.<br /><br />Tune in now and take the first step towards a more harmonious and fulfilling parenting experience.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63345092</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63345092/293_pathological_demand_avoidance_rev_122324.mp3" length="40044817" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257/505dae61-1b8c-426a-83f5-a5ce62c6c257.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I sit down with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D. to discuss the unique challenges of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and offer heartfelt guidance and practical strategies to help you and your child thrive.

Key Topics Covered:
- Understanding...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I sit down with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D. to discuss the unique challenges of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and offer heartfelt guidance and practical strategies to help you and your child thrive.<br /><br />Key Topics Covered:<ul><li>Understanding PDA and why conventional parenting methods often fall short.</li><li>How to separate yourself from societal judgment and trust your instincts.</li><li>Building a supportive and neuro-affirming environment tailored to your child's needs.</li><li>Strategies for enhancing autonomy and reducing stress for PDA children.</li><li>Real-world examples and actionable tips to foster resilience and safety for your child.</li></ul>Join us for an eye-opening conversation that offers step-by-step advice on how to adapt your parenting approach to meet the unique needs of your complex kid. You'll gain insights into creating a calm, supportive home environment where your child feels safe and understood, and discover the power of observing, adjusting, and connecting in ways that respect your child's neurodiversity.<br /><br />With warmth and empathy, this episode aims to reassure you that you're not at fault and there is hope. Together, we can cultivate an atmosphere of understanding and acceptance, paving the way for your child's success.<br /><br />Tune in now and take the first step towards a more harmonious and fulfilling parenting experience.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2509</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,behavioralstrategies,caseyehrlich,childautonomy,childpsychology,crisismanagement,developmentalpsychology,emotionalsupport,gentleparenting,nervoussystem,neurodiversity,parentaljudgment,parentingspecialneeds,parentingtechniques,parentsupport,pathologicaldemandavoidance,pda,resiliencebuilding,sensoryprocessing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>292: Representing Neurodivergence in Kid’s Media, with Deborah Farmer Kris</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/292-representing-neurodivergence-in-kid-s-media-with-deborah-farmer-kris--63010856</link><description><![CDATA[Do you worry that your neurodivergent child might not see themselves represented in the stories they love? If you’ve ever felt this way, this episode of Beautifully Complex is just what you need.<br /><br />I'm Penny Williams, your host and fellow parent navigating the beautifully complex world of neurodivergence. In this episode, I sit down with Deborah Farmer Kris to discuss the heartfelt and eye-opening representation of neurodivergent characters in children’s media — a subject that touches deeply on both our worries and hopes for our kids.<br /><br />We’re unpacking an inspiring new PBS Kids show, Carl the Collector, which beautifully portrays neurodivergent characters in ways that resonate with everyday realities. From an autistic raccoon who finds comfort in collecting, to a girl musician on the spectrum labeled "headphone girl," these characters’ journeys offer profound lessons in empathy and acceptance.<br /><br />Tune in as we explore some scenes from Carl the Collector and what we can learn from them:<ul><li>Heartwarming experiences of children overcoming teasing and bullying, evolving into genuine friendships.</li><li>Small, yet significant moments of neurodivergent behaviors — like “finger stim” or “tail stim” — that are portrayed without fanfare, normalizing differences.</li><li>Practical ways parents can utilize these media examples to spark conversations about neurodiversity and foster a more supportive home environment.</li></ul>Together, Deborah and I highlight the sensory-sensitive design of these shows, making them inclusive and affirming for all kids. We discuss how these positive portrayals can be a beacon of hope, not just for neurodivergent kids, but for all families striving for acceptance and understanding.<br /><br />Get inspired by actionable tips that will help you teach empathy, recognize strengths, and foster independence. Let's work together to build an inclusive world where every child feels seen, heard, and valued.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63010856</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2024 01:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63010856/292_representing_neurodivergence_in_kid_s_media.mp3" length="28582373" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab/6e645c37-4433-4fda-aacf-bb1f0753e1ab.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you worry that your neurodivergent child might not see themselves represented in the stories they love? If you’ve ever felt this way, this episode of Beautifully Complex is just what you need.

I'm Penny Williams, your host and fellow parent...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you worry that your neurodivergent child might not see themselves represented in the stories they love? If you’ve ever felt this way, this episode of Beautifully Complex is just what you need.<br /><br />I'm Penny Williams, your host and fellow parent navigating the beautifully complex world of neurodivergence. In this episode, I sit down with Deborah Farmer Kris to discuss the heartfelt and eye-opening representation of neurodivergent characters in children’s media — a subject that touches deeply on both our worries and hopes for our kids.<br /><br />We’re unpacking an inspiring new PBS Kids show, Carl the Collector, which beautifully portrays neurodivergent characters in ways that resonate with everyday realities. From an autistic raccoon who finds comfort in collecting, to a girl musician on the spectrum labeled "headphone girl," these characters’ journeys offer profound lessons in empathy and acceptance.<br /><br />Tune in as we explore some scenes from Carl the Collector and what we can learn from them:<ul><li>Heartwarming experiences of children overcoming teasing and bullying, evolving into genuine friendships.</li><li>Small, yet significant moments of neurodivergent behaviors — like “finger stim” or “tail stim” — that are portrayed without fanfare, normalizing differences.</li><li>Practical ways parents can utilize these media examples to spark conversations about neurodiversity and foster a more supportive home environment.</li></ul>Together, Deborah and I highlight the sensory-sensitive design of these shows, making them inclusive and affirming for all kids. We discuss how these positive portrayals can be a beacon of hope, not just for neurodivergent kids, but for all families striving for acceptance and understanding.<br /><br />Get inspired by actionable tips that will help you teach empathy, recognize strengths, and foster independence. Let's work together to build an inclusive world where every child feels seen, heard, and valued.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1791</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,bullying,carlthecollector,empathy,mentalhealth,neurodivergence,pbskids,selfregulation,sensorysensitivity,socialemotionallearning,teasing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>292</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>291: Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain, with Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/291-teaching-your-kid-to-harness-their-brain-with-anna-housley-juster-ph-d-licsw--63007439</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to episode 291 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where we’re discussing Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain with early childhood education consultant and mental health clinician Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW.<br /><br />In this episode, we’re getting to know the amygdala — that small but mighty part of the brain that plays a crucial role in our kids’ anxiety and stress responses. Together, we'll explore:<br /><ul><li>Understanding the Amygdala: What is it, and why is it so vital for our neurodivergent children and teens to grasp how it works.</li><li>Managing Anxiety: Step-by-step strategies to teach your kids how to identify and calm their emotional triggers.</li><li>Building Resilience: How knowledge about their brain can empower your kids and give them a sense of control over their emotions.</li><li>Creating a Neuro-Affirming Environment: Practical tips to foster a supportive and understanding home and school atmosphere.</li></ul>Join me as Dr. Juster breaks down these complex concepts into actionable, easy-to-follow steps. You’ll learn how to guide your kids in mastering their own brains, leading to better emotional regulation and a deeper sense of self-worth.<br /><br />Tune in for heartfelt conversations, real-life insights, and empowering advice tailored to parents like you — determined to help their unique kids thrive in a world that often doesn’t understand their complexity. Let's foster a neuro-affirming environment where our kids can truly shine.<br /><br />Subscribe and listen now for practical, compassionate guidance that will leave you feeling empowered, hopeful, and ready to tackle the beautiful complexities of parenting your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63007439</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2024 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63007439/291_teaching_your_kids_about_their_brain.mp3" length="26817990" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f/b643c9b8-f36c-4301-987d-28e32abb510f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to episode 291 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where we’re discussing Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain with early childhood education consultant and mental health clinician Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW.

In this episode, we’re...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to episode 291 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where we’re discussing Teaching Your Kid to Harness Their Brain with early childhood education consultant and mental health clinician Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW.<br /><br />In this episode, we’re getting to know the amygdala — that small but mighty part of the brain that plays a crucial role in our kids’ anxiety and stress responses. Together, we'll explore:<br /><ul><li>Understanding the Amygdala: What is it, and why is it so vital for our neurodivergent children and teens to grasp how it works.</li><li>Managing Anxiety: Step-by-step strategies to teach your kids how to identify and calm their emotional triggers.</li><li>Building Resilience: How knowledge about their brain can empower your kids and give them a sense of control over their emotions.</li><li>Creating a Neuro-Affirming Environment: Practical tips to foster a supportive and understanding home and school atmosphere.</li></ul>Join me as Dr. Juster breaks down these complex concepts into actionable, easy-to-follow steps. You’ll learn how to guide your kids in mastering their own brains, leading to better emotional regulation and a deeper sense of self-worth.<br /><br />Tune in for heartfelt conversations, real-life insights, and empowering advice tailored to parents like you — determined to help their unique kids thrive in a world that often doesn’t understand their complexity. Let's foster a neuro-affirming environment where our kids can truly shine.<br /><br />Subscribe and listen now for practical, compassionate guidance that will leave you feeling empowered, hopeful, and ready to tackle the beautiful complexities of parenting your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1680</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amygdala,anxiety,childeducation,childmentalhealth,childpsychology,cognitivebehavioraltherapy,coregulation,emotionalregulation,fightorflight,mentalhealthresources,mindfulness,neurodivergentkids,parenting,parentingstrategies,stressmanagement,threatresponse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>291</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>290: Practical Strategies for Reducing School Stress, with Ann Dolin M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/290-practical-strategies-for-reducing-school-stress-with-ann-dolin-m-ed--62728756</link><description><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed and worry that your neurodivergent kid isn’t getting the support they need? On this week's episode of Beautifully Complex, join me, Penny Williams, as I chat with Ann Dolin, M.Ed., about practical strategies to reduce school stress and promote independence in our children.<br /><br />From managing executive function difficulties to handling emotional ups and downs, we cover it all. Key topics include:<ul><li>Balancing support and independence.</li><li>Powerful questions to help your child prioritize tasks.</li><li>Visual tools and routines to enhance learning.</li><li>Breaking down tasks to manage overwhelm.</li></ul>Ann provides step-by-step advice to create a neuro-affirming environment at home and school. This episode offers hope and actionable tips to help your child feel capable and confident.<br /><br />Tune in for expert insights and heartfelt guidance on episode 290 of Beautifully Complex. Let's empower our kids to thrive.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62728756</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62728756/290_practical_strategies_for_reducing_school_stress.mp3" length="28989737" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854/95a7e045-fb37-42f6-8f31-f50a50b45854.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed and worry that your neurodivergent kid isn’t getting the support they need? On this week's episode of Beautifully Complex, join me, Penny Williams, as I chat with Ann Dolin, M.Ed., about practical strategies to reduce...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed and worry that your neurodivergent kid isn’t getting the support they need? On this week's episode of Beautifully Complex, join me, Penny Williams, as I chat with Ann Dolin, M.Ed., about practical strategies to reduce school stress and promote independence in our children.<br /><br />From managing executive function difficulties to handling emotional ups and downs, we cover it all. Key topics include:<ul><li>Balancing support and independence.</li><li>Powerful questions to help your child prioritize tasks.</li><li>Visual tools and routines to enhance learning.</li><li>Breaking down tasks to manage overwhelm.</li></ul>Ann provides step-by-step advice to create a neuro-affirming environment at home and school. This episode offers hope and actionable tips to help your child feel capable and confident.<br /><br />Tune in for expert insights and heartfelt guidance on episode 290 of Beautifully Complex. Let's empower our kids to thrive.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1816</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>academics,adhd,autism,beautifullycomplex,educationalsupport,executivefunction,homeworkstrategies,independenceinchildren,learningchallenges,managingschoolstress,parentingneurodivergentkids,skillgaps,subjectcomprehension,tutoring</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>290</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>289: Balancing Act: Teen Independence &amp; Parent Concerns, with Gabriele Nicolet, MA CCC-SLP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/289-balancing-act-teen-independence-parent-concerns-with-gabriele-nicolet-ma-ccc-slp--62677509</link><description><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily struggles and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a neurodivergent teen? Do you find yourself torn between nurturing their independence and managing your own worries and emotions? If this sounds familiar, you're not alone, and this episode of Beautifully Complex is just for you.<br /><br />In this heartfelt episode, I'm joined by the incredible Gabriele Nicolet, a seasoned speech-language pathologist and parent coach, to dive deep into the uniquely challenging world of parenting complex teens. Together, we explore:<br /><br />✨ The importance of validating both your child's and your own emotions, creating a space where feelings are acknowledged as valid and navigated in a healthy way..<br />✨ Strategies for balancing the critical roles of being a manager in your teen's life while transitioning towards a more supportive coaching role.<br />✨ The significance of building a neuro-affirming environment that embraces your teen’s individuality and empowers them to thrive.<br />✨ Practical tips for managing your own anxiety around your teen's risky behaviors and fostering healthier risk-taking behaviors.<br /><br />We know that real-life parenting doesn’t follow a script, and managing the whirlwind of emotions involved can be incredibly taxing. But, by hearing our experiences and insights, you'll gain validation, permission, and advice to help you navigate these challenges.<br /><br />Join us in this compassionate conversation where we emphasize the importance of support networks — whether friends, therapists, or coaches — and how prioritizing relationships over always being 'right' can profoundly impact your family's dynamic.<br /><br />You're doing the best you can, and this episode is designed to give you the tools and reassurance you need to keep moving forward. Tune in to Episode 289 to find hope, actionable steps, and the encouragement to build a nurturing, neuro-affirming environment for your teen.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62677509</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2024 01:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62677509/289_teens.mp3" length="40255784" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46/fb456fe5-6655-462c-a2e6-f0dbdfacbd46.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily struggles and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a neurodivergent teen? Do you find yourself torn between nurturing their independence and managing your own worries and emotions? If this sounds familiar,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily struggles and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a neurodivergent teen? Do you find yourself torn between nurturing their independence and managing your own worries and emotions? If this sounds familiar, you're not alone, and this episode of Beautifully Complex is just for you.<br /><br />In this heartfelt episode, I'm joined by the incredible Gabriele Nicolet, a seasoned speech-language pathologist and parent coach, to dive deep into the uniquely challenging world of parenting complex teens. Together, we explore:<br /><br />✨ The importance of validating both your child's and your own emotions, creating a space where feelings are acknowledged as valid and navigated in a healthy way..<br />✨ Strategies for balancing the critical roles of being a manager in your teen's life while transitioning towards a more supportive coaching role.<br />✨ The significance of building a neuro-affirming environment that embraces your teen’s individuality and empowers them to thrive.<br />✨ Practical tips for managing your own anxiety around your teen's risky behaviors and fostering healthier risk-taking behaviors.<br /><br />We know that real-life parenting doesn’t follow a script, and managing the whirlwind of emotions involved can be incredibly taxing. But, by hearing our experiences and insights, you'll gain validation, permission, and advice to help you navigate these challenges.<br /><br />Join us in this compassionate conversation where we emphasize the importance of support networks — whether friends, therapists, or coaches — and how prioritizing relationships over always being 'right' can profoundly impact your family's dynamic.<br /><br />You're doing the best you can, and this episode is designed to give you the tools and reassurance you need to keep moving forward. Tune in to Episode 289 to find hope, actionable steps, and the encouragement to build a nurturing, neuro-affirming environment for your teen.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2522</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>copingstrategies,emotionalvalidation,emotionalwellbeing,empoweringteens,familydynamics,managinganxiety,managingriskybehavior,neurodivergent,parentalcontrol,parentingadvice,parentingchallenges,parentingteens,realisticparenting,selfvalidation,teenageyears,teenautonomy,teenindependence,trustbuilding,validatingemotion</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>289</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>288: 5 Reasons Why You Should Stop Trying to Control Your Kid, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/288-5-reasons-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-control-your-kid-with-penny-williams--62574762</link><description><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant need to control your child's behavior, only to find it leads to more frustration and distance? That it isn’t making anything better? You're not alone. Welcome to episode 288 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where host Penny Williams, a parenting coach and author, dives into the core of these common parenting pitfalls.<br /><br />In this enlightening episode, Penny unravels the five compelling reasons why letting go of control can be the key to your child's growth, and to your peace of mind. She explores how shifting from compliance-based to connection-based parenting can foster a stronger, more authentic bond with your child and how relinquishing control can foster their autonomy, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills.<br /><br />You'll discover:<ul><li>How a strong parent-child relationship, rooted in mutual respect and empathy, can have lasting, positive impacts.</li><li>The power of connection over compliance, and how it can dissolve power struggles and build trust.</li><li>Practical strategies to encourage your child's critical thinking and problem-solving abilities.</li><li>Ways to promote your child's autonomy to boost confidence, motivation, and self-esteem.</li><li>The importance of recognizing your child's unique individuality and supporting their self-discovery journey.</li></ul>Penny offers practical, step-by-step advice on building a neuro-affirming environment, equipping you with the tools and insights to foster resilience, curiosity, and confidence in your child. Join us for this warm, supportive, and insightful episode that will leave you feeling understood, reassured, and inspired.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62574762</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2024 01:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62574762/288_5_reasons_why.mp3" length="26769595" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1/7bffcd88-c440-405d-8a7c-2a266db9a3e1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant need to control your child's behavior, only to find it leads to more frustration and distance? That it isn’t making anything better? You're not alone. Welcome to episode 288 of the Beautifully Complex...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant need to control your child's behavior, only to find it leads to more frustration and distance? That it isn’t making anything better? You're not alone. Welcome to episode 288 of the Beautifully Complex podcast, where host Penny Williams, a parenting coach and author, dives into the core of these common parenting pitfalls.<br /><br />In this enlightening episode, Penny unravels the five compelling reasons why letting go of control can be the key to your child's growth, and to your peace of mind. She explores how shifting from compliance-based to connection-based parenting can foster a stronger, more authentic bond with your child and how relinquishing control can foster their autonomy, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills.<br /><br />You'll discover:<ul><li>How a strong parent-child relationship, rooted in mutual respect and empathy, can have lasting, positive impacts.</li><li>The power of connection over compliance, and how it can dissolve power struggles and build trust.</li><li>Practical strategies to encourage your child's critical thinking and problem-solving abilities.</li><li>Ways to promote your child's autonomy to boost confidence, motivation, and self-esteem.</li><li>The importance of recognizing your child's unique individuality and supporting their self-discovery journey.</li></ul>Penny offers practical, step-by-step advice on building a neuro-affirming environment, equipping you with the tools and insights to foster resilience, curiosity, and confidence in your child. Join us for this warm, supportive, and insightful episode that will leave you feeling understood, reassured, and inspired.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1677</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>beautifullycomplex,connectionovercompliance,coregulation,neurodivergentkids,parentingmindset,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>288</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>287: Stop Saying “It’s okay”, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/287-stop-saying-it-s-okay-with-penny-williams--62500207</link><description><![CDATA[Are you exhausted from the constant emotional ups and downs, the frustration of trying to connect with your neurodivergent child, and the worry about saying the “wrong” thing? You’re not alone, and there is hope. In this warm and supportive episode of Beautifully Complex, host Penny Williams dives deep into the transformative power of skill-building through everyday life experiences, the crucial role of emotional validation, and how to become a calming anchor for your child.<br /><br />This episode addresses the challenges many parents face, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating your child’s feelings to foster trust and emotional resilience. A seasoned parenting coach, author, and parent, Penny brings her personal journey of shifting from a reactive 'co-escalator' to a calm 'co-regulator,' offering invaluable insights and practical advice for navigating these intense moments.<br /><br />Tune in to discover:<br /><ul><li>How to use supportive phrases like "you're safe" or "we’ll get through this" to acknowledge your child's feelings without unintentionally dismissing them.</li><li>Strategies for practicing emotional regulation rather than reactive responses.</li><li>How validating your child's emotions can build emotional intelligence and help them manage their feelings more effectively.</li></ul>Penny also shares personal stories and insights influenced by media depictions, offering a relatable and heartfelt perspective that will resonate deeply. Learn how to model healthy responses to mistakes, and create a neuro-affirming environment that celebrates your child’s unique strengths.<br /><br />Join us for practical, step-by-step advice and actionable tips that will empower you to transform your family dynamics. This episode promises to offer not just reassurance, but real hope and tangible tools to help your neurodivergent child thrive. Listen in and find the support you’ve been looking for — because your journey doesn’t have to be solo.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62500207</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62500207/287_stop_saying_it_s_okay.mp3" length="28818324" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01/e6c3c782-baa1-46c7-bdae-93b466574c01.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you exhausted from the constant emotional ups and downs, the frustration of trying to connect with your neurodivergent child, and the worry about saying the “wrong” thing? You’re not alone, and there is hope. In this warm and supportive episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you exhausted from the constant emotional ups and downs, the frustration of trying to connect with your neurodivergent child, and the worry about saying the “wrong” thing? You’re not alone, and there is hope. In this warm and supportive episode of Beautifully Complex, host Penny Williams dives deep into the transformative power of skill-building through everyday life experiences, the crucial role of emotional validation, and how to become a calming anchor for your child.<br /><br />This episode addresses the challenges many parents face, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating your child’s feelings to foster trust and emotional resilience. A seasoned parenting coach, author, and parent, Penny brings her personal journey of shifting from a reactive 'co-escalator' to a calm 'co-regulator,' offering invaluable insights and practical advice for navigating these intense moments.<br /><br />Tune in to discover:<br /><ul><li>How to use supportive phrases like "you're safe" or "we’ll get through this" to acknowledge your child's feelings without unintentionally dismissing them.</li><li>Strategies for practicing emotional regulation rather than reactive responses.</li><li>How validating your child's emotions can build emotional intelligence and help them manage their feelings more effectively.</li></ul>Penny also shares personal stories and insights influenced by media depictions, offering a relatable and heartfelt perspective that will resonate deeply. Learn how to model healthy responses to mistakes, and create a neuro-affirming environment that celebrates your child’s unique strengths.<br /><br />Join us for practical, step-by-step advice and actionable tips that will empower you to transform your family dynamics. This episode promises to offer not just reassurance, but real hope and tangible tools to help your neurodivergent child thrive. Listen in and find the support you’ve been looking for — because your journey doesn’t have to be solo.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1806</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,anxiety,autism,calming,children,communication,dynamics,emotional,empathy,family,intelligence,neurodivergent,parenting,regulation,resilience,strategies,techniques,validation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>287</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>286: When an Anxious, Empathetic Nervous System is Confronted with Natural Disaster, Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/286-when-an-anxious-empathetic-nervous-system-is-confronted-with-natural-disaster-penny-williams--62467058</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you're caught in the eye of the storm? Trust me, you're not alone. Join Penny Williams in this profoundly personal episode of Beautifully Complex where she shares her experience living in Asheville, NC through the devastation Hurricane Helene brought, including the trials and triumphs of navigating this challenging time, both literal and metaphorical.<br /><br /><b>Inside This Episode:</b><ul><li>Community Resilience and Support: Helpers are always out there, ready to support you and your family.</li><li>Personal Reflections on Anxiety: Penny shares her personal story through a natural disaster, offering invaluable insights into the autonomic nervous system responses that your neurodivergent kid might also experience.</li><li>Recognizing Dysregulation: Feel in real time what brain fog from dysregulation and trauma might look like for your kid.</li></ul><b>Why You Should Listen:</b><br />If you’re seeking practical, step-by-step advice on how to build a neuro-affirming environment, this episode delivers. Penny, an expert in behavior, mindset, and fostering success for neurodivergent kids, offers clear guidance rooted in personal experience and professional expertise. Her stories of resilience and community support will inspire hope, while her actionable tips will provide you with the tools to navigate the unpredictability of everyday life.<br /><br />Tune in now and let us help you turn your family's stormy moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Together, we can build an environment where your child can thrive, even in the face of adversity.<br /><br />Visit the episode show notes at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/286" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/286</a> for additional resources, and stay connected by subscribing and sharing. Let's walk this beautifully complex path together.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62467058</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62467058/286_natural_disaster.mp3" length="53545168" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4/7d5d7f4d-d974-46f4-88f4-e012461c24c4.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel like you're caught in the eye of the storm? Trust me, you're not alone. Join Penny Williams in this profoundly personal episode of Beautifully Complex where she shares her experience living in Asheville, NC through the devastation...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you're caught in the eye of the storm? Trust me, you're not alone. Join Penny Williams in this profoundly personal episode of Beautifully Complex where she shares her experience living in Asheville, NC through the devastation Hurricane Helene brought, including the trials and triumphs of navigating this challenging time, both literal and metaphorical.<br /><br /><b>Inside This Episode:</b><ul><li>Community Resilience and Support: Helpers are always out there, ready to support you and your family.</li><li>Personal Reflections on Anxiety: Penny shares her personal story through a natural disaster, offering invaluable insights into the autonomic nervous system responses that your neurodivergent kid might also experience.</li><li>Recognizing Dysregulation: Feel in real time what brain fog from dysregulation and trauma might look like for your kid.</li></ul><b>Why You Should Listen:</b><br />If you’re seeking practical, step-by-step advice on how to build a neuro-affirming environment, this episode delivers. Penny, an expert in behavior, mindset, and fostering success for neurodivergent kids, offers clear guidance rooted in personal experience and professional expertise. Her stories of resilience and community support will inspire hope, while her actionable tips will provide you with the tools to navigate the unpredictability of everyday life.<br /><br />Tune in now and let us help you turn your family's stormy moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Together, we can build an environment where your child can thrive, even in the face of adversity.<br /><br />Visit the episode show notes at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com/286" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com/286</a> for additional resources, and stay connected by subscribing and sharing. Let's walk this beautifully complex path together.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3355</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,children,disaster,emotional,empathy,guilt,health,human,hurricane,impact,mental,natural,needs,neurodivergent,parenting,recovery,resilience,special,stress,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>286</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>285:  Creating an Environment that Works for Neurodivergent Kids, with Caroline Thor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/285-creating-an-environment-that-works-for-neurodivergent-kids-with-caroline-thor--62376262</link><description><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the endless clutter, frustrated by your child's attachment to their possessions, or worried about creating a clean, organized space for your neurodivergent child or teen? You are not alone, and help is here!<br /><br />In our latest episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Caroline Thor, a professional organizer and KonMari consultant with firsthand experience raising neurodivergent kids. We dive deep into the nuances of Creating an Environment that Works for Neurodivergent Kids, uncovering strategies that prioritize emotional well-being and security while fostering independence and confidence.<br /><br />Together, they explore:<ul><li>Techniques for helping kids evaluate their belongings and decide what truly matters to them.</li><li>Real-life stories, including Caroline's son’s inspiring decision to part with his beloved manga collection to fund a new interest.</li><li>Ways to infuse organizational tasks with joy and creativity, making tidying up less of a chore and more of an engaging activity.</li></ul>With practical, step-by-step advice, we emphasize the importance of personalizing organizational systems to meet the unique needs of neurodivergent kids. We stress the benefits of involving the whole family in maintaining communal spaces and creating routines that reduce overwhelm.<br /><br />Join us in this warm and supportive conversation that not only acknowledges the challenges but also celebrates the beautifully complex nature of neurodivergent kids. Discover actionable tips to build a neuro-affirming environment and feel inspired to implement new strategies for a harmonious home.<br /><br />Let Caroline guide you toward fostering a nurturing and organized space that embraces your child’s unique perspective. Tune in for empathetic insights and practical advice, and take the first step toward transforming your home into a haven of understanding and growth.<br /><br />Listen now to Episode 285 of Beautifully Complex and start creating an environment that truly works for your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62376262</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62376262/285_creating_an_environment_that_works_for_neurodivergent_kids.mp3" length="32999203" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8/590fc541-9aac-4683-a7b4-8bc4bbdc47c8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the endless clutter, frustrated by your child's attachment to their possessions, or worried about creating a clean, organized space for your neurodivergent child or teen? You are not alone, and help is here!

In our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the endless clutter, frustrated by your child's attachment to their possessions, or worried about creating a clean, organized space for your neurodivergent child or teen? You are not alone, and help is here!<br /><br />In our latest episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Caroline Thor, a professional organizer and KonMari consultant with firsthand experience raising neurodivergent kids. We dive deep into the nuances of Creating an Environment that Works for Neurodivergent Kids, uncovering strategies that prioritize emotional well-being and security while fostering independence and confidence.<br /><br />Together, they explore:<ul><li>Techniques for helping kids evaluate their belongings and decide what truly matters to them.</li><li>Real-life stories, including Caroline's son’s inspiring decision to part with his beloved manga collection to fund a new interest.</li><li>Ways to infuse organizational tasks with joy and creativity, making tidying up less of a chore and more of an engaging activity.</li></ul>With practical, step-by-step advice, we emphasize the importance of personalizing organizational systems to meet the unique needs of neurodivergent kids. We stress the benefits of involving the whole family in maintaining communal spaces and creating routines that reduce overwhelm.<br /><br />Join us in this warm and supportive conversation that not only acknowledges the challenges but also celebrates the beautifully complex nature of neurodivergent kids. Discover actionable tips to build a neuro-affirming environment and feel inspired to implement new strategies for a harmonious home.<br /><br />Let Caroline guide you toward fostering a nurturing and organized space that embraces your child’s unique perspective. Tune in for empathetic insights and practical advice, and take the first step toward transforming your home into a haven of understanding and growth.<br /><br />Listen now to Episode 285 of Beautifully Complex and start creating an environment that truly works for your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2068</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,children,clutter,emotional,family,kids,konmari,management,neurodivergent,organization,parenting,routines,support,wellbeing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>285</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>284: Motivation Myth Busters, with Wendy S. Grolnick, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/284-motivation-myth-busters-with-wendy-s-grolnick-ph-d--62119348</link><description><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily challenges of raising a neurodivergent child? Do you worry about how to motivate your kid and help them succeed, or perhaps you’re frustrated with the constant misunderstandings surrounding their unique needs? You are not alone, and there is hope.<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Dr. Wendy Grolnick and I dive into some myths about motivation that society often perpetuates.<br /><br />We discuss:<br /><ul><li>The essential differences between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, and why understanding this is crucial for your child’s growth.</li><li>How to create an environment that fosters true motivation by addressing the three core needs: autonomy, competence, and relatedness.</li><li>The detrimental effects of pressure and rewards on motivation, especially for neurodivergent kids.</li><li>Practical, step-by-step strategies to build a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child to thrive.</li></ul>Tune in for practical advice, emotionally supportive guidance, and scientifically-backed strategies designed to make everyday life a little easier for you and your kid. Listen now to unlock the secrets to understanding and nurturing your child’s motivation, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62119348</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62119348/284_motivation_myth_busters.mp3" length="27601937" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af/48b7906c-872f-4c63-938b-9191977bf1af.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily challenges of raising a neurodivergent child? Do you worry about how to motivate your kid and help them succeed, or perhaps you’re frustrated with the constant misunderstandings surrounding their unique needs?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you feeling overwhelmed by the daily challenges of raising a neurodivergent child? Do you worry about how to motivate your kid and help them succeed, or perhaps you’re frustrated with the constant misunderstandings surrounding their unique needs? You are not alone, and there is hope.<br /><br />In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Dr. Wendy Grolnick and I dive into some myths about motivation that society often perpetuates.<br /><br />We discuss:<br /><ul><li>The essential differences between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, and why understanding this is crucial for your child’s growth.</li><li>How to create an environment that fosters true motivation by addressing the three core needs: autonomy, competence, and relatedness.</li><li>The detrimental effects of pressure and rewards on motivation, especially for neurodivergent kids.</li><li>Practical, step-by-step strategies to build a neuro-affirming environment that empowers your child to thrive.</li></ul>Tune in for practical advice, emotionally supportive guidance, and scientifically-backed strategies designed to make everyday life a little easier for you and your kid. Listen now to unlock the secrets to understanding and nurturing your child’s motivation, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1730</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autonomy,child,children,competence,guidance,intrinsic,motivation,neurodivergent,parenting,psychology,relatedness,rewards,strategies,structure</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>202</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>283: We Need to Talk About Anxiety, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/283-we-need-to-talk-about-anxiety-with-penny-williams--61489728</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to support your child or teen through their anxiety? You’re not alone. As parents, we often face sleepless nights worrying: Are we doing enough to help them feel safe? Are we equipping them with the tools they need to conquer their fears?<br /><br />In this heartfelt episode, I shine a light on the often unsaid struggles parents face. Drawing from both personal insights and the latest expert advice, I reveal the real drivers behind our kid’s anxiety and what we, as parents, can do about it.<br /><br />Tune in as I unpack:<ul><li>The critical importance of connection in easing anxiety</li><li>How to address your own anxiety to better support your child</li><li>Practical strategies for teaching kids to navigate and overcome their anxious thoughts</li><li>Essential steps to build trust and resilience, creating a neuro-affirming and secure environment</li></ul>Join us for this powerful discussion aimed at providing you with practical, step-by-step advice. You’ll feel understood and reassured. Whether you're dealing with social anxiety, general anxiety, or specific fears, I’m offering actionable tips to build confidence and independence in your child.<br /><br />Listen now for guidance that will inspire hope and foster success while nurturing a loving, supportive home environment.<br /><br />Ready to turn anxiety into small wins for your child? Hit play and let me guide you through every step. Because when it comes to parenting anxious kids, you don’t have to do it alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61489728</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61489728/283_we_need_to_talk_about_anxiety_rev.mp3" length="22405710" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da/e6fd726d-a0e5-49ee-9d83-9d770d6996da.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to support your child or teen through their anxiety? You’re not alone. As parents, we often face sleepless nights worrying: Are we doing enough to help them feel safe? Are we equipping them with the tools...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to support your child or teen through their anxiety? You’re not alone. As parents, we often face sleepless nights worrying: Are we doing enough to help them feel safe? Are we equipping them with the tools they need to conquer their fears?<br /><br />In this heartfelt episode, I shine a light on the often unsaid struggles parents face. Drawing from both personal insights and the latest expert advice, I reveal the real drivers behind our kid’s anxiety and what we, as parents, can do about it.<br /><br />Tune in as I unpack:<ul><li>The critical importance of connection in easing anxiety</li><li>How to address your own anxiety to better support your child</li><li>Practical strategies for teaching kids to navigate and overcome their anxious thoughts</li><li>Essential steps to build trust and resilience, creating a neuro-affirming and secure environment</li></ul>Join us for this powerful discussion aimed at providing you with practical, step-by-step advice. You’ll feel understood and reassured. Whether you're dealing with social anxiety, general anxiety, or specific fears, I’m offering actionable tips to build confidence and independence in your child.<br /><br />Listen now for guidance that will inspire hope and foster success while nurturing a loving, supportive home environment.<br /><br />Ready to turn anxiety into small wins for your child? Hit play and let me guide you through every step. Because when it comes to parenting anxious kids, you don’t have to do it alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1404</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,autonomy,confidence,coping,emotional,health,management,mental,nervous,parenting,resilience,school,self-esteem,social,stability,strategies,stress,support,system,trauma</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>205</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>282: Single Parenting with Neurodivergent Kids, with Dr. Gila</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/282-single-parenting-with-neurodivergent-kids-with-dr-gila--61484122</link><description><![CDATA[Are you navigating the challenging, yet rewarding journey of single parenting a neurodivergent child? Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by societal expectations, struggling with feelings of guilt and isolation, or simply looking for practical advice to foster a nurturing environment for your unique family?<br /><br />In this empowering episode of Beautifully Complex, join host Penny Williams and special guest Dr. Gila — an experienced psychologist, single mom, parent coach, and neuropsychologist — as they explore the intricacies of single parenting with neurodivergent children.<br /><br />Together, they discuss the autonomy single parents have in shaping their relationship with their kids and provide a wealth of strategies and insights specifically tailored to meet the needs of neurodivergent kids. In this episode, you'll discover:<ul><li>Overcoming Common Challenges: Dr. Gila shares her personal journey and practical tips to help single parents break free from loneliness and societal stereotypes that frame single-parent homes as "broken."</li><li>Mindset and Mental Health: Explore the significant impact a parent’s mindset has on their child's well-being and how to adopt a positive, neuro-affirming perspective.</li><li>Real-Life Strategies: Learn how to manage stress effectively using Dr. Gila's "sink model," and hear about flexible, values-based approaches to navigate daily parenting challenges.</li><li>Community and Support: The importance of finding and forming supportive communities, both online and offline, to alleviate isolation and foster a sense of belonging.</li></ul>This episode is packed with practical, step-by-step advice aimed at helping you manage the complexities of single parenting while creating a positive, supportive, and adaptive environment for your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Penny brings her expertise in behavioral strategies and mindset shifts, ensuring parents feel seen, understood, and equipped with actionable tips to cultivate success in their children and themselves.<br /><br />Ready to transform your parenting experience and build a beautiful, neuro-affirming home? Tune in and discover the empowerment and support you deserve.<br /><br />Subscribe now and join us on this journey towards compassionate, empowered single parenting!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61484122</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61484122/282_single_parenting_with_neurodivergent_kids.mp3" length="42839552" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46/933220e5-9abc-4cd0-9d60-35cf8c6edd46.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you navigating the challenging, yet rewarding journey of single parenting a neurodivergent child? Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by societal expectations, struggling with feelings of guilt and isolation, or simply looking for practical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you navigating the challenging, yet rewarding journey of single parenting a neurodivergent child? Do you often find yourself overwhelmed by societal expectations, struggling with feelings of guilt and isolation, or simply looking for practical advice to foster a nurturing environment for your unique family?<br /><br />In this empowering episode of Beautifully Complex, join host Penny Williams and special guest Dr. Gila — an experienced psychologist, single mom, parent coach, and neuropsychologist — as they explore the intricacies of single parenting with neurodivergent children.<br /><br />Together, they discuss the autonomy single parents have in shaping their relationship with their kids and provide a wealth of strategies and insights specifically tailored to meet the needs of neurodivergent kids. In this episode, you'll discover:<ul><li>Overcoming Common Challenges: Dr. Gila shares her personal journey and practical tips to help single parents break free from loneliness and societal stereotypes that frame single-parent homes as "broken."</li><li>Mindset and Mental Health: Explore the significant impact a parent’s mindset has on their child's well-being and how to adopt a positive, neuro-affirming perspective.</li><li>Real-Life Strategies: Learn how to manage stress effectively using Dr. Gila's "sink model," and hear about flexible, values-based approaches to navigate daily parenting challenges.</li><li>Community and Support: The importance of finding and forming supportive communities, both online and offline, to alleviate isolation and foster a sense of belonging.</li></ul>This episode is packed with practical, step-by-step advice aimed at helping you manage the complexities of single parenting while creating a positive, supportive, and adaptive environment for your neurodivergent child.<br /><br />Penny brings her expertise in behavioral strategies and mindset shifts, ensuring parents feel seen, understood, and equipped with actionable tips to cultivate success in their children and themselves.<br /><br />Ready to transform your parenting experience and build a beautiful, neuro-affirming home? Tune in and discover the empowerment and support you deserve.<br /><br />Subscribe now and join us on this journey towards compassionate, empowered single parenting!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2684</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advice,children,community,emotional,empowerment,flexible,health,management,mental,mindset,mothers,neurodivergent,parental,parenting,self-care,single,stress,support,systems,well-being</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>282</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>281: Raising Healthy Gamers, with Dr. Alok Kanojia, MD MPH</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/281-raising-healthy-gamers-with-dr-alok-kanojia-md-mph--61192006</link><description><![CDATA[Are you tired of battling your kid over screen time and gaming habits, only to see your relationship suffer and the issues persist? In this episode of "Beautifully Complex," I welcome Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka, Dr. K), psychiatrist and President and Co-Founder of Healthy Gamer. As a recovering gaming addict himself, Dr. K offers a unique perspective on how to address and understand your child's gaming behaviors, with a particular focus on neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Dr. K shares actionable strategies and insights to help you foster a healthier relationship with your child while guiding them toward balanced gaming habits. You'll learn why neurodiverse children are drawn to the structure and clarity of virtual worlds and discover the importance of understanding their unique challenges. By aligning your child's motivations, using evidence-based techniques, and aiming for slow but sustainable changes, you can transform unhealthy gaming into a balanced part of a satisfying life. Join us to gain valuable tools and perspectives that will help you support your child's well-being and nurture a stronger, more understanding relationship.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61192006</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Sep 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61192006/281_raising_healthy_gamers.mp3" length="33526256" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0/c4f00f73-bc56-4070-a050-58a562e0fed0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you tired of battling your kid over screen time and gaming habits, only to see your relationship suffer and the issues persist? In this episode of "Beautifully Complex," I welcome Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka, Dr. K), psychiatrist and President and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you tired of battling your kid over screen time and gaming habits, only to see your relationship suffer and the issues persist? In this episode of "Beautifully Complex," I welcome Dr. Alok Kanojia (aka, Dr. K), psychiatrist and President and Co-Founder of Healthy Gamer. As a recovering gaming addict himself, Dr. K offers a unique perspective on how to address and understand your child's gaming behaviors, with a particular focus on neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Dr. K shares actionable strategies and insights to help you foster a healthier relationship with your child while guiding them toward balanced gaming habits. You'll learn why neurodiverse children are drawn to the structure and clarity of virtual worlds and discover the importance of understanding their unique challenges. By aligning your child's motivations, using evidence-based techniques, and aiming for slow but sustainable changes, you can transform unhealthy gaming into a balanced part of a satisfying life. Join us to gain valuable tools and perspectives that will help you support your child's well-being and nurture a stronger, more understanding relationship.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2101</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>beautifullycomplex,drk,gamingaddiction,healthygaming,mentalhealth,neurodivergent,parentingtips</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>281</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>280: Fostering Resilience in the Age of Uncertainty, with Tovah Klein, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/280-fostering-resilience-in-the-age-of-uncertainty-with-tovah-klein-ph-d--61019485</link><description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to help your child navigate the uncertainties of today's world? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m chatting with Tovah Klein, Ph.D., professor at Barnard College and director of the Center for Toddler Development, about fostering resilience in children during these challenging times. Dr. Klein emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting your child as they are, particularly when it comes to the unique needs of neurodivergent kids. You'll discover how to nurture resilience through everyday interactions and build strong, supportive relationships that help your child thrive.<br /><br />You’ll also learn practical strategies to help your children feel safe and secure in an ever-changing world. Dr. Klein discusses the significance of self-reflection for parents, managing personal anxieties, and modeling resilient behaviors. By offering self-compassion and recognizing your child's need for space and support, you can improve your parent-child relationship and guide your little ones through uncertainty with confidence and grace.<br /><br />We’re shining a light on the importance of self-care, adaptable parenting, and creating an environment where your child feels seen, heard, and understood. Tune in to gain valuable insights into becoming a resilient role model for your child and helping them succeed.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61019485</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61019485/280_fostering_resilience_in_the_age_of_uncertainty.mp3" length="28109867" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5/0653cfa4-951e-49f9-8715-ae3881853bb5.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you struggling to help your child navigate the uncertainties of today's world? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m chatting with Tovah Klein, Ph.D., professor at Barnard College and director of the Center for Toddler Development, about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you struggling to help your child navigate the uncertainties of today's world? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m chatting with Tovah Klein, Ph.D., professor at Barnard College and director of the Center for Toddler Development, about fostering resilience in children during these challenging times. Dr. Klein emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting your child as they are, particularly when it comes to the unique needs of neurodivergent kids. You'll discover how to nurture resilience through everyday interactions and build strong, supportive relationships that help your child thrive.<br /><br />You’ll also learn practical strategies to help your children feel safe and secure in an ever-changing world. Dr. Klein discusses the significance of self-reflection for parents, managing personal anxieties, and modeling resilient behaviors. By offering self-compassion and recognizing your child's need for space and support, you can improve your parent-child relationship and guide your little ones through uncertainty with confidence and grace.<br /><br />We’re shining a light on the importance of self-care, adaptable parenting, and creating an environment where your child feels seen, heard, and understood. Tune in to gain valuable insights into becoming a resilient role model for your child and helping them succeed.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1761</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,child,crisis,development,emotional,flexibility,management,neurodivergent,nurturing,parent-child,parenting,relationship,relationships,resilience,safety,self-care,self-reflection,support,trust,uncertainty</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>280</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>279: You Might Also Like: In It: Raising Kids who Learn Differently, from Understood.org</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/279-you-might-also-like-in-it-raising-kids-who-learn-differently-from-understood-org--61136596</link><description><![CDATA[This episode is a special collaboration with the "In It" podcast from <a href="http://understood.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Understood.org</a>, dedicated to families with children facing challenges like ADHD and dyslexia.<br /><br />We’re diving into a topic that many parents find both essential and perplexing — encouraging kids to care about personal hygiene. In It hosts, Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek, are joined by ADHD and Executive Function Coach Brendan Mahan, to explore practical strategies that can help make hygiene routines manageable for children with learning differences.<br /><br />Listen to uncover the reasons behind hygiene struggles, from sensory sensitivities to time management issues, and learn the importance of understanding children’s perspectives. Brendan shares actionable tips like using playlists for a gentler shower experience, employing tools like Alexa for reminders, and creating a cooperative approach to avoid power struggles.<br /><br />Let’s uncover how to pick our battles wisely and foster a healthy, respectful relationship with our kids when it comes to personal hygiene.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61136596</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61136596/279_understood_in_it.mp3" length="27123215" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001/665ed0f1-3e25-45f8-8776-ed878a0f5001.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode is a special collaboration with the "In It" podcast from http://understood.org/, dedicated to families with children facing challenges like ADHD and dyslexia.

We’re diving into a topic that many parents find both essential and perplexing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode is a special collaboration with the "In It" podcast from <a href="http://understood.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Understood.org</a>, dedicated to families with children facing challenges like ADHD and dyslexia.<br /><br />We’re diving into a topic that many parents find both essential and perplexing — encouraging kids to care about personal hygiene. In It hosts, Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek, are joined by ADHD and Executive Function Coach Brendan Mahan, to explore practical strategies that can help make hygiene routines manageable for children with learning differences.<br /><br />Listen to uncover the reasons behind hygiene struggles, from sensory sensitivities to time management issues, and learn the importance of understanding children’s perspectives. Brendan shares actionable tips like using playlists for a gentler shower experience, employing tools like Alexa for reminders, and creating a cooperative approach to avoid power struggles.<br /><br />Let’s uncover how to pick our battles wisely and foster a healthy, respectful relationship with our kids when it comes to personal hygiene.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1700</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,behavior,child,development,dynamics,executive,experiences,family,function,hygiene,management,parent-child,parenting,peer,personal,pressure,relationship,sensory,time,understoood.org</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>279</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>278: Helping Kids on the Spectrum Transition to Adulthood, with Shannon Urquiola</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/278-helping-kids-on-the-spectrum-transition-to-adulthood-with-shannon-urquiola--61018843</link><description><![CDATA[Navigating the transition to adulthood with your neurodivergent child can be overwhelming and fraught with uncertainties. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, my guest, Shannon Urquiola and I explore the critical aspects of preparing kids on the spectrum for adulthood, addressing common pain points like guardianship, financial planning, SSI, and vocational rehabilitation. You'll gain insights into crucial legal processes and the importance of starting early, as well as practical tips for ensuring your child’s needs are met.<br /><br />From understanding the guardianship process and navigating Social Security benefits to involving vocational rehab in IEP meetings, this episode covers the essential elements you need to consider. Shannon shares strategies to prepare your child for independence, highlights from her own experiences, and the importance of detailed documentation and early planning.<br /><br />By focusing on these key elements, you can better understand the steps needed to support your child’s journey into adulthood. Tune in to learn how to manage the emotional and logistical challenges and discover resources that can make this transition smoother for both you and your child. Don't miss this information-packed episode that provides valuable tools and encouragement for parents and guardians.<br /><br />Subscribe, share, and gain peace of mind knowing you're not alone in this journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61018843</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61018843/278_helping_kids_on_the_spectrum_transition_to_adulthood.mp3" length="31270732" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49/460ca9f2-5a14-4119-ae85-2c3698ec2b49.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Navigating the transition to adulthood with your neurodivergent child can be overwhelming and fraught with uncertainties. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, my guest, Shannon Urquiola and I explore the critical aspects of preparing kids on the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Navigating the transition to adulthood with your neurodivergent child can be overwhelming and fraught with uncertainties. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, my guest, Shannon Urquiola and I explore the critical aspects of preparing kids on the spectrum for adulthood, addressing common pain points like guardianship, financial planning, SSI, and vocational rehabilitation. You'll gain insights into crucial legal processes and the importance of starting early, as well as practical tips for ensuring your child’s needs are met.<br /><br />From understanding the guardianship process and navigating Social Security benefits to involving vocational rehab in IEP meetings, this episode covers the essential elements you need to consider. Shannon shares strategies to prepare your child for independence, highlights from her own experiences, and the importance of detailed documentation and early planning.<br /><br />By focusing on these key elements, you can better understand the steps needed to support your child’s journey into adulthood. Tune in to learn how to manage the emotional and logistical challenges and discover resources that can make this transition smoother for both you and your child. Don't miss this information-packed episode that provides valuable tools and encouragement for parents and guardians.<br /><br />Subscribe, share, and gain peace of mind knowing you're not alone in this journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1959</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adulthood,autism,disability,family,financial,guardianship,iep,needs,neurodivergent,planning,rehab,special,spectrum,ssdi,ssi,support,transition,trust,vocational</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>278</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>277:  Redefining ADHD for Neurodivergent Kids, with Elly Both</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/277-redefining-adhd-for-neurodivergent-kids-with-elly-both--60931445</link><description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to talk to your child about their ADHD diagnosis or seeking ways to reframe it positively? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I host an empowering conversation with Elly Both about her inspiring new children's book on ADHD. Elly shares her personal journey of being diagnosed later in life and how that revelation transformed her perspective. We explore how to harness ADHD traits like hyperfocus and creativity, and how these "superpowers" can be leveraged to help kids thrive.<br /><br />Join us as Elly discusses some essential strategies for positively communicating with your neurodivergent kid and fostering their unique strengths. You'll learn practical activities to help your child feel seen and understood. Elly’s genuine approach and experience will inspire you to reframe ADHD to open up new paths for your child's success.<br /><br />Tune in for a heartfelt and enlightening discussion that will empower you to embrace and nurture your child’s unique potential. Get ready to break down barriers, redefine ADHD, and discover the greatness within your child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60931445</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Aug 2024 00:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60931445/277_redefining_adhd_for_neurodivergent_kids.mp3" length="25983576" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371/cfaa01b9-3571-430e-8a05-6b59c7701371.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you struggling to talk to your child about their ADHD diagnosis or seeking ways to reframe it positively? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I host an empowering conversation with Elly Both about her inspiring new children's book on ADHD....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you struggling to talk to your child about their ADHD diagnosis or seeking ways to reframe it positively? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I host an empowering conversation with Elly Both about her inspiring new children's book on ADHD. Elly shares her personal journey of being diagnosed later in life and how that revelation transformed her perspective. We explore how to harness ADHD traits like hyperfocus and creativity, and how these "superpowers" can be leveraged to help kids thrive.<br /><br />Join us as Elly discusses some essential strategies for positively communicating with your neurodivergent kid and fostering their unique strengths. You'll learn practical activities to help your child feel seen and understood. Elly’s genuine approach and experience will inspire you to reframe ADHD to open up new paths for your child's success.<br /><br />Tune in for a heartfelt and enlightening discussion that will empower you to embrace and nurture your child’s unique potential. Get ready to break down barriers, redefine ADHD, and discover the greatness within your child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1628</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdawareness,adhdkids,beautifullycomplexpodcast,empowerment,neurodiversity,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentingtips,podcastepisode,superpowers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>277</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>276: Executive Function Rundown, with Seth Perler, M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/276-executive-function-rundown-with-seth-perler-m-ed--60807644</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling frustrated by your child's disorganization, falling grades, and struggles with time management? Tune in to this episode of Beautifully Complex, where Seth Perler, M.Ed. and I explore the crucial role of executive function skills in your child or teen's life. Seth likens these skills to learning guitar chords — they're not innate, but they can be developed with consistent practice. He offers heartfelt, practical advice for parents and educators to recognize and support kids facing EF challenges, emphasizing the importance of personalized strategies and compassionate understanding.<br /><br />Discover how improving executive function skills can significantly impact your child's brain development and overall success. Seth shares valuable insights on the influence of environmental factors and the need for supportive systems at home and school. Join us in redefining success and finding hope for a brighter future for your complex kid.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60807644</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60807644/276_executive_function_rundown.mp3" length="47052539" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8/23a22a7e-8b70-445f-a97b-5f191b87e7d8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling frustrated by your child's disorganization, falling grades, and struggles with time management? Tune in to this episode of Beautifully Complex, where Seth Perler, M.Ed. and I explore the crucial role of executive function skills in your child...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling frustrated by your child's disorganization, falling grades, and struggles with time management? Tune in to this episode of Beautifully Complex, where Seth Perler, M.Ed. and I explore the crucial role of executive function skills in your child or teen's life. Seth likens these skills to learning guitar chords — they're not innate, but they can be developed with consistent practice. He offers heartfelt, practical advice for parents and educators to recognize and support kids facing EF challenges, emphasizing the importance of personalized strategies and compassionate understanding.<br /><br />Discover how improving executive function skills can significantly impact your child's brain development and overall success. Seth shares valuable insights on the influence of environmental factors and the need for supportive systems at home and school. Join us in redefining success and finding hope for a brighter future for your complex kid.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1964</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,beautifullycomplex,education,emotionalwellbeing,executivefunction,learningjourney,neurodivergentkids,organizeyourlife,parenting,parentingtips,specialneeds</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>276</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>275: Starting Scared, with Chrysty Lockhart</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/275-starting-scared-with-chrysty-lockhart--60807266</link><description><![CDATA[Are you tired of letting fear hold you back? The key to moving beyond that is turning what you view as failure into stepping stones to success. And you can teach your kids the same. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Chrysty Lockhart, who shares her transformative journey from fearful to learning to push forward despite the fear. She emphasizes the importance of pushing through discomfort, offering valuable insights into embracing the mindset that failure moves us closer to success. Through heartfelt conversations, you'll learn how to build resilience, develop perseverance, and why stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to growth and joy.<br /><br />Moreover, this episode explores the art of balancing personal identity with parenting, especially as a parent of neurodivergent kids. We candidly discuss maintaining self-care, letting go of perfectionism, and the impactful role of emotional regulation in creating a harmonious home. With our personal stories and practical advice, you'll find encouragement to face challenges head-on, fostering a more empathetic and psychologically informed approach to parenting. This episode is a treasure trove of inspiration for anyone looking to overcome fear, find joy in challenging times, and create a positive environment for themselves and their family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60807266</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2024 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60807266/275_starting_scared.mp3" length="30318684" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca/db6097c7-df94-4d68-8598-a3719464b9ca.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you tired of letting fear hold you back? The key to moving beyond that is turning what you view as failure into stepping stones to success. And you can teach your kids the same. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Chrysty...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you tired of letting fear hold you back? The key to moving beyond that is turning what you view as failure into stepping stones to success. And you can teach your kids the same. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Chrysty Lockhart, who shares her transformative journey from fearful to learning to push forward despite the fear. She emphasizes the importance of pushing through discomfort, offering valuable insights into embracing the mindset that failure moves us closer to success. Through heartfelt conversations, you'll learn how to build resilience, develop perseverance, and why stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to growth and joy.<br /><br />Moreover, this episode explores the art of balancing personal identity with parenting, especially as a parent of neurodivergent kids. We candidly discuss maintaining self-care, letting go of perfectionism, and the impactful role of emotional regulation in creating a harmonious home. With our personal stories and practical advice, you'll find encouragement to face challenges head-on, fostering a more empathetic and psychologically informed approach to parenting. This episode is a treasure trove of inspiration for anyone looking to overcome fear, find joy in challenging times, and create a positive environment for themselves and their family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1900</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>beautifullycomplex,embracefailure,opencommunication,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentjourney,positiveparenting,resilience,selfcare,startingscared</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>275</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>274 Looking at Behavior Both Inside and Out, with Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/274-looking-at-behavior-both-inside-and-out-with-gabriele-nicolet-ma-ccc-slp--60752700</link><description><![CDATA[Do you find it challenging to stay calm and mindful when your child is having a tough time in public? Gabriele Nicolet and I explore understanding kid’s behavior from both behavioral and neurophysiological perspectives. Gabriele, a seasoned speech therapist and parent coach, shares invaluable insights into decoding what behaviors signify about a kid’s internal states and sensory needs. We discuss the importance of validating those needs without letting behavior spiral out of control, and offer practical strategies to co-regulate with your child.<br /><br />Throughout the episode, you'll gain a profound understanding of the critical balance between encouraging self-advocacy and addressing immediate behavioral issues, especially in kids facing neurodivergent challenges. Gabriele discusses why compliance is often overvalued while genuine self-efficacy starts from a child's early refusals and disagreements. You'll also hear personal anecdotes that bring these concepts to life, offering you relatable scenarios and practical advice for managing everything from sensory discomfort to school avoidance. Don't miss out on learning how to parent with empathy, understand the true roots of your child's behavior, and create a sense of safety and calm in both routine and challenging moments.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60752700</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jul 2024 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60752700/274_looking_at_behavior_both_inside_and_out_rev.mp3" length="45124298" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb/42d16d14-a538-486e-986a-78e7c119bcbb.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you find it challenging to stay calm and mindful when your child is having a tough time in public? Gabriele Nicolet and I explore understanding kid’s behavior from both behavioral and neurophysiological perspectives. Gabriele, a seasoned speech...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you find it challenging to stay calm and mindful when your child is having a tough time in public? Gabriele Nicolet and I explore understanding kid’s behavior from both behavioral and neurophysiological perspectives. Gabriele, a seasoned speech therapist and parent coach, shares invaluable insights into decoding what behaviors signify about a kid’s internal states and sensory needs. We discuss the importance of validating those needs without letting behavior spiral out of control, and offer practical strategies to co-regulate with your child.<br /><br />Throughout the episode, you'll gain a profound understanding of the critical balance between encouraging self-advocacy and addressing immediate behavioral issues, especially in kids facing neurodivergent challenges. Gabriele discusses why compliance is often overvalued while genuine self-efficacy starts from a child's early refusals and disagreements. You'll also hear personal anecdotes that bring these concepts to life, offering you relatable scenarios and practical advice for managing everything from sensory discomfort to school avoidance. Don't miss out on learning how to parent with empathy, understand the true roots of your child's behavior, and create a sense of safety and calm in both routine and challenging moments.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2827</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,avoidance,behavior,child,children,control,co-regulation,emotional,needs,neurodivergent,parental,parenting,regulation,school,self-advocacy,sensory,stress,tips,toddler</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>273:  Getting Stuck in a Loop with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/273-getting-stuck-in-a-loop-with-sarah-wayland-ph-d--60658415</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt helpless as your child gets stuck in repetitive behaviors or meltdowns, leaving you wondering how to help them break free? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., to delve into the struggles and complexities faced by parents and kids, teens, and young adults when dealing with looped behaviors. This episode explores the realization that not all actions are willful but can stem from deeper neurological and biological factors.<br /><br />Dr. Wayland sheds light on how these repetitive behaviors — often seen in neurodivergent kids and adults — act as both a form of self-regulation and, at times, a hindrance leading to anxiety and distress. Sarah provides valuable insights and strategies to help shift these behaviors, from physical movement and environmental changes to gentle external suggestions. You will also learn about the importance of understanding and breaking these loops without reinforcing them, highlighting the necessity for parents to continually learn and adapt. This episode is a must-listen for anyone striving to support a kid or loved one who gets stuck in a loop.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60658415</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2024 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60658415/273_getting_stuck_in_a_loop_rev_071124.mp3" length="40733278" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1/de5b1eb2-097d-4858-afa4-2e62fe92cea1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever felt helpless as your child gets stuck in repetitive behaviors or meltdowns, leaving you wondering how to help them break free? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., to delve into the struggles and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever felt helpless as your child gets stuck in repetitive behaviors or meltdowns, leaving you wondering how to help them break free? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., to delve into the struggles and complexities faced by parents and kids, teens, and young adults when dealing with looped behaviors. This episode explores the realization that not all actions are willful but can stem from deeper neurological and biological factors.<br /><br />Dr. Wayland sheds light on how these repetitive behaviors — often seen in neurodivergent kids and adults — act as both a form of self-regulation and, at times, a hindrance leading to anxiety and distress. Sarah provides valuable insights and strategies to help shift these behaviors, from physical movement and environmental changes to gentle external suggestions. You will also learn about the importance of understanding and breaking these loops without reinforcing them, highlighting the necessity for parents to continually learn and adapt. This episode is a must-listen for anyone striving to support a kid or loved one who gets stuck in a loop.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2552</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhdparenting,autismparenting,beautifullycomplex,meltdowns,neurodiversefamilies,parentingneurodivergentkids,parentingsupport,repetitivebehaviors,selfregulation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>273</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>272: What Does Anger Tell Us?, with Dr. Lori Desautels</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/272-what-does-anger-tell-us-with-dr-lori-desautels--60542913</link><description><![CDATA[Do you often find yourself misinterpreting anger in your neurodivergent child, escalating situations unintentionally? Join me and Dr. Lori Desautels as we dive deep into understanding anger and what it truly signifies. Dr. Desautels, an expert in applied educational neuroscience, explains that anger often stems from a dysregulated nervous system, feeling overwhelmed, and other underlying emotions like fear and anxiety. She emphasizes that managing behavior isn't about the kids but about us as adults and how we respond.<br /><br />“Sometimes, the bodyguard of fear is anger.” — Dr. Lori<br /><br />Throughout the episode, you'll discover practical strategies for grounding yourself and your children, transitioning away from mere behavior management to nurturing connection and understanding. Dr. Desautels reveals the power of predictable routines and teaches you how to integrate calming practices into daily life and classroom environments. You'll walk away with valuable insights on teaching kids to understand their bodies' signals, equipping them with lifelong tools for self-regulation. Don't miss this enlightening conversation — it will transform how you approach and understand the complexities of parenting neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60542913</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2024 00:01:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60542913/272_what_does_anger_tell_us_rev_071124.mp3" length="26501068" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e/bba80647-dfbf-4b7f-8c1e-6e64c282716e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you often find yourself misinterpreting anger in your neurodivergent child, escalating situations unintentionally? Join me and Dr. Lori Desautels as we dive deep into understanding anger and what it truly signifies. Dr. Desautels, an expert in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you often find yourself misinterpreting anger in your neurodivergent child, escalating situations unintentionally? Join me and Dr. Lori Desautels as we dive deep into understanding anger and what it truly signifies. Dr. Desautels, an expert in applied educational neuroscience, explains that anger often stems from a dysregulated nervous system, feeling overwhelmed, and other underlying emotions like fear and anxiety. She emphasizes that managing behavior isn't about the kids but about us as adults and how we respond.<br /><br />“Sometimes, the bodyguard of fear is anger.” — Dr. Lori<br /><br />Throughout the episode, you'll discover practical strategies for grounding yourself and your children, transitioning away from mere behavior management to nurturing connection and understanding. Dr. Desautels reveals the power of predictable routines and teaches you how to integrate calming practices into daily life and classroom environments. You'll walk away with valuable insights on teaching kids to understand their bodies' signals, equipping them with lifelong tools for self-regulation. Don't miss this enlightening conversation — it will transform how you approach and understand the complexities of parenting neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1661</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>angermanagement,beautifullycomplex,behaviormanagement,emotionalregulation,neurodivergentkids,parentingadhd,parentingadvice,parentingtips,raisingatypicalkids,specialeducation,thebehaviorrevolution</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>272</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>271: ADHD and Dads: Creating the Fatherhood You Crave, Larry Hagner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/271-adhd-and-dads-creating-the-fatherhood-you-crave-larry-hagner--60462263</link><description><![CDATA[Struggling to connect with your child who has ADHD can be incredibly challenging, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. In this insightful episode of Beautifully Complex (first aired 2020), I’m joined by Larry Hagner, founder of the Dad Edge podcast and father of four boys, to explore how dads can create the fatherhood they crave. Larry dives deep into his own experiences with ADHD and fatherhood, sharing practical tips on using empathy, asking open-ended questions, and the importance of praising effort rather than focusing solely on grades. His heartfelt stories, like the regrets of pressuring his son, resonate deeply and provide valuable insights on how to avoid similar pitfalls.<br /><br />You'll learn how to foster better connections with your kids through tactical empathy, reflective listening, and supportive engagement, especially during escalated moments. We also highlight the necessity for fathers to be more involved in their kid’s education, advocate for individualized teaching methods, and challenge the conformity-focused education system. Most importantly, we emphasize building a supportive community, where authenticity and vulnerability are celebrated, helping you navigate the intricacies of parenting kids with ADHD more effectively. Tune in to discover how to be more intentional and purposeful in your fatherhood journey, and turn challenging moments into opportunities for growth and connection.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60462263</guid><pubDate>Wed, 26 Jun 2024 12:01:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60462263/271_fatherhood_and_adhd_remix.mp3" length="47296432" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758/b5955430-3ce8-4ff1-8bcc-1191f82ae758.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Struggling to connect with your child who has ADHD can be incredibly challenging, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. In this insightful episode of Beautifully Complex (first aired 2020), I’m joined by Larry Hagner, founder of the Dad Edge...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Struggling to connect with your child who has ADHD can be incredibly challenging, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed. In this insightful episode of Beautifully Complex (first aired 2020), I’m joined by Larry Hagner, founder of the Dad Edge podcast and father of four boys, to explore how dads can create the fatherhood they crave. Larry dives deep into his own experiences with ADHD and fatherhood, sharing practical tips on using empathy, asking open-ended questions, and the importance of praising effort rather than focusing solely on grades. His heartfelt stories, like the regrets of pressuring his son, resonate deeply and provide valuable insights on how to avoid similar pitfalls.<br /><br />You'll learn how to foster better connections with your kids through tactical empathy, reflective listening, and supportive engagement, especially during escalated moments. We also highlight the necessity for fathers to be more involved in their kid’s education, advocate for individualized teaching methods, and challenge the conformity-focused education system. Most importantly, we emphasize building a supportive community, where authenticity and vulnerability are celebrated, helping you navigate the intricacies of parenting kids with ADHD more effectively. Tune in to discover how to be more intentional and purposeful in your fatherhood journey, and turn challenging moments into opportunities for growth and connection.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2963</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>271</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>270: 3 Steps to Empower Confidence in Your Teen, with Kristi Simons</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/270-3-steps-to-empower-confidence-in-your-teen-with-kristi-simons--60301970</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling like your teen or young adult is struggling to find their confidence and navigate the ups and downs of life? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with teen life coach, Kristi Simons, to provide strategies to empower confidence in your teen. Kristi delves into the importance of allowing your teen to experience their own emotions and challenges, while also equipping them with self-reflection tools and affirmations. You'll learn why it's essential to create a safe space for your teen to express fears and anxieties, and how being open and authentic can foster stronger, more supportive relationships.<br /><br />Together, Kristi and I explore powerful strategies like the "anchor activity," which helps teens ground themselves and manage emotions through joyful activities. We also highlight the need for setting realistic expectations and modeling confidence and authenticity. If you’re worried about your kid’s poor self-esteem, this episode will resonate deeply. Kristi shares actionable insights and small steps that you can take to help your teen start building their confidence today. Tune in to discover how you can support your teen in becoming their most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60301970</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jun 2024 00:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60301970/270_3_steps_to_empower_confidence_in_your_teen_rev.mp3" length="29960512" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039/22fb7d03-b8fa-4464-9dff-9ff7dcf9a039.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling like your teen or young adult is struggling to find their confidence and navigate the ups and downs of life? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with teen life coach, Kristi Simons, to provide strategies to empower confidence in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling like your teen or young adult is struggling to find their confidence and navigate the ups and downs of life? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with teen life coach, Kristi Simons, to provide strategies to empower confidence in your teen. Kristi delves into the importance of allowing your teen to experience their own emotions and challenges, while also equipping them with self-reflection tools and affirmations. You'll learn why it's essential to create a safe space for your teen to express fears and anxieties, and how being open and authentic can foster stronger, more supportive relationships.<br /><br />Together, Kristi and I explore powerful strategies like the "anchor activity," which helps teens ground themselves and manage emotions through joyful activities. We also highlight the need for setting realistic expectations and modeling confidence and authenticity. If you’re worried about your kid’s poor self-esteem, this episode will resonate deeply. Kristi shares actionable insights and small steps that you can take to help your teen start building their confidence today. Tune in to discover how you can support your teen in becoming their most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1877</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,confidence,neurodivergent</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>270</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>269: Reclaiming Community: Climate, Parenting, and Social Connections, with Bill Weir</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/269-reclaiming-community-climate-parenting-and-social-connections-with-bill-weir--60292784</link><description><![CDATA[We’ve all but outright rejected the old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” in American culture. We’re more fragmented and lonely than ever. Yet, there’s clear evidence that community and connection are key to happiness. It certainly takes a community to raise a happy and resilient child, even if “community” looks different in modern life.<br /><br />In this episode, I'm joined by the amazing CNN journalist and storyteller, Bill Weir, who takes us deep into the emotional journey of being human. Bill shares his personal path toward acceptance and learning what comes next, while also discussing the crucial role of community and nature for happiness and resilience.<br /><br />We explore his global travels, the shared humanity he’s discovered, and the impact of climate change on future generations. Together, we dive into crucial parenting insights from Abraham Maslow, discuss the importance of balance between virtual and real worlds, and the necessity of giving ourselves and others grace.<br /><br />This episode will resonate with you if you (or your child) are struggling to find balance and connection in today’s fast-paced, fragmented world. It’s packed with heartfelt stories and valuable advice. Tune in to discover how accepting life’s challenges and asking “What’s next?” can lead to action-oriented solutions that foster a healthier, more connected world. Don’t miss it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60292784</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2024 00:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60292784/269_what_bill_weir_learned.mp3" length="31842410" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0/1f6cfc45-e048-4bba-88d7-f4faa76df1a0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’ve all but outright rejected the old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” in American culture. We’re more fragmented and lonely than ever. Yet, there’s clear evidence that community and connection are key to happiness. It certainly takes a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve all but outright rejected the old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” in American culture. We’re more fragmented and lonely than ever. Yet, there’s clear evidence that community and connection are key to happiness. It certainly takes a community to raise a happy and resilient child, even if “community” looks different in modern life.<br /><br />In this episode, I'm joined by the amazing CNN journalist and storyteller, Bill Weir, who takes us deep into the emotional journey of being human. Bill shares his personal path toward acceptance and learning what comes next, while also discussing the crucial role of community and nature for happiness and resilience.<br /><br />We explore his global travels, the shared humanity he’s discovered, and the impact of climate change on future generations. Together, we dive into crucial parenting insights from Abraham Maslow, discuss the importance of balance between virtual and real worlds, and the necessity of giving ourselves and others grace.<br /><br />This episode will resonate with you if you (or your child) are struggling to find balance and connection in today’s fast-paced, fragmented world. It’s packed with heartfelt stories and valuable advice. Tune in to discover how accepting life’s challenges and asking “What’s next?” can lead to action-oriented solutions that foster a healthier, more connected world. Don’t miss it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1995</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acceptance,adhd,autism,community,connection,neurodivergent,neurodiversity</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>269</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>268: What to Do When Importance Doesn’t Create Motivation, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/268-what-to-do-when-importance-doesn-t-create-motivation-with-penny-williams--60180309</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re examining a topic that really hits close to home for many of us — what to do when importance doesn’t create motivation, especially for our neurodivergent kids. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to get our kids started and keep them going on tasks that matter, but don’t necessarily excite them.<br /><br />I break down why the ADHD brain is motivated by interest and urgency, rather than importance, and share actionable strategies to help bridge that gap. We discuss everything from providing external rewards to setting specific goals and creating a supportive environment. You’ll learn the importance of making tasks manageable by breaking them into smaller chunks and leveraging your child's interests to spark intrinsic motivation.<br /><br />Join me as I guide you through these practical tips and insights to help your child thrive, even when their brain just isn’t wired to find motivation in the same way. Remember, you’re not alone, and together, we can navigate the beautifully complex journey of raising neurodivergent kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60180309</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2024 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60180309/268_what_to_do_when_importance_doesn_t_create_motivation_5_8_24_12_01_pm.mp3" length="18951567" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98/9843f87d-9d25-413f-9b77-292dae2edf98.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re examining a topic that really hits close to home for many of us — what to do when importance doesn’t create motivation, especially for our neurodivergent kids. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re examining a topic that really hits close to home for many of us — what to do when importance doesn’t create motivation, especially for our neurodivergent kids. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to get our kids started and keep them going on tasks that matter, but don’t necessarily excite them.<br /><br />I break down why the ADHD brain is motivated by interest and urgency, rather than importance, and share actionable strategies to help bridge that gap. We discuss everything from providing external rewards to setting specific goals and creating a supportive environment. You’ll learn the importance of making tasks manageable by breaking them into smaller chunks and leveraging your child's interests to spark intrinsic motivation.<br /><br />Join me as I guide you through these practical tips and insights to help your child thrive, even when their brain just isn’t wired to find motivation in the same way. Remember, you’re not alone, and together, we can navigate the beautifully complex journey of raising neurodivergent kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1185</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,motivation,neurodivergent,neurodiverse,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>268</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>267: The Myth of Laziness, with Adam Price, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/267-the-myth-of-laziness-with-adam-price-ph-d--60180136</link><description><![CDATA[Today, I'm so excited to be talking with Dr. Adam Price, a nationally known clinical psychologist and best-selling author with over 30 years of experience working with kids and adults. He's the author of "He's Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself" and "The He's Not Lazy Guide to Better Grades and a Great Life."<br /><br />In this episode, we’re talking about the myth of laziness — that’s right, I said “myth.” We explore why adults often jump to labeling kids as lazy and Dr. Price shares valuable insights about motivation, empathy, the importance of understanding our kid’s unique challenges, and how to foster autonomy and competence in them. We also share how crucial it is to build a strong connection with your kids and find ways to help them feel seen, heard, and understood.<br /><br />If you're ready to reframe your perspective on laziness and learn practical strategies to better support your neurodivergent child, you won't want to miss this conversation. So, let's get started! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60180136</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2024 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60180136/267_the_myth_of_laziness67koc.mp3" length="21883871" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639/432c3027-a84b-4b51-8cfc-e018241ab639.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today, I'm so excited to be talking with Dr. Adam Price, a nationally known clinical psychologist and best-selling author with over 30 years of experience working with kids and adults. He's the author of "He's Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today, I'm so excited to be talking with Dr. Adam Price, a nationally known clinical psychologist and best-selling author with over 30 years of experience working with kids and adults. He's the author of "He's Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself" and "The He's Not Lazy Guide to Better Grades and a Great Life."<br /><br />In this episode, we’re talking about the myth of laziness — that’s right, I said “myth.” We explore why adults often jump to labeling kids as lazy and Dr. Price shares valuable insights about motivation, empathy, the importance of understanding our kid’s unique challenges, and how to foster autonomy and competence in them. We also share how crucial it is to build a strong connection with your kids and find ways to help them feel seen, heard, and understood.<br /><br />If you're ready to reframe your perspective on laziness and learn practical strategies to better support your neurodivergent child, you won't want to miss this conversation. So, let's get started! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1371</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,autism,education,lazy,ld,neurodivergent,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>267</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>266: A Summertime Plan that Can Work for Everyone, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/266-a-summertime-plan-that-can-work-for-everyone-with-penny-williams--60140911</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re focusing on making summertime rewarding and manageable for neurodiverse families. I’ll guide you through a summer plan that encompasses structured activities, personal growth, and meaningful connections. This episode is packed with strategies starting with how to create an adaptable visual plan using tools like a Post-it calendar or a Mighty &amp; Bright schedule board, perfect for kids who find comfort in visual aids and might struggle with schedule changes. Then, we move into exploration — encouraging our kids to follow their interests and passions, which is crucial for their confidence and sense of belonging in the world. Whether through specialized camps like SOAR or simple nature walks, exposure to new experiences is key. We also discuss growth through just-right challenges that push kids slightly out of their comfort zones to build resilience, but not so far that it isn’t doable for them. Whether it's working on a complex project or trying a new sport, it's about finding that sweet spot of challenge that is both challenging and attainable. Lastly, connection remains a cornerstone of our discussion, emphasizing the importance of cultivating strong bonds with our kids. This summer, let’s lean into activities that strengthen our relationships and foster communal growth. Remember, parenting is more about nurturing relationships than just managing tasks. Let’s dive into this summer with intention and joy.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/4942e34c-20e2-3753-9070-0ca55998cdd8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60140911/266_a_summertime_plan_that_can_work_for_everyone814cf.mp3" length="22764341" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a09192ac-3fa8-40f9-8e0c-e3b23c7a814d/a09192ac-3fa8-40f9-8e0c-e3b23c7a814d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re focusing on making summertime rewarding and manageable for neurodiverse families. I’ll guide you through a summer plan that encompasses structured activities, personal growth, and meaningful connections....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re focusing on making summertime rewarding and manageable for neurodiverse families. I’ll guide you through a summer plan that encompasses structured activities, personal growth, and meaningful connections. This episode is packed with strategies starting with how to create an adaptable visual plan using tools like a Post-it calendar or a Mighty &amp; Bright schedule board, perfect for kids who find comfort in visual aids and might struggle with schedule changes. Then, we move into exploration — encouraging our kids to follow their interests and passions, which is crucial for their confidence and sense of belonging in the world. Whether through specialized camps like SOAR or simple nature walks, exposure to new experiences is key. We also discuss growth through just-right challenges that push kids slightly out of their comfort zones to build resilience, but not so far that it isn’t doable for them. Whether it's working on a complex project or trying a new sport, it's about finding that sweet spot of challenge that is both challenging and attainable. Lastly, connection remains a cornerstone of our discussion, emphasizing the importance of cultivating strong bonds with our kids. This summer, let’s lean into activities that strengthen our relationships and foster communal growth. Remember, parenting is more about nurturing relationships than just managing tasks. Let’s dive into this summer with intention and joy.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1426</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>270</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>265: Strategies for Young Autistic Learners, with Tara Phillips, SLP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/265-strategies-for-young-autistic-learners-with-tara-phillips-slp--60053318</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I’m joined by Tara Phillips, speech language pathologist and founder of Autism Little Learners. She shares some transformative tools and techniques which have significantly benefited her students, such as the use of visual supports and predictable routines. Together, Tara and I explore the importance of positive connections and a strengths-based approach in early education, practical tips for implementing adapted board books, and strategies to reduce anxiety for both children and parents. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or therapist, this episode is packed with resources and actionable advice to support the development of young autistic learners. Tune in to transform your approach and enrich your toolkit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/17a4954c-9e22-39fa-bf02-5437868955f0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60053318/265_strategies_for_young_autistic_learners8cbwd.mp3" length="34858586" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I’m joined by Tara Phillips, speech language pathologist and founder of Autism Little Learners. She shares some transformative tools and techniques which have significantly benefited her students, such as the use of visual supports...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I’m joined by Tara Phillips, speech language pathologist and founder of Autism Little Learners. She shares some transformative tools and techniques which have significantly benefited her students, such as the use of visual supports and predictable routines. Together, Tara and I explore the importance of positive connections and a strengths-based approach in early education, practical tips for implementing adapted board books, and strategies to reduce anxiety for both children and parents. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or therapist, this episode is packed with resources and actionable advice to support the development of young autistic learners. Tune in to transform your approach and enrich your toolkit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2184</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>269</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>264: Handling Behavior Struggles with Dignity, with Wendy Snyder</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/264-handling-behavior-struggles-with-dignity-with-wendy-snyder--59935063</link><description><![CDATA[This time on Beautifully Complex, I'm exploring behavior struggles and conscious discipline with my guest, Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator and family life coach. We discuss how understanding behaviors as communication changes our perspective, helping us view challenges as signals of need and teaching opportunities. Join us as we dive into how creating a sense of belonging and safety at home allows our kids to thrive under our guidance. Wendy shares her expertise on managing our own triggers and approaching parenting with empathy and intention. Tune in for practical advice to help you be the parent your kids need.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d2e1233d-0e5a-3627-bdc7-82bb95109ee9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59935063/264_handling_behavior_struggles_with_dignityahk0d.mp3" length="26981041" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This time on Beautifully Complex, I'm exploring behavior struggles and conscious discipline with my guest, Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator and family life coach. We discuss how understanding behaviors as communication changes our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This time on Beautifully Complex, I'm exploring behavior struggles and conscious discipline with my guest, Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator and family life coach. We discuss how understanding behaviors as communication changes our perspective, helping us view challenges as signals of need and teaching opportunities. Join us as we dive into how creating a sense of belonging and safety at home allows our kids to thrive under our guidance. Wendy shares her expertise on managing our own triggers and approaching parenting with empathy and intention. Tune in for practical advice to help you be the parent your kids need.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1691</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>268</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>263: Understood Explains IEPs from Understood.org</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/263-understood-explains-ieps-from-understood-org--59758771</link><description><![CDATA[The terms IEP and 504 plan may come up a lot when you’re looking into special education for your child. These school supports do some of the same things, but one can provide more services and the other is easier to get. And it’s important to know the differences in order to get your child the support they need. On this episode of Beautifully Complex, you will hear an episode of Understood Explains, where host Juliana Urtubey breaks down the differences between IEPs and 504 plans, and which one might be right for your child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/313e1ab6-bca1-3302-91df-bd7a6d40e7b5</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59758771/263_you_might_also_like_understood_explains7eui4.mp3" length="15311534" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The terms IEP and 504 plan may come up a lot when you’re looking into special education for your child. These school supports do some of the same things, but one can provide more services and the other is easier to get. And it’s important to know the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The terms IEP and 504 plan may come up a lot when you’re looking into special education for your child. These school supports do some of the same things, but one can provide more services and the other is easier to get. And it’s important to know the differences in order to get your child the support they need. On this episode of Beautifully Complex, you will hear an episode of Understood Explains, where host Juliana Urtubey breaks down the differences between IEPs and 504 plans, and which one might be right for your child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>960</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>267</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>262: Emotional Support Animals, with Dan Maigler, LCSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/262-emotional-support-animals-with-dan-maigler-lcsw--59642244</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I'm chatting with my guest Daniel Maigler, about the transformative roles of emotional support animals. Dan's insights as a social worker and mental health advisor for Paws for Patrick reveal how emotional support animals can aid those facing mental health challenges. Dan shares the poignant story behind Paws for Patrick, emphasizing the support ESAs can offer, especially to young people. Throughout this episode, he differentiates between therapy dogs, service animals, and emotional support animals, clarifying common misconceptions. From legalities to the non-requirement of training for ESAs, we're tackling the myths and discussing the urgency for more emotional support options in schools. For any listener interested in the healing potential of animals and understanding the process for obtaining an ESA, this episode provides clarity and heartfelt testimony.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/12a3600f-eb11-3b44-8d5f-9ea465beb31b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59642244/262_emotional_support_animals8zk6y.mp3" length="26141188" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I'm chatting with my guest Daniel Maigler, about the transformative roles of emotional support animals. Dan's insights as a social worker and mental health advisor for Paws for Patrick reveal how emotional support animals can aid...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I'm chatting with my guest Daniel Maigler, about the transformative roles of emotional support animals. Dan's insights as a social worker and mental health advisor for Paws for Patrick reveal how emotional support animals can aid those facing mental health challenges. Dan shares the poignant story behind Paws for Patrick, emphasizing the support ESAs can offer, especially to young people. Throughout this episode, he differentiates between therapy dogs, service animals, and emotional support animals, clarifying common misconceptions. From legalities to the non-requirement of training for ESAs, we're tackling the myths and discussing the urgency for more emotional support options in schools. For any listener interested in the healing potential of animals and understanding the process for obtaining an ESA, this episode provides clarity and heartfelt testimony.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1638</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>266</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>261: Extreme Language Around Emotions, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/261-extreme-language-around-emotions-with-penny-williams--59521155</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I tackle why our kids and teens might use extreme language to express their emotions. We're recognizing that expressions like "I hate you" or phrases that include aggression or violence often aren't literal but signal an inability to articulate complex emotions. I talk about the importance of distinguishing between different feelings and emphasize the role parents play in guiding their kids to understand and communicate their emotions more precisely. Through my experiences and the stories I share — like my child's alarming description of a recess incident — I highlight how easy it is to misunderstand our kids' emotional needs. We'll unpack essential skills like social emotional learning, interoception, and how to be the calm anchor for your kids. Listen in for practical strategies to improve your child’s emotional communication.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cb6f1d43-ec4f-3a1e-8007-4f036452b538</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59521155/261_extreme_language_around_emotionsbrv1r.mp3" length="14855090" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I tackle why our kids and teens might use extreme language to express their emotions. We're recognizing that expressions like "I hate you" or phrases that include aggression or violence often aren't literal but...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I tackle why our kids and teens might use extreme language to express their emotions. We're recognizing that expressions like "I hate you" or phrases that include aggression or violence often aren't literal but signal an inability to articulate complex emotions. I talk about the importance of distinguishing between different feelings and emphasize the role parents play in guiding their kids to understand and communicate their emotions more precisely. Through my experiences and the stories I share — like my child's alarming description of a recess incident — I highlight how easy it is to misunderstand our kids' emotional needs. We'll unpack essential skills like social emotional learning, interoception, and how to be the calm anchor for your kids. Listen in for practical strategies to improve your child’s emotional communication.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>931</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>261</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>259: Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience, with Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/259-insights-on-bullying-understanding-aggression-building-resilience-with-brooks-gibbs-ph-d--59512082</link><description><![CDATA[Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D. is joining me for a conversation on Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience. His expertise in social psychology shines a light on the intricate dance between aggression and resilience — especially in the lives of our neurodivergent kids. In this episode, you'll hear stories close to my heart, including my son's journey through the world of teasing and the delicate balance of parenting a child who sees the world literally. Dr. Gibbs offers thought-provoking perspectives on empathy, teaching us about rational compassion and how it can be a game-changer in our parenting toolkit. We'll also discuss the provocative idea of the therapeutic role of horror and drama films in building mental flexibility, and Dr. Gibbs will introduce questions that can profoundly shift our approach to challenges. Moreover, we'll address the emotional challenges faced by individuals with autism and alexithymia, emphasizing the need for strong advocacy and support. As we dissect the shortcomings of traditional anti-bullying campaigns, Dr. Gibbs proposes a fresh focus on mental health and resilience. And I'll share my evolution from overprotective parenting to encouraging my child's growth in frustration tolerance and independence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/528254e8-7a5e-3e6f-8d78-c2ee537e92bc</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Apr 2024 18:37:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59512082/259_insights_on_bullying_understanding_aggression_building_resilience_revised6dvcn.mp3" length="28325448" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D. is joining me for a conversation on Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience. His expertise in social psychology shines a light on the intricate dance between aggression and resilience — especially in the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D. is joining me for a conversation on Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience. His expertise in social psychology shines a light on the intricate dance between aggression and resilience — especially in the lives of our neurodivergent kids. In this episode, you'll hear stories close to my heart, including my son's journey through the world of teasing and the delicate balance of parenting a child who sees the world literally. Dr. Gibbs offers thought-provoking perspectives on empathy, teaching us about rational compassion and how it can be a game-changer in our parenting toolkit. We'll also discuss the provocative idea of the therapeutic role of horror and drama films in building mental flexibility, and Dr. Gibbs will introduce questions that can profoundly shift our approach to challenges. Moreover, we'll address the emotional challenges faced by individuals with autism and alexithymia, emphasizing the need for strong advocacy and support. As we dissect the shortcomings of traditional anti-bullying campaigns, Dr. Gibbs proposes a fresh focus on mental health and resilience. And I'll share my evolution from overprotective parenting to encouraging my child's growth in frustration tolerance and independence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1775</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>259</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>260: Navigating Life Challenges with Purpose and Progress (not perfection), with Shari Leid</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/260-navigating-life-challenges-with-purpose-and-progress-not-perfection-with-shari-leid--59407622</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have the pleasure of talking with Shari Leid of An Imperfectly Perfect Life. Together, we’re talking about purposeful living and parenting and celebrating gradual progress over the pursuit of perfection. Shari shares her deep insights on the value of recognizing and fostering the inherent strengths in our children. We confront societal expectations head-on, discussing the critical importance of valuing imperfections and the individuality of each journey. This episode is rich with reflection on the concepts of resilience and authenticity in the context of modern parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/075d3565-5e41-3861-9530-c165a3936c8c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59407622/260_navigating_challenges_with_purpose_and_progress9eqi1.mp3" length="30423383" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0/203f4b20-90a5-4f23-b3ad-56972a6a01c0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have the pleasure of talking with Shari Leid of An Imperfectly Perfect Life. Together, we’re talking about purposeful living and parenting and celebrating gradual progress over the pursuit of perfection. Shari...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have the pleasure of talking with Shari Leid of An Imperfectly Perfect Life. Together, we’re talking about purposeful living and parenting and celebrating gradual progress over the pursuit of perfection. Shari shares her deep insights on the value of recognizing and fostering the inherent strengths in our children. We confront societal expectations head-on, discussing the critical importance of valuing imperfections and the individuality of each journey. This episode is rich with reflection on the concepts of resilience and authenticity in the context of modern parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1906</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>264</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>258: What to Do When Your Kid Isn’t Listening, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/258-what-to-do-when-your-kid-isn-t-listening-with-penny-williams--59247199</link><description><![CDATA[Let's talk about what to do when your kid isn't listening. Remember, they might be processing your words in non-traditional ways, so it's important to find alternative approaches to help them focus, process, and follow through. From recognizing distractions to accommodating slow processing speeds, I offer practical advice to help parents navigate these complex situations, including how to engage them physically, provide written instructions, and be mindful of their individual needs. By understanding these hurdles and meeting your kid where they are, you can foster better communication and cooperation. Join me!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/81bbaf40-7657-3358-82a5-5b6ebc2a8f83</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247199/258_what_to_do_when_your_kid_isn_t_listening7cv2q.mp3" length="15430976" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/0fe06f89-6f47-436a-87bf-a01df984e13a/0fe06f89-6f47-436a-87bf-a01df984e13a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/0fe06f89-6f47-436a-87bf-a01df984e13a/0fe06f89-6f47-436a-87bf-a01df984e13a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Let's talk about what to do when your kid isn't listening. Remember, they might be processing your words in non-traditional ways, so it's important to find alternative approaches to help them focus, process, and follow through. From recognizing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let's talk about what to do when your kid isn't listening. Remember, they might be processing your words in non-traditional ways, so it's important to find alternative approaches to help them focus, process, and follow through. From recognizing distractions to accommodating slow processing speeds, I offer practical advice to help parents navigate these complex situations, including how to engage them physically, provide written instructions, and be mindful of their individual needs. By understanding these hurdles and meeting your kid where they are, you can foster better communication and cooperation. Join me!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>967</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>263</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>257: The Control Trap, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/257-the-control-trap-with-penny-williams--59247275</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the detrimental effects of trying to control kids, emphasizing the importance of a humanistic approach to behavior. After watching the recent documentary series on Netflix called "The Program," I was both horrified by the trauma that the “troubled teen industry” causes and inspired to talk about the much more helpful perspective science offers regarding behavior. I’ve identified 8 key elements that help us feel good so we can do good, and none of them have anything to do with control. Through personal experiences and impassioned insights, I shed light on the need to empower kids, especially those who are neurodivergent, and the damaging impact of not respecting their individuality and autonomy. Join me in understanding the importance of taking a humanistic approach to behavior and nurturing an environment that supports and values the uniqueness of every child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a9589fc2-e8aa-3ff4-b3dd-0a82db919294</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247275/257_the_control_trap70vhr.mp3" length="25088671" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2ad078d5-61ca-4206-a492-30e5d500c1de/2ad078d5-61ca-4206-a492-30e5d500c1de.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2ad078d5-61ca-4206-a492-30e5d500c1de/2ad078d5-61ca-4206-a492-30e5d500c1de.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the detrimental effects of trying to control kids, emphasizing the importance of a humanistic approach to behavior. After watching the recent documentary series on Netflix called "The Program," I was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the detrimental effects of trying to control kids, emphasizing the importance of a humanistic approach to behavior. After watching the recent documentary series on Netflix called "The Program," I was both horrified by the trauma that the “troubled teen industry” causes and inspired to talk about the much more helpful perspective science offers regarding behavior. I’ve identified 8 key elements that help us feel good so we can do good, and none of them have anything to do with control. Through personal experiences and impassioned insights, I shed light on the need to empower kids, especially those who are neurodivergent, and the damaging impact of not respecting their individuality and autonomy. Join me in understanding the importance of taking a humanistic approach to behavior and nurturing an environment that supports and values the uniqueness of every child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1572</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>262</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>256: Breaking Down Motivation: Helping Teens and Young Adults Find Their Path to Success, with Melanie McNally, Psy.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/256-breaking-down-motivation-helping-teens-and-young-adults-find-their-path-to-success-with-melanie-mcnally-psy-d--59247192</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I sit down with Dr. Melanie McNally, a clinical psychologist and brain coach who specializes in working with tweens, teens, and young adults. Together, we explore the struggles that many young adults face in finding motivation and direction. Dr. Melanie shares her expertise on helping young adults build their interpersonal skills and increase their motivation. She breaks down the components of motivation into three skill sets: drive, grit, and goals, offering valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of raising motivated teens. We also delve into the challenges of this generation's unique landscape, touch on the impact of social media, and discuss the changing dynamics of adolescence and parenting. I found Dr. McNally's approach to be insightful and empowering, offering practical strategies for parents and young adults alike. If you're a parent navigating the complexities of raising neurodivergent teens and young adults, Dr. Melanie’s wisdom is sure to provide valuable guidance and support.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/617a104a-e66b-3d42-983f-a0fa24c87242</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2024 23:45:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247192/256_teens_young_adults_motivation7dpl8.mp3" length="27164930" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/e0558c34-7941-4f24-ae11-f70332af7b76/e0558c34-7941-4f24-ae11-f70332af7b76.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/e0558c34-7941-4f24-ae11-f70332af7b76/e0558c34-7941-4f24-ae11-f70332af7b76.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I sit down with Dr. Melanie McNally, a clinical psychologist and brain coach who specializes in working with tweens, teens, and young adults. Together, we explore the struggles that many young adults...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I sit down with Dr. Melanie McNally, a clinical psychologist and brain coach who specializes in working with tweens, teens, and young adults. Together, we explore the struggles that many young adults face in finding motivation and direction. Dr. Melanie shares her expertise on helping young adults build their interpersonal skills and increase their motivation. She breaks down the components of motivation into three skill sets: drive, grit, and goals, offering valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of raising motivated teens. We also delve into the challenges of this generation's unique landscape, touch on the impact of social media, and discuss the changing dynamics of adolescence and parenting. I found Dr. McNally's approach to be insightful and empowering, offering practical strategies for parents and young adults alike. If you're a parent navigating the complexities of raising neurodivergent teens and young adults, Dr. Melanie’s wisdom is sure to provide valuable guidance and support.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1702</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>261</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>255: 7 Steps to Help Kids &amp; Teens with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/255-7-steps-to-help-kids-teens-with-rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-with-penny-williams--59247265</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I tackle the topic of rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) and provide 7 essential steps to help kids and teens facing this challenge. I share insights on recognizing signs of RSD in kids and teens, fostering open communication, building self-esteem, challenging negative thought patterns, teaching coping strategies, practicing self-compassion, and seeking professional support when needed. Our role as parents and caregivers is crucial in helping our neurodivergent kids navigate these challenges and thrive. If you want to learn more about supporting your child with RSD, don't miss this episode. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and together, we can help our kids grow into resilient, confident, successful, happy, joyful adults.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ea7bf70c-144d-3386-b0ae-eabd7e264b60</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247265/255_7_steps_to_help_kids_teens_with_rejection_sensitive_dysphoria5zuue.mp3" length="19415851" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I tackle the topic of rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) and provide 7 essential steps to help kids and teens facing this challenge. I share insights on recognizing signs of RSD in kids and teens,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I tackle the topic of rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) and provide 7 essential steps to help kids and teens facing this challenge. I share insights on recognizing signs of RSD in kids and teens, fostering open communication, building self-esteem, challenging negative thought patterns, teaching coping strategies, practicing self-compassion, and seeking professional support when needed. Our role as parents and caregivers is crucial in helping our neurodivergent kids navigate these challenges and thrive. If you want to learn more about supporting your child with RSD, don't miss this episode. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and together, we can help our kids grow into resilient, confident, successful, happy, joyful adults.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1217</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>260</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>254: How to Be a Neuro-Affirming Parent or Teacher, with Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/254-how-to-be-a-neuro-affirming-parent-or-teacher-with-emily-kircher-morris-m-a-m-ed-lpc--59247213</link><description><![CDATA[In today's episode, Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC is back and we're unpacking what it means to be a neuro-affirmative parent or teacher. We explore the pressures that neurodivergent kids face, especially the expectation to camouflage their true selves. Emily, with her dual expertise in education and counseling, is sharing invaluable insights, including her CARE acronym, which stands for cultivating authenticity, recognizing strengths, empathy, and creating safety. We discuss the intricacies of masking and the importance of authentic self-representation for these amazing kids and adults. We also address the negative impacts of non-affirming environments that can lead to stress and school avoidance. Our chat is laced with discussions on embracing rather than merely accepting diverse communication styles, and how this can transform a child's experience. Emily also sheds light on the 'double empathy problem,' the disconnect that can happen in communication between neurodivergent individuals and the neurotypical majority. Together, Emily and I are rethinking communication norms and advocating for the celebration of individuality, particularly within the neurodiverse community. As we speak, we're delving into self-advocacy for neurodivergent children and the importance of making that a communicative priority. Let’s talk about the significance of recognizing and leveraging the strengths of these amazing humans.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/099c42ef-5234-30fd-8934-756c990588ac</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Feb 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247213/254_how_to_be_a_neuroaffirming_parent739xk.mp3" length="33812746" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In today's episode, Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC is back and we're unpacking what it means to be a neuro-affirmative parent or teacher. We explore the pressures that neurodivergent kids face, especially the expectation to camouflage their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In today's episode, Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC is back and we're unpacking what it means to be a neuro-affirmative parent or teacher. We explore the pressures that neurodivergent kids face, especially the expectation to camouflage their true selves. Emily, with her dual expertise in education and counseling, is sharing invaluable insights, including her CARE acronym, which stands for cultivating authenticity, recognizing strengths, empathy, and creating safety. We discuss the intricacies of masking and the importance of authentic self-representation for these amazing kids and adults. We also address the negative impacts of non-affirming environments that can lead to stress and school avoidance. Our chat is laced with discussions on embracing rather than merely accepting diverse communication styles, and how this can transform a child's experience. Emily also sheds light on the 'double empathy problem,' the disconnect that can happen in communication between neurodivergent individuals and the neurotypical majority. Together, Emily and I are rethinking communication norms and advocating for the celebration of individuality, particularly within the neurodiverse community. As we speak, we're delving into self-advocacy for neurodivergent children and the importance of making that a communicative priority. Let’s talk about the significance of recognizing and leveraging the strengths of these amazing humans.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2119</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>259</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>253: Beyond the Power Struggles, with Richard Selznick, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/253-beyond-the-power-struggles-with-richard-selznick-ph-d--59247143</link><description><![CDATA[Today, I get to talk to the incredible Dr. Richard Selznick—a renowned psychologist specializing in dyslexia and learning disabilities. We dive into the traps parents often fall into when communicating with their children, especially those with neurodivergent needs. Dr. Selznick emphasizes the importance of giving our kids choices. It's eye-opening to hear about the challenges of motivating children with learning struggles and how we tend to blame ourselves as parents. Dr. Selznick's insight shifts the focus to understanding and supporting our kids in the best possible way.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/9555d423-291b-316a-b4f2-43aa68bf6b15</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2024 23:35:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247143/253_beyond_power_struggles95608.mp3" length="26531497" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today, I get to talk to the incredible Dr. Richard Selznick—a renowned psychologist specializing in dyslexia and learning disabilities. We dive into the traps parents often fall into when communicating with their children, especially those with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today, I get to talk to the incredible Dr. Richard Selznick—a renowned psychologist specializing in dyslexia and learning disabilities. We dive into the traps parents often fall into when communicating with their children, especially those with neurodivergent needs. Dr. Selznick emphasizes the importance of giving our kids choices. It's eye-opening to hear about the challenges of motivating children with learning struggles and how we tend to blame ourselves as parents. Dr. Selznick's insight shifts the focus to understanding and supporting our kids in the best possible way.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1662</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>258</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>252: Transforming Behavior: When You Know Better You Do Better, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/252-transforming-behavior-when-you-know-better-you-do-better-with-penny-williams--59247224</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about a challenging experience with my son and the valuable insights it brought us regarding challenging behavior and supporting our neurodivergent kids. Through sharing this experience, I emphasize the need for flexibility and understanding in dealing with challenging behaviors, as well as the role of an individual’s nervous system and behavior. I’m also sharing info about the upcoming Transforming Behavior workshop series, which will provide free workshops for parents and caregivers.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/02ac4261-4711-399a-a1b6-593e3f544dcd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247224/252_transforming_behavior_when_you_know_better_you_do_better9dhol.mp3" length="28955140" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about a challenging experience with my son and the valuable insights it brought us regarding challenging behavior and supporting our neurodivergent kids. Through sharing this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about a challenging experience with my son and the valuable insights it brought us regarding challenging behavior and supporting our neurodivergent kids. Through sharing this experience, I emphasize the need for flexibility and understanding in dealing with challenging behaviors, as well as the role of an individual’s nervous system and behavior. I’m also sharing info about the upcoming Transforming Behavior workshop series, which will provide free workshops for parents and caregivers.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1814</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>257</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>251: Impact of Parental Confidence and Social Pressure on Parenting Complex Kids, with Anouk Briere-Godbout</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/251-impact-of-parental-confidence-and-social-pressure-on-parenting-complex-kids-with-anouk-briere-godbout--59247197</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have a candid conversation with Anouk Briere-Godbout about the challenges of parenting neurodivergent children. Our discussion focuses on the impact of societal pressure on parental confidence and the importance of finding supportive communities for parents facing similar struggles. Anouk shares personal experiences and professional insights, emphasizing self-compassion, resilience, and the need for a mindset shift in addressing the unique needs of neurodivergent children. If you’ve felt judged about your parenting in public, listening to this episode will make you feel so much less alone!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7b1bb1b1-3b36-37c0-a7ac-6ea10fec6697</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247197/251_impact_of_parental_confidence_and_social_pressure_ard1y.mp3" length="31569719" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have a candid conversation with Anouk Briere-Godbout about the challenges of parenting neurodivergent children. Our discussion focuses on the impact of societal pressure on parental confidence and the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have a candid conversation with Anouk Briere-Godbout about the challenges of parenting neurodivergent children. Our discussion focuses on the impact of societal pressure on parental confidence and the importance of finding supportive communities for parents facing similar struggles. Anouk shares personal experiences and professional insights, emphasizing self-compassion, resilience, and the need for a mindset shift in addressing the unique needs of neurodivergent children. If you’ve felt judged about your parenting in public, listening to this episode will make you feel so much less alone!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>256</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>250: Recognizing Children's Unique Love Languages, with Emily Hamblin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/250-recognizing-children-s-unique-love-languages-with-emily-hamblin--59247216</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with Emily Hamblin about the unique ways neurodivergent kids might show their love for you. Emily shares her personal journey of recognizing and appreciating her children's unique love languages, discussing the impact of neurodivergent traits on their communication of love and care. The conversation delves into the concept of love languages, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing the individual ways in which children express and receive love. Throughout the episode, Emily provides insights and practical tips for parents to recognize and incorporate their children's love languages into daily interactions. The discussion also explores the significance of celebrating small victories in parenting and the value of recognizing and acknowledging children's expressions of love and care.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/4ceea3cb-82bf-368f-8d94-3de47187aea8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Feb 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247216/250_recognizing_your_children_s_unique_love_languages9ecie.mp3" length="31418348" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with Emily Hamblin about the unique ways neurodivergent kids might show their love for you. Emily shares her personal journey of recognizing and appreciating her children's unique love languages,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with Emily Hamblin about the unique ways neurodivergent kids might show their love for you. Emily shares her personal journey of recognizing and appreciating her children's unique love languages, discussing the impact of neurodivergent traits on their communication of love and care. The conversation delves into the concept of love languages, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing the individual ways in which children express and receive love. Throughout the episode, Emily provides insights and practical tips for parents to recognize and incorporate their children's love languages into daily interactions. The discussion also explores the significance of celebrating small victories in parenting and the value of recognizing and acknowledging children's expressions of love and care.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1969</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>255</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>249: Helping Neurodivergent Young Adults, with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/249-helping-neurodivergent-young-adults-with-dr-janina-elbert-maschke--59247215</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I had an insightful conversation with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke, an expert in ADHD coaching and cognitive psychology. We discuss how to support neurodivergent young adults as they navigate the unique challenges they face, such as feelings of isolation, academic pressures, and emotional struggles. Dr. Maschke shares invaluable advice on recognizing and celebrating the strengths of neurodivergent individuals, as well as empowering parents to shift from instructing to supporting their young adults. We also discuss the importance of finding one's passion, building confidence, and seeking outside support.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0dadb9a9-36d7-3b6f-9c54-588b24a8735d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247215/249_how_to_help_nd_young_adults_thrive8r9f7.mp3" length="22828550" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I had an insightful conversation with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke, an expert in ADHD coaching and cognitive psychology. We discuss how to support neurodivergent young adults as they navigate the unique...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I had an insightful conversation with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke, an expert in ADHD coaching and cognitive psychology. We discuss how to support neurodivergent young adults as they navigate the unique challenges they face, such as feelings of isolation, academic pressures, and emotional struggles. Dr. Maschke shares invaluable advice on recognizing and celebrating the strengths of neurodivergent individuals, as well as empowering parents to shift from instructing to supporting their young adults. We also discuss the importance of finding one's passion, building confidence, and seeking outside support.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1430</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>254</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>248: Successes Change Everything, No Matter How Small, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/248-successes-change-everything-no-matter-how-small-with-penny-williams--59247180</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m exploring the profound impact of successes on our neurodivergent kids (and all of us humans). I discuss how experiencing successes contributes to building confidence, motivation, and a positive mindset, all through the lens of brain science. I also offer practical ways for parents and educators to create opportunities for success and the importance of celebrating even the smallest victories. Join me as we explore the power of successes in shaping our children's journey and the strategies to support them along the way.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0fc0e3c5-8758-3bc1-8792-ce9357ed6906</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247180/248_successes_change_everything_no_matter_how_small8cwpv.mp3" length="19048875" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m exploring the profound impact of successes on our neurodivergent kids (and all of us humans). I discuss how experiencing successes contributes to building confidence, motivation, and a positive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m exploring the profound impact of successes on our neurodivergent kids (and all of us humans). I discuss how experiencing successes contributes to building confidence, motivation, and a positive mindset, all through the lens of brain science. I also offer practical ways for parents and educators to create opportunities for success and the importance of celebrating even the smallest victories. Join me as we explore the power of successes in shaping our children's journey and the strategies to support them along the way.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1194</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>253</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>247: Listening Isn’t a Behavior You Can See, with Elizabeth A. Sautter, MA, CCC, SLP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/247-listening-isn-t-a-behavior-you-can-see-with-elizabeth-a-sautter-ma-ccc-slp--59247202</link><description><![CDATA[I'm thrilled to bring you another compelling episode of Beautifully Complex. For this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC-SLP for a truly eye-opening discussion about the often wildly misunderstood concept of listening and showing that you’re listening. Elizabeth, a speech language pathologist and social cognitive specialist, emphasizes the importance of allowing individuals to find what works best for them in terms of regulation, challenging the notion of a one-size-fits-all approach. We dive into the myths surrounding what it looks like when a kid or teen is listening, the significance of regulation as a foundation for education, and the diverse ways in which individuals process information. From the concept of "Listening Larry" to the need for tailored support for neurodivergent children, our conversation offers a newfound appreciation for the complexities of listening and the impact it has on learning.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/f1d9b8e3-2f28-3681-a7ee-f794f63552a1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247202/247_listening_isn_t_a_behavior_you_can_see8glyv.mp3" length="34809380" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I'm thrilled to bring you another compelling episode of Beautifully Complex. For this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC-SLP for a truly eye-opening discussion about the often wildly misunderstood concept of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'm thrilled to bring you another compelling episode of Beautifully Complex. For this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC-SLP for a truly eye-opening discussion about the often wildly misunderstood concept of listening and showing that you’re listening. Elizabeth, a speech language pathologist and social cognitive specialist, emphasizes the importance of allowing individuals to find what works best for them in terms of regulation, challenging the notion of a one-size-fits-all approach. We dive into the myths surrounding what it looks like when a kid or teen is listening, the significance of regulation as a foundation for education, and the diverse ways in which individuals process information. From the concept of "Listening Larry" to the need for tailored support for neurodivergent children, our conversation offers a newfound appreciation for the complexities of listening and the impact it has on learning.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2181</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>252</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>246: Make this the Year of Connection and Collaboration, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/246-make-this-the-year-of-connection-and-collaboration-with-penny-williams--59247210</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, we’re setting achievable intentions for the new year, with a strong focus on nurturing connections and fostering collaboration with our neurodivergent kids and teens. As always, I’m challenging the traditional authoritarian parenting/educating approach and advocate for a collaborative relationship with your kids and students, and I provide practical insights and resources for creating a collaborative environment. I emphasize the importance of spending quality time without distractions to build connections and suggest ways to provide opportunities for children to connect with you and with peers. You can even download my annual goal planning worksheet for 2024 in the show notes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/9e0f3cad-1b0d-3746-9072-8e7a272e8c99</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jan 2024 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247210/246_make_this_the_year_of_connection_and_collaboration_with_pennyb8a3t.mp3" length="22875280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, we’re setting achievable intentions for the new year, with a strong focus on nurturing connections and fostering collaboration with our neurodivergent kids and teens. As always, I’m challenging the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, we’re setting achievable intentions for the new year, with a strong focus on nurturing connections and fostering collaboration with our neurodivergent kids and teens. As always, I’m challenging the traditional authoritarian parenting/educating approach and advocate for a collaborative relationship with your kids and students, and I provide practical insights and resources for creating a collaborative environment. I emphasize the importance of spending quality time without distractions to build connections and suggest ways to provide opportunities for children to connect with you and with peers. You can even download my annual goal planning worksheet for 2024 in the show notes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1433</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>251</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>245: Supporting Siblings of Neurodivergent Kids with Doreen Samelson, EdD, MSCP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/245-supporting-siblings-of-neurodivergent-kids-with-doreen-samelson-edd-mscp--59247186</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Doreen Samelson, EdD, MSCP to discuss the emotional impact on neurotypical siblings of neurodivergent children. Learn about the importance of acknowledging and accepting diverse emotions, creating intentional time for the siblings, and seeking support from networks and family members. This episode offers practical resources and highlights the significance of open dialogue and radical empathy in supporting all family members.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/36d41938-1d27-3858-b5da-4d4917f4ee8a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247186/245_supporting_siblings_of_neurodivergent_kids7loq1.mp3" length="29332507" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Doreen Samelson, EdD, MSCP to discuss the emotional impact on neurotypical siblings of neurodivergent children. Learn about the importance of acknowledging and accepting diverse emotions, creating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Doreen Samelson, EdD, MSCP to discuss the emotional impact on neurotypical siblings of neurodivergent children. Learn about the importance of acknowledging and accepting diverse emotions, creating intentional time for the siblings, and seeking support from networks and family members. This episode offers practical resources and highlights the significance of open dialogue and radical empathy in supporting all family members.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1838</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>250</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>244: Is It Can’t or Won’t?, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/244-is-it-can-t-or-won-t-with-penny-williams--59247283</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m taking a deep dive into the concept of "can't versus won't" when examining a child's behavior. It’s important to understand that the majority of the time, when a child is struggling, it is a "can't" rather than a "won't," even when it feels like an undoubtable won’t. I cover the complexities involved in assessing the "doability" of tasks for neurodivergent kids and provide an acronym, "DESKS," to help parents and educators analyze the factors that contribute to a task's doability for that child. Each factor plays a significant role in determining whether a child can or cannot complete a task without significant support or accommodations. Learn to approach challenges with empathy and understanding, and the framework required to assess doability to support children in overcoming barriers to achieving success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ea902430-7379-3295-85d1-245161c16f8a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Dec 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247283/244_is_it_can_t_or_won_t8nyc5.mp3" length="20539206" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m taking a deep dive into the concept of "can't versus won't" when examining a child's behavior. It’s important to understand that the majority of the time, when a child is struggling, it is a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m taking a deep dive into the concept of "can't versus won't" when examining a child's behavior. It’s important to understand that the majority of the time, when a child is struggling, it is a "can't" rather than a "won't," even when it feels like an undoubtable won’t. I cover the complexities involved in assessing the "doability" of tasks for neurodivergent kids and provide an acronym, "DESKS," to help parents and educators analyze the factors that contribute to a task's doability for that child. Each factor plays a significant role in determining whether a child can or cannot complete a task without significant support or accommodations. Learn to approach challenges with empathy and understanding, and the framework required to assess doability to support children in overcoming barriers to achieving success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1287</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>249</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>243: Strategies to Strengthen Your Family, with Brent Crandal, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/243-strategies-to-strengthen-your-family-with-brent-crandal-ph-d--59247200</link><description><![CDATA[In today's episode,I have the pleasure of hosting Dr. Brent Crandal, a clinical psychologist and children's book author. Join me for this thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Crandal about practical ways to build mindfulness and connection within families. From fostering gratitude to promoting a culture of hope, this episode presents valuable insights and actionable strategies to enhance family dynamics. We delve into the importance of mental health hygiene, modeling healthy behaviors, and finding balance in parenting. This episode is filled with wisdom and inspiration. So, grab your favorite beverage, get cozy, and get ready to be uplifted by this enriching conversation.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/5b912389-28ca-37af-bf15-c66314e24990</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247200/243_strategies_to_strengthen_your_family_final6lwr4.mp3" length="29993451" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In today's episode,I have the pleasure of hosting Dr. Brent Crandal, a clinical psychologist and children's book author. Join me for this thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Crandal about practical ways to build mindfulness and connection within...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In today's episode,I have the pleasure of hosting Dr. Brent Crandal, a clinical psychologist and children's book author. Join me for this thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Crandal about practical ways to build mindfulness and connection within families. From fostering gratitude to promoting a culture of hope, this episode presents valuable insights and actionable strategies to enhance family dynamics. We delve into the importance of mental health hygiene, modeling healthy behaviors, and finding balance in parenting. This episode is filled with wisdom and inspiration. So, grab your favorite beverage, get cozy, and get ready to be uplifted by this enriching conversation.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1879</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>248</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>242: 5 Ways to Boost Your Teen’s Confidence, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/242-5-ways-to-boost-your-teen-s-confidence-with-penny-williams--59247219</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I outline five strategies to boost the confidence of neurodivergent teens and young adults. I emphasize the importance of leaning into a strengths-based approach, fostering a growth mindset, providing opportunities for talents, interests, and passions, making "time in" a part of the family culture, and being transparent about your humanness, frustration tolerance, grit, and resilience for your teens. I share practical examples and insights on implementing these strategies to help you guide your neurodivergent kids towards building confidence and self-esteem.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/8548b4d0-4460-3112-bf5e-5461ce81f541</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2023 16:52:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247219/242_5_strategies_to_boost_your_teen_s_confidence_final9jwye.mp3" length="21150141" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I outline five strategies to boost the confidence of neurodivergent teens and young adults. I emphasize the importance of leaning into a strengths-based approach, fostering a growth mindset,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I outline five strategies to boost the confidence of neurodivergent teens and young adults. I emphasize the importance of leaning into a strengths-based approach, fostering a growth mindset, providing opportunities for talents, interests, and passions, making "time in" a part of the family culture, and being transparent about your humanness, frustration tolerance, grit, and resilience for your teens. I share practical examples and insights on implementing these strategies to help you guide your neurodivergent kids towards building confidence and self-esteem.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1325</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>247</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>241: Building Habits Using Emotional Rewards, with Leslie Josel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/241-building-habits-using-emotional-rewards-with-leslie-josel--59247195</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Leslie Josel and I explore the crucial role of emotional rewards in building habits and fostering positive behavior in neurodivergent children. We highlight the significance of specific praise, genuine curiosity, and active listening in reinforcing routines and solidifying relationships. The conversation also delves into the challenges of effective communication and the importance of providing space for children to process. You’ll get practical insights and strategies, and be empowered with valuable tools to support your child’s development and nurture meaningful connections.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2c9e17fa-aaf9-3cdf-80fc-04ca0b38439c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Nov 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247195/241_building_habits_using_emotional_rewards_final8nomm.mp3" length="32999191" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Leslie Josel and I explore the crucial role of emotional rewards in building habits and fostering positive behavior in neurodivergent children. We highlight the significance of specific praise, genuine...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Leslie Josel and I explore the crucial role of emotional rewards in building habits and fostering positive behavior in neurodivergent children. We highlight the significance of specific praise, genuine curiosity, and active listening in reinforcing routines and solidifying relationships. The conversation also delves into the challenges of effective communication and the importance of providing space for children to process. You’ll get practical insights and strategies, and be empowered with valuable tools to support your child’s development and nurture meaningful connections.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2068</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>246</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>240: Navigating Childhood OCD: A Parent’s Journey, with Brendan Mahan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/240-navigating-childhood-ocd-a-parent-s-journey-with-brendan-mahan--59247400</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, join host Penny Williams as she delves into the topic of childhood OCD with guest Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., MS. Brendan opens up about his personal journey raising a child with OCD and the challenges his child and family faced, and continues to face, along the way. From the early signs of OCD in his son to the impact of COVID on his family dynamics, Brendan shares the highs, lows, and important lessons learned about raising a kid with OCD. Join us as we explore the complexities of OCD, the power of connection, and the realities of being a parent in the face of mental health challenges. This is a conversation you won't want to miss.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0037510c-1c93-3f40-b725-3ebb3236dcb4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247400/240_childhood_ocd_final8715v.mp3" length="45090496" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, join host Penny Williams as she delves into the topic of childhood OCD with guest Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., MS. Brendan opens up about his personal journey raising a child with OCD and the challenges his child and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, join host Penny Williams as she delves into the topic of childhood OCD with guest Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., MS. Brendan opens up about his personal journey raising a child with OCD and the challenges his child and family faced, and continues to face, along the way. From the early signs of OCD in his son to the impact of COVID on his family dynamics, Brendan shares the highs, lows, and important lessons learned about raising a kid with OCD. Join us as we explore the complexities of OCD, the power of connection, and the realities of being a parent in the face of mental health challenges. This is a conversation you won't want to miss.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2825</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>245</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>239: How to Address 5 Common Behavior Challenges at School, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/239-how-to-address-5-common-behavior-challenges-at-school-with-penny-williams--59247211</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m diving into behavior challenges at school. We'll discuss the common struggles faced by children with ADHD, autism, and other developmental delays, and explore effective strategies to help them navigate these challenges. From poor frustration tolerance and off-task behavior to big emotions and argumentativeness, we'll unpack it all. Join me as I share practical tips, insights, and stories to empower parents, educators, and professionals in supporting these beautifully complex individuals.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/f92ff9ba-465d-3e2e-a728-93483807e654</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Nov 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247211/239_behavior_challenges_at_school_final9mdvg.mp3" length="30333716" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m diving into behavior challenges at school. We'll discuss the common struggles faced by children with ADHD, autism, and other developmental delays, and explore effective strategies to help them navigate these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m diving into behavior challenges at school. We'll discuss the common struggles faced by children with ADHD, autism, and other developmental delays, and explore effective strategies to help them navigate these challenges. From poor frustration tolerance and off-task behavior to big emotions and argumentativeness, we'll unpack it all. Join me as I share practical tips, insights, and stories to empower parents, educators, and professionals in supporting these beautifully complex individuals.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1901</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>244</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>238: Music as Medicine, with Luke Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/238-music-as-medicine-with-luke-williams--59247149</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re discussing the incredible power of music for those who are neurodivergent with Penny’s son, Luke. Luke shares his personal journey with music, starting from using it as a tool to assist his focus and mental clarity beginning in fourth grade. He also delves into his experience with creating digital music on his iPad and phone. Penny and Luke explore how this particular form of music — with its rhythmic and often heavy nature — has been instrumental in helping Luke regulate his emotions, cope with overwhelm, and ultimately improve his ability to refocus on his schoolwork. They also touch upon how different music genres, including heavy and fast beats, can have a calming effect on neurodivergent individuals. Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of using music to feel better and do better and uncover the beautiful complexity it brings to our lives.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ba4239e5-3a8f-3e68-b968-696e1e3d9242</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Nov 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247149/238_music_as_medicine_final63mzc.mp3" length="20191430" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re discussing the incredible power of music for those who are neurodivergent with Penny’s son, Luke. Luke shares his personal journey with music, starting from using it as a tool to assist his focus and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we’re discussing the incredible power of music for those who are neurodivergent with Penny’s son, Luke. Luke shares his personal journey with music, starting from using it as a tool to assist his focus and mental clarity beginning in fourth grade. He also delves into his experience with creating digital music on his iPad and phone. Penny and Luke explore how this particular form of music — with its rhythmic and often heavy nature — has been instrumental in helping Luke regulate his emotions, cope with overwhelm, and ultimately improve his ability to refocus on his schoolwork. They also touch upon how different music genres, including heavy and fast beats, can have a calming effect on neurodivergent individuals. Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of using music to feel better and do better and uncover the beautiful complexity it brings to our lives.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1265</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>243</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>237 - Keeping Your Cool: Practical Strategies for Remaining Calm When Your Child Isn’t with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/237-keeping-your-cool-practical-strategies-for-remaining-calm-when-your-child-isn-t-with-penny-williams--59247205</link><description><![CDATA[In today's episode, our host Penny Williams dives deep into a topic that many parents struggle with: how to stay calm in the midst of the storm. As a parenting coach, author, and mindset mama, Penny shares her personal journey of going from a parent who yelled and felt frustrated to one who responds calmly, compassionately, and clear-headedly. From reframing our children's behavior to understanding that it's not personal, Penny offers valuable insights and strategies on how to manage our emotions and effectively support our neurodivergent kids. Let's dive into this beautifully complex topic together.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/eb088591-b3e1-32b6-85a1-8bf481b7c4b0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247205/237_how_to_stay_calm_in_the_midst_of_the_storm_final742jr.mp3" length="18502605" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In today's episode, our host Penny Williams dives deep into a topic that many parents struggle with: how to stay calm in the midst of the storm. As a parenting coach, author, and mindset mama, Penny shares her personal journey of going from a parent...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In today's episode, our host Penny Williams dives deep into a topic that many parents struggle with: how to stay calm in the midst of the storm. As a parenting coach, author, and mindset mama, Penny shares her personal journey of going from a parent who yelled and felt frustrated to one who responds calmly, compassionately, and clear-headedly. From reframing our children's behavior to understanding that it's not personal, Penny offers valuable insights and strategies on how to manage our emotions and effectively support our neurodivergent kids. Let's dive into this beautifully complex topic together.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1159</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>242</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>236: Insider View: How to Work with the ADHD Brain, with Alice Gendron</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/236-insider-view-how-to-work-with-the-adhd-brain-with-alice-gendron--59247174</link><description><![CDATA[I have a special guest in this episode — Alice Gendron, also known as The Mini ADHD Coach. Alice shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 29 and the challenges she faced afterward. She discusses the misconceptions surrounding ADHD, particularly in women and girls, and highlights the importance of understanding the different ways in which ADHD can manifest. Join us as we dive deep into this beautifully complex topic and gain valuable insights into working with the ADHD brain.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7be6d84b-ec24-3ca8-b693-0f5dad57edb3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247174/236_insider_view_how_to_work_with_the_adhd_brain_final8kusf.mp3" length="24552026" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I have a special guest in this episode — Alice Gendron, also known as The Mini ADHD Coach. Alice shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 29 and the challenges she faced afterward. She discusses the misconceptions...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I have a special guest in this episode — Alice Gendron, also known as The Mini ADHD Coach. Alice shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 29 and the challenges she faced afterward. She discusses the misconceptions surrounding ADHD, particularly in women and girls, and highlights the importance of understanding the different ways in which ADHD can manifest. Join us as we dive deep into this beautifully complex topic and gain valuable insights into working with the ADHD brain.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1538</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>241</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>235: De-escalating Challenging Behavior with Dayna Abraham</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/235-de-escalating-challenging-behavior-with-dayna-abraham--59247417</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I’m diving deep into the topic of de-escalating challenging behavior with Dayna Abraham of Calm the Chaos. As parents of neurodivergent kids, we often face moments when our children's behaviors become overwhelming and difficult to handle. This discussion will provide you with valuable insights and strategies for navigating these situations. We explore the concept that all behavior is communication and how to approach challenging behaviors as clues of dysregulation, rather than as negative actions. We also discuss the importance of staying calm, being mindful of our words and actions, and using tools like sensory anchors to ground ourselves in tough times. Plus, wel explore how our own behavior as parents can influence the outcome of these challenging moments. So get ready to gain some powerful tools for de-escalation and join us on this journey of understanding and embracing the beautifully complex adventure of parenting neurodivergent children.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2df63146-641a-3bad-a28d-cf07ff16e003</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247417/235_de_escalating_challenging_behaviorbdenr.mp3" length="29113573" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I’m diving deep into the topic of de-escalating challenging behavior with Dayna Abraham of Calm the Chaos. As parents of neurodivergent kids, we often face moments when our children's behaviors become overwhelming and difficult to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I’m diving deep into the topic of de-escalating challenging behavior with Dayna Abraham of Calm the Chaos. As parents of neurodivergent kids, we often face moments when our children's behaviors become overwhelming and difficult to handle. This discussion will provide you with valuable insights and strategies for navigating these situations. We explore the concept that all behavior is communication and how to approach challenging behaviors as clues of dysregulation, rather than as negative actions. We also discuss the importance of staying calm, being mindful of our words and actions, and using tools like sensory anchors to ground ourselves in tough times. Plus, wel explore how our own behavior as parents can influence the outcome of these challenging moments. So get ready to gain some powerful tools for de-escalation and join us on this journey of understanding and embracing the beautifully complex adventure of parenting neurodivergent children.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1824</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>240</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233F Refocus on Big Picture Goals</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233f-refocus-on-big-picture-goals--59247193</link><description><![CDATA[I’m diving into the big picture goals of education and how refocusing on those overarching goals helps struggling learners thrive. Join me as I discuss how understanding the true purpose of education and the true purpose of each task or assignment can level the playing field for struggling learners and enhance a child's learning journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/35ecb381-adbb-333f-8bc3-66033e8eb3f3</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247193/bc_233f_summit89ctt.mp3" length="7099702" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I’m diving into the big picture goals of education and how refocusing on those overarching goals helps struggling learners thrive. Join me as I discuss how understanding the true purpose of education and the true purpose of each task or assignment can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’m diving into the big picture goals of education and how refocusing on those overarching goals helps struggling learners thrive. Join me as I discuss how understanding the true purpose of education and the true purpose of each task or assignment can level the playing field for struggling learners and enhance a child's learning journey.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>445</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6a4ecd7ab028b8859a06710c0131f197.jpg"/><itunes:episode>238</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233E Neurobiology’s Role in Availability to Learn</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233e-neurobiology-s-role-in-availability-to-learn--59247206</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss the role of neurobiology in our ability to learn. Join me as we uncover the science behind how our nervous system’s state impacts our availability to learn. We will explore the concept of regulation and why it is crucial for optimal learning. Get ready for some eye-opening insights that will challenge the traditional educational norms we've been accustomed to.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/26302cd6-3fe3-331e-b6eb-1e15cf65175f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247206/bc_233e_summitabvkg.mp3" length="5397925" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I discuss the role of neurobiology in our ability to learn. Join me as we uncover the science behind how our nervous system’s state impacts our availability to learn. We will explore the concept of regulation and why it is crucial for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss the role of neurobiology in our ability to learn. Join me as we uncover the science behind how our nervous system’s state impacts our availability to learn. We will explore the concept of regulation and why it is crucial for optimal learning. Get ready for some eye-opening insights that will challenge the traditional educational norms we've been accustomed to.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f3b76b08011a12e4d4a09d3a2dec70ee.jpg"/><itunes:episode>237</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233D Offering Just Right Challenges</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233d-offering-just-right-challenges--59247207</link><description><![CDATA[The concept of the "just right challenge" plays a crucial role in supporting growth and success for neurodivergent kids in school. I share insights on finding the balance between pushing children outside their comfort zones and ensuring they can still achieve success. I emphasize the need to meet kids where they are and create opportunities for growth, all while understanding the ever-changing nature of neurodiversity. Tune in to learn more about the Zone of Proximal Development and how to navigate the complexities of setting appropriate challenges for struggling students.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7768ea41-e414-380a-915c-d95fa1903b3e</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247207/bc_233d_summit8qrb7.mp3" length="5897074" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The concept of the "just right challenge" plays a crucial role in supporting growth and success for neurodivergent kids in school. I share insights on finding the balance between pushing children outside their comfort zones and ensuring they can still...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The concept of the "just right challenge" plays a crucial role in supporting growth and success for neurodivergent kids in school. I share insights on finding the balance between pushing children outside their comfort zones and ensuring they can still achieve success. I emphasize the need to meet kids where they are and create opportunities for growth, all while understanding the ever-changing nature of neurodiversity. Tune in to learn more about the Zone of Proximal Development and how to navigate the complexities of setting appropriate challenges for struggling students.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>369</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b38a5f63c42607a576bec97272a37e66.jpg"/><itunes:episode>236</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233C Fostering a Culture of Community in Schools</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233c-fostering-a-culture-of-community-in-schools--59247318</link><description><![CDATA[Connection and a sense of belonging are integral to learning. Join me as I explore strategies for creating a community that not only supports academic growth but also celebrates individual differences. Tune in to discover how building a culture of community can positively impact students' emotional well-being and engagement in the learning process.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/53612102-6419-3bdf-8cc8-69cb95a6200c</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247318/bc_233c_summitbdf86.mp3" length="4919209" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Connection and a sense of belonging are integral to learning. Join me as I explore strategies for creating a community that not only supports academic growth but also celebrates individual differences. Tune in to discover how building a culture of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Connection and a sense of belonging are integral to learning. Join me as I explore strategies for creating a community that not only supports academic growth but also celebrates individual differences. Tune in to discover how building a culture of community can positively impact students' emotional well-being and engagement in the learning process.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>308</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/32e565586d0960ec9bab0490d332d22c.jpg"/><itunes:episode>235</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233B Normalizing Differences in Education</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233b-normalizing-differences-in-education--59247160</link><description><![CDATA[Normalizing differences in education is a key topic for creating schools that are equitable to all learners. I share valuable lessons learned from experts on how to embrace neurodiversity, different learning styles, and unique needs in the classroom. Join me as I uncover strategies to create a culture of acceptance, foster community, and encourage open conversations about alternative approaches to learning. It's time to make education a place where every student feels seen, understood, and successful.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/92b64fce-0d4f-3ab4-86ac-fd8c60599623</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247160/bc_233b_summitboykb.mp3" length="4425481" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Normalizing differences in education is a key topic for creating schools that are equitable to all learners. I share valuable lessons learned from experts on how to embrace neurodiversity, different learning styles, and unique needs in the classroom....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Normalizing differences in education is a key topic for creating schools that are equitable to all learners. I share valuable lessons learned from experts on how to embrace neurodiversity, different learning styles, and unique needs in the classroom. Join me as I uncover strategies to create a culture of acceptance, foster community, and encourage open conversations about alternative approaches to learning. It's time to make education a place where every student feels seen, understood, and successful.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>277</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cd66c73fbac34d1c7238ecf68d9f7223.jpg"/><itunes:episode>234</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>233A The Need for Flexibility in Education</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/233a-the-need-for-flexibility-in-education--59247141</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, I explore the crucial importance of providing adaptable approaches to education for neurodivergent children and those who struggle in school. Prepare to discover three key ways to implement flexibility in education, ranging from the flexibility of the learning environment to accommodating different modalities of learning and allowing individualized planning and organization.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/17326dcf-d533-331d-b859-87e6d623b1b3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247141/bc_233a_summit6plmv.mp3" length="7287352" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I explore the crucial importance of providing adaptable approaches to education for neurodivergent children and those who struggle in school. Prepare to discover three key ways to implement flexibility in education, ranging from the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I explore the crucial importance of providing adaptable approaches to education for neurodivergent children and those who struggle in school. Prepare to discover three key ways to implement flexibility in education, ranging from the flexibility of the learning environment to accommodating different modalities of learning and allowing individualized planning and organization.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>457</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/99bbb8f6c1e51a76dacf31fc50d40814.jpg"/><itunes:episode>233</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>232: How to Talk to Kids About School Shootings, with Julie Kaplow, PhD, ABPP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/232-how-to-talk-to-kids-about-school-shootings-with-julie-kaplow-phd-abpp--59247287</link><description><![CDATA[In 2022, 34 students and adults died in school shootings, while more than 43,000 children were exposed to gunfire at school. These are startling statistics, but an epidemic that many Americans have grown somewhat numb to. While we’ve become accustomed to expecting more school shootings, it doesn’t reduce the fear and anxiety kids and parents feel. In fact, the inevitability keeps the lack of control top of mind.  In this episode, I’m joined by the Executive Director of the Trauma and Grief Centers, Dr. Julie Kaplow, to learn what we can do as parents and caregivers to help kids navigate the emotions and fears they feel when a school shooting happens. First and foremost, Dr. Kaplow says we have to talk about the tragedies with our kids. Listen in to learn more about what you can do to empower your kids to navigate tragedy and the resulting fear it often causes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/f963049f-7563-3022-84f0-210cfe4e4c80</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247287/232_how_to_talk_to_kids_about_school_shootings_final7jojh.mp3" length="21939912" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2022, 34 students and adults died in school shootings, while more than 43,000 children were exposed to gunfire at school. These are startling statistics, but an epidemic that many Americans have grown somewhat numb to. While we’ve become accustomed...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In 2022, 34 students and adults died in school shootings, while more than 43,000 children were exposed to gunfire at school. These are startling statistics, but an epidemic that many Americans have grown somewhat numb to. While we’ve become accustomed to expecting more school shootings, it doesn’t reduce the fear and anxiety kids and parents feel. In fact, the inevitability keeps the lack of control top of mind.  In this episode, I’m joined by the Executive Director of the Trauma and Grief Centers, Dr. Julie Kaplow, to learn what we can do as parents and caregivers to help kids navigate the emotions and fears they feel when a school shooting happens. First and foremost, Dr. Kaplow says we have to talk about the tragedies with our kids. Listen in to learn more about what you can do to empower your kids to navigate tragedy and the resulting fear it often causes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1375</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>232</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>231: Sensory Strategies for Self-Regulation, with Rachel Harrington, COTA/L, AC and Jessica Hill, COTA/L</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/231-sensory-strategies-for-self-regulation-with-rachel-harrington-cota-l-ac-and-jessica-hill-cota-l--59247218</link><description><![CDATA[Everyone has eight senses — the five we know commonly, which are our “far” senses, and the three additional senses that are our “near” senses. The three additional senses of vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoception are vitally important to regulation.    In this episode, I’m joined by occupational therapists, Rachel Harrington and Jessica Hill, hosts of the All Things Sensory podcast. Listen in to learn about the three “near” senses, how to put on your sensory goggles to decode behavior and help your kids regulate, and many tools and activities for the different sensory areas.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c7efb5ce-4379-3de5-a493-cc89369c45b9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247218/231_sensory_strategies_for_self_regbkk49.mp3" length="30425452" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Everyone has eight senses — the five we know commonly, which are our “far” senses, and the three additional senses that are our “near” senses. The three additional senses of vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoception are vitally important to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everyone has eight senses — the five we know commonly, which are our “far” senses, and the three additional senses that are our “near” senses. The three additional senses of vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoception are vitally important to regulation.    In this episode, I’m joined by occupational therapists, Rachel Harrington and Jessica Hill, hosts of the All Things Sensory podcast. Listen in to learn about the three “near” senses, how to put on your sensory goggles to decode behavior and help your kids regulate, and many tools and activities for the different sensory areas.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1906</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>231</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>230: Setting Neurodivergent Kids Up for Success at School</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/230-setting-neurodivergent-kids-up-for-success-at-school--59247391</link><description><![CDATA[School is hard for neurodivergent kids — there's no question about that. Traditional educational systems are not designed for kids who learn differently. That means we have to advocate for our children and take steps to provide a path for success. First and foremost, we must understand the end goal of schooling: to provide our children with the education and skills they need to thrive as adults. We can't achieve that if we get caught up in just conforming to a rigid system. Instead, let's focus on nurturing their individuality and helping them discover their sense of purpose. Our kids need to understand why they're learning certain things and how it will impact their lives. And here's the key: we need to create opportunities for them to experience success, no matter how small. Remember, learning and growth is a process, and it's important to meet kids where they are, celebrate their victories, and empower them with ownership and control over their education. Listen in to learn how.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/fc325f01-ac6a-3371-89e5-d3fbfaa8db1e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Aug 2023 15:01:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247391/230_setting_nd_kids_up_for_school_success.mp3" length="23762632" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>School is hard for neurodivergent kids — there's no question about that. Traditional educational systems are not designed for kids who learn differently. That means we have to advocate for our children and take steps to provide a path for success....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[School is hard for neurodivergent kids — there's no question about that. Traditional educational systems are not designed for kids who learn differently. That means we have to advocate for our children and take steps to provide a path for success. First and foremost, we must understand the end goal of schooling: to provide our children with the education and skills they need to thrive as adults. We can't achieve that if we get caught up in just conforming to a rigid system. Instead, let's focus on nurturing their individuality and helping them discover their sense of purpose. Our kids need to understand why they're learning certain things and how it will impact their lives. And here's the key: we need to create opportunities for them to experience success, no matter how small. Remember, learning and growth is a process, and it's important to meet kids where they are, celebrate their victories, and empower them with ownership and control over their education. Listen in to learn how.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1489</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>230</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>229: Nurturing Grit — The Art of Failing Forward, with John Willson</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/229-nurturing-grit-the-art-of-failing-forward-with-john-willson--59247228</link><description><![CDATA[Everyone needs grit for self-actualization. Without experiencing that we can do hard things and be okay on the other side, we don’t feel truly successful and fulfilled. Of course, we want this for our kids — we want them to have grit and to feel a great sense of achievement and purpose. So how do we foster grit in our kids (and ourselves, btw)? The short answer is that we allow failure and then learn and grow from it. As the executive director of SOAR, John Willson (or Big John as I and his campers know him) explains to us, it means that it’s imperative that we stop rescuing our kids too quickly. We must teach them to “fail forward,” as he calls it. We must step back and watch the hard thing happen to them or witness them really struggling with something, and then wait for the recovery and the sense of true accomplishment to hit them. Doability and support are crucial, of course. Listen in for the full conversation on helping kids build grit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0eac01f6-b152-341f-a9e3-313c555929c0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Aug 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247228/229_nurturing_grit_finala2h61.mp3" length="25373069" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Everyone needs grit for self-actualization. Without experiencing that we can do hard things and be okay on the other side, we don’t feel truly successful and fulfilled. Of course, we want this for our kids — we want them to have grit and to feel a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everyone needs grit for self-actualization. Without experiencing that we can do hard things and be okay on the other side, we don’t feel truly successful and fulfilled. Of course, we want this for our kids — we want them to have grit and to feel a great sense of achievement and purpose. So how do we foster grit in our kids (and ourselves, btw)? The short answer is that we allow failure and then learn and grow from it. As the executive director of SOAR, John Willson (or Big John as I and his campers know him) explains to us, it means that it’s imperative that we stop rescuing our kids too quickly. We must teach them to “fail forward,” as he calls it. We must step back and watch the hard thing happen to them or witness them really struggling with something, and then wait for the recovery and the sense of true accomplishment to hit them. Doability and support are crucial, of course. Listen in for the full conversation on helping kids build grit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1590</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>229</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>228: Shifting Away from a Rules &amp; Limits Mentality, with Dayna Abraham</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/228-shifting-away-from-a-rules-limits-mentality-with-dayna-abraham--59247222</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture is pretty rigid and it calls for parents to be rigid in their parenting as well — you set rules and limits, kids break them, you punish them. But, this is not good parenting!  Kids do need structure but they also need the space to be authentically who they are and find their own path. Rigidity doesn’t allow kids to be true to themselves, it doesn’t allow parents to feel good about their relationships with their kids, and it doesn’t prepare kids for adulthood and independence. There is a better way.  Author of Calm the Chaos, Dayna Abraham, joins me in this episode to talk about why we need to shift from rules and limits and what we should shift to, boundaries and agreements, routines and plans. Listen in to learn a values-based family system and how to implement it in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/707ce925-03ce-3433-afcc-dd40da729a64</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Aug 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247222/228_shifting_from_rules_limits_final89z96.mp3" length="33331528" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture is pretty rigid and it calls for parents to be rigid in their parenting as well — you set rules and limits, kids break them, you punish them. But, this is not good parenting!  Kids do need structure but they also need the space to be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture is pretty rigid and it calls for parents to be rigid in their parenting as well — you set rules and limits, kids break them, you punish them. But, this is not good parenting!  Kids do need structure but they also need the space to be authentically who they are and find their own path. Rigidity doesn’t allow kids to be true to themselves, it doesn’t allow parents to feel good about their relationships with their kids, and it doesn’t prepare kids for adulthood and independence. There is a better way.  Author of Calm the Chaos, Dayna Abraham, joins me in this episode to talk about why we need to shift from rules and limits and what we should shift to, boundaries and agreements, routines and plans. Listen in to learn a values-based family system and how to implement it in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2088</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>228</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>227: The Trauma of Parenting and How to Heal, with Dr. Aimie Apigian, MD, MS, MPH</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/227-the-trauma-of-parenting-and-how-to-heal-with-dr-aimie-apigian-md-ms-mph--59247166</link><description><![CDATA[Parenting itself can be traumatic — it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders to protect your child while also teaching them to live their truth and live it fearlessly. When you add in neurodivergence, you amplify the stress, anxiety, and intensity. And your body holds onto that stress, anxiety, and intensity — it doesn’t feel safe and it signals you not just emotionally and mentally, but physically as well.  I’m honored to have the founder of The Biology of Trauma, Dr. Aimie Apigian, with me in this episode to discuss not only the trauma and what it may feel like for you in the ways your body is responding, but also the process of repair and healing. Listen in to also hear Dr. Aimee take me through two very short exercises to help relieve the stress and overwhelm right when it hits us the hardest. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/95c0ba07-6695-3c57-8a19-33c765901e11</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247166/227_the_trauma_of_parenting_nd_kids_final9gfax.mp3" length="31861190" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parenting itself can be traumatic — it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders to protect your child while also teaching them to live their truth and live it fearlessly. When you add in neurodivergence, you amplify the stress, anxiety,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parenting itself can be traumatic — it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders to protect your child while also teaching them to live their truth and live it fearlessly. When you add in neurodivergence, you amplify the stress, anxiety, and intensity. And your body holds onto that stress, anxiety, and intensity — it doesn’t feel safe and it signals you not just emotionally and mentally, but physically as well.  I’m honored to have the founder of The Biology of Trauma, Dr. Aimie Apigian, with me in this episode to discuss not only the trauma and what it may feel like for you in the ways your body is responding, but also the process of repair and healing. Listen in to also hear Dr. Aimee take me through two very short exercises to help relieve the stress and overwhelm right when it hits us the hardest. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1996</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>227</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>226: 5 Tools to Foster Self-Regulation, with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. &amp; Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/226-5-tools-to-foster-self-regulation-with-sarah-wayland-ph-d-penny-williams--59247230</link><description><![CDATA[One of the struggles we hear from parents again and again is that their child lacks self-regulation. Being with a kid who can’t self-regulate day in and day out is challenging, no doubt. But you can help your kid calm and kids can learn to self-regulate — you just need the right strategies. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, outline five strategies to help your child get regulated or to foster their own self-regulation skills. Most of these can be woven into your everyday lives and things you’re already doing. Remember, when kids are regulated, their bodies and brains are able to engage and get things done, and they can feel good about themselves. Regulation is a key priority.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/59e72a97-73ad-3ed0-9f83-a7907869b616</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247230/226_tools_to_teach_self_regulation_final7ivkw.mp3" length="35213868" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the struggles we hear from parents again and again is that their child lacks self-regulation. Being with a kid who can’t self-regulate day in and day out is challenging, no doubt. But you can help your kid calm and kids can learn to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the struggles we hear from parents again and again is that their child lacks self-regulation. Being with a kid who can’t self-regulate day in and day out is challenging, no doubt. But you can help your kid calm and kids can learn to self-regulate — you just need the right strategies. In this episode of Beautifully Complex, outline five strategies to help your child get regulated or to foster their own self-regulation skills. Most of these can be woven into your everyday lives and things you’re already doing. Remember, when kids are regulated, their bodies and brains are able to engage and get things done, and they can feel good about themselves. Regulation is a key priority.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2206</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>226</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>225: Beating Overwhelm: Manage Your Energy, Not Your Time, with Heather Chauvin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/225-beating-overwhelm-manage-your-energy-not-your-time-with-heather-chauvin--59247214</link><description><![CDATA[It’s hard not to get overwhelmed when parenting neurodivergent kids. The chaos, the school meetings, the appointments, the seemingly never-ending need… it’s a lot to juggle. But what our souls crave — what we need to truly live — is joy, ease, and presence.   In this episode, Heather Chauvin of Emotionally Uncomfortable reminds us that overwhelm is just a symptom, not a lifestyle. Instead, focusing on how you feel and how you want to feel can create a transformation in your body, mind, and spirit. Listen in to learn how to take charge of your energy and how you feel.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c8c6e19c-7c59-38ad-a3a2-21b54725617e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247214/225_beating_overwhelm_final8gck3.mp3" length="33148871" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s hard not to get overwhelmed when parenting neurodivergent kids. The chaos, the school meetings, the appointments, the seemingly never-ending need… it’s a lot to juggle. But what our souls crave — what we need to truly live — is joy, ease, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s hard not to get overwhelmed when parenting neurodivergent kids. The chaos, the school meetings, the appointments, the seemingly never-ending need… it’s a lot to juggle. But what our souls crave — what we need to truly live — is joy, ease, and presence.   In this episode, Heather Chauvin of Emotionally Uncomfortable reminds us that overwhelm is just a symptom, not a lifestyle. Instead, focusing on how you feel and how you want to feel can create a transformation in your body, mind, and spirit. Listen in to learn how to take charge of your energy and how you feel.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2077</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>225</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>224: Hiding in Plain Sight: Understanding Less-Obvious Autism, with Donna Henderson, Psy.D. &amp; Sarah Wayland, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/224-hiding-in-plain-sight-understanding-less-obvious-autism-with-donna-henderson-psy-d-sarah-wayland-ph-d--59247223</link><description><![CDATA[Though our understanding of autism has greatly expanded, many autistic individuals are still missed or misdiagnosed. Not all autistics are severely outwardly impacted, like Rainman. Autism is a spectrum and it can show up in many different ways — even camouflaged.   In this episode, I’m talking with Donna Henderson, Psy.D. &amp; Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., authors of the new book,  Is This Autism? A guide for clinicians and everyone else. We talk through the diagnostic criteria of autism in a new way — through a lens of understanding the deeper nuances of each area and what those symptoms might look like in a child, adolescent, or adult who has less-obvious autism. Those who are hiding in plain sight.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/6ff91f00-f825-3b76-a630-f677701a1fc8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jun 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247223/224_hiding_in_plain_sight_finalaccdu.mp3" length="36044108" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Though our understanding of autism has greatly expanded, many autistic individuals are still missed or misdiagnosed. Not all autistics are severely outwardly impacted, like Rainman. Autism is a spectrum and it can show up in many different ways — even...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Though our understanding of autism has greatly expanded, many autistic individuals are still missed or misdiagnosed. Not all autistics are severely outwardly impacted, like Rainman. Autism is a spectrum and it can show up in many different ways — even camouflaged.   In this episode, I’m talking with Donna Henderson, Psy.D. &amp; Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., authors of the new book,  Is This Autism? A guide for clinicians and everyone else. We talk through the diagnostic criteria of autism in a new way — through a lens of understanding the deeper nuances of each area and what those symptoms might look like in a child, adolescent, or adult who has less-obvious autism. Those who are hiding in plain sight.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2258</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>224</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>223: Feeling Stuck in the Stuck of Stuck, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/223-feeling-stuck-in-the-stuck-of-stuck-with-penny-williams--59247152</link><description><![CDATA[We talk a lot about strategies for when our kids get stuck, but what about us? Parents can certainly feel stuck too. I’m feeling it to the nth degree these days, and I’ve decided to share my current feelings of being stuck in the stuck of stuck and what I’m doing to slowly find my way out of that darkness.  In this episode I share my current stuckness, how doing simple things has been hard for me, and what my therapist is helping me do to feel better so I can do better. I hope that my openness in sharing some of my personal story helps you feel a little less alone and inspires a new perspective for yourself or your parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/13253843-2e06-3f1f-8b0b-96cd5b2feb6a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247152/223_feeling_stuck_final7xjqw.mp3" length="22372753" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We talk a lot about strategies for when our kids get stuck, but what about us? Parents can certainly feel stuck too. I’m feeling it to the nth degree these days, and I’ve decided to share my current feelings of being stuck in the stuck of stuck and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We talk a lot about strategies for when our kids get stuck, but what about us? Parents can certainly feel stuck too. I’m feeling it to the nth degree these days, and I’ve decided to share my current feelings of being stuck in the stuck of stuck and what I’m doing to slowly find my way out of that darkness.  In this episode I share my current stuckness, how doing simple things has been hard for me, and what my therapist is helping me do to feel better so I can do better. I hope that my openness in sharing some of my personal story helps you feel a little less alone and inspires a new perspective for yourself or your parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1402</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>223</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>222: Managing the Overwhelm in Neurodiverse Families, with Kelly Fradin, M.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/222-managing-the-overwhelm-in-neurodiverse-families-with-kelly-fradin-m-d--59247220</link><description><![CDATA[It’s easy to get overwhelmed by your child’s behavior, numerous possible interventions, school struggles, medication trials, and your feelings about all those things when you have a child with ADHD or autism. And we can’t live our best lives, or help our children live their best lives, when we’re overwhelmed and trying to do too much at once.  “We’re living in systems that make it hard for [parents of ND kids],” says Dr. Kelly Fradin. That inherently brings more difficulty to parenting complex kids. In this episode, Dr. Fradin shares strategies on both coping with the emotional aspects for parents and helping our kids develop and grow in their own time. It’s a process, and Dr. Fradin is here to help you with it.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2fea95c8-046f-3edc-95dc-ffe7e65d30de</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247220/222_managing_the_overwhelm_finalakw58.mp3" length="30141476" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s easy to get overwhelmed by your child’s behavior, numerous possible interventions, school struggles, medication trials, and your feelings about all those things when you have a child with ADHD or autism. And we can’t live our best lives, or help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s easy to get overwhelmed by your child’s behavior, numerous possible interventions, school struggles, medication trials, and your feelings about all those things when you have a child with ADHD or autism. And we can’t live our best lives, or help our children live their best lives, when we’re overwhelmed and trying to do too much at once.  “We’re living in systems that make it hard for [parents of ND kids],” says Dr. Kelly Fradin. That inherently brings more difficulty to parenting complex kids. In this episode, Dr. Fradin shares strategies on both coping with the emotional aspects for parents and helping our kids develop and grow in their own time. It’s a process, and Dr. Fradin is here to help you with it.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1889</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>222</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>221: The Suicide Epidemic, with Jonathan B. Singer, Ph.D., LCSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/221-the-suicide-epidemic-with-jonathan-b-singer-ph-d-lcsw--59247302</link><description><![CDATA[The rate of suicide in children is rising sharply, not at a true crisis point. It’s something we worry about as parents, and rightfully so. Especially when we’re talking about a marginalized population like neurodivergent kids. Conversations with our kids about suicide are paramount, but often avoided because it’s a really hard topic to think and talk about.  In this episode, Jonathan Singer, Ph.D., LCSW joins me to talk about suicide. As an expert in the field, Jonathan shares the latest statistics, why the epidemic is increasing, and what we can do about it. He also provides examples of the conversations you should be having with your kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/6086a8cb-62b5-3ef6-84b4-9daca5033698</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247302/221_the_suicide_epidemic_final9bmk5.mp3" length="31213160" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The rate of suicide in children is rising sharply, not at a true crisis point. It’s something we worry about as parents, and rightfully so. Especially when we’re talking about a marginalized population like neurodivergent kids. Conversations with our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The rate of suicide in children is rising sharply, not at a true crisis point. It’s something we worry about as parents, and rightfully so. Especially when we’re talking about a marginalized population like neurodivergent kids. Conversations with our kids about suicide are paramount, but often avoided because it’s a really hard topic to think and talk about.  In this episode, Jonathan Singer, Ph.D., LCSW joins me to talk about suicide. As an expert in the field, Jonathan shares the latest statistics, why the epidemic is increasing, and what we can do about it. He also provides examples of the conversations you should be having with your kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1956</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>221</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>220: Helping with Executive Functioning While Also Empowering Independence, with Franki Bagdade, M. Ed. LLMSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/220-helping-with-executive-functioning-while-also-empowering-independence-with-franki-bagdade-m-ed-llmsw--59247390</link><description><![CDATA[Parents and teachers often worry that if they help a kid with lagging executive functioning skills that the kid won’t develop skills for independence — that they won’t be able to function on their own. But, the truth is, you can help a child with functioning skills and teach them independence skills. The first step is to replace doing things for the child with doing things with the child. In this episode, we talk about the difference between helping in a way that is enabling, versus helping in a way that is empowering. You can support and still teach a kid to be independent. In fact, that’s what good support actually does — it helps and empowers. Listen in to learn how to support a kid who struggles with time management, task initiation, planning, and organizing while also teaching skills and self-accommodations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/90ba2c6d-2607-3bc1-9992-f549913bb42a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247390/220_helping_with_ef_while_building_independence_finalb9105.mp3" length="30458830" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents and teachers often worry that if they help a kid with lagging executive functioning skills that the kid won’t develop skills for independence — that they won’t be able to function on their own. But, the truth is, you can help a child with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents and teachers often worry that if they help a kid with lagging executive functioning skills that the kid won’t develop skills for independence — that they won’t be able to function on their own. But, the truth is, you can help a child with functioning skills and teach them independence skills. The first step is to replace doing things for the child with doing things with the child. In this episode, we talk about the difference between helping in a way that is enabling, versus helping in a way that is empowering. You can support and still teach a kid to be independent. In fact, that’s what good support actually does — it helps and empowers. Listen in to learn how to support a kid who struggles with time management, task initiation, planning, and organizing while also teaching skills and self-accommodations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1908</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>220</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>219: Weeding Out Misinformation, with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/219-weeding-out-misinformation-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247319</link><description><![CDATA[There is a LOT online about ADHD and autism. A LOT! How do you know what to trust, what to try? It can be tough, especially when you’re searching through a lens of fear and worry for your child.    In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we offer some guidelines on knowing what to trust and considering what interventions are worth trying. We talk about ADHD medication, diet, brain training, and more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ae635297-65ac-3e00-9ee9-99a6651c6fd1</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247319/219_weeding_out_misinformation_final9pp8y.mp3" length="32387855" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There is a LOT online about ADHD and autism. A LOT! How do you know what to trust, what to try? It can be tough, especially when you’re searching through a lens of fear and worry for your child.    In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we offer some...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a LOT online about ADHD and autism. A LOT! How do you know what to trust, what to try? It can be tough, especially when you’re searching through a lens of fear and worry for your child.    In this episode of Beautifully Complex, we offer some guidelines on knowing what to trust and considering what interventions are worth trying. We talk about ADHD medication, diet, brain training, and more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2029</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>219</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>218: Check Your Judgment, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/218-check-your-judgment-with-penny-williams--59247168</link><description><![CDATA[You want to help your child. So you make some assumptions as to why they’re upset, why they’re not getting things done, why they’re avoiding or disengaging… You show empathy and validation with that info, still trying to help, and then your kid gets more upset and you can’t figure it out because you feel that you did everything right. The hurdle you tripped over may be assumptions and judgment. We have an opinion about why the behavior is happening and act on it as fact, when it’s really just a guess, at best. This causes so many issues. Tune in to this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast to learn what assumptions you should make and how to check your judgment so you can actually be helpful more often than not.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e279be83-a3a2-3710-b4d3-3b1429b23ffd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247168/218_check_your_judgement_final91bwd.mp3" length="22175936" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want to help your child. So you make some assumptions as to why they’re upset, why they’re not getting things done, why they’re avoiding or disengaging… You show empathy and validation with that info, still trying to help, and then your kid gets...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want to help your child. So you make some assumptions as to why they’re upset, why they’re not getting things done, why they’re avoiding or disengaging… You show empathy and validation with that info, still trying to help, and then your kid gets more upset and you can’t figure it out because you feel that you did everything right. The hurdle you tripped over may be assumptions and judgment. We have an opinion about why the behavior is happening and act on it as fact, when it’s really just a guess, at best. This causes so many issues. Tune in to this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast to learn what assumptions you should make and how to check your judgment so you can actually be helpful more often than not.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1390</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>218</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>217: How to Talk to Kids About Hard Things, with Sara Olsher</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/217-how-to-talk-to-kids-about-hard-things-with-sara-olsher--59247339</link><description><![CDATA[There are some tough and scary things in life that we need to talk to our kids about: divorce, serious illness of a family member, moving, death of a loved one, to name a few. As parents, we don’t want our kids to be hurting and often default to sharing as little painful information as possible with them. But, we do them a great disservice with that approach. Instead we need to be open and honest with them in an age-appropriate way.  What is age-appropriate for these conversations? My guest, Sara Olsher, shares a step-by-step process of talking to kids about hard things that helps parents have the conversation they need to have in a way that works for the child too. We discuss removing the unknown factor, answering questions, and talking about how the child’s day-to-day life may change because of this circumstance. Not only does Sara have the knowledge, but she’s developed the tools for this process as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e735019a-f33e-3d84-9657-36a4aff0792f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Apr 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247339/217_how_to_talk_to_kids_about_hard_things_finalb31lo.mp3" length="35464910" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are some tough and scary things in life that we need to talk to our kids about: divorce, serious illness of a family member, moving, death of a loved one, to name a few. As parents, we don’t want our kids to be hurting and often default to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are some tough and scary things in life that we need to talk to our kids about: divorce, serious illness of a family member, moving, death of a loved one, to name a few. As parents, we don’t want our kids to be hurting and often default to sharing as little painful information as possible with them. But, we do them a great disservice with that approach. Instead we need to be open and honest with them in an age-appropriate way.  What is age-appropriate for these conversations? My guest, Sara Olsher, shares a step-by-step process of talking to kids about hard things that helps parents have the conversation they need to have in a way that works for the child too. We discuss removing the unknown factor, answering questions, and talking about how the child’s day-to-day life may change because of this circumstance. Not only does Sara have the knowledge, but she’s developed the tools for this process as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2222</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>217</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>216: Helping Kids &amp; Teens Develop a Strengths-Based OS, with Matthew Zakreski, Psy.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/216-helping-kids-teens-develop-a-strengths-based-os-with-matthew-zakreski-psy-d--59247323</link><description><![CDATA[Instead of viewing ADHD and autism through the medical model, we need to view them through a strengths-based model as the neurodiversity movement does. A strengths-based model uses interests and strengths to help with challenges. We talk a lot about it in terms of parenting and educating, but now it’s time to teach our kids to operate through a strengths-based lens.  In this episode, Dr. Matt outlines the steps to help your child develop a strengths-based perspective specific to their own strengths and weaknesses. This puts challenges and non-preferred tasks through a lens that the child or teen cares about, making it much more doable. As Dr. Matt reminds us, “Rising tides raise all boats.”<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cfc86ffb-2870-3ecf-b3e6-3ee21fbbe95c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Apr 2023 16:08:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247323/216_helping_kids_adopt_a_strenghts_based_os_finalb72ok.mp3" length="30587262" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Instead of viewing ADHD and autism through the medical model, we need to view them through a strengths-based model as the neurodiversity movement does. A strengths-based model uses interests and strengths to help with challenges. We talk a lot about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Instead of viewing ADHD and autism through the medical model, we need to view them through a strengths-based model as the neurodiversity movement does. A strengths-based model uses interests and strengths to help with challenges. We talk a lot about it in terms of parenting and educating, but now it’s time to teach our kids to operate through a strengths-based lens.  In this episode, Dr. Matt outlines the steps to help your child develop a strengths-based perspective specific to their own strengths and weaknesses. This puts challenges and non-preferred tasks through a lens that the child or teen cares about, making it much more doable. As Dr. Matt reminds us, “Rising tides raise all boats.”<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1917</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>216</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>215: IEP Strategies for Parents, with Catherine Whitcher, M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/215-iep-strategies-for-parents-with-catherine-whitcher-m-ed--59247341</link><description><![CDATA[If there’s one thing parents of struggling learners understand, it’s that the IEP process is complex. Between the law (IDEA), qualifications, the IEP document, goals, measurements, and formal meetings, there’s a lot to know and navigate to ensure that your neurodivergent child receives the education they deserve (and have a right to).   In this episode, I’m joined by Master IEP Coach, Catherine Whitcher. Catherine shares insights on the IEP process,  two main strategies for IEP meetings and what to expect in those meetings, and all the facets of a student should be addressed with special education, not just grades and test scores. Join us to discover your voice of advocacy for your child. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/80b5c23b-3182-395e-accf-cc0f2f0d5521</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247341/215_iep_strategies_for_parents_final9dc49.mp3" length="36490718" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If there’s one thing parents of struggling learners understand, it’s that the IEP process is complex. Between the law (IDEA), qualifications, the IEP document, goals, measurements, and formal meetings, there’s a lot to know and navigate to ensure that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If there’s one thing parents of struggling learners understand, it’s that the IEP process is complex. Between the law (IDEA), qualifications, the IEP document, goals, measurements, and formal meetings, there’s a lot to know and navigate to ensure that your neurodivergent child receives the education they deserve (and have a right to).   In this episode, I’m joined by Master IEP Coach, Catherine Whitcher. Catherine shares insights on the IEP process,  two main strategies for IEP meetings and what to expect in those meetings, and all the facets of a student should be addressed with special education, not just grades and test scores. Join us to discover your voice of advocacy for your child. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2286</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>215</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>214: Helping Teachers Understand Behavior &amp; Neurodivergence, with Emily W. King, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/214-helping-teachers-understand-behavior-neurodivergence-with-emily-w-king-ph-d--59247313</link><description><![CDATA[Biology influences behavior. Being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world does, too. The challenges neurodivergent kids experience at school and in their classrooms are tied to their neurological differences and how their bodies interpret their environment and gauge their safety. When kids don’t feel safe, they cannot regulate and they cannot learn.   In this episode, Dr. Emily King helps us understand the added layer of complexity that neurodivergence adds to a student’s school experience. We discuss the importance of regulation, choice, and interests in helping kids feel safe and helping their bodies be available to learn.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7458b1d9-8a6e-382c-bea1-f3666024deaf</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247313/214_helping_teachers_understand_behavior_finalatfu9.mp3" length="32064690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Biology influences behavior. Being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world does, too. The challenges neurodivergent kids experience at school and in their classrooms are tied to their neurological differences and how their bodies interpret their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Biology influences behavior. Being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world does, too. The challenges neurodivergent kids experience at school and in their classrooms are tied to their neurological differences and how their bodies interpret their environment and gauge their safety. When kids don’t feel safe, they cannot regulate and they cannot learn.   In this episode, Dr. Emily King helps us understand the added layer of complexity that neurodivergence adds to a student’s school experience. We discuss the importance of regulation, choice, and interests in helping kids feel safe and helping their bodies be available to learn.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2009</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>214</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>213: Relationship Reset withThe Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/213-relationship-reset-withthe-behavior-revolution--59247381</link><description><![CDATA[It’s easy to fall into bad patterns with our interactions with others, especially our kids. But a better relationship is always possible, as long as you make changes and do the work. In this episode, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. is back with me to talk about making amends, repairing the relationship, and pivoting to more healthy and rewarding interactions.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2ae94f05-a3ba-34a2-abf1-2e8961a05d3e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 16:09:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247381/213_relationship_reset_tbr_final7ju51.mp3" length="30913756" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s easy to fall into bad patterns with our interactions with others, especially our kids. But a better relationship is always possible, as long as you make changes and do the work. In this episode, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. is back with me to talk about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s easy to fall into bad patterns with our interactions with others, especially our kids. But a better relationship is always possible, as long as you make changes and do the work. In this episode, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. is back with me to talk about making amends, repairing the relationship, and pivoting to more healthy and rewarding interactions.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1937</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>213</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>212: Twice-Exceptionality &amp; Asynchronous Development, with Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.Ed., LPC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/212-twice-exceptionality-asynchronous-development-with-emily-kircher-morris-m-a-m-ed-lpc--59247176</link><description><![CDATA[Intelligence and learning and doing are different things. An individual can be highly intelligent and also struggle with getting things done or even with learning itself. When someone has both a high IQ and a learning disability, they’re referred to as twice-exceptional, or 2e. As you can imagine, this can be a struggle in school, as well as other aspects of life, because people tend to automatically think that an intelligent person is a highly capable person.     I’m joined by 2e expert and counselor, Emily Kircher-Morris, to discuss the asynchronous development that leads to twice-exceptionality and how we can help 2e kids and teens self-advocate and create an environment for their success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b89e94bd-63d7-3778-8a11-a087c4232e6c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247176/212_2e_emily_kircher_morris_finalb5hld.mp3" length="31663143" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Intelligence and learning and doing are different things. An individual can be highly intelligent and also struggle with getting things done or even with learning itself. When someone has both a high IQ and a learning disability, they’re referred to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Intelligence and learning and doing are different things. An individual can be highly intelligent and also struggle with getting things done or even with learning itself. When someone has both a high IQ and a learning disability, they’re referred to as twice-exceptional, or 2e. As you can imagine, this can be a struggle in school, as well as other aspects of life, because people tend to automatically think that an intelligent person is a highly capable person.     I’m joined by 2e expert and counselor, Emily Kircher-Morris, to discuss the asynchronous development that leads to twice-exceptionality and how we can help 2e kids and teens self-advocate and create an environment for their success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1984</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>212</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>211: My 6 Biggest Aha’s in 6 Years of the Podcast, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/211-my-6-biggest-aha-s-in-6-years-of-the-podcast-with-penny-williams--59247239</link><description><![CDATA[It’s the 6 year anniversary of the Beautifully Complex podcast so I’m looking back at some of the most pivotal lessons I’ve had about parenting neurodivergent kids. I’ve interviewed nearly 150 experts and also parented my son from young teen to young adult during that time. I’ve learned a lot! Listen in as I explain my six biggest aha’s and what they could mean for you and your child — the interconnectedness of biology and behavior, pressure is actually a demotivator, rejection sensitive dysphoria, giving kids control, compassionate parenting, and asking for help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/959666bb-f685-3252-8e6f-bb0f01322037</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Mar 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247239/211_6_aha_s_over_6_years_final9vuuv.mp3" length="30816845" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s the 6 year anniversary of the Beautifully Complex podcast so I’m looking back at some of the most pivotal lessons I’ve had about parenting neurodivergent kids. I’ve interviewed nearly 150 experts and also parented my son from young teen to young...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s the 6 year anniversary of the Beautifully Complex podcast so I’m looking back at some of the most pivotal lessons I’ve had about parenting neurodivergent kids. I’ve interviewed nearly 150 experts and also parented my son from young teen to young adult during that time. I’ve learned a lot! Listen in as I explain my six biggest aha’s and what they could mean for you and your child — the interconnectedness of biology and behavior, pressure is actually a demotivator, rejection sensitive dysphoria, giving kids control, compassionate parenting, and asking for help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1931</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>211</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>210: What to Do When Your Child is Aggressive, with Tosha Schore</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/210-what-to-do-when-your-child-is-aggressive-with-tosha-schore--59247229</link><description><![CDATA[Many neurodivergent kids — including those with ADHD, autism, and anxiety — can be quite aggressive at home or at school. To cope with and improve aggressive behavior, you have to understand why it happens. In a global sense, the child doesn’t feel safe, and acknowledging this is a great place to start.  Tosha Schore of Parenting Boys Peacefully is my guest on this episode. In her work with families, Tosha helps parents discover the root of the aggression and work to diffuse it. Listen in to learn the three things you  must understand if your child (or student) is aggressive, common mistakes to avoid, and how to restore peace.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/edc05234-df63-35b0-b9a5-c5498699bf70</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247229/210_parenting_boys_peacefully_final6qlgq.mp3" length="37972565" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many neurodivergent kids — including those with ADHD, autism, and anxiety — can be quite aggressive at home or at school. To cope with and improve aggressive behavior, you have to understand why it happens. In a global sense, the child doesn’t feel...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many neurodivergent kids — including those with ADHD, autism, and anxiety — can be quite aggressive at home or at school. To cope with and improve aggressive behavior, you have to understand why it happens. In a global sense, the child doesn’t feel safe, and acknowledging this is a great place to start.  Tosha Schore of Parenting Boys Peacefully is my guest on this episode. In her work with families, Tosha helps parents discover the root of the aggression and work to diffuse it. Listen in to learn the three things you  must understand if your child (or student) is aggressive, common mistakes to avoid, and how to restore peace.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2379</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>210</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>209: Foundational Principles of Behavior, with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/209-foundational-principles-of-behavior-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247387</link><description><![CDATA[We’ve been busy recording the sessions for the upcoming Decoding Behavior Summit, March 3-5, 2023. In this episode of the podcast, Sarah and I reflect on the common principles and strategies we heard from the experts in this Summit, including your role in your child’s behavior, the importance of adult regulation, the transformative properties of a sense of control for kids, and more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b85144a7-1026-3f39-850d-b1aa5ccb9020</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247387/209_decoding_behavior_summit_finalamq96.mp3" length="27112217" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’ve been busy recording the sessions for the upcoming Decoding Behavior Summit, March 3-5, 2023. In this episode of the podcast, Sarah and I reflect on the common principles and strategies we heard from the experts in this Summit, including your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve been busy recording the sessions for the upcoming Decoding Behavior Summit, March 3-5, 2023. In this episode of the podcast, Sarah and I reflect on the common principles and strategies we heard from the experts in this Summit, including your role in your child’s behavior, the importance of adult regulation, the transformative properties of a sense of control for kids, and more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1699</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>209</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>208: The Parenting Long Game, with Rachel Bailey</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/208-the-parenting-long-game-with-rachel-bailey--59247266</link><description><![CDATA[The parenting long game is all about putting the right mindset and strategies in play so that kids can succeed and thrive. As parents, we often spend a lot of time in the “yuk,” overwhelmed by what’s hard and negative. And we’re wired to focus on the negative as a means of protection.  However, to parent with the long game, Rachel Bailey tells us that we have to shift from judgment to understanding. Judgment is often followed by a negative narrative we create. Understanding is often followed by the narrative that our child needs help. Listen in to get Rachel’s strategies to go from chaos and overwhelm to setting your child — and yourself — up for success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/73837b8c-ee48-38fa-8a88-667265f5a076</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247266/208_the_parenting_long_game_finala2il3.mp3" length="30107945" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The parenting long game is all about putting the right mindset and strategies in play so that kids can succeed and thrive. As parents, we often spend a lot of time in the “yuk,” overwhelmed by what’s hard and negative. And we’re wired to focus on the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The parenting long game is all about putting the right mindset and strategies in play so that kids can succeed and thrive. As parents, we often spend a lot of time in the “yuk,” overwhelmed by what’s hard and negative. And we’re wired to focus on the negative as a means of protection.  However, to parent with the long game, Rachel Bailey tells us that we have to shift from judgment to understanding. Judgment is often followed by a negative narrative we create. Understanding is often followed by the narrative that our child needs help. Listen in to get Rachel’s strategies to go from chaos and overwhelm to setting your child — and yourself — up for success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1887</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>208</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>207: Finding Your Own Path When Neurodivergent, with David Bizzaro</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/207-finding-your-own-path-when-neurodivergent-with-david-bizzaro--59247398</link><description><![CDATA[It can be hard for our neurodivergent kids to find their path into adulthood. They often don’t yet know what they’re interested in pursuing long term, even after graduating from high school. The key is to support kids, teens, and young adults in exploring their interests, as actor and puppeteer David Bizarro illustrates as he shares his story with us. You’ll gain insights on the ADHD brain and that journey and leave with a sense of hope for your child’s future.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/4795d03d-9beb-3e56-9e59-c2a65c28c17f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247398/207_finding_your_path_with_adhd_final7s1pg.mp3" length="38701898" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It can be hard for our neurodivergent kids to find their path into adulthood. They often don’t yet know what they’re interested in pursuing long term, even after graduating from high school. The key is to support kids, teens, and young adults in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It can be hard for our neurodivergent kids to find their path into adulthood. They often don’t yet know what they’re interested in pursuing long term, even after graduating from high school. The key is to support kids, teens, and young adults in exploring their interests, as actor and puppeteer David Bizarro illustrates as he shares his story with us. You’ll gain insights on the ADHD brain and that journey and leave with a sense of hope for your child’s future.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2425</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>207</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>206: Low Demand Parenting, with Amanda Diekman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/206-low-demand-parenting-with-amanda-diekman--59247236</link><description><![CDATA[Low demand parenting doesn’t mean that we dismiss all expectations of a child and let them do whatever they want. Instead, low demand parenting means dropping demands and reducing expectations in order to meet kids with radical acceptance. AS Amanda Diekman explains in this episode, the purpose of the low demand life is to find ease and joy. But how exactly do you shift from the high demand parenting that’s instinctual to most people to low demand parenting? Amanda explains that you start with radical acceptance and respecting the child’s boundaries. Listen in to hear her explain all six steps to shift to low demand parenting and see a transformation for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cbd5a749-3f90-3c7b-85a5-ffc7032501a5</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247236/206_low_demand_parenting_final6uwss.mp3" length="36699047" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Low demand parenting doesn’t mean that we dismiss all expectations of a child and let them do whatever they want. Instead, low demand parenting means dropping demands and reducing expectations in order to meet kids with radical acceptance. AS Amanda...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Low demand parenting doesn’t mean that we dismiss all expectations of a child and let them do whatever they want. Instead, low demand parenting means dropping demands and reducing expectations in order to meet kids with radical acceptance. AS Amanda Diekman explains in this episode, the purpose of the low demand life is to find ease and joy. But how exactly do you shift from the high demand parenting that’s instinctual to most people to low demand parenting? Amanda explains that you start with radical acceptance and respecting the child’s boundaries. Listen in to hear her explain all six steps to shift to low demand parenting and see a transformation for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2299</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>206</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>205: Honoring Our Kids’ Individuality, with Kayla Taylor</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/205-honoring-our-kids-individuality-with-kayla-taylor--59247380</link><description><![CDATA[The challenge of raising a child with differences in a mostly intolerant world is very real. There’s both joy and heartache, as Kaylor Taylor illustrates in her book, “Canaries Among Us.” At stake in this quest to honor our kids’ individuality, is the mental and emotional health of an ever-growing population of neurodivergent children.  In this episode, Kayla and I discuss the injurious nature of being a misunderstood and different kid in rigid societal systems, such as education, including the lifelong impact on mental health, the ability to hold down a job, and even physical health. You’ll also learn what to do to advocate for neurodiversity and help the world celebrate differences rather than condemn them.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cee45ef2-1bcf-31ba-8e4d-237586b4f80e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247380/205_honoring_our_kids_final97nrw.mp3" length="109301628" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The challenge of raising a child with differences in a mostly intolerant world is very real. There’s both joy and heartache, as Kaylor Taylor illustrates in her book, “Canaries Among Us.” At stake in this quest to honor our kids’ individuality, is the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The challenge of raising a child with differences in a mostly intolerant world is very real. There’s both joy and heartache, as Kaylor Taylor illustrates in her book, “Canaries Among Us.” At stake in this quest to honor our kids’ individuality, is the mental and emotional health of an ever-growing population of neurodivergent children.  In this episode, Kayla and I discuss the injurious nature of being a misunderstood and different kid in rigid societal systems, such as education, including the lifelong impact on mental health, the ability to hold down a job, and even physical health. You’ll also learn what to do to advocate for neurodiversity and help the world celebrate differences rather than condemn them.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3420</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>205</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>204: The Science of Stuck, with Britt Frank</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/204-the-science-of-stuck-with-britt-frank--59247165</link><description><![CDATA[“A brain that feels safe will not get stuck.” That’s how Britt Frank, author of “The Science of Stuck,” explains the connection between a sense of psychological safety and being stuck. In this episode, she not only shares that understanding of why we get stuck, but she outlines her step-by-step process to move through stuckness, something we’re all too often trying to help our neurodivergent kids do. Listen in and learn about the power of choice as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a1eb9615-dc1f-34f1-911b-55489698047a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247165/204_the_science_of_stuck_finalaza35.mp3" length="29767256" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“A brain that feels safe will not get stuck.” That’s how Britt Frank, author of “The Science of Stuck,” explains the connection between a sense of psychological safety and being stuck. In this episode, she not only shares that understanding of why we...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[“A brain that feels safe will not get stuck.” That’s how Britt Frank, author of “The Science of Stuck,” explains the connection between a sense of psychological safety and being stuck. In this episode, she not only shares that understanding of why we get stuck, but she outlines her step-by-step process to move through stuckness, something we’re all too often trying to help our neurodivergent kids do. Listen in and learn about the power of choice as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1865</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>204</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>203: When to Let Kids “Fail,” with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/203-when-to-let-kids-fail-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247418</link><description><![CDATA[We’re addressing a listener question about letting kids fail in this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast. When parents say, “Let kids fail,” they usually mean revoking all of the help and support they were providing and letting the kid handle it on their own, even if that means letting them fail (often knowing it means that a neurodivergent kid will fail).  Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I don’t support letting kids fail in the literal sense of that phrase. This is a complex issue because kids need to feel success in order to put forth continued effort, and to feel capable and confident. Learn how to scale your support, rather than revoke it to build skills for future independence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/59062884-a309-3b95-976c-1d33d9110975</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247418/203_when_to_let_kids_fail_final8pyq7.mp3" length="30299765" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’re addressing a listener question about letting kids fail in this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast. When parents say, “Let kids fail,” they usually mean revoking all of the help and support they were providing and letting the kid handle...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re addressing a listener question about letting kids fail in this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast. When parents say, “Let kids fail,” they usually mean revoking all of the help and support they were providing and letting the kid handle it on their own, even if that means letting them fail (often knowing it means that a neurodivergent kid will fail).  Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I don’t support letting kids fail in the literal sense of that phrase. This is a complex issue because kids need to feel success in order to put forth continued effort, and to feel capable and confident. Learn how to scale your support, rather than revoke it to build skills for future independence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1899</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>203</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>202: Success in College and Beyond for Neurodivergent Students, with Alex Gilbert</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/202-success-in-college-and-beyond-for-neurodivergent-students-with-alex-gilbert--59247337</link><description><![CDATA[The transition into college and then out in the “real world” are challenging enough, but can be even more daunting and complex when you have ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, or anxiety. Parents want to help their kids succeed and thrive but are no longer able to step in to help in the ways they had while their child was under age 18.  In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Alex Gilbert, who has ADHD and dyslexia herself, outlines a plan to help neurodivergent students succeed in college and during the associated transitions.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c4154ea6-9889-363d-95f5-23d0ba5ec543</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2022 17:32:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247337/202_helping_kids_see_final6mgf3.mp3" length="29720969" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The transition into college and then out in the “real world” are challenging enough, but can be even more daunting and complex when you have ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, or anxiety. Parents want to help their kids succeed and thrive but are no...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The transition into college and then out in the “real world” are challenging enough, but can be even more daunting and complex when you have ADHD, autism, learning disabilities, or anxiety. Parents want to help their kids succeed and thrive but are no longer able to step in to help in the ways they had while their child was under age 18.  In this episode of Beautifully Complex, Alex Gilbert, who has ADHD and dyslexia herself, outlines a plan to help neurodivergent students succeed in college and during the associated transitions.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1862</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>202</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>201: The Teen Sleep Epidemic, with Heather Turgeon and Julie Wright</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/201-the-teen-sleep-epidemic-with-heather-turgeon-and-julie-wright--59247356</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know that only about 10 percent of U.S. high school students get 9-10 hours of sleep a night, the amount required for healthy sleep at that age? Teens who aren’t sleeping enough don’t just walk around groggy. A lack of healthy sleep negatively impacts mental health, cognitive function, reactivity, emotional regulation, immune function, and relationships.  Clearly, adequate sleep is important. But how do we help teens with a lot of demands and distractions prioritize sleep? That’s what Heather and Julie, authors of the new book, “Generation Sleepless,” offer in this episode of Beautifully Complex. We discuss the ramifications of sleep deprivation and how to help your teen get motivated about their sleep health.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/38f4bd2c-9ec5-34e3-9b1e-7da4ea708d34</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247356/201_teen_sleep_epidemic_final63t03.mp3" length="29256848" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know that only about 10 percent of U.S. high school students get 9-10 hours of sleep a night, the amount required for healthy sleep at that age? Teens who aren’t sleeping enough don’t just walk around groggy. A lack of healthy sleep negatively...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that only about 10 percent of U.S. high school students get 9-10 hours of sleep a night, the amount required for healthy sleep at that age? Teens who aren’t sleeping enough don’t just walk around groggy. A lack of healthy sleep negatively impacts mental health, cognitive function, reactivity, emotional regulation, immune function, and relationships.  Clearly, adequate sleep is important. But how do we help teens with a lot of demands and distractions prioritize sleep? That’s what Heather and Julie, authors of the new book, “Generation Sleepless,” offer in this episode of Beautifully Complex. We discuss the ramifications of sleep deprivation and how to help your teen get motivated about their sleep health.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1833</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>201</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>200: Lessons Learned: From Mom and Her Neurodivergent Kid, with Penny &amp; Luke</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/200-lessons-learned-from-mom-and-her-neurodivergent-kid-with-penny-luke--59247194</link><description><![CDATA[In celebration of the 200th episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, I have my son Luke back on the show. It’s been 14 years since his first diagnosis of ADHD, and we’ve both learned a lot of lessons along the way. In this episode, Luke and I each share our top 5 lessons learned — my lessons in parenting a neruodivergent child and his lessons in being a neurodivergent individual. The episode starts with Luke sharing his lessons for other neurodivergent kids, teens, and young adults, so we encourage you to have your kids listen with you. As always with Luke, it’s a fun conversation.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/348bfcc8-ed9b-3d81-9996-28c80ceb5f9e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247194/bc_200_answering_your_questionsa1qb8.mp3" length="74685868" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In celebration of the 200th episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, I have my son Luke back on the show. It’s been 14 years since his first diagnosis of ADHD, and we’ve both learned a lot of lessons along the way. In this episode, Luke and I each...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In celebration of the 200th episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, I have my son Luke back on the show. It’s been 14 years since his first diagnosis of ADHD, and we’ve both learned a lot of lessons along the way. In this episode, Luke and I each share our top 5 lessons learned — my lessons in parenting a neruodivergent child and his lessons in being a neurodivergent individual. The episode starts with Luke sharing his lessons for other neurodivergent kids, teens, and young adults, so we encourage you to have your kids listen with you. As always with Luke, it’s a fun conversation.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2337</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>200</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>199: Internal Self-Care, with Sarah Sanders, MA, MFT</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/199-internal-self-care-with-sarah-sanders-ma-mft--59247246</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a cultural misconception that self-care is treating yourself to something, like a spa day or a weekend away with friends. While that is a type of self-care, it doesn’t sustain you through the day-to-day like internal self-care does, managing our stress, our mindset, and our thoughts and emotions.  Don’t discount internal self-care as “fluff” — I can personally attest that it’s life-changing, as can my guest for this episode, licensed psychotherapist, Sarah Sanders, MFT. Sarah outlines the three main areas of internal self-care and teaches us how to go about internal self-care and why it matters so much. Making internal self-care a priority is a key ingredient to being the parent you want to be.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/64444367-bc8e-35b9-bb8c-23e42004d8dd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247246/199_internal_self_care_finalb3n1o.mp3" length="28499159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a cultural misconception that self-care is treating yourself to something, like a spa day or a weekend away with friends. While that is a type of self-care, it doesn’t sustain you through the day-to-day like internal self-care does, managing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a cultural misconception that self-care is treating yourself to something, like a spa day or a weekend away with friends. While that is a type of self-care, it doesn’t sustain you through the day-to-day like internal self-care does, managing our stress, our mindset, and our thoughts and emotions.  Don’t discount internal self-care as “fluff” — I can personally attest that it’s life-changing, as can my guest for this episode, licensed psychotherapist, Sarah Sanders, MFT. Sarah outlines the three main areas of internal self-care and teaches us how to go about internal self-care and why it matters so much. Making internal self-care a priority is a key ingredient to being the parent you want to be.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1786</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>199</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>198: Setting Learning Priorities for Your Child, with Beth Liesenfeld</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/198-setting-learning-priorities-for-your-child-with-beth-liesenfeld--59247177</link><description><![CDATA[It can be difficult to secure accommodations and services for your child at school. It requires that many people agree on a shared vision and how to make that student’s vision for their education a reality through necessary support. Getting everyone on the same page is key, along with focusing on a few priorities in the here and now.    In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Beth Liesenfeld of The IEP Lab. Beth shares her 3-part process to setting priorities for your child around school/education. She walks us through taking those priorities and creating a vision statement to share with your child’s school team to help everyone collaborate for a common goal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cb3e4e96-d0ee-3f55-996f-908061e57fd3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247177/198_setting_accommodation_priorities_rev_112722b9vip.mp3" length="31838078" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It can be difficult to secure accommodations and services for your child at school. It requires that many people agree on a shared vision and how to make that student’s vision for their education a reality through necessary support. Getting everyone...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It can be difficult to secure accommodations and services for your child at school. It requires that many people agree on a shared vision and how to make that student’s vision for their education a reality through necessary support. Getting everyone on the same page is key, along with focusing on a few priorities in the here and now.    In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m joined by Beth Liesenfeld of The IEP Lab. Beth shares her 3-part process to setting priorities for your child around school/education. She walks us through taking those priorities and creating a vision statement to share with your child’s school team to help everyone collaborate for a common goal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1995</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>198</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>197: Breaking Free from Reactive Parenting, with Laura Linn Knight</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/197-breaking-free-from-reactive-parenting-with-laura-linn-knight--59247342</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know that we are reactive by nature? That’s right! Our brains are wired to respond in kind for protection. But responding in kind — like yelling at your child after they yelled at you — is rarely needed in today’s modern world. And it’s never helpful, which is why we need to reduce our reactivity with our kids and parent from a place of calm intention.  My guest on this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast is parenting and mental health educator, Laura Linn Knight. Laura shares her insights and strategies on reacting less, addressing behavior and struggle with intention a lot more, and giving ourselves grace and amending our own behavior when we make mistakes. The calmer you are, the more power you actually have.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/296e04d0-49a2-336d-b600-07ec27ae32ab</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247342/197_breaking_free_final7yp45.mp3" length="26073887" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know that we are reactive by nature? That’s right! Our brains are wired to respond in kind for protection. But responding in kind — like yelling at your child after they yelled at you — is rarely needed in today’s modern world. And it’s never...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that we are reactive by nature? That’s right! Our brains are wired to respond in kind for protection. But responding in kind — like yelling at your child after they yelled at you — is rarely needed in today’s modern world. And it’s never helpful, which is why we need to reduce our reactivity with our kids and parent from a place of calm intention.  My guest on this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast is parenting and mental health educator, Laura Linn Knight. Laura shares her insights and strategies on reacting less, addressing behavior and struggle with intention a lot more, and giving ourselves grace and amending our own behavior when we make mistakes. The calmer you are, the more power you actually have.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1634</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>197</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>196 Anxiety &amp; Depression in Children, with Gregory Jantz, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/196-anxiety-depression-in-children-with-gregory-jantz-ph-d--59247184</link><description><![CDATA[Recent data shows us that anxiety and depression have spiked tremendously in kids since the pandemic. Kids are struggling more than ever and they need our help (adults too, by the way). But what does that help look like?   In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, psychologist and author of several books on anxiety and depression, Dr. Gregory Jantz explains the signs of anxiety and depression in children, what we can do as parents and educators to help them, and when and how to seek professional help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cb1bd1ce-3b40-3db8-94b0-b654cc5bb275</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2022 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247184/196_anxiety_and_depression_in_kids_final9kl9t.mp3" length="21333848" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Recent data shows us that anxiety and depression have spiked tremendously in kids since the pandemic. Kids are struggling more than ever and they need our help (adults too, by the way). But what does that help look like?   In this episode of the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Recent data shows us that anxiety and depression have spiked tremendously in kids since the pandemic. Kids are struggling more than ever and they need our help (adults too, by the way). But what does that help look like?   In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, psychologist and author of several books on anxiety and depression, Dr. Gregory Jantz explains the signs of anxiety and depression in children, what we can do as parents and educators to help them, and when and how to seek professional help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1337</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>196</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>195: Supporting vs. Enabling with The Behavior Revolution,</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/195-supporting-vs-enabling-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247348</link><description><![CDATA[The difference between supporting a child and enabling a child is often a very fine line when you’re talking about neurodivergent kids, who need extra support. Plus, busy, overwhelmed parents often default to enabling because it’s just easier to do it yourself a lot of the time and you’re on auto-pilot in survival mode yourself. So how do you parent more intentionally and as a supporter?   In this episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I discuss the difference between supporting and enabling, when enabling is ok, how to be intentional about defaulting to supporting, and the consequences of enabling too much.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b6d0b377-4505-3f49-9d12-f51852d884fa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247348/195_supporting_vs_enabling_final7xq0s.mp3" length="29766422" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The difference between supporting a child and enabling a child is often a very fine line when you’re talking about neurodivergent kids, who need extra support. Plus, busy, overwhelmed parents often default to enabling because it’s just easier to do it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The difference between supporting a child and enabling a child is often a very fine line when you’re talking about neurodivergent kids, who need extra support. Plus, busy, overwhelmed parents often default to enabling because it’s just easier to do it yourself a lot of the time and you’re on auto-pilot in survival mode yourself. So how do you parent more intentionally and as a supporter?   In this episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I discuss the difference between supporting and enabling, when enabling is ok, how to be intentional about defaulting to supporting, and the consequences of enabling too much.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1865</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>196</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>194: Helping Your Child Discover Their Greatness, with Cathy Domoney</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/194-helping-your-child-discover-their-greatness-with-cathy-domoney--59247203</link><description><![CDATA[I truly believe that we all have greatness within us. Each and every one of us. My guest for this episode, Cathay Domoney, believes this wholeheartedly as well, and it’s one of the core tenets of her work with children and families. Listen in as Cathy shares her process to help kids discover their own individual greatness. We talk about the mindset and “pure filter of love and curiosity” required to truly allow our kids to discover their authentic selves and shine, which starts by stripping away the expectations of culture and others. You’ll learn how to build a relationship with your child that provides sacred space for exploration (and mistakes) so they can discover themselves… and their greatness.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/fd447da3-bb57-39c8-9af4-8d95bb424454</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247203/194_helping_kids_discover_their_greatness_finalb7qdu.mp3" length="28000427" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I truly believe that we all have greatness within us. Each and every one of us. My guest for this episode, Cathay Domoney, believes this wholeheartedly as well, and it’s one of the core tenets of her work with children and families. Listen in as Cathy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I truly believe that we all have greatness within us. Each and every one of us. My guest for this episode, Cathay Domoney, believes this wholeheartedly as well, and it’s one of the core tenets of her work with children and families. Listen in as Cathy shares her process to help kids discover their own individual greatness. We talk about the mindset and “pure filter of love and curiosity” required to truly allow our kids to discover their authentic selves and shine, which starts by stripping away the expectations of culture and others. You’ll learn how to build a relationship with your child that provides sacred space for exploration (and mistakes) so they can discover themselves… and their greatness.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1755</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>195</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>193: Keeping Your Child Safe Online with Titania Jordan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/193-keeping-your-child-safe-online-with-titania-jordan--59247377</link><description><![CDATA[Parenting is hard. Parenting kids in this generation is even harder. Our kids today have a lot more potential pitfalls — and risks — to navigate with the internet and social media. And we parents have that whole additional world of risk to help our kids navigate. It’s vast, it’s tricky, and it’s scary. In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m talking with Titania Jordan with Bark Technologies. Listen in to learn all the dangers our kids face online as well as important conversations to have with your kids about these risks and tools and strategies to keep them safe. This is a very difficult but important topic and a must-listen for all parents.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2e4b0a34-a941-3438-a001-87bc3397defa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247377/193_keeping_kids_safe_online_finalb9ozp.mp3" length="30167159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parenting is hard. Parenting kids in this generation is even harder. Our kids today have a lot more potential pitfalls — and risks — to navigate with the internet and social media. And we parents have that whole additional world of risk to help our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parenting is hard. Parenting kids in this generation is even harder. Our kids today have a lot more potential pitfalls — and risks — to navigate with the internet and social media. And we parents have that whole additional world of risk to help our kids navigate. It’s vast, it’s tricky, and it’s scary. In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I’m talking with Titania Jordan with Bark Technologies. Listen in to learn all the dangers our kids face online as well as important conversations to have with your kids about these risks and tools and strategies to keep them safe. This is a very difficult but important topic and a must-listen for all parents.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1890</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>194</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>192: Are You Applying Too Much Pressure? With Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/192-are-you-applying-too-much-pressure-with-penny-williams--59247234</link><description><![CDATA[Are you pressuring your child? You may not realize when you’re adding pressure, but you are very likely doing it often and not recognizing it. Neurodivergent kids don’t do well under pressure. It’s dysregulating and actually makes them less capable of actually doing the thing you’re pressuring them to do.  In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I outline how we pressure our kids, what the pressure does to them and why we should stop, and what to do instead.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d96f81b4-c0ce-39c7-86b2-548ad9f0596c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247234/192_pressure_cookerbr01n.mp3" length="32612447" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you pressuring your child? You may not realize when you’re adding pressure, but you are very likely doing it often and not recognizing it. Neurodivergent kids don’t do well under pressure. It’s dysregulating and actually makes them less capable of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you pressuring your child? You may not realize when you’re adding pressure, but you are very likely doing it often and not recognizing it. Neurodivergent kids don’t do well under pressure. It’s dysregulating and actually makes them less capable of actually doing the thing you’re pressuring them to do.  In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I outline how we pressure our kids, what the pressure does to them and why we should stop, and what to do instead.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2043</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>193</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>191:  Discovering How Your Child Thinks and Feels, with Dawn K. Brown, MD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/191-discovering-how-your-child-thinks-and-feels-with-dawn-k-brown-md--59247402</link><description><![CDATA[When you don’t have ADHD yourself, it’s really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it’s different for your child than it was and is for you. Yet, it’s important for parents to know what life is like for your kids so we can help them thrive. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Dawn Brown of the ADHD wellness center about how to discover how your child thinks and feels. We cover a variety of perspectives and topics including development, intense feelings and big emotions, sensitivity and rejection sensitive dysphoria, dysregulation, meeting your child where they are, and more… <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/daa4674f-7b62-3d76-abaa-1bd0c9f486a0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247402/191_how_your_child_thinks_final_updated_806ve7t.mp3" length="54412790" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you don’t have ADHD yourself, it’s really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it’s different for your child than it was and is for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you don’t have ADHD yourself, it’s really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it’s different for your child than it was and is for you. Yet, it’s important for parents to know what life is like for your kids so we can help them thrive. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Dawn Brown of the ADHD wellness center about how to discover how your child thinks and feels. We cover a variety of perspectives and topics including development, intense feelings and big emotions, sensitivity and rejection sensitive dysphoria, dysregulation, meeting your child where they are, and more… <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3409</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>192</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>190: Calming Techniques for Kids (and Parents)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/190-calming-techniques-for-kids-and-parents--59247332</link><description><![CDATA[If there’s one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it’s calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and feeling unsafe, and then list more than 20 tools and techniques to use for calming yourself or your child, by stimulating the vagus nerve to calm the nervous system. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2b685a38-f5ec-3fed-9238-28591aa832fd</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247332/190_calming_techniques_94_repost_finala56rg.mp3" length="20545718" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If there’s one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it’s calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If there’s one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it’s calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and feeling unsafe, and then list more than 20 tools and techniques to use for calming yourself or your child, by stimulating the vagus nerve to calm the nervous system. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1288</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>191</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>189: When Mom or Dad is Neurodivergent Too, with Terry Matlen, MSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/189-when-mom-or-dad-is-neurodivergent-too-with-terry-matlen-msw--59247322</link><description><![CDATA[Seeing that ADHD and autism can be genetic, it stands to reason that there are many neurodivergent parents raising neurodivergent kids. Terry Matlen is one of them, but she’s also an expert on ADHD, especially in women. In this episode, Terry shares the feelings of guilt and inadequacy she felt raising her kids, because she struggled with many of the daily tasks due to her ADHD. She also offers some simple strategies to help make things like preparing meals and cleaning up more manageable when you may be struggling with executive functioning skills yourself.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/89d55d35-83a5-3ca0-902b-3a291e8fd63f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247322/189_rev_when_mom_or_dad_final78o2n.mp3" length="30258065" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Seeing that ADHD and autism can be genetic, it stands to reason that there are many neurodivergent parents raising neurodivergent kids. Terry Matlen is one of them, but she’s also an expert on ADHD, especially in women. In this episode, Terry shares...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Seeing that ADHD and autism can be genetic, it stands to reason that there are many neurodivergent parents raising neurodivergent kids. Terry Matlen is one of them, but she’s also an expert on ADHD, especially in women. In this episode, Terry shares the feelings of guilt and inadequacy she felt raising her kids, because she struggled with many of the daily tasks due to her ADHD. She also offers some simple strategies to help make things like preparing meals and cleaning up more manageable when you may be struggling with executive functioning skills yourself.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1896</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>190</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>188: School Struggles Are Real — Here’s How to Help, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/188-school-struggles-are-real-here-s-how-to-help-with-penny-williams--59247282</link><description><![CDATA[One in five children has a learning disability or attention issue that causes school struggles. In the U.S. alone, that’s approximately 56.6 million students (Educationdata.org). And yet, we continue with an educational system that is solely focused on conformity and compliance. It is built for your average student with little consideration for those that can’t succeed in that system, even though they are virtually required to.  My own son is one of those students and, despite a gifted intelligence, he graduated high school feeling stupid and worthless. He’s one of millions with a similar experience and that’s just not ok. That’s why I created the free, online School Struggles Summit. In this podcast episode, I’m sharing some of the amazing insights and strategies from the experts in the Summit. You have actionable strategies here in this overview and the opportunity to register for the Summit and learn so much more to help your struggling child or student have the opportunity to succeed in school (in their own way).<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2f3c935e-3d17-351e-bb5e-0bf8cc0cbec7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247282/188_learning_summit_final.mp3" length="52119707" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One in five children has a learning disability or attention issue that causes school struggles. In the U.S. alone, that’s approximately 56.6 million students (Educationdata.org). And yet, we continue with an educational system that is solely focused...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One in five children has a learning disability or attention issue that causes school struggles. In the U.S. alone, that’s approximately 56.6 million students (Educationdata.org). And yet, we continue with an educational system that is solely focused on conformity and compliance. It is built for your average student with little consideration for those that can’t succeed in that system, even though they are virtually required to.  My own son is one of those students and, despite a gifted intelligence, he graduated high school feeling stupid and worthless. He’s one of millions with a similar experience and that’s just not ok. That’s why I created the free, online School Struggles Summit. In this podcast episode, I’m sharing some of the amazing insights and strategies from the experts in the Summit. You have actionable strategies here in this overview and the opportunity to register for the Summit and learn so much more to help your struggling child or student have the opportunity to succeed in school (in their own way).<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3265</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>189</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 187: Compliance vs. Regulation, with Greg Santucci</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-187-compliance-vs-regulation-with-greg-santucci--59247249</link><description><![CDATA[Most of our systems that involve children are designed on the compliance model — that’s true in parenting and educating. We’ve leaned on compliance in our educational system since the 1800s, and it’s been part of our parenting culture for centuries. And yet, neuroscience has now taught us that there’s a monumentally better way. Through research we know that our neurobiology is a driving force in behavior — particularly our autonomic nervous system and our brain. We know that there are sensitivities and differences in our neurodivergent kids’ neurobiology too, making it crucial that we adopt this brain-based lens when responding to and managing behavior.  In this episode, OT Greg Santucci, explains why focusing on regulation (and dysregulation) are both a more effective and more humanistic approach than compliance. He also provides some actionable mindset shifts and strategies to help you implement a regulation model right away.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/42f2d77c-f378-383b-8d56-9a57cdd6a08e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247249/187_compliance_vs_regulationb3was.mp3" length="37051829" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most of our systems that involve children are designed on the compliance model — that’s true in parenting and educating. We’ve leaned on compliance in our educational system since the 1800s, and it’s been part of our parenting culture for centuries....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most of our systems that involve children are designed on the compliance model — that’s true in parenting and educating. We’ve leaned on compliance in our educational system since the 1800s, and it’s been part of our parenting culture for centuries. And yet, neuroscience has now taught us that there’s a monumentally better way. Through research we know that our neurobiology is a driving force in behavior — particularly our autonomic nervous system and our brain. We know that there are sensitivities and differences in our neurodivergent kids’ neurobiology too, making it crucial that we adopt this brain-based lens when responding to and managing behavior.  In this episode, OT Greg Santucci, explains why focusing on regulation (and dysregulation) are both a more effective and more humanistic approach than compliance. He also provides some actionable mindset shifts and strategies to help you implement a regulation model right away.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2322</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>188</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 186: Ensuring a Smooth Start to the New School Year, with Stephanie Pitts &amp; Rachel Kapp of Learn Smarter</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-186-ensuring-a-smooth-start-to-the-new-school-year-with-stephanie-pitts-rachel-kapp-of-learn-smarter--59247278</link><description><![CDATA[Most parents look forward to the start of a new school year. Their kids no longer need to be entertained all day every day and they get a bit of a break. However, if you the parent of a neurodivergent kid who struggles in school, you probably dread the start of a new school year — I know I did.    In this episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, I’m talking with educational therapists, Stephanie Pitts and Rachel Kapp about how to create a plan for a smooth start to the school year. You’ll learn about the 3 systems you need to support, how to simplify, and the communication necessary for your child to have a good school year.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/72173396-b35f-34a4-9fde-4d3e5ba03e6b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247278/186_ag_ensuring_a_smooth_start_final.mp3" length="29989934" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most parents look forward to the start of a new school year. Their kids no longer need to be entertained all day every day and they get a bit of a break. However, if you the parent of a neurodivergent kid who struggles in school, you probably dread...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most parents look forward to the start of a new school year. Their kids no longer need to be entertained all day every day and they get a bit of a break. However, if you the parent of a neurodivergent kid who struggles in school, you probably dread the start of a new school year — I know I did.    In this episode of the Beautifully Complex Podcast, I’m talking with educational therapists, Stephanie Pitts and Rachel Kapp about how to create a plan for a smooth start to the school year. You’ll learn about the 3 systems you need to support, how to simplify, and the communication necessary for your child to have a good school year.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1879</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>187</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>185: The Art of Talking to Children, with Rebecca Rolland, Ed.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/185-the-art-of-talking-to-children-with-rebecca-rolland-ed-d--59247253</link><description><![CDATA[The way we talk to our child matters. Not only does it become the little voice inside their heads and influence how they feel about themselves, but it can foster connection, build communication skills, and inspire confidence and resilience.  In this episode, Rebecca Rolland, Ed.D. shares her formula for Rich Talk and other strategies from her book, “The Art of Talking with Children: The Simple Keys to Nurturing Kindness, Creativity, and Confidence in Kids.” Learn how to implement reflective and active listening with your child and what benefits you and your child will be rewarded with when you do. Rebecca’s strategies help engage kids, make them feel seen, heard, and validated, and nurture their relationship with you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/fffe7b4d-326a-30c0-a2d7-bdb37286370f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247253/185_the_art_of_talking_to_children_finalb2xp2.mp3" length="62641828" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The way we talk to our child matters. Not only does it become the little voice inside their heads and influence how they feel about themselves, but it can foster connection, build communication skills, and inspire confidence and resilience.  In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The way we talk to our child matters. Not only does it become the little voice inside their heads and influence how they feel about themselves, but it can foster connection, build communication skills, and inspire confidence and resilience.  In this episode, Rebecca Rolland, Ed.D. shares her formula for Rich Talk and other strategies from her book, “The Art of Talking with Children: The Simple Keys to Nurturing Kindness, Creativity, and Confidence in Kids.” Learn how to implement reflective and active listening with your child and what benefits you and your child will be rewarded with when you do. Rebecca’s strategies help engage kids, make them feel seen, heard, and validated, and nurture their relationship with you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1960</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>186</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 184: How to Be a Conscious Parent, with Lauren Pace</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-184-how-to-be-a-conscious-parent-with-lauren-pace--59247255</link><description><![CDATA[Parents are human beings, nowhere near perfect. Often that means that we bring baggage from our childhood, our experiences, our own parents and let it color our parenting. We end up stuck on auto-pilot and often feel shame and blame when reflecting on tough parenting moments. Conscious parenting is about healing your own self so you can show up and be the parent you want to be for your kids. In this episode, Behavior Coach Lauren Pace outlines the steps necessary to make a shift to parenting with awareness and intention and creating the family life you really want. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c6ce45d8-31db-34a2-aede-37978672be2a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247255/184_conscious_parent_final71tg7.mp3" length="29582942" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents are human beings, nowhere near perfect. Often that means that we bring baggage from our childhood, our experiences, our own parents and let it color our parenting. We end up stuck on auto-pilot and often feel shame and blame when reflecting on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents are human beings, nowhere near perfect. Often that means that we bring baggage from our childhood, our experiences, our own parents and let it color our parenting. We end up stuck on auto-pilot and often feel shame and blame when reflecting on tough parenting moments. Conscious parenting is about healing your own self so you can show up and be the parent you want to be for your kids. In this episode, Behavior Coach Lauren Pace outlines the steps necessary to make a shift to parenting with awareness and intention and creating the family life you really want. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1854</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>185</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 183: How to Foster Connection with Neurodivergent Kids, The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-183-how-to-foster-connection-with-neurodivergent-kids-the-behavior-revolution--59247179</link><description><![CDATA[One of the most impactful and transformative aspects of parenting is your relationship with your child (this is also true of the teacher-child relationship). A solid, calm, trusting relationship helps keep everyone regulated and feeling good. In this episode, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I offer you four actionable strategies to foster connection with your child and build the relationship you want and need.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c97a0c79-4aa4-3183-986c-840b4bfabef8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247179/183_fostering_connection_finala4fzv.mp3" length="30907751" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the most impactful and transformative aspects of parenting is your relationship with your child (this is also true of the teacher-child relationship). A solid, calm, trusting relationship helps keep everyone regulated and feeling good. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the most impactful and transformative aspects of parenting is your relationship with your child (this is also true of the teacher-child relationship). A solid, calm, trusting relationship helps keep everyone regulated and feeling good. In this episode, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. and I offer you four actionable strategies to foster connection with your child and build the relationship you want and need.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1937</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>184</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 182: The Disruptors, with Nancy Armstrong</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-182-the-disruptors-with-nancy-armstrong--59247183</link><description><![CDATA[The new documentary film, The Disruptors, hears from many game-changing people about their ADHD and the vital role it has played in their success, and takes an immersive look at our approach to ADHD that debunks the most harmful myths, intimately taking viewers inside a number of families as they navigate the challenges-and the surprising triumphs-of living with ADHD. In this episode, I talk with executive producer, Nancy Armstrong, about why she wanted to create a film about ADHD and how this film can change the course of the lives of children with ADHD and their parents. Listen in, watch the film, and share it with the educators and other adults in your child’s life. Change begins with each of us.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/09bb942e-e3b0-3442-a7d2-7366e70e78b5</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247183/182_the_disrupters5yprn.mp3" length="30164657" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The new documentary film, The Disruptors, hears from many game-changing people about their ADHD and the vital role it has played in their success, and takes an immersive look at our approach to ADHD that debunks the most harmful myths, intimately...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The new documentary film, The Disruptors, hears from many game-changing people about their ADHD and the vital role it has played in their success, and takes an immersive look at our approach to ADHD that debunks the most harmful myths, intimately taking viewers inside a number of families as they navigate the challenges-and the surprising triumphs-of living with ADHD. In this episode, I talk with executive producer, Nancy Armstrong, about why she wanted to create a film about ADHD and how this film can change the course of the lives of children with ADHD and their parents. Listen in, watch the film, and share it with the educators and other adults in your child’s life. Change begins with each of us.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1890</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>183</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 181: Growing Up Feeling ”Other,” Part 2, with Jonathan Joly</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-181-growing-up-feeling-other-part-2-with-jonathan-joly--59247212</link><description><![CDATA[This is Part 2 of my conversation with Jonathan Joly. If you haven’t yet, listen to Part 1, episode 180. There’s still so much for parents of neurodivergent kids to learn from Jonathan - so much that it’s two episodes. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/acc46e3e-392a-3f59-ab1d-8a2b99d7a7a8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:05:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247212/181_growing_up_part_2_final8cbyp.mp3" length="33390986" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is Part 2 of my conversation with Jonathan Joly. If you haven’t yet, listen to Part 1, episode 180. There’s still so much for parents of neurodivergent kids to learn from Jonathan - so much that it’s two episodes. </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is Part 2 of my conversation with Jonathan Joly. If you haven’t yet, listen to Part 1, episode 180. There’s still so much for parents of neurodivergent kids to learn from Jonathan - so much that it’s two episodes. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2092</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>182</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 180: Growing Up Feeling ”Other,” Part 1, with Jonothan Joly</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-180-growing-up-feeling-other-part-1-with-jonothan-joly--59247383</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture has come a long way with acceptance, but there’s still so much further to go. We’re still very much a society based on conformity and normalizing everyone. I don’t have to tell you, but that simply doesn’t work. What happens when we keep pushing people to be our definition of “normal” when it isn’t who they are? They end up feeling “other” - unheard, unseen, and misunderstood.  This is the life Jonathan Joly describes in his new book, “All My Friends Are Invisible.” Growing up with ADHD, dyslexia and questioning his identity, Jonathan felt that there was no tolerance in the world for a kid with, what he calls, my “crazy mind” and differences. So he had to create a world where he was valued more than in the real world… a world in his imagination. His invisible, imaginary friends allowed him to be 100 percent himself, without judgment, bullying, and shame.  There’s so much for parents of neurodivergent kids to learn from Jonathan in his story, and in the way he parents his own children. He talks about how he didn’t finish school, but went back later and got a university degree and graduated with honors, how there’s a freedom to embracing who you are, and the coping mechanisms that he created and used to keep going in a world that rejected him.  This is one of the most emotional, moving, and inspirational conversations I’ve had. I know you’ll find it impactful too.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/11122b45-9a26-3027-9908-47dace9c1dd8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 19:29:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247383/180_growing_up_part_1_final_bjo8v.mp3" length="28432439" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture has come a long way with acceptance, but there’s still so much further to go. We’re still very much a society based on conformity and normalizing everyone. I don’t have to tell you, but that simply doesn’t work. What happens when we keep...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture has come a long way with acceptance, but there’s still so much further to go. We’re still very much a society based on conformity and normalizing everyone. I don’t have to tell you, but that simply doesn’t work. What happens when we keep pushing people to be our definition of “normal” when it isn’t who they are? They end up feeling “other” - unheard, unseen, and misunderstood.  This is the life Jonathan Joly describes in his new book, “All My Friends Are Invisible.” Growing up with ADHD, dyslexia and questioning his identity, Jonathan felt that there was no tolerance in the world for a kid with, what he calls, my “crazy mind” and differences. So he had to create a world where he was valued more than in the real world… a world in his imagination. His invisible, imaginary friends allowed him to be 100 percent himself, without judgment, bullying, and shame.  There’s so much for parents of neurodivergent kids to learn from Jonathan in his story, and in the way he parents his own children. He talks about how he didn’t finish school, but went back later and got a university degree and graduated with honors, how there’s a freedom to embracing who you are, and the coping mechanisms that he created and used to keep going in a world that rejected him.  This is one of the most emotional, moving, and inspirational conversations I’ve had. I know you’ll find it impactful too.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1782</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>181</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 179: How Sensory Impacts Learning &amp; Behavior, with Laura Petix, OTR/L</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-179-how-sensory-impacts-learning-behavior-with-laura-petix-otr-l--59247349</link><description><![CDATA[Parents often ask, “Is it sensory or is it behavior?” The truth is, sensory challenges cause behavior. Knowing that helps you determine a child’s intent and then zoom out and rewind to determine the particular sensory struggle that caused the behavior. There are many potential sensory struggles and they depend entirely on the individual. In this episode, I’m joined by occupational therapist Laura Petix (aka, the OTbutterfly). Laura shares a variety of real-life examples to help you learn how to determine the specific sensory systems impacted in the tasks and activities your child or student struggles with. She explains the concepts in an easy to understand way so you better understand what’s triggering behavior and can formulate an informed plan to help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0fdf315e-410d-3e9d-8e11-2e599bb42c08</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247349/179_how_sensory_impacts_learning_final.mp3" length="35656964" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents often ask, “Is it sensory or is it behavior?” The truth is, sensory challenges cause behavior. Knowing that helps you determine a child’s intent and then zoom out and rewind to determine the particular sensory struggle that caused the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents often ask, “Is it sensory or is it behavior?” The truth is, sensory challenges cause behavior. Knowing that helps you determine a child’s intent and then zoom out and rewind to determine the particular sensory struggle that caused the behavior. There are many potential sensory struggles and they depend entirely on the individual. In this episode, I’m joined by occupational therapist Laura Petix (aka, the OTbutterfly). Laura shares a variety of real-life examples to help you learn how to determine the specific sensory systems impacted in the tasks and activities your child or student struggles with. She explains the concepts in an easy to understand way so you better understand what’s triggering behavior and can formulate an informed plan to help.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2234</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>179</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 178: No-Guilt, No-Yelling Parenting Strategies for Neurodivergent Kids, with Amy McCready</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-178-no-guilt-no-yelling-parenting-strategies-for-neurodivergent-kids-with-amy-mccready--59247232</link><description><![CDATA[No parent wants to yell at their kids, but it happens. We are emotional, complex, imperfect creatures, just like our kids, so we are going to make mistakes. Just like our kids. However, we can make simple changes in our parenting that can have profound positive effects on how often our kids are triggered, and ourselves.  In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with positive parenting expert, Amy McCready, about the basic emotional needs of kids and adults, some parenting truth bombs that will help you see a more effective path forward, and some proactive strategies that will help our kids feel better and do better more often.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/370958c3-2d7e-314d-8d0d-b39360e77d56</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247232/178_no_guilt_no_yelling_finalahm0m.mp3" length="34069862" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>No parent wants to yell at their kids, but it happens. We are emotional, complex, imperfect creatures, just like our kids, so we are going to make mistakes. Just like our kids. However, we can make simple changes in our parenting that can have...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[No parent wants to yell at their kids, but it happens. We are emotional, complex, imperfect creatures, just like our kids, so we are going to make mistakes. Just like our kids. However, we can make simple changes in our parenting that can have profound positive effects on how often our kids are triggered, and ourselves.  In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with positive parenting expert, Amy McCready, about the basic emotional needs of kids and adults, some parenting truth bombs that will help you see a more effective path forward, and some proactive strategies that will help our kids feel better and do better more often.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2135</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>178</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>BONUS Upcoming Free Webinar + Tips for Successful Summer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-upcoming-free-webinar-tips-for-successful-summer--59247204</link><description><![CDATA[This short bonus episode shares a couple announcements — including a free webinar — and the Behavior Revolution's best tips for handling the unpredictability of summer with neurodivergent kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cf2b6189-6c6b-3f72-a3bb-52de8acc7fd9</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2022 20:48:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247204/177b_open_enrollment_final7gssq.mp3" length="13248635" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This short bonus episode shares a couple announcements — including a free webinar — and the Behavior Revolution's best tips for handling the unpredictability of summer with neurodivergent kids. </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This short bonus episode shares a couple announcements — including a free webinar — and the Behavior Revolution's best tips for handling the unpredictability of summer with neurodivergent kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>830</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>180</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 177: Tips for Vacationing with Neurodivergent Kids, with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-177-tips-for-vacationing-with-neurodivergent-kids-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247250</link><description><![CDATA[For most children with ADHD, autism, or anxiety, one of the biggest stressors can be the unknown — unknown place, unknown schedule, unknown future. For this reason, vacation with neurodivergent kids can be challenging. As parents, we have grand expectations of family vacations… we want them to be packed full of memorable moments and ample joy. But the reality is that no one’s family vacations are like that. Every family has challenges. Ours just may have more sometimes. So join us for some tried-n-true tips on successful family vacations with neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0522b99e-8c34-3072-ba3b-7efd443b548d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247250/177_vacationing_final5yfk5.mp3" length="35239964" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>For most children with ADHD, autism, or anxiety, one of the biggest stressors can be the unknown — unknown place, unknown schedule, unknown future. For this reason, vacation with neurodivergent kids can be challenging. As parents, we have grand...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[For most children with ADHD, autism, or anxiety, one of the biggest stressors can be the unknown — unknown place, unknown schedule, unknown future. For this reason, vacation with neurodivergent kids can be challenging. As parents, we have grand expectations of family vacations… we want them to be packed full of memorable moments and ample joy. But the reality is that no one’s family vacations are like that. Every family has challenges. Ours just may have more sometimes. So join us for some tried-n-true tips on successful family vacations with neurodivergent kids.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2208</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>177</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 176: Limitations of Children’s Mental Healthcare, with Jason Kahn, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-176-limitations-of-children-s-mental-healthcare-with-jason-kahn-ph-d--59247260</link><description><![CDATA[We are in a crisis when it comes to children’s mental health and the healthcare needed to address it. We’re seeing a spike in anxiety and depression in kids and almost zero availability of mental health professionals. In this episode, I’m talking with Dr. Jason Kahn of Boston Children’s Medical Center about what parents can do when counseling or therapy isn’t yet available for your child. Tune in to learn about community and at-home supports.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/83aa4334-a91b-349f-ab03-5cc09d4af007</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247260/176_limitations_of_children_s_finalavotl.mp3" length="29909036" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are in a crisis when it comes to children’s mental health and the healthcare needed to address it. We’re seeing a spike in anxiety and depression in kids and almost zero availability of mental health professionals. In this episode, I’m talking with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are in a crisis when it comes to children’s mental health and the healthcare needed to address it. We’re seeing a spike in anxiety and depression in kids and almost zero availability of mental health professionals. In this episode, I’m talking with Dr. Jason Kahn of Boston Children’s Medical Center about what parents can do when counseling or therapy isn’t yet available for your child. Tune in to learn about community and at-home supports.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1874</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>176</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>175: We are All Beautifully Complex  — Parenting ADHD Has a New Name</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/175-we-are-all-beautifully-complex-parenting-adhd-has-a-new-name--59247241</link><description><![CDATA[I am excited to announce that the Parenting ADHD podcast is now the Beautifully Complex podcast.  I’ll still be sharing the same content on neurodiversity, ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning challenges, and this complex parenting journey. But now I’ll be doing it under this broader name so parents raising neurodivergent kids who don’t have ADHD will join our community also.  The entire premise of everything I share and teach is that when we feel good we can do good.  So how do we help our kids (and ourselves) feel good? Through acceptance, understanding, seeing behavior as communication, and being the calm anchor in the storm for our kids.  The Beautifully Complex podcast will help parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week I’ll offer insights and actionable strategies on parenting neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities... My approach to decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and parenting the individual child you have will provide you with the tools to help you understand and transform behavior, reduce your own stress, increase parenting confidence, and create the joyful family life you crave.  It’s the same mission I’ve always had for the podcast… I’m just opening my arms wider to invite more parents, caregivers, and educators in.  I hope you’ll continue to join me on the journey of learning to help our neurodivergent kids find their versions of success and joy, while stressing less and enjoying parenting more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/650f1a9b-bb41-32aa-b3c1-d35d2ad69e19</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2022 15:14:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247241/175_now_beautifully_complex_finalav0br.mp3" length="5211794" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I am excited to announce that the Parenting ADHD podcast is now the Beautifully Complex podcast.  I’ll still be sharing the same content on neurodiversity, ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning challenges, and this complex parenting journey. But now I’ll be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I am excited to announce that the Parenting ADHD podcast is now the Beautifully Complex podcast.  I’ll still be sharing the same content on neurodiversity, ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning challenges, and this complex parenting journey. But now I’ll be doing it under this broader name so parents raising neurodivergent kids who don’t have ADHD will join our community also.  The entire premise of everything I share and teach is that when we feel good we can do good.  So how do we help our kids (and ourselves) feel good? Through acceptance, understanding, seeing behavior as communication, and being the calm anchor in the storm for our kids.  The Beautifully Complex podcast will help parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week I’ll offer insights and actionable strategies on parenting neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities... My approach to decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and parenting the individual child you have will provide you with the tools to help you understand and transform behavior, reduce your own stress, increase parenting confidence, and create the joyful family life you crave.  It’s the same mission I’ve always had for the podcast… I’m just opening my arms wider to invite more parents, caregivers, and educators in.  I hope you’ll continue to join me on the journey of learning to help our neurodivergent kids find their versions of success and joy, while stressing less and enjoying parenting more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>326</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>175</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 174: Securing the School Accommodations &amp; Services Your Child Deserves, with Liz Capone</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-174-securing-the-school-accommodations-services-your-child-deserves-with-liz-capone--59247226</link><description><![CDATA[One of the most challenging aspects of raising a neurodivergent child is school and learning. In the U.S., our schools are built on a compliance and conformity model, which is a huge barrier to success for kids who learn differently and are behind their peers in skills and development. That’s why it’s crucial that parents understand their child’s learning needs and the accommodations and services they are entitled to.  In this episode, I’m talking with former special education teacher and advocate, Liz Capone, about IEPs, 504 plans, and how to work with your child’s school to ensure that your child has what they need at school to learn and show mastery.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/79c87c7e-c510-315d-8199-84741a0ab658</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247226/174_securing_acoomodations_final7r5zh.mp3" length="45172487" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the most challenging aspects of raising a neurodivergent child is school and learning. In the U.S., our schools are built on a compliance and conformity model, which is a huge barrier to success for kids who learn differently and are behind...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the most challenging aspects of raising a neurodivergent child is school and learning. In the U.S., our schools are built on a compliance and conformity model, which is a huge barrier to success for kids who learn differently and are behind their peers in skills and development. That’s why it’s crucial that parents understand their child’s learning needs and the accommodations and services they are entitled to.  In this episode, I’m talking with former special education teacher and advocate, Liz Capone, about IEPs, 504 plans, and how to work with your child’s school to ensure that your child has what they need at school to learn and show mastery.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2830</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>174</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 173: How to Help Kids Feel Loved and Lovable, with Deborah Farmer Kris</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-173-how-to-help-kids-feel-loved-and-lovable-with-deborah-farmer-kris--59247254</link><description><![CDATA[The one thing all of us want for children is for them to feel loved, important, and special. As much as we want that, we don’t always succeed at it — life gets busy, and even the most well-meaning adults get frustrated and have bad days. Since neurodivergent kids get exponentially more negative messaging each and every day because of their differences, it’s crucial that caregivers make a conscious effort to ensure that these kids feel loved and lovable.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with the author of the “All the Time” children’s book series, Deborah Farmer Kris, about the steps parents can take to ensure that kids feel truly loved and loveable. Deborah provides quick, simple ideas you can take action on right away.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b01bb438-def1-35ac-b502-a441fc93683f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247254/173_how_to_help_kids_feel_loved_finalaau6l.mp3" length="34197881" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The one thing all of us want for children is for them to feel loved, important, and special. As much as we want that, we don’t always succeed at it — life gets busy, and even the most well-meaning adults get frustrated and have bad days. Since...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The one thing all of us want for children is for them to feel loved, important, and special. As much as we want that, we don’t always succeed at it — life gets busy, and even the most well-meaning adults get frustrated and have bad days. Since neurodivergent kids get exponentially more negative messaging each and every day because of their differences, it’s crucial that caregivers make a conscious effort to ensure that these kids feel loved and lovable.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with the author of the “All the Time” children’s book series, Deborah Farmer Kris, about the steps parents can take to ensure that kids feel truly loved and loveable. Deborah provides quick, simple ideas you can take action on right away.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2143</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>173</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 172: Sensory Processing Differences, with Carol Stock Kranowitz</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-172-sensory-processing-differences-with-carol-stock-kranowitz--59247295</link><description><![CDATA[Sensory challenges are common with both ADHD and autism. Often, the way sensory input is processed by an individual can explain behavior. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Carol Stock Kranowitz about the changes in her latest edition of her groundbreaking book, The Out-of-Sync Child, the importance of movement in working with sensory challenges, and what to do if your child struggles with sensory processing.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/09625e91-7a7b-38ac-8fef-178c07a60567</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247295/172_sensory_processing_diff_final94q7w.mp3" length="28565045" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sensory challenges are common with both ADHD and autism. Often, the way sensory input is processed by an individual can explain behavior. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Carol Stock Kranowitz about the changes in her...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sensory challenges are common with both ADHD and autism. Often, the way sensory input is processed by an individual can explain behavior. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Carol Stock Kranowitz about the changes in her latest edition of her groundbreaking book, The Out-of-Sync Child, the importance of movement in working with sensory challenges, and what to do if your child struggles with sensory processing.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1790</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>172</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 171: Regulation, Dysregulation &amp; Co-Regulation, with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-171-regulation-dysregulation-co-regulation-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247251</link><description><![CDATA[The concept of self-regulation is well-known among parents of kids with ADHD or autism. Especially since our kids often struggle to self-regulate. But there’s a lot more to talk about in the world of regulation. Our autonomic nervous systems drive behavior. And that nervous system is always either in a state of regulation or a state of dysregulation. This is crucial understanding for parents, caregivers, and teachers of neurodivergent kids. When one is regulated, they are calm and connected and feeling good. But when one is dysregulated, they’re feeling out-of-whack and that drives behavior. Join Sarah Wayland and I as we discuss how to recognize if your child is regulated or dysregulated and how that information informs your responses.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/8dcbccf7-392c-33c3-96cb-39dc2ff571f2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247251/171_self_regulation_and_dys_finala6d33.mp3" length="30647126" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The concept of self-regulation is well-known among parents of kids with ADHD or autism. Especially since our kids often struggle to self-regulate. But there’s a lot more to talk about in the world of regulation. Our autonomic nervous systems drive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The concept of self-regulation is well-known among parents of kids with ADHD or autism. Especially since our kids often struggle to self-regulate. But there’s a lot more to talk about in the world of regulation. Our autonomic nervous systems drive behavior. And that nervous system is always either in a state of regulation or a state of dysregulation. This is crucial understanding for parents, caregivers, and teachers of neurodivergent kids. When one is regulated, they are calm and connected and feeling good. But when one is dysregulated, they’re feeling out-of-whack and that drives behavior. Join Sarah Wayland and I as we discuss how to recognize if your child is regulated or dysregulated and how that information informs your responses.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1920</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>171</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 170: Finding Success with ADHD, with Isaac Eaves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-170-finding-success-with-adhd-with-isaac-eaves--59247225</link><description><![CDATA[Success with ADHD is absolutely possible, though that can be hard to hope for while watching your child struggle in school. That’s why I love to share ADHD success stories with you. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with successful ADHD entrepreneur, Isaac Eaves, about how he attained success by creating habits and routines that helped him focus, reframing struggles and making them his superpowers, and taking one step at a time toward his goal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/417663ff-1077-349c-8e04-6c1f3cee7e28</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247225/170_success_with_adhdaltd0.mp3" length="29635901" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Success with ADHD is absolutely possible, though that can be hard to hope for while watching your child struggle in school. That’s why I love to share ADHD success stories with you. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with successful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Success with ADHD is absolutely possible, though that can be hard to hope for while watching your child struggle in school. That’s why I love to share ADHD success stories with you. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with successful ADHD entrepreneur, Isaac Eaves, about how he attained success by creating habits and routines that helped him focus, reframing struggles and making them his superpowers, and taking one step at a time toward his goal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1857</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>170</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 169: Innovative Ways to Improve Executive Functions with Randy Kulman, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-169-innovative-ways-to-improve-executive-functions-with-randy-kulman-ph-d--59247242</link><description><![CDATA[Many neurodivergent kids love video games. They’re stimulating, rewarding, and often a less intimidating social environment. However, parents worry about how much time their kids are spending on screens. FInding balance is key, but you can also use your child’s interest in digital play to build skills, like executive functions. Kids are practicing planning, organization, time management, problem solving and more in their video games. You can use that to help them apply those skills in their everyday, offline life. And that’s exactly what my guest, Randy Kulman, Ph.D., founder of Learningworks for Kids, discusses in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Join us to learn how to use his Detect-Reflect-Connect model to help your kids relate the skills they use in their favorite games to real life tasks and activities.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/1d7f9745-3b21-38b6-bf44-a42a6cf3236e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247242/169_innovative_ways_finalazosp.mp3" length="34957655" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many neurodivergent kids love video games. They’re stimulating, rewarding, and often a less intimidating social environment. However, parents worry about how much time their kids are spending on screens. FInding balance is key, but you can also use...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many neurodivergent kids love video games. They’re stimulating, rewarding, and often a less intimidating social environment. However, parents worry about how much time their kids are spending on screens. FInding balance is key, but you can also use your child’s interest in digital play to build skills, like executive functions. Kids are practicing planning, organization, time management, problem solving and more in their video games. You can use that to help them apply those skills in their everyday, offline life. And that’s exactly what my guest, Randy Kulman, Ph.D., founder of Learningworks for Kids, discusses in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Join us to learn how to use his Detect-Reflect-Connect model to help your kids relate the skills they use in their favorite games to real life tasks and activities.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2190</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>169</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 168: Why Kids with ADHD Lie &amp; What We Can Do About It, with Norrine Russell, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-168-why-kids-with-adhd-lie-what-we-can-do-about-it-with-norrine-russell-ph-d--59247248</link><description><![CDATA[Everybody lies to some degree (remember when you told your friend she looked beautiful when wearing a dress you hated?). Lying is part of growing up. And kids want to do well — they want to meet your expectations and please you. When your child tells you a lie, it isn’t because they “disrespect” you. It’s so much more than that, and isn’t really about you at all.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Norrine Russell is back to explain why kids lie, what it’s really about, and what you can, and should, do about it. One key strategy is to ask yourself how much is fact and how much is wishful thinking. This conversation is not what you would assume and that’s what makes it so powerful.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/1175f7c8-a4ec-3b90-9f8c-bb16a7307704</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Apr 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247248/168_adhd_and_lying_final75udd.mp3" length="47652386" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Everybody lies to some degree (remember when you told your friend she looked beautiful when wearing a dress you hated?). Lying is part of growing up. And kids want to do well — they want to meet your expectations and please you. When your child tells...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everybody lies to some degree (remember when you told your friend she looked beautiful when wearing a dress you hated?). Lying is part of growing up. And kids want to do well — they want to meet your expectations and please you. When your child tells you a lie, it isn’t because they “disrespect” you. It’s so much more than that, and isn’t really about you at all.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Norrine Russell is back to explain why kids lie, what it’s really about, and what you can, and should, do about it. One key strategy is to ask yourself how much is fact and how much is wishful thinking. This conversation is not what you would assume and that’s what makes it so powerful.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2986</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>168</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 167: How to Manage Meltdowns, with The Behavior Revolution</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-167-how-to-manage-meltdowns-with-the-behavior-revolution--59247256</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know that meltdowns are different from tantrums? While a tantrum can devolve into a meltdown, a meltdown is very different. A child is not in control of themselves during a meltdown. Their brain has sort of been hijacked. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, my partner in the Behavior Revolution, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., and I take a deep dive on meltdowns. We’re talking about what a meltdown is and how it’s different from a tantrum, and we’re outlining the five steps you need to take when your child is having a meltdown — and some of these steps may surprise you. If you want to reduce the intensity and duration of meltdowns, and help your child when they’re having a hard time, this episode is a must-listen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d71473fc-e8aa-337b-ba76-021fba74fcc3</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247256/167_how_to_manage_meltdowns_final8scv3.mp3" length="40278992" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know that meltdowns are different from tantrums? While a tantrum can devolve into a meltdown, a meltdown is very different. A child is not in control of themselves during a meltdown. Their brain has sort of been hijacked. In this episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that meltdowns are different from tantrums? While a tantrum can devolve into a meltdown, a meltdown is very different. A child is not in control of themselves during a meltdown. Their brain has sort of been hijacked. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, my partner in the Behavior Revolution, Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., and I take a deep dive on meltdowns. We’re talking about what a meltdown is and how it’s different from a tantrum, and we’re outlining the five steps you need to take when your child is having a meltdown — and some of these steps may surprise you. If you want to reduce the intensity and duration of meltdowns, and help your child when they’re having a hard time, this episode is a must-listen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2524</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>167</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 166: The Nervous System and Your Child’s Behavior, with Irene Lyon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-166-the-nervous-system-and-your-child-s-behavior-with-irene-lyon--59247351</link><description><![CDATA[The autonomic nervous system governs the majority of our responses and reactions because behavior is biological. Fight, flight and freeze are all states of the autonomic nervous system, and all states of dysregulation. Calm and connected is also a state of the autonomic nervous system, when an individual is regulated. When you understand these connections to regulation and behavior, you have the foundational information necessary to understand behavior, notice, get curious, and create some transformation. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, nervous system expert Irene Lyon teaches us about trauma, the autonomic nervous system, unresolved survival stress, and how those experiences and biology come together to shape behavior.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bb736407-e8f8-35a0-b445-b03d84bedb04</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247351/166_trauma_the_nervous_system_finalauqii.mp3" length="37957553" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The autonomic nervous system governs the majority of our responses and reactions because behavior is biological. Fight, flight and freeze are all states of the autonomic nervous system, and all states of dysregulation. Calm and connected is also a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The autonomic nervous system governs the majority of our responses and reactions because behavior is biological. Fight, flight and freeze are all states of the autonomic nervous system, and all states of dysregulation. Calm and connected is also a state of the autonomic nervous system, when an individual is regulated. When you understand these connections to regulation and behavior, you have the foundational information necessary to understand behavior, notice, get curious, and create some transformation. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, nervous system expert Irene Lyon teaches us about trauma, the autonomic nervous system, unresolved survival stress, and how those experiences and biology come together to shape behavior.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2378</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>166</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 165: Helping Kids Accept Their ADHD and Be Their True Selves, with Mallory Band</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-165-helping-kids-accept-their-adhd-and-be-their-true-selves-with-mallory-band--59247271</link><description><![CDATA[An ADHD diagnosis can come with a lot of emotions, especially shame. So many kids and adults feel ashamed of their ADHD and lack confidence to be their true selves as a result. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, ADHD Adult and Executive Function Coach, Mallory Band shares her story of growing up with ADHD, accepting her brain and its differences, and learning to live authentically. Mallory has tips for parents on how to help your kids gain the confidence it takes to live as their true selves too.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/897f2edf-d8b8-3b2e-a1e6-c35ebd007ffb</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247271/165_helping_kids_with_adhd_final8baas.mp3" length="33436439" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>An ADHD diagnosis can come with a lot of emotions, especially shame. So many kids and adults feel ashamed of their ADHD and lack confidence to be their true selves as a result. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, ADHD Adult and Executive...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[An ADHD diagnosis can come with a lot of emotions, especially shame. So many kids and adults feel ashamed of their ADHD and lack confidence to be their true selves as a result. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, ADHD Adult and Executive Function Coach, Mallory Band shares her story of growing up with ADHD, accepting her brain and its differences, and learning to live authentically. Mallory has tips for parents on how to help your kids gain the confidence it takes to live as their true selves too.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2095</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>165</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 164: Helping Teens with Stress &amp; Anxiety at School, with Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-164-helping-teens-with-stress-anxiety-at-school-with-natalie-borrell-alison-grant--59247227</link><description><![CDATA[It has always been tough to be a teenager, which has been exacerbated by the COVID pandemic and schooling at home for long periods. Teens are struggling more with their mental health than ever, which means they need more support and guidance in this area than ever. But teens aren’t always open to talking with their parents about the hard stuff, or talking to anyone about it.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens share the stress and anxiety they are seeing today in their school and among their clients. They also offer tips and strategies to help teens who are struggling.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/14dd44af-fb82-3a52-9c54-b8e3ecab2c23</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247227/164_teen_stress_and_anxiety_final.mp3" length="30998240" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It has always been tough to be a teenager, which has been exacerbated by the COVID pandemic and schooling at home for long periods. Teens are struggling more with their mental health than ever, which means they need more support and guidance in this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It has always been tough to be a teenager, which has been exacerbated by the COVID pandemic and schooling at home for long periods. Teens are struggling more with their mental health than ever, which means they need more support and guidance in this area than ever. But teens aren’t always open to talking with their parents about the hard stuff, or talking to anyone about it.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens share the stress and anxiety they are seeing today in their school and among their clients. They also offer tips and strategies to help teens who are struggling.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1942</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>164</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 163: Helping Kids Build Emotional Skills, with Nadine Levitt</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-163-helping-kids-build-emotional-skills-with-nadine-levitt--59247237</link><description><![CDATA[Emotional intelligence is a learned skill set. We must teach our kids about feelings — what they are and what they mean — as well as how to manage them and communicate them to others. In her work with children and her emotional toolkit, Nadine Levitt teaches that emotions are trying to help us. They’re messengers. Some emotions are more challenging to feel but they’re all natural and necessary. It’s our job to figure out what the message means and what to do about it. Tune in to this episode to learn how to talk to your kids about their emotions and teach them the skills necessary to navigate their feelings in productive and healthy ways.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d969181a-3d6d-375c-8ae3-2a04d24190b4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247237/163_building_emotional_skills_final9kolz.mp3" length="25201940" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Emotional intelligence is a learned skill set. We must teach our kids about feelings — what they are and what they mean — as well as how to manage them and communicate them to others. In her work with children and her emotional toolkit, Nadine Levitt...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Emotional intelligence is a learned skill set. We must teach our kids about feelings — what they are and what they mean — as well as how to manage them and communicate them to others. In her work with children and her emotional toolkit, Nadine Levitt teaches that emotions are trying to help us. They’re messengers. Some emotions are more challenging to feel but they’re all natural and necessary. It’s our job to figure out what the message means and what to do about it. Tune in to this episode to learn how to talk to your kids about their emotions and teach them the skills necessary to navigate their feelings in productive and healthy ways.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1579</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>163</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 162: Let’s Talk About Control! with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-162-let-s-talk-about-control-with-penny-williams--59247245</link><description><![CDATA[American culture implies that if you are in control of your child’s behavior, you are a “good parent.” But that is extremely flawed logic. Our job as parents is to guide our kids to create a life of joy, fulfillment, and success for themselves. It’s not to have little people that we control. It’s not to have someone to exert authority over. How would that benefit our kids? How would that benefit us?    So we have to relinquish some control to our kids to teach them independence and set them up for success. But we also have to relinquish control to our kids for the benefit of their confidence and sense of competence. Kids can’t do well if we don’t allow them to make their own choices and take charge of themselves (and they can’t develop those skills either). Join me as I talk about the benefits of relinquishing control to our kids, and the importance of accepting what we cannot control and focusing our energy instead on what we can influence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e274b667-3fe2-35fc-aec3-161b640575cc</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247245/162_let_s_talk_about_control_final7azpk.mp3" length="22816700" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>American culture implies that if you are in control of your child’s behavior, you are a “good parent.” But that is extremely flawed logic. Our job as parents is to guide our kids to create a life of joy, fulfillment, and success for themselves. It’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[American culture implies that if you are in control of your child’s behavior, you are a “good parent.” But that is extremely flawed logic. Our job as parents is to guide our kids to create a life of joy, fulfillment, and success for themselves. It’s not to have little people that we control. It’s not to have someone to exert authority over. How would that benefit our kids? How would that benefit us?    So we have to relinquish some control to our kids to teach them independence and set them up for success. But we also have to relinquish control to our kids for the benefit of their confidence and sense of competence. Kids can’t do well if we don’t allow them to make their own choices and take charge of themselves (and they can’t develop those skills either). Join me as I talk about the benefits of relinquishing control to our kids, and the importance of accepting what we cannot control and focusing our energy instead on what we can influence.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1430</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>162</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 161: The Benefits of Affirmations for Kids and Parents, with Jaeden Schafer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-161-the-benefits-of-affirmations-for-kids-and-parents-with-jaeden-schafer--59247235</link><description><![CDATA[Scientific research shows us that affirmations are a powerful tool to combat negative limiting beliefs and reshape our neural pathways in the brain for the positive. Kids with ADHD (and/or autism) get exponentially more negative messages throughout their days which has a damaging impact on their confidence, sense of competency, and self-esteem. They need tools and strategies like affirmations to counterbalance the negative input and self-beliefs that commonly impact them.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m joined by the co-founder of Self-Pause, Jaeden Schafer, to discuss what effective affirmation practice looks like and why it’s so beneficial to adults and kids alike. Listen in to learn how you can support your child and their self-confidence with affirmations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cf0b659b-de19-37ed-8bad-f46db599e2c8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247235/161_the_benefits_of_affirmations_finala4men.mp3" length="24791612" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Scientific research shows us that affirmations are a powerful tool to combat negative limiting beliefs and reshape our neural pathways in the brain for the positive. Kids with ADHD (and/or autism) get exponentially more negative messages throughout...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Scientific research shows us that affirmations are a powerful tool to combat negative limiting beliefs and reshape our neural pathways in the brain for the positive. Kids with ADHD (and/or autism) get exponentially more negative messages throughout their days which has a damaging impact on their confidence, sense of competency, and self-esteem. They need tools and strategies like affirmations to counterbalance the negative input and self-beliefs that commonly impact them.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m joined by the co-founder of Self-Pause, Jaeden Schafer, to discuss what effective affirmation practice looks like and why it’s so beneficial to adults and kids alike. Listen in to learn how you can support your child and their self-confidence with affirmations.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1554</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>161</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 160: What Do Your Reactions Say About You?, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-160-what-do-your-reactions-say-about-you-with-penny-williams--59247243</link><description><![CDATA[We don’t naturally think about how much of our parenting is actually about our kids and their needs, and how much of it is actually about ourselves. Yet, it’s crucial that we do build an awareness around when our own experiences, challenges, fears, and traumas are getting in the way of seeing our kids’ needs clearly and providing for their needs. More often than not, our reactions and responses are more about us than about our kids.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking about how to determine what is about your child and what is more about you, and how to use that information to be adequately focused on your child’s struggles to be a better parent. One strategy is to ask yourself, “What does my reaction say about me?” We cover more insights and strategies in the show, as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/65e760f2-2d76-3d00-83c4-c36643c7841f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247243/160_what_do_your_reactions_say_final7b044.mp3" length="36729426" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We don’t naturally think about how much of our parenting is actually about our kids and their needs, and how much of it is actually about ourselves. Yet, it’s crucial that we do build an awareness around when our own experiences, challenges, fears,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We don’t naturally think about how much of our parenting is actually about our kids and their needs, and how much of it is actually about ourselves. Yet, it’s crucial that we do build an awareness around when our own experiences, challenges, fears, and traumas are getting in the way of seeing our kids’ needs clearly and providing for their needs. More often than not, our reactions and responses are more about us than about our kids.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking about how to determine what is about your child and what is more about you, and how to use that information to be adequately focused on your child’s struggles to be a better parent. One strategy is to ask yourself, “What does my reaction say about me?” We cover more insights and strategies in the show, as well.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1533</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>160</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 159: Supporting a Transgender Journey, with Wynne Nowland</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-159-supporting-a-transgender-journey-with-wynne-nowland--59247296</link><description><![CDATA[Gender diversity is more common among neurodiverse kids and teens, especially those on the autism spectrum. People who do not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth are three to six times as likely to have autism as people who don’t question their gender assignment, according to the latest studies on the subject. Neurodivergent kids have trouble fitting in and they often explore different communities to discover where they fit, including the transgender community.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I have an open and honest conversation with transgender woman, Wynne Nowland, about how parents, friends, and families can support a child or teen who is questioning their assigned gender or has reached the realization that they are transgender. One of the most important aspects is getting mental health experts involved to help you and your child navigate gender exploration and gender identity. A humanistic approach is key to a healthy journey. This episode is for every human! It’s time to open our hearts and minds to accept every single person as their authentic selves.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/5c98d8b5-8ae2-3ce8-a7e3-4c433fda53a4</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2022 15:37:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247296/159_supporting_a_transgender_journey_final85b6c.mp3" length="55216458" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Gender diversity is more common among neurodiverse kids and teens, especially those on the autism spectrum. People who do not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth are three to six times as likely to have autism as people who don’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Gender diversity is more common among neurodiverse kids and teens, especially those on the autism spectrum. People who do not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth are three to six times as likely to have autism as people who don’t question their gender assignment, according to the latest studies on the subject. Neurodivergent kids have trouble fitting in and they often explore different communities to discover where they fit, including the transgender community.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I have an open and honest conversation with transgender woman, Wynne Nowland, about how parents, friends, and families can support a child or teen who is questioning their assigned gender or has reached the realization that they are transgender. One of the most important aspects is getting mental health experts involved to help you and your child navigate gender exploration and gender identity. A humanistic approach is key to a healthy journey. This episode is for every human! It’s time to open our hearts and minds to accept every single person as their authentic selves.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2305</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>159</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 158: What We Learned from 27 Experts on Behavior, with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. &amp; Penny Williams (The Behavior Revolution)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-158-what-we-learned-from-27-experts-on-behavior-with-sarah-wayland-ph-d-penny-williams-the-behavior-revolution--59247252</link><description><![CDATA[We’re working on our next free online Parenting ADHD &amp; Autism Summit — Decoding Behavior Summit February 11-13, 2022. In interviewing all these experts on behavior, parenting, ADHD, autism, and anxiety we have had our own lightbulb moments.  In this episode of the podcast, we’re sharing some of what these experts will be offering during the Decoding Behavior Summit and letting you know how you can participate in this online conference for free.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d5813400-ac1e-3e09-8f9c-45061514ead7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247252/158_decodingbehavior_final7hg22.mp3" length="45023618" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’re working on our next free online Parenting ADHD &amp;amp; Autism Summit — Decoding Behavior Summit February 11-13, 2022. In interviewing all these experts on behavior, parenting, ADHD, autism, and anxiety we have had our own lightbulb moments.  In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re working on our next free online Parenting ADHD &amp; Autism Summit — Decoding Behavior Summit February 11-13, 2022. In interviewing all these experts on behavior, parenting, ADHD, autism, and anxiety we have had our own lightbulb moments.  In this episode of the podcast, we’re sharing some of what these experts will be offering during the Decoding Behavior Summit and letting you know how you can participate in this online conference for free.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2821</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>158</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 157: REPLAY! Strategies to Help Your Anxious Child with Dawn Huebner, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-157-replay-strategies-to-help-your-anxious-child-with-dawn-huebner-ph-d--59247262</link><description><![CDATA[Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child’s life, and can feel like it should be easily rationalized away. But, those with anxiety know no amount of rationalizing can just “turn off” an anxiety attack. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Psychologist, Dr. Dawn Huebner offers both insights for understanding anxiety, as well as strategies to help your child through the difficult challenges of anxiety.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/6b9a2e64-fd18-3589-a7b8-74185c582fb3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247262/157_replay_82_anxiety_dawn_huebner_finalah9b7.mp3" length="34006895" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child’s life, and can feel like it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child’s life, and can feel like it should be easily rationalized away. But, those with anxiety know no amount of rationalizing can just “turn off” an anxiety attack. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Psychologist, Dr. Dawn Huebner offers both insights for understanding anxiety, as well as strategies to help your child through the difficult challenges of anxiety.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2131</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 156: New Year, New Parenting Mindset</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-156-new-year-new-parenting-mindset--59247272</link><description><![CDATA[Your parenting mindset is the #1 most important aspect of parenting kids with ADHD, autism, or other neurobehavioral disorders. Being the best parent you can be for your neurodiverse kid is 90 percent about changing yourself — it’s never about changing your kid.  This episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast is part of our Behavior Revolution series. Penny and Sarah outline the perspective you need to adopt to address behavior in a compassionate and effective way, while honoring your child’s neurodiversity (instead of trying to change it). Let’s start 2022 by getting your mind right for parenting your neuro-atypical child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/21344f73-8f0c-3696-bb55-40002d94f007</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247272/156_new_year_new_mindset_final6atci.mp3" length="37144820" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your parenting mindset is the #1 most important aspect of parenting kids with ADHD, autism, or other neurobehavioral disorders. Being the best parent you can be for your neurodiverse kid is 90 percent about changing yourself — it’s never about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your parenting mindset is the #1 most important aspect of parenting kids with ADHD, autism, or other neurobehavioral disorders. Being the best parent you can be for your neurodiverse kid is 90 percent about changing yourself — it’s never about changing your kid.  This episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast is part of our Behavior Revolution series. Penny and Sarah outline the perspective you need to adopt to address behavior in a compassionate and effective way, while honoring your child’s neurodiversity (instead of trying to change it). Let’s start 2022 by getting your mind right for parenting your neuro-atypical child.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2327</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>156</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 155: Using Strengths to Find Success with ADHD, with Ari Sokolov</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-155-using-strengths-to-find-success-with-adhd-with-ari-sokolov--59247258</link><description><![CDATA[Ari Sokolov grew up with ADHD, but she didn’t let her struggles in school define her. Instead, she found ways to make her strengths of creativity and problem-solving work for her. And everything changed when she accidentally walked into a computer science class in middle school and discovered coding. Coding is an outlet for her ADHD creativity and hyperfocus and she grew so passionate about it that it became her path forward. My guest on this episode is 20-year-old Ari Sokolov, a college student and app developer who founded The Trill Project, a safe space for teens and adults to get mental health support. Join us to hear Ari’s inspiring story.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c46e455b-d10c-3a7a-9214-5f95f6ae4473</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247258/155_howgrowingupwithadhd_finalahm2i.mp3" length="24125663" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ari Sokolov grew up with ADHD, but she didn’t let her struggles in school define her. Instead, she found ways to make her strengths of creativity and problem-solving work for her. And everything changed when she accidentally walked into a computer...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ari Sokolov grew up with ADHD, but she didn’t let her struggles in school define her. Instead, she found ways to make her strengths of creativity and problem-solving work for her. And everything changed when she accidentally walked into a computer science class in middle school and discovered coding. Coding is an outlet for her ADHD creativity and hyperfocus and she grew so passionate about it that it became her path forward. My guest on this episode is 20-year-old Ari Sokolov, a college student and app developer who founded The Trill Project, a safe space for teens and adults to get mental health support. Join us to hear Ari’s inspiring story.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1512</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>155</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 154: The Necessity of Radical Self-Care, with Shelly Tygielski</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-154-the-necessity-of-radical-self-care-with-shelly-tygielski--59247257</link><description><![CDATA[Self-care is a necessity, not a luxury. Even more so for parents raising neurodiverse kids, like those with ADHD or autism. And yet, self-care is the first thing we sacrifice as parents, thinking we are doing better by our kids and our families in doing so. The reality is, the less we care for ourselves, the less we have to give to others. Sacrificing your self-care is actually making you less able to give your all to others.  On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking to the author of “Sit Down to Rise Up,” Shelly Tygielski about radical self-care. Listen in to learn about developing compassion-based resilience and creating a community of care for yourself to prevent caregiver depletion and burnout. You’ll leave this episode feeling valued and inspired.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/4c6e1bb6-5a0a-397b-832f-aacbf9fc8e79</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247257/154_radicalselfcare_final7m0yo.mp3" length="29542910" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Self-care is a necessity, not a luxury. Even more so for parents raising neurodiverse kids, like those with ADHD or autism. And yet, self-care is the first thing we sacrifice as parents, thinking we are doing better by our kids and our families in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self-care is a necessity, not a luxury. Even more so for parents raising neurodiverse kids, like those with ADHD or autism. And yet, self-care is the first thing we sacrifice as parents, thinking we are doing better by our kids and our families in doing so. The reality is, the less we care for ourselves, the less we have to give to others. Sacrificing your self-care is actually making you less able to give your all to others.  On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking to the author of “Sit Down to Rise Up,” Shelly Tygielski about radical self-care. Listen in to learn about developing compassion-based resilience and creating a community of care for yourself to prevent caregiver depletion and burnout. You’ll leave this episode feeling valued and inspired.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1851</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>154</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 153: How Creative Parenting Helps Neurodiverse Kids, with Nina Meehan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-153-how-creative-parenting-helps-neurodiverse-kids-with-nina-meehan--59247373</link><description><![CDATA[Creative parenting not only helps you create moments of magic, but it also fosters trust and independence, emotional expression, out-of-the-box thinking, happiness through connection, and the ability to let go of perfection. Creative parenting can cut through the stress, anxiety, and struggle to bring more light and joy to your child, yourself, and your family, as well. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, theater producer, Nina Meehan, shares the basics of creative parenting and the tools you need to embrace creativity in all aspects of your parenting. We all have creativity within us — Nina helps you rediscover it and use it to bring mre magic and joy to your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/5fb3c600-0a1d-3fc9-9832-9f375fdc33af</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Dec 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247373/153_creative_parenting_final_6o4hx.mp3" length="25917095" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Creative parenting not only helps you create moments of magic, but it also fosters trust and independence, emotional expression, out-of-the-box thinking, happiness through connection, and the ability to let go of perfection. Creative parenting can cut...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Creative parenting not only helps you create moments of magic, but it also fosters trust and independence, emotional expression, out-of-the-box thinking, happiness through connection, and the ability to let go of perfection. Creative parenting can cut through the stress, anxiety, and struggle to bring more light and joy to your child, yourself, and your family, as well. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, theater producer, Nina Meehan, shares the basics of creative parenting and the tools you need to embrace creativity in all aspects of your parenting. We all have creativity within us — Nina helps you rediscover it and use it to bring mre magic and joy to your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1624</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>153</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 152: Post-Traumatic Thriving, with Randall Bell, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-152-post-traumatic-thriving-with-randall-bell-ph-d--59247305</link><description><![CDATA[By college age, 66-85 percent of all people have been impacted by trauma. And marginalized populations — including those with disabilities like ADHD, autism, and anxiety — are much more likely to experience trauma, many consistently and frequently. We can’t prevent all trauma, but we can affect how our kids (and ourselves) cope with it and heal it. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Randall Bell, author of “Post-Traumatic Thriving,” outlines the three choices an individual faces after trauma and the strategies scientific research identifies as necessary to thrive. If you are the caregiver of a child with ADHD, autism or anxiety, I can almost guarantee your child has been traumatized — and you probably have too — just by trying to succeed as a neurodiverse person in a neurotypical world. I encourage you to listen to this episode and help your family heal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b64b8e5e-e77a-3b26-829f-9cc9ec3c6ab9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247305/152_posttraumatic_finalb42yk.mp3" length="52296178" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>By college age, 66-85 percent of all people have been impacted by trauma. And marginalized populations — including those with disabilities like ADHD, autism, and anxiety — are much more likely to experience trauma, many consistently and frequently. We...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[By college age, 66-85 percent of all people have been impacted by trauma. And marginalized populations — including those with disabilities like ADHD, autism, and anxiety — are much more likely to experience trauma, many consistently and frequently. We can’t prevent all trauma, but we can affect how our kids (and ourselves) cope with it and heal it. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Randall Bell, author of “Post-Traumatic Thriving,” outlines the three choices an individual faces after trauma and the strategies scientific research identifies as necessary to thrive. If you are the caregiver of a child with ADHD, autism or anxiety, I can almost guarantee your child has been traumatized — and you probably have too — just by trying to succeed as a neurodiverse person in a neurotypical world. I encourage you to listen to this episode and help your family heal.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1637</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>152</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 151: What to Do When Your Child Gets in Trouble at School, with Robert Tudisco, Esq.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-151-what-to-do-when-your-child-gets-in-trouble-at-school-with-robert-tudisco-esq--59247309</link><description><![CDATA[Kids with special needs get in trouble at school — both disciplinary action and involvement of law enforcement — far more than neurotypical students. Kids with ADHD, anxiety, learning disabilities, and autism are suspended far more than their peers. And that’s not ok. It’s downright scary for parents of kids with behavioral issues when they know the behaviors are a manifestation of the disability but the school is still taking punitive measures to try to stop the behavior. These interventions often quickly escalate to law enforcement involvement, which no parent wants for their child. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, educational and criminal attorney (who happens to have ADHD), Robert Tudisco, walks you through what to do to prevent the escalation of behavior challenges in school and the very, very important steps you need to take if and when your child is facing disciplinary actions or arrest at school. We also talk about how to handle the threat of truancy for kids with school refusal and avoidance. You must not miss this episode!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/5c46d472-ee59-3665-8b34-ca4bf1367c58</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247309/151_whattodowhenyourchild_final_1_6kxt7.mp3" length="41984105" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kids with special needs get in trouble at school — both disciplinary action and involvement of law enforcement — far more than neurotypical students. Kids with ADHD, anxiety, learning disabilities, and autism are suspended far more than their peers....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kids with special needs get in trouble at school — both disciplinary action and involvement of law enforcement — far more than neurotypical students. Kids with ADHD, anxiety, learning disabilities, and autism are suspended far more than their peers. And that’s not ok. It’s downright scary for parents of kids with behavioral issues when they know the behaviors are a manifestation of the disability but the school is still taking punitive measures to try to stop the behavior. These interventions often quickly escalate to law enforcement involvement, which no parent wants for their child. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, educational and criminal attorney (who happens to have ADHD), Robert Tudisco, walks you through what to do to prevent the escalation of behavior challenges in school and the very, very important steps you need to take if and when your child is facing disciplinary actions or arrest at school. We also talk about how to handle the threat of truancy for kids with school refusal and avoidance. You must not miss this episode!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2631</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>151</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 150: Behavior Charts, Rewards &amp; Punishments, with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. &amp; Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-150-behavior-charts-rewards-punishments-with-sarah-wayland-ph-d-penny-williams--59247264</link><description><![CDATA[The common advice from many clinicians for parenting kids with ADHD is to start a behavior chart and reward system to create external motivation. The problem is that these charts and systems often add more work for overwhelmed parents and kids, and often don’t produce results. And in our schools and classrooms, they end up instilling shame, blame, and fear, which is actually harming our children. Tune in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast to learn a better way to help our kids do well. Afterall, kids do well when they can.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a4dd8734-3f2f-32da-892b-f34f300b0147</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247264/150chartsrewards_final_1_6qz4d.mp3" length="38250704" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The common advice from many clinicians for parenting kids with ADHD is to start a behavior chart and reward system to create external motivation. The problem is that these charts and systems often add more work for overwhelmed parents and kids, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The common advice from many clinicians for parenting kids with ADHD is to start a behavior chart and reward system to create external motivation. The problem is that these charts and systems often add more work for overwhelmed parents and kids, and often don’t produce results. And in our schools and classrooms, they end up instilling shame, blame, and fear, which is actually harming our children. Tune in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast to learn a better way to help our kids do well. Afterall, kids do well when they can.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2397</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>150</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 149: Using Play to Support Learning, with Sivanne Lieber</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-149-using-play-to-support-learning-with-sivanne-lieber--59247280</link><description><![CDATA[We only encourage play up to age five in our culture, but play should be lifelong, because curiosity, learning, and growth should be lifelong. We need to trust our kids (and ourselves) to follow individual interests and passions to create learning and fulfillment. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with play enabler and parent coach, Sivanne Lieber, about using play to help our kids in academics and in everyday life. Listen in to learn how to shift your mindset about play and learning, and how to help your child follow their instincts for true success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/537bd7a3-7e3d-3e95-ae7c-11b624c1b0ad</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247280/149_usingplaytosupportlearningbq5e5.mp3" length="69264213" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We only encourage play up to age five in our culture, but play should be lifelong, because curiosity, learning, and growth should be lifelong. We need to trust our kids (and ourselves) to follow individual interests and passions to create learning and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We only encourage play up to age five in our culture, but play should be lifelong, because curiosity, learning, and growth should be lifelong. We need to trust our kids (and ourselves) to follow individual interests and passions to create learning and fulfillment. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with play enabler and parent coach, Sivanne Lieber, about using play to help our kids in academics and in everyday life. Listen in to learn how to shift your mindset about play and learning, and how to help your child follow their instincts for true success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2167</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>149</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 148: Your Child’s Brain Is Not Broken, with Tamara Rosier, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-148-your-child-s-brain-is-not-broken-with-tamara-rosier-ph-d--59247261</link><description><![CDATA[When we choose to view ADHD as a difference, we show our kids that they’re not broken and help them harness their strengths. As ADHD Coach, Tamara Rosier, Ph.D., tells us in this episode, people with ADHD eventually grow into their brains. It’s our job as parents to help them navigate big emotions and develop strategies to get things done despite having an ADHD brain. Tamara provides strategies for this and also shares many of her own methods learned from being an adult with ADHD and raising kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a9dddde4-59e6-31f2-a551-5ecbccfd1632</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Oct 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247261/148_yourchildsbrain_final7nk45.mp3" length="29320649" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When we choose to view ADHD as a difference, we show our kids that they’re not broken and help them harness their strengths. As ADHD Coach, Tamara Rosier, Ph.D., tells us in this episode, people with ADHD eventually grow into their brains. It’s our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we choose to view ADHD as a difference, we show our kids that they’re not broken and help them harness their strengths. As ADHD Coach, Tamara Rosier, Ph.D., tells us in this episode, people with ADHD eventually grow into their brains. It’s our job as parents to help them navigate big emotions and develop strategies to get things done despite having an ADHD brain. Tamara provides strategies for this and also shares many of her own methods learned from being an adult with ADHD and raising kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1837</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>148</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 147: School Avoidance and Refusal</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-147-school-avoidance-and-refusal--59247273</link><description><![CDATA[Does your child avoid or flat-out refuse to go to school sometimes? School avoidance and refusal is the most stressful and upsetting thing I’ve gone through as a parent. The law says my kid has to attend school but my kid is so stressed and so pained in that environment that he couldn’t physically force himself to go many days, no matter the consequences. Listen in as I share our 9-year journey with school refusal and help you understand why it’s happening and how to handle it as effectively as possible. The struggle is real… but you are not alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7ad182a3-100c-37d4-aa3b-080a8a83a96c</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247273/147_school_avoidance_and_refusal_final.mp3" length="29447000" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Does your child avoid or flat-out refuse to go to school sometimes? School avoidance and refusal is the most stressful and upsetting thing I’ve gone through as a parent. The law says my kid has to attend school but my kid is so stressed and so pained...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Does your child avoid or flat-out refuse to go to school sometimes? School avoidance and refusal is the most stressful and upsetting thing I’ve gone through as a parent. The law says my kid has to attend school but my kid is so stressed and so pained in that environment that he couldn’t physically force himself to go many days, no matter the consequences. Listen in as I share our 9-year journey with school refusal and help you understand why it’s happening and how to handle it as effectively as possible. The struggle is real… but you are not alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1845</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>147</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 146: Your Child is Not Your Enemy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-146-your-child-is-not-your-enemy--59247269</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture seems to dictate that parents should have control over their kids. We should command them and they should comply. But this authoritarian parent-child relationship is harmful and not at all helpful. It sets us up to see our kids as our enemies — a mindset that is enormously damaging and actually makes our kids’ behavior worse. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’ll outline how to get on the same team as your child and show you how that positively impacts your child’s behavior, self-worth, and success. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bc2e551d-fae3-333c-88e1-fea95a4e4cc7</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247269/146_yourchildisnotyourenemy_final634m0.mp3" length="21105332" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture seems to dictate that parents should have control over their kids. We should command them and they should comply. But this authoritarian parent-child relationship is harmful and not at all helpful. It sets us up to see our kids as our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture seems to dictate that parents should have control over their kids. We should command them and they should comply. But this authoritarian parent-child relationship is harmful and not at all helpful. It sets us up to see our kids as our enemies — a mindset that is enormously damaging and actually makes our kids’ behavior worse. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’ll outline how to get on the same team as your child and show you how that positively impacts your child’s behavior, self-worth, and success. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1323</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>146</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 145: How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids, with Robbin McManne</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-145-how-to-stop-yelling-at-your-kids-with-robbin-mcmanne--59247274</link><description><![CDATA[Yelling at someone who is causing you anguish or frustration is totally natural. We are wired to respond in kind to keep ourselves safe. However, yelling at our kids, no matter what the situation, is never helpful. Ok, if they’re running out into traffic, yelling is warranted, I’ll give you that. But outside of safety situations, yelling is counterproductive. Listen in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast where I talk with parent coach, Robbin McManne, about the power of putting a pause in place and what that looks like. You must put space between what’s happening for your child and what’s happening for you at that moment so you can parent with intention… and effectively. Listen in as Robbin explains why you have to fight for your calm like you fight for your kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cac4d0c1-bfae-3e52-ba9e-463c9aa6ae85</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247274/145_howtostopyelling_final_1_bqjm9.mp3" length="35127374" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Yelling at someone who is causing you anguish or frustration is totally natural. We are wired to respond in kind to keep ourselves safe. However, yelling at our kids, no matter what the situation, is never helpful. Ok, if they’re running out into...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Yelling at someone who is causing you anguish or frustration is totally natural. We are wired to respond in kind to keep ourselves safe. However, yelling at our kids, no matter what the situation, is never helpful. Ok, if they’re running out into traffic, yelling is warranted, I’ll give you that. But outside of safety situations, yelling is counterproductive. Listen in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast where I talk with parent coach, Robbin McManne, about the power of putting a pause in place and what that looks like. You must put space between what’s happening for your child and what’s happening for you at that moment so you can parent with intention… and effectively. Listen in as Robbin explains why you have to fight for your calm like you fight for your kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2201</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>145</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 144: Creating Success for Your Child by Changing Your Lens, with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D. &amp; Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-144-creating-success-for-your-child-by-changing-your-lens-with-sarah-wayland-ph-d-penny-williams--59247316</link><description><![CDATA[Parents get to choose how they view their child’s behavior. You can decide that they are behaving poorly or have “bad” qualities, like laziness. Or, you can take into account your child’s brain and biology and use it to guide how you view challenging behavior. It really is your choice to make. In this first episode of the Behavior Revolution series on the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Sarah and I share how to choose and use the most effective view of behavior. You’ll learn about dysregulation and why your child acts the way they do and, most importantly, how to help your child feel better and do better.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a78dd146-774c-3348-83d5-825be4d2b7f1</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247316/144behaviorpennysarah_finaladpsn.mp3" length="25882901" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents get to choose how they view their child’s behavior. You can decide that they are behaving poorly or have “bad” qualities, like laziness. Or, you can take into account your child’s brain and biology and use it to guide how you view challenging...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents get to choose how they view their child’s behavior. You can decide that they are behaving poorly or have “bad” qualities, like laziness. Or, you can take into account your child’s brain and biology and use it to guide how you view challenging behavior. It really is your choice to make. In this first episode of the Behavior Revolution series on the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Sarah and I share how to choose and use the most effective view of behavior. You’ll learn about dysregulation and why your child acts the way they do and, most importantly, how to help your child feel better and do better.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1622</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>144</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 143: Helping Your Teen Get Motivated, with Dr. Norrine Russell</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-143-helping-your-teen-get-motivated-with-dr-norrine-russell--59247292</link><description><![CDATA[A lack of motivation isn’t a character flaw. There’s always a reason why someone isn’t on task or meeting expectations, and it’s virtually never that they just don’t care. When it feels like your child is unmotivated, ask yourself, “What’s getting in the way?” In this episode of the parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Norrine Russell shares how to take a deep dive into a seeming lack of motivation to determine what is preventing your child or teen from getting things done.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/19e6c301-2b84-398e-99e7-8f3dbfc7be92</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247292/143helpingyourteen_final9wp1n.mp3" length="32219633" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A lack of motivation isn’t a character flaw. There’s always a reason why someone isn’t on task or meeting expectations, and it’s virtually never that they just don’t care. When it feels like your child is unmotivated, ask yourself, “What’s getting in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A lack of motivation isn’t a character flaw. There’s always a reason why someone isn’t on task or meeting expectations, and it’s virtually never that they just don’t care. When it feels like your child is unmotivated, ask yourself, “What’s getting in the way?” In this episode of the parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Norrine Russell shares how to take a deep dive into a seeming lack of motivation to determine what is preventing your child or teen from getting things done.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2019</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>143</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 142: What to Do When Smart Kids are Struggling, with Jeannine Jannot, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-142-what-to-do-when-smart-kids-are-struggling-with-jeannine-jannot-ph-d--59247321</link><description><![CDATA[When kids are struggling in school, it’s not just about academics — social connectedness and mental and emotional health play a key role in success at school too. Our current tick-the-box, high-stakes educational culture doesn’t work for our kids, especially kids with ADHD and/or autism. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, join me as I talk with Jeannine Jannot, Ph.D., author of “The Disintegrating Student,” about what to do when your bright kid hits the wall of rigor and loses confidence in their ability to succeed at school. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ee63a399-6205-3e15-84f0-3295b528b213</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247321/142whattodowhensmartkids_finala8thn.mp3" length="35438873" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When kids are struggling in school, it’s not just about academics — social connectedness and mental and emotional health play a key role in success at school too. Our current tick-the-box, high-stakes educational culture doesn’t work for our kids,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When kids are struggling in school, it’s not just about academics — social connectedness and mental and emotional health play a key role in success at school too. Our current tick-the-box, high-stakes educational culture doesn’t work for our kids, especially kids with ADHD and/or autism. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, join me as I talk with Jeannine Jannot, Ph.D., author of “The Disintegrating Student,” about what to do when your bright kid hits the wall of rigor and loses confidence in their ability to succeed at school. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2221</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>142</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 141: Motivating Bright but Bored Students, with Alex Hargrove</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-141-motivating-bright-but-bored-students-with-alex-hargrove--59247285</link><description><![CDATA[Many students with ADHD are underachievers or gifted underachievers. They are bright but don’t do well in school. Alex Hargrove JD — author of "Reversing Underachievement: A Practical Guide for Parents of Underachieving Gifted Children," is one of those students. He graduated high school with a 2.2 GPA and a real disinterest in school and learning. Yet, he went on to get a law degree and co-found a multimillion-dollar company. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Alex shares what sparked his eventual school success and what parents can do to help their underachieving students find their own spark.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7f73c91e-32ec-3cc4-ad33-b96e84c234a9</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247285/141_motivatingbrightbutboredfinal7yge0.mp3" length="31157117" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many students with ADHD are underachievers or gifted underachievers. They are bright but don’t do well in school. Alex Hargrove JD — author of "Reversing Underachievement: A Practical Guide for Parents of Underachieving Gifted Children," is one of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many students with ADHD are underachievers or gifted underachievers. They are bright but don’t do well in school. Alex Hargrove JD — author of "Reversing Underachievement: A Practical Guide for Parents of Underachieving Gifted Children," is one of those students. He graduated high school with a 2.2 GPA and a real disinterest in school and learning. Yet, he went on to get a law degree and co-found a multimillion-dollar company. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Alex shares what sparked his eventual school success and what parents can do to help their underachieving students find their own spark.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1952</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>141</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 140: What It’s Like to Grow Up with Undiagnosed ADHD, with Lia McCabe</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-140-what-it-s-like-to-grow-up-with-undiagnosed-adhd-with-lia-mccabe--59247358</link><description><![CDATA[What I most wanted to know when my son was little was what it was like to have ADHD. I wanted to know his experience so I could be as helpful as possible. I asked as many ADHD adults as I could what would be helpful for my son. Lia McCabe is sharing these same insights as an adult who grew up with undiagnosed ADHD in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. She shares her story with you to help you understand your child and what they need from you most. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c5e59be1-210f-3cdb-8269-a002fa4f479e</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247358/140growingupfinal.mp3" length="32745887" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What I most wanted to know when my son was little was what it was like to have ADHD. I wanted to know his experience so I could be as helpful as possible. I asked as many ADHD adults as I could what would be helpful for my son. Lia McCabe is sharing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What I most wanted to know when my son was little was what it was like to have ADHD. I wanted to know his experience so I could be as helpful as possible. I asked as many ADHD adults as I could what would be helpful for my son. Lia McCabe is sharing these same insights as an adult who grew up with undiagnosed ADHD in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. She shares her story with you to help you understand your child and what they need from you most. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2052</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>140</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 139: How to Talk When Kids Won’t Listen, with Julie King</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-139-how-to-talk-when-kids-won-t-listen-with-julie-king--59247307</link><description><![CDATA[Many parents feel like their kids simply won’t listen to them. And when you have a kid with ADHD (or autism), it feels like they won’t listen most of the time, but you can change that. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Julie King, co-author of the newest book in the famed “How to Talk” parenting series, How to Talk When Kids Won’t Listen. Join us to learn the three basics of getting kids to listen, as well as many strategies to foster a family dynamic where kids are primed to listen.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/6b2d303d-042f-377e-9208-2b646ec29d50</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247307/139howtotalkfinal.mp3" length="32365166" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many parents feel like their kids simply won’t listen to them. And when you have a kid with ADHD (or autism), it feels like they won’t listen most of the time, but you can change that. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many parents feel like their kids simply won’t listen to them. And when you have a kid with ADHD (or autism), it feels like they won’t listen most of the time, but you can change that. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Julie King, co-author of the newest book in the famed “How to Talk” parenting series, How to Talk When Kids Won’t Listen. Join us to learn the three basics of getting kids to listen, as well as many strategies to foster a family dynamic where kids are primed to listen.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2028</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>139</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 138: Finding Joy in Parenting Kids with ADHD, with The Childhood Collective</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-138-finding-joy-in-parenting-kids-with-adhd-with-the-childhood-collective--59247279</link><description><![CDATA[No one disputes that raising kids with ADHD is more challenging. There’s a definitive struggle that can often overwhelm parents and family. But, that doesn’t mean your parenting life and family journey has to be devoid of joy. Quite the opposite! Join me and the ladies of The Childhood Collective — Lori Long, Mallory Yee, and Katie Severson — as we discuss the process necessary for parenting with intention and creating joy. Learn to see the beauty of the storm.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/fa4a3b05-d52c-3d84-a8b2-85f53bd4ee07</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247279/138findingjoy_final.mp3" length="31733828" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>No one disputes that raising kids with ADHD is more challenging. There’s a definitive struggle that can often overwhelm parents and family. But, that doesn’t mean your parenting life and family journey has to be devoid of joy. Quite the opposite! Join...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[No one disputes that raising kids with ADHD is more challenging. There’s a definitive struggle that can often overwhelm parents and family. But, that doesn’t mean your parenting life and family journey has to be devoid of joy. Quite the opposite! Join me and the ladies of The Childhood Collective — Lori Long, Mallory Yee, and Katie Severson — as we discuss the process necessary for parenting with intention and creating joy. Learn to see the beauty of the storm.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1988</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>138</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 137:Are You Sending Unintended Messages?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-137-are-you-sending-unintended-messages--59247259</link><description><![CDATA[Very often people receive something we say differently than we intended them to. This is even more true for kids with neurodifferences like ADHD and autism. Kids who struggle with social skills, emotional awareness, a sensitized stress response, and an inflated sensitivity to rejection and criticism. Our parenting comes from the best of intentions and love, but it’s often received much differently than intended. Listen in as Penny highlights the pitfalls of unintended messages and outlines how to be more mindful of the ways your messages are received and interpreted to prevent inadvertently hurting our kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0ad6d517-97bb-3abb-9378-ea309842a153</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247259/137unintendedmessages_final.mp3" length="15568823" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Very often people receive something we say differently than we intended them to. This is even more true for kids with neurodifferences like ADHD and autism. Kids who struggle with social skills, emotional awareness, a sensitized stress response, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Very often people receive something we say differently than we intended them to. This is even more true for kids with neurodifferences like ADHD and autism. Kids who struggle with social skills, emotional awareness, a sensitized stress response, and an inflated sensitivity to rejection and criticism. Our parenting comes from the best of intentions and love, but it’s often received much differently than intended. Listen in as Penny highlights the pitfalls of unintended messages and outlines how to be more mindful of the ways your messages are received and interpreted to prevent inadvertently hurting our kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>976</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>137</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 136: Turning Learning Challenges Into Lifelong Achievements, with Laura Reber</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-136-turning-learning-challenges-into-lifelong-achievements-with-laura-reber--59247303</link><description><![CDATA[ADHD creates many hurdles to academic success, most often in the way of lagging executive functioning skills. It takes an ADHD-informed caregiver, coach, or tutor to truly help a student with learning challenges that stem from ADHD. And it’s also important to know when to keep challenging and when a student needs the pressure released. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with school counselor and the founder of Progress Parade, Laura Reber, about how to guide kids to turn their learning challenges into lifelong achievements. Spoiler alert! It isn’t all about academics. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/55f650b6-3adf-33b0-8911-4fc06b1a79d1</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247303/136turninglearningchallenges_final_82270.mp3" length="31675031" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>ADHD creates many hurdles to academic success, most often in the way of lagging executive functioning skills. It takes an ADHD-informed caregiver, coach, or tutor to truly help a student with learning challenges that stem from ADHD. And it’s also...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ADHD creates many hurdles to academic success, most often in the way of lagging executive functioning skills. It takes an ADHD-informed caregiver, coach, or tutor to truly help a student with learning challenges that stem from ADHD. And it’s also important to know when to keep challenging and when a student needs the pressure released. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with school counselor and the founder of Progress Parade, Laura Reber, about how to guide kids to turn their learning challenges into lifelong achievements. Spoiler alert! It isn’t all about academics. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1985</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>136</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 135: A Behavior System that Works! with Penny Williams and Sarah Wayland, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-135-a-behavior-system-that-works-with-penny-williams-and-sarah-wayland-ph-d--59247286</link><description><![CDATA[We don’t want to change who our kids are, but we do want them to feel empowered to function well in our neurotypical world so they can build a fulfilling life for themselves. And the only way to do that is to see behavior as communication, understand the biology that triggers challenging behavior, and implement a systematic approach that uses those foundations as it’s core. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Penny and Sarah talk about their Behavior Revolution and the new system they developed to finally address behavior in a compassionate and informed way, grounded in brain science and honoring neurodiversity. If you struggle with your child’s behavior, this episode is a must listen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bb3c1b85-fb1b-3cec-93da-5c8d67b4562d</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247286/135behaviorrevolution_final.mp3" length="48978446" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We don’t want to change who our kids are, but we do want them to feel empowered to function well in our neurotypical world so they can build a fulfilling life for themselves. And the only way to do that is to see behavior as communication, understand...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We don’t want to change who our kids are, but we do want them to feel empowered to function well in our neurotypical world so they can build a fulfilling life for themselves. And the only way to do that is to see behavior as communication, understand the biology that triggers challenging behavior, and implement a systematic approach that uses those foundations as it’s core. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Penny and Sarah talk about their Behavior Revolution and the new system they developed to finally address behavior in a compassionate and informed way, grounded in brain science and honoring neurodiversity. If you struggle with your child’s behavior, this episode is a must listen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3069</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>135</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 134: Helping Kids with the Impact of the Pandemic on Learning &amp; Mental Health, with Amanda Morin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-134-helping-kids-with-the-impact-of-the-pandemic-on-learning-mental-health-with-amanda-morin--59247268</link><description><![CDATA[The COVID pandemic has been hard on almost everyone in one way or another. It has changed us, and it has certainly changed our kids. Understood.org conducted a survey to get a clearer picture of how the pandemic has impacted kids who are different learners and different thinkers, like kids with ADHD. On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I welcome back Amanda Morin to share some results of their study and, most importantly, how to go forward from here to help restore the mental and emotional health of our kids. Going back to school isn’t going to be easy, so parents will need to talk with their kids and make plans to ease the anxiety and stress. Listen in to find out how. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d4d63620-0349-3181-8055-12c9f1090d73</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247268/134impactofpandemiconlearning_final.mp3" length="30174248" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The COVID pandemic has been hard on almost everyone in one way or another. It has changed us, and it has certainly changed our kids. Understood.org conducted a survey to get a clearer picture of how the pandemic has impacted kids who are different...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The COVID pandemic has been hard on almost everyone in one way or another. It has changed us, and it has certainly changed our kids. Understood.org conducted a survey to get a clearer picture of how the pandemic has impacted kids who are different learners and different thinkers, like kids with ADHD. On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I welcome back Amanda Morin to share some results of their study and, most importantly, how to go forward from here to help restore the mental and emotional health of our kids. Going back to school isn’t going to be easy, so parents will need to talk with their kids and make plans to ease the anxiety and stress. Listen in to find out how. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1891</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>134</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 133: Helping Picky Eaters with Sarah Appleman, MS, OTR/L</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-133-helping-picky-eaters-with-sarah-appleman-ms-otr-l--59247329</link><description><![CDATA[Neurodivergent kids can often be picky eaters. And parents of picky eaters worry about their child’s health and wellness when their list of approved foods is very narrow and limited. However, there are things you can do to help picky eaters broaden their food horizon that don’t include bartering and threats (which don’t work anyway). In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with the author of Play with Your Food, Sarah Appleman. Sarah uses a sensory lens to understand food aversions and help kids become less tactilely defensive in small, incremental steps. Learn how to do that with your child as well as how to make sure you’re setting your kid up for success when it comes to food. Get ready to play with your food!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/14b76341-b6ab-3358-bc22-b64a2c13cd4e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247329/133helpingpickyeaters_sarahappleman_final.mp3" length="28193915" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Neurodivergent kids can often be picky eaters. And parents of picky eaters worry about their child’s health and wellness when their list of approved foods is very narrow and limited. However, there are things you can do to help picky eaters broaden...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Neurodivergent kids can often be picky eaters. And parents of picky eaters worry about their child’s health and wellness when their list of approved foods is very narrow and limited. However, there are things you can do to help picky eaters broaden their food horizon that don’t include bartering and threats (which don’t work anyway). In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with the author of Play with Your Food, Sarah Appleman. Sarah uses a sensory lens to understand food aversions and help kids become less tactilely defensive in small, incremental steps. Learn how to do that with your child as well as how to make sure you’re setting your kid up for success when it comes to food. Get ready to play with your food!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1767</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>133</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 132: Helping Kids Thrive in Middle School, with Phyllis Fagell, LCPC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-132-helping-kids-thrive-in-middle-school-with-phyllis-fagell-lcpc--59247399</link><description><![CDATA[Middle school is hard. There’s lots of development during that time, and lots of insecurity. All kids are struggling, but kids with ADHD have an additional level of difficulty when it comes to the social and emotional challenges of being a tween. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, certified professional school counselor, Phyllis Fagell, shares her strategies on helping kids navigate the innate challenges of middle school so they can thrive there, and beyond. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/5bd0d2de-a23e-3104-a4ab-aa3ecebf907d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247399/pap132helpingkidsthrivemiddleschoolphyllisfagellfinal.mp3" length="29879743" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Middle school is hard. There’s lots of development during that time, and lots of insecurity. All kids are struggling, but kids with ADHD have an additional level of difficulty when it comes to the social and emotional challenges of being a tween. In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Middle school is hard. There’s lots of development during that time, and lots of insecurity. All kids are struggling, but kids with ADHD have an additional level of difficulty when it comes to the social and emotional challenges of being a tween. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, certified professional school counselor, Phyllis Fagell, shares her strategies on helping kids navigate the innate challenges of middle school so they can thrive there, and beyond. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2131</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>132</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 131: Self and Social Regulation Using the Zones of Regulation, with Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-131-self-and-social-regulation-using-the-zones-of-regulation-with-elizabeth-sautter-ma-ccc--59247328</link><description><![CDATA[Teaching self-regulation can be tricky, especially with impulsive kids with ADHD who are often lagging in skills like social and emotional intelligence and self-awareness. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Elizabeth Sautter about the Zones of Regulation, a tool and curriculum designed to teach kids of all ages to reflect on how their body is feeling and then use strategies to help regulate, when needed. Listen in to learn all about the Zones of Regulation program and how to use it with your child to build self-awareness and self-regulation. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/909d7ac4-85a3-3acb-84ac-7af06a04ec4b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247328/pap131selfandsocialregulationusingzonesofregulationelizabethsautterfinal.mp3" length="31187633" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Teaching self-regulation can be tricky, especially with impulsive kids with ADHD who are often lagging in skills like social and emotional intelligence and self-awareness. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Elizabeth...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Teaching self-regulation can be tricky, especially with impulsive kids with ADHD who are often lagging in skills like social and emotional intelligence and self-awareness. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Elizabeth Sautter about the Zones of Regulation, a tool and curriculum designed to teach kids of all ages to reflect on how their body is feeling and then use strategies to help regulate, when needed. Listen in to learn all about the Zones of Regulation program and how to use it with your child to build self-awareness and self-regulation. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2224</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>131</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 130: Sensory Processing 101, with Carol Stock Kranowitz</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-130-sensory-processing-101-with-carol-stock-kranowitz--59247352</link><description><![CDATA[Sensory processing is how we react to the world through our eight senses (yes, 8!). If you have a child with ADHD and/or autism, your child has some sensory challenges. I am thrilled to have the author of THE sensory guidebook, “The Out-of-Sync Child,” Carol Stock Kanowitz share a primer on sensory processing and how it affects our kids’ behavior. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, you’ll learn about all eight senses, what it looks like when a child seeks or avoids in each sensory area, and some activities to strengthen their sensory experience in this world. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/4d731bc5-59fc-38a1-b2fa-0a3115e1e8e9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247352/pap130sensoryprocessing101carolstockkranowitzfinal.mp3" length="30528472" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sensory processing is how we react to the world through our eight senses (yes, 8!). If you have a child with ADHD and/or autism, your child has some sensory challenges. I am thrilled to have the author of THE sensory guidebook, “The Out-of-Sync...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sensory processing is how we react to the world through our eight senses (yes, 8!). If you have a child with ADHD and/or autism, your child has some sensory challenges. I am thrilled to have the author of THE sensory guidebook, “The Out-of-Sync Child,” Carol Stock Kanowitz share a primer on sensory processing and how it affects our kids’ behavior. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, you’ll learn about all eight senses, what it looks like when a child seeks or avoids in each sensory area, and some activities to strengthen their sensory experience in this world. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2181</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>130</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 129: When Being Positive Actually Becomes Negative, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-129-when-being-positive-actually-becomes-negative-with-penny-williams--59247289</link><description><![CDATA[Positive parenting is the foundation of the parenting approach I teach neurodiverse families. It is, by far, the most effective approach for kids with ADHD and/or autism. And yet, too much positivity can actually send the wrong message to our kids, and ourselves. Acting like things are all sunshine and roses when they’re clearly not, makes kids think we don’t see them and see their struggle. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m outlining the instances when positivity can actually become negative and sharing how to be mindful that your child is getting your intended message through balance and empathy. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/286a5939-84ac-376f-afd9-640da3a230d6</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247289/pap129beingpositiveisnegativepennyfinal.mp3" length="17839268" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Positive parenting is the foundation of the parenting approach I teach neurodiverse families. It is, by far, the most effective approach for kids with ADHD and/or autism. And yet, too much positivity can actually send the wrong message to our kids,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Positive parenting is the foundation of the parenting approach I teach neurodiverse families. It is, by far, the most effective approach for kids with ADHD and/or autism. And yet, too much positivity can actually send the wrong message to our kids, and ourselves. Acting like things are all sunshine and roses when they’re clearly not, makes kids think we don’t see them and see their struggle. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m outlining the instances when positivity can actually become negative and sharing how to be mindful that your child is getting your intended message through balance and empathy. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1271</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 128: Identifying &amp; Accommodating Slow Processing Speed, with Ellen Braaten, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-128-identifying-accommodating-slow-processing-speed-with-ellen-braaten-ph-d--59247346</link><description><![CDATA[Slow processing speed is common among individuals with ADHD. It can affect everything from responding when someone talks to you, to not getting classwork finished, to struggling in social interactions. A child can struggle with visual, motor or verbal processing, or any combination of the bunch. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast, Dr. Ellen Braaten shares how to identify slow processing speed and how to accommodate for it through adjusted expectations, assistive technology, and a strengths-based approach.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bd45dfe9-4457-310a-9d86-932755c79f1e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247346/pap128slowprocessingspeedellenbraatenfinal.mp3" length="30078612" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Slow processing speed is common among individuals with ADHD. It can affect everything from responding when someone talks to you, to not getting classwork finished, to struggling in social interactions. A child can struggle with visual, motor or verbal...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Slow processing speed is common among individuals with ADHD. It can affect everything from responding when someone talks to you, to not getting classwork finished, to struggling in social interactions. A child can struggle with visual, motor or verbal processing, or any combination of the bunch. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast, Dr. Ellen Braaten shares how to identify slow processing speed and how to accommodate for it through adjusted expectations, assistive technology, and a strengths-based approach.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2149</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>128</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 127: Check Your Judgement, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-127-check-your-judgement-with-penny-williams--59247270</link><description><![CDATA[We are creatures of habit, and one of the habits that seems to be part of our human DNA is judgement. Specifically, the judgement of others. We formulate a first impression of someone — i.e., a judgement — in one-tenth of a second. And we do the same to our kids. That’s right, we are judging our children constantly. Yes, there is an element of necessity; I’m not contesting that. What I’m blaring the warning siren about in this episode is the type of judgements we make of our kids, most often character judgments. How many times have you thought of or called your child rude, disrespectful, selfish, defiant, etc.? Today I’m calling your attention to it, explaining exactly why this is so harmful, and offering a parent mindset on character and judgements that will make a huge difference for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/68ccd584-359a-3ee9-88b6-5023f63be824</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247270/pap127checkyourjudgementpennyfinal.mp3" length="16137201" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are creatures of habit, and one of the habits that seems to be part of our human DNA is judgement. Specifically, the judgement of others. We formulate a first impression of someone — i.e., a judgement — in one-tenth of a second. And we do the same...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are creatures of habit, and one of the habits that seems to be part of our human DNA is judgement. Specifically, the judgement of others. We formulate a first impression of someone — i.e., a judgement — in one-tenth of a second. And we do the same to our kids. That’s right, we are judging our children constantly. Yes, there is an element of necessity; I’m not contesting that. What I’m blaring the warning siren about in this episode is the type of judgements we make of our kids, most often character judgments. How many times have you thought of or called your child rude, disrespectful, selfish, defiant, etc.? Today I’m calling your attention to it, explaining exactly why this is so harmful, and offering a parent mindset on character and judgements that will make a huge difference for your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1149</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>127</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 126: Resolving Tricky Behaviors, with Andrew Fuller</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-126-resolving-tricky-behaviors-with-andrew-fuller--59247333</link><description><![CDATA[A child who exhibits challenging or tricky behaviors has a different way of moving through and coping with the world. The key is to understand the neurological reasons for the behaviors and to address behaviors in a habitual way. Clinical psychologist, Andrew Fuller, developed a system called R.E.S.O.L.V.E. to do just that and shares the steps in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. While challenging behavior may feel like the norm for your child, you must make it abnormal, and always approach it as “our problem” not your (the child’s) problem. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d10db54b-38da-39db-9b70-abd424b760ae</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247333/pap126resolvingtrickybehaviorsandrewfullerfinal.mp3" length="27975795" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A child who exhibits challenging or tricky behaviors has a different way of moving through and coping with the world. The key is to understand the neurological reasons for the behaviors and to address behaviors in a habitual way. Clinical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A child who exhibits challenging or tricky behaviors has a different way of moving through and coping with the world. The key is to understand the neurological reasons for the behaviors and to address behaviors in a habitual way. Clinical psychologist, Andrew Fuller, developed a system called R.E.S.O.L.V.E. to do just that and shares the steps in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. While challenging behavior may feel like the norm for your child, you must make it abnormal, and always approach it as “our problem” not your (the child’s) problem. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1995</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>126</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 125: Using Books to Empower Neurodiverse Kids, with Merriam Saunders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-125-using-books-to-empower-neurodiverse-kids-with-merriam-saunders--59247374</link><description><![CDATA[Most kids with ADHD and/or autism feel so alone in their struggles. They don’t see themselves in their classmates, the movies they watch, or the books they read. They are underrepresented in the media, a truth that is fortunately changing. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m chatting with children’s book author and founder of <a href="http://anovelmind.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">ANovelMind.com</a>, a database of books full of neurodiverse characters. Join us for a discussion of how to get kids reading and what books will help neurodiverse kids learn and grow… and feel less alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e2e347bf-c83d-3806-905f-8f99edd7ce60</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247374/pap125usingbooksempowerneurodiversekidsmerriamsandersfinal.mp3" length="24692841" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most kids with ADHD and/or autism feel so alone in their struggles. They don’t see themselves in their classmates, the movies they watch, or the books they read. They are underrepresented in the media, a truth that is fortunately changing. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most kids with ADHD and/or autism feel so alone in their struggles. They don’t see themselves in their classmates, the movies they watch, or the books they read. They are underrepresented in the media, a truth that is fortunately changing. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m chatting with children’s book author and founder of <a href="http://anovelmind.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">ANovelMind.com</a>, a database of books full of neurodiverse characters. Join us for a discussion of how to get kids reading and what books will help neurodiverse kids learn and grow… and feel less alone.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1761</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>125</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 124: What Lies Beneath the Symptoms, with Dana Kay</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-124-what-lies-beneath-the-symptoms-with-dana-kay--59247276</link><description><![CDATA[Health is the foundation of everything. The healthier our bodies are, the better they function, and the better medication and supplements may work. ADHD symptoms aren’t just driven by the brain — the entire body is one interconnected system so we need to take a holistic approach to get the very best results with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dana Kay walks us through the different subsystems of the body that impact ADHD symptoms and some functional testing that could provide insights to help improve ADHD symptoms. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/1cbdf93d-e41d-32e1-8723-9e0808687694</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247276/pap124whatliesbeneathdanakayfinal.mp3" length="29044721" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Health is the foundation of everything. The healthier our bodies are, the better they function, and the better medication and supplements may work. ADHD symptoms aren’t just driven by the brain — the entire body is one interconnected system so we need...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Health is the foundation of everything. The healthier our bodies are, the better they function, and the better medication and supplements may work. ADHD symptoms aren’t just driven by the brain — the entire body is one interconnected system so we need to take a holistic approach to get the very best results with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dana Kay walks us through the different subsystems of the body that impact ADHD symptoms and some functional testing that could provide insights to help improve ADHD symptoms. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2071</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>124</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 123: You’re Allowed to Take Up Space, Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-123-you-re-allowed-to-take-up-space-penny-williams--59247297</link><description><![CDATA[Whether it’s fueled by anxiety, compassion, or something else, many of us sacrifice our own wants and needs for the good of others. Sometimes we want to. Sometimes we feel we have to. It’s very common for parents and it’s even more common in siblings of neuroatypical kids, like those with ADHD and/or autism. Listen in as Penny explains what it means to “take up space” and encourages you to make sure your kids, especially those siblings, know that they have the right and permission to.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/d7e97d68-aacf-310a-9d09-12a891c3fd40</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247297/pap123allowedtotakeupspacefinal.mp3" length="10561159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Whether it’s fueled by anxiety, compassion, or something else, many of us sacrifice our own wants and needs for the good of others. Sometimes we want to. Sometimes we feel we have to. It’s very common for parents and it’s even more common in siblings...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whether it’s fueled by anxiety, compassion, or something else, many of us sacrifice our own wants and needs for the good of others. Sometimes we want to. Sometimes we feel we have to. It’s very common for parents and it’s even more common in siblings of neuroatypical kids, like those with ADHD and/or autism. Listen in as Penny explains what it means to “take up space” and encourages you to make sure your kids, especially those siblings, know that they have the right and permission to.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>751</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>123</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 122: Empowering Kids to Handle Life's Basic Problems, with Kimball Lewis</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-122-empowering-kids-to-handle-life-s-basic-problems-with-kimball-lewis--59247281</link><description><![CDATA[A parent’s protective nature is often at odds with preparing our kids for adulthood and handling any problems that come their way. Our intention is to lovingly protect them from harm and struggle, but not experiencing struggle means they’re not prepared to do for themselves and handle the basic problems of life. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, CEO of <a href="http://empoweringparents.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">EmpoweringParents.com</a>, Kimball Lewis, shares insight into why this generation of teens and young adults don’t seem prepared and strategies to prepare kids to be successfully independent. It’s ideal to start young, very young, but it’s never too late for change. Whether your child is 7 or 17, this episode has great wisdom for you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/dc34b23c-543b-38ad-a22e-8456d65f350f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2021 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247281/pap122empoweringkidskimballlewisfinal_alf7s.mp3" length="31740914" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A parent’s protective nature is often at odds with preparing our kids for adulthood and handling any problems that come their way. Our intention is to lovingly protect them from harm and struggle, but not experiencing struggle means they’re not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A parent’s protective nature is often at odds with preparing our kids for adulthood and handling any problems that come their way. Our intention is to lovingly protect them from harm and struggle, but not experiencing struggle means they’re not prepared to do for themselves and handle the basic problems of life. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, CEO of <a href="http://empoweringparents.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">EmpoweringParents.com</a>, Kimball Lewis, shares insight into why this generation of teens and young adults don’t seem prepared and strategies to prepare kids to be successfully independent. It’s ideal to start young, very young, but it’s never too late for change. Whether your child is 7 or 17, this episode has great wisdom for you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2264</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>122</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 121: Why Kids Procrastinate, and How To Help, with Leslie Josel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-121-why-kids-procrastinate-and-how-to-help-with-leslie-josel--59247325</link><description><![CDATA[One of the top complaints from parents is procrastination. Kids procrastinate on a variety of things, but the most common are schoolwork and chores. The key to resolving procrastination (or letting it go) is to understand the reasons behind it. Does your child wait until the last minute for a reason? Does your teen refuse the tools you suggest for a reason? Yes, there’s always a reason. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Leslie Josel, an ADHD-academic and parenting coach, explains how to understand your child’s brain and procrastination, as well as what to do to honor how your child functions while also getting important things done.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/b360a530-a810-3f1b-b8df-ef7c73985468</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 21:18:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247325/pap121.mp3" length="39298806" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the top complaints from parents is procrastination. Kids procrastinate on a variety of things, but the most common are schoolwork and chores. The key to resolving procrastination (or letting it go) is to understand the reasons behind it. Does...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the top complaints from parents is procrastination. Kids procrastinate on a variety of things, but the most common are schoolwork and chores. The key to resolving procrastination (or letting it go) is to understand the reasons behind it. Does your child wait until the last minute for a reason? Does your teen refuse the tools you suggest for a reason? Yes, there’s always a reason. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Leslie Josel, an ADHD-academic and parenting coach, explains how to understand your child’s brain and procrastination, as well as what to do to honor how your child functions while also getting important things done.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2804</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>121</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 120: Helping Your Child Find Their Path, with Tom Bergeron</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-120-helping-your-child-find-their-path-with-tom-bergeron--59247299</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture tends to dictate a certain path to success in life. Yet, we are free to choose our path and there is no more liberating message for kids with ADHD, autism, or learning disabilities. In this episode, I’m discussing how to help kids, teens, and young adults find their path with co-founder of the Inventive Labs, Tom Bergeron. At Inventive Labs, they focus on interest, aptitude, and engagement to help their students create a path to success. Listen in and learn how to start empowering even young children to find their path. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/13c13a55-58a6-33c2-a500-05a122df2fc6</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247299/pap120findingyourpathtombergeronfinal.mp3" length="28925515" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture tends to dictate a certain path to success in life. Yet, we are free to choose our path and there is no more liberating message for kids with ADHD, autism, or learning disabilities. In this episode, I’m discussing how to help kids, teens,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture tends to dictate a certain path to success in life. Yet, we are free to choose our path and there is no more liberating message for kids with ADHD, autism, or learning disabilities. In this episode, I’m discussing how to help kids, teens, and young adults find their path with co-founder of the Inventive Labs, Tom Bergeron. At Inventive Labs, they focus on interest, aptitude, and engagement to help their students create a path to success. Listen in and learn how to start empowering even young children to find their path. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2063</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>120</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 119: How Gaming Can Be Positive For Kids, with Eric Siu, Author of "Leveling Up"</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-119-how-gaming-can-be-positive-for-kids-with-eric-siu-author-of-leveling-up--59247300</link><description><![CDATA[The amount of time our kids spend gaming or want to spend gaming gives a lot of parents heartburn. And yet, Eric Siu was an avid gamer growing up turned wildly successful entrepreneur. He and his parents battled over the amount of time he invested in gaming. But, Eric grew up and recognized that he learned many life skills through gaming. Now he goes through life “Leveling Up” and viewing it as a game of sorts, and he is a true success story, more successful than most of us dare to dream of. Listen in and learn how to help your gamer translate the skills they’re learning to everyday life success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/ea34cec4-96e1-3ae6-b3f5-e157e838b12a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247300/pap119gamingpostiveforkidsericsiufinal.mp3" length="24739978" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The amount of time our kids spend gaming or want to spend gaming gives a lot of parents heartburn. And yet, Eric Siu was an avid gamer growing up turned wildly successful entrepreneur. He and his parents battled over the amount of time he invested...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The amount of time our kids spend gaming or want to spend gaming gives a lot of parents heartburn. And yet, Eric Siu was an avid gamer growing up turned wildly successful entrepreneur. He and his parents battled over the amount of time he invested in gaming. But, Eric grew up and recognized that he learned many life skills through gaming. Now he goes through life “Leveling Up” and viewing it as a game of sorts, and he is a true success story, more successful than most of us dare to dream of. Listen in and learn how to help your gamer translate the skills they’re learning to everyday life success.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1764</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>119</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 118: College Admissions for Students with Learning Challenges, with Pamela Ellis, MBA, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-118-college-admissions-for-students-with-learning-challenges-with-pamela-ellis-mba-ph-d--59247415</link><description><![CDATA[The college admissions process can be complicated and overwhelming. There’s no much for you and your teen to consider and make decisions on in order to find a good fit, especially when learning challenges also have to be considered. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Dr. Pamela Ellis about the five areas of fit to consider and how to find schools that will support your student’s learning challenges.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7f3597da-e150-3b4a-a4e1-523a59b94f50</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247415/pap118collegeadmissionspamelaellisfinal.mp3" length="31707514" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The college admissions process can be complicated and overwhelming. There’s no much for you and your teen to consider and make decisions on in order to find a good fit, especially when learning challenges also have to be considered. In this episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The college admissions process can be complicated and overwhelming. There’s no much for you and your teen to consider and make decisions on in order to find a good fit, especially when learning challenges also have to be considered. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Dr. Pamela Ellis about the five areas of fit to consider and how to find schools that will support your student’s learning challenges.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2262</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>118</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Pap 117: Stop Sibling Fights, with Kirk Martin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-117-stop-sibling-fights-with-kirk-martin--59247312</link><description><![CDATA[Siblings fight. It’s true. It’s something most parents have come to expect, but still find it impossible to accept. And you really should only expect that it happens on occasion, not all the time. What I found so intriguing from my conversation with Kirk Martin of Celebrate Calm for this episode is that the fighting is more often about boredom and low confidence than anything else. It circles back to one of my favorite life tenants — when you feel good, you do good. Kirk shares how to help your kids feel good, so they’re good to each other. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/29ba4560-b0dc-3357-94e5-6530ee8304ff</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247312/pap117celebratingcalmkirkmartinfinal.mp3" length="36943799" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Siblings fight. It’s true. It’s something most parents have come to expect, but still find it impossible to accept. And you really should only expect that it happens on occasion, not all the time. What I found so intriguing from my conversation with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Siblings fight. It’s true. It’s something most parents have come to expect, but still find it impossible to accept. And you really should only expect that it happens on occasion, not all the time. What I found so intriguing from my conversation with Kirk Martin of Celebrate Calm for this episode is that the fighting is more often about boredom and low confidence than anything else. It circles back to one of my favorite life tenants — when you feel good, you do good. Kirk shares how to help your kids feel good, so they’re good to each other. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2636</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 116: Homeschooling Gifted, 2e, and Special Needs Kids, with Colleen Kessler</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-116-homeschooling-gifted-2e-and-special-needs-kids-with-colleen-kessler--59247331</link><description><![CDATA[Many families of kids with learning challenges — like ADHD and autism — consider homeschooling at one time or another. It can be an overwhelming process to transition from school that happens outside the home to school at home, not to mention adding the role of teaching your child to your role as parent. Yet, many find homeschooling freeing. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, homeschooling advocate and 2e expert, Colleen Kessler shares the process of transitioning to homeschooling, as well as the benefits to the kids and families alike.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/fa3b544c-66a9-3058-a574-5417b20f5d66</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2021 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247331/pap116homeschoolingandschoolingathomecolleenkesslerfinal.mp3" length="35381194" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many families of kids with learning challenges — like ADHD and autism — consider homeschooling at one time or another. It can be an overwhelming process to transition from school that happens outside the home to school at home, not to mention adding...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many families of kids with learning challenges — like ADHD and autism — consider homeschooling at one time or another. It can be an overwhelming process to transition from school that happens outside the home to school at home, not to mention adding the role of teaching your child to your role as parent. Yet, many find homeschooling freeing. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, homeschooling advocate and 2e expert, Colleen Kessler shares the process of transitioning to homeschooling, as well as the benefits to the kids and families alike.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2524</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 115: Finding Joy in a Family with Extra Challenges, with Liza Blas</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-115-finding-joy-in-a-family-with-extra-challenges-with-liza-blas--59247284</link><description><![CDATA[It’s no secret that families dealing with ADHD and/or autism have an extra dose of challenges. And all those challenges can create chaos and really weigh you down. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Liza Blas shares how to shift your focus to the positive to discover and celebrate the everyday wins, including creating a family constitution highlighting what’s really important in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/2f5b8b31-d52a-3e4c-b827-c31b1a82fdb4</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2021 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247284/pap115findingjoyfamiliesextrachallengeslisablasfinal.mp3" length="32188159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s no secret that families dealing with ADHD and/or autism have an extra dose of challenges. And all those challenges can create chaos and really weigh you down. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Liza Blas shares how to shift your focus...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s no secret that families dealing with ADHD and/or autism have an extra dose of challenges. And all those challenges can create chaos and really weigh you down. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Liza Blas shares how to shift your focus to the positive to discover and celebrate the everyday wins, including creating a family constitution highlighting what’s really important in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2296</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>115</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 114: The Emotional Brain, Regulation, and Behavior with Lauren Spigelmyer, M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-114-the-emotional-brain-regulation-and-behavior-with-lauren-spigelmyer-m-ed--59247330</link><description><![CDATA[Emotions play a much bigger role in our lives and behavior than we often realize. Emotional intelligence, communication, and regulation are often delayed in kids with ADHD (and/or autism), which can cause dysregulation, anger, frustration, and unwanted behavior. Join Lauren Spigelmyer, M.Ed. and I as we discuss how the emotional brain works, how to determine what’s causing emotional outbursts and other unwanted behavior, and how to help your child develop these skills and strategies to calm.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/9414e2a9-ed7c-350e-ba60-330b83365def</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2021 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247330/pap114emotionalbrainbehaviorlaurenspigelmyerfinal.mp3" length="29465030" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Emotions play a much bigger role in our lives and behavior than we often realize. Emotional intelligence, communication, and regulation are often delayed in kids with ADHD (and/or autism), which can cause dysregulation, anger, frustration, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Emotions play a much bigger role in our lives and behavior than we often realize. Emotional intelligence, communication, and regulation are often delayed in kids with ADHD (and/or autism), which can cause dysregulation, anger, frustration, and unwanted behavior. Join Lauren Spigelmyer, M.Ed. and I as we discuss how the emotional brain works, how to determine what’s causing emotional outbursts and other unwanted behavior, and how to help your child develop these skills and strategies to calm.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2101</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>114</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 113: How to Press the Reset Button When Your Child Gives Up on School, with Rebecca Branstetter, Ph.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-113-how-to-press-the-reset-button-when-your-child-gives-up-on-school-with-rebecca-branstetter-ph-d--59247369</link><description><![CDATA[Stress is contagious, and so is calm. The world is full of stress right now, including events that are piling more stress onto kids with ADHD who already stress more than they should have to about school. When parents are stressed about school as well, it's contagious to the entire family. But, parents have the power to reduce the stress and bring the calm. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast, Rebecca Branstetter, Ph.D. offers a 10-step plan to help your child press the reset button when they've just had enough and give up on school. Hint: only one of the 10 action items has anything to do with school. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e1541820-a2d5-3b71-8939-1448372bd38f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2021 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247369/pap113resetbuttonrebeccabranstetterfinal.mp3" length="37443815" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Stress is contagious, and so is calm. The world is full of stress right now, including events that are piling more stress onto kids with ADHD who already stress more than they should have to about school. When parents are stressed about school as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stress is contagious, and so is calm. The world is full of stress right now, including events that are piling more stress onto kids with ADHD who already stress more than they should have to about school. When parents are stressed about school as well, it's contagious to the entire family. But, parents have the power to reduce the stress and bring the calm. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD podcast, Rebecca Branstetter, Ph.D. offers a 10-step plan to help your child press the reset button when they've just had enough and give up on school. Hint: only one of the 10 action items has anything to do with school. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2671</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>113</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 112: Creating Harmony in the Home, with Dr. Lynyetta Willis</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-112-creating-harmony-in-the-home-with-dr-lynyetta-willis--59247340</link><description><![CDATA[Harmony in the home can be really tough to attain when you have a child with ADHD or other neuro-atypical diagnoses. Emotions are high and day-to-day life can be harder. But, peace and harmony are absolutely attainable. Join me and Dr. Lynyetta Willis to learn how to recognize stable misery and how to get unstuck and foster positive, meaningful relationships throughout your family. We talk about co-regulation, intention, recognizing our own triggers, and Dr. Willis’ PATHS framework to guide helpful interactions with our kids and our loved ones.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bacc2132-45c1-343d-9afd-7c0ec65cb770</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2020 14:05:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247340/pap112creatingharmonyhomedrlynyettawillisfinal.mp3" length="38612264" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Harmony in the home can be really tough to attain when you have a child with ADHD or other neuro-atypical diagnoses. Emotions are high and day-to-day life can be harder. But, peace and harmony are absolutely attainable. Join me and Dr. Lynyetta Willis...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Harmony in the home can be really tough to attain when you have a child with ADHD or other neuro-atypical diagnoses. Emotions are high and day-to-day life can be harder. But, peace and harmony are absolutely attainable. Join me and Dr. Lynyetta Willis to learn how to recognize stable misery and how to get unstuck and foster positive, meaningful relationships throughout your family. We talk about co-regulation, intention, recognizing our own triggers, and Dr. Willis’ PATHS framework to guide helpful interactions with our kids and our loved ones.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2755</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 111: How to Make Social and Emotional Learning Stick, with Elizabeth Sautter, MA, CCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-111-how-to-make-social-and-emotional-learning-stick-with-elizabeth-sautter-ma-ccc--59247304</link><description><![CDATA[Children with ADHD and/or autism have developmental delays in many areas, which often include social skills and emotional intelligence and regulation. These lagging skills can lead to challenges with social interactions and relationships, listening, communication, appropriate communication of  feelings, transitions, flexibility, willingness to try new things, behavior, and so much more. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Speech and Language Pathologist, Elizabeth Sautter, CCC, and I discuss the importance of social and emotional learning for our kids, activities to help your child grow in these areas, and how to weave this type of learning into the fabric of your everyday lives. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/375b2f67-282a-3394-a63b-3217d529e76e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247304/pap111socialemotionallearningelizabethsautterfinal.mp3" length="31268399" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Children with ADHD and/or autism have developmental delays in many areas, which often include social skills and emotional intelligence and regulation. These lagging skills can lead to challenges with social interactions and relationships, listening,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Children with ADHD and/or autism have developmental delays in many areas, which often include social skills and emotional intelligence and regulation. These lagging skills can lead to challenges with social interactions and relationships, listening, communication, appropriate communication of  feelings, transitions, flexibility, willingness to try new things, behavior, and so much more. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Speech and Language Pathologist, Elizabeth Sautter, CCC, and I discuss the importance of social and emotional learning for our kids, activities to help your child grow in these areas, and how to weave this type of learning into the fabric of your everyday lives. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2230</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>111</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 110: How to Help Your Child Focus During Virtual Learning, with Richard Brancaccio</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-110-how-to-help-your-child-focus-during-virtual-learning-with-richard-brancaccio--59247388</link><description><![CDATA[This current era in American education is a challenging time for families. Virtual learning is a challenge for many kids, especially for those students with learning challenges and/or ADHD. The home environment is more distracting, often filled with things kids would rather be doing instead of school, not to mention the boredom factor that comes with learning on the computer, at home, alone. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, school psychologist and inventor of the reVibe, Richard Brancaccio, offers many tools and strategies to help kids with ADHD participate in remote learning successfully.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/617a4397-41a7-32a3-89e2-262d4541db0f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2020 15:30:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247388/pap110focusingvirtuallearningrichbrancacciofinal.mp3" length="40411216" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This current era in American education is a challenging time for families. Virtual learning is a challenge for many kids, especially for those students with learning challenges and/or ADHD. The home environment is more distracting, often filled with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This current era in American education is a challenging time for families. Virtual learning is a challenge for many kids, especially for those students with learning challenges and/or ADHD. The home environment is more distracting, often filled with things kids would rather be doing instead of school, not to mention the boredom factor that comes with learning on the computer, at home, alone. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, school psychologist and inventor of the reVibe, Richard Brancaccio, offers many tools and strategies to help kids with ADHD participate in remote learning successfully.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2883</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>110</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 109: How to Be Calm Amid the Chaos, with Josephine Atluri</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-109-how-to-be-calm-amid-the-chaos-with-josephine-atluri--59247384</link><description><![CDATA[Life is full of chaos and uncertainty, especially when you have a child with ADHD, and especially when you’re also living through a pandemic. Join me and Meditation Coach, Josephine Atluri, to learn the techniques to shift your mindset, calm your mind and body, manage your stress, and move through life and parenting with purpose. The techniques and practices Josephine teaches us during this episode will help you create the life you want for yourself, and for your entire family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a8c61f4d-ff76-3881-b4d6-7e51c96bc63c</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2020 02:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247384/pap109calmamidchaosjosephinealturifinal.mp3" length="31802310" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Life is full of chaos and uncertainty, especially when you have a child with ADHD, and especially when you’re also living through a pandemic. Join me and Meditation Coach, Josephine Atluri, to learn the techniques to shift your mindset, calm your mind...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is full of chaos and uncertainty, especially when you have a child with ADHD, and especially when you’re also living through a pandemic. Join me and Meditation Coach, Josephine Atluri, to learn the techniques to shift your mindset, calm your mind and body, manage your stress, and move through life and parenting with purpose. The techniques and practices Josephine teaches us during this episode will help you create the life you want for yourself, and for your entire family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2268</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 108: Less Is More: Helping Your Child Navigate Life with ADHD, with Seth Perler, M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-108-less-is-more-helping-your-child-navigate-life-with-adhd-with-seth-perler-m-ed--59247360</link><description><![CDATA[We live in a culture and a time of more — the more you do, the more you have; the more you have, the more successful you are. And yet, that pressure and constant fear of failure is damaging, especially to our neuro-atypical children with ADHD and/or autism. One thing that can help tremendously in all aspects of school and home life is following the adage that less is more, as Executive Function &amp; 2e Coach, Seth Perler, discusses in this episode. When kids with ADHD have less visual and mental clutter, there’s less to be distracted by. When they have less overwhelm and stress and pressure, they’re able to focus and function. When they have opportunities for successes — no matter how simple or how small — they succeed more. Learn how to help your child (and yourself) dial it back so you can feel good and live your best lives.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/251d1582-f98b-369b-90cd-c2e251e06bd7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2020 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247360/pap108lessismoresethperlerfinal.mp3" length="45893676" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We live in a culture and a time of more — the more you do, the more you have; the more you have, the more successful you are. And yet, that pressure and constant fear of failure is damaging, especially to our neuro-atypical children with ADHD and/or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We live in a culture and a time of more — the more you do, the more you have; the more you have, the more successful you are. And yet, that pressure and constant fear of failure is damaging, especially to our neuro-atypical children with ADHD and/or autism. One thing that can help tremendously in all aspects of school and home life is following the adage that less is more, as Executive Function &amp; 2e Coach, Seth Perler, discusses in this episode. When kids with ADHD have less visual and mental clutter, there’s less to be distracted by. When they have less overwhelm and stress and pressure, they’re able to focus and function. When they have opportunities for successes — no matter how simple or how small — they succeed more. Learn how to help your child (and yourself) dial it back so you can feel good and live your best lives.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3275</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 107: The Superpower of Choice, with Deborah Ann Davis, M.Ed., W.I.T.S.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-107-the-superpower-of-choice-with-deborah-ann-davis-m-ed-w-i-t-s--59247368</link><description><![CDATA[In everything we do or say, we have a choice. Even when your child is intensely emotional or explosive — you have a choice in how you respond. You can react in kind and prolong the battle, or you can respond calmly and purposefully to help your child and protect your relationship with them. I’m talking with Deborah Ann Davis, author of “How to Keep Your Daughter from Slamming the Door,” about the superpower of choice all parents possess. Learn how the choices you make in interactions with your children affect their behavior and your relationship.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/83a39ad6-9143-3a42-9fa1-5c74958ab745</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 23:04:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247368/pap107superpowerchoicedeborahanndavisfinal.mp3" length="33613661" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In everything we do or say, we have a choice. Even when your child is intensely emotional or explosive — you have a choice in how you respond. You can react in kind and prolong the battle, or you can respond calmly and purposefully to help your child...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In everything we do or say, we have a choice. Even when your child is intensely emotional or explosive — you have a choice in how you respond. You can react in kind and prolong the battle, or you can respond calmly and purposefully to help your child and protect your relationship with them. I’m talking with Deborah Ann Davis, author of “How to Keep Your Daughter from Slamming the Door,” about the superpower of choice all parents possess. Learn how the choices you make in interactions with your children affect their behavior and your relationship.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2398</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 106: What We've Learned from 35 Expert Interviews — Parenting Summits</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-106-what-we-ve-learned-from-35-expert-interviews-parenting-summits--59247298</link><description><![CDATA[Each year, my friend and colleague, Sarah Wayland, PhD and I gather experts in ADHD, autism, and parenting to share their top insights and strategies on raising kids with ADHD and/or autism in our parenting summits. In this episode, we are sharing the best insights we learned from this year's 35 experts, as well as an overview of the Summits and how you can participate in them free. We're covering diagnosis, emotions, behavior, creating calm, school, life during a pandemic and so much more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/36c830dd-9bfa-33d7-ab42-4769644068ed</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247298/pap106parentingsummits2020final.mp3" length="42184071" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Each year, my friend and colleague, Sarah Wayland, PhD and I gather experts in ADHD, autism, and parenting to share their top insights and strategies on raising kids with ADHD and/or autism in our parenting summits. In this episode, we are sharing the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Each year, my friend and colleague, Sarah Wayland, PhD and I gather experts in ADHD, autism, and parenting to share their top insights and strategies on raising kids with ADHD and/or autism in our parenting summits. In this episode, we are sharing the best insights we learned from this year's 35 experts, as well as an overview of the Summits and how you can participate in them free. We're covering diagnosis, emotions, behavior, creating calm, school, life during a pandemic and so much more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3010</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 105: Under Pressure! Insights from a Teen with ADHD, with Penny Williams and Son, Luke</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-105-under-pressure-insights-from-a-teen-with-adhd-with-penny-williams-and-son-luke--59247308</link><description><![CDATA[This is an episode you should listen to with your neuro-atypical kids! I have been trying to get my son to do an episode of the podcast with me for a couple years, and he finally agreed. In this episode, you'll meet my son, Luke, a nearly 18-year-old with ADHD, ASD, LDs, and a gifted IQ. We jumped on the microphone and found out he has a lot to say about growing up with differences and learning challenges. I posed this question to him: What are some things parents and teachers did for you that really helped you over the years, and what are some things we did that weren't helpful at all, or even harmful. The common message woven throughout our conversation was pressure — how parents and teachers amp it up, and how it causes kids like him to be less able to meet expectations. He also shares what he really needs from the people in his life, and even has a message of hope and perseverance for your kids. So listen in an meet my funny, compassionate, insightful boy who has inspired this podcast and all the work that I do. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/77c53381-8b10-365b-bb73-523421c18f87</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247308/pap105underpressureteenlukefinal.mp3" length="34072983" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is an episode you should listen to with your neuro-atypical kids! I have been trying to get my son to do an episode of the podcast with me for a couple years, and he finally agreed. In this episode, you'll meet my son, Luke, a nearly 18-year-old...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is an episode you should listen to with your neuro-atypical kids! I have been trying to get my son to do an episode of the podcast with me for a couple years, and he finally agreed. In this episode, you'll meet my son, Luke, a nearly 18-year-old with ADHD, ASD, LDs, and a gifted IQ. We jumped on the microphone and found out he has a lot to say about growing up with differences and learning challenges. I posed this question to him: What are some things parents and teachers did for you that really helped you over the years, and what are some things we did that weren't helpful at all, or even harmful. The common message woven throughout our conversation was pressure — how parents and teachers amp it up, and how it causes kids like him to be less able to meet expectations. He also shares what he really needs from the people in his life, and even has a message of hope and perseverance for your kids. So listen in an meet my funny, compassionate, insightful boy who has inspired this podcast and all the work that I do. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2431</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 104: How to Build Confidence, Overcome Social Anxiety, and Handle Bullying with Jeffrey Kranzler, Ph.D., LCSW-C</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-104-how-to-build-confidence-overcome-social-anxiety-and-handle-bullying-with-jeffrey-kranzler-ph-d-lcsw-c--59247288</link><description><![CDATA[Many children and teens struggle with confidence, social anxiety, and bullying, but kids with ADHD often struggle even more with this challenges. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Jeffrey Kranzler talks about his new book, "The Crimson Protector," and the themes that are woven into the story to help kids build confidence, manage social anxiety, and deal with bullying. You'll learn that managing all of these situations boils down to building a sense of control, and how to help your child do just that.  <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/f2c224d3-b6c9-30aa-9430-8e10e499a70d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247288/pap104confidenceanxietybullyingdrjeffreykranzlerfinal.mp3" length="31619099" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many children and teens struggle with confidence, social anxiety, and bullying, but kids with ADHD often struggle even more with this challenges. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Jeffrey Kranzler talks about his new book, "The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many children and teens struggle with confidence, social anxiety, and bullying, but kids with ADHD often struggle even more with this challenges. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Dr. Jeffrey Kranzler talks about his new book, "The Crimson Protector," and the themes that are woven into the story to help kids build confidence, manage social anxiety, and deal with bullying. You'll learn that managing all of these situations boils down to building a sense of control, and how to help your child do just that.  <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2255</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 103: Finding the Truth Within the Lies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-103-finding-the-truth-within-the-lies--59247335</link><description><![CDATA[Society has always thought of lying as a character flaw. While willful lying to deceive is not acceptable and could be an indicator that someone lacks integrity, it's not that simple when talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism. There are many reasons that individuals lie. To avoid negative consequences and to impress others are the top two. When the child is neuro-atypical though, lying just isn’t always that simple. In this episode, I outline the five main reasons your child may be lying to you, and how to reframe this behavior so that you can successfully address it and improve it. Hint: Punishment won't make it stop.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/497d54a9-5a55-3abe-8fac-d2954a2da8b5</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247335/pap103findingthetruthwithinliespennyfinal.mp3" length="28315132" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Society has always thought of lying as a character flaw. While willful lying to deceive is not acceptable and could be an indicator that someone lacks integrity, it's not that simple when talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism. There are many...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Society has always thought of lying as a character flaw. While willful lying to deceive is not acceptable and could be an indicator that someone lacks integrity, it's not that simple when talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism. There are many reasons that individuals lie. To avoid negative consequences and to impress others are the top two. When the child is neuro-atypical though, lying just isn’t always that simple. In this episode, I outline the five main reasons your child may be lying to you, and how to reframe this behavior so that you can successfully address it and improve it. Hint: Punishment won't make it stop.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2019</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 102: Caring for Your Child's Health During Uncertain Times</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-102-caring-for-your-child-s-health-during-uncertain-times--59247379</link><description><![CDATA[We're in the midst of the Coronavirus pandemic and filled with uncertainty and a lot of intense feelings. That's true for most of us as adults, and it's doubly true for our kids. There's a lot of helplessness during uncertain times like these and that lack of feeling in control of life can be extra tough for kids to navigate. In this episode, I'm talking with Dr. Shelli Dry about how we can help our kids navigate their big emotions and care for their mental health in the midst of uncertainty. Dr. Dry offers several parenting strategies and resources we can provide to our kids to help them move forward, despite the uncertainty. When we give kids resources — things they know that they can fall back on — when the world is saying, "We don't know what's next," your child can say "I don't either, but I know that I have these things I can do to help me feel better about myself and what's going on in the world."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0cf433da-89e6-3652-96ea-829f0edbfc22</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247379/pap102caringchildsmentalhealthuncertaintimesshellydryfinal.mp3" length="27260588" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We're in the midst of the Coronavirus pandemic and filled with uncertainty and a lot of intense feelings. That's true for most of us as adults, and it's doubly true for our kids. There's a lot of helplessness during uncertain times like these and that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're in the midst of the Coronavirus pandemic and filled with uncertainty and a lot of intense feelings. That's true for most of us as adults, and it's doubly true for our kids. There's a lot of helplessness during uncertain times like these and that lack of feeling in control of life can be extra tough for kids to navigate. In this episode, I'm talking with Dr. Shelli Dry about how we can help our kids navigate their big emotions and care for their mental health in the midst of uncertainty. Dr. Dry offers several parenting strategies and resources we can provide to our kids to help them move forward, despite the uncertainty. When we give kids resources — things they know that they can fall back on — when the world is saying, "We don't know what's next," your child can say "I don't either, but I know that I have these things I can do to help me feel better about myself and what's going on in the world."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1944</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>102</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 101: Sensory Challenges: What You Need to Know &amp; How to Help, with Nikki Perez, OTR/L</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-101-sensory-challenges-what-you-need-to-know-how-to-help-with-nikki-perez-otr-l--59247347</link><description><![CDATA[Our sensory systems are how the brain processes all the information that’s around us. When one or more of the sensory systems is off kilter, it creates challenges in moving through the world from day to day. And these sensory challenges can often trigger anxiety and/or negative behavior. In this episode, I’m talking with occupational therapist, Nikki Perez, about all things sensory — from the different sensory systems, what behaviors may be caused by sensory avoidance or sensory seeking, and what you can do at home to help ease your child’s sensory needs. There are many activities and tools and resources mentioned in this episode. Don’t miss it.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e440a373-4c71-3e13-a8be-d42adcf33ff0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2020 21:06:27 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247347/pap101sensoryandadhdnikkiperezfinal.mp3" length="36105972" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our sensory systems are how the brain processes all the information that’s around us. When one or more of the sensory systems is off kilter, it creates challenges in moving through the world from day to day. And these sensory challenges can often...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our sensory systems are how the brain processes all the information that’s around us. When one or more of the sensory systems is off kilter, it creates challenges in moving through the world from day to day. And these sensory challenges can often trigger anxiety and/or negative behavior. In this episode, I’m talking with occupational therapist, Nikki Perez, about all things sensory — from the different sensory systems, what behaviors may be caused by sensory avoidance or sensory seeking, and what you can do at home to help ease your child’s sensory needs. There are many activities and tools and resources mentioned in this episode. Don’t miss it.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2576</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>101</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 100: Let's Talk Behavior!  A Q&amp;A with Penny Williams &amp; Sarah Wayland, PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-100-let-s-talk-behavior-a-q-a-with-penny-williams-sarah-wayland-phd--59247336</link><description><![CDATA[When we talk with parents about the struggles they experience raising kids with ADHD and/or autism, all of the various challenges boil down to one thing — behavior. In this special 100th episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, my colleague, Sarah Wayland and I hosted a Q&amp;A session with parents all about behavior. We discuss what causes challenging or intense behavior, aggression, kids who only have inappropriate behavior at home, strategies and tools for calming, and so much more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/75c9b626-e8dd-35f9-9bd8-14e71c9097b3</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247336/pap100parentq_abehaviorfinalaw4hg.mp3" length="60634437" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When we talk with parents about the struggles they experience raising kids with ADHD and/or autism, all of the various challenges boil down to one thing — behavior. In this special 100th episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, my colleague, Sarah...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we talk with parents about the struggles they experience raising kids with ADHD and/or autism, all of the various challenges boil down to one thing — behavior. In this special 100th episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, my colleague, Sarah Wayland and I hosted a Q&amp;A session with parents all about behavior. We discuss what causes challenging or intense behavior, aggression, kids who only have inappropriate behavior at home, strategies and tools for calming, and so much more. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4328</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>100</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 099: ADHD &amp; Fatherhood: This One’s For the Dads, with Larry Hagner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-099-adhd-fatherhood-this-one-s-for-the-dads-with-larry-hagner--59247344</link><description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about motherhood on this podcast, because that’s the world I know. On this episode, we get a father’s perspective. Larry Hagner, founder of the Good Dad Project, joins me to discuss growing up with ADHD, raising a child with ADHD, and being an intentional man and dad to better connect with your kids and support their journey to success. Connection is the key — "without connection you have no influence."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c53f3c41-13b0-3f3c-8929-162fca4844b8</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2020 13:21:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247344/pap099fatherhoodadhdlarryhagnarfinal.mp3" length="42076036" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I talk a lot about motherhood on this podcast, because that’s the world I know. On this episode, we get a father’s perspective. Larry Hagner, founder of the Good Dad Project, joins me to discuss growing up with ADHD, raising a child with ADHD, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I talk a lot about motherhood on this podcast, because that’s the world I know. On this episode, we get a father’s perspective. Larry Hagner, founder of the Good Dad Project, joins me to discuss growing up with ADHD, raising a child with ADHD, and being an intentional man and dad to better connect with your kids and support their journey to success. Connection is the key — "without connection you have no influence."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3002</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 098: Ditching Toxic Stress &amp; Hardwiring Your Brain for Happiness, with Jodi Aman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-098-ditching-toxic-stress-hardwiring-your-brain-for-happiness-with-jodi-aman--59247353</link><description><![CDATA[Anxiety affects more and more kids and adults every day. It’s taking over lives and eroding the confidence of our kids (and ourselves). But, as therapist Jodi Aman outlines in her new book and explains in this episode, anxiety can be dramatically improved and brains can be hardwired for happiness. Join us in this episode to learn about the inner critic, how the “monkey mind” feeds and grows anxiety, and what parents can do to help teens and themselves reduce anxiety and be more confident. Happiness is attainable for everyone when the work is done to shift your mindset.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/e8098ded-5797-3750-a83d-d9bad8437b9c</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2020 12:23:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247353/pap098ditchingtoxicstressjodiamanfinal.mp3" length="32575836" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Anxiety affects more and more kids and adults every day. It’s taking over lives and eroding the confidence of our kids (and ourselves). But, as therapist Jodi Aman outlines in her new book and explains in this episode, anxiety can be dramatically...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Anxiety affects more and more kids and adults every day. It’s taking over lives and eroding the confidence of our kids (and ourselves). But, as therapist Jodi Aman outlines in her new book and explains in this episode, anxiety can be dramatically improved and brains can be hardwired for happiness. Join us in this episode to learn about the inner critic, how the “monkey mind” feeds and grows anxiety, and what parents can do to help teens and themselves reduce anxiety and be more confident. Happiness is attainable for everyone when the work is done to shift your mindset.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2324</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>98</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 097: Conscious Parenting and the Impact of Stress on Behavior, with Dr. Nima Rahmany, DC, CCWP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-097-conscious-parenting-and-the-impact-of-stress-on-behavior-with-dr-nima-rahmany-dc-ccwp--59247345</link><description><![CDATA[We all want four things in our lives that contribute to our happiness: less stress, connection to others, purpose, and meaningful relationships. Many things get in the way of achieving these things for our kids with ADHD and/or autism (and ourselves), including a frequently triggered nervous system and dysregulation, the way our own past traumas have shaped the way we parent, our expectations of our kids, and wanting to protect our kids from the negative events in our own childhood.   On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Nima Rahmany, a chiropractor and educator specializing in helping individuals and professionals get to the ROOT CAUSE of their physical and emotional challenges, from stressed, depressed, and anxious to living Powerfully Aligned and on Purpose. We discuss connection, trauma, triggers, regulation, and the autonomic nervous system and the way these are all interconnected and are clues on how to integrate mind-body tools to go deep with our kids and truly help them build regulation and connection from the bottom up. This all culminates in recognizing behavior as adaptive instead of abnormal, which puts parents in the best position to truly improve behavior and help our kids achieve success and happiness.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/36a5f0e2-a9d4-3c81-91e0-0c45dd462761</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247345/pap097conscious_parentingstressbehaviornimarahmanyfinal62sfv.mp3" length="42947911" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We all want four things in our lives that contribute to our happiness: less stress, connection to others, purpose, and meaningful relationships. Many things get in the way of achieving these things for our kids with ADHD and/or autism (and ourselves),...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all want four things in our lives that contribute to our happiness: less stress, connection to others, purpose, and meaningful relationships. Many things get in the way of achieving these things for our kids with ADHD and/or autism (and ourselves), including a frequently triggered nervous system and dysregulation, the way our own past traumas have shaped the way we parent, our expectations of our kids, and wanting to protect our kids from the negative events in our own childhood.   On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Nima Rahmany, a chiropractor and educator specializing in helping individuals and professionals get to the ROOT CAUSE of their physical and emotional challenges, from stressed, depressed, and anxious to living Powerfully Aligned and on Purpose. We discuss connection, trauma, triggers, regulation, and the autonomic nervous system and the way these are all interconnected and are clues on how to integrate mind-body tools to go deep with our kids and truly help them build regulation and connection from the bottom up. This all culminates in recognizing behavior as adaptive instead of abnormal, which puts parents in the best position to truly improve behavior and help our kids achieve success and happiness.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3064</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>97</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 096: What the Nervous System Tells Us About Understanding &amp; Improving Behavior</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-096-what-the-nervous-system-tells-us-about-understanding-improving-behavior--59247350</link><description><![CDATA[If your child has ADHD (or is on the autism spectrum), behavior is likely top of mind for you. They act in ways we don’t understand, find inappropriate, or don’t approve of when we view behavior through the traditional behavior lens. Brain-based science now helps us understand behavior and how our autonomic nervous system — our physiology — drives how we feel and how we respond to how we feel.   In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, psychologist and behavior expert, Mona Delahooke, PhD, explains Dr. Stephen Porges’s Polyvagal Theory and how to harness an understanding of the autonomic nervous system to appropriately and positively address behavior challenges. While everything we discuss is backed by brain science, we’ve broken it down into simple terms. This conversation is one that all of us can understand and includes proven strategies to implement with your child right now.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/f92b6f06-51cc-5cd6-8daf-e00715cc9b16</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2020 23:17:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247350/pap096polyvagaltheorymonadellahookfinal.mp3" length="34038785" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If your child has ADHD (or is on the autism spectrum), behavior is likely top of mind for you. They act in ways we don’t understand, find inappropriate, or don’t approve of when we view behavior through the traditional behavior lens. Brain-based...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If your child has ADHD (or is on the autism spectrum), behavior is likely top of mind for you. They act in ways we don’t understand, find inappropriate, or don’t approve of when we view behavior through the traditional behavior lens. Brain-based science now helps us understand behavior and how our autonomic nervous system — our physiology — drives how we feel and how we respond to how we feel.   In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, psychologist and behavior expert, Mona Delahooke, PhD, explains Dr. Stephen Porges’s Polyvagal Theory and how to harness an understanding of the autonomic nervous system to appropriately and positively address behavior challenges. While everything we discuss is backed by brain science, we’ve broken it down into simple terms. This conversation is one that all of us can understand and includes proven strategies to implement with your child right now.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2428</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 095 Improving Self-Confidence in Teens, with Melanie McNally, PsyD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-095-improving-self-confidence-in-teens-with-melanie-mcnally-psyd--59247334</link><description><![CDATA[The teen years have always been tough. There’s a ton of change coming at teens from all directions, as well as an ever-increasing expectation of independence, accountability, and responsibility. But it’s a much bigger challenge to be a teen today, with the added social complexity of instantaneous distribution and social media. It’s no wonder the tween and teen years often have an inherent lack of self-confidence. I’m talking to psychologist, Dr. Melanie McNally about supporting self-confidence in our teens and young adults on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Dr. McNally offers loads of insights about healthy self-confidence and outlines several strategies for parents to help their kids manage anxiety and improve self-confidence. And this conversation is perfect for parents of younger kids too — start young because they’ll all be teens one day.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/26e56c68-5aee-5f8c-8a0a-8b68d5d6e53b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247334/pap095buildingselfconfidenceteensmelaniemcnallyfinal.mp3" length="44777495" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The teen years have always been tough. There’s a ton of change coming at teens from all directions, as well as an ever-increasing expectation of independence, accountability, and responsibility. But it’s a much bigger challenge to be a teen today,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The teen years have always been tough. There’s a ton of change coming at teens from all directions, as well as an ever-increasing expectation of independence, accountability, and responsibility. But it’s a much bigger challenge to be a teen today, with the added social complexity of instantaneous distribution and social media. It’s no wonder the tween and teen years often have an inherent lack of self-confidence. I’m talking to psychologist, Dr. Melanie McNally about supporting self-confidence in our teens and young adults on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Dr. McNally offers loads of insights about healthy self-confidence and outlines several strategies for parents to help their kids manage anxiety and improve self-confidence. And this conversation is perfect for parents of younger kids too — start young because they’ll all be teens one day.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3195</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>95</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 094 Calming Techniques for Kids (and Parents)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-094-calming-techniques-for-kids-and-parents--59247320</link><description><![CDATA[If there's one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it's calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and feeling unsafe, and then list more than 20 tools and techniques to use for calming yourself or your child, by stimulating the vagus nerve to calm the nervous system. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cb88f65b-ba5a-5732-a313-94cecb9d89b1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2020 00:13:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247320/pap094calmingtechniquesfinal.mp3" length="17585747" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If there's one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it's calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If there's one tool we all need for life in this world — kids and parents — it's calming techniques. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast I explain the role of the vagus nerve and our autonomic nervous system in getting us activated and feeling unsafe, and then list more than 20 tools and techniques to use for calming yourself or your child, by stimulating the vagus nerve to calm the nervous system. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1253</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>94</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 093: Seeing Your Child Through a Brain-Based Lens, Not a Behavior Lens, Eileen Devine, LCSW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-093-seeing-your-child-through-a-brain-based-lens-not-a-behavior-lens-eileen-devine-lcsw--59247290</link><description><![CDATA[Is it will or skill? Behavior challenges often look on the surface like willful acting out, but rarely ever are. Behavior is simply a symptom of the “real problem” — the lagging skill, differences in neurology, dysregulation, or misunderstanding of others. Rather than judge and react to your child’s behavior and parent through a behavior lens, it’s paramount to take into account your child’s differences — physiological brain-based differences — and let that guide your parenting. This is what licensed clinical social worker, Eileen Devine, calls a brain-based lens. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Eileen and I discuss challenging parenting paradigms and shifting your mindset to parent through a brain-based lens. This is the ultimate in parenting the child you have, and raising happy successful kids. Listen in now!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/268a11ca-1e8c-583e-a26e-50dfeddf481b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2020 00:04:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247290/pap093brainbasedlenseileendevinefinal.mp3" length="40946630" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is it will or skill? Behavior challenges often look on the surface like willful acting out, but rarely ever are. Behavior is simply a symptom of the “real problem” — the lagging skill, differences in neurology, dysregulation, or misunderstanding of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is it will or skill? Behavior challenges often look on the surface like willful acting out, but rarely ever are. Behavior is simply a symptom of the “real problem” — the lagging skill, differences in neurology, dysregulation, or misunderstanding of others. Rather than judge and react to your child’s behavior and parent through a behavior lens, it’s paramount to take into account your child’s differences — physiological brain-based differences — and let that guide your parenting. This is what licensed clinical social worker, Eileen Devine, calls a brain-based lens. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Eileen and I discuss challenging parenting paradigms and shifting your mindset to parent through a brain-based lens. This is the ultimate in parenting the child you have, and raising happy successful kids. Listen in now!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2922</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>93</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 092: The Adventure of Learning to Parent Your Child with ADHD, with Beth Grushkin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-092-the-adventure-of-learning-to-parent-your-child-with-adhd-with-beth-grushkin--59247294</link><description><![CDATA[If there’s one thing parenting kids with ADHD is, it’s unpredictable and inconsistent. We can be stressed by those characteristics and fight hard against them, or we can accept them and use them to our advantage. Seeing the ups and downs of this special brand of parenthood as an adventure and a perpetual learning and growth opportunity is how mom and blogger, Beth Grushkin, aka FuzzyMama, meets the challenge of raising two boys with ADHD with courage and passion. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Beth and I discuss how a creative and adventurous perspective have helped her to keep going— to keep rising after challenges knock her off her feet. She also shares what she has found to be most important for her kids and family, including sleep, nutrition, screen time, out-of-the-box parenting, and modeling what we want to see in our kids. The struggle is real, and Beth acknowledges that while providing strategies and hope to help you keep going.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c1b1a8f7-f426-5680-b288-039bd9f1bc67</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2020 01:26:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247294/pap092raisingadventurouskidsbethgrushkinfinal.mp3" length="33345942" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If there’s one thing parenting kids with ADHD is, it’s unpredictable and inconsistent. We can be stressed by those characteristics and fight hard against them, or we can accept them and use them to our advantage. Seeing the ups and downs of this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If there’s one thing parenting kids with ADHD is, it’s unpredictable and inconsistent. We can be stressed by those characteristics and fight hard against them, or we can accept them and use them to our advantage. Seeing the ups and downs of this special brand of parenthood as an adventure and a perpetual learning and growth opportunity is how mom and blogger, Beth Grushkin, aka FuzzyMama, meets the challenge of raising two boys with ADHD with courage and passion. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Beth and I discuss how a creative and adventurous perspective have helped her to keep going— to keep rising after challenges knock her off her feet. She also shares what she has found to be most important for her kids and family, including sleep, nutrition, screen time, out-of-the-box parenting, and modeling what we want to see in our kids. The struggle is real, and Beth acknowledges that while providing strategies and hope to help you keep going.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2379</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>92</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 091: How to Help Kids with ADHD Sleep</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-091-how-to-help-kids-with-adhd-sleep--59247375</link><description><![CDATA[A larger percentage of the ADHD population — kids and adults alike — struggle with sleep. Your child might have a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep during the night, or both. When kids aren't sleeping, parents likely aren't getting adequate sleep either and that takes a toll on the entire family. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with sleep consultant, Melissa Doman, about all things sleep. We discuss why sleep challenges arise, strategies to help your kids fall asleep and stay asleep, and even how to get kids sleeping in their own beds. If your child (or you) struggle with sleep, this is an episode not to be missed. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/7049146c-7b23-5dcd-9238-60b1bfe2ded1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2020 00:19:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247375/pap091helpkidssleepmelissadolmanfinal.mp3" length="32688790" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A larger percentage of the ADHD population — kids and adults alike — struggle with sleep. Your child might have a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep during the night, or both. When kids aren't sleeping, parents likely aren't getting adequate...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A larger percentage of the ADHD population — kids and adults alike — struggle with sleep. Your child might have a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep during the night, or both. When kids aren't sleeping, parents likely aren't getting adequate sleep either and that takes a toll on the entire family. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with sleep consultant, Melissa Doman, about all things sleep. We discuss why sleep challenges arise, strategies to help your kids fall asleep and stay asleep, and even how to get kids sleeping in their own beds. If your child (or you) struggle with sleep, this is an episode not to be missed. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2332</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>91</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 090: How to Stop Blowing Up at Your Kids, with Marcy Caldwell, PsyD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-090-how-to-stop-blowing-up-at-your-kids-with-marcy-caldwell-psyd--59247354</link><description><![CDATA[We are all guilty of it. Blowing up at our kid at one time or another is inevitable, because we parents are human and we make mistakes. Of course, we don't want to blow up at our kids, and it certainly doesn't have to be part of our everyday family lives, and it shouldn't be. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking to psychologist and ADHD specialist, Dr. Marcy Caldwell about the reasons we blow up at our kids with ADHD, and strategies to blow up less and how to handle it when we do blow up. They keys are mindful awareness, co-regulation, empathy and validation, and connection between parent and child. Listen in now to get Dr. Caldwell's expert insights and strategies to improve your interactions with your kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/dece0444-2e49-5a51-8e1c-707ba5f26941</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2020 23:10:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247354/pap090howtostopblowingupmarcycaldwellfinal.mp3" length="35113487" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are all guilty of it. Blowing up at our kid at one time or another is inevitable, because we parents are human and we make mistakes. Of course, we don't want to blow up at our kids, and it certainly doesn't have to be part of our everyday family...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are all guilty of it. Blowing up at our kid at one time or another is inevitable, because we parents are human and we make mistakes. Of course, we don't want to blow up at our kids, and it certainly doesn't have to be part of our everyday family lives, and it shouldn't be. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking to psychologist and ADHD specialist, Dr. Marcy Caldwell about the reasons we blow up at our kids with ADHD, and strategies to blow up less and how to handle it when we do blow up. They keys are mindful awareness, co-regulation, empathy and validation, and connection between parent and child. Listen in now to get Dr. Caldwell's expert insights and strategies to improve your interactions with your kids. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2505</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>90</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 089: We Must Feel Good to do Good, Parent and Kids Alike, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-089-we-must-feel-good-to-do-good-parent-and-kids-alike-with-penny-williams--59247367</link><description><![CDATA[It's no surprise that I'm a big fan of Brené Brown and her podcast, Unlocking Us — she's a woman of great wisdom and inspiration. I had an epiphany of sorts when listening to a recent episode on loneliness when her guest said, "We must feel good to do good." Everything I know about parenting kids with ADHD / autism and self-care instantly collided with this statement and provided a jolt of inspiration. a big part of what I teach parents is summed up by this quote — we do have to feel good to do our best for others, and for ourselves. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I take a deep dive into why this quote is so important for parents like us, and discuss how to use this quote as one of your parenting and self-care guides. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/514282a0-2559-5da6-8cfc-39b3e6e53587</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2020 00:06:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247367/pap089feelgooddogoodfinal.mp3" length="23140271" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's no surprise that I'm a big fan of Brené Brown and her podcast, Unlocking Us — she's a woman of great wisdom and inspiration. I had an epiphany of sorts when listening to a recent episode on loneliness when her guest said, "We must feel good to do...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's no surprise that I'm a big fan of Brené Brown and her podcast, Unlocking Us — she's a woman of great wisdom and inspiration. I had an epiphany of sorts when listening to a recent episode on loneliness when her guest said, "We must feel good to do good." Everything I know about parenting kids with ADHD / autism and self-care instantly collided with this statement and provided a jolt of inspiration. a big part of what I teach parents is summed up by this quote — we do have to feel good to do our best for others, and for ourselves. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I take a deep dive into why this quote is so important for parents like us, and discuss how to use this quote as one of your parenting and self-care guides. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1650</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>89</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 088: Helping Disorganized Kids Work Smarter, Not Harder with Laurie Palau</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-088-helping-disorganized-kids-work-smarter-not-harder-with-laurie-palau--59247370</link><description><![CDATA[Challenges with planning and organization are common among kids with ADHD. It shows up with messy bedrooms, lost items, missing or never turned in homework, not putting things away, etc. The consequences of disorganization aren’t just frustrating for kids, they’re frustrating for their parents, too.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with organizing expert, Laurie Palau of Simply B Organized. Join us as we discuss how everyone learns and processes differently, how to communicate with your child so they are clear on expectations and processes and open to hearing your suggestions, implementing routines to improve organization, and Laurie’s top five tools and strategies for anyone to get and stay organized. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/977af663-be6e-564c-bf7f-7c27c273a1ab</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2020 18:59:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247370/pap088helpingkidsworksmarterlauriepalaufinal.mp3" length="48812731" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Challenges with planning and organization are common among kids with ADHD. It shows up with messy bedrooms, lost items, missing or never turned in homework, not putting things away, etc. The consequences of disorganization aren’t just frustrating for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Challenges with planning and organization are common among kids with ADHD. It shows up with messy bedrooms, lost items, missing or never turned in homework, not putting things away, etc. The consequences of disorganization aren’t just frustrating for kids, they’re frustrating for their parents, too.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with organizing expert, Laurie Palau of Simply B Organized. Join us as we discuss how everyone learns and processes differently, how to communicate with your child so they are clear on expectations and processes and open to hearing your suggestions, implementing routines to improve organization, and Laurie’s top five tools and strategies for anyone to get and stay organized. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3483</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>88</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 087: Identifying and Improving Lagging Executive Functioning Skills, with Rachel Kapp &amp; Stephanie Pitts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-087-identifying-and-improving-lagging-executive-functioning-skills-with-rachel-kapp-stephanie-pitts--59247326</link><description><![CDATA[One of the biggest struggles with ADHD is executive functioning deficits. These are skills in the areas of planning and organization, problem solving, task initiation, working memory, self-regulation, and self-awareness. Many kids with ADHD are often two to three years or more behind same-age peers in these areas. And, yet, these skills are crucial to success both at home and at school.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with educational therapists and hosts of the Learn Smarter Podcast, Rachel Kapp and Stephanie Pitts. Listen in to learn how to identify lagging executive functioning skills in your child, as well as how to improve and accommodate these deficits.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/c9b70cab-614f-5a4f-800a-71d6506238f7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2020 15:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247326/pap087executivefunctioninglearnsmarterladiesfinal.mp3" length="56711724" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the biggest struggles with ADHD is executive functioning deficits. These are skills in the areas of planning and organization, problem solving, task initiation, working memory, self-regulation, and self-awareness. Many kids with ADHD are often...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the biggest struggles with ADHD is executive functioning deficits. These are skills in the areas of planning and organization, problem solving, task initiation, working memory, self-regulation, and self-awareness. Many kids with ADHD are often two to three years or more behind same-age peers in these areas. And, yet, these skills are crucial to success both at home and at school.  In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I’m talking with educational therapists and hosts of the Learn Smarter Podcast, Rachel Kapp and Stephanie Pitts. Listen in to learn how to identify lagging executive functioning skills in your child, as well as how to improve and accommodate these deficits.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4048</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>87</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 086: 25 Ways to Connect with Your Kids and Family at Home</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-086-25-ways-to-connect-with-your-kids-and-family-at-home--59247317</link><description><![CDATA[  Connection is one of the most important and powerful human needs. It provides a sense of safety, security, belonging, and fulfillment. And yet, we often struggle with making true, genuine connections. And our kids with ADHD/autism struggle with it far more. As this episode airs, we are under lockdown due to the Corona virus pandemic. You'd think this would provide so much more connection being stuck at home, but it really doesn't. We have to act with intention to create genuine connection. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I've listed 25 ideas to connect with your kids and family at home, right now, and at any time in the future.         <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/30cac388-df3e-590c-9f66-f9088ecab35b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2020 21:26:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247317/pap086_25waystoconnectfinal.mp3" length="30003941" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>  Connection is one of the most important and powerful human needs. It provides a sense of safety, security, belonging, and fulfillment. And yet, we often struggle with making true, genuine connections. And our kids with ADHD/autism struggle with it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[  Connection is one of the most important and powerful human needs. It provides a sense of safety, security, belonging, and fulfillment. And yet, we often struggle with making true, genuine connections. And our kids with ADHD/autism struggle with it far more. As this episode airs, we are under lockdown due to the Corona virus pandemic. You'd think this would provide so much more connection being stuck at home, but it really doesn't. We have to act with intention to create genuine connection. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I've listed 25 ideas to connect with your kids and family at home, right now, and at any time in the future.         <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2140</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 085: How Connection is More Powerful than Correction with Rebecca Brown Wright</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-085-how-connection-is-more-powerful-than-correction-with-rebecca-brown-wright--59247324</link><description><![CDATA[Connection is a fundamental human need, and one that holds an immense amount of power for individuals, even kids. Especially kids. And, when we're talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism, connection is often a struggle — socially or with family members, like parents. Feeling connected to others provides a sense of safety and security. We feel more at ease and less anxious when we feel connected. This means better behavior and a better sense of self and self-worth. I'm joined by Rebecca Brown Wright, creator of the Back-and-Forth Journal, for this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Rebecca shares her journey to realizing that connection with her children is more powerful than discipline and correction, and how it improved her kids' behavior. We also discuss how you can build and nurture authentic connections with your kids, too. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/a2a248f4-5c16-5d06-9631-6a530623b6be</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2020 16:02:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247324/085rebeccabrownwrightfinal.mp3" length="44086067" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Connection is a fundamental human need, and one that holds an immense amount of power for individuals, even kids. Especially kids. And, when we're talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism, connection is often a struggle — socially or with family...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Connection is a fundamental human need, and one that holds an immense amount of power for individuals, even kids. Especially kids. And, when we're talking about kids with ADHD and/or autism, connection is often a struggle — socially or with family members, like parents. Feeling connected to others provides a sense of safety and security. We feel more at ease and less anxious when we feel connected. This means better behavior and a better sense of self and self-worth. I'm joined by Rebecca Brown Wright, creator of the Back-and-Forth Journal, for this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. Rebecca shares her journey to realizing that connection with her children is more powerful than discipline and correction, and how it improved her kids' behavior. We also discuss how you can build and nurture authentic connections with your kids, too. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3146</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 084: Unleashing Your Child’s Genius, with Jean Harville</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-084-unleashing-your-child-s-genius-with-jean-harville--59247310</link><description><![CDATA[Get curious and support your child in the struggles they have without judgement. With the knowledge we have about brain development and structure, we can better understand our kid's behaviors and the way they learn. We can also better understand their strengths and, in turn, lift their self -esteem. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with online reading strategist, Jean Harville, about the neuroscience behind a positive, strengths-based approach, as well as the tools, strategies, and mindset to help your child thrive. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/0319690a-b805-5fd4-ac62-3da86d30730e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247310/084unleashingchildsgeniusjeanharvillefinal.mp3" length="28319223" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Get curious and support your child in the struggles they have without judgement. With the knowledge we have about brain development and structure, we can better understand our kid's behaviors and the way they learn. We can also better understand their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get curious and support your child in the struggles they have without judgement. With the knowledge we have about brain development and structure, we can better understand our kid's behaviors and the way they learn. We can also better understand their strengths and, in turn, lift their self -esteem. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with online reading strategist, Jean Harville, about the neuroscience behind a positive, strengths-based approach, as well as the tools, strategies, and mindset to help your child thrive. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2020</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>84</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 083: Strategies for Mama Wellness, with Kate Lynch</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-083-strategies-for-mama-wellness-with-kate-lynch--59247327</link><description><![CDATA[As moms, we think of self-care as selfish and frivolous. But self-care is so much more than a spa massage or a weekend away with your girlfriends. Self-care includes all eight dimensions of wellness: physical, spiritual, emotional, social, environmental, financial, intellectual, and career. That's true wellness, and it takes mindful awareness and some work. Remember, self-care isn't selfish... you can only give your best to your kids and your family when you are feeling your best — feeling your best in all areas.   In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Kate Lynch of Healthy Happy Yoga about mama wellness. Not only do we talk about the dimensions of wellness and your mama mindset and self-compassion, but we offer many insights and strategies on how to shift your mindset, make wellness a priority, and fit it into your life. And, we're giving you permission to take care of you, Mama. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/bf4a3400-6252-5799-a0eb-7a0722204bf8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 20:34:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247327/pap083mamawellnesskatelynchfinal.mp3" length="41727460" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As moms, we think of self-care as selfish and frivolous. But self-care is so much more than a spa massage or a weekend away with your girlfriends. Self-care includes all eight dimensions of wellness: physical, spiritual, emotional, social,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As moms, we think of self-care as selfish and frivolous. But self-care is so much more than a spa massage or a weekend away with your girlfriends. Self-care includes all eight dimensions of wellness: physical, spiritual, emotional, social, environmental, financial, intellectual, and career. That's true wellness, and it takes mindful awareness and some work. Remember, self-care isn't selfish... you can only give your best to your kids and your family when you are feeling your best — feeling your best in all areas.   In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Kate Lynch of Healthy Happy Yoga about mama wellness. Not only do we talk about the dimensions of wellness and your mama mindset and self-compassion, but we offer many insights and strategies on how to shift your mindset, make wellness a priority, and fit it into your life. And, we're giving you permission to take care of you, Mama. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2977</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>83</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 082: Strategies to Help Your Anxious Child, with Dawn Huebner, PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-082-strategies-to-help-your-anxious-child-with-dawn-huebner-phd--59247311</link><description><![CDATA[  Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child's life, and can feel like it should be easily rationalized away. But, those with anxiety know no amount of rationalizing can just "turn off" an anxiety attack. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Psychologist, Dr. Dawn Huebner offers both insights for understanding anxiety, as well as strategies to help your child through the difficult challenges of anxiety.        <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/216d6d4a-db2f-598c-84d8-bc76d4d284c7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 22:07:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247311/pap082strategieshelpanxiouschilddawnhuebnerfinal.mp3" length="31839263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>  Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child's life, and can feel like it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[  Many individuals with ADHD struggle with anxiety as well, wether it be an additional condition or the result of the challenges that come with ADHD. Anxiety is often misunderstood by parents and other adults in a child's life, and can feel like it should be easily rationalized away. But, those with anxiety know no amount of rationalizing can just "turn off" an anxiety attack. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Psychologist, Dr. Dawn Huebner offers both insights for understanding anxiety, as well as strategies to help your child through the difficult challenges of anxiety.        <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2271</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 081: Parent with Intention — What You Focus on Grows</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-081-parent-with-intention-what-you-focus-on-grows--59247338</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a Buddhist saying: “What you focus on grows.” Has there ever been a truer statement? Yes, this is common sense when you think about it. But have you ever thought of this in terms of parenting and ADHD and/or autism? It’s easy to focus on something painful or uncomfortable. It’s difficult to let that discomfort be and focus on something else, something you’d much rather have grow. Let’s think about this in terms of parenting kids with ADHD. There’s a whole lot of challenging, uncomfortable, painful, negative stuff we can focus on. There’s so much we want to fix and improve to end our kids’ struggles. But, we have to be very careful, because it’s easy to focus on the challenges and then the negativity grows and takes over everything. Listen in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast for insights on the crucial task of shifting your mindset and focusing on the things you want to grow, and pushing ADHD and/or autism to a tertiary role.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/6852be66-4eae-519a-a37a-29a2f7f5be78</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2020 14:43:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247338/pap081whatyoufocusongrowsfinal.mp3" length="19546361" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a Buddhist saying: “What you focus on grows.” Has there ever been a truer statement? Yes, this is common sense when you think about it. But have you ever thought of this in terms of parenting and ADHD and/or autism? It’s easy to focus on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a Buddhist saying: “What you focus on grows.” Has there ever been a truer statement? Yes, this is common sense when you think about it. But have you ever thought of this in terms of parenting and ADHD and/or autism? It’s easy to focus on something painful or uncomfortable. It’s difficult to let that discomfort be and focus on something else, something you’d much rather have grow. Let’s think about this in terms of parenting kids with ADHD. There’s a whole lot of challenging, uncomfortable, painful, negative stuff we can focus on. There’s so much we want to fix and improve to end our kids’ struggles. But, we have to be very careful, because it’s easy to focus on the challenges and then the negativity grows and takes over everything. Listen in to this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast for insights on the crucial task of shifting your mindset and focusing on the things you want to grow, and pushing ADHD and/or autism to a tertiary role.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1393</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 080: Discovering How Your Child Thinks and Feels, with Dawn K. Brown, MD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-080-discovering-how-your-child-thinks-and-feels-with-dawn-k-brown-md--59247366</link><description><![CDATA[When you don't have ADHD yourself, it's really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it's different for your child than it was and is for you. Yet, it's important for parents to know what life is like for your kids so we can help them thrive. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Dawn Brown of the ADHD wellness center about how to discover how your child thinks and feels. We cover a variety of perspectives and topics including development, intense feelings and big emotions, sensitivity and rejection sensitive dysphoria, dysregulation, meeting your child where they are, and more... <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/69b59d12-d417-5e95-b00b-4184c86f200c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2020 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247366/pap080childthinksandfeelsdawnbrownfinal.mp3" length="50069353" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you don't have ADHD yourself, it's really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it's different for your child than it was and is for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you don't have ADHD yourself, it's really how to know how your child with ADHD thinks and feels. Even if you do have ADHD too, the experience is different for each individual with ADHD, meaning it's different for your child than it was and is for you. Yet, it's important for parents to know what life is like for your kids so we can help them thrive. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Dawn Brown of the ADHD wellness center about how to discover how your child thinks and feels. We cover a variety of perspectives and topics including development, intense feelings and big emotions, sensitivity and rejection sensitive dysphoria, dysregulation, meeting your child where they are, and more... <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3573</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 079: I Like You Just the Way You Are</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-079-i-like-you-just-the-way-you-are--59247301</link><description><![CDATA[  I just finished the Finding Fred podcast, all about Fred Rogers, or Mr. Rogers as most of us know him. And I'm inspired! He was always telling children and his television audience, "I like you just the way you are." Remembering what that felt like when watching his show and diving deep into what that means and how we can apply it to our lives and our parenting, I realized that we and others in our kids' lives are very often sending the message that we don't like our child just the way they are. That message is clearly harmful.  We can't change our children for the world, so we must change their world for our children. Join me in this episode to understand when and how this message is given to our children with ADHD and/or autism and what you can do to make sure your child knows that you truly like them just the way they are.         <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/8c8ba75c-5cd1-59ee-8613-f5860db5f153</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2020 21:11:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247301/079justthewayyouarefinal.mp3" length="29253547" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>  I just finished the Finding Fred podcast, all about Fred Rogers, or Mr. Rogers as most of us know him. And I'm inspired! He was always telling children and his television audience, "I like you just the way you are." Remembering what that felt like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[  I just finished the Finding Fred podcast, all about Fred Rogers, or Mr. Rogers as most of us know him. And I'm inspired! He was always telling children and his television audience, "I like you just the way you are." Remembering what that felt like when watching his show and diving deep into what that means and how we can apply it to our lives and our parenting, I realized that we and others in our kids' lives are very often sending the message that we don't like our child just the way they are. That message is clearly harmful.  We can't change our children for the world, so we must change their world for our children. Join me in this episode to understand when and how this message is given to our children with ADHD and/or autism and what you can do to make sure your child knows that you truly like them just the way they are.         <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2086</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 078: Creating a Success Plan for a New Year</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-078-creating-a-success-plan-for-a-new-year--59247315</link><description><![CDATA[There are three main elements to setting a foundation for success: (1) accepting and understanding that behavior is communication; (2) getting your mind right for raising a kid with ADHD, autism and/or other challenges; and (3) adopting a self-care regimen, including effective stress management. Listen in to learn more about each of these pillars of your success plan and how to create them for yourself and your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/cd636369-a415-59af-868e-c4abcb4caf2d</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2020 21:51:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247315/078successplannewyearfinal.mp3" length="33372973" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are three main elements to setting a foundation for success: (1) accepting and understanding that behavior is communication; (2) getting your mind right for raising a kid with ADHD, autism and/or other challenges; and (3) adopting a self-care...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are three main elements to setting a foundation for success: (1) accepting and understanding that behavior is communication; (2) getting your mind right for raising a kid with ADHD, autism and/or other challenges; and (3) adopting a self-care regimen, including effective stress management. Listen in to learn more about each of these pillars of your success plan and how to create them for yourself and your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2381</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>78</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 077: How toTalk to Your Child About Their Diagnosis, with Emily King, PhD, PLLC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-077-how-totalk-to-your-child-about-their-diagnosis-with-emily-king-phd-pllc--59247314</link><description><![CDATA[Many parents struggle with wether or not to share their child's diagnosis with them. And even the decision to fill them in leaves many wondering what to say and when to have that conversation. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with psychologist, Emily King, PhD, about why having this conversation is important, when to have it, and what to say. This is your guide to telling your child about their ADHD and/or autism diagnosis, as well as discussing their abilities and support needs with them. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/58fda609-9ff6-5572-b543-a8e3233900b3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jan 2020 19:15:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247314/077talkingdiagnosisemilykingfinal.mp3" length="34242137" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many parents struggle with wether or not to share their child's diagnosis with them. And even the decision to fill them in leaves many wondering what to say and when to have that conversation. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many parents struggle with wether or not to share their child's diagnosis with them. And even the decision to fill them in leaves many wondering what to say and when to have that conversation. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with psychologist, Emily King, PhD, about why having this conversation is important, when to have it, and what to say. This is your guide to telling your child about their ADHD and/or autism diagnosis, as well as discussing their abilities and support needs with them. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2443</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>77</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 076: Relationships, Sex, and Teens with ADHD, with Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-076-relationships-sex-and-teens-with-adhd-with-ari-tuckman-psyd-cst--59247376</link><description><![CDATA[The sex talk with your kids doesn't have to be nearly as painful as you imagine it. In this episode, Dr. Ari Tuckman walks us through the when, why, and how of this important conversation. We discuss starting the conversation about romantic relationships when our kids are young, how to talk about sex and sexuality with our teens, keeping our kids safe when they're prone to impulsivity and risky behavior, strategies to help keep our adolescents safe in the heat of the moment, and, most importantly, how to open the door for our teens to come to us and keep talking to us about relationships and sex. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-076-relationships-sex-and-teens-with-adhd-with-ari-tuckman-psyd-cst-a8eb9c7247e68833b65707d04b3c3094</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2019 00:00:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247376/076relationshipsarituckmanfinal.mp3" length="39923395" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The sex talk with your kids doesn't have to be nearly as painful as you imagine it. In this episode, Dr. Ari Tuckman walks us through the when, why, and how of this important conversation. We discuss starting the conversation about romantic...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The sex talk with your kids doesn't have to be nearly as painful as you imagine it. In this episode, Dr. Ari Tuckman walks us through the when, why, and how of this important conversation. We discuss starting the conversation about romantic relationships when our kids are young, how to talk about sex and sexuality with our teens, keeping our kids safe when they're prone to impulsivity and risky behavior, strategies to help keep our adolescents safe in the heat of the moment, and, most importantly, how to open the door for our teens to come to us and keep talking to us about relationships and sex. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2848</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 075: Guiding Your Child to Winning with ADHD, with Sarah Cheyette M.D.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-075-guiding-your-child-to-winning-with-adhd-with-sarah-cheyette-m-d--59247361</link><description><![CDATA[What parents of kids with ADHD (and/or autism) want more than anything is for our kids to succeed. And, yet, success can be elusive with the many challenges and hurdles a neurodevelopmental disorder like ADHD adds. That's why providing opportunities for successes and wins for kids with ADHD must be a crucial part of your parenting plan. In this episode, pediatric neurologist, Dr. Sarah Cheyette, and I discuss how to help your child win with ADHD. We're not simply talking about nurturing talents and interests, but also about teaching our kids resilience and showing them that they can, indeed, do hard things and succeed. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-075-guiding-your-child-to-winning-with-adhd-with-sarah-cheyette-md-92a1d72806937cb91155bd7b37e89f9a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Dec 2019 23:57:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247361/pap075final.mp3" length="42258067" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What parents of kids with ADHD (and/or autism) want more than anything is for our kids to succeed. And, yet, success can be elusive with the many challenges and hurdles a neurodevelopmental disorder like ADHD adds. That's why providing opportunities...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What parents of kids with ADHD (and/or autism) want more than anything is for our kids to succeed. And, yet, success can be elusive with the many challenges and hurdles a neurodevelopmental disorder like ADHD adds. That's why providing opportunities for successes and wins for kids with ADHD must be a crucial part of your parenting plan. In this episode, pediatric neurologist, Dr. Sarah Cheyette, and I discuss how to help your child win with ADHD. We're not simply talking about nurturing talents and interests, but also about teaching our kids resilience and showing them that they can, indeed, do hard things and succeed. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3019</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>75</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 074: Don't Let ADHD Ruin Your Holiday</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-074-don-t-let-adhd-ruin-your-holiday--59247343</link><description><![CDATA[Holidays are challenging for kids with ADHD, and for their parents. Schedules are different, excitement is high, big gatherings are routine, and that's the only thing that's routine. Yikes! This frenzy guarantees some struggle. It's really easy to get tangled up in the fallout of a lot of new things and people, a ton of sensory overwhelm (hello, Uncle Buck's loud voice and Aunt Mildred's heavily perfume aura), and the excitement of impending gifts, so close you can almost touch them. Don't let a focus on the traditional and neurotypical celebration expectations ruin your holiday, because — let's face it — our kids are kids, but we are the ones with the storybook visions and the inflexible expectations. In this episode, I'm talking about what parents can do during the holidays to prevent letting ADHD (or autism) ruin the spirit of the season. Listen in now and plan for a truly happy holiday.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-074-dont-let-adhd-ruin-your-holiday-245858b5a2063f8a842fb011bf9e41a2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2019 20:56:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247343/074_don_t_let_adhd_ruin_your_holiday_penny_final.mp3" length="41874830" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Holidays are challenging for kids with ADHD, and for their parents. Schedules are different, excitement is high, big gatherings are routine, and that's the only thing that's routine. Yikes! This frenzy guarantees some struggle. It's really easy to get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Holidays are challenging for kids with ADHD, and for their parents. Schedules are different, excitement is high, big gatherings are routine, and that's the only thing that's routine. Yikes! This frenzy guarantees some struggle. It's really easy to get tangled up in the fallout of a lot of new things and people, a ton of sensory overwhelm (hello, Uncle Buck's loud voice and Aunt Mildred's heavily perfume aura), and the excitement of impending gifts, so close you can almost touch them. Don't let a focus on the traditional and neurotypical celebration expectations ruin your holiday, because — let's face it — our kids are kids, but we are the ones with the storybook visions and the inflexible expectations. In this episode, I'm talking about what parents can do during the holidays to prevent letting ADHD (or autism) ruin the spirit of the season. Listen in now and plan for a truly happy holiday.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1745</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>74</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 073: Better Mornings for Families of Kids with ADHD, with Brendan Mahan, M.Ed.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-073-better-mornings-for-families-of-kids-with-adhd-with-brendan-mahan-m-ed--59247371</link><description><![CDATA[There are few times more chaotic and stressful for families of kids with ADHD than mornings, especially school mornings. Kids with ADHD struggle with staying on task, time management, working memory, and many other executive functioning deficits that make mornings difficult — difficult to get out the door on time, difficult to get everything done, difficult to not lose your sanity. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking to executive function coach, Brendan Mahan, M.Ed. about how to survive mornings in a household challenged by ADHD. This episode is packed full of tools and strategies. Don't miss it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-073-better-mornings-for-families-of-kids-with-adhd-with-brendan-mahan-med-327057d7b1045d3007e4a56fa1355469</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2019 22:13:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247371/pap_073_surviving_mornings_brendan_mahan_11_14_19_3_01_pm.mp3" length="67982442" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are few times more chaotic and stressful for families of kids with ADHD than mornings, especially school mornings. Kids with ADHD struggle with staying on task, time management, working memory, and many other executive functioning deficits that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are few times more chaotic and stressful for families of kids with ADHD than mornings, especially school mornings. Kids with ADHD struggle with staying on task, time management, working memory, and many other executive functioning deficits that make mornings difficult — difficult to get out the door on time, difficult to get everything done, difficult to not lose your sanity. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking to executive function coach, Brendan Mahan, M.Ed. about how to survive mornings in a household challenged by ADHD. This episode is packed full of tools and strategies. Don't miss it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2833</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 072: Understanding the Siblings' Experience, with Jessica Leving</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-072-understanding-the-siblings-experience-with-jessica-leving--59247363</link><description><![CDATA[When you have a child with ADHD, almost all of your attention and energy naturally goes to that child — they're more intense and they're struggling. And yet, that child's siblings are likely struggling too. The experience of being the sibling to a child with ADHD, autism, or other special needs is hard, at the very minimum, but traumatic to many. On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Jessica Leving,  author of the children's book, Special Siblings: Growing up with a sibling who has special needs, a book inspired by her own experience with a brother with autism. Listen in and learn what your other children might be going through and hiding from you, and how you can make sure the siblings in your family feel as loved and as important.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-072-understanding-the-siblings-experience-with-jessica-leving-ef43af525e48dd133af72b4f76e17e94</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Nov 2019 01:35:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247363/pap_072_the_sigling_experience_jessica_leving_final.mp3" length="63951852" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you have a child with ADHD, almost all of your attention and energy naturally goes to that child — they're more intense and they're struggling. And yet, that child's siblings are likely struggling too. The experience of being the sibling to a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you have a child with ADHD, almost all of your attention and energy naturally goes to that child — they're more intense and they're struggling. And yet, that child's siblings are likely struggling too. The experience of being the sibling to a child with ADHD, autism, or other special needs is hard, at the very minimum, but traumatic to many. On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Jessica Leving,  author of the children's book, Special Siblings: Growing up with a sibling who has special needs, a book inspired by her own experience with a brother with autism. Listen in and learn what your other children might be going through and hiding from you, and how you can make sure the siblings in your family feel as loved and as important.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2665</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 071: Why Punishing Your Kids is Bad Parenting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-071-why-punishing-your-kids-is-bad-parenting--59247357</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture says that parents should be authoritarian and have control over their children. I call BS.  Authoritarian parenting and trying to control behavior with punishment and fear is bad parenting. I explain why that's bad parenting, and outline a better way in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. We should be parenting individuals and celebrating individuality, not pushing for conformity. There is room for positive parenting and teaching your values. Let's talk about how.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-071-why-punishing-your-kids-is-bad-parenting-056100be2019bae2ebd69d7e26c814f9</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2019 21:41:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247357/071_punishment_is_bad_parenting_penny_final.mp3" length="42231558" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture says that parents should be authoritarian and have control over their children. I call BS.  Authoritarian parenting and trying to control behavior with punishment and fear is bad parenting. I explain why that's bad parenting, and outline a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture says that parents should be authoritarian and have control over their children. I call BS.  Authoritarian parenting and trying to control behavior with punishment and fear is bad parenting. I explain why that's bad parenting, and outline a better way in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. We should be parenting individuals and celebrating individuality, not pushing for conformity. There is room for positive parenting and teaching your values. Let's talk about how.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1760</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 070: The Brilliance and Blues of ADHD, with Katherine Quie, PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-070-the-brilliance-and-blues-of-adhd-with-katherine-quie-phd--59247355</link><description><![CDATA[Many kids with ADHD are brilliant in one way or another, but still struggle. You can be smart, and struggle — and that doesn't mean you're lazy. In this episode, I'm talking to child psychologist and author of the book Raising Will: Surviving the Brilliance and Blues of ADHD, Katherine Quie, PhD,  about the inconsistencies that are the very nature of ADHD. Katherine talks about her experience raising her son with ADHD and the challenges of raising a kid who is gifted and still struggles. This conversation offers an honest look at real life parenting kids with ADHD. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-070-the-brilliance-and-blues-of-adhd-with-katherine-quie-phd-b4fcea56846d3f14a4e14d2233beb532</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2019 01:02:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247355/070_the_brilliance_and_the_blues_of_adhd_quie_final.mp3" length="77291229" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Many kids with ADHD are brilliant in one way or another, but still struggle. You can be smart, and struggle — and that doesn't mean you're lazy. In this episode, I'm talking to child psychologist and author of the book Raising Will: Surviving the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many kids with ADHD are brilliant in one way or another, but still struggle. You can be smart, and struggle — and that doesn't mean you're lazy. In this episode, I'm talking to child psychologist and author of the book Raising Will: Surviving the Brilliance and Blues of ADHD, Katherine Quie, PhD,  about the inconsistencies that are the very nature of ADHD. Katherine talks about her experience raising her son with ADHD and the challenges of raising a kid who is gifted and still struggles. This conversation offers an honest look at real life parenting kids with ADHD. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3221</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>70</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 069: What to Do When the School Honeymoon Ends, with Brandie Rosen</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-069-what-to-do-when-the-school-honeymoon-ends-with-brandie-rosen--59247378</link><description><![CDATA[Most students with ADHD go through what I call a school honeymoon at the beginning of each new school year. The newness is stimulating and the demands are less starting out and our kids do pretty well. But the honeymoon ends and reality sets in — kids with ADHD struggle in school. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with educational advocate, Brandie Rosen, about what parents can do to help ease the transition from honeymoon to everyday reality at school. We discuss how to prevent this sharp decline in the first place, as well as how to work with teachers to to get through this tough period to ensure continued success, if you weren't able to prevent it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-069-what-to-do-when-the-school-honeymoon-ends-with-brandie-rosen-ef173f7f2900541c29efef699034b02d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2019 17:17:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247378/069_what_to_do_when_the_school_honeymoon_is_over_brandie_rosen_final.mp3" length="71691411" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most students with ADHD go through what I call a school honeymoon at the beginning of each new school year. The newness is stimulating and the demands are less starting out and our kids do pretty well. But the honeymoon ends and reality sets in — kids...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most students with ADHD go through what I call a school honeymoon at the beginning of each new school year. The newness is stimulating and the demands are less starting out and our kids do pretty well. But the honeymoon ends and reality sets in — kids with ADHD struggle in school. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with educational advocate, Brandie Rosen, about what parents can do to help ease the transition from honeymoon to everyday reality at school. We discuss how to prevent this sharp decline in the first place, as well as how to work with teachers to to get through this tough period to ensure continued success, if you weren't able to prevent it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2987</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>69</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 068: Helping Your Disorganized Teen with ADHD, with Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-068-helping-your-disorganized-teen-with-adhd-with-natalie-borrell-alison-grant--59247364</link><description><![CDATA[Executive functioning skills — including organization, planning and time management — are almost always impacted in kids and teens with ADHD. There are a myriad of strategies and tools to assist with disorganization and poor time management. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with coaches Natalie Borrell and Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens about how to help your disorganized teen. Natalie and Alison share many tools and strategies they use to help their students and coaching clients, as well as insights on how to implement them successfully for your teen or pre-teen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-068-helping-your-disorganized-teen-with-adhd-with-natalie-borrell-alison-grant-0b2ef3862993c7ce2e63258021dd8579</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Sep 2019 17:25:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247364/068_helping_your_disorganized_teen_final.mp3" length="59743212" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Executive functioning skills — including organization, planning and time management — are almost always impacted in kids and teens with ADHD. There are a myriad of strategies and tools to assist with disorganization and poor time management. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Executive functioning skills — including organization, planning and time management — are almost always impacted in kids and teens with ADHD. There are a myriad of strategies and tools to assist with disorganization and poor time management. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with coaches Natalie Borrell and Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens about how to help your disorganized teen. Natalie and Alison share many tools and strategies they use to help their students and coaching clients, as well as insights on how to implement them successfully for your teen or pre-teen. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2490</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 067: What Never Meeting Expectations Does to Kids with ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-067-what-never-meeting-expectations-does-to-kids-with-adhd--59247365</link><description><![CDATA[Never meeting expectations means our kids with ADHD and/or autism feel like they never succeed. That is a heavy burden that can take a monumental toll on any individual. In this episode, I outline all the repercussions possible when a child feels like they never succeed and what you can do to keep the worst of the consequences from happening to your child. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">parentingadhdpodcast.podbean.com/pap-067-what-never-meeting-expectations-does-to-kids-with-adhd-1d0518b830e3c879997df996d9fe6da4</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2019 00:00:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247365/final_067_when_your_child_gives_up.mp3" length="47973690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Never meeting expectations means our kids with ADHD and/or autism feel like they never succeed. That is a heavy burden that can take a monumental toll on any individual. In this episode, I outline all the repercussions possible when a child feels like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Never meeting expectations means our kids with ADHD and/or autism feel like they never succeed. That is a heavy burden that can take a monumental toll on any individual. In this episode, I outline all the repercussions possible when a child feels like they never succeed and what you can do to keep the worst of the consequences from happening to your child. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1999</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 066: Crime &amp; Punishment Is Not Parenting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-066-crime-punishment-is-not-parenting--59247362</link><description><![CDATA[Parents are expected to be authoritarian and parent through a system of crime and punishment. We're raised to believe this is what defines a "good parent." I argue that we need to flip this idea on its head — that crime and punishment parenting is actually making you a "bad parent." It does more harm than good for our kids, especially kids with ADHD and/or autism. There is a much, much better way to raise kids that will become happy, successful adults. Listen in and I'll explain why crime and punishment is bad and how to serve our children much better.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d637dce1770e4bba8634e4534e033c9b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2019 00:04:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247362/track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_066_crime_and_punishment_isnt_parenting.mp3" length="42552551" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents are expected to be authoritarian and parent through a system of crime and punishment. We're raised to believe this is what defines a "good parent." I argue that we need to flip this idea on its head — that crime and punishment parenting is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents are expected to be authoritarian and parent through a system of crime and punishment. We're raised to believe this is what defines a "good parent." I argue that we need to flip this idea on its head — that crime and punishment parenting is actually making you a "bad parent." It does more harm than good for our kids, especially kids with ADHD and/or autism. There is a much, much better way to raise kids that will become happy, successful adults. Listen in and I'll explain why crime and punishment is bad and how to serve our children much better.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1773</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/45c331d7633413db8f35a19e351a95c1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 065: Success After High School for Students with ADHD, with Elizabeth Hamblet</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-065-success-after-high-school-for-students-with-adhd-with-elizabeth-hamblet--59247359</link><description><![CDATA["There needs to be a desire to go to college. Just sending somebody because that's what's expected is not going to be good for that student."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=14055</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jul 2019 23:17:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59247359/parentingadhdspodcast_chtbl_com_track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_065_transition_after_high_school_and_college_success_73119_7_56_pm.mp3" length="70193655" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"There needs to be a desire to go to college. Just sending somebody because that's what's expected is not going to be good for that student."</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["There needs to be a desire to go to college. Just sending somebody because that's what's expected is not going to be good for that student."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2925</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>65</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 064: What Really Matters When Parenting Kids with ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-064-what-really-matters-when-parenting-kids-with-adhd--59248101</link><description><![CDATA[Our culture defines expectations of our parenting priorities. When we become parents, we latch onto those expectations and adopt them as our own. The problem is, those priorities were created for neurotypical kids and we are raising kids with differences. If our child is different, our parenting should be different too. That means that not everything that matters to our culture really matters for our special brand of parenthood. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline what truly matters when raising kids with ADHD (and/or autism). "The rest of it is just noise that we need to start turning down." Resources in the Episode Nowhere to Hide, Dr. Jerome Schultz, The Insider's Guide to ADHD, by Penny WilliamsDr. Hallowell's Mirror Traits: Article or VideoHappy Mama Retreat Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13958</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248101/parentingadhdspodcast_chtbl_com_track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_064_what_really_matters_confidence_competence_penny.mp3" length="43587000" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our culture defines expectations of our parenting priorities. When we become parents, we latch onto those expectations and adopt them as our own. The problem is, those priorities were created for neurotypical kids and we are raising kids with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our culture defines expectations of our parenting priorities. When we become parents, we latch onto those expectations and adopt them as our own. The problem is, those priorities were created for neurotypical kids and we are raising kids with differences. If our child is different, our parenting should be different too. That means that not everything that matters to our culture really matters for our special brand of parenthood. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline what truly matters when raising kids with ADHD (and/or autism). "The rest of it is just noise that we need to start turning down." Resources in the Episode Nowhere to Hide, Dr. Jerome Schultz, The Insider's Guide to ADHD, by Penny WilliamsDr. Hallowell's Mirror Traits: Article or VideoHappy Mama Retreat Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1816</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 063: Helping Kids with ADHD Succeed in Athletics, with Susan Stout</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-063-helping-kids-with-adhd-succeed-in-athletics-with-susan-stout--59248137</link><description><![CDATA[There's no disputing that — especially team sports — can be a difficult environment for individuals with ADHD to naturally succeed in. It's not just developmental delays and social differences with peers that can make it tough. Things like emotional sensitivity and dysregulation, poor working memory, anxiety, and lagging executive functioning skills can also make it hard to meet peer and coach expectations, because they are set or neurotypicals. However, this doesn't mean that kids with ADHD cannot succeed and thrive in athletic endeavors. Join me as I talk with Susan Stout, founder of My Own Beat, about the challenging areas of athletics for those with ADHD and how you can help your child succeed in sports that are interested in and/or passionate about. Even if your child just plays Little League or Peewee Football, you can't miss this discussion. Listen now!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13879</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2019 21:57:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248137/parentingadhdspodcast_chtbl_com_track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_063_helping_kids_with_adhd_succeed_in_athletics_susan_stout_71819_6_38_pm.mp3" length="62061632" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's no disputing that — especially team sports — can be a difficult environment for individuals with ADHD to naturally succeed in. It's not just developmental delays and social differences with peers that can make it tough. Things like emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's no disputing that — especially team sports — can be a difficult environment for individuals with ADHD to naturally succeed in. It's not just developmental delays and social differences with peers that can make it tough. Things like emotional sensitivity and dysregulation, poor working memory, anxiety, and lagging executive functioning skills can also make it hard to meet peer and coach expectations, because they are set or neurotypicals. However, this doesn't mean that kids with ADHD cannot succeed and thrive in athletic endeavors. Join me as I talk with Susan Stout, founder of My Own Beat, about the challenging areas of athletics for those with ADHD and how you can help your child succeed in sports that are interested in and/or passionate about. Even if your child just plays Little League or Peewee Football, you can't miss this discussion. Listen now!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2586</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 062: Stress Management Techniques for Parents of Kids with ADHD/HFA</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-062-stress-management-techniques-for-parents-of-kids-with-adhd-hfa--59248066</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm diving into stress management for parents of kids with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. I used to think I'd have to change the characteristics of my life and family — like give away my kids — to reduce my stress. Turns out, I just didn't know what real stress management was and how to apply it to a life that is inherently more chaotic, demanding, and stressful. Thank goodness I finally discovered how I could manage my stress. It's made a monumental difference in my physical, mental, and emotional health. I am so much happier. So much calmer. So much freer. And, even better, so are my kids and everyone else in my life. My stress management is one of my top strategies for effectively parenting kids with ADHD/autism. It changes everything. Listen in now to find out how to manage your stress and change your family for the better too.     Resources in the Episode Happy Mama Conference &amp; Retreat Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13868</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2019 21:35:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248066/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_062_managing_parent_stress_with_penny_71119_6_24_pm.mp3" length="40840381" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm diving into stress management for parents of kids with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. I used to think I'd have to change the characteristics of my life and family — like give away my kids — to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm diving into stress management for parents of kids with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. I used to think I'd have to change the characteristics of my life and family — like give away my kids — to reduce my stress. Turns out, I just didn't know what real stress management was and how to apply it to a life that is inherently more chaotic, demanding, and stressful. Thank goodness I finally discovered how I could manage my stress. It's made a monumental difference in my physical, mental, and emotional health. I am so much happier. So much calmer. So much freer. And, even better, so are my kids and everyone else in my life. My stress management is one of my top strategies for effectively parenting kids with ADHD/autism. It changes everything. Listen in now to find out how to manage your stress and change your family for the better too.     Resources in the Episode Happy Mama Conference &amp; Retreat Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1702</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 061: Creating an Environment Where Kids with ADHD Can Thrive, with Lauren Pace</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-061-creating-an-environment-where-kids-with-adhd-can-thrive-with-lauren-pace--59248108</link><description><![CDATA[Parents can create an environment that empowers kids with ADHD and helps them thrive. It's about the relationships, perspectives, understanding, and compassion we have with our kids and how that affects behavior and grit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13808</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2019 00:24:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248108/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_061_changing_the_environment_lauren_pace_final.mp3" length="59067999" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Parents can create an environment that empowers kids with ADHD and helps them thrive. It's about the relationships, perspectives, understanding, and compassion we have with our kids and how that affects behavior and grit.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parents can create an environment that empowers kids with ADHD and helps them thrive. It's about the relationships, perspectives, understanding, and compassion we have with our kids and how that affects behavior and grit.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2461</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 60: 28 Experts on ADHD Share Their Best Insights &amp; Strategies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-60-28-experts-on-adhd-share-their-best-insights-strategies--59248107</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm filling you in on the upcoming FREE Parenting ADHD Summit. It's a free online conference with 28 experts on ADHD and parenting sharing a little of their wisdom with you to empower you to empower your child. In this podcast episode, I'm sharing clips from five of the sessions, including Dr. Edward Hallowell, Julie F. Skolnick MA, JD, Ross Greene, PhD, Jerome Schultz, PhD and Amanda Morin. There's valuable information just in these clips. Listen in and get new strategies for parenting your child with ADHD.      Resources in the Episode Parenting ADHD Summit: Grab your spot here! Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13784</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 May 2019 10:49:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248107/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap060_parenting_adhd_summit_highlights_speaker_clips_final.mp3" length="44481014" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm filling you in on the upcoming FREE Parenting ADHD Summit. It's a free online conference with 28 experts on ADHD and parenting sharing a little of their wisdom with you to empower you to empower your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm filling you in on the upcoming FREE Parenting ADHD Summit. It's a free online conference with 28 experts on ADHD and parenting sharing a little of their wisdom with you to empower you to empower your child. In this podcast episode, I'm sharing clips from five of the sessions, including Dr. Edward Hallowell, Julie F. Skolnick MA, JD, Ross Greene, PhD, Jerome Schultz, PhD and Amanda Morin. There's valuable information just in these clips. Listen in and get new strategies for parenting your child with ADHD.      Resources in the Episode Parenting ADHD Summit: Grab your spot here! Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1854</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 059: The Journey to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, with Ana Joanes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-059-the-journey-to-becoming-the-parent-you-want-to-be-with-ana-joanes--59248117</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with documentary filmmaker, Ana Joanes, about the journey to becoming the parent you want to be. We discuss how our childhood experiences shape the parent we become, how those experiences change our neurological physiology, parent stress, the importance of self-compassion and self-care, and the fact that you are not alone. This episode will help you parent with intention and purpose, rather than just trying to get through each day. "You're not alone. We all have times when we don't like our child, when we reset their presence."     Resources in this Episode (Yes, some of these are affiliate links.)Articles/Topics/Podcasts Mentioned: The experience of autism (and ADHD) is almost identical in the brain as trauma. A life with autism includes traumatic experiences. At the intersection of autism and traumaThe Life Recovery Method, by Robert Cox, LPC Radical self-careFar from the Tree, by Andrew Solomon Healing Program on WrestlingGhosts.comWatch Wrestling Ghosts My Guest Ana Joanes is a documentary filmmaker dedicated to inspiring conscious action and systemic change through film. Her previous works include Generation Meds, an exploration of our fears and misgivings about mental illness and medication, and Fresh, which celebrates the farmers, thinkers and entrepreneurs who are reinventing our food system. Before dedicating herself to filmmaking, Ana was a lawyer. She founded Reel Youth, Inc., a video production program for youth coming out of detention and other underserved youth. Ana is the mother of three children, and with Wrestling Ghosts, she hopes to contribute to a shift toward a more compassionate world. Where to Find Ana Website: wrestlingghosts.com Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: @WrestingGhosts Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13767</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2019 21:21:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248117/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_059_wrestling_ghosts_final.mp3" length="56782807" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with documentary filmmaker, Ana Joanes, about the journey to becoming the parent you want to be. We discuss how our childhood experiences shape the parent we become, how those experiences...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with documentary filmmaker, Ana Joanes, about the journey to becoming the parent you want to be. We discuss how our childhood experiences shape the parent we become, how those experiences change our neurological physiology, parent stress, the importance of self-compassion and self-care, and the fact that you are not alone. This episode will help you parent with intention and purpose, rather than just trying to get through each day. "You're not alone. We all have times when we don't like our child, when we reset their presence."     Resources in this Episode (Yes, some of these are affiliate links.)Articles/Topics/Podcasts Mentioned: The experience of autism (and ADHD) is almost identical in the brain as trauma. A life with autism includes traumatic experiences. At the intersection of autism and traumaThe Life Recovery Method, by Robert Cox, LPC Radical self-careFar from the Tree, by Andrew Solomon Healing Program on WrestlingGhosts.comWatch Wrestling Ghosts My Guest Ana Joanes is a documentary filmmaker dedicated to inspiring conscious action and systemic change through film. Her previous works include Generation Meds, an exploration of our fears and misgivings about mental illness and medication, and Fresh, which celebrates the farmers, thinkers and entrepreneurs who are reinventing our food system. Before dedicating herself to filmmaking, Ana was a lawyer. She founded Reel Youth, Inc., a video production program for youth coming out of detention and other underserved youth. Ana is the mother of three children, and with Wrestling Ghosts, she hopes to contribute to a shift toward a more compassionate world. Where to Find Ana Website: wrestlingghosts.com Facebook, Twitter, Instagram: @WrestingGhosts Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2366</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 058: Developmental Age and How It Should Guide Your Parenting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-058-developmental-age-and-how-it-should-guide-your-parenting--59248078</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling developmental age. ADHD is a development disorder. Very few people talk about it in that way but it's 100 percent a developmental disorder. Your child with ADHD is two to three years behind their same-age peers in a lot of ways. If you're child's functioning and skills are at a 7-year-old level, but he or she is actually 10, what is going to be more successful: expecting neurotypical 10-year-old behavior or 7-year old behavior? Your job and the success of your parenting hinge on setting appropriate expectations for the child you have. Listen in as I explain developmental age further, and how to set appropriate expectations for your child to succeed and thrive.       Resources in the Episode Executive Function Age chart floating around social mediaRussel Barkley on his 30% Rule Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13741</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2019 19:30:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248078/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_058_developemental_age_penny_final.mp3" length="43479793" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling developmental age. ADHD is a development disorder. Very few people talk about it in that way but it's 100 percent a developmental disorder. Your child with ADHD is two to three years behind...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling developmental age. ADHD is a development disorder. Very few people talk about it in that way but it's 100 percent a developmental disorder. Your child with ADHD is two to three years behind their same-age peers in a lot of ways. If you're child's functioning and skills are at a 7-year-old level, but he or she is actually 10, what is going to be more successful: expecting neurotypical 10-year-old behavior or 7-year old behavior? Your job and the success of your parenting hinge on setting appropriate expectations for the child you have. Listen in as I explain developmental age further, and how to set appropriate expectations for your child to succeed and thrive.       Resources in the Episode Executive Function Age chart floating around social mediaRussel Barkley on his 30% Rule Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1812</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 057: Grit &amp; Resilience: Teaching Kids with ADHD How to Overcome Obstacles, with Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-057-grit-resilience-teaching-kids-with-adhd-how-to-overcome-obstacles-with-natalie-borrell-alison-grant--59248152</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with coaches Natalie Borrell and Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens. We discuss how to help kids with ADHD address and overcome challenges and obstacles. Learn how to help your kids build grit and resistance — the core aspects of being able to overcome challenges without falling apart or avoiding obstacles. "Sometimes it's easier to just give up."     Resources in this Episode (Yes, some of these are affiliate links.)Articles/Topics/Podcasts Mentioned: Life Success for Teens My Guest Natalie Borrell is the Founder of Life Success for Teens. She coached high school and competitive cheerleading for 8 years and this is where she realized that she had a gift for connecting with teenagers and motivating them to be the best version of themselves. She has 11 years of experience working as a school psychologist in a public high school. Her areas of expertise include working with students who have ADHD, executive functioning weaknesses, and other learning differences. Natalie earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Ohio State University in 2004, her masters degree in school psychology in 2006 from Michigan State University, and her Educational Specialist Degree in 2007 from Kent State University. She became a certified Academic Life Coach in 2015 and founded Life Success For Teens in 2016. When she is not coaching students, Natalie can be found traveling with her family, reading cookbooks, or binge-watching episodes of Friends. One of her favorite part of coaching is getting a text or email from her former students. Alison Grant joined the LSFT team with 15 years as a Family Consumer Science teacher at Willoughby South High School. As a teacher, Alison has advised groups including Student Council, Teen Institute and Class Officers. Alison has coached dance, cheer, and tennis and in 2011 was named Adele Knight Teacher of the Year. In recent years, she has been part of an initiative to develop a mentoring program that assists freshmen in the transition from middle school to high school. Alison earned her Academic Life Coach certificate in 2017 which allowed her to help students realized they can be successful inside and outside the classroom. Her favorite part of coaching is watching a student have a moment when everything clicks and their hard work has paid off! Alison earned her bachelor’s degree in vocational education from Kent State University in 2003 and her master’s degree in educational administration from Ursuline College as well as a masters in school counseling from John Carroll University. Alison lives in Willoughby, OH with her husband and two daughters Maggie and Gwyneth. When she is not spending time with her family, Alison enjoys crafting and taking snapshots of her family’s adventures! Where to Find Natalie and Alison Website: lifesuccessforteens.com Facebook: LSFTcommunity Listen In! Parenting #ADHD Podcast 057: Grit &amp; Resilience: Teaching Kids with ADHD How to Overcome Obstacles, with Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant. #ADHD #LD #autismClick To Tweet Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13676</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2019 20:37:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248152/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_057_grit_and_reslience_final.mp3" length="56034242" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with coaches Natalie Borrell and Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens. We discuss how to help kids with ADHD address and overcome challenges and obstacles. Learn how to help your kids build...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with coaches Natalie Borrell and Alison Grant of Life Success for Teens. We discuss how to help kids with ADHD address and overcome challenges and obstacles. Learn how to help your kids build grit and resistance — the core aspects of being able to overcome challenges without falling apart or avoiding obstacles. "Sometimes it's easier to just give up."     Resources in this Episode (Yes, some of these are affiliate links.)Articles/Topics/Podcasts Mentioned: Life Success for Teens My Guest Natalie Borrell is the Founder of Life Success for Teens. She coached high school and competitive cheerleading for 8 years and this is where she realized that she had a gift for connecting with teenagers and motivating them to be the best version of themselves. She has 11 years of experience working as a school psychologist in a public high school. Her areas of expertise include working with students who have ADHD, executive functioning weaknesses, and other learning differences. Natalie earned her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Ohio State University in 2004, her masters degree in school psychology in 2006 from Michigan State University, and her Educational Specialist Degree in 2007 from Kent State University. She became a certified Academic Life Coach in 2015 and founded Life Success For Teens in 2016. When she is not coaching students, Natalie can be found traveling with her family, reading cookbooks, or binge-watching episodes of Friends. One of her favorite part of coaching is getting a text or email from her former students. Alison Grant joined the LSFT team with 15 years as a Family Consumer Science teacher at Willoughby South High School. As a teacher, Alison has advised groups including Student Council, Teen Institute and Class Officers. Alison has coached dance, cheer, and tennis and in 2011 was named Adele Knight Teacher of the Year. In recent years, she has been part of an initiative to develop a mentoring program that assists freshmen in the transition from middle school to high school. Alison earned her Academic Life Coach certificate in 2017 which allowed her to help students realized they can be successful inside and outside the classroom. Her favorite part of coaching is watching a student have a moment when everything clicks and their hard work has paid off! Alison earned her bachelor’s degree in vocational education from Kent State University in 2003 and her master’s degree in educational administration from Ursuline College as well as a masters in school counseling from John Carroll University. Alison lives in Willoughby, OH with her husband and two daughters Maggie and Gwyneth. When she is not spending time with her family, Alison enjoys crafting and taking snapshots of her family’s adventures! Where to Find Natalie and Alison Website: lifesuccessforteens.com Facebook: LSFTcommunity Listen In! Parenting #ADHD Podcast 057: Grit &amp; Resilience: Teaching Kids with ADHD How to Overcome Obstacles, with Natalie Borrell &amp; Alison Grant. #ADHD #LD #autismClick To Tweet Thanks for joining me! If you enjoyed this episode, please use the social media buttons to the left or within the player to share it. Have something to say, or a question to ask? Leave a comment below. I promise to answer every single one. **Also, please leave an honest review for The Parenting ADHD Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and appreciated! That's what helps me reach and help more families like yours. Listen to More Parenting ADHD Podcast Episodes<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2335</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 056: The Transformative Power of Calm in Your Parenting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-056-the-transformative-power-of-calm-in-your-parenting--59248114</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling a questions I get from parents all the time... how to stay calm when your child is having an outburst or a meltdown. There are a couple tricks that helped me gain control of how I stay calm and respond in these moments. I've shared both these fundamental pieces, as well the real transformational power remaining calm has for your child, for you, and for your entire family. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fdd7e81de1f54f2f9a1bd56fae92ebfa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2019 21:14:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248114/track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_056_staying_calm_penny_final.mp3" length="41054167" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling a questions I get from parents all the time... how to stay calm when your child is having an outburst or a meltdown. There are a couple tricks that helped me gain control of how I stay calm...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling a questions I get from parents all the time... how to stay calm when your child is having an outburst or a meltdown. There are a couple tricks that helped me gain control of how I stay calm and respond in these moments. I've shared both these fundamental pieces, as well the real transformational power remaining calm has for your child, for you, and for your entire family. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1711</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dccbe9395f3ea253f54b3e27fd8e811.jpg"/><itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 055: Supporting Your Child’s Learning Challenges with Technology, with Susan Schenk</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-055-supporting-your-child-s-learning-challenges-with-technology-with-susan-schenk--59248148</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational therapist, Susan Schenk, about learning challenges. Susan shares her story of growing up and finding success with learning challenges. Then we dig into how to help our own kids who are struggling with learning disabilities through tools, strategies and technology. Listen in for inspiration from Susan's story as well as resources to help your challenged learner. "Tap into the part of the brain that goes on fire to tackle the challenges." <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13475</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2019 23:49:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248148/pap_055_helping_challeneged_learners_with_susan_schenk_final.mp3" length="64344316" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational therapist, Susan Schenk, about learning challenges. Susan shares her story of growing up and finding success with learning challenges. Then we dig into how to help our own...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational therapist, Susan Schenk, about learning challenges. Susan shares her story of growing up and finding success with learning challenges. Then we dig into how to help our own kids who are struggling with learning disabilities through tools, strategies and technology. Listen in for inspiration from Susan's story as well as resources to help your challenged learner. "Tap into the part of the brain that goes on fire to tackle the challenges." <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2681</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 054: You Are Not Alone: The Power of Finding Your Parenting Tribe</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-054-you-are-not-alone-the-power-of-finding-your-parenting-tribe--59248155</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I have a very important message for you. You're not alone. You're not alone in this special brand of parenthood. There are millions of parents raising challenging kids. The fact that your parenthood is different isn't your fault, and you're not the only one with these challenges. You must find your tribe. Having a tribe around you who "gets it" is everything. Let me tell you why...     <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13455</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2019 01:53:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248155/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_054_you_are_not_alone_penny_21419_2_25_pm.mp3" length="19547659" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I have a very important message for you. You're not alone. You're not alone in this special brand of parenthood. There are millions of parents raising challenging kids. The fact that your parenthood is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I have a very important message for you. You're not alone. You're not alone in this special brand of parenthood. There are millions of parents raising challenging kids. The fact that your parenthood is different isn't your fault, and you're not the only one with these challenges. You must find your tribe. Having a tribe around you who "gets it" is everything. Let me tell you why...     <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>815</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>54</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 053: IEPs, 504 Plans &amp; School Advocacy, with Amanda Morin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-053-ieps-504-plans-school-advocacy-with-amanda-morin--59248162</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking IEPs and 504 Plans with former teacher and educational advocate, Amanda Morin. We're defining IEPs and 504 plans, and the differences between them. In addition, learn how to determine what services and accommodations your child may need in school, and how to go about securing them. We also answer questions like, should my child come to school meetings? And we're busting some myths around the rights of kids with special needs at school.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8697cbb103a24d0eacc65be26ad8609a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2019 12:42:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248162/053_ieps_504_plans_and_more_with_amanda_morin_final.mp3" length="80072956" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking IEPs and 504 Plans with former teacher and educational advocate, Amanda Morin. We're defining IEPs and 504 plans, and the differences between them. In addition, learn how to determine what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking IEPs and 504 Plans with former teacher and educational advocate, Amanda Morin. We're defining IEPs and 504 plans, and the differences between them. In addition, learn how to determine what services and accommodations your child may need in school, and how to go about securing them. We also answer questions like, should my child come to school meetings? And we're busting some myths around the rights of kids with special needs at school.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3337</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dccbe9395f3ea253f54b3e27fd8e811.jpg"/><itunes:episode>53</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 052: How to Advocate for Your Child with ADHD at School, with Meg Flanagan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-052-how-to-advocate-for-your-child-with-adhd-at-school-with-meg-flanagan--59248082</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, teacher and education advocate, Meg Flanagan, and I discuss taking a collaborative approach to working with teachers and advocating for your child at school. To achieve an effective working relationship with the school, parents need to approach teachers and school staff with the attitude of working together, as allies instead of adversaries. Sometimes it's tough to strike a balance between being a strong advocate for your child and seeming confrontational. Meg and I discuss strategies for this and more during this episode. Listen in now! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13361</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 13:11:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248082/052_adhd_and_school_meg_flanagan_final.mp3" length="59529426" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, teacher and education advocate, Meg Flanagan, and I discuss taking a collaborative approach to working with teachers and advocating for your child at school. To achieve an effective working relationship...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, teacher and education advocate, Meg Flanagan, and I discuss taking a collaborative approach to working with teachers and advocating for your child at school. To achieve an effective working relationship with the school, parents need to approach teachers and school staff with the attitude of working together, as allies instead of adversaries. Sometimes it's tough to strike a balance between being a strong advocate for your child and seeming confrontational. Meg and I discuss strategies for this and more during this episode. Listen in now! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2481</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 051: Identifying and Understanding Behavior Triggers with ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-051-identifying-and-understanding-behavior-triggers-with-adhd--59248080</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline different behavior triggers that are common with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. Within this list are developmentally lagging skills, but also differences in how a child's brain functions when they have ADHD. Recognizing these and other triggers in your child will help you improve behavior and reduce the instances of outbursts and meltdowns. This knowledge will also help you understand your child better and remain a calm parent.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13337</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2019 20:10:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248080/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_pap_051_identifying_triggers_penny_williams.mp3" length="38343911" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline different behavior triggers that are common with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. Within this list are developmentally lagging skills, but also differences in how a child's brain functions...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline different behavior triggers that are common with ADHD and/or "high-functioning" autism. Within this list are developmentally lagging skills, but also differences in how a child's brain functions when they have ADHD. Recognizing these and other triggers in your child will help you improve behavior and reduce the instances of outbursts and meltdowns. This knowledge will also help you understand your child better and remain a calm parent.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1598</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>51</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 050: Raising Emotionally Healthy and Happier Kids, with Maureen Healy, PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-050-raising-emotionally-healthy-and-happier-kids-with-maureen-healy-phd--59248163</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Maureen Healy, author of The Emotionally Healthy Child, about cultivating emotional health, which creates happier children. Emotional balance is key, and it's more challenging for kids with ADHD and/or autism. Maureen outlines strategies to help your child recognize, work through constructively, and control their own emotions. "It's like an onion. There are many layers to emotional health. We must cultivate emotional health."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13314</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Jan 2019 19:33:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248163/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_050_emotionally_healthy_child_maureen_healy_final.mp3" length="48080897" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Maureen Healy, author of The Emotionally Healthy Child, about cultivating emotional health, which creates happier children. Emotional balance is key, and it's more challenging for kids...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Maureen Healy, author of The Emotionally Healthy Child, about cultivating emotional health, which creates happier children. Emotional balance is key, and it's more challenging for kids with ADHD and/or autism. Maureen outlines strategies to help your child recognize, work through constructively, and control their own emotions. "It's like an onion. There are many layers to emotional health. We must cultivate emotional health."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2004</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 049: The Isolation of Raising Kids on the Spectrum, with Ana &amp; Curt Warner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-049-the-isolation-of-raising-kids-on-the-spectrum-with-ana-curt-warner--59248085</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm honored to have talked with Ana and Curt Warner about the challenges and isolation of raising kids with autism. They've shared their experiences raising twin boys with "low-functioning" autism in their new book, The Warner Boys: Our Family’s Story of Autism and Hope, and they've graciously shared a glimpse of their parenting experiences here with us. While your child may not have autism, the struggles and triumphs of this parenthood are much the same. I promise, you'll be moved by their story. “It wasn’t ever the pressure or exhaustion that was most troubling to us; it was the realization that our boys were in a kind of pain we couldn’t understand. For some unknown reason, everything was so hard for them.” — Ana Warner, The Warner Boys<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13095</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2018 01:10:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248085/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_049_isolation_of_parenting_kids_with_adhd_autism_curt_warner_final.mp3" length="59065491" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm honored to have talked with Ana and Curt Warner about the challenges and isolation of raising kids with autism. They've shared their experiences raising twin boys with "low-functioning" autism in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm honored to have talked with Ana and Curt Warner about the challenges and isolation of raising kids with autism. They've shared their experiences raising twin boys with "low-functioning" autism in their new book, The Warner Boys: Our Family’s Story of Autism and Hope, and they've graciously shared a glimpse of their parenting experiences here with us. While your child may not have autism, the struggles and triumphs of this parenthood are much the same. I promise, you'll be moved by their story. “It wasn’t ever the pressure or exhaustion that was most troubling to us; it was the realization that our boys were in a kind of pain we couldn’t understand. For some unknown reason, everything was so hard for them.” — Ana Warner, The Warner Boys<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2461</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>49</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 048: How to Stop Battling with Your Child with ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-048-how-to-stop-battling-with-your-child-with-adhd--59248128</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about how to finally stop battling with your child. Day in and day out, the challenging behaviors, the impulsivity, the seeming argumentativeness feel like we are battling with our kids. Sure, most of the triggers are symptoms of their ADHD and/or autism, but that doesn't make it any easier or any less painful to accept these battles. But, the thing is, you don't have to accept these battles — you can stop battling with your child. I'm not saying that you just don't engage, although that's a little part of it. I'm saying there's a way to end the battles, most of them, and have a lot more calm and joy in your family. Listen in to learn more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13088</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2018 18:10:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248128/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_048_stop_battling_with_your_child_penny_final.mp3" length="38985896" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about how to finally stop battling with your child. Day in and day out, the challenging behaviors, the impulsivity, the seeming argumentativeness feel like we are battling with our kids. Sure,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about how to finally stop battling with your child. Day in and day out, the challenging behaviors, the impulsivity, the seeming argumentativeness feel like we are battling with our kids. Sure, most of the triggers are symptoms of their ADHD and/or autism, but that doesn't make it any easier or any less painful to accept these battles. But, the thing is, you don't have to accept these battles — you can stop battling with your child. I'm not saying that you just don't engage, although that's a little part of it. I'm saying there's a way to end the battles, most of them, and have a lot more calm and joy in your family. Listen in to learn more.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1625</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 047: The Importance of Building Emotional Intelligence, with Angela Pruess, LMFT</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-047-the-importance-of-building-emotional-intelligence-with-angela-pruess-lmft--59248184</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with licensed child therapist, Angela Pruess, about emotional intelligence. Building emotional intelligence skills is an important part of raising kids with ADHD, kids who are often dysregulated emotionally and struggle with interactions with others. We discuss emotional awareness, emotional regulation, and how emotional intelligence plays a role in relationships with others and social interactions. Listen in to learn how to assess your child's current emotional intelligence and then work on building skills where there are gaps. "They need to be able to handle the highs and lows in life. Emotional intelligence skills will enable us to see that our kids thrive."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13074</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2018 23:26:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248184/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_047_emotional_intelligence_angela_pruess_final.mp3" length="67411300" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with licensed child therapist, Angela Pruess, about emotional intelligence. Building emotional intelligence skills is an important part of raising kids with ADHD, kids who are often...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with licensed child therapist, Angela Pruess, about emotional intelligence. Building emotional intelligence skills is an important part of raising kids with ADHD, kids who are often dysregulated emotionally and struggle with interactions with others. We discuss emotional awareness, emotional regulation, and how emotional intelligence plays a role in relationships with others and social interactions. Listen in to learn how to assess your child's current emotional intelligence and then work on building skills where there are gaps. "They need to be able to handle the highs and lows in life. Emotional intelligence skills will enable us to see that our kids thrive."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2809</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 046: Find Ways to Say Yes More Often: The Whys &amp; The How</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-046-find-ways-to-say-yes-more-often-the-whys-the-how--59248173</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about saying yes more often. As parents, we are programmed to say no automatically, but we need to find ways to say yes. Our kids already get messages that they “can’t” more than anything else, so they need more yeses, more positives in their day-to-day lives. There are other good reasons to start saying yes more often, too. When everything is no, kids stop asking. Saying no also limits discussion and building and practicing problem-solving skills. Automatic no's often create power struggles, which no one wants. And, lastly, our kids need to feel like they have some control in their lives, and finding ways to say yes to them helps with that. I explain that and how to say yes more without "giving in" in this episode. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=13000</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2018 19:08:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248173/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_046_final_how_can_i_say_yes_penny.mp3" length="38094389" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about saying yes more often. As parents, we are programmed to say no automatically, but we need to find ways to say yes. Our kids already get messages that they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about saying yes more often. As parents, we are programmed to say no automatically, but we need to find ways to say yes. Our kids already get messages that they “can’t” more than anything else, so they need more yeses, more positives in their day-to-day lives. There are other good reasons to start saying yes more often, too. When everything is no, kids stop asking. Saying no also limits discussion and building and practicing problem-solving skills. Automatic no's often create power struggles, which no one wants. And, lastly, our kids need to feel like they have some control in their lives, and finding ways to say yes to them helps with that. I explain that and how to say yes more without "giving in" in this episode. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1588</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 045: Why You Need to Change the Language You Use to Describe Behavior</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-045-why-you-need-to-change-the-language-you-use-to-describe-behavior--59248094</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about the language you use to describe your child's behavior. I see parents day in and day out use language that sounds as though they're describing a character flaw. Language that sets a tone of "can't" and "won't," instead of describing things for what they really are — which is most often your child having a hard time, not giving you a hard time. Join me as I illustrate the differences and how to change your language for greater success and peace in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=12379</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Sep 2018 01:09:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248094/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_045_change_your_language.mp3" length="31816851" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about the language you use to describe your child's behavior. I see parents day in and day out use language that sounds as though they're describing a character...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I was inspired this week to talk to you about the language you use to describe your child's behavior. I see parents day in and day out use language that sounds as though they're describing a character flaw. Language that sets a tone of "can't" and "won't," instead of describing things for what they really are — which is most often your child having a hard time, not giving you a hard time. Join me as I illustrate the differences and how to change your language for greater success and peace in your family.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1326</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 044: What Your Child with ADHD Wishes You Knew, with Dr. Sharon Saline</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-044-what-your-child-with-adhd-wishes-you-knew-with-dr-sharon-saline--59248150</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Sharon Saline about what your child with ADHD wishes you knew, in conjunction with the release of her new book. We're talking about how most kids feel like parents aren't hearing what they're saying, and vice versa. Dr. Saline offers many strategies to communicate better, for a more successful and joyful family life. "Stop. Take a 'time apart.' Think things over when everyone's a little calmer. Then you act." <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=12278</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2018 23:31:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248150/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_044_what_your_child_wishes_you_knew_sharon_saline_81418_5_01_pm.mp3" length="77397808" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Sharon Saline about what your child with ADHD wishes you knew, in conjunction with the release of her new book. We're talking about how most kids feel like parents aren't hearing what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Sharon Saline about what your child with ADHD wishes you knew, in conjunction with the release of her new book. We're talking about how most kids feel like parents aren't hearing what they're saying, and vice versa. Dr. Saline offers many strategies to communicate better, for a more successful and joyful family life. "Stop. Take a 'time apart.' Think things over when everyone's a little calmer. Then you act." <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3225</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 043: Co-Parenting ADHD Under Duress, with Morghan Richardson Esq.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-043-co-parenting-adhd-under-duress-with-morghan-richardson-esq--59248129</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with divorce and family attorney, Morghan Leia Richardson, about how to navigate co-parenting a child with ADHD when the parents don't agree on ADHD treatment and parenting. There are ways to pre-plan for these parenting disagreements during the divorce process, as well as resources and recourse for resolution after. Court proceedings aren't the only option for resolution, and Morghan outlines a few better options. If you and your co-parent disagree on how to parent your child with ADHD, this episode is a must-listen. "Shielding your child from the conflict and a legal process is really important to protect your child. If you go to court about your child's treatment, your child will be required to be involved."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=12265</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2018 23:52:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248129/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_043_co_parenting_under_duress_morghan_richardson.mp3" length="50077697" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with divorce and family attorney, Morghan Leia Richardson, about how to navigate co-parenting a child with ADHD when the parents don't agree on ADHD treatment and parenting. There are ways to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with divorce and family attorney, Morghan Leia Richardson, about how to navigate co-parenting a child with ADHD when the parents don't agree on ADHD treatment and parenting. There are ways to pre-plan for these parenting disagreements during the divorce process, as well as resources and recourse for resolution after. Court proceedings aren't the only option for resolution, and Morghan outlines a few better options. If you and your co-parent disagree on how to parent your child with ADHD, this episode is a must-listen. "Shielding your child from the conflict and a legal process is really important to protect your child. If you go to court about your child's treatment, your child will be required to be involved."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2087</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 042: Your Parenting Pep Talk</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-042-your-parenting-pep-talk--59248145</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm giving you a pep talk for parenting kids with special needs. Use this pep talk when you're feeling low, lacking confidence in your parenting, apprehensive about starting another day, or just having a bad day. If you're feeling yourself slip, use this pep talk as your reminder that you've got this!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=12197</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2018 14:42:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248145/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_042_parenting_pep_talk.mp3" length="8527329" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm giving you a pep talk for parenting kids with special needs. Use this pep talk when you're feeling low, lacking confidence in your parenting, apprehensive about starting another day, or just having a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm giving you a pep talk for parenting kids with special needs. Use this pep talk when you're feeling low, lacking confidence in your parenting, apprehensive about starting another day, or just having a bad day. If you're feeling yourself slip, use this pep talk as your reminder that you've got this!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>356</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 041: Mental Skills Training for Parenting ADHD, with Carrie Cheadle</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-041-mental-skills-training-for-parenting-adhd-with-carrie-cheadle--59248106</link><description><![CDATA[Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b15a8b68bde245e0a7461753b32ffa0b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jul 2018 21:39:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248106/track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_041_final_mental_skills_training_cheadle.mp3" length="66484058" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2770</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dccbe9395f3ea253f54b3e27fd8e811.jpg"/><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 040: How to Help Your Child Make and Keep Friends</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-040-how-to-help-your-child-make-and-keep-friends--59248157</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm sharing tips and strategies to help your child overcome social struggles and make and keep friends. ADHD makes social interactions challenging for kids for a variety of reasons. I outline the different reasons kids with ADHD struggle with friendships, offer strategies to help your child build social skills, and share how to create opportunities for social successes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11931</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jul 2018 20:23:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248157/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_040_final_making_friends_penny.mp3" length="37915712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm sharing tips and strategies to help your child overcome social struggles and make and keep friends. ADHD makes social interactions challenging for kids for a variety of reasons. I outline the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm sharing tips and strategies to help your child overcome social struggles and make and keep friends. ADHD makes social interactions challenging for kids for a variety of reasons. I outline the different reasons kids with ADHD struggle with friendships, offer strategies to help your child build social skills, and share how to create opportunities for social successes.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1580</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 039: There Must Be Something More: Parenting on Your Own Terms, with Heather Chauvin</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-039-there-must-be-something-more-parenting-on-your-own-terms-with-heather-chauvin--59248131</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Heather Chauvin about defining our job as a parent. Heather talks about her journey to discover her authentic role as a mom and how to parent in a way that serves the true goal and purpose of parenting — that serves her sons but also serves herself, too. Listen in to find out what is your real responsibility as a parent? Heather shares how to choose how you live, work, play and PARENT on your terms. "My son taught me how to take back control of how I feel by purely trying to help him manage his own big emotions. As I started implementing these tools and strategies that I was learning, I started to feel in control of my own anger and anxiety. Then I could teach my son how to do the same."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11888</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2018 20:46:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248131/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_039_must_be_more_heather_chauvin_71218_5_30_pm.mp3" length="52645638" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Heather Chauvin about defining our job as a parent. Heather talks about her journey to discover her authentic role as a mom and how to parent in a way that serves the true goal and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Heather Chauvin about defining our job as a parent. Heather talks about her journey to discover her authentic role as a mom and how to parent in a way that serves the true goal and purpose of parenting — that serves her sons but also serves herself, too. Listen in to find out what is your real responsibility as a parent? Heather shares how to choose how you live, work, play and PARENT on your terms. "My son taught me how to take back control of how I feel by purely trying to help him manage his own big emotions. As I started implementing these tools and strategies that I was learning, I started to feel in control of my own anger and anxiety. Then I could teach my son how to do the same."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2194</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 038: Using the Creative Arts as Therapy for ADHD, with Kimberly Beaman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-038-using-the-creative-arts-as-therapy-for-adhd-with-kimberly-beaman--59248170</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with therapist, Kimberly Beaman, about the importance of therapy, how to find the right therapist for your child and your family, and the power of creative arts in the lives of kids with ADHD and other challenges. Listen in as Kim offers a wealth of resources and guidance on therapy for kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11723</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2018 17:05:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248170/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_038_therapy_and_creative_arts_beaman_7518_1_54_pm.mp3" length="62560675" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with therapist, Kimberly Beaman, about the importance of therapy, how to find the right therapist for your child and your family, and the power of creative arts in the lives of kids with ADHD...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with therapist, Kimberly Beaman, about the importance of therapy, how to find the right therapist for your child and your family, and the power of creative arts in the lives of kids with ADHD and other challenges. Listen in as Kim offers a wealth of resources and guidance on therapy for kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2607</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 037: Creating a Non-Toxic Lifestyle for Your Child with ADHD, with Jennifer Scribner</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-037-creating-a-non-toxic-lifestyle-for-your-child-with-adhd-with-jennifer-scribner--59248143</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with nutrition and wellness practitioner, Jennifer Scribner, about creating a non-toxic lifestyle. Many kids with ADHD have genetic polymorphisms like MTHFR that reduce the body's ability to detoxify effectively. A non-toxic lifestyle is important for all of us, but especially kids with ADHD and sensitivities. Listen in for what items should be on your radar and tips and strategies to detoxify your home, for everyone's health. "Detergents, and particularly fabric softeners, are the biggest source of toxins in our homes."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11548</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2018 21:53:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248143/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_037_non_toxic_lifestyle_scribner.mp3" length="56105713" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with nutrition and wellness practitioner, Jennifer Scribner, about creating a non-toxic lifestyle. Many kids with ADHD have genetic polymorphisms like MTHFR that reduce the body's ability to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with nutrition and wellness practitioner, Jennifer Scribner, about creating a non-toxic lifestyle. Many kids with ADHD have genetic polymorphisms like MTHFR that reduce the body's ability to detoxify effectively. A non-toxic lifestyle is important for all of us, but especially kids with ADHD and sensitivities. Listen in for what items should be on your radar and tips and strategies to detoxify your home, for everyone's health. "Detergents, and particularly fabric softeners, are the biggest source of toxins in our homes."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 036: Repeating a Grade in School, with Rebecca Eisenberg</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-036-repeating-a-grade-in-school-with-rebecca-eisenberg--59248139</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with speech-language pathologist and author of "My Second Year of Kindergarten," Becca Eisenberg, about repeating a grade in school. Listen in as we discuss the signs that a child might need to repeat a grade, the aspects of school to think about when making the decision, and how to walk your child through acceptance and the transition. *Note: The sound on this episode isn't as good as I'd like it to be. The message, however, is fantastic, so please forgive the sound quality.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11490</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2018 01:29:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248139/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_036_becca_kindergarten.mp3" length="52396117" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with speech-language pathologist and author of "My Second Year of Kindergarten," Becca Eisenberg, about repeating a grade in school. Listen in as we discuss the signs that a child might need...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with speech-language pathologist and author of "My Second Year of Kindergarten," Becca Eisenberg, about repeating a grade in school. Listen in as we discuss the signs that a child might need to repeat a grade, the aspects of school to think about when making the decision, and how to walk your child through acceptance and the transition. *Note: The sound on this episode isn't as good as I'd like it to be. The message, however, is fantastic, so please forgive the sound quality.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2183</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 035: Tantrum vs. Meltdown: Differences &amp; How to Tame Them</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-035-tantrum-vs-meltdown-differences-how-to-tame-them--59248161</link><description><![CDATA[One of my biggest pet peeves is when people call a meltdown a tantrum. A tantrum is a fit a child throws to get their way. A meltdown is when your child is stuck and their brain has been sort-of hijacked. A child in a meltdown does not have control of their actions. Listen in to this episode as I discuss the full differences between a tantrum and meltdown and provide insights and strategies to begin to tame them. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11473</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2018 21:21:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248161/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_035_final_meltdowns_penny.mp3" length="44371300" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of my biggest pet peeves is when people call a meltdown a tantrum. A tantrum is a fit a child throws to get their way. A meltdown is when your child is stuck and their brain has been sort-of hijacked. A child in a meltdown does not have control of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of my biggest pet peeves is when people call a meltdown a tantrum. A tantrum is a fit a child throws to get their way. A meltdown is when your child is stuck and their brain has been sort-of hijacked. A child in a meltdown does not have control of their actions. Listen in to this episode as I discuss the full differences between a tantrum and meltdown and provide insights and strategies to begin to tame them. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1849</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 034: How to Get the Help Your Child with ADHD Needs in School</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-034-how-to-get-the-help-your-child-with-adhd-needs-in-school--59248169</link><description><![CDATA[School struggles are one of the leading causes of parent and child stress in families with kids with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I share some red flags that your child may need extra help and support in the classroom, outline the steps parents should follow to request services and accommodations at school, and explain the basic differences between a 504 Plan and an IEP. * Please note: Nothing in this episode or in this post constitutes legal advice. I am not an attorney. Always consult an attorney for interpretation of and guidance on the law. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11462</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2018 00:32:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248169/034_final_accommodationsatschool_penny_3_14_18_5_11_pm.mp3" length="62525566" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>School struggles are one of the leading causes of parent and child stress in families with kids with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I share some red flags that your child may need extra help and support in the classroom, outline...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[School struggles are one of the leading causes of parent and child stress in families with kids with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I share some red flags that your child may need extra help and support in the classroom, outline the steps parents should follow to request services and accommodations at school, and explain the basic differences between a 504 Plan and an IEP. * Please note: Nothing in this episode or in this post constitutes legal advice. I am not an attorney. Always consult an attorney for interpretation of and guidance on the law. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2606</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 033: Why Behavior Isn't "BAD," with Holly Moses</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-033-why-behavior-isn-t-bad-with-holly-moses--59248175</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with behavior analyst, Holly Moses, about why looking at behavior as "bad" isn't the best parenting approach for kids with ADHD. Often, the gap between expectation and capability leads to unwanted ("bad") behavior. Listen in to learn effective strategies to elicit appropriate behavior, and to effectively address unwanted behavior. Holly and I will adjust your mindset for behavior so you can be the parent your child needs.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">85b68d3baca100f1c20a31830c85de32</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2018 12:20:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248175/track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_033_holly_moses_behavior_is_not_bad.mp3" length="96978360" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with behavior analyst, Holly Moses, about why looking at behavior as "bad" isn't the best parenting approach for kids with ADHD. Often, the gap between expectation and capability leads to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with behavior analyst, Holly Moses, about why looking at behavior as "bad" isn't the best parenting approach for kids with ADHD. Often, the gap between expectation and capability leads to unwanted ("bad") behavior. Listen in to learn effective strategies to elicit appropriate behavior, and to effectively address unwanted behavior. Holly and I will adjust your mindset for behavior so you can be the parent your child needs.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4041</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dccbe9395f3ea253f54b3e27fd8e811.jpg"/><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 032: Mother’s Quest: Following Your Purpose and Being True to Yourself, with Julie Neale</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-032-mother-s-quest-following-your-purpose-and-being-true-to-yourself-with-julie-neale--59248193</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Julie Neale about our Mother's Quest, discovering your passion, living with purpose and intention, and surviving and thriving when raising kids with ADHD. Julie is sensitive to the constraints of this special parenthood, having two differently-wired boys of her own. Listen to learn how to slow things down, take a pause, and move forward with your purpose and intention. "We don't have to figure it out on our own."     <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11434</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2018 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248193/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_032_mothers_quest_julie_neale_22818_1_16_pm.mp3" length="83639611" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Julie Neale about our Mother's Quest, discovering your passion, living with purpose and intention, and surviving and thriving when raising kids with ADHD. Julie is sensitive to the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Julie Neale about our Mother's Quest, discovering your passion, living with purpose and intention, and surviving and thriving when raising kids with ADHD. Julie is sensitive to the constraints of this special parenthood, having two differently-wired boys of her own. Listen to learn how to slow things down, take a pause, and move forward with your purpose and intention. "We don't have to figure it out on our own."     <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3485</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 031: A Conversation with Frank South on Life with ADHD and Letting Kids with ADHD Find Their Way</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-031-a-conversation-with-frank-south-on-life-with-adhd-and-letting-kids-with-adhd-find-their-way--59248211</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Frank South about his life with ADHD and raising his two kids with ADHD. Frank has had an intense, fascinating, challenging life with ADHD, which makes for an intense, fascinating, challenging parenthood raising kids with ADHD. He's compiled his family stories in a new book called, A Chicken in the Wind and How He Grew. Learn more about Frank's life and parenthood, his insights on raising kids with ADHD and letting them find themselves, and why having ADHD is kind of like being a chicken in the wind. "We're there to listen, support, and help them solve problems, not to bring more outside judgements and goals that we put on them."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11398</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2018 17:23:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248211/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_031_letting_kids_find_their_way_frank_south.mp3" length="90879500" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Frank South about his life with ADHD and raising his two kids with ADHD. Frank has had an intense, fascinating, challenging life with ADHD, which makes for an intense, fascinating,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Frank South about his life with ADHD and raising his two kids with ADHD. Frank has had an intense, fascinating, challenging life with ADHD, which makes for an intense, fascinating, challenging parenthood raising kids with ADHD. He's compiled his family stories in a new book called, A Chicken in the Wind and How He Grew. Learn more about Frank's life and parenthood, his insights on raising kids with ADHD and letting them find themselves, and why having ADHD is kind of like being a chicken in the wind. "We're there to listen, support, and help them solve problems, not to bring more outside judgements and goals that we put on them."<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3787</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 030: ADHD Medication 101: What Parents Need to Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-030-adhd-medication-101-what-parents-need-to-know--59248176</link><description><![CDATA[There's little that instills more fear in parents than the idea of giving their child ADHD medication. That fear is built on a foundation of largely myths and fear-mongering, but it exists nonetheless. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm sharing the basics of ADHD medication, as well as nuances and little-known facts I've learned over the years. This is the information I desperately wish I'd had when starting and trialing ADHD medications. This is the information every parent should have before they fill the first prescription for their child. * Please note: Nothing on this episode or in this post constitutes medical advice. I am not a clinician. Always consult your child's doctor for guidance before making any medication decisions or changes. Enjoy! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11371</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2018 22:12:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248176/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_030_medication101.mp3" length="48865197" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There's little that instills more fear in parents than the idea of giving their child ADHD medication. That fear is built on a foundation of largely myths and fear-mongering, but it exists nonetheless. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There's little that instills more fear in parents than the idea of giving their child ADHD medication. That fear is built on a foundation of largely myths and fear-mongering, but it exists nonetheless. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm sharing the basics of ADHD medication, as well as nuances and little-known facts I've learned over the years. This is the information I desperately wish I'd had when starting and trialing ADHD medications. This is the information every parent should have before they fill the first prescription for their child. * Please note: Nothing on this episode or in this post constitutes medical advice. I am not a clinician. Always consult your child's doctor for guidance before making any medication decisions or changes. Enjoy! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2036</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 029: Out-of-the-Box Parenting Key for ADHD, with Roberto Olivardia PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-029-out-of-the-box-parenting-key-for-adhd-with-roberto-olivardia-phd--59248190</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Roberto Olivardia, a Clinical Instructor at Harvard Medical School, about how imperative it is to think outside the box when raising kids with ADHD. And Dr. Olivardia should know, he has ADHD himself and employs some very creative strategies to manage his own challenges. His insights and experience will inspire your parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">250a7c021bc2cd0baf325b03d99001fc</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248190/track_83ge2_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_029_out_of_the_box_parenting_roberto_olivardia_2818_5_14_pm.mp3" length="87455787" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Roberto Olivardia, a Clinical Instructor at Harvard Medical School, about how imperative it is to think outside the box when raising kids with ADHD. And Dr. Olivardia should know, he...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Roberto Olivardia, a Clinical Instructor at Harvard Medical School, about how imperative it is to think outside the box when raising kids with ADHD. And Dr. Olivardia should know, he has ADHD himself and employs some very creative strategies to manage his own challenges. His insights and experience will inspire your parenting.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3644</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4dccbe9395f3ea253f54b3e27fd8e811.jpg"/><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 028: Helicopter Parenting is Sure to Crash and Burn When Your Child has ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-028-helicopter-parenting-is-sure-to-crash-and-burn-when-your-child-has-adhd--59248187</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling the misnomer of helicopter parenting. We think hovering over our kids is protecting them, and loving them, but it actually does more harm than good. By hovering over our kids and overprotecting them, we are robbing them of building lagging skills, successful future independence, and the joy of doing something on your own for the first time. So, let's dive in and get your out of the pilot's seat. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11289</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Feb 2018 20:20:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248187/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_028_helicopter_parenting_penny_2118_2_11_pm.mp3" length="45298543" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling the misnomer of helicopter parenting. We think hovering over our kids is protecting them, and loving them, but it actually does more harm than good. By hovering over our kids and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm tackling the misnomer of helicopter parenting. We think hovering over our kids is protecting them, and loving them, but it actually does more harm than good. By hovering over our kids and overprotecting them, we are robbing them of building lagging skills, successful future independence, and the joy of doing something on your own for the first time. So, let's dive in and get your out of the pilot's seat. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1888</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 027: Teens with ADHD and the Reality of Motivation, with Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-027-teens-with-adhd-and-the-reality-of-motivation-with-jeff-copper-mba-pcc-pcac--59248171</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Jeff Copper of DIG Coaching, about teens with ADHD and the reality of motivation. I hear parents complain about their teen with ADHD and their lack of motivation very frequently. I am living this struggle myself right now, with my own teen son with ADHD. What Jeff and I talk about is why kids with ADHD lack motivation — for things like school performance —and how to both spark some motivation for the brain with ADHD, and survive that chapter of your parenthood. Please note: while we do talk specifically about teens with ADHD in this episode, a great deal of our conversation applies for parents of younger kids with ADHD, and it also helps you prepare better for the teen years ahead of you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11262</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2018 03:06:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248171/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_027_teen_motivation_jeff_copper_12518_9_55_am.mp3" length="63880381" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Jeff Copper of DIG Coaching, about teens with ADHD and the reality of motivation. I hear parents complain about their teen with ADHD and their lack of motivation very frequently. I am...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Jeff Copper of DIG Coaching, about teens with ADHD and the reality of motivation. I hear parents complain about their teen with ADHD and their lack of motivation very frequently. I am living this struggle myself right now, with my own teen son with ADHD. What Jeff and I talk about is why kids with ADHD lack motivation — for things like school performance —and how to both spark some motivation for the brain with ADHD, and survive that chapter of your parenthood. Please note: while we do talk specifically about teens with ADHD in this episode, a great deal of our conversation applies for parents of younger kids with ADHD, and it also helps you prepare better for the teen years ahead of you.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2662</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 026: How to Create a Parenthood that Works for Raising Kids with ADHD, by Ignoring Traditional Parenting Norms</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-026-how-to-create-a-parenthood-that-works-for-raising-kids-with-adhd-by-ignoring-traditional-parenting-norms--59248215</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about why traditional parenting norms don't work for kids with ADHD, and how to create a parenthood that works for your kid. Here are the steps I talk about in detail in this episode: Destroy traditional parenting ideals and norms. Cast them out of your mind.They don’t work for ADHD. How to be a detective and learn your child’s truth. Use that truth as your guide to rewrite the plan for your parenthood, being sure expectations are developmentally appropriate, and respect who your child truly is. Focus on the positive more than the negative. Create opportunities for success, and for building confidence. (Many kids with ADHD feel they are “stupid,” “bad,” or “broken” and this helps to counter that.) Don’t expect the “norm,” and don’t expect perfection. Some of this episode overlaps with episode 017: Throw Out the Traditional Parenting Rulebook. That's how crucial and powerful this lesson is — that I repeatedly talk about it. :) <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11244</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2018 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248215/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_026_penny_parenting_rulebook.mp3" length="50398690" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about why traditional parenting norms don't work for kids with ADHD, and how to create a parenthood that works for your kid. Here are the steps I talk about in detail in this episode: Destroy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking about why traditional parenting norms don't work for kids with ADHD, and how to create a parenthood that works for your kid. Here are the steps I talk about in detail in this episode: Destroy traditional parenting ideals and norms. Cast them out of your mind.They don’t work for ADHD. How to be a detective and learn your child’s truth. Use that truth as your guide to rewrite the plan for your parenthood, being sure expectations are developmentally appropriate, and respect who your child truly is. Focus on the positive more than the negative. Create opportunities for success, and for building confidence. (Many kids with ADHD feel they are “stupid,” “bad,” or “broken” and this helps to counter that.) Don’t expect the “norm,” and don’t expect perfection. Some of this episode overlaps with episode 017: Throw Out the Traditional Parenting Rulebook. That's how crucial and powerful this lesson is — that I repeatedly talk about it. :) <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2100</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 025: The Benefits of Screen Time and Gaming for Kids with ADHD, with Randy Kulman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-025-the-benefits-of-screen-time-and-gaming-for-kids-with-adhd-with-randy-kulman--59248229</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Randy Kulman, of Learning Works for Kids, about screen time and gaming. We focus our discussion on the benefits of gaming and technology, including a list of games that are good for your child. Yep, I said good for your child. Listen now to find out what skills can be improved, and by which games. And, recognize that screen time isn't all bad. Enjoy! *Note: I experienced a small technology glitch when recording this episode that resulted in an audio glitch in the middle of the recording. It doesn't affect the awesome information you get from this episode. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11223</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2018 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248229/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_pap_025_gaming_kulman.mp3" length="72725860" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Randy Kulman, of Learning Works for Kids, about screen time and gaming. We focus our discussion on the benefits of gaming and technology, including a list of games that are good for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Dr. Randy Kulman, of Learning Works for Kids, about screen time and gaming. We focus our discussion on the benefits of gaming and technology, including a list of games that are good for your child. Yep, I said good for your child. Listen now to find out what skills can be improved, and by which games. And, recognize that screen time isn't all bad. Enjoy! *Note: I experienced a small technology glitch when recording this episode that resulted in an audio glitch in the middle of the recording. It doesn't affect the awesome information you get from this episode. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3031</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 024: New Year, New Opportunity for Your ADHD Parenthood</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-024-new-year-new-opportunity-for-your-adhd-parenthood--59248179</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the podcast, I was inspired by the celebration of a new year (so hard to believe it's 2018!). I don't like to make New Year's Resolutions, because I associate those with deprivation. However, I love to set an inspirational word for the new year and think of it as a sort-of clean slate and opportunity for improvement. In this show, I challenge you to implement 5 key opportunities for improvement in your life, your child's life, and your family. New Year. New Opportunity. Yes, I'll take it! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11216</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2018 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248179/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_024_newyear_penny.mp3" length="41161374" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the podcast, I was inspired by the celebration of a new year (so hard to believe it's 2018!). I don't like to make New Year's Resolutions, because I associate those with deprivation. However, I love to set an inspirational word for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the podcast, I was inspired by the celebration of a new year (so hard to believe it's 2018!). I don't like to make New Year's Resolutions, because I associate those with deprivation. However, I love to set an inspirational word for the new year and think of it as a sort-of clean slate and opportunity for improvement. In this show, I challenge you to implement 5 key opportunities for improvement in your life, your child's life, and your family. New Year. New Opportunity. Yes, I'll take it! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1715</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 023: Healthy Family Relationships with ADHD, with ImpactADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-023-healthy-family-relationships-with-adhd-with-impactadhd--59248178</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster of ImpactADHD about maintaining healthy family relationships in a family with a child with ADHD. We define what a healthy relationship is, how to repair broken relationships, and how to maintain healthy relationships between spouses/partners, siblings, and with yourself. How do you get on the same page when co-parenting? Can you accept different parenting approaches? Let's talk about your relationships! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11204</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2017 23:14:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248178/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_healthy_relationships_impact_adhd_023.mp3" length="85208839" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster of ImpactADHD about maintaining healthy family relationships in a family with a child with ADHD. We define what a healthy relationship is, how to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster of ImpactADHD about maintaining healthy family relationships in a family with a child with ADHD. We define what a healthy relationship is, how to repair broken relationships, and how to maintain healthy relationships between spouses/partners, siblings, and with yourself. How do you get on the same page when co-parenting? Can you accept different parenting approaches? Let's talk about your relationships! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3551</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 022: Your Thoughts are the Key to Nearly Everything — Are you a victim or a survivor?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-022-your-thoughts-are-the-key-to-nearly-everything-are-you-a-victim-or-a-survivor--59248153</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the podcast, I discuss your thoughts, and how they hold the key to everything. Being mindful of the emotions and thoughts you attach to a situation, and changing them to serve you and your family better. It's not easy to do, but let's talk about taking more control of your thoughts, and how powerful that will be in your life. Positive thinking leads to positive parenting, and positive parenting leads to better behavior. Positive thinking and better behavior make for better mental and physical health for all. Listen now and learn how to change your thoughts. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11197</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2017 18:41:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248153/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_022_final_recording_thoughts_penny.mp3" length="48401890" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the podcast, I discuss your thoughts, and how they hold the key to everything. Being mindful of the emotions and thoughts you attach to a situation, and changing them to serve you and your family better. It's not easy to do, but...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the podcast, I discuss your thoughts, and how they hold the key to everything. Being mindful of the emotions and thoughts you attach to a situation, and changing them to serve you and your family better. It's not easy to do, but let's talk about taking more control of your thoughts, and how powerful that will be in your life. Positive thinking leads to positive parenting, and positive parenting leads to better behavior. Positive thinking and better behavior make for better mental and physical health for all. Listen now and learn how to change your thoughts. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2017</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 021: Unique Learners: Why “Try Harder” Doesn’t Work, with Suzanne Cresswell</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-021-unique-learners-why-try-harder-doesn-t-work-with-suzanne-cresswell--59248172</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational and physical therapist, Suzanne Cresswell. Often, kids with ADHD are told to "try harder," especially in school. Suzanne explains the physiology behind how the brain works in an individual with ADHD and challenged learners, which further explains why telling a child with ADHD to "try harder" can't help. This was a truly fascinating conversation for me — I learned a great deal from Suzanne that I hadn't yet learned in 9+ years of obsessing about ADHD and how to help my child. We talk about the role the sensory systems play in neurological function, and the invisible impact it often has for kids with ADHD and learning challenges. How each student acquires knowledge, i.e., learns, is different, but sensory has a huge impact on it. Rhythm is a key component. Let's talk about unique learners!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11179</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2017 22:11:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248172/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_cresswell_021.mp3" length="91022442" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational and physical therapist, Suzanne Cresswell. Often, kids with ADHD are told to "try harder," especially in school. Suzanne explains the physiology behind how the brain works in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I'm talking with occupational and physical therapist, Suzanne Cresswell. Often, kids with ADHD are told to "try harder," especially in school. Suzanne explains the physiology behind how the brain works in an individual with ADHD and challenged learners, which further explains why telling a child with ADHD to "try harder" can't help. This was a truly fascinating conversation for me — I learned a great deal from Suzanne that I hadn't yet learned in 9+ years of obsessing about ADHD and how to help my child. We talk about the role the sensory systems play in neurological function, and the invisible impact it often has for kids with ADHD and learning challenges. How each student acquires knowledge, i.e., learns, is different, but sensory has a huge impact on it. Rhythm is a key component. Let's talk about unique learners!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3793</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 020: The Benefit of Seeing Your Child’s ADHD as an Iceberg</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-020-the-benefit-of-seeing-your-child-s-adhd-as-an-iceberg--59248212</link><description><![CDATA[This episode of the podcast is inspired by my new book, The Hidden Layers of ADHD: The Underlying Complexities of ADHD, and Their Powerful Affect on Your Parenting Success. I'm so excited to share with you why you should look at ADHD like an iceberg, what that means for your parenting, and all the hidden layers of ADHD you need to understand in order to do your best for your child. Listen in as I outline and briefly explain each hidden layer. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11169</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2017 23:35:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248212/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_gb_final_your_child_iceberg_020.mp3" length="82926154" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode of the podcast is inspired by my new book, The Hidden Layers of ADHD: The Underlying Complexities of ADHD, and Their Powerful Affect on Your Parenting Success. I'm so excited to share with you why you should look at ADHD like an iceberg,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode of the podcast is inspired by my new book, The Hidden Layers of ADHD: The Underlying Complexities of ADHD, and Their Powerful Affect on Your Parenting Success. I'm so excited to share with you why you should look at ADHD like an iceberg, what that means for your parenting, and all the hidden layers of ADHD you need to understand in order to do your best for your child. Listen in as I outline and briefly explain each hidden layer. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3456</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 019: Neurodiversity, Differently Wired Kids, and Tilt Parenting, with Debbie Reber</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-019-neurodiversity-differently-wired-kids-and-tilt-parenting-with-debbie-reber--59248260</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Debbie Reber and I discuss shifting your mindset and tilting your parenting to become the best parent you can be for your differently wired child. Debbie, founder of Tilt Parenting, is passionate about changing the conversation on neurodiversity and differently wired kids from one of being "broken," to being different but having many gifts to share. Listen in as we touch on everything from school struggles to the importance of self-care, and many nuggets of wisdom somewhere in between. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11094</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2017 02:07:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248260/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_019_tilt_parenting_debbie_reber.mp3" length="70764169" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Debbie Reber and I discuss shifting your mindset and tilting your parenting to become the best parent you can be for your differently wired child. Debbie, founder of Tilt Parenting, is passionate about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Debbie Reber and I discuss shifting your mindset and tilting your parenting to become the best parent you can be for your differently wired child. Debbie, founder of Tilt Parenting, is passionate about changing the conversation on neurodiversity and differently wired kids from one of being "broken," to being different but having many gifts to share. Listen in as we touch on everything from school struggles to the importance of self-care, and many nuggets of wisdom somewhere in between. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2949</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 018: Mom Guilt, Self-Compassion, and Forgiving Ourselves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-018-mom-guilt-self-compassion-and-forgiving-ourselves--59248174</link><description><![CDATA[I had a very emotional conversation with a coaching client this week, and it inspired me to talk to you about making mistakes as parents, forgiving ourselves, having a healthy conversation with ourselves about it, and living in a place of self-compassion. Mom guilt doesn't serve you, and it doesn't serve your child or your family either. Be authentic and be human, but forgive yourself for the things in your past that were the best you could do at that moment. Hindsight really is 20/20, but looking back doesn't serve us. Listen in and learn how to be a more compassionate, authentic mom. You are enough! I promise.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=11042</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2017 22:19:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248174/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_018_mom_guilt_and_self_compassion_112117_5_12_pm.mp3" length="44620822" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I had a very emotional conversation with a coaching client this week, and it inspired me to talk to you about making mistakes as parents, forgiving ourselves, having a healthy conversation with ourselves about it, and living in a place of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I had a very emotional conversation with a coaching client this week, and it inspired me to talk to you about making mistakes as parents, forgiving ourselves, having a healthy conversation with ourselves about it, and living in a place of self-compassion. Mom guilt doesn't serve you, and it doesn't serve your child or your family either. Be authentic and be human, but forgive yourself for the things in your past that were the best you could do at that moment. Hindsight really is 20/20, but looking back doesn't serve us. Listen in and learn how to be a more compassionate, authentic mom. You are enough! I promise.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1860</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 017: Throwing Out the Traditional Parenting Rulebook for Parenting Success</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-017-throwing-out-the-traditional-parenting-rulebook-for-parenting-success--59248202</link><description><![CDATA[You have to get your mind right in order to be an effective parent to a child with ADHD. One of the facets of getting your mind right for this special parenthood is to throw out the traditional parenting rulebooks and norms, and rewrite a custom parenting rulebook for your child, where they are today. For your child, and your entire family. In this podcast, I explain what I mean by writing your own rulebook for parenting, and how to go about it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=10846</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2017 01:09:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248202/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_017_throw_out_rulebook_penny_111417_8_03_pm.mp3" length="59315640" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You have to get your mind right in order to be an effective parent to a child with ADHD. One of the facets of getting your mind right for this special parenthood is to throw out the traditional parenting rulebooks and norms, and rewrite a custom...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You have to get your mind right in order to be an effective parent to a child with ADHD. One of the facets of getting your mind right for this special parenthood is to throw out the traditional parenting rulebooks and norms, and rewrite a custom parenting rulebook for your child, where they are today. For your child, and your entire family. In this podcast, I explain what I mean by writing your own rulebook for parenting, and how to go about it. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2472</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 016: Empowering Your Kids Against Bullying, with Danielle Matthew</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-016-empowering-your-kids-against-bullying-with-danielle-matthew--59248209</link><description><![CDATA[Danielle Matthew has devoted her work to helping kids through the emotional, and often damaging, experience of being bullied. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Danielle and I talk about one-on-one support, guidance and education to empower children and teens to heal from bullying, address conflict, and move forward. Listen and learn what you can do to help your child if/when they are the victim of bullying. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=10774</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Nov 2017 16:11:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248209/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_pap016_empowering_our_kids_against_bullying_danielle_matthew.mp3" length="75150860" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Danielle Matthew has devoted her work to helping kids through the emotional, and often damaging, experience of being bullied. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Danielle and I talk about one-on-one support, guidance and education to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Danielle Matthew has devoted her work to helping kids through the emotional, and often damaging, experience of being bullied. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Danielle and I talk about one-on-one support, guidance and education to empower children and teens to heal from bullying, address conflict, and move forward. Listen and learn what you can do to help your child if/when they are the victim of bullying. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3132</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 015: Behavior is Just a Symptom, with Penny Williams</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-015-behavior-is-just-a-symptom-with-penny-williams--59248207</link><description><![CDATA[I've been reading Ross Greene's newest book, Raising Human Beings, and I am so inspired to share how his insights and approach to parenting challenging kids can be a powerful force in your parenting. Of course, I've been a fan of Greene's work for years, and I recommend his books to parents constantly. What you have to understand first, before you can implement his collaborative problem solving process with success, is that behavior is simply a symptom of the actual problem. The behavior is not the problem. Stick with me... it makes sense. It's a problem, but not the problem. Learn all about it in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=10139</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2017 01:17:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248207/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_015_behavior_is_just_a_symptom_11117_6_16_pm.mp3" length="58923176" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I've been reading Ross Greene's newest book, Raising Human Beings, and I am so inspired to share how his insights and approach to parenting challenging kids can be a powerful force in your parenting. Of course, I've been a fan of Greene's work for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I've been reading Ross Greene's newest book, Raising Human Beings, and I am so inspired to share how his insights and approach to parenting challenging kids can be a powerful force in your parenting. Of course, I've been a fan of Greene's work for years, and I recommend his books to parents constantly. What you have to understand first, before you can implement his collaborative problem solving process with success, is that behavior is simply a symptom of the actual problem. The behavior is not the problem. Stick with me... it makes sense. It's a problem, but not the problem. Learn all about it in this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2455</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 014: Finding Success with ADHD, with Ben Glenn</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-014-finding-success-with-adhd-with-ben-glenn--59248177</link><description><![CDATA[I'm so excited to have Ben Glenn (aka, The Chalkguy) on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. He is a remarkable human being and offers great insights to parents raising kids with ADHD and/or learning disabilities, because he was that kid. Ben begins by sharing his story of growing up with learning disabilities and ADHD, unhappy in a self-contained classroom for many years. Then, with the help of an out-of-the-box-thinking high school principal, Ben discovered his gift — art. During our conversation he shares what it's like to grow up thinking something's wrong with you, and how he found his motivation and became a successful, happy adult. Hearing his story also reinforces that what our kids are doing right now (like cheating in Ben's case), doesn't necessarily mean they will grow up to still employ those unsavory coping mechanisms. Ben is a fun and funny guy. His energy and drive to help others are infectious. His story will inspire you. Enjoy! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=10085</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248177/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_014_ben_glenn_succeeding_with_adhd_102317_10_14_am.mp3" length="75008545" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I'm so excited to have Ben Glenn (aka, The Chalkguy) on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. He is a remarkable human being and offers great insights to parents raising kids with ADHD and/or learning disabilities, because he was that kid. Ben...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'm so excited to have Ben Glenn (aka, The Chalkguy) on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast. He is a remarkable human being and offers great insights to parents raising kids with ADHD and/or learning disabilities, because he was that kid. Ben begins by sharing his story of growing up with learning disabilities and ADHD, unhappy in a self-contained classroom for many years. Then, with the help of an out-of-the-box-thinking high school principal, Ben discovered his gift — art. During our conversation he shares what it's like to grow up thinking something's wrong with you, and how he found his motivation and became a successful, happy adult. Hearing his story also reinforces that what our kids are doing right now (like cheating in Ben's case), doesn't necessarily mean they will grow up to still employ those unsavory coping mechanisms. Ben is a fun and funny guy. His energy and drive to help others are infectious. His story will inspire you. Enjoy! <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3126</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 013: Why Your Child Gets Angry and What You Can Do About It, with Sarah Wayland</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-013-why-your-child-gets-angry-and-what-you-can-do-about-it-with-sarah-wayland--59248210</link><description><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat. She truly understands kids with ADHD and autism and always offers great insights in informed and compassionate parenting. My favorite topic to turn to Sarah about is the idea that "behavior is communication." She and I are both huge fans of Ross Greene's work, where he outlines this concept and much more. This is Part 2 of a 4-part series on behavior as communication that I'm doing with Sarah on the podcast. I'm super excited about it! Part 1 was episode 003: What Your Child's Behavior is Actually Telling You. If you haven't listened to it yet, you definitely should, but you don't have to listen to it before this episode. On this show, Sarah and I discuss why kids with ADHD get angry, and what parents can do about it. We discuss emotions, developmental age/delay, meeting your child where they are, and handling big emotions and intense kids. There are a lot of really powerful insights on behavior, deciphering what it really means, and having a positive affect on it going forward.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=9928</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2017 10:15:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248210/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_013_behavior_is_communication_part_2_final.mp3" length="91307699" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat. She truly understands kids with ADHD and autism and always offers great insights in informed and compassionate parenting. My favorite topic to turn to Sarah about is the idea that "behavior is communication." She and I are both huge fans of Ross Greene's work, where he outlines this concept and much more. This is Part 2 of a 4-part series on behavior as communication that I'm doing with Sarah on the podcast. I'm super excited about it! Part 1 was episode 003: What Your Child's Behavior is Actually Telling You. If you haven't listened to it yet, you definitely should, but you don't have to listen to it before this episode. On this show, Sarah and I discuss why kids with ADHD get angry, and what parents can do about it. We discuss emotions, developmental age/delay, meeting your child where they are, and handling big emotions and intense kids. There are a lot of really powerful insights on behavior, deciphering what it really means, and having a positive affect on it going forward.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3805</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 012: Compassionate Parenting: Be a Student of Your Child, with Brian R. King</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-012-compassionate-parenting-be-a-student-of-your-child-with-brian-r-king--59248185</link><description><![CDATA[There can be no debate that parenting kids with ADHD (and/or autism) is hard. Super hard! However, there are many approaches that can soften the edges and make this special brand of parenthood a little easier, and a lot more successful. Brian R. King, aka The Compassionate Dad, teaches parents to be a student of your child — to let your child's truth guide you. It's all about compassionate parenting — compassion for your child, and for yourself — and it's powerful for parents of kids with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Brian and I discuss compassionate parenting, how to implement it, and the power that it holds for families of kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=9258</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Aug 2017 23:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248185/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_gb_compassionate_parenting_final.mp3" length="56283764" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There can be no debate that parenting kids with ADHD (and/or autism) is hard. Super hard! However, there are many approaches that can soften the edges and make this special brand of parenthood a little easier, and a lot more successful. Brian R. King,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There can be no debate that parenting kids with ADHD (and/or autism) is hard. Super hard! However, there are many approaches that can soften the edges and make this special brand of parenthood a little easier, and a lot more successful. Brian R. King, aka The Compassionate Dad, teaches parents to be a student of your child — to let your child's truth guide you. It's all about compassionate parenting — compassion for your child, and for yourself — and it's powerful for parents of kids with ADHD. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, Brian and I discuss compassionate parenting, how to implement it, and the power that it holds for families of kids with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2345</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 011: The Magic Parenting Phrase for ADHD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-011-the-magic-parenting-phrase-for-adhd--59248204</link><description><![CDATA[I'm so excited to share the magic parenting phrase for kids with ADHD (and autism) and how to implement this strategy successfully with your child! This one phrase is so, very helpful. Truly, I cannot emphasize enough how "magical" asking your child this one question can be. So, sit back and get ready to get your mind right. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8807</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jun 2017 16:55:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248204/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap011_the_magic_parenting_phrase_final.mp3" length="45869057" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I'm so excited to share the magic parenting phrase for kids with ADHD (and autism) and how to implement this strategy successfully with your child! This one phrase is so, very helpful. Truly, I cannot emphasize enough how "magical" asking your child...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I'm so excited to share the magic parenting phrase for kids with ADHD (and autism) and how to implement this strategy successfully with your child! This one phrase is so, very helpful. Truly, I cannot emphasize enough how "magical" asking your child this one question can be. So, sit back and get ready to get your mind right. Enjoy!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1912</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 010: ADHD is Different for Girls, with Linda Roggli, PCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-010-adhd-is-different-for-girls-with-linda-roggli-pcc--59248220</link><description><![CDATA[ADHD can look very different in girls and women than it does in boys and men. That different appearance of symptoms, coupled with gender stereotypes, means girls with ADHD often fall through the cracks and struggle without a diagnosis for much longer. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with ADHD Coach and adult with ADHD, Linda Roggli, PCC about the symptoms to watch for in girls, the role estrogen plays in ADHD symptom severity, and the ways that ADHD is just plain different for girls. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8462</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2017 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248220/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_010_adhd_in_girls_roggli_gb_final.mp3" length="83817661" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>ADHD can look very different in girls and women than it does in boys and men. That different appearance of symptoms, coupled with gender stereotypes, means girls with ADHD often fall through the cracks and struggle without a diagnosis for much longer....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ADHD can look very different in girls and women than it does in boys and men. That different appearance of symptoms, coupled with gender stereotypes, means girls with ADHD often fall through the cracks and struggle without a diagnosis for much longer. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with ADHD Coach and adult with ADHD, Linda Roggli, PCC about the symptoms to watch for in girls, the role estrogen plays in ADHD symptom severity, and the ways that ADHD is just plain different for girls. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3493</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 009: Why Intelligence Isn’t the Sole Predictor of Capability</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-009-why-intelligence-isn-t-the-sole-predictor-of-capability--59248236</link><description><![CDATA[I cannot tell you how upset it makes me for someone to tell my child that he's "smart enough" to do something (that he obviously hasn't done to their satisfaction). It makes me livid folks. Intelligence is not the sole predictor of capability, especially in the traditional public school system. Especially when you have ADHD and/or learning disabilities. So, this week we're discussing "smart enough" on the Parenting ADHD Podcast. I'll explain what's wrong with telling a child they're "smart enough to do _______" and fill you in on what other factors predict capability. I'll give you a hint, there are a lot of them. So, sit back and get ready to get your mind right. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8417</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2017 21:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248236/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_009_smart_enough_penny_williams_final.mp3" length="43515529" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>I cannot tell you how upset it makes me for someone to tell my child that he's "smart enough" to do something (that he obviously hasn't done to their satisfaction). It makes me livid folks. Intelligence is not the sole predictor of capability,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[I cannot tell you how upset it makes me for someone to tell my child that he's "smart enough" to do something (that he obviously hasn't done to their satisfaction). It makes me livid folks. Intelligence is not the sole predictor of capability, especially in the traditional public school system. Especially when you have ADHD and/or learning disabilities. So, this week we're discussing "smart enough" on the Parenting ADHD Podcast. I'll explain what's wrong with telling a child they're "smart enough to do _______" and fill you in on what other factors predict capability. I'll give you a hint, there are a lot of them. So, sit back and get ready to get your mind right. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1813</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 008: Organizing Kids with ADHD, with Leslie Josel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-008-organizing-kids-with-adhd-with-leslie-josel--59248235</link><description><![CDATA[Kids with ADHD are exponentially more likely to have poor planning and organization skills, part of their poor executive functioning. That's something Leslie Josel of Order Out of Chaos knows all too well... as do I. This can be a constant battle for parents of kids with ADHD, but it doesn't have to be. In this episode, Leslie and I discuss different organizational challenges of kids with ADHD, and what products, strategies, tools, training, and expectations parents can implement to make a positive difference with this struggle, both at school and at home. You will love Leslie's energy and passion as she shares many valuable organizational strategies that work for organizationally-challenged kids with ADHD, including her own son, who's now a successful college student (it is possible folks!). Grab pen and paper and start the podcast audio, and get ready for some new strategies you can implement today. And, don't forget to download Leslie's free One-Stop List of Recommended Products for ADHD Organization below.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8305</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2017 00:20:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248235/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_008_organizing_josel_gb_final.mp3" length="83532404" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kids with ADHD are exponentially more likely to have poor planning and organization skills, part of their poor executive functioning. That's something Leslie Josel of Order Out of Chaos knows all too well... as do I. This can be a constant battle for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kids with ADHD are exponentially more likely to have poor planning and organization skills, part of their poor executive functioning. That's something Leslie Josel of Order Out of Chaos knows all too well... as do I. This can be a constant battle for parents of kids with ADHD, but it doesn't have to be. In this episode, Leslie and I discuss different organizational challenges of kids with ADHD, and what products, strategies, tools, training, and expectations parents can implement to make a positive difference with this struggle, both at school and at home. You will love Leslie's energy and passion as she shares many valuable organizational strategies that work for organizationally-challenged kids with ADHD, including her own son, who's now a successful college student (it is possible folks!). Grab pen and paper and start the podcast audio, and get ready for some new strategies you can implement today. And, don't forget to download Leslie's free One-Stop List of Recommended Products for ADHD Organization below.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3481</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 007: 10 Easy Strategies to Build Self-Esteem in Kids with ADHD, with Jackie Flynn</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-007-10-easy-strategies-to-build-self-esteem-in-kids-with-adhd-with-jackie-flynn--59248279</link><description><![CDATA[It's no secret that kids with ADHD (and autism) struggle immensely with self-esteem. They're bumping around in a world of constant messages that they're different, broken, incapable... As parents of kids with ADHD, a big part of our job is to boost our kids' confidence and self-esteem. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with therapist Jackie Flynn about simple ways to build our children's self-esteem. These 10 strategies are simple to implement in our chaotic lives, yet powerfully effective.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8265</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Apr 2017 23:21:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248279/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_007_jackie_flynn_self_esteem_final.mp3" length="101079794" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's no secret that kids with ADHD (and autism) struggle immensely with self-esteem. They're bumping around in a world of constant messages that they're different, broken, incapable... As parents of kids with ADHD, a big part of our job is to boost...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's no secret that kids with ADHD (and autism) struggle immensely with self-esteem. They're bumping around in a world of constant messages that they're different, broken, incapable... As parents of kids with ADHD, a big part of our job is to boost our kids' confidence and self-esteem. In this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with therapist Jackie Flynn about simple ways to build our children's self-esteem. These 10 strategies are simple to implement in our chaotic lives, yet powerfully effective.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4212</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 006: My Child Has ADHD. Now What?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-006-my-child-has-adhd-now-what--59248217</link><description><![CDATA[Your child has ADHD. Now what do you do? On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk about what your next steps should be after diagnosis, including many things it took me years to discover. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8239</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Apr 2017 21:37:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248217/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_006_penny_gb_final.mp3" length="48009426" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Your child has ADHD. Now what do you do? On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk about what your next steps should be after diagnosis, including many things it took me years to discover. </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your child has ADHD. Now what do you do? On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk about what your next steps should be after diagnosis, including many things it took me years to discover. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2001</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 005: Everything You Need to Know About ADHD Coaching, with John Tucker PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-005-everything-you-need-to-know-about-adhd-coaching-with-john-tucker-phd--59248224</link><description><![CDATA[ADHD Coaching: What is it? Who needs it? How does it work? Does it take the place of medication or therapy? These are common questions, and my interview with John Tucker on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast will provide answers to all those questions, and more. ADHD coaching can be a powerful tool for teens and young adults, OR for parents of teens and young adults. Please note! This is not just an FAQ about ADHD Coaching. John shares lots of his coaching wisdom and strategies in this episode as well. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8166</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Mar 2017 01:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248224/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_005_coaching_tucker.mp3" length="58385263" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>ADHD Coaching: What is it? Who needs it? How does it work? Does it take the place of medication or therapy? These are common questions, and my interview with John Tucker on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast will provide answers to all those...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ADHD Coaching: What is it? Who needs it? How does it work? Does it take the place of medication or therapy? These are common questions, and my interview with John Tucker on this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast will provide answers to all those questions, and more. ADHD coaching can be a powerful tool for teens and young adults, OR for parents of teens and young adults. Please note! This is not just an FAQ about ADHD Coaching. John shares lots of his coaching wisdom and strategies in this episode as well. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2433</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 004: Neglecting Your Own Self-Care Could Actually Be Making Your Child’s ADHD Behavior Worse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-004-neglecting-your-own-self-care-could-actually-be-making-your-child-s-adhd-behavior-worse--59248228</link><description><![CDATA[One of the most important things we can do to be successful and effective parents, is to take time for ourselves — time to recharge, rejuvenate, recenter, and reclaim a mindful existence. Parents (especially moms, {wink, wink}) make kids and spouses top priority and only then then consider something for ourselves, if there’s time (there’s never time when you have kids. never. ever.). The oxygen mask theory applies to life though, you have to put the oxygen mask on yourself first to be able to do your best for others. That’s a fact! It takes determination and learning to say “no,” but you can take time for yourself. Permission granted. Let's chat more about how important parent self-care is, and how to get time to yourself no matter how hectic your life is. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=8159</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2017 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248228/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_final_004_self_care.mp3" length="39199682" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the most important things we can do to be successful and effective parents, is to take time for ourselves — time to recharge, rejuvenate, recenter, and reclaim a mindful existence. Parents (especially moms, {wink, wink}) make kids and spouses...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the most important things we can do to be successful and effective parents, is to take time for ourselves — time to recharge, rejuvenate, recenter, and reclaim a mindful existence. Parents (especially moms, {wink, wink}) make kids and spouses top priority and only then then consider something for ourselves, if there’s time (there’s never time when you have kids. never. ever.). The oxygen mask theory applies to life though, you have to put the oxygen mask on yourself first to be able to do your best for others. That’s a fact! It takes determination and learning to say “no,” but you can take time for yourself. Permission granted. Let's chat more about how important parent self-care is, and how to get time to yourself no matter how hectic your life is. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1634</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 003: What Your Child’s Behavior Is Actually Telling You, with Sarah Wayland, PhD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-003-what-your-child-s-behavior-is-actually-telling-you-with-sarah-wayland-phd--59248213</link><description><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat. She truly understands kids with ADHD and autism and always offers great insights in informed and compassionate parenting. When my son was struggling with some serious increased anxiety and crisis behaviors about two years ago, Sarah introduced me to the concept of "behavior is communication." It is a profoundly powerful parenting perspective. On this show, Sarah and I discuss what "behavior is communication" means, what behaviors parents see that are actually communicating something else, and how to let this knowledge guide you to more effective parenting for your child with behavioral and/or developmental disorders. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=7978</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2017 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248213/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_003_behavior_is_communication_wayland_3917_5_35_pm.mp3" length="70656962" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I talk with Sarah Wayland, PhD, a Consultant and Special Needs Care Navigator, of Guiding Exceptional Parents. Sarah and I have known each other for several years, after meeting at the Happy Mama Retreat. She truly understands kids with ADHD and autism and always offers great insights in informed and compassionate parenting. When my son was struggling with some serious increased anxiety and crisis behaviors about two years ago, Sarah introduced me to the concept of "behavior is communication." It is a profoundly powerful parenting perspective. On this show, Sarah and I discuss what "behavior is communication" means, what behaviors parents see that are actually communicating something else, and how to let this knowledge guide you to more effective parenting for your child with behavioral and/or developmental disorders. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2944</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 002: What Doctors Don’t Tell You About ADHD, but Parents Need to Know</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-002-what-doctors-don-t-tell-you-about-adhd-but-parents-need-to-know--59248226</link><description><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline all the elements of ADHD outside of the typical diagnostic symptoms of impulsivity, inattention, and hyperactivity. These additional elements are crucial to your understanding of your child, and to successfully parenting a child with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=7896</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2017 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248226/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_002_what_no_one_tells_parents_3817_8_41_pm.mp3" length="42231558" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline all the elements of ADHD outside of the typical diagnostic symptoms of impulsivity, inattention, and hyperactivity. These additional elements are crucial to your understanding of your child, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On this episode of the Parenting ADHD Podcast, I outline all the elements of ADHD outside of the typical diagnostic symptoms of impulsivity, inattention, and hyperactivity. These additional elements are crucial to your understanding of your child, and to successfully parenting a child with ADHD.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1760</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PAP 001: Introduction to the Parenting ADHD Podcast</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pap-001-introduction-to-the-parenting-adhd-podcast--59248253</link><description><![CDATA[This week's show is the very first for the Parenting ADHD Podcast. {Here we go!} As such, I share my story, why I do what I do, and what you can expect from future shows.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">http://parentingadhdandautism.com/?p=7103</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2017 22:02:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59248253/parentingadhdspodcast_traffic_libsyn_com_parentingadhdandautism_pap_001_introduction_3517.mp3" length="62953139" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Penny Williams</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week's show is the very first for the Parenting ADHD Podcast. {Here we go!} As such, I share my story, why I do what I do, and what you can expect from future shows.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week's show is the very first for the Parenting ADHD Podcast. {Here we go!} As such, I share my story, why I do what I do, and what you can expect from future shows.<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support</a>.<br /><br />You can find additional resources at <a href="http://parentingadhdandautism.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">parentingadhdandautism.com.</a> It's not just about the struggles, it’s about progress, one step at a time.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2623</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ed490f52facc5e5a12002262914cd68.jpg"/><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
