About This Life with Shafondra Matthews + Glenn Dougherty Jr.https://www.spreaker.com/show/about-this-life-with-shafondra-matthews-enRelationshipsCopyright PosterChild Mediahttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5a76660d3b9ae617a53fea1496a730c6.jpgAbout This Life with Shafondra Matthews + Glenn Dougherty Jr.https://www.spreaker.com/show/about-this-life-with-shafondra-matthews-Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:00:50 +0000PosterChild MediaPosterChild Mediafeeds@spreaker.comMeet your hosts Shafondra Matthews + Glenn Dougherty Jr. These college sweethearts take you inside their 20-year journey...Married, Divorced, now Back Together again! Hear the break down of how they overcame personal struggles to navigate Life, Love +...falsef4c6e791-8797-52f4-bdc7-3089af83015bepisodicJesse Mogle Talks Beating Addiction, Sobriety + Recovery with NLP...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/jesse-mogle-talks-beating-addiction-sobriety-recovery-with-nlp--58142133
Topics include:
  • The Beginning of Addiction Behavior
  • How Choas + Obsessive Compulsive Tendencies Play into Addiction
  • The Role of Family + Resentment
  • Why Jesse Slept in the Bathtub Often
  • The Brain + Addiction
  • Healing The Past with Neurolinguistic Programming
  • Sobriety vs. Recovery
  • Impact on Relationships with Normies
Tune in to this powerful discussion.Resources:Jesse Mogle IG
JesseMogle.com
Free GiftJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
Join The Group Chat]]>Buzzsprout-13047249Thu, 15 Jun 2023 18:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn speak with Jesse Mogle, host of From Sobriety to Recovery podcast. Jesse shares his incredible story of how he went from the top of his high school class to becoming a drug dealer during his 12-yr college career....
Topics include:
  • The Beginning of Addiction Behavior
  • How Choas + Obsessive Compulsive Tendencies Play into Addiction
  • The Role of Family + Resentment
  • Why Jesse Slept in the Bathtub Often
  • The Brain + Addiction
  • Healing The Past with Neurolinguistic Programming
  • Sobriety vs. Recovery
  • Impact on Relationships with Normies
Tune in to this powerful discussion.Resources:Jesse Mogle IG
JesseMogle.com
Free GiftJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
Join The Group Chat]]>4703false338fullWelcome to Season 3! Loser Mentality + Perfectionism...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-season-3-loser-mentality-perfectionism--58142134
  • Where Do Kids Learn About Being a Loser?
  • The Role of Parents + Parental Figures
  • The Kobe Story
  • Perfectionism vs. The Human Experience
  • The Sara Blakely Story
  • Managing Emotions + How it Shows Up Differently in Men vs. Women
    • The show ends with Shaf asking Glenn a very important question. Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-13000000Thu, 08 Jun 2023 01:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss a topic sparked by a conversation with one of their sons. Loser vs. Losing. What's the difference between the 2? - Where Do Kids Learn About Being a Loser? - The Role of Parents + Parental Figures - The Kobe...
  • Where Do Kids Learn About Being a Loser?
  • The Role of Parents + Parental Figures
  • The Kobe Story
  • Perfectionism vs. The Human Experience
  • The Sara Blakely Story
  • Managing Emotions + How it Shows Up Differently in Men vs. Women
    • The show ends with Shaf asking Glenn a very important question. Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3297false337full    Louise Barnett Talks Addiction, Bipolar I Disorder, 3 Pillars of Sobriety + Mental Health...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/louise-barnett-talks-addiction-bipolar-i-disorder-3-pillars-of-sobriety-mental-health--58142137
    Louise covers important topics such as:
    • Attachment Issues + Trauma
    • How to Support Family + Friends with their Mental Health Journey
    • Addiction Impact on Marriage + Personal Relationships
    • 3 Pillars of Sobriety
    • Breaking + Creating New Habits with Law of Behavior Change
    • Personal Mantra for Life
    This discussion is a follow up from Glenn and Louise's conversation on her podcast. Listen to Glenn's episode on Together S.O.B.E.R .Louise is a former Global Sales Director of Top 100 Companies turned Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach. She helps her clients with addiction on their path to recovery. She's built a robust community to support those in recovery and their loved ones.

    This is a great conversation to close out Mental Health Awareness Month.

    Resources:
    Together S.O.B.E.R Podcast
    Follow on IG: @togethersoberpodcast
    Freebies & More: www.Louisebarnett.comJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-12938682Mon, 29 May 2023 15:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn chat with Louise Barnett, host of the Together S.O.B.E.R podcast. Louise candidly shares her story of addiction, which included drugs and alcohol. As well as her mental health struggles which led to her being...
    Louise covers important topics such as:
    • Attachment Issues + Trauma
    • How to Support Family + Friends with their Mental Health Journey
    • Addiction Impact on Marriage + Personal Relationships
    • 3 Pillars of Sobriety
    • Breaking + Creating New Habits with Law of Behavior Change
    • Personal Mantra for Life
    This discussion is a follow up from Glenn and Louise's conversation on her podcast. Listen to Glenn's episode on Together S.O.B.E.R .Louise is a former Global Sales Director of Top 100 Companies turned Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach. She helps her clients with addiction on their path to recovery. She's built a robust community to support those in recovery and their loved ones.

    This is a great conversation to close out Mental Health Awareness Month.

    Resources:
    Together S.O.B.E.R Podcast
    Follow on IG: @togethersoberpodcast
    Freebies & More: www.Louisebarnett.comJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3772false36full    The N Word...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-n-word--58142138
    They talk about :
    • How recent events impacted one of their children
    • Childhood experiences in a predominantly white neighborhood
    • Florida football player who loses scholarship 
    • Popular influencer asking permission to use the N word
    • Reflections on parenting black children
    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-12443325Fri, 10 Feb 2023 03:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode Shafondra + Glenn discuss the infamous "N" word.  They talk about : - How recent events impacted one of their children - Childhood experiences in a predominantly white neighborhood - Florida football player who loses scholarship  -...
    They talk about :
    • How recent events impacted one of their children
    • Childhood experiences in a predominantly white neighborhood
    • Florida football player who loses scholarship 
    • Popular influencer asking permission to use the N word
    • Reflections on parenting black children
    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2822false35full    Getting Married on Jordan Day!!!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/getting-married-on-jordan-day--58142149
    In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss their decision to get married...AGAIN!!! After 6 years of technically being divorced. They share the entire experience from getting their 3rd marriage license to going to a place Shaf never said she'd go again.

    What led up to their decision? What do they attribute getting re-married to?

    Get all the deets in this episode.

    There's also a new place to connect with the couple.

    Check out the About This Life Podcast Group Chat on Facebook!Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-12348700Fri, 03 Feb 2023 21:00:00 +0000PosterChild Media2.3.23 also known as Jordan Day was a very special day of the year. Not only was it a day to celebrate The GOAT,  it was a day to do something GREAT! In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss their decision to get married...AGAIN!!! After 6 years of...
    In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss their decision to get married...AGAIN!!! After 6 years of technically being divorced. They share the entire experience from getting their 3rd marriage license to going to a place Shaf never said she'd go again.

    What led up to their decision? What do they attribute getting re-married to?

    Get all the deets in this episode.

    There's also a new place to connect with the couple.

    Check out the About This Life Podcast Group Chat on Facebook!Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2876false34full    Can Women Be Breadwinners???https://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-women-be-breadwinners--58142139
    The couple discusses their personal experience with this scenario and how it impacted their relationship.Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-12031333Thu, 12 Jan 2023 17:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss the hot topic of women being primary breadwinners. Is it ok? Should men be stay at home dads? The couple discusses their personal experience with this scenario and how it impacted their relationship.Join the...
    The couple discusses their personal experience with this scenario and how it impacted their relationship.Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2195false33full    Happy New Year!!! Intentions + Insights for 2023!!!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-new-year-intentions-insights-for-2023--58142143
    Connect with GlennJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11994198Thu, 05 Jan 2023 20:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss biggest lessons learned in 2022. As well as what they are looking forward to in 2023. Shafondra talks about one of the MOST important activities for starting the New Year. Glenn shares an exciting...
    Connect with GlennJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2786false32full    Holiday Hangover...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/holiday-hangover--58142136
    The couple talks about:
    • Keeping Up
    • Holiday Experience as an Introvert
    • Splitting Time + Blending Families
    • Grief, Loss, Breaks Ups, Seasonal Depression
    • The Real Meaning of Christmas
    • Holiday Watch List


    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11950987Fri, 30 Dec 2022 03:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss the Holiday Season and all that it brings. Even though it's supposed to be the most joyous time of the year, it can also be the most stressful.  The couple talks about: - Keeping Up - Holiday Experience as...
    The couple talks about:
    • Keeping Up
    • Holiday Experience as an Introvert
    • Splitting Time + Blending Families
    • Grief, Loss, Breaks Ups, Seasonal Depression
    • The Real Meaning of Christmas
    • Holiday Watch List


    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3270false31full    Glenn's Soberversary...Year FOUR! Mocktails + Boat Partieshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-s-soberversary-year-four-mocktails-boat-parties--58142141
    The couple shares...
    • Origin of Sober October
    • Feelings About Mocktails
    • Conversation w/ Glenn's Bestie
    • Past Sobriety Attempts
    • The Answer to Does Shaf Drink?
    • Glenn's BIGGEST Lesson
    • Boat Party Stories

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11540324Fri, 21 Oct 2022 02:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss his 4th year of sobriety. The couple shares... - Origin of Sober October - Feelings About Mocktails - Conversation w/ Glenn's Bestie - Past Sobriety Attempts - The Answer to Does Shaf Drink? - Glenn's...
    The couple shares...
    • Origin of Sober October
    • Feelings About Mocktails
    • Conversation w/ Glenn's Bestie
    • Past Sobriety Attempts
    • The Answer to Does Shaf Drink?
    • Glenn's BIGGEST Lesson
    • Boat Party Stories

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3353false30full    Surprise!!! We're On Black Love Couch Conversations!!!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/surprise-we-re-on-black-love-couch-conversations--58142135
    They discuss:
    • How it Began
    • The Selection Process
    • Prep/Travel
    • Being on Set
    • Reflections on Filming
    Glenn breaks down his emotional moment and Shafondra reveals her biggest challenge with the process.

    Watch Episode 2: Value of Therapy

    Meet the Couples of S4: Blacklove.com

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11369686Thu, 22 Sep 2022 22:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode Shafondra + Glenn break down their entire experience of being on Season 4 of Black Love's Couch Conversations. Hosted by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks aka Kevonstage and MrsKevonstage. They discuss: - How it Began - The Selection...
    They discuss:
    • How it Began
    • The Selection Process
    • Prep/Travel
    • Being on Set
    • Reflections on Filming
    Glenn breaks down his emotional moment and Shafondra reveals her biggest challenge with the process.

    Watch Episode 2: Value of Therapy

    Meet the Couples of S4: Blacklove.com

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2895false29full    Marriage Be Hard...The Tour...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-be-hard-the-tour--58142142"Marriage Be Hard: 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning with Your Partner".

    The evening was filled with marital wisdom, loads of laughter and fun. The couple reflect on topics KevOnStage and MrsKevOnStage discussed:
    • The Book Writing Process 
    • A Recurring Core Issue
    • The Secret to Real Intimacy
    • Game-Changing Therapy Exercise
    • The Impact Kids Had on Their Relationship
    • Marriage Advice + The Black Church
    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11287462Fri, 09 Sep 2022 03:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn recount their experience at the Marriage Be Hard Book Tour Event in Chicago. Hosted by Kevin and Melissa Fredericks, authors of the New York Times Bestselling book,..."Marriage Be Hard: 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning with Your Partner".

    The evening was filled with marital wisdom, loads of laughter and fun. The couple reflect on topics KevOnStage and MrsKevOnStage discussed:
    • The Book Writing Process 
    • A Recurring Core Issue
    • The Secret to Real Intimacy
    • Game-Changing Therapy Exercise
    • The Impact Kids Had on Their Relationship
    • Marriage Advice + The Black Church
    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3656false28full    Growing Pains...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/growing-pains--58142140
  • The Power of Telling Your Story
  • Thoughts of an Introvert
  • Pod Challenges + Future Plans
  • Wedding Planning
    • The couple shares exciting news!

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11252311Sat, 03 Sep 2022 00:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss a few things that's been on their minds. Covering a variety of topics: - The Power of Telling Your Story - Thoughts of an Introvert - Pod Challenges + Future Plans - Wedding Planning The couple shares...
  • The Power of Telling Your Story
  • Thoughts of an Introvert
  • Pod Challenges + Future Plans
  • Wedding Planning
    • The couple shares exciting news!

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3271false27full    Maybe Baby...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/maybe-baby--58142146
    The couple gives their take on IVF, artificial insemination, adoption and surrogacy.  And thoughts on life post raising kids.Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11205858Fri, 26 Aug 2022 01:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn open up about their fertility journey. They discuss the thought process behind deciding to expand their family, reproductive options and unforeseen challenges that they've had to face.Shafondra walks through her...
    The couple gives their take on IVF, artificial insemination, adoption and surrogacy.  And thoughts on life post raising kids.Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3618false26full    We're Good On Paper...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-re-good-on-paper--58142144
  • The Order of Love + Marriage
  • The Percentage of Marriage Criteria One Should Expect
  • What Role Horoscopes and Destiny Plays
  • Approach to Red Flags
  • How to Breakup with Someone
  • Staying Friends if There's No Match
  • Age Gap Dating
  • Finding "Their Person"
  • Dating Market Value
  • Being Good on Paper (Compatibility) vs. Chemistry
  • The Key to Long Lasting Marriage
    • India has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world.

    Is There Something to this Art and Science of Finding Love?

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11162792Thu, 18 Aug 2022 23:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn discuss Netflix's hit show Indian Matchmaking. They take a look inside the matchmaking process and breakdown the similarities and differences from dating and marriage in American culture. - The Order of Love +...
  • The Order of Love + Marriage
  • The Percentage of Marriage Criteria One Should Expect
  • What Role Horoscopes and Destiny Plays
  • Approach to Red Flags
  • How to Breakup with Someone
  • Staying Friends if There's No Match
  • Age Gap Dating
  • Finding "Their Person"
  • Dating Market Value
  • Being Good on Paper (Compatibility) vs. Chemistry
  • The Key to Long Lasting Marriage
    • India has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world.

    Is There Something to this Art and Science of Finding Love?

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    4423false25full    It Was the Touching For Me...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-was-the-touching-for-me--58142163
  • Acts of Service
  • Receiving Gifts
  • Quality Time
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Physical Touch
    • They answer and discuss questions that stood out to them from the questionnaire in real time. And then reveal their individual love languages at the end.

    Grab your loved one and engage in this quick exercise designed to help strengthen your relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Order The #1 NY Times Bestselling Book: "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts"

    Take the Quiz:  5 Love Languages Quiz

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11124221Thu, 11 Aug 2022 22:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn explore the 5 Love Languages Quiz together. According to Dr. Gary Chapman, author of "The 5 Love Languages" book, there are 5 predominant ways that people experience connection and love. - Acts of Service - Receiving...
  • Acts of Service
  • Receiving Gifts
  • Quality Time
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Physical Touch
    • They answer and discuss questions that stood out to them from the questionnaire in real time. And then reveal their individual love languages at the end.

    Grab your loved one and engage in this quick exercise designed to help strengthen your relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Order The #1 NY Times Bestselling Book: "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts"

    Take the Quiz:  5 Love Languages Quiz

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3620false24full    That's Not My Daughter...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/that-s-not-my-daughter--58142150
  • Man presents his girlfriend with a paternity on "their daughter's" 3rd birthday
  • Woman takes the father off of child support to help him save money to start a new career
  • Man buys McDonald's for his child and the mother of his child is upset because she has other children to feed ( McDonald's Gate)
    • The couple talk about the deeper issues that prevail in the black community that result in what's popularly known as baby daddy baby mama drama.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-11082604Thu, 04 Aug 2022 18:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn tackle viral co-parenting debacles. There were a few situations that made headlines recently: - Man presents his girlfriend with a paternity on "their daughter's" 3rd birthday - Woman takes the father off of child...
  • Man presents his girlfriend with a paternity on "their daughter's" 3rd birthday
  • Woman takes the father off of child support to help him save money to start a new career
  • Man buys McDonald's for his child and the mother of his child is upset because she has other children to feed ( McDonald's Gate)
    • The couple talk about the deeper issues that prevail in the black community that result in what's popularly known as baby daddy baby mama drama.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepodJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2978false23full    Let's Not Ruin a Good Thing...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-not-ruin-a-good-thing--58142155
    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Shaf's Glam Team: @flawlessbeautybynicole + @nicolejam2

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10959677Thu, 14 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn recount an unexpected series of events that led to an interesting discovery. What turned up spurred a conversation about a question that was asked of the couple...How to Heal? Shaf + Glenn do a deep dive into the...
    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Shaf's Glam Team: @flawlessbeautybynicole + @nicolejam2

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3941false22full    What Women Want...What Men Need...Part TWOhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-women-want-what-men-need-part-two--58142145
    What does the woman need to bring to the table?So the couple decided to address this question and more. Laying out what men need and what women want in relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Listen to TheVMT DeluxeJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10840751Thu, 23 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra and Glenn continue the conversation from Instagram comments. While discussing whether Love is conditional or not, and what the man needs to provide, a critical question arose.  What does the woman need to bring to the...
    What does the woman need to bring to the table?So the couple decided to address this question and more. Laying out what men need and what women want in relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Listen to TheVMT DeluxeJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2177false21full    What Women Want...What Men Need...Part ONEhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-women-want-what-men-need-part-one--58142148In this episode, Shafondra and Glenn continue the conversation from Instagram comments. While discussing whether Love is conditional or not, and what the man needs to provide, a critical question arose. 

    What does the woman need to bring to the table?So the couple decided to address this question and more. Laying out what men need and what women want in relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Listen to TheVMT DeluxeJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10807476Fri, 17 Jun 2022 01:00:00 +0000PosterChild Media In this episode, Shafondra and Glenn continue the conversation from Instagram comments. While discussing whether Love is conditional or not, and what the man needs to provide, a critical question arose.  What does the woman need to bring to the...In this episode, Shafondra and Glenn continue the conversation from Instagram comments. While discussing whether Love is conditional or not, and what the man needs to provide, a critical question arose. 

    What does the woman need to bring to the table?So the couple decided to address this question and more. Laying out what men need and what women want in relationships.

    Show Notes:

    Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod

    Listen to TheVMT DeluxeJoin the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    2267false20full    Are You The One? Debunking Relationship Myths...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-the-one-debunking-relationship-myths--58142153LIVE on YouTube*

    In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn dive into several common Relationship Myths:
    • Do You Believe in "The One"?
    • Should Your Relationship be Like a Fairytale/Movie?
    • Does Your Partner Complete You?
    • Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?
    • Chemistry OR Compatibility?
    And more.

    They talk about the impact unrealistic expectations have had in their relationship and what others can do to create a sustainable partnership.Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10762274Thu, 09 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000PosterChild Media*Announcement: About This Life Podcast is now https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg0EWtUmYBujzRKy_22jodQ* In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn dive into several common Relationship Myths: - Do You Believe in "The One"? - Should Your Relationship be Like...LIVE on YouTube*

    In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn dive into several common Relationship Myths:
    • Do You Believe in "The One"?
    • Should Your Relationship be Like a Fairytale/Movie?
    • Does Your Partner Complete You?
    • Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?
    • Chemistry OR Compatibility?
    And more.

    They talk about the impact unrealistic expectations have had in their relationship and what others can do to create a sustainable partnership.Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3619false19full    Raising Boys II Men...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/raising-boys-ii-men--58142152@aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10723304Thu, 02 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn reflect on parenthood and their experience raising two young black men in American society. Recently they attended Eric Thomas's 360 Man Conference in Atlanta, GA. They discuss lessons learned from the conference and...@aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3560false18full    It's Just a Sexless Situation...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-just-a-sexless-situation--58142161@aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10610284Fri, 13 May 2022 04:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaCan a marriage survive with no sex? How does a couple start and sustain a good sex life? Are sex and intimacy two separate things? What do you do if your relationship is in a rut? In this episode, Shafondra + Glenn tackle these questions and more....@aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    3397false17full    Failure To Launch...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/failure-to-launch--58142156The Power of Your Inner Game. 

    Even though Shafondra was reluctant to see her gifts and talents, others see and Glenn expresses his observation of her growth over the years.

    *Episode previously recorded in January 2022*Join the Shenanigans @aboutthislifepod
    Join The Group Chat]]>    Buzzsprout-10564507Thu, 05 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000PosterChild MediaIn this episode, Shafondra + Glenn talk about the mental and emotional side of launching a podcast. About This Life is Shafondra's brainchild, an idea she's held onto for over 4 years. She speaks about what held her back from moving forward for the...The Power of Your Inner Game. 

    Even though Shafondra was reluctant to see her gifts and talents, others see and Glenn expresses his observation of her growth over the years.

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    Join The Group Chat]]>    2915false13full    Broke Phi Broke...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/broke-phi-broke--58142158
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    Join The Group Chat]]>    3426false10full    Christmas Eve Pajammie Jam...Engagement + Vegas Recap...https://www.spreaker.com/episode/christmas-eve-pajammie-jam-engagement-vegas-recap--58142164
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    Join The Group Chat]]>    3260false4full    Glenn's Soberversary...Year THREEhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/glenn-s-soberversary-year-three--58142167@aboutthislifepod
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