https://www.spreaker.com/show/scott-kiloby-s-podcast-natural-recovery-enSpiritualityCopyright scotthttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/df0d83f360293ae6181f96e55740faea.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/scott-kiloby-s-podcast-natural-recovery-Mon, 27 Jul 2026 20:26:59 +0000scottscottfeeds@spreaker.comJoin spiritual teacher and author Scott Kiloby as he offers unique insights on a variety of topics (consciousness, inquiry, trauma, emotional repression, ending suffering, extra-terrestrial/dimensional phenomena, culture, politics, and LGBTQIA...falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/helpers-who-don-t-know-they-re-angry--73199304If this episode speaks to you and you’re ready to finally get to the root of suffering and inauthentic helping, reach out to Scott on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324.]]>13b720d2-c020-435f-a308-e71cccacd43dMon, 27 Jul 2026 15:25:00 +0000scottIt began with an unexpected flash of rage toward a client—a moment that shattered a carefully built image and ended up transforming every personal and professional relationship in its wake.Many helpers carry a deep reservoir of buried anger born from...If this episode speaks to you and you’re ready to finally get to the root of suffering and inauthentic helping, reach out to Scott on WhatsApp at 1-812-204-4324.]]>2301falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/free-webinar-learn-my-somatic-inquiry-process--73184676Reach out to Scott on What’s App for scholarship: https://wa.me/message/LBJCHFQ3QGJFM1]]>2404627a-9b22-4cd5-b1c9-999724786575Sun, 26 Jul 2026 21:35:24 +0000scottFree Webinar August 4th: https://kiloby.com/free-webinar Reach out to Scott on What’s App for scholarship: https://wa.me/message/LBJCHFQ3QGJFM1Reach out to Scott on What’s App for scholarship: https://wa.me/message/LBJCHFQ3QGJFM1]]>235falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-has-a-huge-announcement--73149872f7ab9bce-72a3-42dd-b0ef-d4709d0981b4Fri, 24 Jul 2026 14:03:00 +0000scottListen to Scott’s huge announcement and then click on the following link once he explains your next steps: https://wa.me/message/LBJCHFQ3QGJFM1 (Scott’s What’s App).1305falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bryan-johnson-profile--730724419eda07b7-76a3-48e9-8850-1cafbba4df9dMon, 20 Jul 2026 16:28:00 +0000scottScott rants and raves about what’s wrong with the health trends, self-help methods, and spiritual communities.836falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-s-cry-for-helpers--7295419931d1eecc-1af8-468f-8894-37e5c0a570d8Mon, 13 Jul 2026 18:04:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott breaks down the codependency and trauma of helpers. Visit repressiontest.com to start this work. If you are a helper, message Scott on What’s App to be trained. The number is 1-812-204-4324.3351falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-s-high-strangeness-memoirs-of-the-unconscious--728749476474ab20-6baf-4306-8e68-78bd34cfbfc8Wed, 08 Jul 2026 19:06:07 +0000scottScott discusses the otherworldly and extra-dimensional details of his latest e-book which is free if you join his Instagram chat group here: https://www.instagram.com/channel/AbZebuk7cyuIHeCL/788falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-dangers-of-disembodied-spirituality--72807317True freedom cannot be found by simply hoping that someday we will be healed without having to face the pain. To break these cycles, we must directly confront and feel the deeply embedded childhood pain that has been driving our behavior and seeking from the very beginning.To dig deeper into this work and stay updated, join Scott’s newsletter and take his free test at repressiontest.com.]]>4f7b718a-bba5-4f49-87c1-037e380f1847Fri, 03 Jul 2026 14:42:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott speaks to the overlooked reality behind the spiritual search, addressing how the hidden shadow is completely missing from the beginning of most spiritual paths. He explores how contemporary spirituality contains both seekers and...True freedom cannot be found by simply hoping that someday we will be healed without having to face the pain. To break these cycles, we must directly confront and feel the deeply embedded childhood pain that has been driving our behavior and seeking from the very beginning.To dig deeper into this work and stay updated, join Scott’s newsletter and take his free test at repressiontest.com.]]>3497falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-avoidant-spiritual-path--72674639If you are trapped in a pleasure-pain cycle where your spiritual practices actually prolong your suffering rather than healing it, this conversation is for you. Learn how to spot these hidden traps, stop avoiding your avoidant nature, and finally break the loop to find true, grounded emotional liberation.
Join Scott’s Third Dimension Membership Level on YouTube and end the cycle of avoidance.
]]>79f5f9f3-20bb-413b-b362-35ba977a9d88Wed, 24 Jun 2026 14:59:00 +0000scottBack by popular demand following the Insider’s View of an Avoidant social media shorts, Scott Kiloby dives deep into how the avoidant attachment style subtly hijacks spirituality. This episode explores the hidden mechanics of spiritual bypassing,...If you are trapped in a pleasure-pain cycle where your spiritual practices actually prolong your suffering rather than healing it, this conversation is for you. Learn how to spot these hidden traps, stop avoiding your avoidant nature, and finally break the loop to find true, grounded emotional liberation.
Join Scott’s Third Dimension Membership Level on YouTube and end the cycle of avoidance.
]]>2303falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-how-to-find-safety-and-love-within--72603544In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our emotions, rather than looking for external fixes.
We map out exactly how emotional repression forms in our earliest attachment years and follows us into adulthood, creating a cycle of unconscious suffering. More importantly, Scott lays down a practical, actionable path to help you start meeting your core needs for safety and love from within.
Key Takeaways from the Episode
The Roots of Needism: How our earliest relationship attachments set the blueprint for how we handle—or repress—our deepest emotional needs.
The Illusion of the External Fix: Why trying to get your needs met outside of yourself is a losing battle that only prolongs adult suffering.
The Power of Processing: A deep dive into the mechanics of emotional processing and how letting yourself fully feel can dissolve decades of repression.
Your Path to Inner Safety: Scott’s foundational steps to begin cultivating genuine love, security, and safety within your own system today.
The moment you stop demanding the world mirror back the safety you crave, and instead learn to anchor that safety inside your own body, the cycle of suffering ends.
Visit repressiontest.com to begin Scott’s work and to be automatically added to his newsletter.]]>31fe7255-428c-46c2-838d-44166a79462bFri, 19 Jun 2026 16:20:21 +0000scottAre you constantly chasing safety, validation, or love from the world around you, only to find yourself still feeling empty, anxious, or in pain? In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional...In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our emotions, rather than looking for external fixes.
We map out exactly how emotional repression forms in our earliest attachment years and follows us into adulthood, creating a cycle of unconscious suffering. More importantly, Scott lays down a practical, actionable path to help you start meeting your core needs for safety and love from within.
Key Takeaways from the Episode
The Roots of Needism: How our earliest relationship attachments set the blueprint for how we handle—or repress—our deepest emotional needs.
The Illusion of the External Fix: Why trying to get your needs met outside of yourself is a losing battle that only prolongs adult suffering.
The Power of Processing: A deep dive into the mechanics of emotional processing and how letting yourself fully feel can dissolve decades of repression.
Your Path to Inner Safety: Scott’s foundational steps to begin cultivating genuine love, security, and safety within your own system today.
The moment you stop demanding the world mirror back the safety you crave, and instead learn to anchor that safety inside your own body, the cycle of suffering ends.
Visit repressiontest.com to begin Scott’s work and to be automatically added to his newsletter.]]>823falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-rage-holders-how-real-suffering-comes-from-false-peace--68384126740894ea-4feb-44f9-82cd-d74d279b04aaSun, 02 Nov 2025 04:13:14 +0000scottScott gets down and dirty about his own rage and how not speaking up directly in relationship produces suffering in the lives of rage holders. To start this work for Free, visit repressiontest.com.2639falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/please-meet-the-needs-i-don-t-know-i-have--682686198976d14c-5755-403f-856d-bc05bb704a23Fri, 24 Oct 2025 16:42:00 +0000scottIn this podcast episode, Scott discusses the anxious attachment style and unmet needs that go with it. Transformation happens when we find safety and love within. The anxious attachment style sabotages itself by looking outside of itself. The process...1808falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dying-paradigms-emotional-repression-beliefaholism-authentic-recovery--68006577In this episode, Dan and Scott will share their compelling history and the paradigms they've witnessed falling away, all while highlighting how embracing KI can lead to true freedom and healing. This is a unique opportunity to explore the dying recovery paradigm—something they've never approached quite like this before!
If you're interested in diving into the experiential aspect of this work, join Scott and Dan for a FREE Q&A on authentic recovery, Sunday October 5th. https://repression.as.me/freeQAwithScottandDan]]>0356596d-34cf-41d7-9d24-bc8543b9d1a6Fri, 03 Oct 2025 22:44:52 +0000scottScott and Dan, the co-developers of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry, are reuniting for an electrifying and groundbreaking podcast episode that you won't want to miss! This time, they’re tackling the provocative topic of dying paradigms, diving deep...In this episode, Dan and Scott will share their compelling history and the paradigms they've witnessed falling away, all while highlighting how embracing KI can lead to true freedom and healing. This is a unique opportunity to explore the dying recovery paradigm—something they've never approached quite like this before!
If you're interested in diving into the experiential aspect of this work, join Scott and Dan for a FREE Q&A on authentic recovery, Sunday October 5th. https://repression.as.me/freeQAwithScottandDan]]>3803falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conflation-nation-part-2--67907864
Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms.
Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at link in bio.]]>ecda81af-9eb8-4432-a7b4-01fa68c5520bFri, 26 Sep 2025 11:11:19 +0000scott Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms. Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at...
Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms.
Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at link in bio.]]>3584falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pathological-altruism--67826330If you are a coach, teacher, therapist, or other helper, join Scott’s FREE Webinar Saturday, September 20th on Zoom. Scott will give instructions on first or next steps on your path towards learning to bring KI into your practice for your clients or students. Link to Webinar: https://repression.as.me/freewebinar4beginners-meta.]]>0d2a4a78-879d-4d05-9f1b-9bc5754b6546Fri, 19 Sep 2025 19:47:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores Barbara Oakley’s concept of Pathological Altruism and dives deep into the world of repression inquiry. Scott explains how many acts of service, often perceived as altruistic, are actually driven by a hidden need to feel...If you are a coach, teacher, therapist, or other helper, join Scott’s FREE Webinar Saturday, September 20th on Zoom. Scott will give instructions on first or next steps on your path towards learning to bring KI into your practice for your clients or students. Link to Webinar: https://repression.as.me/freewebinar4beginners-meta.]]>1527false229fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/manipulation-masterclass--668920359288223e-b330-4aa0-97ef-03e1e96fad66Tue, 08 Jul 2025 00:09:00 +0000scottScott shares about owning the covert patterns of manipulation from anger repression. Take Scott’s free test for buried emotions at repressiontest.com. This will place you on the newsletter where you can work with Scott in either a one on one context...2609falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conflation-nation-a-podcast-from-the-developers-of-ki--66609039Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)]]>6392049b-39e9-44b7-84f1-0e3984d618c6Wed, 18 Jun 2025 17:45:35 +0000scottJoin ​⁠Dan Mclintock and myself as we define, point to and deconstruct our tendency as human beings to conflate! Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)]]>3162falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/last-podcast-episode--66373953In the future, you might hear a short episode announcing his return to podcasting, but for now, Scott encourages you to dive into the world of KI for free and discover the true offerings surrounding this work. To enter that portal, visit repressiontest.com. If you feel drawn to work with Scott one-on-one, simply reach out to him on social media and type the word "love" to learn more about available options.]]>86297a77-d055-4596-92af-d221c887cbe8Mon, 02 Jun 2025 19:26:00 +0000scottScott is taking a break from podcasting for a while as he feels called to explore other endeavors. The work is now accessible for everyone to start for FREE at repressiontest.com. He is focusing on one-on-one mentorship and is in the process of...In the future, you might hear a short episode announcing his return to podcasting, but for now, Scott encourages you to dive into the world of KI for free and discover the true offerings surrounding this work. To enter that portal, visit repressiontest.com. If you feel drawn to work with Scott one-on-one, simply reach out to him on social media and type the word "love" to learn more about available options.]]>1744falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/insider-s-view-of-an-avoidant-behind-the-scenes--66329225fa39dc99-cb44-4c03-b9b1-537c62443979Thu, 29 May 2025 14:39:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves deeper into his Tik Tok series growing in popularity called, "The Insiders' View of an Avoidant." He reflects on his lifelong tendencies to avoid emotional intimacy and how his most recent relationship transformed his...1933falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/super-empath--6620979509017992-470f-4f79-aa4d-f0119b172b95Thu, 22 May 2025 18:30:00 +0000scottIs “super empath” a heightened state of consciousness or just another identity that keeps people safe and gets them love? Scott explores this question. Start this work for free at repressiontest.com. Join Scott’s News Channel for Helpers:...1766falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-secret-is-no-longer-a-secret-exposing-the-needism-behind-self-sabotage--66163725bce7f054-865e-44b7-b4dc-34eb8fcc912dTue, 20 May 2025 02:30:00 +0000scottScott explains how KI specializes in dissolving self-sabotage. The secret is revealed. Start the work for free: https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.1914falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-treasure-is-buried--66113443Join Scott’s free Q&A on Zoom on Friday, May 16th at 11 AM Pacific: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/3619865199?omn=82806168067]]>de5ca5d0-3f1d-436c-ac3a-1173ceb23826Fri, 16 May 2025 04:13:04 +0000scottJoin Scott’s month-long KI Jumpstart Group starting Sunday, May 18th: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart Join Scott’s free Q&A on Zoom on Friday, May 16th at 11 AM Pacific: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/3619865199?omn=82806168067Join Scott’s free Q&A on Zoom on Friday, May 16th at 11 AM Pacific: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/3619865199?omn=82806168067]]>1614falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/drinking-the-ki-koolaid--660713045c20efc0-14b3-4b7d-aa01-83169894dc82Tue, 13 May 2025 12:12:00 +0000scottScott focuses on the richest treasures of deeply transformative work and the indispensable aspects of the path. He also answers criticisms and questions about the work. To join his jumpstart group starting May 18, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart2421falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/filtering-out-reality-guest-toshi-matsunaga--66041549To work with Toshi, book a clarity call:https://kiloby.com/toshi
Monthly Nonduality & KI Meeting with Toshi:https://kiloby.com/nonduality-ki]]>0e933161-452a-4b41-8852-7fc186fd0bcbSun, 11 May 2025 15:50:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott and Toshi talk about how emotional repression can cause you to see, hear, and believe only what feels safe—protecting you from feeling or expressing certain emotions. This can make it difficult to hear or understand work that...To work with Toshi, book a clarity call:https://kiloby.com/toshi
Monthly Nonduality & KI Meeting with Toshi:https://kiloby.com/nonduality-ki]]>3088falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-a-narcissist--66017111Join my Jumpstart group starting May 18th: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart
]]>395ef0e8-f7d1-4457-939b-38658d22c3d9Fri, 09 May 2025 12:31:00 +0000scottFind out by listening. Join my Jumpstart group starting May 18th: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart Join my Jumpstart group starting May 18th: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart
]]>1785falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-do-you-know-what-drives-you--65999735932da345-a1bd-4c91-a7f2-9eabb1e6515bThu, 08 May 2025 12:32:00 +0000scottScott shares about Needism, a term he coined to include how emotional repression forces us to try to get our unmet childhood needs met through false means in relationships. What keeps Needism going is our unconsciousness. We don’t discover that we’re...2086falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-got-it-i-lost-it-the-pleasure-pain-cycle-of-transformation--65974315To join Scott’s May 18th jumpstart Group, visit https://get.kiloby.com/jumpstart/.
To start this work for free (a prerequisite to Jumpstart), visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.]]>3be020c9-1594-4906-8a94-b646eb06b351Wed, 07 May 2025 14:03:03 +0000scottIn this podcast episode, Scott explores the common experience of oscillating between “I’ve got it” and “I’ve lost it” on the healing journey. He discusses how seeking intense experiences can trigger survival mechanisms due to unresolved emotions,...To join Scott’s May 18th jumpstart Group, visit https://get.kiloby.com/jumpstart/.
To start this work for free (a prerequisite to Jumpstart), visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.]]>1946falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-got-it-i-lost-it-the-pleasure-pain-cycle-of-healing--6597188469a9a19f-39d4-4414-a29a-89c296504394Wed, 07 May 2025 12:03:00 +0000scottScott shares the many ways the pleasure pain cycle confuses us on a spiritual path.1750falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/to-the-ends-of-the-earth-the-endless-seeking-of-the-hurt-and-sadness-repressor--659316717cbb3c95-301a-4684-b532-53cf2732f99dMon, 05 May 2025 23:53:00 +0000scottScott shares about the cycles of suffering that come from hurt and sadness repression with a special focus on the shame/rage response. The key to ending suffering for hurt and sadness repressor is hidden in plain view. To start this work for free,...1876falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-needism-of-human-suffering--6593060181144c1c-5307-4873-a034-bd6c111d5411Mon, 05 May 2025 21:52:00 +0000scottScott paves a clear path to Freedom by making obvious the mechanism that demands suffering. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/1701falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-hidden-self-sabotage-of-the-anxiously-attached--6585519812a838ff-9c1d-4958-a47b-a19f143027cdFri, 02 May 2025 12:03:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott uncovers the often-overlooked self-sabotage associated with the anxious attachment style. He discusses how individuals with this attachment style struggle to process their emotions independently, which hinders their personal...1764falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-a-positive-person-said-the-buried-rage--65863748e104aabb-159d-4b7c-9ceb-e86ee7492005Fri, 02 May 2025 07:27:00 +0000scottScott tells the story of the positive people around him who are suffering. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.1781falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-episode-answers-hidden-in-plain-sight--65810070255f9509-bffc-4d90-8ca5-c80d14f5f940Wed, 30 Apr 2025 13:35:00 +0000scottScott provides inquiry and insight at the end of the podcast into the true nature of much self-sabotage, which is unknown to most people and yet active in every relationship. Listen to Scott in rare form speaking very directly about the main duality...2433falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unmet-needism--65793898bf1dd8f8-ee4c-484b-adfb-3e77f9dca171Tue, 29 Apr 2025 13:40:23 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the profound connection between unmet needs and buried emotions. He reveals how our lifelong defenses shield us from confronting core suffering, leading us to seek fulfillment through false means. This compulsion to...1752falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unmet-needism--65788335968cf378-32d4-49ae-945b-c1927c0e28f3Mon, 28 Apr 2025 13:12:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the profound connection between unmet needs and buried emotions. He reveals how our lifelong defenses shield us from confronting core suffering, leading us to seek fulfillment through false means. This compulsion to...1752falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-being-yourself--65742987bf021fa7-36cf-4161-bdc0-1084fe101811Sat, 26 Apr 2025 12:02:00 +0000scottScott weaves together personal, political, spiritual, and other themes relevant to emotional repression for a raw and personal episode. To begin emotional repression Inquiry for free, visit...2177falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-mindful-of-mindfulness-from-the-authors-of-awake-but-sick--65705935d58ccc4b-17f9-457c-a12d-aee9b1649e81Thu, 24 Apr 2025 14:38:00 +0000scottScott and Toshi talk about their experiences with mindfulness and how it can serve as a form of bypassing. They discuss the pitfalls and limitations of mindfulness, particularly when it is used to avoid emotional repression.Mindfulness is explored as...3206falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimate-kink--65652898Come and listen to this insightful and unique exploration of how some of our darkest energies are intertwined with love and light. To start this work for free, click on this free course that shows you how to do KI Emotional Repression Inquiry: https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/]]>7a53685c-415f-4290-a286-7a67a9e95841Mon, 21 Apr 2025 13:34:00 +0000scottJoin Scott for a fun exploration of how his life was split for many years due to repression. In an open relationship, Scott found himself grappling with a BDSM addiction, which served as a means to explore unconscious, buried anger in the submissive...Come and listen to this insightful and unique exploration of how some of our darkest energies are intertwined with love and light. To start this work for free, click on this free course that shows you how to do KI Emotional Repression Inquiry: https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/]]>1934falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/somatic-tests-for-anger-repression--65644246This podcast empowers you to break free from trauma bonds and avoidant practices and discover your true emotional landscape. To start your journey with KI Emotional Repression Inquiry for FREE, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.]]>6287388d-8b96-4411-b6f2-756722436b17Sun, 20 Apr 2025 18:43:00 +0000scottScott invites anyone who even tangentially thinks that they may repress anger to listen to this important episode. This episode comes directly after the release of his free course showing people how to do emotional repression Inquiry (link below)....This podcast empowers you to break free from trauma bonds and avoidant practices and discover your true emotional landscape. To start your journey with KI Emotional Repression Inquiry for FREE, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.]]>2881falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/somatic-tests-for-teachers-coaches-helpers--656355222575a0cc-595c-485d-9df9-cfc8ba28a6e2Sat, 19 Apr 2025 15:23:00 +0000scottScott shares some somatic tests for helpers that have never been shared publicly. The somatic tests are being released in conjunction with the free course teaching you how to do KI emotional repression Inquiry. Scott has been training teachers,...1504falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/procrastination-what-stops-you-keeps-you-safe--65573342f4f4ca3c-5e35-4e8a-9e42-0722dbe2be6cMon, 14 Apr 2025 21:37:04 +0000scottScott shares about the pattern of procrastination among other patterns in the days approaching the release of KI emotional repression inquiry for FREE. Follow Scott on social media to receive the free course. Until then, order his new book, “Awake But...1553falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/personal-note-to-anger-repressors--65570710e97dae1c-fd1b-4e57-807c-b068262663ebMon, 14 Apr 2025 18:12:00 +0000scottHhh1679falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-mind-body-connection--6552782411297cef-05a9-4f22-a6b3-d56b8476b72cThu, 10 Apr 2025 14:05:00 +0000scottIn preparation for the release of free emotional repression Inquiry, Scott is explaining several key topics to help people with the skills of KI, including the mind-body connection and the pain pleasure cycle. Stay tuned for more on both! This episode...1650falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-in-spirituality--655269118363fc4b-2b97-4dc5-ba73-f233df7ac1d3Thu, 10 Apr 2025 12:40:00 +0000scottHhh2286falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/start-free-emotional-repression-inquiry-soon--6544840546b7a015-1243-4181-9163-1eb34869e21aTue, 08 Apr 2025 23:50:02 +0000scottScott invites everyone listening to follow and subscribe to his social media channels because KI Emotional Repression Inquiry will be becoming to the public for free soon. In this podcast episode, Scott delves into the barriers that had to be reduced...2213falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/free-repression-inquiry-soon--654036464ac69bd4-2975-43bf-a51f-614303309a13Mon, 07 Apr 2025 12:00:00 +0000scottScott invites everyone listening to follow and subscribe to his social media channels because KI Emotional Repression Inquiry will be becoming to the public for free soon. In this podcast episode, Scott delves into the barriers that had to be reduced...2851falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/living-truth-is-much-different-than-thinking-about-it--6537178354745ff6-a043-4894-9be4-562a2bf155a8Sat, 05 Apr 2025 12:23:00 +0000scottKk1542falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-get-any-big-ideas-a-path-to-freedom-aligned-with-your-body--65325580572853c3-2f6c-4712-931e-45c895344326Thu, 03 Apr 2025 02:23:00 +0000scottScott and Dan come together to say, “Don’t get any big ideas and then see how that is actually the path to the biggest transformation.” Listen for a radical but super compassionate and mature approach to freedom. If you would like to meet or work with...2248falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/culture-of-sickness-our-suffering-keeps-us-safe--651951661e8bf886-bd7d-4fe2-a68c-32dd638e24c5Fri, 28 Mar 2025 17:05:57 +0000scottScott shares about how science indicates that emotional repression is behind physical diseases revealing that the line between the physical and mental isn’t truly there. We believe we have physical diseases in some cases because it keeps us safe from...1780falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-reasons-i-left-12-step--6513307191e8b806-8761-4a75-9d76-de13329dc93dWed, 26 Mar 2025 11:07:00 +0000scottAfter the podcast episode titled “Authentic v 12 Step Recovery” with codeveloper, Dan McLintock, Scott wanted to come and speak to everyone on a personal level about the set of circumstances and transformation which led to him to leaving 12 step and...2230falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/attachment-theory-is-avoidant-of-buried-emotions--6510735615243b98-1da7-4345-944e-0b63741495b1Tue, 25 Mar 2025 14:27:00 +0000scottScott praises attachment theory for its contribution to KI and also criticizes it for its disconnection from buried emotions. To work directly with Scott in one on one or group, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.1904falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-great-nondual-bypass--650039781ebceaa7-8f6b-46ae-887a-0db73ecb4925Thu, 20 Mar 2025 21:26:19 +0000scottScott began using the term the Great Non-Bypass when he first began introducing emotional repression inquiry to people to denote how widespread spiritual bypassing really is in eastern practices and teachings. That phrase takes note of how...2099falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-all-relationship-from-disconnection-to-authenticity--64993263Scott emphasizes that our unconscious drive for survival and safety contributes to this separation, seen as both an evolutionary drive and a result of intergenerational trauma—suggesting these are not entirely separate issues. He provides a simple roadmap to help those who are suffering and explains the delicate balance between identifying with empathy in a way that protects us from confronting buried anger and feeling separate from others, versus experiencing authentic empathy that allows us to express our emotions and accept others as they are.
If you're interested in Scott's 90-day intensive program, visit him for a free talk at [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Read Scott's blogs on Medium, including: *Needism – The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave:* [https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d).]]>8677e842-9d68-4c8a-9839-0b925869233aThu, 20 Mar 2025 11:09:00 +0000scottScott discusses how, on a spiritual or awakening path, we may begin from a place of separation due to buried emotions from childhood. While seeking connection and authenticity in relationships, our efforts can be hindered by the repression that led us...Scott emphasizes that our unconscious drive for survival and safety contributes to this separation, seen as both an evolutionary drive and a result of intergenerational trauma—suggesting these are not entirely separate issues. He provides a simple roadmap to help those who are suffering and explains the delicate balance between identifying with empathy in a way that protects us from confronting buried anger and feeling separate from others, versus experiencing authentic empathy that allows us to express our emotions and accept others as they are.
If you're interested in Scott's 90-day intensive program, visit him for a free talk at [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Read Scott's blogs on Medium, including: *Needism – The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave:* [https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d).]]>1841falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-addict-and-the-codependent--649751804b88c799-a556-4d86-a9d3-60cb59df6b29Wed, 19 Mar 2025 12:40:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott shares a poignant story about the intricate dance between addiction and codependency, drawing from his extensive personal experience as the owner of addiction treatment centers and someone from a family deeply affected by...990falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/identifying-with-what-s-false-holding-back-what-s-true--64974022Join Scott on a winding journey that connects the dots between childhood development and the persistent struggles we face as adults. He provides a clear and accessible understanding of how emotional suppression continues to create suffering in our lives, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing that when we suppress our truth, we inadvertently cling to what is false.
If you're ready to unravel the complexities of emotional well-being and discover a path toward genuine self-expression, this episode is for you. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>0778c0fa-2abb-486d-9343-69de23fc63bfWed, 19 Mar 2025 12:05:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves deep into the intricate relationship between emotional repression and the identities we form throughout our lives. From an early age, we often hold back our true emotions, leading us to identify with false selves as we...Join Scott on a winding journey that connects the dots between childhood development and the persistent struggles we face as adults. He provides a clear and accessible understanding of how emotional suppression continues to create suffering in our lives, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing that when we suppress our truth, we inadvertently cling to what is false.
If you're ready to unravel the complexities of emotional well-being and discover a path toward genuine self-expression, this episode is for you. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>2270false267fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nervous-system-regulation-v-transformation--649733552079be7e-6b58-47ae-87b3-96f57af8f051Wed, 19 Mar 2025 11:08:00 +0000scottHhh2305falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hyper-independence-and-no-self-special-guest-toshi--649449297a01c0e3-28fd-4a51-9277-5236e0aab4b9Mon, 17 Mar 2025 23:07:00 +0000scottJoin Scott and Toshi, co-authors of Awake But Sick: The Myth of Immediate Freedom and the Dangers of Spiritual Seeking and Finding, as they explore the relationship between hyper-independence and the no-self concept in spirituality. In this insightful...2786falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-new-book-is-out-behind-the-scenes-of-teaching-nonduality--64889137785cb5a7-ecc0-4213-99ab-2a0ec73b5b7cFri, 14 Mar 2025 19:51:00 +0000scottListen to Scott take you behind the scenes of being a Nonduality teacher with emotional repression from the perfect stillness to the sex bathhouses. This episode marks the release of Scott’s new book, “Awake But Sick, the Myth of Immediate Freedom and...2446falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-case-against-awareness--64861358Scott emphasizes that this discussion is not an opposition to awareness; rather, it advocates for true liberation by merging Eastern and Western insights. He highlights that while present-moment awareness is foundational, addressing buried emotions is crucial for alleviating suffering. Tune in to this engaging and provocative podcast as Scott lays the groundwork for his upcoming book and calls for a more integrated approach to spiritual practice.
To work directly with Scott, visit [insert link, https://kiloby.com/scott]]>2c7e7d78-3439-4216-85b6-b84e2f3394d5Thu, 13 Mar 2025 12:12:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the case against solely focusing on awareness-based practices, such as non-dual pointing meditation and mindfulness, in one's transformative journey. He argues that integrating skillful emotional processing is...Scott emphasizes that this discussion is not an opposition to awareness; rather, it advocates for true liberation by merging Eastern and Western insights. He highlights that while present-moment awareness is foundational, addressing buried emotions is crucial for alleviating suffering. Tune in to this engaging and provocative podcast as Scott lays the groundwork for his upcoming book and calls for a more integrated approach to spiritual practice.
To work directly with Scott, visit [insert link, https://kiloby.com/scott]]>2209false268fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pauly-went-along-with-everything--648374979146ef9d-bf0c-453f-bfdc-727457858594Wed, 12 Mar 2025 12:07:00 +0000scottHim2393falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/boundaried-connected--64790028Scott also explains how this avoidant path later informed him about how to teach a more embodied approach. This more body-focused approach has personally given him a greater depth of freedom both in his body and in his relationships. Shifting his focus, Scott moved away from simply pointing to presence, as many teachers do, and instead collaborated with Dan McLintock to develop practical tools (KI emotional repression inquiry) designed to help individuals experience true embodied freedom. If you're interested in joining Scott's jumpstart group or working directly with him in his 90-day intensive, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>d813484c-c44b-4a41-bc20-7175a507d37cMon, 10 Mar 2025 12:25:00 +0000scottThis episode delves into Scott's personal approach to living, as well as his insights on personal and business relationships, illustrating how the personal, impersonal, and interpersonal are interconnected through the shared root of suffering. Scott...Scott also explains how this avoidant path later informed him about how to teach a more embodied approach. This more body-focused approach has personally given him a greater depth of freedom both in his body and in his relationships. Shifting his focus, Scott moved away from simply pointing to presence, as many teachers do, and instead collaborated with Dan McLintock to develop practical tools (KI emotional repression inquiry) designed to help individuals experience true embodied freedom. If you're interested in joining Scott's jumpstart group or working directly with him in his 90-day intensive, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>2631falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/awake-but-sick-scott-s-new-book--64739130e271c617-4a9f-4aab-bd3b-c3feee0aa44dThu, 06 Mar 2025 22:20:21 +0000scottScott’s new book on the myth of immediate freedom and the dangers of spiritual seeking and finding is out March 14th. Pre-order now: https://kiloby.com/awake-but-sick.2420falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-shadows-connect-to-separation--6470133249119c72-0b35-466f-a17d-4b99641426b4Tue, 04 Mar 2025 20:08:00 +0000scottScott goes into depth around how his previous shadow modalities and other such modalities do not get to the very root of the shadows, which is emotional repression. He breaks apart the entire process of how we miss it in our direct experience. We miss...1602false233fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/most-of-what-is-is-buried--64701337To work directly with Scott, contact: ________]]>80b40869-dd69-436d-953e-33d5690a809eTue, 04 Mar 2025 20:07:00 +0000scottIn this episode of the podcast, host Scott delves into the duality of buried emotions and their role in creating surface-level suffering. Using the analogy of an iceberg, he illustrates how much of our emotional experience lies hidden beneath the...To work directly with Scott, contact: ________]]>2163falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unmet-needs-are-externalized-core-fears--647004713eaaf985-c30d-418c-b204-e52bdf0e938bTue, 04 Mar 2025 19:00:00 +0000scottCore3534falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/true-love-doesn-t-suffer--64692531As individuals begin to process their buried emotions, they uncover a love rooted in authenticity—one that allows for the full spectrum of feelings to be expressed. This authentic love shifts the dynamics of relationships, transforming them into spaces characterized by peace, wholeness, and flow that arises naturally from the emotional honesty that comes from processing buried emotions. By approaching relationships from this place of authenticity, suffering can give way to genuine connection and fulfillment.
If you're interested in working with Scott and want to talk to him for free about his 90-day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>32debd24-8daf-427f-b8b3-7e18c5449715Tue, 04 Mar 2025 13:04:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the complexities of emotional repression and its impact on our relationships. He explores how unmet needs for love, safety, and approval often lie beneath the surface, driving our behavior in unconscious ways. When...As individuals begin to process their buried emotions, they uncover a love rooted in authenticity—one that allows for the full spectrum of feelings to be expressed. This authentic love shifts the dynamics of relationships, transforming them into spaces characterized by peace, wholeness, and flow that arises naturally from the emotional honesty that comes from processing buried emotions. By approaching relationships from this place of authenticity, suffering can give way to genuine connection and fulfillment.
If you're interested in working with Scott and want to talk to him for free about his 90-day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2458falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-happiness-first--64675176b76e1e42-b54f-4662-afd0-0d64664a9af3Mon, 03 Mar 2025 15:00:00 +0000scottScott gets really personal, explaining how being a teacher has been good for others including others very close to him, but it hasn’t always been good for him. Scott speaks candidly about his last relationship including post-breakup issues and what...1919falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-v-12-step-recovery--64634520e1815ad2-cc80-423a-a3ab-8c8952b8be42Fri, 28 Feb 2025 20:40:58 +0000scottScott Kiloby & Dan McLintock, the co-founders / developers of the KI, sit down for a podcast discussion about their experience of authentic recovery from addiction (aka resolving their emotional repression) vs what they experienced in 12 Step...5147falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-being-so-nice-and-good-when-you-re-raging-underneath--64611914ea5667ee-5b8f-4299-8655-d18b83ff4706Thu, 27 Feb 2025 20:06:00 +0000scottScott answers the question of what life is like before and after anchor repression Inquiry in KI. He answers it in a very unique way by speaking to anger repressor in a way that he wished people would speak to him when he couldn’t see his own nice and...2525false254fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-triggers-the-hidden-root-of-our-reactions--64611910On a spiritual or healing path, we may mistakenly engage in awareness-based or inquiry processes aiming to avoid these buried feelings, which can unintentionally perpetuate our suffering rather than alleviate it. In this podcast, Scott unpacks the true source of our triggers and illustrates how an overemphasis on these responses can blind us to the deeper issues at play—specifically, the unmet needs from our childhood that connect to these buried emotions.
Listeners will gain a greater understanding of how addressing our triggers is essential, yet not sufficient on its own, to truly heal and break free from the patterns that drive our suffering. If you're ready to delve deeper into the roots of your reactions and emotional experiences, this episode offers critical insights for your journey toward authentic healing.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>37ca0463-5f24-40f6-a856-0625dd4db9f6Thu, 27 Feb 2025 20:05:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the origins of relationship triggers and the complex interplay between buried emotions and various trauma responses—such as fight, flight, freeze, or fawn—or self-limiting beliefs that arise when we are triggered. These...On a spiritual or healing path, we may mistakenly engage in awareness-based or inquiry processes aiming to avoid these buried feelings, which can unintentionally perpetuate our suffering rather than alleviate it. In this podcast, Scott unpacks the true source of our triggers and illustrates how an overemphasis on these responses can blind us to the deeper issues at play—specifically, the unmet needs from our childhood that connect to these buried emotions.
Listeners will gain a greater understanding of how addressing our triggers is essential, yet not sufficient on its own, to truly heal and break free from the patterns that drive our suffering. If you're ready to delve deeper into the roots of your reactions and emotional experiences, this episode offers critical insights for your journey toward authentic healing.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>1999false264fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-it-safe-to-care-and-love-deeply--64611907a9b89751-0ac9-4abd-85cf-a426615aa09cThu, 27 Feb 2025 20:02:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the question: Is it safe to care and love deeply? He distinguishes between genuine care and the superficial empathy often confused with it. Genuine care is embodied, arising from the processing of buried emotions and...2435falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/embodiment-is-your-simple-natural-self--64611903a0fbe9e5-92d6-427e-8ba3-0216cb84fd14Thu, 27 Feb 2025 19:55:00 +0000scottThree phases and third phase. Back to child2417falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-in-sexuality--64610984b1fbf2a1-cfd9-46b5-a262-2ba2689636d0Thu, 27 Feb 2025 18:58:00 +0000scottHhh2022falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/beyond-the-shame-of-inauthenticity-open-letter-to-bessel-van-der-kolk-gabor-mate-and-peter-levine--64605019This episode is not just an exploration of these themes; it’s also an invitation to these leaders for collaboration. If you resonate with the topic of shame and are interested in joining Scott's March Jumpstart group to learn about emotional repression inquiry, or if you'd like to talk to Scott for free about potentially working with him in his one-on-one 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>bf082fc3-c17e-4bc7-a8ea-306166b7c0abThu, 27 Feb 2025 13:07:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott discusses layers of shame, inspired by the work of Bessel van der Kolk, Gabor Maté, and Peter Levine. He shares his personal experience, revealing how he spent over five years mistakenly viewing shame as the final layer of his...This episode is not just an exploration of these themes; it’s also an invitation to these leaders for collaboration. If you resonate with the topic of shame and are interested in joining Scott's March Jumpstart group to learn about emotional repression inquiry, or if you'd like to talk to Scott for free about potentially working with him in his one-on-one 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>1851falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/last-chance-to-onboard--64553028Sign up for his KI Jumpstart Group here: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.]]>f92d6644-2a05-498b-82b7-70bd4eb55b08Mon, 24 Feb 2025 23:30:43 +0000scottScott has an important announcement you won’t want to miss. Sign up for his KI Jumpstart Group here: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.Sign up for his KI Jumpstart Group here: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.]]>2317falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-responsible-for-the-bad-in-others--64533114While acknowledging the real issues and suffering present in the world, Scott aims to help listeners understand how emotional repression contributes to dualities of good and bad. He addresses a listener's question about the listener's sense of responsibility for others' suffering. The sense of responsibility for others' emotional experiences arises from our own unprocessed emotions and codependency.
Scott also invites you to join his Jumpstart Group starting March 1st—a one-month program designed to help you process buried emotions safely in present awareness: [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart)]]>84815724-afa0-48c0-8982-78aec180945aSun, 23 Feb 2025 21:51:21 +0000scottJoin Scott in this thought-provoking episode as he tackles the complex question: Are we responsible for the bad in others? Delving into emotional repression, Scott explores how buried anger made him fixate on the bad in others. While acknowledging the...While acknowledging the real issues and suffering present in the world, Scott aims to help listeners understand how emotional repression contributes to dualities of good and bad. He addresses a listener's question about the listener's sense of responsibility for others' suffering. The sense of responsibility for others' emotional experiences arises from our own unprocessed emotions and codependency.
Scott also invites you to join his Jumpstart Group starting March 1st—a one-month program designed to help you process buried emotions safely in present awareness: [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart)]]>1150falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hi-again-maryam-work-out-your-sexual-issues-elsewhere--644785733940d6a0-4e6e-45f3-904b-c55803858cc6Thu, 20 Feb 2025 15:36:11 +0000scottAs I’ve stated publicly many times, I am not a woman trapped in a man’s body. My issues with sexuality and gender were connected to anger and femininity repression. I thought that I was going to transition, but that’s because I was afraid of my own...99falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/joy-and-free-inquiry--64435856See the free resources below. Save these resources in your own playlist because more are coming. Watch for new short videos on Scott’s social media channels showing you these 1D and 2D tools (explained in this episode) and how to use them.
Free inquiry from KI: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wpNzMrtFSHxgcpmGh-05aX79UYdtbEO&si=GtUdxXXOLPxjT75D
Free Nonduality (Watch first four videos at least): https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wpNzMrtFSE8LVwJ1m0HvczyrphrEM8y&si=GgExcGgBP9Eh-FiL]]>d1f844fe-26a6-4bbb-9459-24bfb3768d77Tue, 18 Feb 2025 14:41:00 +0000scottScott shares his vision for ‘freedom at all costs’ without the financial and health costs of spiritual bypassing and for his teaching overall in 2025 and beyond. See the free resources below. Save these resources in your own playlist because more are...See the free resources below. Save these resources in your own playlist because more are coming. Watch for new short videos on Scott’s social media channels showing you these 1D and 2D tools (explained in this episode) and how to use them.
Free inquiry from KI: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wpNzMrtFSHxgcpmGh-05aX79UYdtbEO&si=GtUdxXXOLPxjT75D
Free Nonduality (Watch first four videos at least): https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_wpNzMrtFSE8LVwJ1m0HvczyrphrEM8y&si=GgExcGgBP9Eh-FiL]]>1979falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-need-your-love-but-i-m-afraid-of-it--64435069b16f99d0-a312-43bf-b8fc-53062d3a5586Tue, 18 Feb 2025 13:53:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott simplifies seemingly complex topics such as avoidant or anxious attachment styles, unmet needs, and other forms of suffering at the surface, connecting them to some very basic conditioning in the body that can be summed up as "I...2178falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/beginning-authentic-recovery-from-addiction--644182359d89b2ae-c254-44a1-81c4-f83b10cefe60Mon, 17 Feb 2025 13:19:00 +0000scottIn preparation for Scott's upcoming podcast with co-developer Dan McLintock on the critique of the 12-step program, Scott explains what authentic recovery means for him. He shares that his journey began only when he started processing the buried...1214falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-cost-of-true-freedom-a-radical-conversation-with-toshi-matsunaga--64397259To work with Toshi, book a clarity call here: https://kiloby.com/toshi. Sign up for Toshi's monthly non-duality and KI workshop here: https://kiloby.com/nonduality.]]>57d98f59-3c92-45bd-aea8-1d38aa0e76a5Sat, 15 Feb 2025 22:20:41 +0000scottIn this exciting episode of the podcast, Scott is thrilled to welcome his co-author and fellow KI co-developer and trainer, Toshi Matsunaga. Scott and Toshi co-authored the book *Awake but Sick: The Myth of Immediate Freedom and the Dangers of...To work with Toshi, book a clarity call here: https://kiloby.com/toshi. Sign up for Toshi's monthly non-duality and KI workshop here: https://kiloby.com/nonduality.]]>3170falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/empathetic-needism-in-social-media--64340441To speak with Scott for free about his 90-day intensive, visit Colin [kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Please read Scott's blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d.]]>e4f6d98c-0d0f-4a6c-98a6-c31da7c18242Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:00:00 +0000scottScott was falling asleep one night while listening to something on YouTube when he suddenly woke up to something appalling. He heard a social media influencer, who is very popular but struggles with anger repression, bamboozling her entire audience by...To speak with Scott for free about his 90-day intensive, visit Colin [kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Please read Scott's blog on Medium: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d.]]>2116falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/joy-and-free-inquiry--64321607Please read Scott's blog, *A Guide to Happiness and Authenticity in Relationships*: [https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334](https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334).]]>d10b061b-d1cb-4329-b2e3-08296d4b4bc8Tue, 11 Feb 2025 13:24:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott discusses how joy and happiness eluded him over his lifetime, even after his awakening to presence. He reflects on how he found peace, which he later realized was more of a trauma response tied to buried anger. Scott emphasizes...Please read Scott's blog, *A Guide to Happiness and Authenticity in Relationships*: [https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334](https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334).]]>2188falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authenticity-builds-trust--64295789He explains that all trust issues ultimately relate back to self-trust, highlighting how emotional repression can hinder our ability to express our true feelings and, consequently, trust others. Scott uses the questioner's concerns to explore trust as an internal process, stressing that genuine trust is developed through processing buried emotions. Authentic relationships emerge from this exploration of self.
If you're interested in joining Scott's group Jumpstart in March or want to consider working with him one-on-one, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.]]>73637803-d2ee-4097-ac91-46934bb1989eMon, 10 Feb 2025 08:34:09 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott dives deep into building trust through authenticity. He addresses a question from an audience member who is considering engaging in KI but feels hesitant about trusting Scott and the method. Scott shares his own experiences with...He explains that all trust issues ultimately relate back to self-trust, highlighting how emotional repression can hinder our ability to express our true feelings and, consequently, trust others. Scott uses the questioner's concerns to explore trust as an internal process, stressing that genuine trust is developed through processing buried emotions. Authentic relationships emerge from this exploration of self.
If you're interested in joining Scott's group Jumpstart in March or want to consider working with him one-on-one, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.]]>1877falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-avoidants-really-cheat--64251536He discusses how unmet emotional needs from childhood often lead to deceptive behaviors and emphasizes that buried emotions, if unacknowledged, can result in cycles of guilt and shame.Scott highlights that individuals who cheat may later feel overwhelming guilt or shame and an urgent need to hide or apologize, showcasing the internal struggles tied to unprocessed feelings. By addressing the roots of infidelity, Scott provides valuable insights into the emotional complexities that drive such behaviors and the way out of this suffering.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>d846b0b5-da4b-4ae5-b872-c467f9a510d1Fri, 07 Feb 2025 13:26:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the hidden dynamics of avoidant attachment style and why individuals may cheat in relationships. This episode is a result of many people asking Scott about the common infidelity among spiritual teachers and how they...He discusses how unmet emotional needs from childhood often lead to deceptive behaviors and emphasizes that buried emotions, if unacknowledged, can result in cycles of guilt and shame.Scott highlights that individuals who cheat may later feel overwhelming guilt or shame and an urgent need to hide or apologize, showcasing the internal struggles tied to unprocessed feelings. By addressing the roots of infidelity, Scott provides valuable insights into the emotional complexities that drive such behaviors and the way out of this suffering.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>1944false266fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmond-freud--64206156The episode examines various perspectives on suffering, including theories from Sigmund Freud, Anna Lembke, and Donald Hoffman. Each offers unique insights, but Scott urges listeners to recognize that merely analyzing these theories isn't enough. True change comes from actively processing buried emotions. Scott also touches on non-dual traditions that challenge the idea of separation, suggesting that recognizing our interconnectedness can alleviate suffering. He calls for a shift from survival mode to thriving, encouraging listeners to embrace emotional responsibility and seek deeper connections with themselves.
To join Scott's monthly KI Jumpstart group or to come and speak to Scott for free if you're interested in working with him and his one-on-one 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.
To read Scott’s blog on Medium called The Burial and Resurrection of Sigmond Freud, visit https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938.]]>bbafca8f-46b9-49cd-8358-9ad202d0dee5Wed, 05 Feb 2025 13:23:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the intricate factors that shape human motivation and behavior, drawing insights from his recent blogs on Medium. He discusses how our genes, environment, cultures, and conditioning are inseparable, but emphasizes...The episode examines various perspectives on suffering, including theories from Sigmund Freud, Anna Lembke, and Donald Hoffman. Each offers unique insights, but Scott urges listeners to recognize that merely analyzing these theories isn't enough. True change comes from actively processing buried emotions. Scott also touches on non-dual traditions that challenge the idea of separation, suggesting that recognizing our interconnectedness can alleviate suffering. He calls for a shift from survival mode to thriving, encouraging listeners to embrace emotional responsibility and seek deeper connections with themselves.
To join Scott's monthly KI Jumpstart group or to come and speak to Scott for free if you're interested in working with him and his one-on-one 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart.
To read Scott’s blog on Medium called The Burial and Resurrection of Sigmond Freud, visit https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938.]]>2524falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gurus-and-bad-boys--641888240742db8c-c137-4933-8a70-599f0de1df92Tue, 04 Feb 2025 13:25:00 +0000scottTo work directly with Scott, https://kiloby.com/scott1539false260fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-compassion-and-empathy--64168398In this episode, Scott explores how he has come to recognize that authentic compassion is rooted in a genuine desire to alleviate suffering, while authentic empathy involves receiving another's experience free from the distortions of one's own unresolved emotions.
If you're interested in working with Scott, whether through a group jumpstart mentorship or a free consultation about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).]]>d78de752-ff3e-4c78-8448-4d75559add5fMon, 03 Feb 2025 13:17:00 +0000scottScott shares his personal story of transformation as a non-duality teacher, reflecting on how his teachings, while initially beneficial, often helped others sidestep their own unresolved feelings by pointing to presence. This approach inadvertently...In this episode, Scott explores how he has come to recognize that authentic compassion is rooted in a genuine desire to alleviate suffering, while authentic empathy involves receiving another's experience free from the distortions of one's own unresolved emotions.
If you're interested in working with Scott, whether through a group jumpstart mentorship or a free consultation about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).]]>2178falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rumination-and-the-perpetuation-of-suffering--64129756If you would like to join Scott's month-long KI jumpstart group or talk to him for free about working with him one-on-one in his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>2e61531a-351e-4921-897a-dd42087719e3Sat, 01 Feb 2025 16:33:13 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into a unique and often unexplored topic of how witnessing phenomena coming and going to awareness can perpetuate suffering through the ruminating effect of that kind of practice. For years, Scott lived in the seeing of...If you would like to join Scott's month-long KI jumpstart group or talk to him for free about working with him one-on-one in his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/jumpstart](https://kiloby.com/jumpstart).]]>1784falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-empathy-meets-narcissism-special-guest-mark-vicente--64072505Mark Vicente is an author, speaker, and award-winning Writer/Director/Producer from Johannesburg, South Africa. His filmmaking journey began at a young age, leading him to become the Director of Photography for the musical *Sarafina!*, starring Whoopi Goldberg, and one of the youngest cinematographers to shoot a big-budget studio film with Disney’s *Fatherhood*, featuring Patrick Swayze and Halle Berry.
Driven by a desire to tell untold stories, Mark created the groundbreaking film *What the BLEEP do we Know?!*, which blended science, philosophy, and filmmaking, achieving remarkable success through grassroots marketing. He later released *Encender el Corazon*, addressing the kidnapping epidemic in Mexico, but made the difficult decision to pull it from distribution after uncovering ties to the criminal enterprise NXIVM. This journey was documented in the HBO series *THE VOW*.
Mark's current project, *Empathy Not Included* (The Narcissist’s Playbook), is a feature-length documentary that explores the pervasive issue of narcissism, featuring insights from self-aware malignant narcissists alongside wisdom from survivors and mental health professionals.]]>80aad0f2-7978-47b4-a163-0c6065d8813aFri, 31 Jan 2025 06:20:21 +0000scottScott is excited for listeners to hear this interview with Mark Vicente. Mark Vicente is an author, speaker, and award-winning Writer/Director/Producer from Johannesburg, South Africa. His filmmaking journey began at a young age, leading him to become...Mark Vicente is an author, speaker, and award-winning Writer/Director/Producer from Johannesburg, South Africa. His filmmaking journey began at a young age, leading him to become the Director of Photography for the musical *Sarafina!*, starring Whoopi Goldberg, and one of the youngest cinematographers to shoot a big-budget studio film with Disney’s *Fatherhood*, featuring Patrick Swayze and Halle Berry.
Driven by a desire to tell untold stories, Mark created the groundbreaking film *What the BLEEP do we Know?!*, which blended science, philosophy, and filmmaking, achieving remarkable success through grassroots marketing. He later released *Encender el Corazon*, addressing the kidnapping epidemic in Mexico, but made the difficult decision to pull it from distribution after uncovering ties to the criminal enterprise NXIVM. This journey was documented in the HBO series *THE VOW*.
Mark's current project, *Empathy Not Included* (The Narcissist’s Playbook), is a feature-length documentary that explores the pervasive issue of narcissism, featuring insights from self-aware malignant narcissists alongside wisdom from survivors and mental health professionals.]]>3620falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-the-more-repressed-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave--63973424The need for connection, coming from the disconnection in our bodies, can spiral out of control when we do not do our own work. Need is essentially a separation from ourselves, which leads to seeking needs to get met by others. Until we do our own transformative work, we are operating from disconnection and needing. The insidious thing about it is that we will deny it because these needs and the emotions connected to them are buried. This is a call to action for everyone to engage in the inner work necessary for transformation, as it can ultimately transform the entire earth. The issues we face, whether they be greed, crime, drugs, divorce, or narcissism on social media, stem from basic human needs that we have buried. By uncovering these needs, we hold the key to our ultimate freedom.
To work directly with Scott, come talk to him about his 90-day intensive program by visiting: https://kiloby.com/scott.
Please read Scott's blog on Medium titled, Needism: The More Repressed We Are, the More Narcissistic We Behave: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d]]>ec8b8e58-7a63-484d-8748-df3182c729d2Tue, 28 Jan 2025 20:07:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott calls narcissism "needism" to help reduce the stigma surrounding the subject. He emphasizes that we all have narcissistic tendencies, even if some exhibit more extreme, diagnosable forms. By owning the mechanisms of emotional...The need for connection, coming from the disconnection in our bodies, can spiral out of control when we do not do our own work. Need is essentially a separation from ourselves, which leads to seeking needs to get met by others. Until we do our own transformative work, we are operating from disconnection and needing. The insidious thing about it is that we will deny it because these needs and the emotions connected to them are buried. This is a call to action for everyone to engage in the inner work necessary for transformation, as it can ultimately transform the entire earth. The issues we face, whether they be greed, crime, drugs, divorce, or narcissism on social media, stem from basic human needs that we have buried. By uncovering these needs, we hold the key to our ultimate freedom.
To work directly with Scott, come talk to him about his 90-day intensive program by visiting: https://kiloby.com/scott.
Please read Scott's blog on Medium titled, Needism: The More Repressed We Are, the More Narcissistic We Behave: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d]]>2401falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-guide-to-happiness-and-authenticity-in-relationship--639325877331e9f1-d69d-4343-8df2-257c90a8ba8eMon, 27 Jan 2025 13:24:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott delves into how making conscious the mechanism that creates suffering is our opportunity to experience our authentic being and live life without suffering. We have to continue suffering until it feels safe for us to feel and...662falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/feels-like-i-m-going-to-lose-my-mind-bringing-borderline-personality-disorder-into-the-body--63905136Listeners can expect a refreshing viewpoint on BPD, and Scott encourages them to share the podcast with researchers, therapists, and others working in the field to help advance the understanding of this complex, trauma-based mental health issue. To work with Scott in his 90-day intensive program, come speak to him for free by visiting [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott). Read Scott's blog: *The Burial and Resurrection of Sigmund Freud: The Impact of Ignoring Emotional Repression in Therapy*: [https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938](https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938).]]>aae8498a-8d0b-45eb-aeb7-5ee78fb42f5eSun, 26 Jan 2025 04:59:03 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott shares his insights on borderline personality disorder (BPD) and explores the mind-body connections related to emotional repression that contribute to the fear of abandonment and other distinct patterns associated with BPD....Listeners can expect a refreshing viewpoint on BPD, and Scott encourages them to share the podcast with researchers, therapists, and others working in the field to help advance the understanding of this complex, trauma-based mental health issue. To work with Scott in his 90-day intensive program, come speak to him for free by visiting [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott). Read Scott's blog: *The Burial and Resurrection of Sigmund Freud: The Impact of Ignoring Emotional Repression in Therapy*: [https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938](https://medium.com/@skiloby/the-burial-and-resurrection-of-sigmund-freud-the-impact-of-ignoring-emotional-repression-in-therapy-dd42651a5938).]]>3030falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rediscovering-joy-love-and-trust-through-processing-domestic-abuse-scott-interviews-serena--63825460She discusses her journey through intense suffering and mental health challenges, highlighting how KI Emotional Repression Inquiry has been pivotal in her transformation.
Through this transformative process, Serena has rediscovered her connection with her body, emotions, and self, as well as her vulnerability, love and trust in relationships with friends, family, and men.
If you’re interested in meeting or working with her, you can book a free Discovery Call here: www.kiloby.com/Serena]]>0d311038-e1e0-4cb5-bdcb-e0cd7abafc56Wed, 22 Jan 2025 19:42:26 +0000scottScott talks to KI Mentor Serena Senteshi. Serena shares deeply personal experiences of childhood sexual and physical violence, shedding light on the domestic abuse she endured and the unconscious coping mechanisms she developed to survive. She...She discusses her journey through intense suffering and mental health challenges, highlighting how KI Emotional Repression Inquiry has been pivotal in her transformation.
Through this transformative process, Serena has rediscovered her connection with her body, emotions, and self, as well as her vulnerability, love and trust in relationships with friends, family, and men.
If you’re interested in meeting or working with her, you can book a free Discovery Call here: www.kiloby.com/Serena]]>3809falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave--63813584Scott invites listeners to follow him on both Reddit and Medium, where he has resumed blogging after a long hiatus from writing. In particular, he highlights a compelling article on Medium that dives deeper into the themes of this podcast episode. You can find the article here: https://tinyurl.com/Needism.
If you resonate with the topics discussed in this podcast and Scott's blog, he offers a unique opportunity for a free consultation about his one-on-one 90-day intensive program. For more information, please visit https://kiloby.com.
Read Scott's blogs on Medium, including: *Needism – The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave:* [https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d).]]>42d999c0-07dc-46d4-a915-8a8f3e09bc1aWed, 22 Jan 2025 13:45:00 +0000scottJoin Scott as he delves into the concept of NEEDISM, a less stigmatizing term for narcissism that focuses on the unconscious emotional repression driving it. Scott discusses how these dynamics can lead to the projection of falseness or ego as...Scott invites listeners to follow him on both Reddit and Medium, where he has resumed blogging after a long hiatus from writing. In particular, he highlights a compelling article on Medium that dives deeper into the themes of this podcast episode. You can find the article here: https://tinyurl.com/Needism.
If you resonate with the topics discussed in this podcast and Scott's blog, he offers a unique opportunity for a free consultation about his one-on-one 90-day intensive program. For more information, please visit https://kiloby.com.
Read Scott's blogs on Medium, including: *Needism – The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave:* [https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d).]]>3524falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/preying-on-the-wounded--63813583Scott shares his current needs and boundaries in connecting with people, emphasizing the importance of engaging meaningfully with his audience. He invites listeners to join him in 2025 to expand his outreach and deepen this work. Additionally, Scott encourages readers to explore his blog on Medium, where he discusses these issues further, aiming to connect with teachers and academics while supporting his ideas with necessary research.
He specifically references his article titled "Needism: The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave" on Medium, highlighting its relevance to the subject matter of the podcast. You can read the article [here](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d). This piece provides additional insights into his perspectives on emotional repression and its impact on behavior.]]>9022f94b-44e0-4f8d-b4f0-3b3e95da9b57Wed, 22 Jan 2025 13:29:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott reflects on his journey of confronting buried anger and codependent patterns, where he prioritized helping others over addressing his own suffering. He expresses a profound disgust for his previous actions, realizing that...Scott shares his current needs and boundaries in connecting with people, emphasizing the importance of engaging meaningfully with his audience. He invites listeners to join him in 2025 to expand his outreach and deepen this work. Additionally, Scott encourages readers to explore his blog on Medium, where he discusses these issues further, aiming to connect with teachers and academics while supporting his ideas with necessary research.
He specifically references his article titled "Needism: The More Repressed We Are, The More Narcissistic We Behave" on Medium, highlighting its relevance to the subject matter of the podcast. You can read the article [here](https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d). This piece provides additional insights into his perspectives on emotional repression and its impact on behavior.]]>2408falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-and-narcissism-the-covert-agendas-of-buried-anger--63783403Listeners are urged during the podcast to search AI on the issue of whether unmet needs are also hidden and connected to buried emotions. As AI will indicate, the answer is yes. Join Scott for an insightful exploration of the direct connection between narcissism and embodied love and authenticity. If you're interested in talking to Scott for free about his 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>d84459b7-5fa8-41bb-9c2d-5261f342d29fTue, 21 Jan 2025 13:48:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the complex relationship between love and narcissism, focusing on the covert agendas that stem from buried anger and unmet emotional needs. He emphasizes that when we confront our own narcissistic tendencies, rooted...Listeners are urged during the podcast to search AI on the issue of whether unmet needs are also hidden and connected to buried emotions. As AI will indicate, the answer is yes. Join Scott for an insightful exploration of the direct connection between narcissism and embodied love and authenticity. If you're interested in talking to Scott for free about his 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2296falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/finding-safety-and-love-within--63831487Scott reflects on how he believed that his suffering—rooted in hurt, grief, and sadness—was the entirety of his existence from childhood until the age of 40. However, after awakening to non-dual awareness in 2007, he noticed that much of the hurt and sadness began to fade, albeit with a few triggers remaining. This journey ultimately revealed a bypass of buried anger that had prevented him from discovering his authenticity. It was only through processing this buried anger that Scott could truly find safety and love within himself.
To speak with Scott for free about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Additionally, you can read Scott's blog on Medium titled "Guide to Present Happiness and Authentic Relationships" at [https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334](https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334).]]>a89d34cd-9504-4a1c-9594-c106a8dec0c9Tue, 21 Jan 2025 00:01:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the journey of finding safety and love by processing buried emotions through present moment awareness. He shares his experience of identifying with sadness and other vulnerable emotions in relationships, and...Scott reflects on how he believed that his suffering—rooted in hurt, grief, and sadness—was the entirety of his existence from childhood until the age of 40. However, after awakening to non-dual awareness in 2007, he noticed that much of the hurt and sadness began to fade, albeit with a few triggers remaining. This journey ultimately revealed a bypass of buried anger that had prevented him from discovering his authenticity. It was only through processing this buried anger that Scott could truly find safety and love within himself.
To speak with Scott for free about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).
Additionally, you can read Scott's blog on Medium titled "Guide to Present Happiness and Authentic Relationships" at [https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334](https://medium.com/@skiloby/guide-to-present-happiness-and-authentic-relationships-6e2b1c5f5334).]]>1778falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jiffy-and-the-christ-beloved--63771544Check out Scott’s blog on how social media influencers and teachers have unmet needs and buried emotions and don’t know it and may not want to know: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d]]>9e2e1aa5-b357-4182-8b6f-4e83cfb153eeMon, 20 Jan 2025 22:48:45 +0000scottScott tells the story of Jiffy, a girl who never opened to the hurt and sadness of childhood. Jiffy learned to cope by being powerful to hide both the vulnerable emotions and the delicate side of her femininity. Throughout life, Jiffy could not find...Check out Scott’s blog on how social media influencers and teachers have unmet needs and buried emotions and don’t know it and may not want to know: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d]]>830falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/if-you-see-buddha-kill-him--63763889Scott emphasizes that true transformation comes from processing buried emotions rather than avoiding them through spirituality. He reveals how the KI emotional repression inquiry helped him confront his own spiritual ego, which involved identification with safer traits like compassion, empathy, and even the direct experience of awareness to avoid buried anger— the producer of shadows.
Scott invites you to explore the depths of your own emotional landscape and discover how addressing buried feelings can lead to authenticity and liberation.
If you're interested in working with Scott, whether through a group jumpstart mentorship or a free consultation about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).]]>22edba48-35b2-46be-ba27-ca277fa270f8Mon, 20 Jan 2025 12:31:00 +0000scottScott shares his personal journey as a non-duality teacher, reflecting on how he once struggled with unresolved anger and the shadows it created in his life. He introduces the Zen saying, "If you see the Buddha on the road, kill him," and explains its...Scott emphasizes that true transformation comes from processing buried emotions rather than avoiding them through spirituality. He reveals how the KI emotional repression inquiry helped him confront his own spiritual ego, which involved identification with safer traits like compassion, empathy, and even the direct experience of awareness to avoid buried anger— the producer of shadows.
Scott invites you to explore the depths of your own emotional landscape and discover how addressing buried feelings can lead to authenticity and liberation.
If you're interested in working with Scott, whether through a group jumpstart mentorship or a free consultation about his 90-day intensive program, visit [https://kiloby.com/scott](https://kiloby.com/scott).]]>1757falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vehicles-of-transformation-a-different-side-of-scott-kiloby--63706416To read Scott’s article on “Needism,” mentioned in this episode, visit: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d.
To speak to Scott for Free about his 90 day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>5194f550-21f8-42a0-a5bd-2fd255a92387Wed, 15 Jan 2025 22:04:00 +0000scottScott shares a light-hearted personal account of how just about everything that we see is a potential vehicle for transformation. Come have a laugh and a relaxing moment with Scott in his more casual mood that people don’t often see when he is...To read Scott’s article on “Needism,” mentioned in this episode, visit: https://medium.com/@skiloby/needism-the-more-unconscious-we-are-the-more-narcissistic-we-behave-dc63b6cbcf6d.
To speak to Scott for Free about his 90 day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1130falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/repression-earth-what-motivates-us-to-suffer-and-why-do-we-care--63700241dab50bc1-7458-4c73-b655-a2d327d4f389Wed, 15 Jan 2025 12:43:00 +0000scottReflecting on his recent in depth article on Medium called “Repression Earth,” Scott delves into the intricate layers of human motivation, examining how emotional repression influences suffering. He explores a range of psychological theories, from...2754falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-pain-pleasure-cycle-new-advancements-in-ki--63674733Using the iceberg model as a framework, Scott categorizes emotional programs into two distinct areas: those that reside above the water, representing our needs for connection, safety, and validation, and those that lie beneath, encompassing the pain-producing programs associated with the repression of anger, sadness, and hurt.
This episode emphasizes how unmet needs are connected to emotional repression, showing people a very direct, accessible, and simple way to see how the pain-pleasure cycle creates suffering from emotional repression in their everyday experience.
This episode is focused on how to dismantle barriers to authentic expression and connection by addressing skillfully the pain-pleasure mechanism. This leads to a more fulfilling life and improved relationships.
If you are interested in working with Scott and his one-on-one 90-day intensive program using the beta version of what he has described in this episode, come speak to him for free at https://kiloby.com/scott.
Check out Scott’s full article on Medium on this topic (with the science to support): https://medium.com/@skiloby/emotional-repression-and-the-pain-pleasure-principle-e5a531787086.]]>2149991e-e804-4724-90aa-c26a9c0e62ceMon, 13 Jan 2025 12:03:00 +0000scottIn this special episode, revealing upcoming developments in KI, Scott explores how emotional repression influences human behavior through the lens of the pleasure-pain principle. This principle, rooted in early psychological theories, highlights our...Using the iceberg model as a framework, Scott categorizes emotional programs into two distinct areas: those that reside above the water, representing our needs for connection, safety, and validation, and those that lie beneath, encompassing the pain-producing programs associated with the repression of anger, sadness, and hurt.
This episode emphasizes how unmet needs are connected to emotional repression, showing people a very direct, accessible, and simple way to see how the pain-pleasure cycle creates suffering from emotional repression in their everyday experience.
This episode is focused on how to dismantle barriers to authentic expression and connection by addressing skillfully the pain-pleasure mechanism. This leads to a more fulfilling life and improved relationships.
If you are interested in working with Scott and his one-on-one 90-day intensive program using the beta version of what he has described in this episode, come speak to him for free at https://kiloby.com/scott.
Check out Scott’s full article on Medium on this topic (with the science to support): https://medium.com/@skiloby/emotional-repression-and-the-pain-pleasure-principle-e5a531787086.]]>3427falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scott-has-a-big-announcement--63638120Read Scott’s article mentioned in the episode related to the announcement next: https://medium.com/@skiloby/emotional-repression-and-the-pain-pleasure-principle-e5a531787086.
If you’re interested in speaking to Scott for free about his one on one 90 day intensive, or signing up for the Feb KI jumpstart to experience this beta version of KI that’s being developed, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart. For the free Clarity Call with Scott, scroll down to the bottom of the page past the jumpstart group information.
Scott asks that you do not schedule a Clarity Call with him before signing up for the jumpstart group, only before the 90 day intensive.]]>5fea49ac-d201-4bc9-8fc9-4c697799e0eeFri, 10 Jan 2025 13:59:52 +0000scottListen to the announcement in the episode first please! Read Scott’s article mentioned in the episode related to the announcement next: https://medium.com/@skiloby/emotional-repression-and-the-pain-pleasure-principle-e5a531787086. If you’re interested...Read Scott’s article mentioned in the episode related to the announcement next: https://medium.com/@skiloby/emotional-repression-and-the-pain-pleasure-principle-e5a531787086.
If you’re interested in speaking to Scott for free about his one on one 90 day intensive, or signing up for the Feb KI jumpstart to experience this beta version of KI that’s being developed, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart. For the free Clarity Call with Scott, scroll down to the bottom of the page past the jumpstart group information.
Scott asks that you do not schedule a Clarity Call with him before signing up for the jumpstart group, only before the 90 day intensive.]]>836falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-right-to-suffer--63626075As a non-duality teacher, Scott reflects on how many passive practices he offered inadvertently allowed people to continue exercising their right to suffer by avoiding their buried emotions. Through his mentoring in KI emotional repression inquiry, individuals reclaim their power, realizing that while they have the right to suffer, they also possess the right to be free by addressing the root of their pain.
Join this intriguing episode, which culminates in deep compassion, patience, and love. If you're interested in working with Scott, come talk to him for free about his 90-day intensive program at https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>8210195d-8233-4d17-ae50-3f293e72d8ddThu, 09 Jan 2025 13:33:00 +0000scottScott takes on a unique perspective regarding suffering, asserting that we inherently have a right to suffer, a right we've carried since birth. Conditioned into a sense of separation, our suffering often stems from unprocessed emotions hidden within...As a non-duality teacher, Scott reflects on how many passive practices he offered inadvertently allowed people to continue exercising their right to suffer by avoiding their buried emotions. Through his mentoring in KI emotional repression inquiry, individuals reclaim their power, realizing that while they have the right to suffer, they also possess the right to be free by addressing the root of their pain.
Join this intriguing episode, which culminates in deep compassion, patience, and love. If you're interested in working with Scott, come talk to him for free about his 90-day intensive program at https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2787falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/helpers-who-don-t-get-help-because-they-get-their-needs-met-via-helping--6362550816cd963f-2cbb-4a75-a7c1-db65e3bd4c0fThu, 09 Jan 2025 13:05:00 +0000scottIn this thought-provoking episode, Scott delves into the impact of buried emotions on relationships and the phenomenon of codependency, particularly in the context of helpers, teachers, and therapists. As current science indicates, much codependency...1996falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-tension-between-freedom-and-safety--6361301370d06745-2c04-4a34-b71a-9cc854b7b9caWed, 08 Jan 2025 13:21:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explains how emotional repression leads us to unconsciously choose safety and love over freedom. This affects our choice of paths, practices, and teachers, sabotaging our journey. After years on a spiritual path, we might wonder...1808false271fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-right-context-to-end-suffering--63601572d6fd32d5-a256-438f-b665-7943bff3cb63Tue, 07 Jan 2025 13:25:00 +0000scottIn this thought-provoking episode, Scott emphasizes the significance of having the right context in our spiritual practices. He clarifies that "right" does not necessarily equate to what is correct or absolutely true, but rather refers to a...1903false243fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-could-only-be-a-soft-man-my-gender-doublebind--63590519Scott explains how discovering and processing not only his buried anger but also his repressed femininity ultimately resolved the question of his own authenticity. By addressing the repression of both his masculine and feminine sides, he was able to navigate his identity more freely. This episode may resonate with many listeners, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, offering insights into the complexities of gender expression and emotional health.
If you're interested in talking to Scott for free about working with him in a one-on-one 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>cad6e6e3-adf9-4b81-88e6-cceb7805bc27Mon, 06 Jan 2025 13:00:00 +0000scottIn this thought-provoking episode, Scott shares his personal journey growing up in a gender double bind, feeling unable to fully embrace either masculinity or femininity. Repressing anger made it difficult for him to embody the typical cultural signs...Scott explains how discovering and processing not only his buried anger but also his repressed femininity ultimately resolved the question of his own authenticity. By addressing the repression of both his masculine and feminine sides, he was able to navigate his identity more freely. This episode may resonate with many listeners, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, offering insights into the complexities of gender expression and emotional health.
If you're interested in talking to Scott for free about working with him in a one-on-one 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2085falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nuclear-dogs-and-authenticity-tests-a-guide-to-being-the-love-you-already-are--63590520While the title may sound esoteric, the point Scott makes is practical - moments of terrifying catastrophe often reveal what matters most to us, which can be summed up in two words: safety and love. Scott guides us through a series of engaging somatic tests designed to compare our ability to express our authentic selves with our pet(s) versus with the people close to us. Unlike with pets, our unmet needs of safety and love along with buried emotions produce our inauthenticity and suffering in human relationships.
Through a discussion that touches on profound themes, including nuclear holocaust and the intense emotions that brings up, this podcast delves deep into the essence of authenticity. If you're willing to take the risk of listening, you might just discover that it’s SAFE to be the LOVE that you already are.
If you're interested in working with Scott in his 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2bc44200-035e-4e37-af95-cc69291b9cf9Mon, 06 Jan 2025 12:30:00 +0000scottStep into this unique and unconventional journey with Scott that clarifies the discovery of our true selves through the intricate connections between the body and mind, particularly as they relate to emotional repression and relationship. While the...While the title may sound esoteric, the point Scott makes is practical - moments of terrifying catastrophe often reveal what matters most to us, which can be summed up in two words: safety and love. Scott guides us through a series of engaging somatic tests designed to compare our ability to express our authentic selves with our pet(s) versus with the people close to us. Unlike with pets, our unmet needs of safety and love along with buried emotions produce our inauthenticity and suffering in human relationships.
Through a discussion that touches on profound themes, including nuclear holocaust and the intense emotions that brings up, this podcast delves deep into the essence of authenticity. If you're willing to take the risk of listening, you might just discover that it’s SAFE to be the LOVE that you already are.
If you're interested in working with Scott in his 90-day intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2601falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/suffering-won-t-stop-until-we-wise-up--635580123f826e97-125b-47e3-b3d0-4eb5abe58afdFri, 03 Jan 2025 13:23:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the intricate relationship between our consciousness and the future shaped by advancements in AI and deepfake technology, inspired in part by a song from Aimee Mann and current events. Scott delves into how taking...1831false264fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trigger-warning-an-open-letter-to-anger-repressors-from-those-who-love-you--63545017To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>9bd85531-d15a-4b5c-9539-a7a1690142b7Thu, 02 Jan 2025 13:07:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the profound idea that true intimacy and meaningful connections flourish when we allow ourselves to fully experience our emotions and open up to others. While emotional repression often serves as a misguided form of...To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1624false270fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-cult-of-one-hyper-independence-on-an-avoidant-spiritual-path--63537014Hyper-independence often results in an avoidance of genuine connection, with common negative effects such as addiction, chronic pain, and ongoing emotional distress. He urges listeners to question the unmet needs and suppressed emotions that fuel such behavior, as true self-trust would naturally foster authentic relationships.
Listeners are invited to reflect on how hyper-independence may masquerade as self-trust, yet ultimately prevents deep connections with others, driven by underlying fears. Tune in to hear Scott share insights from his extensive experience in KI emotional repression inquiry and personal anecdotes from his journey. If you're interested in working with Scott in his 90-day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>6db022f8-ce9f-442e-a532-1900942ea957Wed, 01 Jan 2025 16:39:00 +0000scottIn this thought-provoking podcast episode, Scott explores the concept of hyper-independence and how it can become a significant hindrance on one's spiritual path. He explains that the insulated barrier created by those on a hyper-independent path...Hyper-independence often results in an avoidance of genuine connection, with common negative effects such as addiction, chronic pain, and ongoing emotional distress. He urges listeners to question the unmet needs and suppressed emotions that fuel such behavior, as true self-trust would naturally foster authentic relationships.
Listeners are invited to reflect on how hyper-independence may masquerade as self-trust, yet ultimately prevents deep connections with others, driven by underlying fears. Tune in to hear Scott share insights from his extensive experience in KI emotional repression inquiry and personal anecdotes from his journey. If you're interested in working with Scott in his 90-day intensive program, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1721falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/before-and-after-emotional-repression-inquiry--6352609771110707-b57c-4967-8989-775761043cc6Tue, 31 Dec 2024 13:31:00 +0000scottScott shares the before and after emotional repression inquiry upon request of listeners. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.2770false270fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/grandiose-narcissist-or-just-hurt-and-afraid--63486973fec9091d-f505-4217-9398-9cec6beb7034Fri, 27 Dec 2024 13:20:00 +0000scottScott delves deeply into how grandiose narcissism originates from a foundation of repressed hurt and sadness. Scott discusses the complexities of emotional repression, revealing how these buried feelings shape the grandiose persona often seen as a...2352falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/atomic-resolutions-for-2025--63477061After years of struggle, Scott was able to change behaviors quite effortlessly by framing it all differently and developing essential skills (KI Emotional Repression Inquiry). He also draws influence from James Clear's book "Atomic Habits," emphasizing how listeners can make it easier on themselves. He explains that we unconsciously seek to get childhood needs of safety and love met, which leads to the resolutions we make consciously being unmet and resulting in more suffering.
Before making any big commitments for the year ahead, tune in to this podcast for a deeper understanding of how to transform your approach to change and avoid another year of failed resolutions.
To talk with Scott about his individualized 90 Day Intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>14645cf6-6814-445f-80a2-6a08968df732Thu, 26 Dec 2024 13:53:00 +0000scottHappy New Year! In this episode, Scott dives into the concept of New Year's resolutions, highlighting their common nature as often short-lived desires for significant life changes. He reflects on how resolutions like losing weight, becoming more...After years of struggle, Scott was able to change behaviors quite effortlessly by framing it all differently and developing essential skills (KI Emotional Repression Inquiry). He also draws influence from James Clear's book "Atomic Habits," emphasizing how listeners can make it easier on themselves. He explains that we unconsciously seek to get childhood needs of safety and love met, which leads to the resolutions we make consciously being unmet and resulting in more suffering.
Before making any big commitments for the year ahead, tune in to this podcast for a deeper understanding of how to transform your approach to change and avoid another year of failed resolutions.
To talk with Scott about his individualized 90 Day Intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2847falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mary-s-christmas-the-greatest-gift-we-never-give-ourselves--63461805Mary's journey is fraught with struggle and introspection. She navigates the confusion of looking outward for validation—from her father, men, and the holiday itself—only to find that true healing requires her to turn inward. Through this painful process, she learns to unravel the layers of her hidden agony, ultimately discovering the greatest gift she had longed for as a child: the innocence of authenticity. Scott provides context along the way, offering listeners a unique perspective on the underlying motivations for suffering and the path to healing.
To speak to Scott for free about doing his 90-day one-on-one intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>b07324ec-80c0-40e4-9c62-1e3ef3f5c583Tue, 24 Dec 2024 13:44:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott shares the poignant story of Mary, who grapples with her challenging relationship with Christmas and her father. As Mary buries herself in work to avoid the painful feelings that arise during the holiday season, her hidden...Mary's journey is fraught with struggle and introspection. She navigates the confusion of looking outward for validation—from her father, men, and the holiday itself—only to find that true healing requires her to turn inward. Through this painful process, she learns to unravel the layers of her hidden agony, ultimately discovering the greatest gift she had longed for as a child: the innocence of authenticity. Scott provides context along the way, offering listeners a unique perspective on the underlying motivations for suffering and the path to healing.
To speak to Scott for free about doing his 90-day one-on-one intensive, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2311falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-chronicles-of-covert-narcissism--63447849In this episode, Scott delves into covert narcissism in a stream of consciousness manner, illustrating how repression underlies all forms of narcissism, whether diagnosable or not. He emphasizes that each of us must confront this issue and explore whether our narcissistic or ego-driven behaviors stem from the fear of anger, hurt, or sadness. For those who bury anger, hidden or covert manipulation and control often manifest in relationships, creating dynamics that remain unseen. This is what makes it covert; we often project onto others the very traits we dislike within ourselves. Until we acknowledge and own these aspects, true freedom eludes us. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>8f492618-1567-46c4-b244-fc2c60fc58daMon, 23 Dec 2024 13:44:00 +0000scott In this episode, Scott delves into covert narcissism in a stream of consciousness manner, illustrating how repression underlies all forms of narcissism, whether diagnosable or not. He emphasizes that each of us must confront this issue and explore...In this episode, Scott delves into covert narcissism in a stream of consciousness manner, illustrating how repression underlies all forms of narcissism, whether diagnosable or not. He emphasizes that each of us must confront this issue and explore whether our narcissistic or ego-driven behaviors stem from the fear of anger, hurt, or sadness. For those who bury anger, hidden or covert manipulation and control often manifest in relationships, creating dynamics that remain unseen. This is what makes it covert; we often project onto others the very traits we dislike within ourselves. Until we acknowledge and own these aspects, true freedom eludes us. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott]]>2597false269fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-original-gaslight-guest-dan-mclintock-ki-co-developer--63422201Dan and Scott also share their unique journeys and how their histories intertwined to form KI—meeting at a pivotal moment to address the avoidance of their previous spiritual paths. Experience the special synergy between Scott and Dan (even if it triggers you a bit), as they invite you into their vulnerable worlds - emerging from anger repression despite a society that often favors falseness and codependency. To work directly with Scott or Dan, visit https://kiloby.com/clarity-call.

]]>5db6161f-8dd5-4ec5-8de0-5a065fbc9362Fri, 20 Dec 2024 19:53:34 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott invites his very special first guest - the innovative Dan McLintock - Co-Developer of KI. Dan and Scott tackle the concept of the original gaslight: how we often believe we’re being gaslit by others while failing to recognize...Dan and Scott also share their unique journeys and how their histories intertwined to form KI—meeting at a pivotal moment to address the avoidance of their previous spiritual paths. Experience the special synergy between Scott and Dan (even if it triggers you a bit), as they invite you into their vulnerable worlds - emerging from anger repression despite a society that often favors falseness and codependency. To work directly with Scott or Dan, visit https://kiloby.com/clarity-call.

]]>4239false260fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/before-and-after-emotional-repression-inquiry--63394035Rather than making claims about what KI can do for listeners, Scott focuses on his authentic experiences, providing a relatable perspective for those who are contemplating this work. He shares the profound shifts in his emotional well-being and interpersonal connections, offering insights into how this inquiry has impacted his life in meaningful ways.
This episode is inspired by requests from listeners who are curious about the tangible benefits of repression inquiry and what it can truly entail. Scott's candid storytelling aims to illuminate the path for those who are considering embarking on their own journey of self-discovery and healing.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>783df64a-b0a9-47bd-a552-016bbc4b91baThu, 19 Dec 2024 14:21:00 +0000scottIn this heartfelt episode, Scott shares his personal journey before and after the development of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry. He opens up about his life experiences, detailing the challenges he faced in relationships, dealing with disease, pain,...Rather than making claims about what KI can do for listeners, Scott focuses on his authentic experiences, providing a relatable perspective for those who are contemplating this work. He shares the profound shifts in his emotional well-being and interpersonal connections, offering insights into how this inquiry has impacted his life in meaningful ways.
This episode is inspired by requests from listeners who are curious about the tangible benefits of repression inquiry and what it can truly entail. Scott's candid storytelling aims to illuminate the path for those who are considering embarking on their own journey of self-discovery and healing.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2770false270fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conspiracy-theories-truth-v-trauma--63376492In this episode, Scott dives into the intriguing world of conspiracy theories, offering a unique perspective that links the beliefs of their proponents to underlying trauma and buried emotions. He explores how these unprocessed feelings can shape an individual's worldview, causing them to project a reality that is deeply influenced by their past experiences. While many seek the truth through these theories, Scott suggests that they often overlook the importance of introspection—ignoring the emotions tied to their childhood experiences. These buried feelings can manifest as strong shadows cast upon figures of authority, like the government or parental archetypes. Rather than leading to genuine understanding, this path can sometimes deepen ignorance. Scott emphasizes the need for curiosity not just about external events, but also about our internal consciousness. By exploring our own feelings and experiences, we can address the suffering that manifests in the world around us. This journey inward allows us to break free from the duality and confusion that often dominate our perceptions of reality.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1c719d2a-3ad0-4408-b699-db09e0e86b78Wed, 18 Dec 2024 15:25:00 +0000scott In this episode, Scott dives into the intriguing world of conspiracy theories, offering a unique perspective that links the beliefs of their proponents to underlying trauma and buried emotions. He explores how these unprocessed feelings can shape an...In this episode, Scott dives into the intriguing world of conspiracy theories, offering a unique perspective that links the beliefs of their proponents to underlying trauma and buried emotions. He explores how these unprocessed feelings can shape an individual's worldview, causing them to project a reality that is deeply influenced by their past experiences. While many seek the truth through these theories, Scott suggests that they often overlook the importance of introspection—ignoring the emotions tied to their childhood experiences. These buried feelings can manifest as strong shadows cast upon figures of authority, like the government or parental archetypes. Rather than leading to genuine understanding, this path can sometimes deepen ignorance. Scott emphasizes the need for curiosity not just about external events, but also about our internal consciousness. By exploring our own feelings and experiences, we can address the suffering that manifests in the world around us. This journey inward allows us to break free from the duality and confusion that often dominate our perceptions of reality.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1883false268fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-hate-myself-and-i-want-to-die--63354142Scott examines how profoundly we bury our self-loathing and the authentic emotions that lie beneath the surface, highlighting that the phrase "I hate myself and I want to die" points to a deeper truth about our internal battles. The episode features poignant stories of Billy and Earl, who, despite their different paths of emotional repression and suffering, discover a shared experience that serves as both the root of their pain and the key to their freedom and love.
Join Scott for a thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on the complexities of self-hatred and the potential for healing and connection.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>b0610e59-f54a-4eba-adef-8f8a90d9e118Tue, 17 Dec 2024 14:14:00 +0000scottIn this gripping tale titled "I Hate Myself and I Want to Die," Scott invites listeners to explore the dark yet enlightening terrain of self-hatred and emotional repression. This controversial discussion delves into the often unspoken struggles of...Scott examines how profoundly we bury our self-loathing and the authentic emotions that lie beneath the surface, highlighting that the phrase "I hate myself and I want to die" points to a deeper truth about our internal battles. The episode features poignant stories of Billy and Earl, who, despite their different paths of emotional repression and suffering, discover a shared experience that serves as both the root of their pain and the key to their freedom and love.
Join Scott for a thought-provoking conversation that sheds light on the complexities of self-hatred and the potential for healing and connection.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>5false263fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-new-dimension-of-spiritual-practice--63338780fa542aa6-68d9-4e9c-b0eb-ba7982475547Mon, 16 Dec 2024 13:20:00 +0000scottJoin Scott in this episode as he dives into the Three Dimensions of Spiritual Practice developed by KI. Scott explores how these dimensions shape our spiritual journeys, detailing the actions we take—or do not take—in our practices. In the first...2145false263fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/resentfully-loving-hidden-angry-roots-of-co-dependency--63314236Scott reveals how codependent behaviors, while prominent on the surface, can lead to an oversight of the buried anger that fuels these actions. By understanding the hidden roots of codependency, listeners will gain a fresh perspective on their own behaviors and the emotions that may be influencing them without their awareness.
Through insightful discussions and evidence-based insights, this podcast episode provides a deeper, more enlightening way to engage with the complexities of codependency. If you’re looking to unravel these behaviors and confront the underlying emotions, this episode is a must-listen.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>800f120f-525a-4e93-a253-d24c7197ea67Fri, 13 Dec 2024 19:33:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the intriguing connection between codependent behavior and buried anger, drawing on scientific and academic research to illuminate this vital topic. Many individuals may exhibit seemingly benign behaviors—such as being...Scott reveals how codependent behaviors, while prominent on the surface, can lead to an oversight of the buried anger that fuels these actions. By understanding the hidden roots of codependency, listeners will gain a fresh perspective on their own behaviors and the emotions that may be influencing them without their awareness.
Through insightful discussions and evidence-based insights, this podcast episode provides a deeper, more enlightening way to engage with the complexities of codependency. If you’re looking to unravel these behaviors and confront the underlying emotions, this episode is a must-listen.To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1284false264fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-many-faces-of-emotional-repression--6330226739f6890d-96d7-49d7-81e7-cbb40045d425Fri, 13 Dec 2024 13:09:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into how emotional repression fuels suffering, highlighting how various forms—such as anxiety, depression, chronic pain, and self-limiting beliefs—are often labeled separately. He reveals that they all stem from the same...1267false264fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/feeling-unheard-because-you-can-t-express-what-s-true-for-you--63285522276e5d48-9f8e-4926-b92b-5c107d2c4987Thu, 12 Dec 2024 13:58:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott delves into the profound feelings of being unheard or misunderstood in our relationships. These emotions often stem from our inability to express the authentic feelings we have buried deep within ourselves. Scott explores the...2270false263fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/our-new-book-on-the-dangers-of-spiritual-bypassing--63269991The book delves into the inherent bypasses present in many Eastern practices, pointers, and philosophies. Scott and Toshi meticulously examine how buried emotions can undermine the effectiveness of these spiritual approaches, leading to a false sense of peace and a perpetuation of unresolved emotional wounds.
Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the science behind this phenomenon and learn how to navigate the rich landscape of spiritual practices with a more holistic approach. The podcast sets the stage for Toshi Matsunaga to emerge as a prominent teacher in the coming years, as he and Scott share their insights and strategies for processing buried emotions.
To speak to Toshi about working directly with him, visit https://kiloby.com/clarity-call]]>b5f8f8c7-02cb-4b67-b628-049bdd551432Wed, 11 Dec 2024 16:15:09 +0000scottIn this exciting podcast, Scott reveals his latest book on the perils of spiritual bypassing, co-authored with the esteemed Toshi Matsunaga. Through extensive research and years of working with clients, Scott and Toshi have uncovered the critical role...The book delves into the inherent bypasses present in many Eastern practices, pointers, and philosophies. Scott and Toshi meticulously examine how buried emotions can undermine the effectiveness of these spiritual approaches, leading to a false sense of peace and a perpetuation of unresolved emotional wounds.
Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the science behind this phenomenon and learn how to navigate the rich landscape of spiritual practices with a more holistic approach. The podcast sets the stage for Toshi Matsunaga to emerge as a prominent teacher in the coming years, as he and Scott share their insights and strategies for processing buried emotions.
To speak to Toshi about working directly with him, visit https://kiloby.com/clarity-call]]>1583false262fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-not-about-what-we-re-feeling-it-s-about-what-we-re-not-feeling--63254304Scott discusses how unresolved childhood needs are intricately linked to these buried emotions, leading us to identify with false narratives about ourselves. Instead of navigating a path of avoidance or numbness, he encourages listeners to confront what they’re not feeling—this is the key to unlocking the buried emotions that fuel our suffering.
Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that could transform your understanding of emotional well-being.
To work directly with Scott, visit: https://kiloby.com/scott]]>1817c395-81d0-4472-a29f-15f785cedf63Tue, 10 Dec 2024 13:27:00 +0000scottJoin Scott in this insightful episode as he explores a profound perspective on suffering. The science tells us that buried emotions create suffering, and Scott dives deep into how this suffering stems from what we’re not feeling. He explains that...Scott discusses how unresolved childhood needs are intricately linked to these buried emotions, leading us to identify with false narratives about ourselves. Instead of navigating a path of avoidance or numbness, he encourages listeners to confront what they’re not feeling—this is the key to unlocking the buried emotions that fuel our suffering.
Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that could transform your understanding of emotional well-being.
To work directly with Scott, visit: https://kiloby.com/scott]]>2121false261fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-true-sign-of-narcissism-is-overlooked--63239162b05db776-6073-4f29-938f-07ea4866c1d3Mon, 09 Dec 2024 12:30:08 +0000scottScott proposes that we add a particular sign or qualification to narcissism, one that is often, if not always, overlooked. It’s this one sign that can help us transform narcissism .Listen and find out what the one sign is. To work directly with Scott,...1204false259fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-new-enlightenment--63188529bcab3765-d6fb-4efd-b22b-2da00291416cFri, 06 Dec 2024 12:33:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott discusses how words like enlightenment and awakening have been used to help us avoid the very root of suffering, buried emotions, which do not arise to awareness. In the future, as people become more educated about how trauma...2518falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-power-of-how-a-critique-of-the-work-of-eckhart-tolle--6316838087ba558b-de46-4eb5-a43c-77a1261bf0bdThu, 05 Dec 2024 14:39:40 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott focuses on Eckhart Tolle’s concept of the “pain body” and how he encourages people to overlook the conditioning of emotional repression hidden in the pain body. Like so many modern non-duality teachings, his work ignores the...2854false258fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-shadows-arise-from-buried-emotions--63142655dcdbc8df-0bfd-46b7-8859-841e68bb1784Wed, 04 Dec 2024 11:40:57 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explains the connection between shadows and buried emotions as well as the duality of shadows and how that applies to embodied non-dual realization. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott1382falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-guilt-and-shame-of-a-hurt-repressor--63105488843d7eac-5073-42f7-8e92-a5abe412f0acMon, 02 Dec 2024 12:59:00 +0000scottHh2364falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-adult-problems-are-really-childhood-buried-emotions--630736053a8d2745-a4f0-46f9-b2d9-98486bc5780bSat, 30 Nov 2024 12:50:00 +0000scottScott takes listeners through the discovery of how we create separation from our unconscious programming and how suffering we see comes in many forms but has one unconscious source. Don’t be fooled by the many names we give childhood buried emotions....1328false255fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-the-secret-still-buried-in-you--630605036717333b-d8ab-41b7-bc6e-f08a6cf6bed4Fri, 29 Nov 2024 13:13:00 +0000scottScott returns to the topic of how buried emotions create self-sabotage and therefore how the secret to manifesting the life that you want always feels out of reach as this unconscious operating system thwarts your best efforts to find love, success,...2041false254fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-mind-body-connection--6304693279499b6f-83e0-465f-82c7-2b2172d039b4Thu, 28 Nov 2024 13:27:00 +0000scottScott gives the KI explanation of the mind-body connections that are vital to the process of making the unconscious drivers of suffering conscious. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott2309false253fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/premature-forgiveness--63014862In this episode, Scott explores the connection between buried emotions and the premature quest for forgiveness. He discusses how we often seek forgiveness as a way to avoid facing our internal suffering. Authentic forgiveness comes from confronting and integrating these hidden emotions. As long as we neglect our true feelings about the past, our suffering persists, leading us to rely on external forgiveness and spiritual practices. Scott emphasizes that true emotional liberation can only occur when we acknowledge and forgive the parts of ourselves we’ve hidden away. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>17456d8a-7832-48c8-b543-b303f298a5e4Tue, 26 Nov 2024 13:58:00 +0000scott In this episode, Scott explores the connection between buried emotions and the premature quest for forgiveness. He discusses how we often seek forgiveness as a way to avoid facing our internal suffering. Authentic forgiveness comes from confronting...In this episode, Scott explores the connection between buried emotions and the premature quest for forgiveness. He discusses how we often seek forgiveness as a way to avoid facing our internal suffering. Authentic forgiveness comes from confronting and integrating these hidden emotions. As long as we neglect our true feelings about the past, our suffering persists, leading us to rely on external forgiveness and spiritual practices. Scott emphasizes that true emotional liberation can only occur when we acknowledge and forgive the parts of ourselves we’ve hidden away. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2240false250fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/shame-and-the-fear-of-being-seen--6300399734ac8151-f5e4-45a2-b02b-de7f7ac8a10aMon, 25 Nov 2024 17:17:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott discusses how shame and guilt serve as protective layers shielding us from deeper, buried emotions. He explains that we often compartmentalize our reality, identifying with parts of ourselves that bring love and approval, while...1865false241fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/die-now--62967701aa00c90b-72d1-4d29-9a19-0b8331478addFri, 22 Nov 2024 14:15:00 +0000scottScott answers the question, “What are we really afraid of?” To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.1180false250fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/avoidant-spirituality-disorder--629559164adf4a10-aca4-4066-8fbb-0f0ff22f8188Thu, 21 Nov 2024 13:41:00 +0000scottScott discusses how spiritual states or realizations easily become enmeshed with unprocessed buried emotions to create or strengthen an avoidant personality. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.1984false243fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-capitalize-on-your-suffering--628697638ca5c8bd-2c33-4520-aad3-3162d92582c7Wed, 20 Nov 2024 11:49:30 +0000scottWe create suffering to meet childhood needs. When those needs and the buried emotions connected to them are made conscious, we do not need to create suffering anymore. Listen to Scott explain how to capitalize on your own suffering. Come speak to...2136false243fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/anxiety-is-mostly-buried-anger--62815163c1239d90-ddb8-405c-beef-401f2a1b38e1Tue, 19 Nov 2024 13:30:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott discusses the intriguing connection between anxiety and buried anger, highlighting recent scientific findings that suggest a significant link. He emphasizes the importance of verifying if your anxiety stems from repressed anger...1367false241fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-the-sense-of-separation-forms--6278802697bb01c7-eb1e-473a-85d0-02977a8265c2Mon, 18 Nov 2024 13:00:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the concept of separation from the perspective of the unconscious, highlighting how buried emotions contribute to suffering. He discusses how this sense of separation arises from self-contraction due to trauma...1513false242fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/selfish-service--627798962002381b-7a44-45d5-b705-d7e780ebd0f7Sun, 17 Nov 2024 20:14:37 +0000scottScott takes a look at whether being of service to others is ever selfless if we’re driven by unmet needs from childhood and if the price we pay for being so driven is worth the reward. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.2019falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-peaceful-aggression--62767934ea32bf18-32a8-47eb-bb27-a879cd851e85Sat, 16 Nov 2024 13:01:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of covert aggression that often lurked beneath his seemingly peaceful exterior. He reveals how this behavior coming from buried anger shifted the responsibility for difficult conversations or conflicts...1488false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/an-awakening-that-ends-suffering--62742748ef003b10-c575-4f43-89f4-a65c11faa2bdThu, 14 Nov 2024 18:45:40 +0000scottScott shares how the topic of what true awakening is has changed for him over the years with suffering being his greatest teacher. To work directly with Scott, https://kiloby.com/scott.1588false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/taking-emotional-responsibility--6272917606ad3d05-656d-499c-b59b-e5c5e732b66fWed, 13 Nov 2024 23:07:16 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott discusses taking responsibility for the buried emotions that produce suffering instead of making responsibility a moral or ethical issue that keeps us in our heads and keeps separation alive. To work directly with Scott, visit...1730false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pesd-post-election-stress-disorder--6270782691fb71e9-6520-4af7-a6b1-4a1d875e8cc4Tue, 12 Nov 2024 15:59:29 +0000scottIn the podcast, Scott introduces the concept of "post-election stress disorder," a term he coined to describe the emotional turmoil experienced after a candidate's loss in a presidential election. He suggests that this suffering often stems from...735false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-needy-path--627072134a9f11ab-ce30-4f0a-9c05-645a57067504Tue, 12 Nov 2024 14:49:52 +0000scottIn this compelling episode, Scott delves into the profound impact of unmet needs tied to buried emotions on our suffering and our attempts to alleviate that suffering through spiritual practices. He emphasizes that as long as these needs remain...1869false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/motivated-to-procrastinate--62706609d77bbdfd-586b-41a8-b039-c4712b5a672cTue, 12 Nov 2024 14:25:00 +0000scottScott shares the true motivation behind procrastination. To work directory with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.2201false240fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-happy-55th-birthday--626915195ac41765-15ff-4a72-b8e1-bc06a03b6facMon, 11 Nov 2024 13:02:00 +0000scottJoin Scott as he shares his 55th birthday and upcoming surprises with you. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.398falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/critique-of-immediate-nondual-paths--6268229489c5ed04-af5e-4cff-8718-7d788a0a8aafSun, 10 Nov 2024 14:31:23 +0000scottScott critiques the group of teachings and practices known as neo-advaita and other awareness- or now- based teachings and practices that point people to the recognition of freedom immediately. He provides a solid science-based context to reveal why...2053falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dissolving-separation--62675910a063cd6f-d5f5-4b07-b270-4289b87a0fedSat, 09 Nov 2024 16:07:47 +0000scottScott discusses dissolving separation by making conscious how we create it for safety and love. This approach allows us to lovingly welcome all parts of ourselves instead of hiding in the body the parts we don’t like and identifying with the parts...1843false236fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/simplifying-the-attachment-styles-an-energetic-dance--6266015259e33a41-f748-474c-a707-b8ded2dbcaf4Thu, 07 Nov 2024 23:29:26 +0000scottIn this podcast episode, Scott explores his personal experiences and insights gained from working with individuals on the topic of the attachment styles in relationship. He simplifies this complex subject into an energetic dance influenced by...1361false239fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-can-t-help-but-cry-on-election-day-2024--62623853754c0d53-5f2a-45f9-95c6-7b2c82b9d058Tue, 05 Nov 2024 13:39:30 +0000scottPolitics is personal and we’re often motivated by unprocessed emotion and trauma from childhood to identify with one party or another. Scott breaks down and cries in this episode, not because he’s afraid of one candidate winning over the other, but at...2021false233fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-scandal-in-spirituality-the-story-of-shiton-the-teacher--625999759007300b-8907-4708-a672-98450aa18530Sun, 03 Nov 2024 22:24:16 +0000scottScott breaks down what he sees as the real scandal in spirituality through the story of Shiton, a spiritual teacher who brought Nonduality to the masses while emotional repression remained untouched in the bodies of his students, acting like a ticking...1960false233fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/over-giving-to-others-and-under-loving-ourselves--62593170ca51dc36-5060-4b7f-ad96-37e38b4ec217Sat, 02 Nov 2024 21:49:56 +0000scottIn this podcast episode, Scott explores his own co-dependency coming from buried anger and how over-giving to others and presenting himself as false was how he unconsciously sought to get childhood unmet needs for safety and love met. Listen and you...2097false232fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-power-of-how--6259233070225a98-2931-47c0-b456-df6e66c113dbSat, 02 Nov 2024 18:52:52 +0000scottScott shares a fictitious narrative in which he mentors Lou to discover that his visable suffering is driven by something hidden. This podcast episode demonstrates how Scott mentors people in KI. To work with Scott directly, visit...1297false232fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-energetic-dance-of-the-attachment-styles--625826644e705002-9399-4eb3-a564-7f51308ce949Fri, 01 Nov 2024 13:38:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores how attachment styles manifest as an energetic dance rooted in unprocessed emotions. He explains that as long as we harbor buried feelings, our unconscious drives our responses to others. By viewing relationships as...1319false236fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-halloween--6256787509659279-fa0b-4277-ac1d-f43a3f43ed4eThu, 31 Oct 2024 11:20:00 +0000scottScott shares special treats and a few tricks too. To work with him directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott1532false232fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/selling-out-on-the-spiritual-path--625429208d0e29c3-b704-4969-91ab-c6dee7e80995Tue, 29 Oct 2024 13:04:38 +0000scottSelling out on the spiritual path is like selling out as an artist, but the stakes are so much higher. Scott explains. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.1396false232fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimacy-will-come--62531477777396fd-bbc3-4d64-b0a3-5ff4b46634f3Mon, 28 Oct 2024 15:14:00 +0000scottScott shares intimately about intimacy. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott1761false231fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-ll-discover-real-authenticity-and-vulnerability-in-ki--62505413bdb39186-1272-46b1-bac4-bb07b7a785a3Fri, 25 Oct 2024 16:36:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott explores the impact of repressing emotions, questioning whether those who suppress their feelings turn into rage-filled individuals or become engulfed in sadness and grief. He emphasizes that true self-discovery comes from...1913falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/frozen-presence-the-core-fears-behind-separation--62473795727389ee-98bf-40a8-8171-e502847279bbWed, 23 Oct 2024 12:26:00 +0000scottScott gets down to the secret sauce of KI - the direct discovery of the core frozen fears hidden in the body that create suffering and separation. To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott.2319false231fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/frozen-presence-how-core-fears-create-separation-and-suffering--624687498944a1ef-a387-4346-9826-a3e46dca1325Wed, 23 Oct 2024 00:12:14 +0000scottScott explains the secret sauce of KI - the direct discovery of the core frozen fears responsible for the sense of separation. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.1521false231fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/simplifying-attachment-style--62466351df5e9d1b-8869-48ab-8380-cbda5a17f7b2Tue, 22 Oct 2024 17:46:00 +0000scottScott simplifies the attachment styles in KI language, paving the way for everyone to do Direct an immediate somatic work on the actual drivers of the attachment styles. If you were interested in working one on one with Scott, visit. If you were new...1366false231fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-tip-of-the-iceberg--62456887He acknowledges the fear associated with confronting buried emotions but encourages listeners to take the courageous step when they are ready. The podcast highlights that many of the thoughts and behaviors that keep us safe are only scratching the surface. What we truly desire are deeper experiences of love, wisdom, power, and compassion. By delving below the iceberg's tip and processing our emotions, we can reclaim what we've been depriving ourselves of.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>ca0b7b94-e942-4d69-a42f-22d675a93849Tue, 22 Oct 2024 00:09:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explores the concept of duality within ourselves, using the metaphor of an iceberg to illustrate the divide between our visible experiences and the deeper, hidden aspects of our psyche. He emphasizes that while we may focus on...He acknowledges the fear associated with confronting buried emotions but encourages listeners to take the courageous step when they are ready. The podcast highlights that many of the thoughts and behaviors that keep us safe are only scratching the surface. What we truly desire are deeper experiences of love, wisdom, power, and compassion. By delving below the iceberg's tip and processing our emotions, we can reclaim what we've been depriving ourselves of.
To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>1838false231fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-narcissism-of-emotional-repression--62412639a9d94c33-61f5-488d-8306-c39fda760164Fri, 18 Oct 2024 13:00:00 +0000scottIn the podcast, Scott responds to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasizes that selfishness or narcissism...1804false225fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-core-frozen-fears-behind-separation-and-suffering--62405901446d62e1-e2b0-401d-889f-279a8499bc68Fri, 18 Oct 2024 00:40:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explores the concept of emotional repression, highlighting two core fears that contribute to our suffering. The first fear is the fear of expressing repressed emotions, such as anger or sadness. The second fear involves the...1539false230fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-relationship--623591260bb0a3f4-3615-42aa-a7c1-1cb268d7f61aMon, 14 Oct 2024 12:18:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott Dobbs delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create...1838false229fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-dualism-of-separating-spirituality-from-relationship--62342618d0aaff95-523e-429e-84ef-817d58fda561Sat, 12 Oct 2024 12:02:00 +0000scottScott shares about the dualistic split between spirituality and our relationships. If suffering is generated in relationship, how can we be free by turning away from relationship and towards something called spirituality? To work directly with Scott,...1932falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-needs-you-ignore-become-the-suffering-you-abhor--62320654To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott]]>5ee63d04-ddc2-44cc-97c1-30abc953a86eThu, 10 Oct 2024 19:37:49 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing...To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott]]>1415false229fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-repression-barrier-and-jumpstarting-ki--62277726Scott introduces the KI Jump Starter Program, designed for those who need skill development or other help, but prefer a group setting.
He elaborates on how this approach relates to the iceberg model of consciousness, helping individuals avoid getting stuck in an unproductive spiritual path. Scott also invites listeners to schedule a free Clarity Call to explore their journey further and gain personalized insights: https://kiloby.com/scott]]>57f733c7-c6df-45f6-b94d-1a30b8c5262aMon, 07 Oct 2024 23:17:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott discusses the internal division we experience due to buried emotions and how this creates suffering at the conscious level. Using the iceberg analogy, he explains how most of our emotional struggles lie beneath our awareness,...Scott introduces the KI Jump Starter Program, designed for those who need skill development or other help, but prefer a group setting.
He elaborates on how this approach relates to the iceberg model of consciousness, helping individuals avoid getting stuck in an unproductive spiritual path. Scott also invites listeners to schedule a free Clarity Call to explore their journey further and gain personalized insights: https://kiloby.com/scott]]>537false228fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-shaming-of-addicts--622631394b5e1821-06f0-42c0-9afb-135fe9e83e20Sun, 06 Oct 2024 23:10:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to...1752false227fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-release-or-just-relief--62239235To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>2eb6ce02-3489-41e6-96fa-dc078f43a57dSat, 05 Oct 2024 00:14:00 +0000scottIn this episode of Scott's podcast, he delves into the nuances of emotional release on the spiritual healing journey. Scott discusses how, in our quest for spiritual experiences, we may inadvertently focus on releasing emotions that feel safer, rather...To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.]]>758false227fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-listening-and-the-feeling-of-not-being-heard--6216709801656835-ad59-499a-86a7-5c61395df3f3Mon, 30 Sep 2024 14:00:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explores authentic listening and its connection to emotional repression - especially buried anger. He explains that when emotions are buried, it's challenging to listen authentically, as people often freeze, shut down, or flee...1747false226fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-a-death-sentence-of-acceptance-trigger-warning--62117844e15e8c1d-3991-4d8f-b66a-777fe528de95Thu, 26 Sep 2024 13:34:00 +0000scottIn this episode, Scott shares his journey as a non-dual teacher who bypassed buried anger, leading to chronic nerve pain that almost became a "death sentence." He and other teachers have inadvertently encouraged this bypass in millions of people....1847false225fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/perfect-paul-got-second-place-how-buried-anger-drives-perfectionism-and-goodism--620906189579c3d6-0d31-4c43-b43a-2d21a3fd23baTue, 24 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottGymnastics. He made it to the Olympics got second place. He had buried Anger and was mad at his dad, his coaches, his bosses, and the teacher, who finally showed him through inquiry that he has buried Anger, and that was the perfectionism.3889false27fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-wouldnt-believe-that-if-you-didn-t-have-repression--62090617f10f7631-f521-4de3-8401-094dfed45790Tue, 24 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottHhh2915false210fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trusting-yourself--62090616b6ac0a00-87b8-4048-985c-fab1060024c8Tue, 24 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottHhh1763false29fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/debbie-the-authenticity-coach--6209061571f18b2f-50e4-4517-929d-179c58e7d9f6Tue, 24 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottAnger repressor who tried to teach mostly women and gay men how to be vulnerable and authentic, but she had never had a relationship. Once she had a relationship, her message changed to how it was important to be able to express your needs and be...4866false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authentic-self-realization-we-resist-it-because-we-get-nothing-out-of-it-30-min--6209061344f717d8-7877-47d4-bcb7-dbcdc346fdafTue, 24 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scott30 minute episode. Scott revisits the topic of making Self-Realization Authetfic by suggesting that emotional repression be made the focus of a path since repression drives seeking/suffering as well as the bypass or avoidance of the root of suffering....1678false211fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-co-dependent-s-narcissism-shadow--620846364453b495-c61e-4fa5-b24a-ddef708b843dMon, 23 Sep 2024 22:01:00 +0000scottIn this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and...1575false224fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-we-need-addiction-until-we-don-t-anymore--620120790cff3b09-512a-470c-815e-08bd8a81c4cdWed, 18 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these...1223false223fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-tell-someone-to-f-ck-off-gracefully--61842756bc835a86-a7d5-4f1a-be74-8dbfdcac0363Mon, 16 Sep 2024 13:39:00 +0000scottScott is in rare form, clarifying the difference between before and after emotional repression with regard to the timeless human experience of telling others to fu*k off. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott1641false222fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-angry-monks-and-vulnerable-dictators-where-are-they--6151056068e1a6a7-a2c5-4c8f-b03b-e32517aa00ccFri, 13 Sep 2024 20:33:29 +0000scottScott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic...2321false220fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-episode-beyond-the-habit-of-suffering--613523286b12df63-8891-49b5-b9d7-f5c9b6e4b2fbWed, 11 Sep 2024 21:13:55 +0000scottOur main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and...1994false217fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/latest-a-better-habit-of-inquiry--61329506c3d648f3-07bd-44c5-b34c-760b29f4a947Tue, 10 Sep 2024 20:48:35 +0000scottScott explores why it’s difficult for some people to even get started with repression inquiry while others seem to create a regular practice very easily and receive all the benefits thereof. Listen as Scott gives insight as to the main habit of...1336false216bonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/peace-sells-everyone-s-buying--613238771b18d38b-2347-4234-8c09-12828b00511eTue, 10 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottJjjj1716false26fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-episode-the-secret-is-buried--613128563a698e67-b8ab-4d62-bfa6-4abae2c7e394Mon, 09 Sep 2024 15:46:00 +0000scottWant to manifest success, love, good health, or freedom? The unconscious seeks only safety and love thereby thwarting our efforts. Your unrealized potential is waiting for you in the one place you l’re afraid to look. Scott shares the solution. To...1758false215fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-source-of-seeking--61273029e41f5ae7-5d53-4b49-8fb5-62ce572357c9Thu, 05 Sep 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottScott points to how both our suffering and our efforts to alleviate it often come from the same hidden source. Discover his solution to this seemingly insurmountable doublebind! To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/Scott.1731false215fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-end-suffering-101--61232312c5cebde2-a75e-469c-948b-c919cff80457Sun, 01 Sep 2024 21:20:00 +0000scottScott discusses how the fundamental need to know ourselves as awareness and to allow it all doesn’t get met and we don’t want it to be met because we’re driven by an unconscious need to stay safe and get love. To work directly with Scott, visit...2228false215fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/something-is-missing-on-the-avoidant-spiritual-path--61165087d013fa31-7b2a-4964-bba2-5040e887a55bMon, 26 Aug 2024 22:34:00 +0000scottFind the missing key to freedom but also why sabotage is just safer, frankly. Work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott2163false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unmet-needs-and-the-future-of-k-i--611313630be4fa60-1d68-4a2d-956d-30e86a566896Fri, 23 Aug 2024 21:15:12 +0000scottScott shares the future of K.I. and how unmet needs become unconscious demands. We create our own suffering. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott2004false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/revised-the-future-of-k-i-volume-fixed--61126601f35e7116-b1b5-44c5-91c8-df7d8a9c4751Fri, 23 Aug 2024 12:59:25 +0000scottScott confesses how he needed love and approval as a teacher coming from anger repression, and how that now informs his teaching. Unless teachers and helpers help people process buried motions, they enable people on an avoidant spiritual path. Scott...2510false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/something-is-missing-on-the-avoidant-spiritual-path--6112607653e4d9bf-f474-4bf0-b4c1-d20a277975d3Fri, 23 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottScott apologies for taking down the episode “The Future of K.I.” There were technical issues with that recording. He has replaced that with this episode and the episode called “Buying and Selling Safety on the Avoidant Spiritual Path.” All of this...1535falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/volume-fixed-buying-and-selling-safety-on-the-avoidant-spiritual-path--61121354e2382ceb-0cbf-44c7-ad4b-843c6c9c63e4Fri, 23 Aug 2024 02:56:00 +0000scottScott gives us an addition to this week’s earlier podcast release “How Unmet Needs Become Unconscious Demands on Others” about the future of K.I. Here, Scott focuses on how the seeking of safety and love on the spiritual path guarantees a sabotage. To...1625falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-teaching-unmet-needs-become-unconscious-demands-on-others--61116299a7a75014-e55a-47f3-bb02-10208b79c8ffThu, 22 Aug 2024 14:00:00 +0000scottScott takes us to the next step in understanding how we create our own suffering. In this episode, Scott focuses on the three signs of an avoidant spiritual path, as well as how our unmet needs from childhood, when unexpressed, become unconscious...3628false214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-episode-to-all-the-men-i-ve-loved-before-11-minutes--61108328dfd82b19-7563-4363-8558-05fd5a41d7a6Wed, 21 Aug 2024 21:00:00 +0000scottScott shares an honest open letter to all of his past lovers - owning his part and sharing what drove him in those relationships. Listen to this unique five minute podcast special episode to see what life after clearing relationship trauma looks like...662false214bonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-unmet-needs-become-unconscious-demands-on-others--61105116f37b66b2-519c-426c-8019-ed5ff2d0b65aWed, 21 Aug 2024 15:00:00 +0000scottScott explains in this short podcast episode how unconscious, unmet needs from childhood are connected to buried emotions and how those needs, especially when unexpressed, become unconscious demands on others. Scott continues to lay out a roadmap for...1082falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-the-repression-of-the-empath--61054189852fa47c-0007-4a96-a6cc-d3f3de282082Fri, 16 Aug 2024 15:00:00 +0000scottScott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of...3210false213fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-repression-of-the-empath--610525003c0c6487-a206-4bd0-b9b7-3947154a4739Fri, 16 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottLike so many in spirituality, Scott was very sensitive growing up. In this 30 min episode, he explains his personal discovery of the link between his anger repression and his highly empathic nature. As always with repression, things are not at all as...1810false213fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-covert-agendas-in-spirituality-30-min-podcast-episode--61021059c2491e37-1c26-433a-bd7a-cefde39eeac0Wed, 14 Aug 2024 02:48:00 +0000scottScott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing...2158false213fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-episode-the-radical-teaching--60973988f4445ad6-da43-4911-9e38-0b515243fcbaFri, 09 Aug 2024 20:17:00 +0000scottScott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls:...3622false211fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-the-simplest-way-to-spot-emotional-repression-in-your-body--609571338ca573ac-7592-4ac9-89fb-e6b72b34e586Thu, 08 Aug 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottScott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live...4105false211fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-ten-good-things-about-boundaries--60939499840b576c-02fa-472d-85ad-70a211a31c2cTue, 06 Aug 2024 17:00:00 +0000scottAs an addition to the release of his podcast episode “Sick Good Boy,” Scott gives us his top ten list of great things about boundaries in relationship after a lifetime of anger or other emotional repression. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own,...586false210bonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-ten-good-things-about-boundaries-12-minutes--609327856f359459-af3f-4e69-bcce-880a44e1f6cbTue, 06 Aug 2024 02:36:19 +0000scottAs an addition to his recent “Sick Good Boy” podcast episode release, Scott shares his top ten list of good things about boundaries. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls:...713false210bonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/top-ten-good-things-about-boundaries--6093188888b8ac2e-e2f9-4a5c-a1dd-3a45121d226dTue, 06 Aug 2024 00:09:07 +0000scottListen to Scott Kiloby share the top ten good things about boundaries including their hidden link to real intimacy and authenticity as well as how a “No” feels different energetically based on the degree of unprocessed emotion behind it. To learn 3D...1244false210bonushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sick-good-boy-how-being-good-was-bad-for-my-physical-mental-emotional-health--609318857fda6442-ea21-4573-89c4-4411c68c3d24Tue, 06 Aug 2024 00:00:00 +0000scottScott shares about Goodism and tells his own story of being a good boy and holding anger back which led to a lifetime of falseness and suffering. All the bad parts come out in this episode where Scott pulls no punches to help those who can’t yet see...3375false29fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/troy-didn-t-trust-himself-a-story-of-avoidance-and-betrayal--60864379cec33ada-8770-4143-b8ad-c196ad20a15cTue, 30 Jul 2024 14:00:00 +0000scottScott tells the short story of Troy and Sarah who both cheated on each other for the same reason but neither one could see the real reason. This special episode brings to light the issues discussed in Scott’s recent episode “The Avoidant’s Guide to...2341false28fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-avoidant-s-guide-to-authentic-spirituality--608472335eb8d6a9-a612-4554-a12d-c44531adfa8bMon, 29 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottScott takes you first through a somatic test to reveal the avoidant programming in your body. He then shows how avoidance, avoidant attachment style, and avoidant personality disorder point to these core programs in the body for purposes of a...4562false27fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/short-jean-s-self-limiting-practice-on-self-limiting-identities-4-min--60770087b83781e3-5076-4bea-8bfc-ebb3c1d0bc4aMon, 22 Jul 2024 18:47:31 +0000scottScott tells a very short story of working with Jean, a woman focused on how self-limiting identities seemed to be at the core of her suffering. Through a series of inquiries and questions, Jean begins to see that the real culprit is something buried...249falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-the-case-against-awareness--607669421ff6ac5b-2286-4fbf-b328-480a4205d3cfMon, 22 Jul 2024 13:06:19 +0000scottScott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day...2577false25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dom-sub-a-story-of-love-unconscious-power-dynamics--607063356ac9987d-8e88-41cf-9b34-00f08d2a3596Tue, 16 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottYou’ve never heard a love story like this before. Listen to this hour and a half unique episode where Scott explains very common unconscious emotional power dynamics through a simple story of two people who love each other as best as they can from the...5400false23fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-secret-behind-the-secret--606425030dc39554-ea4d-4fdb-b47f-9d051c29499aTue, 09 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottJjjj1131false22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/duality-comes-from-emotional-repression--6064250224b85f2a-6a2d-41fa-9fc1-e41900b9b0fbTue, 09 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottHhhh1925false22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-repression-we-buried-the-real-story-of-our-lives-special-episode--6061480498372965-4984-4cf3-bdf5-6caa8936e32cFri, 05 Jul 2024 23:51:43 +0000scottListen to an intimate and human account of how emotional repression runs our lives. Scott Kiloby is teaching in a new way, telling the hidden narrative of our lives from the unconscious level. Jack and Jill didn’t run up the hill. Jack went to rehab...3210false22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-origin-of-control-you-can-t-squeeze-blood-from-a-turnip--6057788922fd30cf-ab7c-4ac3-a4f2-767a1f848facTue, 02 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000scottScott provides a unique account of his efforts (from anger repression) to groom and control people who were angry - only to see that the control was coming from his own body.1865false23fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/free-nonduality-9-treasures-and-traps-of-spiritual-practice--604083000bf36b86-0a13-44ff-8652-2a2f5499dbebMon, 17 Jun 2024 06:09:15 +0000scottIn this special bonus episode, Scott bridges his teaching here on this podcast series with his recent free non-duality teaching on YouTube. Scott goes into great detail on how and why people pick up practices that give them benefit while also...6355false126fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-end-of-suffering--60271246cca8b11a-34ec-48a4-8214-9ef06e366979Tue, 04 Jun 2024 06:06:00 +0000scottDdd4359false127fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-teaching-nonduality-for-free-on-youtube-now-special-podcast-episode--601936130a0ab7a5-5194-49f9-9cf4-b1c52978dca3Tue, 28 May 2024 01:18:11 +0000scottWhile Scott is on hiatus from podcasting, he wanted to do this special bonus season-end episode to announce his return to teaching on YouTube. Scott shares intimately about his own personal process with KI 3-D repression inquiry, which led to his...4088false126fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/last-episode--60054680393e99e1-edf3-4b53-b6bb-8b7325b43bfcThu, 16 May 2024 02:20:00 +0000scottScott sums it all up5755false125fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-doesn-t-happen-in-a-straight-line--598479900e0c1b0d-0afe-4db7-b55e-b4daba7d30acSun, 05 May 2024 15:00:00 +0000scottVvv5521false124fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/suffering-is-optional--5968409685f0da79-c7b2-4d33-bf84-ec97e9c7f487Sun, 28 Apr 2024 15:00:00 +0000scottScott explains why he sees himself more as a mentor than a teacher now. He’s interested in empowering people to take responsibility for their own suffering so that they can end it. And the days when he was a teacher, and it was about pointing to...4600false123fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dissolving-the-sense-of-disconnection-in-relationship-spirituality-life--59577302e034e819-bb8f-4e08-90d9-3d99fb968d70Sun, 21 Apr 2024 20:06:44 +0000scottScott shares how disconnection was a way of life for him for many years and even how he used spirituality and the talk of separation to hide the actual programming of trauma and repression in his body producing the disconnection. In the last segment,...3186false123fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-radical-truth-of-being-yourself--59462305340b24ab-8dc1-4e0f-8e2c-86fcceb64d99Sun, 14 Apr 2024 22:54:58 +0000scottScott points to how Being and processing the main driver of suffering - emotional repression - come together to reveal our authentic self. This episode also illuminates how we easily get sucked into a vortex of bypassing where we believe falsely that...2840false122fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-vulnerability--59348494a34e2ce2-6dca-45b5-9e43-a33dcb56d59bMon, 08 Apr 2024 14:48:57 +0000scottScott shares intimate details of his life to answer the question, what is real vulnerability? This is a depthful conversation that doesn't settle for superficial. Here, Scott gets to the root of why vulnerability was a trauma response for him in many...3882false122fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/all-your-suffering-is-connected-to-one-thing--5924795331e64156-0429-46b0-b49a-4c966b5c5323Mon, 01 Apr 2024 13:22:16 +0000scottScott breaks realization down very simply to the network of programs that creates the suffering according to science. This is perhaps Scott’s most direct and simplest explanation of how repression drives suffering and how we get free using these...4808false120fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/critique-of-presence-practices--59211635d2524df9-6928-4783-bcc5-3b25e95b4802Thu, 28 Mar 2024 17:46:51 +0000scottScott is releasing this special episode as a precursor to the episode “All Your Suffering is Connected to One Thing” coming out Monday, April 1st. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online...4123false119fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/critique-of-presence-practices--591971925edfc6d6-b348-46a8-a09e-8f848ac4e0a2Wed, 27 Mar 2024 15:10:00 +0000scottXxx1253false119fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/creativity-repression-and-the-plight-of-the-suffering-artist--591650553c0d15c3-ccce-48dd-94a8-c03873adf9feMon, 25 Mar 2024 12:40:00 +0000scottScott shares how the creative impulse in humans is tied to the wiring of emotional repression and how our unrealized potential awaits us, while we toil and spin in stories of being artists who must suffer in order to create. To get started on this...4368false118fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/approval-seeking-recovering-from-the-ultimate-human-addiction--5908269659fa601b-5bf0-47e8-bcbc-d639daddbc0bMon, 18 Mar 2024 02:00:07 +0000scottScott explores approval seeking in all its forms, including how it has infused his life from addiction to recovery to teaching. The very act of holding back, or repressing, emotion is synonymous with the seeking of something outside ourselves, often...2995false117fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-you-know-if-you-re-really-free--58996142a0adc1ba-c5c3-4ecb-b593-cbb18374076fMon, 11 Mar 2024 02:26:15 +0000scottListen if you are serious about ending suffering. A new path has been created. This may be Scott’s most direct message yet about this new work - Natural Recovery from Suffering. Learn about our first online retreat here: https://nrfs.co/fc2g3192false116fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-trillion-distractions-from-the-source--58918730b926e13e-43af-4d40-97d8-24c048e321d6Mon, 04 Mar 2024 12:21:22 +0000scottWith references to Led Zeppelin, the Absolute, and the true source of suffering, Scott returns to pointing to awareness and to how the trillion distractions aren’t just coming and going to awareness. We are unconsciously creating it all. To allow what...2766false1999fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/all-the-rage--588290011ca0f319-3c7b-46e9-85d5-c7e3e228f367Mon, 26 Feb 2024 15:34:48 +0000scottDespite the title, this episode isn’t just Scott promoting “all the rage” around the work. In this episode, Scott transparently discusses all the rage that was within him and that is unknowingly driving the suffering of many people. Scott explains how...5505false114fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-self-realization-authentic-a-new-nondual-path--58731099b6004b06-d773-4c6d-86ea-ed88ff39f9c1Mon, 19 Feb 2024 03:10:36 +0000scottUsing a simple and practical context, Scott Kiloby explains Natural Recovery from Suffering and how the work can lead to self-realization. Although that may sound lofty, the realization - when embodied - ends up being simply an authentic human who no...4222false113fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-repression-you-can-t-be-what-you-ve-buried--58659627c5bb7766-0043-4b87-ada5-83e43368deeaMon, 12 Feb 2024 16:00:00 +0000scottWho wants to talk about hurt or anger if it’s buried and we are scared of it? However, in this work, it’s seen that fear is running it all and that includes fear of emotions. We hold ourselves back in relationship in all sorts of ways that have more...1857false112fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/falling-in-love-is-it-real-or-just-a-trauma-response--585766070dad1cb5-409a-4ef7-b397-6a07d48afe90Mon, 05 Feb 2024 15:20:00 +0000scottScott demystifies the phenomenon of falling in love and points to the root of it. This doesn’t take away the dazzle and allure of falling hopelessly in love, but rather sheds light on the source from which that comes and how that is also the source of...3357false1999fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/our-unmet-needs-and-the-healing-available-when-we-meet-them-ourselves--585705991c570fdd-3f78-4713-8410-ca120f8285f1Mon, 05 Feb 2024 03:00:00 +0000scottScott discusses how, when we are children, the experience of not feeling safe to express certain emotions sets in course a lifetime of suffering where we look to others for a sense of well-being. Others cannot meet our experience. Only we can. In this...3122false18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/victim-consciousness-inside-out--584905213ed79f53-62fb-4618-8ebf-24c293262b83Mon, 29 Jan 2024 15:26:16 +0000scottScott tells his story directly from the voice of the unconsciousness that created all of his suffering. This is a unique perspective on his personal suffering, which then becomes a teaching in and of itself, and a guide to others who desire to wake up...2841false19fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nonduality-your-house-is-on-fire--58407408d799a093-54e0-44b9-a587-04f7c21de8e8Mon, 22 Jan 2024 16:00:00 +0000scottXxx7202false1999fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-suffering-stops-arising--583984867dda3b80-a999-4334-bd3d-af635a1d50caMon, 22 Jan 2024 01:16:00 +0000scottBbbbnb3122false18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-okay-to-be-misunderstood--5830135698476997-f97c-42f8-8de1-141604fefab4Mon, 15 Jan 2024 03:01:00 +0000scottAre you okay with being misunderstood?Scott discusses the real misunderstanding in our lives - identity. If we hold back what is true for us, we are forced to identify with what is false, Identification with the false creates an enormous amount of...1150false17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/false-teacher-student-relationships-special-episode--58214351b33b30b0-9931-4886-916f-d978669a2157Sat, 06 Jan 2024 00:13:43 +0000scottScott rants as he breaks free of the cocoon of trauma and teaching from repression and into the butterfly of being himself and wanting authentic relationships. In some way that is everyone’s path - to move from identifying with the false to whats Real.2175false17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/death-isn-t-real-but-it-still-hurts-like-hell--58200504978ad7a4-3ee5-45c6-a69c-2eb066aba1bdThu, 04 Jan 2024 17:59:02 +0000scottScott inquires into whether the real suffering is what we feel when the ones we love die or what we refuse or are afraid to feel while they are still alive. This is a special podcast release dedicated to the family and friends of Gina, Chester’s...4233false16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-ll-keep-working-for-mom-and-dad-until-you-clear-them-out-of-your-body--58162923e0bebc4f-fde8-4ac9-bc12-a485a12fdf4dSun, 31 Dec 2023 21:14:37 +0000scottScott takes a look at how we are never stressed, upset, or dissatisfied with work or career “for the reasons that we think”to quote A Course in Miracles. If we are all working for mom and dad, what’s really driving that and what happens when we stop?...2768false14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-truth-about-my-awakening--580985908f99b7a1-eebb-4462-8780-16c08369af5dFri, 22 Dec 2023 15:47:13 +0000scottDuring the first 10 years of being a non-duality teacher, Scott - like so many other teachers - did not share much personal detail, and was reluctant to tell his story. Scott thought that not having to share had something to do with the Awakening that...2402false14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sexual-liberation-is-tied-to-spiritual-liberation--5808191459aa25a2-00c7-4437-b4dd-f811164fbd91Mon, 18 Dec 2023 02:34:49 +0000scottScott discusses his own sexual life, including early exposure to sexual experiences which shaped his understanding of how trauma and emotional repression are intrinsically woven into the fabric of our adult sexuality. By seeing the link between sex...2843false13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/aliens-advaita-authenticity--58081917e6a8f3b4-b126-4b35-9b78-9f3c245e8733Wed, 13 Dec 2023 21:00:39 +0000scottIn this podcast, Scott explores his experiences and interest in the extra-terrestrial and extra-dimensional phenomena and how it relates to the evolution of consciousness, spirituality, healing, and the future of humanity.3007false12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-scott-kiloby-s-first-podcast-series--58081916bc8abb19-f6fc-4e33-ba3c-07142de55b43Wed, 13 Dec 2023 02:42:41 +0000scottAfter sixteen years of teaching, Scott is super-excited to begin his first podcast series. In this two minute podcast, Scott explains his excitement and some of the topics he intends to cover.154false11trailer