https://www.spreaker.com/show/safewordenRelationshipsCopyright Safeword Podcasthttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/457d701ab9417e10749bc842de3006fc.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/safewordThu, 16 May 2024 10:03:51 +0000Safeword PodcastSafeword Podcastsafeword@theexpansivegroup.comHosted by sex therapists Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, Safeword is sex therapy, unhinged! Because instead of being a blankslate that’s just here to support you, we are telling you the details on our own sex lives, relationships, identities and more....trueepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-ep-attachment-sexuality--60049526@queersextherapy) unveils insights from their groundbreaking new book "Feel It All", a guide to sexuality that dispels the stale cultural attitudes about sex that leave too many feeling inadequate, and offers an expansive, attachment-based framework to free us and develop bolder, more satisfying relationships with our sexual selves. Along with Kamil Lewis, they dive into your questions, exploring how attachment styles shape our relationships, unraveling the mysteries of our nervous system responses, and offering education and experience on the intersection of attachment and sex.

For more resources:
@kamil.lewis
The Feels Newsletter
Get support at The Expansive Group]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60049526Thu, 16 May 2024 10:00:04 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this bonus episode of Safeword, Casey Tanner (of https://www.instagram.com/queersextherapy/) unveils insights from their groundbreaking new book...@queersextherapy) unveils insights from their groundbreaking new book "Feel It All", a guide to sexuality that dispels the stale cultural attitudes about sex that leave too many feeling inadequate, and offers an expansive, attachment-based framework to free us and develop bolder, more satisfying relationships with our sexual selves. Along with Kamil Lewis, they dive into your questions, exploring how attachment styles shape our relationships, unraveling the mysteries of our nervous system responses, and offering education and experience on the intersection of attachment and sex.

For more resources:
@kamil.lewis
The Feels Newsletter
Get support at The Expansive Group]]>2332attachment,coaching,emotions,feelitall,lgbt,lgbtqia,queersextherapy,sex,therapytrue24fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-fav-the-lives-of-s-xual-health-professionals-with-dr-emily-morse--56061756
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56061756Tue, 25 Jul 2023 09:20:02 +0000Safeword PodcastBack by popular demand, on @safewordpod, we get to hear from special guest @sexwithemily! Dr. Emily Morse hosts the longest running s-x and relationship podcast, where she challenges cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a...
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>2462truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go--56061723https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56061723Tue, 18 Jul 2023 14:15:02 +0000Safeword PodcastBack by popular request, Kamil and Casey are talking about the age-old question: should I stay or should I go? No strangers to anxious attachment styles, our fearless hosts talk about the ways that the urge for leaving and the need for staying are...2809truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-dom-sub-dynamics-with-yaz-harris--56061696Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was feverishly taking notes the whole time Yaz was talking. Not only was Yaz an amazingly competent and thorough D/S educator, they were also so gentle and patient with the hosts—a couple of subs learning the ropes ;)]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56061696Tue, 11 Jul 2023 13:10:43 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this fan favorite, Yaz Harris generously taught Kamil and Casey about Dom/Sub dynamics. Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The...Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was feverishly taking notes the whole time Yaz was talking. Not only was Yaz an amazingly competent and thorough D/S educator, they were also so gentle and patient with the hosts—a couple of subs learning the ropes ;)]]>2910truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-threesomes-and-more-somes--55438616
Season 3 will be out in Fall 2023!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55438616Thu, 29 Jun 2023 01:51:34 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this fan favorite rerun, Casey and Kamil help break down the intimidation factor around group s-x that many people feel. They bring a human-centered, relational approach to all your amazing questions on threesomes and beyond. Season 3 will be out...
Season 3 will be out in Fall 2023!
]]>2311truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-secret-turn-ons-and-guilty-pleasures--54523979https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54523979Tue, 20 Jun 2023 11:00:02 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this fan favorite, Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, answer all your questions on your secret turn ons and turn offs. They talk you through ways to tell a partner what's on your yes/no/maybe pleasure lists. They answer other questions on solo...1747truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-permission-to-come--54404218https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54404218Wed, 14 Jun 2023 16:02:12 +0000Safeword PodcastOn this favorite episode of Safeword revisited, Kamil is making hot use of office space and Casey gives the gift of being told what to do over Zoom. This week’s theme is fantasies, so ~imagine~ a dreamy conversation about your favorite type of bedtime...2088truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-head-shoulders-knees-toes-and-pelvic-floor--54120830
Masterbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey. Our hosts rewatch Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. They talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless it's not. Which is more than okay. What does masturbation with a partner look like? Is masturbation ever a waste of time? Should parents buy a sex toy for their tween? All this, plus kegals, and more.

Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54120830Tue, 06 Jun 2023 21:31:47 +0000Safeword PodcastBack by popular demand: the Masturbation Episode! Masterbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey. Our hosts rewatch Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. They talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless...
Masterbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey. Our hosts rewatch Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. They talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless it's not. Which is more than okay. What does masturbation with a partner look like? Is masturbation ever a waste of time? Should parents buy a sex toy for their tween? All this, plus kegals, and more.

Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.]]>1623truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-learning-gender-through-the-body-w-ev-yan-whitney--54040065
The trio discussed gender and answered all of your amazing questions, addressing topics like gender dysphoria in the bedroom, the construct of straightness, the power of breath and much more!

Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54040065Tue, 30 May 2023 10:48:02 +0000Safeword PodcastBack by popular demand! We're bringing you a rerun of Learning Gender Through The Body from Safeword, a fan favorite that sparked fascinating discussions. Join us as we revisit Kamil and Casey's captivating discussion with s-xuality doulah, sensualist...
The trio discussed gender and answered all of your amazing questions, addressing topics like gender dysphoria in the bedroom, the construct of straightness, the power of breath and much more!

Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.]]>3312truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fan-favorite-revisited-your-bisexual-era--53969693
Kamil and Casey dive into all of your quandaries about bisexuality. Get ready! This is Kamil’s playground. They reflect on, what Kamil calls, “Casey's powerful bis-xual era.” It is still a challenging world for people with bisexual identities, and we get real about that. We also celebrate all of the ways bi folks are thriving! Check us out at @safewordpod on IG and Instagram.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53969693Tue, 23 May 2023 12:47:28 +0000Safeword PodcastRelive the magic of our most popular episode! In this rerun of Safeword, we revisit Episode 12 called Bisexual Era, where we delve into the joys of bis-xuality and the challenges of living in a biphobic world. Whether you're a longtime fan or new to...
Kamil and Casey dive into all of your quandaries about bisexuality. Get ready! This is Kamil’s playground. They reflect on, what Kamil calls, “Casey's powerful bis-xual era.” It is still a challenging world for people with bisexual identities, and we get real about that. We also celebrate all of the ways bi folks are thriving! Check us out at @safewordpod on IG and Instagram.]]>1796truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/23-initiation--53790475https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53790475Tue, 09 May 2023 12:28:28 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Ep 23 of safewordpod, Kamil and I talk about initiation. S-xual and romantic, and even social initiation has never felt easy for Casey. Kamil, on the other hand, loves it. It was special to learn from each other and from all of the listener’s...1736truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/22-responding-to-your-life-stories--53616747
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53616747Tue, 25 Apr 2023 09:00:02 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Ep 22, Kamil and I, Casey, dive deep into listeners’ longer s-x and relationship stories and questions. We were blown away by listeners' insight and creativity. There was no official theme for this show, but we kept encountering folks who have...
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>2504truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-dom-sub-dynamics-with-yaz-harris--53502844Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was feverishly taking notes the whole time Yaz was talking. Not only was Yaz an amazingly competent and thorough D/S educator, they were also so gentle and patient with the hosts—a couple of subs learning the ropes ;)

*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53502844Tue, 11 Apr 2023 14:21:35 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Ep 21, Yaz Harris generously taught Kamil and Casey about Dom/Sub dynamics. Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was...Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was feverishly taking notes the whole time Yaz was talking. Not only was Yaz an amazingly competent and thorough D/S educator, they were also so gentle and patient with the hosts—a couple of subs learning the ropes ;)

*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>2910truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-the-lives-of-s-xual-health-professionals-with-dr-emily-morse--53364823
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53364823Tue, 28 Mar 2023 11:55:04 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Episode 20 of @safewordpod, we get to hear from special guest @sexwithemily! Dr. Emily Morse hosts the longest running s-x and relationship podcast, where she challenges cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where...
*Special discount for Safeword Listeners*
Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.]]>2462true220fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-queer-dating-guide--53188118As always thank you listeners for these amazing questions!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53188118Tue, 14 Mar 2023 09:00:02 +0000Safeword PodcastQueer dating! The greatest activity on earth? Or the most intimidating? On Episode 19 of Safeword, Kamil Lewis and Casey Tanner are here for all your queer dating quandaries. We hope these tips help you slow down, release some queer imposter syndrome...As always thank you listeners for these amazing questions!]]>2265true219fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/18-threesomes-and-more-somes--5312648421f37e27-4119-4fd6-9162-36fb0508f380Tue, 28 Feb 2023 13:06:05 +0000Safeword PodcastCasey and Kamil help break down the intimidation factor around group s-x that many people feel. They bring a human-centered, relational approach to all your amazing questions on threesomes and beyond.2311truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-org-sms--53126488be1e4f21-577c-4791-bab8-2eb97bb3949dTue, 14 Feb 2023 10:00:40 +0000Safeword PodcastEveryone is always talking about org-sms. And while Kamil and Casey are big fans, they know through our work, and through their personal experiences that org-sms can be complicated and hard too. In Episode 17 of @safewordpod: they celebrate the...2124truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/16-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go--53126497cd334ec7-193d-4494-9cd3-ea4e09973b58Tue, 31 Jan 2023 10:15:34 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Episode 16, Kamil and Casey are talking about the age-old question: should I stay or should I go? No strangers to anxious attachment styles, our fearless hosts talk about the ways that the urge for leaving and the need for staying are always in...2809truefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-s-xuality-after-religious-trauma--531264967cb4e65a-c8d4-46ef-ba6d-884097e21e7fTue, 20 Dec 2022 10:00:17 +0000Safeword Podcast*CW: Episode 15 contains themes of religious trauma, s-xual trauma, child abuse. Please take care of yourself in whatever way makes sense, whether that’s pausing and seeking support or sitting this episode out. In Episode 15 of @safeword, we are...2461falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/14-learning-gender-through-the-body-w-ev-yan-whitney--53126491aa559acf-edbb-467a-900d-19e71a15d468Tue, 06 Dec 2022 13:40:34 +0000Safeword PodcastIn Episode 14, Casey and Kamil had the tremendous honor of speaking with s-xuality doulah, sensualist and author @evyan.whitney. The trio discussed gender and answered all of your amazing questions, addressing topics like gender dysphoria in the...3312falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-bis-xual-era--53126493d3c0717e-63bc-41ce-b04c-03a5d8aae04bTue, 22 Nov 2022 10:00:48 +0000Safeword PodcastKamil and Casey dive into all of your quandaries about bis-xuality. Get ready! This is Kamil’s playground. They reflect on, what Kamil calls, “Casey's powerful  bis-xual era.” It is still a challenging world for people with bis-xual identities, and we...1796falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/12-lorelai-luke-and-relationship-conflict--53126492f592cf64-14b0-4289-815c-5c5e95524259Tue, 08 Nov 2022 10:00:34 +0000Safeword PodcastKamil and Casey discover that they both have been watching Gilmore Girls on repeat since high school! Amazing timing! Lorelei and Luke provide the perfect archetypal case study of avoidant and anxiously attached partners and the common conflicts that...2230true25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-secret-turn-ons-and-guilty-pleasures--5312650872634d24-7805-4e41-8e4b-c4d24eb9e07aTue, 25 Oct 2022 09:00:01 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this live recording, Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, answer all your questions on your secret turn ons and turn offs. They talk you through ways to tell a partner what's on your yes/no/maybe pleasure lists. They answer other questions on solo...1747falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-trauma-and-sex--53126503ef659684-019b-480d-8668-6682d8e5936eTue, 11 Oct 2022 09:00:29 +0000Safeword PodcastIn this episode, Casey and Kamil address your thoughtful questions on trauma and sex, and share pieces of their own survivor stories. This episode addresses the pain and grief of sexual trauma, as well as the discomfort, hope and pleasure found in...2216falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/9-work-spouse-nre-sponsored-by-costar--531265071223ce92-ff3b-47e4-8def-87f950939b56Tue, 27 Sep 2022 14:10:51 +0000Safeword PodcastKamil and Casey help us navigate the wild rollercoaster we call NRE a.k.a. New Relationship Energy, and the very different by also wild LRE a.k.a Longterm Relationship Energy. The transition from from one to the other can be bumpy and daunting. That's...2076falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/8-breaking-up-getting-back-together-and-everything-in-between--531264950046e3b6-80a6-4fed-bcca-9b293eaef09cTue, 13 Sep 2022 14:21:37 +0000Safeword PodcastTo kickoff Season 2, Casey and Kamil answer your questions on breaking up, getting back together and everything in between. They address the pain of breakups, the lure of break-up s-x and how to address resurfacing issues with a partner. Also they...1777true21fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-what-r-b-taught-us-about-cheating--53126505124abffa-a879-47e8-b35e-daaa4e49cd9cTue, 28 Jun 2022 09:00:53 +0000Safeword PodcastFor the Season 1 Finale, Casey and Kamil take on your questions about cheating. They let themselves get more real and messy than before and open up about their cheating experiences. Turns out your sex therapist is human too! They also educate on how...2022true17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-queer-is-better--53126501bb03655a-b136-44ef-b603-9973943b0deaTue, 14 Jun 2022 09:00:51 +0000Safeword PodcastCasey and Kamil therapize their first guest, Alex Lui, about his quest to recover from a trash sex education. We learn that Casey went to a Handmaids Tale summer camp, Kamil used to walk down the block to throw out her empty Birth Control packets, and...1901true16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-head-shoulders-knees-toes-pelvic-floor--531265062c1f1e52-a848-4ac0-be22-864a364edd13Tue, 07 Jun 2022 12:00:51 +0000Safeword PodcastMasturbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey rewatches Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. This week, we talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless it's not. Which is more than okay. What does...1623true15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/4-hey-there--53126504b538850d-4306-4cc1-8497-ecc3afe881b3Tue, 24 May 2022 12:00:56 +0000Safeword PodcastFrom dating app burnout to the ethics of having Tinder while monogamous, Casey and Kamil swipe through all your dating app dilemmas quicker than it takes to type out “hey there!”. It’s brutal out there, from choosing an app to wondering if you'll ever...2277true14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-we-love-a-good-origin-story--53126489cb1225e0-fa73-4915-aebf-842a042f7966Tue, 10 May 2022 12:00:52 +0000Safeword PodcastCasey and Kamil reveal their first impressions of one another and discover they both had childhood lisps. They tackle questions about first queer experiences, first partnered orgasms, whether or not to disclose when it’s your first time trying...1935true13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/2-permission-to-come--53126499d8e377a6-fa81-41aa-91e4-611cd6f5cfbdTue, 26 Apr 2022 12:00:19 +0000Safeword PodcastOn this episode of Safeword, Kamil is making hot use of office space and Casey gives the gift of being told what to do over Zoom. This week’s theme is fantasies, so ~imagine~ a dreamy conversation about your favorite type of bedtime stories. Can you...2088true12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-good-sex-isn-t-easy--531265004d3b9dc9-d6cf-447f-bb0a-4da46043b071Tue, 12 Apr 2022 12:00:00 +0000Safeword PodcastIn our pilot episode of Safeword… Kamil names her vibrators after Disney princesses and Casey is having the best sex of their life. Our theme this week is better sex, and we talk about orgasming, sexual spectatorship, shame around fantasies, and more....2191true11fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trailer-safeword--531264904d54311c-1aef-4e5a-a509-a1208033a9daFri, 08 Apr 2022 14:00:00 +0000Safeword PodcastFrom sex and relationship therapists Casey Tanner (@queersextherapy) and Kamil Lewis (@kamil.lewis), Safeword is your new favorite podcast. Get those earbuds in because our first episode premieres on April 11th, 2022. 40false1trailer