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After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the events they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/5688404/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Personal Journals</category><copyright>Copyright To All The Men I've Tolerated</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg</url><title>To All the Men I've Tolerated Before</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/show/to-all-the-men-ive-tolerated-before</link></image><lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 07:16:03 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:name><itunes:email>menivetoleratedbefore@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, the weekly podcast where host, Natalie Katona, invites guests on the podcast to chat about living in the world of men. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the events they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Personal Journals"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Comedy"/><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>Summer Replay: Still Comdy? Freaky Friday</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-still-comdy-freaky-friday--72739274</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72739274</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72739274/sc_freaky_friday_for_feed.mp3" length="65054973" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa/2fe82431-10b9-4a09-ad79-bc3e65da99aa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4066</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,freakyfriday,movie,moviereview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Replay: Romantic Comedies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-romantic-comedies--72739261</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72739261</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72739261/romatic_comedy_feed.mp3" length="78659126" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f/abc3197b-d702-4bf4-be5d-aa19832a770f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney fromhttps://pod.link/1585974420 to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4917</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,movies,romanticcomedies</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Replay: America's Sweethearts and DCC</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-america-s-sweethearts-and-dcc--72739247</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72739247</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72739247/america_s_swethearts.mp3" length="90288840" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa/d59409a2-daec-435c-a6bc-d1c826993dfa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5644</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>americassweethearts,dcc,feminism,feminist,netflix,tv</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>June 2026 Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/june-2026-reminders--72678710</link><description><![CDATA[<b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? 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Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! 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The Parent Trap</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-still-comfy-the-parent-trap--72280309</link><description><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72280309</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72280309/summer_2025_parent_trap.mp3" length="62413086" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0/26081868-27b0-4bb7-be14-5bde11e754d0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3901</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>lindsaylohan,movie,moviereview,parenttrap,summercamp</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Replay: Writing Sapphic Horror</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-writing-sapphic-horror--72280283</link><description><![CDATA[Author <a href="https://www.raewilde.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rae Wilde</a> joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><br /><b>Find Rae</b><br />Website: https://www.raewilde.com/<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_rae_wilde/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@_rae_wilde</a><br /><a href="https://tr.ee/IZi0HjBzr1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok Shop</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72280283</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72280283/sapphic_horror.mp3" length="69125477" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e/0449be09-624c-447e-a0f1-a9bbf441b44e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Author https://www.raewilde.com/ joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Author <a href="https://www.raewilde.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rae Wilde</a> joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><br /><b>Find Rae</b><br />Website: https://www.raewilde.com/<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_rae_wilde/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@_rae_wilde</a><br /><a href="https://tr.ee/IZi0HjBzr1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok Shop</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4321</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>horror,lgbtq,summer</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Replay: Entering Your Rom Com Era</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-replay-entering-your-rom-com-era--72280247</link><description><![CDATA[TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72280247</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72280247/entering_your_rom_com_era.mp3" length="80779851" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9/d5125f67-d663-4ede-b68b-86fe786b16f9.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5049</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>romance,romcom,summer</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>May 2026 Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/may-2026-reminders--72191758</link><description><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72191758</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 07:00:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72191758/may_2026_announcements.mp3" length="4004511" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d/78718cd4-7ebe-4994-8a21-aa80d6f7c91d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>251</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Movie Her</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-movie-her--71897912</link><description><![CDATA[Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our definitions on what makes the love we feel for others real. So watch a movie and then connect with us about all the ways we connected to an unlikely love story.<br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Ami</b><br /><a href="https://www.breakoutsesh.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">See available workshops on Break Out Sesh</a><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kana</b><br /><a href="https://www.kanafelix.com/workshops" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">See available workshops</a><br /><a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf0NMOFJMaeYHqnflLc882xt5EdBcw4-x1u-mpZkWJwpxDMHQ/viewform" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sign up for Script Club</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kanahasnochill/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71897912</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 12:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71897912/the_movie_her.mp3" length="95095789" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513/81b7d5de-58f6-4d50-84f3-1a1e18a01513.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our definitions on what makes the love we feel for others real. So watch a movie and then connect with us about all the ways we connected to an unlikely love story.<br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Ami</b><br /><a href="https://www.breakoutsesh.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">See available workshops on Break Out Sesh</a><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kana</b><br /><a href="https://www.kanafelix.com/workshops" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">See available workshops</a><br /><a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf0NMOFJMaeYHqnflLc882xt5EdBcw4-x1u-mpZkWJwpxDMHQ/viewform" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sign up for Script Club</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kanahasnochill/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5944</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>ai,feminism,feminist,her,misogyny,movie,moviereview,technology,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Comedy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/comedy--71781668</link><description><![CDATA[Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of<a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/TcC6DrV6?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Gold Comedy</a>, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have diverse voices in the comedy space, how comedy improves empathy for others, and personal anecdotes from their lives as funny women.<b></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<b><br /></b><br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Lynn and Gold Comedy</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DVwSC85jlZv/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/TcC6DrV6?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Explore Gold Comedy</a><br /><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/6NSafUPN?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check Out the Build and Pitch Any Idea with Ryan Cunningham</a><b><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/6NSafUPN?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a> </b><br />(Use code<b> GOLD10PERCENTOFF</b> when signing up for class to receive a 10% discount)<br /><a href="https://calendly.com/chat-with-lynn-harris/chat-about-your-comedy-goals-w-lynn-harris-gold-comedy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Book a free comedy consult call with Lynn</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71781668</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71781668/comedy.mp3" length="63767240" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec/12a76f6f-1f78-4cbd-8a8c-63e19861a8ec.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Lynn Harris is the owner and founder ofhttp://myrootabl.com/r/TcC6DrV6?rootabl=nataliek124, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of<a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/TcC6DrV6?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Gold Comedy</a>, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have diverse voices in the comedy space, how comedy improves empathy for others, and personal anecdotes from their lives as funny women.<b></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<b><br /></b><br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Lynn and Gold Comedy</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DVwSC85jlZv/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/TcC6DrV6?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Explore Gold Comedy</a><br /><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/6NSafUPN?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check Out the Build and Pitch Any Idea with Ryan Cunningham</a><b><a href="http://myrootabl.com/r/6NSafUPN?rootabl=nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a> </b><br />(Use code<b> GOLD10PERCENTOFF</b> when signing up for class to receive a 10% discount)<br /><a href="https://calendly.com/chat-with-lynn-harris/chat-about-your-comedy-goals-w-lynn-harris-gold-comedy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Book a free comedy consult call with Lynn</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3986</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,feminism,feminist,misogyny,women,womenincomedy,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Secret Lives of Mormon Wives</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/secret-lives-of-mormon-wives--71677780</link><description><![CDATA[Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be discussion on why no one wants Dadtok to be a thing as well as why Natalie has such a hard time buying into the show and how she’s constantly worried about what’s being portrayed as “women empowerment”<b>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kristiana</b><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/CoffeeBreakWithK/home?utm_source=campaign-search-results&amp;vanity=CoffeeBreakWithK" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/when-reality-can-153538266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kristiana’s article on SLOMW</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71677780</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71677780/secret_lives_of_mormon_wives.mp3" length="91131446" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268/62e5dbd7-6413-44b3-9c25-32521b1a9268.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be discussion on why no one wants Dadtok to be a thing as well as why Natalie has such a hard time buying into the show and how she’s constantly worried about what’s being portrayed as “women empowerment”<b>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kristiana</b><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/CoffeeBreakWithK/home?utm_source=campaign-search-results&amp;vanity=CoffeeBreakWithK" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/when-reality-can-153538266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kristiana’s article on SLOMW</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5696</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,realitytv,secretlivesofmormonwives,slomw,tv,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>April 2026 Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/april-2026-reminders--71707692</link><description><![CDATA[Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. <br /><br />We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month!Topics include:<ul><li>Christina Koch and her trip to the moon</li><li>Chappell Roan existing and men being mad</li><li>62 million reasons to be a misandrist</li><li>The Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion therapy</li><li>Summer House and Scamanda</li><li>Everyone should see The Drama</li><li>Protecting ourselves from men centered people</li><li>Advice on how to make men more uncomfortable</li></ul>The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">free Patreon tier!</a><br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71707692</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71707692/april_2026_announcements.mp3" length="3575266" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9/23cd7c6e-c40b-425f-be9f-b6c12c2b6ba9.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. 

We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month!Topics include:
- Christina Koch...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. <br /><br />We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month!Topics include:<ul><li>Christina Koch and her trip to the moon</li><li>Chappell Roan existing and men being mad</li><li>62 million reasons to be a misandrist</li><li>The Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion therapy</li><li>Summer House and Scamanda</li><li>Everyone should see The Drama</li><li>Protecting ourselves from men centered people</li><li>Advice on how to make men more uncomfortable</li></ul>The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">free Patreon tier!</a><br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>224</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>announcements,feminism,feminist,reminders,trailer,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Thelma and Louise</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-thelma-and-louise--71371308</link><description><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube Channel </a><br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71371308</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71371308/thelma_and_louise_replay.mp3" length="95743242" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396/14914b5c-9cd8-4d83-bca8-78b863585396.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube Channel </a><br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5984</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>geenadavis,movie,moviereview,susansarandon,thelmaandlouise</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Geena Davis Institute</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-geena-davis-institute--71005314</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by <a href="https://geenadavisinstitute.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media</a>. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go over the ways Geena used her standing in Hollywood to meet with executives to bring light to how little women were being represented in media when it came to their male counterparts. There will also be a discussion on what quality female representation looks like in film, how the institute eventually expanded to collecting data that would represent other marginalized voices’ time on screens, and other women who have pioneered paths forward when it comes to getting women’s stories told. <br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Find Jessica</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pondhoppette/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71005314</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71005314/geena_davis_institute_corrected.mp3" length="82486412" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71/cd1bc470-708a-4334-82ef-e91c232e3a71.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by https://geenadavisinstitute.org/. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by <a href="https://geenadavisinstitute.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media</a>. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go over the ways Geena used her standing in Hollywood to meet with executives to bring light to how little women were being represented in media when it came to their male counterparts. There will also be a discussion on what quality female representation looks like in film, how the institute eventually expanded to collecting data that would represent other marginalized voices’ time on screens, and other women who have pioneered paths forward when it comes to getting women’s stories told. <br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Find Jessica</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pondhoppette/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5156</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,geenadavis,misogyny,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patriarchy Stress Disorder</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patriarchy-stress-disorder--70903869</link><description><![CDATA[The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book <a href="https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/patriarchy-stress-disorder-the-invisible-inner-barrier-to-womens-happiness-and-fulfillment/24523577/item/51419291/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_scarce_under_$10_17389091670&amp;utm_adgroup=&amp;utm_term=&amp;utm_content=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=17389092606&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADwY45iXe3cSLq5O8TqtS0nwtgjZK&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwspPOBhB9EiwATFbi5GCdvzBphiLhjeUEXS88oLpyLwuasrcQKW46Nz96MY4VMBa6adLokBoCYMwQAvD_BwE#edition=26201718&amp;idiq=51419291" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. </a>Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives and the toll they take on our health. There will also be discussion on Dr. Valerie’s work in creating ways for women to heal from the trauma caused by Patriarchy.<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Dr. Valerie Rein</b><br /><a href="https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/patriarchy-stress-disorder-the-invisible-inner-barrier-to-womens-happiness-and-fulfillment/24523577/item/51419291/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_scarce_under_$10_17389091670&amp;utm_adgroup=&amp;utm_term=&amp;utm_content=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=17389092606&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADwY45iXe3cSLq5O8TqtS0nwtgjZK&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwspPOBhB9EiwATFbi5GCdvzBphiLhjeUEXS88oLpyLwuasrcQKW46Nz96MY4VMBa6adLokBoCYMwQAvD_BwE#edition=26201718&amp;idiq=51419291" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy the book</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drvalerierein/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://drvalerie.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70903869</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70903869/patriarchy_distress_disorder.mp3" length="62556831" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc/5b59e641-b421-4631-b139-fd4821fa25cc.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book <a href="https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/patriarchy-stress-disorder-the-invisible-inner-barrier-to-womens-happiness-and-fulfillment/24523577/item/51419291/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_scarce_under_$10_17389091670&amp;utm_adgroup=&amp;utm_term=&amp;utm_content=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=17389092606&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADwY45iXe3cSLq5O8TqtS0nwtgjZK&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwspPOBhB9EiwATFbi5GCdvzBphiLhjeUEXS88oLpyLwuasrcQKW46Nz96MY4VMBa6adLokBoCYMwQAvD_BwE#edition=26201718&amp;idiq=51419291" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. </a>Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives and the toll they take on our health. There will also be discussion on Dr. Valerie’s work in creating ways for women to heal from the trauma caused by Patriarchy.<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Dr. Valerie Rein</b><br /><a href="https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/patriarchy-stress-disorder-the-invisible-inner-barrier-to-womens-happiness-and-fulfillment/24523577/item/51419291/?utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=pmax_high_vol_scarce_under_$10_17389091670&amp;utm_adgroup=&amp;utm_term=&amp;utm_content=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=17389092606&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADwY45iXe3cSLq5O8TqtS0nwtgjZK&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwspPOBhB9EiwATFbi5GCdvzBphiLhjeUEXS88oLpyLwuasrcQKW46Nz96MY4VMBa6adLokBoCYMwQAvD_BwE#edition=26201718&amp;idiq=51419291" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy the book</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drvalerierein/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://drvalerie.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3910</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,patriarchy,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcasts</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Kesha</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/kesha--70877162</link><description><![CDATA[Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will include Kesha’s reputation in the music industry, her legal battle with Dr. Luke, the healing she has done, and why Kesha is someone to be admired for her strength against adversity and how she inspires hope that you can fight the system, feel beaten by it, but still find your way to peace and happiness.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70877162</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70877162/kesha.mp3" length="58117686" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a/31ca6838-2152-41df-8d59-5ed4c13a927a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will include Kesha’s reputation in the music industry, her legal battle with Dr. Luke, the healing she has done, and why Kesha is someone to be admired for her strength against adversity and how she inspires hope that you can fight the system, feel beaten by it, but still find your way to peace and happiness.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3633</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>femalemusicians,feminism,feminist,kesha,misogyny,music,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>March 2026 Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/march-2026-reminders--70872991</link><description><![CDATA[Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. <br /><br />Our bonus episode for this month included the topics:<br /><ul><li>Kristi Noem</li><li>Timothy Chalamet</li><li>The women of the Olympics</li><li>Chelsea Devantez and her film, Basic</li><li>Getting over disappointment</li><li>Love is Blind Ohio</li><li>Secret Lives of Mormon Wives S4</li></ul>The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">free Patreon tier!</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70872991</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2026 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70872991/march_2026_reminders.mp3" length="2398293" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d/9280c794-9f1e-4c18-9bf8-4e8799cf4c8d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. 

Our bonus episode for this month included the topics:

- Kristi Noem
- Timothy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. <br /><br />Our bonus episode for this month included the topics:<br /><ul><li>Kristi Noem</li><li>Timothy Chalamet</li><li>The women of the Olympics</li><li>Chelsea Devantez and her film, Basic</li><li>Getting over disappointment</li><li>Love is Blind Ohio</li><li>Secret Lives of Mormon Wives S4</li></ul>The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">free Patreon tier!</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>150</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonuscontent,feminism,feminist,misogyny,trailer,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Godfather</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-godfather--70445396</link><description><![CDATA[Tara Jabbari (<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/78a4pv6tYgad4C0mEftAgB" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a>) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we can all just get a little hot over how good everyone looked in this trilogy.<br /><br />And as a bonus feature, Tara has shared her pitch deck with all the visuals and movie clips that are referenced in the episode! You can find the deck at this <a href="https://www.canva.com/design/DAGvKbeec8g/7mEFuIpPAQ0I71Rl-8dkwQ/edit?utm_content=DAGvKbeec8g&amp;utm_campaign=designshare&amp;utm_medium=link2&amp;utm_source=sharebutton" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a>. <br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><br /><b>Find Tara</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tara_jabbari/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://tarajabbari.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Media Maker Spotlight Podcast</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70445396</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70445396/the_godfather.mp3" length="69911240" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1/ea35f6c9-1162-4a60-ad57-a0a5f630a4d1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tara Jabbari (https://open.spotify.com/show/78a4pv6tYgad4C0mEftAgB) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tara Jabbari (<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/78a4pv6tYgad4C0mEftAgB" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a>) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we can all just get a little hot over how good everyone looked in this trilogy.<br /><br />And as a bonus feature, Tara has shared her pitch deck with all the visuals and movie clips that are referenced in the episode! You can find the deck at this <a href="https://www.canva.com/design/DAGvKbeec8g/7mEFuIpPAQ0I71Rl-8dkwQ/edit?utm_content=DAGvKbeec8g&amp;utm_campaign=designshare&amp;utm_medium=link2&amp;utm_source=sharebutton" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">link</a>. <br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><br /><b>Find Tara</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tara_jabbari/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://tarajabbari.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Media Maker Spotlight Podcast</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4370</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,movie,moviereview,thegodfather,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sex and the City</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-and-the-city--70256720</link><description><![CDATA[Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bubble-bath-stories/id1432772308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bubble Bath Stories</a> are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accepted that check from Mr. Big.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Find Nicky and Manny</b><br /><a href="https://www.bubblebathstories.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bubble-bath-stories/id1432772308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to Bubble Bath Stories</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/nickytrendz/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nicky’s IG</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gotnotime4diss/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Manny’s IG</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/bubblebathstories/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bubble Bath Stories’s IG</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70256720</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70256720/sex_and_the_city.mp3" length="69757431" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b/2da5b316-066e-4f5b-9689-2be67715a04b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bubble-bath-stories/id1432772308 are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bubble-bath-stories/id1432772308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bubble Bath Stories</a> are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accepted that check from Mr. Big.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Find Nicky and Manny</b><br /><a href="https://www.bubblebathstories.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bubble-bath-stories/id1432772308" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to Bubble Bath Stories</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/nickytrendz/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nicky’s IG</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gotnotime4diss/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Manny’s IG</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/bubblebathstories/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bubble Bath Stories’s IG</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4360</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,satc,sexandthecity,tv,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Kat Sass</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/kat-sass--70240096</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag artist and as a creative in general.</b><br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Kat </b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kat.sass/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70240096</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70240096/kat_sass.mp3" length="74364177" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612/a1077154-23a9-4402-ae10-dc3fd247e612.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag artist and as a creative in general.</b><br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Kat </b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kat.sass/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4648</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>drag,feminist,misogyny,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>February 2026 End of Month Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/february-2026-end-of-month-reminders--70240439</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.<br /><br />Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70240439</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2026 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70240439/february_2026_end_of_month_reminders.mp3" length="2757738" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72/4a77a649-0a4f-48c3-86ed-bf42d2950e72.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.<br /><br />Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>173</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Heated Rivalry</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/heated-rivalry--69789996</link><description><![CDATA[We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (<a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games</a>) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences reactions to the show, and the discourse that happens all over the internet because of the show.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support Kervin</b><br /><a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website </a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames?lang=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69789996</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69789996/heated_rivalry_ad.mp3" length="81611590" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529/1a2bb4d9-4122-428f-9793-102fecef0529.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (https://www.forwhygames.com/) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (<a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games</a>) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences reactions to the show, and the discourse that happens all over the internet because of the show.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support Kervin</b><br /><a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website </a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames?lang=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5101</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,heatedrivalry,misogyny,tv,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Losing Interest in Men</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/losing-interest-in-men--69667490</link><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/deyvorce?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_fan&amp;utm_content=copyLink&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnYRbqV1iEd2lO6PQxPUzZzsDHNTTZB2hOlPLmd1AbD3WkPNQfbYuR91fDVOw_aem_LXQkjInXDlxMdpAr3cxOBw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Megan Metzger</a> is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casual sex, and more will be discussed as we try to find the solution for how to have a physical attraction to men when you don’t actually like men all that much.<br /><br />*For this episode, there was an audio issue on my end and my track ended up muffled. My philosophy is that in real time conversation is always the priority but I do apologize for the audio quality.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Megan</b><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/deyvorce?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_fan&amp;utm_content=copyLink&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnYRbqV1iEd2lO6PQxPUzZzsDHNTTZB2hOlPLmd1AbD3WkPNQfbYuR91fDVOw_aem_LXQkjInXDlxMdpAr3cxOBw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon </a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alicensedjoyologist/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69667490</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69667490/losing_interest_in_men_ad.mp3" length="63093072" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a/1403fcb2-babb-47a1-a6ab-852d707d643a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>https://www.patreon.com/cw/deyvorce?utm_medium=unknown&amp;amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_fan&amp;amp;utm_content=copyLink&amp;amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnYRbqV1iEd2lO6PQxPUzZzsDHNTTZB2hOlPLmd1AbD3WkPNQf...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/deyvorce?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_fan&amp;utm_content=copyLink&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnYRbqV1iEd2lO6PQxPUzZzsDHNTTZB2hOlPLmd1AbD3WkPNQfbYuR91fDVOw_aem_LXQkjInXDlxMdpAr3cxOBw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Megan Metzger</a> is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casual sex, and more will be discussed as we try to find the solution for how to have a physical attraction to men when you don’t actually like men all that much.<br /><br />*For this episode, there was an audio issue on my end and my track ended up muffled. My philosophy is that in real time conversation is always the priority but I do apologize for the audio quality.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Megan</b><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/deyvorce?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_fan&amp;utm_content=copyLink&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnYRbqV1iEd2lO6PQxPUzZzsDHNTTZB2hOlPLmd1AbD3WkPNQfbYuR91fDVOw_aem_LXQkjInXDlxMdpAr3cxOBw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon </a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alicensedjoyologist/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3944</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,divorce,feminism,feminist,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sailor Moon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sailor-moon--69599637</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other treasured franchises that were celebrating young women while they were growing up.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Cetoria</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_cetoria/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69599637</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2026 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69599637/sailor_moon_w_ad.mp3" length="76703913" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656/be84b691-d44c-44c1-a432-b6b815791656.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other treasured franchises that were celebrating young women while they were growing up.<br /><b><br />How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Cetoria</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_cetoria/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4794</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,girlhood,sailormoon,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>End of Month Reminders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/end-of-month-reminders--69624013</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.<br /><br />Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69624013</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2026 08:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69624013/jan_2026_reminders.mp3" length="2636530" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca/8a549dbc-031c-482f-9168-f3b6464497ca.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.<br /><br />Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:<br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>165</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Revisiting Glinda</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/revisiting-glinda--69343772</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the thought that there are oppressive systems surrounding you, eventually you do have to do some actions to bring about change. There will also be discussion surrounding how the media serves as a reflection of our society as well as some troubling thoughts on our society’s diminishing media literacy.  Was Julia sold on Glinda being changed for good? Listen to the episode to find out.<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69343772</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69343772/revisiting_glinda_w_patreon_ad.mp3" length="68013706" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86/c804a426-e2f6-4b86-92ad-d7ef88488d86.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the thought that there are oppressive systems surrounding you, eventually you do have to do some actions to bring about change. There will also be discussion surrounding how the media serves as a reflection of our society as well as some troubling thoughts on our society’s diminishing media literacy.  Was Julia sold on Glinda being changed for good? Listen to the episode to find out.<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Julia</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/?utm_source=ig&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_content=link_in_bio&amp;fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGne-mvaT-9m6y02iU4MYN-Nn5JmhFvVyOtys0NjZ8mA4z-YscHmx2eKzj-eSQ_aem_q9BbF96Sv-NKMEmdbNISRQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Her Candles</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/juliawashington" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4251</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,glinda,misogyny,wicked,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dating tips from a Divorce Attorney</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dating-tips-from-a-divorce-attorney--69302230</link><description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.livelaughfindtruelove.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sarah Intelligator</a> is a family law attorney and author of the book<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/live-laugh-find-true-love-a-step-by-step-guide-to-finding-a-meaningful-relationship-sarah-intelligator/90abeb90158dbf1e?ean=9781510776401&amp;next=t&amp;ref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.skyhorsepublishing.com%2F&amp;source=IndieBound&amp;title=Live%2C+Laugh%2C+Find+True+Love%3A+A+Step-by-Step+Guide+to+Dating+and+Finding+a+Meaningful+Relationship" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney</a>. She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut do’s and don’t’s on how to really be intentional on finding the right partner. In this episode, she gives some solid advice on how to pay attention to the important details when you’re dating to make sure you’re a good match.<br /><br />How to Support TATMITB:<br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Sarah</b><br /><a href="https://livelaughfindtruelove.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sarah.a.intelligator.esq/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/live-laugh-find-true-love-a-step-by-step-guide-to-finding-a-meaningful-relationship-sarah-intelligator/90abeb90158dbf1e?ean=9781510776401&amp;next=t&amp;ref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.skyhorsepublishing.com%2F&amp;source=IndieBound&amp;title=Live%2C+Laugh%2C+Find+True+Love%3A+A+Step-by-Step+Guide+to+Dating+and+Finding+a+Meaningful+Relationship" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Order Her Book</a><b><br /><br /></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69302230</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69302230/dating_tips_from_a_divorce_attorney_patre_ad.mp3" length="57535469" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08/83ce2882-82ab-4cd3-9a13-df6788600c08.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>http://www.livelaughfindtruelove.com is a family law attorney and author of the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.livelaughfindtruelove.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sarah Intelligator</a> is a family law attorney and author of the book<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/live-laugh-find-true-love-a-step-by-step-guide-to-finding-a-meaningful-relationship-sarah-intelligator/90abeb90158dbf1e?ean=9781510776401&amp;next=t&amp;ref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.skyhorsepublishing.com%2F&amp;source=IndieBound&amp;title=Live%2C+Laugh%2C+Find+True+Love%3A+A+Step-by-Step+Guide+to+Dating+and+Finding+a+Meaningful+Relationship" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney</a>. She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut do’s and don’t’s on how to really be intentional on finding the right partner. In this episode, she gives some solid advice on how to pay attention to the important details when you’re dating to make sure you’re a good match.<br /><br />How to Support TATMITB:<br /><br />Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Sarah</b><br /><a href="https://livelaughfindtruelove.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sarah.a.intelligator.esq/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/live-laugh-find-true-love-a-step-by-step-guide-to-finding-a-meaningful-relationship-sarah-intelligator/90abeb90158dbf1e?ean=9781510776401&amp;next=t&amp;ref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.skyhorsepublishing.com%2F&amp;source=IndieBound&amp;title=Live%2C+Laugh%2C+Find+True+Love%3A+A+Step-by-Step+Guide+to+Dating+and+Finding+a+Meaningful+Relationship" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Order Her Book</a><b><br /><br /></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3596</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,divorce,feminism,feminist,marriage,misogyny,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What is a Woman? With Sara Caplan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-a-woman-with-sara-caplan--69281630</link><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.instagram.com/sararosecaplan/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sara Caplan</a> is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who are so rooted in their identity because of the gender roles they have committed to.<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Sara</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sararosecaplan/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@sararosecaplan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a><b><br /></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69281630</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 08:05:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69281630/what_is_a_woman_w_patreon_ad.mp3" length="69284302" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a/d3f820c1-94cc-4821-a81e-8c76f0851c9a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>https://www.instagram.com/sararosecaplan/?hl=en is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.instagram.com/sararosecaplan/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sara Caplan</a> is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who are so rooted in their identity because of the gender roles they have committed to.<br /><br /><b>How to Support TATMITB:</b><br /><b><br /></b>Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><b><br /></b>We are also still keeping our <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!<br /><b><br />Support Sara</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sararosecaplan/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@sararosecaplan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a><b><br /></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4331</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,lgbtq,misogyny,transphobia,transwomen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>2026 Is the Year of The Patreon Lore Dumps</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/2026-is-the-year-of-the-patreon-lore-dumps--69254410</link><description><![CDATA[Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!<br /><br />This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus content than ever before and to be a place I celebrate all the things I've learned about myself as not only a podcaster, but as a writer as well!<br /><br /><b>BIG SPOILER ALERT: </b>One of the last announcements for this episodes is that anyone who is a paid member of our Patreon community will be getting a handcrafted friendship bracelet from yours truly! You didn't think I had ran out of beads, did you?<br /><br />To join in on the fun and to read our first newsletter, come join us on <b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a> </b>and make sure to say hi in our free chat once you're done signing up!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69254410</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69254410/patreon_2026_revamp.mp3" length="7331048" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057/ba080949-d07b-48a5-be75-1f5c9119e057.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!

This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!<br /><br />This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus content than ever before and to be a place I celebrate all the things I've learned about myself as not only a podcaster, but as a writer as well!<br /><br /><b>BIG SPOILER ALERT: </b>One of the last announcements for this episodes is that anyone who is a paid member of our Patreon community will be getting a handcrafted friendship bracelet from yours truly! You didn't think I had ran out of beads, did you?<br /><br />To join in on the fun and to read our first newsletter, come join us on <b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a> </b>and make sure to say hi in our free chat once you're done signing up!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>459</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? The Hating Game</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-the-hating-game--68760098</link><description><![CDATA[Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68760098</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2025 08:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68760098/the_hating_game.mp3" length="69946801" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50/c08917d7-89c3-42f4-9d98-c4b4fdd5af50.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4372</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christmas,christmasmovie,movie,moviereview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Replay: The Real Housewives</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/replay-the-real-housewives--68759981</link><description><![CDATA[Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Chris:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68759981</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68759981/real_housewives.mp3" length="78449204" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5/ca4b78ee-984e-48eb-9caa-c133d37366d5.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chris Derosa (https://www.pod.link/1665730605) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Chris:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4904</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bravo,realhousewives,realitytv</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Love, Actually</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-love-actually--68759945</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68759945</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68759945/still_comfy_love_actually_2025.mp3" length="77941106" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44/7f993576-ac19-4e5a-b9ae-f7eb09c53c44.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4872</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christmas,christmasmovie,holiday,movie,moviereview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Replay: The Royal Family</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/replay-the-royal-family--68759897</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(The Daily Fail)</a> joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter</a> so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kristen:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Daily Fail</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.kristenmeinzer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">kristenmeinzer.com</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/kristenmeinzer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kristenmeinzer </a>I<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/k10meinzer/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@k10meinzer</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68759897</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68759897/the_royal_family_2025.mp3" length="38506496" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950/1dc19d52-47d9-443a-934e-db8462792950.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer https://pod.link/1686589901 joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(The Daily Fail)</a> joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter</a> so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kristen:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Daily Fail</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.kristenmeinzer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">kristenmeinzer.com</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/kristenmeinzer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kristenmeinzer </a>I<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/k10meinzer/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@k10meinzer</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3225</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,patriarchy,royalfamily,royals,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Holiday Break 2025 Announcement</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/holiday-break-2025-announcement--68759820</link><description><![CDATA[Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026!<br /><br /><b>Miss us already?</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68759820</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68759820/holiday_break_2025.mp3" length="4276602" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec/4e8f604d-e59e-48cc-9a44-4a83e8e596ec.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026!

Miss us already?

Follow us at https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en on Instagram!...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026!<br /><br /><b>Miss us already?</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>268</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Olsen Twins</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-olsen-twins--68434919</link><description><![CDATA[Margaret from the <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/smash-hit/id1799580546" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Smash Hit</a> podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat about how Mary-Kate and Ashley are icons when it comes to building an empire while also keeping up your boundaries and how they were able to maintain control of their content. They will also get into how girlhood in the 90s was presented through the Olsen Twin movies and TV shows and the joys that came from having movies advertised specifically for middle school aged girls. <br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Margaret</b><br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/smash-hit/id1799580546" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Smash Hit</a> <br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/smashhitpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68434919</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68434919/the_olsen_twins.mp3" length="75249833" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21/32dccde4-5cef-435d-8875-9d7476b71c21.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Margaret from the https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/smash-hit/id1799580546 podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Margaret from the <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/smash-hit/id1799580546" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Smash Hit</a> podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat about how Mary-Kate and Ashley are icons when it comes to building an empire while also keeping up your boundaries and how they were able to maintain control of their content. They will also get into how girlhood in the 90s was presented through the Olsen Twin movies and TV shows and the joys that came from having movies advertised specifically for middle school aged girls. <br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Margaret</b><br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/smash-hit/id1799580546" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Smash Hit</a> <br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/smashhitpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4704</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>90s,feminism,marykateandashley,misogyny,nostalgia,olsentwins,popculture,thenineties,women,womeninentertainment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Office Politics</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/office-politics--68351545</link><description><![CDATA[Amy Peters (<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-carnival-barkers-podcast/id1832098057" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Behind the Carnival Barkers</a>) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her experiences of misogyny while working in tv and audio editing. Natalie will also bring in some stories from her time teaching and in other office jobs she’s had throughout the years. <br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content!<br /><br />We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Amy</b><br /><a href="https://carnivalbarkers.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a><br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-carnival-barkers-podcast/id1832098057" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Behind the Carnival Barkers Podcast</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68351545</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 08:00:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68351545/office_politics.mp3" length="63453353" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619/78542d55-97bf-4321-b37c-0fdb05dfe619.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Amy Peters (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-carnival-barkers-podcast/id1832098057) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Amy Peters (<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-carnival-barkers-podcast/id1832098057" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Behind the Carnival Barkers</a>) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her experiences of misogyny while working in tv and audio editing. Natalie will also bring in some stories from her time teaching and in other office jobs she’s had throughout the years. <br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content!<br /><br />We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Amy</b><br /><a href="https://carnivalbarkers.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a><br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-carnival-barkers-podcast/id1832098057" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Behind the Carnival Barkers Podcast</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3966</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,officelife,officepolitics,patriarchy,women,womenatwork,womensstories,worklife</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Legislating Our Bodies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/legislating-our-bodies--68300483</link><description><![CDATA[Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state of women’s health care in general. She will also give some helpful tips on how to get involved in your communities and local politics.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Emma</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/emmageddon307/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.emmalaurent.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaf_acrn_HRY1scL6qWIm6qbj757LwMKecS18qp0L6QX7N8GJc3027Irh3J8JQ_aem_XtVwvdtn_Yma9lrwTqUhrA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68300483</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2025 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68300483/legislating_our_bodies.mp3" length="76497023" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821/1137eca3-acff-48ea-81e8-4d3853a65821.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state of women’s health care in general. She will also give some helpful tips on how to get involved in your communities and local politics.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Emma</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/emmageddon307/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.emmalaurent.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaf_acrn_HRY1scL6qWIm6qbj757LwMKecS18qp0L6QX7N8GJc3027Irh3J8JQ_aem_XtVwvdtn_Yma9lrwTqUhrA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4782</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,patriarchy,reproductivefreedom,reproductivehealth,women,womenshealth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? The Addams Family</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-the-addams-family--68281863</link><description><![CDATA[Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68281863</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68281863/addams_family.mp3" length="16363520" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed/3b7478f8-c5ff-4360-8c78-f57c110bdfed.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. Enjoy our review of Addams Family...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1090</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>addamsfamily,halloween,movie,moviereview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Parasocial Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/parasocial-relationships--67943184</link><description><![CDATA[Tara Jabbari (<a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a>) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during her graduate thesis. Parasocial relationships are a niche interest for Natalie because she loves being a fan girl for her favorite creators, musicians, and actresses but often feels personally attacked by all this talk on toxic parasocial relationships. Natalie and Tara will talk over the true definition of a parasocial relationships, the cons that come along with having a one-sided relationship with someone in the public eye, and how Natalie has actually turned those parasocial relationships to actual memories and connections with the people she admires. Of course there will be special mention of Natalie’s other niche interests: Taylor Swift, the cast and crew of Dropout Tv, and Kesha.<br /><br />Support the Show:<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Tara<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tara_jabbari/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://tarajabbari.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Media Maker Spotlight </a><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://safepassages.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67943184</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67943184/parasocial_relationships.mp3" length="80546630" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0/33e994c7-c21e-4e44-bc54-d688b51700b0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tara Jabbari (https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during her graduate thesis. Parasocial relationships are a niche interest for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tara Jabbari (<a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a>) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during her graduate thesis. Parasocial relationships are a niche interest for Natalie because she loves being a fan girl for her favorite creators, musicians, and actresses but often feels personally attacked by all this talk on toxic parasocial relationships. Natalie and Tara will talk over the true definition of a parasocial relationships, the cons that come along with having a one-sided relationship with someone in the public eye, and how Natalie has actually turned those parasocial relationships to actual memories and connections with the people she admires. Of course there will be special mention of Natalie’s other niche interests: Taylor Swift, the cast and crew of Dropout Tv, and Kesha.<br /><br />Support the Show:<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Tara<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tara_jabbari/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://tarajabbari.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.podpage.com/whowasshepodcast/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who Was She Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Media Maker Spotlight </a><a href="https://mediamakerspotlight.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://safepassages.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5035</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>fan,fangirl,feminism,feminist,friendship,misogyny,parasocial,patriarchy,realtionships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Female Friendships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/female-friendships--67880190</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Natalie is joined by Lindsay from the podcast <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6h48SjLXNni6qeCdkMdgHS?si=72832b8ecfd7433a&amp;nd=1&amp;dlsi=0762c7d5e0564379" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Literally Books</a> to discuss the importance of female friendships and how empowering they can be. A large focus of the episode will also be how misogyny affects female friendships and how we have been conditioned to undervalue our friendships once we enter romantic relationships.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Lindsay</b><br /><b><a href="https://linktr.ee/_literallybooks?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafLjZyqSoGeMkUqCWCag2N2PQntU6O0xI8TcuHT-7HtKeI39tpI1NVsR5-cMw_aem_b8CrN19jtKZGwx7lHLViiQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to Literally </a></b><b><a href="https://linktr.ee/_literallybooks?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafLjZyqSoGeMkUqCWCag2N2PQntU6O0xI8TcuHT-7HtKeI39tpI1NVsR5-cMw_aem_b8CrN19jtKZGwx7lHLViiQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Books</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_literallybooks/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast Instagram</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_literallylindsay/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsay’s Instagram</a><br /></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67880190</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67880190/female_friendships.mp3" length="63577069" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617/f2f525bf-bd77-4d06-a442-df810e735617.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Lindsay from the podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/6h48SjLXNni6qeCdkMdgHS?si=72832b8ecfd7433a&amp;amp;nd=1&amp;amp;dlsi=0762c7d5e0564379 to discuss the importance of female friendships and how empowering they can be. A large focus of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Natalie is joined by Lindsay from the podcast <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6h48SjLXNni6qeCdkMdgHS?si=72832b8ecfd7433a&amp;nd=1&amp;dlsi=0762c7d5e0564379" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Literally Books</a> to discuss the importance of female friendships and how empowering they can be. A large focus of the episode will also be how misogyny affects female friendships and how we have been conditioned to undervalue our friendships once we enter romantic relationships.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Lindsay</b><br /><b><a href="https://linktr.ee/_literallybooks?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafLjZyqSoGeMkUqCWCag2N2PQntU6O0xI8TcuHT-7HtKeI39tpI1NVsR5-cMw_aem_b8CrN19jtKZGwx7lHLViiQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to Literally </a></b><b><a href="https://linktr.ee/_literallybooks?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafLjZyqSoGeMkUqCWCag2N2PQntU6O0xI8TcuHT-7HtKeI39tpI1NVsR5-cMw_aem_b8CrN19jtKZGwx7lHLViiQ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Books</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_literallybooks/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast Instagram</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.instagram.com/_literallylindsay/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsay’s Instagram</a><br /></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3974</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>femalefriendship,feminism,feminist,friendship,misogny,patriarchy,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Men of Grey's Anatomy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-men-of-grey-s-anatomy--67853450</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by new friend Kristiana to do a bucket list topic! It is finally time to give the men of Grey’s Anatomy the Team Tolerator treatment! They will discuss how the likes of Derek Shepherd and Preston Burke projected a lot of expectations on Meredith and Christina without actually taking into account how both those women would feel about those expectations. There will be a special shout out to George O’Malley and Owen Hunt for treating women like they’re something due to them and not actually investing in who they are as people. And finally, we will discuss how the women of Grey’s Anatomy rose to the occasion to hold their own at Seattle Grace despite how the men of the hospital were treating them.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kristiana:</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67853450</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67853450/the_men_of_greys_anatomy.mp3" length="74078293" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b/da363b17-a155-4e94-9c5e-0b5393c8716b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by new friend Kristiana to do a bucket list topic! It is finally time to give the men of Grey’s Anatomy the Team Tolerator treatment! They will discuss how the likes of Derek Shepherd and Preston Burke projected a lot of expectations...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by new friend Kristiana to do a bucket list topic! It is finally time to give the men of Grey’s Anatomy the Team Tolerator treatment! They will discuss how the likes of Derek Shepherd and Preston Burke projected a lot of expectations on Meredith and Christina without actually taking into account how both those women would feel about those expectations. There will be a special shout out to George O’Malley and Owen Hunt for treating women like they’re something due to them and not actually investing in who they are as people. And finally, we will discuss how the women of Grey’s Anatomy rose to the occasion to hold their own at Seattle Grace despite how the men of the hospital were treating them.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kristiana:</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kristianawithak/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4630</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,greysanatomy,misogyny,patriarchy,tv,tvwelove,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>End of the Month Replay: Romantic Comedies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/end-of-the-month-replay-romantic-comedies--67636269</link><description><![CDATA[Our final episode of the month is always a replay of one of our favorite episodes! Enjoy this revisit to an earlier episode and we will see you next month with all new episodes!<br /><br /><br />Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guests:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67636269</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67636269/romatic_comedy_feed.mp3" length="78659126" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1/e996833f-f159-4a2b-8d66-f94bf1207fd1.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our final episode of the month is always a replay of one of our favorite episodes! Enjoy this revisit to an earlier episode and we will see you next month with all new episodes!


Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney fromhttps://pod.link/1585974420...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our final episode of the month is always a replay of one of our favorite episodes! Enjoy this revisit to an earlier episode and we will see you next month with all new episodes!<br /><br /><br />Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guests:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4917</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,moviereview,movies,patriarchy,podcast,romanticcomedies,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Building Your Childfree Community</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-your-childfree-community--67621284</link><description><![CDATA[This week's guest, Angela Gentile, is a speaker, writer, educator, and host of the podcast The <a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Empowered Millennials</a> where you will hear real stories of badasses that will motivate, inspire, and encourage you to take control of your life. She also is on TikTok creating spaces and communities for single and childfree people. Natalie and Angela will discuss the importance of building communities where childfree women are working together, the challenges women who are single face in a world built for married couples, and how each of them became empowered enough to make the right choices for themselves despite societal pressures.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Angela</b><br /><a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/theangelagentile" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theangelagentile" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67621284</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67621284/building_your_childfree_community.mp3" length="71105768" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35/c63f0899-5848-469c-96d2-e7f4c6838d35.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week's guest, Angela Gentile, is a speaker, writer, educator, and host of the podcast The https://www.theangelagentile.com/podcast where you will hear real stories of badasses that will motivate, inspire, and encourage you to take control of your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week's guest, Angela Gentile, is a speaker, writer, educator, and host of the podcast The <a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Empowered Millennials</a> where you will hear real stories of badasses that will motivate, inspire, and encourage you to take control of your life. She also is on TikTok creating spaces and communities for single and childfree people. Natalie and Angela will discuss the importance of building communities where childfree women are working together, the challenges women who are single face in a world built for married couples, and how each of them became empowered enough to make the right choices for themselves despite societal pressures.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Angela</b><br /><a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.theangelagentile.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/theangelagentile" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theangelagentile" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4445</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childfree,feminism,feminist,misogyny,patriarchy,singlewomen,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Expectations of Third-Culture Daughters</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/expectations-of-third-culture-daughters--67544435</link><description><![CDATA[Urmi Hossain is the author of Discovering Your Identity: A Rebirth From Interracial Struggle. She is also a blogger, speaker, women’s mentor, and feminist advocate who has done a lot of reflecting on how being a Bengali-Italian woman living in Montreal has shaped her experiences. Natalie and Urmi will discuss the cultural expectations on daughters in their respective backgrounds as well as the pressures third-culture children are under to juggle the culture they’re living in and the culture their parents were raised in.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other proje<b>cts.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Urmi</b><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.ca/Discovering-Your-Identity-Interracial-Struggle/dp/B0B6XJ6Y3Q" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase her book</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/urmamio" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/urmamio" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@urmihossain" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67544435</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67544435/expectations_of_third_culture_daughters.mp3" length="53671018" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536/240ecb00-f90b-480b-a010-5cca19b6d536.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Urmi Hossain is the author of Discovering Your Identity: A Rebirth From Interracial Struggle. She is also a blogger, speaker, women’s mentor, and feminist advocate who has done a lot of reflecting on how being a Bengali-Italian woman living in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Urmi Hossain is the author of Discovering Your Identity: A Rebirth From Interracial Struggle. She is also a blogger, speaker, women’s mentor, and feminist advocate who has done a lot of reflecting on how being a Bengali-Italian woman living in Montreal has shaped her experiences. Natalie and Urmi will discuss the cultural expectations on daughters in their respective backgrounds as well as the pressures third-culture children are under to juggle the culture they’re living in and the culture their parents were raised in.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other proje<b>cts.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Urmi</b><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.ca/Discovering-Your-Identity-Interracial-Struggle/dp/B0B6XJ6Y3Q" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase her book</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/urmamio" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/urmamio" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@urmihossain" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3355</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>daughters,diversity,feminism,feminist,immigrants,lifestyle,misogyny,thirdculture,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Prepping for Marriage Two</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/prepping-for-marriage-two--67532518</link><description><![CDATA[Samantha Bessudo Drucker is cohost of "Love &amp; Design Project" and "Sexy is Timeless Talks." She is also the author of 90 Days To Husband No. 2, a dating system based on a proven technique. Her and Natalie will discuss all the ways you can use the time after a divorce to better get to know yourself and make sure you are getting exactly what you want from life and any future partners. They will also talk about how Patriarchal norms affect marriage, dating after a certain age, expectations placed on women during a divorce, and more!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Samantha:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a></b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase 90 Days to Husband No. 2</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/samanthabessudodrucker/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthabessudodrucker" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLwJxqKnOMg41Ho1563ZJeg" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67532518</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67532518/prepping_for_marriage_two.mp3" length="62978133" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490/2873b0dc-03fc-49a8-bb9a-5aca71775490.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Samantha Bessudo Drucker is cohost of "Love &amp;amp; Design Project" and "Sexy is Timeless Talks." She is also the author of 90 Days To Husband No. 2, a dating system based on a proven technique. Her and Natalie will discuss all the ways you can use the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Samantha Bessudo Drucker is cohost of "Love &amp; Design Project" and "Sexy is Timeless Talks." She is also the author of 90 Days To Husband No. 2, a dating system based on a proven technique. Her and Natalie will discuss all the ways you can use the time after a divorce to better get to know yourself and make sure you are getting exactly what you want from life and any future partners. They will also talk about how Patriarchal norms affect marriage, dating after a certain age, expectations placed on women during a divorce, and more!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Samantha:</b><br /><b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a></b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase 90 Days to Husband No. 2</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJRSTZZ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_44BTNR80GVSBQPE46J3W&amp;language=en-US" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/samanthabessudodrucker/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthabessudodrucker" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLwJxqKnOMg41Ho1563ZJeg" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3937</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,divorce,feminism,feminist,marriage,misogyny,patriarchy,relationships,romance,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Fair Play and Weaponized Incompetence Replay</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-fair-play-and-weaponized-incompetence-replay--67260563</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show , can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Laura:<br /><br />Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67260563</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2025 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67260563/summer_2025_weaponized_incompetence.mp3" length="67657604" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857/bb56b235-c51e-4ed5-8418-9610de140857.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show , can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Laura:<br /><br />Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4229</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>fairplay,feminism,feminist,malelonelinessepidemic,replay,weaponizedincompetence,women,womenpodcasters,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Still Comfy? Mamma Mia</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-still-comfy-mamma-mia--67260474</link><description><![CDATA[Enjoy our Still Comfy? Review of Mamma Mia starring Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep. You can watch our entire Still Comfy? movie review series on our YouTube Channel.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b></b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67260474</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67260474/summer_2025_mamma_mia.mp3" length="86299420" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca/f8825478-a692-4be0-bbb5-eff7f50917ca.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Enjoy our Still Comfy? Review of Mamma Mia starring Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep. You can watch our entire Still Comfy? movie review series on our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Enjoy our Still Comfy? Review of Mamma Mia starring Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep. You can watch our entire Still Comfy? movie review series on our YouTube Channel.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b></b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5394</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comfortmovie,feminism,feminist,mammamia,merylstreep,millenial,movie,moviereview,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Its Britney Spears, Babe! Replay</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-its-britney-spears-babe-replay--67260340</link><description><![CDATA[We are revisiting our Britney Spears episode we recorded to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well!<br /><br />Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Check out Fixing Famous People's episode on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/517181aa9cce014bc411b5e54a82830d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Justin Timberlake</a>! Thank you Chris and Dominick for exploring why Justin Timberlake needs a PR makeover.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67260340</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 07:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67260340/summer_2025_britney_spears_replay.mp3" length="62210342" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b/2efc4f5e-5365-4e5f-9a5d-8865fdc5099b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are revisiting our Britney Spears episode we recorded to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are revisiting our Britney Spears episode we recorded to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well!<br /><br />Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Check out Fixing Famous People's episode on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/517181aa9cce014bc411b5e54a82830d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Justin Timberlake</a>! Thank you Chris and Dominick for exploring why Justin Timberlake needs a PR makeover.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3889</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>britneyspears,celebrity,celebritymemoir,feminism,feminist,memoir,music,women,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Still Comfy?  Now and Then</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-still-comfy-now-and-then--67260271</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube Channel</a><br /><br />While we’re on break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes.<br />Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67260271</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67260271/summer_2025_now_and_then.mp3" length="95328174" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978/86120e6e-d8a0-42e1-9d27-3c39d6049978.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube Channel</a><br /><br />While we’re on break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes.<br />Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5958</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comfortmovie,millenial,movie,moviereview,nowandthen,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: The Woman in Me Patreon Drop</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-the-woman-in-me-patreon-drop--66820502</link><description><![CDATA[A released episode from our Patreon where Julia Washington and I reviewed Britney's Spears's memoir, <i>The Woman in Me</i>.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66820502</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66820502/patreon_the_woman_in_me.mp3" length="65727887" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0/a923e75c-53b4-4d97-b9d4-3160928f77f0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A released episode from our Patreon where Julia Washington and I reviewed Britney's Spears's memoir, The Woman in Me.

Support the Show:

Follow us at https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A released episode from our Patreon where Julia Washington and I reviewed Britney's Spears's memoir, <i>The Woman in Me</i>.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4108</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>book,bookreview,britneyspears,celebrity,celebritymemoir,memoir,popstar</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Still Comfy? The Sandlot</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-still-comfy-the-sandlot--66820493</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1993 movie The Sandlot, starring Tom Guiry, Denis Leary, James Earl Jones, and Karen Allen. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much baseball can Natalie even talk about?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66820493</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66820493/summer_2025_sandlot.mp3" length="79365192" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b/47228f85-6cc1-4297-abae-ec5479dc7b9b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1993 movie The Sandlot, starring Tom Guiry, Denis Leary, James Earl Jones, and Karen Allen. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much baseball can Natalie even talk about?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4961</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>baseball,comfortmovie,movie,moviereview,sandlot,sportsmovie</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Sex and Love Addiction</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-sex-and-love-addiction--66820411</link><description><![CDATA[<b>For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex Addict. Her and Natalie discuss how triggers present themselves in our normal society and how that affects you when you are recovering from codependency, love, or sex addiction. They speak honestly about how they feel they were put on this path to crave love and affection from people who were not capable of giving it and what steps they have taken to heal themselves. A last theme of the episodes is how secrets play a role in how we view our lives and our stories and what secrets hold us back from.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Brianne:</b><br /><b>Amazon: <a href="https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL%5C" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL\</a> </b><br /><b>Website: <a href="https://secretlifenovel.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://secretlifenovel.com</a> </b><br /><b>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499</a> I</b><b>nstagram:@thebriannedavis @secretlifenovel @secretlifepodcast Tiktok: @the.briannedavis</b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66820411</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66820411/summer_sex_and_love.mp3" length="39047168" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426/8004aa90-3eca-42f9-bf12-69df6d73c426.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex Addict. Her and Natalie discuss...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex Addict. Her and Natalie discuss how triggers present themselves in our normal society and how that affects you when you are recovering from codependency, love, or sex addiction. They speak honestly about how they feel they were put on this path to crave love and affection from people who were not capable of giving it and what steps they have taken to heal themselves. A last theme of the episodes is how secrets play a role in how we view our lives and our stories and what secrets hold us back from.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Brianne:</b><br /><b>Amazon: <a href="https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL%5C" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL\</a> </b><br /><b>Website: <a href="https://secretlifenovel.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://secretlifenovel.com</a> </b><br /><b>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499</a> I</b><b>nstagram:@thebriannedavis @secretlifenovel @secretlifepodcast Tiktok: @the.briannedavis</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3025</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>addiction,dating,feminism,feminist,love,mentalhealth,relationships,sex,sexuality,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Still Comfy? A League of Their Own</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-still-comfy-a-league-of-their-own--66820366</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66820366</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66820366/summer_2025_league.mp3" length="96888868" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190/20f43f88-05d0-4521-8a98-a06114101190.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6056</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>aleagueoftheirown,feminism,feminist,movie,moviereview,sportsmovie,tomhanks,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: 100 First Online Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-100-first-online-dates--66820325</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their looks, or their expectations for their dates. They touch on how their strategies for online dating have changed through their experiences and how at the end of it all, they’re always going to choose to be themselves and make sure they are getting what they want too. Join in for the laughs, the trials, and the lessons of all those dating apps and swiping the two women have done over the years! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Maria on Instagram and Tiktok @mariapendo. Her website is voicebymaria.com.</b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66820325</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66820325/online_first_dates_summer.mp3" length="69773314" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090/b671f76b-0e05-4e69-94e5-adabc9aee090.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their looks, or their expectations for their dates. They touch on how their strategies for online dating have changed through their experiences and how at the end of it all, they’re always going to choose to be themselves and make sure they are getting what they want too. Join in for the laughs, the trials, and the lessons of all those dating apps and swiping the two women have done over the years! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Maria on Instagram and Tiktok @mariapendo. Her website is voicebymaria.com.</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4361</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,feminism,feminist,onlinedating,relationships,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Still Comfy? Armageddon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-still-comfy-armageddon--66367720</link><description><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66367720</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 07:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66367720/summer_break_still_comfy_armageddon.mp3" length="63349314" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053/1aadcb79-114e-4eb4-b250-2514f2bf8053.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3960</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>armageddon,brucewilllis,disasterfilms,movie,moviereview,scifi,spacefilms</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Purity Culture and Sex Ed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-purity-culture-and-sex-ed--66367568</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Erica:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.ericasmitheac.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.ericasmitheac.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.sex.ed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ericasmith.sex.ed</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66367568</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66367568/summer_break_purity_culutre_sex_ed.mp3" length="61930343" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736/be57b9fc-1221-496f-bca1-a93d89f30736.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Erica:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.ericasmitheac.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.ericasmitheac.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.sex.ed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ericasmith.sex.ed</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3871</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>education,feminism,feminist,purityculture,sexed,sexeducation,sexuality,women,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: The Parent Trap</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-the-parent-trap--66367256</link><description><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66367256</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66367256/summer_2025_parent_trap.mp3" length="62413086" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42/1b709cec-168f-4262-8e00-528844643f42.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3901</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comfortmovie,lindsaylohan,movie,moviereview,parenttrap,theparenttrap</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Taylor Swift</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-taylor-swift--66367120</link><description><![CDATA[This Summer Break Replay is in honor of Taylor Swift owning her entire music catalogue.<br /><br /><br />f you haven’t heard, Natalie went to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66367120</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2025 07:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66367120/summer_replay_taylor_swift.mp3" length="87468452" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3/9e1cef12-0aa2-4140-ac70-0d189a92c9d3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This Summer Break Replay is in honor of Taylor Swift owning her entire music catalogue.


f you haven’t heard, Natalie went to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This Summer Break Replay is in honor of Taylor Swift owning her entire music catalogue.<br /><br /><br />f you haven’t heard, Natalie went to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5467</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,music,reputation,swiftie,taylorsversion,taylorswift,women,womeninmusic,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Diversity in the Boardgame Industry</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-diversity-in-the-boardgame-industry--66070907</link><description><![CDATA[We have a Summer Break Flashback this week! This felt important given all the information I've been seeing on how tariffs will affect indie boardgame publishers.<br /><br />Kervin of <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games </a>joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kervin<br />Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.forwhygames.com/</a><br />Follow Kervin on Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames.flan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@forwhygames.flan</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66070907</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66070907/diversity_in_the_boardgame_industry.mp3" length="59100308" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58/b62eb3e5-b66e-40f1-bab8-a460e4373f58.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We have a Summer Break Flashback this week! This felt important given all the information I've been seeing on how tariffs will affect indie boardgame publishers.

Kervin of https://www.forwhygames.com/joins Natalie to talk about his experiences...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have a Summer Break Flashback this week! This felt important given all the information I've been seeing on how tariffs will affect indie boardgame publishers.<br /><br />Kervin of <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games </a>joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kervin<br />Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.forwhygames.com/</a><br />Follow Kervin on Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames.flan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@forwhygames.flan</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3694</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>boardgames,dei,diversity,feminism,feminist,gamer,games,gaming,indiepublishing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Summer Break: Women in Historical Film</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/summer-break-women-in-historical-film--66070819</link><description><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator! We are officially on our summer break for 2025 and will be returning with new episodes in the fall. This week, we are giving you a sneak peek of our Misogyny Meltdown series! In this excerpt, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Alrinthea Carter</a> joined us to talk about the women in historical film that just deserved better. You can see the video for this interview, as well as the rest of the fun we had, on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66070819</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66070819/women_in_historical_film.mp3" length="67496690" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd/d55e3acd-5742-4eee-ba63-b3ab89be99bd.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey Team Tolerator! We are officially on our summer break for 2025 and will be returning with new episodes in the fall. This week, we are giving you a sneak peek of our Misogyny Meltdown series! In this excerpt,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator! We are officially on our summer break for 2025 and will be returning with new episodes in the fall. This week, we are giving you a sneak peek of our Misogyny Meltdown series! In this excerpt, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Alrinthea Carter</a> joined us to talk about the women in historical film that just deserved better. You can see the video for this interview, as well as the rest of the fun we had, on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4219</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonuscontent,feminism,feminist,historicalfilm,misogyny,moviereview,movies,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womenshistory,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Southern Charm</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/southern-charm--65784702</link><description><![CDATA[This year marked ten years of Bravo’s Southern Charm, where we get a glimpse at the lives of southern gentlemen and their ever present Peter Pan Syndrome. Annie Sieg returns as our reality tv historian to break down all the ways the men of Southern Charm reflect the misogyny we experience in our culture. The episode will cover Katherine Dennis, southern culture, Shep finally getting told he gives someone the ick, Craig and Paige’s breakup, and all the discourse Bravo fans are having in the comments.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Annie</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok </a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65784702</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65784702/southern_charm.mp3" length="75041689" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44/69b2a6eb-0046-4aa8-a23a-6458d24c7b44.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This year marked ten years of Bravo’s Southern Charm, where we get a glimpse at the lives of southern gentlemen and their ever present Peter Pan Syndrome. Annie Sieg returns as our reality tv historian to break down all the ways the men of Southern...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This year marked ten years of Bravo’s Southern Charm, where we get a glimpse at the lives of southern gentlemen and their ever present Peter Pan Syndrome. Annie Sieg returns as our reality tv historian to break down all the ways the men of Southern Charm reflect the misogyny we experience in our culture. The episode will cover Katherine Dennis, southern culture, Shep finally getting told he gives someone the ick, Craig and Paige’s breakup, and all the discourse Bravo fans are having in the comments.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Annie</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok </a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4691</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>andycohen,bravo,bravotv,breakups,craigconover,feminism,feminist,misogyny,paigedesorbo,realitytv,southerncharm,tv,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Anora</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/anora--65666854</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) and Natalie are dissecting their complicated feelings on Best Picture winner, Anora. Anora is written and directed by Sean Baker and tells the story of an exotic dancer named Ani who after a whirlwind couple of days finds herself married and then divorced by a Russian wealthy man named Vanya. This episode will cover what fell flat for both women when it came to Ani’s character development, the worldbuilding, and whether or not Anora really deserved all the praise it was getting for being a movie about an empowered woman and a statement against how wealthy people in an Oligarch treat the working class. And we will return to our prevalent question of who is actually qualified to write stories about the feminine experience.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65666854</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65666854/anora.mp3" length="65457885" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d/afc6a618-5638-4d37-a58f-857060778a3d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington (https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/) and Natalie are dissecting their complicated feelings on Best Picture winner, Anora. Anora is written and directed by Sean Baker and tells the story of an exotic dancer named Ani who after...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) and Natalie are dissecting their complicated feelings on Best Picture winner, Anora. Anora is written and directed by Sean Baker and tells the story of an exotic dancer named Ani who after a whirlwind couple of days finds herself married and then divorced by a Russian wealthy man named Vanya. This episode will cover what fell flat for both women when it came to Ani’s character development, the worldbuilding, and whether or not Anora really deserved all the praise it was getting for being a movie about an empowered woman and a statement against how wealthy people in an Oligarch treat the working class. And we will return to our prevalent question of who is actually qualified to write stories about the feminine experience.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4092</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anora,bestpicture,director,feminism,feminist,filmstudy,movie,moviereview,oscars,popculture,seanbaker,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Classical Music</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/classical-music--65654129</link><description><![CDATA[Toni Powell is a music composer who just released her classical music composition, The Mourning After. She and Natalie will discuss misogyny’s effect on the art of music as well as the classical music genre. Discussion points will include the way people talk about creative pursuits, capitalism’s effect on art, how colonization and white supremacy affected art and culture, and what it is like for Toni to navigate the music business and the idea of genre as a woman of color.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Toni</b><br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd?si=v_j9v2I1RraGJV-xLuNnow&amp;context=spotify%3Atrack%3A2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd&amp;nd=1&amp;utm_medium=organic&amp;_branch_referrer=H4sIAAAAAAAAA82OzQrCMBCEnya92dJUBYUiQlEU8SBV8FRimsbYmA3bxJ%2BLz24UvfkAwsIuszMfc3TOduMk6Sw41dxjZm2slWmTiUWoPXc5WGEiQvuN17ryqPPjK0KyKaGzMK93%2FE1zOAfJIeNt2LSUO5laVm%2BHJ7nuD3C%2B3xQ1yWadIllxqU6jC12kG2Tz5a53W%2Fm1gSuhQw7GiZsLlg%2BW0EE2%2FUDD9Rv7rsi0PgTbH9cMQRPYRRo1gjmPIgeUzCgePVA0AlEZWR0Qrp3AvFRtCe0T0V0V1KMBAAA%3D&amp;product=open&amp;%24full_url=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Ftrack%2F2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd%3Fsi%3Dv_j9v2I1RraGJV-xLuNnow%26context%3Dspotify%253Atrack%253A2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd&amp;feature=organic&amp;_branch_match_id=1434640457941685873" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamladyleidel?_t=ZP-8viszR3FGHe&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a><br />Instagram- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamladyleidel?igsh=aDNxamc2Y2VrbDhy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@iamladyleidel</a><br />Tiktok- <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamladyleidel?_t=ZP-8viszR3FGHe&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@iamladyleidel</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65654129</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2025 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65654129/classical_music.mp3" length="60912579" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d/24640440-b670-4c84-bce4-f5154c619d8d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Toni Powell is a music composer who just released her classical music composition, The Mourning After. She and Natalie will discuss misogyny’s effect on the art of music as well as the classical music genre. Discussion points will include the way...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Toni Powell is a music composer who just released her classical music composition, The Mourning After. She and Natalie will discuss misogyny’s effect on the art of music as well as the classical music genre. Discussion points will include the way people talk about creative pursuits, capitalism’s effect on art, how colonization and white supremacy affected art and culture, and what it is like for Toni to navigate the music business and the idea of genre as a woman of color.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Toni</b><br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd?si=v_j9v2I1RraGJV-xLuNnow&amp;context=spotify%3Atrack%3A2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd&amp;nd=1&amp;utm_medium=organic&amp;_branch_referrer=H4sIAAAAAAAAA82OzQrCMBCEnya92dJUBYUiQlEU8SBV8FRimsbYmA3bxJ%2BLz24UvfkAwsIuszMfc3TOduMk6Sw41dxjZm2slWmTiUWoPXc5WGEiQvuN17ryqPPjK0KyKaGzMK93%2FE1zOAfJIeNt2LSUO5laVm%2BHJ7nuD3C%2B3xQ1yWadIllxqU6jC12kG2Tz5a53W%2Fm1gSuhQw7GiZsLlg%2BW0EE2%2FUDD9Rv7rsi0PgTbH9cMQRPYRRo1gjmPIgeUzCgePVA0AlEZWR0Qrp3AvFRtCe0T0V0V1KMBAAA%3D&amp;product=open&amp;%24full_url=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Ftrack%2F2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd%3Fsi%3Dv_j9v2I1RraGJV-xLuNnow%26context%3Dspotify%253Atrack%253A2TgVg1padU6jgN45rGYRDd&amp;feature=organic&amp;_branch_match_id=1434640457941685873" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamladyleidel?_t=ZP-8viszR3FGHe&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a><br />Instagram- <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamladyleidel?igsh=aDNxamc2Y2VrbDhy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@iamladyleidel</a><br />Tiktok- <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamladyleidel?_t=ZP-8viszR3FGHe&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@iamladyleidel</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3807</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blackartists,blackmusicians,classicalmusic,composers,feminism,feminist,misogyny,music,musiccomposition,musicians,women,womeninmedia,womeninmusic,womenofcolor,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Flashback: The Barbie Movie</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/flashback-the-barbie-movie--65612212</link><description><![CDATA[Hi Barbie!This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!<br /><br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65612212</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65612212/barbie_flashback.mp3" length="70481337" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942/8d44dc54-d6f4-4f98-a98a-2c5d03f42942.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hi Barbie!This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hi Barbie!This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!<br /><br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4406</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>barbie,barbiemovie,chickflick,feminism,feminist,movie,moviereview,romcom,women,womendirectors,womeninmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Queerness in a Religiously Devout Household</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/queerness-in-a-religiously-devout-household--65259168</link><description><![CDATA[Hassan Khan joins Natalie on the show to talk about growing up as a queer person in a Muslim household. Natalie and Hassan will share experiences of growing up in a time where homophobia was more insidious in schools and homes, even when it was subtle. They will speak on how their families shaped their experiences and viewpoints on things like queer culture and how they still found ways to learn about the queer community. Other topics will include emeigrating to the United States, how religion plays a role in how you identify yourself, how religion and family structure play a role in how you view yourself as an artist, and more.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b></b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><b></b><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Hassan</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/hssn.kn/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65259168</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65259168/queerness_in_a_devout_household.mp3" length="78209402" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184/ee0b9701-cc20-4ee6-b57b-ba6d2499c184.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hassan Khan joins Natalie on the show to talk about growing up as a queer person in a Muslim household. Natalie and Hassan will share experiences of growing up in a time where homophobia was more insidious in schools and homes, even when it was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hassan Khan joins Natalie on the show to talk about growing up as a queer person in a Muslim household. Natalie and Hassan will share experiences of growing up in a time where homophobia was more insidious in schools and homes, even when it was subtle. They will speak on how their families shaped their experiences and viewpoints on things like queer culture and how they still found ways to learn about the queer community. Other topics will include emeigrating to the United States, how religion plays a role in how you identify yourself, how religion and family structure play a role in how you view yourself as an artist, and more.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b></b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><b></b><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Hassan</b><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/hssn.kn/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4889</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>catholic,christian,family,familydynamic,familyrelationships,feminism,feminist,islam,lgbtq,misogyny,muslim,queer,queerness,religion,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Writing Sapphic Horror</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/writing-sapphic-horror--65108186</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Author <a href="https://www.raewilde.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rae Wilde</a> joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b>Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b> All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Rae</b><br /><b>Website: https://www.raewilde.com/</b><br /><b>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_rae_wilde/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@_rae_wilde</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://tr.ee/IZi0HjBzr1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok Shop</a></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65108186</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65108186/sapphic_horror.mp3" length="69125477" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a/5e4e7fe8-176e-464f-b173-2e9830827c7a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Author https://www.raewilde.com/ joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Author <a href="https://www.raewilde.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rae Wilde</a> joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><b>Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b> All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Rae</b><br /><b>Website: https://www.raewilde.com/</b><br /><b>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/_rae_wilde/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@_rae_wilde</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://tr.ee/IZi0HjBzr1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok Shop</a></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4321</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>author,authorinterview,books,feminism,feminist,fiction,horror,horrorfiction,horrorstories,interview,lgbtq,lifestyle,queerwomen,sapphic,sapphichorror,shortstories,women,womenauthors,womeninmedia,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Eldest Daughter Capricorns</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/eldest-daughter-capricorns--65085257</link><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Alrinthea Carter </a>and Natalie have two huge things in common, they are both eldest daughters in their families and capricorns. Eldest daughters are known for having a high sense of responsibility and a need to please those around them. Capricorns are the astrological signs that are most known for being loyal, ambitious, and hardworking. Natalie and Alrinthea will go through key moments in their lives where being either an eldest daughter or Capricorn shaped their experiences, identities within their families, and their viewpoints on who they are as people.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Alrinthea</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@alrinthea </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65085257</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65085257/eldest_daughter_capricorns.mp3" length="81897474" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340/5e2dbc69-6374-47b1-9415-3cb647583340.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>https://www.alrintheacarter.com/and Natalie have two huge things in common, they are both eldest daughters in their families and capricorns. Eldest daughters are known for having a high sense of responsibility and a need to please those around them....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Alrinthea Carter </a>and Natalie have two huge things in common, they are both eldest daughters in their families and capricorns. Eldest daughters are known for having a high sense of responsibility and a need to please those around them. Capricorns are the astrological signs that are most known for being loyal, ambitious, and hardworking. Natalie and Alrinthea will go through key moments in their lives where being either an eldest daughter or Capricorn shaped their experiences, identities within their families, and their viewpoints on who they are as people.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><b></b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<b><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Alrinthea</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@alrinthea </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5119</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>astrology,birthorder,capricorn,eldestdaughter,eldestdaughtersyndrome,family,familydynamic,feminism,feminist,lifestyle,personalitytypes,stories,women,womensissues,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Flashback: Learning Your Truth and Trusting Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/flashback-learning-your-truth-and-trusting-yourself--65014300</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by <a href="https://shohrehdavoodi.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shohreh Davoodi,</a> author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conjuring-up-courage/id1474849827" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Conjuring Up Courage</a>. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their guts or trust what their bodies were thinking, their hearts were feeling, or their brains were thinking. Shohreh will go through her experience with discovering her sexuality and identifying as a lesbian. This hits home with Natalie as she grapples with what dating and her own romantic life may look like in the future as she re-examines who it is she is actually attracted to and interested in, The women will dive deep on how it is okay to experiment, what it means to take chances even if they may be wrong, and how we deserve a society that gives us a safe place to try new things if that’s what we need to do.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65014300</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2025 13:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65014300/trusting_yourself_flashback.mp3" length="62412635" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f/3055b050-2acd-4095-bb0f-f6c0f7ae107f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by https://shohrehdavoodi.com/ author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conjuring-up-courage/id1474849827. The women have a heartfelt conversation...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by <a href="https://shohrehdavoodi.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shohreh Davoodi,</a> author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conjuring-up-courage/id1474849827" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Conjuring Up Courage</a>. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their guts or trust what their bodies were thinking, their hearts were feeling, or their brains were thinking. Shohreh will go through her experience with discovering her sexuality and identifying as a lesbian. This hits home with Natalie as she grapples with what dating and her own romantic life may look like in the future as she re-examines who it is she is actually attracted to and interested in, The women will dive deep on how it is okay to experiment, what it means to take chances even if they may be wrong, and how we deserve a society that gives us a safe place to try new things if that’s what we need to do.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3901</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bisexuality,dating,feminism,feminist,lesbian,lgbtq,mentalhealth,mindset,misogyny,patriarchy,queer,queerwomen,selfconfidence,sexuality,therapy,wellness,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Playboy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/playboy--64677870</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Shanaz from our Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders episode is back to talk about the world of Playboy. Natalie and Shanaz will continue their discussion about industries that are built on the beauty and work of women and how the toll on the women employed by these organizations is not reflected in their pay or treatment. There will be some light history on Playboy, a walk down memory lane with The Girls Next Door, and some horror stories about how Playboy opened up its models to things like male obsession and violence.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br />From the Episode:</b><br /><b><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girls-next-level/id1637803173" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Girls Next Level Podcast</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holly-madisons-memoir-down-the-rabbit-hole-with-wes-perry/id1533722524?i=1000664339604" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Preview of Glamorous Trash episode on Holly’s memoir</a></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64677870</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64677870/playboy.mp3" length="88484511" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573/a95e366b-3d77-44c5-9f1d-0f5cbfd9e573.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Shanaz from our Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders episode is back to talk about the world of Playboy. Natalie and Shanaz will continue their discussion about industries that are built on the beauty and work of women and how the toll on the women employed by...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Shanaz from our Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders episode is back to talk about the world of Playboy. Natalie and Shanaz will continue their discussion about industries that are built on the beauty and work of women and how the toll on the women employed by these organizations is not reflected in their pay or treatment. There will be some light history on Playboy, a walk down memory lane with The Girls Next Door, and some horror stories about how Playboy opened up its models to things like male obsession and violence.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br />From the Episode:</b><br /><b><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girls-next-level/id1637803173" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Girls Next Level Podcast</a></b><br /><b><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holly-madisons-memoir-down-the-rabbit-hole-with-wes-perry/id1533722524?i=1000664339604" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Preview of Glamorous Trash episode on Holly’s memoir</a></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5531</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,girlsnextdoor,hollymaddison,hughhefner,misogyny,modeling,patriarchy,playboy,playboybunnies,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womenslives</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Owning a Small Business</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/owning-a-small-business--64590144</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back on the pod to talk about her small business, <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>. This episode gives insight on what urged Natalie and Julia into looking for alternatives outside of their normal job markets and their feelings about the current professional landscape. Julia will also give us an inside look at the systems put into place that do not help small business owners and how being a single woman really impacts her experience starting and running a business.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><b></b><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64590144</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64590144/owning_a_small_business.mp3" length="69654613" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054/f32e7cfb-e547-48df-94b7-b93b77af2054.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington is back on the pod to talk about her small business, https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/. This episode gives insight on what urged Natalie and Julia into looking for alternatives outside of their normal job markets and their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back on the pod to talk about her small business, <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>. This episode gives insight on what urged Natalie and Julia into looking for alternatives outside of their normal job markets and their feelings about the current professional landscape. Julia will also give us an inside look at the systems put into place that do not help small business owners and how being a single woman really impacts her experience starting and running a business.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! <br /><b></b><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4354</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>businessowner,feminism,feminist,lifestories,misogyny,patriarchy,shopsmall,smallbusiness,womenbusinessowners,womeninbusiness,womenpodcasters,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>It Ends with Us</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-ends-with-us--64567492</link><description><![CDATA[Chris DeRosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is on the podcast answering for himself because he made Natalie upgrade her Netflix account to watch It Ends with Us. It Ends with Us is the 2024 movie starring Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni (or is it Bologna?) that depicts an abusive relationship between a woman named Lily Blossom Bloom and her neurosurgeon husband Ryle. Natalie and Chris will dive into where the film’s themes fell short for them, the term after school special may be used as a comparison to what the film actually accomplished. And they will also touch on the ongoing legal drama between Blake Lively and Justin Balogna.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Chris:</b><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64567492</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64567492/it_ends_w_us.mp3" length="69521284" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0/72a002bd-1799-4796-89e0-2b3e94dec7c0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chris DeRosa (https://www.pod.link/1665730605) is on the podcast answering for himself because he made Natalie upgrade her Netflix account to watch It Ends with Us. It Ends with Us is the 2024 movie starring Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni (or is it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chris DeRosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is on the podcast answering for himself because he made Natalie upgrade her Netflix account to watch It Ends with Us. It Ends with Us is the 2024 movie starring Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni (or is it Bologna?) that depicts an abusive relationship between a woman named Lily Blossom Bloom and her neurosurgeon husband Ryle. Natalie and Chris will dive into where the film’s themes fell short for them, the term after school special may be used as a comparison to what the film actually accomplished. And they will also touch on the ongoing legal drama between Blake Lively and Justin Balogna.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Chris:</b><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4346</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blakelively,domesticabuse,feminism,feminist,itendswithus,justinbaldoni,legalbattle,misogyny,movie,moviereview,partnerabuse,patriarchy,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Flashback Marginalized Joy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/flashback-marginalized-joy--64435469</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other topics include how racism, classism, and fatphobia also contribute to marginalized joy. The main gist of the episode is there is a lot of gatekeeping happening when it comes to who gets to enjoy their life.<br /><br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><b></b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a>Shop<br />Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64435469</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64435469/flashback_marginalized_joy.mp3" length="64472788" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227/f2bbb5f5-9f23-45ff-9cb2-6c6628ab4227.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington (https://www.pod.link/1561285346) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other topics include how racism, classism, and fatphobia also contribute to marginalized joy. The main gist of the episode is there is a lot of gatekeeping happening when it comes to who gets to enjoy their life.<br /><br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><b></b><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a>Shop<br />Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4030</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bipoc,bipocs,blackvoices,femalevoices,feminism,feminist,happiness,happy,joy,lgbtq,marginalizedvoices,misogyny,patriarchy,queerpeople,women,womenpodcasters,womensexperiences,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Intergenerational Trauma, Grief, and Impossible Beauty Standards</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/intergenerational-trauma-grief-and-impossible-beauty-standards--63970144</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by <a href="https://www.susanlieu.me/about-susan-lieu" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Susan Lieu</a> to discuss what led her to writing her book, The Manicurist’s Daughter, and creating her one woman show, 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother. After Susan’s mother died of a complication during her tummy tuck surgery, Susan was left with a family that wanted to remain silent on her mother’s death and how her family was forever changed. Natalie and Susan will use examples from their own stories to talk about how misogyny affects their lives through beauty standards, shame surrounding big feelings and caring for one’s mental health, and how the broken medical system costs lives.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Susan</b><br /><a href="https://www.susanlieu.me/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/susanlieu/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Manicurists-Daughter-Memoir-Susan-Lieu/dp/1250835046" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase The Manicurist’s Daughter</a><br /><a href="https://susanlieu.vhx.tv/products/140-lbs-how-beauty-killed-my-mother" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stream 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63970144</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63970144/susan.mp3" length="65978662" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b/f16df1f1-eaf4-45a8-b158-301ad5c66f2b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by https://www.susanlieu.me/about-susan-lieu to discuss what led her to writing her book, The Manicurist’s Daughter, and creating her one woman show, 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother. After Susan’s mother died of a complication...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by <a href="https://www.susanlieu.me/about-susan-lieu" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Susan Lieu</a> to discuss what led her to writing her book, The Manicurist’s Daughter, and creating her one woman show, 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother. After Susan’s mother died of a complication during her tummy tuck surgery, Susan was left with a family that wanted to remain silent on her mother’s death and how her family was forever changed. Natalie and Susan will use examples from their own stories to talk about how misogyny affects their lives through beauty standards, shame surrounding big feelings and caring for one’s mental health, and how the broken medical system costs lives.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Susan</b><br /><a href="https://www.susanlieu.me/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/susanlieu/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Manicurists-Daughter-Memoir-Susan-Lieu/dp/1250835046" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Purchase The Manicurist’s Daughter</a><br /><a href="https://susanlieu.vhx.tv/products/140-lbs-how-beauty-killed-my-mother" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stream 140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4124</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>beautystandards,familydynamics,femaleauthors,feminism,feminist,grief,mentalhealth,misogyny,women,womeninmedia,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Chaotic Bi Joy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/chaotic-bi-joy--63939716</link><description><![CDATA[Noelle Cope <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/episode/representing-sapphic-romance-in-media--60211140" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(Sapphic Representation In Media ep</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about the abundant joy of being a bi-sexual woman. Natalie and Noelle will talk on the nuanced differences between dating men compared to dating women. Noelle will give some insight on what would make Natalie brave enough to approach women to date and the two women plan out their perfect bi-dates. And of course, we will discuss how Patriarchy and misogyny shaped bi-sexuality in their minds and the underlying influences that keep up from living an authentic romantic life.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Noelle</b><br /><a href="https://noellecope.shop/products/notes-from-the-in-between-pre-order" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Notes-between-Noelle-Cope/dp/B0CWNRTBD7/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=P6ZM939KM2GV&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IrmkGk3C6vnLirt_iVlEsUfN4ZGEobxJnA2nSx8-6MToJRX_SWbpzAZ1nXyqctemGBBXH9mbFdTS53TpRtqxCtwUGF2I0ucOOF57rS-khI0.35ACwd62Td2_dszQQVGqDrXxiny9z5SBvT" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy Her Poetry Collection</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63939716</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2025 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63939716/chaotic_bi_joy.mp3" length="97397908" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991/4e22cb0c-97a3-49d9-aee3-4dab44e27991.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Noelle Cope https://www.spreaker.com/episode/representing-sapphic-romance-in-media--60211140) is back to talk to Natalie about the abundant joy of being a bi-sexual woman. Natalie and Noelle will talk on the nuanced differences between dating men...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Noelle Cope <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/episode/representing-sapphic-romance-in-media--60211140" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(Sapphic Representation In Media ep</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about the abundant joy of being a bi-sexual woman. Natalie and Noelle will talk on the nuanced differences between dating men compared to dating women. Noelle will give some insight on what would make Natalie brave enough to approach women to date and the two women plan out their perfect bi-dates. And of course, we will discuss how Patriarchy and misogyny shaped bi-sexuality in their minds and the underlying influences that keep up from living an authentic romantic life.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Noelle</b><br /><a href="https://noellecope.shop/products/notes-from-the-in-between-pre-order" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Notes-between-Noelle-Cope/dp/B0CWNRTBD7/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=P6ZM939KM2GV&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IrmkGk3C6vnLirt_iVlEsUfN4ZGEobxJnA2nSx8-6MToJRX_SWbpzAZ1nXyqctemGBBXH9mbFdTS53TpRtqxCtwUGF2I0ucOOF57rS-khI0.35ACwd62Td2_dszQQVGqDrXxiny9z5SBvT" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy Her Poetry Collection</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6088</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bisexuality,dating,feminism,feminist,lgbtq,misogyny,patriarchy,queerwomen,relationships,sexuality,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Cowboy Carter</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/cowboy-carter--64175526</link><description><![CDATA[Beyonce won album of the year for 2025! Alrinthea Carter and Julia Washington joined Natalie back in December to do a deep dive on country music, Beyonce’s career, and their feelings about different tracks of Cowboy Carter. There will be discussion on the role black people played in creating country music, what themes of the female experience are prevalent in the songs, and how Beyonce has inspired us to make the type of art we want to make.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Alrinthea</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@alrinthea </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a><br /><br /><b>Find Julia</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64175526</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Feb 2025 08:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64175526/cowboy_carter.mp3" length="103730408" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72/67bee597-c111-4b02-89fe-4a0ff96abb72.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Beyonce won album of the year for 2025! Alrinthea Carter and Julia Washington joined Natalie back in December to do a deep dive on country music, Beyonce’s career, and their feelings about different tracks of Cowboy Carter. There will be discussion on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Beyonce won album of the year for 2025! Alrinthea Carter and Julia Washington joined Natalie back in December to do a deep dive on country music, Beyonce’s career, and their feelings about different tracks of Cowboy Carter. There will be discussion on the role black people played in creating country music, what themes of the female experience are prevalent in the songs, and how Beyonce has inspired us to make the type of art we want to make.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Alrinthea</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@alrinthea </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a><br /><br /><b>Find Julia</b><br />On Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6484</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>albumoftheyear,albumreview,beyonce,bipocartists,countrymusic,cowboycarter,femalemusicians,feminism,feminist,grammys,misogyny,music,musicreview,women,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Another Check-In on the Four Fear Responses</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/another-check-in-on-the-four-fear-responses--63784055</link><description><![CDATA[We will be replaying our episode on the Four Fear Responses this week! I am hoping that this episode will make you feel less alone if you are currently experiencing a lot of fear responses over the news, our current trying times, or anything else you may be going through. Hopefully if we can identify when our body is in a fear response, it can help us affirm ourselves and our feelings.<br /><br /><br />Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Amy:</b><br />Website: <a href="https://amygreensmith.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amygreensmith.com/</a><br />Instagram: @heyamygreensmith<br />YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63784055</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2025 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63784055/repost_4_fear_responses.mp3" length="58027023" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113/b3646981-afab-42da-bde9-9d78f4b3f113.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We will be replaying our episode on the Four Fear Responses this week! I am hoping that this episode will make you feel less alone if you are currently experiencing a lot of fear responses over the news, our current trying times, or anything else you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We will be replaying our episode on the Four Fear Responses this week! I am hoping that this episode will make you feel less alone if you are currently experiencing a lot of fear responses over the news, our current trying times, or anything else you may be going through. Hopefully if we can identify when our body is in a fear response, it can help us affirm ourselves and our feelings.<br /><br /><br />Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:<br /></b>Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Amy:</b><br />Website: <a href="https://amygreensmith.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amygreensmith.com/</a><br />Instagram: @heyamygreensmith<br />YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3627</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>emotionalwellbeing,emotions,fawn,fear,fearresponses,feminism,feminist,fight,flight,fourfearresponses,fourfears,freeze,mentalhealth,misogyny,podcasts,women,womenpodcasters,womensexperiences,womenslives</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Witchcraft</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/witchcraft--63604152</link><description><![CDATA[ Erin Bagwell <a href="https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(Under the Moon Gate</a>) is on this week to talk about her experiences practicing witchcraft. Her and Natalie will get into what drew them to practicing the craft, the media representation of witches, the persecution of witches within women’s history, and what it means for women to step into their own power.<br /> <br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Erin:</b><br />Website: <a href="https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/under-the-moon-gate-with-erin-bagwell/id1737604244" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Under the Moon Gate</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/erin.bagwell/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@erin.bagwell</a><a href="https://underthemoongate.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZxYeSVSXqG4OZPK_H3wHXC95hmMsgqwnK7XZTQI3uokeRQJwG6SC9xIfg_aem_6SjxRCJ15TG7abxPWXTQww" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63604152</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63604152/witchcraft_w_erin.mp3" length="73637764" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df/3acbe18a-7ca9-4254-8baf-ac14bffa57df.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle> Erin Bagwell https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate) is on this week to talk about her experiences practicing witchcraft. Her and Natalie will get into what drew them to practicing the craft, the media representation of witches, the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ Erin Bagwell <a href="https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(Under the Moon Gate</a>) is on this week to talk about her experiences practicing witchcraft. Her and Natalie will get into what drew them to practicing the craft, the media representation of witches, the persecution of witches within women’s history, and what it means for women to step into their own power.<br /> <br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br /><b>Find Erin:</b><br />Website: <a href="https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.erin-bagwell.com/under-the-moon-gate</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/under-the-moon-gate-with-erin-bagwell/id1737604244" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Under the Moon Gate</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/erin.bagwell/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@erin.bagwell</a><a href="https://underthemoongate.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZxYeSVSXqG4OZPK_H3wHXC95hmMsgqwnK7XZTQI3uokeRQJwG6SC9xIfg_aem_6SjxRCJ15TG7abxPWXTQww" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Substack</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4603</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,intentionsetting,magic,manifestation,misogyny,pagan,patriarchy,wicca,witch,witchcraft,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womenshistory,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Glinda the Good?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/glinda-the-good--63592783</link><description><![CDATA[It is good to see us doing another Wicked themed episode, isn’t it? Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to give special focus to the character Galinda in the 2024 hit movie, Wicked. Galinda the Good? Are we sure about that? Glinda has been raising quite the internet buzz about whether or not she’s the movie’s main villain or just a girl who wouldn’t take one more scary step because she just wasn’t ready. While dissecting Julia’s reaction to Galinda, Natalie and her will also discuss white women’s role in Patriarchy, the 2024 election, and what happens when you align yourself too closely to Patriarchy in order to keep yourself safe. Here’s to making ending the Patriarchy a very popular idea in 2025!<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63592783</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63592783/galinda_the_good.mp3" length="90124164" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770/ddf53f64-912e-480b-98c7-7119c98e4770.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It is good to see us doing another Wicked themed episode, isn’t it? Julia Washington (https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/) is back to give special focus to the character Galinda in the 2024 hit movie, Wicked. Galinda the Good? Are we sure...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is good to see us doing another Wicked themed episode, isn’t it? Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to give special focus to the character Galinda in the 2024 hit movie, Wicked. Galinda the Good? Are we sure about that? Glinda has been raising quite the internet buzz about whether or not she’s the movie’s main villain or just a girl who wouldn’t take one more scary step because she just wasn’t ready. While dissecting Julia’s reaction to Galinda, Natalie and her will also discuss white women’s role in Patriarchy, the 2024 election, and what happens when you align yourself too closely to Patriarchy in order to keep yourself safe. Here’s to making ending the Patriarchy a very popular idea in 2025!<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Julia:</b><br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5633</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>2024election,election,elphaba,feminist,glinda,heroes,misogyny,movie,moviereview,patriarchy,podcasts,villains,wicked,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womenshistory,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Wicked</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/wicked--63517553</link><description><![CDATA[Today, we are holding space for the 2024 film starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, Wicked. Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is back on the podcast to talk about what it felt like to sit through Wicked once….twice….possibly three times and be riveted at the return of talent and magic in theaters. We will honor the feelings we had to make room for when Defying Gravity was sung. The press tour and the reactions to the film will be analyzed We will also bring into question why it gets so hard for us to celebrate a film that is being championed by two women who are unafraid to show their true emotions about female friendship and the power behind their latest project.. Mostly, this will be a celebration of this massive film that got us through the end of 2024.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Chris:</b><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63517553</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2025 08:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63517553/wicked_w_chris.mp3" length="88102078" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f/e00508b2-11c2-40fa-aad1-a9b6a785154f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today, we are holding space for the 2024 film starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, Wicked. Chris Derosa (https://www.pod.link/1665730605) is back on the podcast to talk about what it felt like to sit through Wicked once….twice….possibly three...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today, we are holding space for the 2024 film starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, Wicked. Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is back on the podcast to talk about what it felt like to sit through Wicked once….twice….possibly three times and be riveted at the return of talent and magic in theaters. We will honor the feelings we had to make room for when Defying Gravity was sung. The press tour and the reactions to the film will be analyzed We will also bring into question why it gets so hard for us to celebrate a film that is being championed by two women who are unafraid to show their true emotions about female friendship and the power behind their latest project.. Mostly, this will be a celebration of this massive film that got us through the end of 2024.<br /><br /><b>Support the Show:</b><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br /><b>Find Chris:</b><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5507</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arianagrande,cynthiaerivo,defyinggravity,feminism,feminist,filmcritique,holdinspace,misogyny,movie,moviemusicals,moviereview,musicals,popculture,wicked,wickedmovie,wickedpartone,womenempowerment,womeninfilm,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? The Hating Game</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-the-hating-game--63002344</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is on holiday break until 2025. Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63002344</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Dec 2024 08:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63002344/still_comfy_the_hating_game.mp3" length="71186016" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c/558c9c45-d13a-470c-aea1-a92a32814b5c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is on holiday break until 2025. Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is on holiday break until 2025. Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4450</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>booktoscreen,chicklit,christmas,christmasmovies,filmreview,holidaymovie,holidays,moviereview,movies,romanticcomedy,romcom,thehatinggame</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Love, Actually</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-love-actually--63002310</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until 2025! This week, we are re-releasing our Still Comfy? review of Love, Actually for some holiday cheer. Still Comfy? is where Julia Washington and I review our favorite comfort movies to figure out if they still make us happy. Spoiler alert, Love, Actually doesn't bring me comfort at all.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63002310</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63002310/love_actually_2024_re_release.mp3" length="79182444" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f/c31e9717-4dda-420c-bdb0-34dd418e752f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until 2025! This week, we are re-releasing our Still Comfy? review of Love, Actually for some holiday cheer. Still Comfy? is where Julia Washington and I review our favorite comfort movies to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until 2025! This week, we are re-releasing our Still Comfy? review of Love, Actually for some holiday cheer. Still Comfy? is where Julia Washington and I review our favorite comfort movies to figure out if they still make us happy. Spoiler alert, Love, Actually doesn't bring me comfort at all.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4949</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christmas,christmasmovies,film,filmreview,holiday,holidaymovies,hughgrant,loveactually,moviereview,movies,romcom</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Release: More Reality TV with Annie Sieg</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-release-more-reality-tv-with-annie-sieg--63002274</link><description><![CDATA[As a special holiday break treat, I am releasing this Patreon-exclusive episode to the public! You may remember we did a free episode with Annie about Reality TV and how much it matters to us. But did you know we had to record that episode twice? This is our first take, where it was a little more fun conversation between friends and less a deep dive on how misogyny affects reality tv. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63002274</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2024 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63002274/reality_tv_patreon_for_feed.mp3" length="79120553" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917/c24b7e7b-3c57-418a-9f45-d313bbd2d917.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As a special holiday break treat, I am releasing this Patreon-exclusive episode to the public! You may remember we did a free episode with Annie about Reality TV and how much it matters to us. But did you know we had to record that episode twice? This...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a special holiday break treat, I am releasing this Patreon-exclusive episode to the public! You may remember we did a free episode with Annie about Reality TV and how much it matters to us. But did you know we had to record that episode twice? This is our first take, where it was a little more fun conversation between friends and less a deep dive on how misogyny affects reality tv. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4946</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bravotv,datingshows,exclusive,holidaybreak,loveisblind,patreonexclusive,realhousewives,realitytv,subscriberonly,tv,vanderpumprules</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Practical Magic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-practical-magic--63002237</link><description><![CDATA[We are on our holiday break and will not be releasing new episodes until 2025! Please enjoy this re-release of our Still Comfy? Practical Magic review with Julia Washington. Practical Magic is one of my favorite comfort movies and I hope it adds a little warmth and magic to your holiday season!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63002237</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2024 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63002237/practical_magic_re_release.mp3" length="63687828" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b/a770d89a-c47f-4f8c-8704-fcf441d4ed9b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are on our holiday break and will not be releasing new episodes until 2025! Please enjoy this re-release of our Still Comfy? Practical Magic review with Julia Washington. Practical Magic is one of my favorite comfort movies and I hope it adds a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are on our holiday break and will not be releasing new episodes until 2025! Please enjoy this re-release of our Still Comfy? Practical Magic review with Julia Washington. Practical Magic is one of my favorite comfort movies and I hope it adds a little warmth and magic to your holiday season!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3981</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>90smovies,comfortmovies,filmreview,holidaybreak,moviereview,movies,nicolekidman,practicalmagic,romcom,sandrabullock,witches</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Entering Your Rom Com Era</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/entering-your-rom-com-era--62611931</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62611931</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62611931/entering_your_rom_com_era.mp3" length="80779851" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff/05c8cb25-b46f-492c-a50c-331b794f99ff.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington (https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Prose and Glow</a>) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Shop Prose and Glow: https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/<br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5049</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,feminism,feminist,forties,middleage,millenials,relationships,romance,romanticcomedies,romcom,thirties,women,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>America's Sweethearts: The Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/america-s-sweethearts-the-dallas-cowboy-cheerleaders--62558457</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62558457</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2024 08:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62558457/america_s_swethearts.mp3" length="90288840" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52/3222ba1c-a625-4ff0-8946-86fc51386b52.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5644</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>americassweethearts,cheer,cheerleading,dallascowboycheerleaders,dcc,documentary,docuseries,feminism,feminist,misogyny,netflix,review,women,womeninmedia,womensissues,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tell Me Lies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tell-me-lies--62532183</link><description><![CDATA[Rose from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> is back with Natalie today to discuss Tell Me Lies. Tell Me Lies is Hulu television series following a group of college friends through their torrid relationships. Natalie and Rose will discuss how Lucy and Stephen’s tumultuous relationship can be viewed through the lens of depression and how mental health plays a role in how you weave your way through dating and sexuality. They will also discuss the other women in the show and how it reflects upon common things they see portrayed in reality when it comes to female sexuality and the power dynamics held within sexual relationships. Other themes will be narcissism, the spectrum of depression and how it presents, apathy, and queerness.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62532183</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2024 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62532183/tell_me_lies.mp3" length="75843753" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556/0f2fd060-7e4c-45dd-83c4-274488419556.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Rose fromhttps://pod.link/1585974420 is back with Natalie today to discuss Tell Me Lies. Tell Me Lies is Hulu television series following a group of college friends through their torrid relationships. Natalie and Rose will discuss how Lucy and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Rose from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> is back with Natalie today to discuss Tell Me Lies. Tell Me Lies is Hulu television series following a group of college friends through their torrid relationships. Natalie and Rose will discuss how Lucy and Stephen’s tumultuous relationship can be viewed through the lens of depression and how mental health plays a role in how you weave your way through dating and sexuality. They will also discuss the other women in the show and how it reflects upon common things they see portrayed in reality when it comes to female sexuality and the power dynamics held within sexual relationships. Other themes will be narcissism, the spectrum of depression and how it presents, apathy, and queerness.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4741</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>darkromance,dating,depression,drama,feminism,feminist,hulu,mentalhealth,narcissism,relationships,romance,sexuality,television,tellmelies,tvreview,women,womeninfilm,womenintv,womensissues,womensstories</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Release: Lisa Frankenstein</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-release-lisa-frankenstein--62314195</link><description><![CDATA[Happy Spooky Season, Team Tolerator! As a special Halloween treat, I am releasing our full review of Diablo Cody's Lisa Frankenstein. This review with Darcie was a Patreon exclusive as part of our Team Tolerator Check-In series but I wanted to celebrate one of my favorite horror movies with you. Lisa is a misunderstood teenager who, together with a reanimated Victorian corpse, embarks on a murderous journey together to find love, happiness, and a few missing body parts. Lisa has become one of my favorite heroines of horror and I hope you love her as much as I do!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62314195</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62314195/lisa_frankenstein_released_for_feed.mp3" length="60767965" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429/d5585d97-e89a-4103-8e6d-8e635af47429.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy Spooky Season, Team Tolerator! As a special Halloween treat, I am releasing our full review of Diablo Cody's Lisa Frankenstein. This review with Darcie was a Patreon exclusive as part of our Team Tolerator Check-In series but I wanted to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy Spooky Season, Team Tolerator! As a special Halloween treat, I am releasing our full review of Diablo Cody's Lisa Frankenstein. This review with Darcie was a Patreon exclusive as part of our Team Tolerator Check-In series but I wanted to celebrate one of my favorite horror movies with you. Lisa is a misunderstood teenager who, together with a reanimated Victorian corpse, embarks on a murderous journey together to find love, happiness, and a few missing body parts. Lisa has become one of my favorite heroines of horror and I hope you love her as much as I do!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /> All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3798</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,halloween,horror,horrorcomedy,horrormovies,lisafrankenstein,movie,moviereview,movies,romance,scarymovie,spooky,spookyseason,womeninfilm,womeninmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Filmmakers and the Female Gaze</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/filmmakers-and-the-female-gaze--62199551</link><description><![CDATA[We have a very special guest who was kind enough to help Natalie determine her definition for “the female gaze” once and for all. Morgan is the host of the podcast,<a href="https://pod.link/1551338319" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Female Gaze: The Film Club</a>, where she and her guests discuss films directed by female filmmakers. Natalie and Morgan will discuss the nuances and differences they see when female filmmakers are the ones capturing women’s experiences. Directors of note will be Greta Gerwig, Sophia Coppola, Natalie Morales, Chloe Zhao, and more! Are you able to sit in a movie theater and determine if a movie is directed by a woman just by the tone and choices made?<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Natalie’s Episode of Female Gaze: The Film Club: <a href="https://pod.link/1551338319/episode/21497d7dce96e2be33a997a8617054d7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Plan B</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/femalegazethefilmclub/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@femalegazethefilmclub</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62199551</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62199551/filmmakers_and_the_female_gaze.mp3" length="84108478" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304/2d84493c-325b-4865-af72-9cdc7742b304.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We have a very special guest who was kind enough to help Natalie determine her definition for “the female gaze” once and for all. Morgan is the host of the podcast,https://pod.link/1551338319, where she and her guests discuss films directed by female...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have a very special guest who was kind enough to help Natalie determine her definition for “the female gaze” once and for all. Morgan is the host of the podcast,<a href="https://pod.link/1551338319" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Female Gaze: The Film Club</a>, where she and her guests discuss films directed by female filmmakers. Natalie and Morgan will discuss the nuances and differences they see when female filmmakers are the ones capturing women’s experiences. Directors of note will be Greta Gerwig, Sophia Coppola, Natalie Morales, Chloe Zhao, and more! Are you able to sit in a movie theater and determine if a movie is directed by a woman just by the tone and choices made?<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Natalie’s Episode of Female Gaze: The Film Club: <a href="https://pod.link/1551338319/episode/21497d7dce96e2be33a997a8617054d7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Plan B</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/femalegazethefilmclub/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@femalegazethefilmclub</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5257</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>femalefilmmakers,femalegaze,feminism,feminist,filmstudy,misogyny,movie,moviereview,movies,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Red Flags</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/red-flags--62183122</link><description><![CDATA[This week’s guest is <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebriannamccabe/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Brianna McCabe</a>, author of the book The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. Natalie and Brianna will share some instances from their past relationships and dating expectations where they knew they were definitely ignoring the red flags the other person was presenting loudly and without question. The two women will also discuss why women may feel pressured to ignore red flags, how loving yourself and having clear expectations helps combat settling for subpar partners, and what red flags became deal breakers as they grew more experienced in dating. Help us get to the root cause of ignoring red flags by telling us why you’ve found yourself dating someone who was a walking red flag!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebriannamccabe/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thebriannamccabe</a><br />Website:<a href="https://thebriannamccabe.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://thebriannamccabe.com/</a><br />Purchase The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Red-Flags-Ive-Repeatedly-Ignored/dp/1737316374/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Amazon</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62183122</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62183122/red_flags.mp3" length="75401134" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef/e72c4612-85b6-488f-9c79-22a969d6a3ef.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week’s guest is https://www.instagram.com/thebriannamccabe/?hl=en, author of the book The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. Natalie and Brianna will share some instances from their past relationships and dating expectations where they knew...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week’s guest is <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebriannamccabe/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Brianna McCabe</a>, author of the book The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. Natalie and Brianna will share some instances from their past relationships and dating expectations where they knew they were definitely ignoring the red flags the other person was presenting loudly and without question. The two women will also discuss why women may feel pressured to ignore red flags, how loving yourself and having clear expectations helps combat settling for subpar partners, and what red flags became deal breakers as they grew more experienced in dating. Help us get to the root cause of ignoring red flags by telling us why you’ve found yourself dating someone who was a walking red flag!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebriannamccabe/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thebriannamccabe</a><br />Website:<a href="https://thebriannamccabe.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://thebriannamccabe.com/</a><br />Purchase The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Red-Flags-Ive-Repeatedly-Ignored/dp/1737316374/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Amazon</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4713</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>authorinterview,dating,datingnightmares,datingstories,feminism,feminist,redflags,relationships,selflove,women,womenauthors,womeninlit,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Gender Expression</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/gender-expression--62104835</link><description><![CDATA[BJ Colangelo (<a href="https://pod.link/1527896223" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This Ends At Prom</a>) joins Natalie on the pod to talk about misogyny’s effects on gender expression. The women will discuss their experiences expressing their femininity and how misogyny played a role in how free they felt to do so when they were younger. Androgyny and who gets to set the rules of gender expression will also be discussed as well as how body image plays a role in gender expression and how gender expression plays a role in your sexuality. Also, because Natalie can’t help herself, there will even be some references to some great movies and how gender was played with in film.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1527896223" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This Ends At Prom</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bjcolangelo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@bjcolangelo</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@bjcolangelo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@bjcolangelo</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62104835</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Oct 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62104835/gender_expression.mp3" length="77401069" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6/c303dc64-0259-463d-bb38-98fd9d63eac6.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>BJ Colangelo (https://pod.link/1527896223) joins Natalie on the pod to talk about misogyny’s effects on gender expression. The women will discuss their experiences expressing their femininity and how misogyny played a role in how free they felt to do...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[BJ Colangelo (<a href="https://pod.link/1527896223" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This Ends At Prom</a>) joins Natalie on the pod to talk about misogyny’s effects on gender expression. The women will discuss their experiences expressing their femininity and how misogyny played a role in how free they felt to do so when they were younger. Androgyny and who gets to set the rules of gender expression will also be discussed as well as how body image plays a role in gender expression and how gender expression plays a role in your sexuality. Also, because Natalie can’t help herself, there will even be some references to some great movies and how gender was played with in film.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guest:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1527896223" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">This Ends At Prom</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bjcolangelo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@bjcolangelo</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@bjcolangelo" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@bjcolangelo</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4838</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bodyimage,feminine,femininity,feminism,feminist,femme,gender,genderexpression,girlhood,masc,masculinity,queerness,sexuality,womanhood,women,womeninmedia,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Mid Year Check-in with Julia Washington</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-mid-year-check-in-with-julia-washington--61284706</link><description><![CDATA[This episode is a preview of our mid-year follow-up to the goals and manifestations Julia Washington and I set in January. You will hear Julia and I discuss the progress we've made towards those goals and where we think the second half of the year will take us!<br /><br />Want the full episode? Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61284706</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61284706/mid_year_2024_check_in_preview.mp3" length="13022398" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7/845ef3ff-b31a-42b9-baa2-14552d681ff7.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode is a preview of our mid-year follow-up to the goals and manifestations Julia Washington and I set in January. You will hear Julia and I discuss the progress we've made towards those goals and where we think the second half of the year...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode is a preview of our mid-year follow-up to the goals and manifestations Julia Washington and I set in January. You will hear Julia and I discuss the progress we've made towards those goals and where we think the second half of the year will take us!<br /><br />Want the full episode? Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>814</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>checkingin,friends,goals,goalsetting,manifestations,preview,trailer</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Romantic Comedies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/romantic-comedies--61256110</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guests:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61256110</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61256110/romatic_comedy_feed.mp3" length="78659126" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87/697e2535-aa62-4e45-a721-1ca85b894e87.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney fromhttps://pod.link/1585974420 to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from<a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Fiction Fixation</a> to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Our Guests:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1585974420" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fiction Fixation</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fictionfixationpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixationpodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@fictionfixation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fictionfixation</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4917</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,movie,moviereview,movies,romance,romanticcomedy,romcom,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Tortured Poets Department (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-tortured-poets-department-part-2--61213339</link><description><![CDATA[“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and broken hearts, to Natalie and her friends it was more. It was an album that had them reflecting on the really messed up things that happen to them at the hands of misogyny. You’ll hear their takes on some of your favorite tracks from the album, they’ll dive into how the album was interpreted and accepted by the fan base and general public, and you’ll walk away from this episode knowing so much more about Natalie, Elizabeth, and Darcie.<br /><br />This episode will be released in two parts! Make sure to listen to Part One from last week!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61213339</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Sep 2024 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61213339/ttpd_week_2_feed.mp3" length="71406698" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7/bdf7399f-deab-4325-91dd-5474860a1cf7.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and broken hearts, to Natalie and her friends it was more. It was an album that had them reflecting on the really messed up things that happen to them at the hands of misogyny. You’ll hear their takes on some of your favorite tracks from the album, they’ll dive into how the album was interpreted and accepted by the fan base and general public, and you’ll walk away from this episode knowing so much more about Natalie, Elizabeth, and Darcie.<br /><br />This episode will be released in two parts! Make sure to listen to Part One from last week!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4463</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>albumreview,feminism,feminist,music,musicreview,taylorsversion,taylorswift,torturedpoetsdepartment,ttpd,women,womeninmedia,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Tortured Poets Department (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-tortured-poets-department-part-1--61213284</link><description><![CDATA[“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and broken hearts, to Natalie and her friends it was more. It was an album that had them reflecting on the really messed up things that happen to them at the hands of misogyny. You’ll hear their takes on some of your favorite tracks from the album, they’ll dive into how the album was interpreted and accepted by the fan base and general public, and you’ll walk away from this episode knowing so much more about Natalie, Elizabeth, and Darcie.<br /><br />This episode will be released in two parts! Make sure to check out manifestations and life lessons in next week’s episode!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61213284</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61213284/ttpd_week_1_feed.mp3" length="66646561" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7/562f4342-a486-4e98-b655-2eff2b686fc7.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[“Taylor Swift and I hurt the feelings of men we’ll never meet.” Natalie is joined by favorite guests Elizabeth and Darcie to discuss the latest Taylor Swift album. While The Tortured Poets Department was hailed as a 32-song album about breakups and broken hearts, to Natalie and her friends it was more. It was an album that had them reflecting on the really messed up things that happen to them at the hands of misogyny. You’ll hear their takes on some of your favorite tracks from the album, they’ll dive into how the album was interpreted and accepted by the fan base and general public, and you’ll walk away from this episode knowing so much more about Natalie, Elizabeth, and Darcie.<br /><br />This episode will be released in two parts! Make sure to check out manifestations and life lessons in next week’s episode!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4166</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>albumreview,feminism,feminist,music,musicrecs,musicreview,swifties,taylorsversion,taylorswift,torturedpoets,torturedpoetsdepartment,ttpd,women,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Mermaids</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-mermaids--61080957</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Mermaids starring Cher, Winona Ryder, and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61080957</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/61080957/still_comfy_mermaids_for_feed.mp3" length="85594741" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2/de9edf21-7678-4c70-94b1-3f5d76f836b2.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Mermaids starring Cher, Winona Ryder, and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5350</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cher,christinaricci,comfortmovies,feminism,feminist,movie,moviereview,winonaryder,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Jurassic Park</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-jurassic-park--60643169</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Jurassic Park starring Laura Dern, Jeff Goldblum, and Sam Neill.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60643169</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2024 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60643169/still_comfy_jurassic_park_feed.mp3" length="65222156" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c/3a98df38-55ca-4b98-b2c5-c68d4e33358c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Jurassic Park starring Laura Dern, Jeff Goldblum, and Sam Neill.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4077</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>action,dinosaurs,jeffgoldblum,jurassicpark,lauradern,movie,moviereview,samneill,thriller</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Sleepless in Seattle</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-sleepless-in-seattle--60643095</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Sleepless in Seattle starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60643095</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Aug 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60643095/still_comfy_sleepless_in_seattle_feed.mp3" length="67068700" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c/a882a54a-4b97-40ca-b9c4-d0861387494c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Sleepless in Seattle starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4192</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>megryan,movie,moviereview,noraephron,romance,romanticcomedy,romcom,sleeplessinseattle,tomhanks</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Mrs. Doubtfire</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-mrs-doubtfire--60642993</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Mrs. Doubtfire starring Robin Williams and Sally Field!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60642993</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 07:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60642993/still_comfy_mrs_doubtfire_feed.mp3" length="60126398" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd/69e909e4-79ad-4259-85f8-86670277a9dd.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Mrs. Doubtfire starring Robin Williams and Sally Field!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3758</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childrensmovies,comedy,familyfilms,familymovies,movie,moviereview,mrsdoubtfire,robinwilliams,sallyfield</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Return to Me</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-return-to-me--60642941</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Return to Me starring Minnie Driver and David Duchovny!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60642941</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Aug 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60642941/still_comfy_return_to_me_feed.mp3" length="74204099" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e/07f0b2df-8996-4f1e-9705-9e16d7983a5e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Return to Me starring Minnie Driver and David Duchovny!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4638</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,davidduchovny,minniedriver,movie,moviereview,movies,returntome,romance,romanticcomedy,romcom</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Guest Spot: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and the Hunchback of Notre Dame</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/guest-spot-pop-culture-makes-me-jealous-and-the-hunchback-of-notre-dame--60728975</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other shows, Still Comfy? episodes, and more! This week I am featuring a guest spot that I did with <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>on her podcast Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. PCMMJ is the podcast that delves into pop culture through the lens of race, gender, or sometimes both. During this episode Julia and I discuss whether or not this scary, sexy movie was really ever meant for children. And of course I go hard on the misogyny represented within the character arc for Esmerelda and how she's viewed by her male counterparts. What was Disney's goal with this movie?<br /><br />During our summer break, there will be new content released exclusively on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Make sure you've claimed your free trial on any of our tiers so you can be up to date on our Team Tolerator Check-Ins and Misogyny Meltdown episodes.<br /><br />Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> so you can keep up to date with all things Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find PCMMJ and Julia<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check out the show</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Find Julia on Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60728975</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jul 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60728975/hunchback_of_notre_dame_feed.mp3" length="57661041" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426/685d9776-78ea-4e1f-a552-59e5bbf97426.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! 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What was Disney's goal with this movie?<br /><br />During our summer break, there will be new content released exclusively on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Make sure you've claimed your free trial on any of our tiers so you can be up to date on our Team Tolerator Check-Ins and Misogyny Meltdown episodes.<br /><br />Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> so you can keep up to date with all things Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find PCMMJ and Julia<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check out the show</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Find Julia on Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3604</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>cartoons,disney,esmerelda,hunchbackofnotredame,kidsmovies,movie,moviereview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Addams Family</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-addams-family--60438668</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60438668</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60438668/sc_addams_famile_for_feed.mp3" length="62831430" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556/2933aa77-bed6-49ea-b689-88e221de4556.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3927</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>addamsfamily,anjelicahouston,christinaricci,comfortmovies,millenials,movie,moviepodcast,moviereview,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Ever After</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-ever-after--60438625</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Ever After starring Drew Barrymore and Anjelica Houston.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60438625</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60438625/sc_ever_after_for_feed.mp3" length="90561350" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Ever After starring Drew Barrymore and Anjelica Houston.<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5661</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anjelicahouston,cinderella,comfortmovie,drewbarrymore,everafter,fairytale,lovestory,movie,moviereviews,romance,romcom,women,womeninmovies,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Freaky Friday</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-freaky-friday--60438555</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60438555</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jul 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60438555/sc_freaky_friday_for_feed.mp3" length="65054973" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d/db07cd81-e68b-47b9-bb79-00247e65be8d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with https://pod.link/1561285346. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with <a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a>!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4066</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comfortmovie,freakyfriday,jamieleecurtis,lindsaylohan,millenials,movie,moviereview,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Guest Spot: Fixing Famous People Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/guest-spot-fixing-famous-people-shannon-doherty-and-alyssa-milano--60412720</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other shows, Still Comfy? episodes, and more!This week I am featuring a guest spot that I did with <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>! Fixing Famous People is hosted by the hilarious <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris DeRosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dominickpupa/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dominick Pupa</a>. Each week, they pick a new celebrity client who is in desperate need of a PR makeover. This episode is the four of us discussing the ongoing feud between Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano. But most importantly, it gave me the chance to call upon the Power of Three and relive some of my favorite Charmed memories.<br /><br />During our summer break, there will be new content released exclusively on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Make sure you've claimed your free trial on any of our tiers so you can be up to date on our Team Tolerator Check-Ins and Misogyny Meltdown episodes.<br /><br />Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> so you can keep up to date with all things Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Fixing Famous People<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/95ac6f9d8f566d9ba130cf6dd37234b7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Full Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano Episode</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60412720</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jun 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60412720/charmed_tatmitb_feed.mp3" length="50476138" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6/f758fcaa-c0e1-417f-913e-9b86ebd5cbe6.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other shows, Still Comfy? episodes, and more!This week I am featuring a guest spot that I did with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other shows, Still Comfy? episodes, and more!This week I am featuring a guest spot that I did with <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>! Fixing Famous People is hosted by the hilarious <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris DeRosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dominickpupa/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dominick Pupa</a>. Each week, they pick a new celebrity client who is in desperate need of a PR makeover. This episode is the four of us discussing the ongoing feud between Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano. But most importantly, it gave me the chance to call upon the Power of Three and relive some of my favorite Charmed memories.<br /><br />During our summer break, there will be new content released exclusively on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Make sure you've claimed your free trial on any of our tiers so you can be up to date on our Team Tolerator Check-Ins and Misogyny Meltdown episodes.<br /><br />Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a> so you can keep up to date with all things Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Fixing Famous People<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/95ac6f9d8f566d9ba130cf6dd37234b7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Full Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano Episode</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3155</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>alyssamilano,celebgossip,celebrity,celebrityfeud,celebritygossip,charmed,feud,popculture,shannondoherty,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Vanderpump Rules S11</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/vanderpump-rules-s11--60301135</link><description><![CDATA[Our reality tv historian, Annie Sieg, joins the show today to talk about the flop that was Vanderpump Rules season 11. It didn’t take us long to realize that this season would not be delivering us the girl power season of our dreams were we abandoned trying to see Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz as good people who deserve audiences. Instead, we were delivered a season of any type of misogyny you could see in your everyday life. We had women be expected to the do the emotional and mental labor to make men feel better about their actions. It was a season where women spent more time disrespecting one another’s boundaries then lending a helping hand. And it was worst of all, a season that tried to center and put on a pedestal the very men who were hurting the women of the series. We wanted better, Bravo. At least Ariana Madix and Katie Maloney were there to show us how our boundaries are important, we are allowed to be honest about the way we’ve been hurt, and we don’t need to live our lives in the name of hoping the men around us like us.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Annie<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok </a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60301135</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jun 2024 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60301135/vanderpump_rules.mp3" length="93290623" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01J0T74BZ8SNPR7GVNRRF6YT9B.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our reality tv historian, Annie Sieg, joins the show today to talk about the flop that was Vanderpump Rules season 11. It didn’t take us long to realize that this season would not be delivering us the girl power season of our dreams were we abandoned...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our reality tv historian, Annie Sieg, joins the show today to talk about the flop that was Vanderpump Rules season 11. It didn’t take us long to realize that this season would not be delivering us the girl power season of our dreams were we abandoned trying to see Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz as good people who deserve audiences. Instead, we were delivered a season of any type of misogyny you could see in your everyday life. We had women be expected to the do the emotional and mental labor to make men feel better about their actions. It was a season where women spent more time disrespecting one another’s boundaries then lending a helping hand. And it was worst of all, a season that tried to center and put on a pedestal the very men who were hurting the women of the series. We wanted better, Bravo. At least Ariana Madix and Katie Maloney were there to show us how our boundaries are important, we are allowed to be honest about the way we’ve been hurt, and we don’t need to live our lives in the name of hoping the men around us like us.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Annie<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok </a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5831</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arianamadix,bravo,bravotv,feminism,feminist,misogyny,realitytv,scadoval,television,tomsandoval,tv,tvreview,vanderpumprules,vpr,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Young Adult Literature</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/young-adult-literature--60227289</link><description><![CDATA[How did we fall for men who don’t like us? How often did I wake up and realize I was in a love triangle? Natalie is joined by the hosts of the podcast <a href="https://pod.link/1606641802" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">To All the YA I’ve Loved Before</a> for this week’s episode! Kaycee and Ashley explore the young adult literature millenials consumed such as Sweet Valley High, Gossip Girl, Dear America, and other young adult literature that was aimed specifically at young girls. Natalie and her two guests will have some fun reminiscing about their favorite teen book series while also deep diving on the weird messages those books gave them as young pre-teen girls. There will also be some recommendations of some YA Lit you can check out to see how the genre has evolved to be more inclusive and less misogynistic. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Kaycee and Ashley:<br /><a href="https://www.kayceeracer.com/toalltheya" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toalltheya/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toalltheya/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://pod.link/1606641802" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60227289</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60227289/ya_lit.mp3" length="71742319" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01J086HN409RCBJWHF3REVAHAA.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How did we fall for men who don’t like us? How often did I wake up and realize I was in a love triangle? Natalie is joined by the hosts of the podcast https://pod.link/1606641802 for this week’s episode! Kaycee and Ashley explore the young adult...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How did we fall for men who don’t like us? How often did I wake up and realize I was in a love triangle? Natalie is joined by the hosts of the podcast <a href="https://pod.link/1606641802" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">To All the YA I’ve Loved Before</a> for this week’s episode! Kaycee and Ashley explore the young adult literature millenials consumed such as Sweet Valley High, Gossip Girl, Dear America, and other young adult literature that was aimed specifically at young girls. Natalie and her two guests will have some fun reminiscing about their favorite teen book series while also deep diving on the weird messages those books gave them as young pre-teen girls. There will also be some recommendations of some YA Lit you can check out to see how the genre has evolved to be more inclusive and less misogynistic. <br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Kaycee and Ashley:<br /><a href="https://www.kayceeracer.com/toalltheya" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toalltheya/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toalltheya/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://pod.link/1606641802" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4484</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>book,bookclub,bookreview,booksforwomen,feminism,feminist,misogyny,preteens,teens,women,womeninlit,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenslit,womenspodcast,yalit,youngadultlit</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Representing Sapphic Romance in Media</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/representing-sapphic-romance-in-media--60211140</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by actor, screenwriter, and poet <a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Noelle Cope</a> to discuss sapphic romantic relationships and how they are represented (or underrepresented) in the media we consume. Movies of discussion include Happiest Season, But I’m a Cheerleader, Drive by Dolls, and there’s even tossed  in some reality tv discussion for extra spice. Other topics include imposter syndrome amongst queer women, who should be telling queer stories, and how our relationship expectations change the more we are introduced to varying relationships through film.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Noelle<br /><a href="https://noellecope.shop/products/notes-from-the-in-between-pre-order" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Notes-between-Noelle-Cope/dp/B0CWNRTBD7/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=P6ZM939KM2GV&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IrmkGk3C6vnLirt_iVlEsUfN4ZGEobxJnA2nSx8-6MToJRX_SWbpzAZ1nXyqctemGBBXH9mbFdTS53TpRtqxCtwUGF2I0ucOOF57rS-khI0.35ACwd62Td2_dszQQVGqDrXxiny9z5SBvT" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy Her Poetry Collection</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60211140</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2024 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60211140/sapphic_romance_representation_in_media.mp3" length="73464311" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HZP5MCC83DFD9JQG9BZTY3KF.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by actor, screenwriter, and poet https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en to discuss sapphic romantic relationships and how they are represented (or underrepresented) in the media we consume. Movies of discussion include Happiest...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by actor, screenwriter, and poet <a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Noelle Cope</a> to discuss sapphic romantic relationships and how they are represented (or underrepresented) in the media we consume. Movies of discussion include Happiest Season, But I’m a Cheerleader, Drive by Dolls, and there’s even tossed  in some reality tv discussion for extra spice. Other topics include imposter syndrome amongst queer women, who should be telling queer stories, and how our relationship expectations change the more we are introduced to varying relationships through film.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Noelle<br /><a href="https://noellecope.shop/products/notes-from-the-in-between-pre-order" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/noellacope/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nstagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Notes-between-Noelle-Cope/dp/B0CWNRTBD7/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=P6ZM939KM2GV&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IrmkGk3C6vnLirt_iVlEsUfN4ZGEobxJnA2nSx8-6MToJRX_SWbpzAZ1nXyqctemGBBXH9mbFdTS53TpRtqxCtwUGF2I0ucOOF57rS-khI0.35ACwd62Td2_dszQQVGqDrXxiny9z5SBvT" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Buy Her Poetry Collection</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4592</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,filmstudy,lgbtq,misogyny,movie,moviereview,movies,queerwomen,sapphic,sapphicromance,women,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenwholovewomen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser May 2024: Misogynistic Foolery</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-may-2024-misogynistic-foolery--59795250</link><description><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator!<br />It is the last Thursday of the month and that means it is Patreon trailer time! This week you are getting a sneak peek of April's Misogyny Meltdown titles Misogynistic Foolery.<br /><br />Here are some things we did for this episode:<br />1) I report on some foolish ways women ended up in the news.<br />2) I give you some insight on how I celebrated the solar eclipse.<br />3) Annie Sieg and I help build you an anti-gaslight kit. And yes, we manage to bring up both Taylor Swift and reality tv!<br /><br />Remember, The Misogyny Meltdown is a comedy show that combines my feminine rage with things you would see on a late night tv show like monologues, sketches, and interviews! It is best seen in its video form and you can see a video trailer for this episode <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/aprils-misogyny-102892534?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. May's bonus content will be all about mothers. Well and Taylor Swift. Because she is motheeerrrr.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Make sure you go and support Annie:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart?_t=8lbTAm4QOLu&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a><br /><a href="https://anniesieg.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59795250</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59795250/patreon_teaser_may_2024.mp3" length="15903808" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd/3c0bc67a-c209-4362-a54a-6b954dc610fd.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey Team Tolerator!
It is the last Thursday of the month and that means it is Patreon trailer time! This week you are getting a sneak peek of April's Misogyny Meltdown titles Misogynistic Foolery.

Here are some things we did for this episode:
1) I...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator!<br />It is the last Thursday of the month and that means it is Patreon trailer time! This week you are getting a sneak peek of April's Misogyny Meltdown titles Misogynistic Foolery.<br /><br />Here are some things we did for this episode:<br />1) I report on some foolish ways women ended up in the news.<br />2) I give you some insight on how I celebrated the solar eclipse.<br />3) Annie Sieg and I help build you an anti-gaslight kit. And yes, we manage to bring up both Taylor Swift and reality tv!<br /><br />Remember, The Misogyny Meltdown is a comedy show that combines my feminine rage with things you would see on a late night tv show like monologues, sketches, and interviews! It is best seen in its video form and you can see a video trailer for this episode <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/aprils-misogyny-102892534?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. May's bonus content will be all about mothers. Well and Taylor Swift. Because she is motheeerrrr.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Make sure you go and support Annie:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aksieg/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@anniemakesart?_t=8lbTAm4QOLu&amp;_r=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a><br /><a href="https://anniesieg.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>994</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>astrology,bonusepisode,comedy,eclipse,feminism,feminist,foolish,fools,gaslighting,gaslit,mentalhealth,misogyny,sneakpeek,taylorswift,trailer,women,womeninmedia,womeninthenews,womenpodcasters,womensnews</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Thicc B* Punk Rock</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/thicc-b-punk-rock--59777674</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Genevieve and Beatrice (<a href="https://linktr.ee/soulmeetsbodyband" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Soul Meets Body</a>) to talk about how their band Soul Meets Body and the music they are creating fights against gender norms, stigmas against mental health, and having negative thoughts about your own body. Topics of discussion will include how beauty standards hold us back from trying new things, the stupid ways we try to gender the process of making music and art, how illogical it is to spread hate instead of hype, and the cost misogyny has on audiences who love music. There will also be personal stories about how misogyny has affected the artistry of Natalie, Genevieve, and Beatrice. There’s nothing that screams punk rock like writing songs where you tell the Patriarchy it can f*** off.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Soul Meets Body<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulmeetsbodyband/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@soulmeetsbodyband" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a><br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/artist/5GRxAgqpCpdU4cs1MOwBOd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59777674</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59777674/thicc_b_punk_rock_all.mp3" length="52859759" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HYJ479J0A9058PCGTHKGHA8Q.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Genevieve and Beatrice (https://linktr.ee/soulmeetsbodyband) to talk about how their band Soul Meets Body and the music they are creating fights against gender norms, stigmas against mental health, and having negative thoughts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Genevieve and Beatrice (<a href="https://linktr.ee/soulmeetsbodyband" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Soul Meets Body</a>) to talk about how their band Soul Meets Body and the music they are creating fights against gender norms, stigmas against mental health, and having negative thoughts about your own body. Topics of discussion will include how beauty standards hold us back from trying new things, the stupid ways we try to gender the process of making music and art, how illogical it is to spread hate instead of hype, and the cost misogyny has on audiences who love music. There will also be personal stories about how misogyny has affected the artistry of Natalie, Genevieve, and Beatrice. There’s nothing that screams punk rock like writing songs where you tell the Patriarchy it can f*** off.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Support Soul Meets Body<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/soulmeetsbodyband/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@soulmeetsbodyband" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">TikTok</a><br /><a href="https://open.spotify.com/artist/5GRxAgqpCpdU4cs1MOwBOd" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3304</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,lgbtq,lifestyle,misogyny,music,musicians,podcast,punkrock,rock,rockandroll,songwriting,transrights,truestories,women,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 7 Deady Sins</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-7-deady-sins--59948011</link><description><![CDATA[Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. Are these sins deadly or are they the very things misogyny tries to keep women and other marginalized voices from so they never come into their own power? Karen from the podcast <a href="https://www.deconversiontherapypodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Deconversion Therapy</a> is here to help us answer that very question. Natalie and Karen will discuss really ridiculous ways misogyny tries to make us feel guilty for enjoying ourselves or just wanting better for ourselves. Why did they ever tell us sticking up for ourselves and using our voice was a sin? Hmmm I wonder.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Karen<br /><a href="https://www.deconversiontherapypodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://pod.link/1438032991" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/deconversiontherapypodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59948011</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59948011/7_deady_sins.mp3" length="69637477" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HY03F6TRBR5EXEWF56Z7FW63.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. Are these sins deadly or are they the very things misogyny tries to keep women and other marginalized voices from so they never come into their own power? Karen from the podcast...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. Are these sins deadly or are they the very things misogyny tries to keep women and other marginalized voices from so they never come into their own power? Karen from the podcast <a href="https://www.deconversiontherapypodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Deconversion Therapy</a> is here to help us answer that very question. Natalie and Karen will discuss really ridiculous ways misogyny tries to make us feel guilty for enjoying ourselves or just wanting better for ourselves. Why did they ever tell us sticking up for ourselves and using our voice was a sin? Hmmm I wonder.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Patreon</a>! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. <br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Karen<br /><a href="https://www.deconversiontherapypodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Website</a><br /><a href="https://pod.link/1438032991" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/deconversiontherapypodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4353</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>7deadlysins,catholicism,christianity,culture,deadlysins,envy,feminism,feminist,greed,l,lust,misogyny,pride,religion,sins,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>118</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Raising a Son</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/raising-a-son--59735698</link><description><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world where misogyny is very present and you’re trying to not have one more misogynist on your hands. Topics will include allowing sons space to talk freely about emotions, fathers’ roles in a misogynistic mindset, the hurtful stereotypes that sons have in our society, and how we can do everything to set them up to have an anti-misogynistic mindset but the world is still the world we live in.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59735698</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2024 07:00:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59735698/raising_a_son.mp3" length="62896213" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HXE3S5YGQ20SZM8NHGVW8ZN4.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world where misogyny is very present and you’re trying to not have one more misogynist on your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world where misogyny is very present and you’re trying to not have one more misogynist on your hands. Topics will include allowing sons space to talk freely about emotions, fathers’ roles in a misogynistic mindset, the hurtful stereotypes that sons have in our society, and how we can do everything to set them up to have an anti-misogynistic mindset but the world is still the world we live in.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3932</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>boys,feminism,feminist,lifestyle,misogyny,mother,motherhood,mothersday,parenting,parents,podcast,raisingboys,raisingsons,sons,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Raising a Daughter</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/raising-a-daughter--59616629</link><description><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in a world where misogyny is very present. Topics will include demonstrating boundary setting, things we remember about being raised as daughters, and gender norms within our society’s structure.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/finalgirlscout/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Elizabeth</a> on Instagram!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59616629</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2024 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59616629/raising_a_daughter.mp3" length="61462613" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HWW1Q6D08B74TE0FCYJ3HR19.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in a world where misogyny is very present. Topics will include demonstrating boundary setting,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in a world where misogyny is very present. Topics will include demonstrating boundary setting, things we remember about being raised as daughters, and gender norms within our society’s structure.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/finalgirlscout/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Elizabeth</a> on Instagram!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3842</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>culture,daughters,feminism,feminist,lifestyle,misogyny,motherhood,mothers,mothersday,parenting,parents,singlemoms,singleparent,women,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser March 2024 The Feminist Icons and Lisa Frankenstein</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-march-2024-the-feminist-icons-and-lisa-frankenstein--59471478</link><description><![CDATA[The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa Frankenstein.<br /><br />For our Misogyny Meltdown, we focused on highlighting feminist icons. You should expect:<br /><br /><ul><li>Me delivering you some reminders of the accomplishments of strong women.</li></ul><br /><ul><li>A game where we're testing how well <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">JD Ross</a> knows his icons.</li></ul><br /><ul><li>A conversation with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>and<a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Alrinthea Carter </a>on the representation of historical women in media.</li></ul>In order to get the full videos and audio episodes for the Misogynist Meltdown and Team Tolerator Check-In You have to join us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon!</a><br /><br />Each tier is running a free trial! And all of our blog posts and other resources are free and can be found <a href="https://www.patreon.com/collection/355441?view=expanded" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here.</a><br /><br />Follow our free tier for trailers and other extra content for the main feed episodes!<br /><br />Make sure to follow the show on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Instagram </a>and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>!<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59471478</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2024 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59471478/patreon_teaser_april_2024.mp3" length="25321683" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe/7645499e-a785-4a92-8cff-1cb50f739afe.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa Frankenstein.<br /><br />For our Misogyny Meltdown, we focused on highlighting feminist icons. You should expect:<br /><br /><ul><li>Me delivering you some reminders of the accomplishments of strong women.</li></ul><br /><ul><li>A game where we're testing how well <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">JD Ross</a> knows his icons.</li></ul><br /><ul><li>A conversation with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington </a>and<a href="https://www.instagram.com/alrinthea/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Alrinthea Carter </a>on the representation of historical women in media.</li></ul>In order to get the full videos and audio episodes for the Misogynist Meltdown and Team Tolerator Check-In You have to join us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon!</a><br /><br />Each tier is running a free trial! And all of our blog posts and other resources are free and can be found <a href="https://www.patreon.com/collection/355441?view=expanded" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here.</a><br /><br />Follow our free tier for trailers and other extra content for the main feed episodes!<br /><br />Make sure to follow the show on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Instagram </a>and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a>!<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1583</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonus,comedy,feminism,feminist,feministicons,horror,latenight,lisafrankenstein,moviereview,scarymovies,sketchshow,teaser,trailer,womeninfilm,womeninmedia,womenshistory,womenswork</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Hormonal Birth Control</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/hormonal-birth-control--59294948</link><description><![CDATA[Ellen Moore (<a href="https://pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show With Ellen Moore</a>) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on the body, women’s treatment when it comes to reproductive health, reproductive agency, and how capitalism is tied into the way we are spoken to about medications.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br />.<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1537825266/episode/48c32b8c7c39a06de8b96711ba8e77c7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show Episode on Birth Control</a><br /><a href="https://theslutshow.org/blogs/slutty-science/birth-control-explained" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ellen’s Article on Birth Control</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theslutshowwithellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@theslutshowwithellenmoore</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/byellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@byellenmoore</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59294948</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Apr 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59294948/hormonal_birth_control.mp3" length="54099844" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HVR3DFM67NPJ5CA8W7JBQ1GZ.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ellen Moore (https://pod.link/1537825266) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ellen Moore (<a href="https://pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show With Ellen Moore</a>) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on the body, women’s treatment when it comes to reproductive health, reproductive agency, and how capitalism is tied into the way we are spoken to about medications.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.<br />.<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br /><a href="https://pod.link/1537825266/episode/48c32b8c7c39a06de8b96711ba8e77c7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show Episode on Birth Control</a><br /><a href="https://theslutshow.org/blogs/slutty-science/birth-control-explained" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ellen’s Article on Birth Control</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theslutshowwithellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@theslutshowwithellenmoore</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/byellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@byellenmoore</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3382</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>birthcontrol,feminism,feminist,hormonalbirthcontrol,hormones,reproductivecare,sexeducation,women,womenpodcasters,womenshealth,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Love is Blind S6 (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-is-blind-s6-part-2--59219200</link><description><![CDATA[This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and Chelsea/Jimmy.<br /><br /><b>On this episode we will be covering the following couples:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Laura, Jeramey, and Sarah Ann:</b> Who doesn’t love a good ol’ fashioned love triangle? This trio allowed us to talk about the ramifications of the oversexualization of black women with something called a “bean dip”. We also discussed how Sarah Ann and Jeramey tried to deliver us a masterclass in gaslighting and just fell short.<br /><br /><b>AD and Clay: </b>We discuss how cheating isn’t hereditary and how therapy is important before you go on a dating show trying to find your one true love. AD deserved so much better and we will also pay our respects by crowning her the best part of the season.<br /><br />Thanks for giving us the chance to chat about this crazy season! We will also close the episode with our normal life lessons and manifestations section.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, March's episode celebrated International Women's Month!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59219200</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2024 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59219200/love_is_blind_part_2_full.mp3" length="36189457" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HV62YCFW7T1W4A4V2XCJV099.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and Chelsea/Jimmy.<br /><br /><b>On this episode we will be covering the following couples:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Laura, Jeramey, and Sarah Ann:</b> Who doesn’t love a good ol’ fashioned love triangle? This trio allowed us to talk about the ramifications of the oversexualization of black women with something called a “bean dip”. We also discussed how Sarah Ann and Jeramey tried to deliver us a masterclass in gaslighting and just fell short.<br /><br /><b>AD and Clay: </b>We discuss how cheating isn’t hereditary and how therapy is important before you go on a dating show trying to find your one true love. AD deserved so much better and we will also pay our respects by crowning her the best part of the season.<br /><br />Thanks for giving us the chance to chat about this crazy season! We will also close the episode with our normal life lessons and manifestations section.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, March's episode celebrated International Women's Month!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2262</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adandclay,dating,datingshow,datingshows,feminism,feminist,jeramey,laura,loveisblind,misogyny,reality,realitytv,relationships,sarahann,tv,tvreview,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Love is Blind S6 (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-is-blind-s6-part-1--59211091</link><description><![CDATA[The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot of work when it comes to making sure their programming doesn’t perpetuate internalized misogyny.<br /><br /><b>On this episode we will be covering the following cast members:</b><br /><b>The Pod Dwellers</b><br />Matthew- Was he a robot? Did he use ChatGPT to script his dates? What is his responsibility to udience members to make me believe he has the emotional investment needed for this kind of experiment?<br /><br />Trevor: Trevor had us heartbroken and ready to root for him. Then, some texts surfaced that made us realize that we had fallen victim to another man’s lies and games.<br /><br />Jessica: We will use Jessica’s story as an avenue to talk about the realities of single mothers who are trying to date and what their place is when it comes to reality tv.<br /><br /><b>The Couples</b><br /><b>Amy and Johnny:</b> They offer us a chance to talk about birth control and who is responsible for knowing the most about it in a partnership.<br /><br /><b>Brittany and Kenneth: </b>They gave us a chance to dive into the challenges mixed couples can face early on in their relationship.<br /><br /><b>Chelsea and Jimmy: </b>Insecurities are heightened at the start of a new relationship and we got the chance to talk about the aftermath of being faced with those insecurities. We also briefly touch on the criticism Chelsea faced after likening herself to Megan Fox.<br /><br />We will be back next week with the Jeramey, Laura, and Sarah Ann love triangle and wrap up with AD and Clay!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. February is all about love and March celebrated International Women's History Month.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59211091</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59211091/love_is_blind_part_1_full.mp3" length="58622163" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HTM1VX629H43NCFES5DR4YP0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot of work when it comes to making sure their programming doesn’t perpetuate internalized misogyny.<br /><br /><b>On this episode we will be covering the following cast members:</b><br /><b>The Pod Dwellers</b><br />Matthew- Was he a robot? Did he use ChatGPT to script his dates? What is his responsibility to udience members to make me believe he has the emotional investment needed for this kind of experiment?<br /><br />Trevor: Trevor had us heartbroken and ready to root for him. Then, some texts surfaced that made us realize that we had fallen victim to another man’s lies and games.<br /><br />Jessica: We will use Jessica’s story as an avenue to talk about the realities of single mothers who are trying to date and what their place is when it comes to reality tv.<br /><br /><b>The Couples</b><br /><b>Amy and Johnny:</b> They offer us a chance to talk about birth control and who is responsible for knowing the most about it in a partnership.<br /><br /><b>Brittany and Kenneth: </b>They gave us a chance to dive into the challenges mixed couples can face early on in their relationship.<br /><br /><b>Chelsea and Jimmy: </b>Insecurities are heightened at the start of a new relationship and we got the chance to talk about the aftermath of being faced with those insecurities. We also briefly touch on the criticism Chelsea faced after likening herself to Megan Fox.<br /><br />We will be back next week with the Jeramey, Laura, and Sarah Ann love triangle and wrap up with AD and Clay!<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. February is all about love and March celebrated International Women's History Month.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter </a>so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3664</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>brittanyandkenneth,chelseaandjimmy,dating,datingshows,feminism,feminist,johnnyandamy,loveisblind,loveisblindcouples,misogyny,netflix,realitytv,relationships,tv,tvreview,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenstv</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser Feb 2024 Romance, Candles, Bachelor Nation, and Creative Burnout</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-feb-2024-romance-candles-bachelor-nation-and-creative-burnout--59016737</link><description><![CDATA[Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross.<br /><br />The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and Bachelor Nation had us celebrating love and Valentine's Day!<br /><br /><br />What can you expect from this episode:<br /><br />Some comedic relief about my love life.<br /><br />A celebration of romantic comedy tropes.<br /><br />An educational candle demonstration from <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington</a>!<br /><br />And <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris DeRosa </a>and I saving lives by reminding everyone there's better tv out there than anything Bachelor Nation will give us. <br /><br /><br />Find the video trailer for the Misogyny Meltdown <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/sneak-peek-for-99002164?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here!</a><br /><br />For our Team Tolerator Check-In, I was joined by JD Ross from <a href="https://pod.link/1641197579" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Weirdwide </a>to talk about creative burnout! We will talk about how the winter blues affected our motivation to continue creating and what our goals are for the future. We also give even more stories and context about the incel episode JD and I had on the main feed.<br /><br />To claim your free trial for the Patreon so you can enjoy the full bonus episodes from last month, <a href="https://patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&amp;utm_content=copyLink" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">click here. </a><br /><br />Guest's Socials: <br /><br />Julia Washington: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous </a> <br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Julia's Candles</a> <br />Chris DeRosa: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fixingfamouspeople</a> <br />JD Ross:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @dudeistweirdo</a><br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59016737</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2024 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59016737/feb_2024_teaser_w_intro.mp3" length="18755962" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472/3c00027c-8160-4c16-97ec-bd6309ae7472.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross.

The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross.<br /><br />The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and Bachelor Nation had us celebrating love and Valentine's Day!<br /><br /><br />What can you expect from this episode:<br /><br />Some comedic relief about my love life.<br /><br />A celebration of romantic comedy tropes.<br /><br />An educational candle demonstration from <a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Julia Washington</a>!<br /><br />And <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Chris DeRosa </a>and I saving lives by reminding everyone there's better tv out there than anything Bachelor Nation will give us. <br /><br /><br />Find the video trailer for the Misogyny Meltdown <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/sneak-peek-for-99002164?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here!</a><br /><br />For our Team Tolerator Check-In, I was joined by JD Ross from <a href="https://pod.link/1641197579" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Weirdwide </a>to talk about creative burnout! We will talk about how the winter blues affected our motivation to continue creating and what our goals are for the future. We also give even more stories and context about the incel episode JD and I had on the main feed.<br /><br />To claim your free trial for the Patreon so you can enjoy the full bonus episodes from last month, <a href="https://patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&amp;utm_content=copyLink" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">click here. </a><br /><br />Guest's Socials: <br /><br />Julia Washington: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous </a> <br /><a href="https://www.juliawashingtonproductions.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Shop Julia's Candles</a> <br />Chris DeRosa: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@fixingfamouspeople</a> <br />JD Ross:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @dudeistweirdo</a><br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1173</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bachelornation,bonus,burnout,candles,comedy,creative,creativity,demonstration,diy,love,realitytv,romance,romancebooks,romancetropes,romanticcomedies,stress,stressmanagement,teaser,trailer,valentinesday</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Royal Family</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-royal-family--58963383</link><description><![CDATA[Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(The Daily Fail)</a> joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.We're celebrating Women's International History Month for March!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter</a> so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kristen:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Daily Fail</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.kristenmeinzer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">kristenmeinzer.com</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/kristenmeinzer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kristenmeinzer </a>I<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/k10meinzer/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@k10meinzer</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58963383</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2024 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58963383/the_royal_family.mp3" length="63478431" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0/e1b8dcdd-8139-47e0-a02a-89d45ca1d9a0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer https://pod.link/1686589901 joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">(The Daily Fail)</a> joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.We're celebrating Women's International History Month for March!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">newsletter</a> so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kristen:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1686589901" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Daily Fail</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.kristenmeinzer.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">kristenmeinzer.com</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/kristenmeinzer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kristenmeinzer </a>I<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/k10meinzer/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@k10meinzer</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3968</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>england,feminism,feminist,katemiddleton,kingcharles,meghanmarkle,misogyny,princeharry,princess,princessdiana,princewilliam,queen,queenelizabeth,royalfamily,royals,socialcommentary,thewindsors,women,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I'm The Gaming Industry Expert Here!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-the-gaming-industry-expert-here--58934832</link><description><![CDATA[Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued against and she left the frustrating conversation unable to convince the man on the other side of the conversation she was right. There will also be conversation around how we help bring marginalized voices to the table, the vulnerability it takes to stick up for yourself and your talents, and the emotional/mental labor that is involved when we are constantly asked to model to men how to not be misogynist and how we expect respect when it comes to the things we know.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, for March we will be celebrating International Womens History Month<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />You can find the “Oh My Horror” 2024 movie challenge <a href="https://www.ohmyhorror.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<b><br /></b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58934832</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2024 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58934832/im_the_gaming_expert.mp3" length="62455684" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HRXZWRMQX1GJHS78QQJ0NR0A.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued against and she left the frustrating conversation unable to convince the man on the other side of the conversation she was right. There will also be conversation around how we help bring marginalized voices to the table, the vulnerability it takes to stick up for yourself and your talents, and the emotional/mental labor that is involved when we are constantly asked to model to men how to not be misogynist and how we expect respect when it comes to the things we know.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, for March we will be celebrating International Womens History Month<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />You can find the “Oh My Horror” 2024 movie challenge <a href="https://www.ohmyhorror.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>.<b><br /></b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3904</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,gamedevelopment,gamer,games,gaming,misogynists,misogyny,videogame,videogamer,videogames,women,womenempowerment,womeningaming,womenintech,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dungeons and Dragons Lore</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dungeons-and-dragons-lore--58797904</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of <a href="https://pod.link/1555896577" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slovenly Trulls </a>podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&amp;D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore and playing guides published by Wizards of the Coast that serve as a reminder that the game has some inherent rules and story pieces that are rooted in misogyny, racism, and other oppressive systems. The three women will then celebrate some of the game masters and live play streams who are doing the work to rewrite the narrative that only white men know how to play D&amp;D and enjoy it. Those examples include Dimension 20, Critical Role, DesiQuest, and specific people like Aabria Iyengar.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love and in March we will be celebrating International Women's Month!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br />Find Shardae and Lyssa:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1555896577" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slovenly Trulls</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/slovenlytrulls/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@slovenlytrulls</a><br />TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@slovenlytrulls" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @slovenlytrulls</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58797904</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Mar 2024 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58797904/dungeons_and_dragons_lore.mp3" length="76535893" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HRC45BJR57N6PWAKZ51F044W.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of https://pod.link/1555896577podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&amp;amp;D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of <a href="https://pod.link/1555896577" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slovenly Trulls </a>podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&amp;D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore and playing guides published by Wizards of the Coast that serve as a reminder that the game has some inherent rules and story pieces that are rooted in misogyny, racism, and other oppressive systems. The three women will then celebrate some of the game masters and live play streams who are doing the work to rewrite the narrative that only white men know how to play D&amp;D and enjoy it. Those examples include Dimension 20, Critical Role, DesiQuest, and specific people like Aabria Iyengar.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love and in March we will be celebrating International Women's Month!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br />Find Shardae and Lyssa:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1555896577" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slovenly Trulls</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/slovenlytrulls/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@slovenlytrulls</a><br />TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@slovenlytrulls" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @slovenlytrulls</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4784</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dnd,dndlore,dungeonsanddragons,feminism,feminist,gamers,gaming,misogyny,roleplay,rpgs,ttrpgs,wizardsofthecoast,women,womeningaming,womenpodcasters,womenpodcasts</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>109</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Misogynist of the Year Awards</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-misogynist-of-the-year-awards--58743271</link><description><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we had at the Misogynist of the Year Award with our opening number and monologue. Want to see who was crowned the winner? The full audio episode and video episode for this ceremony are available on all three of our Patreon tiers! If you join on a free trial, you will definitely have enough time to watch this while checking out our other bonus content!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/collection/216454?view=expanded" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Join the Patreon for full access!</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58743271</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Feb 2024 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58743271/misogynist_of_the_year_awards_teaser.mp3" length="12174777" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b/661586cc-db06-4547-b6dd-2359e976db1b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we had at the Misogynist of the Year Award with our opening number and monologue. Want to see who...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we had at the Misogynist of the Year Award with our opening number and monologue. Want to see who was crowned the winner? The full audio episode and video episode for this ceremony are available on all three of our Patreon tiers! If you join on a free trial, you will definitely have enough time to watch this while checking out our other bonus content!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/collection/216454?view=expanded" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Join the Patreon for full access!</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>761</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>awardceremony,awards,awardseason,bonus,feminism,feminist,misogynist,misogynists,misogyny,sneakpeek,trailer,women,womenpodcasters,womensvoices</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Incels</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/incels--58610963</link><description><![CDATA[JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that needed to be covered because who is a better example of people living comfortably with misogyny than the incels of the internet? JD and Natalie will discuss how the term incel (involuntary celibate) was coined and how forums like Reddit allowed for men who have violent resentment towards women were able to form a community online. The entitlement that is featured in incel men will also be discussed as well as how their culture revolves around fantasies of violence against women, getting even, resenting that they’re undesirable, and sometimes carrying out their violent thoughts.Natalie will also express her fears on how misogynistic or incel mindsets are starting to become mainstream and JD will validate her fear by talking about the well-known men and leaders who help incels perpetuate their warped beliefs.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find JD:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1641197579" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Weirdwide </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.weirdwide.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.weirdwide.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@dudeistweirdo</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58610963</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2024 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58610963/incels.mp3" length="53014404" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HQ7YM4J7CDBSKX12C21PSHM3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that needed to be covered because who is a better example of people living comfortably with misogyny...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that needed to be covered because who is a better example of people living comfortably with misogyny than the incels of the internet? JD and Natalie will discuss how the term incel (involuntary celibate) was coined and how forums like Reddit allowed for men who have violent resentment towards women were able to form a community online. The entitlement that is featured in incel men will also be discussed as well as how their culture revolves around fantasies of violence against women, getting even, resenting that they’re undesirable, and sometimes carrying out their violent thoughts.Natalie will also express her fears on how misogynistic or incel mindsets are starting to become mainstream and JD will validate her fear by talking about the well-known men and leaders who help incels perpetuate their warped beliefs.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find JD:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1641197579" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Weirdwide </a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.weirdwide.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.weirdwide.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dudeistweirdo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@dudeistweirdo</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3314</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,incel,incels,men,misogynist,misogyny,onlineculture,reddit,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenssafety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Diversity in the Board Game Industry</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/diversity-in-the-board-game-industry--58580421</link><description><![CDATA[Kervin of <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games </a>joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kervin<br />Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.forwhygames.com/</a><br />Follow Kervin on Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames.flan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@forwhygames.flan</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58580421</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2024 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58580421/diversity_in_the_boardgame_industry.mp3" length="59100308" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HPNWVY6376BZH1SS3W8FRJWS.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kervin of https://www.forwhygames.com/joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kervin of <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">For Why Games </a>joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Kervin<br />Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: <a href="https://www.forwhygames.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.forwhygames.com/</a><br />Follow Kervin on Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@forwhygames.flan" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@forwhygames.flan</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3694</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>ally,allyship,boardgames,diversity,feminism,feminist,gamedesign,gamers,games,tabletopgaming,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Nutrition Education Gaps</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/nutrition-education-gaps--58464633</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, <a href="https://pod.link/1476096152" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Salad with a Side of Fries</a>. Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about nutrition and how it relates to the lack of education we have about our mental and emotional wellness. Both women will give some insight to their relationship with food and the emotions that go along with planning on what to eat. There will also be information on how the quality of the food we were offered is based more on economic value than on health value. And of course, we will talk about how misogyny has affected the food we consume.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Jenn:<br />Website: <a href="https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1476096152" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Salad With a Side of Fries</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jenntrepeck/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@jenntrepeck</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58464633</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2024 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58464633/nutrition_education.mp3" length="54417911" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HP43W9GGSM5J2PQG497RVA7N.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, https://pod.link/1476096152. Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about nutrition and how it relates to the lack of education we have about our mental and emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, <a href="https://pod.link/1476096152" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Salad with a Side of Fries</a>. Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about nutrition and how it relates to the lack of education we have about our mental and emotional wellness. Both women will give some insight to their relationship with food and the emotions that go along with planning on what to eat. There will also be information on how the quality of the food we were offered is based more on economic value than on health value. And of course, we will talk about how misogyny has affected the food we consume.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Jenn:<br />Website: <a href="https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://pod.link/1476096152" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Salad With a Side of Fries</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jenntrepeck/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@jenntrepeck</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3402</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>diet,dieting,education,feminism,feminist,food,foodquality,groceries,health,healtheducation,healthy,mealplanning,meals,misogyny,nutrition,women,womenshealth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Making Space for Our Voices</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-space-for-our-voices--58423052</link><description><![CDATA[Jennifer Cooper (<a href="https://www.jennifermag.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennifer Magazine</a>) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt they were taking up too much space or didn’t have space offered to them, Another point during the episode is how sometimes it isn’t just the systematic barriers that hold us back from having women’s stories being told but the imposter syndrome and internalized voices that make us feel like our stories aren’t worth telling. They also make sure to fit in some instances to celebrate each other for the work they’re doing on this journey into independently ran women’s media.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Jennifer:<br />Subscribe to Jennifer Magazine: <a href="https://www.jennifermag.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.jennifermag.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jennifer_magazine/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@jennifer_magazine</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58423052</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Feb 2024 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58423052/jennifer_cooper_interview.mp3" length="60266832" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HNHY6XQ072CGX8538P4TBM56.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Jennifer Cooper (https://www.jennifermag.com/) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt they were taking up too much space or didn’t have space offered to them, Another...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jennifer Cooper (<a href="https://www.jennifermag.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennifer Magazine</a>) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt they were taking up too much space or didn’t have space offered to them, Another point during the episode is how sometimes it isn’t just the systematic barriers that hold us back from having women’s stories being told but the imposter syndrome and internalized voices that make us feel like our stories aren’t worth telling. They also make sure to fit in some instances to celebrate each other for the work they’re doing on this journey into independently ran women’s media.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Jennifer:<br />Subscribe to Jennifer Magazine: <a href="https://www.jennifermag.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.jennifermag.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jennifer_magazine/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@jennifer_magazine</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3767</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,feministmedia,independentmedia,marginalizedvoices,mediaforwomen,misogyny,patriarchy,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womenranmedia,womensmedia,womenspodcast,womensstories,womenwriters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser- January Intention Setting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-january-intention-setting--58298896</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for 2024 so we can help you keep that good energy flowing to you.<br /><br />In order to recieve access to the full episode, go to our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a> page and join either our Team Tolerator or Misogyny Meltdown tier.<br /><br />Misogyny Meltdown is our all new variety show only available on Patreon. Each episode will include comedy, sketches, guests, and more all about having a good ol' melt over the misogyny we face everyday.<br /><br />In order to see the video recording or full audio recording of the Misogynist of the Year Award Ceremony, you must be a Patreon member on any tier! There is a free article outlining who won the Misogynist of the Year award for 2023.<br /><br /><br />Find Julia:<br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a><br /><br /><br />*During recording, we had mic issues on my end. You'll notice a dip in the sound quality and also hear everything Penelope does to keep herself occupied while I record. I apologize and appreciate your understanding and patience!<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58298896</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2024 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58298896/patreon_jan_2024_teaser.mp3" length="12232455" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054/51cff896-53cb-41ed-879b-1b844a948054.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for 2024 so we can help you keep that good energy flowing to you.

In order to recieve access...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for 2024 so we can help you keep that good energy flowing to you.<br /><br />In order to recieve access to the full episode, go to our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a> page and join either our Team Tolerator or Misogyny Meltdown tier.<br /><br />Misogyny Meltdown is our all new variety show only available on Patreon. Each episode will include comedy, sketches, guests, and more all about having a good ol' melt over the misogyny we face everyday.<br /><br />In order to see the video recording or full audio recording of the Misogynist of the Year Award Ceremony, you must be a Patreon member on any tier! There is a free article outlining who won the Misogynist of the Year award for 2023.<br /><br /><br />Find Julia:<br /><br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a><br /><br /><br />*During recording, we had mic issues on my end. You'll notice a dip in the sound quality and also hear everything Penelope does to keep herself occupied while I record. I apologize and appreciate your understanding and patience!<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>765</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonuscontent,feminism,feminist,goal,goalsetting,intentions,manifestations,misogyny,newgoals,newyear,patreon,tarot,teaser,trailer,visionboards,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>ADHD and Sexuality</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adhd-and-sexuality--58244073</link><description><![CDATA[Ellen Moore (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show with Ellen Moore</a>) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD affects how you experience sex and intimate relationships. They will share their own experiences with how their brain functions during moments of pleasure, both inside and outside of the bedroom. They will also talk on the connections made between ADHD and feeling disconnected to your partners and other relationships. One thing they’ve learned through their experiences is that you can’t expect to understand yourself sexually if you’re not understanding yourself mentally.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theslutshowwithellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@theslutshowwithellenmoore</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/byellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@byellenmoore</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show with Ellen Moore</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58244073</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2024 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58244073/adhd_and_sexuality.mp3" length="54926568" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HT81FDN8V8DM3JEGF013X7Q6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ellen Moore (https://www.pod.link/1537825266) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD affects how you experience sex and intimate relationships. They will share their own experiences...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ellen Moore (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show with Ellen Moore</a>) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD affects how you experience sex and intimate relationships. They will share their own experiences with how their brain functions during moments of pleasure, both inside and outside of the bedroom. They will also talk on the connections made between ADHD and feeling disconnected to your partners and other relationships. One thing they’ve learned through their experiences is that you can’t expect to understand yourself sexually if you’re not understanding yourself mentally.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theslutshowwithellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@theslutshowwithellenmoore</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/byellenmoore/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@byellenmoore</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1537825266" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Slut Show with Ellen Moore</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3433</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adhd,dating,feminism,feminist,health,lifestylepodcast,mentalhealth,mentalwellness,neurodivergence,podcast,romance,sex,sexeducation,sexualhealth,sexuality,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenssexuality</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Marginalized Joy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/marginalized-joy--58187794</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other topics include how racism, classism, and fatphobia also contribute to marginalized joy. The main gist of the episode is there is a lot of gatekeeping happening when it comes to who gets to enjoy their life.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58187794</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2024 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58187794/marginalized_joy.mp3" length="64417166" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HKVRR58GVH6SVTFGJ1DWCYPT.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington (https://www.pod.link/1561285346) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a>) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other topics include how racism, classism, and fatphobia also contribute to marginalized joy. The main gist of the episode is there is a lot of gatekeeping happening when it comes to who gets to enjoy their life.<br /><br />Make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br />All ways to support the show can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br />Podcasts: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> and <a href="https://www.pod.link/1690950675" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jelly Pops Book Club</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4027</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>antimisogyny,antiracism,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,gatekeeping,happiness,joy,marginalizedjoy,misogyny,patriarchy,podcast,racism,women,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womensmedia</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Real Housewives</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-housewives--58157034</link><description><![CDATA[Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Chris:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58157034</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jan 2024 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58157034/real_housewives_conflict_resolution_icons_ads.mp3" length="79547600" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HK9QS5TRVM4TM71NP5VM330B.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chris Derosa (https://www.pod.link/1665730605) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chris Derosa (<a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.<br /><br />Find Chris:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thechrisderosa/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thechrisderosa</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fixingfamouspeople/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">fixingfamouspeople</a><br />Podcast: <a href="https://www.pod.link/1665730605" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fixing Famous People</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4972</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bravo,bravotv,feminism,feminist,misogyny,olderwomen,realitytv,television,therealhousewives,tv,women,womeninmedia,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>102</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? The Parent Trap</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-the-parent-trap--57668647</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, wevdiscuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57668647</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57668647/still_comfy_parent_trap_feed.mp3" length="63842472" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HJQQ54ZR5BY78GMTYGREHRCD.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, wevdiscuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3991</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>disney,disneyfilm,familyfilm,filmreview,lindsaylohan,movie,moviepodcast,moviereview,ninetiesmovies,parenttrap,thenineties,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Love, Actually</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-love-actually--57668593</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57668593</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Dec 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57668593/still_comfy_love_actually_feed.mp3" length="79379269" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HJ6BCGH957AGK2PT11MKVRCQ.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4962</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>alanrickman,christmas,christmasmovie,hughgrant,livepodcast,loveactually,movie,moviepodcasts,moviereview,romanticcomedy,videopodcast,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Armageddon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-armageddon--57668520</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57668520</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57668520/still_comfy_armageddon_feed.mp3" length="64784970" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HHM7V6CR9GEBT2WV8EHC9CBS.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4050</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>90s,armageddon,benaffleck,brucewillis,feminism,feminist,film,filmreview,livepodcast,movie,moviepodcast,moviereview,ninetiesmovies,space,videopodcast,womeninmovies,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy A Knight's Tale</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-a-knight-s-tale--57667977</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2001 movie A Knight's Tale starring Heath Ledger and Rufus Sewell. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, was William Thatcher just One Tree Hill's Lucas Scott in armor?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57667977</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Dec 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57667977/still_comfy_a_knight_s_tale.mp3" length="62391318" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HH299DNG13RBYB7FH3J5YHNP.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2001 movie A Knight's Tale starring Heath Ledger and Rufus Sewell. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, was William Thatcher just One Tree Hill's Lucas Scott in armor?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the<a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf&amp;si=wdcZRxOno8OFqiMW" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> playlist</a> or joining us live on Tuesdays!<br /><br /><br />While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon feed</a>. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or <a href="https://to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before-podcast.ck.page/fab5f6c21b" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">subscribing to our newsletter.</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3900</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>aknightstale,comfortmovies,comfortshow,femalecreators,femalepodcasters,feminism,feminist,heathledger,livepodcast,livestream,millenialmovies,millenials,misogyny,movie,moviepodcasts,moviereview,videopodcast,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Introducing Our Misogynist of the Year Nominees</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-our-misogynist-of-the-year-nominees--57869902</link><description><![CDATA[Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting process so you can make an informed decision. And as a very special holiday treat, the Patreon has changed to offer our community even MORE from Team Tolerator. Justin Timberlake battling Dax Shepard for Misogynist of The Year and more await you in the links below!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/to-all-men-ive-93016547" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Read About Our Nominees </a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/round-1-of-year-93686864?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Vote for the Misogynist of the Year</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/misogynist-of-93759572" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Save the Dates for the Misogynist of the Year Award</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check out the new Patreon tiers including our FREE tier</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow us on Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow us on TikTok</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57869902</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2023 08:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57869902/introducing_misogynist_of_the_year.mp3" length="27706139" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HNDN0GHR7QPQK7YVBP4RXC2E.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting process so you can make an informed decision. And as a very special holiday treat, the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting process so you can make an informed decision. And as a very special holiday treat, the Patreon has changed to offer our community even MORE from Team Tolerator. Justin Timberlake battling Dax Shepard for Misogynist of The Year and more await you in the links below!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/to-all-men-ive-93016547" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Read About Our Nominees </a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/round-1-of-year-93686864?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Vote for the Misogynist of the Year</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/misogynist-of-93759572" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Save the Dates for the Misogynist of the Year Award</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Check out the new Patreon tiers including our FREE tier</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow us on Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow us on TikTok</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1732</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>award,awardceremony,britneyspears,celebrities,celebrity,celebs,daxshepard,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,justintimberlake,misogynist,misogynistoftheyear,misogyny,nominations,nominees,popculture,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>PNW Haunts and Homicides: Richard Gilmore</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pnw-haunts-and-homicides-richard-gilmore--57831565</link><description><![CDATA[This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed!<br /><br />Richard Troy Gillmore, also known as the Jogger Rapist, could be responsible for dozens of crimes that took place in the Portland Metro area in the 1970s and into the 1980s, prior to his arrest. He has been incarcerated for 36 years following his conviction for the singular sexual assault that was still within the statute of limitations. He will now be released in time to enjoy Christmas &amp; New Years as a free man in the city of Portland. This week's episode shares the stories of several young women and girls whose lives were profoundly impacted in irreparable ways by his crimes and of course attempts to answer the inevitable and burning question of how the hell did we get here?! Because, this is really happening.<br /><br />Find PNW Haunts &amp; Homicides on Apple podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Stitcher - and many more!<br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/.../pnw-haunts.../id1566754620" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/.../pnw-haunts.../id1566754620</a><br /><br />If we’re not available on a platform you use you can listen to new episodes on our website<br /><a href="https://pnwhauntsandhomicides.buzzsprout.com/?fbclid=IwAR1zfCKzlUsVNyRKJOlR-J84j_8oMeDYh6lt-G0_SIwvEXTVX0_1w90vgEc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://pnwhauntsandhomicides.buzzsprout.com</a><br /><br />Support the show <br /><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hauntshomicides" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hauntshomicides</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/PNWHauntsandHomicides?fbclid=IwAR3rhBV0WAFV7NMe_nBFebucfO3WF--M1nADzM_9RWvP_geemvugIzaMBw4" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/PNWHauntsandHomicides</a><br /><br />Want to vote for Misogynist of the Year? Check out the list of <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/to-all-men-ive-93016547?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nominees! </a><br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57831565</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Nov 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57831565/pnw_feed_swap.mp3" length="91395769" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f/3dc15a72-ca23-44ed-9509-6f1eb985594f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed!

Richard Troy Gillmore, also known as the Jogger Rapist, could be responsible for dozens of crimes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed!<br /><br />Richard Troy Gillmore, also known as the Jogger Rapist, could be responsible for dozens of crimes that took place in the Portland Metro area in the 1970s and into the 1980s, prior to his arrest. He has been incarcerated for 36 years following his conviction for the singular sexual assault that was still within the statute of limitations. He will now be released in time to enjoy Christmas &amp; New Years as a free man in the city of Portland. This week's episode shares the stories of several young women and girls whose lives were profoundly impacted in irreparable ways by his crimes and of course attempts to answer the inevitable and burning question of how the hell did we get here?! Because, this is really happening.<br /><br />Find PNW Haunts &amp; Homicides on Apple podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Stitcher - and many more!<br /><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/.../pnw-haunts.../id1566754620" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/.../pnw-haunts.../id1566754620</a><br /><br />If we’re not available on a platform you use you can listen to new episodes on our website<br /><a href="https://pnwhauntsandhomicides.buzzsprout.com/?fbclid=IwAR1zfCKzlUsVNyRKJOlR-J84j_8oMeDYh6lt-G0_SIwvEXTVX0_1w90vgEc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://pnwhauntsandhomicides.buzzsprout.com</a><br /><br />Support the show <br /><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hauntshomicides" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hauntshomicides</a><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/PNWHauntsandHomicides?fbclid=IwAR3rhBV0WAFV7NMe_nBFebucfO3WF--M1nADzM_9RWvP_geemvugIzaMBw4" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/PNWHauntsandHomicides</a><br /><br />Want to vote for Misogynist of the Year? Check out the list of <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/to-all-men-ive-93016547?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">nominees! </a><br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5713</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>breakingnews,crime,crimeinvestigation,csi,detectives,investigation,sexualassault,survivors,truecrime</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dcf809fffece09c2ae1c04b855391e0f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Premiering DRAUMA DUMP</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/premiering-drauma-dump--57635669</link><description><![CDATA[Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a new collaboration with Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous). What is a Drauma Dump? Well, that's what happens when you write into Julia and I and tell us all about the ways someone in your life has hurt, betrayed, or disappointed you. We then adhere to our calling as women who rage against things like misogyny and oppression and yell at your family for you. Because we get it, you can't spend your energy and time yelling at people who are already undervaluing you. But we can!<br /><br />Drauma Dump is a YouTube video series that will release episodes every Friday! You can find the channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@DraumaDump" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>. Julia has posted our other premiere episode on the<a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> Feed.<br /><br />Interested in our new Misogyny Meltdown series on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>? Make sure you're a subscribed member and go read our list of the Misogynist of the Year nominees for free on our Patreon page. We will be having free and paid content on our Patreon starting now!<br /><br />Follow us on socials!<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087187201934" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Facebook</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXKexo_7kI6hNkW1nm6oJLw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57635669</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57635669/drauma_dump_premiere.mp3" length="20470847" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HFXSYG80ZQMJSFWJ53QXJED3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a new collaboration with Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous). What is a Drauma...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a new collaboration with Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous). What is a Drauma Dump? Well, that's what happens when you write into Julia and I and tell us all about the ways someone in your life has hurt, betrayed, or disappointed you. We then adhere to our calling as women who rage against things like misogyny and oppression and yell at your family for you. Because we get it, you can't spend your energy and time yelling at people who are already undervaluing you. But we can!<br /><br />Drauma Dump is a YouTube video series that will release episodes every Friday! You can find the channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@DraumaDump" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">here</a>. Julia has posted our other premiere episode on the<a href="https://pod.link/1561285346" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous</a> Feed.<br /><br />Interested in our new Misogyny Meltdown series on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>? Make sure you're a subscribed member and go read our list of the Misogynist of the Year nominees for free on our Patreon page. We will be having free and paid content on our Patreon starting now!<br /><br />Follow us on socials!<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliek124" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tiktok</a><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087187201934" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Facebook</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXKexo_7kI6hNkW1nm6oJLw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">YouTube</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1280</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arguing,debate,drama,family,familydrama,familydynamics,familyfights,feminists,lifestyle,misogyny,newshow,patreon,podcasts,premiere,singlelife,trauma,videopodcast,videoseries,womenpodcasters,youtubeseries</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Female Celebrity Memoirs</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/female-celebrity-memoirs--57545953</link><description><![CDATA[Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has hosted the show Celebrity Book Club, now known as Glamorous Trash, since 2020. Natalie and Chelsea will talk about what has drawn them to celebrity memoirs, lessons they’ve learned about Patriarchy and misogyny through the stories of famous women, and how those lessons apply to their own stories. Chelsea will also give insight to what it is like writing your own memoir while also deprogramming from the messaging we are given through misogyny. <br /><br />During the episode we refer to Chelsea’s podcast as Celebrity Book Club. Celebrity Book Club has now been rebranded as Glamorous Trash!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when we drop Elizabeth’s list of female driven horror movies.<br /><br />Find Chelsea:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.chelsearosedevantez.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.chelsearosedevantez.com/</a><br />Listen to Glamorous Trash: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6fDuL5kQhE5PBMOpupBhu9" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a> and <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/glamorous-trash-with-chelsea-devantez/id1533722524" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Apple</a><br />Pre-Order Chelsea’s Memoir: <a href="https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/chelseadevantez" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/chelseadevantez</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chelseadevantez/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@chelseadevantez</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57545953</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2023 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57545953/female_celebrity_memoirs.mp3" length="55571478" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HFBKQJKNJZYF8S74XXWGWFYR.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has hosted the show Celebrity Book Club, now known as Glamorous Trash, since 2020. Natalie and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has hosted the show Celebrity Book Club, now known as Glamorous Trash, since 2020. Natalie and Chelsea will talk about what has drawn them to celebrity memoirs, lessons they’ve learned about Patriarchy and misogyny through the stories of famous women, and how those lessons apply to their own stories. Chelsea will also give insight to what it is like writing your own memoir while also deprogramming from the messaging we are given through misogyny. <br /><br />During the episode we refer to Chelsea’s podcast as Celebrity Book Club. Celebrity Book Club has now been rebranded as Glamorous Trash!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when we drop Elizabeth’s list of female driven horror movies.<br /><br />Find Chelsea:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.chelsearosedevantez.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.chelsearosedevantez.com/</a><br />Listen to Glamorous Trash: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6fDuL5kQhE5PBMOpupBhu9" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Spotify</a> and <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/glamorous-trash-with-chelsea-devantez/id1533722524" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Apple</a><br />Pre-Order Chelsea’s Memoir: <a href="https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/chelseadevantez" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/chelseadevantez</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chelseadevantez/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@chelseadevantez</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3474</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>authors,bookclub,celebrity,celebritybookclub,celebritymemoirs,celebritywomen,famouswomen,femaleauthors,femalecelebrities,femalememoirs,femalewriters,feminism,feminist,memoir,misogyny,patriarchy,women,womenpodcasters,womenwriters,writers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>101</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Purity Culture and Sex Ed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/purity-culture-and-sex-ed--57372004</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Erica:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.ericasmitheac.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.ericasmitheac.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.sex.ed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ericasmith.sex.ed</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57372004</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Nov 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57372004/purity_culture_and_sex_ed.mp3" length="63180843" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P856.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Erica:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.ericasmitheac.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.ericasmitheac.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.sex.ed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@ericasmith.sex.ed</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3949</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianity,inclusive,misogyny,patriarchy,purity,purityculture,queer,religion,sex,sexed,sexedu,sexeducation,sexuality,toxicpurityculture,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>100</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Round Two with Depp/Heard</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-round-two-with-depp-heard--57119778</link><description><![CDATA[Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation trial. They explore the impact of the trial for victims, the role social media played in the trial, and whether or not their feelings have changed now that they have new perspectives and a year's worth of space from the coverage.<br /><br />This is a Patreon bonus teaser! To access the full episode, join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. We are currently running a free trial for all new members!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Signing up for the newsletter gets you discounts on our merchandise, including our Halloween/Fall collection!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/huesbyjules/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@huesbyjuls</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57119778</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Nov 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57119778/teaser_depp_heard_2.mp3" length="13428653" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302/7abdc79f-8c4c-491d-a7ef-6f83f58ba302.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation trial. They explore the impact of the trial for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation trial. They explore the impact of the trial for victims, the role social media played in the trial, and whether or not their feelings have changed now that they have new perspectives and a year's worth of space from the coverage.<br /><br />This is a Patreon bonus teaser! To access the full episode, join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. We are currently running a free trial for all new members!<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Signing up for the newsletter gets you discounts on our merchandise, including our Halloween/Fall collection!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/huesbyjules/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@huesbyjuls</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>840</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amberheard,bonus,defamation,deppheard,deppvheard,documentary,docuseries,domesticviolence,feminism,feminist,johnnydepp,law,misogyny,netflixdocumentary,patreon,teaser,trial,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Its Britney Spears, Babes!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/its-britney-spears-babes--57357373</link><description><![CDATA[What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well! This will be taking the place of our Thursday episode, so we will see you next week. Happy listening!<br /><br />Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) November’s bonus episode will be a review of The Woman In Me where I will be processing all the places I cried while listening to the book.<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Check out Fixing Famous People's episode on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/517181aa9cce014bc411b5e54a82830d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Justin Timberlake</a>! Thank you Chris and Dominick for exploring why Justin Timberlake needs a PR makeover.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57357373</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2023 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57357373/britney_spears.mp3" length="62532170" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P858.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well! This will be taking the place of our Thursday episode, so we will see you next week. Happy listening!<br /><br />Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Patreon</a>! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) November’s bonus episode will be a review of The Woman In Me where I will be processing all the places I cried while listening to the book.<br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/popculturemakesmejealous/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@popculturemakesmejealous</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thejuliawashington/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thejuliawashington</a><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />Check out Fixing Famous People's episode on <a href="https://pod.link/1665730605/episode/517181aa9cce014bc411b5e54a82830d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Justin Timberlake</a>! Thank you Chris and Dominick for exploring why Justin Timberlake needs a PR makeover.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3909</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>britneyspears,celebritymemoir,conservatorship,femaleauthors,femalemusicians,feminism,feminist,memoir,misogyny,music,popdiva,popmusic,popstars,sexism,thepatriarchy,thewomaninme,womeninmedia,womeninmusic,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Final Girls: The Strongest Women in Horror</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/final-girls-the-strongest-women-in-horror--57183932</link><description><![CDATA[It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when we drop Elizabeth’s list of female driven horror movies.<br /><br />Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/finalgirlscout/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Elizabeth</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/darciedarko?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Darcie </a>on Instagram!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57183932</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Oct 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57183932/final_girls.mp3" length="69843948" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P859.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram! <br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Join the newsletter so you know when we drop Elizabeth’s list of female driven horror movies.<br /><br />Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/finalgirlscout/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Elizabeth</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/darciedarko?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Darcie </a>on Instagram!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4366</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>empowerment,fall,feminism,feminist,finalgirl,finalgirls,halloween,horror,horrormovies,movie,movies,october,scarymovies,spooky,spookyseason,women,womeninfilm,womeninhorror</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>98</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Building Intentional Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-intentional-relationships--56858226</link><description><![CDATA[Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to advocate for themselves.This has driven her to only give her energy to relationships that are worthy of her time and add value to her life. The two women will talk about the relationships that made them commit to holding their hearts and relationships to a higher standard.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Gisselle:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gisselleovo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@gisselleovo</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thestrongsunflowers/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thestrongsunflowers</a><br /><a href="https://linktr.ee/thestrongsunflowerspodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to The Strong Sunflowers podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCQt1TTjZr_UzBWtswn0JAQ?app=desktop&amp;fbclid=PAAabpICVT5V24z_GV0zngjtAxZVHQGI028gysmFCcqtPZ0NEOWWtdy7cUnL8_aem_AWowuwUKeA_0cIZ3IFJhiWOvJ2KbulShx3e8FU8sj6r3oVgxMIqGdMAMaLgXBtQxmbA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Subscribe to Gisselle’s channel on YouTube</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56858226</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56858226/building_intentional_relationships.mp3" length="49916491" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85A.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to advocate for themselves.This has driven her to only give her energy to relationships that are worthy of her time and add value to her life. The two women will talk about the relationships that made them commit to holding their hearts and relationships to a higher standard.<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Gisselle:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gisselleovo/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@gisselleovo</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thestrongsunflowers/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thestrongsunflowers</a><br /><a href="https://linktr.ee/thestrongsunflowerspodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Listen to The Strong Sunflowers podcast</a><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCQt1TTjZr_UzBWtswn0JAQ?app=desktop&amp;fbclid=PAAabpICVT5V24z_GV0zngjtAxZVHQGI028gysmFCcqtPZ0NEOWWtdy7cUnL8_aem_AWowuwUKeA_0cIZ3IFJhiWOvJ2KbulShx3e8FU8sj6r3oVgxMIqGdMAMaLgXBtQxmbA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Subscribe to Gisselle’s channel on YouTube</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3120</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,energy,feminism,feminist,fightingthepatriarchy,intentional,intentions,lovingyourself,manifestation,mindset,misogyny,relationships,selfcare,selfhelp,settingintentions,vibes,women,womensempowerment,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>92</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>ADHD Diagnosing</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adhd-diagnosing--56872472</link><description><![CDATA[Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The women share past events that could have gone so much differently if only they understood how their brain functioned and accommodated themselves for it. Topics will also include gatekeeping for ADHD diagnosing and accomodations, what advocating for your accommodations looks like, and what the world looks like when we lose the mindset of “well if I have to accommodate you, I have to accommodate everyone.”<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Katie and The Bar Is Ankle High<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebarisanklehigh/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thebarisanklehigh</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/</a><br />Listen to The Bar Is Ankle High: https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/listen]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56872472</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Oct 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56872472/adhd_diagnosing.mp3" length="65169493" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85B.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The women share past events that could have gone so much differently if only they understood how their brain functioned and accommodated themselves for it. Topics will also include gatekeeping for ADHD diagnosing and accomodations, what advocating for your accommodations looks like, and what the world looks like when we lose the mindset of “well if I have to accommodate you, I have to accommodate everyone.”<br /><br />Follow us at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@menivetoleratedpod</a> on Instagram!<br /><br /><a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Katie and The Bar Is Ankle High<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebarisanklehigh/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@thebarisanklehigh</a><br />Website: <a href="https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/</a><br />Listen to The Bar Is Ankle High: https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/listen]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4074</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>add,adhd,attentiondefecit,diagnosis,feminism,feminist,gatekeeping,mentalhealth,misogyny,reasonableaccomodations,thepatriarchy,women,womenandmedicine,womenempowerment,womenshealth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: 2023 Check-in On Goals and Manifestations</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-2023-check-in-on-goals-and-manifestations--56727774</link><description><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the summer that include how I met some of my idols from Critical Role and Dimension 20. Come celebrate our wins and help push us into success by 2024!<br /><br />Claim your Patreon free trial: https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow the show on Instagram! </a><br /><br /><br /><br />Find Julia:<br /><br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56727774</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Sep 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56727774/2023_check_in_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="9802858" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85C.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the summer that include how I met some of my idols from Critical Role and Dimension 20. Come celebrate our wins and help push us into success by 2024!<br /><br />Claim your Patreon free trial: https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/menivetoleratedpod/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Follow the show on Instagram! </a><br /><br /><br /><br />Find Julia:<br /><br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>613</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>criticalrole,dimension20,goals,manifestations,patreon,summer,teaser,trailer,women,womenpodcasters,yearlycheckin</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Family Court and Divorcing Your Abuser</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/family-court-and-divorcing-your-abuser--56738805</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for women to keep themselves and their children safe and separate from their abusers. A large part of the discussion will focus on how Courtney was treated by judges, lawyers, and other professionals for speaking out against the domestic violence she was experiencing. There will also be a conversation surrounding how abuse presents differently in each case but there are patterns that many abusers exhibit and follow.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!<br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Courtney:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/textsfromthenarcissist/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@textsfromthenarcissist</a><br />Other resources: https://linktr.ee/courtneygilmartin]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56738805</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Sep 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56738805/family_court_and_divorcing_your_abuser.mp3" length="64886953" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85D.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for women to keep themselves and their children safe and separate from their abusers. A large part of the discussion will focus on how Courtney was treated by judges, lawyers, and other professionals for speaking out against the domestic violence she was experiencing. There will also be a conversation surrounding how abuse presents differently in each case but there are patterns that many abusers exhibit and follow.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!<br /> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!<br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Courtney:<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/textsfromthenarcissist/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@textsfromthenarcissist</a><br />Other resources: https://linktr.ee/courtneygilmartin]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4056</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>divorce,domesticabuse,domesticviolence,famiylcourt,feminism,feminist,marriage,misogyny,narcissism,narcissist,victims,women,womenandlaw,womenpodcasters,womensurviviors</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>95</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Four Fear Responses</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-four-fear-responses--56590577</link><description><![CDATA[Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Amy:<br />Website: <a href="https://amygreensmith.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amygreensmith.com/</a><br />Instagram: @heyamygreensmith<br />YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56590577</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56590577/four_fear_responses.mp3" length="57862731" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85E.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Amy:<br />Website: <a href="https://amygreensmith.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amygreensmith.com/</a><br />Instagram: @heyamygreensmith<br />YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3617</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>antipatriarchy,fawn,fear,fearresponses,feminine,feminism,feminist,fight,flight,fourfearresponses,freeze,misogny,thefeminine,women,womenissues,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>94</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>When Women Uphold Misogyny</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-women-uphold-misogyny--56569476</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold misogynistic beliefs or Patriarchal standards. The women go into what makes them frustrated when it comes to living a life that isn’t centered around men but living in a world where centering men is very much the status quo. They also talk about recent current events and how disappointing it is when powerful women who they admire are found to be acting in misogynistic ways or dating misogynists themselves. Celebrities of note they will discuss are Lizzo, Taylor Swift, and Beyonce.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56569476</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56569476/women_upholding_misogyny.mp3" length="76502875" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85F.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold misogynistic beliefs or Patriarchal standards. The women go into what makes them frustrated when it comes to living a life that isn’t centered around men but living in a world where centering men is very much the status quo. They also talk about recent current events and how disappointing it is when powerful women who they admire are found to be acting in misogynistic ways or dating misogynists themselves. Celebrities of note they will discuss are Lizzo, Taylor Swift, and Beyonce.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4782</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>beyonce,dismantalingthepatriarchy,femalemisogynists,feminism,feminist,friendships,lizzo,misogny,patriarchy,relationships,taylorswift,thepatriarchy,women,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>93</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Vision Boards, Manifestations, and Goals</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-vision-boards-manifestations-and-goals--56265488</link><description><![CDATA[Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and Jules are determined to have a feral year filled with podcast numbers, opportunities, success, and loving themselves above all else! And you can hear all about their goal mindset when you become a Patreon member! <br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br /><br />Find Jules:<br /><br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56265488</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Aug 2023 07:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56265488/jan_juls_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="12742365" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330/69f9a685-c66f-4f9e-8c36-72b3ac2a1330.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and Jules are determined to have a feral year filled with podcast numbers, opportunities, success, and loving themselves above all else! And you can hear all about their goal mindset when you become a Patreon member! <br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and<a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br /><br />Find Jules:<br /><br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br /><br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>797</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abundance,bonus,goals,goalsetting,manifestation,patreon,planning,preview,tarot,teaser,women,womenpodcasters,yearlyplanning</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Writers Strike</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-writers-strike--56503310</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion will range from making a livable wage, what happens when AI is charged with filtering out resumes and also writing tv shows, and the powers of workers uniting so everyone can live a lifestyle funded by the work they are producing. We urge you to take time to educate yourself on why WGA and SAG are on strike and support your favorite television writers by donating to the Entertainment Community Fund.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Support Alrinthea, WGA, and SAG:<br />On Instragram: @alrinthea @wgastrikeunite @sagaftra<br />On the Web: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a><br />Donate: https://www.wga.org/members/finances/entertainment-community-fund-emergency-financial-assistance]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56503310</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Aug 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56503310/the_writers_strike.mp3" length="69013046" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85H.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion will range from making a livable wage, what happens when AI is charged with filtering out resumes and also writing tv shows, and the powers of workers uniting so everyone can live a lifestyle funded by the work they are producing. We urge you to take time to educate yourself on why WGA and SAG are on strike and support your favorite television writers by donating to the Entertainment Community Fund.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Support Alrinthea, WGA, and SAG:<br />On Instragram: @alrinthea @wgastrikeunite @sagaftra<br />On the Web: <a href="https://www.alrintheacarter.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.alrintheacarter.com/</a><br />Donate: https://www.wga.org/members/finances/entertainment-community-fund-emergency-financial-assistance]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4314</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>actors,actorsguild,actorsstrike,entertainment,feminist,hollywood,misogyny,sagaftra,sagaftrastrike,strike,television,televisionwriters,tv,tvwriters,unionstrike,wga,wgastrike,women,writers,writersstrike</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>90</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Barbie Movie</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-barbie-movie--56443989</link><description><![CDATA[Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56443989</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Aug 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56443989/the_barbie_movie.mp3" length="70473395" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85J.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington<br />Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4405</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>barbie,barbieandken,barbiemovie,femalecreators,femaleidentity,feminism,feminist,filmstudy,gretagerwig,ken,kenough,margotrobie,misogyny,moviereview,ryangosling,summermovies,women,womeninfilm,womenpodcasters,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>91</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-how-to-lose-a-guy-in-10-days--56265126</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days, starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much should we want to keep the guy who puts in basic effort and calls it romance?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56265126</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56265126/still_comfy_how_to_lose_a_guy_in_10_days_ep.mp3" length="87863484" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85M.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days, starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much should we want to keep the guy who puts in basic effort and calls it romance?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5492</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,filmreview,howtoloseaguy,howtoloseaguyin10days,katehudson,matthewmcconaughey,millenials,movie,moviereview,movies,relationships,romance,romanticcomedy,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? The Sandlot</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-the-sandlot--56265004</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1993 movie The Sandlot, starring Tom Guiry, Denis Leary, James Earl Jones, and Karen Allen. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much baseball can Natalie even talk about?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56265004</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56265004/still_comfy_the_sandlot_ep.mp3" length="80573930" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85K.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1993 movie The Sandlot, starring Tom Guiry, Denis Leary, James Earl Jones, and Karen Allen. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much baseball can Natalie even talk about?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5036</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>baseball,comfortmovies,comfortshows,filmreview,millennials,movie,moviereview,sandlot,sport,sports,summer,summermovies,the90s,thenineties,thesandlot,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? A League of Their Own</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-a-league-of-their-own--56015319</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56015319</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jul 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56015319/still_comfy_a_league_of_their_own.mp3" length="98094646" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85N.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?<br /><br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6131</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>aleagueoftheirown,baseball,comfortmovie,film,filmreview,filmstudy,ginadavis,movie,moviereview,tomhanks,women,womeninfilm,womenmedia,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Clueless</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-clueless--56015187</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1995 movie Clueless, starring Alicia Silverstone and Paul Rudd Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, is Clueless actually one of the deepest and smartest scripts we have from our youth?<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56015187</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jul 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56015187/still_comfy_clueless.mp3" length="91526835" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85P.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1995 movie Clueless, starring Alicia Silverstone and Paul Rudd Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, is Clueless actually one of the deepest and smartest scripts we have from our youth?<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5721</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>aliciasilverstone,brittanymurphy,clueless,comedy,film,filmreview,filmstudy,leadingladies,livepodcast,movie,moviereview,paulrudd,review,reviews,romance,romanticcomedy,shakespeare,womeninfilm,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Titanic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-titanic--56014886</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1997 movie Titanic starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslett! Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, how much male arrogance does it take to sink one ship?<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56014886</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56014886/still_comfy_titanic.mp3" length="82213451" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85Q.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1997 movie Titanic starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslett! Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, how much male arrogance does it take to sink one ship?<br /><br />You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf</a>.<br /><br />While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5139</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comfortmovies,filmreview,filmstudy,jamescameron,katewinslett,leonardodicaprio,lovestories,movie,moviereview,movies,movieswelove,reviews,romance,romancemovies,titan,titanic,titansub,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Just Having Fun About Taylor Swift</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-just-having-fun-about-taylor-swift--54837312</link><description><![CDATA[This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been reflected in Taylor Swift's career on the regular feed. But now we just get to have an unguided conversation about what we love about her, the songs we enjoy the most, and what it has meant to us to be friends who can also love music together. You need to be a Patreon member in order to hear the full episode!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Elizabeth:<br />All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a><br />Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54837312</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54837312/ts_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="17741575" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85R.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been reflected in Taylor Swift's career on the regular feed. But now we just get to have an unguided...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been reflected in Taylor Swift's career on the regular feed. But now we just get to have an unguided conversation about what we love about her, the songs we enjoy the most, and what it has meant to us to be friends who can also love music together. You need to be a Patreon member in order to hear the full episode!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Elizabeth:<br />All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a><br />Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1109</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>alltoowell,bonuscontent,bonusepisode,erastour,feminism,feminist,friends,friendship,misogyny,music,patreon,swiftie,swifties,taylornation,taylorswift,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Demisexuality</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/demisexuality--54799419</link><description><![CDATA[Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction based on first impressions or physical characteristics. Katie Majka is back on the show to discuss her new book <i>What’s Your Vibe?</i> In her new book, she hopes to give more representation to people who identify as demisexual. Her and Natalie talk about the different ways people find themselves attracted to others, how isolating it can be to begin to discover and reflect on your own sexuality, and what it means to be understanding to someone who experiences attraction in a different way than what is perpetuated by media and literature. For Pride Month, they’re hoping everyone leaves June with a little more empathy and understanding for others while also living an authentic and true to themselves lifestyle.<br /><br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br /><br />Find Katie:<br /><br />Order <i>What’s Your Vibe?</i>: <a href="https://books2read.com/whatsyourvibe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://books2read.com/whatsyourvibe</a><br /><br />Instagram: @katmajik.author<br /><br />Linktree: https://linktr.ee/katmajik<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54799419</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jun 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54799419/demisexuality.mp3" length="51744644" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85S.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction based on first impressions or physical characteristics. Katie Majka is back on the show to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction based on first impressions or physical characteristics. Katie Majka is back on the show to discuss her new book <i>What’s Your Vibe?</i> In her new book, she hopes to give more representation to people who identify as demisexual. Her and Natalie talk about the different ways people find themselves attracted to others, how isolating it can be to begin to discover and reflect on your own sexuality, and what it means to be understanding to someone who experiences attraction in a different way than what is perpetuated by media and literature. For Pride Month, they’re hoping everyone leaves June with a little more empathy and understanding for others while also living an authentic and true to themselves lifestyle.<br /><br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br /><br />Find Katie:<br /><br />Order <i>What’s Your Vibe?</i>: <a href="https://books2read.com/whatsyourvibe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://books2read.com/whatsyourvibe</a><br /><br />Instagram: @katmajik.author<br /><br />Linktree: https://linktr.ee/katmajik<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3235</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>attraction,dating,demisexual,demisexuality,emotionalconnection,feminism,feminist,june,lgbtq,misogyny,pride,pridemonth,queer,relationships,sex,sexuality,women,womenpodcasters,womenpodcasts</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Scandoval</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/scandoval--54524833</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were presented each season. However, none of those events have compared to the wild explosion that was Scandoval. News broke that Tom Sandoval had cheated on long term partner, Ariana Madix, with other cast mate, Raquel (Rachel) Leviss, fans glued onto their televisions and social media platforms to find out how this scandal was going to play out. Natalie and Annie are going to talk about Scandavol in the only way Natalie knows how, by focusing on how misogyny affected Tom and Ariana’s relationship, the fall out of the scandal, and the other castmates. We’ve talked reality tv before on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, but Vanderpump Rules gets its own special episode simply because Natalie and Annie will take any opportunity to make fun of Tom Sandavol and his glittery pants.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios<br />Website: http://anniesieg.com/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54524833</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54524833/scandavol.mp3" length="63095162" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85T.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were presented each season. However, none of those events have compared to the wild explosion...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were presented each season. However, none of those events have compared to the wild explosion that was Scandoval. News broke that Tom Sandoval had cheated on long term partner, Ariana Madix, with other cast mate, Raquel (Rachel) Leviss, fans glued onto their televisions and social media platforms to find out how this scandal was going to play out. Natalie and Annie are going to talk about Scandavol in the only way Natalie knows how, by focusing on how misogyny affected Tom and Ariana’s relationship, the fall out of the scandal, and the other castmates. We’ve talked reality tv before on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, but Vanderpump Rules gets its own special episode simply because Natalie and Annie will take any opportunity to make fun of Tom Sandavol and his glittery pants.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios<br />Website: http://anniesieg.com/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3944</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arianamaddix,bracotv,bravo,breakups,cheating,feminist,lisavanderpump,misogyny,raquelleviss,realitytv,relationships,scandal,scandoval,sur,tomsandavol,tomsandoval,tv,vanderpumprules,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why Isn't 30 More Flirty?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-isn-t-30-more-flirty--54069059</link><description><![CDATA[Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between your 20s and 30s. Stereotypes about your 20s and 30s and all the expectations society puts on us will be debunked. There will be some discussion on how we came to terms with the things we needed to deprogram from like internalized misogyny, a ticking clock that our youth ends at 29, and that you have to stop experimenting, growing, or changing once you’ve entered “real adulthood”. Where are the actual grownups? Millenials sure as heck don’t know! And it is because we’ve been fed so much junk about what it means to grow up and we were rushed to form identities before we truly knew anything about ourselves and what we wanted!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Clarissa and Kourtney:<br />30, Dirty, and Dying info: <a href="https://linktr.ee/30dirtyanddying" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/30dirtyanddying</a><br />Instagram: @30dirtyanddying @clarissa_explains_nothing @kourtneyrae91<br />TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdGUPhmK/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54069059</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54069059/why_isnt_30_more_flirty.mp3" length="63152840" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85V.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between your 20s and 30s. Stereotypes about your 20s and 30s and all the expectations society puts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between your 20s and 30s. Stereotypes about your 20s and 30s and all the expectations society puts on us will be debunked. There will be some discussion on how we came to terms with the things we needed to deprogram from like internalized misogyny, a ticking clock that our youth ends at 29, and that you have to stop experimenting, growing, or changing once you’ve entered “real adulthood”. Where are the actual grownups? Millenials sure as heck don’t know! And it is because we’ve been fed so much junk about what it means to grow up and we were rushed to form identities before we truly knew anything about ourselves and what we wanted!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Clarissa and Kourtney:<br />30, Dirty, and Dying info: <a href="https://linktr.ee/30dirtyanddying" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/30dirtyanddying</a><br />Instagram: @30dirtyanddying @clarissa_explains_nothing @kourtneyrae91<br />TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdGUPhmK/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3948</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>20s,30s,changing,comedy,dating,feminism,feminist,flirty,growing,maturity,media,millenials,misogyny,popculture,relationships,women,womenpodcasters,young,your20s,your30s</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Toxic Masculinity and Male Dating Privilege</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/toxic-masculinity-and-male-dating-privilege--54043728</link><description><![CDATA[Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br />Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore<br />Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54043728</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jun 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54043728/toxic_masculinity.mp3" length="60140191" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85W.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Ellen:<br />Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore<br />Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3759</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>breakups,dating,emotionalhealth,emotionallabor,feminism,feminist,gender,gendernorms,love,lovers,malepriviledge,misogny,powerdynamics,priviledge,relationships,romance,toxicmasculinity,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>87</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Taylor Swift</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/taylor-swift--53922672</link><description><![CDATA[If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br />Find Elizabeth:<br />All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a><br />Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53922672</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53922672/taylor_swift_feed_ep.mp3" length="87963733" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85X.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br />Find Elizabeth:<br />All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="https://gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a><br />Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5498</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>deepdive,eras,erastour,fangirl,femalemusicians,feminism,feminist,lover,misogyny,music,musicians,musicindustry,realtionships,speaknow,swifties,taylorsversion,taylorswift,tswift,women,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Vanderpump Scandals, Red Flags, and Annie!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-vanderpump-scandals-red-flags-and-annie--53890900</link><description><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie conversation unless we're bringing up those whacky kids on Bravo). In true fashion, the conversation also led to topics like reality dating show hosts, red flags in relationships, what's going on currently for us artistically, and... just what kind of bonus material can we make when it comes to misogyny being so prevalent in our culture? You have to be a Patreon member to find out all the hot gossip we have and how I was always right to think The Toms were sus at Sur.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53890900</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53890900/annie_vpr_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="17316093" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85Y.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie conversation unless we're bringing up those whacky kids on Bravo). In true fashion, the conversation also led to topics like reality dating show hosts, red flags in relationships, what's going on currently for us artistically, and... just what kind of bonus material can we make when it comes to misogyny being so prevalent in our culture? You have to be a Patreon member to find out all the hot gossip we have and how I was always right to think The Toms were sus at Sur.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1083</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>arianamadix,bonuscontent,bonusepisode,bravo,bravotv,cheating,cheatingscandal,exclusive,membersonly,patreon,realitytv,scandals,scandavol,schwartz,tomsandavol,tomtom,vanderpumprules</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Getting Your Sexy Back</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/getting-your-sexy-back--53791262</link><description><![CDATA[Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives clients the tools to unleash their s.xual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, healing and intimacy with themselves - and in their relationships! Her and Natalie dive into the ways misogyny plays a role in shaming us about our bodies, how it closes us off to our sexuality and the power it contains, and what we can do about it going forward.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Kim:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566</a><br />Instagram: @get_your_sexy_back_coach<br />Website: <a href="https://getyoursexyback.ca/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://getyoursexyback.ca/</a><br />Free gift for listeners: - <a href="https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53791262</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53791262/getting_your_sexy_back.mp3" length="52796230" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P85Z.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives clients the tools to unleash their s.xual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, healing and intimacy with themselves - and in their relationships! Her and Natalie dive into the ways misogyny plays a role in shaming us about our bodies, how it closes us off to our sexuality and the power it contains, and what we can do about it going forward.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Kim:<br />Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566</a><br />Instagram: @get_your_sexy_back_coach<br />Website: <a href="https://getyoursexyback.ca/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://getyoursexyback.ca/</a><br />Free gift for listeners: - <a href="https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3300</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>deprogramming,growing,healing,lovingyourbody,misogyny,patriarchy,relationships,selfgrowth,sexual,sexualidentity,sexuality,sexy,shame,tantric,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast,womenssexuality</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Domestic Violence Reporting and Advocacy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/domestic-violence-reporting-and-advocacy--53751735</link><description><![CDATA[Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence. Discussion will center around what policies fail people living with domestic violence, how our culture supports abusers and not the abused, and why misogyny is so prevalent that when survivors report their abuse, they often go unheard or not believed. It is an episode that offers people an insight into the reality of domestic abuse within our society, how we can advocate for those living with domestic violence, and also begins building solutions with the resources available to victims and survivors.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Amanda:Instagram: @toxicthepodcast<br />Website: <a href="https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/</a><br />Resources Mentioned in the Episode<br />Domestic Violence Hotline: <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thehotline.org/</a><br />Find a Shelter or Other Aid Near You: https://www.domesticshelters.org/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53751735</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53751735/amanda_and_domestic_violence_reporting.mp3" length="58209219" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P860.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence. Discussion will center around what policies fail people living with domestic violence, how our culture supports abusers and not the abused, and why misogyny is so prevalent that when survivors report their abuse, they often go unheard or not believed. It is an episode that offers people an insight into the reality of domestic abuse within our society, how we can advocate for those living with domestic violence, and also begins building solutions with the resources available to victims and survivors.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Amanda:Instagram: @toxicthepodcast<br />Website: <a href="https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/</a><br />Resources Mentioned in the Episode<br />Domestic Violence Hotline: <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thehotline.org/</a><br />Find a Shelter or Other Aid Near You: https://www.domesticshelters.org/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3639</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,advocacy,advocates,assault,assaultvictims,domesticabuse,domesticabuseresources,domesticabusesurvivors,domesticviolence,feminism,feminist,misogyny,reportingabuse,safety,survivors,toxicrelationships,violenceagainstwomen,women,womenpodcasters,womenssafety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Mindset Surrounding Divorce</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mindset-surrounding-divorce--53721548</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about yourself will be covered. They will also touch on how misogyny plays a role in our ideals about marriage and our knee jerk reaction to avoid divorce at all costs. Divorce will be an end to a contractual relationship, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your joy or happiness. We hope this episode gives you some more perspective on how important it is to know and love yourself instead of tiptoeing around societal expectations and ignoring what you want from your life.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Leah<br />Website: <a href="https://www.mindfullyready.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.mindfullyready.com/</a><br />Instagram: @mindfullyready]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53721548</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53721548/divorce_mindset.mp3" length="43807182" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P861.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about yourself will be covered. They will also touch on how misogyny plays a role in our ideals about marriage and our knee jerk reaction to avoid divorce at all costs. Divorce will be an end to a contractual relationship, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your joy or happiness. We hope this episode gives you some more perspective on how important it is to know and love yourself instead of tiptoeing around societal expectations and ignoring what you want from your life.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Leah<br />Website: <a href="https://www.mindfullyready.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.mindfullyready.com/</a><br />Instagram: @mindfullyready]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2738</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>breakingup,breakups,dating,divorce,divorcedmoms,divorcedwomen,feminism,feminist,marriage,mindset,misogyny,relationships,selflove,single,singlewomen,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>83</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Nerding Out with JD</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-nerding-out-with-jd--53525323</link><description><![CDATA[It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he viewed women in media. Natalie has also been a recurring guest on his current podcast, Weirdwide! The two friends give you an insight look into all the nerdy things they like to joke about when you're not privy to their conversations. They talk movies, D&amp;D, and more! But you have to be a Patreon member to hear all of it!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br />Find JD:<br /><br />Instagram: @dudeistweirdo<br />Website: www.weirdwide.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53525323</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53525323/nerding_out_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="13727077" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P862.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he viewed women in media. Natalie has also been a recurring guest on his current podcast, Weirdwide! The two friends give you an insight look into all the nerdy things they like to joke about when you're not privy to their conversations. They talk movies, D&amp;D, and more! But you have to be a Patreon member to hear all of it!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br />Find JD:<br /><br />Instagram: @dudeistweirdo<br />Website: www.weirdwide.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>858</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonus,comedy,dungeonsanddragons,feminism,feminist,friends,gaming,movies,nerdingout,nerds,patreon,teaser,trailer,tv,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Audacity is High and My Tolerance is Low</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-audacity-is-high-and-my-tolerance-is-low--53507456</link><description><![CDATA[Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong personalities to talk about how tired they are of tolerating the state of things. They have coined their new attitude about life “I wish you would try me”. For the episode they talk about the audacity of women not being paid, how they’re not being treated well, and how it's making people fragile when Dionna and Natalie want to talk about it. Join them in a feral conversation where they dare misogynists to even say something ridiculous to them.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Dionna:<br />Instagram: @exquisiteessentialsllc and @_lynaee_<br /><br />Podcast Promo for the Episode:<br />Find The Story of Woman: thestoryofwomanpodcast.com<br />Instagram: @the.storyofwoman]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53507456</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53507456/the_audacity_is_high.mp3" length="61993422" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P863.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong personalities to talk about how tired they are of tolerating the state of things. They have coined their new attitude about life “I wish you would try me”. For the episode they talk about the audacity of women not being paid, how they’re not being treated well, and how it's making people fragile when Dionna and Natalie want to talk about it. Join them in a feral conversation where they dare misogynists to even say something ridiculous to them.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Dionna:<br />Instagram: @exquisiteessentialsllc and @_lynaee_<br /><br />Podcast Promo for the Episode:<br />Find The Story of Woman: thestoryofwomanpodcast.com<br />Instagram: @the.storyofwoman]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3875</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>attitudes,audacity,dating,ego,feminism,feminist,funny,journal,life,lovelife,misogyny,relationships,theaudacity,truestory,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast,womensvoices,youcantmakethisshitup</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Women in STEM</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-in-stem--53406778</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of biology and genetics. Topics of morality and ethics within the science fields, notable women of science, and even a little witchcraft will be delved into. They will also talk about women not only taking part in the science fields but also how the way we choose to fund, study, and carry out science affects us and how misogyny manages to play a role in that process.<br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Paige:<br />Listen to For Folk’s Sake: <a href="https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake</a><br />Follow Paige on Instagram: @forfolkssakepodcast]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53406778</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Apr 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53406778/women_of_stem.mp3" length="63227655" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P864.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of biology and genetics. Topics of morality and ethics within the science fields, notable women of science, and even a little witchcraft will be delved into. They will also talk about women not only taking part in the science fields but also how the way we choose to fund, study, and carry out science affects us and how misogyny manages to play a role in that process.<br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Paige:<br />Listen to For Folk’s Sake: <a href="https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake</a><br />Follow Paige on Instagram: @forfolkssakepodcast]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3952</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>biology,engineering,feminism,feminist,genetics,misogyny,science,stem,tech,technology,women,womeninscience,womeninstem,womenintech,womenpodcasters,womensissues,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Joining The Imposter Syndrome Club</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/joining-the-imposter-syndrome-club--53392025</link><description><![CDATA[Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny makes us doubt ourselves, our talents, and sometimes has us second guessing our own thoughts or feelings. Whether it be through your job, your dating life, your family, or just the inside of your own head; it gets really hard to trust yourself and be firm in knowing who you are as a person. Jessamy and Alice are the perfect duo to help you laugh through your doubts and help you feel more connected to those around you. We’re not imposters, we’re just figuring it all out!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Jessamy and Alice:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/</a><br />Instagram: @imposterpod]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53392025</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Apr 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53392025/imposter_syndrome.mp3" length="66820850" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P865.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny makes us doubt ourselves, our talents, and sometimes has us second guessing our own thoughts or feelings. Whether it be through your job, your dating life, your family, or just the inside of your own head; it gets really hard to trust yourself and be firm in knowing who you are as a person. Jessamy and Alice are the perfect duo to help you laugh through your doubts and help you feel more connected to those around you. We’re not imposters, we’re just figuring it all out!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Jessamy and Alice:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/</a><br />Instagram: @imposterpod]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4177</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>anxiety,confidence,imposter,impostersyndrome,impostersyndromeisreal,impostorsyndrome,innercritic,mentalhealth,mentalhealthmatters,mindset,misogyny,selfcare,selfdoubt,selfesteem,selflove,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast,womensupportingwomen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: First Try at Reality Tv With Annie</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-first-try-at-reality-tv-with-annie--53202215</link><description><![CDATA[Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying to dismantle The Patriarchy. So we're kept it as part of the Patreon where you get to learn more about Nat and Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53202215</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 07:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53202215/reality_tv_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="12392951" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P866.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying to dismantle The Patriarchy. So we're kept it as part of the Patreon where you get to learn more about Nat and Team Tolerator!<br /><br />Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>775</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bachelor,comedy,femalefriendships,feminist,friendship,gossip,lisavanderpump,realhousewives,realitytv,thebachelor,thebachelorette,trashytv,tv,tvreview,tvshows,vanderpumprules,women,womenpodcasters,womenpodcasts</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Round Two of Women and Wrestling</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/round-two-of-women-and-wrestling--53229376</link><description><![CDATA[One day Natalie got a fateful text from former guest Darcie Darko. It asked “do you want to do a follow up episode on how the misogyny I experienced got worse?” This episode will take Team Tolerator back into the world of women in wrestling. Darcie will dive into how training at her wrestling school continuously got more uncomfortable. From sticking up for predators to being iced out of the ring, Darcie has tolerated a lot of poor behavior from the men who were in control of her ability to partake in her hobby and passion. We will talk about wrestling, media surrounding both women and men, and what it takes to be participating in a sport that is dominated by men. There will even be a story or two about how the scarcity mindset women live under also affects how they treat one another in these types of communities. <br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Darcie’s Plugs<br />Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre<br />Twitter: Junglegirl666]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53229376</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53229376/darcie_wrestling_2.mp3" length="69233311" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P867.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One day Natalie got a fateful text from former guest Darcie Darko. It asked “do you want to do a follow up episode on how the misogyny I experienced got worse?” This episode will take Team Tolerator back into the world of women in wrestling. Darcie...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One day Natalie got a fateful text from former guest Darcie Darko. It asked “do you want to do a follow up episode on how the misogyny I experienced got worse?” This episode will take Team Tolerator back into the world of women in wrestling. Darcie will dive into how training at her wrestling school continuously got more uncomfortable. From sticking up for predators to being iced out of the ring, Darcie has tolerated a lot of poor behavior from the men who were in control of her ability to partake in her hobby and passion. We will talk about wrestling, media surrounding both women and men, and what it takes to be participating in a sport that is dominated by men. There will even be a story or two about how the scarcity mindset women live under also affects how they treat one another in these types of communities. <br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Darcie’s Plugs<br />Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre<br />Twitter: Junglegirl666]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4328</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>femaleathletes,femalewrestlers,feminism,feminist,misogyny,prowrestling,smackdown,sports,training,women,womenandwrestling,womeninsports,womenpodcasters,womenspodcasts,womenwrestlers,wrestlers,wrestling,wwe,wweraw</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>79</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Gatekeeping in the Art World</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/gatekeeping-in-the-art-world--53087907</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined once again by the loveliest of friends, Annie Sieg. Annie has been on to talk about reality tv and your body inspiring art, but now we will get to hear her speak on the gatekeeping that happens within the art community. This episode is inspired by her content series about uplifting artistic voices that aren’t your typical, old crusty white dude and her dedication to making artistic creativity, art history, and art techniques accessible and available to those who want to have more art in their lives. The women talk about how misogyny, capitalism, scarcity mindset, and rigid education standards can diminish one's faith in their own artistic expression.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53087907</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53087907/gatekeeping_in_art.mp3" length="71607737" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P868.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined once again by the loveliest of friends, Annie Sieg. Annie has been on to talk about reality tv and your body inspiring art, but now we will get to hear her speak on the gatekeeping that happens within the art community. This episode...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined once again by the loveliest of friends, Annie Sieg. Annie has been on to talk about reality tv and your body inspiring art, but now we will get to hear her speak on the gatekeeping that happens within the art community. This episode is inspired by her content series about uplifting artistic voices that aren’t your typical, old crusty white dude and her dedication to making artistic creativity, art history, and art techniques accessible and available to those who want to have more art in their lives. The women talk about how misogyny, capitalism, scarcity mindset, and rigid education standards can diminish one's faith in their own artistic expression.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Annie:<br />Instagram: @aksieg<br />Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4476</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>art,artist,creative,creativity,drawing,feminism,feminist,gatekeeping,misogyny,painter,painting,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Negging Isn't Flirting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/negging-isn-t-flirting--53076076</link><description><![CDATA[This week, we have Natalie New back on the podcast. Listeners will remember Natalie from our episode about gatekeeping in the geek community. For this episode, Natalie and Natalie New will be discussing what happens to a relationship when negging goes too far. They will talk about the effects of negging on the communication in a relationship and how it can break down trust between the partners. They’ll pull from their own relationships, their own behaviors, and use media examples like Critical Role to demonstrate why they wish people would choose a better way to express their sense of humor. Comedy is gold, but the time for comedy at your loved ones expense is getting outdated!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Natalie New:<br />Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu<br />Join the Discord Server: The Mushroom Menagerie <a href="https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8</a><br /><br />Show Plugged This Week: <a href="https://www.fatchicksontop.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fat Chicks on Top</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53076076</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53076076/negging_isn_flirting_ad.mp3" length="61995093" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P869.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, we have Natalie New back on the podcast. Listeners will remember Natalie from our episode about gatekeeping in the geek community. For this episode, Natalie and Natalie New will be discussing what happens to a relationship when negging goes...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, we have Natalie New back on the podcast. Listeners will remember Natalie from our episode about gatekeeping in the geek community. For this episode, Natalie and Natalie New will be discussing what happens to a relationship when negging goes too far. They will talk about the effects of negging on the communication in a relationship and how it can break down trust between the partners. They’ll pull from their own relationships, their own behaviors, and use media examples like Critical Role to demonstrate why they wish people would choose a better way to express their sense of humor. Comedy is gold, but the time for comedy at your loved ones expense is getting outdated!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Natalie New:<br />Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu<br />Join the Discord Server: The Mushroom Menagerie <a href="https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8</a><br /><br />Show Plugged This Week: <a href="https://www.fatchicksontop.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fat Chicks on Top</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3875</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,feminism,feminist,flirt,flirting,flirty,friendships,gaslighting,humor,joking,justajoke,love,men,menarecancelled,misogyny,negging,relationships,tindernightmares,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>75</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Loving Your Relationship With Food</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/loving-your-relationship-with-food--52831652</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Kiki Athanas. Kiki is the founder of Mind, Body, Beauty which allows her to help women overcome the negative mindsets they have surrounding food and diets. The two women talk about diet culture, restricting your food choices, how to set boundaries between yourself and your headspace around food, and how to ignore or combat the way the people around you talk about the food you are consuming and how you should be eating. Whether it be codependency, Capitalism, or misogyny; we have been fed a lot of harmful information about the food we eat and how we should feel about the act of nourishing our bodies. It is time to start seeing eating as an act of self-love and not a service to the people around you or the society you live in.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Kiki:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.kikiathanas.com/apply-to-work-with-kiki" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.kikiathanas.com/apply-to-work-with-kiki</a><br />Instagram: @kiki_athanas]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52831652</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Mar 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52831652/loving_your_relationship_with_food.mp3" length="59307198" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86A.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by Kiki Athanas. Kiki is the founder of Mind, Body, Beauty which allows her to help women overcome the negative mindsets they have surrounding food and diets. The two women talk about diet culture, restricting your food...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Kiki Athanas. Kiki is the founder of Mind, Body, Beauty which allows her to help women overcome the negative mindsets they have surrounding food and diets. The two women talk about diet culture, restricting your food choices, how to set boundaries between yourself and your headspace around food, and how to ignore or combat the way the people around you talk about the food you are consuming and how you should be eating. Whether it be codependency, Capitalism, or misogyny; we have been fed a lot of harmful information about the food we eat and how we should feel about the act of nourishing our bodies. It is time to start seeing eating as an act of self-love and not a service to the people around you or the society you live in.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Kiki:<br />Website: <a href="https://www.kikiathanas.com/apply-to-work-with-kiki" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.kikiathanas.com/apply-to-work-with-kiki</a><br />Instagram: @kiki_athanas]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3707</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>allfoodsfit,antidiet,beautystandards,bodylove,bodypositivity,diet,dietculture,dieting,emotionaleating,fatphobia,food,health,intuitiveeating,lifestyle,mentalhealth,mindfuleating,nutrition,selflove,weightbias,weightloss</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Natalie's Visit with Elizabeth Kyle</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-natalie-s-visit-with-elizabeth-kyle--52683288</link><description><![CDATA[This is your sneak peek into our July 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! This episode was a great check in with Elizabeth Kyle, a guest we've loved from 90's Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma. Nat and Elizabeth get into the woes of a summer without AC, Nat's trip to visit Elizabeth for her birthday, self comfort techniques for adults, and more! Join the Patreon so each month you get a bonus insight to Natalie's life and friendship with one of our guests.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52683288</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52683288/elizabeth_summer_patreon_teaser.mp3" length="11853784" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86B.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is your sneak peek into our July 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! This episode was a great check in with Elizabeth Kyle, a guest we've loved from 90's Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma. Nat and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is your sneak peek into our July 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! This episode was a great check in with Elizabeth Kyle, a guest we've loved from 90's Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma. Nat and Elizabeth get into the woes of a summer without AC, Nat's trip to visit Elizabeth for her birthday, self comfort techniques for adults, and more! Join the Patreon so each month you get a bonus insight to Natalie's life and friendship with one of our guests.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>741</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bonus,cats,chat,friends,friendship,girltalk,horror,patreon,patrons,preview,scarymovies,teaser,trailer,travelling,trips,women,womenfriendships,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>trailer</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Princess Syndrome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-princess-syndrome--52662075</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by home organizer and owner of Tidy Revival, Carly Adams! They are discussing the internalized messages they received as children that Carly has deemed “The Princess Syndrome”. Smiling through discomfort, being demure and polite, not speaking up for your wants, and more have been ingrained in little girls’ brains whether it be through a cartoon princess movie or by their role models telling them how to behave like good little girls. Carly and Natalie unpack all the things they were given as tips for “catching that man” and how it hasn’t really served them that well when it comes to confidence, mental health, and more!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Carly:<br />Instagram: @tidyrevival<br />Podcast: The Tidy Revival Podcast<br />Website: https://www.tidyrevival.com/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52662075</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52662075/princess_syndrome.mp3" length="61464285" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86C.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by home organizer and owner of Tidy Revival, Carly Adams! They are discussing the internalized messages they received as children that Carly has deemed “The Princess Syndrome”. Smiling through discomfort, being demure and polite, not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by home organizer and owner of Tidy Revival, Carly Adams! They are discussing the internalized messages they received as children that Carly has deemed “The Princess Syndrome”. Smiling through discomfort, being demure and polite, not speaking up for your wants, and more have been ingrained in little girls’ brains whether it be through a cartoon princess movie or by their role models telling them how to behave like good little girls. Carly and Natalie unpack all the things they were given as tips for “catching that man” and how it hasn’t really served them that well when it comes to confidence, mental health, and more!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Carly:<br />Instagram: @tidyrevival<br />Podcast: The Tidy Revival Podcast<br />Website: https://www.tidyrevival.com/]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3842</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,conditioning,dating,daughters,disneyprincess,disneyprincesses,feminism,feminist,goodgirls,husbands,mindset,podcast,princess,relationships,sexandthecity,smile,sweetgirls,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>All or Nothing Thinking</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/all-or-nothing-thinking--52553634</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie joined by Kate House, host of the podcast  Live By Design. Kate has built her career around helping people live intentionally. Her and Natalie sit down to discuss the toxicity of the “all or nothing” mindset. Natalie expresses how when it comes to relationships, she has often found herself at her wits end and wanting to quit but instead holds onto the relationship so she doesn’t fail. The women discuss how capitalism, religious cultures, societal pressures to be perfect, and more have created this idea that if you’re not going to be great at something, then don’t do it. Listen to the women discuss different ways to release this toxic mindset and move forward in lives with a little more grace for mistakes and a lot more agency in their choices.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find KateWebsite: <a href="https://mskatehouse.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://mskatehouse.com</a><br />Podcast: Live By DesignInstagram: @mskatehouse]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52553634</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52553634/all_or_nothing_thinking.mp3" length="56760991" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86D.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie joined by Kate House, host of the podcast  Live By Design. Kate has built her career around helping people live intentionally. Her and Natalie sit down to discuss the toxicity of the “all or nothing” mindset. Natalie expresses how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie joined by Kate House, host of the podcast  Live By Design. Kate has built her career around helping people live intentionally. Her and Natalie sit down to discuss the toxicity of the “all or nothing” mindset. Natalie expresses how when it comes to relationships, she has often found herself at her wits end and wanting to quit but instead holds onto the relationship so she doesn’t fail. The women discuss how capitalism, religious cultures, societal pressures to be perfect, and more have created this idea that if you’re not going to be great at something, then don’t do it. Listen to the women discuss different ways to release this toxic mindset and move forward in lives with a little more grace for mistakes and a lot more agency in their choices.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find KateWebsite: <a href="https://mskatehouse.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://mskatehouse.com</a><br />Podcast: Live By DesignInstagram: @mskatehouse]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3548</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>allornothing,breakups,changeyourmindset,dating,emotionalwellness,feminism,feminist,growthmindset,mentalhealth,mindset,mindsetmatters,misogyny,positivethinking,relationships,thepatriarchy,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Single Mom's Experience</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-single-mom-s-experience--52532001</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous is back to discuss her experiences as a single mom. Julia had her child when she was nineteen years old. She’s come on the show to discuss with Natalie misconceptions they had about women who became single moms and how that was formed by the media and the influences of society and culture. Julia is open and honest about the struggles of being a single mom and also living with the assumed identity of single mothers. Privilege, capitalism, and misogyny are all big players in this episode.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashingtonWebsite: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52532001</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52532001/single_mom.mp3" length="96959051" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86E.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous is back to discuss her experiences as a single mom. Julia had her child when she was nineteen years old. She’s come on the show to discuss with Natalie misconceptions they had about women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous is back to discuss her experiences as a single mom. Julia had her child when she was nineteen years old. She’s come on the show to discuss with Natalie misconceptions they had about women who became single moms and how that was formed by the media and the influences of society and culture. Julia is open and honest about the struggles of being a single mom and also living with the assumed identity of single mothers. Privilege, capitalism, and misogyny are all big players in this episode.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />Find Julia:<br />On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashingtonWebsite: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6060</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,misogyny,mom,momgoals,momlife,mommylife,moms,momslove,momsunite,motherhood,singlemom,singlemoms,singlemomsrock,singleparenting,soleparenting,strongmotherhood,women,womenpodcasters,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Patreon Teaser: Nat and Steph Deal with the Holidays</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/patreon-teaser-nat-and-steph-deal-with-the-holidays--52424709</link><description><![CDATA[This is your sneak peek into our December 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! Stephanie and Nat have been friends for over twenty years and have been there for one another during every holiday seasons. They talk candidly about how the holidays as adults have been more of a struggle and sometimes twinkle lights aren't enough to convince them otherwise. Want to hear a very honest, unedited take on families during the holidays? You have to join out Patreon!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52424709</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52424709/christmas_patreon_22_teaser.mp3" length="11633937" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86F.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is your sneak peek into our December 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! Stephanie and Nat have been friends for over twenty years and have been there for one another during every holiday seasons. They talk candidly about how the holidays as adults...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is your sneak peek into our December 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! Stephanie and Nat have been friends for over twenty years and have been there for one another during every holiday seasons. They talk candidly about how the holidays as adults have been more of a struggle and sometimes twinkle lights aren't enough to convince them otherwise. Want to hear a very honest, unedited take on families during the holidays? You have to join out Patreon!<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>728</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adults,christmas,exclusive,families,familyholidays,holidays,holidaystories,millenials,patreon,seasonaldepression,sneakpeek,teaser,trailer,winter</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>100 First Online Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/100-first-online-dates--52404340</link><description><![CDATA[<b> Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their looks, or their expectations for their dates. They touch on how their strategies for online dating have changed through their experiences and how at the end of it all, they’re always going to choose to be themselves and make sure they are getting what they want too. Join in for the laughs, the trials, and the lessons of all those dating apps and swiping the two women have done over the years! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Maria on Instagram and Tiktok @mariapendo. Her website is voicebymaria.com.</b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52404340</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52404340/online_first_dates.mp3" length="69115446" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86G.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b> Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their looks, or their expectations for their dates. They touch on how their strategies for online dating have changed through their experiences and how at the end of it all, they’re always going to choose to be themselves and make sure they are getting what they want too. Join in for the laughs, the trials, and the lessons of all those dating apps and swiping the two women have done over the years! </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Maria on Instagram and Tiktok @mariapendo. Her website is voicebymaria.com.</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4320</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>baddates,bumble,comedy,dates,dating,datingapps,datingmen,feminism,feminist,firstdates,gooddates,hinge,men,misogyny,onlinedating,relationships,tindr,women,womencreators</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Working Behind the Scenes of Hollywood</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/working-behind-the-scenes-of-hollywood--52316867</link><description><![CDATA[<b>Natalie this week is joined by Kathy Bakken, one of the hosts of the Cinemondo Podcast. Kathy works behind the scenes or “post set” on some of your favorite movies and shows. She is behind some of the most recognizable movie posters that get you excited to go to the movies.She joins the show to talk about misogyny behind the scenes of Hollywood and what it is like being a woman working in the movie industry. Topics span from job scarcity, pay discrimination, office misbehavior, and more. The two women even work in some laughs about their favorite movies and what happens when you’re face to face with talented, famous people.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kathy:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Cinemondo Podcast on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@CinemondoPodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.youtube.com/@CinemondoPodcast</a></b><br /><b>Instagram: @cinemondopodcast and @kbakken </b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52316867</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52316867/behind_the_scenes_with_kathy.mp3" length="76605275" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86H.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie this week is joined by Kathy Bakken, one of the hosts of the Cinemondo Podcast. Kathy works behind the scenes or “post set” on some of your favorite movies and shows. She is behind some of the most recognizable movie posters that get you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>Natalie this week is joined by Kathy Bakken, one of the hosts of the Cinemondo Podcast. Kathy works behind the scenes or “post set” on some of your favorite movies and shows. She is behind some of the most recognizable movie posters that get you excited to go to the movies.She joins the show to talk about misogyny behind the scenes of Hollywood and what it is like being a woman working in the movie industry. Topics span from job scarcity, pay discrimination, office misbehavior, and more. The two women even work in some laughs about their favorite movies and what happens when you’re face to face with talented, famous people.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. </b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Kathy:</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Cinemondo Podcast on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@CinemondoPodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.youtube.com/@CinemondoPodcast</a></b><br /><b>Instagram: @cinemondopodcast and @kbakken </b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4788</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>behindthescenes,celebrities,celebrity,culture,fame,feminism,feminist,hollywood,jobs,movie,moviereview,movies,television,tv,women,womenatwork,womensissues,womensrights,workculture,workenvironment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Love and Sex Addiction</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-and-sex-addiction--52309404</link><description><![CDATA[<b>We are officially back for season 3! For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex Addict. Her and Natalie discuss how triggers present themselves in our normal society and how that affects you when you are recovering from codependency, love, or sex addiction. They speak honestly about how they feel they were put on this path to crave love and affection from people who were not capable of giving it and what steps they have taken to heal themselves. A last theme of the episodes is how secrets play a role in how we view our lives and our stories and what secrets hold us back from.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Brianne:</b><br /><b>Amazon: <a href="https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL%5C" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL\</a> </b><br /><b>Website: <a href="https://secretlifenovel.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://secretlifenovel.com</a> </b><br /><b>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499</a> I</b><b>nstagram:@thebriannedavis @secretlifenovel @secretlifepodcast Tiktok: @the.briannedavis</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Special Mentions:</b><br /><b>We have a clip from @pnwhauntsandhomicides featured in our episode this week! You can find their show at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pnw-haunts-homicides/id1566754620.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Please contact us at menivetoleratedbefore@gmail.com if you are a podcast or small business that would like to be featured as an ad on the show!</b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52309404</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 08:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/52309404/love_sex_addiction_pnw.mp3" length="62203464" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86J.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are officially back for season 3! For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>We are officially back for season 3! For this episode, Natalie is joined by the host of the podcast Secret Life, Brianne Davis. Brianne has over 12 years of recovery experience with sex and love addiction and is the author of Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex Addict. Her and Natalie discuss how triggers present themselves in our normal society and how that affects you when you are recovering from codependency, love, or sex addiction. They speak honestly about how they feel they were put on this path to crave love and affection from people who were not capable of giving it and what steps they have taken to heal themselves. A last theme of the episodes is how secrets play a role in how we view our lives and our stories and what secrets hold us back from.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Find Brianne:</b><br /><b>Amazon: <a href="https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL%5C" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://amzn.to/2MjsjvL\</a> </b><br /><b>Website: <a href="https://secretlifenovel.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://secretlifenovel.com</a> </b><br /><b>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secret-life/id1521171499</a> I</b><b>nstagram:@thebriannedavis @secretlifenovel @secretlifepodcast Tiktok: @the.briannedavis</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Special Mentions:</b><br /><b>We have a clip from @pnwhauntsandhomicides featured in our episode this week! You can find their show at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pnw-haunts-homicides/id1566754620.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Please contact us at menivetoleratedbefore@gmail.com if you are a podcast or small business that would like to be featured as an ad on the show!</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3888</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>addiction,codependency,culture,dating,healing,love,loveaddiction,misogny,recovery,relationships,secrets,sex,sexaddiction,sexuality,society</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Practical Magic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-practical-magic--51902356</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51902356</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51902356/still_comfy_practical_magic_final.mp3" length="63245627" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86K.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3953</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>alicehoffman,halloween,magic,magick,midnightmargaritas,nicolekidman,practicalmagic,practicalmagicmovie,sandrabullock,tarot,thecraft,witch,witchcraft,witches,witchesofig,witchesofinstagram,witchy,witchythings,witchyvibes,witchywoman</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Thelma And Louise</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-thelma-and-louise--51902146</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51902146</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51902146/still_comfy_thelma_and_louise_final.mp3" length="96541092" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86M.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6034</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bradpitt,chickflick,cinema,film,fury,ginadavis,hollywood,movie,movies,nineties,nostalgia,roadtrip,sexualassault,susansarandon,thelmaandlouise,womeninfilm</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Don't Worry Darling</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-don-t-worry-darling--51899784</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51899784</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2022 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51899784/still_comfy_dont_worry_darling.mp3" length="91566959" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86N.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5723</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>amas,comfortmovie,dontworrydarling,femaledirectors,goldenharrystyles,harold,harrystylesgucci,harrystylesupdates,harrystylesvideos,littlewomen,midsommar,movie,moviereview,movies,oliviawilde,proudofharry,signofthetimes,variety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Mamma Mia</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-mamma-mia--51899311</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51899311</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2022 08:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51899311/still_comfy_mamma_mia_final.mp3" length="86445288" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86P.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5403</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abba,broadway,comfortmovie,dancingqueen,greece,livestream,mammamia,mammamiamusical,merylstreep,moviemusicals,moviereview,moviereviews,music,musical,musicals,musicaltheatre,theatre</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Still Comfy? Now and Then</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/still-comfy-now-and-then--51899097</link><description><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51899097</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51899097/now_and_then_still_comfy_final.mp3" length="95469444" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86Q.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at <a href="https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf." rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.</a><br /> <br />While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5967</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christinaricci,comfortmovie,comfy,demimoore,favoritemovie,favoritemovies,girlhood,growingup,livestream,movie,moviereviews,nineties,nostalgia,nowandthen,preteens,rosieodonell,soundtracks,teendramas,teenmovies,thorabirch</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Hocus Pocus Still Comfy Teaser</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/hocus-pocus-still-comfy-teaser--51889343</link><description><![CDATA[Happy Holidays! We are on our seasonal holiday break until 2023. Please, enjoy this teaser from one of our Patreon Episodes that is a Still Comfy? episode with Juls Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. The episode is reviewing Hocus Pocus and Hocus Pocus 2. In order to listen to the full episode, you can join our Patreon at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51889343</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51889343/hocus_pocus_still_comfy_teaser.mp3" length="15860341" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86R.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Happy Holidays! We are on our seasonal holiday break until 2023. Please, enjoy this teaser from one of our Patreon Episodes that is a Still Comfy? episode with Juls Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. The episode is reviewing Hocus Pocus and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Happy Holidays! We are on our seasonal holiday break until 2023. Please, enjoy this teaser from one of our Patreon Episodes that is a Still Comfy? episode with Juls Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. The episode is reviewing Hocus Pocus and Hocus Pocus 2. In order to listen to the full episode, you can join our Patreon at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br />All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>992</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>collaboration,comfy,hocuspocus,hocuspocus2,moviereview,patreon,preview,teaser,witch,witchcraft,witches</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Staying Safe</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/staying-safe--51778171</link><description><![CDATA[This is a very special season 2 finale episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! We are joined by some of our favorite guests from past episodes. Annie Sieg, Caitlin Grant, and Julia Washington are back and we’re all talking about all the different ways women keep themselves safe from harm. Whether it is physical safety during the night, at home, or literally anywhere a woman has to be alone or in a vulnerable position, there are a lot of tips and tricks that young women have been taught for decades on how they take ownership of making themselves safe. Why are women so responsible for getting home alive and well instead of living in a world where they can count on everyone respecting their right to safety? Come discuss it with all of us!<br /><br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /><br />Follow Annie, Juls, and Caitlin at @aksieg, @popculturemakesmejealous, and @plugituppod. Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Plug It Up can be found wherever you listen to podcasts. Annie is an amazing creator on both TikTok as AnnieMakesArt and runs a YouTube channel.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51778171</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51778171/staying_safe_final.mp3" length="92170075" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86S.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is a very special season 2 finale episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! We are joined by some of our favorite guests from past episodes. Annie Sieg, Caitlin Grant, and Julia Washington are back and we’re all talking about all the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is a very special season 2 finale episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! We are joined by some of our favorite guests from past episodes. Annie Sieg, Caitlin Grant, and Julia Washington are back and we’re all talking about all the different ways women keep themselves safe from harm. Whether it is physical safety during the night, at home, or literally anywhere a woman has to be alone or in a vulnerable position, there are a lot of tips and tricks that young women have been taught for decades on how they take ownership of making themselves safe. Why are women so responsible for getting home alive and well instead of living in a world where they can count on everyone respecting their right to safety? Come discuss it with all of us!<br /><br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /><br />Follow Annie, Juls, and Caitlin at @aksieg, @popculturemakesmejealous, and @plugituppod. Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Plug It Up can be found wherever you listen to podcasts. Annie is an amazing creator on both TikTok as AnnieMakesArt and runs a YouTube channel.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5761</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>danger,feminism,feminist,roundtable,safe,safety,safetymeasures,selfdefense,stayingsafe,women,womenssafety</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Women and Wealth</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-and-wealth--51754352</link><description><![CDATA[Kelly Winget is on the podcast this week to speak on managing wealth, whether it is yours or you’ve been employed to manage someone else’s, and what that world looks like for women. Kelly is a financial entrepreneur and founder of Dallas-based private equity company Alternative Wealth Partners. She has built her career with a fierceness that demanded respect from men in the wealth industry and oil industry. There’s more reflections on how women are spoken to about money, what happens when men are confronted with a woman who knows how to manage wealth, and who is making moves to make sure women’s voices are being heard in the world of money. The best piece of advice given during the episode? When being talked down to about your money, ask if there is a woman who is able to help you that is hired by the company.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Kelly:<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/</a><br />Instagram: @kellyannwinget]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51754352</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51754352/wealth_with_kelly_ads.mp3" length="63104775" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86T.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kelly Winget is on the podcast this week to speak on managing wealth, whether it is yours or you’ve been employed to manage someone else’s, and what that world looks like for women. Kelly is a financial entrepreneur and founder of Dallas-based private...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kelly Winget is on the podcast this week to speak on managing wealth, whether it is yours or you’ve been employed to manage someone else’s, and what that world looks like for women. Kelly is a financial entrepreneur and founder of Dallas-based private equity company Alternative Wealth Partners. She has built her career with a fierceness that demanded respect from men in the wealth industry and oil industry. There’s more reflections on how women are spoken to about money, what happens when men are confronted with a woman who knows how to manage wealth, and who is making moves to make sure women’s voices are being heard in the world of money. The best piece of advice given during the episode? When being talked down to about your money, ask if there is a woman who is able to help you that is hired by the company.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Kelly:<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/</a><br />Instagram: @kellyannwinget]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3945</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,finances,financialliteracy,financials,money,wealth,wealthmanagement,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Presenting the News and Knowing Your Audience</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/presenting-the-news-and-knowing-your-audience--51638574</link><description><![CDATA[Stacey Simms, host of Diabetes Connections and author of The World’s Worst Diabetes Mom, is Natalie’s guest this week to talk about her career in morning news. Natalie and Stacey have a conversation about women being overlooked for promotion, proving their worth in the workplace, and how to have honest conversations with your co-workers about what it means to be a woman in the workplace. They also dissect what it means to use your knowledge about your audience to your advantage when presenting topics that may be out of their comfort zone or what happens when your audience’s comfort zone dictates what you get to present to the public. The episode rounds out with a discussion on building a community around diabetes and how important it is to understand someone else’s experience in a community you take space within. It is an episode that brings together two women from different generations who have a lot in common, even if their approach to their place in the general media takes different notes or tones.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Stacey on all platforms at @staceysimms]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51638574</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51638574/stacey_news_ads.mp3" length="62428099" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86V.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Stacey Simms, host of Diabetes Connections and author of The World’s Worst Diabetes Mom, is Natalie’s guest this week to talk about her career in morning news. Natalie and Stacey have a conversation about women being overlooked for promotion, proving...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stacey Simms, host of Diabetes Connections and author of The World’s Worst Diabetes Mom, is Natalie’s guest this week to talk about her career in morning news. Natalie and Stacey have a conversation about women being overlooked for promotion, proving their worth in the workplace, and how to have honest conversations with your co-workers about what it means to be a woman in the workplace. They also dissect what it means to use your knowledge about your audience to your advantage when presenting topics that may be out of their comfort zone or what happens when your audience’s comfort zone dictates what you get to present to the public. The episode rounds out with a discussion on building a community around diabetes and how important it is to understand someone else’s experience in a community you take space within. It is an episode that brings together two women from different generations who have a lot in common, even if their approach to their place in the general media takes different notes or tones.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Stacey on all platforms at @staceysimms]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3902</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>audience,feminism,feminist,genx,knowyouraudience,millenials,morningnews,news,newscoverage,women,womenbroadcasters,womeninnews,womenintheworkplace,workingwomen,workplaceenvironment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>69</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Our First Birthday Bash</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/our-first-birthday-bash--51626590</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie wanted to take a moment to celebrate when To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before reached one year of podcasting! This is a pre-recorded live episode on the platform Fireside. We will be diving into reality tv, relationship tropes we fall into, creepy dates, and more. Thank you to everyone who celebrated with us and those who are still celebrating our show! If you would like to watch us live on Fireside, please follow us at fireside.com/nataliekatona.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51626590</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2022 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51626590/fireside_birthday_ads_pod_swap.mp3" length="70473826" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86W.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie wanted to take a moment to celebrate when To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before reached one year of podcasting! This is a pre-recorded live episode on the platform Fireside. We will be diving into reality tv, relationship tropes we fall into,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie wanted to take a moment to celebrate when To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before reached one year of podcasting! This is a pre-recorded live episode on the platform Fireside. We will be diving into reality tv, relationship tropes we fall into, creepy dates, and more. Thank you to everyone who celebrated with us and those who are still celebrating our show! If you would like to watch us live on Fireside, please follow us at fireside.com/nataliekatona.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4405</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>birthday,celebration,datingshows,fox,hulu,loveisblind,marriedatfirstsight,netflix,party,realitytv,tv,ultimatum</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fair Play and Weaponized Incompetence</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fair-play-and-weaponized-incompetence--51625713</link><description><![CDATA[ Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Laura:<br /><br />Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51625713</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51625713/weaponized_incompetence_ads.mp3" length="68164589" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86X.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle> Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[ Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.<br /><br />Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.<br /><br /> “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! <br /><br />Find Laura:<br /><br />Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4261</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>boundaries,communication,dating,fairness,fairplay,ignorance,marriage,relationships,weaponizedincompetence,workenvironment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Too Young To Be Taken Seriously</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/too-young-to-be-taken-seriously--51577739</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show With Ellen Moore. Natalie at 33 years old and Ellen just almost at 23 years old have something in common, they have a hard time being taken seriously. Whether it be at work, with their families and friends, or when it comes to money and finances, each woman will discuss how they knew being a young woman played a role in how they were unable to be taken seriously or be heard. They will also call out the systems that make it easy to disregard young women and what happens when women are unable to use their voice and power.     Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.     “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!     Find Ellen:   Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore   Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ebdf4b28-4ded-4e33-bf3d-5bc19694e9f4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577739/too_young_ads.mp3" length="62200311" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86Y.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show With Ellen Moore. Natalie at 33 years old and Ellen just almost at 23 years old have something in common, they have a hard time being taken seriously. Whether it be at work, with their families...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show With Ellen Moore. Natalie at 33 years old and Ellen just almost at 23 years old have something in common, they have a hard time being taken seriously. Whether it be at work, with their families and friends, or when it comes to money and finances, each woman will discuss how they knew being a young woman played a role in how they were unable to be taken seriously or be heard. They will also call out the systems that make it easy to disregard young women and what happens when women are unable to use their voice and power.     Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.     “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!     Find Ellen:   Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore   Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3888</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,finances,misogyny,naive,seriously,supportingwomen,women,work,workenvironment,young,youngwomen</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Learning Your Truth and Trusting Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/learning-your-truth-and-trusting-yourself--51577751</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Shohreh Davoodi, author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of Conjuring Up Courage. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their guts or trust what their bodies were thinking, their hearts were feeling, or their brains were thinking. Shohreh will go through her experience with discovering her sexuality and identifying as a lesbian. This hits home with Natalie as she grapples with what dating and her own romantic life may look like in the future as she re-examines who it is she is actually attracted to and interested in, The women will dive deep on how it is okay to experiment, what it means to take chances even if they may be wrong, and how we deserve a society that gives us a safe place to try new things if that’s what we need to do.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.  “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Shohreh: Instagram: @shohrehdavoodi Website: <a href="https://shohrehdavoodi.com/" rel="noopener">https://shohrehdavoodi.com/</a> Podcast: Conjuring Up Courage]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e8f8e608-38af-4a64-aa8a-3dee1ec0721c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2022 07:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577751/trusting_yourself_ads.mp3" length="63967443" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P86Z.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by Shohreh Davoodi, author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of Conjuring Up Courage. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Shohreh Davoodi, author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of Conjuring Up Courage. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their guts or trust what their bodies were thinking, their hearts were feeling, or their brains were thinking. Shohreh will go through her experience with discovering her sexuality and identifying as a lesbian. This hits home with Natalie as she grapples with what dating and her own romantic life may look like in the future as she re-examines who it is she is actually attracted to and interested in, The women will dive deep on how it is okay to experiment, what it means to take chances even if they may be wrong, and how we deserve a society that gives us a safe place to try new things if that’s what we need to do.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.  “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Shohreh: Instagram: @shohrehdavoodi Website: <a href="https://shohrehdavoodi.com/" rel="noopener">https://shohrehdavoodi.com/</a> Podcast: Conjuring Up Courage]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3998</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,experimenting,feminism,feminist,gayissues,gayrights,impostersyndrome,lgbtq,queer,relationships,selftrust,sexuality,trust,truth,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>66</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Trial of Shawn Hunter and Dawson Leery</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-trial-of-shawn-hunter-and-dawson-leery--51577741</link><description><![CDATA[Don’t miss the fun when Natalie Katona looks back at how the ‘90s male TV heartthrobs she grew up watching. Her and guest Elizabeth, from former episodes 90s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma, will put on trial the two male protagonists they think set them up for the worst relationship patterns. Who was the worst heartthrob to be attracted to? Was it Shawn Hunter? Dawson Leery? Or a surprise write in vote? Find out on this live Fireside episode that features live audience participation! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can follow the live show and see video of this episode at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">044998e7-7b1c-4176-83cf-57a63e1b5b84</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 07:00:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577741/protagonist_trials_ads.mp3" length="60421895" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P870.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Don’t miss the fun when Natalie Katona looks back at how the ‘90s male TV heartthrobs she grew up watching. Her and guest Elizabeth, from former episodes 90s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma, will put on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Don’t miss the fun when Natalie Katona looks back at how the ‘90s male TV heartthrobs she grew up watching. Her and guest Elizabeth, from former episodes 90s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma, will put on trial the two male protagonists they think set them up for the worst relationship patterns. Who was the worst heartthrob to be attracted to? Was it Shawn Hunter? Dawson Leery? Or a surprise write in vote? Find out on this live Fireside episode that features live audience participation! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can follow the live show and see video of this episode at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3777</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>90s,boymeetsworld,comedy,dating,dawsonscreek,millenials,millenialtv,nineties,protagonists,relationships,television,trial,tvreview</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Healing After Your Worst Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-after-your-worst-relationship--51577753</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie was honored to be joined by Katie Ploss as she shares the story of the relationship that had the most hurt within it. Katie and Natalie talk about what it means to be in a relationship you know is hurting you and what happens in the days after the relationship is over. The women come together to both laugh and reflect on how they’ve changed since their hurtful relationships and the growth they are grateful to experience.    Content warning: Episode makes mention of both sexual assault and abortion. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Katie: Instagram for Bitch You Need to Hear This: @byouneedtohearthis Katie’s Instagram: @kayplossy Website: <a href="https://www.katieploss.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.katieploss.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ac356853-d23d-4a3b-a54d-1df07389a953</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2022 07:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577753/after_your_worst_relationship_ads.mp3" length="81952226" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P871.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie was honored to be joined by Katie Ploss as she shares the story of the relationship that had the most hurt within it. Katie and Natalie talk about what it means to be in a relationship you know is hurting you and what happens in the days after...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie was honored to be joined by Katie Ploss as she shares the story of the relationship that had the most hurt within it. Katie and Natalie talk about what it means to be in a relationship you know is hurting you and what happens in the days after the relationship is over. The women come together to both laugh and reflect on how they’ve changed since their hurtful relationships and the growth they are grateful to experience.    Content warning: Episode makes mention of both sexual assault and abortion. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Katie: Instagram for Bitch You Need to Hear This: @byouneedtohearthis Katie’s Instagram: @kayplossy Website: <a href="https://www.katieploss.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.katieploss.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5123</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abortion,abortionrights,breakingup,dating,endingrelationships,feminism,feminist,healing,relationships,roevwade,toxic relationships,women,womenshealthcare</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>65</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Representation Matters</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/representation-matters--51577761</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie sits with director and producer Jon Lee Brody to tackle conversations on why representation in media matters and the experience one has when you fight for representation in that field. The pair will discuss moments in their careers where they became the voice in the room speaking for people that needed additional backing to make sure they were given the respect and treatment warranted to them. They also dive into how you represent yourself during tough situations or humbling moments is also a really great indicator to how you’ve grown or another indicator that we still have a long way to go when it comes to tackling topics such as diversity in film, education in our schools that includes everyone’s story, and what happens when your ego is dealt a blow.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Jon: Instagram: @jonleebrody Reel Psychology: <a href="https://firesidechat.com/reelpsychology" rel="noopener">https://firesidechat.com/reelpsychology</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9c9d37c8-e996-438e-bc28-70f4757a1f6d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2022 07:00:31 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577761/jon_lee_brody_representation_ads.mp3" length="79756687" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P872.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie sits with director and producer Jon Lee Brody to tackle conversations on why representation in media matters and the experience one has when you fight for representation in that field. The pair will discuss moments in their careers...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie sits with director and producer Jon Lee Brody to tackle conversations on why representation in media matters and the experience one has when you fight for representation in that field. The pair will discuss moments in their careers where they became the voice in the room speaking for people that needed additional backing to make sure they were given the respect and treatment warranted to them. They also dive into how you represent yourself during tough situations or humbling moments is also a really great indicator to how you’ve grown or another indicator that we still have a long way to go when it comes to tackling topics such as diversity in film, education in our schools that includes everyone’s story, and what happens when your ego is dealt a blow.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Jon: Instagram: @jonleebrody Reel Psychology: <a href="https://firesidechat.com/reelpsychology" rel="noopener">https://firesidechat.com/reelpsychology</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4985</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bipoc,bipocs,directing,equality,feminism,feminist,film,filmindustry,filmreview,hollywood,movies,producing,representation,women,womeninfilm,womenpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Reality Tv is Valid and So Are You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/reality-tv-is-valid-and-so-are-you--51577763</link><description><![CDATA[This week Natalie is joined by friend of the podcast, Annie Sieg. Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1e1a4fea-804e-476f-9bcc-d9e846d4fc6c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 07:00:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577763/reality_tv_ads.mp3" length="77747296" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P873.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week Natalie is joined by friend of the podcast, Annie Sieg. Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week Natalie is joined by friend of the podcast, Annie Sieg. Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4860</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bachelor,bachelorette,culture,feminism,feminist,kardashians,realitytv,society,trashtv,tv,tvreview,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Are You Sure You’re Enlightened?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-sure-you-re-enlightened--51577757</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by Caroline Addington from the Co-Create Podcast! The two women will be talking about how tricky it is to trust male enlightenment and the tell tale signs that someone is missing the mark on how accepting and loving they are for the collective energy, Another prevalent topic in the episode is the vulnerability that comes with a journey to being more caring, healed, or accepting. The resounding message is it takes a lot of learning, stumbling, and empathy to heal and to learn how to be an enlightened force in this world.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Caroline: Podcast: Co-Create can be found on Apple Podcasts]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7444318a-9928-4ad7-912f-86f8704c917a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2022 07:00:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577757/woke_guy_ads.mp3" length="61967665" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P874.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is joined by Caroline Addington from the Co-Create Podcast! The two women will be talking about how tricky it is to trust male enlightenment and the tell tale signs that someone is missing the mark on how accepting and loving they...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by Caroline Addington from the Co-Create Podcast! The two women will be talking about how tricky it is to trust male enlightenment and the tell tale signs that someone is missing the mark on how accepting and loving they are for the collective energy, Another prevalent topic in the episode is the vulnerability that comes with a journey to being more caring, healed, or accepting. The resounding message is it takes a lot of learning, stumbling, and empathy to heal and to learn how to be an enlightened force in this world.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!    Find Caroline: Podcast: Co-Create can be found on Apple Podcasts]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3873</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acceptance,enlightened,feminism,feminist,healing,spirituality,woke,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fireside Ep. 4: Dating App Romance Novels</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fireside-ep-4-dating-app-romance-novels--51577765</link><description><![CDATA[This is one of our Fireside productions. To see the recording with video, please visit firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Katie Majka is on the Fireside companion show and her expertise is romance novels. Natalie combed the internet for dating profiles that Katie and her could build some steamy literature around. Enjoy the women’s improvisational skills as they build characters, plot devices, and comedy through what people think is okay to list on a dating app! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Katie: Link to buy the book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref</a>=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1 Link to the Jailbait playlist:  <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA" rel="noopener">https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA</a> Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: redbelles]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">11bd772f-b340-47af-9328-e610bcc489d9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2022 07:00:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577765/romance_novels_improv_ads.mp3" length="83267701" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P875.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This is one of our Fireside productions. To see the recording with video, please visit firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Katie Majka is on the Fireside companion show and her expertise is romance novels. Natalie combed the internet for dating profiles...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is one of our Fireside productions. To see the recording with video, please visit firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Katie Majka is on the Fireside companion show and her expertise is romance novels. Natalie combed the internet for dating profiles that Katie and her could build some steamy literature around. Enjoy the women’s improvisational skills as they build characters, plot devices, and comedy through what people think is okay to list on a dating app! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Katie: Link to buy the book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref</a>=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1 Link to the Jailbait playlist:  <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA" rel="noopener">https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA</a> Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: redbelles]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5205</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>authors,chicklit,dating,datingapps,improv,lifestyle,literature,live,liveepisode,romance,romancenovels,sex,smut,women,writers</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Twilight Sucks Hard</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/twilight-sucks-hard--51577770</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by Julianna Coughlin. Julianna is the host of the Puffcast but is taking a break from her Hufflepuff lifestyle to do a deep dive on the misogyny within the Twilight films and movies. The two women chat about toxic relationship dynamics, weird story arcs the series took, and how literature can affect the way you feel about dating and forming relationships. Edward and Bella get to be the spotlight on romance gone wrong this week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Julianna: Podcast: Puffcast and Into the Fold: A Grishaverse Podcast Instagram: @puffcastpod @intothefoldpod and @jellyanna_runs]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d340f4b7-a538-453c-919c-ac736e8e6a81</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2022 07:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577770/twilight_sucks_ads.mp3" length="61777076" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P876.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is joined by Julianna Coughlin. Julianna is the host of the Puffcast but is taking a break from her Hufflepuff lifestyle to do a deep dive on the misogyny within the Twilight films and movies. The two women chat about toxic...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by Julianna Coughlin. Julianna is the host of the Puffcast but is taking a break from her Hufflepuff lifestyle to do a deep dive on the misogyny within the Twilight films and movies. The two women chat about toxic relationship dynamics, weird story arcs the series took, and how literature can affect the way you feel about dating and forming relationships. Edward and Bella get to be the spotlight on romance gone wrong this week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Julianna: Podcast: Puffcast and Into the Fold: A Grishaverse Podcast Instagram: @puffcastpod @intothefoldpod and @jellyanna_runs]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3862</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bella,books,edwardcullen,literature,misogyny,moviereview,movies,relationships,toxic relationships,twilight,vampires,womenempowerment,womenpodcasters</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Money Mental Olympics</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/money-mental-olympics--51577742</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined once again by Trina Ross. You’ve heard Trina commiserate with Natalie about how unemployment changed their mindsets on the workforce in Unemployment Broke My Brain. Now, Trina is back to share her passion about how you remove the mental and emotional stress that is working on your finances. Trina goes over the importance of goal setting and other tips while Natalie focuses on the issues she sees within our society that makes finances so hard to grapple with. Here’s hoping everyone feels a little less alone in their money stress after this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Trina on Instagram @easynawesome]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ce162b07-c54c-4d7c-9c48-fab52b938066</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2022 07:00:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577742/money_mental_ads.mp3" length="56509954" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P877.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined once again by Trina Ross. You’ve heard Trina commiserate with Natalie about how unemployment changed their mindsets on the workforce in Unemployment Broke My Brain. Now, Trina is back to share her passion about how you remove the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined once again by Trina Ross. You’ve heard Trina commiserate with Natalie about how unemployment changed their mindsets on the workforce in Unemployment Broke My Brain. Now, Trina is back to share her passion about how you remove the mental and emotional stress that is working on your finances. Trina goes over the importance of goal setting and other tips while Natalie focuses on the issues she sees within our society that makes finances so hard to grapple with. Here’s hoping everyone feels a little less alone in their money stress after this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Trina on Instagram @easynawesome]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3532</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,finances,financial,investing,investments,mentalhealth,misogyny,money,women,womenempowerment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Misogyny Crosses Cultures</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/misogyny-crosses-cultures--51577785</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Shehla Faizi.Shehla produces and hosts the podcast, "I'm A Muslim (And That's Okay!)", which is her take on creating a counter-narrative to popular media perceptions about Muslims. The women come together to talk about the parallel misogynistic practices experienced through their two different cultures. The resounding truth is when these faiths and political systems do not evolve to meet the needs and changes of the population, then the people will distance themselves from those systems. Join the women as they have a cathartic and honest conversation about women’s oppression within these religious and cultural systems and what needs to change.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Shehla: website: <a href="http://www.imamuslimpodcast.com" rel="noopener">www.imamuslimpodcast.com</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/iamatopodcast" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/iamatopodcast</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imamuslimpodcast/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/imamuslimpodcast/</a> YouTube:  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6SWb1o1tZTHNd09HaUEfg" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6SWb1o1tZTHNd09HaUEfg</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d6714c4a-9cf0-4e7a-bed9-fea3a7961992</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2022 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577785/muslim_final_ads.mp3" length="65636929" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P878.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by Shehla Faizi.Shehla produces and hosts the podcast, "I'm A Muslim (And That's Okay!)", which is her take on creating a counter-narrative to popular media perceptions about Muslims. The women come together to talk about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Shehla Faizi.Shehla produces and hosts the podcast, "I'm A Muslim (And That's Okay!)", which is her take on creating a counter-narrative to popular media perceptions about Muslims. The women come together to talk about the parallel misogynistic practices experienced through their two different cultures. The resounding truth is when these faiths and political systems do not evolve to meet the needs and changes of the population, then the people will distance themselves from those systems. Join the women as they have a cathartic and honest conversation about women’s oppression within these religious and cultural systems and what needs to change.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Shehla: website: <a href="http://www.imamuslimpodcast.com" rel="noopener">www.imamuslimpodcast.com</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/iamatopodcast" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/iamatopodcast</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imamuslimpodcast/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/imamuslimpodcast/</a> YouTube:  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6SWb1o1tZTHNd09HaUEfg" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6SWb1o1tZTHNd09HaUEfg</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4103</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianity,christians,culture,equality,feminism,feminist,islam,misogyny,muslim,politics,religion,religious,women,womensrights</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fireside Ep. 3: How Am I supposed to Date Now</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fireside-ep-3-how-am-i-supposed-to-date-now--51577744</link><description><![CDATA[This episode was recorded live on Fireside. This week Natalie asks the Fireside audience to help answer her eternal question: “How am I supposed to date?” She revisits themes presented in episode four and reflects on how she feels about dating and her sexuality one year later. Her and members of the live audience share examples of their dating patterns including Natalie’s pattern of losing herself the moment she enters a relationship. Girded with her mission to end her imposter syndrome, this episode was Natalie’s first step in rewriting the story of her dating life. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8d57bc86-b3e5-4451-8d4a-a7eeca8876c9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2022 07:00:47 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577744/fireside_3_ads.mp3" length="51614816" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P879.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode was recorded live on Fireside. This week Natalie asks the Fireside audience to help answer her eternal question: “How am I supposed to date?” She revisits themes presented in episode four and reflects on how she feels about dating and her...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode was recorded live on Fireside. This week Natalie asks the Fireside audience to help answer her eternal question: “How am I supposed to date?” She revisits themes presented in episode four and reflects on how she feels about dating and her sexuality one year later. Her and members of the live audience share examples of their dating patterns including Natalie’s pattern of losing herself the moment she enters a relationship. Girded with her mission to end her imposter syndrome, this episode was Natalie’s first step in rewriting the story of her dating life. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3226</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,lgbtq,relationship,relationships,sexuality,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcasters,womenssexuality</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Men Wendi Cooper Tolerated</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-men-wendi-cooper-tolerated--51577768</link><description><![CDATA[This week is a special episode with guest Wendi Cooper! Wendi Cooper is the Founder and Creative Director of C Spot Run Productions and the host of The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show- StoryViews Humans Over 50. Wendi is going to dish with Natalie about the men she has tolerated, whether it was men she had to consult, clients of her boss, or any other man who came into contact with Wendi’s brilliance. She’s a happiness warrior and didn’t let misogyny dampen her spirits when it came to creating a career based around her expertise. Also, she just happens to be your host’s fairy godmother. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!   Find Wendi: Podcasts: The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show C Spot Run Productions:  <a href="https://www.wendicooper.com/cspotrun-creative-marketing" rel="noopener">https://www.wendicooper.com/cspotrun-creative-marketing</a> Instagram: @wendicreates]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a896493a-55c8-4ad3-b3f8-584e6b29e0aa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2022 07:00:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577768/wendi_with_ads.mp3" length="60743463" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87A.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week is a special episode with guest Wendi Cooper! Wendi Cooper is the Founder and Creative Director of C Spot Run Productions and the host of The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show- StoryViews Humans Over 50. Wendi is going to dish...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week is a special episode with guest Wendi Cooper! Wendi Cooper is the Founder and Creative Director of C Spot Run Productions and the host of The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show- StoryViews Humans Over 50. Wendi is going to dish with Natalie about the men she has tolerated, whether it was men she had to consult, clients of her boss, or any other man who came into contact with Wendi’s brilliance. She’s a happiness warrior and didn’t let misogyny dampen her spirits when it came to creating a career based around her expertise. Also, she just happens to be your host’s fairy godmother. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and <a href="https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod</a> on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!   Find Wendi: Podcasts: The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show C Spot Run Productions:  <a href="https://www.wendicooper.com/cspotrun-creative-marketing" rel="noopener">https://www.wendicooper.com/cspotrun-creative-marketing</a> Instagram: @wendicreates]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3797</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>ads,consultant,consulting,interview,men,professionals,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>So Much Blame and Shame</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-much-blame-and-shame--51577789</link><description><![CDATA[In this week’s episode, Natalie is joined by Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous to discuss all things blaming and shaming in Hollywood. The women were inspired to process how women are shamed by our society by taking a look at how our culture revolves around judging celebrities. Topics of discussion will be celebrity divorce, court cases, and why we feel such ownership to celebrities’ lives that we get to decide when they make the correct choices or if they deserve the hurt they experience. Listen to explore how if we’re so comfy talking trash about celebrities for making mistakes, then we’re also really comfortable with judging people we know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Julia:   On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" rel="noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b533a28e-b2d6-489f-8a00-46c1068804f4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2022 07:00:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577789/blame_and_shame_celebs_ad.mp3" length="67995733" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87B.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this week’s episode, Natalie is joined by Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous to discuss all things blaming and shaming in Hollywood. The women were inspired to process how women are shamed by our society by taking a look at how our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this week’s episode, Natalie is joined by Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous to discuss all things blaming and shaming in Hollywood. The women were inspired to process how women are shamed by our society by taking a look at how our culture revolves around judging celebrities. Topics of discussion will be celebrity divorce, court cases, and why we feel such ownership to celebrities’ lives that we get to decide when they make the correct choices or if they deserve the hurt they experience. Listen to explore how if we’re so comfy talking trash about celebrities for making mistakes, then we’re also really comfortable with judging people we know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  Find Julia:   On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" rel="noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4250</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>blame,celeb,celebgossip,celebrities,celebs,courtcase,divorce,feminism,feminist,gossip,shame,women,womenempowerment,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You're Not Too Geeky to Gatekeep</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-not-too-geeky-to-gatekeep--51577746</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has Natalie New on to help her process something that has been bothering her. Natalie and Natalie have a huge love for the cast of Critical Role. With that love, came the heartbreaking realization that the community that surrounds the cast can sometimes bully, harass, or even threaten the female cast members just because they play Dungeons and Dragons a little differently than the audience would prefer. This week will uncover the world of gatekeeping within the gaming community. Your host is tired of geeks getting a pass and being called “too nerdy to be mean” when she has witnessed firsthand how women+ players are treated within the community. This is her stand and she’d like to dedicate it to all the DMs who are doing their best to make their tables a safe place for everyone who wants to play.     Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>     Find Natalie New:   Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu   Join the Discord Server: The Mushroom Menagerie <a href="https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8" rel="noopener">https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">daa6c7ea-0c9c-462d-99df-c62c358fd719</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 07:00:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577746/geek_gatekeeping_ad.mp3" length="72309434" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87C.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie has Natalie New on to help her process something that has been bothering her. Natalie and Natalie have a huge love for the cast of Critical Role. With that love, came the heartbreaking realization that the community that surrounds...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has Natalie New on to help her process something that has been bothering her. Natalie and Natalie have a huge love for the cast of Critical Role. With that love, came the heartbreaking realization that the community that surrounds the cast can sometimes bully, harass, or even threaten the female cast members just because they play Dungeons and Dragons a little differently than the audience would prefer. This week will uncover the world of gatekeeping within the gaming community. Your host is tired of geeks getting a pass and being called “too nerdy to be mean” when she has witnessed firsthand how women+ players are treated within the community. This is her stand and she’d like to dedicate it to all the DMs who are doing their best to make their tables a safe place for everyone who wants to play.     Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>     Find Natalie New:   Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu   Join the Discord Server: The Mushroom Menagerie <a href="https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8" rel="noopener">https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4520</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bullying,dd,dungeonsanddragons,femalegamers,feminism,feminist,gamers,gaming,gatekeeping,geekgirls,geeky,inclusion,nerd,nerdy,nerdygirls,rpg,women,womenempowerment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fireside Episode 2: Annie Sieg and Art Reflecting How We Feel</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fireside-episode-2-annie-sieg-and-art-reflecting-how-we-feel--51577806</link><description><![CDATA[Annie Sieg joined Natalie on Fireside to revisit themes of episode 32 “Making Bodies Art”. Natalie and Annie revisit some of their artwork that reflects how they were feeling about their bodies, their mental/emotional state, or how they felt about their art at the time of creating the piece. Filters being rampant on social media, body image changing over time, insecurities, and how our mental health affects our creativity are all topics presented in the episode. Want to see the art that was presented on the episode? You can find the video for the episode on Fireside at firesidechat.com/nataliekaton.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">37fae32a-d4fb-4fda-a2d4-1f92060386b9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 05:49:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577806/fireside_2_annie_art_ad.mp3" length="58473787" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87D.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Annie Sieg joined Natalie on Fireside to revisit themes of episode 32 “Making Bodies Art”. Natalie and Annie revisit some of their artwork that reflects how they were feeling about their bodies, their mental/emotional state, or how they felt about...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Annie Sieg joined Natalie on Fireside to revisit themes of episode 32 “Making Bodies Art”. Natalie and Annie revisit some of their artwork that reflects how they were feeling about their bodies, their mental/emotional state, or how they felt about their art at the time of creating the piece. Filters being rampant on social media, body image changing over time, insecurities, and how our mental health affects our creativity are all topics presented in the episode. Want to see the art that was presented on the episode? You can find the video for the episode on Fireside at firesidechat.com/nataliekaton.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3655</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>art,artists,bodyimage,bodypostivity,comedy,creating,creatives,emotionalhealth,feminism,filters,live,liveepisode,livepodcast,liveshow,makeup,mental health,painting,podcast,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Introducing To All the Men I've Tolerated Before</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-to-all-the-men-i-ve-tolerated-before--51577774</link><description><![CDATA[To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, the weekly podcast where host, Natalie Katona, invites guests on the podcast to chat about living in the world of men. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the men they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! (Use link <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> in our bio!) And follow us on Fireside for our live shows at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">12edca88-bd24-4d3d-a94b-6f40622cc3af</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2022 17:09:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577774/trailer_tatmitb.mp3" length="620024" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87E.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, the weekly podcast where host, Natalie Katona, invites guests on the podcast to chat about living in the world of men. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, the weekly podcast where host, Natalie Katona, invites guests on the podcast to chat about living in the world of men. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the men they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! (Use link <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> in our bio!) And follow us on Fireside for our live shows at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>39</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,feminism,feminist,growth,manifest,reflecting,relationships,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcast,womenrights</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/057bb34019aa0a4f41ee4ac042f3569d.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>trailer</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Adult Friendships Get Tricky</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/adult-friendships-get-tricky--51577754</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Marissa Meizz, founder of No More Lonely Friends. The challenge for this episode is diving deep on what it means to maintain friendships once you are an adult. The two women discuss roadblocks to healthy friendships such as wanting to fix everything for friends, the fear of rejection, only having enough time to work and not socialize, and the toll toxic friendships can take on your mental health. There is also an examination of how misogyny and other oppressive systems affect our ability to make lasting friendships. Marissa has done an amazing job bringing people together for No More Lonely Friends and helping her participants believe that quality friendships are out there waiting for them. Natalie is hoping to take the energy from this episode and continue building the Team Tolerator community. What are your friendship green flags? What about your friendship red flags?   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find Marissa: Instagram: @marissameizz and @nomorelonelyfriends Find No More Lonely Friends Events: <a href="https://www.nomorelonelyfriends.com" rel="noopener">https://www.nomorelonelyfriends.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d8827f73-cdea-41cf-86f8-3f8adc71ea9d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2022 07:30:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577754/adult_friendships_ad.mp3" length="58983279" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87F.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by Marissa Meizz, founder of No More Lonely Friends. The challenge for this episode is diving deep on what it means to maintain friendships once you are an adult. The two women discuss roadblocks to healthy friendships such...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Marissa Meizz, founder of No More Lonely Friends. The challenge for this episode is diving deep on what it means to maintain friendships once you are an adult. The two women discuss roadblocks to healthy friendships such as wanting to fix everything for friends, the fear of rejection, only having enough time to work and not socialize, and the toll toxic friendships can take on your mental health. There is also an examination of how misogyny and other oppressive systems affect our ability to make lasting friendships. Marissa has done an amazing job bringing people together for No More Lonely Friends and helping her participants believe that quality friendships are out there waiting for them. Natalie is hoping to take the energy from this episode and continue building the Team Tolerator community. What are your friendship green flags? What about your friendship red flags?   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find Marissa: Instagram: @marissameizz and @nomorelonelyfriends Find No More Lonely Friends Events: <a href="https://www.nomorelonelyfriends.com" rel="noopener">https://www.nomorelonelyfriends.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3687</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>community,fear,feminism,feminist,friends,friendship,maturity,meeting people,mental health,red flags,rejection,social,socialize,socializing,sociallife,toxic friendship,toxic relationships,women,womenempowerment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Feeling Mid in the Midwest</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/feeling-mid-in-the-midwest--51577745</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is so excited this week to be talking to Brianna Peters from Sad in the City and Gotham Production Studios! Brianna has grown up in Ohio and  begun her adventure out of the Midwest by moving to New York City. The two women talk about the point in which they knew the Midwest and the areas they’ve grown up in no longer fit their dreams or aspirations for themselves. They also reflect on how sometimes they grapple with that being difficult for the people in their lives and how to navigate those feelings of guilt or shame. The resounding message of the episode is no one is alone when it comes to feeling out of place in the environments you take space in. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Brianna:  Instagrams: @brianamaypeters and @sadinthecitypod Gotham Productions Studio: <a href="https://www.gothamproductionstudios.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.gothamproductionstudios.com/</a> Discord for Sad In the City Podcast: <a href="https://discord.gg/kPQ5kZFc" rel="noopener">https://discord.gg/kPQ5kZFc</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">68539fdb-a716-40a3-9e19-a95bae790c9f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 07:03:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577745/mid_in_midwest_ad.mp3" length="51467119" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87G.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is so excited this week to be talking to Brianna Peters from Sad in the City and Gotham Production Studios! Brianna has grown up in Ohio and  begun her adventure out of the Midwest by moving to New York City. The two women talk about the point...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is so excited this week to be talking to Brianna Peters from Sad in the City and Gotham Production Studios! Brianna has grown up in Ohio and  begun her adventure out of the Midwest by moving to New York City. The two women talk about the point in which they knew the Midwest and the areas they’ve grown up in no longer fit their dreams or aspirations for themselves. They also reflect on how sometimes they grapple with that being difficult for the people in their lives and how to navigate those feelings of guilt or shame. The resounding message of the episode is no one is alone when it comes to feeling out of place in the environments you take space in. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Brianna:  Instagrams: @brianamaypeters and @sadinthecitypod Gotham Productions Studio: <a href="https://www.gothamproductionstudios.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.gothamproductionstudios.com/</a> Discord for Sad In the City Podcast: <a href="https://discord.gg/kPQ5kZFc" rel="noopener">https://discord.gg/kPQ5kZFc</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3217</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>creatives,creativity,creators,family,feminism,feminist,friends,growing,guilt,home,leaving,midwest,moving,newyorkcity,ohio,shame,women,womenempowerment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Period Stigma Causes Period Poverty</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/period-stigma-causes-period-poverty--51577748</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie was honored to have a conversation with youth activist, Anusha Singh. Anusha is associated with Period.org, an organization that raises awareness on period poverty and fights to end the stigma against menstruation. Anusha and Natalie chat about her experiences going in front of Ohio legislators to speak against pink taxes on feminine products. They also do a deep dive on how period stigma plays a role in everyone’s lives and how the culture needs to change around menstruation so we can further everyone’s comfort in our society and within the workforce.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find Anusha and Period.Org: Instagram: anusha_sing Anusha’s Ted Talk: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy4yKLcVxc" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy4yKLcVxc</a> Instagram for Period.Org: periodmovement]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8cb7a745-ac03-4705-8571-73eb3153ff32</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2022 06:36:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577748/period_poverty_ad.mp3" length="47969637" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87H.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie was honored to have a conversation with youth activist, Anusha Singh. Anusha is associated with Period.org, an organization that raises awareness on period poverty and fights to end the stigma against menstruation. Anusha and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie was honored to have a conversation with youth activist, Anusha Singh. Anusha is associated with Period.org, an organization that raises awareness on period poverty and fights to end the stigma against menstruation. Anusha and Natalie chat about her experiences going in front of Ohio legislators to speak against pink taxes on feminine products. They also do a deep dive on how period stigma plays a role in everyone’s lives and how the culture needs to change around menstruation so we can further everyone’s comfort in our society and within the workforce.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find Anusha and Period.Org: Instagram: anusha_sing Anusha’s Ted Talk: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy4yKLcVxc" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy4yKLcVxc</a> Instagram for Period.Org: periodmovement]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2999</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>feminism,feminist,menstruation,period,periods,women,womenempowerment,womenrights,womenshealth</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>54</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Working for Ourselves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/working-for-ourselves--51577759</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by one of her favorite coworkers, Marchea Wiley. Natalie immediately felt a connection with Marchea because they have something very important in common. Both women are on the path to taking their creativity and talents and making their brands lucrative. The friends have a very honest discussion on why 9-5’s and working for someone else isn’t working for them at all. They also go deep into what entrepreneurship meant to them when they were younger and how it affected their dreams for the future. They touch on why traditional workplaces go against their best interests and how they want to support one another in their endeavors. Whether it is through podcasting, content creating, modeling, or fashion design these women have what it takes to make a business built on their talent alone. Tune in so you can be one of the first witnesses to these two making it big!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Marchea: Instagram: @biglady_dimpless2 TikTok and Twitter: bigladydimples]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1a21e577-f388-4d61-8c4e-9ddafcf5887a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2022 07:00:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577759/entrepenuership_ad.mp3" length="55842906" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87J.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is joined by one of her favorite coworkers, Marchea Wiley. Natalie immediately felt a connection with Marchea because they have something very important in common. Both women are on the path to taking their creativity and talents...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by one of her favorite coworkers, Marchea Wiley. Natalie immediately felt a connection with Marchea because they have something very important in common. Both women are on the path to taking their creativity and talents and making their brands lucrative. The friends have a very honest discussion on why 9-5’s and working for someone else isn’t working for them at all. They also go deep into what entrepreneurship meant to them when they were younger and how it affected their dreams for the future. They touch on why traditional workplaces go against their best interests and how they want to support one another in their endeavors. Whether it is through podcasting, content creating, modeling, or fashion design these women have what it takes to make a business built on their talent alone. Tune in so you can be one of the first witnesses to these two making it big!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a> Find Marchea: Instagram: @biglady_dimpless2 TikTok and Twitter: bigladydimples]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3491</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>business,businessowner,comedy,dayjob,entrepreneurs,entrepreneurship,feminist,finances,friendship,job,money,selfemployed,selfmade,smallbusiness,success,women,work,working</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>53</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Live on Fireside: Meet Team Tolerator</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-on-fireside-meet-team-tolerator--51577808</link><description><![CDATA[On To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before’s premiere live episode on Fireside, Natalie is highlighting some of the amazing guests from season 1! Join the panel as they walk you through how each episode will help you face what you’ve tolerated, reflect on how you grew, and be a source of positivity by manifesting a better future. Already on Team Tolerator? You may notice that this show runs differently than the episodes you’ve been enjoying so far! There is audience participation in many forms. Have you ever wanted to give your take on a topic we covered? Now you can by either jumping onto our livestage and talking to TATMITB’s guests personally or sending in a text question during the show! There’s also fun reactions you can use to laugh along with the show, send some love, or applause for the awesome content you’re experiencing live. Make sure you’re following firesidechat.com/nataliekatona to join in on the live experience!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find the Panel on Instagram: Annie Sieg: @aksieg Caitlin Grant: @plugituppod JD Ross: @dudeistweirdo]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">218d270c-04dd-4827-a8a5-7ae1cf3939e6</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2022 07:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577808/fireside_1_ad.mp3" length="60488768" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87K.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>On To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before’s premiere live episode on Fireside, Natalie is highlighting some of the amazing guests from season 1! Join the panel as they walk you through how each episode will help you face what you’ve tolerated, reflect...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[On To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before’s premiere live episode on Fireside, Natalie is highlighting some of the amazing guests from season 1! Join the panel as they walk you through how each episode will help you face what you’ve tolerated, reflect on how you grew, and be a source of positivity by manifesting a better future. Already on Team Tolerator? You may notice that this show runs differently than the episodes you’ve been enjoying so far! There is audience participation in many forms. Have you ever wanted to give your take on a topic we covered? Now you can by either jumping onto our livestage and talking to TATMITB’s guests personally or sending in a text question during the show! There’s also fun reactions you can use to laugh along with the show, send some love, or applause for the awesome content you’re experiencing live. Make sure you’re following firesidechat.com/nataliekatona to join in on the live experience!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>   Find the Panel on Instagram: Annie Sieg: @aksieg Caitlin Grant: @plugituppod JD Ross: @dudeistweirdo]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3781</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>audienceparticipation,comedy,feminism,feminist,live,liveepisode,livepanel,liveshow,meetandgreet,women,womenempowerment,womensissues</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bold, Loud, and Trying to Date</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bold-loud-and-trying-to-date--51577775</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by a very special friend, Karlee. Karlee came into Natalie’s life and she immediately saw herself in the big personality that Karlee wears with pride. The two women are going to talk about the pitfalls they fall into when they try to bring their large demeanors and make them fit into dating spaces. One question they continue to ponder is whether or not they will always have to bend their egos, behaviors, or exuberance to make the people around them comfortable. How does your personality grow or diminish when you’re in a relationship? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6c66abcf-78ec-43e3-8927-c70a61189910</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2022 07:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577775/big_perstonality_ad.mp3" length="60416879" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87M.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by a very special friend, Karlee. Karlee came into Natalie’s life and she immediately saw herself in the big personality that Karlee wears with pride. The two women are going to talk about the pitfalls they fall into when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by a very special friend, Karlee. Karlee came into Natalie’s life and she immediately saw herself in the big personality that Karlee wears with pride. The two women are going to talk about the pitfalls they fall into when they try to bring their large demeanors and make them fit into dating spaces. One question they continue to ponder is whether or not they will always have to bend their egos, behaviors, or exuberance to make the people around them comfortable. How does your personality grow or diminish when you’re in a relationship? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3777</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>autobiographical,bigperonality,bold,brave,comedy,confidence,confident,dating,feminist,funny,funnywomen,humor,lifestory,loud,loudwomen,magnetic,manifesting,personality,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Single and…Thriving?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/single-and-thriving--51577779</link><description><![CDATA[This week Natalie is joined by Caitlin Grant to talk about the ins and outs of how our society views single people. The women get real about the financial strain and emotional landscape it takes to be single in today’s world. Whether it is getting questioning glances from loved ones, feeling like everything in your life is on you and you’re without support, or wondering why your achievements aren’t as celebrated just because they look a little bit different than others…being single in today’s culture is still not as accepted as you would think. Caitlin helps Natalie have a cathartic moment of reflection on how you can really enjoy being single and the life you have built for yourself, but still be aware that society may not value your contributions as much as they do the good ol’ family norm. Do you feel like an “other” compared to your partnered friends who have started families? This episode supports you and your choices!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.   Find Caitlin: Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">727abf56-dacc-4d8a-8cbc-454c314c8248</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2022 07:00:14 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577779/single_life_ad.mp3" length="62953474" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87N.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week Natalie is joined by Caitlin Grant to talk about the ins and outs of how our society views single people. The women get real about the financial strain and emotional landscape it takes to be single in today’s world. Whether it is getting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week Natalie is joined by Caitlin Grant to talk about the ins and outs of how our society views single people. The women get real about the financial strain and emotional landscape it takes to be single in today’s world. Whether it is getting questioning glances from loved ones, feeling like everything in your life is on you and you’re without support, or wondering why your achievements aren’t as celebrated just because they look a little bit different than others…being single in today’s culture is still not as accepted as you would think. Caitlin helps Natalie have a cathartic moment of reflection on how you can really enjoy being single and the life you have built for yourself, but still be aware that society may not value your contributions as much as they do the good ol’ family norm. Do you feel like an “other” compared to your partnered friends who have started families? This episode supports you and your choices!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>.   Find Caitlin: Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3935</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,families,family,feminism,feminist,financial,humor,illness,manifest,medical,mentalhealth,relationships,single,singleliving,singlewomen,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>51</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/turns-out-i-do-have-religious-trauma--51577758</link><description><![CDATA[This week Elizabeth Kyle is back and she helped Natalie realize she didn’t escape religious trauma. The goal of this episode was for Elizabeth to talk about Southern Bible Belt culture and it immediately shifted. The women have a cathartic hour where they let themselves express all the ways that the beliefs that were imposed on them in their youth through Christianity actually had a lasting effect on them. They discuss the way women are treated and represented in the religions they were made to practice. Natalie also has a realization that assimilating to Christian Doctrine robbed her of the opportunity to explore things like queerness, sexuality, and some other big themes that she has an entire different view on in her adult life. This one gets deep and it gets real. What did it make you think about? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">306c584b-3ff3-424b-8184-8118df4a0167</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2022 07:00:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577758/religion_with_ad.mp3" length="66556282" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87P.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week Elizabeth Kyle is back and she helped Natalie realize she didn’t escape religious trauma. The goal of this episode was for Elizabeth to talk about Southern Bible Belt culture and it immediately shifted. The women have a cathartic hour where...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week Elizabeth Kyle is back and she helped Natalie realize she didn’t escape religious trauma. The goal of this episode was for Elizabeth to talk about Southern Bible Belt culture and it immediately shifted. The women have a cathartic hour where they let themselves express all the ways that the beliefs that were imposed on them in their youth through Christianity actually had a lasting effect on them. They discuss the way women are treated and represented in the religions they were made to practice. Natalie also has a realization that assimilating to Christian Doctrine robbed her of the opportunity to explore things like queerness, sexuality, and some other big themes that she has an entire different view on in her adult life. This one gets deep and it gets real. What did it make you think about? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at  <a href="https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod</a>. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4160</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bible,biblebelt,catholic,catholicism,christian,christianity,deconversion,deconversiontherapy,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,mysogony,patriarchy,religion,religious,religioustrauma,south,southern,trauma,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Deep Dive on Narcissism</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-deep-dive-on-narcissism--51577760</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is getting some extra help on how to spot narcissism and abuse in relationships from Dr. Natalie Jones. Dr. Jones is the host of the podcast A Date with Darkness. Her goal is to take her experience and turn painful experiences of narcissistic abuse into healing nuggets. She is going to help Natalie wrap her mind around the true definition of narcissism and someone with narcissistic personality disorder. She will also listen to a few relationships Natalie has assumed were with people who were narcissists and help answer the question “Was this person a narcissist or a jerk?” Do you have assumptions about narcissists? See if we can help clear them up this week! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Dr. Jones: Instagram: @drnataliejones and @adatewithdarknesspodcast Website: <a href="https://www.drnataliejones.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.drnataliejones.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ce1d46e4-9064-4234-9f44-dd17fa9079f6</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2022 13:30:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577760/dr_natalie_jones_final_ad.mp3" length="58728742" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87Q.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is getting some extra help on how to spot narcissism and abuse in relationships from Dr. Natalie Jones. Dr. Jones is the host of the podcast A Date with Darkness. Her goal is to take her experience and turn painful experiences of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is getting some extra help on how to spot narcissism and abuse in relationships from Dr. Natalie Jones. Dr. Jones is the host of the podcast A Date with Darkness. Her goal is to take her experience and turn painful experiences of narcissistic abuse into healing nuggets. She is going to help Natalie wrap her mind around the true definition of narcissism and someone with narcissistic personality disorder. She will also listen to a few relationships Natalie has assumed were with people who were narcissists and help answer the question “Was this person a narcissist or a jerk?” Do you have assumptions about narcissists? See if we can help clear them up this week! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Dr. Jones: Instagram: @drnataliejones and @adatewithdarknesspodcast Website: <a href="https://www.drnataliejones.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.drnataliejones.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3671</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abuse,dating,emotionalabuse,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,lifestory,lifestyle,mentalhealth,narcissism,narcissist,narcissticpersonalitydisorder,personalitydisorder,personalstories,relationships,survivor,therapy,toxixrelationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>49</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sing Me a Song so I Fall Hard</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sing-me-a-song-so-i-fall-hard--51577769</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by the lovely Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous for this week’s episode. Julia has experienced a thrill that Natalie has only dreamed of, dating musicians. They talk about the ins and outs of what makes musicians so magnetic to the two of them. The stage presence, the big hair, the raw talent, and the extreme eye contact are the things that make Natalie and Julia feel like they’re in the middle of a movie and on the verge of a destiny that is filled with glory and passion. And yet, Julia will make Natalie realize a thing she is still coming to terms with: that the adrenaline of the highs of dramatic relationships with a volatile artist can get you only so far. What about musicians makes you all tingly inside?   Find Julia: On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" rel="noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a> Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1b5deea6-9870-4d9a-bc90-ceb360261590</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Apr 2022 07:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577769/dating_musicians_final_ad.mp3" length="64767835" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87R.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by the lovely Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous for this week’s episode. Julia has experienced a thrill that Natalie has only dreamed of, dating musicians. They talk about the ins and outs of what makes musicians so...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by the lovely Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous for this week’s episode. Julia has experienced a thrill that Natalie has only dreamed of, dating musicians. They talk about the ins and outs of what makes musicians so magnetic to the two of them. The stage presence, the big hair, the raw talent, and the extreme eye contact are the things that make Natalie and Julia feel like they’re in the middle of a movie and on the verge of a destiny that is filled with glory and passion. And yet, Julia will make Natalie realize a thing she is still coming to terms with: that the adrenaline of the highs of dramatic relationships with a volatile artist can get you only so far. What about musicians makes you all tingly inside?   Find Julia: On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: <a href="https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous" rel="noopener">https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous</a> Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4048</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bands,comedy,dating,lifestyle,metal,music,musicians,relationships,stories,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Millennial Dating Upheavals</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/millennial-dating-upheavals--51577787</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Lindy and Stephy from Turn of the Millennials! They will be chatting about everything millennials have lived through when it comes to dating. Grinding in a dark school gym, limited text messages, no phone calls until after 9:00pm, and group hangs were the hallmarks of how Millennials had to navigate dating in their teens. Then, the world shifted and Millennials were introduced to online dating and they had to deal with the shame of signing up for “one of those websites”. Live in nostalgia with the women as they have some great laughs about all the trends they’ve had to witness when it comes to romance. What do you remember about dating in the early 2000s that just doesn’t happen anymore?   Find Stephy and Lindy:   Instagram: turnofthemillennialspod Website: <a href="https://www.millennialspod.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.millennialspod.com/</a> Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">02299cc6-5f66-473e-989e-16e4f0974106</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2022 07:00:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577787/millenial_dating_final_ad.mp3" length="59607711" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87S.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined this week by Lindy and Stephy from Turn of the Millennials! They will be chatting about everything millennials have lived through when it comes to dating. Grinding in a dark school gym, limited text messages, no phone calls until...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined this week by Lindy and Stephy from Turn of the Millennials! They will be chatting about everything millennials have lived through when it comes to dating. Grinding in a dark school gym, limited text messages, no phone calls until after 9:00pm, and group hangs were the hallmarks of how Millennials had to navigate dating in their teens. Then, the world shifted and Millennials were introduced to online dating and they had to deal with the shame of signing up for “one of those websites”. Live in nostalgia with the women as they have some great laughs about all the trends they’ve had to witness when it comes to romance. What do you remember about dating in the early 2000s that just doesn’t happen anymore?   Find Stephy and Lindy:   Instagram: turnofthemillennialspod Website: <a href="https://www.millennialspod.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.millennialspod.com/</a> Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3726</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,feminism,feminist,lifestyle,milleannial,millennials,nineties,relationship,relationships,sex,sexuality,stories,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>47</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>90’s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/90-s-male-protagonists-made-me-codependent--51577776</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and her guest, Elizabeth, do not love themselves enough to ignore a bad boy in a leather jacket! Why? Because of the Shawn Hunters and Dawson Leerys of the world! Elizabeth is going to help Natalie dive deep into how the 90’s Male Protagonists that they grew up watching set them up for some awful dating mindsets. Why does Natalie love to caretake her partners and fix men? Probably because Joey Potter had to. Join the two women as they give the tv shows of their youth a review and come to terms with all the ways they were set up to put men first and to downplay their needs for their partners. What did 90’s media teach you about relationships? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Elizabeth’s Plugs: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d8bd31ae-e9e4-4f0e-a45b-49da96ff9bef</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2022 07:00:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577776/90s_protagonists_final_ad.mp3" length="70564093" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87T.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and her guest, Elizabeth, do not love themselves enough to ignore a bad boy in a leather jacket! Why? Because of the Shawn Hunters and Dawson Leerys of the world! Elizabeth is going to help Natalie dive deep into how the 90’s Male Protagonists...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and her guest, Elizabeth, do not love themselves enough to ignore a bad boy in a leather jacket! Why? Because of the Shawn Hunters and Dawson Leerys of the world! Elizabeth is going to help Natalie dive deep into how the 90’s Male Protagonists that they grew up watching set them up for some awful dating mindsets. Why does Natalie love to caretake her partners and fix men? Probably because Joey Potter had to. Join the two women as they give the tv shows of their youth a review and come to terms with all the ways they were set up to put men first and to downplay their needs for their partners. What did 90’s media teach you about relationships? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Elizabeth’s Plugs: All socials: @finalgirlscout and <a href="mailto:finalgirlscout@gmail.com">finalgirlscout@gmail.com</a> Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4411</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>90s,boymeetsworld,comedy,dating,datingadvice,dawsonscreek,empoweredwomen,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,media,movies,nineties,patterns,protagonists,savedbythebell,television,tgif,tv</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>46</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Being a Minimalist with Delanie Fischer</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-a-minimalist-with-delanie-fischer--51577778</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has the distinct pleasure of interviewing one of the first supporters of TATMITB, Delanie Fischer. Delanie is the amazing host of E-Ficionado and the co-host of Self-Helpless. She is going to walk Natalie through her minimalist lifestyle and how relationships, capitalism, and the patriarchy play a role in her choice to live minimalistically. Her motto “I’m going to do only the things that bring me the most happiness” is inspiring and she even tries to convince Natalie she is more than her maximalist manic spending and collecting in order to feel a moment of adrenaline. Minimalism is more than the stuff Delanie chooses to buy, it is being intentional with her time and her energy. How has our society conditioned you to not put yourself and priorities first and instead be distracted by everything available to us in the modern age? Take a few tips from Delanie from this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Delanie’s Plugs: Instagram for Self-Helpless: @selfhelplesspodcast Delanie’s Business Simplicity Coach website: <a href="https://www.delaniefischer.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.delaniefischer.com/</a> E-Ficionado can be found on Apple Podcast and Spotify]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">12c3d187-062d-47c4-a2d3-967e0be46bfa</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2022 07:00:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577778/minimalism_final_ad.mp3" length="62352448" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87V.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie has the distinct pleasure of interviewing one of the first supporters of TATMITB, Delanie Fischer. Delanie is the amazing host of E-Ficionado and the co-host of Self-Helpless. She is going to walk Natalie through her minimalist...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has the distinct pleasure of interviewing one of the first supporters of TATMITB, Delanie Fischer. Delanie is the amazing host of E-Ficionado and the co-host of Self-Helpless. She is going to walk Natalie through her minimalist lifestyle and how relationships, capitalism, and the patriarchy play a role in her choice to live minimalistically. Her motto “I’m going to do only the things that bring me the most happiness” is inspiring and she even tries to convince Natalie she is more than her maximalist manic spending and collecting in order to feel a moment of adrenaline. Minimalism is more than the stuff Delanie chooses to buy, it is being intentional with her time and her energy. How has our society conditioned you to not put yourself and priorities first and instead be distracted by everything available to us in the modern age? Take a few tips from Delanie from this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Delanie’s Plugs: Instagram for Self-Helpless: @selfhelplesspodcast Delanie’s Business Simplicity Coach website: <a href="https://www.delaniefischer.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.delaniefischer.com/</a> E-Ficionado can be found on Apple Podcast and Spotify]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3898</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>business,businesscoaching,capitalism,coaching,consumerism,dating,empoweredwomen,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,marriage,maximalist,minimalism,mysogyny,relationships,shopping,smallbusiness,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Orgasming (Or At Least Chatting about It) with Remy Kassimir</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/orgasming-or-at-least-chatting-about-it-with-remy-kassimir--51577767</link><description><![CDATA[This week is an especially exciting week for Natalie! She is joined by Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of the podcast How C*m, to talk about their experiences trying to communicate about orgasming and pleasure with partners! Remy was a fantastic mentor for an hour as her and Natalie maneuvered through their past partners and how talking to them about pleasure has gone. Natalie lets Remy into her headspace when it comes to being passive and almost mechanical when it comes to trying to achieve the Big O in the bedroom. The hour is spent chatting about sleeping with men who don’t like you, body image coming into play when asking for what you want, and how everyone’s body deserves to be worshiped in the bedroom. What did Remy inspire Natalie to try out? And who else has tips about getting partners to help you c*m? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Remy’s Plugs:   Instagram: @remykassimir and @howcumpodcast YouTube:https://youtube.com/user/remyvk Website: <a href="https://www.remykassimir.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.remykassimir.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">bf6df444-b9b7-441f-af67-dfff82c31c4e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2022 08:00:32 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577767/orgasming_final_ad.mp3" length="73161291" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87W.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week is an especially exciting week for Natalie! She is joined by Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of the podcast How C*m, to talk about their experiences trying to communicate about orgasming and pleasure with partners! Remy was a fantastic...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week is an especially exciting week for Natalie! She is joined by Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of the podcast How C*m, to talk about their experiences trying to communicate about orgasming and pleasure with partners! Remy was a fantastic mentor for an hour as her and Natalie maneuvered through their past partners and how talking to them about pleasure has gone. Natalie lets Remy into her headspace when it comes to being passive and almost mechanical when it comes to trying to achieve the Big O in the bedroom. The hour is spent chatting about sleeping with men who don’t like you, body image coming into play when asking for what you want, and how everyone’s body deserves to be worshiped in the bedroom. What did Remy inspire Natalie to try out? And who else has tips about getting partners to help you c*m? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Remy’s Plugs:   Instagram: @remykassimir and @howcumpodcast YouTube:https://youtube.com/user/remyvk Website: <a href="https://www.remykassimir.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.remykassimir.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4573</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Behind the Scenes of Pandemic Nursing</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/behind-the-scenes-of-pandemic-nursing--51577743</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by a new friend, Taryn. Taryn began her nursing career on the brink of the COVID-19 Pandemic. She will walk Natalie through the struggles that nurses went through while we were honking our horns to celebrate them. The two women will also have an honest conversation about nurses’ perceived cost to a hospital compared to doctors’ worth to the hospital as well as what happens when lawmakers create laws where a medical practitioner has the power to use their prejudice to delegate what kind of care a patient deserves. We’re all affected by misogyny and the patriarchy and the medical world is no different. Support Taryn and the rest of our nurses by being more aware of how these systems affect their profession.    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">adf01c51-e062-4ffd-9e89-50c360a6feef</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 08:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577743/nursing_final.mp3" length="62176070" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87X.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is joined by a new friend, Taryn. Taryn began her nursing career on the brink of the COVID-19 Pandemic. She will walk Natalie through the struggles that nurses went through while we were honking our horns to celebrate them. The two...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by a new friend, Taryn. Taryn began her nursing career on the brink of the COVID-19 Pandemic. She will walk Natalie through the struggles that nurses went through while we were honking our horns to celebrate them. The two women will also have an honest conversation about nurses’ perceived cost to a hospital compared to doctors’ worth to the hospital as well as what happens when lawmakers create laws where a medical practitioner has the power to use their prejudice to delegate what kind of care a patient deserves. We’re all affected by misogyny and the patriarchy and the medical world is no different. Support Taryn and the rest of our nurses by being more aware of how these systems affect their profession.    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3886</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>covid19,doctors,empowered,essentialworkers,feminism,feminist,hospital,lifestyle,manifesting,medical,medicine,nursing,pandemic,podcast,politics,prejudice,racism,reflecting,texas,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Consent, Acroyoga, and Good Communication</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/consent-acroyoga-and-good-communication--51577786</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has the amazing Sarah Casper on the podcast to talk about her work with teaching students about comprehensive consent. What do acroyoga and consent have in common? They revolve around having the communication skills to pull off having a conversation about what makes you comfortable and what your boundaries are whether its in a yoga pose or in a sexual relationship. Sarah helps Natalie process some of her communication mishaps in the bedroom and allows her to let go of some of the pressure to always get it perfect when it comes to talking about sex. How were you taught about consent? Have your sexual boundaries been asked about or honored?  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Sarah’s Plugs: Instagram: @comprehensiveconsent Website: <a href="https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f83879fa-93cd-4cc0-b6fb-7932752aadce</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 08:00:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577786/comprehensice_consent_final_libsyn_ad.mp3" length="62450669" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87Y.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie has the amazing Sarah Casper on the podcast to talk about her work with teaching students about comprehensive consent. What do acroyoga and consent have in common? They revolve around having the communication skills to pull off...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has the amazing Sarah Casper on the podcast to talk about her work with teaching students about comprehensive consent. What do acroyoga and consent have in common? They revolve around having the communication skills to pull off having a conversation about what makes you comfortable and what your boundaries are whether its in a yoga pose or in a sexual relationship. Sarah helps Natalie process some of her communication mishaps in the bedroom and allows her to let go of some of the pressure to always get it perfect when it comes to talking about sex. How were you taught about consent? Have your sexual boundaries been asked about or honored?  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Sarah’s Plugs: Instagram: @comprehensiveconsent Website: <a href="https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3904</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,communication,consent,consenteducation,dating,feminism,growth,manifesting,podcast,relationships,sex,sexed,sexeducation,sexualrelationships,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcast,womenspodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unemployment Broke my Brain</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unemployment-broke-my-brain--51577777</link><description><![CDATA[Unemployment Broke my Brain: Natalie has her friend Trina Ross come on and talk about their experiences with unemployment. While their unemployment came in different ways, Natalie due to a pandemic and Trina due to unfair supervisors, the result was very similar. The two women have no interest working 9-5’s with the same values and lack of boundaries they experienced before they were unemployed. Natalie and Trina dive into the types of toxic rhetoric they’ve been taught about being apart of the workforce and even worst experience they’ve experienced in their jobs. Dolly Parton wrote a whole song about how day jobs were bullsh*t and now Natalie and Trina are ready to listen! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Trina’s Plugs: unstable.unicorn on TikTok]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6d1987f2-2b73-44d3-b7dd-c3f401701de7</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2022 03:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577777/unemployed_final_ad.mp3" length="65344618" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P87Z.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Unemployment Broke my Brain: Natalie has her friend Trina Ross come on and talk about their experiences with unemployment. While their unemployment came in different ways, Natalie due to a pandemic and Trina due to unfair supervisors, the result was...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unemployment Broke my Brain: Natalie has her friend Trina Ross come on and talk about their experiences with unemployment. While their unemployment came in different ways, Natalie due to a pandemic and Trina due to unfair supervisors, the result was very similar. The two women have no interest working 9-5’s with the same values and lack of boundaries they experienced before they were unemployed. Natalie and Trina dive into the types of toxic rhetoric they’ve been taught about being apart of the workforce and even worst experience they’ve experienced in their jobs. Dolly Parton wrote a whole song about how day jobs were bullsh*t and now Natalie and Trina are ready to listen! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Trina’s Plugs: unstable.unicorn on TikTok]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4085</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>change,dating,employment,empowerment,feminist,friendship,growth,healing,job,jobs,relationships,supportingwomen,toxicworkenvironment,unemployment,women,work,workforce</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>41</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Childfree, Bold, and Proud</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/childfree-bold-and-proud--51577800</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie had the pleasure of talking to Isabel Firecracker about her choice to be childfree. Isabel is the founder of Uprising Spark which allows Isabel to coach women into being proud, shamefree, and guiltless about the choice to be childfree. Natalie went completely honest about the recent revelation of how she has chosen to remain childfree and why that is the right choice for her. Isabele during the conversation breaks down her work and some of the stigma that comes with being a woman who chooses to be childfree. Are you a childfree woman looking for connection with other women who don’t want children? This is the perfect episode for you! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Isabel’s Plugs: The Uprising Spark: <a href="https://www.theuprisingspark.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.theuprisingspark.com/</a> Instagram: @theuprisingspark and @thehonestuproar]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7d657dd7-fbe7-4a27-aa86-619d24573eb4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2022 03:00:49 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577800/tolerated_ep_40_childfree_final.mp3" length="63327129" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P880.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie had the pleasure of talking to Isabel Firecracker about her choice to be childfree. Isabel is the founder of Uprising Spark which allows Isabel to coach women into being proud, shamefree, and guiltless about the choice to be childfree. Natalie...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie had the pleasure of talking to Isabel Firecracker about her choice to be childfree. Isabel is the founder of Uprising Spark which allows Isabel to coach women into being proud, shamefree, and guiltless about the choice to be childfree. Natalie went completely honest about the recent revelation of how she has chosen to remain childfree and why that is the right choice for her. Isabele during the conversation breaks down her work and some of the stigma that comes with being a woman who chooses to be childfree. Are you a childfree woman looking for connection with other women who don’t want children? This is the perfect episode for you! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Isabel’s Plugs: The Uprising Spark: <a href="https://www.theuprisingspark.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.theuprisingspark.com/</a> Instagram: @theuprisingspark and @thehonestuproar]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3958</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>childfree,children,choice,comedy,family,feminism,feminist,feministpodcast,kidfree,kids,mothers,parents,raisingchildren,relationships,strongwomen,women,womenempowerment</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Relating After a Pandemic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/relating-after-a-pandemic--51577764</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by one of her fairly new friends, Sarah Kate. The women will discuss how their ideals on relationships have changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic. For Sarah Kate, she found an assertiveness to her personality and now has a “this is how it is, I don’t care what you think it is” mindset. For Natalie, she needed to verbally process how odd it is to go back into a society and into relationships where you’re not sure if you still fit in. Natalie and Sarah Kate can agree, there’s definitely a change in the way relationships look now they’ve reflected on themselves and become more certain in who they are as people. How did your relationships change after you were forced to shelter in place? Let us know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">35616558-d577-440a-8de5-b0c83a2b617b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2022 03:09:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577764/tolerated_ep_39_final_2.mp3" length="64898238" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P881.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie is joined by one of her fairly new friends, Sarah Kate. The women will discuss how their ideals on relationships have changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic. For Sarah Kate, she found an assertiveness to her personality and now has a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie is joined by one of her fairly new friends, Sarah Kate. The women will discuss how their ideals on relationships have changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic. For Sarah Kate, she found an assertiveness to her personality and now has a “this is how it is, I don’t care what you think it is” mindset. For Natalie, she needed to verbally process how odd it is to go back into a society and into relationships where you’re not sure if you still fit in. Natalie and Sarah Kate can agree, there’s definitely a change in the way relationships look now they’ve reflected on themselves and become more certain in who they are as people. How did your relationships change after you were forced to shelter in place? Let us know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4057</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>changing,comedy,covid,covid19,dating,family,feminism,friendships,growing,healing,manifestation,manifesting,pandemic,quarantine,reflecting,relationships,shelterinplace,strongwomen,women,womenpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Women and Wrestling</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-and-wrestling--51577788</link><description><![CDATA[Women and Wrestling: Natalie is getting to explore the world of women’s wrestling with guest Darcie Darko on this week’s episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Darcie will get you pumped up about the pageantry and flair that comes with being a woman wrestler. Then, the two women will get into how Darcie was made to feel uncomfortable for wanting to be a wrestler and how it eventually led her to quit training. Now that she’s back to training later in her life, she’ll let listeners in on if the world of wrestling is kinder or if she is more secure in herself and can tolerate a few men in order to achieve her goals!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Darcie’s Plugs Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre Twitter: Junglegirl666]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9b52547d-5711-4349-89b9-79e953ef8b86</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 01:00:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577788/women_and_wrestling_final.mp3" length="65793506" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P882.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Women and Wrestling: Natalie is getting to explore the world of women’s wrestling with guest Darcie Darko on this week’s episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Darcie will get you pumped up about the pageantry and flair that comes with being...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Women and Wrestling: Natalie is getting to explore the world of women’s wrestling with guest Darcie Darko on this week’s episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Darcie will get you pumped up about the pageantry and flair that comes with being a woman wrestler. Then, the two women will get into how Darcie was made to feel uncomfortable for wanting to be a wrestler and how it eventually led her to quit training. Now that she’s back to training later in her life, she’ll let listeners in on if the world of wrestling is kinder or if she is more secure in herself and can tolerate a few men in order to achieve her goals!   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Darcie’s Plugs Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre Twitter: Junglegirl666]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4113</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,growth,healing,manifestation,podcast,podcaster,professionalwrestler,professionalwrestling,reflect,selfgrowth,women,womenempowerment,womenofwrestling,womenpodcasts,womenswrestling,womenwrestlers,wrestlemania,wrestling,wwe,wweraw</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>38</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>We Don't Talk About Generational Trauma</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-don-t-talk-about-generational-trauma--51577810</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Mireya Lopez, host of Mothering Anxiety. The two women are going to get real about their musings of the movie Encanto and how it forced them to confront their generational trauma. Each character of Encanto represented a different behavior they exhibited, an identity projected onto them, or a strong emotion they still carry. The result is a beautiful conversation of how generational trauma affects people into their adulthood and how we choose to heal from it. They get real about the past and the behaviors they have exhibited in relationships as a direct result of their generational trauma. Natalie left this conversation about her family and how hurt can run deep and through time thinking maybe it is time to reflect on forgiveness and what it means to be hurt by things that happened decades before she was born. Need support after watching Encanto and reliving your own generational trauma? Reach out to us! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mireya’s Plugs Instagram: motheringanxietypodcast Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/motheringanxietypodcast" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/motheringanxietypodcast</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">35cf240f-21db-4ee6-bc3e-1c893c610b6f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2022 01:00:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577810/tolerated_gen_trauma.mp3" length="70099740" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P883.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie is joined by Mireya Lopez, host of Mothering Anxiety. The two women are going to get real about their musings of the movie Encanto and how it forced them to confront their generational trauma. Each character of Encanto represented a different...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie is joined by Mireya Lopez, host of Mothering Anxiety. The two women are going to get real about their musings of the movie Encanto and how it forced them to confront their generational trauma. Each character of Encanto represented a different behavior they exhibited, an identity projected onto them, or a strong emotion they still carry. The result is a beautiful conversation of how generational trauma affects people into their adulthood and how we choose to heal from it. They get real about the past and the behaviors they have exhibited in relationships as a direct result of their generational trauma. Natalie left this conversation about her family and how hurt can run deep and through time thinking maybe it is time to reflect on forgiveness and what it means to be hurt by things that happened decades before she was born. Need support after watching Encanto and reliving your own generational trauma? Reach out to us! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mireya’s Plugs Instagram: motheringanxietypodcast Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/motheringanxietypodcast" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/motheringanxietypodcast</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4382</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>comedy,dating,disney,encanto,family,feminism,generational trauma,growing,healing,intergenerationaltrauma,mentalhealth,mindfulness,podcasts,reflecting,relationsips,selfgrowth,trauma,women,womenempowerment,womenpodcasts</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>37</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 36: Writing Smut with Mimi Duncan</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-36-writing-smut-with-mimi-duncan--51577793</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has her good friend, Mimi Duncan, on the podcast to talk about writing her first romance novel! Mimi delves into what she learned about the writing process and bringing attention to female sexuality by writing Jailbait. Her and Natalie discuss what leads to romance not being a respected genre and how everyone can benefit from some smutty reading. They also talk working in a sex shop, their attitudes about dating now, and why artists should continue believing in themselves and doing it their own way. What makes the romance genre steamy for you? Tell us after listening to episode 36! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mimi Duncan’s Plugs   Link to buy the book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref</a>=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1   Link to the Jailbait playlist:  <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA" rel="noopener">https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA</a>   Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks   Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com   Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj   Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: @redbelles]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4ca0f4a8-64ce-43a3-b87e-7390076fd6c8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 00:00:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577793/tolerated_mimi_duncanfinal.mp3" length="64644955" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P884.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie has her good friend, Mimi Duncan, on the podcast to talk about writing her first romance novel! Mimi delves into what she learned about the writing process and bringing attention to female sexuality by writing Jailbait. Her and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie has her good friend, Mimi Duncan, on the podcast to talk about writing her first romance novel! Mimi delves into what she learned about the writing process and bringing attention to female sexuality by writing Jailbait. Her and Natalie discuss what leads to romance not being a respected genre and how everyone can benefit from some smutty reading. They also talk working in a sex shop, their attitudes about dating now, and why artists should continue believing in themselves and doing it their own way. What makes the romance genre steamy for you? Tell us after listening to episode 36! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mimi Duncan’s Plugs   Link to buy the book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref</a>=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1   Link to the Jailbait playlist:  <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA" rel="noopener">https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA</a>   Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks   Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com   Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj   Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: @redbelles]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4041</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>podcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Writing to Heal with Lisa Pearson</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/writing-to-heal-with-lisa-pearson--51577801</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by Lisa Pearson. She walks the hosts through her story about how one intense breakup led her to writing her first book, A Victim's X Survivor's Diary Book of Poetry. Lisa was brave enough to turn her experiences with PTSD, childhood trauma, and tolerating men into an entire work of poetry. The women discuss creativity as a means to heal and what it means to work through your hardships and make it to the other side. Lisa's Plugs: Purchase the Book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Victims-Survivors-Diary-Book-Poetry-ebook/dp/B09MZQ55DD/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Victims-Survivors-Diary-Book-Poetry-ebook/dp/B09MZQ55DD/ref</a>=sr_1_8?crid=3KEN6JP8F0G6U&keywords=Lisa+Pearson&qid=1642688025&s=digital-text&sprefix=lisa+pearson%2Cdigital-text%2C64&sr=1-8 Facebook: <a href="https://m.facebook.com/painscreation/" rel="noopener">https://m.facebook.com/painscreation/</a> Instagram: @miss_marie_lee  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d9767e1d-7886-45b4-8538-c337a1fd60bc</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2022 14:24:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577801/tiamitb_episode_35_final.mp3" length="78866135" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://podcasts-embed.musixmatch.com/t/01HF7YXJCF6Z6FGAAVPEE8P885.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by Lisa Pearson. She walks the hosts through her story about how one intense breakup led her to writing her first book, A Victim's X Survivor's Diary Book of Poetry. Lisa was brave enough to turn her experiences...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by Lisa Pearson. She walks the hosts through her story about how one intense breakup led her to writing her first book, A Victim's X Survivor's Diary Book of Poetry. Lisa was brave enough to turn her experiences with PTSD, childhood trauma, and tolerating men into an entire work of poetry. The women discuss creativity as a means to heal and what it means to work through your hardships and make it to the other side. Lisa's Plugs: Purchase the Book:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Victims-Survivors-Diary-Book-Poetry-ebook/dp/B09MZQ55DD/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Victims-Survivors-Diary-Book-Poetry-ebook/dp/B09MZQ55DD/ref</a>=sr_1_8?crid=3KEN6JP8F0G6U&keywords=Lisa+Pearson&qid=1642688025&s=digital-text&sprefix=lisa+pearson%2Cdigital-text%2C64&sr=1-8 Facebook: <a href="https://m.facebook.com/painscreation/" rel="noopener">https://m.facebook.com/painscreation/</a> Instagram: @miss_marie_lee  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4930</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>author,healing,mentalhealth,poet,poetry,trauma,writing</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 34: Mommy Guilt with Amber and Stephanie</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-34-mommy-guilt-with-amber-and-stephanie--51577772</link><description><![CDATA[You’ll recognize the guests joining Natalie and Dina this week! Amber was the guest for Running a Small Business and a Household and Stephanie was the guest for Mothering During a Pandemic. What do they have in common? They’re moms and they are doing it all but still feel like they’re doing it wrong. Listen to Amber and Stephanie educate Natalie and Dina on why moms are in this constant mindset of being overwhelmed with all the things they could be doing better. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ea13033d-e0dc-4e2e-985b-98147823283c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577772/taimitb_episode_34_final.mp3" length="83413113" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’ll recognize the guests joining Natalie and Dina this week! Amber was the guest for Running a Small Business and a Household and Stephanie was the guest for Mothering During a Pandemic. What do they have in common? They’re moms and they are doing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’ll recognize the guests joining Natalie and Dina this week! Amber was the guest for Running a Small Business and a Household and Stephanie was the guest for Mothering During a Pandemic. What do they have in common? They’re moms and they are doing it all but still feel like they’re doing it wrong. Listen to Amber and Stephanie educate Natalie and Dina on why moms are in this constant mindset of being overwhelmed with all the things they could be doing better. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5214</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>34</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 33: Introducing Partners to Our Toys with Ellen Moore is available now!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-33-introducing-partners-to-our-toys-with-ellen-moore-is-available-now--51577805</link><description><![CDATA[This week Natalie and Dina are joined by host and producer of The Slut Show, Ellen Moore! Ellen will be helping them walk through all the ways we can break down barriers when it comes to our partners and our sex toys. All three women will share their experiences of using toys in the bedroom with partners and why it can be such an awesome or stressful experience. Why is there such a stigma against women wanting their toys involved with their partners? Weigh in after listening to this week’s episode! Instagram: theslutshowwithellenmoore and byellenmoore Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c702b8f1-ce29-4f64-bd72-a6f070846962</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577805/tatmitb_episode_33_ellen_moore_final.mp3" length="71049880" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week Natalie and Dina are joined by host and producer of The Slut Show, Ellen Moore! Ellen will be helping them walk through all the ways we can break down barriers when it comes to our partners and our sex toys. All three women will share their...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week Natalie and Dina are joined by host and producer of The Slut Show, Ellen Moore! Ellen will be helping them walk through all the ways we can break down barriers when it comes to our partners and our sex toys. All three women will share their experiences of using toys in the bedroom with partners and why it can be such an awesome or stressful experience. Why is there such a stigma against women wanting their toys involved with their partners? Weigh in after listening to this week’s episode! Instagram: theslutshowwithellenmoore and byellenmoore Linktree: <a href="https://linktr.ee/theslutshow" rel="noopener">https://linktr.ee/theslutshow</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4441</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 32: Making Bodies Art with Annie Sieg</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-32-making-bodies-art-with-annie-sieg--51577794</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are exploring a new way to love their bodies, making them art! They are joined by Chicagoland artist Annie Sieg. Natalie met Annie through TikTok when she fell in love with the creaminess and lushness she paints plus sized bodies in the nude. The three women talk about everything from body positivity, posing in the nude, and how to make friends on TikTok. Natalie even shares about her own experiences being a figure model for Annie and how it helped change her narrative about her body. Go beyond the male gaze of our bodies, Tolerators! How is your body a work of art? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6f9b8a1d-b7d2-48ec-9367-cee22620555e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2021 08:44:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577794/bitb_episode_32_final.mp3" length="73015841" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are exploring a new way to love their bodies, making them art! They are joined by Chicagoland artist Annie Sieg. Natalie met Annie through TikTok when she fell in love with the creaminess and lushness she paints plus sized...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are exploring a new way to love their bodies, making them art! They are joined by Chicagoland artist Annie Sieg. Natalie met Annie through TikTok when she fell in love with the creaminess and lushness she paints plus sized bodies in the nude. The three women talk about everything from body positivity, posing in the nude, and how to make friends on TikTok. Natalie even shares about her own experiences being a figure model for Annie and how it helped change her narrative about her body. Go beyond the male gaze of our bodies, Tolerators! How is your body a work of art? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4564</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 31: Homesteading and the Armed Forces with The Mother Cluckers</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-31-homesteading-and-the-armed-forces-with-the-mother-cluckers--51577814</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are joined this week by Liz and Brittany, hosts of The Mother Cluckers. Your city girl hosts get some information on why Liz and Brittany have chosen to learn more about homesteading and the strength it takes to do a little farm living. They also dive into the guests’ military backgrounds and discuss how women are treated while serving our country.From goats and bees to sexual harassment and unfair treatment, Liz and Brittany did a really lovely job being honest and open about their experiences.  Do you have a story to connect with this topic? Make sure to contact us after listening! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natal]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e48509a-7467-4581-bd5c-948d0cb917ce</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577814/bitb_episode_31_final_new.mp3" length="73418397" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are joined this week by Liz and Brittany, hosts of The Mother Cluckers. Your city girl hosts get some information on why Liz and Brittany have chosen to learn more about homesteading and the strength it takes to do a little farm...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are joined this week by Liz and Brittany, hosts of The Mother Cluckers. Your city girl hosts get some information on why Liz and Brittany have chosen to learn more about homesteading and the strength it takes to do a little farm living. They also dive into the guests’ military backgrounds and discuss how women are treated while serving our country.From goats and bees to sexual harassment and unfair treatment, Liz and Brittany did a really lovely job being honest and open about their experiences.  Do you have a story to connect with this topic? Make sure to contact us after listening! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natal]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4589</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 30: Romantic Comedies and Us</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-30-romantic-comedies-and-us--51577766</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina trade romantic comedy tropes they wish would happen to them in their real lives. Are they into an enemy to lovers subplot? A thrown together under unlikely circumstances? For Natalie, this was a chance for her to connect with her inner dreamer again and approach life as a place where fantasies can happen. Dina connects with some comedies with interesting premises! What would be the plot of your romantic comedy? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">71e2bb60-7b16-4834-b3a4-bbfad8723c22</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2021 06:59:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577766/bitb_episode_30_final.mp3" length="70480202" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina trade romantic comedy tropes they wish would happen to them in their real lives. Are they into an enemy to lovers subplot? A thrown together under unlikely circumstances? For Natalie, this was a chance for her to connect...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina trade romantic comedy tropes they wish would happen to them in their real lives. Are they into an enemy to lovers subplot? A thrown together under unlikely circumstances? For Natalie, this was a chance for her to connect with her inner dreamer again and approach life as a place where fantasies can happen. Dina connects with some comedies with interesting premises! What would be the plot of your romantic comedy? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4405</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 29: Goin’ Hollywood about Men and Movies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-29-goin-hollywood-about-men-and-movies--51577795</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by JD and Ghost from the podcast Goin’ Hollywood! JD and Ghost will share their movie crushes and talk about how the media affected their viewpoints on relationships and women. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is that it takes conversations in a safe environment about how all genders are treated by society to really influence change. How did the media shape your viewpoint on dating and relationships? Goin’ Hollywood Plugs: Website: <a href="https://www.goinhollywoodpodcast.com" rel="noopener">https://www.goinhollywoodpodcast.com</a> Instagrams: @goinhollywoodpodcast, @the.ghost.88, and @dudeistweirdo TikTok: @goinhollywood and @the.ghost.88 The Ghost on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEt0J-I52diN5VpmBohrKhA" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEt0J-I52diN5VpmBohrKhA</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f114d6aa-408d-46a7-af65-7187505c7eb8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2021 04:40:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577795/bitb_episode_29_final.mp3" length="76246367" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by JD and Ghost from the podcast Goin’ Hollywood! JD and Ghost will share their movie crushes and talk about how the media affected their viewpoints on relationships and women. One of the biggest takeaways from...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by JD and Ghost from the podcast Goin’ Hollywood! JD and Ghost will share their movie crushes and talk about how the media affected their viewpoints on relationships and women. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is that it takes conversations in a safe environment about how all genders are treated by society to really influence change. How did the media shape your viewpoint on dating and relationships? Goin’ Hollywood Plugs: Website: <a href="https://www.goinhollywoodpodcast.com" rel="noopener">https://www.goinhollywoodpodcast.com</a> Instagrams: @goinhollywoodpodcast, @the.ghost.88, and @dudeistweirdo TikTok: @goinhollywood and @the.ghost.88 The Ghost on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEt0J-I52diN5VpmBohrKhA" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEt0J-I52diN5VpmBohrKhA</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4766</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 28: Work Besties and Boos</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-28-work-besties-and-boos--51577790</link><description><![CDATA[After an intense deep dive of the work environments they’ve been working in, Nat and Dina decide to celebrate the men who have acted as support systems within those systems. For Natalie, she reflects on how important it was for her to have people within her work environment who could validate her experiences and help her see through the gaslighting. Dina discusses the one man who gave her hope in fatherhood. Who is your biggest support system at work and why are they so important to you? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">eff2d0c7-c7e5-4ccb-aa7b-71bbbe150e2a</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577790/bitb_episode_28_final.mp3" length="59705214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>After an intense deep dive of the work environments they’ve been working in, Nat and Dina decide to celebrate the men who have acted as support systems within those systems. For Natalie, she reflects on how important it was for her to have people...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[After an intense deep dive of the work environments they’ve been working in, Nat and Dina decide to celebrate the men who have acted as support systems within those systems. For Natalie, she reflects on how important it was for her to have people within her work environment who could validate her experiences and help her see through the gaslighting. Dina discusses the one man who gave her hope in fatherhood. Who is your biggest support system at work and why are they so important to you? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3732</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 27: Bosses and Toxic Work Environments</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-27-bosses-and-toxic-work-environments--51577792</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are tackling behaviors they’ve had to tolerate in the workplace! They will each share about a boss that has affected their careers and describe instances where their office environment was unhealthy. The two friends can agree that current work cultures need to go by the wayside and that women need to be heard more in the workplace. For Natalie, she reflects on a job where she had true passion for the work but was bogged down by the insecurity and ego of her employer. Dina discusses her love-hate relationship with her boss. How do you keep yourself healthy in your work environment? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b2609108-bf72-4a60-b2bd-269e69177c14</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577792/bitb_episode_27_final.mp3" length="65917759" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are tackling behaviors they’ve had to tolerate in the workplace! They will each share about a boss that has affected their careers and describe instances where their office environment was unhealthy. The two friends can agree that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are tackling behaviors they’ve had to tolerate in the workplace! They will each share about a boss that has affected their careers and describe instances where their office environment was unhealthy. The two friends can agree that current work cultures need to go by the wayside and that women need to be heard more in the workplace. For Natalie, she reflects on a job where she had true passion for the work but was bogged down by the insecurity and ego of her employer. Dina discusses her love-hate relationship with her boss. How do you keep yourself healthy in your work environment? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4120</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 26: Women in Horror with Guest Caitlin Grant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-26-women-in-horror-with-guest-caitlin-grant--51577809</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are discussing horror movies with Caitlin Grant, host of Plug It Up. Plug It Up is a podcast where Caitlin explores feminine representation in horror with a focus on monstrous menstruation and monstrous motherhood. The trio discusses representation in horror, gatekeeping, and the strength behind these tropes.. Go on a deep dive on the scary, the feminist, and the disappointing ways women play a role in the horror genre. Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">033fad8f-65c6-469f-b0d0-816a5d172c60</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577809/bitb_episode_26_final.mp3" length="67341328" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are discussing horror movies with Caitlin Grant, host of Plug It Up. Plug It Up is a podcast where Caitlin explores feminine representation in horror with a focus on monstrous menstruation and monstrous motherhood. The trio...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are discussing horror movies with Caitlin Grant, host of Plug It Up. Plug It Up is a podcast where Caitlin explores feminine representation in horror with a focus on monstrous menstruation and monstrous motherhood. The trio discusses representation in horror, gatekeeping, and the strength behind these tropes.. Go on a deep dive on the scary, the feminist, and the disappointing ways women play a role in the horror genre. Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4209</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 25: I Need Attention!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-25-i-need-attention--51577818</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are sharing their behaviors they know were ploys for attention. Natalie reflects on the double edged sword of wanting attention but not feeling like you’re deserving of it. She also comes to terms with how her shame centering around positive attention created some boundary and communication issues. Dina recalls her online relationships where she looked for a dopamine rush. What do you do when you need attention? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">08135781-f28e-467e-8351-cb1d9f11c946</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577818/bitb_episode_25_final.mp3" length="65048822" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are sharing their behaviors they know were ploys for attention. Natalie reflects on the double edged sword of wanting attention but not feeling like you’re deserving of it. She also comes to terms with how her shame...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are sharing their behaviors they know were ploys for attention. Natalie reflects on the double edged sword of wanting attention but not feeling like you’re deserving of it. She also comes to terms with how her shame centering around positive attention created some boundary and communication issues. Dina recalls her online relationships where she looked for a dopamine rush. What do you do when you need attention? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4066</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 24: Internet Fantasy Relationships</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-24-internet-fantasy-relationships--51577773</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are delving into interesting ways they’ve met men through the internet before dating apps. Natalie shares some of the shadier ways she interacted with men through online forums. She now believes that AIM and other platforms have given her a foundation to crave true connection in the real world and to stop fantasizing about how someone presents themself online. Dina recalls all the attention she sought through internet relationships. Surf the internet of the past through Natalie and Dina’s experiences and share how you experienced internet relationships before apps! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5d9fee4b-7c13-45fb-a94c-9c2b19c68e39</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577773/bitb_episode_24_final.mp3" length="67045712" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are delving into interesting ways they’ve met men through the internet before dating apps. Natalie shares some of the shadier ways she interacted with men through online forums. She now believes that AIM and other platforms...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are delving into interesting ways they’ve met men through the internet before dating apps. Natalie shares some of the shadier ways she interacted with men through online forums. She now believes that AIM and other platforms have given her a foundation to crave true connection in the real world and to stop fantasizing about how someone presents themself online. Dina recalls all the attention she sought through internet relationships. Surf the internet of the past through Natalie and Dina’s experiences and share how you experienced internet relationships before apps! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4191</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 23: Our Relationships with our Bodies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-23-our-relationships-with-our-bodies--51577822</link><description><![CDATA[This week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina give the Tolerators some insight on their body image and what influenced their relationships with their bodies. For Natalie, she reflects on toeing the line between body positivity, maybe just not giving a shit anymore, and masking the insecurities she might still have with her body. At the end of the day, she’s trying to take the peace she has with what her body looks like and turn it into self-love. Dina talks about her lifetime struggle with body image and how she’s making small steps to love herself more. What were your biggest influences on the way you felt about your body? Tell us after listening to Our Relationships with our Bodies! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">45104f77-4221-45cc-93b0-9a1219ca2078</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577822/bitb_episode_23_final.mp3" length="68743999" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina give the Tolerators some insight on their body image and what influenced their relationships with their bodies. For Natalie, she reflects on toeing the line between body positivity,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina give the Tolerators some insight on their body image and what influenced their relationships with their bodies. For Natalie, she reflects on toeing the line between body positivity, maybe just not giving a shit anymore, and masking the insecurities she might still have with her body. At the end of the day, she’s trying to take the peace she has with what her body looks like and turn it into self-love. Dina talks about her lifetime struggle with body image and how she’s making small steps to love herself more. What were your biggest influences on the way you felt about your body? Tell us after listening to Our Relationships with our Bodies! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4297</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 22: Running a Small Business and a Household</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-22-running-a-small-business-and-a-household--51577791</link><description><![CDATA[This week on a very special episode of TATMITB, Nat and Dina are joined by Amber Mendenhall, historical costumer and co-host of Costumoms! Amber is a dear friend of the pod and she will be discussing all the ins and outs of juggling motherhood, a husband. costuming, and running a business. Amber urges the men in the world to help carry the load for women so they can live up to their potential and dreams. Natalie gains some perspective on how men’s brains work when it comes to multitasking and children. This episode is a great inside look on how women can do it all! But should they have to? Amber’s costuming IG: ladyofthewilderness Virgil’s Fine Goods: <a href="https://virgilsfinegoods.com/" rel="noopener">https://virgilsfinegoods.com/</a> CostuMoms: <a href="https://youtube.com/channel/UCixXpoAAPnxSj3suRM7A_HA" rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/channel/UCixXpoAAPnxSj3suRM7A_HA</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d4c64342-bbfd-4e5e-baa3-195d6bf4a4b8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577791/bitb_episode_22_final.mp3" length="81047046" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week on a very special episode of TATMITB, Nat and Dina are joined by Amber Mendenhall, historical costumer and co-host of Costumoms! Amber is a dear friend of the pod and she will be discussing all the ins and outs of juggling motherhood, a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week on a very special episode of TATMITB, Nat and Dina are joined by Amber Mendenhall, historical costumer and co-host of Costumoms! Amber is a dear friend of the pod and she will be discussing all the ins and outs of juggling motherhood, a husband. costuming, and running a business. Amber urges the men in the world to help carry the load for women so they can live up to their potential and dreams. Natalie gains some perspective on how men’s brains work when it comes to multitasking and children. This episode is a great inside look on how women can do it all! But should they have to? Amber’s costuming IG: ladyofthewilderness Virgil’s Fine Goods: <a href="https://virgilsfinegoods.com/" rel="noopener">https://virgilsfinegoods.com/</a> CostuMoms: <a href="https://youtube.com/channel/UCixXpoAAPnxSj3suRM7A_HA" rel="noopener">https://youtube.com/channel/UCixXpoAAPnxSj3suRM7A_HA</a> To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5066</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 21: The Best Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-21-the-best-dates--51577797</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are getting hyped talking about the best dates they’ve ever been on! You’ll even end up with a few tips on what makes a great date in their expert opinions. Natalie talks about a date that had great chemistry and how proud she is of herself when she allows herself to be authentic and spontaneous. Dina talks about her frolic at a Japanese market and what makes a great date for her! They can’t wait to share their experiences with you and hear all about the best dates you’ve been on! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">5a595689-f673-4827-a96c-e83760ce5d4c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577797/bitb_episode_21_final.mp3" length="57427754" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina are getting hyped talking about the best dates they’ve ever been on! You’ll even end up with a few tips on what makes a great date in their expert opinions. Natalie talks about a date that had great chemistry and how proud...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina are getting hyped talking about the best dates they’ve ever been on! You’ll even end up with a few tips on what makes a great date in their expert opinions. Natalie talks about a date that had great chemistry and how proud she is of herself when she allows herself to be authentic and spontaneous. Dina talks about her frolic at a Japanese market and what makes a great date for her! They can’t wait to share their experiences with you and hear all about the best dates you’ve been on! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3590</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 20: The Worst Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-20-the-worst-dates--51577802</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina remember the dates that almost had them giving up on romance. Natalie shares about a date that went from awkward to strange all within 30 minutes. Her biggest lesson being that she can be honest and upfront about when things aren’t going well and get the hell out of a situation! Dina talks about a date where her boundaries were challenged and violated. Join the friends as they dissect how the dates should have gone better in “The Worst Dates”! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">aa5a9b7c-042b-41ce-b768-bbc42f90f272</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577802/bitb_episode_20_final.mp3" length="65960391" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina remember the dates that almost had them giving up on romance. Natalie shares about a date that went from awkward to strange all within 30 minutes. Her biggest lesson being that she can be honest and upfront about when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina remember the dates that almost had them giving up on romance. Natalie shares about a date that went from awkward to strange all within 30 minutes. Her biggest lesson being that she can be honest and upfront about when things aren’t going well and get the hell out of a situation! Dina talks about a date where her boundaries were challenged and violated. Join the friends as they dissect how the dates should have gone better in “The Worst Dates”! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4123</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 19: “But Do You Sport?”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-19-but-do-you-sport--51577824</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are trying to relate to men who love sports this week. They’ll discuss the ways they can and cannot get on board with while cheering over a sports team. Natalie delves into a time when sports were prioritized over her emotional health. But she also comes to the realization that it might be okay to fake it a little bit when someone is jazzed about a game. Dina finds a sports dude who seems to have some backwards views. Can you help Natalie and Dina relate to the sports community? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0f9a5cf4-c8c5-4e0e-9a3c-1aa61b7cb3f0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577824/bitb_episode_19_final.mp3" length="56863092" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are trying to relate to men who love sports this week. They’ll discuss the ways they can and cannot get on board with while cheering over a sports team. Natalie delves into a time when sports were prioritized over her emotional...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are trying to relate to men who love sports this week. They’ll discuss the ways they can and cannot get on board with while cheering over a sports team. Natalie delves into a time when sports were prioritized over her emotional health. But she also comes to the realization that it might be okay to fake it a little bit when someone is jazzed about a game. Dina finds a sports dude who seems to have some backwards views. Can you help Natalie and Dina relate to the sports community? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3554</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 18: And I Still Slept With Him After That!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-18-and-i-still-slept-with-him-after-that--51577812</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina trade off the bloopers they experienced after entering a sexual relationship with a man. They’ll chat about the hilarious and sometimes very awkward behaviors they’ve experienced inside the bedroom. Natalie’s biggest lesson from her funniest, sexy times is that she enjoys a good spectacle in bed but really gets her kicks when she’s allowed to be bratty and in a battle of wills with her partner. Dina retells the intimate details and weird sounds from the bedroom. Listen to this episode and make sure to give the girls one of your funniest, sexual encounters! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8c46827a-29d6-479e-b199-b54f113d38e8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577812/bitb_episode_18_final.mp3" length="49472737" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina trade off the bloopers they experienced after entering a sexual relationship with a man. They’ll chat about the hilarious and sometimes very awkward behaviors they’ve experienced inside the bedroom. Natalie’s biggest lesson from her...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina trade off the bloopers they experienced after entering a sexual relationship with a man. They’ll chat about the hilarious and sometimes very awkward behaviors they’ve experienced inside the bedroom. Natalie’s biggest lesson from her funniest, sexy times is that she enjoys a good spectacle in bed but really gets her kicks when she’s allowed to be bratty and in a battle of wills with her partner. Dina retells the intimate details and weird sounds from the bedroom. Listen to this episode and make sure to give the girls one of your funniest, sexual encounters! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3093</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 17: Friendly or Friendzoned</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-17-friendly-or-friendzoned--51577807</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are getting down to the bottom of what it means to be in the “friendzone”. For Natalie, she reflects on being in the friendzone for six years before a chance at romance arose. Now, she’s looking for relationships rooted in good friendship and chemistry. Dina relives her 2020 casual nightmare. Do you still feel the sting from the first time you were friendzoned? Or should you have been satisfied with being friends? Think it over with Nat and Dina! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">df6f7ce1-615e-43d9-8585-e1eedcaa1b63</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577807/bitb_episode_17_final.mp3" length="57651363" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are getting down to the bottom of what it means to be in the “friendzone”. For Natalie, she reflects on being in the friendzone for six years before a chance at romance arose. Now, she’s looking for relationships rooted in good...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are getting down to the bottom of what it means to be in the “friendzone”. For Natalie, she reflects on being in the friendzone for six years before a chance at romance arose. Now, she’s looking for relationships rooted in good friendship and chemistry. Dina relives her 2020 casual nightmare. Do you still feel the sting from the first time you were friendzoned? Or should you have been satisfied with being friends? Think it over with Nat and Dina! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3604</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 16: Unintentional Thirsty Movies</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-16-unintentional-thirsty-movies--51577780</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are chatting about all the movies they find hot and steamy, even if it wasn’t the intention of the movie. For Natalie, she gets hot and bothered by scoundrel adventurers who are hiding a heart of gold. Dina gets freaky in Middle-Earth with the dwarves and dragons. Laugh along with them as they dive into the unconventional movie characters that get them feeling frisky. Will your favorite movie crush be represented in this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">06249ae2-69ff-49bb-a72d-3db817462e71</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577780/bitb_episode_16_final.mp3" length="59786298" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are chatting about all the movies they find hot and steamy, even if it wasn’t the intention of the movie. For Natalie, she gets hot and bothered by scoundrel adventurers who are hiding a heart of gold. Dina gets freaky in Middle-Earth...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are chatting about all the movies they find hot and steamy, even if it wasn’t the intention of the movie. For Natalie, she gets hot and bothered by scoundrel adventurers who are hiding a heart of gold. Dina gets freaky in Middle-Earth with the dwarves and dragons. Laugh along with them as they dive into the unconventional movie characters that get them feeling frisky. Will your favorite movie crush be represented in this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3737</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 15: Motherhood During a Pandemic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-15-motherhood-during-a-pandemic--51577796</link><description><![CDATA[In a very special episode, Natalie and Dina are joined by Natalie’s best friend from childhood. Stephanie answers your hosts’ questions about what challenges mothers are facing due to the COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Natalie’s biggest takeaway; mother’s need all the help and positivity they can get. Dina, who has limited knowledge on children, gets a glimpse into the joys of being a mother. Join the three women as they discuss how to keep mother’s sane and children happen in a world having a health crisis. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">37f76c4d-43f4-4b62-9447-ad5a304bbdfb</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577796/bitb_episode_15_final.mp3" length="59083709" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In a very special episode, Natalie and Dina are joined by Natalie’s best friend from childhood. Stephanie answers your hosts’ questions about what challenges mothers are facing due to the COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Natalie’s biggest takeaway;...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In a very special episode, Natalie and Dina are joined by Natalie’s best friend from childhood. Stephanie answers your hosts’ questions about what challenges mothers are facing due to the COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Natalie’s biggest takeaway; mother’s need all the help and positivity they can get. Dina, who has limited knowledge on children, gets a glimpse into the joys of being a mother. Join the three women as they discuss how to keep mother’s sane and children happen in a world having a health crisis. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!  ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3693</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 14: So You Want to Date Your Podcast Host</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-14-so-you-want-to-date-your-podcast-host--51577813</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode Natalie hands you a cheat sheet on how to date her. Dina, well Dina gives you the warning label. The two friends go point for point handing you the tips you need in order to be successful in dating them. Natalie’s biggest take away is she wants you prepped with your dating resume and be ready to date a woman who is bold, proud, and in love with who she is. Do you have what it takes to swipe right on either woman after this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">1985a207-8a62-45c0-a9ac-a40bd6624ead</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577813/bitb_episode_14_final.mp3" length="57826905" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode Natalie hands you a cheat sheet on how to date her. Dina, well Dina gives you the warning label. The two friends go point for point handing you the tips you need in order to be successful in dating them. Natalie’s biggest take away is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode Natalie hands you a cheat sheet on how to date her. Dina, well Dina gives you the warning label. The two friends go point for point handing you the tips you need in order to be successful in dating them. Natalie’s biggest take away is she wants you prepped with your dating resume and be ready to date a woman who is bold, proud, and in love with who she is. Do you have what it takes to swipe right on either woman after this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3615</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 13: Valentine’s Day in July!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-13-valentine-s-day-in-july--51577815</link><description><![CDATA[Best friends Dina and Natalie are celebrating their first episode in July with Valentine’s Day! Is it possibly because they started recording months before they released their show? You decide! Natalie’s greatest take away from all her Valentine’s Day dates is that they’re the most meaningful when the people you’re celebrating with know you inside and out! Dina reflects on a time when she spent Valentine’s Day as a couple. Get romantic with Dina and Natalie and listen to some of the ways they’ve celebrated the power of love! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">348910e5-9435-473b-927c-92b89c5682e0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577815/bitb_episode13_final.mp3" length="46293740" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Best friends Dina and Natalie are celebrating their first episode in July with Valentine’s Day! Is it possibly because they started recording months before they released their show? You decide! Natalie’s greatest take away from all her Valentine’s Day...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Best friends Dina and Natalie are celebrating their first episode in July with Valentine’s Day! Is it possibly because they started recording months before they released their show? You decide! Natalie’s greatest take away from all her Valentine’s Day dates is that they’re the most meaningful when the people you’re celebrating with know you inside and out! Dina reflects on a time when she spent Valentine’s Day as a couple. Get romantic with Dina and Natalie and listen to some of the ways they’ve celebrated the power of love! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2894</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 12: The Mama’s Boy</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-12-the-mama-s-boy--51577817</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who still need their mommies to help them through their day to day. Natalie reflects on men from the past who struggled to put themselves first when it came to their mothers. Dina talks about her past relationship with a mama’s boy who didn’t know what he wanted. Catch these two friends dissecting parental dynamics and when it’s time to re-evaluate boundaries on this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">282162ba-2d08-4c77-a416-8d61fa1c4d28</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577817/bitb_episode_12_final.mp3" length="58817887" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who still need their mommies to help them through their day to day. Natalie reflects on men from the past who struggled to put themselves first when it came to their mothers. Dina talks about her past...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who still need their mommies to help them through their day to day. Natalie reflects on men from the past who struggled to put themselves first when it came to their mothers. Dina talks about her past relationship with a mama’s boy who didn’t know what he wanted. Catch these two friends dissecting parental dynamics and when it’s time to re-evaluate boundaries on this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3677</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 11: The Mansplainers and Know It Alls</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-11-the-mansplainers-and-know-it-alls--51577781</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who have a lot to say and believe they know an awful lot about an awful lot. Natalie will reflect on how she’s done a lot of work on making sure she is voicing her opinions, but still has room to grow when it comes to backing herself up and asserting her views during a dialogue. Dina struggles with learning and listening to her mansplainer. Support these two friends as they navigate around how to make sure conversations with men aren’t just one- sided in this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ccc19495-384e-4acb-93e2-7384f532b8bf</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2021 12:11:56 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577781/bitb_episode_11_final.mp3" length="60898070" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who have a lot to say and believe they know an awful lot about an awful lot. Natalie will reflect on how she’s done a lot of work on making sure she is voicing her opinions, but still has room to grow when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who have a lot to say and believe they know an awful lot about an awful lot. Natalie will reflect on how she’s done a lot of work on making sure she is voicing her opinions, but still has room to grow when it comes to backing herself up and asserting her views during a dialogue. Dina struggles with learning and listening to her mansplainer. Support these two friends as they navigate around how to make sure conversations with men aren’t just one- sided in this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3807</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 10: We Have our First Guest, Mx. Regina Spade!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-we-have-our-first-guest-mx-regina-spade--51577816</link><description><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina will be talking with their first guest and some of the ways she’s been tolerating men in her modeling career.  Mx. Regina Spade is a freelance model with a focus on alternative, conceptual, boudoir, and fantasy work. The three women are talking everything body positivity, loving the way you look, and how enjoying the way you look is a game changer! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e353acb2-068a-422f-a502-1e03d9379dc1</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577816/bitb_episode_10_final.mp3" length="61262948" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This week, Natalie and Dina will be talking with their first guest and some of the ways she’s been tolerating men in her modeling career.  Mx. Regina Spade is a freelance model with a focus on alternative, conceptual, boudoir, and fantasy work. The...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Natalie and Dina will be talking with their first guest and some of the ways she’s been tolerating men in her modeling career.  Mx. Regina Spade is a freelance model with a focus on alternative, conceptual, boudoir, and fantasy work. The three women are talking everything body positivity, loving the way you look, and how enjoying the way you look is a game changer! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3829</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 9: Simps and the Way They Fall Head Over Heels</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-simps-and-the-way-they-fall-head-over-heels--51577820</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are discussing Simp culture and what it means to have a simp fawn all over you. Natalie will grapple with whether or not she thinks a simp romance is right for her and how she feels that it is a new upgraded term for the friendzone. Dina discusses how her simp pushes her boundaries. They want to hear your take on Simp culture after listening to this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">07c4eccb-adf6-4d7f-8192-ec6992002d24</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577820/bitb_episode_09_final.mp3" length="56566756" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://menivetoleratedbefore.myshopify.com/blogs/transcripts-for-episodes/simps-and-the-way-they-fall-head-over-heels-transcript" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina are discussing Simp culture and what it means to have a simp fawn all over you. Natalie will grapple with whether or not she thinks a simp romance is right for her and how she feels that it is a new upgraded term for the friendzone....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina are discussing Simp culture and what it means to have a simp fawn all over you. Natalie will grapple with whether or not she thinks a simp romance is right for her and how she feels that it is a new upgraded term for the friendzone. Dina discusses how her simp pushes her boundaries. They want to hear your take on Simp culture after listening to this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3536</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 8: The One Who Got Away</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-8-the-one-who-got-away--51577821</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina reminisce about two men they wish were still a part of their lives. For Natalie, she figures out that one good friendship is worth way more than any of her half-hearted relationships. Dina relives a love that she misses everyday. Things get sappy in this episode and they want you to be there with them, sharing your wistful memories of the good relationships long past you’ve had! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6ca0aa6e-a1fb-439f-96c5-03518dda652b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577821/tatmitb_episode_08_final.mp3" length="57773823" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina reminisce about two men they wish were still a part of their lives. For Natalie, she figures out that one good friendship is worth way more than any of her half-hearted relationships. Dina relives a love that she misses everyday....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina reminisce about two men they wish were still a part of their lives. For Natalie, she figures out that one good friendship is worth way more than any of her half-hearted relationships. Dina relives a love that she misses everyday. Things get sappy in this episode and they want you to be there with them, sharing your wistful memories of the good relationships long past you’ve had! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3611</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 7: When Shame Enters the Relationship</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-7-when-shame-enters-the-relationship--51577823</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina take this week to talk about the guys who bummed them out with their insecurities and shame spirals. Natalie reflects on her relationship with a man who allowed his religious upbringing into their bedroom. Dina gets her breasts disrespected and then ghosted. Join them in processing what was said to them by men who were clearly in need of some healing positivity and a class in self-love. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dadcace2-f202-47b4-828b-3642154c788c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577823/bitb_episode_07_final.mp3" length="67182084" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina take this week to talk about the guys who bummed them out with their insecurities and shame spirals. Natalie reflects on her relationship with a man who allowed his religious upbringing into their bedroom. Dina gets her breasts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina take this week to talk about the guys who bummed them out with their insecurities and shame spirals. Natalie reflects on her relationship with a man who allowed his religious upbringing into their bedroom. Dina gets her breasts disrespected and then ghosted. Join them in processing what was said to them by men who were clearly in need of some healing positivity and a class in self-love. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4199</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 6: Men Who Mentored Us</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-6-men-who-mentored-us--51577798</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina give each other examples of men who served as teachers and mentors to them. Natalie discusses how she finally found an older, wiser person who could make her realize she has an artist living within her. Dina’s mentor lights fire to her inner sexual goddess and teaches her how to be her truest, domineering self. Join them as they discuss two men who opened them up and taught them things about themselves they hadn’t even thought to consider. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8445cde3-379c-4a51-abe1-8ba7f0f1f209</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577798/bitb_episode_06_final.mp3" length="54394623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina give each other examples of men who served as teachers and mentors to them. Natalie discusses how she finally found an older, wiser person who could make her realize she has an artist living within her. Dina’s mentor lights fire to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina give each other examples of men who served as teachers and mentors to them. Natalie discusses how she finally found an older, wiser person who could make her realize she has an artist living within her. Dina’s mentor lights fire to her inner sexual goddess and teaches her how to be her truest, domineering self. Join them as they discuss two men who opened them up and taught them things about themselves they hadn’t even thought to consider. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3400</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 5: Dating During a Pandemic</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-dating-during-a-pandemic--51577819</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina delve into the tricky and messy, but also truly unique, ways they’ve tried to date during a global pandemic. This is Natalie’s chance to brag about the failed dating web series she was cast on and all the twists and turns it took. Dina goes on virtual dates and realizes they’re more low pressure and not so bad! Join them as they try to navigate how you try and find a partner who has to remain six feet away! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c6eac828-6fe6-4651-8c46-1ebed62712a4</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577819/bitb_episode_05_final.mp3" length="55646828" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina delve into the tricky and messy, but also truly unique, ways they’ve tried to date during a global pandemic. This is Natalie’s chance to brag about the failed dating web series she was cast on and all the twists and turns it took....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina delve into the tricky and messy, but also truly unique, ways they’ve tried to date during a global pandemic. This is Natalie’s chance to brag about the failed dating web series she was cast on and all the twists and turns it took. Dina goes on virtual dates and realizes they’re more low pressure and not so bad! Join them as they try to navigate how you try and find a partner who has to remain six feet away! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3478</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 4: Relationship Diagnostic: How We Feel About Dating</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-4-relationship-diagnostic-how-we-feel-about-dating--51577804</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina continue to reconsider the fact they have relationships with men. This episode they explore what they’re feeling they need out of any current or future relationships. Natalie knows she’s emotionally available but still struggles to find people on her level of commitment. Dina is recently single and knows she has some personal growth to do.  Help them build and grow the landscape of their next relationship by listening and sending those positive vibes their way! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">92cb183a-2eab-4522-b698-08d609b976db</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577804/bitb_episode_04_final.mp3" length="61959266" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina continue to reconsider the fact they have relationships with men. This episode they explore what they’re feeling they need out of any current or future relationships. Natalie knows she’s emotionally available but still struggles to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina continue to reconsider the fact they have relationships with men. This episode they explore what they’re feeling they need out of any current or future relationships. Natalie knows she’s emotionally available but still struggles to find people on her level of commitment. Dina is recently single and knows she has some personal growth to do.  Help them build and grow the landscape of their next relationship by listening and sending those positive vibes their way! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3873</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 1: First Crushes and the Inability to Make a Move</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-1-first-crushes-and-the-inability-to-make-a-move--51577825</link><description><![CDATA[For the first episode of To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina are taking themselves back to where it all began, their first crushes. They share some laughs over their common mistake, never making the first move. Relive with them as they discuss all the men they had to watch date other people because they weren’t as bold and confident as they are today. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">aa51847d-87ea-41cf-bc0b-6d167f8f4fdb</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577825/bitb_episode_01_final.mp3" length="54667550" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>For the first episode of To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina are taking themselves back to where it all began, their first crushes. They share some laughs over their common mistake, never making the first move. Relive with them as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[For the first episode of To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina are taking themselves back to where it all began, their first crushes. They share some laughs over their common mistake, never making the first move. Relive with them as they discuss all the men they had to watch date other people because they weren’t as bold and confident as they are today. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3417</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 2: The Awkward First Kiss</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-2-the-awkward-first-kiss--51577811</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina up the cringe factor and get into the details on their first kisses. For Natalie, the experience was so shocking she suffered a fall (and not the romantic kind). Dina’s first kiss happened after a day full of build up and roller coasters! Laugh with them as they hope for better kisses in the future and long afternoons spent making out! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e1e0449d-13ef-4875-80c4-850b41e4886e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577811/bitb_episode_02_final.mp3" length="55799383" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina up the cringe factor and get into the details on their first kisses. For Natalie, the experience was so shocking she suffered a fall (and not the romantic kind). Dina’s first kiss happened after a day full of build up and roller...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina up the cringe factor and get into the details on their first kisses. For Natalie, the experience was so shocking she suffered a fall (and not the romantic kind). Dina’s first kiss happened after a day full of build up and roller coasters! Laugh with them as they hope for better kisses in the future and long afternoons spent making out! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3488</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 3: Our First Time Having Sex</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-3-our-first-time-having-sex--51577799</link><description><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina continue their ascent up the cringe rollercoaster of relationships with men by sharing with you how they lost their virginities. Natalie travelled this world with a plastic bag full of condoms just trying to not leave college as a virgin. Dina had one goal in mind: get it over with! The best friends discuss everything from purity to pleasure in this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7e228cf4-239c-43d4-ab82-901a3263ef6f</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51577799/bitb_episode_03_final.mp3" length="57831083" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>To All The Men I've Tolerated</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Natalie and Dina continue their ascent up the cringe rollercoaster of relationships with men by sharing with you how they lost their virginities. Natalie travelled this world with a plastic bag full of condoms just trying to not leave college as a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Natalie and Dina continue their ascent up the cringe rollercoaster of relationships with men by sharing with you how they lost their virginities. Natalie travelled this world with a plastic bag full of condoms just trying to not leave college as a virgin. Dina had one goal in mind: get it over with! The best friends discuss everything from purity to pleasure in this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations.  To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts!  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3615</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07fd99da80132c5426ff7020a57d7257.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
