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No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. 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And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Education"><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Sexuality"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>21 Flirty Ways to Make Her Feel Authentic Attraction (How to Escape the Friend Zone, Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-flirty-ways-to-make-her-feel-authentic-attraction-how-to-escape-the-friend-zone-part-2--73502559</link><description><![CDATA[You know what sucks? Thinking a date went well only to hear her say, “I didn’t feel a connection.” Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you a practical roadmap to avoid the Friend Zone—before, during, and after a date. He shares playful pre-date texts, flirting strategies on the date, and funny next-day messages that make her laugh. Get ready to start hearing, “So when are we going out again?”<br /><br />DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH FLIRTING OR TEXTING? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73502559</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 15:53:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73502559/aug_5.mp3" length="81440272" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2/e2a03b13-e1e3-45a1-8691-d0328f2a3da2.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what sucks? Thinking a date went well only to hear her say, “I didn’t feel a connection.” Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you a practical roadmap to avoid the Friend Zone—before, during, and after a date. He shares...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what sucks? Thinking a date went well only to hear her say, “I didn’t feel a connection.” Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you a practical roadmap to avoid the Friend Zone—before, during, and after a date. He shares playful pre-date texts, flirting strategies on the date, and funny next-day messages that make her laugh. Get ready to start hearing, “So when are we going out again?”<br /><br />DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH FLIRTING OR TEXTING? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3393</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4ceaf62dc659b33def6fb22ea641e4c8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Date Seemed Great… So Why Did You End Up in the Friend Zone? (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-date-seemed-great-so-why-did-you-end-up-in-the-friend-zone-part-1--73091285</link><description><![CDATA[The date seemed to go well—conversation flowed, and there were no awkward silences. Yet she texted you those painful words: “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In Part 1 of this two-part episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why many men end up in the Friend Zone. He also shares how changing the way you communicate with women creates the spark that leads to second dates, first kisses—and a lasting relationship.<br /><br />ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO ESCAPE THE FRIEND ZONE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73091285</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 18:52:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/73091285/july_23.mp3" length="44180560" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74/c69d5b2b-0a8d-4d23-802a-f86d44a41d74.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The date seemed to go well—conversation flowed, and there were no awkward silences. Yet she texted you those painful words: “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In Part 1 of this two-part episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The date seemed to go well—conversation flowed, and there were no awkward silences. Yet she texted you those painful words: “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In Part 1 of this two-part episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why many men end up in the Friend Zone. He also shares how changing the way you communicate with women creates the spark that leads to second dates, first kisses—and a lasting relationship.<br /><br />ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO ESCAPE THE FRIEND ZONE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1841</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a3f3979ed2e55597e41826def8261f94.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“You’re Not Broken!” 3 Steps to Lasting Dating Confidence (with Attachment Style Expert Thais Gibson)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-not-broken-3-steps-to-lasting-dating-confidence-with-attachment-style-expert-thais-gibson--72914105</link><description><![CDATA[If fear of rejection keeps you from taking romantic chances—sending that text or approaching an attractive stranger—Thais Gibson has a solution. Gibson has helped more than 70,000 people build thriving relationships, both through her book, “The New Attachment Theory,” and as founder of the Personal Development School. Gibson joins dating coach Connell Barrett to share practical exercises to help you overcome rejection anxiety, build lasting confidence, and create healthier relationships.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:55: Why the “Perfect” Opener Won’t Fix Deeper Insecurity<br /><br />09:18: 3 Steps to Stop Feeling that You’re Not Enough<br /><br />17:57: How the 4 Attachment Styles Affect Your Dating Life<br /><br />27:13: Why Guys Panic When a Woman Doesn’t Text Back Right Away<br /><br />41:01: She Went Quiet? Here’s What a Securely Attached Men Does Next<br /><br />44:22: Do This When You Want to Go for the Kiss<br /><br />TAKE THAIS GIBSON’S FREE ATTACHMENT STYLE QUIZ: <a href="http://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com</a><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL: <a href="http://Personaldevelopmentschool.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Personaldevelopmentschool.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL ON INSTAGRAM: @‌thepersonaldevelopmentschool]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72914105</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 13:18:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72914105/41373131_3c1e_44d2_9618_0fa83a692c01.mp3" length="81000208" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959/ae20d950-adf2-4e4c-a775-ee6c2b4bf959.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If fear of rejection keeps you from taking romantic chances—sending that text or approaching an attractive stranger—Thais Gibson has a solution. 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Here’s What a Securely Attached Men Does Next<br /><br />44:22: Do This When You Want to Go for the Kiss<br /><br />TAKE THAIS GIBSON’S FREE ATTACHMENT STYLE QUIZ: <a href="http://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com</a><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL: <a href="http://Personaldevelopmentschool.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Personaldevelopmentschool.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW THE PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT SCHOOL ON INSTAGRAM: @‌thepersonaldevelopmentschool]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3375</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/593764ba6d9006a98e01ff6ba6887480.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>11 Pickup Lines That Are Classy, Not Creepy—Say These to Any Woman, Anywhere</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-pickup-lines-that-are-classy-not-creepy-say-these-to-any-woman-anywhere--72790765</link><description><![CDATA[You see an incredible woman you want to talk to, but you’re not sure what to say—and the pickup lines you’ve heard sound cheesy or creepy. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 11 natural, non-cringe opening lines you can say to any woman. Get ready to break the ice in charming, genuine ways, and start getting dates.<br /><br />HIRE CONNELL TO TEACH YOU HOW TO APPROACH AND DATE INCREDIBLE WOMEN. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72790765</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 14:21:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72790765/july_2.mp3" length="43444432" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957/d40a7ecd-8d27-4e48-acdd-da35295da957.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see an incredible woman you want to talk to, but you’re not sure what to say—and the pickup lines you’ve heard sound cheesy or creepy. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 11 natural, non-cringe...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see an incredible woman you want to talk to, but you’re not sure what to say—and the pickup lines you’ve heard sound cheesy or creepy. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 11 natural, non-cringe opening lines you can say to any woman. Get ready to break the ice in charming, genuine ways, and start getting dates.<br /><br />HIRE CONNELL TO TEACH YOU HOW TO APPROACH AND DATE INCREDIBLE WOMEN. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1810</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5dd4add0f5e332471b6621352efeff5a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“The Best First Date of My Life” — How Tony Learned to Flirt and Won Jennifer Over</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-best-first-date-of-my-life-how-tony-learned-to-flirt-and-won-jennifer-over--72705711</link><description><![CDATA[If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I say? How do I flirt?” Tony’s story will resonate. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with Tony, a divorced dad and software engineer who had some flirting breakthroughs that helped him win over Jennifer. If Tony can go from struggling to talk to women to finding his dream relationship, so can you!<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72705711</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 17:44:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72705711/june_26.mp3" length="42182527" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4/b098434f-8c8e-46f7-ad8c-d6bcdcc63df4.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I say? How do I flirt?” Tony’s story will resonate. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with Tony, a divorced dad and software engineer who had some flirting breakthroughs...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I say? How do I flirt?” Tony’s story will resonate. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with Tony, a divorced dad and software engineer who had some flirting breakthroughs that helped him win over Jennifer. If Tony can go from struggling to talk to women to finding his dream relationship, so can you!<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1758</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/61c2d9b5b7317e230ea1ecbd92c71d39.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Flirting Moments that Broke My Brain (and Rewired What I Thought Was Possible)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-flirting-moments-that-broke-my-brain-and-rewired-what-i-thought-was-possible--72636735</link><description><![CDATA[When you get good at flirting, you’ll be shocked by what you can achieve. Dating coach Connell Barrett sure was. Once a dateless introvert stuck in the friend zone, he never imagined his love life would include instant make-outs, fun flings, and beautiful women pursuing him. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell shares five brain-breaking flirting moments that shattered his dating limitations. What might be possible for you?<br /><br />03:11: “You Want Me to Approach Her? She’s with that Guy!”<br /><br />09:39: Three First Dates, Three First Kisses<br /><br />18:20: Why So Many Women Prefer Older Men<br /><br />24:54: The Date that Truly Broke My Brain<br /><br />36:17: How to Manage a Ménage: It’s as Easy as One, Two, “Toi”<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72636735</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 06:55:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72636735/june_23.mp3" length="62392639" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609/f2555138-6b32-4695-bf0c-0402264b0609.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you get good at flirting, you’ll be shocked by what you can achieve. Dating coach Connell Barrett sure was. Once a dateless introvert stuck in the friend zone, he never imagined his love life would include instant make-outs, fun flings, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you get good at flirting, you’ll be shocked by what you can achieve. Dating coach Connell Barrett sure was. Once a dateless introvert stuck in the friend zone, he never imagined his love life would include instant make-outs, fun flings, and beautiful women pursuing him. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell shares five brain-breaking flirting moments that shattered his dating limitations. What might be possible for you?<br /><br />03:11: “You Want Me to Approach Her? She’s with that Guy!”<br /><br />09:39: Three First Dates, Three First Kisses<br /><br />18:20: Why So Many Women Prefer Older Men<br /><br />24:54: The Date that Truly Broke My Brain<br /><br />36:17: How to Manage a Ménage: It’s as Easy as One, Two, “Toi”<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2600</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e4219f9d3fd190f1b4dbe694f278ba8a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Days, 7 Online Dating Openers: What to Write on the Apps Every Day of the Week</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-days-7-online-dating-openers-what-to-write-on-the-apps-every-day-of-the-week--72586787</link><description><![CDATA[Imagine never struggling to come up with a good online dating opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares seven proven, playful dating-app openers that you can use every day of the week! You’re about to learn what to message women, and how to keep the conversation flowing after they reply.<br /><br />NOT GETTING ENOUGH DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line) ]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72586787</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 19:32:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72586787/june_18.mp3" length="36262975" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52/e30d6a64-295e-4b0b-bee1-301883df0a52.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Imagine never struggling to come up with a good online dating opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares seven proven, playful dating-app openers that you can use every day of the week! You’re about to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine never struggling to come up with a good online dating opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares seven proven, playful dating-app openers that you can use every day of the week! You’re about to learn what to message women, and how to keep the conversation flowing after they reply.<br /><br />NOT GETTING ENOUGH DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line) ]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1511</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a869d92d59b2d583ac94ce5e74dfff52.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>It’s the Least Sexy Skill in Dating—and It Might Land You Your Dream Girl</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-the-least-sexy-skill-in-dating-and-it-might-land-you-your-dream-girl--72579519</link><description><![CDATA[There’s one dating skill that will help you smash through almost any dating challenge, from rejection to ghosting to approach anxiety. The skill? Resilience. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett reveals why resilience is the least sexy but most powerful skill in dating—and how it can help you to finally find the one. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT AND BANTER ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72579519</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 13:51:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72579519/june_16.mp3" length="30696511" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533/6cbd0bbd-0c9f-4362-9079-7d911e564533.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s one dating skill that will help you smash through almost any dating challenge, from rejection to ghosting to approach anxiety. The skill? Resilience. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett reveals why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s one dating skill that will help you smash through almost any dating challenge, from rejection to ghosting to approach anxiety. The skill? Resilience. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett reveals why resilience is the least sexy but most powerful skill in dating—and how it can help you to finally find the one. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT AND BANTER ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1279</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8bcfe5fc80939c37fd02a418a85b4ea7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>My Flirting Hall of Shame: 7 Times I Screwed Up Royally with Women (Learn from My F-ups!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-flirting-hall-of-shame-7-times-i-screwed-up-royally-with-women-learn-from-my-f-ups--72468490</link><description><![CDATA[You can’t get great at flirting without making mistakes, as dating coach Connell Barrett learned the hard way. In this candid and hilarious episode, Connell shares 7 huge flirting mistakes he made—including the time a woman poured a pitcher of ice-water down his shirt. He also shares 7 lessons that helped him crack the code on male-female connection.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72468490</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 06:05:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72468490/june_11.mp3" length="40908422" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c/50286333-0b33-474a-9265-7f244dd8702c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You can’t get great at flirting without making mistakes, as dating coach Connell Barrett learned the hard way. In this candid and hilarious episode, Connell shares 7 huge flirting mistakes he made—including the time a woman poured a pitcher of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can’t get great at flirting without making mistakes, as dating coach Connell Barrett learned the hard way. In this candid and hilarious episode, Connell shares 7 huge flirting mistakes he made—including the time a woman poured a pitcher of ice-water down his shirt. He also shares 7 lessons that helped him crack the code on male-female connection.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1705</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/97c780b7940706c4cc1fa8076a4f2e0f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ghosted? Not for Long! Here are 22 Funny Text Messages to Get Her Writing You Back</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ghosted-not-for-long-here-are-22-funny-text-messages-to-get-her-writing-you-back--72370566</link><description><![CDATA[You texted, but she didn’t reply. So you assume you’re ghosted. Not so fast! Dating coach Connell Barrett says that one unanswered text isn’t ghosting. It’s just dating in 2026. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell breaks down why most “ghosting” isn’t actually ghosting—and he shares 22 funny, playful follow-up messages that get women writing you back and going on dates with you. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO TEXT WOMEN? TIRED OF GETTING GHOSTED? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72370566</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 06:20:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72370566/june_9.mp3" length="34799359" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007/b226fd7e-0bc9-451b-a2d1-4c0ec7b08007.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You texted, but she didn’t reply. So you assume you’re ghosted. Not so fast! Dating coach Connell Barrett says that one unanswered text isn’t ghosting. It’s just dating in 2026. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell breaks down why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You texted, but she didn’t reply. So you assume you’re ghosted. Not so fast! Dating coach Connell Barrett says that one unanswered text isn’t ghosting. It’s just dating in 2026. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell breaks down why most “ghosting” isn’t actually ghosting—and he shares 22 funny, playful follow-up messages that get women writing you back and going on dates with you. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO TEXT WOMEN? TIRED OF GETTING GHOSTED? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1450</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54c3c922c1bfd733e64feec5ee64fc63.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Struggling to Get Second Dates? Take Drastic Action: “Blow Up” Your Next First Date!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/struggling-to-get-second-dates-take-drastic-action-blow-up-your-next-first-date--72369414</link><description><![CDATA[Most guys struggle on first dates by playing it too safe. Same dull questions, same dull answers, same text she sends the next day: “I didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares a drastic, powerful solution. “Blow up” your next first date! Connell breaks down the three rules to take your dates from forgettable to explosively fun. He also explains why the “risky” move is the smartest one you can make. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT GETTING ENOUGH DATES WITH WOMEN YOU’RE INTO? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>G<br /><br />ET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72369414</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 14:49:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72369414/june_5.mp3" length="39677503" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a/54f8b5cd-553e-44af-b8af-06af08d74f7a.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Most guys struggle on first dates by playing it too safe. Same dull questions, same dull answers, same text she sends the next day: “I didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most guys struggle on first dates by playing it too safe. Same dull questions, same dull answers, same text she sends the next day: “I didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares a drastic, powerful solution. “Blow up” your next first date! Connell breaks down the three rules to take your dates from forgettable to explosively fun. He also explains why the “risky” move is the smartest one you can make. Listen now.<br /><br />NOT GETTING ENOUGH DATES WITH WOMEN YOU’RE INTO? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>G<br /><br />ET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1653</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/be50df0fdca9f2e65a238b0b7c174518.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>In 2026, Women Want You to Approach Them More Than Ever (Seriously!) Here’s Why</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/in-2026-women-want-you-to-approach-them-more-than-ever-seriously-here-s-why--72300510</link><description><![CDATA[You want to meet women in the real world, but you you worry that it’s weird or socially creepy. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why now is the best time ever to meet women “in the wild.” He shares how he and his clients are proving it every day. Listen now so you can stop overthinking and start approaching women in your day-to-day life.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH AND TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72300510</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 17:12:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72300510/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="30242047" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d/a08f2f7b-277b-4cf0-a78e-ccff1b4d192d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want to meet women in the real world, but you you worry that it’s weird or socially creepy. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why now is the best time ever to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want to meet women in the real world, but you you worry that it’s weird or socially creepy. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why now is the best time ever to meet women “in the wild.” He shares how he and his clients are proving it every day. Listen now so you can stop overthinking and start approaching women in your day-to-day life.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH AND TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1260</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/73968809264288fecf7a6eb72351f983.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Running Out of Things to Say: 8 Topics that Ignite Flirty Conversations with Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-running-out-of-things-to-say-8-topics-that-ignite-flirty-conversations-with-women--72192389</link><description><![CDATA[Nothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing, flirty conversations. You’ll learn how to keep conversations going, banter with charm, and get a lot more second dates.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT AND BANTER ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72192389</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 05:25:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72192389/may_28.mp3" length="49953343" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc/fdc8eb9d-9b99-4440-b304-1b7088fc8afc.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing, flirty conversations. You’ll learn how to keep conversations going, banter with charm, and get a lot more second dates.<br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT AND BANTER ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2082</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0da3ffecc83242d2b0d2f4a2b8f311f8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Should I Start an OnlyFans?” 31 Funny, Flirty Things to Say to Women When You Approach</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-i-start-an-onlyfans-31-funny-flirty-things-to-say-to-women-when-you-approach--72105937</link><description><![CDATA[You see a woman in the real world you want to meet—but you freeze, get stuck in your head, and have no clue what to say. On this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 31 flirty, funny things to say to break the ice with women. Listen now for 31 openers that are charming, playful and NEVER creepy.<br /><br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72105937</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 06:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72105937/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="33279878" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23/b82630de-8d29-42ee-8b8e-76bcdd19bb23.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see a woman in the real world you want to meet—but you freeze, get stuck in your head, and have no clue what to say. On this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 31 flirty,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see a woman in the real world you want to meet—but you freeze, get stuck in your head, and have no clue what to say. On this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 31 flirty, funny things to say to break the ice with women. Listen now for 31 openers that are charming, playful and NEVER creepy.<br /><br /><br />NOT SURE HOW TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1387</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c7e1aa5353ca9c3cc1f069fe01bd7e09.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Pickup Lines for Guys Who Hate Pickup Lines: Stop Overthinking, Approach Her, and Just Say This</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-pickup-lines-for-guys-who-hate-pickup-lines-stop-overthinking-approach-her-and-just-say-this--72073090</link><description><![CDATA[Do you want to meet women without sounding like some weird pickup artist? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five pickup lines for men who hate pickup lines. You’ll hear how his client Taylor went from overthinking approaches to confidently meeting and dating Cassie—no cheesy pickup lines needed. And if Taylor can do it, so can you!<br /><br /><br />STRUGGLING TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72073090</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 06:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72073090/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="42143359" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df/598bc3d9-3bc1-4913-8531-2154aa1372df.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you want to meet women without sounding like some weird pickup artist? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five pickup lines for men who hate pickup lines. You’ll hear how his...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you want to meet women without sounding like some weird pickup artist? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five pickup lines for men who hate pickup lines. You’ll hear how his client Taylor went from overthinking approaches to confidently meeting and dating Cassie—no cheesy pickup lines needed. And if Taylor can do it, so can you!<br /><br /><br />STRUGGLING TO APPROACH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1756</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cf92382f914be1f49ad76b18532a9012.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Women Want Hot Guys” Is Bullsh*t: How Shekar Went from Self-Doubt to Approaching Confidence (Live Coaching)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-want-hot-guys-is-bullsh-t-how-shekar-went-from-self-doubt-to-approaching-confidence-live-coaching--72058597</link><description><![CDATA[If you feel you’re just not handsome enough to get a great girlfriend, this episode will change how you think. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett sits down with his client Shekar, who used to feel like he wasn’t handsome enough to date wonderful women. Then he flew to New York City for Connell’s Wingman Weekend approaching bootcamp. Now he can meet women, get numbers, flirt—and he finally feels worthy!<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:31: The “Hand of God” Approach That Changed Shekar’s Confidence<br /><br />14:14: Why It’s Not Creepy to Approach Women at the Gym<br /><br />24:45: The Secret to Playful Banter on the Dating Apps<br /><br />36:35: The Surprising Link Between Self-Improvement and Getting a Girlfriend<br /><br />1:03:25: How Much Does Where You Live Impact Your Love Life?<br /><br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT AND CONNECT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72058597</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 06:35:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72058597/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="123903679" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f/6caa1a9b-39c7-4b17-b721-b4e117624f2f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you feel you’re just not handsome enough to get a great girlfriend, this episode will change how you think. 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Now he can meet women, get numbers, flirt—and he finally feels worthy!<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:31: The “Hand of God” Approach That Changed Shekar’s Confidence<br /><br />14:14: Why It’s Not Creepy to Approach Women at the Gym<br /><br />24:45: The Secret to Playful Banter on the Dating Apps<br /><br />36:35: The Surprising Link Between Self-Improvement and Getting a Girlfriend<br /><br />1:03:25: How Much Does Where You Live Impact Your Love Life?<br /><br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT AND CONNECT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? 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And the idea of approaching women felt impossible. Then came one unforgettable Friday night. With dating coach and author Connell Barrett as his wingman, Robbie grabbed seven phone numbers and soon met his romantic partner. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell and Robbie unpack the aha moments that changed Robbie’s love life.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />08:25: The Cute Cashier Robbie Was Too Anxious to Talk To<br /><br />14:15: A Simple Mindset Shift that Made Approaching Simple<br /><br />24:50: The Playful Opener that Unlocked Robbie’s Confidence<br /><br />34:15: “I Was in God Mode!” How Robbie Got 7 Phone Numbers in One Night<br /><br />50:37: How Approaching Women Changes Your Entire Dating Life<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO APPROACH WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL SO HE CAN HELP YOU FIX IT:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72022242</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 16:01:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72022242/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="76875007" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6/7856b68f-daa0-4bc1-96b6-03de750e65b6.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Robbie was once so anxious around women he couldn’t even say hi to his crush, the cute cashier. And the idea of approaching women felt impossible. Then came one unforgettable Friday night. With dating coach and author Connell Barrett as his wingman,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Robbie was once so anxious around women he couldn’t even say hi to his crush, the cute cashier. And the idea of approaching women felt impossible. Then came one unforgettable Friday night. With dating coach and author Connell Barrett as his wingman, Robbie grabbed seven phone numbers and soon met his romantic partner. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell and Robbie unpack the aha moments that changed Robbie’s love life.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />08:25: The Cute Cashier Robbie Was Too Anxious to Talk To<br /><br />14:15: A Simple Mindset Shift that Made Approaching Simple<br /><br />24:50: The Playful Opener that Unlocked Robbie’s Confidence<br /><br />34:15: “I Was in God Mode!” How Robbie Got 7 Phone Numbers in One Night<br /><br />50:37: How Approaching Women Changes Your Entire Dating Life<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO APPROACH WOMEN? 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 37 flirty things to say that spark chemistry and help her feel a real romantic connection—without using any manipulative pickup artist tactics. Listen now so you can confidently flirt and start getting second dates.<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br /><br />Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71980235</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 06:25:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71980235/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="31045567" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/starship/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d/0dfeae13-9d56-458b-8633-eeb90cc7f21d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not knowing what to say or how to flirt on first dates can get any guy trapped in the dreaded friend zone. 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BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br /><br />Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1294</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e7c19537cd2db1f5f724cf1c31430a49.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Flirt So Good She Can’t Stop Thinking About You (Live Coaching with Evan)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-flirt-so-good-she-can-t-stop-thinking-about-you-live-coaching-with-evan--71832359</link><description><![CDATA[You see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.<br /><br />07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head &amp; Meet Women at Your Local Bar<br /><br />10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is<br /><br />19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women<br /><br />40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact<br /><br />55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.<br /><br />07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head &amp; Meet Women at Your Local Bar<br /><br />10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is<br /><br />19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women<br /><br />40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact<br /><br />55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? 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You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71800904</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2026 06:40:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71800904/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="94515007" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups. You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.<br /><br />STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3938</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/30b5b841c08b798c80eb346d3fec4d8b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>JUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating Moments</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-say-this-your-cheat-sheet-to-stop-freezing-and-start-flirting-in-7-scary-dating-moments--71676762</link><description><![CDATA[If you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)<br /><br />05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love<br /><br />09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet<br /><br />14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date<br /><br />17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone<br /><br />26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First Kiss<br /><br />TIRED OF STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief<br /><br />13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)<br /><br />16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark<br /><br />21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence<br /><br />23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers &amp; Dates (Results!)<br /><br />28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching<br /><br />31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream Girlfriend<br /><br />TIRED OF FREEZING UP AROUND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? 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You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.<br /><br />DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL TO LEARN HOW CONNELL’S 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71290675</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 06:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71290675/april_14.mp3" length="59921023" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? 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It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest<br /><br />06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment<br /><br />11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone<br /><br />15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates<br /><br />18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71052561</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 20:03:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71052561/final_audio_htgagn.mp3" length="38398214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. 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It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest<br /><br />06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment<br /><br />11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone<br /><br />15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates<br /><br />18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1600</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f40de72407db70edcbf829b5ecf54d81.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Was That Creepy Guy: 5 Brutal Mistakes That Pushed Women Away</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-was-that-creepy-guy-5-brutal-mistakes-that-pushed-women-away--70753308</link><description><![CDATA[Being creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. 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Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me<br /><br />04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”<br /><br />07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent<br /><br />12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away<br /><br />19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew It<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1611</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/de95f8049702621a86e16117e54cb887.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 6 Lies About Dating Apps That Cost You Quality Matches</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-6-lies-about-dating-apps-that-cost-you-quality-matches--70729373</link><description><![CDATA[If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough<br /><br />05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking<br /><br />08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers<br /><br />11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio<br /><br />14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates<br /><br />20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70729373</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 01:51:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70729373/mar_19.mp3" length="34504447" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough<br /><br />05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking<br /><br />08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers<br /><br />11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio<br /><br />14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates<br /><br />20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1438</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/32008151ccef3f6936bbf28cb4c31314.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>He Wrote WHAT On His Bio? Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts Cringe Online Dating Profiles</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/he-wrote-what-on-his-bio-dating-coach-connell-barrett-roasts-cringe-online-dating-profiles--70579434</link><description><![CDATA[Online dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches<br /><br />14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios Ever<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING COACHING: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70579434</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 21:45:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70579434/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="40599679" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Online dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Online dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches<br /><br />14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios Ever<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING COACHING: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1692</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bfcda68977f33cedc4413861fbcb4199.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Failed at Approaching Women… Until One Night Changed Everything</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-failed-at-approaching-women-until-one-night-changed-everything--70389176</link><description><![CDATA[Fifteen years ago, he was ready to quit approaching for good. He hated it. Nothing worked. Then a night in Miami changed everything. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett talks about this fateful evening. He also shares inspiring success stories from his clients Ken, Jason, and Ray. If you freeze up around beautiful women, this episode is for you.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS<br /><br />01:59: The Night in Miami that Changed Connell’s Dating Life<br /><br />17:01: How Ken Went from Shy Virgin to Getting His First Kiss and First Girlfriend<br /><br />30:08: The Moment Ray Stopped Freezing Up and Started Confidently Meeting WomenB<br /><br />OOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL’S TEAM TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70389176</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 07:45:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70389176/march_3.mp3" length="64740415" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Fifteen years ago, he was ready to quit approaching for good. He hated it. Nothing worked. Then a night in Miami changed everything. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett talks...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fifteen years ago, he was ready to quit approaching for good. He hated it. Nothing worked. Then a night in Miami changed everything. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett talks about this fateful evening. He also shares inspiring success stories from his clients Ken, Jason, and Ray. If you freeze up around beautiful women, this episode is for you.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS<br /><br />01:59: The Night in Miami that Changed Connell’s Dating Life<br /><br />17:01: How Ken Went from Shy Virgin to Getting His First Kiss and First Girlfriend<br /><br />30:08: The Moment Ray Stopped Freezing Up and Started Confidently Meeting WomenB<br /><br />OOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL’S TEAM TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2698</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a0ad4487ceb437101334d9850a0b9267.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From ‘I’m Not Feeling It’ to ‘I Can’t Wait to See You Again’ — The 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-i-m-not-feeling-it-to-i-can-t-wait-to-see-you-again-the-6-levels-of-flirting-mastery--70084788</link><description><![CDATA[Do you not know how to flirt with women? Have you ever heard those brutal words, “I’m just not feeling it”? Your confusion ends today. For the first time, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares the 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery, giving you a clear, revolutionary roadmap so you’ll always know exactly how to talk to women. Whether you want basic competence or true mastery, get ready to start hearing, “So, when can I see you again?”<br /><br />The 6 Levels of Flirting:<br /><br />02:00: Level 1: Play<br /><br />05:50: Level 2: Clear Statements of Romantic Interest<br /><br />10:31: Level 3: Banter16:10: Level 4: Emotional Connection<br /><br />21:50: Level 5: Physical &amp; Nonverbal Expressiveness<br /><br />27:22: Level 6: Integration &amp; Calibration<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT TO FIND OUT IF CONNELL’S DATING-COACHING CAN HELP YOU BECOME AMAZING AT FLIRTING: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70084788</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 07:25:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70084788/feb_17.mp3" length="53019967" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you not know how to flirt with women? Have you ever heard those brutal words, “I’m just not feeling it”? Your confusion ends today. For the first time, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares the 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you not know how to flirt with women? Have you ever heard those brutal words, “I’m just not feeling it”? Your confusion ends today. For the first time, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares the 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery, giving you a clear, revolutionary roadmap so you’ll always know exactly how to talk to women. Whether you want basic competence or true mastery, get ready to start hearing, “So, when can I see you again?”<br /><br />The 6 Levels of Flirting:<br /><br />02:00: Level 1: Play<br /><br />05:50: Level 2: Clear Statements of Romantic Interest<br /><br />10:31: Level 3: Banter16:10: Level 4: Emotional Connection<br /><br />21:50: Level 5: Physical &amp; Nonverbal Expressiveness<br /><br />27:22: Level 6: Integration &amp; Calibration<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT TO FIND OUT IF CONNELL’S DATING-COACHING CAN HELP YOU BECOME AMAZING AT FLIRTING: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2209</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ba36d230460879b14f8188cbf4f65502.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Make-or-Break Dating Moments to Either Win Her Interest… Or Lose It</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-make-or-break-dating-moments-to-either-win-her-interest-or-lose-it--70036303</link><description><![CDATA[There are pivotal moments in dating that determine whether you create romantic sparks with a woman or lose your chance with her entirely. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 make-or-break moments that will determine when and if you find the relationship you want.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:45: Make-or-Break Moment 1: To Approach or Not to Approach?<br /><br />07:30: Make-or-Break Moment 2: When and How to Ask Her Out<br /><br />12:15: Make-or-Break Moment 3: THIS Makes Her Swipe Right<br /><br />16:45: Make-or Break Moment 4: Use Your First-Date Superpower to Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />23:20: Make-or-Break Moment 5: The Secret to Pre-Date Texting<br /><br />26:05: Make-or-Break Moment 6: How to Pass Her Tests<br /><br />30:10: Make or Break Moment 7: A Texting Move to Stop Getting Ghosted<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70036303</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2026 14:38:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70036303/final_audoi_htgag.mp3" length="54282559" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are pivotal moments in dating that determine whether you create romantic sparks with a woman or lose your chance with her entirely. 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 make-or-break moments that will determine when and if you find the relationship you want.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:45: Make-or-Break Moment 1: To Approach or Not to Approach?<br /><br />07:30: Make-or-Break Moment 2: When and How to Ask Her Out<br /><br />12:15: Make-or-Break Moment 3: THIS Makes Her Swipe Right<br /><br />16:45: Make-or Break Moment 4: Use Your First-Date Superpower to Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />23:20: Make-or-Break Moment 5: The Secret to Pre-Date Texting<br /><br />26:05: Make-or-Break Moment 6: How to Pass Her Tests<br /><br />30:10: Make or Break Moment 7: A Texting Move to Stop Getting Ghosted<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2262</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e4842f7239d04410910f425fda8180b5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>I Can’t Believe These Are Real: 15 Dating App Openers Men Actually Sent to Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-can-t-believe-these-are-real-15-dating-app-openers-men-actually-sent-to-women--69744949</link><description><![CDATA[“I want to date you… you remind me of my mom.” Yep, a guy actually sent that as an opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down 15 real messages and sorts them into three categories: magnificent, meh, and mortifying. You’ll laugh, you’ll cringe, and you might even steal a line or two that actually works.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />01:47: The Insult Opener That Somehow Got a Reply<br /><br />02:43: Say This on the Apps—It’s Genius<br /><br />04:25: The One-word Christmas Message that She (Rightly) Hated<br /><br />08:50: A Line Only Hannibal Lecter Should Use<br /><br />13:43: The Most Painfully Boring First Message on Earth<br /><br />20:02: The Secret to Writing Charming Openers<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN WHY AUTHENTICITY IS THE SECRET WEAPON TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69744949</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 22:26:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69744949/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="32010943" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“I want to date you… you remind me of my mom.” Yep, a guy actually sent that as an opener. 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You’ll laugh, you’ll cringe, and you might even steal a line or two that actually works.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:<br /><br />01:47: The Insult Opener That Somehow Got a Reply<br /><br />02:43: Say This on the Apps—It’s Genius<br /><br />04:25: The One-word Christmas Message that She (Rightly) Hated<br /><br />08:50: A Line Only Hannibal Lecter Should Use<br /><br />13:43: The Most Painfully Boring First Message on Earth<br /><br />20:02: The Secret to Writing Charming Openers<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN WHY AUTHENTICITY IS THE SECRET WEAPON TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1334</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5e0d993e0c4cede46ed4f6a212f866ca.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“I Thought I Wasn’t Enough… and Then I Met Rachel” (Live Coaching with Charlie)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-thought-i-wasn-t-enough-and-then-i-met-rachel-live-coaching-with-charlie--69601407</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re an introvert who freezes up around women, help is here. Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Charlie, a client who went from from doubting his romantic worth to meeting his dream girlfriend Rachel. Connell and Charlie cover the mindset shifts and real-world wins that worked—and they talk some baseball, too. If you want to find your person, this episode is your roadmap.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />11:38: The Two Toxic Thoughts that Kept Charlie Stuck<br /><br />17:23: The Weekend of Approaching that Changed Everything<br /><br />21:12: The Dating Lesson he Learned from MLB Baseball<br /><br />34:44: The Moment Rachel Saw Him Differently<br /><br />47:05: When He Destroyed His Fear of Rejection<br /><br />53:11: Charlie’s Advice to Introverts who Feel Left Behind<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69601407</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 07:35:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69601407/jan_27_audio.mp3" length="76955071" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re an introvert who freezes up around women, help is here. 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If you want to find your person, this episode is your roadmap.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />11:38: The Two Toxic Thoughts that Kept Charlie Stuck<br /><br />17:23: The Weekend of Approaching that Changed Everything<br /><br />21:12: The Dating Lesson he Learned from MLB Baseball<br /><br />34:44: The Moment Rachel Saw Him Differently<br /><br />47:05: When He Destroyed His Fear of Rejection<br /><br />53:11: Charlie’s Advice to Introverts who Feel Left Behind<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3207</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/baf68c5c4c86213ac9e74b05f6262094.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-freezing-up-irl-how-to-confidently-talk-to-women-anywhere-without-overthinking--69546757</link><description><![CDATA[You see women you want to meet IRL, but you freeze up, and you don’t know what to say. So you beat yourself up for missing another chance. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method. You’ll learn three simple, authentic ways to confidently start conversations—no cheesy pickup lines required.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:40: Why You Freeze Up—and How to Break the Cycle<br /><br />04:45: How the What-to-Say Method Gets You Out of Your Head<br /><br />07:45: What to Say at a Coffeeshop09:49: What to Say at a Bar<br /><br />12:04: What to Say at the Gym<br /><br />25:03: Still Hesitating? Here’s the Real Reason You’re Not Approaching and How to Fix It<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN IRL: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69546757</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2026 16:46:23 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69546757/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="43725062" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see women you want to meet IRL, but you freeze up, and you don’t know what to say. So you beat yourself up for missing another chance. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method. You’ll...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see women you want to meet IRL, but you freeze up, and you don’t know what to say. So you beat yourself up for missing another chance. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method. You’ll learn three simple, authentic ways to confidently start conversations—no cheesy pickup lines required.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:40: Why You Freeze Up—and How to Break the Cycle<br /><br />04:45: How the What-to-Say Method Gets You Out of Your Head<br /><br />07:45: What to Say at a Coffeeshop09:49: What to Say at a Bar<br /><br />12:04: What to Say at the Gym<br /><br />25:03: Still Hesitating? Here’s the Real Reason You’re Not Approaching and How to Fix It<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN IRL: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1822</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9bc5c4678a139576c2fa19c1a1f4b07d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>‘I Was Getting Ghosted on the Dating Apps, but Now Women Reply to My Openers’ (Live Coaching with Evan)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-was-getting-ghosted-on-the-dating-apps-but-now-women-reply-to-my-openers-live-coaching-with-evan--69429968</link><description><![CDATA[You get matches, but then you’re not sure what to write for your opener. You don’t want to sound boring or try-hard, so you overthink it, and the conversation dies before it begins. In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Evan, who got great at writing openers that women reply to. Plus, Evan gives some tips on how to meet women in coffee shops and get instant dates, just like he does.<br /><br /><b>Episode Highlights</b><br /><br />03:20: From Shaking Hands to 80+ Confident Approaches—Evan’s Transformation]<br /><br />06:01: What to Say and Not Say When You Approach<br /><br />09:15: The Coffee Shop Icebreaker that Led Evan to a Make-Out in Just 30 Minutes!<br /><br />18:45: The Funny Hinge Opener that Gets Women Writing You Back<br /><br />1:01:02: The One Dating Tip Every Guy Needs to Hear<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69429968</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 07:15:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69429968/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="93842822" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You get matches, but then you’re not sure what to write for your opener. 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Plus, Evan gives some tips on how to meet women in coffee shops and get instant dates, just like he does.<br /><br /><b>Episode Highlights</b><br /><br />03:20: From Shaking Hands to 80+ Confident Approaches—Evan’s Transformation]<br /><br />06:01: What to Say and Not Say When You Approach<br /><br />09:15: The Coffee Shop Icebreaker that Led Evan to a Make-Out in Just 30 Minutes!<br /><br />18:45: The Funny Hinge Opener that Gets Women Writing You Back<br /><br />1:01:02: The One Dating Tip Every Guy Needs to Hear<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3910</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/35fda61b99a53784c797be23b0651ceb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Fix the Flirting Flaw that Creeps Women Out (the New Rules of Dating, Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fix-the-flirting-flaw-that-creeps-women-out-the-new-rules-of-dating-part-2--69324745</link><description><![CDATA[Are you ready to flirt with women without coming off as “creepy”? In Part 2 of his 26 New Rules of Dating, bestselling author and dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the invisible blind spot that makes good guys accidentally seem creepy—and he helps you fix it. Learn how to flirt with confidence and authenticity, and make 2026 the year you meet your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:47: The Classy Approaching Move that Women Find Fascinating<br /><br />06:58: Do This to Get Girls Texting You Back<br /><br />13:13: The Right and Wrong Way to Use A.I. on the Apps<br /><br />16:34: The Flirting Flaw that Makes Decent Men Seem Creepy<br /><br />20:37: The Question to Ask on Every First Date<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69324745</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 07:06:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69324745/jan_8.mp3" length="34804543" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you ready to flirt with women without coming off as “creepy”? In Part 2 of his 26 New Rules of Dating, bestselling author and dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the invisible blind spot that makes good guys accidentally seem creepy—and he helps...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you ready to flirt with women without coming off as “creepy”? In Part 2 of his 26 New Rules of Dating, bestselling author and dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the invisible blind spot that makes good guys accidentally seem creepy—and he helps you fix it. Learn how to flirt with confidence and authenticity, and make 2026 the year you meet your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:47: The Classy Approaching Move that Women Find Fascinating<br /><br />06:58: Do This to Get Girls Texting You Back<br /><br />13:13: The Right and Wrong Way to Use A.I. on the Apps<br /><br />16:34: The Flirting Flaw that Makes Decent Men Seem Creepy<br /><br />20:37: The Question to Ask on Every First Date<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1450</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b6e2eae8ce65ede9d6215b7dba8ade43.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bad Dating Advice Has Failed Decent Men: Here Are 26 New Rules for 2026 That Actually Work (Part 1)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bad-dating-advice-has-failed-decent-men-here-are-26-new-rules-for-2026-that-actually-work-part-1--69324725</link><description><![CDATA[Be mysterious. Don’t double-text. Use “tricks” to make her chase you. Yuck! Most dating advice is as outdated as flip phones and Fax machines. The old playbook just doesn’t work. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett unveils his 26 New Dating Rules for 2026. In part 1, he shares how to be kind and confident, why texting “like a girl” is a good thing (seriously!), and reveals the playful dating app opener that women love.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:05: Why Women Want You to Talk to Them IRL (and How to Do It)<br /><br />07:05: How to Channel Your First Date Nerves to Spark a Connection<br /><br />09:14: The Dating App Opener You Must Try<br /><br />20:50: The Dreaded Mistake to Stop Making on Dates<br /><br />24:51: Talk about This to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69324725</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 14:55:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69324725/jan_6.mp3" length="40461439" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Be mysterious. Don’t double-text. Use “tricks” to make her chase you. Yuck! Most dating advice is as outdated as flip phones and Fax machines. The old playbook just doesn’t work. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Be mysterious. Don’t double-text. Use “tricks” to make her chase you. Yuck! Most dating advice is as outdated as flip phones and Fax machines. The old playbook just doesn’t work. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett unveils his 26 New Dating Rules for 2026. In part 1, he shares how to be kind and confident, why texting “like a girl” is a good thing (seriously!), and reveals the playful dating app opener that women love.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:05: Why Women Want You to Talk to Them IRL (and How to Do It)<br /><br />07:05: How to Channel Your First Date Nerves to Spark a Connection<br /><br />09:14: The Dating App Opener You Must Try<br /><br />20:50: The Dreaded Mistake to Stop Making on Dates<br /><br />24:51: Talk about This to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1686</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6d9beeb0b48d61a2215855ef88cf7d72.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Freezing Up! What to Say to Meet Women in Real Life (No Weird Pickup Lines Needed)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-freezing-up-what-to-say-to-meet-women-in-real-life-no-weird-pickup-lines-needed--69211694</link><description><![CDATA[You see women you’d love to meet IRL, but you just don’t know what to say. So you freeze up. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method, a simple, rejection-proof framework that makes it easy to meet women in bars, coffee-shops, or the gym. Learn how to start light, flirty conversations without memorized scripts or awkward pickup lines—and finally feel confident talking to women anywhere.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:17: The What to Say Method: 3 Simple Ways to Break the Ice Anywhere<br /><br />05:52: Option A: The Charming Compliment<br /><br />07:15: Option B: The Insightful Question<br /><br />10:39: Option C: The Playful Observation<br /><br />17:15: Client Win: How Robbie Went from Anxiety to Instant Coffee Dates<br /><br />20:45: What to Do if You STILL Freeze When You Want to Talk to Women<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO APPLY HIS WHAT-TO-SAY METHOD AND MEET WOMEN IRL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69211694</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 15:59:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69211694/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="36617215" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see women you’d love to meet IRL, but you just don’t know what to say. So you freeze up. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method, a simple, rejection-proof...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see women you’d love to meet IRL, but you just don’t know what to say. So you freeze up. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method, a simple, rejection-proof framework that makes it easy to meet women in bars, coffee-shops, or the gym. Learn how to start light, flirty conversations without memorized scripts or awkward pickup lines—and finally feel confident talking to women anywhere.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />02:17: The What to Say Method: 3 Simple Ways to Break the Ice Anywhere<br /><br />05:52: Option A: The Charming Compliment<br /><br />07:15: Option B: The Insightful Question<br /><br />10:39: Option C: The Playful Observation<br /><br />17:15: Client Win: How Robbie Went from Anxiety to Instant Coffee Dates<br /><br />20:45: What to Do if You STILL Freeze When You Want to Talk to Women<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO APPLY HIS WHAT-TO-SAY METHOD AND MEET WOMEN IRL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1526</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b7c0acfb7fa2d40c46708161b440b278.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“I Approached a Woman and 2 Strangers Literally Applauded Me” (Live Coaching with Andrew)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-approached-a-woman-and-2-strangers-literally-applauded-me-live-coaching-with-andrew--69135062</link><description><![CDATA[Andrew was the dateless, anxious guy who never approached women. Now, he gets numbers and dates—and after one especially bold effort, two strangers literally applauded him. In this live coaching session with dating coach Connell Barrett, Andrew breaks down the simple, practical strategies that changed everything. Andrew isn’t a natural extrovert. He just did the work. And if he can do this, you can too.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS<br /><br />02:10: From Anxious to Approaching Women Anywhere<br /><br />35:55: The Daily Confidence Ritual that Changed Everything<br /><br />38:25: Exactly What Andrew Said to Her that Sparked an Instant Make-out<br /><br />43:47: The Exact Moment Andrew’s Fear of Approaching Vanished<br /><br />46:42: What to Say When A Woman You’re Dating Asks, “Are We Exclusive?”<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69135062</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 07:06:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69135062/final_audio_12_23.mp3" length="87990662" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Andrew was the dateless, anxious guy who never approached women. Now, he gets numbers and dates—and after one especially bold effort, two strangers literally applauded him. In this live coaching session with dating coach Connell Barrett, Andrew breaks...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Andrew was the dateless, anxious guy who never approached women. Now, he gets numbers and dates—and after one especially bold effort, two strangers literally applauded him. In this live coaching session with dating coach Connell Barrett, Andrew breaks down the simple, practical strategies that changed everything. Andrew isn’t a natural extrovert. He just did the work. And if he can do this, you can too.<br /><br />EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS<br /><br />02:10: From Anxious to Approaching Women Anywhere<br /><br />35:55: The Daily Confidence Ritual that Changed Everything<br /><br />38:25: Exactly What Andrew Said to Her that Sparked an Instant Make-out<br /><br />43:47: The Exact Moment Andrew’s Fear of Approaching Vanished<br /><br />46:42: What to Say When A Woman You’re Dating Asks, “Are We Exclusive?”<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3666</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/69bcb94aa6311d17592c9f8676b328d4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>‘I Sent a Voice Note About Her Boobs…to HER! Can I Recover?’ Dating Coach Connell Barrett Breaks It Down</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-sent-a-voice-note-about-her-boobs-to-her-can-i-recover-dating-coach-connell-barrett-breaks-it-down--69097335</link><description><![CDATA[Ever had a jaw-dropping dating disaster? Wait until you hear about the guy who sent a cringe-worthy voice note about his date’s breasts… directly to her! But what if a screwup like that gets her MORE into him? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett answers listener questions, reveals why dating disasters happen, and shares how to recover with confidence and class.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />00:54: The Vexing Voice Note: How Screwing Up Can Actually Help You<br /><br />02:35: Whoops! Connell “Hits On” a Stranger—in Front of His Date<br /><br />05:40: The 3-Step Framework to Recover from a Dating Disaster<br /><br />16:47: The Do’s and Don’ts of Sexting<br /><br />21:58: Exactly How Many Texts to Send to Get a First Date<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM WOMAN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69097335</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 07:15:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69097335/final_audio_12_18.mp3" length="44819455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever had a jaw-dropping dating disaster? Wait until you hear about the guy who sent a cringe-worthy voice note about his date’s breasts… directly to her! But what if a screwup like that gets her MORE into him? In this episode of “How to Get a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever had a jaw-dropping dating disaster? Wait until you hear about the guy who sent a cringe-worthy voice note about his date’s breasts… directly to her! But what if a screwup like that gets her MORE into him? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett answers listener questions, reveals why dating disasters happen, and shares how to recover with confidence and class.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />00:54: The Vexing Voice Note: How Screwing Up Can Actually Help You<br /><br />02:35: Whoops! Connell “Hits On” a Stranger—in Front of His Date<br /><br />05:40: The 3-Step Framework to Recover from a Dating Disaster<br /><br />16:47: The Do’s and Don’ts of Sexting<br /><br />21:58: Exactly How Many Texts to Send to Get a First Date<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM WOMAN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1868</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7029cfb702e661fdc0619728bc90fb5d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Ghosted to Getting Great Dates: The 26 New Rules of Online Dating for 2026 (Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-ghosted-to-getting-great-dates-the-26-new-rules-of-online-dating-for-2026-part-2--69063534</link><description><![CDATA[Online dating is changing faster than you can say “swipe.” And not knowing what works on the apps in 2026 will cost you matches, dates… and even keep you from finding love. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the rest of his 26 new rules for online dating success in 2026. Apply these practical tips to go from frustration to finally getting great dates—just like Connell’s clients do.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:45: The New Way to Use Audio Prompts on Hinge<br /><br />10:10: How the “3 Passions Rule” Makes Your Bio Magnetic<br /><br />12:00: What Causes Swiping Fatigue—and How to Fix It<br /><br />16:41: How to Set Up a First Date in Just 3 Messages<br /><br />19:23: Connell’s Texting Framework to Stop Getting Ghosted<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN WHY AUTHENTICITY IS THE SECRET WEAPON TO IMPROVING YOUR DATING LIFE: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T.” EMAIL HIM WITH THE SUBJECT LINE “FREE BOOK” &amp; GET YOURS TODAY! Connell@DatingTransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69063534</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 07:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69063534/final_audio_htgaga.mp3" length="35601727" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Online dating is changing faster than you can say “swipe.” And not knowing what works on the apps in 2026 will cost you matches, dates… and even keep you from finding love. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Online dating is changing faster than you can say “swipe.” And not knowing what works on the apps in 2026 will cost you matches, dates… and even keep you from finding love. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the rest of his 26 new rules for online dating success in 2026. 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It’s time to match more, get ghosted less, and finally find your dream woman in the new year.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />03:30: The Biggest Myth About Online Dating that Changes Everything<br /><br />07:20: How to Choose Photos You KNOW Will Work (Backed by Data)<br /><br />13:27: Survival of the Spiciest: The Prompt Women Respond To<br /><br />19:02: Replace Your Opening Photo with This<br /><br />33:12: The Secret to Taking Your Bio from Boring to Swipe-able<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET THE GIRLFRIEND YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68991943</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2025 15:00:42 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68991943/12_11_online_dating_is_brutal_in_2026.mp3" length="51963007" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re exhausted by the dating apps, right? 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It’s time to match more, get ghosted less, and finally find your dream woman in the new year.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />03:30: The Biggest Myth About Online Dating that Changes Everything<br /><br />07:20: How to Choose Photos You KNOW Will Work (Backed by Data)<br /><br />13:27: Survival of the Spiciest: The Prompt Women Respond To<br /><br />19:02: Replace Your Opening Photo with This<br /><br />33:12: The Secret to Taking Your Bio from Boring to Swipe-able<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET THE GIRLFRIEND YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2165</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4a1297669f9f173f242c0aed608ec73c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Introducing The 6 Icks: A New Dating Framework to Never Be Creepy—and Always Flirt with Charm</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-the-6-icks-a-new-dating-framework-to-never-be-creepy-and-always-flirt-with-charm--68855495</link><description><![CDATA[Chances are, you freeze up around women because you’re afraid of seeming weird or creepy. You just don’t want to give women “the ick,” right? In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett proudly unveils his new framework: The 6 Icks—the 6 core behaviors that creep women out. 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It’s frustrating to see outgoing guys succeed with women, while you feel stuck. But what if you could become charismatic to women today, without changing who you are? Dating coach and bestselling author...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel like you’re just not charismatic? It’s frustrating to see outgoing guys succeed with women, while you feel stuck. But what if you could become charismatic to women today, without changing who you are? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his Charisma Code—the 3-part formula that helps introverts become magnetic to women. Get ready to discover the E=MC² of dating to unlock real charisma.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:48: The Charisma Code Formula: AE + P + Pl = Charisma<br /><br />02:40: How Connell First Applied it for a Great First Date<br /><br />07:37: Authentic Expression (AE): Why Your Uniqueness Unlocks True Charisma<br /><br />12:42: Presence (P): How to Get Out of Your Head when Talking to Women<br /><br />19:05: Playfulness (Pl): The Flirting Secret Women Want You to Know<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-on-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL AND HE WILL SEND YOU A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1616</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bccee4c65604ab580b351d262f986704.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Boring to Banter! 5 Flirty Banter Secrets that Create Instant Romantic Chemistry</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-boring-to-banter-5-flirty-banter-secrets-that-create-instant-romantic-chemistry--68465503</link><description><![CDATA[Are you unsure how to flirt with women? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 5 flirty banter secrets that help you create chemistry, avoid awkward silences, and get her into you. These simple techniques work both in-person and on the dating apps. It’s time to go from boring to being great at banter.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />2:11: Secret #1: How to Tease Her without Crossing the Line<br /><br />6:48: Secret #2: Make Her the Seducer (A Fun Roleplay that Women Love)<br /><br />10:40: Secret #3: The 5 Best Banter Topics that Ignite Chemistry<br /><br />17:12: Secret #4: How to Spark Attraction with Sarcasm<br /><br />20:28: Secret #5: The Playful Pivot: Never Run Out of Things to Say Again!<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68465503</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2025 08:40:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68465503/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="39263935" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you unsure how to flirt with women? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 5 flirty banter secrets that help you create chemistry, avoid awkward silences, and get her into you. These simple techniques work both in-person and on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you unsure how to flirt with women? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 5 flirty banter secrets that help you create chemistry, avoid awkward silences, and get her into you. These simple techniques work both in-person and on the dating apps. It’s time to go from boring to being great at banter.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />2:11: Secret #1: How to Tease Her without Crossing the Line<br /><br />6:48: Secret #2: Make Her the Seducer (A Fun Roleplay that Women Love)<br /><br />10:40: Secret #3: The 5 Best Banter Topics that Ignite Chemistry<br /><br />17:12: Secret #4: How to Spark Attraction with Sarcasm<br /><br />20:28: Secret #5: The Playful Pivot: Never Run Out of Things to Say Again!<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1636</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ee64af5e23996bd9c700a5d186d126e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“She Dumped Me for Her Ex! What Am I Doing Wrong?” Your Trickiest Dating Questions Answered</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/she-dumped-me-for-her-ex-what-am-i-doing-wrong-your-trickiest-dating-questions-answered--68366163</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever liked a woman who chose a total jerk over you? It stings and makes you wonder, “What does he have that I don’t?” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps a listener learn why the woman he was dating went back to her toxic ex—and what to do differently to attract the wonderful relationship he deserves.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:31: The Real Reason Women Sometimes Choose Jerks Over Good Guys<br /><br />07:12: Why Nice Guys like You Can Date Wonderful Women—If You Do One Thing<br /><br />26:15: How to Fearlessly Ask Out Your Crush<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68366163</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2025 08:00:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68366163/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="53999167" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever liked a woman who chose a total jerk over you? It stings and makes you wonder, “What does he have that I don’t?” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps a listener learn why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever liked a woman who chose a total jerk over you? It stings and makes you wonder, “What does he have that I don’t?” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps a listener learn why the woman he was dating went back to her toxic ex—and what to do differently to attract the wonderful relationship he deserves.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:31: The Real Reason Women Sometimes Choose Jerks Over Good Guys<br /><br />07:12: Why Nice Guys like You Can Date Wonderful Women—If You Do One Thing<br /><br />26:15: How to Fearlessly Ask Out Your Crush<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2250</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b5815ad1088f98d65bc7f1e3a22fad30.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From No Dates to 2 Dates a Week: New Strategies to Fill Your Dating Dance Card</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-no-dates-to-2-dates-a-week-new-strategies-to-fill-your-dating-dance-card--68350302</link><description><![CDATA[Has it been months—or even years—since you had a first date with an incredible woman? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why your options are scarce, and how to fix it. He’ll walk you through three proven ways to meet women so you can go from zero dates to two quality dates a week.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:25: Why You’re Dateless (and Why It’s About to Change)<br /><br />04:55: How Connell Went from Lonely to Landing 3 Dates in 3 Nights<br /><br />07:03: A Trio of New, Powerful Ways to Get an Abundance of Dates<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68350302</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 14:47:34 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68350302/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="43604095" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Has it been months—or even years—since you had a first date with an incredible woman? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why your options are scarce, and how to fix it. He’ll walk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Has it been months—or even years—since you had a first date with an incredible woman? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why your options are scarce, and how to fix it. He’ll walk you through three proven ways to meet women so you can go from zero dates to two quality dates a week.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:25: Why You’re Dateless (and Why It’s About to Change)<br /><br />04:55: How Connell Went from Lonely to Landing 3 Dates in 3 Nights<br /><br />07:03: A Trio of New, Powerful Ways to Get an Abundance of Dates<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1817</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7e4ed15694b27fae508cc954c2b030ad.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How a Shy, Lonely Software Engineer Learned to Flirt and Found his Dream Woman—and How You Can, Too!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-a-shy-lonely-software-engineer-learned-to-flirt-and-found-his-dream-woman-and-how-you-can-too--68318860</link><description><![CDATA[If you struggle to talk to women or feel stuck in the friend zone, you need to hear Tony’s story. A shy, single dad and software engineer, Tony was dateless when he began working with Connell. By learning how to flirt with women and bring confidence to every date, Tony met his dream girlfriend, Jennifer. In this episode, he shares the exact shifts and flirting techniques that helped him succeed—so you can find love, too.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:54: Why Tony Felt Women Didn’t Want Him<br /><br />03:31: The Self-Doubt Voice that Keeps Men Single—and How to Silence It<br /><br />12:36: Steal the “Time Traveler” Online Dating Opener that Got Jennifer’s Attention<br /><br />17:36: How Tony Escaped the Friend Zone on His First Date<br /><br />21:20: The First Date that Changed Everything<br /><br />27:53: Tony’s Take—the One Move Every Shy, Single Guy Should Make<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68318860</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2025 21:48:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68318860/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="41768390" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you struggle to talk to women or feel stuck in the friend zone, you need to hear Tony’s story. A shy, single dad and software engineer, Tony was dateless when he began working with Connell. By learning how to flirt with women and bring confidence...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you struggle to talk to women or feel stuck in the friend zone, you need to hear Tony’s story. A shy, single dad and software engineer, Tony was dateless when he began working with Connell. By learning how to flirt with women and bring confidence to every date, Tony met his dream girlfriend, Jennifer. In this episode, he shares the exact shifts and flirting techniques that helped him succeed—so you can find love, too.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:54: Why Tony Felt Women Didn’t Want Him<br /><br />03:31: The Self-Doubt Voice that Keeps Men Single—and How to Silence It<br /><br />12:36: Steal the “Time Traveler” Online Dating Opener that Got Jennifer’s Attention<br /><br />17:36: How Tony Escaped the Friend Zone on His First Date<br /><br />21:20: The First Date that Changed Everything<br /><br />27:53: Tony’s Take—the One Move Every Shy, Single Guy Should Make<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1740</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/416bdf6032b5449b332e4ffa045fb5c4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Nice Guys Are Sexy—if They Do This One Thing.” A Maxim Model’s Dating Secret</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/nice-guys-are-sexy-if-they-do-this-one-thing-a-maxim-model-s-dating-secret--68230188</link><description><![CDATA[Do you worry you’re “too nice”? Tired of seeing women date jerks? It’s time to own being a nice guy! The truth is, women actually prefer kind men over “alpha males,” if you make 3 key moves. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares these tested tips. Plus—the powerful lesson he learned from a Maxim model. Nice guys can finish first with women, and this episode shows you how.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:41: Move #1: Ignore the “Alpha Male” Myth<br /><br />09:05: What 64,000 Women Actually Want in a Man (It’s Not Looks or Money)<br /><br />16:13: Move #2: Be a Man with a Game Plan<br /><br />20:26: Maxim Model: “Nice Guys are Sexy, if They Do One Thing”<br /><br />22:24: Move #3: Direct the Date to Quickly Spark Attraction<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68230188</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 07:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68230188/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="44336191" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you worry you’re “too nice”? Tired of seeing women date jerks? It’s time to own being a nice guy! The truth is, women actually prefer kind men over “alpha males,” if you make 3 key moves. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you worry you’re “too nice”? Tired of seeing women date jerks? It’s time to own being a nice guy! The truth is, women actually prefer kind men over “alpha males,” if you make 3 key moves. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares these tested tips. Plus—the powerful lesson he learned from a Maxim model. Nice guys can finish first with women, and this episode shows you how.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:41: Move #1: Ignore the “Alpha Male” Myth<br /><br />09:05: What 64,000 Women Actually Want in a Man (It’s Not Looks or Money)<br /><br />16:13: Move #2: Be a Man with a Game Plan<br /><br />20:26: Maxim Model: “Nice Guys are Sexy, if They Do One Thing”<br /><br />22:24: Move #3: Direct the Date to Quickly Spark Attraction<br /><br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1847</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d572b5e78fc5b54da29d086de8f6c358.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to TRIPLE Your Number of Hinge Matches (with ‘Date Smarter’ Author Tim Molnar)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-triple-your-number-of-hinge-matches-with-date-smarter-author-tim-molnar--68227143</link><description><![CDATA[Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer practical, research-backed dating strategies. A data-driven dating expert, Molnar shares what works both on the apps and in real life—including one move that has TRIPLED Hinge matches for some singles.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />05:11: The Primacy Effect: Why the First 5 Minutes of a Date are Make or Break<br /><br />09:45: How to Make Sure You Get Date No. 22<br /><br />1:07: How to Get 500 Percent (!) Better Approach Results with the “Small Favor” Strategy<br /><br />26:13: 100,000 Swipes, Zero Dates—Why Some Men Fail on the Apps<br /><br />44:16: Why Paid Dating Apps (Not the Free Ones) Give You a Better Shot at Love<br /><br />47:12: How to Instantly Triple Your Number of Hinge Dates<br /><br />54:07: Why Tim’s IRL Approaches Got Him 10 Times More Second Dates than the Apps Did<br /><br />Listen now and triple your number of Hinge matches!<br /><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT TIM MOLNAR AND GET A COPY OF HIS NEW DATING BOOK, ‘DATE SMARTER’:<br /><a href="http://www.TimothyMolnar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.TimothyMolnar.com</a><br /><br />GET ‘DATE SMARTER’ ON AMAZON: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5</a><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68227143</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2025 13:36:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68227143/thth_final_audio.mp3" length="105962432" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer practical, research-backed dating strategies. A data-driven dating expert, Molnar shares what works both on the apps and in real life—including one move that has TRIPLED Hinge matches for some singles.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />05:11: The Primacy Effect: Why the First 5 Minutes of a Date are Make or Break<br /><br />09:45: How to Make Sure You Get Date No. 22<br /><br />1:07: How to Get 500 Percent (!) Better Approach Results with the “Small Favor” Strategy<br /><br />26:13: 100,000 Swipes, Zero Dates—Why Some Men Fail on the Apps<br /><br />44:16: Why Paid Dating Apps (Not the Free Ones) Give You a Better Shot at Love<br /><br />47:12: How to Instantly Triple Your Number of Hinge Dates<br /><br />54:07: Why Tim’s IRL Approaches Got Him 10 Times More Second Dates than the Apps Did<br /><br />Listen now and triple your number of Hinge matches!<br /><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT TIM MOLNAR AND GET A COPY OF HIS NEW DATING BOOK, ‘DATE SMARTER’:<br /><a href="http://www.TimothyMolnar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.TimothyMolnar.com</a><br /><br />GET ‘DATE SMARTER’ ON AMAZON: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5</a><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4415</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aedcd381cf968a3939d06f430d302022.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Be Magnetic to Women as the Nice Guy You Are—By Doing ONE Thing</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/be-magnetic-to-women-as-the-nice-guy-you-are-by-doing-one-thing--68167644</link><description><![CDATA[Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an unexpected “gift.” You will laugh. You will cringe. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF 1-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68167644</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 17:20:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68167644/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="31066879" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an unexpected “gift.” You will laugh. You will cringe. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF 1-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In this episode of ‘How to Get a Girlfriend,” he tells Connell how he went from feeling terrified to approach women to confidently meeting cool, cute girls. It turns out, women actually LIKE good guys.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:45: Ajay’s Greatest Fear that Kept Him from Approaching Women<br /><br />07:54: How He Met 6 Women in One Day—and Transformed His Confidence<br /><br />13:15: The Instant Kiss that Led to Ajay’s Spiritual Breakthrough<br /><br />22:29: The Biggest Reddit Lie About Approaching… Exposed!<br /><br />28:08: “Get off Reddit!” Ajay’s Unfiltered Advice to Escape Toxic Masculinity<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68135683</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2025 17:13:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68135683/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="63618367" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you fear that approaching women might get you labeled a creep—or even socially shunned? Connell’s client Ajay once felt that way. Drowning in toxic Reddit advice, Ajay believed that women didn’t want to meet good guys like him. 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Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how to flip the “Authenticity Switch” and go from anxiousness to confidently approaching women—without any cheesy pickup lines. Four powerful shifts will help you meet women in a charming way. Plus, Connell gives you 4 practical approach missions to start meeting women today.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how to flip the “Authenticity Switch” and go from anxiousness to confidently approaching women—without any cheesy pickup...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you see women you’d love to talk to in real life but you freeze up? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how to flip the “Authenticity Switch” and go from anxiousness to confidently approaching women—without any cheesy pickup lines. Four powerful shifts will help you meet women in a charming way. Plus, Connell gives you 4 practical approach missions to start meeting women today.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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In this episode, you’ll learn how to use the Hero Approach to fearlessly meet women anywhere!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />04:47: Meet Robbie, Who Battled Approach Anxiety and Self-Doubt<br /><br />07:10: The Hero Approach: The Game-Changing Move to Unlock Confidence<br /><br />09:35: “Approach Her or I’ll Put You in a Headlock”—Coach Connell Gets Tough<br /><br />12:00: Robbie Reaches “God Mode” and Gets 5 Phone Numbers<br /><br />15:03: Three Approaching Myths Destroyed<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-on-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL AND HE WILL SEND YOU A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67974078</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 07:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67974078/connell_next_week.mp3" length="42548287" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Robbie, 26, is a shy software engineer who had never approached a woman in a bar—until one Friday night when dating coach Connell Barrett taught him the Hero Approach. 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In this episode, you’ll learn how to use the Hero Approach to fearlessly meet women anywhere!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />04:47: Meet Robbie, Who Battled Approach Anxiety and Self-Doubt<br /><br />07:10: The Hero Approach: The Game-Changing Move to Unlock Confidence<br /><br />09:35: “Approach Her or I’ll Put You in a Headlock”—Coach Connell Gets Tough<br /><br />12:00: Robbie Reaches “God Mode” and Gets 5 Phone Numbers<br /><br />15:03: Three Approaching Myths Destroyed<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-on-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL AND HE WILL SEND YOU A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1773</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/09c98c6691407583aed007625276c8a7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Fixes to Make Your Online Dating Profile a Match Magnet Today—New Photos NOT Needed</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-fixes-to-make-your-online-dating-profile-a-match-magnet-today-new-photos-not-needed--67974065</link><description><![CDATA[Struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? It’s not your looks, and it’s not the dating apps. It’s your profile. Small but costly mistakes make women swipe left. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five proven “Match Magnet” fixes you can apply today—using the photos you already have. No photo shoot, no stress. Just make 5 simple upgrades to turn your profile into match-generating machine.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:30: Match Magnet #1: Be Hilarious, Not Handsome<br /><br />10:04: Match Magnet #2: Entice Her with a Good Travel Shot<br /><br />12:31: Match Magnet #3: Replace Red Flags with Green Flags<br /><br />16:30: Match Magnet #4: Get Down &amp; Flirty<br /><br />21:31: Match Magnet #5: Tug at Her Heartstrings<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67974065</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2025 07:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67974065/connell_tomorrow.mp3" length="42355327" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? It’s not your looks, and it’s not the dating apps. It’s your profile. Small but costly mistakes make women swipe left. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? It’s not your looks, and it’s not the dating apps. It’s your profile. Small but costly mistakes make women swipe left. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five proven “Match Magnet” fixes you can apply today—using the photos you already have. No photo shoot, no stress. Just make 5 simple upgrades to turn your profile into match-generating machine.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:30: Match Magnet #1: Be Hilarious, Not Handsome<br /><br />10:04: Match Magnet #2: Entice Her with a Good Travel Shot<br /><br />12:31: Match Magnet #3: Replace Red Flags with Green Flags<br /><br />16:30: Match Magnet #4: Get Down &amp; Flirty<br /><br />21:31: Match Magnet #5: Tug at Her Heartstrings<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULT WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1765</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c7aa348710bc7c26831414ee0981cbb0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Playdates to First Dates: The Single Dad’s Dating Reset (Live Coaching with Zach!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-playdates-to-first-dates-the-single-dad-s-dating-reset-live-coaching-with-zach--67940584</link><description><![CDATA[Online dating is tough for most men. But when you’re a single dad, it’s hard to find the energy and motivation. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Zach—a single dad re-entering the dating world—improve both his online dating profile and his mindset. Don’t miss Zach’s breakthrough moment (at the 42-minute mark) when he realizes the real reason he’s not meeting the kinds of women he’s into. Listen now!<br /><br /><b>Episode Highlights:</b><br /><br />13:36: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Women Laughing and Writing You Back<br /><br />26:02: How to Navigate Your Busy Schedule and Still Get Dates<br /><br />43:10: Zach’s “Aha!” Moment: “This is Why I Haven’t Had more Dates!”<br /><br />59:25: Zach Unlocks the Power of Fearless Flirting<br /><br />1:08:09: The Secret to Motivation, Action… and a Date by this Weekend<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Zach—a single dad re-entering the dating world—improve both his online dating profile and his mindset. Don’t miss Zach’s breakthrough moment (at the 42-minute mark) when he realizes the real reason he’s not meeting the kinds of women he’s into. Listen now!<br /><br /><b>Episode Highlights:</b><br /><br />13:36: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Women Laughing and Writing You Back<br /><br />26:02: How to Navigate Your Busy Schedule and Still Get Dates<br /><br />43:10: Zach’s “Aha!” Moment: “This is Why I Haven’t Had more Dates!”<br /><br />59:25: Zach Unlocks the Power of Fearless Flirting<br /><br />1:08:09: The Secret to Motivation, Action… and a Date by this Weekend<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4290</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/094f3d7589b9971cc61c85100206b293.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop! Getting! Ghosted! The 5 Flirting Escalators to Turn First Dates into Second (and Third and Eighth) Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-getting-ghosted-the-5-flirting-escalators-to-turn-first-dates-into-second-and-third-and-eighth-dates--67851979</link><description><![CDATA[More live coaching! Join dating coach and bestselling author (“Dating Sucks but You Don’t”) Connell Barrett as he helps his client Evan break through a big roadblock: getting ghosted after first dates. Connell reveals the 5 Flirting Escalators—the crucial steps Evan was missing. Get ready to stop hearing “I’m not feeling a connection” and start hearing “When are we going out again?” Listen now.<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67851979</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2025 07:10:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67851979/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="74989183" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>More live coaching! Join dating coach and bestselling author (“Dating Sucks but You Don’t”) Connell Barrett as he helps his client Evan break through a big roadblock: getting ghosted after first dates. Connell reveals the 5 Flirting Escalators—the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[More live coaching! Join dating coach and bestselling author (“Dating Sucks but You Don’t”) Connell Barrett as he helps his client Evan break through a big roadblock: getting ghosted after first dates. Connell reveals the 5 Flirting Escalators—the crucial steps Evan was missing. Get ready to stop hearing “I’m not feeling a connection” and start hearing “When are we going out again?” Listen now.<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3125</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f721eedeba2419c2ea3b363f4477665a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>‘My Penis is Small. Should I Have Surgery to Impress Women?’ Dating Coach Connell Barrett Takes Your Questions</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-penis-is-small-should-i-have-surgery-to-impress-women-dating-coach-connell-barrett-takes-your-questions--67811995</link><description><![CDATA[Insecurities don’t have to crush your confidence and hurt your dating life. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett takes on a listener’s raw question about penis size and enlargement surgery. Plus, Connell shares the right (and wrong) way to use A.I. in your online-dating strategy. And he reveals the right way to text women between dates.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:39: Will $16,000 Penis Enlargement Surgery Fix a Man’s Dating Confidence?<br /><br />14:55: A Simple Sex Tip to Make You Feel 2 Inches Bigger<br /><br />16:51: The Right vs. Wrong Way to Use ChatGPT in Online Dating<br /><br />29:10: This is How Often You Should Text Her Between Dates<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67811995</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67811995/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="47236351" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Insecurities don’t have to crush your confidence and hurt your dating life. 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And he reveals the right way to text women between dates.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:39: Will $16,000 Penis Enlargement Surgery Fix a Man’s Dating Confidence?<br /><br />14:55: A Simple Sex Tip to Make You Feel 2 Inches Bigger<br /><br />16:51: The Right vs. Wrong Way to Use ChatGPT in Online Dating<br /><br />29:10: This is How Often You Should Text Her Between Dates<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1968</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/55903b1caad3cc2ea67d5fd8813069ed.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Women Reveal the Truth: Approaching is Charming, Not Creepy—if You Do THIS</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-reveal-the-truth-approaching-is-charming-not-creepy-if-you-do-this--67810107</link><description><![CDATA[Do you want to confidently meet attractive women you see in bars, cafes or the gym… but you’re afraid you’ll seem creepy? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett has good news: Woman WANT you to approach—if you do it the right way. Your fear of approaching is about to end! Plus, Connell reveals exactly what to say to break the ice and what NOT to say.<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1934</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/96da2b84aad7d5203b3d67d0bd1ed79e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Become a Magnetic Flirt on First Dates in 3 Simple Moves (Live Coaching with Matthew)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/become-a-magnetic-flirt-on-first-dates-in-3-simple-moves-live-coaching-with-matthew--67783033</link><description><![CDATA[Awkward silences, small talk that goes nowhere, the dreaded “I’m just not feeling” text. Bad dates suck! In this live-coaching episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Matthew go from the nice, lonely guy who runs out of things to say to a magnetic flirt who women cannot resist. Discover the 3 flirting moves that Matthew is using to create playful, authentic chemistry on dates. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In this live-coaching episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Matthew go from the nice, lonely guy who runs out of things to say to a magnetic flirt who women cannot resist. Discover the 3 flirting moves that Matthew is using to create playful, authentic chemistry on dates. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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From the investment banker whose cocaine dealer made a surprise appearance, to Connell’s double-decker bus ride straight to the Friend Zone, these cautionary tales will help you avoid becoming her next dating nightmare.<br /><br />Highlights—Err, Lowlights?—of this Episode:<br /><br />05:34: MURDER, SHE WATCHED: Maybe Don’t Show Her Your Student Film Where You “Kill” Someone<br /><br />12:03: BUS RIDE TO THE FRIEND ZONE: Why Grand Gestures Just Don’t Work<br /><br />20:54: AREOLA GRANDE: Because There’s No Good Time to Ask Her Nipple Size<br /><br />25:50: FIRST DATE, LAST RITES: “Here Are Pics from My Grandma’s Funeral. So How About a Second Date?”<br /><br />31:25: COKE-BLOCKED! Meet the Banker Who Brought His Coke Dealer as a Plus-One<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-ON-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67702906</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2025 07:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67702906/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="53260159" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Want to know what NOT to do on a date? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five cringe-worthy dating disasters. 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Meet the Banker Who Brought His Coke Dealer as a Plus-One<br /><br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-ON-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2219</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/616cb78beb4ad7db022ed032c0429f75.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Will You Find True Love—or End Up Settling? 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Love or loneliness—the deciding factor is resilience.<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-ON-1 COACHING: <a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2543</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b5bb9f381b6ea01da53f12a98dd6a8d3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Shy Guy’s Advantage: 5 Approaching Secrets to Help Introverts Confidently Connect with Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-shy-guy-s-advantage-5-approaching-secrets-to-help-introverts-confidently-connect-with-women--67632917</link><description><![CDATA[Approaching women as a shy, introverted guy can feel terrifying. But that shyness is actually your hidden advantage. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals 5 powerful shifts to help introverts confidently meet women in real life. You’ll also discover his go-to icebreaker that almost always works.<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-ON-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67632917</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 17:52:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67632917/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="46770943" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Approaching women as a shy, introverted guy can feel terrifying. But that shyness is actually your hidden advantage. 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Plus, Connell shares his best Hinge prompt ever. 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(Besides every Kid Rock song.) When a woman you’re texting leaves you on read—and you have no idea why. In the finale of dating coach Connell Barrett’s “Textual Healing” series, you’ll learn the 5 hidden texting mistakes that turn women off. And you’ll get 5 advanced moves to become a texting ninja. Plus, Connell reads a message thread from his own phone to show you how to text your way to a first date.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:44: The #1 Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction<br /><br />13:08: The Texting Cadence that Prevents Canceled Dates<br /><br />17:33: Why Being Mysterious Is a Dating Dead End<br /><br />22:23: The “Resurrection Text” that Brings Dead Matches Back to Life<br /><br />26:58: The Flirty Way to Confirm Dates by Text<br /><br />35:49: How “Callback Humor” Builds Chemistry and Connection<br /><br />45:21: Connell Breaks Down His Own Text Thread<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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(Besides every Kid Rock song.) When a woman you’re texting leaves you on read—and you have no idea why. In the finale of dating coach Connell Barrett’s “Textual Healing” series, you’ll learn the 5 hidden texting mistakes that turn women off. And you’ll get 5 advanced moves to become a texting ninja. Plus, Connell reads a message thread from his own phone to show you how to text your way to a first date.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:44: The #1 Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction<br /><br />13:08: The Texting Cadence that Prevents Canceled Dates<br /><br />17:33: Why Being Mysterious Is a Dating Dead End<br /><br />22:23: The “Resurrection Text” that Brings Dead Matches Back to Life<br /><br />26:58: The Flirty Way to Confirm Dates by Text<br /><br />35:49: How “Callback Humor” Builds Chemistry and Connection<br /><br />45:21: Connell Breaks Down His Own Text Thread<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction. Rich opens up about his own battle, and explains how watching too much porn leads to objectifying women and kills dating motivation. He also shares his 5-step roadmap to freedom, so you can live and love authentically—without porn or shame.<br /><br />02:44: Why Porn Addiction is Not What You Think<br /><br />11:46: How Porn Replaces Real Romantic Connection<br /><br />15:59: Frank’s Raw Story: From Shame to Redemption<br /><br />24:40: The Hotel Incident that Changed Everything<br /><br />29:25: Why Facing Consequences Is the Key to Defeating Porn Addiction<br /><br />41:35: The 5-Step Roadmap for Rebuilding <br /><br />48:08: The Subtle Tells Women Pick Up On within Minutes<br /><br />LISTEN TO FRANK RICH’S SUPER HUMAN LIFE PODCAST: Available on all major podcast platforms<br /><br />CHECK OUT HIS INSTAGRAM:@‌CoachFrankRich<br /><br />JOIN FRANK RICH’S COMMUNITY:Visit <a href="http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife</a> for his community helping men quit porn and rebuild their lives<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67382168</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 07:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67382168/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="87718214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever wonder why you feel insecure around women? In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever wonder why you feel insecure around women? In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction. Rich opens up about his own battle, and explains how watching too much porn leads to objectifying women and kills dating motivation. He also shares his 5-step roadmap to freedom, so you can live and love authentically—without porn or shame.<br /><br />02:44: Why Porn Addiction is Not What You Think<br /><br />11:46: How Porn Replaces Real Romantic Connection<br /><br />15:59: Frank’s Raw Story: From Shame to Redemption<br /><br />24:40: The Hotel Incident that Changed Everything<br /><br />29:25: Why Facing Consequences Is the Key to Defeating Porn Addiction<br /><br />41:35: The 5-Step Roadmap for Rebuilding <br /><br />48:08: The Subtle Tells Women Pick Up On within Minutes<br /><br />LISTEN TO FRANK RICH’S SUPER HUMAN LIFE PODCAST: Available on all major podcast platforms<br /><br />CHECK OUT HIS INSTAGRAM:@‌CoachFrankRich<br /><br />JOIN FRANK RICH’S COMMUNITY:Visit <a href="http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife</a> for his community helping men quit porn and rebuild their lives<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3655</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5e88b1eee0f1c6a3c82be32d1d952e3e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do Women Ignore You on the Apps? Use My ‘Back to the Future’ Opener for a Date by Saturday</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-women-ignore-you-on-the-apps-use-my-back-to-the-future-opener-for-a-date-by-saturday--67345869</link><description><![CDATA[Do women on the apps rarely reply to you? Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his “Back to the Future” opener—the playful icebreaker that’s helped clients spark conversations, set up dates, and find girlfriends. He gives you the exact words to send so you can stop getting ghosted and start connecting. “This is the best opener I’ve come up with in my 20 years of studying online dating,” Connell says. Steal it today—your future girlfriend will thank you.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:28: How Connell Created the “Back to the Future” Opener—His Best Ever<br /><br />04:51: What to Write, Word for Word<br /><br />11:10: Do This to Make the Exchange Ever Flirtier<br /><br />15:35: How to Lock in the Date, with ZERO Chance of Flaking<br /><br />23:45: How Shane Used the Opener to Meet His New Girlfriend<br /><br />27:51: The Secret Behind Why the “Back to the Future” Opener Works<br /><br />BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF HIS INNOVATINVE COACHING METHODS ARE RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67345869</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2025 18:56:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67345869/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="45142591" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do women on the apps rarely reply to you? Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his “Back to the Future” opener—the playful icebreaker that’s helped clients spark conversations, set up dates, and find girlfriends. He gives you the exact words to send...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do women on the apps rarely reply to you? Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his “Back to the Future” opener—the playful icebreaker that’s helped clients spark conversations, set up dates, and find girlfriends. He gives you the exact words to send so you can stop getting ghosted and start connecting. “This is the best opener I’ve come up with in my 20 years of studying online dating,” Connell says. Steal it today—your future girlfriend will thank you.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />01:28: How Connell Created the “Back to the Future” Opener—His Best Ever<br /><br />04:51: What to Write, Word for Word<br /><br />11:10: Do This to Make the Exchange Ever Flirtier<br /><br />15:35: How to Lock in the Date, with ZERO Chance of Flaking<br /><br />23:45: How Shane Used the Opener to Meet His New Girlfriend<br /><br />27:51: The Secret Behind Why the “Back to the Future” Opener Works<br /><br />BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF HIS INNOVATINVE COACHING METHODS ARE RIGHT FOR YOU:<a href="http://DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1881</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d68070caecce144f88aca4e4ab3ed7f1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Getting Ghosted! The 10 Texting Commandments that Get Women Writing You Back (Textual Healing, Part 2)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-getting-ghosted-the-10-texting-commandments-that-get-women-writing-you-back-textual-healing-part-2--67278090</link><description><![CDATA[Tired of getting ghosted? Do your texting conversations die faster than a fruit fly? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his 10 Texting Commandments—his tested rules to get women texting you back and saying yes to dates. Yea, thou SHALT obey these holy rules, and ye shall soon get ye some dates!<br /><br />The 10 Texting Commandments:<br /><br />04:00: Thou Shalt Give Authentic Value<br /><br />07:15: Thou Shalt Not Over-Read the Texting Tea Leaves<br /><br />15:51: Thou Shalt Follow the ‘Three Times Rule’<br /><br />12:49: Thou Shalt Not Fear the Double-Text<br /><br />22:45: Thou Shalt Change Her Mood, Not Her Mind<br /><br />26:12: Thou Shalt Text Her Leading Up to the First Date<br /><br />31:40: Thou Shalt Lower the Bar for How Good Your Texts Must Be<br /><br />34:08: Thou Shalt Ask Her Good Questions<br /><br />37:26: Thou Shalt Use Photos, Videos and Voice Notes<br /><br />40:35: Thou Shalt Ask Her Out<br /><br />43:02: Bonus Commandment! Thou Shalt Text Her the Day After a Date<br /><br />READY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67278090</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 07:06:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67278090/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="70932998" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tired of getting ghosted? Do your texting conversations die faster than a fruit fly? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his 10 Texting Commandments—his tested rules to get women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tired of getting ghosted? Do your texting conversations die faster than a fruit fly? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his 10 Texting Commandments—his tested rules to get women texting you back and saying yes to dates. Yea, thou SHALT obey these holy rules, and ye shall soon get ye some dates!<br /><br />The 10 Texting Commandments:<br /><br />04:00: Thou Shalt Give Authentic Value<br /><br />07:15: Thou Shalt Not Over-Read the Texting Tea Leaves<br /><br />15:51: Thou Shalt Follow the ‘Three Times Rule’<br /><br />12:49: Thou Shalt Not Fear the Double-Text<br /><br />22:45: Thou Shalt Change Her Mood, Not Her Mind<br /><br />26:12: Thou Shalt Text Her Leading Up to the First Date<br /><br />31:40: Thou Shalt Lower the Bar for How Good Your Texts Must Be<br /><br />34:08: Thou Shalt Ask Her Good Questions<br /><br />37:26: Thou Shalt Use Photos, Videos and Voice Notes<br /><br />40:35: Thou Shalt Ask Her Out<br /><br />43:02: Bonus Commandment! Thou Shalt Text Her the Day After a Date<br /><br />READY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? 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You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />07:12: The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals<br /><br />14:45: The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life<br /><br />25:45: How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”<br /><br />28:54: How to Enjoy the Process of Dating<br /><br />36:16: The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One<br /><br />38:58: Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women<br /><br />TO DOWNLOAD JASON’S FREE ‘LIFE AUDIT’:<br /><a href="http://JasonVR.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://JasonVR.com</a><br /><br />READ JASON’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘GET PAST YOUR PAST’:<br />Available on Amazon<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF DATING COACHING<br />IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://Datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67247848</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2025 07:06:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67247848/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="63673663" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally heal and move forward. You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />07:12: The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals<br /><br />14:45: The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life<br /><br />25:45: How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”<br /><br />28:54: How to Enjoy the Process of Dating<br /><br />36:16: The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One<br /><br />38:58: Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women<br /><br />TO DOWNLOAD JASON’S FREE ‘LIFE AUDIT’:<br /><a href="http://JasonVR.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://JasonVR.com</a><br /><br />READ JASON’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘GET PAST YOUR PAST’:<br />Available on Amazon<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF DATING COACHING<br />IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://Datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2653</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a180ba3c6d0866a898c8b3a5a4e20dc7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Spank You Very Much: The Nice Guy’s Guide to Hot, Shame-Free Sex (with Kink Expert Amanda Dames)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/spank-you-very-much-the-nice-guy-s-guide-to-hot-shame-free-sex-with-kink-expert-amanda-dames--67193253</link><description><![CDATA[You may not know it, but you are kinky… and so is your next date! That’s right—a whopping 95 percent of singles are kinky, according to certified sexologist Amanda Dames, who joins dating coach Connell Barrett in a juicy episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend.” Dames, host of the Kink Consultant Podcast, will teach you how to have hot, fun, shame-free sex, even if you’re sexually inexperienced.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />02:23: From Wall Street to Dominatrix—Amanda’s Wild Origin Story<br /><br />06:14: The Truth About Sexual Shame (and How to Finally Get Past It)<br /><br />16:47: Amanda’s Foolproof Foreplay Rules Every Man Should Know<br /><br />26:55: How to Bring Up Kink on Dates Without Killing the Vibe<br /><br />30:21: Why Some Women Want to Be “Choked” and How to Do It Safely<br /><br />41:21: Why 95 Percent of Us Are Kinky<br /><br />44:55: The Kinky Dating App You MUST Try<br /><br />FOLLOW AMANDA ON INSTAGRAM FOR DAILY KINK TIPS:<br />@‌The_KinkConsultant<br /><br />GET AMANDA’S FREE KINK WORKSHEET:<br /><a href="http://amandadames.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">AmandaDames.com</a><br /><br />LISTEN TO MORE JUICY STORIES ON “THE KINK CONSULTANT” PODCASTREADY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67193253</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2025 07:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67193253/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="93547327" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may not know it, but you are kinky… and so is your next date! That’s right—a whopping 95 percent of singles are kinky, according to certified sexologist Amanda Dames, who joins dating coach Connell Barrett in a juicy episode of “How to Get a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may not know it, but you are kinky… and so is your next date! That’s right—a whopping 95 percent of singles are kinky, according to certified sexologist Amanda Dames, who joins dating coach Connell Barrett in a juicy episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend.” Dames, host of the Kink Consultant Podcast, will teach you how to have hot, fun, shame-free sex, even if you’re sexually inexperienced.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />02:23: From Wall Street to Dominatrix—Amanda’s Wild Origin Story<br /><br />06:14: The Truth About Sexual Shame (and How to Finally Get Past It)<br /><br />16:47: Amanda’s Foolproof Foreplay Rules Every Man Should Know<br /><br />26:55: How to Bring Up Kink on Dates Without Killing the Vibe<br /><br />30:21: Why Some Women Want to Be “Choked” and How to Do It Safely<br /><br />41:21: Why 95 Percent of Us Are Kinky<br /><br />44:55: The Kinky Dating App You MUST Try<br /><br />FOLLOW AMANDA ON INSTAGRAM FOR DAILY KINK TIPS:<br />@‌The_KinkConsultant<br /><br />GET AMANDA’S FREE KINK WORKSHEET:<br /><a href="http://amandadames.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">AmandaDames.com</a><br /><br />LISTEN TO MORE JUICY STORIES ON “THE KINK CONSULTANT” PODCASTREADY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3898</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6d84f8a30b5e3df2f6bbaedd4ab3ca0e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Textual Healing: The New Way to Text and Get Dates—Play, Play, Play… Pull the Trigger (Part 1 of 3)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/textual-healing-the-new-way-to-text-and-get-dates-play-play-play-pull-the-trigger-part-1-of-3--67158714</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger.” You’ll learn how to confidently flirt over text so you get a lot more dates. Plus, you’ll hear how one woman went from rejecting Connell to asking HIM out—just from a short text exchange.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />01:15: Connell Sings! (Be Very Afraid)<br /><br />02:35: The “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger” Texting Framework Explained<br /><br />03:45: First She Rejected Connell, Then She Chased HIM for a Date<br /><br />11:19: What Most Guys Get Wrong About Texting (and How to Fix It)<br /><br />17:13: Yes, Good Texting is Learnable—Here’s Why<br /><br />21:57: Connell Walks You Through a Flirty Text Exchange that Led to a Date<br /><br /><br />READY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67158714</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2025 07:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67158714/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="44059711" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger.” You’ll learn how to confidently flirt over text so you get a lot more dates. Plus, you’ll hear how one woman went from rejecting Connell to asking HIM out—just from a short text exchange.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />01:15: Connell Sings! (Be Very Afraid)<br /><br />02:35: The “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger” Texting Framework Explained<br /><br />03:45: First She Rejected Connell, Then She Chased HIM for a Date<br /><br />11:19: What Most Guys Get Wrong About Texting (and How to Fix It)<br /><br />17:13: Yes, Good Texting is Learnable—Here’s Why<br /><br />21:57: Connell Walks You Through a Flirty Text Exchange that Led to a Date<br /><br /><br />READY TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1836</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d3addb211c9f105529643af10fdb0565.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The One Flirting Secret that Changes Everything—from Apps to Dates to Charming Approaches</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-one-flirting-secret-that-changes-everything-from-apps-to-dates-to-charming-approaches--67086180</link><description><![CDATA[Are you unsure how to talk to women—on the apps or in real life? Tired of being seen as “just a friend”? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you his secret weapon: Man-to-Woman Communication. You’re about to learn his turbo-charged flirting method. You’re about to know exactly what to say to spark real chemistry with women, from the dating apps to first dates to approaching with charm.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />07:45: How to Finally Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />16:15: The Secret to Sparking Romantic Attraction (It’s Not What You Think)<br /><br />25:30: How to Lead with Charm and Class—without Coming Off Controlling<br /><br />34:20: Say This to Make Her Swoon on First Dates<br /><br />42:30: How to Ignite Sexual Tension Using Only Your Eyes<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ‘DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T’:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67086180</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 07:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67086180/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="93826687" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you unsure how to talk to women—on the apps or in real life? Tired of being seen as “just a friend”? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you his secret weapon: Man-to-Woman Communication. You’re about to learn his...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you unsure how to talk to women—on the apps or in real life? Tired of being seen as “just a friend”? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you his secret weapon: Man-to-Woman Communication. You’re about to learn his turbo-charged flirting method. You’re about to know exactly what to say to spark real chemistry with women, from the dating apps to first dates to approaching with charm.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />07:45: How to Finally Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />16:15: The Secret to Sparking Romantic Attraction (It’s Not What You Think)<br /><br />25:30: How to Lead with Charm and Class—without Coming Off Controlling<br /><br />34:20: Say This to Make Her Swoon on First Dates<br /><br />42:30: How to Ignite Sexual Tension Using Only Your Eyes<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ‘DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T’:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3910</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b4edba593a6c86f46afce0d549cddc36.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Write Stuff: How to Turn Your Boring Bio into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Clint)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-write-stuff-how-to-turn-your-boring-bio-into-a-match-magnet-live-coaching-with-clint--67059039</link><description><![CDATA[Struggling on the apps? It’s not you—it’s your boring bio. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his new client, Clint, take his profile from generic to magnetic. You’ll learn how to write an irresistible bio in just 3 lines, add charming humor that women love, and finally land matches and dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:15: Why Your Dating Bio Doesn’t Work and How to Fix It<br /><br />12:58: The 3-Line Bio Formula to Get Her Swiping Right<br /><br />33:00: The Power Question to Put on Your Profile Today<br /><br />47:10: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Single Dads Dates<br /><br />54:15: How to Ask for Her Number<br /><br />1:04:41: Do This to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />1:08:47: The Smooth Way to Land the Second Date (Without Asking!)<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T"? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE "FREE BOOK" IN THE SUBJECT LINE TO GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67059039</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 07:55:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67059039/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="109284223" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Struggling on the apps? It’s not you—it’s your boring bio. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his new client, Clint, take his profile from generic to magnetic. You’ll learn how to write an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Struggling on the apps? It’s not you—it’s your boring bio. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his new client, Clint, take his profile from generic to magnetic. You’ll learn how to write an irresistible bio in just 3 lines, add charming humor that women love, and finally land matches and dates.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />04:15: Why Your Dating Bio Doesn’t Work and How to Fix It<br /><br />12:58: The 3-Line Bio Formula to Get Her Swiping Right<br /><br />33:00: The Power Question to Put on Your Profile Today<br /><br />47:10: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Single Dads Dates<br /><br />54:15: How to Ask for Her Number<br /><br />1:04:41: Do This to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />1:08:47: The Smooth Way to Land the Second Date (Without Asking!)<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T"? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE "FREE BOOK" IN THE SUBJECT LINE TO GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4554</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/650d58cea35f711e544ef8b581c14e52.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Content Trap: Use My ‘80/20 Rule’ to Go from Overthinking to Effortless Flirting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-content-trap-use-my-80-20-rule-to-go-from-overthinking-to-effortless-flirting--66998352</link><description><![CDATA[Social media is ruining your love life. You watch tons of dating advice, but you still struggle with women, right? You’ve fallen into the Content Trap—trying to remember so many tips that you overthink every move. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals why consuming too much TikTok or YouTube content kills your confidence. And his ‘80/20 Rule’ will help unlock your most fun, flirty, authentic self—without trying hard. Because women like you for YOU, not your “game.” Period.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:07: Why Brett’s Try-Hard First Dates Lead to Rejection<br /><br />07:11: Why Treating Women Like “Results” Kills Connection<br /><br />10:14: The Cringe Date that Taught Connell a Priceless Lesson<br /><br />18:31: How the ‘80/20’ Rule Gets You Out of Your Head and Into Her Heart<br /><br />26:29: The Three P’s to Unlock Great First Dates<br /><br />27:50: Stop Consuming Content—Do THIS Instead<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66998352</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 07:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66998352/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="43745791" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Social media is ruining your love life. You watch tons of dating advice, but you still struggle with women, right? You’ve fallen into the Content Trap—trying to remember so many tips that you overthink every move. In this episode, dating coach and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Social media is ruining your love life. You watch tons of dating advice, but you still struggle with women, right? You’ve fallen into the Content Trap—trying to remember so many tips that you overthink every move. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals why consuming too much TikTok or YouTube content kills your confidence. And his ‘80/20 Rule’ will help unlock your most fun, flirty, authentic self—without trying hard. Because women like you for YOU, not your “game.” Period.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:07: Why Brett’s Try-Hard First Dates Lead to Rejection<br /><br />07:11: Why Treating Women Like “Results” Kills Connection<br /><br />10:14: The Cringe Date that Taught Connell a Priceless Lesson<br /><br />18:31: How the ‘80/20’ Rule Gets You Out of Your Head and Into Her Heart<br /><br />26:29: The Three P’s to Unlock Great First Dates<br /><br />27:50: Stop Consuming Content—Do THIS Instead<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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The man behind the “Trillion Sided Dice” theory of existence (seriously, it’ll break your brain) shares his own dating journey—still a virgin at 23—and the breakthroughs that changed everything. Plus, Binazir, co-author of the bestselling book “The 5 Hidden Love Questions,” explains why approach anxiety is hardwired into your brain, how to flip limiting beliefs, and reveals his charisma formula to help you become more magnetic.<br /><br /><b>You’re About to Learn:</b><br /><br />01:14: The Trillion-Sided Dice Theory: Why Your Existence Is Literally a Miracle<br /><br />06:22: How Gratitude Can Destroy Your Fear of Dating Rejection<br /><br />13:23: The 5 Hidden Love Questions that Sabotage Your Romantic Life<br /><br />20:31: The Science Behind Your Fear of Approaching—and How to Start Meeting Women<br /><br />27:59: How Dr. Ali Went from a Virgin at Age 23 to Dating Success<br /><br />41:58: The Neuroscience of Happiness: Why Being Happy Attracts Love<br /><br />56:07: The 30-Second Charisma Formula to Create Attraction<br /><br /><b>LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. ALI BINAZIR:</b> <a href="http://TaoOfDating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://TaoOfDating.com</a> and <a href="http://HappinessEngineering.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://HappinessEngineering.com</a><br /><br /><b>GET ‘THE 5 HIDDEN LOVE QUESTIONS’ ON AMAZON</b><br /><br /><b>FREE TRAINING:Get Dr. Ali’s “Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker” course free at</b> <a href="http://TaoOfDating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://TaoOfDating.com</a><br /><br /><b>TO TAKE DR. ALI’s ‘TUNE UP YOUR LIFE’ COURSE</b>: Email him at DrAliB@TaoOfDating.com or DrAli@HappinessEngineering.com<br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b> <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66948070</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 07:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66948070/final_audio.mp3" length="94545535" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever wonder, “Am I enough to find love?” Harvard-educated physician Ali Binazir has a hopeful answer! The man behind the “Trillion Sided Dice” theory of existence (seriously, it’ll break your brain) shares his own dating journey—still a virgin at...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever wonder, “Am I enough to find love?” Harvard-educated physician Ali Binazir has a hopeful answer! The man behind the “Trillion Sided Dice” theory of existence (seriously, it’ll break your brain) shares his own dating journey—still a virgin at 23—and the breakthroughs that changed everything. Plus, Binazir, co-author of the bestselling book “The 5 Hidden Love Questions,” explains why approach anxiety is hardwired into your brain, how to flip limiting beliefs, and reveals his charisma formula to help you become more magnetic.<br /><br /><b>You’re About to Learn:</b><br /><br />01:14: The Trillion-Sided Dice Theory: Why Your Existence Is Literally a Miracle<br /><br />06:22: How Gratitude Can Destroy Your Fear of Dating Rejection<br /><br />13:23: The 5 Hidden Love Questions that Sabotage Your Romantic Life<br /><br />20:31: The Science Behind Your Fear of Approaching—and How to Start Meeting Women<br /><br />27:59: How Dr. Ali Went from a Virgin at Age 23 to Dating Success<br /><br />41:58: The Neuroscience of Happiness: Why Being Happy Attracts Love<br /><br />56:07: The 30-Second Charisma Formula to Create Attraction<br /><br /><b>LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. ALI BINAZIR:</b> <a href="http://TaoOfDating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://TaoOfDating.com</a> and <a href="http://HappinessEngineering.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://HappinessEngineering.com</a><br /><br /><b>GET ‘THE 5 HIDDEN LOVE QUESTIONS’ ON AMAZON</b><br /><br /><b>FREE TRAINING:Get Dr. Ali’s “Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker” course free at</b> <a href="http://TaoOfDating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://TaoOfDating.com</a><br /><br /><b>TO TAKE DR. ALI’s ‘TUNE UP YOUR LIFE’ COURSE</b>: Email him at DrAliB@TaoOfDating.com or DrAli@HappinessEngineering.com<br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b> <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3940</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/add1e31fc234ae2cf54def3318563c50.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Invisible to Irresistible: The 7 Dating Superpowers that Ignite Attraction—Even if You’re Shy or Introverted</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-invisible-to-irresistible-the-7-dating-superpowers-that-ignite-attraction-even-if-you-re-shy-or-introverted--66913085</link><description><![CDATA[Why do some men effortlessly attract women while guys like you get overlooked? It comes down to mastering the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 7 super attractors that make women think, “Wow, he’s different from other guys!” Whether you want to confidently approach, take your texting skills to new levels, or have great first dates, this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” will help you transform your love life.<br /><br /><b>Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:</b><br /><br />9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere<br /><br />15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive<br /><br />21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self<br /><br />34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You<br /><br />40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates<br /><br />51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Are Flirty and Sexy<br /><br />59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />Discover your dating superpower and become irresistible—as your most authentic self (no creepy pickup moves needed!)<br /><br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><b>WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T"? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE "FREE BOOK" IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU'LL GET IT INSTANTLY:</b><br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66913085</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 07:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66913085/final_audio.mp3" length="102424064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why do some men effortlessly attract women while guys like you get overlooked? It comes down to mastering the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 7 super attractors that make women think, “Wow, he’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do some men effortlessly attract women while guys like you get overlooked? It comes down to mastering the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 7 super attractors that make women think, “Wow, he’s different from other guys!” Whether you want to confidently approach, take your texting skills to new levels, or have great first dates, this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” will help you transform your love life.<br /><br /><b>Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:</b><br /><br />9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere<br /><br />15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive<br /><br />21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self<br /><br />34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You<br /><br />40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates<br /><br />51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Are Flirty and Sexy<br /><br />59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />Discover your dating superpower and become irresistible—as your most authentic self (no creepy pickup moves needed!)<br /><br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><b>WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T"? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE "FREE BOOK" IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU'LL GET IT INSTANTLY:</b><br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4268</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/198b482c43c6763b15b973b9cee0f1cc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Professional Man’s Paradox: Why You Succeed at Work but Struggle with Women (with Matchmaker Lisa Goodman)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-professional-man-s-paradox-why-you-succeed-at-work-but-struggle-with-women-with-matchmaker-lisa-goodman--66887038</link><description><![CDATA[Isn’t it frustrating to achieve career success yet struggle with women? Dating coach Connell Barrett calls this the “Professional Man’s Dating Paradox.” Simply put, the communication skills that help you excel at work can actually hurt your love life. Renowned matchmaker Lisa Goodman, of Selective Search, is here to help. Goodman reveals why your career strengths can be dating weaknesses—and shares proven strategies to turn boardroom skills into romantic confidence. Get ready to succeed not just at work, but in dating too!<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />07:33: Why You Should Pick Up the Phone Instead of Texting<br /><br />10:31: The Right Way to Talk to Women on First Dates<br /><br />21:31: How to Tell if Your Date is Going Well (It’s All in Her Eyes)<br /><br />34:00: The Truth About First Kisses (When and How to Go for It)<br /><br />40:10: Why Women Want You to Approach Them (Straight from a Female Expert)<br /><br /><br /><b>LEARN MORE ABOUT LISA GOODMAN AND SELECTIVE SEARCH MATCHMAKING:</b><br /><a href="http://www.selectivesearch.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.selectivesearch.com</a><br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><b>GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ‘DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T’:</b><br />Email Connell: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66887038</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2025 07:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66887038/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="64750783" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Isn’t it frustrating to achieve career success yet struggle with women? Dating coach Connell Barrett calls this the “Professional Man’s Dating Paradox.” Simply put, the communication skills that help you excel at work can actually hurt your love life....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Isn’t it frustrating to achieve career success yet struggle with women? Dating coach Connell Barrett calls this the “Professional Man’s Dating Paradox.” Simply put, the communication skills that help you excel at work can actually hurt your love life. Renowned matchmaker Lisa Goodman, of Selective Search, is here to help. Goodman reveals why your career strengths can be dating weaknesses—and shares proven strategies to turn boardroom skills into romantic confidence. Get ready to succeed not just at work, but in dating too!<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />07:33: Why You Should Pick Up the Phone Instead of Texting<br /><br />10:31: The Right Way to Talk to Women on First Dates<br /><br />21:31: How to Tell if Your Date is Going Well (It’s All in Her Eyes)<br /><br />34:00: The Truth About First Kisses (When and How to Go for It)<br /><br />40:10: Why Women Want You to Approach Them (Straight from a Female Expert)<br /><br /><br /><b>LEARN MORE ABOUT LISA GOODMAN AND SELECTIVE SEARCH MATCHMAKING:</b><br /><a href="http://www.selectivesearch.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.selectivesearch.com</a><br /><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:</b><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><b>GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ‘DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T’:</b><br />Email Connell: Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2698</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6cdfcd283522c007953b81edd14eb0f9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Make-or-Break Dating Moments to Either Get the Girl… or Get Friend-Zoned</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-make-or-break-dating-moments-to-either-get-the-girl-or-get-friend-zoned--66840771</link><description><![CDATA[The difference between finding love or staying stuck can come down to small but pivotal moments of truth. Like when a conversation with a woman is going well, but you play it safe and don’t go for her number. Or when fear stops you from going for the first kiss on a date. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals 7 make-or-break dating moments that determine whether you get the girl… or stay frustrated. Handle these turning points right, and you’ll be closer to the dream relationship you want.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />05:35: The Secret Weapon to Approach Any Woman You Want<br /><br />10:28: How to Walk Away with Her Phone Number, Not Regrets<br /><br />14:15: The First Kiss Secret You MUST Know<br /><br />21:48: The “Three Times” Texting Rule that Gets Women Messaging You Back<br /><br />27:54: How to Handle Last-Minute Cancellations without Looking Desperate<br /><br />30:48: The Right Way to Pass “Tests” Without Losing Sight of Your Authentic Self<br /><br />35:22: How to Ask Her to Be Your Girlfriend—Without Making It Weird<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU'LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66840771</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2025 07:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66840771/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="56103871" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The difference between finding love or staying stuck can come down to small but pivotal moments of truth. Like when a conversation with a woman is going well, but you play it safe and don’t go for her number. Or when fear stops you from going for the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The difference between finding love or staying stuck can come down to small but pivotal moments of truth. Like when a conversation with a woman is going well, but you play it safe and don’t go for her number. Or when fear stops you from going for the first kiss on a date. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals 7 make-or-break dating moments that determine whether you get the girl… or stay frustrated. Handle these turning points right, and you’ll be closer to the dream relationship you want.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />05:35: The Secret Weapon to Approach Any Woman You Want<br /><br />10:28: How to Walk Away with Her Phone Number, Not Regrets<br /><br />14:15: The First Kiss Secret You MUST Know<br /><br />21:48: The “Three Times” Texting Rule that Gets Women Messaging You Back<br /><br />27:54: How to Handle Last-Minute Cancellations without Looking Desperate<br /><br />30:48: The Right Way to Pass “Tests” Without Losing Sight of Your Authentic Self<br /><br />35:22: How to Ask Her to Be Your Girlfriend—Without Making It Weird<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU'LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2338</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f2dae0a6c48ec2b883b6a86323bdec9d.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sex Tips for Shy Guys: How to Touch Her, Talk Dirty and Rock Her World (with Sex Coach Kirsten Trammell)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-tips-for-shy-guys-how-to-touch-her-talk-dirty-and-rock-her-world-with-sex-coach-kirsten-trammell--66811389</link><description><![CDATA[Are you unsure what to do in bed—and worried you won’t please her the first time you’re intimate? Sex coach Kirsten Trammell, host of “The Naked Connection” podcast, shares insider secrets on how to rock a woman’s world. If you’re inexperienced sexually—or even a virgin—don’t worry. Kirsten’s tested, practical sex tips will help make you confident in the bedroom, so you can give that special woman an unforgettable, connected sexual experience.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />07:00: The Mindset That Makes Sex Connected and Unforgettable<br /><br />10:30: Should You Tell Her You’re a Virgin? The Surprising Truth!<br /><br />22:12: How to Make Her Feel Sexy and Safe<br /><br />27:52: The ‘Bullseye Method’ that Instantly Improves Foreplay<br /><br />33:53: Consent Is Sexy: How to Ask the Right Way<br /><br />39:25: What to Say During Sex to Turn Her On<br /><br />55:52: She Asked You To ‘Choke’ Her in Bed? Here’s What It Really Means<br /><br />Listen now and discover how emotional nakedness leads to incredible physical connection!<br /><br />TO WORK WITH KIRSTEN TRAMMELL:<br /><a href="http://www.thenakedconnection.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.thenakedconnection.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW KIRSTEN ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌nakedconnection<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66811389</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 07:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66811389/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="94291519" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you unsure what to do in bed—and worried you won’t please her the first time you’re intimate? Sex coach Kirsten Trammell, host of “The Naked Connection” podcast, shares insider secrets on how to rock a woman’s world. If you’re inexperienced...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you unsure what to do in bed—and worried you won’t please her the first time you’re intimate? Sex coach Kirsten Trammell, host of “The Naked Connection” podcast, shares insider secrets on how to rock a woman’s world. If you’re inexperienced sexually—or even a virgin—don’t worry. Kirsten’s tested, practical sex tips will help make you confident in the bedroom, so you can give that special woman an unforgettable, connected sexual experience.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />07:00: The Mindset That Makes Sex Connected and Unforgettable<br /><br />10:30: Should You Tell Her You’re a Virgin? The Surprising Truth!<br /><br />22:12: How to Make Her Feel Sexy and Safe<br /><br />27:52: The ‘Bullseye Method’ that Instantly Improves Foreplay<br /><br />33:53: Consent Is Sexy: How to Ask the Right Way<br /><br />39:25: What to Say During Sex to Turn Her On<br /><br />55:52: She Asked You To ‘Choke’ Her in Bed? Here’s What It Really Means<br /><br />Listen now and discover how emotional nakedness leads to incredible physical connection!<br /><br />TO WORK WITH KIRSTEN TRAMMELL:<br /><a href="http://www.thenakedconnection.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.thenakedconnection.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW KIRSTEN ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌nakedconnection<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3929</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/be1964ad198f61f72e25fe37b9459dfd.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Frozen to Fearless! True Stories of Shy Guys Who Beat Approach Anxiety and Found Love IRL</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-frozen-to-fearless-true-stories-of-shy-guys-who-beat-approach-anxiety-and-found-love-irl--66729568</link><description><![CDATA[Want to approach women IRL—but you freeze up or overthink it? Connell Barrett, bestselling author and top dating coach, helps shy men meet wonderful women without pickup lines or weird tricks. In this episode, hear how guys like you overcame anxiety, walked up to women in bars, bookstores and gyms, and sparked real-life romance.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:42: How Short, Shy Ken Scored His First Kiss Ever—with a Tall, Stylish Blonde<br /><br />16:03: What Ash Said to the Cutest Girl at the Bar to Make Her Swoon<br /><br />24:30: The Bold Coaching Move that Shattered Edward’s Social Anxiety and Led to a Date<br /><br />35:12: Raj’s Charming Bookstore Chat that Made Emily say, “You Made My Day!”<br /><br />43:17: Jared the Navy Captain’s Breakthrough that Crushed His Approach Fear for Good<br /><br />Approaching isn’t something to fear—it’s your fastest path to romance and love!<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T":<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66729568</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 07:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66729568/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="75059455" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Want to approach women IRL—but you freeze up or overthink it? Connell Barrett, bestselling author and top dating coach, helps shy men meet wonderful women without pickup lines or weird tricks. In this episode, hear how guys like you overcame anxiety,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Want to approach women IRL—but you freeze up or overthink it? Connell Barrett, bestselling author and top dating coach, helps shy men meet wonderful women without pickup lines or weird tricks. In this episode, hear how guys like you overcame anxiety, walked up to women in bars, bookstores and gyms, and sparked real-life romance.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:42: How Short, Shy Ken Scored His First Kiss Ever—with a Tall, Stylish Blonde<br /><br />16:03: What Ash Said to the Cutest Girl at the Bar to Make Her Swoon<br /><br />24:30: The Bold Coaching Move that Shattered Edward’s Social Anxiety and Led to a Date<br /><br />35:12: Raj’s Charming Bookstore Chat that Made Emily say, “You Made My Day!”<br /><br />43:17: Jared the Navy Captain’s Breakthrough that Crushed His Approach Fear for Good<br /><br />Approaching isn’t something to fear—it’s your fastest path to romance and love!<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T":<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3128</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b8bc578ac15e1957084cf12aa290a624.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>20 Dating Lessons That Took Me 20 Years to Master—You’ll Learn Them by Lunch (Special Series!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-dating-lessons-that-took-me-20-years-to-master-you-ll-learn-them-by-lunch-special-series--66708693</link><description><![CDATA[Struggling in your love life? Low on dates and confidence? Twenty years ago, Connell Barrett was in your shoes. So he began a journey to fix his dating problems. To mark his 20th year in the dating trenches, Connell kicks off a new series. In this premiere episode, he reveals 20 powerful, practical tips straight from his #1 Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Here’s the good news: You don’t have to spend years swiping, approaching and dating. You can start to transform your love life today—and meet your dream girlfriend in 20 weeks instead of 20 years!<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />5:20: Why Being Radically Authentic is Your Secret Weapon<br /><br />9:00: Myth-buster: Your Looks Don’t Matter to Women—This Does<br /><br />10:58: The Bulletproof Dating App Opener that Gets Replies<br /><br />16:09: The Secret to Flirting that Changes Everything<br /><br />20:15: How to Smoothly Go for the First Kiss<br /><br />30:43: The 15-Minute Morning Routine that Builds True Confidence<br /><br />35:52: How to Make Her See You as Her Dream Boyfriend<br /><br />37:32: Getting Consent Can Turn Her On (Yes, Really!)<br /><br />44:10: The NEW Way to Text Women: A Simple Framework<br /><br />Listen now and start your own dating transformation—without waiting two decades!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T":Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66708693</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 07:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66708693/final_audio_ht.mp3" length="71784895" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Struggling in your love life? Low on dates and confidence? Twenty years ago, Connell Barrett was in your shoes. So he began a journey to fix his dating problems. To mark his 20th year in the dating trenches, Connell kicks off a new series. In this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Struggling in your love life? Low on dates and confidence? Twenty years ago, Connell Barrett was in your shoes. So he began a journey to fix his dating problems. To mark his 20th year in the dating trenches, Connell kicks off a new series. In this premiere episode, he reveals 20 powerful, practical tips straight from his #1 Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Here’s the good news: You don’t have to spend years swiping, approaching and dating. You can start to transform your love life today—and meet your dream girlfriend in 20 weeks instead of 20 years!<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />5:20: Why Being Radically Authentic is Your Secret Weapon<br /><br />9:00: Myth-buster: Your Looks Don’t Matter to Women—This Does<br /><br />10:58: The Bulletproof Dating App Opener that Gets Replies<br /><br />16:09: The Secret to Flirting that Changes Everything<br /><br />20:15: How to Smoothly Go for the First Kiss<br /><br />30:43: The 15-Minute Morning Routine that Builds True Confidence<br /><br />35:52: How to Make Her See You as Her Dream Boyfriend<br /><br />37:32: Getting Consent Can Turn Her On (Yes, Really!)<br /><br />44:10: The NEW Way to Text Women: A Simple Framework<br /><br />Listen now and start your own dating transformation—without waiting two decades!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T":Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2991</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/85b16ac538aceb8d2a516666654e8a56.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Speed Dating Move that Drives Women Wild: Why Vulnerability Wins Every Time (Featuring Kavita Ajwani)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-speed-dating-move-that-drives-women-wild-why-vulnerability-wins-every-time-featuring-kavita-ajwani--66635546</link><description><![CDATA[You struggle to connect with women, right? What if you could confidently walk into a crowded room and get numbers from women who find you utterly charming? You actually can—when you get great at speed dating! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes speed dating expert Kavita Ajwani. As a woman, Kavita—founder of Dashing Date—knows what women really want from men. You’re about to learn why vulnerability, not pickup tactics, is your secret weapon for attracting women.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />02:21: Why Vulnerability is Your Most Underrated Dating Superpower<br /><br />06:45: The Question that Takes Dates from Small Talk to Deep Connection<br /><br />12:52: The One Topic that Instantly Helps Women Feel Safe<br /><br />17:25: How Being a “Nerd” Actually Attracts Women<br /><br />24:34: Your Speed Dating Masterclass: 3 Moves that Get You Matches and Dates<br /><br />42:37: How Kavita’s Coaching Transforms Men’s Love Lives<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT KAVITA AJWANI AND HER COACHING:<br />Follow @‌DashingDate on Instagram<br /><br />GET KAVITA’S “TO BE DESIRED” MASTERCLASS FOR FREE:<br />DM “Connell” to @‌DashingDate on Instagram]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66635546</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2025 20:19:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66635546/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="68146303" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You struggle to connect with women, right? What if you could confidently walk into a crowded room and get numbers from women who find you utterly charming? You actually can—when you get great at speed dating! In this episode, dating coach Connell...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You struggle to connect with women, right? What if you could confidently walk into a crowded room and get numbers from women who find you utterly charming? You actually can—when you get great at speed dating! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes speed dating expert Kavita Ajwani. As a woman, Kavita—founder of Dashing Date—knows what women really want from men. You’re about to learn why vulnerability, not pickup tactics, is your secret weapon for attracting women.<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />02:21: Why Vulnerability is Your Most Underrated Dating Superpower<br /><br />06:45: The Question that Takes Dates from Small Talk to Deep Connection<br /><br />12:52: The One Topic that Instantly Helps Women Feel Safe<br /><br />17:25: How Being a “Nerd” Actually Attracts Women<br /><br />24:34: Your Speed Dating Masterclass: 3 Moves that Get You Matches and Dates<br /><br />42:37: How Kavita’s Coaching Transforms Men’s Love Lives<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT KAVITA AJWANI AND HER COACHING:<br />Follow @‌DashingDate on Instagram<br /><br />GET KAVITA’S “TO BE DESIRED” MASTERCLASS FOR FREE:<br />DM “Connell” to @‌DashingDate on Instagram]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2840</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dcd191b5c75e97150c41c621aac7195a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Textual Healing! Connell’s 4-Part Texting Formula to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/textual-healing-connell-s-4-part-texting-formula-to-stop-getting-ghosted-and-start-getting-dates--66582530</link><description><![CDATA[Do you get ghosted on the apps and don’t know why? Do you freeze up on dates because you’re not sure what to talk about? Would you love to meet women at the gym, but you’re worried you’ll seem creepy? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you step-by-step solutions to all of these issues. Plus, you’ll discover his simple texting formula that will make it easy to spark attraction with wonderful women.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:34: Why You Get Ghosted &amp; How to Finally Fix It<br /><br />04:45: The Fatal Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction<br /><br />07:20: Connell’s 4-Part Texting Formula: Play, Play, Play… Then Pull the Trigger!<br /><br />18:39: Should You Use ChatGPT when Texting? The Answer Will Surprise You<br /><br />26:00: How “Interview Mode” Can Be… A Good Thing?!<br /><br />31:31: 8 Flirty Questions to Make First Dates Fun<br /><br />39:57: How to Go for the First Kiss without Making it Weird<br /><br />44:48: The Charming Way to Meet Women at the Gym—and NEVER Be Creepy<br /><br />56:08: The Exact Number of Texts to Send Before Asking Her Out<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66582530</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2025 07:05:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66582530/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="88488319" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you get ghosted on the apps and don’t know why? Do you freeze up on dates because you’re not sure what to talk about? Would you love to meet women at the gym, but you’re worried you’ll seem creepy? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you get ghosted on the apps and don’t know why? Do you freeze up on dates because you’re not sure what to talk about? Would you love to meet women at the gym, but you’re worried you’ll seem creepy? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you step-by-step solutions to all of these issues. Plus, you’ll discover his simple texting formula that will make it easy to spark attraction with wonderful women.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:34: Why You Get Ghosted &amp; How to Finally Fix It<br /><br />04:45: The Fatal Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction<br /><br />07:20: Connell’s 4-Part Texting Formula: Play, Play, Play… Then Pull the Trigger!<br /><br />18:39: Should You Use ChatGPT when Texting? The Answer Will Surprise You<br /><br />26:00: How “Interview Mode” Can Be… A Good Thing?!<br /><br />31:31: 8 Flirty Questions to Make First Dates Fun<br /><br />39:57: How to Go for the First Kiss without Making it Weird<br /><br />44:48: The Charming Way to Meet Women at the Gym—and NEVER Be Creepy<br /><br />56:08: The Exact Number of Texts to Send Before Asking Her Out<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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He also shares how getting blown off so many times (“F-off, Ginger!”) actually opened the door to real romantic wins! If you’re tired of being too afraid to make move, this episode will change your dating life.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />05:44: The Rejection that Changed Connell’s Dating Life<br /><br />09:45: The 2 Hidden Forces that Create Your Fear of Rejection<br /><br />14:35: When Connell’s Date Left Him—Mid-Date!—for Another Guy<br /><br />18:35: “F---- off, Ginger!” How a Brutal Brush-Off Led to an Incredible Romantic Win<br /><br />27:00: 4 New Ways to Look at Rejection and Become a Fearless, Confident Man<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? 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It’s why you don’t say hi to the stylish woman at the café or make a move on the date. In this episode of. “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett gets raw and real about his own fear of rejection. He also shares how getting blown off so many times (“F-off, Ginger!”) actually opened the door to real romantic wins! If you’re tired of being too afraid to make move, this episode will change your dating life.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />05:44: The Rejection that Changed Connell’s Dating Life<br /><br />09:45: The 2 Hidden Forces that Create Your Fear of Rejection<br /><br />14:35: When Connell’s Date Left Him—Mid-Date!—for Another Guy<br /><br />18:35: “F---- off, Ginger!” How a Brutal Brush-Off Led to an Incredible Romantic Win<br /><br />27:00: 4 New Ways to Look at Rejection and Become a Fearless, Confident Man<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2325</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2fbb86c7616b8d0e99b23f5b7f7e2e2e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Flirty Dozen: 12 Ways to Smash Out of the Friend Zone and Spark Connection on First Dates</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-flirty-dozen-12-ways-to-smash-out-of-the-friend-zone-and-spark-connection-on-first-dates/</link><description><![CDATA[Tired of getting stuck in the dreaded Friend Zone? It’s frustrating when your dates feel flat and women say, “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down exactly how to go from the Friend Zone to the Flirty Zone, with 12 game-changing moves that make romantic sparks fly. From charming texts to confidently going for that first kiss, your love life is about to change.<br /><br />Get Ready to Learn:<br /><br />10:05: Why Women Lose Interest after a First or Second Date—and How to Fix this for Good<br /><br />15:23: The Text to Send before a Date that Gets Her Excited about Meeting You<br /><br />24:42: Six Tested Moves to Use During the Date that Women Love<br /><br />43:17: How to Go for a First Kiss the Right Way<br /><br />51:27: What to Text Her the Next Day to Get Date Number 2<br /><br />Listen now to smash out of the Friend Zone once and for all!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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It’s frustrating when your dates feel flat and women say, “I just didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down exactly how to go from the Friend Zone to the Flirty Zone, with 12 game-changing moves that make romantic sparks fly. From charming texts to confidently going for that first kiss, your love life is about to change.<br /><br />Get Ready to Learn:<br /><br />10:05: Why Women Lose Interest after a First or Second Date—and How to Fix this for Good<br /><br />15:23: The Text to Send before a Date that Gets Her Excited about Meeting You<br /><br />24:42: Six Tested Moves to Use During the Date that Women Love<br /><br />43:17: How to Go for a First Kiss the Right Way<br /><br />51:27: What to Text Her the Next Day to Get Date Number 2<br /><br />Listen now to smash out of the Friend Zone once and for all!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shows you how to be bold, flirty, and totally respectful, so you can charm women without crossing any lines. This is your guide to building a real connection with class and confidence—as the modern gentleman women actually want!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:23: Avoid the Lunge, the First-Kiss Mistake that Women Hate<br /><br />06:25: How to Text Her in a Persistent, Charming Way—without Being Pushy or Thirsty<br /><br />09:30: The Do’s and Don’ts of Office Romance<br /><br />14:42: Should You Ask Her Permission to Kiss Her?<br /><br />18:21: How to Sext in the Way Many Women Want<br /><br />25:33: What to Do—and Not Do—When She Visits Your Place for the First Time<br /><br />27:58: How to Respectfully Get Consent without Killing the Mood<br /><br />34:49: The Story of Alex, Who Helped Connell Become a Better Man<br /><br />42:00: What Women Need Most from Men Today<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shows you how to be bold, flirty, and totally respectful, so you can charm women without crossing any lines. This is your guide to building a real connection with class and confidence—as the modern gentleman women actually want!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:23: Avoid the Lunge, the First-Kiss Mistake that Women Hate<br /><br />06:25: How to Text Her in a Persistent, Charming Way—without Being Pushy or Thirsty<br /><br />09:30: The Do’s and Don’ts of Office Romance<br /><br />14:42: Should You Ask Her Permission to Kiss Her?<br /><br />18:21: How to Sext in the Way Many Women Want<br /><br />25:33: What to Do—and Not Do—When She Visits Your Place for the First Time<br /><br />27:58: How to Respectfully Get Consent without Killing the Mood<br /><br />34:49: The Story of Alex, Who Helped Connell Become a Better Man<br /><br />42:00: What Women Need Most from Men Today<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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Get ready to escape the friend zone and boldly land that first kiss, even if you’re shy!<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />03:00: 3 Playful First-Date Games that Instantly Spark Chemistry<br /><br />04:10: How to Flirt Without Being Needy or Weird<br /><br />09:00: Rejection-proof openers for Shy or Introverted Men<br /><br />17:41: The Right Way to Compliment Women (They Love This!)<br /><br />21:55: The Funny, Flirty Text that Gets You a Second Date<br /><br />26:47: A Great Question to Dial Up Sparks<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In just 27 minutes, he shares 27 practical flirting tips to help you confidently make sparks fly—on dates, during approaches, and over text. Get ready to escape the friend zone and boldly land that first kiss, even if you’re shy!<br /><br />Episode Highlights Include:<br /><br />03:00: 3 Playful First-Date Games that Instantly Spark Chemistry<br /><br />04:10: How to Flirt Without Being Needy or Weird<br /><br />09:00: Rejection-proof openers for Shy or Introverted Men<br /><br />17:41: The Right Way to Compliment Women (They Love This!)<br /><br />21:55: The Funny, Flirty Text that Gets You a Second Date<br /><br />26:47: A Great Question to Dial Up Sparks<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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Whether you’re just starting out or stuck in a dating rut, this episode gives you the tools to build real connection—and get the girlfriend you want.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:45: Why Some Women Want to Date Guys with Little to No Sexual Experience<br /><br />08:18: How to Get out of Interview Mode with these 8 Flirty Questions<br /><br />19:30: Why Some Men Become Incels—and How to Avoid this Trap<br /><br />29:11: Your New 4-word Framework that Makes Texting Fun and Effective<br /><br />33:42: Should You Worry if your Girlfriend is Texting Her Ex?<br /><br />Listen now and take on step closer to finding your dream girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett answers your questions to help you break out of boring small talk, ask magnetic flirty questions, and master texting with a simple 4-word rule. Whether you’re just starting out or stuck in a dating rut, this episode gives you the tools to build real connection—and get the girlfriend you want.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:45: Why Some Women Want to Date Guys with Little to No Sexual Experience<br /><br />08:18: How to Get out of Interview Mode with these 8 Flirty Questions<br /><br />19:30: Why Some Men Become Incels—and How to Avoid this Trap<br /><br />29:11: Your New 4-word Framework that Makes Texting Fun and Effective<br /><br />33:42: Should You Worry if your Girlfriend is Texting Her Ex?<br /><br />Listen now and take on step closer to finding your dream girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? 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They dive into how to read a woman’s signals, how to make the right moves (and avoid the wrong ones), and create real attraction through authenticity.<br /><br />Kezia and Connell discuss:<br /><br />7:35: How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients<br /><br />15:40: How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”<br /><br />18:12: “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive<br /><br />21:45: What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic<br /><br />23:05: How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You<br /><br />29:05: The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way<br /><br />30:45: The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women<br /><br />33:51: Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them<br /><br />37:35: How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You<br /><br />Listen now and start so you can finally understand what women want!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS<br /><a href="http://www.kezia-noble.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.kezia-noble.com/</a><br /><br />VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert</a><br /><br />GET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66177823</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2025 07:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66177823/htgag_audio.mp3" length="62792960" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle to read women? The fear of making the wrong move—and seeming creepy—can kill your confidence. In this encore episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks with renowned expert and bestselling author Kezia Noble, who’s helped over 100,000...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle to read women? The fear of making the wrong move—and seeming creepy—can kill your confidence. In this encore episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks with renowned expert and bestselling author Kezia Noble, who’s helped over 100,000 men. They dive into how to read a woman’s signals, how to make the right moves (and avoid the wrong ones), and create real attraction through authenticity.<br /><br />Kezia and Connell discuss:<br /><br />7:35: How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients<br /><br />15:40: How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”<br /><br />18:12: “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive<br /><br />21:45: What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic<br /><br />23:05: How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You<br /><br />29:05: The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way<br /><br />30:45: The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women<br /><br />33:51: Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them<br /><br />37:35: How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You<br /><br />Listen now and start so you can finally understand what women want!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS<br /><a href="http://www.kezia-noble.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.kezia-noble.com/</a><br /><br />VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert</a><br /><br />GET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2617</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e9a264679976893b74b3a2cdb6304d39.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tongue-Tied with Women? Become a Funny Flirt with 3 Simple Moves and Get Her Giggling! (Live Coaching with Jake)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/tongue-tied-with-women-become-a-funny-flirt-with-3-simple-moves-and-get-her-giggling-live-coaching-with-jake/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you feel tongue-tied around attractive women? Want to be funnier and flirtier, but you’re not sure how? In this live coaching session with his client Jake, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 3 simple moves to master funny banter and playful flirting. You’ll hear Jake go from awkward silences to laugh-filled connections, learning how to be funnier and way more attractive—without any weird pickup-artist tricks! Because women are attracted to your most authentic self.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:01: Why Women Tell Guys Like Jake, “Sorry, Not Feeling a Connection”<br /><br />07:11: How to Lightly Tease Women in a Way they Love<br /><br />15:32: The Right Way to Use Sarcasm on a Date—and the WRONG Way<br /><br />21:03: An Easy Technique to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />25:39: 3 Ways to Ace Your Next Speed-Dating Event… and Get Phone Numbers!<br /><br />34:58: The First-Date Question to Ask Every Woman<br /><br />43:57: The Secret to Unlocking True Charisma, While Being Authentic<br /><br />54:57: 1 Simple Move to Get Out of Your Head and In the Zone on Dates<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66162884</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2025 08:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66162884/final_audio_v2.mp3" length="87317312" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you feel tongue-tied around attractive women? Want to be funnier and flirtier, but you’re not sure how? In this live coaching session with his client Jake, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 3 simple moves to master funny banter and playful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel tongue-tied around attractive women? Want to be funnier and flirtier, but you’re not sure how? In this live coaching session with his client Jake, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 3 simple moves to master funny banter and playful flirting. You’ll hear Jake go from awkward silences to laugh-filled connections, learning how to be funnier and way more attractive—without any weird pickup-artist tricks! Because women are attracted to your most authentic self.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:01: Why Women Tell Guys Like Jake, “Sorry, Not Feeling a Connection”<br /><br />07:11: How to Lightly Tease Women in a Way they Love<br /><br />15:32: The Right Way to Use Sarcasm on a Date—and the WRONG Way<br /><br />21:03: An Easy Technique to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />25:39: 3 Ways to Ace Your Next Speed-Dating Event… and Get Phone Numbers!<br /><br />34:58: The First-Date Question to Ask Every Woman<br /><br />43:57: The Secret to Unlocking True Charisma, While Being Authentic<br /><br />54:57: 1 Simple Move to Get Out of Your Head and In the Zone on Dates<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3638</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c4023672e256495184668fc978be5ffa.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Dateless to Dates on Demand! How to Improve Your Profile and Get 2 Dates Per Week (Part 4 of 4)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/from-dateless-to-dates-on-demand-how-to-improve-your-profile-and-get-2-dates-per-week-part-4-of-4/</link><description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to get great matches on the apps? Get ready for the game-changing finale of a 4-part series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. Your host, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett, reveals how to troubleshoot and fix 7 hidden profile problems. Want to land two dates a week? Listen now!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />01:52: The 12 Essentials You Need for Great Results<br /><br />06:15: Ben’s Success Story: From 3 Matches to 87 Matches (!) in Just 2 Days<br /><br />09:44: How Connell Diagnosed His Own Profile to Go from Crickets to Dozens of Matches<br /><br />14:41: Problem 1: Crickets After Launching: How to Diagnose the Issue<br /><br />16:42: Problem 2: Only Getting Mediocre Matches: What to Adjust<br /><br />20:27: Problem 3: Matches, But No Replies: Why She’s Not Messaging Back<br /><br />25:14: Problem 4: Matches, But No Dates: How to Fix the Issue<br /><br />27:15: Problem 5: Not Seeing Women You Want to Date: A Simple Solution<br /><br />30:07: Problem 6: Your Profile LOOKS Good But Still Flops: The Key Photo You Need<br /><br />34:26: Problem 7: Getting Ghosted Often: Why Women Disappear Suddenly<br /><br />39:44: PLUS: Why You Must, Must, MUST Use Hinge!<br /><br />Listen now to make your phone a date-generating machine!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66088544</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2025 07:20:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66088544/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="69376064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you struggling to get great matches on the apps? Get ready for the game-changing finale of a 4-part series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. Your host, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett, reveals how to troubleshoot...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you struggling to get great matches on the apps? Get ready for the game-changing finale of a 4-part series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. Your host, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett, reveals how to troubleshoot and fix 7 hidden profile problems. Want to land two dates a week? Listen now!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />01:52: The 12 Essentials You Need for Great Results<br /><br />06:15: Ben’s Success Story: From 3 Matches to 87 Matches (!) in Just 2 Days<br /><br />09:44: How Connell Diagnosed His Own Profile to Go from Crickets to Dozens of Matches<br /><br />14:41: Problem 1: Crickets After Launching: How to Diagnose the Issue<br /><br />16:42: Problem 2: Only Getting Mediocre Matches: What to Adjust<br /><br />20:27: Problem 3: Matches, But No Replies: Why She’s Not Messaging Back<br /><br />25:14: Problem 4: Matches, But No Dates: How to Fix the Issue<br /><br />27:15: Problem 5: Not Seeing Women You Want to Date: A Simple Solution<br /><br />30:07: Problem 6: Your Profile LOOKS Good But Still Flops: The Key Photo You Need<br /><br />34:26: Problem 7: Getting Ghosted Often: Why Women Disappear Suddenly<br /><br />39:44: PLUS: Why You Must, Must, MUST Use Hinge!<br /><br />Listen now to make your phone a date-generating machine!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2891</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ba31f948b8101a6a63cd9eb266d1fb1a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Powerful Secrets to Attraction that Women Have Taught Me (You Need to Know These!)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/7-powerful-secrets-to-attraction-that-women-have-taught-me-you-need-to-know-these/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder, “How the heck do I become more attractive to women?” You’re about to find out—from women themselves. After 20 years studying the art of male-female connection, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 7 powerful secrets he learned directly from women he’s dated. You’ll discover how to have better first dates, how to text women, how to avoid the friend zone—and more.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />02:49: Secret #1—Women Want to See Your Softer Side<br /><br />06:12: Secret #2—Don’t Try to Score Points on Dates; Just Don’t Lose Points<br /><br />07:57: Secret #3—Women WANT You to Come Talk to Them, If You Do This<br /><br />10:40: Secret #4—It Isn’t Creepy to Approach Women; It’s Creepy NOT To<br /><br />15:48: Secret #5—You Can Text Her as Much as You Want… Here’s How<br /><br />18:33: Secret #6—The Truth About Going for the First Kiss<br /><br />20:56: Secret #7—On the Apps, Persistence + Charm = Dates<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66054531</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2025 08:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/66054531/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="35601728" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever wonder, “How the heck do I become more attractive to women?” You’re about to find out—from women themselves. After 20 years studying the art of male-female connection, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 7 powerful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder, “How the heck do I become more attractive to women?” You’re about to find out—from women themselves. After 20 years studying the art of male-female connection, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 7 powerful secrets he learned directly from women he’s dated. You’ll discover how to have better first dates, how to text women, how to avoid the friend zone—and more.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />02:49: Secret #1—Women Want to See Your Softer Side<br /><br />06:12: Secret #2—Don’t Try to Score Points on Dates; Just Don’t Lose Points<br /><br />07:57: Secret #3—Women WANT You to Come Talk to Them, If You Do This<br /><br />10:40: Secret #4—It Isn’t Creepy to Approach Women; It’s Creepy NOT To<br /><br />15:48: Secret #5—You Can Text Her as Much as You Want… Here’s How<br /><br />18:33: Secret #6—The Truth About Going for the First Kiss<br /><br />20:56: Secret #7—On the Apps, Persistence + Charm = Dates<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1484</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a1b768734acc6f5380880d5a8eb20782.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/do-women-on-tinder-ignore-you-the-man-who-invented-swiping-reveals-how-to-finally-get-matches-with-tinders-jonathan-badeen/</link><description><![CDATA[Back in the day, Jonathan Badeen was an introvert struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) So he did what any guy would do—he co-founded Tinder, invented swiping, and changed dating (and the world) forever. In this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Badeen joins host and dating coach Connell Barrett to help you finally get quality matches on the apps.<br /><br />In this episode, Jonathan and Connell discuss:<br /><br />5:59: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups<br /><br />19:26: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping<br /><br />22:49: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life<br /><br />31:57: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches<br /><br />35:35: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”<br /><br />39:29: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First<br /><br />41:15: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps<br /><br />52:21: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse<br /><br />Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and finally land great Tinder dates!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65978597</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2025 08:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65978597/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="84997184" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Back in the day, Jonathan Badeen was an introvert struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) So he did what any guy would do—he co-founded Tinder, invented swiping, and changed dating (and the world) forever. In this encore episode of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Back in the day, Jonathan Badeen was an introvert struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) So he did what any guy would do—he co-founded Tinder, invented swiping, and changed dating (and the world) forever. In this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Badeen joins host and dating coach Connell Barrett to help you finally get quality matches on the apps.<br /><br />In this episode, Jonathan and Connell discuss:<br /><br />5:59: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups<br /><br />19:26: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping<br /><br />22:49: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life<br /><br />31:57: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches<br /><br />35:35: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”<br /><br />39:29: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First<br /><br />41:15: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps<br /><br />52:21: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse<br /><br />Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and finally land great Tinder dates!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3542</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cb981e94f84bb4eaf50a599604dff9e7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>This Simple Move Makes You 500% Better at Approaching—Science Proves It! (Featuring ‘Date Smarter’ Author Tim Molnar)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/this-simple-move-makes-you-500-better-at-approaching-science-proves-it-featuring-date-smarter-author-tim-molnar/</link><description><![CDATA[Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer practical, research-backed dating strategies. A data-driven dating expert, Molnar shares what works both on the apps and in real life—including one surprising study that led to 5X better approaching results for its participants.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />05:11: The Primacy Effect: Why the First 5 Minutes of a Date are Make or Break<br /><br />09:45: How to Make Sure You Get Date No. 2<br /><br />21:07: How to Get 500 Percent (!) Better Approach Results with the “Small Favor” Strategy<br /><br />26:13: 100,000 Swipes, Zero Dates—Why Some Men Fail on the Apps<br /><br />44:16: Why Paid Dating Apps (Not the Free Ones) Give You a Better Shot at Love<br /><br />47:12: How to Instantly Triple Your Number of Hinge Dates<br /><br />54:07: Why Tim’s IRL Approaches Got Him 10 Times More Second Dates than the Apps Did<br /><br />Listen now so you can get 500 percent better at approaching!<br /><br />LEARN ABOUT TIM MOLNAR AND GET A COPY OF HIS NEW DATING BOOK, ‘DATE SMARTER’:<br /><a href="http://www.TimothyMolnar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.TimothyMolnar.com</a><br /><br />GET ‘DATE SMARTER’ ON AMAZON:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5</a><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65926195</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2025 07:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65926195/thth_final_audio.mp3" length="105962432" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer practical,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dating apps feel rigged, and IRL approaches are just plain awkward, right? How are you supposed to find love today? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” author Tim Molnar draws from his insightful new book, “Date Smarter,” to offer practical, research-backed dating strategies. A data-driven dating expert, Molnar shares what works both on the apps and in real life—including one surprising study that led to 5X better approaching results for its participants.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />05:11: The Primacy Effect: Why the First 5 Minutes of a Date are Make or Break<br /><br />09:45: How to Make Sure You Get Date No. 2<br /><br />21:07: How to Get 500 Percent (!) Better Approach Results with the “Small Favor” Strategy<br /><br />26:13: 100,000 Swipes, Zero Dates—Why Some Men Fail on the Apps<br /><br />44:16: Why Paid Dating Apps (Not the Free Ones) Give You a Better Shot at Love<br /><br />47:12: How to Instantly Triple Your Number of Hinge Dates<br /><br />54:07: Why Tim’s IRL Approaches Got Him 10 Times More Second Dates than the Apps Did<br /><br />Listen now so you can get 500 percent better at approaching!<br /><br />LEARN ABOUT TIM MOLNAR AND GET A COPY OF HIS NEW DATING BOOK, ‘DATE SMARTER’:<br /><a href="http://www.TimothyMolnar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.TimothyMolnar.com</a><br /><br />GET ‘DATE SMARTER’ ON AMAZON:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Date-Smarter-Strategic-Navigating-Romance-ebook/dp/B0DP3GJPZ5</a><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4415</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6e94774a1a96cc5b182abc2944924a3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Lonely to Lining Up Dates: 6 Simple Moves that Make Women Swipe Right on the Apps (Part 3)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-lonely-to-lining-up-dates-6-simple-moves-that-make-women-swipe-right-on-the-apps-part-3--65814707</link><description><![CDATA[If you struggle on the apps, it can make you feel like you’re just not what women want. But the problem isn’t you—it’s your profile! Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett can help. In Part 3 of his special series on online dating, Connell shares the second half of his 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile, so you can finally meet bright, beautiful women on Hinge, Bumble or any app.<br /><br />Highlights Include:<br /><br />01:33: Why Your Lack of Matches is Not About Your Looks<br /><br />02:19: How Connell Went from Struggling to Thriving on the Apps<br /><br />07:17: How to Hook Her Interest with this Simple Bio Secret<br /><br />14:19: The Line that Landed Connell Dozens of Great Matches<br /><br />17:45: The Essential that Makes Your Bio Magnetic<br /><br />27:47: Your Secret Weapon: How to Make Her Laugh<br /><br />35:17: The Hinge Poll Prompt that Gets Women Giggling and Wanting to Know More<br /><br />45:47: The 5 Red Flags that Make Her Swipe Left (Fix This Today!)<br /><br />Listen now, make these 6 simple moves, and start getting some great matches!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65814707</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2025 07:45:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65814707/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="76913024" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you struggle on the apps, it can make you feel like you’re just not what women want. But the problem isn’t you—it’s your profile! Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett can help. 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In Part 3 of his special series on online dating, Connell shares the second half of his 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile, so you can finally meet bright, beautiful women on Hinge, Bumble or any app.<br /><br />Highlights Include:<br /><br />01:33: Why Your Lack of Matches is Not About Your Looks<br /><br />02:19: How Connell Went from Struggling to Thriving on the Apps<br /><br />07:17: How to Hook Her Interest with this Simple Bio Secret<br /><br />14:19: The Line that Landed Connell Dozens of Great Matches<br /><br />17:45: The Essential that Makes Your Bio Magnetic<br /><br />27:47: Your Secret Weapon: How to Make Her Laugh<br /><br />35:17: The Hinge Poll Prompt that Gets Women Giggling and Wanting to Know More<br /><br />45:47: The 5 Red Flags that Make Her Swipe Left (Fix This Today!)<br /><br />Listen now, make these 6 simple moves, and start getting some great matches!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3205</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ffc80526ca77700065d804271afc1c2a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Unlock the 3 S’s for Unshakable Confidence—and Attract the Women You Want!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unlock-the-3-s-s-for-unshakable-confidence-and-attract-the-women-you-want--65780883</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a big dating mistake you’re making—and you don’t even realize it. Most men obsess over tactics (what to say, how to text) instead of building the real foundation for success: a bulletproof mindset. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 3 S’s of dating success. The 3 S’s will build you unstoppable confidence and attract the women you want, all while being authentic. Listen now to start transforming your love life.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65780883</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2025 08:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65780883/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="52197440" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a big dating mistake you’re making—and you don’t even realize it. Most men obsess over tactics (what to say, how to text) instead of building the real foundation for success: a bulletproof mindset. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a big dating mistake you’re making—and you don’t even realize it. Most men obsess over tactics (what to say, how to text) instead of building the real foundation for success: a bulletproof mindset. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 3 S’s of dating success. The 3 S’s will build you unstoppable confidence and attract the women you want, all while being authentic. Listen now to start transforming your love life.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2175</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/19a0097270ddc5be1f418df463f35401.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Get Ready to Love, Love, LOVE the Dating Apps! 6 Profile Fixes for More Matches Fast (Part 2 of 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-ready-to-love-love-love-the-dating-apps-6-profile-fixes-for-more-matches-fast-part-2-of-4--65681255</link><description><![CDATA[Not getting good matches? Think the dating apps are rigged against you? Have hope! The truth is, you’re just making a few profile mistakes that hurt your results. This episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is Part 2 in a series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Dating Profile. It’s the same strategy that dating coach Connell Barrett used to meet his girlfriend Jess. You’re about to learn 6 powerful fixes to finally start matching with women you want to date.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:32: The Real Reason You Don’t Get Good Matches<br /><br />05:15: The Secret to Taking Photos Women Can’t Resist<br /><br />08:56: How Connell Instantly Became 88 Percent More Attractive in His Photos<br /><br />17:50: The Mistake You Make with Photos that’s Costing You Matches<br /><br />22:11: The Action Photo that Will Get Women Liking Your Profile<br /><br />29:57: How to Melt her Heart … and Match with You!<br /><br />34:38: How to Write a Flirty Prompt to Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />Listen now so you can finally start getting matches!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALLWITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65681255</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 08:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65681255/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="57807104" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not getting good matches? Think the dating apps are rigged against you? Have hope! The truth is, you’re just making a few profile mistakes that hurt your results. This episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is Part 2 in a series on the 12 Essentials of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Not getting good matches? Think the dating apps are rigged against you? Have hope! The truth is, you’re just making a few profile mistakes that hurt your results. This episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is Part 2 in a series on the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Dating Profile. It’s the same strategy that dating coach Connell Barrett used to meet his girlfriend Jess. You’re about to learn 6 powerful fixes to finally start matching with women you want to date.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />01:32: The Real Reason You Don’t Get Good Matches<br /><br />05:15: The Secret to Taking Photos Women Can’t Resist<br /><br />08:56: How Connell Instantly Became 88 Percent More Attractive in His Photos<br /><br />17:50: The Mistake You Make with Photos that’s Costing You Matches<br /><br />22:11: The Action Photo that Will Get Women Liking Your Profile<br /><br />29:57: How to Melt her Heart … and Match with You!<br /><br />34:38: How to Write a Flirty Prompt to Escape the Friend Zone<br /><br />Listen now so you can finally start getting matches!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALLWITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2409</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/eeb0c66de86d9becbe12ee10ef84c938.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do Women Ignore You on the Apps? These 12 Profile MUSTS Will Finally Get You Great Matches (Part 1 of 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-women-ignore-you-on-the-apps-these-12-profile-musts-will-finally-get-you-great-matches-part-1-of-4--65651200</link><description><![CDATA[Not getting good matches on Hinge, Bumble or the apps? The problem isn’t you. (You’re awesome!) It’s your profile. You’re probably missing a few of the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 12 photo and bio upgrades that will get you great matches—so you can finally start dating women you’re excited about. And you’ll do this with charm and authenticity, no sketchy pickup moves needed!<br /><br />Here are the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Dating Profile:<br /><br />08:40: #1: A Magnetic First Portrait Showcasing the Authentic You<br /><br />13:00: #2: A “Knockout” Second Photo<br /><br />17:01: #3: A “Man of Action” Picture<br /><br />20:41: #4: Show Off Your Social Proof<br /><br />24:55: #5: Tug At Her Heartstrings<br /><br />28:28: #6: Flirtatious Energy<br /><br />32:43: #7: A Bio Hook She Can’t Resist<br /><br />35:27: #8: Show, Don’t Tell!<br /><br />36:54: #9: On Your Bio, Be Specific (Not Vague)<br /><br />38:28: #10: Display Your Authentic Sense of Humor<br /><br />40:43: #11: Write an “Emotional Maturity” Prompt<br /><br />43:19: #12: No! Red! Flags!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65651200</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2025 08:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65651200/final_audio.mp3" length="70888071" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not getting good matches on Hinge, Bumble or the apps? The problem isn’t you. (You’re awesome!) It’s your profile. You’re probably missing a few of the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Not getting good matches on Hinge, Bumble or the apps? The problem isn’t you. (You’re awesome!) It’s your profile. You’re probably missing a few of the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Profile. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 12 photo and bio upgrades that will get you great matches—so you can finally start dating women you’re excited about. And you’ll do this with charm and authenticity, no sketchy pickup moves needed!<br /><br />Here are the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Dating Profile:<br /><br />08:40: #1: A Magnetic First Portrait Showcasing the Authentic You<br /><br />13:00: #2: A “Knockout” Second Photo<br /><br />17:01: #3: A “Man of Action” Picture<br /><br />20:41: #4: Show Off Your Social Proof<br /><br />24:55: #5: Tug At Her Heartstrings<br /><br />28:28: #6: Flirtatious Energy<br /><br />32:43: #7: A Bio Hook She Can’t Resist<br /><br />35:27: #8: Show, Don’t Tell!<br /><br />36:54: #9: On Your Bio, Be Specific (Not Vague)<br /><br />38:28: #10: Display Your Authentic Sense of Humor<br /><br />40:43: #11: Write an “Emotional Maturity” Prompt<br /><br />43:19: #12: No! Red! Flags!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2954</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ecd7e57bf564d2f98e39719967c1c582.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-went-from-lonely-to-dating-like-crazy-how-kyle-attracted-his-first-girlfriend-in-years-and-how-you-can-too-live-coaching--65582167</link><description><![CDATA[A proud veteran with a big heart, Kyle was lonely and struggling to get dates—until dating coach Connell Barrett showed him how to approach women with real confidence and charm. “It’s amazing, but authenticity really does work,” Kyle says in this live coaching call. Soon he was going on two dates a week and had landed a girlfriend. Now newly single, he’s ready to level up again. Listen as Connell reviews Kyle’s Hinge profile and shares 3 simple ways to get more matches today.<br /><br />The Moments You Don’t Want to Miss:<br /><br />07:11: From Lonely to “Dating Like Crazy”—Kyle’s Big Breakthrough<br /><br />08:32: How Kyle Overcame Approach Anxiety and Attracted Women IRL<br /><br />15:08: Connell Reveals the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online-Dating Profile<br /><br />17:35: The Photo You Need to Add to Get More Matches<br /><br />25:30: Should You Pay to Boost Your Profile? Connell Breaks it Down<br /><br />31:33: How to Write a Prompt that’s Funny and Flirty<br /><br />47:07: The Approach Opener Kyle Used to Meet a Large Group of Women at a Bar<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65582167</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2025 08:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65582167/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="82607936" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>A proud veteran with a big heart, Kyle was lonely and struggling to get dates—until dating coach Connell Barrett showed him how to approach women with real confidence and charm. “It’s amazing, but authenticity really does work,” Kyle says in this live...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[A proud veteran with a big heart, Kyle was lonely and struggling to get dates—until dating coach Connell Barrett showed him how to approach women with real confidence and charm. “It’s amazing, but authenticity really does work,” Kyle says in this live coaching call. Soon he was going on two dates a week and had landed a girlfriend. Now newly single, he’s ready to level up again. Listen as Connell reviews Kyle’s Hinge profile and shares 3 simple ways to get more matches today.<br /><br />The Moments You Don’t Want to Miss:<br /><br />07:11: From Lonely to “Dating Like Crazy”—Kyle’s Big Breakthrough<br /><br />08:32: How Kyle Overcame Approach Anxiety and Attracted Women IRL<br /><br />15:08: Connell Reveals the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online-Dating Profile<br /><br />17:35: The Photo You Need to Add to Get More Matches<br /><br />25:30: Should You Pay to Boost Your Profile? Connell Breaks it Down<br /><br />31:33: How to Write a Prompt that’s Funny and Flirty<br /><br />47:07: The Approach Opener Kyle Used to Meet a Large Group of Women at a Bar<br /><br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3442</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7cf28aafdefd4158be8ad5e4b0283585.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I Don’t Think I’m Good-Looking. Do I Even Have a Chance with Women?’</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-the-dating-coach-i-don-t-think-i-m-good-looking-do-i-even-have-a-chance-with-women--65568032</link><description><![CDATA[Do you worry that you’re just not good-looking enough to date the kinds of women you’re into? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps a man who wonders if any women will ever want him because he thinks he’s “ugly.” Connell breaks down what actually makes a man attractive—and it’s not male-model looks. Plus, another listener asks why women agree to dates and then cancel last minute, and Connell shares an easy fix.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />05:30: “Connell, Am I Not Good-Looking Enough to Attract Women?”<br /><br />15:15: “I Cried During ‘Titanic’ and She Ghosted Me—Was I Too Vulnerable?”<br /><br />20:25: “Damn You, Autocorrect! I Just Called Her ‘Boobzilla’!”<br /><br />24:14: “Why Do Women Keep Canceling on Me Last Minute?”<br /><br />32:45: “She Loves My Dog but Not Me. Am I in the Friend Zone?”<br /><br />Listen now and take the next step toward meeting your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65568032</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 08:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65568032/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="51393344" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you worry that you’re just not good-looking enough to date the kinds of women you’re into? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps a man who wonders if any women will ever want him because he thinks he’s “ugly.” Connell breaks down what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you worry that you’re just not good-looking enough to date the kinds of women you’re into? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps a man who wonders if any women will ever want him because he thinks he’s “ugly.” Connell breaks down what actually makes a man attractive—and it’s not male-model looks. Plus, another listener asks why women agree to dates and then cancel last minute, and Connell shares an easy fix.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />05:30: “Connell, Am I Not Good-Looking Enough to Attract Women?”<br /><br />15:15: “I Cried During ‘Titanic’ and She Ghosted Me—Was I Too Vulnerable?”<br /><br />20:25: “Damn You, Autocorrect! I Just Called Her ‘Boobzilla’!”<br /><br />24:14: “Why Do Women Keep Canceling on Me Last Minute?”<br /><br />32:45: “She Loves My Dog but Not Me. Am I in the Friend Zone?”<br /><br />Listen now and take the next step toward meeting your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2142</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a3560f9b60d0e3c21cf0d443d034d4e9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tired of Struggling on Tinder and Bumble? Try the Innovative Dating App that Helps Men and Women Connect IRL!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/tired-of-struggling-on-tinder-and-bumble-try-the-innovative-dating-app-that-helps-men-and-women-connect-irl/</link><description><![CDATA[Tired of endless swiping that never leads to dates? Want to meet wonderful women in real life? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes David Vermeulen, founder of Inner Circle, a different kind of dating app. Inner Circle helps singles skip the small talk and make meaningful connections, both online and offline. As Vermeulen explains in this encore episode, Inner Circle hosts real-world events so its members can stop wasting time on flaky matches and connect with singles who genuinely want to date.<br /><br />With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:<br /><br />4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle<br /><br />6:38: How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles<br /><br />7:55: Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”<br /><br />10:43: A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World<br /><br />11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life<br /><br />19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View<br /><br />27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity<br /><br />30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date<br /><br />33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women<br /><br />35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”<br /><br />Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:<br /><a href="https://about.theinnercircle.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://about.theinnercircle.co/</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/</a><br /><br />DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:<br /><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65443942</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2025 08:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65443942/final_audio.mp3" length="58272512" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Tired of endless swiping that never leads to dates? Want to meet wonderful women in real life? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes David Vermeulen, founder of Inner Circle, a different kind of dating app. Inner Circle helps singles skip the small...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Tired of endless swiping that never leads to dates? Want to meet wonderful women in real life? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes David Vermeulen, founder of Inner Circle, a different kind of dating app. Inner Circle helps singles skip the small talk and make meaningful connections, both online and offline. As Vermeulen explains in this encore episode, Inner Circle hosts real-world events so its members can stop wasting time on flaky matches and connect with singles who genuinely want to date.<br /><br />With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:<br /><br />4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle<br /><br />6:38: How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles<br /><br />7:55: Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”<br /><br />10:43: A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World<br /><br />11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life<br /><br />19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View<br /><br />27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity<br /><br />30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date<br /><br />33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women<br /><br />35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”<br /><br />Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:<br /><a href="https://about.theinnercircle.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://about.theinnercircle.co/</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/</a><br /><br />DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:<br /><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2428</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1c6f3b22f1997d03c7a7641ce5d735ba.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Too Anxious to Approach? Use these 5 Steps to Boldly Meet and Date Wonderful Women (Live Coaching with Ryan)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/too-anxious-to-approach-use-these-5-steps-to-boldly-meet-and-date-wonderful-women-live-coaching-with-ryan--65410123</link><description><![CDATA[You see a gorgeous girl and want to approach her—but you freeze up! “What do I say? What if I’m creepy?” That inner voice kills your confidence, keeping you stuck and frustrated. Let’s fix it today! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches his client Ryan the 5 Master Steps to boldly approach women with charm and authenticity—no weird pickup moves needed.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn in this Live-Coaching Episode:<br /><br />10:15: What Stops Ryan from Approaching—and How He Fixed It with “Terminator Glasses”<br /><br />14:22: How to Turn Every Approach into a Fun, Confidence-Building Win<br /><br />24:45: How to Flirt with More Sexuality While Remaining a True Gentleman<br /><br />40:22: How to Tell If She Likes You… or Wants You to Walk Away<br /><br />45:40: How Connell Made Out with a Total Cutie—Just 1 Hour After She Rejected Him!<br /><br />52:00: The 5 Master Steps to Approaching Women with Authentic Confidence<br /><br />1:12:03: One Easy Move to Instantly Build Momentum in Any Bar or Venue<br /><br />1:22:23: Why Bold Risk-Takers are Irresistible to Women<br /><br />Want to know exactly what to say in a way women find magnetic? Listen now!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65410123</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2025 08:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65410123/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="136549760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see a gorgeous girl and want to approach her—but you freeze up! “What do I say? What if I’m creepy?” That inner voice kills your confidence, keeping you stuck and frustrated. Let’s fix it today! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see a gorgeous girl and want to approach her—but you freeze up! “What do I say? What if I’m creepy?” That inner voice kills your confidence, keeping you stuck and frustrated. Let’s fix it today! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches his client Ryan the 5 Master Steps to boldly approach women with charm and authenticity—no weird pickup moves needed.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn in this Live-Coaching Episode:<br /><br />10:15: What Stops Ryan from Approaching—and How He Fixed It with “Terminator Glasses”<br /><br />14:22: How to Turn Every Approach into a Fun, Confidence-Building Win<br /><br />24:45: How to Flirt with More Sexuality While Remaining a True Gentleman<br /><br />40:22: How to Tell If She Likes You… or Wants You to Walk Away<br /><br />45:40: How Connell Made Out with a Total Cutie—Just 1 Hour After She Rejected Him!<br /><br />52:00: The 5 Master Steps to Approaching Women with Authentic Confidence<br /><br />1:12:03: One Easy Move to Instantly Build Momentum in Any Bar or Venue<br /><br />1:22:23: Why Bold Risk-Takers are Irresistible to Women<br /><br />Want to know exactly what to say in a way women find magnetic? Listen now!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5690</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/00e5d1db66f0073f6c5945d4511df4c1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Women Love Nice, Nerdy Guys like YOU—If You Do 1 Important Thing (with Dating Coach Nick Notas)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-love-nice-nerdy-guys-like-you-if-you-do-1-important-thing-with-dating-coach-nick-notas--65290785</link><description><![CDATA[Are you a nice, nerdy guy? You might think this holds you back with women—but what if it’s actually a big advantage? Renowned dating coach Nick Notas joins host Connell Barrett (both proud nerds!) to reveal why many women are into thoughtful, even geeky men. Nick also shares how to make your authentic, nerdy self irresistibly attractive.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />02:45: The Day Nick Realized that the “Pickup Artist” World Was Toxic<br /><br />06:40: The “Aha!” Approach Moment that Changed His Dating Life<br /><br />08:12: Why Many Women Love Dating Nerds<br /><br />18:23: What to Talk About on Dates to Get Her Hanging on Your Every Word<br /><br />20:56: The Easy Way to Approach Women<br /><br />30:19: The Truth About What You’re Doing Wrong on the Apps<br /><br />33:41: How A Shorter Man Can Attract an Incredible Girlfriend<br /><br />49:59: The One Old-School Pickup Move that Nick Still Endorses<br /><br />58:16: How Nick’s In-Person Coaching Retreats Can Help Your Love Life<br /><br />Listen now and attract the right woman for you by being authentic!<br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT NICK’S IN-PERSON DATING-ADVICE RETREATS:<br /><a href="http://www.nicknotas.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.nicknotas.com</a><br /><br />WATCH NICK’S DATING VIDEOS BY SEARCHING “NICK NOTAS” ON YOUTUBE.<br /><br />TO BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING<br />COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65290785</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 08:35:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65290785/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="90936320" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you a nice, nerdy guy? You might think this holds you back with women—but what if it’s actually a big advantage? Renowned dating coach Nick Notas joins host Connell Barrett (both proud nerds!) to reveal why many women are into thoughtful, even...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you a nice, nerdy guy? You might think this holds you back with women—but what if it’s actually a big advantage? Renowned dating coach Nick Notas joins host Connell Barrett (both proud nerds!) to reveal why many women are into thoughtful, even geeky men. Nick also shares how to make your authentic, nerdy self irresistibly attractive.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />02:45: The Day Nick Realized that the “Pickup Artist” World Was Toxic<br /><br />06:40: The “Aha!” Approach Moment that Changed His Dating Life<br /><br />08:12: Why Many Women Love Dating Nerds<br /><br />18:23: What to Talk About on Dates to Get Her Hanging on Your Every Word<br /><br />20:56: The Easy Way to Approach Women<br /><br />30:19: The Truth About What You’re Doing Wrong on the Apps<br /><br />33:41: How A Shorter Man Can Attract an Incredible Girlfriend<br /><br />49:59: The One Old-School Pickup Move that Nick Still Endorses<br /><br />58:16: How Nick’s In-Person Coaching Retreats Can Help Your Love Life<br /><br />Listen now and attract the right woman for you by being authentic!<br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT NICK’S IN-PERSON DATING-ADVICE RETREATS:<br /><a href="http://www.nicknotas.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.nicknotas.com</a><br /><br />WATCH NICK’S DATING VIDEOS BY SEARCHING “NICK NOTAS” ON YOUTUBE.<br /><br />TO BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING<br />COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3789</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/044be305f0e1e48576fb56e6f8f6a12b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From ‘I’m Too Short’ to ‘I Feel Amazing!’ How to Transform Your Dating Confidence NOW (Live Coaching with Ryan)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-i-m-too-short-to-i-feel-amazing-how-to-transform-your-dating-confidence-now-live-coaching-with-ryan--65194000</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you’re not tall or good-looking enough for women you find attractive? What if the real turn-off for women isn’t your height or looks but your insecurities? In this live-coaching episode, author and dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Ryan crush those mindset blocks using a powerful process called the Authentic Awakening. It’s an effective way to build instant confidence by exposing the lies your insecurities tell you. The result? Ryan walks away with a whole new outlook on himself and on dating!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />2:01: Meet Your “Lower Self,” the Insecure Side that Kills Your Confidence<br /><br />4:45: The Brutal Belief that Nearly Made Ryan Quit Dating<br /><br />25:57: Ryan Sees the Cracks in His Toxic “I’m Too Short” Story<br /><br />32:16: The Hidden Toll Your Fear-Based Mind Takes on You<br /><br />44:25: The Truth About What Women Are Attracted to in Men<br /><br />59:56: Connell Smashes Ryan’s Toxic Belief<br /><br />1:22:41: Ryan Awakens His Higher Self—Ryan the Bold!<br /><br />Listen now and transform your dating confidence, just like Ryan did!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65194000</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2025 08:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65194000/htgag_audio.mp3" length="147138368" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel like you’re not tall or good-looking enough for women you find attractive? What if the real turn-off for women isn’t your height or looks but your insecurities? In this live-coaching episode, author and dating coach Connell Barrett...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you’re not tall or good-looking enough for women you find attractive? What if the real turn-off for women isn’t your height or looks but your insecurities? In this live-coaching episode, author and dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Ryan crush those mindset blocks using a powerful process called the Authentic Awakening. It’s an effective way to build instant confidence by exposing the lies your insecurities tell you. The result? Ryan walks away with a whole new outlook on himself and on dating!<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode Include:<br /><br />2:01: Meet Your “Lower Self,” the Insecure Side that Kills Your Confidence<br /><br />4:45: The Brutal Belief that Nearly Made Ryan Quit Dating<br /><br />25:57: Ryan Sees the Cracks in His Toxic “I’m Too Short” Story<br /><br />32:16: The Hidden Toll Your Fear-Based Mind Takes on You<br /><br />44:25: The Truth About What Women Are Attracted to in Men<br /><br />59:56: Connell Smashes Ryan’s Toxic Belief<br /><br />1:22:41: Ryan Awakens His Higher Self—Ryan the Bold!<br /><br />Listen now and transform your dating confidence, just like Ryan did!<br /><br />DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6131</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2fbfedc6ea3caf78a23604b10b3b5175.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You’re Missing Her Signals! Dating Expert Talia Koren on How to Tell When a Woman Likes You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-missing-her-signals-dating-expert-talia-koren-on-how-to-tell-when-a-woman-likes-you--65107529</link><description><![CDATA[Odds are, you struggle to read women and you miss subtle signals. This can cost you real romantic connections and leave you second-guessing yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with insightful dating expert Talia Koren, host of the “Dating Intentionally” podcast. Talia reveals how to recognize when a woman is into you, how to avoid “nice guy” mistakes that kill attraction, and why first-date follow-up is more important than the date itself.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:15: The Best First Date Talia Ever Had—and What the Guy Did Right!<br /><br />07:15: How to Avoid a Huge First-Date Mistake<br /><br />10:15: The Easy Way to Escape “Interview Mode”<br /><br />12:30: How to Show Interest in a Classy, Non-Creepy Way<br /><br />16:09: Why Following Up After a Date is So Important to Women<br /><br />34:40: How to Instantly Feel Confident<br /><br />41:43: How to “Read the Room” and Decode Her Signals<br /><br />42:57: The Green Lights Women Give You to Approach<br /><br />50:59: Exactly How Many Texts to Send Her on Hinge Before Asking Her Out<br /><br />FOLLOW TALIA ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌Dating.Intentionally<br /><br />LISTEN TO TALIA’S PODCAST, “DATING INTENTIONALLY, ON APPLE, SPOTIFY, OR WHEREVER YOU GET YOUR PODCASTS<br /><br />BOOK A FREE, 1-1 DATING CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65107529</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2025 08:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65107529/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="85926848" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Odds are, you struggle to read women and you miss subtle signals. This can cost you real romantic connections and leave you second-guessing yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with insightful...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Odds are, you struggle to read women and you miss subtle signals. This can cost you real romantic connections and leave you second-guessing yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with insightful dating expert Talia Koren, host of the “Dating Intentionally” podcast. Talia reveals how to recognize when a woman is into you, how to avoid “nice guy” mistakes that kill attraction, and why first-date follow-up is more important than the date itself.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />03:15: The Best First Date Talia Ever Had—and What the Guy Did Right!<br /><br />07:15: How to Avoid a Huge First-Date Mistake<br /><br />10:15: The Easy Way to Escape “Interview Mode”<br /><br />12:30: How to Show Interest in a Classy, Non-Creepy Way<br /><br />16:09: Why Following Up After a Date is So Important to Women<br /><br />34:40: How to Instantly Feel Confident<br /><br />41:43: How to “Read the Room” and Decode Her Signals<br /><br />42:57: The Green Lights Women Give You to Approach<br /><br />50:59: Exactly How Many Texts to Send Her on Hinge Before Asking Her Out<br /><br />FOLLOW TALIA ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌Dating.Intentionally<br /><br />LISTEN TO TALIA’S PODCAST, “DATING INTENTIONALLY, ON APPLE, SPOTIFY, OR WHEREVER YOU GET YOUR PODCASTS<br /><br />BOOK A FREE, 1-1 DATING CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3580</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8f7d297eaf734e36fb011ba1519be8b1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ignore These 5 Dating Lies—Or Stay Single Forever!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ignore-these-5-dating-lies-or-stay-single-forever--65034000</link><description><![CDATA[Is your dating confidence low? Do you get stuck in your head around women? You might be falling for one of the 5 most toxic dating myths. These lies crush your confidence, make it hard to talk to girls, and keep you stuck. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett busts these myths—and gives you 5 powerful fixes to help you confidently meet smart, sexy women… and do it with charm and authenticity!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />09:02: Why Your Looks Don’t Matter to Women<br /><br />17:59: The “Alpha Male” Lie that’s Killing Your Confidence<br /><br />27:47: A Mistake that Turns Women Off (And How to Fix It)<br /><br />37:36: How to Stop Running Out of Things to Say—Instantly<br /><br />47:22: The Secret to Fearless Approaching<br /><br /><br />TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65034000</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2025 08:25:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/65034000/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="92092359" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is your dating confidence low? Do you get stuck in your head around women? You might be falling for one of the 5 most toxic dating myths. These lies crush your confidence, make it hard to talk to girls, and keep you stuck. In this episode, dating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is your dating confidence low? Do you get stuck in your head around women? You might be falling for one of the 5 most toxic dating myths. These lies crush your confidence, make it hard to talk to girls, and keep you stuck. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett busts these myths—and gives you 5 powerful fixes to help you confidently meet smart, sexy women… and do it with charm and authenticity!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />09:02: Why Your Looks Don’t Matter to Women<br /><br />17:59: The “Alpha Male” Lie that’s Killing Your Confidence<br /><br />27:47: A Mistake that Turns Women Off (And How to Fix It)<br /><br />37:36: How to Stop Running Out of Things to Say—Instantly<br /><br />47:22: The Secret to Fearless Approaching<br /><br /><br />TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3837</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/aaf25c9616df97b5ec05fa40f90694f5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Why You Freeze When You Want to Approach Beautiful Women—&amp; How to Fix it NOW (Live Coaching with John!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-you-freeze-when-you-want-to-approach-beautiful-women-how-to-fix-it-now-live-coaching-with-john--64961501</link><description><![CDATA[John feels stuck and frustrated. He often sees attractive women he wants to talk to at bars and coffee shops, but he always freezes up and says nothing. (Sound familiar?) He’s about to break free of his approach anxiety—and you can, too! In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the hidden mental roadblocks that stop men from talking to women. Plus, Connell shares simple, proven fixes that you can use today. Get ready to approach women confidently and authentically (no weird pickup moves needed!)<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />07:55: The 2 “Fear Factors” that Stop You from Approaching Women—and How to Fix Them<br /><br />11:30: 5 Ways to Destroy Approach Anxiety TODAY<br /><br />17:42: What Strangers Really Think of Men Who Approach<br /><br />37:21: The 1 Simple Shift that Makes Her Happy You Talked to Her<br /><br />45:03: How to Stop Making Excuses and Start Taking Action<br /><br />54:36: What NOT to Say When You Approach in the Day (or Else You’ll Seem Creepy!)<br /><br />If you’ve ever felt too scared to say hello to a beautiful woman, this episode will give you the mindset and tools to finally take action. Listen now!<br /><br />WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL AND START CONFIDENTLY MEETING AND DATING WONDERFUL WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64961501</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2025 08:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64961501/final_audio_v2.mp3" length="99620096" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>John feels stuck and frustrated. He often sees attractive women he wants to talk to at bars and coffee shops, but he always freezes up and says nothing. (Sound familiar?) He’s about to break free of his approach anxiety—and you can, too! In this live...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[John feels stuck and frustrated. He often sees attractive women he wants to talk to at bars and coffee shops, but he always freezes up and says nothing. (Sound familiar?) He’s about to break free of his approach anxiety—and you can, too! In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the hidden mental roadblocks that stop men from talking to women. Plus, Connell shares simple, proven fixes that you can use today. Get ready to approach women confidently and authentically (no weird pickup moves needed!)<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />07:55: The 2 “Fear Factors” that Stop You from Approaching Women—and How to Fix Them<br /><br />11:30: 5 Ways to Destroy Approach Anxiety TODAY<br /><br />17:42: What Strangers Really Think of Men Who Approach<br /><br />37:21: The 1 Simple Shift that Makes Her Happy You Talked to Her<br /><br />45:03: How to Stop Making Excuses and Start Taking Action<br /><br />54:36: What NOT to Say When You Approach in the Day (or Else You’ll Seem Creepy!)<br /><br />If you’ve ever felt too scared to say hello to a beautiful woman, this episode will give you the mindset and tools to finally take action. Listen now!<br /><br />WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL AND START CONFIDENTLY MEETING AND DATING WONDERFUL WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4151</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d3d54122ba95ae884447e8b2a6bb77ba.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/forget-pickup-lines-why-vulnerability-is-your-dating-superpower-with-lisa-hickey-of-the-good-men-project--64954666</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advice column.)<br /><b></b><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you’ve just met<br /><br />6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on<br /><br />16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever<br /><br />22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence<br /><br />25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love<br /><br />33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you’re making<br /><br />39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection<br /><br />47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement<br /><br />59:17: Lisa’s no. 1 dating tip that every man must know<br /><br />Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!<br /><br />FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:<br /><a href="http://goodmenproject.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://GoodMenProject.com</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT’S DATING SUBSTACK:<br /><a href="http://gmpdating.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://gmpdating.substack.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey<br /><br />"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64954666</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2025 13:21:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64954666/12_26_audio.mp3" length="93073280" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? 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(Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advice column.)<br /><b></b><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you’ve just met<br /><br />6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on<br /><br />16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever<br /><br />22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence<br /><br />25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love<br /><br />33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you’re making<br /><br />39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection<br /><br />47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement<br /><br />59:17: Lisa’s no. 1 dating tip that every man must know<br /><br />Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!<br /><br />FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:<br /><a href="http://goodmenproject.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://GoodMenProject.com</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT’S DATING SUBSTACK:<br /><a href="http://gmpdating.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://gmpdating.substack.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey<br /><br />"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3878</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/38e66e286c9588a3f7b7729df425bcf8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>3 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You—and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-hidden-reasons-why-women-lose-interest-in-you-and-how-to-keep-them-attracted-long-term-with-johnny-cassell--64843665</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, “I’m not looking to date right now”? The truth is, that’s probably her polite way of saying, “I’m just not interested in you.” In this episode, renowned London-based dating coach Johnny Cassell reveals 3 hidden reasons why women lose interest—and how to keep them attracted to you for the long haul.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:20: Why You Must First “Date Yourself” to Attract a Wonderful Girlfriend<br /><br />18:55: How NOT To Go from a “Wild Tiger to Tubby Housecat” in Her Eyes<br /><br />19:53: How to Escape the “Yawn Zone” When You Talk to Women<br /><br />20:12: Johnny’s Amazing Drill to Flirt at Starbucks And ALSO Get a Free Coffee!<br /><br />22:44: How Connell Approached and Instantly Attracted His Future Girlfriend<br /><br />30:19: The Right Way to Approach a Large Group of Women at a Bar—and the Wrong Way<br /><br />44:44: Johnny’s Secret to Talking to Women of Intimidating Beauty<br /><br />1:01:00: The One Action You Should Take this Week to Improve Your Love Life<br /><br />Listen now to attract—and keep—that incredible woman’s interest!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHNNY CASSELL OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HIM:<br /><a href="http://www.johnnycassell.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.johnnycassell.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW JOHNNY ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌LondonDatingCoach<br /><br />TO BOOK A FREE 1-1 CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64843665</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2025 08:20:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64843665/final_audio_htgag.mp3" length="94377920" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, “I’m not looking to date right now”? The truth is, that’s probably her polite way of saying, “I’m just not interested in you.” In this episode, renowned...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, “I’m not looking to date right now”? The truth is, that’s probably her polite way of saying, “I’m just not interested in you.” In this episode, renowned London-based dating coach Johnny Cassell reveals 3 hidden reasons why women lose interest—and how to keep them attracted to you for the long haul.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:20: Why You Must First “Date Yourself” to Attract a Wonderful Girlfriend<br /><br />18:55: How NOT To Go from a “Wild Tiger to Tubby Housecat” in Her Eyes<br /><br />19:53: How to Escape the “Yawn Zone” When You Talk to Women<br /><br />20:12: Johnny’s Amazing Drill to Flirt at Starbucks And ALSO Get a Free Coffee!<br /><br />22:44: How Connell Approached and Instantly Attracted His Future Girlfriend<br /><br />30:19: The Right Way to Approach a Large Group of Women at a Bar—and the Wrong Way<br /><br />44:44: Johnny’s Secret to Talking to Women of Intimidating Beauty<br /><br />1:01:00: The One Action You Should Take this Week to Improve Your Love Life<br /><br />Listen now to attract—and keep—that incredible woman’s interest!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHNNY CASSELL OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HIM:<br /><a href="http://www.johnnycassell.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.johnnycassell.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW JOHNNY ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌LondonDatingCoach<br /><br />TO BOOK A FREE 1-1 CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3933</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/17e697ee481b1383eeebd022e1073760.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 7 ‘Friend Zone’ Destroyers: Go from Hearing ‘Let’s Be Friends’ to ‘Let’s Go to Your Place!’</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-7-friend-zone-destroyers-go-from-hearing-let-s-be-friends-to-let-s-go-to-your-place--64794730</link><description><![CDATA[You think a date went well, only to get that frustrating text: “You’re a nice guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection...” The Friend Zone can be brutal. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this from experience. “I didn’t just live in the Friend Zone,” he says. “I owned real estate there.” But he also knows the way out. Now he’s sharing the 7 Friend Zone Destroyers simple, tested moves that you can make to spark attraction on your next date!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />8:24: Friend Zone Destroyer #1: Send Her Flirty Messages Before the Date<br /><br />10:34: Friend Zone Destroyer #2: Share an Authentic Personal Story<br /><br />14:27: Friend Zone Destroyer #3: How to Give Her a Sexy Compliment<br /><br />16:53: Friend Zone Destroyer #4: Find Emotional Commonalities<br /><br />18:31: Friend Zone Destroyer #5: Touch Her the Right Way (NOT the Weird Way!)<br /><br />21:41: Friend Zone Destroyer #6: How to Help Her Feel Connected to You<br /><br />24:05: Friend Zone Destroyer #7: Three Smooth First-Kiss Moves<br /><br />28:52: Bonus: Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game that Women LOVE to Play<br /><br />Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again!” Listen now.<br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64794730</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2025 08:45:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64794730/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="48036416" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You think a date went well, only to get that frustrating text: “You’re a nice guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection...” The Friend Zone can be brutal. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this from experience. “I didn’t just live in the Friend Zone,”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You think a date went well, only to get that frustrating text: “You’re a nice guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection...” The Friend Zone can be brutal. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this from experience. “I didn’t just live in the Friend Zone,” he says. “I owned real estate there.” But he also knows the way out. Now he’s sharing the 7 Friend Zone Destroyers simple, tested moves that you can make to spark attraction on your next date!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />8:24: Friend Zone Destroyer #1: Send Her Flirty Messages Before the Date<br /><br />10:34: Friend Zone Destroyer #2: Share an Authentic Personal Story<br /><br />14:27: Friend Zone Destroyer #3: How to Give Her a Sexy Compliment<br /><br />16:53: Friend Zone Destroyer #4: Find Emotional Commonalities<br /><br />18:31: Friend Zone Destroyer #5: Touch Her the Right Way (NOT the Weird Way!)<br /><br />21:41: Friend Zone Destroyer #6: How to Help Her Feel Connected to You<br /><br />24:05: Friend Zone Destroyer #7: Three Smooth First-Kiss Moves<br /><br />28:52: Bonus: Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game that Women LOVE to Play<br /><br />Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again!” Listen now.<br /><br />TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a><br /><br />EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dd23852fb2dc298aa6cee783961f5e31.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tired of Swiping? How Matchmaking Can Set You Up with Incredible Women (Ditch the Apps for Good!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tired-of-swiping-how-matchmaking-can-set-you-up-with-incredible-women-ditch-the-apps-for-good--64714255</link><description><![CDATA[Are you exhausted by dating apps? Tired of first dates with people who aren’t right for you? What if someone hand-picked incredible women for you to meet—women who are just your type? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes elite matchmaker Amy Andersen, founder of Linx Dating, to break down the world of high-end matchmaking. Amy shares the key advantages of working with what she calls “your own personal cheerleader” and offers expert first-date tips to help you make a great impression.<br /><br />Connell and Amy Discuss:<br /><br />04:45: Why Dating Apps Take So Much Time—and How Matchmaking Saves You Countless Hours<br /><br />08:22: Why a Personalized Approach to Finding Love Can Work Better than DIY Dating<br /><br />17:45: “They Got Married on their Second Date!” Amy’s Jaw-Dropping Success Story<br /><br />28:57: Essential Do’s and Don’ts of Hiring a Matchmaker<br /><br />33:11: How to Be Interesting and Attractive on the First Date<br /><br />44:01: The Power of Authenticity and Vulnerability in Sparking Real Romantic Connections<br /><br />If you want an easier way to meet incredible women, this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT MATCHMAKING AND LINX DATING:<br /><a href="http://www.Linxdating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.Linxdating.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW AMY ANDERSEN ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌ms.linxdating<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU FIND A GREAT GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64714255</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2025 09:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64714255/final_audio_htg.mp3" length="83363072" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you exhausted by dating apps? Tired of first dates with people who aren’t right for you? What if someone hand-picked incredible women for you to meet—women who are just your type? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes elite matchmaker Amy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you exhausted by dating apps? Tired of first dates with people who aren’t right for you? What if someone hand-picked incredible women for you to meet—women who are just your type? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes elite matchmaker Amy Andersen, founder of Linx Dating, to break down the world of high-end matchmaking. Amy shares the key advantages of working with what she calls “your own personal cheerleader” and offers expert first-date tips to help you make a great impression.<br /><br />Connell and Amy Discuss:<br /><br />04:45: Why Dating Apps Take So Much Time—and How Matchmaking Saves You Countless Hours<br /><br />08:22: Why a Personalized Approach to Finding Love Can Work Better than DIY Dating<br /><br />17:45: “They Got Married on their Second Date!” Amy’s Jaw-Dropping Success Story<br /><br />28:57: Essential Do’s and Don’ts of Hiring a Matchmaker<br /><br />33:11: How to Be Interesting and Attractive on the First Date<br /><br />44:01: The Power of Authenticity and Vulnerability in Sparking Real Romantic Connections<br /><br />If you want an easier way to meet incredible women, this episode is a must-listen.<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT MATCHMAKING AND LINX DATING:<br /><a href="http://www.Linxdating.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.Linxdating.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW AMY ANDERSEN ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌ms.linxdating<br /><br />BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU FIND A GREAT GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.DatingTransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.DatingTransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3474</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ff6579d8de7b6252b6360dd85162d230.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Instantly Attract Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-never-run-out-of-things-to-say-the-7-best-banter-topics-to-instantly-attract-women--64632643</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever struggle with what to say to women—either in person or when trying to craft the perfect text? Dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 7 Best Banter Topics so you can keep conversations flirty and free-flowing. Whether you’re talking to her in person or messaging on your phone, just reach for one of these foolproof topics for instant banter. And you don’t need to be naturally witty. These simple tips will work for any guy! Plus, you’ll learn the Playful Pivot, a powerful technique that takes your banter to a masterful level.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />03:20: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />04:47: The Words She’s Dying to Hear from You<br /><br />09:17: The “Desert Island” Question that Ignites Instant Attraction<br /><br />11:44: The Storytelling Trick that Makes You Charismatic<br /><br />16:47: The Topic That Sparks Playful, Engaging Conversations<br /><br />17:35: The “What If” Question that Makes You Different from Other Guys<br /><br />19:45: The Playful Pivot—How to Master Flirty Banter and Become Irresistible<br /><br />Get ready to attract women effortlessly with great banter. Listen now.<br /><br />WANT TO TAKE YOUR FLIRTY BANTER TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL? BOOK A FREE<br />CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br />www.DatingTransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64632643</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2025 09:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64632643/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="42941696" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever struggle with what to say to women—either in person or when trying to craft the perfect text? Dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 7 Best Banter Topics so you can keep conversations flirty and free-flowing. Whether you’re talking to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever struggle with what to say to women—either in person or when trying to craft the perfect text? Dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 7 Best Banter Topics so you can keep conversations flirty and free-flowing. Whether you’re talking to her in person or messaging on your phone, just reach for one of these foolproof topics for instant banter. And you don’t need to be naturally witty. These simple tips will work for any guy! Plus, you’ll learn the Playful Pivot, a powerful technique that takes your banter to a masterful level.<br /><br />Highlights of this Episode:<br /><br />03:20: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />04:47: The Words She’s Dying to Hear from You<br /><br />09:17: The “Desert Island” Question that Ignites Instant Attraction<br /><br />11:44: The Storytelling Trick that Makes You Charismatic<br /><br />16:47: The Topic That Sparks Playful, Engaging Conversations<br /><br />17:35: The “What If” Question that Makes You Different from Other Guys<br /><br />19:45: The Playful Pivot—How to Master Flirty Banter and Become Irresistible<br /><br />Get ready to attract women effortlessly with great banter. Listen now.<br /><br />WANT TO TAKE YOUR FLIRTY BANTER TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL? BOOK A FREE<br />CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:<br />www.DatingTransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1789</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/140d6df9ac48420c9cad5cea1023fa38.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Make Bold Moves without Being Creepy: A Top Coach for Women Tells All! (with Evan Marc Katz)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-make-bold-moves-without-being-creepy-a-top-coach-for-women-tells-all-with-evan-marc-katz--64591195</link><description><![CDATA[You know you should make moves with women—say the flirtatious thing, go for the kiss. But what if you come off as creepy? So you hold back… and nothing happens. You feel stuck, right? Renowned dating coach for women Evan Marc Katz is here to get you unstuck! Having coached thousands of single women, Evan knows exactly what they want. And today, he’ll tell you how to make the right moves to attract the ideal woman for you.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:15: What Women Really Want: Evan Breaks It Down<br /><br />04:35: How Introverts Can Better Connect with Women<br /><br />08:12: Feeling Shy on a Date? Try This!<br /><br />15:58: How to Build Authentic Trust with a Woman You Just Met<br /><br />16:15: How to Unlock Your “Masculine Edge” and Make Moves—Without Being Creepy<br /><br />27:55: The Right Way to Text Women (So They Actually Respond)<br /><br />33:02: Forget Money and Looks: These Are the 3 Things Women Look For<br /><br />43:35: The Mindset Shift You Need to Finally Succeed on the Apps<br /><br />52:11: Evan’s Most Important Advice for Attracting Your Future Girlfriend<br /><br />Hit play now and start making all the right dating moves.<br /><br />LEARN HOW EVAN HELPS SMART, SUCCESSFUL WOMEN FIND A GREAT GUY:<br /><a href="https://www.evanmarckatz.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.evanmarckatz.com/</a><br /><br />LISTEN TO EVAN’S “LOVE U” PODCAST:<br /><a href="https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast</a><br /><br />FOLLOW EVAN ON INSTAGRAM @‌realevanmarckatzFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64591195</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2025 09:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64591195/final_audio.mp3" length="96664064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know you should make moves with women—say the flirtatious thing, go for the kiss. But what if you come off as creepy? So you hold back… and nothing happens. You feel stuck, right? Renowned dating coach for women Evan Marc Katz is here to get you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know you should make moves with women—say the flirtatious thing, go for the kiss. But what if you come off as creepy? So you hold back… and nothing happens. You feel stuck, right? Renowned dating coach for women Evan Marc Katz is here to get you unstuck! Having coached thousands of single women, Evan knows exactly what they want. And today, he’ll tell you how to make the right moves to attract the ideal woman for you.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />02:15: What Women Really Want: Evan Breaks It Down<br /><br />04:35: How Introverts Can Better Connect with Women<br /><br />08:12: Feeling Shy on a Date? Try This!<br /><br />15:58: How to Build Authentic Trust with a Woman You Just Met<br /><br />16:15: How to Unlock Your “Masculine Edge” and Make Moves—Without Being Creepy<br /><br />27:55: The Right Way to Text Women (So They Actually Respond)<br /><br />33:02: Forget Money and Looks: These Are the 3 Things Women Look For<br /><br />43:35: The Mindset Shift You Need to Finally Succeed on the Apps<br /><br />52:11: Evan’s Most Important Advice for Attracting Your Future Girlfriend<br /><br />Hit play now and start making all the right dating moves.<br /><br />LEARN HOW EVAN HELPS SMART, SUCCESSFUL WOMEN FIND A GREAT GUY:<br /><a href="https://www.evanmarckatz.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.evanmarckatz.com/</a><br /><br />LISTEN TO EVAN’S “LOVE U” PODCAST:<br /><a href="https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast</a><br /><br />FOLLOW EVAN ON INSTAGRAM @‌realevanmarckatzFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4028</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c685efb5b00bc45c74c2f86b118f78a7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Does Love (and Life) Feel Like a Grind? The ‘3 Classes of Experience’ Will Set You Free</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-love-and-life-feel-like-a-grind-the-3-classes-of-experience-will-set-you-free--64497661</link><description><![CDATA[Ever feel like dating—and life—is just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that Connell and his clients use to make dating fun. (What? Dating can be fun? Who knew!) And nothing’s more attractive to women than a guy who actually enjoys life.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:10: The Mindset Shift that Transformed Connell’s Entire Life<br /><br />06:37: The 3 Classes of Human Experience: How to Go from Coping to Thriving<br /><br />12:05: Why Your Love Life is Stuck in the ‘Class 2’ Grind—and How to Escape<br /><br />20:32: The Most Powerful Self-Improvement Shift You Can Achieve Today<br /><br />29:01: The Key Move that Makes Talking to Women So Much Easier<br /><br />36:55: The Simple Way to Change Your Whole Life, Not Just Your Love Life<br /><br />Hit play and start living—and dating—the way you were meant to.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64497661</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2025 09:45:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64497661/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="64211648" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever feel like dating—and life—is just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever feel like dating—and life—is just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that Connell and his clients use to make dating fun. (What? Dating can be fun? Who knew!) And nothing’s more attractive to women than a guy who actually enjoys life.<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />01:10: The Mindset Shift that Transformed Connell’s Entire Life<br /><br />06:37: The 3 Classes of Human Experience: How to Go from Coping to Thriving<br /><br />12:05: Why Your Love Life is Stuck in the ‘Class 2’ Grind—and How to Escape<br /><br />20:32: The Most Powerful Self-Improvement Shift You Can Achieve Today<br /><br />29:01: The Key Move that Makes Talking to Women So Much Easier<br /><br />36:55: The Simple Way to Change Your Whole Life, Not Just Your Love Life<br /><br />Hit play and start living—and dating—the way you were meant to.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2676</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/240cfe2b1afce1674be88c53bb936f8a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>It’s Rom-Complicated! How Nice Guys Can Get the Girl: Lessons from ‘Say Anything’ (with Hollywood Producer Cristina Nava)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-rom-complicated-how-nice-guys-can-get-the-girl-lessons-from-say-anything-with-hollywood-producer-cristina-nava--64466005</link><description><![CDATA[“It’s Rom-Complicated!” returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic “Say Anything.” He’s joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood producer who specializes in making rom-coms! (Her latest movie, the very funny “Say a Little Prayer,” is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Apple TV.) Can a quirky nice guy like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) really win over his dream girl, Diane Court (Ione Skye)? Or does it take a boombox, a trench coat, and a questionable lack of boundaries? Let’s break it down.<br /><br />Connell and Cristina Discuss:<br /><br />4:12: Why Women WANT to Date Nice Guys Like Lloyd Dobler<br /><br />5:59: Why “Say a Little Prayer” is a Great Date Movie<br /><br />16:30: Cristina Reveals Her Real-Life Rom-Com Moment: Surprise Roses in Eighth Grade<br /><br />24:53: The Rom-Commies—the Best, Worst, and Stalkiest Moments of “Say Anything”<br /><br />31:22: The Best Dating Move from the Movie that Actually Works<br /><br />36:35: The Worst Dating Advice in the Film—Avoid This!<br /><br />39:33: The Secret to Lloyd’s Confidence (It’s NOT His Looks)<br /><br />49:27: What Hasn’t Aged Well: Boomboxes and Boundary Issues<br /><br />1:14:26: The Film’s Biggest Love Lesson that Women Want You to Know<br /><br />WATCH “SAY A LITTLE PRAYER” ON AMAZON PRIME<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref</a><br /><br />FOLLOW THE MOVIE AND CRISTIONA ON INSTAGRAM<br />@‌Sayalittleprayerfilm<br />@‌Iamcristinanava<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64466005</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2025 09:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64466005/final_audio.mp3" length="115364480" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“It’s Rom-Complicated!” returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic “Say Anything.” He’s joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[“It’s Rom-Complicated!” returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic “Say Anything.” He’s joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood producer who specializes in making rom-coms! (Her latest movie, the very funny “Say a Little Prayer,” is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Apple TV.) Can a quirky nice guy like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) really win over his dream girl, Diane Court (Ione Skye)? Or does it take a boombox, a trench coat, and a questionable lack of boundaries? Let’s break it down.<br /><br />Connell and Cristina Discuss:<br /><br />4:12: Why Women WANT to Date Nice Guys Like Lloyd Dobler<br /><br />5:59: Why “Say a Little Prayer” is a Great Date Movie<br /><br />16:30: Cristina Reveals Her Real-Life Rom-Com Moment: Surprise Roses in Eighth Grade<br /><br />24:53: The Rom-Commies—the Best, Worst, and Stalkiest Moments of “Say Anything”<br /><br />31:22: The Best Dating Move from the Movie that Actually Works<br /><br />36:35: The Worst Dating Advice in the Film—Avoid This!<br /><br />39:33: The Secret to Lloyd’s Confidence (It’s NOT His Looks)<br /><br />49:27: What Hasn’t Aged Well: Boomboxes and Boundary Issues<br /><br />1:14:26: The Film’s Biggest Love Lesson that Women Want You to Know<br /><br />WATCH “SAY A LITTLE PRAYER” ON AMAZON PRIME<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref</a><br /><br />FOLLOW THE MOVIE AND CRISTIONA ON INSTAGRAM<br />@‌Sayalittleprayerfilm<br />@‌Iamcristinanava<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4807</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a549ca3d76badb3b08a0fbf5ba166fc5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>My Girlfriend Jess Reveals the #1 Secret to Landing Second Dates! (Most Men Make 3 BIG Mistakes)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-girlfriend-jess-reveals-the-1-secret-to-landing-second-dates-most-men-make-3-big-mistakes--64420371</link><description><![CDATA[So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman… only for her to say, “no thanks” to a second. It’s discouraging. Let’s fix that! After last week’s special 4-part Valentine’s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don’t want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty success—and what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)<br /><br />In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:<br /><br />3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right<br /><br />13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date<br /><br />18:20: Jess’s Top First-Date Tip<br /><br />29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned<br /><br />34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move “Suave”—You Need to Know It!<br /><br />37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date<br /><br />39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make<br /><br />45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”Sick of hearing “Let’s just be friends”?<br /><br />Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.<br /><br /><b>BOOK A CONSULTATION CALL TODAY &amp; GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING DATING GUIDE!</b><br /><b></b><br />Frustrated with dating? Ready to find an amazing girlfriend? Book a FREE call with Connell to see if his coaching is right for you. If you book your call today, you’ll get a free copy of his No. 1 Amazon bestselling book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Spots are limited, and this deal expires today—don’t miss out. Use this link to book your free call now to see if coaching is right for you.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64420371</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Feb 2025 09:20:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64420371/final_audio.mp3" length="70471616" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman… only for her to say, “no thanks” to a second. It’s discouraging. Let’s fix that! After last week’s special 4-part Valentine’s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman… only for her to say, “no thanks” to a second. It’s discouraging. Let’s fix that! After last week’s special 4-part Valentine’s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don’t want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty success—and what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)<br /><br />In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:<br /><br />3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right<br /><br />13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date<br /><br />18:20: Jess’s Top First-Date Tip<br /><br />29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br />30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned<br /><br />34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move “Suave”—You Need to Know It!<br /><br />37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date<br /><br />39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make<br /><br />45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”Sick of hearing “Let’s just be friends”?<br /><br />Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.<br /><br /><b>BOOK A CONSULTATION CALL TODAY &amp; GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING DATING GUIDE!</b><br /><b></b><br />Frustrated with dating? Ready to find an amazing girlfriend? Book a FREE call with Connell to see if his coaching is right for you. If you book your call today, you’ll get a free copy of his No. 1 Amazon bestselling book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Spots are limited, and this deal expires today—don’t miss out. Use this link to book your free call now to see if coaching is right for you.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2936</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8a0eef867f87a20ce8fdc581326097f3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-her-kick-rocks-how-to-turn-rejection-into-results-and-dates-with-no-b-s-love-expert-sabrina-zohar--64385645</link><description><![CDATA[Do women send you mixed signals—and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why “nice guys” lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.<br /><br />Sabrina Will Tell You:<br /><br />13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger<br /><br />20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest<br /><br />22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted<br /><br />31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches<br /><br />33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble<br /><br />37:47: Why Women Swipe Left—and How to Get them Swiping Right<br /><br />44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time<br /><br />49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Ever—and What to Say Instead<br /><br />Sabrina’s no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR:<br /><a href="http://www.sabrinazohar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.sabrinazohar.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌TheSabrinaZoharShow<br /><br />LISTEN TO HER PODCAST, ‘THE SABRINA ZOHAR SHOW’<br /><a href="http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64385645</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Feb 2025 09:50:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64385645/2_16_final_audio.mp3" length="82330880" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do women send you mixed signals—and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do women send you mixed signals—and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why “nice guys” lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.<br /><br />Sabrina Will Tell You:<br /><br />13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger<br /><br />20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest<br /><br />22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted<br /><br />31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches<br /><br />33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble<br /><br />37:47: Why Women Swipe Left—and How to Get them Swiping Right<br /><br />44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time<br /><br />49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Ever—and What to Say Instead<br /><br />Sabrina’s no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR:<br /><a href="http://www.sabrinazohar.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.sabrinazohar.com</a><br /><br />FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@‌TheSabrinaZoharShow<br /><br />LISTEN TO HER PODCAST, ‘THE SABRINA ZOHAR SHOW’<br /><a href="http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3431</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/241eb9c704f2f7f04979af27c2079c53.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE Approaches: Hear Me Chat Up Cuties IRL—Listen NOW to Get Numbers and Dates Tonight! (Part 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-approaches-hear-me-chat-up-cuties-irl-listen-now-to-get-numbers-and-dates-tonight-part-4--64385626</link><description><![CDATA[It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.<br /><br />Highlights of the Episode:<br /><br />03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly<br /><br />10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man<br /><br />14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest<br /><br />15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy<br /><br />17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh<br /><br />21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation<br /><br />25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere<br /><br />28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them<br /><br />50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates<br /><br />1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less<br /><br />Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64385626</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Feb 2025 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64385626/final_audio_v2.mp3" length="167326016" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.<br /><br />Highlights of the Episode:<br /><br />03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly<br /><br />10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man<br /><br />14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest<br /><br />15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy<br /><br />17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh<br /><br />21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation<br /><br />25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere<br /><br />28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them<br /><br />50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates<br /><br />1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less<br /><br />Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>6972</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ae9a08b29986f7c45be8589502bbf64f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/say-this-get-the-date-no-flaking-how-to-never-run-out-of-things-to-say-part-3-of-4--64343176</link><description><![CDATA[You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date<br /><br />5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach<br /><br />8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her<br /><br />12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out<br /><br />21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number<br /><br />27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted<br /><br />28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them<br /><br />47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It<br /><br />56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym<br /><br />Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64343176</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2025 09:05:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64343176/final_audio.mp3" length="97384640" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”<br /><br />You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date<br /><br />5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach<br /><br />8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her<br /><br />12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out<br /><br />21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number<br /><br />27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted<br /><br />28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them<br /><br />47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It<br /><br />56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym<br /><br />Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4058</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4778f09d7eb07df240e3632cb439af13.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Struggle Talking to Women IRL? My 3 Openers (90% Success Rate!) Fix that Instantly (Part 2 of 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/struggle-talking-to-women-irl-my-3-openers-90-success-rate-fix-that-instantly-part-2-of-4--64342093</link><description><![CDATA[You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method—a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you’re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate<br /><br />6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method<br /><br />15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm—and What to Avoid<br /><br />25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question<br /><br />35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless<br /><br />47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching—When and How to Use It<br /><br />51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night<br /><br />1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy<br /><br />1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge—Are You Ready to Take Action?<br /><br />Listen now and start confidently approaching women—with charm, authenticity, and real results!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64342093</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2025 09:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64342093/final_audio.mp3" length="107219264" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method—a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you’re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.<br /><br />What You’ll Learn:<br /><br />3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate<br /><br />6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method<br /><br />15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm—and What to Avoid<br /><br />25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question<br /><br />35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless<br /><br />47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching—When and How to Use It<br /><br />51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night<br /><br />1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy<br /><br />1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge—Are You Ready to Take Action?<br /><br />Listen now and start confidently approaching women—with charm, authenticity, and real results!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br />Connell@datingtransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4468</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6724e1d6d385273835a911e2e07cd1fc.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Special Series! Stop Trying to ‘Approach’—Do THIS to Meet &amp; Attract Women IRL the Right Way (Part 1 of 4)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-series-stop-trying-to-approach-do-this-to-meet-attract-women-irl-the-right-way-part-1-of-4--64331039</link><description><![CDATA[You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:25: Why ‘Approaching’ Feels So Hard and Scary<br /><br />13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I’m Not Enough’ and Why This is Total B.S.<br /><br />16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn’t Want Me to Bother Her’ and What Women Really Think<br /><br />17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out’ and How This Kills Your Confidence<br /><br />19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don’t Know What to Say’ and the Simple Move to Fix This<br /><br />21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?’ and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You<br /><br />25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough’ and the Truth About Attraction<br /><br />31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her’—What Women Truly Want<br /><br />38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive’ and the ‘Aha!’ Shift You Need<br /><br />50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don’t Need the Perfect Line’—How to Know What to Say<br /><br />1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose’—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident<br /><br />Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64331039</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 09:25:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64331039/final_audio.mp3" length="117464582" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:25: Why ‘Approaching’ Feels So Hard and Scary<br /><br />13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I’m Not Enough’ and Why This is Total B.S.<br /><br />16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn’t Want Me to Bother Her’ and What Women Really Think<br /><br />17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out’ and How This Kills Your Confidence<br /><br />19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don’t Know What to Say’ and the Simple Move to Fix This<br /><br />21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?’ and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You<br /><br />25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough’ and the Truth About Attraction<br /><br />31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her’—What Women Truly Want<br /><br />38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive’ and the ‘Aha!’ Shift You Need<br /><br />50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don’t Need the Perfect Line’—How to Know What to Say<br /><br />1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose’—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident<br /><br />Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4895</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/89db0dfcb1c4ad5ccb242296d88e6981.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/tired-of-being-ignored-on-dating-apps-steal-my-10-best-flirty-openers-1-works-81-of-the-time--64253586</link><description><![CDATA[Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment<br /><br />06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!<br /><br />09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty<br /><br />12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing<br /><br />16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos<br /><br />19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)<br /><br />23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic<br /><br />30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel<br /><br />33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven<br /><br />40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time<br /><br />Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64253586</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2025 09:25:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64253586/htgag_final_audio.mp3" length="78377216" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment<br /><br />06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!<br /><br />09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty<br /><br />12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing<br /><br />16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos<br /><br />19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)<br /><br />23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic<br /><br />30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel<br /><br />33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven<br /><br />40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time<br /><br />Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3266</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5388e9c0eb7690c4e414892898d69017.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What’s YOUR Dating Superpower? Discover the 7 Attractors that Make Women Want to Date You</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-your-dating-superpower-discover-the-7-attractors-that-make-women-want-to-date-you--64232402</link><description><![CDATA[You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, “I want him!” From confident flirting to texts she can’t resist, you’re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man… no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don’t need all 7 superpowers—just unlocking one or two can change everything.<br /><br />Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere<br /><br />15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive<br /><br />21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self<br /><br />34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You<br /><br />40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates<br /><br />51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy<br /><br />59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />Every dating superpower is here and learnable. What’s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64232402</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Feb 2025 09:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64232402/final_audio.mp3" length="102424064" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, “I want him!” From confident flirting to texts she can’t resist, you’re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man… no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don’t need all 7 superpowers—just unlocking one or two can change everything.<br /><br />Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:<br /><br />9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere<br /><br />15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive<br /><br />21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self<br /><br />34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You<br /><br />40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates<br /><br />51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy<br /><br />59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />Every dating superpower is here and learnable. What’s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4268</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ecb0ad204c7793abe7358c49e3aea1eb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/struggling-with-dating-confidence-try-this-mindset-shift-to-become-instantly-magnetic-to-women-live-coaching-results--64209158</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)<br /><br />5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self<br /><br />23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life<br /><br />38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good<br /><br />52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women<br /><br />1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You<br /><br />Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64209158</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Feb 2025 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64209158/final_audio.mp3" length="109837347" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)<br /><br />5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self<br /><br />23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life<br /><br />38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good<br /><br />52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women<br /><br />1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You<br /><br />Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4577</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/25f65eefe03af713f9e906d0a7873a10.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn’s Secrets to Attraction</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-read-women-know-what-to-say-and-get-her-asking-you-out-hayley-quinn-s-secrets-to-attraction--64191973</link><description><![CDATA[Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.<br /><br />Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:<br /><br />2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman<br /><br />4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen<br /><br />7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection<br /><br />15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps<br /><br />21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life<br /><br />23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women<br /><br />36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It<br /><br />50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person Coaching<br /><br />Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: <a href="http://www.hayleyquinn.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.hayleyquinn.com/</a><br /><br /><br />CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64191973</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Feb 2025 09:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64191973/final_audio.mp3" length="78512000" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.<br /><br />Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:<br /><br />2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman<br /><br />4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen<br /><br />7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection<br /><br />15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps<br /><br />21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life<br /><br />23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women<br /><br />36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It<br /><br />50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person Coaching<br /><br />Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: <a href="http://www.hayleyquinn.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.hayleyquinn.com/</a><br /><br /><br />CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3271</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/e2caab351666ea4d4846c16b34987d51.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Meet Your Dream Woman—and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-meet-your-dream-woman-and-how-jason-dated-a-lakers-cheerleader-live-coaching--64105926</link><description><![CDATA[You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,<br />hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum<br /><br />10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell’s In-Person Help)<br /><br />18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested<br /><br />23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2<br /><br />9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive<br /><br />41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You’ll Do When You Approach Her<br /><br />47:53: What to Write when She Doesn’t Reply to Your Text<br /><br />52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On<br /><br />This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell—for free. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64105926</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Feb 2025 09:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64105926/final_audio_v2.mp3" length="88923776" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,<br />hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum<br /><br />10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell’s In-Person Help)<br /><br />18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested<br /><br />23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2<br /><br />9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive<br /><br />41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You’ll Do When You Approach Her<br /><br />47:53: What to Write when She Doesn’t Reply to Your Text<br /><br />52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On<br /><br />This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell—for free. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3705</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4817edbdc6444f97abad6191d78cd2c4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to Find Love by Watching Rom-Com Movies (Seriously!) Episode 1: ‘Groundhog Day’</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/introducing-it-s-rom-complicated-how-to-find-love-by-watching-rom-com-movies-seriously-episode-1-groundhog-day--64083092</link><description><![CDATA[What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?<br /><br />10:45 How ‘Groundhog Day’ Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop<br /><br />17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ‘Groundhog Day’<br /><br />19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe<br /><br />26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil<br /><br />27:39: The ‘Don’t Do This!’ Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL<br /><br />31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It’s So Wrong)<br /><br />36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It’s Complicated…)<br /><br />44:46: What if ‘Groundhog Day’ got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?<br /><br />52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ‘Chase’ Certain Men (It’s NOT Looks or Money)<br /><br />57:35: The Movie’s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to Know<br /><br />If Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!<br /><br />Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to find love by watching—wait! Haven’t we done this before?<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64083092</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Feb 2025 09:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/64083092/htgag_audio.mp3" length="98249216" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.<br /><br />Episode Highlights:<br /><br />4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?<br /><br />10:45 How ‘Groundhog Day’ Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop<br /><br />17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ‘Groundhog Day’<br /><br />19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe<br /><br />26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil<br /><br />27:39: The ‘Don’t Do This!’ Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL<br /><br />31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It’s So Wrong)<br /><br />36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It’s Complicated…)<br /><br />44:46: What if ‘Groundhog Day’ got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?<br /><br />52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ‘Chase’ Certain Men (It’s NOT Looks or Money)<br /><br />57:35: The Movie’s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to Know<br /><br />If Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!<br /><br />Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to find love by watching—wait! Haven’t we done this before?<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4094</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d9c2d44d9bde5c57e4170588d6cc8880.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!” The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App Success</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-went-from-zero-to-83-matches-in-a-week-the-6-essential-photos-you-need-for-dating-app-success--63968631</link><description><![CDATA[Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.<br /><br />You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:<br /><br />3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest<br /><br />9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You<br /><br />12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart<br /><br />15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head<br /><br />18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life<br /><br />20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer<br /><br />24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!<br /><br />Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.<br /><br />WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&amp;t=4s<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63968631</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jan 2025 09:15:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63968631/htgag_final_audoi.mp3" length="43655360" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.<br /><br />You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:<br /><br />3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest<br /><br />9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You<br /><br />12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart<br /><br />15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head<br /><br />18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life<br /><br />20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer<br /><br />24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!<br /><br />Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.<br /><br />WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&amp;t=4s<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1819</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ffa5cf663da983e3164ec65de5d00e0f.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Will You Be My Boyfriend?” The 10 Green Lights that Trigger Instant Attraction in Wonderful Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/will-you-be-my-boyfriend-the-10-green-lights-that-trigger-instant-attraction-in-wonderful-women--63914186</link><description><![CDATA[How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection<br /><br />09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence<br /><br />12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys<br /><br />16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way<br /><br />19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry<br /><br />26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey<br /><br />30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing<br /><br />34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way<br /><br />37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You<br /><br />40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You<br /><br />Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63914186</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63914186/htgag_audio.mp3" length="74344071" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection<br /><br />09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence<br /><br />12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys<br /><br />16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way<br /><br />19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry<br /><br />26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey<br /><br />30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing<br /><br />34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way<br /><br />37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You<br /><br />40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You<br /><br />Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3098</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dd91be5ff19ed353fad20c81a21de2c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Exclusive! How to Win on Dating Apps—Secrets from the Man Who Invented Swiping, Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/exclusive-how-to-win-on-dating-apps-secrets-from-the-man-who-invented-swiping-tinder-s-jonathan-badeen--63813573</link><description><![CDATA[Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.<br /><br />In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:<br /><br />2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups<br /><br />14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping<br /><br />17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life<br /><br />26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches<br /><br />30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”<br /><br />34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First<br /><br />35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps<br /><br />47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”<br /><br />Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63813573</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2025 09:25:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63813573/htg_final_audio.mp3" length="77482112" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.<br /><br />In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:<br /><br />2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups<br /><br />14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping<br /><br />17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life<br /><br />26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches<br /><br />30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”<br /><br />34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First<br /><br />35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps<br /><br />47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”<br /><br />Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3229</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8dfe2733c5c4cf11d50cdb2cc8279707.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Invisible Red Flags that Get You Rejected: Which Mistakes Are YOU Making? Plus 10 Fast Fixes</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-invisible-red-flags-that-get-you-rejected-which-mistakes-are-you-making-plus-10-fast-fixes--63771483</link><description><![CDATA[Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.<br /><br />Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:<br /><br />04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not<br /><br />06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy<br /><br />09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations<br /><br />11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life<br /><br />14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines<br /><br />16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!<br /><br />18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates<br /><br />22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun<br /><br />26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way<br /><br />29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her<br /><br />Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63771483</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2025 11:30:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63771483/final_audio.mp3" length="60459008" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.<br /><br />Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:<br /><br />04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not<br /><br />06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy<br /><br />09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations<br /><br />11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life<br /><br />14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines<br /><br />16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!<br /><br />18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates<br /><br />22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun<br /><br />26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way<br /><br />29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her<br /><br />Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2519</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d180e7435529296e58ce16af36662933.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for Way More Matches! Plus: Steal These 10 Funny, Flirty Prompts</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-to-write-on-your-bio-7-secrets-for-way-more-matches-plus-steal-these-10-funny-flirty-prompts--63701137</link><description><![CDATA[Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women<br />love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower<br /><br />4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It<br /><br />6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile<br /><br />12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist<br /><br />15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way<br /><br />17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First<br /><br />20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches<br /><br />23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!<br /><br />Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63701137</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63701137/connell_audio.mp3" length="42658880" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women<br />love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.<br /><br />You’re about to learn:<br /><br />02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower<br /><br />4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It<br /><br />6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile<br /><br />12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist<br /><br />15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way<br /><br />17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First<br /><br />20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches<br /><br />23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!<br /><br />Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1778</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f49fb90dd290e0d436f12d9308a6de62.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do?’</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-the-dating-coach-help-she-wants-me-to-baa-like-a-sheep-during-sex-what-do-i-do--63676439</link><description><![CDATA[It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.<br /><br />Highlights from this episode:<br /><br />01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”<br /><br />03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward<br /><br />08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”<br /><br />11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth<br /><br />13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend<br /><br />24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”<br /><br />25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women<br /><br />31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates<br /><br />Hit play and start transforming your love life today<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63676439</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2025 09:20:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63676439/final_audio.mp3" length="61731968" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.<br /><br />Highlights from this episode:<br /><br />01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”<br /><br />03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward<br /><br />08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”<br /><br />11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth<br /><br />13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend<br /><br />24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”<br /><br />25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women<br /><br />31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates<br /><br />Hit play and start transforming your love life today<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2572</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7ea98951c06e1c0a3a352a67430c2e50.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Dating Apps Are Broken—Inner Circle is the Fix! Find Love Using this Innovative App (Featuring David Vermeulen)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dating-apps-are-broken-inner-circle-is-the-fix-find-love-using-this-innovative-app-featuring-david-vermeulen--63614061</link><description><![CDATA[Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.<br /><br />With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:<br /><br />4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle<br /><br />6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles<br /><br />7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”<br /><br />10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World<br /><br />11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life<br /><br />19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View<br /><br />27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity<br /><br />30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date<br /><br />33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women<br /><br />35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”<br /><br />Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:<br /><a href="https://about.theinnercircle.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://about.theinnercircle.co/</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/</a><br /><br />DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:<br /><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63614061</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jan 2025 09:45:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63614061/final_audio.mp3" length="58272512" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.<br /><br />With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:<br /><br />4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle<br /><br />6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles<br /><br />7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”<br /><br />10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World<br /><br />11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life<br /><br />19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View<br /><br />27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity<br /><br />30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date<br /><br />33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women<br /><br />35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”<br /><br />Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:<br /><a href="https://about.theinnercircle.co/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://about.theinnercircle.co/</a><br /><br />CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/</a><br /><br />DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:<br /><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2428</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2d2c933c0022557da0ea786882fbe7d8.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Forget Resolutions! Here's Your New Year's REVOLUTION: 5 Game-Changing Dating Strategies to Attract Your Ideal Girlfriend in 2025</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/forget-resolutions-here-s-your-new-year-s-revolution-5-game-changing-dating-strategies-to-attract-your-ideal-girlfriend-in-2025--63592223</link><description><![CDATA[The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.<br /><br />Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:<br /><br />01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results<br /><br />05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them<br /><br />14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type<br /><br />24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence<br /><br />38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025<br /><br />51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches<br /><br />1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend<br /><br />Your dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63592223</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jan 2025 09:25:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63592223/final_audio.mp3" length="111717831" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.<br /><br />Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:<br /><br />01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results<br /><br />05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them<br /><br />14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type<br /><br />24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence<br /><br />38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025<br /><br />51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches<br /><br />1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend<br /><br />Your dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4655</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8e9e543f3f4d16ead613bbca48924e6a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-10-years-of-loneliness-to-landing-his-dream-girl-allie-how-jake-found-love-and-how-you-can-too--63517998</link><description><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”<br /><br />Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:<br /><br />09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough<br /><br />13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend<br /><br />16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week<br /><br />17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out<br /><br />20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women<br /><br />34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates<br /><br />40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues<br /><br />45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy<br /><br />58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.<br /><br />Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63517998</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jan 2025 08:30:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63517998/1_2_final_audio.mp3" length="94745408" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”<br /><br />Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:<br /><br />09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough<br /><br />13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend<br /><br />16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week<br /><br />17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out<br /><br />20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women<br /><br />34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates<br /><br />40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues<br /><br />45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy<br /><br />58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.<br /><br />Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3948</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Which Dating App is Right for YOU? The Top 7 Apps to Swipe Right on Love and Find Your Soulmate</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/which-dating-app-is-right-for-you-the-top-7-apps-to-swipe-right-on-love-and-find-your-soulmate--63517870</link><description><![CDATA[With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!<br /><br />Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:<br /><br />1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates<br /><br />2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity<br /><br />4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome<br /><br />7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?<br /><br />12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women<br /><br />15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever<br /><br />19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is… Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge<br /><br />22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps<br /><br />Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63517870</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2024 08:45:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63517870/31_final_audio.mp3" length="42284480" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!<br /><br />Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:<br /><br />1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates<br /><br />2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity<br /><br />4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome<br /><br />7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?<br /><br />12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women<br /><br />15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever<br /><br />19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is… Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge<br /><br />22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps<br /><br />Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1762</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/74b37addfeb5507f04981dc1653c78aa.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bummed-about-no-good-matches-on-the-apps-these-15-quick-fixes-will-turn-your-profile-into-a-match-magnet-live-coaching-with-zach--63451267</link><description><![CDATA[It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.<br /><br />Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:<br /><br />6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)<br /><br />8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile<br /><br />14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love<br /><br />17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile<br /><br />21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First<br /><br />23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It<br /><br />27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps<br /><br />30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches<br /><br />32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making<br /><br />55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches<br /><br />1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun<br /><br />Hit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach<br /><br />"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63451267</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2024 09:40:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63451267/12_24_audio.mp3" length="104342144" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.<br /><br />Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:<br /><br />6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)<br /><br />8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile<br /><br />14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love<br /><br />17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile<br /><br />21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First<br /><br />23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It<br /><br />27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps<br /><br />30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches<br /><br />32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making<br /><br />55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches<br /><br />1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun<br /><br />Hit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach<br /><br />"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4348</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b435d513694830364d66e4c801404261.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s Eve</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-lonely-to-locking-lips-my-25-tested-approach-moves-to-kiss-a-total-cutie-on-new-year-s-eve--63357283</link><description><![CDATA[Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.<br /><br />With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:<br /><br />1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)<br /><br />5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety<br /><br />10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman<br /><br />12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone<br /><br />14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women<br /><br />18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet<br /><br />20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact<br /><br />22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time<br /><br />Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"<br /><br />What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63357283</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Dec 2024 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63357283/12_19_final_audio.mp3" length="42813824" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.<br /><br />With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:<br /><br />1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)<br /><br />5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety<br /><br />10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman<br /><br />12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone<br /><br />14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women<br /><br />18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet<br /><br />20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact<br /><br />22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time<br /><br />Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"<br /><br />What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1784</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c8b88bed6f582d8dbcefbf8f02b99ac5.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/make-her-your-girlfriend-in-just-3-dates-seriously-live-coaching-with-jack--63342620</link><description><![CDATA[Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.<br /><br /><br />Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:<br /><br />6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates<br /><br />13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants<br /><br />17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You<br /><br />24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates<br /><br />27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy<br /><br />41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation<br /><br />52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall<br /><br />57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible<br /><br />1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning<br /><br />1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates<br /><br />Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com.</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"<br /><br />Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63342620</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2024 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63342620/12_17_final_audio.mp3" length="104424512" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.<br /><br /><br />Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:<br /><br />6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material<br /><br />9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates<br /><br />13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants<br /><br />17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You<br /><br />24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates<br /><br />27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy<br /><br />41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation<br /><br />52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall<br /><br />57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible<br /><br />1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning<br /><br />1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates<br /><br />Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com.</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"<br /><br />Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4351</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d21b40410557ab62282605d7488bb333.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stop Settling TODAY! How to Crush Self-Doubt and Attract the Special Woman You Deserve — Featuring Garrain Jones</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-settling-today-how-to-crush-self-doubt-and-attract-the-special-woman-you-deserve-featuring-garrain-jones--63292419</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming<br />a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”<br /><br /><br />Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:<br /><br />3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom<br /><br />15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read<br /><br />21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”<br /><br />32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It<br /><br />39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair<br /><br />40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars<br /><br />52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date<br /><br />58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date<br /><br />60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again<br /><br />It’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.<br /><br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES’S INCREDIBLE STORY:<br /><a href="https://www.garrainjones.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.garrainjones.com/</a><br /><br />TO APPLY TO HIS “ARTIST POWER” PROGRAM:<br /><a href="https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program</a><br /><br />READ GARRAIN’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE”:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63292419</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2024 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63292419/final_audio.mp3" length="97785536" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming<br />a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”<br /><br /><br />Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:<br /><br />3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom<br /><br />15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read<br /><br />21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”<br /><br />32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It<br /><br />39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair<br /><br />40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars<br /><br />52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date<br /><br />58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date<br /><br />60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again<br /><br />It’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.<br /><br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES’S INCREDIBLE STORY:<br /><a href="https://www.garrainjones.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.garrainjones.com/</a><br /><br />TO APPLY TO HIS “ARTIST POWER” PROGRAM:<br /><a href="https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program</a><br /><br />READ GARRAIN’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE”:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4075</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Stuck in Your Head at the Bars? How to Confidently Approach and Talk to Women—Even if You’re Shy (Live Coaching with Eric!)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stuck-in-your-head-at-the-bars-how-to-confidently-approach-and-talk-to-women-even-if-you-re-shy-live-coaching-with-eric--63260236</link><description><![CDATA[Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.<br /><br /><br />Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:<br /><br />6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist<br /><br />10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman<br /><br />11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas<br /><br />19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches<br /><br />31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction<br /><br />39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)<br /><br />46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers<br /><br />52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her<br /><br />1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone<br /><br />1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)<br /><br />1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches<br /><br />1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”… When You Do it Connell’s Way<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63260236</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63260236/final_audio_v2.mp3" length="132158912" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.<br /><br /><br />Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:<br /><br />6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist<br /><br />10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman<br /><br />11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas<br /><br />19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches<br /><br />31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction<br /><br />39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)<br /><br />46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers<br /><br />52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her<br /><br />1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone<br /><br />1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)<br /><br />1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches<br /><br />1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”… When You Do it Connell’s Way<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5507</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c06e81f322a9f30f0a4b2a87934fda18.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From Dull to Dynamic: How Passion and Authenticity Make You Magnetic to Women, Featuring John R. Miles</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-dull-to-dynamic-how-passion-and-authenticity-make-you-magnetic-to-women-featuring-john-r-miles--63190381</link><description><![CDATA[Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, “Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.” Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated “Passion Struck” podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.<br /><br /><br />Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:<br /><br />2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear<br /><br />12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy—and How to Build Self-Worth<br /><br />17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life<br /><br />20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits<br /><br />21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates—and Why They Love It<br /><br />28:15 How John’s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear<br /><br />33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One<br /><br />40:47 How to Show a Woman You’re Dating that She Truly Matters<br /><br />42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career<br /><br />46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing<br /><br /><br />Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic—because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:<br />www.johnrmiles.com/<br /><br /><br />TO GET JOHN’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘PASSION STRUCK’:<br />https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-<br />ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1707604358&amp;sr=1-1<br /><br /><br />TO LISTEN TO JOHN’S TOP-RATED PODCAST:<br />https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-struck-with-john-r-miles/id1553279283<br /><br /><br />TO HIRE JOHN AS A KEYNOTE SPEAKER:<br />www.harrywalker.com/speakers/john-r-miles<br /><br /><br />WATCH JOHN’S INSPIRING YOUTUBE CHANNEL:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEA<br /><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles<br /><br />"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63190381</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2024 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63190381/htgag_audio.mp3" length="78853568" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, “Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.” Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated “Passion Struck” podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.<br /><br /><br />Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:<br /><br />2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear<br /><br />12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy—and How to Build Self-Worth<br /><br />17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life<br /><br />20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits<br /><br />21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates—and Why They Love It<br /><br />28:15 How John’s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear<br /><br />33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One<br /><br />40:47 How to Show a Woman You’re Dating that She Truly Matters<br /><br />42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career<br /><br />46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing<br /><br /><br />Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic—because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:<br />www.johnrmiles.com/<br /><br /><br />TO GET JOHN’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘PASSION STRUCK’:<br />https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-<br />ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1707604358&amp;sr=1-1<br /><br /><br />TO LISTEN TO JOHN’S TOP-RATED PODCAST:<br />https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-struck-with-john-r-miles/id1553279283<br /><br /><br />TO HIRE JOHN AS A KEYNOTE SPEAKER:<br />www.harrywalker.com/speakers/john-r-miles<br /><br /><br />WATCH JOHN’S INSPIRING YOUTUBE CHANNEL:<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEA<br /><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles<br /><br />"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3286</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2c3d18e4619c072515983fe5267fb0b2.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>1,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-000-first-dates-later-my-top-7-easy-moves-to-escape-the-friend-zone-and-get-her-asking-you-for-date-no-2--63136974</link><description><![CDATA[Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.<br /><br /><br />Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:<br /><br />4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)<br /><br />11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word<br /><br />20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)<br /><br />25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common<br /><br />30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way<br /><br />36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe<br /><br />38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected<br /><br />44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You<br /><br />Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63136974</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Dec 2024 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63136974/final_audio.mp3" length="79643264" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.<br /><br /><br />Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:<br /><br />4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)<br /><br />11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word<br /><br />20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)<br /><br />25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common<br /><br />30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way<br /><br />36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe<br /><br />38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected<br /><br />44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You<br /><br />Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3319</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/510e69833162c48862bff33c1dd1b526.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/approach-her-with-easy-confidence-top-dating-expert-kezia-noble-on-how-to-attract-women-in-real-life--63062283</link><description><![CDATA[How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”<br /><br />You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:<br /><br />(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients<br /><br />(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”<br /><br />(13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive<br /><br />(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic<br /><br />(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You<br /><br />(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way<br /><br />(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women<br /><br />(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them<br /><br />(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You<br /><br />Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!<br /><br /><br /><b>Featured Guest</b><br /><b></b><br />Kezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert<br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS<br /><a href="http://www.kezia-noble.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.kezia-noble.com/</a><br /><br />VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert</a><br /><br />GET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />FOR FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble<br /><br />"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63062283</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2024 16:43:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63062283/final_audio.mp3" length="53898944" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”<br /><br />You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:<br /><br />(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients<br /><br />(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”<br /><br />(13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive<br /><br />(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic<br /><br />(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You<br /><br />(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way<br /><br />(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women<br /><br />(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them<br /><br />(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You<br /><br />Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!<br /><br /><br /><b>Featured Guest</b><br /><b></b><br />Kezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert<br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS<br /><a href="http://www.kezia-noble.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.kezia-noble.com/</a><br /><br />VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert</a><br /><br />GET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />FOR FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble<br /><br />"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2246</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fc16168701f2012a39f960f902fcf117.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Live Coaching Session: Connell’s Client Matt Conquers His Fear of Approaching—and Gets 2 Phone Numbers!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-coaching-session-connell-s-client-matt-conquers-his-fear-of-approaching-and-gets-2-phone-numbers--63031387</link><description><![CDATA[Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.<br /><br /><br />Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt’s breakthrough:<br /><br />5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars<br /><br />8:31 Connell Identifies the “Invisible Wall” that Stops Matt from Approaching<br /><br />14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection<br /><br />17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women<br /><br />20:32 Connell Shares “the Biggest Secret” to Confidently Approaching<br /><br />23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women<br /><br />26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating<br /><br />37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring<br /><br />42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework<br /><br />46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted<br /><br />53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way<br /><br />58:21 The Hinge Prompt that’s CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients<br /><br />After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls—the kinds of women he’d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63031387</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2024 15:02:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63031387/final_audio.mp3" length="92331968" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.<br /><br /><br />Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt’s breakthrough:<br /><br />5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars<br /><br />8:31 Connell Identifies the “Invisible Wall” that Stops Matt from Approaching<br /><br />14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection<br /><br />17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women<br /><br />20:32 Connell Shares “the Biggest Secret” to Confidently Approaching<br /><br />23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women<br /><br />26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating<br /><br />37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring<br /><br />42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework<br /><br />46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted<br /><br />53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way<br /><br />58:21 The Hinge Prompt that’s CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients<br /><br />After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls—the kinds of women he’d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br /><br />WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Connell@datingtransformation.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3847</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ee592f565e00f235b2980845e632367e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Read Women &amp; Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-read-women-make-deep-connections-dating-influencer-lindsey-metselaar-on-what-women-want-encore-episode--62978151</link><description><![CDATA[Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.<br /><br /><br />In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:<br /><br />(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL<br /><br />(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness<br /><br />(20:00) How Lindsey’s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives<br /><br />(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet<br /><br />(29:50) How to Tell if She’s into You<br /><br />(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men<br /><br />(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird<br /><br />(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About…and NOT to Talk About<br /><br />(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them<br /><br />(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks<br /><br />(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!<br /><br />(1:01:44) Lindsey’s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />READ LINDSEY’S SUBSTACK<br /><a href="https://wemetatacme.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://wemetatacme.substack.com/</a><br /><br /><br />CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST<br />We Met At Acme<br /><br /><br />GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS<br /><a href="http://www.wemetatacme.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.wemetatacme.com</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62978151</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2024 09:05:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62978151/final_audio_v3.mp3" length="91226624" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.<br /><br /><br />In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:<br /><br />(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL<br /><br />(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness<br /><br />(20:00) How Lindsey’s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives<br /><br />(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet<br /><br />(29:50) How to Tell if She’s into You<br /><br />(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men<br /><br />(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird<br /><br />(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About…and NOT to Talk About<br /><br />(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them<br /><br />(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks<br /><br />(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!<br /><br />(1:01:44) Lindsey’s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />READ LINDSEY’S SUBSTACK<br /><a href="https://wemetatacme.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://wemetatacme.substack.com/</a><br /><br /><br />CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST<br />We Met At Acme<br /><br /><br />GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS<br /><a href="http://www.wemetatacme.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.wemetatacme.com</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3801</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/18d82b9f694b21f7a5303693c57776b3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bestselling Author Dr. Robert Glover on How to Confidently Meet Women without Being Too Nice (Encore Episode)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bestselling-author-dr-robert-glover-on-how-to-confidently-meet-women-without-being-too-nice-encore-episode--62974410</link><description><![CDATA[In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”<br /><br />In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:<br /><br />(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever<br /><br />(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women<br /><br />(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life<br /><br />(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life<br /><br />(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem<br /><br />(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.<br /><br />(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates<br /><br />(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole<br /><br />(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”<br /><br />(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You<br /><br />(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women<br /><br />(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number<br /><br />(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”<br /><a href="http://www.drglover.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.drglover.com</a><br /><br /><br />FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X<br /><a href="http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62974410</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2024 09:20:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62974410/final_audio_v4.mp3" length="115333952" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”<br /><br />In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:<br /><br />(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever<br /><br />(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women<br /><br />(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life<br /><br />(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life<br /><br />(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem<br /><br />(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.<br /><br />(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates<br /><br />(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole<br /><br />(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”<br /><br />(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You<br /><br />(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women<br /><br />(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number<br /><br />(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!<br /><br /><br />TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”<br /><a href="http://www.drglover.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.drglover.com</a><br /><br /><br />FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X<br /><a href="http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4806</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ecda404d0e67018fb59169bae4270346.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>My Girlfriend Tells All! How We Connected on Our First Date (Featuring My Amazing Partner Jessamin) Part 5 of 5</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-girlfriend-tells-all-how-we-connected-on-our-first-date-featuring-my-amazing-partner-jessamin-part-5-of-5--62958774</link><description><![CDATA[If you don’t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple breaks down the fun, connected first date that put them on the path to love. What do women from want on dates? Jessamin will tell you!<br /><br /><br />In this episode, Connell and Jessamin will discuss:<br /><br />(3:20) The Photos on His Profile that Made Her Swipe Right<br /><br />(3:55) The Kinds of Photos NOT to Use<br /><br />(13:05) The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date<br /><br />(15:00) How to Write Light, Flirty Messages to Keep from Getting Ghosted<br /><br />(18:20) Jessamin’s Top First-Date Tip<br /><br />(26:30) How to Make a Great First Impression<br /><br />(29:00) What to Talk About to Never Run out of Things to Say<br /><br />(30:48) How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned<br /><br />(34:15) The Simple Way Connell Went in for the First Kiss<br /><br />(37:18) How to Ask Her Out for a Second Date<br /><br />(39:21) Jessamin’s Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make<br /><br />(45:00) Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”<br /><br />Are you ready to stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start getting second dates? Listen now.<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Seize your first impression in online dating—it's your chance to stand out from the start." - Jessamin<br /><br />"Great conversations flow when your humor and interests align." - Jessamin<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: https://datingtransformation.com/contact/<br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH: https://datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30/<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62958774</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Nov 2024 09:30:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62958774/final_audio.mp3" length="70471616" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you don’t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you don’t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple breaks down the fun, connected first date that put them on the path to love. What do women from want on dates? Jessamin will tell you!<br /><br /><br />In this episode, Connell and Jessamin will discuss:<br /><br />(3:20) The Photos on His Profile that Made Her Swipe Right<br /><br />(3:55) The Kinds of Photos NOT to Use<br /><br />(13:05) The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date<br /><br />(15:00) How to Write Light, Flirty Messages to Keep from Getting Ghosted<br /><br />(18:20) Jessamin’s Top First-Date Tip<br /><br />(26:30) How to Make a Great First Impression<br /><br />(29:00) What to Talk About to Never Run out of Things to Say<br /><br />(30:48) How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned<br /><br />(34:15) The Simple Way Connell Went in for the First Kiss<br /><br />(37:18) How to Ask Her Out for a Second Date<br /><br />(39:21) Jessamin’s Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make<br /><br />(45:00) Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”<br /><br />Are you ready to stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start getting second dates? Listen now.<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Seize your first impression in online dating—it's your chance to stand out from the start." - Jessamin<br /><br />"Great conversations flow when your humor and interests align." - Jessamin<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: https://datingtransformation.com/contact/<br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH: https://datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30/<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2936</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/de46f838e032d5254a69fd6c129a6ee1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-new-way-to-confidently-approach-and-connect-with-women-part-4-of-5--62927511</link><description><![CDATA[Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br /><br />(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere<br /><br />(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted “PUA” Tactics<br /><br />(7:15) Why Connell’s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof<br /><br />(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women<br /><br />(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head<br /><br />(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment<br /><br />(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety<br /><br />(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question<br /><br />(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym<br /><br />(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker<br /><br />(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy<br /><br />(41:15) How Connell’s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes<br /><br />(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62927511</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 09:05:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62927511/final_audio_1.mp3" length="71651840" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br /><br />(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere<br /><br />(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted “PUA” Tactics<br /><br />(7:15) Why Connell’s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof<br /><br />(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women<br /><br />(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head<br /><br />(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment<br /><br />(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety<br /><br />(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question<br /><br />(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym<br /><br />(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker<br /><br />(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy<br /><br />(41:15) How Connell’s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes<br /><br />(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2986</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1a9107378e6a23239ab159edc98ef91b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-write-irresistible-openers-on-the-apps-the-easy-way-to-text-and-get-dates-part-3-of-5--62827499</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br />(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps<br /><br />(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send<br /><br />(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love<br /><br />(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies<br /><br />(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps<br /><br />(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages<br /><br />(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener<br /><br />(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener<br /><br />(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener<br /><br />(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love<br /><br />(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates<br /><br />(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy<br /><br />(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out<br /><br />(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman<br /><br />(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62827499</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Nov 2024 09:50:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62827499/final_audio.mp3" length="71128832" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br />(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps<br /><br />(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send<br /><br />(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love<br /><br />(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies<br /><br />(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps<br /><br />(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages<br /><br />(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener<br /><br />(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener<br /><br />(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener<br /><br />(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love<br /><br />(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates<br /><br />(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy<br /><br />(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out<br /><br />(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman<br /><br />(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2964</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f2ac1ec99756e32f4070959079ade97b.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-flirting-wrong-the-new-way-to-talk-to-women-5-flirting-fails-to-avoid-part-2-of-5--62801808</link><description><![CDATA[Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br />(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication<br /><br />(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone<br /><br />(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication<br /><br />(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say<br /><br />(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics<br /><br />(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use<br /><br />(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment<br /><br />(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)<br /><br />(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend<br /><br />(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way<br /><br />(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal<br /><br />(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid<br /><br />(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62801808</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Nov 2024 09:45:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62801808/final_audio.mp3" length="80234816" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.<br /><br /><br />In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:<br /><br />(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication<br /><br />(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone<br /><br />(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication<br /><br />(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say<br /><br />(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics<br /><br />(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use<br /><br />(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment<br /><br />(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)<br /><br />(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend<br /><br />(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way<br /><br />(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal<br /><br />(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid<br /><br />(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3343</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d744a073a59460123e154b7723b10e25.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special Series</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-attract-your-dream-girlfriend-by-dating-with-radical-authenticity-part-1-of-a-special-series/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />In this episode, Connell will tell you:<br /><br />(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men<br /><br />(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women<br /><br />(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros<br /><br />(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss<br /><br />(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women<br /><br />(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence<br /><br />(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone<br /><br />(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him<br /><br />(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell<br /><br />(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity<br /><br />(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity<br /><br />(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today<br /><br />(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br /><b></b>Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation <br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62779428</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Nov 2024 09:45:06 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62779428/final_audio.mp3" length="92018048" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />In this episode, Connell will tell you:<br /><br />(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men<br /><br />(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women<br /><br />(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros<br /><br />(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss<br /><br />(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women<br /><br />(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence<br /><br />(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone<br /><br />(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him<br /><br />(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell<br /><br />(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity<br /><br />(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity<br /><br />(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today<br /><br />(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br /><b></b>Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation <br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3834</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5fcc070dfba9a4edf961976ab901e5a7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… &amp; NEVER Get Rejected</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-know-exactly-what-to-say-when-you-approach-never-get-rejected/</link><description><![CDATA[So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm<br />04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework<br />07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks<br />10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth<br />16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context<br />17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment<br />21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women<br />22:11 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62488937</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2024 15:06:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62488937/e84_final_audio.mp3" length="38333120" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm<br />04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework<br />07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks<br />10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth<br />16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context<br />17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment<br />21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women<br />22:11 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1597</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d498ade8caf03b8e58c599a8293bfd01.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/3-dating-app-mistakes-to-avoid-plus-steal-the-flirty-12-word-opener-that-gets-women-replying-2/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br /><br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers<br />03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions<br />09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights<br />10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits<br />15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters<br />17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats<br />24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener<br />28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions<br />30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62441460</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Oct 2024 16:28:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62441460/final_audio_dt.mp3" length="46825095" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br /><br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br /><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers<br />03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions<br />09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights<br />10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits<br />15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters<br />17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats<br />24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener<br />28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions<br />30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1951</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/24cb89fe7e7b469d006709211be83e71.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-7-deadly-dating-myths-to-avoid/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations<br />03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection<br />05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating<br />08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney<br />13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success<br />15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women<br />17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial<br />22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities<br />23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time<br />27:07 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62079039</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Sep 2024 15:23:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62079039/final_audio.mp3" length="44059136" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett<br /><br />"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Intro<br />01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations<br />03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection<br />05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating<br />08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney<br />13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success<br />15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women<br />17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial<br />22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities<br />23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time<br />27:07 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1836</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b2518f3d5c038f3b0195bdd3c731468c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-use-emojis-to-send-flirty-texts-and-get-dates/</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60479570</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Jun 2024 13:58:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60479570/final_audio.mp3" length="39868167" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1661</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-i-went-from-dateless-to-dating-wonderful-women-the-power-of-radical-authenticity/</link><description><![CDATA[Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60073293</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2024 16:06:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60073293/final_audio.mp3" length="59740742" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2489</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/10-flirty-questions-to-ask-women-when-you-approach/</link><description><![CDATA[Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.<br /><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett<br /><br />“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions<br />03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation<br />12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company<br />13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around<br />17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes<br />21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations<br />23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro <br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60045143</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2024 11:25:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/60045143/final_audio_1.mp3" length="36894854" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.<br /><br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett<br /><br />“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions<br />03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation<br />12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company<br />13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around<br />17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes<br />21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations<br />23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro <br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1537</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-top-10-flirting-mistakes-you-make-and-10-instant-fixes/</link><description><![CDATA[If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"<br /><br />Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract<br />05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences<br />09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching<br />10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception<br />15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable<br />18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates<br />20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration<br />25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection<br />28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations<br />32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings<br />36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations<br />37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule<br />38:40 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59459175</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2024 09:15:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59459175/final_audio.mp3" length="56147654" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"<br /><br />Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract<br />05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences<br />09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching<br />10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception<br />15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable<br />18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates<br />20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration<br />25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection<br />28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations<br />32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings<br />36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations<br />37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule<br />38:40 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2340</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/ask-the-dating-coach-help-a-catfish-has-my-nude-pics-and-is-blackmailing-me-for-1000/</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App<br />03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy<br />04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness<br />07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love<br />10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece<br />12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book<br />13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach<br />17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery<br />19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women<br />20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love<br />23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits<br />24:00 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59439485</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2024 14:47:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59439485/final_audio.mp3" length="35022854" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App<br />03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy<br />04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness<br />07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love<br />10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece<br />12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book<br />13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach<br />17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery<br />19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women<br />20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love<br />23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits<br />24:00 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1459</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-new-way-to-flirt-with-women-10-tested-tips-to-make-sparks-fly/</link><description><![CDATA[If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Inrtoduction<br />00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula<br />05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting<br />09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames<br />10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call<br />14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements<br />18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits<br />20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques<br />23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates<br />24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date<br />26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense<br />29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness<br />31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication<br />33:24 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59344969</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Apr 2024 13:42:30 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59344969/e76.mp3" length="48554822" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Inrtoduction<br />00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula<br />05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting<br />09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames<br />10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call<br />14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements<br />18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits<br />20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques<br />23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates<br />24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date<br />26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense<br />29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness<br />31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication<br />33:24 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2023</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/ask-the-dating-coach-im-short-should-i-have-my-legs-broken-to-help-me-get-dates/</link><description><![CDATA[Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.<br />06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.<br />08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.<br />12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.<br />16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.<br />19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.<br />21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.<br />23:21 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59141268</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2024 20:02:39 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59141268/episode_75.mp3" length="34077638" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett<br /><br />"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.<br />06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.<br />08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.<br />12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.<br />16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.<br />19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.<br />21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.<br />23:21 - Outro<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1420</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-get-over-a-breakup-with-letting-go-of-your-ex-author-cortney-warren/</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?<br /><br /><br />Today’s special guest can help!<br /><br /><br />Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.<br /><br /><br />It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren<br /><br />"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Featured Guest<br />Cortney Warren<br />Website: <a href="http://www.drcortney.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.drcortney.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions<br />08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup<br />10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak<br />14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance<br />17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships<br />21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development<br />24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma<br />28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice<br />30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry<br />36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating<br />37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones<br />42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love<br />44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene<br />46:11 - Conclusion<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59116996</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Mar 2024 09:15:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59116996/final_audio.mp3" length="71870726" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?


Today’s special guest can help!


Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?<br /><br /><br />Today’s special guest can help!<br /><br /><br />Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.<br /><br /><br />It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren<br /><br />"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Featured Guest<br />Cortney Warren<br />Website: <a href="http://www.drcortney.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.drcortney.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions<br />08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup<br />10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak<br />14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance<br />17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships<br />21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development<br />24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma<br />28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice<br />30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry<br />36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating<br />37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones<br />42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love<br />44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene<br />46:11 - Conclusion<br /><br />Powered by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2995</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-not-to-be-creepy-the-7-mistakes-men-make-that-creep-women-out/</link><description><![CDATA[<b>You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down<br />The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett</b><br /><b></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><b>Connell Barrett</b><br /><b>Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation</b><br /><b>Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a></b><br /><b>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><b>00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure</b><br /><b>06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: St</b><b>ruggles with Deceit and Discomfort</b><br /><b>07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections</b><br /><b>04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"</b><br /><b>09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success</b><br /><b>12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect</b><br /><b>15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments</b><br /><b>18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story</b><br /><b>20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy</b><br /><b>23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation</b><br /><b>24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life</b><br /><b>25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia</b>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59089451</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2024 16:41:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59089451/final_audio.mp3" length="41470598" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<b>You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down<br />The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett</b><br /><b></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><b>Connell Barrett</b><br /><b>Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation</b><br /><b>Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a></b><br /><b>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><b>00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure</b><br /><b>06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: St</b><b>ruggles with Deceit and Discomfort</b><br /><b>07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections</b><br /><b>04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"</b><br /><b>09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success</b><br /><b>12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect</b><br /><b>15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments</b><br /><b>18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story</b><br /><b>20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy</b><br /><b>23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation</b><br /><b>24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life</b><br /><b>25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia</b>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1728</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/5-aha-moments-that-took-me-from-dateless-to-dating-wonderful-women/</link><description><![CDATA[The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe<br />05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date<br />06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches<br />07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder<br />12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You<br />15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters<br />16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors<br />18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness<br />20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships<br />21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline<br />24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners<br />26:11 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcastmedia]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59016055</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2024 13:14:09 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59016055/new_connell.mp3" length="42088646" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe<br />05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date<br />06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches<br />07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder<br />12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You<br />15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters<br />16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors<br />18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness<br />20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships<br />21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline<br />24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners<br />26:11 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcastmedia]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1754</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datingideas,datingin2024,datingtips,datingtransformation,howtodateyourdreamgirl,howtogetagirlfriend,lovedating</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/ask-the-dating-coach-mailbag/</link><description><![CDATA[FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Robbie Kramer<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage<br />04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone<br />07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages<br />11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging<br />14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully<br />17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy<br />20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date<br />26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality<br />28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified<br />30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock<br />35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition<br />39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts<br />41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges<br />47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity<br />49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating<br />52:10 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58776401</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 10:10:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58776401/final_audio.mp3" length="75595142" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wlHkECW1tolA7vS1Rd_oE3zwql72tnyE/edit?usp=drive_link&amp;amp;ouid=118298976771582511945&amp;amp;rtpof=true&amp;amp;sd=true" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Robbie Kramer<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage<br />04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone<br />07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages<br />11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging<br />14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully<br />17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy<br />20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date<br />26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality<br />28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified<br />30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock<br />35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition<br />39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts<br />41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges<br />47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity<br />49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating<br />52:10 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3150</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,dating,datingcoach,datingtips,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/hinge-and-humor-the-top-10-funniest-prompts-to-get-matches-and-dates-on-hinge/</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts<br />03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats<br />08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste<br />10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast<br />11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces<br />12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts<br />15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist<br />19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match<br />21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile<br />22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor<br />25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas<br />29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates<br />30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity<br />31:17 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58750581</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2024 13:32:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58750581/final_audio.mp3" length="45184646" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wlHkECW1tolA7vS1Rd_oE3zwql72tnyE/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts<br />03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats<br />08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste<br />10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast<br />11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces<br />12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts<br />15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist<br />19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match<br />21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile<br />22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor<br />25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas<br />29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates<br />30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity<br />31:17 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1883</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,dating,datingcoach,datingtips,flirting,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-5-dating-superpowers-use-these-5-powerful-moves-for-more-dates-and-more-confidenceinstantly/</link><description><![CDATA[Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!<br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection<br />05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice<br />06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement<br />10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport<br />14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries<br />16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection<br />19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles<br />20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest<br />25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance<br />27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You<br />30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness<br />33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment<br />36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey<br />37:00 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58240821</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2024 10:15:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58240821/episode_69.mp3" length="53410502" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1feiQAEknNM6Xv7wQWlf_l5beWqTp5leH/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!<br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection<br />05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice<br />06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement<br />10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport<br />14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries<br />16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection<br />19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles<br />20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest<br />25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance<br />27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You<br />30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness<br />33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment<br />36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey<br />37:00 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2226</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingcoach,datingtips,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-top-10-flirting-moves-you-need-to-now-to-make-sparks-fly-with-wonderful-women/</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.<br /><br />Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />2:17 The first rule of flirting<br />4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection<br />7:31 The right posture and eye contact<br />8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date<br />14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love<br />17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you<br />21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her<br />24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you<br />26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension<br />27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you<br /><br />Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br /><br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps<br />03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations<br />08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts<br />12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts<br />15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor<br />19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches<br />22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor<br />25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas<br />29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates<br />30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile<br />31:03 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58240759</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2024 10:15:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58240759/episode_68.mp3" length="53928896" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OGyCtiEe1iYleJoajTiYWxm3mdugRgXW/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.

Listen in as he...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.<br /><br />Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />2:17 The first rule of flirting<br />4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection<br />7:31 The right posture and eye contact<br />8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date<br />14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love<br />17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you<br />21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her<br />24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you<br />26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension<br />27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you<br /><br />Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br /><br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps<br />03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations<br />08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts<br />12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts<br />15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor<br />19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches<br />22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor<br />25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas<br />29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates<br />30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile<br />31:03 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2247</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingcoach,datingtips,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,men,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/live-coaching-nate-learns-the-right-way-to-text-women-how-to-get-out-of-his-head-on-dates-and-more/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?<br /><br /><br />You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.<br /><br /><br />Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br />5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates<br /><br />9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)<br /><br />14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send<br /><br />17:10 Why authenticity is what women want<br /><br />21:00 How NOT to overshare with women<br /><br />35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident<br /><br />44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new<br /><br />52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58200586</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2024 10:15:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58200586/final_audio.mp3" length="85249478" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1w_l3fShU4B1EnXRsPX8X0gV2MEPWRJrY/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?


You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?<br /><br /><br />You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.<br /><br /><br />Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br />5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates<br /><br />9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)<br /><br />14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send<br /><br />17:10 Why authenticity is what women want<br /><br />21:00 How NOT to overshare with women<br /><br />35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident<br /><br />44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new<br /><br />52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3552</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,dating,datingcoach,firstdates,intimacy,love,men,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/client-transformation-how-john-went-from-low-confidence-to-dating-incredible-womenand-how-you-can-too/</link><description><![CDATA[If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!<br /><br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves<br />needed.)<br /><br /><br />John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.<br /><br /><br />Connell and John are about to teach you how to…<br /><ul><li>How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoy</li><li>Get HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interest</li><li>Flirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.</li><li>Be more self-confident TODAY</li></ul><br />And a lot more!<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." John<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />John<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills<br />08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates<br />12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates<br />13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility<br />18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity<br />21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words<br />23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton<br />28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss<br />31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence<br />35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice<br />37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way<br />42:53 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58187836</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2024 10:20:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58187836/episode_66.mp3" length="67580678" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/18fRijw3dpsHsNegyRUdvUp2AyLe-o9xX/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!<br /><br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves<br />needed.)<br /><br /><br />John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.<br /><br /><br />Connell and John are about to teach you how to…<br /><ul><li>How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoy</li><li>Get HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interest</li><li>Flirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.</li><li>Be more self-confident TODAY</li></ul><br />And a lot more!<br /><br /><br />Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." John<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />John<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills<br />08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates<br />12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates<br />13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility<br />18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity<br />21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words<br />23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton<br />28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss<br />31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence<br />35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice<br />37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way<br />42:53 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2816</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingcoach,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT Creepy</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/live-coaching-what-to-say-when-you-approach-women-to-be-charming-and-not-creepy/</link><description><![CDATA[If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.<br /><br /><br />If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br />• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women<br />• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy<br />• The secret to self-confidence with women<br />• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks<br />• How to gets dates in a matter of days!<br /><br /><br />And a lot more.<br /><br /><br />Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action<br />06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation<br />13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing<br />17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response<br />20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks<br />24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color<br />26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations<br />30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking<br />31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out<br />38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources<br />39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To<br />42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches<br />46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past<br />49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities<br />55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth<br />55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen<br />56:10 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58147750</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jan 2024 10:05:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58147750/final_audio.mp3" length="86609414" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1uPFKtn-7h9HSquZiZUu7ePr5mLnrNso4/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.


If you’re like...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.<br /><br /><br />If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br />• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women<br />• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy<br />• The secret to self-confidence with women<br />• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks<br />• How to gets dates in a matter of days!<br /><br /><br />And a lot more.<br /><br /><br />Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action<br />06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation<br />13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing<br />17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response<br />20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks<br />24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color<br />26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations<br />30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking<br />31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out<br />38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources<br />39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To<br />42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches<br />46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past<br />49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities<br />55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth<br />55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen<br />56:10 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3609</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingcoach,datingtips,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Ways to Flirt, Connect and Make Sparks Fly with Your Ideal Woman</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/5-ways-to-flirt-connect-and-make-sparks-fly-with-your-ideal-woman/</link><description><![CDATA[You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!<br /><br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br /><ul><li>Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching action</li><li>A texting tip you’ve NEVER heard before</li><li>The biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthrough</li><li>How to NOT get ghosted</li><li>A confidence “hack” to make you feel MUCH more attractive</li></ul><br />Listen now, so you can STOP feeling stuck with women, and START making sparks fly with cool, cute girls, as your most authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“I sound like the love child of Suzanne Pleshette and Danny DeVito” -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:58 - Ignite Change: Embrace Disturbance and Take Massive Action<br />05:35 - The Internal Struggle: Devil Stabs Angel, Motivation to Approach Women<br />06:58 - Personalized Guidance: Boosting Confidence and Attracting Women<br />11:20 - The Regret of Hiding: Learning from Dating Mistakes<br />12:21 - Creating a Persona: Embellishing Adventures for Compatibility<br />13:37 - A Year of Transformation: Taking Positive Action and Embracing Authenticity<br />16:09 - Transforming Confidence: Finding your Dream Girl Through Self-Improvement<br />19:27 - Crafting Engaging Texts: Building Excitement and Intrigue<br />22:18 - Authenticity Over Lines: Emphasizing Confidence in Dating<br />21:18 - The Common Question: What to Say When Approaching a Woman?<br />24:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57999559</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2023 19:17:19 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57999559/episode_64.mp3" length="36033158" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/195f4IQtsz-Eh8oFPkyn4VyxeatMwiXpC/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!<br /><br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…<br /><br /><br /><ul><li>Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching action</li><li>A texting tip you’ve NEVER heard before</li><li>The biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthrough</li><li>How to NOT get ghosted</li><li>A confidence “hack” to make you feel MUCH more attractive</li></ul><br />Listen now, so you can STOP feeling stuck with women, and START making sparks fly with cool, cute girls, as your most authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“I sound like the love child of Suzanne Pleshette and Danny DeVito” -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:58 - Ignite Change: Embrace Disturbance and Take Massive Action<br />05:35 - The Internal Struggle: Devil Stabs Angel, Motivation to Approach Women<br />06:58 - Personalized Guidance: Boosting Confidence and Attracting Women<br />11:20 - The Regret of Hiding: Learning from Dating Mistakes<br />12:21 - Creating a Persona: Embellishing Adventures for Compatibility<br />13:37 - A Year of Transformation: Taking Positive Action and Embracing Authenticity<br />16:09 - Transforming Confidence: Finding your Dream Girl Through Self-Improvement<br />19:27 - Crafting Engaging Texts: Building Excitement and Intrigue<br />22:18 - Authenticity Over Lines: Emphasizing Confidence in Dating<br />21:18 - The Common Question: What to Say When Approaching a Woman?<br />24:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1502</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courtship,dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,datingtips,firstdates,flirting,men,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 6 Game-Changing Photos to Get More Matches on the Apps</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-6-game-changing-photos-to-get-more-matches-on-the-apps/</link><description><![CDATA[Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.<br /><br />It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.<br /><br />The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a LOT more matches (and dates!) on the apps.<br /><br />These are the 6 specific kinds of photos that Connell and his clients have used to get thousands of matches with bright, beautiful women.<br /><br />So listen now and upload 6 game-changing photos to YOUR profile, and turn your phone into a date-generating machine!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“If you’re not getting matches on the apps, it’s NOT that you’re not enough. You’re awesome! But your portraits aren’t enough.” -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:52 - The 6 Game-Changing Photos for a Successful Dating Profile<br />04:43 - From Jacket and Tie to Casual Style: Portraying Confidence in Photos<br />05:31 - The 'Ah' Photo That Tugs at Her Heartstring<br />07:08 - Boosting Confidence and Connections: Guidance from a Dating Coach<br />10:53 - Activity and Masculinity: The 4th Photo, Social Settings with Friends for the 5th<br />11:15 - The Dance Floor Connection: Capturing Unforgettable Moments in Photos<br />13:20 - Inviting Her into Your Life: Giving a Glimpse of Exciting Experiences<br />14:49 - From Fence-Sitter to Hell Yeah: The Power of the Goosh Photo<br />17:07 - Fun, Silly, and Memorable: Crafting the Perfect 6th Photo<br />20:12 - Game-Changing Photos for Dating Apps: A Quick Recap<br />22:12 - Unveiling Online Dating Success: The Power of Your Photos<br />23:55 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57932790</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Dec 2023 10:35:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57932790/episode_63.mp3" length="34580486" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sMG_MhqQ9jeRmnUaVEHxHXNNPf9cAmZ2/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.

It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.<br /><br />It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.<br /><br />The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a LOT more matches (and dates!) on the apps.<br /><br />These are the 6 specific kinds of photos that Connell and his clients have used to get thousands of matches with bright, beautiful women.<br /><br />So listen now and upload 6 game-changing photos to YOUR profile, and turn your phone into a date-generating machine!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“If you’re not getting matches on the apps, it’s NOT that you’re not enough. You’re awesome! But your portraits aren’t enough.” -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:52 - The 6 Game-Changing Photos for a Successful Dating Profile<br />04:43 - From Jacket and Tie to Casual Style: Portraying Confidence in Photos<br />05:31 - The 'Ah' Photo That Tugs at Her Heartstring<br />07:08 - Boosting Confidence and Connections: Guidance from a Dating Coach<br />10:53 - Activity and Masculinity: The 4th Photo, Social Settings with Friends for the 5th<br />11:15 - The Dance Floor Connection: Capturing Unforgettable Moments in Photos<br />13:20 - Inviting Her into Your Life: Giving a Glimpse of Exciting Experiences<br />14:49 - From Fence-Sitter to Hell Yeah: The Power of the Goosh Photo<br />17:07 - Fun, Silly, and Memorable: Crafting the Perfect 6th Photo<br />20:12 - Game-Changing Photos for Dating Apps: A Quick Recap<br />22:12 - Unveiling Online Dating Success: The Power of Your Photos<br />23:55 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1441</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,courtship,dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,men,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>A Dating Coach Rates the Rom-Coms: ‘Love Actually’</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/a-dating-coach-rates-the-rom-coms-love-actually/</link><description><![CDATA[‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.<br /><br /><br />So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“Avoid dating someone you supervise or who supervises you. Workplace romances can be problematic, especially when a power dynamic is involved.” - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:12 - The Love-Hate Relationship with Romcoms: Comedy vs. Strategies<br />03:50 - Connell Barrett's Review of 'Love Actually'<br />08:12 - The Danger of Inappropriate Workplace Relationships<br />13:23 - Advocation for the First-Kiss Initiative<br />15:27 - Cautionary Advice Against Desperate Romantic Gestures<br />18:20 - Embracing Romantic Risks for Love and Connection<br />21:49 - Lessons to Learn: Dating Strategy from 'Love Actually<br />23:57 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57823502</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Nov 2023 10:15:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57823502/final_audio.mp3" length="34961798" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_7BetFK2QAZ6EVAnf-jXnAhUtL-y0vRn/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.


So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.<br /><br /><br />So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!<br /><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b>Quotes</b><br /><br />“Avoid dating someone you supervise or who supervises you. Workplace romances can be problematic, especially when a power dynamic is involved.” - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><b>Featured in the episode</b><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><b>Chapters</b><br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:12 - The Love-Hate Relationship with Romcoms: Comedy vs. Strategies<br />03:50 - Connell Barrett's Review of 'Love Actually'<br />08:12 - The Danger of Inappropriate Workplace Relationships<br />13:23 - Advocation for the First-Kiss Initiative<br />15:27 - Cautionary Advice Against Desperate Romantic Gestures<br />18:20 - Embracing Romantic Risks for Love and Connection<br />21:49 - Lessons to Learn: Dating Strategy from 'Love Actually<br />23:57 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1457</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,datingtips,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Struggling with Flirting? How To Go from Brutally Boring to Confidently Charismatic</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/struggling-with-flirting-how-to-go-from-brutally-boring-to-confidently-charismatic/</link><description><![CDATA[Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?<br /><br />And you have no idea what you did wrong!<br /><br />Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.<br />Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.<br />And then he fixed it! How?<br /><br />In this episode, Connell shares three simple strategies he used to go from being Mr. Dull to authentically charismatic.<br /><br />Listen now, and take your love life from boring to SOARING!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You can go from boring to charismatic with women if you convey an authentic, real, raw version of yourself." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:19 - Breaking the Cycle: How to Avoid Being a Boring Date<br />04:37 - Unconventional Love Story: Shelley and the Old Carriage Man<br />07:14 - Dating Transformation with Connell: Revamping Your Dating Life<br />11:09 - Mastering Compelling and Emotionally Charged Dating Approaches<br />15:53 - Role Reversal and Playful Confidence: Spice Up Your Dates<br />19:44 - Engagement Ring Role Play: Adding Fun and Playfulness to Dates<br />20:30 - The Power of Opposite Texting After a First Date<br />23:56 - Compelling Conversations: Personal Topics and Emotional Engagement<br />28:08 - Movie Preferences and Conversation Tips<br />33:27 - Attracting Women through Radical Authenticity<br />36:32 - Unleashing Your Charisma: Expressiveness, Emotional Connection, and Humor<br />38:56 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57632459</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2023 10:05:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57632459/episode_61.mp3" length="56534726" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1b8JzpYTwchLyz4R8-NhmX-EZMs0AIHWH/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?

And you have no idea what you did wrong!

Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?<br /><br />And you have no idea what you did wrong!<br /><br />Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.<br />Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.<br />And then he fixed it! How?<br /><br />In this episode, Connell shares three simple strategies he used to go from being Mr. Dull to authentically charismatic.<br /><br />Listen now, and take your love life from boring to SOARING!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You can go from boring to charismatic with women if you convey an authentic, real, raw version of yourself." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:19 - Breaking the Cycle: How to Avoid Being a Boring Date<br />04:37 - Unconventional Love Story: Shelley and the Old Carriage Man<br />07:14 - Dating Transformation with Connell: Revamping Your Dating Life<br />11:09 - Mastering Compelling and Emotionally Charged Dating Approaches<br />15:53 - Role Reversal and Playful Confidence: Spice Up Your Dates<br />19:44 - Engagement Ring Role Play: Adding Fun and Playfulness to Dates<br />20:30 - The Power of Opposite Texting After a First Date<br />23:56 - Compelling Conversations: Personal Topics and Emotional Engagement<br />28:08 - Movie Preferences and Conversation Tips<br />33:27 - Attracting Women through Radical Authenticity<br />36:32 - Unleashing Your Charisma: Expressiveness, Emotional Connection, and Humor<br />38:56 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2356</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>My 7 Biggest “Aha!” Dating Moments… Revealed</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/my-7-biggest-aha-dating-moments-revealed/</link><description><![CDATA[If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.<br /><br />And he fixed them all!<br /><br />In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”<br />Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"YOU don't suck. You're amazing! But your dating profile sucks. Fix your profile and you'll fix your dating life." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:58 - Life and Dating Advice for a Younger Self<br />03:10 - The First Big Moment: Women Showing Interest<br />08:51 - Authenticity: The Magic Bullet in Dating<br />12:32 - Online Dating: A Digital Marketing Perspective<br />16:08 - A Deal Between Friends: Follow Each Other's Instructions<br />19:20 - Overcoming the Creepiness Factor<br />22:25 - A Major Turning Point: Confident Approach and Tonality<br />24:20 - Give to Get: Making Her Feel Special<br />28:06 - Shifting Focus: From Ego to Giving<br />30:44 - Magical Moments: Rainy Make-Outs and Potential Partners<br />36:41 - The Temperature Rises: A Friend's Remark<br />38:07 - The Power of Delivery: Tone and Non-Verbal Communication<br />40:50 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57619445</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2023 10:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57619445/final_audio.mp3" length="59254022" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jYXoHLqhsPB5dKlClAeV0Zc51KGCpg8p/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.

And he fixed them all!

In today’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.<br /><br />And he fixed them all!<br /><br />In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”<br />Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"YOU don't suck. You're amazing! But your dating profile sucks. Fix your profile and you'll fix your dating life." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:58 - Life and Dating Advice for a Younger Self<br />03:10 - The First Big Moment: Women Showing Interest<br />08:51 - Authenticity: The Magic Bullet in Dating<br />12:32 - Online Dating: A Digital Marketing Perspective<br />16:08 - A Deal Between Friends: Follow Each Other's Instructions<br />19:20 - Overcoming the Creepiness Factor<br />22:25 - A Major Turning Point: Confident Approach and Tonality<br />24:20 - Give to Get: Making Her Feel Special<br />28:06 - Shifting Focus: From Ego to Giving<br />30:44 - Magical Moments: Rainy Make-Outs and Potential Partners<br />36:41 - The Temperature Rises: A Friend's Remark<br />38:07 - The Power of Delivery: Tone and Non-Verbal Communication<br />40:50 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2469</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,datingtransformation,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Flirting Secrets Women Want You to Know with Melanie Sutrathada</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/7-flirting-secrets-women-want-you-to-know-with-melanie-sutrathada/</link><description><![CDATA[Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!<br /><br />Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.<br /><br />Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…<br /><br />8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive<br /><br />14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss<br /><br />22:00: What to say to your date when you’re nervous and NOT confident<br /><br />29:00: How to improve your flirty banter on dates<br /><br />41:30: What women are really looking for from men<br /><br />42:25: The right (and WRONG) ways to approach a woman<br /><br />And a lot more!<br /><br />Listen to the amazing Melanie Sutrathada wax eloquent about dating, true-crime, traveling the world, and much more.<br /><br />SEE MELANIE TRAVEL THE WORLD ON INSTAGRAM: @‌melaniesutra<br /><br />CHECK OUT HER HOSTING AND ACTING SKILLS ON HER WEBSITE:<br />Melanie Sutrathada | Actor ∙ Host ∙ Content Creator<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You have to shoot your shot and take chances, in life and in love, because tomorrow isn't promised to us." -Melanie Sutrathada<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Melanie Sutrathada<br />Instagram: @‌melaniesutra<br />Website: <a href="http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:42 - Embracing Multiple Roles: Actor, Host, Lifestyle Expert<br />04:37 - The Art of the Wingman: Navigating New York Dating<br />08:22 - Prioritizing Experiences over Money: Life's True Essence<br />10:17 - Seizing the Present: Acting Now in an Uncertain Tomorrow<br />15:27 - Self-Discovery, Love, and Sports: Years of Adventure<br />18:55 - The Awkwardness of Distant Date First Kisses<br />22:15 - Exciting Dates that Check Off Your Bucket List<br />25:38 - Cultivating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and Vulnerability<br />33:08 - The Power of Active Listening in Meaningful Conversations<br />36:08 - Expressing Compatibility and Nurturing Potential Relationships<br />41:26 - Heartwarming Note from Jess's Cat, Boots<br />45:25 - Seeking a Confident, Non-Jealous, and Initiative-Taking Partner<br />51:09 - Acts of Kindness: Crossing Paths with the Right Person<br />54:13 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57581720</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Nov 2023 10:30:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57581720/episode_59.mp3" length="78543110" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/16ZK-FpUYoeayFD6NrwI7dLm3nZsnzc8_/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!

Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!<br /><br />Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.<br /><br />Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…<br /><br />8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive<br /><br />14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss<br /><br />22:00: What to say to your date when you’re nervous and NOT confident<br /><br />29:00: How to improve your flirty banter on dates<br /><br />41:30: What women are really looking for from men<br /><br />42:25: The right (and WRONG) ways to approach a woman<br /><br />And a lot more!<br /><br />Listen to the amazing Melanie Sutrathada wax eloquent about dating, true-crime, traveling the world, and much more.<br /><br />SEE MELANIE TRAVEL THE WORLD ON INSTAGRAM: @‌melaniesutra<br /><br />CHECK OUT HER HOSTING AND ACTING SKILLS ON HER WEBSITE:<br />Melanie Sutrathada | Actor ∙ Host ∙ Content Creator<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You have to shoot your shot and take chances, in life and in love, because tomorrow isn't promised to us." -Melanie Sutrathada<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Melanie Sutrathada<br />Instagram: @‌melaniesutra<br />Website: <a href="http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:42 - Embracing Multiple Roles: Actor, Host, Lifestyle Expert<br />04:37 - The Art of the Wingman: Navigating New York Dating<br />08:22 - Prioritizing Experiences over Money: Life's True Essence<br />10:17 - Seizing the Present: Acting Now in an Uncertain Tomorrow<br />15:27 - Self-Discovery, Love, and Sports: Years of Adventure<br />18:55 - The Awkwardness of Distant Date First Kisses<br />22:15 - Exciting Dates that Check Off Your Bucket List<br />25:38 - Cultivating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and Vulnerability<br />33:08 - The Power of Active Listening in Meaningful Conversations<br />36:08 - Expressing Compatibility and Nurturing Potential Relationships<br />41:26 - Heartwarming Note from Jess's Cat, Boots<br />45:25 - Seeking a Confident, Non-Jealous, and Initiative-Taking Partner<br />51:09 - Acts of Kindness: Crossing Paths with the Right Person<br />54:13 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3273</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingcoach,firstkiss,love,men,relationships,wingman,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sober Dating, Part 2: 7 Ways to Confidently Attract Women, without Using Alcohol</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/sober-dating-part-2-7-ways-to-confidently-attract-women-without-using-alcohol/</link><description><![CDATA[Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.<br /><br />Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?<br /><br />Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?<br />Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?<br /><br />In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />3:45: How to confidently approach totally sober<br /><br />5:32: Why your sober, authentic self is your MOST attractive, confident you<br /><br />9:30: How sober dating makes it EASIER for you to make charming moves that women enjoy<br /><br />11:45: How to feel confident as soon as you walk into a social venue<br /><br />16:00: The Hinge prompt you can use today to get a LOT more matches<br /><br />20:40: How to talk about your sobriety with a woman in an honest, attractive way<br /><br />PLUS: A LOT of fun first-date ideas that don’t involve drinking.<br /><br />Are you ready to say goodbye to your former wingmen (Johnnie, Jack and Bud) and instead attract women by being your best, most authentic and SOBER self?<br /><br />(WARNING: You MIGHT get drunk on your own awesomeness.) Listen now!<br /><br />ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You don't need liquid courage to approach women or make moves. You need ACTUAL courage. And unlike the liquid kind, courage is free, healthy and unlimited." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:12 - Breaking the Habit: Conquering Drinking on Dates<br />04:19 - Sobriety and Approaching Women: Overcoming Challenges<br />09:19 - Better Results, Sober Approaches: Unlocking Confidence<br />15:55 - Boosting Confidence and Sobriety: Approaching Women with Purpose<br />18:46 - Enhancing Matches: Non-Alcoholic Date Planning Tips<br />22:25 - Hinge Tips: Incorporating Sobriety and Trends<br />25:46 - Catering to Her Preferences: Planning a Wine-Loving Date<br />31:16 - Handling Dating Questions with Diplomacy<br />33:17 - Embracing Fear, Taking Romantic Risks, and Building Empathy<br />37:24 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57532460</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2023 10:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57532460/episode_58.mp3" length="54330950" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/15t4KVzobz1ZwilooIy2RKnLgvLjkUg7a/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.

Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?

Are...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.<br /><br />Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?<br /><br />Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?<br />Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?<br /><br />In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />3:45: How to confidently approach totally sober<br /><br />5:32: Why your sober, authentic self is your MOST attractive, confident you<br /><br />9:30: How sober dating makes it EASIER for you to make charming moves that women enjoy<br /><br />11:45: How to feel confident as soon as you walk into a social venue<br /><br />16:00: The Hinge prompt you can use today to get a LOT more matches<br /><br />20:40: How to talk about your sobriety with a woman in an honest, attractive way<br /><br />PLUS: A LOT of fun first-date ideas that don’t involve drinking.<br /><br />Are you ready to say goodbye to your former wingmen (Johnnie, Jack and Bud) and instead attract women by being your best, most authentic and SOBER self?<br /><br />(WARNING: You MIGHT get drunk on your own awesomeness.) Listen now!<br /><br />ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You don't need liquid courage to approach women or make moves. You need ACTUAL courage. And unlike the liquid kind, courage is free, healthy and unlimited." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:12 - Breaking the Habit: Conquering Drinking on Dates<br />04:19 - Sobriety and Approaching Women: Overcoming Challenges<br />09:19 - Better Results, Sober Approaches: Unlocking Confidence<br />15:55 - Boosting Confidence and Sobriety: Approaching Women with Purpose<br />18:46 - Enhancing Matches: Non-Alcoholic Date Planning Tips<br />22:25 - Hinge Tips: Incorporating Sobriety and Trends<br />25:46 - Catering to Her Preferences: Planning a Wine-Loving Date<br />31:16 - Handling Dating Questions with Diplomacy<br />33:17 - Embracing Fear, Taking Romantic Risks, and Building Empathy<br />37:24 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2264</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingcoach,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,men,onlinedating,relationships,soberdating,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Sober Dating, Part 1: How I (Finally!) Quit Drinking, and How YOU Can Confidently Date without Booze</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/sober-dating-part-1-how-i-finally-quit-drinking-and-how-you-can-confidently-date-without-booze/</link><description><![CDATA[Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he finally became “a booze-free bad-ass.” If you’re a guy who wants to meet and date wonderful women and do it sober, this episode is for you.Or if you have ANY addiction that’s hurting your love life—alcohol, porn, pills, food—listen NOW, so you can slay the dragon of dependency and date with confidence.Are you ready to STOP using substances and START getting “drunk” on your own AUTHENTIC awesomeness... and find your soulmate? Listen now!<br /><br />A SPECIAL SHOUT-OUT FROM CONNELL TO THE FOLLOWING AMAZING PEOPLE, WHOSE INSPIRING PODCASTS PROMOTE THE LIFE CHANGING POWER OF SOBRIETY:<br /><br />DAX SHEPARD, ARMCHAIR EXPERT<br /><a href="https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods</a><br /><br />NATE KELLY, THE SOBRIETY DIARIES<br /><a href="https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries</a><br /><br />SHANE RAMER, THAT SOBER GUY<br /><a href="https://www.thatsoberguy.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thatsoberguy.com/</a><br /><br />JAMES SWANWICK, ALCOHOL-FREE LIFESTYLE<br /><a href="https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage</a><br /><br />ANDREW HUBERMAN, HUBERMAN LAB<br /><a href="https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast</a><br /><br /><br />ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A<br />FREE CALL WITH CONNELL:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Take it from a sober dater: You don't need alcohol to confidently connect with women. You can get 'drunk' on your own authentic awesomeness."<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:41 - Conquering Addictions: Alcohol and Pornography<br />03:18 - Life Implications: Dating Coach Grapples with Alcohol Dependence<br />09:03 - The Downside of Indulgence: Body Changes and Erectile Dysfunction<br />12:35 - Shifting Perspectives: Alcohol Recognized as Poison<br />15:50 - Impending Perils: The Future Impact of Harmful Behaviors<br />19:11 - Joy in Change: Celebrating Sobriety and Weight Loss at Birthday<br />23:19 - A Sober Night Out: Reclaiming Confidence Without Alcohol<br />26:41 - Empowering Change: Assisting Men Towards Alcohol Independence<br />30:04 - The Reality Check: Analyzing Addiction Costs and Recovery Benefits<br />31:21 - Substitute with Health: Replacing Harmful Habits with Beneficial Alternatives<br />34:25 - Awaiting Your Authentic Self: Your Dream Girl's Expectations<br />34:39 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57441482</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Oct 2023 09:30:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57441482/episode_57.mp3" length="50362886" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1h2EtZjCazdL2dyuuNnJkgOsfi35Zdnb4/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he finally became “a booze-free bad-ass.” If you’re a guy who wants to meet and date wonderful women and do it sober, this episode is for you.Or if you have ANY addiction that’s hurting your love life—alcohol, porn, pills, food—listen NOW, so you can slay the dragon of dependency and date with confidence.Are you ready to STOP using substances and START getting “drunk” on your own AUTHENTIC awesomeness... and find your soulmate? Listen now!<br /><br />A SPECIAL SHOUT-OUT FROM CONNELL TO THE FOLLOWING AMAZING PEOPLE, WHOSE INSPIRING PODCASTS PROMOTE THE LIFE CHANGING POWER OF SOBRIETY:<br /><br />DAX SHEPARD, ARMCHAIR EXPERT<br /><a href="https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods</a><br /><br />NATE KELLY, THE SOBRIETY DIARIES<br /><a href="https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries</a><br /><br />SHANE RAMER, THAT SOBER GUY<br /><a href="https://www.thatsoberguy.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.thatsoberguy.com/</a><br /><br />JAMES SWANWICK, ALCOHOL-FREE LIFESTYLE<br /><a href="https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage</a><br /><br />ANDREW HUBERMAN, HUBERMAN LAB<br /><a href="https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast</a><br /><br /><br />ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A<br />FREE CALL WITH CONNELL:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Take it from a sober dater: You don't need alcohol to confidently connect with women. You can get 'drunk' on your own authentic awesomeness."<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:41 - Conquering Addictions: Alcohol and Pornography<br />03:18 - Life Implications: Dating Coach Grapples with Alcohol Dependence<br />09:03 - The Downside of Indulgence: Body Changes and Erectile Dysfunction<br />12:35 - Shifting Perspectives: Alcohol Recognized as Poison<br />15:50 - Impending Perils: The Future Impact of Harmful Behaviors<br />19:11 - Joy in Change: Celebrating Sobriety and Weight Loss at Birthday<br />23:19 - A Sober Night Out: Reclaiming Confidence Without Alcohol<br />26:41 - Empowering Change: Assisting Men Towards Alcohol Independence<br />30:04 - The Reality Check: Analyzing Addiction Costs and Recovery...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2099</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,firstdates,flirting,love,men,onlinedating,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15 Dating Tips in 15 Minutes!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/15-dating-tips-in-15-minutes/</link><description><![CDATA[We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.<br /><br />So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br />"Approaching women is NOT creepy, as long as you do it with authenticity and good intentions."<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:12 - Flirting Mastery: Immediate Approaches<br />04:31 - Genuine Attraction: Key to Connection<br />05:39 - Standing Out in the Crowd: Authentic Compliments that Elevate Your Charm<br />09:35 - The Art of Persistence: How the 3-Times Rule Facilitates Connection<br />11:52 - Key Strategies for Maintaining Engaging Conversation<br />12:55 - Authenticity: Lower Expectations, Share Stories<br />16:35 - Decoding Women's Signals: Assertive Approaches<br />17:39 - First Interaction: Nervous Yet Cool<br />20:48 - Joining Groups: Attract through Shared Interests<br />24:37 - Conversation Skills: Humor, Wit, and Authenticity<br />27:47 - Free Consultation: Dating Life Transformation<br />28:09 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57367957</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2023 13:36:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57367957/episode_56.mp3" length="40991942" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1wVZYs8jQfpq5t4B745SLowBJlsc4T-Kn/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…

How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.<br /><br />So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><br />Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br />"Approaching women is NOT creepy, as long as you do it with authenticity and good intentions."<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:12 - Flirting Mastery: Immediate Approaches<br />04:31 - Genuine Attraction: Key to Connection<br />05:39 - Standing Out in the Crowd: Authentic Compliments that Elevate Your Charm<br />09:35 - The Art of Persistence: How the 3-Times Rule Facilitates Connection<br />11:52 - Key Strategies for Maintaining Engaging Conversation<br />12:55 - Authenticity: Lower Expectations, Share Stories<br />16:35 - Decoding Women's Signals: Assertive Approaches<br />17:39 - First Interaction: Nervous Yet Cool<br />20:48 - Joining Groups: Attract through Shared Interests<br />24:37 - Conversation Skills: Humor, Wit, and Authenticity<br />27:47 - Free Consultation: Dating Life Transformation<br />28:09 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1708</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingcoach,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,men,onlinedating,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5 Ways to Be More FUN with Women and Escape the Friend Zone</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-ways-to-be-more-fun-with-women-and-escape-the-friend-zone--57296079</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.<br /><br />So let’s amp up the fun factor.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations WAY more fun. Also, he’ll give you his No. 1 favorite game to play on a date, and it’s sure to get you both laughing and having a blast.<br /><br />It’s time you STOP hearing women say “I just didn’t feel a spark” and START hearing them say, “Last night was fun! When can we go out again?” Listen now, because Cyndi Lauper was right: “Girls just wanna have fun.”<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b><br /></b>Quotes<br /><br />"Cyndi Lauper was right: Girls just wanna have fun. If she has fun with you on a date, she'll want to see you again."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:45 - Creating Laughter and Fun for Unforgettable Moments<br />03:35 - Mastering the Art of Making Dates More Enjoyable<br />08:13 - Success Through a Playful Approach<br />12:25 - Focusing on Positivity and Meaningful Conversations<br />14:34 - Unlocking Romance Through Emotions and Passions<br />18:20 - From Boring to Exciting: The Power of Fun Topics<br />22:45 - Choosing Enjoyable First Date Activities<br />26:50 - Sparking Conversations with Fun First Date Questions<br />30:01 - The '5 Questions Game: Getting It All Wrong<br />33:46 - The Art of Pretending and Posing Questions<br />35:09 - Turning the Tables: Trick Questions and Victory<br />39:17 - Revealing Nature Through Trick Questions<br />40:40 - Fun Questions and Game Recommendations<br />41:23 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57296079</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57296079/episode_55.mp3" length="60054662" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.<br /><br />So let’s amp up the fun factor.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations WAY more fun. Also, he’ll give you his No. 1 favorite game to play on a date, and it’s sure to get you both laughing and having a blast.<br /><br />It’s time you STOP hearing women say “I just didn’t feel a spark” and START hearing them say, “Last night was fun! When can we go out again?” Listen now, because Cyndi Lauper was right: “Girls just wanna have fun.”<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><b><br /></b>Quotes<br /><br />"Cyndi Lauper was right: Girls just wanna have fun. If she has fun with you on a date, she'll want to see you again."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:45 - Creating Laughter and Fun for Unforgettable Moments<br />03:35 - Mastering the Art of Making Dates More Enjoyable<br />08:13 - Success Through a Playful Approach<br />12:25 - Focusing on Positivity and Meaningful Conversations<br />14:34 - Unlocking Romance Through Emotions and Passions<br />18:20 - From Boring to Exciting: The Power of Fun Topics<br />22:45 - Choosing Enjoyable First Date Activities<br />26:50 - Sparking Conversations with Fun First Date Questions<br />30:01 - The '5 Questions Game: Getting It All Wrong<br />33:46 - The Art of Pretending and Posing Questions<br />35:09 - Turning the Tables: Trick Questions and Victory<br />39:17 - Revealing Nature Through Trick Questions<br />40:40 - Fun Questions and Game Recommendations<br />41:23 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2502</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>3 Dreaded First-Date Mistakes to Avoid, and What to Do Instead</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/3-dreaded-first-date-mistakes-to-avoid-and-what-to-do-instead/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?<br />Let’s fix this!<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went from the Friend Zone on first dates to FIREWORKS. (Your jaw will drop.)<br /><br />Listen now, so you can start having fun, sexy, connected first dates… and do it as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"There's nothing wrong with fear, but there's something very wrong with cowardice. Sculpt a dating life of authenticity and courage, no cowardice allowed." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:40 - From Struggles to Coaching: Connell's Dating Journey<br />03:53 - Busting First Date Myths: The Quest for Truth<br />05:19 - Flirting Dos and Don'ts: Avoiding Surprises<br />06:06 - Bill's Journey: Overcoming the First Date Struggle<br />07:11 - Transforming Your Dating Life with Connell's Coaching<br />10:22 - First Kiss Realizations: Making Her Feel Desirable<br />11:01 - Deciphering Women's Desires: A Constant Interest<br />12:39 - Embracing Courage: Transforming Dating Fears<br />18:55 - The First Kiss and Deeper Connections<br />20:18 - Debunking First Date Myths: Quick Insights<br />24:05 - Impressing Women with Authenticity: The Key to Success<br />24:54 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57214303</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Oct 2023 09:35:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57214303/episode_54.mp3" length="36324038" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1u57zwh0X2u6LX1_BYCa-Twuph1sx7Znk/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?
Let’s fix this!

In...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?<br />Let’s fix this!<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went from the Friend Zone on first dates to FIREWORKS. (Your jaw will drop.)<br /><br />Listen now, so you can start having fun, sexy, connected first dates… and do it as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"There's nothing wrong with fear, but there's something very wrong with cowardice. Sculpt a dating life of authenticity and courage, no cowardice allowed." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:40 - From Struggles to Coaching: Connell's Dating Journey<br />03:53 - Busting First Date Myths: The Quest for Truth<br />05:19 - Flirting Dos and Don'ts: Avoiding Surprises<br />06:06 - Bill's Journey: Overcoming the First Date Struggle<br />07:11 - Transforming Your Dating Life with Connell's Coaching<br />10:22 - First Kiss Realizations: Making Her Feel Desirable<br />11:01 - Deciphering Women's Desires: A Constant Interest<br />12:39 - Embracing Courage: Transforming Dating Fears<br />18:55 - The First Kiss and Deeper Connections<br />20:18 - Debunking First Date Myths: Quick Insights<br />24:05 - Impressing Women with Authenticity: The Key to Success<br />24:54 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1514</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,datingadvice,datingmistakes,datingmyths,firstdate,love,onlinedating,onlineflirting,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>For Dating Confidence, Unleash the Power of Radical Authenticity</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/for-dating-confidence-unleash-the-power-of-radical-authenticity/</link><description><![CDATA[You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?<br />You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.<br />Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!<br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radical Authenticity. It’s all about awakening your most confident, attractive self, as you date with total integrity… and zero creepy “pickup” tricks. It’s how to make sparks fly with wonderful women.<br /><br />Listen now, and unlock the power of Radical Authenticity…so you can find your dream girlfriend!<br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"By being Radically Authentic with women, you become more confident, and you create genuine trust and connection." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Intro<br />00:56 - Authenticity: The Key to Dating Success<br />04:51 - From Awkward Jokes to Confidence: Emulating Seinfeld's George<br />05:48 - Authentic Dating: Exploring the 'Opposite' Approach<br />07:09 - Building Confidence: Attracting Your Dream Girlfriend<br />10:22 - Unleashing Dad Jokes and Cheeky Charm in Dating<br />11:09 - Bar Adventures: Teasing, Joking, and Kissing<br />15:11 - Embracing Authentic Moments: Not About Ego<br />24:42 - The Value of Being True to Yourself: A Formula for Success<br />13:01 - A 10-Minute Connection: The Power of Confidence<br />18:57 - Radical Authenticity: Attracting Women with Confidence<br />22:24 - Embracing Authenticity: Dropping the Masks in Dating<br />25:23 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57181543</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2023 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57181543/episode_53.mp3" length="38250758" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ttHYmnmmPAalA_IYgfV696T0NKy9YZNv/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?
You’re...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?<br />You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.<br />Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!<br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radical Authenticity. It’s all about awakening your most confident, attractive self, as you date with total integrity… and zero creepy “pickup” tricks. It’s how to make sparks fly with wonderful women.<br /><br />Listen now, and unlock the power of Radical Authenticity…so you can find your dream girlfriend!<br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"By being Radically Authentic with women, you become more confident, and you create genuine trust and connection." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Intro<br />00:56 - Authenticity: The Key to Dating Success<br />04:51 - From Awkward Jokes to Confidence: Emulating Seinfeld's George<br />05:48 - Authentic Dating: Exploring the 'Opposite' Approach<br />07:09 - Building Confidence: Attracting Your Dream Girlfriend<br />10:22 - Unleashing Dad Jokes and Cheeky Charm in Dating<br />11:09 - Bar Adventures: Teasing, Joking, and Kissing<br />15:11 - Embracing Authentic Moments: Not About Ego<br />24:42 - The Value of Being True to Yourself: A Formula for Success<br />13:01 - A 10-Minute Connection: The Power of Confidence<br />18:57 - Radical Authenticity: Attracting Women with Confidence<br />22:24 - Embracing Authenticity: Dropping the Masks in Dating<br />25:23 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1594</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,courting,dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,intimacy,love,men,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Use these 5 Escalation Secrets to Escape the Dreaded Friend Zone</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/use-these-5-escalation-secrets-to-escape-the-dreaded-friend-zone/</link><description><![CDATA[You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.<br />Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating<br />04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey<br />08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins<br />11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation<br />13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators<br />16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating<br />19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices<br />22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation<br />24:35 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57181477</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Oct 2023 15:54:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57181477/episode_52.mp3" length="35873606" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1duyQVhJ_UcByAVzjeUK45rxh_Pl6HlGQ/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.<br />Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.<br /><br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating<br />04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey<br />08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins<br />11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation<br />13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators<br />16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating<br />19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices<br />22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation<br />24:35 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1495</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,dating,datingadvice,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,menwomen,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Become a Man of Authentic Action… and Attract Your Soulmate</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-become-a-man-of-authentic-action-and-attract-your-soulmate/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud?<br />Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode.<br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action and getting real dating momentum, so you can do things like approach attractive women, make moves on dates, and flirt with charm and confidence.<br />Listen now, and become a Man of Authentic Action.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"For great dating results, you need to consume less information and take more action. As Shakespeare wrote, action is eloquence."-Connell Barrett’<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:35 - Dating Game Mastery: Turning Conversations into Dates<br />03:42 - The Overrated Value of Information in Attraction<br />04:33 - Content vs. Courage: Navigating the Dating Dilemma<br />05:18 - Paul's Challenge: Moving from Consumption to Action<br />09:51 - Overcoming the 'Perfect Approach' Paralysis<br />13:29 - Embracing the 'A+ Approach' Mantra<br />14:56 - Dating Breakthroughs: Authentic Action and Interaction<br />19:24 - Meet Gerald: The Diligent Convention Note-Taker<br />21:21 - Conquering Excuses and Brain Sabotage<br />23:47 - Choosing Action Over Fear: Your Journey to Romance<br />25:04 - How My First Approach Changed Everything<br />25:45 - From Fear to Connection: Overcoming and Taking Action<br />27:04 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57085629</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Oct 2023 09:40:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57085629/episode_51.mp3" length="39449975" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1P2D3dWl9Lj_a11a4aVCY1_-lujpTLrGq/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud?<br />Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode.<br />In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action and getting real dating momentum, so you can do things like approach attractive women, make moves on dates, and flirt with charm and confidence.<br />Listen now, and become a Man of Authentic Action.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"For great dating results, you need to consume less information and take more action. As Shakespeare wrote, action is eloquence."-Connell Barrett’<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:35 - Dating Game Mastery: Turning Conversations into Dates<br />03:42 - The Overrated Value of Information in Attraction<br />04:33 - Content vs. Courage: Navigating the Dating Dilemma<br />05:18 - Paul's Challenge: Moving from Consumption to Action<br />09:51 - Overcoming the 'Perfect Approach' Paralysis<br />13:29 - Embracing the 'A+ Approach' Mantra<br />14:56 - Dating Breakthroughs: Authentic Action and Interaction<br />19:24 - Meet Gerald: The Diligent Convention Note-Taker<br />21:21 - Conquering Excuses and Brain Sabotage<br />23:47 - Choosing Action Over Fear: Your Journey to Romance<br />25:04 - How My First Approach Changed Everything<br />25:45 - From Fear to Connection: Overcoming and Taking Action<br />27:04 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1644</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,courting,dating,datingadvice,firstdates,intimacy,love,relationship</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Power of Presence: 6 Ways to Get Out of Your Head and Flirt with Charm</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-power-of-presence-6-ways-to-get-out-of-your-head-and-flirt-with-charm/</link><description><![CDATA[You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.<br /><br />Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of your head and into the present moment… so you can have fun, flirty dates and stimulating conversations.<br /><br />Listen now, and give her a present: your presence!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Lower the conversational bar when talking to women. You're just chatting, not doing standup comedy or a TED Talk." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:12 - The Science of Staying in the Moment<br />00:43 - Overcoming Overthinking When Talking to Women<br />03:06 - Impress Women on Dates with Confidence<br />08:37 - Simplify: Uncovering Your Natural Wit<br />11:10 - Authentic Conversations: Lowering the Pressure and Being Yourself<br />15:11 - Promote Positivity: Avoid Sharing Negative Thoughts and Feelings<br />19:44 - Engaging Conversation: Exploring the University of Texas<br />20:54 - Making Connections: The Impact of Active Listening<br />23:10 - Focus on Her Happiness in Dating<br />26:52 - Elevate Conversations with Backup Topics<br />28:08 - The Comfort of a Conversation Safety Net<br />31:17 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56995736</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Oct 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56995736/final_audio.mp3" length="46401158" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yWAqTpfG78Va-ftsnNbxi-r1ltJ4tXPB/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.<br /><br />Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of your head and into the present moment… so you can have fun, flirty dates and stimulating conversations.<br /><br />Listen now, and give her a present: your presence!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Lower the conversational bar when talking to women. You're just chatting, not doing standup comedy or a TED Talk." -Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:12 - The Science of Staying in the Moment<br />00:43 - Overcoming Overthinking When Talking to Women<br />03:06 - Impress Women on Dates with Confidence<br />08:37 - Simplify: Uncovering Your Natural Wit<br />11:10 - Authentic Conversations: Lowering the Pressure and Being Yourself<br />15:11 - Promote Positivity: Avoid Sharing Negative Thoughts and Feelings<br />19:44 - Engaging Conversation: Exploring the University of Texas<br />20:54 - Making Connections: The Impact of Active Listening<br />23:10 - Focus on Her Happiness in Dating<br />26:52 - Elevate Conversations with Backup Topics<br />28:08 - The Comfort of a Conversation Safety Net<br />31:17 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1934</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>courting,dating,datingadvice,datingtips,flirting,intimacy,love,menandwomen,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do THIS to Make Dating a Lot Less Painful and a Lot More Fun</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-this-to-make-dating-a-lot-less-painful-and-a-lot-more-fun--56942874</link><description><![CDATA[Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?<br />Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.<br />Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating dating, and start having more fun, more confidence, and more great dates.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Stop judging yourself. Be kind. With every date, you either win or you learn. And learning will lead you to love."-Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />03:19 - Flipping the Coin of Self-Assessment in Dating Interactions<br />04:38 - The Power of Positive Self-Assessment in Dating<br />06:09 - Confronting the Inner Critic: Battling Self-Judgment in Dating<br />07:30 - Boost Your Confidence and Improve Your Dating Life<br />11:45 - Conquering Self-Doubt: How I Overcame My Inner Critic in Dating<br />12:19 - One Game-Changing Tip for More Genuine Connections<br />15:18 - The Value of Self-Assessment: Unearthing Genuine Emotions<br />16:34 - Cultivating Positive Self-Perception in Dating<br />19:58 - Constructive Self-Assessment: A Crucial Lesson in Dating<br />22:33 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56942874</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2023 10:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56942874/episode_49.mp3" length="32920454" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MYhYznIBUMpWB6MmSyfQVQ8736QtnbVv/edit?usp=drive_link&amp;amp;ouid=118298976771582511945&amp;amp;rtpof=true&amp;amp;sd=true" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?
Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?<br />Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.<br />Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating dating, and start having more fun, more confidence, and more great dates.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Stop judging yourself. Be kind. With every date, you either win or you learn. And learning will lead you to love."-Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />03:19 - Flipping the Coin of Self-Assessment in Dating Interactions<br />04:38 - The Power of Positive Self-Assessment in Dating<br />06:09 - Confronting the Inner Critic: Battling Self-Judgment in Dating<br />07:30 - Boost Your Confidence and Improve Your Dating Life<br />11:45 - Conquering Self-Doubt: How I Overcame My Inner Critic in Dating<br />12:19 - One Game-Changing Tip for More Genuine Connections<br />15:18 - The Value of Self-Assessment: Unearthing Genuine Emotions<br />16:34 - Cultivating Positive Self-Perception in Dating<br />19:58 - Constructive Self-Assessment: A Crucial Lesson in Dating<br />22:33 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1372</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingtips,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Magic Move to Get Quality Online-Dating Matches</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-magic-move-to-get-quality-online-dating-matches/</link><description><![CDATA[Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.<br />It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.<br /><br />In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"No fish photos allowed on your dating profile. She wants to date you, not the captain from 'Jaws."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:28 - Solving Online Dating Struggles: Tips and Tricks<br />05:59 - From Desperation to One Match: A Journey<br />09:03 - Rock Bottom as a Turning Point<br />09:52 - The Marketing Mindset: How Online Dating Really Works<br />11:16 - Dating App Gender Imbalance: Challenges for Men<br />15:06 - Southwest Airlines' Transparency and Marketing Insights<br />17:13 - Cracking the Code: How Women Navigate Dating Apps<br />19:43 - Tinder Filters: Women's Perspective<br />20:30 - Tinder Tips: Engaging with Photos and Bio<br />24:36 - Mastering Online Dating: The Power of Portraits<br />28:42 - Elevating Your Profile: Professional Dating Portraits<br />29:53 - Dress for Success: Outfit Choices in Online Dating<br />31:39 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56942752</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Sep 2023 13:59:12 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56942752/episode_48.mp3" length="46058438" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1mkrrTj8rPPkmSTu1yWwvkTNqMvxbmJCK/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.
It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.<br />It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.<br /><br />In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"No fish photos allowed on your dating profile. She wants to date you, not the captain from 'Jaws."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:28 - Solving Online Dating Struggles: Tips and Tricks<br />05:59 - From Desperation to One Match: A Journey<br />09:03 - Rock Bottom as a Turning Point<br />09:52 - The Marketing Mindset: How Online Dating Really Works<br />11:16 - Dating App Gender Imbalance: Challenges for Men<br />15:06 - Southwest Airlines' Transparency and Marketing Insights<br />17:13 - Cracking the Code: How Women Navigate Dating Apps<br />19:43 - Tinder Filters: Women's Perspective<br />20:30 - Tinder Tips: Engaging with Photos and Bio<br />24:36 - Mastering Online Dating: The Power of Portraits<br />28:42 - Elevating Your Profile: Professional Dating Portraits<br />29:53 - Dress for Success: Outfit Choices in Online Dating<br />31:39 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1919</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingapps,datingtips,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Use these 5 Moves for Great First Dates</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/use-these-5-moves-for-great-first-dates--56869435</link><description><![CDATA[First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…<br /><br />Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.<br /><br />Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Good texts before a date are like movie trailers -- they build buzz and get her excited for the main event."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:55 - Transforming Lackluster First Dates into Spark-Filled Connections<br />04:19 - Unlocking the Art of Flirty Texting Before Your First Date<br />08:37 - Creating Excitement with Fun and Engaging Texts<br />11:45 - Building Anticipation: Preparing Her for a Memorable Date<br />14:26 - Light-hearted Delays: Turning Lateness into Playful Banter<br />16:29 - From Jackass to Awesome: How Vulnerable Stories Win Hearts<br />19:25 - "Opening Hearts: The Magic of Raw and Real Storytelling<br />23:10 - Fun and Connection: Games That Elevate First Dates<br />24:51 - The Magic of Eye Contact: Staring Contests and Romance<br />27:31 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56869435</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2023 09:20:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56869435/final_audio.mp3" length="40270214" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TLpir246l7U2ef9np3zyRWIt_8U1508o/edit?usp=drive_link&amp;amp;ouid=115682862270467154527&amp;amp;rtpof=true&amp;amp;sd=true" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…

Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…<br /><br />Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.<br /><br />Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Good texts before a date are like movie trailers -- they build buzz and get her excited for the main event."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:55 - Transforming Lackluster First Dates into Spark-Filled Connections<br />04:19 - Unlocking the Art of Flirty Texting Before Your First Date<br />08:37 - Creating Excitement with Fun and Engaging Texts<br />11:45 - Building Anticipation: Preparing Her for a Memorable Date<br />14:26 - Light-hearted Delays: Turning Lateness into Playful Banter<br />16:29 - From Jackass to Awesome: How Vulnerable Stories Win Hearts<br />19:25 - "Opening Hearts: The Magic of Raw and Real Storytelling<br />23:10 - Fun and Connection: Games That Elevate First Dates<br />24:51 - The Magic of Eye Contact: Staring Contests and Romance<br />27:31 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1678</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedatingapp,onlinedatingtips</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Become a Man of Action</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-become-a-man-of-action/</link><description><![CDATA[You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.<br /><br />You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.<br /><br />It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells you how to harness the power of decisive action, so that you can make the kind of bold, attractive moves that women love.<br /><br />Listen now to become a man of action… and find your future girlfriend!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"To go from feeling lonely to finding love, use your secret weapon: decisive, courageous action"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:20 - The Power of Decision: Overcoming Uncomfortable Actions<br />04:20 - Encouraging the Leap into Uncomfortable Territory<br />08:37 - The Power of Taking That First Step: James' Success Story<br />11:29 - James' Approach: Facing Discomfort Head-On<br />14:35 - Conquering Approach Anxiety for Fearless Dating<br />19:28 - How I Went from Shying Away to Taking Romantic Risks<br />22:49 - Redefining Dating: Stepping Up to Take Risks<br />24:52 - Dancing with Confidence: A Fearless Dating Experiment<br />26:22 - Fearless Dating: Making Decisions That Change Everything<br />28:46 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56800646</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2023 09:45:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56800646/final_audio.mp3" length="41897414" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1HD7U18LMkJLZ9swNL8IDZW1SOSWeudB-/edit?usp=drive_link&amp;amp;ouid=118298976771582511945&amp;amp;rtpof=true&amp;amp;sd=true" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.

You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.<br /><br />You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.<br /><br />It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells you how to harness the power of decisive action, so that you can make the kind of bold, attractive moves that women love.<br /><br />Listen now to become a man of action… and find your future girlfriend!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"To go from feeling lonely to finding love, use your secret weapon: decisive, courageous action"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:20 - The Power of Decision: Overcoming Uncomfortable Actions<br />04:20 - Encouraging the Leap into Uncomfortable Territory<br />08:37 - The Power of Taking That First Step: James' Success Story<br />11:29 - James' Approach: Facing Discomfort Head-On<br />14:35 - Conquering Approach Anxiety for Fearless Dating<br />19:28 - How I Went from Shying Away to Taking Romantic Risks<br />22:49 - Redefining Dating: Stepping Up to Take Risks<br />24:52 - Dancing with Confidence: A Fearless Dating Experiment<br />26:22 - Fearless Dating: Making Decisions That Change Everything<br />28:46 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1746</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingcoach,datingtransformation,firstdateadvice,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Lip Service: 7 Ways to Confidently Go for the First Kiss</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/lip-service-7-ways-to-confidently-go-for-the-first-kiss/</link><description><![CDATA[It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!<br /><br />And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.<br /><br />No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 7 tested ways to confidently go for—and get!—that first kiss with a woman, in a romantic way she’ll love. Plus, he reveals how to know when you have the green light make your move, as a true gentleman.<br /><br />If you want your next date to end with a steamy make-out, then listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />“You likely won't lose her interest by going for a kiss and not getting it. You WILL lose if you want to kiss her but you let fear stop you from trying." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 – Introduction<br />01:46 - The First Kiss: Key to Progressing Romantically<br />03:26 - The Magic of First Kiss Moments in Dating<br />07:06 - Overcoming Doubt and Finding the Confidence to Kiss<br />08:54 - Regret and Redemption: Making Up for Missed Moments<br />12:19 - Turning Sparks into Flames: The First Kiss Strategy<br />14:44 - Reading Her Signals: When to Go for the Kiss<br />17:56 - Making the Right Move: When to Lean In<br />20:39 - Boldness Pays Off: The Impact of a Confident Kiss<br />25:19 - Going After What You Want: Doug's First Kiss Story<br />35:12 - Avoiding the Annoying Make-Out Couple Trap<br />37:16 - Balancing Passion and Temptation: The Kiss Frequency<br />39:07 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56800599</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 09:35:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56800599/final_audio.mp3" length="56793926" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RjCoH2G_b5UW9JrE08aeY3a-zcEqC2aeVL6nDOrXPrM/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!<br /><br />And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.<br /><br />No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 7 tested ways to confidently go for—and get!—that first kiss with a woman, in a romantic way she’ll love. Plus, he reveals how to know when you have the green light make your move, as a true gentleman.<br /><br />If you want your next date to end with a steamy make-out, then listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />“You likely won't lose her interest by going for a kiss and not getting it. You WILL lose if you want to kiss her but you let fear stop you from trying." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 – Introduction<br />01:46 - The First Kiss: Key to Progressing Romantically<br />03:26 - The Magic of First Kiss Moments in Dating<br />07:06 - Overcoming Doubt and Finding the Confidence to Kiss<br />08:54 - Regret and Redemption: Making Up for Missed Moments<br />12:19 - Turning Sparks into Flames: The First Kiss Strategy<br />14:44 - Reading Her Signals: When to Go for the Kiss<br />17:56 - Making the Right Move: When to Lean In<br />20:39 - Boldness Pays Off: The Impact of a Confident Kiss<br />25:19 - Going After What You Want: Doug's First Kiss Story<br />35:12 - Avoiding the Annoying Make-Out Couple Trap<br />37:16 - Balancing Passion and Temptation: The Kiss Frequency<br />39:07 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2367</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,datin,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Charm Beautiful Women: 7 Simple Flirting Moves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-charm-beautiful-women-7-simple-flirting-moves--56717294</link><description><![CDATA[There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.<br /><br />Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whether you’re on a first date, chatting at a social event, or texting your latest crush. Tired of getting stuck in the Friend Zone? Listen now and get in the Flirting Zone!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Speak your deepest, most honest truth. Women love it when a man has the courage to be authentic." - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 – Introduction<br />01:06 - Attraction Mastery: Man to Woman Communication<br />03:21 - Navigating the Friend-to-Friend Channel on Dates<br />07:04 - Breaking Free from Transactional Interactions<br />10:06 - Unexpected Charm: When Wit Takes the Lead<br />14:01 - The Magic of Emotional Nakedness in Dating<br />18:10 - Playful Banter: Flipping the Seduction Script<br />22:02 - The Charismatic Pathway: Using Stories to Connect<br />24:52 - First Date Gold: Choosing the Right Embarrassing Story<br />26:53 - Your Best Dating Weapon: Self-Deprecating Stories<br />28:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56717294</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Sep 2023 09:55:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56717294/episode_44.mp3" length="41061638" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.<br /><br />Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whether you’re on a first date, chatting at a social event, or texting your latest crush. Tired of getting stuck in the Friend Zone? Listen now and get in the Flirting Zone!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Speak your deepest, most honest truth. Women love it when a man has the courage to be authentic." - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 – Introduction<br />01:06 - Attraction Mastery: Man to Woman Communication<br />03:21 - Navigating the Friend-to-Friend Channel on Dates<br />07:04 - Breaking Free from Transactional Interactions<br />10:06 - Unexpected Charm: When Wit Takes the Lead<br />14:01 - The Magic of Emotional Nakedness in Dating<br />18:10 - Playful Banter: Flipping the Seduction Script<br />22:02 - The Charismatic Pathway: Using Stories to Connect<br />24:52 - First Date Gold: Choosing the Right Embarrassing Story<br />26:53 - Your Best Dating Weapon: Self-Deprecating Stories<br />28:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1711</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Use the “3 Times Rule” and Stop Getting Ghosted</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/use-the-3-times-rule-and-stop-getting-ghosted/</link><description><![CDATA[So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.<br /><br />The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a girl to go from ghosting you to dating. So listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"The 3 Times Rule will get attractive women to stop ghosting you and to start chasing you."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:01 - Ending Ghosting and Getting More Dates<br />06:59 - Navigating Rejection with Resilience in the Dating Scene<br />08:41 - Turning Setbacks into Comebacks<br />13:23 - The Art of Fun Approaching: A Story of Resilience<br />17:54 - The Crucial Role of Resilience in Dating and Life<br />20:02 - Gerald's Resilience: From Flat to Flirty<br />22:53 - Overcoming Addiction: A Client's Journey to Fitness<br />27:39 - Texting Challenges: Resilience and Charm in Dating<br />34:39 - The 'Three Strikes' Rule: Mastering Dating Persistence<br />37:14 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56717264</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Sep 2023 09:50:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56717264/episode_43.mp3" length="54068294" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/19DaJLKVH3U3rLWiH_u145WH_JKdD8hLv_3EWcuVi7tk/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.<br /><br />The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a girl to go from ghosting you to dating. So listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"The 3 Times Rule will get attractive women to stop ghosting you and to start chasing you."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:01 - Ending Ghosting and Getting More Dates<br />06:59 - Navigating Rejection with Resilience in the Dating Scene<br />08:41 - Turning Setbacks into Comebacks<br />13:23 - The Art of Fun Approaching: A Story of Resilience<br />17:54 - The Crucial Role of Resilience in Dating and Life<br />20:02 - Gerald's Resilience: From Flat to Flirty<br />22:53 - Overcoming Addiction: A Client's Journey to Fitness<br />27:39 - Texting Challenges: Resilience and Charm in Dating<br />34:39 - The 'Three Strikes' Rule: Mastering Dating Persistence<br />37:14 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2253</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedatingtips,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Are You Man Enough to Be Feminine? How to Truly Connect with Women</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/are-you-man-enough-to-be-feminine-how-to-truly-connect-with-women/</link><description><![CDATA[You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.<br /><br />Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may be trapped in, so you can be free to express your most authentic, masculine and also feminine self.<br /><br />It’s time to ignore toxic “pickup” creeps and embrace your best, most authentic self. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />“Vulnerability is being so unwilling to NOT look cool that a woman thinks, 'Wow, this guy is SO cool!' - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:20 - Introduction<br />03:03 - How Masculine and Feminine Energies Fuel Attraction<br />07:07 - The Dream Combo: Being Strong Yet Soft in Love and Life<br />09:43 - The Power of Kindness: Why Compassion is the New Sexy<br />12:37 - Beyond the Alpha Male Stereotype<br />14:29 - Why Women Love a Man of Many Sides<br />19:10 - The Courage to Not Care How Manly You Look<br />26:13 - Cultivating Emotional Depth in Relationships<br />21:08 - Coping With Disappointment and Finding Humor in It<br />30:56 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56648631</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2023 09:35:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56648631/final_audio.mp3" length="44995142" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1G9rsoSbNiOjLpXPKgIKZVWw3gFolWCcr/edit" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.<br /><br />Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may be trapped in, so you can be free to express your most authentic, masculine and also feminine self.<br /><br />It’s time to ignore toxic “pickup” creeps and embrace your best, most authentic self. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />“Vulnerability is being so unwilling to NOT look cool that a woman thinks, 'Wow, this guy is SO cool!' - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:20 - Introduction<br />03:03 - How Masculine and Feminine Energies Fuel Attraction<br />07:07 - The Dream Combo: Being Strong Yet Soft in Love and Life<br />09:43 - The Power of Kindness: Why Compassion is the New Sexy<br />12:37 - Beyond the Alpha Male Stereotype<br />14:29 - Why Women Love a Man of Many Sides<br />19:10 - The Courage to Not Care How Manly You Look<br />26:13 - Cultivating Emotional Depth in Relationships<br />21:08 - Coping With Disappointment and Finding Humor in It<br />30:56 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1875</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,loveatfirstsight,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Risky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold Risktaker</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/risky-business-for-instant-confidence-become-a-bold-risktaker/</link><description><![CDATA[Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.<br /><br />Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.<br /><br />Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference<br />07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love<br />08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking<br />09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love<br />11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness<br />13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk<br />15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching<br />18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating<br />21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step<br />23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off<br />26:27 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56626934</guid><pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56626934/final_audio.mp3" length="38552582" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IpViIq7jwy_P4qOpkeKVgJxqK_Tfqn1aZkXU8UgjA_E/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.

Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.<br /><br />Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.<br /><br />Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference<br />07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love<br />08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking<br />09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love<br />11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness<br />13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk<br />15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching<br />18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating<br />21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step<br />23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off<br />26:27 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1607</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>confidence,connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,men,onlinedating,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“How Do I Get More Dates on the Apps?” Your online-dating questions answered!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-do-i-get-more-dates-on-the-apps-your-online-dating-questions-answered/</link><description><![CDATA[It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.<br />Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)<br />It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!<br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity<br />05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection<br />08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking<br />10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap<br />11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps<br />13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out<br />15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline<br />24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number<br />31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona<br />36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating<br />40:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56626852</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Aug 2023 15:20:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56626852/final_audio.mp3" length="58344518" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DesQyUDFUpEDZw-Tfs2bfada_3qyNn9Ql2apYGaV1cI/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.<br />Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)<br />It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!<br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity<br />05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection<br />08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking<br />10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap<br />11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps<br />13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out<br />15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline<br />24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number<br />31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona<br />36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating<br />40:12 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2431</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,flirting,intimacy,love,menandwomen,onlinedating,relationship</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Revealed! The 4 Pillars of Instant Dating Confidence</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/revealed-the-4-pillars-of-instant-dating-confidence/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.<br />Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.<br /><br />Listen now and transform your confidence!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence<br />03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth<br />07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self<br />08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success<br />12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities<br />15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth<br />18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically<br />24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options<br />28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset<br />31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process<br />34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way<br />26:13 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56591730</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Aug 2023 16:56:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56591730/final_audio.mp3" length="52620806" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1XoUSlnjyNMdYyu3meJU-0jtI06qvf-telESBq53_V1s/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.<br />Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.<br /><br />Listen now and transform your confidence!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence<br />03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth<br />07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self<br />08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success<br />12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities<br />15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth<br />18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically<br />24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options<br />28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset<br />31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process<br />34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way<br />26:13 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2193</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingonline,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationship</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Flirt with Women: the Wrong Way (DON’T do this) and the Right Way!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-flirt-with-women-the-wrong-way-dont-do-this-and-the-right-way/</link><description><![CDATA[Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!<br />You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women<br />03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication<br />06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine<br />09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels<br />13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness<br />17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts<br />19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically<br />21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating<br />23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors<br />24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating<br />26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations<br />29:47 - Outro<br /><br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56555557</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Aug 2023 14:40:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56555557/final_audio.mp3" length="43351238" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1eJkS2CzRG2_FC9sz5e-KkGM9UhS0Pn41SHj9M7IrBY8/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!<br />You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women<br />03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication<br />06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine<br />09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels<br />13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness<br />17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts<br />19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically<br />21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating<br />23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors<br />24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating<br />26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations<br />29:47 - Outro<br /><br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1806</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,men,onlinedating,relationships,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>11 Ways to Make Dating Fun &amp; Get More Dates NOW</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-ways-to-make-dating-fun-get-more-dates-now--56477417</link><description><![CDATA[Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?<br /><br />It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56477417</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Aug 2023 15:21:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56477417/episode_37.mp3" length="48011654" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?

It’s true—looking for love can be fun!...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?<br /><br />It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2001</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Ask the Dating Coach! “Help! How Do I Stop Getting Friend Zoned on First Dates?”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-the-dating-coach-help-how-do-i-stop-getting-friend-zoned-on-first-dates--56423096</link><description><![CDATA[We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett <br /><br />"Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell Barret<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters: <br />00:22 - Introduction<br />01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence<br />03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication<br />08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness<br />09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words<br />11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum<br />14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries<br />15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest<br />18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting<br />20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts<br />23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations<br />25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success<br />30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone<br />32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance<br />37:43 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56423096</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2023 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56423096/episode_36.mp3" length="54775046" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett <br /><br />"Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell Barret<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters: <br />00:22 - Introduction<br />01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence<br />03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication<br />08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness<br />09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words<br />11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum<br />14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries<br />15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest<br />18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting<br />20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts<br />23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations<br />25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success<br />30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone<br />32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance<br />37:43 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2282</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Make Her Your Girlfriend, in 7 Easy Moves</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-make-her-your-girlfriend-in-7-easy-moves--56393375</link><description><![CDATA[So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.<br /><br />When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:05 - Introduction<br />05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success<br />06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends<br />07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner<br />09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation<br />10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards<br />17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner<br />18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways<br />20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care<br />24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting<br />27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections<br />28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56393375</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 09:25:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56393375/final_audio.mp3" length="43635206" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.<br /><br />When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:05 - Introduction<br />05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success<br />06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends<br />07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner<br />09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation<br />10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards<br />17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner<br />18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways<br />20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care<br />24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting<br />27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections<br />28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1818</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The Right Way to Approach Women, with Confidence and Charm</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-right-way-to-approach-women-with-confidence-and-charm/</link><description><![CDATA[You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.<br /><br />Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:36 - Introduction<br />01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options<br />03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching<br />09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings<br />11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies<br />12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching<br />14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions<br />16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks<br />19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub<br />21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes<br />22:35 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56356835</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2023 09:25:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56356835/final_audio.mp3" length="38530694" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TWevYzwnuiMxomVvEZPiAxRi7JiMxjUCJ2yzAdLxvp0/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.<br /><br />Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:36 - Introduction<br />01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options<br />03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching<br />09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings<br />11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies<br />12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching<br />14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions<br />16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks<br />19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub<br />21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes<br />22:35 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1606</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingcoach,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>8 Tested Tips to Escape “Interview Mode” on Dates and Create a Connection</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/8-tested-tips-to-escape-interview-mode-on-dates-and-create-a-connection/</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”<br /><br />Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.<br /><br />Listen now, to make your next date great.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode<br />02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions<br />07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date<br />11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates<br />18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions<br />22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences<br />23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales<br />26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates<br />27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions<br />27:53 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56335379</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2023 12:59:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56335379/final_audio.mp3" length="45921350" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/12jIHJJx1Kx_JxOBqeKprYWFa42dFPqohIQ26sR6RAqQ/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”<br /><br />Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.<br /><br />Listen now, to make your next date great.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 - Introduction<br />00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode<br />02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions<br />07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date<br />11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates<br />18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions<br />22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences<br />23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales<br />26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates<br />27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions<br />27:53 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1914</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdate,intimacy,love,relationshipguide,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>The 5 Super Shifts to Gain Confidence and Start Attracting Wonderful Women</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-5-super-shifts-to-gain-confidence-and-start-attracting-wonderful-women/</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.<br /><br />The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!<br /><br />Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:14 - Introduction<br />04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits<br />05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections<br />07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success<br />09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence<br />16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want<br />17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating<br />18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals<br />22:35 - Fear &amp; Failure: The Road to Dating Success<br />24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction<br />27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence<br />28:34 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56215498</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2023 09:15:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56215498/episode_32.mp3" length="41608247" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ozsxX5FkQcYQP0DuuRlrxdqdKT22swp1Zuu2zpVAXvc/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.<br /><br />The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!<br /><br />Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:14 - Introduction<br />04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits<br />05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections<br />07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success<br />09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence<br />16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want<br />17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating<br />18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals<br />22:35 - Fear &amp; Failure: The Road to Dating Success<br />24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction<br />27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence<br />28:34 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1734</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Do THIS to Be Fun and Flirty on Dates + 5 More Myths Busted</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-this-to-be-fun-and-flirty-on-dates-5-more-myths-busted--56198828</link><description><![CDATA[Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:13 - Introduction<br />01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted<br />03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication<br />04:48 - Emotional &amp; Romantic Expressions in Dating<br />07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating<br />09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease<br />14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth<br />16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating<br />23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth<br />24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche<br />30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective<br />33:02 - Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56198828</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2023 09:20:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56198828/episode_31.mp3" length="48040454" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:13 - Introduction<br />01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted<br />03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication<br />04:48 - Emotional &amp; Romantic Expressions in Dating<br />07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating<br />09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease<br />14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth<br />16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating<br />23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth<br />24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche<br />30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective<br />33:02 - Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2002</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 Dating Disasters to Avoid: How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 2</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/7-dating-disasters-to-avoid-how-to-connect-with-women-in-the-metoo-era-part-2/</link><description><![CDATA[There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she helped him become more empathetic to this overdue movement. Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO<br />ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A<br />GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Yes, a Radically Authentic man has romantic love in his heart for women, but he also has a higher, selfless love in his heart for all people."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Being a man is not about how good you are with women, but how good you are to women." - Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Let's celebrate women for their individuality and respect their right to express themselves " - Connelll Barrett<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:18 - Overcoming Dating Challenges<br />08:45 - Confidence and Approaching Women<br />13:10 - Being Respectful in Dating<br />14:20 - Expert Tips on Attracting and Flirting<br />15:30 - 7 Dating Mistakes : Avoiding Ghosting in the MeToo Era<br />17:55 - Finding Genuine Connections<br />19:40 - Journey of Educating on Sexual Assault<br />21:10 - Empathy and Authenticity in Relationships<br />23:40 - Learning Empathy and Respect<br />24:23 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56127888</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Jul 2023 09:40:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56127888/e30_audio.mp3" length="35608646" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she helped him become more empathetic to this overdue movement. Listen now.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO<br />ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A<br />GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br /><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Yes, a Radically Authentic man has romantic love in his heart for women, but he also has a higher, selfless love in his heart for all people."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Being a man is not about how good you are with women, but how good you are to women." - Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Let's celebrate women for their individuality and respect their right to express themselves " - Connelll Barrett<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:18 - Overcoming Dating Challenges<br />08:45 - Confidence and Approaching Women<br />13:10 - Being Respectful in Dating<br />14:20 - Expert Tips on Attracting and Flirting<br />15:30 - 7 Dating Mistakes : Avoiding Ghosting in the MeToo Era<br />17:55 - Finding Genuine Connections<br />19:40 - Journey of Educating on Sexual Assault<br />21:10 - Empathy and Authenticity in Relationships<br />23:40 - Learning Empathy and Respect<br />24:23 - Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1484</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>attractive,connellbarrett,dating,datingadvice,datingexpert,datingtransformation,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Consent is Sexy! How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 1</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/consent-is-sexy-how-to-connect-with-women-in-the-metoo-era-part-1/</link><description><![CDATA[The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares 15 tested tips to help you flirt with charm and total respect for women, as the gentleman you are. The good news? Dating today is easier than you think, when you put these tips into practice. Listen now, to make sparks fly with class, heart and empathy.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO<br />ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br />Quotes<br /><br />"What makes you a man is not how good you are with women, but how good you are TO women." -Connell Barrett.<br /><br />"Women appreciate pursuit, but respect boundaries and prioritize consent."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Focus on creating connections, Let romance unfold naturally."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:13 - Empowering Men in Dating<br />06:45 - The "Lunch" Dilemma: Making a Move with Respect<br />10:20 - Embracing Me Too: Empathy and Awareness<br />14:05 - Understanding Flirting, Misconduct, and Harassment<br />17:30 - Decoding Flirting: Respectful Approaches<br />19:52 - Balancing Interest and Respectful Consent<br />20:45 - The Art of Persistence: Respecting Boundaries<br />23:52 - Success Stories vs. Harassment: Lessons Learned<br />27:10 - The Rewards of Respectful Persistence<br />30:15 - Dating Successfully in the Me Too Era<br />30:55 - Conclusion<br /><br />This podcast is produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56127762</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jul 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56127762/final_audio.mp3" length="50843846" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares 15 tested tips to help you flirt with charm and total respect for women, as the gentleman you are. The good news? Dating today is easier than you think, when you put these tips into practice. Listen now, to make sparks fly with class, heart and empathy.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO<br />ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br />www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3<br />Quotes<br /><br />"What makes you a man is not how good you are with women, but how good you are TO women." -Connell Barrett.<br /><br />"Women appreciate pursuit, but respect boundaries and prioritize consent."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br />"Focus on creating connections, Let romance unfold naturally."- Connelll Barrett<br /><br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: https://datingtransformation.com<br />Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation<br /><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:00 - Introduction<br />02:13 - Empowering Men in Dating<br />06:45 - The "Lunch" Dilemma: Making a Move with Respect<br />10:20 - Embracing Me Too: Empathy and Awareness<br />14:05 - Understanding Flirting, Misconduct, and Harassment<br />17:30 - Decoding Flirting: Respectful Approaches<br />19:52 - Balancing Interest and Respectful Consent<br />20:45 - The Art of Persistence: Respecting Boundaries<br />23:52 - Success Stories vs. Harassment: Lessons Learned<br />27:10 - The Rewards of Respectful Persistence<br />30:15 - Dating Successfully in the Me Too Era<br />30:55 - Conclusion<br /><br />This podcast is produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2119</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,datingwomen,flirting,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>“Women Only Want Hot Guys” + 4 Other Dating Myths Demolished!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-only-want-hot-guys-4-other-dating-myths-demolished--56091832</link><description><![CDATA[You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths that are hurting your love life, and he shares 5 quick tips you can use to transform romantic results. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Nice guys are sexier than 6 pack abs as long as you cultivate that sense of worthiness and confidence."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Having cash and a cool job is a nice bonus in the eyes of women, but it doesn't ignite connection and attraction."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Instead of focusing on what you think you lack, play to your strengths and boost your confidence."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:51 Introduction<br />01:39 Unveiling Authentic Flirting: Debunking Myths<br />05:04 Attracting Women: Beyond Lamborghinis and Cash<br />06:41 Looks Don't Define You: Embrace Your Appeal<br />09:52 Kindness Matters: Prioritizing What Women Truly Value<br />13:31 Jason's Success Story: Connecting Through Passion and Authenticity<br />17:02 Embracing Body Diversity: Attraction Beyond Shapes<br />20:35 The Charisma of Darren: Humor's Captivating Power<br />24:05 Nice Guys Finish First: The Desirability of Kindness<br />26:32 Nice Guys: Confidence and Sexiness Unleashed<br />31:49 Approaching Confidently: Overcoming Creep Stereotypes<br />33:01 Embracing Natural Connections: Genuine Interactions<br />34:46 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56091832</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jul 2023 10:20:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56091832/final_audio.mp3" length="55992128" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1XnE6fBCFg88QQjyJSIvfz158qUXvU380Fg_2ANvBcb4/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths that are hurting your love life, and he shares 5 quick tips you can use to transform romantic results. Listen now!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Nice guys are sexier than 6 pack abs as long as you cultivate that sense of worthiness and confidence."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Having cash and a cool job is a nice bonus in the eyes of women, but it doesn't ignite connection and attraction."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Instead of focusing on what you think you lack, play to your strengths and boost your confidence."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:51 Introduction<br />01:39 Unveiling Authentic Flirting: Debunking Myths<br />05:04 Attracting Women: Beyond Lamborghinis and Cash<br />06:41 Looks Don't Define You: Embrace Your Appeal<br />09:52 Kindness Matters: Prioritizing What Women Truly Value<br />13:31 Jason's Success Story: Connecting Through Passion and Authenticity<br />17:02 Embracing Body Diversity: Attraction Beyond Shapes<br />20:35 The Charisma of Darren: Humor's Captivating Power<br />24:05 Nice Guys Finish First: The Desirability of Kindness<br />26:32 Nice Guys: Confidence and Sexiness Unleashed<br />31:49 Approaching Confidently: Overcoming Creep Stereotypes<br />33:01 Embracing Natural Connections: Genuine Interactions<br />34:46 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2333</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,feelings,flirting,genuineconnections,intimacy,love,men,onlinedating,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! The secret to avoiding awkward silences on dates + how to go for the kiss</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/the-secret-to-avoiding-awkward-silences-on-dates/</link><description><![CDATA[Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I take pride in being a great listener, allowing others to express themselves fully."-Tom<br /><br />"I value girls sharing their thoughts, it helps me listen &amp; understand." - Tom<br /><br />"A genuine connection can be established by steering the conversation back on track, and women will genuinely appreciate your effort in doing so." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Tom(Guest)<br /><br />Connell Barrett(Host)<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:27 Introduction<br />07:22 Navigating Fatigue and Enhancing Engagement on Dates<br />12:12 Conversational Tips: Avoiding Awkward Silences<br />22:15 Authenticity and Sincerity: Keeping the Conversation Real<br />24:45 Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Opening Up<br />29:21 Taking Chances and Embracing Vulnerability<br />34:55 Charming Responses: Deflecting Personal Relationship Questions<br />43:44 Keeping the Date Focused on Each Other<br />49:27 From Lighthearted to Genuine: Building Deeper Connections<br />58:05 Geeky Banter and Smooth Date Requests: A Bumble Success Story<br />58:05 Building Emotional Connection: Before Asking for a Date<br />01:06:18 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56014229</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2023 09:45:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56014229/episode_27.mp3" length="97124855" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1I8PoaBFmHZddUZc888-ScQG1CTxyB8MyGq9HJxS54ZM/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I take pride in being a great listener, allowing others to express themselves fully."-Tom<br /><br />"I value girls sharing their thoughts, it helps me listen &amp; understand." - Tom<br /><br />"A genuine connection can be established by steering the conversation back on track, and women will genuinely appreciate your effort in doing so." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Tom(Guest)<br /><br />Connell Barrett(Host)<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:27 Introduction<br />07:22 Navigating Fatigue and Enhancing Engagement on Dates<br />12:12 Conversational Tips: Avoiding Awkward Silences<br />22:15 Authenticity and Sincerity: Keeping the Conversation Real<br />24:45 Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Opening Up<br />29:21 Taking Chances and Embracing Vulnerability<br />34:55 Charming Responses: Deflecting Personal Relationship Questions<br />43:44 Keeping the Date Focused on Each Other<br />49:27 From Lighthearted to Genuine: Building Deeper Connections<br />58:05 Geeky Banter and Smooth Date Requests: A Bumble Success Story<br />58:05 Building Emotional Connection: Before Asking for a Date<br />01:06:18 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4047</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>4 Ways to Stop Fearing Rejection and Start Feeling Confident</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/4-ways-to-stop-fearing-rejection-and-start-feeling-confident/</link><description><![CDATA[When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can confidently approach women, make the right moves on dates, and attract your dream girlfriend, as your best, most authentic self. Listen now, so you can stop fearing rejection and start confidently dating wonderful women.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Every approach is a success; it's either a date or another brick in the cathedral of my character."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Learn to get rejected elegantly, laugh it off, and know you're still enough."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"There's nothing wrong with wanting to avoid rejection or not wanting to bother women. It's coming from a good place." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:29 Introduction<br />03:42 Embracing Self-Worth and Confidence<br />8:48 Navigating Conflicting Thoughts in Approaching Women<br />11:53 Transforming Approach Anxiety into Growth Opportunities<br />15:33 Unveiling the Barriers: Identifying What Stops You<br />21:24 Rewiring Your Approach Mindset<br />23:29 Joyful Connections: Redefining Approaching Rewards<br />30:21 Taking the Leap Despite the Fear of Rejection<br />33:59 Embracing Your Worth Beyond Acceptance<br />36:11 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56014223</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2023 09:45:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56014223/episode_26.mp3" length="52574726" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1M8XWq956rn441sHRRXFJEMMljrIFEN4dT49Jp-OPwUQ/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?”...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can confidently approach women, make the right moves on dates, and attract your dream girlfriend, as your best, most authentic self. Listen now, so you can stop fearing rejection and start confidently dating wonderful women.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Every approach is a success; it's either a date or another brick in the cathedral of my character."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Learn to get rejected elegantly, laugh it off, and know you're still enough."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"There's nothing wrong with wanting to avoid rejection or not wanting to bother women. It's coming from a good place." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:29 Introduction<br />03:42 Embracing Self-Worth and Confidence<br />8:48 Navigating Conflicting Thoughts in Approaching Women<br />11:53 Transforming Approach Anxiety into Growth Opportunities<br />15:33 Unveiling the Barriers: Identifying What Stops You<br />21:24 Rewiring Your Approach Mindset<br />23:29 Joyful Connections: Redefining Approaching Rewards<br />30:21 Taking the Leap Despite the Fear of Rejection<br />33:59 Embracing Your Worth Beyond Acceptance<br />36:11 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2191</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,avoidingrejection,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,love,onlinedating,relationships,selfconfidence</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! How to Be More Attractive to Women TODAY, using the ‘Confidence Code’</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/how-to-be-more-attractive-to-women-today-using-the-confidence-code/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness.<br /><br />It’s frustrating… but it’s fixable! If you want to learn how to be more attractive to women, you’re in luck. In this special “live coaching” episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett shares a game-changing coaching secret for the first time publicly. He helps his client Nick transform his confidence in just 45 minutes. How? Connell guides Nick through a powerful process called “The Confidence Code,” a tested formula that you can use to feel magnetic to women, instantly! Nick literally TRIPLES his self-confidence before your ears, in minutes.<br /><br />Use Connell’s Confidence Code. You’re about to go from low confidence to knowing how to be more attractive to women. Listen now!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I should focus on showcasing my own unique qualities and confidently pursue my romantic interests." - Nick<br /><br />"I’ve learned that fear breeds self-doubt, but embracing confidence leads to meaningful connections on dates." - Nick<br /><br />"I doubted my old belief and embraced a better, more truthful belief. I changed my body language to align with this new mindset."- Nick<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Nick (Guest)<br />Connelll Barrett (Host)<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:29 Introduction<br />07:49 Unlocking Confidence: Inner Power over External Validation<br />11:54 Overcoming Debilitating Beliefs in Dating<br />14:54 Exploring Worth and Value in Dating<br />22:21 Embracing Manhood: Redefining Masculinity<br />30:08 Physical Exercise for Boosting Confidence<br />34:06 Radical Authenticity: Transforming Dating Challenges<br />39:14 Counter-Evidence: Challenging Limiting Beliefs<br />44:12 Questioning the Masculine Archetype<br />51:22 Exploring the Complexity of Masculinity<br />56:00 Empowering Beliefs: Replacing the Old<br />01:01:59 Confidence Kickoff: Embodying the New Belief<br />01:11:25 Boosting Confidence: Daily Reinforcement and Proof<br />01:15:06 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56014211</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 14:41:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56014211/episode_25.mp3" length="108617222" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BDr4jr8HyBApkVXxqCOUJuWujSR1BZs9nHkSs5VvlgE/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness.

It’s...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness.<br /><br />It’s frustrating… but it’s fixable! If you want to learn how to be more attractive to women, you’re in luck. In this special “live coaching” episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett shares a game-changing coaching secret for the first time publicly. He helps his client Nick transform his confidence in just 45 minutes. How? Connell guides Nick through a powerful process called “The Confidence Code,” a tested formula that you can use to feel magnetic to women, instantly! Nick literally TRIPLES his self-confidence before your ears, in minutes.<br /><br />Use Connell’s Confidence Code. You’re about to go from low confidence to knowing how to be more attractive to women. Listen now!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I should focus on showcasing my own unique qualities and confidently pursue my romantic interests." - Nick<br /><br />"I’ve learned that fear breeds self-doubt, but embracing confidence leads to meaningful connections on dates." - Nick<br /><br />"I doubted my old belief and embraced a better, more truthful belief. I changed my body language to align with this new mindset."- Nick<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Nick (Guest)<br />Connelll Barrett (Host)<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:29 Introduction<br />07:49 Unlocking Confidence: Inner Power over External Validation<br />11:54 Overcoming Debilitating Beliefs in Dating<br />14:54 Exploring Worth and Value in Dating<br />22:21 Embracing Manhood: Redefining Masculinity<br />30:08 Physical Exercise for Boosting Confidence<br />34:06 Radical Authenticity: Transforming Dating Challenges<br />39:14 Counter-Evidence: Challenging Limiting Beliefs<br />44:12 Questioning the Masculine Archetype<br />51:22 Exploring the Complexity of Masculinity<br />56:00 Empowering Beliefs: Replacing the Old<br />01:01:59 Confidence Kickoff: Embodying the New Belief<br />01:11:25 Boosting Confidence: Daily Reinforcement and Proof<br />01:15:06 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4526</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,confidence,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,masculine,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What’s Your Dating Superpower? 6 Ways to Spark Connections!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/whats-your-dating-superpower-6-ways-to-spark-connections/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers!<br /><br />That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sparks fly and attract your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Asking meaningful questions that evoke emotions and encourage self-expression is what resonates with women. It's those questions that truly matter."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Resilience may not be glamorous, but it can attract an incredibly attractive companion. Embrace your resilience. It's a superpower."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Courage is the key to confidence... So be brave and believe in yourself.""- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:15 Unleashing Your Dating Superpowers<br />08:23 Harnessing the Power of Resilience<br />10:31 The Power of Persistence: Socializing Beyond Limits<br />13:21 Unleashing Your Inner Courage: Embracing Fear in Dating<br />17:20 Sparks and Connections: Tapping into Your Dating Superpowers<br />15:07 Fear-Free Flirting: Unleashing Your Courageous Charm<br />19:35 Mastering the Art of Asking Feeling-Based Questions<br />21:40 Crafting Engaging Narratives for Dating Success<br />25:51 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55504834</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/55504834/final_audio.mp3" length="37686854" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1l4sEjdDC_MYdmRW7x5frUwenDrn84OW7V5Vh9iyjZVk/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers!

That’s right! EVERY guy has a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers!<br /><br />That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sparks fly and attract your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Asking meaningful questions that evoke emotions and encourage self-expression is what resonates with women. It's those questions that truly matter."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Resilience may not be glamorous, but it can attract an incredibly attractive companion. Embrace your resilience. It's a superpower."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Courage is the key to confidence... So be brave and believe in yourself.""- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:15 Unleashing Your Dating Superpowers<br />08:23 Harnessing the Power of Resilience<br />10:31 The Power of Persistence: Socializing Beyond Limits<br />13:21 Unleashing Your Inner Courage: Embracing Fear in Dating<br />17:20 Sparks and Connections: Tapping into Your Dating Superpowers<br />15:07 Fear-Free Flirting: Unleashing Your Courageous Charm<br />19:35 Mastering the Art of Asking Feeling-Based Questions<br />21:40 Crafting Engaging Narratives for Dating Success<br />25:51 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1570</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7 First Date Outfits for Men, with style expert Riane Bawalan</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/7-first-date-outfits-for-men-with-style-expert-riane-bawalan/</link><description><![CDATA[So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy?<br /><br />Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless.<br /><br />In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Riane Bawalan, a professional stylist for men. Riane helps single guys look great, so that they can get more dates and look and feel more confident. Listen now, so you can look and feel hot and handsome, and attract a wonderful woman into your life.<br /><br />FOR STYLE HELP FROM RIANE BAWALAN:<br /><a href="http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />BONUS TIPS: 8 STYLE RULES FOR GREAT FIRST DATES<br /><br />The right clothes help unlock your confidence. In a Men’s Health survey, 78 percent of women said that dressing well is the hottest thing a man can do, and 85 percent said that a well-dressed man is sexier than a man with lots of money.<br /><br />Here are eight style rules for first dates (and dating in general.)<br /><br />1: Your shirts, pants, and jackets should be tailored for your body, or appear to be. The biggest style mistake men make? Baggy, ill-fitting clothes. Your duds shouldn’t be too tight, nor should they billow. Think somewhat snug.<br /><br />2: Own at least one pair of quality, dark denim jeans (blue or black). And please, no pleated khakis! (Be a hot guy, not a Helpful Honda Guy.)<br /><br />3: As for shirts, favor button-downs, polos, and quality tees. In an Esquire survey, women preferred plain white tees on a man more than any other kind of shirt.<br /><br />4: Have at least one pair of fun, stylish sneakers (NOT gym shoes), such as Stan Smiths or Chuck Taylors. As for dress shoes, consider a classic loafer, brogue, or lace-up Oxford (brown or black.)<br /><br />5: Be well-groomed, and smell absolutely amazing.<br /><br />6: Your hair (or lack thereof) should look “on purpose,” whether you’re rocking a cool fade, or shaving your head. Consider a consultation with a hair stylist.<br /><br />7: If you’re balding, keep it very close-cropped, or go full Kojak.<br /><br />8: Wear boxer-briefs. In a GQ survey, 65 percent of women preferred boxer-briefs on a man (compared to 19 percent for boxers and 5 percent for tightie-whities.) True, it’s only the first date, but it’s best to be prepared.<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"Wearing clothes that reflect your personality and interests is a great icebreaker and conversation starter." -Riane Bawalan<br /><br />"Men should prioritize taking some time to revamp their wardrobe. It not only boosts your confidence and changes how you perceive yourself, but also influences the impression you make on others. ."- Riane Bawalan<br /><br />"People's clothing choices often reflect their mindset and lifestyle, with some not caring about what they wear. It's a reflection of their home or lifestyle."- Riane Bawalan<br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:15 Introduction<br />03:11 The Importance of Well-Fitting Clothes<br />09:10 Adding Color to Your Wardrobe: Embracing Versatile Neutrals<br />11:38 Taking Control of Your Style: Haircuts and Shape-Ups<br />13:03 The Magnetic Appeal of a Well-Groomed Appearance<br />15:39 Fashion Choices: Judging a Man by His Style<br />20:07 Footwear Essentials: Two Must-Have Shoes for Every Man<br />23:07 Demystifying Denim: Slim or Athletic Fit, Four Color Options<br />26:49 Expressing Confidence Through Style: Unleash Your True Personality<br />33:06 Guiding You to Confidence: A Stylist's Expertise<br />34:46 Unleashing Your Style Potential: Personal Styling and Photography Services<br />36:12 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55105333</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2023 09:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/55105333/final_audio.mp3" length="53544134" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/19r26Y-oj3AH-CghsJjCOMIwJPu5ainlQI0g4QPvqjZY/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy?<br /><br />Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless.<br /><br />In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Riane Bawalan, a professional stylist for men. Riane helps single guys look great, so that they can get more dates and look and feel more confident. Listen now, so you can look and feel hot and handsome, and attract a wonderful woman into your life.<br /><br />FOR STYLE HELP FROM RIANE BAWALAN:<br /><a href="http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.thegentlemansphotographer.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />BONUS TIPS: 8 STYLE RULES FOR GREAT FIRST DATES<br /><br />The right clothes help unlock your confidence. In a Men’s Health survey, 78 percent of women said that dressing well is the hottest thing a man can do, and 85 percent said that a well-dressed man is sexier than a man with lots of money.<br /><br />Here are eight style rules for first dates (and dating in general.)<br /><br />1: Your shirts, pants, and jackets should be tailored for your body, or appear to be. The biggest style mistake men make? Baggy, ill-fitting clothes. Your duds shouldn’t be too tight, nor should they billow. Think somewhat snug.<br /><br />2: Own at least one pair of quality, dark denim jeans (blue or black). And please, no pleated khakis! (Be a hot guy, not a Helpful Honda Guy.)<br /><br />3: As for shirts, favor button-downs, polos, and quality tees. In an Esquire survey, women preferred plain white tees on a man more than any other kind of shirt.<br /><br />4: Have at least one pair of fun, stylish sneakers (NOT gym shoes), such as Stan Smiths or Chuck Taylors. As for dress shoes, consider a classic loafer, brogue, or lace-up Oxford (brown or black.)<br /><br />5: Be well-groomed, and smell absolutely amazing.<br /><br />6: Your hair (or lack thereof) should look “on purpose,” whether you’re rocking a cool fade, or shaving your head. Consider a consultation with a hair stylist.<br /><br />7: If you’re balding, keep it very close-cropped, or go full Kojak.<br /><br />8: Wear boxer-briefs. In a GQ survey, 65 percent of women preferred boxer-briefs on a man (compared to 19 percent for boxers and 5 percent for tightie-whities.) True, it’s only the first date, but it’s best to be prepared.<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"Wearing clothes that reflect your personality and interests is a great icebreaker and conversation starter." -Riane Bawalan<br /><br />"Men should prioritize taking some time to revamp their wardrobe. It not only boosts your confidence and changes how you perceive yourself, but also influences the impression you make on others. ."- Riane Bawalan<br /><br />"People's clothing choices often reflect their mindset and lifestyle, with some not caring about what they wear. It's a reflection of their home or lifestyle."- Riane Bawalan<br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:15 Introduction<br />03:11 The Importance of Well-Fitting Clothes<br />09:10 Adding Color to Your Wardrobe:...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2231</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Your biggest dating problems… solved!</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/your-biggest-dating-problems-solved/</link><description><![CDATA[Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you solve some of your toughest dating problems by opening up the Dating Transformation mailbag. Listen to Connell answer your questins, so you can send flirty messages, approach with steely confidence, make sparks fly on first dates... and attract your dream girlfriend!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Personalized openers spark interest and engagement by offering jokes, compliments, or fun questions that resonate with your match." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Mastering the art of text flirting involves playfully and respectfully expressing romantic interest to a woman, all while maintaining clear boundaries."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Unleash your true self and watch your confidence skyrocket, attracting an amazing girlfriend effortlessly."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:16 Introduction<br />06:44 Texting Tips for Success: Cleverness, Clarity, and Emojis<br />11:25 The Art of Playful Teasing and Surface-level Jokes<br />13:56 Leveraging Cheeky Humor and Confidence in Your Photos<br />17:25 Amplify Your Presence with Audio: Conquering Fear in Dating<br />19:12 Unlocking Self-Assurance in Audio Messages<br />21:29 Transforming Rejection into Opportunity<br />23:46 Navigating Rejection on the Path to Love<br />26:35 Escaping the Friend Zone: Ways to Make Your Intentions Clear<br />29:35 The Link Between Body Language and Personal Confidence<br />32:03 Using Physical Expressiveness to Ignite Attraction<br />33:58 Building Intimacy through Gentle Touch<br />35:12 Creating Playful and Comfortable Moments on Dates<br />37:06 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54797263</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54797263/final_audio.mp3" length="53884550" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/11CxA0kO8zjoajuB7yPYjxHE83wbhLungr6jIobtcPII/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you struggle with texting women? (Check.) Does approaching seem scarier than a haunted house? (Check.) Do your dates go nowhere, leading to the dreaded “friend zone”? (Check please!) Help is on the way. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you solve some of your toughest dating problems by opening up the Dating Transformation mailbag. Listen to Connell answer your questins, so you can send flirty messages, approach with steely confidence, make sparks fly on first dates... and attract your dream girlfriend!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Personalized openers spark interest and engagement by offering jokes, compliments, or fun questions that resonate with your match." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Mastering the art of text flirting involves playfully and respectfully expressing romantic interest to a woman, all while maintaining clear boundaries."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Unleash your true self and watch your confidence skyrocket, attracting an amazing girlfriend effortlessly."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:16 Introduction<br />06:44 Texting Tips for Success: Cleverness, Clarity, and Emojis<br />11:25 The Art of Playful Teasing and Surface-level Jokes<br />13:56 Leveraging Cheeky Humor and Confidence in Your Photos<br />17:25 Amplify Your Presence with Audio: Conquering Fear in Dating<br />19:12 Unlocking Self-Assurance in Audio Messages<br />21:29 Transforming Rejection into Opportunity<br />23:46 Navigating Rejection on the Path to Love<br />26:35 Escaping the Friend Zone: Ways to Make Your Intentions Clear<br />29:35 The Link Between Body Language and Personal Confidence<br />32:03 Using Physical Expressiveness to Ignite Attraction<br />33:58 Building Intimacy through Gentle Touch<br />35:12 Creating Playful and Comfortable Moments on Dates<br />37:06 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2245</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>21 Dating Tips for Introverts, with Amber Brooks, editor of DatingAdvice.com</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/21-dating-tips-for-introverts-with-amber-brooks-editor-of-datingadvice-com/</link><description><![CDATA[You want practical dating tips so you can stop doubting yourself, flirt with charm, and land a great girlfriend, right? Yet there’s so much advice out there! You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating. <br /><br />We’ve got you covered. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes the wise, witty Amber Brooks, editor-in-chief of DatingAdvice.com and DatingNews.com. A true dating expert, Amber knows what women want. She and Connell share 21 effective dating tips for introverts. So listen now! It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start attracting wonderful women as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Don't let hindrances hold you back; that's the true failure. Instead, push past them and open yourself up to meeting someone who will enhance your life for the better." - Amber Brooks“<br /><br />Engage sincerely with thoughtful follow-up questions to make her feel truly valued and heard.”. - Amber Brooks<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Amber Brooks<br />Editor-in-chief of <a href="http://Datingadvice.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Datingadvice.com</a><br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> </a><a href="https://www.datingadvice.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.datingadvice.com/</a> <br /><br /><br />FOR THE LATEST NEWS AND TRENDS IN DATING: <a href="http://www.datingnews.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingnews.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:14 Introduction<br />02:12 Exploring Diverse Dating Approaches<br />05:57 Unlocking Local Secrets: Specific Tips for Dating Success<br />08:44 Breaking Free from Fear: Overcoming Barriers to Approach<br />12:55 Learning from Awkward Experiences: Building Better Connections<br />15:11 Embracing Normalcy and Respect<br />17:48 Personalized pickups and genuine interest breed attraction.<br />20:07 Making an Impact with Personalized Interactions<br />22:41 Tips for Fostering Genuine Online Connections<br />26:51 Building Relationships on a Granular Level<br />32:01 Building Lasting Connections in the Online World<br />37:02 Partnering with dating sites: Say no to Tinder, choose Match.<br />40:56 First date etiquette and advantages.<br />42:51 Key to dating success: Perseverance and resilience.<br />45:38 Embracing authenticity without negativity.<br />47:19 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54524678</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54524678/final_audio.mp3" length="68604806" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1lWZ0Mgv-6SNSNvW_rpkXn9TPc2FxcSYKyTMVrY31B_Q/edit?usp=sharing" type="text/plain" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want practical dating tips so you can stop doubting yourself, flirt with charm, and land a great girlfriend, right? Yet there’s so much advice out there! You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want practical dating tips so you can stop doubting yourself, flirt with charm, and land a great girlfriend, right? Yet there’s so much advice out there! You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating. <br /><br />We’ve got you covered. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes the wise, witty Amber Brooks, editor-in-chief of DatingAdvice.com and DatingNews.com. A true dating expert, Amber knows what women want. She and Connell share 21 effective dating tips for introverts. So listen now! It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start attracting wonderful women as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Don't let hindrances hold you back; that's the true failure. Instead, push past them and open yourself up to meeting someone who will enhance your life for the better." - Amber Brooks“<br /><br />Engage sincerely with thoughtful follow-up questions to make her feel truly valued and heard.”. - Amber Brooks<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Amber Brooks<br />Editor-in-chief of <a href="http://Datingadvice.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://Datingadvice.com</a><br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> </a><a href="https://www.datingadvice.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.datingadvice.com/</a> <br /><br /><br />FOR THE LATEST NEWS AND TRENDS IN DATING: <a href="http://www.datingnews.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingnews.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:14 Introduction<br />02:12 Exploring Diverse Dating Approaches<br />05:57 Unlocking Local Secrets: Specific Tips for Dating Success<br />08:44 Breaking Free from Fear: Overcoming Barriers to Approach<br />12:55 Learning from Awkward Experiences: Building Better Connections<br />15:11 Embracing Normalcy and Respect<br />17:48 Personalized pickups and genuine interest breed attraction.<br />20:07 Making an Impact with Personalized Interactions<br />22:41 Tips for Fostering Genuine Online Connections<br />26:51 Building Relationships on a Granular Level<br />32:01 Building Lasting Connections in the Online World<br />37:02 Partnering with dating sites: Say no to Tinder, choose Match.<br />40:56 First date etiquette and advantages.<br />42:51 Key to dating success: Perseverance and resilience.<br />45:38 Embracing authenticity without negativity.<br />47:19 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2859</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>9 Advanced Dating Moves! Plus: How to Ask for a Number</title><link>https://datingtransformation.com/podcast/9-advanced-dating-moves-plus-how-to-ask-for-a-number/</link><description><![CDATA[Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you did nothing. Inaction can crush your confidence and keep you feeling lonely.<br /><br />Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 9 of his favorite “advanced dating tips” to help you take action, including how to ask for a number, and how to confidently approach large groups. Use these 9 moves to stop feeling lonely and START attracting women as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54454852</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2023 09:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54454852/final_audio.mp3" length="40404998" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12/afaaac6c-a00d-43e6-b454-902a12ec3e12.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever been talking to or texting a cool, attractive woman, but you didn’t know how to ask for her number… so you lost out on the date? Or maybe you saw a group of women at a bar, and you wanted to approach, but you felt too intimidated… so you did nothing. Inaction can crush your confidence and keep you feeling lonely.<br /><br />Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 9 of his favorite “advanced dating tips” to help you take action, including how to ask for a number, and how to confidently approach large groups. Use these 9 moves to stop feeling lonely and START attracting women as your most confident, authentic self.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1684</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askingforadate,buildingrelationship,connellbarrett,dating,datingtransformation,firstdates,intimacy,love,onlinedating,relationships</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Be a Better Man, Featuring Alex Manley, author of “The New Masculinity”</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-a-better-man-featuring-alex-manley-author-of-the-new-masculinity--54041415</link><description><![CDATA[As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.<br /><br />Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.<br /><br />Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists.<br /><br />And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”)<br /><br />Today’s special guest can help you navigate what it means to be a single man in 2023, both on and off the dating landscape.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes award-winning writer Alex Manley, author of the groundbreaking new book, “The New Masculinity: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.”<br /><br />A longtime dating editor for AskMen, Manley wrote “The New Masculinity” to give today’s men a blueprint to become more evolved, forward-thinking and progressive.<br /><br />And take it from Connell: Women LOVE evolved, progressive men.<br /><br />In this lively conversation, Alex shares a host of tips and insights on the art of being a better man, including… <br /><br />✔ How to escape toxicity and anger, so you can be masculine as well as kind and open- hearted<br />✔ Why you WANT to be “friend-zoned” by women (That’s correct! It can be a good thing.)<br />✔ Three game-changing dating tips you can apply now, for stronger, more genuine connections<br />✔ Why pretending to be an “alpha male” can hurt your dating prospects<br />✔ Why you should NOT cold-approach random women (the rules have changed!), and what to do instead.<br /><br />Listen now, so that Alex Manley can help you go from fearful and confused about your sense ofnself, to awakening a true, fulfilling new masculinity.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Being mysterious and being withholding and not communicating with your partner is not a winning strategy. It might work on people who have certain self-esteem issues, but for a healthy relationship, you need to be open, honest, and communicative.".." -Alex Manley<br /><br />"It's important to remember that everyone has something to offer and something that makes them unique. You just have to be willing to look for it and appreciate it." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Friendships between men and women can be incredibly valuable and rewarding, and can teach us a lot about ourselves and each other." - Alex Manley<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Alex Manley<br />Dating Editor, AskMen<br /><a href="http://www.alexmanley.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.alexmanley.com/</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/</a><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT “THE NEW MASCULINITY”:<br /><a href="http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinity" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinity</a><br /><br />GO TO ASKMEN TO READ DATING ADVICE FROM ALEX MANLEY:<br /><a href="http://www.askmen.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.askmen.com</a><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALEX MANLY:<br /><a href="http://www.AlexManley.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.AlexManley.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:14 Introduction<br />00:24 Unlock Your Authenticity with Man to Woman Communication<br />15:19 New Book Guides Men in Changing World<br />19:42 Unlearning Toxic Masculinity: A Wake-Up Call<br />31:20 Female Friendship: The Key to Understanding Women<br />24:50 Redefining Attraction: Confidence and Courtesy<br />26:33 Unlocking Romantic Happiness in Relationships<br />27:42 Recognizing the Multidimensional Nature of Relationships<br />28:56 Embracing the Complexity of Self in Dating<br />40:47 Career Success: The Secret to Dating Confidence<br />51:05 The Myth of the Mysterious Man in Dating<br />01:00:00 Unrealistic beauty standards harm your dating life<br />01:05:00 The Power of Being Yourself, with a Touch of George Costanza<br />01:17:00 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54041415</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54041415/final_audio.mp3" length="97311494" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3/b7b4cb1e-951c-4573-94c3-f1f7bfa1c6a3.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.

Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.

Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.<br /><br />Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.<br /><br />Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and you can feel the shackles of toxic masculinity tighten around your wrists.<br /><br />And you might be confused about how to date and flirt in the #MeToo Era (“Can I still make moves, or is that harassment?”)<br /><br />Today’s special guest can help you navigate what it means to be a single man in 2023, both on and off the dating landscape.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes award-winning writer Alex Manley, author of the groundbreaking new book, “The New Masculinity: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.”<br /><br />A longtime dating editor for AskMen, Manley wrote “The New Masculinity” to give today’s men a blueprint to become more evolved, forward-thinking and progressive.<br /><br />And take it from Connell: Women LOVE evolved, progressive men.<br /><br />In this lively conversation, Alex shares a host of tips and insights on the art of being a better man, including… <br /><br />✔ How to escape toxicity and anger, so you can be masculine as well as kind and open- hearted<br />✔ Why you WANT to be “friend-zoned” by women (That’s correct! It can be a good thing.)<br />✔ Three game-changing dating tips you can apply now, for stronger, more genuine connections<br />✔ Why pretending to be an “alpha male” can hurt your dating prospects<br />✔ Why you should NOT cold-approach random women (the rules have changed!), and what to do instead.<br /><br />Listen now, so that Alex Manley can help you go from fearful and confused about your sense ofnself, to awakening a true, fulfilling new masculinity.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Being mysterious and being withholding and not communicating with your partner is not a winning strategy. It might work on people who have certain self-esteem issues, but for a healthy relationship, you need to be open, honest, and communicative.".." -Alex Manley<br /><br />"It's important to remember that everyone has something to offer and something that makes them unique. You just have to be willing to look for it and appreciate it." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Friendships between men and women can be incredibly valuable and rewarding, and can teach us a lot about ourselves and each other." - Alex Manley<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connelll Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Alex Manley<br />Dating Editor, AskMen<br /><a href="http://www.alexmanley.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.alexmanley.com/</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/alex_icon/</a><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT “THE NEW MASCULINITY”:<br /><a href="http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinity" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.ecwpress.com/products/the-new-masculinity</a><br /><br />GO TO ASKMEN TO READ DATING ADVICE FROM ALEX MANLEY:<br /><a href="http://www.askmen.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.askmen.com</a><br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALEX MANLY:<br /><a href="http://www.AlexManley.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.AlexManley.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4055</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>First Date Topics to Create a Strong Connection</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/first-date-topics-to-create-a-strong-connection--54155495</link><description><![CDATA[You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.<br /><br />You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.<br /><br />And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences.<br /><br />And you know what that means: No second date.<br /><br />If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett—who’s had over 1,000 first dates!—shares his best tips for what to talk about, so you can choose topics that help you make romantic sparks fly.<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔ The 5 best topics to talk about on first dates, to help create a strong emotional connection, as your best, authentic self<br />✔ The topics to NEVER talk about on (make sure you don’t fall into these conversational traps!)<br />✔ The one question you should ask ALL of your first dates, to help you create an emotional connection with ANYONE, even if you and your date don’t have much in common!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When you focus the conversation on her, on yourself, and on shared passions and interests, you create a powerful connection." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Authentic connections are formed through meaningful conversations that resonate with both of you."."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Listen now, so you can stop struggling with what to say on dates, and start discussing stimulating first date topics that heighten emotional connection… and help you land the dream girlfriend you want.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:20 Mastering First Dates: Expert Tips from a Dating Coach<br />06:49 Creating Meaningful Connections: Making the Conversation about Passions<br />10:01 Spark to Flame: Connecting Through Shared Passions<br />12:30 Creating Deep Connections Through Emotional Experiences<br />15:46 Emotionally Connecting: Unleashing the Power of Family and Travel Conversations<br />17:51 Building Emotional Bridges on First Dates<br />22:21 Embracing the Power of Genuine Conversations<br />23:39 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54155495</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jun 2023 13:37:08 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54155495/final_audio.mp3" length="34512518" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e/8538e490-b1fb-4cee-b6e3-18a54da36e4e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.

You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.

And...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what sucks more than rainy Mondays and popup ads? Running out of things to say on dates.<br /><br />You’ve been there, right? After “Hey, nice to meet you,” you get stuck in your head. What should you talk about? Her job? Your dog? The weather.<br /><br />And the only thing worse than boring conversation is when your date is filled with….um [pause]… awkward [errrrr]… silences.<br /><br />And you know what that means: No second date.<br /><br />If you struggle coming up with good first date topics, you’re in the right place! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett—who’s had over 1,000 first dates!—shares his best tips for what to talk about, so you can choose topics that help you make romantic sparks fly.<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔ The 5 best topics to talk about on first dates, to help create a strong emotional connection, as your best, authentic self<br />✔ The topics to NEVER talk about on (make sure you don’t fall into these conversational traps!)<br />✔ The one question you should ask ALL of your first dates, to help you create an emotional connection with ANYONE, even if you and your date don’t have much in common!<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"When you focus the conversation on her, on yourself, and on shared passions and interests, you create a powerful connection." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />"Authentic connections are formed through meaningful conversations that resonate with both of you."."- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Listen now, so you can stop struggling with what to say on dates, and start discussing stimulating first date topics that heighten emotional connection… and help you land the dream girlfriend you want.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP: <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:20 Mastering First Dates: Expert Tips from a Dating Coach<br />06:49 Creating Meaningful Connections: Making the Conversation about Passions<br />10:01 Spark to Flame: Connecting Through Shared Passions<br />12:30 Creating Deep Connections Through Emotional Experiences<br />15:46 Emotionally Connecting: Unleashing the Power of Family and Travel Conversations<br />17:51 Building Emotional Bridges on First Dates<br />22:21 Embracing the Power of Genuine Conversations<br />23:39 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1438</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Be an Attractive Man, with Dr. Robert Glover and “The Big Stick” Author Tony Endelman</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-an-attractive-man-with-dr-robert-glover-and-the-big-stick-author-tony-endelman--54041590</link><description><![CDATA[WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)<br /><br />Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.<br /><br />It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”<br /><br />In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…<br /><br />✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women<br />✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say<br />✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts<br />✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy<br />✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidence<br /><br />Get ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman<br /><br />"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /><br />"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Dr Robert Glover<br />Co Author of “The Big Stick"<br /><a href="https://www.drglover.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.drglover.com/</a><br /><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/</a><br /><br />Tony Endelman<br />Co Author of “The Big Stick"<br /><a href="https://tonyendelman.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"https://tonyendelman.com/</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/</a><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:<br /><a href="http://www.bigstickbook.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.bigstickbook.com</a><br /><br />BUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-</a>ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1684431647&amp;sr=8-1<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:<br /><a href="http://www.TonyEndelman.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.TonyEndelman.com</a><br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:<br /><a href="http://www.drgolver.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.drgolver.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Chapters<br /><br />00:17 Introduction<br />00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”<br />00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation<br />00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book<br />00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All<br />00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight<br />00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change<br />00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power<br />00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating<br />00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder<br />01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed<br />01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives<br />01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection<br />01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation<br />01:28 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54041590</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 09:40:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54041590/final_audio.mp3" length="128412614" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836/673f8fbf-bf53-4669-a8c2-a04274263836.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)

Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)<br /><br />Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.<br /><br />It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”<br /><br />In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…<br /><br />✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women<br />✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say<br />✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts<br />✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy<br />✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidence<br /><br />Get ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.<br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman<br /><br />"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /><br />"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell Barrett<br /><br />Featured in the episode<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br /><a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Dr Robert Glover<br />Co Author of “The Big Stick"<br /><a href="https://www.drglover.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.drglover.com/</a><br /><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/</a><br /><br />Tony Endelman<br />Co Author of “The Big Stick"<br /><a href="https://tonyendelman.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"https://tonyendelman.com/</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/</a><br /><br />LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:<br /><a href="http://www.bigstickbook.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.bigstickbook.com</a><br /><br />BUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:<br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5351</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Describe Yourself on a Dating App: 15 Moves for More Matches</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-describe-yourself-on-a-dating-app-15-moves-for-more-matches--54041532</link><description><![CDATA[So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?<br /><br />If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.<br /><br />If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.<br /><br />If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to write on your dating app profile. Connell is about to teach you…<br /><br />✔ The biggest things NOT to write on your profile, and what to write instead<br />✔ The one-line “hook” to use at the start of your bio that guarantees she’ll keep reading<br />✔ How to write fun, flirty prompts on Bumble and Hinge that leads to matches and dates<br />✔ The right way to end your bio that TRIPLES your chances of matching with her, and even make her send YOU the first message<br /><br />Plus 11 more practical, tested tips that you can use today.<br /><br />Listen now, so you can stop struggling with online dating, and learn how to describe yourself on the dating apps—and start dating wonderful women!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /> <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Your dating profile is like a marketing campaign. Focus on what's in it for her, make it fun, and show her your personality”- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Remember, dating is a numbers game. Embrace the journey of going on multiple dates before finding the right person,"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:06 Introduction<br />00:16 Unlock the Secrets to Crafting an Authentic Dating Profile<br />6:25 Writing an Irresistible Dating Bio: Hooks, Not Clichés<br />10:11 Master the Skill of Writing to Capture Her Attention<br />19:08 Unleashing Playful Humor: Going Beyond Clichés in Your Profile<br />24:26 Crafting a Compelling Dating App Bio: The Power of a Call to Action<br />27:21 Infusing Edge and Playfulness into Your Bio<br />29:58 Crafting First Date Prompts that Leave a Lasting Impression<br />34:53 Flirtatious Prompts: Captivating Genuine Connections<br />37:06 Outro]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54041532</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jun 2023 09:35:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54041532/final_audio.mp3" length="53898374" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d/d7f95403-54e1-4495-b650-5833036dac5d.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?

If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.

If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you’re trying to write your online-dating profile, but you’re just staring at an empty screen. What do you write? How do you talk about yourself?<br /><br />If you do this wrong, you can kiss matches and dates goodbye.<br /><br />If you do it RIGHT, well, you’ll be kissing your next date very soon.<br /><br />If you don’t know how to describe yourself on the dating apps, you’re in the right place. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 15 of his best tips for what to write on your dating app profile. Connell is about to teach you…<br /><br />✔ The biggest things NOT to write on your profile, and what to write instead<br />✔ The one-line “hook” to use at the start of your bio that guarantees she’ll keep reading<br />✔ How to write fun, flirty prompts on Bumble and Hinge that leads to matches and dates<br />✔ The right way to end your bio that TRIPLES your chances of matching with her, and even make her send YOU the first message<br /><br />Plus 11 more practical, tested tips that you can use today.<br /><br />Listen now, so you can stop struggling with online dating, and learn how to describe yourself on the dating apps—and start dating wonderful women!<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /> <a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS<br />BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />"Your dating profile is like a marketing campaign. Focus on what's in it for her, make it fun, and show her your personality”- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Remember, dating is a numbers game. Embrace the journey of going on multiple dates before finding the right person,"- Connell Barrett<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:06 Introduction<br />00:16 Unlock the Secrets to Crafting an Authentic Dating Profile<br />6:25 Writing an Irresistible Dating Bio: Hooks, Not Clichés<br />10:11 Master the Skill of Writing to Capture Her Attention<br />19:08 Unleashing Playful Humor: Going Beyond Clichés in Your Profile<br />24:26 Crafting a Compelling Dating App Bio: The Power of a Call to Action<br />27:21 Infusing Edge and Playfulness into Your Bio<br />29:58 Crafting First Date Prompts that Leave a Lasting Impression<br />34:53 Flirtatious Prompts: Captivating Genuine Connections<br />37:06 Outro]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2246</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>12 Tips on Dating as an Introverted Man, with Anthony Recenello</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/12-tips-on-dating-as-an-introverted-man-with-anthony-recenello--54008094</link><description><![CDATA[OK, a quick joke.<br /><br />How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)<br />Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.<br /><br />Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.<br />Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.<br />Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.<br /><br />In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…<br /><br />✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not<br />✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches<br />✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together<br />✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections<br />✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with women<br /><br />Oh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.<br /><br />Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.<br /><br /><br />QUOTES<br /><br />"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony Recenello<br />Active listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony Recenello<br /><br /><br />FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE<br /><br />Anthony Recenello<br />Founder and Dating Coach of Wolf &amp; Garden<br />Website:https://recenello.com/<br />Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:<br /><br />http://www.recenello.com/freeclass<br /><br />CHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:<br /><br />https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br /><br />CHAPTERS<br /><br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula<br />05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence<br />16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing<br />23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships<br />28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health<br />37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts<br />43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community Validation<br />47:06 Delving into the Art of Flirting and Sexuality<br />52:13 The Power of Intentions: Candid Conversations about Sex<br />57:36 Expressing Good Intentions and Genuine Emotions<br />01:03:16 Extroverted Friends: Do They Just Talk About Nothing?<br />01:08:27 Mastering Presence and Purpose in Conversations<br />01:15:32 Uncovering Biography Topics and Preferences in Discussions<br />01:20:49 Making Better Connections: The Importance of Early Introductions<br />01:27:00 Outro<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br />https://www.heartcastmedia.com/]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54008094</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 May 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54008094/final_audio.mp3" length="126327494" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c/79d28810-aad1-42b8-b2b9-f0782e33891c.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>OK, a quick joke.

How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)
Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[OK, a quick joke.<br /><br />How much does an introvert weigh? Not enough to break the ice. (Rim shot!)<br />Humor aside, dating can be hard if you’re an introverted guy. It’s difficult (and feels impossible!) to cold-approach an intriguing woman at a bar, party, or social occasion. And you may think that women want outgoing, charismatic men—not quiet, thoughtful guys like you. And that can hurt your confidence.<br /><br />Well, if you feel you’re at a dating disadvantage as an introvert, here’s some good news. A LOT of wonderful women are very attracted to introverted men.<br />Take it from your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, who happens to be a card-carrying introvert: What you THINK is a dating weakness is actually a dating strength. Women LOVE introverted men, as long as you channel your most authentic, attractive self—and learn the art of emotional connection.<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell welcomes dating expert Anthony Recenello, who helps introverted men upgrade their social skills so that they can make emotional connections with women. He and Connell share tons of tips on dating as an introverted man.<br />Also, fun fact: Anthony used to coach Connell! Years ago, Anthony helped your host go from insecure and introverted to confident and downright magnetic to women. So, it’s like Jedi Luke Skywalker interviews Master Yoda.<br /><br />In this far-reaching conversation, Connell and Anthony help you get more confidence and more dates, and discuss…<br /><br />✔ How to be charismatic with women, even if you’re an introvert—without acting like someone you’re not<br />✔ A simple, effective strategy to meet women off of the apps, without having to do approaches<br />✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to dating as an introverted man, that Anthony gave Connell when they worked together<br />✔ Why dating success is not about “picking women up” but rather about making genuine emotional connections<br />✔ How to never “run out of things to say” on dates, so you have fun, flirty conversations with women<br /><br />Oh, and catch Anthony showing off his coaching skills on a brand-new dating reality show, “Love Always,” on Paramount Plus.<br /><br />Listen now, so that you can stop feeling insecure and start dating with confidence, while making genuine emotional connections—and doing it with total authenticity and respect for women.<br /><br /><br />QUOTES<br /><br />"In like-minded communities, I found confidence, joy, and authenticity. It's not about bars and going out for me; it's about connecting with people who share my passions.”- Anthony Recenello<br />Active listening creates a powerful impression when you ask a question and allow someone to share without interruption. It shows your genuine interest in them and encourages them to open up further."- Anthony Recenello<br /><br /><br />FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE<br /><br />Anthony Recenello<br />Founder and Dating Coach of Wolf &amp; Garden<br />Website:https://recenello.com/<br />Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyrecenello/<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ANTHONY, OR TAKE HIS FREE CLASS:<br /><br />http://www.recenello.com/freeclass<br /><br />CHECK OUT ANTHONY’S NEW REALITY SHOW:<br /><br />https://deadline.com/2023/05/paramount-pansexual-reality-dating-series-love-allways-lexi-paloma-premiere-date-1235367102/<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br />http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact<br /><br /><br />CHAPTERS<br /><br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:19 Unveiling the Charisma Formula<br />05:03 The Charisma Formula: Authentic Expression and Presence<br />16:55 Enhancing Social Skills through Daily Socializing<br />23:57 From Improv to Acting: How It Impacted Relationships<br />28:25 The Three Keys to Confidence: Presence, Purpose, and Health<br />37:15 Transforming Lives: A Dating Method for Introverts<br />43:36 Boosting Introvert Confidence through Community...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5264</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>dating,datingapp,love,onlinedating,podcast,relationship,transformation,wedding</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App: 23 Quick Tips!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-start-a-conversation-on-a-dating-app-23-quick-tips--53998372</link><description><![CDATA[You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.<br /><br />And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.<br /><br />Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches.<br /><br />Let’s change all of that!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 23 of his best tips for starting conversations on the apps, so you can get women writing you back… and go on dates!<br /><br />Connell is about to teach you…<br /><br />✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to writing dating-app openers that start fun, flirty conversations<br />✔ How to quickly write a personalized opener that makes her EXCITED to write you back<br />✔ The 5 kinds of openers you never, ever want to send to women… and the 5 “power openers” that are sure to get her writing you back.<br />✔ His 7 funniest copy-paste openers you can use to get girls giggling, just in case you get stuck with what to write<br /><br />And you’ll learn how to start a conversation on a dating app while showcasing your best, most authentic personality… because women like you for YOU.Listen now, to STOP getting ghosted on the apps, and START having flirty conversations that lead to dates.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53998372</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 May 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53998372/episode_14.mp3" length="36078662" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18/353a7a4d-173a-4d37-94b5-50b4c8b4fc18.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.

And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.

Bottom line? You’re...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You finally get a good match on a dating app with a cool, attractive woman you’d LOVE to meet. You craft the “perfect” opener, send it, and wait for her reply.<br /><br />And wait… and wait… and wait. Crickets, tumbleweeds, radio silence.<br /><br />Bottom line? You’re just not sure how to start a conversation on a dating app. You doing something wrong but you’re not sure what. It can make you feel like the apps will never work for you. Another dateless weekend approaches.<br /><br />Let’s change all of that!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett shares 23 of his best tips for starting conversations on the apps, so you can get women writing you back… and go on dates!<br /><br />Connell is about to teach you…<br /><br />✔ The No. 1 biggest secret to writing dating-app openers that start fun, flirty conversations<br />✔ How to quickly write a personalized opener that makes her EXCITED to write you back<br />✔ The 5 kinds of openers you never, ever want to send to women… and the 5 “power openers” that are sure to get her writing you back.<br />✔ His 7 funniest copy-paste openers you can use to get girls giggling, just in case you get stuck with what to write<br /><br />And you’ll learn how to start a conversation on a dating app while showcasing your best, most authentic personality… because women like you for YOU.Listen now, to STOP getting ghosted on the apps, and START having flirty conversations that lead to dates.<br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRATICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1503</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>First Date Tips for Guys: 27 Tips to Make Sparks Fly</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/first-date-tips-for-guys-27-tips-to-make-sparks-fly--53958751</link><description><![CDATA[You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right?<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—offers 27 first date tips for guys, to help you make sparks fly.<br /><br />Get ready to learn…<br /><br />✔ The exact words to use to when asking her out, to get a “yes!”<br /> <br />✔ The 7 first-date questions you can ask to create a romantic connection<br /><br />✔ Connell’s top 3 ways to go for (and get!) the first kiss, in a way women love<br /><br />✔ A simple, 3-step system to create mutual sparks while authentic, so that your date becomes attracted to the REAL you.<br /><br />PLUS: Connell shares his top tip for instant first-date confidence.Bad first dates are no fun, and they can make you want to give up on dating. Listen now to all 27 first date tips for guys, to go from frustration… to making sparks fly, and doing it as your true, most authentic self.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53958751</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2023 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53958751/episode_13.mp3" length="73461062" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23/b1bca91a-5ea7-4df7-94f3-6983bc730a23.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You’d love to have fun, flirty first dates with women you’re attracted to… and have the dates go great, right? But maybe you lack confidence on first dates, you run out of things to say, and women either ghost you or say, “You seem nice, but I wasn’t feeling the connection.” So, you now have two choices: Get a nice inflatable woman, or (better yet!), listen to this podcast and have fun, flirty dates that help you attract your dream girlfriend! Tough choice, right?<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—offers 27 first date tips for guys, to help you make sparks fly.<br /><br />Get ready to learn…<br /><br />✔ The exact words to use to when asking her out, to get a “yes!”<br /> <br />✔ The 7 first-date questions you can ask to create a romantic connection<br /><br />✔ Connell’s top 3 ways to go for (and get!) the first kiss, in a way women love<br /><br />✔ A simple, 3-step system to create mutual sparks while authentic, so that your date becomes attracted to the REAL you.<br /><br />PLUS: Connell shares his top tip for instant first-date confidence.Bad first dates are no fun, and they can make you want to give up on dating. Listen now to all 27 first date tips for guys, to go from frustration… to making sparks fly, and doing it as your true, most authentic self.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3061</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Be More Confident with Women? Become Radically Authentic!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-more-confident-with-women-become-radically-authentic--53918511</link><description><![CDATA[You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?<br /><br />But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.<br /><br />Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. <br /><br />Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…<br /><br />✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking<br /><br />✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”<br /><br />✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.<br /><br />Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.<br /><br />Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53918511</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2023 09:25:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53918511/final_audio.mp3" length="78179078" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b/2aab911a-c353-4638-8b43-29d1ebb0612b.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?

But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.

Rejection. Loneliness. Low...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want to confidently date wonderful women, flirt with charm, and find your dream girlfriend. Right?<br /><br />But self-doubt holds you back, you’re not sure how to talk to girls… and desirable women just don’t seem into you.<br /><br />Rejection. Loneliness. Low confidence. Dating can suck. But it doesn’t have to!<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares the most important secret for learning how to get a girlfriend: become Radically Authentic. <br /><br />Connell gives it to you straight. Creepy “pickup” tricks don’t work. Scripted lines don’t work. Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t work. What does work? Unleashing the power of Radical Authenticity to awaken your most attractive self. Because women like you for YOU. You’re about to learn the secrets of being Radically Authentic, such as…<br /><br />✔ How to be confident with women, so you can approach cute girls and get dates… even if you’re not tall or great-looking<br /><br />✔ The 5 steps you can take TODAY to put you on the path to finding your dream girlfriend.<br /><br />✔ How to “spark attraction” just by speaking your honest, authentic self, and never “run out of things to say”<br /><br />✔ PLUS: At the end of the podcast, Connell gives you a practical, one-sentence marching order that will transform your confidence and your dating success IF you put it into practice.<br /><br />Dating can make you feel frustrated and rejected. It doesn’t have to be this way! YOU ARE ENOUGH as your authentic self to gain confidence, flirt with charm… and find a wonderful woman who loves you for YOU.<br /><br />Listen now, to go from self-doubt and loneliness to confidently dating wonderful women who like you for your TRUE, authentic self.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s No. 1 Bestselling Dating Book for Men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” Your Practical Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend by Being Radically Authentic:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3258</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! How to Get Out of the Friend Zone on Dates and Make Sparks Fly</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-coaching-how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone-on-dates-and-make-sparks-fly--53727992</link><description><![CDATA[If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.<br /><br />But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.<br /><br />That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.<br /><br />If you’re like Chris, you’ve had his struggles: He could get dates, but women kept saying the same thing after a date or two: “You’re a nice guy, but I’m not feeling a connection. But we can be friends.”<br /><br />In this episode, Connell gives Chris—and you—a simple plan that helped Chris go from hearing “Let’s be friends” to “Let’s make out!”<br /><br />These tips transformed his dating life, and they can do the same for you.<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔  Why you’re getting stuck in friend zone, and how to escape<br />✔  How to harness the power of “man-to-woman communication” to ignite romantic sparks on dates<br />✔  The one-sentence “power compliment” to give your date to keep you out of the friend zone<br />✔  How to never “run out of things to say,” so that you can be flirty, funny and authentic—because women like you for YOU!<br /><br />Connell helped Chris go from the friend zone to fun, flirty dates. And you can fix the friend zone, too! Listen now.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s Bestselling Dating Guide for men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” your step-by-step guide on how to get a girlfriend:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00:00 Introduction<br />00:03:05 The three social contexts<br />00:05:46 The man-to-woman communication<br />00:10:01 Book your free call today with Connell Barrett<br />00:11:42 Coaching Chris<br />00:17:05 Chris’ typical dates<br />00:21:02 The seven essentials of great dates<br />00:33:47 Get the amazing book of Connell, “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”<br />00:35:12 Continuation in coaching Chris<br />00:37:09 Chris on his man-to-woman communication<br />00:45:49 How to be yourself in dating<br />00:47:58 The four escalators<br />00:46:58 Connell’s tips to Chris<br />01:03:47 Outro<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53727992</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 May 2023 09:05:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53727992/final_audio.mp3" length="92299718" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2/295f2ca3-ef5f-470b-9783-e4ba399bc3b2.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.

But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’re stuck in the Friend Zone with women, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He didn’t just live in the Friend Zone—he owned real estate there.<br /><br />But he learned how to escape. And in this special LIVE COACHING episode with his client, Chris, Connell will give you a practical plan to stop getting “friend zoned” and start igniting sparks with women you’re interested in.<br /><br />That’s right! This episode is the second-best thing to working with a great dating coach, because you get to listen in and use ALL of the tips.<br /><br />If you’re like Chris, you’ve had his struggles: He could get dates, but women kept saying the same thing after a date or two: “You’re a nice guy, but I’m not feeling a connection. But we can be friends.”<br /><br />In this episode, Connell gives Chris—and you—a simple plan that helped Chris go from hearing “Let’s be friends” to “Let’s make out!”<br /><br />These tips transformed his dating life, and they can do the same for you.<br /><br />You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔  Why you’re getting stuck in friend zone, and how to escape<br />✔  How to harness the power of “man-to-woman communication” to ignite romantic sparks on dates<br />✔  The one-sentence “power compliment” to give your date to keep you out of the friend zone<br />✔  How to never “run out of things to say,” so that you can be flirty, funny and authentic—because women like you for YOU!<br /><br />Connell helped Chris go from the friend zone to fun, flirty dates. And you can fix the friend zone, too! Listen now.<br /><br />For a Free Strategy Call with Connell, to Learn How to Attract Your Dream Relationship:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get Connell’s Bestselling Dating Guide for men, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” your step-by-step guide on how to get a girlfriend:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00:00 Introduction<br />00:03:05 The three social contexts<br />00:05:46 The man-to-woman communication<br />00:10:01 Book your free call today with Connell Barrett<br />00:11:42 Coaching Chris<br />00:17:05 Chris’ typical dates<br />00:21:02 The seven essentials of great dates<br />00:33:47 Get the amazing book of Connell, “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”<br />00:35:12 Continuation in coaching Chris<br />00:37:09 Chris on his man-to-woman communication<br />00:45:49 How to be yourself in dating<br />00:47:58 The four escalators<br />00:46:58 Connell’s tips to Chris<br />01:03:47 Outro<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3846</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Date Wonderful Women without Approaching or Using Apps</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-date-wonderful-women-without-approaching-or-using-apps--53727923</link><description><![CDATA[So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit.<br /><br />Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women?<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social circle!<br /><br />In this episode, Kramer, the founder of Inner Confidence, will help you…<br /><br />✔ Meet smart, attractive women not by swiping on the apps but by using your social connections<br />✔ Create a step-by-step plan to get more dates, no nerve-wracking approaches needed<br />✔ Uncover the biggest dating mistake that you don’t know you’re making, and help you fix it<br />✔ PLUS: Connell and Robbie talk about unlocking the power of true authenticity, so that desirable women will like you for YOU.<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop endlessly swiping on the apps and start meeting great women using your social connections. It’s time to take your dating confidence to the next level.<br /><br />To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:<br /><a href="http://www.innerconfidence.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.innerconfidence.com/</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />Women are going to be incredibly flaky and the hotter they are, the more likely they're going to be flaky. - Robbie<br /><br />Online dating is just riddled with flakes. Like you're going to get at least 50% to 75% flakes if the girls are really hot. - Robbie<br /><br />The best dating hack I've found is to shift from a hunter mindset of chasing one girl at a time to a farming mindset of cultivating an environment with a favorable ratio. - Robbie<br /><br />Our Host<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Click this link:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact/</a><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Featured Guest<br />Robbie Kramer<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer</a><br /><a href="https://innerconfidence.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://innerconfidence.com</a><br /><br />To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:<br /><a href="http://www.innerconfidence.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.innerconfidence.com/</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:04:23 A sample story of heart surgeon on his dating life<br />00:07:03 An Internal tip and external tip from Connell<br />00:15:25 Book a call with Coach Connell to give you advice in the dating space<br />00:17:00 Introducing our guest, Robbie Kramer<br />00:19:35 Robbie’s problem before with his dating life<br />00:24:04 Robbie’s breakthrough moment<br />00:35:00 Why are women flaky?<br />00:43:52 Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”<br />00:45:35 Robbie’s practical tips to be successful on dating<br />00:54:25 Another successful story from one of Robbie’s friend<br />01:00:17 Rapid fire question time<br />01:08:56 Takeaways from Robbie<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="http://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53727923</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 May 2023 09:55:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53727923/final_audio.mp3" length="109003142" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0/a335d448-62e3-4e29-8807-4c7ab57eb8a0.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So you want to attract a wonderful woman into your life, for love, companionship and hate-watching “Emily in Paris” together. BUT… dating apps don’t work for you. And the thought of approaching random women makes you more anxious than an IRS audit.<br /><br />Well, what if you could get great dates and find your ideal girlfriend, and never have to swipe on an app, or nervously hit on random women?<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes Robbie Kramer, a dating expert who helps men meet women by using their social circle!<br /><br />In this episode, Kramer, the founder of Inner Confidence, will help you…<br /><br />✔ Meet smart, attractive women not by swiping on the apps but by using your social connections<br />✔ Create a step-by-step plan to get more dates, no nerve-wracking approaches needed<br />✔ Uncover the biggest dating mistake that you don’t know you’re making, and help you fix it<br />✔ PLUS: Connell and Robbie talk about unlocking the power of true authenticity, so that desirable women will like you for YOU.<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop endlessly swiping on the apps and start meeting great women using your social connections. It’s time to take your dating confidence to the next level.<br /><br />To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:<br /><a href="http://www.innerconfidence.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.innerconfidence.com/</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />Women are going to be incredibly flaky and the hotter they are, the more likely they're going to be flaky. - Robbie<br /><br />Online dating is just riddled with flakes. Like you're going to get at least 50% to 75% flakes if the girls are really hot. - Robbie<br /><br />The best dating hack I've found is to shift from a hunter mindset of chasing one girl at a time to a farming mindset of cultivating an environment with a favorable ratio. - Robbie<br /><br />Our Host<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Click this link:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact/</a><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: <br /><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Featured Guest<br />Robbie Kramer<br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer</a><br /><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer</a><br /><a href="https://innerconfidence.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://innerconfidence.com</a><br /><br />To Learn More or to Work with Robbie:<br /><a href="http://www.innerconfidence.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.innerconfidence.com/</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />00:04:23 A sample story of heart surgeon on his dating life<br />00:07:03 An Internal tip and external tip from Connell<br />00:15:25 Book a call with Coach Connell to give you advice in the dating space<br />00:17:00 Introducing our guest, Robbie Kramer<br />00:19:35 Robbie’s problem before with his dating life<br />00:24:04 Robbie’s breakthrough moment<br />00:35:00 Why are women flaky?<br />00:43:52 Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”<br...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4542</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Be Flirty and Funny—and Never Run Out of Things to Say</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-flirty-and-funny-and-never-run-out-of-things-to-say--53775900</link><description><![CDATA[You know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.<br /><br />You can feel her losing interest in you, and sure enough—she goes off to find a flirty guy who can make her laugh.<br /><br />It can make you feel boring, unattractive, and get you stuck in the dreaded “friend zone.”<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett gives you his secret weapon to be flirty and funny, whether you’re texting a new match on the dating apps, or looking to charm your Saturday night date.<br /><br />Connell will teach you how to…<br /><br />✔ Turn a boring conversation into something fun and flirty, using a powerful technique from improv comedy that can transform your flirting skills<br />✔ Get out of your head and in the moment with women, so you can make sparks fly with your words<br />✔ Text women in a way that builds a genuine, fun connection that helps you get more dates<br /><br />And of course, you’ll be able to do all of this as your best, most authentic self—without any creepy “pickup artist” nonsense.<br /><br />Listen now, to take your conversations with women from dull and boring to funny, flirty… and smash out of the friend zone!<br /><br />Our Host<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Link: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />You don't need to be great looking. You don't have to be tall. I mean, if you can be funny on a date that's sexier than six pack abs. - Connell<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:26 You don’t need to be a comedian to get the girl<br />02:59 Use the core concepts in improv comedy<br />08:25 Book a call with Coach Connell or Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”<br />09:49 An example of “If this is true, what else is true?” concept<br />16:11 Another example of “Yes Ending” concept<br />21:03 Recommended actions to elevate your game<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="http://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53775900</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 May 2023 09:30:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53775900/final_audio.mp3" length="34048262" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9/a8b9baf1-f7fc-4210-8bad-7bad8470a9b9.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.

You...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You know what sucks more than a Vin Diesel movie? When you’re talking to (or texting) a woman you’re into, and you just know you’re being boring. You’re stuck in your head. You ask dull questions in “interview mode.” You’re not sure what to say.<br /><br />You can feel her losing interest in you, and sure enough—she goes off to find a flirty guy who can make her laugh.<br /><br />It can make you feel boring, unattractive, and get you stuck in the dreaded “friend zone.”<br /><br />In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach Connell Barrett gives you his secret weapon to be flirty and funny, whether you’re texting a new match on the dating apps, or looking to charm your Saturday night date.<br /><br />Connell will teach you how to…<br /><br />✔ Turn a boring conversation into something fun and flirty, using a powerful technique from improv comedy that can transform your flirting skills<br />✔ Get out of your head and in the moment with women, so you can make sparks fly with your words<br />✔ Text women in a way that builds a genuine, fun connection that helps you get more dates<br /><br />And of course, you’ll be able to do all of this as your best, most authentic self—without any creepy “pickup artist” nonsense.<br /><br />Listen now, to take your conversations with women from dull and boring to funny, flirty… and smash out of the friend zone!<br /><br />Our Host<br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Link: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />You don't need to be great looking. You don't have to be tall. I mean, if you can be funny on a date that's sexier than six pack abs. - Connell<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:26 You don’t need to be a comedian to get the girl<br />02:59 Use the core concepts in improv comedy<br />08:25 Book a call with Coach Connell or Get our best selling book on Amazon Today “Dating Sucks But You Don’t”<br />09:49 An example of “If this is true, what else is true?” concept<br />16:11 Another example of “Yes Ending” concept<br />21:03 Recommended actions to elevate your game<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="http://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1419</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>LIVE COACHING! How Connell’s client went from fearful to confidently approaching women…and getting dates!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-coaching-how-connell-s-client-went-from-fearful-to-confidently-approaching-women-and-getting-dates--53727782</link><description><![CDATA[Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was a<br />dumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)<br /><br />But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet… and it’s<br />crushing your confidence and costing you dates. Let’s fix this!<br /><br />You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coach<br />Connell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women.<br /><br />Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anxiety.” He couldn’t even say hello to attractive<br />strangers, let alone flirt or ask women out. “I feel paralyzed with fear,” Xavier told Connell.<br /><br />After this session with Connell, Xavier’s fear of approaching vanished, and he’s been confidently<br />meeting (and dating) some incredible women.<br /><br />In this special live-coaching episode, you’ll hear the session that transformed Xavier’s dating<br />life. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔ The secret to unstoppable confidence when you approach women<br />✔ The “magic words” women love to hear when you meet them stores, parks, or the gym<br />✔ How to approach with charm and at bars, and get HER flirting with YOU<br />✔ The biggest mistake men make when approaching, and what to do instead<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/</a>I<br />nstagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Click this link:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact/</a><br /><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”<br />Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />The main cause of approach anxiety is fearing that a woman is going to, quote unquote reject you. And then you are going to perceive that as you are not attractive and not worthy of women. - Connell<br /><br />To establish a connection with a woman, express your genuine interest and attraction, and then suggest taking her on a date to capitalize on the momentum of the interaction. - Connell<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00:00 Introduction<br />00:03:00 Online dating experience<br />00:07:53 Top 3 tips for online dating<br />00:17:53 Book a call with Coach Connell<br />00:19:27 Getting a live coaching relationship with Xavier<br />00:24:42 Introducing Xavier and his background<br />00:28:02 Xavier’s approach anxiety moments<br />00:36:08 The Direct and Indirect way of approaching<br />00:39:38 Approaching a woman after getting a coaching from Coach Connel<br />l00:43:16 The Day approach versus The night approach<br />00:58:04 Get “Dating Sucks But You Don’t” today on Amazon<br />00:59:35 More dating tips about daytime approach versus nighttime approach<br />01:08:30 Having fun or going to meet women at night?<br />01:12:51 Planning your logistics when meeting women<br />01:22:42 Approaching group of women in difficult settings<br />01:27:23 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="http://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53727782</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 May 2023 09:35:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53727782/final_audio.mp3" length="127739270" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f/a892c0ac-f899-451f-8076-8a067fc23d4f.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was a
dumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)

But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet…...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pop quiz! Do you want to confidently approach and date beautiful women? (OK, that was a<br />dumb question—sort of like, “Do gingers have souls?” Of course they don’t!)<br /><br />But chances are, fear keeps you from breaking the ice with women you’d love to meet… and it’s<br />crushing your confidence and costing you dates. Let’s fix this!<br /><br />You’re about to listen to an actual coaching session, in which (soulless ginger) dating coach<br />Connell Barrett helps his client overcome his fear of approaching women.<br /><br />Xavier, 31, was struggling with “approach anxiety.” He couldn’t even say hello to attractive<br />strangers, let alone flirt or ask women out. “I feel paralyzed with fear,” Xavier told Connell.<br /><br />After this session with Connell, Xavier’s fear of approaching vanished, and he’s been confidently<br />meeting (and dating) some incredible women.<br /><br />In this special live-coaching episode, you’ll hear the session that transformed Xavier’s dating<br />life. You’re about to learn…<br /><br />✔ The secret to unstoppable confidence when you approach women<br />✔ The “magic words” women love to hear when you meet them stores, parks, or the gym<br />✔ How to approach with charm and at bars, and get HER flirting with YOU<br />✔ The biggest mistake men make when approaching, and what to do instead<br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/</a>I<br />nstagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Book Your Free Call Today and grab a time that works for you<br />Click this link:<a href="https://datingtransformation.com/contact/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://datingtransformation.com/contact/</a><br /><br />Get the number 1 Amazing Bestselling book “Dating Sucks, But You Don’t”<br />Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Quotes<br /><br />The main cause of approach anxiety is fearing that a woman is going to, quote unquote reject you. And then you are going to perceive that as you are not attractive and not worthy of women. - Connell<br /><br />To establish a connection with a woman, express your genuine interest and attraction, and then suggest taking her on a date to capitalize on the momentum of the interaction. - Connell<br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00:00 Introduction<br />00:03:00 Online dating experience<br />00:07:53 Top 3 tips for online dating<br />00:17:53 Book a call with Coach Connell<br />00:19:27 Getting a live coaching relationship with Xavier<br />00:24:42 Introducing Xavier and his background<br />00:28:02 Xavier’s approach anxiety moments<br />00:36:08 The Direct and Indirect way of approaching<br />00:39:38 Approaching a woman after getting a coaching from Coach Connel<br />l00:43:16 The Day approach versus The night approach<br />00:58:04 Get “Dating Sucks But You Don’t” today on Amazon<br />00:59:35 More dating tips about daytime approach versus nighttime approach<br />01:08:30 Having fun or going to meet women at night?<br />01:12:51 Planning your logistics when meeting women<br />01:22:42 Approaching group of women in difficult settings<br />01:27:23 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="http://www.heartcastmedia.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">http://www.heartcastmedia.com</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5323</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>From nerdy to flirty! How to stop doubting yourself and attract your dream girlfriend (with Brian Pippard)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-nerdy-to-flirty-how-to-stop-doubting-yourself-and-attract-your-dream-girlfriend-with-brian-pippard--53710988</link><description><![CDATA[WARNING! This podcast episode contains tested dating tips that have been known to make so-called “nerdy guys” downright magnetic to bright, beautiful women. If you don’t want more dates, more confidence or learn how to get a girlfriend, do NOT listen! Capeesh?<br /><br />So, you want to confidently attract a great a relationship, right? But you sometimes compare yourself to “alpha males,” and you feel that you might be too nerdy, or not charismatic enough, to find a great relationship.<br /><br />This self-doubt leads to loneliness, feeling inferior to other men, and perhaps settling down with an inflatable woman. And no one wants that!<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett talks to a fantastic fellow coach who can help you gain confidence and get dates, even if you’re “nerdy” or introverted.<br /><br />Brian Pippard is the founder of Date Quality Women. He reveals how he went from nerdy and uncool to dating bright, beautiful women. And much like Connell teaches, Brian did it by being authentic and genuine, NOT some creepy “pickup” guy.<br /><br />In this episode, Brian will teach you how to…<br /><br />✔︎ Channel your authentic personality in ways that women find attractive—even if you’re a little nerdy and not extroverted.<br />✔︎ Approach women the right way in the daytime, so you can be charming to women, and not creepy.<br />✔︎ Write fun, flirty dating-app openers that get responses on the apps, so you can get more dates.<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop feeling nerdy and unattractive and start feeling confident in your authentic self, and find a wonderful woman who likes you for YOU.<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH BRIAN:<br /><a href="http://www.datequalitywomen.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datequalitywomen.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S BEST-SELLING DATING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Intro<br />02:07 our guest was a nerdy guy<br />03:34 advice that didn’t work<br />10:49 The Aha moment<br />22:16 What to say and not to say<br />27:42 Approaching women in daytime<br />33:29 Advice for online dating openers<br />41:00 Most unforgettable moment was in coaching others]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53710988</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 May 2023 09:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53710988/final_audio.mp3" length="96838598" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4/55a6e6eb-6e29-4152-9d8f-c8f8583ff2a4.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>WARNING! This podcast episode contains tested dating tips that have been known to make so-called “nerdy guys” downright magnetic to bright, beautiful women. If you don’t want more dates, more confidence or learn how to get a girlfriend, do NOT listen!...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[WARNING! This podcast episode contains tested dating tips that have been known to make so-called “nerdy guys” downright magnetic to bright, beautiful women. If you don’t want more dates, more confidence or learn how to get a girlfriend, do NOT listen! Capeesh?<br /><br />So, you want to confidently attract a great a relationship, right? But you sometimes compare yourself to “alpha males,” and you feel that you might be too nerdy, or not charismatic enough, to find a great relationship.<br /><br />This self-doubt leads to loneliness, feeling inferior to other men, and perhaps settling down with an inflatable woman. And no one wants that!<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett talks to a fantastic fellow coach who can help you gain confidence and get dates, even if you’re “nerdy” or introverted.<br /><br />Brian Pippard is the founder of Date Quality Women. He reveals how he went from nerdy and uncool to dating bright, beautiful women. And much like Connell teaches, Brian did it by being authentic and genuine, NOT some creepy “pickup” guy.<br /><br />In this episode, Brian will teach you how to…<br /><br />✔︎ Channel your authentic personality in ways that women find attractive—even if you’re a little nerdy and not extroverted.<br />✔︎ Approach women the right way in the daytime, so you can be charming to women, and not creepy.<br />✔︎ Write fun, flirty dating-app openers that get responses on the apps, so you can get more dates.<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop feeling nerdy and unattractive and start feeling confident in your authentic self, and find a wonderful woman who likes you for YOU.<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH BRIAN:<br /><a href="http://www.datequalitywomen.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datequalitywomen.com</a><br /><br />FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:<br /><a href="http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.datingtransformation.com/contact</a><br /><br />GET CONNELL’S BEST-SELLING DATING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3GX</a><br /><br />Chapters<br />00:00 Intro<br />02:07 our guest was a nerdy guy<br />03:34 advice that didn’t work<br />10:49 The Aha moment<br />22:16 What to say and not to say<br />27:42 Approaching women in daytime<br />33:29 Advice for online dating openers<br />41:00 Most unforgettable moment was in coaching others]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4035</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How To Be a Confident Man</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-be-a-confident-man--51484575</link><description><![CDATA[Would you love to be a LOT more confident when you see an attractive you want to talk to …but the fear of rejection holds you back? Or maybe there’s a girl you know who you’d love to ask out, but you don’t want to get turned down, or be seen as creepy.<br /><br />The fear of rejection is one of the biggest problems that today’s men face, which is why in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, we turn to the renowned coach Shana James to help you become rejection-proof… and learn how to be a confident man.<br /><br />Shana has coached hundreds of men in all areas of life, from dating to business to mindfulness. She also shares her wisdom every week on her Man Alive podcast. (More than 300 5-star reviews!)<br /><br />Today, Shana and Connell have a lively conversation that’s jam-packed with funny stories and practical advice, so that you can…<br />- Get EXCITED about your dating life, instead of see it as a drag.<br />- Bring true authenticity and vulnerability to your dates<br />- Take those romantic risks—like approaching and asking out your crush—with total confidence, and no fear of rejection.<br />- PLUS: Shana shares one of the best tips from her Rejection Proof coaching program.<br /><br />Listen now, so that Shana can help you go from anxiousness and fear of rejection, to authentic confidence and becoming rejection-proof! It’s time to learn how to approach women.<br /><br />Want to learn how to be a confident man? You’re in the right place!<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SHANA’S COACHING PROGRAMS FOR MEN:<br />Shanajamescoaching.com<br /><br />GIVE HER PODCAST A LISTEN!<br />Man Alive Podcast<br /><br />BECOME A MAN WHO’S REJECTION PROOF:<br />shanajamescoaching.com/rejection-proof/<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"We want the men to feel alive and lit up and turned on and not this toxic masculinity that we see out there." - Shana<br /><br />"I'm so grateful that there are men out there teaching that authenticity is awesome and sexy. It warms my heart." - Shana<br /><br />Special mentions in the episode:<br /><br />What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal<br />Ted Talk by Shana James<br />Check it here:  <a href="https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk</a> <br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br /><br />Shana James<br />Love and Leadership Coach, Facilitator, Author<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065</a> <br />Podcast: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com</a> <br />Subscribe: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a> <br /> <br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Intro<br />02:21 Shana's Ted Talk <br />05:50 Why did Shana start coaching? <br />08:36 How to approach women with confidence<br />10:30 How Shana helps people achieve a successful dating life<br />13:11 How to be rejection-proof<br />17:24 Game-changer tips from Shana<br />39:09 Advice for introverts<br />41:48 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media.<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51484575</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2022 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51484575/final_audio_e6.mp3" length="75317510" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258/ff625f51-5262-4ee8-8da1-ebf730b7e258.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Would you love to be a LOT more confident when you see an attractive you want to talk to …but the fear of rejection holds you back? Or maybe there’s a girl you know who you’d love to ask out, but you don’t want to get turned down, or be seen as...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Would you love to be a LOT more confident when you see an attractive you want to talk to …but the fear of rejection holds you back? Or maybe there’s a girl you know who you’d love to ask out, but you don’t want to get turned down, or be seen as creepy.<br /><br />The fear of rejection is one of the biggest problems that today’s men face, which is why in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, we turn to the renowned coach Shana James to help you become rejection-proof… and learn how to be a confident man.<br /><br />Shana has coached hundreds of men in all areas of life, from dating to business to mindfulness. She also shares her wisdom every week on her Man Alive podcast. (More than 300 5-star reviews!)<br /><br />Today, Shana and Connell have a lively conversation that’s jam-packed with funny stories and practical advice, so that you can…<br />- Get EXCITED about your dating life, instead of see it as a drag.<br />- Bring true authenticity and vulnerability to your dates<br />- Take those romantic risks—like approaching and asking out your crush—with total confidence, and no fear of rejection.<br />- PLUS: Shana shares one of the best tips from her Rejection Proof coaching program.<br /><br />Listen now, so that Shana can help you go from anxiousness and fear of rejection, to authentic confidence and becoming rejection-proof! It’s time to learn how to approach women.<br /><br />Want to learn how to be a confident man? You’re in the right place!<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SHANA’S COACHING PROGRAMS FOR MEN:<br />Shanajamescoaching.com<br /><br />GIVE HER PODCAST A LISTEN!<br />Man Alive Podcast<br /><br />BECOME A MAN WHO’S REJECTION PROOF:<br />shanajamescoaching.com/rejection-proof/<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"We want the men to feel alive and lit up and turned on and not this toxic masculinity that we see out there." - Shana<br /><br />"I'm so grateful that there are men out there teaching that authenticity is awesome and sexy. It warms my heart." - Shana<br /><br />Special mentions in the episode:<br /><br />What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal<br />Ted Talk by Shana James<br />Check it here:  <a href="https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk" rel="noopener">https://youtu.be/GGIq5_Ll4zk</a> <br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br /><br />Shana James<br />Love and Leadership Coach, Facilitator, Author<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/shana-james-3004065</a> <br />Podcast: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com/man-alive-podcast</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com</a> <br />Subscribe: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/" rel="noopener">https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a> <br /> <br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Intro<br />02:21 Shana's Ted Talk <br />05:50 Why did Shana start coaching? <br />08:36 How to approach women with confidence<br />10:30 How Shana helps people achieve a successful dating life<br />13:11 How to be rejection-proof<br />17:24 Game-changer tips from Shana<br />39:09 Advice for introverts<br />41:48 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media.<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3138</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advice,dates,dating,intimacy,love,men,passion,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-start-a-conversation-on-a-dating-app--51414357</link><description><![CDATA[How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App<br /><br />Chances are, you struggle when it comes to how to start a quality conversation on a dating app. Maybe you get few (or zero!) good matches, or the connections that you do get don’t lead to dates.<br /><br />And if you struggle on the apps, it can lower your confidence and make you want to give up on dating.<br /><br />The great news? This episode of Dating Transformation will give you some game-changing<br />online-dating tips to help you know exactly how to start a conversation on a dating app.<br /><br />Today, Connell is joined by Helen Virt, one of the bright, innovative minds behind the Hily<br />dating app. Hily—which stands for Hey, I Like You—is among the top 10-ranked dating apps in the USA. And in Connell’s opinion, it’s the best dating app for men… period.<br /><br />Connell and Helen talk about how Hily has grown so fast (25 million users worldwide), and how you can use Hily to take your dating life to the next level.<br /><br />This episode will reveal…<br />-The biggest online dating mistake you’re making… and you don’t even know it!<br />-Connell’s favorite dating-app opener that works 80% of the time<br />-Exactly what to write on your bio to ignite quality conversations<br />-PLUS: How Hily’s innovative features can help you learn how to start a conversation on a<br />dating app.<br /><br />So listen now, and go from endlessly swiping and swiping… to starting quality conversations on Hily, or any dating app.<br /><br />CHECK OUT HILY ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@Hily_App<br /><br />GO TO THEIR WEBSITE FOR MORE DATING HELP:<br />Hily.com<br /><br />FOLLOW THEM ON TWITTER FOR DATING TIPS:<br />@Hilyapp<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51414357</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2022 16:08:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51414357/final_audio_e5.mp3" length="87024710" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa/7bc9a3fd-dc02-4eb7-aed6-c80543815bfa.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App&#13;
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Chances are, you struggle when it comes to how to start a quality conversation on a dating app. Maybe you get few (or zero!) good matches, or the connections that you do get don’t lead to dates.&#13;
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And if...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App<br /><br />Chances are, you struggle when it comes to how to start a quality conversation on a dating app. Maybe you get few (or zero!) good matches, or the connections that you do get don’t lead to dates.<br /><br />And if you struggle on the apps, it can lower your confidence and make you want to give up on dating.<br /><br />The great news? This episode of Dating Transformation will give you some game-changing<br />online-dating tips to help you know exactly how to start a conversation on a dating app.<br /><br />Today, Connell is joined by Helen Virt, one of the bright, innovative minds behind the Hily<br />dating app. Hily—which stands for Hey, I Like You—is among the top 10-ranked dating apps in the USA. And in Connell’s opinion, it’s the best dating app for men… period.<br /><br />Connell and Helen talk about how Hily has grown so fast (25 million users worldwide), and how you can use Hily to take your dating life to the next level.<br /><br />This episode will reveal…<br />-The biggest online dating mistake you’re making… and you don’t even know it!<br />-Connell’s favorite dating-app opener that works 80% of the time<br />-Exactly what to write on your bio to ignite quality conversations<br />-PLUS: How Hily’s innovative features can help you learn how to start a conversation on a<br />dating app.<br /><br />So listen now, and go from endlessly swiping and swiping… to starting quality conversations on Hily, or any dating app.<br /><br />CHECK OUT HILY ON INSTAGRAM:<br />@Hily_App<br /><br />GO TO THEIR WEBSITE FOR MORE DATING HELP:<br />Hily.com<br /><br />FOLLOW THEM ON TWITTER FOR DATING TIPS:<br />@Hilyapp<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3626</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>date,dating,flirting,hily,love,men,online,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/26b7bd4d2826c2b196f1226e1b6eb3ca.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How To Talk To Women</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-talk-to-women--51416571</link><description><![CDATA[How to Talk to a Beautiful Woman<br /><br />Do you want to learn how to talk to a beautiful woman, but you struggle with what to say? Are you not sure what to write when you’re sending a dating app opener, or texting a girl? Do you run out of things to say on dates?<br /><br />Not knowing how to talk to a beautiful woman leads to awkward silences, bad dates, and major frustration.<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell talks to a man who can help you always know how to talk to women, so that your dates, texting, and conversations become fun and flirty.<br /><br />Tripp Kramer—author of the how-to dating book “Magnetic”—is a master at the art of how to talk to women. His insanely practical “How to Talk to Girls” podcast is one of the most popular pods in the dating industry. And has a LOT of wisdom to share today.<br /><br />In this episode, Tripp Kramer will help you to… <br /><br />-Avoid “interview mode” and have engaging conversations with women<br />-Stop sending texts that go nowhere, and start texting your way to more dates -Use his top 3 “game-changing tips” for how to talk to a beautiful woman<br />-PLUS: Tripp and Connell talk about how to be flirty WITOUT being creepy<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop running out of things to say and start getting girls giggling, flirting, and meeting you for (great) dates.<br /><br />CHECK OUT TRIP’S PODCAST:<br />How to Talk to Girls Podcast<br /><br />VISIT HIS INSTAGRAM FOR MORE TIPS AND ADVICE:<br />@trippadvice<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH TRIPP:<br />Trippadvice.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /> <br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"This crazy emotional rollercoaster we experience happens when we’re going through growth or going through something that challenges us." - Tripp Krazmer<br /><br />"As long as they do the homework and they stay consistent, it still shocks me sometimes, even though I'm the one who has the program for them." - Tripp Kramer<br /><br />"Being able to be successful with women will also give us good results and accomplishments in other areas too such as career and personal development." - Tripp Kramer<br /><br />"Shyness is temporary and it will not always be part of our personality." - Tripp Kramer<br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br /><br />Tripp Kramer<br />CEO at Tripp Advice<br />Website: <a href="https://www.coachedbytripp.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.coachedbytripp.com/</a> <br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/</a> <br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice</a> <br />Podcast: How to talk to Girls by Tripp Kramer <br />Book: "Magnetic: Cultivate Confidence, Become Rejection-Proof and Naturally Attract The Women You Desire" <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref</a>=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0 <br /> <br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:54 Tripp’s dating problems in the past<br />06:03 Connell approaches a woman for the first time<br />06:56 Tripp’s breakthrough moment<br />14:26 Tripp steals Tom Green's girl<br />18:37 Learning from mistakes in dating<br />24:39 How to take action<br />30:23 Success stories<br />34:58 How getting good with women is a gateway drug to success<br />39:21 How to talk to girls<br />42:35 Dos and don'ts of texting women<br />45:34 Game-changing tip to get better dates<br />49:14 Advice for the dateless <br />50:33 How to contact Tripp<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media.<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51416571</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 13:25:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51416571/final_audio.mp3" length="90662150" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8/1abc05b8-240c-44b9-bf68-40e1a21e89c8.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How to Talk to a Beautiful Woman&#13;
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Do you want to learn how to talk to a beautiful woman, but you struggle with what to say? Are you not sure what to write when you’re sending a dating app opener, or texting a girl? Do you run out of things to say on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Talk to a Beautiful Woman<br /><br />Do you want to learn how to talk to a beautiful woman, but you struggle with what to say? Are you not sure what to write when you’re sending a dating app opener, or texting a girl? Do you run out of things to say on dates?<br /><br />Not knowing how to talk to a beautiful woman leads to awkward silences, bad dates, and major frustration.<br /><br />In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell talks to a man who can help you always know how to talk to women, so that your dates, texting, and conversations become fun and flirty.<br /><br />Tripp Kramer—author of the how-to dating book “Magnetic”—is a master at the art of how to talk to women. His insanely practical “How to Talk to Girls” podcast is one of the most popular pods in the dating industry. And has a LOT of wisdom to share today.<br /><br />In this episode, Tripp Kramer will help you to… <br /><br />-Avoid “interview mode” and have engaging conversations with women<br />-Stop sending texts that go nowhere, and start texting your way to more dates -Use his top 3 “game-changing tips” for how to talk to a beautiful woman<br />-PLUS: Tripp and Connell talk about how to be flirty WITOUT being creepy<br /><br />Listen now so you can stop running out of things to say and start getting girls giggling, flirting, and meeting you for (great) dates.<br /><br />CHECK OUT TRIP’S PODCAST:<br />How to Talk to Girls Podcast<br /><br />VISIT HIS INSTAGRAM FOR MORE TIPS AND ADVICE:<br />@trippadvice<br /><br />TO LEARN MORE OR TO WORK WITH TRIPP:<br />Trippadvice.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /> <br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"This crazy emotional rollercoaster we experience happens when we’re going through growth or going through something that challenges us." - Tripp Krazmer<br /><br />"As long as they do the homework and they stay consistent, it still shocks me sometimes, even though I'm the one who has the program for them." - Tripp Kramer<br /><br />"Being able to be successful with women will also give us good results and accomplishments in other areas too such as career and personal development." - Tripp Kramer<br /><br />"Shyness is temporary and it will not always be part of our personality." - Tripp Kramer<br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br /><br />Tripp Kramer<br />CEO at Tripp Advice<br />Website: <a href="https://www.coachedbytripp.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.coachedbytripp.com/</a> <br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/tripp-kramer-2b2a686/</a> <br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/TrippAdvice</a> <br />Podcast: How to talk to Girls by Tripp Kramer <br />Book: "Magnetic: Cultivate Confidence, Become Rejection-Proof and Naturally Attract The Women You Desire" <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref" rel="noopener">https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01BOFHRSW/ref</a>=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0 <br /> <br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:54 Tripp’s dating problems in the past<br />06:03 Connell approaches a woman for the first time<br />06:56 Tripp’s breakthrough moment<br />14:26 Tripp steals Tom Green's girl<br />18:37 Learning from mistakes in dating<br />24:39 How to take action<br />30:23 Success stories<br />34:58 How getting good with women...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3778</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advice,dateless,dates,dating,flirting,love,men,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/70ed4ad08c3f2a1333657afb2759817e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>What Women Want In Men</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-women-want-in-men--51406072</link><description><![CDATA[It’s the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” If you’ve ever had your approach rejected, or you THOUGHT a date went great but then she ghosts … well, you know what it’s like to struggle with how to read women.<br /><br />Special guest and TV celebrity Dr. Viviana Coles is here to help! Dr. Viviana is a sex and relationship coach who spent seven seasons as the expert on Lifetime’s “Married at First Sight.” Her mission? To help YOU have the most fulfilling intimate relationship—including great sex—of your life.<br /><br />On today’s Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell asks the brilliant Dr. Coles to “crack the code” on how to read and connect with women, and she does not disappoint. In this episode, Viviana will teach you what women want from men, and she’ll show you… <br /><br />-The simple, charming way to approach a woman at a social event, and make her smile<br />-The way women WANT you to move in for that first kiss<br />-How to confidently—and respectfully—lead a new relationship to the bedroom for the first time, in a way you’ll both love<br />-PLUS: Connell shares a great piece of love advice from Viviana’s bestselling book, “The 4 Intimacy Styles”—a tip on how to keep the wonderful woman you make your partner <br /><br />Also, she’ll explain why penis size does NOT matter nearly as much as you think, and what matters to women instead.<br /><br />Listen now, to go from feeling confused by what women want from men, to knowing exactly what women want from men… so you can attract (and keep!) an amazing woman.<br /><br />TO GET DR. VIVIANA COLES’ BOOK OR LEARN ABOUT HER COACHING:<br />doctorviviana.com<br /><br />SIGN UP FOR HER NEWSLETTER FOR TIPS, ADVICE, AND INFO ON HER UPCOMING COACHING PROGRAMS, FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES: <br />Houstonrelationshiptherapy.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"In dating, you need to be polite and have some tact, but other than that, authenticity is most important." - Dr. Coles<br /><br />"I want to help people round out their intimacy style." - Dr. Coles<br /><br />Book Mentioned:<br /><br />The 4 Intimacy Styles: The Key to Lasting Physical Intimacy<br />Check it here:  <a href="https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/" rel="noopener">https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/</a> <br /> <br />Featured in this episode:<br /><br />Dr. Viviana Coles, President and Lead Psychotherapist at Houston Relationship Therapy, President of the National Sex Therapy Institute, Director of Intimate Connections at Erosante Luxury Retreats, Resident Intimacy Expert at Bloomi, and Certified Sex Therapist. Featured on "Married at First Sight."<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana</a> <br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://doctorviviana.com" rel="noopener">https://doctorviviana.com</a> <br /><br />Connell Barrett, Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a> <br /><br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Intro<br />01:52 Dr. Coles' background<br />07:50 What happened on Dr. Coles' first date with her husband?<br />10:34 The Intimacy Quiz<br />17:24 Connell & Viviana discuss coaching<br />20:34 Thoughts on couples who have less intimacy<br />24:50 What makes men attractive to women?<br />27:04 What is the problem with the provider-mentality among men?<br />33:11 Tips for single men <br />35:36 What men get wrong on dates<br />40:05 What makes a great date?<br />51:30 Dr. Coles' upcoming couples retreat<br />53:47 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media.<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51406072</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51406072/final_audio.mp3" length="95699270" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e/339da090-063b-4349-8e6a-0ca4ad4e0c3e.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” If you’ve ever had your approach rejected, or you THOUGHT a date went great but then she ghosts … well, you know what it’s like to struggle with how to read women.&#13;
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Special guest and TV...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s the age-old question: “What do women want from men?” If you’ve ever had your approach rejected, or you THOUGHT a date went great but then she ghosts … well, you know what it’s like to struggle with how to read women.<br /><br />Special guest and TV celebrity Dr. Viviana Coles is here to help! Dr. Viviana is a sex and relationship coach who spent seven seasons as the expert on Lifetime’s “Married at First Sight.” Her mission? To help YOU have the most fulfilling intimate relationship—including great sex—of your life.<br /><br />On today’s Dating Transformation Podcast, Connell asks the brilliant Dr. Coles to “crack the code” on how to read and connect with women, and she does not disappoint. In this episode, Viviana will teach you what women want from men, and she’ll show you… <br /><br />-The simple, charming way to approach a woman at a social event, and make her smile<br />-The way women WANT you to move in for that first kiss<br />-How to confidently—and respectfully—lead a new relationship to the bedroom for the first time, in a way you’ll both love<br />-PLUS: Connell shares a great piece of love advice from Viviana’s bestselling book, “The 4 Intimacy Styles”—a tip on how to keep the wonderful woman you make your partner <br /><br />Also, she’ll explain why penis size does NOT matter nearly as much as you think, and what matters to women instead.<br /><br />Listen now, to go from feeling confused by what women want from men, to knowing exactly what women want from men… so you can attract (and keep!) an amazing woman.<br /><br />TO GET DR. VIVIANA COLES’ BOOK OR LEARN ABOUT HER COACHING:<br />doctorviviana.com<br /><br />SIGN UP FOR HER NEWSLETTER FOR TIPS, ADVICE, AND INFO ON HER UPCOMING COACHING PROGRAMS, FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES: <br />Houstonrelationshiptherapy.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes:<br /><br />"In dating, you need to be polite and have some tact, but other than that, authenticity is most important." - Dr. Coles<br /><br />"I want to help people round out their intimacy style." - Dr. Coles<br /><br />Book Mentioned:<br /><br />The 4 Intimacy Styles: The Key to Lasting Physical Intimacy<br />Check it here:  <a href="https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/" rel="noopener">https://doctorviviana.com/product/buythebook/</a> <br /> <br />Featured in this episode:<br /><br />Dr. Viviana Coles, President and Lead Psychotherapist at Houston Relationship Therapy, President of the National Sex Therapy Institute, Director of Intimate Connections at Erosante Luxury Retreats, Resident Intimacy Expert at Bloomi, and Certified Sex Therapist. Featured on "Married at First Sight."<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/doctorviviana</a> <br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/DoctorViviana</a> <br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://doctorviviana.com" rel="noopener">https://doctorviviana.com</a> <br /><br />Connell Barrett, Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a> <br /><br />Chapters:<br /><br />00:00 Intro<br />01:52 Dr. Coles' background<br />07:50 What happened on Dr. Coles' first date with her husband?<br />10:34 The Intimacy Quiz<br />17:24 Connell & Viviana discuss coaching<br />20:34 Thoughts on couples who have less intimacy<br />24:50 What makes men attractive to women?<br />27:04 What is the problem with the provider-mentality among men?<br />33:11 Tips for...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3988</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>admiring,advice,crush,date,dating,flirting,love,men,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/cae4d288bb367201d6267b9f5fd5cf75.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Flirt with Girls Online</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-flirt-with-girls-online--51400117</link><description><![CDATA[How to Flirt with Girls Online<br /><br />Do you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not knowing how to flirt with girls online can cost you lost confidence and fewer dates.<br /><br />But we got you! Today’s incredible guest will help you learn how to flirt with girls online, whether you’re approaching, messaging on an app, or texting before your big date.<br /><br />Instagram Influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar joins Connell on the Dating Transformation podcast to talk about her wildly popular dating podcast, We Met At Acme, and to give you tons of useful dating tips from the female POV. Lindsey knows the way women think, so listen now and a TON of practical dating tips, including…<br /><br />-How to approach women at the gym or at bars in a charming, non-creepy way that the ladies love<br />-What to text on the apps, and what NOT to text<br />-A Tinder opener that’s charming, flirty and funny… and that gets girls writing you back<br />-PLUS: Lindsey reveals what you should definitely NEVER say to a woman you just met, and what to say instead<br /><br />Listen now, so you can finally get out of your head, and learn the art of how to flirt with girls online and IRL too.<br /><br />FOLLOW LINDSEY ON INSTAGRAM, WHERE SHE OFFERS TONS OF DATING TIPS FOR MEN:<br />@wemetatacme<br /><br />CHECK OUT HER ADDICTIVE DATING PODCAST:<br />We Met At Acme<br /><br />GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS:<br />Wemetatacme.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes:<br />"Men usually listen to fix problems, whereas women listen to be empathetic towards the problem." - Lindsey Metselaar<br /><br />"Women want something funny, women always want to laugh." - Lindsey Metselaar<br /><br />Featured in the episode:<br />Lindsey Metselaar<br />Creator and Host of We Met At Acme<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5b" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5b</a><br />Website: wemetatacme.com<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: Dating Coach - Connell Barrett - Dating Coach For Men Worldwide<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:28 The origin of "We Met at Acme"<br />03:28 Why Lindsey started a podcast<br />05:13 What is unique about dating millennials?<br />08:04 Lindsey’s worst date<br />11:18 Why if you're feeling confused she's probably not that into you<br />12:43 What are some signs that women are interested?<br />17:37 Being vulnerable in dating<br />23:54 How men and women approach dating differently<br />28:13 How to text a woman without being weird<br />31:34 Topics women want to talk about on dates<br />33:23 Best practices for approaching women<br />35:27 What do women want to see in a dating app profile?<br />43:55 Dating tips from Lindsey<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51400117</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 21:43:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51400117/lindsey_final.mp3" length="86354822" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103/c425591d-030e-4152-8bd4-a97eda7dc103.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How to Flirt with Girls Online&#13;
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Do you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Flirt with Girls Online<br /><br />Do you struggle with how to flirt with girls online, not to mention when you approach and when you’re on dates? Do you think your conversation might be boring to women, causing them to ghost you or reject you? Not knowing how to flirt with girls online can cost you lost confidence and fewer dates.<br /><br />But we got you! Today’s incredible guest will help you learn how to flirt with girls online, whether you’re approaching, messaging on an app, or texting before your big date.<br /><br />Instagram Influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar joins Connell on the Dating Transformation podcast to talk about her wildly popular dating podcast, We Met At Acme, and to give you tons of useful dating tips from the female POV. Lindsey knows the way women think, so listen now and a TON of practical dating tips, including…<br /><br />-How to approach women at the gym or at bars in a charming, non-creepy way that the ladies love<br />-What to text on the apps, and what NOT to text<br />-A Tinder opener that’s charming, flirty and funny… and that gets girls writing you back<br />-PLUS: Lindsey reveals what you should definitely NEVER say to a woman you just met, and what to say instead<br /><br />Listen now, so you can finally get out of your head, and learn the art of how to flirt with girls online and IRL too.<br /><br />FOLLOW LINDSEY ON INSTAGRAM, WHERE SHE OFFERS TONS OF DATING TIPS FOR MEN:<br />@wemetatacme<br /><br />CHECK OUT HER ADDICTIVE DATING PODCAST:<br />We Met At Acme<br /><br />GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS:<br />Wemetatacme.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /><br />Quotes:<br />"Men usually listen to fix problems, whereas women listen to be empathetic towards the problem." - Lindsey Metselaar<br /><br />"Women want something funny, women always want to laugh." - Lindsey Metselaar<br /><br />Featured in the episode:<br />Lindsey Metselaar<br />Creator and Host of We Met At Acme<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5b" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsey-metselaar-6ba01a5b</a><br />Website: wemetatacme.com<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/</a><br /><br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: Dating Coach - Connell Barrett - Dating Coach For Men Worldwide<br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:28 The origin of "We Met at Acme"<br />03:28 Why Lindsey started a podcast<br />05:13 What is unique about dating millennials?<br />08:04 Lindsey’s worst date<br />11:18 Why if you're feeling confused she's probably not that into you<br />12:43 What are some signs that women are interested?<br />17:37 Being vulnerable in dating<br />23:54 How men and women approach dating differently<br />28:13 How to text a woman without being weird<br />31:34 Topics women want to talk about on dates<br />33:23 Best practices for approaching women<br />35:27 What do women want to see in a dating app profile?<br />43:55 Dating tips from Lindsey<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3598</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>acme,advice,date,dating,flirt,flirting,men,millennials,relationship,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c46f0e47b14850f821e0a27709bb4b1e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-gain-confidence-and-attract-your-dream-girlfriend--51397886</link><description><![CDATA[How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend<br /><br />Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.<br /><br />Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some “pickup artist” creep.<br /><br />In the debut episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell welcomes a VERY special guest—thought leader and bestselling author Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”<br /><br />Connell’s conversation with Dr. Glover will teach you…<br /><br />-The secret to instant self-confidence with women<br />-Dr. Glover’s favorite technique to stop being “too nice” with women, and awaken your<br />best, most magnetic self.<br />-3 things you should NEVER say when flirting, and what you should say instead<br />-PLUS: Dr. Glover shares a simple move you can use TODAY to get over your fear of<br />rejection and start confidently approaching women.<br /><br />Listen now, so you can go from dateless “Mr. Nice Guy” to your most confident, authentic you.<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER AND THE COURSES HE OFFERS:<br />drglover.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /> <br />Quotes:<br />"Nice guys seek approval and validation from others. Everything a nice guy does or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid their disapproval." - Connell<br /><br />"There's a certain percentage of women out there who's going to love the you that you are just the way you are." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /><br />"A certain percentage of women out there are going to love you just the way you are, as the REAL you." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br />Dr. Robert Glover <br />Author, therapist, coach, educator, and public speaker<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428</a><br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover</a><br />YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://www.drglover.com" rel="noopener">https://www.drglover.com</a> <br /> <br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /> <br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:58 What is the nice guy syndrome?<br />12:14 Why do nice men seek women’s approval?<br />15:38 Monogamy and dating are not in our DNA<br />22:06 Women and security<br />36:11 Embrace rejection <br />51:01 Game-changing tips<br />55:36 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51397886</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 18:55:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/51397886/final_audio.mp3" length="109101638" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253/a8952eca-4f91-423e-bd0e-33eca2220253.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend&#13;
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Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend<br /><br />Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.<br /><br />Help is on the way! Dating coach Connell Barrett can help you fix ALL those problems, starting TODAY, using the power of “radical authenticity.” The Dating Transformation podcast will teach you how to gain confidence, flirt with charm, and find a great girlfriend—and do it all as your best, authentic self… NOT some “pickup artist” creep.<br /><br />In the debut episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell welcomes a VERY special guest—thought leader and bestselling author Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy.”<br /><br />Connell’s conversation with Dr. Glover will teach you…<br /><br />-The secret to instant self-confidence with women<br />-Dr. Glover’s favorite technique to stop being “too nice” with women, and awaken your<br />best, most magnetic self.<br />-3 things you should NEVER say when flirting, and what you should say instead<br />-PLUS: Dr. Glover shares a simple move you can use TODAY to get over your fear of<br />rejection and start confidently approaching women.<br /><br />Listen now, so you can go from dateless “Mr. Nice Guy” to your most confident, authentic you.<br /><br />LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER AND THE COURSES HE OFFERS:<br />drglover.com<br /><br />GO FROM SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF DATES TO CONFIDENTLY ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND. BOOK A CALL WITH CONNELL TODAY:<br />DatingTransformation.com<br /> <br />Quotes:<br />"Nice guys seek approval and validation from others. Everything a nice guy does or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid their disapproval." - Connell<br /><br />"There's a certain percentage of women out there who's going to love the you that you are just the way you are." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /><br />"A certain percentage of women out there are going to love you just the way you are, as the REAL you." - Dr. Robert Glover<br /> <br />Featured in the episode:<br />Dr. Robert Glover <br />Author, therapist, coach, educator, and public speaker<br />Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428" rel="noopener">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428</a><br />Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover" rel="noopener">https://twitter.com/dr_r_glover</a><br />YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover" rel="noopener">https://www.youtube.com/user/drrobertglover</a> <br />Website: <a href="https://www.drglover.com" rel="noopener">https://www.drglover.com</a> <br /> <br />Connell Barrett<br />Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation<br />Website: <a href="https://datingtransformation.com" rel="noopener">https://datingtransformation.com</a><br />Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation</a><br /> <br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction<br />01:58 What is the nice guy syndrome?<br />12:14 Why do nice men seek women’s approval?<br />15:38 Monogamy and dating are not in our DNA<br />22:06 Women and security<br />36:11 Embrace rejection <br />51:01 Game-changing tips<br />55:36 Conclusion<br /><br />Produced by Heartcast Media<br /><a href="https://www.heartcastmedia.com/" rel="noopener">https://www.heartcastmedia.com/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4546</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>confidence,dating,flirt,flirting,love,men,podcast,relationship,transformation,women</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fbfc46d67afa4c6a5a9cb0808f16eb6e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Pilot</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/pilot--49354890</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49354890</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2022 17:20:52 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49354890/pilot.mp3" length="4860038" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4.srt" type="application/x-subrip" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4.txt" type="text/plain" language="en"/><podcast:transcript url="https://transcription.spreaker.com/sounder/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4/647200c8-d40e-4e19-88f7-6e5d28fe7be4.vtt" type="text/vtt" language="en"/><itunes:author>Connell Barrett</itunes:author><itunes:duration>203</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2ce5fc9b7b951814a3bd21bf176833c0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
