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The result is that biological women are being erased from the record books as Biological MEN steal their records, trophies, and legacy. We are...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4936clean27fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-6-are-electric-vehicles-dangehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>5fb68803-3a3b-426a-96a1-b03fac56e30bFri, 17 Feb 2023 07:48:17 +0000Real Talk With RJIt is humorous to witness the main celebrities and politicians who speak loudest about pollution and how cars are killing the earth, often be the number one users of private jets and chartered aircraft. If they truly believed in their cause, wouldn't...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>5280yes26fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-5-the-risks-and-dangers-of-dahttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>f254da50-ad69-4ba8-888f-52e908eed5fcMon, 16 Jan 2023 03:05:56 +0000Real Talk With RJOne of the leading causes of divorce in America is Irreconcilable Differences due to Religious Differences. When kids are born, arguments often arise based on parental religious convictions and these issues often lead to divorce. Is it a bad idea to...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6704clean25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-4-dealing-with-stupid-peoplehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>3498e699-4ad3-46bb-9d74-8f170ead464bThu, 12 Jan 2023 19:31:24 +0000Real Talk With RJEveryone has dealt with or encountered what we would call stupid people--such as dumb criminals, politicians who are attempting to sound smart while sounding dumb, and Karens who make large claims against others while they themselves are at fault. How...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>5136clean24fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-3-what-will-be-different-thishttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>28be334e-17c8-409f-b79b-35eaa86de273Tue, 03 Jan 2023 07:22:57 +0000Real Talk With RJAs we celebrate the new year of 2023, I just wanted to pose the question of what you will do differently THIS YEAR that will be different from years in the past. How will you achieve that goal and make it your reality? Let's put a plan together so we...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4899clean23fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-2-what-is-the-biggest-problemhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1190c8d9-4133-437c-9998-1bfae6dbc2b8Thu, 29 Dec 2022 03:17:47 +0000Real Talk With RJWe keep hearing that racism is the largest problem facing America today, but is it really What if I told you it was something deeper than that? What if I told you what we have been fed by the government was all a lie? Join me in this episode. Believe...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>3896clean22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/s2-episode-1-i-think-california-and-u-s-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6ec705d5-08d4-417b-a5a9-48ae3d0e757dThu, 22 Dec 2022 19:44:31 +0000Real Talk With RJCalifornia is seriously entertaining a bill that will offer reparations for slavery to all descendants of American Black Slaves. I think this is unfair and horribly wrong and I will explain why. Maybe you might agree. Although I revere those who were...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6586clean21fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-50-is-hip-hop-a-secret-form-of-bhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>634fa99c-e49b-47f2-a3f3-b14908ddfb76Wed, 07 Dec 2022 01:48:15 +0000Real Talk With RJHow much has Hip-Hop impacted Black Culture in a negative way? This is a subject that has been largely ignored. How hard has the media hit society? Do we realize the extent the media has manipulated us? --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6588yes150fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-49-why-is-it-so-hard-to-follow-jhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>e5c4dece-175f-4941-b6c1-add067df4a35Fri, 21 Oct 2022 22:49:05 +0000Real Talk With RJHave you ever wondered why it feels so hard to follow Jesus Christ and be a "Good Christian?" What is the reason behind it? Join us as we dig deep into it. The answer is much simpler than you can think. --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>3325clean149fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-48-pornography-the-deadliest-andhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>0ed25872-0c99-47fb-8d27-28c633ee953bWed, 19 Oct 2022 05:15:07 +0000Real Talk With RJWith so many people claiming that pornography is harmless, and masturbation is a need, how can I claim and prove that neither is true? Join us as we uncover the proven dangers that come along with pornography and routine masturbation, as well as the...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4470yes148fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-47-the-unique-roles-of-men-and-whttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>be9e9104-6919-44d7-bed5-c8098737520aSat, 08 Oct 2022 08:01:59 +0000Real Talk With RJIn society these days, gender roles within the family unit or relationship units are being thrown out and ignored. Are these roles "Old Fashioned?" Are they Obsolete? Are we looking at them from the wrong perspective? Or are they more important than...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6110clean147fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-46-are-we-regressing-as-a-societhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>dd425b91-258a-428e-9f38-cffa5a4d4989Thu, 29 Sep 2022 18:11:59 +0000Real Talk With RJUnder the guise of so many labels in our society today, we are being told that society is "Advancing." Is it? Are we being regressed back to Jim Crow but in a new packed up and decorated box? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4049clean146fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-45-i-am-so-tired-of-people-hidinhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>f145c180-093a-4be6-8bf3-7e716ef8d6f6Sun, 04 Sep 2022 05:45:19 +0000Real Talk With RJOur country and even the world has grown extremely divided based on differences rather than celebrating them and uniting as a result. We have fallen to the point that we allow small differences divide us while ignoring the MAJOR commonalities that...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>8423clean145fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-44-why-do-bad-things-happen-to-ghttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>a2a98a11-f851-47f4-89ae-fa9afa574e41Mon, 29 Aug 2022 21:05:11 +0000Real Talk With RJThis question in some form or another has been uttered by those in peril or enduring a rough time at the moment. After lots of thought and inspiration, I have finally come to understand the reason. --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6033clean144fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-43-how-to-protect-yourself-in-puhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>41cd7902-bd10-49f2-b62d-342a7335575fFri, 26 Aug 2022 18:22:26 +0000Real Talk With RJWhat habits do you have that can make the likelihood of you falling victim to a crime increase? 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The thing is people are increasingly not knowing how to deal with the word "No" or disappointment. It is increasing safety risks for...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4718clean140fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-39-what-would-happen-if-we-were-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>df9f0d1d-9d20-4e14-aef6-4f5fc0d1e88aSun, 07 Aug 2022 03:34:36 +0000Real Talk With RJWe rarely question things that we learn from tv or social media, but I wonder how we would think or what our morals, beliefs, and arguments would be if we learned things as they are and history how it actually was. Would we be different or would we be...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6935clean139fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-38-what-happened-to-our-men-and-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>2b4d4c46-722d-405a-b50c-5c7502fcfca9Fri, 05 Aug 2022 19:38:26 +0000Real Talk With RJSomewhere down the line, something happened to the quality of men and women that existed. Now, both sexes are entitled and fighting for power over the other. What happened? Why are we at war WITH each other rather than fighting TOGETHER? ---...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4566clean138fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-37-the-greatest-lessons-learned-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>779c1511-64f0-44e8-b911-a9125b925e86Thu, 04 Aug 2022 05:20:26 +0000Real Talk With RJMy Fiancé Diana and I share some of the greatest lessons that she and I have learned about Real Love and maintaining it.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>3540clean137fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-36-are-you-toxic-how-do-you-knowhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>46f19be8-1e3d-41f5-a58e-19f4b0f15a5aWed, 03 Aug 2022 02:18:25 +0000Real Talk With RJSo many different sources are influencing us, but how can we tell which are toxic? 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Should we be entitled to that? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1803clean131fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-30-never-forgetting-the-price-ofhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>40bbb509-3fba-4307-ac9a-710566f63697Tue, 05 Jul 2022 04:56:29 +0000Real Talk With RJIt is so easy to get distracted by the beautiful fireworks and celebrations, but are we forgetting the REASON for our privilege to celebrate? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1809clean130fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-29-a-womans-inner-worthhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>51d107a6-dc58-4fad-bae8-c6dd14d45b54Mon, 20 Jun 2022 05:09:23 +0000Real Talk With RJA woman's real worth lies not in her boobs or booty, but in her heart, mind, and soul. Join me as we dig deeper into the true value of a woman, while breaking the bands of manipulation set by so many other sources. --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1388clean129fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-28-truly-protecting-our-kidshttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>68045ed9-9732-46b1-8c73-656971a6b46dMon, 20 Jun 2022 04:38:18 +0000Real Talk With RJPeople think that protecting their kids FROM the world is actually protecting them. The truth is, that kind of thought process ENDANGERS them  to a high degree. Join me as we discuss how to TRULY protect our little ones! --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1800clean128fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-27-the-illusion-of-equalityhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>cb965dcf-6885-4487-93cf-b5ff9dce6b41Wed, 15 Jun 2022 04:51:40 +0000Real Talk With RJSo many people and groups are claiming to want equality, but time and time again they demonstrate that what they truly want is superiority! How do we stop that? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1778clean127fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-26-is-gun-control-really-safehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>b233adf2-6b16-417d-832a-fc80cbfbb86aSun, 05 Jun 2022 20:17:41 +0000Real Talk With RJWe often hear the words Gun Control and Assault Weapons. Are we being brainwashed? Is Gun Control really a good thing, or is it going to stimulate the rise in crime as well as good people being victimized by criminals? --- Support this podcast:...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1804clean126fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-25-amber-heard-johnny-depphttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>879c86b8-ed34-4171-b41b-2b7f072be201Sun, 05 Jun 2022 19:32:55 +0000Real Talk With RJWhy are people so surprised by this verdict? Why did so many people jump to conclusions against Depp BEFORE hearing the evidence? Why are we so quick to jump to conclusions and take a side before hearing all the facts? Why do we do this? ---...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1808clean125fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-24-staying-calm-under-stressful-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>e6525fd4-f4bd-4df2-afd8-b63adc8fbcf4Sun, 15 May 2022 05:39:23 +0000Real Talk With RJI was unexpectedly stuck inside of an elevator. It could have been a very horrible experience, but I learned how to control my environment and my response to it. This episode teaches how to remain calm when panic is just begging to be your response....https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1049clean124fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-23-the-truth-about-tolerancehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>6337876f-51a7-4944-a32b-ea1d084286ccSun, 15 May 2022 05:12:56 +0000Real Talk With RJThe word Tolerance has been tossed around and manipulated into a whole different meaning. That new meaning has corrupted and divided so many who are not falling in line with this mind control tactic. This episode unites rather than divides as has been...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1780clean123fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-22-why-people-cheat-in-relationshttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>b8233f17-4daf-4e04-a697-17255b21e30dSun, 01 May 2022 05:25:44 +0000Real Talk With RJThere are so many reasons why people cheat in relationships, but these few reasons are the most common. Are YOU at risk of cheating and don't know it yet? Are you enabling your partner to want to cheat? Listen to this episode and find out if you or...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1648clean122fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-21-for-all-mothershttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>b33bbc9c-f368-4fcc-ba78-f63cab702d5aSun, 01 May 2022 04:42:12 +0000Real Talk With RJMothers are not uniquely those who give birth, but all women who help raise or positively influence others. This episode will help you identify the motherly influences others have had in your life. 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Listen to this episode to find out what it is and find out if you have it yourself! This...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1807clean119fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-18-are-you-happy-with-your-lifehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>c3ef903a-5f1b-4acb-8268-99370c798953Sun, 24 Apr 2022 02:03:57 +0000Real Talk With RJHow many of us are actually happy with our quality of life? This episode will help identify why you may not be as happy as you may think. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1799clean118fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-17-do-you-lovehttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>b5f3370d-8757-4513-9e87-690e42f21d3dTue, 12 Apr 2022 03:36:17 +0000Real Talk With RJJust about everybody says "I Love..." but do they really? If they were being tried in a court of law and the charges were loving that person/people/etc., would there be enough evidence to convict them? Do YOU truly love the people and things that you...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1507clean117fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-16-do-you-have-as-many-friends-ahttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>19d3c6eb-3b3b-4352-8dec-a40db745fd2eTue, 12 Apr 2022 03:27:07 +0000Real Talk With RJThe word "friend" has been tossed around so much these days that it has lost its value and importance. Do you believe you have as many friends as you think you do? 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It is impossible to teach wisdom when all someone does is spew biased opinion, because...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1790clean114fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-13-achieving-real-wealthhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>4a0e7cad-ec66-484c-b15f-797061652055Mon, 28 Mar 2022 00:16:29 +0000Real Talk With RJWe are so programmed to believe that wealth means owning expensive jewelry, luxury cars, and designer dresses right? If that concept is actually correct, then why are the majority of luxury consumers members of the lower and middle classes of society?...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1807clean113fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-12-how-to-know-if-my-partner-is-https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>b7674407-b9a4-4e49-a493-98c0fa668e23Sun, 27 Mar 2022 04:02:15 +0000Real Talk With RJWhat are the most important qualities in a partner to which we should pay attention? Of all the qualities in an individual, which ones will tell me if they are good for me or not? This Episode will help re-program us on what we should ACTUALLY pay...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1805clean112fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-11-if-you-could-go-backhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>54b83777-7c04-419f-bf08-2c043061d3c0Sun, 20 Mar 2022 00:25:21 +0000Real Talk With RJIf you could go back in time to a certain point of your own life, would you? Why it may be a bad idea to want that. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/supporthttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1736clean111fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-10-the-surprising-and-hidden-truhttps://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>55282a29-c0e2-4d01-a089-7bb4876e3fa9Sat, 19 Mar 2022 23:05:08 +0000Real Talk With RJWe have always believed that slave owners were white, and slaves were black, right? WRONG!!! What would you do if you found out that there were many black slave owners? Join me on this episode to learn about the facts of history so many leaders don't...https://anchor.fm/rj-kurtz/support]]>1739clean110fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/16333173/episode-9-the-source-of-healing
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