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Youtube: Honestly Tho]]>enSociety & CultureCopyright Honestly Tho…Podcasthttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/37dbbcce5ce66dcea11e15892fb0aadf.jpghttp://www.honestlythopodcast.comFri, 03 Nov 2023 21:52:11 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastHonestly Tho…Podcasthnstlytho@gmail.comWelcome to Honestly Tho.. your hosts Zina, Symphony and Bri give you a peek into what it’s like to eavesdrop on conversations in the girls’ bathroom. We're challenging social norms through real, raw and risqué discussions. Subscribe, Rate, Comment and...Follow us on IG: _honestlythopodcast
Youtube: Honestly Tho]]>yesepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-avoid-a-situationship-ft-oliver-luke-mioshi--57504735We also discuss how people end up in situationships and what can be done to avoid unwanted situationships, as sometimes one person wants a relationship and the other person does not. What advice would you give to avoid ending up in a situationship?
Do people prefer situationships because they fear commitment all around? We unpack the fear of commitment in a relationship and how this fear may mirror in other areas of our lives. Oliver has an epiphany and is transparent with us about his reasoning for his fear of commitment. Do you fear commitment? Let us know in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57504735Fri, 03 Nov 2023 20:48:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re rejoined by host and vibes curated Oliver Luke, and aspiring creative director, Mioshi for a very insightful conversation around situationships and commitment. We unpack if it is possible to mourn the ending of a situationship the same...We also discuss how people end up in situationships and what can be done to avoid unwanted situationships, as sometimes one person wants a relationship and the other person does not. What advice would you give to avoid ending up in a situationship?
Do people prefer situationships because they fear commitment all around? We unpack the fear of commitment in a relationship and how this fear may mirror in other areas of our lives. Oliver has an epiphany and is transparent with us about his reasoning for his fear of commitment. Do you fear commitment? Let us know in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3073afraidoflove,commitment,honestlytho,modernrelationships,relationships,situationshipsyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-long-is-too-long-to-make-your-partner-wait-for-sex--57383315
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57383315Wed, 25 Oct 2023 17:45:38 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio reunites to keep it short and sweet as we discuss the notion of things we should outgrow by a certain age and role gender plays in this. We also discuss the reality of being in a sexless relationship after giving birth, and how long...
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>1915rhony,sex drive,sexless marriageyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-unconditional-love-exist-ft-billy-from-the-25andoverclub--57215606While a lot of people encourage main character energy, can it be detrimental to your friends or family who feed into it? Often times when you are the main one being celebrated or who hold the spotlight, it’s easy to treat those who are around you like they’re replaceable. What are your thoughts? Do you have main character energy?
We also pose the question of if adult love should be unconditional or not. Can you truly love someone without conditions and can you unconditionally love someone who conditionally loves you? This one had us speechless, so let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
We close out with a reaction to Letoya Luckett saying she will put her kids before her man in her next marriage. Ladies and gents, what are your thoughts on this?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57215606Thu, 12 Oct 2023 21:05:34 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re rejoined by our podcast cousin Billy from 25&OverClub to talk all things from main character energy being harmful to those around you to if it’s possible to love unconditionally, and so much more. While a lot of people encourage...While a lot of people encourage main character energy, can it be detrimental to your friends or family who feed into it? Often times when you are the main one being celebrated or who hold the spotlight, it’s easy to treat those who are around you like they’re replaceable. What are your thoughts? Do you have main character energy?
We also pose the question of if adult love should be unconditional or not. Can you truly love someone without conditions and can you unconditionally love someone who conditionally loves you? This one had us speechless, so let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
We close out with a reaction to Letoya Luckett saying she will put her kids before her man in her next marriage. Ladies and gents, what are your thoughts on this?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3571dating with disabilities,main character energy,ride or die,unconditional loveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/work-it-out-or-leave-for-good-plus-testing-your-partner-ft-billy-from-25andoverclub--57067770While discussing disclosing details of past relationships to current suitors, we discuss if the “less is more” approach is the better way to go to avoid certain behavior like love bombing, manipulation, etc. If we make it known why our past relationship failed or what we tolerated in that relationship, does it make the current suitor think you will also tolerate that behavior from them? Are you giving away cheat codes by disclosing too much? Let’s talk it!
Also, is the dating pool really that bad? While Bri has avoided dating for most of her adult life, Zee has a different experience with dating and thinks it’s easier when you know exactly what you want. What are your thoughts on the dating pool?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57067770Wed, 04 Oct 2023 23:56:58 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by our podcast cousin Billy from The 25&Over Club Podcast and boy did he flip the script on us! We talk all things from balancing relationships, work, and life to dating after 30, and if one should disclose all details about...While discussing disclosing details of past relationships to current suitors, we discuss if the “less is more” approach is the better way to go to avoid certain behavior like love bombing, manipulation, etc. If we make it known why our past relationship failed or what we tolerated in that relationship, does it make the current suitor think you will also tolerate that behavior from them? Are you giving away cheat codes by disclosing too much? Let’s talk it!
Also, is the dating pool really that bad? While Bri has avoided dating for most of her adult life, Zee has a different experience with dating and thinks it’s easier when you know exactly what you want. What are your thoughts on the dating pool?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!
]]>282430andover,couples therapy,dating after 30,marital problems,mediation,relationship problems,separation,sex therapist,stay or leave,work it outyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/men-don-t-have-a-safe-space-to-be-vulnerable--56894695We discuss if we are comfortable with going to our partners about any and everything and while Grafh wants to be that person for his significant other, he isn’t comfortable having the roles reversed. He opens up about his lack of trust and vulnerability growing up, and how this may have hindered his trust and vulnerability in adult relationships.
We also dive into his artistry and how music has influenced him and “saved him.” Symphony makes a correlation between his lyrics where he references accomplishments not hitting the same when certain people aren’t here to celebrate with you. Grafh gets candid about his relationship with his parents, his upbringing, and why he makes the music he makes.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56894695Fri, 22 Sep 2023 12:18:30 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with artist and designer Grafh to talk all things from his lack of financial literacy when he first began making money to qualities that make a good wife, to being the “go to” person to his partner and much more. We discuss if...We discuss if we are comfortable with going to our partners about any and everything and while Grafh wants to be that person for his significant other, he isn’t comfortable having the roles reversed. He opens up about his lack of trust and vulnerability growing up, and how this may have hindered his trust and vulnerability in adult relationships.
We also dive into his artistry and how music has influenced him and “saved him.” Symphony makes a correlation between his lyrics where he references accomplishments not hitting the same when certain people aren’t here to celebrate with you. Grafh gets candid about his relationship with his parents, his upbringing, and why he makes the music he makes.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!
]]>3230curator,designer,grieving,losing parents,make a man wait,modern relationships,monogamy,musician,music saved me,unfaithful,what makes a good wifeyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-men-women-be-platonic-friends-how-to-keep-him-on-his-toes-more-with-jasmine-ruiz--56718845Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.
Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56718845Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:53:13 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl’s girl” to whether or not they’d allow their significant others to be friends with someone they’ve been physical with in the past...Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.
Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2545accountability,comedian,friends with benefits,girls girl,men versus women,modern relationships,platonic friendshipsyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/laugh-out-loud-with-jasmine-ruiz--56713816
Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.

Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56713816Wed, 06 Sep 2023 16:28:14 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl’s girl” to whether or not they’d allow their significant others to be friends with someone they’ve been physical with in the past...
Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.

Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2752comedy,dating,girls girl,icks,relationships,shoot your shot,the rizzyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/every-woman-has-a-price-ft-desmonique-part-ii--56661254She also opens up about her experience as a dancer at Sin City, and how she got into stripping in the first place. Desi crowns herself as one of the best dancers in NYC and gives her reasons why she has self proclaimed this title.
Desi currently uses her love for dance and stretching to help other women discover their sensuality, not just for themselves, but also to instill confidence in them so they can feel sexy for their partners. She also provides healing massages and stretching services through her business Flow4Fluidity. Be sure to check her out and book a service with her!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56661254Fri, 01 Sep 2023 15:12:10 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re getting spicy with Part 2 of our interview with masseuse and host of the Zen Den Pod, Desi. Desi gets candid with us about her experiences with threesomes, not just as a “unicorn” but also with her friends and significant other. Desi...She also opens up about her experience as a dancer at Sin City, and how she got into stripping in the first place. Desi crowns herself as one of the best dancers in NYC and gives her reasons why she has self proclaimed this title.
Desi currently uses her love for dance and stretching to help other women discover their sensuality, not just for themselves, but also to instill confidence in them so they can feel sexy for their partners. She also provides healing massages and stretching services through her business Flow4Fluidity. Be sure to check her out and book a service with her!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2372modern dating,modern women,nyc strip clubs,sharing partners,size queen,stripping,threesomes,women empowermentclean3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-being-a-good-man-enough-to-keep-her-part-i-ft-desi--56572133Desi opens up about her past relationship with an older man whose ambition didn’t match hers and why the dynamic didn’t work. If your girlfriend or boyfriend’s dreams don’t align with yours, would you leave the relationship, or stick around? Also, is it deceiving if the person you’re dating doesn’t tell you their age in fear of losing you? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
How do you feel about dating an older man or woman and is there a cap as to how much older you’d date? Zee also shares her experience with being misled by an older man who lied about his age when they began dating. Have you ever lied about your age to get someone to date you? 👀
Stay tuned for part 2 with Desi which will be out next week where she shares some spicy secrets about threesomes, literally being dick yelp for her friends and much more.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56572133Wed, 23 Aug 2023 23:32:09 +0000Honestly Tho…Podcastweek we’re joined by masseuse and dancer Desmonique and a time was had!!! We kick off the episode with three ice breaker questions to get to know Desi a little better. We then give our thoughts on how cool we should be with our partner’s friends, and...Desi opens up about her past relationship with an older man whose ambition didn’t match hers and why the dynamic didn’t work. If your girlfriend or boyfriend’s dreams don’t align with yours, would you leave the relationship, or stick around? Also, is it deceiving if the person you’re dating doesn’t tell you their age in fear of losing you? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
How do you feel about dating an older man or woman and is there a cap as to how much older you’d date? Zee also shares her experience with being misled by an older man who lied about his age when they began dating. Have you ever lied about your age to get someone to date you? 👀
Stay tuned for part 2 with Desi which will be out next week where she shares some spicy secrets about threesomes, literally being dick yelp for her friends and much more.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2149accountability and women,fast lifestyle,fast money,forgiving your spouse,former stripper,getting past cheating,modern relationships,unconditional loveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-trans-women-make-the-rules-for-all-women-bonus-holes-splitting-the-bill--56493009We also discuss being placed on a pedestal in relationships and how this may negatively affect the relationship/connection. Have you or do you want to be placed on a pedestal when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
To close out this episode, Honestly Tho reacts to the Montgomery brawl in Alabama, splitting the bill when out with a group of friends or friend friends, and lastly, advice for a woman who never gets approached when out with her girls.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56493009Wed, 16 Aug 2023 21:33:59 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio reunites and kicks things off with a quick catch up before diving into the discussion of health professionals being urged to call vaginas “bonus holes” to avoid offending transgender patients. While we want everyone to have the...We also discuss being placed on a pedestal in relationships and how this may negatively affect the relationship/connection. Have you or do you want to be placed on a pedestal when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
To close out this episode, Honestly Tho reacts to the Montgomery brawl in Alabama, splitting the bill when out with a group of friends or friend friends, and lastly, advice for a woman who never gets approached when out with her girls.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2926being put on a pedestal,cheating,dating,montgomery brawl,relationships,single,splitthecheck,unrealistic expectationsyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/some-women-destroy-good-men-ft-bux--56422160Bux opens up about finding the one and doing right by her with her in turn, doing right by him. He gets candid about how she’s supported him with his sickle cell anemia journey, tattooing, and much more. He also shares with us why his marriage failed and what it was like having to get divorced after 10 years.
We discuss if it’s possible for young men who are rich and famous to remain faithful, amidst all of the temptation and options that are thrown their way.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56422160Thu, 10 Aug 2023 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with tattoo artist and former Black Ink Crew personality Bux to discuss everything from how finding the right partner has changed his life, his journey with sickle cell anemia, his divorce, and so much more. Bux opens up about...Bux opens up about finding the one and doing right by her with her in turn, doing right by him. He gets candid about how she’s supported him with his sickle cell anemia journey, tattooing, and much more. He also shares with us why his marriage failed and what it was like having to get divorced after 10 years.
We discuss if it’s possible for young men who are rich and famous to remain faithful, amidst all of the temptation and options that are thrown their way.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3220artist,blackinkcrew,cell,cheating,divorce,sickle,tattooyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-vs-growing-ft-moosie-wins--56245393We also discuss how society has plagued us to believe that we are unfulfilled without romantic relationships so instead, we entertain false companionship to avoid being “lonely”. Moosie shares some of his experiences with dating, the lifestyle of an artist and how relationships can either help him and his craft, or be a distraction.
We close out the episode with some current events in hip hop such as the sentencing of Tory Lanez, and urging blacks people to protect each other. We also discuss how Sukihana has handled the YK Osiris kiss situation and how she has given him grace despite everyone else’s anger towards the situation.
Moosie shares some of his favorite music he’s created thus far, the process of coming up with music video concepts, and his involvement as an artist. Be sure to follow him and tune into his music.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56245393Thu, 27 Jul 2023 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with artist Moosie to discuss all things from growing in order to sustain healthy relationships versus healing. Moosie thinks the word “healing” is being thrown around frequently and doesn’t think many understand the misuse of...We also discuss how society has plagued us to believe that we are unfulfilled without romantic relationships so instead, we entertain false companionship to avoid being “lonely”. Moosie shares some of his experiences with dating, the lifestyle of an artist and how relationships can either help him and his craft, or be a distraction.
We close out the episode with some current events in hip hop such as the sentencing of Tory Lanez, and urging blacks people to protect each other. We also discuss how Sukihana has handled the YK Osiris kiss situation and how she has given him grace despite everyone else’s anger towards the situation.
Moosie shares some of his favorite music he’s created thus far, the process of coming up with music video concepts, and his involvement as an artist. Be sure to follow him and tune into his music.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2643artist,celebrityrelationships,dating,datingfamous,freedom,growth,healing,lanez,megthestallion,moosiewins,relationships,single,toryyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-he-controlling-or-just-setting-boundaries--56157103We dissect the Keke Palmer and Sarah Brady hot topics surrounding boundaries and insecure men. We also unpack how we can set boundaries within in a relationship so they are respected by our partners and also friends.
D Weathers opens up about a time where his friendships were on the brink of failure due to his lack of empathy, which was something he made the choice to change. Ladies and gents, what would be your reaction if your friends told you you lacked empathy?
We also discuss the ways in which women lie to each other and why it’s so easy for women not to hold each other accountable. Are men better at having the difficult conversations with each other and holding each other accountable? Let us know in the comments below.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56157103Wed, 19 Jul 2023 17:16:10 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sit down with artist D Weathers to talk all things from boundaries versus control in a relationship, how to set those boundaries, the difference between male and female friendships, and so much more. We dissect the Keke Palmer and Sarah...We dissect the Keke Palmer and Sarah Brady hot topics surrounding boundaries and insecure men. We also unpack how we can set boundaries within in a relationship so they are respected by our partners and also friends.
D Weathers opens up about a time where his friendships were on the brink of failure due to his lack of empathy, which was something he made the choice to change. Ladies and gents, what would be your reaction if your friends told you you lacked empathy?
We also discuss the ways in which women lie to each other and why it’s so easy for women not to hold each other accountable. Are men better at having the difficult conversations with each other and holding each other accountable? Let us know in the comments below.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3038brotherhood,cheating,delusionalwomen,lying,malefriendships,menvswomen,music,openrelationships,sisterhood,womentakingaccountabilityyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/confessions-of-a-mother--56050563We confess some of the hardships of motherhood, how easy most fathers have it in comparison to mothers, and how we cope with thee hardships. We also discuss some of the ways to “shoot your shot” at a man, which is something that most women aren’t use to doing. Ladies, do you express your interest in men whom you find attractive? And fellas, do you like when women shoot their shot at you? Let us know in the comments below.
We also discuss some of the things that initially attract us to men when in a public setting. Whether it be their personality, scent, style, what attracts you to a man and makes you want to get to know him? Let us know in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56050563Mon, 10 Jul 2023 13:56:49 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week Zina sits down with Vee from Brooklyn and rapper Leeky Leeks to talk all things from motherhood to shooting their shot at men, and things that initially attracts them to a man. We confess some of the hardships of motherhood, how easy most...We confess some of the hardships of motherhood, how easy most fathers have it in comparison to mothers, and how we cope with thee hardships. We also discuss some of the ways to “shoot your shot” at a man, which is something that most women aren’t use to doing. Ladies, do you express your interest in men whom you find attractive? And fellas, do you like when women shoot their shot at you? Let us know in the comments below.
We also discuss some of the things that initially attract us to men when in a public setting. Whether it be their personality, scent, style, what attracts you to a man and makes you want to get to know him? Let us know in the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3119girltalk,momgroup,motherhood,realtalk,shootyourshotyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-sex-toys-are-bad-for-us--55475676
We then discuss our subconscious love story. Whether it be fairytale, or a little delusional lol, we get into what that used to look like for us and what it actually is, now that we’re grown. Do we still want that damsel in distress/save me love? Or a partner that is obsessed with us? Or do we want relationships that can be watered and built upon over time? What is your subconscious love story? Let us know in the comments below.

We close out the episode with Honestly Tho Reacts, where we react to social media content. In this week’s reactions, we discuss Coach Stormy’s botched butt shots and her having them removed. We also react to s post regarding sleeping with one person 36 times, and sleeping with 36 different people one time. Huh? Yes, that’s how we felt also.
Follow and subscribe to Zo YouTube channel and Instagram for wholesome content and for his interviews with many iconic guests. Donate to his non-profit organization and support the next generation of children to help make a difference in their lives.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55475676Thu, 29 Jun 2023 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio gets informative but spicy about sex toys and the danger they pose to women’s health, in addition to how consistent use of these may be preventing women from having an orgasm when being intimate with a partner. We also get candid...
We then discuss our subconscious love story. Whether it be fairytale, or a little delusional lol, we get into what that used to look like for us and what it actually is, now that we’re grown. Do we still want that damsel in distress/save me love? Or a partner that is obsessed with us? Or do we want relationships that can be watered and built upon over time? What is your subconscious love story? Let us know in the comments below.

We close out the episode with Honestly Tho Reacts, where we react to social media content. In this week’s reactions, we discuss Coach Stormy’s botched butt shots and her having them removed. We also react to s post regarding sleeping with one person 36 times, and sleeping with 36 different people one time. Huh? Yes, that’s how we felt also.
Follow and subscribe to Zo YouTube channel and Instagram for wholesome content and for his interviews with many iconic guests. Donate to his non-profit organization and support the next generation of children to help make a difference in their lives.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3170bbl,blackfemalepodcasts,botchedsurgery,mature,modernwomen,pornaddiction,relationships,sextoys,stimulation,subconciouslovestoryyes58fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/male-periods-why-women-don-t-compete-for-men--54560961https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54560961Wed, 21 Jun 2023 13:45:01 +0000Honestly Tho…Podcast3484black podcasts,crazy stories,maleperiods,men having discipline,men versus women,real conversation,story time,women competingyes357fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-instant-dating-hot-girl-summer-more--54408484Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54408484Wed, 14 Jun 2023 19:03:57 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio get into the discussion of their friends over exposing themselves around others significant others,expectations of a friend who may have amassed a certain amount of a wealth or fame, and if we’d rather be workers or bosses and the...Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2683authenticity,citygirls,hotgirlsummer,instantdate,moderndating,modernmen,mogule,workerorbossyes356fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-men-open-up-to-each-other-without-feeling-soft--54127594The men talk about why it’s difficult to open up to each other about relationship hardships and the fear of judgement. They also open up about how important it is to have vulnerable conversations with each other and how it may be helpful at times.
We also discuss dating single mothers with children who are not well behaved. Would you date a person if their child was ill mannered and lacked discipline? Let us know in the comments. Also, is a misbehaved child a reflection of a bad parent? 👀
We close the episode with some comparisons between dating black women and women of other races. The men share their preferences and experiences.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54127594Wed, 07 Jun 2023 13:48:43 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week Zina sits down with her two male friends Darren and Yah Yah, to discuss all things from male vulnerability with each other to dating single mothers with badly behaved kids, and so much more. The men talk about why it’s difficult to open up...The men talk about why it’s difficult to open up to each other about relationship hardships and the fear of judgement. They also open up about how important it is to have vulnerable conversations with each other and how it may be helpful at times.
We also discuss dating single mothers with children who are not well behaved. Would you date a person if their child was ill mannered and lacked discipline? Let us know in the comments. Also, is a misbehaved child a reflection of a bad parent? 👀
We close the episode with some comparisons between dating black women and women of other races. The men share their preferences and experiences.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3322black men mental health,can men open up to each other,men,men expressing emotions,red flags in dating,red flags in men,safe space for men,toxic traits,vulnerabilityyes355fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-control-the-relationship-avoid-heartbreak--54052734We open up about some of the times we’ve gotten in our own way by not being vulnerable, self sabotaging relationships, and lack of discipline. Symphony opens up about times of being unhappy and upset with things in her life which caused mental issues and at times made her feel like she did not want to be here anymore. Can y’all relate to this? Zee opens up about getting in her own way in relationships and remaining guarded while dating despite the other person’s vulnerability.
We close the episode with some girl chit chat on ten commandments young women should live by that we found on the Internet. We discuss if we agree or disagree with these commandments. Let us know y’all thoughts!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54052734Wed, 31 May 2023 13:32:39 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio reunites to talk all things from respecting their man’s beauty preferences even though it’s something you enjoy doing (ie: wearing makeup, wigs, etc) to a time we felt like we were getting in our own way whether it be our attitudes,...We open up about some of the times we’ve gotten in our own way by not being vulnerable, self sabotaging relationships, and lack of discipline. Symphony opens up about times of being unhappy and upset with things in her life which caused mental issues and at times made her feel like she did not want to be here anymore. Can y’all relate to this? Zee opens up about getting in her own way in relationships and remaining guarded while dating despite the other person’s vulnerability.
We close the episode with some girl chit chat on ten commandments young women should live by that we found on the Internet. We discuss if we agree or disagree with these commandments. Let us know y’all thoughts!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2560ancestors,control in relationships,discipline,femininity,heartbreak,holding yourself back,mental health,soft girl era,vulnerability in relationshipsyes354fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-women-handle-an-emotionally-intelligent-man--53994835Are men more emotionally intelligent than women? We unpack this question while defining emotional intelligence, and giving logic to support why we think men are more emotionally intelligent than women although women are more nurturing.
We discuss how conflict in relationships can be an invitation for deeper intimacy however, there must be a solution to the conflict for this to work. We also discuss if we need privacy in relationships and if there should be a boundary with that.
During our chit chat we discuss if it’s okay to be out past a certain time while in a relationship and how that may or may not affect your relationship. After all, communication and trust are key. We also present a situation of being on vacation with your partner and then having to leave to handle business. Would you be upset or understanding? Let us know your thoughts on the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53994835Thu, 25 May 2023 13:45:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio reunites to talk all things from emotional intelligence to conflict in relationships, privacy in relationships, and for some girl talk. Are men more emotionally intelligent than women? We unpack this question while defining...Are men more emotionally intelligent than women? We unpack this question while defining emotional intelligence, and giving logic to support why we think men are more emotionally intelligent than women although women are more nurturing.
We discuss how conflict in relationships can be an invitation for deeper intimacy however, there must be a solution to the conflict for this to work. We also discuss if we need privacy in relationships and if there should be a boundary with that.
During our chit chat we discuss if it’s okay to be out past a certain time while in a relationship and how that may or may not affect your relationship. After all, communication and trust are key. We also present a situation of being on vacation with your partner and then having to leave to handle business. Would you be upset or understanding? Let us know your thoughts on the comments.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>4147baecation,cheating,drama,emotionalintelligence,privacy,problemsolving,relationships,socialmedia,workoverloveyes353fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/family-drama-why-me-brother-didn-t-talk-for-7-months--53907827We also get candid and share some moments where we weren’t at the best terms with our siblings and the catalyst for that. In addition to not liking or getting along with our siblings’ significant others. Have you ever gotten into it with your siblings spouse? 👀
The Internet has been buzzing with hot topics so we had to address some. Nicki Minaj inappropriate for asking Kai Cenat about his favorite sex position when she is married? Is it the marriage that makes it inappropriate or the age difference? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
What are y’all thoughts on Janelle Monae’s new video and her showing out? The body bodying but are you surprised to see her embrace this new found confidence?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53907827Wed, 17 May 2023 15:11:52 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, Zee and Bri sit down to get the details on Zee’s baecation and to talk all things from how women may be annoying and “naggy” when we think we’re being communicative, sibling rivalry, and to give our thoughts on some hot topics. We also get...We also get candid and share some moments where we weren’t at the best terms with our siblings and the catalyst for that. In addition to not liking or getting along with our siblings’ significant others. Have you ever gotten into it with your siblings spouse? 👀
The Internet has been buzzing with hot topics so we had to address some. Nicki Minaj inappropriate for asking Kai Cenat about his favorite sex position when she is married? Is it the marriage that makes it inappropriate or the age difference? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
What are y’all thoughts on Janelle Monae’s new video and her showing out? The body bodying but are you surprised to see her embrace this new found confidence?
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>4222double,drama,family,janelle,kaicenat,minae,naggingmen,nickiminaj,sexual liberation,sibling rivalry,standards,youtubersyesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-strike-dating-married-men-with-tee--53804121We also get into the different propaganda out there regarding Feminism, Red Pill, the Gender War and how it affects the black community. Are these conversations problematic or are they actually helpful? After all, they do say men are from Mars and women are Venus 😂 What are your thoughts?
Subscribe, download, rate, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53804121Wed, 10 May 2023 13:50:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastOn this week’s episode we continue our conversation with talk show personality Teemara about her 30 day sex strike challenge and how it has transformed her life after divorce. She also talks about young single women being able to get a deeper...We also get into the different propaganda out there regarding Feminism, Red Pill, the Gender War and how it affects the black community. Are these conversations problematic or are they actually helpful? After all, they do say men are from Mars and women are Venus 😂 What are your thoughts?
Subscribe, download, rate, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.]]>300130daysexstrike,8atthetable,blackpodcasts,datingmarriedmen,feminism,genderwar,incel,modernrelationships,polyamory,redpillyes50fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/honestly-tho-x-tee-talks-marriage-mistresses-and-moving-on--53727588She drops gems on some red flags men should look out for when dating women, why her marriage ended (this story is gooood), and her journey to trying to have children with her ex-husband. She shares what it was like experiencing miscarriage after miscarriage, and how that took a told on her marriage.
Although her marriage did work out, she believes she learned what she needed to learn not just about herself, but on how to treat a man. She gives her ex husband his praises for raising her son, and for the way he treated her while they were together. Do you think she’d do it all over and get married again? Tune in to find out!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53727588Wed, 03 May 2023 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by podcast host and TV personality Teemara. You’ve probably seen her on 8atthetable and all over your social media, but today she joins us to talk about marriage, divorce, and life after. She drops gems on some red flags men...She drops gems on some red flags men should look out for when dating women, why her marriage ended (this story is gooood), and her journey to trying to have children with her ex-husband. She shares what it was like experiencing miscarriage after miscarriage, and how that took a told on her marriage.
Although her marriage did work out, she believes she learned what she needed to learn not just about herself, but on how to treat a man. She gives her ex husband his praises for raising her son, and for the way he treated her while they were together. Do you think she’d do it all over and get married again? Tune in to find out!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>34088atthetable,highvaluemen,infidelity,miscarriage,misleadingmarriage,modernwomen,movingon,realistic,womenempowermentyes350fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-after-25-relationships-with-our-parents-ourselves-accepting-past-mistakes--53652847We speak about parent child relationships, what we’ve learned from our parents that we do not want to emulate, but also the positive things we can take from them.
We discuss life after 25, getting caught on camera doing something that doesn’t represent who you are now, things we appreciate in our partners now that we’re over 25, and lots more. We had a time!!!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53652847Wed, 26 Apr 2023 14:19:21 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we’re joined by our pod cousins from the 25&OverClub Podcast to laugh like it’s no one’s business, share some embarrassing moments, but also some serious, relatable stories. We talk all things from how our parents’ disciplinary actions...We speak about parent child relationships, what we’ve learned from our parents that we do not want to emulate, but also the positive things we can take from them.
We discuss life after 25, getting caught on camera doing something that doesn’t represent who you are now, things we appreciate in our partners now that we’re over 25, and lots more. We had a time!!!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3342yes49fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-women-unknowingly-hurt-men-are-ultimatums-really-toxic-1--53594677We also speak about giving ultimatums and compromising when in a relationship. While some thinks ultimatums are manipulative, others think if you draw a boundary and it continues to be crossed, then ultimatums are healthy. What are your thoughts on giving ultimatums when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53594677Thu, 20 Apr 2023 14:48:18 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we’re joined by the “Who Hurt You Bro?” Podcast to talk all things from how women’s behavior and attitudes may affect men without them knowing, to dating in your circle, and to really get to the root of how men deal with hurt. We also...We also speak about giving ultimatums and compromising when in a relationship. While some thinks ultimatums are manipulative, others think if you draw a boundary and it continues to be crossed, then ultimatums are healthy. What are your thoughts on giving ultimatums when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>4028dating,overseas,passportbros,relationships,whohurtubro,womenvsmenyes48fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-manipulation-be-used-for-good-with-oliver-luke--53513813We close out the episode with some things from his bedroom bucket list that he’d like to try and something he wants to do creatively that he thinks he’d be good at.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53513813Wed, 12 Apr 2023 14:35:13 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, former guest Oliver Like rejoins us to talk all things from friends who brings their significant others everywhere they go to how he judges the character of his friends, and being a good man to women. He shares how he learned to treat women...We close out the episode with some things from his bedroom bucket list that he’d like to try and something he wants to do creatively that he thinks he’d be good at.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>24988atthetable,blackpodcasts,bucketlist,dating,learninglove,menvswomen,moderndating,realconversations,relqtionshipsyes47fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/alex-from-black-ink-crew-sets-the-record-straight--53380677We take a deep dive into how his relationship with his father has affected him being a father to his son, and his choice to “gentle parent” his son. Alex also lets us into how it was for him growing up with an incarcerated father and a single mother, and having to become a man quick to ease things for his mom.
We also discuss his dating preferences, his dislike for ugly feet and lazy women, women who sit back and be pretty, and don’t do too much. Amidst the dating conversation, we touch on his past relationship with Black Ink Crew costar Donna, and toxic/ abusive relationships.
Alex gives us some tea into what goes down on his OnlyFans page, why he started it, and why he calls himself the Vagina Slayer. With that also comes the future conversation with his son regarding sex, and teaching him to value women.
It was refreshing to see another side to the reality TV star and to get to know him behind tattooing and what we see on social media.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53380677Wed, 29 Mar 2023 16:29:50 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Alex aka The Vagina Slayer from VH1’s Black Ink Crew, to talk all things from fatherhood to dating preferences, his OnlyFans, and some tea on the infamous reality show. We take a deep dive into how his relationship with his...We take a deep dive into how his relationship with his father has affected him being a father to his son, and his choice to “gentle parent” his son. Alex also lets us into how it was for him growing up with an incarcerated father and a single mother, and having to become a man quick to ease things for his mom.
We also discuss his dating preferences, his dislike for ugly feet and lazy women, women who sit back and be pretty, and don’t do too much. Amidst the dating conversation, we touch on his past relationship with Black Ink Crew costar Donna, and toxic/ abusive relationships.
Alex gives us some tea into what goes down on his OnlyFans page, why he started it, and why he calls himself the Vagina Slayer. With that also comes the future conversation with his son regarding sex, and teaching him to value women.
It was refreshing to see another side to the reality TV star and to get to know him behind tattooing and what we see on social media.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>4864black,crew,dating,figure,influencer,ink,onlyfans,public,sex,vaginaslayeryes46fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/black-men-need-to-prioritize-themselves-first-ft-express-yourself-black-man-podcast--53299395We take a deep dive as Kizzle shares the reason why he started advocating for black men’s mental health and urging them to prioritize themselves before anyone else. He also shares some expectations that are attributed to black men by society, that are actually triggering to their well being. He also explores some things that he’d like black women do it more of as romantic partners.
In his personalized segment, Express Yourself Black Man, we ask him about what he does when he feels his “old self” making s comeback, as someone who is in therapy. We all know, sometimes we get triggered and react how our un-evolved selves especially after working so hard to be better. We close out the segment with five affirmations that black men can say daily to uplift themselves and hold themselves accountable for their mental health.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53299395Wed, 22 Mar 2023 17:04:22 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Kizzle from the Express Yourself Black Man podcast, which focuses on black men’s mental health and well being. We take a deep dive as Kizzle shares the reason why he started advocating for black men’s mental health and...We take a deep dive as Kizzle shares the reason why he started advocating for black men’s mental health and urging them to prioritize themselves before anyone else. He also shares some expectations that are attributed to black men by society, that are actually triggering to their well being. He also explores some things that he’d like black women do it more of as romantic partners.
In his personalized segment, Express Yourself Black Man, we ask him about what he does when he feels his “old self” making s comeback, as someone who is in therapy. We all know, sometimes we get triggered and react how our un-evolved selves especially after working so hard to be better. We close out the segment with five affirmations that black men can say daily to uplift themselves and hold themselves accountable for their mental health.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>5099advocate,black,express,health,man,men,mental,safe,space,yourselfyes45fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-ed-p-ssy-with-special-needs-podcast--53137000We cover all things from can being cheated on ever be your fault to is someone being a good person enough to stay with them, and much more. Although a man or woman may be a good person, is that all it should take to sustain and maintain a relationship with them? The women give their take on this. We also discuss body shaming versus stating our preferences and the differences in doing so.
We Court states he has and will never put his hands on a woman even if his own life may be at risk. Zee commends him for this and states that Gentlemen, how do y’all feel about this? If a woman was trying to take your life, what would you do?
I’m our segment, what’s your special need, we discuss faking orgasms and why we may have done it, to being intimate while on drugs, and]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53137000Wed, 08 Mar 2023 17:27:38 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Court who you’ve seen on our “Dirty Couch Confessions” episode, and Ally from the SpecialNeeds Podcast; Court’s new podcast baby. If you want a good laugh but also good conversation, then this is the show for you. We cover...We cover all things from can being cheated on ever be your fault to is someone being a good person enough to stay with them, and much more. Although a man or woman may be a good person, is that all it should take to sustain and maintain a relationship with them? The women give their take on this. We also discuss body shaming versus stating our preferences and the differences in doing so.
We Court states he has and will never put his hands on a woman even if his own life may be at risk. Zee commends him for this and states that Gentlemen, how do y’all feel about this? If a woman was trying to take your life, what would you do?
I’m our segment, what’s your special need, we discuss faking orgasms and why we may have done it, to being intimate while on drugs, and]]>4092accountability,blackpodcasts,bodyshaming,dating,dirty,preference,raw,real,sex,specialneedsyes44fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-women-equate-financial-stability-with-love--52915814We then take a deep dive into why the black community equate stability to love and how this may cause relationships to fail. In addition to how much should we try to rebuild relationships? Do some relationships fail to be rebuilt stronger and what needs to be done for this to be successful?
In our “They love me, they love me not” segment, we discuss how we feel about men who want to receive flowers. Have you ever given a man flowers? Let us know in the comments. And men, let us know if you’d like to receive flowers. We then discuss going on dates and celebrating certain holidays, and if women learn not to like celebrate or do these things because of their man, or is it genuine?
We close out with what’s been on repeat for us and what we’ve been vibing to.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52915814Wed, 01 Mar 2023 15:37:32 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, in one of our favorite episodes to date, we bring the energy, the vibes, the essence of what Honestly Tho is! We kick off our icebreakers with building our perfecto man and what that would look like, to going through our man’s phone. Have...We then take a deep dive into why the black community equate stability to love and how this may cause relationships to fail. In addition to how much should we try to rebuild relationships? Do some relationships fail to be rebuilt stronger and what needs to be done for this to be successful?
In our “They love me, they love me not” segment, we discuss how we feel about men who want to receive flowers. Have you ever given a man flowers? Let us know in the comments. And men, let us know if you’d like to receive flowers. We then discuss going on dates and celebrating certain holidays, and if women learn not to like celebrate or do these things because of their man, or is it genuine?
We close out with what’s been on repeat for us and what we’ve been vibing to.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>279690dayfiance,blackmen,blackwomen,buildaman,cardib,datingwhileblack,menvswomen,offset,topqualitiesyes43fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weezy-s-world-getting-cancelled-best-sex-tips-so-much-more-you--52813033We talk all things from some of our insecurities, to dating outside of our race, to her being the boss that she is, and of course sex. Does Weezy have a secret talent that she hasn’t shared with the world yet? 👀 Has she ever had a sex injury? And what sex tips does she have for both the men and women out there? Find out the answers to all of these in this episode.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52813033Wed, 22 Feb 2023 14:50:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by our dream guest; host of WHOREible Decisions Podcast, host of “Sex Sells” on Fuse and the Beyoncé of Podcasting; Weezy WTF. We talk all things from some of our insecurities, to dating outside of our race, to her being the...We talk all things from some of our insecurities, to dating outside of our race, to her being the boss that she is, and of course sex. Does Weezy have a secret talent that she hasn’t shared with the world yet? 👀 Has she ever had a sex injury? And what sex tips does she have for both the men and women out there? Find out the answers to all of these in this episode.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2850blackowned,hiddentalent,internationaldating,lipinjections,problack,sex,tlc,weezy,whoreable,womanowned,wtfmediayes342fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-man-is-in-my-dms-valentines-day-is-a-set-up--52742924We get into the difference between independent and hyper independent women. While men like independent women, it is the attitude of not “needing a man” that comes with hyper independent women that they don’t like. This also leads into the social media phenom of the “soft girl era” and how hyper independence is counter productive to that lifestyle, simply making it an aesthetic for many women.
Ladies, is okay to have a “secret stash” of cash and keeping it away from your husband? How would you feel if he did the same to you or more importantly, had a side chick for backup in case y’all broke up? Let’s get into it!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52742924Wed, 15 Feb 2023 14:36:37 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we talk about Valentine’s Day and some of the expectations that comes with it. Can you be with someone who doesn’t celebrate Valentine’s Day or do fancy dates and grande gestures? We also discuss some things we may have taken from a past...We get into the difference between independent and hyper independent women. While men like independent women, it is the attitude of not “needing a man” that comes with hyper independent women that they don’t like. This also leads into the social media phenom of the “soft girl era” and how hyper independence is counter productive to that lifestyle, simply making it an aesthetic for many women.
Ladies, is okay to have a “secret stash” of cash and keeping it away from your husband? How would you feel if he did the same to you or more importantly, had a side chick for backup in case y’all broke up? Let’s get into it!
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3077feminine,hyperindependance,masculine,softgirlera,valentinesyes341fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/accountability-doesn-t-exist-for-women--52670063We ask the ladies what does accountability look like to us since like many other men out there, Acha doesn’t think women know how to hold themselves accountable for anything. Is this a myth or are women now becoming open to the idea of accountability? As women, how can we encourage each other to take responsibility for our words and actions?

We also get into the hot debate of can men and women be platonic friends and what is allowed with that when one or both parties are in a relationship? I’m sure we’ve all had different experiences with our friends, but is one person’s intention always clouded despite the “understanding” that they’re just friends? Does one person, male or female, always want more? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
We discuss what safety in a relationship looks like to us, how women can make men feel seen and heard, and men’s mental health. And because we always keep it raw and risqué, we explore some of Acha’s dos and don’ts in the bedroom, and we all share our rules for watching porn with a partner.

Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52670063Wed, 08 Feb 2023 13:56:24 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we collab with Tionne and Acha from Primary Colors Podcast to discuss platonic friendships, accountability in women, men’s mental health, and much more. We also brought in some spice with some rules for watching porn with your partner and...We ask the ladies what does accountability look like to us since like many other men out there, Acha doesn’t think women know how to hold themselves accountable for anything. Is this a myth or are women now becoming open to the idea of accountability? As women, how can we encourage each other to take responsibility for our words and actions?

We also get into the hot debate of can men and women be platonic friends and what is allowed with that when one or both parties are in a relationship? I’m sure we’ve all had different experiences with our friends, but is one person’s intention always clouded despite the “understanding” that they’re just friends? Does one person, male or female, always want more? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
We discuss what safety in a relationship looks like to us, how women can make men feel seen and heard, and men’s mental health. And because we always keep it raw and risqué, we explore some of Acha’s dos and don’ts in the bedroom, and we all share our rules for watching porn with a partner.

Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>4519accountability,advice,blackmen,blackwomen,dating,love,modernrelationships,womenyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-traded-sex-for-what--52607023Symph posed the question of how intimate are we willing to get with our friends and would we curate a sexual experience for then? We also explore how quick a woman can move onto someone new after a breakup and if there is a double standard when men do it in comparison to women.
We get into some pop culture hot topics on Lori Harvey and Damson Idris, the question of have you traded sex for something, and lastly, the importance of making sure our affairs are in order despite our age.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52607023Wed, 01 Feb 2023 17:17:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we get into some of our “icks” in the opposite sex, the importance of attraction in a relationship, and some hot topics in pop culture. Symph posed the question of how intimate are we willing to get with our friends and would we curate a...Symph posed the question of how intimate are we willing to get with our friends and would we curate a sexual experience for then? We also explore how quick a woman can move onto someone new after a breakup and if there is a double standard when men do it in comparison to women.
We get into some pop culture hot topics on Lori Harvey and Damson Idris, the question of have you traded sex for something, and lastly, the importance of making sure our affairs are in order despite our age.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>3263blackmen,blackwomen,datingadvice,modernrelationships,real,womentakingaccountabilityyes339fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-are-not-the-prize--52552324We dive into how men and women should work symbiotically to be the “prize” for each other, instead of each gender thinking they are more valuable than the other. We also touch upon marriage and adopting children that are not yours biologically, and if not doing so is grounds for divorce.
Jay and Panama share their secrets of how they get a woman’s interest and secure their shot. We also explore the question of whether or not some women make it too easy for men when it comes to dating. We close off with is there a guy code when it comes to sharing women? The guys let us know their perspective and how they see it.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52552324Thu, 26 Jan 2023 16:08:34 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastWe’re kicking off 2023 with our first guests, melodic artist Jay Swishes and his manager Panama, to discuss all things from men and women being the “prize,” to monogamy and polygamy and much more. We dive into how men and women should work...We dive into how men and women should work symbiotically to be the “prize” for each other, instead of each gender thinking they are more valuable than the other. We also touch upon marriage and adopting children that are not yours biologically, and if not doing so is grounds for divorce.
Jay and Panama share their secrets of how they get a woman’s interest and secure their shot. We also explore the question of whether or not some women make it too easy for men when it comes to dating. We close off with is there a guy code when it comes to sharing women? The guys let us know their perspective and how they see it.
Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!]]>2747cheating,datingadvice,monagamy,music,polyamory,relationships,sextalk,singleyes338fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friends-with-an-ex-2022-wrap-up--52306284We then get into some things we’ve learned about ourselves this year when it comes to sex and intimacy. Things may or may not have gotten hot and spicy 👀.
As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics! Thank you all for rocking with us.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52306284Thu, 29 Dec 2022 15:17:44 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re wrapping up 2022 as we reminisce on some of our best memories this year, biggest lessons learned, and expectations for the upcoming new year. We also explore the importance of building friendships and a sisterhood of female friends. In...We then get into some things we’ve learned about ourselves this year when it comes to sex and intimacy. Things may or may not have gotten hot and spicy 👀.
As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics! Thank you all for rocking with us.]]>25292022,2022recap,friendswithyourex,highlights,new,newme,newyearyes338fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-giving-christmas--52256246We take a deep dive into how narcissistic or mothers who are jealous of their daughters can lead young girls to think abuse is love. Thus, starting a cycle of toxic relationships where abuse is present. Often times some mothers project their insecurities onto their daughters, causing them to treat them harshly, and later apologizing like nothing happened. This cycle of abuse later leads young women to confusion in their romantic relationships.
We then explore dating as adults and when does dating turn into a relationship. While the decision to move dating into a relationship should mutual one, we learn that often times that isn’t the case. Someone usually makes that decision for both parties involved, thus forcing the other party to agree, and to sometimes jump into something that they are not ready for. This leads us into the question of how do we know when we’re in love or when we love someone, whether that be romantically or platonically?
In our holiday segment, we explore buying gifts for a new boo, and how to know what to spend on someone you are newly dating. We also speak about fathers/mothers with multiple children by different men/women, purchasing gifts for their child that may leave the other children feeling insecure. As a parent, whose responsibility is it to ensure that this doesn’t happen? Can you tell the other parent to limit their gift to their child to a certain amount, or to only purchase certain things for their child? Let us know in the comments. We close out this segment with some ways you can cope with the holiday season if you are alone or grieving a loved one.
As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics! Happy Holidays and thank you all for rocking with us.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52256246Thu, 22 Dec 2022 14:40:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week the trio reunites, to discuss all things from narcissistic/jealous mothers, to dating and relationship as adults, buying of Christmas gifts for someone you’re not in a relationship with, and much more. We take a deep dive into how...We take a deep dive into how narcissistic or mothers who are jealous of their daughters can lead young girls to think abuse is love. Thus, starting a cycle of toxic relationships where abuse is present. Often times some mothers project their insecurities onto their daughters, causing them to treat them harshly, and later apologizing like nothing happened. This cycle of abuse later leads young women to confusion in their romantic relationships.
We then explore dating as adults and when does dating turn into a relationship. While the decision to move dating into a relationship should mutual one, we learn that often times that isn’t the case. Someone usually makes that decision for both parties involved, thus forcing the other party to agree, and to sometimes jump into something that they are not ready for. This leads us into the question of how do we know when we’re in love or when we love someone, whether that be romantically or platonically?
In our holiday segment, we explore buying gifts for a new boo, and how to know what to spend on someone you are newly dating. We also speak about fathers/mothers with multiple children by different men/women, purchasing gifts for their child that may leave the other children feeling insecure. As a parent, whose responsibility is it to ensure that this doesn’t happen? Can you tell the other parent to limit their gift to their child to a certain amount, or to only purchase certain things for their child? Let us know in the comments. We close out this segment with some ways you can cope with the holiday season if you are alone or grieving a loved one.
As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics! Happy Holidays and thank you all for rocking with us.]]>3155christmas,datingadvice,inlove,jelousmoms,modernrelationships,narcissist,toxicmothersyes337fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-can-t-handle-the-truth--52185711
Whether it be about our physical appearance, hygiene, or sexual performance, Tre does not think men can completely be honest with women. However, he says men can make suggestions, as those are more accepted by women. When it comes to sexual performance, to avoid hurting anyone and having them in their head, we all agree that delivery is most important when being honest. You know the old saying, “it’s not what you say, but how you say it,” still stands true.

We then explore how personal insecurities can affect our relationships and our partners being honest with us. We share some of our insecurities and how they’ve affected us throughout the years. When insecurities that haven’t been embraced are triggered, it can cause us hurt, anger, and jealousy, thus prompting conflict in our relationships. We should all learn to embrace and accept our insecurities, as there is strength and power in this.

Bri kicks off our “All is fair in love and war” segment where we address the topic of plastic surgery and if women are doing it for themselves or for the male gaze. Tre gives his thoughts on this and his preference of wanting his woman to embrace what she has. We also explore if one can be happy on their relationship and still cheat, and if sex an obligation in a relationship.

Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Be sure to check our more of Tre’s content on his podcast, Primary Colors Podcast on YouTube and all listening platforms. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52185711Wed, 14 Dec 2022 15:39:31 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Tre from Primary Colors Podcast, a collab that has been long in the making. We kick off the episode with ice breakers and posed the question of “does a man lie to the woman he loves, or is he honest?” This leads us into the...
Whether it be about our physical appearance, hygiene, or sexual performance, Tre does not think men can completely be honest with women. However, he says men can make suggestions, as those are more accepted by women. When it comes to sexual performance, to avoid hurting anyone and having them in their head, we all agree that delivery is most important when being honest. You know the old saying, “it’s not what you say, but how you say it,” still stands true.

We then explore how personal insecurities can affect our relationships and our partners being honest with us. We share some of our insecurities and how they’ve affected us throughout the years. When insecurities that haven’t been embraced are triggered, it can cause us hurt, anger, and jealousy, thus prompting conflict in our relationships. We should all learn to embrace and accept our insecurities, as there is strength and power in this.

Bri kicks off our “All is fair in love and war” segment where we address the topic of plastic surgery and if women are doing it for themselves or for the male gaze. Tre gives his thoughts on this and his preference of wanting his woman to embrace what she has. We also explore if one can be happy on their relationship and still cheat, and if sex an obligation in a relationship.

Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

Be sure to check our more of Tre’s content on his podcast, Primary Colors Podcast on YouTube and all listening platforms. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.]]>5508bbl,blackpodcast,cheating,culture,dating,lovetwopeople,relationships,sexyes336fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gender-war-men-women-are-conditioned-to-dislike-each-other--52116430
Have both men and women been conditioned by society, including their parents to dislike each other? From the constant bashing and disrespect of both genders toward the other, why do we feel the need to operate in such a way and do we hold ourselves accountable for our role in which we may feel a certain way about the opposite gender? How can the bashing affect our children, or the other generations to come and their possibilities of building relationships?

We then explore the topic of people not wanting to bring kids into the world as we know it today. Will you ever be fulfilled if you choose to not have children out of “selfishness” or fear? A lot of people let the factors that we can’t control deter them from reproducing and bringing life into this world, instead of trusting the higher being and themselves to do the best they can to provide a beautiful life for their offsprings. As Wolf said, ‘life is beautiful and we should live it to the fullest while having faith that everything will be okay.’ Let us know your thoughts on this and why you may not want to have kids, if that is your choice.

In our “Ask Wolf” segment, we pose the question of whether or not it’s true that women hold men to the same standards as their fathers and why do some women get upset when men compare them to their mothers? Symphony closes out the segment with a question we think we should all reflect on. What are some memories you look back at and wish you cherished more while you were there? Share those memories in the comments below.

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others. As always, keep it honest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52116430Wed, 07 Dec 2022 02:46:54 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, Zee and Symphony are joined by our favorite engineer, Wolf Taylor, to discuss the conversation around men loving women but not necessarily liking them, having and raising kids in this world, and much more. Have both men and women been...
Have both men and women been conditioned by society, including their parents to dislike each other? From the constant bashing and disrespect of both genders toward the other, why do we feel the need to operate in such a way and do we hold ourselves accountable for our role in which we may feel a certain way about the opposite gender? How can the bashing affect our children, or the other generations to come and their possibilities of building relationships?

We then explore the topic of people not wanting to bring kids into the world as we know it today. Will you ever be fulfilled if you choose to not have children out of “selfishness” or fear? A lot of people let the factors that we can’t control deter them from reproducing and bringing life into this world, instead of trusting the higher being and themselves to do the best they can to provide a beautiful life for their offsprings. As Wolf said, ‘life is beautiful and we should live it to the fullest while having faith that everything will be okay.’ Let us know your thoughts on this and why you may not want to have kids, if that is your choice.

In our “Ask Wolf” segment, we pose the question of whether or not it’s true that women hold men to the same standards as their fathers and why do some women get upset when men compare them to their mothers? Symphony closes out the segment with a question we think we should all reflect on. What are some memories you look back at and wish you cherished more while you were there? Share those memories in the comments below.

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others. As always, keep it honest.]]>4471averagemen,gender,highvaluemen,menvswomen,modernwomen,warsyes335fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-need-to-return-to-their-femininity--52056251
Yoshi opens up about why she thinks having a friend with benefits is a scam, and what her experience with that has been like. We take a deep dive into black family structures, trauma bonding, and what she would like the generation of women before her to do in order to preserve the black family unit.

Yoshi urges women to return to their femininity, and allowing men to thrive in their masculinity. Zee makes a great point about “getting everything she want” when she operates in her feminine aura. Let us know your thoughts about this on the comments below.

Lastly, we enter Yoshi’s World, where we explore qualities in men that she’d want to be in a relationship with, versus those qualities that would make her turn the other way. Anyone else like the “odd ball” when dating? We then close out by examining imposter syndrome and why some of us subject ourselves to such, instead of believing we deserve our accomplishments. Are you a victim of imposter syndrome? If so, let us know your experience with this and how it has or continues to affect you.

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52056251Wed, 30 Nov 2022 14:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Yoshi Rose, to talk all things from the dating period and how long it should last, to the preservation of the black family unit and women returning to their femininity, and lastly imposter syndrome. Yoshi opens up about...
Yoshi opens up about why she thinks having a friend with benefits is a scam, and what her experience with that has been like. We take a deep dive into black family structures, trauma bonding, and what she would like the generation of women before her to do in order to preserve the black family unit.

Yoshi urges women to return to their femininity, and allowing men to thrive in their masculinity. Zee makes a great point about “getting everything she want” when she operates in her feminine aura. Let us know your thoughts about this on the comments below.

Lastly, we enter Yoshi’s World, where we explore qualities in men that she’d want to be in a relationship with, versus those qualities that would make her turn the other way. Anyone else like the “odd ball” when dating? We then close out by examining imposter syndrome and why some of us subject ourselves to such, instead of believing we deserve our accomplishments. Are you a victim of imposter syndrome? If so, let us know your experience with this and how it has or continues to affect you.

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.]]>3600advice,blacklove,blackpodcast,couples,dating,marroed,real,relationships,singleyes334fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/forgiveness-stereotypes-in-the-black-community--51990215
We touch on how our expectations of each other in the black community are so high, we usually condemn others for their mistakes rather than extending grace. When other races offend us or are malicious, we easily accept an apology and move on. However, when someone black does or says something we don’t agree with, we crucify them. Let’s make it make sense!

We also touch on stereotypes and how they’re preventing us from progressing as a community and how some people choose to live up to them instead of trying to dispel them. Zina makes a great point about the crabs in a barrel mentality that there isn’t enough room at the top for everyone so rather than sharing resources and helping each other out, we do the opposite.

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Malecon by Soyb & Amine Maxwell
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We touch on how our expectations of each other in the black community are so high, we usually condemn others for their mistakes rather than extending grace. When other races offend us or are malicious, we easily accept an apology and move on. However, when someone black does or says something we don’t agree with, we crucify them. Let’s make it make sense!

We also touch on stereotypes and how they’re preventing us from progressing as a community and how some people choose to live up to them instead of trying to dispel them. Zina makes a great point about the crabs in a barrel mentality that there isn’t enough room at the top for everyone so rather than sharing resources and helping each other out, we do the opposite.

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Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/al-malecon​
Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/xbWzYbtMgIE]]>3164black,flightattemdant,girl,joerogan,kyrieirving,lebronjames,realtalk,talk,womenyes334fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pleasure-pain-punishment-ft-pleasure-coach-sir-marvelous--51887584
We also get into how Sir’s relationship with his sub/life partner works. He describes himself to be a “cuckold,” someone who enjoyed watching their partner pleasure and be pleasured by others. Ladies and gents, can you see yourself watching your partner receive pleasure from someone else? How much trust does this entail?

Don’t be shy to let us know your thoughts on this topics and perhaps share some experiences if you have any 👀

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51887584Mon, 14 Nov 2022 15:16:50 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastIf you’re new to kink or want to spice things up in the bedroom, this is the episode for you. This week we’re joined by pleasure coach, Sir Marvelous to talk all things from intimacy to pleasurable pain, submission, and much more. We take a deep dive...
We also get into how Sir’s relationship with his sub/life partner works. He describes himself to be a “cuckold,” someone who enjoyed watching their partner pleasure and be pleasured by others. Ladies and gents, can you see yourself watching your partner receive pleasure from someone else? How much trust does this entail?

Don’t be shy to let us know your thoughts on this topics and perhaps share some experiences if you have any 👀

Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.]]>3975bdsm,dom,flogging,kink,pain,pleasure,pleasurecoach,sexdungeon,subdom,submissive,swingers,tempetureplay,whipsyes333fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/side-chicks-keep-marriages-strong--51784380
We take a deep dive into the fact that may of us don’t know what it requires to keep a man, or to keep anyone for that matter, so why do we push for monogamy and commitment? The Philly native shares details of her marriage with us and why she would never get married again.

For the first time, Zee gives us a demonstration of her experience as a Dom in her past dating life. We were shocked to hear that “it was easy” 😭 for her partner to allow her to do certain things to him. For the men out there, would you let a woman be your dominatrix? Let us know in the comments below.

Esh also talks her ish and says if you’re broke, you shouldn’t be having sex because where are your priorities? As a woman, you should be able to ask the man you’re having sex with for certain things. Do y’all agree or not? Let us know in the comments below. Esh also gets candid about tattooing men’s name on her, and some of the things she’d like to try on the bedroom. Honesties, have you or will you ever tat your man or woman’s name on you? And under what circumstances?

Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others. Follow Esh from @eshyourheartoutpod for funny, real, and honest content. And as always, keep it honest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51784380Fri, 04 Nov 2022 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re giving y’all a collab y’all didn’t know y’all needed until now. Esh from @eshyourheartoutpod came through to talk all things from marriage and divorce to dating as a single mother, her belief that if you’re broke you shouldn’t be...
We take a deep dive into the fact that may of us don’t know what it requires to keep a man, or to keep anyone for that matter, so why do we push for monogamy and commitment? The Philly native shares details of her marriage with us and why she would never get married again.

For the first time, Zee gives us a demonstration of her experience as a Dom in her past dating life. We were shocked to hear that “it was easy” 😭 for her partner to allow her to do certain things to him. For the men out there, would you let a woman be your dominatrix? Let us know in the comments below.

Esh also talks her ish and says if you’re broke, you shouldn’t be having sex because where are your priorities? As a woman, you should be able to ask the man you’re having sex with for certain things. Do y’all agree or not? Let us know in the comments below. Esh also gets candid about tattooing men’s name on her, and some of the things she’d like to try on the bedroom. Honesties, have you or will you ever tat your man or woman’s name on you? And under what circumstances?

Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others. Follow Esh from @eshyourheartoutpod for funny, real, and honest content. And as always, keep it honest.]]>4061blackmen,blackwomen,dating,dirtytalk,divorce,eshyourheartoutpod,jawn,lerandlionel,pegging,philly,separated,singlemomyes332fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-honestly-tho--51714970
Subscribe to our Patreon for more exclusive, uncut content. And don’t forget to email or DM us for our “Letters from the Listeners” segment for upcoming episodes. We wanna hear from y’all! Subscribe, like, comment and share and as always, keep it honest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51714970Fri, 28 Oct 2022 13:48:52 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week our engineer Wolf flipped things on us and turned his “Ask Wolf” segment into Ask Honestly Tho, as he asked us some random questions he put together. Tune in as you get to see us more candidly and get to know us a little better. Let us know...
Subscribe to our Patreon for more exclusive, uncut content. And don’t forget to email or DM us for our “Letters from the Listeners” segment for upcoming episodes. We wanna hear from y’all! Subscribe, like, comment and share and as always, keep it honest.]]>1660askhonestly,blackmen,blackwomen,bts,candid,highvibrational,lowvibrational,wolfyes331fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/narcissists-vs-gaslighters--51645651
We take a deep dive into narcissism and dating narcissists who have used gaslighting to make one feel unheard and unseen. Bri makes a great point about narcissists lacking empathy and vulnerability, because realistically, we all have narcissistic traits. However, it’s the intentions and use behind these traits that determines whether or not one is truly narcissistic or not.

We then get into black businesses and customer service especially with hairstylists and those providing a service. Is it bad customer service or is someone just having a bad day? What are some things that won’t make you return to a business or continue receiving a service from someone?

Billy has gone through some changes within his own podcast, so we addressed that, in addition to posing the question of whether or not it’s better to work with friends or with strangers. While both has their pros and cons, at the end of the day, which is more fulfilling to you? Let us know which you’d prefer.

We’re now accepting letters from our listeners 🤗. If you have a question or need advice on anything, don’t hesitate to send us a DM on Instagram or email us at Hnstlytho@gmail.com. We will address all letters on the next episode.

As always, keep it honest. Like, comment, share and subscribe if you enjoyed this episode.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51645651Fri, 21 Oct 2022 15:21:21 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we’re joined by our podcast cousin Billy from the 25&overclub podcast as we address some past regrets and lessons we’ve learned from our relationships. We take a deep dive into narcissism and dating narcissists who have used gaslighting...
We take a deep dive into narcissism and dating narcissists who have used gaslighting to make one feel unheard and unseen. Bri makes a great point about narcissists lacking empathy and vulnerability, because realistically, we all have narcissistic traits. However, it’s the intentions and use behind these traits that determines whether or not one is truly narcissistic or not.

We then get into black businesses and customer service especially with hairstylists and those providing a service. Is it bad customer service or is someone just having a bad day? What are some things that won’t make you return to a business or continue receiving a service from someone?

Billy has gone through some changes within his own podcast, so we addressed that, in addition to posing the question of whether or not it’s better to work with friends or with strangers. While both has their pros and cons, at the end of the day, which is more fulfilling to you? Let us know which you’d prefer.

We’re now accepting letters from our listeners 🤗. If you have a question or need advice on anything, don’t hesitate to send us a DM on Instagram or email us at Hnstlytho@gmail.com. We will address all letters on the next episode.

As always, keep it honest. Like, comment, share and subscribe if you enjoyed this episode.]]>3605blackmen,blackwomen,dating,gaslighters,gay,narcissists,realyes329fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dirty-couch-confessions-ft-court-from-dscpodcast--51576648
We then take a “deep dive” into the difference between leading and controlling a woman, where Court gets serious as he shares his perspective on the two. “It takes the same amount of energy to lead as it takes to control a woman,” says Court. So what’s the difference? Take a dive with us and hear what the main difference is and let us know if you agree or not. We also asked Court his opinion on getting a vasectomy over having his lady tie her tubes. Why are some men resistant to the idea of getting snipped, despite it being reversible. As a man, would you ever get a vasectomy if you and your partner both decided that you didn’t want anymore kids? Let us know in the comments below.

In the “Talk Dirty to Me” segment, we address some of Court’s tweets, his ass eating go to move, and some other viral moments we’ve seen on his “Dirty Street Confessions” Podcast.

We close out the episode with our “Ask Wolf” segment where we address creativity and inspiration. Honestly Tho, what do you to remain inspired? Let us know.

Follow the hosts on Instagram at: @toptier_zee, @bri_yonce and our guest @fuck.court. Subscribe to become a member to Honestly Tho After Dark on Patreon for exclusive content. And as always, keep it honest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51576648Fri, 14 Oct 2022 05:10:00 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we’re joined by fellow podcaster Court, from Dirty Street Confessions Podcast so he could confess some things to us. For the first time, we introduce segments to our show. We start with some ice breakers to get to know Court, his...
We then take a “deep dive” into the difference between leading and controlling a woman, where Court gets serious as he shares his perspective on the two. “It takes the same amount of energy to lead as it takes to control a woman,” says Court. So what’s the difference? Take a dive with us and hear what the main difference is and let us know if you agree or not. We also asked Court his opinion on getting a vasectomy over having his lady tie her tubes. Why are some men resistant to the idea of getting snipped, despite it being reversible. As a man, would you ever get a vasectomy if you and your partner both decided that you didn’t want anymore kids? Let us know in the comments below.

In the “Talk Dirty to Me” segment, we address some of Court’s tweets, his ass eating go to move, and some other viral moments we’ve seen on his “Dirty Street Confessions” Podcast.

We close out the episode with our “Ask Wolf” segment where we address creativity and inspiration. Honestly Tho, what do you to remain inspired? Let us know.

Follow the hosts on Instagram at: @toptier_zee, @bri_yonce and our guest @fuck.court. Subscribe to become a member to Honestly Tho After Dark on Patreon for exclusive content. And as always, keep it honest.]]>3577confesstions,dating,dirty,dscpodcast,nycpodcast,relationships,sextalk,street,talkdirtytomeyes328fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/spin-the-block-would-you-go-back-to-your-ex--51499458Have you ever been rejected, and if so, how have you handled it especially as a man? Bri thinks women need to stop holding onto men that they know they don’t want for their own benefit, as it only hurts that man in the long run. While men do the same to women, some women tend to navigate their feelings better to heal themselves, while most men turn into savages after experiencing such.

Have you ever spun the block on an ex lover, not because you want that old thing back, but because you know what the sex is like with that person? Most times we spin the block, it’s based off of lust, not feelings or emotions. Would you spin the block with an ex lover who is currently in a relationship 👀? We want to know. Do you agree or disagree that spinning the block is usually just based on lust?

Is there ever no strings attached when it comes to sex? Zee breaks down the different meanings of “sex with no strings attached” and how people may choose navigate this. Wolf thinks only a sociopath could truly have sex with no strings attached. What are your feelings on this? Can you have sex with no strings attached? Let us know in the comments.

As always, keep it honest with us. Like, comment, share snd subscribe to our channel. Honestly Tho After Dark is now live on Patreon. Subscribe and become a member for exclusive content.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51499458Fri, 07 Oct 2022 14:43:26 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by Wolf, our favorite engineer and voice of reason as we tackle rejection, spinning the block, one night stands, and sex with no strings attached. Have you ever been rejected, and if so, how have you handled it especially as a...Have you ever been rejected, and if so, how have you handled it especially as a man? Bri thinks women need to stop holding onto men that they know they don’t want for their own benefit, as it only hurts that man in the long run. While men do the same to women, some women tend to navigate their feelings better to heal themselves, while most men turn into savages after experiencing such.

Have you ever spun the block on an ex lover, not because you want that old thing back, but because you know what the sex is like with that person? Most times we spin the block, it’s based off of lust, not feelings or emotions. Would you spin the block with an ex lover who is currently in a relationship 👀? We want to know. Do you agree or disagree that spinning the block is usually just based on lust?

Is there ever no strings attached when it comes to sex? Zee breaks down the different meanings of “sex with no strings attached” and how people may choose navigate this. Wolf thinks only a sociopath could truly have sex with no strings attached. What are your feelings on this? Can you have sex with no strings attached? Let us know in the comments.

As always, keep it honest with us. Like, comment, share snd subscribe to our channel. Honestly Tho After Dark is now live on Patreon. Subscribe and become a member for exclusive content.]]>2598blackmen,blackpodcasts,blackwomen,casualsex,dating,exes,oldthingback,rejection,relationships,single,soulties,spintheblockyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/talk-dirty-to-me--51404532
We also get into gift giving etiquette as adults because we all know sometimes people be in their feelings about not receiving gifts at their events. Is it ever okay to show up to a milestone birthday, baby shower, wedding, or house warming empty handed? And also, do you care more about the gifts or actually celebrating with the people in attendance? Because chileee, we done seen how a pregnant woman asked people who didn’t bring a gift to her baby shower to leave. Was she justified or were those pregnancy hormones “hormoning” that day? 😭.

What would you do if an ex or current partner releases explicit content of you or y’all? Hopefully none of us will ever have to go through that in this lifetime, but if you could get some cash from it, would you be down?

Lastly we finish with a highly requested topic from one of our male viewers. Men, do y’all dirty talk in the bedroom and if so, how do you do it? Let us know if the tips we shared as ladies are legit or not. We close out this episode with a sneak peek into some of spicy things we get into on Patreon with a game of “would you rather this or that?” Search Honestly Tho…After Dark on Patreon to subscribe to behind the scene content and uncut conversations.

As always, like, comment, share and keep it honest!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51404532Wed, 28 Sep 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re rejoined by our girl @joieocean, as we give perspective on outing people’s business to protect our siblings, or simply not giving others the chance to tell their truth themselves. Is it ever okay, and if so when? Zina thinks there’s a...
We also get into gift giving etiquette as adults because we all know sometimes people be in their feelings about not receiving gifts at their events. Is it ever okay to show up to a milestone birthday, baby shower, wedding, or house warming empty handed? And also, do you care more about the gifts or actually celebrating with the people in attendance? Because chileee, we done seen how a pregnant woman asked people who didn’t bring a gift to her baby shower to leave. Was she justified or were those pregnancy hormones “hormoning” that day? 😭.

What would you do if an ex or current partner releases explicit content of you or y’all? Hopefully none of us will ever have to go through that in this lifetime, but if you could get some cash from it, would you be down?

Lastly we finish with a highly requested topic from one of our male viewers. Men, do y’all dirty talk in the bedroom and if so, how do you do it? Let us know if the tips we shared as ladies are legit or not. We close out this episode with a sneak peek into some of spicy things we get into on Patreon with a game of “would you rather this or that?” Search Honestly Tho…After Dark on Patreon to subscribe to behind the scene content and uncut conversations.

As always, like, comment, share and keep it honest!]]>2477dating,dirtytalk,kimk,krisjenner,leaked,rayj,sex,sextape,siblings,transgenderyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-can-an-18-year-old-learn-from-a-35-year-old--51199573
We also discuss getting comfortable in a relationship or while dating, and losing yourself both as women and men. We all know that sometimes when you’ve been with someone for a certain amount of time, you stop putting in the effort you once put in to look your best, whether it be getting your hair done less, gaining weight, or not getting dressed up. Question is though, does your partner have a right to tell you if you’re losing yourself or threaten to leave you if you don’t make the effort to return to what you were giving while y’all were dating?

We get into the controversial topic where a certain 35 year old said he’d rather date 18-19 year olds than women in their 20s for many reasons. While we all thought it was creepy, Symphony brought up the point of learning from someone despite the age gap while dating, which sent Bri off the wall. They get into a heated debate that you really just have to watch the episode and let us know who you’re siding with 👀
Stay tuned for Part 2, which will be released next week.
Make Sure To Rate,Coment & Share 🤎]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51199573Fri, 09 Sep 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re joined by our girl Joie Ocean, and we get into some things!!! Well, a lot of things from gift giving, receiving, and take backs because some people really be wanting their gifts back after a breakup. Ladies and gents, if an ex Bae asks...
We also discuss getting comfortable in a relationship or while dating, and losing yourself both as women and men. We all know that sometimes when you’ve been with someone for a certain amount of time, you stop putting in the effort you once put in to look your best, whether it be getting your hair done less, gaining weight, or not getting dressed up. Question is though, does your partner have a right to tell you if you’re losing yourself or threaten to leave you if you don’t make the effort to return to what you were giving while y’all were dating?

We get into the controversial topic where a certain 35 year old said he’d rather date 18-19 year olds than women in their 20s for many reasons. While we all thought it was creepy, Symphony brought up the point of learning from someone despite the age gap while dating, which sent Bri off the wall. They get into a heated debate that you really just have to watch the episode and let us know who you’re siding with 👀
Stay tuned for Part 2, which will be released next week.
Make Sure To Rate,Coment & Share 🤎]]>3325yes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/loyalty-after-lockup--51090704
We also pose the question of what would you do if your man was locked up and you found out he was cheating on you? Yes, both while in jail, and before he got locked up. What you doing?! Also, how long does your man or woman has to be in jail for before you start cheating? 😭👀

Overall, can you and will you fault a person for not being loyal to you while you are locked up? What terms and conditions comes with being in a relationship with someone who is doing time?

In our Ask Wolf segment, we explore a post where a man thanks his fiancée for not pressuring him for “fancy dates” and for simply good conversation and alignment in goals. While so people on the Internet thought he was giving her the bare minimum, Wolf and some of us had a difference in opinion. Don't Forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51090704Wed, 31 Aug 2022 13:50:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we explore love, loyalty, and being locked up, and different situations surrounding all 3 of these. Following Irv Gotti’s Drink Champs interview and his discontent with Ashanti leaving him high and dry, we pose the question of how far will...
We also pose the question of what would you do if your man was locked up and you found out he was cheating on you? Yes, both while in jail, and before he got locked up. What you doing?! Also, how long does your man or woman has to be in jail for before you start cheating? 😭👀

Overall, can you and will you fault a person for not being loyal to you while you are locked up? What terms and conditions comes with being in a relationship with someone who is doing time?

In our Ask Wolf segment, we explore a post where a man thanks his fiancée for not pressuring him for “fancy dates” and for simply good conversation and alignment in goals. While so people on the Internet thought he was giving her the bare minimum, Wolf and some of us had a difference in opinion. Don't Forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>2324akademiks,ashanti,blackmen,blackpodcasts,blackwomen,infidelity,irvgotti,jail,loveafterlockdown,loyalty,manosphere,nopressure,nyc,papoose,pinkpill,prisonsong,redpill,remyma,rideordie,viraltweetyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/honestly-tho-ladies-it-ain-t-tricking-if-you-got-it--51015222
We also address the latest narrative that “men are the new bad bitches” which is wild, we know. Ladies, why can’t men have standards or carry themselves a certain way without being disrespected? If men are the new bad bitches, what are the lady bad bitches then? We need answers, because the math isn’t mathing 🤷🏽‍♀️

We ask both Wolf and Dom, what does legacy mean to them a what they’d like their legacies to be in the future? Tap in with these two insightful men, because their responses will leave you thinking about how you would answer that question.

We explore some videos we’ve seen social media regarding men paying for women and their friends when they are out. Dom was surprised to learn that there are some women out there who have no problem spoiling and treating their man from time to time. Oftentimes as women, we expect all of the spoiling to be done by the man but ladies, it’s okay to trick on your man for no reason. Really, it’s okay.

And lastly, we get into a post of man saying that his fiancée is not the most beautiful woman to him, which got some of the girls in their feelings. So ladies and gents, must your significant other be the most attractive person to you at all times? Let us know in the comments below. Don't Forget to Rate, Comment & Share 🤎]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51015222Wed, 24 Aug 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sat down with our homeboy Domenic, who got us thinking about how we spend our money and aim to cater to our parents before investing in the generations to come. While our parents did the best that they could for us, we have to now focus...
We also address the latest narrative that “men are the new bad bitches” which is wild, we know. Ladies, why can’t men have standards or carry themselves a certain way without being disrespected? If men are the new bad bitches, what are the lady bad bitches then? We need answers, because the math isn’t mathing 🤷🏽‍♀️

We ask both Wolf and Dom, what does legacy mean to them a what they’d like their legacies to be in the future? Tap in with these two insightful men, because their responses will leave you thinking about how you would answer that question.

We explore some videos we’ve seen social media regarding men paying for women and their friends when they are out. Dom was surprised to learn that there are some women out there who have no problem spoiling and treating their man from time to time. Oftentimes as women, we expect all of the spoiling to be done by the man but ladies, it’s okay to trick on your man for no reason. Really, it’s okay.

And lastly, we get into a post of man saying that his fiancée is not the most beautiful woman to him, which got some of the girls in their feelings. So ladies and gents, must your significant other be the most attractive person to you at all times? Let us know in the comments below. Don't Forget to Rate, Comment & Share 🤎]]>2557abaandpreach,blackpodcasts,blackwomenpodcast,collabs,genderwar,generationalwealth,highexpectations,honestlytho,imnotpayingforyourfriends,joebuddenpodcast,legacy,menhavestandards,modernwomen,money,moretodiscover,ourmoney,recentlyadded,redpill,toppodcasts,youmightlikeyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/save-your-child-or-your-spouse--50950139
In our Ask Wolf segment, we get into the topic of if a man is considered to be “weak” if he doesn’t protect random women in public. He gives us the tea on his experience with a pimp and his hoe, and how he used his discernment in this situation to protect himself 🤷🏽‍♀️

We close off with a thought provoking question of if you had to make the decision to save your child or your spouse, which one would you choose, and why 👀? Let us know what choice you’re making in the comments below. Don't forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50950139Thu, 18 Aug 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we posed the question of whether or not we expect too much of our friends, which led us to be transparent not only about some things in our friendship, but also as friends who podcast together. Honestly Tho, over time we’ve learned that you...
In our Ask Wolf segment, we get into the topic of if a man is considered to be “weak” if he doesn’t protect random women in public. He gives us the tea on his experience with a pimp and his hoe, and how he used his discernment in this situation to protect himself 🤷🏽‍♀️

We close off with a thought provoking question of if you had to make the decision to save your child or your spouse, which one would you choose, and why 👀? Let us know what choice you’re making in the comments below. Don't forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>3724blackmen,blackpeople,blackwomen,communication,differentpersonalities,discernment,friendship,grace,highexpectations,houston,hustleandflow,lowmaintenacefriendships,nyc,pimp,protectwomen,recentlyadded,safetyfirst,saveyourchildorspouse,weakyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-beyonce-still-that-girl--50874588
As we dissect the album, we also look at the use of the word “spaz” in the song Heated, as many people expressed their outrage saying that the word is offensive to those who suffer from cerebral palsy. Should Beyoncé have known better, or is it simply a lack of understanding of black vernacular by those “across the pond?”

We also discuss Kevin Gate’s recent comments about allowing Beyoncé to pee on him and some of his fantasies with Bey. At what point should we refrain ourselves from saying certain things that may be disrespectful to another person’s spouse? Or is this what comes with being a celebrity? Or simply put, has Kevin Gates officially lost his mind? 😭

For our “Ask Wolf” segment, we pose the question of how much he values his girlfriend’s opinion about his friends and their friendships. Is it true that men have an emotional attraction to their male friends, while they usually only have a physical attraction to women? Wolf helps us get to an understanding of this, because some of us were definitely confused at first. Honesties, let us know if you agree or disagree with this claim in the comments below. Don't Forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50874588Wed, 10 Aug 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we get into Beyoncé’s latest album, Renaissance. After hearing some of the critique, we ask ourselves, “Is Beyoncé still that girl?” While we enjoyed the album, for some of us, it took more than one listen for us to get there, which usually...
As we dissect the album, we also look at the use of the word “spaz” in the song Heated, as many people expressed their outrage saying that the word is offensive to those who suffer from cerebral palsy. Should Beyoncé have known better, or is it simply a lack of understanding of black vernacular by those “across the pond?”

We also discuss Kevin Gate’s recent comments about allowing Beyoncé to pee on him and some of his fantasies with Bey. At what point should we refrain ourselves from saying certain things that may be disrespectful to another person’s spouse? Or is this what comes with being a celebrity? Or simply put, has Kevin Gates officially lost his mind? 😭

For our “Ask Wolf” segment, we pose the question of how much he values his girlfriend’s opinion about his friends and their friendships. Is it true that men have an emotional attraction to their male friends, while they usually only have a physical attraction to women? Wolf helps us get to an understanding of this, because some of us were definitely confused at first. Honesties, let us know if you agree or disagree with this claim in the comments below. Don't Forget to Rate,Comment & Share 🤎]]>2331abelist,beyonce,beyoncecritique,censorship,dance,disabledcommunity,goldenshowers,housemusic,kelis,kevingates,lizzo,malerelationships,newmusic,pinkpill,recentlyadded,redpill,renaissance,theuk,unloyalmen,unloyalwomenyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-want-a-man-on-my-level-ft-25-overclub--50736214
Honestly Tho…since we’re all 25 and over 😏, we’ve begun to date with more intention, and that includes what we want in a spouse and what isn’t acceptable. Ladies and gentlemen, what are some superficial reasons why you’ve stop speaking to someone you were interested in?

Speaking of dating, Nicole said she wants a “man who is on her level,” as she has two masters degrees under her belt and while she isn’t watching pockets, education level is becoming very important to her. We pose the epiphany that a degree doesn’t equal income 🤔, because we all know some people with degrees who do not use them, or someone who hasn’t finished college who’s making more money than those with the degree. And y’all know Sally Mae does not play about collecting what’s “hers”, so, what you rather a partner who has completed a certain level of education, but their income isn’t reflecting that education level? Or would you rather someone who’s bringing home the bacon, but hasn’t completed their degree or never even been to college? Sound off in the comments below and let us know. If you could only choose one, which would it be? 👀
Don't Forget to Rate,Like and Share ❤️]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50736214Thu, 28 Jul 2022 13:55:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastWelcome to Part 2 of our episode with our podcast cousins @25andoverclub where we discuss if we’ve ever been attracted to a family member or even been with one. After Kevin Gates said what he said about having intercourse with his cousin, we had to...
Honestly Tho…since we’re all 25 and over 😏, we’ve begun to date with more intention, and that includes what we want in a spouse and what isn’t acceptable. Ladies and gentlemen, what are some superficial reasons why you’ve stop speaking to someone you were interested in?

Speaking of dating, Nicole said she wants a “man who is on her level,” as she has two masters degrees under her belt and while she isn’t watching pockets, education level is becoming very important to her. We pose the epiphany that a degree doesn’t equal income 🤔, because we all know some people with degrees who do not use them, or someone who hasn’t finished college who’s making more money than those with the degree. And y’all know Sally Mae does not play about collecting what’s “hers”, so, what you rather a partner who has completed a certain level of education, but their income isn’t reflecting that education level? Or would you rather someone who’s bringing home the bacon, but hasn’t completed their degree or never even been to college? Sound off in the comments below and let us know. If you could only choose one, which would it be? 👀
Don't Forget to Rate,Like and Share ❤️]]>2454bde,breakmysoul,collab,collegedegreesvsincome,cousinattraction,elonmusk,familyattraction,highvalueman,kevingates,mandingo,myths,noteeth,recentlyadded,superificial,wtfmediayes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-prioritize-breathing-while-you-give-oral-ft-25andoverclub--50654926https://www.eventbrite.com/e/25-and-over-club-podcast-live-show-battle-of-the-sexes-tickets-337793438267?discount=LIVESHOW if you haven’t and come see us do our thing! Now back to part one of this episode! We talk all things from Saucy Santana’s comments about women needing gay men and gay men being the blueprint. What blueprint and for who exactly? Billy says Saucy is reaching! He also shares his experiences with being gay and coming out to his father, and Nicole shares her coming out as bi to her family.

As y’all know, we had very strong opinions about our preferences to not date a bisexual man. While Billy doesn’t think it’s homophobic, he does point out the double standards between male and female bisexuality. Apparently, majority of the women on this episode are bisexual 👀😭 but overall, we want to do away with the bias that a man cannot be bisexual.

We introduce our new segment called “Ask Wolf,” where we ask our engineer and special appearance maker some questions we would like to get his perspective. Wolf made an appearance on an episode of Whoreible Decisions where he agreed that sometimes men do not “prioritize breathing” when performing oral on a woman. Us ladies also give our POV on the topic while giving oral to a man.

Part 2 drops next week Wednesday! Get your tickets for the live show and come see us in action. This is just a preview of how we’re coming this Saturday, July 23rd at The Producer Club, located at 358 W 44th Street. Leave your problems at home and come vibe with us at The Battle of The Sexes Live Show 🔥. You don’t want to miss it. Don't Forget to Rate Us, Follow & Comment.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50654926Wed, 20 Jul 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week our podcast cousins @25andoverclub joins us as we get ready for the LIVE SHOW this Saturday. Get your tickets here https://www.eventbrite.com/e/25-and-over-club-podcast-live-show-battle-of-the-sexes-tickets-337793438267?discount=LIVESHOW if...https://www.eventbrite.com/e/25-and-over-club-podcast-live-show-battle-of-the-sexes-tickets-337793438267?discount=LIVESHOW if you haven’t and come see us do our thing! Now back to part one of this episode! We talk all things from Saucy Santana’s comments about women needing gay men and gay men being the blueprint. What blueprint and for who exactly? Billy says Saucy is reaching! He also shares his experiences with being gay and coming out to his father, and Nicole shares her coming out as bi to her family.

As y’all know, we had very strong opinions about our preferences to not date a bisexual man. While Billy doesn’t think it’s homophobic, he does point out the double standards between male and female bisexuality. Apparently, majority of the women on this episode are bisexual 👀😭 but overall, we want to do away with the bias that a man cannot be bisexual.

We introduce our new segment called “Ask Wolf,” where we ask our engineer and special appearance maker some questions we would like to get his perspective. Wolf made an appearance on an episode of Whoreible Decisions where he agreed that sometimes men do not “prioritize breathing” when performing oral on a woman. Us ladies also give our POV on the topic while giving oral to a man.

Part 2 drops next week Wednesday! Get your tickets for the live show and come see us in action. This is just a preview of how we’re coming this Saturday, July 23rd at The Producer Club, located at 358 W 44th Street. Leave your problems at home and come vibe with us at The Battle of The Sexes Live Show 🔥. You don’t want to miss it. Don't Forget to Rate Us, Follow & Comment.]]>2327breathingwhileyougiveoral,collab,gaymen,gaysruntheworld,liveshow,modernwomen,nyc,oralsex,redpill,saucysantana,shanboody,thespicechannel,wandasykes,whitewomen,whoreibledecisions,womenneedgaymen,wtfmediayes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-i-ve-stayed-single-for-12-years-ft-oliver-luke-part-ii--50555997As promised, in this second episode with Oliver Luke, we spoke about why Oliver has chosen to be single for 12 years now, as he knows he is not ready for a relationship. He posed the question of whether or not we wanted to be in relationships, or was society pushing that “norm” onto us, and have we adopted or because that is what we’re supposed to want?

Bri and Symphony share their views about how often they need to speak to their boyfriends, and if it is okay for one’s significant other to go the entire day without speaking to them. While Bri needs to communicate with her boyfriend daily, and vice versa, Symphony has become okay with not speaking to her boyfriend daily, especially when he is busy with work.

Zina debunks the “don’t seek advice from your single friends myth” as she helps the ladies realize that either is acceptable, and we all have different needs in a relationship, and it simply depends on who the person is, and what works for their relationship. She also spoke about the importance of not being afraid to walk away from
relationships that aren’t serving you, and to simply focus on yourself.

This conversation has range, perspectives from all angles, and something that everyone can relate to. Don’t Forget to Rate,Comment, Like & Follow!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50555997Wed, 13 Jul 2022 13:50:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastShit, description: As promised, in this second episode with Oliver Luke, we spoke about why Oliver has chosen to be single for 12 years now, as he knows he is not ready for a relationship. He posed the question of whether or not we wanted to be in...As promised, in this second episode with Oliver Luke, we spoke about why Oliver has chosen to be single for 12 years now, as he knows he is not ready for a relationship. He posed the question of whether or not we wanted to be in relationships, or was society pushing that “norm” onto us, and have we adopted or because that is what we’re supposed to want?

Bri and Symphony share their views about how often they need to speak to their boyfriends, and if it is okay for one’s significant other to go the entire day without speaking to them. While Bri needs to communicate with her boyfriend daily, and vice versa, Symphony has become okay with not speaking to her boyfriend daily, especially when he is busy with work.

Zina debunks the “don’t seek advice from your single friends myth” as she helps the ladies realize that either is acceptable, and we all have different needs in a relationship, and it simply depends on who the person is, and what works for their relationship. She also spoke about the importance of not being afraid to walk away from
relationships that aren’t serving you, and to simply focus on yourself.

This conversation has range, perspectives from all angles, and something that everyone can relate to. Don’t Forget to Rate,Comment, Like & Follow!]]>2136asaprocky,bisexual,black,dating,drake,love,man,men,modernrelationships,questioningsexuality,real,redpill,sex,sexuality,simp,singe,telfarbagyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/myth-black-women-aren-t-as-freaky-as-other-races--50495689
We also talk all things from fashion and masculinity to seeing his mother leave her marriage with his dad, to find herself and live in her truth as a lesbian. We express some biases we had prior to meeting and speaking with him, in which he expressed, “I don’t have to show you my discography of women I slept with to overcompensate for my masculinity.” You better preach 👏🏾 because so many men feel the need to do this whenever their sexuality is questioned however, Oliver Luke knows himself, he knows what he likes and dislikes, and isn’t afraid to wear his emotions on his sleeve.

Stay tuned for part two, coming next week where he spills the tea on how and why he’s remained single for over 10 years now and so much more. You won’t want to miss it.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50495689Thu, 07 Jul 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastYou’ve seen him at 8AtTheTable, but this week, Oliver Like joins us in his hoochie daddy shorts to debunk the theory that “black women do not like giving head” while sharing his experiences with both white women and women of color. From his...
We also talk all things from fashion and masculinity to seeing his mother leave her marriage with his dad, to find herself and live in her truth as a lesbian. We express some biases we had prior to meeting and speaking with him, in which he expressed, “I don’t have to show you my discography of women I slept with to overcompensate for my masculinity.” You better preach 👏🏾 because so many men feel the need to do this whenever their sexuality is questioned however, Oliver Luke knows himself, he knows what he likes and dislikes, and isn’t afraid to wear his emotions on his sleeve.

Stay tuned for part two, coming next week where he spills the tea on how and why he’s remained single for over 10 years now and so much more. You won’t want to miss it.]]>21408atthetable,black,blackwomen,datingadvice,myths,nycpodcast,podcast,relationships,sexmyths,sextalkyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/if-i-don-t-trust-my-mom-how-can-i-trust-women--50403249
We also discuss if it’s important to us for our significant others to have a good relationship with our parents or family overall. Symphony gets candid as she shares how her mother’s past behavior has led to her boyfriend distancing himself from her mom and him taking his time to rebuild their relationship. We all know parents can be overbearing, but, should your spouse disregard their boundaries just to appease to your family? Let us know your thoughts.

Ladies and gentlemen, are we posting,
following, or throwing subliminal messages at our significant others on social media? We have some stories from fake pages to someone sending the opps to slide into the DM 😭 to subbing in the captions. Let us know if you’re guilty of any of these on the gram!

Special thank you to Lorenzo for his vulnerability and openness with us. Be sure to check out his charity “Slice of Excellence,” which donates pizza to school students in exchange for good grades and simply to help feed those who may have a food insecurity. Continue building up community and your legacy! Subscribe to his podcast “Conversations with Zo” if you enjoyed this episode. Remember to Rate,Comment,Like & Share]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50403249Wed, 29 Jun 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we collaborate with Lorenzo, owner and host of the podcast “Conversations with Zo” to bring you Honestly Zo! Lorenzo opens up about his relationship with his mother, how it has played a role in his past fu*kboy ways, and the importance of...
We also discuss if it’s important to us for our significant others to have a good relationship with our parents or family overall. Symphony gets candid as she shares how her mother’s past behavior has led to her boyfriend distancing himself from her mom and him taking his time to rebuild their relationship. We all know parents can be overbearing, but, should your spouse disregard their boundaries just to appease to your family? Let us know your thoughts.

Ladies and gentlemen, are we posting,
following, or throwing subliminal messages at our significant others on social media? We have some stories from fake pages to someone sending the opps to slide into the DM 😭 to subbing in the captions. Let us know if you’re guilty of any of these on the gram!

Special thank you to Lorenzo for his vulnerability and openness with us. Be sure to check out his charity “Slice of Excellence,” which donates pizza to school students in exchange for good grades and simply to help feed those who may have a food insecurity. Continue building up community and your legacy! Subscribe to his podcast “Conversations with Zo” if you enjoyed this episode. Remember to Rate,Comment,Like & Share]]>3169alphamale,biracial,blackeffect,blackwomenpodcast,communication,fboys,honestlytho,innerchildhealing,moderwomen,motherissues,nyc,petty,rawconversations,recentlyadded,relationshiptrauma,shadowwork,socialmediarelationshiprules,subliminalmessages,traumayes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-not-dating-a-bisexual-man-homophobic--50290841
We also pose the question of if one encounter with the same sex constitutes to a man being gay or bisexual, or if the experience wasn’t enjoyable, can it be forgiven by a woman? Cue Molly from Insecure as she was saying Jared earlier on in the show. What are your thoughts on this?

We eventually get into Kim K’s approach to Pete Davidson’s BDE as a married woman and him tattooing the kids names on him. Honesties, would you tattoo your partner’s kids names on you or would you allow your partner to do it? Or are they plain old disrespectful?

We finish up with the myth that women do not apologize or that was use sex in place of an apology rather than actually apologizing. Ladies, how many of you are guilty of this? Do you withhold sex in your relationship as a power play? Let us know in the comments. Don’t Forget to Rate, Like, and Share !
Follow us on IG: _honestlythopodcast
YouTube: Honestly Tho]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50290841Wed, 22 Jun 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we get back to the basics with just the three cohosts, no guests. We pose the question of whether or not we would date a bisexual man and what does that mean to us? From the reality of having more options to anal play, and lack of...
We also pose the question of if one encounter with the same sex constitutes to a man being gay or bisexual, or if the experience wasn’t enjoyable, can it be forgiven by a woman? Cue Molly from Insecure as she was saying Jared earlier on in the show. What are your thoughts on this?

We eventually get into Kim K’s approach to Pete Davidson’s BDE as a married woman and him tattooing the kids names on him. Honesties, would you tattoo your partner’s kids names on you or would you allow your partner to do it? Or are they plain old disrespectful?

We finish up with the myth that women do not apologize or that was use sex in place of an apology rather than actually apologizing. Ladies, how many of you are guilty of this? Do you withhold sex in your relationship as a power play? Let us know in the comments. Don’t Forget to Rate, Like, and Share !
Follow us on IG: _honestlythopodcast
YouTube: Honestly Tho]]>1782apologizingthroughsex,bisexualmen,blackwomenpodcast,dailyrapupcrew,dtf,insecure,kimkardashian,petedavidson,petty,rawconversations,recentlyadded,relationships,sexualexploration,shanboody,tattoos,wtfmediayes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-a-high-sex-drive-can-t-be-trusted-ft-dailyrapupcrew--50211713
We also pose the question of whether or not straight men are boring in bed since most are stigmatized as being “less manly” if they do enjoy having their anus played with. Ladies, if your man allowed you to peg him, would you still have the same attraction to him or would you look at him sideways? Fellas, are you allowing any playing back there? Let us know in the comments. Don't Forget to Rate, Like & Share !
Follow us on IG : @_honestlythopodcast]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50211713Wed, 15 Jun 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastWelcome to part two of our episode with the Daily Rap Up Crew where things get spicy! In this episode we get the men to speak about things you probably will not hear on their platform. They open up about their experiences with women having a higher...
We also pose the question of whether or not straight men are boring in bed since most are stigmatized as being “less manly” if they do enjoy having their anus played with. Ladies, if your man allowed you to peg him, would you still have the same attraction to him or would you look at him sideways? Fellas, are you allowing any playing back there? Let us know in the comments. Don't Forget to Rate, Like & Share !
Follow us on IG : @_honestlythopodcast]]>1431advice,afterdark,analplay,bisexualmen,blackmen,blackpodcasts,blackwomen,boringinbed,bringtothetable,dailyrapupcrew,dating,highsexdrive,modernrelationships,modernwomen,nycpodcast,painting,sextalk,squirting,straightmen,womenwithhighsexdriveyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-women-hold-themselves-to-a-higher-standard-ft-dailyrapupcrew--50120724
We had to get into some comments Jeu made underneath our IG post about a Woman not being a good woman if she’s cheated. This was in response to a topic from our live episode where we came to the conclusion that a man can still be a good man even if he cheats.

Bri posed a question of is dating a woman with a child an issue? Zina being the only mom opened up about her process with dating while being a mother. The guys get into why they consider it settling and the pitfalls of dating a mom. We also get into social media rules for relationships and how they are viewed differently amongst men and women. Fellas, if your girl is on the gram showing cheeks do you mind ? Are there stipulations where’d it be cool? Ladies, do you view a man that cares that you have your yams out on the gram as insecure or has Small D**K Energy? 😩 Let us know 😭

Don’t forget to Like, Rate, Share, and Comment!
Follow us on IG: @_honestlythopodcast
YouTube: Honestly Tho]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50120724Wed, 08 Jun 2022 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we had the Daily Rap Up Crew on to discuss a wide range of topics including the reaction in the media to Kevin Samuels death to would you date someone that had an only fans? We had to get into some comments Jeu made underneath our IG...
We had to get into some comments Jeu made underneath our IG post about a Woman not being a good woman if she’s cheated. This was in response to a topic from our live episode where we came to the conclusion that a man can still be a good man even if he cheats.

Bri posed a question of is dating a woman with a child an issue? Zina being the only mom opened up about her process with dating while being a mother. The guys get into why they consider it settling and the pitfalls of dating a mom. We also get into social media rules for relationships and how they are viewed differently amongst men and women. Fellas, if your girl is on the gram showing cheeks do you mind ? Are there stipulations where’d it be cool? Ladies, do you view a man that cares that you have your yams out on the gram as insecure or has Small D**K Energy? 😩 Let us know 😭

Don’t forget to Like, Rate, Share, and Comment!
Follow us on IG: @_honestlythopodcast
YouTube: Honestly Tho]]>2173blackmen,blackpodcast,blackwomen,dailywrapupcrew,dating,heateddebate,loyalty,nycpodcast,onlyfans,relationshipbehavior,relationships,rulestodating,singlebehavior,whatdowomenwantyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-st-lucian-not-black--50025930https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50025930Wed, 01 Jun 2022 14:10:41 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we discuss the difference between race and ethnicity/nationality as Zina shares why she doesn't identify as black!1242africandiaspora,american,black,blackamerican,blackpeople,carribean,carribeanamerican,fba,foundationalblackamericans,raveversusethnicityyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-women-want-vs-what-women-need-in-a-man--49950506
We also pose the question of if men want independent women and some things that may make some women come off as dominant, when at their core, they really do want to submit to a man. We revisit the topic of mandatory paternity tests at birth and how some women trap men with children.

And finally, we close out with a viral clip of a date gone wrong 😭. Why do some men expect a woman to have sex with them just because they’ve taken them out on one date? Ladies, always have your Uber or cab money ready just in case a man does not want to bring you back home after a night out. We all need to stop setting our expectations of others so high. Just because we may handle a situation one way, doesn’t mean that someone else should or will, and we shouldn’t expect them to. We should simply know who is for us and who isn’t, and move accordingly. Enjoy the episode!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49950506Thu, 26 May 2022 13:55:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we went live on YouTube with our engineer Wolf, to get down to the question of the decade that seems to remain unanswered; what do women want in a man? And the truth is, we don’t know. Wolf helps us come to terms with what we NEED in a man...
We also pose the question of if men want independent women and some things that may make some women come off as dominant, when at their core, they really do want to submit to a man. We revisit the topic of mandatory paternity tests at birth and how some women trap men with children.

And finally, we close out with a viral clip of a date gone wrong 😭. Why do some men expect a woman to have sex with them just because they’ve taken them out on one date? Ladies, always have your Uber or cab money ready just in case a man does not want to bring you back home after a night out. We all need to stop setting our expectations of others so high. Just because we may handle a situation one way, doesn’t mean that someone else should or will, and we shouldn’t expect them to. We should simply know who is for us and who isn’t, and move accordingly. Enjoy the episode!]]>2773blackwomenpodcast,cabmoney,highexpectations,leadership,paternitytest,recentlyadded,relationships,sex,whatmenwant,whatwomenwantyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/warning-signs-from-a-reformed-womanizer--49860592
Mateo also speaks about how having a female therapist is helping him to communicate better with women, the things he has learned about women after his multiple experiences with them, and how turning inwards has helped him evolve as a man.

On top of all of this, he owns his own sports academy where he not only trains kids physically but mentally as well. Taking what he has learned about the importance and being still and turning inward, he is now teaching his students how to meditate and be present. Talk about a full circle moment!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49860592Thu, 19 May 2022 13:45:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we sat down with Mateo, former security guard and fu*kboy who has grown and evolved from that into a grown man! We talk all things from the formula and charm it takes to be a successful fu*kboy, to how he recognized his purpose in life, and...
Mateo also speaks about how having a female therapist is helping him to communicate better with women, the things he has learned about women after his multiple experiences with them, and how turning inwards has helped him evolve as a man.

On top of all of this, he owns his own sports academy where he not only trains kids physically but mentally as well. Taking what he has learned about the importance and being still and turning inward, he is now teaching his students how to meditate and be present. Talk about a full circle moment!]]>3228assasinscreed,blackwomenpodcast,britneyspears,commitmentceremony,doitforthekids,fboy,jiujitsu,marriage,nextgeneration,nightlife,nyc,protection,recentlyadded,redpill,relationships,sports,telenovela,therapy,travel,womanizeryes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rules-to-a-threesome-faking-orgasms-is-there-a-reason-to-cheat--49757067
We also get into our rules for a threesome, what we’re fine with doing and what we’re not getting into 👀. Whose down for a threesome with one woman and two men? Zee and Bri demonstrate the only way this might work without the woman doing majority of the work 😭. Are we all participating equally or are you like Symph, and letting the other woman do majority of the work? After all, who wants to be that awkward person in a threesome who just doesn’t know who or what they should be doing? 😅

Symph poses the question of if a man could still be a good man if he has cheated? Does cheating make you a bad person? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49757067Wed, 11 May 2022 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we went live on YouTube to address some changes on our platform and with our hosts. Following Gia Casey’s novel and her confession of faking orgasms with DJ Envy for the first 10 years of their relationship, we get into some reasons why...
We also get into our rules for a threesome, what we’re fine with doing and what we’re not getting into 👀. Whose down for a threesome with one woman and two men? Zee and Bri demonstrate the only way this might work without the woman doing majority of the work 😭. Are we all participating equally or are you like Symph, and letting the other woman do majority of the work? After all, who wants to be that awkward person in a threesome who just doesn’t know who or what they should be doing? 😅

Symph poses the question of if a man could still be a good man if he has cheated? Does cheating make you a bad person? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.]]>2507blackpodcast,cheaters,djenvy,fakingorgasms,giacasy,goodmen,masturbation,reasonforcheatin,relationships,rules,sex,threesomeyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/billboard-benny-talks-music-fatherhood-empowering-women--49653727
Benny talks about his journey with music and how has content has changed not only since becoming a father but also as he realized the impact we have on the generations after us. Is drill music stigmatized yet glamorized and do these rappers really live the life they rap about?

Should paternity tests be mandatory at birth to close the gap on single parent households? In addition, will this grant fathers more rights in a world that automatically appoints mothers as “Parent A” even though they may not be the best fit. We take the emotional aspect out of it and really get into how this may be beneficial not only for children but also for fathers as a whole, to simply be confident that the child that they’re caring for is actually theirs 🫢

Billboard Benny had an interesting point on whether or not men use masculinity as an excuse to disregard women’s opinions. What can be done to not only empower black women but to also bridge the gap between men and women in our community? “If you nurture a woman, you nurture a nation!” Truer words have never been spoken on this podcast. What are your thoughts on this? Let us know in the comments.

And then you can urge them to subscribe to his channel. If you search his name on YouTube it’ll come up]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49653727Wed, 04 May 2022 14:00:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we welcome rapper, father, entrepreneur Billboard Benny to kick it with us. We have a conversation about everything from drill music and rapping to fatherhood, mandatory paternity tests at birth, and bridging the gap between men and women in...
Benny talks about his journey with music and how has content has changed not only since becoming a father but also as he realized the impact we have on the generations after us. Is drill music stigmatized yet glamorized and do these rappers really live the life they rap about?

Should paternity tests be mandatory at birth to close the gap on single parent households? In addition, will this grant fathers more rights in a world that automatically appoints mothers as “Parent A” even though they may not be the best fit. We take the emotional aspect out of it and really get into how this may be beneficial not only for children but also for fathers as a whole, to simply be confident that the child that they’re caring for is actually theirs 🫢

Billboard Benny had an interesting point on whether or not men use masculinity as an excuse to disregard women’s opinions. What can be done to not only empower black women but to also bridge the gap between men and women in our community? “If you nurture a woman, you nurture a nation!” Truer words have never been spoken on this podcast. What are your thoughts on this? Let us know in the comments.

And then you can urge them to subscribe to his channel. If you search his name on YouTube it’ll come up]]>2747artist,billboardbenny,blackmen,blackpodcast,blackwomen,conciousrap,dating,drillmusic,fatherhood,music,parenting,rap,rapper,relationshipyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-modern-relationships-fail--49564111
Tony shares the importance of therapy in the black community, especially amongst black men, and how it helps to speak to someone outside of family. Church isn’t always the answer but instead, healing generational trauma as a family unit and having those tough, honest conversations where parents put their kids “onto game” should be priority.

We get into ways that trauma shows up, how to not only deal with trauma but how to heal it as well, and not losing ourselves when in a relationship. How should one show up for a partner who may be trauma filled and not always the easiest to be with? We talk about the importance of knowing our triggers and how trauma may show up when those triggers are brought to the forefront. Bri drops a gem saying, “you aren’t triggered, your TRIGGERS are triggered!” Whew chile, there are so many gems all throughout this episode, you won’t want to miss it.

Let us know, how do you heal your trauma before, during and after a relationship?
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Youtube: Honestly Tho]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49564111Wed, 27 Apr 2022 13:50:01 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we’re rejoined by our engineer Wolf and special guest Tony Kush, mental health advocate amongst black men. We discuss trauma, what it means to us and how it can affect our relationships not just romantically, but also platonically. Tony...
Tony shares the importance of therapy in the black community, especially amongst black men, and how it helps to speak to someone outside of family. Church isn’t always the answer but instead, healing generational trauma as a family unit and having those tough, honest conversations where parents put their kids “onto game” should be priority.

We get into ways that trauma shows up, how to not only deal with trauma but how to heal it as well, and not losing ourselves when in a relationship. How should one show up for a partner who may be trauma filled and not always the easiest to be with? We talk about the importance of knowing our triggers and how trauma may show up when those triggers are brought to the forefront. Bri drops a gem saying, “you aren’t triggered, your TRIGGERS are triggered!” Whew chile, there are so many gems all throughout this episode, you won’t want to miss it.

Let us know, how do you heal your trauma before, during and after a relationship?
Don't Forget to Follow, Share Rate us.
Follow us on IG: @_honestlythopodcast
Twitter : @HonestlythoPod
Youtube: Honestly Tho]]>2830blackeffect,blackmenandtherapy,blackwomenpodcast,generationaltrauma,healing,honestlytho,love,manipulation,mentalhealth,modernrelationships,nigeria,nyc,recentlyadded,relationshiptrauma,therapyyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/decoding-sex--49486336
We then get into the misconception of vaginal looseness after having children or from having a lot of sex. Is it a thing? Can a man tell if one has had many partners based on how tight or loose the vagina is?

Then, the great debate on if penis size matters. Is it the size of the boat or the motion in the ocean? We discuss our preferences as women when it comes to penis sizes and is there such a thing as too big?

We close with Wolf dropping some gems on us on the lengths that men would go to for their women, and women using their men responsibly, and not putting them in harm’s way.
Don't Forget to Rate Us & Share with your friends ! As Always Keep it Honest ❤️]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49486336Wed, 20 Apr 2022 13:50:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, our engineer Wolf joins us as we aim to decode some popular myths surrounding sex. Following Lil Durk’s recent interview with Millions Dollar Worth of Game and his comment on India Royale having less than 10 bodies, so he knew she was wifey...
We then get into the misconception of vaginal looseness after having children or from having a lot of sex. Is it a thing? Can a man tell if one has had many partners based on how tight or loose the vagina is?

Then, the great debate on if penis size matters. Is it the size of the boat or the motion in the ocean? We discuss our preferences as women when it comes to penis sizes and is there such a thing as too big?

We close with Wolf dropping some gems on us on the lengths that men would go to for their women, and women using their men responsibly, and not putting them in harm’s way.
Don't Forget to Rate Us & Share with your friends ! As Always Keep it Honest ❤️]]>2307callherdaddy,decodingsex,lildurk,loversandfriends,menandwomenrelationships,milliondollarsworthofgame,myths,nyc,pregnacysex,sex,shanboody,virginity,wtfmediastudiosyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-casual-sex-ever-really-casual--49420048
Can women have sex with no strings attached? Should masturbation in women be encouraged more? And agree to disagree but, what exactly is a soul tie? Let us here your thoughts about casual sex in the comments. And as always, keep it honest.

Like, share, subscribe & Rate us if you haven’t already.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49420048Wed, 13 Apr 2022 13:40:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re getting into casual sex and exploring the question of if it ever really is casual? We talk about some of our experiences with sex and getting to know our bodies, the importance of being alone after a breakup, the importance of knowing...
Can women have sex with no strings attached? Should masturbation in women be encouraged more? And agree to disagree but, what exactly is a soul tie? Let us here your thoughts about casual sex in the comments. And as always, keep it honest.

Like, share, subscribe & Rate us if you haven’t already.]]>1806black,blackwomen,casualsex,feminism,liesweweretold,podcasts,sex,sextalk,soulties,womenyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-don-t-dream-of-labor-trend-or-reality--49335473
We get into American exceptionalism, hustle culture and the pressures to constantly be doing something, anything as long as it seems to be productive. Is it time we break out of the “booked and busy” phase and lean into a life of ease, freedom to rest, and the luxury to indulge in self care?

While the “I don’t dream of labor” trend has pushed many women to look at work in a different way, who exactly is this trend benefiting and can men participate too? We’d love to hear your thoughts on this so let us know in the comments and as always, keep it honest.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49335473Wed, 06 Apr 2022 12:15:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we discuss the “I don’t dream of labor” trend and the transition some women have made from traditional jobs to more creative jobs. While work is work, is it more fulfilling to make money doing what you love, or should the hobby and the work...
We get into American exceptionalism, hustle culture and the pressures to constantly be doing something, anything as long as it seems to be productive. Is it time we break out of the “booked and busy” phase and lean into a life of ease, freedom to rest, and the luxury to indulge in self care?

While the “I don’t dream of labor” trend has pushed many women to look at work in a different way, who exactly is this trend benefiting and can men participate too? We’d love to hear your thoughts on this so let us know in the comments and as always, keep it honest.]]>1711blackwomenpodcasts,dreamjob,hustleculture,idontdreamoflabor,kimkardashian,lynetteadkins,nyc,privilege,shanboody,sugardaddyyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-black-love-unrealistic--49250623https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49250623Wed, 30 Mar 2022 12:58:14 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we’re getting into black love, what it means to us and if it is attainable for majority of black people in America. Ash goes over some statistics that may lead to black love being unrealistic for some. Are we closing off potential...3140blackfamily,blackfemalepodcasts,blacklove,blackmen,blackwomen,femalepodcasts,honestconversation,idealpartnerships,incarecerated,isblackloverealistic,rawconversation,topconvosyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-truth-behind-women-s-empowerment--49161177
We share ways in which we haven’t been the most empowering to other women 🙊 Why is it that when men are involved us women become toxic toward each other and will do anything to bring down the other woman? Things get heated between Bri and Zee with a little disagreement about who said what when it came time to owning up to our toxic, not so empowering behavior. Who do y’all think forgot what was said? 👀Let us know in the comments and as always, keep it honest!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49161177Wed, 23 Mar 2022 13:00:10 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week we talk about women empowerment being a facade and if it’s empowering the wrong things. Is the movement only promoting a certain type of body positivity, hyper sexuality and toxicity? We also get into the implications for black women...
We share ways in which we haven’t been the most empowering to other women 🙊 Why is it that when men are involved us women become toxic toward each other and will do anything to bring down the other woman? Things get heated between Bri and Zee with a little disagreement about who said what when it came time to owning up to our toxic, not so empowering behavior. Who do y’all think forgot what was said? 👀Let us know in the comments and as always, keep it honest!]]>3202blackwomenpodcast,controversy,currenttopics,hottopics,manosphere,nycpodcasters,shanboody,womenempowermentisafacade,womensempowermentyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-real-reason-men-aren-t-vulnerable--49003156
How many times have you heard your girlfriends say, "I just want a guy who's not afraid to open up and be vulnerable" only to turn around and use that same vulnerability against them? .... Tune-in to hear which hosts are guilty of this exact toxic behavior & are holding themselves accountable.

Adam helps us better understand some of the factors that have played a role in men suppressing their emotions & drops some gems on us. You don't want to miss out and as always, until next time...keep it Honest!!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49003156Wed, 09 Mar 2022 15:00:03 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastThis week, we welcome Bri's brother Adam to the couch this week as we get to the bottom of if women really want vulnerable men & more importantly, do we truly understand how to navigate through a man's vulnerability? How many times have you heard...
How many times have you heard your girlfriends say, "I just want a guy who's not afraid to open up and be vulnerable" only to turn around and use that same vulnerability against them? .... Tune-in to hear which hosts are guilty of this exact toxic behavior & are holding themselves accountable.

Adam helps us better understand some of the factors that have played a role in men suppressing their emotions & drops some gems on us. You don't want to miss out and as always, until next time...keep it Honest!!]]>2426accountability,blacklove,blackpodcast,dating,emotional,games,menandwomen,nycpodcast,relationships,tabootopicsyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pretty-privilege-or-problematic--48920872https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48920872Wed, 02 Mar 2022 16:10:02 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastOn this episode we get to the root of what exactly is pretty privilege and does it do more harm than good? We share some outlandish stories of our personal experiences with pretty privilege and how it has worked in our favors but also look at some of...3636colorism,current,desirabilitypolitics,entertainment,featurism,freethought,housewivesofpotomac,jouelzy,policeencounters,prettyprivilege,redpillyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/casual-dating-or-cookie-jarring--48838782Keep it real…you've either kept a back-up option or you've been the back-up option at some point. We've all been there. On this episode, we get candid about some of our experiences with cookie jarring. Make sure you stick around for the After-Show.We play a round of "RedFlag Green Flag" that gets a lil' spicy. You don't want to miss it!!!
(1:15) - What is Cookie Jarring?
(1:36) - Zina's Cookie Jarring Story
(5:07) - Red Flags to Look Out For
(5:38)- The Young & the Cookie Jarred ( An Ashley Love Story)
(11:26)- Symph's Critique
(16:45)- Bris's Rendezvous in the Cookie Jar
(21:28) - Why do People do it?
(27:12)- Is Cookie Jarring Problematic or Are You Keeping Your Options Open?
(29:23)- Is There a Double Standard for Men vs. Women?
(34:22)- Bri's theory
(40:53)-Honestly Tho...After Show]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48838782Wed, 23 Feb 2022 15:00:03 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastCookie jarring refers to when the person you are seeing with no official status, has little to no intention of entering into a relationship with you, but keeps you as a backup option while they pursue other people. Keep it real…you've either kept a...Keep it real…you've either kept a back-up option or you've been the back-up option at some point. We've all been there. On this episode, we get candid about some of our experiences with cookie jarring. Make sure you stick around for the After-Show.We play a round of "RedFlag Green Flag" that gets a lil' spicy. You don't want to miss it!!!
(1:15) - What is Cookie Jarring?
(1:36) - Zina's Cookie Jarring Story
(5:07) - Red Flags to Look Out For
(5:38)- The Young & the Cookie Jarred ( An Ashley Love Story)
(11:26)- Symph's Critique
(16:45)- Bris's Rendezvous in the Cookie Jar
(21:28) - Why do People do it?
(27:12)- Is Cookie Jarring Problematic or Are You Keeping Your Options Open?
(29:23)- Is There a Double Standard for Men vs. Women?
(34:22)- Bri's theory
(40:53)-Honestly Tho...After Show]]>3191backup,blackpodcast,casuallydating,dating,nyc,nycpodcast,planb,rawconversationyes3fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/podcasting-expectation-vs-reality--48757601(1:23) - Podcast Expectations vs Realities (niche, not getting comments, issues we’ve had within podcast, group dynamic)
(9:28) - Social Media Struggles
(12:41)- Production Issues
(16:15)- Editing
(26:50) - Future of the Podcast (monetization, merch,putting it on streaming platforms)
(30:17) - Our expectations for the new season
(37:49) - Honestly Tho… Aftershow]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48757601Wed, 16 Feb 2022 17:00:07 +0000Honestly Tho…PodcastWelcome to Season 3! In this episode we share our podcasting journey over the last year, highlighting some of our most difficult moments and struggles. We get into our new niche, what we expected versus what really happened, progression over time, and...(1:23) - Podcast Expectations vs Realities (niche, not getting comments, issues we’ve had within podcast, group dynamic)
(9:28) - Social Media Struggles
(12:41)- Production Issues
(16:15)- Editing
(26:50) - Future of the Podcast (monetization, merch,putting it on streaming platforms)
(30:17) - Our expectations for the new season
(37:49) - Honestly Tho… Aftershow]]>2887anime,basedinnyc,blackwomenpodcasts,freethought,global.,honestlytho,hottopics,intellectualconversation,rawconversation,realitiesvsexpectations,womenpodcastersyes3full