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We'll explore why it happens and provide practical tips to prevent it.<br /><br />Check out our youtube channel where DJ answers some of life's toughest questions from God's Word!!  www.youtube.com/@djharryteaches<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62412926</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2024 16:07:55 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62412926/emptynest.mp3" length="36673900" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Imagine this: You've raised your kids, your house is quieter, and you're finally free to focus on yourself... only to realize that your marriage is falling apart. This is a more common occurrence than you might think.

In today's episode, we're diving...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine this: You've raised your kids, your house is quieter, and you're finally free to focus on yourself... only to realize that your marriage is falling apart. This is a more common occurrence than you might think.<br /><br />In today's episode, we're diving into the all-too-real danger of post-kid divorce. We'll explore why it happens and provide practical tips to prevent it.<br /><br />Check out our youtube channel where DJ answers some of life's toughest questions from God's Word!!  www.youtube.com/@djharryteaches<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2293</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>64. On The Same Page - Parental Unity is Key!!  ...and how to get it!!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/64-on-the-same-page-parental-unity-is-key-and-how-to-get-it--62275104</link><description><![CDATA[Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're talking about something that's super important but can be really tough: being on the same page in your parenting. We've definitely made our fair share of mistakes in this area, especially early on in our marriage.<br /><br />For us it often seemed to center around discipline...we just weren't on the same wavelength! Yeah, it wasn't pretty.<br /><br />But we've learned that when it comes to parenting, unity is key. Having those tough conversations behind closed doors and presenting a united front to our kids is essential. Disunity can create a wedge between you and your spouse, and it can leave your kids feeling confused and insecure. So, let's talk about how to bridge the gap, find common ground, and work together to raise happy, healthy, and faithful kids!<br /><br />Let's do this together!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62275104</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2024 12:05:01 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62275104/same_page.mp3" length="33255699" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're talking about something that's super important but can be really tough: being on the same page in your parenting. We've definitely made our fair share of mistakes in this area, especially early on in...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're talking about something that's super important but can be really tough: being on the same page in your parenting. We've definitely made our fair share of mistakes in this area, especially early on in our marriage.<br /><br />For us it often seemed to center around discipline...we just weren't on the same wavelength! Yeah, it wasn't pretty.<br /><br />But we've learned that when it comes to parenting, unity is key. Having those tough conversations behind closed doors and presenting a united front to our kids is essential. Disunity can create a wedge between you and your spouse, and it can leave your kids feeling confused and insecure. So, let's talk about how to bridge the gap, find common ground, and work together to raise happy, healthy, and faithful kids!<br /><br />Let's do this together!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2079</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>63. The Importance of Setting Boundaries For Your Children</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/63-the-importance-of-setting-boundaries-for-your-children--62274764</link><description><![CDATA[Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're diving into a topic that's super important but often overlooked: setting boundaries for your kids. Let's face it, boundaries can feel like a buzzkill sometimes. We want our kids to feel loved and free, but without clear limits, things can get chaotic fast. We're talking confusion, frustration, and a whole lot of it!!  But guess what? Boundaries aren't about being mean or strict. They're actually a way to show your kids that you really love them. When they know what's expected of them, they feel more secure and less anxious. It's like having a roadmap for life. So, let's talk about how to set boundaries that are both loving and effective. We'll share some real-life examples and practical tips that you can start using today. Let's do this together!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62274764</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2024 12:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/62274764/setting_boundaries.mp3" length="31017528" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're diving into a topic that's super important but often overlooked: setting boundaries for your kids. Let's face it, boundaries can feel like a buzzkill sometimes. We want our kids to feel loved and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're diving into a topic that's super important but often overlooked: setting boundaries for your kids. Let's face it, boundaries can feel like a buzzkill sometimes. We want our kids to feel loved and free, but without clear limits, things can get chaotic fast. We're talking confusion, frustration, and a whole lot of it!!  But guess what? Boundaries aren't about being mean or strict. They're actually a way to show your kids that you really love them. When they know what's expected of them, they feel more secure and less anxious. It's like having a roadmap for life. So, let's talk about how to set boundaries that are both loving and effective. We'll share some real-life examples and practical tips that you can start using today. Let's do this together!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1939</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>62. 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Parenting 103 Part 2 - The 4 C's of Discipline</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/59-parenting-103-part-2-the-4-c-s-of-discipline--59200552</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59200552</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Mar 2024 21:12:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59200552/parenting_103_part_2.mp3" length="20591536" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>1287</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>58. 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We have also talked a lot about the seasons of parenting...it has come up in several episodes.<br /><br />As our children walk through those seasons of life, the discipline that we impose serves a different purpose depending on the season of developement... So today we are going to talk about the purpose of discipline for our children and how it changes as they change!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59028068</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2024 12:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/59028068/s2e21parenting_102.mp3" length="45279967" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We recorded a previous episode on the analogy of parents as coaches...and walked through how parenting changes as your kids mature and change. We have also talked a lot about the seasons of parenting...it has come up in several episodes.

As our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We recorded a previous episode on the analogy of parents as coaches...and walked through how parenting changes as your kids mature and change. We have also talked a lot about the seasons of parenting...it has come up in several episodes.<br /><br />As our children walk through those seasons of life, the discipline that we impose serves a different purpose depending on the season of developement... So today we are going to talk about the purpose of discipline for our children and how it changes as they change!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2830</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bettertogether,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagepodcast,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>56. 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Is it to train your kids to be respectful and well-adjusted?<br /><br />Nope...your job as a parent is to train up God-fearing, well adjusted, equipped adults!<br /><br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58938923</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Mar 2024 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58938923/s2e20parenting101.mp3" length="38947709" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>From the time you brought your precious little baby home from the hospital to the day they step out into their own adult life, the Biblical design for parenting is taking a helpless, dependent baby and producing an adult that has discernment, wisdom,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[From the time you brought your precious little baby home from the hospital to the day they step out into their own adult life, the Biblical design for parenting is taking a helpless, dependent baby and producing an adult that has discernment, wisdom, and independence.<br /><br />What is the goal of parenting?<br />Is it to raise great kids?  Is it for your kids to have fun? Is it to train your kids to be respectful and well-adjusted?<br /><br />Nope...your job as a parent is to train up God-fearing, well adjusted, equipped adults!<br /><br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2435</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,christianpodcast,marriagepodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>55. 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Together, we explore six empowering tools that parents can teach their kids, equipping them to stand strong against the pressures of a world that often challenges their faith.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58862654</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2024 12:20:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58862654/s2e19catherine_segars.mp3" length="65195509" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this special episode, we welcome Catherine Segars, a seasoned author, speaker, and stay-at-home mom, who hosts the insightful podcast, Christian Parent/Crazy World. Joining forces with Lorrie and me, Catherine shares invaluable strategies for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this special episode, we welcome Catherine Segars, a seasoned author, speaker, and stay-at-home mom, who hosts the insightful podcast, Christian Parent/Crazy World. Joining forces with Lorrie and me, Catherine shares invaluable strategies for parents navigating the challenges of raising children in an ungodly culture. Together, we explore six empowering tools that parents can teach their kids, equipping them to stand strong against the pressures of a world that often challenges their faith.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>4075</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,christianparentingpodcast,christianpodcast,marriagepodcast,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>54. 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Marriage left to itself will naturally deteriorate...and so God has called us to proactively meet the needs of our spouse and to deal with issues when they are small and manageable. <br /><br />Join us as we look at the common pathways of pain in marriage and how we can avoid them!!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2348</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianmarriagepodcast,christianparenting,christianparentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>53. 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From the cornerstone of respect to the building blocks of intimacy, companionship, inner beauty, and reliable domestic support, we unravel the keys to fostering a connection that goes beyond the ordinary. Join us as we share practical insights and actionable tips for wives eager to understand and fulfill their husband's deepest desires. Whether you're looking to strengthen your bond or seeking to infuse more joy into your marriage, this episode is a guide to becoming the irresistible partner your husband has always longed for. Tune in and discover the profound art of meeting your husband's needs, creating a love that flourishes in every aspect of life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2488</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>52. How to Become an Irresistible Husband to Your Wife!!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/52-how-to-become-an-irresistible-husband-to-your-wife--58679931</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we're talking about how husbands can meet the needs of their wives and become irresistable in the process! We'll cover the basics like showing love, talking openly, being honest, handling finances, and strong family commitments. 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The 4 Parenting Styles...and how your parenting could be the problem!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/51-the-4-parenting-styles-and-how-your-parenting-could-be-the-problem--58593936</link><description><![CDATA[In this insightful episode, we unravel the intricacies of parenting styles, exploring the distinct approaches that shape family dynamics. From the laid-back permissive style to the structured authoritative approach, and the emotionally distant parenting to the values-driven Biblical model, we navigate through the strengths, challenges, and impacts each style has on children. Join us as we delve into the art of parenting, providing valuable insights and practical tips to help you identify and understand your parenting style. Whether you're looking to refine your approach or seeking alignment with timeless principles, this episode offers a compass for the rewarding journey of parenthood.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58593936</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2024 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58593936/s2e15parentingstyles.mp3" length="42712642" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this insightful episode, we unravel the intricacies of parenting styles, exploring the distinct approaches that shape family dynamics. From the laid-back permissive style to the structured authoritative approach, and the emotionally distant...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this insightful episode, we unravel the intricacies of parenting styles, exploring the distinct approaches that shape family dynamics. From the laid-back permissive style to the structured authoritative approach, and the emotionally distant parenting to the values-driven Biblical model, we navigate through the strengths, challenges, and impacts each style has on children. Join us as we delve into the art of parenting, providing valuable insights and practical tips to help you identify and understand your parenting style. Whether you're looking to refine your approach or seeking alignment with timeless principles, this episode offers a compass for the rewarding journey of parenthood.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2670</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianparenting,christianparentingpodcast,parenting,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>50. Lessons from the first year of marriage...and update with Katelyn and Thomas Molina</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/50-lessons-from-the-first-year-of-marriage-and-update-with-katelyn-and-thomas-molina--58509246</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58509246</guid><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/58509246/s2e14_thomaskatelyn.mp3" length="40573109" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2536</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>49. Parents as Coaches: Coaching Your Children Into Adulthood</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/49-parents-as-coaches-coaching-your-children-into-adulthood--57924573</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57924573</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2023 13:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57924573/s2e13parentsascoaches.mp3" length="46264459" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2892</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>48. From Hardship to Hope: How to Grow Stronger When Times Are Tough</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/48-from-hardship-to-hope-how-to-grow-stronger-when-times-are-tough--57850067</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57850067</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Nov 2023 16:48:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57850067/s2e12_disaster.mp3" length="28955533" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>1810</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>47. Hearts and Hormones: Parenting Tips for the Teen Dating Stage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/47-hearts-and-hormones-parenting-tips-for-the-teen-dating-stage--57551447</link><description><![CDATA[The process of shepherding your child through the teenage years can be daunting and difficult...and the issue of dating is often the one that creates the most tension and stress in the home.<br /><br />In this episode we look at how to help your child navigate dating relationship while keeping them focused on God's plan for their lives!<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57551447</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Nov 2023 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57551447/s2e11dating.mp3" length="41908924" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The process of shepherding your child through the teenage years can be daunting and difficult...and the issue of dating is often the one that creates the most tension and stress in the home.

In this episode we look at how to help your child navigate...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The process of shepherding your child through the teenage years can be daunting and difficult...and the issue of dating is often the one that creates the most tension and stress in the home.<br /><br />In this episode we look at how to help your child navigate dating relationship while keeping them focused on God's plan for their lives!<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2620</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianmarriagepodcast,christianparenting,christianparentingpodcast,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>46. Consequences vs. Discipline vs. Correction: Distinct and Different</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/46-consequences-vs-discipline-vs-correction-distinct-and-different--57463546</link><description><![CDATA[When it comes to parenting, there is a huge difference between consequences, discipline, and correction...and each have an important part in the instruction process of parenting. Listen in as we not only define these terms, but give real world examples of the differences...and how we use each of them in our home with our own children!!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57463546</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Nov 2023 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57463546/s2e10disciplinecorrection.mp3" length="37341487" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When it comes to parenting, there is a huge difference between consequences, discipline, and correction...and each have an important part in the instruction process of parenting. Listen in as we not only define these terms, but give real world...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When it comes to parenting, there is a huge difference between consequences, discipline, and correction...and each have an important part in the instruction process of parenting. Listen in as we not only define these terms, but give real world examples of the differences...and how we use each of them in our home with our own children!!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2334</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christian,christianparenting,christianpodcast,marriage,marriagepodcast,parenting,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>45. Family Matters: Balancing In-Law Dynamics in Your Marriage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/45-family-matters-balancing-in-law-dynamics-in-your-marriage--57375360</link><description><![CDATA[One of the most dangerous and volatile of the family dynamics that can exist in a marriage is in regards to in-laws. It is no wonder that our culture often villifies in-laws. Though seems to be the norm in our culture, there is a way to navigate the in-law landmines and come out on the other side with great mother-in-law and father-in-law relationships!! In this episode we look at several ways to hava wonderful and loving in-law relationships!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57375360</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Oct 2023 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57375360/s2e9inlawrelationships.mp3" length="37086511" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the most dangerous and volatile of the family dynamics that can exist in a marriage is in regards to in-laws. It is no wonder that our culture often villifies in-laws. Though seems to be the norm in our culture, there is a way to navigate the...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of the most dangerous and volatile of the family dynamics that can exist in a marriage is in regards to in-laws. It is no wonder that our culture often villifies in-laws. Though seems to be the norm in our culture, there is a way to navigate the in-law landmines and come out on the other side with great mother-in-law and father-in-law relationships!! In this episode we look at several ways to hava wonderful and loving in-law relationships!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2318</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,inlaws,marriage,marriagepodcast,parenting,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>44. Overcoming 5 Common Barriers to Marital Communication</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/44-overcoming-5-common-barriers-to-marital-communication--57281887</link><description><![CDATA[In this episode, we explore the essential topic of overcoming common barriers to marital communication. We delve into five obstacles that often hinder effective dialogue in marriages: sarcasm, minimizing hurts, defensiveness, shutdown statements, and universal statements...and offer valuable insights and practical tips to break down these barriers, fostering healthier and more open communication between you and your spouse! Tune in to discover how to navigate these communication challenges and strengthen your marital connection.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57281887</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2023 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/57281887/s2e8fivecommunicationbarriers.mp3" length="43252284" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we explore the essential topic of overcoming common barriers to marital communication. We delve into five obstacles that often hinder effective dialogue in marriages: sarcasm, minimizing hurts, defensiveness, shutdown statements, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, we explore the essential topic of overcoming common barriers to marital communication. We delve into five obstacles that often hinder effective dialogue in marriages: sarcasm, minimizing hurts, defensiveness, shutdown statements, and universal statements...and offer valuable insights and practical tips to break down these barriers, fostering healthier and more open communication between you and your spouse! Tune in to discover how to navigate these communication challenges and strengthen your marital connection.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2704</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,christianpodcast,marriage,marriagepodcast,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>43. Nurturing Faith: The Journey to Raising Spiritually Grounded Children</title><link>http://www.growingbettertogether.org</link><description><![CDATA[The transfer of faith to your children is not automatic...it is not a mechanical process. Christian parents must be intentional regarding their faith and the faith of their children. 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In this episode we talk...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Compassion doesn't happen naturally in our homes...it takes work, training, demonstrating...and eventually a supernatural moving in the lives of our children to give them a spiritual compassion for those that are hurting.<br /><br />In this episode we talk about compassion in the home....ways that we can nuture a spirit of empathy in our children.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2208</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>41. Getting Inside Your Spouse's Head: The Value of Understanding Your Spouse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/41-getting-inside-your-spouse-s-head-the-value-of-understanding-your-spouse--56950582</link><description><![CDATA[In this candid episode, we delve deep into a common struggle within marriages that often goes unnoticed until it becomes a glaring issue – the inability to truly understand our spouse. We explore how the busyness of family life and the demands of work can lead us down a path of disconnect, mirroring the callousness we see in Elkinah's response to Hannah.<br /><br />Join us as we uncover the root of marital disconnect and offer insights on bridging the gap to rediscover the heart of your spouse in your journey towards a thriving marriage.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56950582</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Sep 2023 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56950582/s2e5understanding.mp3" length="41854211" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this candid episode, we delve deep into a common struggle within marriages that often goes unnoticed until it becomes a glaring issue – the inability to truly understand our spouse. We explore how the busyness of family life and the demands of work...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this candid episode, we delve deep into a common struggle within marriages that often goes unnoticed until it becomes a glaring issue – the inability to truly understand our spouse. We explore how the busyness of family life and the demands of work can lead us down a path of disconnect, mirroring the callousness we see in Elkinah's response to Hannah.<br /><br />Join us as we uncover the root of marital disconnect and offer insights on bridging the gap to rediscover the heart of your spouse in your journey towards a thriving marriage.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2616</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianparenting,christianpodcast,marriage,marriagepodcast,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Bonus Episode...3 Special Announcements plus huge giveaway!!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-episode-3-special-announcements-plus-huge-giveaway--56920364</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56920364</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Sep 2023 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56920364/specialannouncements.mp3" length="14129857" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>884</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>40. 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Join us as we explore how nurturing the spiritual bond between partners can be a transformative force in strengthening the foundation of love and unity.<br /><br />We share heartfelt stories and practical insights on how to cultivate spiritual connection in everyday life, whether through shared beliefs, rituals, or simply being present for one another in moments of reflection. Discover the profound joy and harmony that can blossom when two souls intertwine on a spiritual level, creating a deeper, more resilient, and truly blessed marriage. It's a journey of love, faith, and the beautiful art of growing together in spirit and heart.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2288</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christian,christianmarriage,christianpodcast,intimacy,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>39. Letting Their Best Be Good Enough</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/39-letting-their-best-be-good-enough--56782836</link><description><![CDATA[In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into fundamental parenting principles aimed at nurturing children's self-esteem and personal growth. We emphasize the importance of distinguishing a child's performance from their inherent value, stressing that a child's worth remains constant regardless of their achievements. Furthermore, we discuss the significance of accepting and genuinely praising a child's best efforts, fostering the understanding that striving for personal best is a vital internal accomplishment. Additionally, we challenge the notion of being surprised by a child's failures, highlighting that failure is a natural part of the maturing process. Above all, the episode underscores the need for unconditional love, as children must always feel secure in the knowledge that their parents love them, especially in the face of challenges and mistakes. These principles serve as a blueprint for creating a nurturing environment that promotes a child's self-esteem and resilience.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56782836</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Sep 2023 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56782836/s2e3_good_enough.mp3" length="40655042" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into fundamental parenting principles aimed at nurturing children's self-esteem and personal growth. We emphasize the importance of distinguishing a child's performance from their inherent value, stressing...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this insightful podcast episode, we delve into fundamental parenting principles aimed at nurturing children's self-esteem and personal growth. We emphasize the importance of distinguishing a child's performance from their inherent value, stressing that a child's worth remains constant regardless of their achievements. Furthermore, we discuss the significance of accepting and genuinely praising a child's best efforts, fostering the understanding that striving for personal best is a vital internal accomplishment. Additionally, we challenge the notion of being surprised by a child's failures, highlighting that failure is a natural part of the maturing process. Above all, the episode underscores the need for unconditional love, as children must always feel secure in the knowledge that their parents love them, especially in the face of challenges and mistakes. These principles serve as a blueprint for creating a nurturing environment that promotes a child's self-esteem and resilience.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2541</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,christian,christianmarriage,christianparenting,discipline,marriage,parenting,raisingchildren</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>38. Setting Boundaries for a Strong Marriage</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/38-setting-boundaries-for-a-strong-marriage--56702606</link><description><![CDATA[In this empowering episode of the Better Together Podcast, DJ and Lorrie explore one of the foundational pillars of a thriving marriage: setting boundaries. Just as a fortress is protected by its walls, boundaries are the protective walls that safeguard your marriage from external threats and internal conflicts. Join us as we delve into the importance of establishing clear boundaries, both as individuals and as a couple.<br /><br />We'll discuss why boundaries are essential for maintaining trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage. Learn how to identify the areas in your relationship that may benefit from defined limits and how to communicate and establish these boundaries effectively with your spouse.<br /><br />Through real-life examples and personal anecdotes, DJ and Lorrie share their own journey of setting boundaries and the positive impact it has had on their marriage. Discover practical strategies for nurturing your connection, preserving your individuality, and creating a safe and loving space where your love can flourish.<br />]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56702606</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Sep 2023 12:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56702606/s2e2boundaries_2.mp3" length="39156766" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this empowering episode of the Better Together Podcast, DJ and Lorrie explore one of the foundational pillars of a thriving marriage: setting boundaries. Just as a fortress is protected by its walls, boundaries are the protective walls that...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this empowering episode of the Better Together Podcast, DJ and Lorrie explore one of the foundational pillars of a thriving marriage: setting boundaries. Just as a fortress is protected by its walls, boundaries are the protective walls that safeguard your marriage from external threats and internal conflicts. Join us as we delve into the importance of establishing clear boundaries, both as individuals and as a couple.<br /><br />We'll discuss why boundaries are essential for maintaining trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage. Learn how to identify the areas in your relationship that may benefit from defined limits and how to communicate and establish these boundaries effectively with your spouse.<br /><br />Through real-life examples and personal anecdotes, DJ and Lorrie share their own journey of setting boundaries and the positive impact it has had on their marriage. Discover practical strategies for nurturing your connection, preserving your individuality, and creating a safe and loving space where your love can flourish.<br />]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2448</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>christianmarriage,christianpodcast,marriage,marriageboundaries,marriagepodcast,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>37. Helping Your Older Child With College Life</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/37-helping-your-older-child-with-college-life--56641188</link><description><![CDATA[Making the transition to college can be difficult for your new college student...and often we as parents get calls when things are not going well. In this episode we look at 6 common issues that freshman have at college and how to help them deal with those issues.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56641188</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 20:52:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/56641188/s2e1collegetransition.mp3" length="52182843" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Making the transition to college can be difficult for your new college student...and often we as parents get calls when things are not going well. In this episode we look at 6 common issues that freshman have at college and how to help them deal with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Making the transition to college can be difficult for your new college student...and often we as parents get calls when things are not going well. In this episode we look at 6 common issues that freshman have at college and how to help them deal with those issues.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3262</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bettertogether,christianparenting,college,family,freshman,marriage,marriagepodcast,parenting,parentingpodcast</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>36. Christian Parenting Conference - Question and Response Session</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/36-christian-parenting-conference-question-and-response-session--50476627</link><description><![CDATA[Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50476627</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2022 10:10:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50476627/cpc_q_r.mp3" length="43208692" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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Letting Your Kids Fail...and understanding how it will make your children stronger.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/35-letting-your-kids-fail-and-understanding-how-it-will-make-your-children-stronger--50399453</link><description><![CDATA[We want to protect our children...and the tendency is to shield them from anything that causes pain or discomfort. That includes failure. Our culture places incredible pressure on our children to succeed...and we have to be careful that we don't shield our children from the learning experience of failure. <br /><br />Dealing with failure is something that has to be learned...and it never happens if we never fail...and it will never happen with our children if we never let them fail!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50399453</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50399453/failure.mp3" length="39735869" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We want to protect our children...and the tendency is to shield them from anything that causes pain or discomfort. That includes failure. Our culture places incredible pressure on our children to succeed...and we have to be careful that we don't...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We want to protect our children...and the tendency is to shield them from anything that causes pain or discomfort. That includes failure. Our culture places incredible pressure on our children to succeed...and we have to be careful that we don't shield our children from the learning experience of failure. <br /><br />Dealing with failure is something that has to be learned...and it never happens if we never fail...and it will never happen with our children if we never let them fail!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2484</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>34. Understanding the Hurt Cycle in Marriage...and how to avoid it!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/34-understanding-the-hurt-cycle-in-marriage-and-how-to-avoid-it--50293933</link><description><![CDATA[Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50293933</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2022 15:24:18 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50293933/avoiding_hurts_in_marriage.mp3" length="23687908" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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Helping Your Kids Choose Their Life Path..and learning to let God lead them!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/33-helping-your-kids-choose-their-life-path-and-learning-to-let-god-lead-them--50208831</link><description><![CDATA[We are back after a two week break...our daughter got married!!<br /><br />Where do we get the confidence to let our kids seek out direction for their lives? <br /><br />First, we taught our kids to pray...seek after God's direction for their own lives. We would help them think it through and involve them in their own life decisions. <br /><br />Second, we stepped back and assessed our kids....the talents and gifts that the Lord has given them.  We want our children to understand how God has equipped them for service. <br /><br />Finally, we put them in the game.  Sending your child off to college shouldn't be the first adult decision that your child makes.  Put them in the game early and often and coach them as they make life decisions. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50208831</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/50208831/letting_emma_nurse_2.mp3" length="30768588" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We are back after a two week break...our daughter got married!!&#13;
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Where do we get the confidence to let our kids seek out direction for their lives? &#13;
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First, we taught our kids to pray...seek after God's direction for their own lives. We would help...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are back after a two week break...our daughter got married!!<br /><br />Where do we get the confidence to let our kids seek out direction for their lives? <br /><br />First, we taught our kids to pray...seek after God's direction for their own lives. We would help them think it through and involve them in their own life decisions. <br /><br />Second, we stepped back and assessed our kids....the talents and gifts that the Lord has given them.  We want our children to understand how God has equipped them for service. <br /><br />Finally, we put them in the game.  Sending your child off to college shouldn't be the first adult decision that your child makes.  Put them in the game early and often and coach them as they make life decisions. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1923</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>32. 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We walked in to find one of our young daughters texting with a strange man...it was a numbing situation...but a reminder that there is danger all around for our children...and it often comes through the conduit of technology...<br /><br />That is what we are going to look at in this episode. 5 important steps to protecting your children from the dangers of technology.<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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It is often not one big argument, but the daily frustration that builds when we fail to communicate Biblically and effectively. <br /><br />So in this episode we are look at the 5 Laws to Effective Communication in Marriage!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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&#13;
So in this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[According to a recent study, 67.5% of marriages that ended did so primarily due to communication problems. It is often not one big argument, but the daily frustration that builds when we fail to communicate Biblically and effectively. <br /><br />So in this episode we are look at the 5 Laws to Effective Communication in Marriage!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2075</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>30. 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In September of 2021 Jeremy contracted Covid and on October 12th passed away from respiratory complications...This was devastating for Audra, for their children...and for their church!<br /><br />Audra's first post as "The Pastor's Widow" was on October 12...and over the course of the past 7 months Audra has walked through her journey of healing very openly...to be a blessing to others..]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49734791</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49734791/audrasmith2.mp3" length="28305102" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In pastoral ministry, we live with the reality of suffering. When the phone rings at 2am we know someone is hurting on the other end of the line. On our podcast we often talk about the joyful parts to marriage and parenting, today we are going to zoom...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In pastoral ministry, we live with the reality of suffering. When the phone rings at 2am we know someone is hurting on the other end of the line. On our podcast we often talk about the joyful parts to marriage and parenting, today we are going to zoom in on a side of marriage and parenting that is all too real..and might be something that you are experiencing today. How we walk through suffering in our family...specifically the journey of grief and faith that comes with the loss of a spouse.<br /><br />Our guest today is Audra Smith...She and her husband (Jeremy) were on staff at Hopewell Baptist Church in VA.  In September of 2021 Jeremy contracted Covid and on October 12th passed away from respiratory complications...This was devastating for Audra, for their children...and for their church!<br /><br />Audra's first post as "The Pastor's Widow" was on October 12...and over the course of the past 7 months Audra has walked through her journey of healing very openly...to be a blessing to others..]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1770</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>29. (Part 1) Trusting God Through the Loss of a Spouse - Interview with Audra Smith part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/29-part-1-trusting-god-through-the-loss-of-a-spouse-interview-with-audra-smith-part-1--49731058</link><description><![CDATA[In pastoral ministry, we live with the reality of suffering. When the phone rings at 2am we know someone is hurting on the other end of the line. On our podcast we often talk about the joyful parts to marriage and parenting, today we are going to zoom in on a side of marriage and parenting that is all too real..and might be something that you are experiencing today. How we walk through suffering in our family...specifically the journey of grief and faith that comes with the loss of a spouse.<br /><br />Our guest today is Audra Smith...She and her husband (Jeremy) were on staff at Hopewell Baptist Church in VA.  In September of 2021 Jeremy contracted Covid and on October 12th passed away from respiratory complications...This was devastating for Audra, for their children...and for their church!<br /><br />Audra's first post as "The Pastor's Widow" was on October 12...and over the course of the past 7 months Audra has walked through her journey of healing very openly...to be a blessing to others..]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49731058</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2022 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49731058/audrasmith1.mp3" length="34300094" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In pastoral ministry, we live with the reality of suffering. When the phone rings at 2am we know someone is hurting on the other end of the line. On our podcast we often talk about the joyful parts to marriage and parenting, today we are going to zoom...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In pastoral ministry, we live with the reality of suffering. When the phone rings at 2am we know someone is hurting on the other end of the line. On our podcast we often talk about the joyful parts to marriage and parenting, today we are going to zoom in on a side of marriage and parenting that is all too real..and might be something that you are experiencing today. How we walk through suffering in our family...specifically the journey of grief and faith that comes with the loss of a spouse.<br /><br />Our guest today is Audra Smith...She and her husband (Jeremy) were on staff at Hopewell Baptist Church in VA.  In September of 2021 Jeremy contracted Covid and on October 12th passed away from respiratory complications...This was devastating for Audra, for their children...and for their church!<br /><br />Audra's first post as "The Pastor's Widow" was on October 12...and over the course of the past 7 months Audra has walked through her journey of healing very openly...to be a blessing to others..]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2144</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>28. One Day...You Will Die. Will Your Family Be Prepared? ..9 things to do to leave a lasting legacy for your family after you pass away</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/28-one-day-you-will-die-will-your-family-be-prepared-9-things-to-do-to-leave-a-lasting-legacy-for-your-family-after-you-pass-away--49685161</link><description><![CDATA[So we just talked with Audra Smith and one of the things that we took away was the importance of being prepared for the unexpected. <br /><br />When Jeremy (Audra's husband) got sick and ended up in the hospital it was too late for him to put the affairs of their house  in order. <br /><br />That was definitely something we have been thinking about since that conversation as well.  She talked about the grief of losing her husband...but then the pain of having to figure out finances, bills, bank statements, wills, credit cards....it was like it just kept adding on...and was overwhelming...<br /><br />...so we are doing something about it! <br /><br />We came up with a list of 9 things that we are going to do to make sure we are covered if something were to happen to either of us...not that we are planning on it! <br /><br />So that is our topic today...9 things to get in order today in case something happens to you tomorrow.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49685161</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 10:30:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49685161/9_things.mp3" length="23165035" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>So we just talked with Audra Smith and one of the things that we took away was the importance of being prepared for the unexpected. &#13;
&#13;
When Jeremy (Audra's husband) got sick and ended up in the hospital it was too late for him to put the affairs of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[So we just talked with Audra Smith and one of the things that we took away was the importance of being prepared for the unexpected. <br /><br />When Jeremy (Audra's husband) got sick and ended up in the hospital it was too late for him to put the affairs of their house  in order. <br /><br />That was definitely something we have been thinking about since that conversation as well.  She talked about the grief of losing her husband...but then the pain of having to figure out finances, bills, bank statements, wills, credit cards....it was like it just kept adding on...and was overwhelming...<br /><br />...so we are doing something about it! <br /><br />We came up with a list of 9 things that we are going to do to make sure we are covered if something were to happen to either of us...not that we are planning on it! <br /><br />So that is our topic today...9 things to get in order today in case something happens to you tomorrow.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1448</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>27. The 9 Parenting Styles...the Pros and Cons...Where do you fall?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/27-the-9-parenting-styles-the-pros-and-cons-where-do-you-fall--49632911</link><description><![CDATA[Every parent has a parenting style...a paradigm...that guides them as they parent their children. Have you every really thought about your parenting style? Have you considered that there may be weaknesses to the way that you parent?<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49632911</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49632911/cpc_parenting_paradigms.mp3" length="27658582" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Every parent has a parenting style...a paradigm...that guides them as they parent their children. Have you every really thought about your parenting style? Have you considered that there may be weaknesses to the way that you parent?&#13;
&#13;
Understanding...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Every parent has a parenting style...a paradigm...that guides them as they parent their children. Have you every really thought about your parenting style? Have you considered that there may be weaknesses to the way that you parent?<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1729</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>26. Navigating the Four Seasons of Parenting</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/26-navigating-the-four-seasons-of-parenting--49588286</link><description><![CDATA[Are you your child’s friend? Disciplinarian? Coach? Mentor?   The reality is that there are times for all of those things at different points in your child’s development.  The problem comes when we want to be our child’s friend when they are 4…or when we treat our 17 years olds like they are 4.<br /><br />**There is a time to be a disciplinarian…and a time to be their friend…it all comes down to navigating the seasons of parenting with wisdom and discernment!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49588286</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49588286/02_the_4_seasons_of_parenting.mp3" length="47539653" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Are you your child’s friend? Disciplinarian? Coach? Mentor?   The reality is that there are times for all of those things at different points in your child’s development.  The problem comes when we want to be our child’s friend when they are 4…or when...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you your child’s friend? Disciplinarian? Coach? Mentor?   The reality is that there are times for all of those things at different points in your child’s development.  The problem comes when we want to be our child’s friend when they are 4…or when we treat our 17 years olds like they are 4.<br /><br />**There is a time to be a disciplinarian…and a time to be their friend…it all comes down to navigating the seasons of parenting with wisdom and discernment!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2972</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>25.The Four Necessary Steps to Prepare Your Children to Stand Like Daniel - Central NC Christian Parenting Conference</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/25-the-four-necessary-steps-to-prepare-your-children-to-stand-like-daniel-central-nc-christian-parenting-conference--49553607</link><description><![CDATA[The world is out to indoctrinate your children. You can't deny it because it is established fact. If you are still questioning this as a parent, you are living in make-believe land!<br /><br />So then how do we go about intentionally preparing our children for the cultural pressure they will face?<br /><br />In this episode we look at the 4 necessary steps to prepare your children for the cultural pressures they will face.<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49553607</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49553607/01_training_your_kids_to_stand_like_daniel.mp3" length="25136373" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The world is out to indoctrinate your children. You can't deny it because it is established fact. If you are still questioning this as a parent, you are living in make-believe land!&#13;
&#13;
So then how do we go about intentionally preparing our children...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The world is out to indoctrinate your children. You can't deny it because it is established fact. If you are still questioning this as a parent, you are living in make-believe land!<br /><br />So then how do we go about intentionally preparing our children for the cultural pressure they will face?<br /><br />In this episode we look at the 4 necessary steps to prepare your children for the cultural pressures they will face.<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1571</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>24. Training Your Kids to Stand Tall for Jesus...an interview with UNC Shooting Guard Leah Church</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/24-training-your-kids-to-stand-tall-for-jesus-an-interview-with-unc-shooting-guard-leah-church--49511978</link><description><![CDATA[Leah Church has been a UNC fan for most of her life.  Went to Chapel Hill for basketball camps..and eventually was given a full-ride scholarship to play on the UNC Women's Basketball team!<br />...and she didn't just make the team...she contributed!!<br /><br />However, in the same way that every believer has to make decisions regarding  life, priorities, and difficult circumstances, Leah faced a tough decision at the end of her Junior year...a decision that was led by her faith and deep walk with the Lord.<br /><br />So today we are going to briefly talk about that situation...and then dig into the nuts and bolts of how we as parents can grow a deep faith in our kids to help them weather the storms of life.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49511978</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49511978/leah_church.mp3" length="43576284" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Leah Church has been a UNC fan for most of her life.  Went to Chapel Hill for basketball camps..and eventually was given a full-ride scholarship to play on the UNC Women's Basketball team!&#13;
...and she didn't just make the team...she contributed!!...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Leah Church has been a UNC fan for most of her life.  Went to Chapel Hill for basketball camps..and eventually was given a full-ride scholarship to play on the UNC Women's Basketball team!<br />...and she didn't just make the team...she contributed!!<br /><br />However, in the same way that every believer has to make decisions regarding  life, priorities, and difficult circumstances, Leah faced a tough decision at the end of her Junior year...a decision that was led by her faith and deep walk with the Lord.<br /><br />So today we are going to briefly talk about that situation...and then dig into the nuts and bolts of how we as parents can grow a deep faith in our kids to help them weather the storms of life.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2724</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>23. Preparing Your Kids to Stand When the Music Plays - Standing Tall in Babylon</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/23-preparing-your-kids-to-stand-when-the-music-plays-standing-tall-in-babylon--49473724</link><description><![CDATA[Disney has been open for a long time that they were supportive of an un-Biblical worldview in regards to sexuality, gender, marriage...<br /><br />What has changed over the past few years is that corporations that are influencing our children with entertainment, books, cartoons, toys...are no longer just supportive from the corporate headquarters, they are openly pushing that into their products!<br /><br />The world is out to indoctrinate your children. You can't deny it because it is established fact. If you are still questioning this as a parent, you are living in make-believe land!<br /><br />Tomorrow the music is going to play and they are going to be expected to bow to the idols of this world. Will they be prepared to stand?<br /><br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49473724</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2022 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49473724/preparing_kids_for_babylon.mp3" length="42444869" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Disney has been open for a long time that they were supportive of an un-Biblical worldview in regards to sexuality, gender, marriage...&#13;
&#13;
What has changed over the past few years is that corporations that are influencing our children with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Disney has been open for a long time that they were supportive of an un-Biblical worldview in regards to sexuality, gender, marriage...<br /><br />What has changed over the past few years is that corporations that are influencing our children with entertainment, books, cartoons, toys...are no longer just supportive from the corporate headquarters, they are openly pushing that into their products!<br /><br />The world is out to indoctrinate your children. You can't deny it because it is established fact. If you are still questioning this as a parent, you are living in make-believe land!<br /><br />Tomorrow the music is going to play and they are going to be expected to bow to the idols of this world. Will they be prepared to stand?<br /><br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2653</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>22. 7 Steps to Grow in Emotional Intimacy with your Spouse - Marital Intimacy part 5</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/22-7-steps-to-grow-in-emotional-intimacy-with-your-spouse-marital-intimacy-part-5--49441118</link><description><![CDATA[Emotional Intimacy..a special closeness..when you feel secure to share your inner feelings, you know you are loved and trusted no matter what! This is truly on a hopes and dreams level...understanding who a person is down to their soul.  However, this is not an easy type of closeness to develop. It takes lots of work and time!! In this episode we look at 7 things that any couple can do to grow in their emotional intimacy with their spouse!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49441118</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49441118/intimacy_5.mp3" length="34193518" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Emotional Intimacy..a special closeness..when you feel secure to share your inner feelings, you know you are loved and trusted no matter what! This is truly on a hopes and dreams level...understanding who a person is down to their soul.  However, this...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Emotional Intimacy..a special closeness..when you feel secure to share your inner feelings, you know you are loved and trusted no matter what! This is truly on a hopes and dreams level...understanding who a person is down to their soul.  However, this is not an easy type of closeness to develop. It takes lots of work and time!! In this episode we look at 7 things that any couple can do to grow in their emotional intimacy with their spouse!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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How "Busyness" Was Destroying Our Family</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-how-busyness-was-destroying-our-family--48993058</link><description><![CDATA[There was a time in our life when we were too busy...it was pulling our family apart, destroying our family time, and creating barriers to our unity. Something had to be done! In this episode we look at the danger of being "too busy" as a family....and ways to protect the time you need for your family!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48993058</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2022 10:00:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48993058/b2g_014_protecting_from_busyness.mp3" length="30866563" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>There was a time in our life when we were too busy...it was pulling our family apart, destroying our family time, and creating barriers to our unity. Something had to be done! In this episode we look at the danger of being "too busy" as a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[There was a time in our life when we were too busy...it was pulling our family apart, destroying our family time, and creating barriers to our unity. Something had to be done! In this episode we look at the danger of being "too busy" as a family....and ways to protect the time you need for your family!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1930</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>20. God's Design for Physical Intimacy in Marriage - Marital Intimacy Part 4</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-god-s-design-for-physical-intimacy-in-marriage-marital-intimacy-part-4--49349695</link><description><![CDATA[You can't be in the world without being overwhelmed by the constant pressure to elevate an unBiblical view of sexuality. The reality is that we live in a hypersexualized society that pushes sexual themes into every part of life. <br /><br />On the other hand, if you grew up in a typical conservative church in America...and the got married at the age of 20-25... for 20 years you heard stern warnings about protecting yourself sexually, on avoiding the temptations of the strange woman, on keeping your thoughts pure... Honestly, I can't think of any time as a young person that I heard a sermon from a Scriptural text that lifted up the sexual relationship and elevated its God-designed purpose.<br /><br />So then why are we surprised that young couples struggle with understanding God's design for sex and how to enjoy it within God's design?!?!?<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49349695</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2022 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49349695/intimacy_4.mp3" length="32122113" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You can't be in the world without being overwhelmed by the constant pressure to elevate an unBiblical view of sexuality. The reality is that we live in a hypersexualized society that pushes sexual themes into every part of life. &#13;
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On the other hand,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can't be in the world without being overwhelmed by the constant pressure to elevate an unBiblical view of sexuality. The reality is that we live in a hypersexualized society that pushes sexual themes into every part of life. <br /><br />On the other hand, if you grew up in a typical conservative church in America...and the got married at the age of 20-25... for 20 years you heard stern warnings about protecting yourself sexually, on avoiding the temptations of the strange woman, on keeping your thoughts pure... Honestly, I can't think of any time as a young person that I heard a sermon from a Scriptural text that lifted up the sexual relationship and elevated its God-designed purpose.<br /><br />So then why are we surprised that young couples struggle with understanding God's design for sex and how to enjoy it within God's design?!?!?<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2008</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,intimacy,marriagecounseling,physical,physicalintimacy,raisingkids,raisingteens,sex</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>19. Barriers to Marital Intimacy - Marital Intimacy Part 3</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-barriers-to-marital-intimacy-marital-intimacy-part-3--49320335</link><description><![CDATA[Today we are going to identify the barriers that can come up in our marriage relationships and help you see if any of these are present in your marriage...and we are going to share with you how to fix it too!!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49320335</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49320335/intimacy_3.mp3" length="30177349" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Today we are going to identify the barriers that can come up in our marriage relationships and help you see if any of these are present in your marriage...and we are going to share with you how to fix it too!!&#13;
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www.growingbettertogether.org...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today we are going to identify the barriers that can come up in our marriage relationships and help you see if any of these are present in your marriage...and we are going to share with you how to fix it too!!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1886</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>18. The Levels of Intimacy in Marriage - Marital Intimacy Part 2</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/18-the-levels-of-intimacy-in-marriage-marital-intimacy-part-2--49231271</link><description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Two people can be married for years...and never really experience true intimacy. You can live in same house, share the same bed...and be emotionally distant. <br /><br />In this episode we look at the 5 levels of intimacy that exist in a marriage relationship and help you figure out where you are in your marriage...and how to get to the next level!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49231271</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2022 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49231271/intimacy_2_levels.mp3" length="25198619" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>www.growingbettertogether.org &#13;
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Two people can be married for years...and never really experience true intimacy. You can live in same house, share the same bed...and be emotionally distant. &#13;
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In this episode we look at the 5 levels of intimacy...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.growingbettertogether.org" rel="noopener">www.growingbettertogether.org</a> <br /><br />Two people can be married for years...and never really experience true intimacy. You can live in same house, share the same bed...and be emotionally distant. <br /><br />In this episode we look at the 5 levels of intimacy that exist in a marriage relationship and help you figure out where you are in your marriage...and how to get to the next level!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1575</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>17.  What is true intimacy? - Marital Intimacy Part 1</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-what-is-true-intimacy-marital-intimacy-part-1--49231272</link><description><![CDATA[Two people can be married, live in the same house, share the same bed...and yet be strangers There is more to marriage than just a mailing address!<br /><br />There is a oneness, unity...often called intimacy...that doesn't happen automatically in marriage. It takes work...but the work is worth it!<br /><br />This series is called Designed for Intimacy..where we will try to build an understanding of what true intimacy in marriage is...and guide you through the steps to grow the intimacy in your marriage!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49231272</guid><pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2022 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49231272/intimacy_1_intro.mp3" length="22590553" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Two people can be married, live in the same house, share the same bed...and yet be strangers There is more to marriage than just a mailing address!&#13;
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There is a oneness, unity...often called intimacy...that doesn't happen automatically in marriage....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Two people can be married, live in the same house, share the same bed...and yet be strangers There is more to marriage than just a mailing address!<br /><br />There is a oneness, unity...often called intimacy...that doesn't happen automatically in marriage. It takes work...but the work is worth it!<br /><br />This series is called Designed for Intimacy..where we will try to build an understanding of what true intimacy in marriage is...and guide you through the steps to grow the intimacy in your marriage!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. 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Growing Your Marriage Through Fiery Trials - Interview with Robert and Marissa Bondurant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/16-growing-your-marriage-through-fiery-trials-interview-with-robert-and-marissa-bondurant--49113853</link><description><![CDATA[In 2018, Robert and Marissa's middle child, Alice, was feeling ill. Initially it didn't seem like anything out of the ordinary; however, a few days of illness became a few weeks...and then a visit to the doctor...which ended up with a trip to the hospital. Their questions were answered in an unexpected and heart-stopping fashion.  "Alice has kidney cancer."  Within 48 hours her weak and ailing body was prepped for surgery and little Alice started a journey of surgery and intense chemotherapy that would last over a year. <br /><br />Robert, Marissa, and the girls were not alone on this journey. God was with them all the way. Their strong faith in God's providential love and care helped to guide them as they navigated the hospital visits, the weeks of prolonged sickness, and the difficulties that a diagnosis like this brings to any family.<br /><br />Topics Covered:<br />- How did the diagnosis affect your child's emotional mindset?<br />- Did that mindset change as the treatments progressed?<br />- What was the biggest fear that your child expressed during the treatments?<br />- How did you shepherd her heart during this time of unrest?<br />- How did her condition affect your other children?<br />- Were there specific Scriptures that were helpful to calm her heart?<br />- In what ways did you take this difficult process and use it to express faith in God to your kids? <br /><br />Marissa writes words of encouragement for hurting hearts on her website... <a href="https://marissabondurant.com/" rel="noopener">https://marissabondurant.com/</a>  Her "Encouragement for Weary Hearts" has helped many families on their journey through the valley if illness and pain. Marissa is also a contributor in a Facebook group dedicated to helping people like her navigate their faith through the journey of cancer....it is titled "Christian Parents with Children with Cancer" and can be found following this link... <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49113853</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2022 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49113853/bondurant_marriage.mp3" length="33198358" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2018, Robert and Marissa's middle child, Alice, was feeling ill. 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Their strong faith in God's providential love and care helped to guide them as they navigated the hospital visits, the weeks of prolonged sickness, and the difficulties that a diagnosis like this brings to any family.<br /><br />Topics Covered:<br />- How did the diagnosis affect your child's emotional mindset?<br />- Did that mindset change as the treatments progressed?<br />- What was the biggest fear that your child expressed during the treatments?<br />- How did you shepherd her heart during this time of unrest?<br />- How did her condition affect your other children?<br />- Were there specific Scriptures that were helpful to calm her heart?<br />- In what ways did you take this difficult process and use it to express faith in God to your kids? <br /><br />Marissa writes words of encouragement for hurting hearts on her website... <a href="https://marissabondurant.com/" rel="noopener">https://marissabondurant.com/</a>  Her "Encouragement for Weary Hearts" has helped many families on their journey through the valley if illness and pain. Marissa is also a contributor in a Facebook group dedicated to helping people like her navigate their faith through the journey of cancer....it is titled "Christian Parents with Children with Cancer" and can be found following this link... <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2075</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,kidswithcancer,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15. Parenting Through Fiery Trials - Interview with Robert and Marissa Bondurant</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-parenting-through-fiery-trials-interview-with-robert-and-marissa-bondurant--49113854</link><description><![CDATA[In 2018, Robert and Marissa's middle child, Alice, was feeling ill. Initially it didn't seem like anything out of the ordinary; however, a few days of illness became a few weeks...and then a visit to the doctor...which ended up with a trip to the hospital. Their questions were answered in an unexpected and heart-stopping fashion.  "Alice has kidney cancer."  Within 48 hours her weak and ailing body was prepped for surgery and little Alice started a journey of surgery and intense chemotherapy that would last over a year. <br /><br />Robert, Marissa, and the girls were not alone on this journey. God was with them all the way. Their strong faith in God's providential love and care helped to guide them as they navigated the hospital visits, the weeks of prolonged sickness, and the difficulties that a diagnosis like this brings to any family.<br /><br />In March of 2022, Robert and Marissa sat down with DJ and Lorrie Harry of Better Together and shared their experience of parenting a child with cancer. Their experience is both insightful and inspiring. <br /><br />Topics Covered:<br />- How did the diagnosis affect your child's emotional mindset?<br />- Did that mindset change as the treatments progressed?<br />- What was the biggest fear that your child expressed during the treatments?<br />- How did you shepherd her heart during this time of unrest?<br />- How did her condition affect your other children?<br />- Were there specific Scriptures that were helpful to calm her heart?<br />- In what ways did you take this difficult process and use it to express faith in God to your kids? <br /><br />Marissa writes words of encouragement for hurting hearts on her website... <a href="https://marissabondurant.com/" rel="noopener">https://marissabondurant.com/</a>  Her "Encouragement for Weary Hearts" has helped many families on their journey through the valley if illness and pain. Marissa is also a contributor in a Facebook group dedicated to helping people like her navigate their faith through the journey of cancer....it is titled "Christian Parents with Children with Cancer" and can be found following this link... <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/" rel="noopener">https://www.facebook.com/groups/christianparentsofkidswithcancer/</a>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49113854</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2022 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49113854/bondurant_parenting.mp3" length="31059660" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In 2018, Robert and Marissa's middle child, Alice, was feeling ill. 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Their strong faith in God's providential love and care helped to guide them as they navigated the hospital visits, the weeks of prolonged sickness, and the difficulties that a diagnosis like this brings to any family.<br /><br />In March of 2022, Robert and Marissa sat down with DJ and Lorrie Harry of Better Together and shared their experience of parenting a child with cancer. Their experience is both insightful and inspiring. <br /><br />Topics Covered:<br />- How did the diagnosis affect your child's emotional mindset?<br />- Did that mindset change as the treatments progressed?<br />- What was the biggest fear that your child expressed during the treatments?<br />- How did you shepherd her heart during this time of unrest?<br />- How did her condition affect your other children?<br />- Were there specific Scriptures that were helpful to calm her heart?<br />- In what ways did you take this difficult process and use it to express faith in God to your kids? <br /><br />Marissa writes words of encouragement for hurting hearts on her website... <a href="https://marissabondurant.com/" rel="noopener">https://marissabondurant.com/</a>  Her "Encouragement for Weary Hearts" has helped many families on their journey through the valley if illness and pain. 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Try the spirits of your entertainment <br />-cartoons, pop-culture, music, movies...<br />-We have to accept that the entertainment of the world is not neutral...nothing is neutral!<br />-You can no longer let your kids just sit down in front of the Saturday Morning cartoons with the expectation that what they are watching is wholesome...they are being influenced!<br /><br />2. Must have open conversations with our children<br />Develop an atmosphere where your kids turn to you for answers.<br />Develop a culture of "trying the spirits" in your home through conversation and consistency.<br /><br />3. For boys...protect your eyes<br />Help your young men develop a proper view of women as special and to be honored.<br />You can help accomplish this by teaching respect and proper treatment of the sisters in the home.<br />Help them understand the danger of pornography and sexual imagery..and how what they view is damaging long-term<br /><br />4. 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Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.b2gfamily.org" rel="noopener">www.b2gfamily.org</a><br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />The culture of this world uses sexual language, sexual imagery, and sexual innuendos at every turn. Raising Christian children in a hyper-sexualized culture can be difficult...however, the Scriptures give us clear guidance on how to protect our kids from the sexual pressures of this world. <br /><br />1. Try the spirits of your entertainment <br />-cartoons, pop-culture, music, movies...<br />-We have to accept that the entertainment of the world is not neutral...nothing is neutral!<br />-You can no longer let your kids just sit down in front of the Saturday Morning cartoons with the expectation that what they are watching is wholesome...they are being influenced!<br /><br />2. Must have open conversations with our children<br />Develop an atmosphere where your kids turn to you for answers.<br />Develop a culture of "trying the spirits" in your home through conversation and consistency.<br /><br />3. For boys...protect your eyes<br />Help your young men develop a proper view of women as special and to be honored.<br />You can help accomplish this by teaching respect and proper treatment of the sisters in the home.<br />Help them understand the danger of pornography and sexual imagery..and how what they view is damaging long-term<br /><br />4. For girls...protect your heart<br />Help them set boundaries as to what will influence their heart (reading, listening, friends)<br />Guide them in developing their inner person...becoming the best "you" that you can become]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2519</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>13. A Christian Parent's Review of Disney's Turning Red</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-a-christian-parent-s-review-of-disney-s-turning-red--49063614</link><description><![CDATA[Turning Red, Copyright 2022 Disney Pixar<br />Clips used for educational purposes only..This site is for educational purposes only!! **FAIR USE**<br /><br />Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research.<br /><br /><br />One of the most important jobs we have as parents involves shaping the worldview of our children...much of this is done in the context of the things that your children watch, read, music, entertainment, social influences...   Remember, nothing is neutral!<br /><br />Both the Apostle Paul and John tell us to "try the spirits whether they are of God." This is a process of discernment, testing to see if what is being communicated lines up with Scripture. <br /><br />In this movie we found five major areas of concern where there are clear worldview concerns for our family. <br /><br />1. Infatuation with boys<br /><br />-Mei is 13...and boy crazy...an all consuming infatuation with boys. There are boys at school, boys at the convenience store, boys in commercials, and the major crush...the boy band 4Town<br /><br />-She even is found hiding under her bed using her imagination to draw pictures of half-naked boys. <br /><br />  <br /><br />*This worldview develops an unhealthy pattern of how to relate to young men, sets up unrealistic expectations, and develops a disposable philosophy on relationships.<br /><br />  <br /><br />2. Unhealthy relationship with her parents<br /><br />From the very beginning of the movie the main character is burdened with overbearing and demanding parents...with their own unrealistic expectations about their daughter. The mother that is overreactive, out of touch (embarrassing her daughter), filled with anger (releases her own inner panda at the end of the movie..the daughter ends up saving her)<br /><br />The father is passive, indecisive, weak...<br /><br />  <br /><br />*There is total disunity in the home...parents disagree on almost every major issue...and of course the "right" course of action is what the strong decisive mother chooses<br /><br />  <br /><br />3. Parents are the source of the tension<br /><br />Mei is told she can't go to see the band. The entire middle portion of the movie is about the plan to go behind her parents back and go to the concert anyway. The tension isn't created because of her desire to disobey...it's in her parents unwillingness to give in to what she wants<br /><br />  <br /><br />*Secondary tension...the panda within is something her mom warns her about but she chooses to embrace anyway.  At the end of movie she embraces her inner panda and walks out of the temple with a red panda tail coming out from her skirt...she was right for what she did and her actions are justified by the outcome. <br /><br />4. Anger as a legitimate expression of inner tension<br /><br />Initially the panda comes up with any type of extreme emotion, anger, sadness, cuteness... Later, the panda is something she can control and bring out whenever she wants. However, in the end of the movie, the panda is an expression of her and her mother's anger.<br /><br />Her mom turns into a giant 100 foot tall red panda with red eyes, like Godzilla. An epic battle between Mei and her mother, both as Red Pandas...of course Mei wins with her friends cheering her on<br /><br />5. The most dangerous theme is that of self-acceptance when it clashes with parental expectations...this is not a covert theme...it is laid out in the open throughout the whole movie. <br /><br />"My Panda, My Choice" is a play on  "my body, my choice" the rally cry for pro-abortion crowd. While the context of the statement is regarding her autonomy, it is borrowed from abortion proponents.  <br /><br />"We all have an inner beast, a messy and weird part of ourselves that’s hidden away. Many people never let it out. I did . How about you?"<br /><br />Translated: What is the messy inner beast that you feel a little weird about, that your parents don't accept you for? ...I fought to let it out and embrace it...you should too!<br /><br /><br />If you let the entertainment of the world fill the mind of your kids, don't be surprised when they turn out believing the same things the world believes. Entertainment is not neutral.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49063614</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2022 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49063614/turning_red_review_2.mp3" length="42257623" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Turning Red, Copyright 2022 Disney Pixar&#13;
Clips used for educational purposes only..This site is for educational purposes only!! **FAIR USE**&#13;
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Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Turning Red, Copyright 2022 Disney Pixar<br />Clips used for educational purposes only..This site is for educational purposes only!! **FAIR USE**<br /><br />Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research.<br /><br /><br />One of the most important jobs we have as parents involves shaping the worldview of our children...much of this is done in the context of the things that your children watch, read, music, entertainment, social influences...   Remember, nothing is neutral!<br /><br />Both the Apostle Paul and John tell us to "try the spirits whether they are of God." This is a process of discernment, testing to see if what is being communicated lines up with Scripture. <br /><br />In this movie we found five major areas of concern where there are clear worldview concerns for our family. <br /><br />1. Infatuation with boys<br /><br />-Mei is 13...and boy crazy...an all consuming infatuation with boys. There are boys at school, boys at the convenience store, boys in commercials, and the major crush...the boy band 4Town<br /><br />-She even is found hiding under her bed using her imagination to draw pictures of half-naked boys. <br /><br />  <br /><br />*This worldview develops an unhealthy pattern of how to relate to young men, sets up unrealistic expectations, and develops a disposable philosophy on relationships.<br /><br />  <br /><br />2. Unhealthy relationship with her parents<br /><br />From the very beginning of the movie the main character is burdened with overbearing and demanding parents...with their own unrealistic expectations about their daughter. The mother that is overreactive, out of touch (embarrassing her daughter), filled with anger (releases her own inner panda at the end of the movie..the daughter ends up saving her)<br /><br />The father is passive, indecisive, weak...<br /><br />  <br /><br />*There is total disunity in the home...parents disagree on almost every major issue...and of course the "right" course of action is what the strong decisive mother chooses<br /><br />  <br /><br />3. Parents are the source of the tension<br /><br />Mei is told she can't go to see the band. The entire middle portion of the movie is about the plan to go behind her parents back and go to the concert anyway. The tension isn't created because of her desire to disobey...it's in her parents unwillingness to give in to what she wants<br /><br />  <br /><br />*Secondary tension...the panda within is something her mom warns her about but she chooses to embrace anyway.  At the end of movie she embraces her inner panda and walks out of the temple with a red panda tail coming out from her skirt...she was right for what she did and her actions are justified by the outcome. <br /><br />4. Anger as a legitimate expression of inner tension<br /><br />Initially the panda comes up with any type of extreme emotion, anger, sadness, cuteness... Later, the panda is something she can control and bring out whenever she wants. However, in the end of the movie, the panda is an expression of her and her mother's anger.<br /><br />Her mom turns into a giant 100 foot tall red panda with red eyes, like Godzilla. An epic battle between Mei and her mother, both as Red Pandas...of course Mei wins with her friends cheering her on<br /><br />5. The most dangerous theme is that of self-acceptance when it clashes with parental expectations...this is not a covert theme...it is laid out in the open throughout the whole movie. <br /><br />"My Panda, My Choice" is a play on  "my body, my choice" the rally cry for pro-abortion crowd. While the context of the statement is regarding her autonomy, it is borrowed from abortion proponents.  <br /><br />"We all have an inner beast, a messy and weird part of ourselves that’s hidden away. Many people never let it out. I did . How about you?"<br /><br...]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2642</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bettertogether,christian,marriage,movie,parenting,parentingtips,review</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>12. 7 Strategies to Win Arguments in Marriage....and lose in the process</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/12-7-strategies-to-win-arguments-in-marriage-and-lose-in-the-process--48835356</link><description><![CDATA[Dealing with conflict in your marriage is a normal thing...but if you win the argument did you really win? Did your marriage? Often our marriages lose when we are willing to do whatever it takes to win the arguments. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids, #marriageconflict]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48835356</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 13:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48835356/b2g_012_winning_the_arguments_in_your_marriage_and_losing_in_the_process.mp3" length="22411249" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dealing with conflict in your marriage is a normal thing...but if you win the argument did you really win? Did your marriage? Often our marriages lose when we are willing to do whatever it takes to win the arguments. &#13;
&#13;
Understanding the Biblical...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dealing with conflict in your marriage is a normal thing...but if you win the argument did you really win? Did your marriage? Often our marriages lose when we are willing to do whatever it takes to win the arguments. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids, #marriageconflict]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1401</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>11. Saying No to the Drama Llama in Your Home...Being a No Drama Family.</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-saying-no-to-the-drama-llama-in-your-home-being-a-no-drama-family--48835354</link><description><![CDATA[Our homes can be filled with drama. One of the things we decided early on with our kids was that we were going to be a "No Drama Llama Family." It wasn't easy...but it was worth it. Avoiding drama with your daughters and drama in the home can be difficult. However, these tips on how to avoid drama in your family will be well worth your time. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids, #familydrama, #girldrama]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48835354</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2022 14:33:37 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48835354/b2g_011_no_drama_mama.mp3" length="20148418" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Our homes can be filled with drama. One of the things we decided early on with our kids was that we were going to be a "No Drama Llama Family." It wasn't easy...but it was worth it. Avoiding drama with your daughters and drama in the home can be...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our homes can be filled with drama. One of the things we decided early on with our kids was that we were going to be a "No Drama Llama Family." It wasn't easy...but it was worth it. Avoiding drama with your daughters and drama in the home can be difficult. However, these tips on how to avoid drama in your family will be well worth your time. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids, #familydrama, #girldrama]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1260</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2g,b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,children,christianmarriage,christianparenting,familydrama,girldrama,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10. The Intentional Transfer of Faith to Your Kids</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-the-intentional-transfer-of-faith-to-your-kids--48835350</link><description><![CDATA[One of the hardest things I heard as a youth pastor was a teen telling their parent... "Your God is not my God." The transfer of faith to our kids is not something that happens automatically.  In fact, if you think it is automatic, it will likely not happen at all. Parents, we must be intentional in bringing our children along in their understanding of Jesus and patient as they come to love God personally...and not out of duty. <br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48835350</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2022 14:33:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48835350/b2g_010_transfer_of_faith.mp3" length="25052751" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>One of the hardest things I heard as a youth pastor was a teen telling their parent... "Your God is not my God." 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In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1566</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>b2g,b2gfamily,bettertogether,biblicaldiscipline,childrearing,children,christianmarriage,christianparenting,marriagecounseling,raisingkids,raisingteens</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>9. Should You Wait To Get Married Till You Have Enough Money?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/9-should-you-wait-to-get-married-till-you-have-enough-money--48765489</link><description><![CDATA[You will probably never feel financially stable enough to get married...there is always a need for a little more of a financial foundation. However, it may be time for you to trust in God and make it happen!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48765489</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2022 13:36:53 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48765489/b2g_009_finances_and_marriage.mp3" length="17640245" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You will probably never feel financially stable enough to get married...there is always a need for a little more of a financial foundation. However, it may be time for you to trust in God and make it happen!&#13;
&#13;
Understanding the Biblical foundations...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You will probably never feel financially stable enough to get married...there is always a need for a little more of a financial foundation. However, it may be time for you to trust in God and make it happen!<br /><br />Understanding the Biblical foundations of Christian parenting and Christian marriage can be difficult and overwhelming. In Better Together, hosts DJ and Lorrie address share their 25 years of marriage and parenting experience to cover topics such as Biblical discipline, compassion in the home, understanding your spouse, marriage intimacy, and the commands to love and respect your spouse. <br /><br />#b2gfamily, #christianparenting, #christianmarriage, #biblicaldiscipline, #childrearing, #children, #marriagecounseling, #bettertogether, #B2G, #raisingteens, #raisingkids]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1103</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>bettertogether,finances,marriage,parenting,wedding</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>8. How Young Is Too Young To Talk To Your Kids About Salvation?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/8-how-young-is-too-young-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-salvation--48765480</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48765480</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2022 15:02:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48765480/b2g_007_early_salvation.mp3" length="21486723" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>1343</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,christian,parenting,salvation</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7. 13 Ways to Develop Healthy Eating Habits with Your Kids!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-13-ways-to-develop-healthy-eating-habits-with-your-kids--48765484</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48765484</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2022 21:03:21 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48765484/b2g_008_healthy_habits.mp3" length="35351683" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:duration>2210</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,kids,mealtime,parenting,parents</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>6. Learning What Your Spouse Needs the Most</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-learning-what-your-spouse-needs-the-most--48665942</link><description><![CDATA[God made us different...husbands and wives not only have different desires, they see life differently. Because of our differences, God gives a clear command to both wives and husbands in regards to our spouse's greatest need. Why are we commanded? Because it is so easy for us to overlook!<br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48665942</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 03:10:44 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48665942/b2g_006_love_and_respect.mp3" length="31345962" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>God made us different...husbands and wives not only have different desires, they see life differently. Because of our differences, God gives a clear command to both wives and husbands in regards to our spouse's greatest need. Why are we commanded?...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[God made us different...husbands and wives not only have different desires, they see life differently. Because of our differences, God gives a clear command to both wives and husbands in regards to our spouse's greatest need. Why are we commanded? Because it is so easy for us to overlook!<br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1960</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,family,kids,love,marriage,parenting,respect,spouse</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>5. Knowing When Not to Discipline</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/5-knowing-when-not-to-discipline--48665941</link><description><![CDATA[We believe in firm family discipline. However, we also had to learn that not all things in the home demand discipline. There is a fine balance between issues of discipline and issues that were a teaching opportunity. Listen in as we admit some of our failures in discerning the difference early on! <br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48665941</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 03:08:00 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48665941/b2g_004_discipline_dissapointment.mp3" length="22409995" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We believe in firm family discipline. However, we also had to learn that not all things in the home demand discipline. There is a fine balance between issues of discipline and issues that were a teaching opportunity. Listen in as we admit some of our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We believe in firm family discipline. However, we also had to learn that not all things in the home demand discipline. There is a fine balance between issues of discipline and issues that were a teaching opportunity. Listen in as we admit some of our failures in discerning the difference early on! <br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1401</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,family,kids,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>4. Hey Parents, admit it... You Are A Failure!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/4-hey-parents-admit-it-you-are-a-failure--48665940</link><description><![CDATA[If we were all honest with ourselves we would admit that there are areas of our parenting where we have failed. Some failures take years to heal.  However, it is important that we learn to admit our failures to our children. Though it can be hard, it is a necessary part of parenting. <br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48665940</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 03:05:58 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48665940/b2g_005_admitting_failure.mp3" length="23824787" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If we were all honest with ourselves we would admit that there are areas of our parenting where we have failed. Some failures take years to heal.  However, it is important that we learn to admit our failures to our children. Though it can be hard, it...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If we were all honest with ourselves we would admit that there are areas of our parenting where we have failed. Some failures take years to heal.  However, it is important that we learn to admit our failures to our children. Though it can be hard, it is a necessary part of parenting. <br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!<br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1489</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,family,kids,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>3. How Marriages Change Over Time</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-how-marriages-change-over-time--48665939</link><description><![CDATA[It is hard to believe that we have reached the 25 year mark. I can tell you now that we are not the same as when we started this journey. So many things have changed! 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Let's grow Better...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[While there are many areas of guidance with our daughter's wedding preparation, there is one thing that was a non-negotiable. In other words...this was one thing we would not compromise on. Can you guess what was the one thing? <br /><br />Let's grow Better Together!! <br />DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1772</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,family,kids,marriage,parenting,parents</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>1. Making Mealtime Family Time</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-making-mealtime-family-time--48665937</link><description><![CDATA[Meals don't have to be something that you dread as parents. There are some helpful things we did as parents to take advantage of the time we were sitting around the table..let us share them with you? DJ and Lorrie]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48665937</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 02:56:41 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48665937/b2g_001_mealtime.mp3" length="21872918" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Meals don't have to be something that you dread as parents. There are some helpful things we did as parents to take advantage of the time we were sitting around the table..let us share them with you? DJ and Lorrie</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Meals don't have to be something that you dread as parents. There are some helpful things we did as parents to take advantage of the time we were sitting around the table..let us share them with you? DJ and Lorrie]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1367</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>children,family,marriage,parenting</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Welcome to Better Together!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-better-together--48665935</link><description><![CDATA[We want you to welcome you to Better Together...an opportunity for us to share our journey of marriage and parenting with you. Have we always done it right? No! ...but let us share what we have learned along the way!  DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48665935</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 02:54:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48665935/b2g_welcome.mp3" length="1337747" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>We want you to welcome you to Better Together...an opportunity for us to share our journey of marriage and parenting with you. Have we always done it right? No! ...but let us share what we have learned along the way!  DJ and Lorrie Harry</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[We want you to welcome you to Better Together...an opportunity for us to share our journey of marriage and parenting with you. Have we always done it right? No! ...but let us share what we have learned along the way!  DJ and Lorrie Harry]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>84</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/4403d8c67380a6ec1c7df1448bbb62f2.jpg"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
