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So wherever you are, whether you're in your car, on the treadmill or cycle, I hope you genuinely enjoy the show and that at the end of each episode, you'll be a little bit kinder to yourself! ❤️]]></description><atom:link href="https://www.spreaker.com/show/5270145/episodes/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><language>en</language><category>Personal Journals</category><copyright>Copyright Nazia Keenoo</copyright><image><url>https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6b59af6eb162f94a65577cffe256f33.jpg</url><title>The Bubbly Bibi</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-bubbly-bibi--5270145</link></image><lastBuildDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2024 21:39:30 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:name><itunes:email>feeds@spreaker.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6b59af6eb162f94a65577cffe256f33.jpg"/><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to The Bubbly bibi's corner, a podcast dedicated to boost up your self-confidence and make you feel better about yourself! Here in my podcasts, I'll share with you some of the coolest secrets on how to love yourself...how to feel more...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to The Bubbly bibi's corner, a podcast dedicated to boost up your self-confidence and make you feel better about yourself! Here in my podcasts, I'll share with you some of the coolest secrets on how to love yourself...how to feel more confident in your skin and unleash your personal power! I'll also share some of my personal experiences, struggles and tips! So wherever you are, whether you're in your car, on the treadmill or cycle, I hope you genuinely enjoy the show and that at the end of each episode, you'll be a little bit kinder to yourself! ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Personal Journals"/></itunes:category><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><item><title>54. The Courage to Walk Away and Create a Life You Deserve</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/54-the-courage-to-walk-away-and-create-a-life-you-deserve--63175231</link><description><![CDATA[In this heartfelt comeback episode of The Bubbly Bibi, I’m sharing my journey of standing up for myself, letting go of what no longer served me, and finding the courage to start over. I’ll take you through relatable stories, empowering insights, and actionable steps to help you rebuild your confidence, rediscover your voice, and create a life that aligns with your happiness and purpose. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a job, relationship, or mindset that holds you back, this episode is for you. Join me as I share the pep talk that helped me—and could help you—take that brave first step toward the life you truly deserve.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">80550640-3397-40ea-b7ae-26c4e59ef9de</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Dec 2024 19:19:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/63175231/6bbcc08f6b78d16ec27689df9981bca8.mp3" length="16389994" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In this heartfelt comeback episode of The Bubbly Bibi, I’m sharing my journey of standing up for myself, letting go of what no longer served me, and finding the courage to start over. I’ll take you through relatable stories, empowering insights, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this heartfelt comeback episode of The Bubbly Bibi, I’m sharing my journey of standing up for myself, letting go of what no longer served me, and finding the courage to start over. I’ll take you through relatable stories, empowering insights, and actionable steps to help you rebuild your confidence, rediscover your voice, and create a life that aligns with your happiness and purpose. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a job, relationship, or mindset that holds you back, this episode is for you. Join me as I share the pep talk that helped me—and could help you—take that brave first step toward the life you truly deserve.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1025</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2694798934269899d3d54f58338fd6de.jpg"/><itunes:season>4</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>53. Reflect, Recharge &amp; Rock On: Your Guide to Badassery 💪</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/53-reflect-recharge-rock-on-your-guide-to-badassery--54456541</link><description><![CDATA[Self-reflection is like a big, juicy steak. It's delicious, it's satisfying, and it's good for you! But just like a steak, self-reflection can be tough to chew at times. It can be uncomfortable to confront your own thoughts and feelings, but that's where the real growth happens. So if you want to be a badass at life, you've got to be willing to dig deep and do the work.   Trust me, it's worth it! Yes, self-retrospection can actually be a lot of fun, too! It's like going on a treasure hunt, but instead of gold, you're searching for insights about yourself. You never know what you might find when you take the time to explore your thoughts and feelings. So grab a cup of tea, coffee or whatever you like and join me on this invigorating podcast adventure! 😍]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ab797a10-36b1-4168-89c9-18e9b7d2b7cd</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2023 08:26:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/54456541/0819459d3bb0d9e63dad647b79b7e9ca.mp3" length="9733994" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Self-reflection is like a big, juicy steak. It's delicious, it's satisfying, and it's good for you! But just like a steak, self-reflection can be tough to chew at times. It can be uncomfortable to confront your own thoughts and feelings, but that's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self-reflection is like a big, juicy steak. It's delicious, it's satisfying, and it's good for you! But just like a steak, self-reflection can be tough to chew at times. It can be uncomfortable to confront your own thoughts and feelings, but that's where the real growth happens. So if you want to be a badass at life, you've got to be willing to dig deep and do the work.   Trust me, it's worth it! Yes, self-retrospection can actually be a lot of fun, too! It's like going on a treasure hunt, but instead of gold, you're searching for insights about yourself. You never know what you might find when you take the time to explore your thoughts and feelings. So grab a cup of tea, coffee or whatever you like and join me on this invigorating podcast adventure! 😍]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>609</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6cbe15b396b53ae58e8e56794c63c00b.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>52. 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So switch your mentality from "I'm broken and helpless" to "I'm growing and healing" and see how fast your #life changes, for the better...🤩 You are not broken, so love yourself exactly as you are, allowing the next chapter of your life to unfold. ✨🤗]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">e1250ef6-0e3e-47d6-af90-dc6330462ab3</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Mar 2023 23:33:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53205830/aa1a527dc710f8e78363bd3aefa64342.mp3" length="6342255" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You have unrealised potential waiting to emerge. You only need to take the next step and trust you are being guided to merge with your greater self. 😍 Everything in your life — especially your challenges — is tailor-made to help you see your stories...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You have unrealised potential waiting to emerge. You only need to take the next step and trust you are being guided to merge with your greater self. 😍 Everything in your life — especially your challenges — is tailor-made to help you see your stories of struggle. 💪 Whatever is in the way is the way!  So switch your mentality from "I'm broken and helpless" to "I'm growing and healing" and see how fast your #life changes, for the better...🤩 You are not broken, so love yourself exactly as you are, allowing the next chapter of your life to unfold. ✨🤗]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>397</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/3e2d49d02d3299a6f5d3d971d84ffcf5.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>51. Be Your Own Valentine 🌹</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/51-be-your-own-valentine--53037521</link><description><![CDATA[Love yourself like no one else - it's time to give yourself the Valentine’s gift you have always wanted – 24/7 real love, real romance every day of the year – you deserve it and nothing LESS. ❤️🌹]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b80ba233-eee4-425c-bd49-d129f9f031de</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2023 00:41:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037521/4329a3ca156633ff8c0721997a11795b.mp3" length="18568397" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Love yourself like no one else - it's time to give yourself the Valentine’s gift you have always wanted – 24/7 real love, real romance every day of the year – you deserve it and nothing LESS. ❤️🌹</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Love yourself like no one else - it's time to give yourself the Valentine’s gift you have always wanted – 24/7 real love, real romance every day of the year – you deserve it and nothing LESS. ❤️🌹]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1161</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a6dde39630d466c026434fa971d185ec.jpg"/><itunes:season>3</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>50. You Don't Have to Be a Productivity Superstar (Daily Special)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/50-you-don-t-have-to-be-a-productivity-superstar-daily-special--53036062</link><description><![CDATA[The internet wants you to believe you aren’t doing enough with all that “extra time” you have now. But staying inside and attending to basic needs is plenty.  On the days when you have free time, when you have hours upon hours to get shit done, you might feel extra pressure to be productive. You might feel like you need to cross everything off your to-do list. You might feel like if you don’t do the laundry and exercise and walk the dog and cook a healthy meal, then you’re a failure. You might feel like there’s no excuse for slacking when time is on your side.  But you need more than time to be productive. You also need to be in a healthy state of mind — and if you’re not in a good place right now, you might need some rest. You might need to sit back and give yourself a break. You might need to go easy on yourself for a little while.   If you don’t get anything productive done today, you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it. You shouldn’t feel like you’ve wasted a perfectly good day. You shouldn’t feel bad about what a screwup you are.  Not every single day is meant to be filled to the brim with activities. Some days are meant to be catchup days. Not when you catchup on work, but when you catchup on sleep, catchup on shows, catchup with friends.  You need to give up the idea that you’re lazy for spending the day on your couch. You’re allowed to relax. You’re allowed to give your brain a well-deserved break, especially at a time like this. No, you shouldn’t make a habit out of procrastinating, out of putting things off until tomorrow, out of lounging around when you should be working. But you shouldn’t make a habit out of forcing yourself to go go go when you’re not in the right state of mind, either. You don’t want to burn yourself out. You don’t want to push yourself over an edge.  If work is the last thing you want to think about right now, that is okay.   If you aren’t able to get anything productive done today, that is okay.   If your emotions are all over the place, that is okay.   But if you feel like you’re the only one who isn’t taking advantage of their newfound free time, you’re wrong. There are plenty of other people in the same exact situation as you right now. There are plenty of people who aren’t able to keep their minds focused, who aren’t able to keep their attention on their work, who aren’t able to motivate themselves when there are so many other things to worry about at the moment.  Even though you might be kicking yourself for not getting anything done when you have so much time on your hands, you need to give yourself a break. You need to understand that it’s okay if your confusion and disappointment and fear are getting the best of you right now.  Maybe tomorrow you can get yourself back on schedule. Maybe tomorrow you can get your motivation back up. Maybe tomorrow you can do something productive. But it’s okay if the only thing you do today is survive.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">390ef5dc-057b-44c5-a90c-6bcbf6a3741c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 08:16:48 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53036062/2e01bb7ec5c5d3e3ada6cdd61d2f8a81.mp3" length="6220629" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>The internet wants you to believe you aren’t doing enough with all that “extra time” you have now. But staying inside and attending to basic needs is plenty.  On the days when you have free time, when you have hours upon hours to get shit done, you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[The internet wants you to believe you aren’t doing enough with all that “extra time” you have now. But staying inside and attending to basic needs is plenty.  On the days when you have free time, when you have hours upon hours to get shit done, you might feel extra pressure to be productive. You might feel like you need to cross everything off your to-do list. You might feel like if you don’t do the laundry and exercise and walk the dog and cook a healthy meal, then you’re a failure. You might feel like there’s no excuse for slacking when time is on your side.  But you need more than time to be productive. You also need to be in a healthy state of mind — and if you’re not in a good place right now, you might need some rest. You might need to sit back and give yourself a break. You might need to go easy on yourself for a little while.   If you don’t get anything productive done today, you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it. You shouldn’t feel like you’ve wasted a perfectly good day. You shouldn’t feel bad about what a screwup you are.  Not every single day is meant to be filled to the brim with activities. Some days are meant to be catchup days. Not when you catchup on work, but when you catchup on sleep, catchup on shows, catchup with friends.  You need to give up the idea that you’re lazy for spending the day on your couch. You’re allowed to relax. You’re allowed to give your brain a well-deserved break, especially at a time like this. No, you shouldn’t make a habit out of procrastinating, out of putting things off until tomorrow, out of lounging around when you should be working. But you shouldn’t make a habit out of forcing yourself to go go go when you’re not in the right state of mind, either. You don’t want to burn yourself out. You don’t want to push yourself over an edge.  If work is the last thing you want to think about right now, that is okay.   If you aren’t able to get anything productive done today, that is okay.   If your emotions are all over the place, that is okay.   But if you feel like you’re the only one who isn’t taking advantage of their newfound free time, you’re wrong. There are plenty of other people in the same exact situation as you right now. There are plenty of people who aren’t able to keep their minds focused, who aren’t able to keep their attention on their work, who aren’t able to motivate themselves when there are so many other things to worry about at the moment.  Even though you might be kicking yourself for not getting anything done when you have so much time on your hands, you need to give yourself a break. You need to understand that it’s okay if your confusion and disappointment and fear are getting the best of you right now.  Maybe tomorrow you can get yourself back on schedule. Maybe tomorrow you can get your motivation back up. Maybe tomorrow you can do something productive. But it’s okay if the only thing you do today is survive.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>389</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9e3c18658199837a0bb2e5f9dd5b95b3.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>49. Forgive Yourself &amp; Let Go of Regrets (Daily Special)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/49-forgive-yourself-let-go-of-regrets-daily-special--53037636</link><description><![CDATA[Forgiveness can be hard. When someone does something that hurts you, it can be difficult to let it go and move on. Although forgiving others can be a daunting task at times, it is often much easier to forgive others than it is to forgive yourself. Everyone makes mistakes. Maybe you missed your daughter’s winning goal because you left work late, told a lie that caused problems for others, or perhaps your actions resulted in life-altering consequences. No matter what happened, practicing self-forgiveness provides an opportunity for important growth, meaningful change, and improved emotional well-being.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">69671937-83c5-4224-a184-e782d0f95ee2</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2022 14:36:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037636/a62a30b80b404d66dd5f7e9672f02c2e.mp3" length="4471470" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Forgiveness can be hard. When someone does something that hurts you, it can be difficult to let it go and move on. Although forgiving others can be a daunting task at times, it is often much easier to forgive others than it is to forgive yourself....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Forgiveness can be hard. When someone does something that hurts you, it can be difficult to let it go and move on. Although forgiving others can be a daunting task at times, it is often much easier to forgive others than it is to forgive yourself. Everyone makes mistakes. Maybe you missed your daughter’s winning goal because you left work late, told a lie that caused problems for others, or perhaps your actions resulted in life-altering consequences. No matter what happened, practicing self-forgiveness provides an opportunity for important growth, meaningful change, and improved emotional well-being.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>280</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/bd808bd6624f28a7e076c1d34bb88fa0.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>48. It's Okay to Slow Down (Daily Special)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/48-it-s-okay-to-slow-down-daily-special--53037164</link><description><![CDATA[You may feel pressure to set goals and reach them quickly. To know exactly what you want and how to make it happen. To have it all figured out. But rushing may lead to a life you don't truly want. Never learning who you are or who you want to be. It's okay to take your time. That might not be exciting. It might not be sexy. It may conflict with popular messages or narratives. It is, however, often the best long-term strategy. To move at your pace. Getting to know your desires. Your dreams. Your goals. Then, learning how to move toward them on your terms. Not anybody else's. This takes patience. It takes confidence. It takes courage. You might draw criticism. Ridicule. Doubt. From others, and maybe even yourself. You choose what matters more. That negativity. Or moving toward a life in alignment with your truth. You are worthy of that kind of life. Only you can make it happen. You’ve got this. 💪❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6fcc5ced-ffe7-45ca-9498-6fe2b349bff2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 23:41:22 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037164/b6d11c961d55980f24beb0664016d203.mp3" length="5274370" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may feel pressure to set goals and reach them quickly. To know exactly what you want and how to make it happen. To have it all figured out. But rushing may lead to a life you don't truly want. Never learning who you are or who you want to be. It's...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may feel pressure to set goals and reach them quickly. To know exactly what you want and how to make it happen. To have it all figured out. But rushing may lead to a life you don't truly want. Never learning who you are or who you want to be. It's okay to take your time. That might not be exciting. It might not be sexy. It may conflict with popular messages or narratives. It is, however, often the best long-term strategy. To move at your pace. Getting to know your desires. Your dreams. Your goals. Then, learning how to move toward them on your terms. Not anybody else's. This takes patience. It takes confidence. It takes courage. You might draw criticism. Ridicule. Doubt. From others, and maybe even yourself. You choose what matters more. That negativity. Or moving toward a life in alignment with your truth. You are worthy of that kind of life. Only you can make it happen. You’ve got this. 💪❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>330</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2e4076aed0c4d98d83f6f9e6dabc28c5.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>47. Don't Be Afraid to Start Over (Daily Special)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/47-don-t-be-afraid-to-start-over-daily-special--53037697</link><description><![CDATA[Why is that so many of us find ourselves limiting our windows of opportunity and potential because we think it’s too late to learn how to start over?  When you become stuck in life, one strategy that you have at your disposal is to start over again with a blank canvas. You can hit the reset button and pursue a goal or dream that you’ve never tried before. 💕☺️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">b0845c4a-93d4-443c-8e3c-281e969f1664</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 23:41:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037697/7c3b50bcdf25a73609788ece1d54d699.mp3" length="3602115" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why is that so many of us find ourselves limiting our windows of opportunity and potential because we think it’s too late to learn how to start over?  When you become stuck in life, one strategy that you have at your disposal is to start over again...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is that so many of us find ourselves limiting our windows of opportunity and potential because we think it’s too late to learn how to start over?  When you become stuck in life, one strategy that you have at your disposal is to start over again with a blank canvas. You can hit the reset button and pursue a goal or dream that you’ve never tried before. 💕☺️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>226</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/dd385701e9fcb2dca50c6d2c767da6c4.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>46. You're Deserving of Love (Daily Special)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/46-you-re-deserving-of-love-daily-special--53037249</link><description><![CDATA[You're deserving of love. On your good days, on your bad days, you deserve love. You're worthy of love and compassion. You're worthy of hugs when you struggle and high fives when you accomplish.  You deserve happiness. You deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve for someone to fight for you. You deserve kindness. You deserve to be lifted up and encouraged. You deserve to be able to depend on someone other than yourself. You're deserving of love.  You're worthy enough to love yourself. You're worth of getting to know and to be understood. You're worth more than the stars in all of the galaxies. You're deserving of love. You are worth a person’s time. You deserve to feel wanted and needed.  I'm sorry for the people in your past that have walked away. I'm sorry for the people that have caused you to question love. I'm sorry for people who have broken your soul and left the mess for someone else to clean up. I'm sorry people have taken advantage of your kind soul. I'm sorry you have felt abandoned and feel that everyone will eventually abandon you. But you're deserving of love.  Say those words out loud, “I'm deserving of love.” Say it every day if you need to. Say it in the mirror when you wake up. Say it at night before you go to sleep. Say it before you leave the house and when you’re driving down the road. Remind yourself that you are worthy. Surround yourself with people that remind you that you're worthy.  There are people in this world that would give their life for you. There are people in this world that would make sacrifices to provide a safe haven for you. There are people in this world that know exactly what you’re worth because you're deserving of love. ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">dd3b20ea-9097-4d50-98b4-87a9e84f2188</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 23:17:11 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037249/a0a8fdf8703e2fc6320e6ff883c0ef2e.mp3" length="4768221" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You're deserving of love. On your good days, on your bad days, you deserve love. You're worthy of love and compassion. You're worthy of hugs when you struggle and high fives when you accomplish.  You deserve happiness. You deserve to be treated with...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You're deserving of love. On your good days, on your bad days, you deserve love. You're worthy of love and compassion. You're worthy of hugs when you struggle and high fives when you accomplish.  You deserve happiness. You deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve for someone to fight for you. You deserve kindness. You deserve to be lifted up and encouraged. You deserve to be able to depend on someone other than yourself. You're deserving of love.  You're worthy enough to love yourself. You're worth of getting to know and to be understood. You're worth more than the stars in all of the galaxies. You're deserving of love. You are worth a person’s time. You deserve to feel wanted and needed.  I'm sorry for the people in your past that have walked away. I'm sorry for the people that have caused you to question love. I'm sorry for people who have broken your soul and left the mess for someone else to clean up. I'm sorry people have taken advantage of your kind soul. I'm sorry you have felt abandoned and feel that everyone will eventually abandon you. But you're deserving of love.  Say those words out loud, “I'm deserving of love.” Say it every day if you need to. Say it in the mirror when you wake up. Say it at night before you go to sleep. Say it before you leave the house and when you’re driving down the road. Remind yourself that you are worthy. Surround yourself with people that remind you that you're worthy.  There are people in this world that would give their life for you. There are people in this world that would make sacrifices to provide a safe haven for you. There are people in this world that know exactly what you’re worth because you're deserving of love. ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>298</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/680eefa6d0c92b4934953e5b6c2258d6.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>bonus</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>45. Free Yourself and Start Living the Life You Desire</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/45-free-yourself-and-start-living-the-life-you-desire--53037166</link><description><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself pulled between what you want and what others want for you? Are you too afraid to be your true self or share your real thoughts? Do you care too much about what other people think? 🤔  Let’s talk about learning to live for yourself &amp; not others. 🤗   From childhood, a lot of us begin our lives learning to live for our parent's approval and the approval of those around us—our peers, teachers, or society in general. This comes out of our desire for love and a sense of belonging. We seek love and acceptance from others, which is understandable, as one of Maslow’s psychological needs.   Eventually though, we must learn to love ourselves, and find within us the love, approval, validation and confidence we've been yearning for. Thus begins the journey of discovering internal validation over external validation. 😊  Living for yourself means living the life that YOU want for yourself, regardless of the opinions of others. It’s living a life you feel aligned with, a life you love, and a life you are proud of. 😎  Living for others means living to please others, living for external validation &amp; approval, and caring about what others think. You’re setting your goals based on what others want for you (like your parents), or chasing what society deems as success.   Living for others can also mean wanting to do things to impress others, please others, or get approval from others, so you're not really being your authentic self and doing what you want. You're doing things because you care about how you appear to others. 😔  Let’s first clarify that “living for yourself and not others” doesn’t mean you should live a selfish life without considering or helping other people. It means learning to put your own needs first, and making choices that align with your values; doing things because you want to, and not because other people are influencing you to.  If you want to help others, and it’s coming from an authentic place, then great. But don’t do it just because you feel obligated or pressured to. 🙅‍♀️  Understand that your life is in your hands, and if you give away that power to anyone else, you’re taking away from your own. 🧏‍♀️  Listen to Episode 45 to discover some interesting steps to begin living for yourself. 😍]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0b511dcf-54da-497b-9b6c-6eec6bc455b4</guid><pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2022 14:18:16 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037166/79b5761b8c46250f3019912aad24a123.mp3" length="20503130" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you ever find yourself pulled between what you want and what others want for you? Are you too afraid to be your true self or share your real thoughts? Do you care too much about what other people think? 🤔  Let’s talk about learning to live for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself pulled between what you want and what others want for you? Are you too afraid to be your true self or share your real thoughts? Do you care too much about what other people think? 🤔  Let’s talk about learning to live for yourself &amp; not others. 🤗   From childhood, a lot of us begin our lives learning to live for our parent's approval and the approval of those around us—our peers, teachers, or society in general. This comes out of our desire for love and a sense of belonging. We seek love and acceptance from others, which is understandable, as one of Maslow’s psychological needs.   Eventually though, we must learn to love ourselves, and find within us the love, approval, validation and confidence we've been yearning for. Thus begins the journey of discovering internal validation over external validation. 😊  Living for yourself means living the life that YOU want for yourself, regardless of the opinions of others. It’s living a life you feel aligned with, a life you love, and a life you are proud of. 😎  Living for others means living to please others, living for external validation &amp; approval, and caring about what others think. You’re setting your goals based on what others want for you (like your parents), or chasing what society deems as success.   Living for others can also mean wanting to do things to impress others, please others, or get approval from others, so you're not really being your authentic self and doing what you want. You're doing things because you care about how you appear to others. 😔  Let’s first clarify that “living for yourself and not others” doesn’t mean you should live a selfish life without considering or helping other people. It means learning to put your own needs first, and making choices that align with your values; doing things because you want to, and not because other people are influencing you to.  If you want to help others, and it’s coming from an authentic place, then great. But don’t do it just because you feel obligated or pressured to. 🙅‍♀️  Understand that your life is in your hands, and if you give away that power to anyone else, you’re taking away from your own. 🧏‍♀️  Listen to Episode 45 to discover some interesting steps to begin living for yourself. 😍]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1282</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9c1e82bcc5c5513779971ce5d93cb780.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>44. Your Dreams Are Valid, So Keep Chasing Them</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/44-your-dreams-are-valid-so-keep-chasing-them--53036148</link><description><![CDATA[Facing your fears and pursuing your dreams is the greatest gift you can give yourself — and others!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">528c84a8-8513-46e9-a260-9302fb8cbb8b</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2022 21:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53036148/3c65cf7114bd17afa46e432b30366dce.mp3" length="9410494" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Facing your fears and pursuing your dreams is the greatest gift you can give yourself — and others!</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Facing your fears and pursuing your dreams is the greatest gift you can give yourself — and others!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>589</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/6f6f70db8d9e816256ac72872e02bed7.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>43. Sortez maintenant de votre bulle !</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/43-sortez-maintenant-de-votre-bulle--53037742</link><description><![CDATA[Ah la zone de confort, un sujet d’actualité pour moi en ce moment… C’est difficile d’en sortir, pas vrai ? Evidemment, personne n’aime être bousculé. Changer ses habitudes fait souvent très peur. Personnellement, je stresse, je doute… Parfois, c’est même la panique totale. Je suis morte de trouille… Est-ce que j’ai pris la bonne décision ? Est-ce que je ne vais pas regretter mon choix ? Vous aussi vous êtes du genre à vouloir tout contrôler ou vous avez du mal à lâcher prise ?   La zone de confort, on la reconnaît facilement. Quand vous êtes dans votre zone de confort, vous avez l’impression de maîtriser tous les éléments que ce soit au niveau professionnel ou personnel. Vous ne ressentez pas ou peu d’inquiétude. Psychologiquement, vous vous sentez à l’aise et en sécurité. Ce peut être, par exemple, ce travail que vous effectuez depuis plusieurs années et qui ne vous procure plus de réelle satisfaction, mais vous le connaissez bien. Vous appréciez votre équipe. Vous avez un salaire confortable, une mutuelle d’entreprise, des tickets resto et un bon CE… Peut-être même que vous avez la chance d’avoir un patron en or. Oh bien sûr, votre rêve c’est d’être à votre compte. Vous aimeriez gagner en liberté et en indépendance, mais il y a un hic. Pour ça, il faut prendre des risques…  Et puis, un jour survient une opportunité… Une super idée de business, par exemple. Exactement ce que vous attendiez pour vous lancer. Ce dont vous aviez toujours rêvé. Un job qui vous plaît et colle à vos valeurs. Et malgré tout, votre cerveau va commencer à mouliner : et si ça ne marchait pas ? Si je faisais une énorme bêtise en quittant mon poste ? Est-ce que je vais être à la hauteur ? Est-ce que je vais y arriver ? Est-ce bien raisonnable ? Si seulement je pouvais être sûre de prendre la bonne décision… Et la panique, l’angoisse, le stress, les doutes commencent petit à petit à vous paralyser. Vous êtes à 2 doigts de prendre le téléphone pour supplier votre ancien patron de vous reprendre ? Ne le faites pas ! Quand vous ressentez tout ça, c’est que vous êtes à la frontière de votre zone de confort.  A moins d’avoir atteint le summum de l’épanouissement, si vous voulez évoluer, vous devez sortir de votre zone de confort ! C’est une manière de prendre confiance en vous et de repousser vos limites toujours un peu plus. Bien sûr, l’inconnu fait peur, moi-même la semaine dernière, je n’en menais pas large. Alors, j’ai listé mes angoisses pour me rendre compte que la plupart étaient sûrement infondées. J’en ai parlé avec certaines personnes qui ont su me rassurer. J’ai enfin repensé à tout ce que je n’aurais pas fait si je n’avais pas surmonté mes craintes jusqu'ici.   A de rares exceptions, la plupart des opportunités ne se présentent qu’une seule fois dans une vie, saisissez-les ! D’accord, parfois elles vous prendront au dépourvu. Vous ne serez pas préparés et il vous faudra faire un choix dans l’urgence. Pas le temps d’hésiter ou de tergiverser… Mais finalement, ce sont les situations que je préfère. J’ai tendance à trop réfléchir alors un peu de spontanéité ne fait pas de mal. A trop vouloir calculer, peser le pour et le contre, nous ne faisons plus rien. Dédramatisons, nous avons le droit à l’erreur et ma devise depuis toujours est que je préfère avoir des remords que des regrets. Alors osons ! Réaliser mes rêves me demandera de sortir encore et encore de ma zone de confort. Pour certains, je sais que je ne suis pas encore prête, mais ça viendra…  Vous doutez encore ?   Pour vous apaiser, écoutez à ma nouvelle épisode ! Dans ce podcast, je vais vous expliquer pourquoi il est important de sortir de sa zone de confort et comment devenir une meilleure version de soi-même, même si ça fait flipper !]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a499bbb8-5cd4-4297-a88d-e2ca2c9998db</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2022 21:38:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53037742/5b47fc33489f8447167d917555fe198e.mp3" length="24370089" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ah la zone de confort, un sujet d’actualité pour moi en ce moment… C’est difficile d’en sortir, pas vrai ? Evidemment, personne n’aime être bousculé. Changer ses habitudes fait souvent très peur. Personnellement, je stresse, je doute… Parfois, c’est...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ah la zone de confort, un sujet d’actualité pour moi en ce moment… C’est difficile d’en sortir, pas vrai ? Evidemment, personne n’aime être bousculé. Changer ses habitudes fait souvent très peur. Personnellement, je stresse, je doute… Parfois, c’est même la panique totale. Je suis morte de trouille… Est-ce que j’ai pris la bonne décision ? Est-ce que je ne vais pas regretter mon choix ? Vous aussi vous êtes du genre à vouloir tout contrôler ou vous avez du mal à lâcher prise ?   La zone de confort, on la reconnaît facilement. Quand vous êtes dans votre zone de confort, vous avez l’impression de maîtriser tous les éléments que ce soit au niveau professionnel ou personnel. Vous ne ressentez pas ou peu d’inquiétude. Psychologiquement, vous vous sentez à l’aise et en sécurité. Ce peut être, par exemple, ce travail que vous effectuez depuis plusieurs années et qui ne vous procure plus de réelle satisfaction, mais vous le connaissez bien. Vous appréciez votre équipe. Vous avez un salaire confortable, une mutuelle d’entreprise, des tickets resto et un bon CE… Peut-être même que vous avez la chance d’avoir un patron en or. Oh bien sûr, votre rêve c’est d’être à votre compte. Vous aimeriez gagner en liberté et en indépendance, mais il y a un hic. Pour ça, il faut prendre des risques…  Et puis, un jour survient une opportunité… Une super idée de business, par exemple. Exactement ce que vous attendiez pour vous lancer. Ce dont vous aviez toujours rêvé. Un job qui vous plaît et colle à vos valeurs. Et malgré tout, votre cerveau va commencer à mouliner : et si ça ne marchait pas ? Si je faisais une énorme bêtise en quittant mon poste ? Est-ce que je vais être à la hauteur ? Est-ce que je vais y arriver ? Est-ce bien raisonnable ? Si seulement je pouvais être sûre de prendre la bonne décision… Et la panique, l’angoisse, le stress, les doutes commencent petit à petit à vous paralyser. Vous êtes à 2 doigts de prendre le téléphone pour supplier votre ancien patron de vous reprendre ? Ne le faites pas ! Quand vous ressentez tout ça, c’est que vous êtes à la frontière de votre zone de confort.  A moins d’avoir atteint le summum de l’épanouissement, si vous voulez évoluer, vous devez sortir de votre zone de confort ! C’est une manière de prendre confiance en vous et de repousser vos limites toujours un peu plus. Bien sûr, l’inconnu fait peur, moi-même la semaine dernière, je n’en menais pas large. Alors, j’ai listé mes angoisses pour me rendre compte que la plupart étaient sûrement infondées. J’en ai parlé avec certaines personnes qui ont su me rassurer. J’ai enfin repensé à tout ce que je n’aurais pas fait si je n’avais pas surmonté mes craintes jusqu'ici.   A de rares exceptions, la plupart des opportunités ne se présentent qu’une seule fois dans une vie, saisissez-les ! D’accord, parfois elles vous prendront au dépourvu. Vous ne serez pas préparés et il vous faudra faire un choix dans l’urgence. Pas le temps d’hésiter ou de tergiverser… Mais finalement, ce sont les situations que je préfère. J’ai tendance à trop réfléchir alors un peu de spontanéité ne fait pas de mal. A trop vouloir calculer, peser le pour et le contre, nous ne faisons plus rien. Dédramatisons, nous avons le droit à l’erreur et ma devise depuis toujours est que je préfère avoir des remords que des regrets. Alors osons ! Réaliser mes rêves me demandera de sortir encore et encore de ma zone de confort. Pour certains, je sais que je ne suis pas encore prête, mais ça viendra…  Vous doutez encore ?   Pour vous apaiser, écoutez à ma nouvelle épisode ! Dans ce podcast, je vais vous expliquer pourquoi il est important de sortir de sa zone de confort et comment devenir une meilleure version de soi-même, même si ça fait flipper !]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1523</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ad69bb020877fd619098c169e408d4a2.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>42. Get Out of Your Head Now!</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/42-get-out-of-your-head-now--53036128</link><description><![CDATA[If you claim not to have a “worst” character trait, you can probably add dishonesty to the list. I think almost everyone has struggled with at least one bad trait. The good news is that those negative traits we fear may be holding us back can actually end up being the unlikely driver that propels us forward. But how do we learn to love the very characteristics we like least? How to transform those negative quirks into sources of strength and self-love? How can we change for the better? Like many women, I was afraid of my own voice. I was scared of what would happen if I acknowledged and expressed my feelings. Above all, I feared people would leave me if I shared my deepest feelings. The need to voice out was natural and necessary, but my belief that it was wrong prevented me from taking ownership of my voice. So, instead, I communicated in unhealthy ways. I was passive-aggressive, I had anger outbursts, and many times, I would play the martyr. And as I tried to suppress and control that side of me, it came out in waves of anger and pain. After years of transformation, I now understand that many of my behaviours were based on my belief that things are either all good or all bad. So how did I unlearn this belief and learn to express my authentic voice? By learning how I played the black and white game. When we are young, we are taught that some aspects of our personality are bad or inappropriate, while others are good and helpful. And like most things we learn as children, we have to unlearn them. So to fit in, feel loved and be accepted, we deny the ‘bad’ qualities we think we have and try to express those considered ‘good’. This polarised mindset forces us to see the world in terms of black and white, good and bad, or right and wrong. And in this game of black and white, the only rule is that white must always win. Unfortunately, the world is not that simple. Most things exist on a frustrating spectrum of grey. Fortunately, we can learn to re-train these repressed qualities and turn them into qualities that benefit ourselves and others. Listen to Episode 42 and make the first move to get out of your head and get where your heart has always hoped to be.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3c201a43-15a3-43a6-a58f-9a2806cba2ff</guid><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 11:40:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/53036128/3ec1bd31b0f4e7cca54bf715e46ac5c7.mp3" length="14719411" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you claim not to have a “worst” character trait, you can probably add dishonesty to the list. I think almost everyone has struggled with at least one bad trait. The good news is that those negative traits we fear may be holding us back can actually...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you claim not to have a “worst” character trait, you can probably add dishonesty to the list. I think almost everyone has struggled with at least one bad trait. The good news is that those negative traits we fear may be holding us back can actually end up being the unlikely driver that propels us forward. But how do we learn to love the very characteristics we like least? How to transform those negative quirks into sources of strength and self-love? How can we change for the better? Like many women, I was afraid of my own voice. I was scared of what would happen if I acknowledged and expressed my feelings. Above all, I feared people would leave me if I shared my deepest feelings. The need to voice out was natural and necessary, but my belief that it was wrong prevented me from taking ownership of my voice. So, instead, I communicated in unhealthy ways. I was passive-aggressive, I had anger outbursts, and many times, I would play the martyr. And as I tried to suppress and control that side of me, it came out in waves of anger and pain. After years of transformation, I now understand that many of my behaviours were based on my belief that things are either all good or all bad. So how did I unlearn this belief and learn to express my authentic voice? By learning how I played the black and white game. When we are young, we are taught that some aspects of our personality are bad or inappropriate, while others are good and helpful. And like most things we learn as children, we have to unlearn them. So to fit in, feel loved and be accepted, we deny the ‘bad’ qualities we think we have and try to express those considered ‘good’. This polarised mindset forces us to see the world in terms of black and white, good and bad, or right and wrong. And in this game of black and white, the only rule is that white must always win. Unfortunately, the world is not that simple. Most things exist on a frustrating spectrum of grey. Fortunately, we can learn to re-train these repressed qualities and turn them into qualities that benefit ourselves and others. Listen to Episode 42 and make the first move to get out of your head and get where your heart has always hoped to be.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>920</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/a4cd11944a864c8d8d93688999609e07.jpg"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>41. Stop Forcing People to Care About You (Monday-Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/41-stop-forcing-people-to-care-about-you-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--49078573</link><description><![CDATA[Kill that part of yourself that still wants to save someone after they've walked away while you were drowning. <br /><br />Don’t let that one person who doesn’t care about you live rent-free in your mind. They’ve taken enough. Re-claim your power by redirecting your focus to those around you who love you and care about you.<br /><br />Your worth has nothing to do with how others treat you. How others treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. <br /><br />As soon as we realise those two things, it becomes easier to see the situation for what it is: a hurt person projecting their hurt onto us.<br /><br />You’re a beautiful being with so much love and empathy in your heart. Honour that you care, honour that you put yourself out there. Rejection doesn’t have to harden us; it can make us stronger, kinder, and quite frankly unstoppable.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">24230efc-3782-464a-a931-beefb1b23b59</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2022 15:18:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49078573/9e2b2f82d7c76157f4cf70ee5d479d68.mp3" length="4200214" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Kill that part of yourself that still wants to save someone after they've walked away while you were drowning. 

Don’t let that one person who doesn’t care about you live rent-free in your mind. They’ve taken enough. Re-claim your power by redirecting...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Kill that part of yourself that still wants to save someone after they've walked away while you were drowning. <br /><br />Don’t let that one person who doesn’t care about you live rent-free in your mind. They’ve taken enough. Re-claim your power by redirecting your focus to those around you who love you and care about you.<br /><br />Your worth has nothing to do with how others treat you. How others treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. <br /><br />As soon as we realise those two things, it becomes easier to see the situation for what it is: a hurt person projecting their hurt onto us.<br /><br />You’re a beautiful being with so much love and empathy in your heart. Honour that you care, honour that you put yourself out there. Rejection doesn’t have to harden us; it can make us stronger, kinder, and quite frankly unstoppable.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>263</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/904d886ff20ee3cb3cf1297c684c7042.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>39. Defend Your Boundaries and Honour Who You Are (Monday Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/39-defend-your-boundaries-and-honour-who-you-are-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--49078577</link><description><![CDATA["Boundaries" seems to be a buzzword in mental health circles right now –—and there is a good reason for that. <br /><br />They say good boundaries make good neighbors. I say good personal boundaries build great interpersonal and professional relationships. Some people feel the need to please others, often without realizing that by saying “yes” to everything, they are also saying “no” to something else that might be equally important to them. This can have negative effects on both your personal life and your career.<br /><br />Not sure how to set boundaries? You'll want to learn as this is the key to gaining self-worth, self-esteem, and healthy relationships. Stay tuned for the next part of this episode to find some great ways to set personal boundaries]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">81194e0c-110b-4e89-8551-3f852b5571ce</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Feb 2022 11:14:07 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49078577/0bf6792cb1abca26ce0e570b6577ded9.mp3" length="6643186" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>"Boundaries" seems to be a buzzword in mental health circles right now –—and there is a good reason for that. 

They say good boundaries make good neighbors. I say good personal boundaries build great interpersonal and professional relationships. Some...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA["Boundaries" seems to be a buzzword in mental health circles right now –—and there is a good reason for that. <br /><br />They say good boundaries make good neighbors. I say good personal boundaries build great interpersonal and professional relationships. Some people feel the need to please others, often without realizing that by saying “yes” to everything, they are also saying “no” to something else that might be equally important to them. This can have negative effects on both your personal life and your career.<br /><br />Not sure how to set boundaries? You'll want to learn as this is the key to gaining self-worth, self-esteem, and healthy relationships. Stay tuned for the next part of this episode to find some great ways to set personal boundaries]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>416</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/636afd9e0c8ba5d9e234f657fd62a428.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>38. Missing Them Doesn't Equal Getting Back Together</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/38-missing-them-doesn-t-equal-getting-back-together--49078576</link><description><![CDATA[You may miss someone; you may miss everything you’ve experienced with the person you’ve loved so much and wish you could relive these moments. And you wonder why it all ended... you fill your mind and thoughts with tons of unnecessary ifs and buts, trying hopelessly to figure out why things had to end this way. Could it have been something to do with you, with them, with the universe, with their dog, with...? What would have happened if...? Should we get back together? The dilemma is real! But nostalgia doesn’t necessarily mean you want to find that lousy prick who made you feel that way. Missing someone who has ghosted you or someone you’ve removed from your life can be complicated as fuck. Sometimes it involves satisfaction and relief, sometimes it’s accompanied by a twinge of pain and regret, and sometimes it involves anger and the need to revenge. But honey, you have to realise that some people only appear in our lives for a limited time; we experience good and bad times with them and then part ways. When we miss them, it’s good to remember the two sides of the story. There was a reason it ended in the first place. Keeping your distance helps you resist the temptation to go back – because, deep down, you know you don’t wanna go back into that shitty, crappy, unfulfilling relationship or friendship. You may miss the person or the story that brought you together, but this significantly affects the meaning of your memories. Sometimes you don’t want that stink ass saphead to come back, but you want to enjoy the good ol’ times again. However, remember that it doesn’t have to be with the same person again. You can relive part of the story and create better memories with another person.  When you start again with someone you already know, someone with whom you’ve shared part of your past or someone with whom you try to relive moments from another time, you start from a whole different point. And this has nothing to do with living or feeling the same shit again – I’m telling that from personal experiences. I’ve suffered a lot, thinking that I could start over. Because at some point, what I was missing was the good old times and how we used to be. But getting back together ain’t the same in any way! And that’s where you need to distinguish between missing the person and missing the memories. When stories end, they just fucking end. Yes, this may sound harsh, but it’s the brutal truth. So even if we wanna repeat the same thing with the same trashy person, it will NEVER EVER be the same. Because people mature, grow and develop and therefore will never come back to the same point – ever. So, on this note, let’s learn to leave the memories in our minds and savour the flavour they’ve left behind. Let us re-feel them when we close our eyes, when our eyes are filled with tears, sometimes thinking about how it’s no longer there. But at the same time, let’s be happy that it all happened, and they’re still here in us, in some way or another. We are all made up of our memories, and that’s why we must live them that way. So allow yourself to miss things. But if it’s gonna hurt like hell, just leave it there. Don’t try to repeat or force something that no longer exists. You may miss it, but you may not want it back. It’s high time to draw a line and move on if we make a decision based solely on nostalgia. Let’s stop thinking about the past and open our eyes to discover what the future has in store for us. The people who left will undoubtedly remain in our hearts, minds and emotions, but those who are waiting to walk our path will want us to open our arms wide to them. ❤️😍]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">774f37ce-1c1d-4697-b896-af8b171c9ffc</guid><pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2022 18:16:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49078576/0291c022f03e3bdc6ad6cba27b4d6b1b.mp3" length="11936639" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>You may miss someone; you may miss everything you’ve experienced with the person you’ve loved so much and wish you could relive these moments. And you wonder why it all ended... you fill your mind and thoughts with tons of unnecessary ifs and buts,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[You may miss someone; you may miss everything you’ve experienced with the person you’ve loved so much and wish you could relive these moments. And you wonder why it all ended... you fill your mind and thoughts with tons of unnecessary ifs and buts, trying hopelessly to figure out why things had to end this way. Could it have been something to do with you, with them, with the universe, with their dog, with...? What would have happened if...? Should we get back together? The dilemma is real! But nostalgia doesn’t necessarily mean you want to find that lousy prick who made you feel that way. Missing someone who has ghosted you or someone you’ve removed from your life can be complicated as fuck. Sometimes it involves satisfaction and relief, sometimes it’s accompanied by a twinge of pain and regret, and sometimes it involves anger and the need to revenge. But honey, you have to realise that some people only appear in our lives for a limited time; we experience good and bad times with them and then part ways. When we miss them, it’s good to remember the two sides of the story. There was a reason it ended in the first place. Keeping your distance helps you resist the temptation to go back – because, deep down, you know you don’t wanna go back into that shitty, crappy, unfulfilling relationship or friendship. You may miss the person or the story that brought you together, but this significantly affects the meaning of your memories. Sometimes you don’t want that stink ass saphead to come back, but you want to enjoy the good ol’ times again. However, remember that it doesn’t have to be with the same person again. You can relive part of the story and create better memories with another person.  When you start again with someone you already know, someone with whom you’ve shared part of your past or someone with whom you try to relive moments from another time, you start from a whole different point. And this has nothing to do with living or feeling the same shit again – I’m telling that from personal experiences. I’ve suffered a lot, thinking that I could start over. Because at some point, what I was missing was the good old times and how we used to be. But getting back together ain’t the same in any way! And that’s where you need to distinguish between missing the person and missing the memories. When stories end, they just fucking end. Yes, this may sound harsh, but it’s the brutal truth. So even if we wanna repeat the same thing with the same trashy person, it will NEVER EVER be the same. Because people mature, grow and develop and therefore will never come back to the same point – ever. So, on this note, let’s learn to leave the memories in our minds and savour the flavour they’ve left behind. Let us re-feel them when we close our eyes, when our eyes are filled with tears, sometimes thinking about how it’s no longer there. But at the same time, let’s be happy that it all happened, and they’re still here in us, in some way or another. We are all made up of our memories, and that’s why we must live them that way. So allow yourself to miss things. But if it’s gonna hurt like hell, just leave it there. Don’t try to repeat or force something that no longer exists. You may miss it, but you may not want it back. It’s high time to draw a line and move on if we make a decision based solely on nostalgia. Let’s stop thinking about the past and open our eyes to discover what the future has in store for us. The people who left will undoubtedly remain in our hearts, minds and emotions, but those who are waiting to walk our path will want us to open our arms wide to them. ❤️😍]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>746</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/09c196bf5336368efe90603c01993725.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>28. Be Yourself; Everyone Else Is Already Taken</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/28-be-yourself-everyone-else-is-already-taken--49078574</link><description><![CDATA[In a world that convinces you to be different, being different and unique has become a scarcity in this world. It's easy to compromise everything you are and what you stand for just to make people feel warm... But doing so won't change ANYTHING, honey! 😉<br /><br />In fact, you'll most likely lose yourself trying to fit in this world. Every person is unique and you can't try to be someone you are not. Just like a snowflake, you have distinct personality and characteristics that set you apart. 🤗<br /><br />Your uniqueness is what helps you identity who you truly are and who you aren't. So, it's high time you learn to embrace your flaws and dare to be different! 💕]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">71ae1fff-6de0-45c6-89a9-102b13b3ff49</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Nov 2021 11:47:54 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/49078574/9c4e038d1c5acb27fc365db28451e8bb.mp3" length="13203055" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>In a world that convinces you to be different, being different and unique has become a scarcity in this world. It's easy to compromise everything you are and what you stand for just to make people feel warm... But doing so won't change ANYTHING,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[In a world that convinces you to be different, being different and unique has become a scarcity in this world. It's easy to compromise everything you are and what you stand for just to make people feel warm... But doing so won't change ANYTHING, honey! 😉<br /><br />In fact, you'll most likely lose yourself trying to fit in this world. Every person is unique and you can't try to be someone you are not. Just like a snowflake, you have distinct personality and characteristics that set you apart. 🤗<br /><br />Your uniqueness is what helps you identity who you truly are and who you aren't. So, it's high time you learn to embrace your flaws and dare to be different! 💕]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>826</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/baf73c671083a98aa56e30d23b04af4c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>27. Love Yourself Enough to Let Them Go 😘</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/27-love-yourself-enough-to-let-them-go--47648878</link><description><![CDATA[When we lose ourselves and our passion for life within our partnerships, it’s time to cut the cord and run. <br /><br />Our relationships aren’t meant to be stagnant and burdensome affairs. They are meant to fill us with happiness and ease, while making our lives a more enjoyable experience.<br /><br />Relationships that are bogged down by heavy torment or endless regret and conflict are not relationships meant to stand the test of time. They’re an indication of two people who just don’t work.<br /><br />If you want to stop falling back into bed with your ex, break the pattern by empowering yourself with compassion and understanding.<br /><br />It's important that you overcome this compulsive need to return to the same old places. But how? By trying to overcome the insecurities and misunderstandings that bring you back to toxic relationships. And this occurs by cultivating understanding, acceptance and the ability to reshape and re-process the intense thoughts and emotions you might be dealing with. <br /><br />Honey, you aren’t defined by your relationships , but your lives can be bolstered by them. So, build better partnerships by learning how to let go of the bad ones once and for all. 💪<br /><br />And always remember, the only relationship you'll ever own is the one with yourself. ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ebfbfefd-3762-4a32-801e-552451b28f10</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Nov 2021 05:00:24 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648878/b202341e5deacac0131f7441b65306ae.mp3" length="8531943" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>When we lose ourselves and our passion for life within our partnerships, it’s time to cut the cord and run. 

Our relationships aren’t meant to be stagnant and burdensome affairs. They are meant to fill us with happiness and ease, while making our...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we lose ourselves and our passion for life within our partnerships, it’s time to cut the cord and run. <br /><br />Our relationships aren’t meant to be stagnant and burdensome affairs. They are meant to fill us with happiness and ease, while making our lives a more enjoyable experience.<br /><br />Relationships that are bogged down by heavy torment or endless regret and conflict are not relationships meant to stand the test of time. They’re an indication of two people who just don’t work.<br /><br />If you want to stop falling back into bed with your ex, break the pattern by empowering yourself with compassion and understanding.<br /><br />It's important that you overcome this compulsive need to return to the same old places. But how? By trying to overcome the insecurities and misunderstandings that bring you back to toxic relationships. And this occurs by cultivating understanding, acceptance and the ability to reshape and re-process the intense thoughts and emotions you might be dealing with. <br /><br />Honey, you aren’t defined by your relationships , but your lives can be bolstered by them. So, build better partnerships by learning how to let go of the bad ones once and for all. 💪<br /><br />And always remember, the only relationship you'll ever own is the one with yourself. ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>534</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/371ce95df603bcf58919cdae27286c83.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>26. Give Yourself Permission to Say NO Without Feeling Selfish (Monday Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/26-give-yourself-permission-to-say-no-without-feeling-selfish-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--47648889</link><description><![CDATA[Yes, it's perfectly okay to say "NO" without explaining yourself! 😊<br /><br />Even if it hurts someone's feelings, give yourself permission to say NO to anyone or anything that drains you, makes you uncomfortable or causes you pain. ✋<br /><br />Show up for what really matters without feeling mean, guilty or selfish! 💪<br /><br />You have to set healthy boundaries and take care of yourself. ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">da36982e-baf2-4bc4-940c-48f66eae5d58</guid><pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2021 23:43:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648889/a55ffa60a7837568210e6f0ed33910ac.mp3" length="3569096" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Yes, it's perfectly okay to say "NO" without explaining yourself! 😊

Even if it hurts someone's feelings, give yourself permission to say NO to anyone or anything that drains you, makes you uncomfortable or causes you pain. ✋

Show up for what really...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Yes, it's perfectly okay to say "NO" without explaining yourself! 😊<br /><br />Even if it hurts someone's feelings, give yourself permission to say NO to anyone or anything that drains you, makes you uncomfortable or causes you pain. ✋<br /><br />Show up for what really matters without feeling mean, guilty or selfish! 💪<br /><br />You have to set healthy boundaries and take care of yourself. ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>223</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/1a839b184f0b69d237f5fe0ac1ab0818.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>25. Se comparer aux autres : poison pour l'estime de soi ☠️</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/25-se-comparer-aux-autres-poison-pour-l-estime-de-soi--47648879</link><description><![CDATA[Racine de la jalousie et poison pour l’estime de soi, la comparaison n’est sûrement pas une solution idéale pour se sentir heureux dans son quotidien. Cela a des effets néfastes sur la confiance en soi, la bienveillance, la gratitude, etc. <br /><br />Comment sortir du piège de la comparaison ? Écoutez ce podcast et découvrez les meilleures astuces pour arrêter de se comparer aux autres, être fière de soi et regagner confiance en soi ! 💋]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">76466d2d-dd82-4603-8d93-95148c3384a2</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2021 10:26:57 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648879/653d2d2fee5625cb8d7772c77996b520.mp3" length="13492701" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Racine de la jalousie et poison pour l’estime de soi, la comparaison n’est sûrement pas une solution idéale pour se sentir heureux dans son quotidien. Cela a des effets néfastes sur la confiance en soi, la bienveillance, la gratitude, etc. 

Comment...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Racine de la jalousie et poison pour l’estime de soi, la comparaison n’est sûrement pas une solution idéale pour se sentir heureux dans son quotidien. Cela a des effets néfastes sur la confiance en soi, la bienveillance, la gratitude, etc. <br /><br />Comment sortir du piège de la comparaison ? Écoutez ce podcast et découvrez les meilleures astuces pour arrêter de se comparer aux autres, être fière de soi et regagner confiance en soi ! 💋]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>844</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/9421bda9f7851c0cf16a4492d68f1b3a.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>24. How To Love Yourself After Being Cheated On?</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/24-how-to-love-yourself-after-being-cheated-on--47648881</link><description><![CDATA[It’s not easy to heal after being cheated on—after all, everything about infidelity is powerfully painful. It doesn’t matter if it was a one-time indiscretion, a series of micro-flirtations, an emotional affair, or finding out your partner has a secret family. Whatever shade of infidelity you’re dealing with, it’s totally natural to feel a sense of betrayal, anger, and grief. There’s nothing like betrayal to throw your self-esteem for a loop. When your spouse betrays you, you are devastated. But, your devastation might pale in comparison to the hit that your self-esteem takes when this happens. <br />Infidelity is the worst of the worst when it comes to damaging your self-esteem. Even though you know it’s not about you, there are still society’s messages directed at you. Many people will whisper and wonder whether or not you were a good wife or husband and if your spouse cheated because of your deficits not theirs. <br /><br />But, still this pales in comparison to the blow your self-esteem takes whenever you think of the other person. Thinking of the other person and how they were able to lure your spouse away down the rabbit hole really takes the cake in terms of self-esteem destroyers. If you learned about your partner’s infidelity while being quarantined with them, it may be even harder to come to terms with the news. In such close quarters, you may not have been able to grant yourself the physical or mental space you need in order to process the situation. But if there’s one thing I want you to know, it’s that being cheated is never your fault and your value and worth aren’t tied to anyone or anything. With time and patience, healing and loving yourself again are possible, whether that means with your partner in or out of the picture. Listen to this podcast for more inspiration!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">17378ec5-f455-4299-b89d-9f3ecdc4723a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2021 09:23:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648881/3b0d9d941adb07189bf6b6bb3dc4d7d1.mp3" length="19628760" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>It’s not easy to heal after being cheated on—after all, everything about infidelity is powerfully painful. It doesn’t matter if it was a one-time indiscretion, a series of micro-flirtations, an emotional affair, or finding out your partner has a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s not easy to heal after being cheated on—after all, everything about infidelity is powerfully painful. It doesn’t matter if it was a one-time indiscretion, a series of micro-flirtations, an emotional affair, or finding out your partner has a secret family. Whatever shade of infidelity you’re dealing with, it’s totally natural to feel a sense of betrayal, anger, and grief. There’s nothing like betrayal to throw your self-esteem for a loop. When your spouse betrays you, you are devastated. But, your devastation might pale in comparison to the hit that your self-esteem takes when this happens. <br />Infidelity is the worst of the worst when it comes to damaging your self-esteem. Even though you know it’s not about you, there are still society’s messages directed at you. Many people will whisper and wonder whether or not you were a good wife or husband and if your spouse cheated because of your deficits not theirs. <br /><br />But, still this pales in comparison to the blow your self-esteem takes whenever you think of the other person. Thinking of the other person and how they were able to lure your spouse away down the rabbit hole really takes the cake in terms of self-esteem destroyers. If you learned about your partner’s infidelity while being quarantined with them, it may be even harder to come to terms with the news. In such close quarters, you may not have been able to grant yourself the physical or mental space you need in order to process the situation. But if there’s one thing I want you to know, it’s that being cheated is never your fault and your value and worth aren’t tied to anyone or anything. With time and patience, healing and loving yourself again are possible, whether that means with your partner in or out of the picture. Listen to this podcast for more inspiration!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1227</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d59216221f536a1ed669a6637b1beadd.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>23. Turn Your Failures Into Goals (Monday Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/23-turn-your-failures-into-goals-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--47648882</link><description><![CDATA[Failures are necessary for success in anything...they are learning opportunities that will propel you to the next stage. Instead of saying "I failed at my marriage", you can say "I had trouble communicating in my marriage and am learning to communicate better now." The first statement is anchored in the past that cannot be changed while the second has an eye to the future and is more empowering of what you can do now. So, switch your mindset from being a victim to a victor.<br />When you feel like a failure, you see yourself as a victim of the past instead of focusing on your resilience and ability to spring back. Try to leave the victim mindset behind and view yourself as a victor after overcoming failures to move on to something bigger and better.<br />Imagine yourself as a young child, full of innocence and beauty. Keep in mind there is no such thing as worthless or failing babies and children. We possess the same worth that we had when we were born.<br />Sometimes we need to look behind the scars and wounds to see that preciousness is still inside of us. No matter how much we fail, our worth remains the same and we are still beautiful.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ca93021b-e0d7-449f-ac65-b6f8544717cf</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2021 05:09:20 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648882/f8ea3c574d47053b67ed996f41b34e11.mp3" length="3159914" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Failures are necessary for success in anything...they are learning opportunities that will propel you to the next stage. Instead of saying "I failed at my marriage", you can say "I had trouble communicating in my marriage and am learning to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Failures are necessary for success in anything...they are learning opportunities that will propel you to the next stage. Instead of saying "I failed at my marriage", you can say "I had trouble communicating in my marriage and am learning to communicate better now." The first statement is anchored in the past that cannot be changed while the second has an eye to the future and is more empowering of what you can do now. So, switch your mindset from being a victim to a victor.<br />When you feel like a failure, you see yourself as a victim of the past instead of focusing on your resilience and ability to spring back. Try to leave the victim mindset behind and view yourself as a victor after overcoming failures to move on to something bigger and better.<br />Imagine yourself as a young child, full of innocence and beauty. Keep in mind there is no such thing as worthless or failing babies and children. We possess the same worth that we had when we were born.<br />Sometimes we need to look behind the scars and wounds to see that preciousness is still inside of us. No matter how much we fail, our worth remains the same and we are still beautiful.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>198</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b1af4babf0024835b19dded0b314d6bb.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>22. People's Opinions of You Are None of Your Business</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/22-people-s-opinions-of-you-are-none-of-your-business--47648898</link><description><![CDATA[“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu. It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted. However, this often leads to people worrying too much about what others are thinking about them. This kind of excessive worrying can have a negative effect on your life. It can be so debilitating that it interferes with your ability to feel at ease with yourself and around others. Do not let it prevent you from living your life to the fullest potential. If you find yourself looking over your shoulder, self-conscious, or fretful about how your actions will look to others, here's some help to stop worrying.<br />In this podcast, I give you some reasons why you should not care about what others think about you.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">65f8b09d-0007-48f8-9f98-0cd779117e82</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2021 11:32:29 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648898/ae6a76456ebd74a39b2f32b1e7134bd0.mp3" length="22243094" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu. It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted. However, this often leads to people worrying too much about what others are thinking about them. This kind of...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu. It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted. However, this often leads to people worrying too much about what others are thinking about them. This kind of excessive worrying can have a negative effect on your life. It can be so debilitating that it interferes with your ability to feel at ease with yourself and around others. Do not let it prevent you from living your life to the fullest potential. If you find yourself looking over your shoulder, self-conscious, or fretful about how your actions will look to others, here's some help to stop worrying.<br />In this podcast, I give you some reasons why you should not care about what others think about you.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1391</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d1810333bb0ef4466f42729e37b47858.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>21. Stop Thinking You're Dumb and Start Being True to Yourself Now</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/21-stop-thinking-you-re-dumb-and-start-being-true-to-yourself-now--47648894</link><description><![CDATA[If you do think from time to time that you’re stupid or not as intelligent as anyone else, listen to this!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">250ac777-aa53-4b81-919d-3a4c4817b4a1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2021 02:16:25 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648894/9b5286a707e3c5cf8e9a0351c5c49b4a.mp3" length="11993899" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>If you do think from time to time that you’re stupid or not as intelligent as anyone else, listen to this!</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you do think from time to time that you’re stupid or not as intelligent as anyone else, listen to this!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>750</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fa86570cb907d7f9383445a217f6b3d3.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>20. I Love Me (Part 2) - Inspiring Little Recipes to Boost Self-Love 💕</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/20-i-love-me-part-2-inspiring-little-recipes-to-boost-self-love--47648888</link><description><![CDATA[Do you say yes when you really mean no? Do you break promises to yourself or neglect your self-care? Is it hard to put yourself first? If so, it’s high-time to give yourself the most important gift ever: Self-Love. Self-love is your secret weapon to living a fulfilling life. That’s because your inner world creates your outer world. Before you can receive love and respect from others, you need to love and respect yourself. When you make decisions out of guilt, a need to please or to avoid conflict, you overvalue the needs of others and disrespect yourself. This conveys—to yourself and those around you—that you accept very little. That doesn’t feel very good, does it? Some people equate self-love with selfishness. But that’s not true. When you think this way, it becomes hard to take good care of yourself. Delete that limiting belief from your mind. Create a new belief that echoes in your ear: “It’s okay to put my needs first.” Repeat often. The good news is when you love yourself fully you feed your soul and become the highest version of yourself. It feels natural to take good care of your body, mind, and spirit. Love begets love so you’re drawn to give to others. You have the energy to give and in turn, giving energizes you. Everyone benefits. As cliché as it sounds, self-love is the gift that keeps on giving. And what’s more important than that? So let's see how we can boost self-love in our lives!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ca216713-2c82-436b-bc2c-7cfe2a2e8f04</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2021 12:43:10 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648888/352f44248a02c0a7f9730ddd9ab191de.mp3" length="17882526" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Do you say yes when you really mean no? Do you break promises to yourself or neglect your self-care? Is it hard to put yourself first? If so, it’s high-time to give yourself the most important gift ever: Self-Love. Self-love is your secret weapon to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you say yes when you really mean no? Do you break promises to yourself or neglect your self-care? Is it hard to put yourself first? If so, it’s high-time to give yourself the most important gift ever: Self-Love. Self-love is your secret weapon to living a fulfilling life. That’s because your inner world creates your outer world. Before you can receive love and respect from others, you need to love and respect yourself. When you make decisions out of guilt, a need to please or to avoid conflict, you overvalue the needs of others and disrespect yourself. This conveys—to yourself and those around you—that you accept very little. That doesn’t feel very good, does it? Some people equate self-love with selfishness. But that’s not true. When you think this way, it becomes hard to take good care of yourself. Delete that limiting belief from your mind. Create a new belief that echoes in your ear: “It’s okay to put my needs first.” Repeat often. The good news is when you love yourself fully you feed your soul and become the highest version of yourself. It feels natural to take good care of your body, mind, and spirit. Love begets love so you’re drawn to give to others. You have the energy to give and in turn, giving energizes you. Everyone benefits. As cliché as it sounds, self-love is the gift that keeps on giving. And what’s more important than that? So let's see how we can boost self-love in our lives!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1118</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5c066603b9f2053dfc7441f4ce712a70.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>19. Pamper Yourself, You Deserve It (Monday Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/19-pamper-yourself-you-deserve-it-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--47648885</link><description><![CDATA[This Monday Get-Up-And-Go message: Be your best suitor. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others treat you. Don't use all your pocket money on little gifts for everyone else... Start including YOURSELF! Don't save your best peptalks for everyone else and shrug your shoulders when you're struggling.<br />You're your lifelong companion, you are your first CHAMPION.<br />You don’t need someone else to come and save you. You can be your own damn hero, your own Santa. Be good to yourself.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">869933a4-d489-46be-b987-28467720a2e6</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2021 02:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648885/1bc190ddf428ef518dc9f97df44400ba.mp3" length="3627610" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This Monday Get-Up-And-Go message: Be your best suitor. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others treat you. Don't use all your pocket money on little gifts for everyone else... Start including YOURSELF! Don't save your best peptalks for...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[This Monday Get-Up-And-Go message: Be your best suitor. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others treat you. Don't use all your pocket money on little gifts for everyone else... Start including YOURSELF! Don't save your best peptalks for everyone else and shrug your shoulders when you're struggling.<br />You're your lifelong companion, you are your first CHAMPION.<br />You don’t need someone else to come and save you. You can be your own damn hero, your own Santa. Be good to yourself.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>227</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b36110e83875879030d96064bfcfc384.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>17. The Art of Taking Care of Yourself (Part 1/10)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/17-the-art-of-taking-care-of-yourself-part-1-10--47648883</link><description><![CDATA[Self-care is something that many people struggle to prioritise. There's a misconception that self-care is selfish, but this could not be further from the truth. Self-care is a crucial part of looking after yourself, as well as others. When you practice self-care you produce positive feelings, which boosts motivation and self-esteem leaving you with increased energy to support yourself as well as your loved ones. Taking care of yourself starts with tending to your own needs. In this series, which will be divided into 10 parts, I'll tell you everything you need to know about the art of caring for yourself!]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">c5431e8d-5db9-4fec-bb2a-5acca73bb1b1</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2021 10:29:33 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648883/213d5b3ad98e9177e68805a68c45b60c.mp3" length="11987212" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Self-care is something that many people struggle to prioritise. There's a misconception that self-care is selfish, but this could not be further from the truth. Self-care is a crucial part of looking after yourself, as well as others. When you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self-care is something that many people struggle to prioritise. There's a misconception that self-care is selfish, but this could not be further from the truth. Self-care is a crucial part of looking after yourself, as well as others. When you practice self-care you produce positive feelings, which boosts motivation and self-esteem leaving you with increased energy to support yourself as well as your loved ones. Taking care of yourself starts with tending to your own needs. In this series, which will be divided into 10 parts, I'll tell you everything you need to know about the art of caring for yourself!]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>749</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/54d588c01f3ac2f06d3ffca47afa3150.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>15. Care For The World By Caring For Yourself (Monday Get-Up-And-Go Podcast)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/15-care-for-the-world-by-caring-for-yourself-monday-get-up-and-go-podcast--47648891</link><description><![CDATA[Why is it so hard for us to take time for ourselves? We tend to put our work, kids, families, and other responsibilities in front of time for ourselves. Putting “me time” on the back burner, is a big part of why we feel overwhelmed, run down, and frazzled. Lack of self-care can make us ill-equipped to handle life’s stressors.<br /><br />People tend to see self-care as a luxury, rather than a priority. There’s this notion that if we take time for ourselves that we are being selfish, or perhaps, self-indulgent – well nothing can be further from the truth. This mentality can contribute to feelings of guilt, (and who needs more of that) thinking that we need to take a break from our lives, to do something that actually makes us feel better.<br /><br />With all the challenges and changes we are facing now with COVID-19, it’s more important than ever to be kind to ourselves and make self-care a priority.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">58da93e9-da89-4202-a83a-3d234845ad43</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2021 02:00:17 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648891/3f9eb74f6e9edcd3a553b7226d65fb38.mp3" length="2686366" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Why is it so hard for us to take time for ourselves? We tend to put our work, kids, families, and other responsibilities in front of time for ourselves. Putting “me time” on the back burner, is a big part of why we feel overwhelmed, run down, and...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is it so hard for us to take time for ourselves? We tend to put our work, kids, families, and other responsibilities in front of time for ourselves. Putting “me time” on the back burner, is a big part of why we feel overwhelmed, run down, and frazzled. Lack of self-care can make us ill-equipped to handle life’s stressors.<br /><br />People tend to see self-care as a luxury, rather than a priority. There’s this notion that if we take time for ourselves that we are being selfish, or perhaps, self-indulgent – well nothing can be further from the truth. This mentality can contribute to feelings of guilt, (and who needs more of that) thinking that we need to take a break from our lives, to do something that actually makes us feel better.<br /><br />With all the challenges and changes we are facing now with COVID-19, it’s more important than ever to be kind to ourselves and make self-care a priority.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>168</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/fbd7143c46183c66e305dcecfb69944c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>14. Qu’est-ce qui est sexy pour vous ? 🤔</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/14-qu-est-ce-qui-est-sexy-pour-vous--47648895</link><description><![CDATA[Soyez sexy pour vous, à votre manière, selon vos critères. Sans essayer de plaire aux autres et en étant en phase avec vous-même. Portez ce qui vous fait plaisir, ce qui vous fait vous sentir vous. Accepte ton super body et sois en phase avec lui. Apprends à l’aimer et à l’assumer super haut et super fort. Alors tu seras au maximum du sexy et de l’acceptation de soi. Tu seras sexy, pour toi.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">45c31d46-ce19-4d0c-a5ff-a56482a71cf4</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2021 19:40:15 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648895/194845663_44100_2_53f7833b6d632.mp3" length="1320498" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Soyez sexy pour vous, à votre manière, selon vos critères. Sans essayer de plaire aux autres et en étant en phase avec vous-même. Portez ce qui vous fait plaisir, ce qui vous fait vous sentir vous. Accepte ton super body et sois en phase avec lui....</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Soyez sexy pour vous, à votre manière, selon vos critères. Sans essayer de plaire aux autres et en étant en phase avec vous-même. Portez ce qui vous fait plaisir, ce qui vous fait vous sentir vous. Accepte ton super body et sois en phase avec lui. Apprends à l’aimer et à l’assumer super haut et super fort. Alors tu seras au maximum du sexy et de l’acceptation de soi. Tu seras sexy, pour toi.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>83</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/90369538ee9a9ac2865aced5f9925d32.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>13. Me-Time - Taking Myself On A Date 😍</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/13-me-time-taking-myself-on-a-date--47648896</link><description><![CDATA[Enjoying life and being successful starts with having a good relationship with ourselves and gifting us some well-deserved tender loving care. But don’t worry; solitude isn’t about being lonely, sad, or having antisocial tendencies. On the contrary, seeking solitude can be pretty healthy. Spending time with yourself, noticing your best parts and weaknesses is actually a chance to see the light within and around as well as move forward to what you really want. Well, in short, spending some “me-time” offers a whole lot of social, physical, and psychological benefits! In this podcast, I’ll tell you why you should sometimes forget about others for a while and remember yourself a little more. Because if you don’t make time for yourself and become your number one priority, believe me, honey, no one else will do that for you! ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">11c9306f-ac88-4cc4-ae7d-703b28c98219</guid><pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2021 06:12:46 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648896/3f000a5d0e28ceaa93539c7b05c3ccd6.mp3" length="17530187" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Enjoying life and being successful starts with having a good relationship with ourselves and gifting us some well-deserved tender loving care. But don’t worry; solitude isn’t about being lonely, sad, or having antisocial tendencies. On the contrary,...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Enjoying life and being successful starts with having a good relationship with ourselves and gifting us some well-deserved tender loving care. But don’t worry; solitude isn’t about being lonely, sad, or having antisocial tendencies. On the contrary, seeking solitude can be pretty healthy. Spending time with yourself, noticing your best parts and weaknesses is actually a chance to see the light within and around as well as move forward to what you really want. Well, in short, spending some “me-time” offers a whole lot of social, physical, and psychological benefits! In this podcast, I’ll tell you why you should sometimes forget about others for a while and remember yourself a little more. Because if you don’t make time for yourself and become your number one priority, believe me, honey, no one else will do that for you! ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1096</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/2102bbd75bb9a659c56b3936c6ae2b9e.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>11. Rendez-vous amoureux avec soi-même : L'importance de passer du temps avec soi-même 😍</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/11-rendez-vous-amoureux-avec-soi-meme-l-importance-de-passer-du-temps-avec-soi-meme--47648892</link><description><![CDATA[Dans cet épisode, je te parle à quel point c’est important de passer du temps seule avec soi-même. Non seulement c’est nécessaire pour se connecter avec soi, mais surtout pour apprendre à se connaître de plus en plus.<br />Si on ne se connait pas, comment peut-on créer des connections profondes avec les autres? <br />Apprendre à se connaître est l’un des meilleurs cadeaux qu’on peut se faire. Si on apprend comment on réagit et qui on est, on peut travailler là-dessus.<br />L’important, c’est d’ÊTRE. Qui veux-tu être toi?]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ffa85f81-0a40-4a6a-ae56-5a3a2b518a96</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2021 21:13:35 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648892/5aa191466eb9492c3bedbb1e8715234a.mp3" length="8757223" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dans cet épisode, je te parle à quel point c’est important de passer du temps seule avec soi-même. Non seulement c’est nécessaire pour se connecter avec soi, mais surtout pour apprendre à se connaître de plus en plus.
Si on ne se connait pas, comment...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dans cet épisode, je te parle à quel point c’est important de passer du temps seule avec soi-même. Non seulement c’est nécessaire pour se connecter avec soi, mais surtout pour apprendre à se connaître de plus en plus.<br />Si on ne se connait pas, comment peut-on créer des connections profondes avec les autres? <br />Apprendre à se connaître est l’un des meilleurs cadeaux qu’on peut se faire. Si on apprend comment on réagit et qui on est, on peut travailler là-dessus.<br />L’important, c’est d’ÊTRE. Qui veux-tu être toi?]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>548</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/57474d5c8300bf2c56387ee83e48c59c.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>10. The Art of Being Kind to Yourself</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/10-the-art-of-being-kind-to-yourself--47648902</link><description><![CDATA[What does kindness mean to you? Giving a homeless person a dollar? Letting your partner have the last bite of cheesecake? Showing up at your best friend’s apartment armed with saltine crackers, chicken soup, and a week’s worth of their favorite rom-coms when she is quarantined with a stomach bug?<br /><br />BUT WHAT ABOUT BEING KIND TO OURSELVES?<br />😊 I associated kindness with all the above. It wasn’t until I stopped and became aware of my thoughts that I realized that all of those circumstances focus on being kind to others, and not myself.<br /><br />In a society that deems selflessness as the ultimate form of kindness, we often allow our personal well-being to suffer in order to put others needs before our own. But in reality, taking care of ourselves is being responsible, not selfish. Practicing self-kindness is an essential expression of self-love, one that is so often overlooked, or even forgotten entirely. Allowing kindness to cultivate within ourselves will also allow us to easily and genuinely extend this kindness out to others. ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d7fd164f-0c6f-4cf2-b438-23958f954481</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2021 13:11:38 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648902/132479cf8fc9f445808296531e3258e0.mp3" length="14341994" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>What does kindness mean to you? Giving a homeless person a dollar? Letting your partner have the last bite of cheesecake? Showing up at your best friend’s apartment armed with saltine crackers, chicken soup, and a week’s worth of their favorite...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does kindness mean to you? Giving a homeless person a dollar? Letting your partner have the last bite of cheesecake? Showing up at your best friend’s apartment armed with saltine crackers, chicken soup, and a week’s worth of their favorite rom-coms when she is quarantined with a stomach bug?<br /><br />BUT WHAT ABOUT BEING KIND TO OURSELVES?<br />😊 I associated kindness with all the above. It wasn’t until I stopped and became aware of my thoughts that I realized that all of those circumstances focus on being kind to others, and not myself.<br /><br />In a society that deems selflessness as the ultimate form of kindness, we often allow our personal well-being to suffer in order to put others needs before our own. But in reality, taking care of ourselves is being responsible, not selfish. Practicing self-kindness is an essential expression of self-love, one that is so often overlooked, or even forgotten entirely. Allowing kindness to cultivate within ourselves will also allow us to easily and genuinely extend this kindness out to others. ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>897</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/13a5f0d01546fd1c34d4d73dec448741.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>8. You're Sexy and You Know It: Être sexy pour soi-même ❤️</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/8-you-re-sexy-and-you-know-it-etre-sexy-pour-soi-meme--47648893</link><description><![CDATA[Nous avons tous des idées bien définies de ce qui est sexy. Souvent, ces idées ont été façonnées par notre milieu et notre culture, ainsi que par les images de femmes prétendument idéales qui nous entourent depuis des décennies. Malheureusement, ces images ne sont pas très inclusives et l’éventail en termes de couleur, de sexe et de type de corps est plutôt minime.<br /><br />Ne laissez pas cela vous déranger. Reprenez le pouvoir et définissez ce que signifie pour vous le fait d’être sexy. Personne ne peut vous dire que vous n’êtes pas sexy et ce n’est pas du tout pertinent. Ce qui compte, c’est que vous vous sentiez bien dans votre peau. Laissez donc aller votre pouvoir féminin, permettez-vous de vous sentir sexy et vous remarquerez que vous serez beaucoup plus confiante dans la vie. You’re sexy and you know it! ❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ff7f8e64-97f2-4b61-aa2e-71e47ae57dd9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2021 15:55:45 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648893/94ae28c044b41df5815b79c052894a14.mp3" length="7822667" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nous avons tous des idées bien définies de ce qui est sexy. Souvent, ces idées ont été façonnées par notre milieu et notre culture, ainsi que par les images de femmes prétendument idéales qui nous entourent depuis des décennies. Malheureusement, ces...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nous avons tous des idées bien définies de ce qui est sexy. Souvent, ces idées ont été façonnées par notre milieu et notre culture, ainsi que par les images de femmes prétendument idéales qui nous entourent depuis des décennies. Malheureusement, ces images ne sont pas très inclusives et l’éventail en termes de couleur, de sexe et de type de corps est plutôt minime.<br /><br />Ne laissez pas cela vous déranger. Reprenez le pouvoir et définissez ce que signifie pour vous le fait d’être sexy. Personne ne peut vous dire que vous n’êtes pas sexy et ce n’est pas du tout pertinent. Ce qui compte, c’est que vous vous sentiez bien dans votre peau. Laissez donc aller votre pouvoir féminin, permettez-vous de vous sentir sexy et vous remarquerez que vous serez beaucoup plus confiante dans la vie. You’re sexy and you know it! ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>489</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/5068258cdce541420f3008d929d1da96.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>7. 22 Signs of a Toxic and Fake Friend 🧐</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/7-22-signs-of-a-toxic-and-fake-friend--47648901</link><description><![CDATA[Human lives are based on social connections. Friends are like a lifeline for us. We can share our happiness and sorrow with our friends. Friends can make us happy. They will support us whenever we are feeling low. Some friends act like they are your true friends but they are not interested in friendship. They only want to take benefit from you. These kinds of people are toxic and they will leave you when you need them the most. We call these people fake friends. It is really hard to spot this kind of person. Here are 22 fake friends signs that you can use to spot fake and toxic friends.😉 French Version available too.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">ef9165e7-4868-4de9-b425-2a6c986dab06</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2021 11:37:51 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648901/4bd6650101920f02f919b60276de5f29.mp3" length="19996146" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Human lives are based on social connections. Friends are like a lifeline for us. We can share our happiness and sorrow with our friends. Friends can make us happy. They will support us whenever we are feeling low. Some friends act like they are your...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Human lives are based on social connections. Friends are like a lifeline for us. We can share our happiness and sorrow with our friends. Friends can make us happy. They will support us whenever we are feeling low. Some friends act like they are your true friends but they are not interested in friendship. They only want to take benefit from you. These kinds of people are toxic and they will leave you when you need them the most. We call these people fake friends. It is really hard to spot this kind of person. Here are 22 fake friends signs that you can use to spot fake and toxic friends.😉 French Version available too.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1250</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/0917ac98aec7c2b7ba16992ca62000d1.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>6. Je m'aime ❤️ (2ème Partie)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/6-je-m-aime-2eme-partie--47648905</link><description><![CDATA[S'aimer soi-même est le début d'une histoire d'amour qui dure toute la vie. Ne pensez-vous pas que si plus de gens s’aimaient eux-mêmes, notre monde se porterait bien mieux ? 🤔 L’amour de soi n’a rien d’égocentrique ou d’égoïste. D’ailleurs, ça n’a rien à voir avec l’égo tout court ! Pour moi, l’amour de soi, c’est un truc plus profond, un truc qui vient de l’âme et du coeur. C’est un process animé par l’amour et non la peur. S’aimer soi, c’est s’apaiser, se respecter, s’écouter. C’est prendre soin de cette enveloppe corporelle, mais aussi de ce qu’elle renferme de plus précieux. Parfois, il m’arrive de repenser à toutes ces fois où je me suis détestée, critiquée et traitée comme de la 💩 et je me dis wahouuu toute cette énergie dépensée à me battre contre moi-même alors qu’en réalité j’étais la personne dont j’avais le plus besoin ! ❤️❤️❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">8abfd6cd-d419-407f-85a9-f5a1d71373e2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 19:37:43 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648905/ce3adf344fff1de423c2ea176abdb8d6.mp3" length="11406249" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>S'aimer soi-même est le début d'une histoire d'amour qui dure toute la vie. Ne pensez-vous pas que si plus de gens s’aimaient eux-mêmes, notre monde se porterait bien mieux ? 🤔 L’amour de soi n’a rien d’égocentrique ou d’égoïste. D’ailleurs, ça n’a...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[S'aimer soi-même est le début d'une histoire d'amour qui dure toute la vie. Ne pensez-vous pas que si plus de gens s’aimaient eux-mêmes, notre monde se porterait bien mieux ? 🤔 L’amour de soi n’a rien d’égocentrique ou d’égoïste. D’ailleurs, ça n’a rien à voir avec l’égo tout court ! Pour moi, l’amour de soi, c’est un truc plus profond, un truc qui vient de l’âme et du coeur. C’est un process animé par l’amour et non la peur. S’aimer soi, c’est s’apaiser, se respecter, s’écouter. C’est prendre soin de cette enveloppe corporelle, mais aussi de ce qu’elle renferme de plus précieux. Parfois, il m’arrive de repenser à toutes ces fois où je me suis détestée, critiquée et traitée comme de la 💩 et je me dis wahouuu toute cette énergie dépensée à me battre contre moi-même alors qu’en réalité j’étais la personne dont j’avais le plus besoin ! ❤️❤️❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>713</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c34401cd7a802c6a289f65870450e9d7.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>3. Comment détecter une personne toxique ? 🤔</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/3-comment-detecter-une-personne-toxique--47648897</link><description><![CDATA[Certaines personnes possèdent un pouvoir de nuisance. Le simple fait de se trouver dans leur entourage a des répercussions sur votre santé et votre moral. Qu’il s’agisse de collègues, de proches, d’hommes ou de soi-disant amis, vous vous sentez dévalorisé, critiqué lorsque vous êtes en leur compagnie, vous devenez agressif, déprimé, vous vous sentez complètement épuisé comme si on vous avait vidé de toute votre énergie. Et s’il s’agissait de relations toxiques ? Les personnes toxiques ont une fâcheuse tendance à « vampiriser » les autres en les amoindrissant et les blessant. Mais comment reconnaître ces « amis qui ne vous veulent pas du bien » et surtout vous en prémunir ? 🤔]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4d2ed5aa-1b89-4f83-9ec9-73efb211e9c2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 09:31:59 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648897/294ca2791aef5e568b6c0f927e2fec5c.mp3" length="22655620" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Certaines personnes possèdent un pouvoir de nuisance. Le simple fait de se trouver dans leur entourage a des répercussions sur votre santé et votre moral. Qu’il s’agisse de collègues, de proches, d’hommes ou de soi-disant amis, vous vous sentez...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Certaines personnes possèdent un pouvoir de nuisance. Le simple fait de se trouver dans leur entourage a des répercussions sur votre santé et votre moral. Qu’il s’agisse de collègues, de proches, d’hommes ou de soi-disant amis, vous vous sentez dévalorisé, critiqué lorsque vous êtes en leur compagnie, vous devenez agressif, déprimé, vous vous sentez complètement épuisé comme si on vous avait vidé de toute votre énergie. Et s’il s’agissait de relations toxiques ? Les personnes toxiques ont une fâcheuse tendance à « vampiriser » les autres en les amoindrissant et les blessant. Mais comment reconnaître ces « amis qui ne vous veulent pas du bien » et surtout vous en prémunir ? 🤔]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>1416</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7ad4cdacfe781dbbb3b27362baf259f0.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>2. Je m'aime ❤️ (1ère Partie)</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/2-je-m-aime-1ere-partie--47648904</link><description><![CDATA[Nous grandissons en sachant que l’égoïsme est une mauvaise chose. Attendre son tour, ne pas penser seulement à soi, laisser passer les autres avant soi. Malheureusement, on considère encore trop souvent aujourd’hui l’amour de soi comme synonyme d’égoïsme. Une raison pour laquelle vous devez faire ce qui vous plaît, mais aussi une excuse pour dire que c’est de l’amour de soi. Cependant, l’amour de soi va beaucoup plus loin. Il ne s’agit pas de faire ce que l’on a envie de faire, mais d’aimer, d’apprécier et de s’accepter soi-même. Tout ce qui concerne votre personne et dans n’importe quelles circonstances. L’amour de soi est de savoir que vous avez le droit d’être la personne que vous êtes et que vous êtes à la hauteur. S’aimer soi-même et embrasser ses bonnes et mauvaises qualités. ❤️❤️❤️]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">804237eb-d3dc-4d8a-9824-ebd5958e3c98</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2021 20:14:26 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648904/ead133af787f3c190aff4f1a145659fc.mp3" length="9050213" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Nous grandissons en sachant que l’égoïsme est une mauvaise chose. Attendre son tour, ne pas penser seulement à soi, laisser passer les autres avant soi. Malheureusement, on considère encore trop souvent aujourd’hui l’amour de soi comme synonyme...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nous grandissons en sachant que l’égoïsme est une mauvaise chose. Attendre son tour, ne pas penser seulement à soi, laisser passer les autres avant soi. Malheureusement, on considère encore trop souvent aujourd’hui l’amour de soi comme synonyme d’égoïsme. Une raison pour laquelle vous devez faire ce qui vous plaît, mais aussi une excuse pour dire que c’est de l’amour de soi. Cependant, l’amour de soi va beaucoup plus loin. Il ne s’agit pas de faire ce que l’on a envie de faire, mais d’aimer, d’apprécier et de s’accepter soi-même. Tout ce qui concerne votre personne et dans n’importe quelles circonstances. L’amour de soi est de savoir que vous avez le droit d’être la personne que vous êtes et que vous êtes à la hauteur. S’aimer soi-même et embrasser ses bonnes et mauvaises qualités. ❤️❤️❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>566</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7adf378c1a13696b8a3697865e1441c9.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>1. I Love Me (Part 1) - The Secrets to Loving Yourself 💕</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/1-i-love-me-part-1-the-secrets-to-loving-yourself--47648906</link><description><![CDATA[It’s no secret that we’re all wondering if we’re smart enough and whether people genuinely enjoy our company and like us. We’re all scared about our futures. But enough of not feeling good enough! It’s high time to rectify this feeling and bid farewell to self-doubt, a feeling that does nothing but brings you down all the time! It’s time to strengthen your self-esteem because you deserve to feel capable, confident, and accepted every day. Everyone’s journey is different, and no one, I repeat, NO ONE, has the right to judge you because no one has been in your shoes or situation. Nobody knows what you’ve been or going through. Even the people forming opinions about you have there own set of problems and insecurities! These judgmental folks certainly don’t deserve your time, attention, and energy!<br /><br />Of course, confidence ain’t something we’re all born with! It can take a while to power past all these insecurities and be able to take control of our lives! But we can all feel a lot better and learn to love each other. All it takes is learning how to do it the right way! So, why wait another day? Apply these steps today and live a brighter life! 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It’s time to strengthen your self-esteem because you deserve to feel capable, confident, and accepted every day. Everyone’s journey is different, and no one, I repeat, NO ONE, has the right to judge you because no one has been in your shoes or situation. Nobody knows what you’ve been or going through. Even the people forming opinions about you have there own set of problems and insecurities! These judgmental folks certainly don’t deserve your time, attention, and energy!<br /><br />Of course, confidence ain’t something we’re all born with! It can take a while to power past all these insecurities and be able to take control of our lives! But we can all feel a lot better and learn to love each other. All it takes is learning how to do it the right way! So, why wait another day? Apply these steps today and live a brighter life! Stay tuned for the second part! ❤️]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>660</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/d216786b178da5f6c6e7c4f84cf299d4.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Welcome to The Bubbly Bibi's Corner ❤️</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/welcome-to-the-bubbly-bibi-s-corner--47648900</link><description><![CDATA[Welcome to The Bubbly Bibi's corner, a podcast dedicated to boost up your self-confidence & make you feel better about yourself! In my podcasts, I'll share some of the coolest secrets on how to love yourself...how to feel more confident in your skin and unleash your personal power! I'll also share some of my personal experiences, struggles and tips! So wherever you are, whether you're in your car, on the treadmill or cycle, I hope you genuinely enjoy the show and that at the end of each episode, you'll be a little bit more kind to yourself! Remember, if you don't love and cherish yourself, who will? Thanks for joining me! 😘💕🙏]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">fcba3e5f-1ca4-4daf-a6f7-7008c2253234</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2021 14:58:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47648900/170671448_44100_2_d54f5b986bc58.mp3" length="883730" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>Nazia Keenoo</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Welcome to The Bubbly Bibi's corner, a podcast dedicated to boost up your self-confidence &amp; make you feel better about yourself! In my podcasts, I'll share some of the coolest secrets on how to love yourself...how to feel more confident in your skin...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to The Bubbly Bibi's corner, a podcast dedicated to boost up your self-confidence & make you feel better about yourself! In my podcasts, I'll share some of the coolest secrets on how to love yourself...how to feel more confident in your skin and unleash your personal power! I'll also share some of my personal experiences, struggles and tips! So wherever you are, whether you're in your car, on the treadmill or cycle, I hope you genuinely enjoy the show and that at the end of each episode, you'll be a little bit more kind to yourself! Remember, if you don't love and cherish yourself, who will? Thanks for joining me! 😘💕🙏]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>56</itunes:duration><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/c6b59af6eb162f94a65577cffe256f33.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
