http://www.dorothyholder.comenRelationshipsCopyright dorothy holderhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8ade74f741c5325e2f1b7e6a703e68c1.jpghttp://www.dorothyholder.comMon, 06 Apr 2026 21:30:08 +0000dorothy holderdorothy holderdorothyholder@pm.meA show where any topic is up for grabs including most importantly the relationships we have with current events, are we too attached to what goes on in the world or even in our community? Our lives revolve around the relationships we have, romance,...falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-talk-we-need-to-discuss-things--71140353https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71140353Mon, 06 Apr 2026 21:27:07 +0000dorothy holderIs this a toxic trait? Quite possibly. Self determination starts with Self Realization.1762communication,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-asking-the-right-questions--70859239https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70859239Tue, 24 Mar 2026 21:32:04 +0000dorothy holderSeeking answers can be frustrating if you don't know how to learn what you need to know.1709conflict,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/valentines-special--70022514https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70022514Thu, 12 Feb 2026 20:40:28 +0000dorothy holderLonger term relationships, gift expectations and more for Valentines day. Building better relationships.1746love,marriage,partnerships,romance,valentinesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/getting-past-the-cheating-is-that-a-thing--68394114https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68394114Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:32:42 +0000dorothy holderDo you get over or get past deep hurt, betrayal and humiliation? Probably not.1830cheating,divorce,infidelity,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/inspired-relationships--68123714https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68123714Mon, 13 Oct 2025 20:40:14 +0000dorothy holderCreativity comes from being prepared to recognize how you impact those around you. Do you inspire another person to be committed and caring? Do you inspire anger or jealousy? Are you inspired to be either or both? Relationship dynamics are varied, are...1889abuse,divorse,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/who-s-fault-is-infidelity--67995492https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67995492Fri, 10 Oct 2025 04:55:07 +0000dorothy holderWhen therapists speak therapy for couples too often they are suggesting sessions to 'get past' trust issues due to infidelity and relationship issues that contributed, but is this really fair?1718divorce,infidelity,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-you-talk-to-others-about-your-relationship-problems--67933477https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67933477Sat, 04 Oct 2025 13:20:07 +0000dorothy holderSometimes you need help but knowing what kind of help and where to get it can be the difference between creating potential and nailing down the ending.1831communication,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-ready-for-a-relationship--67915957https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67915957Sat, 27 Sep 2025 00:23:34 +0000dorothy holderRegardless of the past you get to take yourself into your future, who else are you dragging along with you?1797divorce,healing,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/infidelity-the-blame-game--67786694https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67786694Tue, 16 Sep 2025 23:11:51 +0000dorothy holderWho really is responsible for an affair? Is couples therapy needed to heal? Let's find out.1700affair,divorce,infidelity,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ghosting-is-it-really-as-important-as-all-that--67499399https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67499399Sun, 24 Aug 2025 23:25:58 +0000dorothy holderIt is pretty hard to ghost people you know and love, even harder if not impossible to ghost people you work with every day. What we used to call ignoring has become something of a needy response or statement of anger in the minds of many. Yet,, we do...1768friendships,ghosting,ignoring,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/boundaries-and-enabling-sheesh--66992133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66992133Wed, 16 Jul 2025 03:45:18 +0000dorothy holderThe things we get ourselves into are largely consensual. What do you consent to and what impact can it have?1944boundaries,divorce,enabling,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/transactional-relationships--66359805https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66359805Mon, 09 Jun 2025 02:48:07 +0000dorothy holderThese are just not straightforward ideas but complex dynamics that you may not be aware you are engaged in. It may surprise you to know that they aren't all good and they aren't all bad.1534falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-you-confront-a-cheater--66317133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66317133Wed, 28 May 2025 18:58:15 +0000dorothy holderShould you confront a cheater? How do you respond when you find intimate texts on your partner's phone?2121falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-conversations-about-past-relationships--66176769https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66176769Wed, 28 May 2025 14:30:07 +0000dorothy holderWhen meeting someone new this is a normal topic for conversation, it is better had sooner rather than later.1729dating,exes,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/no-contact--66287846https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66287846Mon, 26 May 2025 23:20:38 +0000dorothy holderYou think it would be self explanatory but many seem to struggle with the idea of no contact1813falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/attraction-while-married-what-to-do--66176431https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66176431Fri, 23 May 2025 02:00:07 +0000dorothy holderConfusion in marriage can happen when attractions strikes can come from misplacing what it is and why you are exposed to it. A bigger mistake is assuming this never happens to your partner.1868affairs,attraction,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-i-stay-with-my-cheating-narcisist-partner--66046062https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66046062Fri, 16 May 2025 02:35:07 +0000dorothy holderA great question, tonight we look at how to find the answer.1840breakups,cheating,divorce,infidelity,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-trustworthy-v-trusting--66006289https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66006289Thu, 08 May 2025 22:50:44 +0000dorothy holderThe often missed part of all successful relationships whether business, friendship or romantic is trust. Many things can happen but there is a line in the sand where trust is concerned and once broken, feelings never really go back to what they were...1926divorce,friendships,love,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lying-is-the-biggest-betrayal-of-all--65774829https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65774829Mon, 28 Apr 2025 04:20:09 +0000dorothy holderDishonesty and planning bad behaviours is humiliating for partners. This and not intimacy is often what leads to trust issues in life.1753betrayal,divorce,infidelity,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/forgiveness-isn-t-a-feeling--65410407https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65410407Mon, 07 Apr 2025 20:44:21 +0000dorothy holderLearning about another person's character, their weakness or their willingness to damage you is valuable information. You wouldn't trust a person to stand behind you with a knife if you knew they were the type to stab you in the back.1848betrayal,divorce,forgiveness,infidelity,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/betrayal-infidelity--65240320https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65240320Sun, 30 Mar 2025 22:57:17 +0000dorothy holderHow does past betrayal or infidelity affect how you see future relationships? Is it reasonable caution or unreasonable fear? Are you equipped to have a trusting relationship with another person?2003betrayal,divorce,infidelity,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trauma--64663180https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64663180Tue, 11 Mar 2025 22:05:06 +0000dorothy holderCatastrophizing is a common thing to do as is playing the victim. It will lead to painful and toxic relationships, learn to recognize it early and save yourself time. If you are the one doing it, have a listen and find ways to create relationships...1842bonding,divorce,relationships,trauma,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trust-issues--64610979https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64610979Thu, 27 Feb 2025 20:24:45 +0000dorothy holderVictim statements are pretty common when starting relationships or even in one's thought processes when thinking about the. Is it really your job to deal with someone elses issues? Is it their life purpose to deal with yours?1735cheating,relationships,traumabonding,trust,victimfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-overinvested-in-relationships--64273529https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64273529Fri, 14 Feb 2025 00:25:07 +0000dorothy holderToday Dorothy discusses fear of rejection and becoming overinvested in non existent relationships.2014longdistancerelationships,love,onlinedating,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/looking-for-red-flags-is-necessary-for-positive-experiences--64239021https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64239021Fri, 07 Feb 2025 02:15:41 +0000dorothy holdermessaging and texting, emailing and online calling all leave you without the tools to determine a persons character and even whether you are safe. It is up to the other person to prove they are trustworthy over time it isn't up to you to trust a stranger1844ldr,messaging,onlinerelationships,redflags,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/confronting-a-spouse-about-infidelity--63117873https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63117873Tue, 03 Dec 2024 03:03:05 +0000dorothy holderNever a great time but should it be a confrontation? Know what you intend, what you will do and where you will take things next.1929cheating,divorce,infidelity,marriage,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/closure-is-a-state-of-mind--63004359https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63004359Mon, 25 Nov 2024 18:55:30 +0000dorothy holderGaining closure comes from accepting where you are, how things are and how you got where you are.2086breakups,closure,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-are-the-common-denominator-in-your-relationships--62646237https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62646237Wed, 06 Nov 2024 23:17:15 +0000dorothy holderHaving a bad run in relationships or struggling to find common ground or happiness in your marriage? Maybe you are part of the problem or the common ground is the problem.1864divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gaslighting-and-catasrophizing--62466341https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62466341Sun, 27 Oct 2024 19:25:01 +0000dorothy holderGaslighting isn't a casual experience in an argument. Catasrophizing is exagerrating to get attention. If you want to build solid relationships know what these two things are and reframe how you think and speak to partners and those who care about...1929divorce,gaslighting,marriage,narcissist,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-bonds-of-trust-through-caring--62431720https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62431720Sun, 20 Oct 2024 22:55:59 +0000dorothy holderCommunication is a big issue in many relationships, today Dorothy has a look at why and what you can do about it.1860communication,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-talk-commitment--62262369https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62262369Sun, 06 Oct 2024 22:36:09 +0000dorothy holderIf you haven't had the conversation, you haven't got the agreement, contract or intention. Take that to the bank.1963commitment,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/those-difficult-questions-that-keep-popping-up--62188734https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62188734Wed, 02 Oct 2024 02:00:37 +0000dorothy holderToxicity, ex's cheaters and more, seeing the signs and knowing what to do.1914cheating,divorce,love,marriage,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/toxic-traits--61766063https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61766063Sun, 22 Sep 2024 02:35:02 +0000dorothy holderThese can ruin any relationship, we notice them in others but maybe don't respond effectively at the outset to ensure they aren't used on us or by us. Recognizing them in yourself is vital if you want healthy relationships.1847divorce,relationships,romance,toxic,traitsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ex-etiquette--61761928https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61761928Sun, 15 Sep 2024 21:50:37 +0000dorothy holderWhat is appropriate and what is not?1764breakups,dating,divorce,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/exes-and-kids-shouldnt-be-a-problem--61131524https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61131524Fri, 23 Aug 2024 21:53:24 +0000dorothy holderA lot of feelings come into play when a relationship breaks down. When kids are involved it requires more adulting and less ME..1890children,divorce,ex,marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-love-v-trust--60975817https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60975817Wed, 14 Aug 2024 00:55:02 +0000dorothy holderWhen life changes so do relationships, are you ready to build a trust bond or are you still seeking the excitement of beginnings.1459divorce,love,marriage,relationship,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/to-block-unfriend-or-ghost--60806080https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60806080Tue, 06 Aug 2024 21:55:01 +0000dorothy holderThere are good reasons to manage social media connections when it comes to exes and ex friends or even family.1863blocking,divorce,ghosting,relationships,socialmediafalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-i-handle-my-fwb--60760244https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60760244Tue, 30 Jul 2024 23:25:01 +0000dorothy holderMisunderstanding relationship dynamics can lead to a world of pain. Trusting yourself comes with experience and knowing what you are getting yourself into and consciously agreeing to the terms.1897dating,fwb,romance,sexualityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-they-really-love-you--60702834https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60702834Fri, 26 Jul 2024 04:20:02 +0000dorothy holdermisconceptions over what love is tends to cause a lot of problems. Saying i love you means nothing at all.. how do you show it and how do you receive it?1722divorce,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/spot-that-narcissist--60693076https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60693076Sat, 20 Jul 2024 02:05:01 +0000dorothy holderThere are two sides to every equation, if you aren't the narc, who are you in that relationship? To spot a narc you need a clear perspective1789dating,divorce,marriage,narcissist,survivingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/forgiveness-of-self--60627316https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60627316Fri, 12 Jul 2024 00:31:10 +0000dorothy holderWhen do you need to explore forgiving yourself? It really isn't about you being a victim. Self Forgiveness starts with recognizing your own behaviours and how they might impact others via knowing how you would feel.1917divorce,forgivenss,guilt,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/red-flags-have-nuance--60596835https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60596835Thu, 04 Jul 2024 05:37:13 +0000dorothy holderit is a bit easy to get caught up in a transgression or target an area of dissatisfaction, but before something difficult happens there are a number of warnings that indicate the other person may not be caring about you.1752dating,divorce,marriage,redflags,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/asking-for-forgiveness-isn-t-acceptable--60543325https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60543325Fri, 28 Jun 2024 22:23:59 +0000dorothy holderWhen someone asks to be forgiven they are asking for a free pass. There is a difference between offering forgiveness, to being asked for it.1894cheaters,divorce,forgiveness,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/forgiveness-when-you-are-ready-to--60543149https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60543149Fri, 28 Jun 2024 21:51:21 +0000dorothy holderForgiveness of past events isn't a free pass, it is understanding that being angry or victimized is of no benefit when trying to live a peaceful life.2108abuse,forgiveness,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ex-s-betrayals-and-authenticity--60447748https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60447748Thu, 20 Jun 2024 10:05:40 +0000dorothy holderthere are people who want what they want at your expense but how do you recognize them and what is your role in being decieved?1945betrayal,cheaters,divorce,love,marriagefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-rejection--60280228https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60280228Wed, 12 Jun 2024 02:15:02 +0000dorothy holderhow you manage rejections small and large determines how resilient you are, how long it takes you to accept current circumstances and how capable you are of having healthy relationships in any area of your life.1904love,marriage,rejection,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-little-honesty-pleeeeze--60270544https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60270544Tue, 04 Jun 2024 05:13:07 +0000dorothy holderwhen you lie to yourself it is reflected in everything you do, your attitude and your outcomes. Call it Karma if you must but bonding with others and making good choices can only happen when you are honest about your motivations.1718divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/after-the-betrayal--59062756https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59062756Tue, 16 Apr 2024 00:25:01 +0000dorothy holderWho gets to do the heavy lifting after a betrayal?1826betrayal,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/minor-adjustments-have-a-big-effect--58992361https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58992361Fri, 29 Mar 2024 22:00:02 +0000dorothy holderAll or nothing isn't a working model in relationships making changes in ourselves can bring great rewards over time.1804conflict,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trying-to-control-others-is-self-defeating--58966004https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58966004Wed, 27 Mar 2024 00:05:02 +0000dorothy holderBy the time you get to ultimatums the game is already lost.1915breakups,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/break-ups-and-make-ups--58965379https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58965379Wed, 20 Mar 2024 23:30:01 +0000dorothy holderOn and off relationships are emotionally distressing, not accepting where you are at can be anxiety provoking.1855breakups,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-takers--59062410https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59062410Fri, 15 Mar 2024 22:33:46 +0000dorothy holderA person who isn't offering something positive into a potential or newer relationship will seek others to enable their status, usually a vicitm status. Be alert to this and create better relationships.2012divorce,healing,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/arguing-about-money--59023114https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59023114Tue, 12 Mar 2024 20:26:16 +0000dorothy holderThe two top reported causes of relationship breakdowns are money and communication. Maybe someone is being unreasonable but there are plenty of ways to deal with it as a couple without fighting.2326arguments,divorce,marriage,moneyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/committing-to-goals-relationships-the-future--58992599https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58992599Sun, 10 Mar 2024 21:57:53 +0000dorothy holderIt is easy to let things go but if feeling frustrated or generally unhappy it isn't the wisest way to go about things.1850commitment,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-language-of-endings--58963060https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58963060Thu, 07 Mar 2024 20:24:55 +0000dorothy holderYou may think you are a good listener but in relationships too often we hear what we want to hear and miss the important bits.1970breakups,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/anger-a-recipe-for-disaster--58949074https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58949074Wed, 06 Mar 2024 19:36:39 +0000dorothy holderYou or your partner have made a choice and one of you is angry about that. Do you have the right to be angry, do they? Maybe not...1905anger,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/veto-rights-in-partnerships--58912536https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58912536Mon, 04 Mar 2024 01:53:51 +0000dorothy holderDo you have the right to say no to your partners aspirations and hold back their ambitions? Do they have the authority to say no to yours?2047communication,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-negotiation--58880530https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58880530Thu, 29 Feb 2024 21:11:02 +0000dorothy holderWhether in personal or business relationships when you want to discuss use of resources or time it is a negotiation you aren't asking for permission.1802arguments,divorce,marriage,negotiating,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-we-get-into-toxic-relationships--58338779https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58338779Tue, 23 Jan 2024 01:35:01 +0000dorothy holdermore to the point, why do we stay in them?1963narcissist,relationships,toxic,traumafalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/seeing-the-signs--58312257https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58312257Tue, 16 Jan 2024 01:05:02 +0000dorothy holderWhen we don't address issues early with a view to having healthier relationships we end up expressing our displeasure and sometimes it is all that gets expressed.1797divorce,love,redflags,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-language-of-breaking-up--58226064https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58226064Mon, 08 Jan 2024 01:35:02 +0000dorothy holderWhen someone let's you down gently it doesn't mean they want more.1872breakups,divorce,ex,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-language-of-self-talk--58151038https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58151038Sun, 07 Jan 2024 01:30:02 +0000dorothy holderWe all understand the principle but do we really pay enough attention to how we wind ourselves up?1767communication,effectivecommunication,lateshow,relationships,selftalkfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/triggers-and-consequences--58150408https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58150408Fri, 29 Dec 2023 22:06:24 +0000dorothy holderTalking about triggers is to externalize blame.1960anger,blaming,reacting,relationships,triggersfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/needy-v-supportive--58041250https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58041250Mon, 18 Dec 2023 00:48:20 +0000dorothy holderDo you know the difference?1901dating,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-triangles--57968949https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57968949Mon, 11 Dec 2023 01:05:11 +0000dorothy holderA recipe for disaster whether you are inviting in the other party or your partner is.1818divorce,exes,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-empowered--57718551https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57718551Mon, 20 Nov 2023 00:37:06 +0000dorothy holderWhat is empowerment and where do you get it from.313development,empowerment,relationships,spiritualityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/whose-at-fault--57608490https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57608490Mon, 13 Nov 2023 01:40:13 +0000dorothy holderblaming can be a never ending story that leads to breakdowns but is your partner really responsible for your experience of life? Let's find out.1879divorce,love,marriage,relationship,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/second-time-around--57436806https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57436806Mon, 30 Oct 2023 01:32:53 +0000dorothy holderAfter a failure in marriage or defacto what next? Do you trust again? Do you try to recapture your past? Do you become defensive? How do you trust again?1973defacto,divorce,marriage,relationships,separationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/therapy-to-save-a-relationship--57244622https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57244622Mon, 16 Oct 2023 00:55:06 +0000dorothy holderWhen you don't know what to do when a relationship is in trouble, what are the options? if your partner doesn''t want to go to relationship counselling does that mean they don't want to repair the relationship?2059counselling,divorce,marriage.,relationships,therapyfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jealous-partners--57157581https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57157581Mon, 09 Oct 2023 00:55:51 +0000dorothy holderDealing with a jealous partners takes some finesse and before you consign them to the problem basket there are a few things you can check in on first.1937arguments,divorce,jealousy,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/negative-social-media-influences--57020377https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57020377Mon, 02 Oct 2023 00:59:29 +0000dorothy holderAre you equipped to inspire caring and love in others or even another? Negative thinking finds others who think the same and can taint your ability to think clearly. Live 9pm Sundays EST/ 2pm Monday NZDT1981negativethinking,relationships,romance,socialmedia,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/catching-a-cheater--56899583https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56899583Mon, 25 Sep 2023 01:00:02 +0000dorothy holderThere are many ways to be betrayed in a relationship, tonight we are discussion what to do after you have found yourself the victim of a cheater.1938affairs,cheating,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-a-manipulative-person--56824449https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56824449Mon, 18 Sep 2023 02:00:02 +0000dorothy holderIt may seem overwhelming to take control of the relationships that use your weakness to gain strength but it is far easier than you think.1962family,friendships,manipulation,narcissists,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/have-you-met-a-match--56792200https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56792200Wed, 13 Sep 2023 20:47:13 +0000dorothy holderHow do you know if the person you are seeing is a match for your future expectations and desires?1870dating,love,marriage,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dating-apps-and-you--56571815https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56571815Wed, 30 Aug 2023 00:45:02 +0000dorothy holderWhat is your purpose in using a dating app. We can meet plenty of people by having an active social life, joining groups in town and even having friends and family..1839apps,dating,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dating-advice--56571507https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56571507Wed, 23 Aug 2023 22:07:37 +0000dorothy holderSome things have slipped in the last 20 years, expectations of someones behaviours, respect and compassion in dating environments is one of them.1885advice,dating,love,relationships.,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-ve-been-warned-what-now--56480226https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56480226Sun, 20 Aug 2023 02:50:02 +0000dorothy holderMost people can't help but warn you of their intentions, but do we listen? If you don't want to waste time, IE your life, it is wise to do so.1992falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ex-etiquette--56460425https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56460425Mon, 14 Aug 2023 03:39:13 +0000dorothy holderThe do's and don't of having an ex or your partner having an ex.1957breakingup,divorce,ex,relationshipfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-talk-narcissists--56410483https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56410483Wed, 09 Aug 2023 04:26:22 +0000dorothy holderOver the years I have seen so many posts and heard so many comments, listened to so many people labelling their partner as a narcissist. They may be, Tonight Dorothy gives you the rundown on what isn't a narc and what is.1966divorce,marriage,narcassists,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-negative-geared--56187573https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56187573Sun, 30 Jul 2023 03:00:02 +0000dorothy holderBeing progressive is open and offers opportunities but many people are negative geared and don't even realize it some in all aspects of their life and for most of us it is a single area or expectation. When you aim low, you get low.1868beingnegative,careergoals,relationships,smoking,substanceabusefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-strong-relationships--56181694https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56181694Sat, 22 Jul 2023 00:21:26 +0000dorothy holderputting your partner down in your mind or behind their back creates an attitude that they will feel, don't doubt it.1908communication,healingrelationships,marriage,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/truth-v-avoidance--55744114https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55744114Sun, 16 Jul 2023 04:45:02 +0000dorothy holderWaht methods do you or your partner use to avoid serious conversations when you are scared that they may be hurtful or unpleasant?1917arguments,communication,difficult,divorce,lateshow,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wanting-the-ex-back-after-an-affair--55743176https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55743176Sun, 09 Jul 2023 03:35:01 +0000dorothy holderSome things are just not a good idea if you don't understand why you are doing them.1824affairs,breakups,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/self-esteem-and-relationships--55736304https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55736304Sun, 02 Jul 2023 03:30:09 +0000dorothy holderWe sometimes confuse a social belief and construct with self esteem. Do you have what it takes to create the relationship you dream of?1876dating,marriage,relationships,romance,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-boundaries--55024731https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55024731Mon, 26 Jun 2023 01:05:01 +0000dorothy holderWhen nice people try to set boundaries at the early stages of dating or relationships, needy people, narcissists and selfish types don't get it. Take note and save yourself some time.1892boundaries,dating,lateshow,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trust-and-communication--54464762https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54464762Sun, 25 Jun 2023 02:05:01 +0000dorothy holderTrust goes deep when you understand that the other person has to earn your trust for sure, but you also need to earn theirs.1902divorce,love,marriage,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/reunions-are-they-worth-it--54025062https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54025062Tue, 20 Jun 2023 21:55:01 +0000dorothy holderVery few reunions work out for long, Dorothy believes that this is due to rushing it and not understanding what went wrong in the first place. Wanting to appease grief feelings isn't going to bring about success, there is a small window that can work...1862defacto,divorce,marriage,relationships,reunionfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trust-is-the-foundation-of-successful-relationships--54464209https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54464209Fri, 16 Jun 2023 21:55:52 +0000dorothy holderIs trust developing or growing in your relationship? Was trust eroding long ago or was it never a true focus as the relationship became more committed.Dorothy offers you a trust checklist to ensure you are on track in this vital area of long term...1853divorce,love,marriage,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-you-spot-the-red-flags--54307708https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54307708Tue, 13 Jun 2023 00:44:17 +0000dorothy holderKnowing what to look for early on can save a lot of heart ache later.1948arguments,divorce,redflags,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/long-distance-relationships-the-ugly-truth--54024891https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54024891Sun, 11 Jun 2023 01:15:01 +0000dorothy holderLDR's are problematic for many reasons, while the stats are clear that meeting someone the traditional way is more likely to lead to commitment, many engage in long distance relationships and sometimes for years.1752communication,ldr,longdistancerelationships,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-breakups-sobering-statistics--54024680https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54024680Mon, 05 Jun 2023 20:40:02 +0000dorothy holderBreaking down a committed long term relationship isn't easy but it is time to stop calling a date the ex. We also explore the long weekend, how a man has described a girl coming to stay and not leaving.1807breakups,dating,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-think-they-have-the-same-values-as-you--53976192https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53976192Tue, 30 May 2023 20:45:02 +0000dorothy holderThink again. No one can describe their values to you, they can only show you.1918breakups,dating,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-equipped-to-have-a-commited-relationship--53915629https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53915629Thu, 25 May 2023 01:25:01 +0000dorothy holderYou may be surprised to discover you want more than you are able to offer, in that case, things are likely to go south,,, repeatedly1782divorce,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/flirty-friendships-i-don-t-think-so--53762249https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53762249Sat, 20 May 2023 01:00:02 +0000dorothy holderWhat do you do if your partner tells you that one of your friends fancies you? What are the red flags in how your partner responds to you telling them the same thing?1778dating,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ex-is-the-best-friend-i-don-t-think-so--53745150https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53745150Sat, 13 May 2023 03:00:01 +0000dorothy holderWhat do you do when your partner hangs out with an ex as a bestie or spends a lot of time with them in ways that threaten your security and trust? Listen and find out.1781dating,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/familiar-feelings-generate-your-experience--53758028https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53758028Sat, 06 May 2023 07:37:05 +0000dorothy holderIt is a bit too easy to put the blame for your present on the past. Recognize the feeling you reinforce every single day and give yourself the opportunity to release your heart and mind.1705emotions,life,relationships,selfdevelopmentfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotionally-unavailable-v-uncommitted--53648649https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53648649Fri, 05 May 2023 03:00:02 +0000dorothy holderIt is common to see some terms used in ways that don't match their true meaning. Social Media is tyrannical in its ability to grab a real term and help individuals misunderstand their own relationships.1933commitment,divorce,emotions,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-it-time-to-leave--53609708https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53609708Sat, 29 Apr 2023 01:30:01 +0000dorothy holderYou know it is time to leave a relationship when.....1827dating,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-a-question-without-answer-is-frustrating--53609196https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53609196Fri, 21 Apr 2023 20:29:15 +0000dorothy holderLooking for reasoning to another persons mind set could be the biggest relationship issue of all.1856arguments,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/expressions-of-love--53456115https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53456115Wed, 05 Apr 2023 21:39:24 +0000dorothy holderSaying I love you is one of the least effective ways of getting the message across. Do you know what you or your partner see as expressions of love? listen and discover why.saying the words isn't always enough.1808divorce,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-do-you-stay-with-a-partner--53096896https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53096896Sat, 04 Mar 2023 21:25:41 +0000dorothy holderLiving with someone or being with someone over a long term shouldn't be a trial, exploring love, devotion and respect v neediness, fear and low self esteem1853divorce,lateshow,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/know-who-you-are--52764153https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52764153Fri, 17 Feb 2023 09:04:51 +0000dorothy holderPeople are people. it is a truth that escapes many, when you know who you are, there is less focus on what you want, but what you need.1735divorce,relationships,selfdevelopment,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mixed-messages-2--52478406https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52478406Fri, 27 Jan 2023 01:05:01 +0000dorothy holderDeveloping relationships can be tempting areas for sending mixed messages. In this area we are talking about sending a message to someone that doesn't reflect the real you in some way.1881dating,dorothyholder,mixedmessages,relationships,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mixed-messages--52476943https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52476943Wed, 18 Jan 2023 20:53:33 +0000dorothy holderIt can become a lose lose situation for both parties when we aren't clear in our own minds what we want from another person, also what we are prepared to give. Two parties can invite or send mixed messages. One by misinterpreting kindness and the...1879arguments,communication,hotandcold,love,marriage,mixedmessages,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/alone-v-lonely--52324434https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52324434Wed, 04 Jan 2023 01:35:01 +0000dorothy holderTwo completely different things, Discover the difference.1872divorce,loneliness,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-unwanted-gift--52324218https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52324218Sat, 31 Dec 2022 22:23:24 +0000dorothy holderManaging relationships includes being able to understand why you give a gift as well as how to recieve one or reject the unwanted gift.1823divorce,love,marriage,relationships,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/developing-relationships--52248547https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52248547Wed, 21 Dec 2022 18:10:57 +0000dorothy holdercreating a relationship is the beginning but how do you go about developing an existing relationship to ensure a long term commitment.1867defacto,love,marriage,relationships,trustfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/standards-and-values--52242514https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52242514Wed, 21 Dec 2022 03:00:18 +0000dorothy holderwhen you drop your standards there is always a price to pay, when you compromise your values you won't like yourself very much..1804love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-past-doesn-t-inform-the-present--52200486https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52200486Fri, 16 Dec 2022 03:17:58 +0000dorothy holderIf you are blaming your partners past for the relationship you are having with them now, think again1724dating,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/after-the-argument--52122616https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52122616Thu, 08 Dec 2022 02:00:02 +0000dorothy holderAside from what causes the argument, there is that awkward time afterward, what do you do when the heat of the moment has passed?1766arguments,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-give-too-much--52104511https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52104511Mon, 05 Dec 2022 23:47:52 +0000dorothy holderCommonly heard in a modern world, are you giving too much or do you count everything you do give based on what you get back?1763divorce,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimacy-if-you-don-t-have-it-you-have-a-problem--51902570https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51902570Tue, 15 Nov 2022 19:54:27 +0000dorothy holderIntimacy isn't just physical and it isn't deep and meaningfuls every day, Is your relationship struggling with the 3 intimacies required for a happy and balanced life?1687divorce,intimacy,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/resentment-the-relationship-killer--51612341https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51612341Tue, 18 Oct 2022 20:11:11 +0000dorothy holderResentment doesn't always come from where we place it's origins. Is the problem really with the other person or are we responsibile for not being truthful.1756divorce,love,relationships,resentment,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mixed-messages-are-they-are-real-thing--51557230https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51557230Wed, 12 Oct 2022 20:22:54 +0000dorothy holderMixed messages may not be what you think...1940communication,ex's,mixedmessages,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-support-may-not-be-what-you-think--51433117https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51433117Sat, 01 Oct 2022 00:10:01 +0000dorothy holderWith a trend toward neediness and a lack of resilience are we getting weak and losing the ability to have mutually satisfying relationships? Where is the line between asking for emotional support and simply wanting someone to put up with our BS..1828emotionalsupport,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-v-unhappy--51249871https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51249871Wed, 21 Sep 2022 02:30:02 +0000dorothy holderAre you happy? let's find out!1885divorce,happiness,marriage,relationships,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-sacrifices--51249455https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51249455Wed, 14 Sep 2022 00:33:18 +0000dorothy holderThere are appropriate sacrifices and inappropriate yeilding for reward, what do you do?1836communication,divorce,relationships,romance,sacrificefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/difficult-conversations-doing-it-right--51168887https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51168887Wed, 07 Sep 2022 04:13:27 +0000dorothy holderHaving an effective communiction is not the easiest thing, but it is something that can't be done in anger. Tackling issues doesn't have to be confrontational, but it does need to confront the underlying issues.1832arguments,difficultconversations,divorce,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/competitive-relationships-a-recipe-for-disaster--50992808https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50992808Mon, 29 Aug 2022 06:00:02 +0000dorothy holderComptetiiveness is more common than you might think in all relationships. It isn't necessary and prevents a partnerhip. friendship or family from becoming a team. It damages kids the most which makes it worth looking at.1881arguments,communication,competitiverelationships,divorce,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/need-v-desire--50992732https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50992732Mon, 22 Aug 2022 08:01:07 +0000dorothy holderUnderstanding the difference between need and desire offers up the ability to make sound choices that work for you, not just now, but into the future. When we confuse the two, we tend to act desperate inviting a certain amount of angst and difficulty...1863love,relationships,romance,selfreliancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/prescription-for-misery--50710762https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50710762Thu, 04 Aug 2022 01:30:02 +0000dorothy holderDo you live your values? Do you hold grudges? Are you justified in your words and behaviours? Maybe, maybe not. this show is a guide to misery and how you can help yourself live the worst possible life.1602anger,depression,happiness,misery,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/anger-a-pathway-to-misery--50710337https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50710337Mon, 25 Jul 2022 22:24:38 +0000dorothy holderWhether it is yours or someone around you, it is important to assess the impact of anger on those who matter and on those who don't. The way we walk in the world determines our experiences, how others treat us and the quality of life itself.1850anger,angermanagement,emotionalbalance,lateshowwithdorothy,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-bridges--50300428https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50300428Thu, 14 Jul 2022 03:15:01 +0000dorothy holderWhat do you do after an argument? How can you have fewer disagreements? How can you communicate essentials and not get personal? Feeling awkard after having an argument can take a fairly minor issue and make it last all day.1773arguments,effectivecommunication,lateshow,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/suicidal-thoughts-are-they-what-you-think--50517083https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50517083Sat, 09 Jul 2022 07:57:44 +0000dorothy holderNot everyone has them but are they depression or are they a reflection of not understanding feelings, habits and life. Maybe being happy isn't the catailyst for moving beyond suicidal thoughts. Dorothy shares a challenging period of her life where...1825anger,grief,relationships,sorrow,suicidefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/beyond-the-honeymoon-phase--50300207https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50300207Thu, 07 Jul 2022 03:00:02 +0000dorothy holderDo your expectations exceed reality? After the first 6 months or so relations turn real, You may find yourself bored for a day or have that first argument, if feelings haven't built this is often where it all ends.1859lateshow,love,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-affairs-is-it-cheating--50299746https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50299746Thu, 30 Jun 2022 03:30:02 +0000dorothy holderSocial media, chat apps, dating apps and pretty much any tech means a person you love can flirt and be emotionally connected to someone down the street or in another country, there are those who think this isn't cheating.1876divorce,emotionalaffairs,flirting,marriage,onlinecheatingfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-infidelity--50299225https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50299225Wed, 22 Jun 2022 21:17:02 +0000dorothy holderThere are a few types of cheaters in relationships, the one night stand, the drunken fumble, the serial cheater and the long term affair. Should you forgive and forget?1881affairs,cheating,divorce,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/social-media-etiquette--50063381https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50063381Thu, 09 Jun 2022 03:45:02 +0000dorothy holderShould you block and old flame? Is sexting really safe? Is messenging someone the best way to handle a relationship? This and more in tonights show.1983breakingup,divorce,relationships,romance,socialmediafalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/twin-flames-and-soulmates--50055319https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50055319Fri, 03 Jun 2022 21:28:46 +0000dorothy holderAre you kidding yourself thinking someone who is in a relationship with someone else is your soulmate? Are you delusional by believing that a crush is a twin flame? If you are triggered by this show, it could be that you are living a lie. Great...1902love,relationships,romance,soulmates,twinflamesfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/drama-in-relationships--49799427https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49799427Wed, 25 May 2022 23:55:01 +0000dorothy holderIf you are the recipient of extremism and ultimatums the chances are you aren't having much fun. it can become habitual and leave you constantly wondering why you are with your partner. Why are you? What can you do about it?1691arguments,divorce,dramaticrelationships,relationships,ultimatumsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/extremism-ultimatums--49799299https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49799299Thu, 19 May 2022 03:25:02 +0000dorothy holderIs it good practice to threaten a relationship or another person in a relationship? Can you trust someone who does? Do you have extreme thoughts when things go wrong or an argument is in play? What can you do about it if it is a habit?1702arguments,divorce,relationships,romance,ultimatumsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-does-he-hate-you--49695414https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49695414Thu, 12 May 2022 03:00:02 +0000dorothy holderWomen tend to think of themselves as the fixers in relationships but is this a genuine truth? It can be, but women can be as selfish as any man and sometimes need to be held to account for that 'we need to talk' speech that puts fear into the minds of...2134arguments,divorce,marriage,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-does-she-hate-you--49694387https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49694387Fri, 06 May 2022 19:56:59 +0000dorothy holderSo many men find themselves not understanding what is going on with their wives or girlfriends but mostly this is because she is unable to communicate the actual problem or He is unable to look to himself as the cause.1753arguments,divorce,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/conflict-in-relationships--49552184https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49552184Thu, 28 Apr 2022 03:00:02 +0000dorothy holderAny conflict is an invitation to finding solutions but sometimes from the early stages of a partnership one or both parties fall back on old habits and get caught in a damaging trait that can derail solid love stories.1733arguments,conflict,marriage,relatiolnships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/do-you-give-too-much--49551664https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49551664Mon, 25 Apr 2022 22:14:02 +0000dorothy holderThere i's often an overriding sense of being taken advantage of when relationships don't motivate into a committed love relationship, but is that really someone elses responsibility? There is a difference between playing hard to get and throwing...1947dating,love,relationships,romance,sexualityfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-build-a-great-relationship--48986846https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48986846Thu, 17 Mar 2022 03:35:02 +0000dorothy holderBuilding a strong caring relationship isn't too hard, but you do need to focus on developing areas that you may already know are weak from past experience. The foundations of a happy union are simple to see and execute.1961buildingrelationships,marriage,relationshipguidance,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-you-get-back-with-the-ex--48986589https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48986589Thu, 10 Mar 2022 05:00:02 +0000dorothy holderMostly the answer to this question is a resounding no, there are great reasons and knowing what they are can help you be more clear in your mind. There are circumstances that indicate that yes, in certain cases having another go is worth the effort.1833divorce,exes,healing,relationships,reunitefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/all-about-the-ex--48917133https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48917133Thu, 03 Mar 2022 03:35:02 +0000dorothy holderWhat is an EX? How do you manage exes online or in person, is it even an EX if you have only been dating? How do you have a relationship with an EX when you have kids??? let's find out.1885divorce,love,relationships,romance,separationfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-he-she-look-at-my-phone--48865313https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48865313Thu, 03 Mar 2022 03:30:02 +0000dorothy holderShould your partner have access to your phone, social media accounts or messaging apps? Should you have access to theirs? Sometimes the answer is no, but sometimes it is yes, tonight we distinguish between the two options.1869affairs,divorce,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-living-with-a-narcissist--48789224https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48789224Fri, 18 Feb 2022 20:58:05 +0000dorothy holderThis word gets bandied around a lot but often doesn't reflect the truth of a person, narcissists do exist but they are not the norm in fact they are fairly rare.1873commitment,divorce,love,narcisisst,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-talk-ghosting--48788809https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48788809Fri, 18 Feb 2022 20:18:17 +0000dorothy holderThis newish word for being ignored pops up a lot when someone isn't responding to messages online or perhaps not even liking posts. Are we learning to use the methods of communication online properly or are we more than a little naive.1953communication,dating,ghosting,onlinedating,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-spot-a-cheater--48356500https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48356500Thu, 20 Jan 2022 03:00:03 +0000dorothy holderIn relationships it isn't difficult to see who the cheater is, they reveal themselves pretty quickly and tend to think no one else spots the inconsistencies, but in truth, it is one of the most loveless things anyone can do to someone else.1895affairs,cheating,love,marriage,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/little-lies--48193154https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48193154Thu, 06 Jan 2022 18:46:05 +0000dorothy holderThe most damaging thing we do is tell ourselves little lies. With every new year there are a mountain of them. What do you tell yourself that damages your chances of creating the life you want?1897lies,mindfulness,relationships,selfdevelopment,visionboardfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/authenticity-a-new-years-resolution--48103980https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48103980Thu, 30 Dec 2021 04:30:02 +0000dorothy holderCreating great relationships with depth and commitment requires honesty and integrity, not that of others, but of yourself. We have a natural attraction to those who hold similar values and standards, likes and dislikes. When we pretend to be who we...1781authenticity,integrity,love,newyearsresolutions,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/guilty-behaviours--48031560https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48031560Thu, 23 Dec 2021 02:52:21 +0000dorothy holderGuilt plays a big role in all relationships. Many are taught it young and don't deal with it or even recognize it as adults. Moving past guilt allows you to follow your heart and your mind.1850affairs,family,guilt,love,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/distant-relationships--47895993https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47895993Thu, 16 Dec 2021 04:00:02 +0000dorothy holderRed Flags are the key to avoiding the pitfalls of online relationships. With only 20% of these getting to meetings or the initial dating stage, you can save a lot of time by being savvy about how the game is played.1745commitment,distantrelationships,redflags,relationshipscams,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotionalism-and-difficult-conversations--47778677https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47778677Thu, 09 Dec 2021 04:00:02 +0000dorothy holderCommunicating emotionally can cause problems, big problem. What do you do about it and how can you moderate the way you speak to others?1728anger,communication,emotions,relationships,thelateshowfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lying-the-relationship-killer--47695676https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47695676Thu, 02 Dec 2021 09:00:02 +0000dorothy holderPeople lie for a variety of reasons, now and again they are harmless and useful but when used often they tell a lot about a persons character leaving you with the opportunity to decide how important a role should they play in your life. Addressing...1833lateshow,love,lying,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-up-with-communication-issues--47646974https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47646974Thu, 25 Nov 2021 04:02:07 +0000dorothy holderA complex area that everyone knows about but seem to be unable to understand. Today Dorothy looks at why difficult areas in relationship stay the same or get worse even when you don't want them to.1802communication,family,love,relationships,romancefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/late-show-debut-relationships-can-be-complex--47590857https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47590857Mon, 22 Nov 2021 01:22:40 +0000dorothy holderOur Debut show answers 3 particular relationship questions. Our whole life is dictated by the relationships we are capable of having and the people we have them with, at work, at home, or even those we interact with every day. Listen to the late show...1673anger,love,mothers,relationships,romancefalsefull