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Send us your listener questions! &#13;
askandtellpod@gmail.com&#13;
https://www.instagram.com/askandtellpod/</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[B shares some big news, J shares some surprising news, and then the two compare notes on VR porn and body image.<br /><br />Send us your listener questions! <br /><a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br /><a href="https://www.instagram.com/askandtellpod/" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/askandtellpod/</a>]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3092</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adviceshow,askandtell,bodyimage,communication,couples,dating,datingadvice,datingquestions,divorce,marriage,relationshipadvice,sex,sexadvice,sexquestions,sexuality,vrporn</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 10 - The Best and Worst of Dating in 2021</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-the-best-and-worst-of-dating-in-2021--48166088</link><description><![CDATA[J and guest co-host C reflect on their best and worst dates, kisses, sexual encounters and more in this New Year’s episode.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48166088</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2022 16:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/48166088/a_t_episode_10_fix.mp3" length="134245598" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>J and guest co-host C reflect on their best and worst dates, kisses, sexual encounters and more in this New Year’s episode.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[J and guest co-host C reflect on their best and worst dates, kisses, sexual encounters and more in this New Year’s episode.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>5594</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>askandtell,dating,datingadvice,datingpodcast,pandemicdating,relationshipadvice,relationships,sex,sexadvice,sexpodcast,sexuality</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 9 - When Bad Relationships Get Worse</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-9-when-bad-relationships-get-worse--47895914</link><description><![CDATA[J navigates the “he’s just not that into you” conundrum after a second date and B reflects on his experience in an emotionally abusive relationship.<br /><br />Send in your listener questions! <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47895914</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2021 16:00:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47895914/a_t_episoe_9_mixdown.mp3" length="94848275" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>J navigates the “he’s just not that into you” conundrum after a second date and B reflects on his experience in an emotionally abusive relationship.

Send in your listener questions! askandtellpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[J navigates the “he’s just not that into you” conundrum after a second date and B reflects on his experience in an emotionally abusive relationship.<br /><br />Send in your listener questions! <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3952</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>abusiverelationships,advicepodcast,adviceshow,badrelationship,breakup,datingadvice,divorce,emotionalabuse,relationshipadvice,relationships,sex,sexadvice</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 8 - The Sex Toy Situation</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-8-the-sex-toy-situation--47740757</link><description><![CDATA[B & J explore the ins and outs of sex toys, including the risks of homemade contraptions and the joys of dildos, butt plugs and partner-controlled devices. <br /><br />Send your listener questions to <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47740757</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2021 17:01:02 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47740757/a_t_episode_8.mp3" length="67749102" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>B &amp; J explore the ins and outs of sex toys, including the risks of homemade contraptions and the joys of dildos, butt plugs and partner-controlled devices. 

Send your listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.com
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Send your listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.com
OR direct message us on...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[It’s the ultimate taboo… J slept with a married man.  B asks all the questions, J tells no lies, and they explore all the dirty, messy ethical dimensions of her choice.<br /><br />Send your listener questions to <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />OR direct message us on instagram @askandtellpod]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3636</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advice,adviceshow,askandtell,ask&amp;tell,cheating,nonmonogamy,relationshipadvice,relationships,sex,sexadvice,sexuality,sexualliberation,sexwork</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 6 - The Threesome</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-6-the-threesome--47321380</link><description><![CDATA[B&J discuss visible sex-injuries and J spills the tea on her first threesome and newfound status as a unicorn.<br /><br />Send listener questions to <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />Follow us on instagram @askandtellpod]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47321380</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2021 21:56:50 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47321380/a_t_episode_6.mp3" length="86339729" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>B&amp;J discuss visible sex-injuries and J spills the tea on her first threesome and newfound status as a unicorn.

Send listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.com
Follow us on instagram @askandtellpod</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[B&J discuss visible sex-injuries and J spills the tea on her first threesome and newfound status as a unicorn.<br /><br />Send listener questions to <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a><br />Follow us on instagram @askandtellpod]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>3598</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>adviceshow,askandtell,ask&amp;tell,dating,datingadvice,datingadviceshow,datingtips,divorce,relationshipadvice,relationships,sexadvice,sextips,sexuality,single</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Episode 5 - Two Friends, a Pornstar, and a Therapist Walk into a Bar</title><link>https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-5-two-friends-a-pornstar-and-a-therapist-walk-into-a-bar--47068335</link><description><![CDATA[B shares what it’s like starting a porn clip only to find an old friend in the starring role.  G, a sex therapist, provides an introduction to his work and passion, your sexual health.<br /><br />We want to hear from you! Send your questions to <a href="mailto:askandtellpod@gmail.com">askandtellpod@gmail.com</a> and we will address them on the podcast.<br />Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47068335</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2021 23:10:05 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/47068335/a_t_episode_5.mp3" length="47479589" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>B shares what it’s like starting a porn clip only to find an old friend in the starring role.  G, a sex therapist, provides an introduction to his work and passion, your sexual health.

We want to hear from you! Send your questions to...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[B shares what it’s like starting a porn clip only to find an old friend in the starring role.  G, a sex therapist, provides an introduction to his work and passion, your sexual health.<br /><br />We want to hear from you! 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Featuring diverse guests, each episode boldly tackles topics ranging from giving good head, to body positivity to finding your kink.  In this episode, B & J discuss the art of a Reddit sex post and the necessity of a safety plan for hookups with strangers.]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46607960</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 15:00:04 +0000</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/46607960/a_t_episode_1.mp3" length="51996435" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:author>B &amp; J</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Ask &amp; Tell is a new series where friends B (a het/cis male) and J (a het/cis female) ask all the taboo questions about sex, dating and romance and tell no lies.  Featuring diverse guests, each episode boldly tackles topics ranging from giving good...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ask & Tell is a new series where friends B (a het/cis male) and J (a het/cis female) ask all the taboo questions about sex, dating and romance and tell no lies.  Featuring diverse guests, each episode boldly tackles topics ranging from giving good head, to body positivity to finding your kink.  In this episode, B & J discuss the art of a Reddit sex post and the necessity of a safety plan for hookups with strangers.]]></itunes:summary><itunes:duration>2167</itunes:duration><itunes:keywords>advice,askandtell,ask&amp;tell,breakup,dating,divorce,getlaid,howto,love,relationships,selfhelp,sex,sexuality,single</itunes:keywords><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:image href="https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/07928ac13af0fa1c51f21a6265771143.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>
