https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/thou-shalt-not-kill-a-podcast-about-marriage--5063061
It’s safe to say we've seen it all and that's inspired us to help others avoid the many pitfalls we've seen and even experienced.

Thou Shalt Not Kill speaks right to the heart of the challenges couples face. You’ve probably had battles and moments that if unaddressed could make or break your solemn partnership. Whether you’ve hit the wall or you think things can’t get any better, we've got you. We're honest, real, raw, and will undoubtedly entertain you. We'll teach you the tools you need to overcome challenges with both conventional and unconventional means; helping you get back to the “why” of your union.

In our own words, “We never claim to be doctors or board-certified marriage counselors, but we did go to one in the first few years when we had “issues” and their advice was divorce. That didn’t work for us. That’s why we want to bring hope and light through the dark and rough times of life with your partner.”

Let’s get your love affair with your spouse to a place where you’ve always known it would be.

Starting with the first rule: Thou Shalt Not Kill.

Hosted by your marriage veterans of 36 years, Scott & Anne Travis.


We'd love to connect with you!
Are there topics you'd like us to discuss or stories you'd like to share? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast/

And join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thoushaltnotkill/

If you'd like to dive deeper, check out our private coaching group for couples and singles: www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>enRelationshipsCopyright Scott & Anne Travishttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/71bc704d9cf7e1f75cbbebbdff166598.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/thou-shalt-not-kill-a-podcast-about-marriage--5063061Thu, 15 May 2025 09:17:41 +0000Scott & Anne TravisScott & Anne Travisscott@pooldaddy.comNever choosing divorce and staying married for 36 years is one thing, but we come from households with a combined total of 13 marriages between our parents. It’s safe to say we've seen it all and that's inspired us to help others avoid the many...
It’s safe to say we've seen it all and that's inspired us to help others avoid the many pitfalls we've seen and even experienced.

Thou Shalt Not Kill speaks right to the heart of the challenges couples face. You’ve probably had battles and moments that if unaddressed could make or break your solemn partnership. Whether you’ve hit the wall or you think things can’t get any better, we've got you. We're honest, real, raw, and will undoubtedly entertain you. We'll teach you the tools you need to overcome challenges with both conventional and unconventional means; helping you get back to the “why” of your union.

In our own words, “We never claim to be doctors or board-certified marriage counselors, but we did go to one in the first few years when we had “issues” and their advice was divorce. That didn’t work for us. That’s why we want to bring hope and light through the dark and rough times of life with your partner.”

Let’s get your love affair with your spouse to a place where you’ve always known it would be.

Starting with the first rule: Thou Shalt Not Kill.

Hosted by your marriage veterans of 36 years, Scott & Anne Travis.


We'd love to connect with you!
Are there topics you'd like us to discuss or stories you'd like to share? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast/

And join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thoushaltnotkill/

If you'd like to dive deeper, check out our private coaching group for couples and singles: www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>trueepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-dont-just-wake-up-to-a-great-marriage--66017986You don't just wake up to a great Marriage, you don't wake up to being your ideal weight .. It all takes work. The Leave it to Beaver family of the 50s is not nor never was the route in life we were given. We jump into the struggles in everyday life and how to MAKE your marriage awesome. Hopefully, we open some eyes and ears to seeing that through the work comes a great reward.

Thanks for all your support !!!
Happy listening ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66017986Thu, 15 May 2025 09:05:07 +0000Scott & Anne TravisLa La La ... We just go on in life thinking that it's all gonna be rainbows and Butterflies ... HAHAHA You don't just wake up to a great Marriage, you don't wake up to being your ideal weight .. It all takes work. The Leave it to Beaver family of the...You don't just wake up to a great Marriage, you don't wake up to being your ideal weight .. It all takes work. The Leave it to Beaver family of the 50s is not nor never was the route in life we were given. We jump into the struggles in everyday life and how to MAKE your marriage awesome. Hopefully, we open some eyes and ears to seeing that through the work comes a great reward.

Thanks for all your support !!!
Happy listening ]]>1802falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-feeling-emotionally-safe-5-9-25-9-14-am--66017928Sounds crazy to have a long-term relationship and NOT feel safe ...
We talk about what we think it takes and looks like to be open, safe, and secure in a Partnership.

Thanks for listening ..]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66017928Fri, 09 May 2025 15:30:14 +0000Scott & Anne TravisToday we talk about Emotional Safety with your partner .. DO you feel "Safe"?  Sounds crazy to have a long-term relationship and NOT feel safe ... We talk about what we think it takes and looks like to be open, safe, and secure in a Partnership....Sounds crazy to have a long-term relationship and NOT feel safe ...
We talk about what we think it takes and looks like to be open, safe, and secure in a Partnership.

Thanks for listening ..]]>2013falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stuborness-is-a-precurser-to-loneliness-2023-editable-3-7-25-6-58-am--64747835Why do we feel being Stubborn is a power move? it erodes and cuts off communication quick! Let talk about what the stubborn person gets to enjoy when they always need to be right .

Thanks for listening !!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64747835Thu, 13 Mar 2025 09:05:06 +0000Scott & Anne TravisAre you finding yourself dying on every hill to be right? well, I guess you love the loneliness that comes with that.  Why do we feel being Stubborn is a power move? it erodes and cuts off communication quick! Let talk about what the stubborn person...Why do we feel being Stubborn is a power move? it erodes and cuts off communication quick! Let talk about what the stubborn person gets to enjoy when they always need to be right .

Thanks for listening !!]]>1944falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-tictok-cured--64747718How many people do you know that "Fix" themselves by watching a Video or a person after seeing someone like them having the same issues is miraculously "Cured" just from one or two videos? The problem is NOT in identifying the issue but the Work needed to change after the issue is in the open for them .. 
It sure is nice to see someone else have the same problem as us, BUT until you change your behavior, nothing changes. not all the TikToks in. the world are going to the work needed.

Thanks for listening !!
"]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64747718Fri, 07 Mar 2025 13:51:00 +0000Scott & Anne TravisSocial media has taken over in the "Fix it" space. How many people do you know that "Fix" themselves by watching a Video or a person after seeing someone like them having the same issues is miraculously "Cured" just from one or two videos? The problem...How many people do you know that "Fix" themselves by watching a Video or a person after seeing someone like them having the same issues is miraculously "Cured" just from one or two videos? The problem is NOT in identifying the issue but the Work needed to change after the issue is in the open for them .. 
It sure is nice to see someone else have the same problem as us, BUT until you change your behavior, nothing changes. not all the TikToks in. the world are going to the work needed.

Thanks for listening !!
"]]>1971falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/respect--64231562We ALL want it but are we willing to give it ?
It's a word that garners so much debate, do you give respect before you get it OR do you get it first and then decide if who you are giving respect to is deserving of it?
In a marriage /Relationship it's a key element to having AND Giving.. Let's see if we can challenge your view on RESPECT ..
Thank you!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64231562Thu, 13 Feb 2025 10:25:06 +0000Scott & Anne TravisR E S P E C T...  We ALL want it but are we willing to give it ? It's a word that garners so much debate, do you give respect before you get it OR do you get it first and then decide if who you are giving respect to is deserving of it? In a marriage...We ALL want it but are we willing to give it ?
It's a word that garners so much debate, do you give respect before you get it OR do you get it first and then decide if who you are giving respect to is deserving of it?
In a marriage /Relationship it's a key element to having AND Giving.. Let's see if we can challenge your view on RESPECT ..
Thank you!]]>1971false246fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-safety-in-your-relationship--64231487
We tackle the Emotional safety in a relationship and how unbelievably crucial it is to get the depth of TRUST you developed in being vulnerable to your partner.
Women want safety in the relationship and believe it or not Men can release their emotions on a TRUSTED woman .. 
We all win if we can be honest and authentic, especially in our marriage.

Thanks for listening ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64231487Thu, 06 Feb 2025 16:18:51 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWell ... Emotional Safety. We tackle the Emotional safety in a relationship and how unbelievably crucial it is to get the depth of TRUST you developed in being vulnerable to your partner. Women want safety in the relationship and believe it or not...
We tackle the Emotional safety in a relationship and how unbelievably crucial it is to get the depth of TRUST you developed in being vulnerable to your partner.
Women want safety in the relationship and believe it or not Men can release their emotions on a TRUSTED woman .. 
We all win if we can be honest and authentic, especially in our marriage.

Thanks for listening ]]>2197false245fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-perception-determines-your-reception--63852928How often do we have a "Perception" BEFORE we know what's about to happen?
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We talk about how much time we Assume we know what is coming and then have an opinion or perception of what is coming only to present ourselves with an opinion or a thought as to what is happening.
Your perception is not always the truth of what to come.
let's drop the assumptions, wait to hear, and listen BEFORE we are disappointed and put our partner on the defense.

Thank you !!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63852928Thu, 30 Jan 2025 10:00:13 +0000Scott & Anne TravisPerception determines your reception ... How often do we have a "Perception" BEFORE we know what's about to happen? . We talk about how much time we Assume we know what is coming and then have an opinion or perception of what is coming only to present...How often do we have a "Perception" BEFORE we know what's about to happen?
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We talk about how much time we Assume we know what is coming and then have an opinion or perception of what is coming only to present ourselves with an opinion or a thought as to what is happening.
Your perception is not always the truth of what to come.
let's drop the assumptions, wait to hear, and listen BEFORE we are disappointed and put our partner on the defense.

Thank you !!]]>1955falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-passion--63852881.
What ? ... Well let's breakdown that statement 
We NEED to be friends AND we need Passion, but what catapults your marriage than having your partner be your most intimate and BEST friend?
We spend way more time dressed and in public than we do naked and in bed, it sure is great to have a partner that yo can show, tel,l and explore life with a buddy.
This DOES NOT eliminate the passion but we talk about how much our passion has exploded when we became the best of friends.

Enjoy and Thank you ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63852881Thu, 23 Jan 2025 16:13:48 +0000Scott & Anne TravisFriendship OVER Passion ? . What ? ... Well let's breakdown that statement  We NEED to be friends AND we need Passion, but what catapults your marriage than having your partner be your most intimate and BEST friend? We spend way more time dressed and....
What ? ... Well let's breakdown that statement 
We NEED to be friends AND we need Passion, but what catapults your marriage than having your partner be your most intimate and BEST friend?
We spend way more time dressed and in public than we do naked and in bed, it sure is great to have a partner that yo can show, tel,l and explore life with a buddy.
This DOES NOT eliminate the passion but we talk about how much our passion has exploded when we became the best of friends.

Enjoy and Thank you ]]>2167falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-can-only-heal-yourself-pt2--63537347https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63537347Thu, 16 Jan 2025 10:30:07 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe continue with the Episode filling in the last bites1997falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-can-only-heal-yourself-pt1--63537252We go into this past year and the work we've done to heal parts of our lives from the past .
This will maybe help see that saying you want change and actually doing the work is completely different .
We go through the steps on how we did and are still doing it 
Theres a process and TIME that it takes .
We felt this needed 2 parts so welcome to part 1]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63537252Thu, 09 Jan 2025 10:15:06 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWhat does it look like to "Heal"? We go into this past year and the work we've done to heal parts of our lives from the past . This will maybe help see that saying you want change and actually doing the work is completely different . We go through the...We go into this past year and the work we've done to heal parts of our lives from the past .
This will maybe help see that saying you want change and actually doing the work is completely different .
We go through the steps on how we did and are still doing it 
Theres a process and TIME that it takes .
We felt this needed 2 parts so welcome to part 1]]>2072falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-new-year-2025-lets-speak-life-into-our-marriage--63537227
Were starting off the year with the way were gonna speak this year to our partners ..

The tongue is a sward and can cut us in half , Lets work on how we speak to our partners and watch the changes! ONLY YOU  can change YOU .. Lets start with how we approach our partner with the words we say .]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63537227Thu, 02 Jan 2025 10:05:07 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWelcome 2025 !! Were starting off the year with the way were gonna speak this year to our partners .. The tongue is a sward and can cut us in half , Lets work on how we speak to our partners and watch the changes! ONLY YOU  can change YOU .. Lets...
Were starting off the year with the way were gonna speak this year to our partners ..

The tongue is a sward and can cut us in half , Lets work on how we speak to our partners and watch the changes! ONLY YOU  can change YOU .. Lets start with how we approach our partner with the words we say .]]>2290falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/210-are-you-receptive-or-defensive--62569712tune in. 
Thank you all !!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62569712Thu, 31 Oct 2024 14:07:13 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHow are you when your partner comes to you with an issue or complaint ?? Are you Receptive OR Defensive? Today we go into ways to approach your partner with issues and how you can react .. We ALL want to be heard .. How will your partner receive what...tune in. 
Thank you all !!]]>1937false210fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/201-generatioal-curses-or-behaviors--60801257This is an episode that we can all relate to ... Why am I doing what I didn't like when I was a child to my kids OR my spouse?
We talk about changing the course of history in YOUR family !
All it takes is some courage and strength to make that change .
Nothing changes overnight, BUT little steps can drastically help and change your family's path to a happier and more fruitful life.
We all have this we said when we were kids... " When I grow up I will NEVER do that to my kids or my friends" ... Well you now are old enough to keep that promise when you were younger.

Thanks for listening and we hope this helps just a little bit !!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60801257Thu, 01 Aug 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWelcome! This is an episode that we can all relate to ... Why am I doing what I didn't like when I was a child to my kids OR my spouse? We talk about changing the course of history in YOUR family ! All it takes is some courage and strength to make...This is an episode that we can all relate to ... Why am I doing what I didn't like when I was a child to my kids OR my spouse?
We talk about changing the course of history in YOUR family !
All it takes is some courage and strength to make that change .
Nothing changes overnight, BUT little steps can drastically help and change your family's path to a happier and more fruitful life.
We all have this we said when we were kids... " When I grow up I will NEVER do that to my kids or my friends" ... Well you now are old enough to keep that promise when you were younger.

Thanks for listening and we hope this helps just a little bit !!]]>1829false210fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/209-keep-your-circle-clean--60801157What the heck does that mean? We go into how outside relationships can dirty up your circle of friends.
This episode is about outside influences and your relationship could get dirty if you don't keep on top of who and what you let into your space.
Join us as we talk about keeping your circle clean .
We thank you for listening and hope we can help make life a little easier or look at your circumstances differently.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60801157Thu, 25 Jul 2024 13:17:18 +0000Scott & Anne TravisKeeping your Circle Clean .. What the heck does that mean? We go into how outside relationships can dirty up your circle of friends. This episode is about outside influences and your relationship could get dirty if you don't keep on top of who and...What the heck does that mean? We go into how outside relationships can dirty up your circle of friends.
This episode is about outside influences and your relationship could get dirty if you don't keep on top of who and what you let into your space.
Join us as we talk about keeping your circle clean .
We thank you for listening and hope we can help make life a little easier or look at your circumstances differently.]]>1991false209fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/208-power-verse-balance--60495393Do you deal with a "Power Struggle" in your Relationships?

In this episode, we talk about Power in our relationship, and how the only true "Power" we have is when we are together as a team, Power is not great in a relationship when there is a struggle. 
If you deal with this in yours take a step back and ask why ?


Thanks so much for all your support and thanks for Listening.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60495393Thu, 11 Jul 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisPower V Balance...... Do you deal with a "Power Struggle" in your Relationships? In this episode, we talk about Power in our relationship, and how the only true "Power" we have is when we are together as a team, Power is not great in a relationship...Do you deal with a "Power Struggle" in your Relationships?

In this episode, we talk about Power in our relationship, and how the only true "Power" we have is when we are together as a team, Power is not great in a relationship when there is a struggle. 
If you deal with this in yours take a step back and ask why ?


Thanks so much for all your support and thanks for Listening.]]>2087false208fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/207-healing-what-does-that-look-like--60495342
In this episode, we talk about what it is to heal, and why. 
I always told my kids when they were little, they would learn lessons in life maybe 16 or 26 or 36 BUT eventually, we learn a life lesson.

We are still learning lessons on this in our late 50s.

I hope you enjoy it! Thank you so much for listening.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60495342Thu, 04 Jul 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWhat does a "Healed" Person look like? In this episode, we talk about what it is to heal, and why.  I always told my kids when they were little, they would learn lessons in life maybe 16 or 26 or 36 BUT eventually, we learn a life lesson. We are...
In this episode, we talk about what it is to heal, and why. 
I always told my kids when they were little, they would learn lessons in life maybe 16 or 26 or 36 BUT eventually, we learn a life lesson.

We are still learning lessons on this in our late 50s.

I hope you enjoy it! Thank you so much for listening.]]>2039false207fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/206-are-you-accessable-to-your-partner--60495271Nothing hidden, We think of "Accessibility" as access to something. However, here we chat about being accessible to your partner with everything.
Is there anything that your partner does NOT have access to?

Thanks for listening, are you as accessable as we are?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60495271Thu, 27 Jun 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisAre you accessible to your partner? I mean EVERYTHING !! Nothing hidden, We think of "Accessibility" as access to something. However, here we chat about being accessible to your partner with everything. Is there anything that your partner does NOT...Nothing hidden, We think of "Accessibility" as access to something. However, here we chat about being accessible to your partner with everything.
Is there anything that your partner does NOT have access to?

Thanks for listening, are you as accessable as we are?]]>2213false206fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/205-soft-landing--60450905It's really easy to say that you are there for your partner but when it comes down to it are YOU a soft place to land?
A soft place to land is when you can run to your partner with problems, and issues and have just been beaten up, are they there to soften the blow? 
Take into account on how we are there for each other, are you a good place to land? 

Thanks for listening and all your support!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60450905Thu, 20 Jun 2024 15:21:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWhere do you land when times get rough?  It's really easy to say that you are there for your partner but when it comes down to it are YOU a soft place to land? A soft place to land is when you can run to your partner with problems, and issues and have...It's really easy to say that you are there for your partner but when it comes down to it are YOU a soft place to land?
A soft place to land is when you can run to your partner with problems, and issues and have just been beaten up, are they there to soften the blow? 
Take into account on how we are there for each other, are you a good place to land? 

Thanks for listening and all your support!]]>1918false205fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/204-unexpressed-expectations--60342478How many of us do this to our partner, friends, and Family??
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In this episode we discuss how we NEED to tell each other what WE expect or want.
It's futile to sit and "Expect" someone to know what we want or need.
Let's be real, if we could read minds we would not need to talk to each other, yet some of us have a hard time realizing we get mad at our partner for not reading our minds.
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Let's go, and Thank you so much for listening.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60342478Thu, 13 Jun 2024 09:05:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisUnexpressed Expectations,  How many of us do this to our partner, friends, and Family?? . In this episode we discuss how we NEED to tell each other what WE expect or want. It's futile to sit and "Expect" someone to know what we want or need. Let's be...How many of us do this to our partner, friends, and Family??
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In this episode we discuss how we NEED to tell each other what WE expect or want.
It's futile to sit and "Expect" someone to know what we want or need.
Let's be real, if we could read minds we would not need to talk to each other, yet some of us have a hard time realizing we get mad at our partner for not reading our minds.
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Let's go, and Thank you so much for listening.]]>2010false204fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/203-you-get-what-you-give--60277206>
Do you believe that ?? 
Let's see how living life to serve your partner is ... Its more likely to get what I want as I fulfil my partner. 
If I'm selfish and all about me .... Life sucks.
Hope you enjoy this little chat 

If you ever have Questions or Topics you'd like us to address .. Please reach out @ ThouShaltNotKillPodcast@gmial.com ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60277206Thu, 06 Jun 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisYou Give what you get ... > Do you believe that ??  Let's see how living life to serve your partner is ... Its more likely to get what I want as I fulfil my partner.  If I'm selfish and all about me .... Life sucks. Hope you enjoy this little chat ...>
Do you believe that ?? 
Let's see how living life to serve your partner is ... Its more likely to get what I want as I fulfil my partner. 
If I'm selfish and all about me .... Life sucks.
Hope you enjoy this little chat 

If you ever have Questions or Topics you'd like us to address .. Please reach out @ ThouShaltNotKillPodcast@gmial.com ]]>2005false203fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/202-pointing-fingers-and-looking-in-the-mirror--60240031
How about we replace our pointing finger with a mirror? 
When we are busy complaining or upset at what our partner is doing why not look in the mirror and see if it's YOU that YOU have a problem with.

Interesting take, we hope you will enjoy it!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60240031Fri, 31 May 2024 18:53:56 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe all love to point out what our partner is doing wrong or pointing out what bothers YOU . How about we replace our pointing finger with a mirror?  When we are busy complaining or upset at what our partner is doing why not look in the mirror and see...
How about we replace our pointing finger with a mirror? 
When we are busy complaining or upset at what our partner is doing why not look in the mirror and see if it's YOU that YOU have a problem with.

Interesting take, we hope you will enjoy it!]]>2000false202fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/201-following-your-dream-together--60143334..
Well, this is crazy that we think we can't Follow our Dreams WITH our partner, this is one of the reasons we chose each other TO follow those dreams..

You may or may not agree to what our opinions are but Is your spouse holding you back from your dreams? 
What a shame .... Listen in and let us know your thoughts ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60143334Thu, 23 May 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWhat do you do when life challenges you and you want to "Follow your Dream"? .. Well, this is crazy that we think we can't Follow our Dreams WITH our partner, this is one of the reasons we chose each other TO follow those dreams.. You may or may not.....
Well, this is crazy that we think we can't Follow our Dreams WITH our partner, this is one of the reasons we chose each other TO follow those dreams..

You may or may not agree to what our opinions are but Is your spouse holding you back from your dreams? 
What a shame .... Listen in and let us know your thoughts ]]>2015false201fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/200-celebrate-our-200th-podcast--59755120I can remember our first setup and sitting down to do number one and having only one mission ... Just help One couple realize marriage is wonderful and EASY !
In this episode we just chat about where we started and where we want to go, our dynamic and our style is US and we hope we can unlock that one lock that you just cant seem to get over.
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Thank you all so much for the love and support.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59755120Thu, 02 May 2024 09:10:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWell here we are , numb er 200 ! I can remember our first setup and sitting down to do number one and having only one mission ... Just help One couple realize marriage is wonderful and EASY ! In this episode we just chat about where we started and...I can remember our first setup and sitting down to do number one and having only one mission ... Just help One couple realize marriage is wonderful and EASY !
In this episode we just chat about where we started and where we want to go, our dynamic and our style is US and we hope we can unlock that one lock that you just cant seem to get over.
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Thank you all so much for the love and support.]]>2272false200fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/199-more-on-adversity-in-marriage--59351707.
In this episode we talk more about the tricks and dangers of AVOIDING Adversity .. Noyt good for the long run.
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Come on with us as we talk more..
Thank you ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59351707Thu, 25 Apr 2024 09:10:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisI know we just talked about Adversity but Damn .... When God speaks we listen , As we go through more and more obsticals and Adversity we MUST communicate through it ! . In this episode we talk more about the tricks and dangers of AVOIDING Adversity....
In this episode we talk more about the tricks and dangers of AVOIDING Adversity .. Noyt good for the long run.
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Come on with us as we talk more..
Thank you ]]>1835false199fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/198-lets-discuss-divorce--59351682We said it ONE TIME in the last 37 years and NEVER have said it again.
Why ? 
Because we can not go forward if we are looking for an EXIT !!
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Come with us and see what we've done to try and bulletproof our marriage.
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Thank you for listening!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59351682Thu, 18 Apr 2024 09:10:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWell, probably one of the least talked about topics here on our Podcast.  We said it ONE TIME in the last 37 years and NEVER have said it again. Why ?  Because we can not go forward if we are looking for an EXIT !! . Come with us and see what we've...We said it ONE TIME in the last 37 years and NEVER have said it again.
Why ? 
Because we can not go forward if we are looking for an EXIT !!
.
Come with us and see what we've done to try and bulletproof our marriage.
.
Thank you for listening!]]>1933false198fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/197-advirsity-is-an-opportunity--59351660
You Can use this in your marriage as an opportunity to get closer and learn so much about your partner.
Come join us on this little exploration on the good and bad of Adversity.
.
Thank you so much for joining us !!!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59351660Thu, 11 Apr 2024 09:10:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisAdversity ....... You Can use this in your marriage as an opportunity to get closer and learn so much about your partner. Come join us on this little exploration on the good and bad of Adversity. . Thank you so much for joining us !!!
You Can use this in your marriage as an opportunity to get closer and learn so much about your partner.
Come join us on this little exploration on the good and bad of Adversity.
.
Thank you so much for joining us !!!]]>1871false197fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/196-bulletproof-your-marriage--59046295
We discuss the divorce rates and some of the leading causes, some you may find interesting. looking at statistics and how they are manipulated to fit one's opinion or desired outcome, Divorce is so much more prevalent today rather that in the early days and WHY ?? 
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We have our own opinion and looking throughout history on divorce , its NOT supposed to be a common thing but we sometimes just use it as a "Get out of Jail" free card.. 
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IF you belive the statistics its showing s delince in marriages biut maybe not the reason you think ..
>
Welcome to Thou shalt not Kill Podcast !!!

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59046295Thu, 21 Mar 2024 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBULLEPROOFING your marriage.. We discuss the divorce rates and some of the leading causes, some you may find interesting. looking at statistics and how they are manipulated to fit one's opinion or desired outcome, Divorce is so much more prevalent...
We discuss the divorce rates and some of the leading causes, some you may find interesting. looking at statistics and how they are manipulated to fit one's opinion or desired outcome, Divorce is so much more prevalent today rather that in the early days and WHY ?? 
.
We have our own opinion and looking throughout history on divorce , its NOT supposed to be a common thing but we sometimes just use it as a "Get out of Jail" free card.. 
>
IF you belive the statistics its showing s delince in marriages biut maybe not the reason you think ..
>
Welcome to Thou shalt not Kill Podcast !!!

]]>2037false196fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/195-compromise-what-a-concept--59045951
Compromise ... Its often looked at as there is a winner and a looser .. 
Restructure your brain when it comes to a winner and loser in your marriage.
.
We discuss the real-life compromises we do daily in our relationships and how it
does NOT need to be a win-or-lose battle.
Join us a s we walk though compromise in our daily lives.

Welcome !]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59045951Thu, 14 Mar 2024 15:29:08 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWelcome to another edition of TSNK .. Compromise ... Its often looked at as there is a winner and a looser ..  Restructure your brain when it comes to a winner and loser in your marriage. . We discuss the real-life compromises we do daily in our...
Compromise ... Its often looked at as there is a winner and a looser .. 
Restructure your brain when it comes to a winner and loser in your marriage.
.
We discuss the real-life compromises we do daily in our relationships and how it
does NOT need to be a win-or-lose battle.
Join us a s we walk though compromise in our daily lives.

Welcome !]]>2286false195fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/194-weve-been-mrried-for-12-million-hours--58666393.
We had a little fun on this one and Anne tells about how she came up with
'being married that long . Its a fun light hearted approach to seeing that TIME together
really is the best way to know each other.

Thanks for listening]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58666393Thu, 29 Feb 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisSO looks like we have been married for 12 MILLION Hours ( According to Anne ) . We had a little fun on this one and Anne tells about how she came up with 'being married that long . Its a fun light hearted approach to seeing that TIME together really....
We had a little fun on this one and Anne tells about how she came up with
'being married that long . Its a fun light hearted approach to seeing that TIME together
really is the best way to know each other.

Thanks for listening]]>1705false194fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/193-how-men-can-be-there-for-you-women--58666189
In this episode we talk a lot to the men and what it looks like for a Woman to
feel that they have a partner who understands what they want .

How can you communicate what you want in those times that you may
just need an ear to hear you .

Thanks for Listening \.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58666189Thu, 22 Feb 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWho we can be there for each other .. In this episode we talk a lot to the men and what it looks like for a Woman to feel that they have a partner who understands what they want . How can you communicate what you want in those times that you may...
In this episode we talk a lot to the men and what it looks like for a Woman to
feel that they have a partner who understands what they want .

How can you communicate what you want in those times that you may
just need an ear to hear you .

Thanks for Listening \.]]>1914false193fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/192-we-love-those-we-help-more-than-those-who-help-us-interesting--58587440connected to and Help in life MORE than those that help us.
it's a fascinating concept, but think about it, I want to help
everyone that I love and want a deeper connection to. Whereas when we get help from others we may not feel the same way.
Let us remember that people are trying to love us and help us without expectations, We should accept help and love from those who support us.

Thanks for listening]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58587440Thu, 15 Feb 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe look and explore the fact that we love those that we feel connected to and Help in life MORE than those that help us. it's a fascinating concept, but think about it, I want to help everyone that I love and want a deeper connection to. Whereas when...connected to and Help in life MORE than those that help us.
it's a fascinating concept, but think about it, I want to help
everyone that I love and want a deeper connection to. Whereas when we get help from others we may not feel the same way.
Let us remember that people are trying to love us and help us without expectations, We should accept help and love from those who support us.

Thanks for listening]]>1849false192fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/191-building-bocks-of-intimacy--58587419
Intimacy isn't just for the bedroom.
How does your partner view Intimacy?
There are many forms it takes, in this episode, we go over what can be considered
Intimate and discuss those intimacy killers .

I hope you enjoy and Thank you for all your support.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58587419Thu, 08 Feb 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWell , Here we go .... Intimacy isn't just for the bedroom. How does your partner view Intimacy? There are many forms it takes, in this episode, we go over what can be considered Intimate and discuss those intimacy killers . I hope you enjoy and...
Intimacy isn't just for the bedroom.
How does your partner view Intimacy?
There are many forms it takes, in this episode, we go over what can be considered
Intimate and discuss those intimacy killers .

I hope you enjoy and Thank you for all your support.]]>2051false189fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/190-boundries-re-addressed-and-enforced--58548977We jump back into the discussion on this and WHay can you do to get what you want ,
Im sure there are issues that you will not accept , But guess what .... Your partner has some thing they don't want to put up with , so the best way to figure this out is ....... Simple communication ..

Thanks for listening and the support ..]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58548977Fri, 02 Feb 2024 20:52:47 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIts always good to talk about what you are willing to accept as a partner in ANY Relationship. We jump back into the discussion on this and WHay can you do to get what you want , Im sure there are issues that you will not accept , But guess what .......We jump back into the discussion on this and WHay can you do to get what you want ,
Im sure there are issues that you will not accept , But guess what .... Your partner has some thing they don't want to put up with , so the best way to figure this out is ....... Simple communication ..

Thanks for listening and the support ..]]>1932false190fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/189-having-those-hard-conversations--58448105
How intimidating is THAT ?!!
Having the Hard Conversations is very simple if you practice the little
conversations about the little things.

We go through some ways to make those "Hard" talks easier..

Thanks for listening and please reach out for any Questions or topics
Thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58448105Thu, 25 Jan 2024 18:21:06 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHoney ..... Can WE talk ? How intimidating is THAT ?!! Having the Hard Conversations is very simple if you practice the little conversations about the little things. We go through some ways to make those "Hard" talks easier.. Thanks for listening...
How intimidating is THAT ?!!
Having the Hard Conversations is very simple if you practice the little
conversations about the little things.

We go through some ways to make those "Hard" talks easier..

Thanks for listening and please reach out for any Questions or topics
Thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com]]>1775false189fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/188-lies-liers-and-a-lie--58352456We talk about the ramifications and problems when we continue
to lie to our partner and HOW to stop the Lies>
Wake up and see that a Lie will NEVER get you what you
want I'm the long run ..

Thanks for joining us]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58352456Thu, 18 Jan 2024 17:39:16 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBoy, How do we get around Liers and their Lies? We talk about the ramifications and problems when we continue to lie to our partner and HOW to stop the Lies> Wake up and see that a Lie will NEVER get you what you want I'm the long run .. Thanks...We talk about the ramifications and problems when we continue
to lie to our partner and HOW to stop the Lies>
Wake up and see that a Lie will NEVER get you what you
want I'm the long run ..

Thanks for joining us]]>1998false188fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/186-readdressing-the-t-word-trauma-1-3-24-4-34-pm--58192896I think its a catch all phrase for some to just not deal with the issue at hand , but
This last year we have really examined and dove deep into some longstanding
issues that Scott has been deal;ing with and Lo and behold there just might be something
with childhood Trauma...
Listen in and see if you agree, I guess an old dog can change their mind . LOL]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58192896Thu, 11 Jan 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode we re-address Trauma ... I know , I Absolutely hate that word . I think its a catch all phrase for some to just not deal with the issue at hand , but This last year we have really examined and dove deep into some longstanding issues...I think its a catch all phrase for some to just not deal with the issue at hand , but
This last year we have really examined and dove deep into some longstanding
issues that Scott has been deal;ing with and Lo and behold there just might be something
with childhood Trauma...
Listen in and see if you agree, I guess an old dog can change their mind . LOL]]>1910falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/185-righteous-anger-or-bitchy-editable-1-3-24-4-31-pm--58192870This is a discussion on the difference between Righteous Anget and just being Bitchy,
We go into this episode explaining the difference and how we deal with BOTH Anger and Bitchyness...
It's not real hard to hold onto anger but there is a ,\line that once you cross it, you now have opened up a whole new issue.
Thanks for listening and Happy New Year !]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58192870Thu, 04 Jan 2024 10:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisOK .. This is a discussion on the difference between Righteous Anget and just being Bitchy, We go into this episode explaining the difference and how we deal with BOTH Anger and Bitchyness... It's not real hard to hold onto anger but there is a...This is a discussion on the difference between Righteous Anget and just being Bitchy,
We go into this episode explaining the difference and how we deal with BOTH Anger and Bitchyness...
It's not real hard to hold onto anger but there is a ,\line that once you cross it, you now have opened up a whole new issue.
Thanks for listening and Happy New Year !]]>2175falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/room-mates-12-6-23-12-37-pm--57932415Who likes that ?
When you are married it can happen and its not always good .
Scott and Anne talk about how you can avoid it and work through this very easy habit that we can all fall into ..]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57932415Thu, 14 Dec 2023 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisThe Room Mate phase ...... Who likes that ? When you are married it can happen and its not always good . Scott and Anne talk about how you can avoid it and work through this very easy habit that we can all fall into ..Who likes that ?
When you are married it can happen and its not always good .
Scott and Anne talk about how you can avoid it and work through this very easy habit that we can all fall into ..]]>1770false184fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/182-narcissist-are-you-in-a-marriage-with-one-12-6-23-12-34-pm--57932383We point out some of the difficulties.. WE ARE NOT psychologists, psychiatrists, or any other Dr. We just have been around and seen relationships when one is a Narcissist and it usually isn't pretty.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57932383Wed, 06 Dec 2023 19:47:31 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe go into one of the hardest talks about ehn is enough. Anne and I NEVER want to open the door to divorce, but when dealing with a Narcissist it's VERY hard to live in a complete marriage.. We point out some of the difficulties.. WE ARE NOT...We point out some of the difficulties.. WE ARE NOT psychologists, psychiatrists, or any other Dr. We just have been around and seen relationships when one is a Narcissist and it usually isn't pretty.]]>1953false182fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/181-boundries-revisited--57666796We discuss Boundaries Again and you should have an open conversation about what you are willing to accept in your marriage and or your relationships.
This is a very easy discussion to have and does not need to be an all-out war.
Take the time to work on your relationship when things are good !!
just revisit what you are willing to give and take in your marriage,]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57666796Thu, 23 Nov 2023 10:05:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBoundaries.. Revisited We discuss Boundaries Again and you should have an open conversation about what you are willing to accept in your marriage and or your relationships. This is a very easy discussion to have and does not need to be an all-out war....We discuss Boundaries Again and you should have an open conversation about what you are willing to accept in your marriage and or your relationships.
This is a very easy discussion to have and does not need to be an all-out war.
Take the time to work on your relationship when things are good !!
just revisit what you are willing to give and take in your marriage,]]>1921false181fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/180-not-one-single-one--57666732In this Episode Scott and Anne talk about how NO ONE thought they could, would or should make it in their marriage .. Not Or Single one ..
But lets see and hear how they did and are making a great life filled with Joy, Love and all around Fun ..]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57666732Thu, 16 Nov 2023 15:38:22 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHere we go ! In this Episode Scott and Anne talk about how NO ONE thought they could, would or should make it in their marriage .. Not Or Single one .. But lets see and hear how they did and are making a great life filled with Joy, Love and all...In this Episode Scott and Anne talk about how NO ONE thought they could, would or should make it in their marriage .. Not Or Single one ..
But lets see and hear how they did and are making a great life filled with Joy, Love and all around Fun ..]]>1921false180fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/179-are-you-emotionaly-available-to-your-partner--57424242
This is a MUST-listen]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57424242Thu, 09 Nov 2023 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, you hear Anne and Scott relive an issue they thought was resolved. Still, as they start to discuss, you can see some lingering animosity or anger ..BUT by communicating through it live you can see how they communicate and LISTEN to...
This is a MUST-listen]]>1949falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/178-stop-the-narrative-of-marriage-is-hard--57424222EVERYTHING has issues, its how you attack the issue without labeling it easy or Hard...

Listen in and hear how we do it.

Thank you for all your support!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57424222Thu, 02 Nov 2023 09:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisAre you tired of hearing that " Marriage is Hard"? We do NOT believe in "hard" its a process of learning what each other needs.. EVERYTHING has issues, its how you attack the issue without labeling it easy or Hard... Listen in and hear how we do...EVERYTHING has issues, its how you attack the issue without labeling it easy or Hard...

Listen in and hear how we do it.

Thank you for all your support!]]>1883false178fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-need-to-do-the-work--56889787
We all have our place in the decisions we make and the work that needs to be done to create AND keep a happy Marriage .

Just do the Work .....]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56889787Thu, 21 Sep 2023 21:27:25 +0000Scott & Anne TravisThere is NO easy trick or tool you can do to get better results than Doing the Work ! We all have our place in the decisions we make and the work that needs to be done to create AND keep a happy Marriage . Just do the Work .....
We all have our place in the decisions we make and the work that needs to be done to create AND keep a happy Marriage .

Just do the Work .....]]>1983falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ep-170-is-there-a-bully-in-your-house--56804600Being a Bully in your relationship NEVER works out for the good.
This Episode we talk about how Anne ( She says it in this Episode ) was a bully in the beginning of ours.
Tune in and hopefully we can give some insight on how to change your behavior IF you are THAT bully in your relationship..]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56804600Thu, 14 Sep 2023 20:56:50 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBully ... What is that ? Being a Bully in your relationship NEVER works out for the good. This Episode we talk about how Anne ( She says it in this Episode ) was a bully in the beginning of ours. Tune in and hopefully we can give some insight on how...Being a Bully in your relationship NEVER works out for the good.
This Episode we talk about how Anne ( She says it in this Episode ) was a bully in the beginning of ours.
Tune in and hopefully we can give some insight on how to change your behavior IF you are THAT bully in your relationship..]]>1981false170fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/166-putting-your-money-where-your-mouth-is--54407749https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54407749Thu, 10 Aug 2023 09:40:04 +0000Scott & Anne TravisTodays podcast is all about LESS talk and MORE action on your words.2048false168fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/165-the-words-you-use-in-your-marriage--56356838
How are you using them? to edify or tear down ...

We chat about how WE talk to each other and how we avoid the triggers.


Enjoy!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56356838Thu, 03 Aug 2023 14:27:34 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWords have all the power ... How are you using them? to edify or tear down ... We chat about how WE talk to each other and how we avoid the triggers. Enjoy!
How are you using them? to edify or tear down ...

We chat about how WE talk to each other and how we avoid the triggers.


Enjoy!]]>1944false165fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/using-sex-as-a-tool-in-your-marriage--56247936
Are you using it as a tool?
In this episode we talk about how bad it is if used to reward or punish your partner, We are all about having fun and sexy games BUT to use it to feel bad is NOT what it's about.

Thanks for tuning in]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56247936Thu, 27 Jul 2023 13:35:35 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe say Sex is a way to communicate feeling Love and respect. Are you using it as a tool? In this episode we talk about how bad it is if used to reward or punish your partner, We are all about having fun and sexy games BUT to use it to feel bad is...
Are you using it as a tool?
In this episode we talk about how bad it is if used to reward or punish your partner, We are all about having fun and sexy games BUT to use it to feel bad is NOT what it's about.

Thanks for tuning in]]>1981falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/respect-in-your-marriage-tsnk--56163005Many consider the word respect a dominant or master role in a relationship.
We talk about the respect you have for and with your space, which can only enhance it as respect is key to getting more of what you desire as you respect your spouse more ..


let's see what you think.

Got a topic ... Thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56163005Thu, 20 Jul 2023 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisRespect ... What a concept nowadays . Many consider the word respect a dominant or master role in a relationship. We talk about the respect you have for and with your space, which can only enhance it as respect is key to getting more of what you...Many consider the word respect a dominant or master role in a relationship.
We talk about the respect you have for and with your space, which can only enhance it as respect is key to getting more of what you desire as you respect your spouse more ..


let's see what you think.

Got a topic ... Thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com]]>1941false160fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/verbal-affirmations--56056161In this episode, we talk about how a simple word can change the direction of a fight, a dinner, or a conversation at bedtime.
Think of it like this ... We can have ANYTHING we want!
It's all in how we say it.

Do a verbal check-in with your spouse and join us !!!!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56056161Thu, 13 Jul 2023 09:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisOur Words have SO much meaning, In this episode, we talk about how a simple word can change the direction of a fight, a dinner, or a conversation at bedtime. Think of it like this ... We can have ANYTHING we want! It's all in how we say it. Do a...In this episode, we talk about how a simple word can change the direction of a fight, a dinner, or a conversation at bedtime.
Think of it like this ... We can have ANYTHING we want!
It's all in how we say it.

Do a verbal check-in with your spouse and join us !!!!]]>1277falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-many-lives-we-live-in-a-lifetime--54407906https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54407906Thu, 22 Jun 2023 09:15:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisOK .... We all just get 1 life, BUT within that life, we have so many choices and decisions that we all have. In this episode, we talk about some of the options and life decisions we all need to make. So join us for our fireside talk.2331falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/putting-your-money-where-your-mouth-is--54361612Start putting your money where your mouth is in this episode.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54361612Thu, 15 Jun 2023 09:05:01 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHow many times do we just talk to shut up our partner ? Start putting your money where your mouth is in this episode.Start putting your money where your mouth is in this episode.]]>2045falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/156-put-your-damn-phone-down--53635698How many times does the Phone get in the way of attention from your partner? This episode we go into what we have done and now do ( Not all the time ) to make sure we have each others attention, its NOT always easy but we can get you through some of the issues we all go through with Kids, Business, and just all around nonsense that the phone brings to our lives.

Listen in ..

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53635698Thu, 04 May 2023 09:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHow many times does the Phone get in the way of attention from your partner? This episode we go into what we have done and now do ( Not all the time ) to make sure we have each others attention, its NOT always easy but we can get you through some of...How many times does the Phone get in the way of attention from your partner? This episode we go into what we have done and now do ( Not all the time ) to make sure we have each others attention, its NOT always easy but we can get you through some of the issues we all go through with Kids, Business, and just all around nonsense that the phone brings to our lives.

Listen in ..

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1852conflict,love,marriage,partnership,phones,relationships,resolutiontrue152fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/155-just-say-yes--53635617In this episode, we discuss how saying "YES" can change life's direction.
We are all creatures of habit yet having your partner's support by changing this up can be huge for growing. Whether it's in the board room or the bedroom, say "yes" more……

Listen in..

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53635617Thu, 27 Apr 2023 09:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, we discuss how saying "YES" can change life's direction. We are all creatures of habit yet having your partner's support by changing this up can be huge for growing. Whether it's in the board room or the bedroom, say "yes" more……...In this episode, we discuss how saying "YES" can change life's direction.
We are all creatures of habit yet having your partner's support by changing this up can be huge for growing. Whether it's in the board room or the bedroom, say "yes" more……

Listen in..

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>2039bedroom,communication,marriage,relationship,yestrue155fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/154-apologies-replay--53590654
Not only are apologies hard, but accepting them are hard when you just want to punish the other person.

We complicate it more times than not and we’re gonna simplify this for you - Listen In!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53590654Thu, 20 Apr 2023 09:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisLet’s discuss the challenges and consequences associated with offense and owning your errors in marriage. Not only are apologies hard, but accepting them are hard when you just want to punish the other person. We complicate it more times than not...
Not only are apologies hard, but accepting them are hard when you just want to punish the other person.

We complicate it more times than not and we’re gonna simplify this for you - Listen In!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1525couples,dating,love,marriage,married,partners,soulmatestrue154fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/153-reaping-what-you-sow-into-your-marriage--53386936
Every action has a reaction. If you aren’t getting the results you want, you may want to reflect on your own actions.

You create your own environment. Create an environment of love, affection, trust, respect, and communication.

We’ve had a LOT of practice, trial, and error over 37 years.

Listen now!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53386936Thu, 13 Apr 2023 09:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWhat kind of results are you expecting in your marriage? Every action has a reaction. If you aren’t getting the results you want, you may want to reflect on your own actions. You create your own environment. Create an environment of love,...
Every action has a reaction. If you aren’t getting the results you want, you may want to reflect on your own actions.

You create your own environment. Create an environment of love, affection, trust, respect, and communication.

We’ve had a LOT of practice, trial, and error over 37 years.

Listen now!

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]]>1694couples,dating,marriage,married,partnershipfalse153fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/152-stop-redefining-marriage--53386926
Marriage is marriage. Period.

You’re just going to have to listen to this one.

Dive in!

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Marriage is marriage. Period.

You’re just going to have to listen to this one.

Dive in!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
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This is not an episode where we will get on a soap box and tell you that you should or should not drink or use drugs and we aren’t here to judge anyone else’s situation. However, we do share OUR experience and we can tell you with 100% certainty that drinking has never helped our relationship. So we choose not to partake, for the most part.

What do you choose?

Listen now!

We just announced our first couples' retreat for our private group members!
Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com

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]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53386896Thu, 30 Mar 2023 09:00:04 +0000Scott & Anne TravisScott agrees, “A drunk man’s words are a sober man’s thoughts,” and Anne - having much more ‘drunk’ experience than Scott - does not. This is not an episode where we will get on a soap box and tell you that you should or should not drink or use drugs...Scott agrees, “A drunk man’s words are a sober man’s thoughts,” and Anne - having much more ‘drunk’ experience than Scott - does not.

This is not an episode where we will get on a soap box and tell you that you should or should not drink or use drugs and we aren’t here to judge anyone else’s situation. However, we do share OUR experience and we can tell you with 100% certainty that drinking has never helped our relationship. So we choose not to partake, for the most part.

What do you choose?

Listen now!

We just announced our first couples' retreat for our private group members!
Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

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]]>1935alcoholism,communication,conflict,couples,dating,love,marriage,partnershipfalse151fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/150-shame-and-guilt-in-your-relationship--53226439
Shaming is a low-vibration form of communication. Guilt and “reverse psychology” isn’t going to get you the results you want in your relationship or marriage.

We’ll give you some new tactics in this episode to get the results you WANT.
Listen now!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53226439Thu, 23 Mar 2023 14:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisAre you outing your partner? Shaming is a low-vibration form of communication. Guilt and “reverse psychology” isn’t going to get you the results you want in your relationship or marriage. We’ll give you some new tactics in this episode to get the...
Shaming is a low-vibration form of communication. Guilt and “reverse psychology” isn’t going to get you the results you want in your relationship or marriage.

We’ll give you some new tactics in this episode to get the results you WANT.
Listen now!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1857communication,conflict,couples,dating,intimacy,love,marriage,partnership,relationshipfalse150fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/149-no-room-for-ego-in-marriage--53226222
There’s healthy challenge and unhealthy challenge. Do you know the difference?
There’s not always one right answer. We’ll help you identify the difference between healthy and unhealthy challenge and how to bring more empathy and open-mindedness into your marriage.

Listen now!

We have a couples' retreat coming up for our private group members - so if you aren't in the know, go to www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com to sign up now and get in the know!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53226222Thu, 16 Mar 2023 16:41:42 +0000Scott & Anne TravisOr is there? Just dive in and listen to this one! Things might get a little hairy. There’s healthy challenge and unhealthy challenge. Do you know the difference? There’s not always one right answer. We’ll help you identify the difference between...
There’s healthy challenge and unhealthy challenge. Do you know the difference?
There’s not always one right answer. We’ll help you identify the difference between healthy and unhealthy challenge and how to bring more empathy and open-mindedness into your marriage.

Listen now!

We have a couples' retreat coming up for our private group members - so if you aren't in the know, go to www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com to sign up now and get in the know!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast]]>1950communication,conflict,couples,dating,intimacy,love,marriage,partnership,relationshipsfalse149fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/148-pornography-in-marriage--53144553
Like any vice, pornography is a slippery slope that can find us in a pit of needing and wanting things that aren’t healthy or appropriate for us as individuals, our mental healthy, or in relationships.

If you need stimulation in your relationship, it’s all about open communication. You don’t need to go elsewhere to get your kicks. Everyone has a kink. Get naked and talk about it!

Listen now!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

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Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53144553Thu, 09 Mar 2023 08:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIt can be an awkward topic, but we’re not gonna shy away from communication NOW. But we WILL start by saying - this is OUR opinion, from our own experience. Like any vice, pornography is a slippery slope that can find us in a pit of needing and...
Like any vice, pornography is a slippery slope that can find us in a pit of needing and wanting things that aren’t healthy or appropriate for us as individuals, our mental healthy, or in relationships.

If you need stimulation in your relationship, it’s all about open communication. You don’t need to go elsewhere to get your kicks. Everyone has a kink. Get naked and talk about it!

Listen now!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1875commication,conflict,couples,dating,intimacy,love,marriage,partnership,relationships,sextrue148fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/147-setting-budgets-in-your-home--53072653
We have never kept anything separate. That includes our money, so this has never been an issue in our marriage. In this episode, we will talk about our strategies and tools for budgeting our household and how to prevent unnecessary issues in your partnership around finances.
Listen now!

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Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
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Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53072653Thu, 02 Mar 2023 15:09:48 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBusinesses need to run and so does a marriage. This is a partnership. You’ve heard us talk about Board Meetings and this is a good time to talk about your finances. This isn’t “my money” - it’s “our money.” We have never kept anything separate. That...
We have never kept anything separate. That includes our money, so this has never been an issue in our marriage. In this episode, we will talk about our strategies and tools for budgeting our household and how to prevent unnecessary issues in your partnership around finances.
Listen now!

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Do you have questions or topic suggestions?
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1814budgets,communication,couples,dating,love,marriage,newlyweds,relationshipsfalse147fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/146-do-the-work--52822936
When you aren’t doing the work, you become unreliable. Are you a man or woman of your word? Words without action are meaningless. We want to help you apply what we’ve learned, do the work, and show up with integrity in your relationship.

We are a team. You and your partner are a team. And we want to see your team win!
Listen to the episode for more!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

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Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52822936Thu, 23 Feb 2023 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisDo you have a drawer full of knowledge that you aren’t using? There’s no quick pill to a good marriage. You've got to put in the work!! When you aren’t doing the work, you become unreliable. Are you a man or woman of your word? Words without action...
When you aren’t doing the work, you become unreliable. Are you a man or woman of your word? Words without action are meaningless. We want to help you apply what we’ve learned, do the work, and show up with integrity in your relationship.

We are a team. You and your partner are a team. And we want to see your team win!
Listen to the episode for more!

Do you have questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1776communication,couples,dating,divorce,love,marriage,partnership,relationshipsfalse146fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/145-don-t-be-petty--52750931
Don’t let pettiness drag something small into a huge fight.

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Got questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52750931Thu, 16 Feb 2023 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisSometimes we do things without thinking. There was no ill intent, but it annoyed our partner. One small slight can set off an entire series of unfortunately petty events. It might be the last straw, the tip of the iceberg. Don’t let pettiness drag...
Don’t let pettiness drag something small into a huge fight.

Listen to the episode for more!

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com

Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Got questions or topic suggestions? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast]]>1624communication,conflict,couples,dating,love,marriage,relationshipsfalse145fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/144-building-blocks--52677897
Since we’re building relationships, let’s start with the foundation. There are building blocks that make up the foundation of every relationship.
Respect.
Love.
Consideration.
Communication. (Shocking, we know)
Just to name a few.
This leads us to some conflict resolution tips and examples.

We can’t stress enough that there is a learning curve to building this foundation and no one has it all figured out right out of the gate. It may be rocky at times. Just stick it out and give yourselves, your partner, and your marriage the chance to learn to build this foundation together!

Listen to the episode for more!

If you have any questions, we love to hear from you guys!
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52677897Thu, 09 Feb 2023 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe’ll start with a brief update on Anne’s health and then we’re jumping right back into our regularly scheduled programming of lessons, tangents, laughs.. and Anne crying. Since we’re building relationships, let’s start with the foundation. There...
Since we’re building relationships, let’s start with the foundation. There are building blocks that make up the foundation of every relationship.
Respect.
Love.
Consideration.
Communication. (Shocking, we know)
Just to name a few.
This leads us to some conflict resolution tips and examples.

We can’t stress enough that there is a learning curve to building this foundation and no one has it all figured out right out of the gate. It may be rocky at times. Just stick it out and give yourselves, your partner, and your marriage the chance to learn to build this foundation together!

Listen to the episode for more!

If you have any questions, we love to hear from you guys!
Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
Or DM us on Instagram @thoushaltnotkill_podcast

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>2268courting,dating,divorce,love,marriage,partnership,relationships,union,vowsfalse144fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/143-cherish-her--52611819
One week we’re on a cruise in Mexico with friends - happy and healthy. Two weeks later Anne is having unexpected brain surgery. But there are no coincidences and we can’t wait to share this story with you.

Warning, but no apologies - we’re going to talk a lot about God in this podcast, as this is a huge and somewhat unexpected part of the story and what we have been through in the past month.

2023 started off with a BANG for us - completely rocking our world. How has your first month of 2023 been?

We’d love to hear from you - Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52611819Thu, 02 Feb 2023 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisBrace yourselves - this is a long one and there will be a lot of crying (and not just from Anne), as we have a LOT to catch you up on and it’s been a life-changing month. One week we’re on a cruise in Mexico with friends - happy and healthy. Two...
One week we’re on a cruise in Mexico with friends - happy and healthy. Two weeks later Anne is having unexpected brain surgery. But there are no coincidences and we can’t wait to share this story with you.

Warning, but no apologies - we’re going to talk a lot about God in this podcast, as this is a huge and somewhat unexpected part of the story and what we have been through in the past month.

2023 started off with a BANG for us - completely rocking our world. How has your first month of 2023 been?

We’d love to hear from you - Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>4346love,marriage,relationshipstrue143fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/142-apologize-for-what--52481201
Who has a harder time apologizing? Men or women?
How do pride and ego come into play?
Who benefits more from the apology - the giver or the receiver?

Listen now to see what we think - because we just may have to agree to disagree on this one!

We love hearing from you and want to know what topics YOU want us to cover! Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52481201Thu, 19 Jan 2023 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe will always say that communication is the answer to any of your relationship issues, but you better say what you mean and mean what you say! If an apology is an acknowledgment that something needs to change, is an apology sometimes unnecessary? Do...
Who has a harder time apologizing? Men or women?
How do pride and ego come into play?
Who benefits more from the apology - the giver or the receiver?

Listen now to see what we think - because we just may have to agree to disagree on this one!

We love hearing from you and want to know what topics YOU want us to cover! Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1861apologies,communication,love,marriage,relationships,vowstrue142fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/141-new-year-starting-it-off-right--52421651It was a great time with close friends and lots of sun and water, but we got what we really needed - which was time to disconnect from 2022 and reconnect with one another to start 2023 off right!

We had our Annual Board Meeting on the boat. For two hours, we reviewed 2022 and strategically planned for ourselves individually and our marriage for this year!

It's not too late. You can do yours too!

What went well last year in all areas - family, business, connection, etc.?
Did you meet your goals?
What could you do differently?
What will you leave behind?
What are your goals for this year and how will you accomplish them TOGETHER?
Write it down and be CLEAR!

Listen now and tell us how your board meeting went! Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52421651Thu, 12 Jan 2023 13:27:38 +0000Scott & Anne TravisWe started our year off right with our favorite way to travel - on a cruise! It was a great time with close friends and lots of sun and water, but we got what we really needed - which was time to disconnect from 2022 and reconnect with one another to...It was a great time with close friends and lots of sun and water, but we got what we really needed - which was time to disconnect from 2022 and reconnect with one another to start 2023 off right!

We had our Annual Board Meeting on the boat. For two hours, we reviewed 2022 and strategically planned for ourselves individually and our marriage for this year!

It's not too late. You can do yours too!

What went well last year in all areas - family, business, connection, etc.?
Did you meet your goals?
What could you do differently?
What will you leave behind?
What are your goals for this year and how will you accomplish them TOGETHER?
Write it down and be CLEAR!

Listen now and tell us how your board meeting went! Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1752love,marriage,relationship,relationships,vowsfalse141fullhttp://www.resolutionscoachinggroup.comComing out of the holiday season, we’re reminded how old traumas can make us feel undeserving of love. Obviously, this is going to carry into our adult relationships. You’re not unique in this, nor alone.

Let’s discuss how we can work on this within ourselves, in order to show up in our relationship without placing the blame and expectation on our partner.

Accept the love that your partner is giving you!


Want to reach out? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52338262Thu, 05 Jan 2023 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisTurns out - we’re past Christmas ;) Coming out of the holiday season, we’re reminded how old traumas can make us feel undeserving of love. Obviously, this is going to carry into our adult relationships. You’re not unique in this, nor alone. Let’s...Coming out of the holiday season, we’re reminded how old traumas can make us feel undeserving of love. Obviously, this is going to carry into our adult relationships. You’re not unique in this, nor alone.

Let’s discuss how we can work on this within ourselves, in order to show up in our relationship without placing the blame and expectation on our partner.

Accept the love that your partner is giving you!


Want to reach out? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1974divorce,love,marriage,relationship,relationships,separation,vows,weddingtrue140fullhttp://www.resolutionscoachinggroup.comHappy New Year!

We’re leaving those bad behaviors back in 2022, so we can embrace new, better behavior in 2023!!

We aren’t trying to change our partner. Let’s talk about how we are working on ourselves, which will in turn strengthen our relationship.

We want to see you level up and fall in love, over and over again!

Want to reach out? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52338244Tue, 03 Jan 2023 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisHappy New Year! We’re leaving those bad behaviors back in 2022, so we can embrace new, better behavior in 2023!! We aren’t trying to change our partner. Let’s talk about how we are working on ourselves, which will in turn strengthen our...Happy New Year!

We’re leaving those bad behaviors back in 2022, so we can embrace new, better behavior in 2023!!

We aren’t trying to change our partner. Let’s talk about how we are working on ourselves, which will in turn strengthen our relationship.

We want to see you level up and fall in love, over and over again!

Want to reach out? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com

Want to go deeper? Check out our private coaching group www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com]]>1810commitment,divorce,love,marriage,relationship,separation,vows,weddingtrue139fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/138-negative-words-are-not-motivational--52231505
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52231505Thu, 22 Dec 2022 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss avoiding the temptation to use negative words in an attempt to motivate through reverse psychology and, instead, express yourself with positivity to influence and build confidence. Listen in! Thank you for...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52231374Tue, 20 Dec 2022 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss recognizing all the things, great and small, that your spouse does for you with kind words, respect and appreciation that is uplifting and strengthens your marriage. Listen in! Thank you for listening to this...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52168582Thu, 15 Dec 2022 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the reasons behind, and resulting fallout from, telling half-truths in a relationship and how it's much easier to be upfront and honest with your spouse about everything. Listen in! Thank you for listening to...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52168441Tue, 13 Dec 2022 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss being prepared as a couple and a family for the stresses that naturally arise during the holiday season by planning ahead and communicating clearly in order to get through this time of year as smoothly as...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52102496Tue, 06 Dec 2022 10:00:03 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss focusing on the present and sticking to the facts when arguing with your spouse where the goal should be to listen attentively, speak honestly, seek understanding, and then resolve the issue with the commitment...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52038881Thu, 01 Dec 2022 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne spend the first part of the episode finishing their latest argument and then discuss the commitment and responsibility differences between boyfriends/girlfriends and husbands/wives and how to properly play the role that...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52038826Tue, 29 Nov 2022 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss constantly investing in the relationship equity that you have in your marriage to demonstrate that your partner continues to be the most important, respected and cherished person in your life. Listen in!...
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Thank you for listening to this episode of Thou Shalt Not Kill]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51974577Thu, 24 Nov 2022 10:00:02 +0000Scott & Anne TravisIn this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the confidence, trust and affection that builds within a marriage from consistent kindnesses that also pay bigger relationship dividends and add up to so much more than occasional grand gestures. Listen in!...
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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss their many experiences with family members from each side of the marriage. They also discuss the right way to handle unwanted or inappropriate comments and actions from in-laws.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the Badass Boudoir Weekend and supporting your spouse with growth experiences. They also talk about how conflict and adversity make you stronger and better able to handle life's difficulties.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the Badass Boudoir Weekend and supporting your spouse with growth experiences. They also talk about how conflict and adversity make you stronger and better able to handle life's difficulties.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss enjoying hobbies together with your spouse. They also talk about how your interests evolve with children and with age throughout the course of your marriage.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss enjoying hobbies together with your spouse. They also talk about how your interests evolve with children and with age throughout the course of your marriage.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the impact to your home life of both the positive and negative aspects of your work life. They also talk about the communication and support you have with each other during critical stages and outright changes in your career.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the impact to your home life of both the positive and negative aspects of your work life. They also talk about the communication and support you have with each other during critical stages and outright changes in your career.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss how much more love you can bring to your marriage and your spouse if you truly love yourself first. They also talk about overcoming shallow narratives and claiming your power by changing personal stories to which you are addicted.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss how much more love you can bring to your marriage and your spouse if you truly love yourself first. They also talk about overcoming shallow narratives and claiming your power by changing personal stories to which you are addicted.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the physical, emotional and spiritual connection of sex with your spouse. They also talk about the relationship of sex with communication, contention, kids, hormones, and the possibility of looking outside the marriage.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the physical, emotional and spiritual connection of sex with your spouse. They also talk about the relationship of sex with communication, contention, kids, hormones, and the possibility of looking outside the marriage.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the evolving relationship that you have with your kids as they grow up and become adults. They also talk about dealing with disagreements and the emotional ups and downs that come with parenting older children.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the evolving relationship that you have with your kids as they grow up and become adults. They also talk about dealing with disagreements and the emotional ups and downs that come with parenting older children.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the destructive ramifications of keeping score in your marriage. They also talk about how marriage is a team sport that works better when you establish responsibilities and roles for each other.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the destructive ramifications of keeping score in your marriage. They also talk about how marriage is a team sport that works better when you establish responsibilities and roles for each other.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss making, saving, and trusting each other with money in your marriage. They also talk about the differences in the financial discussion between when you are dating and when you are in a relationship.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss making, saving, and trusting each other with money in your marriage. They also talk about the differences in the financial discussion between when you are dating and when you are in a relationship.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss what to do and what not to do when conflicts and disagreements arise in your relationship. They also talk about tempering anger, letting your spouse vocally express themself, and thinking about the impact of the words you use.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss what to do and what not to do when conflicts and disagreements arise in your relationship. They also talk about tempering anger, letting your spouse vocally express themself, and thinking about the impact of the words you use.

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Boundaries, respect and accountability are the foundational principles to protecting any relationship in your life.

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Boundaries, respect and accountability are the foundational principles to protecting any relationship in your life.

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One of the main love languages is physical touch, and when it's handled without intention it causes issues.

It's easy to see how this could affect your relationship.

On this episode, Scott and Anne dive into this and clear the air, so that you can in grab a cheek with intent *rimshot*

These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

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One of the main love languages is physical touch, and when it's handled without intention it causes issues.

It's easy to see how this could affect your relationship.

On this episode, Scott and Anne dive into this and clear the air, so that you can in grab a cheek with intent *rimshot*

These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

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Can you see how this affects your relationship?

On this episode, Scott and Anne dive into this and clear the air, so that you can in turn clear there air as well.

We complicate it more times than not. These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

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Can you see how this affects your relationship?

On this episode, Scott and Anne dive into this and clear the air, so that you can in turn clear there air as well.

We complicate it more times than not. These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss the challenges and consequences associated with offense and owning your errors in marriage.

We complicate it more times than not. These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss the challenges and consequences associated with offense and owning your errors in marriage.

We complicate it more times than not. These two marriage veterans break it down and make it simple.

Also, enjoy the "fuck you fight" dialogue lol...

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss how communication develops and evolves over the course of a relationship. They also talk about how to ask the right questions, the different communication styles used with children, and dealing with lies and misrepresentations.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss how communication develops and evolves over the course of a relationship. They also talk about how to ask the right questions, the different communication styles used with children, and dealing with lies and misrepresentations.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss communication and using the right language when resolving disagreements in your marriage. They also talk about understanding your spouse's love languages and working on areas in which you need to improve.

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In this episode, Scott and Ann discuss communication and using the right language when resolving disagreements in your marriage. They also talk about understanding your spouse's love languages and working on areas in which you need to improve.

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In their inaugural episode, Scott and Ann discuss their marriage and the things they have learned from observing other marriages. They also talk about decision making within a relationship, seeking marriage counseling, and the inspiration behind Thou Shalt Not Kill.

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In their inaugural episode, Scott and Ann discuss their marriage and the things they have learned from observing other marriages. They also talk about decision making within a relationship, seeking marriage counseling, and the inspiration behind Thou Shalt Not Kill.

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