NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

NeuroDiverse Christian Coupleshttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356enMental Health2021+ Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmeshttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/f09c41d1723bc2d4e969584a9d155304.jpgNeuroDiverse Christian Coupleshttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356Sat, 15 Aug 2026 22:02:49 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie Holmesdr.stephanie@holmesasr.comLike all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have...true2ab2960f-b7bc-5b12-8c19-5a7c8d2c8c10episodicIdentity Crisis, Underdeveloped Identity and Building Identity in Autismhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/identity-crisis-underdeveloped-identity-and-building-identity-in-autism--74085132

Why does one addiction pop up when you master another?

How is Attachment related to Addiction?

Why do autistic folks struggle with an integrated identity (thoughts from Dr. Tony Attwood and Dr. Jim Wilder).

How does identity relate to attachment and addiction?

Why does one addiction pop up when you master another?

How is Attachment related to Addiction?

Why do autistic folks struggle with an integrated identity (thoughts from Dr. Tony Attwood and Dr. Jim Wilder).

How does identity relate to attachment and addiction?

Some introductory thoughts on the topic.
An older podcast with Dr. Wilder and identity: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/identity-attachment-your-neurodiverse-relationship-with-dr-jim-wilder--67855836
Dr. Wilder/Life Model: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Np62L3yHM5o&t=3s
Build a Brain: https://lifemodelworks.org/resources/watch/build-a-brain
Dr. Tony's website: Self-identity
https://www.attwoodandgarnettevents.com/blogs/news/self-identity-and-autism-why-does-it-matter
]]>2627falsefullLove, Sex & Autism with Guest Candice Christiansenhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-sex-autism-with-guest-candice-christiansen--73267372In this episode, Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Barbara Grant welcome back Candice Christiansen, LCMHC, Autism-ADHD specialist and author of Love, Sex & Autism. Candice previously joined us to discuss the significant overlap between autism, ADHD, and addiction. That previous show is here:
This time, the conversation turns to one of the most requested—and often misunderstood—topics in neurodiverse relationships: sex and intimacy.
The past show with Candice: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/porn-sex-addiction-sexuality-autism-with-candice-christiansen--67047295
Together they explore:

Why autism and ADHD can influence sexual desire in very different ways
Hypersexuality, compulsive sexual behaviors, and sexual addiction
Low libido and desire discrepancies between partners
Sensory sensitivities and how they affect intimacy
The role of trauma, shame, and emotional safety
How differences in communication can create misunderstanding around sex
Why pressure, coercion, obligation, and manipulation damage intimacy
How couples can accommodate differing libidos with compassion and mutual respect

Why autism and ADHD can influence sexual desire in very different ways
Hypersexuality, compulsive sexual behaviors, and sexual addiction
Low libido and desire discrepancies between partners
Sensory sensitivities and how they affect intimacy
The role of trauma, shame, and emotional safety
How differences in communication can create misunderstanding around sex
Why pressure, coercion, obligation, and manipulation damage intimacy
How couples can accommodate differing libidos with compassion and mutual respect

The central message of this conversation is that healthy intimacy is not measured by frequency or performance. Lasting sexual connection grows from mutual safety, trust, compassion, emotional connection, and genuine concern for one another's well-being. Especially in neurodiverse marriages, where sensory differences, communication challenges, and differing sexual needs may exist, intimacy flourishes when both partners feel emotionally and physically safe, free from coercion, compulsions, addiction, guilt, or pressure.
Whether you are navigating high libido, low libido, sensory differences, or simply seeking a healthier understanding of intimacy, this conversation offers practical insights and hope for building a relationship where both partners can experience mutual pleasure, respect, and connection.
About Our GuestCandice Christiansen, LCMHC is an Autistic-ADHD autism expert who provides neuro-affirming consultation and training to medical and mental health providers, universities, treatment centers, and organizations. She is passionate about ensuring that autistic individuals receive ethical, neuro-inclusive medical and mental health support in treatment settings addressing mental health, substance use, sex, and intimacy. She is the author of Love, Sex & Autism.
Barbara Grant mentioned being able to assess for autism- make an Appointment!
https://bg-hc.com/
About the MIGDAS-2 and why Adults Should be Assessed with MIGDAS-2
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/migdas-2-and-adult-asd-evaluations-with-dr-donna-berghauser--62693428
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/diagnosing-autism-early-intervention-the-ados-cars-migdas-2--71839330
]]>3177falsefullHow the ND Brain May Be Wired for Pseudo Joy/Pseudo Peace, BEEPS and Addiction with Ed Khourihttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-the-nd-brain-may-be-wired-for-pseudo-joy-pseudo-peace-beeps-and-addiction-with-ed-khouri--73247700 About Ed Khouri
https://www.equippinghearts.com/our-team
For more than 40 years, Ed Khouri has worked with substance abusers and their families in diverse settings. Serving as a pastoral counselor, trainer, and writer, Ed’s work has encompassed outpatient counseling, jails, and transitional housing for homeless addicts in all phases of residential treatment. He even provided daily supervision for all therapeutic services and staff in a 96-bed state-licensed substance abuse treatment program.
Today, as an experienced trainer, Ed leads workshops in churches and ministries worldwide, equipping workers to serve hurting men and women in their own communities. He regularly trains and collaborates with ministries, including Thrive Today, The International Substance Abuse and Addiction Coalition (ISAAC), and Youth With A Mission's Addictive Behavior Counseling School.
Ed has a B.A. in Behavioral and Social Sciences and began his Master’s Program at the University of Florida. Ordained in 1988, he is the president of Equipping Hearts.
Ed has written several books, including The Restarting Workbook and Facilitator’s Guide. Together with Dr. E. James Wilder, Ed co-authored several books and training materials: The Connexus Program, Belonging, and Joy Starts Here: The Transformation Zone.

Dopamine articles
What’s the Deal With Dopamine and ADHD? | Psychology Today
Frontiers | Dopamine in Autism Spectrum Disorders—Focus on D2/D3 Partial Agonists and Their Possible Use in Treatment
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73247700Mon, 03 Aug 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we are talking about addiction and why the ADHD or ASD brain seems to be more prone to addictive behaviors, or substance or porn addiction, with addiction specialist Ed Khouri. Links below will share some articles that support the discussion.... About Ed Khouri
https://www.equippinghearts.com/our-team
For more than 40 years, Ed Khouri has worked with substance abusers and their families in diverse settings. Serving as a pastoral counselor, trainer, and writer, Ed’s work has encompassed outpatient counseling, jails, and transitional housing for homeless addicts in all phases of residential treatment. He even provided daily supervision for all therapeutic services and staff in a 96-bed state-licensed substance abuse treatment program.
Today, as an experienced trainer, Ed leads workshops in churches and ministries worldwide, equipping workers to serve hurting men and women in their own communities. He regularly trains and collaborates with ministries, including Thrive Today, The International Substance Abuse and Addiction Coalition (ISAAC), and Youth With A Mission's Addictive Behavior Counseling School.
Ed has a B.A. in Behavioral and Social Sciences and began his Master’s Program at the University of Florida. Ordained in 1988, he is the president of Equipping Hearts.
Ed has written several books, including The Restarting Workbook and Facilitator’s Guide. Together with Dr. E. James Wilder, Ed co-authored several books and training materials: The Connexus Program, Belonging, and Joy Starts Here: The Transformation Zone.

Dopamine articles
What’s the Deal With Dopamine and ADHD? | Psychology Today
Frontiers | Dopamine in Autism Spectrum Disorders—Focus on D2/D3 Partial Agonists and Their Possible Use in Treatment
]]>3145falsefullYou Get What You Pay For (Invest Wisely)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-get-what-you-pay-for-invest-wisely--73003085 In this episode of Just the Guys, we talk about the gap between intentions and impact, why many men accidentally build a marriage they never intended, and what happens when we move from simply maintaining a relationship to intentionally investing in it.
Using analogies of home ownership, repairs, coaching, and personal growth, we explore why asking for help is often so difficult, what keeps us stuck, and how small decisions compound over time into something far greater than we imagined.
The question isn't whether you're building something.
The question is: What are you building?
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73003085Mon, 27 Jul 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesEvery marriage is being built one choice at a time—even the choices we don't make. In this episode of Just the Guys, we talk about the gap between intentions and impact, why many men accidentally build a marriage they never intended, and what happens... In this episode of Just the Guys, we talk about the gap between intentions and impact, why many men accidentally build a marriage they never intended, and what happens when we move from simply maintaining a relationship to intentionally investing in it.
Using analogies of home ownership, repairs, coaching, and personal growth, we explore why asking for help is often so difficult, what keeps us stuck, and how small decisions compound over time into something far greater than we imagined.
The question isn't whether you're building something.
The question is: What are you building?
]]>3146falsefullSelf-Care, No Life Care for Wives and Moms in NeuroDiverse Family Systems with Christina Mariehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/self-care-no-life-care-for-wives-and-moms-in-neurodiverse-family-systems-with-christina-marie--73000471 Christina says about herself:
Hey, I’m Christina—married 18 years to a neurodiverse man and mom of three neurodiverse kids. For years, I tried to fix our home environment, hoping to ease the sensory and communication challenges in my neurodiverse family. But no matter how much I read or how many Christian experts I listened to, nothing bridged the gap between meeting everyone else’s needs and caring for myself. I was exhausted carrying so many responsibilities while my needs were unmet. My husband was frustrated with his limitations and didn’t know what to do. My neurodiverse kids needed my help to navigate a world they didn’t always understand, but their meltdowns and challenges were overwhelming and exhausting at times. My health began to decline as I focused on making our marriage and home life optimal for my spouse and kids to prevent the cycle of problems. I reached a breaking point when I realized that prioritizing my well-being wasn’t selfish—it was essential. That’s when I turned to simple planning solutions to create space for self-care.
Christina's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurodiverse-family-life-reclaiming-self-care-for-moms/id1788688761
Kickstarter Page: Kickstarer approved my prelaunch page, here is the link: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/cmpaperie/1010152524?ref=7xcfhs
FYI, I renamed my podcast to Neurodiverse Family Life.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/73000471Mon, 20 Jul 2026 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we talk about self-care and neurodiverse marriage and family life with podcaster Christina Marie. Christina says about herself: Hey, I’m Christina—married 18 years to a neurodiverse man and mom of three neurodiverse kids. For years, I tried to... Christina says about herself:
Hey, I’m Christina—married 18 years to a neurodiverse man and mom of three neurodiverse kids. For years, I tried to fix our home environment, hoping to ease the sensory and communication challenges in my neurodiverse family. But no matter how much I read or how many Christian experts I listened to, nothing bridged the gap between meeting everyone else’s needs and caring for myself. I was exhausted carrying so many responsibilities while my needs were unmet. My husband was frustrated with his limitations and didn’t know what to do. My neurodiverse kids needed my help to navigate a world they didn’t always understand, but their meltdowns and challenges were overwhelming and exhausting at times. My health began to decline as I focused on making our marriage and home life optimal for my spouse and kids to prevent the cycle of problems. I reached a breaking point when I realized that prioritizing my well-being wasn’t selfish—it was essential. That’s when I turned to simple planning solutions to create space for self-care.
Christina's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurodiverse-family-life-reclaiming-self-care-for-moms/id1788688761
Kickstarter Page: Kickstarer approved my prelaunch page, here is the link: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/cmpaperie/1010152524?ref=7xcfhs
FYI, I renamed my podcast to Neurodiverse Family Life.
]]>2339falsefullWhole Brain Healing & Safety Firsthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/whole-brain-healing-safety-first--72931965
To find a group Dr. Stephanie or Barb mentioned groups for women based on whole brain healing.
Barb's https://bg-hc.com/2026-groups
Dr. Stephanie's https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72931965Mon, 13 Jul 2026 10:00:05 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesSo many times, couples in crisis when they get to coaching. Today Barbara Grant and Dr.Stephanie talk about grace and space, resetting your brain, and taking time to heal before doing the couples' work. To find a group Dr. Stephanie or Barb mentioned...
To find a group Dr. Stephanie or Barb mentioned groups for women based on whole brain healing.
Barb's https://bg-hc.com/2026-groups
Dr. Stephanie's https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
]]>2630falsefullThe Church, the Brain, and Transformation with the Pastors Who Brought us NeuroTheologyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-church-the-brain-and-transformation-with-the-pastors-who-brought-us-neurotheology--72827884 Fall classes are open for registration- we believe change and transformation happens in groups!
www.HolmesASR.com
Groups for Men
Groups for Women
One on Communication- Feedback!
Dan's groups fill quickly and often have wait lists!
Groups are required for any onboarding work with Dr. Stephanie/Dan.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72827884Mon, 06 Jul 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis one was an emotional one to make. We sat down with the pastors who are now in transition to another part of their journey. We talk about their impact on us as a couple and on the church, and how we came to know Dr. Jim Wilder, LifeModel Works,... Fall classes are open for registration- we believe change and transformation happens in groups!
www.HolmesASR.com
Groups for Men
Groups for Women
One on Communication- Feedback!
Dan's groups fill quickly and often have wait lists!
Groups are required for any onboarding work with Dr. Stephanie/Dan.
]]>3574falsefullWeaponized Scripture When is it Abuse with Thomas Prydehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weaponized-scripture-when-is-it-abuse-with-thomas-pryde--72678496Thomas said a healthy relationship uses whatever power you have to help others, not harm them, and when you love someone, freedom abounds, but freedom is not anarchy. What does that mean?
Join us for the discussion.
We started with the definition of abuse from the Department of Justice website:
https://www.justice.gov/ovw/domestic-violence
Thomas Pryde said that the Abuser
Is Entitled
Wants Control
Uses Coercion
Expects Compliance
How does neurodiversity play into this? We asked Thomas about the crossover of neurodiversity in the dynamics of what he sees over the decades and he sees a high crossover.
If you are in an abusive situation and need guidance or support-
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge
You are in danger:
If you are a domestic violence victim seeking help, here are some resources:

National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat online for 24/7 support and local advocacy WomensLaw.org.
DomesticShelters.org: Search for community shelters and programs to connect with local advocates and access tools to escape domestic abuse domesticshelters.org.
Live Support: Speak to a live advocate through the National Domestic Violence Hotline for confidential support thehotline.org.
State Resources: Find resources and programs in your state that provide support for women who have experienced abuse Office on Women's Health.
Comprehensive Resources: Explore various resources for survivors, including hotlines, shelters, and legal assistance domesticviolence.org.

Is your marriage difficult or destructive/abusive?
https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/resolving-conflict/emotionally-destructive-relationship-questionnaire/
Need Discernment Coaching? Is this autism or abuse?
https://bg-hc.com/
Are you a woman in ministry/mission or married to someone in ministry in an ND marriage needing discernment coaching?
https://jenileerachel.com/contact/
Are you looking for resources to navigate the court system- what do I need to know? Other Resources for Christian Women in Abusive Marriage:
Sarah McDugal
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/
Life Saving divorce:
https://lifesavingdivorce.com/about/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72678496Mon, 29 Jun 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month, we examined weaponized Scriptures, and today we talk with Thomas Pryde of Psalm 82 Initiative to talk about, When is it Abuse? Thomas said a healthy relationship uses whatever power you have to help others, not harm them, and when you love...Thomas said a healthy relationship uses whatever power you have to help others, not harm them, and when you love someone, freedom abounds, but freedom is not anarchy. What does that mean?
Join us for the discussion.
We started with the definition of abuse from the Department of Justice website:
https://www.justice.gov/ovw/domestic-violence
Thomas Pryde said that the Abuser
Is Entitled
Wants Control
Uses Coercion
Expects Compliance
How does neurodiversity play into this? We asked Thomas about the crossover of neurodiversity in the dynamics of what he sees over the decades and he sees a high crossover.
If you are in an abusive situation and need guidance or support-
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge
You are in danger:
If you are a domestic violence victim seeking help, here are some resources:

National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat online for 24/7 support and local advocacy WomensLaw.org.
DomesticShelters.org: Search for community shelters and programs to connect with local advocates and access tools to escape domestic abuse domesticshelters.org.
Live Support: Speak to a live advocate through the National Domestic Violence Hotline for confidential support thehotline.org.
State Resources: Find resources and programs in your state that provide support for women who have experienced abuse Office on Women's Health.
Comprehensive Resources: Explore various resources for survivors, including hotlines, shelters, and legal assistance domesticviolence.org.

Is your marriage difficult or destructive/abusive?
3686falsefullWeaponized Scripture: Does Suffering in Silence Save Your Marriage? 1 Peter 3 with Bruce C. E. Fleminghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weaponized-scripture-does-suffering-in-silence-save-your-marriage-1-peter-3-with-bruce-c-e-fleming--72429075Tru316.com.
A former Academic Dean and professor of Practical Theology in French-speaking Africa, he is the author of The Eden Book Series that builds on the research of his wife, former Old Testament Professor and full-time clinical psychologist, Dr. Joy Fleming.
We will be asking him to share with us life-changing insights Because of Eden 1 Corinthians 11 & 14 and 1 Peter 3.
We go back to Genesis- your view of Genesis 2 & 3 will color your view of other Scripture on men, women, and marriage. We need to TRU up the verse of Genesis 3:16.
Please check out his resources and podcast: https://tru316.com/trubooks/
  Bruce has featured Dan and Stephanie on The Eden Podcast, and he is a returning guest with us now.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72429075Mon, 22 Jun 2026 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie is solo, but NDCC welcomes back the Reverend Bruce C. E. Fleming, the Host of The Eden Podcast and co-founder of the Tru316 Foundation. His website is http://Tru316.com. A former Academic Dean and professor of Practical Theology...Tru316.com.
A former Academic Dean and professor of Practical Theology in French-speaking Africa, he is the author of The Eden Book Series that builds on the research of his wife, former Old Testament Professor and full-time clinical psychologist, Dr. Joy Fleming.
We will be asking him to share with us life-changing insights Because of Eden 1 Corinthians 11 & 14 and 1 Peter 3.
We go back to Genesis- your view of Genesis 2 & 3 will color your view of other Scripture on men, women, and marriage. We need to TRU up the verse of Genesis 3:16.
Please check out his resources and podcast: https://tru316.com/trubooks/
  Bruce has featured Dan and Stephanie on The Eden Podcast, and he is a returning guest with us now.
]]>3312falsefullWeaponized Scripture: Sexual Intimacy or Spiritual Coercion: Rethinking 1 Cor. 7 with Dr. Jake Porterhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weaponized-scripture-sexual-intimacy-or-spiritual-coercion-rethinking-1-cor-7-with-dr-jake-porter--72410218What did Paul actually mean when he wrote about marital intimacy? How has this passage been misused to justify pressure, coercion, and “duty sex” within Christian relationships? And what happens when mutuality, context, and the heart of the Gospel are stripped away from the conversation?
Together, they unpack the historical and relational context of Paul’s words, explore the difference between covenant and control, and discuss how Scripture can be applied in ways that either foster safety and connection or deepen shame and harm.
This episode is not about dismissing Scripture. It is about reading it carefully, relationally, and in the spirit it was intended.
Topics include:

Weaponized Scripture in marriage
“Duty sex” and coercive interpretations
Mutuality and consent in 1 Corinthians 7
What Dr. Stephanie has heard in her NeuroDiverse Couples' Work
Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding?
What Paul was addressing in the Corinthian church
How pastors and couples can approach these conversations with wisdom and care

A nuanced conversation about theology, relationships, and the difference between biblical intimacy and spiritual pressure.
About Dr. Jake Porter:
https://www.daringventures.com/
Scripturally, Pastorally & Clinically Trained:
EducationB.A., Elmira College, triple majors in Psychology, Music, Philosophy & Religion
M.Div., Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary
Th.M. in Spirituality & Ethics, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
M.Ed. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lamar University
Ed.D., The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Dissertation: Affective Social Neurobiology & Student Formation: A Transdisciplinary Multimethod Study
Professional Memberships & AffiliationsLead Professor for the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program & Assistant Professor of Counseling, Kairos University
Faculty, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Member, Division 47 of the APA: Society for Sport, Exercise and Performance Psychology
Member, Division 43 of the APA: Society for Couple and Family Psychology
Member, Division 8 of the APA: Society for Personality and Social Psychology
Member, Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health
Professional ServiceFounder & President, The International Association of Couple–Centered Recovery®
Board of Directors, The Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists (APSATS)
Board of Directors, Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International (C-SASI)
Professor of Counseling, Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology
Licensure & CertificationsLicensed Professional Counselor, State of Texas (#78173)
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, State of Montana (#76171)
Board Certified Counselor, National Board for Certified Counselors
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, The Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
Certified Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Provider, The Integrative Psychiatry Institute
Licensed Psilocybin Facilitator (FL-12de7070), State of Oregon
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, International Association of Trauma Professionals
Advanced TrainingsCoachRICE Executive Leadership Coach Training, Rice University
PACT Level III (Psychological Approach to Couple Therapy)
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) Level I
Gottman Couple Therapy Level I
EMDR Level I (EMDRIA–Approved Training)
Emotionally Focused Therapy (Externship, Core Skills 1-4)
Post–Induction Therapy (The Meadows Model), Pia Mellody
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72410218Mon, 15 Jun 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this episode, Dan and Stephanie sit down with Dr. Jake Porter for a thoughtful and honest conversation about one of the most debated — and often weaponized — passages in Christian marriage discussions: 1 Corinthians 7. What did Paul actually mean...What did Paul actually mean when he wrote about marital intimacy? How has this passage been misused to justify pressure, coercion, and “duty sex” within Christian relationships? And what happens when mutuality, context, and the heart of the Gospel are stripped away from the conversation?
Together, they unpack the historical and relational context of Paul’s words, explore the difference between covenant and control, and discuss how Scripture can be applied in ways that either foster safety and connection or deepen shame and harm.
This episode is not about dismissing Scripture. It is about reading it carefully, relationally, and in the spirit it was intended.
Topics include:

Weaponized Scripture in marriage
“Duty sex” and coercive interpretations
Mutuality and consent in 1 Corinthians 7
What Dr. Stephanie has heard in her NeuroDiverse Couples' Work
Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding?
What Paul was addressing in the Corinthian church
How pastors and couples can approach these conversations with wisdom and care

A nuanced conversation about theology, relationships, and the difference between biblical intimacy and spiritual pressure.
About Dr. Jake Porter:
https://www.daringventures.com/
Scripturally, Pastorally & Clinically Trained:
EducationB.A., Elmira College, triple majors in Psychology, Music, Philosophy & Religion
M.Div., Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary
Th.M. in Spirituality & Ethics, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
M.Ed. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lamar University
Ed.D., The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Dissertation: Affective Social Neurobiology & Student Formation: A Transdisciplinary Multimethod Study
Professional Memberships & AffiliationsLead Professor for the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program & Assistant Professor of Counseling, Kairos University
Faculty, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Member, Division 47 of the APA: Society for Sport, Exercise and Performance Psychology
Member, Division 43 of the APA: Society for Couple and Family Psychology
Member, Division 8 of the APA: Society for Personality and Social Psychology
Member, Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health
Professional ServiceFounder & President, The International Association of Couple–Centered Recovery®
Board of Directors, The Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists (APSATS)
Board of Directors, Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International (C-SASI)
Professor of Counseling, Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology
Licensure & CertificationsLicensed Professional Counselor, State of Texas (#78173)
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, State of Montana (#76171)
Board Certified Counselor, National Board for Certified Counselors
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, The Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
Certified Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Provider, The Integrative Psychiatry Institute
Licensed Psilocybin Facilitator (FL-12de7070), State of Oregon
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, International Association of Trauma Professionals
Advanced TrainingsCoachRICE Executive Leadership Coach Training, Rice University3890falsefullClarifying What God Says About Divorce in Scripture with Gretchen Baskervillehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/clarifying-what-god-says-about-divorce-in-scripture-with-gretchen-baskerville--72389199In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
Today's Guest: Author of Life-Saving Divorce, Gretchen Baskerville
Some of today's verses included Malachi 2:16 and passages in Mark 10 and Matthew 19 about divorce.
Short bio
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and author. She began leading support groups for single mothers in conservative churches in the Los Angeles area in 1998 and now focuses primarily on reaching people online.
For more than 25 years, Gretchen has helped women and men of faith find strength, courage, and healing through the challenges of life-saving divorce. She listens with empathy to those recovering from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, addiction, and emotional abuse.
A survivor of a toxic marriage herself, Gretchen understands the journey of rebuilding after loss. Following her own life-saving divorce and years as a single mother, she is now happily remarried.
She is a graduate of Wheaton College with a degree in Bible and Christian Education.
Definition:
What’s a Life-Saving Divorce?
A Life-Saving Divorce is the opposite of an “I’m bored” divorce, or an “I miss the party life” divorce. It is a divorce for serious reasons: to find relief from a pattern of sexual immorality, physical violence, chronic emotional abuse, felony behavior, family-crushing addictions, or abandonment through neglect and indifference.
Links to my resources

The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
Book (paperback/eBook/audiobook page): https://amzn.to/3J3vXa7
Audiobook (direct link): https://amzn.to/4f52Mh4
Website & Blog: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/
Pastor Education page: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/pastor-education-domestic-violence-biblical-response/
Gumroad (EPUB + PDF download): https://gumroad.com/lsp
- For those who share an Amazon account with their abuser.

Social media

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/lifesavingdivorce.bsky.social
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifesavingdivorce
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifesavingdivorce
Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/GGBaskerville
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-baskerville-2873591b5/

If you want to join a class for women with Dr. Stephanie Holmes: https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups check here for current classes.
If you want to work with Barbara Grant: https://bg-hc.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72389199Mon, 08 Jun 2026 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday on ND Couples Coaches' Corner, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara Grant continue the series on the month-long series examining how Scripture is sometimes misused by spiritual authorities—such as clergy, small-group leaders, biblical counselors, and...In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
Today's Guest: Author of Life-Saving Divorce, Gretchen Baskerville
Some of today's verses included Malachi 2:16 and passages in Mark 10 and Matthew 19 about divorce.
Short bio
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and author. She began leading support groups for single mothers in conservative churches in the Los Angeles area in 1998 and now focuses primarily on reaching people online.
For more than 25 years, Gretchen has helped women and men of faith find strength, courage, and healing through the challenges of life-saving divorce. She listens with empathy to those recovering from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, addiction, and emotional abuse.
A survivor of a toxic marriage herself, Gretchen understands the journey of rebuilding after loss. Following her own life-saving divorce and years as a single mother, she is now happily remarried.
She is a graduate of Wheaton College with a degree in Bible and Christian Education.
Definition:
What’s a Life-Saving Divorce?
A Life-Saving Divorce is the opposite of an “I’m bored” divorce, or an “I miss the party life” divorce. It is a divorce for serious reasons: to find relief from a pattern of sexual immorality, physical violence, chronic emotional abuse, felony behavior, family-crushing addictions, or abandonment through neglect and indifference.
Links to my resources

The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
Book (paperback/eBook/audiobook page): https://amzn.to/3J3vXa7
Audiobook (direct link): https://amzn.to/4f52Mh4
Website & Blog: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/
Pastor Education page: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/pastor-education-domestic-violence-biblical-response/
Gumroad (EPUB + PDF download): https://gumroad.com/lsp
- For those who share an Amazon account with their abuser.

Social media

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/lifesavingdivorce.bsky.social
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifesavingdivorce
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifesavingdivorce
Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/GGBaskerville
LinkedIn: 3196falsefullWeaponizing Scripture: A Focus on Forgiveness, True Repentance & Reconciliation with Dr. Steven R. Tracyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/weaponizing-scripture-a-focus-on-forgiveness-true-repentance-reconciliation-with-dr-steven-r-tracy--72134223In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
Our first conversation features Dr. Steven R. Tracy, author of To Harm or To Heal: The Bible and Its Use in Counseling and co-author with Celestia G. Tracy of Mending the Soul. Together, we discuss two critical topics: spiritual abuse by church leadership in their counseling and pastoral care, and the biblical responsibility of leaders to protect those who are vulnerable. We also address commonly misused teachings about forgiveness and reconciliation and how these passages are often applied in ways that ignore the realities of abuse.

Throughout this month-long series, we will continue exploring other frequently cited “clobber verses,” inviting theologians, pastors, and scholars to help us examine Scripture more faithfully and responsibly.

Join us as we work to distinguish between Scripture that heals and Scripture that has been twisted in ways that harm. Steven R. Tracy - CBE International
Steven R. Tracy is a professor of theology and ethics at Phoenix Seminary and co-founder of Mending the Soul Ministries. He is the author of "Mending the Soul: Understanding and Healing Abuse" and co-author of "Marriage at the Crossroads" (forthcoming, InterVarsity). Tracy's work focuses on providing education and resources for the church and community on abuse, sexuality, and healthy intimacy. He has extensive experience in pastoral, classroom, and clinical settings, bringing over 40 years of experience to his work with Mending the Soul.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72134223Mon, 01 Jun 2026 10:00:02 +0000
Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we begin a month-long series examining how Scripture is sometimes misused by spiritual authorities—such as clergy, small-group leaders, biblical counselors, and Christian counselors—in ways that shame or further harm those who are already...In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
Our first conversation features Dr. Steven R. Tracy, author of To Harm or To Heal: The Bible and Its Use in Counseling and co-author with Celestia G. Tracy of Mending the Soul. Together, we discuss two critical topics: spiritual abuse by church leadership in their counseling and pastoral care, and the biblical responsibility of leaders to protect those who are vulnerable. We also address commonly misused teachings about forgiveness and reconciliation and how these passages are often applied in ways that ignore the realities of abuse.

Throughout this month-long series, we will continue exploring other frequently cited “clobber verses,” inviting theologians, pastors, and scholars to help us examine Scripture more faithfully and responsibly.

Join us as we work to distinguish between Scripture that heals and Scripture that has been twisted in ways that harm. Steven R. Tracy - CBE International
Steven R. Tracy is a professor of theology and ethics at Phoenix Seminary and co-founder of Mending the Soul Ministries. He is the author of "Mending the Soul: Understanding and Healing Abuse" and co-author of "Marriage at the Crossroads" (forthcoming, InterVarsity). Tracy's work focuses on providing education and resources for the church and community on abuse, sexuality, and healthy intimacy. He has extensive experience in pastoral, classroom, and clinical settings, bringing over 40 years of experience to his work with Mending the Soul.
]]>3567falsefullThis Isn't Your Parent's PDAhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-isn-t-your-parent-s-pda--72072485PDA meant public displays of affection. Now, apparently, it means pathological demand avoidance — which is significantly less fun at family gatherings.
In this episode of Just the Guys, the guys wander through the tangled forest of demand avoidance, rejection sensitivity, imposter syndrome, diagnosis, stubbornness, anxiety, and why taking out the trash can somehow become an existential crisis.

Is PDA just being hardheaded? Is it anxiety? Is it fear of failure? Is it all caps STUBBORN? The conversation wrestles with the difference between rebellion, overwhelm, autonomy, and nervous-system panic while also digging into how autism, rejection sensitivity, and shame can quietly shape marriages, parenting, work, and identity.

Along the way, there are stories about late-life autism diagnosis, self-worth, being terrified of feedback, spectacular failures, emotional growth, and why understanding the why behind behavior matters more than simply yelling louder about the behavior itself.
Basically: four guys trying to understand why human beings are weird while occasionally making fun of themselves in the process. Which is the whole show.
Topics include:
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Rejection Sensitivity
Autism & diagnosis
Fear of failure vs defiance
Emotional regulation & relationships
Self-worth, shame, and feedback
Why the trash can became symbolic of all human suffering
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/72072485Mon, 25 May 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhen we were kids, PDA meant public displays of affection. Now, apparently, it means pathological demand avoidance — which is significantly less fun at family gatherings. In this episode of Just the Guys, the guys wander through the tangled forest of...PDA meant public displays of affection. Now, apparently, it means pathological demand avoidance — which is significantly less fun at family gatherings.
In this episode of Just the Guys, the guys wander through the tangled forest of demand avoidance, rejection sensitivity, imposter syndrome, diagnosis, stubbornness, anxiety, and why taking out the trash can somehow become an existential crisis.

Is PDA just being hardheaded? Is it anxiety? Is it fear of failure? Is it all caps STUBBORN? The conversation wrestles with the difference between rebellion, overwhelm, autonomy, and nervous-system panic while also digging into how autism, rejection sensitivity, and shame can quietly shape marriages, parenting, work, and identity.

Along the way, there are stories about late-life autism diagnosis, self-worth, being terrified of feedback, spectacular failures, emotional growth, and why understanding the why behind behavior matters more than simply yelling louder about the behavior itself.
Basically: four guys trying to understand why human beings are weird while occasionally making fun of themselves in the process. Which is the whole show.
Topics include:
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Rejection Sensitivity
Autism & diagnosis
Fear of failure vs defiance
Emotional regulation & relationships
Self-worth, shame, and feedback
Why the trash can became symbolic of all human suffering
]]>3498falsefullAutism in Adulthood: Functional & Adaptive Communication Skills with Dr. Celine Saulnierhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-in-adulthood-functional-adaptive-communication-skills-with-dr-celine-saulnier--71978829Dr. Celine is the author of the Vineland Adaptive Skills Scales, Third Edition.
Parts of our conversation look at differences in assessing children and adults when determining adaptive and functional skills. A discussion also includes ADOS, CARS, and MIGDAS-2, and what if an adult gets two different results from two different providers using two different measures?

About the Guest:
Dr. Saulnier is the founder of Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services. NACS develops, teaches, practices, and advocates for state-of-the-art diagnostic assessments for individuals with autism spectrum & related neurodevelopmental disorders. Prior to NACS, Dr. Saulnier joined the Yale research faculty, where she was both the Clinical Director and the Training Director for the Autism Program, managing and supervising multidisciplinary diagnostic evaluations on individuals with autism spectrum and related disorders from infancy through young adulthood. At the Marcus Autism Center, Dr. Saulnier oversaw all activities related to the characterization of individuals participating in clinical research and she was Director of the Clinical Assessment Core for the Emory Autism Center of Excellence grant awarded by NIMH.

Dr. Saulnier is co-author of the gold-standard Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition, and two books: Essentials of Autism Spectrum Disorders Evaluation and Assessment and Essentials of Adaptive Behavior Assessment of Neurodevelopmental Disorders. She develops, teaches, practices, and advocates for state-of-the-art neurodevelopmental diagnostic assessments, with a particular expertise in detecting the earliest emerging risk factors in infants and toddlers.

Contact her:https://nacsatl.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71978829Mon, 18 May 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie welcomes back Dr. Celine Saulnier to discuss adaptive and functional skills. Dr. Celine is the author of the Vineland Adaptive Skills Scales, Third Edition. Parts of our conversation look at differences in assessing children and adults...Dr. Celine is the author of the Vineland Adaptive Skills Scales, Third Edition.
Parts of our conversation look at differences in assessing children and adults when determining adaptive and functional skills. A discussion also includes ADOS, CARS, and MIGDAS-2, and what if an adult gets two different results from two different providers using two different measures?

About the Guest:
Dr. Saulnier is the founder of Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services. NACS develops, teaches, practices, and advocates for state-of-the-art diagnostic assessments for individuals with autism spectrum & related neurodevelopmental disorders. Prior to NACS, Dr. Saulnier joined the Yale research faculty, where she was both the Clinical Director and the Training Director for the Autism Program, managing and supervising multidisciplinary diagnostic evaluations on individuals with autism spectrum and related disorders from infancy through young adulthood. At the Marcus Autism Center, Dr. Saulnier oversaw all activities related to the characterization of individuals participating in clinical research and she was Director of the Clinical Assessment Core for the Emory Autism Center of Excellence grant awarded by NIMH.

Dr. Saulnier is co-author of the gold-standard Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition, and two books: Essentials of Autism Spectrum Disorders Evaluation and Assessment and Essentials of Adaptive Behavior Assessment of Neurodevelopmental Disorders. She develops, teaches, practices, and advocates for state-of-the-art neurodevelopmental diagnostic assessments, with a particular expertise in detecting the earliest emerging risk factors in infants and toddlers.

Contact her:https://nacsatl.com/
]]>3626falsefullThe Misunderstood Mind with Jodi Carltonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-misunderstood-mind-with-jodi-carlton--71938981Jodi's book, The Misunderstood Mind, is scheduled for release on October 6, 2026, but pre-orders are coming soon. To follow that launch, go to https://jodicarlton.com/
Barbara Grant: If you want to do relationship work for your ND marriage, look up Barb at https://bg-hc.com/. Barbara has availability for couples and groups are always forming for wives.
To see what groups Dr. Stephanie has going: https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71938981Mon, 11 May 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Barbara & Dr. Stephanie talk with NeuroDiverse Peer Support Network colleague, Jodi Carlton. Jodi's book, The Misunderstood Mind, is scheduled for release on October 6, 2026, but pre-orders are coming soon. To follow that launch, go to...Jodi's book, The Misunderstood Mind, is scheduled for release on October 6, 2026, but pre-orders are coming soon. To follow that launch, go to https://jodicarlton.com/
Barbara Grant: If you want to do relationship work for your ND marriage, look up Barb at https://bg-hc.com/. Barbara has availability for couples and groups are always forming for wives.
To see what groups Dr. Stephanie has going: https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
]]>2901falsefullDiagnosing Autism- Early Intervention- The ADOS, CARS & MIGDAS-2https://www.spreaker.com/episode/diagnosing-autism-early-intervention-the-ados-cars-migdas-2--71839330Today, Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Jones discuss early intervention and how diagnosis impacts accommodations and interventions. Dr. Mary Jones is licensed in over 20 states and specializes in ADHD and ASD diagnosis in children, teens, and adults.
Dr. Stephanie asks Dr. Jones when she uses the three most well-known measures: the ADOS, CARS, and MIGDAS-2
Today, with a focus on diagnosis, Patreon with Dan and Stephanie will discuss a different topic
About Dr. Mary H. Jones & Bright Starts
At Bright Starts, we’re dedicated to helping children, teens, and young adults reach their full potential through early, accurate ADHD evaluations and autism diagnostic services. We understand that every individual is unique — and so is their journey.
That’s why we provide personalized evaluations, compassionate guidance, and clear next steps for families navigating developmental concerns.
https://brightstartshealth.com/home
Dr. Mary "What is Autism?"
https://brightstartshealth.com/about-us
Mary H. Jones, MD, FAAP
Assesses with ADOS-2, CARS and MIGDAS-2

Dr. Mary Jones believes there is greatness in each of us and is passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout her life and career, she has had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves. Dr. Mary has also completed a study in autism as a speciality through PESI, and has become an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. Her vision is to see women living out their purpose and affecting change in their worlds. She is an NT married to a neurodivergent spouse and the mother of a son on the autism spectrum.
   ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71839330Mon, 04 May 2026 03:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, I welcome back pediatrician, Dr. Mary H Jones. Mary has been a guest on the show and contributed to Uniquely Us, chapter 11, discussing additional biases and stigma BIPOC individuals can face in getting an accurate diagnosis and accommodations....Today, Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Jones discuss early intervention and how diagnosis impacts accommodations and interventions. Dr. Mary Jones is licensed in over 20 states and specializes in ADHD and ASD diagnosis in children, teens, and adults.
Dr. Stephanie asks Dr. Jones when she uses the three most well-known measures: the ADOS, CARS, and MIGDAS-2
Today, with a focus on diagnosis, Patreon with Dan and Stephanie will discuss a different topic
About Dr. Mary H. Jones & Bright Starts
At Bright Starts, we’re dedicated to helping children, teens, and young adults reach their full potential through early, accurate ADHD evaluations and autism diagnostic services. We understand that every individual is unique — and so is their journey.
That’s why we provide personalized evaluations, compassionate guidance, and clear next steps for families navigating developmental concerns.
https://brightstartshealth.com/home
Dr. Mary "What is Autism?"
https://brightstartshealth.com/about-us
Mary H. Jones, MD, FAAP
Assesses with ADOS-2, CARS and MIGDAS-2

Dr. Mary Jones believes there is greatness in each of us and is passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout her life and career, she has had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves. Dr. Mary has also completed a study in autism as a speciality through PESI, and has become an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. Her vision is to see women living out their purpose and affecting change in their worlds. She is an NT married to a neurodivergent spouse and the mother of a son on the autism spectrum.
   ]]>2354asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullMismanaged Misalignment and Having to Carry the Extra Stinky Baghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mismanaged-misalignment-and-having-to-carry-the-extra-stinky-bag--71376039
The episode uses humor and memorable metaphors to drive the point home — especially the idea that avoiding tension only makes it heavier to carry later. “Give me the extra stinky bag… it still has to go out.” Addressing relational drift early, when emotional weather is calm, prevents compounded frustration and protects the connection. Ultimately, the discussion reframes relational maturity as the ability to remain connected even when not fully aligned, recognizing that shared purpose can coexist with different approaches. Managing misalignment well may matter more than achieving perfect alignment at all.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71376039Mon, 27 Apr 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes In this episode of Just the Guys, the conversation explores a simple but powerful relational reality: misalignment is inevitable — mismanagement is optional. Whether in marriage, friendships, or team dynamics, people regularly share the same overall...
The episode uses humor and memorable metaphors to drive the point home — especially the idea that avoiding tension only makes it heavier to carry later. “Give me the extra stinky bag… it still has to go out.” Addressing relational drift early, when emotional weather is calm, prevents compounded frustration and protects the connection. Ultimately, the discussion reframes relational maturity as the ability to remain connected even when not fully aligned, recognizing that shared purpose can coexist with different approaches. Managing misalignment well may matter more than achieving perfect alignment at all.
]]>3135asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalsefullNDCC to NDCC Couple Discussion with Tommy & Ginny - Navigating the Rapids of ND Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ndcc-to-ndcc-couple-discussion-with-tommy-ginny-navigating-the-rapids-of-nd-marriage--71169239
Check out their blogs:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/beauty-from-the-rapids-navigating-our-blended-neurodiverse-marriage
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/beauty-from-the-rapids
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71169239Mon, 20 Apr 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe are so happy to have Tommy & Ginny with us on the show today, sharing their story. Tommy & Ginny share their neurodiverse journey from the diagnosis and freedom from shame in Tommy to Ginny realizing she needed self-care support and a...
Check out their blogs:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/beauty-from-the-rapids-navigating-our-blended-neurodiverse-marriage
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/beauty-from-the-rapids
]]>2746asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullExamining Expectations in NeuroDiverse Relationshipshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/examining-expectations-in-neurodiverse-relationships--71138322
Are your expectations:
Unconscious
Unrealistic
Unspoken
Unagreed Upon
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71138322Mon, 13 Apr 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie & Barb discuss the four principles of expectations (outlined in Emotionally Healthy Relationships by the Scazzeros) and apply them to Neurodiverse marriages. Are your expectations: Unconscious Unrealistic Unspoken Unagreed Upon
Are your expectations:
Unconscious
Unrealistic
Unspoken
Unagreed Upon
]]>2914asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullMismanaged Misalignment in your NeuroDiverse Relationshiphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mismanaged-misalignment-in-your-neurodiverse-relationship--71101002https://api.spreaker.com/episode/71101002Mon, 06 Apr 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn a discussion over a fast earlier this year, we were facing big decisions and in prayer and fasting together on misalignment and differing views. Dan came up with the idea to do a show on this- when you are in misalignment or competing needs- what...1999asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,misalignment,mismanaged,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullDiversity, Inclusion & Belonging. Pt 2 of Panelist Discussion on Ministering to Every Member of the Body of Christhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/diversity-inclusion-belonging-pt-2-of-panelist-discussion-on-ministering-to-every-member-of-the-body-of-christ--70799566We have on the panel today representatives from Together We Care, SOAR and KeyMinistry/Disability and the Church.
Do you know the difference in Diversity- Inclusion & Belonging? The importance of community!

About our panelists
Jilliam Palmiotto/Together We Care
Jillian Palmiotto is the Founder and Executive Director of Together We Care, a Georgia-based nonprofit that equips and empowers families impacted by disabilities through strategic planning, advocacy, and practical support. With over a decade of experience in special needs ministry, Jillian also serves as the Special Needs Inclusion Coordinator at West Ridge Church and as the Executive Director of the Together Conference. Her passion for building inclusive communities is fueled by her personal journey as a special education teacher and disability ministry leader. Jillian brings a wealth of knowledge, compassion, and real-world expertise to every conversation—helping families, churches, and organizations navigate complex systems with hope and clarity.
Doc Hunsley/SOAR
Stephen “Doc” Hunsley, M.D. is the Executive Director and founder of SOAR Special Needs in Lenexa, Kansas. SOAR (Special Opportunities, Abilities, and Relationships) serves over 1500 individuals with special needs through regular respite events and the nation’s largest Disability Day Camp. Doc is currently assisting over 725 churches locally, nationally, and globally in starting a Disability Ministry. Doc also organizes the Wonderfully Made Conference held annually every October in Kansas City. Doc is a USAF veteran and a retired disabled pediatrician while his wife, Kay, continues practicing pediatrics. They are proud parents to three beautiful children: Luke, Mark, and Sarah. The Hunsley’s middle child, Mark, is presently running the halls of heaven. During Mark’s five-year earthly stay, he gave his family the opportunity to learn from and love a child with autism.
Dr. Steve Grcevich/Disability & the Church/Key Ministry
Dr. Steve Grcevich is a child and adolescent psychiatrist with 40 years of experience as a clinician, researcher, and professor who serves as President and Founder of Key Ministry. He plays a lead role in Key Ministry’s work to support churches in evangelism and outreach to the mental health community. He is the author of Mental Health and the Church (Zondervan), the first comprehensive model to guide churches in their mental health outreach and inclusion efforts. In his role with Key Ministry, he has been invited to speak or create resources for the American Association of Christian Counselors, the Christian Medical Dental Society, the Colson Center, the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention and the National Association of Evangelicals. He currently serves on Focus on the Family’s Physician Resource Council and is a widely requested speaker at national ministry conferences.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70799566Mon, 30 Mar 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesContinuing our Theme this month, looking at how the Church ministers to (or doesn't minister to) the entire body of Christ. We have on the panel today representatives from Together We Care, SOAR and KeyMinistry/Disability and the Church. Do you know...We have on the panel today representatives from Together We Care, SOAR and KeyMinistry/Disability and the Church.
Do you know the difference in Diversity- Inclusion & Belonging? The importance of community!

About our panelists
Jilliam Palmiotto/Together We Care
Jillian Palmiotto is the Founder and Executive Director of Together We Care, a Georgia-based nonprofit that equips and empowers families impacted by disabilities through strategic planning, advocacy, and practical support. With over a decade of experience in special needs ministry, Jillian also serves as the Special Needs Inclusion Coordinator at West Ridge Church and as the Executive Director of the Together Conference. Her passion for building inclusive communities is fueled by her personal journey as a special education teacher and disability ministry leader. Jillian brings a wealth of knowledge, compassion, and real-world expertise to every conversation—helping families, churches, and organizations navigate complex systems with hope and clarity.
Doc Hunsley/SOAR
Stephen “Doc” Hunsley, M.D. is the Executive Director and founder of SOAR Special Needs in Lenexa, Kansas. SOAR (Special Opportunities, Abilities, and Relationships) serves over 1500 individuals with special needs through regular respite events and the nation’s largest Disability Day Camp. Doc is currently assisting over 725 churches locally, nationally, and globally in starting a Disability Ministry. Doc also organizes the Wonderfully Made Conference held annually every October in Kansas City. Doc is a USAF veteran and a retired disabled pediatrician while his wife, Kay, continues practicing pediatrics. They are proud parents to three beautiful children: Luke, Mark, and Sarah. The Hunsley’s middle child, Mark, is presently running the halls of heaven. During Mark’s five-year earthly stay, he gave his family the opportunity to learn from and love a child with autism.
Dr. Steve Grcevich/Disability & the Church/Key Ministry
Dr. Steve Grcevich is a child and adolescent psychiatrist with 40 years of experience as a clinician, researcher, and professor who serves as President and Founder of Key Ministry. He plays a lead role in Key Ministry’s work to support churches in evangelism and outreach to the mental health community. He is the author of Mental Health and the Church (Zondervan), the first comprehensive model to guide churches in their mental health outreach and inclusion efforts. In his role with Key Ministry, he has been invited to speak or create resources for the American Association of Christian Counselors, the Christian Medical Dental Society, the Colson Center, the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention and the National Association of Evangelicals. He currently serves on Focus on the Family’s Physician Resource Council and is a widely requested speaker at national ministry conferences.]]>1720asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullPutting Down The Dream Grieving & Connecting to God in Disappointment & Communityhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/putting-down-the-dream-grieving-connecting-to-god-in-disappointment-community--70798335This month, we are putting the focus on disability, differences, and diversity, and the Church at large!
Dan, John & Josh share personal and lived experiences, father, pastor, spiritual director, coach, and advocate experiences!
What is grief? Is that wrong? Does Grief mean God didn't do something good for me?
How is the CHURCH doing in supporting families with a member (or members) on the autism spectrum?
The Guys talk about what went well, the guilt they carry for what they didn't know at the time, forcing assimilation/masking in the 'church environment' as well as what they know now, and how churches can better come along with children/teens/families.
John Fela:
John Fela (M.Ed) is a national disability advocate, working with both faith-based and non-faith-based disability organizations. He previously worked for Joni and Friends, a global disability ministry. Prior to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, serving in a variety of roles as a classroom teacher in both public and private school settings, as well as being a mentor teacher and school director. He holds certifications in both Montessori and traditional teaching methods and is trained in a variety of specializations, including ESL and Special Education.
John is a public speaker, a blogger for a variety of disability advocacy platforms, and the author of Faith Like My Father, a memoir of his journey as a parent of a child with a disability. John lives in Lyons, IL, with his wife, Faith, and is father to his son, Christopher (ASD/NS).
https://johnfela.com/contact/
Josh Davis:
Josh Davis is not just a pastor—he is an advocate for neurodivergent individuals, using his platform to share hearts, build bridges, and encourage understanding in a world that often overlooks the unique experiences of those with autism and ADHD. He invites you to explore your own faith, engage in self-discovery, and discover the endless possibilities that lie ahead as you seek a deeper connection with yourself and God.
Don’t miss out on the ongoing conversation about faith and neurodivergence.

To connect further, find Josh on Facebook, Instagram, or email at: justjosuedavis@gmail.com. Or, for personal encouragement on your own neurodivergence journey, consider booking a spiritual direction session with Josh on Patreon.
Listen to NeuroDivergent Faith podcast at:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2441513/episodes/16504569-discovering-autism-adhd-through-faith-josh-s-journey-of-self-discovery
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70798335Mon, 23 Mar 2026 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday is a different feel for Just the Guys with guest panelists John Fela & Rev. Josh Davis. This month, we are putting the focus on disability, differences, and diversity, and the Church at large! Dan, John & Josh share personal and lived...This month, we are putting the focus on disability, differences, and diversity, and the Church at large!
Dan, John & Josh share personal and lived experiences, father, pastor, spiritual director, coach, and advocate experiences!
What is grief? Is that wrong? Does Grief mean God didn't do something good for me?
How is the CHURCH doing in supporting families with a member (or members) on the autism spectrum?
The Guys talk about what went well, the guilt they carry for what they didn't know at the time, forcing assimilation/masking in the 'church environment' as well as what they know now, and how churches can better come along with children/teens/families.
John Fela:
John Fela (M.Ed) is a national disability advocate, working with both faith-based and non-faith-based disability organizations. He previously worked for Joni and Friends, a global disability ministry. Prior to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, serving in a variety of roles as a classroom teacher in both public and private school settings, as well as being a mentor teacher and school director. He holds certifications in both Montessori and traditional teaching methods and is trained in a variety of specializations, including ESL and Special Education.
John is a public speaker, a blogger for a variety of disability advocacy platforms, and the author of Faith Like My Father, a memoir of his journey as a parent of a child with a disability. John lives in Lyons, IL, with his wife, Faith, and is father to his son, Christopher (ASD/NS).
https://johnfela.com/contact/
Josh Davis:
Josh Davis is not just a pastor—he is an advocate for neurodivergent individuals, using his platform to share hearts, build bridges, and encourage understanding in a world that often overlooks the unique experiences of those with autism and ADHD. He invites you to explore your own faith, engage in self-discovery, and discover the endless possibilities that lie ahead as you seek a deeper connection with yourself and God.
Don’t miss out on the ongoing conversation about faith and neurodivergence.

To connect further, find Josh on Facebook, Instagram, or email at: justjosuedavis@gmail.com. Or, for personal encouragement on your own neurodivergence journey, consider booking a spiritual direction session with Josh on Patreon.
Listen to NeuroDivergent Faith podcast at:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2441513/episodes/16504569-discovering-autism-adhd-through-faith-josh-s-journey-of-self-discovery
]]>3596asr,autism,christian,dan,diverse,holmes,just,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,theguysfalsefullDiversity, Differences & Disabilities & The Church Pt.1https://www.spreaker.com/episode/diversity-differences-disabilities-the-church-pt-1--70664062https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70664062Mon, 16 Mar 2026 18:35:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes2385falsefullNavigating the Church and the Courts Leaving an Abusive Marriage with Sarah McDugalhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-church-and-the-courts-leaving-an-abusive-marriage-with-sarah-mcdugal--70528688
About Sarah, in her own words:
BIO:
I’m Sarah McDugal, co-founder of Wilderness to WILD and the TraumaMAMAs mobile app.
I’m an author, coach, survivor, and TraumaMAMA.
As an autistic woman and survivor of both domestic violence and child sexual assault -- my hyper focus is developing gentle, proven resources for women who want to heal after toxic and traumatic stress.
I'm trained in:
the Deceptive Sexual Trauma Model, and
APSATS (the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
And I'm a Certified Assessor with the Johns Hopkins Danger Assessment.
Some of my books include:
He Chose Porn Over Me: Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
Myths We Believe: Predators We Trust
One Face: Shed the Mask, Own Your Values, and Lead Wisely
My goal is to provide accessible, affordable, authentic tools to guide you out of the wilderness of abuse, into the WILD thriving post-trauma life that waits ahead.
How to find out more!

Check out what I’m doing for (almost exclusively) ND protective parents these days: www.myfreedomnavigator.com
the SCOOP - Group Coaching Membership
www.wildernesstowild.com/the-scoop
Righteous or Rotten? How to know if it is biblically bad enough to divorce
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/unholy-fruit-your-wild-guide-to-discerning-toxic-character
Her two websites:
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/
https://www.myfreedomnavigator.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70528688Mon, 09 Mar 2026 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesContinuing this month's theme of the CHURCH and how she supports the marginalized, hurting, and least of these. Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barb talk with Sarah McDugal about women and children in abusive situations, navigating the courts and the Church....
About Sarah, in her own words:
BIO:
I’m Sarah McDugal, co-founder of Wilderness to WILD and the TraumaMAMAs mobile app.
I’m an author, coach, survivor, and TraumaMAMA.
As an autistic woman and survivor of both domestic violence and child sexual assault -- my hyper focus is developing gentle, proven resources for women who want to heal after toxic and traumatic stress.
I'm trained in:
the Deceptive Sexual Trauma Model, and
APSATS (the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
And I'm a Certified Assessor with the Johns Hopkins Danger Assessment.
Some of my books include:
He Chose Porn Over Me: Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
Myths We Believe: Predators We Trust
One Face: Shed the Mask, Own Your Values, and Lead Wisely
My goal is to provide accessible, affordable, authentic tools to guide you out of the wilderness of abuse, into the WILD thriving post-trauma life that waits ahead.
How to find out more!

Check out what I’m doing for (almost exclusively) ND protective parents these days: www.myfreedomnavigator.com
the SCOOP - Group Coaching Membership
www.wildernesstowild.com/the-scoop
Righteous or Rotten? How to know if it is biblically bad enough to divorce
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/unholy-fruit-your-wild-guide-to-discerning-toxic-character
Her two websites:
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/
https://www.myfreedomnavigator.com/
]]>3601asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullNeurodiversity & The Churchhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurodiversity-the-church--70288689
Starting out the month with permission from a former guest, Josh Davis, we are airing his "What Autistics Want the Church to Know."
Dan and I introduced this topic for March, sharing a story from our daughter from our book Embracing the Autism Spectrum, and part 2 of our personal stories will be on Patreon. NeuroDiverse Christian Couples: Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70288689Mon, 02 Mar 2026 11:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month, we are focusing on autism/neurodiversity faith issues and the church! Starting out the month with permission from a former guest, Josh Davis, we are airing his "What Autistics Want the Church to Know." Dan and I introduced this topic for...
Starting out the month with permission from a former guest, Josh Davis, we are airing his "What Autistics Want the Church to Know."
Dan and I introduced this topic for March, sharing a story from our daughter from our book Embracing the Autism Spectrum, and part 2 of our personal stories will be on Patreon. NeuroDiverse Christian Couples: Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family
]]>2761asr,autism,christian,church,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWhen Pride & Shame Heal, Love Growshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-pride-shame-heal-love-grows--70206218
Today is not our usual crew, but a discussion with guest Russell Grigsby about a book that radically changed his mindset about loving his wife well.

In this episode of Just the Guys, Dan sits down with entrepreneur and executive coach Russell Grigsby to talk about late-in-life autism diagnosis, trauma, pride, and the hard work of rebuilding a marriage. Russell shares how childhood wounds, avoidant attachment, and unrecognized autism shaped his relationships — and how confronting shame, embracing humility, and rethinking biblical leadership transformed his life at home. Through books, prayer, coaching, and intentional growth, he learned to stop trying to fix his spouse and instead take responsibility for his own healing. The result is a marriage marked by safety, connection, and hope. This conversation is an honest look at what happens when a man chooses humility over defensiveness and growth over comfort.

Books Mentioned:
Mending the Soul Groups found at: MendingthesoulFind a Group

Adam loves Eve

Escaping Enemy Mode

Brene Brown's books on Shame and Vulnerability

  About Russell:
Russell is passionate about encouraging others to fulfill their destiny. In one-on-one settings, Russell helps men and women discover what they are designed to do and then pursue their calling. After receiving an MBA from SMU in 1982, Russell began his career in commercial banking in Austin, Texas. After six years in banking, he joined a series of startups as CFO. He discovered he loved the startup process and began founding and running his own companies.

Since 1993, he has run financial services, biotech, real estate, and mining companies. He loves building new businesses and creating a vision for their success. Russell is excited to work as a C12 Chair and call on his long entrepreneurial career to help others accomplish their God-given dreams. He loves meeting with people one-on-one to hear their stories and hear about their calling.

Along the way, Russell has passionately pursued intimacy with God. As a follower of Jesus since 1967, Russell has had a profound relationship with God that continues to grow daily. He is a retreat speaker and loves to teach about living with greater power and authority as a believer in Jesus.

Russell and his wife, Gina, live in Southwest Austin. They share five grown sons and a daughter.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/70206218Mon, 23 Feb 2026 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesFebruary is the month of love- what is real love- real hesed- sacrificial love? How did Adam love Eve? Today is not our usual crew, but a discussion with guest Russell Grigsby about a book that radically changed his mindset about loving his wife...
Today is not our usual crew, but a discussion with guest Russell Grigsby about a book that radically changed his mindset about loving his wife well.

In this episode of Just the Guys, Dan sits down with entrepreneur and executive coach Russell Grigsby to talk about late-in-life autism diagnosis, trauma, pride, and the hard work of rebuilding a marriage. Russell shares how childhood wounds, avoidant attachment, and unrecognized autism shaped his relationships — and how confronting shame, embracing humility, and rethinking biblical leadership transformed his life at home. Through books, prayer, coaching, and intentional growth, he learned to stop trying to fix his spouse and instead take responsibility for his own healing. The result is a marriage marked by safety, connection, and hope. This conversation is an honest look at what happens when a man chooses humility over defensiveness and growth over comfort.

Books Mentioned:
Mending the Soul Groups found at: MendingthesoulFind a Group

Adam loves Eve

Escaping Enemy Mode

Brene Brown's books on Shame and Vulnerability

  About Russell:
Russell is passionate about encouraging others to fulfill their destiny. In one-on-one settings, Russell helps men and women discover what they are designed to do and then pursue their calling. After receiving an MBA from SMU in 1982, Russell began his career in commercial banking in Austin, Texas. After six years in banking, he joined a series of startups as CFO. He discovered he loved the startup process and began founding and running his own companies.

Since 1993, he has run financial services, biotech, real estate, and mining companies. He loves building new businesses and creating a vision for their success. Russell is excited to work as a C12 Chair and call on his long entrepreneurial career to help others accomplish their God-given dreams. He loves meeting with people one-on-one to hear their stories and hear about their calling.

Along the way, Russell has passionately pursued intimacy with God. As a follower of Jesus since 1967, Russell has had a profound relationship with God that continues to grow daily. He is a retreat speaker and loves to teach about living with greater power and authority as a believer in Jesus.

Russell and his wife, Gina, live in Southwest Austin. They share five grown sons and a daughter.
]]>3042asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,grigsby,holmes,jtg,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,russell,spectrumfalsefullPART 2 - Is your NeuroDiverse Christian Coach_Counsel Gold Standard with ND Peer Panelhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/part-2-is-your-neurodiverse-christian-coach-counsel-gold-standard-with-nd-peer-panel--69490126
If you did not hear part one, go back to January 19th to hear the panel introductions and what we believe is the Gold standard of care! We talk through some myths and stereotypes and share some truths about autism/neurodiversity and marriage.

Jeremy tackles: Should you force a neurodivergent partner to undergo assessment?
Barbara: Neurodiversity is not the ONLY issue in your marriage.
Jenilee: Autism can express itself differently in girls/women
Robin: Emotional Regulation is part of Executive Function and is not a character issue
Shawna: It is a fallacy that ND people should be encouraged to watch porn to learn how to have sex or what
their spouses would like in their intimate life
Dan: While you may never achieve the level of empath as an ND/AS husband, you can become more relational
Stephanie: What is the cause of autism? How to read research critically.

The study Dr. Stephanie mentions that holds a high standard of research credibility: Association of Genetic and Environmental Factors With Autism in a 5-Country Cohort  (2019)

FULL study available: journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2737582

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69490126Mon, 16 Feb 2026 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWelcome back to part 2 of the Gold Standard of Care! If you did not hear part one, go back to January 19th to hear the panel introductions and what we believe is the Gold standard of care! We talk through some myths and stereotypes and share some...
If you did not hear part one, go back to January 19th to hear the panel introductions and what we believe is the Gold standard of care! We talk through some myths and stereotypes and share some truths about autism/neurodiversity and marriage.

Jeremy tackles: Should you force a neurodivergent partner to undergo assessment?
Barbara: Neurodiversity is not the ONLY issue in your marriage.
Jenilee: Autism can express itself differently in girls/women
Robin: Emotional Regulation is part of Executive Function and is not a character issue
Shawna: It is a fallacy that ND people should be encouraged to watch porn to learn how to have sex or what
their spouses would like in their intimate life
Dan: While you may never achieve the level of empath as an ND/AS husband, you can become more relational
Stephanie: What is the cause of autism? How to read research critically.

The study Dr. Stephanie mentions that holds a high standard of research credibility: Association of Genetic and Environmental Factors With Autism in a 5-Country Cohort  (2019)

FULL study available: journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2737582

]]>2726asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,panel,peer,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullOnly Chasing Safety Humanizes Both Spouses with Jeremy Rochfordhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/only-chasing-safety-humanizes-both-spouses-with-jeremy-rochford--69655947https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69655947Mon, 09 Feb 2026 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, our guest is Jeremy Rochford of NeuroFM and a fellow Neurodiverse couples' coach! Jeremy is a regular on Just the Guys, and today he talks about his coaching model, Only Chasing Safety (OCS). Why is safety important, and is it okay to rob...2589asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,jeremy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rochford,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullHow and Who You Love Shapes Who You Arehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-and-who-you-love-shapes-who-you-are--69649160
Part 2 will be on Patreon, and we will share more of what is going on in our personal lives, how, and what this means for us right now!

Are you able to join hands or lock arms in hard times? Are you walking through life as friends, lovers, enemies, or strangers?
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69649160Mon, 02 Feb 2026 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, in the month of love, we talk about sacrificial love in your neurodiverse marriage. Many view this month of love and Valentine's Day as a day for big romantic gestures, but what about living out love every day? How is your love beneficial and...
Part 2 will be on Patreon, and we will share more of what is going on in our personal lives, how, and what this means for us right now!

Are you able to join hands or lock arms in hard times? Are you walking through life as friends, lovers, enemies, or strangers?
]]>1921asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullBlack Friday, Cul de Sacs and Happy New Nexthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/black-friday-cul-de-sacs-and-happy-new-next--69582047  In this first episode of the year, the guys crack open the idea of what it means to be new—not just with gym memberships and resolutions, but deep in the rewiring of old patterns, assumptions, and emotional blind spots.
Dan kicks things off by admitting his old “default setting” was to walk in the door wondering what he’d done wrong—proof that sometimes the battlefield is the hallway between the garage and the living room. From there, Jeremy confesses his own default: being right about everything. But a surprising comment from his son at a hockey game (“There’s so much more going on than what’s on TV”) hits him like a puck to the head and opens up a whole new way of seeing relationships.
Kevin brings in the pastor’s line, “Do you want to be right, or do you want to win?”—and discovers that relational victory doesn’t always mean keeping score. Dan, meanwhile, reflects on curiosity as an antidote to assumption, while Jeff learns that geology may rock, but people matter more.
Between dad jokes about rock stars, cul-de-sacs, and Fraggle Rock sing-alongs, the group lands somewhere between reflection and revelation:
Becoming aware of your patterns.
Accepting feedback without self-defense.
Taking action toward connection, not correction.
  By the end, they circle back to hope. If yesterday was about living on autopilot, this year is about choosing manual drive. “Participating in my own discovery,” Dan quips, “gives me the opportunity to participate in my own recovery.”
So whether you’re trying to read a face, repair a marriage, or just survive mornings before coffee, this conversation reminds you—every default can be rewritten.
Pull Quotes
“There’s so much more going on than what’s on the screen.”
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to win?”
“Participating in my own discovery gives me the opportunity to participate in my own recovery.”
#justtheguys #danholmes #actuallyautistic #neurodiversecoupletips #neurodiverse men

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69582047Mon, 26 Jan 2026 11:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesSummary:   In this first episode of the year, the guys crack open the idea of what it means to be new—not just with gym memberships and resolutions, but deep in the rewiring of old patterns, assumptions, and emotional blind spots. Dan kicks things...  In this first episode of the year, the guys crack open the idea of what it means to be new—not just with gym memberships and resolutions, but deep in the rewiring of old patterns, assumptions, and emotional blind spots.
Dan kicks things off by admitting his old “default setting” was to walk in the door wondering what he’d done wrong—proof that sometimes the battlefield is the hallway between the garage and the living room. From there, Jeremy confesses his own default: being right about everything. But a surprising comment from his son at a hockey game (“There’s so much more going on than what’s on TV”) hits him like a puck to the head and opens up a whole new way of seeing relationships.
Kevin brings in the pastor’s line, “Do you want to be right, or do you want to win?”—and discovers that relational victory doesn’t always mean keeping score. Dan, meanwhile, reflects on curiosity as an antidote to assumption, while Jeff learns that geology may rock, but people matter more.
Between dad jokes about rock stars, cul-de-sacs, and Fraggle Rock sing-alongs, the group lands somewhere between reflection and revelation:
Becoming aware of your patterns.
Accepting feedback without self-defense.
Taking action toward connection, not correction.
  By the end, they circle back to hope. If yesterday was about living on autopilot, this year is about choosing manual drive. “Participating in my own discovery,” Dan quips, “gives me the opportunity to participate in my own recovery.”
So whether you’re trying to read a face, repair a marriage, or just survive mornings before coffee, this conversation reminds you—every default can be rewritten.
Pull Quotes
“There’s so much more going on than what’s on the screen.”
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to win?”
“Participating in my own discovery gives me the opportunity to participate in my own recovery.”
#justtheguys #danholmes #actuallyautistic #neurodiversecoupletips #neurodiverse men

]]>2539actuallyautistic,danhollmes,justtheguys,men,neurodiverse,neurodiversecoupletipsfalsefullPART 1 - Is your NeuroDiverse Christian Coach_Counsel Gold Standard with ND Peer Panelhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/part-1-is-your-neurodiverse-christian-coach-counsel-gold-standard-with-nd-peer-panel--69490116https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69490116Mon, 19 Jan 2026 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes2496asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,panel,peer,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullNEW Lens NEW Perspective: NeuroDiversity is the New Piece Not the Only Piecehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/new-lens-new-perspective-neurodiversity-is-the-new-piece-not-the-only-piece--69345790https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69345790Mon, 12 Jan 2026 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesNew year - new you- or at least a new perspective of yourself and your neurodiverse marriage! So many times, once the diagnosis is made, the sole focus can become the autism/neurodiversity, but Dr. Stephanie & Barbara talk about the many...3057asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAtomic Habits for the New Year for Your NeuroDiverse Relationship Part 1https://www.spreaker.com/episode/atomic-habits-for-the-new-year-for-your-neurodiverse-relationship-part-1--69291700In Atomic Habits, James Clear reminds us that real change doesn’t come from dramatic overhauls but from small, consistent actions that add up over time. For neurodiverse marriages, this principle is especially powerful. Many couples feel stuck because change seems overwhelming or unpredictable. But Clear’s 1% rule—tiny improvements repeated daily—offers a realistic, hopeful path forward for both partners.

Clear also emphasizes identity formation, teaching that habits don’t just shape what we do; they shape who we believe we are. “Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” This aligns beautifully with the work Dan and Stephanie bring in from Dr. Jim Wilder, who teaches that identity is formed through relational attachment, joy, and repeated experiences of being our best self with others. When neurodiverse couples practice small relational habits—brief check-ins, shared cues, predictable routines—they aren’t only improving communication; they're also building trust. They are reinforcing a shared identity as a couple who grow, learns, and repair together.

Starting small is essential for neurodiverse relationships. A five-minute conversation, one shared calendar habit, a single expression of appreciation, or one consistent environmental cue (like a reminder note or visual schedule) can be far more effective than trying to overhaul everything at once. Slow, steady repetition makes habits dependable, which builds trust and safety—core needs for both neurodiverse and neurotypical partners.

The message is simple and deeply encouraging: meaningful change in a neurodiverse marriage doesn’t require perfection or intensity. It requires small, steady steps and a shared commitment to becoming the couple God is forming you to be—one daily habit at a time.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/69291700Mon, 05 Jan 2026 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes It's 2026, and Dan and Stephanie start our podcast series this year on Atomic Habits. The month of January is all about NEW! Remember, Patreon is new! Part 2 of the discussion is on Patreon. In Atomic Habits, James Clear reminds us that real change...In Atomic Habits, James Clear reminds us that real change doesn’t come from dramatic overhauls but from small, consistent actions that add up over time. For neurodiverse marriages, this principle is especially powerful. Many couples feel stuck because change seems overwhelming or unpredictable. But Clear’s 1% rule—tiny improvements repeated daily—offers a realistic, hopeful path forward for both partners.

Clear also emphasizes identity formation, teaching that habits don’t just shape what we do; they shape who we believe we are. “Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” This aligns beautifully with the work Dan and Stephanie bring in from Dr. Jim Wilder, who teaches that identity is formed through relational attachment, joy, and repeated experiences of being our best self with others. When neurodiverse couples practice small relational habits—brief check-ins, shared cues, predictable routines—they aren’t only improving communication; they're also building trust. They are reinforcing a shared identity as a couple who grow, learns, and repair together.

Starting small is essential for neurodiverse relationships. A five-minute conversation, one shared calendar habit, a single expression of appreciation, or one consistent environmental cue (like a reminder note or visual schedule) can be far more effective than trying to overhaul everything at once. Slow, steady repetition makes habits dependable, which builds trust and safety—core needs for both neurodiverse and neurotypical partners.

The message is simple and deeply encouraging: meaningful change in a neurodiverse marriage doesn’t require perfection or intensity. It requires small, steady steps and a shared commitment to becoming the couple God is forming you to be—one daily habit at a time.
]]>2071asr,atomic,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,habits,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullFrom Victim Mindset to Staying Well in your Neurodiverse Marriage with Leslie Vernickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-victim-mindset-to-staying-well-in-your-neurodiverse-marriage-with-leslie-vernick--68922663https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68922663Mon, 29 Dec 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes3014asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,leslie,marriage,marriages,mindset,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,vernick,victimfalsefullDiagnosed with Autism As a Practicing Psychiatrist with Dr. Stacy Greeterhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/diagnosed-with-autism-as-a-practicing-psychiatrist-with-dr-stacy-greeter--68922271Dr. Stacy Greeter.

Topics discussed:
Dr. Greeter's diagnosis journey at the age of 40 as a practicing psychiatrist.
Growing understanding of Autism
Myths about Autism
Different presentations of girls/women in Autism
Gender Fluidity & Autism
Medications and How to be a psychiatric patient and advocate for yourself as an autistic patient
About our Guest:
Dr. Stacy Greeter is board-certified in both child/adolescent and adult psychiatry. She collaborates with children, adults, and their families to design a comprehensive individualized treatment plan.
Dr. Greeter graduated summa cum laude from Duke University, where she was inducted into the Phi Beta Kappa Honor Society and received her Doctor of Medicine degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill under the Morehead Medical Scholarship. During her undergraduate and medical training, Dr. Greeter conducted extensive clinical research funded by the Howard Hughes Medical Institute on autism and on OCD. She completed both her adult studies and her child and adolescent subspecialty training at Northwestern University in Chicago, where she trained with nationally and internationally renowned psychiatrists. She is also certified in Internal Family Systems Therapy.
More info: https://www.stacygreetermd.com/about-us
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may disagree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the selected podcast discussion and are not necessarily in complete agreement with all the beliefs of the selected guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68922271Mon, 22 Dec 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Holmes talks with neurodivergent psychiatrist, Dr. Stacy Greeter. Topics discussed: Dr. Greeter's diagnosis journey at the age of 40 as a practicing psychiatrist. Growing understanding of Autism Myths about Autism Different presentations...Dr. Stacy Greeter.

Topics discussed:
Dr. Greeter's diagnosis journey at the age of 40 as a practicing psychiatrist.
Growing understanding of Autism
Myths about Autism
Different presentations of girls/women in Autism
Gender Fluidity & Autism
Medications and How to be a psychiatric patient and advocate for yourself as an autistic patient
About our Guest:
Dr. Stacy Greeter is board-certified in both child/adolescent and adult psychiatry. She collaborates with children, adults, and their families to design a comprehensive individualized treatment plan.
Dr. Greeter graduated summa cum laude from Duke University, where she was inducted into the Phi Beta Kappa Honor Society and received her Doctor of Medicine degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill under the Morehead Medical Scholarship. During her undergraduate and medical training, Dr. Greeter conducted extensive clinical research funded by the Howard Hughes Medical Institute on autism and on OCD. She completed both her adult studies and her child and adolescent subspecialty training at Northwestern University in Chicago, where she trained with nationally and internationally renowned psychiatrists. She is also certified in Internal Family Systems Therapy.
More info: https://www.stacygreetermd.com/about-us
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may disagree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the selected podcast discussion and are not necessarily in complete agreement with all the beliefs of the selected guest(s).
]]>2854asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,greeter,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,practicing,psychiatrist,resources,spectrum,stacy,stephaniefalsefullShowing Up With Your Own Face Faith, Masking, and the Autistic Pastorhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/showing-up-with-your-own-face-faith-masking-and-the-autistic-pastor--68921762 Together, they explore themes such as:
The mental toll of lifelong masking and how dropping the mask opened up a more vivid, emotionally connected life.
Discovering new ways to connect with God that honor neurodivergent wiring—including journaling, songwriting, and contemplative walking.
Reimagining spiritual practices beyond traditional “quiet time” models and embracing embodied faith.
The role of music, special interests, and authentic emotional expression in spiritual growth.
What it means to show up to God—and others—with your own face, not someone else’s version of what faith should look like.
  This is a rich conversation for anyone exploring their identity, navigating neurodivergence, or longing to experience God in more personal, integrated ways.
📌 Resources Mentioned:
Josh’s podcast: Neurodivergent Faith
Series: “Connecting with God in Neurodivergent Ways”
Book: Practicing the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68921762Wed, 17 Dec 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this powerful and deeply introspective episode of Just the Guys, host Dan Holmes sits down with pastor, musician, and spiritual director Josh Davis—also known as the “Autistic Pastor.” Josh shares his personal journey from a masked life of ministry... Together, they explore themes such as:
The mental toll of lifelong masking and how dropping the mask opened up a more vivid, emotionally connected life.
Discovering new ways to connect with God that honor neurodivergent wiring—including journaling, songwriting, and contemplative walking.
Reimagining spiritual practices beyond traditional “quiet time” models and embracing embodied faith.
The role of music, special interests, and authentic emotional expression in spiritual growth.
What it means to show up to God—and others—with your own face, not someone else’s version of what faith should look like.
  This is a rich conversation for anyone exploring their identity, navigating neurodivergence, or longing to experience God in more personal, integrated ways.
📌 Resources Mentioned:
Josh’s podcast: Neurodivergent Faith
Series: “Connecting with God in Neurodivergent Ways”
Book: Practicing the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence

]]>3390asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,face,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,showing,spectrum,up,with,yourfalsefullConfessions of the Christian Alcoholic with Jon Seidlhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/confessions-of-the-christian-alcoholic-with-jon-seidl--68921183About:
Today, Dan and Stephanie interview Jon Seidl, author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic. Neurodivergent men are 9 times more likely than their non-neurodivergent peers to develop an alcohol or substance use/abuse problem. The later in life diagnosed neurodivergent man (with ADHD or ASD) with a co-occurring issue of anxiety and or depression is the most vulnerable to alcohol or substance use, and the risk is higher for those who have suffered untreated childhood trauma. Hear our heart- this is not about shaming or blaming, this is about your healing and being set free! Jon talks about getting to the root of the problem: "Drinking is not the problem to solve- the unresolved issue that leads you to drinking is the problem to solve." As Leslie Vernick has said, "Drinking is not a marriage work issue. It is an individual issue that causes marriage problems."
Dan and Stephanie feel passionately that marriage work should not be the focus of a couple if there is an active alcohol or substance issue.
For the last 15 years, Jonathon M. Seidl (Jon) has been telling stories. In fact, he’s written over 10,000 posts in his lifetime, first after helping start the top-50 news site TheBlaze in 2010, then as the editor-in-chief of the popular non-profit I Am Second. He writes, speaks, and consults on the power of storytelling, radical vulnerability, faith, mental health, and addiction.
In 2024, he revealed his own struggle with alcohol, explaining how he was the Christian who became an alcoholic, not the other way around. His personal story—from spiraling into addiction to how he climbed out of it— is the focus of his next book, “Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic,” slated for release on October 7, 2025.

His previous book on anxiety, “Finding Rest,” instantly became a #1 Amazon bestseller, topping the charts in several categories like anxieties and phobias, mood disorders, and obsessive compulsive disorder. In fact, it shot up to become the #17 new release on all of Amazon and became a top 100 bestseller on all of Amazon as well.

Jon has seen how the power of storytelling and radical vulnerability can transform people, businesses, and culture, especially after sharing his own story of battling anxiety, OCD, and alcoholism. His passion is to help people with mental health struggles and addictions, while also sharing what he’s learned, telling stories for—and working with—some of the media’s biggest names and organizations, including Arthur Brooks, Glenn Beck, Kirk Cameron, and Chip and Joanna Gaines.

In addition to his writing, he consults businesses, leaders, and non-profits on how to tell their stories through his digital media and content creation firm, The Veritas Network, and runs a daily devotional called The Veritas Daily. He’s also currently finishing his master's in theological studies from Southwestern Seminary (SWBTS) and will graduate in December 2025.

Originally from Wisconsin, he lives in Frisco, TX, with his wife, Brett, and his young children, Annie and Jack.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68921183Mon, 15 Dec 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAbout: Today, Dan and Stephanie interview Jon Seidl, author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic. Neurodivergent men are 9 times more likely than their non-neurodivergent peers to develop an alcohol or substance use/abuse problem. The later in life...About:
Today, Dan and Stephanie interview Jon Seidl, author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic. Neurodivergent men are 9 times more likely than their non-neurodivergent peers to develop an alcohol or substance use/abuse problem. The later in life diagnosed neurodivergent man (with ADHD or ASD) with a co-occurring issue of anxiety and or depression is the most vulnerable to alcohol or substance use, and the risk is higher for those who have suffered untreated childhood trauma. Hear our heart- this is not about shaming or blaming, this is about your healing and being set free! Jon talks about getting to the root of the problem: "Drinking is not the problem to solve- the unresolved issue that leads you to drinking is the problem to solve." As Leslie Vernick has said, "Drinking is not a marriage work issue. It is an individual issue that causes marriage problems."
Dan and Stephanie feel passionately that marriage work should not be the focus of a couple if there is an active alcohol or substance issue.
For the last 15 years, Jonathon M. Seidl (Jon) has been telling stories. In fact, he’s written over 10,000 posts in his lifetime, first after helping start the top-50 news site TheBlaze in 2010, then as the editor-in-chief of the popular non-profit I Am Second. He writes, speaks, and consults on the power of storytelling, radical vulnerability, faith, mental health, and addiction.
In 2024, he revealed his own struggle with alcohol, explaining how he was the Christian who became an alcoholic, not the other way around. His personal story—from spiraling into addiction to how he climbed out of it— is the focus of his next book, “Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic,” slated for release on October 7, 2025.

His previous book on anxiety, “Finding Rest,” instantly became a #1 Amazon bestseller, topping the charts in several categories like anxieties and phobias, mood disorders, and obsessive compulsive disorder. In fact, it shot up to become the #17 new release on all of Amazon and became a top 100 bestseller on all of Amazon as well.

Jon has seen how the power of storytelling and radical vulnerability can transform people, businesses, and culture, especially after sharing his own story of battling anxiety, OCD, and alcoholism. His passion is to help people with mental health struggles and addictions, while also sharing what he’s learned, telling stories for—and working with—some of the media’s biggest names and organizations, including Arthur Brooks, Glenn Beck, Kirk Cameron, and Chip and Joanna Gaines.

In addition to his writing, he consults businesses, leaders, and non-profits on how to tell their stories through his digital media and content creation firm, The Veritas Network, and runs a daily devotional called The Veritas Daily. He’s also currently finishing his master's in theological studies from Southwestern Seminary (SWBTS) and will graduate in December 2025.

Originally from Wisconsin, he lives in Frisco, TX, with his wife, Brett, and his young children, Annie and Jack.
]]>4057alcoholic,asr,autism,christian,confessions,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,john,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,seidl,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAutism Burnout & The Holidays with Dr. Mona Kayhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-burnout-the-holidays-with-dr-mona-kay--68905165
What is burnout, and how is it different than autism burnout?
When are neurodiverse couples most vulnerable?
When the autistic spouse is in burnout, the impact on the non-autistic.
Holidays are always a time that can bring on burnout- both positive and negative changes can bring about burnout.
Resources mentioned:
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily and Amelia Nagoski
Blog:
https://embrace-autism.com/burnout-vs-autistic-burnout/
https://embrace-autism.com/preventing-audhd-burnout/
Book:
https://embrace-autism-store.myshopify.com/products/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout-e-book
About Dr. Mona Kay:
Mona Kay, MSW, Ph.D., is the founder of the Neurodiverse Love community, the host of the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, and the creator of the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards. She was in a mixed-neurotype marriage for 30 years but didn't discover this until her 29th year of marriage. Mona has been divorced since 2018, and her mission is to increase understanding and acceptance of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed-neurotype relationships.
She hosted the first virtual “Neurodiverse Love Conference” in February 2023, and more than 350 people from around the world attended. In addition, she facilitates online support groups for mixed-neurotype couples and neurotypical/non-autistic partners and shares lots of valuable resources on her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68905165Mon, 08 Dec 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday on Coaches' Corner, we discuss burnout vs. autism burnout and the impact on neurodiverse marriage and family systems. What is burnout, and how is it different than autism burnout? When are neurodiverse couples most vulnerable? When the autistic...
What is burnout, and how is it different than autism burnout?
When are neurodiverse couples most vulnerable?
When the autistic spouse is in burnout, the impact on the non-autistic.
Holidays are always a time that can bring on burnout- both positive and negative changes can bring about burnout.
Resources mentioned:
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily and Amelia Nagoski
Blog:
https://embrace-autism.com/burnout-vs-autistic-burnout/
https://embrace-autism.com/preventing-audhd-burnout/
Book:
https://embrace-autism-store.myshopify.com/products/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout-e-book
About Dr. Mona Kay:
Mona Kay, MSW, Ph.D., is the founder of the Neurodiverse Love community, the host of the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, and the creator of the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards. She was in a mixed-neurotype marriage for 30 years but didn't discover this until her 29th year of marriage. Mona has been divorced since 2018, and her mission is to increase understanding and acceptance of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed-neurotype relationships.
She hosted the first virtual “Neurodiverse Love Conference” in February 2023, and more than 350 people from around the world attended. In addition, she facilitates online support groups for mixed-neurotype couples and neurotypical/non-autistic partners and shares lots of valuable resources on her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com.
]]>2894asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullHope- Love- Peace-Joy & the Light of Christ In Your ND Marriage?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/hope-love-peace-joy-the-light-of-christ-in-your-nd-marriage--68800123In this podcast, Dan and Stephanie will guide you through how each Advent theme can become a spiritual anchor for your heart and your neurodiverse marriage.
Christmas50
Use this code on special courses selected for 50% off!

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses

Courses included:
Struggling to Connect

Autism & Neurobiology

Autism Female Phenotype

Marriage & Family 22 sessions
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68800123Mon, 01 Dec 2025 11:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAs we enter the Advent season, we pause to remember the beautiful rhythms God gives us through the four candles of Advent—Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love—all pointing us toward the final candle: the Light of Christ. In the weeks leading up to Christmas, we...In this podcast, Dan and Stephanie will guide you through how each Advent theme can become a spiritual anchor for your heart and your neurodiverse marriage.
Christmas50
Use this code on special courses selected for 50% off!

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses

Courses included:
Struggling to Connect

Autism & Neurobiology

Autism Female Phenotype

Marriage & Family 22 sessions
]]>3493asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullVoiceover Artists for Autistic Voiceshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/voiceover-artists-for-autistic-voices--68609655What if there were a place- a program- a community for autistic adults who want to use their voice talents in the voiceover industry? THERE IS! Have you thought about all the ways voiceover work is possible?
About our Guests:
Heidi S. Hackney MS, PCC, Co-Founder
Certified Autism Coach, ICF Accredited Life Coach, Masters in Human Development
   Robin Brooke SAG-AFTRA, AEA, Co-Founder
Professional Voiceover Talent of 20+ Years. Established VO Instructor and Coach. AVA Program Director.
How to contact:
https://autisticvoiceoverartists.org/

About the Program
Here at AVA, our mission is to empower autistic adults in the voiceover industry, redefine the creative community, and inspire positive change in the way society perceives and embraces neurodiversity.
Please join us! Together, we can make voices heard, dreams realized, and a more inclusive world for all.
Live classes led by voiceover professionals
Elevate your artistry with specialty workshops
Access voiceover video courses 24/7
A subscription program designed to work for you
The program is affordable!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68609655Mon, 24 Nov 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes Today, Dr. Holmes talks to Heidi and Robin about AVA: Autistic Voiceover Artists. What if there were a place- a program- a community for autistic adults who want to use their voice talents in the voiceover industry? THERE IS! Have you thought about...What if there were a place- a program- a community for autistic adults who want to use their voice talents in the voiceover industry? THERE IS! Have you thought about all the ways voiceover work is possible?
About our Guests:
Heidi S. Hackney MS, PCC, Co-Founder
Certified Autism Coach, ICF Accredited Life Coach, Masters in Human Development
   Robin Brooke SAG-AFTRA, AEA, Co-Founder
Professional Voiceover Talent of 20+ Years. Established VO Instructor and Coach. AVA Program Director.
How to contact:
https://autisticvoiceoverartists.org/

About the Program
Here at AVA, our mission is to empower autistic adults in the voiceover industry, redefine the creative community, and inspire positive change in the way society perceives and embraces neurodiversity.
Please join us! Together, we can make voices heard, dreams realized, and a more inclusive world for all.
Live classes led by voiceover professionals
Elevate your artistry with specialty workshops
Access voiceover video courses 24/7
A subscription program designed to work for you
The program is affordable!
]]>2855artists,asr,autism,autistic,dan,diverse,for,holmes,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,voiceover,voicesfalsefullInteroception: What's the Connection or Disconnection with Kelly Mahlerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/interoception-what-s-the-connection-or-disconnection-with-kelly-mahler--68591249
Defined by Kelly's website: Many people notice these feelings in their body with the help of an important sense… a sense called… interoception.
Don’t let the name fool you. The word interoception might not sound very sexy or important. But this sense is a really big deal. Interoception has a huge influence on many areas of our lives, like self-regulation, mental health, and social connection.
About our Guest:
Kelly Mahler, OTD, OTR/L, earned a Doctorate in Occupational Therapy from Misericordia University, Dallas, PA. She has been an occupational therapist for 20 years, serving school-aged children and adults. Kelly is the winner of multiple awards, including the 2020 American Occupational Therapy Association Emerging and Innovative Practice Award & a Mom’s Choice Gold Medal. She is an adjunct faculty member at Elizabethtown College, Elizabethtown, PA as well as at Misericordia University, Dallas, PA. Kelly is a co-principal investigator in several research projects pertaining to topics such as interoception, self-regulation, trauma & autism.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68591249Mon, 17 Nov 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie Holmes talks with Occupational Therapist, Kelly Mahler. The topic is interoception! Every neurotype can struggle with it, but we find neurodivergent folks can have a few more challenges with interoception. Defined by Kelly's...
Defined by Kelly's website: Many people notice these feelings in their body with the help of an important sense… a sense called… interoception.
Don’t let the name fool you. The word interoception might not sound very sexy or important. But this sense is a really big deal. Interoception has a huge influence on many areas of our lives, like self-regulation, mental health, and social connection.
About our Guest:
Kelly Mahler, OTD, OTR/L, earned a Doctorate in Occupational Therapy from Misericordia University, Dallas, PA. She has been an occupational therapist for 20 years, serving school-aged children and adults. Kelly is the winner of multiple awards, including the 2020 American Occupational Therapy Association Emerging and Innovative Practice Award & a Mom’s Choice Gold Medal. She is an adjunct faculty member at Elizabethtown College, Elizabethtown, PA as well as at Misericordia University, Dallas, PA. Kelly is a co-principal investigator in several research projects pertaining to topics such as interoception, self-regulation, trauma & autism.]]>3090asr,autism,dan,diverse,holmes,interoception,kelly,mahler,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullI Still Make the Turkey- It's my Jobhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-still-make-the-turkey-it-s-my-job--68502564 Greg admits that even when overstimulated, “I still made the turkey; it’s my job”—a wry reminder that responsibility and love can coexist with limits and self-awareness. Jeremy reflects on the sobering truth that “what you complain about today might be someone else’s answered prayer,” while Kevin shares how recovery and thankfulness helped him replace counterfeit joys with authentic connection. Dan rounds out the discussion with insights on starting the day with intentional gratitude as a way to short-circuit negativity before it starts.
From Western novels as an escape hatch to unexpected hugs from kids, from box breathing to pecan pie, the guys trade stories of how thankfulness shows up in real life—sometimes messy, sometimes humorous, but always transformative. With family gatherings looming, they offer encouragement to embrace both the people you love and the people who stretch your patience, not as problems to solve but as relationships to nurture.
The takeaway? Joy rarely arrives by accident—it’s cultivated, like Greg’s turkey, with intentional care.

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68502564Wed, 12 Nov 2025 11:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this holiday-themed episode of Just the Guys, the conversation centers on thankfulness—not as a sentimental add-on to Thanksgiving, but as a practical tool for navigating the chaos of family gatherings. Drawing from Dr. Jim Wilder’s teaching on... Greg admits that even when overstimulated, “I still made the turkey; it’s my job”—a wry reminder that responsibility and love can coexist with limits and self-awareness. Jeremy reflects on the sobering truth that “what you complain about today might be someone else’s answered prayer,” while Kevin shares how recovery and thankfulness helped him replace counterfeit joys with authentic connection. Dan rounds out the discussion with insights on starting the day with intentional gratitude as a way to short-circuit negativity before it starts.
From Western novels as an escape hatch to unexpected hugs from kids, from box breathing to pecan pie, the guys trade stories of how thankfulness shows up in real life—sometimes messy, sometimes humorous, but always transformative. With family gatherings looming, they offer encouragement to embrace both the people you love and the people who stretch your patience, not as problems to solve but as relationships to nurture.
The takeaway? Joy rarely arrives by accident—it’s cultivated, like Greg’s turkey, with intentional care.

]]>3220asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,thefalsefullFollowing the ND Compass The Stages of Relationship Progression with Dr. Jill Corvellihttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/following-the-nd-compass-the-stages-of-relationship-progression-with-dr-jill-corvelli--68487154Stages of Relationship Progression:
Romance

Power Struggle

Stability

Commitment

Co-Creation

  About Our Guest:
Jill Corvelli, PhD, LPC, is the creator of ND Compass, a structured methodology designed to
support neurodiverse couples in relational healing. With over a decade of experience working
with hundreds of couples in thousands of sessions, she has developed a systematic approach that integrates Liberating Structures, Differentiation, and Somatic Self-Energy Activation into a phased, neuroaffirming therapeutic framework.

Originally developed to stabilize couples during the Power Struggle stage of relational
development, ND Compass has expanded to support couples across all five stages of relational growth.

Dr. Corvelli is a University Supervisor at Northwestern University’s Family Institute, where she
trains and mentors graduate-level clinicians. She is experienced in Internal Family Systems
(IFS), EMDR, and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP), and has extensive experience
integrating neuroscience, somatic work, and relational models into therapy.
As a national trainer and consultant, she teaches therapists how to bridge the gap between relational stabilization and deeper inner differentiation work, ensuring that neurodiverse couples experience developmental growth in a way that is accessible, paced for their nervous systems, and structured to honor their unique lived experiences.

Couples Institute:
https://www.couplesinstitute.com/therapists-toolkit-for-neurodiverse-couples/?srsltid=AfmBOorpmFwzP_PTwfWel2FDkhyt83uX3mD94qGEseYBQxdEliisZmYi
ND Compass:
https://www.ndpartnersinstitute.com/about
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68487154Mon, 10 Nov 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barb talk with Dr. Jill Corvelli about the ND Compass charting stages of relationship progression for ND couples. Stages of Relationship Progression: - Romance - Power Struggle - Stability - Commitment - Co-Creation...Stages of Relationship Progression:
Romance

Power Struggle

Stability

Commitment

Co-Creation

  About Our Guest:
Jill Corvelli, PhD, LPC, is the creator of ND Compass, a structured methodology designed to
support neurodiverse couples in relational healing. With over a decade of experience working
with hundreds of couples in thousands of sessions, she has developed a systematic approach that integrates Liberating Structures, Differentiation, and Somatic Self-Energy Activation into a phased, neuroaffirming therapeutic framework.

Originally developed to stabilize couples during the Power Struggle stage of relational
development, ND Compass has expanded to support couples across all five stages of relational growth.

Dr. Corvelli is a University Supervisor at Northwestern University’s Family Institute, where she
trains and mentors graduate-level clinicians. She is experienced in Internal Family Systems
(IFS), EMDR, and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP), and has extensive experience
integrating neuroscience, somatic work, and relational models into therapy.
As a national trainer and consultant, she teaches therapists how to bridge the gap between relational stabilization and deeper inner differentiation work, ensuring that neurodiverse couples experience developmental growth in a way that is accessible, paced for their nervous systems, and structured to honor their unique lived experiences.

Couples Institute:
https://www.couplesinstitute.com/therapists-toolkit-for-neurodiverse-couples/?srsltid=AfmBOorpmFwzP_PTwfWel2FDkhyt83uX3mD94qGEseYBQxdEliisZmYi
ND Compass:
https://www.ndpartnersinstitute.com/about
]]>3122asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,compass,corner,corvelli,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,jill,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullResolving Old Trauma Impacting Your Marriage Now with Immanuel with Dr. Karl Lehmanhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/resolving-old-trauma-impacting-your-marriage-now-with-immanuel-with-dr-karl-lehman--68342583 About Our Guest:
Dr. Karl Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist with 35+ years of experience and more than 40,000 hours of clinical experience. He has worked tenaciously throughout his career to integrate his personal Christian faith with medical science, modern mental health care, and his rigorous scientific training. He has researched and worked to integrate faith-based emotional healing with insights from psychological and neurological research. Dr. Lehman is also deeply committed to his own growth and healing.
Dr. Lehman has been married to Charlotte for over 30 years, and they work as a team to apply everything they learn about growth and healing in the context of their marriage.
Author of Outsmarting Yourself and The Immanuel Approach.
Podcast links from podcasts we mentioned about autistic brain neurology:
Pt 1 with Dr. Lehman
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unresolved-trauma-s-impact-on-marriage-with-dr-karl-lehman--66548811
Enemy Mode with Dr. Wilder
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/escaping-enemy-mode-with-dr-jim-wilder--52449734
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68342583Mon, 03 Nov 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe are welcoming back Dr. Lehman with so much positive feedback about his first time on the show. Last show with Dr. Karl, we specifically spoke about the trauma from the perspective of the non-autistic woman married to an autistic man. Today, we... About Our Guest:
Dr. Karl Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist with 35+ years of experience and more than 40,000 hours of clinical experience. He has worked tenaciously throughout his career to integrate his personal Christian faith with medical science, modern mental health care, and his rigorous scientific training. He has researched and worked to integrate faith-based emotional healing with insights from psychological and neurological research. Dr. Lehman is also deeply committed to his own growth and healing.
Dr. Lehman has been married to Charlotte for over 30 years, and they work as a team to apply everything they learn about growth and healing in the context of their marriage.
Author of Outsmarting Yourself and The Immanuel Approach.
Podcast links from podcasts we mentioned about autistic brain neurology:
Pt 1 with Dr. Lehman
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/unresolved-trauma-s-impact-on-marriage-with-dr-karl-lehman--66548811
Enemy Mode with Dr. Wilder
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/escaping-enemy-mode-with-dr-jim-wilder--52449734
]]>3454asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullHumility & Sacred Attachment with Michael John Cusickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/humility-sacred-attachment-with-michael-john-cusick--67048439 About our Guest:
Michael John Cusick
Michael John Cusick is the CEO and founder of Restoring the Soul, an intensive counseling ministry in Denver. He is a licensed professional counselor, spiritual director, and former assistant professor of counseling at Colorado Christian University. Michael is the author of Surfing for God, and his articles have appeared in prominent publications such as Relevant, The Huffington Post, and Red Letter Christians. He and his wife, Julianne, have two grown children and live in Littleton, Colorado. You can find out more about Michael and his resources at: https://restoringthesoul.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67048439Mon, 27 Oct 2025 10:00:10 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesOur guest was identified on the autism spectrum with the label he prefers, Asperger's Syndrome, and began his identification journey of what it means to be on the spectrum. As we conclude this month's focus on attachment, Michael shares from his book,... About our Guest:
Michael John Cusick
Michael John Cusick is the CEO and founder of Restoring the Soul, an intensive counseling ministry in Denver. He is a licensed professional counselor, spiritual director, and former assistant professor of counseling at Colorado Christian University. Michael is the author of Surfing for God, and his articles have appeared in prominent publications such as Relevant, The Huffington Post, and Red Letter Christians. He and his wife, Julianne, have two grown children and live in Littleton, Colorado. You can find out more about Michael and his resources at: https://restoringthesoul.com/
]]>3521asr,attachment,autism,christian,couples,cusick,dan,diverse,holmes,humility,marriage,marriages,michael,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sacred,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullSelf-Attunement, Lament & Developing Your iSight with Marlene Allenhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/self-attunement-lament-developing-your-isight-with-marlene-allen--68169048No!
Today, we talk about adversity, pain, and lament, and how they differ from complaining and venting, which are stuck in disgust or contempt. Lament is a release and offering, and complaining amplifies your pain and can blind you.
So join our discussion today to learn more about:
Self-attunment

Attunement to God and developing iSight, is Immanuel always with me?

How does pain impact me?

Lamenting vs Complaining

About our Guest:
Marlene Allen currently serves as the Executive Director of Life Model Works. She is an author, teacher, mentor, networker, licensed minister, and joy-starter. She graduated from McNeese State University in her home state of Louisiana. Her passion for teaching spiritual principles to young people led to a forty-plus-year journey of serving in schools and churches. During her 16-year service as a missionary in Southeast Asia, Marlene was introduced to Life Model Works and finally found the language to articulate the value of joy that she carried within her.
Before becoming executive director, Marlene was a relational practitioner and served on the Life Model Works Board of Directors. She firmly believes that Life Model Works’ relational tools will help us better represent the Lord on the Earth.
Residing in Aurora, Colorado, Marlene is a mom to four amazing adults, Rachell, Victoria, Kia, and Moses, and is called ‘Momma Marlene’ by a host of others. She is the creator of Doodles at Relational Wholeness Doodles and the author of the children’s book Candlestick City, available on Amazon.

Life Model: https://lifemodelworks.org/neurotheology/
Many of Dan & Stephanie's courses use Life Model Books or ministry partners such as Deeper Walk or Thrive Works.
Chapter 5 of Uiquely Us relies on some of these principles!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68169048Mon, 20 Oct 2025 10:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesContinuing this month's topic on attachment and attunement, we have with us today the Life Model Works Executive Director, Marlene Allen. So many of our clients and listeners ask how I can have joy in pain or return to joy when things seem hopeless....No!
Today, we talk about adversity, pain, and lament, and how they differ from complaining and venting, which are stuck in disgust or contempt. Lament is a release and offering, and complaining amplifies your pain and can blind you.
So join our discussion today to learn more about:
Self-attunment

Attunement to God and developing iSight, is Immanuel always with me?

How does pain impact me?

Lamenting vs Complaining

About our Guest:
Marlene Allen currently serves as the Executive Director of Life Model Works. She is an author, teacher, mentor, networker, licensed minister, and joy-starter. She graduated from McNeese State University in her home state of Louisiana. Her passion for teaching spiritual principles to young people led to a forty-plus-year journey of serving in schools and churches. During her 16-year service as a missionary in Southeast Asia, Marlene was introduced to Life Model Works and finally found the language to articulate the value of joy that she carried within her.
Before becoming executive director, Marlene was a relational practitioner and served on the Life Model Works Board of Directors. She firmly believes that Life Model Works’ relational tools will help us better represent the Lord on the Earth.
Residing in Aurora, Colorado, Marlene is a mom to four amazing adults, Rachell, Victoria, Kia, and Moses, and is called ‘Momma Marlene’ by a host of others. She is the creator of Doodles at Relational Wholeness Doodles and the author of the children’s book Candlestick City, available on Amazon.

Life Model: https://lifemodelworks.org/neurotheology/
Many of Dan & Stephanie's courses use Life Model Books or ministry partners such as Deeper Walk or Thrive Works.
Chapter 5 of Uiquely Us relies on some of these principles!
]]>3297falsefullEating Powdermilk Biscuits for Better Attachment with Guest Dr. Jesse Gillhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eating-powdermilk-biscuits-for-better-attachment-with-guest-dr-jesse-gill--68126541 Dr. Gill's site: https://www.facetofaceliving.com/our-story

7 Keys to Intimacy: https://www.facetofaceliving.com/shop

And Dr. Gill has a new book on our leadership!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68126541Wed, 15 Oct 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month, we are focusing on Attachment! Dan invited a previous guest and attachment expert, Dr. W. Jesse Gill, to join the guys to talk about attachments. What do powder milk biscuits have to do with attachment? Just the Guys cast Greg, Jeremy, and... Dr. Gill's site: https://www.facetofaceliving.com/our-story

7 Keys to Intimacy: https://www.facetofaceliving.com/shop

And Dr. Gill has a new book on our leadership!
]]>3496falsefullAttachment to God with the Holsclawshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/attachment-to-god-with-the-holsclaws--68112934Attachment to God!
What a huge topic to cover! Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara talk with Geoffrey & Cyd Holsclaw about intimacy and attachment to God.
We continue our month-long deep dive on ATTACHMENT/INTIMACY.

Topics in our discussion:
Right brain vs left brain stuff- logical approach to knowing about God, to relational attachment to or with God.
The old marriage triangle of husband and wife at the bottom, as you grow closer to God, you grow closer to each other. What is right and wrong about that
Barriers to attachment with God?
How church trauma or trauma in a marriage can impact one's view of God or attachment to God.
   About our Guests:
Geoff Holsclaw (PhD) is an author of multiple books, a visiting professor of theology at Western Theological Seminary, and co-founder of the Center for Embodied Faith (embodiedfaith.life). Co-author of the forthcoming Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection.
Cyd Holsclaw is an author, spiritual director, and pastor. She is also a trauma-informed, Jesus-centered, professional certified coach focused on embodied practices and building a secure attachment to God. Co-author of the forthcoming Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection.
Learn more at www.cydholsclaw.com
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/68112934Mon, 13 Oct 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAttachment to God! What a huge topic to cover! Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara talk with Geoffrey & Cyd Holsclaw about intimacy and attachment to God. We continue our month-long deep dive on ATTACHMENT/INTIMACY. Topics in our discussion: Right...Attachment to God!
What a huge topic to cover! Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara talk with Geoffrey & Cyd Holsclaw about intimacy and attachment to God.
We continue our month-long deep dive on ATTACHMENT/INTIMACY.

Topics in our discussion:
Right brain vs left brain stuff- logical approach to knowing about God, to relational attachment to or with God.
The old marriage triangle of husband and wife at the bottom, as you grow closer to God, you grow closer to each other. What is right and wrong about that
Barriers to attachment with God?
How church trauma or trauma in a marriage can impact one's view of God or attachment to God.
   About our Guests:
Geoff Holsclaw (PhD) is an author of multiple books, a visiting professor of theology at Western Theological Seminary, and co-founder of the Center for Embodied Faith (embodiedfaith.life). Co-author of the forthcoming Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection.
Cyd Holsclaw is an author, spiritual director, and pastor. She is also a trauma-informed, Jesus-centered, professional certified coach focused on embodied practices and building a secure attachment to God. Co-author of the forthcoming Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection.
Learn more at www.cydholsclaw.com
]]>3604asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullIdentity, Attachment & Your NeuroDiverse Relationship with Dr. Jim Wilderhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/identity-attachment-your-neurodiverse-relationship-with-dr-jim-wilder--67855836In this episode of Neurodiverse Christian Couples, hosts Dan and Stephanie welcome back neurotheologian Dr. Jim Wilder for a deep dive into identity formation, attachment, and the brain, especially as it relates to neurodiverse individuals and marriages.
Dr. Wilder explains how our identity develops from infancy through adolescence, highlighting key brain regions (like the orbital prefrontal cortex, corpus callosum, and mirror neuron system) and how they contribute to our sense of self and our ability to connect with others. He discusses what happens when these developmental processes are disrupted or different — as is often the case in autism, ADHD, and other developmental differences — and how this affects relationships, emotional regulation, and group belonging.
The conversation explores:
How attachment and caregiver attunement in infancy shape emotional identity.
Why the adolescent brain shifts focus from Who am I? to Who are my people? — and how failing to find a “herd” can impact identity.
The biological and neurological reasons why change (especially in neurodiverse individuals) takes time, encouragement, and community rather than just “trying harder.”
Why accountability in the traditional sense often fails, and how a supportive group offering healthy correction is much more effective for growth and transformation.
How autism impacts the identity center of the brain and its implications for marital relationships
  This episode sets the stage for a series on identity and attachment, touching on grief, resilience, and sacred attachment, with upcoming guests offering complementary perspectives.
If you’re curious about how brain development, faith, and neurodiversity intersect — especially within marriage and community — this episode provides both insight and encouragement.
About Our Guest Dr. Jim Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary, and elsewhere.
  Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.
In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.
Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered, but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.
Other podcasts we referenced:
Escaping Enemy Mode Podcast:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/escaping-enemy-mode-with-dr-jim-wilder--52449734
What is LifeModel?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOcc2QJ0tTg
Fear Bonds and Love Bonds with Dr. Wilder
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/fear-bonds-love-bonds-and-q-a-with-dr-jim-wilder--57526192
Dr. Wilder's Books for 2026 Courses
Life Passages of Men
Growing a More Human Community
  ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67855836Mon, 06 Oct 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday's podcast kicks off a new series, running through November 3rd, and concludes with Dr. Karl Lehman. This 6-week series focuses on identity, attachment, wounds, lament, and securing our attachment in Christ, not your marriage. In this episode...In this episode of Neurodiverse Christian Couples, hosts Dan and Stephanie welcome back neurotheologian Dr. Jim Wilder for a deep dive into identity formation, attachment, and the brain, especially as it relates to neurodiverse individuals and marriages.
Dr. Wilder explains how our identity develops from infancy through adolescence, highlighting key brain regions (like the orbital prefrontal cortex, corpus callosum, and mirror neuron system) and how they contribute to our sense of self and our ability to connect with others. He discusses what happens when these developmental processes are disrupted or different — as is often the case in autism, ADHD, and other developmental differences — and how this affects relationships, emotional regulation, and group belonging.
The conversation explores:
How attachment and caregiver attunement in infancy shape emotional identity.
Why the adolescent brain shifts focus from Who am I? to Who are my people? — and how failing to find a “herd” can impact identity.
The biological and neurological reasons why change (especially in neurodiverse individuals) takes time, encouragement, and community rather than just “trying harder.”
Why accountability in the traditional sense often fails, and how a supportive group offering healthy correction is much more effective for growth and transformation.
How autism impacts the identity center of the brain and its implications for marital relationships
  This episode sets the stage for a series on identity and attachment, touching on grief, resilience, and sacred attachment, with upcoming guests offering complementary perspectives.
If you’re curious about how brain development, faith, and neurodiversity intersect — especially within marriage and community — this episode provides both insight and encouragement.
About Our Guest Dr. Jim Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary, and elsewhere.
  Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.
In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.
Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered, but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.
Other podcasts we referenced:
Escaping Enemy Mode Podcast:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/escaping-enemy-mode-with-dr-jim-wilder--52449734
What is LifeModel?
4200asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jim,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wilderfalsefullWe Remember that Differently...So Who is Lying?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-remember-that-differently-so-who-is-lying--67832838 Often, the couple remembers something differently (more often than not) and gets stuck in the weeds on whether a fact is true or not true instead of solving the actual problem or coming up with a future solution from hindsight learning. Many of our couples get stuck in what is sin, what is a lie, when is this a character flaw or issue?
Stephanie began the discussion by setting up some Gottman research that states 69% of couples' issues are perpetual and unsolvable, so what do you do?
In neurodiverse couples, you can guarantee that you will remember situations and events differently.
You can count on the two of you to have different perspectives and priorities- what do you do?
Looking at the definition of a lie:
General Definition:
A lie is generally defined as a false statement made with the intent to deceive someone.
It involves making a statement that the speaker knows to be untrue, to cause the listener to believe it is true.
Lies involve the intention to deceive or omit something so as not to have a penalty or consequence.
What to do?
After listening to the documentary The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley, Dan and Stephanie arrive at different places where they believe Elizabeth Holmes (no relation) is lying with intent. Is she lying to herself? Stuck in dreams or expectations that will never be? Lying to others? What do you think?
What do you do when you remember differently and need to solve a problem, or you have differences and wants and needs and priorities?
Dan and Stephanie also talk about the perspective gap and learning from it, and how to stay relational when you disagree.
An older podcast called Stuck in the Weeds is mentioned- you can find that here:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stuck-in-the-weeds-communication-collaboration-misfires--64597917
Find the entire catalog here:
https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356
or from our home page
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com
Find out what courses are available at www.holmesasr.com
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67832838Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan & Stephanie try to cover a difficult topic using stories that can happen with neurodiverse couples and weaving in the story of Elizabeth Holmes/ Theranos after seeing the documentary on HBO Max about remembering differently, different... Often, the couple remembers something differently (more often than not) and gets stuck in the weeds on whether a fact is true or not true instead of solving the actual problem or coming up with a future solution from hindsight learning. Many of our couples get stuck in what is sin, what is a lie, when is this a character flaw or issue?
Stephanie began the discussion by setting up some Gottman research that states 69% of couples' issues are perpetual and unsolvable, so what do you do?
In neurodiverse couples, you can guarantee that you will remember situations and events differently.
You can count on the two of you to have different perspectives and priorities- what do you do?
Looking at the definition of a lie:
General Definition:
A lie is generally defined as a false statement made with the intent to deceive someone.
It involves making a statement that the speaker knows to be untrue, to cause the listener to believe it is true.
Lies involve the intention to deceive or omit something so as not to have a penalty or consequence.
What to do?
After listening to the documentary The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley, Dan and Stephanie arrive at different places where they believe Elizabeth Holmes (no relation) is lying with intent. Is she lying to herself? Stuck in dreams or expectations that will never be? Lying to others? What do you think?
What do you do when you remember differently and need to solve a problem, or you have differences and wants and needs and priorities?
Dan and Stephanie also talk about the perspective gap and learning from it, and how to stay relational when you disagree.
An older podcast called Stuck in the Weeds is mentioned- you can find that here:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/stuck-in-the-weeds-communication-collaboration-misfires--64597917
Find the entire catalog here:
https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356
or from our home page
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com
Find out what courses are available at www.holmesasr.com
]]>4149asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,lying,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullCan a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy? Part 2https://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-a-neurodiverse-couple-truly-be-happy-part-2--67831536Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy discussion.
If you missed part 1, check out the catalog as of September 1!
Colleague and Neurodiverse Couple Specialist Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show, Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast, Season 5. Stephanie and Dan were featured in the Couples Who are Making It!

We also talk about our book Uniquely Us! Get the book here: https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

According to our research, 10-12% of ND Christian Couples are satisfied or thriving! We can do better! Let go of religious rules and roles and seek attachment and relationship!

Jodi Carlton is also an expert in the field of NeuroDiverse Marriage and specializes in cases where there is a crossover of Narcissism and Autism.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67831536Mon, 22 Sep 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesPart 2 of the " Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy discussion. If you missed part 1, check out the catalog as of September 1! Colleague and Neurodiverse Couple Specialist Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show, Your NeuroDiverse Couple...Can a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy discussion.
If you missed part 1, check out the catalog as of September 1!
Colleague and Neurodiverse Couple Specialist Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show, Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast, Season 5. Stephanie and Dan were featured in the Couples Who are Making It!

We also talk about our book Uniquely Us! Get the book here: https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

According to our research, 10-12% of ND Christian Couples are satisfied or thriving! We can do better! Let go of religious rules and roles and seek attachment and relationship!

Jodi Carlton is also an expert in the field of NeuroDiverse Marriage and specializes in cases where there is a crossover of Narcissism and Autism.]]>2135asr,autism,carlton,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jodi,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullFor Every Action ... Mad & Meltdowns & Maybe even Mopeyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/for-every-action-mad-meltdowns-maybe-even-mopey--67664603Just the Guys, the hosts — joined by a new guest, Kevin — tackle the important and nuanced topic of anger, meltdowns, and their impact on relationships. Drawing from their own neurodiverse experiences and relationships, they explore whether “meltdown” and “anger” are interchangeable, and how these emotional states affect not only the individual but everyone around them.
They discuss how to recognize the line between frustration and a full meltdown, using vivid metaphors like pilots ignoring warnings, or weightlifters knowing their limits. The group reflects on the critical role of recognizing when you can still listen to reason versus when you’ve spiraled beyond control — and the consequences of both states.
The conversation highlights how meltdowns are not always loud or angry; they can also manifest as emotional shutdowns. Regardless of form, every reaction has an impact on spouses, children, and the relational climate. The guys discuss the helplessness, fear, and even trauma that partners can feel in the wake of repeated meltdowns, and how chronic incidents can lead to hopelessness in relationships.
Importantly, they emphasize the necessity of repair and introspection. Repair involves accountability, understanding the harm caused, listening to feedback without defensiveness, and working to prevent future incidents. They remind listeners that repairing trust is a team effort — built on grace, openness, and hard work — and that even if meltdowns stem from autistic traits, the behavior and its consequences still require ownership and restoration.
The episode closes with a reminder that meltdowns and their impacts cannot simply be brushed aside — they must be acknowledged and addressed, because every action has an impact.

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67664603Wed, 17 Sep 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this episode of Just the Guys, the hosts — joined by a new guest, Kevin — tackle the important and nuanced topic of anger, meltdowns, and their impact on relationships. Drawing from their own neurodiverse experiences and relationships, they explore...Just the Guys, the hosts — joined by a new guest, Kevin — tackle the important and nuanced topic of anger, meltdowns, and their impact on relationships. Drawing from their own neurodiverse experiences and relationships, they explore whether “meltdown” and “anger” are interchangeable, and how these emotional states affect not only the individual but everyone around them.
They discuss how to recognize the line between frustration and a full meltdown, using vivid metaphors like pilots ignoring warnings, or weightlifters knowing their limits. The group reflects on the critical role of recognizing when you can still listen to reason versus when you’ve spiraled beyond control — and the consequences of both states.
The conversation highlights how meltdowns are not always loud or angry; they can also manifest as emotional shutdowns. Regardless of form, every reaction has an impact on spouses, children, and the relational climate. The guys discuss the helplessness, fear, and even trauma that partners can feel in the wake of repeated meltdowns, and how chronic incidents can lead to hopelessness in relationships.
Importantly, they emphasize the necessity of repair and introspection. Repair involves accountability, understanding the harm caused, listening to feedback without defensiveness, and working to prevent future incidents. They remind listeners that repairing trust is a team effort — built on grace, openness, and hard work — and that even if meltdowns stem from autistic traits, the behavior and its consequences still require ownership and restoration.
The episode closes with a reminder that meltdowns and their impacts cannot simply be brushed aside — they must be acknowledged and addressed, because every action has an impact.

]]>2764asr,autism,christian,dan,diverse,for_every_action,guys,holmes,just,justtheguys,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalsefullNeuroDiversity Training Matters for Your NeuroDiverse Marriage with NeuroDiverse Experts Panel Discussion Pt1.https://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurodiversity-training-matters-for-your-neurodiverse-marriage-with-neurodiverse-experts-panel-discussion-pt1--67573764
Can they be satisfying and healthy?

Does autism really ruin marriage and family- NO!

Does the training of your coach or counselor matter- YES!

You will hear an introduction by neurodiverse relationship expert and coach Jodi Carlton. Jodi has been instrumental in forming a peer support group for neurodiverse couples from around the world. You will hear some panelists who have also been part of the show, and there are a few more segments we produced as a panel. Panelist work with different types of relationships and different religious or non religious backgrounds but the key point is neurodiversity training mattersIf you are a coach or counselor chaplain or clergy and you want training on ND Chritian couples reach out to me at www.christianneurovecouples.comJodi is also in our peer group putting together an organization a database of qualified professionals- so listen in our panelists discussion of neurodiverse relationship experts and specialists.

Want to hear the rest of the podcast with Jodi- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-unstuck-in-neurodiverse-partnerships-expert/id1612135248?i=1000718667695

Want training for Christian ND couples? www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

Want the book Uniquely Us? https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67573764Mon, 15 Sep 2025 10:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesCan Neurodiverse marriages work? Can they be satisfying and healthy? Does autism really ruin marriage and family- NO! Does the training of your coach or counselor matter- YES! You will hear an introduction by neurodiverse relationship expert and...
Can they be satisfying and healthy?

Does autism really ruin marriage and family- NO!

Does the training of your coach or counselor matter- YES!

You will hear an introduction by neurodiverse relationship expert and coach Jodi Carlton. Jodi has been instrumental in forming a peer support group for neurodiverse couples from around the world. You will hear some panelists who have also been part of the show, and there are a few more segments we produced as a panel. Panelist work with different types of relationships and different religious or non religious backgrounds but the key point is neurodiversity training mattersIf you are a coach or counselor chaplain or clergy and you want training on ND Chritian couples reach out to me at www.christianneurovecouples.comJodi is also in our peer group putting together an organization a database of qualified professionals- so listen in our panelists discussion of neurodiverse relationship experts and specialists.

Want to hear the rest of the podcast with Jodi- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-unstuck-in-neurodiverse-partnerships-expert/id1612135248?i=1000718667695

Want training for Christian ND couples? www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

Want the book Uniquely Us? https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus]]>2559asr,autism,carlton,christian,couples,dan,discussion,diverse,holmes,jodi,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,panel,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullNeuroDiverse Couples' Work with Dr. Tony Attwoodhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurodiverse-couples-work-with-dr-tony-attwood--67639482Our Neuro Fam and Just the Guys to discuss Dr. Attwood's newest book, written by co-author Maxine Aston.

This year marks 5 years of the ND Couples Podcast, and we welcome Dr. Tony Attwood back to the show to share his decades of experience.

Professor Tony Attwood is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in autism spectrum disorders since he qualified as a clinical psychologist in England in 1975. He currently works in his own private practice and is also an adjunct professor at Griffith University, Queensland, and a senior consultant at the Minds and Hearts clinic in Brisbane. His book Asperger’s Syndrome – A Guide for Parents and Professionals has sold over 400,000 copies and has been translated into 27 languages. His subsequent book, The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome, published in October 2006, has sold over 300,000 copies and has been translated into 18 languages, and is one of the primary textbooks on Asperger’s syndrome. He has several subsequent books published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Future Horizons Inc., and Guilford Press.
Dr. Tony has been invited to be a keynote speaker at many Australasian and International Conferences. He presents workshops and runs training courses for parents, professionals, and individuals with Asperger's syndrome all over the world and is a prolific author of scientific papers and books on the subject.
He has worked with many thousands of individuals of all ages with Asperger's syndrome or an Autism Spectrum Disorder.
www.tonyattwood.com.au

The book:
https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Counselling-Autistic-Neurodiverse-Couples/dp/1805013025
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67639482Mon, 08 Sep 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Barbara was unable to co-host with Dr. Stephanie. For today, Dr. Stephanie is joined by Jeremy Rochford of Our Neuro Fam and Just the Guys to discuss Dr. Attwood's newest book, written by co-author Maxine Aston. This year marks 5 years of the...Our Neuro Fam and Just the Guys to discuss Dr. Attwood's newest book, written by co-author Maxine Aston.

This year marks 5 years of the ND Couples Podcast, and we welcome Dr. Tony Attwood back to the show to share his decades of experience.

Professor Tony Attwood is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in autism spectrum disorders since he qualified as a clinical psychologist in England in 1975. He currently works in his own private practice and is also an adjunct professor at Griffith University, Queensland, and a senior consultant at the Minds and Hearts clinic in Brisbane. His book Asperger’s Syndrome – A Guide for Parents and Professionals has sold over 400,000 copies and has been translated into 27 languages. His subsequent book, The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome, published in October 2006, has sold over 300,000 copies and has been translated into 18 languages, and is one of the primary textbooks on Asperger’s syndrome. He has several subsequent books published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Future Horizons Inc., and Guilford Press.
Dr. Tony has been invited to be a keynote speaker at many Australasian and International Conferences. He presents workshops and runs training courses for parents, professionals, and individuals with Asperger's syndrome all over the world and is a prolific author of scientific papers and books on the subject.
He has worked with many thousands of individuals of all ages with Asperger's syndrome or an Autism Spectrum Disorder.
www.tonyattwood.com.au

The book:
https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Counselling-Autistic-Neurodiverse-Couples/dp/1805013025
]]>3763asr,attwood,autism,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,holmes,jeremy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rochford,spectrum,stephanie,tonyfalsefullCan a NeuroDiverse Couple Truly Be Happy? Part 1https://www.spreaker.com/episode/can-a-neurodiverse-couple-truly-be-happy-part-1--67565262Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show for Season 5- Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast. Stephanie and Dan were featured in the Couples Who are Making It! We also discuss our book, Uniquely Us!

Get the book here:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
According to our research, 10-12% of ND Christian Couples are satisfied or thriving!
We can do better!
Let go of religious rules and roles and seek attachment and relationship!

Jodi Carlton is also an expert in the field of NeuroDiverse Marriage and specializes in cases where there is a crossover of Narcissism and Autism.
https://jodicarlton.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67565262Mon, 01 Sep 2025 10:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesColleague and Neurodiverse Couple Specialist Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show for Season 5- Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast. Stephanie and Dan were featured in the Couples Who are Making It! We also discuss our book, Uniquely Us! Get the...Jodi Carlton interviewed us for her show for Season 5- Your NeuroDiverse Couple Podcast. Stephanie and Dan were featured in the Couples Who are Making It! We also discuss our book, Uniquely Us!

Get the book here:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
According to our research, 10-12% of ND Christian Couples are satisfied or thriving!
We can do better!
Let go of religious rules and roles and seek attachment and relationship!

Jodi Carlton is also an expert in the field of NeuroDiverse Marriage and specializes in cases where there is a crossover of Narcissism and Autism.
https://jodicarlton.com/]]>3156asr,autism,carlton,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jodi,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWant TOTAL Intimacy in Your NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/want-total-intimacy-in-your-neurodiverse-christian-marriage--67462252
Today, we look at what total intimacy is.
Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding? Where did that come from? Is it the wife's duty to cover or pay for her husband's sin? What is con·cu·pis·cence, and can Stephanie even say it?

Where did this thought originate that men must have sex every three days or three times a week?
Is that from the Bible?
What is healthy intimacy? What happens when there is duty sex?

Is there coercion in your marriage for sex?

We draw today from Total Intimacy from Dr. Doug Roseneau and The Marriage You Want by the Gregoires. We also talk about attunement and attachment from Renovated by Dr. Jim Wilder.

We read from an article from Focus on the Family: Is Sex a Need or Desire?
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/is-sex-a-need/

Wanna hear us on Focus on the Family's Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Podcast?
https://m.christianradio.com/ministry/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage/my-spouse-is-on-the-spectrum-1238637.html
  ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67462252Mon, 25 Aug 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe hope you have been following this entire month of podcasts on sex, porn, addiction, healthy sexuality, and now total intimacy. Today, we look at what total intimacy is. Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding? Where did that come from? Is...
Today, we look at what total intimacy is.
Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding? Where did that come from? Is it the wife's duty to cover or pay for her husband's sin? What is con·cu·pis·cence, and can Stephanie even say it?

Where did this thought originate that men must have sex every three days or three times a week?
Is that from the Bible?
What is healthy intimacy? What happens when there is duty sex?

Is there coercion in your marriage for sex?

We draw today from Total Intimacy from Dr. Doug Roseneau and The Marriage You Want by the Gregoires. We also talk about attunement and attachment from Renovated by Dr. Jim Wilder.

We read from an article from Focus on the Family: Is Sex a Need or Desire?
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/is-sex-a-need/

Wanna hear us on Focus on the Family's Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Podcast?
https://m.christianradio.com/ministry/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage/my-spouse-is-on-the-spectrum-1238637.html
  ]]>3498asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWhat even is Healthy Christian Masculinity & Sexuality with Dr. Andrew Baumanhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-even-is-healthy-christian-masculinity-sexuality-with-dr-andrew-bauman--67063303Andrew has been on the show before, but this month our focus is on porn or sexual abuse and addiction, and what is healthy?
Dr. Stephanie asks Dr. Andrew:
What is an appreciation of beauty vs. "bounce the eyes" and devouring beauty?
What is healthy masculinity?
How has the Church devalued women?
What is sexual intimacy?
Dr. Stephanie mentions that many men, when porn is discovered, go into blame, shame, or defensive anger, and asks Andrew, What is happening here?
Is porn use betrayal or infidelity?
What needs to happen to heal and restore masculinity in the way God intended?
About our Guest:
Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Dr. Andrew J. Bauman, is a therapist with a Doctorate from Northeastern University. His dissertation was on studying the impact of sexism and abuse on women in the Protestant Church. Andrew is the author of seven books, and his newest book with Baker, is called SAFE CHURCH: How to Guard Against Sexism & Abuse in Christian Communities (2025).

Find out more about retreats at:
https://andrewjbauman.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67063303Mon, 18 Aug 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie is solo but has a discussion the church needs to hear with Dr. Andrew Bauman. Andrew has been on the show before, but this month our focus is on porn or sexual abuse and addiction, and what is healthy? Dr. Stephanie asks Dr....Andrew has been on the show before, but this month our focus is on porn or sexual abuse and addiction, and what is healthy?
Dr. Stephanie asks Dr. Andrew:
What is an appreciation of beauty vs. "bounce the eyes" and devouring beauty?
What is healthy masculinity?
How has the Church devalued women?
What is sexual intimacy?
Dr. Stephanie mentions that many men, when porn is discovered, go into blame, shame, or defensive anger, and asks Andrew, What is happening here?
Is porn use betrayal or infidelity?
What needs to happen to heal and restore masculinity in the way God intended?
About our Guest:
Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Dr. Andrew J. Bauman, is a therapist with a Doctorate from Northeastern University. His dissertation was on studying the impact of sexism and abuse on women in the Protestant Church. Andrew is the author of seven books, and his newest book with Baker, is called SAFE CHURCH: How to Guard Against Sexism & Abuse in Christian Communities (2025).

Find out more about retreats at:
https://andrewjbauman.com/
]]>3136andrew,asr,autism,bauman,christian,couples,diverse,dr.,healthy,holmes,marriage,marriages,masculinity,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sexuality,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullSurfing for God with Michael Cusickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/surfing-for-god-with-michael-cusick--67049455Michael vulnerably shares his own journey from trauma, addiction, and shame to healing and restoration. He explains that many Christian approaches to pornography are often split between moralism (“just stop it”) and clinical models (treating it as a disease). His book offers a different lens: one that views compulsive sexual behavior as rooted in legitimate God-given desires that have been disordered by trauma, unmet attachment needs, and relational wounds.
Key insights include:
• “Listen to your lust” – Our compulsions are tells, pointing to deeper longings for connection, affirmation, and healing.
• Addiction is not just a behavior, but often a false god, offering counterfeit comfort for past wounds.
• Shame is physiological and often misunderstood in Christian circles. True healing comes not from hiding, but from secure, grace-filled relationships with God and others.
• Michael emphasizes the four S’s of attachment (Seen, Soothed, Safe, Secure) as crucial for emotional and spiritual healing.
• He reframes God’s posture in Genesis 3, inviting listeners to imagine a version of God that says, “Come closer” rather than condemning God as a loving Father, not a punisher.
• The path forward isn’t perfect behavior, but direction and healing. Relapse may be part of the journey, but growth happens when men risk being known and pursue secure attachments.
Listeners are encouraged to shift from behavior management to healing through connection—first with others, then with God.
⸻
Resources Mentioned:
• Surfing for God by Michael Cusick (Book, Audio, Kindle)
• Sacred Attachment (new book by Cusick)
• Restoring the Soul ministry: restoringthesoul.com
• Restoring the Soul Men’s Weekend: restoringthesoulweekend.com
• Podcasts: Restoring the Soul and The Place We Find Ourselves (Adam Young)
• Influences: Dallas Willard, G.K. Chesterton, Jay Stringer (Unwanted), Kurt Thompson, Gerald May
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67049455Wed, 13 Aug 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this episode of Just the Guys, Dan interviews Michael Cusick—licensed counselor, ordained minister, and founder of Restoring the Soul—to discuss the deeper spiritual and emotional roots of sexual addiction, particularly pornography, as explored in...Michael vulnerably shares his own journey from trauma, addiction, and shame to healing and restoration. He explains that many Christian approaches to pornography are often split between moralism (“just stop it”) and clinical models (treating it as a disease). His book offers a different lens: one that views compulsive sexual behavior as rooted in legitimate God-given desires that have been disordered by trauma, unmet attachment needs, and relational wounds.
Key insights include:
• “Listen to your lust” – Our compulsions are tells, pointing to deeper longings for connection, affirmation, and healing.
• Addiction is not just a behavior, but often a false god, offering counterfeit comfort for past wounds.
• Shame is physiological and often misunderstood in Christian circles. True healing comes not from hiding, but from secure, grace-filled relationships with God and others.
• Michael emphasizes the four S’s of attachment (Seen, Soothed, Safe, Secure) as crucial for emotional and spiritual healing.
• He reframes God’s posture in Genesis 3, inviting listeners to imagine a version of God that says, “Come closer” rather than condemning God as a loving Father, not a punisher.
• The path forward isn’t perfect behavior, but direction and healing. Relapse may be part of the journey, but growth happens when men risk being known and pursue secure attachments.
Listeners are encouraged to shift from behavior management to healing through connection—first with others, then with God.
⸻
Resources Mentioned:
• Surfing for God by Michael Cusick (Book, Audio, Kindle)
• Sacred Attachment (new book by Cusick)
• Restoring the Soul ministry: restoringthesoul.com
• Restoring the Soul Men’s Weekend: restoringthesoulweekend.com
• Podcasts: Restoring the Soul and The Place We Find Ourselves (Adam Young)
• Influences: Dallas Willard, G.K. Chesterton, Jay Stringer (Unwanted), Kurt Thompson, Gerald May
]]>3050asr,autism,christian,couples,cusick,dan,diverse,god,holmes,marriage,marriages,michael,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,surfingfalsefullPorn & Sex Addiction, Sexuality & Autism with Candice Christiansenhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/porn-sex-addiction-sexuality-autism-with-candice-christiansen--67047295Today, we talk about the co-occurrence and reasons Autistic people can struggle with porn or sex addiction. Diagnosed later in life herself and now an expert in the field of autism and sexuality, Candice provides a breadth of information that listeners or viewers (YT) will benefit from. This is not a faith-based discussion today.
About our Guest:
Candice Christiansen, Founder, Clinical Director, LCMHC, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, CSAT-S, CMAT-S, Certified EMDR, Psychedelic Integration Therapist, Author, Speaker, Presenter

Expertise:
Autism and ADHD, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, Complex Trauma, DID, Sexual, Betrayal, and High Conflict Relationship Issues, Intensive Therapy for complicated issues/relationship dynamics, Psychedelic Assisted Therapy, Generational Healing.
Candice Christiansen, LCMHC, CSAT-S, CMAT, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, Certified EMDR, and Psychedelic Assisted Therapist (PAT), is the Founder and Clinical Director of Namasté Center For Healing. As a leading expert in trauma-informed care and neurodiversity, Candice specializes in supporting individuals and couples navigating complex mental health challenges, including trauma, intimate betrayal, and high-conflict relationship dynamics. As an autism expert, her innovative and inclusive therapeutic approach extends to providing neuro-affirmative screenings, consultations, training, and presentations to neuropsychologists, medical professionals, professors, and students at institutions like Yale University, Harvard, Seeking Integrity Los Angeles, and the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals in Arizona. Candice is a published author, with works including "Mastering the Trauma Wound" (2016) and "Compassionate KAP: Creating Neuro-Affirmative ‘Set and Settings’ for Autistic Adults Participating in Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)" (2024). Her insights on relationship issues have also been featured in prominent media outlets, including the Salt Lake Tribune and Talkspace.com, and she has served as a relationship expert for Fox 13's The Place and other regional news programs. Committed to advancing mental health awareness and best practices, Candice served on the Division of Professional Licensing Substance Use Disorder Board for five years and on the Utah Mental Health Counselor Association's (UMHCA) Board. Her work emphasizes fostering resilience and healing by acknowledging and integrating all aspects of an individual's experience. Candice's dedication lies in empowering individuals and professionals with the understanding and tools necessary to navigate mental health challenges effectively.
Candice and her colleague, Meg Martinez, wrote a chapter about our Neuro-inclusive approach to IFS in “Altogether Us” (2023). In 2023, Candice and her colleague Aly Dearborn, LMFT, created a Neuro-affirmative Autism screening tool that can be used with any gender, but identifies additional traits that are common in Autistic females and non-binary adults.
Disclaimer: When we have guests on the podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not necessarily reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not share our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67047295Mon, 11 Aug 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesContinuing our focus on porn and sex addiction and autism sexuality with expert Candice Christiansen. Today, we talk about the co-occurrence and reasons Autistic people can struggle with porn or sex addiction. Diagnosed later in life herself and now...Today, we talk about the co-occurrence and reasons Autistic people can struggle with porn or sex addiction. Diagnosed later in life herself and now an expert in the field of autism and sexuality, Candice provides a breadth of information that listeners or viewers (YT) will benefit from. This is not a faith-based discussion today.
About our Guest:
Candice Christiansen, Founder, Clinical Director, LCMHC, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, CSAT-S, CMAT-S, Certified EMDR, Psychedelic Integration Therapist, Author, Speaker, Presenter

Expertise:
Autism and ADHD, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, Complex Trauma, DID, Sexual, Betrayal, and High Conflict Relationship Issues, Intensive Therapy for complicated issues/relationship dynamics, Psychedelic Assisted Therapy, Generational Healing.
Candice Christiansen, LCMHC, CSAT-S, CMAT, Neuro-Inclusive IFS, Certified EMDR, and Psychedelic Assisted Therapist (PAT), is the Founder and Clinical Director of Namasté Center For Healing. As a leading expert in trauma-informed care and neurodiversity, Candice specializes in supporting individuals and couples navigating complex mental health challenges, including trauma, intimate betrayal, and high-conflict relationship dynamics. As an autism expert, her innovative and inclusive therapeutic approach extends to providing neuro-affirmative screenings, consultations, training, and presentations to neuropsychologists, medical professionals, professors, and students at institutions like Yale University, Harvard, Seeking Integrity Los Angeles, and the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals in Arizona. Candice is a published author, with works including "Mastering the Trauma Wound" (2016) and "Compassionate KAP: Creating Neuro-Affirmative ‘Set and Settings’ for Autistic Adults Participating in Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)" (2024). Her insights on relationship issues have also been featured in prominent media outlets, including the Salt Lake Tribune and Talkspace.com, and she has served as a relationship expert for Fox 13's The Place and other regional news programs. Committed to advancing mental health awareness and best practices, Candice served on the Division of Professional Licensing Substance Use Disorder Board for five years and on the Utah Mental Health Counselor Association's (UMHCA) Board. Her work emphasizes fostering resilience and healing by acknowledging and integrating all aspects of an individual's experience. Candice's dedication lies in empowering individuals and professionals with the understanding and tools necessary to navigate mental health challenges effectively.
Candice and her colleague, Meg Martinez, wrote a chapter about our Neuro-inclusive approach to IFS in “Altogether Us” (2023). In 2023, Candice and her colleague Aly Dearborn, LMFT, created a Neuro-affirmative Autism screening tool that can be used with any gender, but identifies additional traits that are common in Autistic females and non-binary adults.
Disclaimer: When we have guests on the podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not necessarily reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not share our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>2010addiction,asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,porn,resources,sex,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullIs there Cross-Over of Porn Use/Sex Addiction in Autistic Men with Dr. Janice Caudillhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-there-cross-over-of-porn-use-sex-addiction-in-autistic-men-with-dr-janice-caudill--67040648
Why are autistic people vulnerable?

When does the behavior cross into addiction?

We will end with building a healthy and intimate neurodiverse Christian marriage.

Today's guest, Dr. Janice Caudill, starts this month's discussion.
Dr. Janice Caudill
Janice is a Texas psychologist, also licensed through PSYPACT for tele-therapy in most states. She is the co-author of his and hers companion workbooks for helping couples navigate a therapeutic disclosure of sexual betrayal:
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal – 3 Volume Series
Full Disclosure: Sharing the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

She is the founder of Intensive Recovery Healing and Intensive Recovery Coaching, programs that specialize in customized intensives, therapy, and workshops for individuals and couples recovering from sex or pornography addiction, betrayal trauma, intimacy anorexia, or other life traumas.
Janice is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and supervisor, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist and supervisor, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist and supervisor, Certified Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapist, certified Intimacy Anorexia Therapist, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. She was one of the founding members of the Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists and participated in the creation of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model.
Contact for sexual addiction assessments: https://intensivehope.com/pages/about/people/janice-caudill.html
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67040648Mon, 04 Aug 2025 10:00:13 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month, the focus of the podcast involves the co-occurring issues of porn use or sexual addiction commonality in the autism community. We begin today with porn use and addiction 101, to include: - Why are autistic people vulnerable? - When does...
Why are autistic people vulnerable?

When does the behavior cross into addiction?

We will end with building a healthy and intimate neurodiverse Christian marriage.

Today's guest, Dr. Janice Caudill, starts this month's discussion.
Dr. Janice Caudill
Janice is a Texas psychologist, also licensed through PSYPACT for tele-therapy in most states. She is the co-author of his and hers companion workbooks for helping couples navigate a therapeutic disclosure of sexual betrayal:
Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal – 3 Volume Series
Full Disclosure: Sharing the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

She is the founder of Intensive Recovery Healing and Intensive Recovery Coaching, programs that specialize in customized intensives, therapy, and workshops for individuals and couples recovering from sex or pornography addiction, betrayal trauma, intimacy anorexia, or other life traumas.
Janice is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and supervisor, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist and supervisor, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist and supervisor, Certified Partner Betrayal Trauma Therapist, certified Intimacy Anorexia Therapist, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. She was one of the founding members of the Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists and participated in the creation of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model.
Contact for sexual addiction assessments: https://intensivehope.com/pages/about/people/janice-caudill.html
]]>3289asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAbuse, Autism, Ministry & Divorce with Rev. Jenilee Goodwinhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/abuse-autism-ministry-divorce-with-rev-jenilee-goodwin--67020797 About Our Guest:
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin
Professional Life Coach
As a certified professional life coach (ICCI), a certified autism coach (NCDD), and an ordained minister (AG), Jenilee has over 20 years of career ministry experience. Serving in stateside churches and overseas missions, Jenilee brings lived experience, problem-solving skills, compassionate support, and creativity into each coaching session. Jenilee asks hard questions while listening, guiding, and coaching clients in their unique life situations. Jenilee is trained in the Equipping Profile, a personal development coaching tool that helps discover growth points and possible barriers to growth. Through one-on-one and group coaching, Jenilee uses the Equipping Profile, book studies, and even some homework to establish personal development plans, helping clients move forward healthily.
With many in her immediate family on the autism spectrum, Jenilee has a special call and place in her heart for moms of kids on the spectrum and for NT wives going through the difficulties of ND marriages. Even more specifically, I have a passion for these women who are also in full-time ministry or missions. There are very few places to share the full story. In coaching with Jenilee, you can share every single page of the story.
In addition to the above skills, Jenilee loves reading, writing, coffee, going for walks, and watching history documentaries.

You can connect with Jenilee daily on Instagram @jenileerachel or through her website, jenileerachel.com
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67020797Mon, 28 Jul 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, I welcome back Rev. Jenilee Goodwin. On a previous show, Jenilee shared the journey of being on the mission field and their neurodiverse family journey in missions. A lot has happened in her marriage and family journey since then. Today, we... About Our Guest:
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin
Professional Life Coach
As a certified professional life coach (ICCI), a certified autism coach (NCDD), and an ordained minister (AG), Jenilee has over 20 years of career ministry experience. Serving in stateside churches and overseas missions, Jenilee brings lived experience, problem-solving skills, compassionate support, and creativity into each coaching session. Jenilee asks hard questions while listening, guiding, and coaching clients in their unique life situations. Jenilee is trained in the Equipping Profile, a personal development coaching tool that helps discover growth points and possible barriers to growth. Through one-on-one and group coaching, Jenilee uses the Equipping Profile, book studies, and even some homework to establish personal development plans, helping clients move forward healthily.
With many in her immediate family on the autism spectrum, Jenilee has a special call and place in her heart for moms of kids on the spectrum and for NT wives going through the difficulties of ND marriages. Even more specifically, I have a passion for these women who are also in full-time ministry or missions. There are very few places to share the full story. In coaching with Jenilee, you can share every single page of the story.
In addition to the above skills, Jenilee loves reading, writing, coffee, going for walks, and watching history documentaries.

You can connect with Jenilee daily on Instagram @jenileerachel or through her website, jenileerachel.com
]]>3467abuse,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,divorce,goodwin,holmes,jennilee,marriage,marriages,ministry,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullTrailblazing the Aspie World with Daniel Morgan Joneshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trailblazing-the-aspie-world-with-daniel-morgan-jones--66991830
Disclaimer: Today is not a faith-based podcast, but exploring different expressions of Adult Autism/Asperger's from those with lived experiences! You will hear Dan's own worldview in self-expression.
About our Guest in his own words:
Embracing Neurodiversity: My Journey with Autism and ADHD ✨By Daniel M. Jones - The Aspie World

Hello friends,
I want to share something deeply personal—something that completely shifted the trajectory of my life.
At 26, I received a formal diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome (now Autism Spectrum Disorder), along with ADHD, OCD, and Dyslexia. That moment wasn't about becoming someone new; it was about finally understanding who I always was.
For years, I silently battled confusion, overwhelm, and social exhaustion. Masking my discomfort to "fit in" affected my mental and emotional health deeply.
A Diagnosis Isn’t a Label—It's a Lens.It provided clarity, showing me that I'm not broken; I'm wired differently. Discovering neurodiversity helped me celebrate my differences and recognize my strengths—creativity, hyperfocus, analytical thinking—as true assets.
This revelation inspired me to start The Aspie World, supporting thousands globally in navigating neurodivergent journeys. Our differences drive innovation, empathy, and inclusion, making humanity richer.
Remember, your diagnosis is just the beginning of a beautiful, empowered chapter. You are capable, valuable, and not alone.

Thank you for joining this journey.

With gratitude, Daniel M. Jones Founder of The Aspie World

Dan can be found at:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOKKRcJey93Ms-dL630UNIQ
Dan's Book:
https://www.amazon.com/Autism-Adults-author/dp/1837822336
About when I discovered Dan on YT
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDwXqGjohGg
Dan defends the term Asperger's
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oB-cH9Os_J8]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66991830Mon, 21 Jul 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie talks to Dan of the Aspie World! Are we still allowed to use the term 'Aspie'? Dan talks us through his autism identification and how that led him to build one of the first platforms on social media about adult autism....
Disclaimer: Today is not a faith-based podcast, but exploring different expressions of Adult Autism/Asperger's from those with lived experiences! You will hear Dan's own worldview in self-expression.
About our Guest in his own words:
Embracing Neurodiversity: My Journey with Autism and ADHD ✨By Daniel M. Jones - The Aspie World

Hello friends,
I want to share something deeply personal—something that completely shifted the trajectory of my life.
At 26, I received a formal diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome (now Autism Spectrum Disorder), along with ADHD, OCD, and Dyslexia. That moment wasn't about becoming someone new; it was about finally understanding who I always was.
For years, I silently battled confusion, overwhelm, and social exhaustion. Masking my discomfort to "fit in" affected my mental and emotional health deeply.
A Diagnosis Isn’t a Label—It's a Lens.It provided clarity, showing me that I'm not broken; I'm wired differently. Discovering neurodiversity helped me celebrate my differences and recognize my strengths—creativity, hyperfocus, analytical thinking—as true assets.
This revelation inspired me to start The Aspie World, supporting thousands globally in navigating neurodivergent journeys. Our differences drive innovation, empathy, and inclusion, making humanity richer.
Remember, your diagnosis is just the beginning of a beautiful, empowered chapter. You are capable, valuable, and not alone.

Thank you for joining this journey.

With gratitude, Daniel M. Jones Founder of The Aspie World

Dan can be found at:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOKKRcJey93Ms-dL630UNIQ
Dan's Book:
https://www.amazon.com/Autism-Adults-author/dp/1837822336
About when I discovered Dan on YT
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDwXqGjohGg
Dan defends the term Asperger's
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oB-cH9Os_J8]]>1905aspie,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,daniel,diverse,holmes,jones,marriage,marriages,morgan,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,worldfalsefullHave a Do Nothing Dayhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/have-a-do-nothing-day--66967875Have a Do Nothing Day
Topic:
The guys dive into the complex challenge of mental rest and the idea of having a “do nothing” day. What does it mean to truly rest, especially for neurodiverse men whose minds rarely stop racing?
Main Themes & Takeaways:
• Rest vs. Productivity:
Many participants admit that even when given free time, they struggle to stop doing. Rest often becomes just another task to accomplish.
• Making Rest Intentional:
Some found that designating rest as a “task” (e.g., the duty of Sabbath or the ministry of presence) helps them engage more fully in non-productive activities without guilt.
• Manual Tasks as Restful:
Simple, repetitive manual labor (such as weeding, doing dishes, or cutting grass) often provides enough stimulation to keep the body occupied and allow the mind to slow down.
• Rest Styles Are Individual:
The conversation affirmed that rest is highly personal—some find rest in watching sports or shows, while others find it through reading or physical exercise. What’s restful to one (e.g., pulling weeds) can feel like torture to another.
• Mental Stillness Is Harder Than Physical Stillness:
Most of the men agreed that while they can stop moving, stopping their minds from constantly thinking or solving problems is a much harder task.
• Neurodiversity and Rest:
The group highlighted how neurodivergent wiring affects the experience of rest. ADHD traits, pathological demand avoidance, and autism spectrum traits influence how they pursue or avoid downtime.
• The Role of Family Systems:
The guys acknowledged the need to consider how one’s version of rest fits into the broader family context. Rest shouldn’t disrupt the connection with spouses or children.
• Sabbath Framed as Task and Discipline:
Rest, especially in a spiritual context, is seen not as laziness but as obedience, modeled after God’s rest on the seventh day. It may take discipline to actually stop.
Humor & Insight:
From references to Phineas and Ferb’s “Do Nothing Day” to humorous yet poignant nods to North Korean labor camps (as a metaphor for tasks they dislike), the episode strikes a balance between depth and levity.
Closing Reflection:
True rest might not be inactivity—it might be freedom from expectations. For these men, a restful day often still includes accomplishments, but they come without pressure or obligation.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66967875Wed, 16 Jul 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesHave a Do Nothing Day Topic: The guys dive into the complex challenge of mental rest and the idea of having a “do nothing” day. What does it mean to truly rest, especially for neurodiverse men whose minds rarely stop racing? Main Themes &...Have a Do Nothing Day
Topic:
The guys dive into the complex challenge of mental rest and the idea of having a “do nothing” day. What does it mean to truly rest, especially for neurodiverse men whose minds rarely stop racing?
Main Themes & Takeaways:
• Rest vs. Productivity:
Many participants admit that even when given free time, they struggle to stop doing. Rest often becomes just another task to accomplish.
• Making Rest Intentional:
Some found that designating rest as a “task” (e.g., the duty of Sabbath or the ministry of presence) helps them engage more fully in non-productive activities without guilt.
• Manual Tasks as Restful:
Simple, repetitive manual labor (such as weeding, doing dishes, or cutting grass) often provides enough stimulation to keep the body occupied and allow the mind to slow down.
• Rest Styles Are Individual:
The conversation affirmed that rest is highly personal—some find rest in watching sports or shows, while others find it through reading or physical exercise. What’s restful to one (e.g., pulling weeds) can feel like torture to another.
• Mental Stillness Is Harder Than Physical Stillness:
Most of the men agreed that while they can stop moving, stopping their minds from constantly thinking or solving problems is a much harder task.
• Neurodiversity and Rest:
The group highlighted how neurodivergent wiring affects the experience of rest. ADHD traits, pathological demand avoidance, and autism spectrum traits influence how they pursue or avoid downtime.
• The Role of Family Systems:
The guys acknowledged the need to consider how one’s version of rest fits into the broader family context. Rest shouldn’t disrupt the connection with spouses or children.
• Sabbath Framed as Task and Discipline:
Rest, especially in a spiritual context, is seen not as laziness but as obedience, modeled after God’s rest on the seventh day. It may take discipline to actually stop.
Humor & Insight:
From references to Phineas and Ferb’s “Do Nothing Day” to humorous yet poignant nods to North Korean labor camps (as a metaphor for tasks they dislike), the episode strikes a balance between depth and levity.
Closing Reflection:
True rest might not be inactivity—it might be freedom from expectations. For these men, a restful day often still includes accomplishments, but they come without pressure or obligation.
]]>3212a,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,day,diverse,do,guys,have,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,nothing,resources,spectrumfalsefullBreaking the Stigma of Divorce and Addressing what Leads to Divorce in NeuroDiverse Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/breaking-the-stigma-of-divorce-and-addressing-what-leads-to-divorce-in-neurodiverse-marriage--66960041
Other discussion points:
Why is divorce so stigmatized in the Church?

Are there differences in the reasons men and women divorce, based on a Stanford University study on divorce?

Is abuse a biblical reason for divorce?

Does Malachi 2:16 say God hates divorce or the impact of it?

How do we love those who have gone through divorce?

Can people who are divorced help marriages?

What is a life-saving divorce?

Does God overpower your will and change your heart?

What makes a healthy God-honoring covenant?

"Divorce is not an option" has been weaponized- how?
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66960041Mon, 14 Jul 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie & Barb discuss the differences in reasons for divorce between men and women when they divorce. Dr. Stephanie interviews Barb about her two divorces in neurodiverse marriages. Other discussion points: - Why is divorce so...
Other discussion points:
Why is divorce so stigmatized in the Church?

Are there differences in the reasons men and women divorce, based on a Stanford University study on divorce?

Is abuse a biblical reason for divorce?

Does Malachi 2:16 say God hates divorce or the impact of it?

How do we love those who have gone through divorce?

Can people who are divorced help marriages?

What is a life-saving divorce?

Does God overpower your will and change your heart?

What makes a healthy God-honoring covenant?

"Divorce is not an option" has been weaponized- how?
]]>3865asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,divorce,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,stigmafalsefullFrom Tale of Two Marriages to Shared Life Experienceshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-tale-of-two-marriages-to-shared-life-experiences--66827607
Our uniquely us may look different from your uniquely u and that is okay! We talk about conflict resolution, and Stephanie completes the 50 states quest. Watch the YouTube when it comes out to see pictures of the amazing hotel in Hood River, OR.

Find the hotel here at: https://www.thistledownonoak.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66827607Mon, 07 Jul 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn our book, Uniquely Us, Stephanie uses the phrase: 'It was a tale of two marriages.' Dan's was going okay, and Stephanie's was not. We discuss the transition from our NC marriage to our GA marriage, from parallel lives and experiences to building a...
Our uniquely us may look different from your uniquely u and that is okay! We talk about conflict resolution, and Stephanie completes the 50 states quest. Watch the YouTube when it comes out to see pictures of the amazing hotel in Hood River, OR.

Find the hotel here at: https://www.thistledownonoak.com/
]]>2903asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,experiences,holmes,life,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,shared,spectrum,stephanie,tale,twofalsefullRemaining Relational is KEY to Joy Building with Chris & Jen Courseyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/remaining-relational-is-key-to-joy-building-with-chris-jen-coursey--66751772Joy vs. Happiness
Managing and Processing the Big 6 Emotions
Remaining Relational and your Christ-centered self when you have big emotions!
Many ND Christian relationships are high conflict, full of trauma, and low or no joy! Is it even possible?
Dan and Stephanie discuss Courseys' book, 30 Days of Joy, and how they modified it to be a NeuroDiverse Christian Couple.
This month, the 5-6 podcasts all go together! We encourage you and invite you to listen to the entire month of June in the sequence they were produced.
Want to know more about the Courseys and THRIVEworks? https://thrivetoday.org/
START NOW when the kids are young to process their emotions in a healthy way! Materials available for parents!
Free Download of the Emotion Wheel and Where Emotions Live in your body: Free PDF
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1BvYRLx9zRiVE_8ucjgYfNYzbOq8BUTQ9/view
More About Chris:
For nearly 25 years, Chris has been developing and practicing brain-based solutions to make relationships work. He started out his career specializing in severe trauma and abuse. For several years, he also pastored a small congregation in Michigan. Chris is a published author with ten books in print, including “The Joy Switch: How Your Brain’s Secret Circuit Affects Your Relationships…And How You Can Activate It.” He co-authored his most recent book, “The 4 Habits of Raising Joy-Filled Kids”.
Chris enjoys spending time with Jen and their two sons, Matthew and Andrew. In addition to studying, writing, jogging, and exercising, he enjoys the outdoors and is one of the rare people who actually like the snow.
More About Jen:
Jen is passionate about seeing mothers, fathers, and families equipped with the 19 relational skills needed to thrive. As the mother of 2 active teenagers, Jen is grateful to have learned these important skills later in life, as relational skills have no doubt preserved her sanity and prepared her to raise a thriving family in the midst of the ongoing demands from her family and her ministry.
Jen started the Thriving Mamas blog and is excited to share her parenting and life experiences as well as pass on the skills God has used to transform her life.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66751772Mon, 30 Jun 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesHave you been taught that all emotions except joy are bad? That you need to "count it all joy" in such a way that in your church or religious circles emotions were taught as bad or good, Christians don't have big emotions like sadness, anger, or fear?...Joy vs. Happiness
Managing and Processing the Big 6 Emotions
Remaining Relational and your Christ-centered self when you have big emotions!
Many ND Christian relationships are high conflict, full of trauma, and low or no joy! Is it even possible?
Dan and Stephanie discuss Courseys' book, 30 Days of Joy, and how they modified it to be a NeuroDiverse Christian Couple.
This month, the 5-6 podcasts all go together! We encourage you and invite you to listen to the entire month of June in the sequence they were produced.
Want to know more about the Courseys and THRIVEworks? https://thrivetoday.org/
START NOW when the kids are young to process their emotions in a healthy way! Materials available for parents!
Free Download of the Emotion Wheel and Where Emotions Live in your body: Free PDF
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1BvYRLx9zRiVE_8ucjgYfNYzbOq8BUTQ9/view
More About Chris:
For nearly 25 years, Chris has been developing and practicing brain-based solutions to make relationships work. He started out his career specializing in severe trauma and abuse. For several years, he also pastored a small congregation in Michigan. Chris is a published author with ten books in print, including “The Joy Switch: How Your Brain’s Secret Circuit Affects Your Relationships…And How You Can Activate It.” He co-authored his most recent book, “The 4 Habits of Raising Joy-Filled Kids”.
Chris enjoys spending time with Jen and their two sons, Matthew and Andrew. In addition to studying, writing, jogging, and exercising, he enjoys the outdoors and is one of the rare people who actually like the snow.
More About Jen:
Jen is passionate about seeing mothers, fathers, and families equipped with the 19 relational skills needed to thrive. As the mother of 2 active teenagers, Jen is grateful to have learned these important skills later in life, as relational skills have no doubt preserved her sanity and prepared her to raise a thriving family in the midst of the ongoing demands from her family and her ministry.
Jen started the Thriving Mamas blog and is excited to share her parenting and life experiences as well as pass on the skills God has used to transform her life.]]>3280asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullBecoming a "Face of Grace" with Ed Khourihttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/becoming-a-face-of-grace-with-ed-khouri--66570194 The conversation tackles deep relational issues common in neurodiverse marriages, such as navigating attachment pain, understanding the differences between sin, transgression, and iniquity, and developing effective boundaries without enabling harmful behavior. Ed emphasizes practical strategies for couples to build emotional capacity and relational resilience, including shared quieting exercises and storytelling techniques aimed at fostering mutual joy and appreciation.
Listeners will find hope and practical guidance for overcoming challenges related to executive functioning, emotional regulation, and relational misunderstandings. Ed Khouri’s insights underscore how grace, boundaries, and joy work together to nurture a healthier, thriving neurodiverse marriage.
About our Guest: Ed Khouri
Ed is passionate about helping churches, leaders, and small groups develop thriving, healthy
communities rooted in grace, joy, and peace. He was ordained in 1988 and president of
Equipping Hearts for the Harvest. He serves as an Elder at his church.
Ed leads workshops in churches and ministries worldwide, equipping workers to serve hurting
men and women and their communities. He regularly collaborates with groups that include
Thrive Today, Life Model Works, The International Substance Abuse and Addiction Coalition
(ISAAC), and Youth With A Mission’s Addictive Behavior Counseling School. He’s taught classes
for students from approximately 70 nations,
Ed authored “Becoming a Face of Grace: Navigating Lasting Relationships with God and
Others,” “Beyond Becoming: A Field Guide to Sustainable, Transformational Communities,” and
“The Weight of Leadership: How Codependency and Misplaced Mercy Undermine Life and
Ministry.” Working with Dr. Jim Wilder, he co-authored the “Restarting” and “Belonging”
Modules of the Connexus Program. He is also the co-author of “Joy Starts Here: The
Transformation Zone.”
He lives with the love of his life, Maritza, in Conover, North Carolina.
Equipping Hearts
Ed and his wife, Maritza, founded Equipping Hearts for the Harvest as a 501c3 non-profit
ministry. In 2004. Our goal is to help equip churches, ministries, pastors, leaders, workers,
and volunteers worldwide so that they can effectively serve the needs of their entire
community – including those who wrestle with addictions, trauma, abuse, codependency,
and other life problems. We
 Teach to describe the grace-based framework needed for change,
 Provide skill training that leads to transformation
 Create materials that allow communities to practice and grow skills that sustain
transformation.
For more information: https://www.equippinghearts.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66570194Mon, 23 Jun 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this insightful episode of Neurodiverse Christian Couples, hosts Stephanie and Dan welcome Ed Khouri, President of Equipping Hearts for the Harvest and author of "Becoming a Face of Grace." Together, they explore the crucial interplay between grace... The conversation tackles deep relational issues common in neurodiverse marriages, such as navigating attachment pain, understanding the differences between sin, transgression, and iniquity, and developing effective boundaries without enabling harmful behavior. Ed emphasizes practical strategies for couples to build emotional capacity and relational resilience, including shared quieting exercises and storytelling techniques aimed at fostering mutual joy and appreciation.
Listeners will find hope and practical guidance for overcoming challenges related to executive functioning, emotional regulation, and relational misunderstandings. Ed Khouri’s insights underscore how grace, boundaries, and joy work together to nurture a healthier, thriving neurodiverse marriage.
About our Guest: Ed Khouri
Ed is passionate about helping churches, leaders, and small groups develop thriving, healthy
communities rooted in grace, joy, and peace. He was ordained in 1988 and president of
Equipping Hearts for the Harvest. He serves as an Elder at his church.
Ed leads workshops in churches and ministries worldwide, equipping workers to serve hurting
men and women and their communities. He regularly collaborates with groups that include
Thrive Today, Life Model Works, The International Substance Abuse and Addiction Coalition
(ISAAC), and Youth With A Mission’s Addictive Behavior Counseling School. He’s taught classes
for students from approximately 70 nations,
Ed authored “Becoming a Face of Grace: Navigating Lasting Relationships with God and
Others,” “Beyond Becoming: A Field Guide to Sustainable, Transformational Communities,” and
“The Weight of Leadership: How Codependency and Misplaced Mercy Undermine Life and
Ministry.” Working with Dr. Jim Wilder, he co-authored the “Restarting” and “Belonging”
Modules of the Connexus Program. He is also the co-author of “Joy Starts Here: The
Transformation Zone.”
He lives with the love of his life, Maritza, in Conover, North Carolina.
Equipping Hearts
Ed and his wife, Maritza, founded Equipping Hearts for the Harvest as a 501c3 non-profit
ministry. In 2004. Our goal is to help equip churches, ministries, pastors, leaders, workers,
and volunteers worldwide so that they can effectively serve the needs of their entire
community – including those who wrestle with addictions, trauma, abuse, codependency,
and other life problems. We
 Teach to describe the grace-based framework needed for change,
 Provide skill training that leads to transformation
 Create materials that allow communities to practice and grow skills that sustain
transformation.
For more information: https://www.equippinghearts.com/
]]>3558asr,autism,becoming,christian,couples,dan,diverse,ed,face,grace,holmes,khouri,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG - Does God Really Like Me? A Conversation with Geoff Holsclawhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-does-god-really-like-me-a-conversation-with-geoff-holsclaw--66561926Episode Summary:
In this thought-provoking conversation, Dan sits down with Dr. Jeff Holsclaw, co-author (with his wife, Cyd Holsclaw) of Does God Really Like Me? Discovering the God Who Wants to Be With Me. This episode dives deep into the transformative idea that God not only loves us but also genuinely delights in being with us—and what that means for our theology, relationships, and everyday life.
Geoff shares the journey of shifting from a theological framework focused solely on God’s love to one that also emphasizes His joy and delight. Using vivid metaphors, biblical narratives, and attachment theory, Jeff reframes our understanding of God’s presence, the nature of sin, and the redemptive storyline of Scripture. The discussion includes reflections on parenting, marriage, identity, and how we can mirror God’s delight in our relationships with others.
⸻
🔑 Key Takeaways:
• “Love is built from a thousand little likes.” Shifting language from “God loves you” to “God likes you” often draws people in and resonates on a deeper emotional level.
• Attachment & Theology: Holsclaw connects attachment theory with biblical narratives to explain how God’s presence and purpose form the secure foundation of faith.
• Rewriting the Narrative of Sin: Instead of viewing sin as moral failure alone, Jeff frames it as a rupture in our capacity to remain in God’s presence—one that God actively works to repair.
• Parenting as Presence & Purpose: Fathers and husbands are encouraged to embody both high care and high challenge—to build joyful relationships while nurturing confidence and agency.
• Idol Language Reclaimed: The Genesis image of humans as “little gods” or living idols reframes identity as active representation of God’s nature in the world—not as something static or 2D.
• Reconciliation as Family Business: The episode closes with the idea that salvation is about repairing ruptures—God’s delight includes restoring us, and we’re invited to model that in our own relationships.
⸻
📚 Resources & Mentions:
• Does God Really Like Me? by Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw
• Prodigal Christianity by Geoff Holsclaw and David Fitch
• Upcoming book: Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Change Your Faith
• Related thinkers: Dr. Jim Wilder, Karl Lehman, Michael Cusick
• Scripture Focus: Genesis 1–3, Luke 15 (The “Good Father” story), Temple theology, themes of joy & presence
⸻
👤 About the Guest:
Dr. Geoff Holsclaw
• PhD, Marquette University
• Co-Pastor of Youth and Families, Vineyard North
• Affiliate Professor of Theology, Northern Seminary (Lyle, IL)
• Author, speaker, and podcaster focused on the intersection of neuroscience, attachment, and Christian formation
📬 Contact & More from Geoff:
🌐 Website: https://embodiedfaith.life
🎧 Podcast: Attaching to God
📝 Substack: Found via website
📘 Google: “Geoff Holsclaw” (with a G!)
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66561926Wed, 18 Jun 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes 🧠 Episode Summary: In this thought-provoking conversation, Dan sits down with Dr. Jeff Holsclaw, co-author (with his wife, Cyd Holsclaw) of Does God Really Like Me? Discovering the God Who Wants to Be With Me. This episode dives deep into the...Episode Summary:
In this thought-provoking conversation, Dan sits down with Dr. Jeff Holsclaw, co-author (with his wife, Cyd Holsclaw) of Does God Really Like Me? Discovering the God Who Wants to Be With Me. This episode dives deep into the transformative idea that God not only loves us but also genuinely delights in being with us—and what that means for our theology, relationships, and everyday life.
Geoff shares the journey of shifting from a theological framework focused solely on God’s love to one that also emphasizes His joy and delight. Using vivid metaphors, biblical narratives, and attachment theory, Jeff reframes our understanding of God’s presence, the nature of sin, and the redemptive storyline of Scripture. The discussion includes reflections on parenting, marriage, identity, and how we can mirror God’s delight in our relationships with others.
⸻
🔑 Key Takeaways:
• “Love is built from a thousand little likes.” Shifting language from “God loves you” to “God likes you” often draws people in and resonates on a deeper emotional level.
• Attachment & Theology: Holsclaw connects attachment theory with biblical narratives to explain how God’s presence and purpose form the secure foundation of faith.
• Rewriting the Narrative of Sin: Instead of viewing sin as moral failure alone, Jeff frames it as a rupture in our capacity to remain in God’s presence—one that God actively works to repair.
• Parenting as Presence & Purpose: Fathers and husbands are encouraged to embody both high care and high challenge—to build joyful relationships while nurturing confidence and agency.
• Idol Language Reclaimed: The Genesis image of humans as “little gods” or living idols reframes identity as active representation of God’s nature in the world—not as something static or 2D.
• Reconciliation as Family Business: The episode closes with the idea that salvation is about repairing ruptures—God’s delight includes restoring us, and we’re invited to model that in our own relationships.
⸻
📚 Resources & Mentions:
• Does God Really Like Me? by Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw
• Prodigal Christianity by Geoff Holsclaw and David Fitch
• Upcoming book: Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Change Your Faith
• Related thinkers: Dr. Jim Wilder, Karl Lehman, Michael Cusick
• Scripture Focus: Genesis 1–3, Luke 15 (The “Good Father” story), Temple theology, themes of joy & presence
⸻
👤 About the Guest:
Dr. Geoff Holsclaw
• PhD, Marquette University
• Co-Pastor of Youth and Families, Vineyard North
• Affiliate Professor of Theology, Northern Seminary (Lyle, IL)
• Author, speaker, and podcaster focused on the intersection of neuroscience, attachment, and Christian formation
📬 Contact & More from Geoff:
🌐 Website: https://embodiedfaith.life
🎧 Podcast: Attaching to God
📝 Substack: Found via website
📘 Google: “Geoff Holsclaw” (with a G!)
]]>3059asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,does,geoff,god,holmes,holsclaw,like,marriage,marriages,me,neuro,neurodiverse,really,resources,spectrumfalsefullUnresolved Trauma's Impact on Marriage with Dr. Karl Lehmanhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unresolved-trauma-s-impact-on-marriage-with-dr-karl-lehman--66548811
About our Guest:
Dr. Karl Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist with twenty-five years and more than 40,000 hours of clinical experience. He has worked tenaciously throughout his career to integrate his personal Christian faith with medical science, modern mental health care, and his rigorous scientific training. He has researched and worked especially to integrate faith-based emotional healing with insights provided by psychological and neurological research. Dr. Lehman is also deeply committed to his own growth and healing.
Dr. Lehman has been married for over 20 years to Charlotte, and he and Charlotte work as a team to apply everything they learn about growth and healing in the context of their marriage.
Author of Outsmarting Yourself and The Immanuel Approach.

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66548811Mon, 16 Jun 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesMany couples who receive a later in life identification of autism or neurodiversity in marriage come to couples' work traumatized. In addition, we may come to marriage with our own unresolved trauma from life! How does unresolved or unprocessed trauma...
About our Guest:
Dr. Karl Lehman is a board-certified psychiatrist with twenty-five years and more than 40,000 hours of clinical experience. He has worked tenaciously throughout his career to integrate his personal Christian faith with medical science, modern mental health care, and his rigorous scientific training. He has researched and worked especially to integrate faith-based emotional healing with insights provided by psychological and neurological research. Dr. Lehman is also deeply committed to his own growth and healing.
Dr. Lehman has been married for over 20 years to Charlotte, and he and Charlotte work as a team to apply everything they learn about growth and healing in the context of their marriage.
Author of Outsmarting Yourself and The Immanuel Approach.

]]>3587asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,impact,karl,lehman,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,trauma's,unresolvedfalsefullDysregulation, PDA, RSD & Brainspotting with Jana M. Smithhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dysregulation-pda-rsd-brainspotting-with-jana-m-smith--66385830 How to work with Jana: https://www.janamsmith.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66385830Mon, 09 Jun 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes How to work with Jana: https://www.janamsmith.com/ How to work with Jana: https://www.janamsmith.com/
]]>2734asr,autism,barbara,brainspotting,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,dysregulation,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullLiving in the Messy Middle Between Fear and Love Bonds with Amy H. Glaserhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/living-in-the-messy-middle-between-fear-and-love-bonds-with-amy-h-glaser--66352975
Our topic begins with Fear Bonds, and we took some questions that you, the listeners, had on this that include:
How to reduce the intensity of fear bonds when in a relationship that has ongoing trauma or reminders of the fear bonds?


How do you process an emotion without amplifying it? When I hear "return to joy," it feels like "don't feel your feelings - just be happy", and I know that is not what you are saying, but what do I do with my feelings?


How do we identify fear bonds in our close relationships, which we are accustomed to that pattern?


Authenticity and connection- can you achieve that with someone you have had a fear bond with? Can a fear-bonded person really turn to a joy or love bond? That seems impossible after so many decades.

About Amy from the Thrive Works Website:
Amy is the Director of Development and Journey Groups Director for Alive & Well, author of the Journey Group curriculum, and Director of the Journey Group Leadership Community. She leads weekend and 5-day events for THRIVEtoday and has taught in the Advanced Counseling Ministry training at YWAM Kona, as well as the OneLife program at Southern Wesleyan University. With Alive & Well, Amy directs the Journey Group program and mentors students training as Immanuel Encounter Guides with Alive & Well’s training program.
Amy is a specialist in small group dynamics and creating online communities. Journey Groups is a relational discipleship small group program that guides members in practicing the relational skills taught at Thrive and develops the topics of belonging, maturity, heart values, true identity, God’s perspective, Immanuel living, and healing, as found in the books Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You, Transforming Fellowship, Joyful Journey, and Relational Skills in the Bible, which Amy co-authored with Chris Coursey.
Group's Amy Mentioned Found Here:
https://www.alivewell.org/transformed-by-joy]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66352975Mon, 02 Jun 2025 10:00:10 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month is focused on neuroscience and your neurodiverse marriage! This entire month, we have elements brought in from LifeModel Works, Deeper Walk Ministries & Thrive Trainings, and those who are ministry partner friends! Today is Amy H....
Our topic begins with Fear Bonds, and we took some questions that you, the listeners, had on this that include:
How to reduce the intensity of fear bonds when in a relationship that has ongoing trauma or reminders of the fear bonds?


How do you process an emotion without amplifying it? When I hear "return to joy," it feels like "don't feel your feelings - just be happy", and I know that is not what you are saying, but what do I do with my feelings?


How do we identify fear bonds in our close relationships, which we are accustomed to that pattern?


Authenticity and connection- can you achieve that with someone you have had a fear bond with? Can a fear-bonded person really turn to a joy or love bond? That seems impossible after so many decades.

About Amy from the Thrive Works Website:
Amy is the Director of Development and Journey Groups Director for Alive & Well, author of the Journey Group curriculum, and Director of the Journey Group Leadership Community. She leads weekend and 5-day events for THRIVEtoday and has taught in the Advanced Counseling Ministry training at YWAM Kona, as well as the OneLife program at Southern Wesleyan University. With Alive & Well, Amy directs the Journey Group program and mentors students training as Immanuel Encounter Guides with Alive & Well’s training program.
Amy is a specialist in small group dynamics and creating online communities. Journey Groups is a relational discipleship small group program that guides members in practicing the relational skills taught at Thrive and develops the topics of belonging, maturity, heart values, true identity, God’s perspective, Immanuel living, and healing, as found in the books Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You, Transforming Fellowship, Joyful Journey, and Relational Skills in the Bible, which Amy co-authored with Chris Coursey.
Group's Amy Mentioned Found Here:
https://www.alivewell.org/transformed-by-joy]]>3500and,asr,autism,between,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fear,holmes,love,marriage,marriages,messy,middle,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullCommunication is KEY to Relational Skills with Meredith Sinclairhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/communication-is-key-to-relational-skills-with-meredith-sinclair--66089471Join Dr. Stephanie and Meredith Sinclair of Life Behavior Consulting to discuss how communication skills are key to relational skills and meaningful connections. Today, we discuss how to assess social interest, discern if someone is genuine or manipulative, cyber safety skills, and find sources of friendships.
About the Guest:
Speaker Biography: Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior
Consulting, LLC. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State
University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a
certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS for Young Adults Provider, School-Based Provider, and Telehealth provider. Meredith loves working with people with Neurodiverse brain styles to help them learn the skills to build their confidence and independence in working on their goals in life, whatever those may be. Meredith's specialty is helping her clients uncover and leverage their strengths and take action steps to apply the skills they are learning in the real world. She is an advocate for Neurodiversity in the workplace and believes that anyone who has the desire to work CAN work and have a fulfilling career with the right supports.

Find out more at:
https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66089471Mon, 26 May 2025 09:00:14 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDiscussion: Join Dr. Stephanie and Meredith Sinclair of Life Behavior Consulting to discuss how communication skills are key to relational skills and meaningful connections. Today, we discuss how to assess social interest, discern if someone is...Join Dr. Stephanie and Meredith Sinclair of Life Behavior Consulting to discuss how communication skills are key to relational skills and meaningful connections. Today, we discuss how to assess social interest, discern if someone is genuine or manipulative, cyber safety skills, and find sources of friendships.
About the Guest:
Speaker Biography: Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior
Consulting, LLC. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State
University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a
certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS for Young Adults Provider, School-Based Provider, and Telehealth provider. Meredith loves working with people with Neurodiverse brain styles to help them learn the skills to build their confidence and independence in working on their goals in life, whatever those may be. Meredith's specialty is helping her clients uncover and leverage their strengths and take action steps to apply the skills they are learning in the real world. She is an advocate for Neurodiversity in the workplace and believes that anyone who has the desire to work CAN work and have a fulfilling career with the right supports.

Find out more at:
https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/
]]>2872asr,autism,christian,communication,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,key,marriage,marriages,meredith,neuro,neurodiverse,relational,resources,sinclair,skills,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWhy NeuroTypical Marriage Models DO NOT WORK with NeuroDiverse Couples with Dr. Sean Hirthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-neurotypical-marriage-models-do-not-work-with-neurodiverse-couples-with-dr-sean-hirt--66088806Have you heard from your pastor or Christian counselor- Marriage is Marriage, or Marriage is supposed to be hard. Or you tell your counselor you are a neurodiverse couple, or you attend an intensive, and they tell you that your neurodiversity doesn't matter- their model will work if you have enough faith?
Let's Discuss That!
About Our Guest: Dr. Hirt has an array of clinical experience in a variety of settings, including private practice, residential treatment centers, non-public schools, and emergency shelters. He is particularly sought out for his expertise in treating and addressing anxiety, depression, poor self-esteem, behavioral issues, and autism spectrum disorder in children and adolescents. Other areas of focus include substance abuse, life-transition issues & trauma-related disorders.
In therapy, Dr. Hirt uses empirically driven modalities to address the client’s needs. He derives techniques from client-centered, cognitive-behavioral theory, attachment theory, as well as family systems. Dr. Hirt works closely with all clients to develop an integrative, yet client-centered approach to treatment. More specifically, Dr. Hirt works with individuals to assist in developing the abilities and resources needed to reach goals, overcome hardships, and improve life satisfaction. When not working, you will often find him at parks and trails with family and friends. Dr. Hirt enjoys hiking, biking, running, and rock climbing! He also enjoys watching sports and traveling. However, his favorite pastime of all is spending time with his wife, daughters, and dog (Frank).
Looking for Assessment: https://www.hirtpsychology.com/sean-hirt
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66088806Mon, 19 May 2025 09:00:12 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDiscussion: Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Dr. Sean Hirt discuss their clinical training and how neither was trained in neurodiversity despite the update in thinking about the Autism Spectrum (DSM-IV Asperger's). Dr. Holmes and Dr. Hirt discuss that...Have you heard from your pastor or Christian counselor- Marriage is Marriage, or Marriage is supposed to be hard. Or you tell your counselor you are a neurodiverse couple, or you attend an intensive, and they tell you that your neurodiversity doesn't matter- their model will work if you have enough faith?
Let's Discuss That!
About Our Guest: Dr. Hirt has an array of clinical experience in a variety of settings, including private practice, residential treatment centers, non-public schools, and emergency shelters. He is particularly sought out for his expertise in treating and addressing anxiety, depression, poor self-esteem, behavioral issues, and autism spectrum disorder in children and adolescents. Other areas of focus include substance abuse, life-transition issues & trauma-related disorders.
In therapy, Dr. Hirt uses empirically driven modalities to address the client’s needs. He derives techniques from client-centered, cognitive-behavioral theory, attachment theory, as well as family systems. Dr. Hirt works closely with all clients to develop an integrative, yet client-centered approach to treatment. More specifically, Dr. Hirt works with individuals to assist in developing the abilities and resources needed to reach goals, overcome hardships, and improve life satisfaction. When not working, you will often find him at parks and trails with family and friends. Dr. Hirt enjoys hiking, biking, running, and rock climbing! He also enjoys watching sports and traveling. However, his favorite pastime of all is spending time with his wife, daughters, and dog (Frank).
Looking for Assessment: https://www.hirtpsychology.com/sean-hirt
]]>2871asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,hirt,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sean,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG - If Fish can Fly, You Can Learn Empathyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-if-fish-can-fly-you-can-learn-empathy--66045898In this reflective and candid episode, the guys dive into the evolution of their emotional intelligence and how their journeys have led to stronger relationships, especially with their partners and kids. The catalyst? A missed celebrity interview and a realization: if flying fish exist, maybe change and empathy aren’t so impossible after all.
We follow Jeremy, Greg, and Dan as they discuss what transformation looks like in real life. Jeremy opens up about becoming a more proactive and thoughtful parent and husband, learning to share the mental load and prioritize emotional presence. Greg brings in stories from marriage and retirement, revealing how putting “relationship before task” has become his new mantra. Dan brings it full circle with powerful insights on values, intentionality, and what love looks like, choosing family over hockey — literally.
Throughout the conversation, themes of vulnerability, emotional attunement, and the gradual embrace of empathy surface repeatedly. They compare personal growth to planting seeds — change doesn’t happen overnight, but with daily intention and care, real transformation takes root.

Key takeaways:
• Empathy isn’t just possible for neurodiverse men — it’s learnable and life-changing.
• Change starts with being open to a different version of yourself.
• Small, intentional choices create the foundation for a lasting connection.
• Relationships thrive not when we’re perfect, but when we show up — emotionally and consistently.

This episode is equal parts heart, humor, and hope. So, whether you’re neurodivergent yourself or walking alongside someone who is, you’ll leave with a little more faith that growth is not only possible — it’s inevitable, if you’re willing to show up and keep planting seeds.

🎧 Tune in, lean in, and maybe even catch a flying fish of your own.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66045898Wed, 14 May 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWelcome back to Just the Guys, where a handful of neurodiverse men get real about growth, relationships, and life post-diagnosis — all without a script, but with a ton of heart. In this reflective and candid episode, the guys dive into the evolution...In this reflective and candid episode, the guys dive into the evolution of their emotional intelligence and how their journeys have led to stronger relationships, especially with their partners and kids. The catalyst? A missed celebrity interview and a realization: if flying fish exist, maybe change and empathy aren’t so impossible after all.
We follow Jeremy, Greg, and Dan as they discuss what transformation looks like in real life. Jeremy opens up about becoming a more proactive and thoughtful parent and husband, learning to share the mental load and prioritize emotional presence. Greg brings in stories from marriage and retirement, revealing how putting “relationship before task” has become his new mantra. Dan brings it full circle with powerful insights on values, intentionality, and what love looks like, choosing family over hockey — literally.
Throughout the conversation, themes of vulnerability, emotional attunement, and the gradual embrace of empathy surface repeatedly. They compare personal growth to planting seeds — change doesn’t happen overnight, but with daily intention and care, real transformation takes root.

Key takeaways:
• Empathy isn’t just possible for neurodiverse men — it’s learnable and life-changing.
• Change starts with being open to a different version of yourself.
• Small, intentional choices create the foundation for a lasting connection.
• Relationships thrive not when we’re perfect, but when we show up — emotionally and consistently.

This episode is equal parts heart, humor, and hope. So, whether you’re neurodivergent yourself or walking alongside someone who is, you’ll leave with a little more faith that growth is not only possible — it’s inevitable, if you’re willing to show up and keep planting seeds.

🎧 Tune in, lean in, and maybe even catch a flying fish of your own.
]]>3766asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,empathy,fish,fly,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalsefullUniquely Us Can Help You Find Uniquely U!https://www.spreaker.com/episode/uniquely-us-can-help-you-find-uniquely-u--65931940Where can you order the book?
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
Download the Free Workbook:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/_files/ugd/410eee_5c2856b40d0a4a1bb65a69c38f384161.pdf
Find the Free Videos:
https://www.holmesasr.com/copy-of-uniquely-us
Dan or Stephanie is having classes forming for the fall and spring semesters. Dr. Stephanie usually has a summer course for wives. Find out about group coaching/classes at:
https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
https://www.holmesasr.com/mengroups
Want to work with Barbara Grant?
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/copy-of-referrals
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65931940Mon, 12 May 2025 10:00:10 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we discuss the newly released book aimed at NeuroDiverse Christian Couples and Coaches! Dr. Stephanie & Barbara discuss Uniquely US: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of NeuroDiverse Marriage. We will talk about the research that went into the...Where can you order the book?
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
Download the Free Workbook:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/_files/ugd/410eee_5c2856b40d0a4a1bb65a69c38f384161.pdf
Find the Free Videos:
https://www.holmesasr.com/copy-of-uniquely-us
Dan or Stephanie is having classes forming for the fall and spring semesters. Dr. Stephanie usually has a summer course for wives. Find out about group coaching/classes at:
https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups
https://www.holmesasr.com/mengroups
Want to work with Barbara Grant?
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/copy-of-referrals
]]>3052asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAchieving "Naked & Unashamed" in Your NeuroDiverse Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/achieving-naked-unashamed-in-your-neurodiverse-marriage--65839352https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65839352Mon, 05 May 2025 10:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhat does it mean to be naked and unashamed? Did your mind first go to sex? That is part of it in a literal sense, but being 'naked and ashamed' also means being vulnerable with each other and not afraid. By the time couples find out about their...3580asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,naked,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,unashamedfalsefullLove on the Spectrum's Dani Bowman, BFA, MBAhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/love-on-the-spectrum-s-dani-bowman-bfa-mba--65646288
Guest: Dani Bowman,BFA, MBA
President, DaniMation Entertainment
Dani Bowman, who is on the autism spectrum, founded her company, DaniMation Entertainment, in 2009. Over the years, she has spearheaded summer animation camps and conducted personalized online 1:1 sessions, diligently educating, elevating, and empowering her students on the autism spectrum. With her guidance, she has successfully helped more than 2,500 students explore the transformation of their passions into viable careers.
In her educational journey, Dani obtained a BFA in Animation in 2018 and further pursued her ambitions with an MBA in Global Strategy and Leadership in 2020. Beyond her academic achievements, she also became a valued cast member on the Netflix series "Love on the Spectrum." Dani's remarkable story showcases how dedication, talent, and resilience can lead to fulfilling accomplishments regardless of individual challenges.
Embracing Neurodiversity and Creativity: Dani Bowman's Journey from Animation Aficionado to Social Entrepreneur
In her keynote speech at the Converge Autism Summit, Dani Bowman, an animator, educator, and entrepreneur, takes us on a remarkable journey that began at age three and led her to become the CEO of DaniMation. From her beginnings as a passionate animator at the age of 14 to her present role as an industry leader in diversity-led employment, Dani shares her experiences, challenges, and triumphs and reflects on her responsibility as a leader to inspire and mentor others on the autism spectrum. She sheds light on the company's commitment to social impact, emphasizing the positive influence that creative expression can have on the lives of neurodiverse individuals, regardless of how they have been affected by their condition.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65646288Mon, 28 Apr 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes Continuing our Autism Acceptance Month, today Dr. Stephanie interviews Dani Bowman from Love on the Spectrum. We will talk about her involvement with the show and how she built her company, DaniMation. Guest: Dani Bowman,BFA, MBA President,...
Guest: Dani Bowman,BFA, MBA
President, DaniMation Entertainment
Dani Bowman, who is on the autism spectrum, founded her company, DaniMation Entertainment, in 2009. Over the years, she has spearheaded summer animation camps and conducted personalized online 1:1 sessions, diligently educating, elevating, and empowering her students on the autism spectrum. With her guidance, she has successfully helped more than 2,500 students explore the transformation of their passions into viable careers.
In her educational journey, Dani obtained a BFA in Animation in 2018 and further pursued her ambitions with an MBA in Global Strategy and Leadership in 2020. Beyond her academic achievements, she also became a valued cast member on the Netflix series "Love on the Spectrum." Dani's remarkable story showcases how dedication, talent, and resilience can lead to fulfilling accomplishments regardless of individual challenges.
Embracing Neurodiversity and Creativity: Dani Bowman's Journey from Animation Aficionado to Social Entrepreneur
In her keynote speech at the Converge Autism Summit, Dani Bowman, an animator, educator, and entrepreneur, takes us on a remarkable journey that began at age three and led her to become the CEO of DaniMation. From her beginnings as a passionate animator at the age of 14 to her present role as an industry leader in diversity-led employment, Dani shares her experiences, challenges, and triumphs and reflects on her responsibility as a leader to inspire and mentor others on the autism spectrum. She sheds light on the company's commitment to social impact, emphasizing the positive influence that creative expression can have on the lives of neurodiverse individuals, regardless of how they have been affected by their condition.
]]>2002asr,autism,bowman,christian,couples,dani,diverse,holmes,love,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,on,resources,spectrum,spectrum's,stephanie,thefalsefullHurricanes in My Ears and a Fire in My Nose: My Sensory Life with Kim Clairyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hurricanes-in-my-ears-and-a-fire-in-my-nose-my-sensory-life-with-kim-clairy--65645918
About our Guest:
Kim Clairy OTR/L is a Brenau University graduate with a BS/MS in occupational therapy. Kim has been invited to share her expertise on autism with over 100 organizations in 7 countries. She is a frequent contributor to autism-related projects and podcasts and has contributed to numerous publications on autism. Additionally, Kim is a private consultant and self-advocate who broke through barriers as she defied a healthcare system that said, “Your autism is severe; you need to live in a nursing home.” Her difficult experiences forged a passion for educating others on autism. Through hands-on learning, Kim uses personal experiences and professional expertise to educate on many facets of autism across the lifespan.

Want Kim to come speak at your event?
https://www.kimclairy.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65645918Mon, 21 Apr 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesFor Autism Acceptance and Action Month, we are focusing on the autistic experience. Today, our guests are Kim Clairy, OTR/L, and her husband, William. Kim will be a speaker at the 2025 Converge Autism Summit. Today, Dr. Stephanie talks with Kim about...
About our Guest:
Kim Clairy OTR/L is a Brenau University graduate with a BS/MS in occupational therapy. Kim has been invited to share her expertise on autism with over 100 organizations in 7 countries. She is a frequent contributor to autism-related projects and podcasts and has contributed to numerous publications on autism. Additionally, Kim is a private consultant and self-advocate who broke through barriers as she defied a healthcare system that said, “Your autism is severe; you need to live in a nursing home.” Her difficult experiences forged a passion for educating others on autism. Through hands-on learning, Kim uses personal experiences and professional expertise to educate on many facets of autism across the lifespan.

Want Kim to come speak at your event?
https://www.kimclairy.com/
]]>3372asr,autism,christian,clairy,couples,diverse,holmes,kim,life,marriage,marriages,my,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sensory,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG - Planes, Trains and Aspiemobileshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-planes-trains-and-aspiemobiles--65574681 Rich with relatable analogies from sports and personal experiences, Jeremy and Dan discuss overcoming resistance to change, the power of vulnerability, and the critical distinction between being open to new skills versus changing one's core identity. Whether you're seeking personal growth, better relationships, or practical strategies for life’s complexities, this candid discussion offers valuable wisdom for those navigating neurodiverse relationships and personal development.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65574681Wed, 16 Apr 2025 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this episode of 'Just the Guys,' Jeremy and Dan pivot from their original plan due to an unexpected airline mishap, turning the moment into a meaningful exploration of their personal and professional insights on coaching from an autistic... Rich with relatable analogies from sports and personal experiences, Jeremy and Dan discuss overcoming resistance to change, the power of vulnerability, and the critical distinction between being open to new skills versus changing one's core identity. Whether you're seeking personal growth, better relationships, or practical strategies for life’s complexities, this candid discussion offers valuable wisdom for those navigating neurodiverse relationships and personal development.
]]>2402aspiemobiles,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeremy,jtg,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,planes,resources,rochford,spectrum,trainsfalsefullUnlearning Negative Behaviors and Learning New Behaviors to Optimize Self & Relationships with David Glickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unlearning-negative-behaviors-and-learning-new-behaviors-to-optimize-self-relationships-with-david-glick--65544332Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara ask David a few questions about behaviors.

We ask:
Can you differentiate freeze and fawning?

What are your thoughts on pervasive demand avoidance?

What behaviors can actually change?

Can those on the spectrum learn regulation and relational skills?

About our Guest & Colleague:
Dave writes on his website: https://triadpsych.org/therapists/david-glick/
My specialties are quite extensive and diverse, as I have two degrees, one in Education and the other in Social Work. I was originally trained in behaviorism and usually merge behavior therapies with personality trait theories. This approach, while demanding, usually produces very positive results for my clients.
My practice is a safe place where people can share and be open. Once trust is established, it becomes a virtual Swiss army knife, in that the therapy is adaptable and useful regardless of the situation. Essentially, I want my clients to be empowered with a new sense of self and confident in their abilities.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65544332Mon, 14 Apr 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIt is Autism Acceptance and Action Month, and we have Dave Glick as our guest neurodivergent coach and clinician. Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara ask David a few questions about behaviors. We ask: - Can you differentiate freeze and fawning? -...Today, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara ask David a few questions about behaviors.

We ask:
Can you differentiate freeze and fawning?

What are your thoughts on pervasive demand avoidance?

What behaviors can actually change?

Can those on the spectrum learn regulation and relational skills?

About our Guest & Colleague:
Dave writes on his website: https://triadpsych.org/therapists/david-glick/
My specialties are quite extensive and diverse, as I have two degrees, one in Education and the other in Social Work. I was originally trained in behaviorism and usually merge behavior therapies with personality trait theories. This approach, while demanding, usually produces very positive results for my clients.
My practice is a safe place where people can share and be open. Once trust is established, it becomes a virtual Swiss army knife, in that the therapy is adaptable and useful regardless of the situation. Essentially, I want my clients to be empowered with a new sense of self and confident in their abilities.
]]>2950asr,autism,barbara,christian,coaches,corner,couples,david,diverse,glick,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,unlearningfalsefullSpecial Education Parent Rights Advocating for Your Autistic Child with Tiffany Yandlehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-education-parent-rights-advocating-for-your-autistic-child-with-tiffany-yandle--65218775
About our Guest:
Tiffany Yandle is a non-attorney Special Education Advocate and President of In Bloom Advocacy. She has a 15+ year history of teaching Special Education and school administration in North Carolina public schools. She is passionate about reaching an equitable, personalized education for all students. She specializes in Special Education Laws and regulations, Multi-Tiered Systems of Support, Community Engagement in schools, and Autism Spectrum Disorders.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65218775Mon, 07 Apr 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie and Tiffany in an interactive discussion that will help you delve deeper into understanding your rights as a parent with a school-age child with disabilities. You will have a solid understanding of the variety of support plans, how...
About our Guest:
Tiffany Yandle is a non-attorney Special Education Advocate and President of In Bloom Advocacy. She has a 15+ year history of teaching Special Education and school administration in North Carolina public schools. She is passionate about reaching an equitable, personalized education for all students. She specializes in Special Education Laws and regulations, Multi-Tiered Systems of Support, Community Engagement in schools, and Autism Spectrum Disorders.
]]>2703advocating,asr,autism,autistic,child,couples,diverse,education,holmes,neuro,neurodiverse,parent,resources,rights,special,spectrum,stephanie,tiffany,yandle,yourfalsefullThe Marriage You Want with Sheila & Dr. Keith Gregoirehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-marriage-you-want-with-sheila-dr-keith-gregoire--65143926
Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.

With enlightening stories, survey results, and practical tools, this book will help readers create a marriage they love. And with the evidence-based, Scripture-honoring advice in this book, that just may be closer than you imagine. Today, Dr. Stephanie talks with Sheila & Keith about the new book The Marriage You Want, and Dr. Stephanie adds in some of the neurodiverse lens.

Dr. Stephanie asks Sheila & Dr. Keith:
What did you find about the marriage triangle (God at the top and husband and wife on the bottom) and how that triangle can get skewed?

You open a chapter with the controversial statement, "You should not prioritize sex in marriage." Talk a bit more about that as authors of books on healthy sexual marital relationships.

What is the unfairness threshold?

How does a couple grow intimacy?

Do Christian books empower men or make them seem fragile and needy?

Dr. Stephanie will do a course based on the new book this summer! Join now!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/contact-us

About our Guests:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind BareMarriage.com as well as a sought-after speaker and an award-winning author of 9 books, including the Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better. Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to make it healthy, evidence-based, and biblical.
Dr. Keith Gregoire is a physician and coauthor with Sheila on The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex, a companion to Sheila's award-winning The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex.
The couple lives in Ontario, Canada.

Find out more at: https://baremarriage.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65143926Mon, 31 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe all want a marriage that feels like home. We long for a partner who is there for us through all of life's challenges and griefs, who is in on all our inside jokes, who delights in the family we've built together, who looks with hope toward the...
Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.

With enlightening stories, survey results, and practical tools, this book will help readers create a marriage they love. And with the evidence-based, Scripture-honoring advice in this book, that just may be closer than you imagine. Today, Dr. Stephanie talks with Sheila & Keith about the new book The Marriage You Want, and Dr. Stephanie adds in some of the neurodiverse lens.

Dr. Stephanie asks Sheila & Dr. Keith:
What did you find about the marriage triangle (God at the top and husband and wife on the bottom) and how that triangle can get skewed?

You open a chapter with the controversial statement, "You should not prioritize sex in marriage." Talk a bit more about that as authors of books on healthy sexual marital relationships.

What is the unfairness threshold?

How does a couple grow intimacy?

Do Christian books empower men or make them seem fragile and needy?

Dr. Stephanie will do a course based on the new book this summer! Join now!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/contact-us

About our Guests:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind BareMarriage.com as well as a sought-after speaker and an award-winning author of 9 books, including the Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better. Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to make it healthy, evidence-based, and biblical.
Dr. Keith Gregoire is a physician and coauthor with Sheila on The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex, a companion to Sheila's award-winning The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex.
The couple lives in Ontario, Canada.

Find out more at: https://baremarriage.com/
]]>3151asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gregoire,holmes,keith,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sheila,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullEngaged Fathers Have Positive Impact with Dr. Robert Naseefhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/engaged-fathers-have-positive-impact-with-dr-robert-naseef--64983927
About our Guest:
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., has a distinct voice as a psychologist and father of an autistic adult son. He has spoken nationwide and trained professionals internationally in treating autism and other developmental disorders and supporting families. He has a special interest in the psychology of men and fatherhood.

Along with Stephen Shore, Ed.D., Dr. Naseef served as a lead consultant to the Arc of Philadelphia and SAP’s “Autism at Work” program, which involved collaboration with the Pennsylvania Department of Education and the Bureau of Vocational Rehabilitation to develop the curriculum, “Preparing Neurodiverse Youth for the Workplace.”

Dr. Naseef’s 2013 book, Autism in the Family: Caring and Coping Together (Brookes Publishing), integrates advances in research and treatment with clinical experience to help families navigate the emotional landscape and the practical roadmap through the lifespan. Special Children, Challenged Parents: The Struggles and Rewards of Parenting a Child with a Disability (1996), his first book, received international recognition. He has appeared on radio and television. He is the co-editor with Cindy N. Ariel of Voices from the Spectrum: Parents, Grandparents, Siblings, People with Autism, and Professionals Share Their Wisdom (2006).

In 2008, Robert Naseef was honored by Variety, the Children’s Charity, for his outstanding contributions to the autism community. On World Autism Awareness Day, April 2, 2017, Dr. Naseef gave a TEDx talk entitled “How autism teaches us about being human,” which you can see on YouTube. Dr. Naseef is also a member of the Panel of Professional Advisors of the Autism Society of America. He also serves on the Leadership Council of the AJ Drexel Autism Institute.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64983927Mon, 24 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie is joined by Dan to talk with Dr. Naseef about the impact of passive or engaged fathers on children, especially their autistic children. Dr. Naseef discusses the psyche of a man and how to engage fathers for a positive impact on...
About our Guest:
Robert Naseef, Ph.D., has a distinct voice as a psychologist and father of an autistic adult son. He has spoken nationwide and trained professionals internationally in treating autism and other developmental disorders and supporting families. He has a special interest in the psychology of men and fatherhood.

Along with Stephen Shore, Ed.D., Dr. Naseef served as a lead consultant to the Arc of Philadelphia and SAP’s “Autism at Work” program, which involved collaboration with the Pennsylvania Department of Education and the Bureau of Vocational Rehabilitation to develop the curriculum, “Preparing Neurodiverse Youth for the Workplace.”

Dr. Naseef’s 2013 book, Autism in the Family: Caring and Coping Together (Brookes Publishing), integrates advances in research and treatment with clinical experience to help families navigate the emotional landscape and the practical roadmap through the lifespan. Special Children, Challenged Parents: The Struggles and Rewards of Parenting a Child with a Disability (1996), his first book, received international recognition. He has appeared on radio and television. He is the co-editor with Cindy N. Ariel of Voices from the Spectrum: Parents, Grandparents, Siblings, People with Autism, and Professionals Share Their Wisdom (2006).

In 2008, Robert Naseef was honored by Variety, the Children’s Charity, for his outstanding contributions to the autism community. On World Autism Awareness Day, April 2, 2017, Dr. Naseef gave a TEDx talk entitled “How autism teaches us about being human,” which you can see on YouTube. Dr. Naseef is also a member of the Panel of Professional Advisors of the Autism Society of America. He also serves on the Leadership Council of the AJ Drexel Autism Institute.
]]>2891asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,engaged,fathers,have,holmes,impact,marriage,marriages,naseef,neuro,neurodiverse,positive,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAssessing Adults on the Autism Spectrum with Dr. Celine Saulnierhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/assessing-adults-on-the-autism-spectrum-with-dr-celine-saulnier--64851989
They will discuss:
The key features of autism

How Autism symptoms are expressed differently in male and female

The role of racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic disparities in misdiagnosis of autism

Common overlaps and differential diagnosis

What if someone being assessed doesn't want to be on the spectrum? What do clinicians need to know?

Bio:
Dr. Saulnier obtained her doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Connecticut. She trained and worked at the Yale Child Study Center’s Autism Program for nearly a decade before relocating to Emory University School of Medicine and the Marcus Autism Center in Atlanta, GA, where she directed a large-scale clinical research program. In 2018, she opened her own company, Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services, where she specializes in diagnostic assessment, as well as teaching and training for autism spectrum and related disorders. Dr. Saulnier has published over 50 articles, written two books, and she is an author on the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition.

Looking for Assessment in GA?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/neurodevelopmental-assessment-consulting-svc-decatur-ga/409874
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64851989Mon, 17 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Saulnier as they discuss her presentation on broadening the autism spectrum at the Converge Autism Summit. They will discuss: - The key features of autism - How Autism symptoms are expressed differently in male and...
They will discuss:
The key features of autism

How Autism symptoms are expressed differently in male and female

The role of racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic disparities in misdiagnosis of autism

Common overlaps and differential diagnosis

What if someone being assessed doesn't want to be on the spectrum? What do clinicians need to know?

Bio:
Dr. Saulnier obtained her doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Connecticut. She trained and worked at the Yale Child Study Center’s Autism Program for nearly a decade before relocating to Emory University School of Medicine and the Marcus Autism Center in Atlanta, GA, where she directed a large-scale clinical research program. In 2018, she opened her own company, Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services, where she specializes in diagnostic assessment, as well as teaching and training for autism spectrum and related disorders. Dr. Saulnier has published over 50 articles, written two books, and she is an author on the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition.

Looking for Assessment in GA?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/neurodevelopmental-assessment-consulting-svc-decatur-ga/409874
]]>3374adults,asr,assessing,autism,celine,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,saulnier,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG - The Contextually Appropriate Penguin Skeletonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-the-contextually-appropriate-penguin-skeleton--64799719*Uniquely Us* and then dive into fascinating parallels between fooling AI systems with “adversarial examples” and how our assumptions can mislead us in everyday life. By using an analogy of seeing a “penguin in the desert” (something bizarre or out of place), they illustrate how missing details can trigger confusion, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions.

Throughout the discussion, they highlight the importance of curiosity and humility to uncover the “why” behind surprising information—much like slowing down to determine if that shape in the dark is an intruder or just a coat on a chair. They also introduce practical techniques (like the C.A.L.M. method) to help us pause, gather context, and respond gracefully rather than reacting rashly. It’s an honest, lighthearted look at how we can avoid “kicking the penguin” in our personal and professional relationships by learning to seek more information, accept when we’ve made mistakes, and ultimately prioritize connection over “being right.”

Mentioned in This Episode:
- Uniquely Us, a new release about neurodiverse Christian marriages
- Adversarial examples in AI and what they reveal about our own blind spots
- The C.A.L.M. method (Connect, Assess, Lean in, Move forward) for managing emotional triggers
- Why “winning the relationship” matters more than winning any single argument

Have a topic you’d like the guys to unpack? Drop them a note via the show’s website—feedback and questions are always welcome!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64799719Wed, 12 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this lively conversation, the “Just the Guys” team explores how crucial context can be—whether you’re deciphering a strange image, navigating a complex relationship, or fielding unexpected life events. They kick things off by sharing news of the...*Uniquely Us* and then dive into fascinating parallels between fooling AI systems with “adversarial examples” and how our assumptions can mislead us in everyday life. By using an analogy of seeing a “penguin in the desert” (something bizarre or out of place), they illustrate how missing details can trigger confusion, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions.

Throughout the discussion, they highlight the importance of curiosity and humility to uncover the “why” behind surprising information—much like slowing down to determine if that shape in the dark is an intruder or just a coat on a chair. They also introduce practical techniques (like the C.A.L.M. method) to help us pause, gather context, and respond gracefully rather than reacting rashly. It’s an honest, lighthearted look at how we can avoid “kicking the penguin” in our personal and professional relationships by learning to seek more information, accept when we’ve made mistakes, and ultimately prioritize connection over “being right.”

Mentioned in This Episode:
- Uniquely Us, a new release about neurodiverse Christian marriages
- Adversarial examples in AI and what they reveal about our own blind spots
- The C.A.L.M. method (Connect, Assess, Lean in, Move forward) for managing emotional triggers
- Why “winning the relationship” matters more than winning any single argument

Have a topic you’d like the guys to unpack? Drop them a note via the show’s website—feedback and questions are always welcome!]]>2663appropriate,asr,autism,christian,contextually,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,just_the_guys,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,penguin,resources,skeleton,spectrumfalsefullWhen is it Abuse & Recovering from Abuse with Bob Hamphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-is-it-abuse-recovering-from-abuse-with-bob-hamp--64779332
What is Abuse? When does a relationship become abusive? How do you recover from that abuse from a victim mindset to a healing and recovery mindset?

Today, we ask:
What is abuse?

Can both partners be abusive?

How do you change your mindset from a victim of abuse to a survivor and healed from abuse?

How does the church and Christian onlookers help or hinder?

What are some interesting dynamics in ND Christian Couples?

What are power differentials, and what does that have to do with abuse?

Uniquely Us is out! Order it here! We discuss abuse in ND Christian Marriages chapters 12 & 13 with a focus on spiritual/religious abuse in marriage!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Think Differently Academy: https://tdacad.com/

About our guest:
Bob Hamp is a seasoned counselor, author, and spiritual leader known for his unique approach to teaching freedom through a spiritual lens. With three decades in private practice and helping churches worldwide develop Freedom Ministry, Bob’s work focuses on altering thought processes to achieve spiritual healing and wholeness. He speaks frequently and has mentored and coached hundreds of counselors, pastors, and leaders. His teachings emphasize sound theology, God’s healing presence, and the transformative power of freedom (acting & reacting as the person God created you to be), making him a sought-after speaker and counselor who helps individuals and communities find true freedom and spiritual identity.

The viral video mentioned in this podcast today: https://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=true]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64779332Mon, 10 Mar 2025 10:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday on Coaches' Corner, Dr. Stephanie & Barb Grant, MMFT, talks with Bob Hamp about abuse and recovering from abuse. What is Abuse? When does a relationship become abusive? How do you recover from that abuse from a victim mindset to a healing...
What is Abuse? When does a relationship become abusive? How do you recover from that abuse from a victim mindset to a healing and recovery mindset?

Today, we ask:
What is abuse?

Can both partners be abusive?

How do you change your mindset from a victim of abuse to a survivor and healed from abuse?

How does the church and Christian onlookers help or hinder?

What are some interesting dynamics in ND Christian Couples?

What are power differentials, and what does that have to do with abuse?

Uniquely Us is out! Order it here! We discuss abuse in ND Christian Marriages chapters 12 & 13 with a focus on spiritual/religious abuse in marriage!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Think Differently Academy: https://tdacad.com/

About our guest:
Bob Hamp is a seasoned counselor, author, and spiritual leader known for his unique approach to teaching freedom through a spiritual lens. With three decades in private practice and helping churches worldwide develop Freedom Ministry, Bob’s work focuses on altering thought processes to achieve spiritual healing and wholeness. He speaks frequently and has mentored and coached hundreds of counselors, pastors, and leaders. His teachings emphasize sound theology, God’s healing presence, and the transformative power of freedom (acting & reacting as the person God created you to be), making him a sought-after speaker and counselor who helps individuals and communities find true freedom and spiritual identity.

The viral video mentioned in this podcast today: https://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=truehttps://go.tdacad.com/course/understanding-the-dynamics-of-abuse?register=true]]>3631abuse,asr,autism,bob,christian,coaches,corner,couples,diverse,hamp,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,recovery,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullStuck in the Weeds! Communication & Collaboration Misfireshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stuck-in-the-weeds-communication-collaboration-misfires--64597917Role Play 1: Why are you defending the person I said hurt me? Why can you give validation and empathy to others by not me?
Role Play 2: Stuck in the weeds/details- a collaboration that is not very collaborative but gets stuck on details that are socially or relationally relevant to the topic.
Check out the book Uniquely Us! It is out!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Remember, Stephanie and Dan have two websites!
www.HolmesASR.com and
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

#uniquelyus #autismfaithmarriage #NDCC #neurodiversecouples

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64597917Mon, 03 Mar 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDo you and your spouse have constant communication misfires? As the ND spouse, do you feel interrupted, falsely accused, and often confused about what you said or did that was hurtful to your spouse? As the non-autistic spouse, do you feel unheard,...Role Play 1: Why are you defending the person I said hurt me? Why can you give validation and empathy to others by not me?
Role Play 2: Stuck in the weeds/details- a collaboration that is not very collaborative but gets stuck on details that are socially or relationally relevant to the topic.
Check out the book Uniquely Us! It is out!
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Remember, Stephanie and Dan have two websites!
www.HolmesASR.com and
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

#uniquelyus #autismfaithmarriage #NDCC #neurodiversecouples

]]>3196asr,autism,christian,collaboration,communication,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,misfires,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,stuck,weeds!falsefullAutism Burnout vs. Depression & Suicidal Ideationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-burnout-vs-depression-suicidal-ideation--64148905Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down burnout, depression, suicidality, and the suicide gene.
Did you know in bee hives there are NT and AS bees?

Topics We Discussed:
Burnout

Suicide Gene

Depression

Protective Factors

Links you may find helpful:
Autistic Burnout Construct
https://embrace-autism.com/autistic-burnout-construct/

We spoke about spoons:
https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/the-neurodivergent-spoon-drawer-spoon-theory-for-adhders-and-autists

Autism and bees:
https://embrace-autism.com/honey-bees-understanding-autism-and-social-behaviour/

The Complete Guide to Autism
https://embrace-autism.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout-book/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/64148905Mon, 24 Feb 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie talks with Dr. Natalie about Autism, Burnout, Depression, and Suicidality. Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down burnout, depression,...Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down burnout, depression, suicidality, and the suicide gene.
Did you know in bee hives there are NT and AS bees?

Topics We Discussed:
Burnout

Suicide Gene

Depression

Protective Factors

Links you may find helpful:
Autistic Burnout Construct
https://embrace-autism.com/autistic-burnout-construct/

We spoke about spoons:
https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/the-neurodivergent-spoon-drawer-spoon-theory-for-adhders-and-autists

Autism and bees:
https://embrace-autism.com/honey-bees-understanding-autism-and-social-behaviour/

The Complete Guide to Autism
https://embrace-autism.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-autistic-burnout-book/
]]>4139asr,autism,burnout,christian,couples,dan,depression,diverse,engelbrecht,holmes,ideation,marriage,marriages,natalie,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,suicidalfalsefullHow Therapeutic Separation Helped Us Heal & Heal Our Marriage with Drs. Jeff & Mary Joneshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-therapeutic-separation-helped-us-heal-heal-our-marriage-with-drs-jeff-mary-jones--63982858Part 2! Some of you had questions for Drs. Jeff and Mary so we had them back?
Drs. Jeff and Mary are back to discuss therapeutic separation, addiction, autism, and healing! Some of you had questions, and some of you had criticism, and they are discussed today!

Listen to part one here:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-addiction-healing-with-therapeutic-separation-s-with-drs-jeff-mary-jones--62412733

Find Dr. Mary at:
Dr. Mary Jones believes there is greatness in each of us and is passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.

Throughout her life and career, she has had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves. Dr. Mary has also completed a study in autism as a specialty through PESI, becoming an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. Her vision is to see women living out their purpose and affecting change in their worlds. She is an NT married to a neurodivergent spouse and the mother of a son on the autism spectrum.

Contact her at: https://drmarycoaches.com/contact-me

Dr. Jones has been featured on our NeuroDiverse Christian Couples (NDCC) podcast.
Listen to her episode HERE!

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63982858Mon, 17 Feb 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesPart 2! Some of you had questions for Drs. Jeff and Mary so we had them back? Drs. Jeff and Mary are back to discuss therapeutic separation, addiction, autism, and healing! Some of you had questions, and some of you had criticism, and they are...Part 2! Some of you had questions for Drs. Jeff and Mary so we had them back?
Drs. Jeff and Mary are back to discuss therapeutic separation, addiction, autism, and healing! Some of you had questions, and some of you had criticism, and they are discussed today!

Listen to part one here:
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-addiction-healing-with-therapeutic-separation-s-with-drs-jeff-mary-jones--62412733

Find Dr. Mary at:
Dr. Mary Jones believes there is greatness in each of us and is passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.

Throughout her life and career, she has had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves. Dr. Mary has also completed a study in autism as a specialty through PESI, becoming an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. Her vision is to see women living out their purpose and affecting change in their worlds. She is an NT married to a neurodivergent spouse and the mother of a son on the autism spectrum.

Contact her at: https://drmarycoaches.com/contact-me

Dr. Jones has been featured on our NeuroDiverse Christian Couples (NDCC) podcast.
Listen to her episode HERE!

]]>3598asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeff,jones,marriage,marriages,mary,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,therapeuticfalsefullJTG - Being Not Noticeably Unusualhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-being-not-noticeably-unusual--63922787https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63922787Wed, 12 Feb 2025 11:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes2945asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalsefullShawna Meek - Guides to Therapeutic Separation and Reconciliationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/shawna-meek-guides-to-therapeutic-separation-and-reconciliation--63883677https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63883677Mon, 10 Feb 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesNeeds description2975falsefullAre you Resilient? Building Capacity in Yourself & ND Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-resilient-building-capacity-in-yourself-nd-marriage--63708166
For more resources on this, go to www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com Group Resources—Bounce. We have put together a video for every chapter of Bounce.

The key elements of building resilience are knowing your weight, not breaking under that weight, and building capacity. You can do this through key practices: quitting, appreciation/joy, beliefs and expectations, and growing connection with God and people. Each chapter gives you a joy workout to start your journey toward individual resilience and reliance on God. Your marriage and life situation may not change, so how will you carry that weight without breaking or allowing the situation to transform you versus being transformed and renewed? Then Dan and Stephanie talk about their practices for quieting, joy, and connecting to God and how they connect through Coursey & Coursey's 30 Days of Joy for Busy Married Couples!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63708166Mon, 03 Feb 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie start their discussion with the book Building Bounce: How to Grow in Emotional Resilience by Warner & Hinman. For more resources on this, go to www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com Group Resources—Bounce. We have put together a...
For more resources on this, go to www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com Group Resources—Bounce. We have put together a video for every chapter of Bounce.

The key elements of building resilience are knowing your weight, not breaking under that weight, and building capacity. You can do this through key practices: quitting, appreciation/joy, beliefs and expectations, and growing connection with God and people. Each chapter gives you a joy workout to start your journey toward individual resilience and reliance on God. Your marriage and life situation may not change, so how will you carry that weight without breaking or allowing the situation to transform you versus being transformed and renewed? Then Dan and Stephanie talk about their practices for quieting, joy, and connecting to God and how they connect through Coursey & Coursey's 30 Days of Joy for Busy Married Couples!
]]>3196asr,autism,building,capacity,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resilient,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullDisability Theology Informs Disability Ministry with Stephanie O. Hubachhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/disability-theology-informs-disability-ministry-with-stephanie-o-hubach--63681793
Questions Stephanie and Stephanie Discuss:
What is Disability Ministry and Why Does it Matter?
a. How would you define disability ministry?
b. Why doesn’t your definition of disability ministry even have the word disability in it?
c. What is the role of disability ministry in the local church?
d. If disability ministry is “central to the life of the church” what do you mean by that?
e. How does the presence of people with disabilities in a church change the fabric of congregation life?
f. What type of steps need to be taken to help a church that is not disability-friendly to move towards people with disabilities?
g. You refer to the biblical concept of “equal concern” in your philosophy of disability ministry. What does that look like in practice?

About our Guest:
Stephanie Opdahl Hubach
Biographical Information

Stephanie Hubach is a Research Fellow in Disability Ministries and a Visiting Instructor in Educational Ministries in affiliation with Covenant Theological Seminary. From 2007-2016 she served as Mission to North America’s Special Needs Ministries Founding Director. Mission to
North America (MNA) is associated with the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA). Steph currently serves on the Wheaton Center on Faith and Disability advisory board and the board of directors for Key Ministry.

She formerly volunteered as a member of the board for The Arc of Lancaster County, chairperson of the Lancaster County Mental Health/Mental Retardation Advisory Board, and president of the board of directors for the Infant Evaluation Program of State College, PA.
Steph is the author of Parenting & Disabilities: Abiding in Gods’ Presence (P&;R Publishing, 2021), Same Lake, Different Boat: Coming Alongside People Touched by Disability (P&;R Publishing, 2006; Revised and Expanded 2020), director of a Christian Education DVD series
based on Same Lake, Different Boat, and author of All Things Possible: Calling Your Church Leadership to Embrace Disability Ministry (Joni and Friends, August 2007).

She has been published in ByFaith magazine, Covenant magazine, Focus on the Family magazine, and Breakpoint online magazine. Steph currently writes for Key Ministry’s Special Needs Parenting blog, which is for parents of children with special needs, and for the Presbyterian Church in America’s enCourage blog. She has been a guest blogger for The Gospel Coalition and the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission and has been interviewed on a wide variety of podcasts.

Steph also coordinated a writing team for Christianity Today to provide a Disability Ministry Track in The Ministry Essentials Bible, released in September 2014. Stephanie is a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of McDaniel College (formerly Western Maryland College), has an MA in Economics from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University, and an MATS from Covenant Theological Seminary.

Steph and her husband, Fred, have been married for 41 years. They have two deeply loved sons, Fred and Tim, the younger of whom has Down syndrome. In 2013, the Hubachs were blessed with a wonderful daughter-in-law when Cecelia married Fred, and in 2019, they were thrilled to welcome their first grandchild, Caroline. In 2022, twin grandsons joined the family—Everett and Dietrich. The Hubach family resides in Lancaster County, PA.

Stephanie's Book Same Lake Different Boat-Revised Ed. and other resources:
https://www.stephaniehubach.com/

Dr. Stephanie's Uniquely Us:

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63681793Mon, 27 Jan 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie as she discusses disability theology and disability ministry with Stephanie O. Hubach, author of Same Lake Different Boat. Questions Stephanie and Stephanie Discuss: What is Disability Ministry and Why Does it Matter? a. How would...
Questions Stephanie and Stephanie Discuss:
What is Disability Ministry and Why Does it Matter?
a. How would you define disability ministry?
b. Why doesn’t your definition of disability ministry even have the word disability in it?
c. What is the role of disability ministry in the local church?
d. If disability ministry is “central to the life of the church” what do you mean by that?
e. How does the presence of people with disabilities in a church change the fabric of congregation life?
f. What type of steps need to be taken to help a church that is not disability-friendly to move towards people with disabilities?
g. You refer to the biblical concept of “equal concern” in your philosophy of disability ministry. What does that look like in practice?

About our Guest:
Stephanie Opdahl Hubach
Biographical Information

Stephanie Hubach is a Research Fellow in Disability Ministries and a Visiting Instructor in Educational Ministries in affiliation with Covenant Theological Seminary. From 2007-2016 she served as Mission to North America’s Special Needs Ministries Founding Director. Mission to
North America (MNA) is associated with the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA). Steph currently serves on the Wheaton Center on Faith and Disability advisory board and the board of directors for Key Ministry.

She formerly volunteered as a member of the board for The Arc of Lancaster County, chairperson of the Lancaster County Mental Health/Mental Retardation Advisory Board, and president of the board of directors for the Infant Evaluation Program of State College, PA.
Steph is the author of Parenting & Disabilities: Abiding in Gods’ Presence (P&;R Publishing, 2021), Same Lake, Different Boat: Coming Alongside People Touched by Disability (P&;R Publishing, 2006; Revised and Expanded 2020), director of a Christian Education DVD series
based on Same Lake, Different Boat, and author of All Things Possible: Calling Your Church Leadership to Embrace Disability Ministry (Joni and Friends, August 2007).

She has been published in ByFaith magazine, Covenant magazine, Focus on the Family magazine, and Breakpoint online magazine. Steph currently writes for Key Ministry’s Special Needs Parenting blog, which is for parents of children with special needs, and for the Presbyterian Church in America’s enCourage blog. She has been a guest blogger for The Gospel Coalition and the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission and has been interviewed on a wide variety of podcasts.

Steph also coordinated a writing team for Christianity Today to provide a Disability Ministry Track in The Ministry Essentials Bible, released in September 2014. Stephanie is a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of McDaniel College (formerly Western Maryland College), has an MA in Economics from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University, and an MATS from Covenant Theological Seminary.

Steph and her husband, Fred, have been married for 41 years. They have two deeply loved sons, Fred and Tim, the younger of whom has Down syndrome. In 2013, the Hubachs were blessed with a wonderful daughter-in-law when Cecelia married Fred, and in 2019, they were thrilled to welcome their first grandchild, Caroline. In 2022, twin grandsons joined the family—Everett and Dietrich. The Hubach family resides in Lancaster County, PA.

Stephanie's Book Same Lake Different Boat-Revised Ed. and other resources:
https://www.stephaniehubach.com/

Dr. Stephanie's Uniquely Us:

fullStrengths of ASD, ADHD and AuDHDhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/strengths-of-asd-adhd-and-audhd--63667418
Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down the similarities and differences between ASD, ADHD, and ADHD. She will also discuss the strengths of each neurotype—this is part 1 of our discussion.

Some discussion points from Dr. Natalie:
Co-occurring autism and ADHD can be experienced as

Heightening of some autistic traits

Navigating contradictions of opposing traits

Here are some of the contradictions you may experience as an AuDHD:

You thrive when there’s a set routine (autistic trait), but you struggle to plan and follow a schedule (ADHD trait)

You get very distressed when your friend shows up late to your meeting (autistic trait), but you struggle to arrive at events on time (ADHD trait)

You find engaging in a special interest to be soothing (autistic trait), but you also need to jump between multiple interests to keep you engaged (ADHD trait)

You are meticulous with your plans (autistic trait), but sometimes you overwhelm yourself by making an impulsive decision (ADHD trait)

When you infodump, you have a habit of speaking “too fast” (ADHD trait), but when someone asks you an unrelated question, your responses may be delayed, or you may be unable to speak (autistic trait)

Find out more on Dr. Natalie:

Get the Autism Burnout book we mentioned at:

https://embrace-autism-store.myshopify.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63667418Mon, 20 Jan 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes asked Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht about ASD, ADHD, and both. Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down the similarities and...
Dr. Natalie Engelbrecht is a clinician in Canada and was diagnosed later in life with both ASD and ADHD. Dr. Natalie will break down the similarities and differences between ASD, ADHD, and ADHD. She will also discuss the strengths of each neurotype—this is part 1 of our discussion.

Some discussion points from Dr. Natalie:
Co-occurring autism and ADHD can be experienced as

Heightening of some autistic traits

Navigating contradictions of opposing traits

Here are some of the contradictions you may experience as an AuDHD:

You thrive when there’s a set routine (autistic trait), but you struggle to plan and follow a schedule (ADHD trait)

You get very distressed when your friend shows up late to your meeting (autistic trait), but you struggle to arrive at events on time (ADHD trait)

You find engaging in a special interest to be soothing (autistic trait), but you also need to jump between multiple interests to keep you engaged (ADHD trait)

You are meticulous with your plans (autistic trait), but sometimes you overwhelm yourself by making an impulsive decision (ADHD trait)

When you infodump, you have a habit of speaking “too fast” (ADHD trait), but when someone asks you an unrelated question, your responses may be delayed, or you may be unable to speak (autistic trait)

Find out more on Dr. Natalie:

Get the Autism Burnout book we mentioned at:

https://embrace-autism-store.myshopify.com/
]]>3550adhd,asd,asr,audhd,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,engelbrecht,holmes,marriage,marriages,natalie,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG - Navigating Attachment and Emotional Resilience in Neurodiverse Relationshipshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-navigating-attachment-and-emotional-resilience-in-neurodiverse-relationships--63657272Just The Guys, host Dan Holmes is joined by renowned authors Dr. Jim Wilder and Marcus Warner for an insightful conversation on attachment, emotional maturity, and resilience within neurodiverse Christian relationships. Drawing from their extensive work and books like "Bounce," "Renovated," "Rare Leadership," and "The Other Half of Church," they explore how attachment goes beyond physical needs to deeply influence our relational and spiritual lives.

The discussion delves into the challenges faced by individuals on the autism spectrum, particularly in building emotional resilience and managing energy levels in relationships. They offer practical strategies for incremental growth, overcoming fear, and breaking patterns of avoidance and addiction. Whether you're navigating a neurodiverse relationship or seeking a deeper understanding of emotional maturity from a Christian perspective, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance to foster healthier, more resilient connections.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63657272Wed, 15 Jan 2025 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn this special episode of Just The Guys, host Dan Holmes is joined by renowned authors Dr. Jim Wilder and Marcus Warner for an insightful conversation on attachment, emotional maturity, and resilience within neurodiverse Christian relationships....Just The Guys, host Dan Holmes is joined by renowned authors Dr. Jim Wilder and Marcus Warner for an insightful conversation on attachment, emotional maturity, and resilience within neurodiverse Christian relationships. Drawing from their extensive work and books like "Bounce," "Renovated," "Rare Leadership," and "The Other Half of Church," they explore how attachment goes beyond physical needs to deeply influence our relational and spiritual lives.

The discussion delves into the challenges faced by individuals on the autism spectrum, particularly in building emotional resilience and managing energy levels in relationships. They offer practical strategies for incremental growth, overcoming fear, and breaking patterns of avoidance and addiction. Whether you're navigating a neurodiverse relationship or seeking a deeper understanding of emotional maturity from a Christian perspective, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance to foster healthier, more resilient connections.
]]>3277asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jim,marcus,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,warner,wilderfalsefullRecognizing, Confessing and Healing from Shame with Curt Thompson, MDhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/recognizing-confessing-and-healing-from-shame-with-curt-thompson-md--63643067
Many of our neurodiverse relationships have shame- either about the diagnosis, about not having the perfect Christian marriage, or not meeting someone's needs- what do we do about that? How can clergy deal with their own shame of not knowing how to help neurodiverse couples?

About our Guest:
Psychiatrist, speaker, and author Curt Thompson connects our intrinsic desire to be known with the need to tell truer stories about ourselves — showing us how to form deep relationships, discover meaning, and live integrated, creative lives.
--
Curt Thompson, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist, author, speaker, and co-host of The Being Known Podcast. He has been in private practice for over 30 years in Falls Church, Virginia, graduated from Wright State University’s Boonshoft School of Medicine, and completed his psychiatric residency at Temple University Hospital. He strives to help patients develop flourishing lives by telling their stories more honestly to become more deeply known for creating beauty and goodness in the world. With conviction and humor, he trains clinicians and speaks at workshops, retreats, and conferences, integrating neuroscience, human relationships, and Christian faith. He and his wife, Phyllis, are the parents of two adult children and live in Northern Virginia.
--
Psychiatrist Curt Thompson, MD, brings together a dialect of interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) and Christian anthropology to educate and encourage others as they seek to fulfill their intrinsic desire to feel known, valued, and connected. Curt understands that deep, authentic relationships are essential to experiencing a healthier, more purposeful life — but the only way to realize this is
to begin telling our stories more truly.
His unique insights about how the brain affects and processes relationships help people discover a fresh perspective and practical applications to foster healthy and
vibrant lives, allowing them to get unstuck and move toward the next beautiful thing they’re being called to make.

WEBSITE, PODCAST, and SOCIAL MEDIA
****
Website www.CurtThompsonMD.com
Podcast www.BeingKnownPodcast.com
Instagram CurtThompsonMD
Facebook CurtThompsonMD
@CurtThompsonMD
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63643067Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhat is Shame? What is health shame vs toxic shame? What if someone is unaware of their feelings, including shame? Can you heal from shame alone? These are the questions we will be asking Dr. Curt Thompson. Many of our neurodiverse relationships have...
Many of our neurodiverse relationships have shame- either about the diagnosis, about not having the perfect Christian marriage, or not meeting someone's needs- what do we do about that? How can clergy deal with their own shame of not knowing how to help neurodiverse couples?

About our Guest:
Psychiatrist, speaker, and author Curt Thompson connects our intrinsic desire to be known with the need to tell truer stories about ourselves — showing us how to form deep relationships, discover meaning, and live integrated, creative lives.
--
Curt Thompson, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist, author, speaker, and co-host of The Being Known Podcast. He has been in private practice for over 30 years in Falls Church, Virginia, graduated from Wright State University’s Boonshoft School of Medicine, and completed his psychiatric residency at Temple University Hospital. He strives to help patients develop flourishing lives by telling their stories more honestly to become more deeply known for creating beauty and goodness in the world. With conviction and humor, he trains clinicians and speaks at workshops, retreats, and conferences, integrating neuroscience, human relationships, and Christian faith. He and his wife, Phyllis, are the parents of two adult children and live in Northern Virginia.
--
Psychiatrist Curt Thompson, MD, brings together a dialect of interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) and Christian anthropology to educate and encourage others as they seek to fulfill their intrinsic desire to feel known, valued, and connected. Curt understands that deep, authentic relationships are essential to experiencing a healthier, more purposeful life — but the only way to realize this is
to begin telling our stories more truly.
His unique insights about how the brain affects and processes relationships help people discover a fresh perspective and practical applications to foster healthy and
vibrant lives, allowing them to get unstuck and move toward the next beautiful thing they’re being called to make.

WEBSITE, PODCAST, and SOCIAL MEDIA
****
Website www.CurtThompsonMD.com
Podcast www.BeingKnownPodcast.com
Instagram CurtThompsonMD
Facebook CurtThompsonMD
@CurtThompsonMD
]]>3631asr,autism,christian,couples,curt,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,shame,spectrum,stephanie,thompsonfalsefullNDCC Communication Challenges & Goats - With Greg & Carol Rellerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ndcc-communication-challenges-goats-with-greg-carol-reller--63577120
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol. He was diagnosed around age 55 with what was then called Asperger's Syndrome. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist. Carol has written chapter 7.

Today, Carol and Greg will discuss some of their most common communication misfires and tools and strategies that help!

Pre-order the book today:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

New classes are forming 2-3 spots remain!

Reach out to Stephanie at rev.stephaniecholmes@gmail.com
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63577120Mon, 06 Jan 2025 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe have guests with us. Carol and Greg Reller join us to discuss Chapter 7 of Uniquely Us on Social Communication and Challenges! You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a...
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol. He was diagnosed around age 55 with what was then called Asperger's Syndrome. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist. Carol has written chapter 7.

Today, Carol and Greg will discuss some of their most common communication misfires and tools and strategies that help!

Pre-order the book today:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

New classes are forming 2-3 spots remain!

Reach out to Stephanie at rev.stephaniecholmes@gmail.com
]]>3506asr,autism,challenges,christian,communication,couples,dan,diverse,goats,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullAutism is a NOT a Pass for Abuse with NeuroDivergent Coach Sarah McDugalhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-is-a-not-a-pass-for-abuse-with-neurodivergent-coach-sarah-mcdugal--63229001
We discuss types of abuse.

I asked Sarah, does being autistic give anyone a pass in their behavior?
Sarah also discusses the importance of staying or leaving well.
A major point of our discussion is that everyone is responsible for their actions and emotions, regardless of their neurotype!

Sarah's Bio:
I’m Sarah McDugal, co-founder of Wilderness to WILD and the TraumaMAMAs mobile app.
I’m an author, coach, survivor, and TraumaMAMA.

As an autistic woman and survivor of both domestic violence and child sexual assault -- my hyper-focus is developing gentle, proven resources for women who want to heal after toxic and traumatic stress.

I'm trained in:
The Deceptive Sexual Trauma Model, and
APSATS (the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
I'm also a certified assessor for the Johns Hopkins Danger Assessment.

Some of my books include:
He Chose Porn Over Me: Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
Myths We Believe: Predators We Trust
One Face: Shed the Mask, Own Your Values, and Lead Wisely
My goal is to provide accessible, affordable, authentic tools to guide you out of the wilderness of abuse into the WILD, thriving post-trauma life that waits ahead.

Sarah's Website and Sarah's Resources
www.wildernesstowild.com

the SCOOP - Group Coaching Membership
www.wildernesstowild.com/the-scoop

Righteous or Rotten? How to know if it is biblically bad enough to divorce
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/unholy-fruit-your-wild-guide-to-discerning-toxic-character]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63229001Mon, 30 Dec 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie is solo hosting with guest Sarah McDugal. Sarah is a coach who was later identified on the autism spectrum. Today, we discuss her divorce from a former minister's wife and the challenges of divorce when you are in ministry. We...
We discuss types of abuse.

I asked Sarah, does being autistic give anyone a pass in their behavior?
Sarah also discusses the importance of staying or leaving well.
A major point of our discussion is that everyone is responsible for their actions and emotions, regardless of their neurotype!

Sarah's Bio:
I’m Sarah McDugal, co-founder of Wilderness to WILD and the TraumaMAMAs mobile app.
I’m an author, coach, survivor, and TraumaMAMA.

As an autistic woman and survivor of both domestic violence and child sexual assault -- my hyper-focus is developing gentle, proven resources for women who want to heal after toxic and traumatic stress.

I'm trained in:
The Deceptive Sexual Trauma Model, and
APSATS (the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
I'm also a certified assessor for the Johns Hopkins Danger Assessment.

Some of my books include:
He Chose Porn Over Me: Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
Myths We Believe: Predators We Trust
One Face: Shed the Mask, Own Your Values, and Lead Wisely
My goal is to provide accessible, affordable, authentic tools to guide you out of the wilderness of abuse into the WILD, thriving post-trauma life that waits ahead.

Sarah's Website and Sarah's Resources
www.wildernesstowild.com

the SCOOP - Group Coaching Membership
www.wildernesstowild.com/the-scoop

Righteous or Rotten? How to know if it is biblically bad enough to divorce
https://www.wildernesstowild.com/unholy-fruit-your-wild-guide-to-discerning-toxic-character]]>3730abuse,asr,autism,christian,coach,couples,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,mcdugal,neuro,neurodivergent,neurodiverse,resources,sarah,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWhat I STILL Like About & How You Help me Growhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-i-still-like-about-how-you-help-me-grow--63227293
Dan and I are continuing to build joy by working through Chris and Jen Coursey's 30 Days of Joy: For Busy Married Couples. Many couples get so obsessed with their needs and focus on "the marriage" that they wonder, "Do you even like this person anymore?" What do you like about your spouse?"

Love is commanded by Scripture, but like is a choice.

In Coursey's book, they said one exercise is to tell each other what you like about each other and whether your spouse calls you to your Christ-like identity. Today, we will talk about relational circuits (RCs) and when they are on and off. Can you tell the difference when they are on and off?

You cannot build joy without your RCs on!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63227293Mon, 23 Dec 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesGiving the gift of relational JOY! Dan and I are continuing to build joy by working through Chris and Jen Coursey's 30 Days of Joy: For Busy Married Couples. Many couples get so obsessed with their needs and focus on "the marriage" that they wonder,...
Dan and I are continuing to build joy by working through Chris and Jen Coursey's 30 Days of Joy: For Busy Married Couples. Many couples get so obsessed with their needs and focus on "the marriage" that they wonder, "Do you even like this person anymore?" What do you like about your spouse?"

Love is commanded by Scripture, but like is a choice.

In Coursey's book, they said one exercise is to tell each other what you like about each other and whether your spouse calls you to your Christ-like identity. Today, we will talk about relational circuits (RCs) and when they are on and off. Can you tell the difference when they are on and off?

You cannot build joy without your RCs on!
]]>3518asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullSome other Beginning's End: Being Mindful & Intentional Planning Travelhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/some-other-beginning-s-end-being-mindful-intentional-planning-travel--63224145Just the Guys discussed their experiences with planning surprise events and trips, emphasizing the importance of considering the other person's interests and preferences.

They also shared their experiences with travel planning, highlighting the challenges and stress involved and the need to be more mindful and attentive in daily life. The conversation concluded with the importance of expanding experiences beyond the US context and understanding the unique interests and needs of their children.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63224145Wed, 18 Dec 2024 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJust the Guys discussed their experiences with planning surprise events and trips, emphasizing the importance of considering the other person's interests and preferences. They also shared their experiences with travel planning, highlighting the...Just the Guys discussed their experiences with planning surprise events and trips, emphasizing the importance of considering the other person's interests and preferences.

They also shared their experiences with travel planning, highlighting the challenges and stress involved and the need to be more mindful and attentive in daily life. The conversation concluded with the importance of expanding experiences beyond the US context and understanding the unique interests and needs of their children.]]>3011asr,autism,beginning's,being,christian,couples,dan,diverse,end:,holmes,intentional,mindful,neuro,neurodiverse,other,planning,resources,some,spectrum,travelfalsefullPEERS Curriculum for Teens & Young Adults with Meredith Sinclairhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/peers-curriculum-for-teens-young-adults-with-meredith-sinclair--63181234
Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior Consulting, LLC. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS for Young Adults Provider, school-based Provider, and Telehealth provider. Meredith loves working with people with Neurodiverse brain styles to help them learn the skills to build their confidence and independence in working on their goals in life, whatever those may be. Meredith's specialty is helping her clients uncover and leverage their strengths and take action steps to apply the skills they learn in the real world. She is an advocate for Neurodiversity in the workplace and believes that anyone who has the desire to work CAN work and have a fulfilling career with the proper support.

Find her at:
https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63181234Mon, 16 Dec 2024 11:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie and Meredith discuss social skills groups for adolescents and young adults 14 and older. Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior Consulting, LLC. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling...
Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior Consulting, LLC. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS for Young Adults Provider, school-based Provider, and Telehealth provider. Meredith loves working with people with Neurodiverse brain styles to help them learn the skills to build their confidence and independence in working on their goals in life, whatever those may be. Meredith's specialty is helping her clients uncover and leverage their strengths and take action steps to apply the skills they learn in the real world. She is an advocate for Neurodiversity in the workplace and believes that anyone who has the desire to work CAN work and have a fulfilling career with the proper support.

Find her at:
https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/
]]>2627asr,autism,christian,couples,curriculum,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,meredith,neuro,neurodiverse,peers,resources,sinclair,spectrum,stephanie,teens,youngfalsefullHow to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities & Differences with Dr. Todd & Kristin Evanshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-build-a-thriving-marriage-as-you-care-for-children-with-disabilities-differences-with-dr-todd-kristin-evans--63118404About our Guests:

Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW, and Todd Evans, PhD, MA,
are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They
earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College
in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church,
camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt
University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own
business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and
is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and
family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling.

About Their Book:

In their upcoming book How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities (Baker Books, May 2024), Kristin and Todd provide the field guide for success. With extreme practicality and empathy, they present research-based skills for fostering a thriving caregiving marriage.

Caregiving parents require an additional set of skills for protecting their marriage amidst emotional, financial, and relational obstacles. Much like on a wilderness adventure, the steps of identifying where you are, setting goals, and planning your path together are vital to the success and enjoyment of the journey. Kristin and Todd apply this easy-to-follow framework in crucial areas such as stress management, communication, problem-solving, and respite to help couples thrive.

Kristin and Todd are available for interviews to discuss topics such as:
• Grieving the continual losses in a caregiving lifestyle
• Prioritizing marital intimacy in an overwhelming schedule
• Supporting each other’s mental, physical, and emotional health
• Fostering a life of joy despite “unhappy” circumstances

https://disabilityparenting.com/
Dr. Holmes says you want to get the book!
Get the book! Visit their site:

https://toddandkristinevans.com/

Get Connected
www.DisabilityParenting.com

Instagram
@disabilityparenting

Facebook
/kristin.evans.5895

X
@AuthorKristinEv
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63118404Mon, 09 Dec 2024 11:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAbout our Guests: Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW, and Todd Evans, PhD, MA, are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College in Illinois and have served...About our Guests:

Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW, and Todd Evans, PhD, MA,
are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They
earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College
in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church,
camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt
University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own
business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and
is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and
family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling.

About Their Book:

In their upcoming book How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities (Baker Books, May 2024), Kristin and Todd provide the field guide for success. With extreme practicality and empathy, they present research-based skills for fostering a thriving caregiving marriage.

Caregiving parents require an additional set of skills for protecting their marriage amidst emotional, financial, and relational obstacles. Much like on a wilderness adventure, the steps of identifying where you are, setting goals, and planning your path together are vital to the success and enjoyment of the journey. Kristin and Todd apply this easy-to-follow framework in crucial areas such as stress management, communication, problem-solving, and respite to help couples thrive.

Kristin and Todd are available for interviews to discuss topics such as:
• Grieving the continual losses in a caregiving lifestyle
• Prioritizing marital intimacy in an overwhelming schedule
• Supporting each other’s mental, physical, and emotional health
• Fostering a life of joy despite “unhappy” circumstances

https://disabilityparenting.com/
Dr. Holmes says you want to get the book!
Get the book! Visit their site:

https://toddandkristinevans.com/

Get Connected
www.DisabilityParenting.com

Instagram
@disabilityparenting

Facebook
/kristin.evans.5895

X
@AuthorKristinEv
]]>3498asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,differences,disabilities,diverse,evans,holmes,kristin,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thriving,toddfalsefullNDCC to NDCC Discussions: NT Husband and ND Wife with Gary & Mollyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ndcc-to-ndcc-discussions-nt-husband-and-nd-wife-with-gary-molly--63035004Listeners, you asked! We listened!

Many reached out and wanted to hear from an NT Husband and ND Wife!
Today, we have Gary and Molly, who discuss not only neurodiversity in marriage but also the extra layer and complexity of being a couple in ministry and who would find out about their neurodiversity.

What are the similarities and differences of being the "reverse," so to speak, type of NeuroDiverse Christian Couple?

Gary, being in ministry and having counseled hundreds of couples, what did he say about pastoral training and the need for Christian counseling to have specific training in NeuroDiverse Couples?
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/63035004Mon, 02 Dec 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesListeners, you asked! We listened! Many reached out and wanted to hear from an NT Husband and ND Wife! Today, we have Gary and Molly, who discuss not only neurodiversity in marriage but also the extra layer and complexity of being a couple in...Listeners, you asked! We listened!

Many reached out and wanted to hear from an NT Husband and ND Wife!
Today, we have Gary and Molly, who discuss not only neurodiversity in marriage but also the extra layer and complexity of being a couple in ministry and who would find out about their neurodiversity.

What are the similarities and differences of being the "reverse," so to speak, type of NeuroDiverse Christian Couple?

Gary, being in ministry and having counseled hundreds of couples, what did he say about pastoral training and the need for Christian counseling to have specific training in NeuroDiverse Couples?
]]>3173asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gary,holmes,husband,marriage,marriages,molly,nd,neuro,neurodiverse,nt,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wifefalsefullChronic Illness, Stress, and Building Resiliency with Jana Smithhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/chronic-illness-stress-and-building-resiliency-with-jana-smith--62971403
Today, Dan and Stephanie talked with Jana Smith, an expert in this area.

About Jana:

Bio: Jana Smith is a Certified Nervous System and Somatics Coach with a Master’s Degree in Health Education. Jana’s experience with neurodiversity began in her family of origin and included her diagnosis of ADHD as an adult. She also has firsthand experience navigating chronic illness. After 7 years of debilitating symptoms, Jana found relief by learning how to build resilience through nervous system regulation. She has made it her life’s work to help others bounce back so they can thrive instead of just surviving.

Talking points:
1. Chronic illness is connected to stress, even if we don’t feel stressed out. Low-level ongoing
nervous system dysregulation leaves us vulnerable to developing symptoms and illnesses
(physical and emotional).

2. Define and explain the causes of nervous system dysregulation.

Factors that affect our propensity to dysregulate:
Our neurotype

Our personality

Our attachment style

Our past experiences

Our current stress level

Our perceptions of safety

3. Dysregulation is not bad! God created our nervous system responses to protect us. However, when we are unable to return to regulation, we can end up living in a chronic stress state.

4. What types of situations, without proper support, create chronic dysregulation?
Past trauma

Difficult marriage

Parenting challenges

Neurodiversity (both for the individual and the family)

Not feeling emotionally supported or connected; feeling emotionally abandoned

Feeling invalidated: not feeling seen and heard

Overfunctioning, perfectionism, people-pleasing

Co-dependency

Lack of sleep

5. Dysregulated nervous system states: fight/flight, freeze, fawn/overwhelm. Examples.

6. It’s never too late to learn nervous system fitness.

7. Knowledge vs experience: you can learn all about the brain, the science, polyvagal theory,
etc., and still live in a mostly dysregulated state.

8. Walk through a brief experiential example to help cultivate nervous system balance.

Reach out to Jana:
https://www.janamsmith.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62971403Mon, 25 Nov 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe had 2 questions come in from listeners about chronic stress and autoimmune issues in the ND marriage and how to build resiliency and calm the central nervous system in high-stress environments. Today, Dan and Stephanie talked with Jana Smith, an...
Today, Dan and Stephanie talked with Jana Smith, an expert in this area.

About Jana:

Bio: Jana Smith is a Certified Nervous System and Somatics Coach with a Master’s Degree in Health Education. Jana’s experience with neurodiversity began in her family of origin and included her diagnosis of ADHD as an adult. She also has firsthand experience navigating chronic illness. After 7 years of debilitating symptoms, Jana found relief by learning how to build resilience through nervous system regulation. She has made it her life’s work to help others bounce back so they can thrive instead of just surviving.

Talking points:
1. Chronic illness is connected to stress, even if we don’t feel stressed out. Low-level ongoing
nervous system dysregulation leaves us vulnerable to developing symptoms and illnesses
(physical and emotional).

2. Define and explain the causes of nervous system dysregulation.

Factors that affect our propensity to dysregulate:
Our neurotype

Our personality

Our attachment style

Our past experiences

Our current stress level

Our perceptions of safety

3. Dysregulation is not bad! God created our nervous system responses to protect us. However, when we are unable to return to regulation, we can end up living in a chronic stress state.

4. What types of situations, without proper support, create chronic dysregulation?
Past trauma

Difficult marriage

Parenting challenges

Neurodiversity (both for the individual and the family)

Not feeling emotionally supported or connected; feeling emotionally abandoned

Feeling invalidated: not feeling seen and heard

Overfunctioning, perfectionism, people-pleasing

Co-dependency

Lack of sleep

5. Dysregulated nervous system states: fight/flight, freeze, fawn/overwhelm. Examples.

6. It’s never too late to learn nervous system fitness.

7. Knowledge vs experience: you can learn all about the brain, the science, polyvagal theory,
etc., and still live in a mostly dysregulated state.

8. Walk through a brief experiential example to help cultivate nervous system balance.

Reach out to Jana:
https://www.janamsmith.com/]]>3797asr,autism,building,christian,chronic,couples,diverse,holmes,illness,jana,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resiliency,resources,smith,spectrum,stephanie,stressfalsefullMIGDAS-2 and Adult ASD Evaluations with Dr. Donna Berghauserhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/migdas-2-and-adult-asd-evaluations-with-dr-donna-berghauser--62693428Dr. Donna Berghauser is a Florida-licensed and Nationally Certified School Psychologist (NCSP) with over 10 years of experience in public schools and community settings.

Dr. Donna Berghauser earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Florida State University and a doctorate in psychology from Nova Southeastern University. Since 2011, she has served on the Florida Association of School Psychologists (FASP) executive board in many capacities, including President. Her professional interests include systems change, restorative practices, and culturally sensitive assessment and intervention. In her leisure time, she enjoys traveling, visiting local coffee shops, reading, and hanging out with her fluffy boy, Cosmo.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62693428Mon, 18 Nov 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Donna Berghauser is a Florida-licensed and Nationally Certified School Psychologist (NCSP) with over 10 years of experience in public schools and community settings. Dr. Donna Berghauser earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Florida State...Dr. Donna Berghauser is a Florida-licensed and Nationally Certified School Psychologist (NCSP) with over 10 years of experience in public schools and community settings.

Dr. Donna Berghauser earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Florida State University and a doctorate in psychology from Nova Southeastern University. Since 2011, she has served on the Florida Association of School Psychologists (FASP) executive board in many capacities, including President. Her professional interests include systems change, restorative practices, and culturally sensitive assessment and intervention. In her leisure time, she enjoys traveling, visiting local coffee shops, reading, and hanging out with her fluffy boy, Cosmo.]]>2563adult,asd,asr,autism,berghauser,christian,couples,dan,diverse,donna,evaluations,holmes,marriage,marriages,migdas-2,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullLessons Learned in Previous Marriage and New Marriage with John Felahttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lessons-learned-in-previous-marriage-and-new-marriage-with-john-fela--62691673Today, Dan discusses marriage, divorce, and a new marriage with John Fela of Joni & Friends. While not officially diagnosed, John has realized later in life his neurodivergent identification.

About John:
John Fela is the Ministry Relations Manager at Joni and Friends Chicago, working with churches to equip and train them to help the disabled in their communities. Prior to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles, including Teacher, Mentor Teacher, and School Director.

Zoom AI Summary of Conversation:
John and his wife have a dedicated time or day to review and update their shared calendar to ensure they are both aware of each other's schedules and commitments.

John and his wife consistently express gratitude and appreciation for each other's efforts and contributions, even for small tasks or gestures.

John and his wife practice gentleness and empathy in their communication, especially when discussing sensitive or past-related topics.

John and his wife continue engaging in regular devotional and check-in times to maintain a strong connection and support each other.

John lives in Round Lake, IL, and is married to his wife Faith and father to his son Christopher (ASD.) He is a public speaker, podcast guest on multiple shows, and regular contributor to Key Ministry’s Special Needs Family blog and other special needs blogs, including Hope Anew and The Mighty.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62691673Wed, 13 Nov 2024 11:00:07 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday is a special edition of JTG. Our usual crew will be back! Today, Dan discusses marriage, divorce, and a new marriage with John Fela of Joni & Friends. While not officially diagnosed, John has realized later in life his neurodivergent...Today, Dan discusses marriage, divorce, and a new marriage with John Fela of Joni & Friends. While not officially diagnosed, John has realized later in life his neurodivergent identification.

About John:
John Fela is the Ministry Relations Manager at Joni and Friends Chicago, working with churches to equip and train them to help the disabled in their communities. Prior to that, he spent almost 20 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles, including Teacher, Mentor Teacher, and School Director.

Zoom AI Summary of Conversation:
John and his wife have a dedicated time or day to review and update their shared calendar to ensure they are both aware of each other's schedules and commitments.

John and his wife consistently express gratitude and appreciation for each other's efforts and contributions, even for small tasks or gestures.

John and his wife practice gentleness and empathy in their communication, especially when discussing sensitive or past-related topics.

John and his wife continue engaging in regular devotional and check-in times to maintain a strong connection and support each other.

John lives in Round Lake, IL, and is married to his wife Faith and father to his son Christopher (ASD.) He is a public speaker, podcast guest on multiple shows, and regular contributor to Key Ministry’s Special Needs Family blog and other special needs blogs, including Hope Anew and The Mighty.]]>2929asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fela,guys,holmes,john,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thefalsefullAnswering Listener Questions about NeuroDiverse Marriage with Heather Parks & Natalie Robertshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/answering-listener-questions-about-neurodiverse-marriage-with-heather-parks-natalie-roberts--62515098Today we took some listener questions and Dr.Stephanie asks them from neurodiverse couples to Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks.
One key component- Neurodiversity is never THE only marriage challenge or complexity.

ntroducing Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks

Heather Parks has been in a neurodiverse relationship for over 25 years and lives in Devon, UK, with her husband and four children. Neurodiversity was unknown until 2012 when it exploded into their lives amid a mental health crisis that affected every family member. Ill from the persistent stress of trying to keep everyone afloat, desperate to find solutions, and losing hope that things would ever get better, Heather embarked on a journey in which she recovered herself and rebuilt connection firstly with herself and then in her relationship, family, and beyond. After 8 years of supporting families discovering and navigating neurodiversity, Heather certified with MasterCoach in 2020 before becoming a Positive Intelligence ® Coach. In 2021, she gained the ICF Accredited Certificate in Body-Oriented Coaching with The Somatic School in London, UK.

Heather coaches individuals struggling in their neurodiverse relationships using a nervous system approach of safety and curiosity so that they can reconnect with themselves and create conscious, loving connections with others... so they can be themselves, too!

Natalie Roberts lives in the UK with her husband Pete. She’s been married for 25 years and has known about neurodiversity, participating in it for 10 of those years when her husband discovered he’s autistic.
Frustrated and depressed by toxic online groups, a lack of hope, and virtually no solutions that actually worked in real life, Natalie took a different path. Led by her social sciences background and inspired by her incessant curiosity to find a way where there is seemingly no way, she busted neurodiversity relationship myths, reversed symptoms of Cassandra Syndrome, and began to thrive in her relationship again!

Professionally, as an accredited and award-winning Relationship Coach, Natalie coaches individuals who are struggling in their neurodiverse relationships to reverse the individual and relationship impact of unknown neurodiversity so that they can be true to themselves and feel empowered to make positive and hopeful decisions about their present and future.
In 2020, Heather and Natalie co-founded Loving Difference to bring hope and a way forward for neurodiverse relationships to more people. Loving Difference has an online home that combines empowering coaching, a friendly community, and step-by-step guidance to be you again and flourish, with the company and encouragement of others navigating the same challenges. Heather and Natalie also co-host the Myth Busting Neurodiverse Relationships podcast.
www.lovingdifference.net
heather@lovingdifference.net
www.natalieroberts.com
natalie@natalieroberts.com

Myth Busting Neurodiverse Relationship podcast is available where you listen to podcasts.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62515098Mon, 11 Nov 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday we took some listener questions and Dr.Stephanie asks them from neurodiverse couples to Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks. One key component- Neurodiversity is never THE only marriage challenge or complexity. ntroducing Natalie Roberts and...Today we took some listener questions and Dr.Stephanie asks them from neurodiverse couples to Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks.
One key component- Neurodiversity is never THE only marriage challenge or complexity.

ntroducing Natalie Roberts and Heather Parks

Heather Parks has been in a neurodiverse relationship for over 25 years and lives in Devon, UK, with her husband and four children. Neurodiversity was unknown until 2012 when it exploded into their lives amid a mental health crisis that affected every family member. Ill from the persistent stress of trying to keep everyone afloat, desperate to find solutions, and losing hope that things would ever get better, Heather embarked on a journey in which she recovered herself and rebuilt connection firstly with herself and then in her relationship, family, and beyond. After 8 years of supporting families discovering and navigating neurodiversity, Heather certified with MasterCoach in 2020 before becoming a Positive Intelligence ® Coach. In 2021, she gained the ICF Accredited Certificate in Body-Oriented Coaching with The Somatic School in London, UK.

Heather coaches individuals struggling in their neurodiverse relationships using a nervous system approach of safety and curiosity so that they can reconnect with themselves and create conscious, loving connections with others... so they can be themselves, too!

Natalie Roberts lives in the UK with her husband Pete. She’s been married for 25 years and has known about neurodiversity, participating in it for 10 of those years when her husband discovered he’s autistic.
Frustrated and depressed by toxic online groups, a lack of hope, and virtually no solutions that actually worked in real life, Natalie took a different path. Led by her social sciences background and inspired by her incessant curiosity to find a way where there is seemingly no way, she busted neurodiversity relationship myths, reversed symptoms of Cassandra Syndrome, and began to thrive in her relationship again!

Professionally, as an accredited and award-winning Relationship Coach, Natalie coaches individuals who are struggling in their neurodiverse relationships to reverse the individual and relationship impact of unknown neurodiversity so that they can be true to themselves and feel empowered to make positive and hopeful decisions about their present and future.
In 2020, Heather and Natalie co-founded Loving Difference to bring hope and a way forward for neurodiverse relationships to more people. Loving Difference has an online home that combines empowering coaching, a friendly community, and step-by-step guidance to be you again and flourish, with the company and encouragement of others navigating the same challenges. Heather and Natalie also co-host the Myth Busting Neurodiverse Relationships podcast.
www.lovingdifference.net
heather@lovingdifference.net
www.natalieroberts.com
natalie@natalieroberts.com

Myth Busting Neurodiverse Relationship podcast is available where you listen to podcasts.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not...]]>3839asr,autism,autismspectrumresources,couples,diverse,heatherparks,holmes,marriage,marriages,natalieroberts,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanieholmesfalsefullAutism, Addiction, Healing with Therapeutic Separation(s) with Drs. Jeff & Mary Joneshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-addiction-healing-with-therapeutic-separation-s-with-drs-jeff-mary-jones--62412733https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62412733Mon, 04 Nov 2024 10:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes4029asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeff,jones,marriage,marriages,mary,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,separation,spectrum,stephanie,therapeuticfalsefullTransitioning From Highschool with Autism. Now What? Carrie Cariellohttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/transitioning-from-highschool-with-autism-now-what-carrie-cariello--62410251
Carrie Cariello is the author of What Color Is Monday, How Autism Changed One Family for the Better, and Someone I’m With Has Autism. She lives in Southern New Hampshire with her husband, Joe, and their five children. Carrie is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, TODAY Parents, the TODAY Show, Parents.com, Love What Matters, and Grown and Flown. She has been interviewed by NBC Nightly News and has a TEDx talk. She speaks regularly about autism, marriage, and motherhood and writes a weekly blog on her website. One of her essays, “I Know What Causes Autism,” was featured as one of the Huffington Post’s best of 2015, and her piece, “I Know Why He Has Autism,” was named one of the top blog posts of 2017 by the TODAY Show.

https://carriecariello.com/

You can access her blog/essays and her Ted Talk.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62410251Mon, 28 Oct 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie and Carrie talk about Carrie's journey in marriage and family navigating Autism. We speak about the limited opportunities that exist for those on the spectrum beyond high school and steps to consider to help your teen and young adult...
Carrie Cariello is the author of What Color Is Monday, How Autism Changed One Family for the Better, and Someone I’m With Has Autism. She lives in Southern New Hampshire with her husband, Joe, and their five children. Carrie is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, TODAY Parents, the TODAY Show, Parents.com, Love What Matters, and Grown and Flown. She has been interviewed by NBC Nightly News and has a TEDx talk. She speaks regularly about autism, marriage, and motherhood and writes a weekly blog on her website. One of her essays, “I Know What Causes Autism,” was featured as one of the Huffington Post’s best of 2015, and her piece, “I Know Why He Has Autism,” was named one of the top blog posts of 2017 by the TODAY Show.

https://carriecariello.com/

You can access her blog/essays and her Ted Talk.
]]>3079asr,autism,cariello,carrie,christian,couples,dan,diverse,highschool,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,transitioningfalsefullAutism_Family & the Mission Field with Jenileehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-family-the-mission-field-with-jenilee--62370131
What additional challenges to ministry or being on the mission field may come with a neurodiverse marriage and family?

Are churches or ministry organizations equipped to help neurodiverse marriages and families serving in the ministry/mission field?

About Our Guest:
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin
Professional Life Coach

As a certified professional life coach (ICCI), a certified autism coach (NCDD), and an ordained minister (AG), Jenilee has over 20 years of career ministry experience. Serving in stateside churches and overseas missions, Jenilee brings lived experience, problem-solving skills, compassionate support, and creativity into each coaching session. Jenilee asks hard questions while listening, guiding, and coaching clients in their unique life situations. Jenilee is trained in the Equipping Profile, a personal development coaching tool that helps discover growth points and possible barriers to growth. Through one-on-one and group coaching, Jenilee uses the Equipping Profile, book studies, and even some homework to establish personal development plans, helping clients move forward healthily.

With many in her immediate family on the autism spectrum, Jenilee has a special call and place in her heart for moms of kids on the spectrum and for NT wives going through the difficulties of ND marriages. Even more specifically, I have a passion for these women who are also in full-time ministry or missions. There are very few places to share the full story. In coaching with Jenilee, you can share every single page of the story.

In addition to the above skills, Jenilee loves reading, writing, coffee, going for walks, and watching history documentaries.
You can connect with Jenilee daily on Instagram @jenileerachel or through her website, jenileerachel.com

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62370131Mon, 21 Oct 2024 09:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we discuss a few topics in today's podcast. Dr. Stephanie talks with Jenilee about their family's journey with autism on the mission field. While in church ministry and mission work the three teen girls are diganosed with ASD, ADHD, AuDHD. She...
What additional challenges to ministry or being on the mission field may come with a neurodiverse marriage and family?

Are churches or ministry organizations equipped to help neurodiverse marriages and families serving in the ministry/mission field?

About Our Guest:
Rev. Jenilee Goodwin
Professional Life Coach

As a certified professional life coach (ICCI), a certified autism coach (NCDD), and an ordained minister (AG), Jenilee has over 20 years of career ministry experience. Serving in stateside churches and overseas missions, Jenilee brings lived experience, problem-solving skills, compassionate support, and creativity into each coaching session. Jenilee asks hard questions while listening, guiding, and coaching clients in their unique life situations. Jenilee is trained in the Equipping Profile, a personal development coaching tool that helps discover growth points and possible barriers to growth. Through one-on-one and group coaching, Jenilee uses the Equipping Profile, book studies, and even some homework to establish personal development plans, helping clients move forward healthily.

With many in her immediate family on the autism spectrum, Jenilee has a special call and place in her heart for moms of kids on the spectrum and for NT wives going through the difficulties of ND marriages. Even more specifically, I have a passion for these women who are also in full-time ministry or missions. There are very few places to share the full story. In coaching with Jenilee, you can share every single page of the story.

In addition to the above skills, Jenilee loves reading, writing, coffee, going for walks, and watching history documentaries.
You can connect with Jenilee daily on Instagram @jenileerachel or through her website, jenileerachel.com

]]>3518asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,field,holmes,jenilee,marriage,marriages,mission,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullIn this case: Be FAIKhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/in-this-case-be-faik--62333983https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62333983Wed, 16 Oct 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and the guys talk about AI, Perry's new book FAIK and applications to real life.3624asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,faik,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullNeuroscience & Nutrition for Neurodiversity with Sarah Casburnhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neuroscience-nutrition-for-neurodiversity-with-sarah-casburn--62324885
They will chat about:
ABA or not ABA?
What is the controversy about ABA?
Do nutrition and diet impact Autism?
What is sensory enrichment therapy?

Sarah Casburn is a late-diagnosed autistic woman and autistic mom who combines her 20 years of personal and professional experience in a variety of areas, including Early Childhood Education, Autism and Behavioral Science, Sensory Enrichment, Nutrition, and Children’s Ministry, to support families and volunteers in a fresh approach. She is the founder of Crown Family Wellness (Neuroscience & Nutrition for Neurodiversity), which supports children and adults, and a Ministry stream dedicated to supporting church communities all across Canada and the USA.

Find out more at:
https://www.crownfamilywellness.com/about
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62324885Mon, 14 Oct 2024 10:00:05 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie interviews Sarah Casburn. They will chat about: ABA or not ABA? What is the controversy about ABA? Do nutrition and diet impact Autism? What is sensory enrichment therapy? Sarah Casburn is a late-diagnosed autistic woman and...
They will chat about:
ABA or not ABA?
What is the controversy about ABA?
Do nutrition and diet impact Autism?
What is sensory enrichment therapy?

Sarah Casburn is a late-diagnosed autistic woman and autistic mom who combines her 20 years of personal and professional experience in a variety of areas, including Early Childhood Education, Autism and Behavioral Science, Sensory Enrichment, Nutrition, and Children’s Ministry, to support families and volunteers in a fresh approach. She is the founder of Crown Family Wellness (Neuroscience & Nutrition for Neurodiversity), which supports children and adults, and a Ministry stream dedicated to supporting church communities all across Canada and the USA.

Find out more at:
https://www.crownfamilywellness.com/about
]]>3494asr,autism,casburn,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,neuroscience,nutrition,resources,sarah,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullDan Reacts Uniquely Us Social Communicationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-reacts-uniquely-us-social-communication--62262206Uniquely Us.

Pre-order yours today at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62262206Mon, 07 Oct 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe continue to discuss the book Dan did not read before publication and what he learned from each chapter when we received our author's copies of https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus. Pre-order yours today at...Uniquely Us.

Pre-order yours today at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
]]>2506asr,autism,christian,communication,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,social,spectrum,stephanie,uniquely,usfalsefullSocial Communication through Identity Building with Carolyn Longhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/social-communication-through-identity-building-with-carolyn-long--62109971
Carolyn Long is an SLP and the creator of the Social Optics curriculum.
https://mysocialoptics.com/

Bio:
Carolyn Long, MCD, CCC-SLP, has worked in school districts, private practice, and healthcare for 23 years. She is passionate about using nonverbal and verbal communication to create and navigate social relationships.
She developed Social Optics, a neurodiverse-affirming social communication curriculum, in 2015 and the software in 2022. She believes in the inclusion of student voices in the development of interventions that lead to better outcomes based on engagement, research, and data. She lives in Montana with her husband and 2
amazing teenage daughters. She enjoys fly fishing, horseback riding, and watching others plow snow.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/62109971Mon, 30 Sep 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie and Carolyn discuss self-concept, self-identity, and self-esteem as key ingredients to building social communication skills. Carolyn's curriculum starts from a neurodiverse-affirming lens that is strengths-based and effective....
Carolyn Long is an SLP and the creator of the Social Optics curriculum.
https://mysocialoptics.com/

Bio:
Carolyn Long, MCD, CCC-SLP, has worked in school districts, private practice, and healthcare for 23 years. She is passionate about using nonverbal and verbal communication to create and navigate social relationships.
She developed Social Optics, a neurodiverse-affirming social communication curriculum, in 2015 and the software in 2022. She believes in the inclusion of student voices in the development of interventions that lead to better outcomes based on engagement, research, and data. She lives in Montana with her husband and 2
amazing teenage daughters. She enjoys fly fishing, horseback riding, and watching others plow snow.
]]>2677asr,autism,carolyn,christian,communication,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,identity,long,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,slp,social,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullPromoting Independence Safely for Young Neurodivergent Adults with Brody & Julie of Springbrookhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/promoting-independence-safely-for-young-neurodivergent-adults-with-brody-julie-of-springbrook--61226204Dr. Holmes discusses promoting safety and independence for young adults on the autism spectrum.

Brody and Julie are OTRs with Springbrook Behavioral Health. They walk you through the skills needed for young adults on the spectrum to live as independently as possible, whether outside of the home or if they need to remain at home. Helping your young adult achieve autonomy, competence, and relatedness is key to a fulfilling life and mental health!

As mentioned: https://nflyte.com
NFlyte

Bios:
Brody is a graduate of Evangel University, where he obtained his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology. From there, Brody attended Cox College, where he received his Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, he has provided OT services in the fields of Home Healthcare, Inpatient Rehabilitation, and Behavioral Health. Brody currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where he provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and occurring mental health diagnoses.

Julie is a graduate of D’Youville University, where she obtained her Bachelor's Degree in Human Occupation and minored in psychology. From there, she continued her education at D’Youville University, where she received her Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, she has provided OT services in school-based pediatric inpatient/outpatient behavioral health and chemical dependency. Her main focus has been behavioral health, which she has been
in for nine years. Julie currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where she provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and co-occurring mental health diagnoses. She is also the clinical unit director for our adolescents, who are more independent.

Julie is passionate about helping individuals with higher support needs, as her 7-year-old son has Autism.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61226204Mon, 23 Sep 2024 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes discusses promoting safety and independence for young adults on the autism spectrum. Brody and Julie are OTRs with Springbrook Behavioral Health. They walk you through the skills needed for young adults on the spectrum to live as...Dr. Holmes discusses promoting safety and independence for young adults on the autism spectrum.

Brody and Julie are OTRs with Springbrook Behavioral Health. They walk you through the skills needed for young adults on the spectrum to live as independently as possible, whether outside of the home or if they need to remain at home. Helping your young adult achieve autonomy, competence, and relatedness is key to a fulfilling life and mental health!

As mentioned: https://nflyte.com
NFlyte

Bios:
Brody is a graduate of Evangel University, where he obtained his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology. From there, Brody attended Cox College, where he received his Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, he has provided OT services in the fields of Home Healthcare, Inpatient Rehabilitation, and Behavioral Health. Brody currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where he provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and occurring mental health diagnoses.

Julie is a graduate of D’Youville University, where she obtained her Bachelor's Degree in Human Occupation and minored in psychology. From there, she continued her education at D’Youville University, where she received her Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, she has provided OT services in school-based pediatric inpatient/outpatient behavioral health and chemical dependency. Her main focus has been behavioral health, which she has been
in for nine years. Julie currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where she provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and co-occurring mental health diagnoses. She is also the clinical unit director for our adolescents, who are more independent.

Julie is passionate about helping individuals with higher support needs, as her 7-year-old son has Autism.
]]>2601asr,autism,brody,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,independence,julie,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,promoting,resources,spectrum,springbrook,stephanie,youngfalsefullAutism & NeuroNeeds with Dr. Richard Boleshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-neuroneeds-with-dr-richard-boles--61193445
About Dr. Boles
Dr. Richard G. Boles is a medical geneticist and a pediatrician who specializes in mitochondrial medicine, functional disease (including cyclic vomiting syndrome, other atypical forms of migraine, and chronic fatigue syndrome), and autism spectrum disorders. His expertise stems from decades of both clinical work and research at a major academic center, as well as from his most recent experience in cutting-edge biotechnology and genomics. He uses an innovative and integrative approach in both diagnosis and treatment to best serve his patients. Dr. Boles leads the NeuroGenomics program at NeurAbilities. Patients, physicians, and other healthcare providers can consult with Dr. Boles directly about reanalyzing previously done genetic testing results, advice for managing neurometabolic disorders, or obtain guidance on choosing and interpreting genetic testing. Neurogenomics can help to unravel the biological causes and contributions for many diseases and disorders, as well as provide vital information for changing clinical management, including:

Mitochondrial Disease and Dysfunction

Autistic Spectrum Disorders

Neurodevelopmental Disorders and Intellectual Disabilities

Chronic Pain, Fatigue, and Headache Disorders

Epilepsy/Seizures

Unexplained and Undiagnosed Disorders

And Much More

https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/

https://www.neuroneeds.com/

https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/

https://cnnh.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/NeuroGenomics-Boles-2018-web.pdf

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may disagree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61193445Mon, 16 Sep 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie Holmes podcasting from the 2023 Converge Autism Conference with conference speaker Dr. Richard Boles. Dr. Boles joins her for an in-depth discussion about how energy metabolism, when not working right, can lead to many disorders,...
About Dr. Boles
Dr. Richard G. Boles is a medical geneticist and a pediatrician who specializes in mitochondrial medicine, functional disease (including cyclic vomiting syndrome, other atypical forms of migraine, and chronic fatigue syndrome), and autism spectrum disorders. His expertise stems from decades of both clinical work and research at a major academic center, as well as from his most recent experience in cutting-edge biotechnology and genomics. He uses an innovative and integrative approach in both diagnosis and treatment to best serve his patients. Dr. Boles leads the NeuroGenomics program at NeurAbilities. Patients, physicians, and other healthcare providers can consult with Dr. Boles directly about reanalyzing previously done genetic testing results, advice for managing neurometabolic disorders, or obtain guidance on choosing and interpreting genetic testing. Neurogenomics can help to unravel the biological causes and contributions for many diseases and disorders, as well as provide vital information for changing clinical management, including:

Mitochondrial Disease and Dysfunction

Autistic Spectrum Disorders

Neurodevelopmental Disorders and Intellectual Disabilities

Chronic Pain, Fatigue, and Headache Disorders

Epilepsy/Seizures

Unexplained and Undiagnosed Disorders

And Much More

https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/

https://www.neuroneeds.com/

https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/

https://cnnh.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/NeuroGenomics-Boles-2018-web.pdf

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may disagree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>1710asr,autism,boles,christian,couples,dan,diverse,dr.,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,neuroneeds,resources,richard,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullJTG Virtualnesshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-virtualness--61193093https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61193093Wed, 11 Sep 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes3023asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,virtualnessfalsefullJoint Attention with Rosemarie Griffinhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/joint-attention-with-rosemarie-griffin--61192822
Joint attention is an essential skill for clinicians, teachers, and parents to address for the autistic child/student.

Joint attention involves shared attention between at least two people on an object or even with both people knowing they are attending to the same entity. While this is focused on students, this information is also essential for couples to learn.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61192822Mon, 09 Sep 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie interviews Rosemarie Griffin about her workshop on joint attention. Joint attention is an essential skill for clinicians, teachers, and parents to address for the autistic child/student. Joint attention involves shared attention...
Joint attention is an essential skill for clinicians, teachers, and parents to address for the autistic child/student.

Joint attention involves shared attention between at least two people on an object or even with both people knowing they are attending to the same entity. While this is focused on students, this information is also essential for couples to learn.
]]>2514asr,attention,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,griffin,holmes,joint,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rosemarie,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullDan Reacts: Uniquely Us: Executive Function vs. Lack of Executionhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-reacts-uniquely-us-executive-function-vs-lack-of-execution--61192632

Today, we discuss chapter 8 of the book written by Robin Tate, MA, MS, CAS. Dan, while ND himself, has not really studied and read very much about the spectrum. So, he reacts with questions and his interpretation of the chapter. Today, we start with a brief definition of Executive Function and talk about EF challenges vs. lack of execution. We discuss will and willpower and their role in EF.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61192632Mon, 02 Sep 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhile Dan participated in half of the new book, Uniquely Us, he did not read the chapter written by our other contributing authors in time for the book to reach the publisher by the due date. So, this next series will be Dan reacting to our new book,...

Today, we discuss chapter 8 of the book written by Robin Tate, MA, MS, CAS. Dan, while ND himself, has not really studied and read very much about the spectrum. So, he reacts with questions and his interpretation of the chapter. Today, we start with a brief definition of Executive Function and talk about EF challenges vs. lack of execution. We discuss will and willpower and their role in EF.
]]>3586asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,execution,executive,function,holmes,lack,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,uniquely,usfalsefullNeurolinguistic Programming & NeuroDiverse Couples with Meisha Marshallhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurolinguistic-programming-neurodiverse-couples-with-meisha-marshall--61020002
What is NLP?
Is it something people of faith should be concerned about?
What drew Meisha to NLP?
What are the tools that NLP offers?
Can NLP be helpful for those on the spectrum?

More on Autism and NLP
https://anlp.org/blog/using-nlp-to-help-high-functioning-autistic-children-explore-change-

Bio of Guest:
Meisha is a Marriage Coach dedicated to helping adult children of divorced parents disrupt the cycle of divorce. Her mission is to assist clients in better understanding what's really behind their challenging marital interactions, and what to do about them. Meisha's ultimate goal is to keep more families together. She achieves this by helping couples build healthier love, effective communication, mutual support, and stability.

How to find Meisha: meisha@renewmindset.com
Public Email: Connect@renewmindset.com
Business Number: (470) 444-4583
Company: Renew Mindset Coaching

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61020002Mon, 26 Aug 2024 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Holmes and guest Meisha Marshall discuss NLP. What is NLP? Is it something people of faith should be concerned about? What drew Meisha to NLP? What are the tools that NLP offers? Can NLP be helpful for those on the spectrum? More on...
What is NLP?
Is it something people of faith should be concerned about?
What drew Meisha to NLP?
What are the tools that NLP offers?
Can NLP be helpful for those on the spectrum?

More on Autism and NLP
https://anlp.org/blog/using-nlp-to-help-high-functioning-autistic-children-explore-change-

Bio of Guest:
Meisha is a Marriage Coach dedicated to helping adult children of divorced parents disrupt the cycle of divorce. Her mission is to assist clients in better understanding what's really behind their challenging marital interactions, and what to do about them. Meisha's ultimate goal is to keep more families together. She achieves this by helping couples build healthier love, effective communication, mutual support, and stability.

How to find Meisha: meisha@renewmindset.com
Public Email: Connect@renewmindset.com
Business Number: (470) 444-4583
Company: Renew Mindset Coaching

]]>2337asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,marshall,meisha,neuro,neurodiverse,neurolinguistic,programming,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullBecoming a Whole Person & NeuroDiversity as my Pageant Platformhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/becoming-a-whole-person-neurodiversity-as-my-pageant-platform--61008139
Bio:
Brittany Browne is a licensed massage therapist and contestant in the 2024 Mrs. Georgia America Pageant. Brittany’s mission on this platform is to elevate the conversation around neurodiversity, with a particular emphasis on understanding and advocating for women with autism. Her journey from acquiring a Master’s degree in International Affairs at Georgia Tech to embracing holistic healing practices, including somatic and psychedelic therapy, offers a unique lens through which she views and addresses the complexities of the human mind and body. As a late-diagnosed autistic woman, Brittany leverages her personal experiences to foster deep connections and offer empathy in her therapeutic work, making her an invaluable asset to the neurodiverse community. Outside of her professional and advocacy work, she indulges in hobbies like sand volleyball, creative arts, and violin, reflecting her commitment to a balanced and enriching lifestyle.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/61008139Mon, 19 Aug 2024 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Stephanie talks with Brittany Browne about her recent diagnosis. Many topics are covered, but a key point is the vulnerability that can occur for undiagnosed women on the spectrum. Bio: Brittany Browne is a licensed massage therapist and...
Bio:
Brittany Browne is a licensed massage therapist and contestant in the 2024 Mrs. Georgia America Pageant. Brittany’s mission on this platform is to elevate the conversation around neurodiversity, with a particular emphasis on understanding and advocating for women with autism. Her journey from acquiring a Master’s degree in International Affairs at Georgia Tech to embracing holistic healing practices, including somatic and psychedelic therapy, offers a unique lens through which she views and addresses the complexities of the human mind and body. As a late-diagnosed autistic woman, Brittany leverages her personal experiences to foster deep connections and offer empathy in her therapeutic work, making her an invaluable asset to the neurodiverse community. Outside of her professional and advocacy work, she indulges in hobbies like sand volleyball, creative arts, and violin, reflecting her commitment to a balanced and enriching lifestyle.
]]>3313asr,autism,brittany,browne,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullWomen on the Spectrum with Special Co-Host Sydney Holmes Robertshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-on-the-spectrum-with-special-co-host-sydney-holmes-roberts--60951722Usually, in this spot is Dan and Just the Guys!

Listeners requested a discussion of later-in-life diagnosed women on the spectrum and a discussion of the spectrum's similarities and differences. Stephanie and her daughter Sydney host this special edition of Just the Girls!
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60951722Wed, 14 Aug 2024 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesUsually, in this spot is Dan and Just the Guys! Listeners requested a discussion of later-in-life diagnosed women on the spectrum and a discussion of the spectrum's similarities and differences. Stephanie and her daughter Sydney host this special...Usually, in this spot is Dan and Just the Guys!

Listeners requested a discussion of later-in-life diagnosed women on the spectrum and a discussion of the spectrum's similarities and differences. Stephanie and her daughter Sydney host this special edition of Just the Girls!
]]>3411asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,sydneyfalsefullAutism Q&A with ND Clinician & Coach David Glickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-q-a-with-nd-clinician-coach-david-glick--60950197Dave is a neurodivergent clinician and an autism advocate.

Dave Glick is the founder and director of Triad Psych, P.C., and has been working in the combined fields of behavioral health, special education, and disability services since 1993. Originally trained at Boston University, he has worked as a special education teacher, behavior analyst/specialist, clinical director, disability consultant, and advocate. He holds a master's in both education and social work and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Dave founded Triad Psych, p.c. in 2003 to provide valuable resources to the special needs community.
David is also a coach!

Find out more at:
https://www.triadpsych.org/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60950197Mon, 12 Aug 2024 10:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie will bring an autism Q&A with Dave Glick. Dave is a neurodivergent clinician and an autism advocate. Dave Glick is the founder and director of Triad Psych, P.C., and has been working in the combined fields of behavioral...Dave is a neurodivergent clinician and an autism advocate.

Dave Glick is the founder and director of Triad Psych, P.C., and has been working in the combined fields of behavioral health, special education, and disability services since 1993. Originally trained at Boston University, he has worked as a special education teacher, behavior analyst/specialist, clinical director, disability consultant, and advocate. He holds a master's in both education and social work and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Dave founded Triad Psych, p.c. in 2003 to provide valuable resources to the special needs community.
David is also a coach!

Find out more at:
https://www.triadpsych.org/
]]>3088asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,david,diverse,glick,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalsefullContempt Combining Gottman Research and Bible Project Wisdomhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/contempt-combining-gottman-research-and-bible-project-wisdom--60778981This episode: Episode 10, March 4, 2024, Bible Project Sermon on the Mount Series: How is Anger the Same as Murder? Spoiler alert- when Contempt enters the picture. What does the Bible say about Contempt?
https://bibleproject.com/podcast/how-anger-same-murder/

Short animated clip: Anger, Wrath, Contempt: When is Anger the Same as Murder
https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/matthew-521-22-murder-and-contempt/

When does the Bible equate anger to murder? When does anger cross into criticism and contempt? What is the difference in giving a complaint when there is hurt and harm and criticism?

Gottman offers some antidotes to the 4 Horsemen:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/
To Criticism: A Gentle Start-Up with How Something Makes You FEEL vs. Commentary on the person

Contempt: Build a Culture of Appreciation; Wilder would call this gratitude and Joy Building

Defensiveness: Set aside your intentions and explanations- take responsibility for the hurt/harm caused, even if only partial

Stonewalling: Psychological Self-Soothing: Self Care- take a break, work through your issues, come back to the discussion/argument

Quote from Gottman Institute: "Another way that we explain this is our discovery of the 5:1 “magic ratio” of positive to negative interactions that a relationship must have to succeed. If you have five or more positive interactions for every one negative interaction, then you’re making regular deposits into your emotional bank account, which keeps your relationship in the green."
Other clinicians or counselors have called this "keep short accounts".

2 min short clip to explain Gottman's 4 Horsemen that are predicted to kill your relationship: Contempt, Criticism, Defensiveness & Stonewalling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1o30Ps-_8is

Find out more about your NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage and resources at:

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60778981Mon, 05 Aug 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesOn a recent road trip, we were listening to the Bible Project's Sermon on the Mount Series. This episode: Episode 10, March 4, 2024, Bible Project Sermon on the Mount Series: How is Anger the Same as Murder? Spoiler alert- when Contempt enters the...This episode: Episode 10, March 4, 2024, Bible Project Sermon on the Mount Series: How is Anger the Same as Murder? Spoiler alert- when Contempt enters the picture. What does the Bible say about Contempt?
https://bibleproject.com/podcast/how-anger-same-murder/

Short animated clip: Anger, Wrath, Contempt: When is Anger the Same as Murder
https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/matthew-521-22-murder-and-contempt/

When does the Bible equate anger to murder? When does anger cross into criticism and contempt? What is the difference in giving a complaint when there is hurt and harm and criticism?

Gottman offers some antidotes to the 4 Horsemen:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/
To Criticism: A Gentle Start-Up with How Something Makes You FEEL vs. Commentary on the person

Contempt: Build a Culture of Appreciation; Wilder would call this gratitude and Joy Building

Defensiveness: Set aside your intentions and explanations- take responsibility for the hurt/harm caused, even if only partial

Stonewalling: Psychological Self-Soothing: Self Care- take a break, work through your issues, come back to the discussion/argument

Quote from Gottman Institute: "Another way that we explain this is our discovery of the 5:1 “magic ratio” of positive to negative interactions that a relationship must have to succeed. If you have five or more positive interactions for every one negative interaction, then you’re making regular deposits into your emotional bank account, which keeps your relationship in the green."
Other clinicians or counselors have called this "keep short accounts".

2 min short clip to explain Gottman's 4 Horsemen that are predicted to kill your relationship: Contempt, Criticism, Defensiveness & Stonewalling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1o30Ps-_8is

Find out more about your NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage and resources at:

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses]]>2705asr,autism,bible,christian,combining,contempt,couples,dan,diverse,gottman,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,research,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wisdomfalse149fullNavigating the Maze of Executive Function Differences ASD, ADHD & AuDHD with Robin Tatehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-maze-of-executive-function-differences-asd-adhd-audhd-with-robin-tate--60778384We talk about the chapter in which she contributed to our new book.

Find out more here:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Robin describes a little about herself:
I am a professionally trained teacher and coach passionate about providing my clients with the best experience. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of living with an Asperger's Profile and/or ADHD in a neurotypical world. My approach to coaching is client-centered and strength-based. I join with clients to work through obstacles and meet self-determined goals. For Neurodivergent adults, challenges are often rooted in neurological differences, which impact communication, executive function, and/or sensory regulation. As an experienced educator, I also understand learning disabilities, learning styles, accommodations, and a toolbox of strategies.
Coaching and education services complement a variety of other professional services. When needed, I easily collaborate with other professionals and family members.

I meet with clients via online video calls (worldwide). I also meet with clients in person, as agreed to be necessary and safe on a case-by-case basis.

Find her at: https://robintatellc.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60778384Mon, 29 Jul 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Robin Tate, a life coach and NeuroDiverse Couples' coach. Today, we discuss Neurodiversity and strategies for executive functioning. We talk about the chapter in which she contributed to our new book. Find out more...We talk about the chapter in which she contributed to our new book.

Find out more here:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Robin describes a little about herself:
I am a professionally trained teacher and coach passionate about providing my clients with the best experience. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of living with an Asperger's Profile and/or ADHD in a neurotypical world. My approach to coaching is client-centered and strength-based. I join with clients to work through obstacles and meet self-determined goals. For Neurodivergent adults, challenges are often rooted in neurological differences, which impact communication, executive function, and/or sensory regulation. As an experienced educator, I also understand learning disabilities, learning styles, accommodations, and a toolbox of strategies.
Coaching and education services complement a variety of other professional services. When needed, I easily collaborate with other professionals and family members.

I meet with clients via online video calls (worldwide). I also meet with clients in person, as agreed to be necessary and safe on a case-by-case basis.

Find her at: https://robintatellc.com/
]]>3622asr,audhd,autism,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,robin,spectrum,stephanie,tatefalse1410fullAbuse, Divorce, Recovering from Marriage with Rev Iris Knapphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/abuse-divorce-recovering-from-marriage-with-rev-iris-knapp--60701649
About our Guest, Rev. Iris Knapp
Women’s Life & Discernment Coach
Iris has over 50 years of ministry experience and is now a Life Coach. She was raised Jewish and came to know Jesus as Messiah in 1969 during the “Jesus Freak” revival.

She is certified with Light University, AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling, Ministerial Licensed with IAOG International Assemblies of God Fellowship, and ND Training with the International Association of ND Christian Couples. She has personal family ties to the autism spectrum. Her passion is to see women fulfill their potential in their God-given calling, and her heart is to lead women through restoration, growth, and purpose so that they can be all that God has created them to be.

Iris has contributed to a chapter of the book Uniquely Us. Follow the launch and how to order it at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Want to work with Iris or join a group:
https://coachingwithiris.com/

The article we mentioned about apologies is:
https://www.thearticulateautistic.com/why-many-autistic-people-have-trouble-apologizing/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60701649Mon, 22 Jul 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhile Dan usually joins me, I am solo today with Rev. Iris Knapp as we talk about abuse in the neurodiverse marriage. We cover Leslie Vernick's signs of repentance and why apologizing is difficult for people on the spectrum. About our Guest, Rev....
About our Guest, Rev. Iris Knapp
Women’s Life & Discernment Coach
Iris has over 50 years of ministry experience and is now a Life Coach. She was raised Jewish and came to know Jesus as Messiah in 1969 during the “Jesus Freak” revival.

She is certified with Light University, AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling, Ministerial Licensed with IAOG International Assemblies of God Fellowship, and ND Training with the International Association of ND Christian Couples. She has personal family ties to the autism spectrum. Her passion is to see women fulfill their potential in their God-given calling, and her heart is to lead women through restoration, growth, and purpose so that they can be all that God has created them to be.

Iris has contributed to a chapter of the book Uniquely Us. Follow the launch and how to order it at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Want to work with Iris or join a group:
https://coachingwithiris.com/

The article we mentioned about apologies is:
https://www.thearticulateautistic.com/why-many-autistic-people-have-trouble-apologizing/]]>3535abuse,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,divorce,holmes,iris,knapp,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,recovery,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse149fullJTG - Now or Neverhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-now-or-never--60634909https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60634909Wed, 17 Jul 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan Holmes, the Just the Guys host today with Perry, Jeremy, and Greg, discusses learning to get things with executive functioning differences. Sometimes, it is now or never!3063asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,never,now,or,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse148fullDistinguishing Autism ADHD and_or Trauma with Kelley Ryalshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/distinguishing-autism-adhd-and-or-trauma-with-kelley-ryals--60634290
Kelley's bio in her own words:
Her focus is on helping you navigate the difficult times in life. Her biggest joy is watching an individual become happier, healthier, and more productive. She is 58 years old, a mother of five, and a grandmother of 2. She is pursuing a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and supervision with Liberty University to see as many well-trained therapists as possible.

My training and specialties are listed below.
Autism Specialist, EMDR, Depression, ADHD, Anxiety, Autism and ADHD testing, Couples, Children, Play therapy, Foster Adoptive issues trained in TBRI. IFS Level 1 trained, Level 2 Sand Tray Therapy, Level 2 Gottman trained, member of EMDRIA , the ACA and the AACC. Free Trauma and Grief groups are offered.

Find out more at: https://krcounseling.org/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60634290Mon, 15 Jul 2024 10:00:37 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesI met Kelley Ryals at the AACC conference during her poster presentation on Autism and Trauma. I wanted to have her as a guest to discuss when it is autism & trauma and when trauma is misdiagnosed as autism. Kelley's bio in her own words: Her...
Kelley's bio in her own words:
Her focus is on helping you navigate the difficult times in life. Her biggest joy is watching an individual become happier, healthier, and more productive. She is 58 years old, a mother of five, and a grandmother of 2. She is pursuing a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and supervision with Liberty University to see as many well-trained therapists as possible.

My training and specialties are listed below.
Autism Specialist, EMDR, Depression, ADHD, Anxiety, Autism and ADHD testing, Couples, Children, Play therapy, Foster Adoptive issues trained in TBRI. IFS Level 1 trained, Level 2 Sand Tray Therapy, Level 2 Gottman trained, member of EMDRIA , the ACA and the AACC. Free Trauma and Grief groups are offered.

Find out more at: https://krcounseling.org/]]>3486adhd,asr,autism,christian,couples,distinguishing,diverse,holmes,kelley,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,ryals,spectrum,stephanie,traumafalse147fullThe Role of Shame & Blame in Blocking Change in your NeuroDiverse Relationshiphttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-role-of-shame-blame-in-blocking-change-in-your-neurodiverse-relationship--60442016
About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and has completed her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families and offers support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner, and she had a neurodiverse adult child from that marriage.

She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.

NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential Zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min Consultation
 online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
 90 min intake session
 Goal setting
 ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
 HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
 Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
 Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.net

Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/

Resources:
Where to Learn more about Interpersonal Neurobiology & Christianity
⁃ Attachment (your 3 NDCC podcasts with Dr. Gill - share these episode links)
⁃ “Attachment to God” podcasts (various shows)
⁃ Tim Fletcher (Healing Complex Trauma website resources: https://www.timfletcher.ca/,
YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeaEF2gpMi_hkXvrhAVwltg)

⁃ Jim Wilder (your NDCC Enemy Mode podcast - share episode link, Life Model Works
website resources: https://lifemodelworks.org/, book: Escaping Enemy Mode)
⁃ Curt Thompson (Book: The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About
Ourselves, “NeuroFaith” podcast, “Being Known” YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/BeingKnownPodcast)
⁃ Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw (discussions of trauma, neurobiology, and healing attachment in
their “Embodied Faith” YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoTshjA7gm4rKtxPuMelx8DqrT7Rzs0UT)
Links to specific things I mention:
Spectrum Magazine: At the Intersection of Autism and Trauma (2018)
https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/intersection-autism-trauma/
Tim Fletcher Understanding Trauma
Results of Shame
Part 1
https://www.youtube.com/live/-fTAJiocAYk?si=0dvVsHcmTJnilqkE
Part 2
https://www.youtube.com/live/jfhQ_3kQ2GM?si=LebFr40ME1vb2xbq
Shame: Curt Thompson- Being Known YouTube playlist (S2, Ep 1-11)
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLHwplwueDVOFXIFbjJQ1STzUCnMUXHGNP&si=TE6H5
pPHMlKRyVak
“SIFT B” concept, discussed by Curt Thompson in Being Known YouTube podcast (S2 Ep1)

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tXXUs-
5zc1I&list=PLHwplwueDVOFXIFbjJQ1STzUCnMUXHGNP&index=3&pp=iAQB]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60442016Mon, 08 Jul 2024 10:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Stephanie and Barb talk about Shame, Blame, & Trauma. The key point is that all of us deal with shame at some point in our life, but not dealing with shame will ultimately lead to the death of something. About Barbara Grant: Barbara Grant,...
About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and has completed her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families and offers support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner, and she had a neurodiverse adult child from that marriage.

She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.

NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential Zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min Consultation
 online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
 90 min intake session
 Goal setting
 ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
 HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
 Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
 Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.net

Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/

Resources:
Where to Learn more about Interpersonal Neurobiology & Christianity
⁃ Attachment (your 3 NDCC podcasts with Dr. Gill - share these episode links)
⁃ “Attachment to God” podcasts (various shows)
⁃ Tim Fletcher (Healing Complex Trauma website resources: https://www.timfletcher.ca/,
YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeaEF2gpMi_hkXvrhAVwltg)

⁃ Jim Wilder (your NDCC Enemy Mode podcast - share episode link, Life Model Works
website resources: https://lifemodelworks.org/, book: Escaping Enemy Mode)
⁃ Curt Thompson (Book: The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About
Ourselves, “NeuroFaith” podcast, “Being Known” YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/BeingKnownPodcast)
⁃ Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw (discussions of trauma, neurobiology, and healing attachment in
their “Embodied Faith” YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoTshjA7gm4rKtxPuMelx8DqrT7Rzs0UT)
Links to specific things I mention:
Spectrum Magazine: At the Intersection of Autism and Trauma (2018)
146fullNavigating Traveling as a NeuroDiverse Couplehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-traveling-as-a-neurodiverse-couple--60426918
In this podcast, we discuss:
Accommodating each other, seeing the marriage/family as a system, and sharing the mental load. Breaking down the steps of planning, having a vacation, and returning home from vacation.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60426918Mon, 01 Jul 2024 10:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn June, we talked about what we have learned on our road trips about ourselves, each other, our faith, and our relationship with God. We got some requests about actually handling or navigating the traveling as a neurodiverse couple and family. To see...
In this podcast, we discuss:
Accommodating each other, seeing the marriage/family as a system, and sharing the mental load. Breaking down the steps of planning, having a vacation, and returning home from vacation.
]]>3310asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse145fullChampions Club Becoming a Church that Never Turns a Child Away with Pastor Craig Johnsonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/champions-club-becoming-a-church-that-never-turns-a-child-away-with-pastor-craig-johnson--60426445https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

About our Guest: Pastor Craig Johnson
Craig is currently the Associate Pastor at Lakewood Church with Joel Osteen and Co-founder of the Champions Foundation and Champions Club Developmental Centers for Special Needs, with over 110 centers in 23 countries across the world. Craig is currently serving on the US Congressionally Mandated “Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee” in Washington, DC. This committee was formulated by the Presidential signing of the Autism Cares Act. This committee gives advice and recommendations to Congress and the President regarding Federal activities related to autism spectrum disorder. He is the author of the book “Lead Vertically” Inspire People to Volunteer and Build Great Teams That Last, “Champion” How One Boy's Miraculous Journey Through Autism Is Changing the World, and “Unrehearsed Destiny” It’s Intermission, Your Second Act Is Coming.” Craig & His wife Samantha co-wrote the children’s book “You Are Extraordinary.” His greatest honor is husband to his wife of 33 years, Samantha, and father to Cory, Courtney, and Connor.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60426445Mon, 24 Jun 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie Holmes speaks with Pastor Craig Johnson of Lakewood Church about creating inclusion for kids, teens, and adults with needs and differences. Their core value is "We never ever turn away a child no matter the need!" Find out about...https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

About our Guest: Pastor Craig Johnson
Craig is currently the Associate Pastor at Lakewood Church with Joel Osteen and Co-founder of the Champions Foundation and Champions Club Developmental Centers for Special Needs, with over 110 centers in 23 countries across the world. Craig is currently serving on the US Congressionally Mandated “Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee” in Washington, DC. This committee was formulated by the Presidential signing of the Autism Cares Act. This committee gives advice and recommendations to Congress and the President regarding Federal activities related to autism spectrum disorder. He is the author of the book “Lead Vertically” Inspire People to Volunteer and Build Great Teams That Last, “Champion” How One Boy's Miraculous Journey Through Autism Is Changing the World, and “Unrehearsed Destiny” It’s Intermission, Your Second Act Is Coming.” Craig & His wife Samantha co-wrote the children’s book “You Are Extraordinary.” His greatest honor is husband to his wife of 33 years, Samantha, and father to Cory, Courtney, and Connor.]]>3216asr,autism,champions,christian,club,couples,craig,dan,diverse,holmes,johnson,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse144fullProfessional and Personal Experience of Diagnosis Bias & Autismhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/professional-and-personal-experience-of-diagnosis-bias-autism--60397835This week is Juneteenth!
It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. We welcome back Dr. Mary for this discussion.
Today, our guest is a pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience.

About Dr. Mary Jones:
I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach.
I believe there is greatness in each of us, and I’m passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout my life and career, I have had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves.
Each day, I have the privilege of spending time coaching amazing women who are reaching goals and fulfilling a compelling vision for their lives.
My vision is to see women living out their purpose and effecting change in their own spheres of influence.

Dr. Mary has contributed to a chapter in our newest book on this very topic! Follow the countdown of Uniquely US at www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

Contact her at:
https://maryjonescoaching.coachsolutions.cc/
drmaryspeaks@gmail.com

Article Dr. Mary mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/145/Supplement_1/S35/11550/Disparities-in-Service-Use-Among-Children-With?searchresult=1?autologincheck=redirected]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60397835Mon, 17 Jun 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis week is Juneteenth! It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. We welcome back Dr. Mary for this discussion. Today, our guest is a pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight...This week is Juneteenth!
It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. We welcome back Dr. Mary for this discussion.
Today, our guest is a pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience.

About Dr. Mary Jones:
I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach.
I believe there is greatness in each of us, and I’m passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout my life and career, I have had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves.
Each day, I have the privilege of spending time coaching amazing women who are reaching goals and fulfilling a compelling vision for their lives.
My vision is to see women living out their purpose and effecting change in their own spheres of influence.

Dr. Mary has contributed to a chapter in our newest book on this very topic! Follow the countdown of Uniquely US at www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com

Contact her at:
https://maryjonescoaching.coachsolutions.cc/
drmaryspeaks@gmail.com

Article Dr. Mary mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/145/Supplement_1/S35/11550/Disparities-in-Service-Use-Among-Children-With?searchresult=1?autologincheck=redirected]]>2718asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jones,marriage,marriages,mary,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse143fullJTG Sharing My Later in Life Autism Identificationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-sharing-my-later-in-life-autism-identification--60102764You asked for it!

We are answering listener requests. In 2022, the original JTG crew did a show on processing a later-in-life diagnosis. Several listeners asked that other men and women be on to process their later-in-life diagnoses.

Don't worry—the original JTG crew will be back!
This Special Edition looks at Greg, Brian, and Kevin's later-in-life Autism Identification.
Check out Brian's book
Intentional Marriage
AND
Kevin's wife, Shawna Meek's book: Determined for More
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60102764Wed, 12 Jun 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesYou asked for it! We are answering listener requests. In 2022, the original JTG crew did a show on processing a later-in-life diagnosis. Several listeners asked that other men and women be on to process their later-in-life diagnoses. Don't...You asked for it!

We are answering listener requests. In 2022, the original JTG crew did a show on processing a later-in-life diagnosis. Several listeners asked that other men and women be on to process their later-in-life diagnoses.

Don't worry—the original JTG crew will be back!
This Special Edition looks at Greg, Brian, and Kevin's later-in-life Autism Identification.
Check out Brian's book
Intentional Marriage
AND
Kevin's wife, Shawna Meek's book: Determined for More
]]>2929asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,identification,later,life,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sharing,spectrumfalse142fullHappiness, Well-being, Emotional Processing and the Autistic Brainhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happiness-well-being-emotional-processing-and-the-autistic-brain--60101078

Peter is the founder, director, CEO, lecturer, consultant, website developer, and secretary. Occasionally, Peter even cleans the office of Autism in Context, the senior Autism lecturer and consultant for Autisme Centraal, and the Chief Editor of “Sterk in Autisme!”, a bimonthly magazine of Autisme Centraal. Autisme Centraal is responsible for autism awareness campaigns and ‘autism friendliness' support activities throughout Europe. He is a Member of the Editorial Board of ‘Tijdschrift voor Orthopedagogiek, Kinderpsychiatrie en Klinische Psychologie” (Journal of Special Education, Child Psychiatry and Clinical Psychology of the University of Leuven, Belgium) (currently Chief Editor of that Journal), a reviewer for Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders; Journal of Intellectual Disability – Diagnosis and Treatment.

When Peter is not presenting, writing, driving or flying around for his job, he can usually be found on one of his 4 bicycles, trying to imitate Tour de France winners, hereby being oblivious to his age and physical state. When tired from cycling, he can be found at home with his wife and their dog (which actually is more a Gremlin than a dog). Or he is playing with his grandchild. Because the Gremlin loves the beach, Peter often spends his weekends at the seaside, savoring seafood and enjoying a good beer as a descendant of a brewing family.

www.petervermeulen.be

Our other podcast with Dr. Peter on predictive error coding is found here: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/predictive-coding-dr-vermeulen--50520574

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60101078Mon, 10 Jun 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday's guest has been on the podcast before when we discussed predictive error coding and the autistic brain; Dr. Peter Vermeulen Peter is the founder, director, CEO, lecturer, consultant, website developer, and secretary. Occasionally, Peter even...

Peter is the founder, director, CEO, lecturer, consultant, website developer, and secretary. Occasionally, Peter even cleans the office of Autism in Context, the senior Autism lecturer and consultant for Autisme Centraal, and the Chief Editor of “Sterk in Autisme!”, a bimonthly magazine of Autisme Centraal. Autisme Centraal is responsible for autism awareness campaigns and ‘autism friendliness' support activities throughout Europe. He is a Member of the Editorial Board of ‘Tijdschrift voor Orthopedagogiek, Kinderpsychiatrie en Klinische Psychologie” (Journal of Special Education, Child Psychiatry and Clinical Psychology of the University of Leuven, Belgium) (currently Chief Editor of that Journal), a reviewer for Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders; Journal of Intellectual Disability – Diagnosis and Treatment.

When Peter is not presenting, writing, driving or flying around for his job, he can usually be found on one of his 4 bicycles, trying to imitate Tour de France winners, hereby being oblivious to his age and physical state. When tired from cycling, he can be found at home with his wife and their dog (which actually is more a Gremlin than a dog). Or he is playing with his grandchild. Because the Gremlin loves the beach, Peter often spends his weekends at the seaside, savoring seafood and enjoying a good beer as a descendant of a brewing family.

www.petervermeulen.be

Our other podcast with Dr. Peter on predictive error coding is found here: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/predictive-coding-dr-vermeulen--50520574

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>3451asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,emotional,happiness,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,peter,processing,resources,spectrum,stephanie,vermeulen,well beingfalse141fullRoadtrippin' & Righteous Relationship Buildinghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/roadtrippin-righteous-relationship-building--60216052
We start our discussion with the real definition of righteousness: returning to Eden and being naked and unashamed. What is an Ezer Kenegdo? Your neurodiverse relationship can be healthy when you first get in the right relationship with God and each other, rule together and not apart, and advance the Kingdom together! Two are better than one!
Do you want your home to be your Eden or where the Chaos Monster lives?

We mentioned:
Eden Podcast (Bruce CE Fleming)

The Bible Project

The Israel Bible Podcast

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60216052Mon, 03 Jun 2024 13:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe have been taking many road trips these past four years in the quest to visit all 50 states! We listen to podcasts, and podcasting and learning from podcasts has become a shared activity of connection! We start our discussion with the real...
We start our discussion with the real definition of righteousness: returning to Eden and being naked and unashamed. What is an Ezer Kenegdo? Your neurodiverse relationship can be healthy when you first get in the right relationship with God and each other, rule together and not apart, and advance the Kingdom together! Two are better than one!
Do you want your home to be your Eden or where the Chaos Monster lives?

We mentioned:
Eden Podcast (Bruce CE Fleming)

The Bible Project

The Israel Bible Podcast

]]>2678asr,autism,building,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,relationship,resources,righteous,roadtrippin,spectrum,stephaniefalse1312fullMemory, Motivation, Identity & Video Games with Dr. Kevin Hullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/memory-motivation-identity-video-games-with-dr-kevin-hull--60098683We talk about:
Autobiographical memory
Identity and Autism
Neuroplasticity
Videogaming- the good, the bad and the therapeutic

About Dr. Kevin Hull:
Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A., a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy. His dissertation examined video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, golfing, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy, and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement of all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60098683Mon, 27 May 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Kevin discuss a few topics. The blogs Dr. Stephanie mentions come from Dr. Kevin's blogs on his site. We talk about: Autobiographical memory Identity and Autism Neuroplasticity Videogaming- the good, the bad and the...We talk about:
Autobiographical memory
Identity and Autism
Neuroplasticity
Videogaming- the good, the bad and the therapeutic

About Dr. Kevin Hull:
Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A., a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy. His dissertation examined video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, golfing, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy, and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement of all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>3875asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,games,holmes,hull,identity,kevin,marriage,marriages,motivation,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,videofalse1311fullShould Women be Silent with Bruce Fleminghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/should-women-be-silent-with-bruce-fleming--60097114
About:
Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming holds three graduate and post-graduate degrees in theology: an M.Div. and Th.M. from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and a D.E.A. from the University of Strasbourg, France. Ordained by the Evangelical Free Church of America, he has been a pastor, professor of Practical Theology, and academic dean on the graduate-school level in French-speaking Africa. He has co-founded several churches and parachurch organizations. Bruce and his wife, Dr. Joy Elasky Fleming, have been married for more than 25 years and are the parents of Christy and Mark. They live in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming has written books on the topics discussed in this podcast.

God did not curse Eve or limit women in any way. Sadly, modern translations of Genesis 3:16 make it look like God did both. God didn't curse Adam either, but God did speak to him in a way exactly parallel to the other rebel in the Garden of Eden, the serpent-tempter. And two curses were imposed by God because of them. People have made up many myths and stories about what supposedly happened in Eden. They make it seem like God cursed the woman and that she somehow deserved it. She didn’t. They make it seem like God instituted the man’s bad behavior toward his wife. God didn’t. The Bible tells us what really happened.
This book is all about what God really said, especially in Genesis 3:16. When these chapters in Genesis are rightly understood, and we gain a true view of what God really said to the woman in Genesis 3:16, many New Testament passages can be reinvestigated. They, too, can be cleared away of the bias we find popping up in translations of and commentary on several key passages in the New Testament that look back to Genesis 2 and 3. This book is based on the episodes of Season One of The Eden Podcast
https://tru316.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/60097114Mon, 20 May 2024 14:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Rev. Holmes and Dr. Holmes as they interview Bruce C.E. Fleming. This is our 3rd interview with Bruce an today we will discuss 1 Timothy and "let the women learn in silence." How does this reflect back to the creation of women and the role of...
About:
Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming holds three graduate and post-graduate degrees in theology: an M.Div. and Th.M. from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and a D.E.A. from the University of Strasbourg, France. Ordained by the Evangelical Free Church of America, he has been a pastor, professor of Practical Theology, and academic dean on the graduate-school level in French-speaking Africa. He has co-founded several churches and parachurch organizations. Bruce and his wife, Dr. Joy Elasky Fleming, have been married for more than 25 years and are the parents of Christy and Mark. They live in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming has written books on the topics discussed in this podcast.

God did not curse Eve or limit women in any way. Sadly, modern translations of Genesis 3:16 make it look like God did both. God didn't curse Adam either, but God did speak to him in a way exactly parallel to the other rebel in the Garden of Eden, the serpent-tempter. And two curses were imposed by God because of them. People have made up many myths and stories about what supposedly happened in Eden. They make it seem like God cursed the woman and that she somehow deserved it. She didn’t. They make it seem like God instituted the man’s bad behavior toward his wife. God didn’t. The Bible tells us what really happened.
This book is all about what God really said, especially in Genesis 3:16. When these chapters in Genesis are rightly understood, and we gain a true view of what God really said to the woman in Genesis 3:16, many New Testament passages can be reinvestigated. They, too, can be cleared away of the bias we find popping up in translations of and commentary on several key passages in the New Testament that look back to Genesis 2 and 3. This book is based on the episodes of Season One of The Eden Podcast
https://tru316.com/
]]>3188asr,autism,bruce,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fleming,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,silent,spectrum,stephaniefalse1310fullWhat Even IS Neurodiversityhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-even-is-neurodiversity--59982432Is the term useful?

Dr. Holmes adds she prefers the Harvard Medical School definition of neurodiversity, which describes those with neurological differences such as autism, ADHD, learning differences and delays, and other developmental differences.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59982432Wed, 15 May 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and the guys (Clay, Greg, Jeremy, & Mark) discuss their views of neurodiversity. What is it? Is this movement a good thing or not? How do you define it? Is the term useful? Dr. Holmes adds she prefers the Harvard Medical School definition of...Is the term useful?

Dr. Holmes adds she prefers the Harvard Medical School definition of neurodiversity, which describes those with neurological differences such as autism, ADHD, learning differences and delays, and other developmental differences.]]>3440asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalse139fullFruit Filled Co-parenting as a NeuroDiverse Couple with Team Rochfordhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fruit-filled-co-parenting-as-a-neurodiverse-couple-with-team-rochford--59982015https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Dan and Stephanie have a family book out right now that was mentioned! Great insight into parenting, what we did right and hindsight learning. Erica speaks to what it is like having a dad on the spectrum at :
www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

Find out more about Team Rochford:
Jeremy and Charity, Team Rochford, as they are affectionately known, are an ND/NT couple who have been happily married for over 20 years. They have two Neurodivergent children, both of whom are on the Autism spectrum, and most likely, they inherited those genes from Jeremy, who himself received an Autism/ADHD diagnosis later in life.

Both are Trauma-Informed (TI) Certified Life Coaches (CLC) who specialize in helping Neurodivergent and Neurodiverse Families understand communication, culture, and their unique family dynamic. Together, as a Neurodiverse couple and family, they've founded NeuroFam (www.OurNeuroFam.com) to support other ND/NT families through the intricacies of navigating life in a world that (far too often) doesn’t understand their struggles.

Jeremy, with his BA in Communication (California University of Pennsylvania), and Charity, with her BA in Psychology (California University of Pennsylvania), live in a small town outside of Pittsburgh, PA, with their two awesomely neurodivergent children, an overused coffee maker, and multiple emotional support stuffed animals.

Reach out to them at: https://www.ourneurofam.com/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59982015Mon, 13 May 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesCharity and Jeremy Rochford have contributed to the upcoming book: Uniquely Us. Watch the countdown as: https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus Dan and Stephanie have a family book out right now that was mentioned! Great insight into...https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus

Dan and Stephanie have a family book out right now that was mentioned! Great insight into parenting, what we did right and hindsight learning. Erica speaks to what it is like having a dad on the spectrum at :
www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

Find out more about Team Rochford:
Jeremy and Charity, Team Rochford, as they are affectionately known, are an ND/NT couple who have been happily married for over 20 years. They have two Neurodivergent children, both of whom are on the Autism spectrum, and most likely, they inherited those genes from Jeremy, who himself received an Autism/ADHD diagnosis later in life.

Both are Trauma-Informed (TI) Certified Life Coaches (CLC) who specialize in helping Neurodivergent and Neurodiverse Families understand communication, culture, and their unique family dynamic. Together, as a Neurodiverse couple and family, they've founded NeuroFam (www.OurNeuroFam.com) to support other ND/NT families through the intricacies of navigating life in a world that (far too often) doesn’t understand their struggles.

Jeremy, with his BA in Communication (California University of Pennsylvania), and Charity, with her BA in Psychology (California University of Pennsylvania), live in a small town outside of Pittsburgh, PA, with their two awesomely neurodivergent children, an overused coffee maker, and multiple emotional support stuffed animals.

Reach out to them at: https://www.ourneurofam.com/
]]>3749asr,autism,charity,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeremy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rochford,spectrum,stephaniefalse138fullQ&A with Dan and Stephaniehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/q-a-with-dan-and-stephanie--59859717
Several questions came in, and we got to about 2/3 of them!

Questions such as:
What are realistic expectations for a successful ND marriage?

What does maintenance look like?

Is having a diagnosis helpful? Why or Why Not?

Dan, do you struggle to start deep conversations with your wife and girls?

What tools have you found helpful?
A few more!

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59859717Mon, 06 May 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe (I Stephanie) asked listeners on social media, "What would you like to ask us or what would you like to know about Neurodiverse Marriages?" Several questions came in, and we got to about 2/3 of them! Questions such as: - What are realistic...
Several questions came in, and we got to about 2/3 of them!

Questions such as:
What are realistic expectations for a successful ND marriage?

What does maintenance look like?

Is having a diagnosis helpful? Why or Why Not?

Dan, do you struggle to start deep conversations with your wife and girls?

What tools have you found helpful?
A few more!

]]>3538asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,q&a,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse137fullNavigating a Complex and Adversarial NeuroDiverse Divorce with CDFA Rhonda Noordykhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-a-complex-and-adversarial-neurodiverse-divorce-with-cdfa-rhonda-noordyk--59149234
A CDFA®, which stands for Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, is a financial expert who specializes in helping women navigate the complex world of divorce. I combine my knowledge of finance with my understanding of the legal aspects of divorce to provide valuable guidance and support during this challenging time.

Now, you might be wondering,

"Why would I need a CDFA® when I'm going through a divorce?"

I will help you understand your current financial situation. We’ll work to create a realistic and comprehensive financial plan to help us develop a strategy that ensures you're financially secure both now and in the years to come. I understand how to work with attorneys and other divorce professionals. This teamwork helps to create a solid foundation for negotiating a fair settlement.

So, having me on your side during a divorce can be a total game-changer.

About Rhonda from her website:
https://wfwcdivorce.com/about-3
It became clear to Rhonda that women going through divorce needed someone who was:

Strategic and knowledgeable to help them prepare their financials before, during, and after the divorce so that they could live the quality of life they deserved.

Empowering them with financial knowledge and giving them clarity to make the right decisions.

Providing compassion and a steady voice when the circumstances were emotional and overwhelming.

‌
So, Rhonda became an advocate for women who were going through a divorce.

‌For her clients, this often means being able to provide a great home for their family, continue to send the kids to private school, invest in causes that are important to her, buy a rental property for income, start a business, take a vacation, and live their best lives.

With 17,000 hours, 565 clients, and $20 million back in the hands of women going through divorce later, Rhonda is committed to filling the gap between traditional financial advisors and divorce support groups for women.

Contact:
Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA
925-940-3056
info@wfwcllc.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59149234Mon, 29 Apr 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhile we are pro-marriage and pro-covenant. Sometimes abuse, unrepentant addiction, and adultery break the vows and can lead to divorce. Divorce from a Christian AS man can get very adversarial and messy. If you have wrestled through and find that you...
A CDFA®, which stands for Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, is a financial expert who specializes in helping women navigate the complex world of divorce. I combine my knowledge of finance with my understanding of the legal aspects of divorce to provide valuable guidance and support during this challenging time.

Now, you might be wondering,

"Why would I need a CDFA® when I'm going through a divorce?"

I will help you understand your current financial situation. We’ll work to create a realistic and comprehensive financial plan to help us develop a strategy that ensures you're financially secure both now and in the years to come. I understand how to work with attorneys and other divorce professionals. This teamwork helps to create a solid foundation for negotiating a fair settlement.

So, having me on your side during a divorce can be a total game-changer.

About Rhonda from her website:
https://wfwcdivorce.com/about-3
It became clear to Rhonda that women going through divorce needed someone who was:

Strategic and knowledgeable to help them prepare their financials before, during, and after the divorce so that they could live the quality of life they deserved.

Empowering them with financial knowledge and giving them clarity to make the right decisions.

Providing compassion and a steady voice when the circumstances were emotional and overwhelming.

‌
So, Rhonda became an advocate for women who were going through a divorce.

‌For her clients, this often means being able to provide a great home for their family, continue to send the kids to private school, invest in causes that are important to her, buy a rental property for income, start a business, take a vacation, and live their best lives.

With 17,000 hours, 565 clients, and $20 million back in the hands of women going through divorce later, Rhonda is committed to filling the gap between traditional financial advisors and divorce support groups for women.

Contact:
Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA
925-940-3056
info@wfwcllc.com]]>3010adversarial,asr,autism,cdfa,christian,complex,couples,diverse,divorce,holmes,marriage,marriages,navigating,neuro,neurodiverse,noordyk,resources,rhonda,spectrum,stephaniefalse136fullA Story of Determination with Divorce, Remarriage, Infidelity, Betrayal Trauma and Autismhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-story-of-determination-with-divorce-remarriage-infidelity-betrayal-trauma-and-autism--59460102

Kevin & Shawna Bios
As a husband and wife determined for more in their relationship, Kevin and Shawna candidly share their journey toward healing and hope after their own divorce, remarriage to one another, infidelity, betrayal trauma, emotional deprivation, and a mid-life autism diagnosis.
Shawna is a professional certified coach and author. Her professional focus is supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma with infidelity, problematic sexual behavior, and porn use. In recent years, she has focused on the additional lens for couples in a neurodiverse marriage with autism and Asperger profiles.

She is the founder and owner of Living Stones Coaching, Mentoring, and Consulting, based in Arizona. She is the author of the book Determined for More, based on their own 25-year marriage journey.
Kevin, also with Living Stones, comes alongside men as a mentor and accountability support for their struggles with problematic sexual behavior, those diagnosed or considering evaluation of autism (ASD1), and those seeking recovery, desiring to focus on growth and improving their relationships. They support clients internationally and have an approach that is very personalized, relatable, and validating to each unique situation. They have a passion for supporting others on their healing journey, providing guidance and tools needed to navigate through difficult and often devastating circumstances.

Look for Shawna's book coming out in April of 2024: Determined for More.

This is a story about the raw truths and realities of finding strength in a complex, neurodiverse marriage following divorce, remarriage, betrayal trauma, and emotional deprivation.

Living Stones Website at www.livingstonescoaching.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59460102Mon, 22 Apr 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan and Stephanie talked with Kevin and Shawna Meek. Their story of divorce and remarriage to each other through infidelity and discovering their neurodiversity. Stephanie and Shawna spoke back in February about her betrayal trauma with the...

Kevin & Shawna Bios
As a husband and wife determined for more in their relationship, Kevin and Shawna candidly share their journey toward healing and hope after their own divorce, remarriage to one another, infidelity, betrayal trauma, emotional deprivation, and a mid-life autism diagnosis.
Shawna is a professional certified coach and author. Her professional focus is supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma with infidelity, problematic sexual behavior, and porn use. In recent years, she has focused on the additional lens for couples in a neurodiverse marriage with autism and Asperger profiles.

She is the founder and owner of Living Stones Coaching, Mentoring, and Consulting, based in Arizona. She is the author of the book Determined for More, based on their own 25-year marriage journey.
Kevin, also with Living Stones, comes alongside men as a mentor and accountability support for their struggles with problematic sexual behavior, those diagnosed or considering evaluation of autism (ASD1), and those seeking recovery, desiring to focus on growth and improving their relationships. They support clients internationally and have an approach that is very personalized, relatable, and validating to each unique situation. They have a passion for supporting others on their healing journey, providing guidance and tools needed to navigate through difficult and often devastating circumstances.

Look for Shawna's book coming out in April of 2024: Determined for More.

This is a story about the raw truths and realities of finding strength in a complex, neurodiverse marriage following divorce, remarriage, betrayal trauma, and emotional deprivation.

Living Stones Website at www.livingstonescoaching.com]]>3600asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,divorce,holmes,infidelity,kevin,marriage,marriages,meek,neuro,neurodiverse,remarriage,resources,shawna,spectrum,stephaniefalse125fullJTG An Intentional Marriage with Brian Highthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-an-intentional-marriage-with-brian-hight--59459166

Brian Hight has a career dedicated to servicing marine and laboratory electronics, where he honed his understanding of technically intricate systems. Outside of work, his passions include hiking, electronics, and clay and stone carving, forming a blend of technical precision and creative exploration. He lives in New Zealand with his wife, Sheila, and has one daughter.
You can find his book An Intentional Marriage at:
https://www.amazon.com/Intentional-Marriage-Tools-Stronger-Relationship-ebook/dp/B0CW1FMQBH
Print book coming soon!

About the Book:
Brian Hight takes us on a deeply personal journey, revealing how unintentionality nearly shattered his marriage. While his Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD-1) and introverted nature played a role, it was ultimately his choice to stop investing in his relationship that led to the crisis. With raw honesty, Brian shares his struggles and triumphs, offering insights into the tools that helped him regain mental, emotional, and relational strength.

This book isn't just a memoir; it's a guide for anyone seeking to forge a path of intentionality in their own relationships. The author's experiences serve as a beacon of hope, illustrating that this journey is not a single event but a lifelong commitment to finding the best in yourself, your world, and especially in your significant relationships.
The second half of this book is a toolbox of tips, tools, and techniques that discuss ideas and activities that the author has used as part of his journey toward intentionality. Some are practical, and others are conceptual, but all of them have helped him focus on how he can be more present to himself, his surroundings, and especially to his wife and marriage.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59459166Wed, 17 Apr 2024 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJust the Guys has its first guest, author Brian Hight. Brian and the guys talk about his book and being intentional! Brian Hight has a career dedicated to servicing marine and laboratory electronics, where he honed his understanding of technically...

Brian Hight has a career dedicated to servicing marine and laboratory electronics, where he honed his understanding of technically intricate systems. Outside of work, his passions include hiking, electronics, and clay and stone carving, forming a blend of technical precision and creative exploration. He lives in New Zealand with his wife, Sheila, and has one daughter.
You can find his book An Intentional Marriage at:
https://www.amazon.com/Intentional-Marriage-Tools-Stronger-Relationship-ebook/dp/B0CW1FMQBH
Print book coming soon!

About the Book:
Brian Hight takes us on a deeply personal journey, revealing how unintentionality nearly shattered his marriage. While his Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD-1) and introverted nature played a role, it was ultimately his choice to stop investing in his relationship that led to the crisis. With raw honesty, Brian shares his struggles and triumphs, offering insights into the tools that helped him regain mental, emotional, and relational strength.

This book isn't just a memoir; it's a guide for anyone seeking to forge a path of intentionality in their own relationships. The author's experiences serve as a beacon of hope, illustrating that this journey is not a single event but a lifelong commitment to finding the best in yourself, your world, and especially in your significant relationships.
The second half of this book is a toolbox of tips, tools, and techniques that discuss ideas and activities that the author has used as part of his journey toward intentionality. Some are practical, and others are conceptual, but all of them have helped him focus on how he can be more present to himself, his surroundings, and especially to his wife and marriage.
]]>3377asr,autism,brian,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,hight,holmes,intentional,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalse124fullMinding your Joy Gap in your NeuroDiverse Marriage with Chris Courseyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/minding-your-joy-gap-in-your-neurodiverse-marriage-with-chris-coursey--59073938
Today we discuss?
What is Joy?

Can I have Joy while things are bad?

What is a Joy -Gap?

How are quieting and joy related?

What is the difference between solitude/isolation and quieting my brain?

About our Guest:
For over 25 years, Chris has been developing and practicing brain-based solutions to make relationships work. He started out his career specializing in severe trauma and abuse and also pastored a small congregation in Michigan for a number of years. Chris is a published author with ten books in print, including “The Joy Switch: How Your Brain’s Secret Circuit Affects Your Relationships - And How You Can Activate It.” He co-authored his most recent book, “The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled People” with Dr. Marcus Warner.

Chris enjoys spending time with his wife, Jen, and their two sons, Matthew and Andrew. In addition to studying, writing, jogging, and exercising, he enjoys the outdoors and is one of the rare people who actually likes the snow.

Find out more- how to practice and learn skills we mentioned today at:
https://thrivetoday.org/relationalskills/
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59073938Mon, 15 Apr 2024 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIf you have been following our podcasts for a bit, you know we are fans of Dr. Jim Wilder, and we talk about joy, hesed, group identity, and healthy correction often. Today, we have with us Chris Coursey, who has authored and co-authored several books...
Today we discuss?
What is Joy?

Can I have Joy while things are bad?

What is a Joy -Gap?

How are quieting and joy related?

What is the difference between solitude/isolation and quieting my brain?

About our Guest:
For over 25 years, Chris has been developing and practicing brain-based solutions to make relationships work. He started out his career specializing in severe trauma and abuse and also pastored a small congregation in Michigan for a number of years. Chris is a published author with ten books in print, including “The Joy Switch: How Your Brain’s Secret Circuit Affects Your Relationships - And How You Can Activate It.” He co-authored his most recent book, “The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled People” with Dr. Marcus Warner.

Chris enjoys spending time with his wife, Jen, and their two sons, Matthew and Andrew. In addition to studying, writing, jogging, and exercising, he enjoys the outdoors and is one of the rare people who actually likes the snow.

Find out more- how to practice and learn skills we mentioned today at:
https://thrivetoday.org/relationalskills/
]]>3191asr,autism,chris,christian,couples,coursey,dan,diverse,gap,holmes,joy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse123fullTrue Transformation & Building Your Relational Skills with Michel Hendrickshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/true-transformation-building-your-relational-skills-with-michel-hendricks--59142857
About our Guest:
MICHEL HENDRICKS (MDiv, Denver Seminary; BS, University of Colorado) has been a teacher and trainer for more than twenty-five years. He is the former pastor of spiritual formation at Flatirons Community Church in Lafayette, CO. He has also served and trained people in Argentina, Bolivia, Mexico, Kenya, South Sudan, and Uganda. He is the author of Basic Training for Walking With Jesus and Intentional Apprenticeship. He and his wife, Claudia, have three adult children.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59142857Mon, 08 Apr 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIf you have been following the podcast, you have heard Dan and Stephanie talk about joy, hesed, group identity, and healthy transformation. Today, we talk with Michel Hendriks, the co-author of The Other Half of Church. About our Guest: MICHEL...
About our Guest:
MICHEL HENDRICKS (MDiv, Denver Seminary; BS, University of Colorado) has been a teacher and trainer for more than twenty-five years. He is the former pastor of spiritual formation at Flatirons Community Church in Lafayette, CO. He has also served and trained people in Argentina, Bolivia, Mexico, Kenya, South Sudan, and Uganda. He is the author of Basic Training for Walking With Jesus and Intentional Apprenticeship. He and his wife, Claudia, have three adult children.
]]>3134asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,hendricks,holmes,marriage,marriages,michel,neuro,neurodiverse,relational,resources,skills,spectrum,stephanie,transformation,truefalse132fullReceiving Feedback: Do you have a Fixed or Growth Mindset?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/receiving-feedback-do-you-have-a-fixed-or-growth-mindset--59154069
If you really want to do a deep dive into Feedback skills- take our course as a self-study or reach out for coaching!

www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com
Group Coaching- Select Receiving Feedback and Relational Skills
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/59154069Mon, 01 Apr 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan and Stephanie talk about blindspots, receiving feedback, perspective-taking, and the Johari window. What is the Johari window? Listen to find out! If you really want to do a deep dive into Feedback skills- take our course as a self-study...
If you really want to do a deep dive into Feedback skills- take our course as a self-study or reach out for coaching!

www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com
Group Coaching- Select Receiving Feedback and Relational Skills
]]>3118asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,feedback,fixed,growth,holmes,marriage,marriages,mindset,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse131fullFrom TBIs to TIAs, and Personality Pathologies & Autismhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-tbis-to-tias-and-personality-pathologies-autism--58936640
From Jodi's website about her:
Throughout my journey as a therapist, educator, and coach, I have amassed more than 20 years of experience helping people with a multitude of challenges, including autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma, abuse, and codependency. I completed a bachelor’s degree in psychology in 1997 and received a master’s degree in counseling in 2000. I am trauma-certified and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy and hypnosis.

Although my professional training and experience have provided tremendous knowledge and insight, it was my 19-year neurodiverse marriage, being a mom to my autistic daughter and ADHD son, and my relationships with other neurodiverse loved ones that have truly served as my personal training ground for understanding and embracing neurodiversity.

In addition, I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse in multiple relationships beginning in childhood. I know the feelings of confusion, heartbreak, resentment, anger, terror, desperation, and hopelessness. I have been love-bombed, devalued, discarded, physically and verbally intimidated, and gaslighted. I have experienced shame, guilt, humiliation, and the desperate desire to be loved by others who were incapable. Through years of my own therapy, I unraveled and healed from my own traumatic abuse. I confronted codependency, a dysfunctional survival mechanism from childhood that I brought into my adult relationship. I have emerged wiser and stronger. I learned to love and value myself, allowing me to safely and securely love and be loved by others through connected communication, healthy boundaries, realistic expectations, care, empathy, compassion, and affection.

My abusive past caused fear and uncertainty for me in my neurodiverse relationships, which are fundamentally confusing for individuals who are neurological hard-wired differently from one another. Over time, I’ve noticed a common pattern in relationships where both neurotypical and neurodivergent partners have often endured abuse in their past relationships or during childhood. This history hinders partners from establishing safety and building trust that is necessary to cultivate a loving connection.

Today, I am compelled to support others in finding their way through confusion and hardship, ultimately leading them to clarity, peace, and joy in their lives. I have built an educational and coaching program aimed at assisting you in comprehending yourself and understanding your loved ones better. Moreover, this program equips you with valuable tools to make informed decisions and enhances your communication and connection skills, enabling you to thrive in relationships.

Find Jodi's courses or more information about Jodi at:
https://jodicarlton.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58936640Mon, 25 Mar 2024 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we talked about TBI, TIA, and when autism is combined with personality pathologies such as narcissism. From Jodi's website about her: Throughout my journey as a therapist, educator, and coach, I have amassed more than 20 years of experience...
From Jodi's website about her:
Throughout my journey as a therapist, educator, and coach, I have amassed more than 20 years of experience helping people with a multitude of challenges, including autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma, abuse, and codependency. I completed a bachelor’s degree in psychology in 1997 and received a master’s degree in counseling in 2000. I am trauma-certified and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy and hypnosis.

Although my professional training and experience have provided tremendous knowledge and insight, it was my 19-year neurodiverse marriage, being a mom to my autistic daughter and ADHD son, and my relationships with other neurodiverse loved ones that have truly served as my personal training ground for understanding and embracing neurodiversity.

In addition, I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse in multiple relationships beginning in childhood. I know the feelings of confusion, heartbreak, resentment, anger, terror, desperation, and hopelessness. I have been love-bombed, devalued, discarded, physically and verbally intimidated, and gaslighted. I have experienced shame, guilt, humiliation, and the desperate desire to be loved by others who were incapable. Through years of my own therapy, I unraveled and healed from my own traumatic abuse. I confronted codependency, a dysfunctional survival mechanism from childhood that I brought into my adult relationship. I have emerged wiser and stronger. I learned to love and value myself, allowing me to safely and securely love and be loved by others through connected communication, healthy boundaries, realistic expectations, care, empathy, compassion, and affection.

My abusive past caused fear and uncertainty for me in my neurodiverse relationships, which are fundamentally confusing for individuals who are neurological hard-wired differently from one another. Over time, I’ve noticed a common pattern in relationships where both neurotypical and neurodivergent partners have often endured abuse in their past relationships or during childhood. This history hinders partners from establishing safety and building trust that is necessary to cultivate a loving connection.

Today, I am compelled to support others in finding their way through confusion and hardship, ultimately leading them to clarity, peace, and joy in their lives. I have built an educational and coaching program aimed at assisting you in comprehending yourself and understanding your loved ones better. Moreover, this program equips you with valuable tools to make informed decisions and enhances your communication and connection skills, enabling you to thrive in relationships.

Find Jodi's courses or more information about Jodi at:
https://jodicarlton.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>4292asr,autism,carlton,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jodi,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,pathologies,personality,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tbas,tbisfalse1210fullProcessing my New NeuroDivergent Identity with Kristin Walkerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/processing-my-new-neurodivergent-identity-with-kristin-walker--58995427
About Kristin:
Kristin Walker is the founder of the Mental Health News Radio Network and the Autism Podcast Network. With over 75 individual podcasts covering all aspects of mental health, she continues to host her own podcasts. She nurtures others who want to spread awareness, inclusion, and knowledge of their mental health journeys via their podcasts.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58995427Mon, 18 Mar 2024 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Stephanie interviews Kristin Walker about her later-in-life autism diagnosis. About Kristin: Kristin Walker is the founder of the Mental Health News Radio Network and the Autism Podcast Network. With over 75 individual podcasts covering...
About Kristin:
Kristin Walker is the founder of the Mental Health News Radio Network and the Autism Podcast Network. With over 75 individual podcasts covering all aspects of mental health, she continues to host her own podcasts. She nurtures others who want to spread awareness, inclusion, and knowledge of their mental health journeys via their podcasts.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>2688asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,kristin,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,walkerfalse129fullJTG Summer (in)Sensitivitieshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-summer-in-sensitivities--58934728https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58934728Wed, 13 Mar 2024 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes2770asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jeremy,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sensitivities,spectrum,thefalse128fullCo-Occurring Issues with Autism Dr. Ratliff Schaubhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/co-occurring-issues-with-autism-dr-ratliff-schaub--58933822Dr. Karen discusses common medical issues that may also occur for her patients on the spectrum.

Bio
Dr. Ratliff-Schaub is the Medical Director of Developmental Pediatrics and Program Director of the Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrics Fellowship at Prisma Health Upstate Children's Hospital. She is an Associate Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at the University of South Carolina Greenville School of Medicine. Prior to coming to Greenville in 2018, Dr. Ratliff-Schaub was faculty at The Ohio State University and The University of Toledo. She graduated from Northeast Ohio Medical University, did her Pediatric Residency at Medical College of Ohio and Developmental-Behavioral Pediatric fellowship at University of Maryland. She has extensive experience in Autism and quality improvement and is passionate about improving access to care for children with autism.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our beliefs and faith.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58933822Mon, 11 Mar 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes and Dr. Ratliff Schaub as they discuss differentiating autism from other issues as well as the prevalence and genetic issues associated with Autism. Dr. Karen discusses common medical issues that may also occur for her patients on the...Dr. Karen discusses common medical issues that may also occur for her patients on the spectrum.

Bio
Dr. Ratliff-Schaub is the Medical Director of Developmental Pediatrics and Program Director of the Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrics Fellowship at Prisma Health Upstate Children's Hospital. She is an Associate Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at the University of South Carolina Greenville School of Medicine. Prior to coming to Greenville in 2018, Dr. Ratliff-Schaub was faculty at The Ohio State University and The University of Toledo. She graduated from Northeast Ohio Medical University, did her Pediatric Residency at Medical College of Ohio and Developmental-Behavioral Pediatric fellowship at University of Maryland. She has extensive experience in Autism and quality improvement and is passionate about improving access to care for children with autism.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our beliefs and faith.]]>2525asr,autism,christian,cooccuring,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,ratliff,resources,schaub,spectrum,stephaniefalse127fullThe Lost Art of Relationship Conflict Resolution with Dan Chrystalhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-lost-art-of-relationship-conflict-resolution-with-dan-chrystal--58898802
About our Guest, Dan Chrystal:
Dan Chrystal, MBA, is a husband, father, author, speaker, and life coach. He has over 28 years in executive leadership and relational coaching, including six years as an administrative officer of a large faith-based nonprofit organization, and also served as the Director of Sponsorship and National Church Relations for Bayside Church in Roseville, CA. Dan is passionate about helping others love their neighbors as themselves and is a dedicated life, career, and couples coach. He holds an MBA in Executive Leadership from Purdue Global University and is currently studying Law at Purdue Global University Law School. Dan’s ministry experience spans almost all pastoral positions. He is a committed student of “Relationships” and believes deep, meaningful relationships are God’s design for us. He is the author of Lost Art of Relationship and Discussions for Better Relationships.

For more, see Dan Chrystal – Book Author – Discussions for Better Relationships | LinkedIn
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58898802Mon, 04 Mar 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan and Stephanie talked with Dan Chrystal about the complexities of communication. We talked about basic communication skills and complexities in neurodiverse relationships. About our Guest, Dan Chrystal: Dan Chrystal, MBA, is a husband,...
About our Guest, Dan Chrystal:
Dan Chrystal, MBA, is a husband, father, author, speaker, and life coach. He has over 28 years in executive leadership and relational coaching, including six years as an administrative officer of a large faith-based nonprofit organization, and also served as the Director of Sponsorship and National Church Relations for Bayside Church in Roseville, CA. Dan is passionate about helping others love their neighbors as themselves and is a dedicated life, career, and couples coach. He holds an MBA in Executive Leadership from Purdue Global University and is currently studying Law at Purdue Global University Law School. Dan’s ministry experience spans almost all pastoral positions. He is a committed student of “Relationships” and believes deep, meaningful relationships are God’s design for us. He is the author of Lost Art of Relationship and Discussions for Better Relationships.

For more, see Dan Chrystal – Book Author – Discussions for Better Relationships | LinkedIn
]]>3239art,asr,autism,christian,chrystal,conflict,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,lost,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,relationship,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse126fullBetrayal Trauma, Addiction, & Neurodiverse Marriage with Shawna Meekhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/betrayal-trauma-addiction-neurodiverse-marriage-with-shawna-meek--58764497
About our guest:
Shawna is an author, a Professional Certified Coach through ICF, a member of the board of directors, and a coaching supervisor with the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS). She began her work in the field of specialized coaching through APSATS, and further expanded her expertise with training in Gottman Level 1 & 2, Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model, Couples-Centered Recovery, and Asperger Autism Network.

Her primary focus is supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma and couples who have experienced infidelity and are in a neurodiverse marriage with Autism and Asperger profiles. She currently reaches women around the world through her website, podcast appearances, group and individual coaching, and supervising other professionals.

She is the founder and owner of Living Stones Coaching, based in Arizona. She is the author of the book, Determined for More, based on her own 25-year marriage journey, available April 2024.

Living Stones Website at www.livingstonescoaching.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58764497Mon, 26 Feb 2024 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesUsually, Dan co-hosts the podcast, but today, Dr. Stephanie interviews Shawna Meek on betrayal trauma. She will speak to us from her personal and professional experience. This is part 1 of 2. of her story. In part 2, her husband will join Dan and me...
About our guest:
Shawna is an author, a Professional Certified Coach through ICF, a member of the board of directors, and a coaching supervisor with the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS). She began her work in the field of specialized coaching through APSATS, and further expanded her expertise with training in Gottman Level 1 & 2, Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model, Couples-Centered Recovery, and Asperger Autism Network.

Her primary focus is supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma and couples who have experienced infidelity and are in a neurodiverse marriage with Autism and Asperger profiles. She currently reaches women around the world through her website, podcast appearances, group and individual coaching, and supervising other professionals.

She is the founder and owner of Living Stones Coaching, based in Arizona. She is the author of the book, Determined for More, based on her own 25-year marriage journey, available April 2024.

Living Stones Website at www.livingstonescoaching.com]]>3804apsats,asr,autism,autismandaddiction,betrayaltrauma,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,meek,neuro,neurodiverse,neurodiversemarriage,resources,sexualaddiction,shawna,spectrumfalse125fullPorn, Sex Addiction, Autism & Betrayal Trauma with Dr. Jake Porterhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/porn-sex-addiction-autism-betrayal-trauma-with-dr-jake-porter--58712947Many listeners asked to talk about pornography, sexual addiction, and autism.

Today we have as our guest Dr. Jake Porter for this discussion.
We will discuss:
What is the difference between porn use and porn addiction?

What is sex addiction?

If a spouse acts out sexually or with porn, is that the spouse's fault?

What is betrayal trauma?

How does porn use and sex addiction impact the spouse?

What about 1 Corinthians 7 and "your body is not your own?"

Dr. Jake is a specialist in this field as well as a former pastor who speaks with us spiritually and professionally on these topics.

About our Guest:
Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventures Counseling, Coaching, and Consulting. He is also the creator of Couple–Centered Recovery®, a model for overcoming attachment wounds in couples experiencing the trauma of betrayal. Dr. Porter has undergone extensive training in evidence–based treatments for couples who have suffered attachment injuries. He works with couples from around the world who travel to Houston for treatment of severe attachment injuries and relational trauma. Believing in the inherent worth of every person, Dr. Porter utilizes insights from developmental psychology, interpersonal neurobiology, and spirituality to help his clients experience greater healing and freedom in their lives. In addition to serving on the boards of APSATS and Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International, he enjoys teaching as an Assistant Professor of Counseling at Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology, where he is also the Lead Professor of the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program. Jake lives in Houston with his wife, Kristen, and daughters, Magnolia Jane and Lottie Jo.

https://go.drjakeporter.com/home

Find out more about Dr. Jake and his Betrayal Trauma podcast.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58712947Mon, 19 Feb 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan and Stephanie talk about a topic that is listener-requested! Many listeners asked to talk about pornography, sexual addiction, and autism. Today we have as our guest Dr. Jake Porter for this discussion. We will discuss: - What is the...Many listeners asked to talk about pornography, sexual addiction, and autism.

Today we have as our guest Dr. Jake Porter for this discussion.
We will discuss:
What is the difference between porn use and porn addiction?

What is sex addiction?

If a spouse acts out sexually or with porn, is that the spouse's fault?

What is betrayal trauma?

How does porn use and sex addiction impact the spouse?

What about 1 Corinthians 7 and "your body is not your own?"

Dr. Jake is a specialist in this field as well as a former pastor who speaks with us spiritually and professionally on these topics.

About our Guest:
Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventures Counseling, Coaching, and Consulting. He is also the creator of Couple–Centered Recovery®, a model for overcoming attachment wounds in couples experiencing the trauma of betrayal. Dr. Porter has undergone extensive training in evidence–based treatments for couples who have suffered attachment injuries. He works with couples from around the world who travel to Houston for treatment of severe attachment injuries and relational trauma. Believing in the inherent worth of every person, Dr. Porter utilizes insights from developmental psychology, interpersonal neurobiology, and spirituality to help his clients experience greater healing and freedom in their lives. In addition to serving on the boards of APSATS and Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International, he enjoys teaching as an Assistant Professor of Counseling at Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology, where he is also the Lead Professor of the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program. Jake lives in Houston with his wife, Kristen, and daughters, Magnolia Jane and Lottie Jo.

https://go.drjakeporter.com/home

Find out more about Dr. Jake and his Betrayal Trauma podcast.
]]>3244addiction,asr,autism,betrayal,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jake,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,porn,porter,resources,sex,spectrum,stephaniefalse124fullJTG Talks about Valentines and Ketchup on Steakhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-talks-about-valentines-and-ketchup-on-steak--58422700
Just the Guys get together and talk about topics from the spectrum point of view. Today a few tips on what they used to believe about Valentine's Day and how to show love the way their non-autistic spouses want to be loved!

Disclaimer:
Charity, don't listen to the show until after the 14th!
Jeremy reveals his Valentine's Day gift!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58422700Wed, 14 Feb 2024 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dan Holmes (husband of Dr. Stephanie Holmes) and Just the Guys with a group of men on the spectrum, and they talk about Valentine's Day and showing love to their spouses. Just the Guys get together and talk about topics from the spectrum point...
Just the Guys get together and talk about topics from the spectrum point of view. Today a few tips on what they used to believe about Valentine's Day and how to show love the way their non-autistic spouses want to be loved!

Disclaimer:
Charity, don't listen to the show until after the 14th!
Jeremy reveals his Valentine's Day gift!]]>2612asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,ketchup,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,steak,valentinesfalse123fullIntimacy & Sex: The Designer is the Definer with Pastor Jamal Bakerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/intimacy-sex-the-designer-is-the-definer-with-pastor-jamal-baker--58421999
This podcast is a module from a module that is on sale this month. The usual price is $129.
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/topics-in-nd-relationships
Pastor Jamal Baker is the lead pastor of the Atlanta location of Chapelhill Church. Pastor Jamal was trained in his counseling practice in the specialty of healthy sexuality under the late Dr. Doug Roseneau and the Penners.

About the Course, this module interview comes from:
Topics in ND Relationships cover Intimacy and Special Interests. To start this module, you want to start with these FREE sermon series: Marriage Basics and Porndemic. As part of this module, Dr. Stephanie Holmes sits down with two ministers to discuss these sermons and bring in the aspect of NeuroDiversity in marriage and some bad marriage theology and doctrine many couples have been taught and believed, which adds to the complexity of ND Christian relationships. Personal stories are shared when special interests involve sex, roles, religion, or pornography and its impact on the relationship.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58421999Mon, 12 Feb 2024 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Rev. Stephanie C. Holmes interviews Pastor Jamal Baker, a former licensed professional counselor and sex therapist. This podcast is a module from a module that is on sale this month. The usual price is $129....
This podcast is a module from a module that is on sale this month. The usual price is $129.
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/topics-in-nd-relationships
Pastor Jamal Baker is the lead pastor of the Atlanta location of Chapelhill Church. Pastor Jamal was trained in his counseling practice in the specialty of healthy sexuality under the late Dr. Doug Roseneau and the Penners.

About the Course, this module interview comes from:
Topics in ND Relationships cover Intimacy and Special Interests. To start this module, you want to start with these FREE sermon series: Marriage Basics and Porndemic. As part of this module, Dr. Stephanie Holmes sits down with two ministers to discuss these sermons and bring in the aspect of NeuroDiversity in marriage and some bad marriage theology and doctrine many couples have been taught and believed, which adds to the complexity of ND Christian relationships. Personal stories are shared when special interests involve sex, roles, religion, or pornography and its impact on the relationship.
]]>3591asr,autism,baker,christian,couples,definer,designer,diverse,holmes,intimacy,jamal,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sex,spectrum,stephaniefalse122fullHow We Built Sexual Intimacy in our NeuroDiverse Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-we-built-sexual-intimacy-in-our-neurodiverse-marriage--58398244Today it gets a little personal

Hopefully, without being cringy, we will share how we took our physical and sexual intimacy level to the next level. We talk about what kills sexual intimacy and what you need to know to build sexual intimacy.

We will define intimacy. We will talk about what builds intimacy and what destroys intimacy.
Find out why Stephanie says, "If I can't trust you bringing home the milk, I don't trust you with my private parts!"

Tips we give for books to read:
Great Sex Rescue by Gregoire
Total Intimacy by Doug Rosenau
YouTube Channel- Andrew and Amanda Scott
Materials by the Penners
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58398244Mon, 05 Feb 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday it gets a little personal Hopefully, without being cringy, we will share how we took our physical and sexual intimacy level to the next level. We talk about what kills sexual intimacy and what you need to know to build sexual intimacy. We will...Today it gets a little personal

Hopefully, without being cringy, we will share how we took our physical and sexual intimacy level to the next level. We talk about what kills sexual intimacy and what you need to know to build sexual intimacy.

We will define intimacy. We will talk about what builds intimacy and what destroys intimacy.
Find out why Stephanie says, "If I can't trust you bringing home the milk, I don't trust you with my private parts!"

Tips we give for books to read:
Great Sex Rescue by Gregoire
Total Intimacy by Doug Rosenau
YouTube Channel- Andrew and Amanda Scott
Materials by the Penners
]]>3761asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,intimacy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sexual,spectrum,stephaniefalse121fullUniting Parents & Professionals with Jeanetta Bryanthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/uniting-parents-professionals-with-jeanetta-bryant--58220142
Searchable - unites professionals and parents
Access Ability will help you navigate the new autism diagnosis and explain "alphabet soup."

Loveable- working through challenges and crisis moments!

Her new venture- I want a Buzz TV Exploring the Spectrum.

Check out Jeanetta interviewing Dr. Holmes
https://iwantabuzz.com/community/explore-the-spectrum-with-stephanie-holmes-from-neurodiverse-christian-couples/

About Jeanetta:
Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or at a theme park, college football, and making memories.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Check out her podcast at
https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58220142Mon, 29 Jan 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes and Jeanetta talk about uniting resources for families through accessibility to resources! Searchable - unites professionals and parents Access Ability will help you navigate the new autism diagnosis and explain "alphabet soup." Loveable-...
Searchable - unites professionals and parents
Access Ability will help you navigate the new autism diagnosis and explain "alphabet soup."

Loveable- working through challenges and crisis moments!

Her new venture- I want a Buzz TV Exploring the Spectrum.

Check out Jeanetta interviewing Dr. Holmes
https://iwantabuzz.com/community/explore-the-spectrum-with-stephanie-holmes-from-neurodiverse-christian-couples/

About Jeanetta:
Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or at a theme park, college football, and making memories.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Check out her podcast at
https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast
]]>2026asr,autism,bryant,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeanetta,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,parents,professionals,resources,spectrum,stephanie,unitingfalse1111fullEmpty Nesting and Retirement in a NeuroDiverse Marriage Pt. 2https://www.spreaker.com/episode/empty-nesting-and-retirement-in-a-neurodiverse-marriage-pt-2--58219303
We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired.
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol, he was diagnosed around age 55. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist.

We also have Marian and Tom, who have been retired for a few more years, and have some advice for preparing intentionally for retirement (most think only financially) but on how to do retirement relationally and not just individual goals. Marian has a Bachelor’s in Nursing and a Master’s in Special Education. The mother of two wonderful sons and a wonderful daughter-in-law. Tom retired from a successful dental career 2 ½ years ago at age 67 and was identified on the spectrum between the ages of 55-60.

Questions to be discussed:
What are gifts for Neurodiverse couples that were found in retirement- things you appreciate or strengths in neurodiversity?

What are the chore load and expectations of chores and responsibilities after retirement?

What are each person's expectations going into retirement- are you focused on individual goals and projects, or are you retiring with relational goals in mind?

What was it like to try to work part-time or consult in retirement?

Advice for couples about to empty nest or retire on the spectrum.

Research links mentioned:
https://www.opastpublishers.com/open-access-articles/neuro-diverse-christian-couples-autism-religion-marriage-an-exploratory-qualitative-study.pdf

https://juniperpublishers.com/gjidd/pdf/GJIDD.MS.ID.555829.pdf

Book link:https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

YouTube link:https://www.youtube.com/@dr.stephaniec.holmes3536
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58219303Mon, 22 Jan 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesMany of you have asked for podcasts about aging or retirement and the neurodiverse marriage, so today is one of those days! We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired. You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our...
We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired.
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol, he was diagnosed around age 55. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist.

We also have Marian and Tom, who have been retired for a few more years, and have some advice for preparing intentionally for retirement (most think only financially) but on how to do retirement relationally and not just individual goals. Marian has a Bachelor’s in Nursing and a Master’s in Special Education. The mother of two wonderful sons and a wonderful daughter-in-law. Tom retired from a successful dental career 2 ½ years ago at age 67 and was identified on the spectrum between the ages of 55-60.

Questions to be discussed:
What are gifts for Neurodiverse couples that were found in retirement- things you appreciate or strengths in neurodiversity?

What are the chore load and expectations of chores and responsibilities after retirement?

What are each person's expectations going into retirement- are you focused on individual goals and projects, or are you retiring with relational goals in mind?

What was it like to try to work part-time or consult in retirement?

Advice for couples about to empty nest or retire on the spectrum.

Research links mentioned:
https://www.opastpublishers.com/open-access-articles/neuro-diverse-christian-couples-autism-religion-marriage-an-exploratory-qualitative-study.pdf

https://juniperpublishers.com/gjidd/pdf/GJIDD.MS.ID.555829.pdf

Book link:https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

YouTube link:https://www.youtube.com/@dr.stephaniec.holmes3536
]]>3391asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,empty,holmes,marriage,marriages,nesting,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,retirement,spectrum,stephaniefalse1110fullJTG Theory of Mindhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-theory-of-mind--58219910https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58219910Wed, 17 Jan 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThe guys talk about Theory of Mind3257asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,men,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,thefalse119fullEmpty Nesting and Retirement in a NeuroDiverse Marriage Pt. 1https://www.spreaker.com/episode/empty-nesting-and-retirement-in-a-neurodiverse-marriage-pt-1--58219036
We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired.
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol, he was diagnosed around age 55. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist.

We also have Marian and Tom, who have been retired for a few more years, and have some advice for preparing intentionally for retirement (most think only financially) but on how to do retirement relationally and not just individual goals. Marian has a Bachelor’s in Nursing and a Master’s in Special Education. The mother of two wonderful sons and a wonderful daughter-in-law. Tom retired from a successful dental career 2 ½ years ago at age 67 and was identified on the spectrum between the ages of 55-60.

Questions to be discussed:
What are gifts for Neurodiverse couples that were found in retirement- things you appreciate or strengths in neurodiversity?

What are the chore load and expectations of chores and responsibilities after retirement?

What are each person's expectations going into retirement- are you focused on individual goals and projects, or are you retiring with relational goals in mind?

What was it like to try to work part-time or consult in retirement?

Advice for couples about to empty nest or retire on the spectrum.

Research links mentioned:
https://www.opastpublishers.com/open-access-articles/neuro-diverse-christian-couples-autism-religion-marriage-an-exploratory-qualitative-study.pdf

https://juniperpublishers.com/gjidd/pdf/GJIDD.MS.ID.555829.pdf

Book link:https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

YouTube link:https://www.youtube.com/@dr.stephaniec.holmes3536
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58219036Mon, 15 Jan 2024 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesMany of you have asked for podcasts about aging or retirement and the neurodiverse marriage, so today is one of those days! We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired. You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our...
We have four guests with us. Carol and Greg are newly retired.
You may recognize Greg’s voice, who has been on several of our Just the Guys segments. Greg is 63 and retired after a 35-year career as a consulting geologist. Married to Carol, he was diagnosed around age 55. Carol and he have three children. Carol is in her fourth year of retirement after a 32-year career as a speech-language pathologist.

We also have Marian and Tom, who have been retired for a few more years, and have some advice for preparing intentionally for retirement (most think only financially) but on how to do retirement relationally and not just individual goals. Marian has a Bachelor’s in Nursing and a Master’s in Special Education. The mother of two wonderful sons and a wonderful daughter-in-law. Tom retired from a successful dental career 2 ½ years ago at age 67 and was identified on the spectrum between the ages of 55-60.

Questions to be discussed:
What are gifts for Neurodiverse couples that were found in retirement- things you appreciate or strengths in neurodiversity?

What are the chore load and expectations of chores and responsibilities after retirement?

What are each person's expectations going into retirement- are you focused on individual goals and projects, or are you retiring with relational goals in mind?

What was it like to try to work part-time or consult in retirement?

Advice for couples about to empty nest or retire on the spectrum.

Research links mentioned:
https://www.opastpublishers.com/open-access-articles/neuro-diverse-christian-couples-autism-religion-marriage-an-exploratory-qualitative-study.pdf

https://juniperpublishers.com/gjidd/pdf/GJIDD.MS.ID.555829.pdf

Book link:https://amzn.to/46W7LgN

YouTube link:https://www.youtube.com/@dr.stephaniec.holmes3536
]]>3231asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,empty,holmes,marriage,marriages,nest,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,retirement,spectrum,stephaniefalse118fullDual Diagnosis & Misdiagnosis with Alix Generoushttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dual-diagnosis-misdiagnosis-with-alix-generous--58218533
She is the founder of Global Behavior Consultants, LLC, an international behavior analysis company that supports families and individuals to receive affordable care. She also provides consultation with Diversity Crew, which helps large-scale businesses increase the neurodiversity of staff. Over the past decade, she has spoken professionally at conferences all around the world, including multiple TED talks and All About Woman at the Sydney Opera House.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58218533Mon, 08 Jan 2024 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAlix Generous is an autistic behavior analyst with five years of clinical experience and a master’s from Pepperdine University in behavioral psychology. She lives in Los Angeles, CA., where she works as a remote clinical supervisor for families in the...
She is the founder of Global Behavior Consultants, LLC, an international behavior analysis company that supports families and individuals to receive affordable care. She also provides consultation with Diversity Crew, which helps large-scale businesses increase the neurodiversity of staff. Over the past decade, she has spoken professionally at conferences all around the world, including multiple TED talks and All About Woman at the Sydney Opera House.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>2403alix,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diagnosis,diverse,dual,generous,holmes,marriage,marriages,misdiagnosis,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse117fullStages of Change and Immunity to Changehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stages-of-change-and-immunity-to-change--58100144This is NOT a marriage book. It is a very dry organizational leadership book, but many points are worth discussing.

Why, if you want change, there is immunity to it. We will revisit the stages of change. Based on an addiction model for change, so much can apply when couples enter coaching/counseling in different stages of the change cycle.

https://sphweb.bumc.bu.edu/otlt/mph-modules/sb/behavioralchangetheories/behavioralchangetheories6.html

If you are interested in Dan and Stephanie's book:
Find all the ways to purchase the print book, ebook, and audiobook:
https://www.holmesasr.com/embracing-the-autism-spectrum
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58100144Mon, 01 Jan 2024 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan had read a book for a business leadership class called "Immunity to Change." This is NOT a marriage book. It is a very dry organizational leadership book, but many points are worth discussing. Why, if you want change, there is immunity to it....This is NOT a marriage book. It is a very dry organizational leadership book, but many points are worth discussing.

Why, if you want change, there is immunity to it. We will revisit the stages of change. Based on an addiction model for change, so much can apply when couples enter coaching/counseling in different stages of the change cycle.

https://sphweb.bumc.bu.edu/otlt/mph-modules/sb/behavioralchangetheories/behavioralchangetheories6.html

If you are interested in Dan and Stephanie's book:
Find all the ways to purchase the print book, ebook, and audiobook:
https://www.holmesasr.com/embracing-the-autism-spectrum
]]>3751asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse116fullImmanuel: God with us! How God has been with us in our NeuroDiverse Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/immanuel-god-with-us-how-god-has-been-with-us-in-our-neurodiverse-marriage--58098772We were also asked to talk about keeping Jesus in the Christ-mas season.

We are sharing our Christ-mas traditions and when we felt Immanuel with us in tough times and growing our marriage.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58098772Mon, 25 Dec 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIf you have followed us, you know we are fans of LifeModel Works and the work of Dr. Jim Wilder. Key components of LifeModel Works is Immanuel- God is with us, but do we invite Jesus into the marriage? Do we build joy with God and each other? We were...We were also asked to talk about keeping Jesus in the Christ-mas season.

We are sharing our Christ-mas traditions and when we felt Immanuel with us in tough times and growing our marriage.
]]>2817asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,immanuel,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse115fullDiscussing IEPs, 504s and Your Student's Legal Rights with Martin Chenhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/discussing-ieps-504s-and-your-student-s-legal-rights-with-martin-chen--58028161
A little about Martin Chen:
B.A. - Vanderbilt University
J.D. - Georgia State University College of Law
30+ years with the U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights

His position ensured that recipients of federal financial assistance from the Education Department complied with civil rights laws which prohibited discrimination on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, age, disability, and equal access to the Boy Scouts of America.
Resident of Metropolitan Atlanta since 1976. Attended Dekalb County Public Schools.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/58028161Mon, 18 Dec 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we talk about IEPs and civil rights compliance with Martin Chen. A little about Martin Chen: B.A. - Vanderbilt University J.D. - Georgia State University College of Law 30+ years with the U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights...
A little about Martin Chen:
B.A. - Vanderbilt University
J.D. - Georgia State University College of Law
30+ years with the U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights

His position ensured that recipients of federal financial assistance from the Education Department complied with civil rights laws which prohibited discrimination on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, age, disability, and equal access to the Boy Scouts of America.
Resident of Metropolitan Atlanta since 1976. Attended Dekalb County Public Schools.]]>3648504s,asr,autism,chen,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,ieps,legal,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rights,spectrum,stephanie,student'sfalse114fullJTG - Let's Talk Christmashttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-let-s-talk-christmas--57941983https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57941983Wed, 13 Dec 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThe Guys talk about various Christmas topics, including gift-giving, receiving, and routine changes.2999asr,autism,christian,christmas,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse113fullA Lifespan Perspective of Autism with Dr. Tyler Whitneyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-lifespan-perspective-of-autism-with-dr-tyler-whitney--57939880
About Dr. Whitney:
Dr. Whitney received his Psy.D. in Clinical Psychology in 2001 from the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology (FIPP). He interned at St. Charles Hospital and Rehabilitation Center (SUNY-Stony Brook Health Sciences System) in Port Jefferson, New York (Long Island). Dr.
Whitney has conducted outcome research and published on ways families can help their children cope with medical and developmental differences. He has 21 years of clinical experience working with children and adolescents with emotional and behavioral disorders,
and 17 years of experience working with families and children with autism and other developmental disabilities.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57939880Mon, 11 Dec 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes and Dr. Whitney as they discuss key moments from his keynote presentation: Short and Long-term consequences of COVID-19 on individuals with ASD and his workshop presentation on changes in criteria from DSM IV to DSM 5. Many topics are...
About Dr. Whitney:
Dr. Whitney received his Psy.D. in Clinical Psychology in 2001 from the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology (FIPP). He interned at St. Charles Hospital and Rehabilitation Center (SUNY-Stony Brook Health Sciences System) in Port Jefferson, New York (Long Island). Dr.
Whitney has conducted outcome research and published on ways families can help their children cope with medical and developmental differences. He has 21 years of clinical experience working with children and adolescents with emotional and behavioral disorders,
and 17 years of experience working with families and children with autism and other developmental disabilities.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).
]]>2693asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tyler,whitneyfalsefullStress in Your NeuroDiverse Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stress-in-your-neurodiverse-marriage--57799768https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57799768Mon, 04 Dec 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dan and Stephanie will discuss Stress and how it manifests in the NeuroDiverse Christian Couple (NDCC). We will talk through points from the Equipping Tools Called Stress by author June Hunt of Hope for the Heart.2574asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,stressfalse112fullMy Best Social Life with Jeremy & Ilana Hamburghhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-best-social-life-with-jeremy-ilana-hamburgh--57710622
Podcast Description:
Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh are friendship and dating coaches who teach the strategies and skills that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults to find community, make friends, start dating, and build relationships. Ilana has over 16 years of experience as a special education teacher in New York City and is now the Director of Education for My Best Social Life. Jeremy has over 13 years of experience coaching autistic and neurodivergent adults on building the social lives they want and deserve. Jeremy and Ilana's passion is their first-of-its-kind strategy and skills program called Social Life 360. It's an innovative program that teaches its clients the strategies and skills to meet new people in new places confidently, and they do it by decoding the social world using formulas, diagrams, and step-by-step processes that make more sense to the neurodivergent brain. The Social Life 360 program also provides clients with a warm, inclusive, and exciting community that makes them feel embraced on their social journey. You can learn more about Jeremy, Ilana, and the Social Life 360 approach at MyBestSocialLife.com, and you can contact them about scheduling your family's Strategy Session at Jeremy@MyBestSocialLife.com.

What they do:
From their website-
We teach our clients cutting-edge social techniques that really work for people whose brains are wired differently. The way we do that is by decoding social situations and then teaching them to our clients as formulas, diagrams, checklists, schematics, and step-by-step processes. We also give you world-class support so that we can help you every step of the way with who to meet, where to meet them, and how to win them over without feeling overwhelmed. We do all of this while giving you a warm, inclusive, and vibrant community of our clients and graduates so that you can spend time with other wonderful people who have the same goals.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57710622Mon, 27 Nov 2023 11:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, Dr. Holmes talks with Jeremy and Ilana from mybestsociallife.com. We talk about belonging and learning the skills young adults on the spectrum need to create the social life they desire without getting overwhelmed. Podcast Description: Jeremy...
Podcast Description:
Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh are friendship and dating coaches who teach the strategies and skills that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults to find community, make friends, start dating, and build relationships. Ilana has over 16 years of experience as a special education teacher in New York City and is now the Director of Education for My Best Social Life. Jeremy has over 13 years of experience coaching autistic and neurodivergent adults on building the social lives they want and deserve. Jeremy and Ilana's passion is their first-of-its-kind strategy and skills program called Social Life 360. It's an innovative program that teaches its clients the strategies and skills to meet new people in new places confidently, and they do it by decoding the social world using formulas, diagrams, and step-by-step processes that make more sense to the neurodivergent brain. The Social Life 360 program also provides clients with a warm, inclusive, and exciting community that makes them feel embraced on their social journey. You can learn more about Jeremy, Ilana, and the Social Life 360 approach at MyBestSocialLife.com, and you can contact them about scheduling your family's Strategy Session at Jeremy@MyBestSocialLife.com.

What they do:
From their website-
We teach our clients cutting-edge social techniques that really work for people whose brains are wired differently. The way we do that is by decoding social situations and then teaching them to our clients as formulas, diagrams, checklists, schematics, and step-by-step processes. We also give you world-class support so that we can help you every step of the way with who to meet, where to meet them, and how to win them over without feeling overwhelmed. We do all of this while giving you a warm, inclusive, and vibrant community of our clients and graduates so that you can spend time with other wonderful people who have the same goals.]]>2897asr,autism,best,christian,couples,dan,diverse,hamburgh,holmes,ilana,jeremy,life,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,social,spectrum,stephaniefalse11fullSupport for Social Skills in Young Adults with Meredith Sinclairhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/support-for-social-skills-in-young-adults-with-meredith-sinclair--57585120
It is located in Atlanta, GA, but is now available over Zoom outside of GA. You can find out more at https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/

About Meredith Sinclair:
Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior Consulting. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS (Program for the Enrichment and Education of Relational Skills) Provider.

Meredith specializes in Behavior Consulting, Executive Functioning, Social Skills, and Career Development training. She has served a range of neurodiverse clients with a variety of cognitive verbal levels and support needs. She has had the pleasure of working with young adults, their families, and caregivers to teach them skills and provide tools that help them work toward their goals.
Meredith built LIFE Behavior Consulting with the goal of empowering individuals through coaching, teaching, and support to gain tools that will improve their access to social opportunities, relationships, and interdependence in their home, community, school, and vocational settings. She strives to energize her clients and help them realize their inner strengths.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57585120Mon, 20 Nov 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes and Meredith Sinclair of Life Behavior Consulting as they discuss the need for support and adaptive skills for adolescents and young adults on the spectrum. Life does not end when school ends; however, supports often do. Social skills...
It is located in Atlanta, GA, but is now available over Zoom outside of GA. You can find out more at https://lifebehaviorconsulting.com/

About Meredith Sinclair:
Meredith Sinclair is the Executive Director/Founder of LIFE Behavior Consulting. Meredith holds a Master’s Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Georgia State University and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University. She is a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor and a Certified PEERS (Program for the Enrichment and Education of Relational Skills) Provider.

Meredith specializes in Behavior Consulting, Executive Functioning, Social Skills, and Career Development training. She has served a range of neurodiverse clients with a variety of cognitive verbal levels and support needs. She has had the pleasure of working with young adults, their families, and caregivers to teach them skills and provide tools that help them work toward their goals.
Meredith built LIFE Behavior Consulting with the goal of empowering individuals through coaching, teaching, and support to gain tools that will improve their access to social opportunities, relationships, and interdependence in their home, community, school, and vocational settings. She strives to energize her clients and help them realize their inner strengths.]]>2835adults,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,meredith,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sinclair,skills,social,spectrum,stephanie,youngfalse1012fullJust The Guys - Friendshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-friends--57584611https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57584611Wed, 15 Nov 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesTalking about friends. Everything from high school to now.2753asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,friends,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thefalse1011fullFear Bonds, Love Bonds and Q&A with Dr. Jim Wilderhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fear-bonds-love-bonds-and-q-a-with-dr-jim-wilder--57526192Some questions that came in:
How is attachment and hesed related?
How is attachment related to enemy mode?
What is a fear bond, and if you have PTSD or have been damaged by a relationship, can you achieve a love bond?
What parts of the brain have neuroplasticity? What can be learned for those on the spectrum?
More questions answered!
NDCCs are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode, and intellectual enemy mode. Our brains can unite or divide us. Join us for this discussion with Dr. Jim Wilder.
You will want to go back and hear our podcast "Are you in your right mind?" which sets the stage for this conversation.
Today we will talk about how those on the autism spectrum, due to neurological wiring, are more easily dragged into enemy mode. But we will also talk about JOY and how to escape enemy mode to re-friend and rebuild attachment/joy.

About Dr. Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary, and elsewhere.

Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.
In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.

Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered, but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57526192Mon, 13 Nov 2023 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie set this podcast up with their podcast on Jan 2nd and Jan 16th of 2023. You will want to review this podcast before you hear today's podcast on escaping enemy mode. We took questions from our listeners and those in our coaching...Some questions that came in:
How is attachment and hesed related?
How is attachment related to enemy mode?
What is a fear bond, and if you have PTSD or have been damaged by a relationship, can you achieve a love bond?
What parts of the brain have neuroplasticity? What can be learned for those on the spectrum?
More questions answered!
NDCCs are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode, and intellectual enemy mode. Our brains can unite or divide us. Join us for this discussion with Dr. Jim Wilder.
You will want to go back and hear our podcast "Are you in your right mind?" which sets the stage for this conversation.
Today we will talk about how those on the autism spectrum, due to neurological wiring, are more easily dragged into enemy mode. But we will also talk about JOY and how to escape enemy mode to re-friend and rebuild attachment/joy.

About Dr. Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary, and elsewhere.

Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.
In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.

Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered, but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.]]>4002asr,autism,bonds,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fear,holmes,jim,love,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,q&a,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wilderfalse1010fullVacationing and Holiday Travel on the Autism Spectrum with Ron Sandisonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vacationing-and-holiday-travel-on-the-autism-spectrum-with-ron-sandison--57434612member of the Art of Autism and the Els Center of Excellence. Sandison has a Master of
Divinity from Oral Roberts University and is the author of A Parent’s Guide to Autism. He
is the founder of Spectrum Inclusion which empowers young people with autism for
employment. Sandison speaks at over 70 events a year including 20 plus education
conferences. Ron and his wife, Kristen, reside in Rochester Hills, MI, with their daughter,
Makayla.
.
sandison456@hotmail.com.
https://www.spectruminclusion.com
https://www.facebook.com/SpectrumRonSandison]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57434612Mon, 06 Nov 2023 12:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesRon Sandison works full time in the mental health field. He is an advisory board member of the Art of Autism and the Els Center of Excellence. Sandison has a Master of Divinity from Oral Roberts University and is the author of A Parent’s Guide to...member of the Art of Autism and the Els Center of Excellence. Sandison has a Master of
Divinity from Oral Roberts University and is the author of A Parent’s Guide to Autism. He
is the founder of Spectrum Inclusion which empowers young people with autism for
employment. Sandison speaks at over 70 events a year including 20 plus education
conferences. Ron and his wife, Kristen, reside in Rochester Hills, MI, with their daughter,
Makayla.
.
sandison456@hotmail.com.
https://www.spectruminclusion.com
https://www.facebook.com/SpectrumRonSandison]]>2637asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holiday,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,ron,sandison,spectrum,stephanie,travel,vacationingfalse109full¡Necesidad excepcional hoy! Edición especial en españolhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/necesidad-excepcional-hoy-edicion-especial-en-espanol--57433368www.exceptionalneedstoday.com

Hoy, la Dra. Stephanie y sus invitados Erica y Luis les cuentan acerca de una revista de edición especial que estará disponible en español.
A continuación se muestra una carta de la editora de Exceptional Needs Today, Amy Tobik.
¡Es gratis! ¡Visite www.excepcionalneedstoday.com!

Desde el escritorio del editor
Cuando publiqué la revista Exceptional Needs Today hace un par de años, mi objetivo era unir a una comunidad de defensores, familias, educadores, médicos y terapistas. Presenciar el cambio tan significativo que ocurre cuando gente dinámica trabaja junta ha sido un honor. Durante mi tiempo trabajando con niños de distintas habilidades, participando en conferencias en relaciones a las necesidades especiales, y conversado con terapistas y educadores, se ha vuelto evidente que los niños de la comunidad hispanohablante con el Trastorno de Espectro Autista (TEA) y otras necesidades especiales han sido pasadas por alto. Muy a menudo, estos niños no reciben diagnósticos ni el apoyo que necesitan. Estas situaciones pueden afectar individuos y sus familias de por vida. Esta disparidad no es aceptable.

De acuerdo con el estudio Disparidades en el diagnóstico y tratamiento de Autismo en las comunidades Latinas y no Latinas, competencia en el inglés tiene un impacto en el acceso al diagnóstico y tratamiento del TEAdiagnóstico y tratamiento pueden ser reducidas mediante una mejoría en el conocimiento del TEA y confianza en su proveedor médico o doctor a cargo de su hijo. Cuando los niños son diagnosticados de manera errónea, su acceso a servicios se ve afectado de manera negativa. Esperamos dar el consejo y el apoyo necesario en español para llegar a reducir esta brecha entre el tratamiento recibido por niños hispanos y no hispanos.
Esta edición especial de Exceptional Needs Today provee 15 artículos en español escrito por
extraordinarios profesionales involucrados en la comunidad hispana. Dra. Joscelyn Ramos-Campell, una ganadora del premio nacional al mejor portavoz y consultora de discapacidades bilingües se encuentra en la portado junto con su hijo de ocho años, Joshua, quien fue diagnosticado con TEA. Estamos muy emocionados por publicar su artículo exclusivo, Guía de intervención temprana y cómo encontrar servicios en los 50 estados de Los Estados Unidos. dirección justo al alcance de sus manos.

Esta versión también presenta un excelente artículo de la Dra. Mary Jones, pediatra que se mudó recientemente a la Republica Dominicana proveniente de los Estados Unidos con su familia de siete personas en busca de una vida más sencilla. No se pierdan de su artículo, Nuestro viaje con necesidades excepcionales: Cómo el traslado a otro país creó una vida más tranquila, donde discute como este cambio afectó de manera positiva a sus hijos con TEA y las modificaciones que pueden hacer en su vida diaria para fomentar la paz. Adicionalmente, estamos emocionados por compartir Entendiendo la disparidad de apoyo para las familias hispanas y cómo superarla, escrito por la Dra. Stephanie C. Holmes, BBCC, quien es una consejera profesional, educadora, autora y especialista certificada para tratar TEA.

Una colección de artículos escritos por defensores como Temple Gradin, PhD. y Debra Moore, PhD, Siena Castellon, Noah Seback, J. Edwards Holt, Nicole Dauz, están orgullosamente incluidos en esta edición especial de Exceptional Needs Today. Cada uno de estos artículos ha sido traducido al español por estudiantes universitarios pertenecientes a una clase de nivel superior de traducción en Lee University, Tennessee.

Nos gustaría agradecer a nuestro fantástico equipo de traductores, Erica Holmes, Cameron Hatcher, Julia Gambill, Kierstin Havens, Sarah Leab, y nuestros correctores Erica Holmes y Luis Eduardo De Paz Capobianco. También estamos muy agradecidos con nuestros contribuidores, anunciantes y subscriptores quienes continúan apoyándonos y son una parte integral de nuestra revista ganadora de premios.

Nos encantaría pedirles que alienten a sus amigos y familiares a subscribirse a Exceptional Needs Today.
Saludos cordials,
Amy

Sigamos promoviendo la conciencia, aceptación e inclusión de las comunidades con necesidades especiales mientras trabajamos por hacer un cambio significativo para el futuro – JUNTOS!
1 Zuckerman KE, Lindly OJ, Reyes NM, Chavez AE, Macias K, Smith KN, Reynolds A. Disparities in Diagnosis and Treatment of Autism in Latinx and Non-Latinx White Families. Pediatrics.

2017 May;139(5):e20163010. doi: 10.1542/peds.2016-3010. PMID: 2855
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28557734/7734; PMCID: PMC5404727]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57433368Mon, 30 Oct 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, we have a bilingual podcast to connect Spanish speaking listeners to a Spanish special edition of Exceptional Needs Today magazine. www.exceptionalneedstoday.com Hoy, la Dra. Stephanie y sus invitados Erica y Luis les cuentan acerca de una...www.exceptionalneedstoday.com

Hoy, la Dra. Stephanie y sus invitados Erica y Luis les cuentan acerca de una revista de edición especial que estará disponible en español.
A continuación se muestra una carta de la editora de Exceptional Needs Today, Amy Tobik.
¡Es gratis! ¡Visite www.excepcionalneedstoday.com!

Desde el escritorio del editor
Cuando publiqué la revista Exceptional Needs Today hace un par de años, mi objetivo era unir a una comunidad de defensores, familias, educadores, médicos y terapistas. Presenciar el cambio tan significativo que ocurre cuando gente dinámica trabaja junta ha sido un honor. Durante mi tiempo trabajando con niños de distintas habilidades, participando en conferencias en relaciones a las necesidades especiales, y conversado con terapistas y educadores, se ha vuelto evidente que los niños de la comunidad hispanohablante con el Trastorno de Espectro Autista (TEA) y otras necesidades especiales han sido pasadas por alto. Muy a menudo, estos niños no reciben diagnósticos ni el apoyo que necesitan. Estas situaciones pueden afectar individuos y sus familias de por vida. Esta disparidad no es aceptable.

De acuerdo con el estudio Disparidades en el diagnóstico y tratamiento de Autismo en las comunidades Latinas y no Latinas, competencia en el inglés tiene un impacto en el acceso al diagnóstico y tratamiento del TEAdiagnóstico y tratamiento pueden ser reducidas mediante una mejoría en el conocimiento del TEA y confianza en su proveedor médico o doctor a cargo de su hijo. Cuando los niños son diagnosticados de manera errónea, su acceso a servicios se ve afectado de manera negativa. Esperamos dar el consejo y el apoyo necesario en español para llegar a reducir esta brecha entre el tratamiento recibido por niños hispanos y no hispanos.
Esta edición especial de Exceptional Needs Today provee 15 artículos en español escrito por
extraordinarios profesionales involucrados en la comunidad hispana. Dra. Joscelyn Ramos-Campell, una ganadora del premio nacional al mejor portavoz y consultora de discapacidades bilingües se encuentra en la portado junto con su hijo de ocho años, Joshua, quien fue diagnosticado con TEA. Estamos muy emocionados por publicar su artículo exclusivo, Guía de intervención temprana y cómo encontrar servicios en los 50 estados de Los Estados Unidos. dirección justo al alcance de sus manos.

Esta versión también presenta un excelente artículo de la Dra. Mary Jones, pediatra que se mudó recientemente a la Republica Dominicana proveniente de los Estados Unidos con su familia de siete personas en busca de una vida más sencilla. No se pierdan de su artículo, Nuestro viaje con necesidades excepcionales: Cómo el traslado a otro país creó una vida más tranquila, donde discute como este cambio afectó de manera positiva a sus hijos con TEA y las modificaciones que pueden hacer en su vida diaria para fomentar la paz. Adicionalmente, estamos emocionados por compartir Entendiendo la disparidad de apoyo para las familias hispanas y cómo superarla, escrito por la Dra. Stephanie C. Holmes, BBCC, quien es una consejera profesional, educadora, autora y especialista certificada para tratar TEA.

Una colección de artículos escritos por defensores como Temple Gradin, PhD. y Debra Moore, PhD, Siena Castellon, Noah Seback, J. Edwards Holt, Nicole Dauz, están orgullosamente incluidos en esta edición especial de Exceptional Needs Today. Cada uno de estos artículos ha sido traducido al español por estudiantes universitarios pertenecientes a una clase de nivel superior de traducción en Lee University, Tennessee.

Nos gustaría agradecer a nuestro fantástico equipo de traductores, Erica Holmes, Cameron Hatcher, Julia Gambill, Kierstin Havens, Sarah Leab, y nuestros correctores Erica Holmes y...]]>2603asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,edición,español,especial,excepcional,holmes,hoy!,marriage,marriages,¡necesidad,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse108fullPsychopharmacology and Autism with Dr. Matthew Fisherhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/psychopharmacology-and-autism-with-dr-matthew-fisher--57348886
Dr. Fisher completed his General Psychiatry residency at the University of Texas-Galveston and a Child/Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship at the University of South Carolina. He serves as the Medical leader of Springbrook Autism’s Residential and Outpatient Treatment Program (specializing in treating Autism Spectrum Disorders) and is an authority in the minimal medical management of ASD and ASD with comorbidities. Dr. Fisher speaks at Autism Conferences on Medical Overview of Autism Spectrum Disorders, Medication Management for Autism Spectrum Disorders, Myths and Misconceptions in Autism, Autism and Co-Morbid Conditions, and Helping Siblings and other Children Understand Autism.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57348886Mon, 23 Oct 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes and Dr. Fisher as they discuss Dr. Fisher's model of medication for working with the spectrum population. Basics on types of medications and their functions are discussed as well as the dangers of stacking meds and drug-drug...
Dr. Fisher completed his General Psychiatry residency at the University of Texas-Galveston and a Child/Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship at the University of South Carolina. He serves as the Medical leader of Springbrook Autism’s Residential and Outpatient Treatment Program (specializing in treating Autism Spectrum Disorders) and is an authority in the minimal medical management of ASD and ASD with comorbidities. Dr. Fisher speaks at Autism Conferences on Medical Overview of Autism Spectrum Disorders, Medication Management for Autism Spectrum Disorders, Myths and Misconceptions in Autism, Autism and Co-Morbid Conditions, and Helping Siblings and other Children Understand Autism.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>2986asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fisher,holmes,marriage,marriages,matthew,neuro,neurodiverse,psychopharmacology,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse107fullGroups: What Makes Them Valuablehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/groups-what-makes-them-valuable--57244971https://api.spreaker.com/episode/57244971Wed, 18 Oct 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThe guys talk about how groups have changed their perspective on issues, themselves and others.2694asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,groups,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse106fullThe Autism Effect on Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-autism-effect-on-marriage--56607196
About today's Guest: "Abby"
Abby has two decades of personal and professional experience with neurodiverse marriage, and autism-impacted family dynamics. She is the mother of three multiple neurodivergent children, and formerly married to an autistic spouse. Drawing from her extensive work with other couples, along with her own lived history, Abby writes about the complexities of neurodiverse marriage at www.asdmarriage.com. Her intent is to provide an unfiltered voice to the anecdotal realities shared by many neurotypical spouses, specifically among those who navigate exceptionally challenging neurodiverse marriages. Abby works in private practice as a relationship coach for neurodiverse couples, parents, and families.

From the Guest's Website:
Because I am respectful of my children and former husband’s privacy, I do not identify my name on this website. In addition to over two decades spent in the field of autism, I very much attribute my family’s unique neurology, gifts, vulnerabilities and challenges as an irreplaceable element of why I am able to offer effective help and coping to others. Many fundamental challenges of neurodiverse marriage and family life can simply not be gleaned through direct client service, nor in a textbook, and certainly not (at this juncture) in a graduate school classroom. Thanks for your respect and understanding for my loved ones.
You can read more and find out more at:
https://asdmarriage.com/home/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56607196Mon, 16 Oct 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie and Abby talk about challenging and complex ND marriages and aspects such as rigidity and need for sameness that can make the NT family members feel trapped or controlled in a ND marriage or family. About today's Guest: "Abby" Abby has...
About today's Guest: "Abby"
Abby has two decades of personal and professional experience with neurodiverse marriage, and autism-impacted family dynamics. She is the mother of three multiple neurodivergent children, and formerly married to an autistic spouse. Drawing from her extensive work with other couples, along with her own lived history, Abby writes about the complexities of neurodiverse marriage at www.asdmarriage.com. Her intent is to provide an unfiltered voice to the anecdotal realities shared by many neurotypical spouses, specifically among those who navigate exceptionally challenging neurodiverse marriages. Abby works in private practice as a relationship coach for neurodiverse couples, parents, and families.

From the Guest's Website:
Because I am respectful of my children and former husband’s privacy, I do not identify my name on this website. In addition to over two decades spent in the field of autism, I very much attribute my family’s unique neurology, gifts, vulnerabilities and challenges as an irreplaceable element of why I am able to offer effective help and coping to others. Many fundamental challenges of neurodiverse marriage and family life can simply not be gleaned through direct client service, nor in a textbook, and certainly not (at this juncture) in a graduate school classroom. Thanks for your respect and understanding for my loved ones.
You can read more and find out more at:
https://asdmarriage.com/home/]]>3232asr,autism,couples,dan,diverse,effect,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse christian,on,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse105fullAutismology & Autism Competency with Tosha Rollinshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autismology-autism-competency-with-tosha-rollins--56600067with the Autistic Community.

Bio:
Tosha Rollins is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina, owner of Rollins Counseling, LLC, autism advocate, public speaker, published author, and podcaster. She is dedicated to serving the autism community and teaching others how to navigate through the world of autism with ongoing education, collaboration, and consultation. She is wife to Travis and momma to three sons, Jason, Jacob,& Konnor, ages 9-23, and stepmom to Kaylee, who is now in college. She has two sons on the autism spectrum. She loves adventures, traveling, nature, and spending time with her family. Tosha also enjoys serving the community as a Lead with Love Safety Plan Coordinator. She started the Autism in Action Podcast to help families connect with autism resources, services, and support. When she is not working, she is spending quality time with her family and planning her next adventure.

https://tosharollins.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56600067Mon, 09 Oct 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes and Tosha discuss what clinicians need to know about working with individuals on the autism spectrum. The importance of competency and training in working with the Autistic Community. Bio: Tosha Rollins is a Licensed Professional Counselor...with the Autistic Community.

Bio:
Tosha Rollins is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina, owner of Rollins Counseling, LLC, autism advocate, public speaker, published author, and podcaster. She is dedicated to serving the autism community and teaching others how to navigate through the world of autism with ongoing education, collaboration, and consultation. She is wife to Travis and momma to three sons, Jason, Jacob,& Konnor, ages 9-23, and stepmom to Kaylee, who is now in college. She has two sons on the autism spectrum. She loves adventures, traveling, nature, and spending time with her family. Tosha also enjoys serving the community as a Lead with Love Safety Plan Coordinator. She started the Autism in Action Podcast to help families connect with autism resources, services, and support. When she is not working, she is spending quality time with her family and planning her next adventure.

https://tosharollins.com/]]>2073asr,autism,autismology,christian,competency,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rollins,spectrum,stephanie,toshafalse104fullNavigating the NeuroDiverse Family Journey with the Holmes 4https://www.spreaker.com/episode/navigating-the-neurodiverse-family-journey-with-the-holmes-4--56599756We have on the show with us both daughters, Sydney and Erica. We share about our new book coming out later this year.

The family discusses their lived experience from their lens and what they learned about others in the family system, reading chapters each has written from hindsight learning.
Themes of today's show move from regret and missed opportunities to forgiveness, reconciliation, and hope!
Find out more about the book! Coming Soon!
www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

The audio book is live!
Get it here!
https://store.bookbaby.com/book/embracing-the-autism-spectrum]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56599756Mon, 02 Oct 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday, our focus is more than ND marriage but the neurodiverse family system. We have on the show with us both daughters, Sydney and Erica. We share about our new book coming out later this year. The family discusses their lived experience from their...We have on the show with us both daughters, Sydney and Erica. We share about our new book coming out later this year.

The family discusses their lived experience from their lens and what they learned about others in the family system, reading chapters each has written from hindsight learning.
Themes of today's show move from regret and missed opportunities to forgiveness, reconciliation, and hope!
Find out more about the book! Coming Soon!
www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

The audio book is live!
Get it here!
https://store.bookbaby.com/book/embracing-the-autism-spectrum]]>3536asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,family,holmes,journey,marriage,marriages,navigating,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse103fullBest Practices for Identifying Adults on the Autism Spectrumhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/best-practices-for-identifying-adults-on-the-autism-spectrum--56599257Guest: Dr. Celine Saulnier
Assessing ASD over the LifeSpan

Guest Bio:
Dr. Saulnier obtained her doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Connecticut. She trained and worked at the Yale Child Study Center’s Autism Program for nearly a decade before relocating to Emory University School of Medicine and the Marcus Autism Center in Atlanta, GA, where she directed a large-scale clinical research program from 2011 to 2018.

In 2018, she opened her own company, Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services, where she specializes in diagnostic assessment, as well as teaching and training for autism spectrum and related disorders. Dr. Saulnier has published numerous articles; she is an author on the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition, and she has written two books, Essentials of Autism Spectrum Disorders Evaluation and Assessment and
Essentials of Adaptive Behavior Assessment of Neurodevelopmental Disorders

Stephanie C Holmes, Ed.D, MA BCCC (through AACC)

Join Dr. Holmes and Dr. Saulnier as they discuss her two presentations at the Converge Autism Summit. Dr. Celine discusses why it is difficult to diagnose adults on the spectrum and discusses camouflaging and masking. She discusses subtle symptomatology in individuals who have intact or high cognition and language and what the standards are for best practice in evaluating adults. Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Celine also discuss adaptive skills vs. cognition and what adaptive skills are? How can some adults be so exceptional in one arena and have deficits in the next?

Dr. Holmes has a YouTube on this as well at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=porR_YbwIF4&t=6s

NOTE:
We had an incredible opportunity to sit down with our guest, Dr. Celine Saulnier, but due to the environment we found ourselves in, some unexpected technical challenges arose during the recording. The audio quality isn't quite up to our usual standards. However, the conversation we had was so valuable that we didn't want to keep it from you. It's a truly candid and insightful discussion that we believe you'll find incredibly worthwhile. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause, but on occasion, we will sacrifice great audio quality if it means we can give you great content to enrich your journey.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56599257Mon, 25 Sep 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesGuest: Dr. Celine Saulnier Assessing ASD over the LifeSpan Guest Bio: Dr. Saulnier obtained her doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Connecticut. She trained and worked at the Yale Child Study Center’s Autism Program for nearly a...Guest: Dr. Celine Saulnier
Assessing ASD over the LifeSpan

Guest Bio:
Dr. Saulnier obtained her doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Connecticut. She trained and worked at the Yale Child Study Center’s Autism Program for nearly a decade before relocating to Emory University School of Medicine and the Marcus Autism Center in Atlanta, GA, where she directed a large-scale clinical research program from 2011 to 2018.

In 2018, she opened her own company, Neurodevelopmental Assessment & Consulting Services, where she specializes in diagnostic assessment, as well as teaching and training for autism spectrum and related disorders. Dr. Saulnier has published numerous articles; she is an author on the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales, Third Edition, and she has written two books, Essentials of Autism Spectrum Disorders Evaluation and Assessment and
Essentials of Adaptive Behavior Assessment of Neurodevelopmental Disorders

Stephanie C Holmes, Ed.D, MA BCCC (through AACC)

Join Dr. Holmes and Dr. Saulnier as they discuss her two presentations at the Converge Autism Summit. Dr. Celine discusses why it is difficult to diagnose adults on the spectrum and discusses camouflaging and masking. She discusses subtle symptomatology in individuals who have intact or high cognition and language and what the standards are for best practice in evaluating adults. Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Celine also discuss adaptive skills vs. cognition and what adaptive skills are? How can some adults be so exceptional in one arena and have deficits in the next?

Dr. Holmes has a YouTube on this as well at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=porR_YbwIF4&t=6s

NOTE:
We had an incredible opportunity to sit down with our guest, Dr. Celine Saulnier, but due to the environment we found ourselves in, some unexpected technical challenges arose during the recording. The audio quality isn't quite up to our usual standards. However, the conversation we had was so valuable that we didn't want to keep it from you. It's a truly candid and insightful discussion that we believe you'll find incredibly worthwhile. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause, but on occasion, we will sacrifice great audio quality if it means we can give you great content to enrich your journey.]]>3086asr,autism,best,celine,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,identification,identifying,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,practices,resources,saulnier,spectrum,stephaniefalse102fullChristianity on the Spectrum and NDCCs with Dr. Thomas Luckinghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/christianity-on-the-spectrum-and-ndccs-with-dr-thomas-lucking--55639163
Topics we cover today:
Christianity on the Spectrum
The power of religious thoughts and rigid thinking
Relationships and Visual vs Auditory Processing
What we can learn from churches to help families using XYZ Families
Practicing social skills at church
How can a Christian therapist or coach support a closer relationship with God

About Dr. Lucking:
Dr. Thomas Lucking, Ph.D., LMFT
Dr. Thomas Lucking is passionate about understanding the human experience and what it takes for people to flourish as individuals, in relationships, and in the workplace. His own career path, from a Microsoft software engineer to a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, and psychology professor, represents the diversity and complexity of the human journey. He embraces an integral approach in his work with individuals, couples, families, and teams in the workplace. Dr. Lucking’s specialties and research interests include the following:
Anxiety and stress management especially related to work-life balance
Asperger’s, Autism, and ADHD, including Neurodiverse couples
Couples, families, and relationships, including dating, sexuality, parenting, co-parenting, step-parenting, divorce, and infidelity
Decision-making, discernment, and conflict resolution
Digital addiction and failure to launch
Emotional intelligence, goal-setting, and vision-setting
Personality typing, optimal well-being, and positive psychology
Spirituality, identity, and existential issues
Trauma and attachment disorders
Dr. Lucking is the founder and director of Silicon Valley Therapy (www.SiliconValleyTherapy.co). Silicon Valley Therapy provides psychotherapy, coaching, and consulting services to clients in the Bay Area and beyond. Dr. Lucking has created multiple therapeutic and coaching modalities, including 167 Therapy, RMT (Relationship-based, Metric-driven Therapy), ISM (Island of Shared Meaning healthy communication), and waVe (With A Vision We All Excel). Dr. Lucking believes the change process is multi-faceted. He empowers individuals, couples, families, and teams with education, experiences, neurofeedback, and practical tools. This empowerment drives coherent communication, prosocial behavior, habit change, deep insights, reconciliation of past wounds, and relationships that thrive.
Dr. Lucking is a professor in a master’s level psychology program. He has received degrees in computer science, counseling psychology, and theology and completed his doctoral research in positive psychology. His mission is to serve in a way that honors the Biblical mandate to “do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with God” (Micah 6:8). Dr. Lucking has decades of experience helping individuals, relationships, families, and organizations create a purpose-driven future rooted in ongoing transformation and growth.

Find out more at:
https://www.siliconvalleytherapy.co/dr-thomas-lucking/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55639163Mon, 18 Sep 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie heard Dr. Lucking speak at the ND Love Conference earlier this year. Stephanie and Dan talk through some specific points about Christianity and the Spectrum and NDCCs. Topics we cover today: - Christianity on the Spectrum - The power...
Topics we cover today:
Christianity on the Spectrum
The power of religious thoughts and rigid thinking
Relationships and Visual vs Auditory Processing
What we can learn from churches to help families using XYZ Families
Practicing social skills at church
How can a Christian therapist or coach support a closer relationship with God

About Dr. Lucking:
Dr. Thomas Lucking, Ph.D., LMFT
Dr. Thomas Lucking is passionate about understanding the human experience and what it takes for people to flourish as individuals, in relationships, and in the workplace. His own career path, from a Microsoft software engineer to a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, and psychology professor, represents the diversity and complexity of the human journey. He embraces an integral approach in his work with individuals, couples, families, and teams in the workplace. Dr. Lucking’s specialties and research interests include the following:
Anxiety and stress management especially related to work-life balance
Asperger’s, Autism, and ADHD, including Neurodiverse couples
Couples, families, and relationships, including dating, sexuality, parenting, co-parenting, step-parenting, divorce, and infidelity
Decision-making, discernment, and conflict resolution
Digital addiction and failure to launch
Emotional intelligence, goal-setting, and vision-setting
Personality typing, optimal well-being, and positive psychology
Spirituality, identity, and existential issues
Trauma and attachment disorders
Dr. Lucking is the founder and director of Silicon Valley Therapy (www.SiliconValleyTherapy.co). Silicon Valley Therapy provides psychotherapy, coaching, and consulting services to clients in the Bay Area and beyond. Dr. Lucking has created multiple therapeutic and coaching modalities, including 167 Therapy, RMT (Relationship-based, Metric-driven Therapy), ISM (Island of Shared Meaning healthy communication), and waVe (With A Vision We All Excel). Dr. Lucking believes the change process is multi-faceted. He empowers individuals, couples, families, and teams with education, experiences, neurofeedback, and practical tools. This empowerment drives coherent communication, prosocial behavior, habit change, deep insights, reconciliation of past wounds, and relationships that thrive.
Dr. Lucking is a professor in a master’s level psychology program. He has received degrees in computer science, counseling psychology, and theology and completed his doctoral research in positive psychology. His mission is to serve in a way that honors the Biblical mandate to “do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with God” (Micah 6:8). Dr. Lucking has decades of experience helping individuals, relationships, families, and organizations create a purpose-driven future rooted in ongoing transformation and growth.

Find out more at:
https://www.siliconvalleytherapy.co/dr-thomas-lucking/]]>3129asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,lucking,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thomasfalse101fullDiscipline - That's also Relationalhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/discipline-that-s-also-relational--56643594https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56643594Wed, 13 Sep 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJust The Guys talk about their approach to parental discipline.2675asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,discipline,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse914fullHow to Use Polyvagal Theory with AS Clientshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-to-use-polyvagal-theory-with-as-clients--55638351
Join Dr. Holmes and Jill Jones for an introduction to Polyvagal theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol that stems from PVT.

You can find out more about Jill Jones at www.baylaureltherapay.com

Jill Jones Biography:
Jill Jones, LISW-CP, grew up in a neuro-divergent household and taught in public schools for 14 years before getting her MSW degree in 2002. Since then, Jill has been a clinical social worker for various agencies, including the lead therapist on the team that developed the autism services at Springbrook Autism Behavioral Health. Jill has been serving individuals, families, and groups in private practice at Bay Laurel Center for Psychotherapy in Greenville, SC, since 2014, with neurodiversity still being a major practice focus. Jill sponsored and supported autistic adults to develop the Upstate Adult Aspies Meetup social group, which now has over 200 members. Over the years, she has also led autism education workshops, study groups, and training for therapists, mental health workers, parents, autistic adults, and law enforcement.

She is also a Certified Safe and Sound Protocol Provider.

Contacting Jill Jones:
jill@baylaureltherapy.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55638351Mon, 11 Sep 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJill Jones, LISW-CP Join Dr. Holmes and Jill Jones for an introduction to Polyvagal theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol that stems from PVT. You can find out more about Jill Jones at www.baylaureltherapay.com Jill Jones Biography: Jill Jones,...
Join Dr. Holmes and Jill Jones for an introduction to Polyvagal theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol that stems from PVT.

You can find out more about Jill Jones at www.baylaureltherapay.com

Jill Jones Biography:
Jill Jones, LISW-CP, grew up in a neuro-divergent household and taught in public schools for 14 years before getting her MSW degree in 2002. Since then, Jill has been a clinical social worker for various agencies, including the lead therapist on the team that developed the autism services at Springbrook Autism Behavioral Health. Jill has been serving individuals, families, and groups in private practice at Bay Laurel Center for Psychotherapy in Greenville, SC, since 2014, with neurodiversity still being a major practice focus. Jill sponsored and supported autistic adults to develop the Upstate Adult Aspies Meetup social group, which now has over 200 members. Over the years, she has also led autism education workshops, study groups, and training for therapists, mental health workers, parents, autistic adults, and law enforcement.

She is also a Certified Safe and Sound Protocol Provider.

Contacting Jill Jones:
jill@baylaureltherapy.com]]>2654asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jill,jones,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,polyvagal,resources,spectrum,stephanie,theoryfalse913fullHindsight Learning: What we continue to learn about our ND Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hindsight-learning-what-we-continue-to-learn-about-our-nd-marriage--56584224
The family has written a book coming this fall! If you want to see more of their hindsight learning as a neurodiverse marriage and family, check out

www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

Podcasts Stephanie mentioned today:

Key ingredients to marriage:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/key-ingredients-to-god-honoring-nd-marri

Dr. Tony Attwood, What can we expect to change?
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/what-can-we-expect-to-change

Dr. Gill on Attachment Injuries:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/dr-gill-attachment-and-attachment-injuri

Dr. Gill on Repairs from Injury, Q&A
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/answering-listener-questions-on-attachme

Barbara Grant , Boundaries and Godly Sorrow
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/boundaries-vs-codependency-godly-sorrow-]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56584224Mon, 04 Sep 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie, while working on their family book, continue to process things they are learning about themselves and marriage as an ND Christian Couple. They pass on things they wish they had known and why knowing about the diagnosis is so...
The family has written a book coming this fall! If you want to see more of their hindsight learning as a neurodiverse marriage and family, check out

www.christianneurodiversefamilies.com

Podcasts Stephanie mentioned today:

Key ingredients to marriage:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/key-ingredients-to-god-honoring-nd-marri

Dr. Tony Attwood, What can we expect to change?
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/what-can-we-expect-to-change

Dr. Gill on Attachment Injuries:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/dr-gill-attachment-and-attachment-injuri

Dr. Gill on Repairs from Injury, Q&A
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/answering-listener-questions-on-attachme

Barbara Grant , Boundaries and Godly Sorrow
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/boundaries-vs-codependency-godly-sorrow-]]>3842asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,hindsight,holmes,learning,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse912fullThe Importance of Present Dads, Self-Care, & Building Community with John Felagellerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-importance-of-present-dads-self-care-building-community-with-john-felageller--56572514
Connect with John on his website:
www.johnfelageller.com

John has contributed a blog to our site,
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/challenges-grief-hope-marriage-special-needs-parenting]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56572514Mon, 28 Aug 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJohn Felageller has spent over 15 years in education, working with children from Infants to Middle School, serving in a variety of roles, including Teacher, Mentor Teacher, and School Director. John lives in Highwood, IL, and is a single father to his...
Connect with John on his website:
www.johnfelageller.com

John has contributed a blog to our site,
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/challenges-grief-hope-marriage-special-needs-parenting]]>3750asr,autism,christian,couples,dads,dan,diverse,felageller,holmes,importance,john,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,present,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse911fullGrowing up with an ASD Dad with Guest Erica Holmeshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/growing-up-with-an-asd-dad-with-guest-erica-holmes--56521207
Dr. Stephanie interviews Dan and Erica about their relationship. We are talking about our book that is to be published this year, which tells a four-person perspective on living in a neurodiverse family system.

Keep a look out for their book coming out in 2023! We hope!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56521207Mon, 21 Aug 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month we have been focusing on parenting with an ASD partner and parenting in a neurodiverse family system. We have had some listeners ask for a podcast on ASD dads. So today, we bring in our youngest daughter, who is not on the spectrum, to...
Dr. Stephanie interviews Dan and Erica about their relationship. We are talking about our book that is to be published this year, which tells a four-person perspective on living in a neurodiverse family system.

Keep a look out for their book coming out in 2023! We hope!]]>3272asd,asr,autism,christian,couples,dad,dan,diverse,erica,growing,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,upfalse910fullJTG Talk Parentinghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jtg-talk-parenting--56457158https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56457158Wed, 16 Aug 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesFrom building safe environments to perspectives on social media and a couple of topics in between, JTG talks about parenting.3133asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,jtg,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,parenting,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse99fullAutism Dadvocate, Paul Carrollhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-dadvocate-paul-carroll--56418523
As Head of Colleague & Leadership Development at CVS Health, I lead an amazing
Talent Development team of 25 professionals who take our leaders and colleagues to
“the next level” – strengthening their skill sets in their current role, while preparing
them for their future role in the organization.
We achieve this by leveraging data, partnering with our business unit stakeholders,
and providing a suite of innovative development programs to meet our colleagues
where they are. We take enormous pride in developing an internal “workforce of the
future.”

My background is 20+ years of leading teams in L&D, Talent Development, and
Leadership Development with organizations in the areas of financial services,
manufacturing, pharmaceuticals, and health care.

In my spare time, I am the father of an amazing 16-year-old and a self-proclaimed
autism “Dadvocate.” I am the Founder and Creator of www.AutismDadvocate.org
My Autism Dadvocate podcast recently passed 7000 unique downloads and is
available on Apple iTunes, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

https://www.autismdadvocate.org/whatdadsofautistickidsneedtohearaboutmaritalstrainandhealthydialogue]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56418523Mon, 14 Aug 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAbout Paul: As Head of Colleague & Leadership Development at CVS Health, I lead an amazing Talent Development team of 25 professionals who take our leaders and colleagues to “the next level” – strengthening their skill sets in their current role,...
As Head of Colleague & Leadership Development at CVS Health, I lead an amazing
Talent Development team of 25 professionals who take our leaders and colleagues to
“the next level” – strengthening their skill sets in their current role, while preparing
them for their future role in the organization.
We achieve this by leveraging data, partnering with our business unit stakeholders,
and providing a suite of innovative development programs to meet our colleagues
where they are. We take enormous pride in developing an internal “workforce of the
future.”

My background is 20+ years of leading teams in L&D, Talent Development, and
Leadership Development with organizations in the areas of financial services,
manufacturing, pharmaceuticals, and health care.

In my spare time, I am the father of an amazing 16-year-old and a self-proclaimed
autism “Dadvocate.” I am the Founder and Creator of www.AutismDadvocate.org
My Autism Dadvocate podcast recently passed 7000 unique downloads and is
available on Apple iTunes, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

https://www.autismdadvocate.org/whatdadsofautistickidsneedtohearaboutmaritalstrainandhealthydialogue]]>3383asr,autism,carroll,christian,couples,dadvocate,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,paul,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse98fullPartnering & Parenting as an ND Couple with Kate & Clarkhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/partnering-parenting-as-an-nd-couple-with-kate-clark--55432039
Dan and Stephanie talk about parenting and partnering with fellow ND couple Kate and Clark Webb.

Meet married couple, Kate and Clark. Kate is the neurotypical partner, and Clark is the neurodiverse partner. They have been married for 11 years and have two beautifully independent, strong, and opinionated daughters, ages 3 and 7. Clark received his ASD diagnosis in October 2020, and it has been an eye-opening journey of learning each other’s point-of-view and tactics on parenting. Kate works professionally in the performing arts, and Clark is an auto technician, a special interest he chose to pursue after his diagnosis. Clark is also a US Marine Corps Veteran and completed 2 tours in Iraq before the age of 23.

Together, they consider themselves a dynamic parenting couple that is ready to take on any challenge together and share their experiences with others.

Social Media Links and other contact information:
Instagram: @neurodiversecouple
Email: neurodiversecouple@gmail.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55432039Mon, 07 Aug 2023 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis month we will highlight parenting and partnering. Dr. Holmes heard Kate and Clark Webb present at the NeuroDiverse Love conference on parenting and thought this would be a good topic to bring to our listeners. Dan and Stephanie talk about...
Dan and Stephanie talk about parenting and partnering with fellow ND couple Kate and Clark Webb.

Meet married couple, Kate and Clark. Kate is the neurotypical partner, and Clark is the neurodiverse partner. They have been married for 11 years and have two beautifully independent, strong, and opinionated daughters, ages 3 and 7. Clark received his ASD diagnosis in October 2020, and it has been an eye-opening journey of learning each other’s point-of-view and tactics on parenting. Kate works professionally in the performing arts, and Clark is an auto technician, a special interest he chose to pursue after his diagnosis. Clark is also a US Marine Corps Veteran and completed 2 tours in Iraq before the age of 23.

Together, they consider themselves a dynamic parenting couple that is ready to take on any challenge together and share their experiences with others.

Social Media Links and other contact information:
Instagram: @neurodiversecouple
Email: neurodiversecouple@gmail.com]]>3406asr,autism,christian,clark,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,kate,marriage,marriages,nd,neuro,neurodiverse,parenting,partnering,resources,spectrum,stephanie,webbfalse97fullEveryone Deserves a Seat at the Table with "Doc" Hunsley of SOARhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/everyone-deserves-a-seat-at-the-table-with-doc-hunsley-of-soar--55430254
"Doc" has developed an excellent buddy training program for providing support to individuals with needs from childhood to adulthood. Experience is not necessary for this buddy training, but a willingness to learn and grow and to be teachable about supporting individuals in creative and inclusive ways is a must. Dr. Holmes and "Doc' will discuss the importance of inclusion and how to train volunteers for the best inclusive practices for various settings.

Stephen “Doc” Hunsley, M.D., is the Executive Director and founder of SOAR Special Needs in Overland Park, Kansas. SOAR (Special Opportunities, Abilities, and Relationships) serves over 900 individuals with special needs through regular respite events and a Special Needs Day Camp. Doc founded and leads the Kansas City Special Needs Ministries Network for area church leaders. Doc also organizes the Wonderfully Made Conference held annually every October in Kansas City. Prior to creating SOAR as an independent 501(c)3, Doc created the Special Needs Ministry at Grace Church in Overland Park and Olathe, Kansas, and served as the special needs pastor. Before this, Doc was a children’s pastor. Doc is a retired pediatrician, while his wife, Kay, continues practicing pediatrics. They are proud parents to three beautiful children: Luke, Mark, and Sarah. The Hunsley’s middle child, Mark, is presently running the halls of heaven. During Mark’s five-year earthly stay, he gave his family the opportunity to learn from and love a child with autism.

You can follow SOAR on Facebook or Connect with Doc on Twitter: @DocHunsley.

www.SOARSpecialNeeds.org

Wonderfully Made Conference and the entire Buddy Training talked about today can be found at https://www.wonderfullymadekc.com/ and will be available until the fall of 2021.

You can also find this training at https://www.youtube.com/watchv=7iMiO3bZpJk&ab_channel=SOARSpecialNeeds]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55430254Mon, 31 Jul 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews and converses with Dr. Hunsley, known as "Doc", about how everyone deserves a seat at the table and how, in every aspect of society and community (especially the faith community), we should be inclusive and aware of...
"Doc" has developed an excellent buddy training program for providing support to individuals with needs from childhood to adulthood. Experience is not necessary for this buddy training, but a willingness to learn and grow and to be teachable about supporting individuals in creative and inclusive ways is a must. Dr. Holmes and "Doc' will discuss the importance of inclusion and how to train volunteers for the best inclusive practices for various settings.

Stephen “Doc” Hunsley, M.D., is the Executive Director and founder of SOAR Special Needs in Overland Park, Kansas. SOAR (Special Opportunities, Abilities, and Relationships) serves over 900 individuals with special needs through regular respite events and a Special Needs Day Camp. Doc founded and leads the Kansas City Special Needs Ministries Network for area church leaders. Doc also organizes the Wonderfully Made Conference held annually every October in Kansas City. Prior to creating SOAR as an independent 501(c)3, Doc created the Special Needs Ministry at Grace Church in Overland Park and Olathe, Kansas, and served as the special needs pastor. Before this, Doc was a children’s pastor. Doc is a retired pediatrician, while his wife, Kay, continues practicing pediatrics. They are proud parents to three beautiful children: Luke, Mark, and Sarah. The Hunsley’s middle child, Mark, is presently running the halls of heaven. During Mark’s five-year earthly stay, he gave his family the opportunity to learn from and love a child with autism.

You can follow SOAR on Facebook or Connect with Doc on Twitter: @DocHunsley.

www.SOARSpecialNeeds.org

Wonderfully Made Conference and the entire Buddy Training talked about today can be found at https://www.wonderfullymadekc.com/ and will be available until the fall of 2021.

You can also find this training at https://www.youtube.com/watchv=7iMiO3bZpJk&ab_channel=SOARSpecialNeeds]]>3639asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,doc,doctor,holmes,hunsley,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,seat,soar,spectrum,stephanie,stephenfalse96fullFriendship Love Autism with ND Couple Michelle & Andrew Prestonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-love-autism-with-nd-couple-michelle-andrew-preston--55025201About my Guests:

Michelle and Andrew Preston are a neurodiverse couple who gained a large social media following by sharing their struggles. After having many videos about their various miscommunications go viral, they decided it was important to write a book to help other couples like themselves.

Their debut novel 'Friendship Love Autism' is all about how Michelle discovered Andrew is autistic, approached him about it, and how the diagnosis process saved their relationship. It is written by both of them as they share their separate perspectives. This is where the magic in their book resides, as it helps to highlight how their brains work differently.

Michelle and Andrew currently reside in Costa Rica, where they plan to write the rest of their book series. Through their books, they aim to break the stigma of autism and educate the world about neurodiversity.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55025201Mon, 24 Jul 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAbout my Guests: Michelle and Andrew Preston are a neurodiverse couple who gained a large social media following by sharing their struggles. After having many videos about their various miscommunications go viral, they decided it was important to...About my Guests:

Michelle and Andrew Preston are a neurodiverse couple who gained a large social media following by sharing their struggles. After having many videos about their various miscommunications go viral, they decided it was important to write a book to help other couples like themselves.

Their debut novel 'Friendship Love Autism' is all about how Michelle discovered Andrew is autistic, approached him about it, and how the diagnosis process saved their relationship. It is written by both of them as they share their separate perspectives. This is where the magic in their book resides, as it helps to highlight how their brains work differently.

Michelle and Andrew currently reside in Costa Rica, where they plan to write the rest of their book series. Through their books, they aim to break the stigma of autism and educate the world about neurodiversity.]]>3822andrew,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,friendship,holmes,love,marriage,marriages,michelle,neuro,neurodiverse,preston,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse95fullAnswering Listener Questions on Attachment, Rupture & Repair with Dr. Gillhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/answering-listener-questions-on-attachment-rupture-repair-with-dr-gill--55024692We asked listeners what do you want to know more about attachment?
Here are some questions we received:
Is a contract (marriage license and officiated wedding) the same thing as an attachment?
Is it the start of one, or perhaps not part of it at all? Can it be true for one party and not the other?
When intending to form new attachments, is it feeling first or thinking first (acting first)?
What's the relationship between attachment and emotional control?
Which comes first, attachment or compassion?
How does the Theory of mind differ in sentiment between those we have an attachment with and those we don't?
So what causes rupture?
What is repair?
How does this fit with the idea of 'keeping a record of wrong"
Where do you start? Connection 101
What about different levels of need to connect or attach?

About Dr. Gill:
Jesse Gill, Psy.D., is a licensed psychologist who is the Clinic Director for Psychological Health Affiliates in Hershey, PA. He is passionate about integrating Scripture with Attachment Theory. Jesse applies these truths to Christian marriage in his book Face to Face: Seven Keys to a Secure Marriage. He has been providing training on this subject to counselors, couples, and pastors for more than the past 15 years. Jesse has served as an elder at his home church and has a heart for pastors. He has provided training, consultation, and assessment services to independent churches and denominations in the Northeast. Jesse speaks regularly for the American Association of Christian Counselors and has published articles on building healthy marriages and families, which are in print in the US and overseas. He has appeared as a relationship expert for Life, Love, and Family Radio, CBN News, Real America’s Voice, and the Family Research Council. He is married to April, and together they build a secure attachment in their marriage and with their children. He has many valuable resources on his website
–facetofaceliving.com, including a booklet that gives you practical dating ideas to build a secure attachment with your spouse.

Dr. Gill has contributed to our blog:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/carnations-are-red-her-hair-was-blue-attachment-means-i-m-just-thinking-of-you
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/carnations-are-red-part-2

Dr. Gill's book:
https://www.facetofacemarriage.com/the-author]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55024692Mon, 17 Jul 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe welcome bas Dr. Jesse Gill who did 2 podcasts with us last year on the basics of Attachment. We asked listeners what do you want to know more about attachment? Here are some questions we received: Is a contract (marriage license and officiated...We asked listeners what do you want to know more about attachment?
Here are some questions we received:
Is a contract (marriage license and officiated wedding) the same thing as an attachment?
Is it the start of one, or perhaps not part of it at all? Can it be true for one party and not the other?
When intending to form new attachments, is it feeling first or thinking first (acting first)?
What's the relationship between attachment and emotional control?
Which comes first, attachment or compassion?
How does the Theory of mind differ in sentiment between those we have an attachment with and those we don't?
So what causes rupture?
What is repair?
How does this fit with the idea of 'keeping a record of wrong"
Where do you start? Connection 101
What about different levels of need to connect or attach?

About Dr. Gill:
Jesse Gill, Psy.D., is a licensed psychologist who is the Clinic Director for Psychological Health Affiliates in Hershey, PA. He is passionate about integrating Scripture with Attachment Theory. Jesse applies these truths to Christian marriage in his book Face to Face: Seven Keys to a Secure Marriage. He has been providing training on this subject to counselors, couples, and pastors for more than the past 15 years. Jesse has served as an elder at his home church and has a heart for pastors. He has provided training, consultation, and assessment services to independent churches and denominations in the Northeast. Jesse speaks regularly for the American Association of Christian Counselors and has published articles on building healthy marriages and families, which are in print in the US and overseas. He has appeared as a relationship expert for Life, Love, and Family Radio, CBN News, Real America’s Voice, and the Family Research Council. He is married to April, and together they build a secure attachment in their marriage and with their children. He has many valuable resources on his website
–facetofaceliving.com, including a booklet that gives you practical dating ideas to build a secure attachment with your spouse.

Dr. Gill has contributed to our blog:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/carnations-are-red-her-hair-was-blue-attachment-means-i-m-just-thinking-of-you
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/carnations-are-red-part-2

Dr. Gill's book:
https://www.facetofacemarriage.com/the-author]]>3868asr,attachment,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gill,holmes,jesse,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,repair,resources,rupture,spectrum,stephaniefalse94fullJust The Guys - Generosity Starts at Homehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-generosity-starts-at-home--56077094What does that term mean now, and how did it evolve over the years?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56077094Thu, 13 Jul 2023 00:09:57 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesGreg, Jeremy, Mark, Clay, and Dan talk about generosity. What does that term mean now, and how did it evolve over the years?What does that term mean now, and how did it evolve over the years?]]>2498asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,generosity,guys,holmes,home,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,starts,stephanie,thefalse93fullThe Sound Relationship House with Gottman Trained Therapisthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-sound-relationship-house-with-gottman-trained-therapist--56017051
We talk today about The Sound Relationship House and "Why Marriages Succeed or Fail" based on Gottman's evidence-based research.

There are very few Christian counselors, coaches, and pastors who are trained in ND marriage. Our research shows Christians want to work with another Christian marriage helper, but sadly many Christian professionals still do not take ND relationships seriously and stick to Sunday School advice (pray more, submit more, have more sex) or say dismissive things like "relationship problems are relationship problems" and dismiss the need for additional training.
Therefore, if you cannot find a Christian therapist, find someone who will respect your faith, has Gottman training, and is ND trained.

Topics today include:
Building The Sound Relationship House
The 4 horsemen and their antidotes
We answer a listener's question about stonewalling concerning intentional vs. unintentional.

About Dr. McNulty
Mike McNulty, Ph.D., is a teacher, trainer, and psychotherapist who specializes in working with neurodiverse couples. He is the founder and owner of The Chicago Relationship Center and provides intensive couples therapy through Couples Therapy Inc. He was one of the first five advanced clinical trainers appointed by The Gottman Institute to provide workshops for couples and professionals at all levels of Gottman training. He obtained his Ph.D. from the Institute for
Clinical Social Work in Chicago in 2000. An extensive summary of his dissertation research, entitled “Dyslexia and the Life Course,” was published in the Journal of Learning Disabilities in July of 2003, and has been cited more than 500 times in peer-reviewed publications. He went
on to present his work with neurodiverse couples in 2007 at The Annual Gottman Conference. More recently, Dr. McNulty led webinars for The Gottman Institute for professionals and for
consumers on neurodiverse couples. He has also interviewed for several podcasts on this topic
and others. He regularly leads “The Art & Science of Love: A Weekend Workshop for Couples” in Chicago and Oakland.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/56017051Mon, 10 Jul 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan joins Stephanie with Dr. Mike McNulty, a Gottman-trained therapist who also specializes in NeuroDiverse couples. We talk today about The Sound Relationship House and "Why Marriages Succeed or Fail" based on Gottman's evidence-based...
We talk today about The Sound Relationship House and "Why Marriages Succeed or Fail" based on Gottman's evidence-based research.

There are very few Christian counselors, coaches, and pastors who are trained in ND marriage. Our research shows Christians want to work with another Christian marriage helper, but sadly many Christian professionals still do not take ND relationships seriously and stick to Sunday School advice (pray more, submit more, have more sex) or say dismissive things like "relationship problems are relationship problems" and dismiss the need for additional training.
Therefore, if you cannot find a Christian therapist, find someone who will respect your faith, has Gottman training, and is ND trained.

Topics today include:
Building The Sound Relationship House
The 4 horsemen and their antidotes
We answer a listener's question about stonewalling concerning intentional vs. unintentional.

About Dr. McNulty
Mike McNulty, Ph.D., is a teacher, trainer, and psychotherapist who specializes in working with neurodiverse couples. He is the founder and owner of The Chicago Relationship Center and provides intensive couples therapy through Couples Therapy Inc. He was one of the first five advanced clinical trainers appointed by The Gottman Institute to provide workshops for couples and professionals at all levels of Gottman training. He obtained his Ph.D. from the Institute for
Clinical Social Work in Chicago in 2000. An extensive summary of his dissertation research, entitled “Dyslexia and the Life Course,” was published in the Journal of Learning Disabilities in July of 2003, and has been cited more than 500 times in peer-reviewed publications. He went
on to present his work with neurodiverse couples in 2007 at The Annual Gottman Conference. More recently, Dr. McNulty led webinars for The Gottman Institute for professionals and for
consumers on neurodiverse couples. He has also interviewed for several podcasts on this topic
and others. He regularly leads “The Art & Science of Love: A Weekend Workshop for Couples” in Chicago and Oakland.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>3281asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gottman,holmes,house,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,relationship,resources,sound,spectrum,stephanie,therapistfalse92fullBuilding Intimacy and Connection in an ND Christian Marriagehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/building-intimacy-and-connection-in-an-nd-christian-marriage--55024060https://api.spreaker.com/episode/55024060Mon, 03 Jul 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan and Stephanie talk through June Hunt's book simply called Intimacy. We will discuss the 6 levels of intimacy and false intimacy. Can sex actually be false intimacy? What defines connection for each partner, both NT, and ND?3150asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse91fullIs the Body of Christ including All its Members? Jillian Palmiottohttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-the-body-of-christ-including-all-its-members-jillian-palmiotto--54529504

About our Guest:
Jillian Palmiotto is the Founder of the Together Conference and the Founder and Executive Director of Together We Care, a nonprofit organization that focuses on meeting the everyday needs of families impacted by disability as well as equipping organizations for disability inclusion. In 2016, Jillian launched the Together Conference after receiving requests to help other ministry leaders learn the how-tos for developing an inclusive ministry. What began as a small gathering of volunteers, church staff, and pastors has now developed into a nationally known conference. She holds a BA in Early Childhood Education and a MA in Inclusive Education. She is also a licensed minister and served as the disability pastor at Mount Paran Church for seven years. Jillian is married to her husband, Anthony, and they have two children, Samantha and Nicholas, and two furbabies, Noelle and Beau.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54529504Mon, 26 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie Holmes met Jillian through being a sponsor of the Together Conference that happens in GA. In their discussion, she found a kindred spirit and admires the ministry work to include members of the body of Christ who have disabilities and...

About our Guest:
Jillian Palmiotto is the Founder of the Together Conference and the Founder and Executive Director of Together We Care, a nonprofit organization that focuses on meeting the everyday needs of families impacted by disability as well as equipping organizations for disability inclusion. In 2016, Jillian launched the Together Conference after receiving requests to help other ministry leaders learn the how-tos for developing an inclusive ministry. What began as a small gathering of volunteers, church staff, and pastors has now developed into a nationally known conference. She holds a BA in Early Childhood Education and a MA in Inclusive Education. She is also a licensed minister and served as the disability pastor at Mount Paran Church for seven years. Jillian is married to her husband, Anthony, and they have two children, Samantha and Nicholas, and two furbabies, Noelle and Beau.]]>4002asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jillian,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,palmiotto,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse815fullCulture, Stigma, Autism & People of Color with Dr. Mary Joneshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/culture-stigma-autism-people-of-color-with-dr-mary-jones--54477397Today our guest is a former pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience.

About Dr. Mary Jones:
I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach.
I believe there is greatness in each of us, and I’m passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout my life and career, I have had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves.
Each day, I have the privilege of spending time coaching amazing women who are reaching goals and fulfilling a compelling vision for their lives.
My vision is to see women living out their purpose and effecting change in their own spheres of influence.

Contact her at:
https://maryjonescoaching.coachsolutions.cc/
drmaryspeaks@gmail.com
Article Dr. Mary mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/145/Supplement_1/S35/11550/Disparities-in-Service-Use-Among-Children-With?searchresult=1?autologincheck=redirected]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54477397Mon, 19 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday is Juneteenth! It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. Today our guest is a former pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and...Today our guest is a former pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience.

About Dr. Mary Jones:
I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach.
I believe there is greatness in each of us, and I’m passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout my life and career, I have had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves.
Each day, I have the privilege of spending time coaching amazing women who are reaching goals and fulfilling a compelling vision for their lives.
My vision is to see women living out their purpose and effecting change in their own spheres of influence.

Contact her at:
https://maryjonescoaching.coachsolutions.cc/
drmaryspeaks@gmail.com
Article Dr. Mary mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/145/Supplement_1/S35/11550/Disparities-in-Service-Use-Among-Children-With?searchresult=1?autologincheck=redirected]]>3366asr,autism,christian,color,couples,culture,dan,diverse,holmes,jones,marriage,marriages,mary,neuro,neurodiverse,people,resources,spectrum,stephanie,stigmafalse814fullJust The Guys Financially Relationalhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-financially-relational--54030495https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54030495Wed, 14 Jun 2023 03:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThe guys talk about the intersection of finances, emotions, and relationships.2764asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,financially,guys,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,relational,resources,spectrum,thefalse813fullUnderstanding Multiculturalism & Special Needs with Dr. Josecyln Ramos Campbellhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-multiculturalism-special-needs-with-dr-josecyln-ramos-campbell--54030185Joscelyn Ramos Campbell is an award-winning, on-air spokesperson, author, blogger, consultant, columnist, public speaker, respite care director, and a Special Needs Pastor at Hope International Church in Groveland, Florida.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to Cuban and Puerto Rican parents, Joscelyn is bilingual and bicultural. She is raising a multicultural and multigenerational family alongside her military veteran spouse of Irish American descent. Together, they have four wonderful boys; the oldest is in college, identical twins are in junior high, and the youngest is in kindergarten and has Autism. With a Legal Studies educational background and a degree in Pre-Law, Joscelyn has received several national awards in communications, public relations, and social media.
Joscelyn has over a decade of experience as an award-winning former federal government public relations spokesperson. As a principal spokesperson, her marketing efforts were key in the rapid growth of federal hiring for government agencies, including the U.S. Dept. of Transportation and the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency.

She is the creator of Mami of Multiples, one of the nation’s recognized and award-winning parenting and lifestyle websites owned by a Latina American Mom. Joscelyn has been featured on numerous television and media outlets, including CBS, NBC, NBC Latino, FOX, Univision, Telemundo, Huffington Post, and CNBC, to name a few. She is considered one of the top Latino social media stars and influential Hispanic-American bloggers.

As a successful “mompreneur” (mom entrepreneur), Joscelyn owns Mami Innovative Media, a communications business that has brought her experience in successful branding campaigns, national media management, and exposure. Joscelyn has partnered and collaborated with well-known brands, including but not limited to, Brawny, Britax, Chevrolet, Disney, DuPont & Teflon, Ford, Florida Space Coast, General Mills, Hormel Foods, Johnson’s Baby, Kmart, Lifetime Movie Network, Marshalls, McDonald’s, Nestle, Neutrogena, Proctor & Gamble, Target, Smuckers, State Farm, Sylvan Learning Center, T.J.Maxx, Toyota, Visit Orlando, Waldorf Astoria, and Wounded Warrior Project. The “super-connected power mom” was named by LATINA Magazine as one of the Best Latina Bloggers To Follow and Must Know and one of The 10 Best Latina Mom Bloggers on the Web. Joscelyn was selected in a joint venture by Disney and LATINA Magazine to be a Parenting and Family Columnist for LATINA Magazine.

A sought-after spokesperson, she travels across the U.S. for speaking engagements and conferences and holds leadership capacities for various organizations.

Connect with Joscelyn at joscelynramoscampbell.com
Instagram @JoscelynRamosCampbell
Facebook www.facebook.com/pastorjoscelyn
Twitter @JoscelynRC]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/54030185Mon, 12 Jun 2023 03:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she speaks with Joscelyn Campbell about how different cultures discuss and accept special needs or mental health diagnoses. Becoming multiculturally aware is important for clinicians and social workers as they partner with families...Joscelyn Ramos Campbell is an award-winning, on-air spokesperson, author, blogger, consultant, columnist, public speaker, respite care director, and a Special Needs Pastor at Hope International Church in Groveland, Florida.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to Cuban and Puerto Rican parents, Joscelyn is bilingual and bicultural. She is raising a multicultural and multigenerational family alongside her military veteran spouse of Irish American descent. Together, they have four wonderful boys; the oldest is in college, identical twins are in junior high, and the youngest is in kindergarten and has Autism. With a Legal Studies educational background and a degree in Pre-Law, Joscelyn has received several national awards in communications, public relations, and social media.
Joscelyn has over a decade of experience as an award-winning former federal government public relations spokesperson. As a principal spokesperson, her marketing efforts were key in the rapid growth of federal hiring for government agencies, including the U.S. Dept. of Transportation and the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency.

She is the creator of Mami of Multiples, one of the nation’s recognized and award-winning parenting and lifestyle websites owned by a Latina American Mom. Joscelyn has been featured on numerous television and media outlets, including CBS, NBC, NBC Latino, FOX, Univision, Telemundo, Huffington Post, and CNBC, to name a few. She is considered one of the top Latino social media stars and influential Hispanic-American bloggers.

As a successful “mompreneur” (mom entrepreneur), Joscelyn owns Mami Innovative Media, a communications business that has brought her experience in successful branding campaigns, national media management, and exposure. Joscelyn has partnered and collaborated with well-known brands, including but not limited to, Brawny, Britax, Chevrolet, Disney, DuPont & Teflon, Ford, Florida Space Coast, General Mills, Hormel Foods, Johnson’s Baby, Kmart, Lifetime Movie Network, Marshalls, McDonald’s, Nestle, Neutrogena, Proctor & Gamble, Target, Smuckers, State Farm, Sylvan Learning Center, T.J.Maxx, Toyota, Visit Orlando, Waldorf Astoria, and Wounded Warrior Project. The “super-connected power mom” was named by LATINA Magazine as one of the Best Latina Bloggers To Follow and Must Know and one of The 10 Best Latina Mom Bloggers on the Web. Joscelyn was selected in a joint venture by Disney and LATINA Magazine to be a Parenting and Family Columnist for LATINA Magazine.

A sought-after spokesperson, she travels across the U.S. for speaking engagements and conferences and holds leadership capacities for various organizations.

Connect with Joscelyn at joscelynramoscampbell.com
Instagram @JoscelynRamosCampbell
Facebook www.facebook.com/pastorjoscelyn
Twitter @JoscelynRC]]>2656asr,autism,campbell,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,joscelyn,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,ramos,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse812fullDEI is often Missing NeuroDiversity with Peter Mannhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dei-is-often-missing-neurodiversity-with-peter-mann--53913711Being autistic allowed him to:
see unusual patterns to improve business strategy
create first-of-kind products with unique physical designs
take business risks

However, being neurodivergent came with a personal cost – such as having challenges developing and maintaining close relationships. Peter’s confirmed late autism diagnosis has changed his life. While he still focuses on developing his business, he has pivoted his time to find new ways to support others who are neurodivergent and may not know how to tap into their abilities to succeed at work. His new mission is to advocate for autism awareness in the workplace – and help others overcome obstacles to create fantastic new companies, products, and more.

Bio:
Peter Mann is the CEO & Founder of Virginia-based Oransi, a leading air purification company known for its efficient, intuitive, and reliable products for consumers, schools, organizations, and businesses. He also is the Chair of the Association of Home Appliance Manufacturers’ Air Cleaner Council. In 2021, Oransi merged with Aviemore Technologies, now a motor technology company with a clean energy mission.

Oransi’s new manufacturing facility in Radford, Virginia, is making products in the USA with advanced motor technologies. Previously, Peter was the Founder & CEO of the Austin, Texas-based Alen Corp., an air purification company he built, and after 7 years, had a successful exit. He went to college on a Navy ROTC scholarship and then served 4 years, including a tour in the Red Sea during the First Gulf War. He was a communications officer and then a gunnery officer on the USS McCandless. Peter is late diagnosed autistic and now advocates for autism awareness in the workplace.

Connect with him on LinkedIn at
https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-mann/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53913711Mon, 05 Jun 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes of NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Podcast as they interview autistic entrepreneur Peter Mann. Peter unknowingly tapped into being neurodivergent, using his autism to become a highly successful serial entrepreneur and...Being autistic allowed him to:
see unusual patterns to improve business strategy
create first-of-kind products with unique physical designs
take business risks

However, being neurodivergent came with a personal cost – such as having challenges developing and maintaining close relationships. Peter’s confirmed late autism diagnosis has changed his life. While he still focuses on developing his business, he has pivoted his time to find new ways to support others who are neurodivergent and may not know how to tap into their abilities to succeed at work. His new mission is to advocate for autism awareness in the workplace – and help others overcome obstacles to create fantastic new companies, products, and more.

Bio:
Peter Mann is the CEO & Founder of Virginia-based Oransi, a leading air purification company known for its efficient, intuitive, and reliable products for consumers, schools, organizations, and businesses. He also is the Chair of the Association of Home Appliance Manufacturers’ Air Cleaner Council. In 2021, Oransi merged with Aviemore Technologies, now a motor technology company with a clean energy mission.

Oransi’s new manufacturing facility in Radford, Virginia, is making products in the USA with advanced motor technologies. Previously, Peter was the Founder & CEO of the Austin, Texas-based Alen Corp., an air purification company he built, and after 7 years, had a successful exit. He went to college on a Navy ROTC scholarship and then served 4 years, including a tour in the Red Sea during the First Gulf War. He was a communications officer and then a gunnery officer on the USS McCandless. Peter is late diagnosed autistic and now advocates for autism awareness in the workplace.

Connect with him on LinkedIn at
https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-mann/]]>2925asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,dei,diverse,holmes,mann,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,peter,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse811fullWhat I Would have Done Differently ... with Dr. Mona Kayhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-i-would-have-done-differently-with-dr-mona-kay--53488089
We will talk from Dr. Mona's perspective about what she wishes she would have done differently in her ND relationship. Advice to NT spouses.

About Dr. Mona Kay:
Mona Kay, MSW, Ph.D., is the founder of the Neurodiverse Love community, the host of the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, and the creator of the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards. She was in a mixed-neurotype marriage for 30 years but didn't discover this until her 29th year of marriage. Mona has been divorced since 2018, and her mission is to increase understanding and acceptance of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed-neurotype relationships.

She hosted the first virtual “Neurodiverse Love Conference” in February 2023, and more than 350 people from around the world attended. In addition, she facilitates online support groups for mixed-neurotype couples and neurotypical/non-autistic partners and shares lots of valuable resources on her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com.

You can contact Mona at: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53488089Mon, 29 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie talk to Dr. Mona Kay of the NeuroDiverse Love podcast. We will talk from Dr. Mona's perspective about what she wishes she would have done differently in her ND relationship. Advice to NT spouses. About Dr. Mona Kay: Mona Kay, MSW,...
We will talk from Dr. Mona's perspective about what she wishes she would have done differently in her ND relationship. Advice to NT spouses.

About Dr. Mona Kay:
Mona Kay, MSW, Ph.D., is the founder of the Neurodiverse Love community, the host of the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, and the creator of the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards. She was in a mixed-neurotype marriage for 30 years but didn't discover this until her 29th year of marriage. Mona has been divorced since 2018, and her mission is to increase understanding and acceptance of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed-neurotype relationships.

She hosted the first virtual “Neurodiverse Love Conference” in February 2023, and more than 350 people from around the world attended. In addition, she facilitates online support groups for mixed-neurotype couples and neurotypical/non-autistic partners and shares lots of valuable resources on her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com.

You can contact Mona at: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com]]>3032asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,kay,marriage,marriages,mona,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse810fullBoundaries vs Codependency, Godly Sorrow vs Worldly Sorrow with Barbara Granthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/boundaries-vs-codependency-godly-sorrow-vs-worldly-sorrow-with-barbara-grant--53784951
About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families and offers support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner and has a neurodiverse adult child from that marriage.

She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.
NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential Zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min Consultation
 online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
 90 min intake session
 Goal setting
 ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
 HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
 Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
 Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.net

Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53784951Mon, 22 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie talk with fellow NeuroDiverse Couples' Coach Barbara Grant. About Barbara Grant: Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her...
About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families and offers support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner and has a neurodiverse adult child from that marriage.

She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.
NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential Zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min Consultation
 online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
 90 min intake session
 Goal setting
 ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
 HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
 Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
 Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.net

Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/]]>3629asr,autism,barbara,boundaries,christian,codependency,couples,dan,diverse,godly,grant,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sorrow,spectrum,stephaniefalse89fullInterest Beyond Apathyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/interest-beyond-apathy--53480904https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53480904Wed, 17 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesPerry, Greg, Jeremy, and Dan talk about what curiosity is and what that looks like in their relationships.2355apathy,asr,autism,beyond,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,interest,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thefalse88fullShe Deserves Better with Sheila Gregoirehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/she-deserves-better-with-sheila-gregoire--53762564We will discuss the new book, She Deserves Better. The publisher's notes about the book:
What if the most common teachings girls hear in youth groups make them more likely to marry an abuser? Less likely to understand consent? And more likely to blame themselves if they are assaulted?
Parents want their daughters to thrive--to be strong, confident, and equipped to step into the life God has for them. But is the church working against them? Armed with data from an all-new survey of more than 7,000 women, the authors of The Great Sex Rescue, Sheila Wray
Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, and Joanna Sawatsky, reveal how experiences in church as teens affect women's self-esteem and relationships today in their new book She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and
Speaking Up.

They expose common evangelical teachings that can backfire: the purity emphasis that can cause shame rather than good choices, the dating rules that can prime girls for abuse, and the one overarching belief that can keep them from setting healthy boundaries.

This book tackles tough topics like:
• The dating rule that works best—except when it doesn’t
(and why we need nuance)
• How we can talk about clothing choices without causing
body image issues or blaming girls for boys’ thoughts
• How to talk about saving sex without idolizing virginity or
creating sexual anxiety
• How we can protect our daughters from a church hurt
that could send them fleeing the faith
• And so much more

About Our Guest:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. She's also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex, and a sought-after speaker. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to line up with kingdom principles.

Sheila lives in Ontario, Canada, with her husband. They have two adult daughters and two grandbabies.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53762564Mon, 15 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie are excited to have back as our guest, Sheila Gregoire. While we push back on the modesty and purity movement along with courtship teachings that encourage rules and roles, we speak to the truth of abstinence and reserving sex for...We will discuss the new book, She Deserves Better. The publisher's notes about the book:
What if the most common teachings girls hear in youth groups make them more likely to marry an abuser? Less likely to understand consent? And more likely to blame themselves if they are assaulted?
Parents want their daughters to thrive--to be strong, confident, and equipped to step into the life God has for them. But is the church working against them? Armed with data from an all-new survey of more than 7,000 women, the authors of The Great Sex Rescue, Sheila Wray
Gregoire, Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, and Joanna Sawatsky, reveal how experiences in church as teens affect women's self-esteem and relationships today in their new book She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and
Speaking Up.

They expose common evangelical teachings that can backfire: the purity emphasis that can cause shame rather than good choices, the dating rules that can prime girls for abuse, and the one overarching belief that can keep them from setting healthy boundaries.

This book tackles tough topics like:
• The dating rule that works best—except when it doesn’t
(and why we need nuance)
• How we can talk about clothing choices without causing
body image issues or blaming girls for boys’ thoughts
• How to talk about saving sex without idolizing virginity or
creating sexual anxiety
• How we can protect our daughters from a church hurt
that could send them fleeing the faith
• And so much more

About Our Guest:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. She's also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex, and a sought-after speaker. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to line up with kingdom principles.

Sheila lives in Ontario, Canada, with her husband. They have two adult daughters and two grandbabies.]]>3812asr,autism,better,christian,couples,dan,deserves,diverse,gregoire,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,she,sheila,spectrum,stephaniefalse87fullResearch Insights into the AS Female Phenotype with Dr. Will Carrollhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/research-insights-into-the-as-female-phenotype-with-dr-will-carroll--53487619

From Dr. Carroll's Research:
From my own research, I found two types of interests: shared and unique interests. In the shared category, the women with ASD shared their interests, specifically with their sisters. These shared interests included media like cartoons and sci-fi shows or entertainment, arts and crafts, and reading.
This is in comparison to those interests that were unique to the woman with ASD, such as academics, including history, art, literature, foreign languages, and musical instrument playing.

Consider the systemizable factor to these Special Interests.
There was a noticeable overlap in the interests, including the woman with ASD enjoying TV shows both by herself and with her sister and the woman with ASD doing crafts or handy work both by herself and with her sister.
When the woman with ASD had a trusted companion (sister, parent), they could let go of their Special Interest for a time and engage in hobbies that didn’t involve collecting.
Considering the Female Autism Phenotype, the theory is that traits of ASD in women are uniquely different from those of men. Though my research did not look at men with ASD and their brothers, research suggests that women with ASD are more likely to have Special Interests more closely aligned with neurotypical women (Harrop et al, 2018).
In my own practice, I see a number of women with ASD. Their Special interests include drawing, small gardening, collecting small tokens from an internet or video game they like, and video gaming. These women report liking the video games for the social aspect as well as the story and the achievements they earn while playing the game (Genshin Impact, Animal Crossing).

Bio:
Dr. Will Carroll is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Georgia. He earned his Master's in Professional Counseling from Liberty University in 2012 and his Ph.D. from Liberty in 2021. He has been in private practice in Marietta, GA He enjoys outdoor activities, including Obstacle Course Races and kayaking around the lakes and rivers of north Georgia. Originally from South Georgia, Will made his home in Cartersville, GA, in 2008, with his wife, Shannon, and his three children. Will’s area of expertise is in the treatment of Autism Spectrum Disorder using varied techniques, including innovative approaches such as Lego Therapy. His Ph.D. dissertation is on the unique qualities associated with women with Autism as seen from the perspective of their adult sisters.

Found here:
https://digitalcommons.liberty.edu/doctoral/3088/
You can contact him at:
willcarroll.therapist@gmail.com
Dr. Carroll only works with clients in the state of Georgia.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53487619Mon, 08 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews researcher and clinician Dr. Will Carroll on the topic of Autism Female Phenotypes. The discussion includes why females may be missed, and the diagnoses females receive before a later autism identification. Dr....

From Dr. Carroll's Research:
From my own research, I found two types of interests: shared and unique interests. In the shared category, the women with ASD shared their interests, specifically with their sisters. These shared interests included media like cartoons and sci-fi shows or entertainment, arts and crafts, and reading.
This is in comparison to those interests that were unique to the woman with ASD, such as academics, including history, art, literature, foreign languages, and musical instrument playing.

Consider the systemizable factor to these Special Interests.
There was a noticeable overlap in the interests, including the woman with ASD enjoying TV shows both by herself and with her sister and the woman with ASD doing crafts or handy work both by herself and with her sister.
When the woman with ASD had a trusted companion (sister, parent), they could let go of their Special Interest for a time and engage in hobbies that didn’t involve collecting.
Considering the Female Autism Phenotype, the theory is that traits of ASD in women are uniquely different from those of men. Though my research did not look at men with ASD and their brothers, research suggests that women with ASD are more likely to have Special Interests more closely aligned with neurotypical women (Harrop et al, 2018).
In my own practice, I see a number of women with ASD. Their Special interests include drawing, small gardening, collecting small tokens from an internet or video game they like, and video gaming. These women report liking the video games for the social aspect as well as the story and the achievements they earn while playing the game (Genshin Impact, Animal Crossing).

Bio:
Dr. Will Carroll is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Georgia. He earned his Master's in Professional Counseling from Liberty University in 2012 and his Ph.D. from Liberty in 2021. He has been in private practice in Marietta, GA He enjoys outdoor activities, including Obstacle Course Races and kayaking around the lakes and rivers of north Georgia. Originally from South Georgia, Will made his home in Cartersville, GA, in 2008, with his wife, Shannon, and his three children. Will’s area of expertise is in the treatment of Autism Spectrum Disorder using varied techniques, including innovative approaches such as Lego Therapy. His Ph.D. dissertation is on the unique qualities associated with women with Autism as seen from the perspective of their adult sisters.

Found here:
https://digitalcommons.liberty.edu/doctoral/3088/
You can contact him at:
willcarroll.therapist@gmail.com
Dr. Carroll only works with clients in the state of Georgia.]]>3925asr,autism,carroll,christian,couples,dan,diverse,female,holmes,insights,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,phenotype,research,resources,spectrum,stephanie,willfalse86fullThe 4 Soils and YOUR Marriage (Parable of the Sower)https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-4-soils-and-your-marriage-parable-of-the-sower--53608931
While we understand in context this parable is about the seed being the Word of the Lord, we talk about the soil of your heart being open to change and transformation to the Holy Spirit and call for an examination of what condition the soil of your heart concerning your marriage? How "plowable" and soft are you to learning new things? Trying new things? Giving up old habits?
Dan has spoken in his groups that husband comes from the word farmer in many languages. What kind of farmer are you? Are you caring for your garden and your helping the ground stay soft, or are you throwing salt on the soil or abandoning the field?

Wives, are you open when your husband makes necessary changes and is willing to rebuild trust and safety to forgive? Are you open to new ways of communicating as well?]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53608931Mon, 01 May 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie take a look at the parable of the sower or the parable of the 4 soils found in Matthew 13:1-23 & Mark 4:1-20. While we understand in context this parable is about the seed being the Word of the Lord, we talk about the soil of...
While we understand in context this parable is about the seed being the Word of the Lord, we talk about the soil of your heart being open to change and transformation to the Holy Spirit and call for an examination of what condition the soil of your heart concerning your marriage? How "plowable" and soft are you to learning new things? Trying new things? Giving up old habits?
Dan has spoken in his groups that husband comes from the word farmer in many languages. What kind of farmer are you? Are you caring for your garden and your helping the ground stay soft, or are you throwing salt on the soil or abandoning the field?

Wives, are you open when your husband makes necessary changes and is willing to rebuild trust and safety to forgive? Are you open to new ways of communicating as well?]]>38754,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,soils,spectrum,stephaniefalse85fullBroken & Crushed to Redeemed & Restoredhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/broken-crushed-to-redeemed-restored--53480257We talk about types of abuse and the difference between coaching and counseling. How can a life coach help you?
The book mentioned was Mending the Soul. This is designed to be done in a group/community setting.
www.mendingthesoul.org
We mentioned a course we have produced where Iris shares her story, and some ladies share their stories of why they had to choose divorce. An AS man shared what he wished he would have known and changed before his wife divorced him.
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-module-3

About our Guests:
Cathy Young:
Cathy has two young adult sons and a very friendly cavoodle
named Casper. She has worked extensively in paid and unpaid
Christian ministry and, more recently, has become and worked
as a Professional Supervisor and Christian Life Coach. Cathy
has always had the goal of proclaiming Jesus so that everyone
she meets may be presented mature in Him. As a Christian
Life Coach, she sees one of her main roles as helping people
(especially women) grab hold of the "Life to the full” that
Jesus offers. She is a Life and Wellbeing Coach and is Certified
by AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling.

Cathy Young (in AUS)
Life and Wellbeing Coach
(e) cathy@lifetothefullcoaching.com.au
(m) 0413 235 878

Iris Knapp:
Over 50 years of ministry experience, now a Life Coach.
Raised Jewish and came to know Jesus as Messiah in 1969 during the “Jesus Freak” revival.
15 years Full-time Ministry
24 years of experience as a woman's small group/support group Lead facilitator
18 years Mothers Support Group facilitator
6 years Womans' & Neurodiverse support Group/Bible facilitator
Professional Christian Life Coach
Certified with Light University
Certified with AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling
Ministerial Licensed with IAOG International Assemblies of God Fellowship
ND Training with the International Association of ND Christian Couples

Reach out to Iris at: coachingwithiris@gmail.com
www.CoachingwithIris.com
New groups forming!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53480257Mon, 24 Apr 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe all love a good story of a broken marriage that is redeemed and restored, but sometimes happily ever after does not happen, and people can be broken and crushed by their marriage or divorce. We talk today with coaches, Iris Knapp and Cathy Young,...We talk about types of abuse and the difference between coaching and counseling. How can a life coach help you?
The book mentioned was Mending the Soul. This is designed to be done in a group/community setting.
www.mendingthesoul.org
We mentioned a course we have produced where Iris shares her story, and some ladies share their stories of why they had to choose divorce. An AS man shared what he wished he would have known and changed before his wife divorced him.
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-module-3

About our Guests:
Cathy Young:
Cathy has two young adult sons and a very friendly cavoodle
named Casper. She has worked extensively in paid and unpaid
Christian ministry and, more recently, has become and worked
as a Professional Supervisor and Christian Life Coach. Cathy
has always had the goal of proclaiming Jesus so that everyone
she meets may be presented mature in Him. As a Christian
Life Coach, she sees one of her main roles as helping people
(especially women) grab hold of the "Life to the full” that
Jesus offers. She is a Life and Wellbeing Coach and is Certified
by AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling.

Cathy Young (in AUS)
Life and Wellbeing Coach
(e) cathy@lifetothefullcoaching.com.au
(m) 0413 235 878

Iris Knapp:
Over 50 years of ministry experience, now a Life Coach.
Raised Jewish and came to know Jesus as Messiah in 1969 during the “Jesus Freak” revival.
15 years Full-time Ministry
24 years of experience as a woman's small group/support group Lead facilitator
18 years Mothers Support Group facilitator
6 years Womans' & Neurodiverse support Group/Bible facilitator
Professional Christian Life Coach
Certified with Light University
Certified with AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling
Ministerial Licensed with IAOG International Assemblies of God Fellowship
ND Training with the International Association of ND Christian Couples

Reach out to Iris at: coachingwithiris@gmail.com
www.CoachingwithIris.com
New groups forming!]]>3183asr,autism,broken,christian,couples,crushed,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,redeemed,resources,restored,spectrum,stephaniefalse84fullHealing from Cassandra Syndrome with Margot Alexishttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/healing-from-cassandra-syndrome-with-margot-alexis--53478641
We will ask Margot all about:
What is Cassandra syndrome?
What are the long-term effects of Cassandra Syndrome?
Why do you think NT women have a difficult time getting support from friends and family?
What is the first step in recovery?
How is letting go different from giving up?

About Margot:
Margot Alexis is the founder of Healing Cassandra and the host of the Healing Cassandra Podcast. She is in a 28-year neurodiverse marriage. Margot is a creative, entrepreneur, and is devoted to helping women find their voice. The mission of Healing Cassandra is to create a community that empowers women to nurture their well-being. Margot believes that we don’t have to rely on the hope that our husbands will change in order for us to feel fulfilled. Cassandra women can reclaim their lives and begin a new journey to rediscover and reconnect with themselves.

Find out more at:
https://www.healingcassandra.com/about

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53478641Mon, 17 Apr 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Dan as they talk with Margot Alexis about healing from Cassandra Syndrome. We will ask Margot all about: What is Cassandra syndrome? What are the long-term effects of Cassandra Syndrome? Why do you think NT women have a difficult...
We will ask Margot all about:
What is Cassandra syndrome?
What are the long-term effects of Cassandra Syndrome?
Why do you think NT women have a difficult time getting support from friends and family?
What is the first step in recovery?
How is letting go different from giving up?

About Margot:
Margot Alexis is the founder of Healing Cassandra and the host of the Healing Cassandra Podcast. She is in a 28-year neurodiverse marriage. Margot is a creative, entrepreneur, and is devoted to helping women find their voice. The mission of Healing Cassandra is to create a community that empowers women to nurture their well-being. Margot believes that we don’t have to rely on the hope that our husbands will change in order for us to feel fulfilled. Cassandra women can reclaim their lives and begin a new journey to rediscover and reconnect with themselves.

Find out more at:
https://www.healingcassandra.com/about

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>2439alexis,asr,autism,cassandra,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,margot,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,syndromefalse83fullFrom Plant to Personhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/from-plant-to-person--53473079https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53473079Wed, 12 Apr 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesGreg, Clay, and Dan talk about compassion. What it is, and how compassion was thought about and lived over the years.2741asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,from,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,person,plant,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tofalse82fullMarriage on the Spectrum: It's Better than we ever imagined with Jeremy & Charity Rochfordhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marriage-on-the-spectrum-it-s-better-than-we-ever-imagined-with-jeremy-charity-rochford--53471516You can find out more about this training at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses

Jeremy and Charity have contributed to our blog at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/an-autism-diagnosis-it-s-not-a-label-it-s-life-s-ultimate-cheat-code

About Jeremy and Charity Rochford
Jeremy has spent the past 15 years helping busy professionals lose weight and achieve their fitness goals by mentoring them through the same process he developed, and used, to lose 200lbs himself. He is a speaker/performer coach, weight loss mentor, and author of The Gospel According to Chubby. Charity spent most of her career in HR/Benefits and now spends her time as a costume mom and travel agent.
Jeremy and Charity, Team Rochford as they are affectionately known, are both certified Life Coaches, now specializing in individuals and couples. Having recently discovered Jeremy’s place on the spectrum, they’ve pivoted coaching efforts to help other neuro-diverse couples. They’re working to launch their website, NeuroFam, with additional offerings, later this year.
The couple was originally from western Pennsylvania, meeting nearly 25 years ago at the California University of Pennsylvania, where Jeremy studied Communications and Charity studied Psychology. They have spent time living states apart and learning to navigate a long-distance relationship, first while Charity was working at Walt Disney World in Florida and then while Jeremy was playing for Christian rock bands on the east coast and in Tennessee. They spent some of their early married years in eastern PA, then spent 10 years in Nashville before moving back to the Pittsburgh area in 2018. They now live in the 1990s with their 2 children in the suburbs of western Pennsylvania.

How to find them:
You can reach them directly at Jeremy@OurNeuroFam.com or Charity@OurNeuroFam.com"

Jeremy has a Ted Talk and also is a weight loss coach.
https://www.jeremyrochford.com/

Laughing my pants off - Can humor cure obesity? | Jeremy Rochford | TEDxAntioch

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hEPXNBFD5Y

]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53471516Mon, 10 Apr 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesStephanie and Dan have as their guests a fellow ND Christian Couple and Coaching Team, Jeremy and Charity Rochford. Our show today covers Jeremy's later-in-life identification on the spectrum, parenting two children on the spectrum, and how the couple...You can find out more about this training at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses

Jeremy and Charity have contributed to our blog at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/post/an-autism-diagnosis-it-s-not-a-label-it-s-life-s-ultimate-cheat-code

About Jeremy and Charity Rochford
Jeremy has spent the past 15 years helping busy professionals lose weight and achieve their fitness goals by mentoring them through the same process he developed, and used, to lose 200lbs himself. He is a speaker/performer coach, weight loss mentor, and author of The Gospel According to Chubby. Charity spent most of her career in HR/Benefits and now spends her time as a costume mom and travel agent.
Jeremy and Charity, Team Rochford as they are affectionately known, are both certified Life Coaches, now specializing in individuals and couples. Having recently discovered Jeremy’s place on the spectrum, they’ve pivoted coaching efforts to help other neuro-diverse couples. They’re working to launch their website, NeuroFam, with additional offerings, later this year.
The couple was originally from western Pennsylvania, meeting nearly 25 years ago at the California University of Pennsylvania, where Jeremy studied Communications and Charity studied Psychology. They have spent time living states apart and learning to navigate a long-distance relationship, first while Charity was working at Walt Disney World in Florida and then while Jeremy was playing for Christian rock bands on the east coast and in Tennessee. They spent some of their early married years in eastern PA, then spent 10 years in Nashville before moving back to the Pittsburgh area in 2018. They now live in the 1990s with their 2 children in the suburbs of western Pennsylvania.

How to find them:
You can reach them directly at Jeremy@OurNeuroFam.com or Charity@OurNeuroFam.com"

Jeremy has a Ted Talk and also is a weight loss coach.
https://www.jeremyrochford.com/

Laughing my pants off - Can humor cure obesity? | Jeremy Rochford | TEDxAntioch

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hEPXNBFD5Y

]]>3566asr,autism,better,charity,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,imagined,jeremy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,rochford,spectrum,stephanie,thanfalse81fullWorking with ND Couples: What Research Showshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/working-with-nd-couples-what-research-shows--53328355
We will discuss:
Overview of the research project
Findings for providers (macro overview, micro points included as needed)

About Dr. Mitran:
Carrie L. Mitran received her Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Human Development from North Carolina State University in 2019 under the advisement of Dr. Stanley Baker. Her current research addresses a culturally responsive approach to working with neurodivergent couples and counseling competencies for neurodiverse informed providers.
Her faculty career began at Saint Mary’s College of California. Since then, she has held three additional appointments as Lecture Faculty for the California Institute of Integral Studies, San Francisco State University, and Oregon State University.
Carrie is passionate about engaging her students using inclusive pedagogy and has been invited to give workshops on teaching in university settings. In addition, Carrie has many research interests, including neurodivergent learners in higher ed and neurodivergent couples in therapeutic settings.

Additionally, Dr. Mitran has a private practice, Neurodiversetalk, in San Francisco, serving neurodiverse couples and co-founders.

You can read more about Dr. Mitran’s work and services here:

Website:
https://www.neurodiversetalk.com/

Articles related:
https://journals.sagepub.com/eprint/BHP2TTB9RBQB3CBGBTKQ/full
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10664807221104138
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10664807221123553

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53328355Mon, 03 Apr 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Stephanie and Dan will talk with Dr. Carrie Mitran. Dr. Mitran's dissertation and academic research are some of the first of their kind on necessary skills for those who work with ND couples. We will discuss: - Overview of the research project...
We will discuss:
Overview of the research project
Findings for providers (macro overview, micro points included as needed)

About Dr. Mitran:
Carrie L. Mitran received her Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Human Development from North Carolina State University in 2019 under the advisement of Dr. Stanley Baker. Her current research addresses a culturally responsive approach to working with neurodivergent couples and counseling competencies for neurodiverse informed providers.
Her faculty career began at Saint Mary’s College of California. Since then, she has held three additional appointments as Lecture Faculty for the California Institute of Integral Studies, San Francisco State University, and Oregon State University.
Carrie is passionate about engaging her students using inclusive pedagogy and has been invited to give workshops on teaching in university settings. In addition, Carrie has many research interests, including neurodivergent learners in higher ed and neurodivergent couples in therapeutic settings.

Additionally, Dr. Mitran has a private practice, Neurodiversetalk, in San Francisco, serving neurodiverse couples and co-founders.

You can read more about Dr. Mitran’s work and services here:

Website:
https://www.neurodiversetalk.com/

Articles related:
https://journals.sagepub.com/eprint/BHP2TTB9RBQB3CBGBTKQ/full
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10664807221104138
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10664807221123553

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>2768asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,nd,neuro,neurodiverse,research,resources,spectrum,stephanie,with,workingfalse714fullAutism in Heels with Jennifer Cookhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-in-heels-with-jennifer-cook--52723303She is the author of many books, including Autism in Heels, Asperkids, and Sisterhood of the Spectrum.
About our Guest:
Jennifer Cook was identified as being on the spectrum in 2011. An autism advocate and the on-camera expert for Netflix’s triple-Emmy-Award-Winning “Love on the Spectrum US," she is the author of nine bestselling books, available in eight languages – including the foundational The Asperkids (Secret) Book of Social Rules, groundbreaking memoir Autism in Heels, and upcoming My Friend Julia: A Sesame Street Book About Autism. Among her titles are a Wall Street Journal Bestseller, ASA Book of the Year, a Publishers Weekly “Best Book” title winner, and six of BookAuthority's “Best-Selling, “Best Memoir,” and “Top Autism Books of All Time” picks.

Jennifer is an alumna of Brown and Columbia Universities. Jennifer sits on the Autism Society of America’s Council of Autistic Advisors, consults for Congress’ Autism Research Panel, and is a multi-award-winning international presenter who has spoken everywhere, from the White House to the National Institutes of Health to royal audiences in Europe. In her work, she helps unzip hidden social rules for neurodiverse people of all ages, coaching them toward more connected, fulfilling lives and relationships. Jennifer is based in Charlotte, NC.

Find out more at:
https://www.jenniferotooleauthor.com/about]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52723303Mon, 27 Mar 2023 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesCompleting our month of Women on the Spectrum, Dr. Stephanie interviews Jennifer Cook. She is the author of many books, including Autism in Heels, Asperkids, and Sisterhood of the Spectrum. About our Guest: Jennifer Cook was identified as being on the...She is the author of many books, including Autism in Heels, Asperkids, and Sisterhood of the Spectrum.
About our Guest:
Jennifer Cook was identified as being on the spectrum in 2011. An autism advocate and the on-camera expert for Netflix’s triple-Emmy-Award-Winning “Love on the Spectrum US," she is the author of nine bestselling books, available in eight languages – including the foundational The Asperkids (Secret) Book of Social Rules, groundbreaking memoir Autism in Heels, and upcoming My Friend Julia: A Sesame Street Book About Autism. Among her titles are a Wall Street Journal Bestseller, ASA Book of the Year, a Publishers Weekly “Best Book” title winner, and six of BookAuthority's “Best-Selling, “Best Memoir,” and “Top Autism Books of All Time” picks.

Jennifer is an alumna of Brown and Columbia Universities. Jennifer sits on the Autism Society of America’s Council of Autistic Advisors, consults for Congress’ Autism Research Panel, and is a multi-award-winning international presenter who has spoken everywhere, from the White House to the National Institutes of Health to royal audiences in Europe. In her work, she helps unzip hidden social rules for neurodiverse people of all ages, coaching them toward more connected, fulfilling lives and relationships. Jennifer is based in Charlotte, NC.

Find out more at:
https://www.jenniferotooleauthor.com/about]]>3266asr,autism,christian,cook,couples,dan,diverse,heels,holmes,jennifer,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse713fullAutism Translated with Toni Boucherhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-translated-with-toni-boucher--52114776
About Toni:
Toni Boucher started working with individuals on the spectrum over 30 years ago as a foster care and emergency respite provider after graduating with her BSW. As the director of the CARE Clinic, where she provided autism evaluations and determining eligibility for The South Carolina Department of Disabilities and Special Needs- Autism Division, she discovered the need for further research and information about females on the spectrum. Her book Autism Translated is the result of the wisdom and insights her clients have shared with her throughout these years. Today Toni is a speaker, writer, and consultant. She runs numerous social groups and programs for teens and adults on the spectrum.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52114776Mon, 20 Mar 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn our month-long discussion of girls and women on the autism spectrum, Dr. Holmes talks to Toni Boucher. In this episode, we talk about why girls are missed, co-occurring issues when both partners are on the autism spectrum, and her work Autism...
About Toni:
Toni Boucher started working with individuals on the spectrum over 30 years ago as a foster care and emergency respite provider after graduating with her BSW. As the director of the CARE Clinic, where she provided autism evaluations and determining eligibility for The South Carolina Department of Disabilities and Special Needs- Autism Division, she discovered the need for further research and information about females on the spectrum. Her book Autism Translated is the result of the wisdom and insights her clients have shared with her throughout these years. Today Toni is a speaker, writer, and consultant. She runs numerous social groups and programs for teens and adults on the spectrum.]]>3786asr,autism,boucher,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tonifalse712fullJust The Guys - Relationship BEFORE Taskhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-relationship-before-task--53199255https://api.spreaker.com/episode/53199255Wed, 15 Mar 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan is joined by Perry, Mark & Greg to discuss how relationship needs should come before tasks and solutions.1899asr,autism,before,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,relationship,resources,spectrum,task,thefalsefullAutism & The 3 Shoes Approach with Laura Nadine Dooleyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-the-3-shoes-approach-with-laura-nadine-dooley--52106145
Laura Nadine understands firsthand the struggles and triumphs of living with autism. She has spent nearly 15 years advocating for a neurodiverse educational model after she and her son were diagnosed with ASD in 2006. She developed an approach for teaching music to students with various learning profiles and recently invented a MusicBoard, inspired by facilitated communication, to make composition and music theory accessible to non-speaking students.

Laura runs Enlightened Audio, an online and in-person hybrid music school with a mission to make music education accessible. In March 2020, in the middle of the Covid-19 pandemic, she moved to Canada and utilized the time of isolation to develop an eco-friendly product line of string instruments, a non-toxic violin conditioner, and a violin case that is fully compostable. As she works to launch her innovative, eco-friendly product line, she continues a 28-year-long career as a music educator.

She has self-published two books, recorded various albums, and was the main subject of the biographical documentary, The Shadow Listener: A Voice for Autism, directed by John Schaefer. She also composes music for films, including the Astoria Zuker Award-winning documentary LISTEN. Laura continues to post on her blog, The Shadow Listener, at lauranadine.net, where she provides the layered perspective of someone living with autism, teaching autistic students, and raising a son with autism––what she calls a ”3 Shoes Perspective''.

Laura lives in Toronto, Ontario, with her husband, Brian, and her two geriatric cats. Her now-grown children, Allana and Chey, are navigating young adult life in New York City and Toronto, respectively.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52106145Mon, 13 Mar 2023 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Laura Nadine Dooley. Our show today covers Laura's identification on the spectrum later in life, navigating the school system with a son on the spectrum, challenges autistic entrepreneurs to face in creating...
Laura Nadine understands firsthand the struggles and triumphs of living with autism. She has spent nearly 15 years advocating for a neurodiverse educational model after she and her son were diagnosed with ASD in 2006. She developed an approach for teaching music to students with various learning profiles and recently invented a MusicBoard, inspired by facilitated communication, to make composition and music theory accessible to non-speaking students.

Laura runs Enlightened Audio, an online and in-person hybrid music school with a mission to make music education accessible. In March 2020, in the middle of the Covid-19 pandemic, she moved to Canada and utilized the time of isolation to develop an eco-friendly product line of string instruments, a non-toxic violin conditioner, and a violin case that is fully compostable. As she works to launch her innovative, eco-friendly product line, she continues a 28-year-long career as a music educator.

She has self-published two books, recorded various albums, and was the main subject of the biographical documentary, The Shadow Listener: A Voice for Autism, directed by John Schaefer. She also composes music for films, including the Astoria Zuker Award-winning documentary LISTEN. Laura continues to post on her blog, The Shadow Listener, at lauranadine.net, where she provides the layered perspective of someone living with autism, teaching autistic students, and raising a son with autism––what she calls a ”3 Shoes Perspective''.

Laura lives in Toronto, Ontario, with her husband, Brian, and her two geriatric cats. Her now-grown children, Allana and Chey, are navigating young adult life in New York City and Toronto, respectively.]]>35383shoes,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,dooley,holmes,laura,marriage,marriages,nadine,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse711fullWhat you need to understand about Women on the Autism Spectrum with Dr. Natalie Engelbrechthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-you-need-to-understand-about-women-on-the-autism-spectrum-with-dr-natalie-engelbrecht--52524535and an autism researcher with a Master of Science in Applied Psychology (cum laude). She is here on the show today to discuss women on the Autism Spectrum. Dr. Natalie was diagnosed at the age of 48 and is a co-founder of Embrace Autism based out of Canada. She serves as an advisor to Autism Ontario, a community-based organization founded to promote education and a better understanding of autism spectrum disorders, the screening and assessment of autism, as well as the integration of people with autism spectrum disorders within society. The focus is on eliminating the stigma and misunderstanding associated with autism spectrum disorders and the social, emotional, and intellectual characteristics associated with these conditions and those who experience them. She has also served as an advisor to police forces in the UK and Canada, addressing concerns related to suicide prevention and intervention in the adult autism population.

Our topic today is women and autism. We hope to educate the listener about masking and camouflaging, misdiagnosis, stigma, and a better understanding of women on the autism spectrum.

Her website:
https://embrace-autism.com/

Her website also has links for self-assessment:
https://embrace-autism.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52524535Mon, 06 Mar 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Natalie Engelbrecht, RP ND, is an autistic Registered Psychotherapist, Naturopathic Doctor, and an autism researcher with a Master of Science in Applied Psychology (cum laude). She is here on the show today to discuss women on the Autism Spectrum....and an autism researcher with a Master of Science in Applied Psychology (cum laude). She is here on the show today to discuss women on the Autism Spectrum. Dr. Natalie was diagnosed at the age of 48 and is a co-founder of Embrace Autism based out of Canada. She serves as an advisor to Autism Ontario, a community-based organization founded to promote education and a better understanding of autism spectrum disorders, the screening and assessment of autism, as well as the integration of people with autism spectrum disorders within society. The focus is on eliminating the stigma and misunderstanding associated with autism spectrum disorders and the social, emotional, and intellectual characteristics associated with these conditions and those who experience them. She has also served as an advisor to police forces in the UK and Canada, addressing concerns related to suicide prevention and intervention in the adult autism population.

Our topic today is women and autism. We hope to educate the listener about masking and camouflaging, misdiagnosis, stigma, and a better understanding of women on the autism spectrum.

Her website:
https://embrace-autism.com/

Her website also has links for self-assessment:
https://embrace-autism.com/]]>3562about,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,engelbrecht,holmes,marriage,marriages,natalie,need,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,understand,womenfalse710fullKnown for the Quote "When you Have Met One Person with Autism... " Dr. Stephen Shorehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/known-for-the-quote-when-you-have-met-one-person-with-autism-dr-stephen-shore--52084143Dr. Shore is the man behind the quote, "When you have met 1 person with Autism, you have met 1 person with Autism." Dan and Stephanie discuss Dr. Shores' diagnosis story and journey through education, as well as share Dr. Shores' expertise in Special Education on how to work with a child in a strengths based way. Work strategy, as well as relational understanding, are topics of today's show.

About Dr. Shore:
BIOGRAPHY
Diagnosed with "Atypical Development and strong autistic tendencies" and "too sick" for outpatient treatment, Dr. Shore was recommended for institutionalization. Nonspeaking until 4, and with much support from his parents, teachers, wife, and others, Stephen is now a full-time professor at Adelphi University and adjunct at NYU Steinhardt School of Culture, Education, and Human Development, focusing on aligning best practices in supporting autistic people to lead fulfilling and productive lives.

In addition to working with children and talking about life on the autism spectrum, Stephen is an internationally renowned educator, consultant, and author on lifespan issues pertinent to education, relationships, employment, and self-advocacy. His most recent book, College for Students with Disabilities, combines personal stories and research to promote success in higher education.
Dr. Shore also serves on the boards of numerous other autism-related organizations.

Find Out More:
https://drstephenshore.com/

Resources:
https://drstephenshore.com/books

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52084143Mon, 20 Feb 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan joins Stephanie today on this ASR podcast and talks with guest Dr. Stephen Shore. Dr. Shore is the man behind the quote, "When you have met 1 person with Autism, you have met 1 person with Autism." Dan and Stephanie discuss Dr. Shores' diagnosis...Dr. Shore is the man behind the quote, "When you have met 1 person with Autism, you have met 1 person with Autism." Dan and Stephanie discuss Dr. Shores' diagnosis story and journey through education, as well as share Dr. Shores' expertise in Special Education on how to work with a child in a strengths based way. Work strategy, as well as relational understanding, are topics of today's show.

About Dr. Shore:
BIOGRAPHY
Diagnosed with "Atypical Development and strong autistic tendencies" and "too sick" for outpatient treatment, Dr. Shore was recommended for institutionalization. Nonspeaking until 4, and with much support from his parents, teachers, wife, and others, Stephen is now a full-time professor at Adelphi University and adjunct at NYU Steinhardt School of Culture, Education, and Human Development, focusing on aligning best practices in supporting autistic people to lead fulfilling and productive lives.

In addition to working with children and talking about life on the autism spectrum, Stephen is an internationally renowned educator, consultant, and author on lifespan issues pertinent to education, relationships, employment, and self-advocacy. His most recent book, College for Students with Disabilities, combines personal stories and research to promote success in higher education.
Dr. Shore also serves on the boards of numerous other autism-related organizations.

Find Out More:
https://drstephenshore.com/

Resources:
https://drstephenshore.com/books

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>3324asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,shore,spectrum,stephanie,stephenfalse78fullJust The Guys Talk about Conflicthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-talk-about-conflict--52722687
The guys discuss risk/reward ratios and how they each may determine when to engage or disengage based on the status of the relationship. They recognize an increase in the ability to healthily engage in conflict matters when there is personal growth and less distance in the relationship.

Some helpful podcasts that may go along with this one:

Dr. Wilder's Escaping Enemy Mode
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/dr-jim-wilder-mixdown

Dr. Lynch's Sense of Safety
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/why-is-sense-of-safety-important-with-dr

Dr. Motro- Trauma-Informed Work
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/trauma-informed-neurodiverse-couples-wor
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52722687Wed, 15 Feb 2023 11:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan, Greg, Mark, Perry, and Clay- Just the Guys- talk about conflict and different ways of processing conflict. The guys discuss risk/reward ratios and how they each may determine when to engage or disengage based on the status of the relationship....
The guys discuss risk/reward ratios and how they each may determine when to engage or disengage based on the status of the relationship. They recognize an increase in the ability to healthily engage in conflict matters when there is personal growth and less distance in the relationship.

Some helpful podcasts that may go along with this one:

Dr. Wilder's Escaping Enemy Mode
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/dr-jim-wilder-mixdown

Dr. Lynch's Sense of Safety
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/why-is-sense-of-safety-important-with-dr

Dr. Motro- Trauma-Informed Work
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/trauma-informed-neurodiverse-couples-wor
]]>2686asr,autism,christian,conflict,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalse7fullAsk an Intimacy Expert- Intimacy, Sexuality, Barriers to Connection with Andrew and Amanda Scotthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-an-intimacy-expert-intimacy-sexuality-barriers-to-connection-with-andrew-and-amanda-scott--52513566We talk about God's design for sex in marriage and the dangers of porn in marriage.
Andrew and Amanda have great resources for working on your intimacy if you are out of crisis mode and ready to begin work on your sexual intimacy.
Youtube channel
https://www.youtube.com/@AndrewandAmandaScott

Website
https://www.andrewandamandascott.com

https://www.andrewandamandascott.com/sacred-sensuality]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52513566Mon, 13 Feb 2023 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday for our Valentine's focused show, we are discussing intimacy, romance, sex, duty sex, and sexless marriage. We have as our guests today Andrew and Amanda Scott. While we usually discuss NeuroDiversity as the Autism Spectrum, Neurodiversity also...We talk about God's design for sex in marriage and the dangers of porn in marriage.
Andrew and Amanda have great resources for working on your intimacy if you are out of crisis mode and ready to begin work on your sexual intimacy.
Youtube channel
https://www.youtube.com/@AndrewandAmandaScott

Website
https://www.andrewandamandascott.com

https://www.andrewandamandascott.com/sacred-sensuality]]>3782amanda,andrew,asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,intimacy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,scott,sex,spectrum,stephanie,therapisttrue77fullCount it all Joy? Really?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/count-it-all-joy-really--52511938My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:2-4.
We will talk about this verse and also discuss another Dr. Wilder book, "Joy starts here."
The brain craves joy!
Attachment is built on joy!
Joy is a need, and it is a command.
We will talk about what JOY is (spoiler alert, not Jesus, Others, and You) as we have been taught.
We will talk about what joy is not....
It is not stoicism
It is not toxic positivity
It is not denial of trials and pain
It is not hyper spirituality
Join us to find out what is TRUE JOY and how even to build Joy when life and/or marriage is hard, stressed, high conflict, no connection, finances are hard, and life is just not what you thought it would be.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52511938Mon, 06 Feb 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesCount it all Joy? Are you serious? Everything? How do you do that when there is low joy and high conflict or low connection relationships? My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces...My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:2-4.
We will talk about this verse and also discuss another Dr. Wilder book, "Joy starts here."
The brain craves joy!
Attachment is built on joy!
Joy is a need, and it is a command.
We will talk about what JOY is (spoiler alert, not Jesus, Others, and You) as we have been taught.
We will talk about what joy is not....
It is not stoicism
It is not toxic positivity
It is not denial of trials and pain
It is not hyper spirituality
Join us to find out what is TRUE JOY and how even to build Joy when life and/or marriage is hard, stressed, high conflict, no connection, finances are hard, and life is just not what you thought it would be.]]>4467all,asr,autism,christian,count,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,joy,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse76full"Why is Sense of Safety Important?" with Dr. Johanna Lynchhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-is-sense-of-safety-important-with-dr-johanna-lynch--52074275While today does not talk about NT or ND, this sets the stage for other podcasts on the topic of trauma and safety.

About Dr. Johanna Lynch:
Dr. Johanna Lynch is a GP psychotherapist and senior lecturer with The University of Queensland's General Practice Clinical Unit. She has spent the last 15 years of her 25-year career as a GP caring for adults who are survivors of childhood trauma and neglect. This practical clinical work of being with those in our community who are often marginalized, misunderstood, and categorized with multiple mental health diagnoses has led her to search for approaches to the whole person that is applicable across disciplines. She has pioneered approaches that actively work against the fragmentation caused by trauma. She is a clinical advisor to a domestic and family violence program with Brisbane South PHN and to Blue Knot Foundation and is president of the Australian Society for Psychological Medicine, which educates, supports, and champions GPs and allied health providers who offer complex whole-person care. Her Ph.D., entitled Sense of Safety: a whole person approach to distress in primary care, sought to integrate trauma-informed care into primary care approaches to the whole person. Her clinical and academic work champions the sophisticated craft of generalism – integrating social science and biomedicine. Her work has received international acclaim from primary care researchers as a paradigm change in approaches to people in distress. It integrates lived experience and Indigenous wisdom with transdisciplinary scientific insights from trauma, attachment, social determinants of health, neurobiology, psychophysiology, and psychoneuroimmunology. This work has been published in a peer-reviewed academic book: A Whole Person Approach to Wellbeing: Building Sense of Safety (2021).

Links:
https://www.senseofsafety.com/
https://www.drjohannalynch.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52074275Mon, 23 Jan 2023 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Dr. Johanna Lynch as they talk about childhood traumatic events or adverse childhood events and their effects on development. Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Johanna will talk about the need for safety, and Dr. Johanna will define...While today does not talk about NT or ND, this sets the stage for other podcasts on the topic of trauma and safety.

About Dr. Johanna Lynch:
Dr. Johanna Lynch is a GP psychotherapist and senior lecturer with The University of Queensland's General Practice Clinical Unit. She has spent the last 15 years of her 25-year career as a GP caring for adults who are survivors of childhood trauma and neglect. This practical clinical work of being with those in our community who are often marginalized, misunderstood, and categorized with multiple mental health diagnoses has led her to search for approaches to the whole person that is applicable across disciplines. She has pioneered approaches that actively work against the fragmentation caused by trauma. She is a clinical advisor to a domestic and family violence program with Brisbane South PHN and to Blue Knot Foundation and is president of the Australian Society for Psychological Medicine, which educates, supports, and champions GPs and allied health providers who offer complex whole-person care. Her Ph.D., entitled Sense of Safety: a whole person approach to distress in primary care, sought to integrate trauma-informed care into primary care approaches to the whole person. Her clinical and academic work champions the sophisticated craft of generalism – integrating social science and biomedicine. Her work has received international acclaim from primary care researchers as a paradigm change in approaches to people in distress. It integrates lived experience and Indigenous wisdom with transdisciplinary scientific insights from trauma, attachment, social determinants of health, neurobiology, psychophysiology, and psychoneuroimmunology. This work has been published in a peer-reviewed academic book: A Whole Person Approach to Wellbeing: Building Sense of Safety (2021).

Links:
https://www.senseofsafety.com/
https://www.drjohannalynch.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s).]]>3443asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,johanna,lynch,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,safety,sense,spectrum,stephaniefalse74fullEscaping Enemy Mode with Dr. Jim Wilderhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/escaping-enemy-mode-with-dr-jim-wilder--52449734
NDCC's are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode and intellectual enemy mode. Our brains can unite or divide us. Join us for this discuss with Dr. Jim Wilder.
You will want to go back and hear our podcast "Are you in your right mind?" which sets the stage for this conversation.
Today we will talk about how those on the autism spectrum due to neurological wiring are more easily dragged into enemy mode. BUT we will also talk about JOY and how to to escape enemy mode to refriend and rebuild attachment/joy.

About Dr. Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary and elsewhere.

Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.

In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.

Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52449734Mon, 16 Jan 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie set this podcast up with their podcast on Jan 2nd. You will want to review this podcast before you hear today's podcast on escaping enemy mode. NDCC's are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode and...
NDCC's are easily dragged into enemy mode- simple enemy mode, stupid enemy mode and intellectual enemy mode. Our brains can unite or divide us. Join us for this discuss with Dr. Jim Wilder.
You will want to go back and hear our podcast "Are you in your right mind?" which sets the stage for this conversation.
Today we will talk about how those on the autism spectrum due to neurological wiring are more easily dragged into enemy mode. BUT we will also talk about JOY and how to to escape enemy mode to refriend and rebuild attachment/joy.

About Dr. Wilder:
Dr. Jim Wilder has been training leaders and counselors for over 30 years on five continents. Jim grew up in South America and is bilingual (English/Spanish). He is the author of nineteen books with a strong focus on maturity and relational skills. Dr. Wilder has served as a guest lecturer at Fuller Seminary, Biola, Talbot Seminary, Point Loma University, Montreat College, Tyndale Seminary and elsewhere.

Dr. Jim Wilder has extensive clinical counseling experience and is the chief neurotheologian of Life Model Works, a nonprofit working at the intersection of theology and brain science. Life Model Works builds on the fifty-year legacy of Shepherd’s House, which began in the 1970s as a ministry to street kids in Van Nuys, California.

In those early days, Jim worked with the team of volunteer counselors and Fuller Seminary faculty to build a counseling center to help broken people recover from negative habits, addictions, abuse, and trauma. By the 1990s, Jim was Assistant Director and later Executive Director of Shepherd’s House, helping hundreds of pastors and churches with their toughest counseling cases.

Jim was intimately involved in 1987 when Shepherd’s House conducted a careful review of why some people with the same level of trauma and treatment recovered but others did not. The results of this case-by-case study became The Life Model, a new recovery model. The Life Model study findings were published in Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.]]>3690asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,enemy,escaping,holmes,jim,marriage,marriages,mode,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wilderfalse73fullSystem Failures- We Need to Work Together w Dr. Brandon Clarkehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/system-failures-we-need-to-work-together-w-dr-brandon-clarke--52268766Brandon Clark is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. He is the clinical director at Springbrook Behavioral Hospital. He has a doctorate degree in psychology with an emphasis in industrial/organizational theory. He enjoys implementing behavior strategies to improve system-based processes and make organizational advancements.

https://www.amazon.com/Early-Intervention-Autism-Real-Life-Questions/dp/1932565558]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52268766Mon, 09 Jan 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes interviews Dr. Clarke on working within systems. Listen in as Dr. Brandon Clarke focuses on the levers to behavior change and emphasizes the barriers to implementing educational and therapeutic interventions from an interdisciplinary...Brandon Clark is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. He is the clinical director at Springbrook Behavioral Hospital. He has a doctorate degree in psychology with an emphasis in industrial/organizational theory. He enjoys implementing behavior strategies to improve system-based processes and make organizational advancements.

https://www.amazon.com/Early-Intervention-Autism-Real-Life-Questions/dp/1932565558]]>2436asr,autism,brandon,christian,clarke,couples,dan,diverse,failures,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,systemfalse72fullAre You in Your Right Mind?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-in-your-right-mind--52270696
In our discussion with Dr. Wilder, we will be discussing his new book, Escaping Enemy Mode. Today's podcast discusses two of his other books and what Dan and Stephanie are gleaning from them for ND Christian Couples. The books mentioned today are Rare Leadership & The Other Half of Church. What is necessary for interpersonal and intrapersonal growth? According to Wilder, it is joy, hesed, group identity, and healthy correction. What does all this mean for NDCCs? Join us for the discussion.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52270696Mon, 02 Jan 2023 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesIn preparing for the interview coming up this month with neurotheologian, Dr. Jim Wilder, Dan and Stephanie walk through some foundational information that is necessary to grasp the material to be discussed with Dr. Wilder fully. In our discussion...
In our discussion with Dr. Wilder, we will be discussing his new book, Escaping Enemy Mode. Today's podcast discusses two of his other books and what Dan and Stephanie are gleaning from them for ND Christian Couples. The books mentioned today are Rare Leadership & The Other Half of Church. What is necessary for interpersonal and intrapersonal growth? According to Wilder, it is joy, hesed, group identity, and healthy correction. What does all this mean for NDCCs? Join us for the discussion.]]>3532asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,mind,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,right,spectrum,stephaniefalse7fullJust The Guys: Discussing a Later-in-Life Autism Identificationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-discussing-a-later-in-life-autism-identification--52062806https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52062806Mon, 26 Dec 2022 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan is back with Just the Guys, and he with Clay, Perry, and Mark talk about their different journeys to identification and acceptance of being on the Autism Spectrum. Each was diagnosed later in life and talk openly about this journey.2522asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,identification,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thefalse6fullBecoming an Emotionally Safe Man with Andrew Baumanhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/becoming-an-emotionally-safe-man-with-andrew-bauman--52061685
About Andrew:
Andrew J. Bauman, Co-Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology. He spent 10 years studying under and working alongside Dr. Dan Allender. Andrew is the author of Floating Away, Stumbling Toward Wholeness, The Psychology of Porn, and (with his wife, Christy) A Brave Lament.

You can find his work and blogs at:
https://andrewjbauman.com/

https://christiancc.org/

https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Be-SS-Becoming/dp/B09PHL68F1]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52061685Mon, 19 Dec 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesUsually, Stephanie and Dan interview our guests together on NDCC, but today Dr. Holmes interviews Andrew J. Bauman on "Becoming a good and safe man." Andrew outlines points from his book with the same title on what to do if your spouse has come to you...
About Andrew:
Andrew J. Bauman, Co-Founder & Director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC), Andrew J. Bauman is a licensed mental health counselor with a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology. He spent 10 years studying under and working alongside Dr. Dan Allender. Andrew is the author of Floating Away, Stumbling Toward Wholeness, The Psychology of Porn, and (with his wife, Christy) A Brave Lament.

You can find his work and blogs at:
https://andrewjbauman.com/

https://christiancc.org/

https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Be-SS-Becoming/dp/B09PHL68F1]]>3211andrew,asr,autism,bauman,christian,couples,dan,diverse,emotionally,holmes,man,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,safe,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullJim Ball - Proactive Strategies for Positive Changehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jim-ball-proactive-strategies-for-positive-change--52061443This show with Dr. James Ball will discuss the 7 evidence-based strategies described in his book, “Early Intervention: Real-Life Questions; Real Life Answers,” proven to be the most effective in teaching students and adults with an autism spectrum disorder. It will focus on the teaching of specific skills, reducing challenging behaviors, and building an effective program as outlined in the book “You Can’t Make Me: Proactive Strategies for Positive Behavioral Change.” It will guide the participant, step by step, through the process of implementing these 7 evidence-based strategies in a school-based or adult services program. Real-life examples will be used. Modifications will be explored that allow this particular program to be effective with students significantly challenged with autism, as well as those students with Asperger's Syndrome. Because of the nature of the presentation, a question-and-answer period will be provided.

Dr. James Ball, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst-Doctoral, is the President/Chief Executive Officer of JB Autism Consulting. He has been in the field of autism for over thirty years providing behavioral, educational, residential, and employment services to children and adults affected by autism. He provides private consultation to organizations, schools, and families regarding staff training, parent training, home support services, classroom design/support, functional behavior assessment, and behavior management.

His book is on Amazon.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52061443Mon, 12 Dec 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Homes as she interviews Dr. Ball. This show with Dr. James Ball will discuss the 7 evidence-based strategies described in his book, “Early Intervention: Real-Life Questions; Real Life Answers,” proven to be the most effective in teaching...This show with Dr. James Ball will discuss the 7 evidence-based strategies described in his book, “Early Intervention: Real-Life Questions; Real Life Answers,” proven to be the most effective in teaching students and adults with an autism spectrum disorder. It will focus on the teaching of specific skills, reducing challenging behaviors, and building an effective program as outlined in the book “You Can’t Make Me: Proactive Strategies for Positive Behavioral Change.” It will guide the participant, step by step, through the process of implementing these 7 evidence-based strategies in a school-based or adult services program. Real-life examples will be used. Modifications will be explored that allow this particular program to be effective with students significantly challenged with autism, as well as those students with Asperger's Syndrome. Because of the nature of the presentation, a question-and-answer period will be provided.

Dr. James Ball, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst-Doctoral, is the President/Chief Executive Officer of JB Autism Consulting. He has been in the field of autism for over thirty years providing behavioral, educational, residential, and employment services to children and adults affected by autism. He provides private consultation to organizations, schools, and families regarding staff training, parent training, home support services, classroom design/support, functional behavior assessment, and behavior management.

His book is on Amazon.]]>2707asr,autism,ball,change,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jim,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,positive,proactive,resources,spectrum,stephanie,strategiesfalse6fullDan & Stephanie Talk Holidays and Gifts in NDCC'shttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dan-stephanie-talk-holidays-and-gifts-in-ndcc-s--52060673
Does Dan like to celebrate holidays?
How do we see celebrations and gifts differently?

Gifts and celebrations are a constant pain point in the NDCC. Listen in as Dan and Stephanie talk about December celebrations and what they learned about each other over the years when it comes to gifts and celebration times. Spoiler alert- Dan is not big on celebrations!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52060673Mon, 05 Dec 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan is celebrating a birthday this month, or maybe better said, having a birthday this month. Does Dan like to celebrate holidays? How do we see celebrations and gifts differently? Gifts and celebrations are a constant pain point in the...
Does Dan like to celebrate holidays?
How do we see celebrations and gifts differently?

Gifts and celebrations are a constant pain point in the NDCC. Listen in as Dan and Stephanie talk about December celebrations and what they learned about each other over the years when it comes to gifts and celebration times. Spoiler alert- Dan is not big on celebrations!]]>2649asr,autism,christian,christmas,couples,dan,diverse,gifts,holidays,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullJeanetta Bryanthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jeanetta-bryant--52024233
Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or at a theme park, college football, and making memories.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Check out her podcast at

https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/52024233Mon, 28 Nov 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie Holmes as she talks to Jeanetta Bryant. Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs...
Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or at a theme park, college football, and making memories.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Check out her podcast at

https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast]]>2449asr,autism,bryant,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,jeanetta,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullJust the Guys: Talking about Prioritieshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-talking-about-priorities--51483926
Mark and his wife Kenda have contributed to our curriculum for couples and counselors and podcasts- you can hear more from couples (Dan and Stephanie, Mark and Kenda & Greg and Carol) who are NDCC at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2
All proceeds from courses go toward funding this podcast and further curriculum.
Hear from 4 couples (including Dan and Stephanie) in this module of Educate!

Mark and Kenda contributed their story to this Focus on the Family article:
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/autism-and-marriage-3-signs-your-spouse-may-be-on-the-autism-spectrum/
As well as a previous podcast:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/is-your-marital-counselor-or-pastoral-co

To hear more from Perry, Perry has been a guest before on the podcast- check out his link here.
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/special-interests-or-expertise]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51483926Mon, 21 Nov 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesUsually, you will hear Dan and Stephanie talking through issues and challenges of being an NDCC or sharing tips. But today, Dan with two guys from our NDCC Bible/book study join Dan (just the guys) to discuss how work influences home life. Dan, Perry,...
Mark and his wife Kenda have contributed to our curriculum for couples and counselors and podcasts- you can hear more from couples (Dan and Stephanie, Mark and Kenda & Greg and Carol) who are NDCC at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2
All proceeds from courses go toward funding this podcast and further curriculum.
Hear from 4 couples (including Dan and Stephanie) in this module of Educate!

Mark and Kenda contributed their story to this Focus on the Family article:
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/autism-and-marriage-3-signs-your-spouse-may-be-on-the-autism-spectrum/
As well as a previous podcast:
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/is-your-marital-counselor-or-pastoral-co

To hear more from Perry, Perry has been a guest before on the podcast- check out his link here.
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/special-interests-or-expertise]]>2146asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalse6fullDispelling Myths about Autism & Working with Medicationshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dispelling-myths-about-autism-working-with-medications--50856857Dr. Fisher will discuss medications and his philosophy of working with individuals on the spectrum at Springbrook Behavioral Health

Dr. Fisher completed his General Psychiatry residency at the University of Texas-Galveston and a Child/Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship at the University of South Carolina. He serves as Medical leader of Springbrook Autism’s Residential and Outpatient Treatment Program (specializing in treating Autism Spectrum Disorders) and is an authority in minimal medical management of ASD and ASD with comorbidities. Dr. Fisher speaks at Autism Conferences on Medical Overview of Autism Spectrum Disorders, Medication Management for Autism Spectrum Disorders, Myths and Misconceptions in Autism, Autism and Co-Morbid Conditions, and Helping Siblings and Other Children Understand Autism.  ]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50856857Mon, 14 Nov 2022 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Dr. Matthew Fisher, MD (and therapy dog Jessie is present too) here to help professionals, parents, and educators better understand typical health, environmental, and behavioral myths that are common in the Autism population....Dr. Fisher will discuss medications and his philosophy of working with individuals on the spectrum at Springbrook Behavioral Health

Dr. Fisher completed his General Psychiatry residency at the University of Texas-Galveston and a Child/Adolescent Psychiatry Fellowship at the University of South Carolina. He serves as Medical leader of Springbrook Autism’s Residential and Outpatient Treatment Program (specializing in treating Autism Spectrum Disorders) and is an authority in minimal medical management of ASD and ASD with comorbidities. Dr. Fisher speaks at Autism Conferences on Medical Overview of Autism Spectrum Disorders, Medication Management for Autism Spectrum Disorders, Myths and Misconceptions in Autism, Autism and Co-Morbid Conditions, and Helping Siblings and Other Children Understand Autism.  ]]>2958about,asr,autism,dispelling,fisher,holmes,matthew,medications,myths,resources,spectrum,stephanie,workingfalse6fullTheory of Mind and Relational Blind spots with Dr. Sean Hirthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/theory-of-mind-and-relational-blind-spots-with-dr-sean-hirt--51482525Georgia School of Professional Psychology. He completed his pre-doctoral internship at
Casa Pacifica Center for Children and Families in Camarillo, CA. He completed post-
doctoral training at West Georgia Psychological Services in Douglasville, GA. Over the
years, he has practiced in a variety of clinical settings, including residential treatment
centers, school settings, and private practice. His areas of specialties include assisting
people in addressing the following: anxiety, depression, autism spectrum disorder,
overly dependent adult children, low self-esteem, behavioral and life transition issues,
substance abuse, and trauma-related disorders. Dr. Hirt went on to establish his own
psychotherapy private practice, Hirt Psychology, in 2019. There, his focus is on working
with individuals, families, and couples to address mental health issues. In addition to
therapy, he also provides diagnostic and treatment consultations to assist people in
finding the appropriate treatment track and interventions. A big part of his work is at Hirt
Psychology includes working with individuals on the autism spectrum to help them
reach personal life goals related to work, relationships, emotion regulation, school, and
overall well-being. In therapy, Dr. Hirt uses empirically driven modalities to address
clients’ needs. He works closely with all clients to develop an integrative yet client-
centered approach to treatment in order to achieve satisfaction and successful
treatment outcomes. His practice provides individual, family, and couples therapy for
children, teens, and adults and facilitates therapeutic groups. Recent groups have
included ‘Dating on the Spectrum’ and ‘Wise Minds- a DBT Group for Distress
Tolerance’.
Dr. Hirt is active in the mental health community in Atlanta and across Georgia. He has
dedicated time to a variety of causes in conjunction with the Atlanta Autism Consortium,
Georgia Psychological Association, and American Psychological Association. He gives
presentations and talks on a variety of mental health topics, including neurodivergence.

https://www.hirtpsychology.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51482525Mon, 07 Nov 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Sean Hirt earned his master’s and Doctoral degrees in clinical psychology from Georgia School of Professional Psychology. He completed his pre-doctoral internship at Casa Pacifica Center for Children and Families in Camarillo, CA. He completed...Georgia School of Professional Psychology. He completed his pre-doctoral internship at
Casa Pacifica Center for Children and Families in Camarillo, CA. He completed post-
doctoral training at West Georgia Psychological Services in Douglasville, GA. Over the
years, he has practiced in a variety of clinical settings, including residential treatment
centers, school settings, and private practice. His areas of specialties include assisting
people in addressing the following: anxiety, depression, autism spectrum disorder,
overly dependent adult children, low self-esteem, behavioral and life transition issues,
substance abuse, and trauma-related disorders. Dr. Hirt went on to establish his own
psychotherapy private practice, Hirt Psychology, in 2019. There, his focus is on working
with individuals, families, and couples to address mental health issues. In addition to
therapy, he also provides diagnostic and treatment consultations to assist people in
finding the appropriate treatment track and interventions. A big part of his work is at Hirt
Psychology includes working with individuals on the autism spectrum to help them
reach personal life goals related to work, relationships, emotion regulation, school, and
overall well-being. In therapy, Dr. Hirt uses empirically driven modalities to address
clients’ needs. He works closely with all clients to develop an integrative yet client-
centered approach to treatment in order to achieve satisfaction and successful
treatment outcomes. His practice provides individual, family, and couples therapy for
children, teens, and adults and facilitates therapeutic groups. Recent groups have
included ‘Dating on the Spectrum’ and ‘Wise Minds- a DBT Group for Distress
Tolerance’.
Dr. Hirt is active in the mental health community in Atlanta and across Georgia. He has
dedicated time to a variety of causes in conjunction with the Atlanta Autism Consortium,
Georgia Psychological Association, and American Psychological Association. He gives
presentations and talks on a variety of mental health topics, including neurodivergence.

https://www.hirtpsychology.com/]]>3352asr,autism,blind,christian,couples,dan,diverse,hirt,holmes,marriage,marriages,mind,neuro,neurodiverse,relational,resources,sean,spectrum,stephanie,theoryfalse6fullHope Overcomes with author Leisa Williamshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hope-overcomes-with-author-leisa-williams--50990803
About Leisa:
Leisa is a Christian author who writes from her heart about her life experiences. Her views are tried and tested from many years of working to overcome adversity in her life as well as being founded on her Christian biblical faith, the wise counsel and support from healthcare professionals, and her educational background, which includes a Master of Education degree.

From Leisa:
If you have read Hope Wins, perhaps you are curious to know how things have turned out for Justin. Do we still feel like “hope wins” in our lives? What does the future hold for us? Someone once said to me, “Leisa, you always trust God.” They were unconvinced that my life was “hope-filled” because our complex circumstances perhaps still looked hopeless to them from the outside.
I don’t blame that person for thinking that about us because the minute I wrote a book to declare that Hope Wins, life became a lot more challenging. My mother received a cancer diagnosis that took her to heaven less than six months later, and my health deteriorated to the point that I was hospitalized on multiple occasions. Australia was subjected to state-wide Covid-19 lockdowns, which meant delaying Justin’s goals once again.
As I began writing this book, the events regarding Justin’s future that unfold throughout this story were yet unknown; life’s uncertainties and complexities made things very difficult at times. Hope Overcomes takes the reader on a deeper journey of finding hope and trust in God when there seems to be no way forward. It shows how hope overcomes through trials to grow a deeper hope to assist you on your journey.
The reality is that quick fixes don’t usually exist when walking through life’s adversities, especially for caregivers. However, there is a God who is bigger than our circumstances. Pathways of hope can be forged amid ongoing difficulties as we discover. If you enjoyed Hope Wins, I look forward to you continuing the journey with us, as Hope does Win, and it certainly overcomes.

Find out more at:
https://leisawilliamsauthor.com/reviews/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50990803Mon, 31 Oct 2022 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesStephanie talks again with Leisa Williams. Previously we discussed her book Hope Wins! Now we discuss Hope Overcomes. We will discuss how a caring church community can come alongside a family with special needs and give HOPE! Having Other People...
About Leisa:
Leisa is a Christian author who writes from her heart about her life experiences. Her views are tried and tested from many years of working to overcome adversity in her life as well as being founded on her Christian biblical faith, the wise counsel and support from healthcare professionals, and her educational background, which includes a Master of Education degree.

From Leisa:
If you have read Hope Wins, perhaps you are curious to know how things have turned out for Justin. Do we still feel like “hope wins” in our lives? What does the future hold for us? Someone once said to me, “Leisa, you always trust God.” They were unconvinced that my life was “hope-filled” because our complex circumstances perhaps still looked hopeless to them from the outside.
I don’t blame that person for thinking that about us because the minute I wrote a book to declare that Hope Wins, life became a lot more challenging. My mother received a cancer diagnosis that took her to heaven less than six months later, and my health deteriorated to the point that I was hospitalized on multiple occasions. Australia was subjected to state-wide Covid-19 lockdowns, which meant delaying Justin’s goals once again.
As I began writing this book, the events regarding Justin’s future that unfold throughout this story were yet unknown; life’s uncertainties and complexities made things very difficult at times. Hope Overcomes takes the reader on a deeper journey of finding hope and trust in God when there seems to be no way forward. It shows how hope overcomes through trials to grow a deeper hope to assist you on your journey.
The reality is that quick fixes don’t usually exist when walking through life’s adversities, especially for caregivers. However, there is a God who is bigger than our circumstances. Pathways of hope can be forged amid ongoing difficulties as we discover. If you enjoyed Hope Wins, I look forward to you continuing the journey with us, as Hope does Win, and it certainly overcomes.

Find out more at:
https://leisawilliamsauthor.com/reviews/]]>2877asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,leisa,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,williamsfalse6fullKey Ingredients to God-honoring ND Marriages- Humility, Acceptance, Vulnerability, Teachability & Curiosityhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/key-ingredients-to-god-honoring-nd-marriages-humility-acceptance-vulnerability-teachability-curiosity--51483697
The article Stephanie reads on Curiosity:
https://autonomytherapyatx.com/blog/the-essential-role-curiosity-plays-in-enhancing-intimate-relationships#:~:text=Fostering%20Connection,-When%20you%20first&text=Curiosity%20can%20lead%20to%20a,spark%2C%20adventure%2C%20or%20spontaneity.

Stephanie also mentions the book, The Other Half of Church by Hendricks and Wilder.

Dan reminds listeners when we mention attachment to go back and listen to Dr. Gills' podcasts with us on attachment.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51483697Mon, 24 Oct 2022 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Dan as they talk about what are the essential ingredients to a healthy, God-honoring marriage as an NDCC. Stephanie reads from a devotional called 50 Fruits of Pride. Have you thought of some of those as pride before/ Pride and...
The article Stephanie reads on Curiosity:
https://autonomytherapyatx.com/blog/the-essential-role-curiosity-plays-in-enhancing-intimate-relationships#:~:text=Fostering%20Connection,-When%20you%20first&text=Curiosity%20can%20lead%20to%20a,spark%2C%20adventure%2C%20or%20spontaneity.

Stephanie also mentions the book, The Other Half of Church by Hendricks and Wilder.

Dan reminds listeners when we mention attachment to go back and listen to Dr. Gills' podcasts with us on attachment.]]>3947asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullAn Autistic's Adventure in Corporate America: Neurodiversity in the Workplacehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/an-autistic-s-adventure-in-corporate-america-neurodiversity-in-the-workplace--51446399
About Clay:
Clay M. Westbrook is a lifelong resident of the state of Georgia. He was born in Athens and attended the University of Georgia, earning a bachelor's degree in History and a law degree, with honors, from the University of Georgia School of Law. After graduation, he moved to Atlanta with a carload of belongings, a Labrador Retriever, and dreams of wealth and success. After the real world swiftly crushed those dreams, he practiced law for many years, developing expertise in business law, corporate finance, and commercial real estate while working with many of the most talented and/or insufferable attorneys this country has ever produced.
Clay and the practice of law parted ways for good in 2009. The breakup was amicable, with both Clay and the legal profession drastically improving as a result. He then spent many years in consulting, developing expertise in corporate finance, financial restructuring, and litigation and bankruptcy strategy consulting. In 2016, he wrote his first book, "Debt & Circuses: Protecting Business Owners From Their Enemies, Their Allies, and Themselves," as both a memoir of his experiences as a consultant in the aftermath of the 2008 Financial Crisis and a business-how-to guide for financially troubled businesses and their advisors.
Later that same year, he self-diagnosed then was professionally diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. Shortly thereafter, he transitioned into a research director role with a global commercial real estate services company. In 2020, he published "Best Places To Work: An Autistic Adventure in Corporate America" as a fictionalized memoir of his experience returning to the corporate world post-diagnosis.
Clay most enjoys helping people in complicated situations that require original thought and working with talented professionals who wish to better serve their clients, with a focus on research, marketing, and information technology. When not writing or working, He enjoys history, sports, reading, and the outdoors. Ideally, he would hike in the mountains all day and then stay in a nice hotel. Clay resides in Atlanta with his wife and two sons.

Clay recommends: Human: Finding myself in the Autism Spectrum for those wanting to learn more about themselves or others on the spectrum
https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1783352251
Read less

Books written by Clay:
Best Places to Work: An Autistic's Adventure in Corporate America
and
Debt & Circuses: Protecting Business Owners From Their Enemies, Their Allies, and Themselves
https://www.amazon.com/Clay-Westbrook/e/B01DZ0PYF2%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51446399Mon, 17 Oct 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Clay M. Westbrook about Neurodiversity in the workplace. Dr. Holmes wrote the forward for Clay's book, "Best Places To Work: An Autistic Adventure in Corporate America." About Clay: Clay M. Westbrook is a...
About Clay:
Clay M. Westbrook is a lifelong resident of the state of Georgia. He was born in Athens and attended the University of Georgia, earning a bachelor's degree in History and a law degree, with honors, from the University of Georgia School of Law. After graduation, he moved to Atlanta with a carload of belongings, a Labrador Retriever, and dreams of wealth and success. After the real world swiftly crushed those dreams, he practiced law for many years, developing expertise in business law, corporate finance, and commercial real estate while working with many of the most talented and/or insufferable attorneys this country has ever produced.
Clay and the practice of law parted ways for good in 2009. The breakup was amicable, with both Clay and the legal profession drastically improving as a result. He then spent many years in consulting, developing expertise in corporate finance, financial restructuring, and litigation and bankruptcy strategy consulting. In 2016, he wrote his first book, "Debt & Circuses: Protecting Business Owners From Their Enemies, Their Allies, and Themselves," as both a memoir of his experiences as a consultant in the aftermath of the 2008 Financial Crisis and a business-how-to guide for financially troubled businesses and their advisors.
Later that same year, he self-diagnosed then was professionally diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. Shortly thereafter, he transitioned into a research director role with a global commercial real estate services company. In 2020, he published "Best Places To Work: An Autistic Adventure in Corporate America" as a fictionalized memoir of his experience returning to the corporate world post-diagnosis.
Clay most enjoys helping people in complicated situations that require original thought and working with talented professionals who wish to better serve their clients, with a focus on research, marketing, and information technology. When not writing or working, He enjoys history, sports, reading, and the outdoors. Ideally, he would hike in the mountains all day and then stay in a nice hotel. Clay resides in Atlanta with his wife and two sons.

Clay recommends: Human: Finding myself in the Autism Spectrum for those wanting to learn more about themselves or others on the spectrum
https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1783352251
Read less

Books written by Clay:
Best Places to Work: An Autistic's Adventure in Corporate America
and
Debt & Circuses: Protecting Business Owners From Their Enemies, Their Allies, and Themselves
https://www.amazon.com/Clay-Westbrook/e/B01DZ0PYF2%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share]]>4405asr,autism,christian,clay,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,westbrookfalse6fullOne Man's Quest to be a Better Husband with author David Finchhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/one-man-s-quest-to-be-a-better-husband-with-author-david-finch--50987601
About Dave:

Dave Finch is a New York Times bestselling author on neurodiverse relationships. He is a studio owner, media host, and creative consultant to Netflix, Disney, and others. Dave’s work has appeared on ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, NPR, SiriusXM, The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Howard Stern Show, and the award-winning Netflix series, Atypical. Dave’s company, Elevated Studio, produces podcasts and other digital media for brands and interesting people around the world.

Find out more about Dave Finch:
https://davidjfinch.com/

Additional works/essays:
https://davidjfinch.com/articles-and-essays/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50987601Mon, 10 Oct 2022 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan and Stephanie talk to the author of Journal of Best Practices, Dave Finch. About Dave: Dave Finch is a New York Times bestselling author on neurodiverse relationships. He is a studio owner, media host, and creative consultant to...
About Dave:

Dave Finch is a New York Times bestselling author on neurodiverse relationships. He is a studio owner, media host, and creative consultant to Netflix, Disney, and others. Dave’s work has appeared on ABC, CBS, NBC, CNN, NPR, SiriusXM, The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Howard Stern Show, and the award-winning Netflix series, Atypical. Dave’s company, Elevated Studio, produces podcasts and other digital media for brands and interesting people around the world.

Find out more about Dave Finch:
https://davidjfinch.com/

Additional works/essays:
https://davidjfinch.com/articles-and-essays/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3917asr,autism,better,christian,couples,dan,david,diverse,finch,holmes,husband,man's,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,quest,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullIssues Adults on the Spectrum may Face with Ron Sandisonhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/issues-adults-on-the-spectrum-may-face-with-ron-sandison--51440082
About Ron:
Ron Sandison works full-time in the medical field and is a professor of theology at
Destiny School of Ministry. He is an advisory board member of the Art of Autism and the
Els Center of Excellence. Sandison has a Master of Divinity from Oral Roberts University
and is the author of A Parent’s Guide to Autism: Practical Advice. Biblical Wisdom
published by Charisma House and Views from the Spectrum. He has memorized over 15,000
Scriptures include 22 complete books of the New Testament. Sandison speaks at over 70
events a year, including 20-plus education conferences. Ron and his wife, Kristen, reside in
Rochester Hills, MI, with daughter, Makayla. His website is
http://www.spectruminclusion.com. You can contact him at sandison456@hotmail.com.
Link to Ron’s website: https://www.spectruminclusion.com
Link to Ron’s Facebook fan Page: https://www.facebook.com/SpectrumRonSandison

Ron continues to write books. Keep checking back for additional resources! Ron is available to speak at multiple events]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/51440082Mon, 03 Oct 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie as she interviews Ron Sandison. There are many topics for discussion today, including Autism & transitioning into adulthood and issues young adults face like employment, developing relationships, dating, leaving the home, and...
About Ron:
Ron Sandison works full-time in the medical field and is a professor of theology at
Destiny School of Ministry. He is an advisory board member of the Art of Autism and the
Els Center of Excellence. Sandison has a Master of Divinity from Oral Roberts University
and is the author of A Parent’s Guide to Autism: Practical Advice. Biblical Wisdom
published by Charisma House and Views from the Spectrum. He has memorized over 15,000
Scriptures include 22 complete books of the New Testament. Sandison speaks at over 70
events a year, including 20-plus education conferences. Ron and his wife, Kristen, reside in
Rochester Hills, MI, with daughter, Makayla. His website is
http://www.spectruminclusion.com. You can contact him at sandison456@hotmail.com.
Link to Ron’s website: https://www.spectruminclusion.com
Link to Ron’s Facebook fan Page: https://www.facebook.com/SpectrumRonSandison

Ron continues to write books. Keep checking back for additional resources! Ron is available to speak at multiple events]]>2430asr,autism,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,ron,sandison,spectrum,stephaniefalse6fullJust the Guys: How work Influences Homehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-the-guys-how-work-influences-home--50836844
Dan, Perry, and Greg discuss some things that translate to home and some that just do not. The guys talk about scripts and mimicking and expectations.

To hear more from Perry, Perry has been a guest before on the podcast- check out his link here.
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/special-interests-or-expertise

Greg and his wife have contributed to our curriculum for couples and counselors and podcasts- you can hear more from couples who are NDCC at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2

All proceeds from courses go toward funding this podcast and other curriculum.
Hear from 4 couples (including Dan and Stephanie) in this module of Educate!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50836844Mon, 26 Sep 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesUsually, you will hear Dan and Stephanie talking through issues and challenges of being an NDCC or sharing tips. But today, joining are two guys from our NDCC Bible/Book study, to discuss how work influences home life. Dan, Perry, and Greg discuss...
Dan, Perry, and Greg discuss some things that translate to home and some that just do not. The guys talk about scripts and mimicking and expectations.

To hear more from Perry, Perry has been a guest before on the podcast- check out his link here.
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/special-interests-or-expertise

Greg and his wife have contributed to our curriculum for couples and counselors and podcasts- you can hear more from couples who are NDCC at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2

All proceeds from courses go toward funding this podcast and other curriculum.
Hear from 4 couples (including Dan and Stephanie) in this module of Educate!]]>2297asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,guys,holmes,just,marriages,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,thefalse6fullWomen on the Spectrum with Toni Boucherhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/women-on-the-spectrum-with-toni-boucher--50697785Toni has been working with folks on the spectrum for over 28 years. Her daughter was diagnosed with ASD at age 11. Toni's clients and people who know her well say Asperger's is the reason she "gets it".

Her articles on sensory integration are referenced worldwide by families, psychologists, teachers,
and therapists. She is often referred to as "The Autism Translator."

Find out more at
https://www.toniboucher.net/neurodiverse

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen topic.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50697785Mon, 19 Sep 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAbout Toni Boucher: Toni has been working with folks on the spectrum for over 28 years. Her daughter was diagnosed with ASD at age 11. Toni's clients and people who know her well say Asperger's is the reason she "gets it". Her articles on...Toni has been working with folks on the spectrum for over 28 years. Her daughter was diagnosed with ASD at age 11. Toni's clients and people who know her well say Asperger's is the reason she "gets it".

Her articles on sensory integration are referenced worldwide by families, psychologists, teachers,
and therapists. She is often referred to as "The Autism Translator."

Find out more at
https://www.toniboucher.net/neurodiverse

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen topic.]]>3385asr,autism,boucher,holmes,resourses,spectrum,stephanie,toni,womenfalse5fullDoes Malachi 2:16 say, "God hates divorce?" with Thomas Pryde Part 2https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-malachi-2-16-say-god-hates-divorce-with-thomas-pryde-part-2--50945840Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and financial are all forms of abusive behaviors that are not Biblical or acceptable in marriage? Does abuse or neglect reflect how Christ loved the Church? How has the church mistaught this and enabled abuse?

Everyone on the podcast is pro-marriage and wants to see God-honoring marriages that bring glory to God. Divorce is not to be taken lightly. Marriage is a Covenant. Does abuse break the covenant to love, honor, and cherish?

Understanding Biblical Translations- why are they different? Go back to a previous show with scholar and minister Bruce CE Fleming as we discuss this: Previous Show
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/q-a-with-bruce-c-e-fleming

A look at Malachi 2:16 in two translations:
New American Standard
16 “For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”

ESV
16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,”[e] says the Lord Almighty.
So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

Teaching that enables abuse and causes harm:
We will discuss abuse in Christian marriages and how it is often ignored and how teaching such as 'submit to abuse' is taught like in videos such as this where the speaker says if " a woman needs to be smacked around for a season" and "even if she is being hurt she can seek help from God in the church." This is not Biblical!

Helpful Links:

Links to Resources:
Psalm 82 homepage:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/members/thanks#edit-settings-modal

Defining Abuse:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/topics/29293/posts/98085-statement-regarding-the-crec-first-reading-memorial-on-abuse

7 Traits of a Repentant Abuser:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/seven-traits-of-repentant-abuser

Need a refuge? The Refuge is a place for those who have experienced abuse.
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge

If you are a pastor or Christian counselor, or Biblical counselor, can you spot abuse? Are you trauma-informed?
Please read Psa 82's Open Letter to Pastors:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/public/posts/137687-an-open-letter-to-a-pastor-who-is-looking-for-resources-on-dealing-with-abuse]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50945840Mon, 12 Sep 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more...Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and financial are all forms of abusive behaviors that are not Biblical or acceptable in marriage? Does abuse or neglect reflect how Christ loved the Church? How has the church mistaught this and enabled abuse?

Everyone on the podcast is pro-marriage and wants to see God-honoring marriages that bring glory to God. Divorce is not to be taken lightly. Marriage is a Covenant. Does abuse break the covenant to love, honor, and cherish?

Understanding Biblical Translations- why are they different? Go back to a previous show with scholar and minister Bruce CE Fleming as we discuss this: Previous Show
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/q-a-with-bruce-c-e-fleming

A look at Malachi 2:16 in two translations:
New American Standard
16 “For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”

ESV
16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,”[e] says the Lord Almighty.
So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

Teaching that enables abuse and causes harm:
We will discuss abuse in Christian marriages and how it is often ignored and how teaching such as 'submit to abuse' is taught like in videos such as this where the speaker says if " a woman needs to be smacked around for a season" and "even if she is being hurt she can seek help from God in the church." This is not Biblical!

Helpful Links:

Links to Resources:
Psalm 82 homepage:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/members/thanks#edit-settings-modal

Defining Abuse:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/topics/29293/posts/98085-statement-regarding-the-crec-first-reading-memorial-on-abuse

7 Traits of a Repentant Abuser:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/seven-traits-of-repentant-abuser

Need a refuge? The Refuge is a place for those who have experienced abuse.
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge

If you are a pastor or Christian counselor, or Biblical counselor, can you spot abuse? Are you trauma-informed?
Please read Psa 82's Open Letter to Pastors:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/public/posts/137687-an-open-letter-to-a-pastor-who-is-looking-for-resources-on-dealing-with-abuse]]>2436asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,initiative,marriages,ndcc,neuro,pryde,psalm82,resources,spectrum,stephanie,thomasfalse5fullComplex Marriages: How to Stay and When to Leave with Barbara Granthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/complex-marriages-how-to-stay-and-when-to-leave-with-barbara-grant--50956693Both Barbara and Stephanie believe in Covenant marriage and are pro-marriage and pro-NDCC. However, I like to quote my mentor Leslie Vernick, "I believe in the sacrament of marriage but not to the detriment of the individuals in the marriage. Jesus died for individuals, not to save institutions." Today is a sensitive topic, but we will discuss how to stay and when or how to know it is time to leave.

We Mentioned the Stage of Change and Preparation for Coaching/Counseling:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-addiction/202110/understanding-the-process-change#:~:text=Key%20points,an%20individual%20in%20another%20stage.
A PowerPoint Stephanie found about Stages of Change and Making Change:
https://portal.ct.gov/-/media/DMHAS/CSP/CSPStagesofChangeModelpdf.pdf?la=en

Another resource mentioned is Leslie Vernick's book: Emotionally Destructive Marriage
https://leslievernick.com/the-emotionally-destructive-marriage/

Gretchen Bakerville: Life Saving Divorce: Hope for people leaving emotionally destructive relationships.
https://www.amazon.com/Life-Saving-Divorce-Leaving-Destructive-Relationships/dp/1734374721

About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified
Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her Master's in MFT
(Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on
neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families, as well as offering support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner. She is re-married (14 years) to another neurodiverse partner and has a high-functioning neurodiverse adult child. She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.

NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

GROUP DETAILS:
Strength for Staying in Marriage
• Centering one's identity in Christ
• Detaching with love, speaking in love.
• Self-care as WORSHIP (love God with whole heart, mind, soul, strength… bring God the
1st fruits of your life, not the DREGS!)
• Handling anger, fear and making space to grieve
• BOUNDARIES
• Re-setting expectations
• Taking responsibility for future choices

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min Consultation
 online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
 90 min intake session
 Goal setting
 ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
 HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
 Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
 Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.NET
Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/

Support Group registration by Sept 8th for the next group:
https://www.ntsupportgroups.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50956693Mon, 05 Sep 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Barbara, who will talk about the pain of divorce and how NDCCs may find themselves needing to separate or divorce or live in separate spaces. Barbara has been a co-leader with Stephanie for NT Christian wives in AS marriage. We will...Both Barbara and Stephanie believe in Covenant marriage and are pro-marriage and pro-NDCC. However, I like to quote my mentor Leslie Vernick, "I believe in the sacrament of marriage but not to the detriment of the individuals in the marriage. Jesus died for individuals, not to save institutions." Today is a sensitive topic, but we will discuss how to stay and when or how to know it is time to leave.

We Mentioned the Stage of Change and Preparation for Coaching/Counseling:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-addiction/202110/understanding-the-process-change#:~:text=Key%20points,an%20individual%20in%20another%20stage.
A PowerPoint Stephanie found about Stages of Change and Making Change:
https://portal.ct.gov/-/media/DMHAS/CSP/CSPStagesofChangeModelpdf.pdf?la=en

Another resource mentioned is Leslie Vernick's book: Emotionally Destructive Marriage
https://leslievernick.com/the-emotionally-destructive-marriage/

Gretchen Bakerville: Life Saving Divorce: Hope for people leaving emotionally destructive relationships.
https://www.amazon.com/Life-Saving-Divorce-Leaving-Destructive-Relationships/dp/1734374721

About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified
Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and is near the completion of her Master's in MFT
(Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on
neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families, as well as offering support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner. She is re-married (14 years) to another neurodiverse partner and has a high-functioning neurodiverse adult child. She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.

NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
• Safe, confidential zoom group (8 max)
• “Solution-focused” therapy model
• Incubator for change and growth
• Supports movement through stages of change
• Cross-sharing, learning from others
• Healing experience to share and be validated
• Multiple prayer partners - friendships
• Goal setting and homework
• Best value for time/money

GROUP DETAILS:
Strength for Staying in Marriage
• Centering one's identity in Christ
• Detaching with love, speaking in love.
• Self-care as WORSHIP (love God with whole heart, mind, soul, strength… bring God the
1st fruits of your life, not the DREGS!)
• Handling anger, fear and making space to grieve
• BOUNDARIES
• Re-setting expectations
• Taking responsibility for future choices

HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
 Free 25 min...]]>3963asr,autism,barbara,complex,grant,holmes,how,leave,marriages:,resources,spectrum,stay,stephanie,whenfalse5fullDoes Malachi 2:16 say, "God hates divorce?" with Thomas Prydehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-malachi-2-16-say-god-hates-divorce-with-thomas-pryde--50936001Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and financial are all forms of abusive behaviors that are not Biblical or acceptable in marriage? Does abuse or neglect reflect how Christ loved the Church? How has the church mistaught this and enabled abuse?

Everyone on the podcast is pro-marriage and wants to see God-honoring marriages that bring glory to God. Divorce is not to be taken lightly. Marriage is a Covenant. Does abuse break the covenant to love, honor, and cherish?

Understanding Biblical Translations- why are they different? Go back to a previous show with scholar and minister Bruce CE Fleming as we discuss this: Previous Show
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/q-a-with-bruce-c-e-fleming

A look at Malachi 2:16 in two translations:
New American Standard
16 “For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”

ESV
16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,”[e] says the Lord Almighty.
So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

Teaching that enables abuse and causes harm:
We will discuss abuse in Christian marriages and how it is often ignored and how teaching such as 'submit to abuse' is taught like in videos such as this where the speaker says if " a woman needs to be smacked around for a season" and "even if she is being hurt she can seek help from God in the church." This is not Biblical!

Helpful Links:

Links to Resources:
Psalm 82 homepage:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/members/thanks#edit-settings-modal

Defining Abuse:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/topics/29293/posts/98085-statement-regarding-the-crec-first-reading-memorial-on-abuse

7 Traits of a Repentant Abuser:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/seven-traits-of-repentant-abuser

Need a refuge? The Refuge is a place for those who have experienced abuse.
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge

If you are a pastor or Christian counselor, or Biblical counselor, can you spot abuse? Are you trauma-informed?
Please read Psa 82's Open Letter to Pastors:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/public/posts/137687-an-open-letter-to-a-pastor-who-is-looking-for-resources-on-dealing-with-abuse]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50936001Mon, 29 Aug 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday Dan and Stephanie interview Thomas Pryde of the Psalm 82 Initiative. What is the Psalm 82 Initiative? Helping make churches safer for abuse victims. Psalm 82 also is Calling civil and religious leaders to recognize and respond to abuse more...Today is a sensitive topic. We will discuss divorce and how the church has taught Malachi 2:16 that God hates divorce- for all reasons. What does Malachi 2:16 say about divorce? What about abuse? What are the types of abuse- psychological, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and financial are all forms of abusive behaviors that are not Biblical or acceptable in marriage? Does abuse or neglect reflect how Christ loved the Church? How has the church mistaught this and enabled abuse?

Everyone on the podcast is pro-marriage and wants to see God-honoring marriages that bring glory to God. Divorce is not to be taken lightly. Marriage is a Covenant. Does abuse break the covenant to love, honor, and cherish?

Understanding Biblical Translations- why are they different? Go back to a previous show with scholar and minister Bruce CE Fleming as we discuss this: Previous Show
https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/q-a-with-bruce-c-e-fleming

A look at Malachi 2:16 in two translations:
New American Standard
16 “For [a]I hate [b]divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and [c]him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”

ESV
16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,”[e] says the Lord Almighty.
So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

Teaching that enables abuse and causes harm:
We will discuss abuse in Christian marriages and how it is often ignored and how teaching such as 'submit to abuse' is taught like in videos such as this where the speaker says if " a woman needs to be smacked around for a season" and "even if she is being hurt she can seek help from God in the church." This is not Biblical!

Helpful Links:

Links to Resources:
Psalm 82 homepage:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/members/thanks#edit-settings-modal

Defining Abuse:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/topics/29293/posts/98085-statement-regarding-the-crec-first-reading-memorial-on-abuse

7 Traits of a Repentant Abuser:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/seven-traits-of-repentant-abuser

Need a refuge? The Refuge is a place for those who have experienced abuse.
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/refuge

If you are a pastor or Christian counselor, or Biblical counselor, can you spot abuse? Are you trauma-informed?
Please read Psa 82's Open Letter to Pastors:
https://www.psalm82initiative.org/community/public/posts/137687-an-open-letter-to-a-pastor-who-is-looking-for-resources-on-dealing-with-abuse]]>2066abuse,asr,autism,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,malachi,marriages,ndcc,neurodiverse,pryde,spectrumfalse5fullAffinity Therapy: Finding Hidden Potentialhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/affinity-therapy-finding-hidden-potential--50528272Ron and Stephanie refer to the movie Ron created about their journey, Life Animated.
The link to that movie is here:
Find the link to Life Animated here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVMcYkRHtcU
Watch the shear joy of Owen meeting Gilbert Gottfried at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vI1R3VEREQ

Ron Suskind delves deeper into Affinity Therapy, the unique method of emulative communication that the Suskind's developed to help Owen, their youngest son, emerge from the shadows of autism. Owen, despite limited speech, memorized fifty animated Disney movies. Throw him a line; he’d throw back the next one. When the Suskind's realized this, they began speaking in Disney dialogue, turning their house into a stage set where they would play out scenes. Over the years, their son’s speech returned. What’s the lesson? Listen to the patient and let them guide you. Ron focuses on the perspectives of both the caregiver and the patient, addressing the importance of a shared language of imagination and demonstrating how myth, fable, and legend still remain humanity’s best pathway to healing.

One of America’s most treasured journalists, best-selling author Ron Suskind brings a Renaissance man’s breadth of knowledge and experiences to the speaking stage. His keynotes and mainstage conversations with notable leaders in the financial world draw upon a career as a Pulitzer-Prize-winning Wall Street Journal reporter. As an author and journalist, currently, he serves as the co-host of Freak Out and Carry On. This WBUR podcast addresses the urgent political issues of our time through a historical lens. Suskind's works are frequently characterized by his passion for giving a voice to the voiceless. This is evident in his most recent best-seller, Life, Animated: A Story of Sidekicks, Heroes, and Autism, adapted into an Academy Award-nominated documentary and recently won three News and Documentary Emmys. Life, Animated tells the story of his youngest son, Owen, who, after being diagnosed with autism, found a way to reengage with the world around him. Seizing upon Owen’s love of animated Disney movies, the Suskind family re-enacted the films with him, pioneering a now-widely acknowledged method of emulative communication known as Affinity Therapy. When not writing and speaking, Ron Suskind is a Senior Fellow at Harvard’s Edmond J. Safra Center for Ethics, where he serves as a lecturer on narrative and justice. He is also the Founder and CEO of Sidekicks for Autism, which provides a free education app that helps parents deeply connect and communicate with their autistic children. Suskind holds an MA from Columbia University’s Graduate School of Journalism.
about 1 month ago #affinitytherapy, #asperger's, #autism, #autismandcommunication, #autismandpotential, #autismconferencespeaker, #mentalhealth, #mentalwellness, #onthespectrum, #ronsuskind, #springbrooksautismconference

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50528272Mon, 22 Aug 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie in her discussion with Ron Suskind on discovering potential and finding hope against all odds. As Ron shares his experience with his son Owen and Stephanie shares her experience with Sydney, both find found ways to enter their autistic...Ron and Stephanie refer to the movie Ron created about their journey, Life Animated.
The link to that movie is here:
Find the link to Life Animated here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVMcYkRHtcU
Watch the shear joy of Owen meeting Gilbert Gottfried at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vI1R3VEREQ

Ron Suskind delves deeper into Affinity Therapy, the unique method of emulative communication that the Suskind's developed to help Owen, their youngest son, emerge from the shadows of autism. Owen, despite limited speech, memorized fifty animated Disney movies. Throw him a line; he’d throw back the next one. When the Suskind's realized this, they began speaking in Disney dialogue, turning their house into a stage set where they would play out scenes. Over the years, their son’s speech returned. What’s the lesson? Listen to the patient and let them guide you. Ron focuses on the perspectives of both the caregiver and the patient, addressing the importance of a shared language of imagination and demonstrating how myth, fable, and legend still remain humanity’s best pathway to healing.

One of America’s most treasured journalists, best-selling author Ron Suskind brings a Renaissance man’s breadth of knowledge and experiences to the speaking stage. His keynotes and mainstage conversations with notable leaders in the financial world draw upon a career as a Pulitzer-Prize-winning Wall Street Journal reporter. As an author and journalist, currently, he serves as the co-host of Freak Out and Carry On. This WBUR podcast addresses the urgent political issues of our time through a historical lens. Suskind's works are frequently characterized by his passion for giving a voice to the voiceless. This is evident in his most recent best-seller, Life, Animated: A Story of Sidekicks, Heroes, and Autism, adapted into an Academy Award-nominated documentary and recently won three News and Documentary Emmys. Life, Animated tells the story of his youngest son, Owen, who, after being diagnosed with autism, found a way to reengage with the world around him. Seizing upon Owen’s love of animated Disney movies, the Suskind family re-enacted the films with him, pioneering a now-widely acknowledged method of emulative communication known as Affinity Therapy. When not writing and speaking, Ron Suskind is a Senior Fellow at Harvard’s Edmond J. Safra Center for Ethics, where he serves as a lecturer on narrative and justice. He is also the Founder and CEO of Sidekicks for Autism, which provides a free education app that helps parents deeply connect and communicate with their autistic children. Suskind holds an MA from Columbia University’s Graduate School of Journalism.
about 1 month ago #affinitytherapy, #asperger's, #autism, #autismandcommunication, #autismandpotential, #autismconferencespeaker, #mentalhealth, #mentalwellness, #onthespectrum, #ronsuskind, #springbrooksautismconference

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast...]]>3583affinity,animated,asr,autism,life,ron,spectrum,suskind,theoryfalse5fullStress Management with Lauren E Millerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stress-management-with-lauren-e-miller--50837931https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/growing-your-emotional-intelligence-in-c

NeuroDiverse relationships can have a lot of stress and tension when the couple is in a negative or conflict cycle.
Lauren's area of expertise is stress relief and personal development. Self-awareness and self-management are key components of Emotional Intelligence. By this, they will know you are my disciples- that you love one another. Lauren talks about stress and our beliefs and the need for stress in relationships for each person to take ownership of their contribution to creating psychological safety. She will talk about Emotional Freedom a bit, and you look up how to do the technique on her site.

About Lauren E. Miller, M.Ed, MSC, ICF-PCC
As a stress relief expert, award-winning author,
motivational speaker, HRD trainer, Edge God In
podcast host, certified executive and life coach,
Lauren facilitates fun process-driven programs with
guidance, support, and accountability creating positive
sustainable behavioral change in business and
personal life.
Lauren has worked in youth and adult ministries for
over 30 years. Through God’s mercy, grace and
strength, she uses her experience simultaneously
conquering two of life's top stressors: cancer and
divorce to help others destress and successfully
move through challenges.
Happily, remarried and gratefully enjoying life in
Colorado with a loving husband, three grown children
and two grandchildren, Lauren is often found in the
kitchen dancing to her favorite worship music or rolling around on the floor with her two
dogs.
Lauren holds a Masters in Adult Education with a Certification in Human Resources
Development | Advanced Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Basic & Master
Certification | Faculty Shift Leadership Training | Master Sherpa Executive Coach
(MSC) and ICF Certification PCC | 2nd-degree blackbelt World Tae Kwon Do
Lauren has produced 8 CD’s and five 3-minute/30-day Audio/Visual Personal
Excellence/Wellness Programs. She has authored 9 books, 3 of which are Award
Winning:
• Hearing His Whisper...with every storm Jesus comes too
• 99 Things You Want To Know Before Stressing Out!
• Stop Letting the World Be the Boss of You! 25 Solutions to Refresh Your Identity
in Christ
Lauren’s Mission Statement: Champion Human Potential in Christ
Equip people and teams globally with mindset skills and sustainable behavioral shifts to
de-stress their lives, regain inner clarity of purpose and step into personal and
professional fulfillment.
Edge God In Podcast: http://EdgeGodIn.com
EmotionalIntelligenceinChrist.com
http://LaurenEMiller.com

Check out the book!
https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/

As you read through this book, you will have the opportunity to:

Encounter the living Christ so much so that your ability to love and be loved is expanded
See how Jesus, the ultimate leader in EIC, impacted so many lives with varied personalities, backgrounds, and stories
Learn how to influence behavior with the EIC method through its connection with Biblical DISC.

Further Resources:

About the book: Emotional Intelligence in Christ
https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/
Clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Improves Multiple Physiological Markers of Health
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6381429/

Articles on EFT/tapping and autism:
https://www.appliedbehavioranalysisprograms.com/faq/autism-eft-tapping/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50837931Mon, 15 Aug 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes heard about this amazing book, Emotional Intelligence in Christ, from a video on Lead Like Jesus. Dan and Stephanie are excited to have back on the podcast, Lauren E. Miller. The link to the previous show on Emotional Intelligence in...https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/growing-your-emotional-intelligence-in-c

NeuroDiverse relationships can have a lot of stress and tension when the couple is in a negative or conflict cycle.
Lauren's area of expertise is stress relief and personal development. Self-awareness and self-management are key components of Emotional Intelligence. By this, they will know you are my disciples- that you love one another. Lauren talks about stress and our beliefs and the need for stress in relationships for each person to take ownership of their contribution to creating psychological safety. She will talk about Emotional Freedom a bit, and you look up how to do the technique on her site.

About Lauren E. Miller, M.Ed, MSC, ICF-PCC
As a stress relief expert, award-winning author,
motivational speaker, HRD trainer, Edge God In
podcast host, certified executive and life coach,
Lauren facilitates fun process-driven programs with
guidance, support, and accountability creating positive
sustainable behavioral change in business and
personal life.
Lauren has worked in youth and adult ministries for
over 30 years. Through God’s mercy, grace and
strength, she uses her experience simultaneously
conquering two of life's top stressors: cancer and
divorce to help others destress and successfully
move through challenges.
Happily, remarried and gratefully enjoying life in
Colorado with a loving husband, three grown children
and two grandchildren, Lauren is often found in the
kitchen dancing to her favorite worship music or rolling around on the floor with her two
dogs.
Lauren holds a Masters in Adult Education with a Certification in Human Resources
Development | Advanced Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Basic & Master
Certification | Faculty Shift Leadership Training | Master Sherpa Executive Coach
(MSC) and ICF Certification PCC | 2nd-degree blackbelt World Tae Kwon Do
Lauren has produced 8 CD’s and five 3-minute/30-day Audio/Visual Personal
Excellence/Wellness Programs. She has authored 9 books, 3 of which are Award
Winning:
• Hearing His Whisper...with every storm Jesus comes too
• 99 Things You Want To Know Before Stressing Out!
• Stop Letting the World Be the Boss of You! 25 Solutions to Refresh Your Identity
in Christ
Lauren’s Mission Statement: Champion Human Potential in Christ
Equip people and teams globally with mindset skills and sustainable behavioral shifts to
de-stress their lives, regain inner clarity of purpose and step into personal and
professional fulfillment.
Edge God In Podcast: http://EdgeGodIn.com
EmotionalIntelligenceinChrist.com
http://LaurenEMiller.com

Check out the book!
https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/

As you read through this book, you will have the opportunity to:

Encounter the living Christ so much so that your ability to love and be loved is expanded
See how Jesus, the ultimate leader in EIC, impacted so many lives with varied personalities, backgrounds, and stories
Learn how to influence behavior with the EIC method through its connection with Biblical DISC.

Further Resources:

About the book: Emotional Intelligence in Christ
3704asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,lauren,management,marriages,miller,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,stressfalse5fullTips for Executive Functioninghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tips-for-executive-functioning--50526250

Robin describes a little about herself:
I am a professionally trained Teacher and Coach who is passionate about providing the best experience to my clients. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of living with an Asperger's Profile and/or ADHD in a world that is neurotypical. My approach to coaching is client-centered and strength-based. I join with clients to work through obstacles and meet self-determined goals. For Neurodivergent adults, challenges are often rooted in neurological differences which impact communication, executive function, and/or sensory regulation. As an experienced educator, I also have an understanding of learning disabilities, learning styles, accommodations, and a toolbox of strategies.
Coaching and education services are complementary to a variety of other professional services. When needed, I easily collaborate with other professionals and family members.

I meet with clients via online video calls (worldwide). I also meet with clients in person, as agreed to be necessary and safe on a case-by-case basis.

Find her at: https://robintatellc.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50526250Mon, 08 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Robin Tate, a life coach, and NeuroDiverse Couples' coach. Today we discuss Neurodiversity and strategies for executive functioning. Robin describes a little about herself: I am a professionally trained Teacher...

Robin describes a little about herself:
I am a professionally trained Teacher and Coach who is passionate about providing the best experience to my clients. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of living with an Asperger's Profile and/or ADHD in a world that is neurotypical. My approach to coaching is client-centered and strength-based. I join with clients to work through obstacles and meet self-determined goals. For Neurodivergent adults, challenges are often rooted in neurological differences which impact communication, executive function, and/or sensory regulation. As an experienced educator, I also have an understanding of learning disabilities, learning styles, accommodations, and a toolbox of strategies.
Coaching and education services are complementary to a variety of other professional services. When needed, I easily collaborate with other professionals and family members.

I meet with clients via online video calls (worldwide). I also meet with clients in person, as agreed to be necessary and safe on a case-by-case basis.

Find her at: https://robintatellc.com/]]>3697asr,autism,executive,functioning,holmes,melanie,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tatefalse5fullWhat Can We Expect to Change?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-can-we-expect-to-change--50692279Join Stephanie and Dan as they interview Dr. Tony Attwood and they discuss what may change and what may not in ND couples. Dr. Tony discusses meltdown and anger management, communication differences, and the importance of scheduling time together.

About Professor Tony Attwood:
Tony is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in Autism Spectrum Disorders since he
qualified as a clinical psychologist in England in 1975. He currently works in his own
private practice, and is also adjunct professor at Griffith University, Queensland. His book
Asperger’s Syndrome – A Guide for Parents and Professionals has sold over 500,000 copies
and has been translated into 27 languages. His subsequent book, The Complete Guide to
Asperger’s Syndrome, published in October 2006 has sold over 300,000 copies and has been
translated into 18 languages, and is one of the primary textbooks on Asperger’s syndrome,
otherwise known as Autism Spectrum Disorder – Level 1. He has several subsequent books
published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Future Horizons Inc. and Guilford Press on
emotion management, relationships and sexuality, and general advice for autistic children and
adults.
Tony has been invited to be a keynote speaker at many Australian and International
Conferences. He presents workshops and runs training courses for parents, professionals and
individuals with Asperger's syndrome all over the world and is a prolific author of scientific
papers and books on the subject. He has presented several live webinars with his colleague,
Dr Michelle Garnett, which have been recorded and can be accessed via their website at
www.attwoodandgarnettevents.com.
He has worked with many thousands of individuals of all ages with many expressions of
autism.

You can find out more about Dr. Tony Attwood at https://www.tonyattwood.com.au/ or look up events at https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50692279Mon, 01 Aug 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAutism in Relationships. What can we work on change? Join Stephanie and Dan as they interview Dr. Tony Attwood and they discuss what may change and what may not in ND couples. Dr. Tony discusses meltdown and anger management, communication...Join Stephanie and Dan as they interview Dr. Tony Attwood and they discuss what may change and what may not in ND couples. Dr. Tony discusses meltdown and anger management, communication differences, and the importance of scheduling time together.

About Professor Tony Attwood:
Tony is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in Autism Spectrum Disorders since he
qualified as a clinical psychologist in England in 1975. He currently works in his own
private practice, and is also adjunct professor at Griffith University, Queensland. His book
Asperger’s Syndrome – A Guide for Parents and Professionals has sold over 500,000 copies
and has been translated into 27 languages. His subsequent book, The Complete Guide to
Asperger’s Syndrome, published in October 2006 has sold over 300,000 copies and has been
translated into 18 languages, and is one of the primary textbooks on Asperger’s syndrome,
otherwise known as Autism Spectrum Disorder – Level 1. He has several subsequent books
published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Future Horizons Inc. and Guilford Press on
emotion management, relationships and sexuality, and general advice for autistic children and
adults.
Tony has been invited to be a keynote speaker at many Australian and International
Conferences. He presents workshops and runs training courses for parents, professionals and
individuals with Asperger's syndrome all over the world and is a prolific author of scientific
papers and books on the subject. He has presented several live webinars with his colleague,
Dr Michelle Garnett, which have been recorded and can be accessed via their website at
www.attwoodandgarnettevents.com.
He has worked with many thousands of individuals of all ages with many expressions of
autism.

You can find out more about Dr. Tony Attwood at https://www.tonyattwood.com.au/ or look up events at https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3507asr,atwood,autism,change,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,tonyfalse5fullPredictive Coding Dr. Vermeulenhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/predictive-coding-dr-vermeulen--50520574Check out this article on predictive coding:
https://petervermeulen.be/2019/08/20/autism-absolute-thinking-in-a-relative-world/
About Dr. Vermeulen in his own words.

Peter got a Bachelor in Family Sciences (Brussels, 1985) and in the same year also a Master in Psychology and Pedagogical Sciences at the oldest university of Belgium, the University of Leuven. Because he got the taste of studying at the oldest universities, Peter started to study at the oldest university of The Netherlands, Leiden, while already working in the field of autism. There he obtained his PhD in 2002 with his research on late diagnosis in people on the autism spectrum with above average IQs.
So, officially it is: Dr. Vermeulen Peter, MSc, PhD but Peter just prefers to be called Peter
Peter started his career in the field of autism in 1987, working for the Vlaamse Vereniging Autisme (Flemish Autism Society) as diagnostician and home trainer for families on autistic children.
He later become the director of the home training center and started gradually to share his experiences via presentations and books.
Peter wrote more than 15 books, some of them translated into more than 10 languages.
Peter works for ‘sterkmakers in autisme’ (strongmakers in autism), a non-profit organization that makes people and organizations strong in their ambition towards full inclusion of autistic people.
Peter created Autism in Context, where autism is seen in context. He is teaching, training and presenting all over the globe and in his work he focuses on two topics in particular: the autistic thinking (autism as context blindness) and happiness & well-being in autism.
In 2019 Peter received the Passwerk Life Time Achievement Award for his more than 30 years contribution to the autism community in Flanders.
When Peter is not presenting, writing, driving or flying around for his job, he can usually be found on one of his 4 bicycles, trying to imitate Tour de France winners, hereby being oblivious to his age and physical state. When tired from cycling, he can be found at home, with his wife and their dog (which actually is more a Gremlin than a dog). Or he is playing with his 3 grandchildren. Because the Gremlin loves the beach, Peter often spends his weekends at the seaside, savouring seafood and – being a descendant of a brewing family – enjoying a good beer.
Website: www.petervermeulen.be

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50520574Mon, 25 Jul 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesPeter Vermeulen Check out this article on predictive coding: https://petervermeulen.be/2019/08/20/autism-absolute-thinking-in-a-relative-world/ About Dr. Vermeulen in his own words. Peter got a Bachelor in Family Sciences (Brussels, 1985) and in...Check out this article on predictive coding:
https://petervermeulen.be/2019/08/20/autism-absolute-thinking-in-a-relative-world/
About Dr. Vermeulen in his own words.

Peter got a Bachelor in Family Sciences (Brussels, 1985) and in the same year also a Master in Psychology and Pedagogical Sciences at the oldest university of Belgium, the University of Leuven. Because he got the taste of studying at the oldest universities, Peter started to study at the oldest university of The Netherlands, Leiden, while already working in the field of autism. There he obtained his PhD in 2002 with his research on late diagnosis in people on the autism spectrum with above average IQs.
So, officially it is: Dr. Vermeulen Peter, MSc, PhD but Peter just prefers to be called Peter
Peter started his career in the field of autism in 1987, working for the Vlaamse Vereniging Autisme (Flemish Autism Society) as diagnostician and home trainer for families on autistic children.
He later become the director of the home training center and started gradually to share his experiences via presentations and books.
Peter wrote more than 15 books, some of them translated into more than 10 languages.
Peter works for ‘sterkmakers in autisme’ (strongmakers in autism), a non-profit organization that makes people and organizations strong in their ambition towards full inclusion of autistic people.
Peter created Autism in Context, where autism is seen in context. He is teaching, training and presenting all over the globe and in his work he focuses on two topics in particular: the autistic thinking (autism as context blindness) and happiness & well-being in autism.
In 2019 Peter received the Passwerk Life Time Achievement Award for his more than 30 years contribution to the autism community in Flanders.
When Peter is not presenting, writing, driving or flying around for his job, he can usually be found on one of his 4 bicycles, trying to imitate Tour de France winners, hereby being oblivious to his age and physical state. When tired from cycling, he can be found at home, with his wife and their dog (which actually is more a Gremlin than a dog). Or he is playing with his 3 grandchildren. Because the Gremlin loves the beach, Peter often spends his weekends at the seaside, savouring seafood and – being a descendant of a brewing family – enjoying a good beer.
Website: www.petervermeulen.be

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3617asr,autism,coding,holmes,peter,predictive,resources,spectrum,stephanie,vermeulenfalse4fullCommunication Tools: Developing Emotionally Healthy Communicationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/communication-tools-developing-emotionally-healthy-communication--50519916Today they talk through a course they have taught couples they work with called Emotionally Healthy Relationships (EHR). We encourage listeners to get the updated workbook where the scripts are included for CTR, Stop Mind Reading, Clarify Expectations, Listen
Incarnationally, Ladder of Integrity, and how to have a Clean Fight (negotiating).

The following are links on YT from the authors with role plays.
If these scripts were developed for NT couples, how much more do ND couples need some active scripts to guide couples through communication.

Links:
https://youtu.be/FZ-m_obuEtM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejasm5s1voE&t=8s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSjefSlSuBI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCeYUYXt6kQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUc-j76CrWs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RKX2iU9nx4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hw3O1PqsRYk]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50519916Mon, 18 Jul 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesStephanie and Dan wanted to share practical communication tools. In the previous podcast they shared communication cards for starting conversations. Today they talk through a course they have taught couples they work with called Emotionally Healthy...Today they talk through a course they have taught couples they work with called Emotionally Healthy Relationships (EHR). We encourage listeners to get the updated workbook where the scripts are included for CTR, Stop Mind Reading, Clarify Expectations, Listen
Incarnationally, Ladder of Integrity, and how to have a Clean Fight (negotiating).

The following are links on YT from the authors with role plays.
If these scripts were developed for NT couples, how much more do ND couples need some active scripts to guide couples through communication.

Links:
https://youtu.be/FZ-m_obuEtM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejasm5s1voE&t=8s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSjefSlSuBI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCeYUYXt6kQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUc-j76CrWs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RKX2iU9nx4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hw3O1PqsRYk]]>3338christian,communication,couples,dan,developing,diverse,emotionally,healthy,holmes,marriages,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,stephaniefalse4fullCommunication is Key to Healthy Sexual Intimacyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/communication-is-key-to-healthy-sexual-intimacy--50301508
Leslie A. Sickels, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker based in Manhattan. Her areas of expertise include autism spectrum disorder (ASD), NeuroDiverse relationships, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Much of her work focuses on gender and sexuality as they relate to the unique concerns of individuals with ASD. Leslie utilizes a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) approach and integrates trauma-informed practices into her work. She provides psychotherapy, which often includes building social skills, improving executive functioning, and strengthening relationships.

Along with individual therapy, Leslie provides counseling to neurodiverse couples, in which one or both partners are on the autism spectrum. She supports couples in enhancing communication and working through challenges in their partnership. Leslie’s work focuses on neurodiversity as an asset in relationships. Her work is goal-oriented and concrete so that couples can identify and understand neurodiversity in their partnership and develop tools to strengthen their relationship. Leslie also provides supportive services, including consultation and coaching for partners of individuals with ASD.

More information can be found at LeslieSickelsLCSW.com or Leslie can be reached directly at LeslieSickelsLCSW@gmail.com.

Also mentioned in the show today is spoon theory. Here are some links about spoon theory.
https://theswaddle.com/what-the-spoon-theory-means-for-people-living-with-chronic-illnesses-disabilities/

https://reachoutasc.com/spoon-theory-and-autism/

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XNBkFCZYRpFm5te38kCUbHVPuazf-Q1e/view?usp=drive_web]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50301508Mon, 11 Jul 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes speaks with Leslie Sickels about autism and sexuality and common challenges in ND Couples. Leslie A. Sickels, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker based in Manhattan. Her areas of expertise include autism spectrum disorder (ASD),...
Leslie A. Sickels, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker based in Manhattan. Her areas of expertise include autism spectrum disorder (ASD), NeuroDiverse relationships, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Much of her work focuses on gender and sexuality as they relate to the unique concerns of individuals with ASD. Leslie utilizes a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) approach and integrates trauma-informed practices into her work. She provides psychotherapy, which often includes building social skills, improving executive functioning, and strengthening relationships.

Along with individual therapy, Leslie provides counseling to neurodiverse couples, in which one or both partners are on the autism spectrum. She supports couples in enhancing communication and working through challenges in their partnership. Leslie’s work focuses on neurodiversity as an asset in relationships. Her work is goal-oriented and concrete so that couples can identify and understand neurodiversity in their partnership and develop tools to strengthen their relationship. Leslie also provides supportive services, including consultation and coaching for partners of individuals with ASD.

More information can be found at LeslieSickelsLCSW.com or Leslie can be reached directly at LeslieSickelsLCSW@gmail.com.

Also mentioned in the show today is spoon theory. Here are some links about spoon theory.
https://theswaddle.com/what-the-spoon-theory-means-for-people-living-with-chronic-illnesses-disabilities/

https://reachoutasc.com/spoon-theory-and-autism/

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XNBkFCZYRpFm5te38kCUbHVPuazf-Q1e/view?usp=drive_web]]>3395asr,autism,healthy,holmes,intimacy,leslie,resources,sexual,sickels,spectrum,stephaniefalse4fullCommunication Tools: Conversation Startershttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/communication-tools-conversation-starters--50258104
Many NDCCs get stuck in their ability to communicate or start basic
conversations that are more than logistical. Logistics simply are not
connecting nor do they build attachment. In this podcast, Dan and Stephanie
will discuss a tool created by Dr. Mona of NeuroDiverse Love. Used with
permission, you will hear Dr. Mona describe the cards and her idea for the
communication tool. Dan and Stephanie will illustrate a few ways to use the
cards.

As stated in the podcast, these are conversation starters and a way to
ignite curiosity about your spouse.
Dan and Stephanie refer back to an older podcast on the levels of
communication. You may want to go back and relisten to it from season 1.

Connection through Communication

https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/connection-through-communication

Stephanie and Dan appeared on Dr. Mona's show earlier this year, you can
hear their interview at:

https://www.neurodiverselove.com/podcast/episode/1d9762fa/teamwork-love-and-understanding-in-neurodiverse-families-stephanie-and-dan-holmes-from-the-neurodiverse-christian-couples-podcast

For more information about the cards:

*neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com *

Stephanie C Holmes, Ed.D, MA BCCC

Certified Autism Specialist

NeuroDiverse Marriage Specialist

www.HolmesASR.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50258104Mon, 04 Jul 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dan and Stephanie in a 2 part conversation about...... communication and conversations. Many NDCCs get stuck in their ability to communicate or start basic conversations that are more than logistical. Logistics simply are not connecting nor...
Many NDCCs get stuck in their ability to communicate or start basic
conversations that are more than logistical. Logistics simply are not
connecting nor do they build attachment. In this podcast, Dan and Stephanie
will discuss a tool created by Dr. Mona of NeuroDiverse Love. Used with
permission, you will hear Dr. Mona describe the cards and her idea for the
communication tool. Dan and Stephanie will illustrate a few ways to use the
cards.

As stated in the podcast, these are conversation starters and a way to
ignite curiosity about your spouse.
Dan and Stephanie refer back to an older podcast on the levels of
communication. You may want to go back and relisten to it from season 1.

Connection through Communication

https://www.spreaker.com/user/mhnrnetwork/connection-through-communication

Stephanie and Dan appeared on Dr. Mona's show earlier this year, you can
hear their interview at:

https://www.neurodiverselove.com/podcast/episode/1d9762fa/teamwork-love-and-understanding-in-neurodiverse-families-stephanie-and-dan-holmes-from-the-neurodiverse-christian-couples-podcast

For more information about the cards:

*neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com *

Stephanie C Holmes, Ed.D, MA BCCC

Certified Autism Specialist

NeuroDiverse Marriage Specialist

www.HolmesASR.com]]>3073asr,christian,communication,conversation,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriages,mona,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,starters,stephanie,toolsfalse4fullAsk an ND Specialist Part 2 with Dr. Stephanie and Gracehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-an-nd-specialist-part-2-with-dr-stephanie-and-grace--49765624
You may want to refer back to October 4th or 2021 podcast with Grace on Why Neurology Matters which is an introduction and our other podcast from the ND perspective on June 13, 2022

Grace Myhill, MSW works with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has Asperger's/Autism. Spectrum Profile is her specialty and she understands the unique strengths and challenges that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but she can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and how their neurological differences affect their relationship. Together with her clients, she identifies areas for skill-building and problem-solving. She also offers assessments for Autism Spectrum Disorder in adults in Baltimore, MD, for further information please visit her website.
AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute
AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services
Private practice as a Neurodiverse Couples Coach
https://www.gracemyhill.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49765624Mon, 27 Jun 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesListen in with Dr. Holmes and Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in the second segment focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also known as AS-NT). This segment...
You may want to refer back to October 4th or 2021 podcast with Grace on Why Neurology Matters which is an introduction and our other podcast from the ND perspective on June 13, 2022

Grace Myhill, MSW works with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has Asperger's/Autism. Spectrum Profile is her specialty and she understands the unique strengths and challenges that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but she can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and how their neurological differences affect their relationship. Together with her clients, she identifies areas for skill-building and problem-solving. She also offers assessments for Autism Spectrum Disorder in adults in Baltimore, MD, for further information please visit her website.
AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute
AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services
Private practice as a Neurodiverse Couples Coach
https://www.gracemyhill.com/]]>2867asr,autism,coach,couples,diverse,grace,holmes,myhill,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse4fullBruce Wayne Knight - Sexual Intimacyhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bruce-wayne-knight-sexual-intimacy--49890342Dan and Stephanie took some questions from listeners about sexual issues and intimacy issues that may arise in an ND marriage.
The book Total Intimacy: A Guide to Living in Color by Deborah Neel and the late Doug Rosenau. While this book is not written for NDCCs, it is a great guide for intimacy on different levels of intimacy and sexual and nonsexual touch that can build bonding and attachment and intimacy. This book is recommended by Stephanie for couples who have done or are doing their work on conflict resolution and ready to work on intimacy. It is Dr. Holmes' opinion that one cannot work on intimacy until wounds and injuries are addressed first. More and better sex does not fix relationship issues. Make sure to go back and listen to the discussion with Dr. Gill part 1 and 2 on attachment and attachment wounds and injuries.

About our Guest: Bruce Wayne Knight, from his website: He is licensed in NC.
My Background
Born to a hard working couple, I grew up in a small town. I lost my dad at 12 and was propelled in to a turbulent adolescence. Afterwards, I found Christ and felt called into ministry. I completed a Master of Divinity , planted a church in NYC, and eventually stepped down from leadership. That began a ping-pong recovery journey lasting 2 decades of chaotic living. After getting help, the arduous journey necessary to heal, created a passion to give back and a platform of healing.
My former training, experience, and 39 + years of marriage combined with a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and certificate in Christian Sex Therapy prepared me for working with a wide range of issues.
Frame of Reference for Doing Therapy
My professional licenses include Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Clinical Mental Health Counselor(LCMHC). I am a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT), a certified Christian sex therapist (CST), National Certified Counselor, and a certified clinical trauma professional (CCTP). I am pursuing certification as an emotionally focused therapist and am an ordained minister.
I view individuals in the context of their family of origin, am a passionate believer in “attachment theory” (how we bond), and work from a Judeo-Christian worldview. As God is the perfect model of attachment, there is shared fellowship, mutual love and respect, and positive accountability. This is the foundation for the secure and safe atmosphere I facilitate in session. I look forward to joining you on your journey. Are you ready to take the first step?
Specialties: Sexual addiction and trauma recovery, marital and premarital, affair recovery, sex therapy, and spiritual formation, direction, and healing.
Bruce Wayne Knight
bruce@charlottetherapy.com | 704-870-0802 or 980-288-2396

As Bruce said, he can do telehealth in some states but is located in the Charlotte, NC area.

If you are looking for some self-help courses in this area:

Another reference about Christian Sexuality by another former student of Dr. Rosenau:
Amanda and Andrew a pastor/counselor team do what we think is the sex education all Christian couples should have received but never did.
https://linktr.ee/andrewandamandascott

Look up this YouTube: Andrew and Amanda Scott
https://www.youtube.com/c/andrewandamandascott
https://www.youtube.com/c/AndrewandAmandaScott/videos]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49890342Mon, 20 Jun 2022 10:30:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dan and Stephanie as they talk with Bruce Wayne Knight on sexual intimacy. Dan and Stephanie took some questions from listeners about sexual issues and intimacy issues that may arise in an ND marriage. The book Total Intimacy: A Guide to Living...Dan and Stephanie took some questions from listeners about sexual issues and intimacy issues that may arise in an ND marriage.
The book Total Intimacy: A Guide to Living in Color by Deborah Neel and the late Doug Rosenau. While this book is not written for NDCCs, it is a great guide for intimacy on different levels of intimacy and sexual and nonsexual touch that can build bonding and attachment and intimacy. This book is recommended by Stephanie for couples who have done or are doing their work on conflict resolution and ready to work on intimacy. It is Dr. Holmes' opinion that one cannot work on intimacy until wounds and injuries are addressed first. More and better sex does not fix relationship issues. Make sure to go back and listen to the discussion with Dr. Gill part 1 and 2 on attachment and attachment wounds and injuries.

About our Guest: Bruce Wayne Knight, from his website: He is licensed in NC.
My Background
Born to a hard working couple, I grew up in a small town. I lost my dad at 12 and was propelled in to a turbulent adolescence. Afterwards, I found Christ and felt called into ministry. I completed a Master of Divinity , planted a church in NYC, and eventually stepped down from leadership. That began a ping-pong recovery journey lasting 2 decades of chaotic living. After getting help, the arduous journey necessary to heal, created a passion to give back and a platform of healing.
My former training, experience, and 39 + years of marriage combined with a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and certificate in Christian Sex Therapy prepared me for working with a wide range of issues.
Frame of Reference for Doing Therapy
My professional licenses include Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Clinical Mental Health Counselor(LCMHC). I am a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT), a certified Christian sex therapist (CST), National Certified Counselor, and a certified clinical trauma professional (CCTP). I am pursuing certification as an emotionally focused therapist and am an ordained minister.
I view individuals in the context of their family of origin, am a passionate believer in “attachment theory” (how we bond), and work from a Judeo-Christian worldview. As God is the perfect model of attachment, there is shared fellowship, mutual love and respect, and positive accountability. This is the foundation for the secure and safe atmosphere I facilitate in session. I look forward to joining you on your journey. Are you ready to take the first step?
Specialties: Sexual addiction and trauma recovery, marital and premarital, affair recovery, sex therapy, and spiritual formation, direction, and healing.
Bruce Wayne Knight
bruce@charlottetherapy.com | 704-870-0802 or 980-288-2396

As Bruce said, he can do telehealth in some states but is located in the Charlotte, NC area.

If you are looking for some self-help courses in this area:

Another reference about Christian Sexuality by another former student of Dr. Rosenau:
Amanda and Andrew a pastor/counselor team do what we think is the sex education all Christian couples should have received but never did.
https://linktr.ee/andrewandamandascott

Look up this YouTube: Andrew and Amanda Scott
https://www.youtube.com/c/andrewandamandascott
https://www.youtube.com/c/AndrewandAmandaScott/videos]]>4410asr,autism,bruce,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,intimacy,knight,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,sexual,spectrum,stephanie,waynefalse4fullAsk a NeuroDivese Couples' Specialist with Stephanie & Gracehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-a-neurodivese-couples-specialist-with-stephanie-grace--49713219Join Dr. Holmes with Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in two segments focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also known as AS-NT). Dr. Holmes asked on social media and other networks for questions from both perspectives from all over the country to “Ask Grace.” Join Dr. Holmes and Grace as they field listeners’ questions about their partners to create a better understanding and build stronger neurodivergent relationships.
It may be helpful to review an older podcast with Grace, October 4, 2021 "Does Understanding Neurodiversity Matter?
Grace Myhill, MSW works with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has Asperger’s/Autism. Spectrum Profile is her specialty and she understands the unique strengths and challenges that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but she can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and how their neurological differences affect their relationship. Together with her clients, she identifies areas for skill-building and problem-solving. She also offers assessments for Autism Spectrum Disorder in adults in Baltimore, MD, for further information please visit her website.
AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute
AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services
Private practice as a Neurodiverse Couples Coach
https://www.gracemyhill.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49713219Mon, 13 Jun 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesSegment One: From the NeuroDiverse Perspective Join Dr. Holmes with Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in two segments focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also...Join Dr. Holmes with Neurodivergent Relationship Coach Grace Myhill in two segments focused on relational issues in Neurodivergent relationships (where one person is on the spectrum and one is not also known as AS-NT). Dr. Holmes asked on social media and other networks for questions from both perspectives from all over the country to “Ask Grace.” Join Dr. Holmes and Grace as they field listeners’ questions about their partners to create a better understanding and build stronger neurodivergent relationships.
It may be helpful to review an older podcast with Grace, October 4, 2021 "Does Understanding Neurodiversity Matter?
Grace Myhill, MSW works with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has Asperger’s/Autism. Spectrum Profile is her specialty and she understands the unique strengths and challenges that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but she can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and how their neurological differences affect their relationship. Together with her clients, she identifies areas for skill-building and problem-solving. She also offers assessments for Autism Spectrum Disorder in adults in Baltimore, MD, for further information please visit her website.
AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute
AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services
Private practice as a Neurodiverse Couples Coach
https://www.gracemyhill.com/]]>4010asr,autism,christian,couples,grace,holmes,myhill,ncc,ndcc,neurodiverse,resources,specialist,spectrum,stephaniefalse4fullDr. Gill Attachment and Attachment Injuries in ND Marriageshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dr-gill-attachment-and-attachment-injuries-in-nd-marriages--49697856https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49697856Mon, 06 Jun 2022 10:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesMake sure you listen to part 1 of this 2 part series on attachment. In a previous podcast, Dr. Gill gives us a basic understanding of attachment. Today's episode will talk about marriage attachment styles and how marriages become detached or get...4040attachment,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gill,holmes,injuries,jesse,marriages,nd,neuro,neurodiverse,relationships,stephanie,williamfalse4fullChildhood Collections and Passions, Now a Careerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/childhood-collections-and-passions-now-a-career--49705266
Sydney has spoken at various autism conferences as the voice of someone on the spectrum from personal experience and is eager to educate others. She has been published in Autism Parent Magazine, Autism/Asperger's Digest, and the new magazine Exceptional Needs Today. Sydney has also been published academically as a student for a peer-reviewed journal.
A recent article can be found at:
Exceptional Needs Today, Issue 2.

A past article:
https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/aspie-life-college-life/

Her thesis project is available on ProQuest.

Sydney resides in Georgia. She is passionate about ending human sex trafficking and makes handmade soaps to raise money for Project Rescue. If you live near Carrollton, GA her soaps are available at a local store, Re-Thread Thrift Store by Simple Suds by Syd.

Sydney is a proud Aspie and advocate for Autism acceptance. Having navigated through homeschool, Christian school, public school, and college as a person on the Autism Spectrum, she loves to educate the educators on how to best include students on the autism spectrum in both education and the church setting.

She is a recent graduate with her Master’s in her passion, Public History with Museum Certification. Sydney is available to speak to colleges, churches, and public school educators about autism acceptance and action for best inclusion practices sharing her personal experiences of those who mentored and empowered her and practices by well-intentioned professionals that were harmful and left a negative impact. She co-speaks with Dr. Holmes and serves on panels upon request.
www.HolmesASR.com
YouTube Channel: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes
Other topics include girls on the spectrum
Sydney shares tips for teachers
Sydney shares advice for other Aspies

The article we mentioned in the podcast:
https://www.theartnewspaper.com/2021/03/03/autism-made-me-an-art-historian-but-museums-must-do-more-to-welcome-disabled-and-neurodiverse-communities

Picture citation: Sydney doing a tour at Belmont Mansion in TN for her thesis project and internship 2021]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49705266Mon, 30 May 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWhat the DSM calls "restrictive interests" can actually be passions and foundations for future career possibilities. Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Autism Advocate and Aspie, Sydney Homes, on her finding her future career and pairing her passions...
Sydney has spoken at various autism conferences as the voice of someone on the spectrum from personal experience and is eager to educate others. She has been published in Autism Parent Magazine, Autism/Asperger's Digest, and the new magazine Exceptional Needs Today. Sydney has also been published academically as a student for a peer-reviewed journal.
A recent article can be found at:
Exceptional Needs Today, Issue 2.

A past article:
https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/aspie-life-college-life/

Her thesis project is available on ProQuest.

Sydney resides in Georgia. She is passionate about ending human sex trafficking and makes handmade soaps to raise money for Project Rescue. If you live near Carrollton, GA her soaps are available at a local store, Re-Thread Thrift Store by Simple Suds by Syd.

Sydney is a proud Aspie and advocate for Autism acceptance. Having navigated through homeschool, Christian school, public school, and college as a person on the Autism Spectrum, she loves to educate the educators on how to best include students on the autism spectrum in both education and the church setting.

She is a recent graduate with her Master’s in her passion, Public History with Museum Certification. Sydney is available to speak to colleges, churches, and public school educators about autism acceptance and action for best inclusion practices sharing her personal experiences of those who mentored and empowered her and practices by well-intentioned professionals that were harmful and left a negative impact. She co-speaks with Dr. Holmes and serves on panels upon request.
www.HolmesASR.com
YouTube Channel: Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes
Other topics include girls on the spectrum
Sydney shares tips for teachers
Sydney shares advice for other Aspies

The article we mentioned in the podcast:
https://www.theartnewspaper.com/2021/03/03/autism-made-me-an-art-historian-but-museums-must-do-more-to-welcome-disabled-and-neurodiverse-communities

Picture citation: Sydney doing a tour at Belmont Mansion in TN for her thesis project and internship 2021]]>2206asr,autism,diverse,holmes,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,sydneyfalse4fullIntroduction to Attachment and Relationshipshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/introduction-to-attachment-and-relationships--49696286Join Dan and Stephanie as they interview Dr. William Jesse Gill. Attachment is about having a safe haven or secure base. How does this affect connection? What are the differences between NT and ND parent preferences and what do NT and ND children may need differently for attachment?

Jesse Gill, Psy.D., is a licensed psychologist who is the Clinic Director for Psychological Health Affiliates in Hershey, PA. He is passionate about integrating Scripture with Attachment Theory. Jesse applies these truths to Christian marriage in his book, Face to Face: Seven Keys to a Secure Marriage. He has been providing training on this subject to counselors, couples, and pastors for more than a decade. Jesse has served as an elder at his home church and has a heart for pastors. He has provided training, consultation, and assessment services to independent churches and denominations in the Northeast. Jesse speaks regularly for the American Association of Christian Counselors and has published articles on building healthy marriages and families which are in print in the US and overseas. He has appeared as a relationship expert for Life, Love, and Family Radio, CBN News, Real America’s Voice, and the Family Research Council. He is married to April, and together they build secure attachment in their marriage and with their children.
We recommend his book, which we referenced in the podcast.
https://www.facetofacemarriage.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49696286Mon, 23 May 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesThis is the first in the series of podcasts in season 4 to dive into attachment, connection, attachment injuries, and the need for repair. Connection is the starting part of true intimacy in all its forms. Join Dan and Stephanie as they interview Dr....Join Dan and Stephanie as they interview Dr. William Jesse Gill. Attachment is about having a safe haven or secure base. How does this affect connection? What are the differences between NT and ND parent preferences and what do NT and ND children may need differently for attachment?

Jesse Gill, Psy.D., is a licensed psychologist who is the Clinic Director for Psychological Health Affiliates in Hershey, PA. He is passionate about integrating Scripture with Attachment Theory. Jesse applies these truths to Christian marriage in his book, Face to Face: Seven Keys to a Secure Marriage. He has been providing training on this subject to counselors, couples, and pastors for more than a decade. Jesse has served as an elder at his home church and has a heart for pastors. He has provided training, consultation, and assessment services to independent churches and denominations in the Northeast. Jesse speaks regularly for the American Association of Christian Counselors and has published articles on building healthy marriages and families which are in print in the US and overseas. He has appeared as a relationship expert for Life, Love, and Family Radio, CBN News, Real America’s Voice, and the Family Research Council. He is married to April, and together they build secure attachment in their marriage and with their children.
We recommend his book, which we referenced in the podcast.
https://www.facetofacemarriage.com/]]>2686attachment,christian,couples,dan,diverse,gill,holmes,jesse,marriages,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,relationships,stephanie,williamfalse4fullAsk Dr. Temple Grandinhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-dr-temple-grandin--49834567
See Dr. Grandin's full bio on April 4th show with Dr. Grandin.

Questions from the autism community:

1. My first question is from Savannah from SC. We broke her question down into a few questions on her topic. The first question is will you talk about sensory processing and the brain and the second question is how can early intervention of identification of sensory issues help a person? Next, how do you or did you manage some of your sensory issues?
2. Hannah from Albuquerque asks- When someone experienced bullying as a child- how do you recommend working through that? Follow up on that- did you experience bullying for your difference and how have you managed or worked through that?
3. Sage from Arkansas has a question about reducing the stigma about autism in higher education; In class, a professor required reading for the curriculum that called autism a disease and spoke of it needing to be cured. The professor knew there is a person in the class on the spectrum who is receiving accommodations and also does not really feel people should receive accommodations. What can be done or how do we help break the stigma of autism in higher education? Follow up can you speak to schools of higher education/professors of how this affects students on the spectrum who are referred to negatively in class and are called out for needing accommodations?
4. I (Sydney) have a question in that same area of higher education- as I am working on my Master’s and would one day like to pursue a Ph.D. but I need to recuperate from the stress of this Master’s defense process... I was not able to get professors to understand that while I have a high IQ and can do the work, I still am on the autism spectrum and struggle with sensory and anxiety, and when people do not follow the academic rules or guidelines or change the schedule without notice that these are true needs to consider in a graduate program. I expect to follow the academic rules but when those on the committee are not or say they will email by a certain time and do not but they expect me to keep a guideline or date but they did not get me the information needed to meet that timeline- the amount of anxiety and sensory issues this produces makes functioning almost impossible- what are your suggestions or how do you deal with a challenging or difficult committee or chair who won’t follow guidelines or not willing to hear or understand accommodations needed because of autism/anxiety?

I have two questions 1. Did you receive accommodations or how did you work through the academic games and rules and hoops for defending your thesis and dissertation? Suggestions for us on the spectrum who want to pursue graduate work?
5. From an adult in NC, what training or what do police need to know in dealing with autistic adults who may go mute under stress and explain pacing or other stims that are misinterpreted by the community and community workers.
6. Dan in Georgia, what are tips or recommendations for working through anxiety and becoming more resilient.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49834567Tue, 17 May 2022 19:29:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesSydney Holmes interviews Dr. Grandin with questions collected by young adults and adults on the autism spectrum for Dr. Grandin. Questions range from early intervention to handling dysregulation at work. Join Dr. Holmes and Sydney as they ask...
See Dr. Grandin's full bio on April 4th show with Dr. Grandin.

Questions from the autism community:

1. My first question is from Savannah from SC. We broke her question down into a few questions on her topic. The first question is will you talk about sensory processing and the brain and the second question is how can early intervention of identification of sensory issues help a person? Next, how do you or did you manage some of your sensory issues?
2. Hannah from Albuquerque asks- When someone experienced bullying as a child- how do you recommend working through that? Follow up on that- did you experience bullying for your difference and how have you managed or worked through that?
3. Sage from Arkansas has a question about reducing the stigma about autism in higher education; In class, a professor required reading for the curriculum that called autism a disease and spoke of it needing to be cured. The professor knew there is a person in the class on the spectrum who is receiving accommodations and also does not really feel people should receive accommodations. What can be done or how do we help break the stigma of autism in higher education? Follow up can you speak to schools of higher education/professors of how this affects students on the spectrum who are referred to negatively in class and are called out for needing accommodations?
4. I (Sydney) have a question in that same area of higher education- as I am working on my Master’s and would one day like to pursue a Ph.D. but I need to recuperate from the stress of this Master’s defense process... I was not able to get professors to understand that while I have a high IQ and can do the work, I still am on the autism spectrum and struggle with sensory and anxiety, and when people do not follow the academic rules or guidelines or change the schedule without notice that these are true needs to consider in a graduate program. I expect to follow the academic rules but when those on the committee are not or say they will email by a certain time and do not but they expect me to keep a guideline or date but they did not get me the information needed to meet that timeline- the amount of anxiety and sensory issues this produces makes functioning almost impossible- what are your suggestions or how do you deal with a challenging or difficult committee or chair who won’t follow guidelines or not willing to hear or understand accommodations needed because of autism/anxiety?

I have two questions 1. Did you receive accommodations or how did you work through the academic games and rules and hoops for defending your thesis and dissertation? Suggestions for us on the spectrum who want to pursue graduate work?
5. From an adult in NC, what training or what do police need to know in dealing with autistic adults who may go mute under stress and explain pacing or other stims that are misinterpreted by the community and community workers.
6. Dan in Georgia, what are tips or recommendations for working through anxiety and becoming more resilient.]]>2910asr,autism,grandin,holmes,resourses,spectrum,stephanie,sydney,templefalse4fullWhat's Coming Up with NDCChttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-coming-up-with-ndcc--49695416https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49695416Mon, 09 May 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie Holmes1395christian,coming,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,marriages,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,stephanie,up,what'sfalse4fullAndrea Pollack on Parent Coachinghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/andrea-pollack-on-parent-coaching--48851066
Andrea received her undergraduate, law, and M.S.Ed. degrees from the University of
Pennsylvania. She began her law career at Cravath, Swaine, and Moore and then held
Sr. VP positions at HBO and Time Inc. and was a managing partner in the NY office of
Quinn, Emanuel. When her son was diagnosed with autism, Andrea and her
husband joined with a group of other parents to help start a school in New York City.
Though the school was successful, it was not a good fit for her son, so after a 19-year
law career, Andrea left the practice of law to home school her son. After nearly eight
years of homeschooling, her son returned to school and Andrea knew that her
future was in education, not law. She returned to school as well and earned a
Masters degree in Education (M.S.Ed.) to enhance her ability to create an integrated
program of education and support for parents. She created Autism Parent Solutions
to streamline the process for parents to learn effective, practical strategies to
empower them to meet parenting challenges, increase confidence, reduce parenting
stress, and improve child and family outcomes. She also serves at the Board
Chairperson of the Cooke School and Institute in NYC.

Find out more at:
https://www.autismparentsconnect.org/andreas-mission/

Free webinar that Andrea says, "The 5-step system my clients use to transform their autistic child’s challenging behaviors and promote extraordinary growth without stress or frustration."

Check out the workshops at:
https://www.autismparentsconnect.org/virtual-workshops/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48851066Mon, 02 May 2022 09:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Andrea Pollack Andrea received her undergraduate, law, and M.S.Ed. degrees from the University of Pennsylvania. She began her law career at Cravath, Swaine, and Moore and then held Sr. VP positions at HBO and...
Andrea received her undergraduate, law, and M.S.Ed. degrees from the University of
Pennsylvania. She began her law career at Cravath, Swaine, and Moore and then held
Sr. VP positions at HBO and Time Inc. and was a managing partner in the NY office of
Quinn, Emanuel. When her son was diagnosed with autism, Andrea and her
husband joined with a group of other parents to help start a school in New York City.
Though the school was successful, it was not a good fit for her son, so after a 19-year
law career, Andrea left the practice of law to home school her son. After nearly eight
years of homeschooling, her son returned to school and Andrea knew that her
future was in education, not law. She returned to school as well and earned a
Masters degree in Education (M.S.Ed.) to enhance her ability to create an integrated
program of education and support for parents. She created Autism Parent Solutions
to streamline the process for parents to learn effective, practical strategies to
empower them to meet parenting challenges, increase confidence, reduce parenting
stress, and improve child and family outcomes. She also serves at the Board
Chairperson of the Cooke School and Institute in NYC.

Find out more at:
https://www.autismparentsconnect.org/andreas-mission/

Free webinar that Andrea says, "The 5-step system my clients use to transform their autistic child’s challenging behaviors and promote extraordinary growth without stress or frustration."

Check out the workshops at:
https://www.autismparentsconnect.org/virtual-workshops/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2211andrea,asr,autism,christian,coaching,couples,diverse,holmes,neuro,parent,pollack,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse3fullQ&A with Bruce C.E. Fleminghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/q-a-with-bruce-c-e-fleming--49144862https://tru316-truschool.mykajabi.com/offers/ostmhuML/checkout

We welcome back Bruce CE Fleming as we take a look at other NT verses about men and women and marriage and look at how they have been mistranslated.
We talk about how translations of the Bible have been done over the years and how they are often updated when enough research supports that a mistranslation has occurred.

Bruce C. E. Fleming, Founder of the Tru316 Project
A former Academic Dean and Professor of Practical Theology, Bruce C. E. Fleming is Speaker on the popular The Eden Podcast. He is author of The Book of Eden, Genesis 2-3 and Beyond Eden, Ephesians 5-6.

Based on the research of:
Joy Fleming, PhD, PsyD
Dr. Joy Fleming did the original research on Genesis 2-3. After seven years she proved that God did not curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way in the Garden of Eden. She is author of Man and Woman in Biblical Unity - Theology from Genesis 2-3.

Please check out our previous podcast with Bruce as we dove into Genesis 2 & 3 which forms the foundation for our discussion today.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49144862Mon, 25 Apr 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesProud to be supporters and affiliates of TRU School. We have taken the courses and read the books and highly recommend! https://tru316-truschool.mykajabi.com/offers/ostmhuML/checkout We welcome back Bruce CE Fleming as we take a look at other NT...https://tru316-truschool.mykajabi.com/offers/ostmhuML/checkout

We welcome back Bruce CE Fleming as we take a look at other NT verses about men and women and marriage and look at how they have been mistranslated.
We talk about how translations of the Bible have been done over the years and how they are often updated when enough research supports that a mistranslation has occurred.

Bruce C. E. Fleming, Founder of the Tru316 Project
A former Academic Dean and Professor of Practical Theology, Bruce C. E. Fleming is Speaker on the popular The Eden Podcast. He is author of The Book of Eden, Genesis 2-3 and Beyond Eden, Ephesians 5-6.

Based on the research of:
Joy Fleming, PhD, PsyD
Dr. Joy Fleming did the original research on Genesis 2-3. After seven years she proved that God did not curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way in the Garden of Eden. She is author of Man and Woman in Biblical Unity - Theology from Genesis 2-3.

Please check out our previous podcast with Bruce as we dove into Genesis 2 & 3 which forms the foundation for our discussion today.]]>3575and,answers,asr,autism,bruce,christian,couples,diverse,fleming,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,q&a,questions,resources,spectrumfalse3fullA Voice is Not Enough! Noah Sebackhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-voice-is-not-enough-noah-seback--49381429
Expert who serves the non-speaking community as a Peer Support Specialist

through his mentoring business qUirk. He is passionate about access,

autonomy, and agency for this too long voiceless and traumatized population.

Dr. Holmes welcomes back Noah Setback. You may want to listen to the

Sebacks' story on the advocacy for Noah and Noah's introduction to the

letterboard in a previous podcast episode. Noah is a non-speaking autistic

adult who found his voice through communicating through a letterboard. Noah

found his voice by using the letterboard and is now using his voice for

advocacy and now an entrepreneur helping others find their voice through

letterboard.

You can visit his website here: https://quirkthrives.com/

Please check out his presentation at SpellX

https://vimeo.com/645298983]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49381429Mon, 18 Apr 2022 10:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesNoah Seback is a non-speaking autistic, self-advocate and Lived Experience Expert who serves the non-speaking community as a Peer Support Specialist through his mentoring business qUirk. He is passionate about access, autonomy, and agency for...
Expert who serves the non-speaking community as a Peer Support Specialist

through his mentoring business qUirk. He is passionate about access,

autonomy, and agency for this too long voiceless and traumatized population.

Dr. Holmes welcomes back Noah Setback. You may want to listen to the

Sebacks' story on the advocacy for Noah and Noah's introduction to the

letterboard in a previous podcast episode. Noah is a non-speaking autistic

adult who found his voice through communicating through a letterboard. Noah

found his voice by using the letterboard and is now using his voice for

advocacy and now an entrepreneur helping others find their voice through

letterboard.

You can visit his website here: https://quirkthrives.com/

Please check out his presentation at SpellX

https://vimeo.com/645298983]]>1813asr,autism,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,noah,resources,seback,spectrum,stephaniefalse3fullDoes your Marriage Glorify God?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-your-marriage-glorify-god--49160070We discuss some nuances in ND Christian Couples on this touchy subject in Christian circles. David Brown reminds us in his counseling practice, "One of the leading causes for divorce is conflict avoidance." We discuss this more and how this is very common in NDCC.
Why is conflict avoidance so detrimental?

About David Brown:
Born 1957 in Greensboro North Carolina
1972 Accepted Christ
1979 Graduated with a bachelors degree from Jacksonville University
1979 Commissioned United States Navy.
1983 Married Jill
1985 Left active duty navy and joined Navigator staff.
1987 Pioneered Navigator ministry at El Toro Marine Corps air Station.
1991 Began Masters degree in American history at University of Oklahoma and assisted in Navigator ministry to mainland Chinese students.
1993 Adopted daughter from Nepal
1995 Completed masters degree in American history.
2001 Recalled active duty.
2003 Demobilized from active duty.
2009 Completed masters degree in Biblical counseling from Dallas Theological Seminary.
2009 Retired from Navy reserve
2009 Joined navigator counseling team
2021 Began serving his co-Director of navigator pastoral care team.

About Navigators
https://www.navigators.org/

The Navigators is a ministry that shares the gospel of Jesus and helps people grow in their relationship with Him through Life-to-Life® discipleship, creating spiritual generations of believers. Since its founding in 1933, The Navigators has upheld the mission “To know Christ, make Him known, and help others do the same®.” Watch the video below and read on to learn more about our ministry efforts around the globe.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49160070Mon, 11 Apr 2022 10:00:06 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie interview David Brown. The topic broadly on a marriage that glorifies God with a discussion on what is Biblical "headship" and what it is not. David discusses spiritual initiator-ship not authority. We discuss some nuances in ND...We discuss some nuances in ND Christian Couples on this touchy subject in Christian circles. David Brown reminds us in his counseling practice, "One of the leading causes for divorce is conflict avoidance." We discuss this more and how this is very common in NDCC.
Why is conflict avoidance so detrimental?

About David Brown:
Born 1957 in Greensboro North Carolina
1972 Accepted Christ
1979 Graduated with a bachelors degree from Jacksonville University
1979 Commissioned United States Navy.
1983 Married Jill
1985 Left active duty navy and joined Navigator staff.
1987 Pioneered Navigator ministry at El Toro Marine Corps air Station.
1991 Began Masters degree in American history at University of Oklahoma and assisted in Navigator ministry to mainland Chinese students.
1993 Adopted daughter from Nepal
1995 Completed masters degree in American history.
2001 Recalled active duty.
2003 Demobilized from active duty.
2009 Completed masters degree in Biblical counseling from Dallas Theological Seminary.
2009 Retired from Navy reserve
2009 Joined navigator counseling team
2021 Began serving his co-Director of navigator pastoral care team.

About Navigators
https://www.navigators.org/

The Navigators is a ministry that shares the gospel of Jesus and helps people grow in their relationship with Him through Life-to-Life® discipleship, creating spiritual generations of believers. Since its founding in 1933, The Navigators has upheld the mission “To know Christ, make Him known, and help others do the same®.” Watch the video below and read on to learn more about our ministry efforts around the globe.]]>2796asr,autism,brown,christian,couples,dan,david,glorify,god,holmes,marriage,ncc,ndcc,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse3fullDr. Temple Grandinhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dr-temple-grandin--49144396
Dr. Grandin will be speaking at Converge Autism Summit April 28-29 2022 in Greenville, SC. She is speaking on "The Way I See it." This segment will focus on her ideas and thoughts- the way she sees it- in the realm of young adults and adults on the spectrum transitioning into the world of work.

More About Dr. Temple Grandin:
Temple Grandin is a professor of animal science at Colorado State University and she has been a pioneer in improving the handling and welfare of farm animals. She was born in Boston, Massachusetts. Temple’s achievements are remarkable because she was an autistic child. At age two she had no speech and all the signs of severe autism. Many hours of speech therapy, and intensive teaching enabled Temple to learn speech. As a teenager, life was hard with constant teasing. Inspired by her high school science teacher and her aunt on her ranch in Arizona motivated Temple to study and pursue a career as a scientist and livestock equipment designer.
Dr. Temple Grandin obtained her B.A. at Franklin Pierce College in 1970. In 1974 she was employed as Livestock Editor for the Arizona Farmer Ranchman and also worked for Corral Industries on equipment design. In 1975 she earned her M.S. in Animal Science at Arizona State University for her work on the behavior of cattle in different squeeze chutes. Dr. Grandin was awarded her Ph.D in Animal Science from the University of Illinois in 1989 and is currently a Professor at Colorado State University.
She has done extensive work on the design of handling facilities. Half the cattle in the U.S. and Canada are handled in equipment Grandin has designed for meat plants. Other professional activities include developing animal welfare guidelines for the meat industry and consulting with companies on animal welfare.
Following her Ph.D. research on the effect of environmental enrichment on the behavior of pigs, she has published several hundred industry publications, book chapters and technical papers on animal handling plus 73 refereed journal articles in addition to 12 books. She currently is a professor of animal sciences at Colorado State University where she continues her research while teaching courses on livestock handling and facility design. Her new book, Navigating Autism: 9 Mindsets For Helping Kids on the Spectrum, presents nine strengths-based mindsets necessary to successfully work with young people on the autism spectrum. Examples and stories bring the approaches to life, and detailed suggestions and checklists help readers put them to practical use. Her book, Animals in Translation was a New York Times best seller and her book Livestock Handling an Transport, now has a fourth edition which was published in 2014. Other popular books authored by Dr. Grandin are Thinking in Pictures, Emergence Labeled
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Autistic, Animals Make us Human, Improving Animal Welfare: A Practical Approach, The Way I
See It, and The Autistic Brain. She also has a popular TED Talk.
Dr. Grandin has received numerous awards including the Meritorious Achievement Award from the Livestock Conservation Institute, named a Distinguished Alumni at Franklin Pierce College and received an honorary doctorate from McGill University, University of Illinois, Texas A&M, Carnegie Mellon University, and Duke University. She has also won prestigious industry awards including the Richard L. Knowlton Award from Meat Marketing and Technology Magazine and the Industry Advancement Award from the American Meat Institute and the Beef Top 40 industry leaders and the Lifetime Achievement Award from The National Cattlemen’s Beef Association. In 2011, Temple was inducted into the Cowgirl Hall of Fame. In 2015 she was given the Distinguished Service Award by the American Farm Bureau Federation and Meritorious Award from the OIE. HBO has premiered a movie inspired by Temple’s early life and career with the livestock industry. The movie received seven Emmy awards, a Golden Globe, and a Peabody Award. In 2016, Temple was inducted into the American Academy of Arts and Sciences.
Dr. Grandin is a past member of the board of directors of the Autism Society of America. As a popular inspirational speaker, she lectures to parents and teachers throughout the U.S. on her experiences with autism. Articles and interviews have appeared in the New York Times, People, Time, National Public Radio, 20/20, The View, and the BBC. She was also honored in Time Magazines 2010 “The 100 Most Influential People in the World.” Dr. Grandin now resides in Fort Collins, Colorado.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/49144396Mon, 04 Apr 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Sydney as they start off Autism Acceptance month with Dr. Temple Grandin. Dr. Grandin will be speaking at Converge Autism Summit April 28-29 2022 in Greenville, SC. She is speaking on "The Way I See it." This segment...
Dr. Grandin will be speaking at Converge Autism Summit April 28-29 2022 in Greenville, SC. She is speaking on "The Way I See it." This segment will focus on her ideas and thoughts- the way she sees it- in the realm of young adults and adults on the spectrum transitioning into the world of work.

More About Dr. Temple Grandin:
Temple Grandin is a professor of animal science at Colorado State University and she has been a pioneer in improving the handling and welfare of farm animals. She was born in Boston, Massachusetts. Temple’s achievements are remarkable because she was an autistic child. At age two she had no speech and all the signs of severe autism. Many hours of speech therapy, and intensive teaching enabled Temple to learn speech. As a teenager, life was hard with constant teasing. Inspired by her high school science teacher and her aunt on her ranch in Arizona motivated Temple to study and pursue a career as a scientist and livestock equipment designer.
Dr. Temple Grandin obtained her B.A. at Franklin Pierce College in 1970. In 1974 she was employed as Livestock Editor for the Arizona Farmer Ranchman and also worked for Corral Industries on equipment design. In 1975 she earned her M.S. in Animal Science at Arizona State University for her work on the behavior of cattle in different squeeze chutes. Dr. Grandin was awarded her Ph.D in Animal Science from the University of Illinois in 1989 and is currently a Professor at Colorado State University.
She has done extensive work on the design of handling facilities. Half the cattle in the U.S. and Canada are handled in equipment Grandin has designed for meat plants. Other professional activities include developing animal welfare guidelines for the meat industry and consulting with companies on animal welfare.
Following her Ph.D. research on the effect of environmental enrichment on the behavior of pigs, she has published several hundred industry publications, book chapters and technical papers on animal handling plus 73 refereed journal articles in addition to 12 books. She currently is a professor of animal sciences at Colorado State University where she continues her research while teaching courses on livestock handling and facility design. Her new book, Navigating Autism: 9 Mindsets For Helping Kids on the Spectrum, presents nine strengths-based mindsets necessary to successfully work with young people on the autism spectrum. Examples and stories bring the approaches to life, and detailed suggestions and checklists help readers put them to practical use. Her book, Animals in Translation was a New York Times best seller and her book Livestock Handling an Transport, now has a fourth edition which was published in 2014. Other popular books authored by Dr. Grandin are Thinking in Pictures, Emergence Labeled
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Autistic, Animals Make us Human, Improving Animal Welfare: A Practical Approach, The Way I
See It, and The Autistic Brain. She also has a popular TED Talk.
Dr. Grandin has received numerous awards including the Meritorious Achievement Award from the Livestock Conservation Institute, named a Distinguished Alumni at Franklin Pierce College and received an honorary doctorate from McGill University, University of Illinois, Texas A&M, Carnegie Mellon University, and Duke University. She has also won prestigious industry awards including the Richard L. Knowlton Award from Meat Marketing and Technology Magazine and the Industry Advancement Award from the American Meat Institute and the Beef Top 40 industry leaders and the Lifetime Achievement Award from The National Cattlemen’s Beef Association. In 2011, Temple was inducted into the Cowgirl Hall of Fame. In 2015 she...]]>1408asr,autism,autismadults,autismandtransitions,autisticyoungadults,grandin,holmes,ndcc,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,templefalse3fullIs the Marriage Difficult or Destructive? with Leslie Vernickhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-the-marriage-difficult-or-destructive-with-leslie-vernick--48706320Some questions we will dive into today:
1. What is your definition of a Healthy Marriage?
2. How does throwing an autism diagnosis into the mix change the dynamics? What does a healthy marriage look like for NDCCs?
3. When you know that trust needs to be repaired, what are the steps to do that well?
4. What are the things to NOT do when trying to repair broken trust?
5. What is the difference between Hurt and Harm?
6. What is the ARC of Change?
7. What does new history look like?

About Leslie:
Leslie is a popular speaker, author, licensed clinical social
worker and relationship coach. She has over 35 years of
experience helping individuals, couples and families heal,
rebuild or grow their relationships.
Growing up in a broken home with an abusive mom, Leslie has
learned first hand how difficult it can be to act in a Christ
like way with a destructive person.
Whether coaching, speaking or writing, Leslie gently leads
people to make real changes in their lives. She loves to help
women learn to:
•   Confidently speak their own thoughts and feelings in a
constructive way.
•   Encounter God’s peace and presence in the midst of suffering
or difficult loss.
•   Develop the discipline to turn dreams and desires into reality
Leslie is the author of seven books, including the best
selling, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage and The
Emotionally Destructive Relationship.

Find our more at: https://leslievernick.com/

Is your ND marriage emotionally destructive? Take Leslie's quiz:
https://www.leslievernick.com/pdfs/Relationship-test.pdf]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48706320Mon, 28 Mar 2022 09:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Stephanie interviews Leslie Vernick. Having heard Leslie speak many times at the American Association of Christian Counselors, Dr. Holmes has used many of Leslie's resources in counseling. Some questions we will dive into today: 1. What is your...Some questions we will dive into today:
1. What is your definition of a Healthy Marriage?
2. How does throwing an autism diagnosis into the mix change the dynamics? What does a healthy marriage look like for NDCCs?
3. When you know that trust needs to be repaired, what are the steps to do that well?
4. What are the things to NOT do when trying to repair broken trust?
5. What is the difference between Hurt and Harm?
6. What is the ARC of Change?
7. What does new history look like?

About Leslie:
Leslie is a popular speaker, author, licensed clinical social
worker and relationship coach. She has over 35 years of
experience helping individuals, couples and families heal,
rebuild or grow their relationships.
Growing up in a broken home with an abusive mom, Leslie has
learned first hand how difficult it can be to act in a Christ
like way with a destructive person.
Whether coaching, speaking or writing, Leslie gently leads
people to make real changes in their lives. She loves to help
women learn to:
•   Confidently speak their own thoughts and feelings in a
constructive way.
•   Encounter God’s peace and presence in the midst of suffering
or difficult loss.
•   Develop the discipline to turn dreams and desires into reality
Leslie is the author of seven books, including the best
selling, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage and The
Emotionally Destructive Relationship.

Find our more at: https://leslievernick.com/

Is your ND marriage emotionally destructive? Take Leslie's quiz:
https://www.leslievernick.com/pdfs/Relationship-test.pdf]]>3817asr,christian,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,leslie,ncc,neuro,neurodiverse,stephanie,vernickfalse3fullAutism and Ancient Egyptian Algebra with Jude Morrowhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/autism-and-ancient-egyptian-algebra-with-jude-morrow--48616930
About our Guest;
Jude Morrow is an autistic best-selling author, entrepreneur, philanthropist and keynote speaker from Derry, Northern Ireland. Jude travels the world to showcase through his talks that autistic children can grow up to live happy and successful lives. Jude's books are published by Beyond Words, publisher of The Secret. Jude is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International, the world's premier autistic-led training and consultancy firm to global non-profits and Fortune 500 companies . Jude is also a 2 time TedX speaker and nurtures parents, teachers and professionals to develop a kinder mindset toward autistic people young and old.

Find out more at: https://www.judemorrow.com/

Jude Morrow presented with communication and social difficulties early in life, which led to the diagnosis of Asperger's at age 11. Despite having educational challenges, Jude progressed through secondary school and graduated from the University of Ulster with an honor's degree in social work in 2012. Jude is the author of "Why does daddy always look so sad?" He is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International.

About NTI: The World's Premier Training, Coaching, and Advocacy Platform Providing CPD Accredited Training For Neurodiverse Individuals, Schools, Employers, Families, And Wider Society. Although we are based in NI, we deliver a range of online learning and we can travel to wherever you are in the world.

Jude Morrow is back with a new book!
For decades, autism has been framed as an unfortunate disability, a disorder to be fixed. Those on the spectrum have had to face such myths as this, and the subsequent societal judgement, for much too long. The world needs a new perspective, and Jude Morrow’s Loving Your Place on the Spectrum offers just that.

Combining his own experiences as an autistic man and anecdotes of other successful individuals on the spectrum, Jude Morrow provides parents, workplaces, readers, and society an alternative, strengths-based viewpoint, where autistic people are accepted, embraced, and loved.

Loving Your Place on the Spectrum: A Neurodiversity Blueprint is a guide for not only celebrating our differences but for also living a happy and successful autistic life.

Check out his book, Loving yourself on the spectrum.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48616930Mon, 21 Mar 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Dan as they interview author and speaker Jude Morrow and they discuss differing journeys of acceptance of autism identification. Stephanie asks Dan and Jude about their neurodiversity identification processes and discuss why it can...
About our Guest;
Jude Morrow is an autistic best-selling author, entrepreneur, philanthropist and keynote speaker from Derry, Northern Ireland. Jude travels the world to showcase through his talks that autistic children can grow up to live happy and successful lives. Jude's books are published by Beyond Words, publisher of The Secret. Jude is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International, the world's premier autistic-led training and consultancy firm to global non-profits and Fortune 500 companies . Jude is also a 2 time TedX speaker and nurtures parents, teachers and professionals to develop a kinder mindset toward autistic people young and old.

Find out more at: https://www.judemorrow.com/

Jude Morrow presented with communication and social difficulties early in life, which led to the diagnosis of Asperger's at age 11. Despite having educational challenges, Jude progressed through secondary school and graduated from the University of Ulster with an honor's degree in social work in 2012. Jude is the author of "Why does daddy always look so sad?" He is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International.

About NTI: The World's Premier Training, Coaching, and Advocacy Platform Providing CPD Accredited Training For Neurodiverse Individuals, Schools, Employers, Families, And Wider Society. Although we are based in NI, we deliver a range of online learning and we can travel to wherever you are in the world.

Jude Morrow is back with a new book!
For decades, autism has been framed as an unfortunate disability, a disorder to be fixed. Those on the spectrum have had to face such myths as this, and the subsequent societal judgement, for much too long. The world needs a new perspective, and Jude Morrow’s Loving Your Place on the Spectrum offers just that.

Combining his own experiences as an autistic man and anecdotes of other successful individuals on the spectrum, Jude Morrow provides parents, workplaces, readers, and society an alternative, strengths-based viewpoint, where autistic people are accepted, embraced, and loved.

Loving Your Place on the Spectrum: A Neurodiversity Blueprint is a guide for not only celebrating our differences but for also living a happy and successful autistic life.

Check out his book, Loving yourself on the spectrum.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2745algebra,ancient,autism,christian,couples,dan,diverse,egyptian,holmes,jude,marriages,morrow,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrumfalse3fullDr. Kevin Hull Part 2 of What is Co-Regulation?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dr-kevin-hull-part-2-of-what-is-co-regulation--48616155Please check out part 1 to get a full discussion on the basics of co-regulation, as part 2 today will focus on co-regulation for spouses in a NDCC relationship.

From Dr. Kevin Hull's blog, he defines co-regulation as:

“What is co-regulation?” you may ask. Co-regulation is a neuro-relational phenomenon that occurs when two or more brains are in synchronous connection. Basically, the brains are in tune with one another. This attunement brings a sense of connection which translates into safety. Our brains consistently assess our environment for safety, and our senses are used to evaluate the appearance and behavior of others. Once the sense of safety is identified, there is a myriad of reactions that bring our level of arousal to match that of those around us. Here are some examples of co-regulation.

Bio:

Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A. a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy and his dissertation work examined the use of video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, playing golf, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48616155Mon, 14 Mar 2022 10:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes and Dr. Hull discussed co-regulation of the brain and the importance of parent brain regulation while parenting a child on the autism spectrum who is dysregulated. When Dr. Holmes was researching co-regulation she wondered about this in...Please check out part 1 to get a full discussion on the basics of co-regulation, as part 2 today will focus on co-regulation for spouses in a NDCC relationship.

From Dr. Kevin Hull's blog, he defines co-regulation as:

“What is co-regulation?” you may ask. Co-regulation is a neuro-relational phenomenon that occurs when two or more brains are in synchronous connection. Basically, the brains are in tune with one another. This attunement brings a sense of connection which translates into safety. Our brains consistently assess our environment for safety, and our senses are used to evaluate the appearance and behavior of others. Once the sense of safety is identified, there is a myriad of reactions that bring our level of arousal to match that of those around us. Here are some examples of co-regulation.

Bio:

Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A. a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy and his dissertation work examined the use of video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, playing golf, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/]]>3783asr,autism,christian,co-regulation,couples,diverse,holmes,hull,kevin,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse3fullDr. Kevin Hull Part 1 of What is Co-Regulation?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/dr-kevin-hull-part-1-of-what-is-co-regulation--48615712

From Dr. Kevin Hull's blog, he defines co-regulation as:

“What is co-regulation?” you may ask. Co-regulation is a neuro-relational phenomenon that occurs when two or more brains are in synchronous connection. Basically, the brains are in tune with one another. This attunement brings a sense of connection which translates into safety. Our brains consistently assess our environment for safety, and our senses are used to evaluate the appearance and behavior of others. Once the sense of safety is identified, there is a myriad of reactions that bring our level of arousal to match that of those around us. Here are some examples of co-regulation.

Bio:

Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A. a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy and his dissertation work examined the use of video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, playing golf, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48615712Mon, 07 Mar 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes and Dr. Hull discuss co-regulation of the brain and the importance of parent brain regulation while parenting a child on the autism spectrum who is dysregulated. From Dr. Kevin Hull's blog, he defines co-regulation as: “What is...

From Dr. Kevin Hull's blog, he defines co-regulation as:

“What is co-regulation?” you may ask. Co-regulation is a neuro-relational phenomenon that occurs when two or more brains are in synchronous connection. Basically, the brains are in tune with one another. This attunement brings a sense of connection which translates into safety. Our brains consistently assess our environment for safety, and our senses are used to evaluate the appearance and behavior of others. Once the sense of safety is identified, there is a myriad of reactions that bring our level of arousal to match that of those around us. Here are some examples of co-regulation.

Bio:

Dr. Kevin Hull owns and operates Hull and Associates, P.A. a private practice in Lakeland, Florida. Dr. Hull is a licensed counselor who has worked with children and adolescents and their families on the Autism spectrum since 2001. He conducts weekly individual and group therapy sessions with children, adolescents, young adults, and families. Dr. Hull has been a professor for 18 years and is currently an Associate Faculty with Liberty University. Dr. Hull has published Play Therapy and Asperger’s Syndrome: Helping Children and Adolescents Grow, Connect, and Heal through the Art of Play (2011, Jason Aronson); Bridge Building: Creating Connection and Relationship between Parents and Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum (2012, Liberty Press); Group Therapy Techniques with Children, Adolescents, and Adults on the Autism Spectrum (2014, Jason Aronson); and Where There is Despair, Hope (2015, Liberty Mountain Publishing), a novel about play therapy. He has also published several chapters for textbooks and journal articles. Dr. Hull specializes in using electronic devices in group and individual play therapy and his dissertation work examined the use of video/computer games as a play therapy tool with children with emotional difficulties. Dr. Hull enjoys open water swimming in the Gulf of Mexico, playing golf, long walks, biking, and spending time with his wife, Wendy and their four children.

https://drkevinhull.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3548asr,autism,christian,co-regulation,diverse,families,holmes,hull,kevin,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse3fullGrowing your Emotional Intelligence in Christ as ND or NT! with Lauren E. Millerhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/growing-your-emotional-intelligence-in-christ-as-nd-or-nt-with-lauren-e-miller--48601749https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DORFxBJp7E4&t=50s&ab_channel=LeadLikeJesus
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eqk9hTk00Nw&ab_channel=LeadLikeJesus

Today Dan and Stephanie are interviewing one of the authors, Lauren E. Miller.
About Lauren E. Miller, M.Ed, MSC, ICF-PCC
As a stress relief expert, award winning author,
motivational speaker, HRD trainer, Edge God In
podcast host, and certified executive and life coach,
Lauren facilitates fun process driven programs with
guidance, support and accountability creating positive
sustainable behavioral change in business and
personal life.
Lauren has worked in youth and adult ministries for
over 30 years. Through God’s mercy, grace and
strength, she uses her experience simultaneously
conquering two of life's top stressors: cancer and
divorce to help others destress and successfully
move through challenges.
Happily, remarried and gratefully enjoying life in
Colorado with a loving husband, three grown children
and two grandchildren, Lauren is often found in the
kitchen dancing to her favorite worship music or rolling around on the floor with her two
dogs.
Lauren holds a Masters in Adult Education with a Certification in Human Resources
Development | Advanced Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Basic & Master
Certification | Faculty Shift Leadership Training | Master Sherpa Executive Coach
(MSC) and ICF Certification PCC | 2nd degree blackbelt World Tae Kwon Do
Lauren has produced 8 CD’s and five 3 minute/30 day Audio/Visual Personal
Excellence/Wellness Programs. She has authored 9 books, 3 of which are Award
Winning:
• Hearing His Whisper...with every storm Jesus comes too
• 99 Things You Want To Know Before Stressing Out!
• Stop Letting the World Be the Boss of You! 25 Solutions to Refresh Your Identity
in Christ
Lauren’s Mission Statement: Champion Human Potential in Christ
Equip people and teams globally with mindset skills and sustainable behavioral shifts to
de-stress their lives, regain inner clarity of purpose and step into personal and
professional fulfillment.
Edge God In Podcast: http://EdgeGodIn.com
EmotionalIntelligenceinChrist.com
http://LaurenEMiller.com

Check out the book!
https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/

As you read through this book, you will have the opportunity to:

Encounter the living Christ so much so that your ability to love and be loved is expanded
See how Jesus, the ultimate leader in EIC, impacted so many lives with varied personalities, backgrounds, and stories
Learn how to influence behavior with the EIC method through its connection with Biblical DISC.

About the book: Emotional Intelligence in Christ

https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48601749Mon, 28 Feb 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDr. Holmes heard about this amazing book, Emotional Intelligence in Christ from a video on Lead Like Jesus. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DORFxBJp7E4&t=50s&ab_channel=LeadLikeJesus...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DORFxBJp7E4&t=50s&ab_channel=LeadLikeJesus
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eqk9hTk00Nw&ab_channel=LeadLikeJesus

Today Dan and Stephanie are interviewing one of the authors, Lauren E. Miller.
About Lauren E. Miller, M.Ed, MSC, ICF-PCC
As a stress relief expert, award winning author,
motivational speaker, HRD trainer, Edge God In
podcast host, and certified executive and life coach,
Lauren facilitates fun process driven programs with
guidance, support and accountability creating positive
sustainable behavioral change in business and
personal life.
Lauren has worked in youth and adult ministries for
over 30 years. Through God’s mercy, grace and
strength, she uses her experience simultaneously
conquering two of life's top stressors: cancer and
divorce to help others destress and successfully
move through challenges.
Happily, remarried and gratefully enjoying life in
Colorado with a loving husband, three grown children
and two grandchildren, Lauren is often found in the
kitchen dancing to her favorite worship music or rolling around on the floor with her two
dogs.
Lauren holds a Masters in Adult Education with a Certification in Human Resources
Development | Advanced Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Basic & Master
Certification | Faculty Shift Leadership Training | Master Sherpa Executive Coach
(MSC) and ICF Certification PCC | 2nd degree blackbelt World Tae Kwon Do
Lauren has produced 8 CD’s and five 3 minute/30 day Audio/Visual Personal
Excellence/Wellness Programs. She has authored 9 books, 3 of which are Award
Winning:
• Hearing His Whisper...with every storm Jesus comes too
• 99 Things You Want To Know Before Stressing Out!
• Stop Letting the World Be the Boss of You! 25 Solutions to Refresh Your Identity
in Christ
Lauren’s Mission Statement: Champion Human Potential in Christ
Equip people and teams globally with mindset skills and sustainable behavioral shifts to
de-stress their lives, regain inner clarity of purpose and step into personal and
professional fulfillment.
Edge God In Podcast: http://EdgeGodIn.com
EmotionalIntelligenceinChrist.com
http://LaurenEMiller.com

Check out the book!
https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/

As you read through this book, you will have the opportunity to:

Encounter the living Christ so much so that your ability to love and be loved is expanded
See how Jesus, the ultimate leader in EIC, impacted so many lives with varied personalities, backgrounds, and stories
Learn how to influence behavior with the EIC method through its connection with Biblical DISC.

About the book: Emotional Intelligence in Christ

https://emotionalintelligenceinchrist.com/]]>3570emotionalintelligence,emotionalintelligenceinchrist,emotionalquotient,holmes,laurenemiller,neurodiverse,neurodiversechristiancouples,spectrumfalse3fullNuances of Social Language: Building Bridges with the Autistic Communityhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nuances-of-social-language-building-bridges-with-the-autistic-community--48705661We reference this article:
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1362361320919286

About our Guest:
Siobhan Carpenter, MS CCC-SLP has been a speech language pathologist for over 25 years. With a career focus on early intervention, language development, autism, and literacy, she’s served children from birth to college age in the public school system, nonprofit organizations, and as a volunteer.

Siobhan has been married for 27 years and has two children. Her husband was diagnosed with Autism as an adult and her son was diagnosed at age 12. Siobhan has a passion for raising awareness about the specific challenges and strengths related to individuals on the autism spectrum.

Here are a list of links that Siobhan may have mentioned in our time together.

https://www.icdl.com/dir

https://www.asha.org/practice-portal/clinical-topics/autism/#collapse_6

https://www.gallaudet.edu/about/history-and-traditions/deaf-president-now/the-issues/history-behind-dpn/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48705661Mon, 21 Feb 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Stephanie Holmes as she interviews SLP, Siobhan Carpenter. We will talk about social pragmatic language and differences in use of language/speech between ND and NT individuals. We reference this article:...We reference this article:
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1362361320919286

About our Guest:
Siobhan Carpenter, MS CCC-SLP has been a speech language pathologist for over 25 years. With a career focus on early intervention, language development, autism, and literacy, she’s served children from birth to college age in the public school system, nonprofit organizations, and as a volunteer.

Siobhan has been married for 27 years and has two children. Her husband was diagnosed with Autism as an adult and her son was diagnosed at age 12. Siobhan has a passion for raising awareness about the specific challenges and strengths related to individuals on the autism spectrum.

Here are a list of links that Siobhan may have mentioned in our time together.

https://www.icdl.com/dir

https://www.asha.org/practice-portal/clinical-topics/autism/#collapse_6

https://www.gallaudet.edu/about/history-and-traditions/deaf-president-now/the-issues/history-behind-dpn/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3263asr,autism,autistic,bridges,building,carpenter,community,holmes,language,resources,siobhan,social,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullPower of Love: 1 Corinthians 13 w/ Dan & Stephaniehttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/power-of-love-1-corinthians-13-w-dan-stephanie--48602235We take a look at 1 Corinthians 13 and talk through why days that are meant to celebrate love and romance are challenging for NDCC.
Stephanie and Dan share some practical tips and advice on how they have navigated the differences and come to collaborative approaches that work for both.

Stephanie references a book she likes for her couples:
Love Needs by Garrett Garrett
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/179269363X/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

I suggest getting two copies and each person be very clear and concrete on the assessment.
Start with 7-10, work up to 4-6, then work on 1-3. Until both people are consistent on 7-10 try not to level up too quickly- you set up for disappointment. Pick a day like Jan 1- the new year and reassess and make a new list. Needs change over the course of the marriage and what would be needed today may not be next year. So check it out!]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48602235Mon, 14 Feb 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie talk about the power of love today! In this episode airing on Valentine's day, we talk about a subject of interest and pain to many listeners- navigating holidays and special days in a neurodiverse relationship. We take a look at 1...We take a look at 1 Corinthians 13 and talk through why days that are meant to celebrate love and romance are challenging for NDCC.
Stephanie and Dan share some practical tips and advice on how they have navigated the differences and come to collaborative approaches that work for both.

Stephanie references a book she likes for her couples:
Love Needs by Garrett Garrett
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/179269363X/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

I suggest getting two copies and each person be very clear and concrete on the assessment.
Start with 7-10, work up to 4-6, then work on 1-3. Until both people are consistent on 7-10 try not to level up too quickly- you set up for disappointment. Pick a day like Jan 1- the new year and reassess and make a new list. Needs change over the course of the marriage and what would be needed today may not be next year. So check it out!]]>3552asr,autism,christian,corinthians13,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,love,marriages,ncc,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,valentine'sfalse2fullPart 2 - Helping Young Adults Achieve their Best Social Life with Jeremy Hamburghhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/part-2-helping-young-adults-achieve-their-best-social-life-with-jeremy-hamburgh--48326701

Jeremy Hamburgh is the founder of My Best Social Life, where he is the first dating and friendship coach in the world to focus exclusively on transforming the social lives of autistic young adults. His clients make new friends, start dating, and attract a loving partner in less time than they ever thought possible. Using a science-based social strategy, Jeremy helps young adults with autism escape their loneliness and live a vibrant social life, filled with amazing friends and partners. Since 2010, his clients have met countless new people, made tons of new friends, gone on great dates, started amazing relationships...and even gotten married. And he helps them do it with a commitment to compassion and sensitivity that you won't find anywhere else.

Today's podcast will focus on friendship and creating quality relationships. Jeremy is passionate about helping those on the spectrum and with other needs have a vibrant and meaningful social life.

Free online social skills training for adults on the spectrum: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/SujT0o

Free online training for autism parents: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/LtPViq

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48326701Mon, 07 Feb 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Jeremy Hamburgh, referred to as the Hitch for the autistic and special needs community by The Atlantic in 2013. The article by Rula AL-Nasrawi quotes, "Jeremy Hamburgh is a New York-based dating coach for both...

Jeremy Hamburgh is the founder of My Best Social Life, where he is the first dating and friendship coach in the world to focus exclusively on transforming the social lives of autistic young adults. His clients make new friends, start dating, and attract a loving partner in less time than they ever thought possible. Using a science-based social strategy, Jeremy helps young adults with autism escape their loneliness and live a vibrant social life, filled with amazing friends and partners. Since 2010, his clients have met countless new people, made tons of new friends, gone on great dates, started amazing relationships...and even gotten married. And he helps them do it with a commitment to compassion and sensitivity that you won't find anywhere else.

Today's podcast will focus on friendship and creating quality relationships. Jeremy is passionate about helping those on the spectrum and with other needs have a vibrant and meaningful social life.

Free online social skills training for adults on the spectrum: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/SujT0o

Free online training for autism parents: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/LtPViq

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2019autism,best,hamburgh,holmes,jeremy,life,my,resources,social,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullThe Power of Wordshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-power-of-words--48340913https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48340913Mon, 31 Jan 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesDan and Stephanie are leading groups right now on the power of words and reading through the 40-day word fast by Cameron. We will be talking through a few series of the power of words to speak life or death. Talking through some Proverbs and other...2683chrsitan,couples,dan,diverse,holmes,neuro,neurodiverse,power,stephanie,wordsfalse3fullHelping Young Adults Achieve their Best Social Life with Jeremy Hamburghhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/helping-young-adults-achieve-their-best-social-life-with-jeremy-hamburgh--48326195

Jeremy Hamburgh is the founder of My Best Social Life, where he is the first dating and friendship coach in the world to focus exclusively on transforming the social lives of autistic young adults. His clients make new friends, start dating, and attract a loving partner in less time than they ever thought possible. Using a science-based social strategy, Jeremy helps young adults with autism escape their loneliness and live a vibrant social life, filled with amazing friends and partners. Since 2010, his clients have met countless new people, made tons of new friends, gone on great dates, started amazing relationships...and even gotten married. And he helps them do it with a commitment to compassion and sensitivity that you won't find anywhere else.

Today's podcast will focus on friendship and creating quality relationships. Jeremy is passionate about helping those on the spectrum and with other needs have a vibrant and meaningful social life.

Free online social skills training for adults on the spectrum: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/SujT0o

Free online training for autism parents: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/LtPViq

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48326195Mon, 24 Jan 2022 11:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews Jeremy Hamburgh, referred to as the Hitch for the autistic and special needs community by The Atlantic in 2013. The article by Rula AL-Nasrawi quotes, "Jeremy Hamburgh is a New York-based dating coach for both...

Jeremy Hamburgh is the founder of My Best Social Life, where he is the first dating and friendship coach in the world to focus exclusively on transforming the social lives of autistic young adults. His clients make new friends, start dating, and attract a loving partner in less time than they ever thought possible. Using a science-based social strategy, Jeremy helps young adults with autism escape their loneliness and live a vibrant social life, filled with amazing friends and partners. Since 2010, his clients have met countless new people, made tons of new friends, gone on great dates, started amazing relationships...and even gotten married. And he helps them do it with a commitment to compassion and sensitivity that you won't find anywhere else.

Today's podcast will focus on friendship and creating quality relationships. Jeremy is passionate about helping those on the spectrum and with other needs have a vibrant and meaningful social life.

Free online social skills training for adults on the spectrum: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/SujT0o

Free online training for autism parents: https://watch.mybestsociallife.com/s/LtPViq

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>1919autism,best,christian,couples,diverse,hamburgh,holmes,jeremy,life,my,mybestsociallife,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,social,spectrum,spectrumsociallifefalse2fullRelationship Foundations: A New Look at Genesis 2 with Bruce C.E. Fleminghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/relationship-foundations-a-new-look-at-genesis-2-with-bruce-c-e-fleming--48132080
About:
Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming holds three graduate and post-graduate degrees in theology: an M.Div. and Th.M. from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, and the D.E.A. from the University of Strasbourg, France. Ordained by the Evangelical Free Church of America, he has been a pastor, professor of Practical Theology, and academic dean on the graduate-school level in French-speaking Africa. He has co-founded several churches and parachurch organizations. Bruce and his wife, Dr. Joy Elasky Fleming, have been married for more than 25 years and are the parents of Christy and Mark. They live in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming has written books on the topics discussed in this podcast.

God did not curse Eve or limit womena in any way. Sadly, modern translations of Genesis 3:16 make it look like God did both. God didn't curse Adam either, but God did speak to him in a way exactly parallel to the other rebel in the Garden of Eden, the serpent-tempter. And two curses were imposed by God because of them.People have made up many myths and stories about what supposedly happened in Eden. They make it seem like God cursed the woman and that she somehow deserved it. She didn’t. They make it seem like God instituted the man’s bad behavior toward his wife. God didn’t. The Bible tells us what really happened. And this book is all about what God really said especially in Genesis 3:16. When these chapters in Genesis are rightly understood, and we gain a true view of what God really said to the woman in Genesis 3:16, many New Testament passages can be reinvestigated. They too can be cleared away of the bias we find popping up in translations of and commentary on several key passages in the New Testament that look back to Genesis 2 and 3. This book is based on the episodes of Season One of The Eden Podcast
https://tru316.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48132080Mon, 17 Jan 2022 11:00:01 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Rev. Holmes and Dr. Holmes as they interview Bruce C.E. Fleming. About: Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming holds three graduate and post-graduate degrees in theology: an M.Div. and Th.M. from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, and the D.E.A. from the...
About:
Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming holds three graduate and post-graduate degrees in theology: an M.Div. and Th.M. from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, and the D.E.A. from the University of Strasbourg, France. Ordained by the Evangelical Free Church of America, he has been a pastor, professor of Practical Theology, and academic dean on the graduate-school level in French-speaking Africa. He has co-founded several churches and parachurch organizations. Bruce and his wife, Dr. Joy Elasky Fleming, have been married for more than 25 years and are the parents of Christy and Mark. They live in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Rev. Bruce C. E. Fleming has written books on the topics discussed in this podcast.

God did not curse Eve or limit womena in any way. Sadly, modern translations of Genesis 3:16 make it look like God did both. God didn't curse Adam either, but God did speak to him in a way exactly parallel to the other rebel in the Garden of Eden, the serpent-tempter. And two curses were imposed by God because of them.People have made up many myths and stories about what supposedly happened in Eden. They make it seem like God cursed the woman and that she somehow deserved it. She didn’t. They make it seem like God instituted the man’s bad behavior toward his wife. God didn’t. The Bible tells us what really happened. And this book is all about what God really said especially in Genesis 3:16. When these chapters in Genesis are rightly understood, and we gain a true view of what God really said to the woman in Genesis 3:16, many New Testament passages can be reinvestigated. They too can be cleared away of the bias we find popping up in translations of and commentary on several key passages in the New Testament that look back to Genesis 2 and 3. This book is based on the episodes of Season One of The Eden Podcast
https://tru316.com/]]>3093bruce,christian,couples,dan,diverse,fleming,holmes,ncc,neuro,neurodiverse,stephaniefalse2fullFinding Success through Collaboration Amy Tobik and Jeanetta Bryanthttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/finding-success-through-collaboration-amy-tobik-and-jeanetta-bryant--48131044
Both have so many resources and different areas of expertise to share with the listeners! Dr. Holmes and Jeanetta have both had the privilege to contribute to Exceptional Needs Today magazine.

Dr. Holmes contributed to Issues 1 and 3 in Exception Needs Today, and her daughter Sydney was a contributor in Issue 2. Also, podcast guest, Noah Seback contributed to Issue 2.

BIO

Magazine publisher Amy KD Tobik is an award-winning magazine editor with more than 30 years of publication experience. After successfully leading an autism magazine for more than six years, Amy branched out on her own to create Exceptional Needs Today, a resource that reaches all people at no cost to them. In September 2021, Exceptional Needs Today received the Gold Award from the prestigious Mom’s Choice Awards honoring excellence. Amy’s special interests include advocating for children with different abilities and education. She lives in the Carolinas with her husband, and they have two adult children. She is CEO of Lone Heron Publishing, LLC which publishes Exceptional Needs Today.

LINKS

Website: https://exceptionalneedstoday.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/exceptionalneedstoday/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exceptionalneedstoday/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Exceptionalmag

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/69174912/

#exceptionalneedstoday

Amy KD Tobik

Editor-in-Chief, Exceptional Needs Today

CEO, Lone Heron Publishing

exceptionalneedstoday.com

Jeanetta Bryant

Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs’ diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, publisher, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or a theme park, college football, and making memories.

About Parent Support Programs:

If you have a child with Autism, we are here to help. Please take a moment and identify what program can help you and your family navigate this process. There are series that have been designed for the newly diagnosed family all the way through to finding success as an adult.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Podcast: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48131044Mon, 10 Jan 2022 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr, Holmes with her two guests Amy Tobik and Jeanetta Bryant. They will be talking about the importance of collaboration in the special needs world. Both have so many resources and different areas of expertise to share with the listeners! Dr....
Both have so many resources and different areas of expertise to share with the listeners! Dr. Holmes and Jeanetta have both had the privilege to contribute to Exceptional Needs Today magazine.

Dr. Holmes contributed to Issues 1 and 3 in Exception Needs Today, and her daughter Sydney was a contributor in Issue 2. Also, podcast guest, Noah Seback contributed to Issue 2.

BIO

Magazine publisher Amy KD Tobik is an award-winning magazine editor with more than 30 years of publication experience. After successfully leading an autism magazine for more than six years, Amy branched out on her own to create Exceptional Needs Today, a resource that reaches all people at no cost to them. In September 2021, Exceptional Needs Today received the Gold Award from the prestigious Mom’s Choice Awards honoring excellence. Amy’s special interests include advocating for children with different abilities and education. She lives in the Carolinas with her husband, and they have two adult children. She is CEO of Lone Heron Publishing, LLC which publishes Exceptional Needs Today.

LINKS

Website: https://exceptionalneedstoday.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/exceptionalneedstoday/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exceptionalneedstoday/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Exceptionalmag

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/69174912/

#exceptionalneedstoday

Amy KD Tobik

Editor-in-Chief, Exceptional Needs Today

CEO, Lone Heron Publishing

exceptionalneedstoday.com

Jeanetta Bryant

Jeanetta Bryant is the Founder and Executive Director of Abilities Workshop, Inc. She is dedicated to helping special needs families find answers and children impacted by a special needs’ diagnosis be their best. Jeanetta is an author, developer, publisher, and advocate. As a mom of two children, one with ASD, she finds no greater joy than watching them develop and achieve their dreams. Her interests include family time at home or a theme park, college football, and making memories.

About Parent Support Programs:

If you have a child with Autism, we are here to help. Please take a moment and identify what program can help you and your family navigate this process. There are series that have been designed for the newly diagnosed family all the way through to finding success as an adult.

Website: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/

Podcast: https://www.abilitiesworkshop.com/podcast

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2962amy,asr,autism,byrant,collaboration,holmes,jeanetta,resources,spectrum,tobikfalse2fullHelp for Women in Complex Marriages with Karla Downinghttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/help-for-women-in-complex-marriages-with-karla-downing--48129735 Karla holds a Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Arts degree in Communicative Disorders. She is the author of five books. 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages was a 2004 ECPA Silver Medallion winner. Her second book, When Love Hurts: 10 Principles to Transform Difficult Relationships, applies the same principles to all difficult relationships. Her third book, The Truth in the Mirror: A Guide to Healthy Self-Image, offers a unique and life-changing approach to the topic of self-image. Her fourth book is titled Change My Relationship: 365 Daily Devotions for Christians in Difficult Relationships and her fifth book Boundaries with Adult Children and Rebellious Teens: A Biblical and Practical Guide on What to Do and What Not to Do. Karla is the founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. She has written hundreds of Internet articles, as well as several resources for Lifeway’s Women’s Ministry and eight studies she teaches at churches. She has a YouTube channel with over two hundred videos on difficult relationships and a podcast “Change My Relationship.”]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/48129735Mon, 03 Jan 2022 11:00:03 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesKarla is an award-winning best-selling author, speaker, and licensed marriage and family therapist. Karla’s passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from the chains of dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain... Karla holds a Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Arts degree in Communicative Disorders. She is the author of five books. 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages was a 2004 ECPA Silver Medallion winner. Her second book, When Love Hurts: 10 Principles to Transform Difficult Relationships, applies the same principles to all difficult relationships. Her third book, The Truth in the Mirror: A Guide to Healthy Self-Image, offers a unique and life-changing approach to the topic of self-image. Her fourth book is titled Change My Relationship: 365 Daily Devotions for Christians in Difficult Relationships and her fifth book Boundaries with Adult Children and Rebellious Teens: A Biblical and Practical Guide on What to Do and What Not to Do. Karla is the founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. She has written hundreds of Internet articles, as well as several resources for Lifeway’s Women’s Ministry and eight studies she teaches at churches. She has a YouTube channel with over two hundred videos on difficult relationships and a podcast “Change My Relationship.”]]>3006asr,autism,christian,complex,couples,dan,diverse,downing,help,holmes,karla,marriages,ncc,neuro,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephanie,wives,womenfalse2fullFinding Noah's Voice with Noah Sebackhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/finding-noah-s-voice-with-noah-seback--47976647About Noah, from his site https://quirkthrives.com/our-team
Noah Seback
Nonspeaking Autistic, Lived Experience Expert, Self Advocate

Noah’s differences have been considered deficits his entire life. His humanity & potential have been questioned & underestimated. His qUirk was an obstacle to thriving. No more. Through spelling on a letterboard with a communication regulation partner, he has gained a voice. He is now able to speak into his own life & wellbeing.

He has collaborated with others to strategize & authentically address his greatest challenges: extreme body dysregulation & the traumatizing label of ‘behavior problem’, ingrained motor loops, severe inflexibility, debilitating movement motor/sensory/emotional differences.

His passion is that all nonspeakers move from just surviving to thriving. Using his lived experience he seeks to partner with nonspeakers & their allies to that end. qUirk can thrive.

MAGAZINE ARTICLES
Exceptional Needs Today (Page 38), "Let NonSpeakers 'Speak' into Their Own Lives"

Autism Parenting Magazine, "Noah’s Voice: Non-Speaking Man Advocates for Big Changes"

CONFERENCES
I-ASC Motormorphisis Picnic 2021

Innovations in Education for Students with Sensory Movement Differences 2018
Supporting Quirky Bodies and Intelligent Minds in the Classroom]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47976647Mon, 27 Dec 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes as she interviews the Seback family. We discuss Noah's journey in finding his voice as a non-speaker through letterboard. About Noah, from his site https://quirkthrives.com/our-team Noah Seback Nonspeaking Autistic, Lived Experience...About Noah, from his site https://quirkthrives.com/our-team
Noah Seback
Nonspeaking Autistic, Lived Experience Expert, Self Advocate

Noah’s differences have been considered deficits his entire life. His humanity & potential have been questioned & underestimated. His qUirk was an obstacle to thriving. No more. Through spelling on a letterboard with a communication regulation partner, he has gained a voice. He is now able to speak into his own life & wellbeing.

He has collaborated with others to strategize & authentically address his greatest challenges: extreme body dysregulation & the traumatizing label of ‘behavior problem’, ingrained motor loops, severe inflexibility, debilitating movement motor/sensory/emotional differences.

His passion is that all nonspeakers move from just surviving to thriving. Using his lived experience he seeks to partner with nonspeakers & their allies to that end. qUirk can thrive.

MAGAZINE ARTICLES
Exceptional Needs Today (Page 38), "Let NonSpeakers 'Speak' into Their Own Lives"

Autism Parenting Magazine, "Noah’s Voice: Non-Speaking Man Advocates for Big Changes"

CONFERENCES
I-ASC Motormorphisis Picnic 2021

Innovations in Education for Students with Sensory Movement Differences 2018
Supporting Quirky Bodies and Intelligent Minds in the Classroom]]>2714asr,autism,letterboard,noah,noahseback,nonspeaking,nonspeakingautistic,quirksthrive,seback,spectrumfalse2fullMoving Beyond Education to Better Equipped to Serve NDCChttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/moving-beyond-education-to-better-equipped-to-serve-ndcc--47939197Couples: We will talk through a list of questions to help you determine if a counselor or coach is a good fit for you as an NDCC.

If you want to donate to keep the podcast going go to this link:

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/
Go to our page and look at the left-hand corner DONATE button

Anyone interested in the courses we offer for professionals and pastors we are offering a deal through 2021
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com- courses
21-timber-special
$500 off if you enter the code

We are not a 501c3 and there is not a tax break. This will simply help keep the work of the podcast going into 2022. A generous donor has sponsored nearly 20 podcasts into 2022! Thank you so much!

Counselors, Coaches, Ministers: If you want to learn more about being more autism spectrum area and understand NeuroDiversity we talk through a course we are offering.
Through the end of the year only as our Christmas gift to you- $500 off the course with this code
21-timber-special

What are some of the things the course includes? Educate Module 1
I. Autism
What it is and Isn't
What you may have learned
History of
Changes of Diagnostic Criteria and Terms
Importance of Language/ What it means to the Autistic Community

II. Specifics of Diagnostic Criteria from HFA to Asperger's to Autism Spectrum introduction to Social Pragmatic Language Disorder in DMS 5
DSM vs ICD
Changes in the terms
Levels
Specifiers
Differential Diagnosis (Anti Social PD, Narcisstic PD, Schizotypal PD, Schizophrenia, OCPD, Bipolar)
Comorbity (Depression, ADHD, Anxiety, PTSD, Learning issues and differences and processing)

III. Autism and Intimate Relationships
At the heart of the diagnostics- Social-Relational- Emotional Reciprocity
Theory of Mind
Perspective Taking
Executive Function Issues
Black and White/Literal thinking
Analytical
Detached
Perseveration
Sensory Issues
AS Sexuality
Developmental Delay- what does that mean? How emotional and relational have not developed at the same level as reasoning/cognitive

IV. Neurodiversity
Disability Models/History
Religious: Disability or diagnosis is a curse or judgment from God- should be a shame factor
Medical- Diagnosis- it is a condition to be fixed, cured, treated or eradicated
Social- Societal barriers create the disability no the issue itself
Professionals- Professionals know what is best for the person, follow our model
Empowerment: Working with the individual to meet their goals and potential and helping with supports and accommodations vs minimizing the person's strengths due to a diagnosis or difference
Acceptance of different brain types and person types and how to build on strengths and strategize on weaknesses

V. Poly Vagal Theory- Basic
This important in understanding fight/flight/freeze
This sets the tone on why therapy is done differently in light of amygdala activation in therapy which causes defensiveness and no new learning can occur

Barriers to learning

Assets to learning

V. Why typical marriage therapy techniques do not work
AS-Nt or Neurodivergent relationships have a 70-80% divorce rate for first marriages and higher with each marriage
Based on the NT-NT model
Assumes both persons have the same neuro wiring
Assumes both people communicate the same way and use language the same way
Assumes both people are skilled in conflict resolution
Christian Utopian Marriage Notions and Hallmark]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47939197Mon, 20 Dec 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWho are NDCCs? NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Couples: We will talk through a list of questions to help you determine if a counselor or coach is a good fit for you as an NDCC. If you want to donate to keep the podcast going go to this link:...Couples: We will talk through a list of questions to help you determine if a counselor or coach is a good fit for you as an NDCC.

If you want to donate to keep the podcast going go to this link:

https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/
Go to our page and look at the left-hand corner DONATE button

Anyone interested in the courses we offer for professionals and pastors we are offering a deal through 2021
www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com- courses
21-timber-special
$500 off if you enter the code

We are not a 501c3 and there is not a tax break. This will simply help keep the work of the podcast going into 2022. A generous donor has sponsored nearly 20 podcasts into 2022! Thank you so much!

Counselors, Coaches, Ministers: If you want to learn more about being more autism spectrum area and understand NeuroDiversity we talk through a course we are offering.
Through the end of the year only as our Christmas gift to you- $500 off the course with this code
21-timber-special

What are some of the things the course includes? Educate Module 1
I. Autism
What it is and Isn't
What you may have learned
History of
Changes of Diagnostic Criteria and Terms
Importance of Language/ What it means to the Autistic Community

II. Specifics of Diagnostic Criteria from HFA to Asperger's to Autism Spectrum introduction to Social Pragmatic Language Disorder in DMS 5
DSM vs ICD
Changes in the terms
Levels
Specifiers
Differential Diagnosis (Anti Social PD, Narcisstic PD, Schizotypal PD, Schizophrenia, OCPD, Bipolar)
Comorbity (Depression, ADHD, Anxiety, PTSD, Learning issues and differences and processing)

III. Autism and Intimate Relationships
At the heart of the diagnostics- Social-Relational- Emotional Reciprocity
Theory of Mind
Perspective Taking
Executive Function Issues
Black and White/Literal thinking
Analytical
Detached
Perseveration
Sensory Issues
AS Sexuality
Developmental Delay- what does that mean? How emotional and relational have not developed at the same level as reasoning/cognitive

IV. Neurodiversity
Disability Models/History
Religious: Disability or diagnosis is a curse or judgment from God- should be a shame factor
Medical- Diagnosis- it is a condition to be fixed, cured, treated or eradicated
Social- Societal barriers create the disability no the issue itself
Professionals- Professionals know what is best for the person, follow our model
Empowerment: Working with the individual to meet their goals and potential and helping with supports and accommodations vs minimizing the person's strengths due to a diagnosis or difference
Acceptance of different brain types and person types and how to build on strengths and strategize on weaknesses

V. Poly Vagal Theory- Basic
This important in understanding fight/flight/freeze
This sets the tone on why therapy is done differently in light of amygdala activation in therapy which causes defensiveness and no new learning can occur

Barriers to learning

Assets to learning

V. Why typical marriage therapy techniques do not work
AS-Nt or Neurodivergent relationships have a 70-80% divorce rate for first marriages and higher with each marriage
Based on the NT-NT model
Assumes both persons have the same neuro wiring
Assumes both people communicate the same way and use language the same way
Assumes both people are skilled in conflict resolution
Christian Utopian Marriage Notions and Hallmark]]>1788asr,autism,christian,couples,dan,education,equipped,holmes,marriages,neurodiverse,resources,serve,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullSpecial Interests or Expertise?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/special-interests-or-expertise--47246881
Perry Carpenter, Author of "Transformational Security Awareness: What Neuroscientists, Storytellers, and Marketers Can Teach Us About Driving Secure Behaviors" from Wiley Publishing currently serves as Chief Evangelist and Strategy Officer for KnowBe4, the world's most popular security awareness and simulated phishing platform.

Perry holds a Master of Science in Information Assurance (MSIA) from Norwich University in Vermont and is a Certified Chief Information Security Officer (C|CISO).

Perry shares how he was diagnosed later in life with Asperger's Syndrome and will share how he uses his special interests and strengths for his career.

Perry's Bio:
Perry Carpenter currently serves as Chief Evangelist and Strategy Officer for KnowBe4, the world's most popular security awareness, and simulated phishing platform. He’s an award-winning author, security researcher, and behavior science, enthusiast. Previously, Perry led security awareness, security culture management, and anti-phishing behavior management research at Gartner, in addition to covering areas of IAM strategy, CISO Program Management mentoring, and Technology Service Provider success strategies.

Link to Perry's podcast: 8th Layer Insights
https://thecyberwire.com/podcasts/8th-layer-insights

Link to DEFCON Conference Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IraysvK38A&ab_channel=DEFCONConference

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47246881Mon, 13 Dec 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesPerry and Stephanie Holmes discuss his prolific career and how being an Aspie has helped him be a voice to others on the Autism Spectrum in their workplace. Perry Carpenter, Author of "Transformational Security Awareness: What Neuroscientists,...
Perry Carpenter, Author of "Transformational Security Awareness: What Neuroscientists, Storytellers, and Marketers Can Teach Us About Driving Secure Behaviors" from Wiley Publishing currently serves as Chief Evangelist and Strategy Officer for KnowBe4, the world's most popular security awareness and simulated phishing platform.

Perry holds a Master of Science in Information Assurance (MSIA) from Norwich University in Vermont and is a Certified Chief Information Security Officer (C|CISO).

Perry shares how he was diagnosed later in life with Asperger's Syndrome and will share how he uses his special interests and strengths for his career.

Perry's Bio:
Perry Carpenter currently serves as Chief Evangelist and Strategy Officer for KnowBe4, the world's most popular security awareness, and simulated phishing platform. He’s an award-winning author, security researcher, and behavior science, enthusiast. Previously, Perry led security awareness, security culture management, and anti-phishing behavior management research at Gartner, in addition to covering areas of IAM strategy, CISO Program Management mentoring, and Technology Service Provider success strategies.

Link to Perry's podcast: 8th Layer Insights
https://thecyberwire.com/podcasts/8th-layer-insights

Link to DEFCON Conference Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IraysvK38A&ab_channel=DEFCONConference

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2550asr,autism,christian,couples,diverse,holmes,ncc,neuro,perry,resources,specialinterests,spectrumfalse2fullRon Deal Segment 2: Blending Families when an Adult is on the Autism Spectrumhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ron-deal-segment-2-blending-families-when-an-adult-is-on-the-autism-spectrum--47246054In a previous podcast, Ron and Stephanie discuss blending families when a child is on the spectrum. Today we discuss some nuances to blending if a parent or adult is on the spectrum.
What might some nuances be if the former spouse is on the spectrum? What might some nuances be if a new spouse is on the spectrum?

About Ron Deal:
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47246054Mon, 06 Dec 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWelcome back Ron Deal as a guest. In a previous podcast, Ron and Stephanie discuss blending families when a child is on the spectrum. Today we discuss some nuances to blending if a parent or adult is on the spectrum. What might some nuances be if the...In a previous podcast, Ron and Stephanie discuss blending families when a child is on the spectrum. Today we discuss some nuances to blending if a parent or adult is on the spectrum.
What might some nuances be if the former spouse is on the spectrum? What might some nuances be if a new spouse is on the spectrum?

About Ron Deal:
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.]]>2424adult,autism,christian,dan,deal,diverse,families,holmes,marriages,neuro,ron,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullBlending Families and the Autism Spectrum: When a Child is on the Spectrumhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/blending-families-and-the-autism-spectrum-when-a-child-is-on-the-spectrum--47245702
Ron and Stephanie co-wrote an article on this topic and can be found at https://www.smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/learn/special-topics/autism-and-the-blended-family

Using concepts and tips from Ron Deal's courses and books on blending, we discuss some nuances about the blending of families when a child is on the autism spectrum.

About Ron Deal:
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47245702Mon, 29 Nov 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesAuthor and counselor Ron Deal is one of the leading experts in the field of blended families. Ron and Stephanie co-wrote an article on this topic and can be found at...
Ron and Stephanie co-wrote an article on this topic and can be found at https://www.smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/learn/special-topics/autism-and-the-blended-family

Using concepts and tips from Ron Deal's courses and books on blending, we discuss some nuances about the blending of families when a child is on the autism spectrum.

About Ron Deal:
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.]]>2576asr,autism,blended,blending,christian,couples,dan,deal,diverse,families,holmes,ncc,neuro,resources,ron,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullWhen Helpers Can Cause Harmhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-helpers-can-cause-harm--47235477We reached out to social media groups, listeners, and those in our Bible study groups and asked what helped and harmed? What do you want professionals and ministers to know?
Part 1 We interviewed Mark and Kenda who now mentor and minister with ND Christian Couples and help lead a ND marriage Bible study and class.
Today we interview Isabel, who went through 8-10 counselors before finding an ND-aware counselor, yet had to make the painful decision to divorce. We discuss that marriage work takes both parties doing their work, and that is not always the case.
You can hear her full story under the Educate module- lessons from the painful journey of divorce found at https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-module-3]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47235477Mon, 22 Nov 2021 11:00:05 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe continue this 2nd part of a 3 part series on awareness and training that is necessary to minister, serve and counsel with ND Christian Couples. We reached out to social media groups, listeners, and those in our Bible study groups and asked what...We reached out to social media groups, listeners, and those in our Bible study groups and asked what helped and harmed? What do you want professionals and ministers to know?
Part 1 We interviewed Mark and Kenda who now mentor and minister with ND Christian Couples and help lead a ND marriage Bible study and class.
Today we interview Isabel, who went through 8-10 counselors before finding an ND-aware counselor, yet had to make the painful decision to divorce. We discuss that marriage work takes both parties doing their work, and that is not always the case.
You can hear her full story under the Educate module- lessons from the painful journey of divorce found at https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-module-3]]>3550aspergers,asr,autism,christian,dan,diverse,holmes,isabel,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullCo-Parenting with a Spouse on the Spectrum with guest, Dr. Kathy Marshackhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/co-parenting-with-a-spouse-on-the-spectrum-with-guest-dr-kathy-marshack--46900164
https://kmarshack.com/

More from Dr. Kathy Marshack
I am Dr. Kathy Marshack, psychologist and author. As a professional, I specialize in helping my clients who are in Complex Relationships that are tough to treat with conventional psychotherapy. The shortlist of couples and families in Complex Relationships include:

“Asperger Syndrome” or High Functioning Autism
Codependency
High Conflict Divorce
Empathy Dysfunction
Entrepreneurial Couples
Ex-Pats (Life Abroad)
My credentials go back decades including a Master’s Degree in Social Work, and a Doctorate in Psychology. I’ve worked in every conceivable professional setting from child protective services, home health agencies, public schools, colleges, hospitals, and mental health clinics. I’ve covered lots of territory in those years, as you can imagine; everything from working with young children, teens, couples, families, seniors, and entrepreneurs; and with every conceivable diagnosis.

I’ve trained with the best too. I am certified in these specific clinical techniques including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Ericksonian Hypnosis, and Neuro-Emotional Technique (NET). I find these techniques incredibly powerful in creating elegant and long-lasting healing and change. To learn more about these approaches go to Therapy Techniques.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46900164Mon, 15 Nov 2021 11:00:02 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Kathy Marshack and Dr. Stephanie Holmes as they discuss strategies for co-parenting with a partner on the autism spectrum. Families with Neurodivergent spouses will need to develop and work on communication and relationship to partner...
https://kmarshack.com/

More from Dr. Kathy Marshack
I am Dr. Kathy Marshack, psychologist and author. As a professional, I specialize in helping my clients who are in Complex Relationships that are tough to treat with conventional psychotherapy. The shortlist of couples and families in Complex Relationships include:

“Asperger Syndrome” or High Functioning Autism
Codependency
High Conflict Divorce
Empathy Dysfunction
Entrepreneurial Couples
Ex-Pats (Life Abroad)
My credentials go back decades including a Master’s Degree in Social Work, and a Doctorate in Psychology. I’ve worked in every conceivable professional setting from child protective services, home health agencies, public schools, colleges, hospitals, and mental health clinics. I’ve covered lots of territory in those years, as you can imagine; everything from working with young children, teens, couples, families, seniors, and entrepreneurs; and with every conceivable diagnosis.

I’ve trained with the best too. I am certified in these specific clinical techniques including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Ericksonian Hypnosis, and Neuro-Emotional Technique (NET). I find these techniques incredibly powerful in creating elegant and long-lasting healing and change. To learn more about these approaches go to Therapy Techniques.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3188asr,autism,co-parenting,coparentingwithautism,holmes,marshack,resources,spectrum,spouse,stephaniefalse2fullIs your Marital Counselor or Pastoral Counselor Autism Aware?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/is-your-marital-counselor-or-pastoral-counselor-autism-aware--47236291We heard from some of you listeners on what helped and harmed in counseling,
We interview Mark and Kenda on their journey as an ND Christian Couple.
You can hear the whole interview as well as other couples interviewed for the training curriculum at https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2

You will hear the first part where Dan and Stephanie share what they heard from listeners about what was helpful and what was harmful.
Then you are introduced to Mark and Kenda who share their story.
Because this is part of a longer interview parts were engineered together to share the parts most relevant to the topic, The first is the first 10-15 minutes of the interview unedited and uncut,
Then you will hear some music to divide the sections from each other and we come in at the end of the discussion or the interview which is not a direct continuation of the previous discussion.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/47236291Mon, 08 Nov 2021 11:00:09 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesWe are doing a three-part series on NeuroDivesity awareness in counseling and ministry to couples who are NeuroDiverse. We heard from some of you listeners on what helped and harmed in counseling, We interview Mark and Kenda on their journey as an ND...We heard from some of you listeners on what helped and harmed in counseling,
We interview Mark and Kenda on their journey as an ND Christian Couple.
You can hear the whole interview as well as other couples interviewed for the training curriculum at https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/courses/educate-2

You will hear the first part where Dan and Stephanie share what they heard from listeners about what was helpful and what was harmful.
Then you are introduced to Mark and Kenda who share their story.
Because this is part of a longer interview parts were engineered together to share the parts most relevant to the topic, The first is the first 10-15 minutes of the interview unedited and uncut,
Then you will hear some music to divide the sections from each other and we come in at the end of the discussion or the interview which is not a direct continuation of the previous discussion.]]>2755aspergers,asr,autism,christian,dan,diverse,holmes,kenda,mark,marriage,marriages,neuro,neurodiverse,spouse,stephaniefalse2fullLoving Your Place on the Spectrumhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/loving-your-place-on-the-spectrum--46990458
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).

Jude Morrow presented with communication and social difficulties early in life, which led to the diagnosis of Asperger's at age 11. Despite having educational challenges, Jude progressed through secondary school and graduated from the University of Ulster with an honor's degree in social work in 2012. Jude is the author of "Why does daddy always look so sad?" He is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International.

About NTI: The World's Premier Training, Coaching, and Advocacy Platform Providing CPD Accredited Training For Neurodiverse Individuals, Schools, Employers, Families, And Wider Society. Although we are based in NI, we deliver a range of online learning and we can travel to wherever you are in the world.

Jude Morrow is back with a new book!
For decades, autism has been framed as an unfortunate disability, a disorder to be fixed. Those on the spectrum have had to face such myths as this, and the subsequent societal judgement, for much too long. The world needs a new perspective, and Jude Morrow’s Loving Your Place on the Spectrum offers just that.

Combining his own experiences as an autistic man and anecdotes of other successful individuals on the spectrum, Jude Morrow provides parents, workplaces, readers, and society an alternative, strengths-based viewpoint, where autistic people are accepted, embraced, and loved.

Loving Your Place on the Spectrum: A Neurodiversity Blueprint is a guide for not only celebrating our differences but for also living a happy and successful autistic life.

Check out his book, Loving yourself on the spectrum.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46990458Mon, 01 Nov 2021 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Dr. Holmes and author and speaker Jude Morrow to discuss moving beyond "Autism Awareness" to autism acceptance and action and increasing training of neurodiversity. Disclaimer: When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in...
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).

Jude Morrow presented with communication and social difficulties early in life, which led to the diagnosis of Asperger's at age 11. Despite having educational challenges, Jude progressed through secondary school and graduated from the University of Ulster with an honor's degree in social work in 2012. Jude is the author of "Why does daddy always look so sad?" He is the founder of Neurodiversity Training International.

About NTI: The World's Premier Training, Coaching, and Advocacy Platform Providing CPD Accredited Training For Neurodiverse Individuals, Schools, Employers, Families, And Wider Society. Although we are based in NI, we deliver a range of online learning and we can travel to wherever you are in the world.

Jude Morrow is back with a new book!
For decades, autism has been framed as an unfortunate disability, a disorder to be fixed. Those on the spectrum have had to face such myths as this, and the subsequent societal judgement, for much too long. The world needs a new perspective, and Jude Morrow’s Loving Your Place on the Spectrum offers just that.

Combining his own experiences as an autistic man and anecdotes of other successful individuals on the spectrum, Jude Morrow provides parents, workplaces, readers, and society an alternative, strengths-based viewpoint, where autistic people are accepted, embraced, and loved.

Loving Your Place on the Spectrum: A Neurodiversity Blueprint is a guide for not only celebrating our differences but for also living a happy and successful autistic life.

Check out his book, Loving yourself on the spectrum.]]>2251autism,autismadvocate,holmes,jude,loveyourplaceonspectrum,morrow,resources,selfadvocate,spectrum,stephaniefalse2fullJodi Carlton Part 2 Addressing Some Nuances in Faith-Based Coupleshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jodi-carlton-part-2-addressing-some-nuances-in-faith-based-couples--46289957
We will also discuss some issues faith-based couples may have when submission/headship is taken or taught too legalistically with black and white thinkers.

About Jodi Carlton:
I was licensed as a professional counselor for 20+ years before I transitioned to full-time coaching. In addition to my expertise in autism/Aspergers, I am trauma-informed and certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as hypnosis. I also have extensive experience with anxiety-related challenges and acquired/ traumatic brain injury (ABI/TBI).

You can find out more about Jodi at spectrumrelationships.com]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46289957Mon, 25 Oct 2021 10:00:05 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesStephanie and Dan interview ND Couples' Coach, Jodi Carlton. Part 2 of a 2 part series looks at the differences and cross-over features of AS and NPD. This can be very controversial, but it is important for clinicians and pastors, and spouses to know...
We will also discuss some issues faith-based couples may have when submission/headship is taken or taught too legalistically with black and white thinkers.

About Jodi Carlton:
I was licensed as a professional counselor for 20+ years before I transitioned to full-time coaching. In addition to my expertise in autism/Aspergers, I am trauma-informed and certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as hypnosis. I also have extensive experience with anxiety-related challenges and acquired/ traumatic brain injury (ABI/TBI).

You can find out more about Jodi at spectrumrelationships.com]]>2494asr,carlton,christian,couples,dan,holmes,jodi,neurodiverse,stephaniefalse1fullJodi Carlton on the Differences Between AS and NPDhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jodi-carlton-on-the-differences-between-as-and-npd--46289958
About Jodi Carlton:
I was licensed as a professional counselor for 20+ years before I transitioned to full-time coaching. In addition to my expertise in autism/Aspergers, I am trauma-informed and certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as hypnosis. I also have extensive experience with anxiety-related challenges and acquired/ traumatic brain injury (ABI/TBI).

You can find out more about Jodi at spectrum relationships.com.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46289958Mon, 11 Oct 2021 10:00:13 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesStephanie and Dan interview ND Couples' Coach, Jodi Carlton. Part 1 of a 2 part series looks at the differences and cross-over features of AS and NPD. This can be very controversial, but it is important for clinicians and pastors, and spouses to know...
About Jodi Carlton:
I was licensed as a professional counselor for 20+ years before I transitioned to full-time coaching. In addition to my expertise in autism/Aspergers, I am trauma-informed and certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as hypnosis. I also have extensive experience with anxiety-related challenges and acquired/ traumatic brain injury (ABI/TBI).

You can find out more about Jodi at spectrum relationships.com.]]>1844asr,autism,carlton,christian,clarity,coach,communication,connection,couples,dan,holmes,jodi,marriages,ncc,nd,neurodiverse,resources,spectrum,stephaniefalse1fullDoes Understanding NeuroDiversity Really Matter?https://www.spreaker.com/episode/does-understanding-neurodiversity-really-matter--46437383Understanding the differences in neurology is crucial for anyone from coaches, ministers to counselors. Additional training and coursework are needed to better understand this couple's differences.

If you want to learn more about NeuroDiverse Christian Couples from a faith-based perspective please check out
Module 1, an 11-hour course of a several module series is available at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/collections?category=professionals

About Grace:
Grace Myhill, MSW. AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute, AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services, and Neurodiverse Couples Coach in private practice.

Grace's Approach:
Working with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has an Asperger’s/Autism Spectrum Profile is my specialty. I understand the unique strengths and the challenges
that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but I can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and
how their neurological differences affect their relationship.

My approach is to first help couples understand the importance of neurology and what it means to be a neurodiverse couple. This includes getting to know how you and your
partner each think and perceive the world. I help couples identify how their neurological similarities and differences affect the dynamics and interaction of their relationship.

Together we can identify areas for skill-building and problem-solving. There are several ways you can work with me: individually, together with your partner, or in a group. We can meet by phone or video conferencing.

For more information visit my website www.gracemyhill.com or email gmyhill@gmail.com or call me 617-504-3116.

Grace works with various types of relationships and partnerships.

Her website is https://www.gracemyhill.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46437383Mon, 04 Oct 2021 10:00:14 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesGrace and Stephanie discuss helping couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and how their neurological differences affect their relationship. Understanding the differences in neurology is crucial for anyone...Understanding the differences in neurology is crucial for anyone from coaches, ministers to counselors. Additional training and coursework are needed to better understand this couple's differences.

If you want to learn more about NeuroDiverse Christian Couples from a faith-based perspective please check out
Module 1, an 11-hour course of a several module series is available at:
https://courses.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/collections?category=professionals

About Grace:
Grace Myhill, MSW. AANE Director of The Peter M. Friedman Neurodiverse Couples Institute, AANE Director of Couples and Partners Services, and Neurodiverse Couples Coach in private practice.

Grace's Approach:
Working with neurodiverse couples in which one partner has an Asperger’s/Autism Spectrum Profile is my specialty. I understand the unique strengths and the challenges
that come with these relationships. We cannot change our neurologies, but I can help couples to gain a better understanding of who they each are, who their partner is, and
how their neurological differences affect their relationship.

My approach is to first help couples understand the importance of neurology and what it means to be a neurodiverse couple. This includes getting to know how you and your
partner each think and perceive the world. I help couples identify how their neurological similarities and differences affect the dynamics and interaction of their relationship.

Together we can identify areas for skill-building and problem-solving. There are several ways you can work with me: individually, together with your partner, or in a group. We can meet by phone or video conferencing.

For more information visit my website www.gracemyhill.com or email gmyhill@gmail.com or call me 617-504-3116.

Grace works with various types of relationships and partnerships.

Her website is https://www.gracemyhill.com/

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>3563asntcouples,asr,autism,christian,couples,grace,holmes,myhill,ncc,neurodiverse,neurology,neurologymatters,spectrum,spectrumrelationships,stephaniefalse1fullInterview with Sheila Gregoire, Great Sex Rescue Part 2https://www.spreaker.com/episode/interview-with-sheila-gregoire-great-sex-rescue-part-2--46371356https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
https://instagram.com/sheilagregoire
https://facebook.com/sheila.gregoire.books
https://twitter.com/sheilagregoire
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdO1v4LdyqZV-m_VMlH5VGg]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46371356Mon, 27 Sep 2021 10:00:08 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesSheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex. Sheila has a Master's...https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
https://instagram.com/sheilagregoire
https://facebook.com/sheila.gregoire.books
https://twitter.com/sheilagregoire
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdO1v4LdyqZV-m_VMlH5VGg]]>2101asr,autism,christian,dan,great,gregoire,holmes,intimacy,marriages,ncc,neurodiverse,relationships,rescue,sex,sheila,stephanietrue1fullHope Wins with Leisa Williamshttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hope-wins-with-leisa-williams--46422068
Leisa was born in 1971 and brought up in Queensland, Australia. She lives in Canberra with her husband, her three children, and her daughter-in-law.
She writes from her heart about her life experiences that have come from the school of hard knocks. Her views are tried and tested from many years of working to overcome adversity in her life as well as being founded on her Christian biblical faith, the wise counsel and support from healthcare professionals, and her educational background, which includes a Master of Education degree.
Hope Wins is her first book that links to a devotional series for women called Seeds for Growth.

Please check her book and what others are saying about her book, Hope Wins!

Book Promo at 1080P resolutionhttps://vimeo.com/user100994474/download/590964817/bc3a588ee7

Book Reviews (about 3min) https://vimeo.com/user100994474/download/591252348/0157593b82

You can find out more about Leisa at www.leisawilliamsauthor.com

Find the book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BTBPN5C pre-orders are now open.
The first week there is a big discount on the e-book hoping for some Amazon reviews.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46422068Mon, 20 Sep 2021 10:00:12 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesToday the podcast is brought to you by our sponsor, Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family, LLC. Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews the author of Hope Wins! Leisa Williams. Leisa was born in 1971 and brought up in Queensland, Australia. She...
Leisa was born in 1971 and brought up in Queensland, Australia. She lives in Canberra with her husband, her three children, and her daughter-in-law.
She writes from her heart about her life experiences that have come from the school of hard knocks. Her views are tried and tested from many years of working to overcome adversity in her life as well as being founded on her Christian biblical faith, the wise counsel and support from healthcare professionals, and her educational background, which includes a Master of Education degree.
Hope Wins is her first book that links to a devotional series for women called Seeds for Growth.

Please check her book and what others are saying about her book, Hope Wins!

Book Promo at 1080P resolutionhttps://vimeo.com/user100994474/download/590964817/bc3a588ee7

Book Reviews (about 3min) https://vimeo.com/user100994474/download/591252348/0157593b82

You can find out more about Leisa at www.leisawilliamsauthor.com

Find the book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BTBPN5C pre-orders are now open.
The first week there is a big discount on the e-book hoping for some Amazon reviews.]]>2680asr,autism,holmes,hope,leisa,resources,spectrum,stephanie,williams,winsfalse1fullInterview with Sheila Gregoire, Great Sex Rescue Part 1https://www.spreaker.com/episode/interview-with-sheila-gregoire-great-sex-rescue-part-1--46370681
About Sheila:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex. Sheila has a Master's in Public Administration and a Master of Arts in Sociology both from Queen’s University. Sheila built the successful blog, To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, with traffic of one million page views a month. Her email list is 45,000 strong and her social media reach is over 100,000. Her podcast, Bare Marriage, has more than 5,000 downloads each week. She is an award-winning author with seven royalty-published books. A sought-after speaker, Sheila has spoken at churches and conferences around the globe. She is a frequent contributor at Family Life Canada events. Her latest book, “The Great Sex Rescue” was featured in the New York Times Book Review, Publishers Weekly, and The Washington Post. She has bylines at Religion News Service, Relevant Magazine, and other news sources. Sheila and her husband Keith, a pediatrician, live in Belleville Ontario. They have two grown daughters and one very adorable grandson who lives down the road. She enjoys hiking, birdwatching, RV camping trips, and board games. And she knits - even in line at the grocery store.
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
https://instagram.com/sheilagregoire
https://facebook.com/sheila.gregoire.books
https://twitter.com/sheilagregoire
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdO1v4LdyqZV-m_VMlH5VGg
https://greatsexrescue.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46370681Mon, 13 Sep 2021 10:00:05 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesJoin Stephanie and Dan as they interview co-authors, Sheila Gregoire and Rebecca Lindenbach, of the new book, The Great Sex Rescue. The discussion will start on things taught in Christian media that have been harmful or helpful to Christian couples,...
About Sheila:
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex. Sheila has a Master's in Public Administration and a Master of Arts in Sociology both from Queen’s University. Sheila built the successful blog, To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, with traffic of one million page views a month. Her email list is 45,000 strong and her social media reach is over 100,000. Her podcast, Bare Marriage, has more than 5,000 downloads each week. She is an award-winning author with seven royalty-published books. A sought-after speaker, Sheila has spoken at churches and conferences around the globe. She is a frequent contributor at Family Life Canada events. Her latest book, “The Great Sex Rescue” was featured in the New York Times Book Review, Publishers Weekly, and The Washington Post. She has bylines at Religion News Service, Relevant Magazine, and other news sources. Sheila and her husband Keith, a pediatrician, live in Belleville Ontario. They have two grown daughters and one very adorable grandson who lives down the road. She enjoys hiking, birdwatching, RV camping trips, and board games. And she knits - even in line at the grocery store.
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
https://instagram.com/sheilagregoire
https://facebook.com/sheila.gregoire.books
https://twitter.com/sheilagregoire
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdO1v4LdyqZV-m_VMlH5VGg
https://greatsexrescue.com/]]>2128asr,christian,couples,dan,great,gregoire,holmes,intimacy,love,marriages,ncc,neurodiverse,rescue,sex,sheila,stephanie,tolovehonorandvacuum.comtrue1fullConnection through Communicationhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/connection-through-communication--46226848Find out more about us and the training we offer as well as courses for couples at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/membership]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46226848Mon, 30 Aug 2021 10:00:04 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesOn today's podcast, we are continuing the discussion on connection. Communication is key to creating connection, yet many NeuroDiverse couples struggle in this area of communication. We will also talk more about Theory of Mind and other traits that...Find out more about us and the training we offer as well as courses for couples at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/membership]]>2368asr,christian,communication,connection,couples,dan,holmes,marriage,marriages,ncc,neurodiverse,stephaniefalse1fullNeuroDiverse Christian Couples Connectionhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurodiverse-christian-couples-connection--46059315
Join Dan and Stephanie as they talk about connection. They asked listeners both ND and NT to define connection and disconnection. What are the issues that make it hard for AS-NT (or ND) couples to connect? What contributes to disconnection or hurt or harm in the marriage?

Note: A brief discussion on physical intimacy is mentioned so the podcast had to be marked explicit content.

Find out more about us at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/46059315Mon, 16 Aug 2021 10:00:11 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesTopic = Connection, what is it? Join Dan and Stephanie as they talk about connection. They asked listeners both ND and NT to define connection and disconnection. What are the issues that make it hard for AS-NT (or ND) couples to connect? What...
Join Dan and Stephanie as they talk about connection. They asked listeners both ND and NT to define connection and disconnection. What are the issues that make it hard for AS-NT (or ND) couples to connect? What contributes to disconnection or hurt or harm in the marriage?

Note: A brief discussion on physical intimacy is mentioned so the podcast had to be marked explicit content.

Find out more about us at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/]]>2740asr,autism,autismspectrum,connection,couples,drstephanieholmes,holmes,iandcm,neurodiverse,neurodiversecouples,spectrumtrue1fullIdentifying Adults on the Autism Spectrum & Issues Adults Face in Employment with Dr. Attwoodhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/identifying-adults-on-the-autism-spectrum-issues-adults-face-in-employment-with-dr-attwood--45838505You can find out more about Dr. Tony Attwood at https://www.tonyattwood.com.au/ or look up events at https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45838505Mon, 09 Aug 2021 13:19:51 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesHere Dr. Holmes and Dr. Attwood are discussing Identifying Adults on the Autism Spectrum & Issues Adults Face in Employment. You can find out more about Dr. Tony Attwood at https://www.tonyattwood.com.au/ or look up events at...You can find out more about Dr. Tony Attwood at https://www.tonyattwood.com.au/ or look up events at https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/.

Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast they are recognized in their expertise on autism as an advocate, self-advocate, clinician, parent or other professional in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily full agreement of all beliefs from the chosen guest(s).]]>2999adultautism,adultsonthespectrum,asr,attwood,autismspectrum,autistic,drtony,employment,holmes,iandcm,neurodiversity,stephanieholmes,tonyattwoodfalse1fullNeuroDiverse Christian Couples Introductionhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/neurodiverse-christian-couples-introduction--45830007Find out more about us at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/

The purpose is to encourage and inspire you and remind you that in Christ there is hope for the future!
We want to educate and equip you through effective strategies that will help energize couples and professionals who work with NeuroDiverse Christian Couples.

Brought to you by Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family, LLC]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/45830007Mon, 02 Aug 2021 10:00:16 +0000Dr. Stephanie HolmesNeuroDiverse Christian Couples podcast selects guests that are professionals in the field of autism or individuals who want to share their journey from a Christian NeuroDiverse couple's experience. Find out more about us at...Find out more about us at https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/

The purpose is to encourage and inspire you and remind you that in Christ there is hope for the future!
We want to educate and equip you through effective strategies that will help energize couples and professionals who work with NeuroDiverse Christian Couples.

Brought to you by Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family, LLC]]>2411asr,atypicalmarriage,autismspeaks,autismspectrumresources,christianmarriage,danholmes,dr.stephaniecholmes,dr.stephanieholmes,holmes,iandcm,neurodiverse,neurodiversechristianmarriages,neurodiversemarriage,revdanholmes,rev.holmes,stephanieholmesfalse1full