https://www.spreaker.com/show/friendshipping
Every week Jenn & Trin answer your questions about friendship! We try to advise on the tricky stuff that's making you feel weird.

Write us your questions at FriendshippingPodcast@gmail.com, and visit FriendshippingPodcast.com for more info. Remember that we're not therapists or doctors, although we have spent plenty of time with them.]]>enComedyCopyright Jennhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/7421774323a72b5638c396e8200432d6.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/friendshippingFri, 20 Oct 2023 08:45:04 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn and Trinfriendshippingpodcast@gmail.comHow do I quit feeling so jealous of successful friends? Can I befriend my ex? Should I ask my coworker why she unfollowed me on Twitter? Every week Jenn & Trin answer your questions about friendship! We try to advise on the tricky stuff that's...
Every week Jenn & Trin answer your questions about friendship! We try to advise on the tricky stuff that's making you feel weird.

Write us your questions at FriendshippingPodcast@gmail.com, and visit FriendshippingPodcast.com for more info. Remember that we're not therapists or doctors, although we have spent plenty of time with them.]]>false1cbb7232-bf3a-586a-ba67-a110fd7e26baepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/inconsiderate-doofuses--45229982ebb2bfec-6246-43ff-ace0-5c4286a3b42fThu, 03 Jun 2021 20:08:30 +0000Jenn and TrinI have religious dietary restrictions, and some of my friends have been pretty crappy about it. How should I handle being the odd one out in a social group?2234advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fun-looks-different--452300242e3bee57-37fe-429f-ae8d-2c95a8e886b7Thu, 27 May 2021 17:32:20 +0000Jenn and TrinIs it okay for friends to shift away when we aren’t in the same classes? I have been friends with these people for a few years, but now we don't see each other as much. Is it normal to miss them?2090advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/keep-it-fresh-in-the-bedroom--45229999a60e7173-c4f4-4b21-a869-8609f045f9caFri, 21 May 2021 00:11:06 +0000Jenn and TrinTwo people in my friend group had a big fight after years of tension. One wants to make up, and the other doesn’t want to have any contact. What should I do here?2376advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-some-freakin-guy--4522998461df38c6-b3b6-4aff-bd73-84fb1e65dd29Sat, 15 May 2021 18:16:09 +0000Jenn and TrinI'm fixated on one friend who doesn't seem as invested as I am. In fact, I find myself obsessing about our level of communication. I feel caught in this loop of waiting to be talked to, and sending messages that don't always get replies. How can I...2244advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/brand-new-baby-bi--452299835a806b67-b794-4496-8cf5-24677b479a1dFri, 07 May 2021 21:02:53 +0000Jenn and TrinI've realized that I’m bisexual. I am intensely afraid that if I come out, my friends will suspect that I had crushes on them.2230advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-scones--452300188429bab1-a22a-4507-b99a-358794f105aeThu, 29 Apr 2021 14:01:09 +0000Jenn and TrinI broke up with my ex, but we're amicable, and still living together. My friends don't get our situation. How can I make them understand it's all good?1935advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thawing-after-the-deep-freeze--452300009fcf3dc7-da86-4162-829f-562be96e7f41Thu, 22 Apr 2021 20:54:10 +0000Jenn and TrinSo I... didn't really keep in touch with my friends. For the last year. Much at all. Are they going to pissed at me when I reach out?2927advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/any-trash-animal-will-do--45230025b96981e4-e84b-4bd9-ba51-e6efd5c31c49Thu, 15 Apr 2021 18:53:21 +0000Jenn and TrinA friend from work recently moved into the area. She's lonely, and she's latching onto me. What can I do to help her NOT rely on me for social interaction?1833advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thighs-on-the-internet--452300403a8a20e2-3ffe-4f3f-8860-9efb81bb660eFri, 09 Apr 2021 18:27:15 +0000Jenn and TrinHow can I politely exclude a friend from a group hangout without harming our individual relationship?2190advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/clarify-reassure-and-move-on--45230007d02746d9-d18c-4af6-9131-e33eec95b805Fri, 02 Apr 2021 19:06:14 +0000Jenn and TrinOne of my friends is just way too sensitive lately. I like to joke a lot, and she feels like everything I say is aimed toward her. How do I tell her in a nice way, not everything is about her?2020advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-a-billy-zane--452299862f270a33-420d-4e35-8ee5-e2e1a281b427Thu, 25 Mar 2021 21:30:07 +0000Jenn and TrinI'm leaving a toxic roommate situation that has left me deeply wounded and hurting. How do I communicate my needs to my next roomie as clearly as possible?1867advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-hour-am-i-right--452300348c01fc31-7aa5-48f7-b3c5-ad3b510fab7fThu, 18 Mar 2021 22:24:18 +0000Jenn and TrinI like to keep my social life and work life separate, but my coworkers are overwhelming me with their friendship. How can I politely convince them to leave me alone?2046advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/general-advice-from-the-elderly--45230021b4914ed7-1484-498a-930a-f7e41bc612afThu, 11 Mar 2021 23:27:24 +0000Jenn and TrinA rad teen listener asks: My friend keeps dumping her emotions on me. How can I help her get the care she needs?2254advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fuckboy-book-club--4523002739da4e43-7206-445b-8695-9403098e5039Thu, 04 Mar 2021 21:43:23 +0000Jenn and TrinDear Friendshipping: my book club sucks these days.2164advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/eggs-eggs-in-a-basket--45230044ac1f6ca5-7b5e-4420-82cb-3a0c7d5f5deaThu, 25 Feb 2021 19:24:39 +0000Jenn and TrinExtroverts in the pandemic. Much like dark matter, our calculations suggest that they must exist, but we've had no hard evidence or firsthand accounts... UNTIL NOW. Our asker wants to know if she should just give up and move on from her less-active...2001advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-no-meme-zone--4523003568b646e3-f2d4-4bc1-8547-ce6b23f14f73Thu, 18 Feb 2021 20:53:17 +0000Jenn and TrinThere are few things more frustrating than attempting to take an Internet Cleanse... only to be continuously derailed by memes from your pals. This week, we'll discuss discouraging your friends from sending you links to Instagram drama, and Internet...1988advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-your-screams-mean--4523006699092596-53f4-4c2c-9c95-77c2911ceaebThu, 11 Feb 2021 20:35:13 +0000Jenn and TrinTale as old as balls: All of your friends really love doing ONE THING together, and it's the ONE THING that you simply do not want to do. Today's asker is tired of playing the often stressful online game "Among Us." Sounds like it's time again for...2115advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/every-dnd-group-has-a-dave--4523005270b66679-1f66-443b-8dc8-492298c506dfThu, 04 Feb 2021 16:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinNo matter how cool you may be (and we're pretty sure you're super cool), every human being in history has experienced rejection. This week, our asker wonders if it's worth reaching back out to a group of friends who removed her from their ongoing DnD...2222advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ideally-we-ll-end-up-in-hobbit-holes--452300426e792a45-d518-4749-b9e5-78a5514030f7Fri, 29 Jan 2021 23:21:00 +0000Jenn and TrinToday’s asker brings extremely relatable content: How can I be in touch with my friends, without actually expending the energy to have a conversation? We’ll discuss leaving “love packets” for your pals, the benefits of living underground, and how...2055advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/every-damn-day-i-am-fucking-up--45230049331f7b57-8760-4b89-8eb5-f0273ac9c4feThu, 21 Jan 2021 23:29:01 +0000Jenn and TrinI haven't heard from my friend in a long time. Like: a lonnnng time. Are we still friends? This week, we discuss how equally valid all of the following options are: giving up, giving up for now but then trying again later, or trying now and giving up...1545advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-one-who-looks-gayer--45230076ae407891-0160-4214-a2bb-5c876887d67eThu, 14 Jan 2021 20:22:27 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're not gonna mince words here. The asker's two best friends became best friends themselves, stopped talking to the asker, and moved in together. Allow us to be the first to say: What the fuck? Today we'll discuss accepting our bad feelings,...2137advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-let-your-friends-be-your-guitar--4523003216572801-24a9-4da3-b611-827fd751fbd1Thu, 07 Jan 2021 19:13:38 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I maintain friendships if I have a very, very limited social battery? This week we discuss how to keep yourself charged while still putting in the work and being a supportive, loving friend. Content warnings for discussion of diagnosis, brief...1832advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-pooper-situation--452299917f12ea63-093b-47a7-bb33-2791a2b2dc0fThu, 31 Dec 2020 23:59:55 +0000Jenn and TrinMy roommate films the whole damn apartment when he’s on Discord. Is it normal to have Good-Smelling Room Spray in your bathroom? Cohabitation in the Age of COVID is tricky, but we’ve got special guest co-host Billie Bullock to help sort us out!2334advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/got-my-zoom-eyebrows-on--452300431a671918-efa0-4d06-8f3c-c85d0b24aefbThu, 24 Dec 2020 19:34:59 +0000Jenn and TrinWe found the only people on Earth who are consistently, meticulously getting ready for Zoom calls, and they are driving this week’s asker a little bonkers. Let us discuss this rare species and how to handle it when your friends look so perfect that...1546advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-really-long-bong-hit-of-friendship--452300635c37c653-4b36-48f1-8fb6-36853d51d4e5Thu, 17 Dec 2020 16:42:03 +0000Jenn and TrinAlone time: a precious commodity in these trying times. How can I ask for and receive alone time when I'm stuck inside an apartment with two other adults 24 hours a day? This week, we'll discuss creating conditions that work for you and your...1765advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-walgreens-friend--45230058395b9972-934b-44ab-aa98-288940d9348dFri, 11 Dec 2020 16:29:58 +0000Jenn and Trin"My neighbors in having parties, not wearing masks in our apartment common spaces, and in no way following pandemic protocol. What can I do?" We've got some ideas to kick around. One involves laminating! Also, Jenn has a realization, and Trin takes a...1784advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-red-hots--45229988f578f172-1f7f-4177-b231-01c732ba672dThu, 03 Dec 2020 23:02:44 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener wants to know how to best support her friends right now, even as she is feeling bad herself. This one's about managing the rage, ADHD coping mechanisms, and what you can do for yourself between therapy sessions.1715advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-anger-can-be-reasonable--45230019e08b445f-615c-49dc-b5d5-52c90223cf3bMon, 23 Nov 2020 21:59:21 +0000Jenn and Trin"I’m staying home because COVID, but my friends are not. What can I do?" This week, everyone we know is staying home and not breathing on anyone, including the wonderful person who asked today’s question.1823advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/give-it-up-for-burping--45230059b4c8d2e8-1592-469d-b4a6-38a5758f3975Thu, 19 Nov 2020 22:24:40 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friends are stressed. Can I tell them to take a break from the news cycle? Our answer is yes, no, maybe, and sometimes! Here's an episode about absorbing the world's crap like a Bounty paper towel.1840advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/5000-on-the-lsat--45230090b6b3116d-35fe-49b9-9192-3dbf59e8b312Thu, 12 Nov 2020 18:10:36 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week: we're here, we're very tired, and we're discussing envy between friends. What if you and your friend want the exact same darn thing, but your friend is coming by it much more easily than you are? Also: Jenn speaks on behalf of the humble...1591advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/back-2-cool--45230071This week, an asker wonders: When should I switch therapists? How do I know if this therapist is The One? We're here to give you our hottest therapy tips, appreciate one another, and read from our upcoming book.

Content warnings:
The first nine minutes revolve around coping with existential dread, loss, and social distancing.]]>5acdc454-e656-47c7-a789-ec847f48353fFri, 23 Oct 2020 21:00:44 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're back, we're online, and we're not entirely sure if we remember how to talk to people. Let's find out! This week, an asker wonders: When should I switch therapists? How do I know if this therapist is The One? We're here to give you our hottest...This week, an asker wonders: When should I switch therapists? How do I know if this therapist is The One? We're here to give you our hottest therapy tips, appreciate one another, and read from our upcoming book.

Content warnings:
The first nine minutes revolve around coping with existential dread, loss, and social distancing.]]>1865advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ok-now-do-this-work-forever--45230046
CWs
In banter (first 14 min): Humorous/cartoon skeleton, death, fake murder mentions.
After banter: Racism, social mistakes discussion. Trump admin mention.
9m20s: Humorous 9/11 mention.
34m50s: Mention of Trump’s history of sexual assault. Dismissal of social injury, pussy hat discussion.]]>6d74afcb-6cf6-46b5-be00-ef784b5f4ae6Thu, 04 Jun 2020 13:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat is the right thing to do? What should you do when you tried to do the right thing, but ended up doing the wrong thing? We hope you’re in the mood for a good, deep cringe! After Animal Crossing and plants banter, we detail some choice moments when...
CWs
In banter (first 14 min): Humorous/cartoon skeleton, death, fake murder mentions.
After banter: Racism, social mistakes discussion. Trump admin mention.
9m20s: Humorous 9/11 mention.
34m50s: Mention of Trump’s history of sexual assault. Dismissal of social injury, pussy hat discussion.]]>2242advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/quit-it-with-the-sack-tapping--45230082The second asker isn't freaking out about COVID, and can't understand why everyone else seems to feel differently. Hm!!
Most importantly, we want to know: Why do all men go through a phase of hitting each other in the testicles? Aaaa!!!
CWs:
- Discussion of testicles and kicking them, first ten minutes of the show.
- Discussion of divorce, death throughout show.
- Big death mention at 27m20s, big climate change mention at 37m00s.
- Poop mention, eating poop mention 27m20s]]>edcf099f-6c68-42c1-bc71-924096a48291Fri, 22 May 2020 21:30:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe first asker is caught between two friends going through a sudden divorce, oh no! The second asker isn't freaking out about COVID, and can't understand why everyone else seems to feel differently. Hm!! Most importantly, we want to know: Why do all...The second asker isn't freaking out about COVID, and can't understand why everyone else seems to feel differently. Hm!!
Most importantly, we want to know: Why do all men go through a phase of hitting each other in the testicles? Aaaa!!!
CWs:
- Discussion of testicles and kicking them, first ten minutes of the show.
- Discussion of divorce, death throughout show.
- Big death mention at 27m20s, big climate change mention at 37m00s.
- Poop mention, eating poop mention 27m20s]]>2467advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hork-down-a-pie--45230050
Content Warnings:
- Food mentions around 7m00s, 7m50s, and 18m18s.
- COVID-heavy second question.
- Occasional joking references to porn starting at 14m08s.
- Death mention 19m43s.]]>afcff7b2-49a3-411a-b05d-52dca0d32d78Thu, 14 May 2020 13:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSometimes, you just need a little more. We’re here to help you figure out how to effectively ask for it. How can I get my friends to talk freely about their guilty pleasures? What can I do to encourage my buds to initiate more conversations and online...
Content Warnings:
- Food mentions around 7m00s, 7m50s, and 18m18s.
- COVID-heavy second question.
- Occasional joking references to porn starting at 14m08s.
- Death mention 19m43s.]]>2298advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/low-stakes-vandalism--45230093
Production note: Trin is wrong; Spanish Flu was not our most recent pandemic. But she is correct that we did not have The Internet back then.

CWs: Discussions of COVID and hazing]]>a0baa7ae-5e8f-4ac7-a95c-32ec8425562eThu, 07 May 2020 20:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinFirst up: “I was out on leave and I’m worried my coworkers are resentful that I’ve been gone. What can I do to feel less terrible about this?” Then, “I feel closer to my coworkers through this pandemic trauma. Is this why hazing works?” Around...
Production note: Trin is wrong; Spanish Flu was not our most recent pandemic. But she is correct that we did not have The Internet back then.

CWs: Discussions of COVID and hazing]]>2138advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bonus-episode-animal-crossing-etiquette--45230047Whew! Now that we got that out of our collective system, we’ll be back on Thursday with your regular friendship programming.]]>5a620338-9990-4130-bba5-608126d10081Mon, 04 May 2020 07:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinToday on this here podcast, it’s all about being polite on our favorite utopia simulator, Animal Crossing. What’s the tea on Blood? Do you leave a tip for big gains on the Stonk Market? Why is my friend sitting motionless on a log? Whew! Now that we...Whew! Now that we got that out of our collective system, we’ll be back on Thursday with your regular friendship programming.]]>2725advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/turn-off-my-face--45230086
CWs: Queerphobia, and money are discussed at length. COVID mentions.]]>fbf2e7a9-cd9f-4bc1-a114-9e379db41042Fri, 01 May 2020 11:25:00 +0000Jenn and Trin“My friend mailed me $50. She’s the worst, right?” This week, Jenn wonders if there’s a gas leak, Trin deeply mispronounces “Oregon,” and neither of us can quite wrap our brains around an asker who feels grievously wronged by a sorta disappointing...
CWs: Queerphobia, and money are discussed at length. COVID mentions.]]>2963advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-butter-garage--45230033
CWs: Discussion ADD/ADHD spectrum. Brief, sudden masturbation mention when we read the first question.]]>3a4ecbf9-22b7-4f53-8b5d-57bf1c6a3dfaThu, 23 Apr 2020 08:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIs it okay to like having time off from work? Jenn and Trin tell you the hard truth about enjoying your life. We also get down with house envy, the box full of personal shame that lives in everyone’s home, and empathizing with your bored house cat on...
CWs: Discussion ADD/ADHD spectrum. Brief, sudden masturbation mention when we read the first question.]]>2788advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/steamboy-3000--45230091
*real in the existential sense

CWs: Humorous, metaphorical mentions of blood. Discussion of COVID. Poop mentions, Casual death mentions. Trin goes on an anti-capitalist rant again.]]>2993981e-b53a-491f-8af2-0d1f7939b9b7Thu, 16 Apr 2020 18:50:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMary Tyler Moore, the real one*, wants to know how to deal with the guilt of her shelter-in-place privilege in relation to her friend Ethel, who has it much harder as the single caretaker of four kids and one adult nurse. This week we once again...
*real in the existential sense

CWs: Humorous, metaphorical mentions of blood. Discussion of COVID. Poop mentions, Casual death mentions. Trin goes on an anti-capitalist rant again.]]>2751advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-re-all-depressed-here--45230065This episode once again starts with a Pop Culture Corner, with some mentions of cinematic violence. Are you all into that segment? Should we keep doing it? Let us know!

CW: COVID discussion throughout, discussion of the fall of civilization/human extinction
Send your questions to FriendshippingPodcast@gmail.com.]]>8813522d-86be-4c65-bb7a-8a2e485394f3Thu, 09 Apr 2020 21:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow can we fight off the terrible dark feelings of pessimism? And what can I do when my friends set up wayyy too many group video calls? I don’t have anything else to do, and they know it, so I feel like I have to go to all of them. Help! This episode...This episode once again starts with a Pop Culture Corner, with some mentions of cinematic violence. Are you all into that segment? Should we keep doing it? Let us know!

CW: COVID discussion throughout, discussion of the fall of civilization/human extinction
Send your questions to FriendshippingPodcast@gmail.com.]]>2477advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/everything-feels-sharper-now--452300744f74873b-5130-4f58-8362-112728f3688eThu, 02 Apr 2020 20:05:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend doesn’t believe in science. Can this friendship be saved? This week, we discuss the value of doctors, social distancing, and saying your weird thoughts out loud sometimes so someone else can correct you. General CW for realistic but hopeful...2109advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/huge-powerful-energy--452300969e0e5882-f7ff-4def-82bf-98b076b844a7Thu, 26 Mar 2020 17:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow should I check on my friends while we're social distancing? Is asking "how are you?" a silly question right now? We're all in this alone together! Content warnings for discussion of COVID-19.2049advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ok-mildred--452301247079408e-53cb-4589-8d6a-bdd121b45cbdThu, 12 Mar 2020 15:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend sends me extremely long text messages. Paragraphs and paragraphs. All the time. Can I clue her in that this is a little much for me? This one's got advice, a little bit of Love is Blind, a little bit of politics, some quotes from literature,...1916advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-lunar-eclipse-happens--45230104How do I go about finding Hobbies for Gays™ that I’m interested in? How have you made and found friends after getting out of school?" Here's some ideas for meeting new people and finding a community. CW: repeated use of the word 'penis' in the first three minutes.]]>28da63bd-8101-4040-8a36-a5438da7b57dThu, 27 Feb 2020 18:39:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe've got a listener who is new to town! "I (he/him, gay) was lucky enough to graduate from college and move to Chicago. How do I go about finding Hobbies for Gays™ that I’m interested in? How have you made and found friends after getting out of...How do I go about finding Hobbies for Gays™ that I’m interested in? How have you made and found friends after getting out of school?" Here's some ideas for meeting new people and finding a community. CW: repeated use of the word 'penis' in the first three minutes.]]>1818advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/double-fisting-fire--452301120342dc34-4b07-45e6-bf2b-ae01887391baThu, 20 Feb 2020 16:43:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I told my best friend not to share my pronouns with his parents so they don't tell MY parents, but he did anyway. How can I move forward from this?" This week's episode is all about boundaries, respect, and privacy, with a little metal smithing...2288advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dad-s-power-tools--45230081a6d9f511-2172-4249-ac0b-33fbb2ea3b9fThu, 13 Feb 2020 21:06:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I’m throwing a Galentine’s Day party. I’m not sure if I should invite my (AFAB, she/they) non-binary friend. How can I do this without making them feel misgendered?" How timely! Includes discussion about Birds of Prey and our absolute perfect taste...2311advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rich-euro-aunt--45230062d7ee8248-4bb8-43e3-b8c5-7ab15d5018b5Thu, 06 Feb 2020 20:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinDo you have to make nice and visit with your distant family members? In this episode we discuss your obligations, if any, to your family and buds. Frankly, you gotta wonder: what's the point of having an aunt in Europe if you can't jet off to Paris....2312advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-email-my-wife--452300412a36e8b8-af02-409b-ae23-c3476710d040Thu, 30 Jan 2020 21:05:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend is undergoing a volatile divorce. It's making him angry and impatient, and he's even made a few jabs at me. How do I handle this?" Allow us to give you permission to take a break from your friends! Put 'em on ice for now! And don't miss...1990advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gooey-weird-things--452300484e8fc42d-1a6c-46ac-82ca-83410ef53a62Thu, 23 Jan 2020 22:03:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I've become friends with my massage therapist, and now when I go in for an appointment, we end up just hanging out instead of giving me the massage I need!" Here's an episode about boundaries with friends who also provide a professional service for...2004advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trash-to-treasure-to-trash--45230100437b2648-bf5a-495d-aa8f-31d1ada4521eThu, 16 Jan 2020 15:46:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe hear from a listener in an open marriage who wants to maybe make a move on a new friend. This episode's got everything: Oscar snubs, metalworking class, make a haiku together, and even some advice. Content warnings for marriage discussion, dating, sex.1701advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tallahassee-vs-the-world--4523009292b01f7b-5329-4ae3-a96d-65a4abe6058cFri, 10 Jan 2020 17:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinDo you HAVE to be friends with your partners friends? No, you do not. Look, some friendships just aren't meant to work out. Just people are meant to be polite acquaintances and that's A-OK. This episode is about deciding not to struggle through a...2586advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-be-a-flat-earther--45230106CWs -
Religion mention: 4m49s
Food discussion: 7m26s - 9m04s; dinner party mention throughout]]>241bd07b-5c27-4bde-989c-943106119d05Fri, 27 Dec 2019 02:05:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAn annoying person from the asker's high school past is showing up to Christmas Eve! So, yes, it is true that this episode did become posted by us two days after the advice could be useful. Enjoy! CWs - Religion mention: 4m49s Food discussion: 7m26s...CWs -
Religion mention: 4m49s
Food discussion: 7m26s - 9m04s; dinner party mention throughout]]>1762advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-better-be-gay--45230026202dae53-db90-4a13-95e4-ff5523bda6d4Thu, 19 Dec 2019 17:09:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis one's about people who flake. Some friends just don't show up when they say they will. Some friends are unreliable. When's the right time to cut the cord and move on? Let's discuss! Please note: content warning for discussion of parent death.1802advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friends-with-absolutely-no-benefits-whatsoever--4523009969fd55f1-07d2-4895-8808-65c86448da2cFri, 13 Dec 2019 23:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA question older than Father Time: Can I be friends with my ex? SHOULD I be friends with my ex? In this case, we're here to give you a resounding and loving "no."2227advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/always-with-the-pissing--4523004547122710-7b9d-4356-958a-45e06c78d9d2Thu, 05 Dec 2019 15:19:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener wants to know how to be a better roommate, especially because her roommate is too midwestern to say what they need! Meanwhile, Jenn & Trin go places they have never been before. Stick around to the end for this one, folks. Content warnings:...2268advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/two-wood-for-one-sheep--45230120f4a52644-f350-497e-98ed-4a085e24b086Wed, 27 Nov 2019 16:52:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I am going to be a bridesmaid next year for a friend. The problem is, this friend has some very offensive things about another friends of ours--like doubting her struggles with suicidal thoughts and depression." This one's about handling (or NOT...1987advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/for-clearer-skin-pour-ranch-dressing-on-yourself--45230128c9820902-6839-4c07-bbc8-27c2e0a60973Fri, 22 Nov 2019 01:24:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, we tackle: "I'm in a group chat and one of the participants has blocked me. We used to be friends, but we're not any longer. I hate that she thinks I'm toxic because I'm not the same person I was back then." Some people don't want to be...2089advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hey-you-funky-gals--452301497b08cbe9-a05c-4415-a2c8-fc379c817f88Thu, 14 Nov 2019 23:11:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend's boyfriend won't leave me alone on Instagram." This episode is literally about someone sliding into your DMs. Listen as we become physically and emotionally overheated! Content warnings for discussions of harassment and misogyny.2506advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/taking-emo-seriously--452300687fd7fd2b-03d8-4bb4-be66-b4a9cdbb03c3Thu, 31 Oct 2019 19:03:00 +0000Jenn and TrinCollaborating with your pals! Sometimes it goes poorly! The question: “I was working on a professional project with my friend. She completely botched the deadline and really let me down. How do I move forward from here?” Counter question: How do we...2370advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-it-be-awkward--45230107a51068f0-ea1d-4e54-ad7b-4d553ffceb59Thu, 24 Oct 2019 23:19:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I have a friend who brags about himself constantly. Every other conversation he starts is about how desirable, intelligent, or successful he is." We've got follow-up questions, such as: "What's it like to have positive self-esteem?" and "So which...2050advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-might-enjoy-fun--45230144086ad01c-2ce1-4433-96d3-e41bc88a2e7dThu, 17 Oct 2019 20:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat if you don't like the person your friend is dating? Can you speak up? Let's discuss the many shades of this very common and confusing topic. Plus. intriguing update on the snail front! Content warning for light sexual content throughout. Gross...2284advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/reach-across-the-aisle-to-slap-em-in-the-face--45230166c1199a8e-8c68-46f7-937d-c15e9aed4fc0Thu, 10 Oct 2019 16:36:00 +0000Jenn and TrinTrin is mad online, Jenn finally meets Trin’s snails, and capitalism ruins the party yet again. What can you do about friends who continually try to entrap you into selling crap (makeup, jewelry, Tupperware, sex toys, etc) with them?1968advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-your-roomba-runs-away--45230143https://www.etsy.com/market/juniper_moon]]>fe250320-4f44-4d4d-adff-7435e9331a97Thu, 03 Oct 2019 21:09:00 +0000Jenn and TrinTrin cleans off her fire escape, Jenn unloads her feelings about her former neighbors, and together your humble narrators make a stabbing attempt to answer this question: How do I decide who to be friends with? Who is worth investing my time in?...https://www.etsy.com/market/juniper_moon]]>2156advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/snailbiters--45230102dc40277d-7bc2-4416-8f8f-78bed39705d1Thu, 26 Sep 2019 15:47:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn shares what is delighting her this week, Trin manages her snail eggs, and a listener writes us to ask if it's OK that she doesn't have or want friends because she just is too exhausted between work and parenting. Is friendship even worth the...1971advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/reintroduce-the-cats--4523006160e9bc46-fecf-4fac-88f7-ecb5f145e373Sat, 21 Sep 2019 04:16:00 +0000Jenn and TrinGreat question this week. A listener asks, "How do I know when I'm wanted in social situations? How can I tell?" We've got first-hand insight into this one, as well as snail eggs, night lotion, and hey, do you want to name our book for us? Please and...2691advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/snail-baby-registry--4523011923d6816a-b2a6-4b9d-b9e3-3711b9e23978Thu, 12 Sep 2019 22:49:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener brought a friend into her D&D group. New friend is not really acclimating so well. In fact, the other folks want him out! How can you smooth things over here? Should you even?! Content warning for mention of death at 28:27.2746advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/underwear-on-your-arm--45230037f8a7f288-3ac2-44ef-a286-1c1a10b7b660Thu, 29 Aug 2019 14:31:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener wrote us and said they made a bunch of positive life changes and now feel like they need to leave their old group of friends. But first we want to ask: are you sure you should do that? Content warnings: discussions of prisons, brief mention...1940advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/succulents-and-ferns--45230141936f7525-b482-42c6-8157-293ccd4f3d89Thu, 22 Aug 2019 15:49:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBest friends, college buds, road trip friends... you can be all of these things! Or none of them! This week, a listener wrote in after they took a hard look at a decades-long friendship and found that it just wasn't what he thought it was. Their old...2052advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sharks-with-dream-powers--45230087842f0406-e7d8-4ec7-b628-99c6708d589fThu, 15 Aug 2019 20:16:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener lended out her favorite kitchen mixer to a friend who has not given it back. And this friend now also has a crush on her! We love this question very much. We also love snails, sharks, the ocean, fish tubes, all of it, everything.1690advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sorry-to-muffy--4523006409514693-8557-4024-bd67-d7e9f518143aThu, 08 Aug 2019 22:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinScooters are all the rage! And by that we mean, they're making us feel rage. This week, we heard from a listener who wants to know how to move on from a past hurt: years ago, her friends didn't give her the help she asked for. What now? What do?1991advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dang-good-losers--45230133ea6d016f-2064-4035-a613-c03542cea1b2Tue, 30 Jul 2019 17:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn got married, Trin's snails are happy, and a listener loves to play board games with her friends but is feeling a liitttlee uneasy about how she keeps losing at them. Allow us, two certified losers, to help you with this. [Content warnings...1820advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-a-jagweed-online--4523007550d5946a-36e4-4c06-ac38-0cb5d6639e49Thu, 11 Jul 2019 22:45:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn has a nemesis, Trin's snails continue to enjoy their retirement, and a listener wants to know how to make friends and connections online--because their boss wants them to. Uggghhh.2036advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/g-g-g-gaaaayyy--452300672f0ce293-6dee-447f-b4f2-5826c30ec1ddFri, 05 Jul 2019 01:36:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat do you do when you think a friend is crushing on you? Do you speak up? Let it go? We have thoughts. Trin’s snails are doing well btw.1803advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/drop-out-of-school-watch-tv--45230181e1c2c111-4c80-4543-93e6-3d7e90960314Fri, 28 Jun 2019 17:50:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat do you do when you meet a new friend who seems great, but then plants a few red flags? Do you write them off completely? Does anyone want some snails?1860advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/iguanas-16-of-them--45230125b5ea575c-8e74-4964-a823-755d7563030aThu, 20 Jun 2019 16:27:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener doesn't want to be chummy with their new colleagues. We understand! We're also going to challenge you juuust a little, though. Content warning for discussions of social biases, brief mention of racial stereotyping.1872advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/talk-nice-to-yourself--45230031d2ebaace-462a-41bc-9f64-f89a98970907Thu, 13 Jun 2019 17:20:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn's softball team is being bullied online, Trin visits a spa, and a listener asks how to adjust their inner monologue so they can be be kinder to themselves and their friends. What a lovely idea. You're doing the right thing with your face, by the...1889advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-poison-and-the-antidote--45230054Cancer Mention
Start time: 1m35s Duration: 4s

Being Gross about the word "Engorged"
Start Tim3: 3m19s Duration: 6s

Levity Break #1
Start Time: 15m21s Duration: 3m45s

Levity Break #2
Start Time: 28m20s Duration 2m12s

ANGRY BREAK: Straight Pride
Start Time: 33m44s Duration: 3m22s

Levity Break #3
37m04s Duration 1m50s]]>1eba126d-679b-4c9d-a651-6624561d5367Thu, 06 Jun 2019 23:11:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, we heard from an awesome listener who wants to support a friend who is receiving bad treatment from her family for being gay. Strong content warnings for homophobia, discussion of religion. We threw in "levity breaks" to add a little...Cancer Mention
Start time: 1m35s Duration: 4s

Being Gross about the word "Engorged"
Start Tim3: 3m19s Duration: 6s

Levity Break #1
Start Time: 15m21s Duration: 3m45s

Levity Break #2
Start Time: 28m20s Duration 2m12s

ANGRY BREAK: Straight Pride
Start Time: 33m44s Duration: 3m22s

Levity Break #3
37m04s Duration 1m50s]]>2643advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/crashing-on-couches--45230196be9c0bbf-f4c4-4a36-b4be-eb56160cfbdeFri, 31 May 2019 00:41:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIf a friend is visiting the city you live, are you supposed to show them around? Let them crash on your couch? Skip work to hang out together? Really, what are your obligations as a host? We've got answers to this and also quick mentions of vomit from...2058advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/scouting-dilfs-at-home-depot--45230036998db8d1-8cec-4e72-8824-90af9f2b1fffThu, 23 May 2019 19:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA few dedicated listeners asked us to lighten things up and talk about ourselves for some reason. Careful what you wish for. This week, no advice. Instead, plants, sinus infections, some new projects we're working on(!!!), and finally, FINALLY, we...1861advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pretend-you-have-a-broken-penis--45230140eb80c1a6-4920-4a8d-aca5-6617544d9e1fFri, 17 May 2019 20:25:00 +0000Jenn and TrinLet's get META. Our first asker wants to know the best way to ask us a question without giving away their identity, so we went through some best practices when asking us for advice. The next asker is about to embark on the journey of therapy, and...2548advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/lube-it-up-downtown--45230167eabfc508-ade7-4e48-90d9-70e64f514be2Thu, 09 May 2019 20:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend has terrible etiquette on Twitter--what do I do? Am I a bad friend if I delete Facebook altogether and sometimes miss birthday notifications? This episode it's about friendship and social media. Listen as we try to convince you to never...2148advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-little-bit-of-give-a-little-bit-of-take--45230089- I was offered a job at a toxic company. My friends keep telling me not to take it, but I need to!

This week, it's all about: being annoyed that your friends might be working too much; letting your friends make their own life decisions; and decidedly not grinding yourself down to dust for someone else’s enrichment! Let's do this thang.]]>2dd3a9c6-b312-49e9-99c8-f0da30341036Thu, 02 May 2019 15:06:00 +0000Jenn and Trin- My friend uses social media to brag about how busy she is with work. - I was offered a job at a toxic company. My friends keep telling me not to take it, but I need to! This week, it's all about: being annoyed that your friends might be working...- I was offered a job at a toxic company. My friends keep telling me not to take it, but I need to!

This week, it's all about: being annoyed that your friends might be working too much; letting your friends make their own life decisions; and decidedly not grinding yourself down to dust for someone else’s enrichment! Let's do this thang.]]>1759advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kettlebell-classes-and-other-concerns--4523014629b66f40-4ba9-41af-9d89-da6de5aefb90Thu, 25 Apr 2019 15:14:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I have become flooded with Facebook messages, at all hours of the day and night, with my friend pouring her life out. What do I do?" is our first question. And our second question: "My friend uses Twitter to tell people to kill themselves." This...2779advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jorts-season-baby--4523010581cdcc7d-0f74-4da2-a16e-c29b08bc198cThu, 11 Apr 2019 16:14:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're stoked on spring time and excited to bring you an episode about little bebes. Sometimes you want to hang out with your friend's kids and sometimes you don't. Here are some thoughts on how to be accommodating to your friends who are parents....1793advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pee-your-pants-and-run-away--452300842406534e-8246-499a-b5aa-21a73ea2f9f8Thu, 04 Apr 2019 22:59:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat do you do when an almost-friend becomes suddenly distant and uninterested? That's our first question. We're here to tell you that it's OK to feel a little bummed. Our second question, now, got us all frazzled and excited: How can I get my friend...2337advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-at-c2e2-2019--4523010186bed356-41a2-4906-a491-6b912a034f9eThu, 28 Mar 2019 16:21:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA live episode! We swear we're getting better at these. First we consider what we've learned over the years, and then take some questions from listeners, including, "how do I tell my friend I can't afford to donate to all the fundraisers she's...2852advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/wearing-capes-for-personal-reasons--45230179d24a9468-7ecb-410d-a417-a6773a0d329dThu, 21 Mar 2019 19:26:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSmall talk gets a bad rep. People think it's boring and awkward. But! It's actually an important tool! This week, we hear from listeners who want to improve their active listening skills, especially when it comes to meeting people you REALLY ADMIRE...2481advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/walk-around-like-a-happy-rooster--4523018459fc8aa0-7f08-47b5-a8fd-92a54694766cThu, 14 Mar 2019 15:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, our listeners just need a little nudge in the right direction. Our first asker wants to know how to make friends online. Luckily, we are very online! Our second asker wants to know how to meet folks while volunteering at an animal shelter....1975advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-my-best-friend-but-i-m-not-yours--45230168f8361d29-64a0-48ea-8855-7b7b5ed8a3eeThu, 07 Mar 2019 16:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week we tackle something pretty common in adult friendships - you feel that you have a best friend, but you're not THEIR best friend in return. Not as depressing as it sounds, we promise!2181advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-not-the-one--452300385508362a-adc1-48ec-8a5b-4da1af24f3e2Thu, 28 Feb 2019 19:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou can't solve every problem for your friends. You simply can't fix everything. In this episode, we give you permission to go easier on yourself. Important content warnings for this one: we discuss gatekeeping within the queer community, as well as...2421advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-it-s-time-to-quit-swimming--4523015753109fea-1e7f-4042-b0db-ec902a6fd214Thu, 21 Feb 2019 21:33:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend puts herself down constantly. She's always insulting herself, and it bums me out. How can I talk to her about this?" This episode is about self-esteem, something neither of us have, which makes us the perfect candidates to lead this...1918advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/help-i-m-friends-with-a-creep--45230060ddd77445-64c1-44ac-adc5-786440ed5f38Thu, 14 Feb 2019 17:58:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA concerned and confused 21-year-old wrote in and asked, "I have a friend who is older, and he makes a woman in our group feel uncomfortable often. How do I handle this?" We have some ideas on how to get this person out of your life ASAP. This one's...2122advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-new-rude--45230129f49d5cee-367d-4ddb-aa8f-5cd619b18049Thu, 07 Feb 2019 22:45:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe already know that the rudest thing you can do online is email someone's wife. So here's an episode about the other kinds of modern etiquette: keeping your headphones in, texting during conversations, and adding someone to a new group text. (CW:...2282advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-swamp-queens-cometh--45230138d2e89a65-1c4c-4364-9865-4db7f08a8105Thu, 24 Jan 2019 20:54:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener asks how to become a functioning social adult after working from home full-time. Try keeping slippers at your desk! Then we hear from somebody who's being hard on themselves with their sleep & clothing habits. Hey, stop that!2016advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-get-real--452302378ce1031c-d93c-4f87-93c5-713f1d8b822dThu, 17 Jan 2019 18:38:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do you wind down a friendship? If your friends get divorced, must you choose between them? As a new mom, how can I tell my friends who don't have kids that I can't relate to them now? This week, we heard from a few folks who are interested in...2191advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-soft-block--45230123https://www.instagram.com/p/BsUoyd5Ai6R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

PS: Just to be clear, we do not think that EVERYone bangs at conventions. We're just friggin' goofballs!]]>78631ce4-b7d5-4039-8cb0-1b489b72105fThu, 10 Jan 2019 16:53:00 +0000Jenn and TrinShould I de-friend my ex on Facebook? How do I handle an intense Twitter crush? We attempt to answer these questions before debuting our new podcast, The Jeff Probst Fan Show! Content warnings for lots of sex talk. Important links mentioned in this...https://www.instagram.com/p/BsUoyd5Ai6R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

PS: Just to be clear, we do not think that EVERYone bangs at conventions. We're just friggin' goofballs!]]>1740advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/god-bless-nancy--4523015547b3bff4-5649-47f2-af37-4dbf229460a8Thu, 03 Jan 2019 23:59:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat are you supposed to do when someone you barely know surprises you with a gift? What if the gift is a terrible painting? No, wait: what if it's a terrible painting that they made themselves? This one's about what to do when you don't know what to...2185advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/that-s-gonna-be-no-from-us--452300837c5e82a2-51ee-493e-8dc3-f1ad32e16f47Thu, 27 Dec 2018 17:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSo, how was your holiday? Awesome? Terrible? Let's listen to someone else's problems for awhile. Our first question reads, "I came between a friend's marriage. Therapy was had, I sincerely apologized, we moved on. It's been two years. Can I reach out...1929advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/yikes-a-roni--452300729d8da458-c66c-4e6b-9934-6b5c6c94f085Thu, 20 Dec 2018 20:27:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBefriending your colleagues can be tricky. Especially if your colleagues happen to find your Twitter account. This episode is about Personal Twitter, Work Twitter, and when maybe you should just lock your account and throw your computer into the eye...1788advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-hot-meal-and-a-warm-bath--452300701c9a6cf3-5f70-4bd6-ae02-eb7ff05c2fc9Thu, 13 Dec 2018 17:59:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn has a cold, Trin wants a haircut, and we both have advice for a new listener who is lonely and has frankly been through some tough shit. This episode is about making new friends after a bad break up, filling your empty hours, making your...2032advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/where-s-my-pwesent--452300974defa095-6061-4134-b27c-ce379d830728Thu, 06 Dec 2018 23:35:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're back! We're back! Did you miss us? Did you miss the crap out of us? Here's an episode about exchanging gifts with friends and co-workers. One listener wants to know what the frick to do now that her close friend gave her a bottle of wine for her...2452advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ama-ask-muss-anything--45230051d1b67e86-4389-46df-aa58-103884548136Thu, 15 Nov 2018 19:59:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAll about us! Us! You asked and we answered. Who's more inspiring, Odo or Nog? What's the worst advice we've ever given? And what about gymnastics?1965advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-ll-complain-for-you--452301132c30ac2c-712f-4042-b220-68682ca5c129Thu, 08 Nov 2018 19:40:00 +0000Jenn and Trin“My boyfriend is close friends with a sexist ass. I’m trying to be civil. How do I proceed here?” Well we have some ideas! We would not call our ideas particularly civil. In this week's episode, allow us to get mad on your behalf.2133advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-get-mystical-about-this-shiz--45230187f0c8a269-7666-46c7-bf83-bef288c265acThu, 25 Oct 2018 16:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOur first question asks, "I made a close friend online months ago. But my partner has no idea. It's been going on for months. How can I clue my partner in without feeling guilty for hiding it from him?" This episode is a bumpy thrill ride and we've...2093advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gender-is-weird-in-los-angeles--45230095287b6daf-826d-4093-b971-6387ac0d7505Thu, 18 Oct 2018 23:43:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIn this very special episode, we consider how you can best support your non-binary friends. Discussion of pronouns, gender spectrums, and why we let boys run into the street but not girls for some reason. A million thanks to Ian and Maya for guesting!2852advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/drop-a-smoke-bomb-and-run--45230023e9b6cf0f-9cd5-4314-8f71-5c3bd8a6fe6fThu, 11 Oct 2018 20:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week's theme is all about confrontation! Bringing up the thing that's bothering you! Our starting question: "My best friend has been in a long-distance relationship and it's making him SO UNHAPPY. I think they need to break up. Should I say as...1911advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-have-great-hair-your-personality-sucks-i-love-your-shoes--45230056159e6b33-d136-4392-9904-4da4bf905971Thu, 04 Oct 2018 23:51:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt's time for a group activity. The first asker is going on a road trip with old friends and we're fully clenched on her behalf. The second asker's roommate is now dating the annoying dude in her jam band, and it's just the worst. CLARINET!2639advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friends-push-each-other-on-swing-sets--45230122385fa6cd-a406-4de0-98e0-8c0a42af1c82Fri, 28 Sep 2018 20:48:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA concerned listener asks, "My partner is smoking a lot. More than she has before. How do I approach this with her?" In response, Jenn and Trin put their heads together and deduce that weed is funny. Surprise appearance by Dave Matthews! Please note...1692advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/satan-is-coming-to-get-ya--452301511e08707a-e0d2-49be-8e75-752838d67785Thu, 20 Sep 2018 17:33:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis episode is all about BOUNDARIES! How do you quietly back out of a friendship with someone who is asking time you don't have? How do I manage friendship with a somewhat famous person I admire? As a woman, how do you handle having a best friend...2651advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/xoxo-2018--452302040d6b3042-b39b-41cc-a0ce-d5dcfe7d1f2dThu, 13 Sep 2018 23:48:00 +0000Jenn and TrinLive from XOXO Portland! Failed jokes, crowd work, pesky microphone habits--this episode has everything you never asked for. We also managed to give some advice on awkward small talk, making friends at conferences, and finding collaborators on your...2566advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/meatballs-all-the-way-down--45230016a55552f0-4447-4ab1-a5e2-1f08c7c0ce48Thu, 30 Aug 2018 18:35:00 +0000Jenn and TrinDid you know that your friend recites sonnets in their sleep? Or that they take 28 minutes to make a bowel movement? Or that they get hangry when you failed to give them the bananas they require? This is the kind of stuff you'll learn when you take a...1518advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-return-of-toby-diaperman--45230126c4ead969-d258-4fd5-9aaa-5a84feedec76Thu, 23 Aug 2018 16:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I get my friend to stop selling me stuff? What are the best ways to support my pal's comic book shop? Can I spar with my co-worker over Girl Scout cookies? Please note that in spite complaining in this episode, Jenn loves her old Girl Scout...2070advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/come-collect-your-sad-friend--452302092f583dae-adf8-4ce9-9b30-827a633fdfa2Thu, 16 Aug 2018 16:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat's the etiquette for a locked Twitter account? What do I do if my co-worker won't stop requesting to follow me on my private Instagram? Should I do something to intervene when my friend Tweets really sad stuff? In this episode, we dive into the...2289advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/show-me-the-beast--45230103a153d497-ab66-4bdc-8d2c-201fd9162fc9Thu, 09 Aug 2018 17:16:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhen is it time to cut the cord and move on from old friends? And when is time to tie the knot and hang on? These are huge questions that we don't know the answer to! But we do know that your friends need you, and you need your friends. Content...1886advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/oof-my-knees--4523008526aee8d9-20de-4abb-80e6-8d9c76222aefThu, 26 Jul 2018 16:30:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAm I overstepping my bounds if I comment about my friend's health? This episode is all about listening to your doctor, gym etiquette, and sexy hot personal trainers. Content warning for discussions of exercise, obesity, and body image.2263advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/hail-corporate--45230183and we’re here to say
Jeff Bezos sucks in a major way.
That being said, let’s discuss how to be cool to your friends when they aren’t participating in the same protest or boycotts as you are. This episode is about the balance of holding your friends accountable while letting them be imperfect people living in an imperfect society.

Content warning: this episode is all about capitalism, and there's occasional discussion of climate horror. If that's not something you can handle right now, go right to question 2 at 23m22s which is a little lighter! We make fun of Lena Dunham and Ben Affleck a lot.]]>8617c284-7f57-4cbc-9924-4a9f12fece9dThu, 19 Jul 2018 23:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe are Friendshipping and we’re here to say Jeff Bezos sucks in a major way. That being said, let’s discuss how to be cool to your friends when they aren’t participating in the same protest or boycotts as you are. This episode is about the balance...and we’re here to say
Jeff Bezos sucks in a major way.
That being said, let’s discuss how to be cool to your friends when they aren’t participating in the same protest or boycotts as you are. This episode is about the balance of holding your friends accountable while letting them be imperfect people living in an imperfect society.

Content warning: this episode is all about capitalism, and there's occasional discussion of climate horror. If that's not something you can handle right now, go right to question 2 at 23m22s which is a little lighter! We make fun of Lena Dunham and Ben Affleck a lot.]]>2695environment,friendship,self carefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/live-and-nervous-at-the-moxy-hotel--45230114168f2226-ff13-44c4-80cf-25d8127d1805Thu, 12 Jul 2018 19:43:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt's Trin's birthday and it's Friendshipping Live! Raw! Uncut! Sweaty! Listen as we down cocktails and discuss gift-giving etiquette, group plans, and how to change up your social life when you feel like you're a boring person. Hint: you are not...2559advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/concert-etiquette--452301738c57a1c1-820f-4154-9992-af47bec2a6f8Thu, 05 Jul 2018 22:22:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOur askers have questions about going to concerts! One wants to ignore their friends at concerts, and one has a Cool and Famous Friend and doesn't know how to be chill about it. We're deeply sorry to Beatles fans for the entire first two minutes of...2363emo,friendship,jimmy eat world,music,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-an-open-window--45230115ce6f8c77-0a0f-4f80-9b74-7ead72d4b755Thu, 28 Jun 2018 18:09:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIn this episode, we do our best to answer: Uh, is this [interaction/feeling/action] weird? As two weirdos ourselves, allow us to tell you: YOU BET YOUR ASS IT IS! Also keep listening for the third question, which is one of the most challenging...2862advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/punch-you-in-the-mouth-with-facts--45230127ba080ee4-22bc-4610-b8f8-a41929840df3Fri, 22 Jun 2018 16:32:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSometimes we receive questions that are just beyond our ability to answer. That's why this week, our esteemed friends Billie and Kat of the UnLearned Podcast are here to assist with questions about friendship and race. How do I support my PoC friends?...2992advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vegan-dreams--4523019091903e18-6656-4ed8-9383-ab3a2519d4adThu, 14 Jun 2018 21:15:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAn asker wants to know how to better support their spouse who has decided to be become ... oh my good gracious ... a vegan. Here's some tough love from Jenn and Trin, with a side of PLANTS! Yum.2249advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/be-your-own-daddy--452301721174e5a5-eebe-41a0-ade8-5dbf10c36d5bThu, 07 Jun 2018 19:21:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat's a good way to show your friends you're proud of them? Well that's a real sweet question and we've got some ideas! We've also got a wild story about a fake girlfriend that is so good it needs its own Netflix special.2397advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/please-respect-my-bedtime--45230139

Content warning: sex/masturbation mentions in the first few minutes!]]>3565dfd4-df8b-4df3-8aaf-ce316704cc63Thu, 31 May 2018 15:35:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMaintaining friendships once you reach your mid-30s has a few special challenges. Starting with: "My friend doesn't. leave. She insists on extending our hangouts for hours and hours. She's even just spent the night." HAHA WHOA. Let's do this....

Content warning: sex/masturbation mentions in the first few minutes!]]>2385advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/tales-of-coniferous-vegetables--45230137ff507b85-f9dc-43af-97b2-8144be1615e4Thu, 24 May 2018 16:34:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYour friend has taken a new lover, and now you're certain you are being replaced. Youch, that hurts. Have a listen to this episode as we apply some soothing aloe to that sting!3184advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/skiing-and-surfing--45230229Content Warnings:

Death mentions
Drug use discussion
Pornography/masturbation mention
Sexual assault mention

Show Notes

Natasha Richardson is Liam Neeson’s wife and it was rude to call her Liam Neeson’s Wife
Here’s the comic about breakfast: https://medium.com/the-nib/trigger-warning-breakfast-c6cdeec070e6 (sexual assault content)]]>b0846a99-5774-446e-b0ab-3fc19da09fc8Thu, 17 May 2018 14:34:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend had an extreme reaction when I mentioned that I am interested in trying a recreational drug." In this episode, we discuss how you don't have to tell your friends EEEVERYTHING about yourself. In fact: maybe don't! Content Warnings: Death...Content Warnings:

Death mentions
Drug use discussion
Pornography/masturbation mention
Sexual assault mention

Show Notes

Natasha Richardson is Liam Neeson’s wife and it was rude to call her Liam Neeson’s Wife
Here’s the comic about breakfast: https://medium.com/the-nib/trigger-warning-breakfast-c6cdeec070e6 (sexual assault content)]]>1977advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/we-re-all-dumb-here--45230161f773a0dd-1606-41f3-a3ec-89671dcb86fcThu, 03 May 2018 19:46:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week we tackle one of the best questions we’ve ever received: How can I get my friend to stop being so physical and touchy with me? Come for the advice, stay for the surprise fruit delivered to your office! This episode is not sponsored by Edible...2045advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/could-you-show-up-and-not-yell--45230246a8346161-b044-45d9-b894-44bc7ebf00e7Thu, 26 Apr 2018 22:02:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhen is it appropriate to dance my face off? Can I sneak alcohol into a dry reception? It's a wedding episode! Listen as we make a wild attempt to discuss wedding etiquette as a guest, a plus-one, member of the wedding party, AND even part of the...2997advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-will-piss-on-your-sidewalk--45230159b7a9cf79-8b96-47bd-8455-91afbc3fdee3Thu, 19 Apr 2018 18:27:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I want to reconnect with a friend. She's blocked me on Facebook and we haven't talked in years. Where do I begin?" Stop right now, thank you very much. You don't need someone with a human touch. You need Trin and Jenn to come in and yell at the...2659advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jogging-while-wearing-jeans--4523019955961616-22ca-4a8f-8492-f5de065c2ac8Thu, 12 Apr 2018 18:09:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I want to be friends with more men, how can I make that happen?" is our first question. And our second: "My friend is trying to hook me up with a bit of a dud. Do I suck it up and go out?" You can prrrrrobably guess our answer to this but you should...2253advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-doesn-t-matter-what-word-it-is--452301761a38d69d-17e9-4362-b18f-ffb7319e1274Thu, 05 Apr 2018 17:48:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYour buds don’t get a pass to call you whatever words they want. A friend called our first asker a *B Word* (not Butthole), and then alleged that she is “sensitive” for being hurt by it. As you might have guessed, we take issue with this behavior....2400advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-in-doubt-shut-up--45230243
- My friend won't do anything (camping, go to outdoor concerts) where she can't be in full make-up
- My friend Photoshops images of herself online and it weirds me out!
- My friend's diet is completely exhausting

Content warning for mentions of food + disordered eating in the last question.]]>25d163b8-e0a1-4480-a16d-cec555d8f80cThu, 22 Mar 2018 17:18:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week it's all about physical appearances and how that can impact a friendship! Topics include: - My friend won't do anything (camping, go to outdoor concerts) where she can't be in full make-up - My friend Photoshops images of herself online and...
- My friend won't do anything (camping, go to outdoor concerts) where she can't be in full make-up
- My friend Photoshops images of herself online and it weirds me out!
- My friend's diet is completely exhausting

Content warning for mentions of food + disordered eating in the last question.]]>2413advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/damnit-meryl-streep--4523017163ce643a-e324-4b8a-a26d-264755efc6b1Thu, 15 Mar 2018 16:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinListeners sent in some great questions this week that really moved us. "I fucked up ten years ago. I was a teenager. Can I make amends?" and "My friend said something crappy to me a few months ago. It's still bothering me. Should I bring it up now?"...2292advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/putting-the-significant-in-significant-other--45230013f1f1502d-9e9a-4ad6-acb7-9cd1955adbc1Thu, 08 Mar 2018 16:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week's theme is: badness. Bad feelings, bad behavior, the whole deal. Our first question is "I've been unfriended by two people in my life. I've never done them wrong. What's the deal here?" followed by "My boyfriend is dismissive when I tell...2132advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/in-it-for-the-women--452302283d3f09fb-38dc-45e0-8733-dfffc5f132dfThu, 01 Mar 2018 20:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIf you've ever felt jealous of someone else's creative success, this episode will give you an entire THIRTY SECONDS of relief and happiness before you just feel jealous again. Also we start a bloody rivalry with Do By Friday.2524advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/just-full-of-whimsy--45230073ea944bbf-c48f-4219-bf67-6eb62d46afdfThu, 22 Feb 2018 20:36:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHey, Jenn here. I just got off the horn with legal and they advised us against posting this one, but guess what? We're bad to the bone. So enjoy this episode where we answer the most important question of all time: "Should I tell my therapist I smoke...1959advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/feats-of-strength--452302140231342e-e104-4ce6-b432-f1509a0a06e9Thu, 15 Feb 2018 17:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinTo celebrate three years of making this show, your humble narrators discuss their favorite topic: themselves. Trin shares what made her laugh today. Jenn reflects on the glory days. And if you glean any wisdom from this episode, it's purely by accident.1937advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-you-wish-you-were-a-whale--45230170d4cc46be-8bfa-40f1-8814-08fed153a9b6Fri, 09 Feb 2018 00:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener asks, "My friend REALLY unloads on me. The heavy stuff. I'm worried about her! How can I help?" We've got a few ideas! Are they good ideas? Who's to say. At least this episode is funny. Also, Trin's got a new therapist. Content warning for...2400advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/speaking-up-or-shutting-up-when-shit-s-awkward--45230188
Listeners ask:

- My boss wants to be my friend. How do I put distance here?
- My future mother-in-law insists that I call her “mom" and I am not cool with this.
- And the grand finale: I moved away, and my friend ghosted! She may have changed her number! How do I reach out?]]>73e6f1b1-283b-414f-be6d-248f700a795cThu, 01 Feb 2018 20:05:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHoly HECK, we cover miles of territory in this episode. It’s all about speaking up — or deciding not to. Listeners ask: - My boss wants to be my friend. How do I put distance here? - My future mother-in-law insists that I call her “mom" and I am...
Listeners ask:

- My boss wants to be my friend. How do I put distance here?
- My future mother-in-law insists that I call her “mom" and I am not cool with this.
- And the grand finale: I moved away, and my friend ghosted! She may have changed her number! How do I reach out?]]>2378advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-don-t-have-to-be-nice--4523006968acb1c9-4534-49f9-a6f8-229ac1d24931Thu, 25 Jan 2018 15:52:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIn this episode, we discuss how it's possible for you to be both 1) kind and 2) impolite! BELIEVE IT. We also offer some suggestions for dealing with a co-worker who is disruptive in your work space. Oh, and... we formally break up with Trin's...2311advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/give-me-more-than-emojis--4523022000098829-881b-4373-83f6-66987030db55Fri, 19 Jan 2018 22:25:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I'm a touchy kind of person but my friends aren't. How do I approach this without making anyone uncomfortable?" and "I'm in a group text with 14 people I barely know. It's all baby pictures. How do I get out of this politely?" Thank god for Jenn's...2718advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/golden-retrievers-and-how-many-snakes-is-too-many-snakes--45230217a03bb191-b34d-4913-8de6-ddb44a4ab046Thu, 11 Jan 2018 18:37:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt's 2018 and we're backstreets back, ALRIGHT! Miss us? In this episode we tackle "My co-worker is just too OUTRAGEOUSLY FRIENDLY for me" and "When I vent to my friend, she gives me advice and tries to fix everything, even when I specifically ask her...2792advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/maybe-you-re-in-the-wrong-greenhouse--452301475c144d77-68ce-4a01-8ca4-5bc9e1df14d5Thu, 21 Dec 2017 18:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA "cactus friend" is a pal who doesn't need a lot of watering or sunlight to feel loved. Did you know that term? Now you do. We think our friend Kate made it up. In this episode, we kinda-sorta lovingly lecture one of our listeners for maaaybe being...1930advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-getting-crowded-in-here--452302480c7e42a8-265a-4857-86c5-ad3818a2d23bThu, 14 Dec 2017 20:34:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIs it possible to have TOO many friends? WE KNOW this sounds like a humblebrag. We swear it is not. Here's an episode about feeling socially overwhelmed, spreading yourself too thin, and caring for your inner introvert when you would rather throw...2753advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-mistake-did-become-made-by-you--45230227bd4b0858-e459-4eb0-acfb-8a8f4dc50879Fri, 08 Dec 2017 22:57:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I texted about my friend ... TO THAT FRIEND!" and "My two friend groups are fighting. I'm stuck in the middle. Now what?" This episode is all about handling conflict and then moving past it. Also, if you thought the last episode was wackadoodle, hang...2057advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-time-we-discuss-marriage--45230053ac8fb822-ca7c-4b60-8c7a-20aed9f5e4abThu, 30 Nov 2017 18:29:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIs it okay to not allow booze at my wedding? How do I navigate my sister-in-law's nasty divorce? Check out this episode about weddings, marriage, divorce, and toxic family members! This is absolutely the weirdest we have ever been. You know when...2507advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/merry-chrimbus--45230231e545cf9e-8565-4f1f-a7f9-bd8c3337213dThu, 23 Nov 2017 16:32:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe holiday season is upon us and we've all got a bad case of the Travel Butt. This week, we're giving advice about all of our favorite holiday traditions, like decking halls, giving gifts, and running into people who hated you in high school. Trin...2048advice,friendship,holidays,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bitch-i-own-two-swords--45230152
Also, we have two corrections for this episode:

- Steven actually named his brain goblin Vincent, not Victor. He chose the name because “he sounds like a mean gay.”

- Trin in fact owns three swords, not two.]]>0d84dd4b-eb68-4c08-8892-464b52b2a594Thu, 16 Nov 2017 17:46:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I learn to friend again after being betrayed? How can I help my distressed friend who lives far away? Today’s episode is about bad feelings, and naming the mean voice in your head after your least favorite character on the 1990s hit television...
Also, we have two corrections for this episode:

- Steven actually named his brain goblin Vincent, not Victor. He chose the name because “he sounds like a mean gay.”

- Trin in fact owns three swords, not two.]]>1908advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/touched-by-an-angel--4523009436584e37-bae0-45da-a80f-3ab66fd7f555Thu, 09 Nov 2017 17:36:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, we've got two questions about feeling SHUT OUT. If a friend (or a group of friends!) is making you feel like you don't belong, this is the episode for you. Relax your rectums and enjoy this feel-good episode where we discuss Die Hard and...2067advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-little-bit-country-a-little-bit-rock-and-roll--452302521484246b-0bc0-4cc7-a14f-d21846c95a17Thu, 02 Nov 2017 20:01:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"Should I tell my friend to quit smoking?" and "My friend plays video games all. damn. day." This episode is all about that E word: ENABLING--what to do think you may be enabling your friend's habits, for better or for worse! Oh, also, be sure to...2313advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/stop-right-now-thank-you-very-much--45230216b4226057-13aa-4598-8c70-96d05922003bFri, 27 Oct 2017 17:11:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOur first asker wonders how to get closer to a friend who doesn’t want to be alone with them. Another asker seeks advice on confronting a friend repeatedly for a mistake. And finally, in our grand finale, a listener wants to know how to handle group...1907advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/are-you-kitchen-pals-or-are-you-kitchen-friends--45230208a1821ca7-942e-4c2b-9b55-e8d3e93c0c9bThu, 19 Oct 2017 20:41:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIf you see something, say something! Maybe! In this episode we discuss if and when you should tell a friend who is feeling low that you think they oughta go back to therapy. And what about crushes? Do you have to tell a friend if you are having...2299advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-forget-your-bravery-juice--45230186f221d6a5-c4cb-4707-b36a-45b857003fbcThu, 12 Oct 2017 15:20:00 +0000Jenn and TrinPartying, partying, YEAH! This week, we got a question from a listener who says they're just bad at attending parties. Luckily we've got a whole slew of tips for surviving a crowded social gathering where you don't know anyone. Discussion includes how...1809advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ironforge-long-has-it-been--45230177af3b0eab-c0a9-4bf8-ae23-c643ad42cb26Thu, 05 Oct 2017 20:43:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're Jenn and Trin and we're here to say: you do not have to be nice and giving tuh-day. You don't have to do crappy favors for friends all the time. And you don't have to forgive people who wrong ya. In this episode, we answer: "I don't want to...1956advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/romantically-interested-in-your-gums--45230145c502961b-ee41-44fb-bc29-1852d8ad14ddThu, 28 Sep 2017 20:02:00 +0000Jenn and TrinFriends, we've uncovered something very interesting: dentists love Trin. DENTISTS LOVE TRIN. If you don't want to hear about teeth and how much fun Trin has at her dental cleaning appointments, skip ahead to 7:15 because our two actual topics this...1809advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-don-t-have-to-hang-out-with-tom-felton--45230080f3758e30-380a-4773-b507-9469a32a5ceaThu, 21 Sep 2017 17:26:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHey everyone, Jenn and Trin here, just a coupla podcast bad boys giving advice that's so dangerous and naughty you can't bring it home to mommy. We start off by offering survival tips for attending a bachelor party when you are broke. It involves our...1805advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/this-is-your-brain-on-drugs-this-is-your-brain-on-horny--452302509fc3eb49-695d-417f-affe-02c63e7e0cd9Thu, 14 Sep 2017 19:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou'll need SPF 150 for this red-hot episode. Our first asker wants to know what to do when you've got a "good friend" who is sexist. As you can imagine, we did not hold back! We got mad! We're still mad! Then we uncovered some new sexy territory...1982advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-can-t-get-into-this-bathtub-with-me--452302100e7848ae-e7a4-432f-b58d-48fae629d2f9Thu, 07 Sep 2017 20:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou’ve got 99 problems and your friend asking to come over to your house everyday is all of them. In this episode, we discuss the polite-but-firm way to say “no thanks, I don’t want company tonight.” To practice, Jenn attempts to turn down Trin's...2619advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-roommate-drama-special-do-you-know-where-your-mops-are--45230232d20ce788-f079-4d6f-98f8-c0fe77c9ab30Thu, 31 Aug 2017 16:12:00 +0000Jenn and TrinLil pop quiz for all you roommates out there. When was the last time you swept the kitchen floor? How about cleaned the toilet? Do you even know HOW to clean the toilet? BAM, you’re on notice. In this episode we discuss living dynamics, roommate...1908advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-you-didn-t-get-your-plant--452302540e2f21fe-49cc-4f67-8d93-6f4f8698bdaeFri, 25 Aug 2017 15:15:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I helped my friend get a great job. Now, they're not doing well at this job and I am pissed about it." Whoa! Okay. This episode is about helping your friends, but also butting out. Helping them...to a certain extent. You know there's only so much you...2493advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sucky-eel-friends-and-midwestern-dads--45230267aae2099f-7b1e-4bf9-a764-e31226dbfb6eFri, 18 Aug 2017 16:47:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I feel like I'm a doormat. How can I stick up for myself to my friends?" Take it from Book 1 Neville Longbottom, this isn't easy to do. This week, we discuss voicing your needs and boundaries. And if your friends continually ignore those boundaries,...2572advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/use-your-freaking-words--45230078b22bf2b1-741c-4caa-82fb-7eb2a46d0302Thu, 10 Aug 2017 16:27:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"How do I make my friends feel heard? What are some empathic words I can use?" Hey, talking clearly and directly about your feelings is difficult. Asking your friends about THEIR feelings is difficult, too! In this episode we discuss how language,...1575advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/if-i-delete-that-will-they-notice--452300986c61da2b-a7f9-4190-b85d-6ac61299425eThu, 03 Aug 2017 19:05:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I was shamed on Facebook for de-friending someone!" and "My friend leaves WAY too many comments on my posts." This week, we tackle these excellent questions about doing friendship on the world wide web, the final frontier. And uh, not to sound too...1870advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/save-the-day-save-the-world-the-wonder-woman-episode--452301362053ee1c-df93-4048-9ae1-6c71c9f884bcThu, 27 Jul 2017 21:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOur gushing review of the new Wonder Woman movie and the friendships it celebrates. Steve Trevor and consent, Etta Candy and female friendship, Ben Affleck barely appearing -- this movie rocked our ass. Diana will fight for those who cannot fight for...2640advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/doing-the-most-good-and-the-least-bad--4523019729dd8f4b-4c46-449a-bb84-15ff2ba518acThu, 20 Jul 2017 19:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe here at Friendshipping, LLC accept all political views, unless your political view is shitty. This episode is about choosing to accept your friends in an imperfect capitalist society. Starting with: "So my friend eats at Chick-Fil-A..." CW:...1973advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/know-your-angles--452301305a15c680-f8f4-4158-830b-d6cc64ed4eb6Thu, 06 Jul 2017 19:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinFind out how Trin supports the long distance friends she never sees and when Jenn realized she was becoming a capital-a Adult. In this light-hearted ding dong of an episode, we interview each other about our personalities, relationships, the smell of...1622advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/highway-to-the-friend-zone--452300287ac01c74-c98e-4ac9-ae5d-888f1e768d40Thu, 29 Jun 2017 17:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe got a great question from a student at university (that means college) about taking your friendships to the NEXT LEVEL. Maybe you've got a dozen acquaintances (all over campus, at your work place, whatever) but you're looking for something more...1574advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/get-some-plants-and-play-the-sims--452302248d590aff-eaa1-48e6-8dbe-9397151c731cThu, 22 Jun 2017 17:05:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAre you constantly worrying about your friend's bad life decisions? Always helping your pals move apartments? Giving rides to the airport? Organizing their schedule? Providing wisdom and advice? If you said YES to one or more of these questions, UH...2125advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-problematic-and-so-are-you--4523011682680eae-d449-4d70-94eb-b086f4906c88Thu, 15 Jun 2017 21:58:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSo I made a sexist crack, and I feel bad about it. Now what? Can I apologize? Even though it happened months ago? How do I move forward? Am I bad? Am I okay? Am I doomed? Can I see Wonder Woman again? Is Chris Pine moving up on the top Hot Chris...1879advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-are-you-crying-in-this-restaurant--45230189b7fe7a66-d667-4f99-8db1-909bca8888b4Thu, 08 Jun 2017 18:35:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOne time Connor Oberst emailed Trin at 2:00 AM and you have to listen to find out why. Or you can listen for the actual advice, which is about handling awkward, I-don't-want-to-talk-about-this conversations with friends. Like when your pal wants to...1802advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-you-have-irreconcilable-differences-and-five-extra-bones--45230185d8125f01-475a-4753-8849-872f45ed2e55Thu, 01 Jun 2017 21:22:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow to handle a messy friend break-up and keep your cool when you suspect someone is talkin' shit. This episode is all about zooming down the high road and being the bigger person. Even bigger than James Comey! Content warning for banter involving...2302advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/so-many-apples-tall--452302356cc5302d-20e7-4a05-9d68-6c586cdb6dc8Thu, 25 May 2017 17:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinListeners ask,"How do I introduce the person I'm dating to my friend group?" and "Is it going to be weird to bring my friend to a family wedding?" This episode is all about dating, friends, feeling weird, and wedding etiquette! We also try to wrap our...2074advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-friendship-awakens--452302127e922b8c-cfe9-4fcf-a5a8-1a60877e62edThu, 18 May 2017 17:17:00 +0000Jenn and TrinFriendship is the foundation of Star Wars, so we allowed ourselves an episode to get into the significance of Rey's first desert scene, Finn and his handholding, Han Solo being A Good Older Dude, why BB8 is definitely a Slytherin, and finally... the...1942advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/take-your-friends-to-a-loud-eater-s-club--452301587cf34e8e-6afb-4239-94ae-684ca455cc86Thu, 11 May 2017 17:56:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow much advice can we pack into one episode? LET'S FIND OUT! We tackle a whole slew of questions that are big and small, important and silly. "How do I take a compliment?" and "My friend is lying about having PTSD!" and "Can I get my friend to stop...2020advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ask-me-about-my-pocket-nuts--45230108aeae894b-49fe-45a1-88be-0e6a90fd323aThu, 04 May 2017 21:55:00 +0000Jenn and TrinListeners ask: "I want to have a birthday party with booze. Can I invite my friend who doesn't drink?" and "I'm a new baby vegan. What's the protocol with friend groups? Do I bring my own food to potlucks?" Jenn sort of daydreams about vegetables for...2516advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/meet-our-twins-dave-and-gary--452302497629bb6b-381d-4c13-a2af-c8d029c91b3dThu, 27 Apr 2017 17:54:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week we got an awesome and tough question that really tested us: "My friend's kid is turning into a jerk. Do I speak up?" We have some thoughts on how to handle little Dave and little Gary, but if you decided to rocket to the moon instead of...2331advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/all-about-that-dip-baby--4523026401041da0-6604-4bc3-b1f4-d554e0a77259Thu, 20 Apr 2017 16:20:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week we tackle the worldwide phenomena known as "sports" and discover that sports are basically D&D in disguise. Our first question is: "I don't care about sports but my friends really do. Do I need to make myself care to hang out with them?" And...1840advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bean-mush--45230203f66212eb-188e-4b61-9d1e-1924c2851c2cThu, 13 Apr 2017 23:39:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou've probably got a friend in need. A friend who is struggling. You do! In this episode we offer some small, everyday things you can do to help -- things that don't cost a ton of time, energy, or money. So have a listen, help your sad pal, and STAY...2183advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/joe-biden-s-face-and-a-special-live-episode--45230150088e7ce5-4fb7-4fef-b403-0aa22931d386Thu, 06 Apr 2017 21:32:00 +0000Jenn and TrinJenn's had the flu all week, so while she's been chugging Pedialyte and disinfecting her doorknobs, Trin was kind enough to edit our live episode from Very Very Fun Day. For this one we held a workshop: How Not To Be A Jerk About Politics. This is...2422advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-might-be-an-asshole-but-you-re-not-doomed--452302561219fd62-f65b-4153-828a-3410df30f739Thu, 30 Mar 2017 18:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinPobody's nerfect! We share some of our significant fuck ups, the moments when we were the assholes in a friendship. Let's improve together! We have faith that even the most egregious assholes, like the anonymous Twitter eggs with naked anime avatars,...3013advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dust-that-can-know-itself--45230174db842aab-14bd-4413-b1b6-e0c45d84fc3fThu, 23 Mar 2017 15:59:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHey! This is the most intense, honest episode we've ever done! We interviewed each other and got into our struggles with self-worth, insecurities, some memories from childhood, and going to therapy. There's laughter, there's darkness, there's a bit...3097advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/manic-pixie-dream-cheetos--45230175d36c2a1e-0628-4506-bc86-c7928aade6c3Thu, 16 Mar 2017 18:29:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend is a serial dater and he thinks he is in love with every woman he goes on a date with." How do you tell him he's *probably* not? DO YOU EVEN? We're back after a brief hiatus to bring you some sexy advice. Also, Jenn missed Trin so much that...1764advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/work-work-work-work-work-work--4523022184dc034b-2ea1-475b-9c93-416eb4dadd43Fri, 24 Feb 2017 00:25:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBusiness business BUSINESS! Step right up for business! This episode is about working and hiring your friends. We start with the question, "I asked a friend to design a logo for me. It's terrible. What do I do now?" We'll help you out with this, but...1443advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-doing-the-right-thing-with-your-face--45230233344dbfcf-cae4-4d54-8922-bfb375c7b50cThu, 16 Feb 2017 23:34:00 +0000Jenn and TrinDo you have a friend who makes you feel forgotten? On the regular? Whaaaat if you have a friend who nitpicks things about you, like your appearance? Well we sure hope that's not the case! But if it IS! Listen to this! We clawed our way through many...2199advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/butthole-tendencies--45230275"I’m part of a marginalized community. I’ve had people attempt to compliment me in a manner that is either inappropriate or downright offensive to my community. How can I communicate this?" (P.S. We had to re-upload this episode because the file got all bungled up. Sorry everyone!)]]>f69edd5e-e1ec-415c-944e-3efabaf63c87Fri, 10 Feb 2017 04:47:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIf you thought LAST week was a rollercoaster, well, get ready for this one. We answer the question: "I’m part of a marginalized community. I’ve had people attempt to compliment me in a manner that is either inappropriate or downright offensive to my..."I’m part of a marginalized community. I’ve had people attempt to compliment me in a manner that is either inappropriate or downright offensive to my community. How can I communicate this?" (P.S. We had to re-upload this episode because the file got all bungled up. Sorry everyone!)]]>2501advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/baby-s-first-outrage--45230153cba950f1-6de8-4c94-b365-879a065f5552Thu, 02 Feb 2017 19:51:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAn episode about being new to the fight! We answer, "How can I stay woke enough for my friends?" and "My friend can't turn off the politics and it's bringing me down, what now?" How to turn your discomfort into action, handle enragement fatigue,...1886advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/not-to-pry-but--45230200357653d9-e220-4827-8dcb-4d129fdcf90fThu, 26 Jan 2017 17:41:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou want to know what the hell is going on in your friend's life, BUT you definitely don't want to pry or make them uncomfortable. What do? Also, Jenn still has a head cold and Trin still has a screaming robot.1626advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/silly-garbage-people--452301953301efa7-a05d-4d5e-988f-ccf34269d5ccThu, 19 Jan 2017 20:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinGive us your hand, and let us go on a journey...a long journey....into YOURSELF! Sorry, that was weird. Basically this episode is all about introspection and meta-thinking and examining your own behavior. We answer three (three!) questions this time,...2323advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-width-depth-length-and-the-girth-of-a-friendship--452302420a6882d8-1dc0-4170-a37e-e3d6c0315de4Fri, 13 Jan 2017 01:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinALRIGHT, we went for it. This episode is about coping with the end of a friendship. You may not want to close the door, but it could just be friggin' time. This is all about what to do, what the heck not to do, how to write therapeutic letters, how to...1606advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/silver-medals-and-hulk-hogan--4523024570c3b4f7-05bc-4e28-ad5b-737ac2b2d383Thu, 05 Jan 2017 19:52:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHave you ever felt like a runner-up in a friendship? Second best? Not good enough for your own pal? We discuss "ranking systems" in relationships. Trin invents a name and rich backstory for one of our askers. Hang in there, Clarisse.1800advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/howdy-partners--452302018bc69af0-dc35-4958-a260-4bfe9453a609Fri, 30 Dec 2016 22:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt's the taint of the year and we're back with advice! This one's all about friendship as it relates to romantic partners. "My girlfriend is better to her friends than they are to her!" and "I've been seeing this guy for a few months. We're in dating...1627advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/engage-hobbit-mode--452301342eb5c631-cadd-4026-87fa-e903b3ad334cThu, 22 Dec 2016 21:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week we get into doing friendship while you're depressed. Should you muscle through and hang out with friends, or go into Hobbit Mode? We suggest BOTH! Also, Jenn has a head cold that is just bad. So bad! It's okay to laugh at her pain.1386advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trolls-and-email-etiquette--4523024706778631-407b-4277-9b77-540cc96b3d61Thu, 15 Dec 2016 16:52:00 +0000Jenn and TrinNot to be all braggy, but this might be our best episode. Ever? Yep. It's full of sound advice for handling friends who show thoughtless Internet behavior on Twitter and email. And a surprise twist: Trin can do a celebrity impression that she's just...1670advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ghost-stories-and-a-communication-breakdown--4523023696391793-5d98-4371-913d-812fd1099398Fri, 09 Dec 2016 01:21:00 +0000Jenn and TrinGhosting is when a friend just, POOF, disappears! And neglects your friendship. Without explanation! It's EXTREMELY COMMON and it extremely sucks. So what do you do then? Call? Write another email? Send a muffin basket and demand an explanation?...1546advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/one-out-of-ten-weird--452301185b1d6c23-17de-4913-8c9c-0e7693c4cb03Thu, 01 Dec 2016 18:30:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I connect with my older sister? Should I try to hang out with my cool cousin even though our families aren't close? A timely episode for the holidays--this one's all about doing friendship (or not) with family members. Also, Trin drops some...1502advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/at-least-oprah-s-getting-married-also-pal-atics--45230283https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xx3nTsFJEQE]]>a11a883d-f5cd-4b78-9dcc-5d3d89c332efThu, 17 Nov 2016 21:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe election's done and we're all coping with bad, dark feelings. Here's our attempt to provide you with some coping mechanisms so you get help yourself first and then get your ass out of bed to get to work to help your community. If nothing else,...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xx3nTsFJEQE]]>1172advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-huge-nerd--45230299CW: alcohol, brief sex mention, brief violence mention.]]>abb444db-54ca-48d4-87f3-2838469b6b2cThu, 10 Nov 2016 20:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou're a nerd. Your friends are nerds. But are you good at being a nerd, or do you need a brush up? This week, we discuss making your friends watch Stranger Things, and being nice to jocks. We also get slowly drunk throughout the episode because the...CW: alcohol, brief sex mention, brief violence mention.]]>1795advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/different-stokes-for-different-frolks--45230223682db70d-03cd-4ac4-9c9f-d3a36cf21076Fri, 04 Nov 2016 17:34:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe blinding relief of finishing our Kickstarter campaign must've been hitting us hard, because this episode is JAM PACKED with goofs, chortles, and belittling Ringo Starr. We did manage to give out some practical advice, including "how to befriend...1432advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/red-flags-negging-and-james-eat-world--45230238442c7d05-cb99-4406-9103-88301c8fc589Tue, 25 Oct 2016 18:47:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week a listener asks, "I'm distancing myself from a toxic friend. What are some red flags I should look out for in the future?" We list some common iffy behaviors and define negging, which was oddly cathartic. Sillies abound.1602advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-taco-juice-is-in-your-hand--45230277ac66d6e9-9ee4-4396-a84d-56667912006fThu, 20 Oct 2016 17:14:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis episode was recorded live with an adorable audience at NerdCon! Jenn may have been hungover but that didn't stop us from dropping knowledge all over Minneapolis. Questions included, "How do I talk to my friends about my illness?" and, "I have a...3029advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/cut-my-life-into-pieces-this-is-my-book-report--4523020734f47516-c514-46fa-bbb7-eaf933c729eaWed, 12 Oct 2016 18:40:00 +0000Jenn and TrinLook, we talk about emotions and empathy and social cues a lot on this here podcast. It's kind of our thing! But we're overdue in addressing that some people? Some people are emotionless Vulcans and that's just fine, too. We also address the question,...1327advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-personal-bubble-of-your-very-own--45230215ecabfdb3-d073-4d84-93d0-a0d2b7c44b5bThu, 06 Oct 2016 12:31:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA listener sent in a really important personal question this week: How do I deal with a friend who is too physically touchy-feely for me?1522advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/kickstarter-joy-and-winter-squash--4523026212da0cb0-253f-479c-a8e6-0ba567dfdc7fThu, 29 Sep 2016 18:53:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA very loopy episode as we celebrate our Kickstarter project, and then dive into this strange concept known as: feeling joy. Discussion topics include: the time Trin met Will Ferrell while he was wearing sweatpants; what Jenn says to her dog every...791advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/but-my-stories-are-on--452302718dc0f5a5-0a77-4c9c-9bf4-ee288ad89baeThu, 22 Sep 2016 22:51:00 +0000Jenn and TrinUncle Joseph Biden sent us a fax in the middle of the night begging us to do an episode about the election. We never turn down urgent requests from Washington so here we go: "How do you debate politics with friends?" and, gulp, "My friend supports...1468advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/life-rafts-and-water-noodles--452301327eba35ab-28de-4214-b814-42f221888155Wed, 14 Sep 2016 15:52:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA discussion of when your support network of friends kind of, um, won't stop trying to support you even if you don't really want their support. We start with the question, "I'm a very private person. How can I tell my friends that I don't want to talk...1312advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-friends-or-not-in-geek-spaces--45230178
A huge, tremendous thank you to our panelists Maya, Khahil, and Jamie for sharing their wisdom.]]>dbdcc192-5df5-42c1-aed6-fc616c5583efThu, 08 Sep 2016 19:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA very special episode that isn't an episode at all, actually. Got ya. This is our live audio recording from our Making Friends in Geek Spaces panel. We also gave an exciting announcement...and that announcement is a Kickstarter project. We're doing a...
A huge, tremendous thank you to our panelists Maya, Khahil, and Jamie for sharing their wisdom.]]>3385advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/broshipping--45230202f9794772-8fd4-4211-81bd-7e82d89d6f27Thu, 01 Sep 2016 17:53:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBill and Steven guest host while Jenn and Trin are out on assignment. They're men! What? Crazy. It turns out being men in friendships isn't all that different than being any other gender!2020advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/don-t-tweet-the-thing--45230164396268b3-9239-4ad2-9dc3-9a2485c3831eThu, 25 Aug 2016 20:04:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSay you're throwing a party but you maaaaybe don't want to invite every single person you know. Hey, that's fair. Just don't brag about it all over Facebook. This week we discuss party invitation etiquette, especially as it relates to social media.1368advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-ding-ding-broke--452302689cf68f72-ffae-4dfb-983f-8c0fc0c7a212Thu, 18 Aug 2016 17:46:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend got an awful, obscene tattoo" and other bad decisions your friends make. Also, Jenn finds a slide whistle. (Content warning: lots of swearing, brief mention of rape and homophobia.)1820advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-want-attention--45230284ebac8129-a9a6-434f-b4f2-ac91a81bddd6Thu, 11 Aug 2016 20:22:00 +0000Jenn and TrinATTENTION: lots of people want it, and not everyone can give it to you. What should you do when your friend ignores you for their boo? How do you keep from feeling discarded? Ughhh this sucks, man.1256advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/gams-up-to-there--4523023051608ba1-fc0d-4f99-96fe-cfe3765ef617Thu, 14 Jul 2016 16:06:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"How do I compliment my friends when they post sexy selfies?" and "Can I tell my friend her sibling is hot?" We cover lots of new territory in this episode and yell NO way more than usual. Enjoy. Oh, have a content warning: mention of masturbation and...1234advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/let-s-get-involved--452301929f8b23c9-bc85-44d5-bb25-879c28a0476dThu, 07 Jul 2016 16:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I make new friends? Why am I so bad at small talk? Can I learn to carry a conversation as well as NPR's Terry Gross? And other concerns.1483advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-birthday-jenn--45230142eaff59fb-fb3b-45be-afce-108462ab2648Wed, 22 Jun 2016 19:46:00 +0000Jenn and TrinToday is Jenn's birthday and I, Trin, recorded an episode about it. Posting episodes and writing summaries is Jenn's job and honestly it's really hard227advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/give-hermione-a-heads-up--45230253219f6a86-ab00-4762-ae51-308112058c5bWed, 15 Jun 2016 17:56:00 +0000Jenn and TrinNew this week: we rapid-answer a range of questions, including, "Does my husband need friends?" and "Is it okay to buy the same clothing item as a friend?" and most importantly of all, "Should Trin buy us matching pajamas?"1302advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-with-exes--452302829ee9d740-c7a3-4e72-a937-912140b3d0e3Wed, 08 Jun 2016 20:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSome tips for gently rebuilding a friendship with your ex or exes. Or maybe deciding not to do that after all because they left with your suitcase full of cash. Don't you hate it when that happens!1900advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/make-harvey-a-real-boy--452302195fc5f19c-7de8-4680-8e4f-105c6ffd43eeThu, 02 Jun 2016 20:16:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"I do freelance favors for friends and colleagues. Am I being used?" and "Am I obligated to promote all of my friends' Kickstarter projects?" If you've ever asked anyone to Tweet about your Kickstarter project, have a listen to this.1412advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/community-event-management-from-two-introverts--45230272
Links mentioned in this episode:
Uplift Together]]>42dbd51b-8952-4ba8-8d0d-1a6c3182bd59Wed, 25 May 2016 16:15:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhen your friends RSVP to your thing but then don't show up. Youch! Links mentioned in this episode: Uplift Together
Links mentioned in this episode:
Uplift Together]]>1791advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/your-crush-probably-isn-t-that-big-of-a-deal--452301624bbecaeb-5c9f-40b3-bab3-fe5d20d67ecdWed, 11 May 2016 18:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt's 2016 and people still wonder, "Can Dudes and Ladies ever just be friends without crushing?" Holy dang, let's get into it!1407advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/there-has-been-no-giggling--45230156b12bfb37-8bcc-4a3a-9d65-b371af5cd88cThu, 05 May 2016 19:54:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My long distance friend has stopped answering my texts" and "I'm sick of driving my friend everywhere." An episode about resentment and the hard truth of long distance friendships. Things do get a little heavy, so we pause between questions for a...1359advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/you-re-not-his-jedi-master--45230121b16c2ac0-0829-491c-bc0c-78788f196b3aThu, 28 Apr 2016 18:15:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"My friend is stagnating professionally - how can I push him with love?" and "My friend cheated. Do I tell her boyfriend?" In this episode we discuss when intervene with your friends and when to back the heck off.1422advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/pax-pep--45230131dac3b5b2-fbdf-48d0-b389-348ed8ee4380Thu, 21 Apr 2016 20:45:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA short, special episode about PAX! Where we'll be, what we're doing, and how we'll cope with stress!773advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/silent-but-deadly--4523020662433c41-4862-448a-b57f-48b29571dddcWed, 30 Mar 2016 20:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAll about handling friends who are ignoring you. Giving you the silent treatment. The COLD SHOULDER. Brrr.1176advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-ve-been-getting-more-fiber--45230270
**Links mentioned in this episode:**

[CaptainAwkward.com][1]




[Twitch.tv/Friendshipping][2]


[1]: http://www.captainawkward.com
[2]: http://twitch.tv/friendshipping]]>98ecaa08-7cdd-41d6-a858-0da208338e23Wed, 23 Mar 2016 17:22:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA discussion about peer pressure based around two questions: "My friend is badgering me about getting a boyfriend" and "My friend is continually telling me to go to therapy. I don't know that it's for me." Content warning: depression, therapy, brief...
**Links mentioned in this episode:**

[CaptainAwkward.com][1]




[Twitch.tv/Friendshipping][2]


[1]: http://www.captainawkward.com
[2]: http://twitch.tv/friendshipping]]>1327advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/steal-the-declaration-of-independence--4523027946d59885-1b49-437f-8f47-084631e913bcWed, 16 Mar 2016 20:27:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, we discuss dealing with friends who are problematic and say shitty things!1307advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-can-buy-my-own-dang-shirts--45230251ab449fc3-0b7a-47ba-903e-a904f4c1bc96Thu, 10 Mar 2016 22:48:00 +0000Jenn and TrinPet sitting. Giving rides to the airport. Moving furniture. Friends help one another! But let's examine that doing favors can get complex. There's a fine line between doing something nice and obligating someone to thank you. Dun dun dun.1456advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/one-big-ridiculous-demand--4523026914ecacd4-1814-459a-84d1-311fd1b23fe6Thu, 03 Mar 2016 21:24:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do you turn a frenemy into a real friend? When is a frenemy relationship too toxic? Wait, WHAT EVEN IS A FRENEMY? Let's get into it.1242advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-unfairness-of-life--45230259095f867f-57bc-4fef-9a8e-a37450c77756Thu, 25 Feb 2016 20:49:00 +0000Jenn and TrinI messed up, but it wasn't my fault! What to do when you didn't do anything wrong but it's up to you to fix it anyway. TW: casual discussion of death, sex mentions.1157advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/it-s-not-dumb-to-feel-sad--452302737138de31-0332-4641-b6d4-2e1bd49813b6Thu, 11 Feb 2016 18:55:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHere are some thoughts about being good to yourself and your friends while Valentine's Day celebrations are shoved down your gullet. [Please note that this episode is quite vulgar.]810advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/happy-friendship-day--452302410fe05d9b-eb44-4707-b399-8cc99d10c0ebThu, 04 Feb 2016 23:26:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe just found out that today is Friendship Day, so here's a list of activities that are better with friends.404advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/emotional-dumping-ground-and-sexual-pooping--45230205e9bbc1df-87d3-4b3e-84f9-54f31c23a371Thu, 04 Feb 2016 17:42:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBeing roped into a "third date" conversation when you're really on a *first* date is awkward as heck. Here's how to adjust, and measure how close you are with your friends & acquaintances.1387advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dealing-with-petty-feelings-and-69-dresses--45230154e1d8d968-f2f1-42a7-9cb9-8f2cca1291fbThu, 28 Jan 2016 19:35:00 +0000Jenn and TrinOur topic this week: jealousy! If you've ever harbored envious feelings toward a friend's successes (and you definitely have), this is the episode for you.1340advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fuck-it-someone-else-do-this--452302889c627a49-1b32-4880-9e3a-f27ea4a3094bMon, 18 Jan 2016 21:55:00 +0000Jenn and TrinBeing the "planner" or the "parent" of the friend group can get exhausting. Even worse: if your friends bail on your plans constantly! BUT WAIT: we've still got sympathy for those who bail.1270advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/trinstagram-and-jennternet--452302966a121657-aab8-41fb-a42e-30e14791c836Thu, 07 Jan 2016 23:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe Internet can be a roaring dumpster fire of negativity. It's also where we personally meet new people and make our friends feel loved. In this episode, we tackle moments of friendship that are made possible through Instagram, Twitter, and Tumblr....1650advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/one-sink-fire-is-funny--452302554b1de841-ee1e-4e52-8acf-e4ec0de1ff99Thu, 24 Dec 2015 20:22:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, we discuss tactics for doing a very awkward, difficult thing: confronting your friends when they embarrass you. "My friend gets way too drunk at parties" & "A friend keeps bringing up a private fact about me in groups" are the jump-off points.1209advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/when-your-friend-is-hagrid--45230266c826359e-550c-4130-9991-ab24fd1da337Thu, 17 Dec 2015 19:41:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe've gotten this question a few different times: what do I do if my friend has a blindspot when it comes to how badly behaved her dog is?!1509advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-art-of-apologizing--452302863cdfe1b7-beed-4bde-a3e9-9e62fe362838Thu, 10 Dec 2015 20:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinYou done fucked up. We all have! Here's how to make the necessary apology, without asking for a reward in return.1131advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-holiday-episode-be-the-molly-weasley-you-want-to-see-in-the-world--452302266faee9b6-0ce4-4cec-9ad3-7fb142e5f9f8Wed, 25 Nov 2015 19:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe holidays can be fun and relaxing! And maybe also: not relaxing, expensive, cold, tedious, stressful, and full of family complications. Here's how to not be an asshole this time of year.1426advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thanks-for-being-wrong--452300093e4fb878-5d6d-4178-9f32-322eddf88b0eFri, 13 Nov 2015 18:45:00 +0000Jenn and TrinImprovising what to do when your friends are just being incorrect dinguses.525advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/nicki-minaj-s-instagram--4523019801a2949a-c2bc-47cc-b2fb-bdcd91acfa6eThu, 05 Nov 2015 19:37:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend downplays her accomplishments constantly. She lacks confidence, and she has no idea how cool and smart she is. Aarghh!!1086advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/put-this-in-your-moleskine-journal--45230257Some friends will be bad influences on you -- they'll turn you into a version of yourself you don't really like. And then it's time for some tough love. (Side note: the end of this episode includes lots non-spoilerly Star Wars excitement.)]]>0dbe156e-43f6-4876-8f3c-5009728b86b6Thu, 29 Oct 2015 18:07:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe mean girls episode. Some friends will be bad influences on you -- they'll turn you into a version of yourself you don't really like. And then it's time for some tough love. (Side note: the end of this episode includes lots non-spoilerly Star Wars...Some friends will be bad influences on you -- they'll turn you into a version of yourself you don't really like. And then it's time for some tough love. (Side note: the end of this episode includes lots non-spoilerly Star Wars excitement.)]]>1218advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/my-feet-hurt-and-i-don-t-want-to-go-to-the-zoo--45230300
Jenn & Trin improvise a few scenes: Jenn is an inflexible traveler tired enough to sleep on a bench, and Trin is her friend-dad.]]>0241a9a8-6377-4bbf-8e1b-d48960a8664dThu, 22 Oct 2015 16:25:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIt IS possible to travel in a group without wanting to kill everyone! Jenn & Trin improvise a few scenes: Jenn is an inflexible traveler tired enough to sleep on a bench, and Trin is her friend-dad.
Jenn & Trin improvise a few scenes: Jenn is an inflexible traveler tired enough to sleep on a bench, and Trin is her friend-dad.]]>1277advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/resting-sadness-face--45230213"One friend in my social circle is very quiet and sulky. Should I discourage her from coming out with us?"]]>49121ee1-2370-4da6-a1e1-9873b184703cThu, 15 Oct 2015 15:52:00 +0000Jenn and Trin"When I plan an activity and don't invite the entire group, inevitably someone always feels left out or upset. How can I avoid hurting people's feelings?‎" And "One friend in my social circle is very quiet and sulky. Should I discourage her from..."One friend in my social circle is very quiet and sulky. Should I discourage her from coming out with us?"]]>963advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendship-with-boundaries--452302222af7a274-7475-4d79-a1a3-5edf26db67afThu, 08 Oct 2015 18:01:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat to do when someone considers you a friend and the feeling is juuust not mutual. All about tricky relationships, especially in a work or convention setting.1251advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/apology-not-accepted--452301601ea1239d-5fb5-477a-9471-281eabac047eFri, 02 Oct 2015 22:53:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA list of things you don't have to apologize for. A short episode because Trin has the sniffles.489advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/singin-the-i-feel-left-out-blues--45230148f0f48b80-2323-4a3e-a9b0-42b2bd036aa7Thu, 24 Sep 2015 16:21:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSome advice in advocating for yourself when you feel left out in your own group of friends!1064advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/fellowshipping-of-the-ring--45230274b3fb6620-17bc-4a53-8bc7-07e73958444cThu, 17 Sep 2015 18:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, Jenn and Trin analyze the friendships in Fellowship of the Ring and learn some lessons from Leggles and the gang.2110advice,friendship,self-care,self-helpfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/being-the-best-wingman--45230287
Mentioned in this episode: Damsels and Distress Panel at PAX 2015.]]>25d8dffc-e640-4e6b-b339-4d1733644b63Thu, 10 Sep 2015 18:16:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe're back from hiatus to tackle two relationship-y questions. "I've got a single friend who doesn't want to be single. I want to help!" vs. "I'm single and my friend keeps trying to hook me up." Mentioned in this episode: Damsels and Distress Panel...
Mentioned in this episode: Damsels and Distress Panel at PAX 2015.]]>1235advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jenn-gets-a-tattoo--452302609edeace0-8fbc-4db3-8d7f-dab0e08de6c6Thu, 20 Aug 2015 18:54:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThis week, Trin is invited along to witness Jenn's first tattoo! Listen as we grasp for metaphors to link friendship and getting a tattoo.895friendship,self care,self help,tattootruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/preview-jenn-s-tattoo--452302803c221f06-fe14-48f7-bbc5-c60fe0719c13Fri, 14 Aug 2015 18:18:00 +0000Jenn and TrinTrin tries to distract Jenn from the tattoo needle by asking her questions from friends on Twitter. Full episode posted next Thursday!29pizzafalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jealousy-perception-a-friendship-workshop--4523019157760644-364f-4e43-a42e-65abd7efdf96Thu, 13 Aug 2015 16:49:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe address the question, "How do I handle feeling jealous of other friendships?" Includes the first-ever Friendship Workshop to sharpen your skills! Sit your ass down, class is now in session.1158advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bearing-the-burdens-a-bummer-of-an-episode--45230305
Mentioned in this episode:
- "I Was a Teenage Sexist" by Jenn Frank]]>55f51fcd-9ffb-4edd-ae3c-f5bfad4c2b4dThu, 06 Aug 2015 16:37:00 +0000Jenn and TrinIf you've got a negative friend who dumps on you all the time, this is the episode for you. We also tackle a difficult topic: "I'm friends with a woman who says she hates women!" Mentioned in this episode: - "I Was a Teenage Sexist" by Jenn Frank
Mentioned in this episode:
- "I Was a Teenage Sexist" by Jenn Frank]]>1242advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/identifying-your-friends--45230165- Is becoming a successful creator myself the only way to befriend like-minded individuals?
- How can I navigate friendships with people I have crushes on?]]>74a92259-30b5-4130-83d3-60fa53be2eceThu, 30 Jul 2015 13:55:00 +0000Jenn and TrinTwo tricky questions this week about finding your friends: - Is becoming a successful creator myself the only way to befriend like-minded individuals? - How can I navigate friendships with people I have crushes on?- Is becoming a successful creator myself the only way to befriend like-minded individuals?
- How can I navigate friendships with people I have crushes on?]]>1040advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-peptalk--4523030461271fe9-ef77-41e8-9a6b-b9fc66722955Fri, 24 Jul 2015 17:02:00 +0000Jenn and TrinA short impassioned rally to get you through your day.209advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/random-rapid-fire-questions--45230290
Mentioned in this episode:

- Jenn's angry blog post about Jurassic World]]>b4fae2bb-1efd-4220-b843-7920b1cf2869Thu, 16 Jul 2015 19:08:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe took the week off to answer questions about the podcast itself, Bioware videogames, Harry Potter, and Chris Pratt's jeans. Mentioned in this episode: - Jenn's angry blog post about Jurassic World
Mentioned in this episode:

- Jenn's angry blog post about Jurassic World]]>1107advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/mo-money-mo-problems--452302782f70916e-840a-413a-94ac-ae83c2555880Thu, 09 Jul 2015 16:10:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMoney in friendships can be hella awkward. I've got a friend who owes me money! How do I get it back? And my friends eat at expensive restaurants all the damn time.1233advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/broworkers--4523023416068dd4-b183-48c3-b967-6995e2c60a67Thu, 02 Jul 2015 15:45:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow to navigate friendships in the workplace, meet new friends, and then keep them after you've left your job.1247advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friends-with-babies--452303027e456574-2be1-4370-b5eb-865f3ed38b49Thu, 25 Jun 2015 20:44:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do I tell my friend who's a new mom that she's working too hard at it? What if I don't want to babysit? How to be good to your friends who have kids.1314advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/thanks-but-no-thanks--452303062052c19f-ac9b-4c7e-b0a4-23f4ce4ceabaThu, 18 Jun 2015 19:57:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow to properly thank your friends for the nice things they do. Jenn & Trin share their controversial view on receiving thank you notes.896advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-outsiders--45230292d224e935-4434-499b-8abc-8255c0fccb0fThu, 11 Jun 2015 18:34:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat to do if you feel like you're on the outside of your friend group, like Neville, and how to want to make friends with "better" people. Includes a lengthy Harry Potter discussion!1334advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/advice-on-giving-advice--45230301448e48d0-a42c-4404-8237-59abb34ce41aThu, 04 Jun 2015 21:57:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow and when to give advice to your friends without being an asshole. For the first time in human history, Jenn & Trin disagree on how to handle this.913advice,self helptruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/unfollowing-friends--45230258d4dbe165-386b-4d68-ad43-ad397eed4fffFri, 29 May 2015 19:20:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat can I do when my friend butts into my Twitter conversations? Should I ask why my friend unfollowed me on Twitter?953friendship,internet,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/rude--452302947e86d52b-d91d-466d-af5a-e3c439b891e6Fri, 22 May 2015 17:55:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend always flakes on me, my friend can't put her phone down when we're together, and other concerns. Common courtesy can sometimes get lost in friendships.1135advice,friendship,mental health,womentruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sexiled-part-ii--452302893c130451-aa29-4b65-8551-8fc3a889e256Thu, 14 May 2015 16:39:00 +0000Jenn and TrinEvery time my friend dates someone new, I'm pushed aside and ignored. What now?734advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/sexiled-part-i--452302980f40f4c0-6d4a-496a-8b9b-8198d5da59afWed, 13 May 2015 17:09:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMy friend is dating someone who is racist/sexist/terrible/annoying. When is it time to intervene? Part I of II.824advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendshipping-with-benefits--4523030360eab6b6-8991-4804-bc74-cdd7f4e96072Fri, 08 May 2015 19:11:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat if I have crushes on all my friends? Do I have to be friends with my ex? And other sexy questions.805advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/ghosts-of-friendships-past--452302912e1f07d1-9780-4f61-9691-dadbfed0f63eFri, 24 Apr 2015 17:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinSeeing old friends will make you feel weird and that's okay.832friendship,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/friendshipping-clicking-with-family--452302653865834d-59c2-4a3f-bcb0-86e0e9b2b6abFri, 17 Apr 2015 22:14:00 +0000Jenn and TrinAubrey & Angela of the Doubleclicks guest-host to answer sibling-related questions.988advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/bffs--45230276667005a9-5a8e-46ac-86b7-4b1b52460af8Fri, 10 Apr 2015 16:18:00 +0000Jenn and TrinThe best friend episode! How can I be a best friend when I live far away? How can I advance a friendship to BFF-status? Wait, what the hell IS a best friend, anyway?748advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/am-i-a-bad-friend--45230163f7b0b095-ef3e-476b-a8e7-eea0b1dfdcbdFri, 03 Apr 2015 20:00:00 +0000Jenn and TrinI mean, maybe. You might be a bad friend. That's certainly a possibility.854friendship,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/jenn-trin-origins--45230295093eeb5a-5a16-44ea-990c-f94ff64652a3Fri, 13 Mar 2015 19:27:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWe rapid-fire-answer a bunch of questions, including, "is it okay to listen to this podcast if I'm a dude?" and "how did you two meet, anyway?"942advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/meeting-internet-friends--4523023946820304-9ad2-4a69-97a7-32307b9ae299Wed, 04 Mar 2015 21:06:00 +0000Jenn and TrinMeeting an Internet friend for the first time will probably be awkward. Here are some tips for taking your friendship into offline mode.947friendshiptruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-m-an-abbi-and-i-need-an-ilana--45230297c115cf0d-e7b5-4812-86f8-1e0702e218caWed, 25 Feb 2015 21:03:00 +0000Jenn and TrinWhat if you feel like you've already met all of the women you could ever be friends with?711friendship,self carefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dare-to-self-care--452302440918fb4d-d55b-4c58-bbde-85e857244110Fri, 20 Feb 2015 21:17:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHow do you balance being a good friend and being good to yourself?1028friendship,self caretruefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/competition--45230285be48a2d6-51bd-4d90-81b2-a8cf58622d4aFri, 13 Feb 2015 21:13:00 +0000Jenn and TrinHer success is not your failure, and there’s room at the top for all of us. So move over, fuckers.711advice,friendship,mental health,womenfalsefull