https://www.spreaker.com/show/cyms-v-e-s-s-e-l
I know my ass is not the only one who sometimes feels like life is beating the shit out of you, and you're trying your best to maneuver and gain control back over the wheel. Hell, you are not alone and shit if we can help one another, why not?

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Check out my website cymsvessel.com for all of the specific details and background story on me. I uploaded my first four episodes so you guys can get a gage on my content, if it's not your thing I can respect that but if it could help someone you know then pass that. Stay Blessed!]]>enSpiritualityCopyright Cym's Vesselhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/282e88b10d58aea9395ea472614a0cb0.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/cyms-v-e-s-s-e-lThu, 02 Mar 2023 06:28:05 +0000Cym's VesselCym's Vesselcymsvessel@gmail.comHey, it's Cym. I have been called to the ministry of paying my life’s important lessons forward, in hopes that it will help someone along their journey of combatting problematic areas within their lives and overcoming adversity. I created a podcast,...
I know my ass is not the only one who sometimes feels like life is beating the shit out of you, and you're trying your best to maneuver and gain control back over the wheel. Hell, you are not alone and shit if we can help one another, why not?

Disclaimer -Explicit Language

Check out my website cymsvessel.com for all of the specific details and background story on me. I uploaded my first four episodes so you guys can get a gage on my content, if it's not your thing I can respect that but if it could help someone you know then pass that. Stay Blessed!]]>yesepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_5d0044563-a558-42f1-86ed-ebf64da657a4Sun, 20 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselThis applies to all social media — you see someone on there that has qualities or a lifestyle that you want (they’re beautiful, fit, living glamorously, etc.), and you feel jealous. Insecurities are about yourself and whether you view yourself as good...1818yes26fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_392f6ceac-cbd5-470e-bbeb-abf5c532725cSun, 20 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel You get jealous of someone who seems to flirt with your partner (justified or not, it doesn’t matter). You feel uncertainty about whether your partner loves you, is attracted to you (or the other person), will leave you, will hurt you. This...1679insecure,jealousyinrelationships,triggeredyes27fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_1ef0a553c-4a46-45af-90d9-7595b0ab825eSun, 20 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel My definition of coming out of your comfort zone is choosing to live your life in the most authentic way, regardless of if you are afraid, uncomfortable, or face judgment from others. Coming out of your comfort zone is daring to be YOUR OWN version...1406beingbrave,comingoutofyourcomfortzone,nofearyes24fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal7c94a816-ec68-4ec3-acc0-cdd2e60672f9Sun, 20 Feb 2022 05:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel We all feel self-doubt about ourselves, and it can come up in many ways. This self-doubt stems from not knowing if we’re good enough to deal with the uncertainty of the world around us. We don’t know if we’re strong enough, smart enough, good-looking...1105insecuritiesyes25fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_62391981c-b6f1-4e04-a244-0fa54aceee6bMon, 22 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselMoney insecurity is intimately tied to the idea of enough.  Shit and enough can be defined in many ways depending on the person and their circumstances.  A large percentage of people have money insecurity, no matter the pay grade because whether you...1879yes23fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_4dbc9920a-644c-455f-bb07-85c4478b778cSun, 14 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselHere are 7 signs of insecurity in a relationship, and some is easily identifiable, and some may be staring you in the fucking face, but you can’t or won’t make the connection so let me help ya ass out. Cym got yall, love yall, and will always root for...1556yes22fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-iii-insecurity-doesnt-have-to-equal_2468c9553-9116-4b7f-801e-e684b8407a5dSun, 07 Nov 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselEpisode 1- Physical appearance which I feel may be the biggest insecurity the average person battles with, so I decided to tackle this one first. Body dysmorphia is more than feeling insecure about your appearance. Most people have things about their...2047yes21fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-9e3a7cda3-f8e3-484a-9363-d6b62592e90dSun, 10 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselPart II- Free your mind question- “If you have the ability to look forward, then be brave enough to heal the obstacles standing in the way of your true self.”-CymQuestion 9-What kind of advice on life would my old self give to my current life? Am I...1539yes19fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-1091e6e6ac-bc73-4fa2-b516-70747e7f13d6Sun, 10 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselPart II- Free your mind 10th Questions- “If you have the ability to look forward, then be brave enough to heal the obstacles standing in the way of your true self.”-CymQuestion 10- If this was my last day, would I be satisfied with my life? What would...1230yes20fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-72f6b372a-8c9d-4209-85c9-343b1eea42fdSun, 26 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 7- What kinds of situations do I avoid? What does this evasion say about my previous experiences or beliefs? What kinds of recurring situations or people do I attract? What kinds of lessons might they have about myself? 1614yes17fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-8e53c9eac-78cb-46d2-84f9-aa31957ead22Sun, 26 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 8- If I didn’t feel shame or fear, what would I do now? What is my biggest dream? What can I do today to move closer to that dream?  1334yes18fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-6e493eedc-7c03-479b-9f9b-28c248f1726dSun, 12 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 6- What have been the most defining moments that have helped shape my life? What is the most courageous thing I’ve done? How did it make me feel?2906yes16fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-5d31a58a2-918d-4009-9424-a09856d1996fSun, 05 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 5- What is my instinct telling me to do? Am I doing more of the things that keep me alive, or more of the things that make me feel alive? What makes me feel alive? 2021yes15fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-48516aed5-fec6-472a-97c3-7825c4e7c0f7Sun, 05 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 4- What are my most important values? How are they reflected in my life and in my daily decisions? What is it that fascinates me so much, that the thought or feeling or it won’t leave me alone? How do I put this feeling into action right now? 1594yes14fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-3eb97edb5-2bed-480a-9ddf-909ed122f945Sun, 22 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselPart II- Free your mind Questions- “If you have the ability to look forward, then be brave enough to heal the obstacles standing in the way of your true self.” -Cym Question 3- How do I show love to myself and to others? How or in what way do I...1648yes13fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-2b0abc7db-be3f-492b-a48b-b13d380bc2f0Sun, 15 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselQuestion 2- What is the worst that could happen if you let go of things no longer serving you? Am I focusing more on what my life looks like than on what it feels like?I do not own the rights to the music in the intro/outro of my podcast.1280askyourself,questions,spiritualawakeningyes12fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/part-ii-free-your-mind-question-1cymsvessel@gmail.com and I can share the upcoming weekly questions, and your experience can be used as the storytime for the week, now don’t be scared thinking I will share things you may not want to be shared because this is your story, so embarrassing you is not and will NEVER BE THE GOAL OR VIBE OF THIS PODCAST.Tune in next Sunday for the 2nd set of questions and get to know the real YOU….THE SHIT IT LIT!]]>7f621e40-714d-42e2-b993-f4b1cba5cbe8Sun, 08 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselWelcome Back yall, I really missed speaking to you and dropping knowledge to help those starting or currently on their spiritual journey. Ya girl had to take a break to recenter, surrender and start anew and there is so much I want to tell yall. But...cymsvessel@gmail.com and I can share the upcoming weekly questions, and your experience can be used as the storytime for the week, now don’t be scared thinking I will share things you may not want to be shared because this is your story, so embarrassing you is not and will NEVER BE THE GOAL OR VIBE OF THIS PODCAST.Tune in next Sunday for the 2nd set of questions and get to know the real YOU….THE SHIT IT LIT!]]>1636yes11fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/episode-107c8050a1-e9b5-47fa-9445-9466bef5817aSun, 11 Jul 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1836yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/episode-9-free-willd9be578b-35b3-4d48-98f4-ce399256c363Sun, 04 Jul 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1732freewill #betterlife #choicesyesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/episode-8-friendships481b4a61-25b1-422f-8373-712c05d10dfeSun, 27 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1850yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/episode-7-trauma-treasure-release02d60e95-ee3c-4aca-8def-25448d5121f4Sun, 20 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1735yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/6th-episode-mask-offd27ece23-c317-4889-ae24-677b43e41186Sun, 13 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1519yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/5th-episode-love-and-true-partnership
You may have participated in the toxic relationship, stayed well after that relationship was dead, you lost yourself and now you are going through the motions, you excused behavior that you knew in your gut and your heart did not align with the relationship you sought out. Do not trip, my ass was on this list until I bossed up and put an end to it.

And when I say end to it, I am not referring to the relationship itself. I am referring to that unhealed part of my heart that allowed it to happen in the first place. Remember the boundaries, and those necessary amendments/upgrades you stop to create or need to create; at the time of whatever crossroad, you were facing? That was the time for you to review your past behavior or acceptance of your portion, actions, and when you simply did not trust yourself enough to love yourself.
You need to forgive that person, no matter how good, bad, or indifferent that relationship may have been, but more importantly forgive your fucking self for being human because you had to go through it to grow, learn and clean up your shit for your true soul mate.


Do not sleep on this part of your journey, take this shit seriously so when your man or woman is done cooking you are at a place to receive. I can see an ex in person or a photo and not feel A DAMN THING, meaning no hate in my heart, I do not need to stalk their page and see their new partner because it's none of my business, and simply a non fucking factor. If they appear to be happy, I am happy for them and wish them well. Some of you need to do some serious healing and heart inventory so you can purge those old feelings no longer serving you and find the lesson in it so you can overcome it.

If we are going to have a forever kind of love then I am expecting a forever kind of behavior, not no temporary kind of shit. Buying me extravagant gifts, giving me money in cards, that is cute but that will not get you past my guards, the surface of my heart, or a true soul tie with my ass.

My GF taught me patience. Now like I said before, I really struggled with patience, and it was always in my prayers to the higher-ups and sure enough, they answered my prayers in the form of a person lol. In no fucking shape or form was this easy because she worked every damn nerve in my body while we were trying to find our footing in our relationship.

In any relationship, there will be a partner with fewer life experiences than the other, and you will take turns teaching each other or offer suggestions and direction on what you manage to learn along the way. Whether you are the less experienced one of the more experienced9 ones, you both will have to learn to trust the other’s suggestions and not take advantage of each other's vulnerability. The vulnerability part has a huger responsibility on the partner with the most experienced in the relationship or in that particular area because you especially CANNOT take advantage of your partner or the situation, which will expose an uncomfortable and vulnerable side of them.
In a relationship, you and your partner will go through your own individual shit, but what you go through individually affects the other one so communication is key...
I live by the three C’s- Communication, Compromise, and Consistency, in that exact order.]]>3138b6e8-8207-4e9f-b9ca-75b77fb4d879Sun, 06 Jun 2021 04:00:00 +0000Cym's VesselRule #1-Be your own relationship goals, if you're single and waiting on the man or woman God/Universe or whoever is cooking up for you; it’s an absolute fucking MUST you take a look at your past relationships, people get shit fucked up thinking that...
You may have participated in the toxic relationship, stayed well after that relationship was dead, you lost yourself and now you are going through the motions, you excused behavior that you knew in your gut and your heart did not align with the relationship you sought out. Do not trip, my ass was on this list until I bossed up and put an end to it.

And when I say end to it, I am not referring to the relationship itself. I am referring to that unhealed part of my heart that allowed it to happen in the first place. Remember the boundaries, and those necessary amendments/upgrades you stop to create or need to create; at the time of whatever crossroad, you were facing? That was the time for you to review your past behavior or acceptance of your portion, actions, and when you simply did not trust yourself enough to love yourself.
You need to forgive that person, no matter how good, bad, or indifferent that relationship may have been, but more importantly forgive your fucking self for being human because you had to go through it to grow, learn and clean up your shit for your true soul mate.


Do not sleep on this part of your journey, take this shit seriously so when your man or woman is done cooking you are at a place to receive. I can see an ex in person or a photo and not feel A DAMN THING, meaning no hate in my heart, I do not need to stalk their page and see their new partner because it's none of my business, and simply a non fucking factor. If they appear to be happy, I am happy for them and wish them well. Some of you need to do some serious healing and heart inventory so you can purge those old feelings no longer serving you and find the lesson in it so you can overcome it.

If we are going to have a forever kind of love then I am expecting a forever kind of behavior, not no temporary kind of shit. Buying me extravagant gifts, giving me money in cards, that is cute but that will not get you past my guards, the surface of my heart, or a true soul tie with my ass.

My GF taught me patience. Now like I said before, I really struggled with patience, and it was always in my prayers to the higher-ups and sure enough, they answered my prayers in the form of a person lol. In no fucking shape or form was this easy because she worked every damn nerve in my body while we were trying to find our footing in our relationship.

In any relationship, there will be a partner with fewer life experiences than the other, and you will take turns teaching each other or offer suggestions and direction on what you manage to learn along the way. Whether you are the less experienced one of the more experienced9 ones, you both will have to learn to trust the other’s suggestions and not take advantage of each other's vulnerability. The vulnerability part has a huger responsibility on the partner with the most experienced in the relationship or in that particular area because you especially CANNOT take advantage of your partner or the situation, which will expose an uncomfortable and vulnerable side of them.
In a relationship, you and your partner will go through your own individual shit, but what you go through individually affects the other one so communication is key...
I live by the three C’s- Communication, Compromise, and Consistency, in that exact order.]]>1463yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/4th-episode-minding-your-business57a05037-76c8-427b-8ad3-b956d8fd2f90Sat, 01 May 2021 15:21:14 +0000Cym's Vessel1709focus on you,mind your business,sharing energyyesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/2nd-episode-boundaries968b2220-42cc-420c-8cef-12898be1edcaSat, 01 May 2021 15:14:39 +0000Cym's Vessel2236boundaries,elevation,energy vampires,life rulesyesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/1st-episode-my-ministrybd22b6f0-882b-4c41-90ba-064d5c86a862Sat, 01 May 2021 15:13:00 +0000Cym's Vessel1942yesfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/14446795/3rd-episode-self-care315f7c97-c648-4d52-9b0c-456644a6e236Sat, 01 May 2021 15:11:15 +0000Cym's Vessel2001love on yourself,putting you first,self careyesfull