https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-frantic-romantic-attachment-series--4697914enRelationshipsCopyright Dejaye Botkinhttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/486419cf05661815bd938f2822aa02b1.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-frantic-romantic-attachment-series--4697914Tue, 19 Aug 2025 20:06:14 +0000Dejaye BotkinDejaye Botkindejayebotkin@icloud.comThis podcast series will benefit listeners who are struggling with interpersonal relationship challenges due to attachment related personality styles such as codependency or commitment-phobia - as well struggles with infidelity, vulnerability, and trust.falseepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/interview-with-a-35-year-old-male-relationship-challenges-and-insights--67444291
From navigating attachment wounds to uncovering patterns that repeat in adulthood, his story shines a light on what so many of us face but rarely discuss. Whether you’re looking for hope, healing, or a deeper understanding of how attachment affects us all, this is an interview you won’t want to miss.

Tune in to The Frantic Romantic — available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. Because understanding where we come from is the first step to building the relationships we deserve.

@extinguishfearcoaching@the_franticromantic
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/67444291Tue, 19 Aug 2025 20:05:20 +0000Dejaye BotkinAre you curious about how our earliest experiences shape the way we love, connect, and sometimes struggle in relationships? This week on The Frantic Romantic, we sit down with a 35-year-old guest who opens up with raw honesty about his journey through...
From navigating attachment wounds to uncovering patterns that repeat in adulthood, his story shines a light on what so many of us face but rarely discuss. Whether you’re looking for hope, healing, or a deeper understanding of how attachment affects us all, this is an interview you won’t want to miss.

Tune in to The Frantic Romantic — available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. Because understanding where we come from is the first step to building the relationships we deserve.

@extinguishfearcoaching@the_franticromantic
]]>1773falsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.comNew to Relationship Coaching or Attachment Styles? Start with this podcast first!  
Join Dejaye Botkin, a nationwide expert in attachment style life coaching, as she breaks down the foundations of how we connect with others. Whether it’s in your personal life or professional relationships, understanding your attachment style is key to creating healthier, more fulfilling connections. In this episode, you’ll discover what attachment styles are and how they influence your behavior. You’ll also learn how to identify your attachment style and reframe the thoughts that may be holding back your personal and professional relationships—empowering you to create deeper, more meaningful connections. Ready to transform your relationships? Connect with Dejaye Botkin for personalized support in understanding your attachment style and uncovering the underlying needs that drive your connections.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/66331034Thu, 29 May 2025 19:16:26 +0000Dejaye BotkinNew to Relationship Coaching or Attachment Styles? Start with this podcast first!   Join Dejaye Botkin, a nationwide expert in attachment style life coaching, as she breaks down the foundations of how we connect with others. Whether it’s in your...New to Relationship Coaching or Attachment Styles? Start with this podcast first!  
Join Dejaye Botkin, a nationwide expert in attachment style life coaching, as she breaks down the foundations of how we connect with others. Whether it’s in your personal life or professional relationships, understanding your attachment style is key to creating healthier, more fulfilling connections. In this episode, you’ll discover what attachment styles are and how they influence your behavior. You’ll also learn how to identify your attachment style and reframe the thoughts that may be holding back your personal and professional relationships—empowering you to create deeper, more meaningful connections. Ready to transform your relationships? Connect with Dejaye Botkin for personalized support in understanding your attachment style and uncovering the underlying needs that drive your connections.]]>1871attachment,attachmentstyle,dejayebotkin,dejayebotkinpodcast,thefranticromanticfalsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.com
In this episode, we're examining the complex friendship between Jaclyn, Kate, and Laurie — three women bound by a shared past, but pulled apart by conflicting personalities and values. 

If you’ve ever found yourself unsure of where you stand in a friendship — too close, too distant, or caught somewhere in between — this episode is for you.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65559771Sun, 13 Apr 2025 19:48:26 +0000Dejaye BotkinWelcome back to The White Lotus Character Assessment, Part II — the podcast where we dive deeper into the attachment styles of characters from Season 3 of HBO’s hit series. In this episode, we're examining the complex friendship between Jaclyn, Kate,...
In this episode, we're examining the complex friendship between Jaclyn, Kate, and Laurie — three women bound by a shared past, but pulled apart by conflicting personalities and values. 

If you’ve ever found yourself unsure of where you stand in a friendship — too close, too distant, or caught somewhere in between — this episode is for you.]]>1318anxiousattachment,attachmentstylepodcast,attachmentstyles,avoidantattachment,communicationbreakdown,complicatedrelationships,dejayebotkin,disorganizedattachment,divorcepodcast,hbo,innerchild,interpersonalrelationships,loveconnection,relationshipchallenges,relationshippodcast,relationships,romancepodcast,secureattachment,thewhitelotus,whitelotusfalsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.com
 ✨ Coming up in Part II: We’ll dive deep into the dynamic trio — Kate, Jaclyn, and Laurie — exploring their unique attachment styles and imagining how those emotional patterns might shape their choices if these characters leapt off the screen and into real life.
]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65531520Thu, 10 Apr 2025 22:13:34 +0000Dejaye BotkinPart I of our exclusive two-part series dives into the complex characters of Season 3 of The White Lotus — an HBO series filmed against the stunning backdrop of Thailand. In this episode, Dejaye unpacks the attachment styles of key characters:...
 ✨ Coming up in Part II: We’ll dive deep into the dynamic trio — Kate, Jaclyn, and Laurie — exploring their unique attachment styles and imagining how those emotional patterns might shape their choices if these characters leapt off the screen and into real life.
]]>561anxiousattachment,attachmentchallenges,attachmentpodcast,attachmentstyles,attachmenttheory,avoidantattachment,codependency,communication,dejayebotkin,divorce,extinguishfear,hbo,insecureattachment,loveconnection,podcast,relationships,resentments,romance,thefranticromantic,thewhitelotusfalsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.comhttps://api.spreaker.com/episode/65261384Mon, 31 Mar 2025 21:30:34 +0000Dejaye BotkinAre you ready for a story filled with raw emotions and relatable reflections? This week, Dejaye interviews a listener who opens up about the emotional detachment he felt from his parents—and how it shaped his adult relationships. From struggling with...3034anxiousattached,attachment,attachmentstyle,avoidantattached,dating,dejayebotkin,divorce,earlychildhood,heartbreak,love,marriage,parenting,podcast,podcastinterview,relationshiprecovery,relationships,romance,secureattachment,sex,thefranticromanticfalsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.com
Do you ever wonder about why people cheat? What makes someone risk it all for a secret romance? Are affairs always about sex, or is there something deeper? Have you been cheated on and blamed yourself for not being 'enough?' Or are you a chronic cheater and wonder if there is something wrong with you? 

This podcast dives into the messy, emotional, and sometimes taboo world of infidelity. We break down the psychology behind why people stray. No judgment—just raw, honest conversations about love, betrayal, and what happens next.

Whether you’ve been cheated on, done the cheating, or are just fascinated by human relationships, this is the podcast for you.

🔊 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts! #Cheating #Infidelity #affairs]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65143261Wed, 26 Mar 2025 23:13:11 +0000Dejaye Botkin🎙️ New Podcast Alert: Cheating Hearts 💔 Do you ever wonder about why people cheat? What makes someone risk it all for a secret romance? Are affairs always about sex, or is there something deeper? Have you been cheated on and blamed yourself for not...
Do you ever wonder about why people cheat? What makes someone risk it all for a secret romance? Are affairs always about sex, or is there something deeper? Have you been cheated on and blamed yourself for not being 'enough?' Or are you a chronic cheater and wonder if there is something wrong with you? 

This podcast dives into the messy, emotional, and sometimes taboo world of infidelity. We break down the psychology behind why people stray. No judgment—just raw, honest conversations about love, betrayal, and what happens next.

Whether you’ve been cheated on, done the cheating, or are just fascinated by human relationships, this is the podcast for you.

🔊 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts! #Cheating #Infidelity #affairs]]>1111affairs,breakingup,cheating,infidelity,relationshipsfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-is-the-frantic-romantic-podcast--65142097
What You’ll Get:
✅ Eye-opening discussions on attachment styles
✅ Practical tools for healthier relationships
✅ Expert advice & real-life stories

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform! 🎧]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/65142097Wed, 26 Mar 2025 22:04:18 +0000Dejaye BotkinAre you struggling with relationship patterns that leave you feeling stuck? Tune into my podcast series, where we dive deep into attachment challenges, emotional patterns, and the psychology behind our connections. Whether you're dealing with anxious...
What You’ll Get:
✅ Eye-opening discussions on attachment styles
✅ Practical tools for healthier relationships
✅ Expert advice & real-life stories

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform! 🎧]]>39falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/dejaye-interviews-a-guest-struggling-with-attachment-challenges--50423960https://api.spreaker.com/episode/50423960Thu, 30 Jun 2022 19:11:42 +0000Dejaye BotkinDejaye is currently looking for guests willing to discuss their attachment styles on her podcast. I hope you enjoy this interview with our first guest. Please leave your feedback. Thank you.4092falsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.comhttps://api.spreaker.com/episode/45482075Mon, 28 Jun 2021 18:19:36 +0000Dejaye BotkinGrief and loss come in all forms. Death, a breakup, the loss of a pet, a best friend, a home, or a job. We grieve our health when we become sick or our innocence when we are violated. This podcast discusses different forms of grief and offers tips on...1933attachment,breakup,crisis,death,disaster,divorce,grief,hum,humanbeings,jobloss,loss,petdeath,sexualabusefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/attachment-related-suicide--44066277https://api.spreaker.com/episode/44066277Fri, 26 Mar 2021 18:29:35 +0000Dejaye BotkinThis podcast discussion relates to the connection between isolation and suicide. Many people who attempt or complete suicide have experienced a recent breakup, job loss, or the loss of a significant relationship. Without a secure base of attachment...967arttachmement,belonging,isolation,suicidefalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/marilyn-monroe-s-attachment-disorder--43757313https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43757313Fri, 05 Mar 2021 19:47:29 +0000Dejaye BotkinIf you want to learn more about attachment disorders, study Norma Jeane, a.k.a Marilyn Monroe. As a child, she was passed around among various foster homes because her mother was schizophrenic and she never knew her father. Although her celebrity...434falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-attachment-disorders-lead-to-radicalization--43351273https://vocal.media/stories/radicalized-by-dejaye-botkin. Be sure to read the blog article on the Vocal Media Website or DejayeBotkin.org to learn how disenfranchised, lone-wolf individuals seeking belonging- may become easily radicalized once they feel attached to a fringe community.]]>https://api.spreaker.com/episode/43351273Mon, 08 Feb 2021 17:57:32 +0000Dejaye BotkinThis podcast is a summary of the blog article I wrote for Vocal Media: https://vocal.media/stories/radicalized-by-dejaye-botkin. Be sure to read the blog article on the Vocal Media Website or DejayeBotkin.org to learn how disenfranchised, lone-wolf...https://vocal.media/stories/radicalized-by-dejaye-botkin. Be sure to read the blog article on the Vocal Media Website or DejayeBotkin.org to learn how disenfranchised, lone-wolf individuals seeking belonging- may become easily radicalized once they feel attached to a fringe community.]]>888attachment,conspiracy,disenfranchised,insurrection,jan6,lone-wolf,maga,radicalizedfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/understanding-trauma-patterns--42505442https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42505442Tue, 15 Dec 2020 19:31:42 +0000Dejaye BotkinThis podcast will teach you how to avoid repeating dysfunctional patterns of coping with stressful events.1071falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/vulnerability--42505002https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42505002Tue, 15 Dec 2020 18:55:25 +0000Dejaye BotkinThe challenges and rewards of being vulnerable969falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/attachment-styles-secure-anxious-avoidant-dismissive-avoidant-fearful--42404660https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42404660Wed, 09 Dec 2020 21:04:16 +0000Dejaye Botkin445falsefullhttp://dejayebotkin.comhttps://api.spreaker.com/episode/42301879Thu, 03 Dec 2020 20:21:27 +0000Dejaye BotkinIn this week’s episode, I’m diving deep into something I've poured my heart and experience into: a personalized workbook I created, designed to help you understand, unpack, and transform your attachment patterns—one intentional step at a time. Tune-in...716attachment,attachmentchallenges,attachmentpodcast,attachmentstyles,avoidantattachment,codependency,dejayebotkin,extinguishfear,healingjourney,healingpodcast,loveaddiction,personalcoaching,relationshipchallenges,relationshipcoaching,selfhelp,selfhelppodcast,selfhelpworkbook,thefranticromantic,trauma,whatisanattachmentdisorderfalsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-two-complicated-relationships--42301552https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42301552Thu, 03 Dec 2020 19:57:03 +0000Dejaye Botkin982falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/early-childhood-attachment--42300280https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42300280Thu, 03 Dec 2020 18:19:53 +0000Dejaye Botkin481falsefullhttps://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-frantic-romantic-attachment-series-introduction--42300055https://api.spreaker.com/episode/42300055Thu, 03 Dec 2020 18:06:15 +0000Dejaye BotkinThe podcast will help listeners understand their difficulties with relationships from an attachment style perspective. I will help listeners make necessary changes for reducing frantic reactions to love.394falsefull