https://www.spreaker.com/show/love-relationships-with-debra-filetaenChristianityCopyright Serulohttps://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b2f153d965d87b1f5eb3e1c0ee9a9b45.jpghttps://www.spreaker.com/show/love-relationships-with-debra-filetaThu, 02 Mar 2023 03:35:13 +0000SeruloSerulo4heartmusic@gmail.comThe hotline style podcast where we talk about love and relationships for every age and stage.cleanepisodichttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/dont-take-it-out-on-me-couples-therapy-whttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23972Tue, 28 Feb 2023 08:20:51 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey Today’s on-air couples therapy session is with Abigail and Daniel, a ...3303clean9224fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/childhood-wounds-couples-therapy-with-nihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23969Tue, 21 Feb 2023 08:40:13 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey Today we’re digging into part two and childhood wounds, with our ...2936clean9223fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/the-disconnected-marriage-couples-theraphttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23963Tue, 14 Feb 2023 06:49:18 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey I want to introduce you to the second couple in our ...3645clean9222fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/physical-health-eat-sleep-move-repeathttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23681Tue, 31 Jan 2023 06:07:49 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey We are on the fifth of a five-week series about CHECKING ...1347clean9220fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/mental-health-its-not-a-character-issue-https://truelovedates.com/?p=23544Tue, 24 Jan 2023 07:25:12 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey I think it’s so important that we take the time to ...1907clean9219fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/spiritual-health-taking-our-hurts-out-onhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23481Tue, 17 Jan 2023 09:23:00 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey I think it’s so important that we take the time to ...1849clean9218fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/emotional-health-dont-assume-you-have-ithttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23470Tue, 10 Jan 2023 09:18:00 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey I think it’s so important that we take the time to ...2527clean9217fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/youre-not-as-healthy-as-you-think-you-arhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23451Tue, 03 Jan 2023 16:25:17 +0000SeruloPlease click HERE to fill out our listener survey It’s the beginning of a New Year! And at the start ...2115clean9216fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/top-10-relationship-killers-small-thingshttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23394Tue, 20 Dec 2022 04:31:59 +0000SeruloThese 10 relationships killers may seem small, but they’re deadly (if you ignore them). These things can slowly creep in ...1897clean8214fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/junk-food-relationships-convenient-but-nhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23380Tue, 13 Dec 2022 05:24:35 +0000SeruloWe’re talking junk food relationships. Relationships that are easy to get, but end up hurting you more than helping you. ...2218clean8213fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/questions-youve-always-wanted-to-ask-thehttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23347Tue, 06 Dec 2022 07:24:40 +0000SeruloDo you have questions you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite sex? When it comes to dating in this generation, ...3651clean8212fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/where-are-the-singles-places-to-meet-chrhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23323Tue, 29 Nov 2022 03:23:00 +0000SeruloWhere on earth can you meet Christian singles these days?  Today we talk about great places — and not so ...2613clean8211fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/whats-your-dating-mentality-what-you-thihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23302Tue, 22 Nov 2022 03:55:00 +0000SeruloWhat is your dating mentality? Because what you think effects how you date. Because your mentality is so important when ...2730clean8210fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/breaking-free-from-pornhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23286Tue, 15 Nov 2022 06:21:41 +0000SeruloQ: I have been caught in a cycle of using porn on again off again for most of my life. ...1959clean8209fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/signs-you-need-to-deal-with-your-traumahttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23271Tue, 08 Nov 2022 04:47:00 +0000SeruloQ: I have a history of trauma from my past, but I never realized how much I do today stems ...2095clean8208fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/how-do-i-let-go-of-what-ifs-from-past-rehttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23187Tue, 25 Oct 2022 05:58:22 +0000SeruloQ: How do I let go of “what if’s” from my past relationships so I can move forward into future ...1904clean8206fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/relationship-blind-spots-how-to-see-whathttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23144Tue, 18 Oct 2022 03:56:00 +0000SeruloQ: We’re thinking about getting married and want to make sure our relationship is as healthy as it can be. ...1568clean8205fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/a-couple-in-crisishttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23036Tue, 11 Oct 2022 03:45:00 +0000SeruloQ: Right now our marriage feels hopeless. What encouragement would you give to a couple in Crisis? — Andy from ...2301clean8204fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/how-do-i-get-over-rejectionhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=23010Tue, 04 Oct 2022 06:12:15 +0000SeruloQ: How do I get over rejection and lacking the confidence to try again? — Joey from Texas We’re taking ...1845clean8203fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/1-most-downloaded-dont-always-believe-yohttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22924Tue, 27 Sep 2022 05:10:30 +0000SeruloWe’re spending the last few reviewing our TOP 5 MOST DOWNLOADED episodes of the past year. And this one came ...2241clean8202fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/2-most-downloaded-couples-therapy-with-jhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22868Tue, 20 Sep 2022 03:55:00 +0000SeruloEmotional health. What is it, and how do you know if you’re emotionally healthy? We’re spending the next few weeks ...4246clean8201fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/3-most-downloaded-sex-tips-and-tricks-fohttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22818Tue, 13 Sep 2022 02:42:00 +0000SeruloQ: My wife and I are newlyweds, and right now sex is a little bit of a struggle and seems ...2132clean8200fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/4-most-downloaded-just-not-that-into-youhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22813Tue, 06 Sep 2022 06:33:46 +0000SeruloQ: How do you know if someone is as interested in you as you are in them? Or what if ...1854clean8199fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/5-most-downloaded-compatibility-how-to-khttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22794Tue, 30 Aug 2022 03:35:00 +0000SeruloQ: How do you know if you’re compatible with someone? We’re spending the next few weeks reviewing our TOP 5 ...1092clean8198fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/body-image-learning-to-love-ithttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22683Tue, 23 Aug 2022 03:08:00 +0000SeruloQ: With all the pressure our culture puts on body image, being “Instagram ready” and picture perfect at all times, ...2554clean8197fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/physical-health-how-to-keep-your-body-sthttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22615Tue, 16 Aug 2022 05:51:20 +0000SeruloQ: How can we take better care of our physical health and in what ways does that impact our mental ...3116clean8196fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/christians-anxiety-and-ocd-behaviorshttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22501Tue, 02 Aug 2022 05:49:13 +0000SeruloQ: I’ve never struggled with anxiety before the past few years…when I googled it, I realized I might even have ...3447clean8194fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/dealing-with-your-pasthttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22430Tue, 26 Jul 2022 05:28:14 +0000SeruloHow do you deal with your past? Welcome back to the Love & Relationship Podcast, a hotline style show where ...2520clean8193fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/stop-freaking-out-about-datinghttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22384Tue, 19 Jul 2022 02:20:00 +0000SeruloWelcome back to the Love & Relationship Podcast, a hotline style show where we tackle all your questions about love, ...2512clean8192fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/avoiding-burnout-w-co-host-christy-wrighhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22355Tue, 12 Jul 2022 03:17:00 +0000SeruloWelcome back to the Love & Relationship Podcast, a hotline style show where we tackle all your questions about love, ...2074clean8191fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/afraid-to-feel-on-air-counseling-with-mihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=22299Tue, 28 Jun 2022 02:15:37 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders 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2022 06:39:41 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...2254clean7185fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/from-national-tv-to-a-psychiatric-hospithttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21741Tue, 24 May 2022 07:27:52 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...3348clean7184fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/letting-myself-feel-the-pain-on-air-counhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21689Tue, 17 May 2022 05:02:33 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...2985clean7183fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/emotional-sprains-on-air-counseling-withhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21664Tue, 10 May 2022 06:25:32 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders 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2022 06:03:51 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...4561clean7178fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/childhood-wounds-on-air-counseling-sessihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21284Tue, 05 Apr 2022 03:28:00 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...3721clean7177fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/suicide-in-the-church-on-air-counseling-https://truelovedates.com/?p=21280Tue, 29 Mar 2022 03:35:00 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...3803clean7176fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/anxiety-overload-on-air-counseling-sessihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21150Tue, 15 Mar 2022 05:09:33 +0000SeruloOver the next few weeks I’ll be having raw, open, and honest conversations with some of the top Christian leaders ...4437clean7174fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/culture-clash-couples-therapy-with-carlohttps://truelovedates.com/?p=21050Tue, 08 Mar 2022 06:04:40 +0000SeruloThis week we’re wrapping up a series we started in February called Couples Therapy! I’ve invited four courageous couples to ...4022clean7173fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/triggers-are-everywhere-couples-therapy-https://truelovedates.com/?p=20996Tue, 01 Mar 2022 07:26:03 +0000SeruloWe’re in the middle a series through the month of February called Couples Therapy! I’ve invited four courageous couples to ...3520clean7172fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/the-emotional-affairs-couples-therapy-wihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=20928Tue, 22 Feb 2022 07:45:13 +0000SeruloWe’re in the middle a series through the month of February called Couples Therapy! I’ve invited four courageous couples to ...3326clean7171fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/couples-therapy-with-ben-and-kelsey-infihttps://truelovedates.com/?p=20830Tue, 15 Feb 2022 06:49:54 +0000SeruloWe’re in the middle a four part series through the month of February called Couples Therapy! I’ve invited four courageous ...4085clean7170fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/body-burnout-and-boundaries-physical-heahttps://truelovedates.com/?p=20008Tue, 25 Jan 2022 04:59:00 +0000SeruloAre you physically healthy? Before you quickly answer, let me remind you that Physical health is not what you think. ...1767clean7167fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/hows-your-spiritual-health-its-not-what-https://truelovedates.com/?p=19946Tue, 18 Jan 2022 03:08:53 +0000SeruloAre you spiritually healthy? Before you quickly answer, let me remind you that Spiritual health is not what you think. ...2010clean7166fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/thought-change-life-change-mental-healthhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19702Tue, 11 Jan 2022 02:47:00 +0000SeruloMental health involves three areas: Your thought life, your past experiences, your chemical makeup. In my book Are You Really ...1449clean7165fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/secrets-to-good-communication-the-art-ofhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19610Tue, 21 Dec 2021 02:04:42 +0000SeruloGood communication isn’t something you’re born with. It’s not even a gender thing. It’s something you have to learn (CLICK ...2076clean7162fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/am-i-toxic-what-if-im-the-unhealthy-one-https://truelovedates.com/?p=19468Tue, 14 Dec 2021 05:06:26 +0000SeruloAm I toxic? What if I’m the toxic one in the relationship? Because I think the problem is me. That ...1281clean7161fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/compatibility-how-to-know-if-youre-a-goohttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19445Tue, 07 Dec 2021 06:34:31 +0000SeruloCompatibility is key to a healthy relationship. Just because you’re a Christian, and just because someone else is a Christian ...1001clean7160fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/oversharing-in-relationships-10-things-nhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19379Tue, 30 Nov 2021 04:45:00 +0000SeruloHave you ever found yourself oversharing in a relationship? You know what I mean, right? I’m talking about those conversations ...2266clean7159fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/trust-issues-is-the-problem-you-or-your-https://truelovedates.com/?p=19315Tue, 23 Nov 2021 05:12:38 +0000SeruloQ: How do you deal with trust issues, when they seem to come up again and again? In today’s show, ...1844clean7158fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/single-in-your-30s-how-to-hold-on-to-hophttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19272Tue, 16 Nov 2021 05:57:08 +0000Serulo“I never imagined I’d be single in my 30’s”… Today’s caller is looking for some encouragement and trying to assess ...1921clean7157fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/helping-your-kids-establish-a-healthy-idhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19243Tue, 09 Nov 2021 07:26:38 +0000SeruloQ: Hey Debra, you always say that what you believe about yourself determines the kind of relationships you believe you ...1907clean7156fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/considering-marriage-majors-and-minors-whttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19184Tue, 02 Nov 2021 03:58:54 +0000SeruloQ: What is your best advice for a couple considering marriage? Marriage is a big decision. I think we can ...2734clean7155fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/moving-forward-after-purity-culturehttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19048Tue, 26 Oct 2021 02:33:00 +0000SeruloQ: How can singles restore a healthy view of sex when they’ve been hurt by purity culture? Friends – we’re ...2181clean7154fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/oral-sex-when-one-of-you-doesnt-like-ithttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19013Tue, 19 Oct 2021 05:15:56 +0000SeruloQ: What do you do when one of you wants oral sex, but the other doesn’t like it? Friends – ...1517clean7153fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/how-do-i-help-my-wife-get-turned-onhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=19011Tue, 12 Oct 2021 04:18:57 +0000SeruloQ: How do I help my wife get turned on? Friends – we’re talking about sex! And the sex series ...1814clean7152fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/keeping-sex-fun-when-youre-trying-to-gethttps://truelovedates.com/?p=18974Tue, 28 Sep 2021 03:17:00 +0000SeruloQ: Any advice to keeping sex fun when you’re trying to get pregnant? Friends – we’re talking about sex! And ...1391clean7150fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/sex-tips-tricks-for-newlyweds-or-not-so-https://truelovedates.com/?p=18929Tue, 14 Sep 2021 05:40:13 +0000SeruloToday we’re talking about sex tips and tricks for Newlyweds (and not so newly weds) Q: My wife and I ...2144clean7148fullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/2-most-downloaded-am-i-too-picky-with-behttps://truelovedates.com/?p=18786Tue, 10 Aug 2021 04:04:10 +0000SeruloAm I too picky? Today’s caller is wondering if she’s too picky, or if she just has high standards? How ...2268cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/loving-after-hurthttps://truelovedates.com/?p=17373Tue, 02 Mar 2021 08:00:26 +0000SeruloQ: Loving after hurt…is it even possible? How do you love again after you’ve been really hurt? Today’s caller wants ...2462cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/sharing-about-your-past-how-much-is-too-https://truelovedates.com/?p=17180Tue, 23 Feb 2021 05:04:37 +0000SeruloWhen it comes to sharing about your past relationships…how much is too much? Today’s question comes from Kristen from Indiana, ...639cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/sexting-sex-appeal-and-the-hook-up-cultuhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16987Tue, 16 Feb 2021 07:49:48 +0000SeruloSexting, Sex Appeal, and The hook up culture. In a culture where women are praised for flaunting their bodies — ...2896cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/3-ways-to-avoid-valentines-disappointmenhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16965Fri, 12 Feb 2021 04:31:09 +0000SeruloHow do you avoid Valentines Day Disappointment? You know, that terrible let down feeling when the day just doesn’t go ...1214cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/long-distance-relationships-how-much-is-https://truelovedates.com/?p=16941Tue, 09 Feb 2021 05:56:38 +0000SeruloToday’s caller is asking a question about long distance relationships. She’s trying to get to know her boyfriend, who lives ...902cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/the-toxic-relationship-with-chrystal-evahttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16839Tue, 02 Feb 2021 07:29:42 +0000SeruloHow do you recognize a toxic relationship? What do you do if you find yourself in one? What does it ...3400cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/respectful-ways-to-turn-someone-downhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16633Tue, 26 Jan 2021 02:04:00 +0000SeruloHow do you turn someone down in a respectful way?  Today’s listener wants to know how to say “no thanks, ...867cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/long-distance-red-flagshttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16629Tue, 19 Jan 2021 03:10:33 +0000SeruloLong distance relationships can be hard to navigate because you don’t always get an up close look at the relationship. ...799cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/spiritual-intimacy-in-dating-how-much-ishttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16623Tue, 12 Jan 2021 07:18:51 +0000SeruloSpiritual intimacy in a dating relationship is something that often gets overlooked.  We set boundaries with regard to our physical ...755cleanfullhttps://www.spreaker.com/user/13536379/getting-healthy-standing-alone-with-michhttps://truelovedates.com/?p=16592Tue, 05 Jan 2021 07:36:37 +0000SeruloHealthy people = healthy relationships. And getting healthy is what today’s episode is all about. If you’ve been following TrueLoveDates.com, ...2774cleanfull